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Question For WomenShebalied/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 01:21 PM
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The whole point of OF is attention and interacting with them. lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 06:52 PM
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Both. Paying for it is not the problem. You can pay for it by using a normal non-personal system. They get paid by adverts. Do you pay for all the content you use on youtube? It is all parasocial.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 05:27 PM
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Trying to justify that type of behavior as good or acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 04:58 PM
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You try so hard to just argue to make up shit in your head. I said that shit is creepy and degenerate, and guys would be better off without doing it. You are the one pushing it is OK to sub to OF and E girls lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 04:42 PM
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How about you go post in TXC and see what all the other women think there. You are living in a la la land. Women will support women who do OF, but they view men using OF as a red flag. That is the end of the story. There is nothing else to talk about. https://www.vice.com/en/article/is-subscribing-to-onlyfans-cheating-the-internet-cant-decide/ https://www.abc.net.au/news/2021-03-05/is-subscribing-to-onlyfans-cheating/100008382
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 04:01 PM
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There’s something uncomfortable about knowing that they are deliberately seeking out one particular woman, spending money on her, and potentially making her part of his regular sexual routine. It can make you wonder what exactly he’s getting from the subscription and why he feels the need to pay for that kind of interaction. It is a HUGE red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 03:49 PM
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The whole point of it is to make it personal. That is the whole reason, you are getting to know the person, you are spending money on them. It crosses the line. If you ask 100 women if that shit is a red flag 90% of the women will be like yes. Stop trying to make creepy shit normal. Same thing with dudes being a T 3 sub to pokimane.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 03:38 PM
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They both go hand in hand. It is not just one part. If you pay for OF you are strange af. Nothing else needs to be said. Stop giving these women your attention and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 03:08 PM
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NO. WTF drugs are you on? It is fucking desperate AF spending money on someone to be friends with you and pretend to like you. You must be an OF model trying to drum up new fans. That shit is strange as fuck, just like people who spend money to chat to streamers and try to be friends with them. Paying someone to give you attention is the main part of being a simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 03:00 PM
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Nothing would give a girl the ick faster than a guy paying for porn... lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 02:50 PM
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If you are a man and pay for an OF... You are a simp. Easy. If you spend money on women for attention and you are not good friends or "talking" you are a simp. It is fine if you take her out to dinner, but if you are always the one paying, that is simpish. It is different from Hey, I want to see X movie, but none of my other friends are around. Do you want to go? I feel that is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 01:52 PM
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Simps ruined everything. They are up there with incels. Most of them are incels, but without hating women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 12:18 PM
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It is a red flag. If a person has not talked to a girl in just one-on-one time, not dating, that is a red flag. That means they likely don't have the ability to feel comfortable around the other sex. Growing up, having girls who are just friends is very helpful in letting you know how to understand them or communicate with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 11:46 AM
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It is really strange and a red flag to other issues. Never speaking to a girl or talking to one alone is strange as fuck. There are lots of guys who are 18-25 who tick that box.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 03:40 AM
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Yes, this is right. The problem is few women do this. But they remember every time they were rejected because it is not that often. Women turn homophobic soo fast lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 05:07 PM
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The problem happens when they want to enter the dating market at 25 and never spoke with a girl. What girl wants to deal with that? It just leads to more of this and watch the whole thing. https://www.tiktok.com/@tellthebeees/video/7667403167604182285?_r=1&_t=ZT-98PZveHC8Qn
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 04:22 PM
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There is tons of truth to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 11:30 AM
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Yea. People laugh and joke, but places like Japan and Korea are going to have a problem in 20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 12:08 PM
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This. I can't tell you how many new friends I have met under the age of 25 who never had a girlfriend or even talked to a girl. WTF, get off of Fortnite and bullshit live.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 12:07 PM
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Yes, but some men are so stupid they will do anything. Sadly, those guys ruin everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 09:45 AM
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congrats!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 01:50 PM
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That is all I want others to understand. If you see a guy who is hot on a dating app you need to be thinking.... why are they on there. Just highly likely for hooking up. The guys hookup with girls who are on a lower level than them too. They are never hooking up with girls on their level or higher. Don't be a girl on a dating app trying to chase hot guys. Do that shit in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 01:24 PM
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Yea. Why would a guy who is attractive and likely has zero problem meeting women need a dating app for anything but just easy hookups. People need to think. lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 01:06 PM
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They are out there, but if their ELO is high you won't see them lol. Also, high ELO ranked men will likely be dating around as they will have options.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 12:46 PM
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Congrats... that makes you part of the problem. You know the apps have a dating elo. They rank you and match you with men who other women want to match with. So, if you are a woman on a dating app and the men are not attractive, it likely because the attractive men with good elo's don't find you attractive. That is the issue most women don't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 12:36 PM
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Umm. They are not getting matches. Men's and women's matches / like rates are not even close. The game is pretty shitty if you don't know what you are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 12:20 PM
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No, men are not. Dating apps are like 80% men, and most young zoomer men have never even dated a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 12:17 PM
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That might be true, but women are in the driver's seat. They get to be the choosers; meanwhile, most men are hoping they get a nibble, not even thinking about catching a fish.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 09:18 PM
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sounds like you are ready to be a part of women hate men lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 09:07 PM
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If you listen to them, they are not attracted to 90% of men lmao. Shit is so crazy now because of social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 09:05 PM
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It is ok. You delulu lmao. All those single events are full of women. Men have their issues, but they know the problems. They just choose to do nothing about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 11:33 PM
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Ummm nooo. They do it all the time. When women date up, something has to give. Perfect example. https://www.boredpanda.com/man-voice-memo-second-date-ultimatum-modern-dating/ This guy is likely much more attractive than her; he feels he can do this without issues because he has a large list of women in his DM. The woman posted is not talking to unattractive losers without a good job. She does not have a ton of good options. A simp guy would never do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:32 PM
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lmao. They don't. You are legit crazy. The numbers don't prove it,you are living in la la land. More women are single and more guys are single. Women are single because they think they are too good for most of their looks matches. I broke it down for you, and even with loose numbers you fail. Supply and Demand. The options women want there are NOT enough. The ones they are talking to are talking to other women. In college it is crazy and I see it nonstop. It is funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:30 PM
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I just think you misunderstand everything. lol. The men who women find attractive are NOT looking to date. Those women don't want to hook up, but have to if they are going to get these higher guys to comment. It is much crazier now than ever before. For example, college. Most of them are 70% women and 30% men. Of those 30% men, a small number of women find them attractive. 10% of those men have the option to talk to lots of women, and those women are stuck chasing those men who are their age. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:10 PM
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That is not how it works. Women don't care about the BS value of sleeping with men. Women want to date, men want to sleep with them and not date most times. Most women overestimate their value on dating men. That is why in 2026 so many women are stuck in "what are we".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 06:57 PM
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You are confused, people want to sleep with her not marry or date her. Those two are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 04:30 PM
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Everything uses those terms lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:13 PM
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Well, let me help you. It says male or female. Not Man or Woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:50 PM
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No. It more than likely shows they are crazy and are the problem. If you heard a man talking about dating people and every ex they dated was the problem. That is a red flag. Same with ladies. If they say how all men are terrible and they have zero options... Their sign is they are the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 05:53 PM
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Because it is not reality. Not bothered, people just call out this BS people live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 05:52 PM
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In your dating profile does it say M or F? or does it say Man or Woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 05:49 PM
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Medical professionals use male and female. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 05:27 PM
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Females can't be replaced with the term woman, as anyone can be a woman. They can hate it, it is a term used by medical professionals.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 04:51 PM
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If a woman goes on a dating app and can't find a match out of 1000 guys.... They are the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:18 PM
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A lot of women don't view being hit on as counting if the person who is attracted to them is viewed as not attractive. You will see hundreds of females posting in am I ugly because nobody hits on them. When it turns out they get it on, just not by HOT guys they like. I did not say they should accept it. They should not pretend it does not happen because the guys they want don't want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:13 PM
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You said no man ever courted you. You can't have it both ways. You can't ignore men who simp for you because they are not your type. It does not change the fact someone was simping for you. The problem is simping is mostly only done for someone trying to get something they normally can't get.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:01 PM
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Rules 1 or 2. I am sure there is someone who liked you that would ignore lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:46 PM
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They can, but they have to downgrade. If you are an average-looking woman, you can get a below-average-looking simp. You likely won't get an average-looking simp. Being a woman, it is much easier to be attractive than a guy. More effort has to be done for a woman, but the results are better.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:35 PM
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Rule 1: Be attractive. Rule 2: Don't be unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:12 PM
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Rules 1 and 2. If you meet those, you will likely have simps. Most women tend to ignore them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:37 PM
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The men who are simping are likely the men you would ignore. The ones you don't find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:30 PM
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Yea. Guys in their 20's are fucking cooked. I can't tell you how many times I meet a new guy who is 20-25 and never dated a girl or had a gf. I am always like what you were doing. COVID really fucked up things for some people with regard to growth. Been seeing a lot of girls who graduated from college and are 23-25 dating guys who are in their early 30s because most guys they know in college were fuck boys or not attractive. The middle ground is pretty much gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 12:57 PM
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UK.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 12:53 PM
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You must not have many friends. Most people on reddit having like 20 friend's. lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 06:38 PM
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You never had a friend, guy or girl ask you not to tell others about someone they are talking to?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:52 PM
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Men would hide fat / ugly chicks they are only sleeping with. If they are dating most times it is different. Most men will sleep with anything. Dating is when they are picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:10 PM
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I think nobody blames them for standards. The problem is their standards are crazy, and you are seeing this currently in college. Colleges are 70/ 30 in a lot of places, and women are struggling to find men they find as attractive equals. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:54 PM
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Overall women care what people think of who they are talking to. Was talking to a friend and asked to see what this new guy she was talking to looked like. She was very embarrassed to show him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:51 PM
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You know it is because the people we are talking about have an overvalue of themselves. Girls think they are baddies because their friends use that shitty term. I will be the first to say most men put terrible effort into dating apps and creating profiles and pictures. Women are doing the same, but with all AI pictures and hiding the fact they put on a few pounds. My friend, she is about 240 lbs 5'4'' and wants to match with really athletic men. Then she gets mad when they never respond to her s…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:02 PM
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There is also data released by all dating apps that women left-swiped on 70% of men. Pointing to the fact that women are too picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:31 PM
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It is you. I do have a large friend group and only 1 or 2 really shy friends are like that. Most friend's are checking snap or ig to see if crush has looked at the story they sent. Their day can suck so bad if crush does not look at what they post or send. Seeing people with nonstop records on snap from send messages is crazy too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 05:09 PM
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I agree that on average most men have low effort or terrible pictures for dating profiles. Then you have the other hand, where women catfish most of their pictures and half the time don't look like their pictures. We are talking about a worldwide trend of women on ALL dating all. The problem is not ALL the men. Men are swiping at 50+ % meanwhile women are at 10%. Those 10% who are swiping most times are out of their league. Currently going through this with a friend. She is obese and thinks all …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 11:15 AM
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Oh wow. You are a 1000% wrong. There are men out there just trying to great a date. Then you have woman out there with 4 page letter of must-haves. It is not a false narrative; women are overly picky, and it has been proven they will not date or speak with anyone less than what they think they should have. Men are not the ones screaming "I won't settle."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 11:10 AM
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It is not a false narrative; it has been proven by all the big data that are released because they are public companies. They release the data on earnings calls. Women only swipe right 5-9% of the time. You think they are wasting those swipes on ugly men? Most women don't pay for the apps as well and are limited to swiping.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:29 PM
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So, are you going to use examples for women who are not the norm? That is pretty weak. For example, how can you use a trans woman as an example? That is a terrible example because a man would have to be okay with dating a person who was a male at one point. Even if they had bottom surgery, that is a lot for a person to get use to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 01:01 PM
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Are you obese or overweight? If yes, are you only looking to match with men of your type? Obese and overweight? Or you like my friend who is 5'3 and 240 lbs trying to match with men who are fit and women find attractive? My friend will bitch about men not liking her back because she is obese; meanwhile, she won't talk or date fat men because they give her the ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:57 PM
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I don't just mean dating, I mean everything. If you look at dating profiles most guys have, they are terrible. Can't even go out with a friend to take good pictures. Everything is a low effort selfie. I am sure everyone is burnt out, but it is not hard to meet new people if you know how. The problem is that most people don't know how to do it in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:50 AM
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Dating sucks if you don't meet rule 1 or rule 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 01:34 AM
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The problem is that dating app in 2014-2018 were pretty much like that. That was the point of them, and it was used by people in college. Then people started getting on it just for attention or friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 01:33 AM
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Dating might be garbage, but the amount of effort people put in now is wayyyy lower than before.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 01:31 AM
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Most women enjoy attention from MEN they like. Not creepy reddit guys. Currently, a friend is getting played like a yo-yo by this guy who has blown her off on dates for one month. She keeps trying to see him, even though he does not respect her time. Then there is another guy who likes her who she is not attracted to, but he is obsessed with her... She said she wishes the first guy was obsessed with her like the second guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 05:13 PM
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90% of women's cues are.... I looked at you twice. Let's not act like most women are doing real cues like eye contact and smiling or small chitchat. Some do, and it is a small amount.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 04:44 PM
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If a person is saying X or Y is nice, that is different, I feel, than a person saying they are nice. If a man or woman thinks they are nice and can't find a good partner, there is likely a reason why. I just think people mislabel true "nice" people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 04:50 PM
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This is bullshit. There are tons of people who I know are "NICE" people. They treat everyone the same and make someone's day better. For example, getting the door for someone. It does not matter if they are old, young, male, female, skinny or fat. Just doing something small and saying something pleasant is not the norm now and can make someone's day.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 02:37 PM
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This. "Choose better" is a thing; it is almost like people keep falling for the same shit. My friend is always choosing guys who treat her like a second thought. They don't reach out unless it is 1 am and they want to put their dick somewhere. She gets so happy when she hears a text message sometimes and then disappointed when it is not the person she wants it to be. They have been "talking" for a few months, and all it really is free sex for the guy and disappointment for her. She knows it is b…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 09:12 PM
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There are TONS saying it. Dating discussions online, podcasts, TikTok, Reddit, or interviews talk about men’s looks not being the most important factor. Women give examples of charisma, humor, or confidence outweighing conventional looks. “A man being kind and emotionally intelligent matters more.” “Women date based on emotional connection.” “Confidence matters more than looks.” “A funny guy instantly becomes more attractive.” “Personality can make a 5 become a 10.” “Women care more about how a …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 12:23 AM
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Not really. There is still a certain type of woman who requires princess treatment and doesn't like brokies. Most women are not interested in men who make less than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 12:16 AM
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You just wrote a ton of stuff saying nothing. Women are the ones saying it is not important. They are the ones gaslighting people, so they don't seem superficial. It is the number one thing, which is what I am saying. It looks like you agree. Just most women won't; they don't have to say it. Their actions do only swiping right on less than 10% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 07:08 PM
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They are the ones lying. Not me. I been screaming that looks is the first thing woman notice or care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 05:42 PM
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Because women are. They say things like that so they don't seem as superficial as men. "LOOKS Don't MATTER" "Looks are the last thing I notice in a partner".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 05:38 PM
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In TXC they will kill you if you say pick better. You will be insta banned. That community is 10 x bigger than whatever bs small red pill shit is. Red pill crap is like 1% of men. TXC is like 40% of women lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 05:17 PM
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Yes. Men tell other men to stop picking gold diggers or women who use you. Women are always the ones who feel attacked when told to choose better.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 04:57 PM
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Bingo. They won't ever pick an uggo even if it is everything else they want, but one small thing.... looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 04:56 PM
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It always comes to rule 1 and 2. Most times these people who are saying that know the person is NOT attractive and just trying to be nice. Which is pretty much shitty. It is always Rules 1 and 2. Always.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 02:09 PM
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It has nothing to do with DEFENDING a cheater. It is more you date a person who is a known cheater; you don't get to use the "I could have never seen this happening." If you date a known thief, it is only a matter of time before they steal from you. Don't get mad when a person has spent a lifetime type of showing you what type of person they are, then get mad when it is confirmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:21 PM
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You are crazy if you get that from their post. It is more women who get mad when they find out a tiger cannot change its stripes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:27 PM
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I both sides need to get offline and stop trying to follow what other people are doing. Don't listen to Wizard Liz or MJ Gray, none of those grifters. Both said getting married is a trap for women, then this girl got married to a man in less than 8 months lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 04:05 PM
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The same can be said for women. The problem is that women are glued online. Women under 30 have TikTok brain, and most of them are mind rot swiping. Not saying all of them, just a large amount. So the odds are that they are into the things you said and other things like manifesting etc. is high.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:54 PM
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I agree with a lot you said. The problem is shit like call me daddy which millions of women love, it has ruined everything you said. Then all the tik tok girlies out there are giving bad advice too. RIP.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:30 PM
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It happens all the time still. It just happens more when women are under 25 because if you want someone in that age group, there are not a lot of options. Women in college only have 20-30% men in their age group without removing men they are not interested in or men who are taken. That leaves a small % of men most women are attracted to and have to fight over.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:29 PM
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Women are likely to feel used because they are sometimes using "sex" as a way to get the person they are interested in to be in a relationship with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 01:53 PM
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Yuck. That is pretty gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 03:45 PM
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Umm. I think most men accept that. That is why they do dumb things to get taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 03:44 PM
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And they get robbed all the time by their people. I think Tim Duncan got robbed of 50 million by his accountant lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 11:50 AM
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women start dating up when they’re out of college for the most part , I’ve dated guys 5 years older than me but th This is how it is. Currently zoomer men are fucking losers. More zoomer women are college-educated and not interested in men without an education. The amount of men zoomers women have options to get is smaller and smaller. Some colleges are 70% women. Most guys are college dropouts or HS dropouts playing fortnite with the boys. Girls are not interested in that shit and will start da…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 08:15 PM
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Yea. OP is a moron. I know tons of girls who are 22-25 who are sick of the loser boys who don't have job or not focused on anything. Then you got the fuck boi's who date 5 other women. It is very common to see women who are done with college dating a man older than them. Not 40's but for sure 28-35. My friend is currently dating a guy who is 35 and she is 22.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 08:05 PM
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They can't. I bet they can use vibes tho lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 09:46 PM
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Umm. Unattractive women still have options. I always laugh when people act like women can't get any options. You can be unattractive, and it be fine. You can't be both, fat and unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 01:58 PM
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This is the biggest thing. Men chasing women who are NOT interested in them. Just don't talk to women unless they show signs they are interested in you. Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 01:52 PM
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Always choose bad men. It is not like they are choosing just one bad one. Fool me twice you can't be fooled again.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 04:54 PM
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True. Add in the fact people are more impatient and want things now.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 12:31 PM
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This is what people don't see. Women are going to college meanwhile most men under 25 got left behind due to covid and other reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 08:17 PM
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Yea. People are dumb today sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 11:25 PM
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I agree with you. Reddit is cooked now so, oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 11:25 PM
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This is the most common answer. I feel if guys said this, they would be listed as transphobes, though. Which it should not be.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 09:21 PM
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The problem is most women are going after the same men. Most are only interested in a small group of men. It can be different type of men, but still a small group of them. Like if a women is into men with tats, it is only going to 5-10% of men who have tats they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 08:46 PM
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Sounds like you were just shit at picking a good partner man or women. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 01:14 PM
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No. It is not from that. It is more likely because girls are watching things like "Call Me Daddy" and other shows like that. Or listen to Cardie B or TikTok people. It is the same as dumb guys who listen to Andrew Tate and Fresh and stupid. Social media & influencer culture (the biggest accelerator) of these types of things. Platforms like Instagram and TikTok basically created and spread the aesthetic. We are now starting to see “Soft girl” / “lazy girl” trends. Feminism is now packaged as conf…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 05:11 PM
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I don't think you understood what he said or you did not read it. Working or having a job is fine. Making it your whole personality is different. It is like when a guy makes hunting or sports their whole personality. It is too much and puts people off, but a small group of people. Just like with looksmaxxers. Nobody wants to date a POS like that Clav guy, girls think he might be hot, but he is dead inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 04:38 PM
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it’s more like a shift in social norms over the last decade. A few big factors explain why “cold approaching” (talking to a stranger with romantic intent) is more discouraged now: Greater awareness of safety & harassment Movements like Me Too movement raised awareness about how often women experience unwanted attention. What some men saw as harmless can feel uncomfortable or even threatening depending on context, tone, or persistence. First thing in chat gtp.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 11:42 PM
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Did not work.... aka hundreds of years haha. It works when you follow rules 1 and 2 of dating. It does not work with younger men because they were told not to talk to women aka me too stuff. Add in the fact younger men under the age of 25 lack social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 08:34 PM
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How did I contradict myself. Fewer men are coming up to women; if you are under 25 and male, you are less likely to come up to a woman vs someone who is over 30. It is still a fact that a pretty woman will get approached. They don't need to do anything, just exist most times.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 08:18 PM
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I don't think you can read. You must have responded without understanding what I said. Looks are important. You can't argue facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 06:36 PM
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OLD is how the majority of people meet now. Sorry to have to say that. If you are single now, most people will likely have to do use that if you are a man. Women can just live life and have people come up to you. Men have to make the first move, and people are told now not to approach women, so OLD is the default now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 06:34 PM
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So many woman say looks are not important to men close in their lives aka friend's. It is cope and BS. Most people looks is the first check in the vibe check. The second is can the guy speak, or is he strange or goofy. They want someone who is able to listen and talk and not say "lowkey" every 30 seconds or bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 05:21 PM
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Most of the BS they say does not. Go create a profile online for bumble and use a normal guy, and you can fail just like others. Being able to attract women is a gift and not easy to do. The advice that a woman can say which can work is the following. Telling a man to improve the way he dresses. Grooming, your facial hair and always a neat hair cut. Working out some. Be able to engage and talk to a woman, and the most important part..... LISTEN to what they say and ask questions when they talk. …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 05:18 PM
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Just stop. Looks matter. They matter a ton to women under the age of 30. If not for looks that dumb ass Clav would offer nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 04:46 PM
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Lmao, so many women are about to be triggered about what you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 04:44 PM
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Most women's advice doesn't apply to normal men. That is why it never works.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 04:43 PM
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Can confirm with a few of my friends. They are 28 and 3 or 4 of them went on a date only with lawyers or doctors. All of them are cute solid 7's. Almost all of them got ghosted once they hooked up. One of the guys said to my friend, "Hey, I am 28 and a lawyer; I am not looking to settle down after working this hard" lmao. They learned, but it took almost 1 full year of hinge dating to learn it is not likely to get a guy like that who they find attractive and a good job.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 11:08 PM
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I gave you the legit COPY PASTE OF IT. Use Chat GPT. So lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 01:29 PM
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Go google for yourself lazy. Fucking you have AI and can't even look for the info I copy and pasted in less than 5 second.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 12:57 PM
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Yes, they do. They ( match group does ). They don't list black, white, etc. I legit posted the data sets and you are still talking. smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 03:10 PM
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Not true at all. Those companies are PUBLICLY TRADED COMPANIES and have to give the data to thier share holders. Just like video game companies have to give data on their games and how many active users they have. Current gender breakdown (most recent data) ~75% men ~24–25% women ~1% non-binary / undisclosed How that’s typically described in investor context Roughly a 3:1 male-to-female ratio Often highlighted as a core imbalance issue affecting: Regional differences: Some markets closer to 50/5…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 02:50 PM
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That is true. Part of that is because dating apps are 70-80% men. The numbers are different in other countries, where the amount of women on the apps is 40% or higher. Tinder in 2014-2015 was fine. You really never had the issues you do today because the apps are tweaked to make money off of men because they are the paying customers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 02:20 PM
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It might be a bit over simplified, but whenever someone I know, guy or girl is having issues on the dating market it is one or two of those options. My one friend, she is about 5'2'' 230 lbs and she is looking for fit, cute guy only to go on dates with via apps. The apps are based on an ELO and hers is really low, so the men she gets matched with are 3/4's. She hates it. Easy solution: work out. My guy friend who has the same issue on dating apps, I looked at it. Worst pictures I think I have se…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 02:03 PM
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Most guys are too dumb to understand some of your points. If a person were attracted to them, they would do the things you listed. Most times men are trying to talk to someone not interested in them, and guys are trying to win them over by gifts and attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 01:32 PM
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Women bitch nonstop about NOT finding good options. If they can't find any good options it means they are the problem. Same with men. If a man can't get A girl to talk to them they are doing something wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 12:54 PM
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Because if a girl does not do that, she is not interested. If you gotta reach out and do all the lifting, they are not feeling it. If they find you hot enough they will do the work. Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 09:02 PM
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If a guy walks up and gets your contact info. Then send a first message saying it is nice to meet you. He did his part; now you should do yours by reaching out and asking to go on a date. This is what is called "equality."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 07:21 PM
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It is not begging; it is a woman putting in the same effort. We know it does not work because it is why Bumble failed. Most women like the dopamine kick from being chased. You are right, most women don't like it. It is why you see the crash out of some women online / social media with nobody giving them attention when they go out dressed to the 10's.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 06:35 PM
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Women will have to start doing more is all. We are seeing it now at single events. Full of women only and 5-6 guys. Same with colleges or women online bitching about having to make the first move. It won't be a huge change, just different than what it was 10 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 05:50 PM
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Most colleges are a 70 30 split of women to men. Not all women are going to find good options. Men under 25 are terrible at starting a conversation with women. It is horrible. Not all men, just more than normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 04:15 PM
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Not true at all. Keep thinking that. Women in college are all playing musical chairs, trying to get a seat with a good guy, which is rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:48 PM
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That is not true at all. Rules 1 and 2. Women will only do it for men they find attractive. Attention is like currency; if men do not start giving it out for free, more women will start looking for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:27 PM
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That is the best thing to do. It is also easy to say this if you fall under rules 1 and 2 of Reddit dating. I get guys are thirsty, but chill out lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:09 PM
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If you meet a girl get their number, send them a text once saying, "Nice to meet you," but then tell them to reach out if they want to hang out. If they reach out and put in the effort, they want to do something.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 01:13 PM
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Better yet, young men stop simping at begging women for attention. Don't even reach out; let them put in the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 12:58 PM
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Way to put words in someone's mouth. Who did I call ugly? This is the problem: you and terrible internet people like to label someone as average as ugly. Being a 4 or 5 is not ugly at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 12:57 PM
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Most women overrate themselves. Men don't. You might think you are a 6 or 7. Men likely think you are a 4 or 5. Type can have something to do with it, but we are talking if a person like fit women or thick women. Or women into sports or mask women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 06:54 PM
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Umm. women know a fuck boy when they see them but still choose to hook up with or date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 08:50 PM
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Men under 30 are not meeting outside of OLD. 60% of men are single in that listed age group. You are thinking about all the older people who knew what life was like before OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 08:33 PM
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It is HARDER for men to find women. That is why there are so many more men in American on dating apps. In the EU and other areas it is more balanced more 60/40 than in the US 70 or 80 % men. Women don't need dating apps, they just wake up and live life and have options. Most men can't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 02:43 PM
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Yup. They ruin it for everyone. It is kinda crazy how much there has been a shift in just 10 years. Dating now is crazy vs how it was in 2015's. Everyone thinks they are too good for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 01:09 PM
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That is almost how it goes. You never see the guys girls want do anything like that. It is almost always guys who never had a chance with whatever women it is they are simping for and giving endless attention. It has only gotten worse in the last 10 years. Add in dating apps and it is now at an all time high.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:50 PM
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Better yet, if men stopped giving every woman attention. Stop simping and getting woman free attention online and in person. Just ignore them. That is what needs to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:32 PM
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I feel like people never understand all that stuff. If you are attractive it does not fucking matter what you do. Most women will take a risk, more likely if the woman is mid or has a kid they will ignore red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 07:30 PM
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There is a small group of men who sleep around. It is in the % of men women find attractive. Men can't sleep around if women stopped picking that type lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 05:16 PM
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And I said that. You don't see ugly men on dating apps now unless you are not that attractive. Most of them use ELO. It gives each user a hidden score based on performance. On dating apps, when someone swipes right on you, it’s like a “win.” If a highly rated person likes you, your score increases more. If you’re swiped left often, your score may drop. Apps then mostly show you people with similar scores.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 01:34 PM
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Learn how to internet so companies don't use you as a product marketing. You use browsers like brave, don't own an account, disable ad personalizations, VPN. It is very easy to find out ways to prevent that crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 01:30 PM
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All you do is assume and project lmao. Keep on doing it lol. Get off of reddit you are not built for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 09:11 PM
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No. I am not in an algorithm. I love how you just ASSume stuff. You really are good at that. See since you likely only get content from echo chambers you really have no clue. You are the living day person with the head in the ground lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 07:21 PM
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It is nonstop over tik tok. NONSTOP! I hear it from tons of college-aged friends who are 21-28. I know a lot of them are dating men in their early 30's and options are terrible, as most colleges are 80% women. Most guys who women find attractive in that age group are talking to 3-4 women, and I can't tell you how often women think hooking up with the guy might lead to a relationship. Guess what, it does not. I have zero bitterness. I just call out your BS with facts which shit you like to ignore…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 05:28 PM
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No. I don't give a crap. It is funny see so many women online crying about no good choices or where have all the good men gone. It does not irk me at all. It is funny. A joke. I laugh. I have zero issues. But watching all the TikTokers melt down is great. Men have their issues too, and I roast them for it as well. Men zoomers are pretty much pointless. Living with their parents, no real job, or goals. No dating market value and just stuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 05:08 PM
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The reason women are picky is because of social media and online. They see people and think oh I should have that. I can't tell you how many women I know who live in lala land waiting for the perfect guy. You don't find the perfect guy you make the perfect guy. You grow together and learn. That is the problem. People are looking for perfect; instead, what they are getting is used or nothing. I can't tell you how many overweight mid lady friends getting used because they matched up with a good-lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 03:53 PM
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Men are not swiping on everyone. Not everyone is trying to fuck everyone. You sound silly. Would you like for me to say all the women are looking to find a sugar daddy or someone to just buy them dinner for the night. Get out whatever echo chamber you are in. The fact is women are super picky on dating apps and IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 03:25 PM
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Do you just hate truth and facts? Do you always just ignore data? Do you like living in a false world? It has been shown time and time again on all dating metrics that on average women right swipe anywhere from 5-8% on men. Meanwhile, men will swipe right on 40-50% of the women. It is like this each year when the data gets released from bumble or tinder or any of the match group apps. Stop trying to lie. Women on dating apps are picky. It can also be said most men put in poor effort on dating ap…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:16 PM
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WRONG! It has been released by ALL major dating app companies that women only swipe on less than 5-7% of men. But I guess we should just trust some random person online vs a publicly traded company. We see tons of women posting their dating insights and you can always tell a man vs a women. It is very easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:00 PM
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The amount of women who argue that looks don't matter is funny. The internet has been a thing for so long and the reddit rules 1 and 2 have been around forever. They will never go away. Rule 1. Be Attractive. Rule 2. Don't be unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 01:53 PM
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lmao. Damn. RIP. The internet really just make shit worse now. With bots and algorithms, shit can feel really bad. Nothing is better than meeting people in person, but you need to be good at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 12:59 PM
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Yes. Something happened post covid. It is kinda funny to see. I can't tell you how many girls I see posting on social media or reddit asking if they are ugly because no guy has ever asked them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 12:49 PM
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Sorry. It's insane how many men between the ages of 19 and 25 are fucking losers these days. You are in a losing battle if you are a woman going to college. There are far too many terrible options with guys. They are unable to communicate with women. Incapable of leading any meaningful conversation, awkward, not sure because of post covid and lastly, no real drive for a future. It feels like men were already behind women with development, and now it is even worse. The options on college men are …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 12:38 PM
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This is not true at all. Maybe with the chads or guys who the women are attracted to. The average or below average can't even get a match, let alone think of hookups lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 02:58 AM
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This happens a lot. Most women don't want to say it, but won't date non white men or white passing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:42 PM
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Not always. I feel it happens with men more than women. You hang out with someone you would not think about in a non-platonic way, but spending more time with them, you notice something.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 06:11 PM
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Right. But the first bar is looks matter. Both to men and women. I think it was used more as a tool to say men only care about a woman's looks. Which is true, but women as care about a man's looks as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 06:10 PM
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Most women do. All the time. Women who are friends or give bad dating advice to men. It is all too common. That is the point. I am not talking about someone ugly. Attraction is built. You are viewing it by some BS shit done by sex in the city. You are thinking about lust. Not attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 05:39 PM
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I think a lot of that has to do with development. Zoomers are lacking; millennials were out enjoying life more and talking to people. Online shit has ruined a lot of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 05:30 PM
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No. It makes the large majority of women who lie and say looks are not critical. But, then we see the truth via data that women only swipe on 5% of men on dating apps while having a screen time of 10 seconds or less. Meaning they don't even read the profile. These problems did not happen pre 10 years ago. People would go out or meet up with new people. Attraction does build when you get to know someone or are around them more. As for seeking help, it’s not about therapy to change attraction. It’…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 05:28 PM
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It is not a problem. It just makes those people hypocrites. If you find 90% of people not attractive, something is wrong with you, and you need to seek help.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 05:07 PM
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That is kinda crazy. But, I would rather someone say what you are saying instead of the lie most women use.... "looks don't matter". They do, and it is the main barrier for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:55 PM
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Yep. IG and OLD made it even worse. Everyone wants something better than what they offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:53 PM
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Guy In Real Life. Most of the girls on the internet lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:52 PM
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This is what most guys will say to others. Giving real helpful information. Girls will do the wrong thing; don't change things will find a way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:34 PM
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When women are not attracted to 90% of the men, they are the problem. I can see maybe not likely 40-50% of a group. This just shows how much cope and bs some people have. Looks are not relevant, but I don't find 90% of this group attractive. Rules 1 and 2. Always. It has been that way since 2010. People just forgot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:15 PM
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I hate to break it to you, if the dollar does worse, other places do worse as well. Most countries are suffering huge inflation. Look at places like Turkey
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:44 PM
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Being mediocre is fine. The problem is most men can't speak to women. Then you add in the fact many guys don't put in effort to look taken care of. Taking a shower is mostly what most guys do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:43 PM
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Stop picking guys who pump and dump. Don't sleep with someone for a few months. Most guys who pump and dump won't talk to someone that long. I can't tell you how many girlfriends I have who sleep with a new guy after a few dates, and then they are legit surprised the guy no longer reaches out anymore. Girl, you gave up what he wanted, and he is lukewarm to you now. A good friend, she is going on a trip with a guy she met 3 times. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 04:39 PM
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Being a fat woman, you still have way more options than being an average guy in America lol. The problem is you can't be both. If you are fat, you can't be ugly. The problem is most women put in more effort than men. Taking a shower sometimes is the most some guys do. That shit won't cut it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 04:36 PM
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Most guys are not reaching out to women in public, maybe older creepy dudes lol. Most times you see people with their looks matches in public. More times I see a fit guy and overweight women. Likely because she had kids and stopped caring.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:16 PM
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Women were settling for a long time; it is just that online media has moved the goalpost. Girls were always wild in college, then found the nicer guy to settle down with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:12 PM
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No. Because the system is rigged for women with regards to attention. Women are the pot of gold at the end. Bars, Shows, Apps. Their end goal is to get women there so men will show up and pay. Because of the internet, most women see attention or see how easy it seems to get attention online. They see what others have and think, Oh my god, I am as pretty as her, I should have the same car, bag, hot perfect boyfriend. Men have their fault in all of this, simping. Both have a problem; guys stop sim…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:08 PM
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It is all over there. I constantly see it. The mods have been trying to clean it up a lot more of the late because subs can get closed now for being a hate group. Which that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 06:11 PM
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I hit the wrong letter. TXC.It is a sub with women who hate men for a passion. Lots of bots in there too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 05:52 PM
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Go on TWC. They will give you all the small dick hate, short jokes you can handle.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 05:44 PM
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This would be the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:00 AM
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If men stopped simping, that would fix a lot of issues. That will never happen tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 06:04 PM
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lmao. OP. You are smoking something. but women don’t delude ourselves into telling everyone it’s our preference. This is legit what every women on reddit says... It is our preference for everything. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 02:56 PM
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You know women get money from their simps without opening their legs. Women doing sex work do as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 09:10 PM
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How about this. Men and Women suck at conversations. Zoomers are terrible at it. Men are worse, but they have all been bad at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 04:32 PM
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Two easy solutions. Follow rules one and two of Reddit which have been around since 2010. If you are a younger male spend time at a liberal arts college. Most of them are 70-80% women, and they have to approach men because it never happens to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 04:30 PM
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el like the flood of options really gives them the "grass is greener on the Yep, 100%. Online apps like IG does this as well. They see what others have or doing and think.... why can't that be me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 04:31 PM
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Pretty much how most girls work. Half the time is because they are flooded with options or they have the I want him to like me more than I like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:04 PM
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People often use terms incorrectly. I have no clue in what you are trying to say. Minorities can be prejudice towards anyone and that should not be accepted. Anyone can be prejudiced, but racism requires systemic power.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 02:20 PM
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lmao stfu... respectfully... This is the dumbest shit I have heard today. Congrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 01:41 PM
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Yes. It is nowhere near as bad. Dating apps release the stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 10:00 PM
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Dating in America is just terrible. I find it funny how OLD is terrible in America, but much better in the EU and other areas. No clue why. In America the apps are 70-80% men and in EU and other areas 50-60% men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 06:07 PM
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Or someone who spends 10,000$ on Pokimane and she does not even care to know their name and that person went homeless spending money on her lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 05:11 PM
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I don't think you understand what a simp is. Simping is doing what you are saying for someone, NOT your partner. Just a random girl you are hoping your simping will get some attention from.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 05:09 PM
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Umm. I jumped to YAS Queen because it is all over reddit. You go to any space like that, it is all you see. Perfect example is girl survival sub. Lying is never the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 06:18 PM
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He is talking about the people in the sub reddit not calling her out. Not talking about the one person. He is talking about the YAS queen you are perfect. 10/10. Don't settle. Instead of what men would ask other men, ie being too picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 05:41 PM
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He is speaking about all the women in the sub. So we are talking about thousands. Not one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:44 PM
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So you don't think men would raise their standards if they had more options? Do you not think men are inherently just as shallow as women? I have a hard time believing that men by nature have such low standards. I would think some men would raise their standards for dating yes, sex very hard to say. If a women said something nice to a man like, your shirt looks good on you or something like. Most guys will remember that forever. For women, it is just another day. I usually mostly see women in ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 06:01 PM
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Do you think men would be more shallow if they had more options? Thats just a question. Do you think men have lower standards because they inherently just don't or because they dont't have the options to have higher standards? I think men have fewer options so their standards are lower. Most times for men it is simple, is she pretty yes or no. That is the only bar most times. Meanwhile most women have 4-5 things which must be met. I blame men for most of their problems. I hate men who simp for w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 04:28 PM
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The fact almost all women on dating apps reject 90% of the men on there is not widespread??? All dating apps have that same issue. Have you even had a girls night where everyone drinks wine and swipe guys on dating apps. That is a good view into how picky they are. To the part about men and dating. Men who have options have high standards for who they start a relationship with. If were picked men who were rqual to them it would yield a higher amount of relationship. Not for all men, but a higher…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 03:23 PM
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Dating apps are used for dating. What are you in 2015. Tinder or any of those apps have not been used for hooking up forever. People meet more on dating apps than any other way. Dating apps still have MILLIONS and MILLIONS of women on them. NO, your wierd fake friends does not represenet the majority. Sorry, I am not going to listen to a person on reddit who is likely a misandrist. You ignore facts and data to try to make your own points. A billion dollar company releases public data you just ig…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 02:43 PM
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You mean your friends who likely have the same views as you because you are on reddit and engaged in an echo chambers lol. You are so wrong, it is funny. There is data with MILLIONS of MILLONS of women from a publicly traded companies. All dating apps give insights on their users. It was shown that almost all women average a 5 % or less swipe rate. 5%!!! Women not picky... lmao. Please. I can't tell you how many female friends I have who are overweight or heavy and think some fit guy needs to ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 02:05 PM
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They really are not single at all. I see it all the time. Them going on dating apps, all talking to the same small selection of men. Hoping to get the guy to "date" them. The problem is they don't. He is talking to 5-10 of them, meanwhile the girls are all hoping to lock in the good ones. The only loney cat ladies you speak of are the small amount of women on reddit. The bad for men is most of them will be alone. The bad for women is most of them will be fighting over the small % of men they all…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 09:54 PM
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Young boys are getting left behind because nobody is putting the effort to fix them from COVID. Girls of that age are getting all the attention. Boys are to figure it out, girls not so much. They will get help from teachers, parents etc etc etc. Bumble failed because women did not want to put in the work of making the first move. I will just enjoy watching everyone fail because online is where most of the problems start.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 09:26 PM
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About a son, most college are at 60-70% women now. It is only going to get worse, not better. I hope to see it all blow up. Make women have to do more of the choosing and selecting of men. Make them make the first move and take all the risk. They tried it and all the women hated it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 07:48 PM
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Yes. I understand your points, but most of those made things harder for women in the 60's, 70's 80's. Those are not really issues for women who are in their 20's or 30's. Some of those problems were created by current women as well, such as first aid because nobody wants to catch a case from looking or touching someone. End of the day, I would not want to have a son in this current world. Having a daughter is a much better choice. Young males get tossed out and forgotten. Meanwhile everyone is l…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 05:51 PM
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More attention, more options, more help ( if you are broke down on the side of the road people will check on you), less pressure on early life. If you live with your parents and are 30 y.o female that is not an issue ( lower expectation for success ). Young women may receive help, favors, or leniency from others. Men often feel expected to be self-sufficient from an early age. Society is more open about complimenting women, especially young women. Men often feel they must earn attention, while w…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 04:23 PM
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Most likely. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 04:18 PM
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Women in women's groups talk about men nonstop in a degrading way. Maybe you are just in different settings, which is fine. The whole point is, if you were a man, your life would be even harder. Unless you were born in the 1950s.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 03:07 PM
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The trend is men not wanting women in their spaces (you see nonstop post on TXC about men not talking to women in work spaces), which is smart. Normal locker room talk is not the "misogynistic" talk and has nothing to do with women. Perfect example is a group of guys talking about a sports game last night and if a women is in the group it is like walking on eggshells because you might use a word which offends her. Example, oh man... that ref last night was a retard. He really blew the game. Not …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 01:56 PM
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What you mean is you find 5% of men attractive lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 01:34 PM
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That is more a new trend because women will get offended if around other men doing locker room talk. Worked as an engineer and other women engineers would get all the easier projects, men the harder, bigger ones. When it comes to travel, same. Women would get all the local jobs, men would have to travel. When it came to doing everything harder, it got passed on to the men and easier work went to women. Being a woman today is much, much easier than being a woman 30 years ago. You legit have every…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 01:31 PM
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Average women 100% get this. Men at work will do anything for average women. Most of the time you don't even know it is happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 12:45 AM
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Always rules 1 and 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 12:15 AM
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Which kills the bullshit lie most use when they say they want to be friends first. It is a lie most times. Not for all women, but most.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 11:58 PM
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You are right, but it won't stop them from being the victim. It is 2025, the problem is never the person who is having the issue lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 01:57 PM
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Not when they are picky and only swipe right on 5% of men lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 05:57 PM
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So you are saying there are not enough men for liberal women to date?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 10:17 PM
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It is this. So many women pretend looks is not the most important part of their standards. It is so easy to see when you see how they choose men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 05:53 PM
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A lot of women are saying they want to be friends before dating someone. You can't have it both ways. Being mad at guys who want to be friends, then once they find out the girl is not interested, they stop talking to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 04:54 PM
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I thought women want to be friends with a guy first before dating.... Or is that only a made up thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 04:05 PM
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Nah women do it too. I seen a lot of women be friends with others, want to hang out etc. Once they find out they have a gf, they don't keep talking to them anymore. Same shit guys do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:08 PM
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Yea, this is a thing some women enjoy doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 08:10 PM
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Yep, that is why most of the women posting on TXC are femcel bigots.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 08:09 PM
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We. You mean the 1% of the femcels who have been rejected just like the incels? Funny, you both are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:16 AM
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It is a grey area and really depends on the person. Having a partner who won't have sex is a good enough reason to leave that relationship. Having sex once a month or less is grounds for ending it no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 06:01 PM
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It not that it is conditional, there are certain needs that need to be met. Sometimes it is emontional, physical, or just being an equal partner. If you look at TXC you see all the women who say a man not helping out enough or they are doing all the emontional lifting. That is grounds for ending the relationship. Is that not conditional? Unconditional love is a dream, also not healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 05:45 PM
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If you remove sex from someone in a relationship and have a dead bedroom the partner is 100% in the right to move on. Men and women both suffer from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 05:25 PM
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That works for someone you’re just friends with. But having a partner who isn’t interested in sex is a red flag for most people. I knew a girl who would try to trick guys into relationships by hiding the fact that she didn’t like sex. She said she hated how, once guys found out, they would stop talking to her. I think your thinking is correct for friends to see what guys' intentions are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 03:53 PM
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Go look at TXC, pretty much all the same shit incels say, femcels say.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 02:59 AM
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Women are doing the same shit. Online is full of shit talking snark. Women do this same shit in IRL aka mean girls stuff. Don't act like social media is a one side street. Just look at TXC is it is sub reddit with MILLIONS of man hating women. The real problem is women have a huge advantage in the dating market place. Women can always level up in what they think they should be able to date or marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 09:19 PM
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You just moved the goal post from porn to onlyfans lmao. Those are two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 01:30 PM
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You act like it is something only men do. You are not making a point lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 02:55 AM
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Women do as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 11:44 PM
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Oh 100%. If you see someone 60 and the person is 20 that is kinda eye turning. Old Bill belichick gf knows what she is doing. She is pumping his ass for money and fame.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 05:09 PM
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Oh 100%. Men or Women the younger people know what they are getting. People 100% turned on Chris Evans once they found out his wife is 10 years younger. He is a huge women's rights supporter and they flammed his ass lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 04:43 PM
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Ugh. You have no clue what you are talking about. You should not be able to give advice on anything. I can fix him would be big shit. Little things would be things guys in their early 20's would do that is dumb. Stupid jokes which are guy jokes and not funny to others. Most guys don't have a normal filter when they are in their early 20's. Now it is early 30's because young guys are failing at life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:16 PM
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If a guy is attractive enough for a younger women, he would have zero issues with an older one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 02:56 PM
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Nobody is going to be perfect. You have to grow with someone. It is more about little things than big things. Everyone is different, most women don't correct people when someone does something wrong. That is the training part.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 02:55 PM
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Yes. I always see the YASSS QUEEN. Perfect example is darcey silva. She only dates / marries younger men. She is 50 and only dates men in their 30's. Women will cheer her on and yasss queen. She also only dates men without their own way or money.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 02:48 PM
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I would say this is the best. If you meet someone in public and vibe most times, you don't know their age at first.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 02:45 PM
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That is the same point for anyone. It is why I always tell my girl friends to start looking for the one in college. Options just get worse as you get older. Men are like puppies. You can train them when they are younger. Once they are older it is not as easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 02:42 PM
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So you think older women who date younger men are losers too right. Right....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 02:40 PM
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I tend to see this happen, but it is hard without context. Sometimes I see a partner get out of shape or in shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 06:37 PM
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Juice up. Bro have you seen what he lookes like 90% of the time when not in movies? He a fit, but not super jacked. People always don't live like that who are in movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 06:36 PM
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You are right it does. Women on their taste in men is all over the place. Some women will be mid and think someone like Chris Hemsworth is mid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 02:25 PM
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This is what most women don't understand. They never will. He will sleep with you, but not date you. I see it all the time in college. Right now it is really bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 02:11 PM
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I would not say a cheater, but the odds of them wanting date or put a ring on it is very slim.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 02:11 PM
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Way more today than 10-20 years ago. Men are having the same issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 02:09 PM
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The end of the day most women have the main must be attractive. That is really the most important thing for most of them. They always try to pretend it is not, but it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 02:08 PM
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Get your friends on dating apps and see what they pick. They will pass on 80-90% of males. That means their standards are too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 02:04 PM
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I don't think there is an easy solution. Just something that will have to be self corrected over time. I think younger men have gotten worse since covid and women have raised the bar on what they want. It has made the gap even larger. You see everyday tons of women posting on reddit not getting attention or men not talking to them. That issue is only going to get worse as of now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 04:47 PM
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The standards they have now are due to tik tok and IG. It is all fake, most are just too dumb to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:08 PM
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Yay, a stat which is terrible for people doing casual dating. Less and less people are getting married. That is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 07:38 PM
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Rules 1 and 2. Will never change.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:18 PM
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This is the issue people need to understand. Reddit has been around for how long? Rules 1: and 2: will never change lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:15 PM
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Lmao, most normal young men in the United States are not hot n sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:14 PM
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Yes. I can't tell you how many 21-23 y.o women I know who are done with men their age. Most of them just play COD, vape and no future goals. The ones they do want have all the options in the world and not looking to date just one girl. This has caused a lot of the girls I know dating men 4-7 years older than them. Because by the time they are in their late 20's or early 30's they have shit in a better place.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:12 PM
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lmao. You are cooked. People change, nobody is ever a 5/5 or will stay perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 05:49 PM
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They are also delulu.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 05:38 PM
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You lose the right to bitch about there being no good options.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 05:35 PM
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Nothing is wrong with standards, the problem is bad standards. I always hear the: " No more good men left." " Wow, all the good men are taken." There is nothing wrong with dating someone who might have 3 out of 5 things you want and growing together. That is what normal people use to do. Now social media and being online have people wanting things that were never possible. Both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 05:04 PM
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Wow. Where did I say ALL women. You know women have a much higher standard for what they look for in a partner. They would rather be single than to not get everything they want. There are thousands of examples of women on dating apps and data not being interested in their looks match.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 04:58 PM
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I agree she should. The problem is she builds in her mind he likes her and it comes crashing down. She won't talk to some guy who is large like her. It has to do with women facing rejections because most of them are only interested in men out of their league. Sometimes the man will sleep with them then ghost them, then that starts a whole different problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 04:31 PM
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That is the problem with the women doing a poor job with who they sleep with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 04:28 PM
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lmao a women moving the goal post when they know what everyone is talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 04:26 PM
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lmao. Women don't have nearly the same issues. Most times if they do it is because they want to date or interested in a guy who is out of their league. A good friend she is about 245 lbs. She likes this guy at work, he is way out of her league. She had the balls to say, I don't normaly want to date a really fit guy, but X is really cute. The guy is attractive and in shape. But thinks she would have a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 04:25 PM
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"You should know I am ignoring you, you should come talk to me to show you really are interested". LMAO. The cope is great. Most men are terrible at learning to communicate, women are just as bad in showing they are interested or like someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 03:53 PM
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Women do the same with always picking fuck boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 12:35 PM
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This is the correct answer. A lot of people don't match on the same level of sexuality. That is a big no if it is not a match. If a person likes PDA and the other does not. If a person does not enjoy being touch or held. It can be more than just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 02:40 PM
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People in their 20's are not children. People I have seen in friend groups are all adults. Women are not immune to having an imbalance of equity in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 03:13 PM
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This is not true at all for most people. Most girls in college zoomer age get the insta ick if you are not paying for things or offer to. Women are not doing 90% of everything. If anything, there are more relationships where one partner does almost everything. It can be a man or woman. I have seen it go both ways a lot in my very large friend group. I think the issue lies one partner does all the lifting.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:22 PM
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I think the things you said are important, but in relationship people tend to do the things which make the other person's life better. That becomes a problem once things are not even or go past 60/40.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:01 PM
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Women are the ones who need to do this. They don't. It was forced on them in one dating app, they hated putting in the work. Now that is no longer an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:12 PM
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One of the best reasons why people need friends who are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:11 PM
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I feel like a lot of people are living in an "online utopia" both sides haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:01 PM
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South America is happens all the time to americans on dating apps. They tell men to not use dating apps because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:09 PM
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Men can't stop the simping. It will never happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:07 PM
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This is the best example.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:04 PM
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That is like a person who catches the fish but it is not big enough so they throw it back. They still can catch fish, it is their problem it is not good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:03 PM
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Women are going to pick guys who are 25-30 over people their age. I see it all the time. If a girl is 21, she is not interested in loser guys who are 21 and don't have shit going for them. If girls are not matched up with a bf in college and they are forced to go out, they tend to go older than younger. That is just how it works. Most guys are 3-5 years behind most women with regards to being an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 04:21 PM
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The biggest issues with the zoomer American women is, western women are seen as privileged, living in wealthy societies, and therefore less willing to “compromise” in relationships. They want everything there way. The whole " never settle " shit gives the perfect example. Nobody wants a boss babe lol. Or very few guys are interested in that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 04:31 PM
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They are NOT american western. There is a difference. A huge one. Chineses even have a name for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 04:24 PM
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Most of Africa would like a Western women to save them lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 03:50 PM
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I agree with you, I have no clue even then why someone would want to do that. They are almost always forced to convert lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:41 PM
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Sadly it is a trend. Most times it is an older lady past 40 dating someone half their age and really fit. The women get lied too and gassed up. It happens a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:11 PM
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You keep looking at it from passport bros. I know normal people who just find how those women act as better. No "HOT GIRL Summer", No throwing it back. No hoe phase. Swiss and swedes are good example for finding good options. You have more options because less people are obese like they are in America. I am talking about normal EU countries such as Spain, France etc. The dating pool is much healthier than Amercias. Better options.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:37 PM
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WRONG! Women in the EU are still much better. Western women have tik tok mind rot and think everything is owed to them. America's dating market is fucked. For whatever reason it is much harder for younger men to find their equal. Online dating has made it more a mess. In the EU OLD is not nearly as toxic as it is in the west. The women to men ratio in the west is like 80% men and EU 64/40 split. I am not saying American zoomer men are a catch. I am saying their equals have pulled out of dating t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:05 PM
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Most people see Western people men and women as loud and obnoxious. You add in current values of zoomers that just makes things worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:00 PM
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The fact that you can't see someone being westernized as a bad thing is very telling. The current dating market is trashed. Dating in American is one of the worst areas. In the EU and other areas the dating market is not perfect, but better. Not all western women, but a lot of them are spoiled. Dating overseas like the EU, things are better than America.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:48 PM
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News flash, people don't want most western women. You see just as many old bossy ladies as you do men going overseas to get men. For example, Tigerlily on 90 Day Fiance. I will never understand why western women talk to Muslim men thinking they can change them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:41 PM
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People women will lie til the cows come home about this topic and others like it. Just say women are shallow too like men. There issue solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 08:38 PM
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A lot of them want attention from the right person, not just anyone. It is just a double standard. No girl in their right mind wears shit that is uncomfortable and painful just for fun. Sweatpants and crocs with a big t would be all women wear if they dress for comfort.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 08:36 PM
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lmao you mean the 12 states out of 50 states?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:32 PM
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No you are wrong. Women don't like when men sleep around. He is a "player". Men don't care if other men sleep around. That being said, if a women knows another women sleeps with lots of men, they are 100% calling her a hoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 07:37 PM
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Sometimes people self snitch. For example, guys know who is cheating when their friend is fucking around with other people. The same can be said when you know some guys are kinda rappy. Gets girls drunk and takes them home. In college girls would still talk to said " party guys " would have a rep for not taking no for an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:10 PM
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Nah, everyone becomes jaded in their 20's. It really depends on wtf people read online. Men have shit spaces and women do too. It is up to the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 01:07 PM
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Women don't date down as much as men do. If they pick a guy not based on looks, it is for a reason. I never see women dating fat men when they are pretty. I mean people without money.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 04:31 PM
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I see it the other way around, mid women more attractive man. You always see fat women with fit guy. Never the other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 12:20 PM
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I agree. I am saying MEN should NOT use them. I blame them for being desperate and thinking they will find something easy online.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 03:54 PM
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The problem is that most young males are getting left behind their equals in women at younger ages. I can't tell you how many male friends I have who are the ages of 20-25 who just have failure to launch. Living at home with parnets with zero direction. Playing COD or something else dumb. Zero gf, not many friends they go out with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 02:42 PM
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No. The reason why men should NOT use dating apps is because the market is shit. Most dating apps are 80% men on them. If all of them stop going on dating apps, it will make it better for both men and women. This is mostly a United States issue, in the EU dating apps are like 60/40 for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 02:37 PM
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Not saying all women, but lets be real.... Women lie to each other ALL DAY. Hey queen, omg you look so IT in that dress. Two seconds later to another friend, OMG she looks so fat in that dress, I don't know what she is thinking. Women sabotage other women ALL the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 12:56 AM
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I listed one. Once I see someone who says it I will tag you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 12:12 AM
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I swear the same women here come up with the same BS. To try and cover all the BS others say so they don't seem as shallow as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 12:10 AM
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Sure. Next time I see it, I will tag you. It is always, just wait til someone post. “As a woman, looks don’t matter at all.” In a post on r/unpopularopinion, a woman states: “I actually don’t give a shit about looks at all.… Personality wise maybe I can be a tad bit picky but when it comes to looks, not at all.” https://rareddit.com/r/unpopularopinion/comments/bvbwm0/men_are_way_more_accepting_when_it_comes_to/?utm_source
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 12:07 AM
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BS. I hear it all the time and you see it HERE all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 05:38 PM
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Women say it ALL the time. Looks don't matter. I hear it nonstop from women of reddit. Then a lot of women IRL. Then they go on a dating app not read a single profile and left swipe 90% of men. With regards to rejection, that is not the problem. I want women to not lie to other women. When they say shit like, I just want a nice man who does x,y,z. When looks really is the first thing they care about or notice. Once that bar is checked then they look for other options.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 02:35 PM
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This is very true. The problem is most women will not tell the truth in saying that. They will say other things like, oh the vibe is not right or we did not have that energy. When it really was, I did not find you attractive. Then most women will say looks are not important and I am only looking for good personality. All which is BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 02:17 PM
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End of the day makeup changes most women a ton. It makes some people look 100% different. You have people who change races. Have a friend who is Asian and does her make up to look white always. It was something she did to fit in with other girls. She went out a few times without doing it and people thought she was someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:33 PM
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Maybe normal women over 40. Zoomer college girls go to the gym in full makeup. I can't think of a girl under 30 at the gym NOT in makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:28 PM
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This is NOT true at all. There are tons of videos showing women going thru a huge change.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 06:48 PM
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I don't know, a lot of women fear being alone just as well. You say men treat women bad, but in LGB relationships women are the most violent. So it is not like women are not treating other women great as well. If a person has a problem meeting someone today most time I think they are the problem. It is hard, but both sides suck in the zoomer age today. Men are pretty bad with failure to launch and women today think Mr. Perfect is going to come out of nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 12:38 PM
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Women are picky. It is fine, but then average women get stuck with nothing. You have to accept problems people create. You only want someone who is perfect, good luck with being alone. Because if that perfect person comes along why would they want you when you are normal. That is the current problem. I see lots of younger males who are losers and lots of average women who think they are perfect. Both will be having a wakeup call.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 05:38 PM
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You act as there are not just as many terrible women. You have options. If you are at a point in your life YOU can't find someone, the problem is in the mirror. Not talking about you, but the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 03:52 PM
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A women getting a date is much much easier. You have a better chance at finding someone when you have options vs not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 03:07 PM
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Who said they don't like women? This is just something you made up in your head. This issue were not a problem 10 years ago or before. This problem is new, gen Z is fucked and everything after is screwed too. The problem won't impact everyone, but it will impact a lot. People are forever online and a lot of women see what others have online and think they can always do better. Sometimes it works out other times it does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 02:07 PM
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Not really. A solid relationship is built off a friendship foundation. If people can't understand that they are going to have lame marriage. I know people who are married and they don't even do anything. Zero hobbies, common interest, don't even watch the same shows or TV. No inside jokes or funny things. It was, let's just have kids.... yay!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 08:42 PM
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Jesus, it is only 10 years. Do you not have interest that other people of all ages do? I have friends of all ages and meet people from different age groups and have common things we talk about. I have a good friend who is older than me and we have a lot in common. I just think people need to leave their echo chambers and small groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 04:59 PM
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I am seeing more and more college aged girls, friends with a few that are 21,22,25. They have a friend group of 6-7 and all are single. Pretty much have given up dating guys their age. Their words, they are losers. College drop outs, living at home with their mom, playing warzone. Zero drive for anything. Most girls are interested in guys late 20's or early 30's. Their college has a guy to girl ratio of 75% women almost to 25% men. It is hard times for them to find people in their social groups.…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 04:52 PM
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All I know is you have 80 y.o guys still making babies which is stupid. Looking at you Robert De niro
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 03:18 PM
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It is ok. I am sure your bitter group of cat ladies are all well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 08:43 PM
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See... you are doing it. Zero accountability. Blaming others instead of how terrible you were in choosing men. Got it. smh. If you were picking men with "bad attitude and behavior". Your words. It is a you issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 08:14 PM
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Lies, you were blaming men. I don't have any projection. Forever a victim lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 07:57 PM
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How about blaming the person who is having the issue. You sound like the problem. I did not bring sex into it or blame a women. You did. You are the problem lol. If you can't find a good person, something is wrong with you. Not everyone else lol. You just want to be a victim it sounds like. If a person is overweight, they should be should own the blame. Your logic you would blame the fastfood places and everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 07:47 PM
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Because it is someone who is full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 07:00 PM
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No they are NOT. Almost all women I know who are near 6 foot would date someone unless they are taller. IE... I like wearing fun shoes!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 07:00 PM
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Sounds like a you issue blaming others. Maybe you are bad at picking people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 06:57 PM
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Linemen football guys are not a softboy fat. But I get what you are saying lol. I am talking about this https://d.ibtimes.com/en/full/2788017/colt-larissa.webp?w=736&f=479394bbc52f217b1085662831f7cadf
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 04:48 PM
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So you would date an obese or fat guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 03:54 PM
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I do see this happening more. It is crazy funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 08:37 PM
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facts
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 08:36 PM
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But why is it only bad in America. It is fine everywhere else based on user stats. That means the problem is in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 09:55 PM
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There are a lot of different reasons. It is increasingly harder to meet people once you are out of college. Some people hope it works, men don't meet women as often in public. The real question should be why do American women not us online dating meanwhile all other countries do. Something is wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 04:36 PM
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Men do NOT get hundreds of matches. There have been tons and tons of videos about this topic. Lots of girls who thought they would slay on line dating if they were a man and they could not get more than 3-4 matches. OLD is mostly men, so that is part of the problem. These issues don't happen over in the EU. It is mostly an American issue. OLD is like 80-20 in the USA and EU almost 60-40 men to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 04:24 PM
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so you had 100 men to choose from. The point is if you were a man you would have 4-5 at MAX. You would still have the same issues with those people being crazy or not good.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 03:56 PM
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It is 100% the culture. EU is much different than North America.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 05:13 PM
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There was a youtuber who thought she could have success in online dating. She thought the issues were men and their lack of personalities and bad profiles. In the video you can see her shock in how hard it is to even get 1 match. She pretty much crashes out and can't do anything like she thought she could. She thought she since she knows women it would be easy to get matches. Womp womp. She was wrong. She created a second profile using a 9/10 guy friend she had and she only had a small amount of…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 05:12 PM
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All you gotta do is watch tik tok. Girls who have any of her related tags and you see tons of nose rings in that girl group. perfect example. https://x.com/chylerswift/status/1674881609756016640 https://x.com/swiftafboi_13/status/1674881546967195651 https://x.com/heartoutswift_/status/1674876958939676677/photo/1
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 07:41 PM
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This is the best example. Zoomers just write someone off by looking at them. Post college dating people just look at the cover now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 01:40 PM
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Girls who have that are not goth girls. These are norm girls who are t swift fans lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:49 PM
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Don't listen to Barney. There is a group of women who are sad they don't get attention as other women. You see them posting a lot online and get sad when everyone says how ugly their nose rings are. They respond with I do it for me, which everyone else says well that is why you don't get the same attention as your friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 03:14 PM
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SSRI's can mask a lot of issues. The problem is sometimes they stop working and people don't see their doctors on the reg to make sure they get adjustments. Some SSRI's can make people feel dead inside too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 03:05 PM
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I don't have to my Step sister would 100% be on that show. The show is pretty much what people IRL are like. Everything is based off of some truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:49 PM
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SSRI's sadly are not a forever fix. Girls will have ups and downs. For example one girl was sleeping a ton, missing classes, not responding to text. A lot things which point to depression and stress. I told them it sounded like they were depressed and asked if they saw a GP or had meds. They almost always tell you their story. I am really good with asking questions and learning about people. I have just noticed a ton of people having issues like BPD and major depression. That just makes dating h…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:46 PM
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No. You are just funny lmao. FUNNY. Because you are so wrong and like classic reddit people you double down.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:25 PM
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Meh, you are just wrong. Most of those women are average women making average amount of money and life style. Nice try. You are just 100% wrong. It is ok. GL.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:22 PM
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The men are much worse. They have had tons of normal women. The rough around the edges is what makes them normal. I think you people are confused to what are normal person looks like lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:19 PM
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Have you seen love after lock up? They are tons of normal women looking for hot guys lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:13 PM
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The biggest issue I notice with younger women is they are drugged up on SSRI's. Everyone and their mom has mental health issues and depression. Guys before you date a girl find out what meds she is on. It ain't worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 11:57 AM
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There is just a huge disconnect with younger people. Both men and women. You see it all over. Men are slowly being left behind, college, jobs, dating. Women are being impacted as well due to the struggles of younger guys. You see it on reddit as girls posting everyday in the rateme area or amiugly area. Saying things as why don't guys talk to me or I never dated anyone. The girl is always normal looking. Things are just different currently for zoomers and gen A.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 07:27 PM
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I agree with you. I think it is more of an issue with 20-30 y.o. Younger guys are pretty lame. No job, no school. etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 06:21 PM
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No. Not at all, I just know most men don't get attached as some women can. They do but it is different. Men are looking at what you can do for me most times, meanwhile women most times are looking for an emotional support connection. You look at the crazy lady section and all you see in 12 million women saying how their man is a baby and they have to cook and clean and do xyz. Then they say all they want in return is for them to bond and spend time with them and help them out in life. Make thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 05:26 PM
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I mean I think both need each other. I think men get more out of using women than the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 05:06 PM
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What she said is NOT true. There are tons of videos where women are going to solo dating events and there will be 20-30 women and only a few guys. The women are pissed because the options are bad. They have nobody to blame, but refuse to look in the mirror at the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 05:06 PM
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This is not true at all. I know a lot of women mid 30's who are mad they can't find a guy good enough. They don't want to be alone, but they won't " SETTLE ". It is very funny to watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 05:04 PM
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Ah, you don't understand. lmao. It is ok. Don't think too hard. If a women can't get a man her standards are too high. If a man want commit her standards are too high. I gave you example to help you understand, which you could not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 02:54 PM
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I see the problem from the other side. Lots of women mad because guys they fuck won't date them. These girls are not interested in dating their looks equal. I see it happen all the time. Then they get mad at men and not going to date anyone. Currently got a friend and her group of single 22 y.o women all mad at men. There are like 10 of them all single. All are average cute looking, all have had a ton of situationships in the past two years. The worse being one who had 7 in the last year lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 01:58 PM
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I don't think you understand things. Here, let me help you out. An average women thinks they are too good for their equal. An average man. This is not always the case, but happens a lot. Men tend to talk to women below them if they are looking for something casual, women tend to talk to men above them hoping to lock them down. Most times they are both looking for something else. This does not always happen, but I go out a lot and see way more attractive men with heavy / not pretty women. Men are…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 01:39 PM
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Gay bars are a different vibe. I can tell you never been with your response. Women also feel much safer there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:24 AM
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Some guys can protect themselves, women don't have that option. End of the date women going out to the clubs are not a smart idea. If they want to go to a club, go to a gay bar. Some do that, that is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:22 PM
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Their safety. I just said nothing good comes out from going out late. Creepy guy, someone attacks them, fights from other dumb asses. Perfect example when Offset started a fight and got his best friend shot in the head due to cross fire. All over some fucking bullshit dice game. Clubs has tons of violence and trouble with them. Nothing good comes out of staying out late. It is the number one thing professional teams tell there players. Bad choices happen late at night. Add drugs or alcohol thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:08 PM
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Dude cheating is not the only thing. As former sports players say nothing good comes out from going to clubs. It is always just trouble. And if you are at a club past 12 AM it is even more trouble. If a girl needs to dress like a hooker and go to a club to have fun, that is a bigger issue. They can do so many other things instead of dressing like a thot and doing thot like things.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 08:59 PM
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LMAO. You have no clue what you are talking about. Just stop. What do you mean views on women. You mean noticing a lot of younger women are getting hit with situationships. Yeah that is an L take. The reason why that is happening because younger women are only interested in guys who have options. I know many who think they can win them over. Guess what, it does not work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 08:46 PM
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lmao. You can't read I guess. It is ok. Girls are not interested in ugly guys. They are interested in the only options they see equal in college. The guys girls like are not these " incel losers " which you must be. lol. Way to NOT read anything I wrote and you just typed some BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 01:39 PM
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This is wrong. Warren buffet says this is a great time to make money and growth. What you said is the opposite, you make money when there are huge waves. If you put in money when things go down, that is the perfect time to buy. Perfect example 1 month ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 11:24 AM
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Myself and my friends are not rich. We are all doing well with the past few months. We are all sub 1 million, well I think one might now be over 1 million. The problem is people spend too much and don't save enough. The market just gave a free 20% pick up a few weeks ago. It will happen again.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 08:58 PM
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You a lot of people own their own business and it makes them a CEO. You can be a CEO without making MILLIONS.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 08:54 PM
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I am sorry, if you are not making money today you have nobody but yourself to blame. The best part about Trump is his mouth causes lots of waves. This is good opportunity for making money. Rich people are getting rich in the stock market. More people should be doing the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 08:31 PM
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I don't have issues with anything. It is hard times out there for some girls who are single in college. Options are thin.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 08:21 PM
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You think normal guys don't want to date? Most normal guys would try to lock someone down, only attractive men have options like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 08:20 PM
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Umm. This has NOTHING to do with podcasters. I am friends with a lot of girls. I see this happening every week. Most of them go to liberal arts college with 70% + of women. Currently the 6-7 good good friends are all single and all in situationships. They guys WON'T date them. It is happening a ton. The guys they like have tons of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 05:30 PM
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The problem is zoomer girls are interested in a small amount of guys. Those guys know they have tons of options. Most times those guys know they have everything right now, they are not going to turn in unlimited options for a committed relationship. This impacts both women and men. Women most times are sleeping with the same amount of guys, for example I know a hand full of girls all sleeping around with guys and NONE of the guys are interested in dating them. It is just free sex which the guys …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 05:02 PM
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Younger people don't like doing things older people use. For example facebook. People from the age 19-23 run away from facebook because their parents use it. Kinda the same for a lot of the normal dating apps. Tinder is used more over seas tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 08:51 PM
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People who were younger used the app as it was created. hookups only. That was tinder was mostly used for. Once older people got on it changed from that to a dating app. They started to chance people as a money object and do anything in their power to prevent you from meeting people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:49 PM
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You too! Have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 05:27 PM
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For sure. Oh well, I am sure things will turn around.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 05:17 PM
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Yea. It kinda sucks because as more guys get removed from college they lose a lot of options from meeting women. Most college girls are not interested in dating non college guys. Some colleges are 70% women lmao. Shit is getting crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 05:12 PM
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Sadly that is reddit in a nutshell. You look at areas like TXC and it is full of women hating men. Sometimes here you can have a balance, but reddit is mostly males. Reddit's biggest issue is online does not equal real life most times. Reddit is the venting space mostly. That being said being a younger women is much better than being a male under 20. I can't tell you how many males under 20 who are just lost in life where women have a direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 05:03 PM
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I know, I am just sitting here watching and laughing. It sucks, but if you have those problems you do things to fix it. If you are a nice person and treat people like a human, you can find all types of options. Rules 1 and 2 always help for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 04:52 PM
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I agree smh. I get it for women, you have options. Men should not even touch them. It will just make you feel useless. If you see someone cute IRL and you make eye contact with them, just go talk to them. The problem is most men are terrible with talking with women. So they feel OLD is a better option.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 04:42 PM
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Add in the fact men are legit trash with their profiles. My god, I never seen so many bad pictures or lack of interesting things said. I feel sorry for both. Men because most will just feel useless and women because they become numb from the 100000000 guys in their inbox.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 04:33 PM
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Yep and Yep. Tinder at release was fine before all the boomers and old people got on it. When it was mostly college kids and younger people in 2015/7 it was working as intended. Match with a cute girl, talk, meet up, invite over for the night. It got ruined by greed and everyone using it. I think at release it was 60/40 for men. In the EU dating apps are much better than America. They have a good balance of men and women. In America most areas are 80% men on the apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 04:29 PM
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More like much much much more. Some of the stats are like 70-80% men on dating apps lol. Women will have like 300-400 matches if they are average looking. Meanwhile being an attractive guy out in the wild it is pretty easy to get a girls info.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 04:26 PM
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They already do this in dating apps. It is hidden.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 03:15 PM
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It is already in most dating apps. They have a ELO which shows you people in that group. You just don't see it, he is saying that it should be shown as I agree. They already use it to send people in that group to you. This is mostly only used in men since dating apps are 70% men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 03:14 PM
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It is not even that, they go to a liberal arts college. There might be only 15-20% single guys. They are getting tossed around by average looking guys lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:22 PM
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I have no clue what is going on with some zoomers. I have a friend who is 21. She and all her friends are single. About 10 or so of them. They have all been in situationship, one was in 7 of them this year lmao. The girls are pretty, but go to a college which is 70% female. The guys they are interested in are only fucking them and refuse to date them lmao. Shit is always funny af. They never learn, but their options are slim. One of them is looking at dating older dudes now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 11:25 AM
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End of the day that is always the rule. If you are attractive, you can break the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 09:08 PM
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If a guy is not good at interacting with people / ladies even being an 8 is not enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 02:04 PM
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No. I know guys can be very lame and lack the ability to drive or hold a conversation. Just some women are not much better. I am a super extrovert and do really well with women. I can vibe with them very easy, I am also the person having to drive topics and pull things out. Not all girls are like this, but I do notice ones who complain about boring guys tend to be girls who are boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 02:04 PM
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You are a women, that is part of the problem. You have no idea how women are. The whole say something interesting or do something funny, make me interested...... Some women have a crazy amount of things they want, then they are basic as fuck and not interesting. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hed636P1FqM For example, they only say hi or hey... Then want you to say / do funny things. The problem is women have too many options.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 01:56 PM
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Good luck getting that even now lol. I can't tell you how many times I see fit men with obese women. Younger girls who are tanks waiting to get their chad lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 01:53 PM
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If you listen to women about shit like this you are a full. Women don't know what they want. Don't take advice from women on those subjects, size does not matter, height does not matter, just being a nice person is all a girl wants. Those are all BS. There is a floor for everything that will make it matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 11:57 AM
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Shit don't matter to me, I just call a spade a spade. For girls it is much harder to find a good young guy than finding at girl at 27 who has their shit together. If a girl wants to waste her best years in fucking around, she gonna find out how bad the male selection choice is at late 20s. All the good ones gone lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 09:17 PM
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You think women are not doing the same shit. Younger girls are shady af now. Hella common for girls 18-25 to cheat currently than years before. Now they are just finding out who they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 09:04 PM
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Was about. It was not working. Women don't make the first move and less women were using it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 05:08 PM
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Women think men are low effort. My god, women are just as bad. Hi, Hey, hello, make me laugh. Do something to stand out...... Women see that shit sucks and noped out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 05:08 PM
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That is the way it is going. Even engineering schools which were 60/40 men are starting to dip into 60/40 women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:25 PM
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It is simple math. If colleges are starting to get to mid 70% full of women, there are simply not enough guys to match with women. Those women are NOT dating lots of guys. The guys are dating lots of women. The girls in college are selective and are only interested in a type most times. Those guys know that and won't commit. I have been laughing about it to my friend as she crashes and burns. She just turned 21 and been in 7 situationships in the past year lol. All her friends are single and tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:49 PM
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I called this shit like 2-3 years ago. Women are fucked and I am here to see it. College started being 75% women near me and I know so many single girls stuck in situationships. They all want to date someone really attractive, and that guys knows he can date 3-4 women at a time in college. A few really good female friends been in 4-5 situationships a year hoping the guy will pick them lol. All of their girlfriends are single too lol. Shit is hella funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 12:34 PM
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I travel and have a hobby which involves doing things with large groups of people. My friend and I always notice the amount of times we see fit men with obese women. Very rarely we see it the other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:17 PM
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Because both men and women lie. Women always lie online when it comes to things they gas light people about. LOOKS don't matter lmao. Maybe to a small few, you never see women looking to date some ugly guy or fat, giving him a chance because he is nice and has a great personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 01:20 PM
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Dating apps are just shit for men. I wish guys would not use them. Let women have to put in effort. Too many simps tho. You could match with less guys then you won't have 100 dudes in your inbox?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 03:22 PM
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Women will block a guy or say it is zero effort. Then post only hi. Hi or Hey is fine if you follow it with context. Just saying Hi or Hey is lazy and most times means someone is talking to 10 people. Hey Axis, I love the pictures of your dog. What mix are they? I have a XXXX their name is XXX. Not that hard, but that would mean they would have to look and read your profile and that never happens when you have 30 dudes in your inbox.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 02:30 PM
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You reap what you sow is going on for both genders right now. Nobody has it easy, just different.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 02:22 PM
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Yep lmao. Zero fucking effort for being a women on dating apps. Not all are like that, but the ones who are pretty 100%. Guys will simp, when they should really just block all women who just say HI or Hey only.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 02:20 PM
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That is because most guys are retarded. You gotta learn how to read the room. I was on a plane last night and you gotta pick up the small hints some women give. The girl was college aged and interested. She started off first with talking and say hi and her name. I bumped into her arm and apologized, she put her arm on me and said it was fine. Very strong eye contact, she engaged in chit chat, smiling, hair twirls. Most guys are terrible at reading the room. Not saying I would have been taking he…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 01:41 PM
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I don't know about working fine. Younger women are nonstop QQ online about WHY WON'T the guy I like come talk to me. I gave him the looked at him for 2 seconds. He should notice me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 01:36 PM
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dating apps are terrible too. Most women do zero effort. They just go, hi, hey, hi, hey.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 01:33 PM
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Ummm. It is when you only interested in dating attractive guys. The pool becomes smaller. Women are picky. The guys know they have tons of options and just hook up. This is problem will only get worse for the shorter time. Long as the is a huge gap in college, women will have this issue. There was just a huge post about this on 2X a few days ago. Women bitching about finding good options in college due to colleges being mostly women. That is why you see a girl working on her masters dating someo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 07:21 PM
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Sorry, I see a lot of girls wanting to date older guys. 21 y.o girls looking to date late 20's or early 30's. Words from a lot of the girls I know. The guy selection in college is TRASH. All the good looking guys just want to smash, and most of the colleges the girl to guy rate is 70/30. Options are slim if you are trying to date someone who has education.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 07:05 PM
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Right. It is not normal at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 04:13 PM
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For whatever reason girls hate OLD shit. Hinge, bumble, etc etc. They just don't vibe with it. Most times because all the good looking guys will just pump and dump them lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:34 PM
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I know a lot of girls it happens too. Younger guys are timid than before. This happens to more average looking girls than really attractive girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:24 PM
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Go online. Sub reddits like rate me and amiugly is filled with attractive young women who think they are ugly because men won't talk to them. It is becoming more of an issue now than it ever was. It is a growing problem for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:05 PM
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Nah, younger women don't approach. They do the... I looked at you and you did not get the hint I like you. They bitch about it nonstop online.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:03 PM
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lmao these two are not the same. You can maybe say a man having a beard is the same because some guys are ugly af without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:46 PM
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Yep. The thing is most women don't understand sleeping with a guy won't make them date you lol. Just like guys don't understand simping for a girl won't make her date you. Both sides don't learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:34 PM
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Women have mastered it to get simps to tell them how perfect they are lol. Girl: who is really pretty, omg I am so ugly. Ughhh. Guy: omg you are perfect 10/10. Just look at /ramiugly and all those rejects saying mid women are 10/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:02 PM
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Yea, sadly reddit is an echo chamber and you always hear about the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 09:58 PM
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Sounds like those women choose man children lol. I know tons of guys and women who do a good job a balancing out both things.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 09:16 PM
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It depends on a lot of things. Most men who make a lot of money or successful don't care if a women is equal to them in terms of success. Most women don't feel the same. They want an equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 12:56 PM
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The problem is social media. Women listen to dumb shit on tik tok and think they will find their perfect guy. You have to work at your relationship. I hate to say it but most men are like puppies. You gotta train them in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 12:19 PM
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This needs to happen but men won't stop simping.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 12:15 PM
2

I think what the person is telling you is your idea of what red pill shit should be is not correct. The problem is online has tons of people who scam others with bad info. There are parts about red pill which are correct. Then there are parts which are stupid as fuck and not right at all. I think younger guys in early 20s need to focus and invest their time and energy into a better future than chasing girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 02:14 PM
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I think dating has gotten worse with how people isolate today.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:06 PM
14

I think people are so scared to be alone they would rather be in a shit relationship than alone lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 01:32 PM
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A good read and I have a few friends who are in the same boat as you and feel the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:10 PM
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You gaslighting that person with your bullshit "victim blaming". They are 100% not doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:45 PM
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My guy out here spitting facts. Men let this shit slide because of all the simpin'.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:42 PM
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I know tons of girls like this lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:41 PM
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Just stop. You gotta take ownership of your mistakes. If you pick crazy people are losers you gotta look in the mirror and see you are to blame. 2025 should be about accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:39 PM
1

I hate them so much. 2017 tinder was lit. It was perfect when it was just a hookup app used by younger people. It was not the best for finding true love, but it was balanced with the user base. It might have been 60-40. You could meet interesting people in your 20s, where now it is just shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 03:57 PM
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I feel bad for both MEN and WOMEN. OLD is fucking trash, setup to make these companies tons of money. Men just keep spending money when they don't see 80% of the people on dating apps are just men. Women create a profile then have 500+ likes after a few days, how can a person look into all of that and think hey this person seems like a match. I would say apps just need to be where women can be the only one to do anything and just have guys on standby. It was like that, but the company wanted mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 03:52 PM
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Did I say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:31 PM
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NO. I understand 100% that dating apps are mostly men. The data shows most areas are 70-80% men. Women don't have issues most times with meeting a guy. Younger zoomers are having issues with meeting guys they find attractive now due to covid issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:02 PM
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You are dululu. Women are judging, how many times have we seen women swipping no on dating apps. It is always rules 1 and rules 2. There are a small amount of people where looks is not important, but we have dating app data from the companies which show details like women only right swipe on 6% of men or whatever it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:27 PM
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Because most women try to deny that physical appearance is the first thing they care about. Just stop lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:25 PM
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IMO it shows women are more shallow than men when we are talking about judging appearance only. Something most women will argue does not happen. It is only a problem because it is something most deny instead of acknowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:26 PM
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Couple watching is funny af. Nothing better than people watching on a nice night downtown.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:43 PM
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The problem is men have a larger view of what is attractive. Women are picky af when it comes to attractive. If you put an attractive women in front of 10 men, most of the time all men will agree that women is attractive. If you do the same with women, shit is up in the air. It could be 4 out 10 or 6 out of 10 find that person attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:42 PM
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Just started talking to this girl. Come to find out she has been in 7 situationships this past year. She said she can't find guys who are nice to her and won't just hookup with her and leave her. She is really attractive but goes to a college where the girl to guy ratio is 70/30. Most guys she is interested in can have their pick of whatever girls. She is sweet, but had too many red flags for me. I been trying to help her see the light, but she has friends who make a lot of the same poor choices…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:39 PM
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That is the problem with dating apps. Most of the time the guys on there are not social and guys have low effort in taking good pictures. Sadly with the apps being 80-20 in most areas, the odds are not good for the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:53 PM
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You just said the best thing. " touching my phone as little as possible." When I see a girl has a tiktok with 1000 videos, it just screams they are always on their phone. I went out with a girl not long ago, she checked her phone zero times. It was crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:51 PM
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"Dating isnt hard for men at all because all it takes is a bit of human decency!" In the words of Khabib Nurmagomedov " This number one bullshit my friend". Just more lies with regards to what women really want.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:57 PM
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Lmao most people that were playing video games were happy doing that. People hitting up the gym and following RP shit were like frat bros etc. I mean there is a large mix of people, I think it was just more grifters talking about a lot of men problems which a lot of men likely related to the message.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 03:09 PM
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I think right now a lot of guys don't know when some women reciprocate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:22 PM
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I get shit happens, but doing NOTHING about it in my book is grounds for ending a relationship. It is very disrespectful to not care about yourself for your partner. If I let myself go and turn into a chode and smell like mountain dew and cheese puffs, what women in her right mind would want to be around that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 05:41 PM
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A good friend of mine last 3 bfs and current husband had this issue. She loves to say it is because she is so tiny and things might just be too tight lmao. I don't know about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 05:39 PM
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I feel bad for people that are married men or women and their partner just gave up and fell off hard. One will look normal and the other just gave up. That should be a deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 02:46 PM
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Being a women and large just means they have to pick men who are on their level, but not always lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 02:14 PM
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That is just one year. lmao. Next thing you are gonna say is dudes lasting 30 seconds is not an issue a well lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:35 AM
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There are tons of dudes out there rocking 3-4 inches hard. I have heard tons of dudes slayed for that and being a 2-3 pump chump as they say. We are talking about 100-150 girls sample size, wine parties with 30 plus girls all going at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:26 AM
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I am friends with A LOT of women. Size does matter, time does too. The friends meme is 100% real. Not with ALL women, but a lot of them for sure. "it's not that common, it doesn't happen to every guy, and it is a big deal!"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:10 AM
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Just making a card goes a long way. Got a girl friend something like that and it made her gush. Smaller shit that is personal is much better than bullshit you can buy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:45 PM
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A lot of my friends which are girls laugh and say it is sex. lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:41 PM
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Most people of darker skin color have issues with fitting in. I can't tell you how many Indian girls or girls of color have issues with not being white. Most of the guys they are interested in are white and rarely do I see these younger girls with someone who looks like them. You see it come thru a lot of /r amiugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:46 PM
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Rules one and two always guys. ALWAYS.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:15 AM
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It is a process. Going out on a date should have nothing to do with choosing better. Choosing would be picking bad people to have a relationship with. The whole point of a date / friendship is to get to know someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:07 PM
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Average men are not going for super models. They can't even get one match a week on dating apps lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:28 PM
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I just named a show where they do it. Go watch it. It is all over. Tik tok, /r tinder etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:15 PM
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You know it is a 50/50 split pretty much with men and women. Men are at what, 40-50% single rate under the age of 30. It is something stupid like that. Young women are choosing to not date or not interested in their equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:14 PM
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OMG it is all over reddit do you not read. Just go. I know you are just being a pain. It is legit ALL over. There was a show called late late live tinder where women would always pick the chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 06:46 PM
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Online, movies, shows, parents, youtube, IRL It is said always. Going on /r tinder for the profile review, girls will say looks don't matter just having a good profile is what really matters. They say that shit nonstop. I know so many lady friends who say that shit to other guy friends. I call them out each time. It is BS. Some people it holds true, but most people want to be attracted to who they are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 06:41 PM
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Women say it ALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL the time. Looks don't matter. Looks don't matter. Most times it is girls being nice to their guy friend who is in the friendzone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 06:32 PM
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NGL it depends on the person. If it is a guys who is not use to getting attention or trying to become friends with a girl in hopes of maybe dating. They can not be direct.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 06:29 PM
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Most of that is due to their looksmatch is dating someone higher than them. Average women have zero problems moving up on looksmatches. The problem is they can't get most of those guys to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 05:53 PM
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Sadly this will never happen. Men love to simp in hopes to hang out and think they have a shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 05:50 PM
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If a women is single today it is by choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 05:47 PM
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I like how she does not notice the what 13 million radical feminist in 2xC. Most of the people posting in there are delulu.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:42 PM
1

Like stone cold said. DTA.... Don't trust anybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:29 PM
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Damn. I don't get a lot of random spam via text. Not like the stuff I hear some people are getting. Do you have an apple phone?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:29 PM
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Men can't stop simping lol. It will never happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:14 PM
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Men are the problem. If they stopped simping this shit would not work.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:13 PM
1

If a person asked you how you like to be contacted do you say call me or text?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 09:43 PM
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Is it easy for people to get a hold of you? Like if someone wants to plan to do something for the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:25 PM
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Lmao. That sounds like one of my really good friends. He will see like 2-3 different people in a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 05:47 PM
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Tell me about it. Get loved bomb when you see them. Then text messages are spaced out almost perfectly with delayed response times lol. I will say it is cool if you are busy, then love bombed lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 05:37 PM
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Family group chat will be like 20-30 on a busy day lol. Yeah discord is for the boyz / games. But all that ish is on mute.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 05:36 PM
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WOW wtf lol. I am in discord groups with less than that in one night.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 05:12 PM
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I will say you are spot on with everything you said lol. The problem is overweight people are mostly invisible to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:50 PM
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What. People are complaining about people not being attractive. Most times fat = not attractive. If you remove 60% of the overweight people in America and made it like 15% there would be more people to match with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:19 PM
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Snooping. She showed me her phone and I saw the Christmas tree of notifications. I asked and we talked about it. She said she was bad at responding. I know people in their early 20's are bad at communication. My best friend kills me by sending a message on doing plans then goes MIA for hours after I respond to him insta.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:15 PM
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Yea.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 03:47 PM
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yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 03:46 PM
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They said they have a lot of superficial friends, which are not really friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:34 PM
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Sorry. She is bad a responding to everyone from her words. I am cool with a day or two to respond. She will send 3-4 messages in a row with plans. I respond, with what sounds good, then it could be 3-4 days sometimes before I hear back.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:33 PM
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The person wants to hang out and is always pushing to hang out. I text, message get lost in the sea of message. They text first with wanting to hang out and days they are free. The person in question said they are terrible at texts and missing messages. They use DND a lot and easy to miss stuff. I am just not the person to kept texting them 3-4 times if they don't respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:23 PM
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I just find having thousands of unread text message notices crazy. If you get a spam most time it goes into spam. I can see if you have 10-20 you need to adjust or you are out of pocket for a few days.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:19 PM
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Right. That is what I was thinking. It makes me think you don't have shit in order.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:17 PM
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How people communicate is part of your business lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 01:43 PM
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You don't respond to people who text you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 01:42 PM
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Because of the red sea of messages making it impossible for them to notice when someone sent them a text message. Then responding I missed this text.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 01:42 PM
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No, women judge 100% most people if they are attracted to them or not. If they are, they would be interested in them. If not, giving " friend " vibes lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:18 PM
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So you are going on dates with people you find ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:36 PM
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Because you ask pointless questions so you don't have to answer questions. You are wrong. Just face it. Looks are very important to most people. If not everyone would be talking to ugly people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 08:16 PM
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Do you right swipe without looking at the profile picture on a dating app?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 08:07 PM
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Yes they do. Because sex does not happen with someone not vetted by the women. Looks is the first vetting. Women are not out here sleeping with ugly guys. Just stop, you are just looking silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:52 PM
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Lmao. Yes. It is legit the first step. It is ok to be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:43 PM
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Sounds like women won't be interested in having sex with someone they don't find attractive via looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:20 PM
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Sex is NOT the first step. You gotta like the person. You are putting the cart before the horse. You gotta like someone first. So looks are the main factor to get to the first step, just a date. It is very simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 06:50 PM
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That has nothing to do with starting a relationship / meeting someone. Attraction plays a key part in people being interested in meeting someone. People can argue it is not the most important, but it is key in most instances.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:00 PM
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Yes tons. Looks is the first thing you notice with most people and if you are not attracted to a person most times they are ruled out as a dating partner. Yes, a small amount of people I know / have dated looks were not that important for them. Most people it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 04:19 PM
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Easy to say this when you have options. A women could easily have a relationship if they wanted. What you mean to say is women can't have relationship with men they think they deserve. I am not talking about a normal women dating someone ugly. I just mean two average people dating. I helped a few older people get setup on OLD since they were new. Both were friend's moms, they are both in their 60's and even they were just swiping left on everyone. I remember both of them saying how old all the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 03:21 PM
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OMG Do you not read? Sorry if I have to break it down for you that means you can't read. Have a good day lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 01:14 PM
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Looks is the first huddle and often the biggest reason not to. Add in the fact women are very selective with regards to looks. I have seen some girls think one guy it hot and others think he is not. I think guys overall tend to agree if a women is attractive or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:31 PM
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Dating is slowing down in the zoomer rings. As more girls go to college and less guys are in college it will only be harder for younger people to meet. Dating apps are just terrible for men. The apps are just there to get money from men who pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 04:33 PM
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lmao ok buddy. Friend comes crying to you all the time saying WHAT AM I DOINGGGG WRONG. lmao. She asks why, I tell her why. Guess what, she listened after 4-5 years of being used.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 04:31 PM
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Because my friend, she choose better. That is how lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 04:28 PM
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Yes, because on dating apps people looks is mostly what matters until the first date. Then vibes can take over.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 04:20 PM
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I think people get mad at the settled stuff because you would rather try to date up instead of looking for good matches. It is an insult to settle once you seen you can't get what you thought you could. Sleeping with a lot of guys sometimes comes with a lot of bad trauma. Everyone's numbers are different, but if a girl told me she slept with 40 dudes it would make me think. I also don't think most girls are out there sleeping around with dudes like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 04:10 PM
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That is my whole point. I don't know about you, I am friends with a lot of girls. Very rarely have I seen them go out on a date with someone they think is mid in their attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 03:54 PM
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Maybe you are confused to what I am saying. I am not saying some dude who is a 3 and very ugly has a chance. I am saying someone who might not catch your eye because they are normal looking sometimes has a chance if you spend time with them. There is tons of research and studies showing physical attraction can grow / develop over time. A perfect example of people liking / not liking each other is the show married at first sight. Sometimes people like their partner at first and other times they d…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 03:49 PM
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She was NOT. If she saw him on dating app she would 100% not have right swiped. She was just hanging out with him more in a group. My one friend he suggested they go on a date solo instead of always in a group. At first she was like " I don't know", he is not her "type". They went one a date and had fun and it opened the flood gates. IMO sexually attracted means you would have selected this guy just off of looks, which was not the case. I gave you the reason why, because he does not FIT the type…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 03:32 PM
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Any publicly traded company that is a dating app releases all their data. Men have like a 5% dating match or something stupid like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 03:29 PM
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You just said I could not speak for HER. I told you about HER. It is ok, just ignore tons of research and data about gaining attraction when you spend more time with someone. Attraction is not always an on and off. Girls can like a guy, get the ick then not like him. Same with guys. You are acting like it is some yes or no when sometimes it is deeper than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 03:05 PM
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LMAO I am her best friend. Yes it can. It goes both ways. I can't tell you how many times I was seeing a 7-8 and just talking to them I was not interested in them after a week or two. You can see someone who is average or not your type but who they are can make you like them more. It happens ALL the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:47 PM
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No she was not. Not at all. Nice try lmao. She was 100% stuck on her high ass dumb standards which she dumped after 5 years of it not working.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:35 PM
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Attraction is built over time. Women have a problem with finding men they are attracted to. A lot of them point out men they are attracted to tend to not have great values. Would you not start fixing the issue? It took my good friend years of me beating her up over her male dating selection. Guess what, she stopped trying to match with guys who were clearly more attractive to her and is now dating someone who matches all the intangibles. The old her would have never dated this guy 4-5 years ago.…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:31 PM
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Attraction is built over time with most. Women would start with other things you said and less on is this guy super hot. You will rarely find that combination sub 30's because if a guy has that most are not interested in turning in all that hard work for one girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:20 PM
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I can't tell you how many times I see this work. Guy I know is this, zero problems getting dates. Most times he talks to women no longer than a few weeks before, things did not work out. Most times he slept with them. All you need to be is attractive and interact with women well. He is very charismatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 01:42 PM
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Bro most men can't even get on the dating stage to show their personality. Dating apps are terrible and most men are horrible at talking to / breaking the ice with someone they find interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 01:34 PM
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No. The current democratic left is getting PUSH far left. If you are from the left 10-20 years ago you are now in some peoples view a republican. I see these retards saying how Obama is a republican all the time on reddit. The lines have been moved.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 01:13 PM
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Cardi B was cheating and doing wild shit too. That is not a good example. She pick a rapper who is on the same level as Future. You think he was going to just stop talking to other girls? If someone is thinking that, imo they are just not bright. Gotta be smarter than that. People like him or Future will never change.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:12 PM
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I agree with everything you said. People on reddit need to touch grass more sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 01:55 PM
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You do understand this is NOT happening. Show me a 7 to you. Men who are not average are not rejecting other average women. You just are likely thinking average women are 8-9s. Most men can't even get likes on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:40 PM
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I don't know about 4's being 7's. Just because Americans are now obese does not slide the looks slider over. I been seeing a lot of very average women getting simped by all these guys. Men are the problem for this current imbalance.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 12:56 PM
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I am sorry, average ass men are not focusing on the top % of any women. These bums can't even get a date with a women who is a 4/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 07:40 PM
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The thing I find funny is you have people like Robert Kraft who has billions and super model gf and still hitting up the massage place for the sucky sucky for 100$. Why spend 200k on something dumb like that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 04:51 PM
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It always shows no matter how hot the girl is some guy is sick of her shit. Sabrina's BF cheated on her likely because she was not a good time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 07:37 PM
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I think it would impact of a lot mid women. They would not build their ego for sure. They would be posting more on amiugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 07:35 PM
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You know this does not work with most women. They are scared to get rejected. Just look on areas such as amiugly. You get women posting there all the time saying no guys talk to them or want to date them. Then people ask why don't they ask guys out they like, they respond with "I don't want to get rejected". Like men don't get rejected for taking that risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 02:04 PM
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It is a lose lose game for guys. Just think if an attractive male told a woman he is only attracted to her mind, that shit would so get to her over time lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:40 PM
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I been around lots of women. It is simple if a women is interested in a guy or finds him cute they don't view it as objectification. This does NOT apply to all women. IMO only basic chicks who are a PSL girl type. It is not creepy when it is someone who is a hunk, but if you are a skinny nerd.... kick rocks creepo lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:22 PM
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Women are on more drugs than ever. I am confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 04:55 PM
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No this is a lie. I am friends with tons of girls and watch them fly thru men on dating apps. Ugly, ugly, ugly, ugly..... lmao When it comes down to it women more critical then men on somethings. With that being said most men give no effort. Like brush your hair and get someone to take good pictures of you. Some men are just lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:38 PM
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Yes, people need to understand reddit is full of shit most times now. Don't listen to them when it comes to some topics.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:14 PM
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Your life would be worse if you were a man. Just look at the current makeup of college most are like 65-70% women. Women are always taken care of and someone is willing to help them. Men, not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:21 PM
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This is the best way of saying it. A women no matter how many mistakes people have the " I can help her". Men don't get that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:17 PM
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You for sure get options and things most guys would never get. For example people doing things for you to help you out. Getting in places free, not having to pay for some services, etc etc etc. There are tons of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:17 PM
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No. It has nothing to do with sex. It is easier for women to get into most things than men. People are more likely to help them out than a man. Think about homeless men vs women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:14 PM
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Lmao stats and data is not me telling women anything. I know you people hate real data driven facts lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:20 PM
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Looks is only a small part of things. It is what makes you sometimes notice someone. There is more to it than just looks like you said. The problem is most women will scream to men looks are not important and they don't care. When in reality looks is much more important to most women. The proof is in the data on dating apps. Women only find 5-10% of men on there attractive meanwhile men find 40-50% of women attractive on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 12:55 PM
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Yes I have an SO.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 12:52 PM
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It has to do with the fact a lot of women don't think they judge men only by their looks. When in fact that is the most important thing to most. They just lie, stats don't lie. Very rarely would most girls think the same person is attractive when you are talking about a normal guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:58 PM
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Women don't reject me at all. I call out my friend's bullshit. Just like they get the ick when someone slides into their DM's, but they do it and it is normal. LMAO. Guys need to stop simping and call a spade a spade.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:54 PM
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No no no. It is I have way more women friends than men. They would all say LOOKS DON'T Matter. Then when asked why they did not like X, oh I did not like the way he looked. Seen it OVER and OVER and OVER hanging out with the "girls" watching them do the dating app swipe for fun and they swipe left faster than flash. No profile reading, no looking at more than one picture. Just hot or no. I call them out on their bullshit and then they think. You are just a regarded,it is ok. Most women value loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:24 PM
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Most women don't understand women value looks more than they think. If you asked 100 women to say how many men they find attractive out of a 100 men it would be much much lower than if men did it. I would say women would only find 10-20 guys attractive out of 100. If men were doing it would be above 50. I do know most guys can try less, but I think most women their they are prettier than they really are. Most is due to other women lying and "friend zoned simps".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:17 PM
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Everyone I know in IT makes above 150k. Working for deloitte, meta, apple, google, any finance IT job that is not entry level. It was a meme by some of my friends because they change jobs every two years for a pay bump. Current few friends are working at deloitte making mid 200's and looking at places to get more.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:00 PM
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I don't understand Why these dating apps don't let you filter / search for anything. Like if a person wants a POC who is an anime Weeb, you should be able to find them. If you are only interested in dating a white girl with red hair who is interested in shopping, fine. Dating apps do anything to stop you from finding people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 05:28 PM
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Yes, they want to fuck. Most are not looking for a long term relationship. Remove the guys looking for a house wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:22 AM
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Younger girls have been getting bolder. Girls in their early 20's still in college trying to get people I know to date them. It is not going to happen. Guy who is early 30's (32) making 200k does not want to "date" girl in college who is 21. I have a large friend group of guys who are early 20's and they think I have it made. A few should make it as they are working on a master or something higher. I tell them not to judge what others have now because growth 10 years ago was much faster than now…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 04:21 PM
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Young guys are fucked. Many young men struggle with social interactions, particularly with women. While college campuses offer ample opportunities to meet people, some men may find it challenging to initiate conversations or gauge interest. Online dating, while accessible, can be frustrating due to the imbalance between male and female users.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:24 PM
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Most of the time it is women who want attention at their call. If nobody they like is free to hang out with they will call on the simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:45 PM
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2x is the worst lol. All those women who post there daily should be a list and have a stamp on their head so we know who they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 10:13 PM
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We know this. Subs like two x chrom are filled with 12 million man hating women lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 10:12 PM
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Guys just need to stop being losers. Women are out there, learn how to talk to people in person and meet new friends. Dating apps are terrible now, OLD was only good during 2015-2017. That is when the averages were close to 60-40. Now it is just shit unless you are in an area that does not have tons of guys. Most college girls don't use dating apps. Colleges have some of the highest girl to guy ratios.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 03:16 PM
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I think the left is going to have a point where they split. I am like you and in the middle. I don't agree on any of the things the far left does or wants. The extreme side it is there way or nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 02:55 PM
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It really needs to happen. My SO.... It drives her kinda crazy. She can't stand a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 02:21 PM
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It will only get worse now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 02:04 PM
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Yep, that is why I think he lost. Covid was very fresh and people were done with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 04:02 PM
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I think it more of the combination of the last 3 years have been hell for others so they just gave up. Look at history when one side does bad it swings the other way. Perfect example Bush SR.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 03:56 PM
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They would 100% ban you if you posted anything they don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 01:44 PM
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Two x chrom has 12 million unhinged hateful women posting misandry everyday. If that was a guy sub it would be banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 01:43 PM
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We call them simps. I think some guys just never get attention so they just simp really hard for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 06:08 PM
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Please tell that to the 12 million users of Two X chrom. That is the breeding ground of crazy women almost. Not saying all of them are crazy, but a lot of them are for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:17 PM
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I don't think men have an issue with tall women or even overweight women ( NOT OBESE ). If we are talking about an average man. It is just the chad's and attractive men who have options those women are invisible too. I look at the amiugly sub and the number of overweight women who get told they look perfect or 10/10 is really high. I think it just depends on who you are asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 01:22 PM
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NO... noooo nooo. Women don't want to come off as superficial as men and will lie about it. I almost ALWAY hear women / lady friends say they don't judge based on looks. Been a ton of times good girl friends are hanging out drinking wine then busted out the dating apps and start looking at guys. They do the omg, looks don't matter, blah blah blah. Then start swiping left faster than almost any guy I seen swipe. Zero profile reading, once they get called out on it the brain starts smoking and it …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:00 PM
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Correct. But I know tons of ladies who don't think they do what men do. Ruling out others based on physical traits. Legit some people are blind to it. It is so funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:46 PM
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The fact they don't even know they are doing it. Most times you point out, it is bad for not liking a girl because she is fat... They will say it is bad. Then you point out it is bad for not liking someone because they are not 6 feet and sometimes their heads will explode.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:31 PM
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There does not have to be a next move. Sometimes just bringing something to attention would let people understand better. I worked in an area where women thought they were out numbered and I laughed and asked if they were joking. They never go into work everyday so their view it felt that way. I go into work everyday and started to help them count the women in our work space. Almost 55% women. They just mostly work remote or did not come in often. It shifted how they viewed things. Nothing neede…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:35 PM
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FUCK YEA. Sign me up for Cameron Brink all day please. She would never date a guy smaller than her. Very few women would date a man smaller than them. So not really much of a got you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:07 PM
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I don't think it is a " NOT FAIR". It is more you are blind and don't see it. Thinking everything is "HARD" to be a women in the world today. Yes, it might be hard if you live in certain areas. Living in the west, it is an advantage than if you were living in the middle east somewhere. Women are leading in more things in the zoomer age group. COVID fucked over younger kids and seeing boys lagging behind in a lot of things vs girls. For example, friend groups, college, jobs, moving out from paren…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:05 PM
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Not sure if they do that, I think they only swipe on hot guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:52 PM
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Tons of zoomers girls do it in college. It is for " fun ". They get just want to feel good and it is an easy way to do it. Nothing to do on a Sat night, not feeling your best. Throw up thirst trap pictures tinder and have guys fawn over you. Always makes them feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:33 PM
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Why can't you put in the work?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:31 PM
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Not going to lie, men ruin shit for other men. The no standards. The endless simping. The worshiping of ladies. Guys stop please.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:28 PM
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Most zoomers men are single. They don't have the options to fuck around. Women have a HUGE advantage in the dating market currently. Women are in charge of who or what they want to talk to. The problem is all these average women think they should be dating Chris Evans. Not delusional just see how younger guys are fucked. Gen Alpha boys are 100% fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:39 AM
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Men don't do that shit. Fucking players or chads. Normal looking average men don't have those options. Only women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:28 AM
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The safe option is most times done when a women is getting old. Oh, I just turned 30 time to look for some safe guy who has his shit together since I could not find a bad boy project and have it work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:18 AM
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I think a lot of what you said is spot on, but masturbating feels better for some because of a few things. I know someone who she can never get out of her head when having sex. She can't shut her mind off and starts thinking about dumb shit like work, life etc etc. She even does this when masturbating and sometimes takes hours. Being inside a toy vs a women is nowhere near the same. Toys for women are much better as of now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 01:29 PM
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Odds are stacked against men because the apps are mostly men. The apps view men as free money.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:39 PM
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Almost all the apps are dudes. That is what happens when 80% of the apps are all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 04:56 PM
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This. Sadly most younger women are like this. Zero peronality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 04:55 PM
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most people are miserable, nothing will fix that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 04:52 PM
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One could argue they treat the 9 worse lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 02:16 AM
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It is more the rules don't apply to everyone. It is not like that for everyone, but I see it happen often with my women friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:23 PM
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It is crazy how often they don't say what they mean. You can do that..... Turns into you should have known I did not want you to do that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 08:59 PM
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You know you really are showing you have no clue what you are talking about. A whistleblower would be something like Boeing. You talking about not trusting raw data released by a publicly traded company which hundreds of people could spot fraud is the most tin foil hat thing ever lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 08:01 PM
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You think a company big a tinder is going to fudge some shitty numbers. You are talking about faking stupid shit lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 07:52 PM
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Yes because they won't get busted by the FCC lmao. Please.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 07:43 PM
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Peer reviewed data is nothing vs public released data for share holders. It is illegal and fraudulent to release fake data during share holder meetings.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 07:41 PM
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I guess you are terrible at google lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 07:34 PM
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Go look it up. Tinder is a publicly traded company and release all their data aka tinder insights. Things like 80% of the users are men and things like that. Also there is a sub reddit where women post their tinder insights and very few of them sleep with or hookup with their matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 07:29 PM
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Who says you are NOT the majority. Data and other women. You know the data like dating sites have because they are a publicly traded company. I am saying what you feel and act like is NOT how the majority of women act. Just stop lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 07:25 PM
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You are NOT the majority. That is why I said VERY FEW. Lmao the world does not share your viewpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 02:23 PM
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Most women don't like sex over safety. Very few women are out there doing shit like that. They want to wanted not used. Very few women get any enjoyment out of one night stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 02:09 PM
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I mean it is a double edge sword. The hot guys are going to even get more attention from average women and use them even more. I don't think this is the win you think it is lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 01:45 PM
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I am friends with a lot of women. I understand their pain in have 100-200 options and zero of them they connected with or liked. It took my one friend years to find a guy she liked. She was extra petty because she wanted to date a tall, attractive, white, doctor/lawyer. She never got anyone from that group to do more than just use her for sex. After 2 years of that, she met a friend of a friend who was nice, 5'7'', ok job, person of color. They been dating for 7 months now. She was looking for b…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 02:53 PM
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Not really. Go look at /r amiugly. I see these post like 2-3 times a day easy. Before it was not that big. These are girls who are 18-24 who never had a guy come up and talk to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 02:34 PM
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Finding a partner is something that takes a long time. You meet someone and get to know them for months. Everyone is different tho. Women it is easier for them to get dates, therefore they would have a better chance at finding a partner. For men it is much harder to get a date making their chances of finding someone much lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 02:33 PM
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If you look at the /r amiugly area almost all the women who post say the same thing. They want to know if they are ugly because zero me approached or talk to them. Oh well. So sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 02:31 PM
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I am with lots of women. I would say 80-90% of them talk about their S.O. It can be how bad they are to them not putting out, sometimes about how good a hook up was. It happens just as much if not more. I find men complain less about having sex, meanwhile women will have something bad to say most times.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 12:29 PM
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Women are still in control of it tho lmao. They are choosing to make this stuff. Nobody is forcing them. You have people like Mia and that other girl who left porn and say how terrible it is...... BUT THEY STILL DO IT. Both have OF and do tons of porn still. They tell girls how they should not do it, but have zero problems doing OF porn to get millions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:33 PM
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Yes men do. They get listed as a fuck boi or player. They even made a movie about it. Guys don't care most times if they get called that, women get sad if they are called a slut. Also other women call each other a slut more often than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:20 PM
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Currently men will get shamed more from average zoomer women for shooting their shot. Young men has been shamed into hiding lol. That is why you see all the zoomer girls posting on amiguly because guys won't talk to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:18 PM
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Women are in control of the content. There are more girls doing OF than normal pornstars. Any girl can fire up PH create content and have links. Women run to where the money is. It is why you see all the corn girls running to twitch and doing other things to bring in money. You can't just be like women go where the money is, they are the ones choosing to do that. Nobody is forcing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 02:26 PM
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This is the biggest problem men don't understand. Always rules 1 and 2. If you are attractive rules don't apply most times.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 12:58 PM
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Umm you are confused. Men get shammed for being perverts unless you are some super hot guy. As a women most times you can just exist and have people interested in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 12:58 PM
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Ok. I am going to call BS on this. Porn most times now is women in control with their own content. It is not like it was 20 years ago when you had some scumbag in charge of bang bros making millions and toss out little money to women. The porn you see and how it is listed is due to the women content creators. They are the ones still creating that stuff like that and on reddit. So you can't blame shit on porn anymore when most of the people who are in porn are in control of their content.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 12:56 PM
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Come Nov you will see how many people don't. Vance is a dumb ass which most people don't agree with. That 43% don't even know anything about him besides his name.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 01:36 PM
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occasional. lmao Two X is full of what 7 million hateful women. Who don't get blocked or banned for talking about hateful talk. Meanwhile if people say the shit they are saying but supporting men, they will get reddit censored. That is the biggest echo chamber of crazy people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:57 AM
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Lmao. This just shows how crazy you are. Women are the leaders in college and higher education. They are now in the driver seat for all things now. You are talking about a small group of people. More people in the U.S support womens rights and should have access to abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:52 AM
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OP was talking about that. That was the whole point of this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 04:59 PM
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You asked a question and seemed lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 04:02 PM
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The two threads OP linked.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:54 PM
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First off all misogynist is the biggest lie right now. Everyone is just using as a bussword for when someone does not agree with them. Second nobody says those things don't exist. They are not accepted. Women misandrist hate is accept and cheered. Subs like two x chrom if it was a man space would be closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:51 PM
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On the thread it was all women blaming the man saying it was his fault. I don't see your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:27 PM
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He made a smart choice. Once she saw there was nothing she knew was was being crazy. It is more than likely she was crazy in other things and this was the last straw.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:26 PM
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He is just justified. If she was thinking like that it will only get worse. It will just always be something else. It is a red flag and she needed to be dumped. After she has the baby and is fat and feels terrible, I am sure she will start saying and doing the same again.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:38 PM
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lmao wtf is this shit. No man in their right mind should be taking care of someone's else kid if they don't know about it. It should be a choice, not tricked.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:37 PM
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Reddit is full of misandrist hate. It is too funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:35 PM
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Not really. I see more young zoomers on both sides having issues finding people to date. Zoomers have poor social skills. Shit is like - 5 from base.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:28 PM
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Most of them pretend or don't know. Such a horrible thing to have people interested in you. It is funny fat women scream they get ignored meanwhile normal women get fawned over. Both complain but have different views lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:14 PM
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It has nothing to do with having sex. Those women are not interested in looking at average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 05:11 PM
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You act like those women are interested in fat ugly men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:43 PM
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I think you are missing the point. You are talking about the end point, not every guy just wants to bang and move to the next girl. Do you know how many average men are on dating apps that can't do what you are suggesting. What you mean to say is the guys who you are interested in are attractive and likely they would only use you for sex because you are not on their level.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:36 PM
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That will never happen. It will only get worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 01:52 PM
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I am friends with a lot of women and sometimes they will go on a rant on how hard it is to find a date as a women. I then drop a ton of info and their mind is blown. Most of them just think men have as many options as them with 50 people just waiting to meet you. Once they learn most girls might get one connection in a week, that is when they start to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 01:38 PM
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We see women single because of their personality IE they are a bitch. Some men can get into a relationship due to their personality. I feel it is less likely now than it was 10-20 years ago. Because of how many options women have now on the dating market on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:24 PM
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Yea. I think that happens a lot more when someone is younger like 15-21. I agree with you, but it is not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 09:23 PM
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I think it should be the best way. Just not something I see very often and I would say I been close friends with over 300 women. I would say less than 10 % were like what you described. Most women would not get to know someone like asmongold then start to think he was attractive after knowing him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 04:54 PM
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I would say it is less that way. I am friends with lots of women, it is always a yes or no. Sometimes it can improve after they meet you, but not often. I think you are in the minority for that which is not a problem. It is the women who are friends with guys saying looks are not that important when it really is for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 04:44 PM
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Always rule 1 and 2. A story as old as time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 04:16 PM
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I think it works like that for some women. There is a larger amount of women who are vocal who scream looks don't matter to them. Then when you dig into it.... it does. They gaslight men to think looks are not important when it really is to most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 04:14 PM
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My fav is when a girl will go post on a gaming area and post a picture of her in a sexy shirt wearing whatever the topic is of that sub reddit knowing people will dig into her profile and boom there are the OF ads.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 02:04 PM
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A lot of women on two x chrom say stuff like this. They think women are pretty, men are nasty and ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:01 PM
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Umm. I have not deleted anything. Try again lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 07:44 PM
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I disagree. I go to the gym everyday. Zoomer girls have perfected weightlifting and no matter what the person is you can train your body type to be what you listed. Is it easy... no. Can it be done, yes. But Americans want the easy way instead of hard work.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 05:32 PM
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Sadly it won't take off your not in reality glasses. Fat and Obese are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 04:52 PM
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Fat girl skinny guy. I see it ALL the time. https://www.instagram.com/p/C6r4BCQsEms/?hl=en&img_index=1
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 04:36 PM
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It has been proven time and time again. https://youtu.be/d5ZxjcZieHk?t=1085 I have seen tons of video where someone like this person is obese and not have an issue with finding people who are interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 04:32 PM
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LMAO. That is not an insult. That is a fact. That is not a personal insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 04:29 PM
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You people really don't have an idea of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:08 PM
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Stop using words you don't know what they mean. overweight women have zero problems with OLD. But, I thought you said everyone hates them lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:07 PM
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Do you think Kim K got more attention when she was fat with a BBL or now in her skinny phase? These are trends the elites do, most normal people don't want a women getting any of that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:33 PM
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You are fucking crazy. Men have zero problem with fat women being pretty. When Kelly Clarkson was fat, do you think people did not find her pretty? Kirstie Alley same. Christina Aguilera when she was fat was still pretty. Christina Hendricks gained weight and was fat for a bit and was super pretty. I think you are confusing OBESE vs FAT / Overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:29 PM
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Nobody is. That is the point. Wow, a few trolls do it. They do the same with fat nerdy guys. Or guys like Destiny who is a cuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:18 PM
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I think men point out how crazy women are with regards to fat women vs fat men. It just shows lots of hypocrisy. They say and want all these positive things for women, but the men are ignored. Women won't even date normal skinny guys. Fat women still have options lmao. Being a fat women is still better than being a normal guy or fat guy. Living life on easy mode and don't know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:16 PM
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The point is MEN are not looking for it. BBL or no BBL, if the person is cute they will be liked. BBL's were created by Kim who ALL the women wanted to be like.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:12 PM
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This is not the norm. You are talking about something sooo small it almost never happens and making it seem like it happens everyday. Fat people get trolled online for saying stupid shit. Like Lizzo, don't lie to people and say being fat is healthy and you should enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:10 PM
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People are not going around actively shit talking your size. If you are a big women, you are likely not trying to talk to bigger sized man. You have the option to still date normal sized people, meanwhile fat men get the option of being alone for their life. Not even the overweight women are interested lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:05 PM
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Women are way more judgmental and cruel than men. Women heavily enforce the beauty standards. Why do you think the area instagram reality is a thing. All of them are using filters and getting stuff done because other women are doing it. Men are not making them do that. Men just ignore fat women and women ignore fat men. You are confused because people say hateful things to a fat women such as Lizzo because she is stupid and saying dumb things like it is healthy to be obese live your best life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:02 PM
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No, you can't say fat women get hated on and ignored and both are true. Fucking nobody is going around saying shit to fat women. Most of the time they are ignored which is why the women are mad at people. They don't feel they are treated as a human because they are ignored. Old women get the same thing, they both lose pretty privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:00 PM
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You are crazy just stop. No fucking guy cares what most women wear. If she is wearing a 100$ pair of Jeans or some 10$ sweat pants. You are getting men and women confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:53 PM
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Lmao COPE please. None of what you are saying is true. Women would 100% be disgusted if a fat man come up and started talking to her. On Two x chrom where all the crazy ladies post, they always say how the fat women are ignored. So, they can't be hated on or angry at if they are not seen. I think you are confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:51 PM
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What is your point. You think women are going out of their way to date fat men? Women ignore normal dudes with nothing wrong with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:49 PM
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You are confused. Most men don't care if you did not have lip filler, boxtox, fake top, fake bottom, nails done, hair extensions. Women are the ones picking and doing that. Also they are the ones on social media all using filters to look skinny. Even people like Olivia Dunn photo shop to be even skinnier. IT IS A SICKKKKNESSSSSSSSSSS.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:42 PM
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Most men don't like fake boobs and butt implants. Perfect example is a recent husband did not want his wife to get 6-7 surgeries she wanted fake boobs, fake butt and lipo. His name is Alexei and he is on a TV, his wife went crazy and has started the I want everything done now. There are a lot of the women who WANT TO DO IT for them. But, I guess you skipped that part lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:40 PM
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Sure you were picked on by women. Women are the nasty ones, smile in your face and shit talk behind you. You have not only been picked on by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:35 PM
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I don't have this problem. I am friends with mostly women, THEY have this problem. Once they are out of college it is very hard for them to meet someone that meets their standards. Most times something has to give.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 04:57 PM
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You are NOT the norm lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 04:38 PM
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If you read enough subs it is all over the place. One of the biggest is am I ugly. You see tons of women posting there thinking they are ugly because they are delusional thinking they are more attractive than they are. In their mind, they think they are a looking at a guy and he is a 4 and he is really a 7. So they are only looking for guys who are 8,9,10 because they think average men are not attractive enough. Then you see the post, am I ugly because men I like don't like me back. Then they al…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 04:35 PM
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No. I am complaining about the delusion women who post online via reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 04:27 PM
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So something 1/3 of American's do is a type. The number would be higher if you were basing it off of single people not in a relationship lol. When you say type, it makes me think of a fads. Look this zoomer has their nose bull ring. That is a type. As you get older it is much harder to meet people. I have a friend and she is just like you. She would die single than meet someone from OLD. She also has crazy standards and it likely going to be single for the rest of her life because of it. Which s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 04:12 PM
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It is not really a type. It is what most people are forced into because there is no real dating market like there was 20 years ago. People would meet in different areas of life. Now most people who are just getting back into the dating market are forced into OLD because that is where most people are. Do you think people who are 50-70 would rather use OLD or just go to an area to meet people. OLD at its core would be good, just people misuse it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 03:59 PM
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The point is a large group of them won't admit it. That is the whole point lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 03:08 PM
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No. You have lots of women out there saying they don't pick based off of looks via OLD or IRL. We know this is not true based on data from OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 02:42 PM
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Most men are not lying and understand looks plays a large role into the selection process of finding someone. Meanwhile so many people out here saying " LOOKS DoNt MATTTERR ".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 02:41 PM
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I am not complaining. I am saying most women don't live in reality when it comes to knowing what they really want. They say one thing, but their actions say otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 01:45 PM
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You understand more people use online dating than not right with regards to being single. I am going to listen to a one off person posting on reddit or a company which has posted metrics and data of millions and millions of women. 30% of the 350 million Americans have used online dating in 2023.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 01:29 PM
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I did not say ALL. I said MANY. More than they realize. It has been proven on dating sites and data from them. Most women were spending less than a few seconds to reject options and left swipe. With that data it is impossible to read all the info to see if you could match. Meaning women were mostly only basing men off of looks. Which is fine, just a lie most women say. Looks DON'T MATTER! Why the fuck you lying', you always lying. " Meme"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 01:08 PM
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Nah, I think they are just calling out all the bullshit women say to make it seem most are not superficial. So many women lie about looks not being the top thing that matters when it really is. That is ok, own that shit, but they gas light instead lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 12:55 PM
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Sorry, it is pretty easy to understand. You can't say all your relationships start off as friends then say you don't want to date friends. The end of the day some women have a hard time with they don't like ugly guys. No clue why this is so hard for them to accept.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 04:03 PM
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Rules 1 and 2 always. Fucking internet been around for so long and guys not understanding rules 1 and 2 always. If you are not ugly, rules do not apply lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 04:01 PM
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You have zero situational awareness lmao. You don't need to people watch to understand wtf is going on around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:17 PM
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To be honest, never seen a shirtless guy in a normal gym. Some gym's are influencer gym's and they tend to have those type of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:45 PM
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There is this girl who swims in my pool, she always comes in the water full makeup and we always wonder why. After she gets out of the pool, she goes into the bathroom to reapply her makeup and then will get in the sauna. lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:43 PM
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Something in wrong with you then. I notice everything. Indian guy in a pool wearing slacks and a polo shirt. I think to myself, wtf is this guy doing. Girl walks over to my area and bends over in front of my face with really loose shorts NOT wear underwear and you can see everything. I think wtf why.....
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:41 PM
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Would be interesting if escorts was like it was overseas if that would help women more or less. Because if there are tons of women doing it for easy money. You could spend 200$ or whatever it is in Thailand likely more men would leave the dating market and give women peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 03:28 PM
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Yeah, dating apps are kinda being forced in some age groups due to how disconnected people are now. Once you get from 24-35 meeting new people is hard for the average person.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 05:05 PM
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Most times they are tossing out free ass. I seen it done over and over again. Currently seeing now with a friend. She is below average and she is dropping clues on what they are and trying to get him to meet her family and do vacations. She makes a lot of money as well and pays for everything. He just can't get over the lack of attraction to her. He is ok with just keeping it breezy and sex only. It has been awhile lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 04:00 PM
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America is home of the fat. Sorry, drop the pizza.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:55 PM
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I am saying all the shitty people should be together and they can both live their shitty lives together. Nothing more than that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 12:37 PM
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Yeah, what you said is hot things are most times. If tinder was like it was in 2015 shit would be different. Guys to Girls on tinder back then was not 50/50 but much better than the 80-90% men to 10-20% women it is now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 06:08 PM
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misandry online with women is as toxic as redpilled shit. Two X chrom is full of crazy ass women who need to be locked on an island with trump and all his people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 06:02 PM
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You can pick and choose things you want. It is not all or nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:06 PM
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Doooooooooo it. Start up the draft and pull these women and put them into the Army. Please they need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:29 PM
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They can stay angry with men over there, the west does not need more women yelling at the sky. Can we send our angry women over there along with the trump people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:26 PM
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Hot guys are the 5% of men on dating apps that 90% of the women swipe one. Those guys are not trying to settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:25 PM
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Let me guess karma queen has met all the men in the world lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:15 PM
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Long as they stay over there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:12 PM
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I don't think average women understand "Hot guys" don't want to settle with average women or give up unlimited options to date a mid girl. They are going to keep doing their thing until something happens or they grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:58 PM
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Most women don't enjoy being a fuck hole. They want that LTR, but that guy dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 01:52 PM
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Everyone can't ice skate uphill. Average women thinking they can do stuff attractive women do only hurts them. They end up posting on am i ugly because the guys they want are not interested in them, then they become jaded and post on two x.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 01:31 PM
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She is just hoping one day he will want to date her lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 05:20 PM
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No I am not missing the point. I understand everything. Just more men than not don't feel that way. The other poster knows that and is just trying to play the victim and say nobody ever wanted her or was interested in her unless it was for sex. It might be shitty, but better than the NOTHING most men get.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 11:53 AM
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This is the biggest problem. Nobody wants to grow together, nobody is going to be perfect. I was not with my SO. Her words " She would rather die than let some other women get her hard work in building me up".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:17 PM
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Not only for sex, dating maybe. If women stopped chasing guys above their level they would see more balanced relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:14 PM
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Most women's preferences are dealbreakers as they "won't SETTLEEEEE"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:13 PM
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No. Most times people already know they going to be friend zoned but will still try away. You should be able to tell if someone likes you or not. Sadly zoomers are terrible at that. I remember being in class and a girl said hi to two of my friends and they were arguing over who is going to ask her out first. I told them to calm down, she just said hi and was being nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 06:26 PM
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Sure you would have no problem with a lady aww hell naw on your vag. You know sex release oxytocin. Most times when someone is having a crisis emotions are high and sex in something that happens. You know when those couples which have huge blowout fights then have sex right after...... yea.. It is ok. Just move the goal post.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 06:24 PM
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Yes. That is why I have as many female friends as I do male friends. You just hate men. It is ok. Maybe you will find someone who will enjoy the true you and stop being so angry at life online.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 04:36 PM
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Ummm, two things can be the same and different lmao. For example a dark chocolate vs milk chocolate. They are the same in both are created by the gender. The guy who is in the friendzone creates it and hopes if they try hard enough they can win them over. The women who is in the situationship creates it, hoping the other person will date them. Both have the same goal of trying to win the other person over. So they are the same, but done different ways. A person might say a pick me girl would be …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 04:30 PM
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I can't speak for most men. Only the ones I am good friends with and myself. We are down to speak / chat with anyone from older women to younger women. I always find it funny when getting hit on by girls who are 19 / 20. Younger people are just broken right now. I think COVID setback young zoomers a lot with personal relationships. You act like women are not lusting after all the hot men they have zero chance with. Let's be real, you have a strong hate towards men. I am really sorry you had a lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 04:19 PM
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They are different, but the same. One is mostly a tactic done by women, the other mostly men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 04:12 PM
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I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 03:45 PM
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Accepted.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 03:32 PM
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100% on point. The end of the day it is okay if the guy looks good or the girl is attracted to him. If she is NOT attracted to him, it is not ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 03:10 PM
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Don't listen to her. Just normal bullshit moving the goal post. They are out in full force.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 03:08 PM
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Because a lot of women play games and won't make the first move. Can't tell you how many times I had girls say to me oh, I wish you would have asked me out on a date when we were friends. Or they drop the I liked you when we were in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 03:07 PM
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You have posted one of the best things. Most times the girl was getting some sort of emotional support from the guy and that is all she wanted. Not interested in him or she would have made it known.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 03:05 PM
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WTF That is the dumbest thing I have heard today. Congrats you win! The best way to start a relationship if via friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 03:04 PM
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The world can blow up any second. Most times friend zoned victims are men. Most times people who are in situationships are women. The reason is because both sides do it to themselves, men hoping that if they are friends with a women they like they can get in and maybe get lucky. Women do situationships to men they like, they fuck them and hope by keeping this game going on they might start dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 02:55 PM
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They are the same but for the other sex. Men get friendzoned, women get in situationships. Same meaning they both want something different. The guy wants to be in a relationship with the girl when friendzoned. The girl wants to be in a relationship with the guy when in a situationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 02:33 PM
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No. I understand. I even said it. It does NOT change the fact someone still is interested. Men mostly want physical and women want emotional support. You just want to move goal post as I said. You can't pick and choose what you want. End of the day the point is someone was willing to give you some attention. You can't say oh it does not count because it is not the attention I want. Men just view me as a hole. Not all men treat a women like a fuck hole. I can't speak of the guys you know, but I k…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 02:30 PM
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So when you have sex a guy is pound you in the ass for 5 mins? You just move the goal post. Why can't you just say having sex, why do make it stupid. You are making it as some beautiful women is coming over. Most guys are not into pegging so you are making something stupid on purpose to get your fake point across which still does not work. You refuse to compare apples to apples. If a guy was in a shitty spot in his life and a female friend came over and tried to sleep with him MOST men would lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 02:17 PM
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This is why some women are clueless. Here let me help you out. SEX = ATTENTION You would never know this because you are not a man. Then you go up making up shit in a stupid why. Why do you make it gay with a strap on. Why don't you just leave it as you coming over and fucking someone? You know why.... because 90% men would be fine with that. So you move the goal post to try and make a bad point. Also some men would be perfectly fine with you pegging them. Because they get ZERO attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 02:05 PM
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Like I said, you are a women and can't understand. You will always be wanted. Someone will always give you attention, be there for you. Help you. You just don't even notice your privilege. Since it is not what you want, nothing is better. Men get zero attention or affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:53 PM
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This is were men and women are different. You will never understand someone "wanted you" vs "nobody wanting you". It is ok, you can't understand it. Someone will always be interested in you, you will just move the goal post and say it is only for sex. Meanwhile all the guys out there can't even get a women to say two words to them lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:41 PM
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No, they both are the same. Both sides want something different. The girls in a situationship want to date and hoping to win the guy over. Guys who are in the friendzone are hoping to win the girl over as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:04 PM
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lmao. That is the I can fix her. Someone would still want you. A man, never. Take the trash out nobody is interested. Most women, someone is always going to feel sorry for them and help out. Why do you think most homeless people are males.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:51 AM
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100% this. Most women just don't see this or understand it. You can be at your lowest as a women and someone will always want to save you or fix you. As a male, you are fucked. Nobody has the WE can fix him vibe.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:10 PM
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lmao... You are smoking something. Women are sooooo fucking picky. I have a lot of female friends. I seen the craziness first hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 02:03 PM
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lmao. Real life is not easy lmao. It is different for everyone tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 11:20 AM
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Ummm... That is the point I made. lol. There are others doing it that are not undesirables for example guys like Curt Caz, I don't think he would ever date a western lady. More and more guys like him are interested in traveling and meeting locals who are much nicer. He is not the avg, but for sure guys with money are starting to try other things because right now things are pretty mid in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 03:34 PM
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lmao ladies will be mad, but not like they are interested in the guys doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:05 PM
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If you think that is healthy or good lmao I can't help you out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 04:14 PM
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When the dating pool is 80/20 for college, all those women will be single and stuck without a bf. I go to some colleges like this now and it is like a shark in water. What are you talking about lol. Going to be lots of future cat ladies who won't date a non college guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 12:20 PM
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Guys are just fucked. Like zoomer kids who played mincraft nonstop and watched youtube videos have a hard time doing people related things. Not all, but they would rather just chill in their room instead of having to people lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 09:17 PM
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Are you in college? That shit is going to be hard to meet someone post college like 25+. I just even mean friends not even gf's in late 20's early 30's.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 09:10 PM
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Thank you!!! People do not understand college is a mess right now. I see some schools having 80% women. These girls will say hi, flirt with you, walk up and start talking. They are looking for guys to talk to on college because there are not many of them and most are dating someone or gay. With # 1 I will be interested to see if women will start to date men who don't go to college even if the girl is in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:24 AM
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They won't be forced, they just won't do it. They are fucked because GL in a girl getting a good enough man, shit was already bad a some colleges thirst as fuck girls looking to chat up an guy just getting lunch alone lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 04:27 AM
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Those women from college are going to likely only date college men. If colleges are starting the trend of only have 20% men those women are going to have a harder time find men with higher education lmao. They fucked lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:27 AM
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All the men are on dating apps looking for women. College is stuffed with single women in the 70-80% student rates. If you want to find a girl friend, so hang out at colleges.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 10:47 PM
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I almost feel like 80% is low lmao. Dating apps 80% men, some colleges 80% women. Wtf could go wrong here lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 08:14 PM
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Nah, it likely means that was the only option. They got burned out because they could not get the "hot guys" to get in a LTR. If you are a hot guy and not trying to get married, why you trying to put down a winning hand. It is one thing if you find someone you match well with or someone you knew well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 08:09 PM
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The biggest problem is ego boost for women. Young college zoomers only download dating apps when they want something fun to do and ego boost. Never really interested into looking for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 08:07 PM
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Fat has to really do with a women having a gut. If you look like a capital B, that is not the shape to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 04:47 PM
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Men are not thinking those type of women are fat. For a perfect example KJ is a cutie and she is what you are talking about. She is a muscle mommy. https://www.instagram.com/kj_johnson101/?hl=en If a women is fat it most times has to be obese for men not to like her. Now, the top guys will not be attracted to someone who is a size 9/10 and 5'3.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 04:01 PM
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Do you agree women have more options meanwhile men's options are vastly limited?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:29 PM
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They did not say for being fans of t swift.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 12:21 PM
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Umm if you don't understand the current problems with the new wave of feminism you can't be helped. For some it is not about being equal it is about being better.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 08:38 PM
1

What about no and know?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:51 PM
1

It is ok. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:40 PM
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Video games will forever be #1 enemy of most women. It steals that attention away from them lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:37 PM
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Fuck cats lmao. I want to see the person who feels they need a cat. Having on is ok, but needing one...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:26 PM
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Know someone it takes her hours to make herself orgasm. RIP
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:23 PM
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This is a joke right? Lmao. Where is the /s. How many are they allowed to be, or each one is a deal breaker lmao. Good luck being single some of them are so stupid. What is wrong with making fun of crazy Taylor swift fans using adult diapers to pee in so they don't miss the show. It sounds like you can't laugh at things when they are funny or stupid. Meanwhile some of your items I agree with, for example too far left or too far right. Wtf is up with the never breastfed by his mother lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:16 PM
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Woah both men and women are pretty terrible right now. You have all the crazy cat women on two x chrom feeding the hate cycle. Much larger than any sub reddit that has hate talk all over the place. Every day you have women posting on amiugly who are 18/19/20 saying young guys won't even talk to them or they never had a date. This problem is likely only to get worse and I can't wait to enjoy watching it. Meanwhile I am having zero problem interacting with gen alpha girls and zoomers. But, the guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 01:06 PM
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It is ok. Let the hate flow with you lmao. Hate hate hate. You will never love someone lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:02 PM
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No not at all. I have a S.O and friends with lots of women. I get along better than I do with men and I get along get with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 12:25 PM
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90% of what is post on Two x chrom is made up fiction to feel loved by someone. It is all bitter women on there. Maybe the two should mix.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:37 PM
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I just laugh, the shit is so funny to see. Think of all the kids who are gen Alpha and 10-14. It is crazy to see how they act because tik tok and what their friend's do. All the young girls hate the way they look, whenever I see a niece take a picture he always blocks out her face because she hates she does not look like the pretty ig girls like Oliva Dunn. It is crazy to see how many teens are getting botox and filler. Boob jobs and bbl were normal once they got older, now teens are getting it.…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:34 PM
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Lmao, getting three dates on a sat with all hot girls. Everyone was looking for something fun. We joked and would call it a double header or triple header. As with anything in life, nothing good last long. Now some people just use it to validate and see if they are wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:58 PM
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You said you won't date guys 5'10. So one inch is a deal breaker. You sound crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:55 PM
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It just tells me about your mental health if someone who is 5'11 is not tall enough for you lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 12:34 PM
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She did get lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 12:33 PM
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Please tell me why 1 inch is a deal breaker lmao. So you are cool with guys not liking fat girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 09:26 PM
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That is kinda sad if 1 inch means that much. Like is that really a big deal, if it is you should really think about it. It should not be. Tall women are amazing and she be free to date all those 5'9 guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 08:58 PM
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Just listen to her... The problem is " majority men" .... future cat lady 100%. She will never settle. That being said my friend did settle and found a nice guy. Who knew being under 6' meant you could still be a normal guy. She is 5'4 and he is 5'6. I been making fun of her for like two months. She said she was stupid, but she kept that " never settle" shit in her mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 08:54 PM
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The problem is there is a huge gap. You are having colleges where it is 80% women and OLD that is 80% men. When will they start to even out. Tinder in 2015/6 was great. People knew what it was for, there was not as much BS. Shit was simple then.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 08:50 PM
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Good idea. But being 5'10 is much closer to 6' than women using the 10 year old pictures. When it comes down to it OLD sucks. It is fucking 80-90% men. Women don't have issues with dating. They have problems with having too many options.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 08:46 PM
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Daytime television is dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 05:41 PM
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I thought the % of women dating other women has been going up much higher too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:39 PM
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This was is a normal girl. She was super super normal. She is not some hot IG influ girl. She is a solid 5-6, she is cute but has a great personality. My SO and I don't know what change, there was a two year time period where she wanted something that she was not going to get. She came down to earth and met a great guy. He is 5'6 and if she kept her stupid standards she would not have started dating him. Those items are slowly the normal on dating apps, which is what she was using. In person it …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:08 PM
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Yeah I think OP is confused. Like you said there is a large group who is vocal on Sydney not being pretty or is ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 01:38 PM
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Sydney Sweeney is not even really pretty, she just had huge boobs. She is okay, but she is nothing like beath taking. I find Halle Bailey meh. Now if you said Halle Berry now we are talking.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 01:37 PM
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Woah, did you mean to change men with women? Men are attracted to a much larger group of women type than women are to men. Women are NOT versatile to what men they find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 01:31 PM
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The problem is zoomers and younger can't interact with people. Only going to get worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:24 PM
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It is a growing cancer which is impacting more and more people. They have tik tok mind rot and want stupid shit. It was the same as guys doing red pill shit. How many guys were watching Tate, a small amount. But it was talked about like it was some huge group.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:33 PM
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I will say it is a small amount, but women on dating apps are wild. Only interested in 1-2% of the guys on there, that kind of shows you the other problem going on. Did men get worse or did women start changing what they wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:32 PM
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Settling it is pretty simple. Like what you said, my friend she has settled. She wanted a 6 foot+, doctor, who was hotter than her and enjoyed the things she did. She settled with a guy who has a good job and is interested in the same things she is but is 5'6. They are even in the looks department as well. I am happy she went with dating someone who is equal to her instead of dating some HOT doctor or person who makes a lot of money and don't make her a priority.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:41 PM
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Mid 20 to late 20's you start seeing when fuck boys will only be fuck boys. Some girls won't care because they are hot tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 12:34 PM
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until they get older and want the hot guy. It is not like they will date more normal looking guys. They will all still want the hot pos or someone who is flashy or has a good job etc doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 12:27 PM
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damn France is sounding good from that point. Too bad it has all those other issues lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 11:52 PM
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I agree, but it is funny when you see it from both sides. I had a guy friend and a girl friend who both had crazy dumb high standards. The guy never once said omg I can't find a good girl, where are all the good girls. He later lowered his standards and found someone. My girlfriend she kept saying OMG, I can't find a good guy. There are none. She was only trying to date guys who were 26-29 doctor, hot, tall and made a lot of money. I love her, but she is a 5 at best and all of the doctors and la…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 01:09 PM
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complain vs have a realist expectation. Some people want the world and will never get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:31 PM
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Women only say hey sometimes when they are not really into people or trying to talk to the 20 dudes in their in box. They just hit hey to all and talk to the really hot guy they hope to land, but won't because he is just trying to smash.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:22 PM
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No lmao. Legit you see this nonstop in Two X each day.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:23 PM
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The worst part is the female echo chamber. Fucking two x chrom is fucking mind rot cope for women. That is where the crazy starts. Everyone will yasss queen, all the men are just intimidated to talk to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:15 PM
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Women, because they say it all the time. The I am happy single is the cherry on top.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:10 PM
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You go king! lmao. Fucking women and men are dumb for different shit. Women gas up stupid choices, men fucking with their endless simping to get a women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 12:52 AM
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I will say it has been wild to see girls super aggressive towards men who have their shit together. Been approached by so many more women under 25 post covid. No clue wtf is going on with zoomer men, but something is fucked. Not interested in anyone, but girls are for sure looking towards men who seem to have a house / car / not going out to party every weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 07:58 PM
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Long as she tries to make you happy in other ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:47 PM
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That is just sad. To me it seems like your wife just does not give a shit about you. If it works for you, cool. But man that just screams to me they don't care. Every partner should always want to make the other happy, sometimes by doing little things and others just attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:12 PM
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Shit all these sites is just another way to suck money out of guys. Almost all these women are going to be bots ran by men looking to funnel money out of people. Or just bots like old tinder us to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 06:06 PM
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It will never be more than all the toxic shit that man hating sub has lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 02:48 PM
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WTF. That was not a thing in 2013. That shit is legit different stuff today. It is used so much now, you had the MTS, city girl etc and all those female rappers spamming that shit nonstop. When back in the day you had only Niki who was mainly the only female voice in pop. Same with OMG never settle, love yourself. All that shit is just setting people up to fail. The never settle really only happens because of dating apps and endless options people have.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 02:47 PM
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You pick out one normal thing when most of the shit they are talking about how all men should die and be locked up. Even seen a girl post a tat that said don't trust men and men are evil. All the girls were like hell yea. If that was a male sub, would be locked down.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 01:57 PM
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God, two x chrom is a fucking shit show. One of the most toxic subs out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 12:25 PM
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Also this women is part of the problem. # never settle and boss babe.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 12:24 PM
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I mean, how can you not enjoy watching Big Ed fuck his life up lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 11:50 PM
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Not gonna lie, I watch 90 day Fiancé with my SO. I don't follow those people on ig or anything like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 11:34 PM
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The problem is more and more people are forced to only tinder. Zoomers can't even talk to each other let alone women. OLD is shit odds for men is all. 2016 tinder was nuts. Like shooting fish in a barrel lol. Both match, then hey lets get it drink. Then it was smash city. So many times where it would lead to what me and my friends called a doubleheader lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 05:26 PM
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Or maybe they know how to read data released by publicly traded companies on stats they release. Tinder is not IRL. But, women have very very low matching rates like under 5%. If you seen any insight data you would know this. At this point it is almost always a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 04:42 PM
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sadly this is where most men are in life lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:43 PM
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I love asking the good questions. What do you do for work, what did you go to school for. Easy to weed out the girls who won't be getting a real job.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:33 PM
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Women don't like ugly men lmao. That is just a trope they use. They are out there left swiping on 95% of men on dating apps with less than 10 seconds spent on the profile. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:10 PM
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Yea, I don't think she understands that. Like she better be a 10 or doing something else if she thinks that guy is going to make her a LTR. Most guys who fit what she is looking for won't waste their hard work for just one women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:40 PM
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Shit, you are being nice. Women are really only likely interested in 10% or less lol. Those Tinder Insights are wild. The other day had some single mom who was 35 who had like 10k left swipes and 200 right swipes and 70% match rate and 100% first date fuck rate lmao. Women live a different life with regards to OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:04 PM
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I think it is fair to say nobody is interested in dating any american if they are like the crazy loud women type or bro guy from america.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:44 PM
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I agree. It is funny. They will be like, ok. I am going to end things, but the guy has like other options and is like sure if you want to end it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 04:29 PM
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Look up TRT. All pros and fighters use that shit. It makes you next level. Google TRT Vitor Belford. https://www.instagram.com/bloodyuppercut/p/C0uaKmDpW6i/?hl=en
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 09:21 PM
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LMAO. Someone people don't understand others lose more in a day than people have made in their life. Fucking Elon trolls reddit and X all day. I bet dude has like 20 alt accounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 09:20 PM
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The top is relative. Women are only interested in men they are attracted too. It could be money, it can be looks, it can be both. The problem is women are more picky when it comes to looks with most men. Meanwhile men are less picky with a women's looks most times. Sadly we can't use dating apps to give a fair view because there are so many men on dating apps they will swipe on anything. If you watch online content like the button women will lie about how they view each other and overall give me…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 01:39 PM
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Nah. I think looks is part of it. I really think it depends on how women feel from you. For example it has always been easy for me to talk to women and I have a very warm smile. Post covid has also sparked people to talk to others more from my point of view.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 03:03 PM
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I legit said it is the exception. THE EXCEPTION! Not the rule. You are crazy because you can't see/ understand that. You think the rule / standard is men have some laundry list of needs that need to be met for wanting to go on a date for a women. Most men are simple and are pretty clear in what they are looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:06 PM
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because you are legit crazy. Men don't have fucking tons of requirements for women. Most of the times it is, is she cute? Yes! Is is not a bitch, yes! Cool lets start from there and go on a date. Women have like 10 things before they will even think about it. Cool your friend is the exception not the rule. Men tend to not be picky on what they are looking for in a partner. My friend, we make fun of him because he was like your friend and had all these dumb requirements. Must be fit, like working…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:18 PM
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That sucks. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 06:36 PM
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Lots of people like the shy nerdy girl. It is not seen as bad as a boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 06:12 PM
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Yeah that sucks. Just find someone online if you game. Tons of discord groups with girls who play games along with guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 05:30 PM
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I think OP means it is seen as quirky or cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:43 PM
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See that is the problem. Most zoomers don't talk to girls like gen x had to. So they don't understand all of that. Then you add in all the shit people have wrong with them while interacting with someone. I feel bad for really young zoomers, getting to know someone and processing all of that what you posted is like an all time high. You two are talking and the vibe is right, she flips her hair, reaches out to touch your arm when she laughs. Lip bite. Gives you random compliments on stupid stuff, …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:41 PM
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lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:18 PM
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hahah. It is a joke me and my SO use. How the dating market is so fucked if something were to ever happen we would both just never look for another partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 03:08 PM
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Lmao tons. I actively have as many women friends as male. An overweight women still gets hit on and can find a date. Meanwhile a guy in the same boat would not. Fat dude can't even get girls to go without with him. https://youtu.be/az_TjhQn1Wo?t=61 Fat girl who has dudes nonstop in her DM's. Cheated on her husband and left him for a fit dude. https://www.instagram.com/p/CqWNWKevcck/?hl=en&img_index=1
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 02:57 PM
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No it really is not. There are tons of youtube videos of people doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 02:40 PM
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Nah. You can use the worst looking picture of a women you can find and she could have no problems meeting someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 01:58 PM
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This is the reason why I will never do any other relationship if my SO were to be a abducted by aliens, because of what you said. Very hard to find someone who is interested in the same things let alone do things with you and learn to enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 01:56 PM
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lmao get off of reddit. That is not the normal person. You people watch too much youtube. I have a friend who is 34, she is cute, very smart, she is a doctor and has a very long list of items in what she wants in a partner. The problem is she is not looking, because she thinks by chance they might just meet each other. Like, it is really unrealistic to think you are going to meet someone if you are not even looking. You can't hit a homerun if you don't swing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 01:46 PM
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You still gotta talk to people and get to know them. Wtf you think dating is like car shopping? You read reviews on what other people think. You won't find the one that way. Zoomer women are having a real problem finding any guys to be interested in them. I am not talking about the ones who want to take them to pound town. I am talking about the ones who are looking to date them long term. So have fun with that women who are 17-24 lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 01:40 PM
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You mean like this? https://youtu.be/j_3M_tBRxSg?t=89
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 06:58 PM
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You see Nelly, we need more people like you. Most women are not truthful and they really mostly care only about looks. It is the most important part. Instead most like to not be truthful with what they like in order to seem not shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 06:56 PM
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I don't think people understand what being an introvert and extrovert are. It is like you said and if you interact with people and it drains you, that would make you an introvert. If interacting with people gives you energy that is what would make you an extrovert. You can be social and be an introvert, it just drains you and you need alone time. Welcome to my ted talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:06 PM
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I hate to say it, but most women are turned off by zoomer introverts lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:04 PM
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Almost all girls in my friend group say looks don't matter. All personality, then when they have swipe parties never read profile and omg he is hot. I do have girl friends who don't put much info looks and will date person on how someone is. One of my best looking friends got herself a short king. Legit 5'5 max.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:25 PM
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If they stopped lying and just say the truth others might understand. Instead they lie and die on the hill " LoOkS DoNt MaTter ". lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:01 PM
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well if you are talking about big ol women, you can be turned off by that. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1KWvMyO9iyI
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 06:58 PM
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women lmao. You gotta have a check list for most of them. I am friends with a lot of women and start laughing in their face once they start talking about not able to find a good guy. My SO also was laughing too. Legit my one good friend would not go out on a date unless a guy was making over 100k. She would look for doctors and lawyers. She is nice but very average and the guys would have fun with her but not date long term. My SO thought it was very shallow of her to only be interested in a tal…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 06:54 PM
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Because women lie saying looks don't matter. When in fact it is the only thing that matters to most women. This is proven on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 06:41 PM
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Only going to get worse lmao. But this hurts girls because they want to talk to the guys who only want to bang the average girls and they get used and left lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 06:40 PM
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It really depends on the women. If the guy makes money and the girl is stupid hot. Most times men would not care. Most men who have a good job don't care what their SO does.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:18 PM
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Pretty much lol. I really just miss reddit from 2009-2016. RIP
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 02:37 PM
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People on reddit now just use bad words to try and label someone. If you don't want to see some shitty movie, you are a misogynist. Wait, maybe I don't want to see dog shit movies lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 02:27 PM
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Misogynist is the second or third misused word reddit / internet uses. Shit just makes me laugh every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 02:16 PM
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Right and they are bitter as fuck too. Most likely posting on reddit Two X everyday saying how unfair the world is to them lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 02:16 PM
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Rules 1 and 2 with women always.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:34 PM
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I love how zoomers ladies are getting owned by men not giving normal women attention. When you look at subs like /r amiugly it has so many younger women 18-24f saying how they have never been approached by men or dated anyone. It is so different than 10-20 years ago. Now since they don't get approached these women think sometime is wrong with them. It works both ways, right now average to normal women are confused as to why nobody wants to talk to them. Everyone is at a loss right now. Men and W…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:12 PM
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I am talking about single men, their friend's start families. Legit just seen it happen to two of my friends. Friend group of 10 dudes and 1-2 move for job and then a few had babies and stop hanging out due to the kids. Others had gf's who took up their time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 01:39 PM
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I think the OP might be confused with ages. I know lots of guys in their early 30's killing it. Making over 150k young, like to still do fun things, meet girls in mid 20's and have fun. Current close friend started dating someone who is 25 and he is 33. It all depends on the guy, if you were ugly and not getting attention when you were younger, just being older is not alone going to help. That being said younger guys are fucked, college % are like 65-70% women now, most are only interested in da…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 08:37 PM
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OP most people lose their friend groups because they are starting families and don't do single stuff anymore. That does not make you below average lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 03:39 PM
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I saw some of them and I would say most were average to below average. So much depends on the person, like for a POC most people might not think they are attractive. I thought most of the male partners you posted looked better. But, things were even for the most part. https://www.instagram.com/p/C2p_aAePAkG/?hl=en Average male on the far left.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:36 PM
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You are so wrong it is not even funny lmao. Which is why women rejected 98% of men on dating apps due to looks. All insight data is released.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:11 PM
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Men almost never think they are hot. You are confused with women. Men if lucky they might say they are average, while you have women who think they are 7-10's.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:09 PM
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Know a lot of young girls who don't want someone who will let them win fights. Their words, I don't want someone boring lmao. Meaning gives them what they want to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:56 PM
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I agree with you, but your experience is not the norm on dating apps. They release all the insights and data of users. Sadly we know what happens because public traded company.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:50 PM
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I agree, men treat dating apps like slot machines because dating apps are 70-80% men lol. So that is the only option most times. If you are only swiping on .05 - 1% of men is kinda sus. There are girls who post their insight stats where they left swipe 30,000 men and only right swipe on 500 or so guys who are not interested in dating them only sex. Not sure if you know the metrics, but insights gives the full breakdown and most times it is funny. Girl will go on 10 dates, have sex 10 times guy w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 03:40 PM
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It goes back to /r iamugly. Women wanting to know why THEY can't get a hot / 10 guy. They get pumped and dumped. This happens all the time to overweight women dating men who is a fuck boy and only interested in sex and using them. But, the girl is happy at first because she is dating someone hot. But, he won't date only her and just interested in sex. I agree about what you said with regards to dating someone because they are kind, funny, smart have their shit together. But, women are more picky…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 03:01 PM
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It is not self-esteem, it is being delusional. When you have a girl who is 170 lbs 5'1 and thinks she is a baddie 10. That is a sickness. You see perfect examples of this on shows like button and jubilee. Men are more realistic with knowing their place, they make users get in a line where they would rank people in place. Most guys will say they are average 5-7 max. When girls do it everyone is a 7-10 and each girl will say OMG queen you are a 10, if the girl does not rate herself a 10. delusiona…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 02:32 PM
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I would hope so you like women. lmao. Still does not change women overvalue their looks. While guys undervalue. You never hear guys going, I am a 10. Meanwhile mid AF women are like OMG I am a 10 boss babe.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 02:10 PM
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I agree with you, I think women's self care is much higher and they put in way more effort than men do. But, the reason most are more aesthetically pleasing is they use more tricks than guys do. Lying filters, makeup, Botox etc etc. Some women without makeup look like a different person.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 01:43 PM
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Because they are not that attractive and think they are prettier than they are. Normal guys like them, but guys who are the 7/10 are not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 01:41 PM
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I don't think women are more beautiful. It is they think they are higher than they are. Most times men are bad at doing things to look better, not wear clothes that fit well, terrible hair or long hair. Women are using filters, make up and other things to enhance their looks. Most men do is beard which helps them. You are using people with status as an example. Men date down with pretty women who offers looks, meanwhile some women date a guy with higher status or something else (funny). No clue …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 07:17 PM
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It is not self confidence it is being delusional. You hear all of the, I can't find a nice guy or no guys like me. When it really is guys I like don't like me. Not sure if you ever looked at /r amiugly you see so many young zoomers saying no guy has ever liked them. Most are attractive, it is not likely guys don't like it, it always seems to be "hot" guys don't like them. So now these younger girls think they are ugly because they can't get the hot guys. Small sample size, but you see these post…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:18 PM
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Two X Chrom is the biggest hate group on reddit. They get away with so much shit. That sub should have been banned after the all others like that got banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 02:22 PM
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I mean it is the same for two x chrom. It is filled with all rejected ugly cat ladies. Just happy to be in an echo chamber yelling at the sky.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 01:23 PM
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But you gotta get past the look check. Some guys have a hard enough time taking a shower and wearing shit that does not have holes in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 03:52 PM
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That they are. I hear that shit a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 03:33 PM
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Yeah. Simps will pay the money too because they can't meet someone IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:45 PM
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It is only gonna get worse. Not all are like what you said, but from what I can tell the ones who are like what you described are the kids staying at home playing minecraft for 10 years. I go to the gym and see younger guys interacting like normal, age 15-20. But they are doing things with social groups so I see this as normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:33 PM
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Dating apps are just a joke. Created to make money off of keeping people single. Most guys are too shitty and awkward to interact with women out in the open. So they all get online and flood that market. 2014-17 tinder was crazy tho. Now dating apps are like facebook for boomers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:28 PM
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See that is the problem. Young males under 25 suck ass in holding a conversations. Add in the fact zoomers don't interact in groups very well as other groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:23 PM
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or you are not a hot chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:18 PM
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The problem is men. All the fucking simps out there and dudes who are thirsty as fuck are the problem. All OLD is full of dudes trying to get with girls. Girls are always looking for someone better than the guy they might have matched with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:15 PM
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That is what happens when you simp. Just gotta go travel and meet women from other areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:10 PM
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Sadly women have the power in the dating market now. That won't change anytime soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:09 PM
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I don't think it is related to forcing. It is just the floor now because of so guys are down so bad they try extra hard. Most girls I know it is a red flag to them if the guy does not pay for a date. Date must also be at a nice place like Chris Ruth's. If you try to go Dutch or do coffee they will think you are a broke / cheap bitch. Words from Pokimane, because her male simps could not buy her 30$ shitty cookies.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:20 PM
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Don't worry, that dude is just simping all the girls. I get your point, the simps are ruining it for everyone. Because their simping will be treated like the normal. When you go look on am I ugly you have those basic ass girls who might be a 4-5 getting told by simps, omg you are a 10. If I lived near you I would make you my gf. Men are a joke sometimes. They created this OF mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:17 PM
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younger men just go full simp mode. Zoomers can't help it. Most of them can't speak to someone unless it is on tik tok lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:15 PM
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You are are not ugly. Just you being skinny is enough for men to simp for you. It really depends on the women and how they act around men. Some people with RBF or people who won't make eye contact will not get attention. Most girls over sell their looks, but you are not a 3 or 4. You can say average, but I bet with makeup and a good picture you are an easy 5-6.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:24 PM
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Too late, so many moms are hover moms lol. They won't let their kid outside to go play. Kids get stuck on the ipad and not interested in doing anything else than games. Nothing is wrong with games if you had a mix.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:11 PM
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This shit ain't new. 90 Day Fiancé show has been around forever. Almost always it is someone who is old trying to date someone who is hot and young and not from america. Fucking big ed over here trying to date all those girls in their 20's and he is 54.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:28 PM
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Hey if you are interested join the Air National Guard. You can do like 1-2 year and only do 1 weekend a month. Your job has to hold your job as well while you do training. Plus you will be around lots of people you talked about. Or you can get into car hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:00 PM
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Most men are not interested in an alpha women. It just sounds like drama if you are a man or women with someone who is the alpha. Maybe she should try looking for younger guys because men who are her equal will likely not be interested in her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 02:57 PM
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That lady sounds crazy as fuck. 15 mins on a date with her and most men will nope the fuck out. Why would a guy who is on her level want to talk to that hot mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 02:55 PM
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wtf so many young college girls trying to be like other college girls with rich guys in their DM's. Sorry you only know ugly people lol. Know someone who just got flown out to NYC. Also that is why OF has like millions of people know where it had very few people and most of them are ladies. SM is fucking terrible for younger women and men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 01:09 PM
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yeah a lot of male simps just hoping to virtue signal to get laid lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:40 PM
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I would disagree. I think IG and social media is rotting young peoples brain. Girls see other girls flying around living the life and want that too. But, they don't know these girls are getting flown out by rich dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:44 PM
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I swear to god so many women say even if they dated down to a nice guy they are assholes. So when date down? I don't agree with them. I think if they dated down they would find someone who would treat them better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:43 PM
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If a man wants to split dinner and that is a red flag because you think it means he is cheap or won't spend lots of money on you it is a red flag girls. Also won't do coffee date or something small because they want that 300$ dinner. The girls who are, I am using my 300$ make up and 100$ face cleaner lmao. That shit is running around because men found out they could do small easy dates to make sure the person in question was real to their pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:57 PM
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I think the issue is more about women having their cake and eating it too. You can't be like oh we are equal, but won't date a guy unless they pay for the whole date. It is a argument the egirls always lose. It is the same for women not interested in men who don't make as much money as them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:26 PM
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There would be more providers. It is not expensive in canada and other areas where it is legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:49 PM
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I really want to see what would happen in the dating market if sex work became legal. Price is not crazy for most countries and would be interesting to see if this helps women from men or makes it worse. No need to simp if you can spend 300-500$ and sleep with a 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:46 PM
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Yep, you are right on the money. It is pointing out the crazies and it is an easy red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:30 PM
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Covid fucked up a lot of things. But in the last 5 years shit changed big time. The dating pools are fucked. Zoomers are like 20% lgbt+ now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:21 PM
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I think the best thing is women say all the good men are taken. Is that really the problem or are they they problem. Have a friend who is Bi, she always said ever man she dated was terrible.... Now she started to date women, and she is running into the same issue. Like come on you are the only thing consent in this picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:09 PM
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I agree with you that most men do not have standards. From what details I picked up it seems you are not from the U.S. It is only worse over here lol. I understand about being disgusted with a guy on that part, but maybe you can chill out on the other areas. Instead of NO, maybe limited. It is hard to find a person who has self-control and is an adult, man or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:38 PM
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This is in fact the case. They have studies from research and dating app details. We are talking about people looking for LTR not a weekend fuck show lol. Just like most college girls are not interested in military men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:31 PM
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wow, so you gave up on dating lol. Well, I think you know your list is unrealistic. How about just learning to meet people you like instead of using boxes to see if someone is good or not lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:03 PM
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Yes, there are exceptions. Most women want someone who went to college if they went to college as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:10 PM
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Men are not on dating apps posting no fat chicks. Which is pretty much what you are selling. Which I think it should be fine, but if you say that about women, you will get burnt. Not saying you won't find someone, but likely you will have to adjust your list. I wish you well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:08 PM
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I just know lots of people who are not interested in someone not having the same education level as them. Most women feel the same way. Moreso if it is higher than grad school.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:06 PM
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There have been tons of studies and data women who have went to college only are interested in dating men who went to college. Same goes for higher education. So if all colleges are trending towards 70/30 there will be a problem for women in the future. It has nothing to do with money.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:13 PM
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Men get killed if they say that now lol. If a guy has your list in a dating bio, they would be killed lol. You can get away with it because you are a female. If you find 60-70% of men attractive that is kinda high, just the fact your list rules out 90% of men without taking attraction into it is funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:12 PM
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If a man is saying the stuff you are saying. He would be listed as toxic lol. If a man said, I won't date any fat girls. Two X chrom would find you and burn you. I don't mind the weight thing, I get it. But, we are not even getting into the fact you don't have looks listed in your floor, which is why I think your list is kind of silly. So can a guy watch no porn, no games or where is the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:43 PM
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That is not the problem. It is your floor is so high, I am sure your other shit it just stupid and nobody would be good enough for you. I am also going to add in the fact you are not likely a 10 so there making it unlikely you will get picked by top guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:00 PM
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You said those are the floor. Which we don't even get started on if the person is good looking, has a good job, you enjoy doing the same things. That is your floor. Your ceiling must be crazy lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:31 PM
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How old are you? You just seem unrealistic and I see lots of cats in your future.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:23 PM
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The fact you have not found someone lol. Also do they have to be attractive or just meeting those are good enough for a start?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:22 PM
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I mean, if you are a guy who is lucky enough to be in college and attractive you will kill it. Then the girls will be like, I don't understand why they don't want to date me. You have a cheat code to life right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:07 PM
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Just like south park said lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:06 PM
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Oh god, I must have won the lottery. I sadly fit all your things, but I don't think people who meet your goals, you would meet theirs lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:05 PM
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Those standards are pretty wild lmao. No porn watching, or video games. Because you list addictions, but I am sure you mean NO games lol. Also the world we live in everyone has a mental illness pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:02 PM
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Yea. Well, he is getting paid much more now. But, it had nothing to do with him having an MBA.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:38 PM
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His MBA cost 120k lmao. I said it was not worth it. But, he did not want to be out paid lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:35 PM
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This shit is only gonna get worse for the zoomers. LMAO colleges around here are 70% female 30% male. Then the colleges which were mostly male colleges are 60/40 for women. Gonna be a lot of single women or they are going to accept they won't have a SO who did not go to college.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:20 PM
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My friend's wife made more than him, she was making 150 and he was making 110k. He went to get an MBA just to make more money than her. He now makes more than her but his job sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:17 PM
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It depends, are you obese? Do you not live in america? Have you been on dating apps and had zero swipes? So you get zero matches on dating apps. Dating culture has been moved to online and guys not interacting with women in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 02:08 PM
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She said she is not going to just date anyone. 100% she could get on a dating app and match with people and get to know them. But, she said nobody went / asked her out. She did not say anything about her reaching out or talking to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:34 PM
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Even if you were 300 lbs you would have guys who would swipe right and get to know you on a dating app. You have options. Very few men do. You could get a date, meet someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:32 PM
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You have options. You get responses. You are not ignored. You can't find someone worthy of your greatness. lmao. If you can't find someone on the earth is it everyone else or a you problem? because if you are a women in 2023 and can't find a male S.O you are likely the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:20 PM
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Why are you lonely?? Is it by choice? A women no matter what could find a male option.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:14 PM
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Both cousins married out. My male cousin was really into black culture in college. Then dated / married a girl from the UK. She is amazing, but when we were younger all the other black girls were pretty nasty about it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:33 PM
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lmao. Women are not looking for mediocre guys, that is why on dating apps dudes get like 1-2 dates every few weeks if they are lucky. Women are in the driver seat for picking who they are interested in. If they are not attracted to 80% of the men, that is their problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:22 PM
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Men do it as well. Women tend to avoid red flags if the person is hot enough. If a women is a 5 and some guy who is a 7-8 starts giving her attention, he pump and dumps her then she is all sad. She knew he was a POS person, but nope did not care. You see these type of post ALL the time on Two XX chrom. The difference sometimes is men know about the red flags that is a women is crazy, but they are stupid and sex > everything else. Women got the I can fix him when it comes to hot guys lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 12:41 PM
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Cope. 100% She is not the norm. I hear QQ from women nonstop about not finding the right man. My friend who is mid 30's doctor was trama dropping about not finding a man yet. She is looking for an equal, and it is not easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:29 PM
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Don't worry, sure she is posting in two xx how happy she is being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:27 PM
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Rules 1 and Rules 2. Always.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 01:07 PM
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people like fixing things lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 10:06 PM
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Well. That is good of you. I am just friends with a lot of girls and they don't share your openness in a partner. As they start racing towards 30 they worry and start to drop some of their stupid requirements in finding a partner. My really good friend she was super normal with what she wanted in a man. Her college sweetheart was super average / mid as she is mid too. They were equals. They are now broken up and she is only wanting to date 6 foot Chads who make over 100k. She is 27, needless to …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:07 PM
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No it does not work that way. You can date the guy who is your friend and is a nice guy. But, you only want to date someone HOTTT. The problem is once someone starts to age out then they want to open up their options. Do that when you are young. The problem is people never want to give people a chance or maybe you don't know what nice is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 06:16 PM
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yea more women and men are wanting to be single. That is because they are choosing shit people and not giving people a real chance who would likely treat them right.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:13 PM
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I mean it is a cycle. Men want sex, so they will do whatever to get to that point. I blame men for simping on women, all those dang guys love bombing people just ruin shit. OLD was so good back in 2015-2017. Then all the guys who can't meet women IRL started to bomb the apps. It went from almost 50/50 to 70-80 / 30-20 ish.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:54 PM
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No, I am just saying about your point talking about read on the internet. That area is living proof of I read it on the internet so all of X people do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:51 PM
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My point is men are kinda forced to pay because if you don't that is likely to be a red flag for some women. I think if you are into a girl and ask her out you should pay. But, the problem is most women would never ask out a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:50 PM
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yea, just saying a lot of college girls will flake out sometimes if you just wanna meet for drinks. I blame all the girl boss tik tok'ers who are making all that know your worth content.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:49 PM
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haha bulllshit women never approach. They will push really hard to beat around the push that they want you to ask them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:43 PM
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haha women are learning, if you do something like that low effort they won't meet up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:42 PM
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Please go look at two xx chrom, they will disagree with you that all men are horrible lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:41 PM
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That is good and all but lets be real we know you are the exception. Most women never want to ask a guy out. They want to be wanted. So you are asking for something that is never going to happen that often.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:41 PM
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always rule 1 and 2. anything is ok if you are hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 12:48 PM
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Maybe not a 20 y.o but 23-27. Also colleges are 65-75%+ women now. Not every women is going to be able to date a college man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:50 PM
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I don't think people understand how often men use their 20's to find out what they are going to do. For example some guy who is 25 is still living his life like he is an 18 y.o. Meanwhile a 25 y.o women is in a different space not interested in dating some guy who is playing xbox eating taco bell every night.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:28 PM
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Sooo all the cope which two ex chrom dumb shit those air bags post? I see the shit getting harder for lots of my female friends once they start hitting the big 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:26 PM
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It is not her friend, he says he is related to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 01:07 PM
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Guess you live in a perfect bubble. Guess you never been in bad parts of town people try to grift money off of you. This girl acts like that wait til she has to ride the subway in nyc or locals in the streets of Chicago. In the words of Kobe Bean Bryant Soft. The guy did not even say anything disrespectful and you are making a big deal of someone trying to hit on someone. Such a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:59 PM
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That girl has problems and needs help in real life. That reaction is why young people are fucked. They can talk to random fucking dorks online, but can't handle talking to someone in person. Young people are fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:50 PM
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The millions of men who have a swipe rate of less than 4% don't agree. Tinder gives the averages and men get swiped on 4% of the time meanwhile women are 40%. The game is rigged for OLD. Most men will just get depressed when they get that one match in two weeks to have the women never send a text or message. Or when they do it is Hi and low effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:04 PM
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Online is the worse way for a guy to mean a women. Fucking OLD is terrible if you are a guy. Good luck getting past the 80+ % of men who make OLD. Men should always talk to a women in person. That is always better than the 1% most men get on Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:51 PM
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Most women who went to college are not interested in men who did not go to college. The % is like 80+.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 01:23 AM
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It can't be good, it is almost all men on Tinder lol. Not sure if you are on the /r Tinder guys get like a 1 - 5 % swipe rate while women are like 40-50 %.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:03 PM
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So you are cool with dating someone who is likely to have no future and likes to play x box with the boys while living in moms basement.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:01 PM
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saying something is retarded is a slur lmao. Stupid, dumb, there are tons of other things women find distasteful. Or how to talk is different with them around.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:00 PM
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Or call you an incel. Just the fact some people want peace lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:32 PM
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OLD is terrible for men. Wish they would just get off of it and talk to every single cute girl in IRL. fuck it if they are not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:31 PM
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Just watch the video. It is was created by all of the drama created in the last few years. I get it, we have chat spaces where no women are allowed. It is not worth someone saying something and then having to walk on eggshells.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:16 PM
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WTF are you talking about. You don't have to include women in to your friend group. It is not sexual discrimination. You don't have to befriend them. You don't have to get lunch with them. Just have to be professional and keep it pushing. Women are QQ on Social media they are not being included in friend groups with men. Including hanging out after work, or small talk. There was tons of things and it was all over tik tok and twitter months ago. https://youtu.be/cnfb7DTDXBw?t=168
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:09 PM
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Tinder releases data since it is a public traded company. They give stats and most areas are like 70% men with a lot of cities in the 80%+. For younger girls they are not interested in tinder to find dates. Just fuck around on it to get the I am liked feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:58 PM
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It really depends on when you used dating apps. Pre 2018 it was much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:33 PM
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Don't worry they already are lol. Women posting why won't men talk to me or include me into groups at work. Because nobody wants to walk on eggshell with some women around. OMG someone used the word retarded or dumb... Women speaks in offended.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:31 PM
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because dating apps are terrible for men. You are better off IRL talking to women than the dick fest online dating is. 80% males in most areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:23 PM
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that sub is full of crazy ladies, don't worry about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:18 PM
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I seen a lot of non fresh and fit shit that only say the shit you said in the second part. There is legit trend with anything positive with men being negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:12 PM
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yeah, all are listed as TOXIC. Meanwhile all the crazy cat lady groups like two x is a fucking hate group and don't get banned. Problem is only going to get worse, I feel sorry for young men growing up being 18 is a shit deal as a young male.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:38 PM
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The worst part with what they are saying is protect women only. Right now we are seeing an epidemic with younger men struggling to find their way in life. All the women are like, good.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:18 PM
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Hey, you dated Leo??
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:15 PM
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Nobody is talking about that. A perfect example is all the women mad Chris Evens is married now to a women who is 27 and he is 42. That shit burns up women. BURRRNS. With that said, I think most of the problems is men. Men who are early 20's 22-25 are really struggling. They are kinda stuck working dead end jobs and no way forward. College rates are dropping big time with males, we are seeing tons of colleges that are 70% females. These females are not interested in some guy who is 24 living at …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:12 PM
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Happens all the time lol. Meanwhile that dude is out here talking to like 3-4 girls and she does not understand why he would want to just pick one. Not all guys are like this, but if you are 28 have a good job and are attractive why would you settle ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:04 PM
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There is tons of data out there that both young men and women are single. More so than ever before.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:11 PM
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how about wear a burka and lock yourself in the room. Or better yet gain 150 pounds and don't wear makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:20 PM
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You sound bat shit crazy. Go back to posting in Two x chrom. Shit happens, people go around doing mass shootings for no reasons. Someone beeps a horn at someone in a car then a person pulls out a gun and shoots them. You have a crazy take on shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:16 PM
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Younger people both men and women are having a harder time finding people. Things are a changing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 04:06 PM
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Not true at all. Leo loves a good young woman and people blast him. Also all the drama about Chris Evans' wife being young.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:48 PM
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But that is the problem, women are not finding those guys to put a ring on it. They pump it a few times then dump them. Then women are all omg men never want to be in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:47 PM
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I love how overweight women feel they can openly choose fit men. But, men who look like them and share their lifestyle are not acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:21 PM
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Rules 1 and Rules 2. Fucking men will never understand. Whatever bullshit you hear from people it is a lie. Rules 1 and 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:20 PM
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I see women dating up more than dating on their level. Finding dates is like shooting fish in a barrel for you ladies. Now the hard part is finding someone who is not a dumbass. GL
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:17 PM
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They care when they get pumped and dumped. Then they are saying all men are terrible lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 12:31 PM
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Or the guy said "Hi" to them once and she wants to bang lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 05:11 PM
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What you are saying a lot of women don't understand that. If a guy is hitting on you above you it is a red flag. While others are thinking this is my chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 04:49 PM
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Creepiness only matter if you are not hot. I see women do "creepy" stuff and it is not "creepy" when they do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 04:47 PM
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It is not being settled for. Like dating someone who is getting their life together out of college. Meanwhile you have some girls looking to date guys who make 100k+ they won't settle for anything less. My friend is only looking to date tall doctor lawyer types. Won't settle. It is bullshit. She will be alone or will have to pick based on real things. I understand your problem, but I would not say you are under the settle group.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 07:21 PM
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I think that is fair. Just women doing all this never settle is bullshit. A perfect partner is never going to just show up. You both have to put in work to be a good partner and grow.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 07:15 PM
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This is too rich. How good are you that you think you have to settle. Lmao.... You can't find anyone in the world and you think the people are the problem or maybe it could be you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 07:03 PM
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On dating apps lets be real, if you look at the profile for less than 5 seconds you are not doing anything else but looks. Women on dating apps look at a guys picture and pass 90% of the time. Pretty simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:44 PM
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No. Women are swiping on dating apps just looking at pictures. It legit is Rule 1 and Rule 2. There is no looking for the right man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:38 PM
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No, if someone is not attractive to women, you are pretty much ugly. The problem is dating apps are a shit way to see if you like someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:00 PM
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That is the biggest lie women will never accept. Legit see women on dating apps swiping faster than guys. If a guy is NOT attractive most women would never even notice them. If you don't understand that, you are living in a dream world. Almost like that full of shit girl Grace Weinstein. She talks about looks and her bf being the best because he is goofy and she loves. Then posted the truth her BF is hot AF and she loves that. If her BF was not hot, him being goofy would not matter. But she post…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:23 PM
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Cat lady is I don't need anyone but a cat. Not 15 cats. Cat = my replacement of humans. I have seen many of women like that. I don't need anyone but my cat.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 06:45 PM
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Cat lady is a real thing. It is not fear mongering, you can say the same of all those women speaking about men being incels. They mislabel everyone for their purpose, a person can have a preference and not be an incel. There is a difference with being childfree by choice and not. I think a lot of them childfree because of career are likely to be disappointed because they did not find a partner and too late to have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:26 PM
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Don't listen to angry cat women on two x chrom.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 04:02 PM
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Women being a dead fish and just lay there. That is his point. Cowgirl tends to give the best results but takes the most effort. Lazy can't put in the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 02:17 PM
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I know women who it takes them hours for them to come on their own. If it takes 2-3 hours to get yourself off nobody else can do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 02:15 PM
1

Win, Win, Win.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:08 AM
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sadly most men think simping = getting a women. Fucking men are stupid and just as much to blame as anyone else. Stop simping.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:17 PM
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I am speaking in general. See that is the problem with some people. You use mind games to change your story. Oh I could not think someone was attractive and see them as a partner / or could date. That is some BS shit used for coping. Here is an example. My friend we are good friends. She is cute, but has problems finding the right guy now. She is 28. She is super needy and only interested in talking to attractive guys with high paying jobs. The problem is her looks are not good enough for her le…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:16 PM
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I don't know. I see people on rateme and they love those BBW. Simps are like OMG you are perfect, you don't need to lose any weight. While they are almost 200lbs and 5'3.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:02 PM
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If you don't find your friend attractive, but give them false hope they are attractive you are doing a disservice to them. There is nothing wrong with knowing / finding a friend attractive but not wanting to have a relationship with them. A lot of the time women will lie to their friends when they really need some truth. Most women are not attracted to most men. That is the world we live in. So if you don't find them attractive it is likely others won't as well. Good advice would be mixing in tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:26 PM
3

Yea. It is really sad, for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:19 PM
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I feel women who are friends with men give bad advice as well. Girls loves a confident and funny person. Looks don't matter. When said girl would not even think about their male friend as a dating partner lol. So much bad advice from all sides. End of the day not matter what anyone says. Always Rules 1 and Rule 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:49 PM
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Younger people are just fucked when it comes to dating. I can't think what is going to happen with the kids who are teens as they get older. More men will be awkward and not know how to interact with girls, the gap will be further than it was before. Tinder and OLD for young kids is like 70% dudes not getting any interactions. Then the average women who are matching with men who do get pick are most likely a POS who will only add trauma to their life. Like Michael said in the Office, but reverse…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:47 PM
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Two x is legit the most unhinged ladies in the world. They are all batshit crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 04:43 PM
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College is fine if you do something that has value. Going to school for Lib arts is not the way. Also most kids just want college for the fun times not trying to get a career.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:53 PM
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