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Her* arguments But yes, the debate isn't to really change her mind - it's for observers to see how empty her position is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 10:00 AM
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You arent a chad. If you say so. You haven't presented a logical reason why you say I'm not. Tell you what though, since I made the claim that I am, I have a burden of proof. I'll happily post a photo if you do the same. If you're feeling qualified to critique my physique, then I'm sure yours is top-tier, no? Top 15% isnt even much Just for fun, how much do you think that is? Even if you didn't know (and I'm sure you don't) it's better than 85% of men. Most guys go to the gym lol. First, no they…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 09:53 AM
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You need help. This user responded to you rationally and made zero personal attacks against you. The way you responded says more about you than you could ever say about the people you responded to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 09:36 AM
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It's a covert contract and those are a shit idea
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 09:30 AM
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What makes you think I'm not a Chad? What if I told you that I have made the choice to be a Chad (well, in my case Tyrone) and I work out every day and I'm built as fuck? What if I told you that my income is in the top 15%? None of that matters though because we're debating ideas and instead of actual arguments you have logical fallacies. But since you're wanting to make personal quips, let's cut to the heart of it: You cannot shame, persuade, bribe, or cajole men into wanting obese women outsid…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 09:27 AM
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Some men do that. Not all. Not most. Not half. A small percentage. Should we hold all women accountable for the sins of the worst portion of you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 09:16 AM
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I asked you to quote where I said or implied that enjoying food is ugly. You did not do that. I am happy to have a debate about the things I said. I will not have a debate about the things you felt I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 09:02 AM
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Okay so if everything is changeable according to you why aren't you a chad billionaire? Reductio ad absurdum. You're taking my point to an illogical extreme to avoid addressing it. Just trying to illustrate how dumb you sound. Ad hominem. Do better in your next reply if you want me to take you seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 09:00 AM
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Where did I say enjoying food is ugly? Quote me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 08:40 AM
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All those things are not choices though. All those things are literally choices or the outcomes of choices. You have to be pretty ignorant to stereotype people like that. Ad hominem. Moving on. Bad hygiene can be depression or autism related. Still a choice. Might be harder for some than others, sure. But it's still a choice. unemployment could be down to being let go due to restructuring a company. Sure, but remaining unemployed is a choice. There's always work to be found if you put down your …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 08:39 AM
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That's absolutely the opposite of how that works. Weight is controllable and if someone chooses to let it get out of control, then it is not only aesthetically unattractive, it demonstrates an ugliness of mindset in the casual disrespect that they treat their own bodies with. I'm unable to associate obesity with any positive personality trait. Edit: No, I'm not done. If you see a girl with a pretty face that is fat why not go for her anyway as weight is changeable. Because there are pretty girls…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 08:26 AM
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The trick is to not rub her face in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:42 AM
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Women don't friend zone men. Men do it to themselves and women happily reap the benefits. Don't get me wrong - I'm not painting women as the villains here. It's a sweet deal and I'd take it too. The equivalent is a woman who tosses me a blowjob every now and then hoping that I'll have a relationship with her even though I made it clear that I'm not interested in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:49 AM
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Man, nothing ever goes wrong at work when two consenting adults start something. Especially if the woman gets mad at you. Nothing bad happens at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:47 AM
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It's only creepy if you're not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:43 AM
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It's real. But you know what I say to men in the friend zone? "It's your own damn fault." If he's too chickenshit to go after what he wants and too needy to break it off fully, then he's playing himself. Worse, he's only pretending to be a friend while lurking like a hyena, hoping to scrape the carcass of her failed relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:39 AM
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Why would they be here though? This is a great place to see the conflict between diametrically opposed mentalities. You don't go Red pill, black pill, or incel unless you were struggling with dating. You left out FDS, but moving on... You're right. People successful in dating can stay blue-pilled. Remember this: every Red pill, black pill, Incel, and FDS was once a happy blue piller. Why would a guy with no troubles be here? I can't speak for others, but I'm just here because I'm bored at work. …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:34 AM
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Antagonistic: showing or feeling active opposition or hostility toward someone or something. Vigilant: keeping careful watch for possible danger or difficulties. Words have meanings, and you specifically said "antagonistic". I'm not actively opposed to women or hostile to them. I'm just aware of how they can hurt me if I allow them to get too close.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:25 AM
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I don't have an antagonistic relationship with women. I'm just hyper vigilant around them and protect myself. Edit: I treat women like wasps - you can build your nest wherever you like and live your life. But if you think I'm gonna let you land on my leg, you've got a swatting coming.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:58 AM
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A hypocrite is someone who advocates for a course of action and does the opposite. I am a staunch believer that you should never fuck coworkers and I never have because when the dick of consequences arrives, it's rarely lubricated. In my time in the civilian workforce I've seen the following consequences for men (and never for women... Weird how that plays out): One got accused of rape when he was caught fucking on the job. One guy got fired over an allegation of harassment One guy got fired and…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:55 AM
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Mathematics has entered the chat
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:50 AM
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You get three types here: The Incel/inspin who has tried and never succeeded so they blame the other group The jaded ones who went through the system and survived (that's me) The inexperienced who haven't touched a tit/ball sack
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:50 AM
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You know why gay men are much happier? They don't deal with women. Edit: being gay makes you gay. Lol get it? All snark aside, it's that men communicate with men much easier than with women. If a man wants something, he says it or just goes for it. Gay men don't have to play the stupid games that straight men have to play to get what they want. Physically, men are far more accepting of male body types than women are of men. I tell my friends "if you want to experience what it's like to be desira…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:46 AM
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You can say anything you want. You're just wrong in this case.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 01:35 AM
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This is false. The lead attorney did a very good episode on this very subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 01:34 AM
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Women initiate 70%-90% of divorces. It's not men playing the "we're forever... Maybe" game, it's women playing the "I feel like leaving, and I'm taking the cash and prizes" game.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 01:33 AM
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It's not jealousy. It's just a dumb choice to give commitment to a woman with a history of promiscuous behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:20 AM
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Again, you demonstrate that you know nothing about the military.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:01 AM
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That's why the military is full of men who got Cs in high school. They're not good for much else in society. You know nothing about the military.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:58 AM
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I'm not looking - I don't need or want women for anything outside the occasional romp.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:56 AM
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I do 100% of the work that allows us to even have that house. I do 100% of the work that provides utilities for that house. I do 100% of the work that provides food to that house. I do 100% of the work that allows the people in that house to live in comfort. You'll have to forgive me if I do 0% of the stuff that I'm not home to do. If the situation were reversed, I'd be okay with that arrangement. Even if I become a stay at home mom my husband is expected to do chores because im not his mom. So …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:53 AM
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As long as he did it because he wanted to, that's fine. The problem most modern women have is that they expect men to do all the external labor of making money then come home and be 50/50 domestic. It's extremely selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:38 AM
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If you work full time, you should not be responsible for the entirety of the household chores, regardless of gender
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:33 AM
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Don't poison the well. If his ideas are bad, attack the idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 01:13 AM
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Well, the thing about trying to convince people is that "enough for me" isn't enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 01:10 AM
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Again, you're saying that something is happening, but that we can't see it. You see how you're unable to make this assertion, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 12:50 AM
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Well, you could have addressed his points to demonstrate the error in his thinking but you went to insults instead. Minds are being changed by this approach, surely.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 12:16 AM
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So it's happening, we just can't see it? So how do you know it's happening?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 12:12 AM
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Prove it, don't just assert it. Also, I specifically told you that I wanted an answer to a question in my post. Please answer the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 11:46 PM
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The big picture behind all these issues men are having with women these days is the rising dominance of the Feminine and all that is Female. Right away, you make an assertion that you don't make any effort to back up. Among Millennial generation and below, women are much better quality than men. Another unfounded assertion I would always hire a female worker if I want someone to work hard, someone who will know what she’s doing and handle herself maturely etc. Which is why studies show that wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 10:39 PM
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You're using an outlier, and a mentally ill one at that, as the yardstick to compare most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 04:32 PM
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Do you have this same take on divorced women, or is your disgust only towards men?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 12:16 PM
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Agreed. The part that men here are finding unreasonable is setting an arbitrary time gate on sex when a woman has given it to a man much sooner while still expecting that man to give her the benefits of monogamy and dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 11:40 AM
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That's entirely your choice
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 05:36 AM
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You don't, at least not directly. But that doesn't invalidate my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 02:42 AM
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It's blue-pilled because it's not rooted in reality. That reality being how your attractiveness directly influences how people interpret your actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 02:21 AM
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I understand, I just don't care. Now, why are her past mistakes suddenly my consequences?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 02:19 AM
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Hey, it's their money.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 02:19 AM
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Thank you for your well reasoned reply and solid counterpoints
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 02:18 AM
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I say this because from the sound of it, it seems like a lot of guys here don’t really approach women and then they complain about how bad dating is. This does not make sense. If they're complaining about their failures and struggles, then they are approaching. I could be wrong but a lot of guys here don’t seem to be acting confidently, striking up conversations with women, approaching them comfortably. "Just be confident and approach comfortably" is the second most blue-pilled advice ever, next…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 02:16 AM
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I mean retarded If you get mad that your girlfriend/wife isn't fucking you because she has a condition that prevents it, you have a serious learning disability.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 02:05 AM
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As a virgin, you have the right to make any man wait as long as you please. That's a "one time deal" and there isn't a single justification outside of "we're married now" that a man can make to justify you having sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 02:01 AM
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The lessons I learned the hard way are not the responsibility of other people to bear. I just don't get why you're up in arms and demanding that men accept things they don't want. Do you have some kind of personal investment here that I'm missing? If you're going to tell me that I have to wait 3 months for sex, I'm not going to do that. I'm not saying she can't have her boundaries, but I am saying that she can't force me to accept them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 01:57 AM
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Oh yeah cover me in grammar daddy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 01:53 AM
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Ah, you’ve changed the scenario Actually you changed the scenario. You asked about monogamy, which implies we are already dating. I’ve never found monogamous men to be rare, tbh. Here's the rub: most men are monogamous because most men don't have options. The ones that do, monogamy is an unnecessary burden. We will shoulder that burden, if incentivized. Monogamy in a committed relationship is sort of a low bar. Women and men cheat at equal rates so...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 01:51 AM
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So you’re only with your girl as long as she provides sexual access? If we aren't having sex, we're just friends. Does this include circumstances like temporary sickness, pregnancy, etc. where she is unable to fuck you? No, that's retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 01:49 AM
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Older women don’t have to worry about these guys Older women are the worst actually. They know that their time is limited so they're willing to compromise to try to score a buzzer beater. men like this tend to go after naive younger girls anyway. Oh look, you're pretending that younger women don't have agency and go after older men. There's no way they are attracted to the same things that older women are - resources, maturity, confidence, experience - no, it's because young girls are just dumb.…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 01:48 AM
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This is you absolving women of accountability. "oh the poor damsel was tricked by the wicked evil man! In no way, at any time, was any of this her responsibility! Noble hero, will you wait for her tender heart to be mended before parting her thighs and claiming her whispering eye?" No. Just, no. So this goes back to me asking: why are her bad decisions suddenly my consequences?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 01:41 AM
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You do realize it's not legal to marry multiple partners and most people outside marriage isn't in polygamous relationships? This delusion of us sharing one man is so silly. This is another delusion that builds contempt for women i.e misogny Please, women are happy being side pieces. Women eagerly share men. The only caveat to that is that women don't like being reminded - they need the delusion that they're special. Alot of women are fine being exploited and even abused because a man provides a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 01:38 AM
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Putting aside your non sequitur (virginity and sexual fidelity are different), I'll answer your question. My monogamy (and the monogamy of any desirable man) is special because we are rare. Pretty girls turn 18 every day (or in my preferred range, 30-35). If I'm dating a woman and she stops giving me what I want in regards to sexual access, that's her choice. And it's a choice that will just allow the next woman who wants to date me to come along. What she can't do is go out and find a man with …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 01:35 AM
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One of the things that a lot of the non-reds don't seem to get is that there is a whole pussy economy that comes into play. If a man is attractive enough that you want to date him, then other women want to date him too. Now, you can have your rule, and you can even demand he respects it. That's your right and within your control. What you can't control is the pussy market. And it is wild out in these streets. There are women who will happily toss a salad on the 2nd date who are every bit as nice…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 01:26 AM
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Explain to me how her past failures translate to my consequences. Imagine if I said "look, I think we should wait at least two months before I start paying for dates and offering you commitment. In the meantime, I want you to give me the perks that come with being a girlfriend. You see, in my past, I made poor choices with women and I just don't want to be used again." Ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 01:19 AM
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No, I'm not. How is that relevant to my position?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 01:17 AM
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We do actually, women all the time on twoxchromosomes asking what does she do finding out her boyfriend is red pill. Ignoring the fact that the place is an echo chamber, this falls back to "don't listen to what they say, watch what they do." Moreover, the type of woman who takes anything on twoX seriously is not the type of woman that is attracted to a red pill man. Everyone wins. Leveraging your wealth to treat women how they WOULDN'T want to be treated if you weren't healthy isn't how you trea…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 01:16 AM
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If she's a virgin, she can take as long as she likes. If she's not a virgin and she says that, then I'm going to wait a certain amount of time before I start paying for dates and giving her monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 01:01 AM
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What makes you think you're under my skin? You're the one trying to insult me and downvoting despite honest engagement. No matter. Edit: Is your name Amanda and/or do you work in HR?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 12:49 AM
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Young women avoid red pill men for a reason But you all don't avoid us. You avoid the caricatures of red pill men that you see on YouTube. I'd avoid those clowns too. Those of us in real life are fit, driven, successful, and charismatic. We just don't take shit from women... And y'all line up for us. Asking young men to treat women like they are human is not a big ask. It's not a big ask at all. And we do treat you like people. The problem a lot of y'all have is that y'all are accustomed to bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 12:47 AM
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Wild to think that "take accountability for your life" is seen as a "scheme" by the people who think the position of Saturn is why Amanda in HR is such a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 12:36 AM
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TRP literally tell us that it's up to us to change our lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 12:33 AM
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I don't listen to women when they cry "Misogyny" because they've watered it down to the point where they use it to describe "things they don't like."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 12:24 AM
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Just so everyone else is clear, say what that means for the whole class. Don't they deserve to know who (they) are?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 12:11 AM
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You're reading that wrong because you want to
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 12:10 AM
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This is the most pointless point. If he was single, would he not be cooking or cleaning anyway? He would be doing less of it. He would also be working far fewer hours (or an easier job, or having more disposable income). Hell, he might take that disposable income and just hire out those services.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 12:07 AM
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If she's a stay at home wife, I'm not washing a single dish, cleaning a single toilet, or touching a single cooking utensil.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 12:05 AM
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You think we don't know what you mean when you do (this)? Quit your shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 12:02 AM
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Just say you're homophobic and go.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 12:01 AM
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What I'm learning here (in this post and this subreddit) is that the backlash that women have against things (TRP, men getting passports, men dating younger women, MGTOW) is because women are scared of what those things mean for them. They're fine with the status quo, regardless of how it affects men because the status quo is beneficial to them as a whole. The second that men do things for themselves (and that have nothing to do with women) then we see this wall of shame, insults, and guilt. Kee…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 12:00 AM
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Religious. You keep ignoring that word. I wonder why.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 11:53 PM
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Your flair did. I have this terrible habit of taking people at face value and your flair literally means "an attractive and seductive woman, especially one who is likely to cause distress or disaster to a man who becomes involved with her." But go ahead and continue to show everyone why FDSers aren't worth listening to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 10:49 PM
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So children Framing his desire for innocent women as pedophilia. Quit your bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 07:49 PM
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You adhere to FDS. Nothing you say is of benefit for men to listen to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 07:01 PM
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You're ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 07:01 PM
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Oh look, shaming language. I'm shocked
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 07:00 PM
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Women don't give a shit about what men want until they hit the point where they have to
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 06:59 PM
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Fuck yes they are. To be fair, I do things that attract the type of women im into (fit and submissive) and I repulse women that I find to be disgusting (obese women, drug users, single moms). Edit: and no white chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 06:58 PM
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She's an inspin
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 06:42 PM
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Abortion is murder. Get one if you want, but don't pretend it isn't what it is to assuage your guilt.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 06:38 PM
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Don't strawman me because you talk in circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 12:29 PM
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And this trying to split the baby is why men should never go to women for advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 11:44 AM
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"be yourself" and "work on your issues" are diametrically opposed. Which is the advice you are giving?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 11:28 AM
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We owe women nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 11:24 AM
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"be yourself" is terrible advice for a man. We can't just "be ourselves" and expect results because we have to compete. This is a key reason why men should never go to women for advice - they don't have the frame of reference to give good advice to men in this area.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 11:15 AM
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Red pill absolutely knows why women cheat. Women cheat because they're opportunists. They see a potentially better partner and, because people don't hesitate to blame men for women's bad behavior, women move on and then invent reasons to justify their behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 08:22 AM
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This is unacceptable. It is an attempt to absolve women of accountability. Women and men cheat at about equal rates in relationships, yet nobody blames women when men cheat. I wonder why that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 08:21 AM
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I see you've chosen insults. Have a good night.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 08:13 AM
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This is a problem. I'm here trying to have a conversation with you and rather than engage honestly, you're choosing insults. If you don't want to debate the ideas, that's fine. But what you're not going to do is toss out baseless insults when I've been nothing but polite towards you. I'm willing to continue if you're willing to apologize, otherwise, have a good evening.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 08:07 AM
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A long response is fine when it's not just tripe. The problem is that once you take the red pill, you can't go back. You'll be constantly reminded every time you see women's actions not fall in line with their words, every time you get away with behavior that you'd be humiliated for in your less attractive days, every time they break one of their "rules" for a man if he's hot or rich enough. And yes, it's hard at first because you're going to have to come to terms with the fact that you were, fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 08:03 AM
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Physical characteristics are the root of attraction. Yes, it takes more than that to make a relationship work, but most men don't clear that first hurdle, which is why TRP tells men that the first thing they have to do is get their body right. It's not a coincidence that there is a correlation between men who are physically attractive and men who have success with women. How often do women forgive all manner of moral and intellectual failings just because the man is hot enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 07:55 AM
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You opened this just to say you're not gonna read it? It wasn't a response to you. You weren't tagged in it. You literally had every reason to blow right by it, yet you came and commented. No, I call cap. You read it. You just didn't like it and have no retort.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 07:50 AM
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You have to get over that fear. That comes with time and failure. You'll learn that there are things far worse than failure, namely not getting what you want because you were too chickenshit to try.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 07:45 AM
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How often, in general, do women pursue men directly as opposed to just making themselves available?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 07:43 AM
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The problems that men and women have are different. Men have a problem finding partners. Women have a problem finding partners they want. One is a lack of options, the other is not being satisfied with the options they have. You can argue about which is worse, but I'd say that having nothing to eat is worse than having a menu that is plentiful, just lacking the perfect selection.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 07:42 AM
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I think you're making a gross over-simplification of the problems that most men have in dating. I don't really blame you. It's easy to say "just put in the work" to men who have to put in significantly more work than some of us do. Just have some empathy for men who don't sit at the intersection of preferred physical characteristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 07:40 AM
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Because, generally, women are passive participants in the process. They just have to show up and be willing and receptive. They don't need to understand men because men are the ones that do the work. Men need to understand women because men are the ones that have to compete for the attention of women among all the other men competing, and not understanding what women like and desire puts a man at a distinct disadvantage. It's like being an applicant for a job. If three men are going after a job …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 07:35 AM
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This is wild. You had an experience that fed you the red pill rectally and, after seeing the results that come from doing the things that TRP tells you to do and getting outstanding results, you want to go back to the mindset that set you up in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 07:30 AM
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Lol j/k. Never stop bullying.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 12:15 AM
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The man used the feedback he got from women to make changes to himself so that he got different outcomes. Shame that more people don't choose this route instead of delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 12:13 AM
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If you're the type of person to form an opinion about something you know nothing about, then there's no point in discussing anything with you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:31 PM
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Nothing you said address my point
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:09 PM
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The "dumb as fuck" parts are what get your eyeballs. You don't give a shit about the fitness parts or the financial parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 06:48 PM
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Health Yes!!! Every damn day I go to bed and, no matter how shitty my day was, I'm grateful that I still have my health. As long as you're healthy, the rest can be managed. Wealth They say money isn't everything. Who is "they?" People with money. I've been broke, trying to live off $400 a month. It's far far easier to live when you're making substantial amounts of money. In fact, I'd say that the more you have, the fewer problems you have. The ones that say "more money, more problems" aren't exa…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 04:48 AM
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Y'all soft fr Not as soft as you are, having to edit your post to insult us because you got in your feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 04:20 AM
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She just stopped loving me. That's when I got red pilled. It taught me: You can't rely on past contributions and loyalty to secure future loyalty from women. If they see no benefit, they will leave. Being a "good man" by their definition will never be enough. They will just move the goalposts to justify their feelings. Things are much better now. I'm in the gym every day like a machine since I freed up that time I used to spend trying to tend to a wife. I eat a lot healthier now. I have more dis…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 03:05 AM
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You mistake complaining for debate and explaining. I don't expect you to understand the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 08:48 PM
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You mistake complaining for debate and explaining. I don't expect you to understand the difference. Edit: Quote where I complain. Take your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 08:24 PM
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I don't. I don't listen to anything women say. I watch what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 08:05 PM
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You learned the first rule: Don't be fat Being a healthy weight automatically puts you in the top 30%
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 07:33 PM
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Except men are honest about it whereas women lie constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 07:31 PM
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You have a point. It isn't worth debate but I don't need to be insulting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 07:15 PM
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Irrelevant question, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 07:11 PM
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Too often, women claim abuse to describe situations that they just don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 11:14 AM
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Funny story, It was a terrible intersection of my puberty, my poverty, and his rise to popularity that led to me being called Urkel. Let me tell you, it was awful. It was so awful that - to this day - if anyone back home reminds me of it, I have a moment of rage. I mention this because I'm definitely not Urkel now (nsfw profile pic if you're bold) and it's so much better over here. Anyone who says that women prefer a genuine Urkel has never experienced it. They don't know the constant humiliatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 10:35 AM
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I'm glad to hear that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 10:12 AM
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Oh I'm not short. I'm quite tall and hot. I just take it to the wall for my short bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 09:59 AM
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If you want to have an intimate relationship, make it clear. This pretending to be a friend thing is a weak tactic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 09:46 AM
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Most women can handle a man being down for a bit. None will accept a man who is down permanently.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 09:45 AM
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It isn't abuse unless there's a police report.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 09:27 AM
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Unattractive men are not given the benefit of the doubt. Short man gets muscles? "He has a Napoleon complex" Tall man gets muscles? Sploosh Short man buys an expensive car? "He's overcompensating." Tall man buys an expensive car? Sploosh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 09:25 AM
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So you're willing to admit that it isn't the location that matters?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 04:51 AM
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There's a marked difference between cosplay/costumes and people who dress to accentuate their features.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 03:49 AM
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This falls into the category of "don't listen to what they say, watch what they do."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 03:43 AM
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I just answered your question (even though it's a red herring and I should have ignored it). Why are you getting upset at me for addressing your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 03:28 AM
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A lot of factors. I can only take accountability for my end - my fitness lagged, I lost my job and confidence, and I was just a burden to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 03:26 AM
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Do men even give a fuck if she is attracted? Yes. Silly question and not relevant to the topic though. Or do men think all attractive women are on the menu? As I'm prone to saying whenever I receive attention from people I'm not attracted to: "You can turn the signal on, you can turn the signal off, but you can't control who receives it." Moreover, you're trying to red herring rather than engaging in the discussion topic. Please stop. How can some of of opt out of the menu? There's this magic te…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 03:18 AM
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You still haven't answered my original question. All you've done is try to paint men as losers for not obeying some unwritten rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 03:14 AM
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So you chose your family over a husband? Question: if you're married, who do you hold in higher regard, your husband or your family?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 03:05 AM
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Sorry to hear about your husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 03:04 AM
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I was in a dead bedroom and, as the red pill teaches, it was my fault for not doing the things I needed to do. My ex and I have a great relationship now that I'm having regular sex. You have no idea how much a lack of sex can poison a man's heart in a monogamous relationship. Ladies: Have sex with your husband. So what if you're "not in the mood" or whatever. If you deny him sex, you are denying him. Most men can tolerate whatever bullshit you toss at them so long as they're fucking regularly. D…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 03:03 AM
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If he's attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 02:51 AM
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All relationships start with an initial approach (usually by the man). We can't look at you and say "I bet she has really interesting opinions about economic policy" or "I wonder what she thinks about woodworking..." Yes, you can't build a relationship on looks alone, but you have to have motivation to uncover the things that do build lasting relationships. What we can do is look at you and notice what women advertise with their purposeful choices in makeup and wardrobe. I don't get it - why do …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 02:47 AM
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How would you carry out a friendly conversation with someone you're not attracted to? That is my threshold for initial interaction. And your honesty proves the point that so many people here are afraid to say outright. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 02:45 AM
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What is the basis of human interaction in regards to dating? Physical appearance. Why do women who spend about $300K in their lifetimes in cosmetics, in denial about this? Why do they get so offended when they are successful at attracting the opposite sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 02:44 AM
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You specifically mentioned classrooms, bookstores, and sporting events. Not me. How are those things, not designed for dating approaches, more appropriate than other venues?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 02:42 AM
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Yes, but in order to get to that point, he has to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 02:40 AM
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Absolutely false. I'm gonna present a hypothesis here: Good looking men with social spheres and interesting lives have those things because they're outgoing and unafraid to talk to strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 02:38 AM
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Uh, where do you suggest approaching people? By definition, if you're meeting a stranger it's in a public place.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 02:35 AM
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Just came here to say that you won't ever get a list of places that you cannot approach women that women will agree upon. It always depends on how attractive the man is and how the woman is feeling at the time. So men, just approach. Worst case scenario, they reject you. Women: be careful, you're making a world where men don't approach you at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 02:34 AM
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So it isn't the location, but your feelings at the time? I'll agree that this is actually a fair position to take, but answer this: How can a stranger tell what kind of day you're having?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 02:27 AM
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What's the threshold of "flirting?" The extremes are obvious - if I walk up and say "hey baby nice tits, I bet they'd feed our babies" then obviously that's unacceptable no matter the venue. But what about "Hi" or "Sorry to interrupt, I just wanted to tell you that I find you very attractive and, if it's not an imposition, I'd like to give you my number and maybe get to know you later?" Where is the line and is it widely agreed upon?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 02:25 AM
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We're all strangers until we aren't. Is there some unpublished compendium of "appropriate places and ways to talk to women" that has been widely agreed upon and circulated that I'm unaware of? You call my methods "strange." What specific method have I outlined and why do you judge it to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 02:21 AM
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You picked a pretty specific word. I pick words because they have meaning. I chose sacrosanct to mock the idea that some places are, by default, better than others. It dismisses the only thing that determines whether or not a place is appropriate - if it's a place someone is at voluntarily. If you have the freedom to say "no thanks" and walk away, then it's not an inappropriate place. Women don’t want to talk to a man so desperate he roams Walmart because he’s friendless and can’t compete in soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 02:18 AM
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Sacrosanct? Really going all out with the hyperbole, huh? Nitpicking about verbiage is exhausting There isn’t anything special about a Walmart And there's something that makes it a less viable place than a sporting event (a place people don't go to meet women), a bookstore (a place people don't go to meet women), or a classroom (a place people don't go to meet women)? No. This is just an excuse that women use to filter out men they don't want talking to them to begin with. I’ll chew off my own f…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 01:55 AM
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They're still strangers until they aren't. The best girlfriend I ever had, I met at a dirty dive bar. The worst, in a college classroom. What makes a sporting event more sacrosanct than a Walmart? I'd rather make a move than miss an opportunity because it wasn't in an "acceptable location".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 01:41 AM
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But... Aren't we all strangers at first?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 01:15 AM
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Trying to friend your way into women's pants demonstrates that you don't know what you're talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 10:46 PM
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Terrible idea . Women pretend they want a PaRtNeR but when women feel like they're supporting a man, they lose respect for him. And no woman can love a man she doesn't respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 02:25 PM
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If I say "I don't want to date fat women" I'm called an incel, mYsOgYNiSTiC, "small dick energy", etc. all in an attempt to shame me into accepting things I find undesirable. Women can openly shame men for things beyond their control and they're celebrated as "empowered."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 01:05 AM
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I'm always on the lookout for chameleons
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 01:03 AM
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Again, I'm not insisting on shit. I have to say this repeatedly because you're slow on the uptake: SHE IS FREE TO GO DATE OTHER MEN She can have whatever demands she wants. She can't demand it from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:46 PM
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you're making a lot of arguments as to why I should be okay with a boundary I don't agree with. If she wants to do that nonsense then she can go date other men. Why do you insist on making men accept things they don't want?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:42 PM
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Shameful behavior needs to be shamed, yes! The normalizing and enabling is the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:38 PM
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What is your reason for getting pissy because she had sex with a different man sooner than you? Framing it as "getting pissy" misses the point, and I think you did that on purpose. Regardless, I'll answer your question: I'm not going to make a significant investment of time, energy, attention, and resources on a woman who has given other men far more for far less from them. If she wants that, she can go find a man willing to wait. Best of luck. Moreover, her holding out doesn't hurt anyone but h…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:34 PM
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I hate that I replied directly to your question and you lost the thread already.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:30 PM
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I laughed. Thank you for justifying scrolling this far down
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:27 PM
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What if it’s a woman who made mistakes and wants to be better now? We are not reformed slut cleanup services.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:27 PM
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and, in a sentence, you give the reason why we don't listen to women who want us to wait three months. Thank you for owning your own argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:25 PM
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Do men believe that women are a community resource? I can't speak for men as a whole. Personally, no. That's silly. Why do men feel that women shouldn't be free to choose? That's not even what I'm implying. I'll be clear - you can do whatever you want. If you want a dumb 3-month rule, fine. Just get that shit away from me because I'm not having it. What if she isn't feeling it? What if she's having her period? What if he said something insensitive or stupid, or revealed a weird fetish she isn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:22 PM
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I don't give a fuck. My outcomes do the talking for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:18 PM
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I'd be good with not shaming them IF we just left it at that. If they want to be ham planets, that's on them and I'd let bygones be bygones. But sadly, we can't do that now can we? Because we live in a weird fucked up world where the majority of the population in the west is obese and proud of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:17 PM
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Oh there is not nearly enough shame for shameful behavior. The Overton window has been moved so far that we cancel people who have a negative opinion about Lizzo. We have polite terms for pedophiles FFS.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:15 PM
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You say "women get used for sex" as if women hate sex
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:12 PM
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Because it's stupid. You're expecting me to provide three months of courtship while you deny me sex, a thing you've more than likely freely given to other men for less? Yeah, kick rocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:11 PM
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This is a reasonable position.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:09 PM
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Do what you want. I'm okay with people shaming me for my choices, otherwise I wouldn't make them. As I'm prone to saying "you were having fun when you were doing it." Just keep that same energy when people hold you accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:04 PM
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This is that same excuse making that I'm talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:00 PM
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Because if we make people feel good about their bad choices, it enables them. If i were a broke bum who never showered, would you call me "financially and hygienically challenged" and celebrate my courage? No! You'd call me smelly broke bum, and rightfully so.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:54 PM
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We need to bring shaming back. The problem is that it has become acceptable to be a part of the problem. We have zero issues shaming men for being broke, fat, lazy, deadbeat dads, etc but the second we talk mean to a woman it's the end of the fucking world. No, fuck that. Things that are shameful should be discussed with the shame cannons fully loaded. Call a fat woman a butter golem, because prettying it up to one of the myriad of terms they use only enables them. Call a woman with a massive bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:46 PM
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You have, as always, failed to address the question and have chosen to answer with insults. Ironically, your actions just prove that red-pill thinking is correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:29 PM
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You just sounded so insecure Opening with shaming language. For someone who hates the red pill so much, you're a gold mine for material. Why would I want a fucking doormat for a man? Because that's what you literally just described. It's cool though, because TRP teaches us to watch what you do, not listen to what you say. You twisted to cover your own insecurities because you fully realise you don't have those positive traits. Oooh more shaming! Almost got a bingo here. All I need are some thinl…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:28 PM
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What gives you the ground to make that assertion about others then? Your only interaction with them is when you're here. It's awfully conceited of you to assume that you're the only one with a life offline.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:23 PM
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You think a woman is gonna tell you the things that give up the game? You can listen to women if you want. I don't recommend it though. Spend a bit of time watching what they do and then come back.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:19 PM
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Your mewling about bigotry was pointless. And don't waste your time. If you were capable of actually addressing my point, you would have done so.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:14 PM
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Thanks for your novella I guess. How does that address my points?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 01:50 PM
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95k is barely enough to make a family feel safe Where the hell are you living?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:06 AM
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Money is a powerful equalizer. Ask men with yachts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 12:01 AM
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Do you earn enough money to be the sole provider of your household, and pay for leisure activities for your wife and children? I pull about 95K, before bonuses and incentives. And I live in an area where the cost of living is roughly 45K/yr. Are you able to provide your wife and children security and safety from physical threats? I've got guns, muscle, and the training to use them both courtesy of the department of defense. Are you fit enough to take on more physically demanding tasks in your ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 11:49 PM
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All of this is cope. I know this is cope because money gives you mass amounts of freedom and flexibility. If you're working every damn day to make ends meet, you don't have time to get your body in order. If you're spending every last penny on necessities, you don't have the money to enhance your style.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 11:40 PM
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Yeah thought so. You would rather posture than actually do the thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:34 PM
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His comment: You have to literally search Your reply: Go type Andrew Tate into YouTube Good job with the self-own, you smooth-brained marmot
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:53 PM
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Oh look, more personal attacks. Do you have anything to offer except snark? Probably not, because you're trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 02:54 PM
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Obviously, but the question is "do I look 40?" Moreover, my point is that her assertion that all older men look bad when compared to men her age is demonstrably false.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 02:26 PM
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I'll agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 02:20 PM
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You're online just like the people you're responding to. You're all over this thread, so stop acting like you're better than anyone here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 12:58 PM
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You calling someone "chronically online", while online, is peak clownery
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 12:53 PM
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I am a 17 years old male. There is a saying - "men don't red-pill men, women red-pill men." You're very young and probably don't have much direct experience with women in your personal life. I'm willing to wager that the only experience you have with women is your mother and any female relatives you have. This isn't an insult, it's just pointing out that your position is the blue pilled default and until you get some more direct experience, it would be best to not tell men who's shoes you've nev…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 12:51 PM
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This was a terrible response. He gave you a coherent reply that was not only understandable but accurate and you responded with a personal attack. Trash. Edit: and I'm willing to bet you're not healthier than him or me. I've got photos posted. Do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 12:22 PM
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I know
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 12:18 PM
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I was actually paying you a compliment. Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:42 AM
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"cringe" is on my bingo card, right next to "Incel"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:40 AM
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Lol OKAY. (btw, you're absolutely lying. I've seen men in their 20s and it's laughable. I've seen women in their 40s and it's just gross) Edit: show me your boyfriend. Razzle dazzle me with his Olympian physique.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:21 AM
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I'm 40. Look at my profile (NSFW) and tell me you could notice that. If a man takes care of himself, he will become a fucking machine in his 40s and his age-equivalent woman counterparts can't compete. Men: work out and moisturize. Trust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:09 AM
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all women have to do to be attractive to men is exist. That's what it takes to get fucked, not to get commitment. Please listen to what we tell you. Edit: Unrelated, are you really a virgin? If so, im impressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:03 AM
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10 implies perfection. There are no 10s. And no, simps open their wallet because that's what they lead with. Never lead with your wallet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:01 AM
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What you gashes don't get is that TRP is harder on men than it is women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 02:58 AM
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"Don't listen to what they say, watch what they do" is the golden rule
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 02:56 AM
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Point me to the FDS success stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 02:56 AM
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First, there are no 10s. Second, men in the current dating paradigm know all about foodie calls and are savvy to the game women run. Personally, I can easily afford the whole "wine/dine" game, but I'm not interested in getting taken for a ride. FDS, in my view, is wonderful because it encourages the women who aren't worth my time to broadcast their red flags and disqualify themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 02:55 AM
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being fit, social, and having the money to do what you want is extremely conducive to getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 02:51 AM
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No it isn't. TRP tells men the ugly truth - unless you improve yourself, you're not going to get shit from women. And maybe not even then. FDS lies to women and gives them the worst advice ever - you're perfect as you are, you just need to demand more.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 02:46 AM
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It's like the only way women can cope with the wall is to misconstrue what we are saying. all they have to do is wait and aging will magically make them more attractive. Literally nobody says this. In fact we say the opposite - we tell men that they should spend their youth building themselves and that our attractiveness comes after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 11:18 PM
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Keep playing dumb. It's a good look for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 10:26 PM
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It's clearly a great mystery to you, because you're insisting on arguing a strawman. I'm not playing dumb I'm beginning to believe you aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 10:21 PM
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It's not mysterious at all. It's only a great mystery if you're unaware of what men value vs what women value. Have you considered that you're playing dumb?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 09:26 PM
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This reads like you're a post wall woman who doesn't like the fact that men get more attractive as they age (assuming they don't waste their 20s and 30s).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 06:02 PM
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This is a dumb question. Your interactions with us are limited, so you think that's all we care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 06:00 PM
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I don't. I'm answering the question. Quiet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 09:47 PM
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This is true, but you can't exactly spot a man's mindset from across a room
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 07:34 PM
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You're going to feel like a dumbass later. Not because you're about to get schooled or whatever, but because you're gonna get curious about your interlocutor and regret wasting this much brainpower on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 07:11 PM
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Therapy may help with some things, but it doesn't make a man magically more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 07:08 PM
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Any dating advice that is "just be yourself" is bullshit because it encourages stagnation. Men especially can't follow this advice because our attraction comes from building ourselves up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 07:07 PM
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American women are accustomed to a simp society where men bend over backwards for the attention of women who wouldn't get the time of day in more sane societies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 07:01 PM
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Incentive* And you don't have to do shit you don't want to do. The incentive is that a high body count disqualifies you from some men. That's all. There are enough men okay with it that you won't really see the difference so long as you stick to dating average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:43 PM
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I'm not reading all that nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:32 PM
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If you're just gonna make veiled insults, it's not surprising that nobody has time for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:32 PM
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I'm not reading all that nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:31 AM
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So you agree with the rest then?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:19 AM
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a fat, opinionated, western feminist Oh look, I found one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:18 AM
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If I have to explain how sex with someone, even bad sex, is better than involuntary celibacy then I can't really have this conversation with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 10:31 AM
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You all pretend that western women aren't mercenaries, and it's cute. At least foreign women offer something in return aside from other men's children and HPV.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 10:12 AM
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Women dissatisfied with dating in the west are usually women with no basis of comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:38 AM
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Women don't leave the west to find relationships. Some leave for sex tourism, but that is the extent of it. Nowhere in the world do men say "I can't wait to meet a fat, opinionated, western feminist and marry her!" (And yes, most Western women are just that). The best dating market for Western women is right where they are because most men here don't know what a raw deal they're getting (which ties into why women are trying to shame and silence men who tell other men to get their passports).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:37 AM
2

Fair point
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 12:31 AM
1

It's like all of you are just responding without reading. Did you blow past the part where I said "I'm not going to stop her?" That's the literal opposite of controlling.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 12:17 AM
3

You didn't address a thing I said
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 11:47 PM
2

Can you give some examples of systemic misogyny?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 11:06 PM
1

I'm making a joke, relax
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 10:33 PM
7

She's a FDS acolyte. Proceed at your own risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 09:55 PM
2

I'll happily explain them both: 2 - I accept that I will, at my age (40) not meet a virgin in her 20s. Every woman I date will have had an ex boyfriend or ex husband. What matters is if he is a man that I can respect and if he speaks well of her. If her past is riddled with questionable men, then that speaks to her taste in men. If the men in her past all have horror stories, then I will probably be the next one in line. 9 - I value my peace and quiet. If I'm with a woman who constantly has to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 07:36 PM
2

And you're arguing semantics just to argue.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:46 PM
2

It's absolutely a boundary Her: I want to date you (her request to enter my life) Me: I don't date meth users (my boundaries) Her: but I do meth (her actions) Me: The we don't date (me holding a boundary) but you're arguing just to argue at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:21 PM
11

People get mad when you fuck a sheep, nobody thinks twice about killing it, wearing it's skin, and eating it. Fucked up if you ask me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:17 PM
0

Good relationship with her father Her ex boyfriends are men of equivalent status to me and speak well of her Has (and uses) a gym membership Knows how to cook No slut friends Natural hair color and style Minimal/no tattoos (cultural tattoos permitted) No kids Knows how to shut the fuck up
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:13 PM
-1

If you're a "forever girlfriend" that means that you're so terrible a pick that no marriage-minded man wants to marry you. That's worse than women who are too unattractive to get a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:08 PM
2

But you can have a boundary about what you accept. If someone does meth, that's what they're doing to themselves. I don't have to accept that kind of behavior and I choose not to associate with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:04 PM
-3

A woman is a direct reflection of the man she's with
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:03 PM
0

Women call it controlling because they hate accountability. It isn't me saying that she can or can't do something. She's welcome to wear that outfit. She's welcome to go on girls nights out every weekend. She's welcome to hang out with her ex boyfriend and use recreational drugs. I'm not going to stop her. What I am doing is letting her know that if she chooses that, she's also choosing not to be with me. Actions have consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:01 PM
4

Men cum because we aren't shy about what we want and need. Regardless, women need to take accountability for their own orgasms and not expect men to do all their work for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:57 PM
5

Are you attractive? Everywhere. Are you unattractive? Nowhere. That whole "you shouldn't approach women at _____" is a bullshit line to keep unattractive men away.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 10:11 AM
15

Men don't red-pill men. Women red-pill men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 10:09 AM
14

Most women suck at sex. The problem is that most men won't say it because they know that giving a woman any kind of criticism is a fast way for her to cut off access - the world is full of men who will line up to replace them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 10:08 AM
2

The reality is that nobody likes being rejected by someone they're into. The difference is that when women reject men, it's because they have "standards", but when men reject women it's because they're "insecure" or "intimidated". I can't even count the number of times I've gotten shamed for giving women a polite refusal for things ranging from relationships to casual sex (in my case, it's usually "are you gay" when it's a slattern or "you must have a small dick" when I'm rejecting a whale.)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 10:02 AM
2

I treat my women friends with the same level of regard as my male friends. Most women cannot handle being treated like men though, so I have very few women I consider friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 10:00 AM
1

If you want to actually have this conversation, try doing so without insulting me. Otherwise, idgaf
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 11:09 PM
1

If you want to actually have this conversation, try doing so without insulting me. Otherwise, idgaf
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 10:22 PM
1

Can confirm, this works
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:04 PM
4

That doesn't address a thing I've said.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:56 PM
1

That doesn't address a thing I've said.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:54 PM
5

Oh look you're making another personal attack rather than addressing the argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:42 PM
0

Yet here we are with posts saying the sample size here is too small lol. You can make fun of it, but you can't deny it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:39 PM
1

I'm going to assume that because this is the only thing you chose to address, that you agree with the rest of my comment. Take a criminal. A serial killer. A completely worthless human being by your standards, correct? Yet, many serial killers have groupies and women willing to marry them. That's a literal sexual perversion called hybristophilia. I don't know if you want to take a sexual perversion that affects a miniscule portion of women as your "gotcha" card. There are many cases of female pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:19 PM
1

A baby contributes zero to society and is actually a drain on social resources. Babies serve a necessary and vital function, specifically the propagation of humanity. When assessing value, it's important to look at people and things as a whole, rather than just what you see in the immediate moment. With that said, a baby to a single mother has less value than a baby to a married couple. What if your best friend or brother or sister were a bit of a bum and didn't have a great job and sort of coas…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:56 PM
1

Are we really 'rating' people by some kind of values? Absolutely. To pretend that we don't look at things or people and compare them is pure idiocy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:46 PM
9

Couple of problems: Tiny sample size More attempts = more success. It doesn't correlate to becoming more attractive. I know three guys who literally got a billboard with them in tuxedos and put up their phone numbers. They, unsurprisingly, got phone calls. They didn't become more attractive, they just got more exposure. Women determine male beauty standards and attractiveness, not male magical thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:43 PM
2

Modern women don't know how to love men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:34 PM
3

Being a pickme isn't the equivalent of being a simp. A simp doesn't understand what women value, so he employs a strategy of self-debasement that not only lowers his value, but kills attraction. Simps are reviled by men and women for this. The difference is that men will outright express their disgust, whereas women will use the simp and give nothing in return for a long as she can. The equivalent of a simp is a woman who eagerly gives ever degrading sexual acts to men in hopes that one will giv…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:33 PM
3

Nowhere does TRP even come close to saying this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:36 PM
2

"YoU JuSt mAdE aLl ThAT Up"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:17 PM
1

Women hate it because it requires them to do more than just exist and benefit from male effort. Modern women detest anything that makes them accountable for their actions or put in effort to achieve their desired outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:21 PM
2

Not accurate. The "pick me" knows what men want and increases her value to men. This is a winning strategy. The simp doesn't understand women and devalues himself thinking that it will foster attraction. This is a losing strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:02 PM
9

Why would we give a shit to fix it? The only people bemoaning this is women, and until they give these men a reason to give a shit, fuck em.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:18 AM
3

Marriage isn't the goal for men. It's been, historically, a requirement for us to get the things we care about (sex, offspring). Now that women give us those things without marriage, we don't give a shit about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 06:35 PM
1

No. I'll have sex with them, but commitment is not in the cards.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 03:02 PM
1

And when men lose control, there are consequences. Again, Men do not have the luxury of losing control of their emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:10 AM
3

So traditional marriage is comparable to those things?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 08:18 PM
3

You make it sound like these are bad? traditionalism You mean the relationship dynamic that has worked for the vast majority of humans to produce stable families and provide good outcomes for children? rejecting modernity And what has modernity gotten men and women except a perpetual cycle of unfulfilling relationships and trauma? keeping the status quo. What specifically do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 07:42 PM
2

Your experience may vary.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 11:35 PM
26

What's worse? Starving, or being able to only eat corned beef hash? This is an absurd question and definitely not asked from anyone with any experience being a man who gets no attention from women in a world where it seems like women give out sex like pez.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 10:12 PM
7

All dating is game and manipulation, on both sides of the gender fence. Every one of us attempts to make ourselves artificially more appealing to our preferred partners than we really are. This isn't new, and it is an amoral thing. It's a game that we all willingly participate in and the only people who are mad at it are the people who play it poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 06:09 PM
-5

I'd be asking myself "why do I not get to enjoy the things your exes did, yet you're expecting me to give you more (in regards to commitment) than they did?" It causes a lot of questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 01:21 PM
0

As a red pill guy, I'll say the one thing they get wrong is: Not AWALT. If we really thought AWALT, then we'd all be better off MGTOW and not dealing with women entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 02:18 AM
13

She has different political views Doesn't matter if she's cooperative. She's emotionally immature Doesn't matter if she's cooperative Drowning in debt and terrible with money If she was feminine, what would she be doing that put her in debt? If she's cooperative, her spending habits would be irrelevant Awful taste in music, fashion, food, in your opinion If she's cooperative, her tastes would be more to my liking No sense of humor, boring personality, can't hold a conversation If she's fit, I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 02:15 AM
1

I can't tell if you're disagreeing with me or not
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 11:03 AM
2

Why should I give a shit about what women want? We live in an era where women proudly flaunt obesity as a badge of honor and then, if a man dares to have standards, he is shamed as "fAtPhObIc" for it. What's the point of getting into shape and taking care of ourselves for women when they can't be bothered to do the same. Hell, you can't even get them to smile without it being seen as "mYsOgYNy"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:44 PM
11

Cool it with the antisemitism What? Are you daft?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:38 PM
7

Never. Women aren't to be trusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:37 PM
4

I don't care about your specific situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 10:44 AM
1

/jerking off motions intensify
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 10:44 AM
1

You need to read more
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 10:43 AM
0

Nobody is going to read all that Janelle
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 02:01 AM
13

Wild. Women simultaneously say "we don't want to be someone's therapist" yet tell us "You can be emotional". Either we're safe with you or we aren't. And wise men know that we aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 02:00 AM
1

You mistake controlling an emotion for not feeling an emotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:57 AM
6

Because father's aren't on call? Please. That's the problem with this "debate" - women casually dismiss father's and the work they do for their children. Women will never trade spots with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:29 PM
7

If Mom's have it so hard, we will happily switch roles with them. Enjoy that 60 hour work week. We'll be here doing the "eMOtIOnAL lAbOr" of staying comfortable in the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 06:59 PM
11

Yes, that is true because the work needs to be done. If a man could support his family sitting on the couch and pounding tall boys, he'd do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 06:55 PM
243

"Ignore what they say, watch what they do" has entered the chat.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 06:52 PM
4

You know why I don't get bummed out? Because there isn't a problem that doesn't have a solution. A lot of men here will complain about how hard it is, but you know what? Life is fucking hard. You're not gonna win by complaining and bitching - you win by taking the shit hand you might have been dealt and making the most of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 05:47 PM
4

You can do anything you want to a woman, just don't bore her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 12:06 PM
2

Stop dodging. Do you have the medical degree to make that call?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 08:38 PM
2

From your source: Authors of the book Why Leaders Fight analyzed every world leader from 1875 to 2004 and statistically examined gender differences in military aggression. They found that 36% of the female leaders initiated at least one militarized dispute, while only 30% of male leaders did the same. Don't be mad that women are just too incompetent to lead in equal numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 08:19 PM
1

You don't have inside where you live?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 08:09 PM
2

Stop dodging. Do you have the medical degree to make that call?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 08:08 PM
2

Women, statistically, start a higher percentage of wars than men. https://www.economist.com/europe/2017/06/01/who-gets-into-more-wars-kings-or-queens Next?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 08:02 PM
-1

I like how I gave you examples and your reply is to ignore them and then assert the exact opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 05:12 PM
9

Nothing. If you have, morally, no qualm about a woman using a man for his resources despite not being attracted to him then I'm sure you have no problem with men pumping and dumping women who they have zero interest in committing to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 05:07 PM
0

I like how I gave you examples and your reply is to ignore them and then assert the exact opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 05:03 PM
2

Do you have the medical degree to make that call?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 05:01 PM
19

The average man should, but can't. The problem is that, until we can have a team meeting and agree that simping is unacceptable, there will be men who accept shit from women that they shouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:55 AM
1

You can focus on the things you can't control or you can maximize the things you can. Up to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:20 AM
3

Women absolutely lie to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:09 AM
1

That's the core of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:08 AM
6

If you have a problem with men being more successful when they're red pilled, then maybe you should have a team meeting and make blue pill strategies rewarding for men instead of punishing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:08 AM
3

It sounds like men are the ones that can actually commit whereas women have issues with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:07 AM
1

Is that what you read from that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 04:56 AM
2

Get your body in order Get your finances in order Get your priorities in order (specifically, never place women above your mission) That's the core of any successful TRP based approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 04:22 AM
2

Well, because they have a weak inner life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 04:04 AM
3

Congratulations, we're arguing opinions. I'm pretty sure that there aren't any double-blind studies with control groups about red-pill/blue-pilled ideology. Calm down
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 04:03 AM
2

That shit makes my head hurt. Like ffs either fight or let it go.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:59 AM
2

I prefer being a man because, wild thought, I've been a man my whole life so I've become accustomed to the pitfalls and perks. Am I sad that I can't ever get by on my looks? Sure. Am I sad that I won't ever be loved or valued just for existing? Sure. But I'm all about the fact that it's easier for me to move through the world and that my limits are only defined by my guts, muscle, and ingenuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:58 AM
1

Do you have the medical degree to make that call?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:55 AM
2

Uh, that's not how demographics works. Everyone literally fits into multiple demographics.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:55 AM
4

That's an average body. I see nothing wrong with it and would give it a boning (and for reference, I'm not a fat basement nerd.) Edit: that body changes every time I open the link
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:53 AM
1

Well, I've got good and bad news. I'll give you the bad first: Dating sucks right now and will probably suck for a while. You already knew this, but here's the good news: you're a man. You have the class perk of "hard fucking work" that lets you level up all your stats. Being a man means you can literally work your way into being the man you want to be. You can physically train until you're a beef titan. You can stack money. You can learn how to dress and out style your competition. You have the…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:51 AM
3

I'm gonna blow your mind. A man who is masculine tends to be less toxic because one of the things we value is self control. It's the feminine men who are unpracticed at it that are the ones who exhibit toxic behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:48 AM
2

They're doing that thing where words mean different things. "Controlling" = "accountable".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:45 AM
4

Women need circles to discuss men because they need the approval of their peers before they can form an opinion about anything. Seriously, name one thing women do that involves making an independent choice. They can't even go piss without approval from other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:42 AM
4

This was so full of misandry that I can't even begin to address it. Please do not marry a man. Save him the headache.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:25 AM
1

Because you'll wear that outerwear 24/7
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:17 AM
1

All other things being equal, muscles > no muscles
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:17 AM
8

This is actually a prime example of why TRP teaches stoicism - a man losing emotional control can have dangerous consequences. Thank you for giving an example to demonstrate my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 02:48 AM
1

If that's how you want to read that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 02:04 AM
3

If a man is in a deep pit and you toss him a rope, he will climb it to get out, no matter how hard it is. If a man is in a deep pit and there is no way out, he gives into despair and curses the person who dug the pit. The man is, in both scenarios, still in a pit. The first scenario is one that gives him a plan to improve his situation on his own rather than obsessing about the pit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 01:54 AM
5

Marriage isn't the W for men, it's the W for women. Tell me you're blue pilled without saying you're blue pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 01:50 AM
5

"TRP has finally been defeated. Now all these men who are dissatisfied with their dating outcomes will magically become content."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 01:49 AM
3

TRP is absolutely brutal to men who choose delusion over living up to their potential. https://youtu.be/56j9V-XOjEs https://youtu.be/IWncAgWhwxI https://youtu.be/gSVvWHi8dbY You don't see it, because you don't give a shit about those conversations.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 01:45 AM
9

Because showing emotion demonstrates a lack of emotional control. Men do not have the luxury of losing control of their emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 01:37 AM
4

She doesn't know, because she has never been: A man Accountable
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 01:36 AM
5

Wow, you chose insults instead of engagement
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 01:31 AM
2

What makes incels? BP mindsets. What makes men black pilled? The idea that there's nothing you can do. What is the solution to that? The red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 01:30 AM
2

It doesn't work because women give bad advice. Women are incapable of being honest about what they like because they have to present a bullshit socially acceptable front rather than just outright expressing their desires. Women do not want to teach men how to be successful with them. They want a man who is naturally good with women rather than one who is seen to be faking.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 01:28 AM
1

Because male sexuality is seen as a dominant force, and when a man says "I'm bisexual", the impression is that you get dominated by other men, and it diminishes your masculinity in the eyes of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 01:25 AM
0

Men's Rights is a pointless battle. All these MRAs are trying to plead to be heard with people who have demonstrated that, so long as men continue to produce and reproduce, they don't give a fuck. If these guys were absolutely serious, they would simply MGTOW and check the hell out. They won't though because they're just as much a part of the system.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 01:23 AM
1

Dude she doesn't like what she doesn't like, get over it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 01:19 AM
-1

Kenya is lit. But I'm black so the rules are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 01:18 AM
1

Cool. Best of luck to them. They're gonna find out that the western man is, by global standards, a damn good catch. Western women mewl about how they're treated like bangmaids, but get with a man from a non-western country and they'll see what that really means. They'll get the joy of a husband who doesn't respect the word "no" and who will unabashedly fuck other women. Do that slick-mouthed shit that most Western women are accustomed to getting away with and you might get a backhand. House bett…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 01:15 AM
1

Marriage in the west isn't healthy or good for men in general. I'd argue that it never has been. Do you know why men get married? Because we love women and children, and marriage benefits THEM. Men don't want to get married for themselves - there's nothing we need to be married for that we can't get otherwise. Men get married to legally secure protection, social status, and provisioning for women. Men get married to provide stability to children.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 01:06 AM
2

This is even more true when you consider the fact that for half the year most women dont even know what your body looks like due to the amount of clothes you are wearing. You're capping. Clothes don't hide, they accentuate...or at least they do if you're in shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 01:04 AM
2

They do. A skinny fat will never beat muscles.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 01:03 AM
2

They will have the contempt either way. I'd prefer them take the red pill, because at least it offers viable solutions and a path out that contempt. They even have a term for it - red pill rage and it's something that is acknowledged and people who have it are encouraged to take healthy steps to get through it (take it out in the gym, get a hobby, if you can't manage it then avoid women). Without TRP these men would still harbor contempt but there would not be good actionable advice to help them…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 01:02 AM
1

My life fucking rocks at 40. I'm fitter, more financially secure, more refined, more self-aware, more confident and just overall better than I have ever been at any point in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 12:52 AM
5

Men who follow red pill strategies have better dating outcomes than men who don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 12:49 AM
3

Women: make porn and profit from it Women: "Sex work is real work!" Men: Watches porn for self satisfaction Women: /REEEEEEEEE
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 12:48 AM
1

This is fucking poetry
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 11:53 AM
3

It's delusional. You can't fantasy your way into something. I now identify as a fox-headed marmot. My pronouns are fosti/fistin. Respect my choice. (Sounds fucking insane, right?)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 11:18 AM
4

How would you describe the personality traits of a woman who calls herself a boss baby? Overly masculine, as if she's trying to compensate Have any guys come across this type of woman and did you find her attitude attractive? All the time in my former line of work. Attraction was moot, because I don't date within my profession. If I had to look at it without that lens, I'd say that the women I prefer are the opposite. If you did not find her attractive, what's up because you were intimidated per…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 10:26 AM
1

It's killing a viable fetus. You just call it "abortion" because it allows you to avoid saying "murder". If you can't even say it openly, maybe you shouldn't champion it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 08:34 AM
2

Citation Needed
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 05:47 AM
2

Your failure to be understood is on you. Good luck in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 04:12 AM
7

You blame the men but why aren't you blaming the women? Did you not read my post? I'll cut out the parts that you seem to have skipped: Older women that are passed over by men in their age group in favor of younger women. The old women claim that the older men are predators who are taking advantage of poor innocent young women The older women, in their younger years, were those very same women going after older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 04:12 AM
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Your failure to be understood is on you. Good luck in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 04:09 AM
3

Paragraphs usually separate ideas and, in writing, when you put a paragraph at the end it usually serves to sum up the overall point of your statements. If you don't want people misconstruing your position, learn to express it better. https://www.grammarly.com/blog/splitting-paragraphs/
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 04:02 AM
2

So, FEEEELINGS
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:44 AM
6

Most men are dumb for a reason And you think people are going to treat you like you're here in good faith acting like this? Please be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:43 AM
2

I'll agree, but you're missing my point I'm personally against killing babies. If you want to, go for it (edit: and I challenge you to find any point where I said that it should be outlawed or that I'd force others to adhere to my standards of behavior). What I'm saying is that you should at least own what you're doing if you're gonna do it. Why is it that there's so much mealy-mouthed talk and dancing around it? If you're going to do a thing, then why do you have to lie to yourselves about what…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:34 AM
2

Thanks Reddit police
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:18 AM
1

I didn't respond to you go talk to someone who gives a fuck about what you have to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:13 AM
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Since I cannot block you, I will simply reply with this from now on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 02:55 AM
1

Attractiveness is a factor, yes. But relationships are also a lot more than just that. I'm a lot hotter than my girlfriend, but I'm not going to fuck it up by banging some random broad because... /Checks notes ... She treats me well. There are no hard and fast rules that apply to all relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 02:28 AM
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Women like power and status differentials. That's why they hurl themselves at men with both, regardless of their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 02:24 AM
3

Yeah. That usually causes a factory reset when you point out the incongruence between their words and their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 02:22 AM
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There are generally two groups of people who have problems with age-gaps: Young men that do not understand women and can't figure out why they're getting out-gamed by older men. Older women that are passed over by men in their age group in favor of younger women. What both these groups try to do is shame and insult rather than adapt. The young men paint the women as vapid gold diggers who are only interested in money The old women claim that the older men are predators who are taking advantage o…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 02:19 AM
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I wish women had the discipline to actually go full Lysistrata, but they don't. The very ones screaming for abortion are also, strangely enough, the ones that love engaging in casual unprotected sex. Weird correlation, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 02:08 AM
0

Comparing livestock to humans is a weird place to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 02:06 AM
3

Nobody has addressed the numbers. The only replies to this are red herrings and strawmen.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 02:04 AM
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A lot of people will not want to hear this but I found the TRP journey to be extremely helpful when it came to female companionship. They don't want to admit that they fundamentals of TRP are rooted in personal accountability, self-improvement, and building a healthy mindset towards interaction with women (specifically, seeing them as people and not divine creatures to be worshipped). I was lazy and didn’t work out, I used to take girls on multiple expensive dinner dates and not get as much as a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 01:52 AM
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Okay, and I'm fine with abortion in that case. What type of person isn't? You baby killers always use the most extreme examples to justify abortion en masse.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 01:29 AM
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Don't try to make 1% seem like a staggering number. It isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 01:28 AM
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I think you missed my point here, or maybe you didn't. I don't get what you're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 11:59 PM
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I'm not even going to try to explain how dumb that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:12 PM
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I'll agree with you on that. I don't see how it negates my point though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 09:38 PM
3

Wow i know this is hard for you to get, but it's possible to have opinions and views about things that don't directly affect you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 09:34 PM
1

You ask questions and make no points. Stop wasting my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 09:32 PM
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I agree. I'm against it, but I don't live your life. I just get mad when baby killers try to pretty up what they're doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 09:21 PM
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Abortion is killing a fetus that would, otherwise, become a child. Dance around that fact if you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 09:19 PM
2

I'm not the one with all the birth control options, but yes, I have. With all the sport fucking I do, I'm not having any kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 09:18 PM
2

Relevance?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 09:06 PM
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I didn't answer it because it only accounts for 1% of abortions. It's a fragment of a minority and doesn't have any weight. You're using that 1% to justify the other 99%. Maybe if the number were even as low as 10% you'd have a point worth addressing. 1% doesn't justify it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 09:04 PM
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Painting people who are against abortion as incels is tripe. Stop that nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 09:01 PM
5

Since I cannot block you, I will simply reply with this from now on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 09:00 PM
0

I agree. I'm not saying you can't, I just want you to stop lying to yourselves about what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:59 PM
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I hate that you didn't read a damn word I said. You're in your feelings and not reading for comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:58 PM
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Why is it that you baby killers always take it to the extremes of rape and incest when the vast majority of abortions aren't because of them? https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2019/05/24/rape-and-incest-account-few-abortions-so-why-all-attention/1211175001/ I'll tell you why - because if you actually looked at numbers (to include your mewling about how birth control isn't 100% effective) and didn't have bullshit rationalizing, you'd be forced to confront what it is you're advocating for…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:52 PM
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Since I cannot block you, I will simply reply with this from now on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:49 PM
3

Since I cannot block you, I will simply reply with this from now on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:48 PM
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No, only 99% effective when used properly. Terrible excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:45 PM
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You're avoiding the question. No matter, I'm done with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:45 PM
5

More condescending. I'm done with you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:44 PM
6

And what does that have to do with abortion?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:44 PM
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In this case, it's not a viable fetus. It would die if left to its own devices.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:42 PM
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It's murder, and your condescending "Please, read some actual information about the issue" doesn't move an argument forward. Question: what would happen without the intervention of the doctor performing the abortion? Edit: I'll save you a dodge - the fetus would naturally grow and develop. Because it's alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:25 PM
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If I burn down a house that isn't fully built, can I say it isn't arson because nobody can live there?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:23 PM
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There will be no reply to this. You gave pesky numbers and facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:23 PM
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You won't get a feminist reply to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:20 PM
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Those men that are against abortion are just brainwashed by the dominant sexist society. Women who want abortions just want to escape from responsibility and have been brainwashed by feminism. See how it feels to have your position misconstrued? Please be better. Just as the idea of n count. It's the culture that tells use women (not men) with a lot of previous partners are bitches. Not "bitches", but you have to accept that there are men who don't want a partner with a high body count. You live…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:17 PM
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I'm against abortion, because it's murdering a child. You can pretty it up however you want, but that's what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:04 PM
2

You know that there are ways to have casual sex without getting pregnant, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:02 PM
1

Youre splitting hairs because you want to be right. You're a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 07:22 PM
1

So because there are some police that don't do their job, that somehow reflect codified governmental policies? Did or did the police not raid the underage sex shop? Facts matter cupcake
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 06:56 PM
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Let's flip this, because the people who say that "the past shouldn't matter if you love them" and similar dross are usually women defending body count that resembles a credit score. Would any woman here date a convicted child molester? If not, why? the past shouldn't matter, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 05:06 PM
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Are women not intelligent creatures with their own agency? We either treat women like equals or we don't. Pick a lane.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:57 PM
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Notice that your reply was immediately geared towards "those men" when it isn't men that will shame a woman into having babies? Where's this smoke for women who actually do pressure other women into motherhood? Moreover, your position pretends that men get dick-retarded like "hurrr me want sex so girl must babby" as if we forgot the 20-something forms of birth control that women have specifically so they can engage in casual, consequence-free sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:56 PM
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This reply doesn't make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:52 PM
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You're ignoring the facts because you need this to be about pedophilia in order to justify your position. Prostitution is tolerated, as evidenced by the fact that nothing is done to curb it. Child prostitution is not tolerated as evidenced by governmental action to stop it and punish perpetrators.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:50 PM
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The fact that there was a police raid to shut it down bolsters the argument that it isn't tolerated.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 12:38 PM
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I notice you didn't answer the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:35 AM
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You replied to me, watch that western woman attitude. This is part of the reason Western women aren't desired outside of this simp plantation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:32 AM
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Because people are, for the most part, superficial trash water-bag mammals. Myself included, since I am people. We use our senses to make judgments about things, situations, and people. It's hard to just "turn off" that instinct that has helped us survive for thousands of years. You sense a terrible smell, you leave. You taste something foul, you spit it out. You hear an unknown sound, you become alert. You see someone unsavory, you become guarded. To simply say "be nice to ugly people" is not r…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:31 AM
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My insults are direct, but I'll be clear. We just don't see most American women as options because we have seen what y'all can and should be but refuse to be. We can't help but see your shortcomings because everywhere we go, we see better. There's a reason that western men are leaving for a better experience with women, and men from other countries aren't coming here for the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:25 AM
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They aren't, but probably not for the reasons you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 03:35 AM
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I want to meet these women who actually drop the dude and none of them call him ever again. I'm willing to bet that never happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:53 AM
1

Sometimes, sure. But let's be real... Most of the time, y'all know exactly the type of man you're getting with and you're okay with it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:35 AM
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You know that most of us who have the money to casually travel don't have problems finding women to fuck, right? We just don't want the problems that come with most American women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:05 AM
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Aside from the fact that I'm not reading all that shit, my bit of advice is this: Just go. Don't waste your energy telling these women. They won't change their behavior and they'll just accuse you of being a predator and heap shame on you. Don't waste your energy telling the men stuck here. They will vilify you for having options that they don't. Don't waste your energy telling the BP men. They will side with the women hoping that it will get them a crumb of pussy. Don't waste your energy. Just …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 10:15 PM
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Sometimes shit doesn't work out. It just works out far less when the woman is forced to look down on the man she's dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 04:07 PM
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Thread
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 02:27 PM
1

The one you're going to watch. It's terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 01:40 AM
1

You will be until you see that movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 01:08 AM
0

I'd rather take the source of income, because I have responsibilities outside of my need for partnership.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:43 PM
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Unless you're getting a marriage from it, you're just fucking for fun. You are giving it up for free. Deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 07:43 PM
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So your defense is that it's okay to have a high partner count if you also have a trail of failed relationships with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 05:41 PM
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We just don't want to commit to women who have freely given away sexual access to other men. Stop trying to shame men into marrying sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:48 PM
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Oh I got your point. You just didn't make the point you thought you did.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:40 PM
2

There's no spin you can put on this that makes you look good
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:40 PM
3

Yes, it does. But the difference is that men worth fucking are not common. It ends up with women becoming part of a man's rotation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 02:59 PM
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Lesson learned: men, get your fitness and attractiveness up, or you'll be forced to marry a woman that talks about you like this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 02:57 PM
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So wait, you'll happily fuck your boyfriend who satisfies you sexually while your husband pays the bills and meets his obligations. Ladies and gentlemen, exhibit A.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 02:55 PM
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L
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 02:54 PM
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They don’t know their husbands aren’t satisfying them. This doesn't make the data invalid. As an aside, why does society make it okay to place the onus of female satisfaction on men yet the opposite isn't done? Women facing a higher risk of catching stis is purely biological This doesn't make the data invalid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 02:51 PM
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If you're "casually dating" then you're being shared whether you want to admit it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 02:47 PM
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Ma'am, no. Just... No. You took the time to reply to the part that you thought you had a case for and, despite how inane I felt your position was, I treated you seriously. If you're going to pull this nonsense, i will just give you the copy/paste that I give to every dishonest interlocutor.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:34 AM
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You only disagreed with the part that pertains to women. You haven't said a word about anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:23 AM
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You're doing the thing where you take your specific experience and apply it to the whole. That doesn't work. Again, you're not acknowledging the gathered data. Edit (to address the edit you made): Divorce is not a failure. It’s a safety net. It’s freedom. Sometimes relationships just don’t work out. It is an absolute failure. No couple opts for marriage planning on divorce. The fact that you see divorce as a "safety net" is indicative of why 70% of divorces are initiated by women. The fact that …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:22 AM
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Women who have casual sex can insist on condoms. Sure, they can. But they don't. You're presenting a hypothetical that doesn't fit in line with observable reality. Divorce is a good thing. In what fucking world? Divorce is failure. It is literally the failure of two people who wanted to attempt monogamy and literally nobody fares better after a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:18 AM
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As an aside, why were you so willing to accept the downsides for men, children, and society but you got fully armed to rebuff the consequences to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:09 AM
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Really? women with multiple partners have higher divorce rates Women have a much higher chance of STIs
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:06 AM
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People willingly shoot heroin. People willingly allow themselves to become obese. People willingly drink and drive. People willingly do a whole number of things that hurt not only themselves, but others.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 03:45 AM
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The only people who think men are simple are people who never took the time to understand men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 03:28 AM
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But you CAN control if you're fat in the first place. 80% of women would find better outcomes if they put down the damn tacos.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 03:18 AM
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Women are the ones that made society polygamous. Women will happily share a desirable man before they accept commitment from an average man. I'm not judging them for it, but let's not pretend that men (the gender that doesn't control who has sex) are the ones determining sexual dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 03:16 AM
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It's terrible for everyone. It's bad for men because average men can't find success in the dating market and end up unaccustomed to healthy relationships with their female counterparts. It's bad for the top tier men because it encourages bad behavior. It's bad for women because access to sex is easy and, without either self control or social pressure, women will willingly give their bodies to the never ending parade of men who just want sex. It's bad for children because we're seeing an epidemic…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 03:10 AM
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Google "male model". Remember, women set beauty standards for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 02:11 AM
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Women don't create simps. Simps create themselves. The cure to simping is to go out and get real life experience with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 02:10 AM
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I wish you made sense
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 12:21 AM
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What need do women have to understand men when we are so eager to trip over our own feet to be with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 10:28 PM
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I'll agree. TRP can help a man navigate women in general, but you have to remember that women... /Checks notes ... Are individuals with their own quirks and preferences. If you go full red pill all the time, you'll never get the outcomes you could if you tempered it with a bit of experience and empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 09:23 PM
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Well, the topic is men approaching and your question implies that men who approach you: Are potentially rapists Know your specific trauma and past None of those are the case. Do you think women who have experienced sexual assault are outliers? Yes. I'm aware it happens, but most men don't rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 09:13 PM
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LET THIS MAN COOK
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:59 PM
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It's real, it's a thing... And it's entirely their fault. If you don't have the determination to go after what you want, and leave the relationship if you aren't getting it, prepare to be friend/fuck zoned. People will, like it or not, get what they want from you. The question is "am I getting what I want in return?"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:59 PM
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I'm a callous man, and I feel bad for anyone (man or woman) who takes the time to listen to what their preferred demographic wants, puts in the work to be appealing to that demographic, and still doesn't get results. We all need to be a bit more empathetic towards them because it's a cold lonely existence and it's only exacerbated by the feeling of failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:50 PM
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I literally said nothing about sexual assault. Why is it that you take the extreme outliers and apply it to something as innocuous as a man expressing interest? I take back my earlier comment of "just stay home" - you should find a therapist right away.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:47 PM
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If being approached is a traumatic experience, you live a sheltered life. Just stay home.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:44 PM
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There are some problems here: Oh, men know Not all men are as socially aware as other men. They just feel entitled to a positive response to a selfish action This is an extremely broad and inaccurate statement - there are women who love to be approached and bemoan when men are timid. There are men who are fully capable of handling rejection. There isn't a plurality that allows you to make this statement. we are totally justified in mocking, judging, complaining about and shaming Oh, only if ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:42 PM
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It's a faulty comparison - your home is a private place where you have a reasonable expectation to be left the fuck alone. Hell, if someone shows up to my place uninvited, I'm outright rude. If I'm in public, I no longer have the right to privacy - I'm in a public space with other people and have no control over their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:37 PM
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I'm for cold approaching because I'm not failure-adverse. I encourage men to approach women because it teaches men how to be better at dealing with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:36 PM
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That's the thing, men aren't under any delusion about that. It's women who can't accept being judged and found wanting by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:20 AM
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I'm not telling you what you do or don't like Was this you: "They have, you just don't like it." That's literally you doing the thing you said you didn't. Please don't lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 02:29 AM
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I haven't changed my position at all. I'm replying to your (increasingly inane) responses to my position. Your inability to address your own logical fallacies isn't my problem to content with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 02:28 AM
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Lots of women have contributed to me living in comfort. I'm willing to wager that the building you're typing from, the device you're typing on, the electricity used to power it, the furniture you're sitting on, the HVAC system that keeps you comfortable, the food in your belly, the company that pays you, the water pumped to your house, the car you drive, the roads you drive on, the quality of the air you breathe...all provided by the efforts of men. My cat is male, so obviously, I can't hate men…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 02:24 AM
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I can only speak to my experience. I have this habit of taking the things people say at face value when engaged in debate. I suggest you try it rather than telling others what they do or don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 02:20 AM
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"nOt AlL waoMEnYnS" I can only speak in generalities, and I cannot account for the specific experience of all 3 billion women on the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 02:17 AM
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I'm not the one incapable of seeing that there are views that exist outside of my own experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 02:16 AM
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Then maybe you should refrain from telling other people that they're wrong since your sample size is n=1 and you don't have the capacity to step outside of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 02:04 AM
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That didn't address my point
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 02:02 AM
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Women can have children with other women. Screenshots or it didn't happen
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 02:00 AM
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When there is a hard problem to solve, men get together and figure it out. When there is a hard problem to solve, women get together and let the men figure it out. Let's be real - if there were no men, society wouldn't even last long enough for women to think about artificial insemination - y'all would be dead in three months.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 02:00 AM
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Bold take for someone who is literally living in the comfort that was built by the things (and men) you so clearly despise.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:57 AM
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There is nothing that a man needs a woman for outside of reproduction. Seriously, what do women do that is necessary to a specific man or society in general (outside of child birth) that men aren't doing better or in greater numbers?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:53 AM
5

That is the world's worst straw man
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:49 AM
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This is that thing that women like to do - y'all take a general statement then apply your specific situation and then act like your experience is applicable to the general group.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:48 AM
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Here's the problem with telling men to lower their standards: Hypergamy. Women are the ones that select who has sex, not men. A man's standards affect who he is willing to fuck, not who he is able to fuck. He still has to be given the opportunity by a woman, and women invariably look up the hierarchy because they want a man who is better than them. The only successful strategy that a man can employ to get more sex is to improve himself - he has to align with the standards of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:47 AM
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Well, there is a truth that a lot of people here don't want to accept: men and women are different, and the rules are different for each gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:42 AM
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Open relationships don't solve the problem. It just gives women license to openly and freely fuck multiple chads while keeping a man as a backup plan. You're imagining a world where women with unlimited sexual agency will start choosing average men. As we see, that doesn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:40 AM
1

That's just your opinion. I don't understand the need for personal attacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 06:58 PM
1

So? Most men aren't violent criminals. You're just making an irrelevant red herring.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 06:21 PM
1

That's your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 06:20 PM
1

They're mostly done by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:48 PM
2

Nope. I respect a woman's agency and don't take responsibility for their choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:47 PM
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It's an opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 02:09 PM
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Like it or not, we cannot control their preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 11:30 AM
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You're an idiot. Go home.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 03:07 AM
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This doesn't back up your assertion
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 03:05 AM
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[citation needed]
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 01:55 AM
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No. If she's not interested, move on to a woman that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 11:01 PM
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Fair enough, and I wasn't trying to personally attack you. Just wanted to be clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 11:01 PM
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before my mom divorced my dad 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 10:43 PM
-1

Sorry, but you're not feminine. You have some shared hobbies with feminine women, but that doesn't make you feminine. The biggest tell is that you don't let your husband lead. While that dynamic may work out for you, don't pretend you're feminine in regards to your relationship dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 10:42 PM
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I disagree. Women are literally the arbiters of what an "attractive man" is. Women set male beauty standards as much as some men (the ones that can't meet them) don't like it. The only thing women suck at is evaluating a man's potential as a long term partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 10:14 PM
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You think most men get laid on a regular basis? HAHAHA HAHAHA
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 10:12 PM
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/jerking off motions intensify
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 05:23 PM
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[citation needed]
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 02:14 PM
1

Men have gone to prison if they have the means to pay and refuse and they can be tracked. Hence my previous comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 02:14 PM
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Keep this energy the next time a woman whines about the "wage gap"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 02:13 PM
1

You are the one that brought divorce into the conversation. Don't mewl because you don't like the facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 02:12 PM
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Doesn't make me wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 01:44 PM
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FEEEELINGS
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 01:09 PM
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You're welcome to admit you're wrong and let it go.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 01:08 PM
1

Again, it is a lagging indicator, not a leading indicator.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 12:54 PM
1

They're indicators, not determined by. It's a lagging indicator.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 12:52 PM
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Women attempt it more. Men, like everything we do, are just more successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 12:49 PM
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Men are more emotionally intelligent than women. The problem is that women are emotionally lazy and see a "connection" as one where the man does all the work and she's just "catching a vibe" or whatever dumb term they're using these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 12:48 PM
1

This only applies to unattractive men
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 12:46 PM
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Or "men who know better". It's cool though, most of you will be unmarried.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 12:44 PM
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It isn't worth it if it isn't worked for
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 05:28 AM
-1

I'm not. I don't fuck men. But I love that energy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 04:53 AM
-2

Wait, what's wrong with Mr. Beast, a man who literally created a billion dollar brand? Women are dumb, I swear
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 04:51 AM
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That's not true. There is an old saying "you can't get blood from a stone." If they can prove to a court that they're broke, no child support. If they can't be tracked, no child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 04:50 AM
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I'm an anti feminist. Shit on me. Anyways, I'll somewhat agree with you. There are a portion of men that are weeping over their lack of success with women... ... But women don't want those men anyways. The men checking out and doing their own thing are men who have either been divorced or see what happens to men who go through divorce and they want none of it. These are the men who are desirable and it kills women that these men openly want nothing to do with commitment or monogamy. They're taki…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 04:48 AM
2

Oooh call me 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 04:43 AM
2

Unless she's a virgin, she doesn't get to "make me wait" for the thing she's given away to other men for free. She can deal with another man who is willing to be simp. It isn't me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 04:38 AM
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70% of divorces are initiated by women. Get real.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 04:36 AM
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Marriage is a tool that wealthy people use to pool assets. Poor people marry for love. Wealthy people marry for legacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 02:05 AM
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Then why even bother responding?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 01:32 AM
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The problem with finding a niche and fitting into it is that it boxes you out from everyone who isn't in that niche. For example, I have a friend and she's very attractive but the niche she has chosen is the "tattoo having drug dealers" and she has molded herself to be attractive to those men. We were having lunch and she was bemoaning her dating outcomes. I had to tell her that she isn't attractive to the type of men that would give her different outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 01:24 AM
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People are people. There aren't hard and fast rules that apply to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 01:21 AM
1

Patronizing and patriarchy are not interchangeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 01:17 AM
7

Look at you, pretending that fat men aren't invisible to women on OLD
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 01:10 AM
1

It isn't patriarchy. Women fare better under patriarchy. This new thing where we don't hold them accountable has given them free reign to fuck up their lives (and still blame men.)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 12:53 AM
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Hot takes: Women like chauvinistic men. They are drawn to them. Women are happiest when they are in a position where their only responsibilities are the children and pleasing their husbands. Men need to be better (oh I've got smoke for men too). Too many of us are satisfied being soft and broke. Children answer to the mother. Wives answer to the husband. The husband protects and provides for them all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:59 PM
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But at the end of the day, they're being chosen
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:33 PM
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1, 2, 8 are yes, the rest are no.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:25 PM
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If that's the case, then why do women choose those kinds of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:23 PM
5

I often find myself having to debate against what people feel a position is rather than what it actually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:51 PM
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TRP does not support or approve of sexual assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 02:50 PM
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the misogyny Women label anything they don't like a misogyny so that word really has no value. stereotyping We have to speak in generalities and stereotypes because we don't know all 3 billion women on the planet and their specific situations. forceful, manipulative, confrontational and sometimes even aggressive Those things get results. This goes back to women lying about what they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 02:41 PM
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Nowhere does TRP state that a man's value is derived from how many women he's slept with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:35 PM
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I did not see the radfem in your flair. I do not want to discuss anything with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 12:37 AM
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I'll add. The reason TRP is almost universally reviled by women is this: It gives men the Konami code in relationships. Women spend a great deal of time deceiving men about what they really want in relationships and the things that they're attracted to. Worse, they even punish the men who make the foolish mistake of listening to them (as opposed to watching their actions.)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 10:38 PM
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You're not purple pill, you're black pilled. You've given up all hope. Women aren't a mystery. The confusion comes because a lot of men listen to what they say instead of watching what they do. The formula is, generally, simple: Get muscles Get money Be unavailable Yet here we are, with men who do the literal exact opposite can't find success with women and think that women are the problem. No my guy, it's you. It's always been you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:39 PM
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Because the standard for what a man will sleep with vs what he will marry are vastly different. Moreover, a man's commitment is the prize - he has to be more discerning about who he gives it to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:09 PM
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That's on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 01:34 AM
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I appreciate the work you put into this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:16 PM
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Inb4 "all women are perfect queens and men are the problem"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:15 PM
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Well I'd rather have peace at home. To each their own
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 10:04 PM
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Fnfsnark - 135 members Lengforgirf - 293 members Againstmatrimony - 974 members Againstfeminism - not a real subreddit Wherehaveallthegoodmengone - not a real subreddit Female dating strategy - 252,000 members Quit your bullshit. There is a fraction of so called mYsOgYNy in the face of a tidal wave of misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:47 PM
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I love how you went there rather a place a sane person would go
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:18 PM
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List them. Then tell me if they're banned/quarantined.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:16 PM
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Fucking Cancer
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:14 PM
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No such thing as a femcel. They're women who refuse to accept their SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:13 PM
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You are aware that there is an edit button? I use it frequently to add clarification or correct mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:06 PM
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Please don't confuse me with another user. I never said "no men" as "literally no men in the world". The thing that happens here is that we have to speak in generalities, but y'all get in your feelings and talk about your specific circumstances as if that invalidates the general consensus.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:05 PM
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"Treat women like the trash they are, or they will leave you for the man that does." -Ancient Chinese Proverb In all seriousness, obsequiousness is a major turn off for women and the problem is that women understand men so little that a genuine display of kindness and care comes off that way. That's why men who are assholes fare better - women don't feel like an asshole is simpering for her attention, therefore any attention she gets that is the least bit positive feels earned.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:12 PM
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You're taking your specific experience and applying it to men in general rather than listening to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:06 PM
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Your education and career are a bonus and they might even give you exposure but men don't look at women and say "I wanna fuck the brains out of her certifications."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:05 PM
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Labels are earned through behavior. Women cannot max out the "hoe" talent tree then be mad when they unlock the "community property" achievement. You don't see people saying "Look at that nun. What a fucking whore" because they didn't min/max their dick sucking trade skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:19 PM
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And you aren't addressing his point and only making insults, so I'm inclined to take him more seriously than I take you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:17 PM
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There is so much wrong here. All men WANT TO BE MANHOES but they can't get all the sex their reptile brains want unless they pay for it. Men are capable of getting sex other ways than paying for it... Unless all women are whores? Only a small % of women actually practice NSA casual sex, in the order of 10-20%. [Citation Needed] Majority are serially monogamous fornicators. Dating a different man every week to justify calling yourself a "serial monogamist" is delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:16 PM
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Interesting retort. Care to tell me more about this stunning and brave line of thinking?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:14 PM
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As a man I have zero respect for such a man As such a man, my only reply to this is "don't care, had sex." He could have just married one nice girl If you find a nice girl worth giving up this parade of promiscuous pussy for, let me know. breaking apart thousands. Thousands my guy? A man can only aspire to be so great. But seriously, look at you acting like these women who openly brag about their hoe phase are not already broken. I'm just enjoying the decline. He also isn't hurting only those gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:11 PM
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A lot of you in here are replying to arguments with ad hominems and all it does is make you look childish and makes your interlocutors position look better by comparison
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:59 AM
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I have better things to do than argue with someone I agree with
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:58 AM
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I don't debate here trying to change the minds of the people I debate with. I do it to demonstrate that their thinking is faulty.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:33 AM
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I know they lie. You know they lie. They know they lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:06 AM
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Get a calculator. Type 304. Hold it upside down. It's an older code, but it checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 11:03 PM
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There is no formula to find success at dating. Moreover, the things that generally work for men and women are different. My best bit of advice is to find someone who is successful at attracting the type of person you're looking for and as them instead of a bunch of strangers on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 11:01 PM
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Fpbp?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:52 PM
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The thing about being a winner is you make your own choices. Sometimes the men prefer sluts (I know plenty of cuckolds and hotwives). Sometimes they're tricked. What you're doing is you're taking the few exceptions that you've seen and applying it to the general group.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:52 PM
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I get what you're saying, but you've got some issues here. Plenty of women act as if there was a rich successful man for each of them. I see no problem with this assertion. Men act as if there was an infinite supply of younger women to date soon or later. Until women stop being born, there will be a new batch turning 18 every day. As a man, if my value is sufficiently high, I can fuck them until my dick breaks. Women believe they can wait to have children up to their 40 with no issues and miracu…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:51 PM
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It's not something that needs to be "gotten over." Just accept it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:28 PM
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The majority of reddit users are U.S. based. I'm speaking from that point of view. And the government doesn't force people to neglect exercise and eat more than they should. We all get the body we deserve, especially in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:09 PM
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Lol! Solid joke, I'm stealing that!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:03 PM
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Wild that you're here advocating for the interests of a group of women that would never even see you as an option if you had your way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:43 PM
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If you're pretending that women don't use sex or the promise of sex to attract mates, then you haven't seen... /Checks notes ... Literally every mammal Don't get me wrong, I'm not demonizing it. I think the allure of sex and procreating can create healthy motivations for men. Just don't pretend it doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:41 PM
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It's America. 60%-70% of the women are overweight. Just understand that just because a man sleeps with a fat woman, doesn't mean he prefers fat women. Choices are directly related to options. I prefer Bundaberg, but if it's not available I'll drink Reeds.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:39 PM
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So bumble works best when the man makes a direct overture. Who would have ever guessed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:36 PM
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Women (generally) rarely approach men, especially if they're attractive because women fear rejection. Women do not want to lose the right of first refusal. The most they will do is make themselves available and drop hints, but they absolutely loathe being the one that has to make the first move. Bumble , the app where women message first, is a good example.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:30 PM
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Ah. I wasn't sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:11 PM
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Okay, so what? You're not trying to describe it as an aversion - you're trying to paint it as an "extreme or irrational fear". Quit your bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:56 PM
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I don't understand your reply
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:51 PM
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Not wanting to date fat, trans, or sluts isn't a "phobia". Phobia implies fear or disgust. What you're doing is trying to shame his preferences by framing it as a phobia.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:39 PM
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He's not comparing women to literal Nazis, he's using hyperbole to make a point. You're smart enough to get that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:37 PM
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I never said that they couldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:33 PM
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Again, you're purposely not giving a straight answer to a very easy hypothetical.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:59 PM
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You are attracted to what you're attracted to, sure. Let's do it this way: Let's say I'm intensely attracted to Indian women, but I'm in a place where there are no Indian women or Indian women just don't like me. I have two options: Stick to my preferences regardless of the reality around me and never have sex or find a relationship. Accept the reality around me, and tailor my options to what I have available to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:59 PM
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Amazing how that works. I ask a simple hypothetical, and I can't get a straight answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:55 PM
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Hypothetical time. Two men, equal in every way, except one of them is in shape and the other is pudgy. Who do you prefer?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:43 PM
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I understand that, but there's an old saying: "Actions speak louder than words.". You're clearly more attracted to fit men, because you chose to marry one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:34 PM
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I guess I am attracted to funny, talented, pudgy guys My husband is fit though. "Ignore what they say, watch what they do" has entered the chat.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:27 PM
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Maybe it’s because my short height forced me to look outside the box Because you're short, you have to be open to more types of women. You don't have the luxury of being picky. for me excess weight isn’t necessarily a determining factor for ugliness So you tailored your preferences to your options. That's what happened there. I get that it’s not an average man’s type So you acknowledge that most men don't like fat women, so why does it enrage and confuse you? Why alienate a whole group of women?…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:26 PM
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Men do not care about a woman's money, muscle, or height
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:00 AM
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I'm above average in literally every category, and even I can make the observation that women don't want average men because I see the difference in treatment that average men get. Your post is tone deaf to the reality of dating as a man - women look for reasons to disqualify you rather than look for reasons to like you. Edit: moreover, you are leaving out a core tenant of TRP - IMPROVE YOURSELF BEFORE YOU BITCH.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:58 AM
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Your friend is a prime example of "just because you can, doesn't mean you should."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:54 AM
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This is bullshit, simply based on numbers
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:52 AM
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All of our choices are a matter of personal preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 05:00 PM
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Sex is fun, yes. But in a perfect world sex is for people you're committed to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 04:23 PM
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Congratulations on staying a virgin in this world that makes reckless female sexuality "empowering". To directly answer your question, Nobody. You're supposed to "practice" with nobody. Sex isn't a sport.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 01:26 PM
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I bolded it. Shame you can't read.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 09:19 PM
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Your refusal to compare people is an indicator of touchy feely indoctrination. And, moreover, you're lying. We all make value judgements about people .
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 08:46 PM
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You're a modern woman. I don't care how you feel about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 08:45 PM
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Being ill-adjusted to a mentally ill society isn't a bad thing. You enjoy your "modern women."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 08:34 PM
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This is just more shaming language that is used every time a man has preferences. It's nothing new or original.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 07:58 PM
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That's victory for a man who has his shit together. You have no liabilities outside yourself You're still able to reproduce if you choose Your assets are likely secure
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 07:14 PM
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Im not salty nor complaining. I'm just pointing out how a lot of people here choose insults instead of debate, as if shaming me is going to change my mind. Insults from strangers that I can walk away from are pointless. It just highlights the absurdity of trying to have a "purple pill debate" when most of the people here are blue-pilled at best, or outright misandrists at worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 07:11 PM
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And that's a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 07:08 PM
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There are two worlds. The world I wish we lived in and the world we do live in. If I had my way, we'd all be virgins until marriage. Sadly, we live in a world of degeneracy and having principles in this world only results in unnecessary pain. So I'll bang every slut that I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 07:02 PM
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Ideally, all women would be virgins until they were married. But we don't live in that world, and it's a shame because fuckboys would disappear overnight.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 07:00 PM
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You can try to insult me, but you don't know my soft spots and you're not important enough for me to care about your opinion. I'm just pointing it out so others can see how much you care.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:59 PM
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First, I told you that you're not getting an answer on the Neurodivergence question and I told you why. Let it go. And I'll agree - a boundary that is introduced at the last minute is bullshit. I'm very upfront about my expectations and I'm not lacking women who want me to offer them commitment. It's amazing what you can ask for when you're capable of giving women what they want. What the heck dude. I don't know what corners of the internet you're congregating in but in the real world, self wort…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:57 PM
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I'll do you one better. The more accomplished we become as men, the more likely it is we have to date down. Women, specifically western ones, have it in their heads that they are perfect as they are and should have access to commitment from the highest tier of men. If I were to date like women date, I'd never get laid because trying to find a woman who is my equivalent is damn near impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:51 PM
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don't know any woman that wants to be lead by a man. Really? Tell me more about the women you know. What do they have in common?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:44 PM
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I appreciate your well thought out response. It's given me much to think on and might even convince me of the error of my ways. (That's sarcasm. If you have a problem that you can articulate, please do so.)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:43 PM
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People are masters of self delusion. It's easy to justify hookups with any number of excuses. Maybe she did care for them deeply. Maybe she's lying to herself to justify sex. I can't make a value judgement on a specific individual level without knowing individual specifics
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:39 PM
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I can't speak to a specific situation unless I know the details of the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:34 PM
0

Again, toss up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:31 PM
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Given the world we live in, it's a toss up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:28 PM
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It's funny that the bar for "decent human being" as a man is "you're expected to give her everything and even die" but when a man has even the smallest boundary, it's a problem. As far as your question on Neurodivergence, just because I disagree with you doesn't mean I'm autistic. Please fix that line of thinking - it is not germane to the conversation and it is insulting to not only me, but people with autism. Next you'll be saying that because you don't hit your wife or cheat on her, it means …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:27 PM
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Your belief isn't required. Edit: Actually, let's turn this into a teaching moment. I'm in the top 15% of a lot of categories (income/net worth, height, education/intelligence, physical strength, penis size, looks). It isn't hard to get to the top 15% because most men are content where they're at and don't do the work. Moreover, I will openly admit that there are factors that are out of my control that I was fortunate enough to win the lotto on (height, intelligence, penis length). As to the con…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:18 PM
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Sure you don't cupcake
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:12 PM
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I was about to give you credit for removing the insult then you just make another. No matter. I hate that sarcasm doesn't translate well over text, so I'll say it in a non sarcastic tone: A wife isn't an enemy as evidenced by all the things I'm willingly contributing to her protection, provision, and happiness. The only thing I ask is that she give something back and respect my clearly defined and previously disclosed boundaries. As to the rest of my post "not mattering", don't feign insult if I…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:12 PM
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Didn't you get enough of a trouncing last time you tried insulting me?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:07 PM
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The onlookers have already made their mind up that you're insecure. You don't have control over anyone's autonomy. Bold of you to speak for everyone. You don't have control over anyone's autonomy. You're absolutely right. I don't. What I do have control over are the things I'll tolerate from people in my life. It's called "men having boundaries" and that's what you really have a problem with. toxic masculinity Doesn't exist, at least not in the way you want it to. That's a whole separate convers…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:07 PM
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That's fair. And you're absolutely fucking right. People should tailor their expectations based on what they bring to the market (as opposed to what they want from the market). For example, I have my demands because I'm in the top 15% of a lot of categories (income/net worth, height, education/intelligence, physical strength, penis size, looks). Add to that the fact that I date average looking women (because women can't really control their facial appearance), that means that I can expect her be…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:46 PM
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I'm glad you're back. I'll address your points. Something you folks don't seem to understand is that you're already going into the relationship with the mentality that the woman is your sworn enemy. Yes, she's my sworn enemy. That's why I'm putting myself in a position to have half my assets taken if the marriage fails. That's why I'm volunteering to provide for her in every way. That's why I'm agreeing to literally die to keep her safe. And all I want in exchange is some hot food, some consenti…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:32 PM
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I'm confused by your question
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:20 PM
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And no. You're controlling because you're insecure I actually want to address this, not because I'm trying to change your mind, but for onlookers. Men are often accused of being insecure when we exert the smallest bit of control or have boundaries. This is shaming language aimed at making men accept whatever women want to throw at us in relationships. It isn't "insecurity" for a man to exert control and have boundaries because the man is, often, the one doing the work to maintain the relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:14 PM
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I didn't call you stupid or imply you were. I asked if you were married. Are you married?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:07 PM
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Rather than engage in an honest discussion, you'd rather insult. That's fine. You're welcome to respond if you want to actually do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:05 PM
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Are you married to any of those men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:01 PM
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You can have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:59 PM
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Well, asking is a rookie fucking move because the woman will lie. In reality, we can't figure out an exact number but we can piece together indicators that tell us a woman is promiscuous. Moreover, if you're in an area long enough, you learn of a woman's reputation (which ties into why women are such whores on vacation).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:59 PM
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Depends. 4 at 18 years old? Assuming she wasn't fucking before adulthood, she's a slut. 4 at 30? Lady is damn near a nun.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:55 PM
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You know these are two different sets of men. Moreover, as another user accurately pointed out, sluts are for practice and fun. We don't commit to them, which is the reason women lie about their body count - they know the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:55 PM
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I'm gonna tell you, most men care. The ones that tell you are the men who have options. The ones that don't tell you are desperate and just trying to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:53 PM
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I dont care if a woman is a slut. Suck as many dicks as you want. Eat your college professors ass. Take those three dudes at burning man. But don't lie about it. The whole "it shouldn't matter" is nothing but cope. If it doesn't matter, then why can't they ever be honest? Because they know that men don't commit to sluts. And that's the crux of my position - you're free to do whatever you want, but you need to accept the consequences, and sluts want to party it up and then pretend it doesn't matt…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:52 PM
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As a man, there are things I can expect her to do that I won't (provided that I'm holding up my end of the agreement) I don't do the cooking or cleaning. Outside of my laundry (because I'm very particular about that), those things are her responsibility. Modern advances in household technology have rendered those tasks trivial so any woman who complains about doing them is just lazy. I will either get sex on demand, or I'll have sex with other women. If you want monogamy with a man like me, you …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:46 PM
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I'm actually extremely critical of men who simp for overweight women. It isn't doing anyone any favors.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 01:24 PM
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That doesn't address my point
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:30 AM
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Women control access to sex, not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:13 AM
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There are no 10s. Hell, that whole scale is cope bullshit. The only questions you need to answer are: Would I bang them? Would I stop banging other people to bang them?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:10 AM
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They're both bad options.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:08 AM
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We don't care if you're disgusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 10:56 PM
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I tell my friends "if you want to experience what it's like being a woman in online dating, make a Grindr account".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 10:56 PM
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Uh fucking absolutely. Most men give much more leeway to shitty behavior from women they want to fuck than women they don't. Why is this even a question?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 10:54 PM
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If you want the answer, look at women's actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 10:53 PM
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That isn't true at all, especially expanded onto a global scale. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/why-bad-looks-good/201908/why-many-young-women-prefer-to-date-older-men?amp
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 10:21 PM
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And now you're equating adult relationships to pedophilia. Keep going, I've almost got a bingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:46 PM
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I don't know what you're getting at
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:43 PM
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Yet you seem to have the knowledge to think that two consenting adults are in an abusive relationship. You can't feign ignorance when it's time for you to back up your position.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:41 PM
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Are you married?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:38 PM
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Great for me. Now address my points or leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:38 PM
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That's you not backing up your position.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:37 PM
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Agreed. People (men and women) should date on their level. Men know this. Women do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:36 PM
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Okay, for a minute, I'm going to pretend you're an honest interlocutor and here in good faith. If it's an "abuse of power", then why do so many women eagerly seek out and enter into relationships with older men? Edit: and good job replying without a veiled insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:34 PM
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It isn't sad for me. I'm tall, hot, muscular, big dicked and wealthy. The only problem I have with women is "when is this woman leaving? I've got shit to do."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:31 PM
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Great, let's run with this. Show me the preponderance of men who have options that choose fat single moms. The only men who do are men who don't have a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:29 PM
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I'm not making anything up. Moreover, this is the first reply I made to you so that word "again" doesn't fit. Please learn how to follow a conversation. And I'm not the one who is saying that age-gaps are abusive. That's you and your ilk because you don't want to compete with younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:25 PM
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Notice that you have a trend of insulting rather than valid rebuttals. Shame, insults, guilt, and the need to be right. That's all feminists have.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:23 PM
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Oh look, more insults. I'd lie and say I'm surprised, but I'm not Feel free to address the argument or don't bother responding.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:21 PM
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Men with options don't choose single moms or fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:09 PM
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Single mothers and overweight women are not equal to child-free women and women of a healthy weight. I'll even go further... The first group isn't deserving of commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:09 PM
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You going to address his points or just insult him? One of those approaches actually changes minds, the other reinforces the idea that women are dishonest when it comes to relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:08 PM
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Let's, as you kids say, "stop the cap". The only thing you said that I agree with is that a lot of men make their own obstacles. The rest is dross. Why? I'll tell you why: Women purposely choose men who have power, status, and money. Women are pursuing these men. Women are saying no to men their own age because these men aren't established. It's women that willingly enter into these "aBuSiVe" relationships with men who have exactly what they want. If you want to find fault anywhere, look to your…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:06 PM
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No. There isn't a real social link between intelligence and wealth. When women want to use coded language to talk about how they want a rich man, they say "ambitious" (nevermind the fact that ambitious people die broke every day.)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:31 AM
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Do you have something to back up your assertion that men cheat more than women in significant numbers? Start there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 11:24 PM
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I ALWAYS buy it and watch them take it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 10:39 PM
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It says a lot about you that you have literal evidence that men can cook (who are the best chefs in the world cupcake?) yet your inherent misandry can't let you think straight. Get some help.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 10:18 PM
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The only thing men need women for is reproduction. Name ONE THING outside of that that women do better than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 10:17 PM
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This entire "debate" is a trap, as women cannot even define misogyny. They simply say that anything they don't like is misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 10:14 PM
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Do you deny that diet and exercise are the key factors in obesity? And sorry, I do not believe that you are a doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 03:35 AM
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First, congratulations on surviving another rotation around the sun. As to your comment, women aren't prepared because nobody tells them that marriage requires them to work. Men are told early on that we are expected to sacrifice and, if necessary, literally die for our wives. What are modern women told? They're given a list of things they can expect from men and not a single word about what they should be giving to a man. There are women who literally think marital sex is optional and that thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 03:18 AM
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It's largely within a person's control. Stop making excuses for people with no discipline. https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/obesity/causes/ https://www.cdc.gov/obesity/basics/causes.html The NHS and CDC (you know, doctors) both agree that the causes of obesity are largely diet and exercise. Genetics are rarely a direct cause. Tell you what, back up your garbage and we can have a conversation about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 02:54 AM
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What is your source? I found this: https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2015/08/150822154900.htm
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 02:26 AM
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A worthwhile pursuit
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 02:12 AM
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The question posed to me was how a man can build value in other ways aside from money. That question was answered.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:50 AM
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Did you waste your 20s and 30s? I didn't. I got smart, I got fit, I got established. I'm gonna be nailing broads half my age until I die or get HIV.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:49 AM
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I'm not sure if you're agreeing with me or disagreeing, but I'll say that you're right when you said: Young women don't lust after wrinkled balding middle age men just because we happen to finally be pulling in a low six figure income. Sure money is a factor, but let's face it, money is always a factor. I'm gonna blow some minds here... If an old man is still getting tail, he hasn't hit the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:48 AM
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Then what other metric can we use? You're making excuses to ignore the metrics. Unless you can propose another trackable thing that gives us a more accurate picture about who leaves marriages, your quibbling is disregarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:45 AM
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You're making excuses to ignore the fact that women use height, an arbitrary number wholly unrelated to a man's character, as a discriminator. Moreover, it's a socially acceptable discriminator as evidenced by its existence on dating apps. As to your comparison to weight that's funny for two reasons: Weight is wholly within a person's control, unlike height. Weird how women try to conflate the two... There isn't a filter that I can slide to <150 lbs, because it is socially unacceptable to tell a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:38 AM
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You're the one that introduced divorce and cheating as if it invalidated his argument. I'm merely pointing out that the majority of divorces are initiated by women (which means men aren't the problem) and that women cheat as often as men do (which, again, means men aren't the problem). Try again?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:30 AM
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Congratulations, you have simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:59 AM
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So you're saying that women do select for height because it's a preference. I mean, thanks for agreeing?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:58 AM
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Then why do dating apps have a height filter?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:58 AM
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Tell me you notice my effort. Show me that you respect me. Make my sacrifices worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:56 AM
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Women are the biggest consumers in society. You think these people would make a dime if they were talking about "I need a virgin wife, not too fat, makes meatloaf just right?" Fuck no. The biggest "independent ladies yassss" female artists are.... /Checks notes ...married. Pandering to female degeneracy is a money printing machine.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:55 AM
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Most divorces are initiated by women. Women cheat at an equal rate that men do. Please try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:47 AM
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Women who get ghosted get zero pity from me because it is always one of the following: They are punching above their weight class They violated his boundaries with their behavior I have never met a man who was dating his looks match who said "things are going very well. Time to implode this relationship." Men don't do that because average men don't treat sexual relationships as disposable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:46 AM
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Okay, aside from money, a man can do the following: Get fucking fit. Most men are embarrassingly weak and out of shape. If a man puts in a solid year lifting and eating right, he can easily be in the top 15% of men in that area. Read a god damn book. Women are turned on by a man who is intelligent and articulate. At the very least, they respect it. Broaden yourself. Men should try things that make them uncomfortable - that's how we grow and develop. I used to loathe cooking but, because I worked…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:41 AM
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Your thinking is faulty and telling. You think that the only value a man can build is related to his finances.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:30 AM
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The wall only exists for men who waste their 20s and 30s. Women derive their value from their youth and beauty. Men have to build their value. Why do you think that, generally, women go for older men?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 11:33 PM
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I made one in Nairobi (because I'm black) and I get 100+ right swipes a day (and from attractive women). Here? Nothing. It's almost like the problem isn't me, but the location.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:52 PM
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Then why do women everywhere else in the world want us? Only Western women, with their unrealistic standards and delusional self image, think western men are undatable. If you look at it objectively, where are the men from other countries that are clamoring to date Western women? Western women are unrealistically opinionated, obese, confrontational, masculine, selfish, and disrespectful. The only options that western women really have for a monogamous relationship are the bottom tiers of western…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:47 PM
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