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| 1 | How does the Cuckold community feel about incels? | beckabunss | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/19 09:50 AM |
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| 1 | How do Democrats win back white men?A hashtag vs actual femicide? Even the hashtag is touted as being too extreme by feminists. Maybe you should go outside and touch grass. | /r/MensRights | 10/02/25 06:09 PM |
| -2 | How do Democrats win back white men?Sure what are your points? I’d love to hear them. My background is working with the unhoused and also domestic violence survivors seeking refuge and protection from the local government of Los Angeles. A pretty left leaning place. I would love to hear how much you know? I’m a teacher currently. Even when working in domestic violence and having it be centered on a women shelter we also provided services for men, I know a lot about procedures regarding leaving a spouse or abusive situation and als… | /r/MensRights | 09/02/25 11:38 PM |
| -7 | How do Democrats win back white men?People are moving to our side when they realize how things will negatively affect all of us, you can’t teach empathy to people. My partner agrees with me, many men I know do. I feel empathy for people individually, but for men especially white men right now? What systemic oppression are you experiencing and how is it worse than what marginalized groups are experiencing? You need to internalize why you feel so attacked right now and not be blaming marginalized people. Your problems come from the … | /r/MensRights | 09/02/25 10:51 PM |
| -10 | How do Democrats win back white men?No it’s more like I’m afraid that besides the almost half a million men in this group more might think women are the issue, so I offer a countering opinion when I can. But yes, feel so sorry for you, sounds hard to pay child support and have more competition in the job market Also didn’t they repeal DEI initiatives and title x? Shouldn’t it be oh so easy for you to exist as a man now with women and poc out of the way and without their pesky paid paternity leave? Why doesn’t this group actually w… | /r/MensRights | 09/02/25 10:02 PM |
| -4 | How do Democrats win back white men?Make sure things don’t get any worse | /r/MensRights | 09/02/25 05:31 PM |
| -2 | Why is changing outdated gender norms against men so difficult?It’s kind of bullshit social norms that apply to women differently because people want women to keep up appearances. Women who don’t in the military and other vocations tend to not be taken seriously. | /r/MensRights | 09/02/25 08:27 AM |
| -27 | How do Democrats win back white men?But men have rights? No one is trying to take away your rights. | /r/MensRights | 09/02/25 08:25 AM |
| -54 | How do Democrats win back white men?They already have all these things, there hasn’t been a draft in decades.. and you can always sue someone for slander and libel. Men just never seem to do that, because they don’t seem to support each other the same way women do. also women tend to take the brunt of childcare so of course they would get alimony, especially if they are a stay at home parent. When my parents divorced my dad got custody of us because my mom was unstable, she never worked and was a SAHM so he paid some alimony I thi… | /r/MensRights | 09/02/25 08:23 AM |
| 1 | Boys Education and FeminismI don’t treat them harder and tbh that’s where my issue lies. Am I just supposed to let the boys beat each other and fight? We had to lockdown the school because a bunch of boys fought and there was a stabbing. The students who never stop talking and are disruptive and disrespectful are boys, not all boys, but boys nonetheless. I didn’t raise them, I’m not taking the blame for them being violent because I taught them in a classroom for a few months. I don’t get why this is so hard to swallow, bu… | /r/MensRights | 05/02/25 03:30 AM |
| -1 | Boys Education and FeminismWhat special treatment do boys need that they aren’t getting? What is masculine creativity? You said it didn’t exist. It’s common entomology that the patriarchy hurts both sexes, but you got mad the moment I mentioned it. What else am I supposed to call it? My dad has been telling me since I was little I couldn’t do the things my brother could, same for men in school. I can’t think of a single job where there wasn’t a man in a position of power above mine. The only thing I have complete control … | /r/MensRights | 04/02/25 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Boys Education and FeminismWhat’s your solution then genius? It’s whatever you don’t respect my opinion or struggles anyway. Hug your sons, do that then. | /r/MensRights | 04/02/25 03:49 AM |
| -5 | Boys Education and FeminismWell why are men and boys so focused on success and attribute that with their self worth, it certainly wasn’t women in power all this time. Who owns most of the land and controls most of the government and commerce? Where the fuck do women rule except in the idea they can go to school, women couldn’t even own land or bank accounts until recently. Or do you think women as a monolith are pushing boys down? Women are socially conditioned to be obedient, for hundreds of years it’s been that way. Obe… | /r/MensRights | 04/02/25 02:36 AM |
| -2 | Boys Education and FeminismI mean, that’s such a blanket statement but as someone who actively subs and teaches at multiple schools and is a American who went through the school system- we definitely have recess and my school definitely invested in sports and other ‘boy friendly’ activities. The whole afterschool program is filled with mostly boys who hang out and watch futbol. As for teaching? It’s hard enough as it is, but reactions of the parents and the mismatch of what kids learn at home and in school is so so differ… | /r/MensRights | 04/02/25 02:16 AM |
| 0 | Boys Education and FeminismI’ve noticed as a teacher that boys act out more than girls do. It’s hard to pinpoint why, I think when in groups boys end up disruptive but having a friend group and being active is good!! My thought? Is that it’s not easy to be a boy right now in terms of social zeitgeist, boys and girls should be equal but in the ‘me too’ movement and other things, boys recognize that they need to be a certain way, and that type of thing isn’t taught in schools, how to be a man per se and also not the ‘abusiv… | /r/MensRights | 03/02/25 11:20 PM |
| 0 | The incel problemI just want someone who isn’t going to use me. I just don’t think that’s that crazy. Also my partner makes less than I do. | /r/MensRights | 23/01/25 06:35 AM |
| 1 | The incel problemThat’s such a vile comment to assume that women only have sons to collect child support or welfare or whatever. Everything else you said more or less made sense but that vile jab at both the child, mother and humanity as a whole was vile and so so misguided. | /r/MensRights | 23/01/25 06:34 AM |
| 1 | My ex who I was with for several years has been wrongly accused of abuse and I have reason to believe that his now ex-girlfriend planted CP on his computerMy sister was gang raped in 2009 and I was assaulted in 2021. We both took cases to court and having other people corroborate was crucial. You aren’t really telling me what she’s talking about but yes it’s very legal and okay to talk about what happened to you and even share it in the case, as it creates a timeline. ‘I’ve been sharing his abuse since this date’ etc etc Why are you attacking me when I’m asking you questions or giving information that can help you? You also don’t seem to have an i… | /r/MensRights | 13/01/25 04:47 PM |
| 0 | My ex who I was with for several years has been wrongly accused of abuse and I have reason to believe that his now ex-girlfriend planted CP on his computerIf someone abused me I’d be telling everyone I know. In fact the last time I experienced that, I’m glad I did because people corroborated my experience and we discovered that the person had attacked several people in much the same way. It’s actually very important to share with people. The case and the details of the courtroom maybe not, but this could be the key to gathering evidence for one side. As someone who’s mostly worked or seen it from the victim side it makes sense, but it’s also great… | /r/MensRights | 13/01/25 04:36 PM |
| 1 | My ex who I was with for several years has been wrongly accused of abuse and I have reason to believe that his now ex-girlfriend planted CP on his computerI’ll be honest I was with you up until you said ‘if she was so afraid of him she wouldn’t be shit talking him online’ It’s very hard to actually expose someone for abuse, but it’s a necessary part of a case. If he really abused her and had cp, would you want her to hide it? Do you think it makes sense to let an abuser be free. Your friend needs a lawyer and investigation, but I think it can be proven or disproven that the cp was planted. If it was all dumped on his oc at once when he was in the … | /r/MensRights | 13/01/25 05:17 AM |
| -25 | My dad was an 'idiot' and was never really there growing up. He just built a life for me where I can live in a real castle. Now I get to shame him publicly.If her dad was never home, then who the fuck was maintaining or living inside the castle? You need to have reading comprehension to see what’s fucked up about this article. The wife probably wants the castle because she was left to rot there. Most people report that living in a castle is more trouble than it’s worth, a drafty empty amount of space. I’m sure she’s hoping to sell it but can’t. Also top gear? Who knows how often he was even home to sleep let alone live. | /r/MensRights | 11/01/25 04:30 PM |
| 0 | I feel stuckMen representing a majority of difficult job workers =\ is not the same argument /= as why should women be paid less for the same positions. Which I have linked multiple times and has been proven. But here’s a few instances of this happening in specific fields. Strangely construction has the smallest wage gap overall so I guess strength isn’t even important there. It’s a logical fallacy. I’m on your side, my dad works in construction and I hate that it destroys him. But he also doesn’t pay my bi… | /r/MensRights | 06/01/25 08:59 PM |
| -2 | I feel stuckMaybe a little empathy would go a long way, but having to make you see the function of feminism in a vacuum of how it benefits you, I’ve already kind of went over- there’s not really much past that. There’s some things that are hinging on belief and idk I can’t convince someone that maybe a step outside a comfort zone or hierarchal thought is beneficial. If you really don’t think you can support it, then be prepared to have these conversations go this way with women, be prepared to date women wh… | /r/MensRights | 06/01/25 06:43 PM |
| 1 | I feel stuckI hear about how hard men’s jobs are literally every time I have a conversation about the wage gap. | /r/MensRights | 06/01/25 06:34 PM |
| 0 | I feel stuckI’m not sure why you brought up manual labor then to try and make me feel bad for something outside my control. I’m talking about women being paid less at a desk job, retail, teaching, not a manual labor job. As in I’ve had the experience of working alongside men at the same position to the same quality at the same company, and being paid less. This is proven true in previous links but women do get paid less for the same job, so why is that? Why doesn’t that piss you off? If women are better at … | /r/MensRights | 06/01/25 06:28 PM |
| 0 | I feel stuckYeah I make a lot of money being one | /r/MensRights | 06/01/25 06:07 PM |
| -1 | I feel stuckI’m not entitled - I work, I’d just like to be paid the same as my counterparts. id have to remind you that I don’t ask people to risk their life or pursue dangerous work and I’d prefer it if men didn’t, but you can’t complain about work, call me entitled and then collect a 300k paycheck for working a job that most men won’t train and hire me for, most men would possibly find off putting in a partner and one for which my body isn’t really primed for. FYI I’ve worked in male dominated environment… | /r/MensRights | 06/01/25 05:53 PM |
| -1 | I feel stuckIt’s a political ideology, and yes I believe that wanting equality and equity is a good reason to keep it around. What feminism has done for men would be increasing paid paternal leave, joint custody and allowing men to take full custody, as well as the recent improvements for men who pursue justice for sexual assault. the feminist movement was pivotal in exposing the Boy Scouts for years of abuse following the me too movement. They go hand in hand. for the wage gap, it’s been proven to the poin… | /r/MensRights | 06/01/25 05:43 PM |
| -3 | I feel stuckWhy are you having a straw-man argument about what feminists care about? Has a woman actually said this to you? The wage gap does exist and it’s something men should care about. It’s the reason some positions get paid less for doing similar work. It should make you upset that the sexes are unequal because it affects everyone. You being made to hate women or view their desire for equality and equity as a negative is an ingrained need to have a hierarchal society where people are above and below e… | /r/MensRights | 06/01/25 04:22 PM |
| 0 | 15 year old girl coaxes mentally ill 25 year old man to end his own life on a Discord livestream suffers zero consequences for her actions and is framed as a victimIt’s best when looking into an article that you cross reference or attempt to find the discord group itself, it does exist and is mostly male or male presenting. It doesn’t advertise as a group for kids but for gaming. I use discord a lot and I’m a member of groups that have a mix of kids and adults and it’s always some fucking weirdo making a private group and hanging out with kids that causes problems. No one here can confirm that this man was meant to be in this group, I’d bet money the reaso… | /r/MensRights | 27/12/24 08:33 PM |
| -1 | 15 year old girl coaxes mentally ill 25 year old man to end his own life on a Discord livestream suffers zero consequences for her actions and is framed as a victimWell having read it, I disagree, I think they sort of framed a group that’s mostly male as having an ‘evil female’ that wanted to force an ‘innocent’ adult into suicide, when he was already deeply suicidal. It’s crazy how people cling to things to push a narrative the woman in question is a child, no grand title about the group itself who are also exploiting the girl and using her as bait for their schemes. | /r/MensRights | 26/12/24 03:41 PM |
| 1 | 15 year old girl coaxes mentally ill 25 year old man to end his own life on a Discord livestream suffers zero consequences for her actions and is framed as a victimJust to let you know I would feel the same if the genders were flipped. The fact there’s an article at all tells you a lot, there was a report filed and claims made. The fact people think there was no consequences seems based on the fact that minors don’t go to prison, which unfortunately in many ways I agree with. Kids are not really great at self actualization and owning up to their problems and yes they can be cruel. She probably need help more then anything. There’s no reason a 25 year old s… | /r/MensRights | 23/12/24 04:03 PM |
| -1 | 15 year old girl coaxes mentally ill 25 year old man to end his own life on a Discord livestream suffers zero consequences for her actions and is framed as a victimOh how did it go then? I don’t really hangout with children online, like I said I’m around kids that age for work and it’s very obvious they don’t think the same as adults, don’t type the same, don’t reason the same. This 25 year old had to talk to a teenager long enough for her to convince him to kill himself. The man was not well at all. I’m wondering what she said to him but if he was with a group of people forcing people to suicide he was not in a great place to begin with, he also could hav… | /r/MensRights | 23/12/24 02:55 PM |
| -7 | 15 year old girl coaxes mentally ill 25 year old man to end his own life on a Discord livestream suffers zero consequences for her actions and is framed as a victimI certainly don’t have kids in my group, I don’t think people on this sub realize that 15 is very very young. most 15 year olds haven’t even decided what to do with their life, how to talk, who they are. Most are in a place where they are trying to separate from their parents or rebel. I think all adults should have to raise children at some point. The fact that men consider 16 year old women to be full grown or 15 year olds is pretty gross. Like 18 still feels really young and I remember having… | /r/MensRights | 23/12/24 01:30 PM |
| -7 | 15 year old girl coaxes mentally ill 25 year old man to end his own life on a Discord livestream suffers zero consequences for her actions and is framed as a victimI think people don’t realize how crazy young a teenager is. The fact that someone was manipulated by someone who can’t even string together sentences properly is pretty baffling to me. | /r/MensRights | 23/12/24 01:18 PM |
| -29 | 15 year old girl coaxes mentally ill 25 year old man to end his own life on a Discord livestream suffers zero consequences for her actions and is framed as a victimShe’s 15, he’s 25, she’s 15 he’s 25 SHES 15 HES 25 SHES 15 HES 25 SHES 15 HES 25 SHES 15 HES 25. Just putting that out there. Why is he even in contact with a teenager ten years younger than him?? Usually I can empathize with this sub but a mentally ill man talking to a teenager only is a recipe for disaster. It’s not even that she did anything- just what kids do? Teens are cruel? Suffers zero consequences? She’s a child talking to adults online I’m sure she already suffers consequences. | /r/MensRights | 23/12/24 07:36 AM |
| 1 | 18 reasons I worry about the future of my son.https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5962395/ Listen I get that men are afraid of women taking power, but we’ve lived in a society where men have had full power to do what they please and it’s not close to perfect by any means. Even back when things were good economically many groups were massively disadvantaged- I’d cite the school shootings and overall violence from specifically men as a shitty side effect. Not to mention serial killers before that. Predation seems to be popular amoung… | /r/MensRights | 09/09/23 07:59 PM |
| -1 | 18 reasons I worry about the future of my son.Oh cool, quick question, does she open her legs for you? Do you use birth control? Would you rape her if she said no? I’m guessing if you have sex two times a week, she’s probably sexually pretty comfortable which is not something women from abusive backgrounds that frame sex as ‘negative’ come from. Was she a virgin when you got together? Because some men view women who aren’t virgins as being whores even if they only had sex one other time. Are you kind of getting how ridiculous you fucking so… | /r/MensRights | 27/08/23 04:52 PM |
| -1 | 18 reasons I worry about the future of my son.Men deciding for women WASNT a good thing, it’s why we had women with half their brains missing, it’s how people died at 40-50 and child labor was a thing. I can’t think of a worse take, even just by life expectancy things are better now, and especially for women. | /r/MensRights | 27/08/23 04:19 PM |
| 0 | 18 reasons I worry about the future of my son.I mean I guess, hopefully you aren’t in a dead bedroom like 25% of couples. | /r/MensRights | 27/08/23 04:18 PM |
| -1 | 18 reasons I worry about the future of my son.The saddest part of this is because I’m not promiscuous, in fact I could bet that you’d want to date and fuck me, but guess what? If I decided to fuck you id be a whore. Men don’t seem to realize that | /r/MensRights | 27/08/23 04:13 PM |
| -1 | 18 reasons I worry about the future of my son.Historically all of humankind have taken the fathers name, because of a history of ownership of women. Men are stronger because in any patriarchal society that’s how it shakes out. Men respect strong men, statistically that’s not what women look for in partners. | /r/MensRights | 27/08/23 03:34 PM |
| -1 | 18 reasons I worry about the future of my son.You do hate women because you blame them for having sex, I bet you also hate when women withhold sex from you as well. Can’t win with you type of men- bitches. | /r/MensRights | 27/08/23 03:32 PM |
| -1 | 18 reasons I worry about the future of my son.If the patriarchy doesn’t exist why is everyone’s last name mostly from their father? And why are men able to overcome me physically despite being the same species. We’re a fucking patriarchy, it’s present in our biology, the sooner you realize that the sooner you can use the male body you have to actually do things in society and have people confident you can succeed. I’d love to experience that but sadly I LIVE IN A PATRIARCHY. | /r/MensRights | 27/08/23 03:06 PM |
| -2 | 18 reasons I worry about the future of my son.What’s cool is that people still want to live in a world where people are born, and the biology to make birth happen is expensive. | /r/MensRights | 27/08/23 03:02 PM |
| -11 | 18 reasons I worry about the future of my son.Yeah, I agree, your mom should have closed her legs so you’d never be born. Imagine being so stupid that you hate women but also consider them to be the key holders of all sex. Get a fucking clue. | /r/MensRights | 27/08/23 02:57 PM |
| -1 | 18 reasons I worry about the future of my son.The patriarchy could have done that to women too, but men decided to purposefully force women to be smaller and weaker then them by choosing women smaller and weaker. We physically aren’t capable of doing that and you know it, sexual dimorphism comes from the sexes and choice. This isn’t the fault or choice of women but the choice of men in power and you fucking know it. | /r/MensRights | 27/08/23 02:56 PM |
| 0 | 18 reasons I worry about the future of my son.You also get to collect less you jackass. And healthcare and free services are based on your income.. | /r/MensRights | 27/08/23 02:55 PM |
| -8 | 18 reasons I worry about the future of my son.Considering women were considered disposable in the 50s - we mostly were the programmers and developers of the early internet- so maybe you should go? | /r/MensRights | 27/08/23 01:19 PM |
| -37 | 18 reasons I worry about the future of my son.Not to be rude, but a lot of the reason women use more money in the economy is because society places childcare on them.. and for abortions, women don’t have them, men also technically have them- or would you rather be forced to marry women who are forced to have your children. Why do men do that? Why do you forget that you also make children. The economy isn’t great but education didn’t fall apart because of women it fell apart because people are greedy. You contradict yourself by saying women … | /r/MensRights | 27/08/23 07:47 AM |
| – | Women lie about their partner preferences. They self-report preference for intelligent and ambitious men, but they chose the most attractive ones ignoring other traits.Uh, it sounds like you don’t actually have women who are friends, that or you are in high school. Adult women don’t complain about shit like that unless they are the Kardasians, and the only reason people watch that show is because of how outrageous those women are. Men have problems sure, I’m not saying they don’t, but men should not be bringing their very low intensity problems to random people, it seems like every man online makes their inability to get a date everyone’s problem- forgetting t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 06:39 PM |
| – | Women lie about their partner preferences. They self-report preference for intelligent and ambitious men, but they chose the most attractive ones ignoring other traits.I was having this argument with my partner and I find it crazy that men send other men to war and yet you use it as an excuse to trivialize women’s issues with abuse largely from men. I’m pretty sure most wars were started and ended by men and male leaders, but sure, make it a gendered issue somehow? Y’all really have nothing to say. It’s not the fault of women that powerful men trivialize your lives and even then- I don’t remember there being a fucking draft dude. You could argue about false ra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 04:03 PM |
| -2 | Women lie about their partner preferences. They self-report preference for intelligent and ambitious men, but they chose the most attractive ones ignoring other traits.Women: I’m being abused physically and I fear for my life and need help! Men: this girl treated me like a friend and I’m sour about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 02:29 AM |
| 2 | Women lie about their partner preferences. They self-report preference for intelligent and ambitious men, but they chose the most attractive ones ignoring other traits.Yeah, because men have no outlet for their feelings and so the dude I know casually from an event will own up to me about years of trauma I have no context with and while yes women do that too it’s less common to happen with women I barely know- meanwhile I talk to a man and he feels like talking my ear off. Also I can’t even fathom why a man would make a post like this when it’s proven time and again that men are visually based to their detriment and will do dumb shit if a woman is very attract… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 12:14 AM |
| 1 | How do you all have these PurplePillDebate conversations and not get depressed/triggered? Genuine question (New Here)Idk dating sucks but having a good healthy relationship doesn’t. I’m dating my best friend and the person I want to spend time with even if we weren’t romantically together. The point is to try to find something like that. I feel like a lot of men on here are desperate and in some ways think they have nothing to offer and that displays in their success with dating. Y’all need to have more self confidence, if you don’t throne you’re worth dating- someone else won’t either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 09:15 PM |
| 1 | 90% of what gives women ""the ick" is just men failing to live up to masculine gender stereotypesTbh, I wish men were into more then just looks, or at least were less insecure. It’s not weird to suddenly be turned off by someone. I know plenty of guys that feel that way, and then they still go ahead and fuck the girl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.Tbh all the things you list actually don’t have a negative effect on men, you can just say no to women like that. The context of men being physically stronger and doing things like violence and sexual assault are for more pressing, then if your date expects you to pay for the meal or not. This violence also stems from men treating women as objects, being all about looks and expecting women to owe them sex. Also men getting upset at patriarchal standards that were put in place by men, y’all have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 04:37 PM |
| -1 | CMV: Men see younger men as other men, where women see younger women as little children. This is at the core of many disagreements on PPD.‘Independence’ not being attractive in women is only a thing, because men are so deeply insecure, that knowing a woman doesn’t need them drives them absolutely insane. Imagine telling a someone that maybe dating someone ten years younger might create some problems you didn’t think of, in terms of compatibility or long term- complications, who might die first etc. what’s crazy is- men have shamed women for years for dating older men, it’s been a stigma one way, and has been completely allowed the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 02:36 PM |
| – | If it wasn't for sex, most men would not bother with women.There’s no reason to bring up our biology in this case then, it’s a simple as - we need each other. You gave hard-lined ‘biology’ where you really have no business stating it. Science has proven that humans gravitate to many relationships and social structures. But I see you agree with me since obviously everything you just said is in opposition to what you said before. Saying ‘we’re all hardwired’ then admitting individualism counts kind of negates that point. I really wish people in this group… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 08:06 AM |
| – | If it wasn't for sex, most men would not bother with women.I guess that works if we discount the fact that we are human beings with other goals in life then continuing the species. This also ignores the existence of homosexuality in most mammals. This also discounts the complex relationship systems that differ in most animals. It’s absolutely naive and pseudoscience to compare us to animals at this point in time. We’ve also compared ourselves with other mammals with the caveat that we are notably different. You viewing men and women this way is your own… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 07:16 AM |
| 0 | Marriage is an L for menIt’s not ‘owing’ it’s creating fucking interest. People want to feel wanted and if you actually date your wife you are driving that interest. She’ll probably pursue you at that point. If you don’t actually love someone that may seem like a lot of work- but people who actually love their spouse enjoy this thing called ‘spending time with them’ I guess you understand it by doing activities with your so which is all they are saying. Like be interesting and invested in the relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/23 07:50 AM |
| 4 | Studies saying women are "happier single" than men are extremely misleadingIt’s work for either gender, men really think that women have the best options to date or have sex while men still beat their partners. You all really don’t understand the struggle. Women are happier single because men are a fucking chore, and expect us to do everything for them and be happy about it- hence why you see women way past their fertile years choosing to be single. You know- when they are elderly. Conversely you see men languishing without women to take care of them, because many refu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/23 07:41 AM |
| 1 | Looks will get your foot in the door, but these days the door is on the top floorYeah but outside massive hunks of meat and being doctors, did they have self confidence, a belief in themselves independent of a relationship or hobbies that they pursue? Maybe not. Plenty of men hit the whole ‘has everything’ but then fall apart in conversations and are terrible socially. It’s a shame but there needs to be some work in that area to be successful with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 12:19 AM |
| 9 | Looks will get your foot in the door, but these days the door is on the top floorThe problem is, a lot of women are choosing to be single. The bar is too high because for a woman a modern relationship doesn’t provide much but a headache. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 07:37 PM |
| 5 | Looks will get your foot in the door, but these days the door is on the top floorIdk men complain like this and get focus no amount of effort on hygiene, being fit, having hobbies that involve other people or being baseline interesting. No fashion sense, nothing interesting happening in their life, no goals, no aspirations or drive. Men will also rationalize fucking anything that moves. And also forget that they bring nothing to the table so of course a really hot girl would overlook them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 07:35 PM |
| -1 | How do you guys explain lonely women?Idk man with that mindset this whole thread deserves to be alone and have women use them for their money- fucking weird and gross | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 05:31 PM |
| 1 | This guy basically breaks down how harem works and why 63% of men under 30 are singleThat’s untrue, I think women just deal with it, hence why you see so many posts about women complaining that they wish their partner was okay with just them. This is why it’s bad that men can’t distinguish ‘want to have sex with’ with ‘relationship material’ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Talking to women "as people" first usually gets the guy friendzonedI’ve only ever dated or fucked male friends, so I’m not sure what you mean lol. This is true for a lot of women. Being friendzoned doesn’t mean you are unfuckable. Some friends of mine I would never date or fuck for a myriad of reasons- differences in life experience, attraction, shared interests, etc. but I also am usually there for them and will support them as a friend. For instance I had a friend get dumped and have his phone stolen in the same day, so I drive him to go find it and tried to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 05:06 PM |
| -1 | So where exactly are these ugly women?They did a pretty big study and found that even if women didn’t find a man attractive they’d match with him. My partner is conventionally attractive to women and it makes me so uncomfortable for him to get looks or be hit on. I think I prefer dating men who are just attractive to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 02:49 PM |
| 5 | So where exactly are these ugly women?You can visit the @degradeafatty or @degradethis pig subs. See men are weird because some will get pleasure from fucking women who are undesirable and also degrading them. Being a women means it’s an open market, men will still fuck you they just won’t consider you dating material/ respect you. A man would consider that a plus but it does still leave a lot of these women single. It’s really hard to explain why this is a deficiency, you wouldn’t understand that in a lot of ways only a very specif… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 02:46 PM |
| -1 | Men using artificial intelligence to simulate "dating" is actually very sad and it's a symptom of a social disease.A lot of these issues are related to how men make women feel. It seems like even with independence women have to try to train men to be better, and now that men are brought to task they can’t be ‘better’ y’all need help- and women don’t feel like breaking their backs for it anymore. | /r/MensRights | 28/03/23 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Got a window into average woman's dating life. It was an absolute shockThis woman could have been murdered on so many occasions, anyone who decides to put their life in someone’s hands also means losing freedom | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 03:56 AM |
| 2 | How to get over how easy it is for women to have sex?Tbh it’s not a blessing, I can’t tell you how many times I thought someone thought I was cool but if I told them I wasn’t single they’d toss me aside. Being seen as useful for something that doesn’t really have anything to do with who you are as a person is empty. I envy men for having easy orgasms, if I could orgasm with a partner I would love that- but alas I have a mental block and it takes too long. Still enjoy sex, but it would be nice to have a definitive moment when I’m ‘finished’. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 03:43 AM |
| 2 | In all seriousness, Men what do you want from women in regards to solving the modern dating problems ?I kind of disagree -I feel like even now, women are doing a massive amount of emotional labor and the fact that men can’t handle the independence of women speaks to their massive dependency for a whole host of things, emotional support being a major one, domesticity and socialization being another. Looking into why men die shortly after their spouses is a good place to start or how the gender differences are between happiness and marriage. With women reporting being unhappy and men being happy r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 04:17 AM |
| 1 | "just date women your own age" is harder than you thinkoh? is it I have a really healthy relationship with sex- seems to be because I dated within my age group Not only that but In my experience every girl who did date older ended up being controlled by the man or limited in many ways. Men need to stop trying to date children, it’s fucking weird. You’ve probably never considered this but saying no to a person with a power imbalance with you makes it hard to say no and also hard to leave. People wonder why women don’t leave abusive relationships? It’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 02:29 PM |
| 1 | If A GF Can Post Bikini/Half Naked Pics, Can Her BF Like Other Women's Pics as well?Yeah but neither are end all be all, radical feminists tend to be terfs, liberal feminists tend to be varied. I was more commenting on a facet of feminism. It’s not a baby with the bath water situation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 05:07 AM |
| 2 | "just date women your own age" is harder than you thinkI know a ton of single women that age, and also I’m attracted to boyish looking men. The problem with men dating younger women is because of influence, the more power and influence you have over a person the less healthy the relationship. For instance an 18 year old will not have as much experience being an adult, holding a job or being in a relationship- they will rely on you for guidance and while shaping someone to your wants and needs sounds good in theory. In practice it usually ends with t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 02:40 AM |
| -1 | If A GF Can Post Bikini/Half Naked Pics, Can Her BF Like Other Women's Pics as well?Liberal feminism is the only feminism so I’m not sure what you’re talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 12:49 AM |
| -2 | If A GF Can Post Bikini/Half Naked Pics, Can Her BF Like Other Women's Pics as well?Liberal feminism is the only feminism so I’m not sure what you’re talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 12:49 AM |
| 1 | If A GF Can Post Bikini/Half Naked Pics, Can Her BF Like Other Women's Pics as well?Idk I find it insanely weird that feminism has the by product of making sexual content more readily available for men, as in, the biggest change in our society is that sex work for women in ‘empowering’ even people going as far as to tell women out of work to make ‘only fans’ - I get that owning your sexuality is good but so many women do this type of thing for attention, influence and as a last resort that it feels insane to frame it as pro-woman. I’m not a prude- sex work is work- but it’s cra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/23 06:20 PM |
| 1 | What are women even expected to do during the courting phase?Tbh this sounds so surface level, so many questions in here are at the getting to know you phase. And women have to do a lot to keep someone interested while also fielding many responses it looks like this; pour through hundreds of messages and try to figure out which ones are worth answering, who’s actually trying to make a connection with you and who’s just playing the numbers game. -try to figure out if the guy is abusive or only Looking for sex, and not friendship or a relationship. go on da… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 06:14 PM |
| 4 | For men dating is basically a series of job interviews.Good point, asking someone what they do for a living gives you also a good idea about their mental state, future plans, ambition and drive. I went on a date with this guy who had a well paying job and it also sounded interesting? It was basically digitizing older films and he worked for a major older film company doing this. He could have played up how interesting the work was or how much he liked it, but instead he just complained about how slow it got and how he’d rather play music- which I ge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 09:36 PM |
| 23 | CMV : Women are so militant and unforgiving with guys they're dating because they’re almost 100 percent confident “their perfect man” is waiting for them in the futureYeah sometimes being alone is better then being with an adult that will depend on you way more then you could ever lean on them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 12:40 AM |
| 2 | Do you think there's anything wrong with men to filtering out promiscuous women for serious relationships? If so, why?I 100% this, I think men need to step up their game a bit and find themselves because I think a lot of them settle. For me, body count is important if it’s extravagant, like if you spent every week for years getting with a one night stand- then we obviously have creative differences, and different interests. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 05:38 PM |
| 6 | Women should take seriously the question if they want to have children or not early in life and stick to it to avoid suffering.It’s actually really unsafe to have a baby from ages 16-20, also, you forget that most young marriages do not work out so you’re suggesting a woman become a single mother when she can just wait. I don’t understand how men can say ‘women should get knocked up younger to avoid complications’ and then the same men who are like ‘id never date a single mother’ Like where do you get off? Maybe if you wear glasses you should let your eyes go instead, men shouldn’t take viagra because you have a shelf l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 04:12 AM |
| 3 | Slut shaming is bad, but what's the actual appeal of being a promiscuous woman?Even as a woman who likes a lot of casual sex it can’t be with just anyone. There has to be attraction and also comfort- even in a casual setting. It is not easier even for promiscuous women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Slut shaming is bad, but what's the actual appeal of being a promiscuous woman?I’ve never been one to have a one night stand- however I enjoy casual sex with friends. I’ve had several male friends that I would have no strings attached sex with on occasion and we’d hangout and watch films or do other things that friends do- just never go on dates and agree to a no strings approach. I prefer relationships, so for a lot of these friendships I would be like ‘sorry can’t really hookup anymore since I have a boyfriend who isn’t okay with it’ the good friends would understand and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Can you explain the thought process of this guy obsessed with my body count?I don’t bother thinking about any of that. I just date people who see me as an equal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 07:35 AM |
| 1 | Can you explain the thought process of this guy obsessed with my body count?Yeah which is true if you view sex and the world in it as transactional | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Can you explain the thought process of this guy obsessed with my body count?Uh incels are the ones that see sex as transactional. If you want it to be transactional, hire a sex worker | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Can you explain the thought process of this guy obsessed with my body count?You said ‘fine’ but somehow feel as though women control the marketplace? Putting you in a disadvantage? Unless you don’t actually believe that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Can you explain the thought process of this guy obsessed with my body count?Maybe stop thinking about relationships and sex as a transactional marketplace and you might actually be happy one day | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 02:06 PM |
| 8 | Change my View : Cheating as a Man and as a Woman isnt the same, its a big difference. I am really curious if someone can change my view from a logical standpointWho cares what reason it’s for? Men don’t need to be ‘satiated’ with multiple women. Y’all won’t die if you just date one women like you told her you would. What’s interesting is that’s there’s a ton of evidence that men get intimacy from sex, so it’s actually more likely for a man to catch feelings for someone he’s consistently fucking. What you’re missing is that sex is complicated and people catch feelings and get jealous all the time. You as a man or woman have no control over your own feeli… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 01:26 PM |
| 1 | How will sex robots affect dating?Idk I can’t stand the idea that something is programmed for me and I like a challenge, so no I don’t see the point. I’d also want to grow old with someone and reproduce, something I can’t do with a robot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 06:00 AM |
| 1 | Do women cheat at a higher rate than men?Idk if flirting should be considered cheating, this is talking about having sex with someone and not telling your monogamous partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Do women cheat at a higher rate than men?You can’t say that all women cheat just because some girl told you she had a lot of sex and you got butthurt. Jesus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 05:56 AM |
| 3 | Can you explain the thought process of this guy obsessed with my body count?Idk the men I slept with seemed to not mind, do you forget that the women are the other half of the coin here? Someone has to sleep with those men for them to have a count at all. I’ve never cheated on anyone and I never would? I’m not desperate and I’m independent. Meaning I need a man in my life to love not to live- I can take care of myself. I think a woman or man with some experience is ok and I wouldn’t trust a person who’s maybe had a lot of one night stands and not relationships Most wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 10:30 PM |
| 1 | The current dating situation is the result of women's free sexualityUhm I actually think that less men were able to have sex with women in the past based on the fact only 5% of male genetic traits pass on. Think about it, if women are repressed and treated as property by their fathers and husbands- doesn’t really leave easy opportunities to date random people. I’m not sure how someone can have a take so wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 06:24 AM |
| 1 | Men who think that a woman should be open to every man’s advances. Can you explain why?I mean i guess? It’s kind of like someone in a desert trying to explain something to someone drowning. If you are cold asking me out and I don’t know you, I’m going to find it creepy. Even if you’re attractive it’s going to be hard for me to feel those advances are genuine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 06:15 AM |
| 3 | Male Birth Control Will Never Be Commonly UsedWell that’s funny, because both he and his doctor agree that that’s the reason and there’s plenty of evidence it causes aggression in most mammals. But sure, random person on Reddit, science and medical professionals are wrong. It’s a hormone, it causes effects. Both women and men have testosterone- it controls a variety of bodily functions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 07:55 PM |
| 7 | Male Birth Control Will Never Be Commonly UsedMy friend is on male birth control and it does the opposite, he’s finding issues with aggression because of it. Shut your mouth maybe? And granted the issues with women’s bc far outweigh that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 06:41 PM |
| 7 | Male Birth Control Will Never Be Commonly UsedIt doesn’t lower your testosterone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 06:20 PM |
| 3 | Male Birth Control Will Never Be Commonly UsedWhat about the men who have gfs/wives and who are having sex?? Why the fuck do you think women need birth control?? It’s the same reason men carry condoms. How can you think that women need bc but somehow men don’t, despite hormones and the inability to conceive hurting women long term more often. In my opinion men should just have vasectomies at birth and have their tubes retied when they are trying to conceive. Men have the ability to create millions of babies, that’s way more dangerous then o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 06:14 PM |
| 2 | What does ‘feminine’ mean to you?My boyfriend doesn’t let me and neither do my friends who are men and yes we share both traits. It’s why men and women share the same chemicals and hormones. Do you think that you somehow can fight nature and your own biology? Funny that you took ‘weaponized incompetence’ but somehow don’t see how being the gender solo expected to clean is not slave labor. What else do you call it dude? Do you think nature made women magically better at vacuuming? Use your fucking head, it’s only ever been force… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 02:00 PM |
| 3 | What does ‘feminine’ mean to you?We both have both traits, and I think it’s obvious based on what I just said about my partner that I don’t think that about all men, just the men in this thread who find interior design to somehow be whimsical and outside their understanding. If you don’t want extremes then don’t paint women in extremes when you know full well how and why they do the things they do lol. If you find being called lazy offensive, imagine constantly being painted as free slave labor and being forced into that role i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 05:29 AM |
| 6 | What does ‘feminine’ mean to you?One of the things I love about my partner is that he’s an individual, he takes care of himself and has a unique sense of style and a desire to have a space be his ‘own’. It’s so attractive to meet a person who knows who they are and makes a space comfortable. I can see what the men are talking about and I’m concerned about what the future of dating is like if men continue to hold back in terms of self expression. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 05:06 AM |
| 10 | What does ‘feminine’ mean to you?The point is, there’s nothing ‘magically female’ about wanting environments to be comfortable and look good, the biggest reckoning that men can have is realizing how much they do a disservice to themselves by not embracing the feminine aspects of life. Your gf/wife, reorganizing furniture isn’t her ‘making her mark’ but her making the space comfortable for everyone, something you could do yourself. Can’t tell you how many guys I dated who had a mattress and a sheet, and didn’t make their living … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 03:51 AM |
| 5 | What does ‘feminine’ mean to you?But a woman can be masculine and still have access to all these things, the phrase you are looking for is ‘women care more and are trained to make men care, otherwise I wouldn’t care’ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 03:32 AM |
| -2 | What does ‘feminine’ mean to you?Positive-Feminine is, being soft spoken and demure, being emotional, caring for others outside yourself and putting them first, considering the emotional toll on other people, being emotionally available for them. Other points include ( the ones society expects)- managing house and children, mending things, cooking things, organizing finances and doing tedious, necessary but boring labor. The kind that doesn’t need accolades. Being submissive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 03:30 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Men are frustrated, and potentially giving up, because of wildly differing opinions from women on the core aspects of relationships.…this is the take of someone who’s terminally online. Keep in mind people who tend to do these studies tend to be a specific type of person who probably leans traditional already. I don’t really want to get married so doubly no relevant. I rate my life and it’s health by how happy I am, not what I should need to feel happy. No person is the same. If you feel like turning people down because of arbitrary reasons, it’s kind of a you problem, as no person I’ve had vested mutual interest in has ever… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 10:13 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men are frustrated, and potentially giving up, because of wildly differing opinions from women on the core aspects of relationships.It does, why would he care that I had sex with someone else? Some men are so weird, you go out of your way to put down women who have sex, yet want sex from a partner. A smart man would realize that an equal would have similar experiences as them, and thus shouldn’t really be judged. A monogamous relationship means you’re loyal to each other and have made a vested decision to be together- so no it shouldn’t matter if you’ve had sex with other people beforehand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 09:34 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men are frustrated, and potentially giving up, because of wildly differing opinions from women on the core aspects of relationships.Suppose so, but I am told to be attractive and my bf doesn’t care that I’m a furry. Take that with a grain of salt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 09:32 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Men are frustrated, and potentially giving up, because of wildly differing opinions from women on the core aspects of relationships.Oh I meant fuck friendzoned- as in I would have sex with him but never date him, he had a high body count and seemed unreliable. Because he was cheating on her and she had a right to know? Friends don’t let friends make terrible decisions. I also found out because he was trying to get me to have sex with him while still being with her. So yes, felt involved. When someone cheats they are hurting themselves and someone else, it’s not worth it, I told on him as a friend. My current partner does kno… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 08:11 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Men are frustrated, and potentially giving up, because of wildly differing opinions from women on the core aspects of relationships.It’s always better to target a specific woman instead of guessing about what ‘attractive women’ want, because there are billions of them on the fucking planet and not all of them use Reddit. Have I fucked a bad boy? Sure, and totally fuckzoned him, put him on the back burner, shared no interests with him and only called him to hook up until he ended up in a mono relationship and I found out he was cheating on her so I told her in person. Not sure what he’s doing now. Not in my life for sure. I a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 07:22 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men are frustrated, and potentially giving up, because of wildly differing opinions from women on the core aspects of relationships.Wow stop the presses! Women have differing opinions on dating! And woah! Shocker! They have an interest in challenging men to date, ‘bad boys’ uwu I guess that’s equal to you getting a girl to talk to you and falling in love with her on the spot, since women find it so endearing to easily win over a man by just existing /s. Men complain about not being able to date attractive women and then lambast women for wanting not to date a guy who is easy? Would you date an ugly woman who was easy? Both g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Do men have ANY advantages when it comes to dating?But that’s going based on a model that no one has agreed on, I find conventionally attractive men to be annoying to look at. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Do men have ANY advantages when it comes to dating?Tbh they did a study on tinder and most women will match with men they aren’t attracted to. I liked my partner because we share interests and he was nice in his intro line. Being attractive helps both genders, but if your a man, being interesting trumps that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 10:33 AM |
| 2 | q4men: what contradictions do you see in women?Lol, you do realize that everyone does that? It’s called springboarding, there’s pluses and minuses to every decision. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Should we just raise the consenting age to 25?Every man I know over 30 who’s dating a girl 18-23 is seen as extremely problematic irl. Most that are in my life also were abusive to the women they were with. I knew this guy who was the friend of a friend who would purposely find 17 year olds online and then wait till they were 18, one day his 18 gf (who refused to have sex with him btw because she found him grotesque) answered a work phone call when he wasn’t home and lost him a multi-million dollar deal. Play stupid games- win stupid prizes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 07:27 AM |
| 5 | Should we just raise the consenting age to 25?Men choose by looks constantly, that’s a waaay better comparison. Men also like to date by height too? That’s a different conversation then this one. Women who are 30 shouldn’t be dating men who are 19 either. I run a discord and so many boys 18-21 end up really interested in me since I’m an adult who’s nice to them, but I rationalize that dating them would equal me leading in intense ways, since I know them from a mentorship capacity. If I dated them the power balance would be insane, and they’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 04:30 AM |
| 9 | Should we just raise the consenting age to 25?age gaps are weird. I always wonder how people can be in their 30s and think dating a 19 year old is okay. Here’s some reasons here: Most likely a 19 year old has not held a long term job or managed money, meaning they’d be very reliant on the older person financially. In many age gap relationships, the younger person ends up ‘trapped’ financially, and have never worked or grown the skills to leave the relationship safely. Despite sex being very open, most people do not have sex for the first ti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 03:17 AM |
| 0 | q4men: what contradictions do you see in women?Right.. what does this have to do with my comment specifically? This is just really obvious imo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 11:06 PM |
| 5 | q4men: what contradictions do you see in women?I think both people in a relationship should be able to share how they feel. Women who don’t want men to share are kind of asking for a shady relationship not based on comfort or trust. The problem is, men tend to have no one else and so they overshare in an overtly negative way that tends to be against forces that are outside their control, this is stressful. For women I’ve noticed- tend to complain more about things in their control. This isn’t an exact science, just something I’ve noticed, it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 10:23 PM |
| 2 | There Would Be Less Angry Men If Equality Was ReintroducedKilling people costs more then that too. Even removing dead bodies requires protocol. There’s a reason you can’t let people rot. Although I do consider it community service to try to educate angry, teenage, incels. I do have more important things on my plate - turning off notifs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/23 10:32 PM |
| 1 | What is the issue with women having social media?Yes a Reddit thread with 18 upvotes is a good metric to how men as a whole feel about social media. I’m saying that men being far too picky probably ruins their chances, but we all know that most of you would not care if the woman was attractive and showed interest- so your comment is pretty moot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/23 10:27 PM |
| 1 | There Would Be Less Angry Men If Equality Was ReintroducedIt costs us billions of dollars a year, and those services exist and are used by people in upper class areas? Who the fuck do you think CALLS the police?? Who do you think puts them in jail? It’s whatever man, I’m trying to tell you what we see on the streets on a regular basis and you’re living in a fantasy world of wether or not those services get used. Hospitals have to resuscitate dying people, I’d love to see your feelings on that if you end up in an accident without your insurance card on … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/23 10:01 PM |
| 0 | What is the issue with women having social media?Jesus Christ lol, luckily my partner doesn’t care about that shit. I wonder how many men disqualify women who are looking for a boyfriend and want to be loyal on the grounds that they use social media. Also a ‘website’? I have a website homie, people are not flipping through webpages unless they find you on Instagram, Twitter or Reddit first. I know plenty of women who make money on their social media by posting pics of themselves. Not even of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/23 09:56 PM |
| 2 | There Would Be Less Angry Men If Equality Was ReintroducedI work for the government and we spend billions of taxpayer dollars on homeless people who go in and out of the system. Police, jail, hospital, death, sickness, all these things cost way more to remedy then to supply welfare. Most of the time people on welfare will be able to work, and provide for themselves, which puts less of a burden on the rest or society and other taxpayers. Also most homeless are born into being homeless and never get the opportunity to leave. https://www.jamboreehousing.c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/23 09:49 PM |
| 1 | What is the issue with women having social media?I’m an artist and I need social media to sell art. People use social media for way more then thirst traps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/23 09:45 PM |
| 6 | There Would Be Less Angry Men If Equality Was Reintroducedit’s actually more expensive to let people live on the street with their kids then to give them welfare - and I’m tired of dumbass people like you pushing propaganda, when most people on the street are fucking men. You shoot yourself in the foot, because anyone can end up alone and homeless, even you are a few bad months away from having nothing. I guess you’d be thrilled we have safety nets then? Of course most states won’t help someone unless they have a tax history. If there were any Justice … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/23 03:16 PM |
| 3 | There Would Be Less Angry Men If Equality Was ReintroducedYou do realize that we just passed legislation in most states that makes it impossible for someone to have an abortion right? Imagine being so tone deaf that you blame the parent who stayed with the kid for staying, in a country where you have to have the kid. Even adopting a kid out is expensive, being pregnant is really really expensive. So is plan b and contraception. You do realize that if parents don’t take care of kids the state does? And that we really pay so little out to welfare. Not to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/23 03:10 PM |
| 10 | There Would Be Less Angry Men If Equality Was ReintroducedBruh I don’t even understand why you complain, if the single mom didn’t take care of the kid, who would? The state? The dead beat dad? Our society needs to have a net and it’s privileged as Fuck to say that children without parents or without wealthy parents just don’t deserve an education. Children are fucking expensive. Also the draft.. the draft??? What kind of argument is that? When was the last draft homie, they didn’t even draft for the Iraqi war. Yet every day men leave women to care for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/23 05:59 AM |
| 1 | i truly believe most women are oblivious to how attractive thier partners are, and women value being competent or the illusion of being competentIdk what you’re even trying to say, yes people like other people who are competent, I feel like men should try dating based on that too, maybe looks aren’t all that matter? Try dating someone who isn’t competent at anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 08:31 AM |
| – | Would most RP men prefer an average looking virgin woman or a knockout woman with a past?Idk I’m dating a ‘monogamy’ minded man and he’s not boring, you ever consider that maybe women just like men, prefer dating people who are interesting and not such downers? Tbh every incel I’ve ever met seems like the type who’d cheat when given the opportunity, because they are easy to manipulate sexually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 09:42 PM |
| 3 | Women Are Significantly More Likely To Lose Interest In Sex In Long Time Relationships In Spite Of Age, Relationship Satisfaction, Sexual Satisfaction, and Child Rearing Status.Tbh I want to be in a relationship where this doesn’t happen. I need it. So as a woman I’m going to try to keep the spark alive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Would most RP men prefer an average looking virgin woman or a knockout woman with a past?I fucking don’t lol, I don’t know women who do, it’s very annoying to date a playboy long term who’s flaky and obviously chasing other women. Women want comfort in marriage | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 03:29 PM |
| 6 | Would most RP men prefer an average looking virgin woman or a knockout woman with a past?Women do the same thing, by fucking playboys but not marrying them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 04:59 AM |
| 1 | Why can't the patriarchy be discussed?Homie how is it that men moving into programming made that job a six figure salary when it was considered ‘womens work’ and necessary but poorly compensated before that? What about nurses being paid more before women took on the role, nurses used to be paid and revered in the same way as doctors. I’m not in construction because my dad has a son and basically gave him the job, much like he also gave my brother a Shelby Cobra and told me ‘it’s too fast a car for a woman’. You really don’t see how … | /r/MensRights | 27/01/23 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Why can't the patriarchy be discussed?I’m not saying that’s the discrimination, I’m saying that as a society the value we assign to jobs as being ‘for men’ or ‘for women’ is arbitrary, yet somehow when jobs become popular for women they become less paid. You can easily find this information -the history of programming is a good example. People gravitate to labor jobs not because of their gender but because the system they live in label it as work ‘for them’. There is no blame on either sex. The fact that you are assigning blame to o… | /r/MensRights | 27/01/23 07:57 PM |
| 4 | Are there men in your life who are good overall but fail at dating? What does this say about modern dating?Female geek who is unattractive - same thing (Fixed it for you) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Why can't the patriarchy be discussed?you are hitting the point over and over again, why do you think teachers, nurses and other professions are so underpaid? When those were strictly popular jobs for men, they were paid a standard living wage. This happened with computer programming too, the wages got higher when it became a ‘stem’ field popularized by men despite women being pushed into it before the internet boom. Our society creates a construct of what is ‘male’ and ‘female’ and subconsciously a lot of people follow it, usually … | /r/MensRights | 27/01/23 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Are there men in your life who are good overall but fail at dating? What does this say about modern dating?In a lot of ways the guys I know who can’t date fall into a few categories. There’s geeky men who just cannot talk to women, they can’t keep a conversation or interest, or default to only talking about themselves out of fear. There’s the nice guys who have similar issues but also are scared of doing the wrong thing and end up never trying with anyone. Then I have weird ones where the guy is super cool and awesome maybe not conventionally attractive and just can’t find a woman that fits his stran… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 05:17 AM |
| 2 | Why can't the patriarchy be discussed?How do you not see how those constructs are patriarchal? Why is it such a shot in the foot that you don’t see that the system that uses men for labor is the same one that wants women in servitude to men? Funny that women in hr is considered gendered, you saw the point of breaking these systems and completely skimmed past it. You ever consider that people who hire for manual labor chose to not hire women for gendered reasons regardless of the people involved? For the past thousands of years women… | /r/MensRights | 27/01/23 01:08 AM |
| 1 | TIL that feminist Sheryl Sandberg said the quiet part out loud in her bookNot to be weird but I think every guy here understands the concept of dating someone and finding them fun vs a good partner. I’ve seen so many men bed and date a very attractive woman and never want to marry or seriously date her for any number of reasons. All this passage is saying is that it’s good to date around and meet people but you should find a partner who sees you as an equal who you can actually build a life with | /r/MensRights | 26/01/23 05:57 PM |
| 15 | If I as a man cannot use my autism as a cop-out and use it to leverage my advances in school or work, women should be held then accountable just as much whenever they abuse their very own biological difficultiesPeople with disabilities do get help. You can’t ‘get ahead’ but your work has to recognize shortcomings and work around your needs. I’m not sure what your issue is here? As someone with chronic painful periods since 12 - occasionally I take a sick day, mostly because I cannot move and I have to. I don’t automatically get paid for it, I don’t get a special sick day, I have to use the ones I have. I just don’t understand what the argument is here, if someone is in pain they should get to take thei… | /r/MensRights | 26/01/23 02:38 PM |
| 1 | The world would shut down…What a great example of sexism. Yeah their work didn’t matter, only back then you needed to be able to read code to use them. Doing complex math was considered grunt work back then, since humans had to do it by hand and no one wanted to. (So make women do it) Imagine sitting at a desk all day just solving college level math problems, and then when computers really took off women tried to learn them to keep their jobs. Also menial data entry? Back then it was a ridiculous process most needed to l… | /r/AntiFeminists | 27/12/22 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Feminism has gone waay too muchWe do all the time lol? People judge couples for way less detrimental power imbalances. A big one is when the woman is fatter/less attractive then the man. The whole me too movement was about powerful wealthy men and how their influence effects women. We also highlighted how common it is for women to be emotionally abusive and get away with it since we don’t focus on abuse. I see disgusting ideas thrown back and forth on reddit about the ‘use’ of women and age and I’ve met men in real life who g… | /r/AntiFeminists | 27/12/22 04:14 AM |
| -15 | The world would shut down…That’s so ignorant, as if we don’t have failsafes. This is one day, and by the way a lot of women work in those fields as well. Remember that worldwide pandemic we just had and how we cut the workforce in half for all job processes? They automated so many processes. Not only that but we wouldn’t even have nuclear power without much of the women’s work involved, remember- working computers used to be ‘womens work’. | /r/AntiFeminists | 27/12/22 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Feminism has gone waay too muchYikes, it’s pretty easy to trick someone younger into doing what you want, doesn’t mean it’s healthier for anyone involved. Much harder to divorce your abusive gross older husband when you’re too young to even know the steps to divorce. | /r/AntiFeminists | 26/12/22 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Feminism has gone waay too muchIt depends, people who tend to marry the first person they have sex with tend to have depression and intimacy issues down the line, and choose to stay together out of codependency rather then desire. | /r/AntiFeminists | 26/12/22 07:12 PM |
| -2 | Wow.Bruh if someone tells you something you listen, it goes both ways. How did she lie if she told him she had been with other people, what did he expect | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/12/22 03:57 PM |
| -2 | Wow.If a man told me he’d been promiscuous and we were dating I’d understand what he means by promiscuous, and behave accordingly. Most of my gfs who have told me they were promiscuous meant exactly this. He should have considered that before going any further with her, and if you’ve been with someone awhile it kind of doesn’t matter at that point? Like they built a life together and he’s going to throw it away for things that happened before him? | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/12/22 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Wow.She did tell him she’d been around, it’s not really her fault that he didn’t ask a ton of questions. People change, she told him the truth, they are married, I’m not sure why he’s so bothered | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/12/22 10:22 AM |
| 1 | Maisie williams thinks anyone one who is not a feminist, is sexist.Yeah, despite how you feel about feminists, the whole creed of feminism is equality and equity. Women should b treated like they were 50 years ago. They’ve only been even close to equal a fraction of our collective history, and face a lot of prosecution still elsewhere. | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/12/22 09:30 PM |
| 0 | This man just wanted to check that he wasn't going to kiss someone underageIdk, the checking isn’t really a problem. I guess it more the culture around older men and younger women, and the idea that maybe if the law allowed men to be with even younger women then 18 they would. | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/12/22 03:38 PM |
| 1 | As a woman I’m starting to really hate other womenAs a woman, I grew up bing told I was trash and that I wouldn’t really amount to anything, that I wasn’t allowed to drive fast cars, I wasn’t allowed to build things. A few years ago my ex acted like I couldn’t operate power tools even though I wanted to (after we broke up I taught myself- partially to spite him) Why am I telling you this? Because this is part of my experience, I have a lot of male friends and I’ve dated a bit, and I have to say men are missing certain things in terms of how the… | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/12/22 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Standards for body count discussionI think the count is also not a gendered issue to some extent, I swing both ways and a high count would give me pause- because I don’t prioritize sex with strangers or new partners, so it could mean a lifestyle mismatch. Suffice it to say if you’re dedicating so much time to an activity it becomes a part of your lifestyle. | /r/AntiFeminists | 16/12/22 08:48 PM |
| 2 | Standards for body count discussionI’ve met a lot of men who have 100+ body counts, for the sake of the count it seems. I think it’s slightly more common for a man to allow a strange woman into his house then vice versa. That’s why a woman with a high count is impressive, how the fuck did she stay safe or make that happen without immense prejudice? I can’t imagine being a woman who takes on more then 10+ new partners a year- but I do know many assigned men at birth persons who have way more partners in a year then I can dream of-… | /r/AntiFeminists | 16/12/22 07:43 PM |
| -1 | False Rape accusation : He lost his job, he spent time in jail, he was detained at home with an ankle monitor, he was basically being tortured in school by the other students and investigators. Once the allegations were proven false, they didn’t care about the guy but were protecting the liars.Having been reviewing police reports and documentation specifically about false accusations regarding rape I see that they are not- they make up 2-8% which while not good in general, the fact that people are pushing them to the front of news reports as an ‘epidemic’ is worrying, because people weaponize false allegations to disprove actual crime. Do you have documentation that proves otherwise or are you just talking? It’s very hard to bring people to justice, but the only way to fix this it see… | /r/AntiFeminists | 16/12/22 04:58 PM |
| 1 | False Rape accusation : He lost his job, he spent time in jail, he was detained at home with an ankle monitor, he was basically being tortured in school by the other students and investigators. Once the allegations were proven false, they didn’t care about the guy but were protecting the liars.I get the fear of this - but it is shockingly rare, and we need to have laws that can help protect victims of real assault. Even in my lifetime, my sister had a class action suit against men in her workplace that were drugging and raping women and giving them HPV, the court tried really hard to prove that she was lying and label her as a ‘slut’ so she wouldn’t win- despite there being clear evidence of the crime. While I get that men being accused is bad, it’s also very hard to actually bring me… | /r/AntiFeminists | 16/12/22 05:08 AM |
| 1 | Standards for body count discussionI know a lot of men with 100+ counts as opposed to women. Women on average are not as sex motivated as men are- hence how gay men seem to have a lot of sex with strangers. I’m a woman, and a man told me he had been with over a hundred women, I instantly wrote him off as not relationship material, and never considered him that even when he wanted that with me. Which worked out because later he had a gf and also cheated on her. Bragging about your count as a man just reads as a red flag. He was al… | /r/AntiFeminists | 16/12/22 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Lmao the term “female” is demeaning to FeMiNiSts.I love the fact that in that sentence the dude uses ‘guys’ a way more comfortable term for people then ‘females’ words really matter and the way people use girls and females instead of women speaks volumes. For instance - calling adult women girls, or women in general ‘females’. ‘Males’ are so crass. See how weird that sentence sounds. Do better. | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/12/22 08:22 AM |
| 3 | I'll Never Forgive "Men" Who Support FeminismI’d have to argue that seeing women as ‘weak’ is something that needs to change and the whole ‘listen to her because she’s the woman’ thing isn’t feminism at all, it’s an old boomer ideology that comes from forcing the idea that women ‘rule the home’ being in the ‘doghouse’ with your wife has been an idea since the 50s - nothing to do with modern times or feminism at all. The only difference is that these men can’t legally beat up their wives, how poorly they choose a spouse has nothing to do wi… | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/12/22 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Trans men noticing they no longer have female privilegeOkay so then please share with me an article where the overwhelming response is positive. | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/12/22 02:24 AM |
| 0 | Trans men noticing they no longer have female privilegeI think that’s a good thing? Trans women in the news are almost always being teased ridiculed, sensationalized or put down. | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/12/22 10:18 PM |
| 2 | Got attacked by a feminist for a men’s day post. I pulled an old “menkampf” on her. Makes me sick that some self proclaimed advocate for health and peace would go out of her way to bash someone else’s fights for well being. Cancel these troglodytes. Happy men’s day boys.The only problem here is that the statistics are correct. We don’t ignore crime statistics involving the black community- we just don’t attribute it to race. In the case of men, something very important causes men to commit more of these types of crime and it would be rude and remiss to just ignore that. There’s nothing to gain by ignoring the truth. | /r/AntiFeminists | 20/11/22 01:10 PM |
| 1 | I'm tired of being gaslight that men have everything so great. The reality is that they're the only group of people that targeted hatred of is socially acceptable, even celibrated.INFO: what was the post itself about? Why did it turn into a convo about men vs women? | /r/AntiFeminists | 20/11/22 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexuallyOkay if that’s true, how have you worked yourself to death today? Are you talking about earning currency to live or something else? Please explain how men are expected to ‘work to death’ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/19 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexuallyWhat’s sad is... even if a guy wants to make you cum, since for women, it’s a delicate dance to get to an orgasm,.. sometimes you just can’t get there. I’ve recently had that issue with my partner and it.. really fucking hurts. I get the connection, and I feel horny for him, but it takes so long to get there that I just end up barely halfway to an orgasm and just try to make it good for him so he finishes.. nobody talks about this, how sex is so very unequal for the woman and how we sacrifice ti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/19 09:43 AM |
| 1 | It's better to have a personality that's completely repulsive to women, than to have a personality that's tolerable/ friend material to women.It depends on the girl, and also how well you talk to anyone, it just sounds like you didn’t know how to continue a conversation...you shouldn’t be so hard on yourself, thinking that it’s you that’s the problem is bad. There’s always a way to change, and if you think your vibe goes up around certain people there’s no reason why you can’t bring it up yourself or why it can’t just be positive in general. Women aren’t that much different to be honest, unless you focus on what’s different, and sike … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/19 08:31 AM |
| 2 | It's better to have a personality that's completely repulsive to women, than to have a personality that's tolerable/ friend material to women.What? How can you have a terrible personality but have people enjoy your company, to what degree are you being ‘a bad personality ‘? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/19 03:40 AM |
| 1 | How Common Is the Narrative that "Men Only Improve For Pussy"?I’ve never had sex with a man I wasn’t physically and emotionally attracted to. I’ve had a lot of sex with the same people monogamously, save for one instance of sexual assault. Which was traumatizing by the way, and a great point for why I said I don’t have a lot of choice. That kind of trauma has held me back from even considering trusting or being close right away with certain men and has made it harder to date. I have to choose based on how I feel and from men I know and trust over time, a r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/19 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Guys, how would you live your life if you were an ugly woman?Being a woman who went from ugly in teen hood to attractive in adulthood, this question is kind of dumb. Working hard and being great at a job was important to me in my youth and I swore off men for a long time, so I’d probably stay that way. Kind of ok being a cat lady in that universe, the way you are in life continues if you stay in one mindset. My college years I started focusing on fashion/fit lifestyle/ social dexterity. I forced myself to be comfortable in groups by volunteering overseas,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/19 02:13 AM |
| 5 | It's better to have a personality that's completely repulsive to women, than to have a personality that's tolerable/ friend material to women.If that’s your thought process then don’t bother having friends or being a decent human being at all. Upside: sometimes get laid Downside: die alone and disliked by most people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/19 02:05 AM |
| 1 | that whole "well maybe if you didn't have such a low view of women you'd actually get laid" is the most annoying thing blue pillers say. i mean what's up with that perspective, it's such provable horse shit.Women sometimes have sex with men who are attractive and nothing else, just like men! Granted if you want a gf you can’t do that shit, same as a girl who treats men like garbage and cycles through them. You don’t need to put them on a pedestal just don’t stalk, maim, or rape them. And honestly if you could treat them like equal human beings Thad be cool too. Although most women don’t expect a lot from fuck boys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/19 02:07 AM |
| 1 | How Common Is the Narrative that "Men Only Improve For Pussy"?That counts as not getting what you want! I’ve felt that way about men, I’ve been repulsed by men before. Most men who offer me sex are old enough to be my dad, frightening levels of controlling or someone who has no idea that a woman they don’t know might not be interested. Just as you wouldn’t be interested in a man. Why can’t you empathize with that and understand? What I’m saying is, if sex was really as make or break as you say, you have options just as I do. The problem for you is that you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/19 07:57 PM |
| 1 | How Common Is the Narrative that "Men Only Improve For Pussy"?Hey if you really want to have sex, I know a group of people down to fuck you, they are called gay men. Does that not sound great to you? Not interested in being penetrated or having your dick sucked by a man? I can guarantee if you wanted to fuck a man TONIGHT I could make that happen for you. You sit here and say I have so many options but you yourself feel the same way about your own gender, you can easily have sex but choose not to. Why? Because what you are saying is bullshit, you have no b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/19 04:24 AM |
| 1 | How Common Is the Narrative that "Men Only Improve For Pussy"?Is this how you feel? Because I’ve literally met no one who feels this way. Maybe I’m just lucky, because a person who is like this sounds like they’ve faced a lot of abuse and do not get a healthy amount of social encouragement. While sex can fill some gaps, it also presents an issue, especially in the case of men confiding too much in their female partners and disconnecting emotionally from the rest of society. You say these people want sex but I think the reason it stings so much is because f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/19 04:15 AM |
| 1 | How Common Is the Narrative that "Men Only Improve For Pussy"?Also some guys just plain won’t have sex with you, being forward is terrifying to men at times, you’ve never dated men so what do you know about it being easy for women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/19 12:22 AM |
| 1 | How Common Is the Narrative that "Men Only Improve For Pussy"?I just explained that I haven’t though? If you had the option to have sex with a bunch of undesirables it’s the same thing. I was ugly once, I have a basis for being undesirable. I’m talking people paid other kids to talk to me undesirable. You’re lack of trying to see the opposite view is baffling, I’m sure there’s some women you wouldn’t want to have sex with, or ones you’d want to sleep with but not date or see again, it’s not that simple to just say that every option thrown at you is a good … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/19 12:19 AM |
| 2 | How Common Is the Narrative that "Men Only Improve For Pussy"?Easy access to a waste of time that’s rarely pleasurable. I’ve had sex at least 500 times and have only cum maybe three times. That’s my point though, you’re basing your life around a hedonistic pleasure that isn’t really that important to a nice life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/19 10:55 PM |
| 2 | How Common Is the Narrative that "Men Only Improve For Pussy"?That’s the problem though, you should be wanting these improvements to feel better in general, when you focus too much on how it’ll effect other people, you get violent men, incels and rapists. Life isn’t a game where ‘leveling up’ entitles you to anything but feeling good. Where does personal health factor in? Long life? Success at work? Helping the common man and generally being good. I refuse to believe that most men are only ‘trying’ in life for the nookie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/19 06:32 PM |
| 4 | How Common Is the Narrative that "Men Only Improve For Pussy"?Not to be a downer, but I think it’s really lame to base your whole existence around some half pleasure. Can you break this down for me? Would you really want to be having sex 12 hours a day? Probably not. Most people spend a fraction of their lives engaging in it. Most people work for creature comforts or ambition, or just to be accepted by society as a whole, even the most lecherous people on the planet enjoy engaging in conversation about things they like, and would probably find it frustrati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/19 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Why is talent so undervalued by RP communities as a way of attracting women?I feel like random tail isn’t worth as much as actual love though. Some people spend their whole lives feeling alone and getting all the pussy they could want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 12:28 AM |
| 0 | What is toxic femininity?You’re forgetting that a larger portion of these women never report these things voluntarily, you can pile all the statistics you want and they would be wrong. I myself have never reported my rape, because I wast he’s my sister go through the justice system after being gang raped and she had to move from the abuse she got as a victim. Even though she saved countless girls lives because these men had raped 12 girls who were all under 18 and too scared of the men as a group. I understand how they … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/19 03:15 PM |
| 2 | Is it reasonable to say that many women prefer objectification to the alternative?As a woman who has made all her relationships happen, I think you’re wrong. Women do not want to be objects, unless it’s a kinky sex thing, or they are members of a submissive women’s group, which does exist. A majority do not need to be made to feel like objects, I say this because that thinking is DANGEROUS, I cannot condone you saying that. Let’s break this down. Yes it is nice to be hit on, if it’s by an attractive man that you like. There is something ingrained in women, that it looks despe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/19 09:41 AM |
| 1 | Why is talent so undervalued by RP communities as a way of attracting women?I mean, I’m guessing your friend is dating her because of some reason besides her looks. Where does being happy factor in here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/19 09:14 AM |
| 1 | Why is talent so undervalued by RP communities as a way of attracting women?Idk it’s not just the skill, it’s having an ambition that’s not sleeping with women. Can you imagine how boring it is to date someone who’s only goals are sleeping with women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/19 09:13 AM |
| 2 | Human civilization and its progress are worse off with a liberated sexual climate.To be honest this is super stupid, we don’t need the monogamist married culture to survive and we are overpopulated as is. People are still having children and people still work. Ease of having sex doesn’t make people stop having ambition in Life and if achieving in life for you is dependent on getting laid I feel sorry for you. The problem right now is late stage capitalism, and the fact that many people work minimum wage or work for larger corporations that don’t offer what they used to offer … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/19 02:18 AM |
| 3 | Women have much more fragile egos than menSounds like your ego was hurt by this in some way, and yes a lot of the issues in my life wouldn’t even be issues if men didn’t exist. Maybe my dad wouldn’t have beaten me, or that guy wouldn’t have threatened my life so that I’d have sex with him, or my sister wouldn’t have PTSD from being gang raped in high school and then going to court and getting a meager settlement while her attackers roam our town still. What’s the worst thing a woman has ever done to you? Be mildly annoying? Why do we ac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/19 08:06 AM |
| 7 | What is toxic femininity?Yikes. And you think this shit happens often? If you look up police statistics, you can find that only 5% or rapes are false. You’ll find that .09% of paternity claims are false. You’ll find that 25% of domestic violence are false flags. STOP DOUBTING VICTIMS AND SPREADING THE IDEA THAT WOMEN LIE ABOUT CRIMES. It’s hard enough for women to prove they were raped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/19 07:24 AM |
| 5 | You know how women say they don't want to be a "mother" to their husbandYeah that’s almost the bare minimum, when a woman says she is ‘mothering’ her husband it means that he treats her like she should be taking care of him, and it’s not sexy to take care of a full grown adult. To be honest OP you sound like you aren’t a husband to begin with, so wtf are you complaining about? God I’m so sick of men, y’all have the best end of the fucking deal and still find reasons to complain. My wife needs to wait on me hand and foot or else I’m not protecting her wahhhh, which j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/19 07:08 AM |
| 3 | Women have much more fragile egos than menIdk men are kind of useless and a lot of societies shitty emotional labor gets piled onto women, possibly making them fragile. I don’t think women’s egos are fragile and the examples you’ve given don’t point to that either. Ego is pride and self esteem out of control, which usually expresses itself as a abuse of power, much like what you seem to relish while denying your gf sex or making fun of her to get her ‘back’. Maybe women are more easily hurt? But then again I don’t believe In that ‘one g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/19 07:02 AM |
| 1 | r/femaledatingstrategy is disgusting.Dating a man who can’t take care of himself financially IS a burden. Men usually make more then women even in the same field, so if a man makes less then you you usually have to pick up the slack. An adult human being should be able to afford to live and not be broke all the time, I know so many exes who could not handle money and spent it frivolously. Maybe men should consider dating outside of looks and actually focus on normal women who are ambitious and financially heathy, oh wait no you go … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/19 09:09 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Male sexuality is seen as predatory and repressed in society.The best example of non predatory sexuality is commonly seen among gay men, because they realize that at least one man there will want them in that way. The pitfalls that I see straight men fall into are situations where they feel they ‘need’ sex and so they try to get with every woman in their community while not really applying themselves as a friend or equal first. Women can tell when you are shooting buckshot and just trying to hit at least one woman, and it’s not an attractive thing. Everyo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/19 12:20 AM |
| 7 | The average man is too trusting of women ...especially young womenI mean if you see people that way you’ll attract them. I’ve met a lot of players who would say that women lie, are sneaky, etc but these men were also..assholes and Fuck boys. You attract what you put out there and being distrustful will only introduce you to broken trust. I feel really sorry for anyone who generalizes in this way. I trust all my friends male or female, and ditch the people who make me wary or do me wrong. Having a dick or vagina has nothing to do with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/19 02:14 AM |
| 2 | A Good Man is Getting Even Harder to FindThat’s because they were wet nurses. Do you do the job of a wet nurse? I don’t think so. A nurse has taken on a lot of duties in modern times including work that would normally fall on a physicians assistant which was largely a male dominated field. Same jobs, different names, less pay. I have a lot of respect for what nurses and emts do, yet it seems to be stagnant for both in terms of wages. The article mentions college, being just about parties, sleeping and the occasional lecture and that th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/19 03:44 AM |
| 4 | A Good Man is Getting Even Harder to FindI love how people trivialize things that women achieve. ‘Wow more women are going to college, must mean college is useless now!’ Same as nursing which used to be a male profession and then became largely female and is now paid less. Typical patriarchal bullshit. That being said if you are a decent human being a woman will date you even if you make less. It’s not about the making less it’s about the trying that’s important. I had a boyfriend who always owed me money, he paid me back but was just … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/19 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?Tbh if a girl likes you and isn’t trying to be close to you, spend more time with you over others and generally giving you a lot of attention, she’s asking a lot for you to be clued in. Usually if you’re mutually interested in a girl you may be unsure of how she feels because you aren’t on the outside looking in | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/19 09:37 PM |
| 2 | Why do women keep their bastard children?Honestly this is a double edged question, what you’re saying is right, but also wrong. First on the subject of having children. Women have children for many reasons and although I’m a pro-choice it’s not always the right time person I can say that even I would be unsure when faced with that decision, and I’m not the only person in that situation who would weigh in on it. Some people want a baby. My sister did, she purposely made it happen so she’d raise it solo and it turns out the father of the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/19 07:55 PM |
| 0 | Q4 RP Men: What does a gorgeous perfect virginal young woman get out of dating and fucking only you if you’re against marriage and will leave her for someone younger when she hits her “wall”?What does ‘spinning plates’ mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/19 10:40 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, what qualities do you consider a Good Man to have?It sounds like you just haven't met that many women and you are generalizing a bit too much. Getting to know someone means shedding certain layers, I've dated many people and I cannot say that they were all one 'type' and sometimes getting to know the real person you're dating is 'painful' but it's the only way to have a real connection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 10:52 AM |
| 1 | Since everyone on this sub, male and female, is too stupid to ask this question correctly...A playful personality, and confidence. Not the kind of confidence like he needs to do or say something specific, it's more, he's comfortable talking, he's not in a rush or seems like he has an ulterior motive. I once jumped this guys bones because he was teaching me poi (which is a touchy thing to teach) and he was being friendly but in a teasing way. Keep in mind, he was a sex friend and I never got serious about him at all (which hurt him actually) but yeah that's what happened. He wasn't conv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 09:56 AM |
| 5 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?Idk I've always confessed to crushes with mixed results ( I am a girl) TBH if you aren't that clued into her liking you, you probably aren't into her, so whatever right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 09:50 AM |
| 13 | Ladies, what qualities do you consider a Good Man to have?To me my partner is perfect. To other women he may not be, he’s indecisive, needy, particular, and very feminine, but he completes me because I’m decisive, detached, mellow and sort of masculine. I think the best man in a relationship sense is the one that can be your friend and have some chemistry. A man who catches my attention is sociable, kind and ambitious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/19 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Are women typically more involved in conspicuous consumption than men?Because of the idea sold to women that they need to have accessories and nice clothes to be attractive and that being attractive is paramount to anything else. Capitalism has hurt a lot of women by making them buy into looks or items to belong in a sense. As a woman who thrifts and grows on designer things I think it’s rather stupid to want things that only have value because people say they do. But that isn’t to say that some women get pleasure from the hobby and enjoy owning hard to find hard … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/19 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Do you think dating would be easier if women had a higher sexdrive/ men had a lower sexdrive?No because the idea that women have a lower sex drive is a myth, driven by patriarchal histories and the idea that women should be chaste. Our social structure and the way we treat the sexes would need to change for a difference in sex drive to have effect. For instance, females have more estrogen, but still have testosterone in smaller doses. Some women have higher amounts of testosterone the same as some men would have. The only reason women are not as prone to having sex with all members of t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/19 02:32 PM |
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