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DiscussionUpbeatInsurance5358/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 08:10 PM
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DebateUpbeatInsurance5358/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 11:27 AM
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Isn't this just bisexuality?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 08:37 PM
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.....and you think "most women" are messing around with each other? You're not going to lesbian bars and nightclubs are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 08:36 PM
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Well, good for you. Just seems like a ridiculous amount to sacrifice for a faintly shitty fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:49 PM
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What a miserable life this sounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:34 PM
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"most women" are messing around with each other when drunk, are they? Where are you seeing this?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 09:19 AM
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And the women who are straight?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 08:49 AM
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I don't know if this is true to the same extent any more. I'm a bi woman and it's far more acceptable to be a gay man than a gay or bi woman. Now a bit man I accept is still very taboo.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 07:29 AM
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Good lord men will grasp at anything won't they?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 07:25 AM
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Do you kiss and make out with other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 07:19 AM
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I don't quite see what reaction you're trying to get, I don't think there's a problem with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:41 PM
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Then there's no problem is there?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:19 PM
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LOL, that's very true, I can't deny that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 04:52 PM
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So...your answer is for everyone to be lonely. At least it's efficient.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 03:44 PM
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"That emotional intimacy is part of the monopoly women currently have. There are no products available today that can provide that. Eventually men will invent them of course. We are good at solving problems. There will come the day when you can buy emotional intimacy on a store. My bet is on AI." It never fails to astonish me that men are blaming women for being their emotional base and trying to make robots instead of even thinking of communicating with others about their feelings. Utterly baff…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 03:22 PM
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But men can buy replacements for women. Unfortunately, men require the emotional intimacy of sex far more than women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 03:17 PM
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Men absolutely do need to find better ways if coping with the world by finding their own place in it, and by not relying on women to do this for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 03:14 PM
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So it's not actually anyone's role?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 01:27 PM
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Then why aren't you, as a man looking after your children?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 01:21 PM
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Why should women work for free whilst men wouldn't dream of it? Are you going to work as a familial role?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 01:19 PM
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That's because there isn't many 50/50 relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:13 PM
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👏👏👏👏👏👏
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:11 PM
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Exactly why I find it appalling, when women use such terms to cancel us. It shouldn't be seen as a lowly role. You're not being cancelled, you're being called out for your use of language and your use of women's bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 10:43 AM
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So you're acknowledging that this is a job?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 10:09 AM
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You're outsourcing the care of your children. They are your children, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 10:08 AM
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It's also a bloody horrible way to describe someone you claim to love and care for.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 09:32 AM
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"Someone has to take care of the kids like you can't outsource that job to someone else" Men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 09:32 AM
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"It's definitely not free labour when you are providing them shelter and the bills for every basic need." You've put it in monetary value.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 09:23 AM
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"It's definitely not free labour when you are providing them shelter and the bills for every basic need. I don't like it being capitalised like any other work." How can you go to work if nobody is cooking, cleaning, shopping, caring for your children. You cannot go to work without the foundation in place. They're labour is as essential as yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 09:22 AM
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Are they choosing to be home, or are they recognising that men will not be doing the share that's needed from them to be part of a partnership?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 09:20 AM
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No, I'm saying that throughout history most women have worked. They've been cleaners for richer people, seamstresses, washerwomen, wet nurses, nannies, wig making, teacher, etc. Any work done to bring in money is working outside the home, and most of these can be done at home with the children around. And they always have been done by women. Honestly, "bang maid" is such an abnormal, misogynistic statement for the person who provides the foundation for men's lives and enables them to go to work,…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 09:19 AM
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It's like people don't know that women have worked throughout history too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 08:17 AM
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But isn't she working too?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 08:16 AM
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.... that's not how lies work. Santa wasn't made real because kids believe in him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 06:02 AM
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I used to when younger. I actually did enjoy the company of the men, and the sex was good so I stayed around.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 05:59 AM
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Yeah, it's just what gecko said really 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:16 PM
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Most women can give you their own stories about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:14 PM
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I don't see what's so terrible about wanting a regular sex life. I like having regular sex too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 04:16 PM
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If course they do. Paying 20% of your paycheck isn't parenting and you walk away. Or, you look into if you can sign rights and responsibilities away.
/r/MensRights29/04/26 06:07 AM
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By not parenting. Literally walking away.
/r/MensRights28/04/26 03:58 PM
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Yeah, no we know what it is. There's a specific list of charges that tells people what it is. Who is "they"? Because I've never, ever met a woman who thought that regretting sex was rape. Although TBF I've only ever known women regret sex with men who were shit in bed but only because they were shit not because of anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:50 PM
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Why do they need a justification for having consensual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:26 PM
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It depends on what they're lying about. Sometimes yes. It's why rape by deception exists as a charge.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:26 PM
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If you've lied in order for a person to have sex with you, you haven't gotten permission.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 01:55 PM
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It's possible to use a person for anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 01:54 PM
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But the father can walk away from it.
/r/MensRights28/04/26 12:26 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 09:29 AM
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I absolutely agree that women are every bit as visual as men. It's in a different way, from what I've seen for men visuals are better piecemeal, in close up form. For women, we like the whole picture as opposed to a picture of a single body part. I believe it's because men are a potential danger to women, and we have developed strategies to address this like not letting men too close too soon, requiring different levels of intimacy etc. I'm not saying it's necessarily perfect, but it's something…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 08:30 AM
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Absolutely, and surely the best you can be is what's best for yourself? I know I don't want a partner who's completely based around me, he should have his own life, and care about himself and his own development as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 12:21 PM
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Except that women aren't telling men to do this stuff specifically for them. This is men's interpretation and their advice to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 09:35 AM
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It is true, the counterculture tends to be more about women's bodies being a tool for them rather than just sexual or even decorative. Obviously looks are always a part but that's natural Again, algorithms 🤷‍♀️.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 05:36 PM
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Men really are obsessed with dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:33 PM
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Because they're brought up indoctrinated into the thought patterns of straight men, believing that men's bodies are unattractive while women's are only sexual in nature. It's so pervasive that there's a counterculture currently happening against this thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:31 PM
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Yes. As ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:22 PM
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Well yeah. That comes under the whole "buying consent" bit, not thrilled but I think realistically it's up to the workers themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 04:07 PM
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I'm a bit confused about this. Men absolutely can have all the sex they want. They just have to have a willing woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 04:01 PM
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And 100% of the men cheating are also partnered up, so odds are they aren't looking for a serious relationship. "Yes. And I deal with it by making sure that what I bring to the table and what she could lose if she cheats on me is better than what any other man interested in her can offer." Yeah, good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:36 PM
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Most men will not because prostitutes don't sell long term exclusivity. Most men who already have a partner/spouse are not looking for long term exclusivity. "Fair. I forgot to mention that I would know if she cheated and she would lose the benefits of the relationship when I find out." But she can find another man, right? Isn't this most of the fear for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:28 PM
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Not all men can cheat because not all men can find a woman interested in them. Of course a man can find a woman interested in fucking him. Cheating is purely sex outside of an agreed boundary within a relationship. A man can fuck anyone interested even if he's paid a sex worker. It's still cheating if it's not agreed upon and not known about. The fact that her life outside a relationship with me would be way worse than her life inside a relationship with me. Nah, that doesn't mean she won't chea…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:32 PM
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This doesn't make sense. If all women can cheat, can all men cheat? And if she knows you're the best she can do but that you don't trust her, what's to stop her cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 02:41 PM
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Men will never understand how little of a threat that actually is 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 02:06 PM
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Yes he can but the subjects run out much much quicker than they otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 01:43 PM
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Because I actually like to talk to my partner, and share our lives and conversations.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 01:12 PM
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He had a choice. He chose to not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 11:06 AM
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Well, what's the value (for a woman of course)?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 08:15 AM
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Yeah, it is. But if you cared you'd know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 07:44 AM
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😂 Yes, it was a master stroke of genius to twist the words a man saying "there's no value in it" about raising his children to infer that he doesn't see value in raising his children 😂 We know men see it as pointless, which is why you really can't be bitching about the state of childcare and custody. And you DEFINITELY can't be bitching about your dad not seeing you when you openly acknowledge that he wouldn't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 07:43 AM
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Yes, most women are straight. I'm really sorry. Also; we don't have pillow fights in our underwear, we did teach each other to kiss and we didn't practice our masturbation in groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 10:37 PM
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Right? I have to work, clean, cook etc and keep the family diary. When I'm not thinking it's 1am and I'm a bottle and a half of wine in, doomscrolling in front of Brooklyn 99 and that's once a month!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 10:31 AM
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He's not trying to get it back either.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 08:01 PM
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You're proving my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 08:00 PM
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I do, and from my experience everyone needs to be needed. Unless obviously there's some form of PDA profile, but on the whole being needed gives people a reason to get up in the morning. Doing your part in a relationship isn't being used, it's being needed and it's genderless. And honestly, if men are leaving their children then there's not really anyone else to blame for their kids being raised the way the woman would raise them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 09:23 AM
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It's exactly what he said. Right at the beginning he said there's no value in it. And changing the rules is exactly why people need to still be fighting for rights - including being a father. But they're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 09:21 AM
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"Because there is no value in it."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 08:17 AM
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This has been written like women are actively "puppet masters", pulling strings and watching for things breaking. This sounds exhausting. And very boring. It doesn't sound like someone you'd like, does it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 08:17 AM
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Look, you confirmed that men don't see value in raising children with your own complete lack of concern about your ex. I don't actually agree with this btw - from my experience men value parenting when it's on their own terms. But since ths is so rare for parenting to be on the parents terms, very few men would actually practice it. As for your dad, I'm sorry that your parents divorced. But that's often just life and you as the child are stuck in the middle. And honestly, most divorces happen fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 08:02 AM
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And they are unable to speak with the woman about changing this?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 07:50 AM
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Because there is no value in it. And now we know why boys are being raised by grifters. Because their dads don't care. At least you're honest about it. Now don't ever tell us that family court is a problem for men Some men want to do it but women are quick to remind us how much they hate our presence. Some men want to do it but it's long, hard occasionally boring work and you don't get paid. Or breaks.And you get sick a lot. And men don't value it and wonder why women get frustrated with that la…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 06:34 AM
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Yeah well I guess this is just a common gender difference, when men complain we always want solution, the simpler and more extreme the better. In the OP, the woman is complaining that a) she is a "kissless virgin". She's also complaining that she doesn't know how to flirt. Do you know the very very obvious solution to this that's non predatory? You tell her some signs of flirting. For all of this, it's the single most obvious solution you could have given. But you didn't. Not one man did. Women …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 06:30 AM
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It's interesting that you don't have an answer to the concept of men being happy...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 02:35 AM
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So you're saying that men are happy being needed by women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 02:32 AM
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And those men both refuse to seek the help they need, or they really do enjoy being needed? Then why aren't they taking over the parenting in order to break this (obviously) hideous cycle?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 02:28 AM
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So you're saying that men are not only terrible parents but are also incapable of communicating to anyone that they're better parents and then leave?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 02:22 AM
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Then why aren't men parenting their children?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 02:13 AM
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It really is. Same, there's a legitimate worry for men that a lot of decent men can't talk to a woman because the rest have ruined it for them, and the woman has a reasonable reason to be suspicious. This is not that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 02:11 AM
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Problem is we run out of actionable solutions once we take "let's see if we're compatible to date" off the table. Except that talking is an actionable solution. Literally, a message occasionally saying how was your day? Is an actionable solution. And moreover, you're not required to provide a solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 02:09 AM
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It's frightening that so many men are incapable of simply talking to women without wanting to exploit them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 04:20 PM
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"How would you address the issues of woman expressing weaknesses or loneliness, without predating her?" Do you believe that this is asking women how they like to be treated?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 04:19 PM
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Well this is just fucking terrifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 10:00 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:09 AM
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Can I just point out that literally everything OP has written here essentially says that if a man sees a woman expressing weaknesses or loneliness, he's going to predate the fuck out of her? And that OP is suggesting it's women being selfish for not doing this?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:09 AM
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And why should women do this with men they don't even know?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:01 AM
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Because we shouldn't have to be married to expect a man to not abandon his child. Also, marriage isn't actually a great deal for women outside of that bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 07:10 PM
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Abortion is legal here too, but if your baby is 6 months and the father left after the birth, you're pretty much stuck. It's less a relationship safeguard than an offspring safeguard. If he leaves and you're married, you're still doing all the parenting but at least he's officially responsible for at least a bit of finances. Babies are expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 12:13 PM
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I wear makeup to look like Morticia on Halloween.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 11:59 AM
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What does richer have to do with it? And realistically, as socially progressive as people are, as long as women being abandoned with the children by the father it will be a worry for women - consciously or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 11:55 AM
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I think it's because marriage has both pros and cons. Con - you're married. However, the problem is that you're married. He can't knock you up and leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 11:25 AM
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An entire generation without poor male role models too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 08:16 AM
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I think this is not the question being asked?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 05:21 PM
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"Asking"? Where did I say asking? I said you have to get consent. It's really easy, you talk first and if they don't answer you leave them alone. How old are you? Just so I know how bad to feel about the fact that this needs explaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 05:20 PM
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wtf, you need to get consent to talk? Well yes, otherwise she's not talking to you. Any further and it's harassment. But the difference realistically is whether the woman already wants you to pick her up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 05:12 PM
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forced That's your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 05:10 PM
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I've seen men fucking a hole in a fence. Just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 05:09 PM
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Consent
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 05:07 PM
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this^
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:25 PM
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Ian Brady. Fred West. Horrifyingly awful people, both of whom were as ugly as sin. But they got letters. Because women are people, and people can be just awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:13 PM
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Yes, it is the bare minimum. That's the point. I know a lot of men who aren't doing this but are angry that women aren't interested. They aren't understanding that there's no reason for anyone to be interested in a physical relationship with them, male or female.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 11:22 AM
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I keep hearing men saying women aren't attracted to the average man, but I keep seeing the average man with a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 09:08 AM
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No i am expecting women to not gaslight avg men that they are attracted to them. Can you explain this? I genuinely don't understand what you mean? The gaslighting of avg men needs to stop. Women can never be attracted to them and they need to stop saying they can. Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 08:47 AM
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Oh, my kids had some great teachers, most of which are male. I had some great male teachers too. Male role models are important.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 08:39 AM
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This is what you're worried about? That some women are stupid enough, or sad enough, or lonely enough (remember this whole "women don't get lonely" thing?) to talk to men who are actively BEHIND BARS and they cannot reach them? Talking to serial killers isn't "spreading legs" that's a really stupid stupid idea. Are you expecting justification that women can sleep with who they want, regardless of who it is? Exactly the same as you can?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 08:38 AM
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Make teachers absolutely. I'm all for proper gender balancing in teaching. Red pill can't be legislated within the curriculum though, I'm afraid. It's considered indoctrination.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 08:34 AM
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No, I won't. What I'll mention is the lobbying I did to keep male mental health wards and treatment centres open. Unfortunately we failed in this - because men weren't using them. They were in A&E when they skipped all the treatment and their liver failed or they had attempted suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 08:33 AM
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Yep. I also posted a link from an article about a well recognised brand of people treating multiple types of substance abuse, mental health issues and are noting the massive gap in genders seeking treatment. We can go back to the old chestnut of male suicide if you'd prefer? I mean, men keep telling us how much worse it is for men - so why aren't they seeking help?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 08:31 AM
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Ah. So obviously puberty blockers would also be a part of this conversation, yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 08:27 AM
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https://www.priorygroup.com/blog/40-of-men-wont-talk-to-anyone-about-their-mental-health
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 08:13 AM
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YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH!!! LOL, sorry couldn't help that. But seriously, why are you clicking on things that obviously upset you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 08:12 AM
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What's HGH?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 08:10 AM
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Yes, look at the rates at which women are helping and treating and caring for themselves in a world that's far more complicated than it used to be. Meanwhile men are still committing suicide rather than seeking even recognising even a bit of weakness.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 08:00 AM
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Except they're not, are they? They're not improving their education, they're actively refusing to care for their mental health and maintaining friendships and some are putting all their identity (and their personality) in their bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 07:53 AM
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Women aren't working, caring for their bodies, building and maintaining friendships thus helping their mental health and caring for children and also their parents at a certain point?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 06:13 AM
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I don't know, it wouldn't surprise me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 05:58 AM
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Perhaps it's that women are already doing the things men are being asked to do to improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 05:57 AM
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prison pen pals" of murderers (the group keeps showing on my Facebook timeline), That's weird. Why does it keep coming up - are you clicking it regularly? If so,..... okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 05:56 AM
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I'm good with a 50/50 split in teachers. It would be interesting to find the men to do it though. I'm not sure leg stretching should be in the curriculum though. Perhaps self care, confidence, how to take care of a house?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 05:53 AM
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Realistically, if someone lied about their body to the extent of 10 inches in height, I think some gossip would be expected. Women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 05:05 PM
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Algorithms are a ride, aren't they?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:37 PM
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This has nothing to do with it, but it's driving me mad. Nonchalant is one word.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:36 PM
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I agree, they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 11:34 AM
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Because we love the men we marry. Shocking concept, I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 08:10 AM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 04:55 AM
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What bullshit. Men still have to be attractive to the woman to even get a second look. It's just that women have a broader spectrum of what traits they find attractive than men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 04:54 AM
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Well, the last person who slut shamed me was my ex husband as he had his hands around my throat, so yeah, I'm a bit sensitive about slut shaming these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 08:52 PM
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That's kind of the point this isn't not picky, this is "anyone" level. Would you want to be "anyone"? Like others have said, it’s settle or starve. This is also the point. You're treating women like a resource you will die without, not like a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 03:03 PM
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Agree on the whole, but I'm still putting this here https://www.google.com/search?q=statistics+of+anorexia+nervosa&oq=statistics+of+anorexia+&gs_lcrp=EgZjaHJvbWUqBwgBEAAYgAQyCggAEEUYFhgeGDkyBwgBEAAYgAQyCAgCEAAYFhgeMggIAxAAGBYYHjIICAQQABgWGB4yCAgFEAAYFhgeMggIBhAAGBYYHjIICAcQABgWGB4yCAgIEAAYFhgeMggICRAAGBYYHjIICAoQABgWGB4yCAgLEAAYFhgeMggIDBAAGBYYHtIBCDgwODNqMGo3qAIUsAIB8QV79oFyYauVwA&client=ms-android-google&sourceid=chrome-mobile&ie=UTF-8#lfId=ChxjMe
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 08:42 AM
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"What's an average decent woman to you?" I just want to point something out in this. You've basically described....a cardboard cutout. One who might be slightly underweight or maybe not, works (most women work). me personally i want to be scared of my mines a little bit Based on this I'm assuming that you want to be smarter than you. (Realistically, most women will generally let you be the smart one until you fuck up the finances. Then you'll be the smart one who doesn't pay the bills any more.)…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 08:40 AM
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average decent women What's an average decent woman to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 05:53 AM
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It's fascinating that acknowledging the realities and the actual murder rate that specifically men are killing women at is being considered hate speech. But not those actions. Interesting, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 05:48 AM
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It's really fascinating how "fat" is sliding right back to the 80's and early 90's heroin chic in the public awareness. All while anorexia has the highest fatality rate of all mental health disorders, and has for decades. Meanwhile social media is doing its upmost to continue this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 05:43 AM
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Not really massively relevant, but - you should be having high standards in your dating - otherwise you'll end up with the wrong one, and honestly it can be soul destroying if you pick the really really wrong one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 05:37 AM
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violence And yet men are still covering the murder bit comfortably...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 07:55 PM
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1 whole sub eh? Wow, we're really breaking into a male dominated industry there!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 07:30 PM
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If women didn’t work in corporate America previously, but do now, how much does that increase the work force by? A) women have always worked in corporate America apart from about 10 years, and even then it was only after marriage. Through economic supply and demand, does that increase supply of labor? By how much? What are downstream effects of this? Couldn't this be solved by men dropping out of the workforce?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:47 PM
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Ok. "The actions and behaviors that feminism promoted and took upon our society. Sexual liberation, women in work force, rejection of organized religion, etc" I'm going to assume that you mean how dare women get jobs, have a choice in who they want to fuck, so forth etc etc? So tell me this......why should they be punished for thinking they're humans?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:20 PM
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And yet you didn't give an example of accountability that you're expecting from women. What do you mean by accountability?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:58 PM
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Right, and the downside seems to be that it's pissed men off because men are still killing women very regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:50 PM
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Why? You asked a question, I answered a real, actual issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:47 PM
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Have you looked into these scenarios?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:47 PM
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The murder of 2 women per week by men who are or have been involved with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:40 PM
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Which actions and behaviours?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:39 PM
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Surely there should be some recognition that women aren't actually killing men, while 2 women per week are still being murdered by men who are or have been close to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:37 PM
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accountability There's that word again. Accountability for what?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:24 PM
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Nothing wrong with a man learning social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 10:09 AM
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What you're missing is that different men and women are into different men and women. And attractive males are extremely rare. Said as a man who isn't into men, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 06:51 AM
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But here you are angry that you cannot control women's sexuality. Why is this different?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 09:28 PM
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"need" or "want"?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 09:22 PM
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Destroys potential pussy sources. In laymen's terms women might say no?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 09:22 PM
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Why? There's still lots of places to buy sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 04:31 PM
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Nope, not a jab. If women wanting bodily autonomy is that much of an issue, and obviously we know men are down for sex more it makes a lot of sense for you to go to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 04:18 PM
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Why would it make sense for a man with a harem of women? That's really not going to do anything to keep a group alive, is it? If there's just one man, what happens when all the women are pregnant? Can he hunt and care for all of them, protect all of them? No. But 3 men to 1 woman? All those men can care, hunt and protect the pregnancy. 1:1 seems to be a vanishingly small group of humans, especially given our relationship rates. I think realistically we can write that off. And I don't know if mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 04:14 PM
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Not really, women are sex partners. Perhaps you're just better off with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 03:54 PM
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Based on this don't you think the theory that the majority of men are bisexual and men and women would have lived in groups, with perhaps 3-4 women and 10-12 men would be evolutionarily advantageous?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 03:53 PM
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Surely simply going and paying a prostitute is even easier and thus leaving people alone is even easier?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 03:52 PM
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What does this mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 03:51 PM
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Evolutionary psychology is law. Why would you think this?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 03:50 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 03:49 PM
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So you agree it's on a par?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 10:30 AM
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For women to take their clothes off it requires 0 effort except to be naked. Men are paid to do jobs that require 0 effort other than to be strong. They can literally hand bricks to builders, push wheelbarrows of dirt around and put them where they are told. Why is one a legitimate job but the other isn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 06:21 AM
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I think that having an OF account is only empowering if you also reveal your personality, talk about serious topics, the state of the world, politics ... while at the same time posting pictures that are so hot that it's very hard for a guy to withstand the temptation to pay for your account. Why? This is still essentially demanding double from a woman that's demanded of a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 06:18 AM
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What degree is the average woman abused to?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 09:03 AM
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I'm not sure transitioning is the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 07:33 AM
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Well, why are you dating women if you don't like them? The answer is generally the same - because you'd like to have a partner if you're life, and you're heterosexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 07:32 AM
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"Since I’m not gay, sexual compatibility is kinda dubious. "
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 10:19 PM
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Which proves you have no concept of what she actually goes through, since to you it's theoretical.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 10:18 PM
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Who are we talking about here? I mean, he said all of that. You just have to read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 12:26 PM
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Name another dynamic where things are done how the other person says when the other person says or the relationship is terminated. Why are you dating people who act like this? Is this actually what happens? Why is it getting so extreme that women are actively leaving you because of your housekeeping?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 12:17 PM
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Your partner isn't your boss.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 11:54 AM
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Well done for pointing out that Harvey Weinstein withheld jobs from women who wouldn't sleep with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:25 PM
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Usually a very angry/sulky man 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:22 PM
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Most men aren't attractive unless we're talking about a gloryhole thing, but then that probably doesn't make enough money. Bullshit. You've literally said earlier that unattractive women can be sex workers. So can unattractive men. It is available to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 08:33 AM
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It is also a backup that men can turn to
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 08:32 AM
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There's something very flawed about equating straight men having gay sex to women doing sex work. That's just not the same. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 08:31 AM
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So what you're saying is that there's absolute proof of a vested interest for men to be married, while the opposite for women? Don't men live in these houses?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 08:29 AM
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That backup option is to be ok with being single. Men can also have this option.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 08:26 AM
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Genuine question here - and? What is this actually in aid of? There's no opinions, no discussions, just a load of studies. What was the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 02:09 PM
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endless and absolutely unproductive This is the best description. No matter what you say, as a woman you can't possibly know your own mind/body/life/preferences etc. If that’s how people try to debate, or resolve their differences irl then gosh… idk how that can ever lead to a healthy relationship They don't have healthy relationships. Most of them don't have relationships and are angry/wondering why.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 01:57 PM
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Yeah, my nan, grandad & mum moved down to Cheshire and I went with them. Even the accent is gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 12:44 PM
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We can't think like men. I don't mean biologically, I mean societally.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 12:07 PM
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Same tbh. It used to be quite enjoyable, that there was some men who were shitty because you're a woman but most were here for a genuine debate. It's definitely not that now. I do find I have to duck out for a few days every so often, the vitriol becomes a bit much.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 12:05 PM
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You will just say more bullshit then the avarage men Based on your post, are you able to actually say this?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 12:03 PM
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But really no. To the extent that you can play a game of "girlfriend or lamp".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 11:43 AM
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Haha that's fair. I enjoyed the play on words, but I enjoy language, and couldn't bothered thinking of anything funny. Spent some of my childhood in Harpurhey, I'm not allowed to be anything other than a red or I'll disappoint my grandad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 10:55 AM
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Okie dokie. I like your name.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 10:27 AM
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I'm going to disagree there. Most women are here to talk, but refuse to be men's emotional football.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 09:51 AM
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The hatred, belittlement and dismissal of women based on their gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 08:36 AM
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Well yes, yes it is. Congratulations on knowing the basics of consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 08:26 PM
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I think we all have now, they're not having it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 02:29 PM
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Also the female doctor stuff Really? This is how you're going to describe a woman being gang raped, battered to death and raped with a metal pipe? "Stuff"? And yet men are still upset women don't believe them when they claim to give a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 01:38 PM
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Not anyone else, you. What do You intend to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 01:23 PM
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What do you mean "won't let you"? Are women putting you in prison? Force feeding you on hunger strikes? Are they torturing you for daring to take your full paternity leave? Because stuff like paying for the meal is still expected for men even if he’s homeless and she’s a billionaire? Have you thought of not dating that particular woman? Have you thought of having standards of treatment? Have you thought of not going out with a woman who doesn't split the cheque?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 01:22 PM
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Usually if I see this its because older women doubt the man will be loyal to her and there could be consequences to his actions like another child out of wedlock. This is not it. It's because the woman is very vulnerable, cheating isn't really a major part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 12:53 PM
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It's a tough one. As a woman who was a SAHM and ultimately ended up very vulnerable and in a very difficult situation including multiple forms of abuse, I couldn't in all honesty recommend it. However, I don't understand being angry about it. If it works for them it works and I wish them well!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 12:52 PM
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What do you intend to do about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 12:45 PM
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Then why aren't men removing their own barriers? What barriers would you particularly want to remove for yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 12:44 PM
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Naah most men are now ready to do 50/50 and Okie dokie....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 12:43 PM
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I'm fairly certain that the whole concept of consent means that sex is optional for absolutely everyone in a relationship. It's pretty terrifying that anyone would think that sex shouldn't be optional since there's already a name for this.... You mentioned you “still” have a high sex drive thereby implying that it might go away at any moment. The question said did the sex drive start high and plummet. But the man still has to uphold his expectations to the fullest right? I don't know what this m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 12:04 PM
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You'd best start saving up for a surrogate then.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 11:31 AM
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TBF a shocking number of people need to be told this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 09:22 AM
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I still have a high sex drive and I've never liked a partner with an entitlement to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 09:20 AM
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When exactly were the exams?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 07:10 AM
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Except this is literally just recognising compatibility that's somehow still managed to be worded in a misogynist manner. It's ok to say you want a compatible partnership without throwing insults for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 07:05 AM
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What about not feeling able to speak out would suggest respect?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 07:03 AM
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What does respect from a woman you are in a relationship look like to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 07:01 AM
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Except it isn't. It's just bullying.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 04:37 PM
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Women neg men a lot too. Many women humiliate their bf or husband based on his pens size, his sexual performance, using his vulnerabilities against him, etc But that's not negging. It's not supposed to make the man want to date her. Negging as a "strategy" is supposed to make the other person want to prove themselves if you will. Its not a men or a women issue. Its just people who are insecure, but not just insecure but also have resentment (either towards their partner, her past, her friends, o…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 01:59 PM
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It also sounds like something those women are now, as opposed to who they were before the kids. It's very common.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 09:00 AM
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Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 08:59 AM
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Honestly? Competence. Be competent, and do what you say you're going to do. Or be where you say you're going to be. Literally it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 08:58 AM
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Maybe the women are fucking each other. Got tired of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 08:45 AM
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I'm unsure what this has to do with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 01:33 PM
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Absolutely! There's usually reasons to leave a relationship, no matter how silly society deems them - if someone is willing to break up a relationship over them, they're obviously important.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 02:57 PM
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but you didn't so this statement also throws shade as the woman by calling her a liar or a manipulator under the assumption that OP is being honest with his breakdown of events. Where does it say any of that? She's openly saying that OP is omitting information on purpose. Why would that mean that the woman is the liar?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 04:13 AM
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Exactly. I found mYy late 30's the grief was more about the older family members passing away, friends moving away or friendships changing structure, jobs, less about romance and more about the passing of time. Weirdly, now in my 40's I've accepted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 04:10 AM
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And imagine getting into relationship, working hard providing everything and she leaves you because she’s no longer ‘feeling ‘ it, regardless of the kids This isn't "stupid" - this is loneliness. It's isolation. It's feeling trapped and taken for granted and used. Men and women leave for all kinds of reasons that can be classified as stupid or freedom of agency etc. No gender is more innocent than the other in this respect And I haven't said either gender is more innocent of anything. I just peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 04:05 AM
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Because it's not semantics? The language he's using is painting a picture of someone who may not actually be Miss Haversham. Honestly, it's all sounding rather dramatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 03:53 AM
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You.... don't think hormones have anything to do with bodies? How strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:17 PM
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Wait, you think women with families, jobs and everything else have a whole 30 minutes? Fucking hell, I'd have killed for 30 minutes! I'm now at the age where my kids have started to disappear upstairs to bedrooms, and I'm absolutely lost! It's been literally decades since I had the No, most women with small children and jobs don't have 30 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:15 PM
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Disagree entirely. Plenty of women love their husbands and its extremely delusional to think otherwise. They do yes, usually because they met them under less manipulative circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:02 PM
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Imagine getting into a relationship, getting married, being pregnant, giving birth, raising babies, running a household and he leaves you because you are no longer thin.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 10:26 AM
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What is the normal default, and is it following the law? That's really weird, I don't understand why people wouldn't want the father involved unless he's unsuitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 09:51 AM
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But is it grief? How can it be grief for something that hasn't been experienced?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 09:47 AM
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Tbh I don't actually know a single woman who's "crushed" about being single. I know a few who are finding it difficult because of other parts of their lives, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 09:46 AM
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Then men will have to start being useful again.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 03:17 PM
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Then you haven't got a leg to stand on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 09:44 AM
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If you're happy to accept drug addiction and hospitalisation, that's not accepting of flaws - it's active self sabotage and 0 standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 09:35 PM
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And then men complain that women's standards are too high when those standards are "not a drug addict with a history of hospitalisation".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 09:32 PM
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So the issue is that women can now choose men the way men have chosen women for milennia, and discovered that human nature isn't very nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 08:01 AM
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Oh definitely.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 08:00 AM
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So your issue is with frameworks? There's so, so much here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 07:56 AM
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"disagreeable" 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 07:31 AM
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Probably. However, I would NOT cry misandry and oppression. Why not? Do you not believe that just because your lack of physical strength is your biggest feature (!!!) would you not be worthy of autonomy?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 07:30 AM
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just because they typically have a hierarchy that gives men authority over women Riiiiiiiiiight. I'm not saying I subscribe to their beliefs, just stating that there is no inherent hatred of women in those religious beliefs. Why don't you subscribe to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 07:26 AM
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Sucking nipples is not a skill. One can still be bad at sex while good at sucking because any man can do it. I disagree. I've been with plenty of men who do not understand that sucking is supposed to be pleasurable for the owner of the nipples too. They're never good at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 07:10 AM
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Can you please start telling men to have better standards about women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 07:07 AM
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But it's still not baggage....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 01:10 AM
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Then men should be caring for their children more.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 11:42 PM
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Got what?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 10:56 PM
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I'm not sure why she should get more money She shouldn't. His children should. And since the children are with their mother - after all, in a divorce in which the woman was a SAHM the children are definitely better off with their mother since they won't know their father as well - then the mother should be receiving the money on behalf of the children.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 10:56 PM
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Asuming there is nothing you can do to effect your partner's behavior is a lack of accountability and will result in bad relationships for you. What does this actually mean, on a practical level?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 10:33 PM
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Oh, absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:55 AM
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So..... you're showing off your object. You still seem to be making the point for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:55 AM
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Yep and yep. ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 08:52 AM
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Because men can steal your pretty object....?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 08:46 AM
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From what I've seen - for men, the single most important thing in the world is the approval of other men. And men unfortunately value women's looks and bodies, and use them as a trophy for other men to approve of, like currency.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 06:28 AM
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There's zero consequences for most rapists regardless of wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 06:25 AM
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Ah, ok. You don't need to debate too much tbh, as while I don't believe that marriage is a punishment for men or a force into monogamy, but I also believe that sex work is legitimate work, and the people who provide it should be employed in a manner similar to any other corporate environment, hopefully meaning a pushback on trafficking and people who want to use their services would be free to - behaviour dependent of course!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 10:55 AM
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Do you really believe that no man wants anything other than sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 08:19 AM
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That's because it is incoherent. Can you put your thesis into laymen's terms?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 04:05 PM
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Holy Chat GPT batman!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 03:54 PM
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I don't think it's prudish, it's how you feel 🤷‍♀️. It's completely fair and equal, so it's not unreasonable at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 02:23 PM
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Fair enough, do you think the same thing about men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 01:49 PM
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Agree with the first paragraph - but why would you assume that a woman who wants casual sex is fucked up?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 01:09 PM
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Bingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 05:56 PM
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Nothing. It has absolutely nothing to do with sex with a legal adult. Unfortunately, it has everything to do with the sexualisation of children by society and a portion of men in which fertility doesn't play a role.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 10:06 PM
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It's not. It just makes them feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 05:24 PM
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The only thing I know is that the first time a man displayed a sexual idea about me, I was in my primary school uniform. At a certain point it's not about fertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 04:54 PM
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I agree this is what looking after yourself means. What seems to be the level of OCD within this?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 02:37 PM
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Explain to me what "looking after yourself" looks like to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 02:06 PM
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Which part of "looking after themselves" is OCD?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 12:58 PM
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Really? Science says men are incapable of looking after themselves? Although tbh I have another man complaining that he wasn't given a gun as a child, so you might be onto something 😂 Bisexual woman darling - already do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 11:00 AM
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More young men should be taking more risks to know that those risks have consequences. You think more young men should be killing themselves unnecessarily? Just because you enable more risky behaviors (for young men) doesn't mean it's stupid. Yes, yes it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 10:32 AM
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Meh. He proves the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 07:13 AM
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I gendered it cause men are mostly into those things, even at younger ages. Please tell me how it is stupid? Really? You need to be told that things that people use to kill themselves are stupid things to own regardless of the age? Again, owning a gun or motorcycle/car at a young age is a great example of adult responsibility that would help maturation into adulthood. But hey, it's stupid according to you. Men aren't growing up because mostly shitty mothers (and lesser degree fathers) don't let …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 07:13 AM
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Herein lies the problem. Those are markers of masculine leaning proclivities you called 'stupid'. Sure dangerous, but not stupid. We are not here to argue if dangerous is stupid. Right, so because it's 'masculine" it's not stupid? Dude, it's stupid. I wanted a job and autonomy, not to play fucking video games at a young age. Instead of being rewarded for showing ambition and drive, I was punished. Maybe I should have just lied on job applications without permission from parents to get job, but t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 10:00 PM
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Would you buy your (hypothetical son) a shotgun or a motorcycle if he asked for one (let's say he's 16-18)? Or at the very least, allow him to earn if it that's what he wanted. Why ever would I think to buy anyone anything as stupid as a shotgun or motorcycle? That's not an adult, it's an organ donor. You had the choice to play games. You could have gotten a job anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 07:00 PM
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I’ve had ex-partners who couldn’t cook or do certain basic adult tasks, and it’s just as silly to say “girls just can’t grow up” over the fact that I didn’t pick the right woman if it kept happening, why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 02:50 PM
4

So do I.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 02:47 PM
13

Can we stop blaming women for boys refusing to grow up?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 02:20 PM
2

Can you confirm if this is agreeing or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 10:23 AM
1

I'm not sure how this relates to what was being said? Surely if men aren't mind readers either and they don't know what the reaction is they simply shouldn't approach?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 07:18 AM
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Exactly. I'll take the stress of a workplace and a mortgage thankyou!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 07:41 PM
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Women's lives are still stressful, but nowhere near as much as it used to be. Autonomy is a wonderful thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 07:33 PM
1

Yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 06:00 PM
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I have no awards but 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:47 AM
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Sorry, it was meant to be for dudebro, but still the whole conversation....... WOW 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:46 AM
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"forgivable"?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:45 AM
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I get banned for 3 days for autocorrect but this will be here forever.....
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:43 AM
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Or he'll get lucky and recognise that he had someone literally make a new human and perhaps her pussy wasn't his to bitch about.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:41 AM
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"forgivable"?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:40 AM
4

So... You're complaining that you can't be an asshole any more because women won't fuck you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:17 AM
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I'm not. You're saying you can say literally anything that pops into your head. Can you say literally anything, including the above?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:39 PM
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So you're telling your friends how much you want to fuck their family members etc? You're telling your friends you need a shit? You're telling your friends about the Romans?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:16 PM
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Your gender is statistically more neurotic What do you mean by "more neurotic"? Genuine question.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 10:30 PM
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Why do you think that's unequal? Yes, a lot of being a woman physically can be shit. But imagine having the testosterone peaks and troughs that men have ** every day**. I mean, there's actually even less stability there, and being naturally weaker is shit but women have the endurance genes. We simply outlast them. Most of our issues are based on the construction of society, not actually our natures.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:12 PM
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Lol that's a very good point. I had forgotten about that 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:37 AM
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What's hypothetical? Because not one single part of that is gendered. All of that is part of being in a relationship and being a parent. All of it. I mean... holding doors open? Really? All of the above duties are part of being an adult in a relationship. If you don't want to do them don't be in a relationship. If you are and you're not doing it then you're caring for an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 10:55 AM
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And a guy with a full beard who's throwing a tantrum is still a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 10:31 AM
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It's not sexually stimulating to anyone. Men don't like it either - it's why they make sure they're the breadwinners.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 10:30 AM
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Are you saying your spouse literally does nothing? She has no hands? No job? Is she not caring for the children too? Is she not being a good mum? If not,why are you still with her instead of taking the children and caring for them better? Does she do no financial planning? Why are you expecting to have a child you can fuck? It's very strange....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 10:14 AM
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Only by people with parental issues. Most of us find it creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 10:12 AM
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Yep. And the making and distribution of small livestock.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 09:12 AM
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What if they don't want one?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 09:07 AM
7

A wedding ring never protected women from stds.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 09:50 PM
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Oh, I don't think they're the most miserable they've ever been. Ever seen the sherry drawer of a housewife in the 50'? Let alone the pill cabinet.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 09:48 PM
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Well, yes they were. Were any of the thousands and thousands of free men committing suicide happy? Would they have been better as servants?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 06:31 PM
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Monogamy isn't the problem, husbandry was the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 05:33 PM
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Most people are happier out of captivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 05:32 PM
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🤷‍♀️ as a woman, I've been literally every name under the sun except that one .
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 12:56 PM
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But somehow woman are seen as this flawless beings without any taint Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 11:38 AM
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When the reality is it depends on what he's saying and how.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 11:38 AM
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I agree with you tbh. Misogyny is the hatred and disdain of women, and the language around all this stuff matters. . people get so many subjects mixed up, but because they're all spectrum of one issue which realistically is the objectification and dehumanisation of women as a culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 10:07 AM
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Everything is misogyny, including things mutually exclusive (such as "talking to women" and "not talking to women"). I'm not sure what you mean here?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:43 AM
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This is the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 10:50 PM
7

This doesn't answer any of the questions above.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 09:56 PM
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All countries will justify male violence somewhere. And what country do you live in that think child abuse/neglect is reasonable because they hide behind religion? Again, all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 06:01 PM
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You’re underestimating how easy it is for bad people to justify being terrible. An abuser just accuse his wife of cheating, with no evidence, to start beating on her. Given it was my ex husband, I'm really not. I'm pointing out that it's a socially "justifiable" excuse. So yes it is like blaming religion for bad parenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 05:53 PM
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Yep, and using the word "slut" gives him one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 05:49 PM
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I apologise, I wasn't trying to derail. I was more pointing out that the objectification and abuse doesn't even wait for puberty. However, I'll always accept hugs and send them right back!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 05:48 PM
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Well, as a woman whose husband held her by the throat as she held her toddler for the perceived crime of being a slut, I'd say that it matters a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 05:32 PM
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Women use flowery language about sex because if she doesn't she might be considered a slut. And as we know, women specifically cannot be both humans and something else - so.if she's a slut she's no longer human and as such can be used and hurt however the wrong man feels like. And we don't know who the wrong man is until it's too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 04:25 PM
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It's all still not working.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 04:17 PM
4

It's obviously not working....
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 04:17 PM
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I was 9.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 04:16 PM
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What is societal duty? What do they need to be accountable for? What do they need to be responsible for?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 04:16 PM
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They can.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 04:15 PM
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Welcome to the absolute basics of feminism. - people can be really shitty. - women are people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 04:13 PM
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I don't actually know many who are? I know many seem.to go by "taller than me". Personally what I've seen is a lot of women quite happy single but being pushed into dating, so they make a lot of ridiculous "standards" that nobody will ever reach but these women can tell their mum/family (realistically, that's who this is about) that they're looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 11:31 AM
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Hey look, my point has been made! Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 05:01 AM
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The bit you're missing here is that there's a (large) subsection of men who will not ever believe that a woman is telling the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:10 AM
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So you're denying misogyny on your own post about denying misogyny?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 02:08 PM
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So your general answer is yes, women are oppressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 02:06 PM
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They kind of are, generally you have to like someone to have sex with them, even if it's purely physical.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 01:37 PM
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Mine is the opposite. I like hairy bodies. However, my partner shaves, and that's his preference - and because I love him, it's my preference for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 10:21 AM
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Fucking hell, find a new fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 10:10 PM
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It means what happens when you do it to the wrong person? Do you think there's never any consequences to being shitty, or do you live in the real world?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 11:49 PM
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So what happens when you do it to the wrong person?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 11:37 PM
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Bingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 10:33 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 10:32 PM
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I am not paying for sex cause that is going to shoot my mental health. Why? You pay for other services, and by the sounds of it you don't actually want to have any real connection outside of sex. I can find time for friends if I can get achieve this but I have also been told this takes at least 10 years to develop. I'm not sure what this means - do you think you can't make friends until you have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 05:17 PM
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Women have always been expendable to men, they're just upset that women don't have to put up with it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 02:39 PM
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It's getting really weird in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 02:38 PM
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Yeah, no you didn't. A fuck buddy and a fwb is the same thing. You have to make time, especially if you want to fuck. And to fuck you have to get to know one another slightly first, she has to know you're not dangerous etc. And honestly, if you're this desperate to have sex and absolutely nothing else, a prostitute is your real answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 02:21 PM
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when you're 37 years old having friends is incredibly difficult, I run my own business on top of my job which saps that out. If having friends is difficult, a fwb is going to be even harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 01:59 PM
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Why do you assume women are settling if they're with someone they like?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 08:30 AM
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It's fascinating how many people remove women's agency in dating all while complaining that they don't have any agency.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 08:28 AM
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Too slick means liar. Lots of people dump liars.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 06:00 AM
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What? Can you explain more clearly?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 05:46 AM
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What does this mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 05:29 AM
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Are we really throwing teenagers into the mix here as well? I mean, we all know and accept that this whole thing isn't normal - but we're putting teens in it too?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 04:02 AM
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The answer is to get yourself into therapy, which won't solve your problems - but it will give you the tools to help solve them yourself. Which is the whole point of therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 08:27 AM
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Except that women aren't food...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:00 PM
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Not completely - we had 2 children in 11 months, and he emotionally walked away while I was pregnant with our second and basically lived as a single man who lived with a woman and 2 babies - including financially - then became physically abusive while she was a toddler. But no, he didn't do anything around the house in answer to the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 04:44 PM
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Is it a friendzone, or has the man decided that friendship is less important than sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 04:42 PM
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This is the answer. The relationship makes for the sex if you work at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 04:40 PM
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No, it's spoken like someone who didn't have sex for the last 3 years of her marriage because sex wasn't the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 04:39 PM
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Partner. People get bored if it's just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 04:06 PM
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You've got such a good name. Don't ruin it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 06:31 PM
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Yea, and it was obviously aimed at a real person that OP was having an argument with. It's specific and it's bringing what was a personal beef out into a public forum. This is very odd behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 02:37 PM
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It's not an insult, it's advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 02:35 PM
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Please put down the phone and go outside. This is weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 11:27 AM
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Yeah, it's really weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 11:26 AM
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What a very weirdly specific post.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 09:13 AM
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I have 2 kids. I don't think there's a single non sexist person around when it comes to parenthood, no. I love my kids, but the difference in life changes for mums and dads are markedly different - because society doesn't believe men can parent as well as women. It's sexist as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 09:00 AM
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Society is made up.of people, partners included.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 12:12 AM
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It's probably no help, but I just wanted to let you know you're not alone. Hormonal BC caused me severe anxiety and depression for 2 decades, switching and swapping and ending up with eating disorders, antidepressants and spent 20 years trying to lose weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 11:56 PM
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Tbh It's a bit the pregnancy but the majority is more the societal role expected of motherhood and the lack of parental roles expected of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 11:51 PM
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Because life changes so so massively as the mother that it's unrecognisable. You can be unrecognisable, for a very long time. It's easy to lose yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 09:58 PM
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Except that alimony is genderless. And why would they make life so much harder for themselves if the marriage is going well?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 09:55 PM
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A payout of what?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 06:22 PM
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Sometimes yes. I certainly sometimes wish I was the father of my kids instead of the mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 12:52 PM
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What about the guy who doesn't do anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 10:55 AM
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She also knows that passive people are rarely actually passive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 03:09 PM
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You're saying no rock song has ever sexualised women? Have you met the Italians?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 02:53 PM
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And this is proof that you've no idea about people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 01:10 PM
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Yikes. Your opinion doesn't equal a fact mate, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 11:48 AM
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As a woman who isn't conventionally attractive, I can understand men's points yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 11:06 AM
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Yikes. Raise your bar 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 10:25 AM
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So....misery is looking for company?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 10:24 AM
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Thing is selecting only for assertive men technically increases the risk of these. Passive men by nature are less likely to take action, which includes bad action. Wow, it's painful how wrong this is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 10:23 AM
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Absolutely yes, quite agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 10:59 PM
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What do you personally expand from a woman in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 07:23 PM
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Men give women everything that they think women should want.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 07:19 PM
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Then why is the issue with women specifically? No one is the problem. I'm sorry you're lonely, it really is crappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 07:13 PM
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And yet the whole point is that they can choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 04:04 PM
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Of course it won't, you have to fix the issues yourself. That's the point. Therapy is catered towards people who use it as a tool to help themselves fix their situation. Stop expecting others to do the work for you and it should make for a better outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 02:51 PM
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It depends whether men are actually seeking the help they need or not. Based on the statistics, men who insult and emasculate men for seeking help. So men are pretty fucking misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 02:49 PM
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"They wouldn't have had to be raped and held captive if they actually liked men the same way men liked women✌️ Also ideally everyone should be picky about changable traits from a moral standpoint. If women didn't praise and give away their holes to abusive promiscuous Chads who don't give a shit about them, but were attracted to normal looking men and picked them if they were good people, it would be great. But women are picky about uncontrollable superficial traits instead"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 02:48 PM
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So they literally like everything about women besides behavior of some of them. They want love, romance and realtionships with women. No, they like and want their bodies. Nothing else. That's not love, it's not romance and it's certainly not a relationship. While misandrists hate men as a whole, and everything related to them And why is this worse than misogyny?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 02:29 PM
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Men are human too (wow) and want to feel empathy, compassion, support and care from others, especially their loved ones and relatives. No way, right? I meant more are you looking for sympathy or answers, help or venting? I did word it badly so I apologise for that. They listened but didn't care lol What does caring look like to you? Just take it on the chin and work harder" type of advice adjusted to every individual case, sometimes with insults I recognise this isn't the point you are making, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 12:37 PM
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Nobody can give empathy for something they haven't dealt with. Sympathy, yes. Care, yes. Expecting more than someone can give is unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 12:24 PM
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So...your issue is that women can choose, and still use the tag "heart of gold"?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 12:23 PM
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It's not related to hate towards any particular group of people Except women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 10:58 AM
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"Most misogynists don't really hate women" Yes, yes they do. They like the look, the smell, the feel of women - but they don't actually like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 10:57 AM
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Why are you looking for empathy? Did they listen? Give you any solutions? What was the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 09:46 AM
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Women are insanely hypergamous now, it's hilarious that women had to be FORCED to be with men of their own attractiveness level for the entirety of history😂😂😂 So you're agreeing that women have been raped and held captive by men, and as such men have now proven that women should indeed be "picky "?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 09:31 AM
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It's impressive that you've managed to ignore millions of years of rape and thousands of years of forced marriage (aka legalised rape).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 09:20 AM
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Have you asked your mum/sister?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 07:50 AM
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Dating isn't harder than ever before. Dating is new. This is the thing to remember. Before this, it wasn't dating it was choosing because women didn't have a choice. Women now have a choice. The playing field is completely new for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 07:49 AM
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Companionship, sex, remembering birthdays etc. Wtf? Remembering birthdays? Why aren't you expecting more from your relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 07:46 AM
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Is it "nobody" or "women"?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 07:03 AM
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Kind of my point, the equivalent of porn for men is porn for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 11:07 PM
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Fair point, I suppose it's smut rather than romance. Which means that porn is equivalent for porn? I mean, it's still porn it's just the media that's different?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 10:40 PM
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The equivalent of porn for women is generally romance novels. The equivalent of porn for women is porn. Romance novels are porn. And for men, the equivalent of sex toys is flashlights and things like that. So....sex toys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 10:28 PM
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This seems very specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 10:24 PM
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You believe placing and standing by boundaries is "forcing"? I mean, you can choose not to date these women yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 08:28 PM
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Except that porn and toys aren't an equivalent. Toys have an equivalent and so does porn, and it's toys and porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 08:02 PM
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if she can't orgasm without toys, does she have a toy addiction? Yeah probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 08:01 PM
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Then don't go out with women who have sex toys, and definitely don't have sex with women who give ultimatums of any kind. However, does it happen often that women say "toys or no sex"?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 08:00 PM
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This doesn't say anything about clairvoyance.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 07:53 PM
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I work in one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 10:04 AM
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Accountability for what?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 12:19 AM
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I keep hearing about this clairvoyance, but never from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 07:30 PM
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Are you standing in women's windows, watching? Stop it. There's a name for that and a criminal charge or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 07:29 PM
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But most of the complaints here from women are that men aren't improving for them, not that men don't want them. How can they gain self awareness and externalise something that isn't a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 07:28 PM
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This isn't true at all anymore though. Yes it was years back but nowadays this along with many other fields favor women, especially when it comes to getting jobs in these fields. so they will be the ones to mostly benefit. I'm not talking about Jobs, I'm talking about health and safety. Seat belts don't fit women. Cars are made for men, so women die. Well men have their disease that make life way harder aswell, ones that can affect men early on in life at that. So, its best to just not play the …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 06:39 PM
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Not really, the post doesn't say she was complaining that men didn't find her attractive - it says she didn't find them attractive. If she's not bothered why does it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 05:58 PM
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Who's crying? It sounds like you're more upset than anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 05:06 PM
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Being shitty is being shitty. Blaming your behaviour on other factors is also shitty. You don't have to. Nobody has asked you to. Simply stay away from women, or even better treat them like humans instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:32 PM
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Then don't feel bad for them. Just stop being shitty to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:04 PM
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Because she isn't? It's weird how many men will add an insult to a woman who isn't attracted to all men. Really, really weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:03 PM
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"why are women like this" Spends a full paragraph on what a woman looks like with 0 relevance to the post*
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:01 PM
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Ah. You're that dude who has to have the last word with women. 🐈‍⬛🐈‍⬛🐈‍⬛🐈‍⬛
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 01:22 PM
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Right, so you're making my point for me. It's not universal since men keep leaving their offspring. So, why do you not believe that another person's feelings or body type (!) is relevant?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 01:21 PM
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I don't know what that means?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 01:15 PM
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Ok, continue to treat women as things and I'm sure it'll all work out in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 01:11 PM
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I think the amount of single mothers suggests that the desire is not to reproduce and as such cannot be considered completely different.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 12:42 PM
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I said that men are privileged in that most education, healthcare and h&s systems are geared towards them. I didn't mention men doing anything about it, because most men don't even know it exists, let alone do anything about it! Honestly, nobody has blamed men. Acknowledging privilege isn't assigning blame. It's not expecting them to do anything. It's literally just acknowledging that there's things that don't make men's lives harder. As for women doing this about it - we have. The only reason I…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 09:48 AM
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Yet, somehow, it is women who live longer Of course women live longer, we're designed to. We're supposed to help our daughters care for the grandkids. Men seem to be designed to jump off cliffs and things 🤷‍♀️. go to the doctor the most (which does have a positive effect on their health), Yep, and we go back and back and back until we're not told it's just anxiety or our period or to have a baby. and the government funds it more for them Well yes, pregnancy tends to be quite invasive as far as m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 09:32 AM
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It depends if you're also considering the other 23hours of advertising. There's a reason most people don't do it - we're too lazy, and that's not a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 09:26 AM
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For 60 years the incentives men had to cultivate chivalry, like loyal, supportive femininity, have been erased Good! I don't want to be seen as fragile and breakable and a piece of medical equipment to be treated carefully because I have a natural ability to take your sperm and make another human. I'd like to be seen as another human being who does this as part of a loving, caring and equitable relationship. The rest isn't worth the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 09:25 AM
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Mars? You live on mars?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 09:19 AM
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We stopped saying that to women in abusive relationships decades ago. 😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 09:19 AM
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Then perhaps this dude has a point that men need to be less controllable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 09:18 AM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 09:18 AM
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❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 07:32 AM
1

Except that the men don't do work when women are around. So really, women without men are the solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:47 PM
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Did you know women are 73% more likely to die in a car crash? Because the safety equipment for.... Pretty much everything is made for men . https://edition.cnn.com/2022/12/15/world/female-car-crash-test-dummy-spc-intl Heart attacks kill twice as many women as breast cancer. Because people don't know the signs of heart disease or attacks in women - because the standard teaching is based on male symptoms? https://www.bhf.org.uk/what-we-do/news-from-the-bhf/news-archive/2019/september/heart-attack-…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:45 PM
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I don't know, I'd say having the entire world having you as the standard, including in safety and healthcare is pretty privileged.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:36 PM
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Plenty isn't most.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:23 PM
0

Should it be the expectation? No but No. The answer is "No".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:23 PM
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It means a woman has chosen not to have sex on the first date. I didn't know it was supposed to be such a big deal? If a man is this upset over something this straightforward, he shouldn't be dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:20 PM
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I agree completely. I didn't mention gender for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 12:22 PM
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You would if you didn't know
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:58 AM
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Except that you don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:17 AM
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Rapists don't only stick to the grotty pubs....
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:16 AM
1

And this is the same as wearing clothes how?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 11:32 PM
2

You......you needed Google? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 07:23 AM
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I'm not sure you understand the concept of empathy or compassion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 11:55 PM
2

Holy homophobia batman!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 10:52 PM
1

LOL true. I just preferred Echo.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 07:38 AM
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.....I don't think many women have ever met that many men who don't have a deeper voice. Most men are also taller than us.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 10:04 PM
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Ok. I don't think a woman has ever said to me that he must have a deeper voice than her 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 10:00 PM
7

What are the right moves?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 09:55 PM
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But that still doesn't make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 09:45 PM
10

Of course, why wouldn't I?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 09:44 PM
1

And now so am I. And I'm finding the Lost Boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 09:43 PM
6

Men can't control having sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 09:34 PM
4

What the hell are you going on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 09:32 PM
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"Most women never have flings at all, tho. Most women will only have about 5 sex partners in her entire life, and almost all within a relationship." "Most women are butt ugly" What a weird reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 09:30 PM
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I wouldn't take issue with men having sexual standards within numbers if the man is also practicing what he is looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 09:28 PM
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I'm a bit confused about the dissonance here?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 09:19 PM
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Echo and the Bunny men, Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 09:18 PM
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There probably are, but I'm not sure a person who is raped and keeps the pregnancy is really going to want the acknowledgement of responsibility by the father in this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 08:47 AM
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Because they prefer to listen to men generally, and refuse to listen to women. Apparently we're inscrutable 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:44 PM
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They always were curated for the male gaze, since men don't listen to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:06 PM
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Wah wah wah "women"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:43 PM
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"Many women see men as just a means to an end." So you didn't mean anything about using, just that women expect men to contribute?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 10:54 AM
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So you're saying that people aren't expected to contribute in any fashion in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 10:49 AM
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Many people are. It's interesting that you've ignored everything else. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 10:42 AM
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Well, normal. They looked like men. Some tall, some short (one was 5'3 but average was probably 5'7 or so) fat, thin, dark hair, blonde etc. I spent a few hours talking to them and if I enjoyed their company and found them to be as safe as possible in that situation, we'd leave together.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 10:38 AM
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Yes, it is. Your point seems to be "women are shallow bitches who expect me to contribute". I'm saying everyone is expected to contribute in a relationship in some form or other.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 10:30 AM
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The guys I've had ONS, flings etc with?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 10:29 AM
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There's not a person alive who would be with their partner without adding anything to their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 10:22 AM
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That makes no sense whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 10:15 AM
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It says. He continued to try to sleep with her again.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 10:15 AM
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They're obviously not that good friends if they're taking such delight in making you this uncomfortable and embarrassed....
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 10:10 AM
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Agreed 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:59 AM
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She didn't continue to, that's the point. Why aren't you reading?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:58 AM
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It's really simple - they're lying. They know how much it affects you and they're winding you up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:56 AM
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Bisexuality exists, and there's A LOT more men in that category than are willing to acknowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:54 AM
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A lot of these "chad" posts are feeling like they've been written for a Hollywood film.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:53 AM
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Providing that many students with accommodations drastically lowers the credibility of degrees from Standford Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 02:04 PM
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40% of Stanford undergrads receive disability accommodations. Wouldn't this be things like dyslexia?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 10:09 AM
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they think that they're ready to deal with being a husband and father when they're really not. This. This is what does it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:26 PM
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What? Are you genuinely expecting women to tell you their intimate thoughts just because you're a bit insecure?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:31 PM
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So you're expecting women to just.....tell you their most intimate thoughts, feelings and sexual desires? Why would you ever expect that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:23 PM
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So wait, are these women broadcasting their sexual preferences? Are they broadcasting how they like to be fucked? Position preferences?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 03:56 PM
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Probably because we're not broadcasting our preferences especially for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 03:28 PM
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The point is that every single woman who gives birth will come out of it slightly worse at best. Do you have any state in which this is the case for you as a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:15 AM
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Absolutely, I agree but I think we've lost the point of the original post. The post said that women should say they don't want kids but not to hide behind medical reasons and that pregnancy and childbirth really isn't all that anyway. I was semi agreeing with him, but I don't agree with the dismissal of injury that many people (realistically usually men) use with regards to women's bodies and the attitude that women shouldn't care unless it's about how a man might find her attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:09 AM
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No, it's not. It's antinatalist propaganda. Intentional disinformation. No it isn't. It's the truth. There's no woman whose body is exactly the same again after pregnancy and childbirth. This is 100% disinformation. The reason it's medicalized is because the medical cartel is successfully preying upon women's higher neuroticism for money. It's that simple. I'd imagine it's more to do with the mortality rates rather than just "women are crazy". Which is sexist as fuck btw. Most of the world doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:59 AM
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So you couldn't actually figure this out, could you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:54 AM
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It means all women will get something. You're only going on moderate to severe issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:51 AM
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Nothing. That's not the way gestational diabetes works.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 11:00 PM
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Regardless of the reasons, even if they are completely arbitrary, at the end of the day, it's your body, your choice I absolutely agree. If you don't want children, don't have them and own it. Women should be able to do this (I had my children in my 30's and my 20's I was harassed about having kids). I disagree with the "100% injury rate" take. This is factually true. Pregnancy changes a woman's body at a cellular level. It really is 100% injury rate, whether it be peeing when you laugh or sneez…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 10:58 PM
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You will take the 100% chance of side effects.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 07:20 PM
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Except that pregnancy and childbirth has a 100% injury rate. Women think it's worth it - and also, bloodlines are never traced via a male lineage. No woman who ever gives birth is ending their genetic lineage. Perhaps we should be recognising that its ok for women to not want children, and that it's certainly ok for women to not want to take part in a process with a 100% injury rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 07:20 PM
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Being prediabetic from eating like shit for 30 years, and being 50 lbs overweight at 5'0", definitely can result in gestational diabetes Except it's nothing to do with it. It's based on your kidneys and liver function, which unfortunately are being used on the foetus. But of course as a man who's given birth and been given all the information by his midwife you obviously know all about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 03:20 PM
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None of this has anything to do with how a pregnant progresses in a woman or the damage it does. Soda doesn't cause gestational diabetes, nor does it cause the need for a C Section. Honestly, if you're going to spout shit please pick something else to do it about.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 11:12 AM
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statistically significant causes of death for women. Because that’s why we have seatbelts, free screenings, and are trying to improve visibility on nutrition. So what do we do about men?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 04:10 PM
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You don't believe 600 women being killed is important?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 04:01 PM
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Which adds up to over 600 more women....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 12:54 PM
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Of course it doesn't, it means effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 09:51 PM
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As long as a man has rights to his children, he has an obligation to them as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 11:09 AM
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I disagree. I think both genders prioritise attractiveness as the foot in the door. It's just that this is seen as normal for men and bad for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 08:40 AM
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Do you think prioritising sex is a good way to go into finding a partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 08:39 AM
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No women are saying "no good men left". But women shape the offer, not men. This is also evolutionarily true. Men's traits are shaped by what women choose. If this was true women would be choosing more and men would actually be listening to what women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 08:38 AM
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❤️❤️❤️❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 08:36 AM
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I believe men prioritise a woman's attractiveness over everything else, yes. I don't believe nothing else matters, but nothing else matters quite as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 08:34 AM
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Men dont give really that much fucks who they can fuck like This is absolutely untrue. Men's opinion means much much more to men, and men will bully other men for who they are seeing unrelentingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 08:32 AM
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" because most women filtered out good relationship traits for things that sexually excites them." You're saying men don't prioritise what they like sexually?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 08:31 AM
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The expectation of impulsivity and emotionality. The insignificance if sex .......
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 08:25 AM
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I am not autistic, so I don't know what they do for them Try reading the answers given. None of my friends or I has any emotion that would require venting really I would put money in that this isn't true.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 08:22 AM
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This also seems like a large amount of pressure to put on a person. Why would you expect your partner to single handedly handle your mental health?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 08:19 AM
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The stats don't support what you're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:53 AM
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It's interesting that women dating the same way as men do is considered "terrible".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:48 AM
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I remember that women aren't actually cars?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:46 AM
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I don't think you really understand that women aren't objects.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:43 AM
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women entice men So they sell themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:42 AM
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Ehhh even then not that common. Maybe for men in their 30s and women who are older than that. But not for men in their 20s Given about 2/3rds of men in their 20's are having sex, it's.... pretty common. Yes they do. Most of the highest voted attractive men are usually older men Really? You're leaning on George Clooney, James McAvoy (who is my age but I suspect you're including as "older") etc? Be realistic - they're not exactly the norm, are they?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 06:55 PM
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Most older men have more resources than young men Which is why most younger women are looking to have sex with younger men rather than relationships. And they actually do have an attraction for older looks No, no they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 04:35 PM
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No, no they wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 04:34 PM
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Most of the men here seem remarkably anti-social. I've seen guys post photos of themselves here and they absolutely would get laid in at least several of my social circles How is this saying that sex is a reward for good behaviour?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 09:41 PM
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Because women already create consensual encounters as part of a regular sex life?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 08:18 AM
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But they aren't high. That's the point. They're just not being met.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 07:19 AM
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I'd say about 75% of men would be upset if his female partner/spouse etc earned more then him - however I think about 50% would learn to get over it with time. The other 25% would not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 07:09 AM
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Except that doesn't say women's standards are higher just that men aren't meeting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 08:55 PM
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Men have largely stepped up when it comes to house work 😂🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:51 PM
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Because it's a 24 hr a day job, and I don't want that. It seems to be pretty tough work tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 01:41 PM
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Men have no support system because they refuse to put the effort in to make one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 08:51 PM
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Women absolutely dispises men "under" them rathee height,resources..etc they do NOT like them guys. Not fucking them isn't the same thing as not liking them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:02 PM
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Oh it really isn't reactive. It's always been that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 04:25 PM
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Absolutely. They're free to say what they want, women are free to dislike it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 02:10 PM
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Except they don't hide them....you can see them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:40 PM
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What are the general steps for "emotional labour"?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:39 PM
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So.... downvoting is now considered thought regulation?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 09:03 AM
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Absolutely not. Unfortunately, a good portion of men definitely care about a woman's money and status - and that it's lower than theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 08:56 AM
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Oh, this really isn't true. Most men (not all etc) will not want a woman earning more than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 08:55 AM
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And what consequences do those men experience for doing those things? Nothing most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 07:54 AM
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Therapy is very common for women who have been in abusive relationships. And yes, looking over who we chose and why is a part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 07:53 AM
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What? How have you managed to bring this scenario? That is extreme. You think this is extreme? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 07:52 AM
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Because they wouldn't be this pleasant to a woman they don't find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 07:47 AM
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What a load of cobblers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 07:45 AM
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Right? What a bloody horrible way to view the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 07:45 AM
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Are you denying the dating world is a marketplace and there are men and women with higher sexual market value than others? Yes. It's all subjective. Each and every person are subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 07:44 AM
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No such thing as high or low value people. It's just a stupid concept designed by people who don't like people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 07:44 AM
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Your family is proposing to you? You and they do know that's illegal, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 09:24 PM
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I agree. It's also something most people say until it happens 🤷‍♀️.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 11:32 AM
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But what she said was true, it's not a justification. Sometimes a person is attractive until they open their mouths.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:31 AM
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But you just said she is justifying it. Why does she have to justify it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:20 AM
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But how can you tell? What does average look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:19 AM
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Excuses for what?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:18 AM
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Of absolutely. Women's intuition is just gut feeling, same as men's - sometimes it's right, sometimes it's wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:17 AM
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Why does anyone have to justify a lack of attraction to anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:01 AM
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Exactly, very few men, because very few men are actually attractive. Are you attracted to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:56 AM
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No, I'm saying that societal norms at the time were that trousers were for men, and that apparently it was bad for women to wear them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 03:03 PM
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No, the real one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 08:06 AM
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I'm assuming we're ignoring that pesky violent crime rate, yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 06:25 AM
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Whichever one has the power pack for my phone, so I can use maps.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 06:22 AM
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This is really bugging you, isn't it? Is this why you've just decided to sling shit instead, because you cannot say I'm wrong? Is this really such a problem for you, that not everything can be measured by "data"? When did buying shit become the sole measurement of dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 05:31 AM
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Absolutely, and nobody moves without data research and apps.... honestly, if it hasn't been written down on the Internet it isn't worth knowing is it? Jesus Christ. This is the biggest library since Alexandria caught fire and this is what you're using it for... I'm not on apps if that's what you're talking about 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 05:18 AM
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Because she's a woman acting like a man. It's no different to when Katherine Hepburn first wore trousers. Edit; not saying it's right, I'm saying it's seen as worse when women do it. She's absolutely a predator, but apparently it's normal to be a predator if you're a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 05:12 AM
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Yeah, because That's how chasing is done. Solely with money. And obviously it's already reported to other men 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 05:11 AM
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Are you living in an 80's film?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 05:10 AM
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Carry on, yes. There's no guarantee any of us are who we say. I might actually be lying - fun isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 04:40 AM
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Men will no longer chase women, no longer buy them present or anything once they can get what they want predictably by paying a fixed sum of money. It's like you've never been with a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 04:33 AM
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Also just pointing out that a person who works in the sex industry doesn't have to be hypersexual. Realistically, it's also a specifically male fantasy that many many female sex workers indulge men with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 04:32 AM
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Are we really still pretending that most of those comments are from women? Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 04:28 AM
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Who's really expecting the purge?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 03:58 AM
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Yikes. Why would any woman want to be this guy's friend?!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 03:54 AM
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Ok let's try this again. What behaviours - stop using other people's word ffs and use your own! What behaviours? How is someone acting? Tell me some scenarios in which your exes would make you feel bad and why.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:59 AM
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Can you try and be a bit more efficient in your use of language instead of running it all through AI? Just say what accountability you want and what behaviour is happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:52 AM
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I'm a bi woman. Pick better women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:49 AM
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Pick better.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:45 AM
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Because it's not all about them. There's some sacrifices people have to make for society at large. Are men making these sacrifices?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:44 AM
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Women have always worked. The 50's and 60's were the blip.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:42 AM
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If she got fired, why were you feeling like you harassied her?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:54 AM
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Large portions of modern women are allergic to any form of accountability. Accountability for what? Any feedback women might receive must be due to some other reason than their own behavior. What is this behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:52 AM
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She is if she has to stay home with the children. Is the man dropping hours to care?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:45 AM
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You stop the demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:42 AM
4

Date better women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:05 PM
1

Thankyou for proving my point for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 10:55 AM
5

I think it's interesting that you believe she should be accountable to a man on the internet that she doesn't know and will never meet instead of the man she's in the romantic relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:34 AM
0

I can't no, since I haven't done so. Unfortunately the hive mind is now closed down for Xmas, so you'll have to ask again after Jan.5th.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 10:58 PM
2

It depends on how much of the childcare the father has been doing before the divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 11:51 AM
2

What did they do wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 11:50 AM
2

He has a choice to remain friends or not. If he's old enough to have a crush, he's old enough to look after himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 10:23 AM
1

It's saying that men are disadvantaged because women choose to fuck who they actually want to fuck or to learn to care for themselves and the people around them, creating a supportive environment that they can be single and not alone. Perhaps men could learn from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 10:22 AM
15

It's really simple. Men have to stop fucking women they aren't attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 10:05 AM
9

Wait, so you're upset if women want to have sex but are upset if they don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 10:05 AM
2

Penicillin was discovered in 1928....
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 10:01 AM
4

Did you really say that feminism only took root in the 1960's?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:55 AM
1

Stop what?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 03:39 PM
0

When you are on a date, what do you do? What do you yourself talk about?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 11:03 AM
4

Supply?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 06:54 AM
9

Men can make their own decisions about the women they date.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 03:31 AM
7

....so the problem is that men don't have any standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 03:31 AM
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They don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 10:33 PM
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I don't think women have ever wanted men the way men want women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 04:46 PM
3

I don't think women are more moral either. But it's still not what is being said here. Are you saying that your female friends tell you they want to be assaulted by attractive men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 02:08 PM
2

But that's not what's being said here.... you're saying your female friends tell you they want to be raped by someone attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 02:07 PM
3

Trusted friends? Do people say this to you? If so, why aren't you telling them you don't want to hear it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 12:02 PM
4

If it's only happening with trusted friends, how do you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 11:14 AM
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I think it's more likely that those men have raped someone if they think all men want to rape women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 12:20 AM
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And as such, I'm chuffed that women who commit violent crimes are being incarcerated.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 11:36 PM
5

Are you saying you're incapable of not committing rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 11:28 PM
10

Where did you get 50% and 5% from?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 11:28 PM
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Why are you acting like this is a game, or a competition instead of actions that affect people's lives, male and female? It's smelling suspiciously like you don't actually care about this just that you can use rape victims - male and female - for politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 11:27 PM
6

Is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 10:30 PM
11

Are you saying men can't help but rape? Do you need a trip to the police station?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 10:30 PM
3

Can you link some actual examples that haven't been brought by AI or reddit ? Actually there's like a whole subreddit about Uber men who record all their interactions and still get accused of sexual assault and they have no recourse for it. Why don't they have recourse? I didn't even mention like a month ago where there's Indian man was accused of kidnapping and it was on camera showing that he did not. So he had recourse? There are a lot of cases like this Is it a heavy percentage now but is th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 07:33 PM
5

Because it can't be proven beyond reasonable doubt on the whole, apart from the odd exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 04:19 PM
30

I'm chuffed that women who commit violent crimes are being incarcerated. Why wouldn't I?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 04:18 PM
3

Absolutely, and as such they are an asshole who should also go to prison. What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 12:56 PM
3

Rape is not a "consequence". It is an action that someone has chosen to inflict on another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 12:25 PM
3

Unironically this is garbage behavio It's supposed to be off putting to men. Because men can be such a pain that this is intentional. We're here to talk to the one girl, not convince 7 other girls we're good enough for you too. Piss off and mind your business. Nobody asked you to come over and convince anyone. That's the entire fucking point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 12:23 PM
2

Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 12:21 PM
12

These places are very dark and dangerous. These places are dark. And where do you think a lot of them met these partner House parties, work, set up by friends? It’s ironic how women pick the men who can be the most dangerous as their partner and protector. It's ironic that men are still the biggest danger to women, but offended that women acknowledge that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:46 PM
7

Absolutely true, and thank goodness for it. All that crap about moral goodness and nurturing ensured women couldn't be themselves. Now women can be as human as men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:37 AM
5

It's quite weird, but good tingly!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 03:05 PM
3

So there's nothing actually stopping men from using it everyday?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 01:11 PM
1

So.... make-up isn't being used to make up the face and hide blemishes, etc? It's being used exactly the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 11:15 AM
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They would 1000% prefer to use male birth control if it meant they could freely fuck without condoms and not have to worry about someone coming after them for child support or something. Except that if they don't care enough now, what makes you think they'll be happy to get an injection in the testicles?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 11:13 AM
5

Don't you think this is more a problem that women have with men's behavior rather than a material issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 10:49 AM
1

No, it's the same makeup. It just costs a fuck lot more and they have a professional to apply it. Practice practice practice! A bit of contouring with some (colour matched) foundation will change lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 10:44 AM
0

..... you're saying men are incapable of grooming and dressing themselves correctly? WOW. And they say we think the bar is low....
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 10:42 AM
1

Well yes, I ended up losing my job as I couldn't work enough hours, and ended up with several jobs trying to work out how to earn enough for 2 toddlers via 3 cleaning jobs and a nursery while he slept ready for a night job. I divorced him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 07:07 AM
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Having been in the situation of being the higher earner, then ending up in debt thanks to being really stupid and having children with a man who it turns out didn't care that my career was doing better and refusing to take care of his children, I'm going to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 10:38 PM
2

Which is kind of the point being made.....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 10:36 PM
10

Because those men also walk away?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:09 PM
10

I'm not mad about it. I just think it would be nice if men would factor in women's provisions in more than just chores, childcare and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:50 PM
3

Are you sure? You didn't post it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 02:16 PM
4

Are you sure? You didn't post this
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 02:16 PM
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Unfortunately, women have done it practically alone, just for the most basic of rights - but we're past rights now and we're into changing the culture, which is a much bigger issue. And honestly, having been a walkaway wife women do actually need a man to get off his ass without being asked...all this mental load stuff? Because of men's refusal to acknowledge their part in the household. Raise a generation of boys who recognise that they're part of it instead of the head of it and you have a bet…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 02:53 PM
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Except that different people are good at different things. You'll be the best at one thing, but someone else will have been better at something else. It's how the world works.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 12:21 PM
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Nothing is made up. The concept is offensive by default, no additional conclusions have to be drawn. Why? I mean, FMK is a thing that men have been doing for a very, very long time to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:07 AM
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Not alone. Women filing some guys into the "casually fuckable" category but others into the "relationships only ever" category also reflects poorly on them. Doesn't matter. This is a problem that is being caused by men. It's fascinating that you're trying to minimise the issue here - that men are lying to women and causing more and more reasons for women to mistrust men - using whataboutism.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:03 AM
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I think this is on purpose. That way they get to stay angry at women for being lied to, and they don't need to get the help they obviously need.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:59 AM
4

What a sad and angry way to view something so lovely.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:58 AM
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As the “oppressive gender” men are just not allowed to shape the narrative in a way women can. I disagree. Men are required to shape the narrative just as much as women. After all, men's lack of updates to their own gender roles is causing quite a big issue within relationships, and it is causing some pretty distressing levels of "walkaway wife syndrome".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 10:34 PM
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I suppose it might not be. Can I ask what decade you are in, 20's, 30's etc? I think it's probably about as easy as ever, but the parameters are different. There were "cold approaches" before, but you knew all the girls in your area, so there weren't actually any cold approaches but just hook ups. Alcohol is famous for the job it does and honestly, the casual sex was more a FWB in that if you found someone you liked having sex with, you just continued to have sex, aka a booty call. Most of it fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 10:45 AM
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I think this sounds more like a your friendgroup thing. Imagine how many girls you’d have to cold approach to successfully sleep with 100 girls. Tbh probably less than you'd think - women are more empowered to say no now than at any point before.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 08:41 AM
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Am I right in thinking you're talking more about the extreme numbers, rather than the norm? Very few people still have 100+ unless they decided they wanted to. Boomers had a fucking lot of casual sex. As did the elder millennials and Gen x.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 08:38 AM
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A lot of Redditors are 40 years old, so they don’t seem to understand some pretty average gen Z people (those 28 or younger) are really okay with having sex outside of a relationship. .... what do you think we were doing without the Internet and only 4 channels of television? Sitting in white sewing?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 08:35 AM
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You didn't make it clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 09:35 AM
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I agree. Women may cause less damage, but it doesn't ever make assault ok. It will still hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 08:33 AM
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It's not a competition...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 08:32 AM
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"Nope I’m saying that we all know psychologically what happens when we wear certain clothing" What happens when a baby is only wearing a nappy? Are they deserving of sexual attacks since they're wearing next to nothing?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 06:38 PM
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The same way you see someone is a suit of business formal attire and you feel Ike you need to respect them or see them as respectable So you're acknowledging that the problem isn't what people are wearing, but that you personally have issues you need to sort out?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 06:37 PM
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Do we? What happens when a baby wears a nappy with no other clothing?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 06:35 PM
4

It doesn't sound like OP likes any woman tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 04:55 PM
4

Are you trying to say that there are situations in which people deserve to be sexually attacked?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 04:54 PM
4

Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 11:33 AM
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Isn't this just proof of men's inability to get off their asses and do things that will improve their lives but don't require women to have sex with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 11:14 AM
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It's not about how you look, it's just that you're really fucking annoying when you stop us in our tracks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 09:26 AM
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Really, I mean it. But your experience isn't typical. You're complaining about women not dating, while telling a woman that her experience isn't correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 09:25 AM
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I would agree in theory that that's supposed to be the norm. Unfortunately it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 07:49 AM
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It's the results of women's work, making for a peaceful house and person.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 08:51 PM
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I know who they are. Can you give me your experience, not theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 02:15 PM
2

? Can you explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 01:45 PM
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Don't need to. You're the one claiming different. Convince me that women are and men must become.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 01:15 PM
1

Except that men simply didn't adjust....which also includes sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 12:54 PM
2

No, it's just untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 12:53 PM
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Meanwhile, men answering the same question tend to say things like “I just love her,” “I feel peaceful around her,” “she is herself,” “I am drawn to her.” Except all of this is the results of women's labour....
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 10:11 AM
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But ok, what would I want or need... women caring and taking this stuff more seriously. What stuff exactly? And what would that look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 10:02 AM
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I agree, I'm saying it's often low key and these guys are more common than the outright evil ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 01:27 PM
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Yeah, and I reckon those little "dicks" are more common than the actual mustache twirling villains who attack women in their homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 11:42 AM
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The guy who buys his girlfriend something he wants for Xmas?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 07:12 AM
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He means thoughtless, selfish and immature rather than actively "bad".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 04:35 AM
2

This I'll agree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 04:34 AM
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It is a form of caring. Was very common in my family. Your family sound shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 04:33 AM
-1

Even more irony.....
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 04:22 AM
4

Why do you care what women you don't know are doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 08:11 AM
1

That's a very good point actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 10:21 PM
2

Absolutely not. 50/50 all the way. You're too vulnerable any other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 08:25 PM
2

Sadly it's not a romcom thing, it's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 02:42 PM
4

We're taught to leave it behind, that simplicity isn't for women. We have too much to think about for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 09:54 PM
4

The thing I admire about men is also the thing I find the most frustrating - their tunnel vision for what they want. I also genuinely enjoy the company of men. They make me laugh, I share their sense of humour.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 09:53 PM
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I think there's a certain amount of it, particularly to women who are 40+ who were actively taught they were less important than boys as girls. But tbh I don't think women have ever really wanted "domination" (most anyway).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 03:47 PM
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What tasks exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 09:56 PM
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Did women have a job?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 09:30 PM
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Yes, I know - it was me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 08:52 PM
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And yet you're claiming it's worse for dating, when it's actually only worse for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 06:47 PM
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Mothers are increasingly becoming primary earners, with data showing significant increases in this role, particularly among married and single mothers. In 40% of U.S. households with children, the mother is the primary earner, a figure that is rising due to factors like increased women's employment rates and the necessity for dual-income families. This trend has implications for household dynamics, financial planning, and gender roles in both paid work and caregiving. Prevalence and trends Signi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 04:02 PM
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No, you're right. They just needed a cosigner as opposed to doing it themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 04:01 PM
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Forgive me for this, but what you're saying is that there's 3.2 billion straight men. Out of 8 billion people. That's less than a 3rd. Are you saying that it's worse than ever because a minority aren't thrilled?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 04:00 PM
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The primary breadwinner for the family? Source por favor. "Mothers are increasingly becoming primary earners, with data showing significant increases in this role, particularly among married and single mothers. In 40% of U.S. households with children, the mother is the primary earner, a figure that is rising due to factors like increased women's employment rates and the necessity for dual-income families. This trend has implications for household dynamics, financial planning, and gender roles in…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 02:58 PM
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Most of us always did. It's a very new "tradition", women not working.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 01:54 PM
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Its about heterosexual relationships and dating. It says it's about dating. Not heterosexual relationships, relationships. So its a given that when someone talks about dating they are speaking from the perspective of straight people and not all that other stuff Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 01:53 PM
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Doing a job and making money means nothing if there's no pressure to pay the bills pay the rent ( for your partner as well ) pay for the kids, pay for the car ( for himself and partner ) , You are earning for yourself.... Men were earning for the family .. You....you don't think women are earning for a family?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 01:25 PM
0

It's fascinating that no matter how young a man is, he'll never be able to distinguish between his own opinion and fact....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 01:18 PM
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And I disagree that now is the worst time since anyone who isn't a straight male can also choose who to be with. For all the talk of "mid to late 1800's", women couldn't open a bank account or get a mortgage until 1974. Women HAD to get married, or be one of the exemptions that proved the rule. Gay men and women were arrested for dating. Castrated. Jailed. Kicked out of hostels. Why is this being ignored?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 01:17 PM
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You don’t have to date anyone you don’t like but don’t pretend women were forced to do things back then, that feminist talking point is bs. What? You don't think any of it was forced?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 01:05 PM
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"So... it's worse because people now have a choice of not dating people they don't like?" Why are you dating people you don’t like? and are you saying people are making better choices now? What are you talking about? I'm not dating people I don't like. That's the beauty of it. . where did I say the choices are better? I said they have the freedom to date who they want. Do you have a source for that? More options means better choices, what???? I think you've dreamt this up tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 12:32 PM
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But you're talking about dating....gay people go on dates. Fuck, asexual people go on dates! You're being far, far too specific with this - not everyone is a straight male.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 12:30 PM
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So... it's worse because people now have a choice of not dating people they don't like?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 12:26 PM
10

Are you saying that being homosexual was easier when men were sent to prison for it? Or castrated for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 12:23 PM
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...so, you agree that this isn't the worst time to be dating if you're not going by a specifically cis, heterosexual males point of view?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 12:18 PM
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I'm going to disagree. I reckon the decades and decades in which girls were sold to the highest bidder, used as cattle and breeding stock and given 0 input in their own bodies and lives were much worse times for dating/marriage/romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 12:07 PM
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Bingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 10:12 AM
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I disagree completely. A suit can show off a physique like nothing else, and if it's tailored to your shape even better - colours, cuts, fabric make all the difference. The six pack isn't going to make a woman message you, as much as you may want it to - but a good linen waistcoat and cotton shirt open at the throat with sleeves rolled up would work much better. As for makeup - those extraordinarily handsome men are all wearing makeup. All of them. It's just a matter of learning to do it properl…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 09:56 AM
1

REALLY? This is what you've taken from life? How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 09:25 AM
2

you do not need to consent to sexual attention What? What the fuck do you think sexual harassment is?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:02 AM
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Go ahead and be confident. Congratulations! Now stop being a dick to people and you'll see how much nicer it is generally.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:57 AM
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Women aren't confident. That's the trick of it - but we're in a world in which we are pilloried from day to night for - What we wear What we do Where we go Who we know Who we don't know What we learn The job we do If we don't have a job If we have kids If we don't have kids And none of it matters. None. Only that we use our bodies for others. We're public property. And this massive sexualisation starts when we are children. So, when you're public property you have to fake confidence until you ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:54 AM
3

It just says that men need to figure out what they want. We already did.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:47 AM
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Do you mean like women doing the dirty or heavy jobs? So, like nursing or cleaning? Or childcare? Or any other job that's long hours, potentially painful and with extremely low pay? Oh wait...... none of those men's jobs are low paid are they? Funnily enough, I've worked myself in supply chain and it's definitely not exactly female friendly, is it? Women have always provided for their family. Always. Women do approach, unfortunately they just don't approach you. They also pay or split the cheque…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 11:07 PM
2

It depends on how you're using the listing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 11:01 PM
0

It's also characterised by its comorbidity of either ADHD, epilepsy or communication disorder but let's not let a good demonisation go to waste, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 10:01 PM
2

I'm confused where autism fits into people behaving like toddlers when they don't get what they want?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 09:58 PM
2

What onus?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 09:53 PM
1

How do you think sexual relationships happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 09:51 PM
3

What they want ideally is no unwanted sexual attention but all of the wanted sexual attention This just in....... local man discovers consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 09:50 PM
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No, it's because it's the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 06:28 PM
0

If I'm experiencing acute emotional distress that I can't handle on my own, the last thing on my mind is whether I'm expressing emotions in a way that she finds palatable. I'm sure it depends on the person, but this is honestly one of the first things on my mind when I am experiencing acute emotional distress I completely agree, and I think it's telling on the differences in how we raise boys and girls. We raise girls to believe that they are a burden if they are not an active help at all times,…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 06:27 PM
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Women grossly overestimate the male sexual need. They think we'll die without it, but we won't. Women don't think this. Men think this. We'll masturbate, and then we'll get on with our fucking day. We'll go about our jobs, we'll engage in our hobbies, we'll see our friends - we will do the things we want to do and we will do the things we have to do. Most of us do that anyways, so life won't change for most of us in a major way. Absolutely. And a lot of men won't. You know what we won't do? Inve…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 06:54 AM
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Men don't shame the women they have sex with, especially if those women only have sex with them. Yes they do. The simplest thing is that, as a man or woman, you'll generally want your partner to have sex only with you. So, you won't have any problems with them having sex with you, but you will have problems if they have sex with someone else. The problem with this is that it covers the man's spam of time within that relationship while for women it covers the span of their lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 06:51 AM
0

Wft? All of it!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 12:05 PM
1

Can you please try this without the ChatGPT?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 11:40 AM
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He came back with the below. I'm now wishing it was your idea, it would actually be less misogynist and just an acknowledgement of insecurity. "A mid, average man, might read women's bios in vain hopes that his catering to what they like/don't like increases his chances of matching/date. Reality is such that his chances are so minuscule that any effort multiplied by zero is still zero and quite often the effort itself gives women the ick. The reason it gives women the ick is because such behavio…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 11:40 AM
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What does this mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 10:57 AM
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My dear, I'm not some mid to read women's bios, lol. ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 10:43 AM
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There isn't one. Random men hit on random women because they want to touch them. They don't look at a woman and think she looks interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 07:51 AM
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Sex. That's it. Why are you asking women this? Wouldn't it make sense to ask men?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 07:49 AM
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This isn't what "women" are saying, it's what "she" is saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 06:36 PM
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The fact that you think a woman can actively "give" her body is telling. It's not just delusional, it's actively misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 04:38 PM
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Its casual sex. The purest form of sex that the most privileged supreme men can get. You are giving away your whole body to a man who hasn't proven to you, havent given all his emotions to you. What kind of misogynist nonsense is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 02:32 PM
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Yes you guys dont know us but instantly assume most here dont even get the basics of life I've met enough guys who don't reach the basics.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 05:09 PM
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The discrepancy is what women say and what men hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 12:48 PM
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Really?All of the ideas of love and romance and THIS is what you chose? You chose a friend with benefits? I'm sad for you. Fucking hell dude. Aim higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 06:54 AM
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"Most women probably won't improve a man's life either but they don't seem to bother with that bless em!"......me, last night. Congratulations you can read half a paragraph.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 04:42 PM
2

? You don't think 2 people in a relationship can be partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:09 PM
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What does this even mean? Who is making you watch porn, and who is making you feel bad for wanting to have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:09 AM
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Except that it's proven daily that you don't have to be competent to be confident. Otherwise I definitely agree, I just think we should be openly acknowledging competency as a desirable trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 07:05 AM
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This is absolutely the answer. Most men won't actively improve a woman's life. Most women probably won't improve a man's life either but they don't seem to bother with that bless em!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 07:01 AM
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.... So "something something sex is a need"?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 10:40 PM
3

A partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 10:39 PM
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I want women to understand that unrestrained hypergamy has bad consequences, so that maybe guys who aren’t chads can have a decent shot at finding a good relationship with a woman who is on their level. So what you're saying is that women need to go out with men they aren't attracted to because men will give women "consequences"? Are you threatening women for not fucking who you want? And are you claiming this is acceptable?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 10:39 PM
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LOL, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 09:33 PM
12

So... it's exactly what she said, someone who they like?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 09:32 PM
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Saying men should pay, protect, lead, or sacrifice more is an obligation. No it isn't. It's a preference. A fucking stupid one, but a preference. An obligation is something that someone has to do. Men don't have to. The issue is when preferences get treated like moral standards, and men who don’t meet them get labeled weak, failures, or incels. So you're agreeing that men don't actually have to meet any of the standards above, because the worst that will happen is that someone will call them a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 12:41 PM
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Again you’re conflating aesthetic preference with behavioral obligation, You keep saying this, but contradicting your own points?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 06:51 AM
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Traditional refers to gender roles for men and women like men providing and women staying at home to raise children. It has nothing to do with putting up with endless abuse. Ok, if you say so.....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 04:14 PM
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And in those expectations are for her to put up with all sorts of shit with gentleness and good humour. This also isn't just "Christian tradition", it's cultural tradition that someone has decided is Christian.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 03:59 PM
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It also means she won't leave under any circumstances.....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:28 PM
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Fair enough. Are you doing 50% of the whole life together thing? And don’t mind me asking, why do only men need to prove they can be good parents? Don’t women have to prove it too? Honestly, it would be lovely if women had to prove it too, but unfortunately they're often automatically doing it whether they can or not. We learn the same way everyone else does, but often we don't have a choice. We leave hospital and that's it. Ours now so we have to sort our fucking self out quickly!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 04:26 PM
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Bullshit. It's because she doesn't trust you to care for your children. If you've been together for 3 years and you've never shown a single scrap of parenting or initiative, she's sure as hell not going to leave you alone with a small child.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 12:54 PM
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Then you'll have to prove you can be a decent parent long before you have children, then she won't be so anxious that she doesn't think you can care for a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 11:53 AM
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Yes it is a sacrifice. Regardless of whether you like it or not, leaving the world temporarily is a sacrifice.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 11:17 AM
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Then go and do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 11:15 AM
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Most women want to care for their kids without losing themselves and who they are in the process. Basically, if you want to be a father, be a father.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 11:14 AM
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I was quite happy while single. And I'm happy in a LTR. But I'm certainly not going to be any happier looking at 100(!) men. That's just not going to happen. I'd be happy single rather than make myself miserable like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 10:45 AM
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It's sad that you think all men think like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 06:57 AM
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You're being a dick at this point and refusing to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 07:07 AM
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Your thought process regarding treatment of women including trans women is grim.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 06:56 AM
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No, I would say I'm lucky because I made a friend for life, just like they did.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 11:40 AM
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Most women were always neurotic and deeply unhappy. But we're not cattle to go with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 10:02 AM
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I'm actually considering her humanity more because I'm thinking about what her decision-making process was in deciding to be in that relationship. Really? Claiming "he found" is thinking about her decision making process? The dude was lucky to be on the receiving end of this type of decision-making process. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 05:52 PM
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Not really, no. He didn't find the treasure of the Sierra Madre in a cave at Disneyland. He didn't find anything. Because he met a woman, she wasn't sat waiting for him to pick her up at lost property. Honestly, the insistence on absolutely refusing to acknowledge women as actual human beings is fucking infuriating and a real reason so many men are so alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 04:10 PM
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It's unusual, but maybe they like each other? It has happened. It's also interesting that it's still framed as him "winning" something.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 03:48 PM
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Maybe they should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 03:47 PM
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she was compelled by the CIA to push Feminism. Well that's just fucking nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 09:36 AM
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When people say "bad for women" what they really mean is "bad for me"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 09:36 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 10:00 PM
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Friday - Sunday?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:07 AM
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was always framed as ending a life until modernity when feminism shifted the conversation towards bodily autonomy It was never framed as ending a life until the 1800's when the catholic church noticed the numbers of people attending church started dropping, since people could afford to not have 12 kids and send them to work. Before this abortion was frowned upon but not actively life ending. This was put out by the church in order to bump numbers attending - and paying - in church. This filtered…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:01 AM
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Absolutely all of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 12:52 PM
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It is soul destroying, honestly. It takes a very long time to realize that you can work very hard and do all the right things - but realistically, if you're a woman and you don't look right then people will absolutely kick you down. It's not life, it's people. If you don't wear the right clothes, keep the right body shape - which BTW changes through the years with fashion, so it absolutely is possible to have the wrong fucking body(!) - look a certain way, act a certain way. Be friendly and smil…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 09:20 AM
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But there's lots of guys dressed like women are, and it's not a problem at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 08:23 PM
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Getting or having sex is a distinction without a difference. It's a definite distinction. Having sex is something people do together, in a mutually enjoyable time. Getting sex is something someone takes from another person, it's not a mutual transaction. Just like in prostitution where the client buys both consent, and the act of sex from another person. They're getting" someone to have sex with. Not the mutual reciprocity of having sex with another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 03:49 PM
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Not really, I'd say that attitude is pretty important within the dating/sex context.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 11:20 AM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 10:49 AM
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👏👏
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 10:40 AM
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It's not a semantic. It embodies a poor attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 10:21 AM
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No, it's not a semantic. It's all about the attitude that it embodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 10:20 AM
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I said the man's concept of "getting sex" doesn't include women. Having sex is an activity for 2 people, yes? But getting sex is not. It's a transaction that one person takes from another. So it doesn't actually include a woman, it includes a vagina. A body. But not another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 08:15 AM
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Oddly enough, male and female attraction seems to work the exact opposite way to this post. For instance, look at porn. You can tell the target audience by the number of close ups of body parts. Women prefer a whole picture, men like the close ups without the bigger picture getting in the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 08:13 AM
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Perhaps it's because the concept of "getting sex" doesn't seem to involve an activity that includes women, and as such women aren't thrilled?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 07:04 AM
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Really? Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 07:46 PM
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For me, the saddest part of this is that men don't consider theirs too low, they consider women's too high. And they believe this because they've been told for so long that they cannot be wrong. That their opinion is fact. And they've been taught by society to NEVER trust women. That we're stupid and they know better, even while men are committing suicide from loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 06:18 AM
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It's baffling that this very argument is being touted as a positive on this board.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 05:42 AM
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Lots. They're just not advertised.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 05:40 AM
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As someone going back for investigation for ovarian cysts - again - and who has been told every time they're found that "you'll have to live with it" which includes dealing with intense weight gain whenever they appear, I feel your pain and offer solidarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 05:39 AM
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But why does your preference have any relevance to what is being discussed? And why would you believe that a person has no value because you don't find them attractive? Do you believe men have no value because you're not gay?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 08:22 PM
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What does your preference have to do with the question being asked?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:43 PM
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"Only because sex is better when the women views you as chadrone/ desirable vs starfish sex like non chadrones get when their wives settle for them" This is called an ego boost.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 01:51 PM
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So it really is about ego?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 12:04 PM
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https://www.stdrapidtestkits.com/blog/post/how-high-is-the-risk-of-getting-stds-from-sex-workers?srsltid=AfmBOopuETH2zW7710oVC0SAZGz6BTjZywBkZXte0eDTQjoO8LQuWWQQ
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 05:49 PM
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Nah dude, the fact that men both pay women for sex while disrespecting them simply shows how men feel about themselves when they pay - the failure inherent in paying for sex since it doesn't come with the ego boost or validation that comes with sex with a consenting partner. Most men won't have sex with a prostitute because they don't want to catch a STI, or they are in a committed relationship and value that. But if there were absolutely no consequences almost all men would be going to prostitu…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 05:19 PM
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For the most part, men don't care. Lol, that's plainly untrue given men's attitudes to prostitution. Most men won't pay for sex because they need the ego boost and validation that comes with consensual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 05:01 PM
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Makes sense, we do most of it again now. But when the kids were small I could barely wash dishes. But yeah, before kids it's really easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 05:00 PM
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That's fair. My partner and I have 2 children who are 10&11, both neurodivergent and 1 has learning disabilities. Tbh it's much easier to clean each day these days, but then they still require that day off so it actually works out better to do the laundry and general "bits" through the week since I'm in office only and he's hybrid and on weekends to really clean (we also have 4 cats, so we like to make sure the house doesn't smell like cat".)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 04:00 PM
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No, it's not. It's a "working 5 days a week and kids and all the errands, teams, clubs etc" thing. Some of us definitely aren't kids but plan in cleaning days that coincide with the neurodivergent children's day to be antisocial and recharge the social battery.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 03:35 PM
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They do, but there's definitely a feeling of "someone wants to have sex with me" validation. It's a human thing, not even a gender thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 03:32 PM
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Oh, absolutely yes. I think a lot of sex in general is about ego, for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 03:31 PM
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"It's not one sided if she also accepts you getting fat, accepts your "body count," and fetches shit for you. It's not one-sided if she also dresses in a way intended to attract you, reads books that you like, and tries new things that you like. I have read at least 6 books, watched probably like 20 movies, gotten into Trappist beer, naval history, and sudoku because people I was interested in were interested in those things. I also look forward to getting old and fat with somebody. I don't thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 11:23 AM
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Right, and why is it even relevant in this conversation, which isn't about physical fitness for the elderly?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 11:12 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 11:01 AM
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Yep. With you on the naval books, and I got into Terry Prachett through an ex. I've now read a Warhammer 40K book (not again though!) and I've watched the Witcher. Amongst others. If men consider joining women on a hobby being a dancing monkey it does explain a lot - including why women end up leaving relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:11 AM
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You're missing the point. Or avoiding the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:06 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 03:04 PM
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So..... it's not his prime - remember they're talking solely biologically.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 06:23 AM
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The 30's and 40's + are so much better. Mostly because we can read shit like this and smile.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 06:22 AM
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As a woman in her 40's - yes it does get better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 06:21 AM
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He's kind. He's funny. He's always trying to improve himself, but he also is happy to accept a compliment. He's a bit weird, the good kind. He's not the most expressive person, but...I have a physical disability that means I cannot look after my feet as I cannot bend enough to cut my nails, etc. He does this without being asked, so my feet don't hurt from the way I walk. And he's a great cook. He has a particular pasta meal that he makes, spending ages on it solely because he knows it's the kids…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 11:56 PM
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? What does this mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 08:47 PM
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,🤷‍♀️. If a man is happy enough just having casual sex without relationships, what's the problem? Everyone is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 05:40 PM
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For some people I suppose. And for a certain length of time, yes. But after a while, a bit more intimacy is nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 05:39 PM
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Because we don't expect them to be taking part in the housework, and we don't expect them to really do anything other than be good in bed. We don't live with them, we don't share a life. We just share bodily fluids and company for a few hours. Believe it or not, most women do actually like sex. We just don't like it being on the chore list.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:55 PM
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Consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 09:46 AM
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What are you talking about? If men want to be able to stay home, they should be making these decisions with women before they have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 10:27 PM
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We aren't talking about women....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 08:36 PM
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And are they noticing it and doing something about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 09:58 AM
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About?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 09:55 AM
1

What is nagging?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 09:06 PM
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What career women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 09:06 PM
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Absolutely! It's 10pm on Friday night and my 11 year old and 10 year old are rather more full of beans than usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 09:05 PM
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I think a little bit of gratitude is expected, and a little less demands. Why? He wanted someone to be at home. How would you feel if your man hardly worked, demanded you work a full time job, have sex with him when he wanted, demanded you take on more chores or else you’re “lazy”, started nagging at you because he didn’t like that you didn’t dry off a knife correctly the second you walk in the door after 8 hours of work at a stressful job and a long commute? I'd be looking at my housekeeping sk…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 09:04 PM
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It wasn't supposed to be a gotcha. Men report wanting to. And honestly, the more men spending their time on their kids is much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 09:01 PM
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If I was able to work ft and he was happy with it, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 08:59 PM
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What's considered "justified" in this?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 08:55 PM
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It's pretty hard tbh. And you don't clock off. That puts people off.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 08:54 PM
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I'd have thought this is more because women are actively taught that men can't care for a house and children. After all, boys are raised to go and girls are taught to care for the house and children. They're also taught this by women and men btw, so I get it. It's taken me a lot to unlearn a lot of things to do with house, kids etc too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 08:51 PM
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And why aren't the men questioning this? Or choosing better when they have children?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 08:48 PM
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Alternatively, you can watch your kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 12:48 PM
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Except that building a life with someone requires you to actually do things. This is what this whole "laundry list of demands" is. It's the other half of what is a busy and extensive life. "Nagging" only happens when you're not pulling your weight. Ultimately, we want someone that’s on our team. Someone who doesn't want you to be a part of their life isn't on your team.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 12:47 PM
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Because most older women are waving the older men off and enjoying their lives instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 10:45 AM
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I don't actually think they are. I think the official brackets are too boxed. So a 23 year old woman is usually dating a 25 year old man. That's not older, but he's in the 25-40 "bracket ", thus making the situation look worse than it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 10:44 AM
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cavemen ancestors kept their harems for life, and didn't have to discard them at some point to marry 1 woman. Is this the compromise? And again, we don't know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 10:42 AM
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You seem to think I support the ancestral way of doing things, I don't and despise it. It collapsed in 99% of human societies for a reason. That's fair. Thankyou for clarifying. I also don't like the fact that historically, monogamy could only be maintained by taking away women's freedom and by threatening them with violence and death otherwise. My ideal world is one where we have monogamy, but where women aren't forced to be this way by threat of violence. I don't know if it's possible. But thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 10:40 AM
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Right, and the one joke that's guaranteed to land and hurt a man is one about his cock. Because it matters far more to him than to anyone else. After all, a man's cock is his entire validity. It's his entire masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 10:37 AM
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Furthermore we'd believe you if you more organically claimed to be okay with average or small. But to ever hear that we have to ask, which is inorganic. Why are you asking if it's not a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 10:35 AM
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What's wrong with women having consensual, casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 09:38 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 09:38 PM
11

Ok, but what actual spaces?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 09:25 PM
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Plenty of guys who have successfully treated it, or don't have anger management issues also get women. Usually for longer too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 07:41 PM
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I did. Once again, you've used men's words. And again, men like dicks. It's really ok. Come to terms with yourself, you can do it - I believe in you!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 07:20 PM
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Dude, you claimed to listen to women then quoted men. Men like dick. A lot. Don't be embarrassed, it's natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 06:21 PM
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"We pay attention to the preferences you express" Then quotes all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 06:07 PM
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there were a few top males with large harems, and all the lower status men died without reproducing. This is how it is naturally. And yet it's only one theory out of many that make sense. Why is this particular one so enticing to you? We either force women and take away their free will, or we figure out why almost every culture in human history abandoned our caveman way of doing things. It's almost like the caveman way didn't actually work, isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 06:06 PM
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This is what practice at being sociable is for. You also get to know people the more you socialise in one particular place, unless it's Trafalgar Square.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 06:00 PM
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Absolutely. Men are obsessed with cock.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:59 PM
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Most smut novels describe the level of "throbbing", or the excitement or arousal rather than the "enormous" parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:59 PM
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I can't imagine being scared comments on internet, sorry. You obviously haven't had the comments or the messages women have. People in privileged position feel no fear nore empathy towards those who envy them. They do when those who envy them hurt them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:53 PM
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Hahaha right. It's interesting how it's a structural inequality when they can't get laid, isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 03:27 PM
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Which part is structurally unequal about dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 02:49 PM
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Well, what would your solution be?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 02:48 PM
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Except that most women are sleeping with men with average penises or smaller. Men seek to maximize our sexual opportunity. We care because you care. Bullshit. Men care because men care.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:35 PM
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Tbh most women don't care. Those who do are loud, just like men with their particular feelings on things like boobs etc. But realistically, most fetishisations of big dicks are from men. Men LOVE big dicks. They like to see them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 08:25 AM
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Really? I can see lots about it but I'll also acknowledge that it's much worse in the west than people like to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 07:45 AM
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....you don't believe that women are being raped or murdered - in India? You do realize different men are different .
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 07:30 AM
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So you think that the "male loneliness epidemic" is completely deserved?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 12:29 PM
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Thankyou for putting this out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 12:27 PM
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Since nothing you've written here has anything to do with what I asked, I'll ask it again below:- So getting casual sex easily with hot guys is an immense advantage to women. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 10:56 PM
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if I was a bad guy I might do something How is she to know you're not a bad guy? You think I'm just going to smack you up in broad daylight or something? It's been done, yes. There's news of women being murdered for saying no.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 04:51 PM
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So getting casual sex easily with hot guys is an immense advantage to women. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 09:32 AM
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Ok, so where is the punishment?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 09:31 AM
5

"pumped and dumped" "Chad's cum dumpster" "Why don't women like me"? Fucking 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 09:16 AM
8

How?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 09:25 PM
2

..... but it's still a gap, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 06:58 PM
3

once adjusted for those variables it's roughly 5%. Meaning there's still a gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 06:49 AM
9

Ok. And what does This^ mean? Because again, it's just vague noise. Accountability for what? (Superman DEFINITELY doesn't revel in kryptonite) What is the equality in this? What is the oppression in this? Which women have a boomer father except for gen X & early millennials? What age are these women? Are they still "daddy's little princess" at what I can only assume are 45? Pedestaling how? What does this behaviour look like? Why buying drinks in bars specifically? What about this is warping exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 03:13 PM
8

What does this mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 06:53 AM
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What's your email address?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 07:40 AM
1

Nope, I'm asking why you haven't asked. You also still haven't given any examples....
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 01:54 AM
2

Why haven't you asked the other guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 06:30 PM
2

Because I see lots of men commenting on how lucky a boy is when he's raped and you claimed to see the opposite?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 04:48 PM
5

Weird, I see the opposite. Really? Have you got any examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:38 PM
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So what makes someone a slut to these men is that she has touched more penises than they're personally comfortable with. Aka not theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:52 PM
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Fairly certain that's just the product of aging....
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 11:44 AM
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I'm saying men LOVE dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 11:43 AM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 10:12 AM
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Right? I'm hitting the blue Curacao when I finish work, just to see the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 09:20 AM
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It would be lovely if society would stop teaching (straight) men that they require a woman. For validation to themselves, to show to their friends (which really is the big one, isn't it?) and for basic life. So yes, MGTOW in its purest form isn't a problem at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 09:17 AM
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Well..... yeah. It's not exactly a secret that men like big dicks, is it? Also Lemon_gecko made a good point that there's not that many small ones. A few, but not in comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 09:14 AM
–

Are you saying I'm not meant to pass blue water?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 09:12 AM
–

That's actually a really good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 09:12 AM
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A ton of porn, onlyfans and also girls performing at home for their partners? Yeah....yeah, probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:47 AM
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Yes. I don't doubt there's an average somewhere but my experience tells me that basing someone's cock size on their colour is both and racist and often wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:40 AM
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Girls under 20 don't think about it as much either 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:38 AM
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Please don't encourage him, it's sad enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:38 AM
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And yet we still don't know how to cure endometriosis or find a completely safe birth control for women....
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:37 AM
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People performing for men probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:36 AM
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No, I've never believed in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:35 AM
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Odds are people will come back off them. People work in cycles.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:50 AM
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I figured young people in general have become more conservative and hypocritical because grandparents are also raising the (Gen z) children since most families can't afford for one parent to be at home, and as such those children have also been raised with boomer sensibilities, such as they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:47 AM
4

Can tell me the huge list of what I'm expecting?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 06:45 AM
1

Well, what is a gold digger?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 06:43 AM
4

I'm good with it, so long as we take a break from each other first.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 10:45 PM
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Yeah she does it for attention and she might just enjoy it as well. Money. The word you're looking for is money. It's no different to any other capitalist profession. Also, that's not enjoying it, it's just a very long day at the office. The hell that gotta do with hating other men. A man can love all his brothers and friends that still doesn't mean they want to come behind eachother in one session. Like how exactly are you trying to make that into a man hating thing? that's odd. Nah. Men don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 09:07 AM
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Because men are expected to behave like animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 05:59 AM
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It's almost like it's not to do with sex and is actually to do with advertising, isn't it? So they are nasty for sure but its because they went behind other men. In some cases 50+ or more had went before some and in one case 99 others had went before and the 100th guy still did it. That is what makes it nasty on the mans part. I love when men say shit like this, then still claim men don't hate other men.....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 05:56 AM
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Wasn't that some kind of stunt though, rather than dating or active sex? I also noticed though, that while Searching this, I have not been able to find out if the men were paid to take part....in fact, there's absolutely nothing on any of them at all - it's like nobody cares about the men taking part 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 10:17 PM
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I was 9 when it started. Is there some kind of rule about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 10:32 AM
1

How do you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 01:56 PM
1

Can you feel love?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 01:52 PM
1

Do you love anyone at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 01:51 PM
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Like a free bag of chips at the chippy? Yes So she's not a person.....
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 01:48 PM
1

Fuck. I'm sorry that your experience has been so shitty. You don't like your girlfriend? You don't love her for who she is, just what she can do?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 01:47 PM
0

What's the point if you're not listening?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 12:02 PM
3

Did you actually listen?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 12:00 PM
1

If you don't listen from the start, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 12:00 PM
2

It's easier to say "I'm fine" when you know what you say isn't listened to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 12:00 PM
0

Only when we've given up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:33 AM
2

How do we do when communicating is becoming downright impossible? Impossible how? When there’s apparently a “understanding women” book somewhere that has been out of print since forever AND when women will do their damndest to be all mysterious and shit to keep their mystique? Mysterious how?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:32 AM
4

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 10:12 AM
-1

Actively listening? Giving a shit about your partner, not just what they can do for you typically helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 10:12 AM
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But what does it mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 06:27 AM
2

Why doesn't it matter? Except that only some are getting an "ick". Funnily enough it's not there until it's put in their heads ....
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:42 PM
2

"Get her" as in you didn't have to do anything, she gave herself to you Like a free bag of chips at the chippy? Prime beauty and purity That still doesn't say anything. When is her prime and why? Because that's the best version of her But you still haven't defined what the best version is and when? If she didn't you her best version, and only got with you in her decline, it by definition means she doesn't love you, and only settled for you So ...by aging, she is not loving you? That's worse than…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 04:58 PM
9

But that doesn't answer the question....why do you assume a woman is guaranteed to be cheating for the simple act of going out dancing with her friends? Is it the women that you're worried about, or the other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 12:40 PM
6

Why do you think they are?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 12:23 PM
10

No, it's really not. That's what's so sad about it. It just guarantees that anyone with this level of trust issues cannot make a relationship work.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 12:03 PM
1

Oh yeah, tons of women are thinking about Tim Curry with their rabbits at full buzz lol You've clearly never been to a midnight showing of Rocky Horror. Frank is fucking sexy as. Mate, they're twinks. And what's with the "short"? What does that have to do with anything? And yes, effeminate men are absolutely seen as attractive by women. What you're talking about is how men see them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 11:18 AM
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What a sad way to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 11:15 AM
5

It's like David Bowie, Mick Jagger, Tim Curry and the last 40 years of boy bands never existed....not to mention the whole K Pop thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 10:14 AM
1

Exactly. It's not about women at all, most men seem to have a weird thing when they never stop thinking about women but also never consider them in any fashion. It's all about men. Men are the enemy of men and they have to outdo the enemy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 09:17 AM
2

Well yeah, of course it should. I mean, a lot already is. Men use skincare, decent shampoo and body wash that you can't also use as a degreaser, eyeliner has been a thing for men for decades... And of course, hair transplants and ED medication.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 09:09 AM
4

Of course it matters! It means that it's socially trained and it matters because men kill women for this shit. It really really matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 03:14 AM
1

Your value as a person =/= your relationship/sexual market value. So neither are of any actual use? Do men really hate men so much that men ruin women?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 03:12 AM
4

So it's not about losing value, just about losing value.... So you believe that men hate other men so much that men are an active liability that tarnishes women? i also think that more men care than women realize. outside of anonymous spaces on the internet, men don't go around and telling women about their preferences in detail - Bless you 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 03:11 AM
3

Ah ok. Fair enough, I understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:26 PM
5

The fact you've used the word "pure" completely negates anything you've tried to claim is fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:07 PM
2

Have you seen a boy and his dog?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:06 PM
2

it's not about losing value as a person, member of society, employee, friend or whatever else. it's about losing value as a single woman on the dating market first and foremost. Your second part completely contradicts your initial statement. Also, most men really don't care. Normal men, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:05 PM
2

Thing is, promotion of sleeping around isn't really done for women anyway.... But on the whole, I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:03 PM
5

It is an activity both partake in, but there's more to it, too. Only if they choose it to be more. Casual sex it isn't more. And whom (and how many) you choose to do this activity with matters. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:00 PM
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If you weren't able to get her in her prime, then she doesn't love you "Get her in her prime" Question 1 - get her how? Do you win her like a prize, or just use a butterfly net? Question 2 - when is her "prime" and why is it her prime? Question 3 - why must she be in her prime for her to love you? Would you be incapable of loving her if she wasn't? It has nothing to do with men hating men Lmao Really? Then why are men consistently using women as pawns in this competition, and consistently denigr…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 06:58 PM
2

Most men absolutely do slut shame. There's a difference in caring about the past and shaming someone for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 06:46 PM
1

Left leaning men can also be misogynistic and more than plenty will still slut shame women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 06:45 PM
3

All of the quote.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 05:13 PM
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Any left leaning man or non-misogynistic man isn't slut shaming women. And they are the majority of men. There are aliens in the next galaxy facepalming this...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 04:31 PM
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Yes. Yes it does. If sex is viewed as an activity that two (or more) people partake in for mutual pleasure with no other power imbalances, it's much more pleasant and more women want to do it. Unfortunately, since men really really hate men (often far more than they hate women), men do put the need for power over other men ahead of the actuality of the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 04:31 PM
2

Stop having sex with women then.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 06:16 AM
0

Why isn't he asking for it back before she does anything about it? ** Btw, it's 40%. Mitochondrial cells also come from the mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 06:16 AM
2

It will depend on what stage of viability it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 06:14 AM
2

Are these children walking around when they've been killed?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 06:13 AM
2

You'll have to actually start lobbying, fundraising etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 05:58 AM
0

It depends if you have to. The gap there is rather telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 06:48 AM
2

It's more to do with families. When you have children, women must go on maternity and recover. More often than not, she will also end up changing her hours/job and working less hours or will work for a lower pay in return for more flexible working, so she can do all of the bits that require a parent to be out of work - Drs, dentists, school meetings - the school require a lot! And if you have a child with SEN or perhaps a neurodiversity your meetings will triple. Then of course you have the shop…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 06:46 AM
-1

So you don't have the rights that come with personhood?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 05:39 PM
-1

Do you want full personhood for an unborn foetus?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 09:53 AM
0

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 09:51 AM
1

But does that mean they can't? Because you obviously haven't seen yungblud.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 07:28 AM
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This sounds like it's time to take a break from social media, your algorithms are telling you what you're looking to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 08:25 PM
1

Why do you assume it's not simply so obvious it shouldn't even need saying? It's pretty obvious for men that it doesn't even bear mentioning, yes? Does it need saying that men need to find a woman attractive before he's going to want to get to know her better?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 02:22 PM
2

So ...you don't believe women should consider men's physical attributes?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 01:30 PM
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Don't we? That's news to me. I hear it from men all the time, but never from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 12:14 PM
1

Can't men use makeup, cosmetics, gyms?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 11:25 AM
7

Do you consider looks the only criteria?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 11:12 AM
2

So it's the same as men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 10:42 AM
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who meet 👀 criteria*. But why is this a surprise? Why is it a negative that women would like to find a man attractive, when we wouldn't dream of expecting men to date a woman he doesn't find attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 10:41 AM
4

Can you elaborate please, this doesn't actually say anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 10:11 AM
3

Because it's only as true as it is for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 09:18 AM
3

More likely women can choose who they stay with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 03:55 PM
3

But surely this means that they're both misogynist and misandrist?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 03:11 PM
2

I have one of each, and it's neither/both. Both have very different challenges at different stages of life, and each needs to be taught different grounding/lessons in order to be produced and independent.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 06:33 AM
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No, submitting or deferring doesn't mean fulfilling roles. *Fulfilling roles"would mean fulfilling roles It means creating or being part of a hierarchy, and expecting a woman to automatically place themselves below the man in that hierarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 06:20 AM
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Not really, I think OP meant what he said. It's just a very strange obsession that keeps coming back with some men, it's always about power over women specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 10:03 PM
17

"submitting".... What is this weird power obsession so many men have about women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 09:02 PM
0

It depends. There's still a lot of issues for men. It's just that women being mean and also having the choice of who they fuck isn't 2 of them. Non medical circumcisions, Domestic violence, prison rape, the lack of trust in men around children, the lack of paternity leave..... All issues for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 07:09 PM
4

So....you don't believe in long term relationships, but also don't believe in sex outside of one?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 06:45 PM
6

A car is cheap?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 06:09 PM
3

So you need expensive things?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 06:07 PM
1

If you say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 06:00 AM
1

The world we have means that women can't have the same desires for different men because men are too dangerous for that to be a realistic everyday scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:59 AM
3

If you say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 09:40 PM
10

Absolutely. I don't deny that they're out there - but they're hen's teeth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 07:56 PM
5

Nah, I'm in a very happy relationship with a good man. But the reality of straight relationships are very different for women than they are for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 07:55 PM
4

No, they don't. Husbands aren't a best friend, they're a husband. It's not bitter to acknowledge reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 07:54 PM
3

Not necessarily, just honest. There's a reason married men do better and married women do worse. I'm very lucky, I'm in a happy relationship. But most marriages for women really aren't the way they are for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 07:54 PM
18

Why would women not want a best friend who they are also romantically involved with to share life, household and basically everything with? They do. Unfortunately, what they get is a husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 06:35 PM
2

Probably content made by women who know what this kinda man wants to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 02:39 PM
1

From what I've heard and experienced, women get bored of sex with the same partner faster than men do. In a world very different to ours in which safety wasn't an aspect of sex for women, we would be able to acknowledge our desire to have many sex partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 11:27 AM
1

The fact that women like novelty as much as men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 08:59 AM
1

It's a scientific fact that women want sex with one particular man less than men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 07:12 AM
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No, it really isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 10:24 PM
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"they" is most women I have ever had a conversation with about the mental load, housework, childcare etc. Of course you haven't heard of it, you're a man. The easily verifiable facts is that men don't do enough in the home to enable work life balance for women, and therefore women either choose to have kids or to move up in their career. Or do neither, which is also a reasonable decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 09:12 AM
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Fancy that. The people who have to orgasm to incur a pregnancy and also get to walk away (without waddling at any point) then still get to go to work, see friends etc want more kids. Shocking news that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 10:10 PM
13

Absolutely. As they say, more women would do better if they had a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 10:06 PM
13

So ...no point in having them if she hasn't carried them, or care for them? Meaning the women made the correct choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 07:33 PM
14

Amd who's caring for the babies?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 05:52 PM
3

No, women can do the same as men - they can have children. What does "men with tits" look like in this scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 04:01 PM
4

Riiiiight. And Barbara who works in Sainsbury's in Fleetwood is bound to meet Jeff Bezos sometime 😂 fucking hell 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 04:00 PM
10

You...you think being a trophy is freedom? Freedom from what?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 03:58 PM
21

So based on this, you agree that women can't make it themselves and have children? But if you already have power, like that woman who inherited half of Japan's industry. Why even have children? Really? You don't understand why a woman who's worked for most of her life isn't going to have children at the top? Because you still have to work to stay there, and children don't let a woman do that. Men stay at the top because they have women to do it instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 03:58 PM
14

Or she simply knows that she can't have a child and the level of freedom it requires to go further up the educational and career ladder.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 02:38 PM
3

It's because very few women can actually have both
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 02:37 PM
32

It's almost like women make a choice to have children or power....
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 02:36 PM
5

LOL I don't blame you at times. They really think this shit works. My ex would rant at me in messages saying noone would want me since I'm a fat stupid old single mother. A) that was all true, but I was much much happier alone. B) a year later after I'd started healing myself I started dating again, and I've been with my partner for 6 years. He's not made it past a few months with a woman yet. I don't blame them either.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 09:35 AM
6

Not dating people you don't like is a choice though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 09:33 AM
7

All women, or women you've met, women you want, women you don't like...which ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 07:50 AM
11

Yep, it's just easier alone at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 07:50 AM
12

"women", or "women that have rejected you"?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 07:46 AM
1

So .. you're happier leaving your children, but think you'll take others children (the audacity is bewildering). What the fuck did your child do to you to hate them this much?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:17 PM
5

It's funny how it's only men who must make this "sacrifice" isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:20 PM
9

It's easier to walk away and say that nothing can be done.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:00 PM
2

Bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:00 PM
8

Most men are not indifferent to having kids, any more than women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 11:48 AM
13

Some people really need to either start doing some psychology degrees or go for a fucking walk.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 07:17 AM
1

Because that's how society has taught men growing up. That wealth and success makes you more attractive. But that's my point.... wealth and success isn't the goal, even when it's been attained. Women are the goal. Above all and everything, any other attainment is about the gaining of a woman. Heck even women think that about other men. They won't ever date the guy themselves, but they assume others would like someone who is rich. Well yeah, different women have different priorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 07:02 AM
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