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Thanks! Nice read. Though it seems like stay at home dads are just the minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:10 PM
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Sad but I also have to deal with this truth as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:38 PM
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Spittin' facts, I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:35 PM
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They aren’t the provider and nurturer that they used to be. That is the fault of feminism. To all women (especially feminists and certain men on here), kindly stop telling men that they do not need to provide nowadays anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:29 PM
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I think that is ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:27 PM
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Well, girls like diamonds, gold and similar items.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:27 PM
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Stats?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:26 PM
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Well, I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:26 PM
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Same lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:25 PM
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[...] are capable of attaining their own wealth nowadays. Most women want a man who earns just as much as them if not more. In case of a pregnancy she knows that the man is cappable to support the family. Some don’t give a single fuck about attention or fame. Female influencers on Twitch, Twitter, Instagram, YouTube, TikTok and OF wouldn't get as much followers and likes if they wouldn't present themselves in seductive outfits and makeup. If fame and attention isn't important for women then wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:46 AM
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Wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:29 AM
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As a conclusion, in oder to get women you need to provide sufficient wealth, fame (status) and attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:18 AM
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Men want women. Women want fame, attention and wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:17 AM
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What are you on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:14 AM
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you don't even have to say it at all! We ALL know! No, we have to say it because obviously not everyone knows that. We have people who will unironically say that "you don't need a relationship" and that "sex is nothing special".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:11 AM
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Womenchildren: THERE ARE NO MEN WHO WANT A RELATIONSHIP!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:08 AM
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probs cause some of their posts and comments sound like they don't partake in society Sorry that I never liked drinking and intoxicating myself with alcohol and drugs. Seeing how these people do better than me maybe I should have, but on the other hand no, that is not who I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:05 AM
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I have at least two good friends. Still doesn't make me feel less alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:04 AM
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I still dislike it that there has to be intentionally sexy video game characters. It is so unnecessary. If I want to see tiddies I can just open up almost any website on the internet and have tiddies shoved into my face.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:58 AM
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Not the point of the OP though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:53 AM
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Sadly though, most of us Muslims don't live the Islamic way. I have been to another wedding and it was worse than the wedding of my Christian German friend. Don't get me wrong I am not complimenting him either. Just stating that we Muslims are on a quite a bad path as it seems. Instead of clinging onto our believes we try to do the things of that we know which are wrong. This is also one of the reasons why the muslim world is still in misery. Back in the Ottoman Empire the Muslims lived the Isla…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:26 AM
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Gven the fact that there are women who can't find a partner despite their being men who seek a partner. The only conclusion that comes to my mind is that these men simply do not fullfill the requirements of these women. Therefore there is a scarcity of marriageable men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:21 AM
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They are better than us. Simple. But then you guys claim to not want to hear about Blackpill. We have been saying this all the time. We are simply not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:19 AM
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No, women (there are exceptions of course) don't find it attractive when their man is earning less than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:18 AM
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Monogamy isn't enforced.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:13 AM
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Serial monogamy is exactly what he said. It is a disguise for having sex with multiple people while at the same time claiming that you're monogamous. How it works? It is in the name. You don't marry with the intention to be forever together. You marry with the intention to break up in this life time and meet another person to get together with. In that context, serial monogamy might be yet the most unnecessary concept alongside FWB and ONS.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:11 AM
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The issue is most humans are basically following their ego and not their soul. This is nobody's fault since the ego is very strong. The ego doesn't want monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:08 AM
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Rome wasn't monogamous when they fell.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:05 AM
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No, you just have to mention "no sex before marriage" and see the backlash that comes with it. People don't want to be monogamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:04 AM
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It is not me who is denying reality. gouge out your eyes like Jesus said lol Teaching something you don't practice has no effect. Also, I am already constantly looking down whenever I go out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:55 PM
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No, we don't. Nobody should force their sexual curves onto my eyes. Even if I constantly look down, which I do, it is still very bothersome.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:45 PM
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Can say the same about these "ruined" women can't you? Why couldn't these women just keep their legs closed? Afterall it is easier to avoid sex than getting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:42 PM
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Who or what forces you to look? Bad argument since I always look down when I go out especially because of people who think they have to run around in tight, revealing clothes or in underwear. I'd have to go out with a blindfold to avoid them. Yes, all these people who dress revealingly in public do sexually harass me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:39 PM
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It is sexual harassment. Public indecency.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:37 PM
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I always have trouble in understanding what people mean. However, I thought he referred to people who dress revealingly in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:37 AM
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Because, they won't just sit in their own filth. The instinct to procreate is strong. Way too strong that an advice as simple as "just don't watch porn" won't ever fix the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:16 AM
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Except he never stuck his nose into someone's sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:15 AM
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It is basically sexual harassment. Yes, dressing in revealing outfits is also sexual harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:15 AM
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How sexually liberated are you? I don't know. Do you think it's okay to think and do anything as long its consensual and whatever people do in their bedrooms should not be shamed and judged? Even the taboo stuff like woman pretending to be a 24/7 toiletslave for her abuser and falling in love with him or ddlg incest rape roleplay? Or do you have limits on what you consider ok? It is not my business what people do at home privately. How do you feel about porn and men and women wearing sexually re…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:33 AM
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And I have no idea how the fuck you got there. I didn't get there from just one (valid) argument. I have seen quite a lot of people on here (I assume mostly women) commenting how they would neglect there partners even with such simple things as having a light headache. Also, I might have watched one or two too many Hollywood movies and TV shows. Sure, as a husband, I would show understandment but for how long? Afterall I also have sexual needs. I have nowhere else to go besides my wife. Therefor…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:08 AM
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These discussions always sound like it is totally ok to neglect your partner. That is why I will probably never stop mentioning that sex is important inside a marriage and both partners should make sure that the other is sexually satisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:29 AM
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Did anyone watch 10 Cloverfield Lane? Who is the woman that begs for letting her inside the bunker? I thought she is just a decoy, a paid actress, or Howard's wife who helps him with his crimes. If the alien invasion is real, why did Howard get so enraged about the woman touching the other dude at the dinner table? Is he jealous? Why is he jealous by that touch if he claims to only want to help? I mean he is not married to that woman anyways, there is like no point in being jealous. What is up w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:14 AM
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Wait some days, maybe not necessary, create a new account with completely new email address. Username and email adress need to be differing from your banned one. Honestly, I have only witnessed this kind of banning on reddit. It is absolutely ridiculous and batshit crazy. Major reason to fully avoid this site. Ironic is that actual hate speech never gets banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 09:20 PM
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Sex is very important. Where else is the partner supposed to get sex? From some stranger?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 09:15 PM
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That is more like some sort of TikTok/OF dynamic. It is all for money, fame and attention. Nothing serious and sincere.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 09:07 PM
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Yes, I do really. I am no Isaac Newton nor Nikola Tesla.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 08:07 PM
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Didn't Nikola Tesla spent his money partially on women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 08:05 PM
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Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 04:57 PM
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Thanks! I don't know how to respond. I love you, too. Hopefully there will be no misunderstanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 04:44 PM
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I feel the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 04:43 PM
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A relationship is expensive though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 04:36 PM
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No, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 04:34 PM
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What just came to my mind is that I mostly heard that from women and the men going their own way group who frequently talked about women. "I don't need no men".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 04:02 PM
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It is not secret that genders don't really need each other as much anymore. The amount of how often I read and heard that by now makes me believe that I am the only man on earth who wouldn't wish a world without women. I need a woman in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:55 PM
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Do you think returning home could improve your financial situation? I'd be also fine with living on the streets You sound like you'd benefit from therapy. I already went to therapy. Maybe you shouldn't view it something permanent at least, burnouts come and go. It is the only mindset I can move forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:51 PM
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About to turn 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:30 PM
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I need to figure out a plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:18 PM
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Not my point lmao. At least you made me laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:17 PM
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Science is that we believe we figured it out until we stumble across a better model. Science is just a tool.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:16 PM
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I understand you. Robot is the only way for me to somewhat move forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:13 PM
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Where are you from? I won't answer this here. Do you have any chances to improve your finance? I don't know. Without drive and without motivation I don't know what benefit the knowledge for this question would bring me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:12 PM
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29 about to turn 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:10 PM
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No, I am not "quite young".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:10 PM
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I get mad when people pretend that science is unfailable and the be all end all of everything while simulatenously complaining about religious folks who apparently do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:06 PM
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Time to become a robot (second try). I tried it once and it was going well albeit difficult. Then, for whatever reason a woman, whom I also found very cool said we should study together. My stupid heart. Despite telling myself that there is literally nothing, my heart still didn't let go and I got myself into harming myself mentally when things didn't work out. In hindsight, because of my heart, because of hopes to make things work out into a relationship, I ended up not being blatantly open and…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:41 PM
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Yes and I want to go back. I am aware of the "hardships".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 01:59 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 01:57 PM
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"Better quality of life" is this a joke? Maybe it is better for you but not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 01:08 PM
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Kind of an inverse pimp.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 01:06 PM
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👊🏻👀 🥇
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 11:32 AM
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It proves the 20/80 rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:55 PM
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No problem and thank you too!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:54 PM
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My experience is that people usually write in a very facetious shallow way when they try to say something positive about the other gender. It feels very forced and unnatural. Instead of just stating the observations they go all the way overboard. That frustrates and annyos me. Also jealousy. I am jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:52 PM
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It would be nice to ease down the gender wars. On the other hand it also could be even more frustrating. Afterall there is a reason why I avoid anything romance related in movies and TV shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:28 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:25 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:10 PM
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Thank you for shining some light into this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:09 PM
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I suppose it is a relative attribute. For example in USA women who make, let's say 60k a year might want a man who makes 60+k a year. If you live in a generally poor country, a woman who makes like, let's say 10k a year would be alright for being with a man who makes 10+k a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:04 PM
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Yeah, it did. Gotta always remember that they are all paid actors though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 10:28 PM
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Heterosexuality is not the same as homosexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 08:23 PM
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NSFW LINK! Women be like: I know someone who is has a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 08:07 PM
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It is really quite contradictory to say the least: Criticizing Religion. ✅ Criticizing 🏳️‍🌈. ❌
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 06:06 AM
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This guy nailed it. He says it very understandably. https://youtu.be/tBQBdL0wWAQ?si=42Zk0AuPLgKBPyTq
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:41 PM
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I hope so haha. But just in case I want to abstain from now on. I want to be prepared as much as possible haha when I get a chance with a woman lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:47 PM
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https://youtu.be/U-hzwJ8eGSs?si=iV355ZJBwmiQS-dk Out of all the languages that exist, Bro decided to speak facts!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:46 PM
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If it doesn't hinder you, then yeah, can ignore what I have written. I just noticed it for myself and agree with others who also struggle with porn consumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:45 PM
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Won't that make it more difficult to get harder? I prefer to be like rock hard, like it is almost going to explode with all the blood pumping in lmao. Sorry if too much information.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:44 PM
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As for the analogy, I can change my state in a matter of seconds (taking or not taking the umbrella). As for problems in regards to erections, that might take more time like a week or a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 12:52 PM
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Agreed. If majority would go for some sort of marriage first, meaning to prioritize marriage, people would be way faster off the "market" so to say (am trying to use some <color>pill lingo lol). More people would be paired more quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 12:06 PM
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Porn (and masturbation) is indeed dangerous and harmful. It lessens your libido and desentisizes you for your wife. I am single and virgin at the moment but imagine I am suddenly marrying tomorrow. Of course she'll be attractive to me. Imagine we are there wanting to have some fun in the bad and I just cannot get erected because I got too desensitized thanks to my porn consumption and heavy masturbation. This is just an example. There are stories shared by men and women who confirm that their pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:29 AM
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Nothing lovely about abusing a lovely situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:21 AM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:20 AM
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I was worrying too much unnecessarily, especially in regards to getting into a relationship and finances. I believe I am not the only one. A lot of us worry too much and end up reaching quite dramatic conclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:14 AM
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Seriously what is up with these? https://www.instagram.com/reel/CtJd35SMpn_/?igshid=NjIwNzIyMDk2Mg== "Motherhood is beautiful, let me show you my full naked body with children around." 🤦🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:39 AM
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Nobody is against breastfeeding. It is just strange having almost fully naked women in my Instagram feed who apparently only breastfeed their child.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:12 PM
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A woman's breasts does carry sexual value.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:11 PM
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I just don't grasp why it needs to be on social media, because not even in public I saw people saying anything against women who had to breastfeed their child. Something like an awareness campaign is not really necessary. And even in public the women had to breastfeed did their best to not fully expose their breast to the public lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:06 PM
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Is there some sort of project going on? What is up with all the breastfeeding posts on Instagram? It also especially seems to be heavily pushed by Indian channels? For a very long time I was saved from naked people and in the last couple of weeks Instagram mercilessly keeps hitting me with these. I mean, seriously, not even PPD men have anything against mother's who are breastfeeding their child. So, what is up with those posts? Seriously?!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:24 PM
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Maybe it happened subconsciously. 😅😅😅
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:46 AM
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Didn't come to my mind. 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:46 AM
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Didn't think about it. 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:45 AM
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Thank you haha! 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:45 AM
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Nice, you beat me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 05:05 AM
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We pick our partners in regards to four aspects. Wealth Social standing Beauty Faith/Believe(/political orientation if you want so) Though, these four points are spread out on a continous scale for each person individually. There are people who prioritize wealth, there are people who prioritize beauty, there are people who prioritize social standing and there are people who prioritize faith. Even if someone fulfills the wealth aspect on someone who prioritizes wealth, that someone might still ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 05:05 AM
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Depends. I have no idea how to say this but maybe as long as the belly is not bigger than the boobs or ass it is perfectly fine I'd say.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:47 AM
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Especially on reddit. Do you have a problem? Divorce it. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:46 AM
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If you believe in an afterlife you may believe that suffering brings you closer to God. You nailed it! Thanks for understanding and explaining your view!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:32 AM
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This fits with that the man is the leader of the household. Those are basically charectiristics of a leader figure. I fully agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:11 PM
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I partially disagree. Marriages that last a life long are worthy of praise. How do I justify this? First of all. I am a person of belief. In this world, all of us will face hardships especially inside a marriage. A couple who overcomes these hardships and manages to stay stronger are stronger than those who split apart. But, this isn't to say that people should never divorce. Sadly, there are hardship which are just unbearable and divorce must be done.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:10 PM
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We pick our partners in regards to four aspects. Wealth Social standing Beauty Faith/Believe(/political orientation if you want so) Though, these four points are spread out on a continous scale for each person individually. There are people who prioritize wealth, there are people who prioritize beauty, there are people who prioritize social standing and there are people who prioritize faith. Even if someone fulfills the wealth aspect on someone who prioritizes wealth, that someone might still ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:04 PM
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There is nothing wrong wth it. I was fearing that my sentence might get interpreted like I am complaining but I also didn't want to convolute by writing more sentences :D I am absolutely with women wanting a man who makes as much or more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:50 PM
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I absolutely agree with everything you said. Also, thank you for formulating it so clearly!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:48 PM
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Nobody. What would possible a solution would you give?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:00 PM
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That is true, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:00 PM
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That, I wondered too for a very long time. My only answer is my faith. In my faith it is a good thing to marry, being a good husband etc. It is all about doing it for God's sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 05:59 PM
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Came to that conclusion just today lol. Thank you haha! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 05:57 PM
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🥳
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 05:56 PM
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I've always struggled with "embrace femininity" kind of thing, because most of it is just...performative and I don't feel like performing a gender role for vague purposes. I'm comfortable in my body and I don't have to try to be a woman to be perceived as one. What I tried to mean. Mainstream media ruined everything for me. Even simple terms and sentences.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 05:53 PM
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The difference is the touch.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 05:47 PM
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Women also play into the "housewive - male provider" relationship, because even a high earning woman usually requires a man who makes just as much if not more money than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 05:43 PM
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What do you want us men to do? Force ourselves onto women? No, thank you. I rather keep my dignity, humility and morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 05:40 PM
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It's like so many trans men just ruin their lives by becoming ugly men when as a woman they would have had so much opportunity and potential. I feel the same. It saddens me when women decide to transition.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 05:38 PM
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Agreed and honestly it does make sense for women to not register broke men (e.g. me) as actual people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 05:36 PM
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We men can control our urges and our desires. We do have the capability to do so. We don't need to be in a relationship, we don't need to have sex to stop consuming porn for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 08:48 AM
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Thank you! Very interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:08 PM
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Well that is a very private question haha. I'll answer it this way. I'd be open for trying. Can I be a smart-ass, please? In my experience, not many women are into pegging anyways haha. Maybe I will be safe in that matter haha Also, I don't like anal. I can't imagine going in where the poo comes out. That just sounds so gross if you think about it Technically. Also, that hole is not supposed to be used that way lol Sorry for deranging the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:07 PM
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Instead of women trying to be more like men I think women should proudly embrace their femininity. That is what lifts women up from men. That is what we men like.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:02 PM
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Women are more intuitive than men, sometimes we also say emotional. It is not a bad thing. When an accident happens who is the first to give alarm, to react? Usually a woman. That is important!!! Men are, well, one could say more thoughtful or logical but that doesn't translate to more intelligent.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:01 PM
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I cannot side with Fresh and Fit though, because... what is the point in... they could have just made a podcast without the visuals, I mean the women on there are half naked most of the time and the men aren't dressed any better to be fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:59 PM
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Are there any studies or scientific researches which show that men are in general more horny and crave sex than women? We all know testosterone is crazy in boosting up the horniness levels. Since men have more testosterone than women it would make sense to formulate the hypothesis that men are in general more horny and ready to have sex than women. But that is just a hypothesis. Is there any studies or research?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:57 PM
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No, it is not bad thing per se. But it is more difficult to take care of the home if both are working.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:54 PM
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Since other cultures, religions and whatever also get generalized in apparently treating their women bad. It is only fair for me to choose this title. "American men be treating their wive like:" https://www.instagram.com/reel/Ct_X1eOA3di/?igshid=NjIwNzIyMDk2Mg==
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:39 PM
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This is just way too much special cases in my opinion. I am simplistic and practical. I don't want to write a rule book covering all the do's and don'ts in a relationship. All I am saying is that if my woman wants sex then I better giver the best sex of her life. End of story for me. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:06 PM
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Ok, that is a good argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:59 PM
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My counter argument is that there are successful men with a beautiful wive. Some of those men also watch porn, sadly. Sadly, because I agree with the general narrative that we all should stop consuming and producing porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:58 PM
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No, we were not. Like I said if you want to say that your ancestors were like that I am ok with that. Mine certainly weren't. Also, seeing other people have sex is not natural at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:34 AM
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Well, it proves that men's issues need to be taken more seriously though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:31 AM
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Only if you met that person recently, like a one night stand or whatever. Inside a marriage this excuse makes no fucking sense whatsoever. Having a hard on by someone when I don't want them to.... Seriously what the fuck kind of bullshit reasoning is that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:30 AM
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I didn't read but I assumed this was going to be yet another "woman sleeps with hundreds of strangers and man regrets his decision". Honestly though, suggesting to open up the relationship as a man... seriously... if this is done by the majority of men then I am truly not surprised that a majority of women initate divorces. I mean, who wants to be with someone who lightheartedly ditches you? I'd be fucking shocked if my wife suggest to open the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:28 AM
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Oh my God! What possibly could be so damaging by having sex with your fucking husband/wife. What the fuck is this cuck culture we are living in? I mean, it is your fucking husband/wife your going to have sex with. The person you married. The person you love. Fucking hell! It is not like you are forced to sleep with a stranger pointing a gun at your face or someone you love. What the fuck? Man. If my wife is in the mood I'd make myself get into the mood and have fucking sex with her. What the fuc…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:24 AM
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If I was a grill, I'd bake these steaks so well on me. Burning up those coals in my tummy like an industrial charcoal burner. Given that sweet crispy but burnt taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:20 AM
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Same lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:17 AM
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I have no idea what happened to your reply. It was valid in my opinion. Only thing that is left to say for me is that we usually imagine to be the husband or the boyfriend of the woman on screen. Yes, we are not actually their husband or boyfriend but the imagination is there. Dunno how much that makes one a cuck to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:07 AM
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Nah. We were straight up raw dogging in front of everyone. No, we weren't. At least my ancestors weren't. I don't know about yours though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:03 AM
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Can't stand who?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:01 AM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:00 AM
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As someone who agrees with OP. No, I disagree with your statement. That possibly is not the reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:59 AM
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You won't go to hell, I promise. No! If someone wants to avoid hell, better to not watch porn at all. Especially not out of curiousness. It is like testing a drug out of curiousness. You'll get most likely simply addicted.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:58 AM
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I also forgot. There is solo porn too. Not a very good Argument but I'd argue that at the end of the day the viewer still imagines to be with that woman on screen but he actually is not. He cannot touch her at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:56 AM
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Solo videos are more difficult to categorize, I agree. Though there is still this imagination with being with that woman but actually not being there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:55 AM
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Well, in both cases Monke see two other Monke sex. I would apply the stronger result on both cases. In both cases Monke cuck imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:54 AM
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True.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:51 AM
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Better than TwoX and similar where you get banned in an instant for challenging their views in the slightest. Yes, I agree and might I say have been banned for a month from this server some time ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:54 PM
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There is no God but Allah.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:53 PM
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Trans woman = Someone who was born male. Therefore essentially if a man ends up sleeping with a trans woman he is essentially sleeping with a "biological" male (God I dislike all these mumbo jumbo terms this topic comes with). Therefore, yes, that would be gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:51 PM
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Understandable. I feel you. Similar things happen to me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:48 PM
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Well, "small dick energy" is not just an insult, it is also a display of what is generally considered attractive and whatnot. Anyways, I digress.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:47 PM
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Fair, thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:46 PM
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The literally do. They are literally in schools dressing up children in drag costumes. Handing them out books about homosexual sex and all. Seriously if you live in USA and don't know anything about these happenings then I have no idea what to say. It is sad that as a foreigner I have more knowledge about USA than someone who actually lives there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:44 PM
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Wow, I get replies like that all the time and see no actions taken whatsoever. Anyways, doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:42 PM
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Agreed!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:39 PM
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Yeah it is pretty stupid to see this comments myself as a men coming from men. I suppose those are different groups of men. One group who prefers stay at home wives and another who wants a career woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:38 PM
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Why? You are not an animal who runs around naked, are you? You are a human being with decency and honor. Clothes are a sign of civilization, a sign of intelligence, a sign of being above mere animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:34 PM
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There are theories that they try to bring it back.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:33 PM
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Twitter wasn't fun, especially before Elon era Twitter was pure inbred shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:32 PM
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Male 0.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:31 PM
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Imagine not holding LGBTQ accountable for indoctrinating children, handing them sex toys, and books about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:30 PM
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CSA Miami?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:29 PM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:28 PM
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Men here and I'd like to disagree haha. Might be just me though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:17 PM
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Uhm. My observation is that no matter how much feminists claim that gender roles are social constructs and that we can get rid of them, it is strangely feminists who literally enforce gender roles themselves. Not by what they are saying but by what they are doing. The easiest example that comes to mind is that women still (rightfully so in my opinion, because it is supposed to be that way, because women are the ones who can get pregnant afterall) request a partner who makes more money than they …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:38 AM
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Glad they weren't more inclusive. That would be an even worse shit show than we have nowadays with all the crazy liberals, feminists and LGBT maniacs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:32 AM
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Depending on the definition she might not be totally wrong. However, at the end of the day it really doesn't matter whether a woman shows interest or not. Without money noone can turn an interest into a fruitful relationship. Therefore I recently started to rearrange the order and came to the conclusion that money comes first. Looks comes definitely after money.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:29 AM
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It doesn't matter whether a woman shows interest or not. If you don't have money you cannot turn it into something fruitful anyways. That is why I am saying money comes first and not looks. Looks comes after money.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:27 AM
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Thanks man. Same from me tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:23 AM
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My mental state improved when I was away for one month. Also I didn't miss anything in that month lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:20 AM
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Absolutely true!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:18 AM
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Easier than having no options. Just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:18 AM
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True. Wishing there was a male only reddit space but reddit keeps banning those.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:17 AM
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It does make sense if the latter doesn't exist. We all know that women find only about 20% of men attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:16 AM
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If you have to lean on LGBT ideology then you're most likely brainless.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:13 AM
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Spittin' facts Bro. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 08:48 AM
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Good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:45 PM
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They entered the work FORCE and get PAID from it. Women 200 years ago couldn't inherent land left to them, couldn't open bank accounts, couldn't own land, vote, work, defend their country, own a weapon, etc This is also dependent on geographical location. When wives were being sold on Londoner streets for a price of 1pound in Great Britain, wives in another part of the world were treated like queens.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:37 PM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:36 PM
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Sad but true and also thank you for spitting facts!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:33 PM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:33 PM
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Haha 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:31 PM
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I don't understand. It wasn't like women were lazy and did nothing except for the last 200 years or so. There have always been hard working women, housewives is one job to say the least. It is a full time job, 24/7, without scheduled breaks. That is a very tough job for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:28 PM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:26 PM
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Never heard of such societies. It is pretty much universally in our human nature that men are supposed and expected to approach whereas women are free to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:25 PM
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Wym? As a shy man I guess it is meant like to like overcome your fears and do approach afterall anyways as a man, because there really is no other choice for men afterall, because of our human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:24 PM
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What's wrong with men? Don't end up like me... Haha, I feel you on this. Same situation and I do believe the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:22 PM
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Hold up according to who? The dudes that are looking at her online? Cause those dudes are hypocrites then. And if they aren’t online they can’t see it anyways. So problem solved. That is a good question to be fair. I had the impression those excuses are injected by the feminist ideology. I also heard similar terms from men though. You made unsure in this case. I think about time that I escape this thread haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:18 PM
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I didn't want to say that someone who doesn't go for money/wealth is broken. Just wanted to share my new found observation here, which I think actually helps me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:14 PM
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Lol. That is a good one. Very brutal though, I must admit!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:13 PM
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I just want women to see that they are being brainwashed into exposing their most valuable traits rather freely for the public. Using excuses such as "sexual revolution", "being brave", "emancipated" and "dressing up for yourself". A truly strong woman is one who protects her values and assets.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:12 PM
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If she regrets her morally wrong actions then I wouldn't get to know them in the first place. I'd just ride along with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:08 PM
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Nailed it! Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:07 PM
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😅
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:07 PM
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Exactly! Since approaching is a masculine trait, it is absolutely natural and logical that men are suppose to and expected to approach women whereas women are free to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:06 PM
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Women tend not to make the first move because we'd end up being used for sex by men who aren't interested in actually dating us but figure we'd be an easy lay. Whereas if a woman isn't interested in a man, she'll probably just say no. Thank you! That said, plenty of women do make the first move and ask for dates. And plenty of us also pay for half on dates - I've been doing so since I started dating, way back in the 80s. Or taking turns paying for dates, which is what my husband and I did. And n…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:05 PM
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I said this in another reply. Exceptions prove the rule/law. Men are supposed and expected to approach women. Women are free to approach men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:04 PM
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Exceptions prove the rule/law. To be more accurate. Men are supposed and expected to approach. Women are free to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:01 PM
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Rather mad at them (especially feminism) for brainwashing (mostly) women into lying to themselves and believing their own lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:18 PM
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My focus is on the women not wanting to pay alimony despite being the higher earner.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:18 PM
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Dang, he says what I tried to say but in a way way better way. That is how things are. That is how our human nature works. Women want men who make more than themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:07 PM
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If you really want to loose it just to anyone, can't you just find a willing male?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:01 PM
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As far as I am aware, if she makes a lot of money then she most likely won't be satisfied with a man who makes less money than her. Women who make a lot of money usually request a partner who makes as much if not more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:43 PM
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Suit people also make money out of it. They dress that way because otherwise they'd lose their job aka no money.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:39 PM
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After money comes physical attraction in my opinion. 🤔 Money still seems to be the most important though. It actually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:36 PM
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Harem is used so wrongly everywhere. Yes, Epstein and Harvey Weinstein Immediately comes to mind. Very recent cases which got public. There surely are also a lot of cases which didn't get publicized. Talking about it, there were the talkings about certain rich people in the middle east also making women do certain things lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:35 PM
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Cause I’ll be honest my wife and her sorority sisters would absolutely doll themselves up and loom sexy just for themselves. The drooling boys was just a bonus. Well, it would pretty naive and dumb to believe that Twitter, Instagram, OnlyFans and Porn models also doll themselves up "for themselves". There is an actual reason behind it. It’s just like I lift for my own passion and love of lifting. People going “damn you are strong” is just an added perk The topic is outfits or uniforms and not a …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:31 PM
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Yeah I definitely need to stay off longer haha
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:23 PM
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Yeah. I have quite a high voice for a male. It sometimes irritates myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:21 PM
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You might be right there. I will hold on to my new found fundamental system. Money is on the first place then comes the other factors. My intention is not to speak for women here. My intention is to speak for men who want to attract women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:20 PM
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Yeah, ok, the very risky operational interventions are a good point, I agree. But on the other hand, women do go into risky operations all the time, don't they? 🧐 A naturally good looking man will get anything he wants for free and with no risk. That is a point I used to believe but I doubt that nowadays. I don't think he'd be attractive enough without money. Good arguments. I still like to place money on the first place and then looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:17 PM
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You'd find out that they are lying to themselves. In fact you would find out that anyone who says "they are dressing up a certain way for themselves" is lying. This includes you and me too. We dress certain ways because we identify with certain ideologies.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:15 PM
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The topic isn't only about "women on apps". Ask these women, ask any women, why they dress "provocative". The most given answer will be "for myself".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:12 PM
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I used to believe that. I changed the way I think, I guess. My reasoning goes like this now: There is no reason for her to do that if the man she is with invests his excess money into his looks. If he doesn't have enough money to improve his looks, then I fall back onto my point money being the most important factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:10 PM
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Everyone talks about looks being the most important factor. The most important factor is: Money
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:06 PM
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That’s not what’s being discussed here. The parent topic was literally influencers who get paid to look good. I am sad to inform you, but you totally missed the topic. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:02 PM
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You should ask them why they dress the way they do. The answer will mostly be "it is for myself".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:01 PM
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"I wear makeup for myself" 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:57 PM
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Just take a shower.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:49 PM
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This statement cannot be proven.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:49 PM
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Probably noticing it unconsciously.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:48 PM
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Hard to do if there is no motivation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:47 PM
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Likely the latter, because of our human nature. Nobody to blame here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:46 PM
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You're right but I would like to argue like a feminist here. She is emancipated and a strong woman. She can call herself a taxi if she need it so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 01:17 PM
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Do OnlyFans, TikTok, Instagram and Twitter models also "dress up for themselves" in skimpy outfits such as anything tight, sheer or revealing? Would they also keep dressing up like that "for themselves" if it generated no attraction, no followers, no likes and thus no money?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 01:16 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 11:19 PM
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Feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 11:17 PM
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No, the rule for men with women is truly simple. As a rule of thumb, if you want to stay on the safe side and avoid drama, simply don't show your emotions and feelings as a man, don't talk about them. You'll be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 11:16 PM
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Solution: Ban porn and punish those who create porn and spread them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 11:10 PM
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Perfect reply! Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 11:01 PM
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What I don't understand is... Ok, let's say there is something like an objective rating which displays attractiveness in an accurate order. Let's say, according to that objective scale my wife is a 5/10. Now, comes the point where I have my issue. Even if she objectively is a 5/10 wouldn't I see her still as 10/10 or at least like 8-9/10, because i love her and am married to her. I would simply have no reason to call my wife average or plain.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:55 PM
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Man here. Crazy girl who is a 9/10 or nurturing/safe girl who is a 5/10? Since marriage is impossible in my current state I am sure I can safely skip that question. I actually want to reply to the dudes take on women liking bad guys. I don't think women like bad guys per se, women like a certain vibe they are giving off. Vibes such as charisma, confidence and self-assuredness. It gives a feeling of safety. He feels like a safety net because it seems that he knows what he's doing and what is goin…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:51 PM
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I feel like we, or some of us, end up projecting what certain individuals said onto the entire gender lol. True, I agree. Also thank you very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:38 PM
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It will but only in the early stages like probably less than 30 years old. At 30 it feels quite late and seems to have any effects. The truth is, women can be an extreme motivational factor for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:34 PM
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Trying to bring in some positivity into the gender war. As a man, I have to say women are awesome! Really glad women exist. This world without women would be just very boring. I feel like I could do without a lot of things except for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:42 PM
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After being more than a month away on my own choice, I forgot why we attacked women for wanting to be with men they find attractive? Can anyone date me up please.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:39 PM
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Simple reason. Bath society in debauchery. For that you need to blind women into believing that exposing their biggest assets freely onto the public is emancipating and brave. Women doing that will turn on more men into hunting for that quick sex. Sex with multiple partners. Porn. If you want to turn a society into a brainwashed mesh then that is your best bet. Why do you think Israel strictly enforces a tight religious ruling? The debauchery is literally all over the world yet Israel is somehow…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:29 PM
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You make very good points. There certainly needs to be sanctions for cheating and sleeping around. Not only sanctions for women but only for men who participate in such debauchery. Though, this post also reminded me of women, who let's say had a wild past but realized finally that was just wrong what they did and thus they repent and stop doing such debauchery acts. I think these women should get something like a second chance so to speak. But at the very end of the day. These men picking to sle…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:21 PM
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Lmao it is the exact other way around. The other dude just talked about men who fully financially support their girlfriend so she doesn't have to work at all. It is women who are resentful of men who make less than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:38 PM
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Sounds like sexual harassment to me. Strange that women even allow this. Wouldn't it be safer for women to dance with women and men to dance with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:34 PM
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Just a lame excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:26 PM
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So far there are none.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:24 PM
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Not a realistic situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:23 PM
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True. We would just have to use the energy we'd use for porn onto something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:08 PM
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Most likely good because bad will bring in bad consequences. Unless we live in a society with a weak juridical system where robbery is punished by a 1 week vacation in prison with free food and housing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:06 PM
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Take away porn and all we’d do is focus on different tasks. But not in pursuit of women. Facts!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:04 PM
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I wonder, do you watch porn? Did you stop? Have you been in his shoes at all to be dishing out sentences like those? You are riding a bit on a high horse at the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:04 PM
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Exactly same experience! I went without it for more than a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:02 PM
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Not watching porn doesn't make you do anything. You have at best more energy than usual with a good mix of depression, sadness, down to eaethness, aloofness and goofiness otherwise the pain would be just unbearable. You become more sensitive, which can be dangerous if you are not used to it. Because you need to be prepared to swallow any kind of anger and emotion otherwise you might accidentally lash out onto people you actually like and accidentally make them feel like shit. It is difficult. At…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:01 PM
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We get it. Women are totally asexual beings. They are angels without any sex drive at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:56 PM
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Nicely worded!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:52 PM
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Sadly, there are men in relationships who also watch porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:48 PM
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I’m a victim of trauma so I’ll go and jerk off to women being raped and tortured. You know very well that this is not the case anymore with countless services such as OnlyFans. Those models can schedule what they want to shoot, where they want to shoot, with whom they want to shoot. I could make a similar comment like yours actually. Give me a second. Boo Hoo those poor women who are victims and become rich out of their victimhood. Let's be honest these women who apparently are victims live (mat…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:45 PM
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I agree with everything you wrote except the last paragraph. You talk about the industry like it’s somehow women’s fault men use porn. Porn use is a choice. Choose better. The vast majority of women who do any kind of sex work are victims of child trauma, domestic violence, rape, are mentally ill and often disabled. Blaming them for the demand created by abusive men is insane. If women are really interested that men stop porn consumption they'd also be against sex workers. If there is no offer t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:40 PM
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If the sex in those porn scenes is too violent for women they could have just not done that scene from the beginning, you know what I mean? Don't come to me with the starving excuse either. There is one porn actress who took it like a champ and became homeless. She never returned to that business. So it is possible to stop shooting porn scenes even if you end up being with no income and homeless. Also, if it is that hurtful why would any women willingly do these scenes? I would never put my hand…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:29 PM
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Yeah, but that is expectable and nothing to criticize women for to be honest. I mean how are they gonna help by making even more humiliating remarks such as "Awww, you poor baby"?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:25 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:23 PM
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You can redirect your complaint to feminism and the sexual revolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:22 PM
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The bar is too high and unreachable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:19 PM
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No, rich people, very rich people are potentially more dangerous since they have power to act out on (see Epstein and Weinstein for example).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:11 PM
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Used to lose sleep over this but not anymore thanks to PPD opening my eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:09 PM
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This is ridiculous. If the man is attractive enough in the eyes of the woman she usually even agrees to have sex on a shady backstreet on the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:07 PM
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Even though this information is not worthless, at the end of the day it is just anecdotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 11:49 AM
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They tend to be rigid and closed off to well meaning advice or constructive criticism. By all fairness, most advices are in the likes of "follow this trend, follow that trend", which simply translates to being constantly behind in everything. Instead of following trends made up by humans who probably did worse things when we do we should try to find role models which hold on for eternity. And yes, such role models do exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 07:09 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 09:23 AM
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Fight against what?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:46 AM
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Women wanted to get rid of their "stay at home" role and enter the workforce which they did. Even though women managed to expand their gender roles men are still (unfairly) stuck in their gender roles which they had from the beginning of time. On top of that it really doesn't help when women falsely pretend that they don't enforce gender roles yet demand their men to provide (work). A counter example is that stay at home husbands are highly unappreciated, disliked and seen as unattractive except…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:58 AM
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You're looking at the matter from the female eye. As for the male perspective not being able to provide reduces your chances extremely for a relationship. For women it doesn't matter, because since the beginning of time and today men take women from all sorts of backgrounds, be it poor or rich, be it women without degrees or women with degrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:50 AM
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You're free to upvote me if you agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:47 AM
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Thank you! First time it makes sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:46 AM
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Chances of finding that special woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:44 AM
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It usually refers to the first date. Which usually lasts like from 30 minutes up to 2 hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:42 AM
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He would be providing. Because his money is hers and her money is hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:41 AM
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That is gender roles. You expect your partner to fulfill his naturally given gender role, which is to provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:38 AM
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That is impossible. If men would invoke the majority of divorces it would be simply reflected on the stats. Like it is happening now with the majority of women filing in divorces.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:34 AM
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I'd advise these couples to simply marry. That way both partners can kiss and touch each other whenever. The only exceptions that can occur are when the other partner doesn't feel like it at the moment. And such exception only applies for that specific moment. Can try it again later.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:32 AM
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If she went for marriage first and then sex she wouldn't have had this problem at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:30 AM
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Why not just go for marriage instead of casual sex and hookups. That way noone can blackmail you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:29 AM
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And it is not even only about fashion. It is also about very simple things like the way someone eats or holds the fork. It is natural. It is communication. What I witnessed is that happy couples usually try to satisfy each other, sometimes a funny conversation comes forth from these sort of situations and we all laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 05:54 AM
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Then your man is most likely a decent person, dressing well enough. His career is also probably sufficient enough. His social circle is most likely safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 05:51 AM
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Are you aware where this line of thinking ends up? Let's take it straight to the extreme. When your partner chests on you, you are not allowed to communicate anything. You are not allowed to criticize. You aren't allowed to divorce. You just have to accept it or you should have simply picked someone who isn't going to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 05:44 AM
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I suppose that is easy to say as a woman. When you constantly have a pool of 200 men to pick from nothing will shatter you. If the first person doesn't fulfill you the second one surely will. We men simply do not have this luxury. Bear in mind, I am not saying that "women have it easier". You can always date women who don’t behave in a way that you think of as slutty, [...]. This is near impossible. Especially in this current time and age where dressing and behaving slutty is extremely normalize…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 05:41 AM
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I see the Downvote (I don't mind) and the OP got deleted. We are basically the only ones talking in this specific thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:16 PM
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The issue is that men are still forced to provide. I mentioned it. Also Feminism: Stay at home husbands are lame and unattractive. Women do not want to get rid of gender roles and the majority of men are absolutely fine with that. I just wish women would be able to speak up this fact openly instead of hiding in plain sight.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:12 PM
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I disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:58 PM
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C is the most difficult path by far.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:56 PM
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Makes no sense. It would even further reduce chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:55 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:51 PM
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We're not going to die but reciprocating is a human need and desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:48 PM
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He isn't wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:47 PM
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We men have no worth anymore, that's why, I'd guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:46 PM
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That is very cliché.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:45 PM
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Sounds like a "no" or "rejection" in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:45 PM
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Haven't you ever heard of the term "there was no spark"? It usually relates to the first impression. A much shorter time than 30 minutes. OP was rather generous with the 30 minutes in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:44 PM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:43 PM
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True. As a silver lining to these hurt women. They most likely still have a very huge pool of men to pick from.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:39 PM
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I think some men just had it too easy in the relationship aspect and took their own relationship for granted instead of something to be thankful for.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:15 PM
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Feminism: Let's get rid of gender roles. Also Feminism: Stay at home husbands are lame and unattractive. To everyone who will come up criticizing me: We men never demanded to change gender roles. We always took one of the heavier bits of our gender roles, namely providing (and protecting), as a given and never questioned it even to this day.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:08 PM
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The tight fitting long sleeved ones look very sexy on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:06 PM
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Glad you accept the RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 07:57 PM
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No. You seem to be mad though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 03:59 PM
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Usually women abide and follow. But yes, good point, we men also have to choose wisely. As far as I can tell though picking wisely as a man mostly relies on picking a woman who has the same or similar faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 11:17 AM
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That is the only point I agree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 11:16 AM
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All together men and women have it equally hard. While it may seem as a luxury to us men that women usually can pick from a pool of men we have to consider that you still need to pick the right one, because this pool is a mixture of all sorts of men. There are several strategies to do seek out the suitable one, but the issue is that there is no strategy which works all the time everywhere. Meaning, certain methods might end up scaring away the actual good one. Still, for us men, it feels like a …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 10:50 AM
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Talking is cheap.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 10:43 AM
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Bro, I am trying to put a positive spotlight on both genders yet you guys still find a way to shit on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 10:40 AM
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Not the one who posted the link but you misread my original post. Reading without prejudices would help. I never said that women are dumb I even specifically mentioned this in between the lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:27 AM
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Evidence? Who reacts first and screams when an accident happens? Women. This is not something bad. This is of advantage. Men who are rather cold even in such situations is also nothing bad. It is an advantage. What does happen though is that technology keeps advancing and society keeps changing to the point that those responsibilities either become shared or given to someone else. There's a police force and a judicial system to keep Women safe Gender roles will never change. We see it on here al…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:26 AM
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Excuses. It is simply not as easy as you claimed. It is very telling and sad that apparently criminals are more attractive than law abiding citizens. I thought I escaped the BP but you sent me straight back into it and even proved it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:18 AM
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We will never be able to get rid of gender roles and that is a good thing. Men and women have responsibilities on their own. Men and women have different bodies to begin with, nobody can deny that. Men and women have different areas in which they excel. Women being more emotional and men being more rational doesn't translate to that men are more intelligent. In fact, on a fundamental bases women are the first teachers of their child.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:16 AM
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I wouldn’t put any woman up to a date with you. What happened? I thought it is so easy. In a world where even drug dealers and criminals get into relationships you are not able to set me up with a woman? You failed your own premise.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:09 AM
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Impossible to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:07 AM
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“we don’t want to be provided for we can provide for ourselves. Can men at least provide for themselves and act like adults?!” It is right in there, the second sentence. We can never get rid of gender roles because it is rooted deeply in us. And there is nothing wrong with gender roles. Just stop pretending to want it any other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:05 AM
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Women on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:03 AM
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"You're young" doesn't help. It gives a feeling that you have a looooooooot of time which simply isn't true. Time flies. One needs to act NOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:03 AM
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What is wrong with you? Being a virgin in 30s is now incl content? Ridiculous. Really, the direction we are headed towards is not surprising at all with this kind of extreme censorship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:01 AM
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So, it would be only fair if men feel entitled as well for a HVW.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:01 AM
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Truth is that we can never get rid of our gender-roles. This isn't a bad thing either. It also doesn't mean that a certain group or movement has failed. Changing gender roles is just impossible because it is based on our basic instincts. One of those basic instincts tells us that men do need to provide (in one way or the other). It is as it is. Just like men have the responsibility to provide women also have a responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 04:46 AM
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Quasimodo? I gave up on those crigney romance books a long time ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:19 AM
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Very true!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:19 AM
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Not the corpse itself but the human that habitated the corpse during lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:18 AM
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What do you mean by firm? Even if daddy state steps in men are still expected to provide, which is natural. It is a fundamental gender role and it would be nice if we stopped pretending that we can get rid of gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:06 AM
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I stand by what I said. If it is so easy then...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:59 AM
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Romi Rain apparently makes like 5 or 6 figures a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:56 AM
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attitude - a settled way of thinking or feeling about something. We feel and act in accordance with what we think is good and bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:55 AM
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If the majority of women would be truly worried most wouldn't run around like pornstars, OnlyFans models and Instagram models in public places.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:54 AM
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Bikinis aren't even sexy to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:23 AM
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We teach young boys to be ambitious, to want a good job, to want to stay active, to talk to their peers. That is exactly the issue! They are not being taught that they have to provide in order to be in a relationship. If somebody has to teach you that now then that’s not societies problem. You were highly sheltered from the world if you didn’t know you have to have interests to connect with other people. Society is exactly like you. Thinking that they are doing everything right but actually fail…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:14 AM
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Sorry, but noone warned me about that, not even my mother. Same. I wish I was aware of this earlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:10 AM
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I don't believe this exists at all. There is no rational reason any women would be with a man who doesn't provide. There surely are other reasons why certain women end up with men like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:06 AM
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You’re young Well meant but counterproductive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:05 AM
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Books is a good starting point. Most books are about stories like that. Purely fictional. Fantasy. Depicting an idealistic view of a relationship between a man and a woman. Same with movies, TV shows, poems and songs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:03 AM
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Because it is? Maybe it is because we are excluded, which is no one's fault and that is the way we try to put things into perspective trying to deal with the hand we are given.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:59 AM
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I don't think OP is frustrated. He is just trying to put things more systematically and he makes a good point. Afterall men are supposed to provide and that is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:57 AM
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Please don't act like that is not what we keep on talking about since years on PPD. If everything is so clear to you that is nice, there is the exit to PPD, you can leave. I wish I could come with you. Also, please make a post stating that men are supposed to provide and watch how people go batshit crazy. I really wish things would be clear for everyone but it is not. Even simple things like that need to be written out and talked about.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:56 AM
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Who was questioning that?! Hollywood, TV shows, movies, poems, musics...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:54 AM
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He is telling the truth. Men are supposed to provide. I think it would be helpful if we all accepted this and stopped pretending otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:53 AM
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Same should go for women with high body counts who feel entitled to have a relationship with a HVM.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:52 AM
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You're literally agreeing with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:50 AM
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Countless murderers, rapists and whatevers are in relationships. Your argument is invalid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:48 AM
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No shit women like good-looking, confident, socially adept guys. That doesn't mean the dating market is completely closed to you, even if you're no oil painting, shy, nervous and/or awkward. I'll believe it when I see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:47 AM
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From reading your post, I'm getting a sense that you're upset that women aren't just jumping at your dick by the mere fact of your existence. Not a fair point because in the same manner there are women who expect men to come to them despite having a high body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:45 AM
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It would be no problem if especially women (and also certain men) would stop pretending otherwise. Also, it would be of great help if certain movies, TV shows and musics simply wouldn't exist or would be banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:43 AM
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Because they provide a value for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:42 AM
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There are better things to do than to shit on your relationship on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:12 AM
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Pretty sure you're not. You might be poor but you surely provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:11 AM
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You're (deliberately) missing the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:01 AM
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I'm sure my friends would stop being friends with me and would stop loving me if I was a shitty friend, as they should if I ever start being such a person. You would just hang out with other friends then. I knew someone like that and for all the talk of unconditional love, his had a lot of conditions, yet he expected none from others. That rather sounds like someone who is trying to take advantage of every situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:58 AM
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If you don't like what you did in your past, if you don't like your past choices then you're free to not mention them at all. Nobody would have known anyways unless you specifically mention it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 04:13 AM
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I don't understand this comparison. I mean, in the same breath we can also say that a significant amount of women willfully date a drug-dealer, prisoner or generally a criminal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 04:10 AM
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Aren't you in a relationship? If yes, why would you care?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 04:06 AM
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If it is that easy then you can surely find me a wife. Arrange something.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:41 AM
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[...] thanks to neoliberal capitalism, it’s gonna take two of you to provide for the needs of a household. Also thanks to feminism for forcing women into workplaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:35 AM
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I wholeheartedly disagree with the premise. Your idea is interesting though. They aren't needed as protectors because we have a law enforcement system, and people are generally less violent these days. There was just another shooting in the USA a couple days or weeks ago. The police also isn't always protective. Just yesterday I saw a video where a couple of policemen were beating up a woman laying on the ground in France. They aren't needed as providers because women can earn money either throu…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:21 AM
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OF girls and sugar babies tend to be desperate women from fucked up backgrounds - how is that proof of anything? And PPD women are not? What a ridiculous claim. Desperate men also prostitute themselves. Don't you know that desperate men are unattractive to begin with? Please stop polluting this thread with ridiculous claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:57 AM
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Sexual liberation and feminism disagrees with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:55 AM
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Getting paid for sex is pretty much the biggest shortcut there is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:54 AM
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Stories told to screw with ones feelings and emotions. It is enough to look at OnlyFans, pornstars, escorts and Instagram models.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:53 AM
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Not the only one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:41 AM
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Sex outside marriage is morally wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:39 AM
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Sure you would...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:27 AM
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I think a lot of men fundamentally do not understand how for women at least giving up your own autonomy and having your legs open for some pompous dude on demand is not worth the luxury, wealth, etc. OnlyFans, Feminism and pretty much all women's rights organizations are disagreeing with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:24 AM
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What on earth are you on about? Countless social media whores influencers run around in skin tight outfits all around Abu Dhabi and drive extravagant cars and live in extravagant places. Please stop with this BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:20 AM
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They hope to make money and get famous with those "free" views and clicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:18 AM
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Reddit is a main source for fake news btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:17 AM
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Women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:31 AM
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You cannot guarantee that things will work out, nobody can. Working solely for this world is useless and futile. There are greater things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:26 AM
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How do you suppose this will happen with their attitude? In that case explain to me what you mean by "their attitude"?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:25 AM
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Am I wrong? Women happily present themselves like they are on a meat market.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 09:23 PM
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Fucking hell, we're not even objects any more 🙄 The majority of women who run around in public as sex objects and on social media disproves your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 09:13 PM
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Do you really believe that only good men get choosen by women? If there is someone who needs to touch grass then that person is clearly you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 09:10 PM
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Easy to talk when relationships fall into your hands like apples falling from trees.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 09:07 PM
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This is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 08:14 PM
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Obvious troll bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 08:13 PM
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I disagree as well. If you rerun through the replies in this thread you'll realize that a significant amount of women are against stay at home husbands. Also, notice how none of these women took a broke man as a husband which is also very telling. I am not shaming in any way by the way. I am merely pointing out the facts. There is no need to lie to the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 02:01 AM
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I disagree. Most women want their men to earn more money than they do themeselves. It is apparently a sign of masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:54 AM
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Housework can take up a whole day if not more.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:45 AM
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Women Feminists see stay at home wives as deadbeats.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:44 AM
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In other words you didn't just stop, you actually found a relationship. There is a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:28 AM
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Only if you yell at porn stars for creating such content in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:58 AM
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This is also just further reassures and proves my point. Women don't want a stay at home husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:48 AM
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From my eyes, this: I somehow ended up as the stay at home spouse [...]. reassures me in my thought process. It shows me that truly men are supposed to provide and women are the queens of the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:46 AM
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If women like to work so much they could be the sole provider, but I don't see that happening nor do I see men being relieved from their gender roles. In fact men are even more pressurized now to provide more and simultaneously take care of the majority of the household.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:44 AM
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That would mean that you have an astounding personality, wouldn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:42 AM
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The issue here is that men have been working before and after feminists. For men, nothing have changed. Men have been slaves before and after feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:57 AM
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Observation, logic, rational thinking and common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:55 AM
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There is nothing I can do but to believe your word. I am the exact same as you, so, what am I doing wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:55 AM
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I don't mean to attack you personally. I respect that you keep pulling and holding on together. Especially if I remind myself how weak I am human. So, big respect to you. The part which is not overlapping with OP is that you both met while he was still working as well. So, there was a promise that he can provide and there still is. I also don't mean to shame this because I believe that women rightfully demand a husband who can provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:08 AM
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Feminists are against gender roles. Wait, I might have been wrong though! Feminists are against female gender roles while fully enforcing, supporting and promoting male gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:05 AM
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Yes, but your conditions do not fulfill OP's premises.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:04 AM
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No woman wants a stay at home husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:03 AM
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And he was surely pure and broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:03 AM
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That's what children are for.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:02 AM
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How did they meet?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:31 AM
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I don't think people get together because they love each other. People get together because materialism.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:26 AM
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On one hand it kinda is saddening on the other hand it is refreshing. I appreciate how they are all proving that feminism is complete BS. The sad part is to see that relationships are simply not about love but what one can provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:17 AM
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No, women don't want a stay at home husband. This topic alone proves that feminism is utter BS. Gender roles do exist and women are the ones enforcing it the most! And if you think about it, it is absolutely rational and logical that women don't want stay at home husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:11 AM
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I appreciate your honesty. It takes a lot of courage to speak out facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:06 AM
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Finally some common sense in this thread. Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:05 AM
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Doesnt fulfill the premise of the OP. Him being a teacher means that he can work anytime soon, which reassures her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:03 AM
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So far I am right, because the short answer has always been "no", which by the way also is the correct answer, because men are simply supposed to provide. Women knowingly or unknowingly support this. Hence, there is actually no reason to deny it. To make things very clear, no women wants a stay at home husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:02 AM
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Your husband, this means you're already married and not dating or trying to get to know someone to be toegther with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:00 AM
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He's fully capable but has been out of work for months due to some legal troubles. [...]. He spends a lot of time playing video games, sure, but he's still working. [...]. This is temporary right now. He wants to get a job again, [...]. Short answer: No.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:58 AM
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Short answer: No.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:53 AM
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Solid
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 03:01 PM
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Yes….? That doesn’t negate the fact that wholesome marriages exist…? Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:10 PM
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Need a break from here (reddit in general and generally being online) 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:09 PM
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I am copying the other user who handed out medals but probably just for this day.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:08 PM
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Of all the languages you could choose to speak, you have chosen to speak facts!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:17 PM
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As far as I know, at least recently, I heard that OF takes the majority of the profit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:03 PM
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With a virgin, she literally doesn’t know much better. Which sounds nice until down the line she gets bored and curious. I absolutely disagree with shaming on virgins dirtily like that. This is not fair in any way whatsoever. This post isn't about virgins, let them in peace!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:59 PM
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The kicker is the virgin is more likely to cheat because of curiosity. Just because he shamed "hoes" there is no reason to shame virgins. They have nothing to do with all of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:58 PM
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I hate that you encouraged it even further. Not hating on you personally but your actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:54 PM
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What makes sense? 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:48 PM
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they are ruining their sons life It is no secret that children whose parents are pornstars get bullied. Of course their parents being pornstars doesn't justify bullying but why would I run around naked in the cold weather when I can dress up properly to protect myself, you know what I mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:47 PM
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First of all, I don't what ground beef is. I only know cornered beef lmao. Good times together with scrambled eggs and pepper. I used to believe I'd also do it if I were offered money to masturbate. Forget money, if a woman would watch me masturbate, but I recently realized that I truly cannot shake off the desire to marry. Masturbating alone doesn't do it for me. Having a girlfriend or someone who has occasionally sex with me won't do it either. I need the reassurance of marriage. Since enterin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:44 PM
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Marriage can be wholesome. No matter what I do or think I keep coming back to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:30 PM
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🤜🏻🥇
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:29 PM
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🤜🏻🥇
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:29 PM
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Insert first world problems meme 😅😀 On a serious note. Respect for exercising. I wanna start too. It is difficult to bring up the discipline imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:28 PM
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Insert first world problems meme 😅😀
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:26 PM
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I read that having sex together releases not only dopamine, which also happens when doing it alone, but also oxytocin. The oxytocin seems to counterbalance the overwhelming dopamine.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:21 PM
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Yeah lol, I hope so.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:19 PM
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Exactly. It is just your turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:43 AM
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Wrong again. Muslims thrive the most under a religious rule. See Ottoman Empire as an example. Even the French King (I don't remember which one exactly) asked for help from the Ottoman Sultan and he did help. The French King isn't the only one who asked for help. A king from Netherlands or Sweden also asked for help and Ottomans sent help.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:40 AM
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Afganistan'a current government is stopping the Opium production. Makes me think what USA did there for 20 years. Was USA protecting the Opium production? In fact there are reports which show that Opium production raised immensely when USA invaded Afghanistan. Muslims do fine but thanks to USA's raping and torturing soldiers they can't get a break.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:38 AM
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Same. Mine is today actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:33 AM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:32 AM
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Everything about this comment is wrong. I don't even know where to start correcting. I'll just start with one thing. Cannot be arsed to address them all. Minor things will always feel like the end of the world when you don’t have real shit to worry about Sex is not a "minor thing". Sex is a need. Yes, it is a need! You might not die from not having sex but that doesn't make it any less than a human need. If sex wouldn't be a need we probably would have died out a long time ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:26 AM
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Honestly I believe him. Considering what women on here told me whenever I mentioned to wait for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:21 AM
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Women fucking with animals is also men's fault? What? Ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:20 AM
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You can't be serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:19 AM
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It is funny how we already forgot about the 500+ dead people who got drowned in the ocean just a couple days ago. I mean every life is important but worrying more about 5 humans and totally ignoring the 500+ deads is just hypocritical. Think about it! Think about your news media channels. What are they trying to distract us from?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:16 AM
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Let me destroy that for you. "She is not his maid! Clearly the man just wanted a mommy McBang housewife. She can do so much better than being with that weak ass man getting exhausted from just one work day."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:05 AM
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I mean, men and women mixed in one room instead of men and women having their own areas. In the latter men and women can chill more and be more themselves and enjoy the party.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:45 AM
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Oh good, I'm glad you're not one of those who think women need to date men they don't want or something like that. 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:44 AM
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😂👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 09:26 AM
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By the time that happened worldwide we would have developed artificial wombs. My viewpoint heavily opposes these believes. We humans like to believe that we can control everything, yet a tiny virus named Covid-19 ended up taking the whole world hostage for at least two full years. Population crises can be solved in many ways that have nothing to do with pressuring people to be in relationships who don't want them. I understand that my OP might have implied fearmongering. Still, it was never my i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 09:10 AM
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Lucky for me, that is why I don't go to parties or mixed weddings or beaches.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 09:06 AM
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💯
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:17 AM
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As much as I want to say that you're right, I just to point out that it is not expected from women to provide, which is totally fine. Therefore women don't necessarily need to have a job. Men are expected to provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:15 AM
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Reasons or rather excuses and lies which will keep liberals being outbred. Don't shoot the messenger (me).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:11 AM
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It is truly an eye opener!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:07 AM
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True!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:06 AM
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Well, if families die out society will die out. No society, no state, no home.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:04 AM
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It does read like that but there is still truth to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:02 AM
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Time to go out and touch some grass. I wish (certain) people wouldn't dress in skin tight see through (shiny) outfits. It is already difficult enough to have to keep looking on the floor. My neck hurts when I finally come back home and can lift my head up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:43 AM
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I have seen too many slimey and flirty men to be able to see it as positvely as you do. I'll just assume your assumption is correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 08:50 PM
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I disagree. Getting married early can be quite good for development.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 08:45 PM
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Yes, I'd consider that "a breach of etiquette". No matter what my wife chooses he has no business to try to get into my wife's panties. I have seen enough of these "helpful" guys. The help they offer is mostly useless and has bad intentions like making his way into my wife's heart through shallow help or making an excuse to get close to my wife, touch and feel her or to get a better view on my wife. The truly helpful guys never get noticed like this. If it would be a woman offering my wife help,…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 08:41 PM
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No, it can't be refuted. Men are supposed to provide. I do believe you and the other women on here as well. I am lacking the words right now. It is not enough to convince me. Nothing will be to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 08:29 PM
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No, I have never been married. Am only concluding from absolute truths. Truths such as that the man has to provide or be able to pay certain amount. I don't mean this in an insulting way whatsoever. Am just trying to be objective and understand relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:55 PM
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Well, wouldn't that make Zendaya a cuckold too? I get that some dudes can’t seem to handle it here. Yep. I wouldn't be ok with such a setup.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:53 PM
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This wasn't about me dating an actress. It was about Tom Holland.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:40 PM
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Bruh 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:40 PM
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That is very nice. As for me, I need to experience it myself in order to be convinced. Right now my OP still convinces me the most even though I know it is quite a sad and maddening view.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:39 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:35 PM
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It ended up like this because someone tried to make this about me whereas in my OP I just had commented that if Tom Holland tolerates such behavior then that makes him a cuckold. Don't make things personal (about me) if you don't want to face a reply like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:34 PM
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Cuckold - a man whose wife deceives him by having a sexual relationship with another man That is from the Cambridge Dictionary. Kissing is a sexual activity. If Tom Holland is ok with his wife kissing other men so be it. I wouldn't be ok with my wife kissing other men and I hope my wife wouldn't be ok with me kissing other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:33 PM
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No, I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:23 PM
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As a man I would marry a woman who used to have onlyfans, meaning it is in the past and not worth mentioning. In order for me to do that though she needs to have repented from that world, meaning that she literally has nothing to do with that world anymore. I honestly don't see myself asking questions about a woman's sexual past. Am simply assuming that she has been a "good woman" . If she repented then she most likely won't even mention onlyfans anyways to begin with and all will be fine. Discl…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:19 PM
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Yes, I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:26 PM
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I think I was 😅.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:26 PM
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Good point. But I have to make one last counter point. I don't remember this being about me dating an actress. If we're being real I don't think any actress would want to be with me anyways, therefore I never had that in mind when making my original comment that a man tolerating such behavior is being a cuckold. I don't have any issue with Tom Holland being with her. If they want to be together so be it. I just wanted to objectifly state what that makes him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:24 PM
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All I can say is thanks for staying strong and telling the truth. I know I probably used to be one of your harshest critiques.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:21 PM
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There have been men way richer and way more powerful than Tom Holland who ended up getting killed by a fly with a broken wing flying into his throught. [...] his millions of dollars, massive amount of fans and super hot GF. There is one (harsh) truth in this world none of us can deny. Death. Every single one of us humans will die and so will Tom Holland. Will he be able to take any of his millions, to take any of his fans, to take his hot GF with him? No. None of the rich, powerful and famous me…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:16 PM
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The more I read and learn about relationship dynamics, the more it dawns on me that it is just another materialistic thing in this world. It is like exchanging a certain amount of money/gold for an object of your interest like a laptop or car. Man has to find her attractive (physically). Woman has to find him attractive (physically). Man has to provide certain amount (financially). Woman has to provide homemaking and maintain good looking. These are all natural requirements, all biological, ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:08 PM
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Proving that Hollywood is still sexually harassing their actors.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:02 PM
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Any man who is ok with that is simply a cuck. Just speaking objectifly here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:58 PM
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😂👍🏻 Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:52 PM
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To be fair the financial obligation never went away. Women usually demand a man who makes just as much if not more, which is very natural to be honest. It is as it is. Can't fool biological needs and desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:41 PM
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I don't think this is challenging the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:38 PM
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This is actually true. Even though I am at the shorter end of the stick I fully agree! It is a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:37 PM
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0% just like I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:31 PM
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Too many times in that subreddit are women in their 20s asking if they're ugly, saying that they had zero luck romantically, never been asked out and they always had to be the initiator when it comes to asking people out. Always need to keep in mind that they speak about men they find attractive (which, might I say is rather normal and to be expected). Additionally remembering the infamous OKCupid data showing that women find 20% of men attractive pretty much explains the whole situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 12:04 PM
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😂👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 11:19 AM
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Are you a man? Yes, I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:44 AM
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I don't know what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:43 AM
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In my case women blocked the most whereas men never blocked me even if we ended up having a heated argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 05:21 AM
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Short answer: No. It is simply not possible because of my faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 05:15 AM
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I am free! Still didn't touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 05:32 PM
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Lol what the duck? Where did that top comment come from? First time I read that somebody actually blames the guy who did the sexual assault instead of simply blaming the boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:46 PM
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It is funny how the boyfriend is blamed here instead of the guy doing the sexual assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:43 PM
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Also, it is funny how people rather blame the boyfriend than blaming the sexual assaulter.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:42 PM
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I just love how everyone blames the boyfriend instead of blaming the sexual assaulter.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:42 PM
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You better believe if someone sexually assaulted my husband that would not be my reaction. First of all and most importantly, they are just boyfriend/girlfriend and not husband/wife. Second of all, women are empowered. It could have been very well that she was ok with the kiss, you never know and things could have escalated further if he did react otherwise. Consider the fact that they are boyfriend/girlfriend. She can end the relationship anytime she wants (and so can he).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:37 PM
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Aren't women empowered nowadays? I can understand his confusion. And I know this story.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:35 PM
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Mid thirties, broke,... You can ditch the rest to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:08 PM
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Personally, I noticed two strategies. One is shaming. The other strategy is gaslighting. Trying to make me believe that I am wrong and much better than I think I am lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:55 PM
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Nicely worded.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:35 PM
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Thank you for understanding. 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:34 PM
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What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:34 PM
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Thank you! 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:30 PM
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The question is, does she really listen? I would assume not. She is just doing a part of her "job". It is the same with the virtual girlfriend asmr videos. They aren't even aware that you are an actual existing human being. They might be not even aware that we actually exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:30 PM
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Not denying the truth. I know it deep inside, it hurts me, pains me and saddens me, but I have to be a man. I have to walk upwards, I simply at least have to pretend that everything is fine even though I am burning inside. I like JCVD's exercise video on this topic haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:28 PM
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Personally, finally realizing that I was not made for relationships was very saddening. I actually realized it (today again lol). I also had thrown the anger frustration I had towards women aboard. In my opinion, the usual frustration and anger stems from women apparently having high standards and requirements and certain illogic und irrational behavior. Let us assume it is generally true that women have high requirements and standards. If I actually approach this assumption rationally then bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:27 PM
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I don't know about anyone else and I cannot judge anyone else's situation. All I know and can say with certainty is that I was not made for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:17 PM
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No, wait. Complaining is annoying in general. People who complain about people who complain are also complaining lol. It would be nice if the more fortunate ones would stop bragging and it would be nice if we, the less fortunate ones would stop provoking the more fortunate ones into bragging.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:16 PM
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Exactly, any form of complaining is annoying to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:14 PM
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I think it is obvious. I don't want to mention them one by one because from experience I know some people will be like "but see, you are this and that" and I don't want to engage in any such discussion. I know what I am, who I am and where I stand and that is satisfying to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:12 PM
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There is nothing wrong with the "it is over" mentality. In fact there are men, like myself, who simply were not made for relationships. Therefore, it can be a good thing to accept this fact. The "it is over" mentality should be rather based on oneself's abilities and not what other people bring, don't bring or look out for.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 06:31 PM
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First of all thank you for your effort. I am very sorry, but nothing of what you said touched me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 06:30 PM
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Hope you follow your own advice! I wish I did!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 06:27 PM
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Yeah, we are on the same boat there I think. I don't agree with the arguemt that "porn is the main cause of the recent decline in relationships and sex".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 06:25 PM
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There are women who do ask for dick pics. I never bought anything nor did I cold approach anyone. There are also women who sent unsolicited nudes. It is absolutely disgusting. Not asked for. Irritating. And very, very manipulative behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 06:23 PM
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Why don't women stick to giving advices to women? Men should be giving advices to men. After all women cannot relate with male related issues as much as men can. Men cannot relate with female related issues as a much as women can.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:52 AM
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A pathway. Right now, you gave very general advice. Nothing in particular. No pathway whatsoever. The only thing which is self-explanatory is the self-discipline, which consists of just being patient, it is a mind excercise.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:50 AM
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💯
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:45 AM
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Doesn't help when it is actually women who keep on saying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:45 AM
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They are speaking from experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:44 AM
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What you seem to forget is that your husband and StockHamster12 are two different human beings. Unlikely to popular women-think, in fact not every man thinks the exact same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:44 AM
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Same. If I regard how some women who are apparently married talk about men in general on here, I'd also feel insulted.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:42 AM
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When you are a woman, why do you try to fix male issues? Why not focus on women and female related issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:41 AM
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💯
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:40 AM
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I honestly believe the same because rationally there really isn't any other explanation that actually makes sense. I mean, just speaking from my male perspective, if I would be (happily) married I'd be way too much occupied in actually caring about my wife and doing stuff for both of us instead of coming on here and bitching all day every day about women. Also, bitching about women would make even less sense then because I'd be insulting my wife all the time I speak about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:39 AM
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Well, in that case why not focus on your female partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:37 AM
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You know what is also real and actually constructive? Reading a book.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:37 AM
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Why would you use your dead time on this site if you have a healthy relationship with your spouse? It literally makes no sense at all. The only rational explanation is that the "heavenly" relationships these women here apparently have actually are harmful relationships. Also, que this on, assume you are someone who is in a lovey dovey relationship full of love. For the love of God, why would someone like that come on here and bash on people who are obviously way way less fortunate. Honestly, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:36 AM
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Why not help women instead? As a woman, wouldn't you be more likely to relate with women and their issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:26 AM
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All of which you women like.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:22 AM
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Why not interact with your partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:19 AM
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I wouldn't want my psycahtrist or therapist to know any of these reddit stuff to be honest. Instant red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:19 AM
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Getting approval from women is what they want the most no matter the air of ~invincibility~ and high value they want to project lol Same with women who pretend to be able to live without men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:16 AM
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So, you're just an observer?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:15 AM
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Do you also have checkpoints to accomplish all of that? As it stands now it is easier said than done.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:05 AM
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Reddit in a nutshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:56 AM
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👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:54 AM
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As someone who wants to see porn banned and deleted globally, I cannot blame them. There is no viable solution being offered.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:47 AM
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Or, women could pick better? I mean there are women on here who claim that women don't date men who consume porn, yet it happens. Who is speaking the truth? 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:40 AM
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Nah, I think his assumptions are good. From a religious point of view, adultery is bad and porn falls softly into that category. However, scientifically there are also certain points speaking against porn consumption, but personally, the only thing that matters to me is the religious perspective. I can use the science as a backup though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:30 AM
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There are men who don't do that. I might be fetching far right now, but I want to assume that you're an attractive woman. With that assumption in mind I would logically assume that you a pool of men to pick from. It should be highly unlikely that all men in that pool would attempt to shove their dick up your ass. Having these in regard, I would say you have the upper hand to the men on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:26 AM
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Porn use is a one way street to being viewed by women as an undateable, lazy creep. There are couples out there in which one partner, the other or both regularly consume porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:22 AM
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This in addition to the mass ED these men don't know about until they drag a complete stranger into that shit show has kept me celibate for years on end without complaint. Why did you just complain about men then? 🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:17 AM
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Respect for 2 years! I am working towards getting there as well. 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:13 AM
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Most guys would prefer a real woman over porn, if given the option. Personally, I agree. There are also men who have a beautiful sexy wife yet still rather watch porn than pleasuring her. How could this be explained?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:12 AM
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If men genuinely think VR and sex robots are a viable alternative to a relationship with a real human, we are going to see mental illness and criminality in men skyrocket. I see no solutions being offered. I only see further bashing on the victims, which are men in this case. Wouldn't this argument of yours be more accepted when there would also be a offer for a viable solution?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:09 AM
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I don't think that is a true statement since there are couples in which one partner, the other or both consume porn regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:02 AM
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Semen = misogyny juice 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 08:58 AM
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I disagree. There are couples in which one partner, the other partner or both are addicted to porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 08:54 AM
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I never really consumed porn that way. Maybe that is why it hurt me so much. [...] I already have a clear idea of what I want. That puts things into perspective for me. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 08:30 PM
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No, I am no part of those groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 08:28 PM
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Lots of women who try to live like men. It is no surprise really.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 05:55 PM
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[...] but God forbid she quit to be a housewife because then she is a gold digger. I was going to say that is the reason why it makes sense that the man works and the woman stays at home and makes home a home. But if it is true what you say then I don't wonder anymore why this place is the way it is. Anyways, i always tried to advocate for "marriage before sex" and "working man, homemaking woman".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 05:53 PM
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Who is Pearl? I thought Pearl is a programming language. 😂 I agree with you though. Made similar observations.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 05:48 PM
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That is a logical conclusion. Yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 05:42 PM
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Well, sad truth is that men are better at being women than women themselves. Irony is, that a lot of women celebrate this, especially feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:59 PM
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But have you actually been in these groups? A lot of these men (married and single) are not top tier men. Many are fat, with unattractive facial features, and don’t have fancy jobs or high level education. I disagree. Personally, I wouldn't go about calling other people's spouses ugly 😅.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:55 PM
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There is this theory about pre-selection. I had that in mind when I made my comment. Like married men already show that they do have some sort of worth to go for. At least that is what the theory states.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 03:34 PM
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I don't like this categorization.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 03:33 PM
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I am just saying that people go out anyways. We all have to go out at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 01:54 PM
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The reason why the advice isn't very helpful is because people already go out anyways. It is not like most of us are locked up and forced to stay inside lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 01:50 PM
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I have to criticize some men on here. Guys, we do keep talking about women only going for certain specific men. I mean, in some sense, all of this is based on numbers and observation, so it does hold some truth to it. However, why do we keep talking shit about women who do go for the other men? Like, I stumble over comments such as "she settled" or "she got older, she rushed to be with you, because her time is ticking". I mean, if we keep talking shit about both sides of the coin, why don't we j…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 01:43 PM
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Well, honestly the women on here are just as complaining. To be honest, complaining about people who are complaining is complaining too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 01:21 PM
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It had the porn I wanted, not the porn I could get for free. How? In my opinion there isn't much difference from the porn you can get for free. You still end searching endlessly, at least I do. Waste of money and time. That is why I am going the nofap route now.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 01:13 PM
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I don't know what to say to anyone who thinks that "go out and ..." will magically fix anything. Stupid advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 01:10 PM
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Weak women will choose rich men instead of broke men. Bro, this argument is absolutely ridicolous.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 01:07 PM
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You don't realise that every second you spent in your bedroom and away from others is the reason you are lonely. Nice way of simply saying that "you're fucked". Do you also have anything that is actually helpful and contributing?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 01:05 PM
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Experiences that far fewer women opt for? Women don't get engage in filthy activities at all: OnlyFans, Pornhub, Instagram, TikTok, Twitter, Reddit, the list goes on and on and keeps giving.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 01:03 PM
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Same could be said about all the women on here complaining that they cannot find anyone despite having tens of options. Bunch of low value females.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 01:01 PM
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I'd rather watch porn, browse Instagram, TikTok or the NSFW side of reddit than watch or listen to Fresh & Fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 12:51 PM
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I saw the second pic in this thread and I'd say you guessed right. She is for sure higher than 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 12:33 PM
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I honestly don't understand it either. In my honest opinion, if we ignore the photoshopped and purposefully dolled up women on the internet and TV these women on that image rate quite highly on the 1-out-of-10 scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 12:31 PM
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If we ignore the photoshopped and purposefully dolled up women on the internet and TV then these women rate high on the scale in my honest opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 12:29 PM
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Suggest marriage first. Everyone who leaves wanted to have sex anyways. Easy filter.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 12:27 PM
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I did. I didn't engage in any conversations though, because I don't want to go any further than that. Most of the first messages were alright. Few sent something like a profile pic and few sent nudes. Thankfully most (if not all) took it lightely when I explained on the first message that I am actually a man and did it for experimental reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 12:23 PM
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Men lie like a rug and women are blamed for not being smart enough to read minds. Well, it certainly doesn't help that women on online spaces act like they read minds and have a sixth sense to tell who is a creep and who isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 12:18 PM
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Do men give every woman the same amount of attention? Effort? Probably not. Do women even want attention from random men? I highly doubt that. The only attention I'd want is from my spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 12:17 PM
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Also when most men go for the same “top women” isn’t it obvious why only a few are chosen. Just how there’s men that are “‘not picked” there’s are lots of women that are also “not picked”. True, but you have to also remember that the women who are "not picked" also go for the "top men". Just to clarify. I don't think there is anything wrong with going for the "top men/women", we just shouldn't forget these bits, they are important to the equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 12:09 PM
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The solution for men (and women) is simple. Go for marriage first instead of "sex on first date".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 12:06 PM
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Women like married men as it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 11:59 AM
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My reason to post is to bring objectivity, neutrality and bring both genders back closer again instead of letting them engage in useless fights. Your reason however is intentionally to read about (and probably cause) drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 11:54 AM
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If you want to destroy your ego, you can lookup the FDS small dick thread. That destroyed me and got me depressed for the whole day. Other than that, I honestly have no idea. I was very keen on "women prefer big dicks", it might be true, it might not be true. Truth is the controller of the hearts is God. That is all I got to know. If God wants, a woman might end up even preferring my useless penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 11:39 AM
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That actually has some truth to it. Wealth isn't distributed equally, because we would just end up fighting each other mercilessly. Even worse than it is nowadays. If everyone who is wealthy enough helped, for example giving 1/40 of what he owns to the people in need, there would be no poor. In fact, there used to be such a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 07:58 PM
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He is vindictive and punishes those who don't suck his dick enough. Estağfirullah. Please be careful with your words. He is the creator of all suffering and pain. God doesn't harm. The rules are set out clearly. If you are being patient and thankful you will be rewarded. There are three kinds of being patient. Being patient in doing your deeds towards God, for example praying. Being patient in not sinning. For example not doing adultery or not drinking alcohol. Being patient when a misery struck…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 07:57 PM
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I have to double check that claim, because I know that all prophets promoted marriage and taught us how valuable it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 07:50 PM
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That is definitely the wrong answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 07:50 PM
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Actually no. Anything bad is happening because of our failures towards God. There are two verses in the Quran which explains this situation perfectly. During the Ottoman Empire, people struggled to find people who are poor in order to help them, to do their religious obligation. Don't make the mistake to say "look at this and that islamic country", because right now there is no islamic country. Yes not even Iran or Saudi Arabia is ruled islamically. I mean, is playing poker islamic (Saudi Arabia…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 06:26 PM
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Well, I didn't know who that is so I looked her up. See? She is successful, probably rich, athletic and very attractive. It is a miracle that she is single. There is surely an explanation for it, but right now none of our current methods satisfy such explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 06:23 PM
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The existence of all sorts of different couples shows that God exists. We are rational beings and if we would also act rational in our partner choices we would always go for the attractive, athletic, rich and extrovert person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 04:47 PM
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Would you like women to initiate, take you on dates, pull chairs out for you, pay for stuff for you and drive the car and hang out at the bar searching for you. Yes, I would, but strike out the "bar" part. I don't hangout in bars.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:05 AM
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I asked her to be my gf immediately after sex but she turned me down saying we hadn't known each other for long enough. One of the reasons why marriage before sex does make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 08:56 AM
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This makes sense to me. There are also people who should get married at that age to keep being productive and motivated. Of course, this shouldn't mean that someone who isn't married must be a lazy unproductive person lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:02 PM
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I think the reasoning for these people is that they like had to give up their studies when they married because I suppose marriage took up a major part in their lives. I am the same with you. I believe being with someone would have improved me instead of holding me further down. I am like the opposite lol. Being with someone or the hope for it is very motivating whereas being single I almost have no drive at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 09:47 AM
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I had a similar feeling when I was reading about women who apparently don't need no men and would be happy to live alone for the rest of their lives. Then I realized that these women are straight out lying to themselves. We were created in such a way that both genders need and seek each other. Therefore, these men who give the impression that they don't need women, they are lying to themselves and others.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 07:41 AM
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It is not a torture. It is a test.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 07:19 AM
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"her man servant" sounds like the male version of "I am not my husbands' free therapist".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 07:17 AM
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Loving the whole post, especially the disclaimer.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 07:13 AM
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I understand folks who argue in favor of not marrying too early. In this case, people are afraid that they might loose focus on their studies, career or university. Sometimes the reasoning is also that one might not have enough experience to pick a good partner. There are also people who are quite the opposite. They gain motivation and energy from being in a relationship, from being married. Even the hope alone can give these people quite a boost. Therefore, general advice such as "do not marry …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 07:12 AM
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Well the rules are out there. If a society indulges in casual sex/hookups instead of valuing marriage and family building then that society is going to fall pretty harsh at some time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:54 AM
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He is absolutely right. I can be even more blunt. What I am going to say was definitely not the intention of his comment. I will tell you my raw basic instinct feelings: women dressing slutty and normalizing is good for me, because then I can stare and them. I actually don't have to tell women to wear revealing and slutty outfits at all because they already do it freely and push each other into it. Which is actually a gift for perverted men like me. going to a mixed gym is the best ever. I am ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 08:58 PM
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It is crazy how some women claim to want be in sexy outfits when they are in public yet when you suggest them to wear revealing clothes they suddenly get offended and feel harassed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 02:17 PM
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I understand now why US soldiers are very savage and raped and murdered so many children and women afterall in Vietnam and Iraq.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 11:57 PM
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Honestly it kind of makes sense what she is saying. Especially if we keep in mind how many children and women US soldiers raped in Vietnam and Iraq.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 11:56 PM
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Keep us updated.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 11:45 PM
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Women, I am terribly sorry, but the award for the "women of courage" went to a man. The award was given by the president's wife Jill Biden. Yet another time men were better at being women than women. Women, you have my condolences and I wish you better luck next time. PS: Woke reddit will likely put on the ban hammer for this, because... freedom of speech, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 11:43 PM
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Applies to the women as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:59 PM
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I am just happy I am not thinking like that. Otherwise I'd be like "what does my wife thinks who I am? Her free therapist? Pffft!". I'll gladly be my wife's free therapist and boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:52 PM
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Too broad generalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 08:29 AM
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I am on your side. I also believe that dressing up modestly is totally unnecessary. We are on the same page. That is why I am suggesting you outfits which are not modset.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:58 AM
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I hope your mother will dres up like that too. If not then please ask her to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:50 AM
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I also think that you should dress in tight fitting seductive outfits. I support you. I love seeing sexy women like you outside. It is really nice how I can almost orgasm just by watching you. Also, while we are at it and since it is no problem, please tell your mother to dress up in tight fitting leggings too. And no bras. Love to see them nipples poking through the fabric.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:49 AM
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Please tell your mother to wear no bras, tight fitting white tops and tight fitting sheer leggings.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:47 AM
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I don't mind it either. It is quite arousing. Even better when they wear no bras so I cans ee those nipples poking through the fabric. Also loving these women who wear those sheer tight fitting leggings. Wish all women would dress up like that, your mother included. Please suggest her these sort of outfits by any chance so we can see more sexy women on the streets.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:45 AM
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Since it is no problem, I would like to ask you to only wear tight fitting mini dresses. Also please, don't use bras, nipples poking through the fabric are way more arousing. While we are at it, also include your mother, daughters and sisters in this dressing style please.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:44 AM
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Since it is no issue, it surely is no problem to ask from you to run around naked in public. It would be nice if you wore those tight fitting leather leggings. While you are at it please also advise your mother to wear similar revealing dresses. We need more women like you. Oh, also, please don't use bras. It turns me on way more when your nipples pokes through the fabric.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:42 AM
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I wish your mother would wear less clothes. Can you tell her that please?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:39 AM
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Please tell your mother to go out naked. It is no problem, afterall.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:39 AM
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You seem to be an alien since you don't seem to understand that humans do have sexual needs and desires. As a fellow alien, İ wish your mother, daughters, aunts, sisters and wife would also take off their clothes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:38 AM
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Bikinis are boring. Thin skin tight outfits are the real deal, like leggings.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:31 PM
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I guess because most of the women on here did OF or something similar or had/have these so called slutty years. Now they want to hear that is all ok, because deep down their consciousness is wrecking them into bits and pieces.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:26 PM
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Says the woman who has millions of men to just pick from without spending one cent.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:53 AM
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theres nothing "petty" about not caring about losers. 90% of people you could term as losers make their own beds and if they dont want to do the work fix themselves thats none of my business and i have no empathy for them. Ironie, because you are still here. Good job on exposing yourself as a liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:46 AM
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As a woman it is easy for you because you can just ditch him and find someone more suitable. Most men don't have this luxury.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:40 AM
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Can't blame him there. You digged your "own grave" so to speak. Your words basically scream "women have it so easy on the dating market". If you don't like this then think twice before commenting. Think twice before acting like everything is absolutely worthless and non-effecting to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:39 AM
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How did you end up dating them? Was it mainly with money?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 10:45 AM
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What kind of mental health issues if I may ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 10:41 AM
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Yes. Just like Morpheus said in the first Matrix movie (I replaced one or two words): The question is not whether I would date her, the question is whether she would date me. My gut tells me that her answer is "no". Therefore, case closed and I don't need to wreck my mind anymore on this theoretical situation. What do men think of woman like this and why? I used to think very negatively about these women, mainly because I didn't want women to expose, sexualize and objectify themselves just like …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 10:22 AM
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First of all, you know exactly what I was referring to (people parading naked infront of children). Second of all, so what? If it is no issue I don't understand why you constantly complaing about men wanting sex. Didn't you know? Complaining is unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:49 PM
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A book has daughters...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:48 PM
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In that case don't be annoyed when men express that they want sex. It is perfectly natural. Also, you know exactly what I was referring to. People kissing infront of children, even having sex or using sexual imagery infront children. People running around in naked BDSM outfits around children. And many more. Please don't act stupid. You're clever.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:46 PM
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It is ok if you don't want to please your spouse in any way, but you don't get to tell other men and women that they also shouldn't please their spouses. If I followed your advice I'd end up treating my wife like dirt. I don't want that. I want to cherish and protect her. With that being said. Of coures I am going to my woman's free: Buttler (I guess that is the male version of maid) Stud (no idea what the male version of nanny is) Therapist Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:43 PM
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You are right. Can you also tell that please to all the people who complained during Covid lockdown that they couldn't go out and have sex, that they are about to harm themselves if this state keeps going. If you remind these people who constantly have access to sex of this circumstance too then you have my respect. Other than that, what you said are just... are just insincere empty words. No backbone, no foundation whatsoever. Unless of course, you are someone who didn't have sex for a very lon…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:35 PM
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A woman who isn't shallow, who doesn't need to constantly feed her ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:32 PM
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If her bubble truly bursted then I believe she will grow from that experience and realize that being liked by others is just a shallow egotistical need. Totally unnecessary and infact harmful to our souls.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:31 PM
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Who wants to deal with anyone who’s constantly whining, constantly finger-pointing, and thinks everyone should be a free therapist? I'll gladly be a free therapist for my wife. I mean, afterall, that is basically the whole purpose of marriage. To become a team. To help each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:27 PM
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"Better Call Saul" literally has two sex scenes and countless kissing scenes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:24 PM
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The sexual revolution modern feminism killed? There is no more sex in the movies and it is dying on TV. There are two full blown sex scenes in "Better Call Saul", a critically acclaimed series, which aired its last episode last year. Feminists are doing nothing for protecting women from being objectified and sexualized on TV shows, movies and games.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:24 PM
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You make a valid point though it is quite a double speak when rainbow troups can express their sexuality infront of children on parades whereas men get shamed and repressed for expressing their sexuality in textform on an online platform which is clearly age restricted and marked as NSFW. Unless everyone faces an equal punishment, an equal repression, I don't see any reason why men solely should get repressed for expressing their sexuality. Let men have their freedom of speech too!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:20 PM
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They must be doing something wrong then. It is simple, stop making children believe that they were born in the wrong body or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 10:15 PM
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If a child misbehaves you don't fix that behavior by encouraging it. You fix it by teaching it. I honestly would start with the cleansing of a lot of LGBTQ children shows on Netflix. They literally brainwash children into this desasterous path.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 10:13 PM
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When Ottoman Empire (muslims) ruled over Jerusalem everyone lived in peace there. The problem lies within Zionism itself. The cause of Zionism is literally to cause problems especially in that region.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 10:11 PM
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Back when muslims (Ottoman Empire) had control over Jerusalem everonye lived in peace there. The issue lies within Zionism itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 10:10 PM
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Wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 10:09 PM
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I assume because a marriage got broken apart. Assuming that the top commenter also values marriage just as much as I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:08 AM
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I don't know, those websites (Tinder included tbh) always look so fake and fishy. But since I declined the offer, you win.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:58 AM
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That is fair. Unfortunately I deleted all my dating profiles. You win.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:55 AM
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Accepted, although, I forgot to mention. We need to be of same faith, namely muslim. But I just realized, thanks to another commenter that I am not marriage material anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:54 AM
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We just need to be of same faith, namely muslim. What about you would/should make that woman want to marry you? Ok, that question immediately takes me out of the race. Well, it was worth a try. What about you would make that woman not want to marry you? My answer to your first question.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:53 AM
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I'd still be interested in women who post on ppd. For example you. 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:50 AM
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Have you tried going outside and finding women to introduce to your friend there Wait, which friend? 😅 promise logistically that would be way easier than appealing to complete strangers on Reddit. Makes sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:46 AM
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Therefore it is not as easy as some women like to claim on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:17 AM
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Haven't you just said the other day that you're MGTOWing? I don't remember saying anything close to it. What did I say do you remember it? It doesn't need to be a word by word quote. I don't expect you to go through my post history and waste time for this. I'd also guess that the claim "it's easy to date/get a date/have sex" is made about average people. Not people who don't fit "the average" and who have been struggling with dating for years. For the latter they probably need to solve other iss…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:15 AM
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I didn't complain about either of those things. I was discussing why men are so adamant that they don't care about a woman's career or how much she earns. Because men are not women. Women care about a men's career. Men inherently want to provide for a woman, for the family. Judging from your replies, women don't inherently provide for their family. But women have the inherent nurturing, emotional and empathetic features which are somewhat lacking in men. It doesn't make sense to me that a man wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:03 AM
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Start with Hollywood please. Almost all of them are pedophilic yet neither women nor men care enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:53 PM
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One of my last comments then I will try a reddit detox phase Challenge for the women of PPD I now have read multiple times from some women on here that it is quite easy to loose ones virginity as a man and apparently it is just as easy to find a woman to marry. In order to settle this argument whether or not men have it hard in dating, I'd like to challenge the women of PPD in matching me with a woman who'd marry me. Consider this as a fun little game. Ask whatever is necessary and I will try to…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:50 PM
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It wasn't me who shamed working men. If you don't mind I will fully quote your reply here from above. So are men generally happy to be financially responsible for another adult, even in tough times like currently when it's hard to raise a family on one salary? Why would men, the more logical sex (according to guys on reddit lol) put themselves in such a precarious position? Why not use logic and date women who can already support themselves financially? You complain about men who work, and you c…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:43 PM
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I assumed you are already in a relationship, therefore I was thinking you might know someone else who is single or have some ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:38 PM
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In that case I am sure you won't mind helping me. I mean since it is so easy I would assume that helping me would be a child's play for you. This is a sincere request.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:30 PM
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I don't remember saying that I don't need women or anything similar. Maybe in another account which lies way in the past. I remember you too btw 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:28 PM
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Women do not need sex? Did I understand your reply correctly?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:21 PM
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One reason (there are many more) Why should I give more if you guys women can't even accept sex as an answer and try to repress my sexuality? There is literally no encouragement, no motivation to give more than I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:18 PM
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Whatever. I still want to marry and am still a virgin. That is all what matters to me at this point. Just for your information, it is not easy to deal with. It is not easy to find motivation to keep going on. It is a struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:12 PM
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Why shouldn't it be true? You also implied it yourself that sex is a need but not the only need, didn't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:10 PM
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Fair played. Sorry, I edited my reply. I didn't quite understand until like my 4th or 5th edit of my own reply lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:07 PM
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I will defend women until my death. Transwomen should compete in their own league and not mixed with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:06 PM
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Agreed, but we men have testosterone which makes the urges harder to control. Women probably have a (slightly) easier time controlling their urges, I'd assume. Ok, now we could argue whether baby craziness and testosterone balance each other out. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:04 PM
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Yeah there is definitely more to it. I didn't want to bother listing everything that comes to my mind, just said the first thing that popped up in my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:02 PM
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Me? No, I am more like MFTOW (men forced their own way). 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:01 PM
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Yes, I don't know about other men but I'd rather have a woman by my side and have sex with her instead of porn and masturbation. I know, there are sadly men out there who still watch porn despite having a wife. I am angry at these men. I want to scream into their faces "fucking cherish what you have oh my God! Stop masturbating and watching porn and pay attention to her! "
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:55 PM
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If the urge remains afterwards, you’re craving companionship, play, and love, not sex. Pretty much my idea of sex. Oh, I understand now. I am one of the few people who values sex and sees it as something rather holy. I am against hookups, casual sex, fwb, ons, etc. Also, I just want to remind everyone reading: I won't let myself get sexually repressed [...] anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:52 PM
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Women generally demand men who earns just as much if not more.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:44 PM
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I went to therapy and counseling too. Thanks for your reply! Quite interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:43 PM
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https://youtu.be/URz-RYEOaig
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:40 PM
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But the question is "what do you like in a guy". I admit there is a slinet assumption being made, which is that we want to know what a heterosexual woman likes in a guy. I mean afterall, why wouldn't the results be the same as the other question "what makes your pussy wet". What could be possibly so different? I cannot imagine. Not even with that analogy. And I understand the analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:38 PM
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I understand you. I am expecting the same. It is usually the case here. Back and forth of similar talking points 😅. Yeah might be worth a shot!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:34 PM
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Nicely summarized! The two paragraphs in the middle really hit close.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:31 PM
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One reason (there are many more): Sex And if someone wants to shame me for saying this out loud, then bring it on! I won't let myself get sexually repressed from liberals anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:28 PM
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Me too 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:24 PM
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No 😅. Just recently trying to speak up against it. Trying to be fair and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:21 PM
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I arrived to the same conclusion a couple of weeks ago but I am not so fully sure anymore. No matter what, just like we men need women, women need also men. It doesn't matter what women say on here and other places.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:20 PM
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There goes my dream of a passport sis picking me up. 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:18 PM
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Fair point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:13 PM
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Nah, gender roles are making a come back. Stronger than before. I feel like feminists themselves keep enforcing gender roles instead of weakening them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:12 PM
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Might be too personal so I am ok if we take this to direct chat/messages, what happened after those 7 years? What made you think otherwise? What changed your view? Am curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:10 PM
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What recently went through my mind is to accept that children get curious about the other gender once they reach puberty. So instead of making marriage a taboo topic, maybe marriage should be encouraged and supported. I mean, like you said, we see what happens when very important things like this get delayed, frustration. But this is just a brain storming thought, nothing serious and unrelated to the nephew. It is up for discussion. I honestly have no idea, I just wish these sort of things weren…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:08 PM
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Treated like scenery through their entire lives. Nice description.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:03 PM
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Women are generally more emotional. I don't know if emotional is the right word in this context though. When there is a car crash who is the first one to react? Usually a woman who starts screaming. Being rather emotional like that is in fact nothing bad. It doesn't make one inferior. Things need to be like this in order for men and women to complement and fulfill each other, just like two perfectly fitting pieces of a puzzle. Edit: I don't like most of the replies to the top comment here. Kind …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:59 PM
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Really? "it's over" "nothing to lose" is what led to Elliot Rodger to go the way he did. It's an indoctrination. Why isn't this being noticed? He chose the wrong path at the crossing and just like everyone else he will be also held accountable for what he saw. These men need a solid foundation like Islam. There are hadiths which say something like "the best amongst you is the one who is the most helpful to the people" and in another hadith it says something like "the best amongst you is who trea…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:54 PM
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Tbh I didn't even think that far. I didn't even bother to interpret the first line in any way. I just saw that the top commenter made some intellectual exchanges with certain men from supposedly this subreddit. I don't see "men who seek free emotional labor" there and I seriously hope that nobody expects the top commenter to help stranger men. Especially not if the top commenter is a woman because that could end up even worse since these men most likely are desperate and will take her niceness a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:43 PM
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Welp... I don't the world to be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:42 PM
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Can't wait for a passport sis to come pick me up. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:39 PM
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Isn't What do you like in a guy the same as What makes your pussy wet Maybe the purpose of that question is only obvious to me, it is clearly about how to attract a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:37 PM
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Nothing bad with that. If that is bad then every couple should break apart, but they won't for a good reason. Because being a couple brings stability in every aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:35 PM
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We just need to chant: I am ugly and I am proud 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:34 PM
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Blame leftist media (e.g. Netflix). They are partially responsible for this mess. The mindset of "it is over" doesn't necessarily need to be bad. Given it is quite a sad state to be in, one can rise from it with a "nothing to loose" mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:33 PM
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I don't know how to say this, maybe I am more feminine than you are, but a man trying to feed a whole family despite the dire economic situation... that man is a hero in my eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:38 PM
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Yeah, but to be fair, what would be the chances if they seeked out a rather rich woman, or a woman who earns more than themselves? I believe, generally speaking, women would want their men to earn just as much if not more.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:35 PM
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Literally the most unattractive thing a man can do is adopt an aura of neediness and desperation and being unable to be happy without female attention. Easier said than done. Especially if marrying was one of your biggest dreams.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:28 PM
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Like some women on here like to say. I would argue that the bar is in hell 😅.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:22 PM
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Either are fine as long as she loves me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:19 PM
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As far as I can tell, yes. Maybe I am wrong though???
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:19 PM
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Ok that was super shitty wording by me. Sorry. I am gonna delete my comment. What I wanted to say, I suppose, is that in my experience transwomen are pickier and have way more expectations than women. Women have this, I don't know how to describe... women have this inherently motherly love in them... it is super amazing and warming. No offense but transwomen simply don't have that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:16 PM
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Wait wait wait. "People can change" usually refers to that a once evil person can become good. It refers to the actions of a person not on their appearance. does a woman with smaller breasts who gets implants to get bigger ones not count as a woman with big boobs? In my book that woman still cannot erase that she originally had flat boobs. People most likely will refer to her as a woman with big breasts. [...] why do you get to decide such a huge part of their life for them No, I am not deciding…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:14 PM
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On top of that, from my experience, transwomen are "pickier". So the chances are even lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:32 PM
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Huh? I think the major difference here is the obvious one. Transwomen undergo surgery, they change into something they were not. Women are born women, they don't need any surgery to appear more feminine lol. I will die on this hill. Women are not replacable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:29 PM
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I don't want a gf. I want a wife. Honestly if I had a wife I think I would stop caring about all of the dating dynamics shenanigans.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:26 PM
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I disagree. Women are women. Transwomen are Transwomen. I will die on this hill that is for sure. There is something inherently different between Transwomen and women which simply makes women irreplaceable. I am speaking from a male perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:43 AM
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❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:40 AM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:39 AM
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Seriously no offense, I don't know how to word this in a more positive way, but in my experience trans women are worse than actual women. Again no offense intended for real. I am just stating my personal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:38 AM
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I agree with you. I am extra cautious at night and I am a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:30 PM
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I think women on here are correct in that we shouldn't generalize men and women based on some tweets, tiktoks and reddit posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:29 PM
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That is a good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:03 PM
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Thank you for your insight.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 04:53 PM
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I think I have finally become what I wanted to be. A broken man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:47 PM
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I think we need to differentiate the group of men we talk about. I want to make an example: Attractive man: In slang terms he would be the so called "Chad". Majority of women find him attractive thus he has a lot of options. Average man: He is neither ugly nor too attractive. He has some chances but also dry phases. Unattractive man: As far as I can tell not even unattractive women would want these men. (Sorry, but if it is of any condolence I am most likely also in this group of men). Starting …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:34 PM
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Thank you! 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:19 PM
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MashaAllah
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:19 PM
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Ok, it is an inappropriate topic to talk about so openly. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:18 PM
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I wonder in which category that makes me fall
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 02:39 PM
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Didn't you bother cleaning her up? Like, with your tongue?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 02:38 PM
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I honestly didn't know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 02:37 PM
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RIP to the real feminists that marched for equal rights so their daughters could spread their legs for 4.99$ a month. Y'all tried your best fr.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 02:22 PM
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People should first and foremost learn to be happy being alone[...]. The best motivation in my case is a woman. I experienced it. Sadly we were just study partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 02:02 PM
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Being single/lonely is one step worse than death. (Not my own words).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:48 PM
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Women don’t get approached these days anyway either. Not unless they are 9-10/10 or they are getting approached by a drunk guy for sex. I think that is a net positive. It would be even better if the drunk guys would also stop annoying random women on the streets. Of course you have no luck if you say you wanna sit at home and do fuck all, because who tf can afford to stay at home these days? I am totally fine if she would want to be a stay at home mother. We'd find a way to make it work, I am su…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:43 PM
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I think the issue is that all of us have a specific man in mind we imagine getting together with such a woman. At least that is my case. I try not to, but I usually keep on imagining a man like myself, virgin wanting to marry. Maybe you are right that a man who didn't go the party life route would never end up being with such a woman like the tweeter.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:41 PM
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I would totally simp for my wife and put her on a pedestal. If I only had a wife. 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:37 PM
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To be honest, sometimes I also take posts like this personally 😅. Am trying to get better at it since after all I am just getting angry for almost nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:35 PM
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Well, your argument is understandable and fair in my opinion. Sadly I am one of those who cannot swim lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:30 PM
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Bro these tweets are heavily triggering me. It is difficult to contain myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:29 PM
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Also doesn’t this backwards thread literally promote gender stereotypes?! I constantly see posts about how they want traditional women. Maybe that’s your issue OP, you are going for traditional women and are confused why they want a very traditional man? cough It's not like men are the ones who are generally being approached and desired. I want to keep this fair and mention that just like men a majority of women also promote gender stereotypes. I did put on this topic a couple of times already a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:22 PM
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I have no idea, but I am a man and I love to talk with my hands. Standing perfectly still is way too robotic for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:18 PM
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We can't stress enough how much women are lying to protect their ideal or image To be fair, don't we all? At least most of us, like maybe 90%?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:41 AM
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Interesting. Thank you for your reply. Isn't hookup and casual sex synonym? I count everything that falls into the category of "sex before marriage" as the same thing, be it hookups, casual sex, fwb, ons, open relationship, whatever other terms there are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:38 AM
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Not the answer I expected. I was hoping for more "I don't regret" type of replies to prove a point. I appreciate your reply though it gives a good insight for me to properly evaluate the hookup and casual sex world.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:36 AM
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You replied to some of my comments on this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:34 AM
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You can ask that in daily community chat. I asked my version and already got two replies. Though surprisingly the first one is not what I expected. I expect to receive a lot of "No, why would I regret that?" type of replies.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:34 AM
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Now I understand why you got so aggressive. I didn't know you took this personally. Sorry for any inconveniences.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:19 AM
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According to the way she wrote her tweet. Just reread it again. It doesn't read like she has any regret at all that she gave what she give to the fun guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:11 AM
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Because then you'd know that it is impossible for me to marry someone underage.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:10 AM
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Q4W: Do you regret having a past full of casual sex and hookups?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:09 AM
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You can make a thread "do you regret your past sexual encounters?" or "do you regret having casual sex and hookups?" and see the answers for yourself. In fact I'll do that for you ride now in the daily discussion thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:08 AM
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First of all we are indirectly talking about the woman who posted the tweet. Read her tweet again, does it read like she has any regret what she did with the fun guys? Also, is sex the only thing that matters to you? Please do ask this the men and women who ar so afraid to marry because of the fear that they might not be sexually compatible. It is not me who is being against "no sex before marriage". I am all up for marrying first before having sex. It is all of you who puts sex on a pedestal an…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:04 AM
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Lmao what. You could have saved yourself that comment if you would do research instead of believing lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:01 AM
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So if she doesn't regret it, why wouldn't she do it? I agree. That would be the way of common sense. But there are also women out there who surprisingly are proud of what they did (no regret) with stranger man yet refuse to do it with the person they supposedly love the most (husband). I don't get why you guys are so obsessed with dating if you just openly hate women so much. I don't like dating and I don't hate women. I admit my comments aren't always fair and sometimes even straight out provoc…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 09:25 AM
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You are right. It is incredibly difficult to wait though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 08:23 AM
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The issue rather is that she willingly did all of that with the fun guy but won't do any of it with the BF. It just doesn't make sense. The fun guy gets more than the BF. I think men rightfully ask what the benefit of being a BF/Husband is nowadays. On top of all of that, there is no remorse, no regret whatsoever. I mean if she'd regret what she did I would fully understand her but she doesn't even regret it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 08:09 AM
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I hated him and the creators of the show.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 07:34 AM
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I hope you're right. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 07:16 AM
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My words, modern women dress like porn stars.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 07:05 AM
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I understand now. I am still gonna reply seriously. No sex before marriage and only one wife. I am also Muslim.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 07:04 AM
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I am not my type?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:33 AM
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All I could think was "even a dog is more attractive than me" lol. Sad world. Not much to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:28 AM
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Acting like there are no introverts and there is no bullying going on in social settings.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:26 AM
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A child's first and most important teacher is the mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:26 AM
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Fair and good point! Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:20 AM
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It usually is though? At least I would have thought so, judging from the stories I read in here and on Twitter. Usually it ends up with that she did something super crazy with the fun guys but refuses to do it with her husband because she figured she didn't like that. It is super weird to me personally, because any husband who has to endure that must have a lot of patience, love and discipline
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:19 AM
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I agree. Sadly, there are enough fellow men like that, makes me feel a bit ashamed and super angry of my gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:16 AM
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There is a lot of women who think similar thanks to feminism and the aggressive sexual positivity movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:14 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:13 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 11:09 PM
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The replies on "would you date xyz" type of questions are flawed, because people who are already in relationships also answer that question even though the question is meant for single people who are looking forward to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 07:01 PM
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Word it however you want, women mostly have the same mindset as men when it comes to dating single parents. What is funny is that women defend single mothers whereas here I saw no defense for single dads lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 07:00 PM
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Even then, would a female loser want a male loser? I honestly doubt it and I am not even blaming her. It is a sane choice after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 06:58 PM
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Lololol at the replies so far. Women shame men for not dating single moms and guess what? Women use the same strategy, mostly being against dating single dad's. Lmao. The hypocrisy is truly unreal. If women wouldn't collectively shame men for avoiding single moms I would have said nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 06:15 PM
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I’m completely against MY man splitting his time, money and resources with a whole other family 🤷‍♀️ In that case you guys should bring feminism to adjust the child support laws. You women brought this misery upon yourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 06:12 PM
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Hmm, then I guess I have to find such a woman, or someone will help me finding such a woman. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:25 PM
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I have seen women on here suggest that men should go for average and unattractive women instead of always going for the top women. But, since it takes two to form a relationship, what guarantees that average and unattractive women would want to be with a, let's say loser like me? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 04:45 PM
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Thank you! 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 04:43 PM
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Ok, that is a possibility I didn't consider
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 04:42 PM
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There wouldn't be even the need for such groups when women collectively applied a "no sex before marriage" standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 04:08 PM
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If more women wanted a relationship they wouldn't agree to having casual sex, hookups or FWBs, they would rather apply a strict "no sex before marriage" standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 04:03 PM
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The majority of women are not looking for fwb/casual/open situationships. They want a long term committed relationship that leads to marriage. If you want marriage just go the "no sex before marriage" route. Problem solved. Anything else is a lie about wanting to marry or wanting a serious relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 04:01 PM
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I didn't think too much about it, but yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:52 PM
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You lost me at Boko Haram. Boko Haram isn't Islamic at all. But whatever floats your boat and raises your hatred and goes with the mainstream narrative I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:48 PM
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The only thing I agree with is: Oh, and if women in the west decided to have only sex when married.. most of these guys would be complaining of the women in their lives being prudes, and how ''Chad wouldn't have to wait.'' About being poor. I can't marry because I am poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:43 PM
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I am a virgin male at 29M. My two biggest crushes in my whole life where thin women with "flat chest" and "flat asses". The first was athletic. She was amazing. Very kind, sweet, nice and would help those out in need, even me lol. The second one was a professional dancer, very kind, sweet, nice, professional and also super intelligent. She had a very cute middle eastern accent. I loved listening to her explaining things when we studied together. Every word was so nice to listen to. Yeah, I don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 09:06 AM
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Bruh, what on earth?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:59 AM
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Well does he know you do OF?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:54 AM
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I think you nailed it!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:52 AM
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Thank you! Summarized it up perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:48 AM
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I probably wouldn't let anyone like me near her and I guarantee you I am not redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:40 AM
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Hmm would I give a reformed red pill man who once spoke all sorts of daft misogyny and bullshit ideology online a chance? Uhm, having had actual sex is different than speaking out words.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:40 AM
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The only worst thing than a hoe is a reformed hoe, the kind of woman who was a hoe with every previous partner except you. That most likely would be one of the hardest things to deal with. Constantly fighting the thought that she did this and that for other man, but not for the love of her life, but out of respect for her you don't demand anything the likes from her because she figured that she simply wasn't that into those sex positions. It is for sure a strange world we live in. A very strange…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:39 AM
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I don't know what hot trash means but it is trash for sure. Might as well subscribe to actual OF pornstars or watch some porn on one of the other sites.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:35 AM
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[...] it's scary how unaware these girls are about the consequences. Sexual positivity movement. Does it ring a bell? All of us are partially at fault for these girls' actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:33 AM
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From what I saw, F&F could be just as well a porn casting show or whatever it is called nowadays. What is the purpose of mostly having one guy and like dozens of women who dress rather arousing and sexily on there?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:29 AM
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I am a religious person, so if she ended up finding the same faith as me or if she already had the same faith and just sort of ended up being on the somewhat wrong path and now regrets it and doesn't want to turn back, then I am fine with it. I honestly don't even have to know her past. If we are being realistic though, would I be visible for her? I highly doubt so. This is nothing bad though, just a more realistic take on the situation. Realistically speaking, I think it doesn't matter if I wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:25 AM
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I won't ever change my mind because the mess we have nowadays is truly partially feminism's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 07:48 AM
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Yoh nailed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 07:17 AM
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Glad I am following Islam.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:28 AM
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Interesting. I had the impression that men usually demand sex rather early, like on the first, second or third date.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:14 AM
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In the sense of that we already met in the soul realm, before we ended up being born into this planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:11 AM
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I had women telling me that relationships are way more than sex. Reading your reply now, I suppose they were wrong or lied to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:10 AM
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I’d rather figure out that a man wasn’t that interested in me before marrying him. I had the impression that is what dating is for, like getting to know each other and all that jazz. I might have been wrong though. But then I wonder what dating is for? Maybe it is totally unnecessary after all
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:07 AM
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Depends on the viewpoint. I had women in here showing me stats that apparently people in relationships have more sex. No sex before marriage would theoretically take out the Chads from the dating pool and open up the chances of less fortunate men to enter relationships and thus have frequent sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:06 AM
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It is more than that. It is rather because of the mesh of comments and opinions and my personal experiences. One example, which I am pretty keen on, is gender roles. Women, and it is absolutely their right, demand a man who provides. As far as I can tell in general, it is a good rule of thumb for a man to earn just as much if not more than her if he wants to attract and keep her. Of course, exceptions exist, they always do, but that is a good general rule of thumb I could figure out. I know ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:03 AM
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No, it wasn't you. It was definitely someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:56 AM
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I am still butthurt at the woman who tore me apart in private chat because I said that sex is a big part of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:16 AM
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I don't know, I wish all of us, men and women would apply more of the no sex before marriage standard. I believe it would fix a lot of today's relationship related problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:15 AM
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Yes! Thank you! 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:10 AM
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Wow, when I said that to that woman, she shitted so hard on me in private chat. Not gonna lie, she ended up emotionally abusing me. I am not sure if she did it intentionally but she did pick quite the right words to accomplish it. Now I honestly feel betrayed by women. Feels sad. Not much to do here but to keep on living. If it is of any interest, this is one of the reasons why I fully oppose feminism nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:07 AM
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Yes, indeed! Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:05 AM
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It's not invisible at all, it's no romantic relationship and the ugliest women dont get that either, they get pumped and dumped that's it. I think they could avoid being pumped and dumped if they'd apply a no sex before marriage standard. They could go to hookers and have sex too ! You need a lot of money to do that. Most of us are poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:05 AM
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Maybe we have a different understanding of putting my partner on a pedestal. Now that I think about it, I think it would be ideal if we'd both put each other on a pedestal, on the same one to be exact lol. At this point I am probably fantasizing a bit too much. Sorry for the inconvenience.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:03 AM
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Fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:59 AM
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Not necessarily. Divorce can happen, which sometimes sadly is necessary. Shout out to all the women who are still virgin when they marry. There is seriously nothing wrong with you. You are awesome! Keep rocking. As a fellow virgin in old age who wants to marry, I know it is difficult, very difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:58 AM
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Why would no sex before marriage mean "loosing all sex"? It were women on here who showed me stats about how couples in a relationship have the most sex. According to these stats a no sex before marriage standard would further increase the amount of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:55 AM
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Women usually agree for sex on the first date because they are afraid that they will lose their chance with the guy they find attractive. Sex on the first date or early on (aka before marriage) is bribery.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:47 AM
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Interesting that you mention virgin brides because I never mentioned virgin brides. I didn't even think about virginity to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:44 AM
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Premarital sex means: Hookup Casual sex Friends with benefits there were even more synonyms but I forgot them...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:43 AM
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Interesting take, because I had the impression that people don't enter relationships just for having sex. I was told that relationships apparently are more than sex, I think it was mostly by women. There was one woman a long time ago who argued with me about this quite aggressively. Though I might have been wrong all along or lied to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:41 AM
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Another provocative remark on the way: I thought people don't enter relationships for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:39 AM
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Uhh I don't want to bribe a man into marrying me, I want a husband who loves me and stays with me joyfully. If I give the officer 50 bucks in the hopes that he will let me go, that would be bribing. If I give sex in the hopes to enter a relationship, that would be bribing as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:38 AM
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I admit this will sound super provocative and maybe also not even in good faith, but let me still try please. "I thought women don't care about dick size." 😅😅😅
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:35 AM
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Why? If you mean that less men would end up having sex and thus resort to prostitutes, then I would argue that we already are in a drought for men so to say. Are there any stats about men using more prostitutes than before? I don't know, I didn't look it up. Since men are already in a drought and there only seems to be more complaining men than usage of prostitutes I'd doubt that prostitution would boom. My second question would be in regard to the narrative that apparently people in relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:33 AM
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Having casual sex and hookups doesn't guarantee them getting the men they actually want.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:28 AM
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I am thankful for that heh.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:25 AM
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I already fucked myself up with the late edit. Sorry for any inconveniences. I won't annoy you anymore. I still stand on with my viewpoint. Well yeah, you would have. How can you know though? You most likely didn't see my future, did you? Would she have expected you to live a sad, lonely life if you hadn’t crossed paths? I find this question a bit sarcastic because it is not like I am with someone right now nor ever was. Therefore having her entering my life would be absolutely blissful. It is o…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:23 AM
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I believe that I have a soulmate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:17 AM
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I do believe that I have a soulmate. Saying you have a soul mate though means you are putting your future partner on a pedestal and have unrealistic expectations for your relationship and your Partner She is my love. Of course I'll put her on a pedestal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:17 AM
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Last time, then I'll hopefully leave you all in peace. Women complain about men pumping and dumping them, yet fail to apply the obvious solution. Instead of complaining about these men, women could collectively apply a strict "no sex before marriage" standard and fix this problem themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:14 AM
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Being invisible is in fact one step worse than death and death is pretty much one of the worst things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:06 AM
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As a man , when a woman is interested in me i know it comes from genuine reasons, i do not need to be cautious about being tricked or manipulated simply because she doesnt have to i know she chose me over multiple other men. This is a very naive take. Don't fall for the lies of women on here pretending to want serious relationships. Think about it, if they'd really want serious relationships they'd mostly apply a "no sex before marriage" strategy, yet a lot of women do end up having casual sex a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:04 AM
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Lie
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:00 AM
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Fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:59 AM
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Nah, I won't step down on your low level.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:59 AM
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Excuse me. You guys are all about "only one working party cannot sustain household". If one working party cannot sustain a household why should two part-timers (most likely earning less than one full timer) be able to finance a household.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:58 AM
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Yeah sure...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:57 AM
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I mean, seriously, it is great that you are in a happy relationship for over a decade and I honestly honestly wish that your marriage lasts a lifelong time and beyond. But if I hadn’t met him, I would have met someone else. Imagine me telling my wife non-chalantly "I would have met someone else if not you". 🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:55 AM
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Sorry, but you are getting on my nerves. Not gonna lie you are annoying. That is why my replies to you get harsher with each one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:47 AM
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Seriously, just make a dating account as a man and see how many woman would take you if you'd offer to be a stay at home husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:46 AM
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The woman has all the time and energy to take care of the household and child. The man has all the time and energy to focus on his works and regain his energy to help with raising the child and house chores. If both partners are working then both partners come home exhausted, no time nor energy to do house chores or raising the child. Who raises the child then? Not the parents that is for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:46 AM
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If I think like that then I can also sleep with thousands of women without feeling any remorse. No, thank you and I would appreciate if you would stop giving me unsolicited advice. It is neither helpful nor in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:42 AM
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Who knows. Neither you nor me can tell whether I'll find her or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:40 AM
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I don't know what you are on about, but your mind seems to be pretty fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:40 AM
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If you cannot even answer a simple question like that,...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:39 AM
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So? Aren't you talking in generalities? GENERALLY, men don't want that shit either. Unlike women, men don't pretend that they want serious relationships. Women otherwise pretend to want serious relationships while still having casual sex and hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:39 AM
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Ideal scenario is: man working, woman raising child. Seeing that even the hardest feminists demand providing men, a working man and a staying at home mom is the ideal scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:37 AM
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4 out of how many couples are out there again? 4? Who you are kidding here. Not even you would take the role of the sole provider, would you? Be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:36 AM
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And your husband doesn't provide, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:35 AM
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You are goddamn right!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:29 AM
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A lot of women do act like those guys on here too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:29 AM
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TIL that I am a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:26 AM
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In regards to relationships, the thing that saddens me is the possible reality that I might not find my soulmate in this life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:26 AM
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Sometimes I just take a break and think of how perfect the combination of men and women actually is. Honestly, I can see how fun it can be to have family. Of course it has its own challenges but I'd argue that positives easily outweigh the negatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 11:05 PM
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Do you believe in God or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 06:22 PM
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In my marriage I work, always have, and my husband has stayed home taking care of the house and now our kid. He cooks and cleans, I do laundry and admin. I've paid for everything; from our first date, to our wedding rings, to the groceries I picked up on Sunday. I would argue that you are the exception not the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 06:22 PM
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Now imagine, some women do also want children. Now imagine, she is working and both partners are exhausted from work all the time. Now imagine, only one partner is working and the other can fully focus on raising the child. Which one is better? Two permanently exhausted parents or two parents who share the work (Providing and Raising).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 06:21 PM
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No ones forcing women or men to work. Even when women couldn’t work,they’d didn’t live for free Nowadays all of us are basically forced to work. There used to be a time though where women would be provided for by their families, they didn't have to work. This time most likely didn't exist in the west but it did exist in the east. If their provider died and they couldn’t get another one, what did they have to do? Go hungry or find a way to make money. Like said, this was no problem back in the da…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 06:18 PM
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The study composed of 22k people. Why should they be less believed than you, one person? So, it is my word against theirs. We won't reach a conclusion here. So why you complaining about women not doing what also don't want to do? I am one of the very few men and women on here who promote "no sex before marriage". Many of them still do. What are you talking about? https://www.buzzfeed.com/alexgurley/celebs-who-waited-until-marriage-to-have-sex I skimmed through the article. It just says that some…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 06:16 PM
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So if it makes a woman happy to take care and provide for her husband, she'll do that. Guess how many women want to be the sole provider? Guessed so. If that's what you want, go find it. You are the one who is saying that such dynamics exists and the way you word things implies that a lot of women would be ok with such a setup. I infact did search for such a woman on dating platforms yet found noone. Why don't you simply disprove my claims by presenting me such a woman? Maybe arrange a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 06:11 PM
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In other words you really can’t. Not anymore since I already revealed my plan from the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 06:09 PM
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I don't see children, but I know they exist. So I don't really understand that argument. I don't see God, but I know God exists. So I don't really understand that argument. But where can you find one? I personally know of 2 women who would love a stay at home husband/father. I personally know of 2 other couples whose husbands are staying home once the kid is born. 2 couples out of how many? 100? 1.000.000? That setup is the rarity, let's be real here. In fact if you don't believe me why not setu…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 06:05 PM
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Bro, it is super simple. Just think about it. Which woman would take you if you are not going to provide?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 06:05 PM
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How many men are willing to be stay at home fathers and are able to do the job right? I am and yet I am single. So, where is the promised woman who'd take me? As I said from the beginning, feminism is nothing but a scheme. To tackle it we need men to do more childcare and be more proactive in it. Even harder to accomplish with all the female quotas that exist in workplaces now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 06:04 PM
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Both partners working part-time is the best scenario for both men and women, since it gives both financial autonomy alongside time with their family. I respect that you get never exhausted from work.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 06:02 PM
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This comment further proves my point. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 06:01 PM
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Thus proving my point. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 06:00 PM
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role reversal relationships? Oh, please, what role reversal? The man is still expected to do his traditional gender roles in each and everyone of those supposedly "role reversal relationships".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 06:00 PM
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That is because feminists forced women into workforce and employers therefore cutted men's wages. I am not saying that women shouldn't be kept away from working, but I am against forcing women to work!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 05:58 PM
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Feminism doesn't say that women do nothing and depend on men. Sadly feminism also doesn't say to take care of your husband and provide for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 05:57 PM
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Ohh, please try. No, I destroyed my own higher ground by warning you. But one method would be to boost your ego and make you feel like you deserve someone better. Of course you'd also need to make believe that someone better exists. Feminism is for women and it’s concentrated in helping women. Strange. In that case feminists shouldn't have lied to us by pretending to be about equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 05:57 PM
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Where? Find me one and I'll believe you. You know the if I don't see it I won't believe it argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 05:54 PM
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Most young adults have an N count less than 5, regardless of gender. Let's be real for a second here. Those are self reported stats. Did you never lie in your life, when you thought that the truth might be uncomfortable for you? If I had 10 or 20 partners I'd also rather say 5 or an even lower number. Most young adults have an N count less than 5, regardless of gender. Sadly, most men also oppose the "no sex before marriage" rule, but given current gender dynamics, it wouldn't hurt women's prosp…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 05:53 PM
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There are egalitarian women and we can help along, but we also can’t force men to stop do what they’re doing. Let's be real for one second. How many men are stay at home dads? Guessed so. How many women would take stay at home dads? Guessed so.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 05:48 PM
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I do. Where is my promised wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 05:48 PM
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Wow! So cool that someone else gets to have kids for us now! It is not about someone else getting pregnant for you, but let's not kid ourselves that option exists today as well and I have seen women on here seriously consider it. Also awesome that someone’s going to provide everything I need for the rest of my life. I am 99% certain you could easily find a man like that. Here I thought that 75% of working aged women worked and over 80% of women have children by their 40s. Guess, who basically fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 05:47 PM
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It was not me. Feminism made these rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 05:45 PM
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Both are expected to work and do chores. That is still far from the promise of getting rid of gender roles. In my opinion feminism fully failed. And as I’ve posted the other day my reaction to a lack of money is thinking how I can bring more money in. Not blaming or expecting him. You most likely are an exception. In fact I feel it in my finger tips that I could right now easily sabotage your relationship but I won't. I value relationships and it saddens me when people break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 05:44 PM
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PPD women. Dating experience of billions of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 05:41 PM
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Where are you seeing a widespread demand for men to do traditional gender stuff while women do nothing? This should be obvious. PPD women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 05:41 PM
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See?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 05:40 PM
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Yes, indeed, nobody is forcing me but you conveniently neglect one factor. Is there any woman that would be with me or marry me if I wouldn't provide and make sure that the family has a roof over their head? Let's be real now. I mean almost all of PPD women say that they expect their men to work, which is absolutely right, don't get me wrong, but on the other hand women could be jobless and still have options for marriage, even though admittedly, there are some men on here expecting their women …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 05:40 PM
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That is good for you, sad for the men though. It would be only fair if you'd free men from gender roles as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 05:36 PM
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PPD women are enough proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 05:35 PM
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The most simple topic would be n-count. Are women held accountable for with how many partners they have slept with? No. Women complain about men wanting only casual sex yet refuse to apply the simple but effective solution of "no sex before marriage".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 05:34 PM
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The most simple topic would be n-count. Are women held accountable for with how many partners they have slept with? No. Women complain about men wanting only casual sex yet refuse to apply the simple but effective solution of "no sex before marriage".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 05:34 PM
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Traditional Gender Roles: Men: needs to provide, needs to create a safe place for the family, needs to take care of his family, needs to make sure that the family is save, needs to provide a shelter for the family (some place to live, an appartment, a house etc), needs to help out with house chores whenever possible. Women: needs to cook for the family, needs to do laundry, needs to raise the children, is the one who gets pregnant and has to endure the 9 months, needs to keep the house clean. Mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 05:30 PM
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He isn't wrong though. There will always be another better guy. As for me, I think like Zadacat. I won't adjust anymore. If she isn't comfortable sitting in silence she can simply either engage or leave, fully up to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 05:27 PM
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Any interesting conversation is usually immediately shut down on here by women who argue in bad faith. Religion would be a very interesting topic but you know the gist. Not even "no sex before marriage" is open to discussion, but it is so ironic with women though. Women: "We value relationships! Men want only sex!" Also women: "How can I know how good he is in bed if I don't have casual sex?"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 05:26 PM
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Easy to say for you as a woman, isn't it? Afterall you don't have to fight and attract the other gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 05:23 PM
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Why did you even felt the need to make such a comment lmao? He did trigger you, didn't he?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 05:22 PM
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That person was even defending the rainbow movement, which makes even children undergo sex-changes nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 05:13 PM
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Pretending to want gender equality [...]. Traditional Gender Roles: Men: needs to provide, needs to create a safe place for the family, needs to take care of his family, needs to make sure that the family is save, needs to provide a shelter for the family (some place to live, an appartment, a house etc), needs to help out with house chores whenever possible. Women: needs to cook for the family, needs to do laundry, needs to raise the children, is the one who gets pregnant and has to endure the 9…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 05:11 PM
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We men love women, it will never change. I believe women do have the upper hand in this situation. They are ones cappable of fixing things. They way both parties can work on fixing this mess though is if both parties start applying the "no sex before" marriage standard. Sadly, to my disappointment, I see a lot of men here wanting casual sex. Ok, ok, maybe it is men's fault afterall lmao, but let's be real here, it is not like women are against casual sex or promote an overall "no sex before marr…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 04:55 PM
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Women being more emotional is not an insult on women. Men being more robotic is not an insult on men. Both women and men complement each other that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 10:10 AM
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Issue is, even if men weren't that thirsty, nothing would change with women. Women need to change inherently. It happened with feminism. It started out with a good thing and then turned into brainwashing countless women on earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 10:04 AM
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Whether men hold women accountable to any standards or not doesn't change anything. At best, if he holds women to any standard he can expect that his options will lower even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 10:02 AM
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You’ve heard the phase “when it looks too good to be true, it probably is” So is hooking up and having casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 05:34 PM
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Tinder logo reminds me suspiciously of the Vodafone Logo. 🤔🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 03:58 AM
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Starting wars is like...one of the key positions of the president / commander in chief. Strange that only US presidents are allowed to start wars. Putin attacked Ukraine and became the evil of the universe.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 08:01 PM
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I find it so ridicilous that something this minor is considered a crime but being responsible for the deaths of 1 million civilians is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 07:59 PM
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I agree, he should become what they falsely labeled him as, a dictator.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 07:58 PM
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Obama and Bush apparently are above the law. Weird to focus only on Trump but forget about the other presidents. Biden is above the law too. Hunter Biden has still faced no consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 07:57 PM
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Whether it is appropriate or not to say, it is quite obvious why having multiple partners is a risk. There is a high risk for Stds and that stuff apparently does hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:50 PM
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Bush and Obama: Starts wars and kills more than 1 million civilians through airstrikes and mass bombings. Trump: Literally starts 0 wars and gets his hands out of conflict zone as much as he can. Faces possible jail time because he apparently didn't tax money he paid to a porn star. This alone shows how screwed US' juridical system is. Funny enough, it is similar in EU but basically without a Jury.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 03:29 PM
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My honest take on that as a (jaded) man is, to really not interpret anything into it. It is difficult to do so though, but I believe this is the best for me and others and the most comfortable outcome for all. I just help because of my faith, nothing more nothing less.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 06:10 AM
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I agree!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 06:07 AM
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I cant tell if you’re fucking with me or are you actually this dense. I am just a mirror.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 06:06 AM
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I like how all these points further put the blame on us men lol instead of actually being helpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:35 AM
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I agree lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:33 AM
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Imagine men talking like that about women. Well sadly men do talk like that and rightfully women find it creepy and disrespectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:30 AM
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Man come on stop this now. Some men reading this will expect women being all over them for simply helping out lol. I know because I used to be that way and now I gotta warn my bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:28 AM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:27 AM
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I can 100% agree with this lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:21 AM
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"Don't put sex on a pedestal." "It is just sex, it is nothing special." "Don't worry so much about still being a virgin." "Why do you care so much about sex?" ... Finally getting laid tonight after a three day drought. I thought I was gonna die😮‍💨
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:21 AM
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Thank you, I got worried there for a second with my math's lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:19 AM
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The answers are only going to be hurtful. I believe when the right woman comes along, hopefully my soul mate, we will click anyways no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:17 AM
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If it would only work that way I had achieved piece of mind 10 years ago, but instead it just brought me more misery and frustration.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:15 AM
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You don't know who NATO is?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:14 AM
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What is wrong with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:43 PM
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😅 But come on, can't we? 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 11:48 AM
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Grandmasters in chess are good at the game not because they can evaluate every possible move, but because they are able to recognize patterns. Some people, strangely enough, vehemently refuse to recognize such patterns. You can find those elements in every protest/coup which was organized by Soros. Yes, George Soros.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 11:47 AM
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Islam
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 11:44 AM
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Ok, I admit, 2014 coup was orchestrated by NATO.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 11:44 AM
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As crazy as it may sound, yes it starts at around 2012 or 2014, I forgot the exact date.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:02 AM
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Thank you! Those are cases I didn't know yet, I saved them now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:01 AM
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Well, there were sharp shooters intentionally shooting at civilians to let the situation derail even more. If you compare the coups, you will realize similar elements such as Lady in a red dress Guy playing piano Protestors handing out roses or smth to cops sharp shooters shooting at civilians to derail the situation even more a car driving through the crowd It is really always the same method. calling the democratically elected president a dictator spreading lies about the democratically electe…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 03:58 AM
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Bro, CIA literally admitted it and released the secret files. What on earth?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 03:57 AM
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Soulmates? From my what I read and heard about my religion, all of us were created before we came to earth, like our souls already existed before came to earth and in that soul realm we did also interact with each other. That is why sometimes we quickly connect with certain strangers we meet and some other times no matter the effort we just cannot connect with certain strangers. The strangers we connect quickly with, we probably also connected with in the soul realm. I am still researching this,…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 03:54 AM
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Yes, there is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 03:48 AM
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I am fully ready to enter a "Yes, there is." "No, there isn't." dialog. Let's bring it on. There actually is a soulmate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 12:06 AM
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Thank you very much! I also wish the best for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 12:05 AM
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Message: We rather take dogs as children than actual children. It is super sad to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 12:01 AM
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Russian, Armenian, Turkish, Pakistan, Afghan, Eastern European and generally middle eastern accents are super hot too. Just saying. And all the other accents that exist as well. All of them are hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 11:59 PM
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Like for real lmao, or the process of pregnancy and bearing a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 11:58 PM
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Bro, this is kind of hurtful to women. Afterall women are the ones who bear children. We men in no way could overcome that task. It is not easy to bear children. It is a difficult time, usually lasting about 9 months. I say, give women a break. Yes, I know, there are those fit mother's or whatever, I mean respect to them for being able to maintain their figure, so to speak, but let's be real, it is not an easy task. No offense, but I wonder how many of these fit mom's actually also work alongsid…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 11:53 PM
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Ok that way, the "i give up" sentiment makes sense. Although I also used it to not be hurt anymore (loneliness hurts too), though admittedly i had this mixed with a revenge feeling which I didn't admit to myself for a long time, up until now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 11:51 PM
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I find it amusing how some people claim to have "given up" on dating. It is like they are trying to play a Uno Reverse Card. I gave up on dating at age XY because men are crap. I gave up on dating at age XY because women are crap. I am not gonna lie though, for a while I used to play the same Uno Reverse Card as a revenge on women and as a way to deal with my loneliness. I'll let you know I am still a virgin at 29M and finally at peace. Let me tell you something: You cannot just "give up" on the…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 11:43 PM
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I don't want to break anyone's world view, but neither you nor me just decides to "give up". Afterall, who knows, God might present you a man which you find irresistible. Really the same with men who claim to have given up. If the right women knocks up at your door, and God has the power to create such a woman, you will throw out all of the "I give up" philosophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 11:33 PM
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Exactly the kind of men I don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 11:29 PM
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Meanwhile in Germany I struggle to find parking spots in big cities. Do you like need to pay for those parking spots in USA? Like when you are in the city for example?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 11:05 PM
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More people should read the declassified CIA files for couping the democratically elected president Mohammed Mossadegh. You will quickly realize how the same strategy has been used to coup the Ukrainian government a couple times.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 11:04 PM
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Women and men actually crave something long term, something stable. But we usually override those inner cravings by consuming excessively.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:58 PM
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Feminists want a providing man[...] Feminists apparently also want to remove gender roles...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:57 PM
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One way or the other we will go back to the old world, because the current hedonistic lifestyle we all live in is not sustainable at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:52 PM
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Neither men nor women can fight their nature. Going after Chad is like keep watching porn hoping for the next best thing, the next best dopamine shot. At the end of the day, jumping from one Chad to another won't make a woman happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:51 PM
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Each and every one of us has our own battles and trying to win our wars. It's why I mention often how guys here shame single mothers for supposedly having got pregnant at the hands of a man who then walked away or overweight women. We don't know the reason for their struggles. We don't know the circumstances. Agreed. Thank you for mentioning this. I know this too but it is easy to forget. Imagine if a woman is struggling with her weight due to ill health that she can't control like ovary disorde…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 02:50 PM
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I just want to add that it is the very same reason why we cannot judge someone just because they are a virgin at an older age.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 02:04 PM
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This is plain wrong and already disproven by all the women who demand a providing man. I mean, how many women want to be with a househusband? Seriously now. Let's not kid ourselves. Oh, btw, women absolutely should demand a man who provides, it is their right to do so!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 10:44 AM
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Well, I gotta say, that is also a good question!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 10:42 AM
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I'd say this is pretty much on point. Hits the nail on its head.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 10:42 AM
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I disagree. Maybe some are going that path, some are loosing themselves, but calling it the majority is quite stretched in my opinion. I believe the majority of religious girls stay true to their faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 10:40 AM
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Canada, where marrying is a crime, but having gangbangs and all sorts of filth is legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 12:57 PM
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Stop lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:15 PM
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Yeah that is what I experienced as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:20 PM
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In general women are rather emotional, nothing wrong with that, and therefore easily influenced by friends or even strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:28 PM
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I'm just enjoying the decline. If it would be only that. Unfortunately just enjoying it isn't possible. Engaging in it is further enabling it. Because by actively engaging in it your body language says "I approve this". I'm not hurting those girls at all, unless you're counting the whole "you can stick it in there if you want" thing so many of them willingly do. I'm sure that hurts a bit. Of course it takes two to enable and participate in this specific activity. To solve the issue though one si…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:33 PM
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Judging from my self, I might be able to explain why some men enter a phase in which they are (not rightfully) frustrated and angry at women. I suppose it all starts with witnessing how some men treat their woman badly, hence the idea develops that you yourself would treat her much better than he is doing. Whether this is true or not is up to discussion, but such an idea might develop nonetheless. Living, seeing, hearing and witnessing life you figure that men and women more or less almost rando…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:37 AM
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Seriously? You think most women are organising multiple tour guide dates for the countries they visit and.. checks notes prostituting themselves for room and board when relocating? You asked, please don't be mad when I give an honest reply. If I go out I see a lot of women who are rather dressed freely (yoga pants, (leather) leggings, short skirts, short pants, tight pants, tight tops, crop tops, cocktail dresses, mini dresses and so on) as a men you have to understand that it is incredibly diff…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:19 AM
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We live in difficult times, indeed!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:08 AM
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Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:03 AM
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As a man I have zero respect for such a man. He could have just married one nice girl instead of breaking apart thousands. He also isn't hurting only those girls he is also hurting other men's chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 10:50 AM
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Well it is a strategy to prevent the "he used me" case.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:52 PM
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Yet you don't strictly apply a "no sex before marriage" strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:19 PM
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Allah is neither in the sky nor is he a father.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:14 PM
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Sad but true.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:25 PM
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I gave you trustable sources. If you want to become an expert find their works and read them. For real now, can you even recite one surah?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:23 PM
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I honestly don't like what men generally say on here, but in this very specific topic men are honest and women are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:20 PM
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Where are your sources for those outrages claims? Btw, don't you find it quite strange that the people who lived at his time never accused him of anything like that? Yet thousand years after you rather believe people who made this relatively new accusation rather than trusting on historical sources and the people who lived in the time of the prophet. Not even the prophet's worst enemies, and trust me, they are way worse than your sources could ever be, made such ridicolous accusations. Also, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:21 PM
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First of all. If Allah or the prophet said something, then they spoke the truth. Second of all, it is clearly showing that you wrote your comment in bad faith. You would simply know this if you actually had ever opened up the Quran. The issue with your comment is that your lack of expertise is clearly showing. This is evident, because you obviously didn't even check your sources. If you truly want to be an expert, you have to read and understand the likes of - Imam-i Azam Ebu Hanife - Imam-i Sha…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:14 PM
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Many men also want sex and commitment. I don't see many men on here claiming that "men want commitment" even though I'd appreciate if most of us men would go the "no sex before marriage" route.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:08 PM
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I think this is being referred to as "having the cake and eating it too".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:05 PM
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Women want commitment, but they also want sex. I have seen the saying "having the cake and eating it too". I see this as a perfect example for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:56 PM
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I see people often claiming that "women want commitment" on here. The issue with that is, if women wanted commitment then they would apply a strict "no sex before marriage" strategy. Yet, from my experience, whenever "no sex before marriage" is suggested that person gets attacked by men and women. I gotta give it to the men on here, at least they are being honest and don't claim that they want commitment. Individually, yes of course there are women who want commitment. There are even men who wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:35 PM
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If women alltogether wanted commitment they would mercilessly apply the "no sex before marriage" rule. But since women don't rigorously apply "no sex before marriage" and in fact a lot of women seem to support "sex before marriage", I don't feel like women are being sincere on here whenever they say that "women want commitment".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:17 PM
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Men are being accused of trying to have sex with as many women as possible. This accusation is alright because it reflects what is observable. Women claim to want commitment, yet whenever "no sex before marriage" is brought up, both men and women start attacking that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:15 PM
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You asked for it, so don't blame me for what is coming next. Heterosexual relationships are normal. Homosexual relationships are not normal. End of story. When somenone mentions a woman being in a relationship the assumption is that she is with a man. When someone mentions a man being in a relationship the assumption is that he is with a woman. Sorry if I broke your or anyone else's worldview, but you asked for it. Don't play dumb or ask stupid questions if you don't like the answer to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:10 PM
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Maybe. She is not lesbian though, so there is that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:49 PM
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What on earth? I have seen you commenting on this thread and you were constantly saying that such a life is not worth because of all the risks and that the average women wouldn't prefer it to risk so much yet you ended up saying Like how I have a line out the door of men wanting to pay me for sex at 50? That reality? Suddenly such a lifestyle is desirable again and because of that you are superior than the person you replied to?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:48 PM
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I'd also like to see what becomes of such women. I did hear that their fate is quite bad and saddening but I'd just like to see with my own eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:38 PM
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I don't like you sleeping around and basically taking part in enabling the downfall of these women, but I appreciate the honesty. Gave you an upvote.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:37 PM
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And tbh men can do this exact same thing - go to another country and find a strange man to take you in. We are talking about heterosexual relationships. No, men cannot do the same thing unless the man in question is top 20% or whatever. Even then he needs enormous luck and a good understanding of reading the room.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:28 PM
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For young men, the client would probably be older gay men, though. We are talking about heterosexual relationships. The equivalent would be a man whose clients are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:24 PM
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Also reality, most women do not live like this Even if this is true, which I highly doubt, most women have the option of such lives unlike men lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:23 PM
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Absolutely true. I partially vent on the Daily Community Chat. No matter how much I think I am in a mindset that things won't affect me on here... people on here still manage to write stuff which ends up affecting me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:22 PM
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true
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:19 PM
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Don't a lot of women do that or try to do it? Am looking at stuff like OnlyFans and its thousands of variants, of course, TikTok, YouTube, Twitter, Reddit and Instagram included. Also, a lot of people seem to like the party-life anyways and we know that people go to parties or clubs to pick someone up for the night.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:18 PM
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[...] who think they're special. This bit was eye opening for me. Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:15 PM
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not that the majority of women even consider living like this I disagree. The majority of people seem to like partying/party-life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:13 PM
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Both men and women should lower their gaze. Unfortunately very few men and women actually have the discipline to apply this. Of course, when you are for example driving the car and a couple of people want to cross the street and you stop for them, of course you make brief eye contact and revert back to focussing on the road. There is no problem with being aware of ones surrounding but this shouldn't be used as an excuse to look or even stare at women. Same goes for women too. Women shouldn't use…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:35 AM
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[...] great to know that you actually think you're a victim in all this. He only said that men should preferably avoid looking or even staring at women. I didn't see any victimization. While I agree with the first part of your reply the latter quoted part just puts a negative on your reply alltogether. Yes, indeed, no matter the circumstances men and women should lower their gazes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:32 AM
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Instead of adressing the actual topic you just attack OP personally. This is surely not arguing in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:28 AM
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I hope you are aware that you are actually promoting bad behavior with passive aggressive comments like this. In all honesty, it should be the standard that men and women lower their gaze, no matter how attractive or naked he or she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:28 AM
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That is the right way to go to be honest. Men and women should lower their gaze.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:27 AM
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The solution is quite simple and right in front our noses. Nowadays, men and women both rather go for hookups than for serious relationships aka marriage. Women claim that they want commitment. We can put this claim to test. If women want commitment than it would be no problem for women to demand no sex before marriage, yet whenever I suggest no sex before marriage men and women start attacking me. As long as we don't start promoting marriage again and start breaking the numbers of sex outside a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:18 AM
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So you are preaching something that you are not doing yourself. Prime example of a bad role model. Why should anyone listen to you if you do not even apply your own advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:41 PM
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With such women around, and other women defending such behavior it is surprising that not more people hate on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:02 PM
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I think you should lead with that advice and stop using reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:01 PM
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With that argument men who cheat and sleep around won. And women on here seriously try to tell me that women desire committment. What a load of BS?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 02:59 PM
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No, I disagree because I have seen men on here demanding sex on first date instead of for example suggesting to wait for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 08:46 PM
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If women are serious about the whole commitment argument, then I'd like to see more women going against sex on the first date or even sex before marriage. Yet surprisingly a lot of women are promoting sex before marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:09 PM
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I suppose you never heard of all the "sex positivity" propaganda promoting women to sexual ize themselves even more. Quite a lot of women believe that it is empowering to show their most precious body parts for tens, hundreds, thousands and millions of stranger men to see, stare and masturbate to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:39 PM
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Those are all just empty promises. Just like feminism's empty promise of removing gender roles. Instead of removing gender roles, men have to take on women's role on top of their own natural roles and women have to take on men's roles on top of their own natural roles. As the positioning of men and women in societal roles changes, gender differences in mate choice criteria SHOULD change because people look for mates who fit into their anticipated future lives under prevalent societal circumstanc…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:37 PM
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All that math yet the rule of thumb is that no rich woman would be with a poor man. We don't need to talk around the bush. Exceptions to rules exist of course. The rule is that women generally demand a man who earns as much or more than herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:09 PM
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Women today care less about income than they did 60-40 years ago. That is absolutely a lie and you know it. A man needs to either earn just as much or more than her to be considered a potential spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 01:43 PM
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💯
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 12:34 PM
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How would that affect you? Negatively of course. What the fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 12:24 PM
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We two must be living in different universes then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 12:16 PM
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Proof that women have it easy. 🤣 Am just kidding.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 12:10 PM
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I'll say what I always say. It seems to be easy for you, so, since it is no effort for you, you could maybe be generous and help those who are less fortunate. Like me, maybe you could find me someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 12:06 PM
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It takes two to have sex. So women and men are equally at fault for enabling hookup culture. Also, a friendly reminder, feminism fueled and promoted hookup culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 12:01 PM
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