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CMVTripleawge/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 12:30 PM
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CMVTripleawge/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 10:33 PM
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DebateTripleawge/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 06:13 AM
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CMVTripleawge/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:31 PM
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DebateTripleawge/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 06:46 PM
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DiscussionTripleawge/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:18 AM
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DebateTripleawge/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 12:33 AM
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DiscussionTripleawge/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:48 PM
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DiscussionTripleawge/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 12:20 AM
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CMVTripleawge/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 06:33 PM
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DiscussionTripleawge/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 09:23 PM
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Question for BluePillTripleawge/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 10:11 PM
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CMVTripleawge/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 01:28 PM
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DebateTripleawge/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 09:38 AM
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DebateTripleawge/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 04:01 PM
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DebateTripleawge/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:15 PM
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It’s actually mind blowing how many people want to argue against the fact it even exists with many having vehement reservations about similar studies even being conducted today lol
/r/BlackPillScience24/07/25 10:17 PM
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See that actually requires having women who WANT to be around you and we all know the majority of men not married here don’t even have 1 like that🤣😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 12:16 PM
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You can remove it🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 12:11 PM
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I agree, this post is just about generating options in a man’s life (since that’s what the romanticless insist is wrong in theirs) and so anything moral or ethical or even really philosophical is not my intent on remotely commenting on. Im only here to lay out process that by which yield results
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 12:08 PM
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Im not redpill and guess how many children Floyd has cuz since it’s not 0 u clearly have no idea what the fuck ur talking about. Keep going tho
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 11:32 AM
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To think any of us care what u think of a man who is choosing to dedicate his time to further in pursuit of happiness reeks of such ego I don’t know where to begin…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 10:50 AM
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OP here said ANYONE can ABSOLUTELY work on being more attractive so I want to hear what the elephant man is going to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 10:48 AM
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So what do you suggest the Elephant man do to improve his looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 10:31 AM
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Yeah it’s always funny to me to watch people swear up and down that the Just World Fallacy really truly actually does hold up for them😂🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 10:18 AM
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Because these 4 things are largely still attainable while Looks requires a man to be genetically predisposed. These are strictly things that technically ANY man can have if he “really puts his mind to it”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 10:09 AM
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Factually false. I lost my virginity to the third hottest woman in my life I ever slept with and she was an upper 8 out of 10 almost low 9 and she wanted to be choked because (unbeknownst to me at the time) I was her rebound she never wanted to see again and just wanted someone to play out her sexual fantasy of treating her physically badly in bed after having been treated mentally poorly by her boyfriend of nearly 5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 09:24 AM
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With that mentality u really wonder why you are not Jeremy Dufrene
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 09:18 AM
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This the problem with this so called debate sub… the person u are responding to doesn’t even realize their anecdote does not actually contradict what OP said
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 02:25 AM
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So let’s take that and add that to my observations: I go to Ravens vs Bengals every year to see Mr white Shiesty vs Mr Black Shiesty (love that matchup) and guess what I have followed almost all the cheerleaders on social media (cuz I wanna see local hot girls on my timeline not the BS on clickbait ads) any guess on how many of them are dating the kind of men your statistically irrelevant (u can’t even run a regression cuz 5/36 is less than 15% so u can’t even calculate actual standard deviation…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 12:09 AM
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There doesn’t need to be 4-5 Black Presidents the 1 is 1 more than any other minority. That being said you would have a point if EVERY cheerleader in the league was dating an ugly broke man but not even a significant plurality are. Keep it coming tho nimrod
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 12:03 AM
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And Obama isn’t the only black man to hit an office of high command in America
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 12:01 AM
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If Obama made it, racism must be over
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 11:59 PM
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The parents angle is soooo underrated I can literally split the line down the middle of which of my immigrant friends are in relationships: the ones with lax immigrant parents. All the rest have degrees, bank accounts, big status jobs and no relationship to speak of🤣😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 07:09 PM
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Nah Fuck Tate and Fuck his supporters. If u really wanna be hard come get an African Father and Mother that can slap you every time u so much as look at them wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 07:41 PM
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Check Houston and Austin. They have the tallest females of almost every ethnicity over there. Texas in general just seems bring em out
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:58 PM
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In the cities where population is 2 mil + surprisingly yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:35 PM
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I mean OP takes Andrew Tate seriously. What more evidence does anyone need that he is likely a loser to the Nth degree
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 03:37 PM
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This is why I despise Tate. He has just emboldened losers on the internet to masquerade as something more when in reality if any of them saw the kind of women I talk to on the regular in the street (I like mine over 6’3” fat ass and Double Ds) these guys would literally do everything in their power to become as small as humanly possible hike their man skirts up and walk to the other side of the street
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 03:36 PM
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10000% agree. I made a post on both qoves and CMV (couldn’t even post it here since it breaks this subs rules) on how race affects dating and u gotta see how people went nuts over it😂🤣😭
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 01:52 AM
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I agree. Soooo many gullible guys think they will turn into Adonis after a month or 1 of nofap lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 01:48 AM
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Seriously tho I wonder how many women are with a guy rn who is lying about how much porn he watches
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 11:08 PM
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Right because Accountability is always for the man never the woman😂🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 06:15 PM
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Lmao what do I have to boast about how my dick is literally so big it impedes my ability to sustain relationships or that I simply don’t take women seriously after many have lied to my face saying it wasn’t an issue only for the relationship to end because it actually is a problem for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 05:48 PM
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And yet you have the women madly dashing to downvote my comment u replied to and even peep the responses to it other than urs smh the internet be too revealing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 04:50 PM
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Take it from a man who’s so well endowed he can’t keep a serious relationship (as women are not into being in pain for 30 min to an hour every time they get horny if u catch my drift) women are liars and don’t actually know what they want even if they say it to you with all the conviction on the planet. Watch their actions not their words.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 02:23 PM
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Because of the particular Venacular YOU used especially DMs or do you know a bunch of alt chicks being called feminazis and Cunts in real life? If so I definitely want to know where this is at cuz I been at all the Bug Techno Raves on the East Coast this year and I ain’t seen none of the bull shit ur spewing here
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 03:22 PM
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Online Abuse does not equal those women can’t get laid or find some special someone to love them for “who they are” in real life… touch grass
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 01:32 PM
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Are you trying to say that because rainbow armpit hair women get hacked to death online in the comments section they somehow are unable to get men to smash and one sucker to commit in a relationship cuz if so then boy do u deserve to be in this sub🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 01:32 PM
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Yes but that’s an oversimplification: rich men can simply leverage their money the way handsome men leverage their looks or popular men their status.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 01:30 PM
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Because they inherently fail at it. Believe me as someone with a hypermasculine Father AND Mother I am fully prepared to admit that masculinity is very likely a genetic trait and not a social one
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 05:02 PM
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No. I am saying if u r ALREADY hot women will allow you to be as Patrick Bateman or Ted Bundy as your heart desires so long as you don’t bring work back home ofc
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 05:00 PM
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Because like that one viral video on YouTube says: I can’t fuck your personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:10 PM
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You know what’s hilarious, I used to live in Washington DC and the amount of women who I knew as friends and had told me they were extremely liberal and although claimed they refused to date MAGA men but still had an OPENLY supporting Trump BF was actually fairly high. Like I kid u not I personally know about 37 or so women who are in this dynamic rn
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 02:16 PM
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Having just left high school less than a whole decade ago, I can say unequivocally that there is a huge intersection between the men with the qualities and attributes needed to gain and retain relationships with women and Misgonysts. That also said all of these guys were at least baseline attractive for the area
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 04:33 AM
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1000% agree. I live in a place where a very specific kind of average looking men do well (those with mommy and daddy’s money + connections to provide the necessary boost to jumpstart their life) and if you are avg to unattractive without that well the women on this sub can tell you where ur belong😂🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 10:47 PM
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JD Salinger is a PDF and a Hack.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 08:23 AM
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You should check the demographics survey of this sub. The majority of men here are over 30 and I don’t know too many above 30 that have no jobs, education, the ability to socialize as well as don’t take vacations and aren’t A: Gangbangers B: Pimps C: Felons
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 02:54 AM
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I have multiple sisters and no brothers, as well as by virtue of the fact that I went to a liberal arts college that transitioned from an All girls seminary into a liberal arts college around 120 years ago, and so had a ratio of 3 women to every 2 men, wholeheartedly believe that you should go outside and talk to more women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 02:51 AM
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People’s online presence ESPECIALLY in an online space that allows said people to remain anonymous whilst interacting with others means that they are simply more comfortable to act as they would in private. This means that I significantly doubt your point as I assume that this sub has brought out the extremists, firebrand puritans, reactionaries, and trolls aka all people who I assure you are not saying a word about the things they say here to a soul in the real world… Also I’m pretty sure that …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 02:50 AM
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I 100% agree. The vast majority of men in the future have no clue that since a lot of them came from the womb of an an average to below average looking woman who might have made them with a semi attractive man (probably not) they will simply be unattractive enough to compete
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 02:45 AM
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This actually made me laugh soooo hard😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 01:30 AM
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What I can’t stand is when people say it’s morally wrong when this is just about objective principles playing out in real time. Im sure most people have no clue that Bananas 1,000 years ago were not Yellow but were purposefully bred by humans to look that way at a later point
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 03:58 PM
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Im an economist by schooling and simply made an economic observation. If your opinion is to view the analysis as Whining don’t fucking read it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 02:30 PM
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I would simply describe myself as enigma, an anathema, and absolutely un-relatable. A girl wants to date me cuz Im hot. They like the abs, height, muscle, clean face, and long hair. The relationships just about always end after they get to know me and realize I really just don’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 02:14 AM
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I never argued that it wasn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 11:55 PM
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Women have gone on dates with me to the strip club and my ex and only LTR ever loved going there with me so uh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 07:51 PM
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You’re misunderstanding the core argument. No one is upset that women have standards, nor that some women aren’t interested in casual sex. The frustration stems from the asymmetry in expectations where average men are still expected to perform like traditional providers (planning, paying, emotional labor), while average women benefit from modern cultural shifts that grant them elite tier sexual attention thanks to social media and dating apps. This isn’t about “not getting the top 5%.” It’s abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 07:24 PM
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Casual sex is in my post. Reread and get back to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 04:41 PM
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Here are the studies on casual sex also for the record I do not agree at all with the person u are replying to when they say “overwhelming majority” especially since as a Gen Z male I can assure u a significant plurality of women in my cohort are conservative and are def not having casual sex. Fisher, H. E., Garcia, J. R., & Garcia, J. R. (2012). “Sexual Hookup Culture: A Review.” Review of General Psychology, 16(2), 161–176. This academic review synthesizes a range of studies on college-age hoo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 04:26 PM
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You’re pointing out a basic biological difference between men and women, which is already understood but that doesn’t address the structural imbalance in dating. The problem isn’t men having low standards. The problem is a dating marketplace where most women inflate their standards due to artificial validation from social media, while men face rejection from even the women they used to be evenly matched with. Also Men are willing to date down. Women generally aren’t. That’s the whole issue: asym…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 04:19 PM
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Yes… Im actually done complaining tho, this post is a send off of sorts cuz Im going to have a lot less free time on my hands now that Im moving to NY
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 04:16 PM
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You know as an economist this made me chuckle… take my angry upvote
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:55 PM
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This is the problem with trying to make assumptions on me without knowing a clue about me: look through my post history. You will find no complaints from me about getting sex from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:16 PM
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Thank you for the honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:15 PM
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You’re missing the point. It’s not about how many likes most women get it’s about how easily accessible validation has reshaped expectations across the board. Even average women now see what top-tier women receive (private DMs, lavish trips, endless male attention), and that visibility trickles down, influencing how they expect to be treated even if their own status doesn’t match. That’s how social media works: it distorts the perceived dating market, not through individual fame, but through her…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 02:26 PM
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Unfortunately I like drugs, and so I only choose to live in places with easy access to them crossed with low rate of arrests for it🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 01:50 PM
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Agreed I am hell bent and working on moving to the Mecca of America before EOY
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 01:44 PM
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I live in the city voted the most romantic in America. If you aren’t doing the spending here you aren’t dating women Period full stop. When I decided I know longer would pay for women, big coincidence I now use Escorts instead of just being celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 01:35 PM
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There are no I statements pertaining to me in what I said above. Stop trying to figure out anything personally about me from it. Believe me you will not get far in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 01:32 PM
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I have had many many many relationships end due to honesty yet none due to being caught lying. Hence why I have to agree with u here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 01:27 PM
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There are no I statements above except Simping and I like to call it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 01:25 PM
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Lmfao I like how people downvote a next to neutral statement. “If only u think this woman is avg don’t court her” I never said I was forcing any woman to be with me or that I was forced into being with any woman. That also goes for your no one is forcing women statement as well. It’s almost as like I didn’t write a self anecdote and yet everyone’s rebuttal is just a bunch of assumptions about me personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 08:20 AM
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In my specific case: I have been on around 60 or so dates with about 25 women in the past 5 years. Outside of the 1 long term GF I had in there I paid for Meals EVERY TIME, I planned and paid for non eating dates EVERY TIME, I paid for the car to drive and gas in said car EVERY TIME, I made sure to give a lot of gifts and never ask for any in return EVERY TIME. In fact there was even 1 girl I saw 2x casually which I did the above for and she actually had the nerve to call me up and ask me for re…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 08:15 AM
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The only thing I think you’re right about is I have taken my wares to sex work.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 06:41 AM
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Touch grass there’s no one making these complaints in the real world
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 06:38 AM
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It most definitely is a case of demand outstripping supply
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 06:38 AM
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This is a pretty typical Reddit moralism loop: “If you don’t like women’s standards, then just accept rejection and move on.” Cool. That’s literally what I (and many others) did. Most men aren’t mad that women have standards some are simply noticing that the standards are wildly inflated, asymmetrical, and disconnected from what those same women offer in return. Also not talking about women “settling” for broke, toxic dudes… talking about: 5/10 women demanding 9/10 men Expecting traditional cour…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 06:34 AM
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Lmao like wtf did OP’s rant have to do with anything😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:04 PM
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Red Pill Men are simply older men realizing that they have wasted their youth chasing the bag and ‘Happy Wife Happy Life’ If you meet Gen Z men the majority of us who live in a City are trying to looksmax as heavily as possible full stop end of discussion. Most Gen Z do not even discuss any RP nonsense beyond stacking plates, $bills, and women. Then there are the County Country folk and they will actually épouse virtually ALL the red pill tenets and beliefs (even tho I would be willing to bet th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 04:09 AM
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You need to understand that as a 5’5” white guy your best bet is to just go to a country with the same avg height as yours, cuz there are plenty of them and as long as u are fine with mixed children you will eventually find what you want there… As an ethnic who has not been out of the US yet in his life (I am working on getting the funds up for it) it boggles my mind how any of the mayo variety stay here if they have it hard when there are PLENTY of places willing to make it much easier for u
/r/BlackPillScience02/05/25 11:34 PM
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Your last sentence is an oxymoron. A prerequisite implies causation yet you affirm niceties cannot lead to sex. AA:African American
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 09:20 PM
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I listed no study. You stated only rich and powerful men can act awful and get women. Once provided with evidence contradicting that look how your argument changes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 09:05 PM
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Anything in common between all of those men? SERIAL PHILANDERING WOMANIZERS
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 09:03 PM
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Ted Bundy Jeffrey Dahmer Richard Ramirez Charles Manson Any guesses on how many of them were rich and powerful? I’ll give you a hint:
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 09:01 PM
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Name 10 Celebrities that were famous in 1953
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 08:54 PM
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Im glad you asked. None of those things matter. If they mattered after his 3rd wealthy wife who divorced him for philandering no other wealthy woman with as many suitors as an actress would have would be so inclined to even get near him let alone date and marry -and oh wait he was on his 5th marriage to such a woman on his deathbed in his mid 50s. Im going to put it like this all the qualities you just listed are qualities I would use to describe my friend’s Labdoodle mix, and I can’t name a sin…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 08:49 PM
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Name women more high value than effectively a princess, the Heiress To the Duke (yes the same one the University is named after) fortune, The heiress to the Woolworth Estate, the 60s equivalent of Monica Belluci or The Ava Gardner…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 08:16 PM
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Answer my question and stop beating around the bush
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 06:41 PM
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An assertion made by an observation: The Man only slept with high value women. Now riddle me this o Wise one how many High Value women do you know that will personally sleep with let alone Marry a Low Value Man? And is that number above 5?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 06:29 PM
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Why are you saying this to me😂 Tell the High Value Women he slept with that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 06:25 PM
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You really said this after your response to my post
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 06:20 PM
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Im not responding with anything sensible after “Don’t Matter” So here’s a funny Gif:
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 06:17 PM
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Keep in mind I never said this advice is for every man🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 05:36 PM
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Who told you women don’t date me… certainly not me😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 05:33 PM
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and even so he never ran out of replacements
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 05:28 PM
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• Rubi is not hypergamous his father was a high ranking government official (in a country notorious for corruption), and naturally he was raised like the offspring of such so it only makes sense he chased after actresses and heiresses his whole adult life (they are all people of status) •I have never once argued against female hypergamy on this sub. I am West African by blood and American by birth so I have been taught a LOT about soft eugenics, hard eugenics and everything in between and due to…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 05:21 PM
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All I’ll say is that this advice is definitely not for most men and ANY man who wants to become the coveted status of HVM needs to realize that when choosing to become that they are actually actively choosing to be as different as humanly possible to at least 90% of ALL men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 05:12 PM
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Full disclosure I am moving to the Bronx this summer cuz of some Dominican women🥶
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 04:07 PM
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I would go so far to say that being Attractive in a man is a terrible predictor of whether he will cheat… the better predictors are his pattern of behavior in the past when he has vs has not had a lot of resources and his personal belief in whether or not a ‘soul-mate’ exists/ethics around that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:18 PM
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I’m African and so know a lot about this socio-political set up; Polygamy is the law of the land and wealth is a fundamental reflection of how determined your kin are to make sure that they are above as many people as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:39 PM
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The almighty apex fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:33 PM
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If you ask the women from this specific podcast to describe what are the defining traits of the 1 attractive man I would bet a lot of money they would give a lot of personality traits and behaviors they will “imply” he might have (like: “oh he is chivalrous, kind, and empathetic) meanwhile by their own admission it’s likely most of them have not and will not ever talk to the guy (fear of “losing” since it’s a clear competition for the ladies) and so have next to no idea what the guy is really li…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:27 PM
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The Tesla stock vote prediction personally opened my eyes to the severity of the Reddit Bias. The week leading into the vote there was not 1 trending Elon related post that didn’t have an overwhelming opinion he would not get the votes needed to win and then crickets after the results
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:38 PM
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On the North east coast people are not going to just let any Tom dick and Harry waltz up to their group at the club and then assist them in obtaining the contact info of the eligible bachelorettes of said group when at the club
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:56 AM
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The race to the bottom will continue… personally I have met too many men that would sacrifice everything if it got them more female attention
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 02:01 PM
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We aren’t talking about conservative men. Op said ALL 4 billion women on earth ban together for one another. Nothing you have said has proven op’s dumb point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 06:49 AM
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Re-read the question
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 06:42 AM
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If women have such deep emotional bonds why are Conservative movements that have platforms taking away women’s rights in every country that currently allows women to vote gaining more popularity with said (women) voters than ever before?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 06:19 AM
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Realizing that you as you are as a man isn’t good enough vs if you were a woman is the only real pill imo. If this whole thing is an analogy to The Matrix then the big separating factor is that unlike if you took the blue pill in the movie you simply woke up and forgot the Matrix is everything but in the real world there is no blue pill like that. Instead you have to live with the knowledge that life is inherently unfavorable to a man in this 1 aspect and they must decide where to go from there.…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 06:10 AM
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It’s definitely because you are not American. Speaking as someone who was born into an immigrant community in the U.S. Political Correctness is tantamount to godliness meaning if whatever you are about to say is controversial you will be heavily penalized for saying it in public. The U.S. is not a place where fat/ugly people get called that to their face instead you are simply sorted into a group of equally obese people and you all enjoy life. This is why the majority of Mass shootings in The US…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 05:57 AM
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lol what are you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 05:43 AM
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I think you highlighted the real problem with modern America as a whole; too many people are not online to actually learn anything new that could transform their life. Instead people get online to be apart of a like minded community and enjoy the feeling of having personal thoughts, ideas, and opinions being validated by their in-group.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 09:33 PM
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Honestly what I would argue is that is intimacy is the need and sex is simply apart of that. Having been out of college 4 years now I can safely say that you can split a lot of men based on whether they are good or bad without consistent intimacy. Some men will literally kill their relationships with Family and Friends if it means consistent intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 02:48 AM
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You know what’s funny is your comment was downvoted but as an AA man who worked on every aspect of himself to be desirable and lives in an area where less than 1/6th of the population is AA it is fairly accurate. The only caveat I would add is that AA men who become really successful at pretty much anything financially advantageous will be extremely picky about who they get in an actual long term relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 01:38 AM
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Most average men may not think they will but out of necessity the vast majority will eventually do that. Since The 2000s the majority of Americans have been categorically obese so logically all the obese people (with the exception of a few who get better looking ones) pair up with the other obese people since most non-overweight people aren’t exactly thrilled with dating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 11:53 PM
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The 2nd point you made is exactly why Billie Eilish said that line about ugly guys Men need to understand that for the overwhelming majority there’s no woman coming to be your special someone and save you in any capacity. If you want a woman you will have to work on absolutely everything about yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:08 PM
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The math supports women having a preference of 2-4 years of age difference; a study found that, as supported by other academic studies, most men preferred younger, "attractive" women, while most women, of any age, preferred successful, established men their age or older
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 01:59 PM
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The mods have been on a tear lately taking down one of the only posts to ever actually include an experiment with a real and relevant hypothesis
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 01:50 PM
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Any internet site that is hosting communications for everyone to publicly see is a social media network.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:03 PM
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You are stating an assumption (if male felons are bad the non-felon women who date them must also be bad) as though it is a fact of life like the Moon gets farther from Earth every year. The reality is that people date Felons. Not good or bad just people. The thinking you present is exactly what most of the men who are single suffer from; a terrible combination of Gambler’s Fallacy and Just World Fallacy. Dating is irregular and random. There are ways to increase a man’s odds at success but at t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:10 AM
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Just world at work again😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:59 AM
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As a guy who was went from average looking to above average looking in like 2 years between 18 and 20, all I will say is there are plenty of men who were/are/will be brutally punished for developing attraction over time in the modern era. This happens a lot for men who (like I once did) really believe or need a friendship before relationship and after a few tries of that realize plenty of women see that as “Trojan-horsing” and just using friendship as a means to an end.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:01 PM
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If the OP is referring to Blissful Ignorance as the social reward then they are definitely not serious
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 12:40 AM
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Definitely what shocked me the most leaving college in 2020. All these places people kept saying that single people would show up to in droves before the Pandemic never really looked like that after. Personally I live on the East coast sandwiched between 2 decent size cities and in the 2 years I used the Meetup App from ‘21 to ‘23 basically every social event was dominated by Middle-aged people. You could generally count on 5 or less Millennials showing up and never more than 2 people under 27.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:47 PM
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Raves, Adult intramural sports, paint and sip, Trivia nights (mostly at bars), and Museum galas (one of the few black tie events people under 30 show up to) are all dominated by couples nowadays (speaking from experience so obviously this is anecdotal) yet they are not only marketed by promoters as places for singles to meet other singles but people in relationships seem to enjoy putting people down when they argue how these events are nothing like what they used to be 10 or even 5 years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:01 PM
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Committed relationships are all about compatibility, and if you are viewing men who can consistently get sex (as you stated they are turning down relationships for just sex) you are viewing the very top of the pile so to speak. The men with more options and high body count is just as willing to wait for the woman they feel they are truly compatible with the same way women are content in being alone barring the man of their dreams miraculously enters their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 12:54 PM
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Love Hurts by Travis Scott
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 03:06 PM
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Just because you married someone intelligent does not make it a guarantee that your children will be intelligent. But let’s assume your children are born intelligent… no, say they are born extremely intelligent but they’re naturally intelligent in areas they have no interest in and so people (outside the family) around them constantly criticize them for displaying high aptitude along with high apathy towards improving in any meaningful way in said areas. Congrats, you now have children that are …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 03:03 PM
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Maybe in a country where the majority of the population still shits in holes in the ground, but for everywhere else where creature comforts (indoor plumbing, heating, AC, and electricity) are afforded to the majority of people, you will never see such phenomena as the push to radicalism only converts people who feel there is no other option (basically suicide would have to be a viable option in their head). In any first world nation there is generally just wayyy too many ways for individuals to …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 02:49 PM
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Yes, many many many examples of people I know personally and famous people who I’ve never met once have admitted to being in relationships they don’t want to because they understood 1 or 2 things apply (or applied to them if they changed): 1 that was the best they could do 2 they believe there are no options outside of their current relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:26 PM
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This is the exact point I’ve been trying to communicate on this sub; if a man has had sex with hundreds of women and say less than 20% of them were not conventionally attractive then that man clearly has something about him that women value; like in your example you valued the raw attraction felt from the Guy’s attractiveness… as did the large amount of other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 01:52 PM
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Definitely agree with your points; It seems people don’t really understand that the value in a man who can get a lot of women lies is in the fact that Men as a whole are not good at getting more than 2 maybe 3 women in a lifetime. Therefore the man that has gotten say 150 women in his lifetime clearly has something the other 99% of men do not. The common rebuttal usually boils down to “it’s just a measurement of how horny the guy is” but that fails to consider that men are inherently not women w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 01:47 PM
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You don’t even know who you are arguing against. Go through my comments on this Sub and you will see that I’m not even remotely one of the people this argument was even supposed to be about. Also Alliteration was used correctly; “Verbose of alliteration” is literally Verbose being used to describe the action of alliteration which in this case refers to the repeating of ideas rather than a single word or phrase
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 08:15 PM
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Absolutely not, but if one wants to illustrate a point to the layman why bring out alien concepts stated in the most verbose of alliteration when obviously the layman will take it as an affront since by their selective standards of comprehension it’s essentially nothing more than arcane chicanery?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 05:14 PM
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are double entendres hard for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 04:34 PM
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Read your last sentence you may finally begin to understand. Men in 2024 are no real prize. In economics they say Unlimited wants with few resources to go around yields markets. Obviously men are the Wants and women the resource hence the Thousands of years of policing women and their sexuality in every society that has descendants still around today. Men with standards is always funny as the only person who starves is the man unless a kind-hearted woman he feels is finally “worth his level” ble…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:18 PM
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So in the desert, one passes up fruit of the cacti for…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:04 PM
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This an anonymous forum on the internet. Go to the r/aliens subs or their ilks and thousands upon thousands of anonymous redditors will be willing to call you mentally retarded for being unable to piece together the conspiracy of All Earthly Govs lying to the Public about Extraterrestrials.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:02 PM
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Anyone can make that claim sure, but in reality the vast majority of men don’t practice what they preach. The Sopranos is a great illustration of this: Men enjoy Platitudes, Camaraderie, and make pacts they individually know they can’t keep because they are in a group and as such the group emboldens them. When the chips are down you see ALL of their true colors and the fact that none of them could ever uphold the “values they claim to champion. Such is the same with modernmen; modern men white k…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:59 PM
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That’s a terrible analogy. There are plenty of stories of Women in year long Coma in Hospital is pregnant and Male nurses are arrested. There are plenty of stories of Male Nurses in Psych institutions being arrested after investigations revealed they slept with patients. There are even plenty of arrests made every year of men caught in the act of bestiality. These things all seem to paint the perfect picture: many more men are willing to sink to awful lengths of depravity if it means sexual sati…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:43 PM
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Can you really have standards if everyone you want says no?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:35 PM
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In an American court of law yes you do live in such a society. If you would much rather prefer however I’m Sure any nation under Sharia, or Vietnam, or Singapore, or China would happily service your desire to punish every possibly conceived notion issued in someone’s* (read that as anyone not the supreme leader or their family) speech. In all seriousness tho you should understand that vocal minorities are the Blessed Children of the Internet Algorithm and therefore their propensity to be heard s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:33 AM
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What someone should do is get all the success stories from the subs where people work on them selves to become more attractive into a discussion post here detailing how much more attractive they became/the ways their lives changed after
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:07 PM
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This is such a tough lesson for so many guys due to all of the media (especially video games and anime) that depict men overcoming adversity and getting rewarded for that all due to something silly like noble intentions and will power. even more interesting is that a lot of these same men aren’t deluded into thinking that in the real world a certain amount of noble intention will make them a billionaire or a high level of Will power can get them to stop a bullet Ozymandias style. And yet these m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 04:10 AM
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I have a lot of experience with this question having struggled a lot with it personally and the answer you will dislike but will need to hear is: there’s really no way. 1 if you are a genuinely nice guy you will lack the 1 thing necessary to ever pull off the personality swap to begin with: Apathy. 2 faking a different personality than your own is actually extremely difficult as you are basically lying perpetually and that is a skill in itself. 3 women can smell desperation from a mile away and …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 04:01 AM
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Someone who clearly looks like they are dedicated to the craft of lifting… however with the face of Micheal Myers or worse
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 03:56 AM
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You are correct, and I would add that due to the majority of man not ever having more than 1 serious option (by serious I mean a woman who is 75%+ of the way to being committed to a situationship or full blown relationship with them) at a time. I have a very nuanced perspective since I was 1 of the late bloomers (I did not become physically attractive until 19… then I became very attractive) and 1 thing I have noticed is women are apt at assessing how a man socially ranks. If a man has a lot of …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:09 AM
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You ever drive by a homeless man and get the urge to fuck him?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 03:25 PM
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The first point you said is the most vital men need to understand. I’m gonna bite the bullet and be deemed sexist but it should be noted: Male and Female Libido is nowhere near the same. Ask any man that did not suffer from a hormonal imbalance if the wind blowing tree branches in the right direction could get them hard at 14 and I’ll bet my life savings 8/10 of them will say yes. I am yet to hear a female equivalent to this phenomenon. From that point everything else makes sense; from seeing so…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 08:12 PM
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That’s completely false. I can’t even name celebrity Tomboys that ended up with feminine men. That being said I do know quite a few Tomboys (due to my proximity to women’s athletics) and they all did 1 of 2 things: ended up with a woman or ended up with an even stronger man. For example I was friends with 5 or 6 Volleyball players in college who were all taller than 6’ and since they all had to be on a workout and diet plan they were all fairly muscular. Not 1 of them ended up with a man shorter…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 01:13 PM
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Not necessarily Personally I’ve never had a real girlfriend but my N -count is in the double digits. I’m sure there are women who would want or not want to date me based on whichever part of that sentence they found out about first
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:34 PM
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Someone commented earlier this week that men with very very high body counts is meaningless and it’s silly other men place any value on it. While maybe a very moral high road way of going about that, reality just does not reflect that. If a man can get hundreds of women to sleep with him and those women aren’t escorts, that man must be inherently valuable. For example my parents are Boomer immigrants from a nation that practices Polygamy to this day… with 1 caveat: The only people who actually g…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 04:42 PM
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Definitely agree. OP’s comments are similar to fit middle class and upper class people who can’t understand why poor people also tend to be morbidly obese: at the poorest level you simply take the cheapest things available to eat no matter how terrible it is for you in the long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:17 PM
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You are definitely not a sex addict. I have been to SA with others of my ilk and the 1 thing that put all of us their is that Sex became enough to interfere with rational judgement. If you can simply “never have sex with who I consider to be repulsive” you are no addict. You are simply trying to cosplay.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:13 PM
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Men with harems pre-dates the first man with an iota of capitalist ideas. Sex with a lot of women has no value in the same way that a M15 or Weather PPK have no value; they are simply tools. The value is inherently in the person, as obviously a man who can/has had sex with an eye-popping amount of women is an anomaly in the real world and therefore something intrinsically valuable must be attached to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:10 PM
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Agreed. Up until the end of college I was searching for a woman to spend my whole life with. However working on the things that attract women (the bod, the job, and the cool/interesting hobbies) has no bearing on landing a woman who is clearly wife material. From all of the Gen Z I’ve seen get married (aside from the high school sweethearts) finding the 1 is simply a randomized lottery.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 10:37 AM
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What you are describing is Apex Fallacy: “Those at the top of the group represent all of the group” I am a direct descendant of a Polygamous Tribal Chief. In a polygamous society (a real Patriarchy) there are roughly a quarter of men with almost 50% of all available women, and the other 75% all fight each other tooth and nail for scraps. Hence why Trad people make me laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 01:22 PM
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American society is extremely duplicitous. “Say what you mean,” “code switching,” “Dog whistling” all hold significant weight because American society discourages open discourse on anything deemed not “politically correct” Therefore sex and all the aspects/nuances are generally swept under the rug with the exception of corporations big enough to pay a lot of money to market it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 11:35 PM
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You are 100% correct, the Dating Market is not only the exact opposite of a free one but there’s even an Econ Professor from Stanford that studied the San Fran/Bay Area Dating scene for a year or so and found that if you were to calculate the inequality level in Dating over there it would rank top 5 in resource inequality (where in this case the resource is a viable mate) As for why men don’t seem to get this; personally I think it’s due to 2 things 1. Dunning-Krueger effect (most men think they…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 10:09 AM
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You hit the nail on the head… Women who don’t know you 99% chance don’t want to if you are not their dating ideal. How do you know if you are their dating ideal; “Beats me🤷🏾‍♂️” and I have multiple sisters for crying out loud. I play a lot of recreational sports, go out to mixed gender group events, and visit lots of pop-up art in bustling metropolitan areas and a lot of those women there tend to be single ime, BUT they also tend to have at least 2 suitors already with high odds 1 of them accomp…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:35 PM
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The thing you have to understand is the majority of C-suite executives who are married at the time of them having that hallowed position were married prior to that. In order to prove your point and disprove the point you are rebutting you would have to analyze what women Single C-Suite Executives are going for and from that perspective your point holds a lot less water
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 02:24 PM
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Only difference is that rich people will tend to move exclusively within their socioeconomic group (people with money don’t invite people without to their cookouts). Vs the relationship equivalent where a lot of Players, Bad boys, and “Chads” are very similar to HIMYM’s Barney Stinson where they (generally speaking) are in groups where they are the only one like that while the rest of the group is varying levels of avg Joe Schmoes… Imo this is why a lot of Men 30 and younger are becoming more al…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 02:20 PM
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Definitely agree (completely anecdotal) But after leaving college I essentially have been apart of 2 different friend groups simultaneously group A: Introverted stoner nerds who’s idea of a good time is playing Nintendo or hiking. Group B: extroverted party animals whose idea of a good time is a potpourri of molly, coke, and 2cb at the biggest ravens in town (1 of them is even a semi-famous DJ in the area). By OP’s logic group b should be slaying while group A does not. That would be the exact o…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 03:24 PM
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I like how it was crickets once you pulled out the data…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 10:57 PM
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There is definitely no evidence of a Sexual Cartel (and never will be) because unlike a Real Cartel there are no receipts when an exchange of goods and services occur (in this case when people have sex). Also in my quarter century walking the face of this planet and having talked to quite a few different men from all walks of life (I live between 2 cities with huge immigrant populations) I have not 1 time ever witnessed any man say “Yeah personally I prefer my women as hard to get as humanly pos…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 09:57 AM
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ARE YOU SURE ABOUT THAT
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:26 AM
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Location location location. There are some places the muscularity will do little for you (Miami Dade, San Fran, and DC) there are places it will do wonders for you (Midwestern Mid sized cities). Unfortunately most places are in between those extremes and unless you pinpoint an area you are back to square 1
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:23 AM
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Feminism is for a collective result and has been successful since the one suffragette in England threw herself in front of the race horse in the 1800s… show me where the male equivalent is
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 02:16 PM
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Manosphere’s main problem is they are trying to be the foil to “women’s safe space” and as a man with no brothers and only sisters I can explain exactly why this is downright idiotic: Men are inherently competitive full stop. Women are inherently team players full stop. So I laugh at men who try to adopt “the group will make us stronger mentality” considering that in a prisoner’s dilemma most men will basically always take the self serving option at the expense of their “brethren” OP asked where…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 01:13 PM
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As Beckham famously told Posh Spice: “Be Honest”… Seriously tho, having spent the past 4 years after college self improving as much as humanly possible, physically, and mentally then adopting the mindset that I would not date any woman who wasn’t likeminded I basically got to crater my already low dating prospects based on “principle.” I have dealt with skepticism and criticism the most from family both close and distant relatives on a constant basis. The really bold ones have gone so far as to …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 02:46 AM
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A confident woman that is quiet. It sounds like a contradiction but imo both parts are very necessary as: 1. A confident woman doesn’t get jealous 2. Women faking Confidence generally (in my experience anyway) try to be the loudest in public settings when they are surrounded by all of their friends. You want to build your life further with her and that requires a kind of relationship built on mutual respect and understanding that either of you are already good enough without the other and so tog…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 05:03 PM
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As a self made Late Bloomer I would implore ALL men to take what OP said and stick it in the trash. If by some miracle you get the ability to raise your SMV by 3 or 4 points on a scale of 10 the LAST thing you should or could care about is that. Have Fun live your life like a goddamm Julia Roberts movie. The past is unchanging and history is for books that people will never read in libraries… get out into the world and explore
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 04:16 PM
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Somebody get INGSOC on the phone… the thought police are at it again😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 05:07 PM
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Because the majority of the constituents voting them in power are NIMBY and usually involved in HOA management. Basically this means the people putting them in power have a significant interest in nothing changing on land around them and 100% nothing is changing that COULD have an effect on the value of their land.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:20 PM
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Have to agree… it’s the fear of confrontation that makes so many people law abiding hard working citizens as well as timid and dismissive in taking risks that could yield something worth achieving.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 01:49 PM
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This is the real problem OP is highlighting (albeit not very well) the things that once upon a time could really signal status have been diluted in the year of 2024… For example at the age of 24 I bought my first car, an ‘03 Mercedes Coupe that in 2003 cost a quarter of a million to own (thanks to depreciation I got it for under 10grand). Every single one of my guy friends would constantly tell me the same thing: “Damn women must flock to you with a car like that” not knowing that for all the wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 10:50 AM
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Mass immigration does not look the same everywhere so how can anyone answer this question legitimately? Take France and Italy: Both are Neighboring nations so as close as it gets and yet they do not even face mass migrations from the same countries. Naturally the immigrants going to France (Algerians and Moroccans) behave differently to the ones headed to Italy (Nigerians, Ghanaians, and Turks) The example above isn’t even the most complicated; ‘Western Nations’ (Im assuming is in reference to C…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 11:00 PM
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Fax… that’s why Power couples are far and few between
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 02:57 PM
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1000% agree. There is something to be said about the idea that “women chase men who don’t need women” but the reality is that those kinds of men are usually rooted in their own personal identity to the point where it consumes them and therefore they truly see women as a distraction. Now let’s be honest that type of men I just described are extraordinarily rare. So that means the vast majority are simply not that and women are much much more likely to run into a man faking that image than the rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 02:55 PM
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Success does not hold people at gunpoint demanding they change their behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:36 PM
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You’re smart you’ll figure it out
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:05 PM
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The last 2 sentences you wrote are word for word what Charlie Munger and Warren Buffet responded with when asked what they think of “people demanding 1%ers pay more in tax”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:40 PM
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That’s why Trad supporters are delusional. Traditional States with Traditional Gender roles enforced by the Gov. exist en masse in the non western world and the vast majority of men do not benefit in such systems. Instead the men at the very top of the pyramid get to practice the Polygamy, Rule of First right, have Harems filled with concubines, etc. Every other man is struggling for the scraps and the truly weak ones try to take their frustrations out on women (hence the high Femicide rates in …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:05 PM
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When I was 10 years old I heard the word Sapiosexual for the first time and did not hear it for another 10 years. In the last 5 I have heard it used by so many women to describe themselves it’s become nauseating… (Sapiosexual men this is your opportunity to come out of the wood work and prove me wrong😂😭)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:44 PM
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The movie is less than 2 hrs long lmao go read the book if you want the full version of Bateman lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:35 PM
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I work in Fixed income at a Corporate bank (you will get no names), there are 2 types of people that work there, sales where a lot of the men resemble Bateman, and everyone else. Insofar as I’m concerned you can choose whatever the fuck you wanna believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 07:36 PM
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You don’t understand what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 07:21 PM
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I won’t use real predators as the majority of the real life ones who are infamous are not the type of predators the vast majority of normal people will encounter in everyday life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 07:18 PM
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You would have to actually be in situations where women have their guards up to then be able to note/acknowledge if the same behavior is happening around you. for example: I’m 6’2” athletic and black with a lot of natural curly hair. I live in a predominantly caucasian area since the age of 10 and from the age of 15 till now I have been enough situations in public around women to know when they are extremely uncomfortable. As for the Bateman example, the extremity is the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 07:16 PM
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How can 1 thing be plural😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:25 PM
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That’s not a good equivalency… Men absolutely would love to monetize their sexuality but let’s be 100% honest the only people paying for sex are men (straight, gay, etc.) and gay women. So of those 2 camps tell me where the demand is for straight men to monetize sex outside of destroying your life by becoming a notable pornstar
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:04 PM
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Why should they be challenged? Les Dangereux Liaisons was written over 150 years ago and I am still yet to meet a man who was friends with a girl for a long time and didn’t have both the platonic as well as romantic relationship with the girl completely combust after sex in much better ways than in that story😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 01:58 PM
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OP is arguing that good men simply don’t have the time to jump through the hoops to LOOK like a good man to a woman who has a laundry list of qualifications. OP’s point is that the men who are going to do that are generally psychopaths. Ex: The most famous psychopath in Cinema of the 21st Century is Patrick Bateman, and as a guy with a few single female acquaintances that have professional jobs clearing 75k a year and higher that’s essentially the guy they describe when asked who their ideal par…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 01:50 PM
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WHO
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 06:39 PM
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I studied Stats all through college and will never forget what my 101 Stats Prof said: “Beware anyone drawing sweeping conclusions from statistical models as all models are wrong with only a select few actually being useful” Case in point; The study does not account for the fact that STD Velocity is almost 2x in women what it is for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:40 PM
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Definitely… it’s night and day between the suburbs just a 5 min ride from either of the big cities Im around
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 10:42 PM
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I learned a lot about the lessons Women Can’t/Won’t teach in person and changed my entire approach when having conversations with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 09:28 PM
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I agree… I’m Gen Z and the amount of people who found their significant other at work prior to 2016 (Me Too) vs now is eye watering
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 01:55 PM
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As an extremely sociable, non-neurotic, and pretty jovial person with the many different friend groups, hangouts, group chats, and group vacations to prove it being social in this day and age is not a workaround for those in OPs position. Case in point: I know a lot of guys… like I play sports constantly and work in a male dominated field, Men make friends with men. Men good at making friends with women are generally of 3 varieties: A. Gay, B. Pushovers (Simps, Male Pickme, Nice Guy), C. The act…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 01:26 PM
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Yes and no… I have another friend from that same school that left there and moved to Japan after he finished studying abroad. He lived there for about half a decade in Tokyo, Kobe, and Chiba (all densely populated cities) he speaks fluent Japanese, has a degree in Econ and a Masters in Econometrics from the top school to study that in Japan got a great job there, understood the culture when he moved there oh and is 6’4” and Black with a 4 inch Afro 😂… Needless to say he never got a girlfriend an…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 04:27 AM
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To a degree… the women who really benefit are the absolute lookers, as not a lot of men with the kind of resources needed to fly a girl out on a whim (just cuz her insta looked good) are doing that for any below a 9. The vast majority will not get much beyond the validation comments, DMs from randoms, and maybe 1 stalker.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 04:18 AM
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Agreed. There definitely is merit to being attractive, wealthy, and known but all these factors can be turned to 0 if you not only look different from the majority of people in your area but double if your differences are looked at as a negative rather than the positive exotic type
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 02:24 AM
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That description definitely matches the small Liberal Arts College my friend and I went to… only difference was the ratio of women to men was 3 to 2, so going into college fools like I thought the ratio was going to benefit men. It did not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 02:19 AM
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Not gonna lie to you; you look like a member of a group of people who are shown in every piece of pop culture since The Godfather to have attractive women notoriously fond over the most violent, unattractive, and generally bad life prospects… in an area where this group of people are known to live at in spades
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 01:44 AM
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I’m 6’2 194 wet
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 01:39 AM
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Quick Question, do you have the Redneck look?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 01:04 AM
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He looks overweight
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 12:59 AM
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I was so confused at your comment then realized I wrote the first sentence wrong lol… I meant we met in college and just talked now that we are grads
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 12:46 AM
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1000% agree… I was around African Americans for my first decade of life and around way more Caucs and Asians in my 2nd decade. All Ima say is that in the former group Looks, height, style, and tone were the only thing could get you into a relationship with the best looking people. In the latter group it’s all who you know, what you do, where you went to school, and where you live now that get you into a relationship with the best looking people
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 08:21 PM
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I have a rebuttal: If Rihanna had married a regular (makes 50k or under/is not social media famous) guy who was only good looking, there’s no chance she would be able to keep social media. Why? People would constantly clown her for not marrying a celebrity. Now Rihanna has been famous a while so at this point in her life she probably has the mental fortitude to deal with such things. Let’s take the Female Lawyer who just made Partner at 42, is the youngest in her firm’s history, and is now makin…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 01:26 PM
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It’s actually scientifically studied phenomena: Among men overall and in each age category, the percentage with bachelor’s degrees married to a spouse with less education declined steadily and dramatically. For example, as Figure 1 below shows, for those ages 33 to 42, that percentage declined from 54% to 17%, which is more than triple. Married females with such degrees, however, mostly went in the opposite direction, especially in the last three decades, although less dramatically so. I read a …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 01:08 PM
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America is the land of “Path of Least Resistance” The vast majority of non immigrant Americans are not in it to challenge themselves every waking moment of their life beyond a job or school. Another example is how Western Countries tend to have lower food related illnesses, and obesity than 3rd world nations… with the exception of America. Apply this to dating/relationships/marriage and it becomes clear as day that these same people who aren’t choosing tougher paths in basically any other aspect…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 01:03 PM
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The real life example is to illustrate the point that fat shaming does happen in real life with real world consequences and not only social media. Edit: clarity
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 08:19 PM
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The response is to the initial comments question of fat shaming only being online phenomena. Therefore I will not answer any of your questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:40 PM
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I work at one of the top 5 brokerage firms in the US. If you have ever seen Wolf of Wall Street, Boiler Room, Wall Street, etc. you would believe that anyone can get bullied without recourse in that environment. The opposite is true. There are a few women who work in finance and the majority who are not anywhere near the executive levels are obese. In the early 2000s and prior they all would have been laughed out of the office for applying, nowadays we have at least 3 seminars a year to beat the…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 02:10 PM
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That’s the wrong Disney. Anyone growing up after 1995 and was not dirt poor/had access to TV was consuming wayyy more Disney Sitcom programs then Disney movies. Disney Movies have a fair amount of Female Villains with comically evil personalities and an equally vile outward physical looks, but Disney TV shows are not like this at all. Disney sitcoms heavily revolve around female leads that are young attractive sociable likable and generally normal (never extremely ugly or beautiful) and these gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:38 AM
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Male attractive face study Female attractive face study How Face shapes determine attractiveness in both genders
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 05:40 PM
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Nigeria has no Princes What makes you think you know anything about me? You come off as having Aspergers, Autism, or some other form of mental retardation so my ethics dictate that I can no longer respond to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 05:29 PM
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Ladies and Gentlemen take a a good look at textbook: Edit: Idk if u know this or not but Lebron is 1 of 1. There have been men his height in the Nba but none were ever as fast AND as strong AND as durable as he is. I know you don’t really watch bball because that’s all anyone ever talks about with Lebron before they even bring up his actual skill-set. Again all factors controlled by genetics. Nice try tho on the gotcha tho
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 04:45 PM
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Less than 3500 out of a total possible 350million are 6’8” or taller in America including Lebron… Please enlighten the rest of us on how to train to become his height and weight as clearly we didn’t get the memo
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 04:39 PM
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U have some dogshit reading comp skills
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 04:28 PM
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Even that is still Just World Fallacy. I played sports at the highest levels up until College and believe me the saying “Hard work beats talent” is only half true. The greatest soccer player to ever walk this planet is Lionel Messi. Google videos of Messi at 10 years old (when he was living adjacent to the Barrios of Argentina, dirt poor, with no access to the training or resources many of the European players had access to at the same age) and compare them side by side to him at his peak at 24 …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 03:41 PM
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That’s a Just World Fallacy. I was born into a family of Tribal Monarchs who lost all their power when Britain colonized Nigeria in the 20th Century. In the alternate universe where my family was able to stay in power by selling slaves to Europeans and I inherited the riches of that what personality and physical traits brought me the rewarded wealth and status? Edit: clarity
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 03:28 PM
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Men don’t care about women’s money all things being equal I have a degree in Economics and have read 3 different studies over the years that all have the same conclusion: when you compare men to women, women almost always aim for men who make more money while men just choose for the hottest available.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 03:26 AM
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Are you a hunter because you picked out 4 T-Bone steaks at your neighborhood butcher shop?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 02:03 AM
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OP (and a lot of people my parents age) suffer from Nostalgia Bias for a time they don’t really even understand. Pre-1970s Free Love Movements dating was always Winner Takes All. The richest were able to have the first pick of nubile women due to them being able to convince her parents they can actually afford her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:23 PM
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When humans first left the cave, there was no such thing as obesity. Technological improvement has allowed for humans to resemble pigs and cows that simply eat and sleep all day. Which yields an interesting question: “Is it human evolution for the collective BMI to exponentially increase?”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:01 PM
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You brought up College not I Already explained the difference between a finished product and someone in flux. Go read a book
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 02:50 PM
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I was in college 3 years ago and was on an NCAA team… please lecture me tho on how you know more
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 06:02 AM
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The finished product (most men have things to work on these men generally do not)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 01:47 AM
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You know damn well that would force people to have conversations with actual depth
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 01:09 AM
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No. Women do not spend time thinking about how to get other women on a date and DEFINITELY have no strategies on how to talk, flirt, or entertain other women which is STEP 1 to getting women without looking like Brad Pitt or Ryan Gosling.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:03 AM
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How many NBA players do you know married to WNBA players? Women value men of worth. Men worth valuing are not inc*ls… so logically the men of the Highest Value (aka men with real Achievements) are not only not single but any who are have very likely been in a LTR and at the point women with achievements are rather meaningless (the guy has been there/done that) and so they are looking for 1 of 2 things: Younger Bouncier It girls or a woman who can give them a real connection (and that’s just a cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 04:45 AM
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Not just ugly but you better look like the typecast of whatever popular group is in the Area… For example if how you act/dress is how the “in-crowd” does in Bayou Louisiana best believe that in Santa Fe California you are going to have very little chance with anyone who isn’t desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 01:52 PM
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I’m not like a lot of the guys on here in that I was not told how to get women by either my mother or my sisters… Growing up I did watch a lot of Disney shows (no brothers so I had to watch what the sisters wanted) and 1 thing I learned very early on in life was that I wanted to be “cool” no matter what it took… Why? The cool guy always had a lot going for him whether it was women, respect from peers, cool stuff etc. Through my decade and a half long quest to become that guy I have met TOO many …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:34 PM
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When in Prague…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:03 PM
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The guy IS happy with his gf… emotionally, socially, and mentally. Unfortunately the guy needs more sex than what his gf is willing to give so instead of destroying the entire relationship he went out elsewhere to have his sexual desires fulfilled
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:15 AM
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What are the worst issues then
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:47 AM
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I don’t know how you couldn’t pick up that I think women should completely cut off orbiters
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:46 AM
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Subtle nuances are clearly not your thing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:20 PM
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It was not the picture or the Reddit caption that made me post this. It was the woman’s Instagram caption. Please read her caption and then come back and tell me if what you said here is still valid
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:44 PM
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Where did I say society is falling apart😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:40 PM
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It’s entirely due to demographics. In America outside of people who lived their entire lives in a Chinatown ethnic ghetto variant, for every 8 people you see 6 of them are white. Meaning that if you are an ethnic guy and going through the same process of trial and error through the dating “numbers game” nearly EVERY guy is going through you are statistically guaranteed to be rejected on the basis of your race before you open your mouth unless you want to channel your inner Marcus Garvey/Umar Joh…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 07:11 PM
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There are definitely other factors in play… Baltimore is a very multicultural city with a very large AA population, and yet the interracial relationships most commonly observable are between Caucasians and Asians. Go an hour south to DC and there are plenty more observable interracial relationships between nearly every race except the 2 most populous ones in that city AAs and Caucasians. *This before even taking into account the genders within those said relationships: roughly 75% are WM and eth…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 06:58 PM
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Not true at all. Disney does not put Black leads on Movie Marketing in Asia due to them understanding that would lead to low turnout in those countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:11 AM
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Where did I equate flirting to emotional manipulation? Go read OP’s comment then read mine before you start making claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:51 PM
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Emotional manipulation requires practice, experience, or both. Becoming a Casanova is akin to becoming a Lebron or Messi… you (the average man) are not and will not short of a miracle. Why? Lebron was 6’7” 190lbs as a freshman in highschool and if you look up highlights of Messi as a 9 year old nothing has changed in how he plays then vs now. Point is that some people are simply born to do certain things. People get flirting all wrong. Flirting isn’t like writing music or painting. Flirting is s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:58 AM
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Bro Science
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 03:58 AM
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Genetic deformities come at an even lower rate than 2 midgets with a 6’8” child in the NBA. In other words you being a genetic deformity has led you to a perception bias where “I can’t be that different” and “there must be a lot more others like me” come up a lot when in reality the majority of people who are obese simply have an abhorrent diet with a sedentary lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 01:13 PM
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The issue is not dieting. The issue is that if one is going to consume a variety of food with high sugars, heavy trans fats, and metric tons worth of fructose and other syrups, they also need to spend an equivalent amount of time on the track/treadmill coupled with circuit workouts in the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 01:08 PM
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It takes 2 to Tango
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 05:32 PM
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This is exactly what I wanted to hear. My father was the main male role model in my life and always acted aloof/with mystique and as I grew into a man I behave just like him. This personality type is constantly said (in virtually all popular movies and books about “real life”) to be a magnet for attracting women and the highest quality of women at that… Being close to my mid twenties now I can say that idea is absolutely false. Being stoic, calm, cool, and collected in all situations does not at…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 01:29 PM
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Quick question: are there more above avg or below avg women that you see in those type of careers with advanced education
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 06:05 AM
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I didn’t realize I had to explicitly state that was a euphemism.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 10:33 PM
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When I was still in school the women in the most advanced classes (excluding psychology) were generally below average looking with obesity and early onset mental illness also being widespread among that group. Now fast forward to those women being in careers and accounting for very few them dating any guy in a field of lower academic or wage standing then them for whatever reason (be it hypergamy, proximity, etc.) the men in those same fields will have enough money to choose #1 more attractive w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 10:32 PM
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I actually really like your list as there have been so many dates that crashed and before ever taking off where we have a nice conversation and it seems like its going somewhere and generally the woman will just do something little like belittle people around her once or a few times, talk about how they have 0 flaws, complain a lot about how they have been wronged by nearly every human in their life, and by the end of the 2nd or 3rd date it dawns on me the woman is comically selfish, bitter, pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 07:18 PM
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6’1” Unfortunately I live near a city in particular that has a high murder and incarceration rate among guys who look like me so that shews a lot of women off. It’s tough for me to connect with a lot of African American women since I was brought up extremely differently than they were and I just leave them a lone the minute they get combative (so pretty often). I do extremely well with Non-Asian international women but that’s not exactly a common occurrence (in my age range anyway)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 05:24 PM
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I didn’t say 80% of ALL women. I said 80% of the women I could’ve talked to meaning women who actually liked me, wanted to get to know me, we’re not in a relationship, and we’re in the vicinity I was in. Edit: I should add this is the main reason my goal in life is to be an American Expat as the vicinity thing by my understanding will be the best way to change this dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 01:43 PM
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Neither do I, but i assume it contributes to why half of marriages out here end up in divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 12:46 PM
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My parents are Fresh off the boat West African Immigrants who have lived in The US for around 25 years. I was born and raised in the US so I have no accent, dress fashionably, have a nice car, workout a lot, speak 3 languages fluently, live in between 2 medium sized cities and get very little attention from women here. Prior to going to college I absolutely despised being African as it was clear as day that single factor repelled and repulsed women better than any amount of cheap Axe or Old Spic…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 12:36 PM
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The vast majority of men (so we are excluding the 1% of top earners here) would 100% marry a Megan Fox look alike even if she worked at McDonalds, was in debt, and had dropped out of highschool literally as long as she was nice and really interested in them. As you can see in that example everything OP wrote about immediately flew out the window cuz that woman would be hot. Don’t believe me, just check out the kind of women Passport Bros who actually get married to are… odds are likely she fits …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 12:06 PM
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If the obesity rate in American women is over 40% and one takes into account that the women who are normal looking are nearly 2x as likely to be in a relationship where exactly are you finding this “ton of women that are attractive” and (hopefully) single…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 11:55 AM
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That’s so disingenuous… as soon as I decided I would never get with a woman who weighs more than me again (I way 193 lbs and before you ask yes it’s all muscle) I would estimate around roughly 80% of the women who I could’ve talked to I no longer did, and so a lot of off weekends I don’t go partying out with my guy friends is now spent in the gym or running… And this is what’s in the future of any guy who seriously raises (and truly follows through) there standards and doesn’t look like Hemswort…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 11:46 AM
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Yeah but if men on average are taller and yet under 15% of them are over 5’11” how can any guy mathematically expect to run into a woman taller than that, AND single, AND likes them back…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 11:38 AM
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clean eating noun the practice of eating primarily unprocessed and unrefined foods. "there has been a huge rise in awareness of organic food and clean eating" (Taken From Oxford’s Dictionary) Clean Eating according to Harvard Medicine
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 04:32 PM
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The #1 killer of AA is Heart Disease and HBP. The #1 cause of Heart disease and HBP is obesity. There is a higher correlation between being fat and dying from a heart attack than literally filling your lungs with black tar and other narcotics. It’s disingenuous to act like being fat is a healthy way to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 02:56 PM
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In India the majority of Hindu people do not eat any kind of meat and considering it’s a 3rd world nation the vast majority of them have no access to processed foods, high sugars or trans fats. Yet the majority of them are obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 02:54 PM
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100% agree… Met a lot of stunning female soccer players in college and a good amount of them that hated the sport are now 2-3x their body weight at that time even tho they are yet to have children
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 02:46 PM
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You absolutely can eat clean and have a bmi over 35… Case in point The Hindu Majority are vegetarian and the Hindu majority is obese
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 02:43 PM
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What’s wrong with not wanting fat chicks if you aren’t fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 02:42 PM
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America can never be Japan because America has among the highest immigrant inflows in the world while Japan has always been in the bottom 15%. Sure Caucasian America will go the way of the Japanese, Korean, and Panda but America will always exist with enough people trying to work for it to continue thriving
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 01:36 PM
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It’s funny a lot of American guys talk about going back to old time values when any piece of history prior to WW1 had the majority of men losing out while any man Rich and powerful could take any/as many women no matter what
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 08:08 PM
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Not always so… I’m going to keep this vague (cuz going into details will get this taken down) but there are quite a few women who will not date men they had a ons with due to social factors… case in point Im AA and I have messed around with a lot of International women and WW. I have made nearly every girl I’ve been with orgasm at least once but only international ones ever call me back to so much as ask how I’m doing after
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:31 PM
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Not always so… I’m going to keep this vague (cuz going into details will get this taken down) but there are quite a few women who will not date men they had a ons with due to social factors… case in point Im AA and I have messed around with a lot of International women and WW. I have made nearly every girl I’ve been with orgasm at least once but only international ones ever call me back to so much as ask how I’m doing after
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:31 PM
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Go check comments under Porn vids of ugly women and see how many men are over there talking about how fucked they are cuz they finished to those vids
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:26 PM
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Definitely agree… the whole reason why common men “fetishize” Rich Men is they all inherently understand that the rich man can do things to woo hot women that a common man can only dream of… go on any social media or dating apps and see how many women nowadays talk about “my man should be able to go on a dream vacation to Turks and Caicos at any time on a whim. Or “my man should be able to support the whole family while I stay at home” Or my personal favorite: “I want a Boss not a guy who works …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:22 PM
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That’s just a saying. Vids or ur didn’t happen doesn’t roll off the same, and there were a few. Even have a few group chats with a lot of before and after vids too. Also not sure what you mean by sharing vids makes you racist… the majority of sports teams I’ve been on were majority black people till I got to college
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 04:42 AM
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We actually had a rule on the team “Pics or it didn’t happen”… Hopefully that answers your question
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 04:47 PM
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Likewise money can’t make you happy and yet nowadays you can’t go anywhere without falling on someone screaming about taking money from wealthy people and giving it to poor people…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 04:41 PM
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I didn’t get what you said… but now I do. The first 2 are child stars who were famous for being good looking before they ever hit a gym and IDK what workout will give you Caramel Light Skin and Steel Blue Eyes like Meeks but if you find it out lmk😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:47 PM
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Just 28% Of Americans Are Exercising Enough, CDC Says—And It’s Even Lower In Some Regions
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 12:43 PM
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Natural value is just what you came into the world with… Taylor Lautner, Justin Beiber, Jeremy Meeks all had a serious amount of natural value as all of them were pretty good looking (or in Meeks case) had traits that came at birth and did not require them to put in some extra amount of time to get
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:49 AM
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Speaking from experience I can 100% agree that after achieving a life changing difference in SMV I became cynical, spiteful, and overall mentally worse off… For context I was born with a game show host personality; in that if I was in a room with people I had never met I tried really hard to be friends with everyone. I always had a bubbly personality in public and really had a lot of friends everywhere. However when it came to girls I had no girlfriend until I was 20 and never had any romantic a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 06:29 AM
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I think the issue is that even tho most women will never ADMIT to that sort of behavior enough of them go out and get drunk enough on the weekends to lower their inhibitions enough to talk to one of the hottest guys in their near vicinity, fuck once and then never speak a word of it (or even really repeat that action for years) while for the hot guy that was just another weekend… Source: I was around a lot of attractive men when I played sports competitively and when we had “locker room talk” th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 06:00 AM
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Full disclosure (Im not a true redpill follower) But before I was as good looking as I am now I got virtually no romantic attention from any woman whatsoever and I really do mean ANY woman as my first crushes were nerdy girls who were not exactly show stoppers but had some endearing quality I liked and were nice. None of them ever reciprocated any feelings I had and as the nice guy I was at the time I simply chalked it up to needing to work on my personality. Did that for a few years got 1 girl …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 05:55 AM
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I understand that sentiment but it’s better to teach safe sex rather than no sex as virtually every child and teen is hardwired to rebel against their parents
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 07:28 PM
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Yeah experience is definitely the best teacher when it comes to dating… the obsession with trying to keep children away from that only ever leads to stunted growth in my humble opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 07:26 PM
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That’s a lot to ask of guys under 15 years old… up until like 2016 the internet wasn’t blatantly shoving beautiful people in everyone’s face at every waking moment and add that to the fact that it’s extremely rare that notoriously handsome guys have hit their true attractiveness (in face and body type) before 15, there’s just little difference between the guys who really get women and those who don’t (excluding the obvious kind like guys on the spectrum, depressed, or some other mental illness).…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 07:23 PM
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1000% agree… Immigrant parents were entirely against relationships of any kind until I turned 21 and once I turned 22 they said it was “abnormal” that I had no girlfriend😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 06:33 PM
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Lucy Liu
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:54 AM
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The largest demographic of single parent female led households in America are African American… African Americans have the highest incarceration rate, criminal conviction rate, likelihood of re-entering the penal system upon release, lowest wealth rate per capita, lowest high school education rate per capita, second highest obesity rate per capita…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 03:16 PM
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There has never been a study that under peer review (so when done again by a group of researchers different from the original study’s) could definitively prove a causal link between genetics and naturally occurring Raw IQ. This can also be observed in real life in the overwhelming majority of rich families end up losing 99% of their wealth within 3 generations
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:42 PM
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I think it has a lot to do with the Highschool genre of film and tv in America. None of those characters were ever 3 dimensional or well rounded, as that was the only way that the geeky, doesn’t fit in kid (who 99% of the time is the protagonist) wins vs the good looking person who everyone else in their environment likes or looks up to (who is 99% of the time the villain)… This lead a lot of people to believe that they could simply make up for not being attractive by having a personality or a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:17 PM
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For those in Corporate America it can go like… Now obviously it’s a comedic exaggeration but there’s clearly truth behind it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 09:57 PM
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Meh, in the 60s the 3 biggest companies in America were in Oil, Steel, and Heavy Industry manufacturing. Not 1 person then said the computer would lead to Globalization and inadvertently make all those jobs totally irrelevant in 40 years. Likewise the surface of this type of dating has IMO only just been scratched
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:41 PM
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You need to go visit Africa and India
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:10 PM
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r/whoosh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:08 PM
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A set is mathematically greater than 3. Obviously the amount of people who go abroad has increased since 1. The amount of Americans has increased and 2. The amount of Americans with wealth has increased In stats there are inferences based on immutable facts and these would be such
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:49 PM
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I can definitely relate although for me it was only slightly different due to my parents being extremely educated FOB immigrants so there was little likelihood I was going to assimilate with Americans from birth and this has lead to me reaching the same conclusion you did
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:43 PM
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The countries with the highest HIV/AIDS rates are all abroad… since there are more men than women with stds those women are all going to contract HIV and AIDS no?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:40 PM
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No it’s not. It’s tough to explain this as I assume you and all of your family are American. To people in nations that don’t include West Europe and Australia America is the literal land of milk and honey. The average worker worldwide makes under $20 a day… the difference in poverty in The US vs abroad is night and day
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:57 AM
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Definitely would make the Hallmark Holiday Movie Hall of Fame🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:05 AM
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Tru… do you have a lot of friends that have the same values you do and do they consider moving abroad to be the best solution?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:54 AM
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I took a class on Tourism in college and they had a whole topic on sex tourism… One of the most interesting things I learned was that South Atlantic island nations like Barbados, Antigua, and The DR, are much more popular with older women than men when it comes to sex tourism vs Pacific island nations (Japan Singapore Thailand) that are the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:49 AM
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Unless they take a job over there ( keep in mind white collar jobs outside of STEM and High Finance makes considerably less than what they make in America) or they are marrying someone more affluent than them the person they are getting in a relationship with 1000% understands that the woman will have a considerable amount of money… so although one can claim the relationship isn’t like the passport bros at a fundamental level there’s the same imbalance
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:33 AM
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You already reached your limit of free articles?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:27 AM
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If you want real advice you need sisters (the more the merrier as variety will give you more exposure to different kinds of women) and a loud mother. Why? Because sisters will show you exactly the kinds of men women like and want to be around. While a loud mother will most likely shit on you (very loudly and broadly) while growing up so you will naturally become hardened to a lot of the verbal abuse that comes with being forward with women. (The forward thing is a must if you are trying to go fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:46 PM
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All self help gurus have a “money back guarantee” Just like all banks guarantee a return on investment for all money you give them. And yet Banks fail and there are virtually no successful people you can point to who say “the author of all my success was a self help guru” Please keep telling me I’m embarrassing myself tho, my friends and I are all having a laugh at your responses rn
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:20 PM
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Dating Coaching is not a results oriented business. It’s just like being an Astrologer or Soothesayer where the results mean little when the customer is paying for a peace of mind. The best example of this in action is Self-Help Industry where the majority of the most successful people there are not people who have successfully completed courses paid for with money but the people selling said courses.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 10:11 PM
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The society you have described in the answer you wrote is not one we live in if you live in America, Europe West of The Swiss Alps, and Australia. However if you live in the Middle East Africa Asia or The NA Islands then sure women’s issues aren’t taken seriously. In the west women have rights guaranteed and under law they are treated equally to men, and due to this their problems have significantly decreased compared to their counterparts anywhere else in the world or the past. A lot of women’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 09:39 PM
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I learned that turning the other cheek is a morally correct way to live but completely unusable when dealing with actual human beings. There are no direct 1 to 1 applications between Machiavelli and dating (only an idiot would think otherwise). It’s simply a mindset in dealing with other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 09:20 PM
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What men on here refer to as high value are defined by high levels in observable traits ie nice car, clothes, house, hair, face, muscles, and height. The reason being that these men can be spotted from a mile away and generally speaking these are the men with the kind of women that make everyone who sees her stop and stare Women have varying opinions on what makes a HVM so unfortunately I can’t come up with a comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 04:34 AM
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This is great advice for people already in relationships. Speaking from experience when I had personality, really went out of my way to treat women in the same way I would my sisters, always saw the best in people and tried to be as agreeable/friendly as possible I never got women… I never got laid, I had no girlfriend, and sure I had a lot of female friends but none of them were ever trying to introduce me to any of their single friends. Then I started working out daily (full disclosure I was a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 04:21 AM
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My parents are from Africa. In West Africa if you aren’t successful you have no relationship I’m African American and so I’ve witnessed the single mother epidemic first hand… “Bum men” in the classic sense are not successful with women to begin with. Thugs, Conmen, Pimps, Drug Dealers, and Athletes (ranging from Pro to Park) have the most success with women and subsequently cause the most single households when they go utilize their bucket of options and go for other women. I am assuming you are…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 12:27 PM
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Did you think that I would not just click on the article you sent, as it literally says the sentence after your quote that the next age group reverses and that trend continues. You love these outliers🤣 But I’ll bite, there is a clear and coordinated difference in women and male overall sex drive. Fundamentally speaking women cannot have the same as men due to them having periods and it being a fact that their entire sexual state changes as they cycle. Considering men have no menstrual cycle it i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 08:12 PM
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This would be a great counter-argument if Men by and large DON’T want sex in a relationship. Men in fact are so horny they are nearly 2x as likely to cheat on a woman they are consistently getting sex from as woman. Why… because men are hornier then women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:52 PM
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So you’re argument is that the MAJORITY of women are like a couple Onlyfans Models you heard on the interweb
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:35 PM
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Male pornstars are paid the most however in only 1 category of porn… Gay Porn. Porn sold to Males outsells porn sold to females by a country mile. Male strippers and prostitutes cater for a majority Male clientele. Female prostitutes and strippers practically only cater for Male clientele. So in other words the only industries for where sex is sold are dominated by a male customer. If Women were anywhere near as horny as Men this wouldn’t be true as Men lie, Women lie, but Money cannot lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:21 PM
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I did. You said OP should learn to socialize with women. General socializing with women cannot teach you how to get into a woman’s pants. Hence why I think your advice is bad
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:05 PM
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So you’re going to encourage the OP to be conversational, yet not specify that the conversation he is having should be anti-platonic and only romantic…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:59 PM
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That’s bad advice. I am 1 of those rare exceptions who got to fuck his female friends and believe me there was never a relationship (platonic or romantic) waiting at the end of that bridge. Not to mention that the majority of women I’ve spoken to LOVE to cry blood about how all men only see them as pieces of meat and whenever pressed for why 99% of them responded “because they try to start off as friends and then try to fuck”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:22 PM
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You sound like someone who is slightly on the spectrum. Off the over 200 or so other comments no one else said anything even remotely as asinine as what you just did because for everyone who English is not their second language understands that in English there is a way of speaking with deftness even though the sentence structure is not idiomatic. If English is your second language then my bad. If not I would advise you take some English classes as I’m not going to argue with someone who can’t u…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:08 PM
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If you know what I’m talking about then why have you been arguing for things you know are false?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 01:54 PM
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Since when did someone have to spend money to look at a price tag… you sound stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 01:32 PM
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You do realize that one can have multiple wives in Islam right? Islamic Turks also ran the Barbary Slave trade which was notorious for sex slaves… not to mention the Sultans all had Harems It seems more like you don’t really know what you are talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 01:31 PM
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First of all I come from a western African nation called Nigeria. Im said country there is an Islamic Nation that refers to it’s self as Boko Haram whose main goal is to unite all of Nigeria under Sharia Law which according to them will include 3 main things: Banning Western Education Banning Women’s rights Instituting a Theological State. So what was that about westerner who doesn’t know what he’s talking about…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 01:16 PM
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1000% disagree. I was the only guy in my family with a few sisters and none of them were ever held to the same standard I was in any capacity. Not only that but Female murderers don’t receive 50 to life in prison for 1st time offense while nearly 80% of men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:28 PM
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The majority of his fans cannot be that demographic as he makes millions off selling courses and online sex. Both of those things require copious amounts of money which newsflash: Middle Schoolers don’t have
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:24 PM
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The sex trafficking industry is tan by people the vast majority of polite society would deem abhorrent. While women’s beauty industry is propped up entirely by women. Your response makes no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:08 PM
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Becoming more affluent, moving to an environment where you have a higher status, getting plastic surgery or hitting the gym 4-6 times a week will all lead to more casual sex. You will probably argue none of that is meaningful but then again women are the same people who say “because he was able to talk to me as a person, listen to me like a person, and make me laugh, we hooked up”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:01 PM
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I haven’t been in middle school for over 10 years now… go ask someone who is
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:37 AM
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“You even know wtf sharia law is”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:36 AM
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Tate’s ways of dealing with women can work if someone lives in a society under Sharia Law. If not (like the majority of his fans are) things such as “no wife would talk back to a husband who keeps a sword” will obviously not work. To also be honest I don’t believe his most true supporters actually care about being a good person, but rather just about being at the top. As politics and business have taught me anyone willing to do whatever it takes to hit those heights will have no qualms about mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:46 PM
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He ran a successful Cam business. Until he’s been convicted of sex trafficking crimes Im not going to argue whether he did or did not ship women around like livestock
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:41 PM
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He ran a successful Cam business. Until he’s been convicted of sex trafficking crimes Im not going to argue whether he did or did not ship women around like livestock
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:41 PM
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How did any of what you said refute anything I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:39 PM
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I think the issue is that a lot of the guys don’t just want a relationship but rather want to try their hands at the whole fucking around and having fun lifestyle and then settling down with some hot women at the end… all of which is just a complete fantasy for nearly all of those men. Those guys also tend to not exactly be the average man but if I were to put it in stat terms are more to be the lower quartile of men in terms of quality. So it can’t be a complete surprise their success rate refl…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:44 PM
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Your point is very valid… there are clearly a lot of men who are tired of constantly hearing how they are everything wrong with society and yet when they look around the men who they see actually succeeding with women wayyy more often then them are the same ones that women constantly say are the worst of the worst men (emotionally unavailable, not good listeners, womanizers, and definitely “not in touch with their feminine side” for whatever that means)… So along comes this guy validating everyt…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:37 PM
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That not fucking line definitely gave me a chuckle… but with Harry Styles and the K-pop thing all I’m trying to say is that there are plenty of women who talk about LIKING guys who emulate those characteristics and yet out in public these types of men are not exactly rare and equally don’t have women lining up to their door
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:33 PM
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I will break 1 rule I put up… 1 of his points was that where he moved to (Romania) allowed for legal corruption. It was wholly idiotic for him to openly say this as Romania is also a place that still subscribes to old Russian rules: The Gov can make people disappear with no due process. His own big mouth will likely cost him freedom for a long time
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:20 PM
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I wouldn’t say it’s the women alone but rather the whole package of what he presents to be the pinnacle of male success in the modern world: go around with enough Fuck U money to tell off whoever you want, have whatever you want, and do whatever you want… women like the ones he has would just be another benefit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:17 PM
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It took a long time for me to come to that realization, and I would argue it will take a lot more of the guys wayyy younger than I (as these are the guys a lot of women on here keep telling me are the biggest Tate fans) to come to that same conclusion. A lot of guys I know at 24 25 and 27 are still not really looking for that kind of relationship and are just trying to rack up lists with beautiful women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:14 PM
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100%… it’s very likely a lot are hate watches and reactionarys and yet those people are all making the guy more money by giving him all the attention
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:11 PM
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Have to agree… and it’s the exact reason why a lot of the K-pop/feminine men takeover seems at best overblown and more likely just not really existent. There are plenty of guys I grew up with who embody that ideal to a T (physically and emotionally) yet out of the 20 or so men I know like that only 1 of them is in a relationship with a girl who is extremely hot. 15 of the rest of them are in no relationship and the last 4 are in some mediocre situationships
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:10 PM
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What’s really funny is there are huge amounts of women who claim to be able to “pre-select” against the kind of man who will do them poorly but clearly throw all of that out the window when they are dealing with a highly successful man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:05 PM
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This is more so down to life experiences and personal history that turns into a proto-confirmation bias… ie nearly ALL men raised in America think that Transformers era Megan Fox is hot and would do whatever it takes to get with her however nearly just as many have tried to get with a girl that checked off a lot of (if really lucky ALL) the boxes Fox does and if they were confident enough it’s extremely likely they got shot down or if they were perceptive enough they most likely saw men better l…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:34 PM
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100% agree. A lot of women on here get insulted when you try to explain that being overweight is a fixable issue. A lot of people are just totally unwilling to change what makes them comfortable and altho you are going to suffer in terms of short term options it’s become clear to me (through similar experiences to what you described) that trying to be in a relationship with a person who isn’t already trying as equally hard as you are to stay fit is just very likely to end in disaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 06:32 PM
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You were right in your first response, these obese people are MENTALLY ILL but of course a lot of them don’t want to admit that their eating disorder is the result of a mental illness and so have come to call themselves “marginalized” with SJW people now defending the obese at every turn smh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 06:27 PM
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Definitely agree that there are very few Asian people around me, and Canada is definitely very different than the US when it comes to food and food culture
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 07:49 PM
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https://www.binghammemorial.org/Health-News/childhood-obesity-on-the-rise you don’t even know what you are talking about seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 07:08 PM
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You misunderstand, I’m not complaining at or too women. The post isn’t even really intended for women. It is simply an observation about American society formatted under the CMV flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:53 PM
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I love how you criticized my response to another post but didn’t acknowledge the other post at all🙄 I have already said elsewhere on this thread the reasons why I’ve struggled with dating… go look for that if ur really inclined to figure out what my problems are otherwise sayonara
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:21 PM
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All men not already in a relationship would try their hand on a single attractive woman. Not really sure what you’re saying tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:18 PM
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Fat is excess calories the body can no longer burn in stasis. If one burns more calories than consumed it is mathematically impossible to have an excess. As for the some vs most vs all, the loudest voices are the ones that dictate public discourse. When I was growing up (from 99 to 2019) there was no such thing as plus size models. Obviously plus size clothing is the best selling clothing so the fashion industry realized it no longer made any fiscal sense to not include fat models. If that actio…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 05:35 PM
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Please copy and paste where I said men are not obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 05:27 PM
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Are African women not black or am I tripping?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 05:19 PM
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Where did I say ALL AA women are obese?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 05:12 PM
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It’s the internet so I have nothing to prove worth doxing over lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 05:05 PM
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I 100% ask questions, but I see what ur saying about trying to ask ones that lead to going to places or doing fun things… I’ll definitely use the advice
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 04:59 PM
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he is is not big?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 04:48 PM
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You clearly don’t live in America, as the most obese women who are suffering from health issues are the ones running to TV, the News, Twitter, Instagram, Facebook and even College Halls saying that there’s absolutely nothing wrong with being fat or any health problems that come from it. If one works out enough the American diet cannot make them obese but in America it’s a lot of “well I can’t do that because of blah blah blah”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 04:37 PM
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What a world we live in where starting off with “hey beautiful” is an insult🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 04:31 PM
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he is 6’1” 190lbs
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 04:30 PM
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he is 6’1” 190 Edit: You know I’m starting to think a lot of you don’t actually know anything about body types or working out
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 04:29 PM
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Yeah the big issue is definitely all the gaslighting and PC speak going around that it’s perfectly fine for women to be obese and if men say anything about it that’s an issue. Even tho the reverse is not only acceptable but encouraged
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 03:16 PM
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Yeah I only planned to live near Major cities over there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 03:15 PM
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1000% agree… I had completely forgot to mention that a LOT of the attractive fit women I meet out in public (bars clubs parks and gyms) and are socially well adjusted all have bfs. The scarcity is really the biggest problem and it’s dawned on me that the only real way to overcome it is to leave for Europe (as allegedly there’s a lot more of them over there but single)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 02:41 PM
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The jackets are to hide muscle. I’m not skinny.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 02:22 PM
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I would say about 2-3 a Week but again the vast majority don’t respond after hey beautiful and a joke about their bio (if they have one) or just asking how they are doing… I have really good pictures on there that we’re all taken by friends who are girls
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 02:08 PM
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I don’t disagree with anything you said… for me personally being built has led to sex but no meaningful relationship has come from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 02:00 PM
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Where I live I can get matches. But every conversation with any girl remotely beautiful tends to end after hey beautiful, how’s your week (or year) going so far. It’s lead to me to believe that there’s something else at play other than just looking good or being interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 01:56 PM
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https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/252984 https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6125030/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 01:49 PM
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No, being African American, taller than 95% of the employees there AND having muscle makes people visibly uneasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 01:47 PM
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If there are more fat people than ever before how are there not less slim/fit people than ever before? Edit: syntax
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 01:39 PM
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You know I genuinely never thought of this, I like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 01:32 PM
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More than in prior generations makes a lot. Also you can’t just bold a part of your sentence act like that’s a real valid counterpoint and expect me to argue. Come back with a real response and stats that say where in history there have been more fat people than today and we can have a real debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 01:24 PM
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There are plenty of men who have killed children and never lost a night of sleep does that mean all men kill kids and go on about their business as tho nothing happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 01:19 PM
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You must not be a “fit dude” then cuz coming from one who’s actually been in the gym for all his adult life it’s nowhere near easy to just go find another “fit chick” As for the “singling” you again have shown that you are not here to debate my point above but just whatever you feel about the very broad topic that’s fat women. My point is that slim and fit women aren’t stupid and understand that there’s clearly a whole lot less of them than there are any other type of woman and considering that …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 01:15 PM
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I’m not angry, just disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 12:58 PM
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You know what’s funny is that nearly every single obese person I have listened to online and in real life has explained to me at nausea that being fat has no health risks of any kind… so if that’s what they are telling me then who am I care at all about their obvious health risks. As for the sex part; yeah that’s kinda what this sub is about, like I don’t know why you would be on a dating sub and not expect conversations about sex to come up queue Jackie Chan confused meme
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 12:44 PM
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Where in the post did I say there are no fat men? You clearly didn’t read a word of what I said…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 12:36 PM
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See the problem with the “olden days talk” is that this just refers to a HIGHLY specific time from right after WWII to 1970 (around the start of the free love movement) and only in America. Every other single time and place in Human history has always been the most powerful men take as much as they want and leave the rest with scraps. Feudal England Knights/Lords could kidnap peasants and have concubines… renaissance Italy the top families all had sons known for sleeping around with as many wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:48 PM
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100% agree… the only time I ever had a girlfriend she was considerably less attractive than me and wanted to wait on me hand and foot… At the same time I never was interested in dating her and was basically miserable the whole relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 06:25 PM
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That’s due to the surveys ur referring to being among married people, the vast majority of whom are well older than the millennial generation… would definitely like to see what that survey looks like in 10 years considering all the guys I know who have only sisters and no brothers can cook while majority of their sisters cannot (full disclosure Im Gen Z)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 06:22 PM
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Tall women (6’ and up) are already pretty rare, but a tall chick with a guy who’s shorter by more than 2” is much rarer… It’s like the “All men are intimidated by women who make more than them” when in reality it’s “No woman wants to put up with a man who makes less than them God forbid he looses his job or gets in an accident and becomes financially dependent on her”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:28 PM
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100% agree… would even go so far as to say most guys all know of if not friends with a guy like OP describes and we all know that guy is in 1 committed relationship and has been for years… Now on the odd chance that guy is single it’s extremely rare you see him doing much with women outside of being a shoulder to cry on or the odd date every once in a blue moon…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:21 PM
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So you are saying that women will sleep with a guy they aren’t physically attracted to because they had a 2 hour conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 06:07 PM
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Well go take a Title IX seminar at any college (as these are all provided for free) and see for yourself what I mean… Also what you described is not the free love movement. The free love movement was a lot of like minded people living in a small community sharing Marxist ideas including each other’s bodies. You tell me where I’m America or England this still exists today
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 04:25 AM
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The key point in your counter-argument is that you are 40 which means you were born in the 70s and grew up in the 80s/90s which if I remember correctly was well before every College started implementing things like Mandatory Title IX Seminars for all students and the “free love” movement had not totally died out…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 08:55 PM
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I’m not sure if you are a guy or not but I’ll put it like this: the way testosterone works in men is like a starving person who has gone weeks without food or water. Now if you are a guy living in any area in the Western world that has even a decent population size and internet connection, it’s like the starving person is surrounded by a buffet of food with 7 foot high soda and chocolate fountains and every time you get rejected it’s like you have loaded up a plate of food but then someone else …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 08:49 PM
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I 100% agree with this sentiment… The only issue to actually putting this in practice is that in The West we have grown as a society to where the majority of Mothers absolutely baby their sons and cause them to be entitled and child-like… Case in point a lot of my friends are always extremely surprised when I seem emotionally nonchalant in extreme situations like car crashes, robberies and other pressure intensive situations (the most common situation they all see me in is talking to women in pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 08:41 PM
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Not gonna lie that is the first time I’ve ever heard that in my life… definitely gotta do some research about that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 04:18 PM
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It is pretty likely the majority of men are not going to do anything about the status quo. But as for the Chad-harem theory, a lot of people think this means that 5% of guys are getting to have sex with 50%+ of women… in reality it’s more that the top 3% of men as a collective have the actual opportunity to have sex, be in a FWB situation, or just outright date around 25-30% of women. This is still winner takes all as there is no other grouping of men who can even come close to this outside of a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 04:15 PM
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I’m not going to argue against your experiences and obviously that’s what has formed your opinions, but I will say this; I have a lot of friends who everyone says are stand up guys and a lot of them have done some of the most heinous things (ie knowingly fucking wives) and they don’t ever tell any girl that as that’s “locker-room talk” So all Ima say is that you never really know someone until they show you their true colors, and considering even Ted Bundy had a wife and a kid for years there ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 04:01 PM
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The odds are very high that you will never be asked for a survey in your life… there are over 300 million Americans and the most rigorous surveys have barely 5000 people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 03:55 PM
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How can you obtain an STD without ur partner having one? Or are you saying that the receptor just has an immaculate conception of an STD😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 03:53 PM
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Ur thinking from the wide perspective… if we take out obese women very physically unattractive single mothers and women with just absolutely no interest in dating men, then from that piece there’s an absolute shortage and considering at least 35% of those women will go for the top 1 - 5% of men you will have a winner takes all market
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 03:43 PM
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Definitely have met a few porn addicts who were in serious relationships and whenever I saw a lot of them in person they would start asking details about my sex life once they knew I had no gf😒
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 02:30 PM
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Dark Web and African friends that visit South Africa regularly is the way to go lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 02:27 PM
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Definitely
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:38 AM
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Gonna pull an anecdote here; when I was in school I played sports so a lot if my friends were athletes… we were playing hella video games all through highschool and college as well as doing actually hard drugs (think blow, miley, teslas, and luudes). From those experiences I can without a doubt assure you that none of that was ever getting in the way of any us talking to women😂 (Edit: almost forgot one of the guys in my friend group had parents rich enough to give him a credit card and not care …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 10:47 PM
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True that. I was coming from the stand point that the majority of people that age are trying to be in a relationship, but they also didn’t ask that in the research smh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 10:43 PM
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What should I change to not have this taken down
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 10:16 PM
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It basically works against the average black man… the guy who is probably 5’7” to 5’10” works a 9 to 5 for under 60k a year, has a beat car, can’t afford to rent anything nice. Those guys will either have a silver serpents tongue or basically be virgins until they’re 35+ On the other hand guys who have the pornstar look (six pack, over 6 feet, has good looking face) can make do with a few women that aren’t black and generally have their pick of the litter when it comes to AA women. Sure there ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 06:02 AM
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You are on the internet, at least Google the information and see if there are any 1st person sources that either confirm or refute what I say as the only thing you did was sit around and think “well what this person said doesn’t sit right in my head/validate my opinion so therefore they cannot be right” un-ironically doing what you accused me of😑
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:52 PM
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You don’t have the face to be an E-boy and you have already committed to being ripped in the Björnsson style so you have limited your potential pool of women. Simply put only women who are into overly built black guys with your face-type AND are secure enough in themselves to be with you in public are going to give you the time of day. If you think about it in terms of numbers it’s like you keep increasing the fraction of women who might be interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:40 PM
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Trade Jobs in an Economy like America by definition have limited growth due to America being a Service Economy. I’m places like West Virginia, The Appalachians, Baltimore, Detroit, and Louisiana this is apparent with Steel, Iron ore, Coal, Car manufacturing, and Shipping port business all going away in the last 50 years. The trade jobs you are talking about are things like HVAC, Piping, and other technician based industries that all require an economy to not be in a recession due to them all req…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:35 PM
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The answer to your last question is “emotional openness.” When I was younger I had been taught by a lot of liberal leaning women that emotionally open men succeed more than emotionally closed men. But as I grew older that turned out to be categorically false; with the majority of relationships between friends that I personally knew ending after the guy had become emotionally open with the girl, while the relationships that I have personally witnessed stand the test of time has been with all of m…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:24 PM
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I would disagree, he was a tenured professor who was the most famous man in physics until he died (meaning people far and wide paid money to watch him speak), and his latter wife stayed with him until she died even though he allegedly slept with young women in their shared house. So although he never explicitly had those 2 requisites he certainly had them implicitly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:17 PM
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I don’t think women as a collective are as horny as men solely on the basis that every time I have been out in the real world clubbing there has never been a mad dash to every Tom, Dick, and Harry for a late night stand; yet there’s no shortage of men in that same environment trying to fight tooth and nail to leave with a woman, regardless of size, face, marital status, or even sexual orientation. Only fans is a service that provides a boutique sexual experience where it comes as close as possib…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:06 PM
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Albert Einstein had the exact lifestyle TryLambda described when he moved to America to escape Nazi Persecution with one of his latter wives lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 04:50 PM
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Your Comment is spot on… tho after looking through OP’s profile/post history it’s not likely to work for him… There’s clearly some conformation bias on my part since I did the whole “merging E-boy and Ripped Muscle” looks, but at the same time the examples of men I had seen throughout my life who had the most success with women embodied that look to a T
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 04:16 PM
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Niggas not getting sex in the hood definitely complain… just not aloud Your argument is like some of the people in the thread who believe that there will simply be no consequence to this problem other than more loners dying alone In both cases this is not true… Hoodrats who don’t get sex in the hood will do 1 of 3 things: turn to gangs to fill the void in their life, become smart and leave the hood, or keel over and die. Why does any of that matter? All of those actions lead to the hood area bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:28 PM
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TBH this is what has destroyed the current dating market… a lot of “son shall pay for the sins of the father” where a lot of the social environments have been shaped by the way people used to utilize them in the past. For example: when I was a kid older guys were always talking about the magic of clubs/bars/lounges where guys could flirt till their heart’s desire. Now that I’m old enough to be in the club it’s clearly no longer that same environment with a whole lot of people their generally act…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:14 AM
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As a Gen Z who started working in the corporate world back in 2020, I can wholeheartedly say that approaching women in public places where you frequent AND people know you by name there is just a very bad idea… I have seen plenty of guys get clowned on social media for approaching women at the gym… Every employer I have worked for (4 so far ) had a strict no fraternization rule where flirting is explicitly banned… And for the Coup de grâce: all social outings I’ve witnessed in the past 5 years w…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 03:57 AM
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Interestingly enough I used your exact argument for why the idea of Government Subsidy to the elderly in the form of Medicare, Medicaid, and Social Security not only makes no sense but will effectively bankrupt future generations of America… I was then downvoted into oblivion and called an Ayn Rand worshipper… So I guess in reality humans rules are all about moral relativism; not anything absolute.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:58 PM
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All that means is there are legitimately men who will do little to nothing and receive a lot while others will put in varying degrees of working harder and obtain nothing. It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to see why this won’t end well…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:45 PM
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So I there’s a thread on certain historical societies actions involving women But to say that societies rose and fell due to men wanting other nations’ women is very naive and for the most part untrue… Historically men conquered others for resources and women were simply collateral damage. I would argue that up until the 21st Century human societies haven’t even yet witnessed the kind of scarcity of women that would lead to men conquering other nations… It will be fairly interesting though to se…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 10:42 PM
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I wholeheartedly disagree with your opinion of men. The majority of men I know are pretty reasonable; until a hot woman enters the picture and all bets are off… I’ve seen some of the staunchest supporters of women’s rights completely loose their minds based on a (obviously faulty) notion that doing so will get them laid. with that being said, I also have a taste for history and nearly every time there are changes in organizations of society an uprising follows, the more conservatively deranged w…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 01:40 AM
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You said that women have no inherent differences to men and that women are just as capable as men… these are blanket statements that are made to make people such as yourself feel very good but are dangerous at a fundamental level of thinking for the simple reason: Nature makes the aggregate of women physically weaker and less aggressive than the male counterpart… I’ll put it to you like this: for every non-white race that currently holds little power in the modern era they all have a time where …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 02:53 PM
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Before you loose sight of what’s important here you still have yet to answer me on why there are neither any Amazon Society’s in the real world or why all female armies have not demonstrated any real advantage in warfare… if you can explain those 2 things I will happily concede that there are no differences between men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 06:37 PM
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1 Transgender Men are only men in Name (before you try to debate that point please ask yourself how many pregnant “men” are in or are impregnated in Federal Prison)… 2 You are trying to argue Morality with absolutes, which is just nonsense, for example: there is no Society on earth where humans are allowed to consume their own piss, but what human will observe that “right” in the Desert with no water and a 40 mile trek to the nearest water source…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 06:29 PM
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Then your leading question holds even less water as you wrote “no cis men… can have babies” which implies non-cis men can have children. If you’re serious about that retort however all I have to say is where are these hidden Utopias built by women for the uplifting of women? As there are plenty of instances in history where oppressed men built (albeit fleeting) societies where they could thrive away from the oppressor…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 05:57 PM
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Do gay men or bisexual men have children? Edit: If you aren’t (or can’t) bother to engage with a shred of a true argument, you might as well just claim your trivially dubious victory as your statements are increasingly becoming illogical which is always the sign of someone with a moral superiority complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 05:47 PM
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I nearly forgot, since you asked for data I will provide 1 point of data: The United States has the most prolific sports system in the world outside of Soccer, and EVERY SINGLE Professional Men’s league is open to females joining and competing, yet in Pro Basketball, Baseball, Soccer, Football, Combat Sport, Sprints/Distance Track, Weightlifting, and Tennis there are NO women athletes who become professional players in Mens’ Leagues; instead women form their own leagues whereby Men are not allow…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 05:24 PM
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If that is the case then there should be Modern Day Amazonian States that mirror Modern Islamic States and Caliphates where Men have no legal powers and Women hold all the socio-political rights… Since there are in fact no such Prominent Societies in the modern era, simple logic states that there is a clear difference between men and women no matter how much certain people like yourself keep putting this argument forward
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 05:16 PM
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I don’t get why this isn’t the most popular answer to this entire thread; I have only been alive for 22 years and since I can remember I have been taught in every class outside of math and science that there are no differences between men and women… Therefore if men are all about sex all the time (which is a claim made by about 90% of American women whether feminist or not, liberal or conservative) why then does anyone expect the [majority of] women who can obtain sex (casual or otherwise) to no…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 07:56 PM
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Actually had the exact same type of upbringing with my parents as well; just replace The Vietnam Stories with ones of escaping Madness and Corruption in Africa… The insane part is that naturally I’m a hyper-jovial lassaiez-faire kind of person but with the parents I had (or u described) I developed a whole cold and brooding exterior that, hilariously enough brings all the ladies to the yard whenever I am going through a “spell” smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 06:14 PM
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Edit: you know what forget it, TBH I just have 1 thing to say IME living in Cognizantly living in America for nearly 20 years I have found the most vile and racist people to be Poor White and in areas of limited exposure to what I would refer to as “the outside world” so if you really are enjoying your dating life in such an area then there must be a lot more in common with you and them then what meets the eye… I have listed all of the different things that turn me off about women of these areas…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 01:49 AM
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That’s due to the forever chemicals and Micro-plastics that are littered in everything that Americans have built from food to furniture… not something inherent to male biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 10:10 PM
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I think you misunderstand, my n-count is over 40, and the count is entirely comprised of women farther than a 17 mile (or >25 min drive) radius from where I currently live. The way that you describe your personality just sounds like how a lot of my friends who moved from LA to the East Coast describe their personality and out of the 6 of them that moved only 1 of them had lost their virginity by the time they moved out here (and they all moved after college). Also you still didn’t answer the sec…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 09:47 PM
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You are most certainly correct, I have lost women due to the fact that I have no intention of staying in an area filled with rednecks, I have no respect for obese women (aka the majority of women who live around here), I don’t want any woman who already has a kid (Im 23 so that’s a 1/4 of women my age gone from the prospects list), and I sure as hell don’t have any wish to drink beer by the 8-pack because (imo) this single issue has lead to all the other issues for a lot of the women here… oh ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 09:21 PM
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I think the real problem is that location is the end all be all for this kind of thing and people just don’t take it into account. I live on the East Coast and ever since graduating from College I have amassed a lot of friends who are LA and Santa Fe exiles who see my struggles with women and constantly tell me damn Tripleawge if you were in Cali you would be killing it in Dating rn… Unfortunately for me I did not study Computer Science in College as that job would have allowed me to have alread…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 01:35 PM
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I 100% disagree… I live 20 min from a city to the South of me and 50 min from a city to the North of me, the area within my direct vicinity is 20% Newlyweds in their 30s, 30% Retirees, and 50% Rednecks… I’m African, as in not African American but literally African due to my parents having the genius idea of giving me names that are essentially WHOLE phrases in their Tribal language from Western Africa, Now riddle me this: if I have no car (saving to leave my state), no house (renting cheaply to …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 01:28 PM
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Ted Bundy and his ilk are laughing in their unmarked graves at this. If a guy looks like Chris Hemsworth or (Young) Travis Fimmel but also happens to be one of those Wolves who are VERY apt at hiding in sheep’s wool, do you think they will be more or less prolific than Mr. Bundy in Today’s society?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 01:20 PM
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Only Caucasians, Japanese, and Chinese People are in line to experience the kind of world shattering de-population crisis that seems to be all the rage on the internet these days…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 01:20 PM
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That’s not exactly true, English people have absolutely horrible teeth and are notorious for developing loads of oral health issues… in contrast Nigeria is known for having a complete lack of health infrastructure, and people with beautiful teeth. Remember correlation does not equate to causation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 01:18 PM
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I don’t understand what you are saying… all I said is that women aren’t forthcoming about who they like when guys who like them ask that and they DEFINITELY are not explaining to any guy who isn’t their best friend (and so most likely already out of the pool of possible romantic relationships) what it is that makes a guy turn them on, become boyfriend material, or husbando.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 04:04 PM
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You must not interact with a lot of women then as there are virtually none, discounting the rare very open or masculine or just straight up lesbian, that will come forward with a truthful opinion of a guy. The vast majority will either say nothing useful (so they minimize the likelihood of confrontation with a guy who could fight and kill them) or simply lie (smarter manipulative and psychopathic types do this) to achieve some hidden goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 01:21 PM
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There are plenty of women (especially now that the internet has given “everyone a voice”) that espouse their beliefs on why men are trash at dating constantly
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 01:12 PM
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That’s why you don’t see economists argue in these types of debates as there is simply no way to come the conclusion OP makes based on 2 or 3 data points… smh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 07:50 PM
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I would argue that the tools become more effective the sharper they are… as in the hotter, richer, and/or higher status the man more you can just ignore the extreme majority of women who are feminists, FDS, and just generally undesirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 02:33 PM
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You should write more of these PPD articles on sexual dynamics as that’s what a lot of men here are clearly searching for but just don’t seem to realize it yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 12:20 PM
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This was exactly got me in“TRP” 5 or so years ago, and what’s crazy is within 4 weeks of finding TRP I realized it was complete nonsense (at least none of the advice had any observable consequence in my dating life) But then about 3 months from that point I found BlackPill and used that information to do a complete 180 in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 11:31 PM
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The descendant of that accent is what I meant, so u don’t say A as ah but u keep the T and phonetically pronounce all consonants in English words.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:04 PM
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Transatlantic is the accent all middle class suburban to Upper Class East-Coast Americans speak with…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:03 PM
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Altho I 99% agree with OP, don’t forget that these things do not occur in a vacuum. Meaning, there is a world of difference in how u will be treated depending on other factors that are attached to Education and by extension Job Profession. I have read the studies saying that Rich Americans on average marry only other wealthy Americans. But said studies rarely account for whether those people were born that way or obtained wealth, if they all live in the same place, if they all look the same, or …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 04:36 PM
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Can’t forget that a solid 75% or so of people are content with a small house, land, 2 cars, dogs, and kids…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 12:25 PM
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I really like Zendaya, Zoe Kravitz, and Renee Zellweger… to the point where if I met any of those 3 I would try my damn hardest to romance and marry them. I am about 6’2” 191 lbs and 15-12% body fat. Will I be able to get any of them though: No obviously not. If you can tell me why I can’t then use that reasoning/logic to define what a league is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 01:53 PM
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We were NEVER having a discussion about the effects of porn on human psyche, so again GTFO. Secondly you were so keen to defend 1 depiction of pornography in history (statues of women) without even bothering to mention the other depictions of humans doing extremely vile things in sex which btw are way more common images to find then the one you described. In reality you are just another one of the Post 2000s revisionist liberals, who have decided to become arbiter, solicitor, and prosecution ove…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 02:52 PM
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How much the aggregate (status quo) feels your collection of attributes are worth any amount of time, effort, and respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 12:00 AM
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This is an issue I have with Western Philosophy: Calling a Spade a Star-Ship-Scooper tan than a Spade. If George Clooney was 6’8” 250 like Lebron and still had all of his other characteristics he would be a 10 out of 10. Obviously not for every woman but I would wager at least 68% of the Female population above 18 in America, The UK, and Australia would not only be willing to have sex with him but would jump through an insane level of hoops if it meant he would marry them. So I just don’t unders…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 01:03 AM
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Yes I would agree that most women above the age of 21 can be convinced to have a fairly fruitful and successful relationship with men they would probably not have liked as much in their earlier years. However I would argue that just like in business there are Horizontal and Vertical moves that can improve your standing in Dating. Horizontal are the (relative by comparison) easy moves such as getting into the gym everyday or moving to a place with better prospects for finding a relationship or wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 09:16 PM
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I am 6’2.5” I have a body fat % of 15 and I weigh 191 pounds even. I am also an African American Male. I would rate my face as a 8.5 and my body as a 9.5 and even though I live roughly 25 min from 2 extremely large coastal cities I am working diligently every day to save enough money to leave where I am due to the dating prospects being abysmal. I have gone out every weekend since September 2021 and I have gotten serious attention from about 2 women… The kicker is that both women (who are my loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 05:33 PM
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And FYI Porn is the depiction of sexual imagery, I know you have probably consumed very little actual history but there are countless cultures pre-GrecoRomanGermanic that depict humans FUCKING… Each other, Dogs, Goats, Sheeps, little Boys, little Girls, donkeys, and horses. So shut your goddamm mouth about obscenity, and go take Art-History 201 you loud-mouthed incompetent imbecile.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:14 PM
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Where in my comment did I tell you I watch porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:10 PM
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That’s just plain not true. Jacked Bodies would most certainly have been the most sought after in Scandinavian/Celtic Nations since those places were Viking lands held together by the physically strongest. Within the African continent alone there are at least 3 different body types that I personally know of that African Women looked for centuries at: West Africa- Potbelly Men rule as that means you have a lot of riches/land to your name. East Africa- Slim Tall Giants rule as that means you are m…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 02:56 PM
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What about the Indian and African Cave paintings of women with huge tits and big hips from over 2000 years ago? Or were ancient peoples also simply just into the commodification of women’s bodies while furthering the male population’s desensitization to sexual violence?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 01:00 AM
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It’s not as though I don’t understand your point, I just think that you fail to realize the SHEER VOLUME of women who just couldn’t give 2 fucks about anything STEM related that doesn’t involve working with other people ie: Medicine and Teaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:10 PM
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To become a Data Scientist one must have a working understanding of advanced statistics, matlab/python, inferencing, and (in order to not become obsolete in your own field within the next decade) intermediate machine learning skills. I don’t know about you but I can name exactly 0 people that pursued those subjects without having a near unhealthy level of interest in them or aren’t certifiable prodigys. As for the YouTube thing there’s no point in bringing up Keemstar as there is no onus on men …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:08 PM
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Gaming is not STEM. STEM requires decades of practice to master any of the subjects which (in my opinion) requires a kind of dedication that only comes from a near unhealthy obsession with said subject of interest. I understand that you have been to conferences on Women in Stem… I have also attended those types of conferences and I don’t think I have ever been to one that had an attendance of over 2000 people (women and men included). Take this in opposition to the YouTuber Convention for Tana M…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 07:55 PM
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A High Value Man is a man who is at least an 8/10 in looks, has an income of over $100k if he lives in a City/65k for a countryside… and most importantly the man has enough status that he earns respect from most people around him in his environment. The traits are specific as the combination of these traits should just about always yield a guy who women (no matter how hot the woman is) are always 2nd guessing themselves as they understand he is slightly, if not completely, out of their league. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:16 AM
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You are no longer referring to the biological desire at this point, (aka the Animal Spirit). The beauty of humanity is that for every problem humans collectively have intellects and sentience capable of coming up with a solution. What you are describing is simply the SOLUTION to unwanted pregnancy, not an edit to the bodily function or human design. In other words putting on a condom will not suddenly re-wire a man’s brain to no longer desire children or mates.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:45 AM
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I wouldn’t say “No Guy” if I were you. I just left the college scene 2 years ago and there are guys I’ve had the privilege of being friends with who have the height, BMI, and a few luxury goods that drew in enough female attention for them to hook up 5 times a week. There were also guys I personally knew who recorded their body count and averaged 5+ women a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:38 AM
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This is the exact issue in my eyes… most guys just look around and (for whatever reason) immediately compare their life to the life of the most Apex Male (colloquially referred to as Chad) in the room and think: “He is having soooo much more sex/interest from women than I am and he’s not even that much better than me.” Not realizing the apex guy basically outclasses him in every measurable category (from the female’s gaze/perspective anyway).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 12:25 PM
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My whole issue with this rebuttal is that dating studies that involve people that KNOW they are in a dating study is 1000% unreliable. I have read about 4 different studies on dating and race intersectionality in America and they all prove the same thing: Tell no one they are in a dating and race study and they will perform all of their awful judge-mental and extremely racist behaviors (especially white and Asian Women). Tell people they are in a race and dating study and all of a sudden everyon…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:12 PM
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My point is that there are 2 types of women whenever the issue of Female representation in STEM is brought up: the kind who understand what the REAL issue in stem is (young girls simply are not very interested in STEM/Women who achieve a lot in stem by and large end up leaving to go do other things with their life including starting families which has the ripple effect of the field being male heavy) and women who think that the only reason why there are so few women in stem is that at every sing…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 07:58 PM
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For which part?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:02 PM
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I took a lot of STEM electives and I noticed the exact same thing… which only proves 1 thing to me: Women complaining about the lack of women in STEM have no idea what the real issue behind that problem is: women (the vast majority not the few exceptions) are actually interested in STEM. Some of the most brilliant women I met in college would constantly state that they were getting a degree to simply either become an academic researcher or state they were just doing the degree to make their pare…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:02 PM
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This EXACTLY… it’s tough because if a lot of Caucasian women were serious allies to the AA community, we could have real change. But instead it’s just one enormous circle jerk where the only people who have experienced real Social Justice in America (from my observations are white women).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:28 PM
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Well I’m an African American male and I just graduated from one of the most leftist Private Liberal arts colleges in the nation in 2020. The school was 64% Female, 94% White and 87% White Female. Yet if I remember correctly the only AA men on that campus that were consistently able to date or fuck any women there (regardless of the woman’s race) was AA men who played basketball. That’s it. Not even AA men in soccer, Cross Country, swimming, or even any of the higher Division boating sports (my s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:18 PM
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Idk how many really good looking women you have been around but I played a NCAA sport back in college and a lot of the best looking women were constantly showing the behavior I stated above around basketball players. Ever since left college I expected to see a lot more beautiful women in relationships but that’s also really not the case as the majority of 9s and higher I’ve spoken with in the real world all say they have no time for boyfriends… tho I should also add that the majority of 9s I’ve …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:28 PM
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Your comment is probably the biggest piece of evidence for the “But Chad gets to have a Soft Harem” argument I’ve seen in this sub… Since it’s not as though straight women are complete Asexual, Demisexual, Sapiosexual creatures (inso far as many of them love to claim) they will all feel what guys feel around most women 8 and higher whenever a 6’4” 225 <15% body fat, Rob Lowe lookalike walks in. Considering the majority of them will have never felt such base human drive towards 1 individual it’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:07 PM
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Honestly the majority of AA women fuck with AA men where I’m at, there’s just not a whole lot of decently attractive ones. As for African Hoes not sure if ur referring to me going back to Africa or getting them here but African women (women who are either 1st or 2nd gen immigrants) don’t mean around unless ur engaged to them. The only exception are wannabe hood rats who aren’t my type as it is. At this point in my life I no longer struggle with getting women as the side effect of working out con…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:18 PM
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Not really, the biggest problem with African American women is the majority (talkin at least 2/3rds of them) are horribly obese. I am not obese and have never even been overweight so I’m just not interested in talking to women who don’t care about not eating everything in sight. In fact I would say it’s so bad that if an African American woman is relatively fit they are instantly among the top 10% of women pursued and that just leads to them either already being in a relationship by the time I’m…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:22 PM
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I’m definitely interested in hearing more about what your take is on women’s sexual markers and overall behavior when aroused/interested…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:07 PM
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You need to let me know where these singles groups are then as I was driven to OLD due to all the bars and clubs in the cities where everyone my age (25 and under) were at and the vast majority of women there either came with a boyfriend or had fire to remind her (when she got too drunk and flirty) she has a boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:51 AM
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I’ve lived among poor Americans for a time in my life so I can give you a pretty close answer: Poor people can’t afford the newfangled smartphone which is the only way you can access it anyway. Poor people will simply talk to other poor people at their work or in their local area and end up fucking around having kids and either committing suicide (whether knowingly or unknowingly by drugs/alc) or getting married and having poor family.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:48 AM
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Believe me, I know 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:45 AM
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I 100% agree with your argument. I live in between 2 major cities on the East Coast so I have access to 2 vastly different bar scenes in terms of the guys who frequent them… 1 thing remains extremely constant tho: there are plenty of guys thirsting for women out at the Bar and 99% of them are completely wasting their time since about 65% of the women there came with their boyfriends and AT LEAST 15% of them will tell you they have a boyfriend at home. Now apply the 20/80 rule to the final 20% of…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:40 AM
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I was a complete bookworm for the first 17 years of my life (but I was also very athletic and still pretty sociable hence why I had a lot of guy friends) and I remember getting NO women during that era. Like I didn’t even go to Prom or Homecoming as I had already been shot down in Middle school by similarly bookworm females. Nowadays the story is VERY different: I workout 24/7, I work multiple jobs to buy expensive clothing and jewelry, and Im currently investing in order to buy my first car and…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:30 AM
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This is too underrated; I was a college athlete at a very small school approx. 1500 students, and the guys with highest body counts were the tallest guys on Basketball and Soccer (the shortest of these guys was 6’4”) who you would never catch talking to any women… but at the end of every party Friday AND Saturday nights could always be seen leaving with at least 2
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:22 AM
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I have never really understood why so many guys fall for the whole “Hot Singles in Your Area” BS… IMO it’s as bad as the 5’5” awkward male accountant who falls for the “just get in the gym, work on his daygame, nightgame, and hair and he will soon be drowning in chicks” advice😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 12:41 AM
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You need to write a book on female attraction cuz this take is spot on… in fact Im going to take your comment and use it as a topic on the sub as this is toooo interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 12:09 AM
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You better be tall and exotic then, as that’s the only 99% guarantee you’ll turn heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:10 PM
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EXACTLY… Im of West African descent (pretty dark) and my parents decided to move to a place with 90% Caucasians when I was around 8 years old… that one move single handedly destroyed my entire dating career up until I left for college, started lifting 2-3 times a day in college, and started playing Rugby ON TOP OF already playing soccer. Not to mention all the overtime I would put in at menial Summer jobs absolutely slaving away so I could buy a few pieces of designer clothing. Meanwhile the imm…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:41 PM
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What in your opinion is Blue pill advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:09 AM
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I need to find more Alpha women then as Im not interested in chasing women… I would rather the ones who are confident enough to tell me they like me to just grab me and tell me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 06:44 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/se6wgo/do_women_value_a_guys_status_or_overall_looks_more/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 03:23 PM
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Yes, with tattooed wannabe biker chicks🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 03:22 PM
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Not gonna lie but the pool boy/sugar mommy relationship is probably the least observed relationship in real life… I’m speaking from beyond anecdotal as in -No one talks about them -Few books are written about it -Almost no movies are made with that as a central relationship. -Few women that age are ever really describing the need to sleep with young studs the way us guys always need a young hot tight girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 03:19 PM
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Would you say they have a lot more experiences with rich ugly guys, poor good looking guys, average income good looking guys, or average income average looking guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 02:21 PM
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There are definitely studies that confirm this point but in my 23 years on earth ( living between 2 major east coat cities) I haven’t really observed this. Everywhere I go the rich tend to be older unattractive “beta” males. While the 9/10 men are not all that well off…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 02:19 PM
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Yeah I can definitely see how it ends up being a problem when ur carrying a someone else like financial deadweight
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:53 PM
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I definitely agree with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:05 PM
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I definitely agree, I feel like the person in the thread I copied the comment from doesn’t understand that the odds of you getting the kind of status where anyone automatically recognizes you (in most places) is the equivalent to winning the lottery…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:04 PM
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The RP guys constantly argue against this and I am constantly hearing their thoughts on why this is false… please share your reasoning as to why Betas will stay that way tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:02 PM
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I mean that’s the point of having a lot of wealth and status… that person can afford the luxuries that everyone else cannot. And although I said in the context of hooking up, that could be over the course of an entire year if not years if both are FWB and are cool with remaining in a purely sexual relationship. I would argue that in purely sexual relationships one where the women’s “friend” can do stuff financially for her without caring about the cost whatsoever could be way more beneficial tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:00 PM
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This was my exact point with this post. I feel like too many people are hung up on status and tho it’s pretty important it’s just nowhere near the aphrodisiac that having a great face, toned bod, and mad height is on a guy. I actually went through the part of puberty that controls height, voice, and muscle late in life (before that I just had an excess of testosterone that manifested in extreme acne through middle and high school) and it was like I had really stumbled into a whole new life… EVER…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:56 PM
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In 99% of cases yes but I would just also point out that royalty (both heads of states and heads of high status families) can usually side-step the earn status thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:51 AM
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My follow up question would be is there a threshold for male beauty (say 9/10 guy) that can beat out a higher status male?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:49 AM
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I definitely agree with your points, there is a LOT of nuance with these things, and Dating is really about playing the odds as best as possible so the goal should be to amass as much of both (looks will be extremely tough) as quickly as possible. The Meeks example is the classic BP example and to be fair it does succumb to Apex fallacy but it should be noted that looks can potentially yield status while the reverse is (usually) not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:48 AM
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I actually know a few guys who are like this now… they were very well liked in college and as a side effect could get women whenever… now a lot of them work in manual labor/trade (due to choice and distaste of white-collar work) but get very few women even tho they make a slightly above average living.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:43 AM
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Tiger Woods is probably a better example but yeah I can see what you’re saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:39 AM
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Very valid argument you made, and I would note that when I worked at Nordstroms (7 years ago) the store manager who made around 80k and was a pretty attractive almost middle aged black women had the female equivalent of a hard on for the regional manger who was a 5’ 7” impeccably dressed near 60 year old (and most likely gay) white man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:36 AM
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So really the dating advice for men should then boil down to: get fit, and be extremely social when you are young, then try to gain social status in your 30s and 40s and just coast from there?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:28 AM
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Tiger also paid for a lot of prostitution, but tbh Tiger’s real problem was that he was a sex-aholic and that condition is tough to have with a partner who isn’t at the very least a quasi-nymphomaniac
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:27 AM
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Thanks for giving me some straight answers… my only question tho is can status elevate an average guy or is there a threshold of male beauty where you would be inclined to choose the hot one over the guy with a lot of status?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:25 AM
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So if the guy can provide you with a lot of stuff you want or help you out of a rough financial patch would you still prioritize a way better looking guy over him?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:22 AM
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Yeah this makes sense to me as BP seems to be the short term strategy focus while RP is long term… both still advocate for going to the gym a lot and get a lot of money as well…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:21 AM
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The halo effect is definitely true, there are of just some serious limitations to it, as everyone will be willing to give you the benefit of the doubt that you might be very good at something until you disappoint them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:19 AM
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I definitely know a few teachers (all male) in college who had a reputation for being very open with their male students (No professor I ever heard of in school who was caught was straight lmao)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:18 AM
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EXACTLY… black women at the end of the day are still women. What holds a lot of them back is their abysmally high proportions of obesity, and I’m sorry but when you are from Africa (as my parents are) and you see that the majority of people your skin color in another area are extremely unhealthy in weight compared to what you are used to back home, why would you bother mingling with them? Not to mention the amount of bullying young African men (and children of first gen immigrants) at the hands …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 10:21 PM
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I honestly disagree, mixed race-AA people marry other races in a significant disproportion to fully dark AA people. In my opinion that’s proof enough that at the very least other demographics prefer light-skin mixed blacks to any other blacks and by an extremely high margin no less.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 03:07 PM
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I understand the study had limitations and obviously isn’t a direct 1 to 1 correlation but I feel like we all know this study is basically the academic response to “just be in her social circle and you will land that really hot, pretty rich, and very social woman of your dreams” 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 03:14 PM
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See this just makes the whole “Social Circle” theory feel like complete Bullshit… why would any guy feel that he has an advantage to date a girl just because her friends introduced him to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:15 PM
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I mean of course, my point is just that the other person commenting on this OP made it seem like there were no factors outside of the OP being a weirdo/antisocial when I’m reality who knows what kind of issues the guy is going through while dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:09 PM
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Almost none haha, your point is definitely valid that few AA actually chase after Caucasians. However there is most certainly still colorism within the African American community as the best partners (at least according to every AA man I’ve asked) are the light-skinned mixed breed women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:07 PM
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I don’t disagree with your point per se (as celebrities clearly prove this to be true) however I think there is a fundamental misunderstanding of what it means to be really handsome or beautiful. The most beautiful people (we are talking 9 or better out of 10) are genetic anomalies. That is why the vast majority of plastic surgery comes out bad or highly uncanny. Being rich is a statical anomaly, as that literally means someone is in the 1% of income distribution or that they basically make more…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:59 PM
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Sure there are plenty of Caucasian women who are morbidly obese who will chase AA guys. There are also plenty of Caucasian women with serious mental health issues that also chase after AA men. This is why of the less than 5% of Caucasian Americans who end up in a marriage with an AA man it ends in divorce over 80% of the time. (Source: Pew Research).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:50 PM
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Oh no, I’m just personally not looking to date anymore. Sorry if there was any confusion in my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:44 PM
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The point here is very interesting… I have a n-count of exactly 10 (haven’t worked on it since Corona started lol) and I remember talking to the girl who took my virginity for about a year (she was in a relationship for 75% of that time) and thinking wow I would love to date this girl. Long story short we hooked up and I wanted to date her after but she responded to me with “I’m sorry I just don’t think I can do the stuff you are looking for” and I remember feeling depressed for almost an entire…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:58 PM
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You are SPOT ON with this take… I studied economics in Highschool and College, and if you compare the Dating Market to ACTUAL real-world country economies you find that The Western Dating Market has more inequality than most economies under Dictatorships, Totalitarian, Authoritarian, Religous-Nationalist, and Kleptocratic governments. So clearly the whole market is very winner-take-all in terms of rewards.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:10 PM
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See this is what I don’t understand about PPD: a lot (not all) of the women on here act as tho all the men on here are college frat guys under the age of 25… as those are the only guys who even remotely talk about their lay-count enough to get to this type of statement in the 1st place
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:55 PM
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Women can have Harems as well… just look at all the Kardashians, Lori Harvey, Jordan Woods… etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 04:22 PM
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These are my thoughts exactly. I live in an area where there are plenty of women but due to me not fitting the mold of what is socially acceptable where I live there are few to no prospects for me. That was all the info I needed to hear 4-6 years ago as at that point I wouldn’t have nearly gone insane hitting the gym every day, working overtime constantly, staying up late to scalp cheap designer brands on resale, and digging into years worth of research on communication styles and charisma in or…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 09:02 AM
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I take issue with your argument: when I was 7 my parents moved from a predominantly black area to a majority white area. My prospects for relationships at that point were completely killed and I kid you not they haven’t recovered since (if you think I’m overreacting wait for it…) I am African and smart so my parents wanted me to go to a prestigious school in my state that offered me a very lucrative scholarship, the school was even higher percentage white people than where I was living. My prosp…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 08:54 AM
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I’m going to leave this book by Jon Birger as he has done a lot of research into how gender populations in any given environment will be the end all be all for calculating “likelihood of success” when dating. I have some experience with the kind of research OP stated above and it just made me realize that I have to move to a place with wayyyy more women my age (say NYC) to really benefit in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 02:19 AM
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Yeah, I don’t even understand what the person above is insinuating… should we all just become like our forefathers and go weapons in hand to demand that the Megan Foxes of the work mod come back to our homes. Cuz that’s all our ancestors cared for.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 10:26 AM
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EXACTLY… as a son of African Immigrants in a predominantly white environment (80-86%) no woman (white or black) has ever cared about my struggles growing up. But I’ll tell ya, I can’t even count how many women ask me if it was tough building all the muscle I have or if it was hard to get the money to buy all the jewelry I wear now😂🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 05:48 PM
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I get what you are trying to say but I think that you have a naive idea about how much “work” it really takes to get to the level where people who only meet you 1 time always remember you as that “Charismatic guy.”I knew a guy who went from being very neurotic to being extremely charismatic over a 10 year period and after watching him closely (he was a cousin of mine) I have some takeaways: 1 The guy watches stand-up comedians 3hrs every day and practices stealing 1 joke from every routine for a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 04:16 PM
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So what you’re suggesting is that one could eventually become Ronald Reagan or Barack Obama level of suave/Teflon where they can convince millions of people to do something they otherwise wouldn’t through just talking to people for a while…. Serious Question: How long would you estimate someone like me (bang average in terms of charm and charisma) would have to practice “social skills” until I became Frank Sinatra (level of charisma)?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:38 AM
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Idk why people are so stuck in Red Pill… it never made any sense to me that guys really think they can TALK women who didn’t want to have sex with them into women who WILL😂🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:31 AM
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College level math is divided into Theoretical and Applied math, Advanced math is just both of them. Hope this answers your question.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 05:14 PM
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That’s simple: if there are 7 people born and 4 of them are male and 3 of them female (say for sake of argument none of them succumb to infant mortality) and all of them grow to 15, all 4 men will go to war and the 3 girls will be married off eventually, 2 of the men will die (statistically speaking) and only 2 will return so now there are 3 women to only 2 men. Multiply this across several generations and eventually there are wayyy more women above the age of 30 then there are men and now you s…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 05:03 PM
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The average age discounting for Infant mortality is irrelevant due to the average male not seeing the light of day past 30 due to war being a part of every facet of human history. Unless you want to tell me that the majority of people who go to war come out alive after. 2nd the king Tut argument is me proving a point using the Apex fallacy, which only works in that situation due to the fact that in Ancient Egypt nearly no-one lives longer then a Pharaoh considering Ancient Egypt was a pseudo-cas…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:52 PM
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Again, no… Military conscription was never outlawed in Rome until the Pope became the actual leader of State, so that’s post the fall of Roman Empire to the Gauls. 2nd the “volunteers” you speak of were the majority of poor common men who were trying to take advantage of the fact that if you served for 15 years (if you survived that long) The Roman Gov. Owed you an acre of land, a horse, and 10 years wages, which in theory is a one way ticket to a better life in those times. Your argument there …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:43 PM
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Thank you, I don’t really get why people here are so against historical facts. I didn’t state any opinions and yet so many people are quick to attack the argument with opinions as though that’s a valid response😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:31 PM
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Actually no, Famine and Disease both happen as often as outbreaks in Coronavirus, SARS Virus, Ebola, and Swine flu. Which is to say not very often. This is why Im glad you stated: they “hit both sexes equally” as this means you understand that tho are two reasons cannot account for the near DECADE of difference between women and men’s life expectancy rate. What does account for the difference: War. Women do not go to war, women do not serve their country in war, and so very crucially women are n…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:26 PM
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This makes me believe you have no actual answers. I have a degrees in Econometrics and Advanced mathematics so if you would like to “talk shop” on where I was statistically inaccurate by all means go ahead😉 But to simply hide behind others’ opinions and answers and then grandstand as though you have somehow thoroughly flogged me in the arena of intellectual discussion is probably amongst the lowest form of behavior I have witnessed in a while. Good day to you sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:12 PM
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Your response shows that you must not know a lot about Roman History… Rome was at war for approximately 95% of its entire 1000 year history. If you were a male over 15 you were Drafted (so mandatory service where draft dodging is punishable by death) and in wars of that time any one fighting has roughly a 55% chance of dying. So by my basic understanding of math it is impossible that the majority of the male population past the age of 10 could have lived to 60😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:00 PM
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Please provide links to facts that prove the ones listed above are mistruths.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:51 PM
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My response to this argument is that The top echelon of Society in the Middle Ages had a life expectancy of about 4-6 years longer then the average so instead of 25-30 you are looking at 30-35. This is relevant due to the fact that the upper class had the access to the best healthcare, medicine, resources etc etc… and yet they still lived over 45 years less than the the AVERAGE westerner lives today. Your argument also completely disregards War and Famine, both of which killed people in exponent…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:49 PM
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My response to this argument is that The top echelon of Society in the Middle Ages had a life expectancy of about 4-6 years longer then the average so instead of 25-30 you are looking at 30-35. This is relevant due to the fact that the upper class had the access to the best healthcare, medicine, resources etc etc… and yet they still lived over 45 years less than the the AVERAGE westerner lives today. Your argument also completely disregards War, Famine, abs Disease all of which killed people in …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:48 PM
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King Tut is the most famous male Egyptian king who died at the ripe old age of 19 and had 2 kids aged 4 and 3 by the time of his death…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:41 PM
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That is true, but Seth Rogen not only has a N-count higher than the average American male his age… but also he could land an extremely attractive female entertainer and last I checked no other non 7-figure A-list celebrity male is doing that with the beer gut and neck beard Seth Rogen has… unless it really is true that funny men can laugh their way into hot women’s pants🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 01:39 PM
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I think people on here are thinking in terms of the last 70-80 years of human history (dominated by America and Great Britain) and thinking that this is how all humans have behaved through all of time. Up until 1950s the average human lived until the ripe old age of 37. And even then that data was HEAVILY skewed by women’s survival rate. The average man lived until 33.5 years old meaning there is no BIOLOGICAL argument for men to be attracted to any woman over the age of 25. Keep in mind I’m sti…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 01:04 PM
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Up until 1950s the average human lived until the ripe old age of 37. And even then that data was HEAVILY skewed by women’s survival rate. The average man lived until 33.5 years old meaning there is no BIOLOGICAL argument for men to be attracted to any woman over the age of 25. Keep in mind I’m still really just referring to human history post the European Renaissance era as before that humans were lucky to make into their 30s. Now if you knew you had a greater than 90% likelihood of being dead b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 12:51 PM
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Divorce rate is over 50% in Marriages after 10 years in US/UK and only are going to increase soooo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 11:56 PM
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I’m sick and tired of this argument, BTS is a collection of multi-millionaire Asian (teenage boy-looking) Men who are the most talented guys in their nation, respectively. Not only are they the top of their business field but they are the top of their social hierarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 04:38 PM
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There is also the issue of location. If the island’s Westerners come to loose themselves and have a good time, so naturally single (also very horny and maybe in a relationship) women have sex with hottest guys on the island. HOWEVER you take the island guy and put him where I live and I would bet a year of my salary his n-count plummets. For context I live in an area that is ~87% Caucasians 7% African Americans 5% 1st Generation immigrants and 1% other, located 1hr from DC and 45 min from Baltim…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 04:16 AM
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Same here, I have take the train into the City nearby on the weekends due to the complete lack of options near me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 10:43 PM
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I don’t understand why OP (and others like him… mainly women) rate Social skills and generally being able to converse so high. I was raised by 2 formidable public speakers so I was naturally good at that from a young age… yet I couldn’t get any girls until I got in the gym lost ~15 lbs and grew my hair out (my bald head shape is kind of weird). IMO there’s no way to escalate without either being very good looking or a SERIOUSLY funny guy. It doesn’t matter how good you are talking to women, as n…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:57 PM
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I don’t think this is true at all. Women certainly say that they are un-attracted to men with a high body count, but I have been in 2 arenas that prove otherwise: I have worked closely with pro-athletes on occasions that have them mixing in civilian life, (and none of the married athletes showed up to these events so you can already cut the blatant F-boys out). As soon as the event started women would swarm every single pro in the building and any male without digits on his back or in the inner …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 12:36 AM
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So by your logic then the prize would be a man who looks like a Brad Pitt and is essentially an Involuntary Celibate. I don’t understand why you can’t see the issue with this “preference.” But I’m also not a woman so let me at least give you the male perspective: 1. A guy has been drop-dead good looking from the age of around 10… so good looking that not only does he receive different treatment from people his own age but also women a whole lot older then him… logically this means that whenever …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 12:19 AM
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Yes there are as many women as there are men but there aren’t as many disabled women as there are men. How do I know this for a fact, because the biggest single cause of disabilities is war and Men participate in that at a rate of almost 8x to women. Now I don’t know about you but I know that both I as well as every man I know that is abled bodied will not go and seek out women with physical disabilities, and vice versa. Next we take into account that very few men below 250 lbs will be likely to…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 04:40 AM
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You know I have heard this point many times and I am very curious to see what happens in the future. My hope is that VR really takes off and technology that comes extremely close (or better) to real sex becomes available so we can see what happens. I bet you are right about Gov. interference but as Bitcoin has proven the Gov. is more greedy than fearful so I bet money that they would just levy that sin tax (like on cigars)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 03:49 AM
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That’s not artificial tho… if there are a lot more men willing to simp for a certain type of woman then the demand is just to high and that type of woman is a scarcity. There are only 3 Koniseggs in the world hence why each costs north of 25 million dollars. The same thing applies to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 03:45 AM
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That’s a loaded statement at the end however because that leaves out a few different aspects of who wants marriage vs who is having sex… To illustrate my point I would take the Young Loud Conservative Influencer Tomi Lahren, just last year she had a (practically) mental breakdown on Instagram live talking about how “Men need to stop chasing these thotianas” and the whole “good women like her want a valuable committed relationship” spiel and I bring this up due to the fact that she lives in LA, m…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 03:40 AM
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The Free Market has come to the Dating Scene… Adam Smith would be proud.🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 03:16 AM
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What the problem really is; People hate the way actual free market economies work in real life. Think about it: The US/Shanghai Stock Markets are (the biggest trading platforms in the world) not free markets because there are “stop-gaps” in case the market plunges. American Labor is also not free market as the Gov. will step in once enough people start complaining (SEC/BBB/FDIC were all created for said purpose). I just wonder If and how such “stop-gaps” would ever appear/what would they look li…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 02:54 AM
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My point still stands that you don’t know what you’re talking about. A “positive non-grudging laissez-faire” attitude has nothing to do with getting women. I’m not here complaining about anything as I’m neither an Incel nor a Redpilled individual. However I have a degree in Economics and there is work done by people wayyyy smarter then me with PHD’s in Economics who have studied the American Dating market as what it is... A Real market. Having read that research I think people like you are sicke…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 10:53 PM
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Eh my mother’s called me worse🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 10:29 PM
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The point is that they are hot, now stop dodging the question... I want to get the info on how you would do it so I too can change my life and start pumping/dumping all the hot Trump/MAGA female supporters that have flooded my local area
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 06:59 PM
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So what you’re telling me is that you would choose Barbara at the grocery store who will make you pay for several dates (she has a 15 date rule) before you ever get to sleep with her over Megan Fox if she would let you smash on the first night and then start giving you gifts and maybe even make you a FWB... yeahhhh surrrrre😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 06:55 PM
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No, the objective is to get with the opposite sex and you (like many other people who peddle “self-help” and “Svengali life advice” the same way Big American Pharma peddle Opiates) state it’s a matter of confidence so again I would like to understand how confident one has to be to attract the opposite sex when they are simply not attracted to said person akin to that of a Lesbian’s attraction to straight men😂 FYI moving the goalposts in this situation would be me asking why can’t my cousin from …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 02:50 PM
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It’s not even really a generalization tbh I want to know how confident you think I should be to turn a Lesbian Woman Straight or how confident I should be to go and steal Megan Fox from her Ex-Husband MGK style😂🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 02:32 PM
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Lmao I didn’t complain about anything, but I will let you in on some in on some context, I’m a 6’2” 188 lbs African American with Parents from Africa and England (so they speak The Queen’s English in my home) and up until the end of Highschool I was 5’8” 150 and only had guy friends because only guys thought I was funny, [Here’s the Kicker though] I grew 6” in College, started playing Rugby, and (weirdly enough) started growing Caucasians features on my face [My head grew narrower so my nose did…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 02:23 PM
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I don’t think you understand how real social dynamics work; in the event that you are in the same bar as Ana Bjorn, Arna Ýr Jónsdóttir, Heida Reed, and Jóhanna Vala Jónsdóttir, how would you show them that “Im having a good time, I like you and whatever happens happens” ? I am seriously interested in your answer😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 02:11 PM
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I am so tired of this argument; Confidence is not a sword that can beat nature. Confidence will not allow me to turn a lesbian girl straight so why do people assert that it can turn an ugly man into Zac Efron? Average looking 2nd generation Ethnic men in America and England (so no language barrier) debunk the entire confidence argument as (the statistical majority of) men who look like Aziz Ansari or Michael Blackson but aren’t as famous or rich as them will either end up with a girl extremely w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 10:23 PM
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TRP is a lot of guys trying to follow some “life coaches” or “Svengali” who give out general life advice that is no better then the advice Tony Robbins or Jordan Peterson might give. Therein lies the appeal to it (Victimization is commodified and sold to the most gullible individuals). Relationships are extremely nuanced and highly specific, while TRP revolves around 2 principles: Women are hypergamous (but so are men so how it’s a surprise IDFK) and Hit the Gym to max out your looks, (a very du…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 04:14 AM
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