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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:38 PM
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Why should women like you as you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:21 PM
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What are you hoping to accomplish with this thread? Cause I can tell you that all that will follow is the Victim Olympics.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:42 PM
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I don't think you understood what I wrote. Men wonder why women flake on them or avoid them, and my point is that when a man is anxious, women will feel that and try to flee because they associate anxiety in others with danger.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:38 PM
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There is pretty good evidence that when humans were tribal, sex was a communal activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:36 PM
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It depends on what you want. Do you want to get laid and have relationships? Then what you are doing is shooting yourself in the dick. But if all you want to do is yell at a cloud, then keep it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:32 PM
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It's a very simple explanation. Women are inherently herd like. Just like any herd if one member gets spooked by a predator so do all the rest. Women do have a heightened sense to detect anxiety and once they detect it in a guy, it's game over. They get anxious themselves and want to remove themselves as far as possible from the situation. That's all there is to it. I used to flaked on quite often and it was exactly because of anxiety and fear that came through in my interactions. Once I threw c…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:54 PM
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Agreed! I've had some distorted and irrational beliefs about women when I was younger, but it was by trying to get them and fuck them that I started forming more realistic views. I guess people always fear this which they don't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:12 PM
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Hang around here long enough and you will see that the men with the strongest opinions about how terrible and scary women are are men who are either A. Virgins OR B. Have so little experience with the opposite sex that they may as well be virgins. Which begs the question - how are all these men forming their opinions if they have never been really closed to the subject of said opinions?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 02:36 PM
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You cannot understand women through your male referential system. Don't even try. Women will spend an entire Sunday shopping, not buying anything and being happy about it. They will spend 3 hours in a bathroom to go out. What do they do there? Comb their pussy hairs to all face the same direction? You can't understand them and listening to them is even worse. You will go crazy. David X rule #1 stipulates "Who cares what they think". I sincerely advise you to live by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:49 AM
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How to be passive aggressive 101
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:44 AM
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Rule #1 of David X: who cares what they think.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:44 AM
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Because they are terrified of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:41 AM
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So why is OP asking this question? Isn't he implying that he has to behave a specific way to attract a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 02:50 AM
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No, you implied that you had to lie and cheat to get the success you we're seeing. The implication is that women are hoes who fall for shitty player tactics and therefore not worth your time. Be fucking honest at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 12:20 AM
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As I said, have a life, have self respect and don't make women the be all end all of your life and you will do all the right things naturally without having to lie and pretend.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 12:03 AM
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Yeah, like a rebound.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 12:02 AM
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You mean like going on the rebound after a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 11:58 PM
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So now you have to pretend that you have a life and self respect? Cool story bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 11:56 PM
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A couple of black eyes tend to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 11:01 PM
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Ewww
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 09:34 PM
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So I don't get your comment then.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 08:44 PM
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Or: Women should be having more sex with more partners than they do now No woman should demand a man be her sole source of dick. All she needs to do is be relatively attractive and not annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 08:34 PM
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Nah men and women are the same. When he grows up and wants yo cut off his dick to be a girl, he can play sports as a woman and won't have any advantages.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 08:32 PM
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You'd be surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 08:21 PM
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A nice guy is someone who plays not to lose. Meaning he is overly nice, accommodating, hides his true personality so he appears as inoffensive as possible in fear that he may offend or piss off a woman if he were to express his sexual agenda in a more direct way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 08:21 PM
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Is it any good? I have had the same bottle of cologne for probably 10 years and finally starting to run out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 08:16 PM
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She said she loves his jealousy. Women love men telling them what to do so it will be a while before she comes to her senses.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 08:15 PM
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Does a woman have to treat you specially for you to be attracted to her and like her? Or do you like her just because she is who she is?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 08:12 PM
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That is absolutely NOT what a nice guy is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 08:11 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 08:10 PM
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It's the biggest flaw in their argument which they will never address. Or they may throw you a bone of "well, a Chad deep dicking for an hour once a year is good enough to make her celibate for any other dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 11:56 AM
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Interesting thing about women. The research just came out so feel free to question it. But a woman who has sex once a week with Chad for one hour seems to have 167 hours left in the week to have sex with other people. I know, mind blowing, but this is what the cutting edge research in females is showing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 11:54 AM
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This is a very common mindset. I call it US VS THEM. Like in middle school when boys were poking fun of girls and girls were saying "ewww" to all the boys. But once we get to puberty and start actually taking interest in girls, and that mentality persists it will create a ton of problems. Because you are always going to be looking at women as the enemy, as hostile and that other that you need to impress or please. You will also always have negative expectations when interacting with women causin…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 11:48 AM
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So why isn't every woman getting dicked down 24/7?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 03:19 AM
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I have a feeling you are being too desperate. You should give Intimate Connections by Dr David Burns a try.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 08:47 PM
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So it's NOT that easy to get a top 1% guy? I don't know if I'm taking crazy pills or what here. You guys need to get your story straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 08:09 PM
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Lol, you guys are so far up your own asses. You are ascribing some magical powers to women believing they can just walk into any room, point at the hottest, richest, tallest, most well endowed man and instantly get him into a relationship. What fucking planet do you guys live on? Try actually dating and meeting real women for once and all of this pedestalizing will disappear.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 05:52 PM
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How can women settle down if it is so extremely easy for them to date the top 1% of men? That makes zero sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 05:50 PM
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It has to do with ovulation. It's like hidden estrus.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 10:37 PM
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Your friend is actually telling what you real rating is regardless of what you think your rating is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 08:29 PM
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There are big differences in what women find attractive based on their time of the month. When ovulating, women are more drawn to masculine features and are looking to mate. In the rest of the time, they are looking for more feminine, nurturing qualities and are looking for a mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 08:17 PM
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Bro it's easy. More and more people are getting fat. Less and less people are getting in shape. You gotta appeal to your market. And when 60%+ of your market is fatties, you need to adjust your marketing strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 08:16 PM
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It's all about you and how much you value yourself. Once you learn to value yourself other people have no choice but to value you too. Then you become the chooser.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 08:14 PM
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Anyone and anything but the guy in the mirror.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 08:13 PM
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Thank god I rate myself as a 9.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 08:12 PM
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If you were getting bitches she wouldn't have to set you up. So your physical looks have nothing to do with your actual rating. But you ain't getting bitches, which means somethings wrong with you and you have to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 08:11 PM
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Cool story bro
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 10:40 AM
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But so are you, so?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 10:10 AM
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I mean guys can be attracted to a store mannequin that is vaguely shaped like a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 10:10 AM
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You do understand that the statistics of % of 6 ft guys with 6 figure incomes and 60+% of women being in relationships are virtually incompatible, right? By your calculations there aren't enough tall, wealthy guys to go around for all the women out there. Guys, fucking wake up already.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 10:09 AM
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Women tell you they are too good for you? Lol, sure buddy. Like that ever happened. I read your 2 hour late to a date post. I'm sorry, but if you are such a pushover that you would let a woman disrespect you like that, you only have yourself to blame. Work on your self respect first.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 10:07 AM
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Oh yeah, I forget the arranged marriages we've had in the US for hundreds of years or how the pilgrims rampaged the land and raped everything in sight like Vikings.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 10:04 AM
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I must be a dumb jock. Can you point it out to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 02:49 AM
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You do understand that a 7 is by definition above average, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 02:24 AM
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How are Asian chicks average?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 02:08 AM
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You are a monster. Lower your unrealistic standards and give this uggos a chance. Kay.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 02:07 AM
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You will notice this question was asked several times and no one has proceed an answer yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 01:58 AM
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The graph in this blog post is literally credit to OkCupid. Put down the vodka or blunt my man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 01:50 AM
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Man, you are still referring to a 14 year old unscientific study as the end all be all?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 01:15 AM
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Yet here are all of those uggos. How were they conceived if women's standards for looks are so fucking high?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 11:55 PM
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Let's put really viscerally lusting after someone AND just needing new spank material because I'm burned out on everything else into two separate categories. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 11:50 PM
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Thank you for your honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 11:48 PM
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By average I mean otherwise unremarkable woman who blends in with the crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 11:47 PM
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6 by definition is above average. And attractive to you means they were above average to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 11:47 PM
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But to you she was beautiful?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 11:46 PM
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Thanks for your honesty
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 11:46 PM
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Cool thanks for your input
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 11:45 PM
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I mean men will bang a stuffed animal that vaguely resembles a female of some sorts. Who you will bang is not that big of an endorsement. I specifically asked if men are viscerally attracted to plain janes. The same way that average men want to be listed after by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 11:42 PM
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Thank you for your honesty. So a buttery face.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 11:41 PM
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Oh my, you make it sound like you are facing machine gun fire with your bare chest every time you go out to a bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 11:40 PM
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They are saying, yeah a handful of chicks. Not I would choose an average plain Jane over a woman who is attractive to me any day of the week.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 11:38 PM
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I asked what her you have simped over women you consider average.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 11:37 PM
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So would you say it's fair that when men say "women don't want average men, women evil, blah blah blah" that maybe they shouldn't be saying this because they wouldn't look at average women either?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 11:36 PM
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Is a woman with a PhD in Sucking Dick average?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 08:06 PM
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It's an argument a lot of guys make on PPD. That women should go for average guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:47 PM
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That is my assessment as well. I guess I just wanted to call attention to the common complaint that average men are not heavily sexually desired and invite men to think how much they have sexually desired average women. Not much it seems, to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:24 PM
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The question is average to you I guess. So if they are not average to you then this answers my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:22 PM
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Look at Mr. Generosity here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:20 PM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 06:54 PM
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Not my question really.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 06:54 PM
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It's not about having a crush per se. It's about feeling that visceral sexual attraction to an otherwise plain average woman. I'm asking you if that is a common occurrence for men. I don't mean just being horny and wanting to stick your dick in a warm, moist hole. I mean looking at her and fantasizing about fucking her brains out and putting a baby inside of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 06:48 PM
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I disagree that advice for women is just wait around. Women still have to groom, do their hair, shave, look good, dress well, smell good. They are not going to meet men sitting at home with their cats. They get off their asses and go to clubs, bars, festivals. While a man is still expected to start the conversation, in most cases it is the woman who initiates by looking at him, smiling, trying to get his attention by dancing in his love of sight, etc. just because most men are oblivious to the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 06:46 PM
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I specifically asked for women who are average to you however you want to define that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 06:41 PM
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Ok, when you go to PornHub, so you search for average, chubby plain Jane? Or something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 06:35 PM
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But what I mean is you are not sitting there and jerking off to and chasing chubby, average, plain janes because that's what you really want?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 06:35 PM
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Oh man, there is also popping pills, smoking weed, getting drunk, sucking dick, twerking and who can forget - washing they pussy in the sink.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 06:07 PM
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Bleaching their assholes and doing enemas. As every woman should be doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 05:38 PM
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Okay, I see you are coming from a different angle, which "I have resigned and I'm not trying anymore". Which is okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 02:49 PM
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Oy vey
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 02:36 PM
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Yeah no, men need to step up and be in charge. Only one person can wear the pants and it better be the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 02:09 PM
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There are a number of reasons why you are wrong. But I get your resistance. Your thinking is "as long as I am I unhappy to be single, I will be motivated to do what it takes to find a partner". And it is certainly a logical thought. But let's look at the flip side of this. If being unhappy and beating yourself up over this actually worked, don't you think it would have worked by now? Also, if you are an unhappy, miserable person, wouldn't that severely decrease your chances of finding someone? W…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 02:05 PM
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Perfect girlfriend is about 3ft tall and has a flat head.../so I can rest my beer on her head while she's blowing me standing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 10:23 AM
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It's not only about body fat percentage. It's about toned and well built muscle mass. The difference between how a body that works out vs one that doesn't feels to the touch is completely different.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 10:21 AM
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Men work hard to serve their female overlords.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 03:05 AM
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The problem is you make your happiness and fulfillment conditional on finding a partner. Instead, I look at women and sex like going to a fine restaurant. You do it once a month but in the rest of the time you eat at home or grab a sandwich outside. They are simply icing on the cake that make life just a little sweeter, but I make sure to have other sources of happiness and fulfillment. It works very well for me and as it happens, everywhere I go women send me choosing signals. If I weren't marr…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 12:45 AM
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That's not what I'm saying, but that's what you want to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 11:48 PM
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Biologically a man has to "clean the pipes" every day even several times a day. Yes, you can go without ejaculating for a long time and there may even be short term benefits to your energy and aggression levels but not a long term alternative. The other primary driver is that men are wired to seek sexual variety. New ass is the best ass. It means more chances to spread out seed and impregnate more women and therefore pass on our genes. So there you have it. It's a combo of the urge to clean the …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 08:56 PM
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I never said that one should not pursue relationships or sex. My point is that you should not be afraid to be alone and you should not derive your happiness solely from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 06:55 PM
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Very well put
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 05:40 PM
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That's exactly what I am saying. The less your happiness is dependent on women, the more interested they will be in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 05:26 PM
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Maslow's hierarchy is a story. A hypothesis. You can choose to tell yourself the story that unless you have romance and sex you are somehow deficient and unable to experience happiness, which will make you behave in a needy and desperate way, which in turn will repel potential because people want this which they can't get. And needy and desperate is very EASY to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 05:25 PM
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Funny. My luck wjth women changed when I realized that the only problem I had was believing that I had a problem, which made it real for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 05:01 PM
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Male, 42, married. All I have to say is that your thoughts will shape your feelings and reality to a large extent. If you spend time in incel echo chambers, you will think like an incel, feel like an incel and behave like an incel. and that will remain your reality forever. No matter how lonely you feel, understand that life can be enjoyed alone. If you learn to be happy with yourself and your life alone, you will be much more likely to attract a partner who would want to be part of your amazing…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 04:48 PM
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It's amazing to me that a bunch of self admitted virgins and incels seem to know so much about romantic relationships and how men are being treated.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 04:03 PM
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I've more or less looked the same for years. Yet I have proven to myself over and over again that I have tremendously more success with women when I am bold and confident and non-needy VS the opposite. Nothing about my looks or how I dress have changed, only my internal state and internal beliefs about myself and the world. I'm not saying I neglected my appearance. Not even close, but what he consistently made a difference is my vibe and how I carry myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 03:36 PM
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I just told you what status is. Looks will determine the league a guy can play in.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 02:48 PM
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Women are attracted to different things than men are and looks are only one factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 01:36 PM
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Hey man you do you, but feeling that you NEED women, sex and love is a personal choice at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 11:41 AM
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Yeah guys get the whole "the man must be better than the woman" for her to be attracted wrong all the time. Women want the guy who is in charge, in charge of himself and therefore in charge of any situation he finds himself in including being with her. That's why women give men a hard time. They test them to see if they can gain control over them and the second they do, they lose respect, because they want the guy who is in charge. As the above poster noted, women will chase after shitty loser m…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 10:50 AM
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Do you know what an analogy is?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 10:32 AM
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If you say toxic 3 times really fast while spinning around on your heels, I heard that Beetlejuice will appear.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 10:31 AM
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I highly recommend this article by Dr David Burns: "Is Love an Adult Human Need" https://feelinggood.com/2017/03/05/is-love-an-adult-human-need/amp/ And the question is is it really? Sure, we are being told left and right that love is the only thing that matters, it's all we need, we are bombarded by messages in movies, tv shows, books. Sure, human beings enjoy the sensation of being in love and being loved. But is it a real need? Take one of my favorite musicians for example. Chris Cornell. He …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 10:30 AM
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There is a difference between what men BELIEVE women want, what women SAY they want and what they actually END up with. Women end up fucking shitty men all the time. Some of these men are tall, some are rich, others are shorter and broke. But they do have things in common that men don't really pay attention to.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 01:41 AM
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People have been fucking for millions of years but thanks for gatekeeping sex and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 12:01 AM
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Interesting - basically playing house?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 07:44 PM
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You have to view this from the perspective of a power dynamic that is going on subconsciously. Let me explain. Watch the opening of the movie Goodfellas. The narrator says this about the character Paulie: "Paulie might have moved slow, but it was only because Paulie didn't have to live for anybody." What does this mean? When you are top dog, you don't have to do hair for anybody. You don't have to impress anyone else, you don't have to prove yourself to anyone else, you don't have to move fast f…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 07:07 PM
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It's not about it being a moral shortcoming. I will explain you why "needing" something from women is a very bad idea. Very bad. You have to look at things from an impassive, evolutionary perspective first. Take right or wrong out of it or how you wish things were. Ok? What do men look for in women? First and foremost, it is looks. We look at her face, hair, boobs, hip to waist ratio, butt and fat distribution. We are able to access within a second if a woman is attractive and worth a second loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 06:38 PM
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Interesting, I had a very similar experience. Women were interested in me but I was too oblivious and a big pussy to actually make moves. But when I started focusing on this area of my life all the interest dried up. I have it figured out now and know exactly what the problem is. It comes down to neediness. When we were clueless, we didn't think about getting girls or even thinking we have a problem. So women were naturally drawn to indifference. Once you figured out you have a problem and belie…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 03:22 PM
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No woman wants a guy who can't get bitches, that's a fact. I've had multiple women comment that if they found out a guy is married or at least has a long term girlfriend that he is all of a sudden more attractive because if another woman has gotten him, it means he must have something women want. I've seen this phenomenon when on the company of an attractive woman vs when I'm alone. When I'm with a woman, other women are constantly checking me out. If I'm by myself it's much more rare. Also, wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:25 PM
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Honestly anything that they are passionate about. Some kind of fitness or athletic activity is always welcome but I want a woman who has something going for her and is not going to be a better drain on my life. Because once you get over her tits and ass and how well she sucks dick, you still have to live with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 11:43 AM
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All of it. Vibe, how she behaves, how she talks to and interacts with us. When I wanted a serious girlfriend, I interviewed women for the job literally. I was asking all kinds of questions that I wanted the answers to. Is she party girl? Does she do drugs? Are all of her girlfriends single and trying to keep her single? What are her hobbies, etc etc. you can't be afraid to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 11:07 AM
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I mean if your product line doesn't accommodate fatties you are losing like 60% of your market, sooooooooo!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 10:53 AM
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As in your apartment? Or down there?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 10:42 AM
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Oh my, so glad you created this post. I don't think we have had a post complaining about this same topic in....checks watch....an entire hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 04:08 AM
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Ok Einstein.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 03:28 AM
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A book called How Sex Works by Sharon Moalem, confirmed by observations and the talks of Johnny Soporno.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 03:07 AM
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Shows me you haven't read his book nor done the exercises.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 03:01 AM
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You should post your profile here for science.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 11:02 PM
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So yes, that's would be me. My first girlfriend approached me and I stupidly thought it would be this easy going forward. My saving grace was that I was more horny than I was shy so that helped me face my fears. I think men who don't get women are simply afraid. Fear is the cause of all their troubles. They are terrified of women, men, their own shadows. They don't want to venture out and push their limits. In caveman times who do you think got the hot cave girls? The caveman sitting in his cave…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:58 PM
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This guy just admitted to watching a video of a young girl getting killed and dismembered for turning down a man and felt nothing for her. I think him thinking he's too short is the least of his problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:55 PM
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Maybe people don't want to believe we are slaves to our biology, who knows. So I don't know about smell, but probably yeah something subconscious. Literally we get turned on by new female pheromones, hence why men seek variety in sexual partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:53 PM
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Men in general have no idea what it attractive to women. Zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:13 PM
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I think you may be a psychopath buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:12 PM
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And men say they are worthless subhumans.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:11 PM
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Most people who call themselves unattractive are typically not giving themselves enough credit, meaning that are better than they think. Others, make themselves ugly almost on purpose but usually due to low self esteem. A person with low self esteem will think it's futile to try and get fitter or wear attention getting clothes, because that would make people notice them. Low self esteem people also don't put themselves out there because they think "why bother, I'm unlovable and ugly and no one w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:06 PM
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I'm telling you that this kind of no wet sexual behavior is typically driven by ovulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 09:34 PM
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Show don't tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 08:21 PM
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I see the behavior. Usually the lipstick gets redder, the skirts shorter, the heels higher. And instead of a girl facing her girlfriends and having a closed off body language, she is with her back towards the bar and scanning the place for a guy to get the job done.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 08:20 PM
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Women are certainly more forward when they are ovulating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 07:34 PM
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I have never met a woman who goes to have a one night stand. Women for sure go out to get laid and hope the guy is good enough in bed to be invited again. It's not worth the effort to go out for a ONS.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 07:32 PM
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Modern warfare necessitates that men will spend their prime years developing weapons and technologies that will make their nation superior, while other men will sacrifice themselves to support the economy and yet others will sacrifice their actual bodies in bloody battles. In tribal societies people were too busy hunting for food and then hunting for pussy to spend too much time creating superior weapons that would give them advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 07:30 PM
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:(
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 05:16 PM
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What's your problem here? I didnt tell her id rather fuck the fake Barbie. Is your reading comprehension off?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 04:46 PM
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Well, I'm fucking her not the fake wanna be pornstar.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 04:37 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/13uxkc0/im_starting_to_think_most_men_who_blame_their/jm30pzg/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 04:35 PM
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Yes, women attract male attention easier. Life's not fair. Look at the other poster who posted 4 profile examples. All decent looking guys, but all of them have that nice guy, please like me because I'm so inoffensive and perfect vibe about them. That's just a huge turn off for most women. You will get more success without trying so hard to appear perfect and clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 04:10 PM
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All of those examples fall into the categories I listed. Mostly in the last one - trying too hard to be liked/approved of. I know men overlook this, but I have been doing this for over 20 years now and can spot an approval seeking man from miles away. They are like those dogs in the rescue places who are looking at you with their big wet eyes "please adopt me, please adopt me", except that those guys are saying "please swipe right on me, please swipe right on me".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 04:08 PM
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I highly recommend the book Not Nice by Aziz Gazipura for any guy who claims that they have been themselves their entire lives and it hasn't worked out. No bitch, you have not been your true self. You have been a fear based nice guy version of yourself. In the very first chapter of the book he writes that niceness is not motivated by virtue and goodness but by the fear of disappointing others or earning their disapproval. Your friend doesn't have the fear of upsetting a woman so he is free to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 03:27 PM
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Go to r/Bumble or Hingeapp. They have weekly profile review threads that are 99% men. Take a cursory look at the guys who are struggling. To a T they are nerds, weirdo loners or guys trying too hard to be liked/approved of. It's kind of pathetic. Oh, and none of them take any advice on how to dress or write their bios to be more funny and exciting. Men claim they are hurting and lonely and would do anything to get a gf, but I find all of it to be BS. No one is actually willing to get out of thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 03:23 PM
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I haven't found women as superficial as guys here claim. They are just blind to the truth that success with women is 70% inner game. You can't fake inner game and it's an intangible.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 03:21 PM
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Most places have at a minimum a place to do Botox, lip fillers and other basic procedures. I'm sure a lot of them provide referral for other more invasive surgeries.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 12:17 PM
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My wife and I were talking about the recent proliferation of women with super round butts and she commented on a woman we recently saw who had every type of work you can think of. Definitely BBL, fake tits, lipo for flat tummy, lip injections, Botox, the whole shebang. I told her that although as a man I recognize that it's all fake, and I understand that on a logical level, my instincts tell me "big ass, big tire, tiny waist, yummy". I know they are all fake, but my body still responds to the l…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 11:46 AM
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That's how they do it in prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 11:42 AM
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I actually think it would be terrible for men. At least now we have the illusion that there are more hot chicks out there than there actually are. I for one prefer to believe in the lie than see the truth. I don't need to stare at more plain chicks. There are enough of them already anyway. I actually prefer more women to wear make up, high heels and those jeans that make their asses look great.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 11:40 AM
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When I was in my early 20s I followed a dating expert called David X. You can look him up on YouTube. A lot of his seminars are still up. He would usually start this by asking guys: "You walk into a bar and you are the women - they are the angels and you see the men - they are the devils? That's your first reaction, right? WRONG! Women are not nice. Men are much nicer than women." He then would instruct guys to go to a mall and make a note of how many of the stores and services are dedicated to …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 11:33 AM
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Yes, don't make rules for others if you aren't going to follow them yourself. You do that, you are basically saying that your rules are worth shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 11:28 AM
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You know, people can chew gum and walk at the same time. In other words, a dude can work 9-5PM and fuck 7-10PM.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 11:25 AM
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I think the desire to pick someone to mate with from a catalog is inherently a very male thing and men tend to project their mating mechanisms onto women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 01:12 AM
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Men do. Men do drag, wear dresses and make up. There are trans women who have won woman of the year awards and others who get Nike sports bra sponsorships although they don't even have boobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 11:13 AM
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Yeah, this has zero to do with your financial situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 11:12 AM
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Why do you hang out on Virgin and ForeverAlone subs? What advice do you think other virgins will be able to give you that's actionable? If you wanted to learn to play the guitar, would you visit forums for people who've never played an instrument before?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 11:09 AM
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Perhaps you should spend more time fixing your life and finding happiness in other things and activities. You seem to be coasting through life without a purpose and direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 11:06 AM
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You are spending too much time on doom and gloom sub Reddit's that create an echo chamber that something is wrong with you. I understand your selective mutism is a problem, so you need to seek a solution for this instead of constantly reinforcing the message that you are defective by posting in ForeverAlone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 11:02 AM
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I think guys really misunderstand the whole vulnerability thing. Don't become a groveling nice guy doing emotional pukes all over your woman. It's as easy as that. If your gf told you that she used be a neurotic fatty who cut herself you probably wouldn't be too excited to date her either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:56 AM
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I don't know if there is an equivalent term exactly, but I think it would be women who totally neglect their appearance and claim that men should like them just for who they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:45 AM
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This is a very new and very Reddit definition of the term. The original definition is actually completely different and what the OP is referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:43 AM
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I have not read the Why Men Love Bitches book, but I do concur with the title. Men absolutely love bitches who treat them badly. Just go to any dating advice related sub and every question is some variant of: "So I asked this girl out three times already, once she turned me down, once she was super vague and the last time she flaked on me. Should I try one more time? What advice do you have for me to get her attention?"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:41 AM
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They do. If a woman started being nice to us and offering to do things for us without us even asking and accommodating our every whim, we would think we've died and gone to Heaven. But when a man behaves this way with a woman, she is immediately suspicious that he's hiding something.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:34 AM
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That's not a curse. You are just afraid of offending women and earning their disapproval. Mens biggest fear is not death or public speaking. It's pissing off a woman. Once you get over that fear, it will be 10X easier. The thing is you didn't want to have deep conversations for hours and connect over hobbies and activities. You wanted to smash her but didn't make bold moves because you thought she'd be pissed off or offended by the asshole who was trying to fuck her - YOU!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 01:54 AM
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Men can change how intimidating their appear by the way they dress and spread themselves. That's why I always advise guys to dress a little dangerously. Out on a leather jacket, jeans, boots, gold chain, get a nice haircut that makes you look more square and masculine. When sitting down, relax, take up more space, ala:
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 01:52 AM
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Find a group of men who are willing to take you under their wings. Not loser D&D dorks who can't teach you anything about life or women, but actual men who have been there, done that. Athletics, sports, etc. are really good places.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 01:49 AM
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My advice? Download the audiobook Not Nice by Aziz Gazipura. Do all the exercises. Thank me later.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 01:47 AM
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Agreed. I don't get it. Women with green hair, the stupid haircuts, nose rings, silly tattoos, not shaving their legs. I just don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 01:46 AM
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You are just a sensitive nice guy who lets women fuck with him. They will take advantage of you because that's what humans do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 01:43 AM
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The days of a lifer employee being attractive to another employer have been long gone for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 01:42 AM
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Let me put it this way. The woman made the rules, you agreed to them and now you are complaining about the rules. They are not fair, she's a prostitute, yada yada yada. Has it ever occurred to you that you can make your own rules? And that women will actually respect you much more for that rather than blindly accepting their rules and then acting like a butthurt little boy?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 01:41 AM
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I hit 13.5% body fat the other day. AMA.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 01:39 AM
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Now we are talking
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 10:47 PM
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This is the stupidest thing I've heard on this sub. Only you can allow people to use you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:39 PM
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Jesus another Mr Nice Guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:38 PM
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That's says more about you then them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:27 PM
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Lane Staley, Chris Cornell, Scott Weiland, Dolores O'Riordan. Many major ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:19 PM
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Why are all 90s songs so depressing? It's what I grew up with but like 90% of the famous singers of grunge bands have died by suicide or drugs. The 80s hair metal guys liked to party and have fun and many of them are still going strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 07:34 PM
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Women want men. Most people with penises do not actually know how to behave like a man because they were never taught how to. As a matter of fact, they are actively taught that the worst thing you can do is make a woman upset with you. Once you lose that fear, everything else falls into place. Because if you are afraid of upsetting a woman, you will be afraid of other men too and therefore you are unable to provide safety and protection. Nobody fears you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 07:26 PM
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I will simplify this for you and everyone else. Social anxiety, shyness, etc., is all based on fear. Social anxiety is literally the fear of other people. A man being afraid to approach a woman is a man who is afraid of women, etc. In a lot of ancient cultures some of who survive to today, boys at a certain age had to go through an initiation otherwise know as Rites of Passage. These invitations all had the same basic structure. The young boy was taken away from the mother by the village elders …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 12:00 PM
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These are positive movements. People have been slaves of society for way too long, milking themselves working to benefit society but not themselves. A lot of the countries you mention also have arranged marriages and people are getting sick of traditionalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 11:43 AM
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I think large scale war is a rather modern invention. Tribal humans didn't slaughter themselves at the rate modern humans have.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 11:40 AM
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Lol, I mean if I can figure it out, I'm sure women can. As long as you are not on hormonal BC, just pay attention to those days when your brain starts telling you MUST HARVEST SPERM. And you look at men and you go: "I can do him, I can do him, oooh, I can do BOTH of them!"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 11:39 AM
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are you focusing on dating because you want to develop social skills or because you feel you need something from women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 03:43 AM
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That's a bingo!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 02:51 AM
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Your definition of romance is retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 02:48 AM
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Imagine people being able to chew gum and walk at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 02:46 AM
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Makes total sense and the math totally works out!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 07:29 PM
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Who is dating and fucking all these women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 07:02 PM
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So you are telling me you don't enjoy this?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 06:19 PM
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Is sex the only thing that makes you happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 06:08 PM
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You are reading what you want to read and not what I wrote. You being alone and depressed about it doesn't mean that you don't consider romantic love your sole source of happiness and self actualization. On the contrary, your belief that only romantic love will make you a happy and actualized human being is what is keeping you alone. It is hard for you to grasp because you have never looked at other aspects of your life to fill you with joy and happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 04:32 PM
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Where did I say that you should give up sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 03:25 PM
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I'm convinced that women test men in order to find out if he still has his balls, the same way a lioness will test the lion to see if he's grown old, weak or lazy. If she manages to snatch his balls, she will soon love on to another alpha male who can protect her and make her feel safe. The same happens with the human animal. Men get lazy and complacent in relationships and let women snatch their balls. It will start with little innocuous things like "I don't like you dressing like this" or "I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 03:20 PM
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The most popular story on Literotica is about a mom who goes on a road trip with her husband and her teen son to his new college. They run out of space after loading up the car, so she spends the entire 5 hour trip on her son's lap while dressed in a short dress and him in basketball shorts. They are blocked from view of the husband by a large screen TV they out between the two front seats.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 03:09 PM
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You have a problem with the pussy?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 03:52 AM
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Sure, everybody knows that. They just don't know how to get there. Not quite.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 03:31 AM
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Instead of going on a date hoping that she will like him, he goes on a date hoping to like her. He may schedule a date a week in advance confident that she will wait that long because he is worth it. If she says she doesn't like a particular place that you have picked for a date, he tells her she is free to arrange a date if she has a better place in mind. If she tells him she doesn't like facial hair and he has a beard, he just smiles and nods, but never thinks of shaving it off for her. Stuff …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 01:12 AM
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Women like men who are in control and tell them what to do in a gentlemanly way. No matter how much they protest on PPD, I've proven this to myself over and over and over.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:26 AM
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That's like asking a man "so you can lift 50 lbs no problem, how can you consider yourself a worthless subhuman piece of shit?"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:25 AM
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I'm just saying for whatever excuse a guy comes up with, there is multiple somebody's who can disprove it with their own experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:23 AM
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You are just hearing what you want to hear. No one said don't date or have sex. I'm in fact saying that dating and sex will actually be infinitely easier if you don't make women your cake.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:44 PM
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It's not so much personality as how a man behaves. I guess that can be considered part of his personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:43 PM
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I went for a walk with my dogs in the park. There were a ton of average looking couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:42 PM
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I mean I learn skills all the time that do not require me to consider them my sole source of happiness and meaning in life. Again, you are reading my post to mean "stop trying to date or talk to women, just be happy without them", which is absolutely not the message I am sharing. Perhaps your reading comprehension is off or you are just hearing what you want to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:07 PM
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Yes, this is a very common belief among men especially those who struggle with getting women. They believe a woman is the answer to their misery, loneliness and all other problems. As for your second point, yes, I agree they should have friends of all genders we have now, but hanging out with other guys and learning how to be men from other men is very very important.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:05 PM
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I know plenty of people including myself who have had plenty of sex wjth different women and have not procreated even once.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:03 PM
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So you just waited around for a girl to fall into your lap and suck your dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:15 PM
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Looks matter in the sense that they will determine the league you can play in. 5s (average people) will mostly date other average people. Some will date down some will date up a little. A guy can compensate up to 2 points is he is super funny, rich, works a cool job (DJ, pro athlete, drug dealer) or is super amazing in bed. But that's pushing it. The whole idea that unless you are 6'5" and have a square jaw you won't be able to get even a 3 is purely mentally retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:49 PM
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You make a choice to be sad and lonely because you are single. It's really a choice. As long as you make that choice, you will chase women away with your neediness. It's a fact of life. Whenever you tell yourself you need something, the Universe keeps it away from you. The second you don't need it anymore, the Universe gives it to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:09 PM
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If you don't have anything to contribute, you are free to leave the discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:06 PM
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That's sounds like a very defeatist take.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 06:50 PM
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Men who have jobs hobbies and friends and no gfs do exist. Never denied it. There are a ton of these type of posters on ForeverAlone and Dating. Their financial success or lack thereof has no bearing on their romantic success. One can be financially successful and still convince themselves that they are lacking some crucial ingredient to being happy and satisfied. Namely - a girlfriend. The problem is this line of thinking, not whether the man is actually financially successful or not. A guy can…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 06:48 PM
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Read my OP. I never said don't try to date or get laid if those guys were socially retarded and never tried to make moves that's on them. I'm not even saying that you have to be financially successful to get women and sex. Look around at the broke asses who date and fuck women. What I AM saying is that all the tech bros and software engineers who are lonely are lonely because they have convinced themselves that they are missing something by not having a relationship. They beat themselves up and …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 06:44 PM
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They got a relationship IN SPITE of feeling miserable about their lives. I'm not saying that a woman cannot bring happiness to your life. It can surely happen. But believing that a relationship is the only way you can be happy and that you are doomed to be a miserable fuck without one, will certainly make it almost impossible to get into one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 06:41 PM
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You are entitled to feel and believe whatever you want. I'm just telling you that you will never have meaningful romantic success as long as you see women as your sole, primary or major source of happiness and meaning in life. This is just a reality you have to accept.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 06:39 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 06:31 PM
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Successful reproduction =/= actual sexual success. A woman is fertile and average of 3-5 days a month. She could easily be fucking the other 17 cavemen (or whatever the ratio in the studies was) in the remaining 25-27 days.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 06:26 PM
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Nobody is demonizing you. But you are making a choice to believe that only women can make you happy, whole and fulfilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 06:18 PM
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Yes and no. And no, the alternative explanation is not "wimminz bad because wimminz standards are high": female pickiness is a myth. Women constantly pick shitty men to go to bed with. But those guys do have this in common that they don't make women the sole source of happiness in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 06:16 PM
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The internet is full of guys who say they have high paying jobs, hobbies and decent looks yet the missing piece is this whole women thing. The reason it's missing is because they think of it as something that they don't have. That's a deficiency and that's what turns women off.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 06:04 PM
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Your wife still give you head? Lucky man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 05:32 PM
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Agree! Women and sexy are a wonderful thing, unless they are your sole or primary source of happiness. Then you end up without both.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 04:57 PM
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As I said, women and romance is icing on the cake. I've never met a guy who is happy and proud of his life who hasn't been able to get a girlfriend. The guys who mope around about not having a woman are the ones who have the biggest troubles. Even if they actually go out and try to talk to women. I guess there are two sides to the coin. Understanding women should not be your primary source of happiness and changing what it means about you to not have a girlfriend. Most guys believe that if they …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 04:36 PM
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How's that been working out for you? Oh let me guess....
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 04:13 PM
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No, any desperation and neediness will impede a man. Why? Whether you agree or not, women are always looking for the alpha type male. What does this mean? A guy who is in control. Who is in charge and cannot be controlled. Do you think a needy, desperate guy who is trying to get liked by women is in control of anything? By virtue of being needy, he is easy and easy to control. It's all interrelated.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 04:04 PM
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You have the exact problem I describe in my post. It just flew over your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 04:01 PM
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I think YOU need to read my post several times until it sinks in.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 04:00 PM
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Who are you calling normal?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 03:31 PM
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My original point was to not look to women to make you happy. I guess when you do that, you also naturally start blaming them for not making you happy or avoiding you altogether. So I see your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 02:45 PM
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You can type on your computer or phone and you have a job. I think you are being a bit dramatic. You don't have to love your job. Most of us don't. If it bugs you this much, come up with a strategy to find something different. Or make your hobbies your purpose. Perhaps your purpose can be to help other autistic men socialize better. The point is, don't look to women to make you happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 02:44 PM
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Not sure if it is easier, perhaps just misguided.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 02:32 PM
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Neediness affects men way more. The same way lack of good looks affects a woman. If a woman had the choice to be unattractive, although she could still find some desperate loner to wife her up or a stunning beauty who can have choice of men, which one do you think she'd pick?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 02:28 PM
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Is this a serious question?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 02:26 PM
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It's all the porn they consume. Many of these women have never had good sex and they mistake the endorphins they get from pain/being hurt for actual pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 02:11 PM
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A little tip. If a woman is complaining about something, it means you are doing the right things.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:52 PM
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Honey, everything is possible: https://youtu.be/JpyVMzaBqzQ
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 10:46 AM
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As opposed to men who LOVE to fuck unattractive women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 10:45 AM
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No. Putting your dick in a vagina is the ultimate form of simping.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 02:10 AM
7

Bro, you seem determined to stay in a prison of your own making. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 01:57 AM
3

You are not really asking. You are just merely extending an invitation to her to enter your world. Like a king who invites you to his banquet.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 11:29 PM
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The one who asks out is the chooser. As simple as that. The chooser has the power. Spin it anyway you want but that's the reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 10:56 PM
1

That's because they all come to NYC.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 10:27 PM
0

I've met several girlfriends in a Starbucks. I've met girls in the park. Outside a busy a bar. In a bar. Through friends, parties, work. I will let you on a little secret okay? If you look outside just about every second person walking around is the owner of a vagina. It is literally one of the most abundant things on earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 06:58 PM
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The most prominent pick up artist from the early 2000s who created many of the terms and tactics guys still refer to today actually rarely got laid. He could get phone numbers but women gave him numbers just to make that clown go away. He eventually ended up in a mental hospital after a suicide attempt and last I heard he's lost custody of his kid. That's what happens to men whose lives revolve around women and trying to get them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 06:56 PM
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You can be your not authentic self when you feel ashamed if who you are which drivers you to hide that self from others out of fear of being rejected it ridiculed for it. So you act in ways that are not reflective of your true nature. For example, your authentic self is actually not needy. Neediness is born out of fear and a behavior that you do to compensate for that fear. The fear being "they won't like me/love me for who I am so I have to try extra hard and communicate a lot and be in their f…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:48 PM
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Imagine that you meet someone who looks exactly like you, dresses exactly like you, behaves, has the same mannerisms and the exact same background as you. For all intensive purposes they are you but with a different name. Would you instantly become best friends? If not( why not? What about them is off putting? Do you reject them for qualities that you easily ignore in your friends and family because they have other qualities that compensate? Figure out what you dislike in that copy of yourself a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:45 PM
1

Every animal has a mating dance. You have to accept that humans do too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:38 PM
1

It doesn't sound like you like yourself too much. If you believe there is soMething unacceptable or inherently unlovable about you, then change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:36 PM
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You have to differentiate between "being" and "doing". You can be yourself and still have trouble doing things like talking to a woman you don't know, flirting, asking her out, etc. You could be doing anxiety and still be a good, worthy person. Making yourself scarce so that you are more appealing to the opposite sex is doing not being. Overcommunicating, making yourself too available and putting pressure on them is doing not being. So you can be your authentic self and still do things in a way …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:35 PM
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This sub sounds like the victim Olympics.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 10:47 AM
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Let me put it this way. If you are unqualified for something, then sure don't do it. But if you are the owner of a working penis you are absolutely qualified to have sex with women. If you are failing over and over, it means you are doing something wrong, chances are you are just flailing like the guy who didn't have the proper teaching on how to play guitar. Because there have been millions before him who have learned to play the guitar it means it's not an impossible skill. And because humans …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 08:33 AM
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I think you have bigger problems than this honey.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 01:40 AM
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Let me mouth it this way. If men ignored women for 24 hours straight and I mean all men in the world ignoring and not giving attention to all women in the world for 24 hours, men will never have dating problems again. And the suicide rate of women will probably go through the roof.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 01:31 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:16 PM
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Literally the only qualification for dating and sex are having a functioning sexual organ. Everything else is socially fabricated BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:09 PM
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It sounds like this is your personal value system. Not applicable to everyone. Just you. Other people can feel valuable even if they don't meet your standard of beauty or income.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 02:55 PM
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So you are not allowed confidence and self esteem unless you meet some kind of an impossible standard you above set for yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 02:20 PM
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Unfortunately the brainwashing is ubiquitous. It is everywhere. But basically the messaging is that a man is worthless unless he contributes to the advancement of society. Hence why you have so many men believing they cannot be confident or valuable unless they work their asses off, scaling new peaks and sacrificing their health just to move society forward. You find this in movies, advertisements and parental advice, such as "work hard, wear a clean shirt, be a presentable member of society and…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 02:02 PM
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Sex is disgusting, dirty and sinful so save it for those you love.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:56 PM
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I don't quite think you understand what confidence is. While I may not be a good swimmer, I am confident that wjth enough training I can become a good swimmer. While I may suck at guitar, I am confident I can learn to play well. These are simply skills. Confidence is believing you are capable of doing something and you do not need a reason to be confident other than being you. I'm also confident being myself. What reason do I need to be myself?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 12:55 PM
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Is a guy who is shy, socially anxious and thinks he is worthless and unattractive really being himself or is that just another story that he tells himself that is just a distorted interpretation of reality?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 12:51 PM
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You have explained nothing other than "you need a reason" to feel confident. I am asking why do you need any reasons at all. You haven't provided an argument other than "it's always been this way".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 10:59 AM
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I think you are kissing a few steps in between there buddy. Humans don't value this which they can get easily. If you as a man are giving up your attention and affection easily without the woman having earned it, it will be perceived as worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 10:28 AM
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You are just going in circles. Why do you need reasons to be confident? Why do you need a reason to like yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 10:08 AM
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Do not change anything about yourself or what you do in order to be more romantically successful (although not changing anything has rarely if ever worked out for you).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 12:34 AM
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Why do you need to have a "reason" to be confident? Who made that rule?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 12:32 AM
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It's a combination of things. As slightly backwards and developing countries, EE hasn't quite adopted feminism and equality of the genders as the west has. Dating is way less feminized and so are men. They don't fret about their height or jaw squareness. They look at more stereotypically male things like strength, cars, authority. Men also tend to be more rough around the edges and chauvinistic, so they have no problem putting their women in place and showing them who is wearing the pants in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 11:39 PM
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Shortage of men is only relevant in Russia and virtually nowhere else in Eastern Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 11:31 PM
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It wouldn't make a spit of difference. I often give men on dating app subs advice on how to improve their chances with women and I am often met with extreme hostility and resistance to changing anything. And I'm not talking about huge stuff, just basics like: dress more stylishly and with some edge, get a new haircut, make your profile sound less wimpy and more like you actually have dated women before. You have to understand that men have bought into their loser/nice guy personas way too much t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 02:22 PM
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Says who?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 10:49 AM
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Do you want the product that no one else wants?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 03:48 AM
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Bitterness and desperation sure make for one stinky cologne.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 02:41 AM
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When you have low standards, you sub communicate that you are not valuable or worthy enough and women respond to that by concluding you are not valuable or worthy enough for them. It's very easy and sorry that you are unable to comprehend it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 01:59 AM
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Then why is that guys who have super low standards struggle even more? I think you have it backwards buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 01:38 AM
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Have you noticed that the guys who say they will take ANY woman never get ANY women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 12:51 AM
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You can't cum on woman's character.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 12:49 AM
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It's the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 12:47 AM
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I'm asking if women control both sex and relationships and can have them at will, who are they fucking and who are they entering relationships with? Because to me it seems it's other men, not some third gender or aliens or their dogs. Therefore; men by extension benefit from sex and relationships themselves. Wouldn't that be the conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 07:15 PM
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Who are women fucking and getting into relationships with? Is it some sort of a third gender? Aliens? Their dogs? Who exactly are they fucking?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 07:01 PM
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You don't sound like a man who has options, so how would you know? As a man who has had options, I chose the sexually experienced woman who has demonstrated she enjoys sex every single time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:34 PM
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To be honest, men gravitating towards crazy chicks is almost always a deep self-esteem/self-worth issue. I know because that used to be me. They are dynamite in the sack though, because their own self loathing makes them do stuff in the bedroom that normal girls will ball at.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:04 AM
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Bro she is pure muscle.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:54 AM
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Most of what women do is shit testing men. The whole 666 on dating apps, all the TikToks about how they expect to be taken on expensive dates, their Insta thirst traps. The sad part is virtually every guy falls for their BS instead of learning to become immune to it. The more immune you are to manipulation and you just laughs it off, the more romantically successful you tend to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:52 AM
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Men say: love sweet, submissive girls. Men in reality: chase after bitches who don't give them the time of day Women say: I think a man holding a baby is sexy Women in reality: chase after men holding a guitar and a bottle of Jack.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:48 AM
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Of course it has never happened to any of them, because it is not a legitimate fear, but simply an irrational phobia brought on from the othering of women. They have convinced themselves that the world is a hostile, unfriendly place full of these terrible creatures called women who are out there to get them and make their lives miserable. As a matter of fact, many of them believe women take particular pleasure in destroying random shy guys' lives just for kicks. The funny thing is if someone spo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:46 AM
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A bad guy is a guy who doesn't feel responsible for the feelings or actions of others, a bad guy is someone who acknowledges and has made peace with his darker, fucked up self, a bad guy is someone who is more commanding and direct as opposed to being overly polite and beating around the bush, a bad guy is someone who knows who he is and what his values are and bends for no one even if it means pissing them off, a bad guy is someone who has rules and boundaries and punishes people who overstep t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 10:09 PM
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They don't. It's too scary. They may encounter one of these vicious monsters otherwise know as women who can get them arrested or beaten up.0
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 09:21 PM
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You don't understand old maaaaaann. Times have changed maaaannnn. No one can figure out how to get girls in bed. Absolutely no one in the hundreds of thousands of years that humans have existed has ever figured out how to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 07:48 PM
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Yep. It's scary. And worse, they come here and infect other innocent people with their delusional BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 06:36 PM
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If you don't approach that's fine. Nobody's judging you. But you also have absolutely no leg to stand in when making the argument that talking to a woman is a one sort of a life altering proposition. You have not experienced it, have never done it and therefore your opinion on it is worth zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 06:35 PM
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So you are just making up deranged fantasies in your head? Got it!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 06:05 PM
2

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 06:05 PM
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How many times have you been arrested for speaking with a woman? I want facts. Not what could happen in a million years. I am asking how many times you have been arrested. I would be willing to bet $500 that's it a big fat goose egg.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 04:53 PM
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Is getting groceries worth your life? You get out of your house and get in a car and drive down a road although tens of thousands of people die in car crashes, violent crimes and random mass shootings every year. You can have groceries delivered and find a job working from home. Look, I'm not going to convince you you're suffering from delusional catastrophizing. Unless you feel it is negatively impacting you, it won't make a difference how many arguments I present to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 03:55 PM
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So in objective reality - zero. Got it. Or, if we take the delusional nightmare scenarios that only exist in your head, basically you've been sued no less that 10,000 times.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 03:53 PM
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You are liking st this the wrong way. Approaching or initiating is not pursuing and does not peg you as the pursuer unless that's your internal attitude and belief. If you reframe an approach as simply: "I am giving this woman who I am attracted to an opportunity to meet a cool guy like me and to see if we click", your outcomes will be drastically different.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 03:50 PM
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A better question would be how many times have I been robbed when I go out of my house. If there is any probability that I may get robbed and I took that to mean I shouldn't leave the house, like ever, I may as well kill my self.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 03:44 PM
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How many times have you been sued for harassment?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 02:59 PM
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You are all over the place here. I'm not sure you have even formulated your argument and are just venting your frustrations. Firstly, yes, men and women are aroused on different ways. What does it take for a man to become aroused, meaning to get an erection and want to use it? It's a combination of two things: A woman who is attractive looking enough (a very fluid criteria which changes with how horny he is, the last time he's had sex or how many beers he's had so far). A woman who appears willi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 02:56 PM
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You need to go to Target.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 02:43 PM
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I will make sure to tell this to my wife, my last few girlfriends and a whole bunch of FWB and ONS. I mean what's the point of meeting someone you haven't met before. Am I right? Why read books you haven't read before? Why go to places you haven't gone to before? Why eat food you haven't eaten before?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 02:42 PM
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So all guys who say "I've tried everything and I have not had success with women" have actually rarely if ever even tried speaking with women? A brave man dies once. A coward dies a thousand deaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 02:37 PM
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Giggity
/r/seduction10/05/23 12:25 PM
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They are tall and handsome but not aggressive at all. They are the biggest passive pussies in the world.
/r/seduction10/05/23 12:34 AM
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Plus don't forget a NYC 6 is like an Ohio 8.
/r/seduction10/05/23 12:23 AM
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Nikkur, there aren't enough billionaires to go around for all the hot girls who live in the city. Relax.
/r/seduction10/05/23 12:23 AM
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Agreed, best city for meeting women. They are literally everywhere. And dying to meet guys. Female desperation is palatable. The only other place that seems even easier is Amsterdam.
/r/seduction10/05/23 12:22 AM
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Here is what Ive noticed. A lot of butch lesbians act much more masculine and in control than actual men. They have a squared up stance, they are calm and collected. They are in charge. Women crave the masculine presence that those butch lesbians provide.
/r/AllPillDebate09/05/23 04:57 PM
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I've never heard a more retarded take.
/r/AllPillDebate09/05/23 04:56 PM
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And that's the exact reason you should strive to be one of those guys.
/r/AllPillDebate09/05/23 04:41 PM
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Interestingly all my most successful tactics were actually stolen from women. They are just masters at it, but once you steal their game and use it against them, they are basically powerless. They don't have another game.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 11:25 AM
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I flexed in the mirror and the mirror swooned back at me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 02:29 AM
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I always remember the opening of Good Fellas and the narrator says about Paulie: "Paulie might have moved slow, but it was only because Paulie didn’t have to move for anybody." This is the essence of social/alpha status for men. When you don't have to answer to anyone. You do things on your own terms. You don't rush because someone expects you to be there on time, you act a certain way because you are trying to impress someone. You are in no way behaving in a way that you would only behave becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 02:29 AM
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God damn, you have no sense of humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 09:30 PM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 09:29 PM
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That's literally 2-3 gangbangs you can knock out in a couple of weekends.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 09:24 PM
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They do something called socializing. I know, nobody's heard of it outside of celebrities. It is very exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 09:21 PM
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I thought teenage girls were the most desirable demographic to PPD males?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 06:47 PM
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The girl in the black one piece is exactly my type, so is the one in the white bikini!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 06:34 PM
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Actually most men don't need self improvement, because that presupposes they are not good enough to begin with. But it's not that they are not good enough by some objective measure as you described, but rather they BELIEVE and therefore FEEL they are not good enough, which translates into a lack of confidence and edge.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 11:44 AM
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These numbers are horrifying but they prove what I've always been saying. There are more women than men out there. Pussy is the most abundant resource.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 07:58 AM
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Women fuck shitty men all the time. Their standards are not high, they are not super picky and selective. It's just that what turns them on is different from what you think, which usually has to do with height and facial features. Looks matter in the sense that they will determine the league you will play in. If you are a 5 you will get other 5s and maybe 6s. And if you are really funny, rich, outrageously fun or great in bed you may be able to snag an 7. Your issue is lack of confidence and bol…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 02:25 AM
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The testosterone theory for female sexual drive may be completely bogus: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/26589379/ Female sexuality is controlled by several hormones and testosterone may play only a small role in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 01:33 PM
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My dude, going on a date isn't some sort of contest with prizes for first place and beat downs for the loser. A date is two people trying to figure out if they like each other and if there is chemistry. You have been trained your entire life to be an entertainer for women. Just another loser role that you BELIEVE you have to play.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 11:33 AM
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The issue is not that there asexual women or ones who avoid dating. The issue is the incredibly poor ration of men vs women on apps. In the real world there are more women than men. So it's like shooting yourself in the balls if all you rely on is apps. The way I look at it is you are either horny enough to overcome your fear of women, or you sit home and jerk off and cope with apps and black pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 10:29 AM
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Right! Except for a little known fact that the ration of men and women outside of apps is something more like 1:1. And that to get laid, some men will have to settle for either less attractive partners or women who are playing the field and going out with more than one guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 09:53 AM
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Yeah buddy, women know that's what he's trying to do and are also using him. It's a two way reciprocal toxic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 09:51 AM
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I mean whatever happens between two consenting people, their bull and their cameraman is nunya our businesses.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 09:43 AM
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The primary driver for female behavior is security. The primary driver for male behavior is approval. A woman keeping a man around as a friend is a form of security for her. He can be an emotional tampon, someone to drive her around or take her out in case she feels lonely or ugly and the guy will provide validation for free (well, with a little attention investment from her but not sexual investment). Why do men keep doing it? Approval. They don't want to gain a woman's disapproval by telling h…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 09:08 AM
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That's why she has you by the balls and you allow her to treat you like that. Cause you ain't willing to walk away. I get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 08:13 PM
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I mean you put it out there. People are going to make fun of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 07:25 PM
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I got a news flash for you, Walter Cronkite. When a woman's horny hormones get out of wack, there isn't much stopping her from sneaking out and getting fucked despite society's condemnation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 07:24 PM
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So what's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 07:21 PM
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If every major religion had to come up with a bunch of rules to control female sexuality, then women naturally wanting to get fucked a lot has been something that has been around for much longer than you and I. As a matter of fact, the human race has existed for over 200,000 years. We didn't get from a tribe of a few hundred people in Africa to over 8 billion current population wjthout a lot of FUCKING.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 07:20 PM
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The most embarrassing thing for a young, pretty women is to be single. Do you think she will tell a stranger that she is single? Of course not. She will tell him that she has a bf. Who may or may not exist. Young women up until age 23 are the most promiscuous and therefore you have the highest chances of getting laid. Once they get married and pop out kids, they start getting promiscuous again.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 07:17 PM
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Let's do a little math. According to some sources, the ratio of men to women on dating apps is something like 3:1. I've seen that's that are as bad as 9:1. But let's assume for the sake of this example, that the ratio is more favorable, like 2:1. Let's use real numbers. The total population of the hypothetical Humpr app is 100 men and 50 women. 2:1. The top 20% men are 20. The top 20% of women are 10. So for every top 20% attractive woman there is 2 guys. So guys decide that they need to expand …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 07:15 PM
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Not trying to prove anything. Just pointing out that he is crying like a little bitch about something that is within his control.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 07:05 PM
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Not her problem that you are so easy to manipulate.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 05:02 PM
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They already covered this scenario and you are wrong: https://youtube.com/clip/UgkxpgT578MnvemnYl0_pXpGNo9uJuKsfkxH
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 03:56 PM
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I think they did a study on this: https://youtu.be/Dk5zliabPjM
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 03:43 PM
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Yeah, so those women don't really have a problem if it's not hurting them. But YOU seem to have a problem because it's hurting YOU. I feel like I'm taking crazy pills here
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 01:37 PM
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So whatever those womens problems are, they are not really this material if they are not impeding them in getting sex and love. Seems the problem is you not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 12:48 PM
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If the women are getting dick and into relationships, then they cannot be the problem. It's the men who seek to have the problem. You will never bring to change because you and all men on PPD refuse to take responsibility for their issues. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 11:38 AM
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I thought men are useless and dispensable. So what's the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 01:31 AM
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100%!!! Go to any of the numerous dating advice subs and every post from a guy is a variation of: "So I asked this girl out and she was very ambiguous about when she's available. So I asked her again and she ghosted me on the date. I thought she may give me another chance so I asked her to hang out and she agreed tentatively but said something else may come up. How do I keep her interest via text?" Like my dude, you are being pissed on and you think it's raining. Wake up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 11:57 AM
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Bro, how much we get laid is the only way we can keep a score on each other. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 11:53 AM
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I'm reading the book Not Nice by Aziz Gazipura and literally on the first page he says "Being nice does not come out of goodness or high morals. It comes out of a fear of displeasing others and receiving their disapproval." And that's where "nice guys" who think they are good and moral men really struggle. Never asserting themselves, never being selfish, never putting their desires first, letting women get away with murder and treating them poorly only to kiss their ass. All of this is driven by…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 11:51 AM
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Just like everything there is nuance. I would not take a broke ass woman as a serious dating prospect. I've done it and it turned out poorly. But for having fun and not being too serious, I wouldn't really care about her income as long as she doesn't live in the ghetto.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 11:43 AM
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People are sheep. They believe what you tell them to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 01:28 AM
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Save the girls who like sex and are experienced for a one off thing and commit to the prude who's never sucked dick. Real Einsteins in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 12:15 AM
2

Anywhere from 18-50+. They have to be mentally at least 25 years old and physically at least 18 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:58 PM
1

Nonstop gangbangs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:57 PM
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Maybe that's a good opportunity to start valuing yourself instead of waiting for society to value you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:57 PM
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Correct! The more you know what you want, what your own values are and what values you want in a woman, the more you become the chooser. When you are the chooser, you have all the power. Men do themselves a lot of disservice by saying stuff like "I just need a human person wjth female genitalia and under 30 bmi". Like if you have no values or boundaries about what you want, then you are at the mercy of everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 04:28 PM
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So liking and respecting yourself and valuing what you bring to the table makes you an incel? And I'm the one who needs help? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 01:46 PM
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It's good that you are at peace. Most people aren't. Men usually wish theirs was higher and women that theirs is lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:57 AM
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It's from a US reality TV show, the millionaire matchmaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:14 AM
2

You forgot spinner. What does spinner mean you say? You can spin her on your c...k.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:32 AM
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No. Every single woman fucks to marry. Women don't enjoy sex so there is no way she would have sex just because she feels horny. Lol Dude, your problem is two fold. You were probably not as good at sex as you thought you were which is normal given your age and the fact that you don't seem to have a lot of it. Second, you were extremely needy with her and asking her to be your girlfriend after you slept together? How clingy and weird is that? You need to learn to control your eagerness if you wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:22 AM
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All women want the same thing. A man who knows what he wants and lives life on his own terms. If you are 35 and still twist your mustache upward with pomade and dress like a cobbler because you think it will get you laid, you are a sad sack of a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:21 AM
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A cannot possibly be the friendzone because he has made it clear that he is there to fuck. If he doesn't get what he wants or gets rejected, that doesn't mean he's put in the friendzone. I don't think you quite understand what the friendzone is. It's a place where men go willingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:19 AM
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The reason many red pill guys don't like women of all kinds is because they don't like themselves very much. The most judgmental people are those who are constantly judging and beating up on themselves and then project that same behavior onto others
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:16 AM
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Did you just oust yourself as someone who's been watching an incel mass murderer's content? You need help buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:00 AM
1

RP advice? Are you serious? But thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:59 AM
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Bro, you don't need to freeze your ass in Russia or risk getting blown up by bombs in Ukraine to get beautiful women. You need to realize and start believing that you are a hot commodity and that you worthy and valuable. Look at the men around you. So many losers, guys without jobs, abusers, drug addicts, assholes. Most guys on this sub are above average intelligence, they make good money, they are nice and clean. But they beat themselves up over some perceived lack of this or that and they mani…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 02:12 AM
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Kind of happens when you kill of your baby girls and create generations of lonely incels. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 08:21 PM
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I was the opposite. At first I though - hey this looks cool, some guys are waking up to the reality that being a pushover nice guy who is always trying to please women is bad, but the anger and vitriol that comes out of that community towards women is truly appalling.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 06:44 PM
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Bro, please do not claim that your specific experience is objective reality. It is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 06:42 PM
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Instead of trying to manipulate men into staying with you because they already invested time and effort, why don't you focus on becoming an interesting and charming woman of quality that men would want to spend time with because of you? And not because you making them wait for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 06:41 PM
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There are more East Asian people than there are white people. Somebody must be fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 06:37 PM
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Don't men pay escorts for the discreetness? If you are out there doxxing your Johns, you ain't a very good escort.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 04:54 PM
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Party of small government am I rite?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 04:33 PM
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You wanted mens rights Ami rite?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 04:30 PM
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I felt like this at the end of the Lord of the Rings.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 04:29 PM
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You are looking at this the wrong way. People who can't feel happy unless they are in a relationship, are inherently needy and desperate. They send messages out to other people: being with me is so miserable that even I can't stand to be with myself. I mean if you can't enjoy time with yourself, if you don't see a reason to treat yourself nicely when alone, why do you think another person should find a reason to enjoy time with you? And the reality is you are not really searching for a partner, …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 04:29 PM
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And yet they are fucking like bunnies.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 04:16 PM
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Everybody knows that Indian and Asian men don't get laid. That's why there is only 3 billion of those motherfuckers out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 12:37 PM
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So you admit there is no definition of what high value is?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 02:57 AM
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Tool
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 07:20 PM
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Yeah you are not tapping this pussy very deep or very skillfully. Perhaps you can get a third?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 04:52 PM
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I don't understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 02:25 AM
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I'm all for men going around the world and figuratively spreading their seed. Part of our genetic diversity is because of brave men who left their tribes and sought out new ass. The issue I have is that these guys treat this as some sort of "I will show these American/UK/Canadian skanks". If you are doing this because you have unresolved resentment and anger towards women because they weren't into you, then I just feel bad for you. Passport broing is just a band aid on a gaping wound of low self…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:11 AM
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I would look at both like I have their ankles behind their ears and I'm pumping their pussy. Then I look at them like I flip them over, face down, ass up and I go to town. If they look at me back, they need to get fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:19 PM
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You actually don't have to say anything. You just need to live it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 10:16 PM
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Wearing my favorite metal band shirt that has 5,000 holes in it and completely in washable pit stains (now that O think of it I don't think I've ever tried washing it).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 08:59 PM
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Most women are super shy. Men feeling intimidated and scared of a woman is completely irrational. They don't know kingfu or karate. They are not ninjas. They don't posses some supernatural powers. The only power women have over you is the power that YOU give to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:16 PM
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There is no friendzone if you should up as a guy who fucks and makes it clear that that's what he's there for. The friendzone exists for guys who hide their sexuality in order to sneak in under the radar.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:15 PM
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What disservice? I can ascertain if you are going to be good in bed. If you are not why even bother seeing you again nevermind buying you dinner?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 01:48 PM
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I can say I have standards and I require you show me your blow job skills before I buy you dinner. How well do you think this will go over?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 01:08 PM
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Since when is a man a meal ticket?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:24 PM
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So you are saying the woman is really a whore who was expecting to be wined and dined? The only reason she showed up and not because she likes the man for who he is? I try to always defend you ladies, but you do sure make it hard sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:54 AM
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Hey, you guys always talk about high value this high value that. Now you are saying it's a "value judgment"? Well yeah, it is. When someone says high value, people tend to assume someone who is educated, has a good job, status in society, respected, etc. again, not saying guys like that don't get laid or married, obviously they do. But women also pick shitty low value men all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 11:17 PM
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My point is that female attraction has nothing to do with any notion of a high value man. Guys can't even agree what high value is and who does the measuring of said value. Does your value need to be over 100 points. What if you are at 99.99, do you magically not have enough value? The thing that really matters is boldness and taking risks. That's what women look for. Someone who goes for it. Not pussies who spend all their time lamenting that they are only 5'9 and that female attractions starts…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 09:54 PM
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Lol, you talk as if there is some sort of problem to resolve. Women just like to complain. That's all. They'd still rather fuck someone who turns them on even if they know the guy won't stick around.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 06:07 PM
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Actually reality is completely contrary to your argument. Female high standards and pickiness are a myth. Women pick shitty men to fuck all the time: drug dealers, criminals, men in actual prison, abusers, wife beaters, etc. men are absolutely not overestimating their value not even close. Infinitely more men labor under delusions of inadequacy then delusions of grandeur. You need just a cursory glance at most male posters to figure out the self defeating messages they send to themselves every s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 06:06 PM
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The way it works is that women get hornier the more sex they have and men get less horny the more sex they have (with the same person). A guy gets very aroused by a new partner but after a few short months, the urgency to impregnate them falls off. The brain literally tells you been there done that, if she would have gotten pregnant by now it would have happened, so you need to move on to the next hot thing. It is true that men remain horny in relationships but not horny for the same woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 02:44 AM
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So which one of the numerous studies I find referenced that say the same thing is the wrong one?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 06:55 PM
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You couldn't be more wrong. All the traits that women go for when ovulating are associated with higher testosterone, such as height, muscularity, square jaw, facial hair, deep voice, more aggressive and confident behavior. That's what is referred to as masculinity. source "how Sex Works" by Dr. Sharon Moalem https://www.amazon.com/How-Sex-Works-Smell-Taste/dp/0061479667
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 06:08 PM
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I beg to differ: https://youtu.be/Dk5zliabPjM
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 04:28 PM
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Women have a dilemma. Most of them absolutely love SEX, but not if it comes at a cost to their reputation. Since in most women's and most men's minds, the more sex a woman has the less valuable she is as a partner and as a human being, it greatly curtails a woman's willingness to engage in sex wjth a man purely for recreational purposes. BUT, if the man doesn't count, then she can have all the sex she wants with him and not have to detract from her reputation or value. So just become a guy who d…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 01:39 PM
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My personal opinion? You must value whatever's between your legs way more than I do, cause I ain't waiting for it more than three dates. At one point, nobody wants to deal with your hang ups and phobias especially if you are not even going to be that good in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 11:14 AM
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Now we are getting somewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 11:11 AM
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Aha, now we are getting somewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 11:10 AM
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Got it - your story is that you are the worlds biggest victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 11:10 AM
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Good one
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 11:09 AM
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Why are men hell bent on maintaining at all cost the delusional story that they are worthless and no good? Serious question. What do you gain from that story?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 02:31 AM
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He is trying to paint men as the biggest victims in humanity's history. Hence why he is trying to win the Victim Olympics.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:36 PM
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Some people are trying to win the victim Olympics over here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:20 PM
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Who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 02:20 PM
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MEN: "She slept with me on the first date and I didn't even have to buy her dinner? What a fucking dirty slut, her n count must be through the roof because there is NO WAY any self respecting woman will sleep with a guy like me so fast unless she was doing it wjth everyone". Also MEN: "She made me wait 3 dates to have sex, that scheming, game playing, manipulating harlot. I will show her. I'm sure she sucked Chad's cock an hour after meeting him at least once in her life."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 11:06 AM
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By the way they look, how long do you think it's been since any of them have had dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 12:05 AM
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Dude, really not interested in the weird, irrational stories you are telling yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 01:42 PM
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No they are not. It's just that most men are so insecure that they turn women off before they even open their mouths.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 01:32 PM
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Slightly off topic, but I've been meaning to start this project where I will take photos of random couples throughout the day and compline them in a post here on PPD to show guys actual proof that the majority of men women date are not 6'5" Arnold look alikes, but regular guys of all shapes, sizes and races. I won't go as far as interviewing them to see if they met online, but that would be a nice addition to the experiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 11:00 AM
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Bro, there aren't enough 6'5" millionaire Chads with 8" schlongs to bang all the average chubby girls out there. There aren't even enough of those guys to bang all the hot 9s and 10s. Just relax and go talk to some girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 10:53 AM
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Every single woman wants to feel like she EARNED her man's attention and tenderness. Guys who gives those away freely before there is a relationship established are basically throwing their relationship currency away. When they do that, it becomes worthless because the woman didn't do anything to earn it. Guys approach this whole relationship thing from the wrong perspective. You all start with the premise of: "I need to impress this woman and earn her affection, so I will act chivalrous, courte…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 10:49 AM
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She said she doesn't do anal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 01:31 AM
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Hot pants and tank top with high heels or death. Accept no substitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 01:28 AM
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Do you have a source that's not the Institute for Family Studies or trust me bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 09:24 PM
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Wow
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 09:10 PM
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I think you are projecting your own views of male nature on this argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 06:45 PM
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Women very much have estrus that lasts about 3-5 days a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 06:43 PM
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Think about it. If women hated sex so much and it was sooooo hard to get them in bed because sex was unenjoyable for them, why does every major religion make sure to restrict female sexuality as much as possible? From making them deathly afraid of adultery and threatening them with eternal damnation to making them dress like ninjas. Why? Why? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 06:39 PM
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https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/people-without-underarm-protection/
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 06:30 PM
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I don't see how bitterness helps anyone. If anything, you need to be setting the rules before you start dating a guy. If you let them set the rules, you may not like them very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:23 PM
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Of course I tell them! That doesn't stop women from falling in love of course, but the sad reality is you will break hearts and your heart will get broken. Such is life. I feel bad about you getting lead on, but if you browse through this sub you will see why men do this. They are such pussies that they can't ever be honest with women about what they want. They fear if they told a woman they are not looking for a relationship right now, that the woman will curse their souls. Instead, many of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:10 PM
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I slept with my now wife on our first date. Never did it occur to me that she's easy or this or that. If anything, I applauded her for making a great choice because I consider myself a quality guy. So I assumed she slept me because I'm a quality guy not because of something else. Now, why I would not commit to a woman that I am hooking up with? It really has nothing to do wjth the woman herself or how soon she slept with me. It's all about the particular headspace I'm in at the moment. If I'm no…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:55 PM
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When you give up the concept of fairness and equality when it comes to dating and mating, you will feel a lot of relief from the burden of irrational concepts and value systems.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 11:06 AM
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Have you seen Korean chicks? I just learned that they don't smell when they sweat! Why would anyone want to run away from that!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 11:03 AM
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The uncle of a girl I was dating jokingly told me "Hope she is not as crazy as her mother, I think it skips a generation". He was not joking. It did not skip a generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:59 AM
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Go out? Friends? Who do you think we are? Rockefeller?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:58 AM
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Apparently virgins know more about the opposite sex than anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:57 AM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 11:08 PM
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Every animal has a courting ritual, a dance if you will, and so do humans. If you try to bypass this, you risk failure. Instead of looking at it as playing games, set some rules for yourself to keep your neediness in check. Neediness and attachment are always a man's biggest enemy. Women are always more intrigued by non-needy men who are indifferent and non-chalant. That's the badboy you guys all love to hate so much. He's just not easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 10:42 PM
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Firstly, sex is not really that big of a deal. You value that thing between your legs way more than most guys do. Honestly? It's not that big of a deal. Second, would you want to have one meal for the rest of your life? Only watch one movie for the rest of your life? Never go outside of your neighborhood for the rest of your life? How would you even know the guy you end up marrying is any good if you have never experienced anyone else? If you are applying for a job are you ever going to apply fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 07:40 PM
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It sounds like you are just using this as an excuse not to put yourself out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 07:32 PM
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That's a really stupid reason to wait tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 07:31 PM
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Living your life to please others is always a winning strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 07:30 PM
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It's so simple really. Men go for looks. An extremely good looking women can be the biggest piece of shit in the world and men will still simp after her. Women go for boldness and balls. A guy will balls can be a total psychopath and abuser and women will still simp after him. It's a sad reality but we must live in it. Men are no more noble with their propensity to blow their hard earned money on strippers and OF girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 05:34 PM
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Who is asking you to become a criminal to get some ass? All I am saying is that female choosiness and wanting the top 20% of the finest male specimen is a total myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 05:32 PM
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You guys are so needy for even a basic interaction with a woman and this is what makes you so fucking unappealing. Why can't you understand that your neediness is what makes you unattractive and not your jawline or height.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:46 PM
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You can go and have a harem right now. All you need to do is be honest with the women that you are seeing that you are not looking for anything serious right now and that all you can offer them is some mutually respectable fun time between the sheets. I guarantee you this will land much better than pretending you want a relationship with a woman only to get into her pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 02:44 PM
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This is the stupidest thing I've ever heard. Put aside your happiness and relationships and sex so you can go work on your pension fund. Then when you are 60 and your dick won't work, then pursue relationships. Can't get any dumber than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 02:43 PM
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Women crave security the way men crave approval. For a woman marriage is security. She commits her sex to one exclusive client in return for a lifetime of being taken care of. For men marriage is the ultimate stamp of approval from his family, friends and society at large. Because if he got married then he is not an incel loser who can't get a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 02:42 PM
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Female choosiness and pickiness is a myth. Have you noticed women constantly pick shitty men to have sex and relationships with? Abusers, ex cons, guys in actual prison, cheaters, scammers, etc. The myth of female pickiness and high standards really needs to die already.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 02:40 PM
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If women used the same logic that the Red Pill uses to attack men and over generalize the actions of a few to condemn the many, men would even be able to step out of our houses. I mean, men constantly kill and rape women and do horrible things. But you don't ever see any Red Piller complain about that? But oh my god, some thot went out with a guy to a fancy restaurant and then told him she only wants to be friends and it's like WWIII broke out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 02:38 PM
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There are too many motherfuckers on this planet already and we are quickly killing it. Unchecked growth is what cancer does.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 02:35 PM
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Are you wiggling because you are trying to adjust your body so he can hit the spot? Like if someone was scratching your back but was an inch away from the spot and you wiggle around so you can adjust right on the itchy spot?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:28 AM
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My best advice? Whatever technique you learned from your favorite porn actor or from that friend of yours, that you think always works to get a girl off? Toss it in the garbage because chances are it's useless. Basically, every woman is unique in how she responds to arousal and what gets her off. One woman's clit may be as sensitive as a butterflies wings. Another, you may need a belt sander to get any reaction from her down there. One girls nipples you can blow on and she will be close to orgas…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 12:11 AM
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Lol, I'm almost 42 and look the best I've ever looked in my life. I eat the best food, drink the best booze, take the best vacations, use the best cosmetics. I value myself and my health and it shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 12:06 AM
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One of my favorite "dating" gurus uses this line: women want to be taken on an adventure, they don't want to BE the adventure". In other words, women are attracted to guys who know where they are going and are enjoying the ride and if she wants to join great! They all seek to attach themselves to a guy who knows where he's going. If you are a guy who's only adventure is a woman, then you are a needy little boy who needs his mommy to make him feel good about himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 12:04 AM
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Bitch please, nobody be going to Germany to get their cock carousel fix.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 11:59 PM
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At this point in my life, if I were to ever date again, I would very much like to not be the sole source of dick in a woman's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 10:51 PM
1

Stop wanting g it and just focus on having fun with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 12:38 PM
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I went to school on another country and lost girls seemed to be fucking a lot. Then I moved to the US and I have to say not enough women are real sluts here. We need more. Americans have a weird relationship with sex. Women believe it's the most valuable thing they have to offer and men treat pussy like it's made of diamonds. It creates a very unhealthy dynamic. Very different from places like Eastern Europe, France, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 11:32 AM
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How's that stopping you from fulfilling your needs?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 11:00 PM
1

And then what? Say your mother had a stroke and she become wheelchair bound. Is she all of a sudden worthless? Who gets to decide her value as a human being? Who is the judge, who is the jury? Is there a scale of some sorts for judging value? How many units does one need to accrue to be worthwhile? 5, 10...a million? Units of what? Worthiness? See, the concept of value and worthiness is absurd to begin with. It's a made up value system. It means nothing. It only means what we make it to mean in …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:45 PM
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Easy. Women are socially conditioned to believe that their ONLY value in this world is their SEX. Nothing else matters. So a woman whose sex gets rejected is akin to getting her entire soul and being rejected. For men, it's different. We are taught that we have many aspects of our personality and being that can be valuable, so getting turned down for our sex is painful but not nearly as devastating as it is to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:10 PM
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It's a closed system. Men are having sex with women. For every sex a man has, a woman has the corresponding sex wjth him. We are not fucking some third gender that would account for the discrepancies. Okay? Take ops example of 5 men and 5 women who can only duck each other and determine how the men can have more sexual partners than the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:15 PM
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Source: trust me bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:55 PM
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Even when you win you lose. Am I rite? Up is down, left is right, black is white.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:54 PM
1

When you assume you make an ass out of u and me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:51 PM
1

A man become more attractive the bigger his balls get. Shows me how much you know about women (hint: zero).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:18 PM
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A man become more attractive the bigger his balls get. Shows me how much you know about women (hint: zero).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:18 PM
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Savage
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:15 PM
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I will use a single example that will refute your entire argument. Take a criminal. A serial killer. A completely worthless human being by your standards, correct? Yet, many serial killers have groupies and women willing to marry them. There are many cases of female prison guards sleeping with inmates. So there you go. Your argument is refuted. Your assumptions are erroneous.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:10 PM
1

Right! Because being a wallflower works so much better lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:41 PM
2

Let's take this one down. The other title is a bit more catchy. Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:06 PM
10

Things will change for you when you stop seeing yourself as the victim and rather as the cause of your problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:55 PM
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Your premise that needy men are repulsive is correct. In general, humans are repulsed by needy people who want something from them. The bum who approaches you is immediately repulsive and you don't want to give them anything. It is also true that neediness is a bigger problem for men then it is for women. But your biggest mistake is assuming that just because someone has easy access to sex, that means they are also loved and that this will solve all of their mental health problems. Actually you …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:33 PM
17

What you are saying is that YOU don't believe you are lovable as you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:15 PM
1

Oh god the cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:36 PM
10

Here is the problem with value? What is high value? By your definition someone who contributes a lot to society. Let's say you had a baby. A baby contributes zero to society and is actually a drain on social resources. If your baby worthless then? What if your best friend or brother or sister were a bit of a bum and didn't have a great job and sort of coasted through life? Are they worthless? Do they have no value? I bet you wouldn't think that. See, measuring peoples value and worthiness is a c…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 10:59 AM
7

Wait until OP hears about cheating and divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:06 AM
1

Lol you are clueless. None of this is even remotely true.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:50 AM
4

Stop hogging all the pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:45 AM
3

The funny thing is that PUA is totally unnecessary and most of the guys worth listening to wouldn't be caught alive calling themselves PUAs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 07:19 PM
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Wow look at that! Men want to fuck women? How dare they! Monsters!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 04:38 PM
1

Is this the Victim Olympics?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 02:20 PM
2

So you are saying female attraction is not really about looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 02:18 PM
4

This guy was consistently rated by women as one of the sexiest men alive when he was alive. I don't know many guys that would rate him above a 4. ![gif](giphy|pOeaTGiDBZgYM)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:55 PM
16

Low self esteem, self loathing, lack of boundaries, endless drama. Guys look at a nice pair of tits and think this woman has her life figured out and she's the most confident person on earth, but it couldn't be further from the truth. Hot women are some of the most insecure and low self esteem people on Earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:36 PM
1

OF model probably not, but that's because I don't know how they fuck. An actual sex worker who makes money off of delighting her customers in the bedroom? Heck yeah!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:34 PM
0

You need to take some responsibility and stop excusing yourself buddy if you want to have any success in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:19 AM
3

Women initiate all the time, just not in the "hey hot stuff wanna get out of here" way that most men would want them to. But they will make eye contact, smile, hover around you, ask you something innocuous, dance in your line of sight, etc. Women are constantly sending signals to men out there. Also it's so funny to me that men are so scared of initiating a conversation yet shit ok women for not doing the same. Why do you think a woman is less scared than you are? She is weaker, shorter, (hopefu…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 10:55 AM
1

Sounds like social anxiety. You can get that fixed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 10:52 AM
5

And there are tons of men married to women that don't look like Megan Fox but that doesn't mean we don't want women like her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 10:49 AM
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It's funny to me that women have to lower themselves to showing their butthole on a laptop cam for money, but men still think women are the superior human beings. You can't make this shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 02:52 AM
9

Let me ask you something? Does it take work to call your friends? How much planning goes into organizing a happy hour with them? How laborious is spending few hours in their company? How scary it is to talk to them about all manner of things? I don't understand why men make talking to and dating women into such a huge deal as if they are scaling Mount Everest or dismantling a bomb.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 02:41 AM
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It takes tens of thousands of years for the human brain to evolve sufficiently. We are still working with the brains of cavemen and cavewomen.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:04 AM
1

Good one!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:56 AM
3

You don't need to go to that extreme. You can challenge yourself by going to some party place where women go to get laid and try until you do. Then you walk away with your "man card".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:51 AM
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You know, those cavemen ancestors of his all managed to procreate successfully and did so for millions of years. Think about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:50 AM
8

Rule #1: who cares what women think.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 10:23 PM
45

Status is and will always be the winner. Secretaries fuck their bosses. Stewardesses the pilots and cheerleaders the quarterback. Always has been always will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 10:12 PM
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That's true, but there have to be some basic prerequisites that are being met. The whole spiel of women only going for the top 5% is ridiculous. Even if that were true, those guys would never give most women the time of day. You can make the same argument that men only want to talk to the hottest thots out there. We do. But most of us have to settle for what we can get. You know why men do so poorly on apps? One there is more men than women there. Two, most men's profiles are like those dogs in …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 06:58 PM
3

You just don't get it do you. Women are not interested in your bank account value (well some are, but that's ALL they are interested in). They are interested in how much you value yourself. Any person who automatically tries to impress woman with his ability to provide and tries to secure a relationship around this ability, is basically communicating "I'm not a worthwhile person as I am so I have to use the promise of financial security as a crutch to overcome my non-existent value as a person."…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 04:39 PM
2

Actually OLD gives the geeky losers the illusion that they are doing something and trying. They tried "everything", which usually comes down to: I put 3 photos on a profile, wrote a bio, changed it up a few times and got only one match that ended up ghosting me. But I tried EVERYTHING!!! They can keep avoiding the things that actually make them anxious, such as mingling with women, putting themselves out there, trying new things and challenging their fears.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 03:00 PM
2

It's like a woman who leads with her fake boobs. Is that all you have to offer?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:50 PM
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He is saying that posts like this paint women as the enemy or at least some "other", who is extremely choosy, picky and ruthless in how they judge men. One little mistake and you are out and sexless and you will never be loved again. It breeds fear and resentment of women so men approach relationships from the perspective. They expect that women's default is to attack them and make their lives miserable. So they have a chip on their shoulder and try to preempt the perceived female aggressiveness…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:35 PM
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Here is the thing with the whole provider model of the world. When a man offers his ability to provide financial security to a woman, what he is saying in essence is that he doesn't have any value as a partner, so he had to bribe her with his provider status. The funny thing is that the provider role is the least sexy role you can play. Women literally settle for this guy because he has nothing else going for him except his ability to provide financial security to a woman. Do
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:20 PM
3

Never had the balls to try one of those Craigslist ads. I always assumed it was only for hookers or serial killers to find new victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 12:06 PM
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I haven't dated in 10 years, but regularly (innocently) flirt with women here and there. I'm 100% certain if I were tog etc divorced today, that I would have secured 3 dates by the end of the week. But that's me. I've overcome my fears of women a long time ago and have no issue approaching and talking to women. For other men, it will be much harder. As to whether things have changed so drastically. I think they have but not in the way that you think they have. You are blaming apps for inflating …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 10:58 AM
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Whatever you look like, I'm sure there are some guys out there willing to pay to fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 03:09 AM
1

You are still viewing sex as all or nothing though. You are either attached to chasing sex and making it the prize because it's a measuring stick of your self worth OR you sit home and do nothing. That's not at all what I propose. My point is to start viewing sex in a more healthy way without putting so much at stake on whether you are successful or not. Think about it like a game of pool. If you are out with friends and the bar happened to have a pool table and all of you are having fun and pla…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 03:09 AM
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Yeah keeping a woman is hard. Her keeping YOU is even harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 12:17 AM
3

Women love chasing men...who are not chasing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 07:03 PM
2

Your reading comprehension is off. You are latching on to a stupid line.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 05:13 PM
2

It works for normal men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 04:44 PM
1

What is there to work on?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 04:43 PM
1

Is your way working for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 04:32 PM
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Your question presupposes that you don't believe you are attractive. If you don't believe it, how do you do expect a girl to believe it? Again, you are just clinging to the line. Not to the fact that I said honesty must come from a man who has several prerequisites. You completely ignored those.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 04:00 PM
2

Here is an exercise to try. Go to bed 30 mins early. Lower the blinds, turn off TV, phone, etc. get comfortable and even place a damp towel over your eyes. I want you to imagine your ideal scenario and play it on your head until you fall asleep. Then the next night, you need to do the same and continue the story from where you left off. Do this 3 nights in a row. So the story needs to spread over 3 nights. Let's say night one, you go to your favorite Starbucks and see a beautiful girl. Just your…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 03:59 PM
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It's not gonna work for you because you are too scared to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 03:18 PM
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Lol, you couldn't be further from the truth. The most effective "game" is honesty. But it only works if there are several prerequisites. Honesty has to come from a guy who genuinely likes and respects himself. Who is proud of who he is, know who he is and is at peace with it. Honesty has to come from a guy who is willing and able to lead a woman on an adventure she'd like to go on. Women want to be taken on an adventure, they don't want to be his adventure. This includes being confident enough t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 02:54 PM
0

Deep throating will do that to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 01:03 PM
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Yeah that's what I find so hilarious. Men thinking they have game and are trying to play women. Women have 100X your game and will run circles around you. I've witnessed the exact same thing as you described above. Thinking for an hour how to send a text that doesn't sound too interested. Timing her responses so she doesn't appear too eager. Never double texting. Not replying on purpose for a day or so. All in the mistaken belief it will make the man chase her. Although it does work. And guys ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 12:08 PM
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Can you point out what the exact manipulation involved was? I'm not entirely clear here. Like play for play please.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 12:04 PM
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Honesty, trust and respect. That's the foundation. Everything else is whatever you want. There is so much variety of girls out there. Skinny, thick, chubby, different races, small boobs, big boobs, small ass, big ass, small ass and small boobs and big ass and big boobs. Butterfaces and pretty faces. Try them all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 11:55 AM
2

I've done with my wife pretty much everything I've done with other girlfriends except ass to mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 11:54 AM
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When were you planning on fucking her? At this rate when you are both 80?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 11:53 AM
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The whole thing about women being this and that. It's just a bunch of othering, painting women as the enemy that needs to be manipulated and deceived in order to get sex. The whole battle of the sexes dynamic is not only ridiculous, it is completely irrational and if it were true, our species wouldn't have survived for millions of years. Those guys are writing war and peace treatises to explain what a 16 year caveman 500,000 years ago did based on pure instinct and horniness
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 02:50 AM
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Most men have no idea what they want and even if they did, they lack the focus and drive to go get what they want. They all say they want a steady, forever GF, yet none of them do the things that are required to get them a girlfriend. They complain they can't get casual sex, yet instead of finding them in a bar Im or a club on Saturday night, they are at home playing video games and jerking off hentai.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 02:47 AM
2

My criteria is pretty simple: MUST DO ANAL
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 02:40 AM
2

I have a very similar story. The biggest revelation is that the majority of men don't actually want to be helped. They are not genuinely looking for solutions. They get a lot of advantages from feeling angry, self righteous, feeling self pity, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 04:31 PM
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Here is the typical conversation that goes on whenever that question is asked. Person A: so what it is that you want. Person B: a girlfriend who loves me Person A: What have you tried to do to get that? Person B: I've tried everything. Person A: what does that mean? What is "everything"? Please define Person B: everything means everything. I've tried everything and it didn't work. I'm not going to list the things I've tried. You have to take my word for it. I've tried everything. I definitely do…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 04:28 PM
1

Only people obsessed with sec are those who are not getting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 04:24 PM
0

Men don't need to change anything. They have to go out and get what they want. Women want men who know what they want and go for it. Repeat this a thousand times: women want a man who knows what HE wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 04:24 PM
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Think about that for a moment: working on your self implies that you don't believe you are good enough as you are. So it's a question of fixing the distorted belief that you are unlovable and not good enough. Fix that and dating becomes easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 04:23 PM
1

I think a huge part of the problem is how many men see sex. For them sex is not about pure pleasure. If it were about pleasure and fun wouldn't men want to go to the place that most likely guarantees that? If we're to use an everyday analogy: wouldn't they want to go to a Dave and Busters that is teeming with people and everyone goes there as opposed to that bar across the street with one lonely alcoholic always there? Which place would guarantee more fun? But that's not how they view sex. They …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 12:37 PM
1

And now we've hit the real crux of the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 12:22 PM
5

He is the owner of a penis and testicles and that entitles him to project his opinions onto every single man on earth. Is this your first time on PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 12:21 PM
2

Of all my years man whoring around, I came across only two virgins. I tried taking both of them to bed just for the heck of it and they were the biggest pain in the ass. I bet if sex would have happened it would have sucked. No thank you! You can keep your virgins, but I assure you there aren't that many that are still virgins past 16.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 12:15 PM
1

Don't know what sausage land you live in bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 11:11 PM
2

Well, you need to be honest with people. Tell them not to expect a relationship and that you are not that "kind of guy". Be honest. You will find more women will be okay with this if you lay out up front instead of trying to lie to them and deceive them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 06:51 PM
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I don't know if a random graph with no references taken from a random blog serves as any kind of proof. At here is a study that was conducted by a market research firm: https://ogury.com/wp-content/uploads/Dating-Study_Oct-Dec-2018.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 06:24 PM
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It's really not some kind of a conspiracy as to why men don't do well on apps. Even in the best of cases, the ratio of men to women on apps is like 3:1. In the worst cases it can be 10:1. If a bar or a club had that sort of skewed gender ratio, it would go out of business. But on app you don't get to see the total population and are therefore not facing the reality of skewed gender ratios. But in a club? You know within seconds if it is a sausage farm.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 03:55 PM
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Interestingly a friend of ours was complaining that her (now ex) BF would always talk about how much money he spent on his ex GF and all the trips they went on that he paid for, and the friend was feeling cheated because he did a 180 with her and never paid for anything or took her anywhere nice. I guess that's the female version of guy going out with a reformed slut who makes him wait for six months and only does it missionary because she's changed and doesn't do the naughty sex stuff anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 03:07 PM
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The issue is not enjoyment of the act itself. It's what was promised, implicitly or explicitly, in exchange for it. So a guy will play along and pretend he is genuinely interested in a woman and gives her the impression he will stick around and call her the next day, only to get his and never be seen again. Same as the woman who goes out with a guy, feigns interest in him while he is paying for their dinner, drinks and a show only to tell him at the end of the night when he goes for the kiss "I …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 03:04 PM
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By and large the most common date rape drug is alcohol and it is always self administered.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 02:57 PM
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https://imgur.com/a/NpaInvq
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:19 AM
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My argument was about how some people approach dating and relationships, which seems to be very common with the men at PPD. The approach is the following: Look for what's missing in his life: usually sex, gf, wife Start looking for candidates to fill the particular slot that he is missing. As long as candidates fit the criteria that the slot is asking for, he is good to go. Now look at the above and tell that's not dehumanizing to a woman? How would it feel if a woman picked you simply because s…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:30 AM
1

You can always have sex wjth men. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:21 PM
2

Guys always manage to spin everything into how they are the biggest victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:20 PM
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Why do women have unrealistic expectations? Because some sucker somewhere actually did the thing they are expecting instead of telling her to go pound sand. You guys let women get away with murder and then wonder why women are out there "murdering".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 12:27 PM
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There is a little distinction. A guy will look at a woman and will either be attracted to her or not purely based on physical traits. Once he gets to know her that may or may not change. Now, his attraction will not change if he knows there are 5 other guys pursuing her. On the other hand a woman may look at a man and feel blah about him. He is just another dude. But then she finds out he has a girlfriend and that his ex is still into him and that he has slept with some of her friends and he's g…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 10:48 AM
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Yeah never admit that you were a dateless loser before you met her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 01:43 AM
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If women match with a 1000 in 2 hours, who is fucking all these women? Are they fucking their dogs? Aliens? Inanimate objects? Who is fucking all these women if they have so much choice? Let's not talk about fucking. Let's talk about matching. If she matches with a 100 guys, who are those guys? Why are you not one of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 01:39 AM
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You have it backwards. See, both men and women project their mating mechanisms onto the other gender. What do men want? What is the male fantasy? It's literally a guy sitting in his underwear at home drinking a beer and watching a game. He gets horny and a beautiful, naked horny woman magically shows up at his door and they start having sex. The plot of every porno ever. In other words, men want easy. So they go out and throw themselves at women, thinking if they make it easy for the woman, the …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 01:37 AM
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You are hearing what you want to hear. Distorting my words through the prism of your perception that's colored by bitterness and fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:29 PM
2

Bro so you don't even try to interact with women and you wonder why you are not getting any pussy? Are you autistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:28 PM
-2

So be a bigger simp, what's the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:07 PM
-1

So be a bigger simp, what's the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:07 PM
1

Oy vey
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:05 PM
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First of all, you should probably stop hanging out with so many old, lonely men who are about to die. Not good for your mental health. Second, I never said anything about shunning women, or going your own way or any of that loser rhetoric which is what you are reading into it. My comment simply meant not to put up with poor behavior and treatment from women and to demand their respect. If they don't want to respect you, then you walk away. Apparently, too hard of a concept for some to grasp.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:54 PM
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There are already too many motherfuckers on this planet to keep making more. But happy to go through the motions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 02:14 PM
2

Do I have to quote your own post? "Unfortunately in many cases for all intents and purposes women are the choosers and men are the beggars....". Unless by chooser and beggar you mean something completely different. Look, I don't know a lot of things, but I know one thing for sure. There are two types of people in this world: those who suck dick and those who don't. Which one are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 01:18 PM
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Of course it worked out, because women are actually attracted to men who know their own value and refuse to deal with this BS. That's what most guys don't get. They think the answer is to act even more desperate. But unless you are willing to turn the other way and walk away from a woman and go home and jerkoff instead, none of this will help. It's like a business negotiation or buying a house. If you have already decided you need the deal/house and are not willing to seek an alternative, the ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 11:05 AM
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Lol, you couldn't be more wrong and your attitude of "women are the choosers and men are the beggars" is the exact thing that's tripling you up. Until you change that belief, you will always be a second rate beta. Women do NOT want to lead the relationship. They do NOT want to be the boss. In all the world's religions, women are in the submissive position and they feel comfortable there (except for some of the crazy ones that make them dress like ninjas). This is the reality. And here comes mode…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:55 AM
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Why should you settle just so you can fill a slot for a GF/BF/Husband/Wife? That's so dehumanizing of in itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:52 AM
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Initiating and pursuing are two completely different things. Initiating comes from a position of power. You know what you want and you go find it. Pursuing is trying to convince another person to choose you. Going out of your way to accommodate them. Trying to get them excited about being with you. It has nothing to do with whomever initiated the interaction. As a matter of fact, a lot of women are also the initiators just in more subtle ways that most men are too dumb to be aware of. But who do…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:51 AM
2

Approval from society.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 02:16 AM
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I will tell you a little secret. Women want men who know what they want. Most of the time they end up with selfish guys who only care about themselves. It's just like the guys who only want hot women and are blinded by beauty to their bitchiness or stupidity and then end up getting railroaded. When a man is not blinded by beauty he has a much easier time staying in control of the relationship. When a woman is blinded by a guy's strength and ambition, she is blind to him being an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 02:16 AM
1

I think TRP makes men even more afraid of women than they already are. Instead of showing them "here, women are flawed human beings, nothing to be afraid of", they paint them as these monsters who need to be manipulated, looked down upon and used. All the macho manly RedPillers are terrified of women and getting butthurt over some chick who may do them dirty.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 01:49 AM
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You haven't been paying attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 12:21 AM
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In my experience they were just a bunch of angry, sexually frustrated guys who needed some guidance and a friend. For some reason they make women out to be some enemy, a mysterious aliens force that is all powerful and needs to be controlled and subjugated yet feared. In other words guys who didn't get laid enough (or at all) in high school and college.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 12:17 AM
1

Attractive women don't even exist on the same planet as you. They are immortal all powerful beings free of any human suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:06 PM
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The machine is mankind's madness and disfigurement. Industry castrates art. The only honesty is in suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:55 PM
2

Preservation of the species. That's our evolutionary imperative and everything is is subjugated to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 11:06 AM
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I don't get what the problem is? If you want a woman, go out and get one. Hell, get two, they are tiny.the whining is not helping anyone. It's just keeping you from getting what you want. Focus on what you want and pursue it until you get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 11:04 AM
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It's not my value per se, but as I have gotten older I care less about other's opinions of me. I just care less and give way less fucks and have also developed zero tolerance for bullshit. It makes walking away from bad relationships and people very easy. In a way it gives me an immense power because I can take it or leave it. For some reason, this seems to attract many women both much younger and older than I.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 10:48 AM
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It's not though. It's about treating yourself the way you think you will treat that dream wife of yours. How many men treat themselves well in the absence of others?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:54 PM
3

Can't fuck a career.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:04 PM
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I don't think women control the dating market per se. It's more that men give up their power and control because they get so desperate to be liked. If anything, men should up their standards and stop being so easy. Literally the most unattractive thing a man can do is adopt an aura of neediness and desperation and being unable to be happy without female attention. It's pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:52 PM
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If most men are like the guys here and so easily offendable, it's no wonder women don't want to be honest with you. You will probably kill the messenger.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:38 PM
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If you want good female dating advice, I suggest these two videos: Part 1 https://youtu.be/lnnyFvKzO5g Part 2 https://youtu.be/5rOfuUq1sVg
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:00 PM
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My theory is because of genetic diversity. A man that she gets used to, used to his smell, taste, behavior, etc., becomes familiar. Familiar comes from the word for "family". And any man she could be related to will result in retarded children. I believe it's in our human dna to seek out new genes to mate with. The exact same thing happens with men. We get tired of boinking one woman. We've been there done that. Time to move on and fertilize another pair of eggs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 12:41 PM
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Boy oh boy. Reading the comments here makes it clear why so many of you are having extreme trouble with women. Even if I were to ignore the reactionary anger and dismissiveness just because the poster of the video happened to be a woman, the lack of social and emotional IQ is astounding. Let's think about it this way. Imagine that you were in this woman's predicament. You are leaving a store with your children and all of a sudden a 6'7" man, weighing 270 lbs of pure muscle who is obviously juici…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:56 AM
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Firstly, I don't think you really understand what the term "insecurity" means. You are saying stuff like men should be ashamed of their insecurities, when insecurity itself is caused by shame. By believing that something about you is wrong or bad or a vulnerability. Yes, women do get more leeway regarding insecurities mostly because society has given them the power to be victims. Do you see how every woman is a victim of something? She's 25 and dated a 26 year old who didn't call her back. OMG, …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 09:36 PM
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I'm sure internet porn is just a passing fad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 09:31 PM
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Do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 09:27 PM
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Yet so many lonely nerdy men in supply that no one demands and yet they don't disappear.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 07:06 PM
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You shit on these women but it sounds like you put in ZERO effort in your appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:53 PM
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It's kind of like the nice guy/asshole paradigm. Guys claim they want submissive, traditional virgins but the reality is they LOVE chasing bitches who don't give them the time of day.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:49 PM
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I don't follow?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:37 PM
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Or, wait for it....you can be both depending on what YOU want. Because you know, we humans, have the capacity to change our minds about what we want and adopt strategies to go get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:50 AM
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If you are alive today, you are not only the direct result of the winner of a billion of sperms swimming towards an egg. You are also the direct descendant of the first human to ever walk the plains of Africa. This means all of your ancestors procreated successfully. Yet here you are, unable to get a girl .
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 04:15 AM
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Men are too fixated on chasing women and being the pursuer. Which is funny because that's the most ineffective strategy. Women LOVE chasing hard to get men. But if you are so fucking needy and easy to get, what challenge is there in getting you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:01 AM
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Actually men control that but of course, they don't know that they do. Let's look at it from this perspective. You, a guy, come across a girl who is skanky, is showing off skin and makes it painfully obvious she wants just one thing: what do you do? Do you court her, take her out on dates and treat her nicely hoping you will get laid after the 5 date? Of course not! She makes it clear what she's about so you may as well bang right away. Now imagine you meet a girl who seems high value, she dress…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 10:01 PM
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Oh god; you make the same ol mistake that pick up artists used to make thinking all of this is a video game and all you need to do is press the right combination of keys to make a woman love you. Women are not that complicated. Hell, they are not even that picky. Have you noticed that women picky really terrible shitty men to fuck all the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 09:54 PM
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I'm on my way to pick up my boyfriend who just go out of jail. Yes, he was in there for assault and bodily injury. Yes, he almost killed the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 09:51 PM
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How can they claim to be "Fresh" when they fit 50 people in that conference room. The BO must be off the charts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 08:22 PM
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https://imgur.com/a/NpaInvq
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 04:04 PM
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I'm going to leave this here which encapsulates how women feel about personal responsibility: https://imgur.com/a/NpaInvq
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 04:03 PM
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Yeah but they will do it for $5 bucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:36 PM
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Being more attractive will give you options. Sometimes these options are thrusted in your face as opposed to you going out to find them. I've probably had the most women interested in me around the time I got engaged. I completely stopped needing other women and that drove them crazy for some reason. What I'm getting to is that if you have a lot of choices, you will be less likely to remain stuck in a miserable relationship. And cheating can become an easy way out. But does this mean that attrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:08 PM
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IMHO, this is just another version of putting women on a pedestal. You start by assuming they are these infallible creatures and when they make mistakes, you come down on them and renounce them. Maybe the answer is somewhere in the middle. That women, like men, are flawed, fucked up people who mostly make mistakes and act in irrational and self-serving ways. But if you accept that, you will also have to accept that you as a male are fucked up and flawed and act ik irrational and self-serving way…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 02:39 PM
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Not nearly enough to explain the 2:1 ratio of "in relationship" vs "single" discrepancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 12:53 PM
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Again, women are not property to be taken from someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 12:07 PM
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Congrats on losing your virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 11:39 AM
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Or, or, just hear me out, bruh. Maybe women are not property and are fully capable of making decisions about who to give their vagina to, be it yourself, another guy or a large farm animal if they so choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 11:38 AM
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Seeing that the male and female ratio is relatively 50/50 wjth women actually outnumbering men by quite a bit later in life, I don't know how those numbers make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 11:37 AM
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I know they like to take it up the ass
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 11:32 AM
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I disagree with your premise vehemently. Your parents made a choice to have you and the burden and responsibility is on their shoulders. You had no choice in it, hence no responsibility. Authority = responsibility. It's like your boss saying "if you don't make sure the weather is going to be sunny tomorrow for the company picnic, you will be fired".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 11:30 AM
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Correct! A rich loser is better than a poor loser. And if being able to spend money makes you feel good about yourself, fantastic! But still, your value depends on external factors and not internal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 11:01 PM
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https://swimsuit.si.com/.image/c_fit%2Ccs_srgb%2Cfl_progressive%2Cq_auto:good%2Cw_620/MTY5MjQzMTk2NTI3ODEzOTIx/swim163_tk3_0788-rawwmfinal1920jpg.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 05:48 PM
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I just jizzed a little in my pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 05:46 PM
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Also De'Borah from Milf Island: https://youtu.be/YqJNgAP2QnU https://2.bp.blogspot.com/-uaBpGygfTdc/UwjkLF9BVuI/AAAAAAAAAmw/Y481woA2iBA/s1600/deirdra+goodwin+.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 05:45 PM
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I need a big ass to fuck hard. But that's just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 05:34 PM
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Of course it does. The question is what do you consider acceptable to you. You can be like every man out there and desperately look for the approval of your peers and only pursue the things that will get you approval OR be your own man and only do the things that make complete sense to you whether they are approved by society or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:49 PM
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https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcT0duROVpleNsxVHryy7Z8MEl9npwWuEA6ram1t_ltx1w&usqp=CAU&ec=48600112 https://assets.teenvogue.com/photos/5ce4738f5527927f80fedc8a/master/w_320%2Cc_limit/10_Warrior_135.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 03:28 PM
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And you are basing your statement on what? Of yeah, an unscientific study from a dating website from 2010!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 03:16 PM
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https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10764-005-4375-x
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 03:04 PM
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If that were true, we'd be all inbred after just a few generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:57 PM
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There is not enough men for your math to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:30 PM
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Is it? So why aren't more men doing it? You do understand that when you lead with your money, you are essentially communicating to a woman that you are worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:11 PM
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Really? Thai strip clubs are not "unique"? Do Canadian strippers shoot ping pong balls out their vagina and into your mouth?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 12:08 PM
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So why need women at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 12:05 PM
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The interesting thing is if men really did value sexual gratification so much, they would select sexually experienced women because they would be much more likely to sexually gratify them than some girl who's never seen a dick before. Just like I wouldn't go to a dentist that's never worked on teeth before or surgeon who has never performed surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:58 AM
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Oh, these guys absolutely do believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:56 AM
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If you think women want money, you don't know the first thing about women. Women don't want a man with valuable things. They want a man who values himself. Apparently, that's extremely rare these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:51 AM
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Why are you making excuses for her?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:50 AM
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You don't need the permission of a bunch of strangers on the internet to go to Thailand and get laid bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:49 AM
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I mean if she was my girlfriend she definitely wouldn't be going to parties and clubs and meeting men. Ex or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:45 AM
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You helped men shave? Like their junk and stuff? Or their backs?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:39 AM
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Women spend 3 hours in the bathroom to get ready. What do you do in there all this time? Comb your pussy hairs to face the same direction? Check your ass out 20 times? Do a full enema? It's a mystery!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 01:39 AM
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Cummon dude? Women love to chase guys who don't give them the time of day. Tale as old as time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 12:50 AM
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Hmmm. Maybe women learning to be happy by themselves and not NEEDING men is what accounts for 67% of them being in relationships vs only 30% of guys. Maybe it's your NEED to be in a relationship that is driving women away from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 09:52 PM
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Get over yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 09:08 PM
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You are hearing what you want to hear, not what I am saying. Reread my comment a few more times.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 08:41 PM
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If average women are getting gang banged every other Friday, why are so many of you dudes sexless? Wouldn't it be reasonable to assume that if every avg fattie was getting 20 dicks a week, at least some of those dicks would belong to guys like you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 06:05 PM
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Of course! If sex was so good, why make it a one time thing? It makes zero sense. Sex may be abundant, but great sex is scarce and coveted.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 05:00 PM
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I think you are hearing what you want to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 05:00 PM
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Neither. The most important thing to one's happiness is how one feels about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 04:38 PM
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Lol, any man is pretty much guaranteed to get off wjth a woman. A woman on the other hand? The best she is going for is that he is not so terrible that she can't even finish the job herself. If she finds someone who can make her orgasm, she is definitely not going to jot call him because she is in party mode. Get real. If a woman has never wanted a repeat with you, just be a big boy and admit that you didn't actually make her cum no matter how much she was tossing around and telling you you are …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 04:32 PM
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Women don't go out looking for one night stands. They go out looking to get laid and hoping it wi be good enough that it warrants a repeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 04:11 PM
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Well, the fastest way to make a woman run for the hills is tell her you are interested in a relationship with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 04:09 PM
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That's a very good question. In my opinion, it's all about what expectations you set for the interaction. See, a woman will give something of value, I.e. her sex, in exchange of something else of value, I.e. a guy who sticks around, calls her later, cares about her, etc. A woman will feel used when she sleeps with a man who has promised her all of the above, only to disappear after the deed is done and never call her again. It is the same as the guy who spends a few hundred dollars taking a woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 03:04 PM
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Infinitely more men suffer from delusions of inadequacy then delusions of grandeur.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 10:51 AM
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Nah that's still playing the submissive, supplicant role. This one attitude is probably the biggest hurdle preventing men from having dating success. As long as they believe women have all the power and they have none, there will be severe power imbalance. Men just don't know the power they have. They give it away like retards.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 01:49 AM
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No, for men it's more like being an employer who goes out to recruit good employees. But the employer is still in control. That's the attitude you need to adopt. You are screening women not the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:37 PM
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You got to start with one. You get the first one and the other ones follow. Otherwise known as the Harem Principle.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:01 PM
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Yes, yes! That's a very good analogy. Except that you have it the exact opposite. The man is the one doing the hiring. He chooses which candidate he wants to invite for an interview. He decides which candidate he will call back. He decides which candidate he will give the job to and only if that candidate is very impressive and proves herself. You got it exactly right, just upside down.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:37 PM
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Honestly, if most guys are as damaged as most guys are on PPD, I wouldn't be surprised if it is true that only 5% of men get all the casual sex just by the virtue of being normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 07:49 PM
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Oh you only want to date 10s? Okay! And still didn't answer my question
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 07:47 PM
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Oh yeah? How do you really feel about yourself? If you met someone who looks like you, dresses like you, speaks like you, has had the exact same experiences, disappointments and successes as you and for all intensive purposes is you, but with a different name, would you be immediately best friends with that person?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 07:25 PM
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Lol you serious bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 07:22 PM
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Actually women value most of all how you feel about yourself. How many men do you know that really like themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 07:15 PM
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It has already been predicted: https://youtu.be/Dk5zliabPjM
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 07:13 PM
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Who is fucking all these women? A bunch of aliens? Their dogs? If a woman is getting casual, no strings attached sex, doesn't it follow that a man is also benefitting from that arrangement? After all, the woman is having sex with a man, not with a large farm animal. So why is only the woman benefitting?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 02:07 PM
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Who is fucking all these women? A bunch of aliens? Their dogs? If a woman is getting casual, no strings attached sex, doesn't it follow that a man is also benefitting from that arrangement? After all, the woman is having sex with a man, not with a large farm animal. So why is only the woman benefitting?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 01:56 PM
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Who is fucking all these women? A bunch of aliens? Their dogs? If a woman is getting casual, no strings attached sex, doesn't it follow that a man is also benefitting from that arrangement? After all, the woman is having sex with a man, not with a large farm animal. So why is only the woman benefitting?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 01:56 PM
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I mean you guys keep telling yourself the story that pussy is more precious than air. What incentive do women have to do anything differently?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:41 AM
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I don't understand how that's a problem for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:07 AM
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Online dating is so amazing for women that they rush to dating apps, where the male to female ratio is, wait for it.....3:1 in the BEST of cases and as bad as 10:1.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:04 AM
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There is always lipo.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:45 AM
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What's so disingenuous? That men refuse to do anything that can make them more appealing to the opposite sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:44 AM
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Men say women have it easy on the beauty front. And I've read these exact comments wjth my lying eyes.!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:43 AM
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There are so many "natural" beauties walking around, am I rite? Dude, women start with Botox in their teens and 20s these days. Just because you don't know doesn't mean it doesn't happen. Women go through way more drastic measures to make sure they are beautiful. If it all came down to the the gym, we'd all be Greek gods.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:42 AM
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The point is that women are expected to go under the knife if they want to be more attractive but suggest that a man change his haircut or dress better and it's like you are asking them to sell their soul to the Devil.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 12:26 AM
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You have to understand the science of genetic diversity. Since the beginning of time, women have been repulsed by men who look and behave like her family, because incest = retarded kids. So women learned to select for men who are different from everyone else they know. Who don't look like their family and most importantly who behave differently as well. Maybe that's a guy who is taller than others, who has more status or behaves like an alpha male. When you dress and behave differently from ever…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:16 PM
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Men to women: just have plastic surgery, get a Brazilian butt lift and liposuction. It's so easy, you have options. Women to men: it would be nice if men dressed stylishly....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:02 PM
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Yawn
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:46 PM
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Women are not hard to figure out. The problem is men are not willing to accept what women really want. Women are inherently security seeking creatures. Everything they do is looking for security one way or another. She dresses up to the t and goes out clubbing just to get attention? Attention = security. Guys who pay attention to them will be willing to step up and provide them with security. She gets annoyed and cranky on her period = she wants you to remain emotionally cool and tell her everyt…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:39 PM
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This man was considered one of the sexiest men alive when he was alive: Is he physically attractive? Not by any BlackPill or RedPill criteria, no! But his character in the Sopranos does have qualities that women seem to find extremely sexy. Such as being powerful, confident, authoritative and very importantly he is the type of guy that takes shit from no one and any woman who is with him will also not have to take shit from anyone (protection). And that's sexy as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 01:52 PM
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Pffft. We all know women just want chocolate and wine and a should rub. You ain't that hard to figure out. I'm more mad that women have been lying about that whole "clit" thing, like that really exists, yeah right, am I rite?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:58 AM
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All this can be summed up in "do anal".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:54 AM
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The harder you work, the new peaks you scale, the more you move society forward, the more you are awarded with confidence and given permission to get the women you want. A guy who was a nobody yesterday becomes a famous actor or musician and all of a sudden armies of women want to sleep with him. A guy who was a nobody, but worked really hard and now can afford a yacht and a Ferrari and all of a sudden he believes he is worthy and has something women need so they flock to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 02:33 AM
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As I said, work=sex is a brainwashing done onto you to make you believe that's the only way to get sex. It is not surprising to me that men who show no respect for society's rules get laid the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 02:31 AM
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I don't make up the rules honey.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 12:21 AM
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Of course she doesn't like it. She didn't wear those pants so all a guy would do is stare. She wants you to go talk to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 12:20 AM
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What power? Prostituting herself on the internet? That's what you are worshipping? A gross whore who couldn't figure out another way to make money? Stop watching so much porn and meet women in real life bro. I promise you it has nothing to do with what you see on TikTok.0
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 12:20 AM
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Infinitely more men suffer from delusions of inadequacy than delusions of grandeur.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 12:05 AM
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A man cannot be friendzoned if he makes his intentions clear directly and from the very beginning. He essentially tells a woman to take it or leave it. I can't think of anything more powerful than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 12:04 AM
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See, none of their "self improvement" tackles the real problem. Their fear. Their fear of going out and getting a girl for themselves. All the self improvement in the world will not help you overcome the real issue because it's just skirting around the issue. It's like your car engine blowing up and all you are concerned is whether the interior is clean and the paint isn't chipped. You are avoiding the real problem by dancing around it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 12:03 AM
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When he was alive, this guy was voted one of the sexiest men alive:
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 12:01 AM
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Bro women don't have nearly the magical powers you ascribe you them in your own head.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 12:00 AM
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The biggest brainwashing that happened in society around sex probably occurred tens of thousands of years ago. The brainwashing led to the equation that every man knows: work=sex. The harder you work, the more you achieve, the more famous, socially proofed, athletic and rich you are, the more you are given permission to act confidently and without fear and go for the women you want. And inversely, it is imperative that society installs a sense of low self esteem and worthlessness in its members …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 11:58 PM
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Lol, you don't think she looked at her own ass 20 times before she left the apartment?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 11:54 PM
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Which is incidentally the most unattractive thing a man can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 10:36 PM
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Take responsibility for your own sex life there bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 10:34 PM
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Ladies, listen up! Start fucking a bunch of bitter losers or we won't take care of you when you are dead and you will end up being eaten by your 20 cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 10:24 PM
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All women an alpha male, even if he doesn't stick around (actually I guess a defining trait of the alpha male is that his nature is to NOT stick around). That may or may not be a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:15 PM
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Every person is different and you can learn something from them. Sleeping with one person and thinking you know everything about sex is like reading one book and concluding you know everything about literature.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:35 PM
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I settled down in my early 30s. I could have played the field for another 10 years easily. Why settle down early? The only reason is that by the time you get divorced you are still young and cute enough to find another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:01 PM
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WhenI was in high school and self respecting women didn't make out a virgin past 17. So for the guys out there looking for virgins, unless you are interested in statutory rape charges, I think you shit out of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 11:45 AM
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My best friend was a lady killer in high school (and after of course). He slept wjth all the wholesome girls everyone else wanted. None of them were trashy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 11:42 AM
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Interesting fact about women - they keep making them!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 11:40 AM
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Women approach all the time, just not in the "hey baby, wanna get out of here" type of way. But they will smile, look at you, hover, dance in your line of sight, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 07:54 PM
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Thought the same until the first time a woman licked my asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 07:44 PM
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Only a woman can spend 3 hours in the bathroom getting dressed, just so she can get undressed a few hours later.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 07:11 PM
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You want to solve all of mens dating problems? Have every single man in the world ignore women for 24 hours. That's all it takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:12 PM
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The issue with most guys is they think they need to lie and promise woman something that they never have the intention of delivering. They promise something of value, like being there for the woman afterwards, having a relationship with her, etc. and of course hope to exchange that for something else if value, which is sex. But people who offer something of value without any intention on actually delivering are known as con men. So the only way around this is to make it clear to the woman that y…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:07 PM
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The yoga pants that make their asses look super nice. Crop top. High heels. I want a woman who exudes sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:04 PM
3

By the male relies here yea we do need a video.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 03:51 PM
1

I thought that was too funny
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 02:40 AM
-3

Well, it requires one to pull their head out of their ass and interact with people in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 11:35 PM
5

Can keep it up for more than 5 mins?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 08:11 PM
0

You okay there buddy? This post sure struck a nerve wjth a lot of guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 07:09 PM
1

I got news for you Walter Kronkite. Mother Nature loves a lot of cocks in a lot of vaginas. Chaste virgins are a travesty to Mother Nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:41 PM
1

You know the lonely men can also shout from their window that they will sleep with anyone who would have them and sure enough there would be some homely guy who would love to give them a try.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:36 PM
-1

I read an interview once by a guy who works with male virgins. He would ask this at his workshops: "How many of you have had a woman interested in you that you weren't interested in" And pretty much every guy's hand would go up. Then he would ask about two women, theee women. At the end, he would tell them "see, virginity is a choice". All men love to play victims but the reality is most guys have women interested in them. Maybe not the type they would want ideally, but to say no woman has ever …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:35 PM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:31 PM
5

I walk my dogs in the park everyday and it's 90% women jogging at 7am.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:28 PM
3

Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:22 PM
3

He isn't saying don't make eye contact. He is saying don't stare at a woman like you are going to hunt her down and eat her.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 03:31 PM
2

Ugh, those are the worst. Social retardation on full display.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 12:58 PM
1

Womp womp
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 12:58 PM
1

You show those skanks. Why men even bother dating at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 12:40 PM
2

He does have a point though. Who wants to be murderer by an uggo?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 11:56 AM
2

And you have no problem saying if they couldn't get off it's because their pussy is broken and because it is their problem anyway. See how this works?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 11:34 AM
-2

Watch the video. He explains why it is creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 11:14 AM
3

I think you did a very good job of outlining the major insecurities men have around more sexually experienced women. I think slutshaming though originated from other women. Because women are taught that they should exchange their sex for security (marriage, dates, commitment from a man, getting their car fixed, helping her get a job, etc), when a woman comes along and she gives her sex away for free, it undermines the sexual market for other women. If one woman gives it away for free, then other…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 11:13 AM
7

When 99% of men on the sub proudly proclaim that they will have sex with anything that moves and will be honored to just be in the same room as a naked girl, your argument just doesn't have the impact that it should. When 99% of men on the sub proudly proclaim that a woman who has had more sex than they would want her to is a slut and used up goods, how exactly do they expect women to get the confidence and experience to be good in bed and know their bodies well enough to cum?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 11:00 AM
17

If you can't get it hard women take it personally. Saying you are impotent is just a defense mechanism for external consumption. It's like approaching a girl and getting rejected and saying "whatever, she was ugly and a whore anyway, I didn't really want her".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 10:57 AM
-1

No, because it's not about what she wants it's about what I want. If I wanted a fuck buddy, I'd be honest with her and let her know I'm not the type of guy to take her on endless dates and patiently wait while she auditions me hoping to get picked. I'm offering her some fun and hoping to put a smile on her face. Women are terrified of being taken advantage of for sex wjthout getting anything of value in return. It's the same as if a guy takes a girl out for dinner and a show, spends hundreds on …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 10:51 AM
1

No, you equate work=sex. You can't even conceive that there could be another way.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 10:44 AM
0

I'm not. I'm just having harmless fun with flirting.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 10:43 AM
1

Yeah guys don't understand just how predatory they come across with this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 10:42 AM
-1

Lol. Yes, I'm the boomer (older Millennial) who is coupled yada yada yada. The thing is that I have many years of experience and know how to conduct myself in an attractive way. Because of that I get checked out by women all the time, which makes approaching extremely easy. Of course, whenever I approach the first thing I say is "hey, I'm not hitting on you, I'm married, but you are kind of cute". You know what the responses have been: "So happily married or....." "Well hi, that's okay, we can b…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 01:06 AM
3

You are thinking like brainwashed men who think the only way to get women is to work hard. The most sexually successful men are probably the laziest.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 12:55 AM
3

Because you won't be the one dating her anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 07:03 PM
1

Is "decent character" a new word for great ass?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:43 PM
1

Bro, 20 random women off the street. Go out now and count 20 women. If you want to talk to 2 of them you'd be lucky. Of course, you may be an extremely desperate and lonely guy, in which case anything goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:39 PM
4

Yep, or because they hope it will develop into something and eventually they will like the guy. They will say stuff like "he's perfect on paper, he's respectful, dresses well, has a good job, treats me well, but I just don't feel butterflies".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:15 PM
2

https://mikekollin.com/blogs/personal-development-life-coaching/why-women-love-to-argue-and-fight-yes-they-do-1
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:08 PM
4

Not really. Once you have attractive female friends and they feel comfortable talking about their dating lives with you, you will understand just how much women obsess over the minutia of dating. What clothes she picked out, how she did her hair, how often she texted him, did she double text, did she text too soon. Did she show too much interest on the date, was she being too easy and seen as a slut, etc. Women dissect dates and look for deeper meaning behind everything a guy says. The problem i…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:06 PM
2

Oh she was a total nut job
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:35 PM
0

She reminds of an ex, first girl I fucked in the ass and who then sucked my dick. Good times. Black chicks know how to get down.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:26 PM
1

My wife has the body of #8. She's not skinny, but has junk in all the right places.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:21 PM
2

I'd bang 2, 8 and 9.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:16 PM
-6

You need to go out more
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 11:57 AM
-5

Let's do an experiment. Let's take 20 random women from the street and out them in a room with 20 guys like you and your friends. I guarantee you all of you would be talking to only 2-3 of those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:54 AM
8

Stop objectifying my wet, dripping pussy you pervert. Wait, why are you looking away? Are you a coward?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:50 AM
1

If you don't like how your dating life is, change it. Change your approach. If you are too lazy to do that, then you deserve women being in control d fucking you over (and not the good kind of fucking).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:47 AM
6

They are welcome to fuck off to Iran and try to get a harem of ninjas if they do desire, but leave me and my secular society the fuck alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:20 AM
0

Have you noticed that women are always complain about the men they are fucking or want to fuck? Have you noticed that men make up 90% of the conversation subjects women talk about?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 10:03 PM
1

I didn't know you could read minds. How do you know what other people are thinking?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:19 PM
2

I just don't understand what you want us to do about this? Do you think a naked horny woman will magically materialize in your bedroom?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:41 PM
4

You have to decide what's more painful. Being alone and lonely or learning how to socialize and flirt with women. It seems like the former is winning.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:03 PM
1

I'm so lonely, I'm in pain, I can't live like that any more, I will do anything to have companionship. Get out of your house and go talk to a girl:
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:49 PM
10

You wouldn't believe the supermodels I've been banging. Believe me bro. Believe me!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:06 PM
1

I found one in the wild years ago. I think mid or early 20s. Let me tell you something. There was a reason she was still a virgin and not because she was a pure angel of wholesomeness.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 05:23 PM
1

When I was going to high school, most girls were no longer virgins by 16-17.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 05:09 PM
3

I lost my virginity at 16. My first girlfriend approached me. She arranged for us to go study in her dad's office at night where she gave me a bj. She was the pursuer. I used to fuck her in my bedroom, while my mom slept in the other room. I was spoilt. I thought that after that every girl will just come to me and make it easy. I was in for a nasty surprise. It took me a while to figure out that if I wanted a woman, I had to go out and get her. So I stopped finding excuses and went for it. I don…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:52 PM
5

NYC is like shooting fish in a barrel.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:03 PM
1

Well, you should have followed up with them and get properly fucked by a hot guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 01:50 PM
2

I see a deadman walking. He is getting stabbed or his dick cut off at one point on the next 3 years. Why would you want to be these women's sole source of cock? That's just asking for trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 01:47 PM
1

It's not so much about looks but what you believe inside. If you know you are sexy, women will see it as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 01:30 PM
6

Sacrifice yourself, your body and your health for the benefit of society, but neglect your own needs. Smartest post I've read here yet /s
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 10:50 AM
1

https://youtu.be/PIb6AZdTr-A https://youtu.be/Pae0i3S0i18 https://youtu.be/hEmH1EgJbEs
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 10:47 AM
2

Thanks but I'm married.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 10:40 AM
0

Women I see in my everyday life. We smile at each other. Sometimes we chat. I make it clear I'm married but I know they want me, so if I were to become single, I just need to find them and chat them up and ask them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 10:39 AM
1

Why are you following me around like a lost puppy?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 01:49 AM
1

The female to male ratio is relatively even. 50 men 50 women. 67% of the women are dating, so let's say 40 women. Who the fuck are they dating? Aliens? Their dogs? Each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 01:06 AM
5

Cool story bro
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 12:26 AM
-5

Hehehe. I'm an old geezer to most of you. 41 going on 42. I'm happily married. But if I were to find myself single, I'd have 3 dates by the end of the week and none of them would be from online. I come across interested women all the time. Sometimes we flirt, sometimes I just know if I wanted to, I could. It's that easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 12:06 AM
7

Ah doy! Men here idealize women as if they have some magical powers and just because they can get some dick on Tinder that somehow all their problems are solved and they have their lives figured out. Double that for women who are attractive. It just tells you that none of them have dated extensively, otherwise they would have figured out that the vast majority of women are broken, fucked up and quite sad. I'm not saying this in a demeaning way. It's just reality. We are human beings and most of …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 12:03 AM
18

I'm not a Chad. I have slept with a decent amount of women. I was just more horny than I was shy so I went out there and learn to meet women, talk to them and take them to bed. It's not really that complicated. You just need to be relentlessly focused on what you want and not worry about women are thinking. All your fears are because you are thinking about what the woman Is thinking about, which is probably wrong anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 12:00 AM
1

Correct, but has nothing to do with parental assurance. It has more to do with "you are my property and I wouldn't want someone else to use my property that I paid good money for." And since women do In fact want to fuck guys and have sometimes uncontrollable libidos, they will sneak out and get fucked. Hence why religions seek to control them to the point they do. But if women didn't have libidos and were all meh about sex and men, there wouldn't be any need for such extreme control, would ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:42 PM
1

How would there be paternal certainty because you dressed a woman up like a ninja?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:04 PM
-1

Lol, are you really going to claim men enjoy sex more than women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:04 PM
-1

You are missing the point. Why would society have to worry about single moms if women don't like fucking in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 10:12 PM
3

Or maybe, just hear me out, men and women are meant to fuck all the time just because they want to? Not sure this makes any sense to me in the context I mentioned. Multiple female orgasms are a fact. For someone who doesn't seem to like sex, women are amazingly equipped to enjoy it more than men. Interesting! No need to control women if they don't like to fuck. You don't need to control people from liking rocks or eating dirt because most people don't like that, so there is no need to take any s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 09:20 PM
2

By why try to oppress them in regards to their sexuality if women don't like to fuck anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 09:16 PM
2

You replied to me in the context of OP which about men being horny and women not being horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 08:59 PM
2

Ahhhhhhhh! So the problem ISN'T that women are not horny. The problem is that women are NOT horny for the type of men you think they should be honey for!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 08:56 PM
-2

I didn't! I don't even know what half of the words he used mean. If he can't talk like a normal person I ain't bothering with it. I made my argument, he is free to draw whatever conclusions he wants. Plus his "rebuttal" is no rebuttal at all. Saying "men also have multiple orgasms" just proves my point, that men and women are more alike and that they want the same thing - each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 08:53 PM
3

But I thought women were not horny? Why do you have to reduce any of that? Why would women want to chase Chad or share if they are not horny??? Omg
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 08:49 PM
2

Hey, that's fine. These are the conclusions you drew. They align with your world view I guess. But if women didn't really want to fuck that much why would a man be worried about being cucked? I mean he could easily assume that his wife won't be out there fucking another man, because after all she barely wants to have sex with him even on his birthday!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 08:20 PM
0

I don't think it's that concealed if you've hung around enough women and have experience. Horny females who are in estrus are pretty easy to spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 08:15 PM
-1

Bro, that's Medieval times bro, before the invention of the vibratory and 50 Shades of Gray.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 08:12 PM
2

Okay let's look at stats. Apparently more women are in relationships than men and more women are having sex than men are. So how exactly are they so discerning and picky?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:59 PM
3

Let's see. You want to tell me that women are honest about their n-counts when all they hear is "if you've slept wjth more than 3 guys, you are a dirty used up slut and the more guys you sleep with the lower your value as a human being". And that men are also honest about their n- counts when all they hear is "a real man goes out and fucks as many chicks as he can, are you a fag cause you can't get a new girl every week, hahahahhaha, fucking incel".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:48 PM
3

I wouldn't admit on a public forum that I am A. Very inexperienced wjth women and B. likely have never brought a woman to orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:17 PM
5

My point is that women's sexually was controlled because they'd go and fuck whomever they wanted. If they weren't all that horny, why bother controlling them at all? Wouldn't they self control?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:16 PM
-2

Or, humor me for a minute. Men have know for a long time that women will do what women do and they will sneak out and have sex with the guys they find hot and interesting even if those guys are not the society approved nice guys and over achievers. And men in power needed to control female sexuality otherwise they would sneak off and fuck men that society doesn't approve of. So maybe, just maybe, women are extremely horny just not for the guys you think they should be (the nice guys, rule follow…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:15 PM
3

But again, if women are not horny and not all that interested in sex, why bother controlling them? Do you worry that your dog will jump over your 6 foot fence? Dogs can't jump that high so why bother keeping them in the house. Cats on the other hand can easily jump that fence. So if women are not horny and interested in fucking, why bother control them so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:57 PM
26

I will write three irrefutable facts. You draw whatever conclusions you want out of them: The female human is one of only 7 species on Earth who is capable of having sex outside of estrus (mating season), purely for pleasure/fun. Think about that. A woman is capable of having sex without having to reproduce and without restricting it to a certain period in the year. A female human is capable of achieving multiple orgasms one after the other without much of a refractory period. Think about how ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:21 PM
1

But then again if women, according every man on PPD ever, could pick any man they want, why would they want these shit men?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:24 PM
0

Like this one: https://www-thesun-co-uk.cdn.ampproject.org/ii/w820/s/www.thesun.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2019/02/JBM_COMP-El-Chapo-Wife.jpg?strip=all&w=620&h=413&crop=1
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:22 PM
1

You are not bold enough. It's as simple as that. Every sexually unsuccessful man I've met is basically anxious and afraid. Challenge your fears and you will overcome all of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:20 PM
2

Plenty of rich and good looking men not doing drugs, doing time, or cheating on her and abusing her. You guys are just moving the goal posts. Female pickiness is a myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:00 PM
0

What money does a guy in prison have?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:24 PM
3

I think you guys way overestimate so called female pickiness/standards. Women constantly pick shitty men to fuck. If women had anywhere close to the choosing power most of you imagine they have, wouldn't they all be fucking 6'5" male model millionaires who would treat them like queens? Instead why do we constantly hear about women fucking criminals, drug addicts, guys in actual jail, broke ass losers, sleazy club owners, pornographers, rock stars who have been through hundreds of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:46 PM
1

https://youtu.be/hhxwC14PRw8?t=2995
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:24 PM
2

Only two people worth listening to: David X (Toronto Seminar) and Dr. Robert Glover's Dating Essentials for Men. David X takes a while to sink in, but once it does, you can't be stopped. The other guy is more sensible and easily to digest.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:12 PM
1

If there is one thing I've realized is that women want men who know what they want. Way too many guys are trying to figure out what the woman is thinking so they can adjust themselves to what they think the woman wants them to be. How can a man figure out what a woman wants? They spend 3 hours in the bathroom getting ready to go out. What do they do there? Comb their pussy hairs to point in the same direction? You give them a compliment they get mad at you that you don't think they look nice the…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:34 PM
1

Female pickiness is a myth. So many women date criminals, men in prison, deadbeats, abusers. So spare me the women are picky bs. Plus the average woman can only get pregnant for 3-5 days a month, so even that is a total myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:10 PM
0

You can get sex as easily as a woman. Just go out side and scream at the top of your lungs "I will have sex wjth anyone who would have me" and sure enough some homely dude will come out of the woodwork offering to fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:43 PM
1

As I often say, women approach men all the times, just not in the "hey baby let's get out of here" type of way. As you said, it's more subtle. The funny thing is, women approached me all the time when I was a clueless loser. But once I started trying too hard yo pick them up, their interest evaporated.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:17 PM
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