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| 1 | You Cannot Buy Love: The Final Red Pill My Own Mother Gave MeThis entire post is a distraction. You blab on about God and cults. Your mom abandoned you for some cult and you came running when she called only to give her money? Dumb and submissive at the same time. You talk and think about gay guys way too much. When I do ponder gay people it’s along the lines of “great, more for me” or “maybe they will give me a good haircut”. Also I have pulled so many women over the years being friends with gay dudes. It’s too easy. There is no story of self improvement… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/25 09:09 PM |
| 9 | Hyper-successful males pairing up with synthetic/artificial females — observationsI’m willing to bet these plastic women are good in bed and know what their “value” is. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/25 07:21 PM |
| 6 | I’m not quite sure if I want to get married or notI didn’t read your post at all past the title. If you aren’t “sure” then definitely do not get married. Even if you are “sure” are you so sure that you are willing to wager half your future wealth? Shit I’m married and I’m still not sure. . . | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/25 06:22 PM |
| 159 | What's the red pill explanation of why girls get tattoos?Attention Trends They think it’s pretty | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/24 05:51 PM |
| 1 | To protect your kids from feminist brainwashing, bond them with a Hyperborean pupBrain rot | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/24 03:00 AM |
| – | deep crisis in my LTR (13.5 years, 3 kids)Well your opinion in the your original post was that you pushed her away from him. . . Truth is you’re probably both somewhat responsible for the way your toddler treats him. But in the end you slapped her. You could have said no but didn’t. You are responsible for the slap. First step getting over it is to realize this. If I were you I would sit down with my child and tell them it was wrong of you to slap her, it was wrong of him to ask you, and it’s wrong to hit children period. Apologize and … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/04/24 08:50 PM |
| – | deep crisis in my LTR (13.5 years, 3 kids)I agree with this answer. Only mistake father made was asking you to slap her. Don’t hit your kids folks, it’s illegal, cruel, and doesn’t work. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/04/24 08:12 PM |
| 2 | Why Everyone In This Sub Needs To Learn Self-DefenseI’m a purple belt in BJJ. Training is great for your body, mind, and ego. Now that I actually have some semblance of what I’m doing in a fight I really don’t want to be in one. I’m confident that I could control an untrained guy that has 50lbs on me and I like having that in my back pocket but there are so many unknowns in fighting. Don’t want to be completely dominating someone on the ground only to be kicked in the back of the head by a third party and be paralyzed forever. Don’t want to land … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/24 12:08 AM |
| 2 | 12 reasons not to work in women-dominated industries, using Healthcare as an exampleNPs are great. Really help with routine care, especially for surgical services and basic family practice stuff. I don’t love them in the ED but they usually see minor stuff and bump the higher acuity stuff up to an MD this lightening the load. The key thing though is that most NPs work WITH a physician, not independently. For my personal and family health we only see physicians. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/24 02:19 PM |
| 2 | 12 reasons not to work in women-dominated industries, using Healthcare as an exampleThey pushed to practice independently to help “underserved populations” and equate their amount and intensity of training with that of anesthesiologists. If the true goal was to help underserved patients then they would go to work in those areas right? That is not reflected in the data when this issue has been studied. The training is less than those of anesthesiologists and both time and degree. The push to practice independently is about compensation (my opinion). The CRNA org also keeps pushi… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/24 07:12 PM |
| 2 | 12 reasons not to work in women-dominated industries, using Healthcare as an exampleI actually think anesthesiology will be hard to replace by robots. There are lots of little procedures that would be annoying to automate (IVs, spinals, epidurals, central lines, intubation, nerve blocks etc). Lots of disease states that complicate anesthetics (mainly lung and heart disease). Then there’s the good old impatient surgeon who won’t want to wait for the anesthesia robot. Also what happens when the anesthesia robot isn’t working, has an alarm, or there is a code? There is something c… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/24 02:25 PM |
| 16 | 12 reasons not to work in women-dominated industries, using Healthcare as an exampleYeah. Administration actively tries to frustrate physicians. They want us to feel like we have no other option, learned helplessness. However, if you build your own private practice and make them money by bringing patients/referrals you get whatever you want. This mostly works with surgeons and is harder for other providers. The anesthesiology job market is great right now. We are in demand and other hospitals in my area have had “service interruptions” (basically the anesthesiologists quitting … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/23 03:04 PM |
| 134 | 12 reasons not to work in women-dominated industries, using Healthcare as an examplePhysician here: Ehh, kind of an oversimplification. Numbers 2,3,4,7,9, and 10 are all true in my experience. 1 is the most interesting point IMO. Innovation and invention are associated with risk taking behavior which is more prevalent in men. 2 and 3 are incredibly true IMO. If I have to have another conversation with a random RN about her fucking kids . . . I don’t care. Only thing keeping me sane is I’m an anesthesiologist and don’t really have to talk to anyone all that much. One thing you’r… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/23 02:31 AM |
| 5 | Men, have you, or have you seen, a man actually protect a woman/child from a predator?Three instances of intervention on behalf of a woman. Drunk guy hitting on girl at a bar wouldn’t leave her alone. Pretended she was my friend’s little sister and she went along with it. Made sure she got in a taxi without the guy bothering her. In college word got around that someone at one of our fraternity parties had GHB and was planning on drugging people’s (presumably women’s) drinks. Found the guy (not part of the fraternity) with a little brown glass vial on him. He got the shit kicked o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 09:27 PM |
| – | It seems like men fail to understand that the attention that women get is not the compliment or even a privilegeI have been hit on by gay men 3 times in my life and I always received it as complimentary. I kindly explained that “I’m 100% straight, but thanks for the compliment”. I even had a gay man pay for my clothing when I was in college (I thought he was a salesman and didn’t even understand what had happened until he paid). One was in a sauna while I was naked. Never had an issue and I think about these 3 incidents kindly, as much as the 4 times I’ve been hit on by women. It was complimentary! They l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 09:18 PM |
| 3 | Why are some people unwilling to admit that they are in competition when dating?There are tons of people in this thread that have no clue what a competition is and that they are in one whether they choose to “compete” or not. Also keep in mind many redditors are not social butterflies. I’ll give a different perspective. We are hominid mammals. Almost all mammals compete for mates and have significant sex differences. We are no different . . . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 12:42 AM |
| 3 | If you think sex is damaging to women or causes them to lose their “value,” isn’t it lowkey kind of predatory to pursue sex with women?They want to have as much sex as possible but when it comes to their life partner they want them to only be a slut for them. They aren’t marrying the hoes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 03:53 PM |
| 6 | Here is the real problemAnd therein lies their mistake. As long as you have a job and are saving money, living with your parents is actually a very financially savvy move. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 06:11 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Males are more willing to sexually please their woman than vice versa.Some women really love anal and can even orgasm from it. Eating pussy for 10-20 minutes can indeed hurt (my fucking neck!) but I insist on doing it because I know most women won’t come from PIV. If you look on most men’s forums, the standard advice on how to please a woman goes something like “Make sure she comes first and ask her what she likes/doesn’t like.” Have you ever considered that you may be selecting for selfish/unskilled lovers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Women get resentful from splitting half the costs with their partnersSome of these purses are as expensive as fucking cars, god damn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Women get resentful from splitting half the costs with their partnersI wouldn’t be interested in a women that is not completely devoted to her children or chooses not to spend time with them for more selfish activities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 01:09 PM |
| 5 | Women get resentful from splitting half the costs with their partnersI have some “nice” watches but prefer to wear my Apple watch with a nice band. Way more functional than a Rolex and lets me keep a low profile. I know some people like to show off but there also many wealthy people that view conspicuous consumption as trashy. I’d be much more likely to drop lots of money on experiences than material things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Women get resentful from splitting half the costs with their partnersI am a wealthy person that doesn’t have a prenup and lives me in a 50/50 state. I picked the right person to be with 100%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Women get resentful from splitting half the costs with their partnersI’m personally okay with all that as long as the time that these services save is spend productively with my children, organizing/running a household, or on fitness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Women get resentful from splitting half the costs with their partnersI’m guessing they most likely did buy a new house if they’re newlyweds. I have one of these “expensive wives” buying designer clothes, going to workout classes, getting occasional Botox, etc. It’s honestly not that expensive. Kids are definitely way more expensive. Those fucking bags though. Those things are fucking expensive for a bunch of leather. Can’t believe how much they cost. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 12:47 PM |
| 7 | Women get resentful from splitting half the costs with their partnersMost wealthy people continue to be high earners after they’re married. I’d bet that the majority of their wealth (if you look at earning over a whole life) is generated after they marry. The exception is trust fund babies who don’t work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 12:22 PM |
| 4 | Are average men really desperate for sex?Sometimes you make a comment for other people reading not the commentator themselves. But yeah, I get it don’t feed the trolls | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 04:52 PM |
| 10 | Are average men really desperate for sex?I think you need a reality check. Having good sex DOES indeed take practice despite knowing the anatomy. (Most men know the anatomy btw, we are all studying those pics in health class). A lot of sex talk is taboo and there really is no formal education on how to be a good lover even if it weren’t. Despite the myth of “locker room talk” most men don’t have serious discussions about sexual technique (we’re all kind of competing and you don’t necessarily want to admit to your friend you suck at eat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 12:49 PM |
| – | The single biggest mistake women make in online-dating is filtering by male heightWomen in general | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 06:59 PM |
| -3 | Single independent women are not really as independent as it seemsI thought it was kind of like a joke that’s a half joke and half truth. But I stand corrected, you and your dad seem fun. My apologies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 06:08 PM |
| -6 | Single independent women are not really as independent as it seemsUnconditional love? Advice? Tender moments? I know you were joking but your attitude towards dads is sad and shallow. I feel bad for your dad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 06:00 PM |
| 2 | Do you think marriage will die out completely once Women start out earning Men on average?I disagree with this. Where I live, being a homemaker is not expected and is often a choice. The women could be working and adding to the household income but they’d rather spend time with their kids and they don’t really need the money anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Do you think marriage will die out completely once Women start out earning Men on average?Yup. This is the problem. Women are free to be a homemaker, career person, or hybrid. Meanwhile any man who does not bring in an income is a “bum” or worthless. Stay at home dads are looked down upon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Let's say you have a redpilled friend that doubts his beliefs. How would you disprove AF/BB to him?Yes I know exactly what you’re talking about. From the misandrists to the political culture warriors. It’s like, I didn’t come here for your doomsayer political conspiracy theories (that also have no impact on my daily life), I came here to get better with women. Can’t we just focus on that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Let's say you have a redpilled friend that doubts his beliefs. How would you disprove AF/BB to him?I somewhat agree with you. Personally I think red pill is empowering to men and that’s something that most men desperately need when it comes to women. Men are so blinded/enticed by the sexual aspect of romance that they let a lot of stuff slide and open themselves up to being taken advantage (putting pussy on a pedestal as it’s known in common parlance). From being in a situation-ship or friend zone, to financial abuse, being trapped in an abusive relationship because of finances or access to k… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Let's say you have a redpilled friend that doubts his beliefs. How would you disprove AF/BB to him?Ultimately red pill boils down to self improvement to enhance your SMV. You can do most do that self improvement stuff without really believing in red pill theory (AF/bb, monkey branching, etc). For example you can enhance your physique, get better clothes, and practice talking and approaching many women. Doesn’t require belief in anything (even though red pill is mostly true). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 02:35 PM |
| 11 | Beauty is subjective, but unattractive men should know their placeThere is individual variability for sure, but on average men’s libido is higher than that of women. This is not a controversial statement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 06:20 PM |
| 12 | Beauty is subjective, but unattractive men should know their placeIt’s testosterone. Men have testosterone. We have a higher libido. That’s it, not rocket science | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 06:16 PM |
| 1 | The best possible option for highly educated, high earning, healthy weight men in the west is to passport bro.What does this discussion have to do with free education? “Vast majority”=almost everyone. You are splitting hairs. You never answered the question, what behaviors of this man are you referencing? Tinder experiments? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 08:32 PM |
| 4 | The best possible option for highly educated, high earning, healthy weight men in the west is to passport bro.Yeah man she’s an odd one. “All Swedish women think the same and we don’t like that behavior”. Which behavior exactly? Being on dating apps? Posing in a business class seat on a plane? Holding a koala? No one cares about, this isn’t about you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 12:13 PM |
| 2 | Most modern women are educated and employed - they only want men to "provide" for 1-2 years before the kids are sent off to daycare.I don’t agree with a lot of the qualities you listed as men having (they are not smarter at least academically for example) but it’s not really important to my argument. By saying men don’t have inherent worth in society, I mean that men are only valued if they can do things. A man who can’t do something for someone else, is very much looked down upon. But that is less true of women. Women without marketable skills will still be valued by many men. The converse not so much. Get it? As to the las… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 03:41 AM |
| – | If you want women to give up on hypergamous attitude you need to give up on your polygamous attitudeYes exactly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 12:43 AM |
| 3 | Most modern women are educated and employed - they only want men to "provide" for 1-2 years before the kids are sent off to daycare.Most men don’t want to be seen as the “provider” they MUST be seen as the provider. Men who don’t are seen as lazy, impotent, and parasites. Their marriages are much more likely to end in divorce or experience infertility. You know it’s true, pay attention to how people talk about men who don’t have jobs. It’s completely different than when people talk about women that don’t have jobs. Men don’t have inherent worth in the eyes of society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 09:17 PM |
| – | If you want women to give up on hypergamous attitude you need to give up on your polygamous attitudeYou are missing the point entirely. An individual changing their preference does not effect the general preference of a population. There is no cause and effect there, mainly because one person’s preferences really doesn’t matter to the rest of the population. However if a whole population changed their preferences that may indeed effect the preferences of the other population. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 05:32 PM |
| – | If you want women to give up on hypergamous attitude you need to give up on your polygamous attitudeIt is news to me that Muslim women are permitted by Islam to leave their husband whenever they want and marry a better man. I think there is a simpler explanation as to why religious people have an easier time dating, they simply have a smaller pool to select from which to select from. Paradox of choice and all that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 05:28 PM |
| – | If you want women to give up on hypergamous attitude you need to give up on your polygamous attitudeYour title is confusing even though I think it’s mostly rhetorical. Women aren’t going to magically change their preferences because a man changes theirs. But to the meat of your post, there is no changing women’s or men’s general preferences. Best to understand them and maximize your SMV as a male. One cannot fight the tide. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 04:09 PM |
| 2 | Trad Cons and capitalismYup, focus on what you can to improve your odds. The average person’s influence over politics is pathetically small. It’s not worth investing your time into to it just to stress out about something you can’t control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 02:41 PM |
| 3 | Height is the most influencing factor to a man's SMVThe word “cute” coming from a woman’s mouth is definitely not a compliment, but neither is it an insult. It’s a way for them to say that you’re attractive (or maybe just not ugly) but undesirable for some other reason, usually something that makes you less masculine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Do you support alternate expressions of masculinity? Why or why not?Personally, I am doing what I need to do to ensure that me and my children have a nice life. If that means staying at home and hanging out with my kids I WOULD absolutely do that. As it is I chose a career based on my interests and skills and it’s worked out financially. I didn’t chose it to attract a mate. I think I have enough of the “traditional masculine” traits to make it work with someone that expected that role from a husband. But to be honest I wasn’t really looking for a “traditional” w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 01:02 PM |
| 27 | Is it worth it moving out to improve my social life and skills?I think you’re sending this young man mixed messages. Don’t chase women as in don’t put them on a pedestal. Recognize that they are just like you, a flawed human. But DO approach women. Chat them up, flirt, cold open, whatever you wanna call it. But this guy definitely needs more exposure to women. After talking to lots of women you will eventually lose your fear of rejection which will make one seem confident. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/23 01:58 AM |
| 3 | Do you support alternate expressions of masculinity? Why or why not?I’m honestly not sure what you thought was condescending, caps are there for emphasis (like italics) and I didn’t intend for it to come off that way. My point was along the lines of you and the men you pose this question to can think any way they want to about traditional masculinity but when it comes to finding a mate none of that matters. Most women want an attractive high earning man. And to secure the best possible mate the best strategy is to be appealing to the most women possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 11:41 PM |
| 6 | Do you support alternate expressions of masculinity? Why or why not?Yes we know YOU have a different take, but MOST women prefer a traditional man. They don’t want someone who makes less money than them (or doesn’t want to work), or is effeminate, or is seen as not stable because they are open about their mental health struggles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 10:18 PM |
| 0 | Cancel Culture, And Losing All Your Things Just Because You Offended Somebody Is Going To A Whole Another Level... And Will Only Get Worse With Time. Recent experienceWe’re talking about the NWO now? Thought this sub was supposed to be about the reality of relationships between men and women. WTF is this dribble | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/23 11:19 AM |
| 5 | Why did TRP become so infested with tradcucks?TRp and “traditional” lifestyle have been commingled and they do have some overlap but aren’t the same thing. IMO TRP deals with the reality of the sexual marketplace and how to utilize this knowledge to enhance your own success in that arena. Maximizing your success might look different in NYC vs a traditional and religious community in Kansas. In the last 5 years a lot of “Red Pillers” are pushing a politically conservative and religious agenda. Expressing those attitudes in certain regions wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Is the "you can have it all" narrative actually doing women more harm than good?“Having it all” is a badge of honor for bougie women to aspire to. Often they don’t actually “have it all” and by that I mean they have extensive help at home (nanny/grandparents), a subpar career (maybe in HR) that is continually hampered by other commitments, a shitty social life, a supportive husband, and no hobbies to speak of other than yoga/peloton. You can indeed have it all but you better be wealthy or extremely focused without any leisure time. “Having it all” doesn’t mean you’re happy … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 12:47 PM |
| 6 | Imagine you were a man. How would you make your cheating ex regret breaking your heart?I haven’t thought of my exes in years. Just realized it wasn’t meant to be and moved on. Focused on my career, body, and social life. Saw one of my exes in my home town and didn’t even recognize her. She had to tell me who she was and was surprised I didn’t know. It felt good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Reflexive ImpotenceTaxes have been declining in the US for the wealthy since the 1940s. It doesn’t fit with your “tax cattle” theory. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/23 12:49 AM |
| 3 | Reflexive ImpotenceIf you think hedging against currency debasement makes me a “crypto shiller” you’re dumb. All wealthy hedge against currency debasement and inflation by buying hard assets (art, real estate, crypto). Crypto is just another type of hard currency (actually it’s the hardest of hard currencies). I have strategies to keep my taxes down and you should too. If you structure your business properly you can decrease your taxable income while contributing to your retirement. If you have a significant incom… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/23 12:04 AM |
| 5 | Reflexive ImpotenceThis is a whiney bitch post. You all are crying about the state of the world while you drink liberal tears as copium. Either you compete in the market you’re in, you move markets, or you stop competing all together. Improve yourself or don’t. Stop blaming other people for your problems. Build and improve your life or stfu. If you pay attention at all to finance you should have already been setting aside a portion of your income to buy crypto to hedge against currency debasement/collapse. The US … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/23 11:12 PM |
| 2 | It Is Every American's Patriotic Duty to Affirm Transgender BeautyYou didn’t post a single example of how transgender people affect the dating market. Your “overt” example is about the covid vaccine? Again, your ranting and wildly off topic. Even your rantings are kind of shitty and not all that convincing to the “points” you are making. Throwing up a bunch of half digested current “opinions” with pseudo intellectual language will not convince any discerning minds. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/23 02:53 PM |
| 3 | It Is Every American's Patriotic Duty to Affirm Transgender BeautyDon’t know what you’re on about covid, basement dwellers, and Chinese governmental models. . . Seems like you’re the keyboard warrior connecting the red strings on their basement cork board. Your comment vomit is just a tangent, a flight of ideas, a disorganized distraction of poor mental hygiene. You can’t focus on the issue of how transgenders will negatively affect your game. If it’s glaringly obvious like some of you have said, you should be able to string together a couple sentences and exp… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/23 11:14 PM |
| 8 | It Is Every American's Patriotic Duty to Affirm Transgender BeautyI’ve got 3 kids and 2 wives. We all live together. I know you think you’re being funny and clever but it’s just kind of dumb when you’ve seen this type of shit before. You use a lot of emoji’s and substitute absurdity and trolling for real thought. You’re not a man, just some dumb moron spouting nonsense. There are literally millions of you, you’re in good company. I’m not some dumb bitch who’s shit testing you moron. I was genuinely curious what you see as a shift in dating culture. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/23 12:09 AM |
| 11 | It Is Every American's Patriotic Duty to Affirm Transgender BeautyThis article is about transgenderism and how it’s rise relates to red pill philosophy. My contention is that it doesn’t affect me, just like gay men don’t affect my sexual strategy. The women I’m interested are not interested in that shit. We are in different leagues. If it’s so obvious how this shit affects me you should be able to explain it easily rather than just talking about some homoerotic shit. You don’t have a point so you spout some nonsense. Transgenderism has nothing to do with my ga… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/23 07:56 PM |
| 1 | It Is Every American's Patriotic Duty to Affirm Transgender BeautyJust clarifying my comment because you couldn’t seem to COMPREHEND that I was talking about your dumbassery and not opinions of OP. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/23 07:41 PM |
| 4 | It Is Every American's Patriotic Duty to Affirm Transgender BeautyTell me about the shift as you see it. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/23 06:23 PM |
| 1 | It Is Every American's Patriotic Duty to Affirm Transgender BeautyInability to follow basic discourse is not the definition of marginalization, but of comprehension. You are confusing comprehension with agreement. I understand the point being made but don’t agree. My comment was referencing the syntax of your words. “This guy doesn’t know the SAME United States . . . “ the word “same” is not necessary and is poorly written English. You then go on to personify the US and talk about it like an entity that has a single minded goal and purpose which I think is fuc… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/23 05:50 PM |
| 11 | It Is Every American's Patriotic Duty to Affirm Transgender BeautyThe culture wars haven’t changed the fundamentals of what motivates women and makes them attracted to men. Status, finances, looks, and “feels”. It’s always been the same basic qualities and strategy from the jump. Liberals and conservative women care about the same qualities, they just have different cultures and you need to know how to assimilate/code switch. The biggest development for men is not the culture wars but OLD. Makes it much easier to for men with the aforementioned qualities to pu… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/23 05:04 PM |
| 5 | It Is Every American's Patriotic Duty to Affirm Transgender BeautyYou’re comment is barely intelligible. Your argument is basically “The US government likes transgenderism and wants other people to do the same”. So the same argument as OP? I’m not marginalized nor a hermit. Stop projecting your problems on to me. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/23 04:57 PM |
| 10 | It Is Every American's Patriotic Duty to Affirm Transgender BeautyI don’t care about transgenderism for the following reasons: Doesn’t effect my daily life at all. You want me to call you Pat/Patricia or xe? Sure no problem. A very small percentage of people are trans. It will skew gender ratios in a positive way for most men in the sexual market. I do find the conspiratorial undertones in your writing dumb. You’re retrospective of American history and trends make it seem like The US has been following some grand plan set in motion by a few to promote transgen… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/23 03:35 PM |
| 7 | Got a window into average woman's dating life. It was an absolute shock*that’s what you’ve been told by your spurned ex lover You really think all men ONLY want sex? There seems to be an awful lot of married men out there enjoying their families and quiet domestic life for your ex’s theory to hold any water. Men do want sex, but they also want someone to have a good time with, someone loyal and stable to form a partnership in life, a good mother to their children. Men don’t just want any sex btw, they want to have sex with someone that WANTS them. Men like to be de… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 02:20 PM |
| 6 | Got a window into average woman's dating life. It was an absolute shockEhhh yes and no. Some are just there for sex, some for companionship, some are looking to turn a ONS into a relationship. The point is that she has options, and plenty of them. The mere knowledge that there is a steady stream of guys vying for her attention changes your relationship to the opposite sex. She’ll be more likely to throw away a relationship because of something she didn’t like whereas a woman (or man) who has fewer options would be more likely to try to salvage things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 01:45 PM |
| 13 | How do you explain successful men that end up marrying sluts?Yup! Can confirm. Many of my liberal successful friends would be suspect of someone who isn’t sexually experienced. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 01:17 PM |
| 1 | There is a certain hypocrisy in RP creators who simultaneously go on about men in their prime picking younger women vs “young men aren’t getting sex and its a problem”I think you have a fundamental misconception about their world view. They’re not trying to make things better for ALL MEN, they’re trying to teach men the best INDIVIDUAL sexual strategy. I guess part of that strategy is picking significantly younger women. Nothing hypocritical or grifting about that. But you’re onto something, if all men adopt RO strategy the dating market will be a lot more competitive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 12:05 PM |
| 6 | Since most women lose sexual interest in their long term partners, what incentive do men have to settle down with and marry women?Maybe I could give some insight. Men don’t marry for ONLY sex but it is definitely a major motivator. I’m not trying to speak for all men, but I feel like the big 3 reasons men get married are kids, companionship, and having a partner that wants to have regular sex with them. The weighting of these 3 motivations from person to person changes but I think those are the top 3 for most men. Testosterone is a mind altering hormone. It really effects sex drive and motivation. Talk to any male to femal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 02:29 PM |
| – | Women and girls are reading the manosphere forums and subs, that makes them less likely to date.Oh I’m waiting for it. I’m not actually trying to change her opinion as she is clearly very bitter but hopefully there are some other people that read our “discussion” and reconsider their opinions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/23 01:51 PM |
| 2 | Q4 High N Women - What is your lifestyle like?Women that are explicitly aware of hypergamy and follow it are not going to be as into having many partners as it diminishes their SMV. So maybe purple pill debate is not the best to find high N count women, and maybe that’s why the polls reflect that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 06:35 PM |
| 2 | Q4 High N Women - What is your lifestyle like?You have a critical cognitive error thinking that people that are interested in this sub have typical sexual strategies similar to the rest of the population that isn’t aware of hypergamy, af/bb, trp etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 03:56 PM |
| 7 | Moved to a big city, want to leave LTR to chase tailGiving birth in the hospital will allow your baby and wife to be monitored during labor. In the rare case that something is wrong with your baby (as shown by the fetal heart rate monitor) or mom (bleeding, preeclampsia, huge baby/tiny pelvis situation) a surgical team can quickly do an emergency cesarean section section, preventing permanent and life changing damage to both patients. An epidural that is already in place before this situation develops can be used for anesthesia making this proces… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/22 02:05 AM |
| 5 | In a perfect world, how often would you have sex?Doubt. . . The amount of men I know that want to have sex more frequently is way higher than the amount of men that have trouble keeping up with their female spouse (I’ve only known 1 man who said this). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 01:51 PM |
| 8 | In a perfect world, how often would you have sex?They just don’t realize the word can be applied to things other than machinery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Men are having less casual sex than ever. And it's a good thing.That does seem like a decent amount of calories but it also seems like you were highly active and growing. Your experience with changing your body was when you were younger and not responsible for yourself. I can understand why you might be frustrated of how you were “different”. Just stop for a second and think that many men have been in your place but hardly any of them were found to be a mutant (I joke but there are conditions such as hyperthyroidism that may make it difficult to gain). They … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 10:49 PM |
| 2 | Men are having less casual sex than ever. And it's a good thing.Hey man, im not calling you a liar, but I believe you are mistaken. You can’t tell me you eat a caloric surplus but don’t gain weight. Thermodynamically and physiologically impossible. You must not be tracking the calories your expend or the calories you ingest properly. As to your steaks, that doesn’t really tell me much. What we’re you eating the rest of the day? How much steak? What was your caloric intake for the day? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 09:51 PM |
| 4 | Men are having less casual sex than ever. And it's a good thing.Dude don’t listen to this guy. If you’re training appropriately, in a caloric surplus, and sleeping well you will put on weight. Now most guys have some problems with putting on mass due to a deficiency in one of these categories Training appropriately: they have “fuck-around-itis”. They aren’t on a program. They don’t go to the gym consistently enough (4+ days a week) Eating enough: Personally this was my problem, I thought was eating a lot but wasn’t gaining muscle. I started tracking my calor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Is the ratio really better in real life?Hey, we’re all here to debate and comment. The comment was reasonable but you seem like you were triggered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 02:08 AM |
| 8 | Is the ratio really better in real life?Why not stay home with your friends, get a decent sound system, have some drinks, and dance there? You save money, time, and unwanted social interactions? If you don’t like the club/bar environment why go? I’m legitimately asking but also asking somewhat of a rhetorical question. I think you go out to bars/clubs because you do like some aspect of the social interaction. Maybe it’s getting dressed up, maybe it’s having a chance to meet other people that you desire, or maybe because you like the a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 02:04 AM |
| 7 | Q4M - What Goes Through Your Mind When A Woman Tells You She Is Celibate?I would think that she can live without sex and that we aren’t compatible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Is there double standard when it comes to watching pornography while in a relationship?You test people for STIs first and then you have sex. Or you can use a condom. Simple. And yes I’ve seen your list of death of porn actors. There are different causes listed but non of them say “pornography”. Some are from overdoses, some are suicide, some are from medical causes, some even murder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Is there double standard when it comes to watching pornography while in a relationship?I’m not arguing that anyone become a pornographic actor or that it’s a “good job”. There are plenty of unsafe jobs but I don’t see people arguing to make cutting timber or roofing illegal. Just that we have better protections and regulations. I’m all for that in porn. Porn doesn’t result in death. You are a silly debater. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Is there double standard when it comes to watching pornography while in a relationship?Im not worrying about justifying my and my partners own use of porn because I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it. There is nothing to justify. I’m debating with you because I find these types of conversations interesting and an intellectual exercise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Is there double standard when it comes to watching pornography while in a relationship?I’ll wait while you provide a referenced statistic about the percentage of porn that are there voluntarily. You can’t make a claim like you did and not provide a source. If it’s so obvious there is probably data on it. Burden of proof is in you. Calling an argument trash isn’t a counter argument. I won’t call yours trash because it’s not productive. I do think you’re a bad senator though. You clearly are very emotional about your opinion and you have trouble making solid arguments because you ju… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Is there double standard when it comes to watching pornography while in a relationship?What part of my argument is a straw man, please be more specific. I don’t think all work has to be enjoyable for it to be legal. As long as certain safety standards are met I’m okay with porn (and even sex work) as long as all are adults and consenting. If you enjoy your work that is a bonus, not everyone is so lucky. As to what ever you’re getting at with your cannibalism example, I don’t think something that results in the loss of life (porn doesn’t) is comparable. As to your acts of “violence… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 02:10 AM |
| -1 | Is there double standard when it comes to watching pornography while in a relationship?People (both women and men) destroy their brains, bodies, lives, and families constantly with the vices I mentioned. Why not also prohibit them. What is special about porn that it should be a vice that is treated differently. What is wrong with a woman who voluntarily creates pornography for distribution, like on onlyfans? Whether they earn a living for it or it’s their kink the reasons don’t really matter. As long as they want to do it, they are clearly not being broken or abused. What gives yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Is there double standard when it comes to watching pornography while in a relationship?Wait so “nudes” are okay but “porn” is not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Is there double standard when it comes to watching pornography while in a relationship?They would gain social credit (Virtue signaling) by claiming they don’t watch porn, even to your sex positive group. Men are definitely not a hive mind, but most of us have testosterone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 12:40 AM |
| 2 | Is there double standard when it comes to watching pornography while in a relationship?They have no reason to be honest with you. It’s not that they need a reason to lie (although you clearly don’t view porn positively so they do have a reason to lie anyway). It’s quite cute that you think because you know his passwords he’s not watching porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 12:04 AM |
| -1 | Is there double standard when it comes to watching pornography while in a relationship?Hard disagree. You don’t mention gay porn and how that could be inherently misandrist. Can some pornography be misogynist? Absolutely. But saying it’s inherently misogynist is just silly. There are many actors who participate in the industry of their own volition. Should they not have the freedom to do what they want? That seems misogynist and authoritarian to me, “gotta save women from doing porn, even if they want to”. Now as for an addiction to pornography, sure I could clearly see how that w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Is there double standard when it comes to watching pornography while in a relationship?Nah, not projecting. Literally never met a man that didn’t watch porn at least occasionally. My wife watches more porn than I do, just for the record. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 11:36 PM |
| -4 | Is there double standard when it comes to watching pornography while in a relationship?Not dragging anyone “down” because most men watch porn. I think it’s telling that you think watching other people have sex is somehow immoral, “unclean”, or gross. What about porn gay porn? Amateur porn? Is all porn equally bad? Or is it just porn involving your sex.? You clearly have an agenda (your history is filled with anti-porn subreddits, which is fine tbh). I hope you similarly hold prohibitive views on all vices that can be abused such as: drugs/alcohol, gambling, shopping, social media … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Is there double standard when it comes to watching pornography while in a relationship?The only consequence is your displaying more asinine arguments. I am pointing out that you just did the same thing you chastised me for. You are a hypocrite, it’s not a consequence. Only thing we agree on here is we don’t want to be married to each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Is there double standard when it comes to watching pornography while in a relationship?If it’s a simple google search than I will patiently wait to see your references when you get off of work. Pretty rich for you to make assumption about my “depressing life” when you just rebuked me for assuming your man watches porn. I’m happily married 7 years, we’ve been together for 15, 2 children, and have a nice life together (you can check my comment history on daddit if you need verification). And I see your comment below disparaging other men on this sub have that have “never touched a w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 09:33 PM |
| -4 | Is there double standard when it comes to watching pornography while in a relationship?Your partner does indeed watch porn, he just lies to you. We can agree to disagree on this point. You’re missing one crucial word, addiction. Porn addiction may have a negative impact upon cognition. But please, cite the studies that show watching porn in moderate amounts 1-2/week causes a decline in cognition. Can’t bring up studies without the citation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 08:54 PM |
| -6 | Is there double standard when it comes to watching pornography while in a relationship?Porn is not poison, your hyperbole is absurd. Doing anything where you feel compelled to sit and it interferes with your work, school, or relationships is the bad part. But, it doesn’t have to be porn. By your logic all men would be poisoned. Your male partner (or future partner) watches porn, even if you are having regular sex. Get over it. Edit: okchicken has reported me to the Reddit cares people? I don’t even know what this is? Something for people that are suicidal or having a mental health… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 08:20 PM |
| 5 | How would you react if your partner wanted to try non-monogamy?I’m reading your replies, you seem to be the rude one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 09:17 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about women who have "no ONS" written in their tinder bio?To me it means that she has had ONS in the past, but has trouble dealing with the lack of connection that she may have expected after. She probably likes to have sex but just doesn’t want to feel pumped and dumped or like a slut. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 01:57 PM |
| 24 | Moms are hurting their sons by telling them lies about women and datingMy mom kinda did the opposite of this: she told me that I was gonna “drive the girls crazy” (gave me confidence when I was younger), told me that any women who was with me was “lucky”, and that “women aren’t any different from men, they want to find someone too but have to be careful of men taking advantage of them.” Her best advice was that I should pay attention to how women treat me more than what they say especially when there is a conflict. She also got really mad at me once when I had some… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 01:51 PM |
| 1 | How many of you or your friends would be open to a sugar relationship?My B, missed that one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/22 06:31 PM |
| 1 | How many of you or your friends would be open to a sugar relationship?Couldn’t do it. The knowledge that this woman is not fundamentally attracted to me (rather then my money) would ruin it for me. I would prefer to have 7/10 who was genuinely into me for me than a 10/10 who just wants some new purse or something. Now if I was single and a younger girl just wanted to have a good time, live at my house/condo, drive my cars, and generally attach themselves to my lifestyle while providing companionship and having fun with me? Yeah I’d be all for that. But as soon as … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/22 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Women are too extremely fickle and flakey for regular guys to have a chance in this day and ageHey man, you’ve got it all wrong. It’s not that she’s fickle, you just aren’t that attractive to her. You are blaming women for how the sexual/romantic marketplace works. It’s not their fault, it just reality. Work on yourself, talk to other women, eventually you will find someone who IS interested in you. Don’t hate the player, hate the game. (Or maybe don’t hate the player, don’t hate the game, just understand your reality as objectively as possible and adjust your strategy) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Are teen boys shut-in nowadays?It still attracts women. . . No one wants to date someone who is unproductive and can’t earn a living. While it’s definitely not the end all of attraction (looks, status, charisma play a significant role too) I think it’s still a basic qualification to begin dateable. Could you explain why this isn’t the case? Your comment surprised me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 07:32 PM |
| 2 | The Wisdom Of GayLubeOil Put My Penis Inside 5 LatinasHey firstly I don’t give a shit about your politics. I am curious though if you share your politics with women and how they are received. If you do share politics with women do you think it’s helping or hurting? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/22 05:59 PM |
| 0 | Red pill dudes are quite literally the easiest people to scam and don’t have much capacity for individual thoughtWhat is wrong with trading things for money? Sure this guy may lose money or make money trading eth but what does it matter? You don’t have to believe in crypto to trade it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Red pill dudes are quite literally the easiest people to scam and don’t have much capacity for individual thoughtSo what? Can’t believe this is what you took issue with. Plenty of people trade crypto. Some make money, many lose it. Whether you think there is a use case for crypto or not, you should understand that you can indeed make money trading crypto, just like you can make money from trading baseball cards, stamps, or stocks. It’s not for me but that doesn’t mean I would attack someone for giving it a go. Especially when you are decrying group think. Pot calling the kettle black hmm? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 06:53 PM |
| 3 | Do you personally know someone who had problems finding a long-term relationship because of past promiscuity?Two of my male friends have broken up with women over their sexual history. One was told by his GF that she had a triple digit N count and he immediately broke up with her. He had a very low N count and was a hyponchondriac about STIs. The other friend I know didn’t have a problem with his lady’s high N count per say but broke up with her because she wouldn’t participate in sex acts that she had done many times before but refused to do with him. He was “getting cucked” in his words. Personally N… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 04:14 PM |
| 14 | Are men capable of raising kids by themselves?Go become a big brother/big sister if you think you might want to have kids. I recommend it for any prospective parent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 09:35 PM |
| 2 | “When men sleep around no one cares, in fact, it’s almost applauded. Yet when women sleep around, she’s considered promiscuous and shamed for it.” Sorry ladies, it’s not the same thing, no matter how much you want it to beJust whoa | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 02:53 PM |
| 6 | No "issues" presented by TRP are solvable without also compromising the idea that women deserve equal rights to men.I think your whole argument is one giant assumption. The premise of RP is hypergamy. Why should a woman’s work or political autonomy be limited because of hypergamy. Here is my assumption/hunch about your argument: you think all RPers are conservative religious traditionalists. You are lumping in RPers with the latter and assuming they share the same views about women’s rights. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 09:36 PM |
| 5 | No "issues" presented by TRP are solvable without also compromising the idea that women deserve equal rights to men.Okay thanks for saying it clearly. Obviously RP isn’t a monolith and there ARE indeed some misogynists in that community. I’ve honestly never read any RP stuff about how women shouldn’t work. Same with voting. I think you’re making some assumptions here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 09:20 PM |
| 3 | No "issues" presented by TRP are solvable without also compromising the idea that women deserve equal rights to men.They are not advocating for social change in any way. They are focused on their relationships with women. Obviously I think you’re wrong but if you have an argument you should flesh it out. What social change do you see them covertly advocating for? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 09:06 PM |
| 7 | No "issues" presented by TRP are solvable without also compromising the idea that women deserve equal rights to men.Could you elaborate on the “implied solutions to their views part”. RPers are not advocating for social reform/change as far as I know. As for the nostalgia bit, I don’t think many RPers grew up in the 1950s, many are young men in their 20s and 30s. What time period would they be nostalgic for, 80-90s? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 08:57 PM |
| 23 | No "issues" presented by TRP are solvable without also compromising the idea that women deserve equal rights to men.As some have already stated TRP is about understanding the true nature of sexual marketplace, the various sexual strategies of men and women, and using this knowledge to your advantage for success. Most RPers have no problem with hypergamy itself. The logic is you’re not going to change social and biological sexual behavior, all you can do is understand it. I’ve never heard of any RPer talk about taking rights away from women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 07:13 PM |
| 6 | What's the best piece of dating advice given to you (that worked) and did it come from a man or woman?I here this advice a lot, just be yourself. Problem is if you are socially awkward, boring, a loser etc. you aren’t gonna attract people. You have to become your better self, not fake it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/22 12:32 AM |
| 2 | Is it stupid for young guys (18-25) to be in a relationship if they can easily find casual sex? (Sowing wild oats)Look for a wife when you’re ready to have children. Sowing your wild oats is hugely important for people. Helps you find what you like in a partner. So until your ready to start a family, get out there and meet some people! As far as the particular types of relationships you have before you’re married that’s up to you. A good mix of casual sex and medium term relationships sounds reasonable. I wouldn’t date anyone longer than six months unless you were really enjoying their company and thought t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/22 09:35 PM |
| 1 | If women are Hypergamous, manosphere men want thatYou are looking at this all wrong IMO. It’s not about what any particular individual or group wants. It’s about understanding the true reality of intersexual dynamics, knowing what your place is within that dynamic, and using this knowledge to your benefit. Even if an individual person does not subscribe to the philosophy of hypergamy, they most likely will still be influenced by it as they are competing for partners in an environment where it is present (whether it’s desired or not doesn’t matt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 04:22 PM |
| 3 | What would your recommended course of action be for a man in a similar situation?I would keep doing all those self improvement things (lifting, fashion, finance, social life/charisma etc) but I would quit doing dating apps/services. Women have a higher looks threshold and you aren’t going to pass their bar unfortunately. I would have 2 strategies that I would pursue in parallel. Strategy 1: Cultivate a social circle of women. Actually be friends with them, don’t be an orbiter or a simp, and don’t let anyone “use” you. But do be actual friends. Host some cocktail parties/brun… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 03:58 PM |
| 1 | I feel worse than George CostanzaNot sad, I just disagree with you. It’s okay we don’t have to agree, but I do want OP to see my comment and know that some people think yours is misguided. Now if you said, “sounds like you have some symptoms of low T, why don’t you get tested” that would be at least reasonable, even though low T in young men is uncommon. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/22 03:11 PM |
| 0 | I feel worse than George CostanzaYou seriously recommending anabolic steroids to a gym novice? Don’t even think of trying steroids until you have 4-5 solid years of lifting, have an amazing diet, get 8 hrs of sleep every night, and have completely stalled in your gains. Fucking retards: let’s paper over this guys personality flaws, lack of ambition, and poor physique with . . . Steroids? Jfc | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/22 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Is hiring a hooker really the end goal for sexless men?Ok I get it. You’re saying it’s a “bonus” for some manipulative men but not the main goal. I responded to you because hurting woman is not the goal of many men, they just want sex. Basically I thought you were saying their motives are more complex and they actually are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Is hiring a hooker really the end goal for sexless men?Yes, just like I’ve never heard/met a woman that just wants to destroy a guys self esteem. I definitely have seen and experienced women and men that wanted something out of their love interest. But the typical ones are sex, money, and social capital. I’ve never met/dated/or heard of someone that dates others just to make them feel bad. Now not caring how the other person feels? I’ve definitely seen that. But dating just to put someone else down, no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Is hiring a hooker really the end goal for sexless men?I’ve literally never heard of a man or even sensed this goal of “damaging someone’s self esteem”. Sure there are jerks out there that want to have sex with many women but the goal is sex not to make someone feel bad. I’m sure they also enjoy the validation that comes along with being desired but wanting a woman to have bad self esteem? Just doesn’t seem realistic to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 01:32 PM |
| 2 | Guys, why are you so easily influenced by sex?It’s all testosterone. That’s why you just don’t get it. Testosterone also use a medical libido enhancer in women (I believe they have a foam or cream that is used for this purpose). Go look at stories from FTM who have transitioned. They talk about how testosterone changed the way you think and feel (not to mention the way they look). There is a this American life story about one such man and their experience. Even worth listening if you’re a guy. Pretty eye opening | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Why are most divorces initiated by women rather than the man?They don’t want to lose 50% of their net worth. Sunk cost fallacy. /endthread | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 08:12 PM |
| 1 | High earners of PPD.My wife and I both make decent money but I work and earn about 3x that she does. My wife doesn’t need to work but wants to keep up we skills and use her professional degree. She is home more and thus does more childcare and housework. I typically do all the repairs, lawn work, and gross stuff. She typically does cooking for the kids and laundry. We have a cleaner come once a week. We both do the dishes and I tend to pick up the kids mess/toys after bedtime while she is at the sink. My wife is me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/22 03:40 PM |
| 2 | Q4Bluepill: In your opinion why do you think more Women iniate divorce than men?Men don’t want to lose half their income. It’s cheaper to cheat. Men don’t want a custody battle that they will likely lose These are the factors that men I know mention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/22 03:01 PM |
| 3 | What do you do if you are an unattractive commitment phobic man who doesn't want to visit sex workers?This guys physique is entirely attainable without steroids. He has a good amount of muscle mass and a low body fat percentage. Careful dieting and some basic strength training can create this look easily. Congratulations on your hard work OP. I am also a natural body builder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 01:44 PM |
| 1 | The average young man is boring, easily manipulated, and desperate, and this is why they can't get a ladyI see your point. But I’ve met this type of person before and their only goal in life is to make it to the next season and have a good time. Not saying there is anything wrong with video games , weed, or skiing. But much like anything in life, when your identity revolves around a couple of activities and you have no ambition, I think that makes you a “bum”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 04:01 PM |
| 1 | The average young man is boring, easily manipulated, and desperate, and this is why they can't get a ladyThese young men seem like they are lost. By choosing to examine men from the seasonal resort worker pool, you are already looking at a lower caliber of person (this isn’t a judgement mind you, im generalizing). Then you pick two dudes that clearly have bad strategies. Cowboy guy is trying to be the nicest guy which we all know doesn’t work, and ski bum is just that, a bum. He has no long term plans and is taking immediate gratification as it comes. He is bitter and sexist because because he is a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 02:25 AM |
| 2 | Approximately 75% of college aged women who've hooked up have regrets about itIf you have no regrets, you haven’t lived. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 03:34 PM |
| 4 | I think it's high time the men in this subreddit learn to accept reality.Women aren’t only valued for their beauty, this is just a straw man argument. Personally when I was looking for a mate my criteria were: intelligence, emotional stability, attractiveness/health, and “fun”. Most men who have dated more than 10 women can tell you that the most attractive women aren’t fun and often aren’t smart either. It gets dull after a while. If you’re a man looking for a a wife and you’re only dating for looks, you’re gonna have a bad time (and lose half your money!) Everyone … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 03:27 PM |
| 0 | Men here really act as if they wouldn't take advantage of their youth and good looks by sleeping around when they're young, like their female counterparts (if they could).The meaningless sex IS the achievement | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 08:32 PM |
| 26 | How could reproductive rights in the West be more slanted towards women?Paid maternity leave is better than no maternity leave but to actually make it fair for both men and women in the workplace it needs to be mandatory parental leave. Same amount of time for each parent. As it is now mostly women take maternity leave, men get ahead in their career while their theoretical competition is taking care of the baby. This furthers the idea (and reality) that women do most of the childcare. Also if you’re a man, taking lengthy paternity leave is looked down upon as weak o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 01:15 AM |
| 7 | Women have no clue how much effort men put into achieving a top physiqueI thought this was sarcastic at first but it’s not? Here are my 2 cents after 5 years of diving into fitness hard when I realized I was skinny fat: Women can have a decent physique through proper nutrition alone. My definition of decent for a woman is <20% body fat. This can be accomplished by dieting alone, you don’t actually need to exercise if you stick to your nutrition macros. Not saying this is easy, sticking to a diet that has a caloric deficit requires a lot of discipline. But it is simp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 05:52 AM |
| 1 | If the Military Draft is reintroduced do you think it should include Woman?Oh okay, no men are saying that outside of a couple of incels on message boards. That is not a mainstream thought. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 09:16 PM |
| 1 | If the Military Draft is reintroduced do you think it should include Woman?Most men don’t want to “rape and pillage” anything. Even the most typical “alpha” bro doesn’t look forward to hurting someone innocent. It’s also unrealistic that you think women don’t use violence to solve problems (albeit probably less often than men). Sitting at the park with the guys and having a couple of beers sounds much better. Also, what is a surplus man? Actually, what is a surplus person? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 06:34 PM |
| 1 | If the Military Draft is reintroduced do you think it should include Woman?I’m in favor of the draft but I think it should be for people from 35-50. I don’t care who fights along side me as long as they are fit enough. Fuck sending our young men to die. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 06:28 PM |
| 2 | How many “triple 6” men do you know?I don’t think having a six pack is exactly easy. I know plenty of people who are fit, go to the gym regularly, and watch their calories who do not have a six pack. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/22 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Feminism in Medical SchoolFellow med student here Those T shirts are blatantly obnoxious and incendiary. I wonder what feminist principle they further, men hating feminists? What I think is more interesting however is the development of these "women in medicine" clubs. The justification that I have heard for them are: (1) medicine is a boy's club, we women need our own club (2) we need a women'c club because women have the added pressure of raising children while still taking on a professional career (3) women need to ne… | /r/MensRights | 09/03/10 09:24 PM |
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