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The real issue is that something being “hard” doesn’t make it objectively praiseworthy It does actually. No one would praise you for beating up children, but if you fought against and defeated 10 men, you would absolutely be praised. One is easy, the other is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 06:39 AM
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But women also sound immature for going on social media to complain about it. You had your 20s to find and lock a man, to grow together, to mature together, yet you decided you wanted to by single or in casual relationships, don't flip it on us when men don't see you as marriage material.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 06:49 PM
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If all men are trash, then maybe the common denominator (the woman in this case) is probably trash, not all of the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 06:48 PM
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I am A OK with women being as picky as they want to be. But please women, please, when you reach your 30s and 40s, and you are single and men don't commit to you, please don't go on tiktok, or YouTube or whatever social network you use, and make a video complaining about how awful men are, or how we are immature for not wanting to commit to YOU.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:16 PM
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Yeah. but you don't see 40-year-old women marrying 20-year-old men, do you? Neither old women, nor young men want this type of relationship. Young men generally like young women, and women like men capable of protecting and providing, something young men are generally incapable of doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 02:16 AM
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For those who don't know. Rule #1: Be attractive Rule#2: Don't be unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:36 PM
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“is crying a turn on for men? Fuck, I hope not. And if it is stay away from that dude! Wow bro, no kink shaming in my Minecraft server please.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:05 PM
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I find that people who boast about being happy and independent are usually unhappy, or they lack something in their lives. People who are actually happy don't say they are happy, they live happy lives, and spread happiness and positivity through their actions, they are able to bring happiness and joy to other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:50 PM
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A man cheating is usually a spur of the moment, it is done out of lust, because we are more horny and we are less picky, a man's feelings towards his wife/gf doesn't change just because he had sex with another woman. Every day men have a peak of testosterone that makes us want to have sex, women can't relate to this. Women on the other hand are more picky for a variety of reasons, fear of abandonment, fear of violence or abuse in general terms, fear of becoming a single mother, fear of being pla…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:30 PM
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Yeah, there was a weird post today as well about how all men in relationships must have “power” over their partner by virtue of social position/wealth/physical attractiveness. Don't women want a powerful man? Don't women want a socially connected man? Don't women want a wealthy man? Don't women want a physically attractive man? If women don't want to feel like the underdogs in their relationships, then they should go after the scrawny guy from Walmart with no education or training. The problem i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:14 AM
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Wow bro, that's like very mysoginiyst, we all know the older a woman is, she becomes more valuable, just think how wise she is at 50, her wrinkles are just a visual representation of her intelligence. The wall is only in our heads, the wall exists the moment you accept it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:55 PM
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That's right, louder please. Any middle aged woman is hotter and more value than a 20 year old woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:27 PM
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Ok, but then you don't get to complain when the guy to whom you were sending these nonverbal communication and social cues all night, doesn't approach you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 06:51 PM
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Maybe you do it, but the vast majority of women don't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 06:18 PM
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Instead of flicking their hair, batting their eyelashes, playing with their hair, showing skin, etc... why don't they approach the guy they like and say "Hey, my name is so and so, I though you look very charming, so I wanted to meet you, what's your name, and what brought you here today?". That is upfront.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 06:13 PM
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You didn't understand my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 06:05 PM
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I think the problem is women expect men to be mind readers, instead of women being upfront.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 05:45 PM
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Men do not require support the same way women require support. A trans male will never be satisfied with the support men can offer because he is used to the support women give.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 07:18 PM
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Because short men don't give the tingles. Simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 05:37 PM
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Women can't relate to the male experience. Women should refer to the experience of Norah Vincent trying to date women disguised as a man. Towards the end of her experiment she was going crazy, and in an interview months after her experiment she confessed she was becoming misogynist. A couple of months ago there was a trans male (female -> male) on tiktok, "he" made a tiktok speaking about how lonely it was to be a man, no one offered help or support, and he was crying the whole video.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 05:00 PM
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That's because she was YOUR girl at the time. She already approved you and now everything is easy and smooth. Try dating strangers, and you'll soon feel like you are in a job interview.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:48 PM
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"a divorced mother of 3 kids who wants to find someone take responsibility" How the hell does she think this is a good selling point.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/10/23 06:38 PM
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Body Positivity promotes respect and acceptance only for women. The men?.. they can get fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:44 AM
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OP you know no woman would be OK not having the same perks her husband's wives had before her. We all know this, but you won't get an honest answer. Women here are already rambling about unimportant details to avoid answering your question.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:46 AM
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The fact a man used to throw parties, used to travel a lot, used to give gifts, etc isn't critical information to warrant annulment of marriage. "your honor I request my marriage be nullified because my husband took her ex on trips, and he doesn't take me on trips"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:44 AM
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Prenups only work if you have money to enforce them. It's sad a lot of contracts are voided because a judge feels like it. If a judge can void a contract then what's the fucking point of having that sort of contract as a valid document to beging with.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/10/23 05:35 AM
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There are places where cohabitation and reproduction gives a single woman... married woman rights, including asset division in case of separation. So getting married with a prenup is better than cohabitation without a prenup.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/10/23 05:05 AM
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I'm with you on the widow part. If she stuck by his husband during a rough time of disease, if she was faithful, if she shows to be a good mother, then I could consider her for a serious relationship. No other single mon gets this consideration.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/10/23 02:39 AM
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Many such cases of men in sexless marriages, to women who aren't attracted to them.. because once she has the legal contract, you're trapped. Lose 50% in a feminazi "no fault divorce" or keep them bux coming, beta! All the more reasons to get a prenuptial agreement. If money isn't on the table, then she must like you and love you if she marries you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/10/23 02:35 AM
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This is why I don't "slide" in someone's DMs. My message would be buried in the pile of DMs she doesn't respond to. Also if a woman is so involved in social media, if she is constantly posting pictures, or videos, or updates on what she is up to every day, then I don't want her. I don't want someone who spends so much time and energy trying to get people's attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 08:42 PM
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That's why you need to pursue someone who's attracted to you? Saying this from the comfort of being a woman knowing men will pursue you instead of you pursuing. Also from the comfort of having a dozen guys on your DMs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:41 AM
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Bro, you can't achieve equality among unequal beings. Doesn't matter how hard people try.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 11:41 PM
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Does anyone else think this is an unrealistic assumption? Yes it is. People will make the argument that women of a certain age are more likely to be grab any men to settle down with and this turns men into "beta bucks" (and this actually does sound somewhat reasonable) Women have literally two categories of men, the hot guy with whom they have casual sex, FWB type relationships, etc... and then there is the average man they settle down with because they couldn't lock down the hot guy, and they w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:45 AM
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"You get what you fucking deserve" -Joker
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/09/23 05:52 AM
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Cougar Lifestyle is a thing, and it is celebrated on social media, but god forbid some middle age guy seeks a younger woman to start a family or hookup. You go on tiktok and youtube, and you see how they celebrate women in their 40s, 50s, 60s and 70s... who go for younger men. This is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 05:45 AM
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I am not angry at their attraction preferences, I do get annoyed when their mate choices backfire on them, when they get beat up by their felon boyfriends, when they end up single mothers, and then they come around and accuse men of being insecure for not taken them serious. You didn't take yourself serious enough to choose a better partner and you want me to take you and your baggage serious? Come on now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:43 AM
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…you’re thinking in terms of terrorists??? This is the weird fantasy I’m talking about! No one is like “oh no! An earthquake! If only Dale was here!” or “the house is on fire! Why didn’t I settle down with that nice accountant from Sacramento! He would have gotten the fire extinguisher! My delicate little lady hands simply can’t do it!” or “oh no! A tornado! Quick, someone go see if they can find a man! Any man!” 😂🤡 Of course in times of emergency NO ONE will call an specific man, I was mocking …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 06:29 PM
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You know you are right. The moment there is a natural disaster, the moment there is a fire, the moment there are terrorists, etc... no one will say "I need a man to rescue me", people will just say "help, someone rescue me", it just so happens the vast majority of emergency first responders and security personel are men, you know this but you still to act disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:35 PM
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It's okay to not want to date someone who's posted them but are there no other ways to find that out other than looking for nudes? Sorry, the mere question is dumb. How are you suppoused to find anything if you don't look for it? If ai can find faces is there a way to see if someone's phone number is linked to any porn accounts or social media? I believe so yes. There are ways to look up for an email, and see in what websites that email has been used. Usually cyber security experts for companies…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:14 PM
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Don't take me wrong, you can reject somebody for whatever reason, but don't go around telling them why they were rejected when that reason could possibly cause them distress.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:58 AM
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Look, I didn't want to get too deep into it, of couse we could write down a list of crimes we could be comfortable with in a partner, and the list would be different from one person to another. I was simply giving an example why doing background checks isn't bad. A bank will do a background check on your credit score to decide if they give you a loan. A company will do a background check to see if you are a felon, a carrer criminal, etc and then decide whether they hire you or not. You personall…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:15 AM
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OF pics are also behind a paywall so it wouldn’t show up on the wider internet unless it’s a case of revenge porn. OF pics are leaked to the wide internet all the time, the more popular someone is the faster their OF content is leaked to the public domain, and this doesn't become revenge porn. If anything that's copyright infringement, but revenge porn? Ha! Laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:03 AM
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People ghost people because of dumb "icks" all the time, there is absolutely no reason to tell someone "can't date you anymore, your nudes are on the internet", that's just stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:00 AM
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Plenty of women also shit talk on all men, but the moment shit hits the fan, they'll beg for a man to come rescue them lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:52 AM
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Right, no different than checking if someone is on a sex offender registry, or if someone is a felon. I too would like to know these relevant things about their past.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:50 AM
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Yeah its just also kinda weird to go “I’ve never met this person, I’m going to try to find nude photos of them” I don't see this any different than a woman looking up a man to see if he is a felon, a sexual offender, or maybe someone know for being a fraud. Isn't it in your best interest to filter out bad people? Yes, some men consider a woman with nudes on the internet a red flag. If anything this sounds like another attempt from women to avoid accountability for past actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:48 AM
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That's just a guy who has fun fishing. if you interpret this any other way, seek help.
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 09:49 PM
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Bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:04 AM
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Oh gosh, you opened a can of worms.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 09:15 PM
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Too clingy?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 09:14 PM
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"Be yourself" is terrible advice, because if the man in question is introver, weak, boring, awkward, obnoxious, etc... then being himself is just going to give him the same results he was getting before.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 09:09 PM
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If there is something I have learnt from women is, they are never alone, there is always a simp in their DMs, they may even be unhappy with their suitors, but they at least can talk to them, they are never completely alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 09:56 PM
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13 kids? Holy moly. She has been pregnant for the last 10 years of her life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/09/23 07:33 PM
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It wouldn't work. Men can't afford to live a delusion, we have to face the harsh realities of life. You can constantly repeat that all men are beautiful, but the world will remind us that we are not all beautiful, we will still get rejected, turn down, flaked on, etc. It would be better if this campaign focused on improving yourself, improving your life, and stop taking bullshit from people. This could have a better effect on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 02:06 PM
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No, it doesn't make sense, either you want the rich guy that comes with the power imbalance, or find yourself a broke guy. Spoiler ahead: Women still go after the rich guy. A lot of times in life, good things come with bad things, and you have to take the bad stuff if you want the good stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:35 PM
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when that dude leonardo di caprio dates girls who are much younger the whole internet collectively loses it's mind. are those girls complaining about the age gap? likely no Give them some 15 to 20 years and you'll see Leonardo Dicaprio's ex girlfriends complaining about middle age rich guys dating young women. They are always ok with it until they can't benefit from it anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:39 AM
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I find it funny when the topic of age gap relationships come up (young woman - mature man), women bring up the fact the man has more money than her as a power imbalance, but the problem is women don't want to date men who earn less than them. Make it make sense ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:37 AM
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I almost feel bad for her, but whatever is happening is on her, she chose to chase the bag and work her best years, and she neglected the part of her life where she can more easily find a partner. I hope she finds someone.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/09/23 03:15 AM
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Feminism isn't about equal rights, how often do you see women advocate for men when men have a disadvantage, or when men face any type of discrimination? Never. Let's call it for what it is, feminism is a women advocacy movement. It's not bad to advocate for women, but stop bullshitting us with the "equality" nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:14 PM
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Beauty and the Beast was based on women's preferences. They basically see troubled men as projects. "I can fix him!"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:10 PM
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Honestly your whole post comes off a bait, and it is full of contradictions, but I'll bite. Most men think they are more physically attractive than they are Do they? Youtube video goes like this: How do you rate yourself from 1 to 10? Woman 1: I'm a 10. Woman 2: Oh, I'm a 10. Woman 3: 10 across the board! Woman 4: I'm a 20. Man 1: About a 6 in a good day. Man 2: Eh... a six. Man 3: Hmm... a six or seven maybe. Man 4: 5... It's usually women who have an overblown sense of value. Men can't have an…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 12:24 PM
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What percentage of men are on tinder? If only let's say 20% of the total male population is on tinder, and only 42% of them are in relationships, then we are talking only 8,4% of the total male population is in a relationship and on tinder, which isn't a lot really.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 11:18 PM
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Attraction is something irrational and almost animalistic. Maybe we are more primitive than we want to admit.
/r/AllPillDebate14/09/23 07:22 PM
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I have only experienced this once, maybe twice in my life. Real women desire for you is a thing to behold, you really see it in them when they want you, they give you everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:14 PM
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Bro, you are braver than I am, I could never tell my wife to have sex with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:38 PM
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I once said something like "men and women have duties within a marriage, sex being one of them", and I got attacked like I was promoting rape.
/r/AllPillDebate12/09/23 05:17 PM
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If she got herself an affair guy, she would absolutely do with him everything she doesn't do with you. That's just how some people operate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:10 PM
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When a woman truly desires a man, she is going to give that man everything, and she is going to do everything with him. So if a woman is not willing to do things with you that she's done in the past, then she doesn't desire you enough, at this point you know she settled for you. Leave!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:07 PM
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It's funny really. I was once arguing with someone on PurplePillDebate, and I had said in a comment something like "nobody deserves anything", and a woman replied with "men are not entitled to sex", lol duh, that's basically what I said. It's a knee yerk reaction rebutal women have.
/r/AllPillDebate11/09/23 07:36 PM
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I know she doesn't say it but I bet most women that complain about men dating younger used to date older guys themselves. It's only now that the tables are turned it's not faaaaair. Absolutely right. Women are ok with young women dating mature men, when they are the young women, and they are getting the benefits of this relationship. But when they get a bit older, and they can no longer get these benefits, that's when they throw a hissy fit and call it unfair.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/09/23 06:12 PM
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Against all classic and modern literature that says being old and alone is depressing, someone like OP comes to tell us that being alone is a good thing. Ladies find yourself a husband ffs, or we will look at your tiktoks about how it's rough to be 46 and alone.
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/23 06:14 PM
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I don't know what's up with the female psique, they really derive pleasure and excitement from seeing a man "read their minds". Unlike men, who prefer to be more direct and get to the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:41 AM
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Orgasms are already difficult to come by for women, so I suspect most women would rather be with a man who can help them reach the big O, rather than a guy who doesn't know wtf he is doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:38 AM
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Men can move to the woods and live like cavemen, they won't starve, women would never do it on their own.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/09/23 03:03 PM
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Both men and women peak at 25 to 30. False. One of the beliefs of the red pill is that not all men reach their peak. There are men who are ugly, disabled, ignorant, broke as fk, incompetent, introvert, insecure, etc their whole lives. Men's peak is not tied so much to age. A man in his 40s who became succesful and turned his life around, etc has more value than a man in his mid 20s who has nothing going on for him. A nan's peak is tied to other factors. To say men reach their pick at 25 is absur…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 09:21 PM
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Yeah, they do not listen to themselves, otherwise they would realize how ridiculous they sound.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 06:26 AM
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That speaks more about you than it does about them. It's the way you talk "if I am way out of their league", "they are trying to buy me". No seriously listen to yourself. It's almost like you don't believe there are good reasons why someone regardless of age, would find you attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 05:22 AM
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It sounds like you made your mind up about reasons why a mature man would seek a young woman, no need to argue about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 05:08 AM
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Oh no I didn't said you were promoting being rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:39 AM
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State Enforced Insemination is the only solution. Edit: lmao it's a joke, calm down.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 11:58 PM
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Sex workers (onlyfans, strippers, prostitutes, cam girls, etc). Lawyers, prosecutors, private investigators, police, etc basically any profession that requires her to be in a masculine role, or that requires her to be combative, or argumentative, that shit is going to get in the relationship. Social media influencers, performers Crazy schedule or thrill seeking jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 08:48 PM
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Friendly reminder to be kind to service people in general, we don't know what they are going through.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 08:47 PM
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Yeah, I agree with everything you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:23 PM
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The way I interpret it is this. The wall is a point in which everything goes downhill, your sexual market value goes down as time progresses. But the thing is men are not born with value, they are born with very little value, you can't go downhill if you are already at the bottom, so men have to work their way up. Women are born with value, and they can raise their value a little bit too, but for the most part women's sexual market value just goes down over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:08 PM
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I want to add something too. Generally speaking, the wall is the starting point for men, men are not born with the things that make men valuable, confidence, success, looks, etc. We have to work our way out of the wall. This is basically why men have it really hard when we are young, and as life progresses and we start to have academic success, work success, social success, etc... then life gets a bit easier. Not all men reach their peak.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:02 PM
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He didn't get trampled, he enjoyed trampling on smaller guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:14 PM
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When I was in highschool there was this guy, he was skinny, but had a toned body, he was very short, probably below average for a bunch of high schoolers. He was a loud mouth, made stupid offensive jokes, he was agressive, he was an all around jerk. He always had girls around him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:55 AM
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A. With options come chances to make it work. I don't care about "liking" a woman. I care about her being useful to my goals. The more women are interested in me the more chances I have to find someone that fits my needs/plans. Also, it is not good to put all eggs in one basket. This is exactly how a lot of women play this game. If a woman knows several men like her, she has no problem keeping all those men around in the backburner for when she needs something. Obviously not all women do this, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:40 AM
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Women twist definitions whenever is convenient to them. You can be traditional masculine and they'll be ok with that until they are not, then it becomes toxic masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:16 AM
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This is one unflattering statistic, because it implies some women are dating the same men, and what does that say about women? Low morals, no self-respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 04:42 AM
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"No, fuck him. Fuck that, 'cause I'm from New York City, goddammit. Nobody take no cornbread from me. That goes for anyone of you motherfucking farmers who wanna start some shit. You fuck around with me, there's gonna be consequences and repercussions."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:20 AM
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Perhaps the equivalent could be another man trying to pick a fight with us???
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:19 AM
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I came to this post to say something like this, but I couldn't find the words, then I read your comment and yep, it sums it up pretty well. PPD women seem to believe men's loyalty is based only on beauty, and once a woman puts on weight and develops wrinkles the man falls out of love. They never consider that men have emotions, and that men invest those emotions into a relationship, all the things a couple goes through together, all the hardships, achieving goals, traumatic experiences as well a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:08 PM
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There can be some problematic preferences that people express in who they want to date. Preferences are problematic for people who can't deal with rejection. Its not problematic for men to date petite women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:17 AM
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I love this comment. It appears a lot of people think the new iPad, a couple Gucci bags and a weekend in Vegas can beat the act of having offsprings and being part of their development.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:07 AM
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Good because otherwise child support becomes a business.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/08/23 04:14 PM
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Child Support shouldn't be a percentage of income thing. It should be capped.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/08/23 02:48 PM
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These girls were only making enough to get their next fix Exactly. Drugs, this is why they don't come out of poverty, and why they don't make more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:04 AM
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I wonder if it's just that women have never been in the position and can't relate. It's kind of a foreign concept to them the experience of being rejected. They are usually the ones handing out rejections. By the time a man hits his 30s, he has been rejected over and over again, dozens of times, so he has kind of endured social hardships in his younger years, and so he seems happier or more content being alone. Women however, they don't know what real rejection is like, they don't know what real…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:09 AM
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I am not arguing that sex workers have it easy, I am just saying this, to imply that sex workers particularly street hookers, escorts, etc.. make little to no money is disingenuous, they make per hour more than an average blue collar worker. A framing carpenter earns $20 for one hour of work, in that same hour, a prostitute can make easy $100. She is earning more.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 06:30 AM
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It's important because some people make this argument that men are flocking to marry sex workers, but just how many of them stay married? if a sex worker gets married and divorces after 1 year, do you consider that marriage an exemplar union between two people? I would call a year of marriage a joke at best. Also, do you realize, some men, rich guys in particular, they don't care to get married to a hoe knowing they can divorce her any time, he has his fun, and then call it quits. Just look at f…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 06:23 AM
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That website reports an escort makes $14/h... do you know any prostitute that will charge $14 to fuck a client for an hour? I don't. If a prostitute charges a man $200 for an hour of sex work, she earns $200/h not $14/h. If she were to work 40 hour weeks charging $200 an hour of work, she'd make $8k a month, or $96k a year, that is far from low income.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 06:15 AM
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What's the divorce rate of these sex workers marrying athletes, actors, rich businessmen? I would bet very high.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 06:06 AM
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Women in that life style often quit that life before they decide to get a serious relationship. They deep down know most guys won't take them serious if they do sex work, stripping, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 06:04 AM
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No one is saying sexual. I said romantic relationship, romance, love, eros. Why do some of you have to make it about sex, it's reductionist, you are reducing men to sexual beings without desire for love and companionship. Let me ask you this. Lets say you become fuck buddies with a guy, but after fucking for several months, you catch feelings so you start to drop hints that you should make the relationship serious, but he doesn't want anything serious with you, he just wants to be fuck buddies. …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:33 AM
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There are steps to relationships. Strangers -> Friends -> BF/GF -> Engagement -> Marriage It's not the fact that a man can't have sex with a woman that makes him want to abandon the friendship, it's the fact that after getting to know her, he discovered she is a person he would like to have a relationship with the possibility of marriage and family. But if the woman cuts this process in the friendship stage, then there is no point to continue the process because it won't evolve into anything els…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:57 AM
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If he can’t handle that, he isn’t a friend at all, is he? LMAO "If you can't handle being rejected, if you can't handle seeing me with another guy, if you can't handle me talking about the guy who broke my heart, then YOU ARE A BAD FRIEND. There is something wrong with you if you just can't suck it up and continue being my friend despite it hurting you inside." I mean, just look at the entitlement, the arrogance some women have, to come tell you "YOU ARE NOT A FRIEND, because you don't want to p…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:22 AM
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The more you try to explain it to women, the more they twist what you said. It really is pointless to argue with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 02:04 PM
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I am very entitled. But I would like to make a case for understanding why. I have pretty much always received special treatment because of my looks and sometimes my personality included in that as well. It is really all I've known. Both men and women treat me differently. This has been said before in this subreddit. Women get benefits from having guy friends, favors, borrow money, fix computer, fix car, walk my dog, watch my cat while I am on a trip, etc... which is why women don't want men to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 04:35 AM
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Honestly at this point I am tired of this subject. Women come up with the dumbest of takes in regards of male friendship. On one hand you want men to respect women, but on the other you bully, name call and shame men because they make a decision you don't agree with. Can't win with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 04:20 AM
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Men repress their feelings because they want to appear strong and virile and stoic. It's the other way. We have to repress our feelings cause we are not treated well when we express them. Unwanted, unreciprocated feelings shouldn't be expressed. How would a man know if his feelings are unwanted and unreciprocated if he doesn't voice them??? Men can't read minds. No one should be making their problem someone else's problem. What are you even rambling about here?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 12:28 AM
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So if a guy becomes friends with a woman and over the period of weeks or months he develops feelings for her, he is deceptive, creepy and selfish when he opens up about how he feels.... damn. And women wonder why men repress our feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 12:16 AM
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What's more dishonest/deceptive than pretending to be your friend when I want more than friendship? Also don't women parrot about "respect a woman's choice"? If a woman rejects me and I decide to leave her alone I am respecting her choice. Me trying to push my feelings on her isn't respectful. How about my choice? When are you going to respect my choice? And stop harassing me into being your friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 12:10 AM
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Debating with women is fruitless. All you do is twist, derail, name call, shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 11:04 PM
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No one is entitled to friendship, but if they were truly friends, men would want to remain friends, wouldn’t they? Definitely not, and if he remains friends with her it wouldn't work in the long run, because the moment that guy gets a girlfriend he is undoubtedly gonna withdraw attention from his female friend. The new girlfriend is also gonna ask the guy to keep a distance from that female friend and the guy will have to do it if he wants this relationship to grow into something else. It's not …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 07:26 PM
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I think that they are offended when these men are overly persistent If that's the case, why do they stomp and bitch about whenever these men decide to no longer be friends? Wouldn't it be the best thing for women if this rejected men just moved on? Men really can't catch a break, if we remain friends we are covertly trying to get laid, we are incels, we hate women or whatever. If we end the friendship and decide to move on, we only wanted sex, we are misogynists, supremacists, or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 07:23 PM
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The only deception would be if said gay friend decides to accept the "I an not gay, so let's just be friends", but he secretly still wants to bang his bro. That's real deception. Coming clean about how you feel to someone and then accepting their rejection of you isn't deception. That's honesty and respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 07:20 PM
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But men are not in love with women when they meet them, men fall in love with women after they spend time with them and get to know them. Is it their fault that feelings of love flourished inside them? That's basically how most long lasting relationships are formed, through friendships. Unrequited love is more than enough reason to end a friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 07:15 PM
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https://thecrimewire.com/true-crime/The-Man-Who-Annihilated-His-Family-for-a-Cam-Model
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:01 PM
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Oh ok. Still reminds me of that guy who sent $200k he stole from his family to some European cam girl, he ended up murdering his whole family.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:19 AM
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The yachting route, the holidays route, the rides in expensive cars route, there are so many things this man can do. No pussy is worth $200k.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:29 AM
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Man, no pussy is worth $200k. This guy is just wasting money like it grows on trees. This man should just have a couple of main girls to get off every time he needs it, and invest all that money on something that will give him returns.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:25 AM
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I gotta answer these questions real quick. "What we desire in a man when we are 20 is different when we get to 30, 40, 50, and older." That's the thing, what men desire from women in our 20s is mostly the same that we want in our 30s and 40s. So middle aged women want men to accept them (post wall) while they no longer have the things men want. "In midlife, women become wiser and more purposeful in choosing a life partner." Doubt. They keep falling for Chad, and then complain on the internet he …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:30 PM
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We rate women based on their beauty, not their success.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:19 PM
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Lisa Bonet is above average, but she is no super model. Half the time she looks like she is on drugs, very visible expression lines in her face. The has nice eyes and a strong jaw going on for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:19 PM
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The nice guy is best described in the book 'No more Mr. Nice Guy'. Every man should be required to read this book in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 04:58 PM
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I know this is going to sound really cheesy, but I want to be loved for who I am. I don't ever want to wonder in the back of my mind if I'm just someone's income stream or fetish. Blue pill take. As a man you will never be loved just for who you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:06 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 07:53 AM
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Do you see these latinos with other latinas? Or with european women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 04:00 AM
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5'9" is below average in Denmark. It's all relative to location.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 03:45 AM
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Single parents should stick to dating other single parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:43 AM
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You don't think women tell on themselves about their past? Women absoluitely tell on themselves. Men just won't tell you "I want to break up with you because I tihnk you have a promiscuous past you hid from me".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:51 PM
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I was in the talking stage with another chick, we were texting back and forth and she hit me with "I am the best thing that will ever happen in your life", I stopped talking to her shortly after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 07:45 PM
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She is hot and he is almost 60 years old. He just wants a hot piece of ass to fuck and show around at parties. They will probably be married a couple of years and then they will divorce. You think a man who lost so many billions of dollars is going to marry again without a prenuptial agreement? She will be divorced and broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 04:45 PM
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I had a girl tell me once "you know how many men are after me?", one of the biggest turn off ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 04:42 PM
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Believe what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 04:25 PM
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It's true that men can't know about your past unless you tell them, but it doesn't stop men from doing their research, there are signs that a woman might have a promiscuous past.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 07:25 AM
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Yes actually. Men define the standards for women, then it's up to women if they want to live by those standards. Think of the hardcore feminists, they don't live one day of their life according to what men expect, but then you don't see men rushing to marry this hardcore feminists. The more traditional women are sough after thou. In the same vein, women define that a man should be masculine, brave, courageous, ambitious, industrious, confident, resourcefull, self reliant, etc. If a man wants to …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 08:58 PM
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For it to be hypocrisy, you have to be talking about two equal things. Men and women aren't equal, that's why men are sent to war, not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 08:17 PM
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I just find it ironic that men here say ALL women have these requirements and only go for the top 20% of me, when in reality there are women who don't Women "in the scene", be it Rock/Rap/Reggaeton or whatever you want, go for the top men in the scene. Just because they are not going for the top man outside the scene, it doesn't mean they are no longer hypergamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 04:57 AM
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The only way I could see myself in a friendship with someone 20 years younger, is if we share a hobby, like video games or playing a sport. We could potentially hold conversations sure, but my life experience is going to be much different that theirs, and my opinions are going to be much different because I have lived longer, and I have become wiser, we are going to difer in a lot of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 07:02 AM
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What makes someone dominate? How many points you put in Endurance.
/r/BlackPillScience28/06/23 07:44 PM
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The thing is drug dealers project confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 03:02 PM
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There are many other factors affecting your situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 02:07 PM
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Yep, that's just life. In adulthood, treat every friendship with care, value every second you get to spend with friends, but know full well it doesnt last long. At the same time, if you have a friend who treats you bad, who isn't reciprocate, etc.. well, don't tolerate their bullshit just because of fear of being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:08 PM
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I feel you. Making friendships in adulthood can become even more challenging. Everyone is busy with their lives, their spouse, their children, their job, etc... Nobody has time to meet up, if you meet up with someone, it happens handful of times in a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 06:34 PM
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Covert incest has nothing to do with physical sexual incest. Is more of emotional incest.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:55 PM
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Idk personally I think my older brother has a more attractive face than I do and he hasn’t dated in years is unemployed, never went to college, and lives off disability money and my parents Generally speaking women do not want to mate with a man without goals or ambition. I tell you this from experience. When you are NEET, your whole body language and behaviour change. You can't feel confident, you can't act confident when you have nothing going on in your life. Also if you are a NEET, every wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 03:56 PM
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It never gets mentioned, but there are parents who unconsciously retain their kids at home. Some parents don't want to accept their kids have to leave the home one day, so they try to keep their kids at home however they can. I think they call it covert incest.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 03:40 PM
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Be the best you can be for your own sake, not for others. Let women and access to sex be just a side effect of your own personal development and success.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/23 06:44 PM
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Getting some Tinder experiment vibes here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 05:14 PM
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And mature women have the odds against them, because men prefer younger women, so naturally they (mature women) lash out at men, cause lashing out at young women isn't very feminist of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:51 PM
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Men who date mature women will also date younger women. A man dating mature women isn't anything that special. I have personally dated several mature women in the past, but I still prefer younger... tighter... wetter.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:46 PM
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Young women tend to be forgiving of a young man without money, young meaning 21 or maybe 22. But a man who's 25 years old and out of college, he better have some money or he ain't getting any.
/r/AllPillDebate18/06/23 03:14 AM
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You can ask for consent but you have to be creative. "May I introduce my appendage inside your body cavity"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 10:45 PM
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Also reject a woman friend who catches feelings and see how it goes. The Askmen thread about this was not at all nice. Link me my dude, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 04:47 PM
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Not just class, but also work. If you are always putting too much effort into work very often the only reward you get is more work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:50 PM
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Based? Based on what? In your dick? Please shut the fuck up and use words properly you fuckin troglodyte, do you think God gave us a freedom of speech just to spew random words that have no meaning that doesn't even correllate to the topic of the conversation? Like please you always complain about why no one talks to you or no one expresses their opinions on you because you're always spewing random shit like poggers based cringe and when you try to explain what it is and you just say that it's f…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:28 AM
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They leave because they believe it punishes her. LOL, no woman is punished by losing something she didn't want. Come on now. They leave because there is no point in staying there, man wants romantic love, not platonic love, by stating "i do not want romance", a woman has already made it clear that his efforts will be fruitless. Would you continue watering a dead plant? Probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:08 AM
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Men almost always have some genuine desire for any woman they sleep with. But then you get post nut clarity and you forget about desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:43 PM
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Women like her are so used to compliments, treating her like a queen means nothing to her. Be mean to her and you'll give her an emotion roller-coaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:29 PM
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It's an extremely rare case to have an average woman go YEARS without any attention, validation, or interest at all by the opposite sex. (Okay, yes, if you sit in your apartment and watch Netflix all day, of course men can't find you.) Average man's life. Basically, all my friends are busy, no one has time or wants to hangout. I've been continuing to put myself out there to make new friends, but no one wants to even give me a chance. Everyone has their own lives, friends, has cultivated their ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 07:14 PM
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It's also an indicator there is something wrong with American capitalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 01:21 AM
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You never had a cavity dude? I had a broken tooth a couple of months ago, it cost me around $30 to get it fixed, I don't have health insurance of any sort. This dental care issue you are bringing up only applies to the US where everything comes with a 10.000% markup. Let me give you an example: I have heard the cost in the USA for an ambulance ride to a hospital is around $2.500, I just checked cost of an ambulance where I live, it is less than $50.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 07:05 PM
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People can’t afford to earn healthy foods. This is a first world problem. If you live in the USA, then fruits, vegetables, edible roots, grains, etc are expensive, so a lot of people earning minimun wage resort to eating McDonalds so they don't starve. Travel to a different country where they produce their own fruits, vegetables, etc, and you will discover healthy food isn't really expensive. Where I live you can have a 3 course meal for like $6. Or a 2 course meal for like $2.50.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:45 PM
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Hygiene is: Taking a shower every day, keeping your pubic area groomed, wash your teeth, trim your nails, clean your ears, wash your feet and use fungy preventing powder if needed, brush your teeth at least twice in a day, wear different underwear every day. Now explain to me what the hell is advanced hygiene because I am starting to feel like I am missing out in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:37 PM
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Can you elaborate more on this? What do you mean markers of wealth?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:00 PM
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How about sex. Would it be OK for a man to leave his wife if she states she no longer wants sex with the man?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 03:07 AM
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Telling a man to be confident is like telling a sick person to be healthy. It's not that simple, there is usually a series of steps one must follow in order to develop confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:55 AM
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Yeah I don't see the point of shitting on RooshV. The way I see it is, he is "out of the game", he came to the conclusion he was living a shallow/fruitless life and just decided that he wanted to do more than just bang women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 06:59 PM
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Statistically office workers are fatter than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 09:51 PM
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True. I am generally more intimidated by a young hot barista, than a mature corporate overweight woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 07:11 AM
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Some people (mainly dumb, materialistic, superficial women) think that all they need to do in a relationship is exist, that they don't need to put effort, or they don't need to contribute with more to the relationship other than their bodies. So when you ask "what do you bring to the table?", what they actually hear is "what you are offering physically isn't enough to me", so they get offended. Most men can't get away with just existing and being valued for our existence, so we have to be realis…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:54 PM
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In my personal experience trying to get serious with a woman so quick has always backfired. If anything being busy with your life and not making a woman a priority works better to keep her interested. It sounds awful and counter productive, but that's what I have noticed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/23 04:55 PM
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I made this hierarchy. Broke man < fat/ugly woman < hot/beautiful woman < Rich man
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 02:07 AM
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I made this hierarchy. Broke man < fat/ugly woman < hot/beautiful woman < Rich man
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 02:07 AM
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ONLY if he is very attractive and fit. Average Joe without money doesn't get a lot of action.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 02:05 AM
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To get yourself into STEM or business you need to get into college/university, that usually cost thousands of dollars. How is getting thousands of dollars for education easier than just eating less and jogging 30 minutes every day?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 02:01 AM
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you’ve won by not playing the game This is the dumbest take I have read today. The only way to win the game us to play and win. MGTOW is exactly that. They think they win by mot playing the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 02:53 PM
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The thing is, intuition goes out the window the moment they get the tingles for a hot guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 06:40 PM
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Women have no problem defining what a slut is when they want to use the term slut to insult a woman, but they always have a hard time defining what a slut is, when the definition could hurt them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 04:47 PM
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There's a difference between wanting sex and wanting a relationship. If you're looking for a relationship, it is reasonable to make someone wait to filter out those just after a one night stand. Ok, I accept your premise, so tell me this. If a man bought his last fling girlfriend of 2 years a car, took her on trips around the world, took her to exclusive parties, paid her college tuition, brought her to live in his mansion, etc... but now he wants a serious relationship, so it's all coffee dates…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 04:39 PM
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I would be ok to wait a bit for sex if the woman in question hasn't been a slut throughout her life up to the point she met me and suddenly she wants to wait for sex. If she was in fact a slut but now wants to wait for sex with me, then that makes me the beta bux, and no man wants to be a beta bux.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 03:06 PM
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Yes, I am saying that women contribute to the escalation. Men and women participate in courtship in different ways, women tend to be passive while men have to be active. A woman doesn't tell a man "I like you, and I would like to go on a date with you", women are more subtle and they act in a way that it gives them some deniability in case something doesn't work or something goes wrong. Instead what a woman does is: she plays with her hair, she flicks her hair, she grabs all her hair to one side…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 08:58 PM
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Women don't want to feel responsible for anything. The first contact? It was totally him, despite me constantly flirting and giving him signs for him to approach me. The first date? It was his idea, despite me bringing up the idea to go out sometime. The first kiss? He took the initiative, despite me constantly seducing him, looking at his lips and acting touchy with him. The first time in bed? He planned it, despite me suggesting we find a more private setting to talk. Women go to great lengths…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 02:11 PM
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This is what being alpha widowed looks like. She just can't get over the ex, and she needs to compare all men to her ex. This is also why men prefer women without a colorful past, cause we know if a woman had a chad ex that's gonna cause trouble. Guys choose carefully who you decide to start a relationship with.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/04/23 01:56 PM
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Yeah. Even if your barber charged $10 a cut, going each week still sounds like too much.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/23 07:48 PM
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Men who get their hair cut once a week? Just how much hair does she think a human can grow in a week?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/23 05:16 PM
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No, I don't have a study for you Yeah, I figure. And I'm not accusing people with mental illnesses, saying someone has a mental illness and that makes them more vulnerable to something someone without said illness is not is not accusatory. Yes, it is accusatory, you implied women who date older men have mental illneses. Maybe not all women, but a majority. Let me tell you something, we men approach women who are beautiful, who are pleasant to look at. We do not approach women thinking "oh this g…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:34 PM
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Most men in their 40s approaching women in their 20s will almost always go for women with financial issues, family problems, mental illness/disorders, and/or trauma And where do you get this information from? Is there an study or something? How would you even know these women have mental issues? Isn't that accusatory? Like you are just assuming some women have mental illneses just because they are doing something that you don't aprove of.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:56 PM
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Can an older man COURT/FLIRT with a young woman or is it always MANIPULATION/GROOMING?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:44 PM
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Reminds me when a woman received internet flak for writting an article titled "Men prefer debt-free virgins without tattoos", that woman was attacekd for months. Just look up the tittle and you'll find some of those articles.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:00 PM
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I didn't mean the reason for something being misandrist/misogynistic. What I meant was, why does the reason for a rejection matter so much? I don't think it matters, I think it matters to be polite and respectful, but the reason for a rejection doesn't matter. A dark skinned woman can reject me for being light skin, her reasoning could be that she wants black babies instead of mixed race, it could be that she isn't turned on by light skin men, it could be that she think light skin men have small…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:28 PM
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Why does the reason matter so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 01:45 PM
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All of your comment was spot on, and I would say is normal male behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:16 AM
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Men and women have a different and opposing sexual strategies, a woman can adopt the male sexual strategy of having sex with as many people as she pleases but that is not going to get her the same results as if she adopted a female sexual strategy. Just like a man can act feminine while approaching women, but that's not gonna give him the same results as if he acted masculine when approaching women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:18 AM
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True, but I though we were just focusing on her face.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 06:34 PM
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Yeah, the girl is average at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:20 PM
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Not true at all, from what I’ve seen. Not that being a sex worker doesn’t reduce your dating options. But there are women who do sex work who comment in this sub and they say they have no problem finding someone who will commit to them. How would they reach this conclusion? How can a woman affirm "I have no problem getting a man to commit to me", wouldn't she have to like get several men to commit to her to reaffirm this? Because if a woman found one man who committed to her, while there are oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 05:33 AM
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Absolutely. The meaning of life isn't getting laid. That's just one thing in life, but the ultimate goal for me it's reproduction, perpetuating the specie. And I am not talking about mindless reproduction, or reproducing with multiple people and not looking after your offspring. That's not what I am talking about. I am talking about creating a human being and then create a nest, give your offspring the best environment possible got them to grow to be useful members of society, with a good moral …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 08:29 PM
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If someone doesn’t have the option to make their own money and has no better choice but to trade their virginity for marriage then having that leverage is a benefit. But access to a man’s resources and hand in marriage in exchange for virginity are not incentives when women have the benefits of economic freedom. It seems to me that you are looking at virginity/low body count as something worthless. No civilization in history has ever rewarded promiscuity. For most women who desire marriage, the …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:34 PM
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Think of it as leverage. Promiscuous women, porn stars, sex workers, etc have NO leverage. The vast majority of men (rich, poor, average men, high value men, tall, short, ugly, handsome, etc) don't want to marry a woman who has fucked so many men in the past. These women have no leverage to demand anything from a man. You may not like the terminology used here, but these women have devalued themselves, to the point that most men are not going to consider them for marriage. Most men would have se…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 05:32 PM
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You know what's interesting. Western women complain about the patriarchy but more often than not men outside the western world tend to be more patriarchal. South America, Africa, the Middle East, etc men still tend to be more rigid in regards to gender roles and they are less forgiving of certain attitudes from women. This isn't to say these places are full of wife beaters or anything like that. If you look at how people from each race judge each other in term of attraction, you'll see that whit…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 03:24 PM
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Why do women have to answer a question by throwing the question back? Why can't they just answer the damn question? It's so annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 03:07 PM
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Don't try to do damage control here, ok, you already said women downgrade to be with men who earn less. From that statement we can conclude that men have historically downgraded to be with women. But you know what, let me tell you something. When a man earns more money than his wife, he isn't thinking "Damn, I am stuck with this low level womena, I have to downgrade to her level", men do not think that way, because we don't put so much enphasis in a woman's income or finances. Only you women thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 07:33 PM
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The real reason is because their hypergamous lizard brain can't stand dating men who are "beneath them" in any way whatsoever. This is the crux of the matter and nothing else. But don't expect women to be honest about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 07:25 PM
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you'll have to either spend more on both of you or downgrade to meet their income Sounds a bit insulting. So if a woman is downgrading because she is with a man who earns less, does that mean that historically men downgraded to be with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 07:24 PM
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I notice a lot of posts from ex-forever-girlfriends are about how they were with a man for 6 years without marriage but after the relationship dessolved the guy found another younger woman and married after like 5 months. Why they did not choose to marry the girl they knew for long and yet marry a new random girl fast? I am gonna go out in a limb and say this. All men have already a clear picture of the type of woman they want to marry, and men are generally not afraid of commitment or marriage,…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:50 PM
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isn't it possible that she could find him boring and feel no spark? Well yeah, but don't we all get bored at times? Even when we are on alone we get bored. Also the so called "spark" is a short lived phenomenon. The spark wears off in a couple of months. The rose tinte glasses come off and you start to notice the other person is just like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:04 AM
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I can see the future and that is her update.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 12:05 AM
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Here is the update: "anyway folks I had to let him go, he looked like a great guy, but I just wasn't feeling it, he looked like he is too responsible, he was the type of guy who does his taxes on time and always leaves a good tip, like he doesn't have an edge"... "on the other hand my toxic ex has been hitting my phone lately and I don't know if I should give him a chance, he wasn't as bad as I made it in my head".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 11:43 PM
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I had written that paragraph in my original comment, but I deleted it before I posted my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:45 PM
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You know, I had written a whole paragraph about why men are valuable, but I decided to delete it just to see what comments I would get about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:33 PM
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From a survival stand point women are inherently more valuable to perpetuate the human specie. You need more women than men to propagate humans. You put 10 men and 1 woman on an island and you get on average on baby per year. However you put 1 man and 10 women on an island and you get on average 10 babies per year. This is one reason why women have to be evacuated from war-torn countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:50 PM
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Are all drivers accused of being bad drivers because a car insurance is required to drive vehicles? Are all home owners accused of being reckless home owners when they are required to get home insurance? Are people accused of being broke when banks ask to check credit score? Are people accused of being criminals when they are asked to show their criminal record at a job interview? I think you get the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 08:02 AM
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Wouldn't you be outraged if your son had to pay child support for a child that isn't his? I mean just imagine this for a second. Your adult son has a baby, and a year or two later he discovers be isn't the father, he asks for a divorce, but since he signed that birth certificate, he is legally required to pay child support for another man's child for almos 18 years. Wouldn't you be upset that some ratched woman screwed your son over for 18 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 07:31 AM
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I would fully support a political action that makes it an obligation for nurses to provide it with both parents signatures during childbirth. A man should NOT be able to sign a birth certificate without a paternity test. Imagine a man signs a birth certificate for a child that isn't his, but later the real father appears in the picture and he now wants to be with his child, the man that signed the birth certificate can legally object to the real father seeing his child, he can effectively depriv…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 07:26 AM
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men are the real romantics pretending to be pragmatist and women are the pragmatist pretending to be romantic All men should learn this early in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 07:17 AM
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Would you stay with a woman who didn't trust you and said you had to prove you aren't a cheating piece of shit without you giving her any reasons to think this way? Yes I would stay with her, work with her to give her the reassurance she needs, then I would try to find out where her distrust comes from. My ego is not fragile like an egg shell.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 07:13 AM
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I wouldn't cry if my mother left my father after he called her that. You don't know that, you don't know how would you react to such a thing because you were raised by both parents. The most likely scenario is, you wouldn't be the person you are today if you hadn't been raised by your father. Nobody knows with certainty what your life would be without your father, but fortunately there are statistics showing kids raised without father are at significant high risk of drug use, teenage crime, bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 06:57 AM
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She will never give you a straight answer, she will tip toe around the question, deflect, project, but never give an answer. Waste of time, so don't bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 06:40 AM
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I just would resent him too much. It's a fragile ego thing, that's all it is. If you are the type of woman who puts her ego above a relationship and the well being of a kid, then you are not the right person to start a family with. And I can imagine a marriage with someone like you feeling like being hostage to your ego. I could only expect you to want a divorce the second you get offended during an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 06:36 AM
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So your EGO is more important than a relationship? You would prefer your children grow without a father at home because your ego was so fragile? So what happens when your teenage son or daughter asks "why couldn't we have daddy at home all the time?, why did you separate?", will you tell them "the reason you didn't see your father so often was because I got offended".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 06:26 AM
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You could turn paternity tests AT BIRTH a requirement to get welfare or other help from government. Or you could make it a requirement for child support. You could make paternity tests dirt cheap to encourage people to do it. You could do a lot of things, sadly nothing is going to be made about it, the system is not in favor of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 06:11 AM
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There are videos of women literally going out of their way to take a picture with a man with a well defined physique and a six pack. https://youtu.be/u7L1TX1gB0U?t=215 I personally see nothing wrong with women liking a man that has developed his physique, that's perfectly fine, however I do have a problem when women lie about this simply not to look shallow. Just be honest with us, we are men, we don't need to be coddled, we don't want you to sugar coat this kind of stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 06:54 PM
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I don't mingle with taken women on the principle that this affair will deeply hurt the other man and possibly the children. If I was married I would not like my wife to cheat on me, that would leave me in a dark place for a long time, so I won't engage in that type of behaviour. Some men even kill themselves due to their wive's affairs. And also because the other guy could very well be a psychopath who will try to murder me. However I am realistic, and I know that just because I do not mingle wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 03:57 PM
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Nobody deserves anything. You only get what you negotiate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:16 PM
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When you learn to drive, you first learn to drive some basic ass sedam vehicle. You don't learn to drive all types of vehicles in existence before you get your first license. The same principle applies to women. The red pill doesn't teach me how to pick up every single type of woman, that would be impossible, red pill has to find general statements that are mostly true and then teach men about those concepts. Like for example: "Women like strong men, so go to the gym guys" This is true, most wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 04:49 AM
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"women are pickier because they don't need men anymore" The writer is a post wall cat lady in her thirties trying to cope with the fact that she is the last single and childless woman in her friend group. It's just a cope and projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 12:03 AM
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Traditionally women had to do 95% of the parenting while the man didn't get involved until the kid was much older What does this even mean? Can you elaborate what you mean by parenting? I have seen many modern traditionalist LARPERs imply that the women could rely on her own family in case her marriage went horribly wrong, but the reality is that leaving your husband to return to your family was an extremely shameful affair and most families did not tolerate it. You know what used to be a shamef…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 02:48 PM
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Most men, red pilled or not would have sex with their wives (given their wives didn't let themselves go and turned into land whales) but also would want to fuck other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 02:37 PM
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I didn't think I'd ever say that a decade ago with the sex drive I had in my teens. I am guessing that once we get to our 50s and 60s, and most of our libido is gone, it will be absolute bliss.
/r/BlackPillScience12/04/23 09:05 PM
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Can confirm r/zikik nature is noble.
/r/BlackPillScience12/04/23 09:02 PM
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Women keep putting out and giving preferential treatment to shitty men. What motivation does a man have to fight for women when those same women are choosing some shitting men to mate with?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 08:35 PM
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This is why as men we shouldn't listen to what society says, we should do what's on our best self interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:57 AM
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More power to women. No seriously, if they need to meet men from other places, then by all means, they should try that. Will the sentiment towards passport dating change if women start to do it? Very likely yeah. Society seems more tolerant of change when women push that change.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:56 AM
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If a woman has a career, that's a plus, but it's not really one of the core things that we look for in a woman. You gotta remember, the burden of provision is still on men's shoulders, so if I have to provide, then I don't care a lot how much a woman earns. For that same reason I don't care how much a woman can bench press, or if she knows karate or any other form of self defense, because the burden of protection is on me. Also, if she is nonchalant about her money or accolades, if she isn't try…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:04 PM
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In the other hand straight women seem to have great aversion in having sex, and especially dating and marrying bisexual men. Heck I've even read stories about bisexual women openly rejecting bisexual men which always seemed odd to me. You heard about the pornstar that killed herself because of the bullying she received after she declined to shoot porn movies with bisexual porn actors? https://www.rollingstone.com/culture/culture-features/death-of-a-porn-star-201939/
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:12 PM
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When women earn more than their husband the relationship is at a higher risk of failure. So it is in the best interests of the relationship for the man to earn more. Get to work guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:38 PM
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There is usually a disconnect between what women say they want and what they respond to. The things that women respond to, the things that turn women on are sometimes unflattering and in some cases outright misogynistic. Would women admit they are turned on by men with the dark triad personality? Probably not. So women are not able to tell a man how to attract women because women fool themselves about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:36 PM
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Exactly, and women like to play dumb about it, they like to pretend they don't care about a man's wealth or a man's job. It's self evident women care about those things. One of the first things women ask a man when they meet him is "so what do you do for a living, what's your job?".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 04:17 AM
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What I'm reading from this, and correct me if I'm wrong, is that a woman's value is tied to how much sex she has had It's not how much sex a woman has had. It's how many men she has had sex with. See, a woman who married young, stayed faithful to her husband until they divorced and has not had sex with anyone else is gonna look like a better option than a woman who has had several relationships, one night stands and fuck buddies. A married woman probably had more sex than a single woman, but the…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:19 AM
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Well you seem to be OK with that mess, so no point in saying why this is wrong. You do you I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 02:02 AM
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She's the exception 100%. Ah yes she is the exception, she is the unicorn, she would never disappoint you, she would never lie to you, she would never talk to her ex behind your back, or cheat on you. You found that exceptional woman bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:53 AM
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If a man calls you a slut for being raped, then that guy is a dumbass and you should not waste your time with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:49 AM
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Why can’t women do the same thing? They can, but don't expect men to go along with it. Let me flip it around and see if you would be OK with it. A man born into wealth spends all his money traveling, expensive cars, prostitutes, expensive shoes and watches while he is young, and many women would like to marry this man, but in reality he just wants to have fun and no commitment. Anyway he gets to 30 years old and due to his bad spending habits and bad decisions he is now broke, and working a dead…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:48 AM
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Can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:07 AM
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If women are telling a man that looks don’t matter (which I doubt very much), it’s because he’s ugly and they are trying to make nice, encouraging noises. Which is exactly why some men tell other men not to take advice from women, because women sometimes focus too much on the feelings, on sugar coating their statements not to hurt someone's feelings, instead of being blunt and give outright practical advice. If a woman were to be honest to a man who is having a tough time getting with a particul…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 11:58 PM
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"just be yourself, be her friend, support her and she'll see the value in you"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 11:48 PM
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Fragile egos stop men from asking. Hope you understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 11:46 PM
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this would be a massive waste of time, effort and resources in order to insult people Insult people? I am sorry that your ego is so fragile that you think being called adulterous is worst than spending thousands of dollars raising another man's child.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 11:37 PM
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Make paternity tests mandatory at birth in order to be eligible for child support and welfare benefits in the future and you'll have mothers demanding paternity tests. All mother's would demand a paternity test the very moment that baby comes out of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 11:34 PM
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If you live in the US, don't you think they already have a DNA database? They probably got you in that database the first time you got blood work, or the first time you donated blood, and they just don't tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 11:28 PM
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I never saw that movie, so I had to look it up, damn Salma Hayek was such a babe in that movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 05:19 PM
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Agree with you but I still have a thing for Salma Hayek.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:38 PM
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This is 2023, not the 1800s, life expectancy is close to 80 years old, not 50.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 01:11 AM
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Women aren’t attracted to old men either I didn't say anything about old men. 35 to 45 years isn't considered old. Men are most attractive at 25. And I said beauty is just one of many factors to reach your peak as man. Nobody is really attracted to bald men, Most men aren't bald between 35 and 45 years old. This sounds more like body shaming if anything. they have to have something else going for them like fame Which I also explained when I said "social status, financial status, etc". I did say …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 01:04 AM
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I wouldn't know, but if we go by national statistics from the USA in regards to wealth we could probably conclude that only a small percentage of the male population reach their prime, the majority of men aren't earning enough money to be considered wealthy, wealth being just one factor in attracting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 06:03 PM
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the idea that women lose value as they age This is objectively true. Younger women are sough after and desired far more than mature women. This isn't some sort of conspiracy, men are simply attracted to perky tits, firm ass and a face without wrinkles, etc. Doesn't matter how you want spin it, it's sinple, men like younger, hotter, beautiful women. men in their 40s will have the ability to pick and choose any women they want The red pill doesn't say "ALL men will have their pick of young women w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 03:50 PM
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To put things into perspective: a 'happily single' woman is like that trust fund kid 'finding himself' by traveling the world and living among poors as a 'wandering bohemian'. But unlike the hobos he encounters along the way he is at peace of mind as knows he can step-out of this kind of life at any given time, for the trust fundie that life is a choice, for the poor it's a matter of of reality and circumstance. Loving this metaphor. It's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:12 PM
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It feels like every month or week they have some drama with the guy their dating or situationship or friends with where it’s obvious things are never going to be the way they want it to be. Yet it usually just goes on. I've become apathetic to it. Women's drama with their partners is tiresome and fruitless to me, and it's not good for anybody to involve themselves in that sort of drama. Have you noticed women don't leave the partners with whom they have drama? They love it, maybe not in a consci…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 03:05 PM
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Well if a married man is trying to have sex with another woman but she plays hard to get, he won't care about it, he will very nonchalant, because he knows he will get laid regardless, he has someone to have sex with at home. The red pill encourages men to build an abundance mindset so that you detach yourself from the outcome. She didn't put out tonight, oh well... it will be another day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 08:33 PM
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Women earning more are less likely to cheat? Sounds detached from reality. A woman earning more than her husband, loses respect for him, women only get the tingles and are only aroused by men they respect. Think of all the simps with no self respect that orbit around women all the time. Women do not give these simps even a crumb of pussy. If a woman isn't fucking her husband, she is likely fucking a man higher in the socio-economic hierarchy in her work field. Think of a very successful woman la…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:09 PM
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Thinking about this the other day. All women want a provider, someone who can bankroll their lifestyle, or at the very least someone earning more than they do. Why should we men care about gold diggers? We shouldn't. We should care about making money and giving ourselves and our partners a good lifestyle. Women wanting a provider is totally normal, and it shouldn't be demonized. All men want sex, and a good majority of men want sex with different women throughout their lives. Of course men in re…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:01 PM
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That would be interesting to see. Would a mother who is all about independence and the empowerment of women like a submissive woman or an independent woman for her son?
/r/BlackPillScience30/03/23 03:42 PM
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This is why pursuing a woman in hopes that she likes you back is a waste of time and money. It is best to pursue women who already like you, it makes everything so much easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:09 PM
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"I didn't know what Tate did until after I met him". She also said flying out doesn't mean we had sex, but then didn't also deny it. She totally knew who Andrew Tate was, impossible not to know a man who was so notorious on the internet, and second, she definitely had sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:03 PM
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Exactly. Companies won't hire you if you had a "commiting felonies phase" in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 08:32 PM
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I am not a goat f-cker, I only f-ed a goat once.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 08:30 PM
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That's not even the point. The point is, a fat ugly millionaire woman CAN'T get a man, but a fat ugly millionaire man CAN get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:52 PM
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Good luck trying, it ain't gonna work.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:58 PM
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she aint gonna buy me shit with it anyway Bing bing bing!!! "My money is mine, your money is ours"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:56 PM
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Yeah well, but fat balding millionaires don't lack female company, do they? Call those women gold diggers if you want, but the fat balding international business man doesn't mind spending money on women BECAUSE he is getting what he wants from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:55 PM
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Didn't asnwer my questions, instead you attacked a strawman. That settles it, men are bad regardless of what they do. Can't win with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:58 PM
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Women control access to sex, if women don't want sex men can't have it. Also women can DEMAND a man to wear a condom "no condom no sex", there are also dozens of contraception created for women, you can use oral contraception even without the man knowing. Man, accountability really is your kryptonite.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:48 PM
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Ok, let me ask you a couple of different questions then. Would you consider wearing makeup a form of manipulation? You are essentially changing your appeareance to look different than what you really look like. If a woman doesn't know how to flirt, and then she learns how to flirt, is she now manipulative?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:47 PM
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Men who are shy or socially inept give women the ick and men who learn how to pick up women are considered manipulative. Damn, can't win with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:23 PM
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Why do you consider someone who learned to pick up women, or learned seduction to be a manipulator? Imagine a woman who didn't know how to dress or wear make up. Then one day she learns these things, would you call her a manipulator?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 01:24 PM
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Women do not approach more. When they really like a man, they flirt more, they drop more hints, they try to get a man's attention doing all kinds of subtle or not so subtle movements with their hands, hair, lips, eyes, etc. But rarely approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:06 AM
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What nonsense is this? Women have the majority of responsabilty when it comes to sex. You are the onces who decide when sex happens, and you are the ones who decide who nuts inside of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:59 AM
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Well, it is hardwired on you to be repulsed by such behaviour from women, don't beat yourself over something out of your control. It is their body their choice. I would advice you to find a woman who isn't nonchalant about their sexual past. Someone with more self restrain perhaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:46 PM
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Great post. In regards to the traveling part of your post. I advice men to stir away from women who are able to travel the world without having a known job or business. They are able to travel the world because they meet clients if you know what I mean. I know a couple of women who are high earners and even they don't travel the world as much as they want to. I knew a woman who was a client at my job, she would save some money, then take a small loan and travel to a different country every year,…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:09 AM
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Always shocking to see people married shortly after they met. Guess they are too old to play the dating game and they would rather just have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:10 AM
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Planing a date, picking up someone, driving them to place, pay for dinner, take them back home. Do women do any of that? No. Women just have to show up, so tell me again who is doing more for the other. Not to mention, is not often that women offer to pay or plan anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:21 PM
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Do you give your absolute best in the first date with some random ass guy you just met? For clarification, dressing nice and wearing make up isn't "giving your best", that's just basic attraction behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 04:40 PM
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I swallow those feelings because they're not constructive or kind This is me. Jealousy or envy are like a poison. Instead, I try to see the positive of them being with their partners. I am happy for them, genuinely happy for them, and I wish them not to break up or something like that. I see their pictures online and I enjoy to see them happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 04:35 PM
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That wasn't even my best. To address your point. If I were to give my best to everyone, then no one would feel special with me. Also I am not supposed to spend lots of money or plan a very sophisticated date with someone I just met. It would be different if we had been dating for weeks or months and the relationship is going well, then absolutely I am going to make the next date better than the last.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 04:29 PM
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But she is there voluntarily, she can leave at any time right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 02:42 PM
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I will be the first one to confess j used to do fancy first dates in the past. Not anymore. First dates have to be coffee or a light meal. Nothing expensive or too elaborate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 02:18 PM
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I wish more women had this attitude in regards to age gap relationships when the man is older. Any time that topic comes up they always say "he is manipulating her, she is being abused".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 02:11 PM
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Would those female doctors marry male nurses? No. Would male doctors marry female nurses? Yes. Women's income doesn't matter to men, as much as a man's income matter to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:08 PM
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Women typically are not looking to help a man build a castle, they just want to move into a man's castle. Good luck with that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 03:35 PM
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Because men don't get hit on even one tenth as much as women do. If you dress sexy and go out to a bar with your girl friends, you and your friends are gonna get hit on constantly. Your husband and his buddies go to a bar, they won't get hit on. So you don't worry about it. Men approach women more than women approach men. Would you be OK with your partner going to a strip club where you know strippers will try to talk to him, will try to get him to pay for sex or a lap dance? NO. You are OK with…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 03:33 PM
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If you are so concerned about divorce, don't get married or live with a woman, or if you want to get married then get a good lawyer to make a prenuptial agreement before marriage. You could probably create an LLC. and put assets into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 03:25 PM
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I'm sure they don't care about attracting the average guy making 50k. This is irrelevant. We aren't talking about what women want. The more a man earns the less a woman's money matters to him. If a man makes $50k like you said, then he might care that his wife makes some money, that way they can buy a house, a car, etc in less time. And the whole weight of providing isn't on his shoulders alone. A man making $200k cares less that his wife makes money, he is already making more than enough for th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 03:13 PM
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I have seen like 6 other videos like this, there is one common theme among these videos, they always bring up the "receding hairline". If men didn't like you before, what makes you think they are going to like you after shaming them? I wouldn't want to be with someone that tries to shame me into being with her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/23 02:04 PM
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would say there’s a pretty decent pool of women that age who are pursuing higher education/career advancement who can’t settle at this moment due to time constraints/travel, and just simply changing their mind of what they’re looking for This is true. Finishing university and then pursuing a masters degree takes time. I know at least a dozen women who were early 30s when they finally got their masters degree. So they postpone romantic relationships and starting family. Though education accolades…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 01:29 PM
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The sus part is befriending someone for a year and getting romantic without knowing they’re married. People lie and hide things all the time. Some married people hide the fact they are married not to scare people who could become their lovers. Also I was 18 years old so I took what she said at face value when she said she was single. I was the one to break things off when I learned she was married. And I am the one who didn't allow anything to happen between us.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:44 AM
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Do you think a married woman with two children is a good option for a single man without children? Probably not. Feel free to ask anything in regards to that story.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:28 AM
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I would prefer he hangs out with people our age What's wrong with him hanging out with younger people, and younger women in particular? Sadly me and her don’t get along too well Tell us.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 07:03 PM
0

Damn, women are so quick to attack other women when they feel left out. So funny to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 07:00 PM
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Have a similar story I want to share. When I was 18 years old I met a beautiful woman, she was 5 years older, we had a year long friendship before we started to get romantic. Fast forward I was head over heels for her, she turned out to be married, something she hid from me. She didn't had kids at the time. Fast forward some 12 years, she contacts me again, she is still married, has 2 kids, and wanted me to be in a relationship with her. I entertained her for a couple of weeks/months, you know, …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 06:58 PM
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I’ve pushed my bf to be more social Have you pushed him to be more social towards young hot beautiful women thou?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 06:45 PM
3

Damn I just got debunked.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 05:29 PM
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Yep. This also applies to Girl's Night Out. Women like to defend GNO as some sort of right they have even when they are in commited relationships. But ask a woman "would you be OK if your boyfriend/husband went to a place where there is alcohol involved, and the are multiple women, some of which are significantly more beautiful than you, and they are constantly hitting on your partner, buying him drinks and they are willing and ready to have sex with him that night?", 100% of women say NO.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:56 PM
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This shit is always so tricky because women get so much plausible deniability with this type of content They use the excuse "I post pictures for myself, for my own enjoyment". It's the same as when women are asked why do they wear revealing clothes in public "I don't dress like this for others, I do it for myself". But imagine if we asked in the abstract if women would be comfortable with their men posting content that is visually or emotionally stimulating They are going to say yes, because mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:22 PM
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Women cheat more than men, but men get caught more often. We men tend to be more relaxed about our affairs, we sometimes develop a "I don't care if I get caught" attitude, and so we get caught more often. If you have 10 men cheating and 15 women cheating, from those people, 5 men are caught cheating but only 3 women are caught cheating, it looks as if women cheat less than men. Why are men caught cheating more than women? When men cheat, the affair woman sometimes start to get jealous, and they …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:43 AM
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True, but is it the only thing a man expects from a woman with whom he would like to have a long term relationship with? Probably not. Even sex can get boring if the other person has nothing else to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 06:17 PM
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It’s “not your job” to give feedback but in this situation it would benefit you But isn't that almost like forcing her to do things so you like her? Like shouldn't it happen naturally instead of forcing it? I wouldn't want to be with someone I have to tell them "you should show me appreciation", "you should do things to make me like you".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 05:36 PM
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I recently watched a video from a woman psychologist, she explained that in all relationships be it romantic, friendship, family, etc there has to be a balance between giving and receiving, she went into detail why this balance is necessary, or otherwise an inbalance starts to damage the relationship. It has been my personal experience that women expect more investment from the man at the beginning of the talking phase/relationship which happens to match with the stage when the men tend to feel …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 05:27 PM
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Could they use some form of verification like "Sign up with your Facebook account", so basically they use their facebook information but they are not on facebook? Not sure if this is possible, but I am curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 04:56 PM
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People should stop getting offended when they are left out by somebody else's preferences. If someone says they don't like X trait and you happen to have X trait, then nothing you can do about it, certainly nagging them about their preference won't make them like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 10:28 PM
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Is the wife going to provide for me? Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:03 PM
0

Yeah and a mother would have do everything at home on top of working a paid job if she didn't have a man to provide for her. Both working at home or outside are duties, someone have to do them, but you complain about house chores while we men shut our mouths and do what we have to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 06:38 PM
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Do you think working for a stranger (boss) who doesn't give a shit about you is more dignified? Reconsider your expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 06:36 PM
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Statistically men still do more hard labor and provide for the family than women do. What's your point? That because women do more labor in the house they are more oppressed? Or that they deserve more? If offered between taking care of kids or working with heavy machinery women are going to choose the option that allows to work in their pajamas.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:34 PM
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Psycophats look like very well adjusted individuals who befriend their victims before they kill them. If female intuition was so good, women would not be victims to serial killers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:03 PM
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Can we really complain about what they do? They are both consenting to it. I often see women bring it up "these F&F guys hate on women and they bring them to the show to embarras them!!!", but women never make the girls responsible for putting themselves on the show. BTW, some of the girls have gone on the show several times, are you going to tell me they are oppressing themselves? Of course not. They enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:35 PM
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I dont know. Would it be hypocritical from the girls to complain that about being offended in a show that bashes on onlyfans and nontraditional women behaviour? It seems to me that both parties know what's up and they are fine with the deal they are getting. It comes down to adults consenting to something.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:30 PM
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I personally would not want to take a girl’s virginity unless I could see myself marrying her one day I 100% think like you. Most of the girls on there are just bimbos with onlyfans living in Miami You can't really hate on F&F for having those girls on the show, they go there voluntarily, because they want to get clout, they want to promote their onlyfans and shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:55 PM
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One of the reasons women live longer is because men are physically stronger, so we end up doing jobs that are more likely to kill you. Fishing, logging, roofing, mining, oil drilling, steel works, etc. If men and women's bodies were equally strong then maybe there would be a 50-50 ratio of men and women in dangerous jobs, and you would see female life expentancy drop and male life expentancy raise.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 11:33 AM
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Both men and women have a dual mating strategy, just with different goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 11:03 AM
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Compliments doesn't mean shit to a woman unless she likes you. Think about it, there are hundreds of other men who complimented her looks before you did, you don't stand out from the bunch just for calling her pretty or whatever. Looks matter a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 10:46 AM
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Don't make it about yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:39 AM
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It doesn't matter what older women think. Two consenting adults can do whatever they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 10:41 PM
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I didn't YOU as in "you /u/Soloandthewookiee " I said it as in "you women". You never fail to see a body positive advocate make short penis jokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:54 PM
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Women created body positivity, they asked acceptance at any weight, they rally against body shaming, but hey are quick to shun a short guy, or make fun of another guy for having a small penis. You are the most hypocrite of the lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:02 PM
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We all know at least one guy like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:41 PM
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There is body positivity for women, there is no body positivity for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:40 PM
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Something I have noticed is, male gender roles are static, male gender roles do not change over time, and the reason they do not change, is because it is in women's best self interests that men stick to their gender roles. Protector Role... what woman wants to be with a weak guy who won't defend her? None. Provider Role... what woman wants to be with a guy who can't provide a good lifestyle? None. What woman wants to be with a man who is going to split the bill all the time? Not many. Women forc…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:21 PM
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Exactly. Women only oppose men going for younger women because they feel left out, and their egos are hurt. "how can this man reject me for that 22 year old college girl?" said the bitter woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:39 PM
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Not if the guy is also a virgin, and plans to have sex in a dutiful way As a man I don't agree with this. Should a woman go after a wealthy man only if she has wealth herself? No! A woman regardless of her wealth should aim to get a wealthier man. Is it unfair? No. Is it hypocritical? No. Is it inmoral? No. She is allowed to do that. Just like a man who fucked hundreds of womens can go after virgin women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:44 PM
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You are right that most people condemn cheating, but women seem to be forgiving about it more often than men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 10:03 PM
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Do you really think I implied a person can do all of those things at the same time? Of course you can do all of those things, just at different times of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:30 PM
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Ideally I would like her to have her own business so she can have her own schedule, this should allow her to manage the children, and have some time for herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 01:05 PM
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It's not the money, it's the Rollercoaster of emotions, the unexpected, not knowing what's going to happen, conflict, etc. Chris Brown embodies the type of man that women want to "fix". Some women have this savior complex and they take it as a personal goal to domesticate these men who they see as wild beasts. If you can give a woman constant emotion changes and keep her on her toes, she will forgive you for cheating on her. Telling you this because I know a married woman who despite her husband…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 12:57 PM
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Most have some serious baggage before getting into porn Nowadays a lot of women get into porn the day they become 18 years old, sure you can already have baggage at 18, but not "my life is ruined" level baggage that you are forced to go into porn. Women go into porn because they want money fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:56 PM
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u/Affectionate_Pen_623 already told you strippers, pornstars and escorts get a lot of attention from men who see them as sex objects and just want to fuck them, but the majority of men don't want to marry them. Why are going in circles on this part?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:52 PM
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she has changed her ways What exactly do you mean by "changed her ways"? Just because she is no longer a whore it doesn't mean her record is wiped clean and she gets a new start. A man with an extensive criminal record may have changed his ways, but government agencies are not gonna hire a criminal and he won't be able to get jobs on different sectors of the economy. He can't just claim "I have changed my ways" and expect everyone to give him a chance. the sheer amount of porn, strip clubs and o…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:45 PM
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Ignoring the sexual past of a woman to enter into marriage with her, is akin to ignoring the sexual offense record of someone you want to hire to babyseat your children.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:31 PM
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There is something that isn't mentioned by OP. A woman that is promiscuous, and people around her know it, she is a woman that lowers her husband/boyfriend status in the community. While there are men who are happy with their 304's, the vast majority of men won't be happy knowing their wife is a known slut. This is why a lot of men divorce their wives when old sex videos/photos of her promiscuous past surface and become viral. Men feel loved when they are respected and having your sexual past go…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:21 PM
1

You can't make equality out of unequal things.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:13 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mxFUWreI7BA Liston to this career woman embarras herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:59 PM
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I know you are being facetious, but I'll bite. Only a minority of women were prostitutes, the majority usually married young and virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:36 PM
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Host: "do you want a traditional man?" Guest: "yes" Host: "are you a traditional woman?" Guest: "Yes" Host: "what's your body count?" Guest: "twenty" Oh that's so traditional... They are only victims of their own stupidity.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:10 PM
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Also, the women go there voluntarily, no one is forced to be there, so if a woman goes on the show and she says dumb stuff to embarras herself, that's all on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:52 PM
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I would say the hosts don't have to embarras the girls, the girls embarras themselves all the time. Host: "do you want a traditional man?" Guest: "yes" Host: "are you a traditional woman?" Guest: "Yes" Host: "no you are not, you have an onlyfans" Guest: "but that's not my only income, I have other sources of income" You see what I am saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:50 PM
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She's 33, she is certainly at her worst compared to 22. He didn't even get to enjoy the 22 version He was waiting for her while she had other relationships going throughout all those years. Chris if you are reading this, you are pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 05:01 PM
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Let's hope the husband uploads a similar video and we find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 10:43 PM
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Like you said, both have the same responsabilities, but do they have the same rights?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:36 PM
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"I am going to surprise him with my wedding dress from 15 years ago" Most American women can't fit into their wedding dress 15 years later. lmao They would not be able to pull this off.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:26 PM
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Women do that, men aren't telling women to stay single and chase the bag.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 06:57 PM
1

Wow this guy used the chad face filter in real life. Instant boost to his self steem.
/r/AllPillDebate06/03/23 06:54 PM
0

Let me give you an example. 1st scenario. A man walks up to his wife and says "honey you are not the hottest woman I have ever been with". 2nd scenario. A woman asks her husband "Peter, am I the hottest woman you have ever been with?" and he says "well honey, you are not". See, the first scenario is a man trying to make his wife uncomfortable and trying to lower her selfsteem. That guy is an ass and needs to get dumped, simply because you do not do that to your partner. The second scenario is a …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 11:59 AM
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There is a huge difference between being asked "do you need a man" and someone who says it without being asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 11:17 AM
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They don't say "I am a strong independent woman who need no man" because they think we don't see them as strong or independent, they say those things from a place of insecurity inside of them. Women have an historical chip in their shoulder from all those years they weren't able to get the fancy jobs in the upper echelons of society, but now they can, and they feel the need to shove it in men's faces. It's also an ego thing, they can't lock down a man so they say they don't need a man to justify…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:45 AM
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Women can have babies well into their 40s but it's a high risk gamble. If you had a 50% chance to win the lottery today, and a 0.5% chance to win the lottery in 10 years, would you play the lottery today or in 10 years? I think most people would choose today, or as early as they possibly can.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 05:00 AM
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I do not infringe on people's liberties. A woman can have have casual sex with as many people as she wants, I can't control her, no oen can control her. But here is the thing, everything we do can have negative repercutions, one of those repercutions is that some people won't look at you for a long term relationship. Let me give you an example. I can, sit in my basement all day, have cheetos and mountain dew every day, neglect my health, neglect my hygiene, play video games all day, not have a j…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 09:47 PM
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But why do you not get held to the same standard That's up to women, they are allowed to have all the stardards they have, I may even find their standards unfair, but I can't stop them from having their own personal standards and boundaries. I have to respect their standards, even if those standards prevent me from being with her. She is allowed to reject me. Why do you get to just get laid but they don’t? They can get laid as much they want. I can't stop women from fucking. So I don't know what…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 09:34 PM
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I do care about body count. I do not care about it if I am just trying to get laid. Would you care what job the other person has if you just want to get laid? Probably not. Would you care their relationship with their parents if you just want to get laid? Probably not. Would you care if they are wife/husband material if you are just trying to get laid? Probably not. Filters go down when it comes to casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 07:30 PM
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You are greatly underestimatingwomen's ability to compartmentalize.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 07:03 PM
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they rarely ever ask. probably because they don’t care We do care, but we don't ask for two reasons: We don't trust you are going to be honest. Women deep down know body count matters, so if a woman has a high body count, she is gonna lie to save face and avoid being judged. This is why the "multiply by 3" rule exists. It's a turn off for women if we ask. Let's be real, sometimes men are just trying to get laid, if we ask such information women get afraid of being judged and they won't put out, …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 07:02 PM
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The reason she got a lawyer husband while being such a terrible prospect herself is not solely her "fault". The guy who chose her must have his own issues, maybe he has depression, maybe he doesn't see his worth and that he is capable of getting better women, maybe he has a fetish for obese women, maybe he has a savior complex and so your cousin as a project "I can save her" kind of thing. They say people match with people who have the same mentality and character, so if your cousin matched with…
/r/AllPillDebate02/03/23 05:36 PM
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Right.
/r/MensRights02/03/23 03:40 AM
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Boys are told to care about women, and women's issues, but girls are never taught to care about men or men's issues. It's a one side deal.
/r/MensRights01/03/23 10:16 PM
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They abandoned gender role expectations for women Unlike women who still have the same old gender role expectations from for men.
/r/MensRights01/03/23 10:10 PM
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Feminism is a women advocacy group, not an equality advocacy group.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 02:23 AM
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You are a woman aren't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 09:31 PM
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Agree. If you are having sex with other people while we are dating, I won't take you serious, I'll just look at you like another fling/hookup. Want to be seen as a potential long term partner, show long term partner behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 08:08 PM
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I am actually told by women that asking n count is impolite, not that I think it is impolite really. I don't about it because women are not going to be honest about it. If a woman asks me I have to make up a random number because I don't know. I stopped counting at like 5 I think and didn't care too about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 02:01 AM
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How would you even know what his body count is? It's not polite to ask. How would you find out he has a high vs low body count?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 09:16 PM
2

Men's rights movements Men's rights movements get shut down. The status quo is "men bad, women good", so if men were to fight for Men's rights, women perceive it as "men want to oppress women more", so they get shut down.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 05:58 PM
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It would be impossible to do a beautiful people per capita study between city and small rural town. My personal opinion is small town women are more naturally beautiful, while city women tend to stuff their faces with makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 04:52 PM
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Here is another thread related to what you mentioned. https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/sty7ye/how_do_men_with_families_deal_with_being_the/ And another one. https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1smtg7/what_are_your_examples_of_being_vulnerable_in_a/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 03:18 PM
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Not even that. If you get closer to someone to kiss, and they kiss you back, that is consent, if they get on top of you that's consent, if they touch your body and allow you to touch theirs that's consent, if they get their clothes off or help you remove yours that's consent. The vast majority of times there is a build up prior to the act, and people don't say anything to have sex, they do things to make it happen. My personal experience is, asking for permission turns women off, and they prefer…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 02:38 PM
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If you are conscious enough to give enthusiastic consent, then you are conscious enough to have made the decision to have sex. Enthusiastic consent is still key, as usual. I bet 99% of sex occurs without saying "I consent". It's a myth that people voice consent before sex. However when people do not consent they do voice it "stop", "I don't want to do this", "I can't do this".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 11:54 PM
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Not even what I said but you are entitled to your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 05:25 PM
2

Correct. This is why some men may cohabitate with a woman for years, but never marry her, because that contract screws him over if things don't work out. If marriage/divorce laws where adapted to current times, and they made it fair for both parties then men would be encouraged to get married. There are two things I will be upfront if I met a woman and I want to marry, first is I want paternity test for every child we have, and second we sign a prenuptial agreement before marriage where i keep w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 02:31 PM
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Totally. Divorce laws tell women they can abandon their wife duties at any given time because if they divorce they get half of everything, and the nanny states encourages women to divorce. If the USA wants to fix its social isuues like high divorce rates, single parenthood, teenage criminals, etc. They ought to change divorce laws according to current modern society where women have same rights and opportunities as men. And they ough to slowly phase out welfare, it's unsustainable and encourages…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 02:23 PM
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I blame current divorce laws for the current attitude towards marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 02:13 PM
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I am of the opposite opinion. If two people are married they owe each other things, that includes sex, and I don't care if women get mad about this comment, but if a man signs a document that says he should only have sex with his wife, then she better put out. If that paper says a man has to feed, shelter and protect his wife, then he ought to do it regardless if he is upset for whatever reason. Both have duties within the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 01:59 PM
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Men fighting wars has nothing to do with patriarchy and everything to do with biological differences and reproduction capabilities. If you put 1 woman and 100 on an island, you can produce about 1 baby each year. However if you put 1 man and 100 women on an island, you can produce almost 100 babies each year. It is in the interest of human preservation, to protect women. Women also suck at fighting wars on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:52 PM
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I honestly hope she ghosts him, so he can move on with his life and find a better woman.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/23 07:10 PM
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Stick to your guns. If I met a woman and she genuinely is chaste, I would give it a shot and see if we can develop a a serious commited relationship. If we can't make it work, oh well, I guess I can't complain I never had sex with her since she was upfront since the beginning that she was waiting for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 03:09 AM
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Since we all know women and men are equal Oh really, are we equals? In what regard are we equals?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 10:19 PM
2

So you admit that it's true I said the opposite, learn to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 09:56 PM
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This would be true if men and women were equals, but we are very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 09:43 PM
2

Ad Hominem attacks are not arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 09:39 PM
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Red Pill is reactionary. Things aren't working out for me in the current dating landscape, Red Pill offers me a way to navigate myself in the dating market, and how to have increased success. I am gonna repeat what I said before, women have huge power to change things, but they prefer it this way, we men simply adapt to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 08:19 PM
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Yeah well. No matter how competent a woman is, she can't escape the burden of beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 07:54 PM
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She can always demand marriage before sex. Most men aren't going to get married just to have sex. That's how women prevented men from using them only for sex in the past, they weeded out casual-sex-havers from possible-husbands by being clear that they will be virgin at marriage. It's incredible I have to teach women this. "ok, you want to have sex, but I won't have sex until I am married, prove to me that you don't want to simply use me for sex by marrying to me"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 06:03 PM
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What are you even talking about? I am not talking about body counts. You said "It takes two to have sex"... and then said "men circunvent women's barriers". What does this mean, what women barriers are being circunvented that allow men to have sex with women despite women not wanting it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 05:48 PM
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It takes two to have sex and you are a contributor to the problem Many redpillers use strategies to actively circumvent the barriers of women and that’s the problem. These two statements are in direct conflict. On the first one you are implying women are also responsible for every time they have sex, on the second one you speak as if women are not capable of saying no. Just say "No, I am not going to have casual sex".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 05:30 PM
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Women here forget women are the gatekeepers of sex, so they can't complain about men getting casual sex. Women do not realize the huge power they have to shape the dating landscape. If women by large numbers decided to stop sleeping around, men would have to either pay for prostitutes or get married, they would not be able to sleep around, thus not being able to deminish a woman's value.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 04:35 PM
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Why would RP men have to justify it? It's women's value that is diminishing, not men's. It is not a man's duty to preserve the value of women, women have to safeguard themselves. By the way, when a man tells a woman not to sleep around what is the usual reaction to this? She tells him to F off, "we can have sex with as much people as we want", "we are free", "stop trying to control women's sexuality". So on one hand we can't tell women to abstain from casual sex, and on the other hand you don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 04:26 PM
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The question is - Do women really crave this masculine, strong attitude? Just watch who women are fucking the most, it's not the feminine, soft, humble guys. Yes women do crave masculine man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 02:51 PM
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I have no idea what you are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 04:48 PM
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That's an oversimplification with the intent of minimizing men's concerns in dating, that's not on good faith. A coffee date isn't a financial risk, but I ask you, if a coffee date isn't a financial risk, why are women so adamant on inviting men on dates and pay for everthing?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 03:41 PM
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Personally, I let women know up front the type of relationship I’m looking for and if they say they want a modern relationship but expect me to pay for the dates and expenses Damn, I gotta start using this. Really tired of this modern one sided dating enviroment where a man has all the financial risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:59 PM
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don't make demeaning claims about women Something doesn't have to be demeaning about women to get a harsh reaction, say something unflattering about women and you will get called names, or they'll try to cancel you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 11:38 PM
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Men are realizing what's been going on A lot of men go through life believing women are sweet creatures incapable of harming men. "she wouldn't do that" a lot of men tell themselves as they get finessed by the woman they hold on high regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 11:33 PM
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When you combine those 2 things with things like 6 feet tall, isn't married, wants to be married, isn't gay, no kids from previous relationships, then you filter like 99% of men. So yeah, wanting to get a 1% man is absurd. On top of that he has to like you back. You are more likely to get a partner if your standards or preferences are more open, let's say 5'10" or above, 5 inches or more, makes 75k or more, those are some reasonable preferences. I doubt anyone would call you shallow for having t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 03:57 PM
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But then there’s this resentment towards women if they want a man who’s ambitious The only men resentful for this are men who don't know how the world works. we’re judged for being shallow and having unrealistic expectations if we want a guy with big goals making decent money It's not shallow to want a partner who is well off financially. The "that's shallow" comments start when women make absurd claims "6 feet, 6 figures, 6 inches". The problem I see is women think their money and accolades wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:57 PM
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I hope Leo keeps dating/banging young chicks until he is a decrepit old man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/23 02:47 PM
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I have also heard variations of the "small and protected" comment. We men are not pulling this out of our behinds, women do say these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 05:50 PM
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Gosh, some women love to act like everyone is different and for that reason we can't make general statements about either sex. Some women have no problem saying "all men are...", "all men do...", but when it comes to women they use "women are not a monolith".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 05:46 PM
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No arguments so going for the username. Honey if I cared what people think of my username I wouldn't have used it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 03:05 PM
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Most women are not looking for a superior Most women want a man who is "more" than they are, they just don't want it to be acknowledged or pointed out. and it's a red flag to me if the man I'm romantically involved with sees himself as superior to me. Don't worry no man is going to say such a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 02:34 PM
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A guy who puts "agreeable" in the description is saying "agrees with me" Omg what a sin, to desire a partner who is easy to get along with and won't fight my every decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 02:25 PM
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Women are the only ones parroting about "equality". You would have to define equality for me to answer that question.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 02:23 PM
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Equality is not achievable due to men and women preferences. Don't women want someone taller, earns more, more experience, bigger ocial and profesional circle, more confident, stronger, etc??? That to me describes a superior, and you can't be equal to someone who is superior to you, it doesn't work that way. Women are contradictory on that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 01:33 PM
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if someone puts that in their dating profile, they’re looking for a doormat And you know that how exactly? Normal people wouldn’t put that in their bio. Damn, can't be normal and try to find someone who isn't going to bust my balls, or contest whatever I say.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 01:30 PM
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That's a better analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:17 PM
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They are like kids with their toys. A kid doesn't want to play with the ball until the other kid wants to play with the ball. Women don't want men in their vicinity until these men seek other women and those women seek these men back.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:10 PM
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Telling men women only want them for their money is stupid, since all men know women want a man who earns more than they do. Tell us something we don't down.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:58 PM
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I know, I was just kidding.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 03:25 PM
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I am misogynistic if I don't want to date single moms, and I am a predator if I want to date single moms. Can't win with women lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 10:20 AM
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“Successful women turned out to place an even greater value than less professionally successful women on mates who have professional degrees, high social status, and greater intelligence and who are tall, independent, and self-confident.” That's just hypergamy. Dating men equal or above yourself but it's stronger when trying to settle down. That's for ages 23-29, and for relationships (IE settling down). I agree, women want a man that is MORE educated WHEN she's ready to settle down. But these g…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 09:50 AM
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Imagine if everywhere they go white people expected black people to open doors and give their seat to white people. Most black people would see this as servitude, and blacks being less than white people. That's what chivalry is, servitude. Men are expected to be servants to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 09:34 AM
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Being arrogant Trying to shove your diplomas in my face all the time Telling me about all those places you visited as a single woman Being rude to waiters or anyone offering a service Being a staunch feminist Having anger outburst Physical violence Enjoys male attention too much Posting too many sexy pictures on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 09:26 AM
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Alpha Widow means a woman was previously with a guy that was so alpha, she now finds most guys unattractive/boring, and she finds it difficult to be in a new relationship without thinking about that previous guy. A woman doesn't have to have high body count to be alpha widow.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 09:15 AM
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If I was a criminal I would also say the past doesn't matter when someone inquires about my past.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 09:09 AM
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You speak like people without a career and experience are brainless. Do you realize there are people out there who don't go to college, don't have degrees, don't have careers, etc but they also make a living and are good people?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 02:54 PM
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It's a matter of perspective, 5'7" is tall in many asian countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 02:36 PM
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A million dollars solves a lot of problems. It would allow me to do many things I have always wanted to do in life. Would probably get chemically castrated to stop sexual desire from ever happening again.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 02:35 PM
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They reduce the ACTUAL high value woman who has a great career, great experience, and great looks simply because she's 'hit the wall' by virtue of being 30+ as well as having 'a high body count' These two things (great career, great experience) don't make you high value, only looks. Sure is cool that you have your own money to pay for your nails and purses, but end of the day we don't directly benefit from your career, it's not like women are buying their husband cars or a house. yet they go aft…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 02:29 PM
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Let's all just agree with them so that we can move on to the next topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 02:18 PM
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Nope. I present myself the way I am, and hope for the best. I don't want them to fall in love with an imposter.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 11:10 PM
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Is that surgery covered under healthcare in the US or not?
/r/AllPillDebate02/02/23 11:05 PM
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Anything to avoid being accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 09:52 PM
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He is no victim, he is just pussy whipped. If we men can admit Harry isn't a victim here, can women also admit that women who willingly enter into relationships with older men aren't victims either? No one forces anyone to get into relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 09:26 PM
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Yet they push this "body positive" bullshit everywhere. Why don't they start pushing "health positive", and encourage people to eat less and excercise more to keep a healthy weight? They won't, cause it's easy to make everyone else accept you at 300 pounds, than it is to lose 150 punds.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:08 PM
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Secondly wasn’t she a widowed single mom when she got with the 10 years older guy? Yea checks out. Hey guys when your old maybe a young single mom looking for a step dad will want you. Her dead husband was in the military, her husband died in a military helicopter crash, she received a lot of money as compensation for losing her husband. She wasn't starving, she was literally set for life with money, also she was very young when she married the second time, aproximately 25 or 26 years old, she i…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:06 PM
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Me nor any of my friends actually desire older men, we’re into men our own age. I also know women who want older men. I have said it here before, I know several women who dated o married older men. I had a school mate who married a guy at least 5 years older, they had a kid, but the guy died in a helicopter crash. That same woman later married a guy who is at least 10 yeard older than her. I am friends with 2 guys, both being older than their gf/wives. Believe, for every girl that you know who a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 07:00 PM
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Why do PPD women have such an axe to grind with the age gaps? Because they feel personally attacked and excluded. It's a natural response in women to try to change things that don't benefit them, so in this case, they know that younger women will always get a bigger piece of the cake, so they want to change the general perceptions on age gap relationships "Hey guys, do not date younger women, they do not want you, trust me". We men could us this type of manipulation, but we don't do it. Let me g…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:16 PM
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Bruh, you are wasting your time, they will continue to tip toe around the data and make up excuses to arrive to the conclusion they are right.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:07 PM
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You must be a great guy is she genuinely treated you with love and respect throughout the relationahip.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:37 AM
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Just answer the quesiton. What makes these women vulnerable?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 11:14 PM
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Well, it's true those swedish feminists look down on foreign women taking local swedish men. "how dare these women take swedish men?!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 10:53 PM
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Why exactly are they vulnerable? What are the circunstances that make these asian women vulnerable?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 10:51 PM
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Nobody likes to be the master delegator in a relationship Speak for yourself. I would rather be the leader than let a woman lead the relationship. I think many men would find that if they were to stop treating their wife as an equal, she would also leave them for being a chauvinist douche. Personal observation has proven otherwise. Absolutely everyone knows of at least one woman who stays with her partner, regardless of the abuse, manipulation, cheating, etc. However, make the relationship borin…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 03:57 PM
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Yes, I have made the same observations as you have. Allowing abortions ONOY in case of rape will lead to different problems. One of them being False Rape Alegations. Womam gets pregnant by her boyfriend, who maybe was just a player and didn't care to create a family. A woman who was dumped and is pregnant will use her only resource to get that abortion, she is gonna accuse the boyfriend of rape. It's a difficult issue, but I believe there are other posible solutions we can discuss if you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 01:41 AM
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I would be OK with abortions in case of rape, but the pro choice crowd want to use rape as an excuse to allow pregnancies for any reason, any term, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 10:39 PM
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Some people listed several reasons. But here goes another. Pregnancies from rape are not as common as pro choice crowd make it out to be. And not all rape victims want to abort the baby. Basically they use the exception to invalidate a rule. Let me give you an example. Let's say 5% of people who had a car crash while wearing a seat belt died. Does it mean we should get rid of sea belts because not all people can get saved? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 10:31 PM
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Are men more likely to want to die by using euthanasia? Sis, we hate bureaucracy, we would rather off ourselves without asking for permission.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:30 PM
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Exactly. With only the information OP gave us, the divorced woman seems like the best option.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:21 PM
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I would take care of two children from another man, but I would never commit to a promiscuous woman. The fact the first woman stuck to one guy for so long and has low body count is a sure sign she is a reliable partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 02:15 AM
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You know what's funny, that woman keeps making an effort to have that guy around, even if it is for their son... But men get gosthed or cheated on for being boring, for texting too much, for caring too much, for not creating drama. The shittier a man is the more effort a woman will put into him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 02:06 AM
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It's an uncomfortable truth that shows women in bad light. Women are almost protected from scrutiny and there is this false belief that women can't harm themselves by choosing bad partners, and if you dare call them out, if you dare point out they stick to abusive partners, it makes you almost as bad as the man abusing women. Women choose bad partners, and they choose to stay with bad partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 09:58 PM
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This was an epiphany for me. I am very calm person, don't start useless arguments, try to find solutions fast to carry on with my day. But it seems a lot of women don't like a calm cough boring cough life, and I realized in order to keep a woman calm, YOU have to stir shit up in the relationship, or otherwise she will but it will be far worse. I have known several men who are the trouble maker type, who will publicy disrespect their partners, and stir shit up at home all the time. And when I loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 08:48 PM
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If women complain about this, then they should also be outraged about "Are we dating the same guy".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:29 PM
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Yep. Most artists, influencers or whatever, realize their time to shine ended and they just move to the next thing in their life. These influencers don't lash out at their former fans, they don't shame people in an attempt to stay relevant, but mature women do shame men because they want to stay relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 04:00 PM
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Ok, would you say a billionaire 18 year old girl dating a 40 year old broke man has more or less power in that relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:27 PM
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No such thing as power balance. People like to throw that out to claim one side is the victim and the other is an aggressor. The only true power people have is the power to walk away from a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 02:47 PM
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Eventually all influencers regardless of the platform they use, youtube, tiktok, vine, instagram, etc... they all become irrelevant and are replaced, their first audience grows and their tastes may change, so people that grew watching PewDiePie may not watch him anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 02:43 PM
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Some women will use old men for their money Mature men know this, they are OK with spending money on women. You are now trying to make the men victims by saying they are only being used for their money.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 12:15 PM
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I'm in my thirties and recently had a woman almost 8 years younger suck me off in my car. She even proposed to do it again. She isn't a victim or anything, but the women of PPD love to infantilize women and remove agency from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 06:59 AM
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The senior student isn't forcing himself on the fresh female students. Stop removing agency from women to support your narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 06:53 AM
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Women ascribe agency to young women, when young women want to vote, buy a car, get a loan, get into student debt, become strippers/porn actresses/do only fans, etc but remove agency when a young woman wants to date older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 06:49 AM
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It's a fun topic that points out the hypocrisy of some women, and allows you to see their mental gymnastics in action.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 06:45 AM
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Some women are OK with those age gap relationships when it's them reaping the benefits, but when they get older and the men their age are looking for young women and not settling with post wall women, that's when age gap relationships are "bad" and "abusive". Funny how that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 06:43 AM
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B for sure. I have said it before. It is not about the number of times she had intercourse but the number of people she had intercourse with. A divorced woman who had sex 5000 times with her husband is better than a woman who have had sex 1000 times with 20 different men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 09:46 PM
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I also shamefully realize that there was a time I was simply not honest with myself, and i cringe when I see others operate the same way. I was like this as well. At one point I realized I wasn't a good friend if I secretly wanted more than just friendship. Nowadays I tend to me more upfront but in a flirtatious way, I use banter to tell a woman I like her and I would be down to have sex, and it's up to her if she wants me to stick around knowing what I want from her. The days of pretending to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:06 PM
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You do understand how weird it is that you cannot be around a woman without wanting to date her right? It's almost like nature created us this way so we would reproduce and preserve the species. Nature doesn't care about friendship, it cares that we reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:01 PM
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No one is entitled to be accepted by others. You are either accepted or not, and you can't force others to accept you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:56 AM
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Disagree. I don't care if women prefer taller guys, it's their preference and they have every right to reject me based on that aspect alone. While it hurts to be rejected, it is ultimately their right to do so, and I have to move on, I prefer to date someone who accepts me for who I am, rather than she secretly wish I was taller throughout the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:55 AM
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If you go to one of those WoW conventions, you see lots of stinky overweight guys with neck beards. Video game addiction makes you neglect your physical appearance, your hygiene, your social skills, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:51 AM
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No, it wants to disprove the claim that you can't be a woman unless you can give birth. Generally speaking women can bare children. If onyl half of all born women were in capacity to bare children, then "women can bare children“ wouldn't be an argument. Just because some women can't bare children due to genetic defects, poor health, or any other reasons we can't say women can't bare children. You want to invalidate the rule using the exceptions, and that's not how it works. No one is saying tran…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 03:16 PM
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That's right, but just because there isn't a term that accounts for all women, it doesn't mean we can't speak in broad terms about women. There are exceptions to every rule, but if it only took one exception to invalidate a rule, then we would have no rules at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 02:25 PM
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The obvious counterpoint to B would be "infertile women are still women". I have seen that argument come up before and I don't think is valid. The argument "infertile women are still women" wants to conflate trans-women with infertile-women. I can teach a dog to swim but people are not going to consider it a fish just because it can swim. While none of these 2 groups can bare children they are still fundamentally different. To say trans-women are the same as women is an insult to women. And if t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:30 PM
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For example: Topic: n count Women: "Men too" Men rarely resort to "Well, women do it!" Men don't say "Well, women do it!", it sounds like a childish "No YOU" response. What men do is they find an equivalent that women can relate to, to understand why their opinion is flawed. But the women use a second childish response "But it's not the same". For example: Man: "if she makes you wait for sex past a reasonable time frame, then dump her and move on" Woman: "I make a man wait for sex because I see …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:14 PM
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They know it matters. They just like to pretend it doesn't. What's the typical insult women throw at each other? Whore. A whore is a promiscuous woman, if being promiscuous didn't matter, then the word whore would have no power as an insult. But a lot of women get offended when called whores by other women. If body count didn't matter, women would have no reason to hide it or lie about it. If body count didn't matter then what need is there to push that narrative, wouldn't it be easier to let me…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 07:27 AM
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Early 30s, anywhere from 22 to 27.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 08:15 PM
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I don't see any woman refuting anything you have said.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 06:01 PM
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Tinder Spokesperson: "So uh guys, according to our statistics, most women on our app aren't swiping right, like at all, only about 10% of the men get matched with the majority of our female users, so spending money on our premiiun services isn't gonna help you a lot" No business is going to hurt itself by being honest to their costumers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 05:55 PM
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Male here, never came across one of these women hate forums. It's not as if I am actively looking them up on the internet, but I have never come across a website doing what you describe.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 05:46 PM
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Don't women parrot about "doing things for themselves, not for men"? So which is it? Do you dress and change your body to feel good about yourself or to attract men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 08:10 PM
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You seem to want to dictate what men should/shouldn't care about in women, and that is not a good stance. You can't bully people into liking you or choosing you. "You should care about my career!" is not going to attract any man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 04:38 AM
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For us men, being promiscuous and being a prostitute are basically the same. If you were to ask men "a woman who slept with 50 men, or a prostitute who slept with 50 men?" they are gonna answer "neither".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 04:29 AM
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There’s just nothing wrong with preferring a partner can match the lifestyle you’ve made for yourself I never said preferring a partner can match the lifestyle you’ve made for yourself was wrong. Why are you arguing with yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 04:18 AM
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Women claim the past doesn't matter until you ask if they would date/marry a guy who sucked dick for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 04:12 AM
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The fact that men don’t care about income is a standards failure in men So now it is our duty to care about a woman's income? Can't win with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 04:01 AM
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I consider that surgery to be for health and well being, not for cosmetic purposes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 03:58 AM
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This post starts from the position that men only want women for sex. But I'll bite. do you even like women as people? Yes. Do you deep down see women as equals? Equals before the law (rights and opportunities), and in human dignity. Other than that, we are not much of equals. We don't think alike, we don't respond to stimuli the same way, we don't act the same, we like different things, etc. Do you think women and men can connect intellectually and that such a connection is the basis for a relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 04:16 PM
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You can do whatever you want. You can't force me or expect me not to judge you for your actions though. Your only option is not to care what others think of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:35 PM
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If sex isn't a resource why are women exchanging sex for money on the streets or in brothels?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 01:19 AM
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A bit of an unpopular opinion, there shouldn't be government handouts to single parents, it encourages breaking the home, it encourages being irresponsible and acting reckless. If the government wasn't supporting single parents, people would make sure to use contraception, people would choose better who they have children with, people would have to work towards fixing their relationships.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/23 04:42 PM
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"fuck you and your feelings" It boggles my mind some women think aggression is a positive trait.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/23 04:33 PM
1

And here's the time before that. OMG that fourth graph with the age preferences. lmao
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/23 04:19 PM
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It's over for her. No man is going to willingly take up the responsibility of feeding, clothing, etc 4 children from other men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/23 04:01 PM
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"women mature faster than men" A young woman dates a 30 year old guy. "She isn't mature enough, she is a victim, she is being abused"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/23 03:49 PM
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Had to look her up too, there is not a man in any of her pictures. Kudos to her for changing careers and doing other stuff with her life, but her past will haunt her forever.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/23 03:19 PM
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"sapiosexual" lmao, yeah right.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:16 PM
1

Men do care about personality, but if we don't like you physically, then we might not want to get to know you. Ideally you want to be with someone you feel physically attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:12 PM
1

Yeah that's true, I get more positive feedback from women when I don't hold back and speak whatever I am thinking despite it being something stupid or outrageous. I joke about having a small penis in group settings.it gets me weird looks, people laugh and the tone of the setting becomes nsfw.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:39 AM
1

"I have a friend..." nah... not gonna take his word for it.
/r/AllPillDebate13/01/23 04:27 PM
3

Yep. Her experiment was in early 2000, the book about her experiment came out in 2006. She killed herself last year. Not that she had such a great time after her experiment, but she didn't kill herself right after her experiment.
/r/AllPillDebate13/01/23 04:25 PM
1

Being good or bad at cheating is beyond the point. The point is men won't open their relationship if they can simply have a side chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:08 AM
1

I don't buy this at all. Men are less likely to share their partners, and if they want to fuck other women, they will just do it instead of opening their monogamous relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 05:48 PM
1

Are women in Seeking Arrangements forced? No. Therefor they are willing participants.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 05:46 PM
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You have to change the scenarios, because men and women care more about different things. Here is a good example of a double standard no woman would be ok with. A guy has a girlfriend, he takes her on trips around the world, bought her first car, took her to expensive restaurants, took her to meet international artists and exclusive parties, etc. They separate after a while, and he meets a new woman, however he is totally different with her, it's all coffee dates and park walks upntil they get m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 07:24 AM
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From a woman's perspective, having casual partners and then making a guy they really like wait for sex isn't an issue. From their logical perspective (based on conversations with women), those men they were having casual sex with didn't really matter. They were okay with having sex with those men, because they didn't care what those men thought, because to them, the casual sex men were lesser men and were only good for getting off. Women who had casual sex in the past, probably did all kinds of …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 07:01 AM
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From my observations, it is 100% a choice. I know at least 2 women currently on terrible/abusive relationships, they have had several domestic violence moments, and they have stuck to their partners anyway. Every day growing numb to that kind of situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 02:40 PM
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Because that would require accountability, and women are not too fond of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 02:35 PM
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A man who doesn't want a partner who is more educated or earns more than him is called weak, insecure, or told he can't handle a strong woman, but the reality is that when women earn more than their partner, they become resentful, disrespectful and think can walk over their partners. Women are so oblivious to how annoying and insufferable they become when they earn more than their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:02 PM
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Quoting /u/cocobabenyc here. You know how women keep their body count low? Oh, I only had oral sex wjth this guy, so he doesn't count. This guy was a one night stand so he doesn't count. I had a threesome with these two guys so that doesn't count. So yeah, I've only been with 5 men in my life (who I dated officially for more than 3 months, hihihhi).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:42 PM
4

The fact she kept a list is such a turn off. Would have dump her on the spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:37 PM
1

Please, can you show me all these comments of men saying they want teenage girls? Edit Still waiting on you to show me these comments so speak of.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 09:35 PM
1

That is a loaded question. You might aswell juts say "all men are pedophiles" and get it out once and for all. Men here don't say they want teenage girls. They want younger women. Prefering a woman in her 20s over a woman in her 30s doesn't mean he wants teenage girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 09:06 PM
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Married people say those negative things when they are having a tough time in their marriages, or in the heat of the moment after an argument. You never see people in happy marriages say "don't get married", or "don't have kids". The very same people that say "don't have kids", if you were to ask them later when they are calm "do you really regret having kids?", they are likely to tell you "not at all, I love my kids, and they are the best thing that ever happened to me".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:13 PM
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Me too. All her pics were selfies, she was at least 280 pounds, while I was like 220 pounds, but I am 5'10" and she was like 5'4". I played it cool and still went on the date with her. Didn't pursue further.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/23 05:05 AM
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Breaking news for all men: All women want a man with resources, all of them, there is not one that's just going to love you for who you are, love is conditional and the best way to keep her is to create a life for yourself that's attractive for women, doesn't matter if you get a wife in south America or Asia, all of them want YOU to be able to sponsor a good lifestyle for her. Now that that's been addressed, stop worrying about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:52 PM
3

It's a meme don't overthink it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:42 PM
3

No shame in your grind.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:41 PM
2

Also a man is not going to dump a woman who was with him through thick and thin just because a hot chick smiled at him, he will have the hot girl as a side piece while preserving his main chick. Most men do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:03 PM
1

Fat girl. Then encourage her to get in shape, pay for boob implants and other surgeries if necessary, so now that her value has gone up, she decides I am not good enough for her, and she dumps me for her gym coach. I get divorce raped and turn to alcohol and drugs to cope with my failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:17 AM
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Controversial take, both virgin men and slut women should be shamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:07 AM
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I think op meant to say. Some women will tease, flirt, play stupid jokes on a man, and if the man doesn't take it well, that woman will claim "it was just a prank" and think she can get away with the bad behaviour. Have seen this many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 08:09 PM
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She should just try to seek an arrangement with some young lad who wants a sugar mama, because no rich guy is going to commit to her, unless maybe he already has kids, but in that case, he probably isn't looking for commitment.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/12/22 08:25 PM
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Now, when I did get down on them and did things like grab their hair and pull it quite hard when I'm from behind, slap their backside during the act with medium to hard force, light to medium choking, very active sex etc, none ever complained This has been my experience as well. I have a theory. My theory is that women are so used to having to guard themselves from oppression, and having to put up a strong girl act every day, so when they are with a man that takes charge, they just want to surre…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:50 PM
12

Previous generations of women weren't working outside the home and were financially and socially trapped into survival marriages. Trapped into doing house chores in exchange for someone pay for food, clothes, leisure activities, travel occasionally, drive you wherever you need to go, etc.
/r/BlackPillScience20/12/22 07:17 PM
9

Next time you have to move, ask her to help you move, and you'll figure out if she is truly your friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 10:23 PM
1

every 24+ man thinks I'm 15-17 I really, really doubt this. How would you even know this? I doubt any man is going to say "Hey, I approached you because I though you were underage". No man is going to put himself in a position to be called a pedophile. Samesies here, many men are convinced she is 18-19 cus she looks like it, and when she says she is 26, some make horrified face and don't talk to her after. Doubt this too. No man is running away from a young/hot 26 year old. And I also read many …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 06:18 PM
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Female fertility did not influence the attraction to financial success, intelligence, and kindness. Makes sense, that is just their animalistic side thinking of popping out babies, not really thinking of how to raise them.
/r/BlackPillScience16/12/22 03:52 PM
2

Let me guess, you think being passive-aggressive is a power move?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 05:49 AM
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Being open about that tends to creep women out, as she expects you to be the usual "controllable clueless man". The hate that. Even if what you are saying is true, they absolutely hate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 09:44 PM
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there will be quite a large group of men who will feel betrayed by their own mothers Yeah, they will be raising a new generation of Elliot Rodger
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 09:40 PM
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Women lie when you ask them what they want. Everyone know the case of women chasing after the "bad boy", you know, the guy that keep women walking on their toes all the time, who threatens to dump her if she steps out of line, the guy who will cancel a date with her to hang out with his friends, the guy who will have sex with her and not call her the next day, the man who fucks other women, etc... you know what type of guy I am talking about. That's the type of men women lust for. That being sai…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 05:58 PM
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I just don’t understand this at all, if you see an attractive woman and you want to talk to her why do drinks need to be involved I am not advising men to buy women drinks, I am actually against it. If she’s interested in you the I doubt whether or not drinks are involved will change her opinion If women can get stuff for free they will go for it. I don't blame them for it, I blame it on fools who spend their hard earned money on women in hopes to get to know them. I would tell a woman "you invi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:46 AM
1

What would be the equivalent if the sexes were reversed? Getting sex without commitment? Getting sex without spending money on her?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 11:42 PM
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Women know they have something men want, and they are not afraid to use it in their favor to exploit men. Women have a very passive role when it comes to using their sexuality as a leverage, you see, they don't have a sign that says "buy me drinks and you might get sex", what they do is, they put a tight skirt, a low cut blouse, wear makeup, wear high heels, and just wait for men to come to them. Basically make themselves attractive and desireable so that men are coerced into spending money on t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:47 PM
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Coerce has a negative connotation, that's why women like to use it when they discuss how men get things from women. Coerce persuade (an unwilling person) to do something by using force or threats They could use the word convince but it doesn't have a negative connotation therefore they can't paint the man as a bad person. Convince persuade (someone) to do something. Which one of these two arguments has a more negative connotation. "He coerced her to have sex with him" vs "He convinced her to hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:57 PM
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It really feels like people ironically disparge women in these cases. That the men have to assume the women is powerless and completely helpless and they must consider such in dating lest they be wrongly "leveraging their power" over women. Can women not say "no"? Last I checked most men don't coerce women. It's really demeaning and disempowering to women to suggest otherwise. I have been thinking about this for a while now, and this is how I view/rationalize it to make it make sense. Let's call…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:34 PM
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And they get upset when men notice this behaviour, and even more upset when you point it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:23 PM
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Some women are very opportunisitc in that regard. "I am repulsed by this man, but he is giving me free stuff and boosting my ego"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:21 PM
2

He was being fascetious/sarcastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 04:02 PM
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That's like every political movement. A group trying to convince another group that their fight will bring them benefits. A lot of social issues should be resolved on the basis of doing what's right, but it seems like people only fight because they are being negatively affected by something.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:59 PM
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I actually do not know a single guy who ever ended a relationship because a girl was average in bed. (Maybe all my friends are just drowning in panties. Doubt it). Or maybe guys would be too embarrassed to tell their friends. Men can get off faster and easier than women, that's why we are ok even with average in bed women. Enthusiasm and genuine desire from a woman is very important though. Since women have it more difficult to get off in bed, then of course they want a partner who is good in be…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:50 PM
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It is far more complicated than that, you are oversimplifying the issue to make it sound absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:06 PM
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Men want women more then women want men As a man, I don't care if women believe this. It doesn't affect me one bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:24 PM
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There were dozens of news articles calling it "an epidemic of female teachers sleeping with their students", note how it's called "sleeping" instead of "raping". It goes on to this day. https://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/real-life/news-life/the-female-teachers-who-sexually-abuse-their-students/news-story/4d8e1748b46bd5f8486b71154bb97627 https://larrykinglive.blogs.cnn.com/2009/05/30/a-florida-epidemic-female-teachers-sleeping-with-their-students/ https://archives.truenorthperspective.com/June_09/…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:17 PM
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When women develop a reputation for traveling overseas to rape children, maybe then I'll give a thought to the morality of what they're doing. Why go abroad when they can do it at the schools they teach.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:13 PM
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This interview alone ruined her future prospects. She should have kept her opinion to herself.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/12/22 08:30 PM
179

This seems appropiate as a reminder for anyone. 5 stages of Red Pill Denial: “Women aren’t like that! They’re people just like everyone else! Treat them all as individuals, and you’re sure to find the right one!” Anger: “WTF! Bitches are all like this! They have no honour, no loyalty, and they don’t really love anyone but themselves! Fucking cunts!” Bargaining: “If I work real hard and learn all the pickup moves, then at least I’ll get laid.” Depression: “Getting laid by shallow, obnoxious women…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/22 02:21 AM
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I am absolutely sure women care more about financial power than men, after all women impose the role of provider on men, so why would men even care about a woman's financial power, if anything, men care that a woman isn't in debt prior to being in a relationship with them. Also there is that experiment where women were asked to rank men pictures, the men were first presented with an average salary ($50k), they were all ranked to be 4s and 5s. Then another group of women were presented the same p…
/r/BlackPillScience09/12/22 05:02 PM
4

he has his shit together I doubt this if he is a bottom.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:22 AM
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Everybody is better off in a marriage Yep. Decade old studies has showed married people are happier, get sick less, experience less depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 02:55 PM
0

Whenever unsure about fucking some ugly chick, simply rub one out to clear your mind, if after nutting you still want to fuck her, then go ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 10:45 PM
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Both men and women have a hard time in dating, the difference is when dating is hard for each. Women peak between 20 and 24, but and they enjoy their peak years until around 28 maybe 29. You don't often see these young women complaining about how hard it is dating, because at their peak, women have it so easy, they get stuff handed out to them, specially the prettier women. At the same age range, men are lower value, and therefore have a tough time in dating, women use men for food dates, car ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:24 PM
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No one fucking believes all men are the SAME, or that all women are the SAME, that's a strawman. To deny that there are recognizable patterns of behaviour among men is deny reality, the same applies for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 05:40 PM
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Also the bearded, gray hair, messy hair, lumberjack look is popular among women. Male standards are not the same as female standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 05:27 PM
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4 billion men aren't similar to each other, nor 4 billion women. Are we suppoused to act like most men don't display similar behaviour or preferences now? If all men are different, why do we have phrases like "take it like a man", wouldn't that imply that there is an universal behaviour displayed by men? If all women are different, then the phrase "know how to treat a woman" shouldn't exist either, because that phrases implies there is a universal way in which women like to be treated, which als…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 05:24 PM
1

There are dozens of cases where a woman marries the man who murdered her husband/brother/father...
/r/AllPillDebate02/12/22 06:26 PM
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We don't live in societies where women lose their status for being disloyal. Therefor, they are disloyal. With the acceptance of unbecoming behaviour, every day there are less and less repercussions for not living an honorable life worthy of respect.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/22 05:24 PM
1

In the US you can be forced to pay child support for the kid of a woman you have never met in your life. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BJJ5Z_5lllw
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 04:56 PM
1

Redditor you are responding to has a chip on her shoulder to acknowledge men built all infrastructure around her to be able to exist without the help of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 04:11 PM
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Women don’t want protection? I’d have to disagree with that too. Women love to feel safe. Exactly right. Protection and provisition is at the center of women's needs, not as much as it used to be in the past, but it is still the most important factor. In times of need, or emergency (war, famine, natural disasters, social unrest, etc) women revert to a more passive role, they seek strong men that can provide safety and proision to preserve their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 04:09 PM
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Desire needs some distance Kinda of why affairs are so exciting. A married person doesn't meet their affair partner every day, so when they do see their affair partner, it is very exciting to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 03:42 PM
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It's kind of dumb to make such a statement "I don't need men" or "women don't need men", however all the systems that keep society up and running and from which you benefit, are run by men. Transportation almost entirely run by men Telecommunications almost entirely run by men Electric energy services almost entirely run by men Water plants almost entirely run by men Sewage systems almost entirely run by men Construction almost entirely done by men Agriculture almost entirely run by men Police, …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 07:17 PM
1

I said Spanish not English
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 01:14 PM
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I think OP used bad wording to make a point. Women are attracted to powerful men not power itself. Power in and of itself is kind of a burden to women because having power means you are responsible of making decisions it also means you are accountable for that may or not depend of you. Also womens biggest power is their beauty and fertility. Oprah is super rich and powerful but there are no men lining up to marry her. The broke but young hot Barista gets more male suitors than Oprah.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 06:00 AM
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I don't know if the book is saying to be so honest as to tell women you want to fuck them. I think it is up to interpretation. I will say though being an open book is kind of stupid. I don't encourage men to lie but I also do not encourage men to be too open about themselves. I think using playful banter to give small doses of personal information will give a better result than spill the beans early in the taking of stage.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 05:32 AM
2

What makes you think Brazilians speak Spanish? Apparently only 1% of Brazilians speak Spanish despite Spanish being mandatory in schools there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 05:17 AM
1

Those are insane standards. There are simply not enough men like that. Best of luck to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 05:06 AM
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you quite probably will have to go through the unbearable horror of asking men out yourself. Yeah, that's the case. Women in their early 20s can afford to be picky, not so much after 30. Not hating on 30+ year old women, they are just not as desired as they were 10 years ago, so they have to play differently, they can't be as picky as before, they can't make as many demands as before, they can't just play with men as before.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 10:58 PM
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Early 30s, I am not too concerned with dating apps right now, but the age range on Tinder is 20 to 26 years old. I don't pay attention to women my age anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 10:53 PM
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Dude, don't even waste your time explaining your reasoning for seeking younger women, people here are not interested, and those who read what you wrote will say "you just want a younger woman because they are easier to manipulate, you just want to abuse them". So as a man it is better to just go for what we want, not explain ourselves to others, and do what makes us happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 10:48 PM
1

Did Marcus Aurelius say this?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 05:51 PM
2

I get dating advice from The Art of War by Sun Tzu
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 05:43 PM
2

Yeah I can see why no one would pick #2. If #2 didn't spend frivolously he could prove to be a better investment long term he would be a far better option than #1 who is just living off of what he has and not generating a significant income.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 05:39 PM
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Yeah I agree with you. I just don't agree with the statement that money and status are no longer a major factor when a woman is choosing a partner. Money and status is always going to be a factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 05:36 PM
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Having a “high status” job like being a doctor, lawyer, or successful businessman used to matter during our parents’ time, when women didn’t earn their own money and largely depended on their husbands for an income source. This was back when marriage was much more transactional. Female Nature (hypergamy) disagrees with you. Women have more flexibility to choose a partner based more on looks, but a high status/financial stability is always in the back of their head, this is not to say women are g…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 04:49 PM
1

Just treat everyone respectfully from the get go but if they do things not worthy of respect, then they lose respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 04:46 AM
1

I was chose to respond to this because I find the logic absolutely hysterical. A handful of lonely dudes on Reddit are absolutely infuriated that the opposite gets to have hot carefree sex freely. I don't care, do whatever you want. I am not jealous of women. We are not even discussing this, you are making tangential statements and ad hominem attacks. The original argument was that generally speaking men don't want promiscuous women for long term relationships. Then you came up and told me that …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 06:07 PM
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I can, however, point out that your “preference” is uh…for lack of a better word, problematic. This is where we are right now. My preference is problematic but yours are A ok. You are allowed to have any preference and not be shamed or judged Perfect example is that you compared being a dead beat to someone who’s had casual sex which is completely asinine. Those two things aren’t remotely the same. You are looking too deep into it. I am not comparing the too, I am presenting two things that lowe…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 05:12 PM
1

Because there are no other reasons why you should be hyper focused on a woman’s sexual past. According to you. You want to decide what's best for me or other men. You want to tell us men who we should marry or not. Let us men decide for ourselves, just like we let you decide what man is best for you. We don't shame you for not wanting to date hobos or deadbeats. It’s not like there’s anyway of you knowing to begin with. If so, then why do you care so much about it? Just let us men fool ourselves…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:05 PM
1

Find me the video to get the full context of the conversation she had when she said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:05 AM
0

I unkowingly had sex with a married woman. She hid the fact from me, she denied it when I asked her. For a long time I hated myself for doing it, I also hated her for it, but more than 10 years has passed since and I have kind of gotten over it. She is still married, she has contacted me throghout the years and even proposed I be her boyfriend or at least her affair guy, I said NO to both offers. Two days ago she called me while crying to tell how awful her husband is, how she is forced to have …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:59 PM
10

Increased income/education leads to decreased fertility. The countries with among the most generous policies for parents have among the lowest fertility rates. Tough pill to swallow right there. The countries with the highest birth rates are in Africa where people tend to less educated.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:40 PM
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I just gave you a reason that’s enough for me. Exactly. YOU want to define what is a good enough reason to exclude promiscuous women from a LTR/marriage. I could speak to you about the relation between number of sexual partners and chance of divorce, I could tell you about number of sexual partners and perceived sense of happiness in the relationship, I could tell you about number of sexual partners and likelyhood of adultery, but none of those things will matter to you, or any woman. You alread…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 08:58 PM
1

Ok, then why are they assholes?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 08:40 PM
2

they better have a damn good reason No reason is going to be enough for women. People don't want to feel left out, and sometimes having standards/preferences excludes people. That's just how it is. Accept it and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 08:39 PM
1

Liberation is freedom- it's literally a synonym. Liberation is going from a state of not being free to a state of being free. According to google. the act of setting someone free from imprisonment, slavery, or oppression; release. Freedom is the state of being allowed to act or think without constraint. According to google. the power or right to act, speak, or think as one wants without hindrance or restraint. You have freedom if you have been liberated. Liberation is the act of setting somethin…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 07:15 PM
4

I didn't even say sexual liberation in my previous comment, I said freedom. If you live in the western world you are free, you have freedom, freedom to do with your body whatever you want. If you want to have sex with a different man each day, do it. You are not free from judgement or the consequences of your actions. It doesn't matter which definition I use, it's still a shitty and invalid comparison. Oh btw, it's not a shitty comparison, it is the right comparison, you know why because both th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:59 PM
1

Define sexual liberation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:54 PM
2

Then just watch Fresh&Fit on youtube, they do exactly what JustPearlyThings does and they ONLY invite young women on the podcast, no post-wall women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:27 PM
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How many of her videos have you seen, and can you point to one were she was bashing on women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:23 PM
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Confidence is not dependant on dick size, but it surely is linked to it. We have women constantly talking about small penises on every social media, they talk about small penises not being pleasureable, they talk about how small penises slip out during the deed, etc. So of course men are going to be self conscious about their penis size. It would be the same if men were constantly talking about loose/dry/stinky vaginas. Women would also be self conscious about their vaginas. And if a woman were …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:06 PM
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If so they’ll understand that you had a healthy sex life just like them. Don't you just love how women frame things to manipulate men. It's rather amusing. Man who doesn't accept the things I did in the past: Bad man Man who accepts whatever I have done: Good man
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 04:57 PM
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Why exactly are they assholes? Is it because they didn't offer you commitment after giving them sex for so long?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 04:50 PM
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The reality is men do think worse of women who are sexually free You are conflating two things here. Free(dom) and promiscuous. Everyone is free to do with their bodies what they want, you can have sex as much as you want, but do not resent someone who doesn't sees you as a potential long term partner, it's their preference. Just like most women would not consider a deadbeat for a potential long term partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 04:40 PM
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I am average as well, so I don't think much about it. I do know someone with a below average tool size and he was pretty insecure about it, he also had other issues that affected his behaviour, not saying all his issues stem from his junk size, but it certainly contributed to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 04:06 PM
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https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMFH6TWyT/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:22 AM
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A lot of people seek new relationships without getting over their exes. Whenenever I end a long term relationship, I try not to get into a new relationship too soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 10:21 PM
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There was a tiktok a couple of weeks ago, a woman is apparently on her wedding day and she is in front of the camera and a texts in the screen that says "on my wedding day wondering if my ex is coming stop this wedding"... are you f-ing kidding me? You are on your wedding and you are worried about your ex? All the men and some of the women were giving her shit rightfully so, but there was a group of women who were leaving comments of support to her. And the sad part is that some women may claim …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 09:09 PM
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She has been hung up for years over a jerk she dated who treated her like shit. She is an alpha widow. I dread the day I date a woman who turns out to be an alpha widow. I would simply drop her like a hot potato out of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 09:01 PM
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But having gay sex would hurt deeper and cause more disgust to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:45 AM
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I can get behind that. Sounds like a good compromise.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:42 AM
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Then it shouldn't be used against men to force them to become fathers. Don't you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:24 AM
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Women say the sexual past doesn't matter until a man says "I was a bottom during my gay phase in college". lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:21 AM
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Can we use this argument to deny woman abortions?? "what's that Stacie you didn't want to be a mother?.. well sorry you should have tried celibacy"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:12 AM
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Reread what I said. I said "generally speaking". Generally speaking men don't expect women to pay BECAUSE generally speaking women expect men to pay. Ever heard the phrase "to be wined and dined"? Who are often looking for that kind of treatment? It is women, not men. So women have certain expectations from men, and I can tell you with certainty "I hope he demands to go Dutch and I pay the bills" isn't one of those expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:01 AM
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Is your relationship 50/50? Or what percentage would you say is your relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 04:50 AM
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Generally speaking men don't expect women to pay. It's usually women expecting men to pay. Basically women enforce traditional gender roles on men (protector and PROVIDER) so if I am supposed to provide, why shoul I care about a woman paying the bills?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 04:46 AM
1

Listen to what men say and watch what women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 04:32 AM
1

A lot of things in regards to women are tough to accept but that's just the way things are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 09:06 PM
1

Being a man is tough but I would not like to be a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:28 AM
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You really overthinking it. Never mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 02:28 AM
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The original question was simple really, you are kinda overthinking it. By definition yes and no are contextual. I don't know what exactly you mean by contextual. So the meaning of yes/no depends on the context? In certain contextS NO can mean YES and YES can mean NO? As far as I know yes means only one thing, and no means only one thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 02:21 AM
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No man is going to ask you for your body count, we don't go around asking, we just look for indicators of promiscuity, and if we find enough indicators of promiscuity we won't tell you about it, we just won't take you seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:46 AM
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Cocky, arrogant and unapologetic behaviour really works. Just don't over do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:33 PM
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lmao good catch
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 10:53 PM
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I have never had any trouble finding a relationship or even just something casual But that's because you don't tell people you have a high body count. I am not saying you DO have a high body count, because I don't know you, but if you had a high body count and you were to openly talk about it, it would be very off puting, and yeah, you would be singled out. Imagine a man with a criminal record saying "I have never had trouble getting a job", no shit, people didn't ask if you had a criminal recor…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 10:52 PM
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According to the person with the 18 partners. But a lot of men are going to have an issue with that. Someone who goes to a job interview and says "I have had 18 different jobs in the last 12 years" is not going to get hired.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:02 PM
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You said you wouldn't want your daughter or sister to sleep around No where in this whole thread have I said that. Let me guess, you have to go dig into people's comment history for that gotcha moment, don't you? Lame. and you portrayed doing that in a negative light Ok, I can portray drinking alcohol in negative like, it doesn't mean I hate alcoholics. I can portray smoking in negative ligiht, it doesn't mean I hate smokers. I can portray palying Fortnite in negative light, it doesn't mean I ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:57 PM
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I didn't say I hate women who sleep around, you made this up. I also didn't say I love to Fuck around, you made it up. No one is trying to be edgy. We just have different opinions. Can you now address your double standard? Or you going to continue throwing names at me?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:34 PM
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You said you would see a deadbeat as lower value. That's fine. But the moment a man says "I consider promiscuous women to be low value", oh now judging people is wrong. And you come up with all kinds of excuses and buzzwords to say men with that belief are wrong/defective. There is no point in arguing with someone who can't show consistency.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:03 PM
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"I can judge you and devalue you, but you can't judge me and devalue me" And just to make it any more clear, I am gonna use your argument against you. Why? I mean, you can value anyone for whatever reason you want, but if you're devaluing MEN becuase THEY DON'T TO WORK AND THEY HAVE NO GOALS IN LIFE it's only because you've got that traditional, fragile mindset where you're scared of your partner WANTING TO STAY AT HOME AS OPPOSED TO YOU. Everything else is just a smokescreen. If only you knew h…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 06:42 PM
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Oh the irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 06:34 PM
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Let's go with the average of the numbers you gave, let's go with 1.5 partners per year. So a woman who starts her romantic/sexual life a 18 and wants to marry at 30. She would have 18 partners by age 30, that's 12 years mutiplied by 1.5 equals 18. You can't tell me 18 is hardly promiscuous. Again, some women want to act one way, but they want us men to perceive you in another way. You can't come and tell us "I want to fuck 18 men but I want you to see my value as if I had not fucked 18 men". It'…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 06:32 PM
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As if you could ever adequately explain how having sex with lots of people is somehow devaluing anything intrinsically. I have a question for you. Do you consider a man who is broke and without lifegoals to be of less value than a man who is hardworking and goal oriented? If so, then you also are judging people and devaluing them. If you are ok with this, then you should be ok with men considering promiscuous women being of lower value.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 06:23 PM
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I know women dont want to accept it, but they know promiscuity will have negative effects when looking for a long term partner. And it is a big deal, that's why they have to hide it. If women carried their body count in their forehead I assure you they would try to stay virgins and they would have to be loyal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:32 PM
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This is another case of women trying to tell men what they should care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 04:34 PM
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That's because society expects the same behaviour from 2 different "beings". Boys are generally more touchy and they like to play more rough compared to girls, so if you put boys and girls to play together of course some girls are going to feel agraviated/attacked/offended by normal/common boy behaviour. You put boys to play with other boys, there is no issue, all boys will innately understand the rules of palying with other boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:35 PM
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Think about how a man would interact with a specific woman. If a man has mind blowing sex with a woman he is in a relationship with , he will not think , how many guys has she been with before? I don't have to think of it, I am a man who had mind blowing sex with a woman, I did think how many men she had been with. We were once laying in bed, and she handed my her phone to show me a tiktok, and since I was curious, I went into the gallery and I got to see a picture of her with another guy in bed…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:17 PM
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Promiscuity does not reduce relationship value The vast majority of men will differ.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:04 PM
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Why does it make a difference to you? It makes a difference because the married woman who became a widow was loyal to her husband and she was monogamous. This is proof that she can be in a long term relationship. You can't trust a woman who sleeps with many men to be loyal to you. Why is one more important than the other to you? Like I said before, I don't care how many times a woman had sex with her previous partner, I care more about how many sex partners she has had in her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:58 PM
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N-count=1, F-count somewhere between 1000 and 2000. U wot m8? Dude, N count refers to number of sexual partners. A woman who shagged her husband 1000 times, and then became divorced or widow is far more valuable than a single woman who has shagged 10 times with 10 different men. It's not about the number of sexual encounters, it is about the number of sexual partners. "run through" means several sex partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 10:31 PM
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And the same can be said of women’s height (being “too tall”) and men’s control over body count. And what does this have to do with anything. The OP made the comparison between a woman's body count and a man's height. Don't get all worked up because of a sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 10:24 PM
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Women who think they can start a relationship while being in another relationship and they think it is going to work long term. No bitch, if you leave your partner to be with me, what stops you from leaving me to be with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:04 PM
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those young bitches is there for ya moneh And what woman isn't? All women want men with money, or have you ever heard women say "imma get me some broke guy, I love broke boys". This doesn't mean women are gold diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:53 PM
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Lusting , that's the key. We men lust for all sorts of women, it doesn't mean we want a long term relationship or marriage with them, so just because you have men in their 20s, 30s ,40s, 50s and 60s lusting for you, it doesn't make you special, we are just horny, that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:48 PM
1

Coming off desperate is not sexy or attractive at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:34 PM
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Alcoholism Drug use Too much tattoos Piercings, specially septum piercing Seeks attention from men even when in a relationship Partying too much Have nude images/videos leaked on the internet A "coloful" past Known for cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:30 PM
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"I am out of your league" can also mean she is below his league.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/11/22 04:48 PM
1

Not even bothering with this line of argument. Carry on with your day.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:18 PM
1

Is it shameful to desire a woman who wasn't a slut?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:54 PM
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Height is not within a man's control, that's just how he is born and he has to accept it, while body count is within a woman's control.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:48 PM
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That's what I've been saying. Most women reach their prime and enjoy it for many years. While most men never reach their prime if they can't get wealth and status.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:16 PM
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Nah, that doesn't work. Women don't spend money if they can make a man pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:20 AM
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You women always say "whoever asks the other out on a date, must pay", but women almost never ask men out on dates. If it was up to women's lead, the human race would have ceased to exist a long time ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 02:39 AM
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That's hilarious. Sounds like something out of a Ben Stiller movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 02:28 AM
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What does all of this mean? Would a man be a bad person because he is no longer giving his attention to a woman who rejected him?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 02:24 AM
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Insecure men need to constantly dominate. They cheat and lie. Insecurity brings out the worst in people but I notice that in men it usually plays out in deceitfulness and aggression. Nothing ruins love faster than that in my experience. This is just women's double speak. List a bunch of male behaviours/characteristics and label them as symptoms of being insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 07:54 PM
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50 bodies isn't the threshold to be considered promiscuous, I would say anything above 5 bodies in a young woman starts to sound like promiscuity to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 05:33 AM
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You can be very manly without being "The Terminator" or some wife-beater. I know at least four women who have children of wife-beaters. Can we call that toxic femininity? Women who perpetuate violence towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 11:25 PM
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Toxic masculinity is anything that doesn't benefit women at any given time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 11:21 PM
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Almost the same reason why men don't want to marry promiscuous women, because they are a liability. Subconsciously everyone hates promiscuous women, that shit is never going to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 11:10 PM
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All serial killers have groupies. https://www.washingtonpost.com/crime-law/2018/12/22/hes-jailed-life-after-murdering-his-wife-kids-so-why-do-women-send-him-love-letters/
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 11:07 PM
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Woman: "the past doesn't matter!" Man: "I agree, I had a gay phase in my 20s" Woman: "I mean some past does matter"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 11:05 PM
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This only works if you see the other person on your daily activities, for example a coworker, a college mate, a neighbor, etc. Otherwise how would you get to know them if you don't go on dates (which involve money)?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:43 PM
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Yeah we men like milfs, great sex. But no young man is marrying a woman 20 years older than him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:36 PM
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Regardless of how much you want your statement to be true, it isn't. Older women can look better sometimes, but they are not higher value than their younger counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:34 PM
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Thanks to the internet and social media, women can get validation very easily from men (regardless of his quality) and this is why we have women going through life with massive egos, we have 4s and 5s thinking they are 10s, it is for this reason that men who confidently attack a woman's ego/self confidence are attractive to women. Compliments don't get men anywhere with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:28 PM
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I think fertility is more relevant for young men wanting to have children. A fourty year old man with kids would feel lucky to be with a fourty year old woman, but a childless fourty year old man would have her fertility in mind all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:18 PM
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My long term ideal isn't a top model, it is someone with values and the desire to start a family and grow together. I don't want settle down for someone with different values. It sound horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:07 PM
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Because then you’re just a 30 year old creep preying on young women. Oh here we go again...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 12:10 AM
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I wish women would acknowledge the huge power they have to shape the dating market. The reason there are so many assholes (men) is because women are rewarding asshole behaviour. The reason men are not commiting, is because you do things that possibly discard you for a long term relationship or marriage. Women decide how the sexual market works, because they are the sought-after sex. Men will simply react to what women do, men will adapt and try to get the best outcome. You want men to be chivalr…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 07:00 PM
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WTF? We want spitfires, hurricanes and those magnificent men in their flying machines, not some stupid love triangle..... The only romance movie I want in my life is of a tank commander and his Leopard 2A7 tank.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 03:04 PM
1

Living with parents (as a westerner) is exactly the red flag women think it is. You know what's sad? Some women will reject a man living with parents, but will chase a man living with his wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:03 AM
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Being a perfectionist is an absolute nightmare. Never feeling satisfied with my own work, the search for perfection leads to frustration, sometimes you leave projects incomplete, waste too much time thinking and too little time doing, nitpicking to no end.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:01 AM
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It's not just dating seriously, it's dating their age and at their level. No such thing as "their level", young men and women are not at the same level.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:48 AM
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What you get is an overrepresentation of late 20s/early 30s men wanting to "make up for all the lost time" while similar aged women are frustrated that the men around them aren't very serious about dating. This is so true. Young women like to enjoy their prime, enjoy their party phase until they reach their 30s and want to settle down, meanwhile men have to eat shit until they reach their prime (if they do so), so logically men will want to enjoy their party phase, and it's now the women's turn …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:40 AM
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Have to agree. Those who have nothing to hide will speak proudly about their past. Those who have a questionable past will act like past doesn't matter and project that belief on others. "your past doesn't matter to me, so my past shouldn't matter to you"
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/22 04:51 PM
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Interesting. This goes against the narrative spewed by post wall women that "older men only want younger women to control them and abuse them".
/r/BlackPillScience09/11/22 02:56 PM
16

Average man: unhappy because he doesn't have many options Average woman: unhappy with the options she has
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:08 PM
0

Edgy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:18 PM
1

I think women don't like to admit what they like, or what works with them. What woman would want to openly admit "I love it when a man keeps me on my toes, I like it when I can't figure out a guy, when he is misterious, when he is avoidant and doesn't show emotions towards me, it just makes me more invested in him, makes me want to fix his poor soul, make him my personal project, I can fix him".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:10 PM
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Male nature is basic math, female nature is Calculus 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:05 PM
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It's not because society will collapse, maybe woman just don't want to go back to the old ways when women had more restrictions, think 30s, 40s and 50s. "by lying to my son he won't become the type of man that wants to subjugate women"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:03 PM
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It's a losing game for men who aren't top 10%. I manage to get matches on tinder but the majority off women dk not text, they give short answers, stop replying, or they just plug their social networks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 03:34 PM
2

Ask the others about their affair. "how long did you know the guy?" "how long were you talking to him before you had an affair with him?"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 01:58 PM
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Guaranteed they knew the guy for a long time and they just wanted a reason to have sex with him. So the emotional affair was already there, they just took it to the next level.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:23 AM
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So I’ve never really brought it up Why though? I am he at least suspects you do it. So it would be better to just adress it and get it put of the way. "honey, I suspect you already know but I wanted to tell you, I mastubate when I am alone, i just want to know you are OK with it so I don't feel guilty or like I am committing a crime when I do it" Maybe you can spice things up a bit and mastubate in front of him, get yourself off a couple of times and then he can have sex with you, so he doesn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:02 AM
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I would say either you bring up the idea to him of letting you have other partners How to wreck your marriage. OP don't do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:44 AM
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I wouldn't mind if my wife bought a vibrator to get herself off when I am not available. I would try to please her every day, just not several times a day. Male body needs recovery in between nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:42 AM
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Milf is just a sexual fantasy and I think OP wants to be taken serious for a long term relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:36 AM
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I do not consider it too old, I would be more concerned about her past. If the woman ids 30 years old and she has lived a life of parties, drinking alcohol, casual sex, she didn't take care of her body. Then in my eyes she isn't a good prospect. If she is 30 years old and I can see that she isn't the the type of woman to have casual sex, alcohol or drug addictions, if I can see she is the type of woman who focused in nurturing her brain and her body, then I would consider her a good prospect. Ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:34 AM
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I mean at that point the other guy is essentially a simp taking care of her needs but not getting any sex from it. Mmm I never thought of it that way. If you learn your wife is in the "talking phase" with another man, the best would be to keep frame and act the most alpha you can, just keep frame, act stoic, indirectly tell her it would be her loss if she decides to screw the other guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:18 AM
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Agree with that statement and it would explain why men and women don't perceive extramarital sex the same way. A man has sex with another woman because the opportunity was handed to him. Not because he loves the woman or because he cares about her. He just had sexual release, it is almost like mastubation. A woman however has sex with another man because something may be missing in her relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:10 AM
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If a man is caught cheating, he will say "it was only sex". Generally speaking men are able to have sex with a woman without being emotionally invested so the thought of abandoning his wife is close to zero. Women know this, women know how men are, this is why confident women won't leave a good husband, father, and provider just because he fucked some random chick. In the past women knew how men were, and they knew men needed to fuck other women. What they did is they stroke a deal with their hu…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:00 AM
1

Halo effect I guess. Much like beautiful women have more opportunities handed to them.
/r/BlackPillScience07/11/22 11:41 PM
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I'm well aware of why taller women have a smaller pool of candidates (due to their own preferences). Then your argument "Taller women tend to have better options" is false. Your poor reading comprehension is causing you to conflate the concepts of quality and quantity. Being a tall as a man (let's say 6'2") raises your value, but it doesn't necessarily mean your are BETTER, than shorter men. You could be a 6'2", a bum, no goals in life, no education, low wage job, socially inept, etc. Or you cou…
/r/BlackPillScience07/11/22 10:50 PM
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Because it's more attractive. Being slim is obejectively more attractive than being fat, despite this we have what's called plus size modelling. Are women going to boycott the modelling industry for not creating a short size modelling category? Don't think so. That depends on the man. Taller women tend to have better options. Taller women have LESS options and it is not for the reasons you think. Tall women have less options because they want men taller than they are. A 5'5" woman will date men …
/r/BlackPillScience07/11/22 10:31 PM
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The women who believe most men are crap, they do so because the only go after crappy men. If a woman has had 5 relationships, 4 with good men, and 1 with a bad man, she isn't going to believe all men are bad people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 06:56 PM
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I know, I married a woman with two children Not dismissing your personal experience, but this isn't the rule, this is an exception. Common response to generalizations are usually "This isn't true..." followed by "my cousin...", "my sister...", "I know someone...". Sure we can find exceptions to every rule, but we have to operate on generalizations not on exceptions. "most women like a man who is self reliant, who is responsible", this is widely accepted, sure there are women who don't mind being…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 06:49 PM
1

like a REAL man Do women define what a real man is?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 06:45 PM
1

Without men we’d still be living in huts, but I bet we’d be a lot more at peace. Are you sure about that? https://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-4454964/Female-rulers-27-likely-wage-WAR-males.html https://www.economist.com/europe/2017/06/01/who-gets-into-more-wars-kings-or-queens https://qz.com/967895/throughout-history-women-rulers-were-more-likely-to-wage-war-than-men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 06:00 PM
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Empathizing and systemizing are not equal in their ability to give people actionable steps to make progress towards a goal. This could explain why women like to talk about their problem, and men like to solve their problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 05:10 PM
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Welp, the whole post was eye opening. Women speaking negatively about men: "all men are... ", "all men do... " Women speaking positively about men: "men are not a monolith"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 04:54 PM
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The first good answer here after 5 bad ones at the top that only said "people are different" (and a joke one), and yet this one still feels the need to include that men are not a monolith I was getting so frustrated at these comments "it's hard to answer, men are not a monolith". Women, we do not get offended if you make a generalization, we are not as sensible as you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 04:45 PM
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they're forced to settle It's not settling if they get the a man in their league. See, thanks to social media (facebook, instagram, tiktok, etc) and the endless supply of simps in the world, the majority of women get infinite compliments and validation, this is why we have 4s and 5s thinking they are 10s. When these 4s and 5s get with a guy who is a 5, she thinks she is settling, but the reality is she simply got the man in her league.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 03:57 PM
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due to seeking to avoid characteristics that the majority of straight men share That's the definition of a YOU problem. Have you ever met a man who didn't have these characteristics that you hate?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 03:48 PM
2

I have a Spotify Playlist called "the most beautiful thing in the world" and it only has music by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 02:47 AM
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OP you are trying way too hard to convince men to make a bad choice. And you get upset because we don't want divorced women with children.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 08:11 PM
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lol insecure the buzzword women love to use when they can't get their way with a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:59 PM
2

A lot of divorced people in relationships secretly have sex with their ex-spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 01:57 PM
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Women should stop telling us men what we should care or not. I don't tell you to date fat, short, ugly, broke guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 01:53 PM
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Women with class and strong morals Those women are rare. So RP is good for men. If the case was that most women are conservative with strong moral values, then I would argue the RP is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 01:51 PM
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That's a red flag for me. If I am getting to know someone and they let out they remain friends with their exes, I will say I don't like that and then forget about it, if she wants to be taken serious she is going to end that so called friendship, iff she doesn't end that friendship, I will continue to have sex with her, but she is forever stuck in the "bootycall/fwb" category.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 01:41 PM
3

Did you ask his body count or how you figure out?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 01:37 PM
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Being tall is a requirement to do profesional modeling. Outside of modeling men don't mind if you are shorter than 170.
/r/BlackPillScience06/11/22 01:32 PM
5

w*men
/r/BlackPillScience06/11/22 01:31 PM
1

Basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 08:46 PM
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Separate properties (meaning what's mine is mine what's your is yours) should be default unless both request to have merged properties, incomes, etc before they marry. This way anyone with more money than their partner knows the other person isn't marrying for the sake of material possessions. The other person also has a reason to preserve their marriage. Paternity tests should be mandatory at birth before the man recognizes the child as his and gives the child his last name. This would prevent …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 08:01 PM
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What motives do women have to lie to men or boys? What motive would make a woman be harsh to her daughter and not so to her son when they live in the same harsh world? Men and women have opposing, often conflicting sexual strategies. She can't teach both son and dauther the best strategy for each, because there would be an epiphany on her. "I teach my daughter how to play, but I also have to teach my son how to play women, but I don't want him to treat women like shit, because I have a daughter.…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 07:51 PM
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Women are inherently born with value, men are not born with value, they have to build their value. I like to use this metaphor. Women are born with a 1 million dollars, and they just have to preserve as much as they can until they can lock down a man. Men are born broke, zero. But they have to accumulate 1 million dollars to lock down a woman. What would be easier, to abstain from spending that money (thus losing value) or working your ass off to earn that money? We can go in depth about this me…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 06:24 PM
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I could see myself dating a lot of the women from your example, given they have a great personality, they are soft mannered, they are not argumentative, they want to have kids and they won't let themselves go after having kids. Most men would date an average woman. But most women wouldn't date an average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 06:17 PM
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They are 100% lying. It's impossible not to know a woman who has had sex quickly with a guy they liked while they made another guy wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 06:08 PM
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Simps got 4s and 5s thinking they are 10s. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 06:03 PM
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You are the exception. I am sure you can ask your girl friends/college mates/work mates about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 06:00 PM
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Yep, I have no idea why they haven't been canceled... yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 05:57 PM
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They are also taught that women are 'fragile', 'sensitive', and 'kind', and that as long as you are a good person who can provide, you will find someone. All men learn this isn't truth the hard way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 05:55 PM
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I saw this happen to an ex friend. He wrecked his relationship to the point of having his wife in a clinic to treat her anorexia, depression, etc. She told him they were done and she was leaving with their children IF he didn't seek psychological/psychiatric help himself. He signed up the next day.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 05:51 PM
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Women mourn the break up while still in the relationship, so by the time they break up with the guy, they have already moved on. Most guys do not know this and it takes them by surprise. "how could she move on so fast?" asked the clueless guy not knowing the woman was grieving the break up a year in advance.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 05:46 PM
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But "being a respectful guy" does not work out. It's the experience I and many other guys have made. The toxic bad boy women love to pursue is rarely respectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 05:39 PM
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Most men putting out red pill content aren't as blunt as Andrew Tate, they sugar coat what they say, they avoid certain topics to avoid exactly that, getting banned. Tate said it like it is, and the things he said brushed a lot of people the wrong way so those very same people wanted him banned. Let me give you an example: Tate said body count matters and women with high body count are noy wife material. Women with high body counts got offended. Tate said the LGBT community should leave the chil…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 05:32 PM
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Well there is something wrong with women that want to lie to their sons They do not lie to their sons purposefully, women just give terrible advice to boys/men. If you are a man do not take dating advice from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 05:21 PM
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This is why Andrew Tate was banned. Women don't like when a man puts other men on notice about female behaviour. If you are being taken advantage of by a so called friend, and I come along and tell you how he is taking advantage of, and I advice you to kick him to the curb, that so called friend is going to hate me because I am looking after you and that goes against his personal interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 05:18 PM
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I advice men not to date alpha widowed women. An alpha widow will be checking if her alpha ex is checking her instagram stories on her wedding day and hoping he interrupts the wedding to stop her from marrying a guy she is not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 05:14 PM
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I think lots of women would be open to it if they didn’t have to have sex with the guy. Delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 05:09 PM
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That's called a father.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 05:07 PM
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The planes to the UK from afganistan were all full of men. Could it be because a lot of women had been evacuated before? If you were to send a refugee plane from Ukraine to the UK it would be full of men too, because a lot of women have already abandoned Ukraine.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 04:46 PM
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Why do men don't go up the social ladder by marrying a rich woman? Because the things women look for in men are not the same things men look for in women. We don't put so much emphasis on a woman's bank account, that's just how men are. If anything we care that you are not in huge debt, and if you so happen to be in huge debt, then we care that you can pay your debts because we won't pay for a debt you got while we weren't married. A woman who has $50k in the bank is no better than one that has …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 06:01 AM
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Ah yes, you won the internet argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:03 PM
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We'll never reach middle ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:27 PM
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And now we're back to my original question. If this is true, why is everyone that ascribes to it so bitter and mad at the world? Why do you assume everyone who subscribes to Tate is bitter and mad? How many of his fans do you know yo reach such a conclusion and how do you measure "bitter/mad"? I can say all of those things if I believe they're true. I'm not sure of your point here. You can think whatever you want from him, but if men find his advice useful of course they are going to follow him.…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 05:30 PM
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Andrew tate isn't "pro men" he's pro money. men in their 20s and 30s are incredibly easy to milk for cash these days. You will use any excuse to shut down anything pro men. Andrew Tate's advice for men is good and useful. You don't like him, that's fine but you can't tell men "oh no, he is a bad influence to you, he must be shut down", 'but he is such a woman hater", "he takes advantage of young vulnerable men". He also wasn't shut down for being pro men, but more so for the alleged human/sex tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:58 PM
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Can you give some examples? The most famous and recent example of that. Andrew Tate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:43 PM
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Then why doesn't that reflect in the general populace of male dialogue or media? My theory is that romance TV shows, romance movies, etc are all catered for women. What is the common trope in romantic movies? The man chases after the woman throughout the whole movie, and at the end the woman realizes his value and accepts him. But the reality is different. In reality women go after the bad boy who does not chase them, who is very unclear of his intentions with her, who doesn't pay too much atten…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:16 PM
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Oh I have no issue. I don't care women don't want to do hard labor really. I would encourage women to stay away from hard labor. It's the hypocrisy that bothers me, the hypocrisy of preaching equality but in reality they just want the good stuff. Just say you want privileges and spare me all the equality speaches.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:39 PM
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Those jobs are high paying because they are dangerous and most people don't want to do them. Women don't do them anyway. Women will choose a low paying high status office job over a high paying dangerous job any dya of the week.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:52 PM
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And let’s be honest a lot of women aren’t physically strong enough for some jobs and that’s ok because it should be best person for the job. Absolutely. We should have the best person for the job regardless of what they have between their legs. How many men are fighting to do childcare jobs? Not many, but like I said, we men are noy the ones preaching equality. We stay on our line, while women want to step out of theirs. But aso keep in mind the current climate a man is perceived as a pedophile …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:38 PM
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We men do choose to do hard labor. Even if we don't want to do it, we will still do it, because if we don't, then who's gonna do it? Women? I think not. Look up male dominated jobs and the vast majority are hard labor. Then look up female dominated jobs and none of them are harsh labor or dangerous jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:21 PM
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Not necessarily. Women want to have the same opportunities as men. Men don’t HAVE to do those jobs and no one is forcing them and no one should force women to either. If men don't do those jobs, will women do those jobs? Will women work the oil rigs, the sewage services, trash collection services, electric energy systems, etc? But there are women who have fought to do manual labour/army type jobs. You just ignore that because it doesn’t fit your narrative. Even in the in the most diffuclt/danger…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:18 PM
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Well yes. Most men don't want women doing hard labor, but we are not the ones preaching equality. We just say "if you want equality, you should want equality on everything not just the things you like".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:56 PM
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They want high paying office job quotas, but they do not want back breaking harsh condition job quotas.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:43 PM
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We all know women want selective equality, but your post didn't use a good example.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:24 PM
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when men of that age also tend to deteriorate in terms of pure aesthetics The wall for women is decline in looks and fertility. The wall for men is different, sure aesthetics are involved but if you have money, status, connections, power, etc you can continue to party and bang super models well into your 50s. Women in their 50s can't lock down rich/handsome men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:18 AM
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Notice how they resort to attacking a woman they don't know when they couldn't tear you down with their shaming language.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:11 AM
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You are calling a woman you don't know a gold digger.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:09 AM
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I can't think of much else. Men in PPD usually list their reasons why they want younger partners but their preferences are invalidated/brushed off. Sometimes it feels like speaking into the void.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:07 AM
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It's also possible to have objections to something without calling someone creepy or using other shaming language, yet women always use shaming language.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:57 AM
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Source: Wonder Woman (2017)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:36 AM
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People followed gender roles because it gave them their best chance of survival. Look at Ukraine ffs, the moment Russia invaded, the women stopped chanting about equality, they simply shut their mouths and took the first train to west European country they could find. Ukraine served as proof that women like to talk a lot but don't put their money where they put their mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:31 AM
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Women often do more dangerous jobs in different contexts https://www.ncdemography.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/Male-Dominated-Jobs.png https://www.ncdemography.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/Female-Dominated-Jobs.png
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:23 AM
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Women can divert from gender roles thanks to the modern world created by men. Put a bunch of men and women on an island and watch then quickly revert to their natural gender roles like it was for hundreds of years. if left to their own devices, little boys will enjoy playing with dolls Nah, not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:14 AM
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Maybe because we men are very idealistic about love in and marriage. We falsely believe women are going to love us simply for who we are, and that our marriage will be trouble free. Quickly after marrying someone we realize love/marriage is not what we thought it would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:04 AM
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“I’m a guy and I really want to have kids and be a dad.” This isn't a stereotypically female behaviour. I would categorize having kids as a universal behaviour, both men and women want families and kids, one is more vocal about it than the other. But I do get your point that men are not trying to take on female gender roles as much as women want to take on male gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 05:58 AM
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It's not an either - or thing, you can chase both things at the same time from this woman.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/22 04:35 AM
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As a man I try not to hit on women who compliment me to avoid being the type of man some women complain about (misinterpreting a compliment as flirting), this has in turn made me miss my chances with women who were actually hitting on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:01 PM
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While I don't consider that sexual harrasment, if I was /u/CasperElshao I would document everything for when she loses her shit and accuses me of sexual harrasment because I never made a move. These things happen. Unrequited love/sexual attention can turn people vindictive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:58 PM
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We do. Just not on looks. Spot on. Last weekend I attended a party, told a friend a compliment about how he is charismatic and many people like to hang out with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:50 AM
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Huge red flag. I knew a woman like this in college, she started a relationship with another guy from the same college, I knew both of them. Always though it was weird she had many male friends in her social media, and barely any female friends. A couple of years later someone told me, they had split, but I don't know the reasons, I will ask the guy if I see him again.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 07:38 PM
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It is inmoral despite what others say. Have some self respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 07:33 PM
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Her face (jaw area) blends with her neck it looks almost cartoonish. She is definitely using filters.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/11/22 07:22 PM
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I have had this conversation with both men and women, about how men and women are different, and I always make emphasis "what's good for men is not necessarily good for women", the men usually agree, but the women usually give me weird looks as if I am trying to control them, I am just giving them a warning that a woman behaving like a man has negative consequences.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/11/22 07:19 PM
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Yeah, women fantasizing about being raped has been known for decades.
/r/BlackPillScience01/11/22 05:53 PM
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I have been saying this for a while. Being in their 30s isn't the end of the world for women, they just have fewer options, or they options are not as good as the ones they had in their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:15 PM
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Women have overhwelming value from 18 to mid 40's these days Do not conflate sex value with relationship value. A young man sees a 40 year old woman as an opportunity to have adventurous sex, not as an opportunity to marry and start a family. Most women have sex value, but their relationship value goes down as they age.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:12 PM
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For some reason, if you tell a date you're looking for a relationship she automatically thinks you want one with her. This is why I always respond with "just looking someone to hang out, have fun but I am still open to get into a relationship", this can be either interpreted as "he is not going to pressure me into a relationship" or "he only wants to have fun just like me".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 04:00 PM
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What could possibly compel a woman to have sex with a very small penis thou?
/r/BlackPillScience31/10/22 02:34 PM
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No, what I meant was: Keep your body hair AND not care what others think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 04:30 AM
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Or you could simply not care what others think. Take it or leave tt basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 04:26 AM
1

Well, use your feminism to normalize men shaving their armpits instead of normalizing women not shaving armpits.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 04:19 AM
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Armpit is a whole other thing, it looks disgusting in both men and women. Also armpit hair allows the proliferation of bacteria and bad smell. Everyone should shave.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 04:13 AM
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Unfortunately, men’s rights activists aren’t fighting to support nontraditional men Because it's very clear to us, women don't want non traditional men. Women force men to be traditional if we want to be with women. How many times have you heard "the man must pay on the first date", that statement is an example of women forcing men to adhere to traditional gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 03:02 AM
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Why do tattoos and blue hair gets so much hate lol. When you go to a feminism march, or watch YouTube videos, the blue/red/pink haired womem are usually the unhinged ones making absurd accusations and throwing tantrums. So people relate one thing with the other. Tattoos used to be perceived as a sign of rebellion in the past, so everyone getting a tattoo was perceived as impulsive, low self control, non conforming to social norms, etc. The perception around tattoos has changed a lot, but the sam…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 02:52 AM
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It is women who put too much focus on body hair, not men, we men are not even concerned with body hair as much as you think we do. Wiser men know increased body hair in women is caused by increased testosterone which also means higher libido and sexual desire. Womem also overestimate the amount of makeup necessary to look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 02:45 AM
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Yeah that's also truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 02:19 AM
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There are a high number of men throwing their money away at these virtual setups. But this is a result of, not the cause of. Men checking out of society and giving money to e-girls for a 2 second mention is the result of the current dating landscape.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 02:19 AM
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Yeah that's true. If they were honest to themselves they would conclude "the things that are attractive to me would not work on me coming from you"... hence why advice tends to be general and not specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 02:08 AM
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I had a 23 years old girl just tell me last night she was all about "conection, charisma, personality, wit, intelligence" and that "looks came last to her". Sounds like she was self aware, and she didn't want to come off as shallow, so she sais she likes you for your less supercifial attributes. Some women have a hard time being up front and just saying "I liked you because you look like a superhero".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 01:56 AM
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Should women give advice when they don't know the league of the woman the guy is trying to get with? Probably not. And if she knows both the woman and the guy asking for advice, will she be honest enough to just tell him "she is out of your league, look for somebody else". Probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 01:51 AM
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Your comment got me thinking. I believe, the thing is. Women's attraction towards a man is irrational and unconscious. They do not choose attraction, it either happens or not. But when women are trying to give men advice, they try to use logic, attraction is not logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 01:45 AM
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Your comment reminds me of a video interview. Man asking a woman: "if you woke up a guy what would you do to get laid?" Womam: "I would go to a bar and I would invite a woman drinks" She would definitely not get laid as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 01:40 AM
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There are exceptions to every rule. That doesn't mean we shouldn't observe, recognize patterns and come up with general advice on how to tackle a problem. Just because some women like short men it doesn't mean we should discard the notion that women prefer tall men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 01:34 AM
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But that's the case. Have you ever been to any red pill forums? I haven't visited red pill forums in many years, but I when I did, I remember there were daily posts about guys who didn't understand women, who didn't understand why they were left in the friendzone and the bad boy got the girl, who didn't know how to carry themselves around women (frame), who didn't know how to set up boundaries and enforce them. Sadly not everyone is taught these things at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 03:57 PM
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The general rule for men should be "you are not friend of your buddy's gf/wife". The only reason why a man interacts with a taken woman is because he is friends with her man. If the friendship with the man ends, the friendship with the woman also ends. Here is my personal experience. I met my friend's girlfriend, the three of us spent so much time together, we went out dozens of times, he have dozens of pictures together, we shared a lot, so a bond was formed between me and her. My friend at the…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 04:52 AM
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"Blue pill" has also brought a lot of people results. Like what, lack of success with women, getting used for resources, depression, feelings of inadequacy, resentment, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 04:31 AM
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I have a theory and it involves women's lack of morals and their desire to absolve themselves from the repercutions of their actions. Ever notice how nice guys are treated like trash while the toxic fuckboy gets treated like a king? Some women don't want to acknowledge they choose poorly. If they were to say "yep, I picked the toxic guy, he beat me every day and turned me into a single mom" then they wouldn't be able to claim all men are trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 04:27 AM
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How convenient you ignored the "you get used by her" part. Oh and BTW no woman will associate with a man if there is no concurring benefit for her. If she can't extract resources in the form of money, favors, attentions, car rides, etc, from the male friend, she will ghost the friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 04:00 AM
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Yep. Man - Woman friendships are usually a one way street.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:01 PM
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My partner currently started off as “just a friend”, the one I told my ex not to worry about. Subconsciously we developed feelings for each other and that was that. That's usually what happens when a man and a woman spend time together, have conversations and share intimate information with each other. Would you be ok with your boyfriend to talk daily to a female friend, maybe hang out just the two once in a while, etc? Probably not, because you know what that can lead to. At the same time thoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:39 PM
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Be honest, but don't be an open book to women. Men who give information in small doses project an image of being mysterious, or being more interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 05:28 AM
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"not my fault you look like a twink"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/22 05:16 AM
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Or another one to push his buttons. "your dad fucks better than you"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/22 05:15 AM
2

I domt know what to make out of that either.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/22 05:13 AM
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Oooh you brought up a good point. There are shelters for female victims of domestic violence but there aren't any shelters for male victims of domestic violence. I think the US has a few that are founded through donations but none of them is publicly financed like women shelters are. So right out of the bat the government (state or federal) is discriminating against men, or at the very least neglecting men.
/r/BlackPillScience28/10/22 05:11 AM
1

Stop making excuses for women's choices. Women choose what they choose and they should deal with the consequences of their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:30 AM
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There must be something they give women that nice guys like you can't. EMOTIONS!!! Women will forgive you for physically assaulting them, for insulting them, for forgetting their anniversary, for missing their child's birth... but they will never forgive you for being boring. And I make this comment because I know women who put up with absoluite douchbag behavior and yet they are still with their partners. Like this married woman, she wanted me to be her lover, and to convince me, she was tellin…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:05 PM
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There are youtube videos where they interview random women on the streets "nice guys or bad boys??" without a second thought all 9 out 10 women say bad boys. Outside of a mental illness, or an abusive upgringing, women create all toxic men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 07:59 PM
1

That's a good way to put it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:25 PM
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A lot of red pill guys are in the red pill community just to get laid. There are also men who joined the red pill to fix their marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:51 PM
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LET'S GO!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:42 AM
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Beauty and the Beast is a metaphor to women dating troubled men. This isn't uncommon.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:12 AM
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The beauty and the beast is a story of a woman trying to domesticate a svage beast, she sees this beast as a project and while trying to "fix" the beast, she falls in love with him. That's exactly what happens in the real world. Woman meets troubled man, she sees potential in him, and she makes it a personal project to "fix him", she falls in love and tolerates all kinds of bullshit from him. We all know a woman who has done this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:43 AM
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try to stay away from offering advice so much, these days They never listen. It's best to just ignore their problems, I would even ask them not to tell me about their problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:36 AM
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I know 2 cases of women sticking around men who had been trash to them. One guy yelled at his gf, took her purse and toss it in the air, he threw a tantrum, the cops were involved, etc. What did the girl do? She stuck by him and gave him a child. The guy fled to Spain and she is a single mother now. Another guy started off as a good boyfriend to her. Then he acted extremely jealous, he impregnated her. They had a baby, he started to abuse her. She stuck by him, she got pregnant again. He continu…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:32 AM
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Oh ffs I am speaking in general, you are just one person.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:24 AM
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If you had a son, would you rather him stay blue pilled and be vulnerable to vicious women, or would you rather he be red pilled and know how to protect himself and not get played by women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:23 AM
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Most men don't learn what some women here are calling "common sense". If red pill knowledge was common sense we wouldn't have weak men in society. If red pill knowledge was common sense, there would be no need to heavily censor it on the internet and mainstream media. Knowledge that empowers men is suppressed in the western world. Knowledge that teaches men how not to get finessed by women is suppressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:20 AM
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It's funny to me some women have a problem when men say "men have to lead" but in reality women are the happiest when they don't have to worry about leading, when they don't have to make decisions, when they can relax and just let the man take control.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:11 AM
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Red Pill doesn't advocate asshole behaviour, some people misinterpret Red Pill and just become massive cunts. In plain terms Red Pill encourages men to improve themselves, to get a wife (with prenup) and have children, then become a strong father figure for those kids. Strong men, with good moral values and a strong code of conduct create strong families and by extention strong communuties/societies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:02 AM
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A way to see it is: Women are the pickier sex, they put up more requirements when it comes having sex with men because they have more to lose if they deal with the wrong guy. Pregnancies, STDs, rape, murder, etc. Men are less picky when it comes to sex. If an increased number of members of the pickier sex (women) are having sex with a very selected group of the other sex (men). Then it must be that selected group of men are valuable, otherwise women would not have sex with them. Women whether th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:14 PM
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That's hypergamy. Dating equal or better than she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:26 PM
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Are these guys really handsome, or do they have game, are they funny/charming/interesting?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:24 PM
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Nah, college educated women should date whoever they want. We don't get to dictate who people should be dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:22 PM
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He doesn't come off as a cunt, he is actually well mannered, well spoken, and very elegant. I find him to be actually humble. He surrounds himself with men who act flamboyant, but Cooper always comes off as educated.
/r/ExRedPill26/10/22 05:19 PM
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Your answer is full of insults, cheap shots and assumptions. You just proved that women act on their emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:58 PM
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I didn't say "choose partners" I said "act out of emotions".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:50 PM
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IMO the reason men fail to understand women is because men are logical thinkers, we look at a problem and try to brake it down in pieces that make sense to us, the issue is that women don't act logically, they act out of emotion, so whatever they do can be simply be explained by "she felt like doing so".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:32 PM
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Of course she won't get a date if she stays in her room all day, the world doesn't know she exists. If she puts herself out there, surely men would give her a shot. I find the easiest way to get with the opposite sex is through social gatherings like family/friends parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:25 PM
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If every woman is different, why do we have the phrase "know how treat a woman", wouldn't that imply there is a universal behavior displayed among all women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:10 PM
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I am not in favor of prostitution, I do noy encourage men to go to prostitutes, I would be OK with it being prohibited, but it is going to happen anyway. Even if it was criminalized, people will start selling sex at home. How would you prove a woman is selling sex at home? She could simply say her clien was a lover and she wasn't paid to have sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:16 AM
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I am not an expert or anything, but I would think if you make it legal, then you would have to make it so anyone who wants to work in prostitution would have give some proper documentation (certificate of being disease free, address, tax information, etc), then you would have to punish any stablishment who takes on women who want to work without the proper documentation, then you would have to punish everyone who partakes on prostitution without being registered (given they are caught in a place…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:59 PM
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There are way too many assumptions in your response. Some people, regardless of gender do that. Calling women sluts how how much sex they have for example. What does that have to do with the convesation? We were just talking about who uses shame the most, men or women, and it is undoubtedly women. Proffesor Jordan Peterson even says this as a Clinical Psychologist. https://www.facebook.com/Feminasshole/videos/jordan-peterson-on-why-women-use-reputation-destruction-gossip-and-innuendo-as-w/182161…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:51 PM
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do you have any proof or "trust me bro, it's common knowledge, bro" It takes simple observation and pattern recognition to know women use shame, guilt, gossiping, etc to make things go their way. Men are different, we don't use shame, guilt, gossiping as often as women, because men resort to physical violence when they can't get the things they want. Women don't often engage in physicall violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:12 PM
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No one disputes that high risk pregnancies occur at all ages, the difference is the frecuency at which high risk pregnancies occur at different ages. IMAGE Are we suppoused to just ignore risks and aim to have children with women in their 40s? That would be very unwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:28 PM
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Weight for most productive pregnancies and delivery is between between 18.5 and 24.9 BMI. Isn't that BMI range a byproduct of pregnancy? During pregnancy women have more frequent food cravings, they are encourage to eat more to feed herself and the baby, so it would be logical to gain body fat during pregnancy, and by the time they deliver the baby they could have gone from let's say 15 BMI to 22 BMI. It doesn't mean they were 18 BMI to 25 BMI before they got pregnant, only at delivery.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:11 PM
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In the 30s, 40s and 50s in the western world the norm for people was to be slim, while overweight people were looked down upon. This still happens in some Asian countries, for example Japan. In Japan being overweight not only negatively affects your romantic life, but it also negatively affects job opportunities, because fat people are seen as lazy and careless.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:05 PM
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As an average size guy, I have no problem with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 05:59 PM
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It's like I said in my previous coment women are not used to people being blunt with them. You watch the Fresh & Fit podcast and you'll see it all the time, Myron will make a factual statement, but women are taken aback and their inmediate reaction is that of getting offended. After they explain the subject in a different manner, they usually agree with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 05:09 PM
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Prostitution should be regulated to make it safe, to prevent human trafficking, to increase tax revenue, to designate areas where it can be practiced. It's going to happen anyway, so we might as well make it safer.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:04 PM
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Flirting from attractive men is more acceptable than from average and below-average looking men. Handsome guy flirting is cute and gets the juices flowing. Ugly guy flirting is creepy and borderline sexual assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:34 PM
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It seems to me you only have a problem with the delivery, not the actual message. I see this reaction most common among women than men, because we men are more used to being told things very blunt. Among men we call it "though love".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:27 PM
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I went through life with blue tinted glasses, I noticed a lot of things didn't make sense or were not working in my favor regarding women. I had my own theories that had derived from observations but I didn't know what to do. The red pill only confirmed my beliefs and gave me useful advice, I am still a long way to go but I am better off now than I used to be when I was blue pilled. At least now I understand how women think so when they do something it doesn't take by surprise anymore. My emotio…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:24 PM
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I read it. And here is my response. They can have all the preferences in the world but when they go around slut shaming No one is going around slut shaming people outside of this website. No man in PPD is getting out of his way to slut shame women. The majority of men silently reject women for showing signs of being promiscuous, emphasis on silently, because most will never say "I can't date you/have a relationship with you for being a slut", this almost never happens. We sugar coat a rejection …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 11:38 PM
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Don't take what is said in this website too personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 11:22 PM
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You guys are simply unable to understand that the problem is that the question about n count shows their view of women. Unbelievable that men aren't allowed to have a preference without being vilifiedfor it. If you value a person less, if you have less respect for someone just because the have had sex with a certain number of people you are simply not a nice person. Welcome to the real world where respect is earned. Accept that people judge people all the time, and there is nothing you can do ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 07:33 PM
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Honestly this is no different that those guys who insult and shame women in all possible ways when a woman refuses to sleep with them right away, "you re ugly anyways, you re s*ut" etc. Yeah they give off the same vibe.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:23 PM
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The industrial revolution and its consequences have been a disaster for the human race.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:44 AM
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A lot of times women calling men insecure is just their knee jerk reaction "He has a preference that disqualifies me, so now I have to use shaming language and put an adjective with a negative connotation on him, so that he feels pressured to conform to my world view." People react negatively to feeling left out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:26 AM
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That's just moving the goal post, so let's just leave it at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 01:36 AM
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Tupac and Smith are very different. If you were to ask people who strikes them as more aggressive and who strikes them as more romantic of the two, I bet the vast majority of people will say Tupac is aggressive and Smith is romantic, but Jada only gets wet for one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 01:33 AM
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Will Smith is an actor, singer, writer.... Yet his wife still fingers herself thinking of Tupac.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 01:13 AM
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This is just another instance where women say one thing but do another.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:10 AM
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If this is true, why are stoic men considered more attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:53 PM
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It's very counterintuitive. The more effort you put into a woman, the less she likes you. Want women to like you? Do not take them too serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:38 PM
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Who said anything about body count?? I would never ask, and I don't expect women to tell. All I would do with those questions is gather information about her past sexual behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:35 PM
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Reminds me of the quote: "Familiarity breeds contempt"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:27 PM
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A made a similar post to yours a couple of weeks ago. Turned into a shit show. lol https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/wvv7rv/is_alpha_fucks_beta_bucks_dynamic_the_equivalent/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:58 PM
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Congratulations on her for being sober. Good on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:49 PM
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I guess it's a wealthy people thing, and I can see why that is. Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:19 PM
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Unbelievable that "drunk people do shit they would not do otherwise" is such a hard concept to grasp.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:18 PM
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What does that have to do with anything? We were discussing about how to recognize when a woman was promiscuous and here you are taking shots at me. We men look for cues to recognize a ho, period. You don't have to agree or like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:14 PM
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Alcohol makes you do/say things you always wanted to do. It lowers inhibitions You agree with me. It doesn’t make somebody who is demisexual suddenly want all of her holes plugged simultaneously You are just moving the goal post. We went from "a woman" to "a demisexual" and from "casual sex" to "want all her holes plugged simultaneously".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:07 PM
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You were sold a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:03 PM
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I didn't say that. The probability of a woman having higher body count is higher if she is the type of woman that visits clubs and drinks alcohol. I mean, people tend to make bad decisions when they are drunk, don't they? Don't people typically drink alcohol to wind down and lose their inhibitions? You believe that girls who go to clubs a lot or drink a lot are always high n count? You ask this question like it's far fetched, pretending alcohol has never helped people get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:00 PM
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They go raw with the "bad boys" who are often bad prospects. Being a single mother is a conscious decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:55 AM
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I personally wouldn't give a chance at a serious relationship to a woman who rejected me in the past and her SMV has decreased due to several factors: has children now; used to be thin but she is fat now; has crippling debt; etc. If you didn't accept ME at your best, don't expect me to accept you at your worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:53 AM
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They hate accountability for their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:45 AM
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You can start a sexual conversation with a woman while drinking cocktails. You both have to be a bit intoxicated. M: "gee I remember my first time when I was 19, I was a late bloomer, it was embarrassing lol"... "how about you?" W: "oh yeah, my first time was at 13 after school with a cute boy" Basically you start to tell your experiences (real or fake) and then she shares her experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:37 AM
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Bro code is, we warn other bros against getting serious with a promiscuous woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:30 AM
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Men are hardwired problems solvers, of course we are going to piece things together over time. Women really think we are not paying attention at their words and actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:27 AM
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So the smart men only buy a woman a drink Smart men don't buy women drinks. We know women at clubs are unashamed freeloaders.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:25 AM
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Bro you keep trying to explain to her how men think, and she doesn't believe it because she already made her mind. Women think we can't tell who's a hoe and who isn't, well, how do they think we pick out one night stands/fuck buddies?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:22 AM
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You are making very simplistic example that doesn't apply to real life, because no one can form an accurate profile of someone else by talking for 30 minutes. But if a man goes on multiple dates with a woman, exchanges social media information, learn how often she goes to clubs, learns how much alcohol or cigarettes she consumes, learns how she dresses, learns about her group of friends, then he can make a more accurate profile of that woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:16 AM
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If you’re part of a family that has a PI on retainer Is this a common thing in the USA?? What reasons are there to have a PI on retainer?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:08 AM
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I am just using the same argument you use against men, so if that argument is emotional so was your initial argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:38 AM
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Women who prioritize financial security make sense because it provides a use to the relationship. Nah, you are just insecure, you are not confident in your ability to get money so you plan ahead, you want a man who can provide for you in case you fail. Why do you care so much about the future anyway, focus on the present. Stop being insecure about yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:35 AM
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Imagine if men called women "financially insecure" because they want a man who is ambitious and has money, what would people call this? Gaslighting. You are entitled to you opinion, but stop telling men "you should not care about X it is not important".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:02 PM
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It's more common than women realize. We men don't go around telling people "I was shamed because I said I don't like dating X type of women". In certain settings when a man expresses contemp towards promiscuous women, or women who surround themselves with too many men, or they spend too much time in clubs or whatever, they are often called insecure, or they are called woman haters, or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:41 PM
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Here is a good answer for your question. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/y8en7y/have_you_ever_turned_a_woman_down_for_her_body/iszr8wi/
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:31 PM
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I am wary of a woman who wants to go raw since the begining. All I can think of when they ask for raw sex is "she wants to get pregnant to trap another man in her life".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 08:49 PM
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It's as much a privilege as it is for men to have increased upper body strengh and muscle mass.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 02:28 PM
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Oh man, if betabucks didn't capitalize on the scarcity of men they really played themselves.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/22 11:35 PM
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Consider asking on women subreddits "if someone where to ask you your body count and you agreed to tell them, would you only tell your LTR or would you also count your ONS, FWB?", you can word it in a different way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 11:22 PM
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Some men are incels because they are bad at socializing, or have very low self steem so they isolate, so they never improve their social skills. Not necessarily because they are ugly.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/22 11:18 PM
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I don't know man, ask women about it. There are youtube videos where someone asks random women their body count, they usually say 3, then the interviewer asks the women to include their ONS, FWB, etc, then the number changes from 3 to 20. I once saw a video where one woman admited to having fucked around 200 men. Man, I don't even know that many people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 11:15 PM
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I do not hold power in the world. How could I possibly do this?
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/22 11:12 PM
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Spending 5-figures on random 40yo women? Shit man, I would rathee take a trip to Colombia and get me some cute 25 yo latina.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/22 11:11 PM
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Not only would I halt research, I would have all the scientist involved in the project executed.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/22 11:05 PM
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Yep, she wanted blacks to have easy access to contraception and abortions not because she cared about blacks, but because she didn't want them to reproduce.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/22 09:20 PM
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That's the point.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/22 09:14 PM
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Margaret Sanger thanks you.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/22 06:02 PM
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Oh OK. I have no problem with a woman who is not a virgin, she may even have a couple of sexual partners, no problem so long they were all long term monogamous relationships. But if a woman has 5 partners, and none of them were serious relationship, that raises a flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 04:13 PM
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Some men don't care at all, others will care but ignore it not to end up alone. I highly doubt your friends who were more sexually active have revealed this information to their husbands. Let's say your friends were involved in gangbangs in their college dorm, do you think their husbands would be ok with that? Let's not say gangbangs, let's just say threesomes, they had dozens of threesome all throughout college, do you think their husbands would be ok knowing their wives had several men penetra…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:59 PM
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No women I know have been asked regularly about their n count I mean, of course, no guy who wants to get laid will ask "what's your body count", also women simply lie about it. Women only count LTR in their body count, they do not count the ONS, FWB, booty calls, etc. Sexual history does matter, but we men try to figure it out on our own, without telling women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:51 PM
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Yep, if we want to avoid judgement from others, we shouldn't do things that are frowned upon. There is a difference in the way men and women judge each others sexual history. A man who fucks a lot of hookers, drug addict women, low value women, etc is looked down. A man who gets to fuck supermodels, celebrities, high value women is seen in favorable light. A woman who fucks a lot of dudes is looked down regardless of the quality of the men she gets to fuck. The case of Britanny Renner comes to m…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:01 PM
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women in particular often go clubbing to go dancing with their girlfriends Women often complain about cat calling, unwanted male attention, unwanted men approaching them... Yet they go to places where there are going to be surrounded by men. If women didn't enjoy/didn't want male attention they would simply go to male gay bars, but they never do, do they. But they go to clubs BECAUSE there are men that give them attention. People don't change the way they dress just because their boyfriend is aw…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:23 PM
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I judge men based on the type of women they choose to have sex with as it is an indication of their own personal standards. I didn't know this when I was young, but this is true for like a majority of women. This is why if we have sex with a promiscuous woman, we try to keep it on the low. Because you women also cast judgment on men just like men cast judgment on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:11 PM
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it's hypocritical for men to want low N women to pedestalize high N men We can't force women to pedestalize high N count men. And when people do those comments "women don't care about a high N count in a man" it's because well, generally speaking it's true. Do you think women reject handsome, successful, charming men because they have had lots of sex? No. Go on tiktok and eventually you will cone across women complaining about men who are bad at sex. You will also come across women talking about…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:08 PM
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Have you ever turned a woman down for her body count? That's impossible to do because we don't know their body count. The right question would be "have you turned down promiscuous women?". In my case I do have turned down women if I they display all signs of being promiscuous and consider them a risk not only to my health, but to my status. Women known for being promiscuous lower the status of a man. That's why we may have sex with a promiscuous woman, but we don't want to be seen with her or as…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:51 PM
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I kinda am. I don't consider it hypocritical when a high N count man wants a virgin. We like what we like. I also don't consider it hypocritical when a low income woman wants a high income man. Do you also find it hypocritical that low income/low status women want high income/high status men?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:44 PM
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The only hypocritical thing I see is when men say that it is 100% acceptable for a man to have a high N and still be considered good husband material, but 0% acceptable for a woman to have a high N...or sometimes any N...and be considered good wife material Each sex defines what is high value and low value on the other sex. Each sex defines what traits are important what traits aren't important. We men like low N count women, we place value on it. If you had sex with 1000 men and you CONSIDER yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:36 PM
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Yeah, no baby sitter, chef, cleaning personnel, etc make $50 billion dollars in their lifetime. Not to mention they probably had a baby sitter, chef, cleaning personnel, etc so MacKenzie didn't have to do any of those things on her own.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:18 PM
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"women with PhDs turn me on" said no man If a woman is successful, if she has a career, or a business and she is doing well, that's fantastic, but is not relevant to us men, because end of the day, the role of provider falls onto the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 09:04 PM
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she's likely going to have plenty of men to pick from around her same age right? Yeah, that was implied in my previous comment. I only said her options are reduced. Your assumption is correct, most men in their 20s and 30s aren't looking to start families with women over 40 years old, this isn't rocket science, it's common sense. SOME men in their 40s who want to have more children, are not going to look for women in their age range.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:53 PM
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Women can always deny men sex, women can always demand the use of condom, and in the case they get pregnant they can get an abortion. So women are ultimately wholly in control of who gets born in the US, all of Europe and many other countries around the world. No one can force women to become single mothers. You are a single mother by choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:14 PM
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You missed my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:15 PM
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I used only your own arguments against you. But you still failed to see your own hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:14 PM
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Nope, time to oil your hamster wheel you loser and learn to take some accountability, oh sorry you women don't even understand the concept of that and prefer your escapist victimisation fantasy to reality. Well tough shit, you gave your vagina to him that's where your choice ends and I don't give a fuck if you think it's unjust, it isn't so fucking grow a ball hair and accept that you fucked a deadbeat and you have to be a single mother now. It's truly pathetic that you females bitch and moan ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 05:07 PM
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At 40 a woman is so close to menopause that a child free man wanting to have kids would probably not consider her for long term relationship. Much like a woman seeking stability and protection would look for a wealthier 35 to 40 year old man over any 25 year old man. This does not mean a 40 year old woman is worthless. It only means that that her options have been reduced and most men would not consider her to start a family with.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:54 PM
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This is pathetic bullshit, if you give your vagina to a man then there is always a chance of pregnancy. Women know in advance of that risk, and they know about single parenthood so no excuses. Take contraception pills even if the man is wearing a condom and even then there is no risk free sex, women know this and so single parenthood is always possible. The only way to protect yourself from unwanted pregnancy is to abstain. So take some responsibility for your actions and stop spinning that hams…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:35 PM
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"I am attracted to the race of the woman that likes me"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:49 PM
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A lot of men find mommys attractive no one denies that, but not a lot of men are willing to accept a mom with kids, especially men who have never been married and who don't have kids, because generally speaking men don't want to be responsible to another man's offsprings, and because men want to have their own kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:35 PM
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When she starts being more coy about another guy watch them lose their shit. That's disrespectful. You are with a guy, even if it's casual it doesn't mean you can flirt and giggle with other men in front of him. That's just disrespecful.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:22 PM
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Sometimes women just want to compare themselves to men they are with and try to one up him. Her to him: "I could do that better/faster' Surely the man could do it better/faster than how he is currently doing it, but maybe he is not in a rush, maybe he is the type of person who likes to take their time to do things correctly. Instead of comparing yourself to push someone to do something better/faster, you could say it differently. Her to him: "Honey I know this is a menial task and you probably d…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 06:14 AM
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Interesting. A man who is too attached to his mother is a red flag, but a woman who has zero attachment to his father is also a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:07 AM
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Could be because men aren't looked after in difficult times, while women are protected and offered things a man would not get. Men are often left off to fend for themselves. A homeless woman and a homeless man sitting on a sidewalk, the woman will always get more money.
/r/BlackPillScience18/10/22 04:04 AM
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That says a lot about our standards as men. Me personally I am trying to make a conscious effort not to entertain women who are: arrogant; ungrateful; toxic; masculine; passive aggressive; try to compete with me. I give everyone a chance, and then after getting to know them y reassess whether I want to continue dating or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:01 AM
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Seems like he valued monogamy and you giving him a pass to fuck other women offended him. Or maybe he thought "she wants me to fuck other women, that probably means she is fucking/wants to fuck someone else".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:52 AM
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Oh ok
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:45 PM
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Damn, seems like you know the game well.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:44 PM
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So you prefer a man who wants to have sex without commitment with you plus other women, and NOT tell you about? What your reasoning for this? Really curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:36 PM
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you’d be surprised how many men aren’t down for casual sex despite what men on here say Really? Any story that stands out that you are willing to share?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:34 PM
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There are women on tiktok giving women advice about men, some advice is good and some is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:07 PM
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Ok, that's fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:06 PM
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But if he proves to be entertaining in non sexual ways and we hit it off, I can definitely be friends with him. Wouldn't that imply you are wasting his time and leading him on? A man tells you what he wants he doesn't lead you on and you don't waste YOUR time. But you want to keep him around without giving him what he wants from you. That doesn't sound like a good deal for him. You would have to be honest as well and tell him "I cannot accept that, we can remain friends but sex is off the table"…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 05:59 PM
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I am agreement with all of what you said. And no, I would not be autistic to say such a thing on the first date. The reason, in my opinion, is that setting things out so blatantly from the beginning shows them a downside with no upside. This is exactly why ideally I would have to spend a couple of dates, and create fun and memorable moments with her BEFORE I open up about not being exclusive. It also sounds suspicious and blows the whole thing out of proportion. But if they have got to know you …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:55 PM
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I personally knew women who'd be down for that when I was younger Obviously you can't speak on behalf of all women, but do you think, generally speaking women would be emarrased to admit they would be down to these type of open relationships? Were your friends open about it, or did they keep it on the low?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:21 PM
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A lot of success with this will depend on delivery, phrasing Absolutely. If someone said "I am just looking for sex, if you are ok with that, text me" that would come off as rude and dismissing of the other person's feelings and dignity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:19 PM
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she described with the same tone as a pedophile handing out candy at a playground These comparisons to pedophilia doesn't help anybody. If everything is borderline pedophilia, then there is a chance REAL pedophilia won't be noticed when it actually occurs. It does not compare to pedophilia when some rock artists/musicians offer college aged women a change to have sex with them. Don’t get me wrong, real power imbalances are an issue. In a relationship one person will always have more power than t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 01:33 PM
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It's a relative thing. Young men have it more difficult than young women, hence they are more unnhappy. But mature men tend to be more happy than mature women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 06:23 PM
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One is honest "I need money and I sell my body for money", the other one is dishonest "I need money and I pretend to be in a relationship with somebody so that people don't see me as a prostitute".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 05:34 PM
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No, but the whole "makeup vs workout" comparison is dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 02:57 PM
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lol the moment he told you why working out is harder than putting on makeup you moved the goal post to "it should be part of any man's self care anyway".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 02:48 PM
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Why compare men and women and claim one is more attractive than the other. Men and women are attractive in their own way. Male and female beauty is noy measured the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 02:40 PM
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We don't hear the stories of people who were married happily for 30 years, we hear stories of people who abuse their partners Similar to how we always hear about the bad cops, but there also good cops doing good things, but we never hear about those things. It seems like bad news are more interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 07:58 AM
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I have less of an issue with prostitutes than I do with sugar babies. Just to clarify I do not use sexual services, I do not pay for sex, but I can respect a woman who does sex work, she is open about it and unapologetic. Sugar babies are basically prostitutes with extra steps, they pretend not to be prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 07:53 AM
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I wish more men appreciated humor We do appreciate humor. and wanted a partner who could make them laugh. Women are not that funny, not a man's problem. How many funny female comedians are out there? Not a lot. The most known female comedians Amy Schumer, Sarah Silverman, Ellen Degeneres, Rosie O'Donnell, Chelsea Handler, are not that funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:15 PM
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A healthy man can have children well into his 60s. If you are a woman and you want to have children and a family, it makes sense to prefer a man who has his own house, his career, money, a comfortable and safe lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 02:58 PM
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There's no accountability to these social media companies.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 02:27 PM
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"effect of the youth"... That's funny, there are rappers portraying murders on their music videos, you have thousands of women shaking their asses on instagram, porn is so easily available on the internet and the media worries about a man who says "have self respect".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 02:23 PM
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Don't worry if I become 50 and single I won't go for women your age, because they will be past their prime. (joke)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:09 PM
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This is a pointless argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:10 PM
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You have not asked me for advice but I am gonna give it to you. You are young and hot, find a husband while you are young so you don't get to 35 years old and single and then we have to read your PPD posts saying men are creeps for going for women younger than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:59 PM
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Oh, that’s not what I meant. Maybe you didn't mean it that way, but how else am I suppoused to take it? If a woman tells me "virginity should be the least of your concerns" I can only take that as "I am not virgin anymore so you caring about virginity discards me on the spot". You won't see a virgin woman saying not to care about virginity. I meant I somewhat agree with this sentiment even though I am not bitter. No one is saying YOU are bitter, you said you were a young woman, and I said older …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:49 PM
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I’m one of these “young women” and definitely not bitter. It creeps me out if you are seeking me out for my age specifically. No one is saying young women are bitter, it's the 30+ year old women who are bitter because women your age are outcompeting the 30+ year old women. Let's twist it around for a second, shall we? Generally speaking women want a man who is self-reliant, independent, who have money to live a good lifestyle. If I were to say "money should be pretty low down on the list of thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:26 PM
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No woman will ever call that behavior predatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:39 PM
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The female imperative is to remove as much responsibility from women and place the burden of being a better human being in the hands of men. This is the crux of the matter and nothing else. Men must adhere to higher standards of morality and conduct than women or else they are considered a problem to society. Absolutely. I saw this first hand when a married woman was asking me to be her boyfriend, when I rejected her proposition she offered me to be her lover, she basically offered me to meet ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:37 PM
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Kinda tired of all these "men are predators for going for younger women" threads. You are just bitter men your age won't commit to you. So you resort to gaslighting and shaming. "Creep" and "predator" are the last resources a woman has to pressure men to go against their best self interests. If you had locked down a man in your 20s you wouldn't be single bitter,
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:01 PM
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The wall for men is not based on age, it is based on several factors like social status, wealth, success, social connections. You would not say Tom Cruise, Brad Pitt, Hugh Jackman, Robert Downey Jr. have hit the wall despite all being 50+ years old. The wall for women is based on age, because men want beauty and fertility, both things dissapear over time. Skin loses collagen so it becomes thinner, skin starts to sag, wrinkles appear, expression lines become more noticeable, its becomes more diff…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:52 AM
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People want what they want, and if someone gives you what you want, you should give them what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:51 AM
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You think 20 year olds want to fuck wrinkly old 70 year olds for any reason besides money I am 100% sure a 70 year old man knows this. I am also sure a 20 year old woman knows a 70 year old man wants sex. Both are ok with that arragement.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:22 AM
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An adult approaching a minor, knowing full well that's a minor, that is pedophilia. He should be punished. If you are approached by a man, you reject him, he accepts your rejection and doesn't pester you anymore, that's not harrasment. Harrasment would be repetedly approaching you despite being rejected in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:51 PM
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Immaturity does not equal emotional trainwreck.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:41 PM
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"Not wanting X = you hate X" That's you right there. Not palying this game with you anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:12 PM
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How about women stop telling men what they should or should not care about in a woman. You don't see men telling women "you should not care about my height", if we are not tall enough we suck it up and move on. You don't see men telling women "you should not care about my education, my job, my goals or my money", if we are not making enough money we suck it up and move on. You don't see men telling women "you should not care about my penis size", if we are not big enough for you, we su... we acc…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:47 PM
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Making assumptions is definitely a woman behavior not a man behaviour. Sorry queen, you are not the only woman in PPD who talks like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:08 PM
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trying to trap someone You women have a serious problem always assuming the worst case scenario and then making loaded questions or arguments with a negative connotation. I pity the man who has to live with you. What a horrible existence living with someone who only expects the negative in every situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 12:49 PM
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Oops, sorry I read that as "there is no justification to judge someone based on age", I just wanted to give one biological reason why you could justify judging someone based on age. I agree with your statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:20 AM
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Why are you calling women cows?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:08 AM
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You are making weird assumptions and arguing against statements I didn't make, you are quickly jumping to conclusions based on things I didn't say. This makes you sound intolerant to people with different opinions, and also tjat you are not holding this conversation in good faith, but you are rather trying to force your views in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:06 AM
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If you told me, you prefer green eyed men, I would accept it despite having brown eyes. And I would not give you shit for it. So why can't you just say "hmm OK, your preferences are kind of uncommon and I do not agree with them but I accept your preferences and your opinion, thanks for answering my question" .
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:55 AM
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Wow I didn't know I was wrong for having standards and parameters (that you disagree with) to judge potential romantic partners. In the future, I promise to have standards that you agree with. As a matter of fact can you give a short list (no more than 10 items) on how should i filter women for long term rrlationships? Edit: I decided to explain why a man would ask those questions in regards to a woman. Was she raised in a two parent household? If the answer is yes, then there is no problem. If …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:27 AM
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women's access to men is so broad you'd get priced out of the dating market, easily You are priced out of the dating market before you open your front door.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:21 AM
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Red pill: height is all that matters Blue pill: height doesn't matter Me: I can't change my height, I accept myself and play the cards I was handed to get the results I can get, or live my life in misery wondering what my life could have been if I was a couple of inches taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:17 AM
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Live, love, laugh. Basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:14 AM
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Problem solving oriented, goal achieving oriented, being able to manage and lead people, good negotiation skills, not accepting of ultimatums, consistent, loyal to his values/principles, ambitious, not emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:00 AM
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just look at who they choose to date and they don’t care. As a man, if I went to a bar and I started to sperg about female promiscuity no woman would come to me and I would not get laid. Remind me in a couple of months if those women got a ring/commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:54 AM
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Me personally I wouldn’t dare a bisexual woman in the first place Good choice. Without getting into details, if she is bisexual she has engaged in more than just threesomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:49 AM
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You really can’t tell by that. You asked the question and he tried to answer. I'll try to explain it better. A promiscuous woman won't admit "huh, yeah I slept with 54 dude before you", so we men have to look up for cues to determine a woman's values and romantic lifestyle before us. These are just some ways we men gauge if a woman is worth a shot for a long term relationship. You may disagree but this is how lot of men looking for a serious long term relationship operate. Was she raised in a tw…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:45 AM
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Would he stop getting erections with his partner after finding this out? Some men would, it really depends how bad it affects them mentally. Just like a woman needs to be in a good mood and a good place mentally for her vagina to lubricate, men also need to be in a good place mentally to get erections. Penises are not machines that get erect on command.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:29 AM
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I think the biggest reason for this disparity is greater concern for physical safety and pregnancy risks I don't know about that, haven't heard of that argument really, so I have nothing to add.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:18 AM
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You know what the whole "a girl commited suicide" argument was for? It was there to elicit an emotional response in the audience, and since Tate was being examined, that emotional response would be associated with him. You and I are capable of figuring this out, but there are some people who won't see past Piers Morgan bullshit, and will forever remember Andrew Tate every time someone brings up the suicide of that little girl. You are naive to think Piers was arguing in good faith, and he brough…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:59 AM
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what he actually said People lie you know. Like I said before, you are being naive if you believe he didn't bring up the suicide argument in bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:51 AM
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Piers made it very clear that he wasn’t associating Tate with that suicide You are being kinda naive here. If he didn't want to associate Tate with that suicide he shouldn't have brought it up mid interview.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:46 AM
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If a man in his 40s wants to have children it make a lot more sense to look for women in their 20s than women in their 40s, don't you think? At least there is an argument in favor of judging someone by their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:13 AM
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If he is overweight don't advice him to take cyalis or any pill that will accelerate his heart rate to produce an erection.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:10 AM
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The solution is improving in other aspects of yourself so that your shortcomings become irrelevant. Excell in other aspects of your life that women will want to be with you regardless if you are a manlet. Aren't a lot of actors, singers, business men manlets? Yep and they still get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:07 AM
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Look I agree that men and women become jaded after going through several failed relationships, breakups, etc. This is not a gender exclusive phenomenon. I admit you are right on that part. But let me just add that men and women don't get jaded at the same rate (for lack of a better term). There is a study that showed that number of sexual encounters affected women negatively almost at twice the rate that it affected men. I think this has to do with Testosterone. After sexual intercourse women se…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:58 AM
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I didn't know that. Tate should have asked Piers why didn't he marry a woman his age.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:49 AM
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If you believe men and women are the same, equal and interchangeable, sure you could. Do you believe men and women are the same, equal and interchangeable?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:47 AM
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I know where this conversation is going, like it always does. So I am not gonna reply any further after this. Honestly coming from Tate this means absolutely nothing because he doesn't have any good intentions and neither does 95% of his fan base You surveyed his fan base about what their intentions with women are? No, this is speculation. You are speculating that his fan base are all bad men without good intentions. So at best he is saying "younger women are better because they are more innocen…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:42 AM
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Generally speaking? No. Thank you. Your personal anecdotes don't matter since he is speaking in a general sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:25 AM
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If one side is only asking questions and interrupting the other person when they try to answer it is definitely not a good interview. I would have lost my temper. Gotta handle tt to Tate he carried himself in a respectful way despite Piers' cheap shots and pointless accusations.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:13 AM
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If I recall the argument you are talking about it was something like "an 18 year old woman is more attractive than a 24 (pick any higher number really) year old BECAUSE a 24 year has had sex with more men, has had more break ups, has been in more abusive relationships, has more baggage", my question is this, is he wrong? Men don't want women who are emotional train wrecks, what man would choose that over a woman who hasn't been hurt and therefore is easier to get along?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:08 AM
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No one wants to admit they agree with someone who is deemed a misogynist. If Piers had openly agreed with Tate he would have been called a misogynist and he could have lost his job.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:58 AM
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Yep, and Piers also tried to link Tate to the suicide of some young girl. A couple of years ago Ben Shapiro accused Piers Morgan of stepping on the grave of children to make an argument, Piers continues to do so today, he is absolute scum.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:48 AM
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even when Piers gives him ample opportunity Don't know which interview you were watching, but the one I saw Piers was cutting Tate off every 3 seconds. No one can get a point across if they are being interrupted so often. Andrew Tate made a comment saying that 18 year old women are preferable to 26 year old women Forget his wording. The question is, is he wrong? No. People go after him because of how he expresses himself. When Tate starts to explain why he said what he said, people start to agre…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:46 AM
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Si, efectivamente los hombres atractivos igual jalan mujeres a pesar de no tener dinero. Pero que mujer va a preferir casarse con un hombre guapo que no tiene educación, que no es consistente, que no es disciplinado, que no es decidido, que no tiene metas en la vida? Ninguna. Toda mujer va a preferí ir al hombre que le puede dar una buena vida antes que el hombre que es guapo, porque la belleza igual se va con los años. De amor y belleza no se come.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 03:55 PM
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I know but that is usually the talking point when people address an age gap relationship where the woman is very young. "oh he is just manipulating her" "middle age men look for young women cause they are easier to manipulate" "she doesn't know what she is doing" "this creepy and borderline pedophilia" You only see these comments coming from women above 30 years old, and they say these things to gaslight and manipulate men to go against their best self interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 02:25 AM
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I think main issue is this. 40 yo man with 19 yo woman (21 year gap) means he was probably pursuing her when she was underage, which is predatory behavior, and I think it falls under pedophilia according to the law. A 45 yo man with a 24 yo woman (21 year gap) means he probably started to pursue her when she legally an adult, so it is not seen as predatory or pedophilia. Never see people bring this up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 02:06 AM
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Agree with you. I hate how when a young woman dates a mature man, she is seen/treated like she has no agency, like she doesn't have a choice. Most of the time the young women dating mature men do so knowing full well what they want from him. Singer Marc Anthony is 54 years old, he recently commited to his 22 maybe 23 year old girlfriend. https://cdn.i-scmp.com/sites/default/files/styles/1200x800/public/d8/images/canvas/2022/05/20/c4209a53-0495-4284-b6ba-0e6f39a5093b_f5f780d2.jpg?itok=fcWsOMkD&v=…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 01:58 AM
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I think it depends on the man we are talking about. For the sake of argument, let's say it is a 40 year old man dating a 20 year old woman. Maybe the guy is a very gentle and respectful man who means no harm to that young woman. Maybe this man has no kids and wants to have kids, so being with a 20 year old woman makes more sense than being with a 40 year old woman. Sure some women in their 40 get pregnant and give birth to healthy children, but the chances of that happening are very low. Lets pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 01:51 AM
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Honestly no, but I wouldn't enjoy taking pictures of my butthole for the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 11:36 PM
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I don't know what you are ranting about really.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:28 PM
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I was arguing against the point "women cant sleep with whatever". I only said "yes they can and nothing is stopping them".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:10 PM
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Cool, no one said otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 06:31 PM
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Also since you are a handsome man you are allowed to get away with things an ugly man wouldn't be able to get away with. My experience has been, if you are an attractive man you can be as playful and touchy as you want with women while you are getting to know them. And this is partly because women have a screwed up definition of "creepy behavior", an ugly man grabbing a woman by the waist and telling her she has a beautiful body is perceived as creepy/assault, but Henry Cavil doing it would be c…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 05:56 PM
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Women also pick who they want. Don't women typically flirt with men? Women pick a man in a very passive way, they flirt and seduce the man. Men pick women in an active women, they approach, strike conversation, ask for date, etc. But both of them are picking who they are with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 05:44 PM
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Agree with msot of what you say. I just wouldn't say men have it easier than women. A woman is born with value, she only has to preserve that value. Men on the other hand have to create their value. They have to get education, get a degree/diploma, get a job, pay taxes, network with other people to advance his career, he has to do a lot more to build himself up. Let me put it this way. Which of the two would be easier? To preserve a million dollars you were given at 10 years old. Or start with $…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 05:39 PM
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Disagree. There is a saying "billetera mata a galán" which can be interpreted as "money beats looks". This is the way I rank people. Wealthy man > beautiful woman > ugly woman > broke man Men sit at both ends of the hierarchy because a rich man can have it all, while a broke man will be rejected even by ugly women. A beautiful woman can have it all, then an ugly women will still get a slice of the cake even if she struggled to get that slice. If you are a broke man, you are fuck, you are already…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 05:34 PM
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When women sleep with multiple men they are called sluts, but when I do it I get called a faggot. It's not fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 05:16 PM
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Life isn't fair. Is it fair that a girl can sell pictures of her anus in onlyfans for $10k a month and I can't? Doesn't matter whether it is fair or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 05:14 PM
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What most men here say is “I get to sleep with whatever, you don’t” What's stopping women from having casual sex as much as they want it? The West isn't under Sharia Law, the constitution doesn't prohibit women from sleeping around, women don't get stoned for sleeping around, etc... The only thing stopping women is the judgment from others, that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 05:12 PM
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I think it's hypocritical to judge others for behaviour that you're seeking and engaging in I disagree. Generally speaking women tend ro look for a man that is better off than they are. Are they hypocritical because of that? No, that's hypergamy doing its thing. If people only sought people who are on the same " financial level" for example, the richest people would all be single. There is not an equal number of rich men as there is of rich women, one of them has to "settle down" and the other h…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 05:07 PM
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N count double standard is fair. Getting rejected for things beyond your control is also fair. Anyone can reject you for whatever they want without having to explain themselves to you. Rejecting someone because of race, height, weight, penis size, breast size, etc is A OK and no one should tell me I am a bad person for it. End of the day it is my life, my future and I am the one marrying that person. If you feel left out, or discarded because you have a high body count, though luck buddy, find s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 05:00 PM
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Well, you are actually serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 05:55 AM
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It being talked about is not being pushed into main stream. You can't be serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 05:46 AM
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https://edition.cnn.com/2018/01/25/health/cuckolding-sex-kerner/index.html https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/love-sex/cuckolding-relationship-cheating-infidelity-explains-love-life-a7478921.html https://www.huffpost.com/entry/wife-adultress_b_12182082 Here is a reddit post about it. https://www.reddit.com/r/conspiracy/comments/8yd6s5/does_anyone_know_why_various_media_outlets_are/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 05:41 AM
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Nothing should be pushed into mainstream Agree, but not everyone thinks like you, which is why cuckold has become much more accepted in the last 10 years, because it has been pushed heavily through the media (internet, movies, TV series, etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 05:37 AM
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Would you say the same thing about scat fetish? Since all kinks are acceptable so long they don't hurt other people, should we push scat kink into the mainstream and try to normalize it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 05:21 AM
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Most men want a woman who has some experience and talent. Nope, we don't. No man ever said "I wish my wife had fucked more men before me so she would be better in bed".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 05:18 AM
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Look at the guy in this interview. Do you truly believe he is happy? https://youtu.be/-FvNPWJUpjk
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 05:11 AM
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Personally I can't respect a man who let's other men fuck his wife. That's one of the lowest things I can think of. I was once offered a threesome, a friend asked me for a threesome with him and his gf at the time. I declined on the spot, I would have lost all respect for him and her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 05:09 AM
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Alright guys, who's gonna tell her?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 05:05 AM
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Also a manwhore is gonna give them a good time in bed, a virgin not so much. BTW there is a YouTube video where they ask women on the street "would you rather be with a man with a lot of experience or no experience at all in bed?" and all the women chose a man with a lot of experience in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 05:02 AM
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