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I don’t ignore men. I pursued my fiancée, not the other way around. Just because women aren’t attracted to you, does not mean women aren’t attracted to other men. Perhaps it’s your attitude and desire to blame women for your problems that turns off women. Frankly, I’m not your mommy. I don’t want or need to teach a grown ass man to have respect for others and treat others with kindness, regardless of whether or not you gain something personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 03:41 PM
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Ignore you how? If your idea of helping you, involves removing another persons right to autonomy, then you are the problem. I’d argue most people think guys like you need professional mental health help. We’re just people on the internet, we can’t personally provide mental health help for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:04 PM
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They’re not arguing in favour for it… they’re just stating the fact that it already happens…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:46 PM
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That’s what I’m saying. It takes zero effort to blindly swipe right. Men complain about all the matches women receive, women would probably have less matches if men took the time to actually look at profiles before hand— not after. I don’t know if women think of their swiping as investments but I do think the majority of women do stop to look at the profile and maybe linked socials before deciding if they’ll swipe right. Either way, an entire generation is kinda messed up from it honestly. The a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:29 PM
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Maybe women’s matches would me less saturated if guys didn’t swipe on every single profile without even looking. I don’t even know why you’re trying to argue with me. I’m literally saying the apps are shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:26 PM
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That’s my point. The dating apps are garbage for all involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:43 PM
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Dating was already tough in the past. It’s probably the worst it’s ever been because of the convenience and, let’s face it, reliance on dating apps. “Hook up” culture has exploded. Many women I know, sure, had more matches then men receive— but I can tell you as a woman who lived in a house of 8 guys in university— a lot of guys don’t even take a minute to look at profiles or photos, they just blindly swipe right to maximize their odds of hooking up that night. Back in the 90’s, 00’s and even 10…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:16 PM
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I have no idea why that person is busting your balls. You never once implied it’s entirely women’s responsibility to fix society or men’s unhappiness by having sex. It’s pretty clear that you’re talking about how we, as a society, should care about quality of life in meaningful ways— like access to resources, social services, education, recreational activity, a healthy economy, fucking access to *healthcare* Which is just… plain facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:51 AM
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It’s not a “negotiation” if you’re saying “hey fuck me or I will strip your rights away” — that’s the dumbest fucking argument I’ve ever heard. That’s coercion *at minimum*, which is rape. Negotiation implies both parties consent. Please pick up a dictionary.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:40 AM
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As someone who works in fraud investigation, fraud can and does happen to people of all ages, all walks of life. Fraud comes in many forms, some are seemingly obvious— others not as much. I’ve found the outcome to be quite universal though, in that it’s always devastating and victims feel a lot of shame. It’s feels like a violation, because it is. The stigma is what prevents people from reporting the fraud or educating others, which enables bad actors to keep operating. It’s only going to become…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 04:29 PM
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You were failed by the education system.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:40 PM
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Only you will continue to suffer alone lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:28 PM
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I’m not going to read this response. I highly suggest seeking some adult learning classes because you clearly struggle with formatting a basic paragraph and stating your thought processes clearly. I genuinely feel like broadening your education and your knowledge & understanding beyond the tip of your dick would benefit your life greatly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:23 PM
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Why do you Type Like this Did you Flunk out of Highschool Srsly
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:12 PM
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“Bisexuality is homosexuality to me” To you? Okay. Who tf even are you? lol like I said— you need to look at your self first before you go around trying to belittle or discredit other people’s lived sexual experiences— especially when you have clearly very little to none of your own. Glass houses bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:08 PM
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Half of your posts on Reddit is asking how to make women orgasm and complaining about them. I really don’t think you have the authority to tell others on this sub they can’t speak about their own sexuality. You look dumb as hell rn.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:48 PM
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It’s literally text book when discussing violent, criminal men who beat, rape and murder women. You can find endless examples if you google it— you shouldn’t have to though, it’s also the basis for a lot of pop culture, for example… Hitchcock’s “Psycho” is based on Ed Gein and his crimes and his relationship with his mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 05:08 AM
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Bro there is 8 BILLION people on the planet earth. A few million women is a minority group. What even is your second half? Because women face those risks when having casual sex, men do not. Many women do not find the risk worth potentially losing just to hook up with some entitled man she barely knows who will turn around and call her a worthless whore after. Therefore, the pool of casual seeking women, at your big age of nearly 40, is going to be smaller. Many women your age are trying to settl…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:24 PM
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The reason you have such a hard time finding women who will have casual sex is because they are a minority group of women. Especially in your age group. You’re approaching 40. Humans dial down “risky” behaviours the older we get. Women have been told by men, just like you, that they are worthless whores if they have casual sex. You want casual sex? Men want casual sex? Stop telling women they’re worthless if they have it. You can’t have your cake and eat it to. It’s also a lot more responsibilit…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 12:25 PM
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Isn’t the average height for women in the west like 5’3? You have plenty of averaged height women if a 6’ woman won’t pick you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:55 AM
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Fool proof plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:13 AM
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How? Are you going to just ask and believe whatever answer you get?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 03:33 AM
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Just because you live in Brazil and individual prostitution it’s self is legal, that does not mean Brazil does not have an issue with child sex trafficking and sex trafficking in general. Brazil still has those problems. You would still be participating in the ecosystem that feeds into this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 03:01 AM
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I wouldn’t talk to anyone who participates in human trafficking.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 12:43 PM
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Can you tell me how you made a custom flair? 🥺👉🏼👈🏼 I can only find the boring generic ones when I try to change it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 12:11 AM
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Social conditioning is different for young boys vs young girls. Boys being rowdy is seen as “boys will be boys” — encouraged to play rough & tough from a very young age. Girls, not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 11:58 AM
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No lol what? Is that your way of trying to not acknowledge that what you said initially was stupid?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 11:17 AM
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Look- I’m not arguing with you about the whole incel thing. But when you say 40% are minorities, you’re implying minorities can’t also be racist— which, they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 11:02 AM
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You don’t have to be white to be racist
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 10:10 AM
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Wow you weren’t joking! This person is chronically online. Posting unhinged shit every single day — I know we say it a lot in this sub but OP seriously needs to touch grass & maybe see a professional. This post history reminds me of someone senile spending too much time on Facebook
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:41 AM
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You couldn’t pay me to rat on myself like you have, here and now OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 12:17 AM
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Really? I thought Women are all over the comments of this sub. I find they’re probably the more prominent commenters, along with maybe blue bill men flairs. You’re right in that it’s probably just what I interact with. I’m not in any other pilled communities though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 08:31 AM
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Our algorithms must be so different. I feel like the majority of the posts I see pop up in this sub are created by men discussing the transgressions of women, and women commenting. When was the last time we did a poll on this sub? I’d be curious to know what the gender ratio is for OP’s here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:13 AM
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I do not believe people are walking around constantly telling random men they have small dicks. No lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 05:23 AM
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So, not in real life then. You’re strictly basing this off of trolls on a subreddit. My dude— real people are not like this in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 04:48 AM
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This shit is so dumb bro. The wealthiest people in the world are robbing us all blind and you’re playing right into their hand by getting blinded and worked up by this “woke” culture war BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:50 PM
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Where are y’all meeting these people? I literally cannot think of one time I’ve angrily told a guy he had a small cock. What kind of people are you socializing with? I see this come up every now and then— and it’s like damn, y’all live either really hostile lives or this doesn’t actually happen often at all
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 06:48 PM
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This exchange would have been comical— but the point you proved is so grim. Sad people live that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 04:55 PM
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Agreed, blaming Zelenskyy instead of blaming Putin is definitely a bold ignorant choice. Then to say Zelenskyy is the one who wouldn’t negotiate with Trump— some people really live in alternate realities
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 04:41 PM
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That is exactly how I described it in my original comment, you goon ! LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 10:47 PM
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And by the way— your last example of “romance scams” I explained in my original comment to you— additionally, you’re wrong. It’s known as a Pig Butchering scam. Again, you need to work on your reading comprehension skills. I’m embarrassed for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 09:32 PM
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Babes— no bank is refunding scams. Correct. I am well aware of this. I have had to have the conversation many times that there is no reimbursement. When did I mention we were refunding scam victims? Literally no where. You are making up arguments that I am not even saying anything about, and claiming I’m wrong— I haven’t said anything about refunding anyone. You’re acting delusional. Arguing with yourself. Go scream at the sky.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 09:21 PM
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I think a lot of it has to do with our culture too. Men have been socially conditioned basically to “prove” or pay for women’s attention. Gifts, bills, etc. They may not even see it as a scam. Sadly until more research needs to be done. Fraud is constantly evolving too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 06:38 PM
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I literally was talking from my own experience. I can’t help that you don’t have reading comprehension skills. Edit- and no- the men were never reporting them in the scenarios I gave. It took ages to convince them they were even possibly being scammed, let alone confirm it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 11:02 AM
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How so? 1) I read his link— my personal experience in America does not relate to the people in the UK as per the study. We have different internet laws, consumer protection laws, different fraud laws and different banking regulations. 2) only 200 people in the study were victims of romance scams specifically 3) again, it’s well known fraud is under reported because people are ashamed they’ve been duped.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 10:57 AM
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I thought it was obvious I was giving first hand experience. Additionally— there is a lot of nuance to fraud. It’s widely underreported because there’s a lot of shame people experience. This isn’t the type of thing you can quantify concretely because again- they’re not admitting they’ve been frauded. Women are more than likely reporting vs men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 10:38 AM
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As someone who works in fraud investigations— I need to say I very rarely have women falling or romance scams. Most of the time it’s men, and they’re falling for 2 things: Romance scams where they think their sending funds to “their Mrs” direct Pig Butchering scams ( usually starts as romance but becomes investment/crypto scams) I had one guy in his 20’s who spent $40K across 3 cards over 6 months on Onlyfans and cam sites. It was so fucked. (This isn’t fraud but I had to say it anyway because i…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 09:43 AM
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Yep- just like pedos, we should have thrown away the key. Disgusting she served so little time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 03:49 AM
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That documentary is so fucked. She has absolutely zero remorse. Doesn’t even see what she did as wrong — she’s vile. She took advantage of someone so vulnerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 02:47 AM
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Radicalization is interesting because it can happen on either sides of the spectrum, right or left. It really boils down to extreme “absolute” views on something— where as, I would hope, most people are a lot more nuanced and realize the world really is just different shades of grey vs black and white. Enlightened is a nice word which I can agree it probably does have that effect for some. It’s just the term “red pill” has become almost synonymous with being extreme views in main stream media. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 02:33 AM
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Radicalization is interesting because it can happen on either sides of the spectrum, right or left. It really boils down to extreme “absolute” views on something— where as, I would hope, most people are a lot more nuanced and realize the world really is just different shades of grey vs black and white. Enlightened is a nice word which I can agree it probably does have that effect for some. It’s just the term “red pill” has become almost synonymous with being extreme views, I think that’s why OP …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 02:32 AM
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Key word in the post being “radicalized” - you can’t become radicalized unless you blame someone for something. In OP’s case, they’re blaming women for posting about their lives— as this is the trigger to young men becoming radical.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 01:02 AM
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Again— then the point to be heard here is the common factor in that it’s up to the individual who is being radicalized by seeing other people simply live their lives to re-evaluate and address the real issues they have. They are the ones blaming women for living their lives, which they have the right to live how they chose. Blame doesn’t fall on any other party, whether they be female or male.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 11:28 PM
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Don’t men do all these things you’re saying women are doing that inadvertently radicalize young men? Posting about dating, their relationships, accomplishments, careers, etc etc— because I’m positive men do all of these also, yet your argument is still framing it as women doing something wrong. When in reality, both genders do this.. and it’s nothing to even be ashamed about, these things are just people experiencing life. The only person who should harbour any “fault” or who has to make change …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 11:08 PM
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Would have been a good place to start. Did you meet any there?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:40 AM
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Did you go to university?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:35 AM
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projection pure delusion You forgot the 3rd option: - moral masochist Personally, I think people like this are doing it as a form of self masturbation. They believe they are worthless so they post shit like this so other people come here and re-affirm their self deprecation. They’re not trying to work on themselves in anyway. They want others to reaffirm they have no redeeming qualities— this way, they can feel less guilt about not progressing and blame others for the way they’re being “persecut…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 03:59 PM
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Jeez lower your standards, how else are you ever going to find real love? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 09:45 PM
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Amazing, I can’t read. Thank you for enlightening me, I have no idea how I managed to graduate university and maintain a full career 🙄 Take a look at every other comment here and you’ll find the same response. You’re the minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 09:43 PM
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https://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/romanticizing Maybe this will help you understand
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:44 PM
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lol sure ok
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:08 PM
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That is literally the definition of romanticizing. Please pick up a book. “deal with or describe in an idealized or unrealistic fashion; make (something) seem better or more appealing than it really is.”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:07 PM
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The bar is so low if you’re romanticizing homelessness and addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 06:27 PM
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I think it’s because a lot of the people on this sub are young, like gen Z & gen alpha Covid/lock down, with social media being their substitute for interactions for those formative years has really messed a lot of these kids up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 12:10 AM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:42 AM
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“ you miss 100 % of the shots you don’t take - Wayne Gretzky” - Michael Scott
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:31 AM
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Your entire argument is it’s hard for 50 year old men to date younger women unless they’re rich. That’s it. That’s all you said this entire time. This entire sub is about sociology; if you haven’t figured it out yet, politics and reproductive rights have an influence on dating culture. If you don’t like discussing sociology then idk, maybe join a different sub since you’re so bored
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 03:43 PM
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You’ve literally made 0 arguments at all. These are all your opinion. There’s no discussion to be had between us if you’re literally not going to make a valid other then how you feel
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 03:08 PM
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You literally do not have to be an exceptional Like I said, it happens even in the poorest communities. Men have endless options in their 20’s, and they’re not consistently villainized for being sexual. Women are. Women are constantly called whores or worthless if they have even a few partners. More over, conservative politics are actively working to undermine any sexual liberty women currently have, so this unlimited freedom you’re talking about is in the form on restrictions on Planned Parenth…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:23 PM
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Older men get with younger women often. It’s not reserved for rich men. Literally happens even in the poorest communities.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 01:49 PM
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Take a step back and take a look again. The comment you’re replying to is talking about hormonal, physiological, medical side effects that women go through in life (which menopause should also be mentioned, as well as the heightened risk of cancers and disease due to decades of birth controls and hormonal drop offs after menopause) Your comment is about a 50 year old man’s ability to date a 20 year old… Like the short sightedness is crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:55 PM
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I guess imma have to change my flair because I completely agree with you. I am not sure what this blue pill woman is on right now.. you are absolutely right- both parties/genders should bring something to the table and be willing to discuss those things. Why any one feels entitled to another persons time and energy outright baffles me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:52 PM
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My apologies I meant to respond to this comment that said they were unrelated topics to dating https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/CjN5gYmg5o Not sure how I responded to your comment thread, I can only chalk it up to not really paying attention pre cup of coffee, as I was logging into work this morning
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:15 PM
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I’m fairly certain they edited their comment, previously they stated that none of the topics in the OP are relevant to dating. Which is why I asked they thought the economy and politics didn’t impact dating
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:09 PM
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Can you explain why you think things like the economy and political shifts don’t impact the “dating” population?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:16 PM
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So you’re saying nothing. People will or will not date each other. No shit. Who would’ve thought? Really revolutionary champ. Stay in school.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:39 AM
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They’ve been saying the Toronto housing market would crash for years, but she keeps on climbing 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:59 AM
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You didn’t give an answer, you gave your opinion in an unnecessarily annoying format but I digress.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:57 AM
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Agreed. Most women I know just want a guy with personal goals, decent morals and even tempered. Most men I know also want these things in the women they date. My partner is getting his masters right now, which means I’m the only house hold income. I don’t mind supporting us because he is actually in pursuit of something. It would be totally different if he was decidedly unemployed and a couch potato- because lack of ambition is not typically attractive trait for anyone to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:53 AM
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LOL this is ridiculous. So what, in your opinion, would be my solution to increase my dating pool? Be barefoot and pregnant? My dating pool does not diminish because I’m educated and have a career. I am not “losing prospects” when I decide I don’t want to date a homeless person. Everyone wants to be with someone who has personal goals. News @ 11.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:48 AM
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Because it makes no sense. How does women making their own money = women closing their doors for dating prospects? Literally not even remotely accurate. If anything, I have more doors open in dating prospects because I have an education and a career. So what doors exactly am I supposedly closing according to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:22 AM
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women have money for no reason. Women have jobs and money because life is expensive. I don’t know what planet you live on but I pay $2600 in rent alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:45 AM
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Seriously 😣 after years of bartending in university bars, I have seen the disgustingness of women’s bathrooms at the end of the night. Some literally look like a horror scene, smeared blood, toilet paper and water everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:15 AM
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I can’t imagine having such a low quality life that I waste my time defending an analogy I don’t agree with in some shape or form. I value my time too much. Absolutely bizarre behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 10:02 AM
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You failed to make one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 09:48 AM
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Referring to women as a lock is nonsensical. It’s a stupid analogy. Women are human beings, who have desires, needs, and most importantly, human rights. We have more purpose beyond something to insert a “key” into and our inherent value is not related to how many people we sleep with. When you rely on meaningless, arbitrary analogies to reduce entire groups of people to a single purpose, you are the idiot. We are not playing dumb, your analogy is fucking stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 06:24 AM
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… you realize women don’t think men ACTUALLY believe we’re locks and keys right? No need to be condescending and act like women are too stupid to know what an analogy is lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:24 AM
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Bro, I am begging you to try finding a new line. Literally every comment you’ve ever made on this account is just “Laughs in Vietnam draft” — it wasn’t a banger the first time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 10:50 PM
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This is such a weird discussion lol I can almost guarantee women around the world are not thinking about this. It’s so bizarre seeing these PPD posts sometimes because they’re so outlandish and jarring my only response is “no, I have never thought this in my life.. ever”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 10:36 PM
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No, but definitely unsubscribing from red pill communities is the first step.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:19 PM
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Unsubscribing from click bait propaganda online
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:31 AM
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Literally the patriarchy is keeping them down. The complaints men have (most of which are entirely valid, like mental health, inability to show emotion and pressure to “provide”) all stems from the patriarchy. Toxic masculinity is real and has men, particularly young men, in a stressful situation which is only exasperated by social media
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:55 AM
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He mentions terms like “first advance”— if you’re going to have sex with someone there’s a lot of steps before “saying freaky shit”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:02 AM
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That dude was weird af “Note: I’m not saying it’s ok to continue to be sexually vulgar verbally if someone isn’t receptive to your first advance. But I also don’t see the issue with initially saying some freaky shit” He totally found it totally okay to initially sexually harass women from the jump, but not okay to continue sexually harassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:10 AM
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OP’s profile has many NSFW posts so, idk, anything is certainly possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:47 AM
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Totally not at all what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:43 AM
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Kind of interesting your only interactions with the comments here are the answers to the sexual question.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:33 AM
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Is your cousin in the room with us right now? You’ve made it clear you, yourself have a low opinion of men. Maybe your problem starts there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:09 AM
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Because they don’t spend their life chronically worried over rage bait and propaganda. You’re sheep. Your brain is being melted for profit because your rage sells — what don’t you understand about that? You’re just a dollar sign to people who are profiting from your mental decline because you’re so shook you’ll just keep scrolling to the next.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:07 AM
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Dude… unsubscribe. Social media is rotting your brain. Real people don’t talk or think like this. Stop interacting with rage bait, you will feel a lot better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:40 AM
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we have this in Canada, maternal and paternal leave. Essentially the parents can split it which is what my parents did when my mom had a c-section having my little sister. Mom stayed home the first 6 months, dad stayed home the last 6 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 10:42 PM
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Amen
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:24 PM
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So you agree; men are violent Men commit more violence on other men, ok. that doesn’t negate the fact that women still experience violence mostly from men. So men are violent to both genders. That’s still a problem. Both are a problem. (Obligatory PSA of course I don’t mean all men of course not all men are violent and criminal)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 04:22 PM
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People have to work and in this economy will accept work where ever they can— judging by your post history you should understand what it’s like to be desperate for work.< that’s a fact Something happened to you around half a year ago, you became a lot more radicalized and this is the type of crap you spend all your days posting about now. You seemed relatively normal before that. Log off. Create new accounts. The algorithm is rotting your brain < that’s my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 11:16 PM
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What a dumb short minded take.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 11:07 PM
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Just to add on, some work places pretty much require some make up. Anywhere that needs a “polished look” so like.. real estate, car dealerships etc pretty much customer facing roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:52 PM
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My boyfriend asked me if he could kiss me for the first time. I thought it was sweet, I realized no one had ever asked me before. We’ve been dating for 3 years now and just paid a deposit for our first apartment together. Cheers to new beginnings 🥂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 10:48 PM
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“if I can get them young.” That’s a really fucking weird and predatory thing to say. Stay the fuck away from adolescent people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 06:56 PM
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Being a step father isn’t being a cuck. It’s like you guys don’t even know the definitions of the shit you say. & the scenario is to show that people become step parents in all different types of scenarios and that life is complex therefore the intricacies of relationships cannot be reduced to “he’s a cuck because I say step dads are cucks”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 06:21 PM
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Then be miserable, I don’t really care it’s your life. I don’t have to be around you. If you’re not willing to make the slightest effort to get yourself well then it’s your problem and yours alone. No one else is responsible for your mental health except for you. No one else is responsible for your happiness except for you. You’re choosing this life. By deflecting blame on society and women, you’re doing that as a way to avoid any personal responsibility for your well being. By avoiding personal…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 06:14 PM
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You can’t make assumptions of someone’s intentions when you do not know them. It sounds like it would do you more good to seek help with your mental health. If you can’t care or love yourself, you cannot care or love others. It starts and ends with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 06:03 PM
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What? You can’t know that if you haven’t met this person yet? It’s not like they were around to actively choose to not be with you when you were 20.. they didn’t know you existed yet? Do you understand you’re writing off people you haven’t even interacted with yet? You can’t blame someone for coming into your life at a different time? The fuck lol This hostility and blame towards people you haven’t even met is the reason you’ll be alone. I don’t gamble but I’d put money on that. That’s a safe be…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:38 PM
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How can you expect someone who you haven’t/didn’t meet yet in your 20’s to have loved you? Be for real
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:02 AM
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I didn’t miss the point. You’re missing the point. People date and get married to single parents literally all the time and have since the dawn of time. People care about their relationships with their loved ones, they don’t give a shit about some idiot on Reddit spewing about them being a cuck. They’re loving their families and living their lives while you talk shit about it instead of living yours. You’re the actual loser in this scenario. Relationships are nuanced. People are multifaceted.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:27 AM
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Have you ever heard of the Carrollton bus collision? Probably not because it was in the late 80’s. Anyhow, it was a former school bus filled with a church youth group when a drunk driver in a pickup truck drove the wrong way down the highway and caused a head on collision. It’s one of the deadliest crashes in US history and out of 67 people on the bus 27 died, mostly children. Among the dead was a father named John but his daughter survived the crash. She was able to go home to her now widowed m…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:38 AM
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Jesus Christ so don’t get married no one fucking cares if you don’t want to get married. I’m sure no woman is begging you for it. No one here is telling you to get married. Those that want to get married will. You lot come here to complain no one wants you then full swing say you don’t want anyone either— like sounds you have nothing to bitch about. It’s giving old man yelling at the sky vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:15 AM
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For real. I think it’s as simple as anyone who decides to get married deserves to get married so long as both parties are consenting adults. Anyone who talks in absolutes, trying to dictate “the haves and have nots” do nothing to gain support on their side. Turns out I, and most people don’t think it’s right to decide who “deserves” to get married. I mean jfc, OP’s on a slippery slope to saying ban gay or interracial marriage. So tired of people feeling entitled to oppress others with this 1930’…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:08 AM
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Chill out Cugo 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:53 AM
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Too complicated? Lmao you’re a real charmer. Good luck in life
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:29 AM
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What? Why are you talking about cut out pictures? I’m discussing actual child grooming by predatory adults in positions of power over children. While I agree, yes it’s creepy and wrong for adult women to fawn over cut outs. Also ofcourse Aaron is going to get grilled about it— he is the one doing interviews, it’s part of his job. They are constantly trying to do damage control about their age gap relationship BECAUSE the public thinks it’s gross.. so thanks for proving my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:53 AM
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Literally no one says that lmao. There’s tons of shit online ragging on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:08 AM
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Ouu or Samantha Taylor-Johnson grooming Aaron Taylor-Johnson… she was 42 when she casted and directed a 17/18 year old Aaron in a movie when she groomed him 🤢 she was married to someone else and her oldest daughter is only like 5 years younger than him… he’s like 30 now and his step daughter is 25. Edit: also the president of France was groomed too, Emmanuel Macron. He was like 13 when he “fell in love with his school teacher” who shocker, also was married and had kids his age. His parents thoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 03:17 AM
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He’s told me his before but tbh I don’t remember it, I have no reason for it honestly. He knows mine because my phone has all the streaming apps so we use it to cast to chrome cast
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 06:09 AM
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Your mental illness is displayed on your profile. Seek professional help.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:46 AM
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Right- you just need English lessons
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:39 AM
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Lmao see, when you say things like this, this pretty much answers your questions. Women aren’t into you because you hope the government will turn women into sex slaves. You are a huge red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:00 AM
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I’m 30 lol crazy you think someone needs to be manipulative or super hot to be loved. It speaks volumes as to how warped your view of people, relationships and the world is. You must be extremely pessimistic if you believe the worst of all people. I do not envy you and you should work on that. There are good people out there, he is one of them and I’m proud of him. That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 06:48 PM
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I do, he’s fun. He entertains himself and I love that for him. I love when he randomly starts dancing in public, when he tells me the story lines he’s made for D&D. I enjoy watching him live his life and seeing how he changes and stays the same throughout the years.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 05:45 PM
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You can’t speak for “most women” though. Each relationship is unique and has their own individual agreements - agreements both parties will have communicated and agreed to. So who are you really to criticize what two consenting adults agree to? If your wants and needs don’t align with someone you’ve met, move on to the next. My partner is a kind, trustworthy, honest, nerdy, skinny guy lol I adore him. I love watching him exist and making him happy- just as he loves the same with me. I don’t cons…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 05:17 PM
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I guess it would depend on each persons preferences as to what qualities makes men “sexy”. Personally I can see why Pedro Pascal is considered a sex symbol even for the qualities you say, wholesome & trust worthy, but he’s also conventionally hot so he fits into that “DILF”category. Also I think it’s important for men of colour or unconventional men to be considered “sex symbols”, rather then just the traditional macho man. I don’t know too much about the other actors but I will say Marlon Brand…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 06:39 PM
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Thanks for sharing. I haven’t heard of D’Angelo before now and I’m reading the article from The globe and mail & NPR. It sounds like he really went through it. I hope he’s in a better place mentally now. Another example I guess is probably Lenny Kravitz, when his leather pants split on stage and everyone in the media was talking about his dick piercing. Really similar to what happened to Janet Jackson at the super bowl. It’s really messed up the way society treats public figures, they’re treated…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 06:17 PM
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Lmao called out for what? You didn’t call anything out. Kinda pathetic you think you managed to do something. Delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:27 PM
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I literally listed the social media’s I don’t use, and obviously Reddit was excluded from that list. It’s ok bud, comprehensive reading can be hard for some people. Maybe next year.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:22 PM
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??? Lmao what? Because I didn’t know what was happening with Drake? Get a fuckin grip bro. Lmao I don’t use any social media. I don’t have Twitter, insta, TikTok or Facebook AND I was working all day. Sorry I don’t keep close tabs on DRAKE to understand the struggles of every day men 😂😂 come on now
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 02:03 PM
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“He was sexualized at such a young age” he self-sexualized Im not sure I follow? Society sexualized him at a very young age… he was a child and adults were asking him about his sex life. That’s fucked up. He was 18 when grown ass Jenny McCarthy kissed and groped him on stage. I’m not sure you are defending him tbh lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 12:42 AM
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He was on vacation and in the back yard sun bathing naked with a babe. Probably just finished bangin. Totally within his right to be naked there. Some f***ing perv pap with a telescopic lens. Should be criminal
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 11:20 PM
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Didn’t know this was happening, but I remember similarly a while ago when paparazzi took photos of Justin Bieber nude outside of a house he was renting. So disturbing.. iirc Ellen “joked” to him about it on the show.. his own dad was tweeting that he was proud.. disgusting. That poor guy was sexualized from such a young age. Never stood a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 11:06 PM
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I mean.. I don’t participate in social media at all and haven’t since 2019. I think social media like Instagram and TikTok are poison. By this logic, are we saying that people who don’t use social media don’t want to still get married? No. I don’t care about getting married for pictures or whatnot. I want to get married to my partner because I think he’s wonderful and I’d be elated if we take our relationship to that level and spend our lives together. Life is unpredictable and not promised, her…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 02:19 AM
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I looked cause I was curious and it looks like we’re pretty even once you factor currency conversion and then the average home price. That’s just the average home price in my province; but in the city I live in homes are going for like 2M 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:48 PM
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Because I’m not talking about the benefits of an individual man having access to mental health care, I’m talking about society as a whole. I am talking about the societal benefits for both genders if men receive mental health help — because obviously men receiving mental health help is the benefit for the men (I thought that was obvious and didn’t need further explanation) And I expanded to say it would mean less people are murdered — which is not untrue Also again, to relate “women are dumb and…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:53 PM
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What the hell are you talking about? I’m bringing this up because men are constantly saying women don’t care about their mental health— when in actuality we do, because if they receive mental health treatment that means LESS PEOPLE DIE It’s literally for the greater good. You’re trying to make up some bs counter argument to wanting to prevent literal murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:32 PM
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Yeah I mean I think it would be really great if people had access to mental health care— even more so if it means less murder. But sure go ahead and compare that to corporate America I guess. Brilliant take.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:21 PM
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Lmao “it’s entitlement” to not want to raise children in poverty. GTFO lol what a dumb take. Tell me, how many kids did you know growing up with that many siblings? Just the one kid? Safe to assume it’s not as common as you say it is. I guess I, along with the majority of the people will be “entitled” and choose to not raise 15 kids in poverty. Great input champ.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 07:44 PM
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Yeah no I’m not reading any of that lol You’re a miserable person and it shows. best of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 04:28 PM
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Lmao. Dude, it was unrecoverable from the moment you sent a fucking blog and Reddit thread as proof. You absolute dolt. Move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:51 PM
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Nah the only thing I did was open your links because I asked for them and I shouldn’t have to explain to you why these sources are straight up trash my dude. Have you ever written a paper? If so, don’t cite garbage like this. Who tf sources a blog by someone named deadboi speedy? And you sourced Reddit? I cannot and will not argue with stupid people. Good luck in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:42 PM
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Lmao. Nope. I never once insulted you in my reply- there is not a need or reason for you to insult me. I’m not reading past your first line. I don’t entertain bullies online. Seek therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:30 PM
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Funny you bring up a Bachelor’s in Gender studies, I have a minor in Gender studies. Why would you insert yourself into conversations when you’ve not made an effort to educate yourself on the topic at hand? I cannot speak for these rhetorical women you are bringing up in your comment, I can only address what I am witnessing from your actions. I’m trying to point out the irony in you claiming women make broad claims. Sins of your father? I don’t care if your father was the anti christ. All I’m sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:21 PM
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Lmao yeah I could not find a single source of any feminist protests against Earl Silverman— none before or after his death. Earl started a privately run shelter that ran out of money. He was not wealthy and he did not have financial support from the government (which would obviously take a very long time to obtain) and he quoted lack of government funding in his suicide note… he did not mention feminism though. I can really only find articles indicating that his suicide is being exploited by ang…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:11 PM
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A quick google search will let you know examples of toxic masculinity. Neither Greed nor materialism is on this list lol I have never heard of that. I have heard - aggression - homophobia - promiscuity (the act of praising men for having high sex count while rejecting women for the same) - stoicism, the idea of showing emotion is a weakness
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 01:52 PM
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Before I begin to counter your points, I’ll begin with saying I’m not going to address all of them because it’s 7:30am here and like.. I work soon, I don’t have time to read through multiple studies. Switzerland equal retirement age. Im in agreement the retirement age should be raised to equal, as economically it will save the country a lot of money. It is also only 1 year, men were 65 and women were 64. It was passed. Their feminist argument wasn’t that they didn’t want to work the extra year… …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 01:42 PM
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You really haven’t added anything to this conversation other then “Nuh uh” We were discussing literal topics discussed and studied in feminism. Your response is nothing but heated rhetoric and again… adds nothing when you’ve done nothing to actually take the time to educate yourself on these topics we’re referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:48 AM
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Agreed. Also the reverse can be true, some women can be horrible too— people in general can be terrible. It’s just men get an asterisk because of the significantly higher rates of violence and murder against women. It’s a shame, because if any of these people even bothered to look up feminism… they would see it’s meant to benefit men too. Feminism actually addresses a lot of things they want… like addressing toxic masculinity that penalizes men for being “feminine” (and how women contribute to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:25 AM
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It’s astonishing how little some know about feminism and just run with whatever bs narrative they heard from someone’s creepy uncle online. It would be humorous, if it wasn’t so incredibly disappointing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:14 AM
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Nailed it. The reason people have kids has changed. Before we had many kids because the infant mortality rates were low, and we needed kids to work / provide income. Thankfully child labour is frowned upon now, society has changed and now having kids is more of a want (if able) — but it’s not a need like it was. Back about 40 - 60 years ago, a full family with kids could live comfortably off 1 income. It’s not like that anymore. Most families both of the parents work and should be splitting chil…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:05 AM
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Interesting way to make your argument— Just blatantly stating you don’t know what a cuck actually is lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 11:26 PM
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Every day it becomes more and more clear this sub is riddled with 18 year olds who think they figured life and everyone out. Smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:55 PM
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The first time I was cat called I was 12. Two men were working on train tracks and one started trying to talk to me, the other asked how old I was.. when I told him I was 12 he nudged his friend in a joking way as if to say “see told you that was a kid” That was a yuck moment. As I got older, I realized a comment in passing is uncomfortable.. but it’s when they follow you either on foot or in a car that things become very scary, very quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 08:56 PM
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Typical lol such a lame response.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 10:03 PM
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Because it’s quite foolish to adamantly oppose something, yet while opposing it… actually make arguments supporting it. You’re being ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:51 PM
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I have a question- have you ever actually took the time to look into feminism? Because it’s obvious you did not know its teachings on how women enforce and support patriarchy… “don’t shame men who act unmanly” This is also feminism lol you’re literally SO close to agreeing with feminism, that I think if you actually took the time to look into it you would see that it actually benefits men in many ways. women should be a part of the solution. We try. Feminism can only get so far when every where …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 02:17 PM
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Careful, someone might come out of the wood work and say it’s discriminatory to not be attracted to shadow women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 06:18 AM
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U fuck ghosts often?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 06:05 AM
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Because it’s an exaggerated tv drama meant to be about a bunch of hot doctors fucking in closets and it’s troubling that OP references it to say “see, all women ARE awful” lol some how OP decided to not mention that Derek hid the fact that he was married to a secret wife? Or the many other examples of the men acting just as poorly as the women including story lines of straight up physical and emotional abuse— but none of that gets mentioned, but he spends a lot of time complaining a woman wants …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 05:15 AM
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What is it that makes you think the average woman is living so astray from a conventional traditional relationship? Because we work now?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 04:45 AM
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LOL This comment really reads like you know what women want, my guy /s 😂😂 Ahh. Thanks for the laugh bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 04:40 AM
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Because it’s nonsensical lol it’s a drama. It is MEANT to be extreme and outlandish. It’s not indicative to every day life or every day people lol it’s sad this has to even be said holy shit
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 04:34 AM
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Imagine watching “Days of our Lives” and thinking “yes, this IS reality” lmao The mental illness 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 03:56 AM
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they’re going to leave because they view me as replaceable Projection much? This person is not even in your life currently and you’re already claiming they’re abandoning you. Your insecurities are your hinderance, not this fictitious woman’s pretend previous sex life with a handful of pretend men. Work on your self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 06:52 AM
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Lol did you stop to think that people who have premarital are a lot less likely to be religious nuts? Meaning, people who vow celibacy until marriage are likely religious nuts who don’t allow divorce— like of course mormons have a lower divorce rate. The entire community, church and family cuts you off if you mention divorce. It’s ridiculous to believe that someone who has had 6 sexual encounters is going to cheat on you, simply because they’ve had sex before they knew you, and if you’ve narrowe…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:18 AM
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But how is her past, previous to even meeting you indicative to her future commitment to you? Right? Like you haven’t met- so how can you expect someone you haven’t met to already be committed to you? Do you believe if she has previously slept with 6 people before she met you that she is less likely to be faithful while committed to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:59 PM
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Then what makes you believe having a handful of partners before marriage means she doesn’t care about the marriage? “Saving yourself for marriage” is notoriously motivated by religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:51 PM
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What’s your religion?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:42 PM
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You’ve not asked a question in this post. You made a generalized statement based on nothing more then your personal biases and prejudices— and then you’re combative and argumentative when people don’t agree with you. It’s immature and self righteous. Understand— this is why you’re having issues socially. This is not a pleasant way to navigate your life and people, men and women, will naturally gravitate away from you— but not without rubber necking first. The way you interact with others is the …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:12 PM
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Shouldn’t do what?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 01:36 PM
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Lmao because you’re on the internet sharing a controversial opinion. Suck it up or log off. Are you new ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 01:30 PM
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I completely agree. It’s so unhealthy to hinge one’s self worth on a spouse, or in this case— and entire mass of people. If they were to obtain this magical all solving relationship, the moment things get rocky (because all relationships have ups and downs) who knows how someone like this will react? It’s a recipe for co dependency. It would not solve their mental health issues, it just gives them someone directly to take issues out on. (This goes for both men and women) telling them that the se…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 12:24 AM
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Just want to say thank you, reading your comments was like drinking cold water on a hot day
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 11:21 PM
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Bro… what are you even saying right now? This, right here, is YOUR problem. You’re miserable af and trying to “out match” others in misery ?? lol first you do this with women, now you’re doing it with another man. You ARE the problem my dude. You legitimately need therapy, the comparisons and projection is really unhealthy — people and random unknown women don’t want to join in on your pity party.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 11:14 PM
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We are out there! Its just probably harder to get a hold of us without the social media reminder to get in contact. Once you break away from viewing the world through the social media lenses… everyone who participates looks like fucking weirdos. Social media strokes the ego of many, but also the algorithms force content that will trigger core emotional responses in us to KEEP us in engaged with the content, like fear or envy. That’s why things like the manosphere can be so dangerous is because o…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:21 PM
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A lot of the recent posts on this sub are simply “this is my personal opinion” posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:57 AM
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I’m 27F — I gave up social media in 2020. All I have is Reddit. I don’t regret it. Social media in general sounds exhausting and honestly it’s turned into ads. It’s crazy how fast you can just be looking pictures of someone you went to high school with to all of a sudden being targeted for propaganda, scams or culture war content — I get it, social media companies have to be profitable but it all seems ridiculous. One day I was about to post a photo of myself and I just thought… why? I don’t giv…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:56 PM
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What’s that saying about making assumptions makes you an ass? I can’t remember how it goes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 03:29 AM
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No, I said no one is at fault when someone is rejected. I do blame the few men who blame the woman for rejecting them because those men are wrong - learn to read. Your second paragraph, I’m not sure what you’re referring to? I never said women are perfect beings— I said no one is at fault when choosing not to date someone lol the fact that I say “no one is to blame for saying they don’t see you romantically. The only blame to be had is for the FEW men who blame the woman for rejecting him” And y…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:12 PM
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Okay, I am in agreement in acknowledging men’s issues and advocating for mental health support and social support for men. Now, tell me, what are men’s issues that need to be addressed? I ask, not to diminish your point but to try my best to understand. Because a lot of the time it is an echo chamber of young men in this sub complaining about women not sleeping with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:29 AM
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I think if you’re looking for a world in which women felt comfortable approaching men they find attractive (which they do exist, I approached my current partner 3 years ago) then we have to foster a society where women aren’t labeled as whores for having casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:46 AM
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My God. Grow up. If a woman says “sorry I don’t want to date you” — why would you BLAME her? As if something is wrong and someone needs to be at fault? No one is at fault. People are allowed to be attracted to who ever they want. You cannot force or blame someone for not wanting to be with you. We’re all here trying to find someone we like and want to be with— women have the right to chose who they want to be with just as much as men do. And then if a woman DOES go for a guy who’s not grade A an…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:52 PM
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I never said women are faultless creatures. I said I don’t blame men for women rejecting them. I do blame some men who blame women for rejecting them. That’s literally how dating works. Not everyone is going to fawn over you. People are allowed to be attracted to who they are attracted to. No one is at fault in that scenario, no one is to blame. But the rejected man blames the woman for not being into him, that’s wrong. We all have our preferences to dating and choosing partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:00 PM
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men who use that argument against other men tend to do so due to mimicking women’s judgement again, he is saying men who insult and bully other men do so because they are mimicking women who insult and bully men. I am saying there is no reason to believe hyper masculine men are mimicking women when the hyper masculine men insult and bully other men. This is not proper use of the word “dishonesty” — out of curiosity is English your first language or is there a language barrier here?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:23 AM
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Dishonest? Lol in what way? Why are you being so accusatory and hostile? Just because we have differing opinions doesn’t make me dishonest lol I am not convinced you understand what that word means based the way you used it. Go re read it, commercial-formal272 stated hyper masculine men are the ones mimicking women. I was saying there’s no evidence that hyper masculine men are mimicking women. You’re saying it’s the men who are bullied are the ones mimicking women— which is not what we were talk…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:07 AM
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I think you misunderstood. Commercial-Formal272 was saying the men who blame and bully other men ARE the ones mimicking women, that they are acting as an echo chamber. I’m saying hyper masculine men are not mimicking women. Frankly, your comment isn’t very clear— what is the point you’re trying to make?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:56 AM
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What? What do you think women talk about on women only subs? Lol I think some men grossly overestimate how much women talk or think about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:47 AM
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Why do you think men who blame other men are mimicking women? I cannot see any reasoning to believe that. Those men blame men because they’re toxic and see women as mere conquests and it’s a competition. That’s why they belittle other men. I do not see how that type of man would be mimicking women in any way, much less adopt a supposed female ideology and rhetoric. Additionally men are not mimicking women when they use terminology like “alpha/sigma/beta” males. Those men try their hardest to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:55 AM
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What about the men that do this to other men? Why aren’t you arguing about that? Instead you’re focused only on women doing this— why is that? I don’t blame men for women rejecting them— I blame some men who blame women for rejecting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:16 AM
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Where did they say they hate men in their comment? Because I don’t see it. It just looks like you’re creating that man hating narrative just because they said they report troll comments in a women’s only sub. Which is pretty ironic.. accusing someone of being a man hater while being misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:07 AM
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???? Okay POS are not exclusive to gender so I’m not going to use any gender specific language. Dating and trusting a POS is a red flag? I guess yeah if you go into the relationship knowing the other person is a POS, like if they have a violent history, addictions, sex offenders etc But the problem with abusers are a lot of them are manipulative with the intent of luring a victim and keeping them to abuse. That’s the gig. Any one who is sane doesn’t knowingly get involved with a POS, but most pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:09 PM
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I’m sorry that happened to you, that guys a pig
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:02 PM
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To be honest- I think only POS men share the nudes without consent. I think that’s the larger issue then your moral hang up on women sharing a nude photo with their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:57 AM
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I’m assuming receiving one is like some sort of trophy for some guys? And then being able to trade them with other men… it becomes like a form of currency. Major ick— it’s terrible to share someone’s nudes without consent, it’s another wildly weird thing to be requesting a girls nudes from a group of men like they’re trading cards. “Request: Donna Jeffery, 22, works at Starbucks in the mall” Like wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:38 AM
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Yeah its just also kinda weird to go “I’ve never met this person, I’m going to try to find nude photos of them” also bringing it up on the date with one of the girls is also weird because he’s telling her “I went looking for your nudes online first” — I wouldn’t be calling OP back lol I don’t send nude photos, but I remember the first time one of my guy friends told me about a website that honestly kind of looked like 4chan (maybe it was 4chan, this was years ago) it had like a sub with our home…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:53 AM
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My (26F) partner (24M) is getting his masters / TAing and makes a fraction of what I do as a fraud analyst at a bank. He’s never made more then me, he’s 2 years younger. I pay for 97% of our dates, food, snacks, general activities lol and I’ve taken him on two vacations. I knew what I was getting into when I pursued him. I like him for him, his income doesn’t change that. I’m happy for him and I’m proud of him for doing something that interests him and makes him happy— and I hope he gets to buil…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 12:28 AM
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I like the beat of your drum
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:40 AM
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No. I don’t resent someone for not wanting to be with me, that’s their choice. Why would I resent them if they want something or someone that is not me? I cannot be something I’m not, and I don’t want to be with someone who doesn’t want me for me. I don’t care where the guy I’m interested in falls in terms of his experience- it’s irrelevant to me so long as he doesn’t have any STD’s. Their past or lack there of has nothing to do with the here and now of our relationship. It’s so irrelevant that …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:33 AM
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And he took that step right about here
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 08:19 PM
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Wow- so you don’t know what the word “allegedly” means either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 08:14 PM
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This is eugenics. You want to practice eugenics.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 08:02 PM
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Lol dude you didn’t “merely bring up sociopaths/narcissists” … you purposefully stated women pay more attention to “literal criminals” and “psychopaths” to try to reinforce your point but it’s just so incredibly false. Every day average women are not seeking to be impregnated by a serial killer. The mental gymnastics you’re doing isn’t healthy. You should consider seeking therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 08:01 PM
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I lived with a group of guys in uni, and they wouldn’t even stop to look at pictures before swiping right. Just every single profile was swiped right and then they’d go through the matches later. Whereas women don’t swipe right nearly as often.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 07:52 AM
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Viewer ship has nothing to do with the fact that sports are segregated by gender you dolt- which is what we’re talking about. The fact that there ARE things that are exclusively for men to participate in. And women’s viewership is lower then men’s- it’s one of the main reasons the pay is so different. I digress, that’s not what we’re talking about. You’re straw manning and you’re terrible at making any argument that pertains to the initial point.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 04:10 PM
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LOL my dude all those examples I gave are gender specific. You’ve literally said nothing to argue your point of them somehow being “gender neutral” (because you can’t- they’re unequivocally not gender neutral) other then the fact that you say so. Why don’t you go tell Lebron the NBA is gender neutral? SMH god damn. What a dumb thing to keep arguing
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:29 AM
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They’re not gender neutral. Just because there are women counter parts doesn’t make it gender neutral lmao I’m concerned- do you know what gender neutral means? So the NBA exists right, and it’s male. And then there’s WNBA for women- but they don’t play on the same teams. They’re not gender neutral. Thanks for coming to my tedtalk, hope that helps clear up the confusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:34 AM
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? No they literally are not. Fraternities are male- sororities are female. Men’s sports. Make exclusive support groups and rehabs all exist. Big brothers/little brothers, all male. While they each have a counter part that is either unisex or female divisions- doesn’t mean that the male exclusivity has ever stopped lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 03:05 PM
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You’re right. This user keeps talking about “male spaces” and then brings up social media talking heads. They’re very different things. As for male spaces, I take that to mean male only communities ie. fraternities, sports, support groups, rehabs, big brothers (which is a wonderful volunteer program where men, after extensive back ground check- are paired with a boy who is in need for a male role model, becoming a “big brother & little brother”) etc etc etc. All of which exist and have for a ver…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 02:04 AM
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Exactly lol these comments are kind of strange- like getting attention from a 20 year old Chad who might slip a date rape drug in my drink at the club is NOT the prize they’re making it out to be. I’m only 26 lol to say that women stop clubbing because they’re not getting the same male attention they use to is ridiculous. I stopped clubbing because it sucks. Standing in line to get in sucks, I can’t hear my friends, my shoes are ruined, I have other people sweating on me and men thinking they ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 06:32 PM
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I’d consider them parallel to the “im not like other girls” girls
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:55 PM
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Give it a try lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:52 PM
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I’d be careful with that tactic.. Boiled down it seems like you’re saying when you’re in relationships you now resort to mistreating women in order to gain an emotional response from her that validates your personal insecurities in your relationship. Emotional blackmail is a transactional dynamic between people in unhealthy relationships, when the controller entices feelings of fear, obligation and guilt in the person being controlled. If you’re mistreating in order to receive “better treatment”…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:43 PM
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I have a few bags I guess that technically fall into your second point- but at the same time not really. I like vintage bags, started when I was a teenager my grandma gave me a purse she use to carry in the late 80’s early 90’s like this and I just loved it, amazed at how well it aged. I have a few now, one being a vintage LV- it was a gift from my ex. Vintage is great because it’s cheaper and because it’s getting a second life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 11:37 PM
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Lol I’m really not. I’m just saying there’s no discussion to be had because the other commenter has already decided unequivocally, without discussion- that women are never called derogatory names here. Like okay? What am I literally suppose to say to that. It’s blatantly not true lol that’s it. It’s comically untrue. There’s no sense in arguing back and forth with someone like that. Having a discussion is not the same thing as an argument- if more people understood that it would solve a lot of r…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 03:19 PM
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There is no counter part. I’ve already stated that I’m aware men are called derogatory names in my original comment. That I am in agreement with. The other person is saying women don’t get called derogatory names in this sub. That’s just not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 03:12 PM
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Me too! I’ve never liked Chad types either. Their vibe makes me uncomfortable, their bodies don’t look like they’d be nice to touch (who wants to cuddle with a rock?) but mostly because I find they lack any substance? Like what am I suppose to talk about with a guy like that lol also I’m 5’2, I do not want a 6 ft guy. I went on a few dates with one tall guy and felt like a child because he had to BEND DOWN to kiss me. Nope. Personally I find intelligence to be the most attractive thing about men…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 02:32 AM
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? I mean there’s nothing to say to someone who isn’t willing to have an actual conversation. There’s not even anything literally for us to discuss further. Let’s recap: Me: both men and women are guilty of calling each other derogatory names in this sub, and there’s no room for discussion on this sub because people aren’t willing to see each others side. You: No! You’re wrong! Why would I talk to people kindly when 99% of them are wrong! Red pillers don’t call women derogatory names! Like okay- …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 02:20 AM
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You are living in your own delusion if you do not recognize the fact that women are also commonly called derogatory names on this sub. And I cannot and will not argue with someone who is living in delusion- there’s no discussion to be had here between you and I. You can try a different Redditor who’s willing to participate in whatever it is you think you’re accomplishing, best of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 01:05 AM
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only one side that throws insults and uses shaming tactics around here, and it’s not the red-pillers. I’m sorry- what? Are you insinuating that the red-pill community here doesn’t consistently refer to women as “whores” or “sluts”? Because they definitely do participate, to claim other wise is delusional. The rest of your comment just proves my point further- but I digress and I’ll reiterate my original statement of there’s no discussion to be had with someone who isn’t open to alternative persp…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 12:30 AM
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Which is always odd, because they make these proclamations about what all women or all men want and when people in the community say “actually, I don’t want that at all- and there are others like me” They get very defensive and try to tell you that you’re wrong and surely all women/men do indeed- act with a hive mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 12:17 AM
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I agree- but in a lot of these discussions there’s no give and take. The “debate” part of the subreddit is usually filled with absolutisms, finger pointing and name calling. I very rarely see commenters say “you know what, I see your point of view on xy , what do you think about my point of z?” It would be refreshing to see some people in this “community” have the ability to adequately make an argument logically without slinging insults like “whore” or “incel” - and some are capable, but there’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 12:10 AM
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Don’t forget toothless! Meth mouth is gnarly 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:41 AM
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It wasn’t the first comment 10 hours ago. Funny how things change with time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:10 PM
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Relax- it took like 4 minutes. 4 minutes is still too long.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:07 PM
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Funny- I don’t see a ring on anyone’s finger. Seems like someone just googled “happy family stock photo” and put an edgy title. Meh. Low effort post. Next
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:28 AM
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Agreed. Great job. I’ll just tack my one addition: This is why women say they want a man with interests, hobbies and social circles. Co-dependency is not attractive or healthy. People are meant to share lives with each other, not make the other person their entire life. There’s a lot of romanticism of codependency on both sides and it’s worrisome.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:58 AM
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Thank you. I had to scroll through too much bullshit to find someone bring this up finally.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:14 AM
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That’s gross, 12 years old is a child. Don’t sexualize children.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:31 PM
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Your entire profile is nonsensical radical rhetoric with no real substance other than your blatant misogyny. Frankly all your posts scream that you have nothing worth being proud of as a human being because if you did- you wouldn’t be chronically online complaining about the same thing over and over “hookers” this, “hookers” that lol You type out a bunch of words but there’s no substance to anything you say- just a regurgitated string of phrases, in an effort, I assume to feel a sense of false c…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 01:45 AM
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Strange. Of course I do. My dad and step dad, my grandfathers, my uncles, my boyfriend, his brother and his father, even my boss. They’re all important valued people to me. I value them because of their character, their perspective, kindness. I value them because they’re good people and I trust them. But I don’t value them just because they’re men, and I don’t value random men more then I would any other random person. I can respect random men in the sense of “I respect that you’re a person with…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 12:11 PM
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I think I detest these sort of blanket statements of “women only chase chad” because it makes women seem like they only care about landing some guy with an 8 pack which is just not true lol Attraction grows in different ways, for me, it’s education. I like my man smart, a man who can debate with me without getting emotional. My man is preparing for his PhD and spends his Friday evening playing DND lol I make more money then him. I pay for pretty much all of our dates. I’ve taken him on two vacat…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 05:11 PM
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Ah yes, I called you out for being a bad person and employee and therefore I must be hostile and lonely? Lol As if you haven’t been condescending this entire time. Poor little UrusaiNa, fired for lying on an application and stealing opportunities from minorities- surely he’s a prince who should be spared of criticism, after all, it’s not his fault he lied, the gays, women and the brown people forced him- he had no choice, he had no agency in the situation. A helpless little bean. Grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:23 PM
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So good you got fired bro. Amazing work. 10/10. Employee of the year. I’ve never been let go, pro tip- don’t lie on your application and then bitch when they fire you for it and blame minorities. It’s right there when you sign the employee agreement that they can let you go if they find out you’ve lied on your application. You fooled yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 06:31 PM
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Lol it didn’t have to be done, he didn’t need to lie about who he was. White collar work force is already set up to majorly favour cis white men. Not the other way around. His mistake is being disingenuous, and conning like a weak weasel to take opportunities from minorities- when he already has the whole cake. That’s disgusting, he deserved to get canned. His own bad deceitful character got him there, I’m sure he was slapped with that good old “you don’t fit with the company culture” on his way…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:01 AM
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It shows he’s a cheater, he lacks integrity. He’s not a leader- he’s weak and manipulative, and lied to his team. No wonder he was scared of losing his job- and subsequently got canned after he “came out as straight” I wouldn’t trust a co worker who lied needlessly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 04:41 AM
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This is a crazy argument. if you have to lie about yourself to “save your job” then it begs to question why you had to “save your job” at all. Then you claim the only reason you got promoted was for lying about being a minority, there’s been study after study showing that statistically that is not the truth- you have no reason to fear the gays, women or brown people from taking your job. Harvard: diverse hiring Whatever your personal biases against minorities in the work place are nothing more t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:22 PM
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As someone who worked in collections, I can tell you financial irresponsibility is not exclusive to one gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 08:13 PM
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The reason I don’t read or acknowledge your long winded replies are because you consistently get things wrong and it’s not my full time job to sit here and proof read the entirety of your replies. For example: you claim 44% of users, both men and women, claimed they were looking for casual sex on dating apps. No I didn’t- I cited the study you sent which states 44% of users, both men and women, said they turned to dating apps/sites to find a long-term partner - not casual sex. I can’t take your …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:01 PM
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Oh my god. You didn’t even read your own source properly- I’m not going to vindicate your entire response because it’s worth less. First you claimed 50% of men. I called bullshit- Then you said 42% of men and used this source but clearly didn’t read it. Here’s your actual statistic per your own source: “When asked why they’ve turned to dating sites or apps in the past year, 44% of users* say a major reason was to meet a long-term partner and 40% say a major reason was to date casually. Smaller s…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:28 AM
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That’s where we disagree, I don’t think sex workers look down on men who pay to consume porn as losers who pay for intimacy- I think it’s more so, men are going to consume it regardless, is he sourcing it “ethically”. “It’s taken me a while to realize, but the best relationships I’ve had have been with people who have experienced sex work from the client side: someone who has taken the plunge and visited an escort, someone who isn’t scared to plan a night at a strip club, or someone who, at the …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:12 AM
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Now you’re talking about every day majority women but originally you’re talking about only fans content creators- I’m saying I disagree, I don’t think an only fans “model” would rule out a guy because he pays for porn. We’re not talking about the average woman who doesn’t want men to watch or pay for porn- we’re talking about sex workers who participate on the platform and the sex industry themselves. These types of women are not the same, so we can’t assume they’d have the same reaction as one …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:32 PM
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Idk, I disagree. The majority of men watch porn, we acknowledge that. When women get into relationships, most of us aren’t expecting the guy to not watch porn. I’d argue a sex worker wouldn’t be turned off by a guy who pays sex workers for their porn. Actually the opposite, it shows the guy holds value in their work and wants sex workers to have autonomy over their pay. A lot of the content creators on Onlyfans got absolutely fucked by Pornhub only like 2 or 3 years ago, that’s why they’ve moved…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:41 PM
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Then I think the problem lays within you if you can’t have basic respect for another human being who is fully capable of making their own decisions in their life. Especially if you’re a hypocrite who jerks off to sex workers and then degrades them online- it says a lot more about your character then hers honestly. Because at the end of the day, you’re still paying for her content.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:33 PM
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Dude listen to yourself. You sound unhinged. You’re saying: Half the men on dating websites are looking for LTR. Bullshit statistic you’re making up for your argument, so for arguments sake I’ll allow for theoretical conversation. If women are ONLY matching with the 50% that aren’t. Highly improbable women are only matching with the 50%. Statistically, impossible that women only match with fuck boys. You brought up your rant about OLD for no reason, so let’s get back to the original topic. Again…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:22 PM
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???? What?? Op insinuates they lie to women to have sex. You’re saying it’s the woman’s fault for believing the lie they were told- rather then the liar manipulating the woman for sex. Got it. Big brain over there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 01:22 PM
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People in highschool are not women. They’re kids. Teenagers. Don’t call them women and make up doesn’t sexualize them or make them toxic. What a weirdo thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 01:14 PM
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Can’t forget the Greeks. Also- what about the hearing impaired? I guess if a man is deaf and utilizes sign language- he’s not a real man according to OP. This is such a strange, projecting post.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 04:55 PM
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I read it- I very obviously read what you wrote, I literally re wrote what you originally commented. Think- how could I rewrite it if I never read the original? Come on man. You very obviously have some self esteem issues you need to address, but you should not consider that interaction as a “rejection, she said/thinks I’m a creep”. You didn’t even approach her, and because she stood else where you took that as a rejection and assumed she/women think you’re unattractive/creep. I’m really saying …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:48 PM
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Yeah no I read it, it just makes zero sense for your rationale. Maybe she stood somewhere else because she stared at you the day before and you never made a move so she was embarrassed the next day- did you think about that? You’re in your own head man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:37 PM
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Wow.. so… because she stood somewhere else on the train you took that as a rejection with a woman you (checks notes) haven’t even spoken to? Standing in a new spot on the train then the day before = calling you an ugly creep? And so now that is your example of women rejecting men who cold approach? My dude- I need you to understand those are some major leaps you made in your own head.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:14 PM
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I wasn’t the one sexualizing children- the other commenter was- but sure go ahead and say I’m the pervert here. Great job Mod.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:55 PM
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You’re right- my god you’re right. Men have absolutely zero resources. Men do not have access to rehabs, shelters, support groups, welfare, food banks, therapy, education, careers. All they have is Andrew Tate- lord and saviour Andrew Tate. God- you’re so right. /s Do you know when you talk about men like that you talk as if they’re helpless, without agency? You accuse me of being a man hater but you’re really the one telling men they have no options.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:21 AM
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you feminists want women more equal than man. Do you know what an oxymoron is? One cannot be more equal than the other lol It’s just equal. “More equal than” isn’t a thing, I’m assuming you mean “superior”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:54 AM
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Lol I never blamed men for anything? I said there’s better resources and communities for men then exploitative manosphere content. I also never said I was a feminist- You’re literally making shit up to fit your narrative and it’s embarrassing to witness.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:42 AM
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This is ridiculous. A simple google search would show you that yes- there are programs available in society exclusively for men. From shelters, rehabs, support groups, etc. I’m not going to engage further with someone who is so blatantly ignorant to say there’s no resources in society for men when it could not be more of a lie. Good luck in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:20 AM
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Not only could that not be me, I also don’t think I could be friends with her lol My god, the constant stress and anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:36 PM
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What resources do women have that men do not and therefore prohibits men from something or another? Men have resources available to them, they can build communities, seek therapy, build relationships, careers. What further resources do you believe women are hoarding that men need? I’ll check the pantry to see if I’m hoarding any of this magical substance that is suppose to be given to men to heal their wounds
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:14 PM
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Except? The original commenter of this comment thread is 40 saying he wants 18 year olds, that’s literally how this conversation came to be- and you’re in here justifying it. A 40 year old man is a weirdo for being into 18 year olds. Ew.. you know aaliyah was like 13 when R Kelly started SAing her and married her at age 15 illegally right? Said she was legal age to get married when she wasn’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:53 AM
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No I read all your gross perverted comments saying how you condone 40 year olds to date teenagers- so long as the teenagers are physically developed and doesn’t “look like a teenager” I watched you completely ignore the points where it’s been explained how there’s a dynamic issue and how a teenager is being exploited by means of sexual and financial abuse. I just don’t agree with you. In fact I think a lot of your comments are really disturbing and I hope you’re able to get professional help.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:41 AM
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This is a really long winded way to excuse yourself for finding teenagers to be sexually attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:31 AM
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Listen- there’s going to be extreme rhetoric in every language, gender, religion, country. But it doesn’t speak for the majority. The issue is that people are choosing to be apart of that extremism. To part take in it, defend it, kill for it. That’s the issue. Just as you say there’s extremist feminists and they echo unhealthy beliefs. The manosphere is an echo chamber of extreme toxic views- and part taking is an issue. It’s also important to recognize that for some- it doesn’t stop with commen…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:22 AM
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Thank you for your service today.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:08 AM
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But who is saying the latter? Literally no one talks like that lol no one tells men they’re automatically evil and they need to die in a corner? That’s a narrative the manosphere feeds you to create an “us vs them” dynamic and keeps you coming back for more- to buy their ridiculous courses instead of just seeking actual help or creating healthy social circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:59 AM
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I mean- it’s not their only option for community. I think social media should be held accountable to hold these content creators accountable, by either deplatforming or by removing monetary incentive. More importantly we need to consider the algorithm these platforms use, because once you click on one article or video out of curiosity- next thing you know related content is jammed down your throat faster then a cold beer on a hot august day. Suddenly it’s everywhere and adds to the paranoia. Lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:48 AM
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I think… the reason that content is so popular is the same reason it’s so dangerous, and it’s because it depends on invoking very primal instincts. Content like that depends on making the audience emotionally invested and it does that by invoking fear, anger, and blame. And why do they do it? Because it’s profitable. People click when they’re emotionally invested. They’re printing money. They don’t care about anything else. To me, it reminds me of the same tactics used by media like.. Fox News f…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 10:53 PM
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Nailed it. I think a lot of men are falling down rabbit holes so to speak, by gradually interacting with manosphere content online and it’s unfortunate- because a lot of men are genuinely looking for an outlet. But you’re exactly right, these content creators depend on invoking high emotions because it means high engagement. More clicks. More money. Which just feeds into the cycle. “look at me! I’m so successful! I’m so rich. You poor beta loser- watch my videos, Buy my 20 week education course-…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 10:42 PM
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You could argue that’s not even true when it comes to that content though. A lot of the manosphere talks negatively about men, and often- becoming an echo chamber of calling other men “betas”, telling them if they don’t have many sexual experiences they’re ugly, calls men weak etc. The content arguably puts them down
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 10:32 PM
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It’s typical predator behaviour looking for someone with very minimal life experience because it’s easier for him to manipulate and verbally, sexually, and financially abuse a teenager vs an adult woman. It’s disturbing. A 40 year old man has no business looking at teenagers sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 08:13 PM
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Agreed. I think there’s a lot of women who work and don’t believe men should be carrying the full finance burden, for a few reasons. 1) it creates undue stress on him 2) the economy is fucked, getting by on one income isn’t possible anymore 3) women like working and it provides a social life 4) in some cases, it prevents financial abuse. If anything, it seems to be men who hold other men or themselves to this expectation the most. Additionally, it’s men who created that social structure to begin…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:38 PM
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So just because he makes money- you think it’s perfectly okay to come home and never engage socially with his family? He should never take his wife on a date, he should never drive his kids to football practice? Never help with homework? He gets to come home and do absolutely nothing and speak to no one in his family? He goes to work and never lifts a finger except to scratch his balls and lift a fork? Yikes- good luck keeping a relationship that is that transactional and and one sided. You cann…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:25 PM
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So earning more some how absolves them of any basic relationship/parental duties? Definitely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:50 PM
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Yeah I’m in the same boat. I’m okay if my partner hangs out in group settings- even in public one-one’s like lunch or something. But I dated this one guy who told me his girl best friend would spend the night at his place “if she needed to” after class, since it’s just under an hour drive (I took this to mean, if there was something wrong with her car or unsafe weather- silly me) She started spending every Tuesday night there. When I told him this wasn’t okay with me, as I thought this was an em…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 11:38 PM
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He’s implying it should entitle men to a wife- but since it doesn’t he doesn’t want to contribute to the work force. Which is fine, plenty of men don’t or can’t contribute. There’s plenty of other people who do contribute to society. I never once said we’re entitled to men working- lol I’m not entitled to another human being. If a guy wants to drop out of high school and sit around all day, then fine, good for him. What do I care? There’s plenty of other people who contribute their share to soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 04:22 PM
1

Have you tried therapy before and now deem it useless? Or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 06:30 AM
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I mean this in the best of ways- This is so unhealthy. You’re basically propping your entire existence on your relationship status with another person- seemingly ANY person that would have you. This is co dependency to the extreme, to the point where if your spouse left- I wonder, would there be threats of suicide? Sounds like emotional abuse to me..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 04:35 AM
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Therapy is probably a good start.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 04:30 AM
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I think where OP is grossly grotesque- is by stating “entitled to a wife or children” and that’s where it goes wrong- in the literal title… why? Because humans are not entitled to other humans. Ever. At all. And to even put that ideology out there and then have random men justify that online is dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 04:26 AM
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But to conservative women- it’s considered cheating because they’re legally still married. You can’t take these studies a gospel
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 03:59 PM
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I’ve explained enough. I promise to never call or think about you. Xo.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 09:20 AM
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I am simply saying when there is abuse- the brain reacts in unexplainable ways. Trauma response is real- and it does not rely on “logic” What may be logical to you on the street, ie: don’t cheat on the person physically assaulting you. Is not the thought pattern of someone in it- no matter how much you want it to be. For this next part I’m going to assume you’ve never been a victim in an abusive relationship- I’ll try my best to explain what I can. every single one of them and to this degree? Ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 08:43 AM
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there’s the men who terrorize women, and then there’s the men who get more offended about women calling this out than they do about the men doing this. BINGO.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 03:16 AM
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Agreed. This study lacks so much context. How many women were in this study? Ratio of liberals vs conservatives? Age group? Where are the women from? Where is the study being done? Utah? What questions were asked? Did they answer privately or in a group setting?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 03:03 AM
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And yet.. that happens all the time. Domestic violence is a real thing. Here’s one that might surprise you- ever heard of marital rape? Happens too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:56 AM
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Victims of abuse do not think rationally. I don’t mean to offend you, but it’s important you know that your comment is dangerous for the following reasons: 1) you’re victim blaming- they should’ve known better. They’re a “vegetable” if they haven’t escaped the abuse. 2) you’re saying the symptomatic reaction is the larger issue, rather then the root cause. Pro longed mental, physical, emotional, and financial abuse (the root) has many affects on the victim- often they’re alone, afraid, low self …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:47 AM
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I mean, say there’s a married couple- but they’re separated, still legally married, just living separate lives, and now seeing other people. I’d imagine conservative/religious women are more likely to view that as cheating still, because the couple is legally married. Whereas liberal women- less likely. Liberal women are more likely to be in poly/open relationships. Watch porn/accept men who watch porn. Some conservative women were married off as child brides and have literally only ever known t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:33 AM
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You could literally say the same thing about the “women” in the nature of this post. Not all women resent all men. Not all men terrorize women. We are mad at the men who terrorize others (not just women, but men & children)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:28 AM
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I also can’t stand the black & white thinking and blanket statements. It actually takes a way from the debate aspect of this sub- because it’s not possible to debate/reason with people who say “all women or all men” And I don’t know if it’s just me- but it seems like most of the posts are from men, and women in this sub usually just comment our perspectives
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 11:38 PM
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I am not convinced that commenter knows what feminism is or the history of feminism in the slightest. His comment almost reads like it’s a “trigger” word and all they know is they’re suppose to be mad at it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 05:42 AM
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I agree. Ultimately all it really is they could not be this particular woman’s cup of tea for whatever reason- looks, charisma, setting, relationship status, mood. It’s really a numbers game, move on to the next and maybe she’ll be into it. Closed mouths don’t get fed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 12:57 AM
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Yes, this is exactly what I mean by maybe there needs to be more conversations about what are healthy standards vs unrealistic expectations. A healthy standard like your example is not a drug addict, easy to be around, personal hygiene, and I think these are great examples of actual standards right? It’s when people start to place these unrealistic expectations on people they don’t really know that it becomes ludicrous, and I’ll admit women likely do this more. Unhealthy expectation examples wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:31 PM
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Yeah but you are not owed that job. That’s what I’m saying. Normally people have to qualify for jobs (normally because nepotism exists) and when we fill that role we owe the employer our time and services. But the hiring employer doesn’t owe us the job just because we applied. Hiring managers don’t compare resumes of someone qualified and some who isn’t - and then hire the unqualified person based on the fact they probably need the job more.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 12:45 PM
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I’m not talking civically/lawfully. I’m stating random people do not owe you anything personally, and random people are not obligated to hold your hand through life. Assuming you’re an adult- you’re your own responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:45 AM
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You can observe your peers relationships, you can have platonic relationships with the opposite sex and still deem a characteristic as something you’d want in a partner. For example, honesty, reliability, accountability, etc. You can date with standards. You should have standards even outside of dating, like with your friends. Would you want a liar for a friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:37 AM
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I don’t think most people have long winded lists of requirements- at least not ones that are inflexible. But I wouldn’t say having standards is a negative. Like I don’t think it’s absurd to say I wouldn’t be interested in dating a someone who didn’t graduate from high school, or has a criminal record. You mentioned a sense of humour, has similar relationship goals, intellectual conversations- these are standards. You wouldn’t want to date someone who’s dry and dim witted- even if you both have s…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:11 AM
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What do you not understand- society collectively agrees on taxes and social programs. Outside of those taxes people don’t owe you anything, like a job, or an explanation as to why you weren’t invited to the party. I’m not trying to negate anything- your point is redundant. And we don’t “vote on taxes”, we don’t elect taxes- we vote to elect government officials who delegate federal spending. I’m over this, talking to you is like talking to a wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 10:36 AM
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Did you miss the last 5 comments where I stated it’s fucking obvious we live in society and pay taxes that goes into social programs? You must have missed the dozen times I stated OUTSIDE of taxes people don’t PERSONALLY owe you anything. Real cute when you pretended like OP describing his disdain for explaining why he supposedly wants to date/have sex with a girl as “blah blah blah” - as human suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 09:38 AM
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I’ve already said out side of the taxes people pay- they owe you nothing. except for the money you are forced to pay by the government.. Yeah dude- I already said OUTSIDE OF TAXES. So like now what? We agree we pay taxes that feed back into society- what else do random people owe you OUTSIDE of the taxes they already pay?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 09:21 AM
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Lol dude- you’re ridiculous. Im sorry but it’s beyond laughable at this point the way you’re continuing this. You go on and on with the same statement about how taxes pay health care, welfare, disability, retirement And then in the next breath say those resources don’t exist. I’ve already said - yes, we pay taxes to fund sectors of society. But no- out side of that random people owe you exactly zero. Go stand outside and start telling random people they owe you $20. Walk into google and tell the…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 08:50 AM
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Anywhere. On the internet, in the media, tabloids, in social settings like family, guys state all the time they wouldn’t commit to a girl who has a high count. To the second half of your comment - what do you mean? I’m saying predominantly society doesn’t shame men for having casual sex- like OP suggests, rather we shame women for seeking casual sex. You’ve even contradicted yourself by saying women are free to seek casual sex and “face no consequences” but then at the end of your comment state …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 08:21 AM
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Lmfao again, I stated obviously taxes go towards society, as in health care, education, fucking roads. But a stranger off the street personally owes you nothing. A stranger off the street does not owe it to you to solve your personal problems for you. It’s up to you to take action and use resources available to you- whether it be mental health assistance or what have you. But it’s not up to a random person to personally solve someone’s problem. Just because we live in a collective society- no on…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 06:58 AM
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Just because we live in society of rules and obligations does not mean it’s up to everyone else to solve an individual’s personal problems. Just because we live in society and pay taxes doesn’t mean OP’s personal conflict falls on another person or society to solve for this individual person. If OP has racked up $50K of gambling debt, you’re not obligated to pay out of pocket to his collectors. If OP has a weird rash and gets nervous going to the doctors, you are not required to book his appoint…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 06:30 AM
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Okay I think I’m picking up what you’re putting down. I can get behind what you’re saying- the issue is I think OP maybe loses empathy points from the crowd is when he says things like “If I want to date or have sex with a woman I’m forced to reflect on why and blah blah blah it all seems fake to me” to actively date we have to assume there’s some level of care between two people right? And if OP doesn’t care to reflect on why he wants to date someone and says it’s all fake… then… yeah it does c…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 06:01 AM
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I think it can just be as simple as… Because it reveals the truth: no one gives a shit about your problems. ~period~ gender really has nothing to do with it. It’s more so like the world doesn’t give a shit about anyones problems, and it’s not anyone’s responsibility to solve that for other people. The world doesn’t owe anyone anything. Life/existence is strange because we’re all in this together but living it so individually. It really is what you or I make of it, and the truth of the matter is …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:17 AM
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What??? men want sex? Well hey, that’s objectification. Maybe treat women like people. Western society hasn’t shamed men for casual sex, and in a lot of circles or media encourages casual sex for men. if a woman says she’s just looking for hookups she doesn’t get accused of any dehumanizing behaviours. What??? Again, society largely deems women looking for casual sex as undesirable and a whore. With many men in this sub stating they’d never commit to a girl with more then 3 sexual partners. Ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:01 AM
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Anything in your response. /u/animorph_fan34 listed a few reasons why women biologically are at a disadvantage to men. And your rebuttal is non sensical and rhetorical. Has absolutely nothing to do with the commenters points about biological disadvantages, and instead you decide to (sarcastically?) state there should be policy to put men at mother nature’s disadvantage? Rambling on about the 21st century thought process? What does anything you said have to do with the biological disadvantages wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 03:32 AM
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…. Genuinely, what are you saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:31 PM
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The little story here is gross. Instead of just asking “do you think parents are aware of the effect they can have on their child’s dating life?” He writes specifically about one woman and blames her for her sons inability to get laid.. it’s really creepy. You know those sons who grow up and kill their mom? I bet they think somewhere along this mentality.. “it’s my moms fault I’m fucked up” “my mom has a sexual history- she’s a whore”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 02:10 PM
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Blah blah blah- I’ve already explained my personal preferences over and over a month ago. It’s 2023, find a relevant thread to attach your ego to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 12:38 AM
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No- didn’t you read what I said? I’m not triggered by anything that you said, because I didn’t read it ~because it’s 4 days later and I don’t give a flying fuck. Move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:08 AM
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Bro let this fucking thread die already Jesus Christ. I’m not reading a thing about your rebuttal because you’re so emotional, none of what you say is actually a debate you’re just pathetically argumentative. I give 0 fucks from here on out about what you have to say about a thread from 4 days ago. You’ve made it clear you do not care about anything other then your own agenda. I’m not even going to entertain any of your words anymore. It’s so sad watching you spin nothings into problems. Move th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 07:31 AM
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So many things you wouldn’t even think become impractical with a height difference like that. I once dated a 6’3 guy and he tried to be sweet and put away dishes— I couldn’t find any of my measuring cups for 3 months LOL turns out he put them in the cupboard over the stove that holds the vent 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:51 AM
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IF that is true, I’d argue it’s because women are routinely checked due to requirements for birth control, pregnancy. Where as straight men- not so much
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 05:40 PM
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Lots of women pay for dates, or just their half. Often women will even do this on the first date- so the guy doesn’t expect sex. You make it sound like women expect men to be solo providers but that’s not the case. to Provide, have a college education, be tall, be entertaining/interesting…. Of course women want men to have their shit together, like a good job and personality. Who wants to date a bum with no accomplishments, no goals, no job, and no social skills? No one- neither gender wants tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 05:17 PM
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“Being a people pleaser isn’t an attractive personality to women” But you also said this? I’m not trying to be rude but can you see how it can be a bit contradictory to say ^ that and then in the next breath say that women can only speak for them selves? I agree, not all women like to be approached. Different strokes for different folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 04:09 AM
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women can only speak for themselves, not other women. So why are the men allowed to speak for all women? I probably have a deeper understanding of most women then you, so why should you get to speak for all women- yet I only get to speak for myself?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 03:44 AM
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I recommend meeting in person, in a setting that doesn’t have the underlying connotations of “I’m here to find a mate”, but to be fair bars are pretty normal to be approached in but I wouldn’t say it’s the ideal place to meet a girl and ask her out. I’d recommend like a hobby class, meet ups, volunteering, it’s kind of corny but if I was single I probably would’ve tried speed dating session in my age group just for fun, Cooking lessons, pottery class, wood working class. It’s nice because in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 10:41 PM
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& people can’t see the real reason people create this content. Because. Hate. Sells. These people are buying houses off the clicks of rage biting men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 10:07 PM
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Now why would I do that? Reddit can be a weird fucking place, why would I put my self in a position where if I’ve offended someone who has too much time on this app a picture of me? What’s the reward? One guy “yep she’s pretty” lol the risk/reward seems off to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 03:22 PM
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In this economy? I think the vast majority of couples has known and foresee a future in where both people have to work. However; I’ll play your little game- say they have a child, and one parent makes less money then the cost of day care. Financially it makes more sense some times for a parent to stay home then to both work. ALSO - there are some women who want the man to provide, not the vast majority. Those women are not for you if that’s not what you want, but there are men who do want. Tradi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 03:17 PM
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And you know what’s a shame? These guys just took a break from it, unsubscribe from that content, subs and conversations for a few months and took a pottery or wood working class or something and I bet they’d meet someone in no time if they’re average and a bit of charismatic. But no, they shoot themselves in their foot by spewing this propaganda- women aren’t attracted to guys with this mentality- and which then fuels the flame of women are to blame for their sexist propaganda. It’s a sickness,…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 10:06 AM
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I didn’t meet, talk, hook up or date any men for a year and a half after I broke up with my ex, the thought was too painful, I wasn’t ready. I’ve been with my current boyfriend for a year and a half. My current relationship doesn’t negate the fact that I was single prior to meeting him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 09:13 AM
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Honestly? Like a 7 or 8, depending on who’s scaling me. I’m pretty but I have a few tattoos- not everyone’s cup, I take care of myself 120 but I’m not white and I’m short 5’2 - again I’m not everyones cup. I get told I look “exotic”, people assume I’m Latina and speak Spanish to me. 26, a degree & financially independent. I’ve been with my partner for a year and a half, he’s getting his masters- I make more $, and treat him often. While he’s not a “10” what ever that is on your scale? Like Hugh …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 09:05 AM
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I don’t think any woman wants this with you, and certainly not wanting it more than you do. There’s no woman on here whining about wanting a … male of your character. So who is this imaginary 1/2 woman who wants you? If any woman at all is willing to give you the time of day, you should count your blessings.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 06:15 AM
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more then not seeking him out lol more like all women are briskly heading in the opposite direction of him- but not a full sprint; no, too afraid a full sprint will spook him and he might give chase.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 06:09 AM
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Ah my friend, I see you’ve become the target for the old “sources say… wait.. no- your source that contradicts my source is wrong. Only studies that prove my point are allowed” game. Thank you for pointing them out for cherry picking research for their biases.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:30 AM
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You forgot he also said “women are never single- this is common knowledge” lol like what? As in, fact: no woman from the time she is a teenager until the time she is dead in the ground is ever single /s As if women are never single and refrain from sex- nope, 24/7, 365 she has a dick inside her and thus not single
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:19 AM
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Mmm no. I don’t hop online and spew hate rhetoric about jocks, I don’t organize attacks on them, I don’t target them because I haven’t had sex lol nor do I think they’re bad people. Definitely not a female incel or equivalent to like a man hater by any means. I just don’t find the body type attractive and personality wise we often don’t have much in common nor was I ever inclined for force some commonality. Honestly this kind of guy you don’t really run into often past university and usually at …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 04:21 AM
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To your point about women not really approaching men in a bar and asking for their numbers- I wonder how much of that is also due to the “stranger danger” of it all, you know? I would especially say at least in the millennial age group of women where it’s been so instilled in our minds at a young age of “don’t talk to men you don’t know- don’t take rides from men you don’t know” etc etc, and we never really age out of that fearful mindset; compared to men who, yes are taught stranger danger as a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 03:41 AM
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Super Fit guys- no I’ve never had any relations, romantic or friendly with any of them. Jocks/meat heads are not my type, never bothered, never sought them out. Avoided being in the same rooms like the plague. Can’t say I’ve even exchanged names with this type. I served the top % of the wealth in some private clubs, yes. I’ve also served in shitty college bars selling beers for $1.25 lol i worked at a lot of restaurants to get through uni. I always preferred serving in blue collar places because…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:42 AM
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I mean- although different - the challenge is the same, looking for a diamond. Men experience avoidant women on apps, women experience sexual harassment on apps. Just because we get a match from some jerk doesn’t actually quantify to anything at all- I’ve seen guys not even stop to look at profiles, just swiping right on every one. Arguably, when guys complain about girls having way more matches- this is a huge reason why. Where I have 40 matches, I might only be 1 guys actual type- the other 39…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:41 AM
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I was in a relationship for 4 years, he pursued me. I was single for 1 year in between because I wasn’t ready to date yet, Now I’m happily in a relationship with the most loving and honest guy- who I pursued. Why do you think it’s easy to find a decent man just because of qualities I have? It’s easy to find men who are interested in having sex, but there’s tons of men who aren’t interested in relationships. Average men are not always “good men”. Quantity does not equal equality. I can throw a st…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 10:15 PM
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?? I mean, but what if the “top 5%” just isn’t our type? I’d say I’m a pretty girl, above average, with a degree and career- I like to think I’m a catch. But my type isn’t the stereotypical 5%, never has been. If anything, they actually turn me off and I can tell you a million reasons why but I’ll use most common stereotypes used. 6ft guys: I’m 5’2. Physically I do not fit in any comfortable way, from dancing, to bending over to kiss me, sex can be really awkward, even making eye contact is a ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 08:26 PM
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No one is gaslighting you. If anything I’ve done nothing but converse with you kindly. you went on a tangent about how poverty is some how my fault and causes me anxiety- I’m not even going to rebuttal that because the statement it’s self is nonsensical. You’ve given yourself anxiety by purposely subscribing to content and ideology based in theology. You mentioned this makes you unhappy. All I did was say “hey- there’s tools to help you avoid things online that make you unhappy” You can’t compla…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:01 PM
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You can’t say “it isn’t my responsibility- it’s societies”. You are apart of society therefore it’s your responsibility. If you don’t want those articles to exist anymore, don’t click on them. Content needs your engagement and the algorithm will feed it to you. They have browser extensions to help you if you’re struggling with self monitoring. I have ADHD, but I don’t justify a warped mentality on ADHD. Sex positivity and morality are not mutually exclusive. You can be sex positive and have mora…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:21 AM
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??? Family court is not a public matter. Tax payers don’t pay for your family lawyer. If you’re not biologically the father of a child- you’re not going to get screwed over by the court. It’s not anyone else’s business or responsibility to determine the child’s paternity, and I’m not going to pay more in taxes just because you don’t want to upset your spouse with a paternity test. Additionally- good luck convincing the masses to hand over their DNA for a government registry, people already have …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:01 AM
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So unsubscribe my dude. You’ve just said you’re feeding this insecurity by falling into the hole that is misogynistic fear mongering online and for what? You’re arguably only hurting yourself & your relationships with women just to make some clickbait article some ad revenue. Women, very much so do want deep emotional safe connections with our partners- and we prefer to chose partners who are capable of that. I don’t have to fight for my partners trust- the trust is there because we have built a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:33 AM
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By asking for a paternity test, you’re admitting you have fear and trust issues because the only way for the child to not be yours is if your spouse is a liar and a cheater. The consequences you’re discussing are the financial costs of raising a child- Custody and support are a matter for family law- get the paternity test independently, but your domestic and marital issues aren’t in the public’s interest to fund. What if instead of targeting only women who lie, cheat and produce offspring- what…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:05 AM
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Why should it fall on tax payers for this? This would be a marital and domestic matter. Your argument is for determining paternity for custody and support purposes, which is a matter for family law. More over, why should the doctors or nurse have to deal with this? As if their jobs weren’t hard enough already. If you want a paternity test, get one independently. No one’s saying you can’t. But your argument for offsetting the cost to the public is null. The public has no interest in your domestic…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:40 AM
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… oh my god. Yeah no, I wouldn’t even bother replying to that. The dude actually said “the government shouldn’t pay for it! It should be free” and saw nothing wrong with that statement. Guy brought a feather to a gun fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:20 AM
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If you’re asking for a paternity test- it won’t create trust issues- the trust issues are already there for you, you just haven’t voiced it yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:13 AM
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I mean- if you feel like you can’t/don’t trust your partner for no reason other then an insecurity you’ve developed on your own about the behaviour of completely unrelated hypothetical third party individuals, you probably shouldn’t be having a baby. You: honey- we need to get a paternity test. Her: why? this is so random- we’ve been together for 7 years? You: oh you know, hook up culture- your feeble mind couldn’t understand If my spouse asked for a paternity test I wouldn’t say no, but I would…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:58 AM
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OP’s post history screams this won’t be the last time..
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 05:45 AM
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Exactly lol Avoiding it is something a lazy person does. Lazy because they don’t want to admit they’re a selfish immature partner to avoid doing any personal work to take accountability. Lazy because they don’t want to put any work in the relationship they’ve already betrayed, so they don’t- 100% guarantee they still pick fights with the innocent SO for leaving dirty dishes, yet they keep this skeleton in the closet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 05:39 AM
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It’s the relationship that builds after the lie that makes it the worst pain. As humans all we can do is live our lives honestly, and when you don’t tell your partner - you’re robbing them of their autonomy of their own life path. You’re making a decision for them; again. It’s their choice if they want to forgive or walk away- to deny them that choice is arguably worse then the physical act of cheating. Moving beyond the emotional aspect of it- Their sexual and reproductive health is more import…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 05:26 AM
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But- this is just victim blaming. You’re telling women it’s their fault if they’re raped or murdered by men. You’re telling women they need a man, to protect them from men - ironic. And then you make a thin veiled threat that women should “pray to god” men still give a fuck about women ; but there’s nothing in your comment that indicates you care about women at all. This statement you’ve made is a representation of your perception of women, which seems to be: - women are ungrateful - women are i…
/r/AntiFeminists27/11/22 12:00 AM
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Being in committed loving stable relationships allow us to mature and grow in ways we otherwise can’t by being single and having ONS. A good partner will challenge us to become ultimately better selves- and when I say challenge, I don’t mean in a confrontational, nagging way. Example: when I met my partner, I observed he is such an honest man- the man won’t even pick up a dollar on the pavement because “it doesn’t belong to him”, and he communicates his emotions in such a healthy way; I literall…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 08:38 PM
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Having a friend that is single is a red flag to you? We’re in our early to mid 20’s - a lot of men are not looking for serious relationships in our age demographic. That said we’ve all been or are in LTR’s, but people break up. Whatever my friend has on her bucket list; doesn’t make mine? One of my best friends only likes to use natural deodorant- I slap on whatever man made cancer stick as long as it smells like fresh apples all day. “Someone serially proven not able to form a LTR with someone-…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:01 AM
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Okay, let’s say figuratively speaking I have a single friend, and that friend goes on a date and goes home with them. If she decides to go home with someone, why is it even my right to know? Why would her decision to go home with someone, impact my inherit value or partners trust? If my friend has a sexual encounter- that’s her business not mine. If my friend is meddling in my relationship and trying to be a bad influence with the purpose of breaking us up- then that’s a different story and a ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:05 AM
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Not arguing actually, see if you took a reading comprehension class you would see I’m leaning into your point that birds of a feather can/do flock together; there’s more then one feather on a bird— and our shared commonality/interests do not revolve around # of times one has had sex, nor would this be a deciding factor in our friendship. None of my friends are with a new guy every week, or goes home with a new guy every time we hang out- actually we go out to spend time together, that’s the enti…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 03:40 AM
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Okay- let’s continue this “birds of a feather” rampage you’re on. Have you considered women may have experiences/circumstances that bond their friendship out side of their sexual experience? For example, As a woman of colour, the majority of my friends are women of colour- because we can relate to each other, and there’s commonality in our experiences as WOC in society. Any time we’ve gone out together, we never leave each other’s sides & always go home together. I wouldn’t be friends with someo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 02:36 AM
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Hypothetically, if I match a guy and he says “Hey, you look like a good fuck- come over” and there’s been no other conversation- your logic is, I should give him a couple of days? If someone’s disrespectful, why would I owe that person the time of day? I mean seriously- that’s what I’m talking about here. I’m not talking about meeting up with some rotation of guys- I’m saying there are a lot of men who can be instantly perverse upon initial contact and it makes using the apps uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 03:17 AM
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What? Exclusivity is reserved for relationships- not someone I’ve only just matched with? You do realize some men START conversations with degrading messages off the bat? You don’t even have to be talking to more then one at a time, they will literally start the conversation that way. Super weird you’re essentially slut shaming me in this hypothetical scenario for messaging a few guys on a dating app I don’t have 😂 This is exactly what I’m talking about lol thanks for proving my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 10:44 PM
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For me, personally, I stopped using them because they get pretty boring really quickly. 1) it can be pretty dry trying to make conversation via text before deciding to meet in person 2) there’s a large portion of guys on the app that are straight up, disrespectful and sometimes- frightening. It’s hard to go from a casual conversation with John, and then Paul AND Eric are both separately sending misogynistic “jokes” and thinly veiled threats when I express I’m no longer interested. ^ this really …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:27 PM
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I think that’s part of the issue. Sex isn’t or SHOULDNT be “I did it first” - it shouldn’t matter. The idea of walking around years later like “heh, yeah but I have her virginity” is creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:47 AM
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