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Thanks! Nice read. Though it seems like stay at home dads are just the minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:10 PM
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Sad but I also have to deal with this truth as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:38 PM
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Spittin' facts, I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:35 PM
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They aren’t the provider and nurturer that they used to be. That is the fault of feminism. To all women (especially feminists and certain men on here), kindly stop telling men that they do not need to provide nowadays anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:29 PM
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I think that is ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:27 PM
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Well, girls like diamonds, gold and similar items.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:27 PM
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Stats?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:26 PM
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Well, I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:26 PM
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Same lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:25 PM
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[...] are capable of attaining their own wealth nowadays. Most women want a man who earns just as much as them if not more. In case of a pregnancy she knows that the man is cappable to support the family. Some don’t give a single fuck about attention or fame. Female influencers on Twitch, Twitter, Instagram, YouTube, TikTok and OF wouldn't get as much followers and likes if they wouldn't present themselves in seductive outfits and makeup. If fame and attention isn't important for women then wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:46 AM
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Wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:29 AM
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As a conclusion, in oder to get women you need to provide sufficient wealth, fame (status) and attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:18 AM
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Men want women. Women want fame, attention and wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:17 AM
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What are you on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:14 AM
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you don't even have to say it at all! We ALL know! No, we have to say it because obviously not everyone knows that. We have people who will unironically say that "you don't need a relationship" and that "sex is nothing special".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:11 AM
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Womenchildren: THERE ARE NO MEN WHO WANT A RELATIONSHIP!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:08 AM
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probs cause some of their posts and comments sound like they don't partake in society Sorry that I never liked drinking and intoxicating myself with alcohol and drugs. Seeing how these people do better than me maybe I should have, but on the other hand no, that is not who I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:05 AM
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I have at least two good friends. Still doesn't make me feel less alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:04 AM
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I still dislike it that there has to be intentionally sexy video game characters. It is so unnecessary. If I want to see tiddies I can just open up almost any website on the internet and have tiddies shoved into my face.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:58 AM
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Not the point of the OP though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:53 AM
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Sadly though, most of us Muslims don't live the Islamic way. I have been to another wedding and it was worse than the wedding of my Christian German friend. Don't get me wrong I am not complimenting him either. Just stating that we Muslims are on a quite a bad path as it seems. Instead of clinging onto our believes we try to do the things of that we know which are wrong. This is also one of the reasons why the muslim world is still in misery. Back in the Ottoman Empire the Muslims lived the Isla…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:26 AM
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Gven the fact that there are women who can't find a partner despite their being men who seek a partner. The only conclusion that comes to my mind is that these men simply do not fullfill the requirements of these women. Therefore there is a scarcity of marriageable men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:21 AM
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No, women (there are exceptions of course) don't find it attractive when their man is earning less than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:18 AM
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Monogamy isn't enforced.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:13 AM
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Serial monogamy is exactly what he said. It is a disguise for having sex with multiple people while at the same time claiming that you're monogamous. How it works? It is in the name. You don't marry with the intention to be forever together. You marry with the intention to break up in this life time and meet another person to get together with. In that context, serial monogamy might be yet the most unnecessary concept alongside FWB and ONS.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:11 AM
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The issue is most humans are basically following their ego and not their soul. This is nobody's fault since the ego is very strong. The ego doesn't want monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:08 AM
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Rome wasn't monogamous when they fell.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:05 AM
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No, you just have to mention "no sex before marriage" and see the backlash that comes with it. People don't want to be monogamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:04 AM
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It is not me who is denying reality. gouge out your eyes like Jesus said lol Teaching something you don't practice has no effect. Also, I am already constantly looking down whenever I go out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:55 PM
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No, we don't. Nobody should force their sexual curves onto my eyes. Even if I constantly look down, which I do, it is still very bothersome.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:45 PM
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Can say the same about these "ruined" women can't you? Why couldn't these women just keep their legs closed? Afterall it is easier to avoid sex than getting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:42 PM
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Who or what forces you to look? Bad argument since I always look down when I go out especially because of people who think they have to run around in tight, revealing clothes or in underwear. I'd have to go out with a blindfold to avoid them. Yes, all these people who dress revealingly in public do sexually harass me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:39 PM
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It is sexual harassment. Public indecency.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:37 PM
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I always have trouble in understanding what people mean. However, I thought he referred to people who dress revealingly in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:37 AM
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Because, they won't just sit in their own filth. The instinct to procreate is strong. Way too strong that an advice as simple as "just don't watch porn" won't ever fix the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:16 AM
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Except he never stuck his nose into someone's sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:15 AM
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It is basically sexual harassment. Yes, dressing in revealing outfits is also sexual harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:15 AM
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How sexually liberated are you? I don't know. Do you think it's okay to think and do anything as long its consensual and whatever people do in their bedrooms should not be shamed and judged? Even the taboo stuff like woman pretending to be a 24/7 toiletslave for her abuser and falling in love with him or ddlg incest rape roleplay? Or do you have limits on what you consider ok? It is not my business what people do at home privately. How do you feel about porn and men and women wearing sexually re…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:33 AM
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Did anyone watch 10 Cloverfield Lane? Who is the woman that begs for letting her inside the bunker? I thought she is just a decoy, a paid actress, or Howard's wife who helps him with his crimes. If the alien invasion is real, why did Howard get so enraged about the woman touching the other dude at the dinner table? Is he jealous? Why is he jealous by that touch if he claims to only want to help? I mean he is not married to that woman anyways, there is like no point in being jealous. What is up w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:14 AM
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Yes, I do really. I am no Isaac Newton nor Nikola Tesla.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 08:07 PM
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Thanks! I don't know how to respond. I love you, too. Hopefully there will be no misunderstanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 04:44 PM
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I feel the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 04:43 PM
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A relationship is expensive though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 04:36 PM
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What just came to my mind is that I mostly heard that from women and the men going their own way group who frequently talked about women. "I don't need no men".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 04:02 PM
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It is not secret that genders don't really need each other as much anymore. The amount of how often I read and heard that by now makes me believe that I am the only man on earth who wouldn't wish a world without women. I need a woman in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:55 PM
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No problem and thank you too!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:54 PM
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My experience is that people usually write in a very facetious shallow way when they try to say something positive about the other gender. It feels very forced and unnatural. Instead of just stating the observations they go all the way overboard. That frustrates and annyos me. Also jealousy. I am jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:52 PM
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It would be nice to ease down the gender wars. On the other hand it also could be even more frustrating. Afterall there is a reason why I avoid anything romance related in movies and TV shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:28 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:25 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:10 PM
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Thank you for shining some light into this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:09 PM
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I suppose it is a relative attribute. For example in USA women who make, let's say 60k a year might want a man who makes 60+k a year. If you live in a generally poor country, a woman who makes like, let's say 10k a year would be alright for being with a man who makes 10+k a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:04 PM
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Heterosexuality is not the same as homosexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 08:23 PM
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It is really quite contradictory to say the least: Criticizing Religion. ✅ Criticizing 🏳️‍🌈. ❌
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 06:06 AM
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This guy nailed it. He says it very understandably. https://youtu.be/tBQBdL0wWAQ?si=42Zk0AuPLgKBPyTq
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:41 PM
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Agreed. If majority would go for some sort of marriage first, meaning to prioritize marriage, people would be way faster off the "market" so to say (am trying to use some <color>pill lingo lol). More people would be paired more quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 12:06 PM
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Nobody is against breastfeeding. It is just strange having almost fully naked women in my Instagram feed who apparently only breastfeed their child.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:12 PM
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A woman's breasts does carry sexual value.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:11 PM
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I just don't grasp why it needs to be on social media, because not even in public I saw people saying anything against women who had to breastfeed their child. Something like an awareness campaign is not really necessary. And even in public the women had to breastfeed did their best to not fully expose their breast to the public lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:06 PM
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Is there some sort of project going on? What is up with all the breastfeeding posts on Instagram? It also especially seems to be heavily pushed by Indian channels? For a very long time I was saved from naked people and in the last couple of weeks Instagram mercilessly keeps hitting me with these. I mean, seriously, not even PPD men have anything against mother's who are breastfeeding their child. So, what is up with those posts? Seriously?!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:24 PM
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Depends. I have no idea how to say this but maybe as long as the belly is not bigger than the boobs or ass it is perfectly fine I'd say.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:47 AM
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Especially on reddit. Do you have a problem? Divorce it. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:46 AM
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If you believe in an afterlife you may believe that suffering brings you closer to God. You nailed it! Thanks for understanding and explaining your view!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:32 AM
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This fits with that the man is the leader of the household. Those are basically charectiristics of a leader figure. I fully agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:11 PM
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I partially disagree. Marriages that last a life long are worthy of praise. How do I justify this? First of all. I am a person of belief. In this world, all of us will face hardships especially inside a marriage. A couple who overcomes these hardships and manages to stay stronger are stronger than those who split apart. But, this isn't to say that people should never divorce. Sadly, there are hardship which are just unbearable and divorce must be done.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:10 PM
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We pick our partners in regards to four aspects. Wealth Social standing Beauty Faith/Believe(/political orientation if you want so) Though, these four points are spread out on a continous scale for each person individually. There are people who prioritize wealth, there are people who prioritize beauty, there are people who prioritize social standing and there are people who prioritize faith. Even if someone fulfills the wealth aspect on someone who prioritizes wealth, that someone might still ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:04 PM
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No, it is not bad thing per se. But it is more difficult to take care of the home if both are working.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:54 PM
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Since other cultures, religions and whatever also get generalized in apparently treating their women bad. It is only fair for me to choose this title. "American men be treating their wive like:" https://www.instagram.com/reel/Ct_X1eOA3di/?igshid=NjIwNzIyMDk2Mg==
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:39 PM
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Ok, that is a good argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:59 PM
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My counter argument is that there are successful men with a beautiful wive. Some of those men also watch porn, sadly. Sadly, because I agree with the general narrative that we all should stop consuming and producing porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:58 PM
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No, we were not. Like I said if you want to say that your ancestors were like that I am ok with that. Mine certainly weren't. Also, seeing other people have sex is not natural at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:34 AM
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I have no idea what happened to your reply. It was valid in my opinion. Only thing that is left to say for me is that we usually imagine to be the husband or the boyfriend of the woman on screen. Yes, we are not actually their husband or boyfriend but the imagination is there. Dunno how much that makes one a cuck to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:07 AM
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Nah. We were straight up raw dogging in front of everyone. No, we weren't. At least my ancestors weren't. I don't know about yours though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:03 AM
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Can't stand who?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:01 AM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:00 AM
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As someone who agrees with OP. No, I disagree with your statement. That possibly is not the reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:59 AM
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You won't go to hell, I promise. No! If someone wants to avoid hell, better to not watch porn at all. Especially not out of curiousness. It is like testing a drug out of curiousness. You'll get most likely simply addicted.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:58 AM
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I also forgot. There is solo porn too. Not a very good Argument but I'd argue that at the end of the day the viewer still imagines to be with that woman on screen but he actually is not. He cannot touch her at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:56 AM
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Solo videos are more difficult to categorize, I agree. Though there is still this imagination with being with that woman but actually not being there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:55 AM
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Well, in both cases Monke see two other Monke sex. I would apply the stronger result on both cases. In both cases Monke cuck imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:54 AM
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True.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:51 AM
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Better than TwoX and similar where you get banned in an instant for challenging their views in the slightest. Yes, I agree and might I say have been banned for a month from this server some time ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:54 PM
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There is no God but Allah.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:53 PM
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Trans woman = Someone who was born male. Therefore essentially if a man ends up sleeping with a trans woman he is essentially sleeping with a "biological" male (God I dislike all these mumbo jumbo terms this topic comes with). Therefore, yes, that would be gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:51 PM
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Understandable. I feel you. Similar things happen to me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:48 PM
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Well, "small dick energy" is not just an insult, it is also a display of what is generally considered attractive and whatnot. Anyways, I digress.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:47 PM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:28 PM
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Men here and I'd like to disagree haha. Might be just me though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:17 PM
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Uhm. My observation is that no matter how much feminists claim that gender roles are social constructs and that we can get rid of them, it is strangely feminists who literally enforce gender roles themselves. Not by what they are saying but by what they are doing. The easiest example that comes to mind is that women still (rightfully so in my opinion, because it is supposed to be that way, because women are the ones who can get pregnant afterall) request a partner who makes more money than they …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:38 AM
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Spittin' facts Bro. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 08:48 AM
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Good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:45 PM
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They entered the work FORCE and get PAID from it. Women 200 years ago couldn't inherent land left to them, couldn't open bank accounts, couldn't own land, vote, work, defend their country, own a weapon, etc This is also dependent on geographical location. When wives were being sold on Londoner streets for a price of 1pound in Great Britain, wives in another part of the world were treated like queens.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:37 PM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:36 PM
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Sad but true and also thank you for spitting facts!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:33 PM
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Haha 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:31 PM
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I don't understand. It wasn't like women were lazy and did nothing except for the last 200 years or so. There have always been hard working women, housewives is one job to say the least. It is a full time job, 24/7, without scheduled breaks. That is a very tough job for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:28 PM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:26 PM
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Never heard of such societies. It is pretty much universally in our human nature that men are supposed and expected to approach whereas women are free to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:25 PM
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Wym? As a shy man I guess it is meant like to like overcome your fears and do approach afterall anyways as a man, because there really is no other choice for men afterall, because of our human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:24 PM
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What's wrong with men? Don't end up like me... Haha, I feel you on this. Same situation and I do believe the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:22 PM
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If she regrets her morally wrong actions then I wouldn't get to know them in the first place. I'd just ride along with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:08 PM
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Nailed it! Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:07 PM
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😅
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:07 PM
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Exactly! Since approaching is a masculine trait, it is absolutely natural and logical that men are suppose to and expected to approach women whereas women are free to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:06 PM
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Women tend not to make the first move because we'd end up being used for sex by men who aren't interested in actually dating us but figure we'd be an easy lay. Whereas if a woman isn't interested in a man, she'll probably just say no. Thank you! That said, plenty of women do make the first move and ask for dates. And plenty of us also pay for half on dates - I've been doing so since I started dating, way back in the 80s. Or taking turns paying for dates, which is what my husband and I did. And n…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:05 PM
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I said this in another reply. Exceptions prove the rule/law. Men are supposed and expected to approach women. Women are free to approach men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:04 PM
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Exceptions prove the rule/law. To be more accurate. Men are supposed and expected to approach. Women are free to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:01 PM
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Perfect reply! Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 11:01 PM
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What I don't understand is... Ok, let's say there is something like an objective rating which displays attractiveness in an accurate order. Let's say, according to that objective scale my wife is a 5/10. Now, comes the point where I have my issue. Even if she objectively is a 5/10 wouldn't I see her still as 10/10 or at least like 8-9/10, because i love her and am married to her. I would simply have no reason to call my wife average or plain.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:55 PM
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Man here. Crazy girl who is a 9/10 or nurturing/safe girl who is a 5/10? Since marriage is impossible in my current state I am sure I can safely skip that question. I actually want to reply to the dudes take on women liking bad guys. I don't think women like bad guys per se, women like a certain vibe they are giving off. Vibes such as charisma, confidence and self-assuredness. It gives a feeling of safety. He feels like a safety net because it seems that he knows what he's doing and what is goin…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:51 PM
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Simple reason. Bath society in debauchery. For that you need to blind women into believing that exposing their biggest assets freely onto the public is emancipating and brave. Women doing that will turn on more men into hunting for that quick sex. Sex with multiple partners. Porn. If you want to turn a society into a brainwashed mesh then that is your best bet. Why do you think Israel strictly enforces a tight religious ruling? The debauchery is literally all over the world yet Israel is somehow…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:29 PM
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You make very good points. There certainly needs to be sanctions for cheating and sleeping around. Not only sanctions for women but only for men who participate in such debauchery. Though, this post also reminded me of women, who let's say had a wild past but realized finally that was just wrong what they did and thus they repent and stop doing such debauchery acts. I think these women should get something like a second chance so to speak. But at the very end of the day. These men picking to sle…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:21 PM
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Lmao it is the exact other way around. The other dude just talked about men who fully financially support their girlfriend so she doesn't have to work at all. It is women who are resentful of men who make less than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:38 PM
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Sounds like sexual harassment to me. Strange that women even allow this. Wouldn't it be safer for women to dance with women and men to dance with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:34 PM
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Just a lame excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:26 PM
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So far there are none.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:24 PM
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Not a realistic situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:23 PM
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True. We would just have to use the energy we'd use for porn onto something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:08 PM
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Most likely good because bad will bring in bad consequences. Unless we live in a society with a weak juridical system where robbery is punished by a 1 week vacation in prison with free food and housing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:06 PM
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Take away porn and all we’d do is focus on different tasks. But not in pursuit of women. Facts!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:04 PM
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I wonder, do you watch porn? Did you stop? Have you been in his shoes at all to be dishing out sentences like those? You are riding a bit on a high horse at the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:04 PM
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Exactly same experience! I went without it for more than a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:02 PM
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Not watching porn doesn't make you do anything. You have at best more energy than usual with a good mix of depression, sadness, down to eaethness, aloofness and goofiness otherwise the pain would be just unbearable. You become more sensitive, which can be dangerous if you are not used to it. Because you need to be prepared to swallow any kind of anger and emotion otherwise you might accidentally lash out onto people you actually like and accidentally make them feel like shit. It is difficult. At…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:01 PM
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We get it. Women are totally asexual beings. They are angels without any sex drive at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:56 PM
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Nicely worded!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:52 PM
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Sadly, there are men in relationships who also watch porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:48 PM
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I’m a victim of trauma so I’ll go and jerk off to women being raped and tortured. You know very well that this is not the case anymore with countless services such as OnlyFans. Those models can schedule what they want to shoot, where they want to shoot, with whom they want to shoot. I could make a similar comment like yours actually. Give me a second. Boo Hoo those poor women who are victims and become rich out of their victimhood. Let's be honest these women who apparently are victims live (mat…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:45 PM
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I agree with everything you wrote except the last paragraph. You talk about the industry like it’s somehow women’s fault men use porn. Porn use is a choice. Choose better. The vast majority of women who do any kind of sex work are victims of child trauma, domestic violence, rape, are mentally ill and often disabled. Blaming them for the demand created by abusive men is insane. If women are really interested that men stop porn consumption they'd also be against sex workers. If there is no offer t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:40 PM
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If the sex in those porn scenes is too violent for women they could have just not done that scene from the beginning, you know what I mean? Don't come to me with the starving excuse either. There is one porn actress who took it like a champ and became homeless. She never returned to that business. So it is possible to stop shooting porn scenes even if you end up being with no income and homeless. Also, if it is that hurtful why would any women willingly do these scenes? I would never put my hand…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:29 PM
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Yeah, but that is expectable and nothing to criticize women for to be honest. I mean how are they gonna help by making even more humiliating remarks such as "Awww, you poor baby"?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:25 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:23 PM
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You can redirect your complaint to feminism and the sexual revolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:22 PM
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The bar is too high and unreachable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:19 PM
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No, rich people, very rich people are potentially more dangerous since they have power to act out on (see Epstein and Weinstein for example).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:11 PM
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Used to lose sleep over this but not anymore thanks to PPD opening my eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:09 PM
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This is ridiculous. If the man is attractive enough in the eyes of the woman she usually even agrees to have sex on a shady backstreet on the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:07 PM
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Even though this information is not worthless, at the end of the day it is just anecdotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 11:49 AM
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They tend to be rigid and closed off to well meaning advice or constructive criticism. By all fairness, most advices are in the likes of "follow this trend, follow that trend", which simply translates to being constantly behind in everything. Instead of following trends made up by humans who probably did worse things when we do we should try to find role models which hold on for eternity. And yes, such role models do exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 07:09 PM
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I suppose that is easy to say as a woman. When you constantly have a pool of 200 men to pick from nothing will shatter you. If the first person doesn't fulfill you the second one surely will. We men simply do not have this luxury. Bear in mind, I am not saying that "women have it easier". You can always date women who don’t behave in a way that you think of as slutty, [...]. This is near impossible. Especially in this current time and age where dressing and behaving slutty is extremely normalize…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 05:41 AM
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The issue is that men are still forced to provide. I mentioned it. Also Feminism: Stay at home husbands are lame and unattractive. Women do not want to get rid of gender roles and the majority of men are absolutely fine with that. I just wish women would be able to speak up this fact openly instead of hiding in plain sight.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:12 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:51 PM
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We're not going to die but reciprocating is a human need and desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:48 PM
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He isn't wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:47 PM
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We men have no worth anymore, that's why, I'd guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:46 PM
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That is very cliché.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:45 PM
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Sounds like a "no" or "rejection" in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:45 PM
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Haven't you ever heard of the term "there was no spark"? It usually relates to the first impression. A much shorter time than 30 minutes. OP was rather generous with the 30 minutes in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:44 PM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:43 PM
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True. As a silver lining to these hurt women. They most likely still have a very huge pool of men to pick from.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:39 PM
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I think some men just had it too easy in the relationship aspect and took their own relationship for granted instead of something to be thankful for.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:15 PM
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Feminism: Let's get rid of gender roles. Also Feminism: Stay at home husbands are lame and unattractive. To everyone who will come up criticizing me: We men never demanded to change gender roles. We always took one of the heavier bits of our gender roles, namely providing (and protecting), as a given and never questioned it even to this day.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:08 PM
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The tight fitting long sleeved ones look very sexy on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:06 PM
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Glad you accept the RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 07:57 PM
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Excuses. It is simply not as easy as you claimed. It is very telling and sad that apparently criminals are more attractive than law abiding citizens. I thought I escaped the BP but you sent me straight back into it and even proved it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:18 AM
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I wouldn’t put any woman up to a date with you. What happened? I thought it is so easy. In a world where even drug dealers and criminals get into relationships you are not able to set me up with a woman? You failed your own premise.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:09 AM
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Impossible to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:07 AM
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“we don’t want to be provided for we can provide for ourselves. Can men at least provide for themselves and act like adults?!” It is right in there, the second sentence. We can never get rid of gender roles because it is rooted deeply in us. And there is nothing wrong with gender roles. Just stop pretending to want it any other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:05 AM
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Women on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:03 AM
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"You're young" doesn't help. It gives a feeling that you have a looooooooot of time which simply isn't true. Time flies. One needs to act NOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:03 AM
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What is wrong with you? Being a virgin in 30s is now incl content? Ridiculous. Really, the direction we are headed towards is not surprising at all with this kind of extreme censorship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:01 AM
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So, it would be only fair if men feel entitled as well for a HVW.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:01 AM
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Truth is that we can never get rid of our gender-roles. This isn't a bad thing either. It also doesn't mean that a certain group or movement has failed. Changing gender roles is just impossible because it is based on our basic instincts. One of those basic instincts tells us that men do need to provide (in one way or the other). It is as it is. Just like men have the responsibility to provide women also have a responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 04:46 AM
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Quasimodo? I gave up on those crigney romance books a long time ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:19 AM
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Not the corpse itself but the human that habitated the corpse during lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:18 AM
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What do you mean by firm? Even if daddy state steps in men are still expected to provide, which is natural. It is a fundamental gender role and it would be nice if we stopped pretending that we can get rid of gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:06 AM
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I stand by what I said. If it is so easy then...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:59 AM
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I don't believe this exists at all. There is no rational reason any women would be with a man who doesn't provide. There surely are other reasons why certain women end up with men like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:06 AM
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You’re young Well meant but counterproductive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:05 AM
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Books is a good starting point. Most books are about stories like that. Purely fictional. Fantasy. Depicting an idealistic view of a relationship between a man and a woman. Same with movies, TV shows, poems and songs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:03 AM
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Because it is? Maybe it is because we are excluded, which is no one's fault and that is the way we try to put things into perspective trying to deal with the hand we are given.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:59 AM
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I don't think OP is frustrated. He is just trying to put things more systematically and he makes a good point. Afterall men are supposed to provide and that is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:57 AM
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Please don't act like that is not what we keep on talking about since years on PPD. If everything is so clear to you that is nice, there is the exit to PPD, you can leave. I wish I could come with you. Also, please make a post stating that men are supposed to provide and watch how people go batshit crazy. I really wish things would be clear for everyone but it is not. Even simple things like that need to be written out and talked about.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:56 AM
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Who was questioning that?! Hollywood, TV shows, movies, poems, musics...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:54 AM
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He is telling the truth. Men are supposed to provide. I think it would be helpful if we all accepted this and stopped pretending otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:53 AM
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Same should go for women with high body counts who feel entitled to have a relationship with a HVM.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:52 AM
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Countless murderers, rapists and whatevers are in relationships. Your argument is invalid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:48 AM
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No shit women like good-looking, confident, socially adept guys. That doesn't mean the dating market is completely closed to you, even if you're no oil painting, shy, nervous and/or awkward. I'll believe it when I see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:47 AM
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From reading your post, I'm getting a sense that you're upset that women aren't just jumping at your dick by the mere fact of your existence. Not a fair point because in the same manner there are women who expect men to come to them despite having a high body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:45 AM
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It would be no problem if especially women (and also certain men) would stop pretending otherwise. Also, it would be of great help if certain movies, TV shows and musics simply wouldn't exist or would be banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:43 AM
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Because they provide a value for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:42 AM
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There are better things to do than to shit on your relationship on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:12 AM
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Pretty sure you're not. You might be poor but you surely provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:11 AM
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You're (deliberately) missing the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:01 AM
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I'm sure my friends would stop being friends with me and would stop loving me if I was a shitty friend, as they should if I ever start being such a person. You would just hang out with other friends then. I knew someone like that and for all the talk of unconditional love, his had a lot of conditions, yet he expected none from others. That rather sounds like someone who is trying to take advantage of every situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:58 AM
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If you don't like what you did in your past, if you don't like your past choices then you're free to not mention them at all. Nobody would have known anyways unless you specifically mention it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 04:13 AM
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I don't understand this comparison. I mean, in the same breath we can also say that a significant amount of women willfully date a drug-dealer, prisoner or generally a criminal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 04:10 AM
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Aren't you in a relationship? If yes, why would you care?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 04:06 AM
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If it is that easy then you can surely find me a wife. Arrange something.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:41 AM
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[...] thanks to neoliberal capitalism, it’s gonna take two of you to provide for the needs of a household. Also thanks to feminism for forcing women into workplaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:35 AM
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I wholeheartedly disagree with the premise. Your idea is interesting though. They aren't needed as protectors because we have a law enforcement system, and people are generally less violent these days. There was just another shooting in the USA a couple days or weeks ago. The police also isn't always protective. Just yesterday I saw a video where a couple of policemen were beating up a woman laying on the ground in France. They aren't needed as providers because women can earn money either throu…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:21 AM
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OF girls and sugar babies tend to be desperate women from fucked up backgrounds - how is that proof of anything? And PPD women are not? What a ridiculous claim. Desperate men also prostitute themselves. Don't you know that desperate men are unattractive to begin with? Please stop polluting this thread with ridiculous claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:57 AM
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Sexual liberation and feminism disagrees with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:55 AM
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Getting paid for sex is pretty much the biggest shortcut there is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:54 AM
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Stories told to screw with ones feelings and emotions. It is enough to look at OnlyFans, pornstars, escorts and Instagram models.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:53 AM
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Not the only one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:41 AM
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Sex outside marriage is morally wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:39 AM
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Sure you would...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:27 AM
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I think a lot of men fundamentally do not understand how for women at least giving up your own autonomy and having your legs open for some pompous dude on demand is not worth the luxury, wealth, etc. OnlyFans, Feminism and pretty much all women's rights organizations are disagreeing with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:24 AM
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What on earth are you on about? Countless social media whores influencers run around in skin tight outfits all around Abu Dhabi and drive extravagant cars and live in extravagant places. Please stop with this BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:20 AM
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They hope to make money and get famous with those "free" views and clicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:18 AM
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Reddit is a main source for fake news btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:17 AM
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Women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:31 AM
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How do you suppose this will happen with their attitude? In that case explain to me what you mean by "their attitude"?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:25 AM
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Do you really believe that only good men get choosen by women? If there is someone who needs to touch grass then that person is clearly you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 09:10 PM
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Easy to talk when relationships fall into your hands like apples falling from trees.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 09:07 PM
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I disagree as well. If you rerun through the replies in this thread you'll realize that a significant amount of women are against stay at home husbands. Also, notice how none of these women took a broke man as a husband which is also very telling. I am not shaming in any way by the way. I am merely pointing out the facts. There is no need to lie to the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 02:01 AM
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I disagree. Most women want their men to earn more money than they do themeselves. It is apparently a sign of masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:54 AM
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Housework can take up a whole day if not more.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:45 AM
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Women Feminists see stay at home wives as deadbeats.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:44 AM
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In other words you didn't just stop, you actually found a relationship. There is a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:28 AM
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From my eyes, this: I somehow ended up as the stay at home spouse [...]. reassures me in my thought process. It shows me that truly men are supposed to provide and women are the queens of the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:46 AM
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Observation, logic, rational thinking and common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:55 AM
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No woman wants a stay at home husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:03 AM
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That's what children are for.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:02 AM
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I don't think people get together because they love each other. People get together because materialism.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:26 AM
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No, women don't want a stay at home husband. This topic alone proves that feminism is utter BS. Gender roles do exist and women are the ones enforcing it the most! And if you think about it, it is absolutely rational and logical that women don't want stay at home husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:11 AM
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I appreciate your honesty. It takes a lot of courage to speak out facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:06 AM
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Finally some common sense in this thread. Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:05 AM
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He's fully capable but has been out of work for months due to some legal troubles. [...]. He spends a lot of time playing video games, sure, but he's still working. [...]. This is temporary right now. He wants to get a job again, [...]. Short answer: No.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:58 AM
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Short answer: No.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:53 AM
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Solid
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 03:01 PM
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Yes….? That doesn’t negate the fact that wholesome marriages exist…? Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:10 PM
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Of all the languages you could choose to speak, you have chosen to speak facts!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:17 PM
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With a virgin, she literally doesn’t know much better. Which sounds nice until down the line she gets bored and curious. I absolutely disagree with shaming on virgins dirtily like that. This is not fair in any way whatsoever. This post isn't about virgins, let them in peace!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:59 PM
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The kicker is the virgin is more likely to cheat because of curiosity. Just because he shamed "hoes" there is no reason to shame virgins. They have nothing to do with all of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:58 PM
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I hate that you encouraged it even further. Not hating on you personally but your actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:54 PM
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What makes sense? 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:48 PM
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they are ruining their sons life It is no secret that children whose parents are pornstars get bullied. Of course their parents being pornstars doesn't justify bullying but why would I run around naked in the cold weather when I can dress up properly to protect myself, you know what I mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:47 PM
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First of all, I don't what ground beef is. I only know cornered beef lmao. Good times together with scrambled eggs and pepper. I used to believe I'd also do it if I were offered money to masturbate. Forget money, if a woman would watch me masturbate, but I recently realized that I truly cannot shake off the desire to marry. Masturbating alone doesn't do it for me. Having a girlfriend or someone who has occasionally sex with me won't do it either. I need the reassurance of marriage. Since enterin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:44 PM
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Marriage can be wholesome. No matter what I do or think I keep coming back to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:30 PM
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No, it can't be refuted. Men are supposed to provide. I do believe you and the other women on here as well. I am lacking the words right now. It is not enough to convince me. Nothing will be to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 08:29 PM
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No, I have never been married. Am only concluding from absolute truths. Truths such as that the man has to provide or be able to pay certain amount. I don't mean this in an insulting way whatsoever. Am just trying to be objective and understand relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:55 PM
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That is very nice. As for me, I need to experience it myself in order to be convinced. Right now my OP still convinces me the most even though I know it is quite a sad and maddening view.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:39 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:35 PM
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It ended up like this because someone tried to make this about me whereas in my OP I just had commented that if Tom Holland tolerates such behavior then that makes him a cuckold. Don't make things personal (about me) if you don't want to face a reply like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:34 PM
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Cuckold - a man whose wife deceives him by having a sexual relationship with another man That is from the Cambridge Dictionary. Kissing is a sexual activity. If Tom Holland is ok with his wife kissing other men so be it. I wouldn't be ok with my wife kissing other men and I hope my wife wouldn't be ok with me kissing other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:33 PM
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Yes, I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:26 PM
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I think I was 😅.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:26 PM
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Good point. But I have to make one last counter point. I don't remember this being about me dating an actress. If we're being real I don't think any actress would want to be with me anyways, therefore I never had that in mind when making my original comment that a man tolerating such behavior is being a cuckold. I don't have any issue with Tom Holland being with her. If they want to be together so be it. I just wanted to objectifly state what that makes him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:24 PM
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All I can say is thanks for staying strong and telling the truth. I know I probably used to be one of your harshest critiques.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:21 PM
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There have been men way richer and way more powerful than Tom Holland who ended up getting killed by a fly with a broken wing flying into his throught. [...] his millions of dollars, massive amount of fans and super hot GF. There is one (harsh) truth in this world none of us can deny. Death. Every single one of us humans will die and so will Tom Holland. Will he be able to take any of his millions, to take any of his fans, to take his hot GF with him? No. None of the rich, powerful and famous me…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:16 PM
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The more I read and learn about relationship dynamics, the more it dawns on me that it is just another materialistic thing in this world. It is like exchanging a certain amount of money/gold for an object of your interest like a laptop or car. Man has to find her attractive (physically). Woman has to find him attractive (physically). Man has to provide certain amount (financially). Woman has to provide homemaking and maintain good looking. These are all natural requirements, all biological, ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:08 PM
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Proving that Hollywood is still sexually harassing their actors.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:02 PM
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Any man who is ok with that is simply a cuck. Just speaking objectifly here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:58 PM
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😂👍🏻 Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:52 PM
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To be fair the financial obligation never went away. Women usually demand a man who makes just as much if not more, which is very natural to be honest. It is as it is. Can't fool biological needs and desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:41 PM
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I don't think this is challenging the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:38 PM
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This is actually true. Even though I am at the shorter end of the stick I fully agree! It is a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:37 PM
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0% just like I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:31 PM
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Too many times in that subreddit are women in their 20s asking if they're ugly, saying that they had zero luck romantically, never been asked out and they always had to be the initiator when it comes to asking people out. Always need to keep in mind that they speak about men they find attractive (which, might I say is rather normal and to be expected). Additionally remembering the infamous OKCupid data showing that women find 20% of men attractive pretty much explains the whole situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 12:04 PM
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😂👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 11:19 AM
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Mid thirties, broke,... You can ditch the rest to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:08 PM
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Personally, I noticed two strategies. One is shaming. The other strategy is gaslighting. Trying to make me believe that I am wrong and much better than I think I am lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:55 PM
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Nicely worded.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:35 PM
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Thank you for understanding. 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:34 PM
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What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:34 PM
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The question is, does she really listen? I would assume not. She is just doing a part of her "job". It is the same with the virtual girlfriend asmr videos. They aren't even aware that you are an actual existing human being. They might be not even aware that we actually exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:30 PM
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Not denying the truth. I know it deep inside, it hurts me, pains me and saddens me, but I have to be a man. I have to walk upwards, I simply at least have to pretend that everything is fine even though I am burning inside. I like JCVD's exercise video on this topic haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:28 PM
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Personally, finally realizing that I was not made for relationships was very saddening. I actually realized it (today again lol). I also had thrown the anger frustration I had towards women aboard. In my opinion, the usual frustration and anger stems from women apparently having high standards and requirements and certain illogic und irrational behavior. Let us assume it is generally true that women have high requirements and standards. If I actually approach this assumption rationally then bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:27 PM
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I don't know about anyone else and I cannot judge anyone else's situation. All I know and can say with certainty is that I was not made for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:17 PM
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No, wait. Complaining is annoying in general. People who complain about people who complain are also complaining lol. It would be nice if the more fortunate ones would stop bragging and it would be nice if we, the less fortunate ones would stop provoking the more fortunate ones into bragging.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:16 PM
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Exactly, any form of complaining is annoying to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:14 PM
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I think it is obvious. I don't want to mention them one by one because from experience I know some people will be like "but see, you are this and that" and I don't want to engage in any such discussion. I know what I am, who I am and where I stand and that is satisfying to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:12 PM
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There is nothing wrong with the "it is over" mentality. In fact there are men, like myself, who simply were not made for relationships. Therefore, it can be a good thing to accept this fact. The "it is over" mentality should be rather based on oneself's abilities and not what other people bring, don't bring or look out for.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 06:31 PM
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First of all thank you for your effort. I am very sorry, but nothing of what you said touched me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 06:30 PM
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Hope you follow your own advice! I wish I did!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 06:27 PM
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Yeah, we are on the same boat there I think. I don't agree with the arguemt that "porn is the main cause of the recent decline in relationships and sex".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 06:25 PM
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There are women who do ask for dick pics. I never bought anything nor did I cold approach anyone. There are also women who sent unsolicited nudes. It is absolutely disgusting. Not asked for. Irritating. And very, very manipulative behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 06:23 PM
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A pathway. Right now, you gave very general advice. Nothing in particular. No pathway whatsoever. The only thing which is self-explanatory is the self-discipline, which consists of just being patient, it is a mind excercise.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:50 AM
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💯
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:45 AM
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Doesn't help when it is actually women who keep on saying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:45 AM
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They are speaking from experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:44 AM
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What you seem to forget is that your husband and StockHamster12 are two different human beings. Unlikely to popular women-think, in fact not every man thinks the exact same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:44 AM
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Same. If I regard how some women who are apparently married talk about men in general on here, I'd also feel insulted.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:42 AM
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When you are a woman, why do you try to fix male issues? Why not focus on women and female related issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:41 AM
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💯
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:40 AM
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I honestly believe the same because rationally there really isn't any other explanation that actually makes sense. I mean, just speaking from my male perspective, if I would be (happily) married I'd be way too much occupied in actually caring about my wife and doing stuff for both of us instead of coming on here and bitching all day every day about women. Also, bitching about women would make even less sense then because I'd be insulting my wife all the time I speak about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:39 AM
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Well, in that case why not focus on your female partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:37 AM
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You know what is also real and actually constructive? Reading a book.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:37 AM
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Why would you use your dead time on this site if you have a healthy relationship with your spouse? It literally makes no sense at all. The only rational explanation is that the "heavenly" relationships these women here apparently have actually are harmful relationships. Also, que this on, assume you are someone who is in a lovey dovey relationship full of love. For the love of God, why would someone like that come on here and bash on people who are obviously way way less fortunate. Honestly, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:36 AM
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Why not help women instead? As a woman, wouldn't you be more likely to relate with women and their issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:26 AM
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All of which you women like.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:22 AM
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Why not interact with your partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:19 AM
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I wouldn't want my psycahtrist or therapist to know any of these reddit stuff to be honest. Instant red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:19 AM
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Getting approval from women is what they want the most no matter the air of ~invincibility~ and high value they want to project lol Same with women who pretend to be able to live without men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:16 AM
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So, you're just an observer?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:15 AM
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Do you also have checkpoints to accomplish all of that? As it stands now it is easier said than done.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:05 AM
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Reddit in a nutshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:56 AM
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👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:54 AM
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As someone who wants to see porn banned and deleted globally, I cannot blame them. There is no viable solution being offered.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:47 AM
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Or, women could pick better? I mean there are women on here who claim that women don't date men who consume porn, yet it happens. Who is speaking the truth? 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:40 AM
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Nah, I think his assumptions are good. From a religious point of view, adultery is bad and porn falls softly into that category. However, scientifically there are also certain points speaking against porn consumption, but personally, the only thing that matters to me is the religious perspective. I can use the science as a backup though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:30 AM
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There are men who don't do that. I might be fetching far right now, but I want to assume that you're an attractive woman. With that assumption in mind I would logically assume that you a pool of men to pick from. It should be highly unlikely that all men in that pool would attempt to shove their dick up your ass. Having these in regard, I would say you have the upper hand to the men on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:26 AM
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Porn use is a one way street to being viewed by women as an undateable, lazy creep. There are couples out there in which one partner, the other or both regularly consume porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:22 AM
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This in addition to the mass ED these men don't know about until they drag a complete stranger into that shit show has kept me celibate for years on end without complaint. Why did you just complain about men then? 🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:17 AM
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Respect for 2 years! I am working towards getting there as well. 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:13 AM
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Most guys would prefer a real woman over porn, if given the option. Personally, I agree. There are also men who have a beautiful sexy wife yet still rather watch porn than pleasuring her. How could this be explained?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:12 AM
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If men genuinely think VR and sex robots are a viable alternative to a relationship with a real human, we are going to see mental illness and criminality in men skyrocket. I see no solutions being offered. I only see further bashing on the victims, which are men in this case. Wouldn't this argument of yours be more accepted when there would also be a offer for a viable solution?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:09 AM
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I don't think that is a true statement since there are couples in which one partner, the other or both consume porn regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:02 AM
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Semen = misogyny juice 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 08:58 AM
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I disagree. There are couples in which one partner, the other partner or both are addicted to porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 08:54 AM
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I never really consumed porn that way. Maybe that is why it hurt me so much. [...] I already have a clear idea of what I want. That puts things into perspective for me. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 08:30 PM
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No, I am no part of those groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 08:28 PM
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Lots of women who try to live like men. It is no surprise really.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 05:55 PM
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[...] but God forbid she quit to be a housewife because then she is a gold digger. I was going to say that is the reason why it makes sense that the man works and the woman stays at home and makes home a home. But if it is true what you say then I don't wonder anymore why this place is the way it is. Anyways, i always tried to advocate for "marriage before sex" and "working man, homemaking woman".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 05:53 PM
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Who is Pearl? I thought Pearl is a programming language. 😂 I agree with you though. Made similar observations.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 05:48 PM
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That is a logical conclusion. Yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 05:42 PM
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Well, sad truth is that men are better at being women than women themselves. Irony is, that a lot of women celebrate this, especially feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:59 PM
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But have you actually been in these groups? A lot of these men (married and single) are not top tier men. Many are fat, with unattractive facial features, and don’t have fancy jobs or high level education. I disagree. Personally, I wouldn't go about calling other people's spouses ugly 😅.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:55 PM
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There is this theory about pre-selection. I had that in mind when I made my comment. Like married men already show that they do have some sort of worth to go for. At least that is what the theory states.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 03:34 PM
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I don't like this categorization.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 03:33 PM
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I am just saying that people go out anyways. We all have to go out at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 01:54 PM
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The reason why the advice isn't very helpful is because people already go out anyways. It is not like most of us are locked up and forced to stay inside lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 01:50 PM
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I have to criticize some men on here. Guys, we do keep talking about women only going for certain specific men. I mean, in some sense, all of this is based on numbers and observation, so it does hold some truth to it. However, why do we keep talking shit about women who do go for the other men? Like, I stumble over comments such as "she settled" or "she got older, she rushed to be with you, because her time is ticking". I mean, if we keep talking shit about both sides of the coin, why don't we j…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 01:43 PM
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Well, honestly the women on here are just as complaining. To be honest, complaining about people who are complaining is complaining too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 01:21 PM
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It had the porn I wanted, not the porn I could get for free. How? In my opinion there isn't much difference from the porn you can get for free. You still end searching endlessly, at least I do. Waste of money and time. That is why I am going the nofap route now.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 01:13 PM
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I don't know what to say to anyone who thinks that "go out and ..." will magically fix anything. Stupid advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 01:10 PM
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Weak women will choose rich men instead of broke men. Bro, this argument is absolutely ridicolous.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 01:07 PM
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You don't realise that every second you spent in your bedroom and away from others is the reason you are lonely. Nice way of simply saying that "you're fucked". Do you also have anything that is actually helpful and contributing?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 01:05 PM
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Experiences that far fewer women opt for? Women don't get engage in filthy activities at all: OnlyFans, Pornhub, Instagram, TikTok, Twitter, Reddit, the list goes on and on and keeps giving.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 01:03 PM
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Same could be said about all the women on here complaining that they cannot find anyone despite having tens of options. Bunch of low value females.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 01:01 PM
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I'd rather watch porn, browse Instagram, TikTok or the NSFW side of reddit than watch or listen to Fresh & Fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 12:51 PM
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I saw the second pic in this thread and I'd say you guessed right. She is for sure higher than 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 12:33 PM
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I honestly don't understand it either. In my honest opinion, if we ignore the photoshopped and purposefully dolled up women on the internet and TV these women on that image rate quite highly on the 1-out-of-10 scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 12:31 PM
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If we ignore the photoshopped and purposefully dolled up women on the internet and TV then these women rate high on the scale in my honest opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 12:29 PM
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Suggest marriage first. Everyone who leaves wanted to have sex anyways. Easy filter.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 12:27 PM
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I did. I didn't engage in any conversations though, because I don't want to go any further than that. Most of the first messages were alright. Few sent something like a profile pic and few sent nudes. Thankfully most (if not all) took it lightely when I explained on the first message that I am actually a man and did it for experimental reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 12:23 PM
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Men lie like a rug and women are blamed for not being smart enough to read minds. Well, it certainly doesn't help that women on online spaces act like they read minds and have a sixth sense to tell who is a creep and who isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 12:18 PM
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Do men give every woman the same amount of attention? Effort? Probably not. Do women even want attention from random men? I highly doubt that. The only attention I'd want is from my spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 12:17 PM
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Also when most men go for the same “top women” isn’t it obvious why only a few are chosen. Just how there’s men that are “‘not picked” there’s are lots of women that are also “not picked”. True, but you have to also remember that the women who are "not picked" also go for the "top men". Just to clarify. I don't think there is anything wrong with going for the "top men/women", we just shouldn't forget these bits, they are important to the equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 12:09 PM
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The solution for men (and women) is simple. Go for marriage first instead of "sex on first date".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 12:06 PM
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Women like married men as it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 11:59 AM
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My reason to post is to bring objectivity, neutrality and bring both genders back closer again instead of letting them engage in useless fights. Your reason however is intentionally to read about (and probably cause) drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 11:54 AM
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If you want to destroy your ego, you can lookup the FDS small dick thread. That destroyed me and got me depressed for the whole day. Other than that, I honestly have no idea. I was very keen on "women prefer big dicks", it might be true, it might not be true. Truth is the controller of the hearts is God. That is all I got to know. If God wants, a woman might end up even preferring my useless penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 11:39 AM
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That actually has some truth to it. Wealth isn't distributed equally, because we would just end up fighting each other mercilessly. Even worse than it is nowadays. If everyone who is wealthy enough helped, for example giving 1/40 of what he owns to the people in need, there would be no poor. In fact, there used to be such a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 07:58 PM
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He is vindictive and punishes those who don't suck his dick enough. Estağfirullah. Please be careful with your words. He is the creator of all suffering and pain. God doesn't harm. The rules are set out clearly. If you are being patient and thankful you will be rewarded. There are three kinds of being patient. Being patient in doing your deeds towards God, for example praying. Being patient in not sinning. For example not doing adultery or not drinking alcohol. Being patient when a misery struck…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 07:57 PM
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I have to double check that claim, because I know that all prophets promoted marriage and taught us how valuable it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 07:50 PM
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That is definitely the wrong answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 07:50 PM
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Actually no. Anything bad is happening because of our failures towards God. There are two verses in the Quran which explains this situation perfectly. During the Ottoman Empire, people struggled to find people who are poor in order to help them, to do their religious obligation. Don't make the mistake to say "look at this and that islamic country", because right now there is no islamic country. Yes not even Iran or Saudi Arabia is ruled islamically. I mean, is playing poker islamic (Saudi Arabia…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 06:26 PM
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Well, I didn't know who that is so I looked her up. See? She is successful, probably rich, athletic and very attractive. It is a miracle that she is single. There is surely an explanation for it, but right now none of our current methods satisfy such explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 06:23 PM
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The existence of all sorts of different couples shows that God exists. We are rational beings and if we would also act rational in our partner choices we would always go for the attractive, athletic, rich and extrovert person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 04:47 PM
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Would you like women to initiate, take you on dates, pull chairs out for you, pay for stuff for you and drive the car and hang out at the bar searching for you. Yes, I would, but strike out the "bar" part. I don't hangout in bars.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:05 AM
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I asked her to be my gf immediately after sex but she turned me down saying we hadn't known each other for long enough. One of the reasons why marriage before sex does make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 08:56 AM
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This makes sense to me. There are also people who should get married at that age to keep being productive and motivated. Of course, this shouldn't mean that someone who isn't married must be a lazy unproductive person lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:02 PM
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I think the reasoning for these people is that they like had to give up their studies when they married because I suppose marriage took up a major part in their lives. I am the same with you. I believe being with someone would have improved me instead of holding me further down. I am like the opposite lol. Being with someone or the hope for it is very motivating whereas being single I almost have no drive at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 09:47 AM
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I had a similar feeling when I was reading about women who apparently don't need no men and would be happy to live alone for the rest of their lives. Then I realized that these women are straight out lying to themselves. We were created in such a way that both genders need and seek each other. Therefore, these men who give the impression that they don't need women, they are lying to themselves and others.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 07:41 AM
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It is not a torture. It is a test.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 07:19 AM
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"her man servant" sounds like the male version of "I am not my husbands' free therapist".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 07:17 AM
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Loving the whole post, especially the disclaimer.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 07:13 AM
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I understand folks who argue in favor of not marrying too early. In this case, people are afraid that they might loose focus on their studies, career or university. Sometimes the reasoning is also that one might not have enough experience to pick a good partner. There are also people who are quite the opposite. They gain motivation and energy from being in a relationship, from being married. Even the hope alone can give these people quite a boost. Therefore, general advice such as "do not marry …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 07:12 AM
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Well the rules are out there. If a society indulges in casual sex/hookups instead of valuing marriage and family building then that society is going to fall pretty harsh at some time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:54 AM
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He is absolutely right. I can be even more blunt. What I am going to say was definitely not the intention of his comment. I will tell you my raw basic instinct feelings: women dressing slutty and normalizing is good for me, because then I can stare and them. I actually don't have to tell women to wear revealing and slutty outfits at all because they already do it freely and push each other into it. Which is actually a gift for perverted men like me. going to a mixed gym is the best ever. I am ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 08:58 PM
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It is crazy how some women claim to want be in sexy outfits when they are in public yet when you suggest them to wear revealing clothes they suddenly get offended and feel harassed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 02:17 PM
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I understand now why US soldiers are very savage and raped and murdered so many children and women afterall in Vietnam and Iraq.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 11:57 PM
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Honestly it kind of makes sense what she is saying. Especially if we keep in mind how many children and women US soldiers raped in Vietnam and Iraq.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 11:56 PM
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Keep us updated.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 11:45 PM
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Women, I am terribly sorry, but the award for the "women of courage" went to a man. The award was given by the president's wife Jill Biden. Yet another time men were better at being women than women. Women, you have my condolences and I wish you better luck next time. PS: Woke reddit will likely put on the ban hammer for this, because... freedom of speech, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 11:43 PM
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Applies to the women as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:59 PM
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I am just happy I am not thinking like that. Otherwise I'd be like "what does my wife thinks who I am? Her free therapist? Pffft!". I'll gladly be my wife's free therapist and boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:52 PM
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Too broad generalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 08:29 AM
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I am on your side. I also believe that dressing up modestly is totally unnecessary. We are on the same page. That is why I am suggesting you outfits which are not modset.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:58 AM
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I hope your mother will dres up like that too. If not then please ask her to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:50 AM
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I also think that you should dress in tight fitting seductive outfits. I support you. I love seeing sexy women like you outside. It is really nice how I can almost orgasm just by watching you. Also, while we are at it and since it is no problem, please tell your mother to dress up in tight fitting leggings too. And no bras. Love to see them nipples poking through the fabric.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:49 AM
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Please tell your mother to wear no bras, tight fitting white tops and tight fitting sheer leggings.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:47 AM
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I don't mind it either. It is quite arousing. Even better when they wear no bras so I cans ee those nipples poking through the fabric. Also loving these women who wear those sheer tight fitting leggings. Wish all women would dress up like that, your mother included. Please suggest her these sort of outfits by any chance so we can see more sexy women on the streets.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:45 AM
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Since it is no problem, I would like to ask you to only wear tight fitting mini dresses. Also please, don't use bras, nipples poking through the fabric are way more arousing. While we are at it, also include your mother, daughters and sisters in this dressing style please.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:44 AM
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Since it is no issue, it surely is no problem to ask from you to run around naked in public. It would be nice if you wore those tight fitting leather leggings. While you are at it please also advise your mother to wear similar revealing dresses. We need more women like you. Oh, also, please don't use bras. It turns me on way more when your nipples pokes through the fabric.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:42 AM
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I wish your mother would wear less clothes. Can you tell her that please?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:39 AM
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Please tell your mother to go out naked. It is no problem, afterall.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:39 AM
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You seem to be an alien since you don't seem to understand that humans do have sexual needs and desires. As a fellow alien, İ wish your mother, daughters, aunts, sisters and wife would also take off their clothes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:38 AM
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Bikinis are boring. Thin skin tight outfits are the real deal, like leggings.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:31 PM
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I guess because most of the women on here did OF or something similar or had/have these so called slutty years. Now they want to hear that is all ok, because deep down their consciousness is wrecking them into bits and pieces.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:26 PM
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Says the woman who has millions of men to just pick from without spending one cent.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:53 AM
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theres nothing "petty" about not caring about losers. 90% of people you could term as losers make their own beds and if they dont want to do the work fix themselves thats none of my business and i have no empathy for them. Ironie, because you are still here. Good job on exposing yourself as a liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:46 AM
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As a woman it is easy for you because you can just ditch him and find someone more suitable. Most men don't have this luxury.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:40 AM
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Can't blame him there. You digged your "own grave" so to speak. Your words basically scream "women have it so easy on the dating market". If you don't like this then think twice before commenting. Think twice before acting like everything is absolutely worthless and non-effecting to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:39 AM
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How did you end up dating them? Was it mainly with money?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 10:45 AM
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What kind of mental health issues if I may ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 10:41 AM
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Yes. Just like Morpheus said in the first Matrix movie (I replaced one or two words): The question is not whether I would date her, the question is whether she would date me. My gut tells me that her answer is "no". Therefore, case closed and I don't need to wreck my mind anymore on this theoretical situation. What do men think of woman like this and why? I used to think very negatively about these women, mainly because I didn't want women to expose, sexualize and objectify themselves just like …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 10:22 AM
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First of all, you know exactly what I was referring to (people parading naked infront of children). Second of all, so what? If it is no issue I don't understand why you constantly complaing about men wanting sex. Didn't you know? Complaining is unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:49 PM
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A book has daughters...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:48 PM
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In that case don't be annoyed when men express that they want sex. It is perfectly natural. Also, you know exactly what I was referring to. People kissing infront of children, even having sex or using sexual imagery infront children. People running around in naked BDSM outfits around children. And many more. Please don't act stupid. You're clever.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:46 PM
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It is ok if you don't want to please your spouse in any way, but you don't get to tell other men and women that they also shouldn't please their spouses. If I followed your advice I'd end up treating my wife like dirt. I don't want that. I want to cherish and protect her. With that being said. Of coures I am going to my woman's free: Buttler (I guess that is the male version of maid) Stud (no idea what the male version of nanny is) Therapist Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:43 PM
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You are right. Can you also tell that please to all the people who complained during Covid lockdown that they couldn't go out and have sex, that they are about to harm themselves if this state keeps going. If you remind these people who constantly have access to sex of this circumstance too then you have my respect. Other than that, what you said are just... are just insincere empty words. No backbone, no foundation whatsoever. Unless of course, you are someone who didn't have sex for a very lon…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:35 PM
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A woman who isn't shallow, who doesn't need to constantly feed her ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:32 PM
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If her bubble truly bursted then I believe she will grow from that experience and realize that being liked by others is just a shallow egotistical need. Totally unnecessary and infact harmful to our souls.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:31 PM
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Who wants to deal with anyone who’s constantly whining, constantly finger-pointing, and thinks everyone should be a free therapist? I'll gladly be a free therapist for my wife. I mean, afterall, that is basically the whole purpose of marriage. To become a team. To help each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:27 PM
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"Better Call Saul" literally has two sex scenes and countless kissing scenes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:24 PM
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The sexual revolution modern feminism killed? There is no more sex in the movies and it is dying on TV. There are two full blown sex scenes in "Better Call Saul", a critically acclaimed series, which aired its last episode last year. Feminists are doing nothing for protecting women from being objectified and sexualized on TV shows, movies and games.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:24 PM
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You make a valid point though it is quite a double speak when rainbow troups can express their sexuality infront of children on parades whereas men get shamed and repressed for expressing their sexuality in textform on an online platform which is clearly age restricted and marked as NSFW. Unless everyone faces an equal punishment, an equal repression, I don't see any reason why men solely should get repressed for expressing their sexuality. Let men have their freedom of speech too!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:20 PM
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They must be doing something wrong then. It is simple, stop making children believe that they were born in the wrong body or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 10:15 PM
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If a child misbehaves you don't fix that behavior by encouraging it. You fix it by teaching it. I honestly would start with the cleansing of a lot of LGBTQ children shows on Netflix. They literally brainwash children into this desasterous path.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 10:13 PM
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When Ottoman Empire (muslims) ruled over Jerusalem everyone lived in peace there. The problem lies within Zionism itself. The cause of Zionism is literally to cause problems especially in that region.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 10:11 PM
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Back when muslims (Ottoman Empire) had control over Jerusalem everonye lived in peace there. The issue lies within Zionism itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 10:10 PM
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Wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 10:09 PM
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I assume because a marriage got broken apart. Assuming that the top commenter also values marriage just as much as I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:08 AM
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I don't know, those websites (Tinder included tbh) always look so fake and fishy. But since I declined the offer, you win.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:58 AM
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That is fair. Unfortunately I deleted all my dating profiles. You win.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:55 AM
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Accepted, although, I forgot to mention. We need to be of same faith, namely muslim. But I just realized, thanks to another commenter that I am not marriage material anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:54 AM
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We just need to be of same faith, namely muslim. What about you would/should make that woman want to marry you? Ok, that question immediately takes me out of the race. Well, it was worth a try. What about you would make that woman not want to marry you? My answer to your first question.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:53 AM
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I'd still be interested in women who post on ppd. For example you. 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:50 AM
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Have you tried going outside and finding women to introduce to your friend there Wait, which friend? 😅 promise logistically that would be way easier than appealing to complete strangers on Reddit. Makes sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:46 AM
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Therefore it is not as easy as some women like to claim on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:17 AM
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Haven't you just said the other day that you're MGTOWing? I don't remember saying anything close to it. What did I say do you remember it? It doesn't need to be a word by word quote. I don't expect you to go through my post history and waste time for this. I'd also guess that the claim "it's easy to date/get a date/have sex" is made about average people. Not people who don't fit "the average" and who have been struggling with dating for years. For the latter they probably need to solve other iss…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:15 AM
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I didn't complain about either of those things. I was discussing why men are so adamant that they don't care about a woman's career or how much she earns. Because men are not women. Women care about a men's career. Men inherently want to provide for a woman, for the family. Judging from your replies, women don't inherently provide for their family. But women have the inherent nurturing, emotional and empathetic features which are somewhat lacking in men. It doesn't make sense to me that a man wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:03 AM
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Start with Hollywood please. Almost all of them are pedophilic yet neither women nor men care enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:53 PM
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One of my last comments then I will try a reddit detox phase Challenge for the women of PPD I now have read multiple times from some women on here that it is quite easy to loose ones virginity as a man and apparently it is just as easy to find a woman to marry. In order to settle this argument whether or not men have it hard in dating, I'd like to challenge the women of PPD in matching me with a woman who'd marry me. Consider this as a fun little game. Ask whatever is necessary and I will try to…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:50 PM
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It wasn't me who shamed working men. If you don't mind I will fully quote your reply here from above. So are men generally happy to be financially responsible for another adult, even in tough times like currently when it's hard to raise a family on one salary? Why would men, the more logical sex (according to guys on reddit lol) put themselves in such a precarious position? Why not use logic and date women who can already support themselves financially? You complain about men who work, and you c…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:43 PM
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I assumed you are already in a relationship, therefore I was thinking you might know someone else who is single or have some ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:38 PM
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In that case I am sure you won't mind helping me. I mean since it is so easy I would assume that helping me would be a child's play for you. This is a sincere request.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:30 PM
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I don't remember saying that I don't need women or anything similar. Maybe in another account which lies way in the past. I remember you too btw 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:28 PM
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Women do not need sex? Did I understand your reply correctly?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:21 PM
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One reason (there are many more) Why should I give more if you guys women can't even accept sex as an answer and try to repress my sexuality? There is literally no encouragement, no motivation to give more than I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:18 PM
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Whatever. I still want to marry and am still a virgin. That is all what matters to me at this point. Just for your information, it is not easy to deal with. It is not easy to find motivation to keep going on. It is a struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:12 PM
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Why shouldn't it be true? You also implied it yourself that sex is a need but not the only need, didn't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:10 PM
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Fair played. Sorry, I edited my reply. I didn't quite understand until like my 4th or 5th edit of my own reply lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:07 PM
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I will defend women until my death. Transwomen should compete in their own league and not mixed with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:06 PM
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Agreed, but we men have testosterone which makes the urges harder to control. Women probably have a (slightly) easier time controlling their urges, I'd assume. Ok, now we could argue whether baby craziness and testosterone balance each other out. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:04 PM
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Yeah there is definitely more to it. I didn't want to bother listing everything that comes to my mind, just said the first thing that popped up in my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:02 PM
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Me? No, I am more like MFTOW (men forced their own way). 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:01 PM
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Yes, I don't know about other men but I'd rather have a woman by my side and have sex with her instead of porn and masturbation. I know, there are sadly men out there who still watch porn despite having a wife. I am angry at these men. I want to scream into their faces "fucking cherish what you have oh my God! Stop masturbating and watching porn and pay attention to her! "
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:55 PM
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If the urge remains afterwards, you’re craving companionship, play, and love, not sex. Pretty much my idea of sex. Oh, I understand now. I am one of the few people who values sex and sees it as something rather holy. I am against hookups, casual sex, fwb, ons, etc. Also, I just want to remind everyone reading: I won't let myself get sexually repressed [...] anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:52 PM
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https://youtu.be/URz-RYEOaig
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:40 PM
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Nicely summarized! The two paragraphs in the middle really hit close.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:31 PM
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One reason (there are many more): Sex And if someone wants to shame me for saying this out loud, then bring it on! I won't let myself get sexually repressed from liberals anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:28 PM
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No 😅. Just recently trying to speak up against it. Trying to be fair and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:21 PM
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I arrived to the same conclusion a couple of weeks ago but I am not so fully sure anymore. No matter what, just like we men need women, women need also men. It doesn't matter what women say on here and other places.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:20 PM
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Women are generally more emotional. I don't know if emotional is the right word in this context though. When there is a car crash who is the first one to react? Usually a woman who starts screaming. Being rather emotional like that is in fact nothing bad. It doesn't make one inferior. Things need to be like this in order for men and women to complement and fulfill each other, just like two perfectly fitting pieces of a puzzle. Edit: I don't like most of the replies to the top comment here. Kind …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:59 PM
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Really? "it's over" "nothing to lose" is what led to Elliot Rodger to go the way he did. It's an indoctrination. Why isn't this being noticed? He chose the wrong path at the crossing and just like everyone else he will be also held accountable for what he saw. These men need a solid foundation like Islam. There are hadiths which say something like "the best amongst you is the one who is the most helpful to the people" and in another hadith it says something like "the best amongst you is who trea…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:54 PM
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Welp... I don't the world to be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:42 PM
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Blame leftist media (e.g. Netflix). They are partially responsible for this mess. The mindset of "it is over" doesn't necessarily need to be bad. Given it is quite a sad state to be in, one can rise from it with a "nothing to loose" mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:33 PM
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I don't know how to say this, maybe I am more feminine than you are, but a man trying to feed a whole family despite the dire economic situation... that man is a hero in my eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:38 PM
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Yeah, but to be fair, what would be the chances if they seeked out a rather rich woman, or a woman who earns more than themselves? I believe, generally speaking, women would want their men to earn just as much if not more.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:35 PM
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Literally the most unattractive thing a man can do is adopt an aura of neediness and desperation and being unable to be happy without female attention. Easier said than done. Especially if marrying was one of your biggest dreams.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:28 PM
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Like some women on here like to say. I would argue that the bar is in hell 😅.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:22 PM
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Either are fine as long as she loves me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:19 PM
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As far as I can tell, yes. Maybe I am wrong though???
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:19 PM
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Ok that was super shitty wording by me. Sorry. I am gonna delete my comment. What I wanted to say, I suppose, is that in my experience transwomen are pickier and have way more expectations than women. Women have this, I don't know how to describe... women have this inherently motherly love in them... it is super amazing and warming. No offense but transwomen simply don't have that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:16 PM
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Wait wait wait. "People can change" usually refers to that a once evil person can become good. It refers to the actions of a person not on their appearance. does a woman with smaller breasts who gets implants to get bigger ones not count as a woman with big boobs? In my book that woman still cannot erase that she originally had flat boobs. People most likely will refer to her as a woman with big breasts. [...] why do you get to decide such a huge part of their life for them No, I am not deciding…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:14 PM
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On top of that, from my experience, transwomen are "pickier". So the chances are even lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:32 PM
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Huh? I think the major difference here is the obvious one. Transwomen undergo surgery, they change into something they were not. Women are born women, they don't need any surgery to appear more feminine lol. I will die on this hill. Women are not replacable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:29 PM
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I disagree. Women are women. Transwomen are Transwomen. I will die on this hill that is for sure. There is something inherently different between Transwomen and women which simply makes women irreplaceable. I am speaking from a male perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:43 AM
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❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:40 AM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:39 AM
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Seriously no offense, I don't know how to word this in a more positive way, but in my experience trans women are worse than actual women. Again no offense intended for real. I am just stating my personal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:38 AM
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That is a good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:03 PM
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Thank you for your insight.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 04:53 PM
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I think I have finally become what I wanted to be. A broken man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:47 PM
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I think we need to differentiate the group of men we talk about. I want to make an example: Attractive man: In slang terms he would be the so called "Chad". Majority of women find him attractive thus he has a lot of options. Average man: He is neither ugly nor too attractive. He has some chances but also dry phases. Unattractive man: As far as I can tell not even unattractive women would want these men. (Sorry, but if it is of any condolence I am most likely also in this group of men). Starting …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:34 PM
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Thank you! 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:19 PM
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MashaAllah
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:19 PM
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Ok, it is an inappropriate topic to talk about so openly. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:18 PM
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I wonder in which category that makes me fall
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 02:39 PM
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Didn't you bother cleaning her up? Like, with your tongue?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 02:38 PM
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I honestly didn't know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 02:37 PM
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RIP to the real feminists that marched for equal rights so their daughters could spread their legs for 4.99$ a month. Y'all tried your best fr.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 02:22 PM
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People should first and foremost learn to be happy being alone[...]. The best motivation in my case is a woman. I experienced it. Sadly we were just study partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 02:02 PM
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Being single/lonely is one step worse than death. (Not my own words).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:48 PM
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Women don’t get approached these days anyway either. Not unless they are 9-10/10 or they are getting approached by a drunk guy for sex. I think that is a net positive. It would be even better if the drunk guys would also stop annoying random women on the streets. Of course you have no luck if you say you wanna sit at home and do fuck all, because who tf can afford to stay at home these days? I am totally fine if she would want to be a stay at home mother. We'd find a way to make it work, I am su…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:43 PM
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I would totally simp for my wife and put her on a pedestal. If I only had a wife. 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:37 PM
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To be honest, sometimes I also take posts like this personally 😅. Am trying to get better at it since after all I am just getting angry for almost nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:35 PM
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Well, your argument is understandable and fair in my opinion. Sadly I am one of those who cannot swim lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:30 PM
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Bro these tweets are heavily triggering me. It is difficult to contain myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:29 PM
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Also doesn’t this backwards thread literally promote gender stereotypes?! I constantly see posts about how they want traditional women. Maybe that’s your issue OP, you are going for traditional women and are confused why they want a very traditional man? cough It's not like men are the ones who are generally being approached and desired. I want to keep this fair and mention that just like men a majority of women also promote gender stereotypes. I did put on this topic a couple of times already a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:22 PM
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I have no idea, but I am a man and I love to talk with my hands. Standing perfectly still is way too robotic for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:18 PM
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We can't stress enough how much women are lying to protect their ideal or image To be fair, don't we all? At least most of us, like maybe 90%?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:41 AM
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Interesting. Thank you for your reply. Isn't hookup and casual sex synonym? I count everything that falls into the category of "sex before marriage" as the same thing, be it hookups, casual sex, fwb, ons, open relationship, whatever other terms there are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:38 AM
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Not the answer I expected. I was hoping for more "I don't regret" type of replies to prove a point. I appreciate your reply though it gives a good insight for me to properly evaluate the hookup and casual sex world.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:36 AM
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You replied to some of my comments on this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:34 AM
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Now I understand why you got so aggressive. I didn't know you took this personally. Sorry for any inconveniences.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:19 AM
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According to the way she wrote her tweet. Just reread it again. It doesn't read like she has any regret at all that she gave what she give to the fun guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:11 AM
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Because then you'd know that it is impossible for me to marry someone underage.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:10 AM
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Q4W: Do you regret having a past full of casual sex and hookups?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:09 AM
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You can make a thread "do you regret your past sexual encounters?" or "do you regret having casual sex and hookups?" and see the answers for yourself. In fact I'll do that for you ride now in the daily discussion thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:08 AM
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First of all we are indirectly talking about the woman who posted the tweet. Read her tweet again, does it read like she has any regret what she did with the fun guys? Also, is sex the only thing that matters to you? Please do ask this the men and women who ar so afraid to marry because of the fear that they might not be sexually compatible. It is not me who is being against "no sex before marriage". I am all up for marrying first before having sex. It is all of you who puts sex on a pedestal an…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:04 AM
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Lmao what. You could have saved yourself that comment if you would do research instead of believing lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:01 AM
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So if she doesn't regret it, why wouldn't she do it? I agree. That would be the way of common sense. But there are also women out there who surprisingly are proud of what they did (no regret) with stranger man yet refuse to do it with the person they supposedly love the most (husband). I don't get why you guys are so obsessed with dating if you just openly hate women so much. I don't like dating and I don't hate women. I admit my comments aren't always fair and sometimes even straight out provoc…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 09:25 AM
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You are right. It is incredibly difficult to wait though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 08:23 AM
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The issue rather is that she willingly did all of that with the fun guy but won't do any of it with the BF. It just doesn't make sense. The fun guy gets more than the BF. I think men rightfully ask what the benefit of being a BF/Husband is nowadays. On top of all of that, there is no remorse, no regret whatsoever. I mean if she'd regret what she did I would fully understand her but she doesn't even regret it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 08:09 AM
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I hope you're right. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 07:16 AM
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My words, modern women dress like porn stars.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 07:05 AM
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I understand now. I am still gonna reply seriously. No sex before marriage and only one wife. I am also Muslim.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 07:04 AM
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I am not my type?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:33 AM
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Fair and good point! Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:20 AM
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It usually is though? At least I would have thought so, judging from the stories I read in here and on Twitter. Usually it ends up with that she did something super crazy with the fun guys but refuses to do it with her husband because she figured she didn't like that. It is super weird to me personally, because any husband who has to endure that must have a lot of patience, love and discipline
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:19 AM
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I agree. Sadly, there are enough fellow men like that, makes me feel a bit ashamed and super angry of my gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:16 AM
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There is a lot of women who think similar thanks to feminism and the aggressive sexual positivity movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:14 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:13 AM
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The replies on "would you date xyz" type of questions are flawed, because people who are already in relationships also answer that question even though the question is meant for single people who are looking forward to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 07:01 PM
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Word it however you want, women mostly have the same mindset as men when it comes to dating single parents. What is funny is that women defend single mothers whereas here I saw no defense for single dads lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 07:00 PM
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Even then, would a female loser want a male loser? I honestly doubt it and I am not even blaming her. It is a sane choice after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 06:58 PM
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Lololol at the replies so far. Women shame men for not dating single moms and guess what? Women use the same strategy, mostly being against dating single dad's. Lmao. The hypocrisy is truly unreal. If women wouldn't collectively shame men for avoiding single moms I would have said nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 06:15 PM
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I’m completely against MY man splitting his time, money and resources with a whole other family 🤷‍♀️ In that case you guys should bring feminism to adjust the child support laws. You women brought this misery upon yourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 06:12 PM
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Hmm, then I guess I have to find such a woman, or someone will help me finding such a woman. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:25 PM
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I have seen women on here suggest that men should go for average and unattractive women instead of always going for the top women. But, since it takes two to form a relationship, what guarantees that average and unattractive women would want to be with a, let's say loser like me? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 04:45 PM
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Thank you! 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 04:43 PM
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Ok, that is a possibility I didn't consider
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 04:42 PM
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There wouldn't be even the need for such groups when women collectively applied a "no sex before marriage" standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 04:08 PM
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If more women wanted a relationship they wouldn't agree to having casual sex, hookups or FWBs, they would rather apply a strict "no sex before marriage" standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 04:03 PM
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The majority of women are not looking for fwb/casual/open situationships. They want a long term committed relationship that leads to marriage. If you want marriage just go the "no sex before marriage" route. Problem solved. Anything else is a lie about wanting to marry or wanting a serious relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 04:01 PM
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I didn't think too much about it, but yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:52 PM
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You lost me at Boko Haram. Boko Haram isn't Islamic at all. But whatever floats your boat and raises your hatred and goes with the mainstream narrative I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:48 PM
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The only thing I agree with is: Oh, and if women in the west decided to have only sex when married.. most of these guys would be complaining of the women in their lives being prudes, and how ''Chad wouldn't have to wait.'' About being poor. I can't marry because I am poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:43 PM
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I am a virgin male at 29M. My two biggest crushes in my whole life where thin women with "flat chest" and "flat asses". The first was athletic. She was amazing. Very kind, sweet, nice and would help those out in need, even me lol. The second one was a professional dancer, very kind, sweet, nice, professional and also super intelligent. She had a very cute middle eastern accent. I loved listening to her explaining things when we studied together. Every word was so nice to listen to. Yeah, I don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 09:06 AM
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Bruh, what on earth?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:59 AM
1

Well does he know you do OF?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:54 AM
1

I think you nailed it!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:52 AM
1

Thank you! Summarized it up perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:48 AM
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I probably wouldn't let anyone like me near her and I guarantee you I am not redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:40 AM
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Hmm would I give a reformed red pill man who once spoke all sorts of daft misogyny and bullshit ideology online a chance? Uhm, having had actual sex is different than speaking out words.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:40 AM
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The only worst thing than a hoe is a reformed hoe, the kind of woman who was a hoe with every previous partner except you. That most likely would be one of the hardest things to deal with. Constantly fighting the thought that she did this and that for other man, but not for the love of her life, but out of respect for her you don't demand anything the likes from her because she figured that she simply wasn't that into those sex positions. It is for sure a strange world we live in. A very strange…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:39 AM
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I don't know what hot trash means but it is trash for sure. Might as well subscribe to actual OF pornstars or watch some porn on one of the other sites.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:35 AM
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[...] it's scary how unaware these girls are about the consequences. Sexual positivity movement. Does it ring a bell? All of us are partially at fault for these girls' actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:33 AM
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From what I saw, F&F could be just as well a porn casting show or whatever it is called nowadays. What is the purpose of mostly having one guy and like dozens of women who dress rather arousing and sexily on there?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:29 AM
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I am a religious person, so if she ended up finding the same faith as me or if she already had the same faith and just sort of ended up being on the somewhat wrong path and now regrets it and doesn't want to turn back, then I am fine with it. I honestly don't even have to know her past. If we are being realistic though, would I be visible for her? I highly doubt so. This is nothing bad though, just a more realistic take on the situation. Realistically speaking, I think it doesn't matter if I wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:25 AM
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I won't ever change my mind because the mess we have nowadays is truly partially feminism's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 07:48 AM
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It's not invisible at all, it's no romantic relationship and the ugliest women dont get that either, they get pumped and dumped that's it. I think they could avoid being pumped and dumped if they'd apply a no sex before marriage standard. They could go to hookers and have sex too ! You need a lot of money to do that. Most of us are poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:05 AM
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Why would no sex before marriage mean "loosing all sex"? It were women on here who showed me stats about how couples in a relationship have the most sex. According to these stats a no sex before marriage standard would further increase the amount of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:55 AM
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Being invisible is in fact one step worse than death and death is pretty much one of the worst things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:06 AM
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As a man , when a woman is interested in me i know it comes from genuine reasons, i do not need to be cautious about being tricked or manipulated simply because she doesnt have to i know she chose me over multiple other men. This is a very naive take. Don't fall for the lies of women on here pretending to want serious relationships. Think about it, if they'd really want serious relationships they'd mostly apply a "no sex before marriage" strategy, yet a lot of women do end up having casual sex a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:04 AM
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We men love women, it will never change. I believe women do have the upper hand in this situation. They are ones cappable of fixing things. They way both parties can work on fixing this mess though is if both parties start applying the "no sex before" marriage standard. Sadly, to my disappointment, I see a lot of men here wanting casual sex. Ok, ok, maybe it is men's fault afterall lmao, but let's be real here, it is not like women are against casual sex or promote an overall "no sex before marr…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 04:55 PM
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Issue is, even if men weren't that thirsty, nothing would change with women. Women need to change inherently. It happened with feminism. It started out with a good thing and then turned into brainwashing countless women on earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 10:04 AM
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Whether men hold women accountable to any standards or not doesn't change anything. At best, if he holds women to any standard he can expect that his options will lower even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 10:02 AM
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You’ve heard the phase “when it looks too good to be true, it probably is” So is hooking up and having casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 05:34 PM
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Tinder logo reminds me suspiciously of the Vodafone Logo. 🤔🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 03:58 AM
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Whether it is appropriate or not to say, it is quite obvious why having multiple partners is a risk. There is a high risk for Stds and that stuff apparently does hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:50 PM
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If it would only work that way I had achieved piece of mind 10 years ago, but instead it just brought me more misery and frustration.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:15 AM
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What is wrong with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:43 PM
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😅 But come on, can't we? 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 11:48 AM
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Islam
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 11:44 AM
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Ok, I admit, 2014 coup was orchestrated by NATO.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 11:44 AM
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Well, there were sharp shooters intentionally shooting at civilians to let the situation derail even more. If you compare the coups, you will realize similar elements such as Lady in a red dress Guy playing piano Protestors handing out roses or smth to cops sharp shooters shooting at civilians to derail the situation even more a car driving through the crowd It is really always the same method. calling the democratically elected president a dictator spreading lies about the democratically electe…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 03:58 AM
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Bro, CIA literally admitted it and released the secret files. What on earth?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 03:57 AM
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Soulmates? From my what I read and heard about my religion, all of us were created before we came to earth, like our souls already existed before came to earth and in that soul realm we did also interact with each other. That is why sometimes we quickly connect with certain strangers we meet and some other times no matter the effort we just cannot connect with certain strangers. The strangers we connect quickly with, we probably also connected with in the soul realm. I am still researching this,…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 03:54 AM
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Yes, there is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 03:48 AM
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I am fully ready to enter a "Yes, there is." "No, there isn't." dialog. Let's bring it on. There actually is a soulmate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 12:06 AM
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Thank you very much! I also wish the best for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 12:05 AM
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Message: We rather take dogs as children than actual children. It is super sad to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 12:01 AM
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Russian, Armenian, Turkish, Pakistan, Afghan, Eastern European and generally middle eastern accents are super hot too. Just saying. And all the other accents that exist as well. All of them are hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 11:59 PM
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Like for real lmao, or the process of pregnancy and bearing a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 11:58 PM
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Bro, this is kind of hurtful to women. Afterall women are the ones who bear children. We men in no way could overcome that task. It is not easy to bear children. It is a difficult time, usually lasting about 9 months. I say, give women a break. Yes, I know, there are those fit mother's or whatever, I mean respect to them for being able to maintain their figure, so to speak, but let's be real, it is not an easy task. No offense, but I wonder how many of these fit mom's actually also work alongsid…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 11:53 PM
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Ok that way, the "i give up" sentiment makes sense. Although I also used it to not be hurt anymore (loneliness hurts too), though admittedly i had this mixed with a revenge feeling which I didn't admit to myself for a long time, up until now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 11:51 PM
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I find it amusing how some people claim to have "given up" on dating. It is like they are trying to play a Uno Reverse Card. I gave up on dating at age XY because men are crap. I gave up on dating at age XY because women are crap. I am not gonna lie though, for a while I used to play the same Uno Reverse Card as a revenge on women and as a way to deal with my loneliness. I'll let you know I am still a virgin at 29M and finally at peace. Let me tell you something: You cannot just "give up" on the…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 11:43 PM
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I don't want to break anyone's world view, but neither you nor me just decides to "give up". Afterall, who knows, God might present you a man which you find irresistible. Really the same with men who claim to have given up. If the right women knocks up at your door, and God has the power to create such a woman, you will throw out all of the "I give up" philosophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 11:33 PM
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Exactly the kind of men I don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 11:29 PM
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More people should read the declassified CIA files for couping the democratically elected president Mohammed Mossadegh. You will quickly realize how the same strategy has been used to coup the Ukrainian government a couple times.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 11:04 PM
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Women and men actually crave something long term, something stable. But we usually override those inner cravings by consuming excessively.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:58 PM
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Feminists want a providing man[...] Feminists apparently also want to remove gender roles...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:57 PM
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One way or the other we will go back to the old world, because the current hedonistic lifestyle we all live in is not sustainable at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:52 PM
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Neither men nor women can fight their nature. Going after Chad is like keep watching porn hoping for the next best thing, the next best dopamine shot. At the end of the day, jumping from one Chad to another won't make a woman happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:51 PM
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Each and every one of us has our own battles and trying to win our wars. It's why I mention often how guys here shame single mothers for supposedly having got pregnant at the hands of a man who then walked away or overweight women. We don't know the reason for their struggles. We don't know the circumstances. Agreed. Thank you for mentioning this. I know this too but it is easy to forget. Imagine if a woman is struggling with her weight due to ill health that she can't control like ovary disorde…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 02:50 PM
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I just want to add that it is the very same reason why we cannot judge someone just because they are a virgin at an older age.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 02:04 PM
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This is plain wrong and already disproven by all the women who demand a providing man. I mean, how many women want to be with a househusband? Seriously now. Let's not kid ourselves. Oh, btw, women absolutely should demand a man who provides, it is their right to do so!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 10:44 AM
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Well, I gotta say, that is also a good question!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 10:42 AM
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I'd say this is pretty much on point. Hits the nail on its head.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 10:42 AM
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I disagree. Maybe some are going that path, some are loosing themselves, but calling it the majority is quite stretched in my opinion. I believe the majority of religious girls stay true to their faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 10:40 AM
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Canada, where marrying is a crime, but having gangbangs and all sorts of filth is legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 12:57 PM
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Stop lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:15 PM
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Yeah that is what I experienced as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:20 PM
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In general women are rather emotional, nothing wrong with that, and therefore easily influenced by friends or even strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:28 PM
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I'm just enjoying the decline. If it would be only that. Unfortunately just enjoying it isn't possible. Engaging in it is further enabling it. Because by actively engaging in it your body language says "I approve this". I'm not hurting those girls at all, unless you're counting the whole "you can stick it in there if you want" thing so many of them willingly do. I'm sure that hurts a bit. Of course it takes two to enable and participate in this specific activity. To solve the issue though one si…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:33 PM
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Seriously? You think most women are organising multiple tour guide dates for the countries they visit and.. checks notes prostituting themselves for room and board when relocating? You asked, please don't be mad when I give an honest reply. If I go out I see a lot of women who are rather dressed freely (yoga pants, (leather) leggings, short skirts, short pants, tight pants, tight tops, crop tops, cocktail dresses, mini dresses and so on) as a men you have to understand that it is incredibly diff…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:19 AM
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We live in difficult times, indeed!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:08 AM
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Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:03 AM
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As a man I have zero respect for such a man. He could have just married one nice girl instead of breaking apart thousands. He also isn't hurting only those girls he is also hurting other men's chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 10:50 AM
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I gave you trustable sources. If you want to become an expert find their works and read them. For real now, can you even recite one surah?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:23 PM
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Where are your sources for those outrages claims? Btw, don't you find it quite strange that the people who lived at his time never accused him of anything like that? Yet thousand years after you rather believe people who made this relatively new accusation rather than trusting on historical sources and the people who lived in the time of the prophet. Not even the prophet's worst enemies, and trust me, they are way worse than your sources could ever be, made such ridicolous accusations. Also, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:21 PM
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First of all. If Allah or the prophet said something, then they spoke the truth. Second of all, it is clearly showing that you wrote your comment in bad faith. You would simply know this if you actually had ever opened up the Quran. The issue with your comment is that your lack of expertise is clearly showing. This is evident, because you obviously didn't even check your sources. If you truly want to be an expert, you have to read and understand the likes of - Imam-i Azam Ebu Hanife - Imam-i Sha…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:14 PM
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If women alltogether wanted commitment they would mercilessly apply the "no sex before marriage" rule. But since women don't rigorously apply "no sex before marriage" and in fact a lot of women seem to support "sex before marriage", I don't feel like women are being sincere on here whenever they say that "women want commitment".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:17 PM
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Men are being accused of trying to have sex with as many women as possible. This accusation is alright because it reflects what is observable. Women claim to want commitment, yet whenever "no sex before marriage" is brought up, both men and women start attacking that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:15 PM
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You asked for it, so don't blame me for what is coming next. Heterosexual relationships are normal. Homosexual relationships are not normal. End of story. When somenone mentions a woman being in a relationship the assumption is that she is with a man. When someone mentions a man being in a relationship the assumption is that he is with a woman. Sorry if I broke your or anyone else's worldview, but you asked for it. Don't play dumb or ask stupid questions if you don't like the answer to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:10 PM
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Maybe. She is not lesbian though, so there is that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:49 PM
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What on earth? I have seen you commenting on this thread and you were constantly saying that such a life is not worth because of all the risks and that the average women wouldn't prefer it to risk so much yet you ended up saying Like how I have a line out the door of men wanting to pay me for sex at 50? That reality? Suddenly such a lifestyle is desirable again and because of that you are superior than the person you replied to?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:48 PM
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I'd also like to see what becomes of such women. I did hear that their fate is quite bad and saddening but I'd just like to see with my own eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:38 PM
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I don't like you sleeping around and basically taking part in enabling the downfall of these women, but I appreciate the honesty. Gave you an upvote.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:37 PM
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And tbh men can do this exact same thing - go to another country and find a strange man to take you in. We are talking about heterosexual relationships. No, men cannot do the same thing unless the man in question is top 20% or whatever. Even then he needs enormous luck and a good understanding of reading the room.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:28 PM
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For young men, the client would probably be older gay men, though. We are talking about heterosexual relationships. The equivalent would be a man whose clients are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:24 PM
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Also reality, most women do not live like this Even if this is true, which I highly doubt, most women have the option of such lives unlike men lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:23 PM
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Absolutely true. I partially vent on the Daily Community Chat. No matter how much I think I am in a mindset that things won't affect me on here... people on here still manage to write stuff which ends up affecting me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:22 PM
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true
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:19 PM
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Don't a lot of women do that or try to do it? Am looking at stuff like OnlyFans and its thousands of variants, of course, TikTok, YouTube, Twitter, Reddit and Instagram included. Also, a lot of people seem to like the party-life anyways and we know that people go to parties or clubs to pick someone up for the night.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:18 PM
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[...] who think they're special. This bit was eye opening for me. Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:15 PM
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not that the majority of women even consider living like this I disagree. The majority of people seem to like partying/party-life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:13 PM
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Both men and women should lower their gaze. Unfortunately very few men and women actually have the discipline to apply this. Of course, when you are for example driving the car and a couple of people want to cross the street and you stop for them, of course you make brief eye contact and revert back to focussing on the road. There is no problem with being aware of ones surrounding but this shouldn't be used as an excuse to look or even stare at women. Same goes for women too. Women shouldn't use…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:35 AM
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[...] great to know that you actually think you're a victim in all this. He only said that men should preferably avoid looking or even staring at women. I didn't see any victimization. While I agree with the first part of your reply the latter quoted part just puts a negative on your reply alltogether. Yes, indeed, no matter the circumstances men and women should lower their gazes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:32 AM
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Instead of adressing the actual topic you just attack OP personally. This is surely not arguing in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:28 AM
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I hope you are aware that you are actually promoting bad behavior with passive aggressive comments like this. In all honesty, it should be the standard that men and women lower their gaze, no matter how attractive or naked he or she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:28 AM
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That is the right way to go to be honest. Men and women should lower their gaze.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:27 AM
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So you are preaching something that you are not doing yourself. Prime example of a bad role model. Why should anyone listen to you if you do not even apply your own advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:41 PM
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With such women around, and other women defending such behavior it is surprising that not more people hate on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:02 PM
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I think you should lead with that advice and stop using reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:01 PM
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With that argument men who cheat and sleep around won. And women on here seriously try to tell me that women desire committment. What a load of BS?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 02:59 PM
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No, I disagree because I have seen men on here demanding sex on first date instead of for example suggesting to wait for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 08:46 PM
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If women are serious about the whole commitment argument, then I'd like to see more women going against sex on the first date or even sex before marriage. Yet surprisingly a lot of women are promoting sex before marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:09 PM
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I suppose you never heard of all the "sex positivity" propaganda promoting women to sexual ize themselves even more. Quite a lot of women believe that it is empowering to show their most precious body parts for tens, hundreds, thousands and millions of stranger men to see, stare and masturbate to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:39 PM
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Those are all just empty promises. Just like feminism's empty promise of removing gender roles. Instead of removing gender roles, men have to take on women's role on top of their own natural roles and women have to take on men's roles on top of their own natural roles. As the positioning of men and women in societal roles changes, gender differences in mate choice criteria SHOULD change because people look for mates who fit into their anticipated future lives under prevalent societal circumstanc…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:37 PM
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All that math yet the rule of thumb is that no rich woman would be with a poor man. We don't need to talk around the bush. Exceptions to rules exist of course. The rule is that women generally demand a man who earns as much or more than herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:09 PM
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Women today care less about income than they did 60-40 years ago. That is absolutely a lie and you know it. A man needs to either earn just as much or more than her to be considered a potential spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 01:43 PM
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💯
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 12:34 PM
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How would that affect you? Negatively of course. What the fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 12:24 PM
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We two must be living in different universes then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 12:16 PM
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I'll say what I always say. It seems to be easy for you, so, since it is no effort for you, you could maybe be generous and help those who are less fortunate. Like me, maybe you could find me someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 12:06 PM
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It takes two to have sex. So women and men are equally at fault for enabling hookup culture. Also, a friendly reminder, feminism fueled and promoted hookup culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 12:01 PM
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I have no idea. I don't think I am one of these guys who try to seduce by manipulation, although I feel like these guys seem to have the most success.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:03 AM
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Trying to get rid of gender roles is for sure one of the most stupid ideas we humans had. Because nowadays we are stuck in a situation where women have to fulfill their natural given roles and on top of that they have to provide as well. Men have to still do their natural given roles aka providing and on top of that they have to take on some of the roles of women. This is literally the worst set up ever because both genders have to do extra work now. Thanks feminism, for overloading and burning …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:32 AM
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Getting rid of roles != Having still have to fulfill their roles. A man working aka providing is still doing his gender role. He never got rid of his gender role, he is still literally performing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:28 AM
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This take... this comment proves women's dating struggles aka "most men only want sex" statement on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:25 AM
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A, always been into older women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:24 AM
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And there goes the "getting rid off gender roles" straight into the trash bin. Shit like getting rid off gender roles just doesn't work because it is in women's nature and rightfully so to demand a man who provides. There is literally no women on this earth who would take on the sole breadwinner role like men did for the entire existence of humanity and still do. Also, this is not about stupid stuff like "men good, women bad" just trying to state obvious facts how things are and how ideologies (…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:21 AM
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Is he a househusband or is he providing as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:13 AM
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No women wants to take on the leader role.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:13 AM
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[...] so they know you aren’t creeping on their photos If a woman doesn't want to end up as masturbation material she just needs to stop posting selfies or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:11 AM
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Usually posts to get attention, dressing in tight outfits, dancing around sexily, including some sexual context.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:10 AM
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That is a good point. I didn't think it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:02 AM
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Things women must accomplish to be considered attractive by the opposite grnder: pretty looks Things men must accomplish to be considered attractive by the opposite gender: career, personality, looks, intelligence, confidence, charisma Can someone explain to me again why women do have it difficult when it comes to attracting the opposite gender? Don't they literally need to fulfill just one tick whereas men need to fulfill a fully blown to-do list? In general women already look good/pretty when …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 12:09 AM
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Let's assume this is true. Isn't this good for women? Things women must accomplish to be considered attractive: be pretty/good looks Things men must accomplish to be considered attractive: career, personality, looks, intelligence, confidence, charisma
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 12:04 AM
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No way! 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:39 PM
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Same lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:38 PM
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I read the whole example but I would like to get back to my point. It is not me who is claiming that finding a woman is the easiest thing in the world. By all respect, you were the one who said I simply refuse to believe that a guy can't find a woman to get with on his level. Honestly, I am glad that it comes very easy for you. I thought because it is so easy for you, you might be up to helping out the less fortunate ones like myself by finding them a woman to love and marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 08:33 PM
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Past the early 30s, the odds of divorce increase by 5 percent per year of age at marriage—but it's not clear why.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 08:27 PM
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And I have seen the opposite happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:49 PM
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Wrong. People grow together. Once you have grown out there is not much to grow together with anymore. The younger people marry the better to be honest. Also, there are countless cases of FWBs or Situationships or relationships or whatever the fuck you want to call cheating and cuckoldary. Couples who apparently dates for 5 years, lived together yet never married. But once they marry they divorce a couple months or years after. So, the other way around aka waiting on purpose isn't exactly very pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:47 PM
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Honestly, why would any woman want to be annoyed yet by another man outside? There is only one plausible reason and that is because the man who bothers the woman is interesting aka attractive enough to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:40 PM
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You may call it “harassment” but I’ve never had women respond negatively when I talk to them in public. Not once. Because they made the experience that that is the best way to diffuse such an uncomfortable situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:19 PM
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If I remember right, since the end of WW2 until today more than 100 wars or something have been fought. "Nothing bad has happened the last 90 years" is quite a stretch.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:14 PM
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And you just harass every single woman outside? No wonder women need to protect themselves more and more as days go on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:24 PM
8

My friends see me as a great guy and my best female friend told me recently that she can't get that no woman is into me, because I am smart, caring, fun, and logically and emotionally intelligent. I have been told more than once that I would be a great husband and an amazing father because I am caring and very patient. I even saw a therapist who told me that he couldn't get why I have been rejected so many times whereas it is clear for him that I would be a perfect partner. This just proves to m…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:12 PM
6

I simply refuse to believe that a guy can't find a woman to get with on his level. This is quite simple to prove/disprove to be honest. I mean, if it is so easy to find a woman then you surely will be able to effortlessly find me one. I wanted to marry and love since entering puberty.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:08 PM
3

So, I quickly YouTube searched fresh and fit. The videos usually consist of a couple men and quite a lot of dolled up women. Just by looking at this setting alone you can tell which direction the show is headed to, and it is no good direction. I assume most viewers are male. My advice to these men is, why not watch proper porn or softcore porn on Twitter, here, TikTok or Instagram instead of these... whatever they are. At least the women who make these softcore porn clips on social media don't p…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 07:05 PM
2

I am thinking about the motivation to create such an app: Is she dating so many guys that she is worried that other women might date the same guy? Is she worried that most women date the same few specific attractive men and she wants to be sure that she is the only one who is dating him?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 05:25 PM
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Yes, 29 and virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 07:34 AM
2

By all respect, in regards to your post and comment history (I remember you, I didn't actually go on your profile) I don't think you'd treat him any nicer if he'd be honest about his intentions. In regards to the sentences and words you already said, I don't think you will react positively to him talking about how he uses AI to fullfill his sexual and emotional needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:50 PM
1

Edit: Unlike you, I have a conscious mind, even though I ended up writing it out and posting it I couldn't bring myself to insult you disgustingly the way you did men who want to be loyal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:25 AM
2

😂👍
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:21 AM
1

Let's make it short and simple, shall we? I am 29 year old virgin and apparently according to you it is so very easy to find a woman who'd love to be with me. So, where is that woman. Can you introduce me to her? If not, then your whole argumentation is pure BS. Sorry, but this had to be said.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:20 AM
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A lot of people hate them. If a person let's themselves dictate how they should feel about someone then yeah, this is what happens. It is funny how so many people, act all wise and knowledgeable and above the rest yet blindly jumps into what Twitter and Juristical chicanery tells them how they should feel. About Andrew Tate and the accusations. Isn't it strange? Apparently he did what he is accused of since years and everyone apparently knew about this yet he gets arrested only now? That is abso…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 11:50 AM
1

This accusation has been debunked multiple times now. Funnily enough not even the prophets worst enemies (Ebu Leheb and Ebu Cahil) believed in this lie. And those two were much richer and much more knowledgeable than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 09:33 AM
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This lie has been disproven multiple times. Besides, not even the prophets worst enemies (Ebu Leheb and Ebu Cahil) accused him of that, and those two were much more knowledgeable and powerful than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 09:31 AM
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Ironic. You know not even the prophets worst enemies (Ebu Leheb and Ebu Cahil) accused him of that and they were much more powerful and more knowledgeable than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 09:30 AM
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All the prophets do hold up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 09:29 AM
1

High n count != high-value.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 07:48 AM
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The best father figure is the prophet Muhammed (sav). I know some will spread lies they have been told yet again. But the truth prevails. If you would honestly research with an open mind you would also find out the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:41 PM
2

Food and sex is comparable. If we wouldn't have the natural instinct to eat, the feeling of hunger, we would simply forget to eat, we would forget to take in those very important nutrients we need for our bodies to function correctly every day. If we wouldn't have the natural instinct to mate, to seek out someone from the other gender to have sex with, we would simply forget to procreate, to create offspring and hence we would simply end up dying out simply because we just forgot to have sex. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:08 PM
2

Men also generally can’t provide what they did in the past. Thanks to feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 08:24 AM
2

Why is it a problem now that men are "falling back". Didn't women want to be on top?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 08:05 AM
1

Right now, I don't have an option. But thanks anyways for speaking in my name and getting everything totally wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:59 AM
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I would label myself as inc3l, but I fully disagree with the mindset of having casual sex. Why not marry the love of your life and have sex with her all the time? That is my goal at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:58 AM
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Also, who wants to be in a relationship with someone who’s just pathetically grateful that they’re willing to fuck them? Wow, what? So, are you not happy, grateful that your partner wants to be with you aka "fuck you"?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:54 AM
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You’re confusing men and women seeking relationships versus sex. Seeking a relationship doesn't automatically make you more attractive. In fact it almost changes nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:52 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:51 AM
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You're laughing, but there are a bunch of women (rightfully) complaining about their men withholding sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:50 AM
2

If you are in a marriage, then yes it is. Withhold sex from your wife and see how she gets all insecure and the relationship begins to fall apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:49 AM
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First of all, I want to thank you for adressing this. I agree with you. Second of all, skimming through the comments, it is extremely sad that so many just simply miss the point. I don't want to judge most people on here but I feel like a lot here, me included, just lack serious reading comprehension skills. Third of all, it is even more saddening to witness that so many commenters apparently seem to be living in a black and white world. Like they cannot imagine anything besides capitalism and s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:43 PM
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It is not always the fault of someone that he or she is in a specific situation. I honestly hope that nooone will ever reply to you like you did right now if you should ever seek out help. Because the way you replied is a pretty assholish way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:29 PM
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And I repeat myself, you don't need a ton of money to get a woman to commit to you. That is not what you said at the beginning. If you need money to attract a woman, you're doing it wrong. I don't think you are arguing in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:25 PM
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Ok, I won't deny that guys who post that crap (and get away with it) exist. But this is a whole other topic all together.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:39 PM
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Especially feminists demand that the men keeps fulfilling his providing role (just like you did tbh one or two comments above). You either provide or you don't. There is no "providing only the half". Therefore no, there is no equal digression. The issue with feminism is that women still demand the men to work and provide money (the amount doesn't matter). But if you do take a closer look, and I did, women in fact want a man who at least earns just as much if not more than herself. Contributing a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:36 PM
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Even if, it would mean that the wife has full control over her husband and the husband has full control over his wife. Still a perfect setup. Honestly, nobody needs to control anyone, not even in traditional setup. The only controlling that needs to be going on is constructive feedback.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:24 PM
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Well, a stay at home husband also contributes by doing all the housework and cleaning. Yet women demand that he also brings some income aka provision or providing. Again, I don't blame women for this. It is absolutely natural and women rightfully demand such a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:20 PM
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My ideal fantasy is being a stay at home husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:19 PM
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There honestly are no disadvantages to the traditional setup. Both parties would be fulfilling their natural roles, both parties would be living out their masculinity and femininity to the fullest. This automatically gives purpose, motivation and a peace of mind. In fact, it is very interesting to observe, that there basically are no women who would like a stay at home husband. Women who plead on being non traditional still demand on their husbands fullfilling their traditional role aka providin…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:13 PM
0

Those aren't disadvantages. In fact, since you would be fulfilling your natural given purpose, you'd be more than willing and motivated to sacrifice and do your best that your partner is happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:07 PM
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There are no disadvantages with traditional life. It is the way we ment to be together with. Even women who are all about "let's get rid off gender roles" demand a man who provides. Seriously everybody demands a more or less traditional setup.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:06 PM
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It wasn't me going on the barricades to get rid of gender roles. All I want to know is if feminists are being serious about getting rid of gender roles. One of that would be that it is ok for men to not be providers. Women generally want to be joint providers. That means that men still provide aka fulfilling their gender role, whereas women can provide aka digressing from their gender role. This is highly unfair and very ironic if we keep in mind that feminism is apparently about treating everyo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 01:41 PM
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As long as there is no woman who is taking me as a househusband, I will keep on saying that feminism is just an imagination. It is nothing real. It is hypocrisy at best. Women rightfully demand a man who provides.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 01:12 PM
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Please apply the same argument to women as well. Gotta be fair and equal there. I don't fully agree with you. Repentance can fix a lot of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:51 PM
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At least he tried, I guess, even though what he said there counts as sexual harassment in my book. I also see people on here complaining about men not trying enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:48 PM
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"do you want to dance" That is what Duke Nukem said while shaking 50 dollar bills to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:41 PM
2

In 2023 it is more like. "Yo wanna bang? Fr fr."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:38 PM
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I honestly have no idea, but if I'd guess more fat than muscles, sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:11 PM
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I know right! What would you say, is there no chance for the inverse working out? Like some sort of reversed gender roles, in which she is providing and I am taking care of the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:08 PM
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That sounds good to me! 👍 I am glad there is hope. 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:06 PM
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Height: 1.80m Weight: 80kg
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:05 PM
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Why and how would we meet? 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:04 PM
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And you are sure one of them would marry me? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:03 PM
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Confidential information.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:01 PM
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Thanks. Well, since I am poor as well I wouldn't know to where and how we'd escape.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:01 PM
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👍 Without the showing off, I'd sign up for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:58 PM
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I did try some things.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:56 PM
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I was hoping for a rich woman. Well, I can still dream. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:55 PM
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Can you explain to me what "Trailer Park" refers to? I never truly understood it. I always assumed it means like cheap or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:54 PM
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There are women who will marry you. Yippie! 🥳 But you’re not going to like what type of women they are. Wait, why not? Maybe I will like their type. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:52 PM
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This is the moment I became Heisenberg_Talk_3084.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:43 PM
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Stupid question and the answer might be obivous, but how likely is it for me to get married as a 29 year old man, being poor and a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:30 PM
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25+
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:27 PM
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But who would think of possibly being slapped or playfully hurt when being intimate with the love of your life? When I think about sex with the love of my life I usually think about penis in vagina and lots of cuddles and kisses. For everything else, I'd need to discuss beforehand and make compromises and be ready to not do it all if she doesn't want it. At least that is my take.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:25 PM
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We are spinning in circles. Has nothing to do with trust issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:24 AM
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You cannot force anyone to be with you. Of course in this case it does matter what your date thinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:26 PM
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In Islam, it is actually pretty easy for women to enter paradise. You just need to fulfill a couple of things and that is it. For men, it is a tad bit more difficult, because as a man you indeed are supposed to care for your wife, protect her and provide her. A loving husband naturally does these of course but if we compare it does look like men have to work a little bit more to enter paradise. This of course doesn't mean that one gender has it easier than the other. They both have it equally di…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:22 PM
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An insecurity looks more like Does she really like me? How can she love someone like me? I am not worth it, am I? She is surely interested in other men, isn't she? I am merely being protective. If someone wants to present their wife to stranger men then that is up to them. I myself would try and do my dearest to not drag my wife into uncomfortable situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:17 PM
2

Do you just disagree with the whole idea of a mixed-gender society? Yes. Easiest example. Gyms. The reason for it applies to everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:17 PM
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🤔 My post isn't about enjoying time with your wife. My post is about going into an environment, knowing that there are other women, probably dressed also in a rather extravagant and eye-catching way. I don't know, I'd be happier if my wife would be at least a little bit jealous and remind me to be careful if I ever should plan on attending such events.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:16 PM
1

I like to believe that I will encounter such a woman whom I'll end up being together with for lifetime and more.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 03:36 PM
1

Honestly, and I am ashamed and embarassed to say this out loud, I had opportunities but I didn't use them. One major example is that I didn't constantly study. I rather ended up playing games and doing other things except for studying. Major mistake on my end.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 03:34 PM
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She won't put up with your lack of self belief for long. Since last week, I do understand that insecurities can also lead to sabotaging the relationship. I guess that is what women wanted to say whenever they mentioned "being self-confident". I suppose, it is more in the sense of trusting your partner and not doubting yourself in her name.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 03:33 PM
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Because there's such a basic lack of trust I'm your relationship? I wouldn't label it as a trust issue. It is more like taking precautions. I would understand if my wife didn't want me to go to place which is crowded with stranger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 03:30 PM
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[...] unless that's how you view women. In my defense. It is not me demanding my work collegues to bring their girlfriends/wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 03:29 PM
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I used to be very stuck up in the thought that I am not good enough for the women of today. I still am somewhat believing this to be honest, because I simply ended up being a failure, sadly, so maybe it is really better that I am single despite having the wish to be in a relationship since being a teenager. However, to the men who think like me, what if a woman comes a long who actually loves you for who you are? I mean, let's be real, even if they seem to be rare, even if this seems impossible,…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 12:57 PM
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It sounds like that to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 12:49 PM
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More like, because I want to protect my wife from evil eyes. I am pretty sure my wife would be also worried and jealous when I attended a party where women are being showed off to the attendants. At least I wish that she'd be jealous in some way. Because I wouldn't attend such parties. I have the most beautiful woman, why would I need to go to a place where even more women are, whom I could potentially meet? I don't understand unless this is something which is really necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:24 AM
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I think I have a more underlying issue with the analogy. My problem is: Why would people bring their wives/girlfriends to a work party anyways?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:21 AM
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No, I want to be a stay at home dad. But it is just a wish, it will never become true, that just how this world works.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:33 AM
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Imagine your work colleagues all bring their wives and girlfriends to the work party[...]. I will digress a bit and no offense, but if these work colleagues of mine just bring their wives and girlfriends to show them off then I cannot help myself but think about them as cucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:19 AM
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Very interesting take! I just don't know. Personally speaking, there is something unique about talking and doing things together with another human being whom I like, and it is even more unique when it is with the complimentary gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:16 AM
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Interestingly narrowing down the options a little bit seems to increase chances. My age range is set too wide, I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 05:39 PM
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Those women knew what they were getting themselves into. Why feel bad for people who hurt themselves on purpose? We don't know, or rather I don't know whether the women knew that West Elm Caleb was having fun with multiple women or whether he lied to these women in order to have fun with them. I believe all of this could have been avoided if either West Elm Caleb or the women getting into this knew about marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 05:37 PM
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I was waiting for this. not married (obviously) no children any race any height not overweight any income 18 - 85 Chance: 4.73% Reality prescription: 1 out of 5 redpills (easy to please) I am gonna do one with children. Chance: 10.38%
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 03:08 PM
1

Thank you, OP, for this question. 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 11:24 AM
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I want to seperate my post into two sections. The first section will be a freestyle sort of reply to the question. In the second section I will try to answer any open left questions. First Section Faith As someone who is religious. The biggest standard/hurdle I have is that she is of the same faith. Though, that one is slowly dropping down as well. What do I find attractive the most? What catches my eye? Other than that, the obvious I need to find her attractive standard/hurdle. Though in my cas…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 10:28 AM
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Hmm, makes me really hate West Elm Caleb's actions. He could have just married one woman, stick to her and saved the other 9 women from experiencing such heartbreaking happenings.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 09:37 AM
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I found tall women always attractive. When I say tall, I mean taller than myself. I am somewhere around 5'10 aka 180cm.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 06:32 PM
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Don't be this man!! He is a great man! A great friend! Shame to those who (ab)use him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 11:15 PM
2

Ah I understand. Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 11:00 PM
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Thank you for taking your time! I can partially see myself being in the first paragraph. I am trying to work on it. Thankfully the anger part is not there but the feeling of not being enough is there. Insecurity on my end. They would delay decision-making. Some of this was due to anxiety or introversion. Some of this was due to conflicting feelings about how much to invest in relationships. Will probably be my last question. Sorry if I am annoying. "Delay decision-making" like in being insecure …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:12 PM
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F*ck! 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:38 PM
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Hi, sorry for the personal question, but in which way were they "draining" and"kept you from taking care of yourself and pursuing things that are good for you"? I am asking for personal educational reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:55 PM
2

I will always need my wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:48 PM
2

😅🌹
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 04:52 PM
2

I could easily find a spare dick or two. How charming... /s.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 10:13 AM
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It means the following: When a car crash happens who is usually going to be the first person to show any sort of reaction? Women. For example some women will scream instantly. Men on the other hand are a bit colder so to speak on that front.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 10:05 AM
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The prophet Muhammed (sav) said: If a husband looks at his wife with love and affection and the wife looks at her husband with love and affection, then Allah looks upon them with mercy. If a husband holds his wife's hands then both their sins drop down from between their fingers." -en-Nebhani, el-Fethü l-Kebir I 276. Married couple are so lucky ❤️. Peace and blessings. Of course the last sentence shouldn't be misunderstood. It basically says that if a married couple hold each other's hands then …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:44 AM
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There are people who achieved a lot, way more than you probably could ever achieve and also lost it all. Your stupid judgemental "what did you do in the last 20 years" just shows that you probably don't even live on planet earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 04:07 PM
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We don't live in a "just world theory". It is quite telling that this comment is voted as the best one. Describes the users of this sub perfectly. Completely removed from the world and what is happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 04:04 PM
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