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| 8 | It is a red flag if you notice a girl has thousands of unread message notices? | Question For Women | Shebalied | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 01:21 PM |
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| – | One reason Gen Z has less sex is because alot of people are weird about sex.Yea. People laugh and joke, but places like Japan and Korea are going to have a problem in 20 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/26 12:08 PM |
| – | One reason Gen Z has less sex is because alot of people are weird about sex.This. I can't tell you how many new friends I have met under the age of 25 who never had a girlfriend or even talked to a girl. WTF, get off of Fortnite and bullshit live. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/26 12:07 PM |
| 2 | Most men give their attention so freely to women that it doesn't mean anything to them anymore.Yes, but some men are so stupid they will do anything. Sadly, those guys ruin everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 09:45 AM |
| 7 | It isn't worth it to have casual sex with menCongrats... that makes you part of the problem. You know the apps have a dating elo. They rank you and match you with men who other women want to match with. So, if you are a woman on a dating app and the men are not attractive, it likely because the attractive men with good elo's don't find you attractive. That is the issue most women don't understand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 12:36 PM |
| 11 | It isn't worth it to have casual sex with menUmm. They are not getting matches. Men's and women's matches / like rates are not even close. The game is pretty shitty if you don't know what you are doing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 12:20 PM |
| 17 | It isn't worth it to have casual sex with menNo, men are not. Dating apps are like 80% men, and most young zoomer men have never even dated a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 12:17 PM |
| 26 | It isn't worth it to have casual sex with menThat might be true, but women are in the driver's seat. They get to be the choosers; meanwhile, most men are hoping they get a nibble, not even thinking about catching a fish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/26 09:18 PM |
| 1 | It isn't worth it to have casual sex with mensounds like you are ready to be a part of women hate men lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/26 09:07 PM |
| 43 | It isn't worth it to have casual sex with menIf you listen to them, they are not attracted to 90% of men lmao. Shit is so crazy now because of social media. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/26 09:05 PM |
| 2 | It’s not that women having inflated egos. It’s just a lot of guys underestimate a woman’s worth in the dating market.I just think you misunderstand everything. lol. The men who women find attractive are NOT looking to date. Those women don't want to hook up, but have to if they are going to get these higher guys to comment. It is much crazier now than ever before. For example, college. Most of them are 70% women and 30% men. Of those 30% men, a small number of women find them attractive. 10% of those men have the option to talk to lots of women, and those women are stuck chasing those men who are their age. Th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 07:10 PM |
| 1 | It’s not that women having inflated egos. It’s just a lot of guys underestimate a woman’s worth in the dating market.That is not how it works. Women don't care about the BS value of sleeping with men. Women want to date, men want to sleep with them and not date most times. Most women overestimate their value on dating men. That is why in 2026 so many women are stuck in "what are we". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 06:57 PM |
| 1 | It’s not that women having inflated egos. It’s just a lot of guys underestimate a woman’s worth in the dating market.You are confused, people want to sleep with her not marry or date her. Those two are not the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 04:30 PM |
| 4 | Women are lucky that men tend to have low standards and be simps.No. It more than likely shows they are crazy and are the problem. If you heard a man talking about dating people and every ex they dated was the problem. That is a red flag. Same with ladies. If they say how all men are terrible and they have zero options... Their sign is they are the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Women are lucky that men tend to have low standards and be simps.Because it is not reality. Not bothered, people just call out this BS people live in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Women are lucky that men tend to have low standards and be simps.Females can't be replaced with the term woman, as anyone can be a woman. They can hate it, it is a term used by medical professionals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 04:51 PM |
| 3 | Women are lucky that men tend to have low standards and be simps.If a woman goes on a dating app and can't find a match out of 1000 guys.... They are the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 03:18 PM |
| 3 | Women are lucky that men tend to have low standards and be simps.A lot of women don't view being hit on as counting if the person who is attracted to them is viewed as not attractive. You will see hundreds of females posting in am I ugly because nobody hits on them. When it turns out they get it on, just not by HOT guys they like. I did not say they should accept it. They should not pretend it does not happen because the guys they want don't want them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Women are lucky that men tend to have low standards and be simps.You said no man ever courted you. You can't have it both ways. You can't ignore men who simp for you because they are not your type. It does not change the fact someone was simping for you. The problem is simping is mostly only done for someone trying to get something they normally can't get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 03:01 PM |
| 2 | Women are lucky that men tend to have low standards and be simps.Rules 1 or 2. I am sure there is someone who liked you that would ignore lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Women are lucky that men tend to have low standards and be simps.They can, but they have to downgrade. If you are an average-looking woman, you can get a below-average-looking simp. You likely won't get an average-looking simp. Being a woman, it is much easier to be attractive than a guy. More effort has to be done for a woman, but the results are better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 01:35 PM |
| 7 | Women are lucky that men tend to have low standards and be simps.Rule 1: Be attractive. Rule 2: Don't be unattractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 01:12 PM |
| 5 | Women are lucky that men tend to have low standards and be simps.Rules 1 and 2. If you meet those, you will likely have simps. Most women tend to ignore them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 12:37 PM |
| 10 | Women are lucky that men tend to have low standards and be simps.The men who are simping are likely the men you would ignore. The ones you don't find attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 12:30 PM |
| 4 | Dating is harder for men in their 30s vs their 20s due to increased market efficiencyYea. Guys in their 20's are fucking cooked. I can't tell you how many times I meet a new guy who is 20-25 and never dated a girl or had a gf. I am always like what you were doing. COVID really fucked up things for some people with regard to growth. Been seeing a lot of girls who graduated from college and are 23-25 dating guys who are in their early 30s because most guys they know in college were fuck boys or not attractive. The middle ground is pretty much gone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 12:57 PM |
| 2 | Dating is harder for men in their 30s vs their 20s due to increased market efficiencyUK. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 12:53 PM |
| – | In my opinion, it’s pointless to blame women for their dating standards.You never had a friend, guy or girl ask you not to tell others about someone they are talking to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 04:52 PM |
| – | In my opinion, it’s pointless to blame women for their dating standards.Men would hide fat / ugly chicks they are only sleeping with. If they are dating most times it is different. Most men will sleep with anything. Dating is when they are picky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 04:10 PM |
| – | In my opinion, it’s pointless to blame women for their dating standards.I think nobody blames them for standards. The problem is their standards are crazy, and you are seeing this currently in college. Colleges are 70/ 30 in a lot of places, and women are struggling to find men they find as attractive equals. Oh well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 03:54 PM |
| – | In my opinion, it’s pointless to blame women for their dating standards.Overall women care what people think of who they are talking to. Was talking to a friend and asked to see what this new guy she was talking to looked like. She was very embarrassed to show him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 03:51 PM |
| -2 | The idea that "most men on dating apps are trash and don't want commitment" is egregious inaccurateYou know it is because the people we are talking about have an overvalue of themselves. Girls think they are baddies because their friends use that shitty term. I will be the first to say most men put terrible effort into dating apps and creating profiles and pictures. Women are doing the same, but with all AI pictures and hiding the fact they put on a few pounds. My friend, she is about 240 lbs 5'4'' and wants to match with really athletic men. Then she gets mad when they never respond to her s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 01:02 PM |
| 2 | The idea that "most men on dating apps are trash and don't want commitment" is egregious inaccurateThere is also data released by all dating apps that women left-swiped on 70% of men. Pointing to the fact that women are too picky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 12:31 PM |
| 1 | People are too in love with social media validation to give it up for a partner who doesn’t beat that attentionIt is you. I do have a large friend group and only 1 or 2 really shy friends are like that. Most friend's are checking snap or ig to see if crush has looked at the story they sent. Their day can suck so bad if crush does not look at what they post or send. Seeing people with nonstop records on snap from send messages is crazy too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 05:09 PM |
| 2 | If you haven’t dated in the last 10-15 yrs you shouldn’t be giving dating adviceI don't just mean dating, I mean everything. If you look at dating profiles most guys have, they are terrible. Can't even go out with a friend to take good pictures. Everything is a low effort selfie. I am sure everyone is burnt out, but it is not hard to meet new people if you know how. The problem is that most people don't know how to do it in public. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 11:50 AM |
| 6 | If you haven’t dated in the last 10-15 yrs you shouldn’t be giving dating adviceDating sucks if you don't meet rule 1 or rule 2. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 01:34 AM |
| 4 | If you haven’t dated in the last 10-15 yrs you shouldn’t be giving dating adviceThe problem is that dating app in 2014-2018 were pretty much like that. That was the point of them, and it was used by people in college. Then people started getting on it just for attention or friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 01:33 AM |
| 8 | If you haven’t dated in the last 10-15 yrs you shouldn’t be giving dating adviceDating might be garbage, but the amount of effort people put in now is wayyyy lower than before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 01:31 AM |
| 5 | Men should not be approaching women.Most women enjoy attention from MEN they like. Not creepy reddit guys. Currently, a friend is getting played like a yo-yo by this guy who has blown her off on dates for one month. She keeps trying to see him, even though he does not respect her time. Then there is another guy who likes her who she is not attracted to, but he is obsessed with her... She said she wishes the first guy was obsessed with her like the second guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/26 05:13 PM |
| 9 | Men should not be approaching women.90% of women's cues are.... I looked at you twice. Let's not act like most women are doing real cues like eye contact and smiling or small chitchat. Some do, and it is a small amount. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/26 04:44 PM |
| 4 | Can women really not understand where Nice Guys come from ?If a person is saying X or Y is nice, that is different, I feel, than a person saying they are nice. If a man or woman thinks they are nice and can't find a good partner, there is likely a reason why. I just think people mislabel true "nice" people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/26 04:50 PM |
| 11 | Can women really not understand where Nice Guys come from ?This is bullshit. There are tons of people who I know are "NICE" people. They treat everyone the same and make someone's day better. For example, getting the door for someone. It does not matter if they are old, young, male, female, skinny or fat. Just doing something small and saying something pleasant is not the norm now and can make someone's day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/26 02:37 PM |
| – | The "Choose Better" debate always seems to devolve into defensive and/or deflecting off-topic discussionsThis. "Choose better" is a thing; it is almost like people keep falling for the same shit. My friend is always choosing guys who treat her like a second thought. They don't reach out unless it is 1 am and they want to put their dick somewhere. She gets so happy when she hears a text message sometimes and then disappointed when it is not the person she wants it to be. They have been "talking" for a few months, and all it really is free sex for the guy and disappointment for her. She knows it is b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/26 09:12 PM |
| – | women hate “choose better” because they dont like the responsibility of when their choices go bad. And it only applies to them.Not really. There is still a certain type of woman who requires princess treatment and doesn't like brokies. Most women are not interested in men who make less than them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 12:16 AM |
| – | women hate “choose better” because they dont like the responsibility of when their choices go bad. And it only applies to them.Because women are. They say things like that so they don't seem as superficial as men. "LOOKS Don't MATTER" "Looks are the last thing I notice in a partner". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 05:38 PM |
| – | women hate “choose better” because they dont like the responsibility of when their choices go bad. And it only applies to them.Yes. Men tell other men to stop picking gold diggers or women who use you. Women are always the ones who feel attacked when told to choose better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 04:57 PM |
| – | women hate “choose better” because they dont like the responsibility of when their choices go bad. And it only applies to them.Bingo. They won't ever pick an uggo even if it is everything else they want, but one small thing.... looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 04:56 PM |
| 3 | If many women say you are a total catch but won’t date you, the harsh truth is that they are lying to you.It always comes to rule 1 and 2. Most times these people who are saying that know the person is NOT attractive and just trying to be nice. Which is pretty much shitty. It is always Rules 1 and 2. Always. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 02:09 PM |
| 5 | Women Deceive Themselves About Bad Men, Then Blame All Men.It has nothing to do with DEFENDING a cheater. It is more you date a person who is a known cheater; you don't get to use the "I could have never seen this happening." If you date a known thief, it is only a matter of time before they steal from you. Don't get mad when a person has spent a lifetime type of showing you what type of person they are, then get mad when it is confirmed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 06:21 PM |
| 4 | Women Deceive Themselves About Bad Men, Then Blame All Men.You are crazy if you get that from their post. It is more women who get mad when they find out a tiger cannot change its stripes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 05:27 PM |
| 1 | It’s not possible to use a woman for sexI both sides need to get offline and stop trying to follow what other people are doing. Don't listen to Wizard Liz or MJ Gray, none of those grifters. Both said getting married is a trap for women, then this girl got married to a man in less than 8 months lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/26 04:05 PM |
| 1 | It’s not possible to use a woman for sexThe same can be said for women. The problem is that women are glued online. Women under 30 have TikTok brain, and most of them are mind rot swiping. Not saying all of them, just a large amount. So the odds are that they are into the things you said and other things like manifesting etc. is high. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/26 03:54 PM |
| 1 | It’s not possible to use a woman for sexI agree with a lot you said. The problem is shit like call me daddy which millions of women love, it has ruined everything you said. Then all the tik tok girlies out there are giving bad advice too. RIP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/26 02:30 PM |
| 3 | It’s not possible to use a woman for sexIt happens all the time still. It just happens more when women are under 25 because if you want someone in that age group, there are not a lot of options. Women in college only have 20-30% men in their age group without removing men they are not interested in or men who are taken. That leaves a small % of men most women are attracted to and have to fight over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/26 02:29 PM |
| 7 | It’s not possible to use a woman for sexWomen are likely to feel used because they are sometimes using "sex" as a way to get the person they are interested in to be in a relationship with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/26 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Younger women are just more attractive.Yuck. That is pretty gross. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/26 03:45 PM |
| 5 | Younger women are just more attractive.Umm. I think most men accept that. That is why they do dumb things to get taller. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/26 03:44 PM |
| 15 | The recent Sophie Rain situation proves that the sexual revolution only benefits elite men, and does not empower womenAnd they get robbed all the time by their people. I think Tim Duncan got robbed of 50 million by his accountant lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/26 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Young women (18-24) dont want older men 35+women start dating up when they’re out of college for the most part , I’ve dated guys 5 years older than me but th This is how it is. Currently zoomer men are fucking losers. More zoomer women are college-educated and not interested in men without an education. The amount of men zoomers women have options to get is smaller and smaller. Some colleges are 70% women. Most guys are college dropouts or HS dropouts playing fortnite with the boys. Girls are not interested in that shit and will start da… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/26 08:15 PM |
| 4 | Young women (18-24) dont want older men 35+Yea. OP is a moron. I know tons of girls who are 22-25 who are sick of the loser boys who don't have job or not focused on anything. Then you got the fuck boi's who date 5 other women. It is very common to see women who are done with college dating a man older than them. Not 40's but for sure 28-35. My friend is currently dating a guy who is 35 and she is 22. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/26 08:05 PM |
| 2 | Sex isn't worth the hoops many men jump through to get it.Umm. Unattractive women still have options. I always laugh when people act like women can't get any options. You can be unattractive, and it be fine. You can't be both, fat and unattractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/26 01:58 PM |
| 2 | Sex isn't worth the hoops many men jump through to get it.This is the biggest thing. Men chasing women who are NOT interested in them. Just don't talk to women unless they show signs they are interested in you. Simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/26 01:52 PM |
| 23 | When women’s struggles are invisible, everything looks like an advantageAlways choose bad men. It is not like they are choosing just one bad one. Fool me twice you can't be fooled again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/26 04:54 PM |
| 2 | CMV: “friends first” or waiting months to build a relationship isn’t a viable path for 99% of adults anymore and people should stop trying to act like it isTrue. Add in the fact people are more impatient and want things now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 12:31 PM |
| 2 | Are online gender wars just lower class men arguing with upper middle class women?This is what people don't see. Women are going to college meanwhile most men under 25 got left behind due to covid and other reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 08:17 PM |
| 3 | Q4women would you date a trans guy?Yea. People are dumb today sadly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/26 11:25 PM |
| 2 | Q4women would you date a trans guy?I agree with you. Reddit is cooked now so, oh well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/26 11:25 PM |
| 2 | Q4women would you date a trans guy?This is the most common answer. I feel if guys said this, they would be listed as transphobes, though. Which it should not be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/26 09:21 PM |
| 2 | Why do you think women are hypergamous?The problem is most women are going after the same men. Most are only interested in a small group of men. It can be different type of men, but still a small group of them. Like if a women is into men with tats, it is only going to 5-10% of men who have tats they like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/26 08:46 PM |
| 2 | No One Is Winning the Gender WarsSounds like you were just shit at picking a good partner man or women. lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/26 01:14 PM |
| -2 | No one hates independent women, you are just arrogant and obnoxiousNo. It is not from that. It is more likely because girls are watching things like "Call Me Daddy" and other shows like that. Or listen to Cardie B or TikTok people. It is the same as dumb guys who listen to Andrew Tate and Fresh and stupid. Social media & influencer culture (the biggest accelerator) of these types of things. Platforms like Instagram and TikTok basically created and spread the aesthetic. We are now starting to see “Soft girl” / “lazy girl” trends. Feminism is now packaged as conf… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 05:11 PM |
| 0 | No one hates independent women, you are just arrogant and obnoxiousI don't think you understood what he said or you did not read it. Working or having a job is fine. Making it your whole personality is different. It is like when a guy makes hunting or sports their whole personality. It is too much and puts people off, but a small group of people. Just like with looksmaxxers. Nobody wants to date a POS like that Clav guy, girls think he might be hot, but he is dead inside. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 04:38 PM |
| 3 | Women often give horrible dating adviceDid not work.... aka hundreds of years haha. It works when you follow rules 1 and 2 of dating. It does not work with younger men because they were told not to talk to women aka me too stuff. Add in the fact younger men under the age of 25 lack social skills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 08:34 PM |
| 3 | Women often give horrible dating adviceHow did I contradict myself. Fewer men are coming up to women; if you are under 25 and male, you are less likely to come up to a woman vs someone who is over 30. It is still a fact that a pretty woman will get approached. They don't need to do anything, just exist most times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 08:18 PM |
| 2 | Women often give horrible dating adviceI don't think you can read. You must have responded without understanding what I said. Looks are important. You can't argue facts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 06:36 PM |
| 7 | Women often give horrible dating adviceOLD is how the majority of people meet now. Sorry to have to say that. If you are single now, most people will likely have to do use that if you are a man. Women can just live life and have people come up to you. Men have to make the first move, and people are told now not to approach women, so OLD is the default now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 06:34 PM |
| 6 | Women often give horrible dating adviceSo many woman say looks are not important to men close in their lives aka friend's. It is cope and BS. Most people looks is the first check in the vibe check. The second is can the guy speak, or is he strange or goofy. They want someone who is able to listen and talk and not say "lowkey" every 30 seconds or bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 05:21 PM |
| 4 | Women often give horrible dating adviceMost of the BS they say does not. Go create a profile online for bumble and use a normal guy, and you can fail just like others. Being able to attract women is a gift and not easy to do. The advice that a woman can say which can work is the following. Telling a man to improve the way he dresses. Grooming, your facial hair and always a neat hair cut. Working out some. Be able to engage and talk to a woman, and the most important part..... LISTEN to what they say and ask questions when they talk. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 05:18 PM |
| 10 | Women often give horrible dating adviceJust stop. Looks matter. They matter a ton to women under the age of 30. If not for looks that dumb ass Clav would offer nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 04:46 PM |
| -2 | Women often give horrible dating adviceLmao, so many women are about to be triggered about what you said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 04:44 PM |
| 3 | Women often give horrible dating adviceMost women's advice doesn't apply to normal men. That is why it never works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 04:43 PM |
| 2 | High value men mostly end up with high value womenCan confirm with a few of my friends. They are 28 and 3 or 4 of them went on a date only with lawyers or doctors. All of them are cute solid 7's. Almost all of them got ghosted once they hooked up. One of the guys said to my friend, "Hey, I am 28 and a lawyer; I am not looking to settle down after working this hard" lmao. They learned, but it took almost 1 full year of hinge dating to learn it is not likely to get a guy like that who they find attractive and a good job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/26 11:08 PM |
| – | Dating isn't fair and it shouldn't be.Not true at all. Those companies are PUBLICLY TRADED COMPANIES and have to give the data to thier share holders. Just like video game companies have to give data on their games and how many active users they have. Current gender breakdown (most recent data) ~75% men ~24–25% women ~1% non-binary / undisclosed How that’s typically described in investor context Roughly a 3:1 male-to-female ratio Often highlighted as a core imbalance issue affecting: Regional differences: Some markets closer to 50/5… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 02:50 PM |
| – | Dating isn't fair and it shouldn't be.That is true. Part of that is because dating apps are 70-80% men. The numbers are different in other countries, where the amount of women on the apps is 40% or higher. Tinder in 2014-2015 was fine. You really never had the issues you do today because the apps are tweaked to make money off of men because they are the paying customers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 02:20 PM |
| – | Dating isn't fair and it shouldn't be.It might be a bit over simplified, but whenever someone I know, guy or girl is having issues on the dating market it is one or two of those options. My one friend, she is about 5'2'' 230 lbs and she is looking for fit, cute guy only to go on dates with via apps. The apps are based on an ELO and hers is really low, so the men she gets matched with are 3/4's. She hates it. Easy solution: work out. My guy friend who has the same issue on dating apps, I looked at it. Worst pictures I think I have se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 02:03 PM |
| 2 | Every single man in the world will gladly "spoil” a woman - if she is "that girl" to himMost guys are too dumb to understand some of your points. If a person were attracted to them, they would do the things you listed. Most times men are trying to talk to someone not interested in them, and guys are trying to win them over by gifts and attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 01:32 PM |
| – | Dating isn't fair and it shouldn't be.Women bitch nonstop about NOT finding good options. If they can't find any good options it means they are the problem. Same with men. If a man can't get A girl to talk to them they are doing something wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 12:54 PM |
| 2 | Some of the best advice men can be given is to stop caring too much about women.Because if a girl does not do that, she is not interested. If you gotta reach out and do all the lifting, they are not feeling it. If they find you hot enough they will do the work. Simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 09:02 PM |
| 7 | Some of the best advice men can be given is to stop caring too much about women.If a guy walks up and gets your contact info. Then send a first message saying it is nice to meet you. He did his part; now you should do yours by reaching out and asking to go on a date. This is what is called "equality." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 07:21 PM |
| 9 | Some of the best advice men can be given is to stop caring too much about women.It is not begging; it is a woman putting in the same effort. We know it does not work because it is why Bumble failed. Most women like the dopamine kick from being chased. You are right, most women don't like it. It is why you see the crash out of some women online / social media with nobody giving them attention when they go out dressed to the 10's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 06:35 PM |
| 4 | Some of the best advice men can be given is to stop caring too much about women.Women will have to start doing more is all. We are seeing it now at single events. Full of women only and 5-6 guys. Same with colleges or women online bitching about having to make the first move. It won't be a huge change, just different than what it was 10 years ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 05:50 PM |
| 5 | Some of the best advice men can be given is to stop caring too much about women.Most colleges are a 70 30 split of women to men. Not all women are going to find good options. Men under 25 are terrible at starting a conversation with women. It is horrible. Not all men, just more than normal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 04:15 PM |
| 10 | Some of the best advice men can be given is to stop caring too much about women.Not true at all. Keep thinking that. Women in college are all playing musical chairs, trying to get a seat with a good guy, which is rare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 02:48 PM |
| 8 | Some of the best advice men can be given is to stop caring too much about women.That is not true at all. Rules 1 and 2. Women will only do it for men they find attractive. Attention is like currency; if men do not start giving it out for free, more women will start looking for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 02:27 PM |
| 2 | Some of the best advice men can be given is to stop caring too much about women.That is the best thing to do. It is also easy to say this if you fall under rules 1 and 2 of Reddit dating. I get guys are thirsty, but chill out lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 02:09 PM |
| 2 | Some of the best advice men can be given is to stop caring too much about women.If you meet a girl get their number, send them a text once saying, "Nice to meet you," but then tell them to reach out if they want to hang out. If they reach out and put in the effort, they want to do something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 01:13 PM |
| 5 | Some of the best advice men can be given is to stop caring too much about women.Better yet, young men stop simping at begging women for attention. Don't even reach out; let them put in the effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 12:58 PM |
| 4 | Men are just as picky as women. They just pretend their type of woman is the norm.Way to put words in someone's mouth. Who did I call ugly? This is the problem: you and terrible internet people like to label someone as average as ugly. Being a 4 or 5 is not ugly at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Men are just as picky as women. They just pretend their type of woman is the norm.Most women overrate themselves. Men don't. You might think you are a 6 or 7. Men likely think you are a 4 or 5. Type can have something to do with it, but we are talking if a person like fit women or thick women. Or women into sports or mask women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 06:54 PM |
| 4 | Dating for Women is Not Like Looking for Clean Water in a Swamp; Rather, it is Like Looking for Healthy Food in a Grocery StoreUmm. women know a fuck boy when they see them but still choose to hook up with or date them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 08:50 PM |
| 5 | Men are in a desert and women are in swamp is misandry.Men under 30 are not meeting outside of OLD. 60% of men are single in that listed age group. You are thinking about all the older people who knew what life was like before OLD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 08:33 PM |
| 10 | Men are in a desert and women are in swamp is misandry.It is HARDER for men to find women. That is why there are so many more men in American on dating apps. In the EU and other areas it is more balanced more 60/40 than in the US 70 or 80 % men. Women don't need dating apps, they just wake up and live life and have options. Most men can't do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 02:43 PM |
| 2 | If men were to focus more on women's personalities and character than looks, women would have alot less options.Yup. They ruin it for everyone. It is kinda crazy how much there has been a shift in just 10 years. Dating now is crazy vs how it was in 2015's. Everyone thinks they are too good for others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 01:09 PM |
| 3 | If men were to focus more on women's personalities and character than looks, women would have alot less options.That is almost how it goes. You never see the guys girls want do anything like that. It is almost always guys who never had a chance with whatever women it is they are simping for and giving endless attention. It has only gotten worse in the last 10 years. Add in dating apps and it is now at an all time high. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 12:50 PM |
| 20 | If men were to focus more on women's personalities and character than looks, women would have alot less options.Better yet, if men stopped giving every woman attention. Stop simping and getting woman free attention online and in person. Just ignore them. That is what needs to happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 12:32 PM |
| 3 | Bieng a jerk helps a lotI feel like people never understand all that stuff. If you are attractive it does not fucking matter what you do. Most women will take a risk, more likely if the woman is mid or has a kid they will ignore red flags. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/26 07:30 PM |
| – | Ladies, If you’re not attracted to 90-95% of men, that’s not a male problem.. thats a YOU problemAll you do is assume and project lmao. Keep on doing it lol. Get off of reddit you are not built for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 09:11 PM |
| – | Ladies, If you’re not attracted to 90-95% of men, that’s not a male problem.. thats a YOU problemIt is nonstop over tik tok. NONSTOP! I hear it from tons of college-aged friends who are 21-28. I know a lot of them are dating men in their early 30's and options are terrible, as most colleges are 80% women. Most guys who women find attractive in that age group are talking to 3-4 women, and I can't tell you how often women think hooking up with the guy might lead to a relationship. Guess what, it does not. I have zero bitterness. I just call out your BS with facts which shit you like to ignore… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 05:28 PM |
| – | Ladies, If you’re not attracted to 90-95% of men, that’s not a male problem.. thats a YOU problemNo. I don't give a crap. It is funny see so many women online crying about no good choices or where have all the good men gone. It does not irk me at all. It is funny. A joke. I laugh. I have zero issues. But watching all the TikTokers melt down is great. Men have their issues too, and I roast them for it as well. Men zoomers are pretty much pointless. Living with their parents, no real job, or goals. No dating market value and just stuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 05:08 PM |
| – | Ladies, If you’re not attracted to 90-95% of men, that’s not a male problem.. thats a YOU problemThe reason women are picky is because of social media and online. They see people and think oh I should have that. I can't tell you how many women I know who live in lala land waiting for the perfect guy. You don't find the perfect guy you make the perfect guy. You grow together and learn. That is the problem. People are looking for perfect; instead, what they are getting is used or nothing. I can't tell you how many overweight mid lady friends getting used because they matched up with a good-lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 03:53 PM |
| – | Ladies, If you’re not attracted to 90-95% of men, that’s not a male problem.. thats a YOU problemMen are not swiping on everyone. Not everyone is trying to fuck everyone. You sound silly. Would you like for me to say all the women are looking to find a sugar daddy or someone to just buy them dinner for the night. Get out whatever echo chamber you are in. The fact is women are super picky on dating apps and IRL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 03:25 PM |
| – | Ladies, If you’re not attracted to 90-95% of men, that’s not a male problem.. thats a YOU problemDo you just hate truth and facts? Do you always just ignore data? Do you like living in a false world? It has been shown time and time again on all dating metrics that on average women right swipe anywhere from 5-8% on men. Meanwhile, men will swipe right on 40-50% of the women. It is like this each year when the data gets released from bumble or tinder or any of the match group apps. Stop trying to lie. Women on dating apps are picky. It can also be said most men put in poor effort on dating ap… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 02:16 PM |
| – | Ladies, If you’re not attracted to 90-95% of men, that’s not a male problem.. thats a YOU problemWRONG! It has been released by ALL major dating app companies that women only swipe on less than 5-7% of men. But I guess we should just trust some random person online vs a publicly traded company. We see tons of women posting their dating insights and you can always tell a man vs a women. It is very easy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 02:00 PM |
| 6 | Common dating advice straight up doesn’t work for the average guy struggling with datingThe amount of women who argue that looks don't matter is funny. The internet has been a thing for so long and the reddit rules 1 and 2 have been around forever. They will never go away. Rule 1. Be Attractive. Rule 2. Don't be unattractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/26 01:53 PM |
| 3 | Dating older men (like 10 plus years older) is simply a bad deal for most womenlmao. Damn. RIP. The internet really just make shit worse now. With bots and algorithms, shit can feel really bad. Nothing is better than meeting people in person, but you need to be good at it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 12:59 PM |
| 3 | Dating older men (like 10 plus years older) is simply a bad deal for most womenYes. Something happened post covid. It is kinda funny to see. I can't tell you how many girls I see posting on social media or reddit asking if they are ugly because no guy has ever asked them out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 12:49 PM |
| -7 | Dating older men (like 10 plus years older) is simply a bad deal for most womenSorry. It's insane how many men between the ages of 19 and 25 are fucking losers these days. You are in a losing battle if you are a woman going to college. There are far too many terrible options with guys. They are unable to communicate with women. Incapable of leading any meaningful conversation, awkward, not sure because of post covid and lastly, no real drive for a future. It feels like men were already behind women with development, and now it is even worse. The options on college men are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 12:38 PM |
| -1 | Would women’s dating problems change if they had fewer suitors?This is not true at all. Maybe with the chads or guys who the women are attracted to. The average or below average can't even get a match, let alone think of hookups lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/26 02:58 AM |
| 1 | women on reddit are very much part of the problemNot always. I feel it happens with men more than women. You hang out with someone you would not think about in a non-platonic way, but spending more time with them, you notice something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 06:11 PM |
| 1 | women on reddit are very much part of the problemRight. But the first bar is looks matter. Both to men and women. I think it was used more as a tool to say men only care about a woman's looks. Which is true, but women as care about a man's looks as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 06:10 PM |
| 0 | women on reddit are very much part of the problemMost women do. All the time. Women who are friends or give bad dating advice to men. It is all too common. That is the point. I am not talking about someone ugly. Attraction is built. You are viewing it by some BS shit done by sex in the city. You are thinking about lust. Not attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 05:39 PM |
| 1 | women on reddit are very much part of the problemI think a lot of that has to do with development. Zoomers are lacking; millennials were out enjoying life more and talking to people. Online shit has ruined a lot of people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 05:30 PM |
| 0 | women on reddit are very much part of the problemNo. It makes the large majority of women who lie and say looks are not critical. But, then we see the truth via data that women only swipe on 5% of men on dating apps while having a screen time of 10 seconds or less. Meaning they don't even read the profile. These problems did not happen pre 10 years ago. People would go out or meet up with new people. Attraction does build when you get to know someone or are around them more. As for seeking help, it’s not about therapy to change attraction. It’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 05:28 PM |
| -1 | women on reddit are very much part of the problemIt is not a problem. It just makes those people hypocrites. If you find 90% of people not attractive, something is wrong with you, and you need to seek help. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 05:07 PM |
| 2 | women on reddit are very much part of the problemThat is kinda crazy. But, I would rather someone say what you are saying instead of the lie most women use.... "looks don't matter". They do, and it is the main barrier for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 03:55 PM |
| 4 | Sexpat destinations are going to disappear as countries become more developed.Yep. IG and OLD made it even worse. Everyone wants something better than what they offer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 03:53 PM |
| 2 | women on reddit are very much part of the problemGuy In Real Life. Most of the girls on the internet lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 03:52 PM |
| 1 | women on reddit are very much part of the problemThis is what most guys will say to others. Giving real helpful information. Girls will do the wrong thing; don't change things will find a way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 03:34 PM |
| -2 | women on reddit are very much part of the problemWhen women are not attracted to 90% of the men, they are the problem. I can see maybe not likely 40-50% of a group. This just shows how much cope and bs some people have. Looks are not relevant, but I don't find 90% of this group attractive. Rules 1 and 2. Always. It has been that way since 2010. People just forgot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 03:15 PM |
| 7 | Sexpat destinations are going to disappear as countries become more developed.I hate to break it to you, if the dollar does worse, other places do worse as well. Most countries are suffering huge inflation. Look at places like Turkey | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 12:44 PM |
| -1 | Sexpat destinations are going to disappear as countries become more developed.Being mediocre is fine. The problem is most men can't speak to women. Then you add in the fact many guys don't put in effort to look taken care of. Taking a shower is mostly what most guys do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 12:43 PM |
| 2 | Women claim to be into personality but judge everythingStop picking guys who pump and dump. Don't sleep with someone for a few months. Most guys who pump and dump won't talk to someone that long. I can't tell you how many girlfriends I have who sleep with a new guy after a few dates, and then they are legit surprised the guy no longer reaches out anymore. Girl, you gave up what he wanted, and he is lukewarm to you now. A good friend, she is going on a trip with a guy she met 3 times. lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 04:39 PM |
| 4 | Women claim to be into personality but judge everythingBeing a fat woman, you still have way more options than being an average guy in America lol. The problem is you can't be both. If you are fat, you can't be ugly. The problem is most women put in more effort than men. Taking a shower sometimes is the most some guys do. That shit won't cut it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 04:36 PM |
| -4 | The Concept of “Leagues” in Dating Doesn’t Make SenseMost guys are not reaching out to women in public, maybe older creepy dudes lol. Most times you see people with their looks matches in public. More times I see a fit guy and overweight women. Likely because she had kids and stopped caring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 11:16 PM |
| 1 | The Concept of “Leagues” in Dating Doesn’t Make SenseWomen were settling for a long time; it is just that online media has moved the goalpost. Girls were always wild in college, then found the nicer guy to settle down with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 11:12 PM |
| 0 | The Concept of “Leagues” in Dating Doesn’t Make SenseNo. Because the system is rigged for women with regards to attention. Women are the pot of gold at the end. Bars, Shows, Apps. Their end goal is to get women there so men will show up and pay. Because of the internet, most women see attention or see how easy it seems to get attention online. They see what others have and think, Oh my god, I am as pretty as her, I should have the same car, bag, hot perfect boyfriend. Men have their fault in all of this, simping. Both have a problem; guys stop sim… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 11:08 PM |
| 3 | Woman only punch down with insults directed at height, virginity, etc.It is all over there. I constantly see it. The mods have been trying to clean it up a lot more of the late because subs can get closed now for being a hate group. Which that is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 06:11 PM |
| 3 | Woman only punch down with insults directed at height, virginity, etc.I hit the wrong letter. TXC.It is a sub with women who hate men for a passion. Lots of bots in there too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 05:52 PM |
| 9 | Woman only punch down with insults directed at height, virginity, etc.Go on TWC. They will give you all the small dick hate, short jokes you can handle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 05:44 PM |
| 1 | What would you change about online dating?This would be the best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 12:00 AM |
| 0 | Women do not deserve betterIf men stopped simping, that would fix a lot of issues. That will never happen tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Men who think the ability to do sex work is a "female privilege" vastly overestimate the *economic* feasibility of sex work for the average womanYou know women get money from their simps without opening their legs. Women doing sex work do as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 09:10 PM |
| – | Chasing women is actually a waste of time.How about this. Men and Women suck at conversations. Zoomers are terrible at it. Men are worse, but they have all been bad at it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 04:32 PM |
| – | Chasing women is actually a waste of time.Two easy solutions. Follow rules one and two of Reddit which have been around since 2010. If you are a younger male spend time at a liberal arts college. Most of them are 70-80% women, and they have to approach men because it never happens to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 04:30 PM |
| 2 | What hoops do you have to jump through while trying to date?el like the flood of options really gives them the "grass is greener on the Yep, 100%. Online apps like IG does this as well. They see what others have or doing and think.... why can't that be me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 04:31 PM |
| 2 | What hoops do you have to jump through while trying to date?Pretty much how most girls work. Half the time is because they are flooded with options or they have the I want him to like me more than I like him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 02:04 PM |
| 2 | Women wouldn't hate men so much if they were attracted to themPeople often use terms incorrectly. I have no clue in what you are trying to say. Minorities can be prejudice towards anyone and that should not be accepted. Anyone can be prejudiced, but racism requires systemic power. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 02:20 PM |
| 3 | Women wouldn't hate men so much if they were attracted to themlmao stfu... respectfully... This is the dumbest shit I have heard today. Congrats. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 01:41 PM |
| 2 | Most dating advice from women here appears to come from an unacknowledged blind spot.Yes. It is nowhere near as bad. Dating apps release the stats. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 10:00 PM |
| 2 | Most dating advice from women here appears to come from an unacknowledged blind spot.Dating in America is just terrible. I find it funny how OLD is terrible in America, but much better in the EU and other areas. No clue why. In America the apps are 70-80% men and in EU and other areas 50-60% men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 06:07 PM |
| 1 | You shouldn’t be labelled as simp for wanting to spoil your partner and by showing a lot of affection towards themOr someone who spends 10,000$ on Pokimane and she does not even care to know their name and that person went homeless spending money on her lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 05:11 PM |
| 0 | You shouldn’t be labelled as simp for wanting to spoil your partner and by showing a lot of affection towards themI don't think you understand what a simp is. Simping is doing what you are saying for someone, NOT your partner. Just a random girl you are hoping your simping will get some attention from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 05:09 PM |
| – | Why are women like this?Umm. I jumped to YAS Queen because it is all over reddit. You go to any space like that, it is all you see. Perfect example is girl survival sub. Lying is never the best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 06:18 PM |
| – | Why are women like this?He is talking about the people in the sub reddit not calling her out. Not talking about the one person. He is talking about the YAS queen you are perfect. 10/10. Don't settle. Instead of what men would ask other men, ie being too picky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 05:41 PM |
| – | Why are women like this?He is speaking about all the women in the sub. So we are talking about thousands. Not one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 04:44 PM |
| -1 | Why are women suprised that men don't believe that women like men?Most likely. lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 04:18 PM |
| 6 | What do some men mean when they say 'woman have life on easy mode?'Women in women's groups talk about men nonstop in a degrading way. Maybe you are just in different settings, which is fine. The whole point is, if you were a man, your life would be even harder. Unless you were born in the 1950s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 03:07 PM |
| 5 | What do some men mean when they say 'woman have life on easy mode?'The trend is men not wanting women in their spaces (you see nonstop post on TXC about men not talking to women in work spaces), which is smart. Normal locker room talk is not the "misogynistic" talk and has nothing to do with women. Perfect example is a group of guys talking about a sports game last night and if a women is in the group it is like walking on eggshells because you might use a word which offends her. Example, oh man... that ref last night was a retard. He really blew the game. Not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 01:56 PM |
| -3 | Why are women suprised that men don't believe that women like men?What you mean is you find 5% of men attractive lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 01:34 PM |
| 7 | What do some men mean when they say 'woman have life on easy mode?'That is more a new trend because women will get offended if around other men doing locker room talk. Worked as an engineer and other women engineers would get all the easier projects, men the harder, bigger ones. When it comes to travel, same. Women would get all the local jobs, men would have to travel. When it came to doing everything harder, it got passed on to the men and easier work went to women. Being a woman today is much, much easier than being a woman 30 years ago. You legit have every… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 01:31 PM |
| 13 | What do some men mean when they say 'woman have life on easy mode?'Average women 100% get this. Men at work will do anything for average women. Most of the time you don't even know it is happening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 12:45 AM |
| 4 | Apparently women dislike it when their male friends reveal feelings for themAlways rules 1 and 2. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 12:15 AM |
| 2 | Apparently women dislike it when their male friends reveal feelings for themWhich kills the bullshit lie most use when they say they want to be friends first. It is a lie most times. Not for all women, but most. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 11:58 PM |
| – | There are not enough conservative women for conservative men to date.You are right, but it won't stop them from being the victim. It is 2025, the problem is never the person who is having the issue lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 01:57 PM |
| 0 | There are not enough conservative women for conservative men to date.Not when they are picky and only swipe right on 5% of men lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 05:57 PM |
| 9 | There are not enough conservative women for conservative men to date.So you are saying there are not enough men for liberal women to date? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 10:17 PM |
| 28 | Men have standards by default and criticize women for doing same thingIt is this. So many women pretend looks is not the most important part of their standards. It is so easy to see when you see how they choose men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 05:53 PM |
| 3 | It’s smart for a man to stop being friends with a women after she rejects himA lot of women are saying they want to be friends before dating someone. You can't have it both ways. Being mad at guys who want to be friends, then once they find out the girl is not interested, they stop talking to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 04:54 PM |
| 1 | It’s smart for a man to stop being friends with a women after she rejects himI thought women want to be friends with a guy first before dating.... Or is that only a made up thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 04:05 PM |
| 4 | Women are extremely hypocritical when it comes to friendships with menNah women do it too. I seen a lot of women be friends with others, want to hang out etc. Once they find out they have a gf, they don't keep talking to them anymore. Same shit guys do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 06:08 PM |
| 4 | "DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable.Yea, this is a thing some women enjoy doing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 08:10 PM |
| – | "DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable.Yep, that is why most of the women posting on TXC are femcel bigots. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Women don't love you, they love what you can do for them.It is a grey area and really depends on the person. Having a partner who won't have sex is a good enough reason to leave that relationship. Having sex once a month or less is grounds for ending it no matter what. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Women don't love you, they love what you can do for them.It not that it is conditional, there are certain needs that need to be met. Sometimes it is emontional, physical, or just being an equal partner. If you look at TXC you see all the women who say a man not helping out enough or they are doing all the emontional lifting. That is grounds for ending the relationship. Is that not conditional? Unconditional love is a dream, also not healthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 05:45 PM |
| 2 | Women don't love you, they love what you can do for them.If you remove sex from someone in a relationship and have a dead bedroom the partner is 100% in the right to move on. Men and women both suffer from it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Women don't love you, they love what you can do for them.That works for someone you’re just friends with. But having a partner who isn’t interested in sex is a red flag for most people. I knew a girl who would try to trick guys into relationships by hiding the fact that she didn’t like sex. She said she hated how, once guys found out, they would stop talking to her. I think your thinking is correct for friends to see what guys' intentions are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 03:53 PM |
| – | Why so many men suddenly became undesirable?Go look at TXC, pretty much all the same shit incels say, femcels say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 02:59 AM |
| – | Why so many men suddenly became undesirable?Women are doing the same shit. Online is full of shit talking snark. Women do this same shit in IRL aka mean girls stuff. Don't act like social media is a one side street. Just look at TXC is it is sub reddit with MILLIONS of man hating women. The real problem is women have a huge advantage in the dating market place. Women can always level up in what they think they should be able to date or marry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 09:19 PM |
| 1 | why do so many men look down on sex workers (escorts, prostitutes, onlyfans model, sugarbabies etc ) but at the same time also consume their services/content?You just moved the goal post from porn to onlyfans lmao. Those are two different things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 01:30 PM |
| 3 | why do so many men look down on sex workers (escorts, prostitutes, onlyfans model, sugarbabies etc ) but at the same time also consume their services/content?You act like it is something only men do. You are not making a point lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 02:55 AM |
| 3 | why do so many men look down on sex workers (escorts, prostitutes, onlyfans model, sugarbabies etc ) but at the same time also consume their services/content?Women do as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 11:44 PM |
| 5 | The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy.Oh 100%. If you see someone 60 and the person is 20 that is kinda eye turning. Old Bill belichick gf knows what she is doing. She is pumping his ass for money and fame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 05:09 PM |
| 6 | The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy.Oh 100%. Men or Women the younger people know what they are getting. People 100% turned on Chris Evans once they found out his wife is 10 years younger. He is a huge women's rights supporter and they flammed his ass lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 04:43 PM |
| 1 | The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy.Ugh. You have no clue what you are talking about. You should not be able to give advice on anything. I can fix him would be big shit. Little things would be things guys in their early 20's would do that is dumb. Stupid jokes which are guy jokes and not funny to others. Most guys don't have a normal filter when they are in their early 20's. Now it is early 30's because young guys are failing at life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 03:16 PM |
| 13 | The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy.If a guy is attractive enough for a younger women, he would have zero issues with an older one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 02:56 PM |
| 1 | The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy.Nobody is going to be perfect. You have to grow with someone. It is more about little things than big things. Everyone is different, most women don't correct people when someone does something wrong. That is the training part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 02:55 PM |
| 13 | The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy.Yes. I always see the YASSS QUEEN. Perfect example is darcey silva. She only dates / marries younger men. She is 50 and only dates men in their 30's. Women will cheer her on and yasss queen. She also only dates men without their own way or money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 02:48 PM |
| 6 | The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy.That is the same point for anyone. It is why I always tell my girl friends to start looking for the one in college. Options just get worse as you get older. Men are like puppies. You can train them when they are younger. Once they are older it is not as easy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 02:42 PM |
| 6 | The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy.So you think older women who date younger men are losers too right. Right.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 02:40 PM |
| 2 | What do men mean when they say women's standards are too highI tend to see this happen, but it is hard without context. Sometimes I see a partner get out of shape or in shape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 06:37 PM |
| 4 | What do men mean when they say women's standards are too highJuice up. Bro have you seen what he lookes like 90% of the time when not in movies? He a fit, but not super jacked. People always don't live like that who are in movies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 06:36 PM |
| 13 | What do men mean when they say women's standards are too highYou are right it does. Women on their taste in men is all over the place. Some women will be mid and think someone like Chris Hemsworth is mid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 02:25 PM |
| 1 | What do men mean when they say women's standards are too highThis is what most women don't understand. They never will. He will sleep with you, but not date you. I see it all the time in college. Right now it is really bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 02:11 PM |
| 1 | What do men mean when they say women's standards are too highI would not say a cheater, but the odds of them wanting date or put a ring on it is very slim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 02:11 PM |
| 2 | What do men mean when they say women's standards are too highWay more today than 10-20 years ago. Men are having the same issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 02:09 PM |
| 27 | What do men mean when they say women's standards are too highThe end of the day most women have the main must be attractive. That is really the most important thing for most of them. They always try to pretend it is not, but it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 02:08 PM |
| -1 | What do men mean when they say women's standards are too highGet your friends on dating apps and see what they pick. They will pass on 80-90% of males. That means their standards are too high. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Women not being able to get and stay in good-quality relationships is embarrassingI don't think there is an easy solution. Just something that will have to be self corrected over time. I think younger men have gotten worse since covid and women have raised the bar on what they want. It has made the gap even larger. You see everyday tons of women posting on reddit not getting attention or men not talking to them. That issue is only going to get worse as of now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Women not being able to get and stay in good-quality relationships is embarrassingThe standards they have now are due to tik tok and IG. It is all fake, most are just too dumb to understand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 03:08 PM |
| 1 | 20 year old women don't want middle aged or geriatric men the way these men want themYay, a stat which is terrible for people doing casual dating. Less and less people are getting married. That is pointless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 07:38 PM |
| 2 | 20 year old women don't want middle aged or geriatric men the way these men want themRules 1 and 2. Will never change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 01:18 PM |
| 13 | 20 year old women don't want middle aged or geriatric men the way these men want themThis is the issue people need to understand. Reddit has been around for how long? Rules 1: and 2: will never change lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 01:15 PM |
| 6 | 20 year old women don't want middle aged or geriatric men the way these men want themLmao, most normal young men in the United States are not hot n sexy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 01:14 PM |
| -1 | 20 year old women don't want middle aged or geriatric men the way these men want themYes. I can't tell you how many 21-23 y.o women I know who are done with men their age. Most of them just play COD, vape and no future goals. The ones they do want have all the options in the world and not looking to date just one girl. This has caused a lot of the girls I know dating men 4-7 years older than them. Because by the time they are in their late 20's or early 30's they have shit in a better place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 01:12 PM |
| 4 | Women say rejection is apart of life but I feel as if they don’t experience it enough to really understand how demoralizing it is.You lose the right to bitch about there being no good options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 05:35 PM |
| 5 | Women say rejection is apart of life but I feel as if they don’t experience it enough to really understand how demoralizing it is.Nothing is wrong with standards, the problem is bad standards. I always hear the: " No more good men left." " Wow, all the good men are taken." There is nothing wrong with dating someone who might have 3 out of 5 things you want and growing together. That is what normal people use to do. Now social media and being online have people wanting things that were never possible. Both men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 05:04 PM |
| 5 | Women say rejection is apart of life but I feel as if they don’t experience it enough to really understand how demoralizing it is.Wow. Where did I say ALL women. You know women have a much higher standard for what they look for in a partner. They would rather be single than to not get everything they want. There are thousands of examples of women on dating apps and data not being interested in their looks match. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 04:58 PM |
| 6 | Women say rejection is apart of life but I feel as if they don’t experience it enough to really understand how demoralizing it is.I agree she should. The problem is she builds in her mind he likes her and it comes crashing down. She won't talk to some guy who is large like her. It has to do with women facing rejections because most of them are only interested in men out of their league. Sometimes the man will sleep with them then ghost them, then that starts a whole different problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 04:31 PM |
| 9 | Women say rejection is apart of life but I feel as if they don’t experience it enough to really understand how demoralizing it is.That is the problem with the women doing a poor job with who they sleep with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 04:28 PM |
| 13 | Women say rejection is apart of life but I feel as if they don’t experience it enough to really understand how demoralizing it is.lmao a women moving the goal post when they know what everyone is talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 04:26 PM |
| 13 | Women say rejection is apart of life but I feel as if they don’t experience it enough to really understand how demoralizing it is.lmao. Women don't have nearly the same issues. Most times if they do it is because they want to date or interested in a guy who is out of their league. A good friend she is about 245 lbs. She likes this guy at work, he is way out of her league. She had the balls to say, I don't normaly want to date a really fit guy, but X is really cute. The guy is attractive and in shape. But thinks she would have a chance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 04:25 PM |
| 4 | No, women do not make it "obvious" they're into you"You should know I am ignoring you, you should come talk to me to show you really are interested". LMAO. The cope is great. Most men are terrible at learning to communicate, women are just as bad in showing they are interested or like someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Does it makes sense to you at all when men say some women are entitled in dating?Women do the same with always picking fuck boys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/25 12:35 PM |
| 8 | Would you date a very attractive girl who doesn't like sex?This is the correct answer. A lot of people don't match on the same level of sexuality. That is a big no if it is not a match. If a person likes PDA and the other does not. If a person does not enjoy being touch or held. It can be more than just sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/25 02:40 PM |
| -1 | Men are not able to be providers anymore due to capitalismPeople in their 20's are not children. People I have seen in friend groups are all adults. Women are not immune to having an imbalance of equity in relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 03:13 PM |
| -1 | Men are not able to be providers anymore due to capitalismThis is not true at all for most people. Most girls in college zoomer age get the insta ick if you are not paying for things or offer to. Women are not doing 90% of everything. If anything, there are more relationships where one partner does almost everything. It can be a man or woman. I have seen it go both ways a lot in my very large friend group. I think the issue lies one partner does all the lifting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 02:22 PM |
| -1 | Men are not able to be providers anymore due to capitalismI think the things you said are important, but in relationship people tend to do the things which make the other person's life better. That becomes a problem once things are not even or go past 60/40. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 02:01 PM |
| 8 | "Women make it obvious if they're into you" they don't lolWomen are the ones who need to do this. They don't. It was forced on them in one dating app, they hated putting in the work. Now that is no longer an option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 08:12 PM |
| 3 | Every woman beater I've ever met was almost constantly in relationshipsOne of the best reasons why people need friends who are different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 07:11 PM |
| 3 | Every woman beater I've ever met was almost constantly in relationshipsI feel like a lot of people are living in an "online utopia" both sides haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 07:01 PM |
| 7 | Men have it harder in dating than women doSouth America is happens all the time to americans on dating apps. They tell men to not use dating apps because of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 07:09 PM |
| 13 | Men have it harder in dating than women doMen can't stop the simping. It will never happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 07:07 PM |
| 5 | Men have it harder in dating than women doThis is the best example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 07:04 PM |
| 14 | Men have it harder in dating than women doThat is like a person who catches the fish but it is not big enough so they throw it back. They still can catch fish, it is their problem it is not good enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 07:03 PM |
| 0 | Dating apps are essentially auction housesWomen are going to pick guys who are 25-30 over people their age. I see it all the time. If a girl is 21, she is not interested in loser guys who are 21 and don't have shit going for them. If girls are not matched up with a bf in college and they are forced to go out, they tend to go older than younger. That is just how it works. Most guys are 3-5 years behind most women with regards to being an adult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Genuine Passport bros get too much hateThey are NOT american western. There is a difference. A huge one. Chineses even have a name for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Genuine Passport bros get too much hateMost of Africa would like a Western women to save them lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 03:50 PM |
| 0 | Genuine Passport bros get too much hateI agree with you, I have no clue even then why someone would want to do that. They are almost always forced to convert lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 02:41 PM |
| -2 | Genuine Passport bros get too much hateSadly it is a trend. Most times it is an older lady past 40 dating someone half their age and really fit. The women get lied too and gassed up. It happens a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Genuine Passport bros get too much hateYou keep looking at it from passport bros. I know normal people who just find how those women act as better. No "HOT GIRL Summer", No throwing it back. No hoe phase. Swiss and swedes are good example for finding good options. You have more options because less people are obese like they are in America. I am talking about normal EU countries such as Spain, France etc. The dating pool is much healthier than Amercias. Better options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 01:37 PM |
| -4 | Genuine Passport bros get too much hateWRONG! Women in the EU are still much better. Western women have tik tok mind rot and think everything is owed to them. America's dating market is fucked. For whatever reason it is much harder for younger men to find their equal. Online dating has made it more a mess. In the EU OLD is not nearly as toxic as it is in the west. The women to men ratio in the west is like 80% men and EU 64/40 split. I am not saying American zoomer men are a catch. I am saying their equals have pulled out of dating t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 01:05 PM |
| 2 | Genuine Passport bros get too much hateMost people see Western people men and women as loud and obnoxious. You add in current values of zoomers that just makes things worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 01:00 PM |
| 0 | Genuine Passport bros get too much hateThe fact that you can't see someone being westernized as a bad thing is very telling. The current dating market is trashed. Dating in American is one of the worst areas. In the EU and other areas the dating market is not perfect, but better. Not all western women, but a lot of them are spoiled. Dating overseas like the EU, things are better than America. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 12:48 PM |
| -2 | Genuine Passport bros get too much hateNews flash, people don't want most western women. You see just as many old bossy ladies as you do men going overseas to get men. For example, Tigerlily on 90 Day Fiance. I will never understand why western women talk to Muslim men thinking they can change them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 12:41 PM |
| 0 | Women want to be sexy, but hate the men who sexualize themPeople women will lie til the cows come home about this topic and others like it. Just say women are shallow too like men. There issue solved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 08:38 PM |
| 3 | Women want to be sexy, but hate the men who sexualize themA lot of them want attention from the right person, not just anyone. It is just a double standard. No girl in their right mind wears shit that is uncomfortable and painful just for fun. Sweatpants and crocs with a big t would be all women wear if they dress for comfort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 08:36 PM |
| 1 | We are being psyoped into caring about declining birth rates.lmao you mean the 12 states out of 50 states? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 01:32 PM |
| – | It is no more wrong for a woman to have a high body count than a manNo you are wrong. Women don't like when men sleep around. He is a "player". Men don't care if other men sleep around. That being said, if a women knows another women sleeps with lots of men, they are 100% calling her a hoe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 07:37 PM |
| – | Men arent rewarding bad men, women areSometimes people self snitch. For example, guys know who is cheating when their friend is fucking around with other people. The same can be said when you know some guys are kinda rappy. Gets girls drunk and takes them home. In college girls would still talk to said " party guys " would have a rep for not taking no for an answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/25 01:10 PM |
| – | Dating in your 20s is impossible if you want true loveNah, everyone becomes jaded in their 20's. It really depends on wtf people read online. Men have shit spaces and women do too. It is up to the person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 01:07 PM |
| 2 | This quote "the bar is in hell for men". This quote doesn't make sense all. Because that bar isn't usually meant for all men.Women don't date down as much as men do. If they pick a guy not based on looks, it is for a reason. I never see women dating fat men when they are pretty. I mean people without money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/25 04:31 PM |
| 3 | This quote "the bar is in hell for men". This quote doesn't make sense all. Because that bar isn't usually meant for all men.I see it the other way around, mid women more attractive man. You always see fat women with fit guy. Never the other way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/25 12:20 PM |
| 1 | The below 80% of men should strive to get dating apps removedI agree. I am saying MEN should NOT use them. I blame them for being desperate and thinking they will find something easy online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 03:54 PM |
| 3 | The below 80% of men should strive to get dating apps removedNo. The reason why men should NOT use dating apps is because the market is shit. Most dating apps are 80% men on them. If all of them stop going on dating apps, it will make it better for both men and women. This is mostly a United States issue, in the EU dating apps are like 60/40 for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 02:37 PM |
| 8 | This quote "the bar is in hell for men". This quote doesn't make sense all. Because that bar isn't usually meant for all men.Not saying all women, but lets be real.... Women lie to each other ALL DAY. Hey queen, omg you look so IT in that dress. Two seconds later to another friend, OMG she looks so fat in that dress, I don't know what she is thinking. Women sabotage other women ALL the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 12:56 AM |
| 6 | This quote "the bar is in hell for men". This quote doesn't make sense all. Because that bar isn't usually meant for all men.I listed one. Once I see someone who says it I will tag you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 12:12 AM |
| 11 | This quote "the bar is in hell for men". This quote doesn't make sense all. Because that bar isn't usually meant for all men.I swear the same women here come up with the same BS. To try and cover all the BS others say so they don't seem as shallow as men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 12:10 AM |
| 9 | This quote "the bar is in hell for men". This quote doesn't make sense all. Because that bar isn't usually meant for all men.Sure. Next time I see it, I will tag you. It is always, just wait til someone post. “As a woman, looks don’t matter at all.” In a post on r/unpopularopinion, a woman states: “I actually don’t give a shit about looks at all.… Personality wise maybe I can be a tad bit picky but when it comes to looks, not at all.” https://rareddit.com/r/unpopularopinion/comments/bvbwm0/men_are_way_more_accepting_when_it_comes_to/?utm_source | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 12:07 AM |
| 21 | This quote "the bar is in hell for men". This quote doesn't make sense all. Because that bar isn't usually meant for all men.BS. I hear it all the time and you see it HERE all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 05:38 PM |
| 29 | This quote "the bar is in hell for men". This quote doesn't make sense all. Because that bar isn't usually meant for all men.Women say it ALL the time. Looks don't matter. I hear it nonstop from women of reddit. Then a lot of women IRL. Then they go on a dating app not read a single profile and left swipe 90% of men. With regards to rejection, that is not the problem. I want women to not lie to other women. When they say shit like, I just want a nice man who does x,y,z. When looks really is the first thing they care about or notice. Once that bar is checked then they look for other options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 02:35 PM |
| 43 | This quote "the bar is in hell for men". This quote doesn't make sense all. Because that bar isn't usually meant for all men.This is very true. The problem is most women will not tell the truth in saying that. They will say other things like, oh the vibe is not right or we did not have that energy. When it really was, I did not find you attractive. Then most women will say looks are not important and I am only looking for good personality. All which is BS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 02:17 PM |
| – | Women's dissatisfaction with modern dating stems largely from their reliance on makeupEnd of the day makeup changes most women a ton. It makes some people look 100% different. You have people who change races. Have a friend who is Asian and does her make up to look white always. It was something she did to fit in with other girls. She went out a few times without doing it and people thought she was someone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 07:33 PM |
| – | Women's dissatisfaction with modern dating stems largely from their reliance on makeupMaybe normal women over 40. Zoomer college girls go to the gym in full makeup. I can't think of a girl under 30 at the gym NOT in makeup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 07:28 PM |
| – | Women's dissatisfaction with modern dating stems largely from their reliance on makeupThis is NOT true at all. There are tons of videos showing women going thru a huge change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 06:48 PM |
| – | It’s not that women have it easier, it’s just that dating is horrible for most menI don't know, a lot of women fear being alone just as well. You say men treat women bad, but in LGB relationships women are the most violent. So it is not like women are not treating other women great as well. If a person has a problem meeting someone today most time I think they are the problem. It is hard, but both sides suck in the zoomer age today. Men are pretty bad with failure to launch and women today think Mr. Perfect is going to come out of nowhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 12:38 PM |
| 1 | It’s not that women have it easier, it’s just that dating is horrible for most menWomen are picky. It is fine, but then average women get stuck with nothing. You have to accept problems people create. You only want someone who is perfect, good luck with being alone. Because if that perfect person comes along why would they want you when you are normal. That is the current problem. I see lots of younger males who are losers and lots of average women who think they are perfect. Both will be having a wakeup call. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/25 05:38 PM |
| 1 | It’s not that women have it easier, it’s just that dating is horrible for most menYou act as there are not just as many terrible women. You have options. If you are at a point in your life YOU can't find someone, the problem is in the mirror. Not talking about you, but the person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/25 03:52 PM |
| 2 | It’s not that women have it easier, it’s just that dating is horrible for most menA women getting a date is much much easier. You have a better chance at finding someone when you have options vs not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/25 03:07 PM |
| 20 | Overall. Getting women as a man is entirely too much work.Who said they don't like women? This is just something you made up in your head. This issue were not a problem 10 years ago or before. This problem is new, gen Z is fucked and everything after is screwed too. The problem won't impact everyone, but it will impact a lot. People are forever online and a lot of women see what others have online and think they can always do better. Sometimes it works out other times it does not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 02:07 PM |
| 1 | There nothing wrong in a 30 year old man dating a 20 year old girlNot really. A solid relationship is built off a friendship foundation. If people can't understand that they are going to have lame marriage. I know people who are married and they don't even do anything. Zero hobbies, common interest, don't even watch the same shows or TV. No inside jokes or funny things. It was, let's just have kids.... yay!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 08:42 PM |
| 2 | There nothing wrong in a 30 year old man dating a 20 year old girlJesus, it is only 10 years. Do you not have interest that other people of all ages do? I have friends of all ages and meet people from different age groups and have common things we talk about. I have a good friend who is older than me and we have a lot in common. I just think people need to leave their echo chambers and small groups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 04:59 PM |
| 1 | There nothing wrong in a 30 year old man dating a 20 year old girlI am seeing more and more college aged girls, friends with a few that are 21,22,25. They have a friend group of 6-7 and all are single. Pretty much have given up dating guys their age. Their words, they are losers. College drop outs, living at home with their mom, playing warzone. Zero drive for anything. Most girls are interested in guys late 20's or early 30's. Their college has a guy to girl ratio of 75% women almost to 25% men. It is hard times for them to find people in their social groups.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 04:52 PM |
| 14 | We Talk About Women’s Biological Clock. But Sperm Quality Has a Clock TooAll I know is you have 80 y.o guys still making babies which is stupid. Looking at you Robert De niro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 03:18 PM |
| 2 | I don’t think men are “intimidated” by strong independent womenIt is ok. I am sure your bitter group of cat ladies are all well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/25 08:43 PM |
| 1 | I don’t think men are “intimidated” by strong independent womenSee... you are doing it. Zero accountability. Blaming others instead of how terrible you were in choosing men. Got it. smh. If you were picking men with "bad attitude and behavior". Your words. It is a you issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/25 08:14 PM |
| 2 | I don’t think men are “intimidated” by strong independent womenLies, you were blaming men. I don't have any projection. Forever a victim lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/25 07:57 PM |
| 1 | I don’t think men are “intimidated” by strong independent womenHow about blaming the person who is having the issue. You sound like the problem. I did not bring sex into it or blame a women. You did. You are the problem lol. If you can't find a good person, something is wrong with you. Not everyone else lol. You just want to be a victim it sounds like. If a person is overweight, they should be should own the blame. Your logic you would blame the fastfood places and everyone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/25 07:47 PM |
| 2 | I don’t think men are “intimidated” by strong independent womenBecause it is someone who is full of shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/25 07:00 PM |
| 0 | I don’t think men are “intimidated” by strong independent womenNo they are NOT. Almost all women I know who are near 6 foot would date someone unless they are taller. IE... I like wearing fun shoes! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/25 07:00 PM |
| 2 | I don’t think men are “intimidated” by strong independent womenSounds like a you issue blaming others. Maybe you are bad at picking people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/25 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Women who got fit/in shape, how did your physical standards for a partner change?Linemen football guys are not a softboy fat. But I get what you are saying lol. I am talking about this https://d.ibtimes.com/en/full/2788017/colt-larissa.webp?w=736&f=479394bbc52f217b1085662831f7cadf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/25 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Women who got fit/in shape, how did your physical standards for a partner change?So you would date an obese or fat guy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/25 03:54 PM |
| 2 | Men being thirsty is the reason women have so much leverage in the dating gameI do see this happening more. It is crazy funny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 08:37 PM |
| 3 | Men being thirsty is the reason women have so much leverage in the dating gamefacts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 08:36 PM |
| 6 | Mens' online dating experience is strictly worse than womens'Men do NOT get hundreds of matches. There have been tons and tons of videos about this topic. Lots of girls who thought they would slay on line dating if they were a man and they could not get more than 3-4 matches. OLD is mostly men, so that is part of the problem. These issues don't happen over in the EU. It is mostly an American issue. OLD is like 80-20 in the USA and EU almost 60-40 men to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 04:24 PM |
| 8 | Mens' online dating experience is strictly worse than womens'so you had 100 men to choose from. The point is if you were a man you would have 4-5 at MAX. You would still have the same issues with those people being crazy or not good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 03:56 PM |
| 2 | If women actually had such good personalities - men would just hire them to ghost write their dating profiles and chats.It is 100% the culture. EU is much different than North America. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/25 05:13 PM |
| 3 | If women actually had such good personalities - men would just hire them to ghost write their dating profiles and chats.There was a youtuber who thought she could have success in online dating. She thought the issues were men and their lack of personalities and bad profiles. In the video you can see her shock in how hard it is to even get 1 match. She pretty much crashes out and can't do anything like she thought she could. She thought she since she knows women it would be easy to get matches. Womp womp. She was wrong. She created a second profile using a 9/10 guy friend she had and she only had a small amount of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/25 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Any truth to the "Nose Ring Theory"?All you gotta do is watch tik tok. Girls who have any of her related tags and you see tons of nose rings in that girl group. perfect example. https://x.com/chylerswift/status/1674881609756016640 https://x.com/swiftafboi_13/status/1674881546967195651 https://x.com/heartoutswift_/status/1674876958939676677/photo/1 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 07:41 PM |
| 3 | I think there is something that needs to be said about how many men approach dating: the “be as appealing to as many women as possible” approachThis is the best example. Zoomers just write someone off by looking at them. Post college dating people just look at the cover now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/25 01:40 PM |
| -2 | Q4M: Any truth to the "Nose Ring Theory"?Girls who have that are not goth girls. These are norm girls who are t swift fans lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 05:49 PM |
| 18 | Q4M: Any truth to the "Nose Ring Theory"?Don't listen to Barney. There is a group of women who are sad they don't get attention as other women. You see them posting a lot online and get sad when everyone says how ugly their nose rings are. They respond with I do it for me, which everyone else says well that is why you don't get the same attention as your friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Why Do Unsuccessful Men on this Sub Focus So Much On Women They Don’t Want To Date?I don't have to my Step sister would 100% be on that show. The show is pretty much what people IRL are like. Everything is based off of some truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 02:49 PM |
| 0 | Why Do Unsuccessful Men on this Sub Focus So Much On Women They Don’t Want To Date?Meh, you are just wrong. Most of those women are average women making average amount of money and life style. Nice try. You are just 100% wrong. It is ok. GL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 02:22 PM |
| 2 | Why Do Unsuccessful Men on this Sub Focus So Much On Women They Don’t Want To Date?The men are much worse. They have had tons of normal women. The rough around the edges is what makes them normal. I think you people are confused to what are normal person looks like lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 02:19 PM |
| 4 | Why Do Unsuccessful Men on this Sub Focus So Much On Women They Don’t Want To Date?Have you seen love after lock up? They are tons of normal women looking for hot guys lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 02:13 PM |
| – | American men are becoming disinterestedThe biggest issue I notice with younger women is they are drugged up on SSRI's. Everyone and their mom has mental health issues and depression. Guys before you date a girl find out what meds she is on. It ain't worth it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 11:57 AM |
| 1 | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipThere is just a huge disconnect with younger people. Both men and women. You see it all over. Men are slowly being left behind, college, jobs, dating. Women are being impacted as well due to the struggles of younger guys. You see it on reddit as girls posting everyday in the rateme area or amiugly area. Saying things as why don't guys talk to me or I never dated anyone. The girl is always normal looking. Things are just different currently for zoomers and gen A. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 07:27 PM |
| 2 | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipI agree with you. I think it is more of an issue with 20-30 y.o. Younger guys are pretty lame. No job, no school. etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipNo. Not at all, I just know most men don't get attached as some women can. They do but it is different. Men are looking at what you can do for me most times, meanwhile women most times are looking for an emotional support connection. You look at the crazy lady section and all you see in 12 million women saying how their man is a baby and they have to cook and clean and do xyz. Then they say all they want in return is for them to bond and spend time with them and help them out in life. Make thing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipI mean I think both need each other. I think men get more out of using women than the other way around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 05:06 PM |
| 2 | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipWhat she said is NOT true. There are tons of videos where women are going to solo dating events and there will be 20-30 women and only a few guys. The women are pissed because the options are bad. They have nobody to blame, but refuse to look in the mirror at the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 05:06 PM |
| 3 | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipThis is not true at all. I know a lot of women mid 30's who are mad they can't find a guy good enough. They don't want to be alone, but they won't " SETTLE ". It is very funny to watch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 05:04 PM |
| 0 | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipAh, you don't understand. lmao. It is ok. Don't think too hard. If a women can't get a man her standards are too high. If a man want commit her standards are too high. I gave you example to help you understand, which you could not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 02:54 PM |
| 6 | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipI see the problem from the other side. Lots of women mad because guys they fuck won't date them. These girls are not interested in dating their looks equal. I see it happen all the time. Then they get mad at men and not going to date anyone. Currently got a friend and her group of single 22 y.o women all mad at men. There are like 10 of them all single. All are average cute looking, all have had a ton of situationships in the past two years. The worse being one who had 7 in the last year lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 01:58 PM |
| 11 | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipI don't think you understand things. Here, let me help you out. An average women thinks they are too good for their equal. An average man. This is not always the case, but happens a lot. Men tend to talk to women below them if they are looking for something casual, women tend to talk to men above them hoping to lock them down. Most times they are both looking for something else. This does not always happen, but I go out a lot and see way more attractive men with heavy / not pretty women. Men are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 01:39 PM |
| 1 | It's not mysogynist for guys to tell their gf not to wear revealing clothes or not being comfortable with her going to clubs with her girlfriends.Gay bars are a different vibe. I can tell you never been with your response. Women also feel much safer there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/25 01:24 AM |
| 1 | It's not mysogynist for guys to tell their gf not to wear revealing clothes or not being comfortable with her going to clubs with her girlfriends.Some guys can protect themselves, women don't have that option. End of the date women going out to the clubs are not a smart idea. If they want to go to a club, go to a gay bar. Some do that, that is fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 09:22 PM |
| 2 | It's not mysogynist for guys to tell their gf not to wear revealing clothes or not being comfortable with her going to clubs with her girlfriends.Their safety. I just said nothing good comes out from going out late. Creepy guy, someone attacks them, fights from other dumb asses. Perfect example when Offset started a fight and got his best friend shot in the head due to cross fire. All over some fucking bullshit dice game. Clubs has tons of violence and trouble with them. Nothing good comes out of staying out late. It is the number one thing professional teams tell there players. Bad choices happen late at night. Add drugs or alcohol thing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 09:08 PM |
| 3 | It's not mysogynist for guys to tell their gf not to wear revealing clothes or not being comfortable with her going to clubs with her girlfriends.Dude cheating is not the only thing. As former sports players say nothing good comes out from going to clubs. It is always just trouble. And if you are at a club past 12 AM it is even more trouble. If a girl needs to dress like a hooker and go to a club to have fun, that is a bigger issue. They can do so many other things instead of dressing like a thot and doing thot like things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 08:59 PM |
| 0 | Dating, Sex, and Relationships have never been easier for the average Western woman than they are today.This is wrong. Warren buffet says this is a great time to make money and growth. What you said is the opposite, you make money when there are huge waves. If you put in money when things go down, that is the perfect time to buy. Perfect example 1 month ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 11:24 AM |
| 1 | Dating, Sex, and Relationships have never been easier for the average Western woman than they are today.Myself and my friends are not rich. We are all doing well with the past few months. We are all sub 1 million, well I think one might now be over 1 million. The problem is people spend too much and don't save enough. The market just gave a free 20% pick up a few weeks ago. It will happen again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 08:58 PM |
| 7 | A good number of women aren't hypergamous and most dating advice for men online suck.You a lot of people own their own business and it makes them a CEO. You can be a CEO without making MILLIONS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 08:54 PM |
| -5 | Dating, Sex, and Relationships have never been easier for the average Western woman than they are today.I am sorry, if you are not making money today you have nobody but yourself to blame. The best part about Trump is his mouth causes lots of waves. This is good opportunity for making money. Rich people are getting rich in the stock market. More people should be doing the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Dear women, he is not “emotionally unavailable” you are just his side pieceI don't have issues with anything. It is hard times out there for some girls who are single in college. Options are thin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 08:21 PM |
| 2 | Most men won't succeed on dating appsYounger people don't like doing things older people use. For example facebook. People from the age 19-23 run away from facebook because their parents use it. Kinda the same for a lot of the normal dating apps. Tinder is used more over seas tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 08:51 PM |
| 2 | Most men won't succeed on dating appsPeople who were younger used the app as it was created. hookups only. That was tinder was mostly used for. Once older people got on it changed from that to a dating app. They started to chance people as a money object and do anything in their power to prevent you from meeting people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Most men won't succeed on dating appsSadly that is reddit in a nutshell. You look at areas like TXC and it is full of women hating men. Sometimes here you can have a balance, but reddit is mostly males. Reddit's biggest issue is online does not equal real life most times. Reddit is the venting space mostly. That being said being a younger women is much better than being a male under 20. I can't tell you how many males under 20 who are just lost in life where women have a direction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 05:03 PM |
| 3 | Most men won't succeed on dating appsI know, I am just sitting here watching and laughing. It sucks, but if you have those problems you do things to fix it. If you are a nice person and treat people like a human, you can find all types of options. Rules 1 and 2 always help for sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 04:52 PM |
| 3 | Most men won't succeed on dating appsI agree smh. I get it for women, you have options. Men should not even touch them. It will just make you feel useless. If you see someone cute IRL and you make eye contact with them, just go talk to them. The problem is most men are terrible with talking with women. So they feel OLD is a better option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 04:42 PM |
| 2 | Most men won't succeed on dating appsAdd in the fact men are legit trash with their profiles. My god, I never seen so many bad pictures or lack of interesting things said. I feel sorry for both. Men because most will just feel useless and women because they become numb from the 100000000 guys in their inbox. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Most men won't succeed on dating appsYep and Yep. Tinder at release was fine before all the boomers and old people got on it. When it was mostly college kids and younger people in 2015/7 it was working as intended. Match with a cute girl, talk, meet up, invite over for the night. It got ruined by greed and everyone using it. I think at release it was 60/40 for men. In the EU dating apps are much better than America. They have a good balance of men and women. In America most areas are 80% men on the apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 04:29 PM |
| 2 | Most men won't succeed on dating appsMore like much much much more. Some of the stats are like 70-80% men on dating apps lol. Women will have like 300-400 matches if they are average looking. Meanwhile being an attractive guy out in the wild it is pretty easy to get a girls info. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 04:26 PM |
| 3 | There should be a dating app that showed you your elo scoreThey already do this in dating apps. It is hidden. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 03:15 PM |
| 2 | There should be a dating app that showed you your elo scoreIt is already in most dating apps. They have a ELO which shows you people in that group. You just don't see it, he is saying that it should be shown as I agree. They already use it to send people in that group to you. This is mostly only used in men since dating apps are 70% men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 03:14 PM |
| 6 | Dear women, he is not “emotionally unavailable” you are just his side pieceIt is not even that, they go to a liberal arts college. There might be only 15-20% single guys. They are getting tossed around by average looking guys lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 01:22 PM |
| 10 | Dear women, he is not “emotionally unavailable” you are just his side pieceI have no clue what is going on with some zoomers. I have a friend who is 21. She and all her friends are single. About 10 or so of them. They have all been in situationship, one was in 7 of them this year lmao. The girls are pretty, but go to a college which is 70% female. The guys they are interested in are only fucking them and refuse to date them lmao. Shit is always funny af. They never learn, but their options are slim. One of them is looking at dating older dudes now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 11:25 AM |
| 1 | Nice guys actually do talk to women as people, but women then treat them as "one of the girls"End of the day that is always the rule. If you are attractive, you can break the rules. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Men need to have higher standards.If a guy is not good at interacting with people / ladies even being an 8 is not enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Men need to have higher standards.No. I know guys can be very lame and lack the ability to drive or hold a conversation. Just some women are not much better. I am a super extrovert and do really well with women. I can vibe with them very easy, I am also the person having to drive topics and pull things out. Not all girls are like this, but I do notice ones who complain about boring guys tend to be girls who are boring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Men need to have higher standards.You are a women, that is part of the problem. You have no idea how women are. The whole say something interesting or do something funny, make me interested...... Some women have a crazy amount of things they want, then they are basic as fuck and not interesting. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hed636P1FqM For example, they only say hi or hey... Then want you to say / do funny things. The problem is women have too many options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 01:56 PM |
| 4 | Men need to have higher standards.Good luck getting that even now lol. I can't tell you how many times I see fit men with obese women. Younger girls who are tanks waiting to get their chad lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 01:53 PM |
| 0 | Size doesn't matter to women until it's their own partner who's small.If you listen to women about shit like this you are a full. Women don't know what they want. Don't take advice from women on those subjects, size does not matter, height does not matter, just being a nice person is all a girl wants. Those are all BS. There is a floor for everything that will make it matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 11:57 AM |
| 2 | Cheating and casual sex is way more common than you realise, if you deny it then you’re simply just naive or wilfully ignorantShit don't matter to me, I just call a spade a spade. For girls it is much harder to find a good young guy than finding at girl at 27 who has their shit together. If a girl wants to waste her best years in fucking around, she gonna find out how bad the male selection choice is at late 20s. All the good ones gone lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/25 09:17 PM |
| 5 | Cheating and casual sex is way more common than you realise, if you deny it then you’re simply just naive or wilfully ignorantYou think women are not doing the same shit. Younger girls are shady af now. Hella common for girls 18-25 to cheat currently than years before. Now they are just finding out who they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/25 09:04 PM |
| 6 | Both genders would be happier if women did the approachingWas about. It was not working. Women don't make the first move and less women were using it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 05:08 PM |
| 31 | Both genders would be happier if women did the approachingWomen think men are low effort. My god, women are just as bad. Hi, Hey, hello, make me laugh. Do something to stand out...... Women see that shit sucks and noped out of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 05:08 PM |
| 2 | Men not going to collegeThat is the way it is going. Even engineering schools which were 60/40 men are starting to dip into 60/40 women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 03:25 PM |
| 2 | Men not going to collegeIt is simple math. If colleges are starting to get to mid 70% full of women, there are simply not enough guys to match with women. Those women are NOT dating lots of guys. The guys are dating lots of women. The girls in college are selective and are only interested in a type most times. Those guys know that and won't commit. I have been laughing about it to my friend as she crashes and burns. She just turned 21 and been in 7 situationships in the past year lol. All her friends are single and tho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Men not going to collegeI called this shit like 2-3 years ago. Women are fucked and I am here to see it. College started being 75% women near me and I know so many single girls stuck in situationships. They all want to date someone really attractive, and that guys knows he can date 3-4 women at a time in college. A few really good female friends been in 4-5 situationships a year hoping the guy will pick them lol. All of their girlfriends are single too lol. Shit is hella funny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 12:34 PM |
| 2 | Do Some Women Avoid Being Open About Physical Preferences on reddit?I travel and have a hobby which involves doing things with large groups of people. My friend and I always notice the amount of times we see fit men with obese women. Very rarely we see it the other way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 02:17 PM |
| 0 | Do Some Women Avoid Being Open About Physical Preferences on reddit?Because both men and women lie. Women always lie online when it comes to things they gas light people about. LOOKS don't matter lmao. Maybe to a small few, you never see women looking to date some ugly guy or fat, giving him a chance because he is nice and has a great personally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 01:20 PM |
| – | "Just approach women, bro" is outdated, sexist and pointless.Dating apps are just shit for men. I wish guys would not use them. Let women have to put in effort. Too many simps tho. You could match with less guys then you won't have 100 dudes in your inbox? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 03:22 PM |
| – | "Just approach women, bro" is outdated, sexist and pointless.Women will block a guy or say it is zero effort. Then post only hi. Hi or Hey is fine if you follow it with context. Just saying Hi or Hey is lazy and most times means someone is talking to 10 people. Hey Axis, I love the pictures of your dog. What mix are they? I have a XXXX their name is XXX. Not that hard, but that would mean they would have to look and read your profile and that never happens when you have 30 dudes in your inbox. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 02:30 PM |
| – | "Just approach women, bro" is outdated, sexist and pointless.You reap what you sow is going on for both genders right now. Nobody has it easy, just different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 02:22 PM |
| – | "Just approach women, bro" is outdated, sexist and pointless.Yep lmao. Zero fucking effort for being a women on dating apps. Not all are like that, but the ones who are pretty 100%. Guys will simp, when they should really just block all women who just say HI or Hey only. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 02:20 PM |
| – | "Just approach women, bro" is outdated, sexist and pointless.That is because most guys are retarded. You gotta learn how to read the room. I was on a plane last night and you gotta pick up the small hints some women give. The girl was college aged and interested. She started off first with talking and say hi and her name. I bumped into her arm and apologized, she put her arm on me and said it was fine. Very strong eye contact, she engaged in chit chat, smiling, hair twirls. Most guys are terrible at reading the room. Not saying I would have been taking he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 01:41 PM |
| – | "Just approach women, bro" is outdated, sexist and pointless.I don't know about working fine. Younger women are nonstop QQ online about WHY WON'T the guy I like come talk to me. I gave him the looked at him for 2 seconds. He should notice me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 01:36 PM |
| – | "Just approach women, bro" is outdated, sexist and pointless.dating apps are terrible too. Most women do zero effort. They just go, hi, hey, hi, hey. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Most girls don’t prefer significantly older menUmmm. It is when you only interested in dating attractive guys. The pool becomes smaller. Women are picky. The guys know they have tons of options and just hook up. This is problem will only get worse for the shorter time. Long as the is a huge gap in college, women will have this issue. There was just a huge post about this on 2X a few days ago. Women bitching about finding good options in college due to colleges being mostly women. That is why you see a girl working on her masters dating someo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Most girls don’t prefer significantly older menSorry, I see a lot of girls wanting to date older guys. 21 y.o girls looking to date late 20's or early 30's. Words from a lot of the girls I know. The guy selection in college is TRASH. All the good looking guys just want to smash, and most of the colleges the girl to guy rate is 70/30. Options are slim if you are trying to date someone who has education. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 07:05 PM |
| 7 | Women’s reliance on passive dating is self-sabotage and they know itRight. It is not normal at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 04:13 PM |
| -1 | Women’s reliance on passive dating is self-sabotage and they know itI know a lot of girls it happens too. Younger guys are timid than before. This happens to more average looking girls than really attractive girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 02:24 PM |
| -2 | Women’s reliance on passive dating is self-sabotage and they know itGo online. Sub reddits like rate me and amiugly is filled with attractive young women who think they are ugly because men won't talk to them. It is becoming more of an issue now than it ever was. It is a growing problem for sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 02:05 PM |
| 19 | Women’s reliance on passive dating is self-sabotage and they know itNah, younger women don't approach. They do the... I looked at you and you did not get the hint I like you. They bitch about it nonstop online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Men who think makeup is deceptive while being ok with body hair removal are inconsistent.lmao these two are not the same. You can maybe say a man having a beard is the same because some guys are ugly af without it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 12:46 PM |
| 3 | "just be confident" is a shallow advice for menYep. The thing is most women don't understand sleeping with a guy won't make them date you lol. Just like guys don't understand simping for a girl won't make her date you. Both sides don't learn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 09:34 PM |
| 3 | "just be confident" is a shallow advice for menWomen have mastered it to get simps to tell them how perfect they are lol. Girl: who is really pretty, omg I am so ugly. Ughhh. Guy: omg you are perfect 10/10. Just look at /ramiugly and all those rejects saying mid women are 10/10. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 09:02 PM |
| – | Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has.Yea, sadly reddit is an echo chamber and you always hear about the worst. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 09:58 PM |
| – | Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has.Sounds like those women choose man children lol. I know tons of guys and women who do a good job a balancing out both things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 09:16 PM |
| 3 | The idea that men are intimidated by successful women is mostly a myth.It depends on a lot of things. Most men who make a lot of money or successful don't care if a women is equal to them in terms of success. Most women don't feel the same. They want an equal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/25 12:56 PM |
| 2 | The best way to correct the dating market is for men to leave women alone.The problem is social media. Women listen to dumb shit on tik tok and think they will find their perfect guy. You have to work at your relationship. I hate to say it but most men are like puppies. You gotta train them in some way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/25 12:19 PM |
| 6 | The best way to correct the dating market is for men to leave women alone.This needs to happen but men won't stop simping. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/25 12:15 PM |
| 2 | 'Manosphere' tactics don't work- They destroyed my relationship with the love of my lifeI think what the person is telling you is your idea of what red pill shit should be is not correct. The problem is online has tons of people who scam others with bad info. There are parts about red pill which are correct. Then there are parts which are stupid as fuck and not right at all. I think younger guys in early 20s need to focus and invest their time and energy into a better future than chasing girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 02:14 PM |
| 9 | If men don't want to date women over 30 because they're jaded, bitter and have trouble pair bonding, wouldn't the same thing apply to men over 30?I think dating has gotten worse with how people isolate today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 02:06 PM |
| 14 | If men don't want to date women over 30 because they're jaded, bitter and have trouble pair bonding, wouldn't the same thing apply to men over 30?I think people are so scared to be alone they would rather be in a shit relationship than alone lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 01:32 PM |
| – | As a bi woman, dating women is way harder than dating men.A good read and I have a few friends who are in the same boat as you and feel the same way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 05:10 PM |
| 3 | Women are dating the same terrible dudesYou gaslighting that person with your bullshit "victim blaming". They are 100% not doing that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Women are dating the same terrible dudesMy guy out here spitting facts. Men let this shit slide because of all the simpin'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 03:42 PM |
| 7 | Women are dating the same terrible dudesI know tons of girls like this lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 03:41 PM |
| 3 | Women are dating the same terrible dudesJust stop. You gotta take ownership of your mistakes. If you pick crazy people are losers you gotta look in the mirror and see you are to blame. 2025 should be about accountability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 03:39 PM |
| 1 | I’ll Answer the “Why Don’t Men Read Our Profiles?” Question.I hate them so much. 2017 tinder was lit. It was perfect when it was just a hookup app used by younger people. It was not the best for finding true love, but it was balanced with the user base. It might have been 60-40. You could meet interesting people in your 20s, where now it is just shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 03:57 PM |
| 2 | I’ll Answer the “Why Don’t Men Read Our Profiles?” Question.I feel bad for both MEN and WOMEN. OLD is fucking trash, setup to make these companies tons of money. Men just keep spending money when they don't see 80% of the people on dating apps are just men. Women create a profile then have 500+ likes after a few days, how can a person look into all of that and think hey this person seems like a match. I would say apps just need to be where women can be the only one to do anything and just have guys on standby. It was like that, but the company wanted mor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 03:52 PM |
| – | Women in this subreddit are always confused about 'high standards'.NO. I understand 100% that dating apps are mostly men. The data shows most areas are 70-80% men. Women don't have issues most times with meeting a guy. Younger zoomers are having issues with meeting guys they find attractive now due to covid issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 05:02 PM |
| – | Women in this subreddit are always confused about 'high standards'.You are dululu. Women are judging, how many times have we seen women swipping no on dating apps. It is always rules 1 and rules 2. There are a small amount of people where looks is not important, but we have dating app data from the companies which show details like women only right swipe on 6% of men or whatever it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 04:27 PM |
| – | Women in this subreddit are always confused about 'high standards'.Because most women try to deny that physical appearance is the first thing they care about. Just stop lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 04:25 PM |
| – | Women in this subreddit are always confused about 'high standards'.IMO it shows women are more shallow than men when we are talking about judging appearance only. Something most women will argue does not happen. It is only a problem because it is something most deny instead of acknowledge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 02:26 PM |
| – | Women in this subreddit are always confused about 'high standards'.Couple watching is funny af. Nothing better than people watching on a nice night downtown. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 01:43 PM |
| – | Women in this subreddit are always confused about 'high standards'.The problem is men have a larger view of what is attractive. Women are picky af when it comes to attractive. If you put an attractive women in front of 10 men, most of the time all men will agree that women is attractive. If you do the same with women, shit is up in the air. It could be 4 out 10 or 6 out of 10 find that person attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 01:42 PM |
| – | Women in this subreddit are always confused about 'high standards'.Just started talking to this girl. Come to find out she has been in 7 situationships this past year. She said she can't find guys who are nice to her and won't just hookup with her and leave her. She is really attractive but goes to a college where the girl to guy ratio is 70/30. Most guys she is interested in can have their pick of whatever girls. She is sweet, but had too many red flags for me. I been trying to help her see the light, but she has friends who make a lot of the same poor choices… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 01:39 PM |
| 3 | Why do you not use dating apps as much as us men?That is the problem with dating apps. Most of the time the guys on there are not social and guys have low effort in taking good pictures. Sadly with the apps being 80-20 in most areas, the odds are not good for the guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 04:53 PM |
| 4 | Why do you not use dating apps as much as us men?You just said the best thing. " touching my phone as little as possible." When I see a girl has a tiktok with 1000 videos, it just screams they are always on their phone. I went out with a girl not long ago, she checked her phone zero times. It was crazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 04:51 PM |
| 11 | "Bar for men is in hell, most women just want a guy who treats them like a human being" is a hilarious lie."Dating isnt hard for men at all because all it takes is a bit of human decency!" In the words of Khabib Nurmagomedov " This number one bullshit my friend". Just more lies with regards to what women really want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/25 07:57 PM |
| 0 | Dating advice cliches are also ruining modern dating.Lmao most people that were playing video games were happy doing that. People hitting up the gym and following RP shit were like frat bros etc. I mean there is a large mix of people, I think it was just more grifters talking about a lot of men problems which a lot of men likely related to the message. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/25 03:09 PM |
| 6 | If you have to chase a woman, you've already lost.I think right now a lot of guys don't know when some women reciprocate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 03:22 PM |
| 2 | How Many Of You Believe That Middle Aged Men Are In Their Prime? And Why?I get shit happens, but doing NOTHING about it in my book is grounds for ending a relationship. It is very disrespectful to not care about yourself for your partner. If I let myself go and turn into a chode and smell like mountain dew and cheese puffs, what women in her right mind would want to be around that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Is it common for women to settle for their partners, especially sexually?A good friend of mine last 3 bfs and current husband had this issue. She loves to say it is because she is so tiny and things might just be too tight lmao. I don't know about this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 05:39 PM |
| 1 | How Many Of You Believe That Middle Aged Men Are In Their Prime? And Why?I feel bad for people that are married men or women and their partner just gave up and fell off hard. One will look normal and the other just gave up. That should be a deal breaker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 02:46 PM |
| 5 | Social awkwardness in men is exactly as much of a turn-off to the opposite sex as being a fat woman.Being a women and large just means they have to pick men who are on their level, but not always lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Is it common for women to settle for their partners, especially sexually?That is just one year. lmao. Next thing you are gonna say is dudes lasting 30 seconds is not an issue a well lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Is it common for women to settle for their partners, especially sexually?There are tons of dudes out there rocking 3-4 inches hard. I have heard tons of dudes slayed for that and being a 2-3 pump chump as they say. We are talking about 100-150 girls sample size, wine parties with 30 plus girls all going at it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 01:26 AM |
| 3 | Is it common for women to settle for their partners, especially sexually?I am friends with A LOT of women. Size does matter, time does too. The friends meme is 100% real. Not with ALL women, but a lot of them for sure. "it's not that common, it doesn't happen to every guy, and it is a big deal!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 01:10 AM |
| 0 | Valentines Day is for Women not Men.Just making a card goes a long way. Got a girl friend something like that and it made her gush. Smaller shit that is personal is much better than bullshit you can buy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Valentines Day is for Women not Men.A lot of my friends which are girls laugh and say it is sex. lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 02:41 PM |
| – | Do you think it's xenophobic for a man to not want to date a woman from a different country?Most people of darker skin color have issues with fitting in. I can't tell you how many Indian girls or girls of color have issues with not being white. Most of the guys they are interested in are white and rarely do I see these younger girls with someone who looks like them. You see it come thru a lot of /r amiugly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 01:46 PM |
| 7 | Women can seem unapproachable these days hence why we don’t do it.Rules one and two always guys. ALWAYS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 02:15 AM |
| – | You cant say “Guys arent even given a chance” and then tell women “Choose better”.It is a process. Going out on a date should have nothing to do with choosing better. Choosing would be picking bad people to have a relationship with. The whole point of a date / friendship is to get to know someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Fix for dating and loneliness lies in valuing happy singledom (mostly for men)Average men are not going for super models. They can't even get one match a week on dating apps lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 11:28 PM |
| – | Women DO lie about their preferences, and research shows it.I just named a show where they do it. Go watch it. It is all over. Tik tok, /r tinder etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Fix for dating and loneliness lies in valuing happy singledom (mostly for men)You know it is a 50/50 split pretty much with men and women. Men are at what, 40-50% single rate under the age of 30. It is something stupid like that. Young women are choosing to not date or not interested in their equal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 09:14 PM |
| – | Women DO lie about their preferences, and research shows it.OMG it is all over reddit do you not read. Just go. I know you are just being a pain. It is legit ALL over. There was a show called late late live tinder where women would always pick the chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 06:46 PM |
| – | Women DO lie about their preferences, and research shows it.Online, movies, shows, parents, youtube, IRL It is said always. Going on /r tinder for the profile review, girls will say looks don't matter just having a good profile is what really matters. They say that shit nonstop. I know so many lady friends who say that shit to other guy friends. I call them out each time. It is BS. Some people it holds true, but most people want to be attracted to who they are doing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 06:41 PM |
| – | Women DO lie about their preferences, and research shows it.Women say it ALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL the time. Looks don't matter. Looks don't matter. Most times it is girls being nice to their guy friend who is in the friendzone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 06:32 PM |
| 3 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencesNGL it depends on the person. If it is a guys who is not use to getting attention or trying to become friends with a girl in hopes of maybe dating. They can not be direct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 06:29 PM |
| 5 | Fix for dating and loneliness lies in valuing happy singledom (mostly for men)Most of that is due to their looksmatch is dating someone higher than them. Average women have zero problems moving up on looksmatches. The problem is they can't get most of those guys to date them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 05:53 PM |
| 4 | Fix for dating and loneliness lies in valuing happy singledom (mostly for men)Sadly this will never happen. Men love to simp in hopes to hang out and think they have a shot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 05:50 PM |
| 7 | Fix for dating and loneliness lies in valuing happy singledom (mostly for men)If a women is single today it is by choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 05:47 PM |
| 2 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencesI like how she does not notice the what 13 million radical feminist in 2xC. Most of the people posting in there are delulu. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencesLike stone cold said. DTA.... Don't trust anybody. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 04:29 PM |
| – | It is a red flag if you notice a girl has thousands of unread message notices?Damn. I don't get a lot of random spam via text. Not like the stuff I hear some people are getting. Do you have an apple phone? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 09:29 PM |
| 3 | Social Media Teaches Women They are Better Than MenMen can't stop simping lol. It will never happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 06:14 PM |
| 4 | Social Media Teaches Women They are Better Than MenMen are the problem. If they stopped simping this shit would not work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 06:13 PM |
| 1 | It is a red flag if you notice a girl has thousands of unread message notices?If a person asked you how you like to be contacted do you say call me or text? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 09:43 PM |
| 1 | It is a red flag if you notice a girl has thousands of unread message notices?Is it easy for people to get a hold of you? Like if someone wants to plan to do something for the day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 06:25 PM |
| 2 | It is a red flag if you notice a girl has thousands of unread message notices?Lmao. That sounds like one of my really good friends. He will see like 2-3 different people in a day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 05:47 PM |
| 2 | It is a red flag if you notice a girl has thousands of unread message notices?Tell me about it. Get loved bomb when you see them. Then text messages are spaced out almost perfectly with delayed response times lol. I will say it is cool if you are busy, then love bombed lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 05:37 PM |
| 1 | It is a red flag if you notice a girl has thousands of unread message notices?Family group chat will be like 20-30 on a busy day lol. Yeah discord is for the boyz / games. But all that ish is on mute. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 05:36 PM |
| 2 | It is a red flag if you notice a girl has thousands of unread message notices?WOW wtf lol. I am in discord groups with less than that in one night. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 05:12 PM |
| 0 | Most problems in the current dating climate would be solved if everyone was at a healthy weightI will say you are spot on with everything you said lol. The problem is overweight people are mostly invisible to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 04:50 PM |
| -1 | Most problems in the current dating climate would be solved if everyone was at a healthy weightWhat. People are complaining about people not being attractive. Most times fat = not attractive. If you remove 60% of the overweight people in America and made it like 15% there would be more people to match with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 04:19 PM |
| 3 | It is a red flag if you notice a girl has thousands of unread message notices?Snooping. She showed me her phone and I saw the Christmas tree of notifications. I asked and we talked about it. She said she was bad at responding. I know people in their early 20's are bad at communication. My best friend kills me by sending a message on doing plans then goes MIA for hours after I respond to him insta. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 04:15 PM |
| 1 | It is a red flag if you notice a girl has thousands of unread message notices?Yea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 03:47 PM |
| 1 | It is a red flag if you notice a girl has thousands of unread message notices?yep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 03:46 PM |
| 1 | It is a red flag if you notice a girl has thousands of unread message notices?They said they have a lot of superficial friends, which are not really friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 02:34 PM |
| 2 | It is a red flag if you notice a girl has thousands of unread message notices?Sorry. She is bad a responding to everyone from her words. I am cool with a day or two to respond. She will send 3-4 messages in a row with plans. I respond, with what sounds good, then it could be 3-4 days sometimes before I hear back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 02:33 PM |
| 1 | It is a red flag if you notice a girl has thousands of unread message notices?The person wants to hang out and is always pushing to hang out. I text, message get lost in the sea of message. They text first with wanting to hang out and days they are free. The person in question said they are terrible at texts and missing messages. They use DND a lot and easy to miss stuff. I am just not the person to kept texting them 3-4 times if they don't respond. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 02:23 PM |
| -1 | It is a red flag if you notice a girl has thousands of unread message notices?I just find having thousands of unread text message notices crazy. If you get a spam most time it goes into spam. I can see if you have 10-20 you need to adjust or you are out of pocket for a few days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 02:19 PM |
| 2 | It is a red flag if you notice a girl has thousands of unread message notices?Right. That is what I was thinking. It makes me think you don't have shit in order. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 02:17 PM |
| 4 | It is a red flag if you notice a girl has thousands of unread message notices?How people communicate is part of your business lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 01:43 PM |
| 3 | It is a red flag if you notice a girl has thousands of unread message notices?You don't respond to people who text you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 01:42 PM |
| -2 | It is a red flag if you notice a girl has thousands of unread message notices?Because of the red sea of messages making it impossible for them to notice when someone sent them a text message. Then responding I missed this text. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 01:42 PM |
| 0 | Why do women seem to struggle to honestly admit to preferences which might be considered shallow?No, women judge 100% most people if they are attracted to them or not. If they are, they would be interested in them. If not, giving " friend " vibes lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 04:18 PM |
| 1 | What does the blue pill get right and what wrong?So you are going on dates with people you find ugly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 03:36 PM |
| 1 | What does the blue pill get right and what wrong?Yes tons. Looks is the first thing you notice with most people and if you are not attracted to a person most times they are ruled out as a dating partner. Yes, a small amount of people I know / have dated looks were not that important for them. Most people it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 04:19 PM |
| 4 | Many men losing interest in womenEasy to say this when you have options. A women could easily have a relationship if they wanted. What you mean to say is women can't have relationship with men they think they deserve. I am not talking about a normal women dating someone ugly. I just mean two average people dating. I helped a few older people get setup on OLD since they were new. Both were friend's moms, they are both in their 60's and even they were just swiping left on everyone. I remember both of them saying how old all the m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 03:21 PM |
| 0 | What does the blue pill get right and what wrong?OMG Do you not read? Sorry if I have to break it down for you that means you can't read. Have a good day lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 01:14 PM |
| 2 | What does the blue pill get right and what wrong?Looks is the first huddle and often the biggest reason not to. Add in the fact women are very selective with regards to looks. I have seen some girls think one guy it hot and others think he is not. I think guys overall tend to agree if a women is attractive or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 07:31 PM |
| 2 | The meaning of the phrases “Just choose better” is much simpler and less terribleDating is slowing down in the zoomer rings. As more girls go to college and less guys are in college it will only be harder for younger people to meet. Dating apps are just terrible for men. The apps are just there to get money from men who pay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 04:33 PM |
| 0 | The meaning of the phrases “Just choose better” is much simpler and less terribleYes, because on dating apps people looks is mostly what matters until the first date. Then vibes can take over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 04:20 PM |
| 4 | The meaning of the phrases “Just choose better” is much simpler and less terribleI think people get mad at the settled stuff because you would rather try to date up instead of looking for good matches. It is an insult to settle once you seen you can't get what you thought you could. Sleeping with a lot of guys sometimes comes with a lot of bad trauma. Everyone's numbers are different, but if a girl told me she slept with 40 dudes it would make me think. I also don't think most girls are out there sleeping around with dudes like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 04:10 PM |
| 2 | The meaning of the phrases “Just choose better” is much simpler and less terribleMaybe you are confused to what I am saying. I am not saying some dude who is a 3 and very ugly has a chance. I am saying someone who might not catch your eye because they are normal looking sometimes has a chance if you spend time with them. There is tons of research and studies showing physical attraction can grow / develop over time. A perfect example of people liking / not liking each other is the show married at first sight. Sometimes people like their partner at first and other times they d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 03:49 PM |
| 4 | The meaning of the phrases “Just choose better” is much simpler and less terribleShe was NOT. If she saw him on dating app she would 100% not have right swiped. She was just hanging out with him more in a group. My one friend he suggested they go on a date solo instead of always in a group. At first she was like " I don't know", he is not her "type". They went one a date and had fun and it opened the flood gates. IMO sexually attracted means you would have selected this guy just off of looks, which was not the case. I gave you the reason why, because he does not FIT the type… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 03:32 PM |
| – | This subreddit gives less attractive men the halo effect and underestimate the importance of personality.Any publicly traded company that is a dating app releases all their data. Men have like a 5% dating match or something stupid like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 03:29 PM |
| -1 | The meaning of the phrases “Just choose better” is much simpler and less terribleYou just said I could not speak for HER. I told you about HER. It is ok, just ignore tons of research and data about gaining attraction when you spend more time with someone. Attraction is not always an on and off. Girls can like a guy, get the ick then not like him. Same with guys. You are acting like it is some yes or no when sometimes it is deeper than that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 03:05 PM |
| -3 | The meaning of the phrases “Just choose better” is much simpler and less terribleLMAO I am her best friend. Yes it can. It goes both ways. I can't tell you how many times I was seeing a 7-8 and just talking to them I was not interested in them after a week or two. You can see someone who is average or not your type but who they are can make you like them more. It happens ALL the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 02:47 PM |
| -3 | The meaning of the phrases “Just choose better” is much simpler and less terribleNo she was not. Not at all. Nice try lmao. She was 100% stuck on her high ass dumb standards which she dumped after 5 years of it not working. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 02:35 PM |
| 3 | The meaning of the phrases “Just choose better” is much simpler and less terribleAttraction is built over time. Women have a problem with finding men they are attracted to. A lot of them point out men they are attracted to tend to not have great values. Would you not start fixing the issue? It took my good friend years of me beating her up over her male dating selection. Guess what, she stopped trying to match with guys who were clearly more attractive to her and is now dating someone who matches all the intangibles. The old her would have never dated this guy 4-5 years ago.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 02:31 PM |
| 0 | The meaning of the phrases “Just choose better” is much simpler and less terribleAttraction is built over time with most. Women would start with other things you said and less on is this guy super hot. You will rarely find that combination sub 30's because if a guy has that most are not interested in turning in all that hard work for one girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 02:20 PM |
| – | This subreddit gives less attractive men the halo effect and underestimate the importance of personality.I can't tell you how many times I see this work. Guy I know is this, zero problems getting dates. Most times he talks to women no longer than a few weeks before, things did not work out. Most times he slept with them. All you need to be is attractive and interact with women well. He is very charismatic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 01:42 PM |
| – | This subreddit gives less attractive men the halo effect and underestimate the importance of personality.Bro most men can't even get on the dating stage to show their personality. Dating apps are terrible and most men are horrible at talking to / breaking the ice with someone they find interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 01:34 PM |
| – | I hate the fact that I must choose one of these two: Trump or man-hatersNo. The current democratic left is getting PUSH far left. If you are from the left 10-20 years ago you are now in some peoples view a republican. I see these retards saying how Obama is a republican all the time on reddit. The lines have been moved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/25 01:13 PM |
| 2 | Using sex to get a (good) man or keep a man hardly ever works.Cardi B was cheating and doing wild shit too. That is not a good example. She pick a rapper who is on the same level as Future. You think he was going to just stop talking to other girls? If someone is thinking that, imo they are just not bright. Gotta be smarter than that. People like him or Future will never change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/25 02:12 PM |
| 5 | Using sex to get a (good) man or keep a man hardly ever works.I agree with everything you said. People on reddit need to touch grass more sadly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/25 01:55 PM |
| 0 | When You’re On a Date with a Woman, She Usually Has 3 Other Guys AlreadyYou do understand this is NOT happening. Show me a 7 to you. Men who are not average are not rejecting other average women. You just are likely thinking average women are 8-9s. Most men can't even get likes on dating apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 02:40 PM |
| 0 | When You’re On a Date with a Woman, She Usually Has 3 Other Guys AlreadyI don't know about 4's being 7's. Just because Americans are now obese does not slide the looks slider over. I been seeing a lot of very average women getting simped by all these guys. Men are the problem for this current imbalance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 12:56 PM |
| 1 | When You’re On a Date with a Woman, She Usually Has 3 Other Guys AlreadyI am sorry, average ass men are not focusing on the top % of any women. These bums can't even get a date with a women who is a 4/10. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Women do actually hate the idea of sex robots despite saying otherwise.The thing I find funny is you have people like Robert Kraft who has billions and super model gf and still hitting up the massage place for the sucky sucky for 100$. Why spend 200k on something dumb like that lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 04:51 PM |
| 2 | If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier menI think it would impact of a lot mid women. They would not build their ego for sure. They would be posting more on amiugly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 07:35 PM |
| 1 | It is up to Women to be proactive in the dating market nowadaysYou know this does not work with most women. They are scared to get rejected. Just look on areas such as amiugly. You get women posting there all the time saying no guys talk to them or want to date them. Then people ask why don't they ask guys out they like, they respond with "I don't want to get rejected". Like men don't get rejected for taking that risk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 02:04 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Women have no issue with the ''right;; objectificationIt is a lose lose game for guys. Just think if an attractive male told a woman he is only attracted to her mind, that shit would so get to her over time lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/25 02:40 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Women have no issue with the ''right;; objectificationI been around lots of women. It is simple if a women is interested in a guy or finds him cute they don't view it as objectification. This does NOT apply to all women. IMO only basic chicks who are a PSL girl type. It is not creepy when it is someone who is a hunk, but if you are a skinny nerd.... kick rocks creepo lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/25 02:22 PM |
| 3 | Why are so many women in their 30s and 40s single, childless, and dissatisfied with their dating prospects?Women are on more drugs than ever. I am confused. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 04:55 PM |
| 9 | Why does the perception that "most men are physically unattractive or below average" exist among women?No this is a lie. I am friends with tons of girls and watch them fly thru men on dating apps. Ugly, ugly, ugly, ugly..... lmao When it comes down to it women more critical then men on somethings. With that being said most men give no effort. Like brush your hair and get someone to take good pictures of you. Some men are just lost. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 04:38 PM |
| 6 | Liberal/Progressive women do not actually want feminine men.Yes, people need to understand reddit is full of shit most times now. Don't listen to them when it comes to some topics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 04:14 PM |
| – | What is meant by "women live on easy mode"?Your life would be worse if you were a man. Just look at the current makeup of college most are like 65-70% women. Women are always taken care of and someone is willing to help them. Men, not so much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 10:21 PM |
| – | What is meant by "women live on easy mode"?This is the best way of saying it. A women no matter how many mistakes people have the " I can help her". Men don't get that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 10:17 PM |
| – | What is meant by "women live on easy mode"?You for sure get options and things most guys would never get. For example people doing things for you to help you out. Getting in places free, not having to pay for some services, etc etc etc. There are tons of things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 10:17 PM |
| – | What is meant by "women live on easy mode"?No. It has nothing to do with sex. It is easier for women to get into most things than men. People are more likely to help them out than a man. Think about homeless men vs women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 10:14 PM |
| 1 | “The bar is on the floor” for the men women consider their dating pool, which is always men above themLmao stats and data is not me telling women anything. I know you people hate real data driven facts lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/24 04:20 PM |
| 1 | “The bar is on the floor” for the men women consider their dating pool, which is always men above themLooks is only a small part of things. It is what makes you sometimes notice someone. There is more to it than just looks like you said. The problem is most women will scream to men looks are not important and they don't care. When in reality looks is much more important to most women. The proof is in the data on dating apps. Women only find 5-10% of men on there attractive meanwhile men find 40-50% of women attractive on dating apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/24 12:55 PM |
| 1 | “The bar is on the floor” for the men women consider their dating pool, which is always men above themYes I have an SO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/24 12:52 PM |
| 3 | “The bar is on the floor” for the men women consider their dating pool, which is always men above themIt has to do with the fact a lot of women don't think they judge men only by their looks. When in fact that is the most important thing to most. They just lie, stats don't lie. Very rarely would most girls think the same person is attractive when you are talking about a normal guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 08:58 PM |
| 4 | “The bar is on the floor” for the men women consider their dating pool, which is always men above themWomen don't reject me at all. I call out my friend's bullshit. Just like they get the ick when someone slides into their DM's, but they do it and it is normal. LMAO. Guys need to stop simping and call a spade a spade. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 08:54 PM |
| 7 | “The bar is on the floor” for the men women consider their dating pool, which is always men above themNo no no. It is I have way more women friends than men. They would all say LOOKS DON'T Matter. Then when asked why they did not like X, oh I did not like the way he looked. Seen it OVER and OVER and OVER hanging out with the "girls" watching them do the dating app swipe for fun and they swipe left faster than flash. No profile reading, no looking at more than one picture. Just hot or no. I call them out on their bullshit and then they think. You are just a regarded,it is ok. Most women value loo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 06:24 PM |
| 4 | “The bar is on the floor” for the men women consider their dating pool, which is always men above themMost women don't understand women value looks more than they think. If you asked 100 women to say how many men they find attractive out of a 100 men it would be much much lower than if men did it. I would say women would only find 10-20 guys attractive out of 100. If men were doing it would be above 50. I do know most guys can try less, but I think most women their they are prettier than they really are. Most is due to other women lying and "friend zoned simps". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps are only useful for the top 5% of men looking to hookup with average looking women or vice versa. The apps are designed to fail for those looking for relationships.Everyone I know in IT makes above 150k. Working for deloitte, meta, apple, google, any finance IT job that is not entry level. It was a meme by some of my friends because they change jobs every two years for a pay bump. Current few friends are working at deloitte making mid 200's and looking at places to get more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/24 01:00 PM |
| 0 | How Can We Improve Dating Sites?I don't understand Why these dating apps don't let you filter / search for anything. Like if a person wants a POC who is an anime Weeb, you should be able to find them. If you are only interested in dating a white girl with red hair who is interested in shopping, fine. Dating apps do anything to stop you from finding people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps are only useful for the top 5% of men looking to hookup with average looking women or vice versa. The apps are designed to fail for those looking for relationships.Yes, they want to fuck. Most are not looking for a long term relationship. Remove the guys looking for a house wife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 01:22 AM |
| 10 | Dating apps are only useful for the top 5% of men looking to hookup with average looking women or vice versa. The apps are designed to fail for those looking for relationships.Younger girls have been getting bolder. Girls in their early 20's still in college trying to get people I know to date them. It is not going to happen. Guy who is early 30's (32) making 200k does not want to "date" girl in college who is 21. I have a large friend group of guys who are early 20's and they think I have it made. A few should make it as they are working on a master or something higher. I tell them not to judge what others have now because growth 10 years ago was much faster than now… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/24 04:21 PM |
| 32 | Dating apps are only useful for the top 5% of men looking to hookup with average looking women or vice versa. The apps are designed to fail for those looking for relationships.Young guys are fucked. Many young men struggle with social interactions, particularly with women. While college campuses offer ample opportunities to meet people, some men may find it challenging to initiate conversations or gauge interest. Online dating, while accessible, can be frustrating due to the imbalance between male and female users. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/24 02:24 PM |
| 4 | Why do women reject a guy but act jealous and try to cockblock him when he tries to date other women?Most of the time it is women who want attention at their call. If nobody they like is free to hang out with they will call on the simps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/24 05:45 PM |
| -3 | Reddit is misandrist to an absurd degree.2x is the worst lol. All those women who post there daily should be a list and have a stamp on their head so we know who they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/24 10:13 PM |
| – | Reddit is misandrist to an absurd degree.We know this. Subs like two x chrom are filled with 12 million man hating women lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/24 10:12 PM |
| -7 | If you're an average or below average man, don't waste your time with dating apps.Guys just need to stop being losers. Women are out there, learn how to talk to people in person and meet new friends. Dating apps are terrible now, OLD was only good during 2015-2017. That is when the averages were close to 60-40. Now it is just shit unless you are in an area that does not have tons of guys. Most college girls don't use dating apps. Colleges have some of the highest girl to guy ratios. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/24 03:16 PM |
| – | There’s too much casual misandry on the internetI think the left is going to have a point where they split. I am like you and in the middle. I don't agree on any of the things the far left does or wants. The extreme side it is there way or nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 02:55 PM |
| – | There’s too much casual misandry on the internetIt really needs to happen. My SO.... It drives her kinda crazy. She can't stand a hypocrite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 02:21 PM |
| – | There’s too much casual misandry on the internetIt will only get worse now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 02:04 PM |
| – | Feminist hate and lies helped Trump to winYep, that is why I think he lost. Covid was very fresh and people were done with him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 04:02 PM |
| – | Feminist hate and lies helped Trump to winI think it more of the combination of the last 3 years have been hell for others so they just gave up. Look at history when one side does bad it swings the other way. Perfect example Bush SR. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 03:56 PM |
| 3 | Feminists, what do you think about the reaction to Margot Robbie having a son?They would 100% ban you if you posted anything they don't like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 01:44 PM |
| 9 | Feminists, what do you think about the reaction to Margot Robbie having a son?Two x chrom has 12 million unhinged hateful women posting misandry everyday. If that was a guy sub it would be banned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 01:43 PM |
| 5 | Most men basically worship women.We call them simps. I think some guys just never get attention so they just simp really hard for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 06:08 PM |
| 2 | Guys here care way too much about blue haired feminists and will use those women as confirmation bias.Please tell that to the 12 million users of Two X chrom. That is the breeding ground of crazy women almost. Not saying all of them are crazy, but a lot of them are for sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/24 08:17 PM |
| 3 | Women mostly judge what you CANNOT change. Men mostly judge what you CAN change.I don't think men have an issue with tall women or even overweight women ( NOT OBESE ). If we are talking about an average man. It is just the chad's and attractive men who have options those women are invisible too. I look at the amiugly sub and the number of overweight women who get told they look perfect or 10/10 is really high. I think it just depends on who you are asking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 01:22 PM |
| 4 | Women mostly judge what you CANNOT change. Men mostly judge what you CAN change.There does not have to be a next move. Sometimes just bringing something to attention would let people understand better. I worked in an area where women thought they were out numbered and I laughed and asked if they were joking. They never go into work everyday so their view it felt that way. I go into work everyday and started to help them count the women in our work space. Almost 55% women. They just mostly work remote or did not come in often. It shifted how they viewed things. Nothing neede… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 03:35 PM |
| 8 | Women mostly judge what you CANNOT change. Men mostly judge what you CAN change.FUCK YEA. Sign me up for Cameron Brink all day please. She would never date a guy smaller than her. Very few women would date a man smaller than them. So not really much of a got you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 02:07 PM |
| 2 | Women mostly judge what you CANNOT change. Men mostly judge what you CAN change.I don't think it is a " NOT FAIR". It is more you are blind and don't see it. Thinking everything is "HARD" to be a women in the world today. Yes, it might be hard if you live in certain areas. Living in the west, it is an advantage than if you were living in the middle east somewhere. Women are leading in more things in the zoomer age group. COVID fucked over younger kids and seeing boys lagging behind in a lot of things vs girls. For example, friend groups, college, jobs, moving out from paren… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Men's low standards make women more picky on the apps.Not sure if they do that, I think they only swipe on hot guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 03:52 PM |
| 2 | Men's low standards make women more picky on the apps.Tons of zoomers girls do it in college. It is for " fun ". They get just want to feel good and it is an easy way to do it. Nothing to do on a Sat night, not feeling your best. Throw up thirst trap pictures tinder and have guys fawn over you. Always makes them feel better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Men's low standards make women more picky on the apps.Why can't you put in the work? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 03:31 PM |
| 5 | Men's low standards make women more picky on the apps.Not going to lie, men ruin shit for other men. The no standards. The endless simping. The worshiping of ladies. Guys stop please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 03:28 PM |
| 11 | Do women on here understand why men don't like being seen as the "safe" option?Most zoomers men are single. They don't have the options to fuck around. Women have a HUGE advantage in the dating market currently. Women are in charge of who or what they want to talk to. The problem is all these average women think they should be dating Chris Evans. Not delusional just see how younger guys are fucked. Gen Alpha boys are 100% fucked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 02:39 AM |
| 19 | Do women on here understand why men don't like being seen as the "safe" option?Men don't do that shit. Fucking players or chads. Normal looking average men don't have those options. Only women do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 02:28 AM |
| 12 | Do women on here understand why men don't like being seen as the "safe" option?The safe option is most times done when a women is getting old. Oh, I just turned 30 time to look for some safe guy who has his shit together since I could not find a bad boy project and have it work out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 02:18 AM |
| 0 | Porn is not cheatingI think a lot of what you said is spot on, but masturbating feels better for some because of a few things. I know someone who she can never get out of her head when having sex. She can't shut her mind off and starts thinking about dumb shit like work, life etc etc. She even does this when masturbating and sometimes takes hours. Being inside a toy vs a women is nowhere near the same. Toys for women are much better as of now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/24 01:29 PM |
| 10 | Most Women Use Dating Apps Like Men Wish They CouldOdds are stacked against men because the apps are mostly men. The apps view men as free money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 05:39 PM |
| 26 | Most Women Use Dating Apps Like Men Wish They CouldAlmost all the apps are dudes. That is what happens when 80% of the apps are all men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 04:56 PM |
| 24 | Most Women Use Dating Apps Like Men Wish They CouldThis. Sadly most younger women are like this. Zero peronality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 04:55 PM |
| 2 | Most Women Use Dating Apps Like Men Wish They Couldmost people are miserable, nothing will fix that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 04:52 PM |
| 0 | The Reason Most People Don’t Enjoy Dating Is Women’s Unmanaged Expectations, and Top Men Who Exploit ItOne could argue they treat the 9 worse lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/24 02:16 AM |
| – | The way women behave with men they’re genuinely attracted to is very different compared to the way they behave with men that have merely grown on themIt is more the rules don't apply to everyone. It is not like that for everyone, but I see it happen often with my women friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 04:23 PM |
| 18 | Women are poor communicatorsIt is crazy how often they don't say what they mean. You can do that..... Turns into you should have known I did not want you to do that lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 08:59 PM |
| 3 | Women complaining from not getting approached anymoreI am friends with a lot of women. I understand their pain in have 100-200 options and zero of them they connected with or liked. It took my one friend years to find a guy she liked. She was extra petty because she wanted to date a tall, attractive, white, doctor/lawyer. She never got anyone from that group to do more than just use her for sex. After 2 years of that, she met a friend of a friend who was nice, 5'7'', ok job, person of color. They been dating for 7 months now. She was looking for b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Women complaining from not getting approached anymoreNot really. Go look at /r amiugly. I see these post like 2-3 times a day easy. Before it was not that big. These are girls who are 18-24 who never had a guy come up and talk to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Women complaining from not getting approached anymoreFinding a partner is something that takes a long time. You meet someone and get to know them for months. Everyone is different tho. Women it is easier for them to get dates, therefore they would have a better chance at finding a partner. For men it is much harder to get a date making their chances of finding someone much lower. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 02:33 PM |
| 8 | Women complaining from not getting approached anymoreIf you look at the /r amiugly area almost all the women who post say the same thing. They want to know if they are ugly because zero me approached or talk to them. Oh well. So sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 02:31 PM |
| 2 | Women will talk about male "Locker room talk" then go on to write a novel about their sex life to their friendsI am with lots of women. I would say 80-90% of them talk about their S.O. It can be how bad they are to them not putting out, sometimes about how good a hook up was. It happens just as much if not more. I find men complain less about having sex, meanwhile women will have something bad to say most times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Men are shamed for basically having sexual desiresYes men do. They get listed as a fuck boi or player. They even made a movie about it. Guys don't care most times if they get called that, women get sad if they are called a slut. Also other women call each other a slut more often than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/24 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Men are shamed for basically having sexual desiresCurrently men will get shamed more from average zoomer women for shooting their shot. Young men has been shamed into hiding lol. That is why you see all the zoomer girls posting on amiguly because guys won't talk to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/24 08:18 PM |
| 3 | Men are shamed for basically having sexual desiresWomen are in control of the content. There are more girls doing OF than normal pornstars. Any girl can fire up PH create content and have links. Women run to where the money is. It is why you see all the corn girls running to twitch and doing other things to bring in money. You can't just be like women go where the money is, they are the ones choosing to do that. Nobody is forcing them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/24 02:26 PM |
| 3 | Men are shamed for basically having sexual desiresThis is the biggest problem men don't understand. Always rules 1 and 2. If you are attractive rules don't apply most times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/24 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Men are shamed for basically having sexual desiresUmm you are confused. Men get shammed for being perverts unless you are some super hot guy. As a women most times you can just exist and have people interested in you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/24 12:58 PM |
| 4 | Men are shamed for basically having sexual desiresOk. I am going to call BS on this. Porn most times now is women in control with their own content. It is not like it was 20 years ago when you had some scumbag in charge of bang bros making millions and toss out little money to women. The porn you see and how it is listed is due to the women content creators. They are the ones still creating that stuff like that and on reddit. So you can't blame shit on porn anymore when most of the people who are in porn are in control of their content. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/24 12:56 PM |
| 2 | If women are allowed to divorce their husbands for wanting paternity test, then this guy is justified in leaving his wife for wanting to look at his phoneCome Nov you will see how many people don't. Vance is a dumb ass which most people don't agree with. That 43% don't even know anything about him besides his name. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 01:36 PM |
| 1 | If women are allowed to divorce their husbands for wanting paternity test, then this guy is justified in leaving his wife for wanting to look at his phoneoccasional. lmao Two X is full of what 7 million hateful women. Who don't get blocked or banned for talking about hateful talk. Meanwhile if people say the shit they are saying but supporting men, they will get reddit censored. That is the biggest echo chamber of crazy people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 11:57 AM |
| 2 | If women are allowed to divorce their husbands for wanting paternity test, then this guy is justified in leaving his wife for wanting to look at his phoneLmao. This just shows how crazy you are. Women are the leaders in college and higher education. They are now in the driver seat for all things now. You are talking about a small group of people. More people in the U.S support womens rights and should have access to abortion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 11:52 AM |
| 0 | If women are allowed to divorce their husbands for wanting paternity test, then this guy is justified in leaving his wife for wanting to look at his phoneOP was talking about that. That was the whole point of this thread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 04:59 PM |
| 0 | If women are allowed to divorce their husbands for wanting paternity test, then this guy is justified in leaving his wife for wanting to look at his phoneYou asked a question and seemed lost. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 04:02 PM |
| 1 | If women are allowed to divorce their husbands for wanting paternity test, then this guy is justified in leaving his wife for wanting to look at his phoneThe two threads OP linked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 03:54 PM |
| 6 | If women are allowed to divorce their husbands for wanting paternity test, then this guy is justified in leaving his wife for wanting to look at his phoneFirst off all misogynist is the biggest lie right now. Everyone is just using as a bussword for when someone does not agree with them. Second nobody says those things don't exist. They are not accepted. Women misandrist hate is accept and cheered. Subs like two x chrom if it was a man space would be closed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 03:51 PM |
| 1 | If women are allowed to divorce their husbands for wanting paternity test, then this guy is justified in leaving his wife for wanting to look at his phoneOn the thread it was all women blaming the man saying it was his fault. I don't see your point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 03:27 PM |
| -1 | If women are allowed to divorce their husbands for wanting paternity test, then this guy is justified in leaving his wife for wanting to look at his phoneHe made a smart choice. Once she saw there was nothing she knew was was being crazy. It is more than likely she was crazy in other things and this was the last straw. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 03:26 PM |
| 3 | If women are allowed to divorce their husbands for wanting paternity test, then this guy is justified in leaving his wife for wanting to look at his phoneHe is just justified. If she was thinking like that it will only get worse. It will just always be something else. It is a red flag and she needed to be dumped. After she has the baby and is fat and feels terrible, I am sure she will start saying and doing the same again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 02:38 PM |
| 4 | If women are allowed to divorce their husbands for wanting paternity test, then this guy is justified in leaving his wife for wanting to look at his phonelmao wtf is this shit. No man in their right mind should be taking care of someone's else kid if they don't know about it. It should be a choice, not tricked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 02:37 PM |
| 24 | If women are allowed to divorce their husbands for wanting paternity test, then this guy is justified in leaving his wife for wanting to look at his phoneReddit is full of misandrist hate. It is too funny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 02:35 PM |
| – | Millenial/GenX advice on dating can be completely disregarded by the new generationNot really. I see more young zoomers on both sides having issues finding people to date. Zoomers have poor social skills. Shit is like - 5 from base. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 09:28 PM |
| – | CMV: (long) You'd see less guys flocking to the ''manosphere'' if people were honest about the unfairness of dating.Most of them pretend or don't know. Such a horrible thing to have people interested in you. It is funny fat women scream they get ignored meanwhile normal women get fawned over. Both complain but have different views lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 08:14 PM |
| – | The problem with modern dating is that women are now in the driver seat but they don’t want to be thereIt has nothing to do with having sex. Those women are not interested in looking at average men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 05:11 PM |
| – | The problem with modern dating is that women are now in the driver seat but they don’t want to be thereYou act like those women are interested in fat ugly men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 04:43 PM |
| – | The problem with modern dating is that women are now in the driver seat but they don’t want to be thereI think you are missing the point. You are talking about the end point, not every guy just wants to bang and move to the next girl. Do you know how many average men are on dating apps that can't do what you are suggesting. What you mean to say is the guys who you are interested in are attractive and likely they would only use you for sex because you are not on their level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 04:36 PM |
| -1 | CMV: (long) You'd see less guys flocking to the ''manosphere'' if people were honest about the unfairness of dating.That will never happen. It will only get worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 01:52 PM |
| 4 | CMV: (long) You'd see less guys flocking to the ''manosphere'' if people were honest about the unfairness of dating.I am friends with a lot of women and sometimes they will go on a rant on how hard it is to find a date as a women. I then drop a ton of info and their mind is blown. Most of them just think men have as many options as them with 50 people just waiting to meet you. Once they learn most girls might get one connection in a week, that is when they start to understand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 01:38 PM |
| 2 | "No" man fails to get into a relationship because of his personalityWe see women single because of their personality IE they are a bitch. Some men can get into a relationship due to their personality. I feel it is less likely now than it was 10-20 years ago. Because of how many options women have now on the dating market on social media. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Women saying that men would be more attractive if they were more confident is a double-bind.Yea. I think that happens a lot more when someone is younger like 15-21. I agree with you, but it is not the norm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/24 09:23 PM |
| 3 | Women saying that men would be more attractive if they were more confident is a double-bind.I think it should be the best way. Just not something I see very often and I would say I been close friends with over 300 women. I would say less than 10 % were like what you described. Most women would not get to know someone like asmongold then start to think he was attractive after knowing him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/24 04:54 PM |
| 5 | Women saying that men would be more attractive if they were more confident is a double-bind.I would say it is less that way. I am friends with lots of women, it is always a yes or no. Sometimes it can improve after they meet you, but not often. I think you are in the minority for that which is not a problem. It is the women who are friends with guys saying looks are not that important when it really is for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/24 04:44 PM |
| 5 | Women saying that men would be more attractive if they were more confident is a double-bind.I think it works like that for some women. There is a larger amount of women who are vocal who scream looks don't matter to them. Then when you dig into it.... it does. They gaslight men to think looks are not important when it really is to most women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/24 04:14 PM |
| 2 | Onlyfans and gooners are ruining the internet.My fav is when a girl will go post on a gaming area and post a picture of her in a sexy shirt wearing whatever the topic is of that sub reddit knowing people will dig into her profile and boom there are the OF ads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 02:04 PM |
| 6 | Why do straight women like other women so much more than they like men?A lot of women on two x chrom say stuff like this. They think women are pretty, men are nasty and ugly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 03:01 PM |
| 2 | Most of unrealistic beauty standards are imposed on women by other womenUmm. I have not deleted anything. Try again lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 07:44 PM |
| 2 | Most of unrealistic beauty standards are imposed on women by other womenI disagree. I go to the gym everyday. Zoomer girls have perfected weightlifting and no matter what the person is you can train your body type to be what you listed. Is it easy... no. Can it be done, yes. But Americans want the easy way instead of hard work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Most of unrealistic beauty standards are imposed on women by other womenLMAO. That is not an insult. That is a fact. That is not a personal insult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 04:29 PM |
| – | Most of unrealistic beauty standards are imposed on women by other womenYou people really don't have an idea of reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 03:08 PM |
| 3 | Most of unrealistic beauty standards are imposed on women by other womenDo you think Kim K got more attention when she was fat with a BBL or now in her skinny phase? These are trends the elites do, most normal people don't want a women getting any of that shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 02:33 PM |
| 2 | Most of unrealistic beauty standards are imposed on women by other womenYou are fucking crazy. Men have zero problem with fat women being pretty. When Kelly Clarkson was fat, do you think people did not find her pretty? Kirstie Alley same. Christina Aguilera when she was fat was still pretty. Christina Hendricks gained weight and was fat for a bit and was super pretty. I think you are confusing OBESE vs FAT / Overweight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 02:29 PM |
| 5 | Most of unrealistic beauty standards are imposed on women by other womenI think men point out how crazy women are with regards to fat women vs fat men. It just shows lots of hypocrisy. They say and want all these positive things for women, but the men are ignored. Women won't even date normal skinny guys. Fat women still have options lmao. Being a fat women is still better than being a normal guy or fat guy. Living life on easy mode and don't know it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 02:16 PM |
| 2 | Most of unrealistic beauty standards are imposed on women by other womenThe point is MEN are not looking for it. BBL or no BBL, if the person is cute they will be liked. BBL's were created by Kim who ALL the women wanted to be like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 02:12 PM |
| 0 | Most of unrealistic beauty standards are imposed on women by other womenThis is not the norm. You are talking about something sooo small it almost never happens and making it seem like it happens everyday. Fat people get trolled online for saying stupid shit. Like Lizzo, don't lie to people and say being fat is healthy and you should enjoy it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 02:10 PM |
| 4 | Most of unrealistic beauty standards are imposed on women by other womenPeople are not going around actively shit talking your size. If you are a big women, you are likely not trying to talk to bigger sized man. You have the option to still date normal sized people, meanwhile fat men get the option of being alone for their life. Not even the overweight women are interested lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 02:05 PM |
| 3 | Most of unrealistic beauty standards are imposed on women by other womenWomen are way more judgmental and cruel than men. Women heavily enforce the beauty standards. Why do you think the area instagram reality is a thing. All of them are using filters and getting stuff done because other women are doing it. Men are not making them do that. Men just ignore fat women and women ignore fat men. You are confused because people say hateful things to a fat women such as Lizzo because she is stupid and saying dumb things like it is healthy to be obese live your best life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 02:02 PM |
| 3 | Most of unrealistic beauty standards are imposed on women by other womenNo, you can't say fat women get hated on and ignored and both are true. Fucking nobody is going around saying shit to fat women. Most of the time they are ignored which is why the women are mad at people. They don't feel they are treated as a human because they are ignored. Old women get the same thing, they both lose pretty privilege. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 02:00 PM |
| – | Most of unrealistic beauty standards are imposed on women by other womenYou are crazy just stop. No fucking guy cares what most women wear. If she is wearing a 100$ pair of Jeans or some 10$ sweat pants. You are getting men and women confused. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 01:53 PM |
| 4 | Most of unrealistic beauty standards are imposed on women by other womenLmao COPE please. None of what you are saying is true. Women would 100% be disgusted if a fat man come up and started talking to her. On Two x chrom where all the crazy ladies post, they always say how the fat women are ignored. So, they can't be hated on or angry at if they are not seen. I think you are confused. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 01:51 PM |
| 7 | Most of unrealistic beauty standards are imposed on women by other womenWhat is your point. You think women are going out of their way to date fat men? Women ignore normal dudes with nothing wrong with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Most of unrealistic beauty standards are imposed on women by other womenYou are confused. Most men don't care if you did not have lip filler, boxtox, fake top, fake bottom, nails done, hair extensions. Women are the ones picking and doing that. Also they are the ones on social media all using filters to look skinny. Even people like Olivia Dunn photo shop to be even skinnier. IT IS A SICKKKKNESSSSSSSSSSS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 01:42 PM |
| 7 | Most of unrealistic beauty standards are imposed on women by other womenMost men don't like fake boobs and butt implants. Perfect example is a recent husband did not want his wife to get 6-7 surgeries she wanted fake boobs, fake butt and lipo. His name is Alexei and he is on a TV, his wife went crazy and has started the I want everything done now. There are a lot of the women who WANT TO DO IT for them. But, I guess you skipped that part lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 01:40 PM |
| 8 | Most of unrealistic beauty standards are imposed on women by other womenSure you were picked on by women. Women are the nasty ones, smile in your face and shit talk behind you. You have not only been picked on by men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 01:35 PM |
| – | The Bait-and-Switch women and blupillers pull here is insaneNo. You have lots of women out there saying they don't pick based off of looks via OLD or IRL. We know this is not true based on data from OLD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 02:42 PM |
| – | The Bait-and-Switch women and blupillers pull here is insaneMost men are not lying and understand looks plays a large role into the selection process of finding someone. Meanwhile so many people out here saying " LOOKS DoNt MATTTERR ". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 02:41 PM |
| – | The Bait-and-Switch women and blupillers pull here is insaneI am not complaining. I am saying most women don't live in reality when it comes to knowing what they really want. They say one thing, but their actions say otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 01:45 PM |
| – | The Bait-and-Switch women and blupillers pull here is insaneYou understand more people use online dating than not right with regards to being single. I am going to listen to a one off person posting on reddit or a company which has posted metrics and data of millions and millions of women. 30% of the 350 million Americans have used online dating in 2023. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 01:29 PM |
| – | The Bait-and-Switch women and blupillers pull here is insaneI did not say ALL. I said MANY. More than they realize. It has been proven on dating sites and data from them. Most women were spending less than a few seconds to reject options and left swipe. With that data it is impossible to read all the info to see if you could match. Meaning women were mostly only basing men off of looks. Which is fine, just a lie most women say. Looks DON'T MATTER! Why the fuck you lying', you always lying. " Meme" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 01:08 PM |
| – | The Bait-and-Switch women and blupillers pull here is insaneNah, I think they are just calling out all the bullshit women say to make it seem most are not superficial. So many women lie about looks not being the top thing that matters when it really is. That is ok, own that shit, but they gas light instead lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Women simultaneously dislike men approaching because they feel treated as "romantic prospects" instead of "regular people" yet dread the moment a male friend would suggests something moreSorry, it is pretty easy to understand. You can't say all your relationships start off as friends then say you don't want to date friends. The end of the day some women have a hard time with they don't like ugly guys. No clue why this is so hard for them to accept. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 04:03 PM |
| 3 | Women simultaneously dislike men approaching because they feel treated as "romantic prospects" instead of "regular people" yet dread the moment a male friend would suggests something moreRules 1 and 2 always. Fucking internet been around for so long and guys not understanding rules 1 and 2 always. If you are not ugly, rules do not apply lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 04:01 PM |
| -2 | Women who wear revealing clothing for "comfort" or because it "makes them feel good", is that the truth?You have zero situational awareness lmao. You don't need to people watch to understand wtf is going on around you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/24 04:17 PM |
| 3 | Women who wear revealing clothing for "comfort" or because it "makes them feel good", is that the truth?To be honest, never seen a shirtless guy in a normal gym. Some gym's are influencer gym's and they tend to have those type of people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/24 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Women who wear revealing clothing for "comfort" or because it "makes them feel good", is that the truth?There is this girl who swims in my pool, she always comes in the water full makeup and we always wonder why. After she gets out of the pool, she goes into the bathroom to reapply her makeup and then will get in the sauna. lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/24 01:43 PM |
| -2 | Women who wear revealing clothing for "comfort" or because it "makes them feel good", is that the truth?Something in wrong with you then. I notice everything. Indian guy in a pool wearing slacks and a polo shirt. I think to myself, wtf is this guy doing. Girl walks over to my area and bends over in front of my face with really loose shorts NOT wear underwear and you can see everything. I think wtf why..... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/24 01:41 PM |
| 0 | There’s a reason why regular women do not want to date a man who has used the service of a lot of escorts, and no, it’s not just the possibility of STDWould be interesting if escorts was like it was overseas if that would help women more or less. Because if there are tons of women doing it for easy money. You could spend 200$ or whatever it is in Thailand likely more men would leave the dating market and give women peace. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 03:28 PM |
| 2 | I think if attractive women had to go through the online app dating experience of an Average looking guy (5-6/10) working a normal middle class job, this would make both a great social experiment & reality show.Yeah, dating apps are kinda being forced in some age groups due to how disconnected people are now. Once you get from 24-35 meeting new people is hard for the average person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 05:05 PM |
| 0 | Men here only think they have low standards because they are blind to most things Women do as defaultMost times they are tossing out free ass. I seen it done over and over again. Currently seeing now with a friend. She is below average and she is dropping clues on what they are and trying to get him to meet her family and do vacations. She makes a lot of money as well and pays for everything. He just can't get over the lack of attraction to her. He is ok with just keeping it breezy and sex only. It has been awhile lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 04:00 PM |
| 3 | Men here only think they have low standards because they are blind to most things Women do as defaultAmerica is home of the fat. Sorry, drop the pizza. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 03:55 PM |
| 1 | As long as women take criticisms personally we will never achieve equality or happinessI am saying all the shitty people should be together and they can both live their shitty lives together. Nothing more than that lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 12:37 PM |
| 1 | american women are sabotaging themselves in datingYeah, what you said is hot things are most times. If tinder was like it was in 2015 shit would be different. Guys to Girls on tinder back then was not 50/50 but much better than the 80-90% men to 10-20% women it is now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 06:08 PM |
| -1 | As long as women take criticisms personally we will never achieve equality or happinessmisandry online with women is as toxic as redpilled shit. Two X chrom is full of crazy ass women who need to be locked on an island with trump and all his people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 06:02 PM |
| 1 | If you are not traditional, but you want traditional values, you are hypocrite. This goes for both Genders.You can pick and choose things you want. It is not all or nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 04:06 PM |
| 5 | Liberals politicians support adding women to Selective ServiceDoooooooooo it. Start up the draft and pull these women and put them into the Army. Please they need it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 07:29 PM |
| 5 | Korean men are turning to AI to get dates for themThey can stay angry with men over there, the west does not need more women yelling at the sky. Can we send our angry women over there along with the trump people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 07:26 PM |
| 2 | american women are sabotaging themselves in datingHot guys are the 5% of men on dating apps that 90% of the women swipe one. Those guys are not trying to settle down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 07:25 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Ever turned down sex with a woman? What happened?Let me guess karma queen has met all the men in the world lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 05:15 PM |
| 6 | Korean men are turning to AI to get dates for themLong as they stay over there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 05:12 PM |
| 2 | american women are sabotaging themselves in datingI don't think average women understand "Hot guys" don't want to settle with average women or give up unlimited options to date a mid girl. They are going to keep doing their thing until something happens or they grow up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 03:58 PM |
| 1 | american women are sabotaging themselves in datingMost women don't enjoy being a fuck hole. They want that LTR, but that guy dont. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 01:52 PM |
| 0 | american women are sabotaging themselves in datingEveryone can't ice skate uphill. Average women thinking they can do stuff attractive women do only hurts them. They end up posting on am i ugly because the guys they want are not interested in them, then they become jaded and post on two x. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 01:31 PM |
| 3 | Women that hit thirty are nowhere near changing their behaviour in this day and age. They act just like early twentiesShe is just hoping one day he will want to date her lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 05:20 PM |
| 5 | CMV: If you want women to be open about their preferences, stop treating them as dealbreakers.This is the biggest problem. Nobody wants to grow together, nobody is going to be perfect. I was not with my SO. Her words " She would rather die than let some other women get her hard work in building me up". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 07:17 PM |
| 1 | CMV: If you want women to be open about their preferences, stop treating them as dealbreakers.Not only for sex, dating maybe. If women stopped chasing guys above their level they would see more balanced relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 07:14 PM |
| 2 | CMV: If you want women to be open about their preferences, stop treating them as dealbreakers.Most women's preferences are dealbreakers as they "won't SETTLEEEEE" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 07:13 PM |
| – | Are Situationships and Friend Zone the same thing but gender swapped?Ummm, two things can be the same and different lmao. For example a dark chocolate vs milk chocolate. They are the same in both are created by the gender. The guy who is in the friendzone creates it and hopes if they try hard enough they can win them over. The women who is in the situationship creates it, hoping the other person will date them. Both have the same goal of trying to win the other person over. So they are the same, but done different ways. A person might say a pick me girl would be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 04:30 PM |
| 6 | Why do women hate when their male friends confess feelings to them?I can't speak for most men. Only the ones I am good friends with and myself. We are down to speak / chat with anyone from older women to younger women. I always find it funny when getting hit on by girls who are 19 / 20. Younger people are just broken right now. I think COVID setback young zoomers a lot with personal relationships. You act like women are not lusting after all the hot men they have zero chance with. Let's be real, you have a strong hate towards men. I am really sorry you had a lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 04:19 PM |
| – | Are Situationships and Friend Zone the same thing but gender swapped?They are different, but the same. One is mostly a tactic done by women, the other mostly men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 04:12 PM |
| 5 | Why do women hate when their male friends confess feelings to them?I agree with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 03:45 PM |
| 5 | Why do women hate when their male friends confess feelings to them?Accepted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 03:32 PM |
| 12 | Why do women hate when their male friends confess feelings to them?100% on point. The end of the day it is okay if the guy looks good or the girl is attracted to him. If she is NOT attracted to him, it is not ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 03:10 PM |
| -5 | Why do women hate when their male friends confess feelings to them?Don't listen to her. Just normal bullshit moving the goal post. They are out in full force. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 03:08 PM |
| 13 | Why do women hate when their male friends confess feelings to them?Because a lot of women play games and won't make the first move. Can't tell you how many times I had girls say to me oh, I wish you would have asked me out on a date when we were friends. Or they drop the I liked you when we were in college. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 03:07 PM |
| 10 | Why do women hate when their male friends confess feelings to them?You have posted one of the best things. Most times the girl was getting some sort of emotional support from the guy and that is all she wanted. Not interested in him or she would have made it known. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 03:05 PM |
| – | Are Situationships and Friend Zone the same thing but gender swapped?The world can blow up any second. Most times friend zoned victims are men. Most times people who are in situationships are women. The reason is because both sides do it to themselves, men hoping that if they are friends with a women they like they can get in and maybe get lucky. Women do situationships to men they like, they fuck them and hope by keeping this game going on they might start dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 02:55 PM |
| – | Are Situationships and Friend Zone the same thing but gender swapped?They are the same but for the other sex. Men get friendzoned, women get in situationships. Same meaning they both want something different. The guy wants to be in a relationship with the girl when friendzoned. The girl wants to be in a relationship with the guy when in a situationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 02:33 PM |
| – | Are Situationships and Friend Zone the same thing but gender swapped?No, they both are the same. Both sides want something different. The girls in a situationship want to date and hoping to win the guy over. Guys who are in the friendzone are hoping to win the girl over as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 01:04 PM |
| 4 | Which women are allowed to be picky?lmao... You are smoking something. Women are sooooo fucking picky. I have a lot of female friends. I seen the craziness first hand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 02:03 PM |
| 2 | “Getting off the apps” doesn’t help when the same mindsets are predominantUmmm... That is the point I made. lol. There are others doing it that are not undesirables for example guys like Curt Caz, I don't think he would ever date a western lady. More and more guys like him are interested in traveling and meeting locals who are much nicer. He is not the avg, but for sure guys with money are starting to try other things because right now things are pretty mid in the west. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/24 03:34 PM |
| 3 | “Getting off the apps” doesn’t help when the same mindsets are predominantlmao ladies will be mad, but not like they are interested in the guys doing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/24 02:05 PM |
| – | Nearly half (44%) of Gen Z young men haven't dated in their teenage yearsGuys are just fucked. Like zoomer kids who played mincraft nonstop and watched youtube videos have a hard time doing people related things. Not all, but they would rather just chill in their room instead of having to people lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 09:17 PM |
| – | Nearly half (44%) of Gen Z young men haven't dated in their teenage yearsAre you in college? That shit is going to be hard to meet someone post college like 25+. I just even mean friends not even gf's in late 20's early 30's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 09:10 PM |
| 2 | Why do women's dating frustrations match with what I experience irl?Thank you!!! People do not understand college is a mess right now. I see some schools having 80% women. These girls will say hi, flirt with you, walk up and start talking. They are looking for guys to talk to on college because there are not many of them and most are dating someone or gay. With # 1 I will be interested to see if women will start to date men who don't go to college even if the girl is in college. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/24 02:24 AM |
| – | Women are leaving dating appsAll the men are on dating apps looking for women. College is stuffed with single women in the 70-80% student rates. If you want to find a girl friend, so hang out at colleges. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 10:47 PM |
| 3 | Women are leaving dating appsI almost feel like 80% is low lmao. Dating apps 80% men, some colleges 80% women. Wtf could go wrong here lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 08:14 PM |
| 0 | Women are leaving dating appsNah, it likely means that was the only option. They got burned out because they could not get the "hot guys" to get in a LTR. If you are a hot guy and not trying to get married, why you trying to put down a winning hand. It is one thing if you find someone you match well with or someone you knew well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 08:09 PM |
| 3 | Women are leaving dating appsThe biggest problem is ego boost for women. Young college zoomers only download dating apps when they want something fun to do and ego boost. Never really interested into looking for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 08:07 PM |
| 3 | Men who are decidedly not attracted to overweight women, how do you feel about women of healthy weight but large frames?Fat has to really do with a women having a gut. If you look like a capital B, that is not the shape to have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/24 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Men who are decidedly not attracted to overweight women, how do you feel about women of healthy weight but large frames?Men are not thinking those type of women are fat. For a perfect example KJ is a cutie and she is what you are talking about. She is a muscle mommy. https://www.instagram.com/kj_johnson101/?hl=en If a women is fat it most times has to be obese for men not to like her. Now, the top guys will not be attracted to someone who is a size 9/10 and 5'3. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/24 04:01 PM |
| 2 | Dating culture advice from women is Null. Because they also participate while giving the exact opposite advice.Do you agree women have more options meanwhile men's options are vastly limited? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/24 02:29 PM |
| 1 | What is your most arbitrary “deal-breaker” when contemplating a serious relationship w/someone?They did not say for being fans of t swift. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/24 12:21 PM |
| 1 | What is your most arbitrary “deal-breaker” when contemplating a serious relationship w/someone?Umm if you don't understand the current problems with the new wave of feminism you can't be helped. For some it is not about being equal it is about being better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/24 08:38 PM |
| 1 | What is your most arbitrary “deal-breaker” when contemplating a serious relationship w/someone?What about no and know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/24 07:51 PM |
| 1 | What is your most arbitrary “deal-breaker” when contemplating a serious relationship w/someone?It is ok. lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/24 07:40 PM |
| 5 | What is your most arbitrary “deal-breaker” when contemplating a serious relationship w/someone?Video games will forever be #1 enemy of most women. It steals that attention away from them lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/24 06:37 PM |
| -5 | What is your most arbitrary “deal-breaker” when contemplating a serious relationship w/someone?Fuck cats lmao. I want to see the person who feels they need a cat. Having on is ok, but needing one... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/24 06:26 PM |
| 2 | What is your most arbitrary “deal-breaker” when contemplating a serious relationship w/someone?Know someone it takes her hours to make herself orgasm. RIP | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/24 06:23 PM |
| 4 | What is your most arbitrary “deal-breaker” when contemplating a serious relationship w/someone?This is a joke right? Lmao. Where is the /s. How many are they allowed to be, or each one is a deal breaker lmao. Good luck being single some of them are so stupid. What is wrong with making fun of crazy Taylor swift fans using adult diapers to pee in so they don't miss the show. It sounds like you can't laugh at things when they are funny or stupid. Meanwhile some of your items I agree with, for example too far left or too far right. Wtf is up with the never breastfed by his mother lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/24 06:16 PM |
| 4 | Men should stop asking women for adviceWoah both men and women are pretty terrible right now. You have all the crazy cat women on two x chrom feeding the hate cycle. Much larger than any sub reddit that has hate talk all over the place. Every day you have women posting on amiugly who are 18/19/20 saying young guys won't even talk to them or they never had a date. This problem is likely only to get worse and I can't wait to enjoy watching it. Meanwhile I am having zero problem interacting with gen alpha girls and zoomers. But, the guy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/24 01:06 PM |
| 3 | Social media hasn't just raised standards through access, it's also exposed us to the awful realities of male and female behavior90% of what is post on Two x chrom is made up fiction to feel loved by someone. It is all bitter women on there. Maybe the two should mix. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 08:37 PM |
| 3 | Social media hasn't just raised standards through access, it's also exposed us to the awful realities of male and female behaviorI just laugh, the shit is so funny to see. Think of all the kids who are gen Alpha and 10-14. It is crazy to see how they act because tik tok and what their friend's do. All the young girls hate the way they look, whenever I see a niece take a picture he always blocks out her face because she hates she does not look like the pretty ig girls like Oliva Dunn. It is crazy to see how many teens are getting botox and filler. Boob jobs and bbl were normal once they got older, now teens are getting it.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Men can now message first on BumbleLmao, getting three dates on a sat with all hot girls. Everyone was looking for something fun. We joked and would call it a double header or triple header. As with anything in life, nothing good last long. Now some people just use it to validate and see if they are wanted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 12:58 PM |
| 2 | Men can now message first on BumbleYou said you won't date guys 5'10. So one inch is a deal breaker. You sound crazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 01:55 PM |
| 2 | Men can now message first on BumbleIt just tells me about your mental health if someone who is 5'11 is not tall enough for you lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 12:34 PM |
| 3 | Men can now message first on BumblePlease tell me why 1 inch is a deal breaker lmao. So you are cool with guys not liking fat girls? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 09:26 PM |
| 2 | Men can now message first on BumbleThat is kinda sad if 1 inch means that much. Like is that really a big deal, if it is you should really think about it. It should not be. Tall women are amazing and she be free to date all those 5'9 guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 08:58 PM |
| 3 | Men can now message first on BumbleThe problem is there is a huge gap. You are having colleges where it is 80% women and OLD that is 80% men. When will they start to even out. Tinder in 2015/6 was great. People knew what it was for, there was not as much BS. Shit was simple then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 08:50 PM |
| 3 | Men can now message first on BumbleGood idea. But being 5'10 is much closer to 6' than women using the 10 year old pictures. When it comes down to it OLD sucks. It is fucking 80-90% men. Women don't have issues with dating. They have problems with having too many options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 08:46 PM |
| – | The View has declared men useless on mainstream televisionDaytime television is dead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/24 05:41 PM |
| 1 | How do you think this "gender war" is going to end?I thought the % of women dating other women has been going up much higher too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 07:39 PM |
| – | Would you consider the following dating complaints to be valid if they came from a man?This was is a normal girl. She was super super normal. She is not some hot IG influ girl. She is a solid 5-6, she is cute but has a great personality. My SO and I don't know what change, there was a two year time period where she wanted something that she was not going to get. She came down to earth and met a great guy. He is 5'6 and if she kept her stupid standards she would not have started dating him. Those items are slowly the normal on dating apps, which is what she was using. In person it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Dating would be a lot easier if men would NOT settle for women they aren't attracted tooYeah I think OP is confused. Like you said there is a large group who is vocal on Sydney not being pretty or is ugly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Dating would be a lot easier if men would NOT settle for women they aren't attracted tooSydney Sweeney is not even really pretty, she just had huge boobs. She is okay, but she is nothing like beath taking. I find Halle Bailey meh. Now if you said Halle Berry now we are talking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 01:37 PM |
| 2 | Dating would be a lot easier if men would NOT settle for women they aren't attracted tooWoah, did you mean to change men with women? Men are attracted to a much larger group of women type than women are to men. Women are NOT versatile to what men they find attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 01:31 PM |
| – | Where are the feminist women?The problem is zoomers and younger can't interact with people. Only going to get worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 04:24 PM |
| – | Where are the feminist women?It is a growing cancer which is impacting more and more people. They have tik tok mind rot and want stupid shit. It was the same as guys doing red pill shit. How many guys were watching Tate, a small amount. But it was talked about like it was some huge group. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 03:33 PM |
| – | Where are the feminist women?I will say it is a small amount, but women on dating apps are wild. Only interested in 1-2% of the guys on there, that kind of shows you the other problem going on. Did men get worse or did women start changing what they wanted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Men are the ones who settle.Settling it is pretty simple. Like what you said, my friend she has settled. She wanted a 6 foot+, doctor, who was hotter than her and enjoyed the things she did. She settled with a guy who has a good job and is interested in the same things she is but is 5'6. They are even in the looks department as well. I am happy she went with dating someone who is equal to her instead of dating some HOT doctor or person who makes a lot of money and don't make her a priority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Teenage girl watching red pill content.Mid 20 to late 20's you start seeing when fuck boys will only be fuck boys. Some girls won't care because they are hot tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/24 12:34 PM |
| -3 | Teenage girl watching red pill content.until they get older and want the hot guy. It is not like they will date more normal looking guys. They will all still want the hot pos or someone who is flashy or has a good job etc doctor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Would you hate even more the french dating scene ?damn France is sounding good from that point. Too bad it has all those other issues lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/24 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Would you consider the following dating complaints to be valid if they came from a man?I agree, but it is funny when you see it from both sides. I had a guy friend and a girl friend who both had crazy dumb high standards. The guy never once said omg I can't find a good girl, where are all the good girls. He later lowered his standards and found someone. My girlfriend she kept saying OMG, I can't find a good guy. There are none. She was only trying to date guys who were 26-29 doctor, hot, tall and made a lot of money. I love her, but she is a 5 at best and all of the doctors and la… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/24 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Would you consider the following dating complaints to be valid if they came from a man?complain vs have a realist expectation. Some people want the world and will never get it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/24 08:31 PM |
| 0 | Would you consider the following dating complaints to be valid if they came from a man?Women only say hey sometimes when they are not really into people or trying to talk to the 20 dudes in their in box. They just hit hey to all and talk to the really hot guy they hope to land, but won't because he is just trying to smash. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/24 08:22 PM |
| 5 | I'm single because "they're all just intimidated"No lmao. Legit you see this nonstop in Two X each day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 05:23 PM |
| 3 | I'm single because "they're all just intimidated"The worst part is the female echo chamber. Fucking two x chrom is fucking mind rot cope for women. That is where the crazy starts. Everyone will yasss queen, all the men are just intimidated to talk to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 05:15 PM |
| 1 | I'm single because "they're all just intimidated"Women, because they say it all the time. The I am happy single is the cherry on top. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 05:10 PM |
| 4 | "Ok now swap the genders"You go king! lmao. Fucking women and men are dumb for different shit. Women gas up stupid choices, men fucking with their endless simping to get a women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 12:52 AM |
| 3 | Why are women very uninterested in dating/sleeping with younger menI will say it has been wild to see girls super aggressive towards men who have their shit together. Been approached by so many more women under 25 post covid. No clue wtf is going on with zoomer men, but something is fucked. Not interested in anyone, but girls are for sure looking towards men who seem to have a house / car / not going out to party every weekend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 07:58 PM |
| 2 | Why do so many women still deny that men are way hornier? This is the source of 99% of the issues being discussed here.Long as she tries to make you happy in other ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 07:47 PM |
| 3 | Why do so many women still deny that men are way hornier? This is the source of 99% of the issues being discussed here.That is just sad. To me it seems like your wife just does not give a shit about you. If it works for you, cool. But man that just screams to me they don't care. Every partner should always want to make the other happy, sometimes by doing little things and others just attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 07:12 PM |
| 3 | First dating app for people with autism and ADHD launchesShit all these sites is just another way to suck money out of guys. Almost all these women are going to be bots ran by men looking to funnel money out of people. Or just bots like old tinder us to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 06:06 PM |
| – | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?God, two x chrom is a fucking shit show. One of the most toxic subs out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 12:25 PM |
| – | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?Also this women is part of the problem. # never settle and boss babe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 12:24 PM |
| 3 | Women's infatuation with the lives of celebrities is a male ickI mean, how can you not enjoy watching Big Ed fuck his life up lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 11:50 PM |
| 2 | Women's infatuation with the lives of celebrities is a male ickNot gonna lie, I watch 90 day Fiancé with my SO. I don't follow those people on ig or anything like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 11:34 PM |
| – | "More women should make the first move" yeah, and it would still be like TinderThe problem is more and more people are forced to only tinder. Zoomers can't even talk to each other let alone women. OLD is shit odds for men is all. 2016 tinder was nuts. Like shooting fish in a barrel lol. Both match, then hey lets get it drink. Then it was smash city. So many times where it would lead to what me and my friends called a doubleheader lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 05:26 PM |
| – | "More women should make the first move" yeah, and it would still be like TinderOr maybe they know how to read data released by publicly traded companies on stats they release. Tinder is not IRL. But, women have very very low matching rates like under 5%. If you seen any insight data you would know this. At this point it is almost always a joke. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 04:42 PM |
| 0 | Why do women get turned off if a guy is living with parents even though they live with parents too?sadly this is where most men are in life lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 07:43 PM |
| 4 | Splitting the bill is not about money, it is about balance of interestI love asking the good questions. What do you do for work, what did you go to school for. Easy to weed out the girls who won't be getting a real job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Feminists try to shame men out of their advantages in the dating marketWomen don't like ugly men lmao. That is just a trope they use. They are out there left swiping on 95% of men on dating apps with less than 10 seconds spent on the profile. lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Feminists try to shame men out of their advantages in the dating marketYea, I don't think she understands that. Like she better be a 10 or doing something else if she thinks that guy is going to make her a LTR. Most guys who fit what she is looking for won't waste their hard work for just one women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 02:40 PM |
| 0 | Feminists try to shame men out of their advantages in the dating marketShit, you are being nice. Women are really only likely interested in 10% or less lol. Those Tinder Insights are wild. The other day had some single mom who was 35 who had like 10k left swipes and 200 right swipes and 70% match rate and 100% first date fuck rate lmao. Women live a different life with regards to OLD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 02:04 PM |
| 1 | The reason relationships are so heavily skewed towards women in America is because of its stance on prostitutionI think it is fair to say nobody is interested in dating any american if they are like the crazy loud women type or bro guy from america. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 08:44 PM |
| 4 | Are Situationships for the most part, a result of women not being able to secure men they wish to date?I agree. It is funny. They will be like, ok. I am going to end things, but the guy has like other options and is like sure if you want to end it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Guys spend way more money on dating, get wayyy less than womenLook up TRT. All pros and fighters use that shit. It makes you next level. Google TRT Vitor Belford. https://www.instagram.com/bloodyuppercut/p/C0uaKmDpW6i/?hl=en | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 09:21 PM |
| 2 | Guys spend way more money on dating, get wayyy less than womenLMAO. Someone people don't understand others lose more in a day than people have made in their life. Fucking Elon trolls reddit and X all day. I bet dude has like 20 alt accounts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 09:20 PM |
| 2 | Women’s dating preferences are creating a system of vast inequality in datingThe top is relative. Women are only interested in men they are attracted too. It could be money, it can be looks, it can be both. The problem is women are more picky when it comes to looks with most men. Meanwhile men are less picky with a women's looks most times. Sadly we can't use dating apps to give a fair view because there are so many men on dating apps they will swipe on anything. If you watch online content like the button women will lie about how they view each other and overall give me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 01:39 PM |
| 1 | In dating, as a man, it's demanded that you be confident and socially skilled. Meanwhile, women are allowed to be as neurotic and anti-social as they pleaseNah. I think looks is part of it. I really think it depends on how women feel from you. For example it has always been easy for me to talk to women and I have a very warm smile. Post covid has also sparked people to talk to others more from my point of view. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Women have so many options that it's hard to sympathize with those who say they can't find a man.I legit said it is the exception. THE EXCEPTION! Not the rule. You are crazy because you can't see/ understand that. You think the rule / standard is men have some laundry list of needs that need to be met for wanting to go on a date for a women. Most men are simple and are pretty clear in what they are looking for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Women have so many options that it's hard to sympathize with those who say they can't find a man.because you are legit crazy. Men don't have fucking tons of requirements for women. Most of the times it is, is she cute? Yes! Is is not a bitch, yes! Cool lets start from there and go on a date. Women have like 10 things before they will even think about it. Cool your friend is the exception not the rule. Men tend to not be picky on what they are looking for in a partner. My friend, we make fun of him because he was like your friend and had all these dumb requirements. Must be fit, like working… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 02:18 PM |
| 1 | In dating, as a man, it's demanded that you be confident and socially skilled. Meanwhile, women are allowed to be as neurotic and anti-social as they pleaseLots of people like the shy nerdy girl. It is not seen as bad as a boy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Women have so many options that it's hard to sympathize with those who say they can't find a man.Yeah that sucks. Just find someone online if you game. Tons of discord groups with girls who play games along with guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 05:30 PM |
| 2 | In dating, as a man, it's demanded that you be confident and socially skilled. Meanwhile, women are allowed to be as neurotic and anti-social as they pleaseI think OP means it is seen as quirky or cute. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 04:43 PM |
| 1 | In dating, as a man, it's demanded that you be confident and socially skilled. Meanwhile, women are allowed to be as neurotic and anti-social as they pleaseSee that is the problem. Most zoomers don't talk to girls like gen x had to. So they don't understand all of that. Then you add in all the shit people have wrong with them while interacting with someone. I feel bad for really young zoomers, getting to know someone and processing all of that what you posted is like an all time high. You two are talking and the vibe is right, she flips her hair, reaches out to touch your arm when she laughs. Lip bite. Gives you random compliments on stupid stuff, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 04:41 PM |
| 3 | Women have so many options that it's hard to sympathize with those who say they can't find a man.hahah. It is a joke me and my SO use. How the dating market is so fucked if something were to ever happen we would both just never look for another partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 03:08 PM |
| 8 | Women have so many options that it's hard to sympathize with those who say they can't find a man.Nah. You can use the worst looking picture of a women you can find and she could have no problems meeting someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Women have so many options that it's hard to sympathize with those who say they can't find a man.This is the reason why I will never do any other relationship if my SO were to be a abducted by aliens, because of what you said. Very hard to find someone who is interested in the same things let alone do things with you and learn to enjoy it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 01:56 PM |
| 5 | Women have so many options that it's hard to sympathize with those who say they can't find a man.lmao get off of reddit. That is not the normal person. You people watch too much youtube. I have a friend who is 34, she is cute, very smart, she is a doctor and has a very long list of items in what she wants in a partner. The problem is she is not looking, because she thinks by chance they might just meet each other. Like, it is really unrealistic to think you are going to meet someone if you are not even looking. You can't hit a homerun if you don't swing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Women have so many options that it's hard to sympathize with those who say they can't find a man.You still gotta talk to people and get to know them. Wtf you think dating is like car shopping? You read reviews on what other people think. You won't find the one that way. Zoomer women are having a real problem finding any guys to be interested in them. I am not talking about the ones who want to take them to pound town. I am talking about the ones who are looking to date them long term. So have fun with that women who are 17-24 lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 01:40 PM |
| 8 | Apparently women in your "friends circle" really dislike you hitting on themYou see Nelly, we need more people like you. Most women are not truthful and they really mostly care only about looks. It is the most important part. Instead most like to not be truthful with what they like in order to seem not shallow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 06:56 PM |
| 45 | Most of the advice women give automatically weeds out introverted menI don't think people understand what being an introvert and extrovert are. It is like you said and if you interact with people and it drains you, that would make you an introvert. If interacting with people gives you energy that is what would make you an extrovert. You can be social and be an introvert, it just drains you and you need alone time. Welcome to my ted talk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 04:06 PM |
| 8 | Most of the advice women give automatically weeds out introverted menI hate to say it, but most women are turned off by zoomer introverts lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Women preferring to stay single because they don't feel attracted to average men says a lot about their unrealistic expectationsAlmost all girls in my friend group say looks don't matter. All personality, then when they have swipe parties never read profile and omg he is hot. I do have girl friends who don't put much info looks and will date person on how someone is. One of my best looking friends got herself a short king. Legit 5'5 max. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 07:25 PM |
| 0 | Women preferring to stay single because they don't feel attracted to average men says a lot about their unrealistic expectationsIf they stopped lying and just say the truth others might understand. Instead they lie and die on the hill " LoOkS DoNt MaTter ". lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 07:01 PM |
| 3 | Women preferring to stay single because they don't feel attracted to average men says a lot about their unrealistic expectationswell if you are talking about big ol women, you can be turned off by that. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1KWvMyO9iyI | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 06:58 PM |
| -2 | Women preferring to stay single because they don't feel attracted to average men says a lot about their unrealistic expectationsBecause women lie saying looks don't matter. When in fact it is the only thing that matters to most women. This is proven on dating apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a broke woman?It really depends on the women. If the guy makes money and the girl is stupid hot. Most times men would not care. Most men who have a good job don't care what their SO does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 04:18 PM |
| 5 | Any man that sees women and sex as rewards is automatically an entitled misogynist.Pretty much lol. I really just miss reddit from 2009-2016. RIP | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 02:37 PM |
| 11 | Any man that sees women and sex as rewards is automatically an entitled misogynist.People on reddit now just use bad words to try and label someone. If you don't want to see some shitty movie, you are a misogynist. Wait, maybe I don't want to see dog shit movies lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 02:27 PM |
| 26 | Any man that sees women and sex as rewards is automatically an entitled misogynist.Misogynist is the second or third misused word reddit / internet uses. Shit just makes me laugh every time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 02:16 PM |
| 2 | The myth that single women are happier according to polls, is just that, a myth.Right and they are bitter as fuck too. Most likely posting on reddit Two X everyday saying how unfair the world is to them lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 02:16 PM |
| 3 | If women started approaching men, they would still end up approaching a minority of themI love how zoomers ladies are getting owned by men not giving normal women attention. When you look at subs like /r amiugly it has so many younger women 18-24f saying how they have never been approached by men or dated anyone. It is so different than 10-20 years ago. Now since they don't get approached these women think sometime is wrong with them. It works both ways, right now average to normal women are confused as to why nobody wants to talk to them. Everyone is at a loss right now. Men and W… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 05:12 PM |
| 3 | Who are the type of young women who date older men? Most women I knew when I was early 20s were chasing hot college boys.I think the OP might be confused with ages. I know lots of guys in their early 30's killing it. Making over 150k young, like to still do fun things, meet girls in mid 20's and have fun. Current close friend started dating someone who is 25 and he is 33. It all depends on the guy, if you were ugly and not getting attention when you were younger, just being older is not alone going to help. That being said younger guys are fucked, college % are like 65-70% women now, most are only interested in da… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 08:37 PM |
| 7 | Men on this sub are probably below average which is why they are strugglingOP most people lose their friend groups because they are starting families and don't do single stuff anymore. That does not make you below average lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 03:39 PM |
| 6 | How are average looking men in this day and age supposed to meet women?I saw some of them and I would say most were average to below average. So much depends on the person, like for a POC most people might not think they are attractive. I thought most of the male partners you posted looked better. But, things were even for the most part. https://www.instagram.com/p/C2p_aAePAkG/?hl=en Average male on the far left. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 09:36 PM |
| 9 | How are average looking men in this day and age supposed to meet women?You are so wrong it is not even funny lmao. Which is why women rejected 98% of men on dating apps due to looks. All insight data is released. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 09:11 PM |
| 11 | How are average looking men in this day and age supposed to meet women?Men almost never think they are hot. You are confused with women. Men if lucky they might say they are average, while you have women who think they are 7-10's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 09:09 PM |
| 2 | Most girls are genuinely repelled by truly kind men, you have to have some degree of asshole in you or they will get boredKnow a lot of young girls who don't want someone who will let them win fights. Their words, I don't want someone boring lmao. Meaning gives them what they want to hear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 01:56 PM |
| – | Why can't women take an L?I don't think women are more beautiful. It is they think they are higher than they are. Most times men are bad at doing things to look better, not wear clothes that fit well, terrible hair or long hair. Women are using filters, make up and other things to enhance their looks. Most men do is beard which helps them. You are using people with status as an example. Men date down with pretty women who offers looks, meanwhile some women date a guy with higher status or something else (funny). No clue … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 07:17 PM |
| – | Why can't women take an L?It is not self confidence it is being delusional. You hear all of the, I can't find a nice guy or no guys like me. When it really is guys I like don't like me. Not sure if you ever looked at /r amiugly you see so many young zoomers saying no guy has ever liked them. Most are attractive, it is not likely guys don't like it, it always seems to be "hot" guys don't like them. So now these younger girls think they are ugly because they can't get the hot guys. Small sample size, but you see these post… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 06:18 PM |
| 7 | Women are afforded a lot more leeway in what they can get away withTwo X Chrom is the biggest hate group on reddit. They get away with so much shit. That sub should have been banned after the all others like that got banned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 02:22 PM |
| 3 | Debating women's preferences won't lead to women changing themI mean it is the same for two x chrom. It is filled with all rejected ugly cat ladies. Just happy to be in an echo chamber yelling at the sky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 01:23 PM |
| 2 | Do you think feminism has made it harder to get laid?But you gotta get past the look check. Some guys have a hard enough time taking a shower and wearing shit that does not have holes in it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 03:52 PM |
| 2 | Do you think feminism has made it harder to get laid?That they are. I hear that shit a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Do you think feminism has made it harder to get laid?Yeah. Simps will pay the money too because they can't meet someone IRL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 02:45 PM |
| 3 | Do you think feminism has made it harder to get laid?It is only gonna get worse. Not all are like what you said, but from what I can tell the ones who are like what you described are the kids staying at home playing minecraft for 10 years. I go to the gym and see younger guys interacting like normal, age 15-20. But they are doing things with social groups so I see this as normal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 02:33 PM |
| 0 | Do you think feminism has made it harder to get laid?Dating apps are just a joke. Created to make money off of keeping people single. Most guys are too shitty and awkward to interact with women out in the open. So they all get online and flood that market. 2014-17 tinder was crazy tho. Now dating apps are like facebook for boomers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 02:28 PM |
| 3 | Do you think feminism has made it harder to get laid?See that is the problem. Young males under 25 suck ass in holding a conversations. Add in the fact zoomers don't interact in groups very well as other groups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 02:23 PM |
| 2 | Do you think feminism has made it harder to get laid?or you are not a hot chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 02:18 PM |
| -2 | Do you think feminism has made it harder to get laid?The problem is men. All the fucking simps out there and dudes who are thirsty as fuck are the problem. All OLD is full of dudes trying to get with girls. Girls are always looking for someone better than the guy they might have matched with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 02:15 PM |
| 2 | Are men accepting far less these days or has it always been like this?That is what happens when you simp. Just gotta go travel and meet women from other areas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 03:10 PM |
| 7 | Are men accepting far less these days or has it always been like this?Sadly women have the power in the dating market now. That won't change anytime soon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 03:09 PM |
| 5 | Men need to stop jumping through hoops for women and stroking their egos just to get laid and get validation.I don't think it is related to forcing. It is just the floor now because of so guys are down so bad they try extra hard. Most girls I know it is a red flag to them if the guy does not pay for a date. Date must also be at a nice place like Chris Ruth's. If you try to go Dutch or do coffee they will think you are a broke / cheap bitch. Words from Pokimane, because her male simps could not buy her 30$ shitty cookies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 02:20 PM |
| 6 | Men need to stop jumping through hoops for women and stroking their egos just to get laid and get validation.Don't worry, that dude is just simping all the girls. I get your point, the simps are ruining it for everyone. Because their simping will be treated like the normal. When you go look on am I ugly you have those basic ass girls who might be a 4-5 getting told by simps, omg you are a 10. If I lived near you I would make you my gf. Men are a joke sometimes. They created this OF mess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Men need to stop jumping through hoops for women and stroking their egos just to get laid and get validation.younger men just go full simp mode. Zoomers can't help it. Most of them can't speak to someone unless it is on tik tok lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 02:15 PM |
| 11 | For those of you who think women can get anything for free?You are are not ugly. Just you being skinny is enough for men to simp for you. It really depends on the women and how they act around men. Some people with RBF or people who won't make eye contact will not get attention. Most girls over sell their looks, but you are not a 3 or 4. You can say average, but I bet with makeup and a good picture you are an easy 5-6. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/23 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Want to solve the male loneliness epidemic? Stop letting kids play video games and promote outdoor activities insteadToo late, so many moms are hover moms lol. They won't let their kid outside to go play. Kids get stuck on the ipad and not interested in doing anything else than games. Nothing is wrong with games if you had a mix. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 02:11 PM |
| 2 | International dating is generally good for men and a life changing positive event for the women they marry. Scholarly research - mostly by feminists -has repeatedly proved this. Lonely guys should consider it - particularly otherwise successful guys who are a bit socially awkward or shy with women.This shit ain't new. 90 Day Fiancé show has been around forever. Almost always it is someone who is old trying to date someone who is hot and young and not from america. Fucking big ed over here trying to date all those girls in their 20's and he is 54. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Why don't alpha women date beta simps?Hey if you are interested join the Air National Guard. You can do like 1-2 year and only do 1 weekend a month. Your job has to hold your job as well while you do training. Plus you will be around lots of people you talked about. Or you can get into car hobbies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 03:00 PM |
| 7 | Why don't alpha women date beta simps?Most men are not interested in an alpha women. It just sounds like drama if you are a man or women with someone who is the alpha. Maybe she should try looking for younger guys because men who are her equal will likely not be interested in her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 02:57 PM |
| 2 | Why don't alpha women date beta simps?That lady sounds crazy as fuck. 15 mins on a date with her and most men will nope the fuck out. Why would a guy who is on her level want to talk to that hot mess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 02:55 PM |
| 1 | this might be an unpopular opinion but dating the top 20% of men are overrated. Just get you an average man and live an average lifestyle. Dating the top 20% of men is not what its cracked up to bewtf so many young college girls trying to be like other college girls with rich guys in their DM's. Sorry you only know ugly people lol. Know someone who just got flown out to NYC. Also that is why OF has like millions of people know where it had very few people and most of them are ladies. SM is fucking terrible for younger women and men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 01:09 PM |
| 6 | Why don't feminists just stick to dating male feminists?yeah a lot of male simps just hoping to virtue signal to get laid lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 06:40 PM |
| 1 | this might be an unpopular opinion but dating the top 20% of men are overrated. Just get you an average man and live an average lifestyle. Dating the top 20% of men is not what its cracked up to beI would disagree. I think IG and social media is rotting young peoples brain. Girls see other girls flying around living the life and want that too. But, they don't know these girls are getting flown out by rich dudes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 05:44 PM |
| 1 | this might be an unpopular opinion but dating the top 20% of men are overrated. Just get you an average man and live an average lifestyle. Dating the top 20% of men is not what its cracked up to beI swear to god so many women say even if they dated down to a nice guy they are assholes. So when date down? I don't agree with them. I think if they dated down they would find someone who would treat them better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 05:43 PM |
| 1 | "Filtering out fuckboys" is a really dumb excuse for expecting men to pay for nice dinner datesIf a man wants to split dinner and that is a red flag because you think it means he is cheap or won't spend lots of money on you it is a red flag girls. Also won't do coffee date or something small because they want that 300$ dinner. The girls who are, I am using my 300$ make up and 100$ face cleaner lmao. That shit is running around because men found out they could do small easy dates to make sure the person in question was real to their pictures. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 06:57 PM |
| 1 | "Filtering out fuckboys" is a really dumb excuse for expecting men to pay for nice dinner datesI think the issue is more about women having their cake and eating it too. You can't be like oh we are equal, but won't date a guy unless they pay for the whole date. It is a argument the egirls always lose. It is the same for women not interested in men who don't make as much money as them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 03:26 PM |
| 2 | The best advice for men when it comes to dating and relationships is to stop chasing and approaching women.There would be more providers. It is not expensive in canada and other areas where it is legal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 09:49 PM |
| 2 | The best advice for men when it comes to dating and relationships is to stop chasing and approaching women.I really want to see what would happen in the dating market if sex work became legal. Price is not crazy for most countries and would be interesting to see if this helps women from men or makes it worse. No need to simp if you can spend 300-500$ and sleep with a 10. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 05:46 PM |
| – | Why do men make fun of things women like?Yep, you are right on the money. It is pointing out the crazies and it is an easy red flag. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 03:30 PM |
| 7 | I think many men want single women to be miserable because it gives them a sense of importance.I think the best thing is women say all the good men are taken. Is that really the problem or are they they problem. Have a friend who is Bi, she always said ever man she dated was terrible.... Now she started to date women, and she is running into the same issue. Like come on you are the only thing consent in this picture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 05:09 PM |
| – | What are successful women supposed to actually do for dating?Yes, there are exceptions. Most women want someone who went to college if they went to college as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 07:10 PM |
| – | What are successful women supposed to actually do for dating?I just know lots of people who are not interested in someone not having the same education level as them. Most women feel the same way. Moreso if it is higher than grad school. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 06:06 PM |
| – | What are successful women supposed to actually do for dating?There have been tons of studies and data women who have went to college only are interested in dating men who went to college. Same goes for higher education. So if all colleges are trending towards 70/30 there will be a problem for women in the future. It has nothing to do with money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Women's struggles in dating are in no way equal to that of menHow old are you? You just seem unrealistic and I see lots of cats in your future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 03:23 PM |
| – | What are successful women supposed to actually do for dating?I mean, if you are a guy who is lucky enough to be in college and attractive you will kill it. Then the girls will be like, I don't understand why they don't want to date me. You have a cheat code to life right now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 03:07 PM |
| – | What are successful women supposed to actually do for dating?Just like south park said lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Women's struggles in dating are in no way equal to that of menThose standards are pretty wild lmao. No porn watching, or video games. Because you list addictions, but I am sure you mean NO games lol. Also the world we live in everyone has a mental illness pretty much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 03:02 PM |
| – | What are successful women supposed to actually do for dating?Yea. Well, he is getting paid much more now. But, it had nothing to do with him having an MBA. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 02:38 PM |
| – | What are successful women supposed to actually do for dating?His MBA cost 120k lmao. I said it was not worth it. But, he did not want to be out paid lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 02:35 PM |
| – | What are successful women supposed to actually do for dating?This shit is only gonna get worse for the zoomers. LMAO colleges around here are 70% female 30% male. Then the colleges which were mostly male colleges are 60/40 for women. Gonna be a lot of single women or they are going to accept they won't have a SO who did not go to college. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 02:20 PM |
| – | What are successful women supposed to actually do for dating?My friend's wife made more than him, she was making 150 and he was making 110k. He went to get an MBA just to make more money than her. He now makes more than her but his job sucks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 02:17 PM |
| 2 | Girls have zero empathy for guys and male lonliness.She said she is not going to just date anyone. 100% she could get on a dating app and match with people and get to know them. But, she said nobody went / asked her out. She did not say anything about her reaching out or talking to anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 09:34 PM |
| 2 | Girls have zero empathy for guys and male lonliness.Even if you were 300 lbs you would have guys who would swipe right and get to know you on a dating app. You have options. Very few men do. You could get a date, meet someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Girls have zero empathy for guys and male lonliness.You have options. You get responses. You are not ignored. You can't find someone worthy of your greatness. lmao. If you can't find someone on the earth is it everyone else or a you problem? because if you are a women in 2023 and can't find a male S.O you are likely the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Girls have zero empathy for guys and male lonliness.Why are you lonely?? Is it by choice? A women no matter what could find a male option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 08:14 PM |
| 3 | Not all psychopathic men are master manipulators. Lots of women date guys who are walking red flags.Both cousins married out. My male cousin was really into black culture in college. Then dated / married a girl from the UK. She is amazing, but when we were younger all the other black girls were pretty nasty about it lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 05:33 PM |
| 3 | Not all psychopathic men are master manipulators. Lots of women date guys who are walking red flags.lmao. Women are not looking for mediocre guys, that is why on dating apps dudes get like 1-2 dates every few weeks if they are lucky. Women are in the driver seat for picking who they are interested in. If they are not attracted to 80% of the men, that is their problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 05:22 PM |
| 0 | Being a good person has nothing to do with how much a man is able to attract womenMen do it as well. Women tend to avoid red flags if the person is hot enough. If a women is a 5 and some guy who is a 7-8 starts giving her attention, he pump and dumps her then she is all sad. She knew he was a POS person, but nope did not care. You see these type of post ALL the time on Two XX chrom. The difference sometimes is men know about the red flags that is a women is crazy, but they are stupid and sex > everything else. Women got the I can fix him when it comes to hot guys lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 12:41 PM |
| – | Men don't get it. Women have moved onCope. 100% She is not the norm. I hear QQ from women nonstop about not finding the right man. My friend who is mid 30's doctor was trama dropping about not finding a man yet. She is looking for an equal, and it is not easy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 04:29 PM |
| – | Men don't get it. Women have moved onDon't worry, sure she is posting in two xx how happy she is being single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 04:27 PM |
| 28 | Approaching = always creepy? Depends on who says it.Rules 1 and Rules 2. Always. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/23 01:07 PM |
| 2 | On dating apps over the past 5-8 years, why do you see the same exact women on them? Why are they perpetually single?people like fixing things lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Women just expect men to pay, even on bad dates. Is this reasonable?Well. That is good of you. I am just friends with a lot of girls and they don't share your openness in a partner. As they start racing towards 30 they worry and start to drop some of their stupid requirements in finding a partner. My really good friend she was super normal with what she wanted in a man. Her college sweetheart was super average / mid as she is mid too. They were equals. They are now broken up and she is only wanting to date 6 foot Chads who make over 100k. She is 27, needless to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 12:07 PM |
| 1 | Women just expect men to pay, even on bad dates. Is this reasonable?No it does not work that way. You can date the guy who is your friend and is a nice guy. But, you only want to date someone HOTTT. The problem is once someone starts to age out then they want to open up their options. Do that when you are young. The problem is people never want to give people a chance or maybe you don't know what nice is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 06:16 PM |
| 0 | Women just expect men to pay, even on bad dates. Is this reasonable?yea more women and men are wanting to be single. That is because they are choosing shit people and not giving people a real chance who would likely treat them right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Women just expect men to pay, even on bad dates. Is this reasonable?I mean it is a cycle. Men want sex, so they will do whatever to get to that point. I blame men for simping on women, all those dang guys love bombing people just ruin shit. OLD was so good back in 2015-2017. Then all the guys who can't meet women IRL started to bomb the apps. It went from almost 50/50 to 70-80 / 30-20 ish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 12:54 PM |
| 2 | Women just expect men to pay, even on bad dates. Is this reasonable?No, I am just saying about your point talking about read on the internet. That area is living proof of I read it on the internet so all of X people do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Women just expect men to pay, even on bad dates. Is this reasonable?My point is men are kinda forced to pay because if you don't that is likely to be a red flag for some women. I think if you are into a girl and ask her out you should pay. But, the problem is most women would never ask out a guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 12:50 PM |
| 2 | Women just expect men to pay, even on bad dates. Is this reasonable?yea, just saying a lot of college girls will flake out sometimes if you just wanna meet for drinks. I blame all the girl boss tik tok'ers who are making all that know your worth content. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 12:49 PM |
| 4 | Women just expect men to pay, even on bad dates. Is this reasonable?haha bulllshit women never approach. They will push really hard to beat around the push that they want you to ask them out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 12:43 PM |
| 3 | Women just expect men to pay, even on bad dates. Is this reasonable?haha women are learning, if you do something like that low effort they won't meet up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 12:42 PM |
| 2 | Women just expect men to pay, even on bad dates. Is this reasonable?Please go look at two xx chrom, they will disagree with you that all men are horrible lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 12:41 PM |
| 2 | Women just expect men to pay, even on bad dates. Is this reasonable?That is good and all but lets be real we know you are the exception. Most women never want to ask a guy out. They want to be wanted. So you are asking for something that is never going to happen that often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 12:41 PM |
| 20 | Men are told to "touch grass" and "talk to women" but if they fumble they get to be creep shamed on social mediaalways rule 1 and 2. anything is ok if you are hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 12:48 PM |
| 3 | Most college aged women do not want 30+ year old menMaybe not a 20 y.o but 23-27. Also colleges are 65-75%+ women now. Not every women is going to be able to date a college man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 04:50 PM |
| 0 | As a man that’s getting older it’s literally impossible to not smirk at the problems my female peers are beginning to faceI don't think people understand how often men use their 20's to find out what they are going to do. For example some guy who is 25 is still living his life like he is an 18 y.o. Meanwhile a 25 y.o women is in a different space not interested in dating some guy who is playing xbox eating taco bell every night. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 01:28 PM |
| 1 | As a man that’s getting older it’s literally impossible to not smirk at the problems my female peers are beginning to faceSooo all the cope which two ex chrom dumb shit those air bags post? I see the shit getting harder for lots of my female friends once they start hitting the big 30. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 01:26 PM |
| – | Guy approaches young woman in a viral video, gets rejected with news headlines calling him a "creep"It is not her friend, he says he is related to her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 01:07 PM |
| -2 | Guy approaches young woman in a viral video, gets rejected with news headlines calling him a "creep"Guess you live in a perfect bubble. Guess you never been in bad parts of town people try to grift money off of you. This girl acts like that wait til she has to ride the subway in nyc or locals in the streets of Chicago. In the words of Kobe Bean Bryant Soft. The guy did not even say anything disrespectful and you are making a big deal of someone trying to hit on someone. Such a joke. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 05:59 PM |
| -1 | Guy approaches young woman in a viral video, gets rejected with news headlines calling him a "creep"That girl has problems and needs help in real life. That reaction is why young people are fucked. They can talk to random fucking dorks online, but can't handle talking to someone in person. Young people are fucked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 05:50 PM |
| 2 | There is no place for men to meet womenThe millions of men who have a swipe rate of less than 4% don't agree. Tinder gives the averages and men get swiped on 4% of the time meanwhile women are 40%. The game is rigged for OLD. Most men will just get depressed when they get that one match in two weeks to have the women never send a text or message. Or when they do it is Hi and low effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 05:04 PM |
| 2 | There is no place for men to meet womenOnline is the worse way for a guy to mean a women. Fucking OLD is terrible if you are a guy. Good luck getting past the 80+ % of men who make OLD. Men should always talk to a women in person. That is always better than the 1% most men get on Tinder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 04:51 PM |
| 1 | 45% of men age 18-25 have never approached a woman in personsaying something is retarded is a slur lmao. Stupid, dumb, there are tons of other things women find distasteful. Or how to talk is different with them around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 08:00 PM |
| 9 | 45% of men age 18-25 have never approached a woman in personOr call you an incel. Just the fact some people want peace lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 07:32 PM |
| 2 | 45% of men age 18-25 have never approached a woman in personJust watch the video. It is was created by all of the drama created in the last few years. I get it, we have chat spaces where no women are allowed. It is not worth someone saying something and then having to walk on eggshells. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 07:16 PM |
| 9 | 45% of men age 18-25 have never approached a woman in personWTF are you talking about. You don't have to include women in to your friend group. It is not sexual discrimination. You don't have to befriend them. You don't have to get lunch with them. Just have to be professional and keep it pushing. Women are QQ on Social media they are not being included in friend groups with men. Including hanging out after work, or small talk. There was tons of things and it was all over tik tok and twitter months ago. https://youtu.be/cnfb7DTDXBw?t=168 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 07:09 PM |
| 18 | 45% of men age 18-25 have never approached a woman in personDon't worry they already are lol. Women posting why won't men talk to me or include me into groups at work. Because nobody wants to walk on eggshell with some women around. OMG someone used the word retarded or dumb... Women speaks in offended. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 05:31 PM |
| 5 | 45% of men age 18-25 have never approached a woman in personbecause dating apps are terrible for men. You are better off IRL talking to women than the dick fest online dating is. 80% males in most areas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 05:23 PM |
| 3 | 45% of men age 18-25 have never approached a woman in personthat sub is full of crazy ladies, don't worry about them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 05:18 PM |
| 3 | The real reason women hate when older guys get with younger girlsThe worst part with what they are saying is protect women only. Right now we are seeing an epidemic with younger men struggling to find their way in life. All the women are like, good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 01:18 PM |
| 5 | The real reason women hate when older guys get with younger girlsHey, you dated Leo?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 01:15 PM |
| 5 | The real reason women hate when older guys get with younger girlsNobody is talking about that. A perfect example is all the women mad Chris Evens is married now to a women who is 27 and he is 42. That shit burns up women. BURRRNS. With that said, I think most of the problems is men. Men who are early 20's 22-25 are really struggling. They are kinda stuck working dead end jobs and no way forward. College rates are dropping big time with males, we are seeing tons of colleges that are 70% females. These females are not interested in some guy who is 24 living at … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 01:12 PM |
| 0 | "Everyone's entitled to their own preferences" only became a thing when women's superficial standards for men became undeniable and widely known. And today, people still judge men more harshly for having standards.Happens all the time lol. Meanwhile that dude is out here talking to like 3-4 girls and she does not understand why he would want to just pick one. Not all guys are like this, but if you are 28 have a good job and are attractive why would you settle ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 08:04 PM |
| 2 | "Everyone's entitled to their own preferences" only became a thing when women's superficial standards for men became undeniable and widely known. And today, people still judge men more harshly for having standards.There is tons of data out there that both young men and women are single. More so than ever before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 06:11 PM |
| 4 | Today a London schoolgirl was murdered for refusing to go out with her classmatehow about wear a burka and lock yourself in the room. Or better yet gain 150 pounds and don't wear makeup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 05:20 PM |
| 15 | Today a London schoolgirl was murdered for refusing to go out with her classmateYou sound bat shit crazy. Go back to posting in Two x chrom. Shit happens, people go around doing mass shootings for no reasons. Someone beeps a horn at someone in a car then a person pulls out a gun and shoots them. You have a crazy take on shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 05:16 PM |
| 0 | "Everyone's entitled to their own preferences" only became a thing when women's superficial standards for men became undeniable and widely known. And today, people still judge men more harshly for having standards.Younger people both men and women are having a harder time finding people. Things are a changing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 04:06 PM |
| 4 | "Everyone's entitled to their own preferences" only became a thing when women's superficial standards for men became undeniable and widely known. And today, people still judge men more harshly for having standards.Not true at all. Leo loves a good young woman and people blast him. Also all the drama about Chris Evans' wife being young. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 12:48 PM |
| 15 | "Everyone's entitled to their own preferences" only became a thing when women's superficial standards for men became undeniable and widely known. And today, people still judge men more harshly for having standards.But that is the problem, women are not finding those guys to put a ring on it. They pump it a few times then dump them. Then women are all omg men never want to be in a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 12:47 PM |
| 3 | The idea that « the bar is so low » for men is more and more prominent among women. Do you think that it’s true? Does it match reality?I love how overweight women feel they can openly choose fit men. But, men who look like them and share their lifestyle are not acceptable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 04:21 PM |
| 11 | The idea that « the bar is so low » for men is more and more prominent among women. Do you think that it’s true? Does it match reality?Rules 1 and Rules 2. Fucking men will never understand. Whatever bullshit you hear from people it is a lie. Rules 1 and 2. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 04:20 PM |
| 2 | CMV: All women will aim for the absolute highest value male within reach first, then work their way down. Men don’t do this.I see women dating up more than dating on their level. Finding dates is like shooting fish in a barrel for you ladies. Now the hard part is finding someone who is not a dumbass. GL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 02:17 PM |
| 2 | CMV: All women will aim for the absolute highest value male within reach first, then work their way down. Men don’t do this.They care when they get pumped and dumped. Then they are saying all men are terrible lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 12:31 PM |
| 2 | CMV: All women will aim for the absolute highest value male within reach first, then work their way down. Men don’t do this.Or the guy said "Hi" to them once and she wants to bang lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 05:11 PM |
| 3 | CMV: All women will aim for the absolute highest value male within reach first, then work their way down. Men don’t do this.What you are saying a lot of women don't understand that. If a guy is hitting on you above you it is a red flag. While others are thinking this is my chance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 04:49 PM |
| 5 | CMV: All women will aim for the absolute highest value male within reach first, then work their way down. Men don’t do this.Creepiness only matter if you are not hot. I see women do "creepy" stuff and it is not "creepy" when they do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 04:47 PM |
| 0 | Women are happier "single" because they're aren't really single at allI think that is fair. Just women doing all this never settle is bullshit. A perfect partner is never going to just show up. You both have to put in work to be a good partner and grow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 07:15 PM |
| 2 | Women are happier "single" because they're aren't really single at allThis is too rich. How good are you that you think you have to settle. Lmao.... You can't find anyone in the world and you think the people are the problem or maybe it could be you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Are the Red Pill statistics true when it comes to mens struggles?On dating apps lets be real, if you look at the profile for less than 5 seconds you are not doing anything else but looks. Women on dating apps look at a guys picture and pass 90% of the time. Pretty simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 04:44 PM |
| 3 | Are the Red Pill statistics true when it comes to mens struggles?No. Women are swiping on dating apps just looking at pictures. It legit is Rule 1 and Rule 2. There is no looking for the right man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 03:38 PM |
| 5 | Are the Red Pill statistics true when it comes to mens struggles?No, if someone is not attractive to women, you are pretty much ugly. The problem is dating apps are a shit way to see if you like someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 03:00 PM |
| – | Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells youThat is the biggest lie women will never accept. Legit see women on dating apps swiping faster than guys. If a guy is NOT attractive most women would never even notice them. If you don't understand that, you are living in a dream world. Almost like that full of shit girl Grace Weinstein. She talks about looks and her bf being the best because he is goofy and she loves. Then posted the truth her BF is hot AF and she loves that. If her BF was not hot, him being goofy would not matter. But she post… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 08:23 PM |
| 5 | Listening to older women is actually beneficial to younger women when it comes to datingDon't listen to angry cat women on two x chrom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 04:02 PM |
| 0 | If a woman has difficulty coming to orgasm, that's not my problemWomen being a dead fish and just lay there. That is his point. Cowgirl tends to give the best results but takes the most effort. Lazy can't put in the work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 02:17 PM |
| 4 | If a woman has difficulty coming to orgasm, that's not my problemI know women who it takes them hours for them to come on their own. If it takes 2-3 hours to get yourself off nobody else can do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Most of men's cluelessness in dating stems from fatherlessness and their mother's virtue signalling bad advice.Win, Win, Win. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 01:08 AM |
| 4 | CMV: The average man is attracted to the average woman. The average woman is not attracted to the average man.sadly most men think simping = getting a women. Fucking men are stupid and just as much to blame as anyone else. Stop simping. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 05:17 PM |
| 2 | Most of men's cluelessness in dating stems from fatherlessness and their mother's virtue signalling bad advice.I am speaking in general. See that is the problem with some people. You use mind games to change your story. Oh I could not think someone was attractive and see them as a partner / or could date. That is some BS shit used for coping. Here is an example. My friend we are good friends. She is cute, but has problems finding the right guy now. She is 28. She is super needy and only interested in talking to attractive guys with high paying jobs. The problem is her looks are not good enough for her le… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 05:16 PM |
| 24 | CMV: The average man is attracted to the average woman. The average woman is not attracted to the average man.I don't know. I see people on rateme and they love those BBW. Simps are like OMG you are perfect, you don't need to lose any weight. While they are almost 200lbs and 5'3. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 05:02 PM |
| 0 | Most of men's cluelessness in dating stems from fatherlessness and their mother's virtue signalling bad advice.If you don't find your friend attractive, but give them false hope they are attractive you are doing a disservice to them. There is nothing wrong with knowing / finding a friend attractive but not wanting to have a relationship with them. A lot of the time women will lie to their friends when they really need some truth. Most women are not attracted to most men. That is the world we live in. So if you don't find them attractive it is likely others won't as well. Good advice would be mixing in tr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 04:26 PM |
| 3 | Most of men's cluelessness in dating stems from fatherlessness and their mother's virtue signalling bad advice.Yea. It is really sad, for everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 04:19 PM |
| 5 | Most of men's cluelessness in dating stems from fatherlessness and their mother's virtue signalling bad advice.I feel women who are friends with men give bad advice as well. Girls loves a confident and funny person. Looks don't matter. When said girl would not even think about their male friend as a dating partner lol. So much bad advice from all sides. End of the day not matter what anyone says. Always Rules 1 and Rule 2. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 01:49 PM |
| 4 | Most of men's cluelessness in dating stems from fatherlessness and their mother's virtue signalling bad advice.Younger people are just fucked when it comes to dating. I can't think what is going to happen with the kids who are teens as they get older. More men will be awkward and not know how to interact with girls, the gap will be further than it was before. Tinder and OLD for young kids is like 70% dudes not getting any interactions. Then the average women who are matching with men who do get pick are most likely a POS who will only add trauma to their life. Like Michael said in the Office, but reverse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 01:47 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The most reasonable explanation for the disparity between the number of young men and women who report being single is that women are "sharing" the most desirable men.Two x is legit the most unhinged ladies in the world. They are all batshit crazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 04:43 PM |
| – | CMV: In nearly every metric we can measure in the west, the average woman is outperforming the average manCollege is fine if you do something that has value. Going to school for Lib arts is not the way. Also most kids just want college for the fun times not trying to get a career. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 01:53 PM |
| – | CMV: In nearly every metric we can measure in the west, the average woman is outperforming the average manI think the point OP should be focused on is the point should be women should be equal. Currently young boys / zoomers are fucked. lmao. RIP for them. Colleges are 70% females / 30% male in a lot of colleges. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 01:44 PM |
| -1 | Telling people to get a better personality in order to date is pointlessTravel is the number 1 overrated item listed on girls profiles in OLD. That and "working out" My friend always ask what they do for working out and they talk about that one time they did a 5K 6 years ago lol. Nothing else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 07:28 PM |
| – | Dear women, what makes a man "boring"?I think a lot of people have a problem with moderation. Not like we are farming RoTLK for 10 hour a day anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 06:47 PM |
| – | Dear women, what makes a man "boring"?Guys like 420 and video games lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 05:52 PM |
| – | Dear women, what makes a man "boring"?Women hating COD / video games from day one. Nothing gets them more triggered than getting on a game with the boys. Not all women are like this, but all the basic starbuck girls... this goes out to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 05:37 PM |
| – | Dear women, what makes a man "boring"?I have listen to some of my friends talk to women, it is painful at times lol. Some guy just don't know how to carry / talk to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Why is the sub have at least some men telling women what they are attracted to?Safe girl who is fun and has a good job all day. Crazy hot girl were only fun when growing up. All those "fun" girls I messed with almost all crazy with being married 2 or 3 times and lots of kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 10:36 PM |
| 6 | Women can easily find a yielding, nice guy if that's what they truly want. If women continuously date assholes it's because they have a preference for assholesHow are you gonna know if someone is good or not by not going on dates and meeting them. Girls living in their own world. Not understanding they have options. You say they are bad, but you GET options while normal dudes out there with nothing. So you are NOT eating shit, you have options. Just not Mr. Perfect because likely you are not in their league. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 03:07 PM |
| 4 | Women can easily find a yielding, nice guy if that's what they truly want. If women continuously date assholes it's because they have a preference for assholesBetter than the zero matches a week you would get being a normal male. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 02:23 PM |
| 10 | Women can easily find a yielding, nice guy if that's what they truly want. If women continuously date assholes it's because they have a preference for assholesCan't find men, you legit can download any app and get 2-3 dates lined up by Friday. Try doing that as a man lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Men are hypergamous when it comes to looksIt is very often said. Not implying you. Just what everyone on Two Ex says. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Men are hypergamous when it comes to looksBut you can't tell guys to stop online dating because it does not work, then say they can't meet women in public. Just does not work both ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Men are hypergamous when it comes to looksThat is also another reason, you don't need it if you are a women. Women will say, men need to go out in public to meet a women, then turn around and say don't speak to women out in public. Can't have it both ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 04:17 PM |
| 6 | Men are hypergamous when it comes to looksMen get selected, you should know just look at your tinder inbox. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 01:47 PM |
| 1 | I often hear women say "I have attractive male friends with awesome personalities, but I don't like them that way." If they're attractive, why aren't they attracted to them?I agree. I love being friends with girls / women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 11:57 AM |
| 1 | I often hear women say "I have attractive male friends with awesome personalities, but I don't like them that way." If they're attractive, why aren't they attracted to them?It was useful, I was always still down to be friends with most girls. Was never a dick and still we had a lot of fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 02:45 AM |
| 0 | I often hear women say "I have attractive male friends with awesome personalities, but I don't like them that way." If they're attractive, why aren't they attracted to them?Had this happen when I was younger. Would talk to a girl for a week before I started finding something about them I did not like. Use to make for talking to lots of girls in a year lmao. They would last two weeks tops most time. Oddest thing was a cutie who had a happy trail, not sure what it was, I did not like it. I was young lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 01:08 AM |
| 2 | Women, how would you or did you prepare your sons for dating?I disagree most families don't do it. When you are out to eat in public see kids stucked in on tablets while eating dinner etc lol. Most parents just want their kids to shutup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 04:16 PM |
| 3 | Women, how would you or did you prepare your sons for dating?Younger kids are just addicted to the fast content fix of Tik Tok. You are right, very few family have rules on the internet and phone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Women, how would you or did you prepare your sons for dating?Pretty much hit the basics. Rip the phone out their hands. I can't tell you how many 6-10 y.o boys who don't have normal out of school friends. It is crazy, they just stay at home and watch youtube. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 03:47 PM |
| 2 | Women, how would you or did you prepare your sons for dating?Most young people are stuck to their phone and don't know how to talk to people. Also, most moms sadly lie to their sons. You are perfect, you will find someone, only your personally matter. Girls love shy nerdy boys. SMH, not helping the poor zoomers out at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.The make girls are doing online and insta is taking way longer than 15. Talking hair too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.So who is forcing these girls to use filters for everything? lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.maybe not older women. Zoomer girls put on wayyyyyyyy more makeup. I swim and see girls who are NOT milfs 20's waste hours of full make up to go workout via swimming. My friend her and I laugh at how stupid that is and watch their makeup wash off and it is like a different person coming out the pool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 01:08 PM |
| – | If you want happiness, marry a mid. Many high profile men, like Jim Caviezel do it. Jason Momoa did itdamn, that is stupid as shit. Pretty much no reason to get married if you are rich lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 07:01 PM |
| – | Men should not be shamed for leaving their wife for a younger woman.I mean, I feel like that is reddit overall. Most people just post to vent. Reddit is not real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 02:44 PM |
| 3 | Went full-on pick-me as an experiment and got a boyfriend within a month.Whatever bullshit tik tok girls are watching lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 02:27 PM |
| 2 | Went full-on pick-me as an experiment and got a boyfriend within a month.It is not. She just wanted someone to do everything. If anything sounds like she is not being a true equal. 5 is the best. Never gives compliments. smh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 02:26 PM |
| 0 | Men don’t get to have male spacesIt is not bullshit, it is all man hate and how terrible all men are etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 02:50 AM |
| 4 | Men don’t get to have male spacesIt is not bullshit, it is all man hate and how terrible all men are etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 02:50 AM |
| 5 | Men don’t get to have male spacesthe biggest thing is two x chrom where it is more hateful than any redpill space. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 01:55 AM |
| 9 | CMV: women want sex as much as men do, but with the right person.ouch. I know someone like that, she tries to trick guys into LTR with her, lucky most guys have been smart with figuring out she has pretty much no sex drive and eject out of any relationship with her after a few weeks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 01:05 PM |
| 2 | ELI5: Didn't Jonah Hill just leave a relationship that didn't work for either of them and move on to happiness and a baby with someone more compatible. How is this not a win for everyone?You know you have the right to be like, yo I am not down with that can you turn it down a little bit. If not later. He gave her the later and she lost the bag. Now mad he is happy lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 12:07 PM |
| 0 | ELI5: Didn't Jonah Hill just leave a relationship that didn't work for either of them and move on to happiness and a baby with someone more compatible. How is this not a win for everyone?Pretty much all the key buzz words all the sexist two x chrom cat ladies use. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 12:05 PM |
| 2 | Men can't cold approach, but they can't ask out their female friends either. What options are we left with?Themz the rules. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 03:50 AM |
| 3 | Women just want an excuse to lecture men about sexismWomen always talk about how they can change their mind. Go on date, go back to your/their house. Get into making out and naked. They are like ok, not sure if I wanna do this changed their mind. Fine. It always works both ways if you are dating and don't like how things are in the relationship and want to change things. But, JH was open with saying if this does not work I understand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys even like women? Why?I feel the same way when I read two x chrom. Pretty much all women in there seem to hate men. There are loud small groups which are very vocal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 03:47 PM |
| 2 | There is no hook up cultureShit has changed. People looking for "relationships" on what was created for hooking up. Also blame Tinder for wanting that fat bag of money and making it impossible to get people unless you spend money. Then add in the fact most young girls just like getting the boost of guys wanting them / liking them online. Makes them feel good, but they don't understand want to fuck does not = want to date lmao. IMO we can't really say what happened, likely too many things changed and you can't blame one it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 04:16 PM |
| 6 | There is no hook up cultureAh 2014-2017 the Tinder years before normie older people got it on looking for friends lmao. Shit was great, if you matched with someone you got a talked and got a date. Both parties knew each person was down, just needed to make sure she felt safe and there was a spark. RIP | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 02:15 PM |
| – | Do older woman really think older men date younger woman cause they are easier?HAHAHAH. I don't have to hope for anything. lmao. You have NO clue what you are talking about. Maybe you and your small group. Girls are NOT interested in dating all the drop out college guys. Maybe you have an issue reading. Women who are 22-26 are not interested in their younger guys. The age group college women are interested in is 28-35. Those guys are likely to date and have a real job etc. I am always surprised when I hear the age range of women in their early 20's. Most of them just know … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 05:40 PM |
| – | Do older woman really think older men date younger woman cause they are easier?got her lmao. I don't think she understand most women in their 20's want to look for men in their late 20's mid 40's. Women in their teens are more likely to date men their age, but once they hit mid 20's I always see women looking for men who have their shit together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 05:28 PM |
| – | Do older woman really think older men date younger woman cause they are easier?The real reason to date younger women is they are less likely to be jaded and hate everything or more open to do new shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 05:25 PM |
| 1 | For guys who want an active woman, why and what does that mean to you?$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ is all that matters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/23 05:06 PM |
| 0 | 63% of men in their 20s are single compared to 34% of women, which is the age cohort when young women care about looks the mostWomen will never convince a hot guy who is in the age of 27-32 making over 100k to get in a LTR with them. I love when they find out the guy is talking to 4-5 women. Shit is always the best. I guess maybe they should try talking to guys on their level lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 08:41 PM |
| 6 | Pretty much every advice targeted at men is to make them to wait until they are too old to do anythingFuck that TALK to any women you want. They can deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 09:43 PM |
| 1 | It is hard to be empathic to women's struggles in single motherhood when they have literally all sexual and dating powerIt is less to do with being competitive and more with men stopped going to college. Covid was a big hit / pause to it. If women think it is hard to find a good men, lmao I can't wait to see 5 years from now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 08:21 PM |
| 1 | It is hard to be empathic to women's struggles in single motherhood when they have literally all sexual and dating powerThe point is women get looked at as poor victims while men get told suck it up you are a man. People are always willing to help a lady in distress. This is not the mad man years. Being a women you can unlock more doors than being a man. Some colleges grads are 70% women. That shit is gonna hit different when places need to hire males with college education in the future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 04:34 PM |
| 3 | It is hard to be empathic to women's struggles in single motherhood when they have literally all sexual and dating powerBULLSHIT The average man can't get shit. Younger men are going to be boned. Women are starting to dominate a lot of the stats. Most colleges are filled with a large % of women. We are seeing 60-70% women in college. Larger with some. Those women go on to get jobs and will only date men who have the same education level as them. Which is getting smaller and smaller. One could say currently we are in a bubble for the above, but if the shit does not correct it is going to be a bad time for males 19… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 03:04 PM |
| 0 | It is hard to be empathic to women's struggles in single motherhood when they have literally all sexual and dating powerBest thing is when that female tried to fight the logic via a youtube video thinking she could act as a male online dating and pull in tons of women. She used an attractive males photos and could not get any dates. Then used an unattractive female and did not need to do anything. Different levels to the game. Life is not fair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 02:59 PM |
| 3 | Since when did requiring physical attraction for a romantic relationship make you superficial?No, I think the real problem is a lot of the girls who gas light and lie about LOOKS DoN'T MaTteR. Then only swipes or talks to hot guys who have no interest in dating them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 01:38 PM |
| – | The people saying "your league is who you can attract" forget they're giving this reply to men who can barley attract any women at allI can't remember the name of it, there was an app in Cali which everyone only had like 10 swipes per day and I heard good things about it awhile ago. No clue if any app has stuff like that, because why would you when you can charge stupid men tons of money each month for unlimited swipes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 12:42 PM |
| 2 | The people saying "your league is who you can attract" forget they're giving this reply to men who can barley attract any women at all100% But, I will say the two things that do hit the real world is men will swipe right on most women and women will swipe left on most men lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 08:39 PM |
| -1 | The people saying "your league is who you can attract" forget they're giving this reply to men who can barley attract any women at allI see the same for all things like that. The shit I read in the super toxic I hate men two x fembots subreddit. Those women live in the matrix with Andrew Tate as Mr Smith lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 08:30 PM |
| 2 | The people saying "your league is who you can attract" forget they're giving this reply to men who can barley attract any women at allDo you work out a lot? I know of these two who work out in my gym. One is an asian girl and guy. She has a 9/10 body and her face is 2/10. I am 100% most guys would smash her. Same with the guy. he is built but his face is bad, not as bad as the girl tho. But, I seen him around a group of girls being friendly to him. He does not seem to have an issue talking to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 05:12 PM |
| 12 | The people saying "your league is who you can attract" forget they're giving this reply to men who can barley attract any women at allDude, some guys can't be saved. My friend had a super super cute wife. I would say she was a 7 and he would cheat on her all the time with huge women that were like a 2 or 3. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 05:07 PM |
| 3 | CMV: It's perfectly valid for men to want a low N woman BECAUSE he's insecure about his sexual performance compared to all of her other loversOr just all the extra drama that comes from being / sleeping with a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 01:46 PM |
| 3 | CMV: It's perfectly valid for men to want a low N woman BECAUSE he's insecure about his sexual performance compared to all of her other loversI am sure women understand this, but will try to gas light men into small dick energy. We have no issues with sleeping or hooking up with someone like that, I don't think someone who has lived that life style of 300 wieners is someone I want to marry. Because they will have lots of trauma and drama. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 01:45 PM |
| 1 | CMV : A woman can almost ALWAYS find a better option within a couple of months of trying, so why would they settle?I mean there is a large reason why it is 80%. Men are more likely to stick it out for whatever reason. With that said I do know a two males who when they don't get what they want anymore in their marriage aka afte 10 years of their wife sick of taking care of them. They wanted a divorce. Both cases the wife wanted their man to change and help out more. Both were like nah, you don't love me anymore Divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 08:58 PM |
| 0 | CMV : A woman can almost ALWAYS find a better option within a couple of months of trying, so why would they settle?Well, what about the 80% of women who file for divorce? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 02:58 PM |
| 0 | Q4M - How many average women have you had serious crushes on?Same, I only talked to / dated attractive women. I could never get down with hooking up with what guy friends would call hogging. Going out to clubs picking up large women to hook up with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Wanna See What Average Couples Look Like? Check Out the Crowd at Your Local ZooDude had to have money. He was ugly as fuck and looked like Adam 22, not sure if you know who is that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 04:39 PM |
| 3 | For guys who want an active woman, why and what does that mean to you?Also IIRC Lizzo is trying to lose weight because she knows it is terrible for her. But, media don't wanna lose their fat champion lol. Being fat is not good. It fucks over not only the person but people who pay taxes because all the resources used up in the u.s.a limited health care system. Prices just go up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 03:56 PM |
| 2 | Wanna See What Average Couples Look Like? Check Out the Crowd at Your Local ZooOLD was the worst thing create for men followed by OF lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 01:48 PM |
| 2 | Wanna See What Average Couples Look Like? Check Out the Crowd at Your Local Zoothat does happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 08:31 PM |
| 5 | Wanna See What Average Couples Look Like? Check Out the Crowd at Your Local ZooThe best thing I love is I have a few friends who some how got married / dated up and still would cheat on them with the nastiest looking women. so crazy lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 08:31 PM |
| 16 | Wanna See What Average Couples Look Like? Check Out the Crowd at Your Local ZooMaybe for a normal person. When I say fit, I mean FIT. The women are 180+. Those are different life styles that would not match. Most times it is likely the other person put on a lot of weight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 05:44 PM |
| 16 | Wanna See What Average Couples Look Like? Check Out the Crowd at Your Local ZooWhich I am sure happens, but if you go to the gym and you see your s.o start down the obese path one would think they could help them out. Just often notice it is mostly women when I see this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 05:20 PM |
| 91 | Wanna See What Average Couples Look Like? Check Out the Crowd at Your Local ZooThe biggest thing I see normally is large women with really skinny or fit guy. Never understand how that works. Did see some really hot girl with some tall fat white guy who looked like the great value version of Adam 22. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Wanna See What Average Couples Look Like? Check Out the Crowd at Your Local Zoohahah twox sjw. I love it. Gonna have to use it. Also, anime women > all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 04:20 PM |
| 3 | Most PEOPLE are undateable. Women are just held to a lower standard when it comes to undateable behaviorSimps ruin it all. Guys, never simp. She won't fuck you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 03:18 PM |
| 3 | Why do you think (some) men are becoming attracted to this?Which is fine. But I think reading what you wrote it could be thought the other person does not have a voice. Long as you get their input IMO that is all that matters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 02:36 PM |
| 3 | Why do you think (some) men are becoming attracted to this?Or here is a crazy thought both people can talk about it. I tend to have the authority, but always has my S.O for input. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 02:24 PM |
| 3 | Why do you think (some) men are becoming attracted to this?I don't think a men or a women wants someone who is going to be a pain in the ass and challenge you on everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Dating as a whole is much easier for women.hahah you ain't dead, anything can happen. Just smile and make eye contact if someone is nice to you. You know what to do, but really just make sure you are happy. Dating can be overrated by some. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Dating as a whole is much easier for women.Sorry to hear that. From what I have seen weight has never stopped women I know from getting nibbles in the dating market. Is it possible you just don't like the men who are giving you the nibbles? One challenge I have seen from Male / Female work out buddies getting back to the gym is men will see gains sooner and larger than most females. Just know that and try to not let it mess with your head as if you are not doing something right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 02:40 PM |
| 6 | Dating as a whole is much easier for women.Fucking simps ruin everything. Always been an issue, but shit is just dumb now due to online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Dating as a whole is much easier for women.Do you have an idea as why you can't get a date? Have to tried to change whatever you think that problem is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 01:52 PM |
| 0 | Women will not make you happy and you should not make them your sole source of happinessThe problem is most people can't be happy on their own, how is it likely someone else will make you happy all the time. A partner should be an extension of yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 04:29 PM |
| -1 | The women who end up as single "cat ladies" are usually not the typical hot, party girlI think as most people think they are happy until they are not. I know a few cat ladies who loved being a cat lady and wanted nothing to do with kids and a family. Once they turned 38 something happened to them and really wanted a kid strongly. It was strange. I think this happens the most to people, they are currently happy with whatever they were doing until one day, they are lonely and want a change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 03:50 PM |
| 2 | Women can be borderline autistic, even mentally and socially retarded and they will still be able to get guys, have dating options, overall, still be able to get into a relationship, but not so much the other way around.A women with light autism who is sensitive to sounds / light but is high functioning would have zero problems drumming up interest from males. Meanwhile normal guys who are socially awkward are like the plague to most women. Let me guess, I am sure you think women have less options in the dating market lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 01:25 PM |
| 3 | Women can be borderline autistic, even mentally and socially retarded and they will still be able to get guys, have dating options, overall, still be able to get into a relationship, but not so much the other way around.Normal guys have issues getting into a relationship, you think ones with mental issues won't have more problems? Being a female it leads to more options. I did not say those options would be perfect or good, but they have to choice to have people approach them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 03:16 PM |
| 2 | Women can be borderline autistic, even mentally and socially retarded and they will still be able to get guys, have dating options, overall, still be able to get into a relationship, but not so much the other way around.I think the point OP is trying to make is they have options. They have a choice of having a relationship. While men with this issue don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 01:13 PM |
| 2 | Women can be borderline autistic, even mentally and socially retarded and they will still be able to get guys, have dating options, overall, still be able to get into a relationship, but not so much the other way around.No, I think it is not about standards just some guys are so desperate for female attention they will take anything or do anything. I wish I could run test with an average guy on how much female interaction they get in a normal day. From talking to women or them smiling and engaging talking to the man etc. I feel like looks plays a part, but how much of it really. How much is it men are terrible at reading other people or have zero ability to chat someone up. Yesterday at the gym one of the worke… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 01:12 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Women DO have varied taste, but it’s not anywhere near as unique as they think. Men would do best to adhere to the “fundamentals”I know tons of girls who are 19-25 that fall into that. I run into lots of young women and half of them kinda have a lot of those point of views. I will say it depends on where you live. So, if you interview lots of women who are in LA or MIA. That video those girls are from all over the U.S. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 05:05 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Women DO have varied taste, but it’s not anywhere near as unique as they think. Men would do best to adhere to the “fundamentals”This is video came out a few months ago, I thought they would all come from rich families etc... but none of them were. The worst one was a normal girl from Cleveland Ohio and she was that crazy blond who wanted a 1.5 million$ car. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 04:41 PM |
| 2 | CMV : Women DO have varied taste, but it’s not anywhere near as unique as they think. Men would do best to adhere to the “fundamentals”Yeah because watching 10k women on videos would be less than talking to 100 people lmao. I have talked over to thousands of girl / women. I see / notice a lot of common ground on what I see in most these videos. Women say they want x, but they only go after y. Perfect example, looks are not important, but only are interested in hot guys. You can do both. But, I guess you are not smart enough to understand anything. Got it. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qF_QvXXyGnU | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 03:50 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Women DO have varied taste, but it’s not anywhere near as unique as they think. Men would do best to adhere to the “fundamentals”I used two shows as an example. There are thousands of shows out there and I listen and watch a lot. More than your average person. I hear what these average women are saying they want. I tend to watch a lot of Destiny as he is pretty based and goes on every type of show. Button and Courtney Ryan have really mid women on their show. Once they start talking about what they are looking for in a man and listen to their wants they hear how crazy it sounds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 03:47 PM |
| -1 | CMV : Women DO have varied taste, but it’s not anywhere near as unique as they think. Men would do best to adhere to the “fundamentals”Wait, how is that any different than women going on these shows like FnF or whatever saying what men want? lmao. It is the same. I think men are very clear on what they want. Most women are not because they don't want to seem shallow or vain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 03:31 PM |
| 2 | I regularly see women say on here that men overrate their own appearance, but women are guilty of this to a significantly higher degree.The problem is men take terrible pictures with no effort. Women take fake pictures with too much effort lol. Both sides need to adjust. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/23 07:42 PM |
| 6 | I'm a passport bro. Ask me anything.Triple header. At the start of tinder this would happen often. Shit was crazy back then. When people used tinder for what it was. Instead of looking for friend to hang out with lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 04:25 PM |
| – | You wanna know why it’s hard for men to find casual sex? I’ll tell you why.I think OP is full of it. I would love for her to post details / pictures. I don't buy she is swiping right on these hundreds of guys. It has to just be normal guys DM'ing her copy paste. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/23 05:02 PM |
| – | You wanna know why it’s hard for men to find casual sex? I’ll tell you why.First of all, what you said some of the same things happen to men. Women lying with their age or messaging you even if you have your wanted age group or NO KIDS. That being said I would love to see / get data from you. Would be interesting to see what % of men you found attractive vs your red flags. Did those hundreds of men messaging you match with you? So that meant you found them attractive. How many of the men did you swipe on. You listed only a few you did not find physically attractive, th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/23 04:59 PM |
| 6 | Why do women really live in constant fear of men?I mean post COVID you can't trust anyone. Everyone seems to be off their rocker and you should always keep an eye on people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/23 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Men need to stop putting Women on a pedestal for pussy/brownie points & let them get more used to being humbleWon't happen too many guys that is all they know how to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 05:37 PM |
| 13 | I think the biggest problem in dating is that women are simply not honest about what they are attracted to, and despite the fact that men have learned this they are simply told: “so you’re going to tell an actual woman what she wants?” When men say never take dating advice from women.The best is when women were put on dating apps with a hot guys photo and they failed to get any matches. They thought they would know what to say and do to get women. Almost all of them failed and it was a wake up call to how hard it is. The youtube video is out there floating around. Not that old as well. Perfect example is on dating apps women hate when most guys first message is HI. But, most women say HI as their first message lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 07:57 PM |
| – | I think the biggest problem in dating is that women are simply not honest about what they are attracted to, and despite the fact that men have learned this they are simply told: “so you’re going to tell an actual woman what she wants?” When men say never take dating advice from women.Two x it was more unhinged fun. Almost as crazy as the Donald was. Most women give terrible advice because they are giving advice based on being a women and not a man. Saying things like wait for them to come to you does not work as a normal man. Things women can do to help men is tell them what red flags to not give or do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 07:54 PM |
| 5 | What is your unpopular opinion regarding your own gender that could make others call you a gender traitor?It is crazy. I love how the news just pushes love yourself instead of get off your ass and stop eating your feelings. idiocracy is going to be soon. Maybe by 2040 or so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 06:39 PM |
| 6 | What is your unpopular opinion regarding your own gender that could make others call you a gender traitor?If only if could be so simple lol. I feel the U.S government should pay people who are fit. Pay them like 500$ a month. That money would be cheaper than all the money spent on healthcare from obese people. Kinda like how it was cheaper to give homeless people a home and resources vs how much they used via hospital and emergency services. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 02:26 PM |
| 10 | What is your unpopular opinion regarding your own gender that could make others call you a gender traitor?Pretty much how it is when you go overseas lol. Like crazy how you never see any obese people. Like maybe 1 out of 20 or 30 people. But, in America shit is like 6/10 lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 02:16 PM |
| 15 | What is your unpopular opinion regarding your own gender that could make others call you a gender traitor?I feel like what you said can be put on to most american men / women lol. Majority of men and women are unfit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 02:12 PM |
| 26 | What is your unpopular opinion regarding your own gender that could make others call you a gender traitor?Damn what you said is 100% this girl I know. I introduced her to a guy I am friends with. They hit it off and she tried to hide the fact she has a low sex drive and lied about having sex because he was attractive and had a great job. He checked a lot of boxes for her. He later found out about her issue and she tried to become a victim saying it was not fair for guys to not want to date her because of her not being interested in sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 02:11 PM |
| 1 | What’s worse: being an overweight woman or a broke man?Umm, you are not hungry lmao. Your body adjusts after a few days. It will fully break down everything. Go read about I.F. Drinking water at night helps for those times you want to eat something, but you should be drinking water all day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 01:18 PM |
| 1 | What’s worse: being an overweight woman or a broke man?Intermittent fasting is a great way to keep your weight in check. Eat at 9 am stop eating at 5 pm. Eat what the fuck you want. Follow those rules, drink water = lose weight. I have test weight loss on myself using a few methods and all methods work, some easier than others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 07:44 PM |
| 1 | What’s worse: being an overweight woman or a broke man?How? Being a women and heavy is not the end of the world. I am talking women who are like what the person said, skinny waist big butt and boobs. For example current ninki minjaj size. She is fat currently, but has a pretty face and people find her attractive. Not my thing, but there is a large market. Mama June is not attractive, but even when Adele was heavy, she was still pretty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 07:42 PM |
| 3 | What’s worse: being an overweight woman or a broke man?People are fucking lazy. Losing weight is very easy. You don't even need to diet. You just need self control. Just not eating anything after 5pm would be more than enough to lose weight. But you have fuck people eating half a bag of oreos before bed washing it down with 40 oz of code red. Knowing how to eat is hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 05:39 PM |
| 2 | What’s worse: being an overweight woman or a broke man?Being a women and thick is not bad. There is a difference in being Mama June vs Adele (was). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 05:11 PM |
| 2 | What’s worse: being an overweight woman or a broke man?100% some people don't even really try to lose weight. Like the shit is easy as fuck. Get up, go work out. Don't eat food after 5 pm. People have zero willpower. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 05:01 PM |
| 2 | In dating, whats the biggest - men/women say they want X, but their actions suggest otherwise?Women who only care about personality, then point out none of the guys that talk to them are attractive. lmao a story as old as time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 01:11 PM |
| 1 | CMV: "Approaching women" is dumb and a waste of time.OP if the appearance was not important those APPs which had no pictures would have taken off. But, the fact is for most people appearance is what matters most. Others will try to come up with BS, but people are less forgiving on looks than other things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 03:56 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Missing out on teen love as a male can be hugely detrimental in later years while courting a woman.I am not so sure about that. Men are much more likely to have interest in a women they might not find perfect or super hot. I really think both sides are just bad at reading singles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 12:36 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Missing out on teen love as a male can be hugely detrimental in later years while courting a woman.Yea, not sure younger guys will be able to get battle tested. More younger males are super disconnected at a younger age and now being taught not to talk to women unless you were asked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 12:34 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Most men would be content with women at least acknowledging how atrocious dating has become for males, rather than gaslighting them and insisting it was invariably something they were doing wrong or that it was their “personality.”Hinge and bumble. Plus there is a new app every few months that becomes the new must check out. Also add in the fact tons of girls do it for just the boost to confidence. Just let guys swipe on them and never plan on meeting or talking to them. Colleges have more women in them now than ever before. Most ladies are not interested in guys are not in college. So, when you go to a college that is 70/30 not like there are enough guys in the social circles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 04:38 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most men would be content with women at least acknowledging how atrocious dating has become for males, rather than gaslighting them and insisting it was invariably something they were doing wrong or that it was their “personality.”I don't know why women are putting up this act, maybe because older women are scared to lose the control.. I have no clue. But, younger men starting to grow up during teenage years are fucked lol. RIP! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 02:28 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Most men would be content with women at least acknowledging how atrocious dating has become for males, rather than gaslighting them and insisting it was invariably something they were doing wrong or that it was their “personality.”Younger people are not meeting / dating through social circles like other groups. Most guys are using apps, while young girls are filled with options. Why do you think the apps are such high numbers lol. Younger guys are taught it is toxic to approach a girl and most younger guys are terrible at reading body language. Add those two things in you start seeing a lot of the issues we see now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 02:27 PM |
| 13 | CMV: Most men would be content with women at least acknowledging how atrocious dating has become for males, rather than gaslighting them and insisting it was invariably something they were doing wrong or that it was their “personality.”I think most of these women are living in the past. Most younger women have all the cards. Women are the choice makers in the dating market, leaders and large % in college and higher education. This leads to more women being hired to companies. Shit is going to change hugely in the next 5-8 years. The newly gap with men and women is only going to get larger for now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 01:11 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Most men would be content with women at least acknowledging how atrocious dating has become for males, rather than gaslighting them and insisting it was invariably something they were doing wrong or that it was their “personality.”You are wrong they do. There have been test done over and over and over again. People using profiles of models and getting 3-4 likes a day when a women who is a 3-4 gets 3x4 times that. OLD is mostly men with some areas having up to 80+% of their user base being men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 01:07 PM |
| 2 | Not many women seek casual sex, but it takes just each of them having a on-and-off with the top % men for 20/80 rule to work.I know tons of attractive men who go for easy hookups at bars or night events. This is pretty much proven. The odds are much higher for an attractive man to go down pull an avg girl and hookup. Where a more attractive girl might take more effort. Attractive women pretty much can do whatever they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 04:51 PM |
| 2 | Not many women seek casual sex, but it takes just each of them having a on-and-off with the top % men for 20/80 rule to work.That is not true. The guys who are higher are not interested in just one women, they have tons of options and most times guys are not going to give up their Ace card to a lower level person. Just because a women can attract easy sex does not mean they are attractive. Not sure you noticed but men will sleep with almost anything. They won't date just anything. So for men their attraction is based on women talking / sex to a women. Women attraction is better off judge on what men would date her. Be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Not many women seek casual sex, but it takes just each of them having a on-and-off with the top % men for 20/80 rule to work.Both can be true as they can both happen. If a women is dating up, say she is a 5, but sleeping with a guy who is 8. She is one of many ladies this guy is sleeping with. She is part of the harem and doing hypergamy. She is not interested in guys who are in her range 4-6. The problem is people think those chads are out there sleeping with women nonstop. Maybe a few rich dudes, but to the average girl that is not happening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 04:15 PM |
| 4 | Not many women seek casual sex, but it takes just each of them having a on-and-off with the top % men for 20/80 rule to work.hypergamy and what I posted are NOT the same. Maybe you are confused on the term. If there are 10 girls hypergamy is saying 8 out of the 10 girls are only interested in dating the same select few guys. Even if the guys are above being their equal by a lot. It is possible the top 2 guys could be dating or talking to a few of the ladies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 03:10 PM |
| 12 | Not many women seek casual sex, but it takes just each of them having a on-and-off with the top % men for 20/80 rule to work.I said AVG. A poly women is not the average or normal. So, that would include your super small % example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 02:10 PM |
| 4 | Not many women seek casual sex, but it takes just each of them having a on-and-off with the top % men for 20/80 rule to work.Most women are not interested in having men on rotation. It takes a lot to feel safe with a man. It is not that they can't, just the avg women who does not post on reddit is not interested in sleeping with 6 dudes. While if most men were given that option they would likely act on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 02:08 PM |
| 2 | realising that the pool of suitable men for marriage is dwindling rapidly in your 30s it's the female equivalent of the shock that the redpill causes in menI don't any guy who is delusional like how some women can be. When you see women on whatever or anything online.... How many times do you see, I am a 10. Most guys know when they are average. Most women don't know when they are mid at best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 01:11 AM |
| 2 | realising that the pool of suitable men for marriage is dwindling rapidly in your 30s it's the female equivalent of the shock that the redpill causes in menNo you are confused. Men almost NEVER act higher then their sexual value market. Only women mostly do that. You got called out on something that is so often proven and just thought nobody would call you out on your BS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 08:52 PM |
| 1 | realising that the pool of suitable men for marriage is dwindling rapidly in your 30s it's the female equivalent of the shock that the redpill causes in menThat is not true AT ALL. They don't walk around like they are a 10. You have it confused for women. You are 100% wrong lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 12:39 PM |
| 8 | realising that the pool of suitable men for marriage is dwindling rapidly in your 30s it's the female equivalent of the shock that the redpill causes in menI think you are confused. If you ask a man what they are 1-10 they will say something normal like a 4-6. While most women will say 7-10. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 09:08 PM |
| 6 | realising that the pool of suitable men for marriage is dwindling rapidly in your 30s it's the female equivalent of the shock that the redpill causes in menI like how they say the wall is a myth. 100% it is not. I fucking hear girls start talking about this shit at 27. Both have the wall it is just different. My friend started to lose his hair at 30. Sad times for him. Gained weight, lost hair, neck fat... Shit wrecked him in the mind for a bit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 09:07 PM |
| 6 | realising that the pool of suitable men for marriage is dwindling rapidly in your 30s it's the female equivalent of the shock that the redpill causes in menI don't know. I have been watching a lot of my good female friends turn the big 30 and shit is like musical chairs. Everyone is looking for something and the shit is a good laugh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 09:05 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Men aren't assholes for treating you different after a rejectionThey are hoping that they can use some of those simp points lol. Most times they use their guy friends in the friend zone for stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 01:28 PM |
| 2 | As a straight man, being hit on by gay men is what it must feel like to be a woman being hit on all the time by men you're not attracted toSame. Some people are just so sensitive. Like, long as they are not touching you and being really aggressive. Kinda how so women complain about old men telling them about how nice their smile is. Older ladies often say I have a wonderful smile or such a nice smile. Take it as a compliment and move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 01:25 PM |
| 1 | As a straight man, being hit on by gay men is what it must feel like to be a woman being hit on all the time by men you're not attracted toLady boys take grouped to the next level lol. Friend went there not long ago and said they come at you like a pack of dogs lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 01:20 PM |
| 2 | Do You Think This Woman Was In The Wrong?It is nuts. the fact she is doing like a profile every 30 swipes an hour. for like 700 swipes in a day. wtf. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 04:59 PM |
| 2 | Do You Think This Woman Was In The Wrong?I understand and agree with you, but lets be real. Anyone who goes thru a small town amount of people and only find 200 "interesting" is a walking red flag lol. I bet zero of those guys are PoC. She screams the type of girls you see on tik tok from her area in Cali. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 04:54 PM |
| 2 | Do You Think This Woman Was In The Wrong?Right, but when you get a 9 or 10 just know there is a high chance a guy is just trying to live his best life. I mean 22 most dudes who would past her look test are just trying to get them cheeks. Not all. Just most. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Do You Think This Woman Was In The Wrong?She said in an area of another post looking for attractive guys. So, she knows what she is doing. When you fly to close to the sun, you get burned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Do You Think This Woman Was In The Wrong?she is the one picking fuck boys. She likes something about them. Must be their looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 02:48 PM |
| 3 | Do You Think This Woman Was In The Wrong?I mean, the fact she swiped 100k people and only found 200 people to talk to should be a red fucking flag. This girl is only looking for chads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 02:47 PM |
| 2 | Do You Think This Woman Was In The Wrong?That girl is fucking toxic lmao. She is pretty much the problem of dating apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Since we live in artificial times why don't we implement artificial solutions? Make a dating app which allows women 50 swipes per day while men are only allowed 1 swipe per day.because some men just right swipe all. Women most times don't do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 06:14 PM |
| 1 | How do you all have these PurplePillDebate conversations and not get depressed/triggered? Genuine question (New Here)Yeah it is super hard to find and con's most people are not looking to meet new friends. But, they have sometimes speed dating events and stuff like that which can be fun. Never had issues meeting new people at a con. Not sure if you have tried it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 05:31 PM |
| 3 | How do you all have these PurplePillDebate conversations and not get depressed/triggered? Genuine question (New Here)Do you have female friends who are into anime or girls you like who are into video games and anime? I would say finding attractive women who are into games / anime is the super hard thing to do. Never seen any dating apps have good filters to find those types. Dating apps are fucking shit to keep people using them. They need tons of filters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 04:12 PM |
| 5 | Why don't women understand that men have to work and have money?Or trucks and make 30k a year. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 05:29 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The fact that Red Pillers still want their daughters to be educated girlbosses is hypocriticalI know right. It gives them more tools to find a better partner. We can't help most young men don't go to college and live in their mom's basement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.bingo. But, this rule does not apply only to women. Right now it applies to all " small groups " or people not in power. For example, Person of Color, women, lgbtq, jewish people etc. Perfect example is israel and palestine conflict. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 01:24 PM |
| – | If it wasn't for sex, most men would not bother with women.There is a difference. The way I see it from the OP's side it can be seen as women harassed lol. A lot of women subs talk about so many times men are never really interested in being friends just hoping / waiting for their time to jump in and get lucky. A lot of simping dudes ruin things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 01:49 PM |
| 2 | The “don’t approach women IRL” is a zoomer thing…right?Damn, young dudes living in fear because of that shit lol. That sucks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 01:10 PM |
| 2 | The “don’t approach women IRL” is a zoomer thing…right?But, the best part was when Rose Mcgawen's friend molested an underage boy and she stopped doing the believe all victims lol. Kinda crazy how that works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 01:08 PM |
| 1 | The “don’t approach women IRL” is a zoomer thing…right?I think it just depends on people. I find people are terrible at reading others. If a person is disconnected from their surroundings I would just ignore them, but I have a very friendly face and get chatted up from women of all ages. If a person smiles and is pleasant shoot your shot. But, half the time younger guys don't have the social skills as our age group. It will only get worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 01:07 PM |
| 6 | Here are my dating hot takes. What are yours?modern dating is not worth the end picture. People would be better off enjoying their life doing shit they enjoy and if you run into someone cool. Stop wasting your time looking for mr/mrs right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Discussion : My theory as to why dating on apps is so hardI agree with you 100%. Their goal is to suck money out of people. Which is why the apps are shit. They know they can fuck men, women don't care. They go to the store and thirsty dudes will talk to them lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 01:09 PM |
| 3 | Discussion : My theory as to why dating on apps is so hardNot gonna lie, most dudes have shit profiles and shit pictures. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 07:59 PM |
| 6 | Discussion : My theory as to why dating on apps is so hardIt is good for some bad for people who have zero people skills and think it will be easy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 03:46 PM |
| 5 | Discussion : My theory as to why dating on apps is so hardThis is why nobody should be using them. They are a scam to get men addicted to pay and a lot of women enjoy the huge boost to their ego of how many men want them. It is bad for both sides. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Got a window into average woman's dating life. It was an absolute shockI don't know. If she is a 6, that is pretty avg and she is over weight some. Does not sound exceptional to me. But, I have higher standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Got a window into average woman's dating life. It was an absolute shockYeah. Maybe. I hope for future people they could get something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Got a window into average woman's dating life. It was an absolute shockNice. It was crazy to see how normal incalls and outcalls are. I went to NYC and was like damn people don't even seem to hide it. Eye opening once you see it. IMO it should all just be legal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Got a window into average woman's dating life. It was an absolute shockin the US lots of large women. https://youtu.be/TIQqdTsx07M?t=6 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Got a window into average woman's dating life. It was an absolute shockHow many people do you see and what is your price? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 03:26 PM |
| 3 | Got a window into average woman's dating life. It was an absolute shockThat is not what they are saying at all. He is saying the things an average women has access to is nuts. He is not saying this is what all average women do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Men should stop trying to rationalize and justify their body count preferences.Do you think an average joe would want to marry someone from that video? Or just wank / use them? You heard about that industry worker where their husband would not kiss or touch them after they got home from work. I don't think people have issues with a person who is dtf, it just puts them into a block of sex / fun instead of dating for a lot of guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 02:32 PM |
| 3 | How are short man supposed to date?I think it depends on the person. There is a large group of women who want someone really tall. My friend she is 5' and she always tries to date someone who is 6' +. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 02:23 PM |
| 1 | If she’s into you, it’s painfully obvious. If it’s ambiguous, you’re an option at best whether she’ll admit it or notRight, but people are not looking for dating people in IG. Tinder is one of the worst dating tools ever created for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 07:00 PM |
| 1 | If she’s into you, it’s painfully obvious. If it’s ambiguous, you’re an option at best whether she’ll admit it or notI feel like Tinder is worse IMO. OLD is largely guys. So if a 100 guys are on, there are like 20-30 women on looking at a small % of those guys. Likely only 15 or 20 would be listed as worthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 03:08 PM |
| -1 | If she’s into you, it’s painfully obvious. If it’s ambiguous, you’re an option at best whether she’ll admit it or notThis was before tinder. Dudes need to chill out. Stop simping. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 01:22 PM |
| 3 | If she’s into you, it’s painfully obvious. If it’s ambiguous, you’re an option at best whether she’ll admit it or notWish men would know how to play it cool and not message women nonstop. So many guys who get no attention always go full steam needy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 04:48 PM |
| 4 | “Whoever invites pays” is just a way for women to get out of saying “men should pay” (first dates)Lucky. Yeah, that is the same thing I would do. Friend gets stuck with the shitty date and is pissed off the whole time. When I see him I get all his frustration lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 01:45 PM |
| 2 | “Whoever invites pays” is just a way for women to get out of saying “men should pay” (first dates)If you meet up with them and it is cat fished pictures do you get up and leave? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 01:36 PM |
| 2 | “Whoever invites pays” is just a way for women to get out of saying “men should pay” (first dates)That is why more men are looking to find women from your country :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 01:29 PM |
| 3 | “Whoever invites pays” is just a way for women to get out of saying “men should pay” (first dates)You better be a hottie and better look like your pictures. Or I gotta go check on my dog. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 01:27 PM |
| 7 | “Whoever invites pays” is just a way for women to get out of saying “men should pay” (first dates)Coffee always. Most times it is just one and always under 10 bucks. Ice cream is a solid second choice as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Can someone rationalise men wanting virgins but not being willing to wait for sexCurrently young college girls are out there having fun. Which is fine, just they are hooking up way more than it seems other groups. Before Fran type was not normal, now it is happening more often. Was watching button the other day and this girl was 19 and slept with like 200+ guys. Most of the girls who were 19-20 slept with 20+ dudes which is not normal for other times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Can someone rationalise men wanting virgins but not being willing to wait for sexThere is nothing wrong with someone hooking up. Some people are just not interested in a person who just snowballed 4 dudes. I knew this one girl in college named Fran. I went out with her and her friend to party. We hit up 3-4 parties and I saw her taken to a few bedrooms that night with dudes. She was drunk and tried to kiss me later that night and got rejected. Fran type is someone I would never touch. Don't be Fran. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 05:33 PM |
| 10 | Why isn't the plight of unattractive women ever talked about?Yah, I love when people say oh men would just want to use them for sex and dump them. If an ugly women gave an ugly guy the time a day who get no attention why would they treat someone like shit who gives them attention??? You have ugly women trying to date up and the guys who have a higher sex value likely only see them a short term fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 03:26 PM |
| 3 | Why isn't the plight of unattractive women ever talked about?This is not true at all. There are tons of men who date and sleep with ugly women. I see it more often where overweight white women dating really fit black men. Being ugly and a women is still better than being ugly and ignored ugly man. Just because you don't get what you want, does not mean you are ignored. Some options are better than zero. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 03:23 PM |
| 2 | Slut shaming is bad, but what's the actual appeal of being a promiscuous woman?Some people can feel terrible after sex. For example friend hooks up with a large women and hit with that regret. Sure women have that feeling with hooking up with scummy dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 02:38 PM |
| 1 | How can an average-looking dude inspire visceral attraction in women!?Some men just need to learn normal hygiene. Hair cuts, clean face or well kept facial hair. Clean fitting clothes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 02:28 PM |
| 1 | How can an average-looking dude inspire visceral attraction in women!?See that is part of the problem. When everyone tries to use OLD you can't get an idea of any of that and most of the time that really matter on a profile is looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 02:26 PM |
| 2 | The elephant in the room is the libido gap between men and womenI don't know, he is a small asian passive guy who married an average white women. I think he is pretty happy lol. It is not like most women would find him attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 05:29 PM |
| 10 | The elephant in the room is the libido gap between men and womenIf anything a large amount of women are taking anti-depressants and it for sure messes up a lot of things. I had a female friend and she had libido issues, like ZERO and she took drugs. She would hide it from every guy she would date. We would tell her how unfair that was and shady. She was like, no guy would date me or talk to me once they find out zero sex is going to happen. RIP for the guy who married her. She found a passive asian guy who her friends called a pet rock because he pretty much… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 04:13 PM |
| 4 | Age gaps don't matter. Attraction does.I don't think you understand the rules. To answer your question Yes. Older women are attractive. When they are attractive, most of them date younger men. If a man is older and attractive, if he can date younger women he will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 02:46 PM |
| 0 | Age gaps don't matter. Attraction does.You are thinking of your area. College in USA males have been dropping out of college or forgoing college all together. Most colleges are moving towards 60/40 with a large amount of liberal colleges moving into the 70/30 split. Most women are not interested in dating a guy who has not went to college. No. I watch tons of content online from button etc I am listening to what they say. Dating someone who is 30 is much better than dating someone who is 22. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 02:18 PM |
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