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I don’t think this user was trying to shame you. And ironically, you learning the definition of retroactive jealousy would be the opposite of thought-terminating Why would I waste time thinking about a man’s previous partners? I’ll feel like shit if I deem any of them “prettier” than me, more successful, etc.. so while I know a man I’m seeing has ex’s, I’m not gonna ask about, talk about, or even look them up unless a) she or the breakup is still relevant to his life for some reason or b) he’s s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 02:47 PM
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Love to hear it :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 04:33 PM
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Perfect example of different people having different preferences! I hope you find/found what you’re looking for and I wish you all the happiness. At the same time, a man treating me the way you want to be treated would have me personally out the door so fast lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 02:59 PM
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Man u are the only one here equating fabric to actions
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 02:47 PM
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Hilarious how you could make the opposite argument by reversing the genders in this comment…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 09:55 PM
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I guarantee you that those things happen every day, in every area. Luckily, you’re right that the chance of a guy coming up to assault and rape a random woman isn’t high in some areas, but even in those areas (I’m from one of them), following, stalking, and threatening women are real things that happen every single day
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 07:22 PM
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and thanks to men doing everything for them lol what do you mean by this? Do you really believe all women literally sit back and have men to do everything for them? Dawg we gotta work and pay bills too. We gotta take care of family, maintenance, and responsibilities too. Your comment genuinely makes it sound like you have no grasp of reality in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 07:19 PM
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Last year, I was walking through Chicago with two friends. We’re all female. We were heading to a well known bar in a relatively nice area. On the way there, around 20 men riding bikes took over both sides of the street of the block we were walking on. They catcalled, blocked our path, and made threats. They didn’t actually touch us, and it seemed like they were trying to scare us for fun. It’s men who have convinced us to be afraid of men. But maybe we should just learn to regulate our emotions…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 07:14 PM
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Then post in r/adhd
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:30 AM
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Sounds like the biological determinism fallacy might be causing a self fulfilling prophecy in some cases— if this is a widespread mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 03:08 PM
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Wait do you mean this unironically? 😂 I don’t mean to sound conceited, but usually when people don’t like me, it’s due to 1) jealousy or 2) the boundaries I’ve set that keep me safe & healthy. Should I take some accountability and shrink myself into a likable woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 02:56 PM
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Vice versa?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 01:53 PM
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Don’t worry, according to this guy, woman don’t even do that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 05:39 PM
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Ahhhh so it was solely men who built society (the problem). Guess yall have a lot to answer for then…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 04:58 PM
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As a woman living an alternative lifestyle, I prefer men who are aligned in that aspect. It’s almost a requirement. I move around too much to have a meaningful relationship with someone who doesn’t do the same
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 01:10 PM
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I mean she’s just following the post’s logic
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:52 AM
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Nah dawg sometimes people just be fuckin
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:49 AM
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Imo, men can have whatever preferences they want as long as they don’t make it my problem. If they decide to take an Andrew Tate approach to dating, and that means I don’t fit their insane standards, that’s totally fine with me. If they make it my problem by enforcing their standards on me, belittling me for not meeting them, etc… then yeah we gotta problem. If dating preferences start to influence the way men view women, and these influences lead to oppression, then of course I have a vested in…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:22 PM
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I do! It literally is as simple as a preference. Although a lot of people (men) here don’t seem to understand that or agree lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:23 PM
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But you shouldn’t do it because you want to spare them the pain, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 02:23 PM
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Why’s it an entirely different story if you’re friends with their spouse? Is it because you wouldn’t want to hurt them?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 03:25 AM
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Everyone thinks having a bi girlfriend is hot until she falls in love with one of the women u let her sleep with/date & leaves lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 02:07 AM
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Not trying to say that men don’t care about status, but is that really the problem in your relationship? Or is it a lack of drive, motivation, and ambition? Those things are reasonable qualities for both men and women to seek in a partner, and it’s understandable for you to reevaluate your relationship if you’re not seeing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:35 PM
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Not relevant to my point
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 03:27 AM
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… this is proven
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 12:09 AM
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Jeez okay 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 12:09 AM
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That’s not my point, see my other reply to this commenter
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:13 PM
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What I’m saying is that emotions & bias are an inherent part of complex conversations. So men being called out on including them doesn’t even make sense. I’m not arguing against men as a gender at all here, just the premise of your comment lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:02 PM
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unable to have complex discussions without bringing bias and emotion into it That’s not just a women thing- humans are biased and emotional. I’d argue that it’s impossible to have a true complex discussion without accounting for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 02:36 PM
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It depends on how they want to identify Exactly. Personally, I believe sexuality is fluid, and that no one is 100% gay or straight. Your comment doesn’t seem unsupportive of that theory so I’m going to assume that we agree (to some degree) on that? Or that you can at least see where I’m coming from. Either way, I still recognize this belief comes from my own sexuality & perception. And echoing your sentiment, most gay/straight people wouldn’t respond well to that unwanted psychosexual analysis. …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 04:58 PM
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He doesn’t seem identify that way currently Then I’ll consider him whatever he identifies as- that’s my point. I agree with the rest of your comment, and I can respect your skepticism as long as it doesn’t lead to overt invalidation, because that feels like shit
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 04:49 PM
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I explicitly mentioned in the beginning of my comment that I was only talking about a handful of men yet you’re still telling me what I meant… Sounds like you’re doing a lotttt of assuming here friend. And… yeah. That’s what’s indicated by the quotations around “”straight””
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 04:19 PM
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Did I say ALL men are secretly bi? 🤔 pretty sure I was just reflecting on the handful conversations I’ve had with “straight” men that have shown curiosity in my bisexuality. And how do you know I wasn’t pumping & dumping them? 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:59 PM
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As a bi woman who’s been unknowingly used as an experiment for straight women, I agree. But I’m still going to assume someone is telling the truth when they’re talking about their own sexual identity… because there’s no way to prove the alternative until they show me themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:57 PM
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I also want to circle back again to your first paragraph to make another point because you seem to be genuinely engaging in good faith. at least up until the point they may change their preferences and decide they want to be involved exclusively with either men or women Unless you believe that sexuality is a choice, then changing preferences don’t change sexual orientation. Bi people in homosexual relationships are still bi. Bi people in heterosexual relationships are also still bi. Even if thos…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:31 PM
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See, but I would consider Tom Hardy bisexual if he identified that way. Bi men can marry women and father children. I get the skepticism over “performative” bisexuality, but at the end of the day, how the hell would you ever prove it? If someone tells you who they are/what their sexual orientation is, might as well just believe them. Especially when it comes to bisexuality. Because women are still allowed to identify as bisexual even if they’ve never been with a woman and have permanently settle…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:23 PM
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See, but I would consider Tom Hardy bisexual if he identified that way. Bi men can marry women and father children. I get the skepticism over “performative” bisexuality, but at the end of the day, how the hell would you ever prove it? If someone tells you who they are/what their sexual orientation is, might as well just believe them. Especially when it comes to bisexuality. Women are still allowed to identify as bisexual even if they’ve never been with a woman and have permanently settled with a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:22 PM
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As a bi woman, there are a whole shitload of straight men who admit to being bi curious during pillow talk 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 06:06 AM
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The vast majority of people identify as straight, but as you’ve pointed out, the gap is shrinking. As a bi woman I don’t actually believe anyone is 100% straight or 100% gay. But hey, who am I to tell you what your sexual orientation is?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 06:05 AM
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So why are you suggesting that women who have romantically or sexually been with both males and females don’t fit that definition..?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 05:47 AM
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What do you think the word bisexual means?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 05:03 AM
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Fwiw, I’ve been with at least a handful of straight guys who’ve asked me about my bisexuality during pillow talk. Every single one of them told me that they’ve never really thought/talked about it, but could see themselves having SOME kind of relations with another guy in specific circumstances. Every single one of them resonated with my belief that sexuality is a spectrum & no one is 100% gay or 100% straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 04:56 AM
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But I mean how could you ever prove that? Someone being in a heterosexual relationship doesn’t make them heterosexual, so we might as well just trust people when they tell us who they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 04:51 AM
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Its not about deciding to be honest. Honest is “I’m not interested”. Also I really disagree. Being mean could definitely provoke violence or push someone over the edge. It just adds unnecessary risk to an uncomfortable situation
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 04:34 PM
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I would give honest genuine feedback to someone I know. My point is that I’m not going to raise the odds of being strangled by being mean to a stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 03:33 AM
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True but there’s also a higher chance of a stranger lashing out if you’re mean to them…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 03:31 AM
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How does saying “I’m not I interested/not feeling it” lack integrity? And again I ask genuinely, You don’t think the odds of a dangerous situation would rise for a woman if she was more transparent than that??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 03:44 PM
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One time I was in line for the bathroom at a bar and had a guy hit on me. I politely told him I wasn’t feeling it and he proceeded to hound me for the next ten minutes about why I wasn’t feeling him. Where his looks/approach lacked and how he could improve…. It was so extremely uncomfortable. I wasn’t feeling him because I was having a good time with my friends. Besides telling him that he wasn’t attractive enough to put sex on my radar at that specific moment, I really didn’t have an answer for…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 03:22 PM
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You don’t think those odds would rise a little bit if women started being transparent, and possibly insulting, to the men they’re rejecting?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 03:16 PM
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Sounds like there’s a specific answer you’re looking for here, and considering your flair I’d almost be willing to bet on it… Want to share with the class?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 05:49 PM
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Tbh both parties being honest about the happiness of the relationship would lead to WAY less cheating across the board
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 03:04 PM
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I think we should be encouraging critical thinking skills in everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 02:21 PM
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“Most of them knew what they were doing” brother this kind of attitude is exactly why me too was/is needed 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 02:20 PM
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That’s a risky mindset lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:26 PM
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Every time I see posts about this topic I’m baffled that no one has commented the most obvious and respectful way to handle the situation. If you are a man and it’s important to you to have a paternity test with any woman who has your baby, just say that shit upfront. BEFORE she gets pregnant. If you’re having unprotected sex, you should be talking about how you’d handle a pregnancy. If you’re talking about how you’d handle a pregnancy, you should talk about what you’d do if you choose to have t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:38 PM
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So what can women do to help? Date men they’re not attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 03:07 PM
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Wouldn’t the fact that 45% of women voted for a toxic man like Donald Trump prove your premise wrong? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 02:36 PM
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True, thats a good point and usually what I do when I’m sexually active. But false negatives/surprises happen. Granted, it’s rare, but what would you suggest doing in that situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 05:40 PM
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Pregnancy can be sneaky. It’s not uncommon for me to miss my period for a few months, and if I weren’t showing other symptoms of pregnancy I would be none the wiser
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 04:59 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 04:45 PM
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“Elective and unspecified reasons” could mean she would have had a baby with an abusive partner, could mean she was not mentally sound enough to carry out a pregnancy, could mean that existing health issues are getting worse with pregnancy, could mean her prescription medication is a threat to a viable pregnancy, and of course, it could mean that she was raped or coerced and chose not to disclose that info. No one’s out here having abortions for fun
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 03:49 PM
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Do men have something “similar” to a uterus? Do they go through something “similar” to pregnancy?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 03:42 PM
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Is it possible that you’ve seen way more bad outcomes than good ones because that’s what you’re looking for? Humans naturally have an easier time accepting and noticing evidence that confirms their preexisting beliefs, and less likely to accept and notice evidence that opposes them. It’s called confirmation bias and there are a plethora of studies proving that we’re all subject to it, even if only on a subconscious level. The solution is to be aware of it, and actively focus on finding the oppos…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:47 PM
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But my question is, who would you prefer her to live with? If she’s attracted to both genders, who’s an acceptable roommate?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 01:09 AM
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In your post you said you’ve dealt with a bisexual woman living with a girl
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:15 AM
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It doesn’t matter. I’ve unadded people because I don’t care to see their stories and don’t want to get to know them further. Why would you want to talk to someone who doesn’t care to talk to you anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:13 AM
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Who are bi women supposed to live with then
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 05:58 PM
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I feel like the responsibility of both parties’ orgasms is equal between both parties, but it’s crucial to communicate about what that responsibility looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 09:05 PM
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OP and a lot of these comments view sex as such a selfish act, it takes all the fun out of it. “Your pleasure isn’t my problem” is NOT the approach to take if you want to get laid. The best sex involves two people communicating and giving each other a fun experience. If your partner isn’t willing to put in the effort it takes to get you off, or vice versa, you’re never gonna have a satisfying sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 03:24 PM
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And he’s just circular reasoning
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 04:16 AM
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It should be easy to provide then
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 02:26 PM
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I mean that probably has a lot to do with the kind of women who are usually into swinger parties. My guess is that they’d be way more likely to enjoy rough/kinky sex
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 03:38 PM
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Temu sucks. Shitty company selling shitty quality items
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 03:32 PM
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Definitely. I know i just shit all over it lol but i do also see how it’s useful in analyzing memory + problem solving capabilities. It’s definitely worth something, and a good indicator of overall intelligence. I just don’t think it should be treated as an end-all be-all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 06:22 PM
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The pros: pretty privilege. Peers tend to be less judgmental and more forgiving of awkwardness. Sometimes people will help you out, give you free things, or pay you extra attention for no reason. When you walk into a room and set eyes on the most attractive person there, they notice you too. The cons: the extra attention can be overstimulating. Think about how so many people have gym anxiety because they feel like everyone is looking at them and analyzing what they’re doing. It feels like that, …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 06:18 PM
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That’s why all the discourse on this sub around this subject is so funny. At the end of the day, promiscuous people will end up with other promiscuous people. People who care and have kept a low n count will end up with other people who care and have a low n count. Like attracts like in terms of values like these. It’s literally a non issue in the real world lol. If you’re dating someone who has different beliefs surrounding sex, those differences will probably show up in other areas too and you…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 05:39 PM
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No one’s who’s ever asked me has cared and neither have i, so I’ve had no reason to lie and neither have they
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 05:30 PM
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Soo are you also comparing partners? You said that you won’t ask a woman her body count until after you’ve had sex with her, which makes it sound like you’ve got your own history of bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 05:29 PM
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Your score can also vary greatly depending on the day, since the tests don’t account for motivation or outside factors that may affect your focus
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 05:21 PM
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I can’t believe i had to scroll this far to find this comment. Like, no shit autistic people tend to score higher on IQ tests, one of the only reasons to get your IQ officially tested is for a neuropsych evaluation. I don’t think any of my neurotypical friends have ever gone to see a legitimate clinical examiner to get their actual IQ. In addition to studies possibly being muddled by unofficial (internet) test results, IQ tests are often critiqued as for their concern with only a narrow set of s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 05:19 PM
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Some favs at the moment are RKS, arctic monkeys, caamp, and local natives :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:00 AM
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I genuinely can’t remember the last time I was approached by a stranger for small talk and it didn’t end with him hitting on me in some way. At this point, I actually can’t fathom a man approaching me just to talk about what bands i like with no ulterior motive. It’s not unfounded.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 05:15 PM
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When I was cheated on, DOZENS of women I mentioned it to had their own story to share in solidarity. But what do I know besides my own experience ¯_(ツ)_/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 01:20 AM
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If it’s so much easier for women to cheat, why do men and women cheat at almost equal rates?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 05:18 PM
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I don’t see them crumbling. Men, date a sensible and loyal person who doesn’t spend her days fishing for attention and you’ll probably be okay. Women, date a sensible and loyal person who doesn’t have a wild age gap or financial control and you should be okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 05:16 PM
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How can you tell whether or not a woman has been around?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 03:28 PM
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A little more modesty might not make a huge difference, but it’s still more comfortable to wear the clothes I actually want.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:09 PM
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I’m someone who likes to wear super tight short shorts and a sports bra to the gym 🙋🏻‍♀️ yes, they are definitely more revealing than practicality requires, but they’re also more comfortable. I am someone who hates the feeling of fabric on sweaty skin- it’s a sensory thing, it makes me feel smothered. The less coverage the better. Tighter clothes also allow me more movement, and more confidence that they won’t get caught in a machine/reveal anything if I’m doing a handstand or other yoga poses. …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:05 PM
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If you can’t communicate with women in your life without gossiping about celebrities I would suggest surrounding yourself with different women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:49 PM
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I feel like the only study here that wouldn’t have changed over time due to outside influence would be the std one but what do I know
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:26 PM
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Not you I guess, go on and keep believing that the reason women don’t go on nihilistic rants on a first date is because they’re stupid😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:16 PM
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What is the sample size here? Also these stats are from nearly 30 years old
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:13 PM
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What does being held accountable for a promiscuous past look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:55 PM
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Or maybe most women wouldn’t go on a rant about nihilism because nihilism is depressing and not the most pleasant topic for a first date lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:23 PM
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What would “biting the bullet” look like in your opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:36 PM
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It’s even harder when a man assures you he’ll change and then it’s like, how many chances do you give?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 09:51 PM
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You literally made a post about how you think redditors who talk about having a life are larping
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 05:21 AM
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Oh god the irony
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 12:51 AM
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You’re literally plugging your ears now lol. There are plenty of examples of women enjoying dominance in the bedroom but you won’t hear any of them, or you’ll make up an excuse for them. Open your mind a lil
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:13 PM
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It sounds like your circle is full of really shallow people, and I’m sorry they’ve warped your view of women to be what it is. Not all, or even most, women are like this and I hope you find your people soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:07 PM
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So what’s your claim then? What am i arguing?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:57 PM
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I mean if you have any source to back up your claim I’m open to reading it, but yeah I’m making the “not all” argument because I don’t believe that your statement applies to a large enough group of people to hold any weight. Some boss bitches are submissive in bed but some are dominant. Same for non boss bitches. You can’t just make a sweeping claim like “the more dominant/independent they are irl, the more submissive they are in bed and this proves that women like to be submissive to men” and n…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:36 AM
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This! Nothing that actually feels threatening or is restricting airflow, but just the feeling of someone else being in control is hot for some people. Some people think it’s hot to BE in control like that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:26 AM
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You’re generalizing a little too hard here
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:24 AM
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Agreed, that’s where my mind would be going 😅 especially if I was looking for a hookup
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 05:35 PM
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Modern fire escape was patented by Anna Connelly. Josephine garis Cochran invented the first practical dishwasher (and your link just confirms that lol). Alice H. Parker invented the gas heater, a model now used in modern, central heating techniques for buildings. Letitia Mumford Geer was an American nurse who invented the one-hand medical syringe. Ada Lovelace wrote the first algorithm for a machine in the 1800s and is considered the first computer programmer. Gladys West is known for her contr…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:05 PM
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Fire escapes, dishwashers, central heating, telecommunications technology, medical syringes, computer algorithms, the foundation of gps technology, ect. Cmon man
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 07:51 AM
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You’re invalidating male rape victims with that argument btw. Men do not want it all the time from any woman and it’s harmful to say they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:52 PM
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There’s no way to have sex with a 100% guarantee of not getting pregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:50 PM
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Right off the bat I can think of Hawaii as a really good counterexample to that argument
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:00 PM
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I don’t want to be assaulted by a man, so I avoid men. Wait never mind, men don’t like that logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:58 PM
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it’s always entertaining when a man just understands women so deeply that he decides to teach women about their own thought processes. Thanks for enlightening me, for I am a merely a woman and don’t understand why I do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:55 PM
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Men are allowed to have these biases. Women are allowed to date the men that dont have these biases.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:18 PM
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If I tell you that the woman op quoted is full of shit, is that me taking accountability in the name of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:56 PM
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even so, that notion is what fuels the jealousy in situations like OP described
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:31 PM
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a lot of women people love the idea of love. they want to find their soulmate; someone to adventure through life with. someone to know and to know them as deeply as possible. someone who they’re crazy about in every context, unwaveringly. a lot of people are romantics, and marriage is one of the most romantic declarations of love there is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 04:41 PM
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lol ok
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 02:18 PM
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I think we’re missing each other’s points
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 07:26 AM
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beliefs. opinions. inner thoughts. are those words better?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 07:25 AM
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Those men excel with women despite those opinions, not because of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 09:47 PM
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Your beliefs shape who you are is my point. It has nothing to do with being able to get women, it’s how these people view them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 06:32 PM
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Your title is contradictory. Men that come online to complain about women, fester by circlejerking, and vent regularly are of a certain mindset. Your attitude and personality are absolutely influenced by your mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:50 PM
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Woof. Your attitude/personality has nothing to do with your mindset?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:40 PM
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mundane survival nonsense. I love it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:36 PM
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If everyone was as worried about their safety as women, maybe the stats wouldn’t show men being more likely to get murdered
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 02:30 PM
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Idk what u want me to say
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:09 AM
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That feels like a reach and also is not completely relevant to my comment but ok🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 07:31 PM
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My point is that she didn’t lie. Something really did come up. She just chose not to tell him that the thing that came up was her blatant lack of attraction. If you think people should go around being brutally honest with each other ALL the time, you’ll be hard pressed to find others who agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 06:20 PM
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YOU were having a great time, I just assumed she wasn’t (or at least not having as great a time as you thought) by the fact that she left. So the point of your post is that she should’ve stayed to shoot the shit with you instead of doing something she’d rather be doing? Maybe we just have different preferences but i wouldn’t want that if I was in your position. To each their own ig.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 05:58 PM
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She clearly wasn’t enjoying time with you though
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 05:49 PM
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This logic can become harmful very quickly. You could use it to justify women giving abusers or guys with a million red flags chances. you could use it to argue that everyone should say yes to everyone that asks them out, even if there’s no attraction whatsoever. You could use it to encourage people to stay in straight up unpleasant situations. The nice thing about being an adult human is that we have agency, and that no one is entitled to our time or energy. Deciding “nope” and walking away bas…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 05:43 PM
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I mean honestly, something did come up- her desire to end the date🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 05:35 PM
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Hmm it’s tough to say because I rarely schedule dates from x time to x time unless I have something else going on. We usually meet for a coffee or drink at the agreed upon time and then the date lasts as long as is natural. Maybe I’m different and have more free time than the average person but that’s how I’ve always done it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 05:29 PM
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Men are still unable to vote in 2024, unless they get drafted in the army. women have free pass. Women never wanted to vote because they didn’t wanted the burden that came with it. Nonetheless men gave women the “child treatment”, also called “benevolent sexism”. Didn’t bothered you guys that much right? So much for empowerment, right? You lost me here. I’m not even sure what you’re on about, but there’s no point in reading or arguing further. This will not be a productive conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 10:31 PM
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I supposed I should rephrase. The law did not protect women opening their own bank accounts until 1974. Taken from quora: Prior to 1974, almost every bank in the United States refused to issue credit cards to women unless they were married and the husband co-signed the credit application. There wasn’t any law that required this, it was just industry standard practice. There may have been one or two banks that did things differently, I am not certain. But if so it was very difficult for them. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:09 PM
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I’m talking about women legally owning bank accounts in their own name. The equal credit opportunity act was not passed until 1974.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 06:24 PM
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Oh wow. Where do I even start. Women couldn’t vote until 1920. Women couldn’t open bank accounts in their own name until the 1960s, and many banks still wouldn’t allow them to without their husbands signature until 1974. Women could be payed less for doing the same job as their male counterparts until 1963. Women could legally be discriminated against in any federally funded education programs in America until 1972. Single women couldn’t legally use contraception until 1972. Marital rape didn’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 06:22 PM
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Man it wasn’t even till 1974 that women were legally allowed to open a bank account in their name (technically they earned the right in the 1960s but many banks still refused without a signature from her husband). That is our grandparents’ generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 05:48 PM
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I’m not sure what you’re trying to point out with the height link from 2009, are you suggesting that men are on average taller and therefore on average smarter than women? Also not sure what you mean by appeasement science, as the conclusion that men and women do not (on average) have a higher or lower iq is based on the stats. you’re correct about the chess point, but as far as I’m aware, there are no studies supporting the claim that it’s because men are smarter. It’s most likely due to the fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 08:05 PM
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(I’m on mobile so excuse my wack formatting, idk what I’m doing lol) yes exactly. Men were forced to provide whereas women were not allowed to. Call it ego, tradition, cultural beliefs, ect. But yes, it did hinder overall wealth (as long as you don’t account for the child rearing and home keeping that also needed to be done, I’m not saying it’s right for men to be the providers and women to be the caretakers but it’s how things have worked through most of history, with little to no choice on eit…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:50 PM
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i’m actually writing a paper on this 🙂 nuclear energy is an alternative to fossil fuels, but it brings its own set of problems. radioactive waste being the biggest. nuclear power plant sites are incredibly dangerous and toxic. humans consuming only wind/solar/other renewable environmental resources would be ideal, but we don’t have enough of it, and it’s expensive. energy poverty is a real problem worldwide, and already struggling economies would crash without access to it. it’s a complicated pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 05:24 PM
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i’m interested in seeing the debunking! do you have sources?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:54 PM
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hmm i wonder if that drop in happiness has anything to do with the wild inflation we’ve been experiencing over the past few decades, climate change, a global pandemic, increased cost of living, messy job market, ect… no wait, feminism makes way more sense. it’s obviously the freedom making women unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 08:27 PM
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who needs to make comparisons at all? your preferences are yours and that’s fine. but in this thread alone i’ve seen women be called used cars, apartments, and locks. that’s what pisses women off, not the preferences themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 11:00 PM
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i don’t see hoeing around as morally wrong or crossing a line, so that’s the disconnect here. my analogy is more accurate to my views. killing is objectively morally wrong, or at least it’s agreed to be that way by a majority of the population to the point where there are laws put in place against it. consensual sex between two adults is not as objective. lots of people do have a moral qualm with it, and lots of people don’t. you can’t condemn hoes with the same public backing that you can conde…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 05:24 PM
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no ones shaming men for having preferences, they’re shaming men for making dehumanizing comparisons about women who don’t meet those preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 05:06 PM
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there’s a big difference between killing and having sex. one is actually harmful & invasive of another human’s rights. they’re not comparable. if i become a banker, and then change my mind a few years later and go on to become a photographer, am i still considered a banker? for the rest of my life?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 05:03 PM
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i’m not sure what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 08:55 PM
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do you have a source for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:35 PM
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what’s facts say he’s wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 06:33 PM
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you realize that article cites 26 other studies… a number of them done by men…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 10:39 PM
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https://www.contraceptionjournal.org/article/S0010-7824(15)00624-1/fulltext elective abortions do not mean women are using them as a form of birth control
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:11 PM
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you had me in the first half
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 03:35 PM
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sigh
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 02:20 AM
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i guess we’ll never know
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:40 PM
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no? i think it’s hot when people want my partner but i’m the only one who gets to have them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:55 PM
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people think women dress for men but if men didn’t exist i would just dress sluttier
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:53 PM
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lmaooooo yeah they do
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:22 PM
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okay, want another one? A function that can be computed by any machine is a simple function; a machine that can compute any computable function is a Universal Turing Machine.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:08 PM
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okay but then we get into the argument of nature vs nurture, and biology vs emotions. in real, modern society, men crave love the same way women do, no? the whole “american dream” and all that. just because men can impregnate an unlimited amount of women says nothing about whether a man wants kids at all, wants a relationship, ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:38 PM
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nothing is wrong with your logic as long as it’s consistent. do you have sources to back your claim about men being polygamous and women being monogamous by nature?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 07:47 PM
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and i say a pencil sharpener that can sharpen many pencils is a good pencil sharpener, but a pencil that’s been sharpened too many times is a useless pencil. we can make analogies all day, but humans aren’t inanimate objects.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:50 PM
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it doesn’t matter what kind of man/woman can have a high body count, all that matters is that they do. by your logic, anyone with a plethora of options who willingly decides to give those options up for a life of monogamy is showing restraint.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:49 PM
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how big was the sample size in the study you’re referencing? also this sub seems to take these 80/20 stats as gospel but online dating is nowhere near representative of the real world
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:46 PM
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do you have a single credible study to back up pair bonding in human women? because i’m pretty sure it’s been debunked
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 08:02 PM
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how would you propose measuring something as intangible as maliciousness?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 03:18 PM
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you think spending time on ig is.. expensive? if anything, a woman posting on ig can MAKE money if she has enough followers for brand deals
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 02:58 PM
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let’s go back to our initial interaction, because we’ve backtracked to what you believe women are searching for when they look for men. i’m talking about men and women who are already in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 09:25 PM
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like i said, self fulfilling prophecy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 08:13 PM
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yikes, that sounds like an exhausting and stressful frame of mind. women are not children by the way lmao, by the way you’re comparing them, it’s disappointing to hear you think of us that way but it explains a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:36 PM
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what you describe here is very different than the last comment you left, and you even admit that emotional intelligence makes a man more attractive if he’s got a girl soo
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:12 PM
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do you behave any stats on this? because soo many RP men spout this off with nothing but anecdotal evidence and conspiracies to back it up. let’s just assume that everything you just said is true i guess, and women choose men based on their level of perceived competency. does this perceived competency include emotional intelligence? empathy? how deeply a man knows himself? for me it does. in the past, i’ve actually been turned off by men who don’t seem to have emotions. if i’m choosing to be wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:45 PM
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agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:39 PM
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this is a really well worded and impactful reply, it’s like you took the words right out of my brain :)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:38 PM
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care to elaborate a little?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:25 PM
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and i think most people on this sub can agree that men’s mental health needs more attention. we need to break the stigma. we need to make a change; and it starts with men opening up about what they’re going through.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:25 PM
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the ones he listed in the OP sound like mental illness, and i say this with the most concern and empathy as possible, that he should seek out psychiatric or psychologic help with. if you’re assuming every women you meet is emotionally weaker than you, you’re setting yourself up to push your negative feelings down until you explode. there are lot of people in the world who lack understanding and empathy when it comes to mental illness, but i don’t believe it’s decided by gender. i’ve had plenty o…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:08 PM
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what problems do men have that a women can’t help at all with?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 04:48 PM
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and women in stem are way more common these days than the latter🤷🏻‍♀️ women also dominate important jobs like administration, childcare, and social welfare.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:53 PM
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ummm hello teachers? dental hygienists? veterinarians?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:34 AM
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i agree with op
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:17 PM
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if i’ve met 1000 people in my life and men and women are, on average, not as drastically different as you’re claiming, who are you to tell me otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:08 PM
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so your perspective of the world is absolute? you’re right about everything you have an opinion on? you don’t trust studies because you don’t think experts in any given field might have a more objective point of view? if that’s true then idk if you’re as smart as you think you are
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 03:28 PM
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either. for me personally, if the roles were reversed i’d encourage my partner to see through whatever lustful purposes their celebrity crush had in mind because cmon, what are the chances of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:05 PM
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i can’t answer for all women in relationships, but if i’d gotten dm from harry styles or zendaya while in a relationship i’d probably freak out and show my significant other. we’d decide what to do next together.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:46 PM
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as a woman with many woman friends, most of us ignore 99% of dms even when we’re single, especially if they’re from strangers. i’m sorry your personal experience has shown the opposite, you don’t deserve it, and i hope people are better to you in the future <3
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:42 PM
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this is hilarious bc you know this thread would be full of agreement instead of dismissal if you linked a study stating that women cheat more
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:40 PM
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most women don’t, where are you getting this info from?😅
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:20 PM
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and your perception of reality is based on….? anecdotal experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:59 PM
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yes it fucking is
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:53 PM
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stats stats stats!! until i don’t like them!
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 04:21 PM
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so get a high grade woman
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 07:52 PM
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this ain’t it
/r/AllPillDebate19/10/23 04:56 AM
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a girl who is constantly cockblocking and making sure no one is having more fun than her will be kicked from the friend group pretty quick
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 03:53 AM
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actually no. sure, what’s described in your comment happens sometimes, but more often than not it’s what op described
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 03:38 AM
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it’s almost like sometimes condoms break and birth control fails
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 05:18 PM
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abortion is becoming increasingly criminalized and restricted unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 05:17 PM
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denying sex ≠ being yelled at and belittled
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 05:17 PM
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how do u explain gay women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 09:33 PM
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according to men on this sub, they have an intuitive sense that tells them when a girls been ran thru so yes, everyone has to know
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 02:49 PM
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so basically, you want to meet women effortlessly?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 03:00 AM
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sensible, level headed = agrees with you. ofc lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 03:10 PM
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to each their own ig
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 11:33 PM
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lol source?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 11:32 PM
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ayoo what’s wrong with tattoos?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 11:27 PM
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a life with NO dumb decisions ever doesn’t sound like a very interesting one. the point is to make mistakes and evolve. it’s what’s we were put here to do
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 11:22 PM
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i need to know more about these celebrity dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 11:14 PM
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you’d be in for a rude awakening too methinks, too bad we’re given the cards we’re dealt
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 06:13 PM
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funny because that’s how i feel about men. i wish we could friday the 13th this shit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 02:58 AM
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a woman is undatable if she likes to have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 12:23 AM
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maybe hoes are just having sex because they like to have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:12 PM
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ahh right because women have no problems and absolutely everything works out in their favor
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:50 PM
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in what ways are you very much unequal?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 03:45 PM
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believe whatcha will i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:06 PM
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if i met the hottest guy EVER and he had no passions, hobbies or purpose i (and every other woman i know) would not get involved with him lmao wdym?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:16 AM
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oh 100% agreed, but in op’s comment they specify that the fashion sense was a new one
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 03:11 PM
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a man can make a decision to set a boundary for himself that he won’t date someone who wears revealing clothes. if that boundary is hard, then he should communicate asap to his SO that she’ll basically have to choose between her fashion sense & him. but it’s not controlling to communicate a boundary
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 02:43 AM
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depends on the person & their perception, but healthy people will call it a boundary
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:11 PM
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no, that would be considered a boundary
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:21 PM
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no. don’t bet on someone changing for you, that’s how you break your own heart
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:20 PM
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coercion*
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:25 AM
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i asked u first
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:07 AM
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why is it villainous?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 05:16 PM
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i think we’ve got different definitions of internalizing something. but i am also in therapy 🤜🤛 here’s to feeling feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 02:43 AM
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if you think feeling your feelings automatically means they’re internalized forever then i’d recommend therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 02:16 AM
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this is the correct answer
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 02:10 AM
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actually, contemplating on it helps to not internalize it. contrary to popular belief, feeling your feelings is healthy. and then let the feelings pass🌬️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 11:07 PM
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unless i really like the guy, have liked him for a while ect., i have the mindset of “why would i beat myself up over someone who doesn’t want me?” why would i waste my time wanting someone who doesn’t see my value? it’s not anyone’s fault. it’s definitely not something to internalize.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:52 PM
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this is… kind of an insane take. you think majority of women in the past were having sex with men that killed their family?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:49 PM
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this is the best comment
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:46 PM
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i the audience side with the other poster. what about your dick makes women less valuable when penetrated by it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:16 AM
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pretty sure it has more to do with fetishization than feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:06 PM
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what about a marriage license?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:35 AM
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you don’t know what me n my partners are into ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 11:55 PM
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i’m usually the one conquering the guys sooo it’s worse for them in my case?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 11:48 PM
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do you do nasty things with women you’re not married to?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:04 PM
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in what points are she wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:10 PM
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why?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 03:22 AM
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hang on a second now that i know you were being sarcastic here- do you think that a minority of feminists are really capable of carrying out a vendetta like you described in your op?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 04:13 AM
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it’s what any reasonable person would infer lmao, learn to clarify then. but your comment still goes on to say that of course you weren’t talking about the minority in your op so… did i not infer correctly?😅
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 03:20 AM
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i for one am very interested in hearing about the other things she’ll change (who’s she?)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 02:51 AM
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bro yikes??? what’s next? is she still allowed to wear makeup and put on a flattering dress if she’s thinking about going out in public? after all, that would mean she’s advertising her beauty to strangers
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 02:50 AM
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my guy it was implied that you meant every or at least most women with your comment. a minority wouldn’t be able to “meet their aims”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 02:22 AM
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imagine making a wild baseless claim about every women’s agenda lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 01:22 AM
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yep. every women in the world had a secret meeting and planned out revenge- u suckers fell for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 01:12 AM
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they didn’t seem salty lol actually a pretty decent analogy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 12:02 AM
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i’m sure all the western women are jumping on this opportunity for a culture shift then
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 12:01 AM
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yeah why does he care about our standards as if they effect him lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:53 PM
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but if we were dating… you’d be alright with me cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 09:11 PM
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strangely enough, if i were dating you idk how cool you’d be with me fucking other guys🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:05 PM
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i crave 100 different dicks, can i cheat now?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:29 PM
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everyone i know who’s ever been cheated on could never even imagine causing that kind of pain for another person so idk how accurate this is
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 06:07 PM
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right? my ex and i are in our twenties and he cheated which completely destroyed my life and the life we were building together. def felt like it mattered lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 06:06 PM
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i almost didn’t read this post but i’m so happy i did
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 04:19 PM
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do you think there’s like a secret society of betas secretly plotting the downfall of everyone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 04:19 PM
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i mean i feel like no one would be interested in a broke partner given the choice
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 09:26 PM
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i wonder what OP’s girl would think if she knew he was analyzing her to a group like this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 09:18 PM
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i don’t know a single women who agrees with you here
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 04:45 PM
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well then it was a wasted 4 minutes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 09:10 PM
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to go into this much detail about what you think an attractive woman’s life is like is at the very least a waste of your energy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 05:19 PM
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no waaaay you just described my life to a tee. not really, this post is a little ridiculous but thanks for the laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 05:17 PM
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instead of getting defensive by feeling betrayed/lied to, they could listen to the reasons women decide to wear makeup and change that mindset? or if they’re really that pissed off, learn to tell the difference between natural makeup and a bare face. if women can tell, men can definitely learn too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 12:33 AM
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all these women making such valid points and all you follow up with are these close minded & hard headed responses haha
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 12:13 AM
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i was just matching their wording 🤷‍♀️ but sure, women are conditioned to be polite
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 11:35 PM
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women are taught politeness over honesty, especially when it comes to rejection
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 09:20 PM
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i mean i’d feel more empathy for anyone going through a depression than i would for someone who’s tempted to cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 05:22 AM
3

so i should be empathetic to men who just had to cheat bc they were too horny?🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 10:10 PM
2

in my culture it’s hot as hell when a man does
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 02:45 PM
1

WHAT🤯 they’re crazy, never change
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 02:45 PM
3

i can’t believe there are ppl out there who don’t like eating pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 07:38 AM
4

same which is really interesting bc this sub likes to talk so much about how men want sex more than women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 03:13 AM
5

there’s already a person like that at the bottom of this comment section alone lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 08:26 PM
2

i always wonder how long posts like these took to write
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 08:03 PM
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wait being sexless is a crisis?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 09:44 PM
3

you got it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:08 PM
3

i would be chad
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:01 PM
1

today social media exists and the world is on fire. is anyone happier than the 50s?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 07:20 PM
1

out of curiosity, how do you feel about the women’s version?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 07:13 PM
0

maybe u should start one
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 07:13 PM
13

if a man doesn’t want to get stuck paying child support, he should be careful who to sleep with too
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 07:01 PM
31

i read it, basically got the same idea. women bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 07:00 PM
1

yet men still nut in her
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 10:39 PM
1

there’s a difference between love and codependency
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 10:39 PM
1

codependency is dangerous because nothing lasts forever 🤷‍♀️ you truly do have to be okay with only having yourself at the end of the day
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 10:01 PM
1

so… how about bisexuals? are we not meant to have friends at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 09:58 PM
1

being pregnant is solely a woman’s responsibility? ur saying men can’t handle some as well? and who’s allergic to accountability?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 09:49 PM
9

tell me about itttt i had to screenshot this one😅
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:30 AM
4

men literally didn’t allow women to help them build modern civilization lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:17 PM
10

tell me you don’t listen to women without telling me you don’t listen to women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:08 PM
1

gotcha, women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 04:54 PM
8

lol sources? cuz this is just denial my man
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 04:12 PM
0

but what about pod’s whole argument that “sex is harder to get for men, therefore we respect men who can get it😤” lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 10:04 PM
-4

my friends who care about height definitely do talk about it irl
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:48 PM
14

fellas, is it gay to fuck a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:46 PM
5

but she doesn’t believe girls should be sluts. she just believes girls shouldn’t be shamed for it. she advocates for them. that’s not really a contradiction if she herself doesn’t want to be a slut. if im pro choice even though i don’t think i would ever be able to go through having an abortion does that make me a hypocrite?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 04:40 AM
11

bruh he literally answered your question lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 04:08 AM
5

you know what they say about assuming ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 04:07 AM
6

she could have 2 bodies under her belt but believe women should be sluts if they want to? how does that contradict itself
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 04:06 AM
1

is feeling unfulfilled not a valid reason for divorce to you? say it’s been years and years with no sign of change
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:37 PM
8

damn there are some bold claims, what are your sources?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:21 AM
1

hard to have an actual discussion when you’re being talked down to lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 05:58 PM
2

or eventually your mental health and sense of self worth will suffer🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:58 AM
2

i don’t understand the point you’re making w that comment. how about when stacy leads you on, tells you she wants a relationship, and then ghosts you after she gets a chance to hit?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:40 AM
3

bold statement by someone who’s never experienced it. it’s like how everyone wants to be famous until they actually are and it absolutely ruins their mental health
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 09:22 PM
6

when i’m not the one lying and manipulating, i don’t know. i am just a woman, after all🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 09:06 PM
4

you raised the problem, but have no ideas for a solution?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:13 PM
9

lol what solution do you propose? should we gather the women for our monthly meeting and chat about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 07:10 PM
3

yup cuz we’re talking about starving /s
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 05:14 AM
3

the truth will always come out
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 05:04 AM
2

yeah i’ve definitely been this girl hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 08:08 PM
8

news flash- hot people have casual sex as often as they want to. not sure why this comes as a shock
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 08:06 PM
1

damn u should show her this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 12:03 AM
1

lol do you have stats to back that idea up? i’ve never seen it in the real world and only ever hear it talked about here
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 01:52 AM
1

people grow and change though
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 01:15 AM
3

everyone has some sort of baggage, i feel like it might be tough to find someone with no issues at all
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:13 PM
2

what do you mean by better options in life than being your partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:12 PM
3

what if they just ARE someone super cool😏
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:07 PM
7

i mean i don’t because i’m promiscuous myself. people with similar values are the people who will end up together.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:07 AM
8

the internet isn’t reality
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:23 PM
3

what do men really want from a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 04:36 PM
8

if this were true i wouldn’t be heartbroken on the floor over my ex who treated ME like i was disposable. if this were true there would be no kind and soft women, is that really what you believe?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:00 PM
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it was that part that got me😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:59 PM
3

i’m gonna be medusa and i’m going out to my college town to hit up the parties and the bars🐍 i’m actually 21 this year so i’m stoked
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 06:15 PM
7

you don’t think in group bias plays ANY sort of role between the men on ppd?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:26 PM
2

We’re not talking about dating though, we’re talking about sleeping with someone. Attraction is pretty important in that sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 05:28 AM
2

I can’t speak for women as a whole, I’ve never lied personally. Why would I want someone who couldn’t accept my past?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 12:07 AM
22

We like to argue on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:28 PM
1

Many women don’t vote, and it’s not like all women vote the same anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 04:27 AM
2

Maybe you should channel that energy into advocating for more male voters
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:44 PM
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okay man I mean good luck to ya in finding someone who meets ur standards
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:48 AM
12

But we’re not talking about injecting somebody’s blood into your body.. we also all know washing our hands isn’t most effective without doing it for at least 20 seconds in warm water but do public spaces gross you out? also… condoms exist
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:11 AM
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new germs are literally constantly coming into your body. germs from people you’ve shared air with, every gotten a friend’s cold?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:00 AM
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Do you… know how germs work?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:36 AM
7

If you’re not approachable or decent company maybe you should work on that before trying to pull women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 08:17 PM
0

Do you not see the danger of expecting all women to submit to all men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:30 PM
1

What literally so many people date in college
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:29 PM
2

Ain’t no way lmao y’all are just gonna have to trust that I’m the hottest woman alive
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 12:13 AM
4

And on top of that, if i fuck up for just a second and my attacker gets their hands on it then I’m super screwed
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 06:09 PM
1

maybe you’re also a secretly slutty drunk
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 10:43 PM
3

I disagree with the deceit, I think lonely guys know exactly what they’re paying for
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:26 AM
3

What about, say, brewery owners? You could make the argument that they prey on lonely alcoholics
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:02 AM
5

Validating women is a red flag?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:24 AM
5

Yes, men are poison. Good job👏
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 12:23 AM
5

Men are responsible for their own semen which doesn’t seem to be clicking for you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 10:58 PM
1

Again, that’s the best part Spooky + sexy = extra sexyyyyy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 11:36 PM
1

That’s the best part
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 11:28 PM
2

And just skip over Halloween??? Omg never
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 11:27 PM
2

What support do you have for these claims besides anecdotal evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:27 AM
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Oh i thought this was just a general question not stemming from personal experience I’m sorry… To that i say- talk to her about it. Maybe she can show you what makes her do it. Does she do it when she masturbates? If not, then she might not do it anymore at all🤷🏽‍♀️ womens bodies are weird like that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 10:26 PM
2

But like, how do you know
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 10:14 PM
1

How do you know she squirted with her ex
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 10:09 PM
5

Every woman has a different preference, there was a thread on this a few days ago. You literally can’t generalize all women like this
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 10:02 PM
1

Totally agree, super interested to hear what they all think of it 20 years from now haha
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 05:18 AM
1

I hope you mean 3rd wave feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 04:58 AM
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Eh, we all have atp, it hardly matters anymore. It’s just part of growing up in the new age.🤷🏽‍♀️ (Unless the post is harmful)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 04:54 AM
1

Maybe they should just stay single
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:56 AM
1

What about lgbtq+ women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:30 AM
2

How come?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 04:23 AM
1

Yea😈
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 09:13 AM
1

I am
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 09:09 AM
1

My suggestion is find a new therapist, yours sounds awful
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 09:08 AM
0

This deserves its own post 🤍
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 08:58 AM
0

Imprisonment for all the sluts!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 08:56 AM
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If you want to keep having sex with her… you’ll make sure she enjoys it. Is getting the dude to come a woman’s responsibility?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 08:49 AM
5

What obvious facts lmfaooo Seems like your worldview is pretty warped. Either that or you’re incapable of understanding that not everyone thinks like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 12:02 AM
5

How about gay women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 11:57 PM
9

How could you know? You’re not a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 11:55 PM
8

I guarantee you he’s not still “winning”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:31 PM
2

I mean I’m thanking god i didn’t end up with my first pick so😅
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 09:51 PM
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There’s a reason these toxic exes are exes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 09:47 PM
1

But there are too many outliers for this claim to be accurate in general, hence the generalizing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 12:44 AM
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You’re talking about men and women as if they all think and feel the exact same way as everyone else of their gender
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 10:00 PM
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You’re generalizing way too much to understand anything rn
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 09:57 PM
2

It’s always worth it to take care of yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 09:56 PM
2

Lol whatever u say
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 09:15 PM
6

I mean same for the men, so by that logic you could make the claim that literally no one has standards
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 09:55 AM
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I could give you the generic advice on every advice sub, or you could tell me ur specific situation and about the woman you’re trying to attract and i could give u better advice
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 02:03 AM
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There have been entire posts titled “don’t go to women for advice about dating women” I’m just like🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:33 AM
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If they’d rather be alone than date within their league then you’re not gonna change their minds lol let them be alone
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:00 AM
1

What current research are you referring to? And does it say anything about promiscuous men?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:42 AM
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The article you linked literally states that while that’s true, height is proven to be not very important in determining a partner. Sure, many women find tall guys attractive. So?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:30 PM
1

Correlation does not equal causation, yet you’re citing this article like it does
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 09:05 AM
7

Do you have baggage and more complications from sleeping around?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:49 AM
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ppd is the craziest place because i will read the wildest take i have ever seen and scroll down only to find every comment agreeing with it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:37 AM
1

And it’s ever growing. Remember when you wanted so badly what you have now?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:35 AM
1

ah yes, promiscuous women are incapable of a family and children
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:25 AM
3

Shhh! Don’t bring logic and reality into this!! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:11 AM
3

Communication could solve a lot of these problems
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:07 AM
0

Sex can be an intimate bonding experience. key work is can
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 04:16 AM
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I do it because i know I’ll look at them. and I’d like my worldview to be as colorful as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:41 AM
2

“You would rather a million holocausts than raise a loving family as a stay-at-home mother” so what are you comparing the holocaust to?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 09:32 PM
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Did you really just compare some men’s inability to get their dicks wet to the holocaust??? Jfc
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 09:18 PM
3

There are literally women in this thread who it’s happened to irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 09:09 PM
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Sure, it’s not easy to imagine a dude to start swinging on a girl for rejecting him. But verbally assaulting her? following her? harassing her on the phone for another chance? Definitely a possibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 09:08 PM
2

What else would be their reason to what? Maybe she genuinely likes you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 11:09 AM
2

100%!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 11:08 AM
3

but if she doesn’t let them take his resources, or let them interfere in the relationship at all that kind of refuted all your points
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 07:24 AM
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idk how to do that quote thing on mobile but regarding your last sentence, i disagree. obviously anonymous users that you don’t interact with every day don’t really matter but internet friends can be real and genuine friends
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 06:50 AM
3

what do you think of young single moms who do not let their children be involved in the relationship until it’s serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 06:48 AM
2

But you recognize it’s immoral?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 06:46 AM
2

he’s still consuming the content, he could just use his imagination like the good old days
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 06:20 AM
1

no, the consumer is just giving them views (money) and actively keeping the pornstar in work
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 06:05 AM
1

Who said the quality matters?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 05:58 AM
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okay, you’re free to wait until you do meet someone who’s attracted to you despite your being hypocritical over certain behaviors/Morals, but this person is trying to tell you that you might be waiting forever
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 05:48 AM
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What the hell does this have to do with her future? Because no one has asked to marry her yet it’s never going to happen?😂 I’m trying to understand the “gotcha” point that you meant with this question but I’m so lost
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 05:29 AM
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No man has ever proposed to me. What’s your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 02:45 AM
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But that fact is irrelevant because I’ve never had the desire… to be proposed to…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 02:44 AM
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Why don’t you tell me the answer you’re looking for from women here because you don’t seem to be accepting any of ours😅 nobody has asked me to marry because I’ve made it clear i don’t want anybody to ask me to marry. You seem to think strangers are coming up to random women in the street proposing marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 01:51 AM
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OP, what is the answer to this post that you’re looking for lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 12:36 AM
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I’m only 21 i don’t want marriage yet lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 12:30 AM
7

Out of curiosity, what are some examples of these telltale signs?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 12:23 AM
1

Thanks for the lol today
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 11:03 PM
1

Ah yes… we should raise children as consequences to our actions in the name of taking accountability… I’m sure that won’t result in a fucked up next generation or anything…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:04 PM
2

His looks, considering we met on tinder. But when he came over that night he had the most easygoing and confident energy, it just felt comfortable to be around him
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 08:50 PM
0

I’m sure that mindset isn’t helping you in the dating scene
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 08:08 PM
2

What does it mean to be a pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:04 PM
2

What if neither of those things were important to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 10:50 PM
1

Siblings? Friends? Children of siblings and friends that they’ve grown close with and have a bond?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 05:09 AM
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This entire sub is kind of full of hypocritical and off base men ime
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:25 AM
8

Yeah this post was such a trip to read lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:39 AM
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Touch some grass lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 08:48 PM
1

But what proof do you have that it’s unhealthy? Assuming everyone involved is practicing safe sex
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 05:39 AM
1

But we’re not talking about a horrific act lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 02:50 AM
1

I don’t have the emotional strength to debate with an ideology like yours at the moment bc i can just🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 02:50 AM
1

To each their own🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 02:48 AM
1

I mean how many partners does a woman have to have before it becomes excess? 3 different partners in one month is still only once a week, which if you’re comparing it to masturbation does not seem unhealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 11:47 PM
2

Yup, googled it. Only found lots of unverified sources based on pseudoscience or misinformation altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 11:45 PM
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But why do i need to respect your values if you’re not who I’m tryna date
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 11:44 PM
1

Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 11:44 PM
-1

I don’t think sleeping around points to less self control, and it’s not just my partners I’ve asked but also my male friends. I suppose we are a pretty liberal bunch
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:50 PM
1

I disagree but you do you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:49 PM
1

You think that most men on this sub exhibit empathy to womens struggles? Hell, i saw men relishing in the fact that roe v Wade was overturned simply because it made women upset. That was literally the only reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:33 PM
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Condoms, abortions, std tests are also things that promiscuous women can have. Your other points may have been true 50 years ago, but in modern social society we’re seeing less and less of that. Wanting a virgin women is associated with conservative beliefs. And i have asked men in my life what they think on this matter, including my current partner. They all dgaf as long as std tests are done
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:31 PM
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Tried & I can not find a single valid study, if you can I’d love to see it though
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:12 PM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 09:51 PM
2

I mean i guess I’m just not one to believe that the value of a woman is tied to her sexual history
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 09:50 PM
4

You really think sex is going to become less valuable to men? It’s literally ingrained in all of our biology to want it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 09:16 PM
1

You do know that most people have an online persona that differs greatly from how they act irl?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 08:51 PM
1

Sounds like you spend too much time on the internet if you think majority of women shout this from the rooftops irl
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 08:41 PM
12

Source? Oh right, there isn’t one
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 08:41 PM
0

But why does being a slut have to be shameful?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 08:39 PM
1

Simply calling out hypocrisy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 08:36 PM
1

We’re not “unlearning” the concept of marriage, we’re unlearning that our worth relies on it. We’re unlearning the idea that we’re not allowed to be independent or our own people if we have a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 08:31 PM
1

That’s not what I’m saying
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 08:14 PM
1

You are wrong though.. and the numbers may be lower but it’s still happening so your claim that they don’t do it is false as well
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:30 PM
1

Strange logic, but i don’t have the energy or interest to come up with a rebuttal so I’ll leave it at that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:29 PM
-2

You veered completely off topic to talking about modern women learning how to become trans
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:25 PM
1

I saw that post it made me laugh, i really hope it was fake lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:23 PM
3

This could be said about the men here too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:22 PM
0

I’m another thread you LITERALLY just completely ignored the point in our argument lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:21 PM
4

Feeling like you’re close emotionally to the person you’re with, knowing their body and them knowing yours, knowing what you like and both of you catering to each other’s pleasure equally to your own
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:18 PM
4

We can accommodate to size, but that doesn’t mean that a huge dick won’t be uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:17 PM
0

?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:17 PM
11

Even if i have genuine desire for some hot guy i meet at the bar the sex still isn’t intimate and emotional ime
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:13 PM
1

That doesn’t mean we’re not still mentally unlearning though now does it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:12 PM
3

I can tell you it’s definitely not helping
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:11 PM
0

There is such a thing as too big. Maybe her husband knows how to use his assets better, maybe it’s more comfortable, maybe the foreplay is better, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:09 PM
1

I think we’d be too culturally incompatible
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:08 PM
3

You realize it takes time to undo all that conditioning that was forced so harshly upon us in our formative years
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:06 PM
1

Updoot
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:03 PM
2

We get a kick out of the men with problems dating who are also responsible for so much vitriol towards women. You can’t have both.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 06:59 PM
15

But you just said… it’s tough when you don’t find a random girl who wants sex at the bar
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 06:54 PM
2

How can you be sure🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 06:51 PM
-3

Maybe that mindset is the reason women are causing you so much misery
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 06:35 PM
1

The population is about 1/2 men and 1/2 women in the us so… even if some women skim from the top that still leaves plenty for everyone else yeah?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 08:21 PM
1

Try to convert women to what
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 07:46 PM
1

But here you are🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 07:35 PM
1

I’ve dealt with women, i still think they’re wonderful🥰🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 07:28 PM
1

Sure. Now I’m asking what you think their failure is due to, if not lack of likability
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 07:28 PM
1

True, maybe we should just all date each other
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 07:25 PM
1

So then what is their failure due to?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 07:24 PM
1

I just don’t understand your argument, and also you’re accusing everyone responding to you of doing it in bad faith lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 07:22 PM
1

Nah I’m with her,
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 07:20 PM
2

Wait so it’s womens fault for not liking you? Because likability isn’t important?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 07:17 PM
1

Pls do
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:07 PM
1

All genders don’t have commonalities this great
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:06 PM
3

You got stats that it’s so confined to those gender roles? I feel like it definitely varies INCREDIBLY situation to situation lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:19 PM
6

why are you talking about this as if every single man and every single woman are exactly the same as the rest of their gender… that’s not the real world lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:20 PM
1

Definitely not
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 12:09 AM
3

I love drama/gossip on reddit but i also like to be able to turn it off and go back to my perfectly satisfying life whenever i want to stop dealing with it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 05:04 PM
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Just because when i was young and naive and slept with the guy on first dates before does NOT mean i will put out for you. You are not ENTITLED to my pussy and i need to be wary about the SAFETY of my body and mind. Women need an investment from the man before opening her legs. Because i was manipulated and taken advantage of before and now i know my healthy boundaries that you need to respect and if you can’t respect that then the trash can take itself out🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 04:55 PM
7

yikes, I’ve seen some pretty questionable takes on this sub but this one takes the cake
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:59 AM
4

Literally all you’re doing is these comments is deflecting😭
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 02:56 AM
1

Again, you’re just assuming. You have no idea what’s going on in this girls head or what went on in her life in those two ywars
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:04 AM
1

That’s 100% assumption
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:55 AM
0

you’re doing a lot of assuming about a stranger you know literally nothing about
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:54 AM
0

I’m saying it’s not impossible for a persons standards to be 2 months before a first kiss
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:53 AM
3

And you can say this is true in every situation for every woman with absolute certainty?😅
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:29 AM
0

If he thought it was delusional then maybe that should’ve been a sign to him that they weren’t a match…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:24 AM
3

Yeah i believe 2 years is long enough to have an epiphany and grow as a person… and precisely. Like you said, you can do whatever you want in the present. Including learn from your past.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 06:56 AM
-1

How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 08:29 PM
1

What you said doesn’t have shit to do with my comment lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:14 PM
2

I mean free speech doesn’t mean free punches
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:11 PM
1

I mean just click the link. I’m also not for staying in a relationship just for the sake of not wanting to get a divorce but hey, to each their own🤷🏽‍♀️ I do agree everyone should be more careful about selecting their life partners before committing to them via marriage but alas, not everyone is that smart
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 01:34 AM
1

What are you on about lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 01:32 AM
2

Do you know why more and more women are filing for divorce? Do you know why the numbers are climbing? https://vardags.com/family-law/divorce-and-womens-rights-a-history because it was only recently that women were even given the right to divorce if they were unhappy. of course the numbers will skyrocket. not to mention how taboo it remains even today.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 09:59 AM
-1

Well if the person she’s insulting is spewing misogyny, i don’t think she’d like to be with him either…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 09:50 AM
2

Being on both is just hell when it comes to sex life :((
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 09:35 AM
2

But typically you’d try to fight to keep something good. Feeling the spark slowly fade isn’t as black and white as making dumbass choices lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 09:26 AM
1

Exactly😩
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 03:18 AM
2

It’s pretty easy with a stud, you learn to work around it! But sometimes when i have a sinus infection or allergies are rlly bad and I’m constantly blowing my nose it’s easier to take it out for a day or two
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 03:10 AM
1

Damn if ur boring just say so
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 03:09 AM
1

Same! My boyfriend knows that if he decides to tickle me, i am not responsible for the inevitable kick in the face that’s coming for him
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 02:48 AM
1

Eh trust me it gets old eventually BUT I’m happy ur having fun :)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 02:46 AM
2

But if they’re into it then who am i to judge lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 02:43 AM
2

If you’re looking for a home there, you could start your own yoga studio! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 02:39 AM
3

I mean i feel like majority of these women are in LTRs with guys who went to the gym/worked out regularly when they met and throughout the start of their relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 02:38 AM
2

I was arguing with a guy like the user you’re replying to yesterday lmao, you can’t reason with ridiculous 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 02:13 AM
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Actually, average intelligence is about the same between men and women. But men have a greater range. There is technically no “smarter” or “dumber” sex though
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 02:08 AM
1

😢
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 12:55 AM
1

oooh you got me😩😱🫣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 12:45 AM
1

It’s hard to debate ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 04:42 PM
1

Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 05:53 AM
1

It’s obvious we’re not gonna agree here lmao have a good day
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:33 AM
2

Agreed, LAX was my worst experience 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 11:26 PM
1

You’re comparing biological hardships with social hardships, not quite the same. Except for your example about the n-word, but that’s backed by history so again, not quite a social hardship
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 11:24 PM
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How about the men who wouldn’t even consider looking past a womens tattoos, n count, or style if she’s perfect otherwise?😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:30 PM
1

It’s funny how every man in this subs reason for misogyny is always just because “that’s the way things are”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:24 PM
1

that’s such bullshit lmao, it’s still the same action. if one person travels the world on a trust fund and another travels the world off their own hard earned money, they both still traveled the world,
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:23 PM
1

I’m not calling bs😂 have you seen that movie???
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:17 PM
1

I mean adulting does suck😩
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:17 AM
7

This one time in band camp
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:14 AM
44

I have no reason to lie. Their reaction to my past tells me if we’re actually compatible or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:14 AM
2

Or you can refuse to accept it and find a partner who holds the same values
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 11:39 PM
1

I think it varies person to person and it’s ignorant to base your lifestyle around what one gender as a whole thinks like
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 11:17 PM
2

The issue here is the generalizing. Probably about half the people i know live like you’re saying, but not the majority by any means
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 10:44 PM
2

What standards do women have for men that they do not uphold for themselves? (Nothing physical, only behavioral, like sleeping around)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 10:34 PM
-1

the “first insult thrown out” argument could be made for anything. people still use gay as an insult; but we all know that there’s nothing wrong with it anyway. we’re being held back as a society by the hypocritical men who cry “rules for thee not for me! don’t be a slut!”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 09:57 PM
0

this hasn’t been true in my experience, maybe it was 50 years ago but times change
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 09:39 PM
-1

Why is it not the same for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 09:30 PM
2

Or she doesn’t view him as ltr material
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 07:55 PM
1

Told my bf. He doesn’t care. His past mirrors mine and he’s not a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 07:53 PM
2

a sharpener that can sharpen many pencils is a good sharpener, a pencil that has been sharpened by many sharpeners is useless. we could make stupid analogies all day. it doesn’t justify the hypocrisy 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 07:52 PM
3

How high is your body count?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 07:47 PM
2

I disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 07:42 PM
2

What if I’ve got nothing to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 04:40 AM
2

No one’s entitled to an answer from a stranger 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 03:24 AM
2

It depends which men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 03:22 AM
1

I mean I’m all for holding off on hormones/surgery until they’re 18+ but if my 12 year old child tells me she wants to be a boy I’ll let her dress how she wants and respect whatever pronouns she wants to go by. Worse comes to worst and it is just a phase, then no harm done, and she knows I’ll always support her
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 08:25 PM
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Hahaha my advice to you is to get off the internet once in a while
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 07:05 PM
1

Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:29 AM
4

How do you know your perception of the truth is the real truth?🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:22 AM
5

what are u on about
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:21 AM
1

No let me live in my bubble they were perfect together
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:49 AM
2

Anything can become an addiction
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:52 AM
1

I definitely was until i met my bf, and most of my friends have definitely had their fun but i wouldn’t call them slutty
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:48 AM
1

this hasn’t held true in my or any women i knows experience, but generalize all you want🤙🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:41 AM
2

Same could be said for slutty women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:33 AM
0

Sure, women are the hypocrites in situations like your op
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:32 AM
1

I can’t help what turns me on man
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:39 AM
0

youre generalizing like… way too hard here
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:38 AM
1

Grocery stores by me are the same. it’s literally the same price if not cheaper to eat out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 05:51 AM
3

Generalize some more i dare u
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:45 AM
2

Congrats and good luck!! I heard emeralds can be pretty fragile so be careful! Sooo gorgeous though💚✨
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:45 AM
12

Or she can just own a few vibrators
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:40 AM
1

You got me lol, how about this one? https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/9125010/
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:35 AM
1

I left that mindset in highschool
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:32 AM
1

https://www.thetrace.org/2016/05/gun-ownership-makes-women-safer-debunked/
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:26 AM
1

Assuming they’re not drunk i mean haha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:24 AM
2

But that is how things work, many times women don’t know they need to use it until it’s too late
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:47 AM
2

When 90% of the opposite sex is strong enough to overpower you, and when you might not know you’re getting assaulted until it’s actually happening and he’s already close enough to take the gun from you, it becomes less useful than you’re implying
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:29 PM
1

So you’d be okay with your mother, sister, or daughter going for a solo run at night? What about walking to her car alone after the bar? What about going to meet up with a stranger she met online?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:22 PM
5

tbf, if a stranger in a bar invited me home to “continue the conversation” i would’ve assumed he either wanted sex or wanted to murder me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:44 AM
4

Oh wow, this sub really never fails to entertain
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:37 AM
1

I don’t think so
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:09 AM
1

You complain about women generalizing men and then u go and generalize women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:09 AM
1

What world r u livin in
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:06 AM
1

Men aren’t blamed for that, the patriarchy is
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 01:46 AM
1

I mean yeah because… what right do you have to set boundaries in regards to my sexuality/body? Also- getting an abortion is “holding herself accountable”. Would you rather the woman completely neglect the fetus inside of her because she doesn’t want it? Not to mention- if the next generation of children are raised as consequences to their parents’ actions, we’ll have a lot of pretty fucked up people
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:57 AM
1

I’ve been everywhere baby
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:35 AM
1

Lmfaoooooo okay
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:34 AM
6

ppd extra cray today
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:10 AM
3

What else is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:08 AM
1

As a former slut i can confirm it does lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:06 AM
1

and men can?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:05 AM
1

the next generation is gonna be pretty fucked up if most of their parents raise them as a consequence.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 08:01 AM
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even whores. 🤯, i know. though i do agree, please wear a condom.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 07:55 AM
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news flash: people change. constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 07:52 AM
1

maybe 50 years ago. times change bud
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 07:51 AM
0

but… if their partner is cool with it and everything’s consentual…. What’s wrong with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 07:48 AM
2

So you expect married couples who don’t want children to remain celibate their whole lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 08:31 PM
1

You’ve got this!! There is a future version of you who is so proud you did it :) but for now, take it one step at a time. Think about nothing but making a list, that’s the only move-related thing you need to get done today. Baby steps❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 08:51 AM
3

But it’s… been scientifically proven bud
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 08:50 AM
0

better to be safe than sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 08:46 AM
1

I’m 21 and most of my friends are married🥴 it really depends on location and demographic tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:05 AM
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What’s the n count double standard?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 12:39 AM
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What kinda toys??
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 12:34 AM
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🥹 is a new emoji from the last update
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 12:34 AM
1

Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 12:33 AM
2

Again, repeating yourself over and over doesn’t make what you’re saying true
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 09:58 PM
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Men give me more to complain about
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 09:05 PM
2

Says the guy who claims slut shaming no longer exists
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 08:59 PM
2

Just because you repeat this over and over doesn’t make it true lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 08:59 PM
0

Omg pls share
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 02:42 AM
2

Nature hike: take in the silence Urban hike: blast ur music through ur headphones
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 02:03 AM
1

Good point, though i do stand by the claim that for some people it most definitely is about just hating women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 02:02 AM
1

I mean even if it comes from a place of subconsciously hating women, I’d argue that it does because… look at our foster care system. all our school shootings. all the children growing up in abusive and neglectful families. all the children who are starving and homeless. it’s pretty obvious this isn’t “about the babies”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 01:49 AM
1

my parents sent me to another continent on my own when i was 17 but only because we had family friends over there that housed me and kept tabs on me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 01:34 AM
2

First one
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 01:34 AM
5

i recommend a hike and then a solo coffee date it’s my favorite way to decompress from the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 01:19 AM
7

If I’m the one with the diseases why do i care whether or not you wear a condom😈
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:26 AM
3

Good thing I’m 21😎
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:16 PM
1

I’ve literally only been told to smile more by strangers
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 09:16 PM
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if you see a woman walking alone at night, just keep your distance. it’s not the time to come up and prove that you won’t attack us
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 08:59 PM
2

So?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:04 PM
3

But if you’re down and you’re ltr material, why is she not for acting the same way?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 02:53 AM
3

His? Bc yeah me too haha
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 02:53 AM
3

When we’re talking about morals… yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 02:52 AM
6

But do you see how that’s a bit hypocritical?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 11:21 PM
7

Then why doesn’t she have a chance at an LTR with you? If you also do the very thing that ruins her chances?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 11:07 PM
6

So, why think less of a woman for doing something you also do..?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 11:05 PM
3

Can i ask do you regularly fuck on the first date?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 10:39 PM
1

Honestly, if i had sex on the first date and then the guy lost respect for me, I’d lose respect for him too. He also had sex on the first date, right?? Who wants to be with a hypocrite?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 09:00 PM
4

This month i hate men with a burning passion and i am only attracted to men who also hate men rahhhh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 08:53 PM
2

If you recognize me you frequent this sub as often as i do, you’re just quieter about it😏
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 08:52 PM
5

So is it not hypocritical of you to think lower of a woman for fucking you on a first date if you did the exact same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 08:47 PM
6

But you realize it takes two to fuck on a first date…?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 08:41 PM
0

These generalizations are harsh and just incorrect… they just do not hold true. Women are less introspective than reddit users? What?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 08:28 PM
2

I can’t tell if this is sarcastic
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 10:53 AM
15

The way you view women is the problem, and the generalizing them🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 10:49 AM
1

Im asking for clarification on what you’re on about lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 10:45 AM
1

It’s what they are complaining about and looking for? What?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 06:33 AM
1

😈
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 10:58 PM
2

I don’t even own a bra anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 10:52 PM
1

Stats on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 10:28 PM
1

Stats on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 10:27 PM
1

Felt
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 09:35 PM
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There is no set timeline to life. It sounds cliche but it’s true- everyone’s journey is so different it’d be ridiculous to try to compare and say “that’s where i should be” For everyone poppin out kids, there are plenty of people just like you still looking and hoping it’s their turn soon! I’m rooting for you❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 09:32 PM
2

That’s what irks me the most about this sub! The fucking generalizations that just don’t hold true
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 09:25 PM
1

Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 09:25 PM
2

You hit the nail right on the head
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 09:24 PM
1

This sounds like projection mate. Maybe this was the social norm 50 years ago but we’re making progressive strides now. I don’t know if i could date someone who repressed their emotions for the sake of being manly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 09:23 PM
1

Nothing really exists
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 07:59 PM
2

Fuck yes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 07:57 PM
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As long as i still respect him intellectually, feel challenged by the questions he asks me, ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 07:57 PM
2

You’ll be exhausted, but wishing u all the luck!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 07:56 PM
6

Get off reddit once in a while
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 07:55 PM
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I prefer Lana del Rey tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 02:17 AM
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Ya lost me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 01:55 AM
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And plenty of women do empathize with mens struggles. This is the problem with this sub and generalizing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 01:51 AM
1

nah you’re a legend
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 12:51 AM
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Tell me more
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 12:49 AM
1

Wait what?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 10:36 PM
2

Then why u on this sub?🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 11:31 AM
1

There’s a documentary on Netflix about this! I forget what it’s called though🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:30 PM
2

Second this! If you’re in with the bartenders, sooo many doors will open for you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:13 PM
1

There are plenty of social events open to anyone who wants to go, where you don’t even have to be invited you just show up
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:11 PM
1

I thought you just said you trigger women all the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:54 PM
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Both, + my mom if it’s bothering me that much
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 01:40 AM
1

Well then thank goodness my straight boyfriend doesn’t think like you😅 fair enough tho
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 01:25 AM
2

But for us, it’s more about someones personality that we’re attracted to. We couldn’t give a shit about the packaging. As long as the the person can get me off and they have a personality I’m attracted to i can find either girly parts or boyish parts sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:01 AM
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No lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:08 AM
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That’s a misconception actually, and most bi people i know (including myself) fucking hate it. Our sexuality isn’t a fetish. Bisexuality is not threesomes or drunk make out sessions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 01:12 AM
3

You’re into girls right? But can only have a relationship with one…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 01:10 AM
3

Correlation does not equal causation
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 01:07 AM
3

What why?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 01:06 AM
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Ah, well that’s still what i think
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 01:37 AM
1

I’m so excited to see where the crawdads sing i loved the book so much
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 01:36 AM
1

6.5 without, 7-8 with
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 01:28 AM
2

I’m still young but idk where to find them :(
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 01:16 AM
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I mean I’m a woman but no… you can’t generalize us all like that and expect your claim to hold true. I don’t even think that claim is true for most women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 01:15 AM
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Yeah don’t listen to this guy lol- that’s a good sign!! Rooting for you two :)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:58 AM
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my head hurts
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:55 AM
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it’s so ironic that you commented this on this post
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 11:10 PM
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Maybe… just maybe it all comes back to the claim ✨being a misogynistic belief✨
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 09:52 AM
1

you really think the government should regulate sex? A literal human instinct and our means of reproducing?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:10 PM
1

Freedom involves the freedom to fuck whoever you want 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 10:23 PM
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Lots of relationships ended this weekend, that’s for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:20 PM
1

You realize the USA was founded on the principle of freedom, unlike the countries you’re referring too. This plan would not be nearly as successful as you’re hoping.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:13 PM
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Jesus, this really is a war on women. It’s clear you dont give a fuck about the fetus, just about controlling people with uteruses
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 12:49 AM
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Bold statement coming from (assumingely) someone who will never be pregnant. If your argument is that it’s worse to be a father than to be a mother, why are we not on the same side? Why do you not support the option to just not bring another life into the world if it’s not wanted? That way you wouldn’t have to pay child support, or risk your health working to support it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:15 PM
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Okay? That doesn’t change the face that pregnancy and birth itself is hella traumatic on the body and mind
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:15 PM
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This says nothing about the experience of pregnancy, it’s just how many women have continued to work. It’s almost like they didn’t have a choice, it’s almost like inflation exists. It’s almost like some of them are continuing to work when they shouldn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 09:20 PM
1

Hmmm sources on that? I know lots of women who physically and mentally hated every second of pregnancy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 09:11 PM
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It’s almost like every pregnancy is different🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:44 AM
1

I mean good luck in the real world with that mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:30 AM
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For calling our your generalization?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:28 AM
2

You hit the nail right on the head
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:25 PM
3

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:25 PM
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I’m saying that any celebrity get more attention than the average person. Celebrities have a power complex, and people (not just women) tend to overlook their flaws. In Ted Bundys case the women supporting him thought he was an innocent, misunderstood handsome man. Celebrities are on such a different level than average people that they can’t really be used in this argument tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:24 PM
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😈 ur speaking my language
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 10:27 PM
5

Is that not a human phenomenon?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 10:27 PM
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Likely because of the fame aspect. That tends to overpower a shitty personality. But for anyone who doesn’t have the spotlight on them, yeah dude, personality matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 10:26 PM
2

because it sounds like absolute horseshit on a surface level lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 10:10 PM
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Lowkey i would fuck a clone of myself
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:52 PM
1

Hey dude, I’m proud of you! Keep it up!! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:51 PM
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This is a dumb generalization lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:50 PM
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These guys were manipulative liars. They put on a mask of a good personality/behavior. You really think Ted Bundy would still be getting bitches if they knew he was a murderer?😅
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:49 PM
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This whole alpha widower argument has to be the stupidest thing I’ve ever heard in my life tbh hahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:47 PM
0

What do you mean by that lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:41 PM
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looks get your foot in the door, but if your personality and behavior sucks, you better believe your “options” are gonna disappear real fast
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:34 PM
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what do you mean?! women can find a date anywhere even if they’re in the middle of taking a shit! how dare you insinuate it’s even remotely possible for a woman to struggle with dating, there are more than enough men to go around if only she would give them a shot! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:33 PM
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There are too many generalizations and too many social circles and too many perspectives for this post to be even remotely true. Reality is not this black and white, I’m sorry to burst your bubble man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:29 PM
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I’m willing to change my mind if you show me the specific evidence you’re referring to, and if it comes from a valid source.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 08:37 PM
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The burden of proof is on the person making the claim. What’s the specific stat you’re referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 10:34 AM
1

Got stats on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:36 AM
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The amount of generalizations going on in this sub is actually insane
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 12:09 AM
3

Good lord i hope you’re joking
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 11:53 PM
1

Maximum freedom to choose who they want, not at all responsible if that choice turns out to be shitty? I’m sure no woman intentionally chooses a partner she knows will turn out to be shitty, although i know that statement is quite controversial on this sub🫣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 11:44 PM
1

Classic victim blaming mentality lol. If he lied and manipulated his way into sex, that’s on him. he’s the one in the wrong. I’m this imaginary scenario I’m sure this imaginary woman is already blaming herself enough
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:42 PM
1

Or maybe he didn’t show his true colors? Maybe he manipulated and lied his way into dumping his load in her?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:34 PM
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i personally can’t run a mile, and I’m in pretty good shape. I tried last week and had to walk 1/4 of it, which was pretty disappointing bc I’ve been working out lately. I just hate running lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:32 PM
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your second point: no. It’s on the man if he’s a shitty partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:30 PM
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Wait i don’t get it what are you saying
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:16 PM
3

Finally somebody rational on this sub lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:04 PM
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oh man, the misogynistic generalizations are real with this one. this mindset won’t get you far in the real world kid, grow up
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 07:50 PM
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I was looking for this comment
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 07:46 PM
1

so having a lot of casual sex increases the chances of this? i feel like it’s not that black and white man. also just as much of a chance for men to do this
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 07:22 PM
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So… in the context of your original comment, an alpha widow is someone who’s always comparing you to her best sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 11:01 AM
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So many false generalizations in this post bro
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 10:59 AM
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What the hell is an alpha widow
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 10:41 AM
0

Wait hi we are the same person hahahahha except I’m the American version of u
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 01:46 AM
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