| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Should the book you read to your baby be according to their sex? | Discussion | ahaeood | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 04:11 PM |
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| 5 | Question for Women: What are the barriers that stop women from just taking the initiative and asking guys out on a date that they clearly like or have a crush on?Congrats! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 02:17 PM |
| 2 | A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it.We salute you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 01:15 AM |
| 2 | A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it.I feel like people are alot kinder to me because I’m a mom. When I’m out with my kids, people allow me to skip the queue, they make small talk, and if they see me struggle they came to help. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 03:37 PM |
| – | It’s literally so easy to get a woman when your charismatic and a great conversationalistLmao. No 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/23 12:48 PM |
| 1 | What was your parent's relationship dynamic like?My dad is very flirty with my mom but my moms way of showing love is more act of service and she takes good care of him and the family. They don’t let me know if they argue. When I was younger my mom take care of chores and pay majority of the bills and it took years for my dad’s business to pick up and now my mom gets to enjoy her life living comfortably while my dad earn more and able to give her the life she deserves. They’re good role models, and I think I have higher standards for my partne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 06:44 PM |
| 1 | What age does being a male virgin become a massive red flag?And the opposite is not particularly toxic-free either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 04:33 PM |
| 1 | What age does being a male virgin become a massive red flag?Of cuz not, everyone has different priorities and values | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 08:51 AM |
| 3 | What age does being a male virgin become a massive red flag?None! If you value purity till marriage and want to share that with only your wife, nothing is wrong with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 08:28 AM |
| 1 | Why are so many women like this?OF or any sex work adjacent is a divided topic in the feminist sphere. A lot of feminists think it’s empowering for women to earn from their body/beauty/sex appeal. Some feminists including myself are against it. These are 2 different groups of people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 02:17 PM |
| 12 | The biggest lie of womenMore leads with no quality!! Go watch on YouTube the CNA 2 parts documentary Shermin’s match , she document trying to date on social media and even if she swipe on all the guys, the conversation is horrible. Men don’t show up on dates, men cannot carry on the conversation. When she swipe right on 200 prospect => her success rate (referring to having conversations and result in at least one date) is around 9% The next time when she try to filter out men, swiping right on only 30 men => success ra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 04:04 PM |
| 3 | For me to agree that virginity does not matter is to agree the past 8 years of my life have been for nothingAbsolutely 0? Are you sure? I would argue that women who wait till marriage , to a degree would appreciate a man who do the same. Virgins doesn’t necessarily means you can’t get laid. Believe it or not, it’s easier to get laid these days than to stay a virgin and stay true to one’s value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 08:08 AM |
| 7 | Men don’t actually like “good” womenPromiscuous women also get treated horribly by men. It’s almost as if bad men will abuse any type of women they can sink their claw into. As someone from non western country and promiscuity is extremely taboo, women are homemakers and control the finance in the family - which of course gave us power as we literally decide where to spend/invest, how much we need to save etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 02:54 PM |
| 0 | Should we feel sorry for guys who are forced to have relationships in order to get sex?What about those girls the guys “force” themselves to be in relationship with when they just wanna fuck? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 07:53 AM |
| – | At this point in time women already have complete psychological control over men.Mgtow much ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Let's swap the sexes in the debate over going out to nightclubs/bars alone if you're taken.My husband was a model when he was younger, and now a doctor with his own clinic. This is a cannon event for me 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Seeing all the benign and insignificant reasons women say they have gotten "The Ick" makes it hard to believe they care about men's mental healthWe want you to open up, not wahwah about everything going wrong in your life. Example: Open up about a tough childhood is appreciated, blaming everything going wrong in your life is Becuz of your mother/father ,poverty, government, economy shows me you don’t take responsibilities for your failures | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 03:35 PM |
| 3 | Got a window into average woman's dating life. It was an absolute shockI’m not going on a date cross country with a stranger just Becuz it’s free 💀💀💀💀 I can always make more money but I only have one life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 03:26 PM |
| 1 | If WW3 started tomorrow, what would you expect your man or men in your country to do?MY Man? We’re fleeing to a safer place. No family of mine is going through war again | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 07:49 AM |
| 1 | If WW3 started tomorrow, what would you expect your man or men in your country to do?MY Man? We’re fleeing to a safer place. No family of mine is going through war again | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 07:49 AM |
| 5 | Modern women who want to be treated traditionally…I believe in being upfront and have a straight forward conversation in an intimate relationship. When I was dating my husband, I was dating to marry and he was the same. We’re compatible, hence good marriage until now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 04:33 PM |
| 7 | Are women choosing to be single because it's easier?I came to this earth ready to die alone, dude. If the man doesn’t add value to my life, he doesn’t get to stay in it. Alone with a cat at 40 is better than being with the wrong man… at any age | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Should we just raise the consenting age to 25?I can’t imagine myself being a rich famous man as I’m a normal married woman. The rich men I know would date super models but eventually settle down at 35-ish with someone 5-11 years younger than them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 02:09 PM |
| 3 | Should we just raise the consenting age to 25?To DiCaprio, yes. What else can a girl bring to his life ? He clearly is not the family man who values wedding , marriage and children. 🤷🏽♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Men who are 50/50, how do you plan to compensate for child birth?The amount of idiots debating why relationships shouldn’t be 50-50 , or how relationships cannot never be truly equal 🫠 while both points are valid it’s clearly NOT what OP asked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/23 06:12 PM |
| 7 | Men who are 50/50, how do you plan to compensate for child birth?OP DIDN’T ask to be repaid in money for bearing childbirth. OP ask men who go 50-50 how THEY plan to contribute their “50”. Huge difference | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/23 03:02 PM |
| 2 | Are there men in your life who are good overall but fail at dating? What does this say about modern dating?Is “job haver” a word?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 04:41 PM |
| 4 | Men in their 30+'s, what are the early signs you are just being "settled for/betabuxxed"?The social proofing part is mehh. May be some girls do it, most don’t post about their lovers that much no matter how much we like our men. Our social media is about us, and not our partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Women being loyal and contributing to the war effortGood for them for escaping 👏👏👏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 03:54 PM |
| 4 | What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell if you said it?Momma’s boy are the best long term partner/husband material Sense of humor is NOT a date-able criteria | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/22 04:07 PM |
| 44 | Have you ever been interested in somebody you thought was well within your league and then they soon partner up with an objectively way more attractive person leaving you massively disheartened?The way this dude talk about people 🤦🏽♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 04:26 PM |
| 1 | If you could change genders, would you do it?No. Being a man looks like hard work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 03:22 PM |
| 2 | Moms are hurting their sons by telling them lies about women and datingSociety consisted by all groups of people , males females mothers fathers etc, as you mentioned above, that’s why I say if you think society is the problem, then phrase it like that and not just blame the mothers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 04:54 PM |
| 7 | Moms are hurting their sons by telling them lies about women and datingIf you say say society is wrong then blame the society. Not specifically say it’s the moms fault | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 02:49 PM |
| 14 | Moms are hurting their sons by telling them lies about women and datingSo the father’s not around to raise his own son well is also not the father’s mistake but some evil divorce industry doing? So far you’ve excluded both the son and the father from responsibility and only blame the mother. If men really want to find a good partner, may be take some responsibility of themselves. Look deep inside and see what they can bring to the table before blaming the moms, the dating sphere , the society basically everyone else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 12:56 PM |
| 17 | Moms are hurting their sons by telling them lies about women and datingIt’s always the women’s fault right ? Why not blame the father? Why is a man inability to find a partner is their mom’s fault? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 12:40 PM |
| 12 | Moms are hurting their sons by telling them lies about women and datingFuck no. Asian parents put their child down in other things but they still encourage/push their children to have family and settle down | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 12:37 PM |
| 5 | Q4W: Do you care whether or not a man has been “run through”?Of cuz I care!! If the man I love used to have sex with so many woman, what does it says about him and intimacy? How can I be ok with a man who’s totally fine using women like they’re an object just for his own sexual satisfaction? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/22 06:11 PM |
| 3 | How do you feel knowing that a decent portion of your male friends, coworkers, acquaintances, etc. would rail you if they had the chance?Literally don’t care | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Women here, what advice would you give to your sons going into dating?If he’s anything like his dad, he has nothing to be worried about 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 07:23 AM |
| 1 | When family and friends interfereIt doesn’t work out in just “some” cases like you mentioned. A Lot of Asian family evaluate both the person and the family their spouse is from and they have a happy marriage. If you don’t account the family you’re marrying to, you’re missing out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 02:48 AM |
| 1 | When family and friends interfereYou only lay out the negative scenario and with so much slippery slope completely left any possible good outcomes. How would you categorize my situation then? I met my husband, ask him out, he introduce me to his family and I do the same for him. Got each other parents approval, then get married. There’s a lot of people who get along with their in laws Becuz they account this into their dating criteria in advance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 02:11 AM |
| 2 | When family and friends interferethe case you bring is that the person doesn’t have the capacity to negotiate with their parents to pick their own partner (your words is: MIL who wouldn’t approve of anyone unless she picked them out herself). Why would you want to marry someone like that? Sounds like the person is weak. Wouldn’t submit myself and future children to that type of partner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 11:49 PM |
| 2 | When family and friends interfereWhy would you wanna marry someone who can’t negotiate with their parents regarding their life decision? Sounds like an unhealthy dynamic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 11:30 PM |
| 1 | When family and friends interfereI didn’t end up single. And it’s my value. When I marry someone , I want the entire package. I want kind MIL and FIL. I want to be friends with my husband’s siblings etc. That’s why it pays to be the best possible partner for your spouse. Have a stable high paying job, be kind, be the person who support the spouse dream. If your future spouse comes from a normal functioning family, they want the best person for their son/daughter and would likely not reject you. A lot of people are actually ende… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 10:22 PM |
| 2 | When family and friends interfereDefinitely. No matter how strong your love is for the person, you cannot build a happy functioning family where your spouse is constantly sandwiched between you vs their biological family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 03:55 PM |
| 6 | When family and friends interferemy in-laws getting along with me and my own family liking my husband is a key criteria before I decided to marry my husband. In an Asian family , you marry the person and their family as a package. So yeah, I wouldn’t be here if I know I will have big issues with the in laws. We get along fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 03:38 PM |
| 3 | When it comes to women choosing men, look is way more important than Personality or Intelligence.Overgeneralization. You apply one example to ALL the population. Every woman is different in her own rights hence she pick her partner depending on criteria that are important to her. But of cuz it’s easier to ignore all that together and just assume only looks matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 11:45 AM |
| 1 | Women: If you asked out a guy and he was nice but said “sorry, you’re just a little too fat for me” how would you respond?I’d be speechless, embarrassed and not talk to the guy again. I’m not going to blame him or anything, it’s not his fault for not attracting to me. At least he’s honest. But yeah, just too embarrassed to have any sort of friendship with him after that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 06:26 AM |
| 3 | Ladies, let's talk about....hair!I mean… the hair make or break the face. A man with a thick hair on his head is so attractive and looks younger. I’d never date bald men but I end up marrying my husband who’s starting to show signs of baldness … back when we first started dating it doesn’t look so obvious. Now I’m trying to find all sort of hair growth serum for him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 11:04 PM |
| -1 | Being boring, uninteresting, not having a lot of things to talk about, not having hobbies, etc can be a bigger turn off than being ugly.That would mean only the beautiful people would be in a relationship. But in Society, people of all sort of level of attractiveness could get into a relationship or even getting married. How do you explain fat ugly people having relationship or getting married then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 10:40 PM |
| 2 | Being boring, uninteresting, not having a lot of things to talk about, not having hobbies, etc can be a bigger turn off than being ugly.In general, looks open doors but what you can offer in a relationship will determine if you’ll live a lonely existence or not !!! If you’re lazy, ugly, incompetent and boring, what are you offering to your partner? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What are your sexual values and why?I don’t date : 1- influencers or anyone “too active” on social media. 2- men who cannot financially support themselves 3- men who are not family oriented. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 02:34 PM |
| 3 | Have you ever tried to approach a guy you had interest in? How did it turn out?I strike up a conversation with a guy, invite him to lunch. And now he’s my husband. Is this approaching? Cuz in another sub people are saying it’s not considered “approaching” since there’s no chance or rejection and I was under cover of plausible deniability, lolz In my heart, I know I approach my husband first and never regret it. He’s the best and most caring hubby ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Do BJs and the frequency of sex decline after marriage?My marriage didn’t slow it down but my pregnancy does !!! 😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 07:38 AM |
| 4 | This is the first picture on her dating profile and she has the nerve to say "marry me or stfu"? And then there is the problem with keeping her hands to herself.Disgusting | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/03/21 10:18 AM |
| -1 | As she turns 29 in November, she needs a vote of confidence to abandon her AF ways and embrace her BB needs. Ugh, why is this so hard??? 😂😂😂The third man is a nice guy and she’s missing guy #2?! | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/09/20 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Knocked up by a douchebag and now looking for a nice guy.Bar and gaming attendant? That’s just a hooker | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/09/20 05:24 PM |
| 4 | Opinion | Netflix's "Enola Holmes" offers a welcome, feminist critique of a cultural icon. Because the new world feminist world order has to prove itself superior - by just making shit up.It’s a horrible movie | /r/MensRights | 25/09/20 03:15 PM |
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