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Yeah, you’re less responsible because you get to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:11 PM
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Well no, am a man, can’t get pregnant. Never had an STD. But that’s why risk are just that. Condoms mitigate both of those. Decision making plays a part too but if you’re playing safe and smart, there’s nothing gross about taking risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:02 PM
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Yeah, duh because the same applies. If both snort a line, the responsible user of course is gonna be more likely to test for fentanyl than the person who never uses. If both me and you have sex, albeit I do casually and I get tested more, you’re more at risk of contacting and spreading with STD’s. That makes me more responsible, despite the casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:42 PM
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Not bragging, but if anything I’d think that actually makes me more responsible than you. Having raw sex requires regular testing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:59 PM
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Those are just risk. Not something I think makes sex with someone gross. Those same repercussions could exists with someone you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:46 PM
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I pretend to know astrology damn near every day lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:18 PM
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People should be more responsible I feel like people just assume irresponsibility though. Like how would you know if you don’t even participate? Everyone knows STD’s are a risk. It’s why people stay on top of their sexual health, get tested regularly, and get treatment when necessary. Too many from the outside looking in don’t get people enough credit for doing those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:04 PM
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To you. That doesn’t really make it objectively disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:56 PM
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Huh? Having fun encompasses anything you want it to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:49 PM
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“Having sex with strangers is the sleaziest, grossest thing anyone can do” Q4a: What exactly makes sex so demeaning? Everybody seemingly wants to have it, so why do we apply all of these stupid rules and morals to it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:47 PM
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That’s not the case though. There’s no universal preference. Like there’s women who are turned off by experience because a person’s sex history matters to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:09 PM
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Inexperienced people are too entitled. Y’all simply aren’t a good match for experienced people and it’s a chore for them to give the inexperienced a chance. At some point we’ve all been inexperienced. Your teenage years were your best chance to hone every dating skill in preparation for being a successful adult. Nearly everybody around you socially during your teen years were at the same level as you. If you didn’t take initiative to set yourself for success later in life, that’s on you. Others …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:07 PM
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Yes, they can get it. That’s a privilege. Doesn’t mean they’re cutoff from inexperienced men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:51 PM
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Usually inexperienced people gain experience with other inexperienced people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 01:05 PM
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You’re essentially asking what kind of man I am for not being into bad sex. That’s self explanatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 10:59 PM
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I hope you get some experience bro. Good luck out here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 10:49 PM
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Well, no. They’re actually right lil bud. Maybe your emotions blinded you to what was obvious but you don’t have to be a genius to conclude that I simply just dated people my own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 10:41 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 10:24 PM
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Damn, where did I say that? Maybe I was inexperienced and only associated with other inexperienced people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 10:24 PM
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One that doesn’t have me wasting time on inexperience, the fuck? Lmao But yes, I learned at some point, that’s why I said we’ve all been inexperienced at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 10:05 PM
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Point is to understand the mindset, not to argue who’s turned off more or less or more willing to teach.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 09:58 PM
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Communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 09:52 PM
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Yeah, experience matters and I think it goes both ways. I’m repulsed by inexperienced women. Like why is it become my burden to teach someone how to date and have sex? On top of that, you have to deal with the ramifications of them being ignorant to basic things. Inexperienced people get confused over the smallest things which typically results in conflict. Surely their mindset makes sense if you can apply it to your own life. And yes, flirting, reading signals, being smith etc. takes practice b…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 09:35 PM
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They’re obsessed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 07:36 PM
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Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 07:24 PM
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Validation feels good as fuck. Nothing wrong with chasing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 07:20 PM
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Lol she didn’t even do shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 07:20 PM
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Ok but what’s up with the obsession over kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 07:19 PM
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Lmao Tim is such a weird mf man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 06:53 PM
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Gonna send themselves to an early grave being so damn mad about everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 06:37 PM
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She Posted About Making Shakshuka on a Lazy Saturday. Then She Got Death Threats What's up with the obsession that men have with having kids? Are they even ready to be dad's themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 06:17 PM
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I mean, you gotta know that those 2 things aren’t nearly the same. The teacher relationship doesn’t even come close to the parent one, even if you were misled. It’s fine to leave, but don’t be a pussy about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:00 PM
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Lol, you’re ghosting a kid. Calling that not abandonment seems like tryin to make yourself feel better. Feel like a real man would be able to just call it what it is and go on about his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 05:49 PM
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That’s mental gymnastics.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 05:42 PM
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Oh. Is what it is though. Not really concerned in that aspect either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:40 PM
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Disagree, think ghosting a kid is objectively bad. I’d still do it but also being consensus that it’s a bad thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:34 PM
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Yeah that’s where I differ a lot. I don’t view men as a collective.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:33 PM
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Ehh. That’s why I say people are entitled to their judgement but I don’t think it really means anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:29 PM
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Are you really a bad person if you abandon the kid after finding out it’s not yours? I think so but I also would do it. People are entitled to their judgment but I don’t think being a perfect and mistake free person really matters. I’d own being called a coward, bad person, etc. but at least I’m not raising a kid that’s not mine and stuck with a cheater.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 03:59 PM
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A lot but I think they’d fail miserably. They don’t seem emotionally strong enough. They already cry about “are we dating the same guy?” Facebook groups, they’re not gonna be able to face that type of pressure in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:29 PM
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Just observations, relax.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 04:46 PM
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Ehh. My observations and experience differed. Appreciate the input but I didn’t encounter or interact with any women from the trailer parks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:15 PM
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Yeah I’m just saying I’m culture shocked without actually experiencing said culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:10 PM
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The amount of single moms in the US south is insane. I’m legit culture shocked. I don’t think it’s their fault, I think they’re victims to a sexually repressed religious culture that suppresses sex education and birth control. And with how rampant teen pregnancy is down here, I gotta imagine that this culture has kids not even knowing that pregnancy results from sex or that condoms protect against pregnancy. They’re just acting on pure curiosity, bringing lives into a world that they’re not even…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 02:28 PM
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Agreed. I think you put it perfectly in your replying saying that there’s a thousand lives that we could have lived.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:18 PM
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Ok, thought you were implying you made 300k and couldn’t get pussy without red pill. Everything else, idk. Anecdotal of course but I was a broke student up until the time I started making money. I don’t know why that’s blue pill bullshit but if getting ass without money is easy, surely someone making 300k could get laid without red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:14 PM
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I don’t find settling miserable, I find your train of thought miserable. Specifically the “you haven’t met everyone in the world” point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:45 PM
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300k and you couldn’t get ass without red pill? Doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:44 PM
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pick one This is stupid. One persons argument and points have nothing to do with another’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:42 PM
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Y’all outlooks on life are insanely miserable. I can’t imagine being or thinking that I’ve settled because I haven’t met everyone in the world. There’s 3 billion people here lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:39 PM
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Can’t even keep track. Not afraid to be vulnerable and open up. It’s always been well received unless it hasn’t in which case I don’t really give a fuck. Like I’m sure an ex has judged me, thought I was soft, whatever, but there’s so many more who have made opening up worth it that the negatives don’t really affect me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:31 PM
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Just going off your words.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:38 PM
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Or maybe they just didn’t want to be with their boyfriends anymore? I have been very vocal Lmao wtf does this even mean? Is every woman supposed to factor you and your opinion into their worldview?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:52 AM
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Everything’s always been projection with those people. They do exactly what they accuse everybody else of doing. It’s why they can’t stop accusing others of pedophilia.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:36 PM
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Is this even a question? Of course it can.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:57 PM
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This entire topic centers around mens fear of a woman their romantically interested in, having sex with someone with a bigger dick in her past. They lack confidence but they mask it with bullshit excuses like pair bonding and calling it an indicator for predicting future behavior when choosing their partners. Couple lack of confidence with the common misconception that a big dick automatically equals amazing sex and this is what we get. I was there as a teenager in high school as most were. The …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:20 PM
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Video games and Matt Walsh are ruining men. There’s nothing wrong with gaming at all, I play. But it’s fucking up how these boys perceive reality. What the fuck is a year long campaign to gain honor?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:12 AM
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Porn addiction seems to be getting worse. It’s sad to witness the affects of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:09 AM
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😭 giving into persistence never works out well for women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:21 PM
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Why are people gonna start dying?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:20 PM
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Spot on
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:18 PM
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Lol nah being consistent to others standards aren’t my concern. Rich people get theirs so fuck everyone else happens but if it were me, I wouldn’t believe like that. But that doesn’t mean I have to apply the same qualities and values in every single realm of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:18 PM
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That’s supposed to make me feel bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:56 PM
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Surely you’re able to distinguish social constructs like the dating game and government though right? When you get a job, it has implications on your healthcare, your taxes fund law enforcement, the constitution is the foundation for your rights as an employee. That system exists entirely separate from dating, otherwise there’d probably be a tax on the number of tinder matches a person gets. Now if that was the case, sure, you can relate government and dating and make the case to let nature deci…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:56 PM
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so that people give a chance to others Not everybody’s deserving of a chance. If you know what you want, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with not giving a chance where there’s no initial attraction. Giving chances is a risk, cool if other people give them but personally, I prefer to not waste mine not their time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:33 PM
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Nope. This applies to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:31 PM
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Modern dating doesn’t need to be more inclusive. It works for tons of people, they’re not gonna change to appease the grievances of people who can’t adapt. It’s a game of survival of the fittest.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:03 PM
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Funny thing about red pill is that it relies heavily on having good game but no matter how hard red pillers practice, they’ll never be better than those who naturally have good game. This is why modern dating will always be a game of catch up for them. Any woman that’s miserable and insecure enough to fall for red pill shit is low value. Low value women are red pillers ceiling. Top tier women can easily tell apart the try hards from the naturals. They get pulled by men who naturally bring their …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:55 AM
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Leftist checking in. I love Matt too, his existence is a massive ego boost.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:17 PM
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Yeah, agreed. Sad cause I loved twitter but those days gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:09 PM
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Elon is such a stupid bitch. Imagine ghosting somebody only for them to have access to you again because that dumbass wants to remove the block feature on twitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:54 PM
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not the guys that you want This speaks to the main point of my first comment. I’m so much more of a better relationship prospect than guys who argue that I’m not based on nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:12 PM
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Live your best life. Your first time can be special and intimate in the moment but 10 years from now you won’t even remember it or even still talk to that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:53 PM
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Getting taken off the market early doesn’t necessarily translate to being in that relationship for the rest of your life. There’s way too much room to operate for good looking guys with good personalities to forever be taken off the market at 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:50 PM
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Ehh, I think you’re mistaken. I’m simply just a man who has a better relationship with women than all the good boys despite the notion that I can’t because of how I look an act.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:49 PM
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Ehh. That plane Jane girl next door shit isn’t for everybody. I get that unattractive women are a lot of y’all types but let’s not pretend we all into the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:53 PM
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While I understand that you’re confused by the belief that a woman should choose either or, on this sub, the issue is consistently framed that way. Common sense let’s us know that’s not necessarily the case in reality, for the purposes of participating here, I framed it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:50 PM
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Not every dude is desperate to be in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:47 PM
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Put my post history side by side with most on this sub, without doubt. Well aware that I don’t have the best set of dating morals but you’ll never see me showing my ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:40 PM
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I mean, you obviously don’t but in the context of this sub, I’m framing it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:37 PM
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Based on their behavior across the internet, where the fuck did the idea that unattractive men automatically treat women better come from? We all see how they lash out and talk about women online. It’s a far better risk for women to take it on an attractive man who might be a fuck boy. At least he’d be attractive and not have resentment over a bad dating life. The sweet nice boys who bash and attack women all day online aren’t gonna do a complete 180 and all of sudden become the best boyfriends …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:21 PM
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Might be unclear on my point. Yes you will be misled and rejected. Never said it’s not misleading, however, you should have the tools necessary to act on your advances regardless and mitigate any resulting fallout. For instance, woman shows interest, you act on it, you get rejected, and without any sense of confusion you act accordingly. I thought it was believe what women say? I don’t date nor live by what threads on this sub says. I can’t apply y’all rules and ways of doing things.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:52 PM
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It’s not cloudy and misleading though. That’s why I said people who can’t decipher behavior are dumb. For instance, if someone tells you they’re interested, as a man you should be able to analyze the sincerity of that based on behavior and actions. Instead, a lot of us rather be gullible then say it’s others fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:29 PM
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reject your advances So what? You too scared to act on your advances out of fear of rejection? Despite the rejection, she showed interest whether playing games or not. Personally I’m gonna act on it regardless. Y’all gotta stop being so intimidated by everything women and just live.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:21 PM
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Well maybe you’re confusing what this sub says for what I say. yet that women will express interest in them but in more subtle ways Whether average or attractive, interest will be overt. Thats on you if you believe you gotta look for small clues because that’s what they told you here lmao Thirst over you otherwise they are just being nice Another distinction between successful and struggling men. There’s so much space for nuance on the spectrum of thirst and being nice but to you guys, it has to…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:06 PM
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Lol where? Women aren’t subtle at all about interest which is why I don’t get why y’all struggle so bad with interpreting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:44 PM
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As a man, if you can’t interpret the difference between genuine friendship gestures and romantic interest, you’re dumb. 1,2 and 3 are all nothing more than generalized things women do when they’re your friend. They text you, they ask you to hang out, they send pics no different than they would if you were a woman. Being a successful man takes a bit of basic competence. One who is won’t overthink and over analyze friendship gestures from women. They know what true interest looks and feels like an…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:37 PM
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list of stuff they can do to check and suddenly become successful That’s exactly the case. They expect every single detail to be explained and every question to be answered in an effort to emulate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:08 PM
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Then learn how to comprehend it instead of stewing in ignorance. Validation isn’t a distant reality for tons of men, you’d never see them say something like wanting it sounds like entitlement and sociopathic. So why continue to be blatantly wrong when you gain an understanding?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:37 PM
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For me I think the difference is confidence. Sure they could be the same but only one has the confidence to flaunt it which makes her even more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:31 PM
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Agreed. I’m sorry but it’s seriously just that easy yet people will still find a way to question the simple answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:30 PM
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Again, unless you’re agreeable back, it’s the same as a doormat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 05:55 PM
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Agreed. I don’t listen to advise from most women tbh because their advise is not geared towards my type.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 05:48 PM
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No, that’s being a doormat. Often when people say they want an agreeable partner, that’s not a quality they themselves possess. They want a partner who will be honest and cooperative but they want extend that same privilege to their partner. Someone who gives that but doesn’t receive it in return is a doormat. So unless chad is also agreeable, that’s being a doormat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 05:47 PM
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This an example of what I’m talking about. women have to be agreeable and pleasant to lock down Chad. You speak in absolutes but based on what? Are you a Chad? I’m not claiming to be one but I definitely sleep with whoever I want. I think that agreeableness is one of the most unattractive qualities a woman can have. Nobody wants to be with a doormat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 05:36 PM
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Listening to the advice of men who can’t decipher game is how a lot of women find themselves falling victim to bad dating predicaments. A lot of men apply a halo effect to themselves and other men so their advice usually comes from a place an idealized concept of men, women shouldn’t listen to it. Some examples include telling women to look past red flags for the sake of 2nd chances and not go after attractive men but none of that stuff is really helpful. If women wanna learn how to avoid fuck b…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 05:11 PM
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Ehh, then you would’ve considered that the vote gets split.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 08:10 PM
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Yeah, descent is encouraged on this side. We win, evidenced by almost every election since 2016 so we can afford to split.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 07:12 PM
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I don’t brother, sorry. They exist certainly. But I never see progressive men struggle in my personal life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:31 PM
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Wrong. They embrace masculinity. You wouldn’t know unless you were a man on the left who’s masculinity gets embraced. What’s rewarding? I say being cool, calm and collected is probably the biggest. It’s extremely masculine for a man to not be emotional and hysterical. It’s a trait that shows that he’s capable of thriving under pressure in hard times. Being emotional and hysterical are traits typically associated with conservative men evidenced by their consistent lashing out over the smallest th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:28 PM
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Lol what doesn’t seem right is your blatant misunderstanding of progressive politics. Out of say 10 of my closest male friends who I’m exemplifying in this, not one supported Bernie in the primaries but if you have such little understanding of things, I guess simplifying everything makes sense. That said, out of my closest friends which spreads across different groups and rounds off to about 10 friends give or take, all being progressive, no one has issues dating. The one who struggles most stil…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:20 PM
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I have a friend who recently did the same and she’s literally lost nothing lmao. She talks a lot about this exact thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:07 PM
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I don’t know one who’s been deemed unfuckable. I’m also baffled.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:00 PM
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Sure bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 04:59 PM
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Progressive men have it really easy actually. Pussy basically falls in your lap when you don’t exhibit behaviors and personalities associated with red pill ideology. Yet the boys who have to wait until marriage gets to claim masculinity? No lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 04:51 PM
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I tend to exist in reality, so I haven’t considered any of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 04:39 PM
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And according to this sub the majority of men fall below 1, so.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 04:22 PM
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I think if a man is average having more than one option is doable. If he struggles, his attention should be more focused on attracting a few instead of the many.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 04:21 PM
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Yeah, that’s privilege. Not a woman but I can’t relate either but think its helpful to be aware and acknowledge where privilege exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 04:10 PM
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If they have an abundance of job offers, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 04:05 PM
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But at some point you gotta come to realization that having a roster of options will never be for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 04:02 PM
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Can’t be the case for everybody. Better to focus on a few if you can’t pull many.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 04:01 PM
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That can’t be the reality for every man though. Gotta accept that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 04:00 PM
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A man only has to convince one person that he’s attractive to date. So much of the focus seems to be on abundance when the sole focus should be on attracting just one person. At the very least, a true average man shouldn’t find it that difficult to attract just one person.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:47 PM
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You have a very idealized concept of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:44 PM
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Agreed. If you’re a man with no attractive women over 30 are available to you, then you’re just not in their market. The idea of the wall is to protect feelings that come with the reality that one couldn’t pull attractive women in their 20s and they still wont when those women past 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:22 AM
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but it is the bond created during the relationship that makes him remain long term. This is Disney fairytale shit. We don’t live in a perfect world, men lose attraction to their wives over time all the time no matter how much of a bond’s been created. Even as a man myself, there’s no amount of bond that could make me stay if I loss attraction to someone. Idk where you guys get this stuff but be real with yourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:18 AM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:54 AM
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How does that work?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:54 AM
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If women hit a wall at 30, what happens to the ones who got duped into marriage in their late teens-early 20s when they hit 30? Or is it only supposed to happen to single women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:46 AM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 10:10 PM
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This thread is crazy but my takeaway is that you can’t blame women for sex being inaccessible to a lot of men. If sexlessness is truly that rampant, clearly what’s been identified as the problem, is not the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 09:57 PM
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Not even a question. Yes. Society doesn’t perpetuate the notion of anything. Most of the shit we see discussed like Jonah Hill objectively involves toxicity. Emotions and needs can easily be expressed in a way that doesn’t force other people to change major parts of themselves for the chance to date you. Those aren’t boundaries but controlling behavior. For instance, my biggest boundary is my independence. I’m not a big texter because I like my space and I communicate that. Nobody’s ever called …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 02:03 PM
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Giving someone with that less life experience compared to yours that much power over you is nuts lmao. It’s not always a grind for us. Why do you all make this stuff up?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:08 AM
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🤝
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 11:37 PM
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Nothing is more pathetic than watching an older man get played, be heartbroken, or confused over a younger woman. You got 35 year old men crying over 22 year old girls lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 11:09 PM
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The exact same approach and advice my dad gave to me. Give them agency become their own person in order to figure themselves out as an individual. No sheltering. Unconditional love. Always helpful. No strict rules or standard to qualify what it means to “be a man”. That all helped me become the best man I could ever hope to be. It got me living life on easy mode, if I ever have a kid I hope I could do the same for him half as good as my dad did for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 05:09 PM
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I mean, I don’t think he’s that unattractive but I also don’t think many women would find him attractive or go out of their way to get his attention. So I guess you could say average to below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:51 PM
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Easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:47 PM
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Nothing? I am my ideal self.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:18 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:01 PM
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Seems like very hard qualities to come by
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:55 PM
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I do hear a lot that simps are desirable. I think it only becomes an issue when someone is too much of one, doing things like romanticizing and idealizing the connection etc., at least that’s what I’ve heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:42 PM
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Let this sub tell it, being hot is an automatic disqualifying quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:39 PM
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Q4a: what exactly is a good man? In the context of telling women to pick better men and/or give good guys a chance. I’m aware that I’m not one but I observe the world around me and fail to see and understand what the concept of a good man is actually supposed to be when used in modern dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:26 PM
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I’m my ideal self. The main thing I don’t do is box myself in. Like it doesn’t have to be either or in regards to sleeping with as many women as I can or finding a relationship, I do both. When in a relationship, I’m as faithful and committed as can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 03:10 PM
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Is leering and ogling synonymous with checking someone out? Because I’ve always been under the impression that an appreciative glance, what others might call a stare, equates to checking someone out with leering and ogling being associated with being an obvious creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:50 PM
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I don’t think it’s weird. I catch people staring at me a lot, It’s nothing more than an admiring gaze that lasts a few seconds and then you both go on about your lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:40 PM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:34 PM
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Q4m: Is it disrespectful to check out another man’s girlfriend or wife? Personally, I don’t think so. You can’t not expect people to find your partner attractive and if they do, they’re naturally gonna be curious about her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:24 PM
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No offense but this post really highlights the lack of intelligence that’s all too common among people who genuinely believe stuff like this. There’s no counterargument necessary to refute objectively braindead takes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 02:52 PM
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Big fan of people trusting their gut. Good for you, honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 08:07 PM
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You don’t say?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 08:00 PM
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I don’t know, probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:55 PM
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Why do people worry so much about their boyfriend or girlfriend interacting with the opposite sex? If someone’s gonna cheat, there’s no level of observing, snooping, controlling who they talk to and what exactly they say to stop cheating from happening. It’s best to enjoy the relationship without stressing so much over cheating. If it happens, it’ll eventually be revealed. No one is that good at lying, so unless you’re haplessly naive and unaware to the world around you, you should have anything…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:42 PM
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You don’t. But if you never do it and that’s her thing, eventually she’s gonna become unsatisfied
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:14 PM
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Disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:40 PM
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Men who don’t eat pussy produce sexually unsatisfied women. Sexually unsatisfied women eventually come across the best sex of their lives and joke about men who suck at sex to those partners who sexually satisfy them. It’s an interesting loop to observe and it helps makes sense why women choose to fuck who they fuck and not fuck who they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 02:10 PM
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there are a finite amount of women Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 02:06 PM
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I never understand why I’m supposed to give a fuck about random women preferences. Someone expressing an ideal height in a guy doesn’t really affect me. Like if they wants 6’1+, am I supposed to feel that women are too picky?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 02:26 AM
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I mean unless you’re built like an athlete I still gotta assume that they’re gonna place you in a pool with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:20 PM
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I’m 200+ Well, yeah what else do you expect?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:13 PM
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Appreciate the answer
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:46 PM
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Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:26 PM
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Q4m: What type of treatment do average men deserve? Few dates a week? Easy causal sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 01:54 PM
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Game (rizz, whatever you want to call it) is easy as hell. It’s really nothing more than reading body language and rapidly playing on words. It’s a skill perfected by trial and error, not one learned from red pill influencers and r/seduction. And even when perfected, you’re still gonna get rejected but that’s just how dating goes so it should inherently be expected no matter how good you are at pulling. So work on your own methods and stop being victims to grifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:31 PM
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How to not be a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 10:24 PM
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Doesn’t bother me. If someone crosses the street to avoid me, whatever. That’s their prerogative and has nothing to do with me. There’s women that’ll come over to your apartment/house without ever having met you beforehand, why worry about something so minuscule as one crossing the street?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 10:08 PM
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If you don’t have options in your 20’s, you won’t magically get them in your 30’s. Drastic self-improvement across the board is necessary for that to happen. With the current state of men generally being so pathetic, few will be capable. So yeah it’ll happen but not for most guys, only the ones truly committed to being better.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:39 PM
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I’d be this way even if I didn’t have options.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 06:02 PM
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replace with her a hotter woman Why does it have to be that though? I’m entitled to do whatever I want regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:35 PM
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It’s a blessing to not be a Jonah Hill ass type of man lmao. Y’all are way too uptight about everything that women do. Seems stressful.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:02 PM
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Women aren’t hard to figure out. A lot of men are just too anxious and overthink everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 05:42 AM
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No man, there’s everything wrong with complaining about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 09:16 PM
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Sorry. Guess dating is too hard of a game for men to navigate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 09:05 PM
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Men want to be sexually attractive Duh. I wanted it too. Except I didn’t blame everybody else that I wasn’t and worked on myself extremely early. Most men have the same opportunity when they’re younger. Also, if women only see courtship or passenger princess in you, definitely your fault. Dating app bios have nothing to do with it, women who have “looking for something serious” make exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 09:04 PM
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Same difference
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 08:45 PM
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You can’t asses that for yourself? Theres no sneaky way when you can asses someone’s actions for yourself, you don’t need them to outright say they want exclusivity for you to know that’s the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 08:45 PM
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“I’m not looking for a relationship” and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 08:19 PM
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This tweet. Why are so many mad about being seen as boyfriend material? A woman wouldn’t want “courtship and princess treatment” from you if you didn’t present yourself that way. It’s your fault that women want that from you. And if someone is mistaken, it’s so easy to communicate “I’m not looking for a relationship” and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 07:50 PM
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Q4M: What’s so bad about how women choose who to date and fuck? Saw a comment here say something like “men are wising up to how disgusting and how hypocritical women choose sexual and romantic mates.” Does it really matter? Personally, I believe that people can without explanation do whatever they want when it comes to dating. People expect for dating to be perfectly sensible, logical, ethical and moral but realistically anything a person does outside of what’s expected doesn’t have to be explai…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 05:44 PM
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My parents love that I’m in my late 20s and single. They don’t want me to settle down before I’m ready and see a lot of themselves in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:35 PM
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we all already knew already Yeah man, bad faith questions have a pretty obvious tell. You already knew.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 05:22 PM
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I think it’s gonna continue to be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 05:15 PM
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I mean, yeah. If you think there’s specifics looks to what a manosphere man looks like as opposed to women judging on the fly, whether right or wrong, then idk what to tell you. Spend time people watching in public with them then I guess. But yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:42 PM
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Oh no, your point was obvious lol trust, it wants that clever of a write up. But it definitely highlighted exactly why I asked, so again thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:40 PM
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There’s nothing to answer. You think being right or wrong matters in their judgment of looks lmao. If they think a man looks like one, he’ll be one to them whether he’s one or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:39 PM
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Yeah, this confirms. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:20 PM
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I feel you, I have the same views on women. Through all the gender dysphoria I’ve been lucky enough to surround myself with the best and that’s why’ll you’ll never see me complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:15 PM
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😂 comparatively to who?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:12 PM
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It was never implied that men susceptible to the red pill grift have satisfying dating or sex lives. My comment is clearly contextualized between men who are satisfied and men who aren’t. By conflating the two to be one, “men are having fully satisfying romantic and sex lives, then they hear the RP grifter” you’ve made a way for base assumptive hypothetical, prompting my confusion as to what you’re even talking about. I mean, it was a pretty straightforward question.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:12 PM
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Do you really have to be told that women will unapologetically assume any unpleasant looking man holds ill will towards women no matter what he looks like? Bad question lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:03 PM
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Good point. Lol thank you for answering directly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:42 PM
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Your assumption telling me how I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:41 PM
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Boy they can see that shit from miles away. And it’s not like men who consume manosphere content are shy about sharing that part of themselves socially. It even makes up a lot of their identities honestly. But even if they couldn’t detect, they’d just judge based on how a man looks (which is fine, I’m guilty of doing it to them) whether right or wrong willing to error on the side of being wrong rather than possibly give a man like that a chance. You never heard how women talk about random men?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:38 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:34 PM
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Q4A: Are men too far gone? Because of the manosphere, I don’t see dating and sex ever getting better for disgruntled and struggling men. Now that it’s common knowledge how prominent manosphere beliefs are, it’s not likely that women are ever gonna relent and give those guys a chance. They let far right ideology, Andrew Tate and Kevin Samuels and “alpha males” grift them right out of a normal dating life, all hyped up on movie’s plot device (red pill). Other men will be fine though. There’s too m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:25 PM
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Honestly, I have no real interest in discussing this for real. I didn’t read much of your first post because it was a lot so I’m not even sure what you’re asking. The point is that women like the one in this post are bottom tier. If that’s what men are jealous at other men for having, then be my guest I guess but everyone should have high standards. As to what makes women valuable, that’s something you can figure out yourself. There is no “men’s eyes”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:12 PM
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Look at who’s she’s marrying and making a conscious choice to support. That’s why she’s bottom of the barrel. You don’t want to be with a woman like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 04:28 PM
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at least he has a woman. Want better for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 12:49 PM
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It doesn’t matter how she looks, she’s an awful person. Want better for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 12:48 PM
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I’m a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 12:48 PM
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When you guys make these type of arguments you fail to realize that being with a woman like that is no prize. It’s like y’all are desperate for bottom of the barrel women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 10:04 PM
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Anyone needing this advice is too incompetent to be dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:17 PM
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Because you don’t take yourself too serious and that’s a good thing. I’ve been there before.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:04 PM
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Lol no, just not sure what you’re on about. I make more than you. Have higher degrees than you. Have a better understanding on broader social and economic issues than you. Surely you can understand my confusion on your shoehorning. Aww respond then block :( Don’t be such a pussy Vapelord420
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:03 PM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:53 PM
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Should be able to but still can’t. That’s even worse. that’s black pill. Also, no. It’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:25 PM
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Expect to but can’t. So then it becomes everybody else’s fault that they can’t get ass. That’s what’s really getting more pathetic by the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:02 PM
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your toxic attitude is what helps to cause violence against women. Lmao what are you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 08:12 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 08:06 PM
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For men and women who have similar political views, forming a bond with a mate is simplified. Conservatism has made dating and sex extremely easy for progressive/liberal men. ​ far more single conservative men than conservative single women now exist, as well as far more single liberal women than single liberal men. Single conservative men are perpetually single with few likeminded options, an issue that single liberal men don't appear to face. So even if you are a single liberal man, you have w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 05:44 PM
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Don’t forget stunning.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 08:19 PM
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Worth being tough on crime in this context.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:56 PM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:51 PM
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Happy and committed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:49 PM
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Well I’m not a woman so, no. But I have dated enough to know that it’s not. A girl isn’t gonna just leave you because there’s a stranger that’s more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:31 PM
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No? That’s now how dating works.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:18 PM
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That don’t mean anything. Married people cheat all the time, so you can still be married and uncommitted.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:16 PM
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Can’t judge her happiness but it doesn’t sound like she was all that committed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 06:41 PM
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Where have you witnessed committed women who are happy in their relationships leaving said commitment simply because an attractive man showed interest?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 06:24 PM
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Yeah, that’s what accountability would look like. If you signed up for that lifestyle and aren’t able to maintain it anymore, that’s your fault and whoever relied on that promise should leave you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 06:07 PM
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Lol where does this fantasy that a rich and handsome man can swoon any woman out of commitment come from? No woman that’s happy and committed in her relationship is gonna magically fall for another guy just because he’s attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 05:32 PM
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Naw, none. 0.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 05:10 PM
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I think subjects have a single focus when whoever is making the point frames it that way. If a persons making a point about casual sex, it’s already implied that men who don’t participate aren’t a focus.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 05:07 PM
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Naw, I don’t know anything about law.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 05:01 PM
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Lol PurplishPossum? No I’m not him but I never see legal ignorance from him that’s so common in people who ever went to law school, so.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 04:47 PM
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The focus needs to move away from “most men” when discussing dating. They center every topic around themselves but it’s pointless for the focus to be on a portion of men who basically aren’t participating. For example, if the topic centers around things that men are capable of, it doesn’t make sense to focus on men who aren’t capable. There’s no need to respond to points saying things like “that’s not true for most men.” It invalidates the realities of other men. And with “most” being relative i…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 04:45 PM
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Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 04:21 PM
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Lol, then you don’t really have an idea of how the law works then.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 04:07 PM
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Could there not possibly be an element of fraud on that? I think a case of misleading several women into pregnancy, especially within a short time frame, could fall under the fraud umbrella. Idk, maybe y’all not out here lying to women but I can definitely see myself in a situation of lying by omissions along with some accidents, so I see where the argument could be made.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 04:03 PM
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I’ve seen the inside of the one for my city. There’s 3 million+ people here. 2-5 women can have dated or fucked 1 of the same guy. Factor in that there’s tons of that 1 guy and what you have is tons of different men dating and fucking multiple women who happen to might no each other. So, what you have is not women going for the same top% of men. It’s actually just women going for different men who among who they find attractive. Simply put, women don’t go for the same top%, they go for variety a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 03:46 PM
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Lol ok champ. You got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 11:46 PM
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I don't have an opinion. This is not a gotcha or anything. I mean, if you're trying to catch me up in my bias against the other religion, I can tell you directly that I have a bias against the other religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 07:01 PM
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Point: Red pill men are pretentious about sex because they're insecure. You: "Nothing is more entertaining than watching men tell other men that the "ranking" of men is based on their N count" I don't make it about my own ego definitely relates to the point To a different point maybe but ego, ranking etc. is not what I'm talking about here, so.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 06:58 PM
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If it looks like a duck, it's a duck. I'm not gonna say christians don't hate gay people because of the fact that there's a lot that don't. There's a lot that do hate them under the belief that that hate is inherently a creed of the religion, so I attribute being christian to the hate. Being a christian and not hating gay people doesn't absolve one from being associated with the negatives attached to their religion. Saying this as someone who's family is christian.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 06:39 PM
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Agree 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 06:24 PM
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No, its definitely you. What are you even saying? Your sex life literally has literally no relevance to anything here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 06:18 PM
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I'm sorry but every attempts to disassociate manosphere from the extremely negative sides of itself is so tired. If that just sounds like an insecure guy talking to you, then sure I guess but that post aligns with red pill ideology. I do attribute being christian to hating gay people so it's kinda like the exact opposite to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 06:14 PM
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Well, if that’s your takeaway I won’t tell you any different but you’re so far off base here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 06:06 PM
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wouldn’t say it if I didn’t see it. You can give the benefit of the doubt that it’s just an insecure man, but to me based on the context, it aligns with several manosphere ideals. So niche or not, it’s manosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 05:56 PM
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Manosphere men think they’re the chads or have the potential to be Chad then expose themselves by promoting ideas like cheating on your girlfriend to catch up to her body count. You’re not “top 20%” if you have to play catch up after commitment, you would’ve already been there with nothing to be insecure about.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 05:42 PM
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I think you guys just have a habit of turning to the extremes to get points across. I can disagree on discrimination without having to turn it into to certain cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 04:29 PM
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We’re not talking about that though. We’re talking about dating grievances.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 04:08 PM
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Anything else in this context being constant complaining about the dating plights of average men. Harsh reality is yes, no one really wants to hear about that shit all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 04:07 PM
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Can’t relate.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 04:01 PM
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You don’t have to lie but at the same time I disagree that you’re experiencing discrimination so it’s kind of like it’ll automatically be seen woe is me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 04:01 PM
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Not necessarily. You don’t have to bottle anything up when you recognize that there’s a time and a place. I mean, I have few grievances but the ones that I do, you’ll never see me expressing them publicly because it’s not helpful to scream into the void.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 03:59 PM
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Not gonna lie, you’re right as hell because using discrimination here definitely made me see woe is me immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 03:52 PM
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Sure we are. Just don’t be surprised that it turns off a lot of women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 03:50 PM
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The woe is me attitude gotta be what’s currently turning women off from average men the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 03:32 PM
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Agreed. They create their own problems. And then you factor in that they’re delusional and so detached from reality that they believe they’re gonna find a partner who’s amazing at sex despite having had no experience but yet fucks them on the first date. Red pill basically consists of men who’ve bought into the Disney happily ever after trope.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:33 PM
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Most of my friends that are women have boyfriends. I hang out with them with or without their boyfriends. I wish men would stop this every man is a loser shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:07 PM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 08:23 PM
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Still not most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 08:19 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 08:06 PM
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I don’t avoid dating? I date more than anybody. Not saying it to brag but like, I enjoy an easy and stress free dating life because of my ex. I know that everyone woman isn’t like her. But every woman that’s like her might be a replica of her and learning that they’re what I need to avoid at an early age is what helps make this easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 07:25 PM
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Yup. I’m aware that I’m extremely biased. Mine just happens to typically fall on a bias against ideals that men push. Recognizing that you’re not traditional at an early age and being a teen and young adult that’s into shit like weed and going to strip clubs (when older) will do that to you when you spend so much time with someone who tries to convince you that you’re flawed over things.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 07:05 PM
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Nope, It’s help shape me into the exact type of person I want to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 07:02 PM
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Naw, I allow myself to acknowledge bad emotions. There will always be animosity between us. But you live and you learn, that doesn’t mean I haven’t moved on. You guys have no idea how astonishingly easy a break up is for me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:57 PM
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Change my ways for what? I’m doing perfectly fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:51 PM
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No, it’s absolutely toxic to try to manipulate someone that doesn’t want to be with you anymore into staying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:48 PM
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Will literally freeze hell. There’s for sure toxicity present.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:37 PM
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No it doesn’t. Allow me to clarify. While having a woman cry over you is not necessary to prove that you’re lovable, men who push the idea that you’re inherently unlovable has never known what it’s like for a woman to cry over them. Hope that helps champ.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:36 PM
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Admittedly my beliefs have on dating and gender dynamics are rooted in bitterness projected towards my first girlfriend. Being who I’ve always been and spending so much of my teen and young adult years with a traditional girlfriend really turned me away from anything even slightly adjacent with that side. It’s why I passionately hate things like red pill and fds.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:35 PM
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Isn’t that already implied? We don’t need to center everything around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:22 PM
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Yeah this clearly isn’t a real story lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:10 PM
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No. Men who women will never love want you to be as miserable as them so they try to get you to believe that. If a woman genuinely loves you, she’ll fight tooth and nail to make things work with you. All this other shit is just pushed by men who never had a woman cry over them. They have no idea what it’s actually like.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:06 PM
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It’s not, but conservatives are contributing and I hate conservatism so it’s what I wanted to talk about here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:39 PM
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It’s because they don’t know a world outside of their echo chamber small ass towns bro. They’re dumb enough to believe that any person is walking a perfect line of salvation simply because they say so. Meanwhile people like trump partake in some of the most debaucherous (not a word) shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:33 PM
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Lmao. Such a good point that I’ve never realized.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:30 PM
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So much overlap. Two dumbass groups of people constantly terrorizing society. And if I’m not mistaken, I think they share the same sky god but with different interpretations of who his prophet is. Making their beef even more silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:29 PM
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Conservatives. That’s why I said I hate conservatism.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:26 PM
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And now they want Reddit to ban nsfw subreddits and Clifford the Big Red Dog. I genuinely hate conservatism. All of their issues are framed around a battle for salvation headed by omniscient being who resides in the sky with his magician son as they team up to defend the world from the evil fairy who rules the fiery underworld. And so because of that they feel it’s their duty to dictate our dating sex lives while sexualizing everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:14 PM
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Yup. That would be what accountability looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 04:49 PM
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Hm. I actually see what you mean. I met a Republican girl once and by the time I saw her again a few months later, she had completely changed. I kinda felt weird about it though so that was the end of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 04:37 PM
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So you turned someone conservative?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 04:05 PM
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I’m probably gonna catch a “be civil” for this but to me that person is no different than manosphere men here. I refuse to interact with their disingenuous incapability of basic understanding. They both blatantly ignore topics at hand to purposely misinterpret everything to turn the topic into points they want to make then cry afoul when you don’t engage with their obvious bullshit lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 03:53 PM
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Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 03:11 PM
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So incredibly fucking stupid man lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 03:10 PM
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Absolutely. That would be my kid. Unconditional support barring extreme circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 03:00 PM
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I think you’re right.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 02:55 PM
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True, can’t forget they’re delusional about replacement.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 02:54 PM
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That’s what I don’t get. The voters have to know that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 02:51 PM
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Great take.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 02:50 PM
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😂 huge emphasis on the last part
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 02:38 PM
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I agree on all that. I guess I’m speaking from the pov of their voters. Their bases is pushing for the bans while simultaneously watching porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 02:38 PM
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True. It’s so weird though because so many of them watch porn lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 02:34 PM
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What’s up with conservatives push to ban porn? Not supposed to have sex. Can’t get an abortion. Can’t watch porn. Why are these people so dead set on us living this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 02:28 PM
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Thank you. Your inflated standards cause their loneliness Their loneliness does not outweigh my preferences. Rejecting a great person because they're not perfect is stupid and hurts you I think you're romanticizing the idea of rejecting a great person. By your implication, I'm missing out on something/being hurt. But I'm not, because I'm not missing out on anything by not dating someone that I don't want to be with. It doesn't hurt me to remain single over giving someone a chance. I'm not lookin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 01:58 AM
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I don’t care about that, I want to know why your point is that me choosing to be alone would affect someone else loneliness as if it’s my burden. Yes I know people can have inflated standard. Some people might accuse mine of being inflated, that’s why I’m asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 01:35 AM
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No there is no “what if”, I’m not into her, so please help me understand why I should care? Your point is that if my preference is ridiculous, me and someone else are alone for no good reason but that doesn’t make any sense because her not being my type is good enough reason to be alone. I don’t care if that makes her alone, but according to your point, her being alone is my burden. Absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 01:14 AM
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What? Who cares? If I’m one of those 5 guys and 4 girls are taken and I’m not into the 1 that’s left for me and she’s left alone, that’s not my fault. That person being alone isn’t on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 01:03 AM
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You have a point. I come from the opposite of traditional so I really can’t fathom being that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 09:56 PM
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I mean, you can but you’d be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 09:19 PM
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I live in a city with 3 million+ people. I see several different types of people of all ages literally every single day lmao. It’s so dumb to center points around such black and white arguments. You can’t tell me that I don’t see what I see, simply because you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 07:28 PM
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Wanting more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 07:24 PM
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Yeah, this is what I always assumed it’s like for women to date conservative men. This is why I never feed into the whole “alpha” male, traditional family values schtick that pushes the idea that they all meet that criteria and any man that doesn’t align with that is a beta simp cuck. It’s like getting made fun of for being a great father by Chris Benoit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 09:27 PM
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It’s never gonna happen. I don’t feel like people who are mentally still in high school well into adulthood ever outgrow it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 08:45 PM
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When I saw a married man hide that and lie to my sister about his age, I instantly knew.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 08:45 PM
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Oh it used to exists, it used to be used around 2014 to mean being aware of systemic grievances. Nowadays it’s just a buzzword attached to anything. ESPN will post a story about women’s basketball, people like Clay Travis will call them work for it, and people who’s brain cells can’t decipher simple logic then cry about it. It doesn’t mean anything. Like, they’re calling Fox News woke now lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 05:06 PM
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Calm down Bill Cosby. Music of all kind influences in a variety of ways. Dating is not a shit show for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 10:27 PM
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You don’t personally know any woman who’s fucked 400 men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 08:49 PM
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This is what I don’t get. Great point. A person has be insanely delusional think their beta this beta that beliefs actually matter more than the kid having a father figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 08:40 PM
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Because anything out of the boring ordinary is odd. I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:08 AM
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It’s really not weird, coffee dates are popular among a particular group of people and like you say we have different goals with first dates so it shouldn’t be hard to imagine that there’s also a lot of men that aren’t into them. I personally don’t know anyone who actually goes on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 03:55 AM
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Where is it taking place?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 11:11 PM
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I wouldn’t recommend anything. I can’t offer any advice, especially to people that I don’t know personally, outside of my own observations. I recognize that confidence and high self esteem are a necessity but you’re mistaken if you think that I care about helping people get there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 11:10 PM
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Single forever. Anybody saying otherwise better read r/deadbedrooms. You don’t want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 10:29 PM
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Depends on the person. Personally, I got validated by adults a lot as kid and teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 10:27 PM
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Not really weird. Did it once or twice and realized they’re boring to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 10:27 PM
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Depends on how you define success. If success to you means validation from other people, then yeah you’ll have to succeed at dating to build self esteem. But if success is measured by who you are as an individual, you’ll find success in across numerous areas about yourself. Like if you’re into working out and notice gains, that’s success, confidence will come from that. If you’re into your career and benefit from promotions etc., that’s success, self-esteem will come from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 09:32 PM
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Yep, you're not lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 08:21 PM
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Works out regularly Puts effort into his fashion and grooming Has a steady job Has hobbies and passions outside of work Is dealing with or has dealt with his psychological baggage I agree but also believe that these are all things that should be going on, dating be damned.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 08:19 PM
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Again, why dont you just say that? Your inability to frame context isn't my concern man lol. You ask, I confirm, means I did "just say that". That thing you do where you reply to people on this sub broadly outside of the scope of their topic to either guise your misunderstanding or steer the conversation towards something that you want to talk about is the real waste of time and doesn't work on me no different than when one of the aggrieved young men here do the same. So yeah, you and I don't re…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 08:18 PM
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If you say so then too I guess. People don’t need to strategize for basic human interaction imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:56 PM
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Assume it. This isn’t about about those who are lacking more.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:52 PM
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The only thing that’s gonna help men in modern dating is confidence and high self esteem. Looking for advice and strategies is a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:41 PM
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It’s just harsh to me. 5 people is barely, if any experience at imo so it’s shocking that people quantify it as high.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:55 PM
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5? Jesus y’all are harsh.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:26 PM
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“My body count is too high” then lists 11 people lmao boy what the fuck? Sex with 11 people is a “too high” body count?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:29 PM
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Agree. If nobody wants you at your best, it means that your best isn’t very good.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:59 PM
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Casual dating > Looking for a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:36 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:52 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 01:57 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 01:57 PM
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“Your mom” in 2023.. lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 11:10 PM
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😂 you couldn’t pull any of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:52 PM
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Nope. Got a rule about not fucking my friends. Slipped up for the first time last summer, it complicated and ended about 14 years of friendship. As somebody who learns from my mistakes, I have the discipline to not do it again, especially since any other friendship, new or old, won't resemble the one that ended.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:06 PM
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My point is that women, like FDS subscribers, who aren't like the woman in the comment I linked, are pathetic. This is the answer to your questions. Lol I can't make it any more clearer where I stand on women who are even the slightest bit of adjacent to OP's topic, you can draw your own exceptions. There aren't any other hypotheticals to bring into the equation. ​ The woman you linked literally acknowledged she’d be sad if she got ghosted after sex, so that can’t be what makes her a real woman.…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 09:28 PM
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when very much so real women don’t want to have sex with someone then get dropped A real woman. Your immediate response to discredit anything RP is causing you to ignore very real situations applying to very real people , I’d say most women who have a dating history. It’s a very real fear and possibility to become intimate with someone and have them stop talking to you You're mistaken, I'm not ignoring very real situations, I know they apply to very real people. My point is that women, like FDS …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 08:51 PM
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The pendulum has swung too far for you Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 08:33 PM
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Incompatibilities. Someone being too formal. Them suggesting we do something that isn’t fun to me like a coffee date. No spark on the first date. I’m not attracted to them. They say something offensive. I got a few more but off the top of my head all of those are things that make me not accept a first date or not want a second one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:57 PM
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Y’all gotta realize that there’s no real answer to this stuff. I have women friends and I’m not trying to get with them. There are men with women friends who are desperate to get with them. It can literally go either way, you can’t say whether they all are or aren’t. If you connect with a woman and want an answer, get to know her and find out for yourself and don’t rely on generalizations.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:01 PM
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from what people have said thus far It's your argument though and you haven't said anything. there isn't any negative from the 90 day rule I disagree, it's inherently negative for reasons stated above.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 05:53 PM
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No, I'm just not feeding into someone attaching themselves to my point while simultaneously admitting that they don't fit the main variable. assuming that everyone wants “healthy sexual relationships”. Some people just want to use others and it’s a genuine issue. To dismiss it as “a non-adult” issue isn’t right. No, I'm not assuming that everyone wants a healthy relationship with sex but yes, I am referring to people who do as "real adults" in the context of my comment. I don't care if it "isn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 05:01 PM
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Yes actually, my comment was specifically that real adults don't care about being "pumped and dumped" implying that it's not a concept present in healthy sex relationships. You replied that being pumped and dumped was something that you were worried about, you know your situation doesn't fit here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:45 PM
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While I wasn’t worried about being pumpd and dumped, Then you're a real adult who doesn't care about shit like that...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:38 PM
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Yeah me, the one with a healthy approach to sex is delusional, meanwhile the 90 day no sex rule person is completely normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:34 PM
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Lmao no you’re wild, I’m just sex positive. Waiting 3 months isn’t gonna save you from what you think it will. You’re naive if you don’t think someone will play the game that long just to fuck. It’s easier for women to absolve themselves from the bullshit of FDS and to just enjoy dating free of the things that FDS tells them is bad. Like a woman isn’t a failure for getting “pumped and dumped”, which shouldn’t even be framed that way because it’s not a real thing. Accurate framing would look like…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:47 PM
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Real adults don’t care about shit (being pumped and dumped) like that. You’re fear mongering.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:33 PM
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Because it’s stupid. I’m not even sure if it’s directed at men but I don’t need to wait for sex as proof that a relationship will work. I’m also not willing wait for someone. I don’t believe that sex has to happen immediately but it’s extremely nonsensical to box human nature into superficial timeframes. A person can wait 3 months to have sex and suffer the same relationship failures had they fucked that person on the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:22 PM
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They are to me. Starting off casual like that is the best way to date. It’s an exciting and thrilling way to kick off a connection and you get to get a feel for sexual compatibility early on. Compare that to people who date formally, who go on coffee shop first dates then 3-5 more dates after that, no sex before exclusivity, etc. I’ll take the woman who knows how to have fun every time over one who only dates formally.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:59 PM
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If you struggle to meet new people, what stopped you from going to an Earth Day clean up today?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:55 PM
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2 because that’s what I’m doing. And getting a date with someone isn’t winning anything, it’s just a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:53 PM
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I can’t believe there’s people delusional enough to think that their stance against abortion matters more than the mistakes that I make.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:12 PM
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A lot of people are never gonna mature sexually past a teenage-like stunted state.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:27 AM
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Is this even a real issue? Literally nobody has ever accused me of using them for sex. I’m always upfront about not looking for a relationship. If she complains, then our connection doesn’t get past step 2 and I move on because that’s what accountability looks like. If this is really something that’s affecting you, you can avoid any issue by doing the same, otherwise everything you’re on about is your fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 09:18 PM
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Thank fucking god.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:09 PM
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There is none. Sex is natural. Sex is healthy. You learn yourself, what you like and need outside of the bounds of a relationship. You gain nothing by repressing all of that for the approval of someone who’s just gonna call you a hoe regardless. I don’t believe that high value men are a real thing. But I am tall, good looking, make really good money, great career, and educated as fuck. I wish people would stop speaking for me when they say no established men wants a woman who has sex. I need tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 03:08 PM
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No, I’m proposing that if this stuff is as much of a problem as this sub says, offering relationships that women find worth committing to might help instead of relying on them to lower their standards for them for nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 09:24 PM
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No, just take any 2 people who are either fucking or dating where the man could be considered more attractive than the woman and apply them to post that you see here where people claim that this (women only going for men more attractive than them while ignoring their "looksmatch") is a widespread problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 09:04 PM
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“All else equal, women would prefer men who have more positive traits”? Or are we saying “Women will have uppity standards and wont settle for less, demanding only the best of the best”. ​ To me, that speaks more to the lack in quality of relationships with those men as if the pros of being in a relationship with them don’t outweigh the cons of associating with someone that you’ll never be in a relationship with. That's what I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 08:57 PM
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Are they undervaluing them? Or are the ones being offered to them just not valuable?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 08:53 PM
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No clue what you’re getting at.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 08:48 PM
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Specifically what part of that is confusing enough to need an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 08:47 PM
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I’m not relationship oriented, you’d have to tell me. That’s why I’m asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 08:39 PM
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The only men that might want a relationship with a woman are going to be men around her league. If that were true, we'd never see unattractive women with attractive men. And yet, we do. What do you mean by "benefit of the doubt?". You assume that men in an unattractive woman's league will more likely than not be relationship oriented.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 08:35 PM
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Women would rather be acquainted with men above/out of their league, even if it’s just for sex, than be subject to a relationship with men in their league. To me, that speaks more to the lack in quality of relationships with those men as if the pros of being in a relationship with them don’t outweigh the cons of associating with someone that you’ll never be in a relationship with. So as a man, why not just offer the prospect of relationships that are worth committing to?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 08:30 PM
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you are rejecting any man that might want a relationship with you 4th paragraph doesn't matter. You said this. Even if its a man that "might want a relationship", you're still giving that benefit of doubt based on nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 08:09 PM
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Damn your last paragraph is accurate as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 08:03 PM
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My question is why does the rejected guy always get the benefit of the doubt? Every posts paints these men as relationship oriented based on nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 08:01 PM
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I guarantee you no men is comparing a women's butts and boobs. Well you're wrong, I do. Anyway, your point is contingent that comparison to others is necessary to judge what bad or good sex is. We know that's not true because a woman who's never had sex before is still able to tell when a person can't fuck or when she hasn't had an orgasm. You don't have to have had sex before to know when someone is bad at it. Terrible argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 04:00 PM
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What’s personal here? Genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:15 AM
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Been single by choice for 5 years. Im not looking for a relationship. Over the span of that 5 years I’ve dated casually, have always conveyed that I’m only dating casually and not looking for a relationship and have turned down the prospect of a relationship several times from women that I’ve dated who proposed that we enter one. That’s what being single by choice looks like to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 11:20 PM
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There’s literally only one side currently attacking him for supporting his friend. He’s not under the watch of anybody outside of the people currently attacking him. I’m deep into the left. I’m not watching anybody. I didn’t even know who Mr Beast was until he started paying for peoples’ eye surgeries the other week. This isn’t gonna be somebody that turns on his friend because genuine friends of people who’ve transitioned but knew them before their transition. I’ve experienced it from a friends…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:39 PM
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Oh, you’re mistaken that my comment was about you and others.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:23 PM
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Wouldn’t be who I am today had I listened to that when I was 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:20 PM
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Dumb question. You claim that he's being pecked by both sides but then go on to say The liberals will CALL him transphobic and try to cancel him if he does knee toe to the other side. How is he being pecked by both sides then suddenly one side's pecking is hypothetical and is contingent on something that hasn't happened happening? And being from what I've seen, him defending his friend, this hinges on a big "if".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:07 PM
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Where is there behavior being justified? It’s just a comment and I’m not sure what you’re getting at in yours, so let’s just not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:03 PM
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Between this and Ali Alexander, conservatism and pedophilia go hand in hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:56 PM
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Yeah, decent ass day on arms and shoulders.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:54 PM
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Exclusively being into women who’s had sex with multiple partners is a win because her past lessens the risk that she’s fucked with lames before. Nobody wants to be with a woman who’s given those type of men a chance, it’s unattractive and relays that they have low standards. Those type of men = Men who judge women for having casual sex. We all know there’s a list of behaviors and personalities that naturally come with being that type of guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:44 PM
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Bigger how? Does this really need explanation? You care that if women local to where you live are aware that you date and have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:13 PM
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No, what I'm saying exactly is that it's silly for men to make a big deal over something that I, an actual affected party, don't think is a big deal. Whether they should or shouldn't care is left to the individual but they'll for sure look silly doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:12 PM
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speak for yourself and don’t expect everyone to feel the same way you do. Am I not already speaking for myself? Y'all are the one's replying to me about circumstances revolving around my life. I think it's people responding to me that shouldn't expect everyone to feel the same way as they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:52 PM
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I mean, I’m flattered but I don’t need others empathy when it comes to these groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:35 PM
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Deepfake porn is a bigger problem than girls in your city believing that you have sex with multiple women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:33 PM
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Oh it definitely strokes my ego for sure lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:32 PM
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Big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:57 PM
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Are you sure you know what you’re saying right now? Yeah, red pill turns men into bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:55 PM
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It’s like saying someone is hysterical for critiquing a group because they won’t be associated with the group Lol it's not. It's like saying that someone places themself as apart of a class of victims without having ever experiencing victimhood of being discussed in those groups. Differencing in the context of racism where where white people advocating civil rights are doing so for the equality of others and not to protect their own nonexistent victim status.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:54 PM
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I don't feel the same way about revenge porn. There's a difference in women gossiping about both having dated or or fucked me than having someone expose me sexually. Both cases ironically leads to sympathy pussy though so when it comes to me specifically, someone sharing my dick picks without my consent isn't all that of a concern but in the bigger scheme of things, revenge porn is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:36 PM
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Are white people not allowed to advocate for civil rights since they’re not minorities What stupid logic, I'm sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:29 PM
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Soft. Too sensitive. Defeatist. Pathetic. List goes on, they’re bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:28 PM
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and you are a bad person for Doing it Good thing I'm speaking from the context of someone that's been posted/discussed and not someone who participates then right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:26 PM
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They post everything Yeah, rude guys, abusers, rapist, all that. But if you're none of that, at worst you'll be talked about for dating or having sex with 2 women who might know each other and there's no harm in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:11 PM
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“I’m a women of God, I will not do that” Boy, I don't care if I was married, I'd ghost my wife for saying something like this lmaoo
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:10 PM
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No, y’all are just overdramatic. Literally nothing happens from being discussed in there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:08 PM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:57 PM
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Should come from no one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:56 PM
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Hmm. Fairly low bar that can be met rather easily and on/by the first date. I’m not against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:45 PM
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Facebook groups where women gossip about men in their city who’ve they dated or fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:41 PM
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No, more so that it has affected me and it still doesn’t matter so I can’t understand why people who’ll never be talked about there care about it so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:40 PM
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The hysteria over Are We Dating the Same Guy groups come from men who’ll never be posted in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:25 PM
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Existing doesn't mean they're a problem lol. What advantages are there in a pick me when I'm subjected to women who fall under "everybody can do those things"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:30 PM
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Never wasted my time on a filthy woman in my life, that’s not something that I know about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:24 PM
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Or maybe, I love doing things for my partners but am turned off by women who make it their personalities for the sake of being more appealing to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:16 PM
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This was this weekend Lmao duh it was last weekend. Took the train back into the city from the suburbs Saturday evening, witnessed them coming in from the suburbs. Still had a great night out, didn't experience anything that happened. far left mayor Ah yes, the mayor that diverts COVID relief funds to the police department is far left. Shit like this will keep the people in the burbs from going downtown, This is great. We don't want people from Naperville or other suburbs who's perception of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:13 PM
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They’re unattractive and pathetic. Too dependent on validation from men for doing simple shit like cooking and cleaning. Everybody can do those things, doing them for a man doesn’t make someone special. I don’t want to be with someone like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:06 PM
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Misery loves company and this sub is evident of that in how men consistently tear down other men. It’s not a hard pill to swallow, it’s actually just sad. It’s sad that you want other men to be as pessimistic as you. You’ve never felt loved by a woman so you’re convinced that it’s impossible and now your mission is to convince others that it’s also impossible for them because ultimately, you want to bring them down. Shit is pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:19 PM
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This was this weekend Lmao duh it was last weekend. Took the train back into the city from the suburbs Saturday evening, witnessed them coming in from the suburbs. Still had a great night, didn't experience anything that happened. far left mayor Ah yes, the mayor that diverts COVID relief funds to the police department is far left. Shit like this will keep the people in the burbs from going downtown, This is great. We don't want people from Naperville here. this will destroy the restaurants and …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:07 PM
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No clue. I only got for “sex appeal baddie” types because that’s what I’m into but attraction is diverse and men have multiple taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:18 AM
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Chicago will continue to flourish as one of the best and most popular cities in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:06 AM
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Love it here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:05 AM
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Men who have traditional wives typically try to cheat on them with women who aren’t traditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:04 AM
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Men who want traditional wives typically lust after the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:31 AM
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This is the most pathetic shit ever lmao. Why are you tearing down men? You want us to sulk and believe we’re worthless for getting broken up with? Red pill is actually about promoting that men be bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:29 AM
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Also I didn’t say it’s a sure way but it’s definitely a greater indicator Never claimed you did. It's not an indicator at all. It's the smarter thing to do for security but I don't think it's an indicator that he will stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:03 AM
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I don’t think it’s an indicator that a man will stay at all. What's there to weigh?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:01 AM
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Ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 10:46 PM
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It’s definitely the smarter thing to do but I don’t think it’s an indicator that a man will stay at all. I have a cousin who got promised all of that by a man before they had kids and he still left after their daughter was born. She’s not the only one it happens to either but the fact that it happens alone is enough for me to think it’s not an indicator that a man will stay at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 10:45 PM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 10:34 PM
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Realized that I habitually lie when rejecting someone and I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it. Everybody seemingly needs an explanation to understand and accept rejection and a majority of the time I don’t have one outside of just not interested in them. But not being interested is never good enough to satisfy curiosity, so I always lie and say that I’ve started seeing someone or chose to pursue something with somebody I’m more compatible with, depending on the context. If it’s someone …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 10:03 PM
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How often do we hear women accuse men of misogyny over the most meaningless and innocuous things; like when all they want is to forcefully coerce men to censure themselves, or to stop doing something as harmless as being on the same street as they are - or even looking at them. Never. Nobody's ever called me one for walking on the same side of the street or looking at them. In fact nobody's ever accused me of misogyny at all. Even though I can kind of be one. You're being overdramatic about this…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 08:58 PM
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That’s exactly the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:48 AM
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Ok. But then why are there married bad boys? If most can’t marry them, we’d see those women behave like men who desire this new soft famine craze women but struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:48 AM
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You tell me. The general consensus on this sub seem to be that a bad boy is any man who women are attracted to. It’s a trope based on nothing and many people who fit it, are married.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 11:31 PM
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I literally buy weed from a married couple. Tons of examples, look at your own life. I have relatives who fit into whatever that stereotype is supposed to mean who are married. I’m sure you know people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 11:29 PM
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You’ve never seen husband material used negatively on this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 11:27 PM
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Yeah but if you say that here, men are gonna reply saying that you’re lying and that you don’t really like other qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 10:56 PM
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Of what?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 10:55 PM
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Then why are there married “bad boys”?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 10:52 PM
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Wouldn’t they know one based on the opposite of who their absent father is though? If they grew up without a father, it’s pretty easy to deduce that a real man has the qualities of someone who wouldn’t be in their kid’s life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 10:51 PM
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It’s hilarious that “wife material” is seen as a positive trait while “husband material” is seen as negative. Like if you’re a woman, it’s seen as a good thing that you’re good enough to get married, everyone praises it. But if you’re a man, you’re seen as a 2nd and safe option. Although you’re the guy that women want a future with, people will try to convince you that there’s no admirable qualities in that. And it’s typically men that think this way. Constantly tearing down other men. Insecurit…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 10:45 PM
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Looks matter but your logic about how they matter is awful. Yes there’s a privilege in being attractive as a man but there’s nuances that dictate reactions. In real life, women give me passes for bad behavior. I can say anything about sex and women that they don’t agree with and they’ll laugh it off. But if I exhibit that same behavior traditional, conservative, FDS type women, they’re gonna call me bitter and resentful no matter how good I look because we don’t have the same relationship/bond a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 09:26 PM
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No, traditionalism isn’t attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:58 PM
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I get cheaper weed by fucking the girl who sells to me. There’s males strippers, porn stars, escorts, only fans models, sugar babies. Tons of ways really.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 03:42 AM
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Women are the one’s waiting in that OP’s post.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 12:03 AM
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I agree with all of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 10:07 PM
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Agree on the hard timeline.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 08:10 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 08:06 PM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 08:06 PM
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Does it? He seems to be having a very hard time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:42 PM
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Is making someone wait 6 months for sex unreasonable? I don’t think so, people are allowed to have their boundaries but I also think it’s unreasonable to expect every single person to be ok with it. I don’t believe in waiting so I’ll never do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:09 PM
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As much as I go out and as much liquor that I drink, I've never been accused of doing anything that I didn't do. I think you're scaring yourself over this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:15 PM
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This would ruin dating. It would be unfathomably boring to be reduced to one swipe per day with no other dating app options. There’s no issue that needs solving where an idea like this is necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 03:59 PM
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I’m not sure if they’re necessarily exclusive to eachother but pushovers are typically too nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 03:28 PM
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Yes, being a pushover who won’t stand up for herself is unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 02:02 PM
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No. Mixed gatherings are still going strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 02:01 PM
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Everybody’s aware. It’s just no one’s problem to fix but that individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 12:06 AM
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You’re right. Be the dummy that doesn’t shower because of your disingenuousness then lmao. But for everyone else, we know that I’m speaking in context outside of blatant rejections like for body odor and hygiene. Rejections where people who get ghosted who thinks it’s their fault for something they said. But by all means man if body odor rejections are your experience, don’t let me invalidate that. Remain the way you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:06 AM
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people like you go hard on criticizing men and telling men they are doing something wrong People like me lmao. The point made in my original comment is that rejection isn't always a product of something that we've done wrong... It shouldn't be. This line of thinking is detrimental and why so many men have loser mindsets So yes, believing you're always at fault for rejection is detrimental and plays a part in a lot of mens' defeatist mindsets.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 02:51 AM
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You know that’s not what I’m saying which makes this reply so egregiously unnecessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 02:46 AM
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I’d believe that if I didn’t witness the defeatism that being rejected produced.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:45 PM
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Meant deferring. Not deflecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:40 PM
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You didn't actually. Either way not even sure what you're on about anymore here. Agree to disagree I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:39 PM
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Sure but automatically deferring fault for your rejection to yourself is not an objective assessment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:31 PM
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Which I think is what you actually said word-for-word. Well you're actually thinking wrong then. I said that the opposite of what OP claims is comprehending rejection If a man decides on a date that he doesn't want to get to know her any further, does the woman think to herself "What did I do that was unattractive? Is accepting rejection without issue. Not doing this isn't not comprehending rejection, it's accepting rejection without issue. Nevertheless though, there are tons of women accept rej…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:30 PM
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You’re delusional if you think you have to beat yourself down to comprehend rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:51 PM
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If a man decides on a date that he doesn't want to get to know her any further, does the woman think to herself "What did I do that was unattractive?" Not doing this isn't not comprehending rejection, it's accepting rejection without issue. Everybody should be this way. Able to handle rejection without blaming themselves. When a man gets rejected his immediate reaction is to think "what is wrong with me?" Or "what did I do/say that turned her off?". It shouldn't be. This line of thinking is detr…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:24 PM
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This is kind of a dumb question that’s manipulating tragedies to fit ppd concepts. It has nothing to do with being conditioned to think less of themselves or a macho thing. It’s a panic response in a split moment of chaos.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:12 AM
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Chalk it up to different experiences then I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:01 PM
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lol one for you maybe, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:56 PM
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No one wants a lonely frustrated partner. Misery loves company and they’ll just bring you down too. I’m taking partner with experience. They’re well-rounded, have a sense of themself and know their needs and wants. Makes for an easier time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:14 PM
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This is odd because commitment, monogamy, and faithfulness are values expected in most hetero relationships anyway, yet somehow, they are put under the umbrella of "traditional" which sounds old fashion for some. Lol well yeah, they're put under the traditional umbrella because they're just that, old fashioned. Commitment, monogamy, and faithfulness are all cultural aspects that have defined relationships for a majority of people for generations. That would make them traditional. This isn't a de…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:48 PM
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Because women can be homophobic no different than anybody else. And I also wouldn’t say that straight men don’t have an issue with bi women. A majority of women that I’ve dated have been bisexual. I have friends who are bi. All have shared experiences with me about men either fetishizing them for being bi, being distrustful/accusing them of cheating or generally just unaccepting of their lifestyle. I don’t think it’s fair to say that men don’t seem to have an issue with bi women when their real …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:36 PM
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JUST SAY YOU WANT SOME MONEY AND A HOT GUY. Huh? They already do. Like, a lot. That preference is one of the main things that offends men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:28 PM
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It’s a superiority complex thing. Anybody who they deem unworthy of the girl they want but has her is gonna be a bad boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 07:57 PM
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They already do, they’re called honors/AP classes. At least that what helped spurt my growth. Music class is to important to be replaced, if students want that socialization they should just aim higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 02:42 PM
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Lol. It’s way worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:00 AM
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Oh no, I know everything honestly based on what I observe and live. I don’t come up with solutions for problems I don’t experience however.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:43 PM
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Well yeah, I’m not 5’4. Why would I have solutions for something that I’ve never experienced?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 02:46 PM
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I don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 03:09 AM
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It’s insane to me that no one has ever seen it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:30 PM
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Man they really don’t prepare you for the emotional toll of not being relationship oriented and consistently losing connections when those people need a bit more and go on to pursue something serious. Only downside I’ll ever concede when it comes to casual vs serious dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:25 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:12 PM
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You don’t have to be tall, have hair and a big dick to meet modern beauty standards as a man. Everything that can’t be changed can be compensated enough to meet standards. For instance, bald men who have successfully incorporated fashionable hats into their wardrobes aren’t complaining about this stuff. They took initiative to solve an issue and evolved.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:03 PM
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Nothing is gonna change. Whoever you’re trying to date is going to be able to tell you’re using AI, especially the more people become aware of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 01:18 PM
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I don’t. I feel detached from them completely and don’t have any plans on every conforming to them. It’s made for an extremely easy dating experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 07:14 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:46 PM
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I think it does increase your value, just not in the way that red pill thinks it does. Having multiple partners has helped me learn myself sexually outside of the bounds of a relationship. It’s helped me discover what I like and what I want/need, shaping me up to be a far more suitable partner than other men who are inexperienced and confused about nearly everything dating wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 02:06 PM
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I think it does increase your value, just not in the way that red pill thinks it does. Having multiple partners has helped me learn myself sexually outside of the bounds of a relationship. It’s helped me discover what I like and what I want/need, shaping me up to be a far more suitable partner than other men who are inexperienced and confused about nearly everything dating wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 02:06 PM
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Does a majority of modern dating problems stem from a portion of men refusing to accept their reality? Generally speaking, fat women know they’re fat, short men know they’re short, unattractive people know they’re unattractive, etc. They all accept their dating realities and operate within those people who are attracted to them standards’. This helps them navigate dating smoothly to their potential. But for that portion of men who can’t accept their reality, they struggle dating wise and they’re…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:26 AM
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No. Not at all. It only shows that nuns aren’t rapist to the extent that priest are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:07 PM
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It’s not, it’s only affecting non participants who are constantly bitching about it. People have been practicing polyamory, non-monogamy, open relationships etc. for years without issue. We just happen to now live in a time where dating sucks for a lot of people who’ll look for any excuse to blame them not being in a relationship on. Poly dating has become a new boogeyman to feed that victim complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:33 PM
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Yes it’s ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:04 PM
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Y’all know who I really feel bad for? The people stuck in miserable relationships because they’re afraid of being single. Yeah the dating world and being single has its issues for people that can’t handle them but it’s never bad enough to settle for somebody that you hate being with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 10:02 PM
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Men should stop searching for macro level solutions to dating and instead approach dating individualistically. There’s no solution that’s going to fix any generalized plight for men as collective. Specifically average men, who often tend to be the ones in search of the big fix. Believing that there’s a big fix is how we’ve ended up with a collective network of men who soak up the dating grievances of other men and project them as their own traumas, the manosphere. So essentially what we have is …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 01:00 AM
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I’ve honestly never in my life personally known sex/life or someone being made to wait happen to any man I know. It happens for sure. But it’s one of those things where I think pick better women applies. Anyone who waits has no one to blame but themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:36 PM
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Nowhere online because generalized dating advice isn’t useful. Useful dating advice comes from people that you know personally who are well informed on a situation and circumstance that’s personal to the person who seeks advice. For example, me and another person could be experiencing the same dating issue. Say my issue gets resolved while that other person’s doesn’t. I can write a post anywhere offering advice on what to do when that particular issue arises but when that 2nd person reads and fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:28 PM
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Let’s not pretend that this is the common lifestyle for average women though. Your coworker is capitalizing on a privilege that history and society has created for her, nothing wrong with that. But for other average women there’s nuances and factors at play that don’t allow them to capitalize like your coworker leaving them with just as bad or worse dating experiences as average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:55 AM
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You don’t know what a high value man is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 01:43 AM
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Viewpoints likes this make it so easy for women who don’t care about this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 01:18 AM
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Does it work? Or was your sister being manipulated?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 04:09 AM
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Damn I want to be him
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 04:36 PM
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This is what I’m talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 02:56 AM
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I think this really highlights modern men. You’re either the type to rage “get the fuck out of here” chastising her for her emotions that’s probably related to some past trauma in her life or the type that don’t want to be associated with that shit, hence Waka walking out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 09:37 PM
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“The ex isn’t a Chad” lol I wouldn’t give a fuck if he was. Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 01:14 PM
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I live alone so I do whatever. But if I have company or at my parents house or something, seat down. Seat always down when women are there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:21 PM
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What’s there not to get? As I said, I see a bunch of men who want to be Chad. Can’t in the US. So they try to somewhere else. That’s not defending a woman’s talking point that’s what I see right in front of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:27 PM
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Is it traveling and having consensual sex? Or is it purposely looking to exploit women in 3rd world countries in hopes they accept what women back home won’t? I travel and have sex. That doesn’t make me a passport bro. You’ll never see me looking for a wife abroad on the tangent that women in the west are all fat and masculine so therefore prospects are slim. You know that’s the context I’m speaking of here lol not just simply traveling and fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:25 PM
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I mean, there’s more to life socially than school or work. I’d take my chances finding people to date those environments over a program like this any day. It’s just too calculated.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:52 PM
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Nope. Not organic enough for me personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:41 PM
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Passport bros, just say you’re desperate to be that guy who fucks and has disposable options. That’s what this is all really about. You’re under the belief that you’ll have an easier time achieving that status outside the US. You don’t have to pretend that you’re looking for romance or that there’s no quality options in the US. You want to be Chad. So spare everybody else the bullshit and go try.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:40 PM
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Ahh struggling is the “low quality of offerings” fault. Not the individual. No accountability whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:14 PM
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Excuses. The fundamental reason the passport bro phenomenon is becoming more popular is because those men struggle to date here. It’s not because they’re attracted to women abroad for what they offer in comparison to American women. It’s simply the perception that they’d have an easier time being that guy with disposable options abroad than they would in the US. And then they go and realize that they have to also compete with southeast Asian Chad. It’s really all kind of stupid imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:01 PM
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When you don’t live a life to please strangers societal expectations, it’s not weird at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:46 AM
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I don’t understand what you mean but no. None of what you’re talking about equates to attempted ethnic cleansing. You’re being dramatic in search of victimhood. I’ve spent time myself living at my parents house twice before. I’m also unmarried. Sure people have negative opinions about that but by adulthood one should be emotionally mature enough to not be so negatively impacted by what others think. Seriously, who gives a fuck if a stranger things you’re useless? People are judgmental and there’…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:33 AM
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You’re being extremely dramatic lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:06 AM
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Well you misinterpreted and I’m now telling you that statement wasn’t inclusive of those who things aren’t better for.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 12:23 AM
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Is it? I’m confident that I can pull mine when it’s not rational for me to be attracted to them. Like in the case where they’re not attracted to me back or they’re a bad person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 12:05 AM
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No, my argument is that things are better when women are sexually free and highly selective.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 11:32 PM
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Well I didn’t say things are better for everyone. I said things are better. That’s subjective to whoever is content with their sex life in modern dating. I didn’t mean for it to be inclusive of the other 99 men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 11:27 PM
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Agree that a stable society functions on give and take. Dating however, doesn’t. It’s absolutely fuck you I got mine. Also you’re confusing me for a woman. Im not demanding special privilege by birthright. I was born with the same circumstance just as any other man so I guess you could say I’m scorning from a place of fuck you I got mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 11:21 PM
1

Labor and dating market don’t coincide anymore. Sure it sounds like having ones cake and eating it too but what’s wrong with that? Nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 11:16 PM
10

Well yeah. A woman may find a man undesirable but you may see that same man as a desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 09:18 PM
11

I think they’re already rationally deciding who they’re attracted to. Just because a lot of men get left out don’t mean they’re all mindlessly picking men who are no good for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 09:16 PM
-7

This has nothing to do with that, so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 09:15 PM
65

So free sexually but highly selective? That’s the way it should be rather than have them repressed sexually and less selective. They shouldn’t have to fuck undesirable men for the sake of survival. Things are better this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 08:02 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:39 AM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:39 AM
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Abortion benefits men so I genuinely fail to understand the moral objection it. Its just simply not wrong. Everybody apparently wants to avoid unwanted pregnancies. Financial abortions seem to be a popular topic right now but why go through that stress and drama when you and your partner have the option to terminate beforehand? You don’t have to punish unwanted children by subjecting them to a life of neglect for your mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:38 PM
6

I feel like a good sex life isn’t so calculated. As long as the chemistry is always great, I’m good.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 01:09 AM
0

Agreed but it’s not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:57 PM
8

I mean if one is capable of having casual sex then it’s safe to assume that he’s also capable of having women in rotation. Its really not something that’s all that special or rare. Sure there’s probably a lot of men who don’t have sex but there’s also plenty that do. So m men who fuck multiple women within recent timeframes aren’t really that hard to come by. I know plenty.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:06 PM
0

Just wait until you see the seen where her husband sees his dick lmao. That’s really gonna piss you off. It’s a tv show. Calm down.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 08:34 PM
10

So is the solution for all women to think act and operate the same in an effort to make dating easier? Just find and focus on the ones that fit your mold. Why worry so much about the ones who don’t? They aren’t to blame for dating shortcomings.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 01:25 AM
2

Slowly realized over time that I don’t have to lower my standards to get what I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 12:04 AM
1

True
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 11:27 PM
1

Ehh lol I’ll have to draw the line if I made it as far to marriage with a person. I’d just rather start from scratch in that case.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 10:40 PM
1

Like the person that you’re talking to knows or know of other people that you also talk to?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 10:39 PM
3

Why are you expected to cut off all options when you start talking to someone new? I’m a believer in single until exclusivity is discussed and established. That means still swiping on dating apps, going on dates and having sex with other people until it’s been established and agreed upon that I’m a boyfriend and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 10:30 PM
1

It would change nothing. I’m comfortable and I love dating. Money well spent.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 09:51 PM
1

No, every woman I know has a job. I meant that I make money so it’s not a big deal spending it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 06:47 PM
2

Yes. You can’t satisfy people who care about that shit. Even if you just had sex with only 1 person bl prior, it’s still gonna be a problem for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 06:33 PM
2

Lol that’s fine, I don’t mind being a problem. I make the money and am a pleasure to be around. That translates to me paying for dates and treating one night stands like princesses. Why should I care about creating a problem for everyone else when I get everything I want out of dating? This is supposedly all competition right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 06:30 PM
0

That’s some real made up fairytale shit. Having any amount of sex doesn’t affect a person lack of ability to partake in whatever it is that leads up to a enthusiastic yes. If it were real, non promiscuous men would be able to get an enthusiastic yes better/easier than I can and that’s just certainty not the case. I offer a much better connection during the lead up phase because it’s not a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:41 AM
5

I’m sorry but that’s such bullshit lol. If it were real I wouldn’t be able to form deep emotional connections, yet I am. It’s not a real thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:24 AM
1

the fact that even if it affects one gender more than the other, Yeah but it doesn't affect either though, it's just sex. It's not a bad thing to engage in.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:19 AM
4

I’m not looking for women who don’t have sex and also don’t care if others aren’t able to find someone who doesn’t. They should go to church if that’s what they want. Pair bonding isn’t a real thing so no reason to worry about that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:10 AM
1

Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:55 PM
1

But that doesn't really change my point does it? Purge taught me that red pill men are insanely committed to memes. Whether minority of users or not they're still redpill, what percentage of users they make up isn't relevant but of course comprehension apparently isn't your strong suit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:46 PM
3

Purge taught me that red pill men are insanely committed to memes. I’m seeing the idea that one side won this imaginary of posting pictures. No way this is the same group that struggles getting casual sex and then wonders why?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:53 PM
2

Coping for what? Enjoying sex? I guess lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:25 PM
3

Not really. I feel like there’s an obsession to make it be and that’s why people come up with stuff like pair bonding but it’s really not a that deep. It’s just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:15 PM
2

Idk about that, my parents showed affection. I think I just like sex and experiencing it with new people and it’s nothing deeper than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:11 PM
1

Weird as hell
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:01 AM
1

How can I deflect from my own point? You right though, I do unapologetically love these hoes lol I’m supposed to feel bad about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:27 PM
-4

We’re talking about us right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:38 PM
-3

Not really a problem. Failure is that individuals fault. I wouldn’t say it’s easy but I recognized very young that I wanted to be that by step 3 so I figured shit out. I don’t empathize with those who couldn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:07 PM
1

Only the ones that failed at their attempted fuck boy phase get neither
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:34 PM
4

Lmao this is wildly accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:30 PM
1

Really makes you wonder how they got like that. Thankfully I’ve never met one in real life and just see their shit on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:36 PM
1

Identifying as ADOS do you believe in that while we were indigenous to North America/Never came from Africa narrative I see a lot on Twitter?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:53 PM
3

My boy, you got a whole life to live ahead of you. When you get older you’ll realize that the stuff you’re talking about here will be nonexistent. I turned 28 a few days ago and life isn’t nearly the same from what it was when I was 19-20.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:46 PM
1

Make believe land.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:44 PM
1

I used to think like this too. Then I graduated high school which opened up a whole new world of experiences based on vastly different people are and realized that it couldn’t be further from the truth. You’re responsible for the company you keep, if your social life is still consumed by women who are attracted to mfs in the streets, to me, that says more about you than it does them. What are you doing or not doing that you can’t experience a regular dating life like the rest of us? I have famil…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:43 PM
1

Inexperience is unattractive to me. But so are 21 year olds. I gotta go with neither and remain single in this scenario lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:06 PM
1

Yeah, I can’t spell it out for you more than I already have, your cognitive shortcomings are extremely uninspiring, you’re on about something completely off topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:56 PM
6

Lol this quote kinda makes me feel bad. A lot of men die by it and yet here I am, not providing shit yet loved unconditionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:10 AM
1

Oh brother, that quote still doesn’t imply “all men who worry about n count are racist.” It in fact, drives the point in my last comment home even further. You’re operating on straight feelings here masked by insults. I’m legitimately sad for you but eternally grateful that I’m not you 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:08 AM
3

Genuine advice, excelling above a third grade reading level will be helpful in preventing you from hurting your own feelings over things that aren’t there. “all men who are worried about n-count, are actually just racist” was never expressed in my post. The claim was that men, outside of those who are compatible with women who share their level of experience, that care about body counts are insecure. Evidenced by examples of a particular occurrence where men who ask similar questions to the titl…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:38 AM
19

This is damn near how I swipe on women lmao You can tell when you want to fuck someone in less than a second on first glance.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:10 AM
4

Ah, I see my confusion. Lack of basic comprehension has you mistaken on what a generalization is. Thank you for clearing that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:05 AM
4

What are you even talking about here? Seriously? Lmao if I offended you, I’m deeply sorry but please go be emotional somewhere else man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:48 AM
5

Sucks what religion has done to you guys
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:10 AM
3

Sorry I wasn’t aware that the dude that I wouldn’t expect anything less from speaks for all of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:04 AM
6

No. It’s not an ego boost. It’s actually pretty pathetic to hear. Also, where did you hear that? I personally don’t ever talk about my dick to get laid so how do I support?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 11:58 PM
2

They don’t respect each other or themselves honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 07:54 PM
2

Look, I get that you apparently struggling with comprehension here but this has nothing to do with caring about me. It’s about having enough common decency to not disturb others over things that can be resolved in a calm mature adult manner. Screaming at each other and physically fighting to the point where your neighbors call the police might be what relationships mean to you. But having had more dating experience than you (yes I’d bet that I’m far more experienced than you) and having never fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 07:53 PM
1

Yeah because I totally have to have an understanding of why they’re explosively fighting in ear range of of everyone on our side of the building, otherwise I’m a 15 year old virgin and not an annoyed neighbor. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 07:35 PM
1

Yeah because fighting in public is inherently a part of being in a relationship. Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 07:22 PM
1

That’s actually insane wow. Like fuck other people she has to make this an issue now huh? Fuck that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 07:06 PM
1

Did being aware that others were uncomfortable ever make you guys stop? Just curious because my neighbors don’t seem to care that they’re embarrassing themselves lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 06:36 PM
1

I seriously don’t get it. I’ve been trying to find a word to describe them and explosive fits perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 06:17 PM
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Couples that fight in front of people are fucking weird and it’s annoying to witness. I really don’t understand what’s so hard about relationship conflict resolution that it has to be dramatically displayed in front of unwilling participants? I have some neighbors like this and I’m really starting to hate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 06:03 PM
5

Being a doormat is people pleasing, not a personality trait. Genuine niceness exemplified by things like expressing empathy, being a good listener, sharing compassion. Not being a yes man or decreasing so much of yourself for the sake of others. That’s a weak person. I can’t stand women like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:18 PM
5

Well you answered your own question. In this context, the nice guy is weak. Nobody finds that attractive and rightfully so. You’re allowed to chase and fulfill your desires. Consistently neglecting that for the sake of appearance is why those guys will always finish last imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:08 PM
3

Lol. Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 05:35 AM
2

Sad life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 11:22 PM
2

Lol downvoting is against the rules here, I don’t care about your opinion that much to put forth the effort when I can simply counter argue, so wrong guy. Calm down. That said, still have yet to see conclusive evidence that this is actually a problem so I’ll without doubt believe my own eyes over manufactured hysteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 11:16 PM
2

The first big tell is the lower cased A in her name. Most phones autocorrect capitalization in names, especially on apps where you fill out your first name. 2nd, it’s just clear the scammer or bot is using someone’s picture. No way that woman would lie about he age by just two years with a clear 34 in the background. Scammers aren’t smart and make clear mistakes like this all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 11:11 PM
2

I live by tons of gay bars and have never known women to take kids to drags shows. Drags shows geared towards kids at libraries? Sure. But bars and clubs? That’s delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 11:08 PM
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I’m honestly sick of hearing about drag queens and trans people, not because they exist but because conservatives in America are obsessed with them. Their suppressed desire to either fuck them or be them in an effort to convince the rest of us that their existence is a problem is annoying as hell. No one cares, people are allowed to live how they’d like.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 10:50 PM
3

You seriously can’t tell that this is a fake profile?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 10:32 PM
0

Yeah? I don’t know too many women who think this is how women should behave yet I preach it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 10:22 PM
0

Ehh, my masculinity’s pretty toxic from time to time. One example, I subconsciously do wrong by a lot of women simply because I know that I have something that they want and constantly get passes on behavior which I in turn use to my advantage. That type of behavior might not be exclusive to men but I can recognize it for what it is. If it didn’t exist, I’d be a saint.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 10:02 PM
1

CTE is a motherfucker
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:40 PM
2

Yeah I mean I didn’t want to assume but I see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:29 PM
2

No offense but is Tate mentally disabled? He talks weird like he’s struggling to understand what someone is saying or struggling to express his own words. Genuinely asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:08 PM
1

No, fwb are just two friends who are fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 04:39 PM
1

I was in high school during the peak of the leaked nude era back in like 2011-2013. It was happening to so many girls around my age around social media, shit was lame as hell. I hope they all doing alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 03:51 PM
2

There’s literally no rules to this. You can’t confine fwb to mean that when there’s so many dynamics that exist. Sure there’s exclusive fwb’s. However, I’ve never had an exclusive one. I’ve had some where we do friend things yet I know of others who don’t do friend things. It can present itself multiple ways. So no, being fwb’s isn’t relationship-lite. It’s also such a lie that casual only happens because women want relationships from attractive men. Well-adjusted adults who are keen on communic…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 01:16 AM
1

Thats never been my experience with any women that I know. Most aren’t fucking a man who doesn’t like or aren’t attracted to them unless they’re desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 01:06 AM
5

Why did I feel bad for fds? I guess you just had to be there, idk. It’s kind of self explanatory but they reminded me of men who post “80/20” here nonstop pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 01:03 AM
1

What’s dehumanizing about sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 12:51 AM
1

What’s dehumanizing about sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 12:51 AM
1

Doesn’t have to be? I just felt bad for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 12:49 AM
2

Remember how anti causal sex FDS used to be? They’d complain that it was one sided and that only men benefit which in turn led to less likelihood of relationships or something. But yet everyday reality shows us that tons of women enjoy good fwb connections, sometimes good one night stands and that not every single woman wants to be a girlfriend or wife, whether presently or in the future. Of course casual isn’t for everybody but to try and convince those who enjoy casual to relinquish the freedo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 12:31 AM
1

You go to the wrong gym then I guess. Can’t relate at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:25 PM
5

Who cares? They look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:14 PM
2

Seriously? Those boys are gonna kill themselves, wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:19 PM
2

IVF is pretty expensive huh? I have a friend who’s sister did it but her husband is moderately wealthy. She calls her, her test tube niece lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:59 PM
1

Damn that’s amazing. Type of supportive friend I aspire to genuinely be.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:05 PM
2

Yeah, don’t get caught. Don’t have either of them follow you on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 12:14 AM
1

Oh thank god
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 11:59 PM
0

Should result in a permanent ban form this sub honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 11:44 PM
2

I love dogs. I hate dog owners, so I feel you there. People who leave there dogs unattended to grab coffee piss me off. It’s so negligent. Sometimes I’ll smoke in a park by me at night. Tons of coyotes around, and here comes someone with an unleashed chihuahua. I don’t get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 11:26 PM
3

Well yeah, there’s a ton women Christian and Mormon women who has purity culture instilled in them growing up. A select few having a double digit number of partners doesn’t change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 11:13 PM
7

What’s crazy is that I see so many fat women in the gym, working hard. Yet I’d bet the people obsessed with shitting on them don’t even exercise.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 11:05 PM
1

They don't exist You lack so much understanding and experience when it comes to women. Dying on the hill that sexually frustrated women don't exist is beyond asinine.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 11:01 PM
1

Quit being so soft.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 10:45 PM
3

Dating life self-reflection is some of my favorite shit and I think todays is worth a daily thread story time lol. The reason I’m extremely pro-women here despite being despised by so many of them in real life is because I’m extremely self-aware that I’m no saint. 2 years ago around this time while I was still in law school, I finally met up for drinks with this girl that I had matched with on tinder countless times, things just never went anywhere but on that specific day we were like fuck it I…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 10:17 PM
1

That’s a him problem. I had an entire year dry spell at 21. At 27 have had more one night stands than most people have dates. He’ll be fine. Or he won’t. Still wouldn’t see it as an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:21 PM
3

Hopefully never because I’ll personally never care. Failing at dating is normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:04 PM
1

Yup, that’s how it’s supposed to go. For me it’s strip clubs. A lot of women don’t like men who are into that. My ex gf even danced, there’s literally nothing I can do to change that, if a person have a problem with that, that’s fine, we don’t have to date. People blow this stuff out of proportion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:46 PM
2

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:21 PM
2

Sucks how being so inexperienced has created false perceptions of reality for seemingly so many.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:55 PM
0

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:34 AM
4

Lmao well continue to have an embarrassingly misunderstanding of women, I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:54 AM
2

Gotta protect those feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:52 AM
5

Women love having sex Enough said. Everything else is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:52 AM
2

Men need sex to be sane Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:51 AM
1

To you and that’s fine. But I have a type. Doja fits into that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:50 AM
2

Please sit down and have a discussion with a sexually frustrated woman. My god.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:49 AM
2

Lmao plot twist, we’re the ones with the hivemind 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:49 AM
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Lol you guys don't have a concept of anything. What happens when she easily has access to men who meet her selective criteria? Men get on here crying how there's no good women left because every woman has supposedly slept with 100+ men. There's literally no correlation between being selective and liking sex. Sure they can go without in the event, but that doesn't mean they like it less. You've never met a sexually frustrated woman? Stop equating thirst and desperation out of horniness from a lac…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:26 AM
11

I'm sorry what? I actually don't like Scarlett the way I like Doja. Doja is more in line with my type. Scarlett, while attractive, is not. Please, stop speaking for us man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:20 AM
11

I don't what experience you're talking about but it's not true in the real world. Are you sure? Because it's real world experience that tells us how verifiably untrue you're what you're arguing is. Your entire premise stands on the idea that women don't like sex simply because they're not stupid enough to sleep with just anybody, standards be damned. That doesn't make any sense. Your argument pretty much boils down to men don't have standards, women do therefore women like sex less. I think you'…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:10 AM
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There’s no correlation between being selective and not liking sex. What if a woman is selective but has unlimited access to her type? Are you still gonna imply that she doesn’t like sex even though she has a great sex life with men that she likes? C’mon. They want sex. They just don’t want sex with anybody. Again, experience literally tells us this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:36 AM
1

The biggest sign is assessing how I feel. In my last 2 relationships I asked myself “do I want to be with this person?” “Am I happy when I’m with her?” Both times my gut told me no to both questions. That’s all the signs I need.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:29 AM
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Experience literally tells us that’s the case though. Women like sex. Equally to men. Being extremely selective doesn’t change that fact. Are we supposed to walk on egg shells to appease feelings? I mean this is pretty much admits that the narrative that women don’t like sex gets pushed to appease the feelings of struggling men and yet lesbians have more sex than all of us. We’re not gonna lie to make others feel better, if they’re mature enough to have a need to engage in dating and sex, they’r…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:27 AM
1

I take you guys didn’t make it? I wasn’t close or planning to get married at 18-19 but I was dumb lmao I don’t miss that at all 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:20 AM
1

Yup, that’s a good way to prevent it from happening before you’re ready.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:17 AM
1

Does that have an affect on how you date?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:14 AM
1

Lol yeah those older relatives really know what they’re talking about when it comes to this shit, I swear.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:22 PM
1

True, my parents did at least push not to have kids until then.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:21 PM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:20 PM
1

Interesting. I hear some people have been pushed to make it happen fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:19 PM
2

Same
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:19 PM
1

Q4A: growing up, did anybody instill or make you believe that marriage is important and should happen as young/quickly as possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:07 PM
3

I always ever heard it from them and Kevin Samuels. Not to be morbid or anything lol but yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 03:32 PM
4

Because I want what I want and don’t care about filtering out who or what I don’t want.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 03:24 PM
4

Sure not all the time but I mean, point still stands. What’s there to worry about if you don’t want to approach them nor even have the money to sustain that type of relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 11:16 PM
2

Damn and yet I say it then improve every year.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 10:06 PM
5

Yeah this shit is out of hand. Most if not a majority of men here will never be approached to with the prospect of a sugar relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 10:03 PM
7

Yeah, I used to hook up with one. She was a sugar baby to old men but I never bought her shit except for drinks at the bar. What’s the big deal? Even if I were to date a former one, what’s the issue? That she used to be one?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 10:02 PM
3

Agreed. People who romanticize relationships or are desperate push the idea that it’s not a real thing imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 09:22 PM
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I feel like this is just another thing that’s not a real problem but since so many are dramatic here, we have to pretend that it is. The men that want to date sugar babies, want that. They want to fund their lifestyle in exchange for sugar. The rest of us don’t have to date them. We don’t even have to acknowledge their existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 09:17 PM
1

They should get to know more women then. It really shouldn’t be all that of a shock that women gossip. Especially on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 04:12 PM
2

Worked for my cousin 2L. Saw it and still could not give a shit less to this day. Maybe I just lack empathy over what I find to be easily avoidable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 03:49 PM
4

Men here are genuinely terrified of women and it’s fucking hilarious. There’s no way the nice guys of this sub actually think they’re at risk of being exposed as a fuckboy in those are we sharing the same boyfriend groups. You guys date/talk to one woman at a time. Don’t sleep around. And are nice. Those groups are discussing the guy who’s getting serious with one woman but still hooking up with a few others. Or they’re asking about another guy’s possible patterns of abusive behavior. They aren’…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 03:47 PM
1

Damn, condolences. One of my best friends is a nurse. I still get kinda haunted thinking about the stuff she told me that she’s witnessed, especially during the height of covid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 04:14 AM
3

I hope she goes after the hip hop blog sites like shaderoom and saycheese tv. Shit is a disservice to everybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 12:35 AM
2

Lol man cry to someone else about it. I’ve said all I have to on this. Y’all are dramatic as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 12:33 AM
0

Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 12:33 AM
3

I mean I guess. I personally don’t care that much what they do in their time even if my shit was to circulate. This sub is so dramatic about everything when it comes to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 11:35 PM
0

Well, now I’m going to because a quick Facebook search showed me that my city has them for us. But if it means that much to you, group chats. I don’t fuck behind dumpsters because I haven an apartment. Alleys are an exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 11:25 PM
1

And you nor me is ever gonna be west elm caleb. That sensation that came and went isn't gonna happen to either of us. he got fired, The link you posted made no reference to him getting fired, only mentioned that is was a campaign. Did a quick google, nothing ever came up about him getting fired.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 11:12 PM
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I simply just have no idea what you’re on about with coalfax. That said, I don’t have to imagine if the genders were reversed, I and others already talk about women the same way in my group chats. Trying to “but if it were women!” Isn’t gonna change anything. Already do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 11:09 PM
4

you should see the custody battle sh*t going on in family court these days. I mean, I probably see more of and have a better grasp of family law than most people who didn't go to law school so.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 10:50 PM
0

Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 10:47 PM
2

Yeah, you’re just new to this. They’ve been going far longer than 8 months and are way more prevalent than they were this time last year. But continue to live deathly afraid of a hypothetical that’ll likely never happen to you then I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 10:47 PM
-2

Boy. You boys really overestimate how much you matter. Your face could get posted in there a few times, get called ugly, and everything else and a girl in those groups would literally be walk by you on the street without ever recognizing you. Calm down.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 10:44 PM
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I wonder how quickly you’d adjust yours upon learning that I engage in the same dating world gossip where women are on the receiving end among men. So please tell me, why would I care when talk about them in the same way they do us?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 10:42 PM
2

Yeah, I’m aware. And as I told him, there’s typically a high level burden of proof that’s expected in those groups if you make that claim usually evidenced by pictures of the abuse effects or a rapist apologizing. No way you think all it takes is someone to bring a lie with no evidence for it to mean anything. You think they’re that gullible in there? Give other’s the grace to not be that naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 10:38 PM
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I’m sorry, but neither you nor me matter that much to people who wouldn’t be able to recognize us on the street no matter how many times they seen our face in that group. Find yourself somebody on the inside to see for yourself if it worries you that much. But otherwise, you’re living in fear of a problem that you’ll never likely even encounter.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 10:35 PM
1

Let’s be real, unless it’s a serious accusation like rape or abuse that usually comes along with a string of evidence to meet the burden of proof, like text messages and pictures (which is how it happens), no it can’t. Nobody cares that you dated 2 girls that no eachother.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 10:30 PM
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So the information isn’t even leaving the private group? Even less of a problem then. I mean, unless you actually care about defending your reputation to strangers who don’t know you outside of a 1 picture and a Facebook post, then sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 10:17 PM
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Are you incapable of defending your truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 10:10 PM
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I used to fuck one of the mods who runs the one on Facebook for my city. No it’s not doxing. They’re not exposing your address or any personal information, it’s just women talking shit. Yes, they do call a lot of men ugly, yes they do share dating and hookup stories. They also expose abusers and rapist. If you’re not an abuser nor rapist, then I don’t think you have anything to worry about. She’s shown me screenshots of men freaking the fuck out over being gossiped about on there and it’s just s…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 10:00 PM
1

He’s not being serious. He gets off to the reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 06:15 PM
1

I seen. I try not to kink shame but getting off to others rage bait is strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 06:15 PM
3

PPD rage bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 05:47 PM
3

Can’t imagine any man who hasn’t at least slept with 8-10+ people is gonna survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 05:22 PM
1

I’m black without a preference but have developed a reputation for being heavy into interracial dating (I’m not) and it’s annoying as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 10:10 PM
2

I'd like for there to not be casual sex at all Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 10:03 PM
2

Women, dating and families should be the last thing on anyone who’s dropping should be focusing on. Dating and starting a family early wouldn’t have saved them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 05:56 PM
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Locking down and forming families at the time when women are at their most valuable (fertile, energetic, visually appealing) I'll never understand how you people view the world or women. There's way more to life than forming families at 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 05:39 PM
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Yeah. Manosphere isn’t real male empowerment. It’s designed to tear men down and make us insecure at the most minuscule shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 05:19 PM
3

That’s fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:07 PM
1

Yeah, that hasn’t been my experience, so no. The “whores” are always a better time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:07 PM
1

Bullshit. My experience isn’t exclusive to me. This is generally how it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:05 PM
1

I think I’m pretty shallow. Like someone else said, sex magnifies things sure, but even take that away and I’m still shallow. There’s nothing to rationale. Why do you think we’re so afraid to look at ourselves in the mirror?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 11:46 PM
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I have options. Only date party girls because I party. 10 bodies is like the bare minimum requirement for me because experience matters and I refuse to date someone who doesn’t match mine or at risk of comparing our experience, it always leads to problems in the relationship (speaking from experience). Bad exes are of no concern of mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 10:46 PM
1

Fair and while it sucks, it’s not something that most men are at risk of. Between the two of us, we can only name 2 people whom it’s happened too and in my case, it’s not even confirmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 10:14 PM
1

How many times has it happened to you or someone that you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 09:58 PM
1

Of course. That's why I said It’s just hilariously suspicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 09:58 PM
1

Oh absolutely. He could definitely be mixed and I just can’t tell. That’d certainly get him a blond hair blue eyed baby lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 09:53 PM
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I'm pretty promiscuous. This isn't true. Women are heartbroken when promiscuous men don't give them the commitment they want, and as a result promiscuous men are labelled as being malicious people("he's an asshole", "he treats women like objects and discards us after he's done", "he exploits and uses us for our bodies", etc). I'm always adamant and upfront that I'm not looking for a relationship. You'd be surprised how many women respect and take that honesty with grace. No one says I ever led t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 08:34 PM
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It doesn’t need to be solved because there’s nothing broken. Online dating apps are just a medium to meet new people or for sex. Either participate or don’t but it isn’t this deep. If you’re convinced that those apps can and will connect you to your life partner, then you’ve just been sold on their marketing or are naive. Doesn’t mean that you can’t meet your person on those apps, the likelihood just isn’t high enough to elicit that dating apps are a real issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 08:22 PM
1

I know a guy who just found out his 14 year old was from an affair with a friend of his, his wife had. He's tried to make it work but is most likely going to divorce. Damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 07:51 PM
1

Right, I could see if he were mixed but unless my judgments off, he’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 07:46 PM
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Last week I claimed that paternity fraud happens at such a low rate that nobody here could give anecdotal evidence of it happening to themself or another man that they know. In the spirit of fairness, this week I’m back to say that it happens. Still at extremely low rates enough for everyone to know someone affected so it shouldn’t be something most men live in fear of. But I just saw a ONS’ from some years ago son that she posted on her Instagram. Baby has blond hair and blue eyes. Her boyfrien…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 07:27 PM
2

See, that’s sounds like hell lol. People underestimate the realities of dating what they believe is the only type of woman who deserves things. It’s miserable. Granted I was a teen/young at the time but my first ex was more than enough evidence that traditionalism is not for me. Only got older which solidified that belief.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 07:11 PM
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Even though I think the concept of a HVM is a myth, I do think I qualify and that’s why I’m always confused on what people claim hvm want because they’re always wrong. I have the education, the job, my own space, money, clothes, fit, tall, and whatever else people claim you have to be a good submissive and quiet woman in order to obtain in a boyfriend or husband. Except I don’t want a plain Jane yes-man in a partner and I don’t get why that’s pushed as the standard for viable bachelors. The idea…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:22 PM
1

Nope not this morning. But usually am.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 04:35 PM
1

Shelton couldn’t speak on the mic for shit but god damn was he a great wrestler. Athletic as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 04:28 PM
2

Is 1 body seriously too many?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 04:03 PM
1

Lol. Well I actually don’t struggle at all. This stuff is actually extremely easy to figure out outside of the specific perimeters you confined with your question.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 03:51 PM
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We can’t say whether a flashy wedding is number one priority in a general sense without replacing when with if. Then sure, if a wedding is a priority and if she values the lifestyle over romance, then this isn’t even a question. That’s obvious. But we can’t apply when here in a general sense because that’s something that’s gonna depend on the individual. So generally they’re not mutually exclusive unless we’re talking about this specific woman in your scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 12:24 AM
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A quick google search of “gender based violence against men” would lead you directly to the information you’re looking for if this was a general concern of yours because what you say isn’t happening, is. There’s people on your side making these arguments in an actual effort of change based on real facts and studies. “Targeted killings of men and boys because of their gendered role should be recognised as a form of gender-based violence, similar to sexual violence against women and girls.” That’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 12:15 AM
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Yeah, why not? A flashy marriage and being a romantic aren’t mutually exclusive. A person can want that lifestyle while also having a need to have their romantic needs met. She’s jealous to what’s attractive, the lifestyle. That’s no indicator of whether she’s genuinely romantic or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 11:45 PM
1

They? As in women who aren’t worth the time for not being cognizant of the fact that every human body is and reacts differently on and individual basis, sure. Which that being the case makes it unnecessary to even stress over their ideas of how are body works because we don’t have to date them. Never in my experience have heard a woman blow this out of proportion to a detrimental level.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 09:29 PM
1

Ahh yes, because asking as question is the same as pretending it doesn’t happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 09:20 PM
1

Do I? Being a 1 round king I’ve never known anyone to judge me for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 09:15 PM
1

Have you seriously heard a woman use the term “refractory period”? I haven’t. They don’t care about this shit outside of their own satisfaction which can come by way of a small dick. You guys just push this to make others feel insecure and inadequate to help feed the bigger woe is me complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 09:03 PM
2

Wouldn’t bother me. They’re just things. I threw everything from mine away though lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:36 PM
2

Man. I hugged one of my best friends last Saturday who I haven’t seen for some months who also just came out of a bad breakup. Felt great.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 04:58 PM
3

No definitely not that high lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:05 AM
1

Because personally, it’s invasive and a person would only be asking to judge me. I’ve lived it and no answer other than 0 or 1 less than whatever number that person wants to hear is ever gonna satisfy their curiosities. So I refuse to do it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:54 AM
1

Long story short, she demanded more than the bare minimum in terms of effort after having sex. That’s not something I do. This reply might explain it better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:52 PM
1

Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:48 PM
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Yeah don’t get me wrong, what you describe is how most of my fwb’s go too. This is just one example related to the topic that involves a bad fallout. Other than that, things pretty much go perfectly free of any conflict.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:47 PM
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Yeah We’re so much more than the need for casual sex and the need to be connected to women sexually. Sure it’s nice, but genuine friendship provides more than what sex can. means that if the choice is between friendship or friendship and sex, there's more social value in friendship. Of course men will choose the ladder, but it'd be to their own detriment. women often cannot separate the two. This isn't true.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:22 PM
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No, she wanted effort. Like constant phone calls, check ins, texting, generous availability etc. which is fair, but that’s not who I am. Those things already weren’t the norm in our friendship, like of course we’d text and stuff but not regularly and I’m stubborn and selfish so I’m not gonna do those things or start doing those things simply because we had sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:13 PM
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Of course. But we already know that and not the context here. OP’s post is in the context of a choice between either or.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 09:46 PM
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Man. It’s either/or because that’s the context of your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 09:42 PM
2

Yeah it sucks. It was never specifically communicated but I’d have to guess me being me is what happened. I’m always adamant and honest about not looking for relationships or into dating, which I told her the first night we hooked up when she asked and she seemed fine with. We just had 2 different interpretations and ideas of what that looks like that eventually blew up once it became apparent that I wasn’t the idea of what she thought nor gonna change. I’m used to what I’m used to, same for her…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 09:38 PM
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Maybe if you’re immature, sure. But well-adjusted adult men see value beyond of what only they can receive. Therefore you can’t say that we’ll always choose the friends with benefits over genuine friendship. We’re so much more than the need for casual sex and the need to be connected to women sexually. Sure it’s nice, but genuine friendship provides more than what sex can. I lost a 15 year friendship this past summer because we fucked and things got messy. I’d take the friendship that we had any…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 09:10 PM
1

At least 40+ is my estimation but I don’t count anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:51 PM
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I’d tell the truth, a rough estimate. But we’re not getting married nor dating if they ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 07:40 PM
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You quite literally don’t even exist in her head. You’re just a bubble, not a human to her. She has no incentive to get to know you if you’re just a message box online unless you’re well above her league or famous or rich. She can block and move on. Note that the opposite isn’t the case. Men have higher empathy for women they don’t know than the other way around. The opposite is the case. I'm struggling to understand why a woman would expect to be more than any of those things to me if she's a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 07:38 PM
3

Monday reminder that your girlfriend or wife doesn’t remember, care, nor think about that person that she had sex with before you that you’re stressing so much about. Relax. You’re not competing in a competition that you’ve already won.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 05:25 PM
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You don’t think that women who want causal exist? Also sex where someone expects a relationship isn’t casual sex, so no one can have casual sex with you and expect a relationship, it’s not a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 11:48 PM
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The way people talk about dating in America never makes any sense to me. This post seems like it’s only a problem exclusively to him and has nothing to do with “western dating” outside of the labeling dating stages. But even then, I don’t know anyone who doesn’t label anything until exclusivity is expressed. Nobody goes “we’re in the talking stage.” His whole premise is that American dating is depressing because where he’s from, making out implies exclusivity. Why can’t he just solve the problem…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 07:08 PM
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You're working yourself up due to your own lack of understanding by trying to bridge the word "use" in two different context. I never said "only average men can use women for sex" in my op. What I said was that average men want to use women for: attention, to be chased and to have their Tinder match numbers look equal to the men they believe unattractive women swipe right on You can't equate that to the idea of can't be used for sex by attractive men because I never made the claim that average m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 09:53 PM
1

Yeah, because that’s exactly what that means. Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 08:58 PM
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You only think she’s being used because you think women are only in for relationships and that having sex with someone actually counts towards an imaginary number
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 08:29 PM
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1st date to be honest. That doesn’t mean we have to fuck on the first date, we don’t. But I can’t work with someone who has those hang ups about first date sex. Like I’ll honestly ghost or cancel if I get a “Just so you know, we’re not having sex” text before a date. It kills any future curiosity that would’ve been there had she not said anything and we didn’t have sex. I get that people have to be comfortable before sex and that’s not what I’m talking about. But since I’m used to people being t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:13 PM
1

Me personally? Any plane Jane that doesn’t strike me as overtly attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 06:57 PM
1

Depends on how much that individual is a subscriber to the belief that unattractive women should lower their standards. The man screaming that everyday does not want an average partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 06:29 PM
1

I agree with that, average vs average.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 06:27 PM
1

Well your suspicion is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 06:00 PM
2

Ahh. I see you believe cmv means that views can actually be changed around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:52 PM
1

There is no presented problem present that can’t be solved by the first sentence in my last paragraph.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:42 PM
2

No. Looks matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:36 PM
1

Solution for what?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:36 PM
2

Easier, than struggling men, sure. I mean, that’s obvious, one of those parties is struggling. Either way sounds like a perfect dating life to me except for the characterization that the other guy always has to be a fuckboy lmao. Maybe women just want to have sex with him. We don’t gotta project those traits in every one of these situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:35 PM
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More like a bandaid on a paper cut. They’re not missing out on anything by not dating or fucking average men who’d reject them anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:30 PM
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Cmv: Average men want average-below average women to broaden their standard to include them but those men don’t have real intentions on dating those women. They want the attention, to be chased and to have their Tinder match numbers look equal to the men they believe unattractive women swipe right on. Possibly in an effort to know what it feels like to have options and variety. It’s disingenuous and bad faith to constantly argue that those women should lower their standards and solely focus thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:16 PM
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That man dated her with purpose, bought a house and proposed. Still cheated. That’s why I tell women not to fall for that shit and put become dependent on someone you’re dating. Sure it sounds like a fairytale but what happens when you get fucked over like that OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 03:02 PM
2

Swear to fucking god, in middle school this dude in my class says he has a video to show us on the computer because our class in the lab or whatever. Of course being middle school boys we were curious. We watched it right before lunchtime.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:16 AM
1

Not really. I can’t be convinced by what I know is false evidenced on what I experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:13 AM
0

Me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 11:41 PM
4

I like talking shit here because I see the manosphere for what it is, the most detrimental problem to dating. I see the disservice it does in contributing to so many mens’ dating failures and only on this sub does recognizing general dating common sense translate to being simp beta cuck. That doesn’t really mean anything, it’s just always interesting to see the effects of indulging so much of that content and how it’s subscribers get told to think, how to see things and how the world works inste…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 11:32 PM
1

No, he inherently does lol. Literally by wishing that the girl he’s fucking gets removed you’re inherently wishing harm on the other guy too. You can’t pretend to not care about the other guy your way out of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 10:39 PM
2

Yeah. If she’s playing hard to get, she’s never gonna be his future partner. That doesn’t really happen because disinterests often gets mistaken for “playing hard to get”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 10:36 PM
2

Lmao. He’s not her future partner. Never will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 10:10 PM
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Right, because promoting that women who won’t fuck certain men but fuck others should be removed doesn’t imply jealousy towards the other guy who does fuck. If those women are removed, doesn’t the guy who fucks loses something too? He wants the other guy to lose just as much as he wants the woman who fucks him loses by calling for her removal. Stop going on about rationality when you can’t decipher what’s right in front of you. Also, why would any man who fucks promote “removing” the women who f…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 10:09 PM
2

Yeah, this is why I don’t really give a fuck about struggling men lol. I know someone who got told she’s playing hard to get just last weekend for not dancing with a dude. Who in their right mind gives a fuck about any fairness towards that other guy because he couldn’t get a dance out of someone who fucks me for nothing? There’s just no sense behind the stuff you guys spread.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 10:00 PM
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I desperately need men to stop being so jealous of other men. Maybe she’s just not into the person that shes “playing hard to get” with as much as those other guys she’s fucking. Why not just pursue someone else instead of competing with her other guys who likely doesn’t even know you exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 09:44 PM
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Oh god, stop with the bullshit that we’re supposedly these masters of everything logic. Men are not logical. Read this sub. Read your own post. The root of your point is that the group who reacts to being called nice (because you feel like it’s a lie, even though there’s honesty in it, i.e. “you’re a great guy but you have flaws that I’m incompatible with.) with anger is capable of reacting calmly to personal attacks from women like being called ugly, old and broke. So being called nice invokes …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 05:56 PM
2

What is she supposed to do with that information? Swipe left on men with high matches and right on men with low matches? Those low match guys aren’t going to want a 4/10 either, so now what? Is the point then just to humble them out of swiping right on attractive men? Who cares if they don’t have a chance, it’s online dating, people are going to try to attract connections that they regularly wouldn’t in real life. That’s no detriment to the men who wouldn’t swipe right or want to be matched with…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 05:46 PM
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She’d still swipe right on who’s she’s attracted to and left on who she’s not. I can’t imagine somebody getting pity pussy just for having less matches than someone else lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 04:08 PM
1

27
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 03:25 PM
2

So the chance of encountering an inexperienced woman is pretty low? Love that for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 02:35 AM
1

Lol, no that’s not the reason why. Me being emotional was fine. It was that I was emotional over someone who settled a rape case. Which, fair and understandable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 01:24 AM
2

I forget who I saw confirmation from? It was extremely early but it was either Shams or a non nba affiliated journalist who I recognized as being credible. I think I only didn’t believe it for like 3 seconds, went to twitter, instantly confirmed. Such a fucking terrible day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 01:10 AM
2

Damn, I’m sure he’ll feel awful. I always feel like passing out beforehand is always the biggest letdown.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 12:36 AM
2

😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 12:18 AM
4

Lmao I had a random realization of why an old fwb might of stopped talking to me. We’re at brunch, she comes back from the restroom and sees that I’m emotional, not crying yet but clearly sad and at a loss for words after being fine before she left. Nobody else in the restaurant is reacting to anything yet so it’s kind of just me. She’s asks what’s wrong. Me: “Kobe died.” I don’t think I’ve seen her since that day lol but I understand if that was the case. Took a hilarious L.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:44 PM
1

Ahh ok then. I don’t see commitment that way. I had an ex say something similar before like that the point of dating is for marriage. To me that’s just unnecessary pressure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:51 PM
3

Casual connections are amazing. But they don’t compare to being in love and someone being in love with you back. Genuinely asking, how much casual experience do you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:38 PM
3

I struggle to understand why trad wife tourist believe that those women want them? If she has the choice of marrying someone familiar with her traditions and culture, why would she skip over that man for some man who has no idea about her cultures and traditions? She’s gonna be more compatible with men that she’s familiar with, not someone who couldn’t pull in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:19 PM
1

Chances are I wouldn’t either then.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:15 PM
2

Yes, I don’t think I’d be attracted to someone that no one else wants nor finds attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 09:18 PM
2

Can be. I have genuine connections with most people that I have casual sex with. It’s inherently more genuine than a hooker transaction which on its face, isn’t genuine at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 09:04 PM
2

That’s a transaction. Im talking about genuine connections
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 08:12 PM
1

Ok and now you’re just being emotional. I’m not reading that. Godspeed my boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 06:32 PM
4

Same thoughts, interest and emotions? I feel like my dating life would be the same honestly lol. I’d just probably be lesbian.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 05:56 PM
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My ex spread rumors across campus that I was controlling and fatphobic. I purposely let them go unchecked. No social life ruined. No one even cares anymore. So uh, yes. I’ve experienced it first and had it worse than you. On purpose. You’re being dramatic here. Also notice in your story, you were labeled a creep for being the one doing the flirting. We’re talking about being considered one by misrepresenting someone else’s flirting. So not only dramatic, but off topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 05:39 PM
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You’re so dramatic. I’m not gonna entertain this seriously. That girl at the bar you mistakenly made an pass at is certainly not out to ruin your social and wok life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:54 PM
2

Is it necessary to put a definition on it? Every single human interaction is dynamic. The first girl who twirled her hair and smiled at you may have been flirting with you. The second girl who twirled her hair and smiled at you may not have been flirting with you. If you misread, so what? I feel like I say this a lot here, that’s how dating works. You took the risk and was wrong, oh well. If that blocks you from taking the risk in the future then that’s on you. You shouldn’t feel shamed or punis…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:09 PM
2

I’ve recently discovered that it’s virgins for me. Not for being virgins but the rhetoric and culture that surrounds a woman being a virgin. Which is a bit unfair honestly, it’s not their fault as they’re not usually the ones pushing the narratives. But the way people talk about purity, sex from them being a “gift” that they give you, “tightness” and whatever else disturbs the fuck out of me. I can’t do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 11:03 PM
1

That and just they’re entire existence tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:33 PM
1

No, I do know it. I just don’t have anything to prove over Reddit lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:32 PM
1

Yeah trusting the wrong person. You should be able to know whether your girlfriend should be trusted or not. You make the choice to, this happens, then that’s on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:31 PM
2

Read FDS or look at those tiktoks stay at home moms make.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:18 PM
1

Right, because that’s totally my responsibility on a sub where you have the agency to search and find that yourself if it means that much to you. Lmao. Fuck no. This is ppd, that information is readily accessible to someone who cares that much to seek it out and you’re insane if you think I’m gonna do that for you or care about your “gotcha” form or doing your work for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:10 PM
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Tradcon women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:03 PM
2

No, that’s the assumption you made. I don’t know the percentage of sexless men, but according to this sub, the one that’s pushing institutionalized paternity test, a majority of men are sexless. So the phrase “men being sexless” is on brand with exactly what this sub, again the ones pushing institutionalization, preaches. Context and nuance are everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:52 PM
1

Big brain? It’s fairly simple. Ridiculously, if I’m being honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:40 PM
2

That’s what a competent organization would do. I’m fine with Nathan Peterman finishing out the season. It’s a lost one, he sucks. Might as well look forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:29 PM
1

I hope your Eagles lose to my 3-10 team this week.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:22 PM
10

Men are supposedly sexless but paternity fraud is such an issue that our government needs to mandate government spending to protect those same people who don’t have sex 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:14 PM
2

There’s no such thing as controlling the situation with a sexually unsatisfied woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:10 PM
4

Big cities make for the best dating scene regardless. Would you rather be stuck to the options of a bumfuck small town? Or expand socially in a city with 3 million people? Odds would be in your favor to explore dating in a big city. Doesn’t mean that dating there won’t suck, it will, but it’ll suck less than being reduced to dating in nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:09 PM
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Sure, one time is too many but that’s on the guy that it happened to. Should’ve made better decisions and he has to hold accountability for that. But I’m not convinced this is an actual problem where I should be worried about the risk or believe that women are evil with this only happening 2-3% of the time to the extent that neither of us have an anecdote to share of it happening to someone that we know or ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:53 PM
2

Well that makes me think it’s not as much of an actual problem as much as you want it to be if it hasn’t happened to your or anyone you know. I don’t know anyone it’s happened to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:37 PM
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How many times has this happened to you or someone you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:25 PM
1

I don’t think that’s gonna be enough to cut it big fella.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:23 PM
1

Yeah that’s fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:02 PM
1

Q4m who want options and casual sex: Is being good at sex important to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 04:50 PM
1

I used to be worried that my brother would be the relationship-inclined, settle down to young before he really knows himself and what he wants type. Turns out the boy is a slut. I’m a proud big brother. No red pill. No YouTube seduction tutorials. No Andrew Tate or Kevin Samuels. Just learning from his past relationships, discovering more about himself and what he needs, and applying himself accordingly. He like 5’8 too. I’m gonna give him 5’9 on a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 11:52 PM
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Ahh, ok so you live in make believe land. Ask a question on this sub how many non-rich men are willing to fully financially support their girlfriends. The fact that you also think men who work overtime on average make enough to completely financially support a girlfriend or wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:32 PM
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Man what? Do you have any concept of dating realities at all? Or did I forget there’s an overwhelming number of single and readily available men waiting to fully financially support their girlfriends to save them from minimum wage jobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:16 PM
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Extremely simplistic solutions for people who lives you have no idea about. The real world doesn’t work in terms of “sexual market value”, not everybody has family nor wants to live at the discretion of a man providing for them. Do you know how much power a completely financial supportive boyfriend has? He could decide to stop supporting her mid semester, leaving her with all the studies and none of the money support. Why should they give up the agency to support and be responsible for themselve…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:57 PM
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Ahh so you think all the abused or “deleted” people simply did not vet out. Which explains why you think that’s something that can be done to perfection on the first date. But again, it’s me that’s delusional. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 11:10 PM
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You’re overestimating how much of a factor someone is in another persons’s life up until the point they’ve met. “Being chosen” assumes you’re an option to someone who’s not even aware of your existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 10:21 PM
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If I dated someone like that, I’d assume they’d also eventually get an ick factor when it comes to having sex with themself. It just wouldn’t make sense unless she could explain how having sex with her maintains value. It’s illogical.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 10:17 PM
2

That doesn’t really make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 10:08 PM
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Yeah but that’s not really the same. With sex the idea is that they don’t lose value for doing it with you. That’s the point in my question and that’s not present with height and balding.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 10:05 PM
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How can someone choose other people over you before they meet you or even know you exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 09:50 PM
3

Q4A: What is it about sex that makes someone lose value for having it with someone else but not lose value for having it with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 09:18 PM
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One of us thinks a logical way to date is to lay it all on the line the first date but I’m delusional lmao. Sure. Imagine being so void of nuance that you think asking “tough, awkward questions” every first date is all that it takes to prevent yourself from getting hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 08:48 PM
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Everything you’re trying to avoid is what you naturally find out during the dating process. Getting to know someone, communication, spending time with them. Things that you can observe yourself to dictate your own decision making instead of relying on the answers to come from somewhere else. At worst, all that’s lost is time, but that’s how dating works. It’s not as black and white as dumping everything out on the first date. That’s not natural. You can’t game your way out of being hurt but if y…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 05:46 PM
4

This assumes you know the individual better than they know themselves though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 07:24 PM
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Do people who subscribe to this stuff realize how miserable they are as partners? Imagine consistently being interrogated by your girlfriend or boyfriend about the number of people you’ve had sex with because it all of a sudden matters to them out of nowhere? Being this way is a the reason for a lot of peoples’ dating struggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 06:11 PM
1

The best wings
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 11:51 PM
1

Lmao those first time nerves were crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 11:47 PM
1

Yeah true, club choice matters most to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 11:46 PM
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Today I’m making the case for strip clubs. If you’re open-minded, can understand and respect sex work and like seeing naked women, spend time at strip clubs. They’re great places to hone your conversation skills and help you unlock avenues of sex and dating related confidence. Not saying the dancers will be romantically interested in you though, they won’t, it’s strictly work for them. But simply through conversation and physical touch (private dances) you can develop a lot about yourself. Imagi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 11:13 PM
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Jealousy isn’t an admirable trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 09:05 PM
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Because they always come in bad faith. You have a bunch of people who think they have all the answers except that 1 that can change their dating lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:59 PM
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It happens everyday but a lot of this sub is men trying to figure women out under the impression that this is a game where a code can be cracked to lead to their dating or sex success. So a lot of questions like “what was that man like?” in an effort to mimic his behaviors with the further impression that mimicking what one man did to attract one woman, will work on other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:42 PM
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Neither. Lived experiences tells us otherwise. Most of this stuff just seems like coping mechanisms and not really worth taking seriously. Especially not enough to amount being correct in any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 04:41 PM
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I think respect is subjective to comfortability with that friend but you can never go wrong with helping each other out in the way that you helped him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 09:48 PM
1

How? Seems normal to me and my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 09:44 PM
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Thank you. I find that communicating like a woman has made for a ridiculously smooth experience in comparison to what others deal with. That said, it’s interesting to see different dynamics among friend groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 09:43 PM
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Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 09:39 PM
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Right, so come here to talk about sex instead. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 09:39 PM
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Learned from this post that most men apparently don’t discuss their sex lives with their friends. I always thought it was something that everybody does.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 09:05 PM
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Women cheat emotionally which often escalates to physical, usually at the result of being in a bad relationship with a bad partner. Or they fuck someone from their past. We rarely cheat emotionally in favor of cheating for physical gain and satisfaction. Also usually because of being in a bad relationship but often times we do it just to do it. Goes without saying there’s a lot of grey area and overlap with both sides because at the end of the day it’s cheating but this is how I’ve seen and live…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 08:44 PM
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Blaming feminism on coming up short in any of those factors is dodging accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 06:27 PM
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Questions like this will never solve anything. What I want in a woman is always gonna be different than what the next man wants. Same with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 02:40 AM
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I’m not watching that. Please, get help.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 02:21 AM
2

Yeah, it’s not all rooted in religious or believing conspiracies but it’s all still the same to me whether because of religion or natural health. I’m mostly vegan and exercise daily and anti-vax woman for her natural immune health still wouldn’t work for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 10:50 PM
2

Lol yeah the realities of relationships don’t make balancing 3-4+ seem ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 10:17 PM
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Ahh, so base your dating life on what happens to other people, then project that onto other people. So many guys stressing about women being flakey, distant, or having options has nothing to do with this other guy’s life or current situation. Could genuinely be a situation where she doesn’t know that she has to message first or has been busy the last few days or something but because women have options she just HAS to be talking to someone else right? There’s no way this guy isn’t her “backup” b…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 10:12 PM
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No, 1 relationship is already exhausting I can’t imagine trying to balance and keep multiple content.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 09:57 PM
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There’s no answer that’ll satisfy what you’re looking for. You don’t see value in confidence so there’s nothing that someone who’s attracted to it can say that’ll make you understand why we find confidence attractive because you seemingly don’t think it’s something that we should look for. That said, for me it’s just simply attractive. A confident woman is always gonna be more attractive to me than an unconfident one. That confidence presents itself in several ways that’ll always make them a bet…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 09:43 PM
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Where did she say that? Her first sentence is that her husband is the only person she’s ever had sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 09:25 PM
4

That doesn’t matter. His wife enjoys him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 09:00 PM
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“Realistic” lmao no. This could be as simple as her not knowing she has to message first like the original comment said.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 08:42 PM
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Yeah. Mistakes happen and I assume most of us have either been there or close to it before so I can’t judge them for it. Reasons for telling you would be honesty and communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 08:38 PM
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Anti-vax movements tend to be rooted in religious beliefs or YouTube conspiracies and both are incompatible with how I live, so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 08:03 PM
-1

Such a defeatist mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 07:53 PM
1

I honestly can’t fathom thinking that less hoes is a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 07:50 PM
3

How do we feel about Indonesia criminalizing premarital sex? Personally, I think it’s invasive and lame as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 04:27 PM
1

😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 03:51 PM
2

I am 😮‍💨 But seriously this is kind of crazy. Democrats used to lose so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 04:01 AM
2

Everything trump touches dies. Literally everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 09:14 PM
0

I mean, it’s not a problem I’ve ever dealt with, so yes, pick better women. This isn’t really the gotcha you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 09:13 PM
-1

Pick better women. If you haven’t met one who can apologize, that’s just kind of on you. It’s such a simple gesture that most well-adjusted adults are capable of.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:20 PM
1

They’re not accurate representations of anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 05:43 PM
1

Idk. You have to judge it by an individual basis. Some really unattractive women might get attention but their experience can differ from the next unattractive woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 05:36 PM
1

Because it feeds their narrative. Making tinder profiles using unattractive women and calling it an experiment isn’t gonna really capture the reality of a woman who’s actually been struggling. You can’t compare the experiment experience where a man is pretending to be an unattractive woman on Tinder for a short period of time where he may get tons of messages to the reality of a woman who lives that life everyday. Sure she might have gotten tons of messages first starting out, may still get tons…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 05:15 PM
1

Yeah, there’s tons that do get attention but there’s also a lot of women who struggle on there too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 05:05 PM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 05:01 PM
1

Naw, been a young adult and now late 20s for it. Party culture today is like an evolved product of the 00’s. Still fun and wild but it seems different.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 03:51 PM
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Man, they have no idea what a time it was lol. Granted I was only a kid but 2000s party culture was present everywhere, it’s influence definitely help shaped who I am today.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 10:50 PM
1

Fuck really? I’m so late but yeah that’s the one lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 10:22 PM
1

Oxygen? We typing, not talking. It’s Reddit, it’s how things go here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 10:09 PM
2

Damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 10:08 PM
4

If it means that much to you, no amount of hiding can outdo your vetting. Hold yourself accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 10:07 PM
2

Has anyone here ever watched the show Sex Life on Netflix? I feel like it was written for this sub lmao. It’s about a stay at home mom who’s dissatisfied with married life and misses her party/clubbing days. Her ex (a guy who she writes in her journal about but treated her wrong) from the party days shows up and things become a conflict between her settled life with her financially successful hood guy husband or her bad boy ex. I personally found it really fucking funny but I recommend y’all her…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 10:06 PM
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Well no, because I don’t date anybody without knowing who they are? But then, factor in that I’m into that type of wild girl shit, and it all sounds like a win win for me 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 09:37 PM
1

I mean, how many times do I have to imply that it’s not a high standard? I don’t have a point. I asked a question for clarification and gave my thoughts. You can stay vigilant but if it does indeed happen, again, that’s on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 09:36 PM
7

A fraud for what?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 09:09 PM
1

I’m just saying you have a short leash, that’s all. One mistake or life choice that you don’t agree with disqualifies a person from dating you, no matter how minuscule that thing is, compared to the grand scheme of things. Which again, is fine, that’s your prerogative. I just also think, in the off chance that you’re not as observant and do choose a mother for your children who causes them to get bullied in the way you want to prevent, that’s more your fault than hers for doing GGW. Not recogniz…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 09:08 PM
2

Damn, stickler for perfection then. Nothing wrong with that. I just think you’d be more at fault, especially to your son, if that stuff matters and you didn’t know before hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 08:47 PM
2

Genuinely asking, does that include doing ho shit just one time? Because you gotta imagine those few seconds on a GGW video were a lot of those girls only time doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 08:34 PM
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I’m way too young for anybody that was in girls gone wild, but I don’t see what the big deal is. It was a big part of early-mid 2000s party culture. At least they would have gotten paid(?) for flashing as opposed to probably doing it for free off camera. There’s no reason to obsess over small intimate details like this of other peoples’ lives. Like if you’re 2 years into a relationship or marriage, everything is ruined because you find out that person was a bit wild when they were younger? If it…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 08:20 PM
1

Lmao I saw that the other day. It used to just be “it slipped out and she put it back in.” But adding more shit to it is hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 05:42 PM
1

I gotta agree. Your priorities should be focused on coming out of that situation as best you can instead of expecting a man or woman to stick it out with you while you struggle with 0 promise that you’ll still commit to them once you’re not struggling. Expecting your partner to suffer with you places a huge burden on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 05:36 PM
2

Yeah, i got where they were going but that’s just my point. A woman wouldn’t want to have causal sex with that kind of guy. I’m just saying that if causal sex is something someone wants to do, it’s for the individual, not the guy like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 04:17 PM
1

Yeah? I never said that a person couldn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 04:13 PM
2

I saw that question asking men why women should have casual sex before it got removed. Men can’t answer that because casual sex is about yourself. Not being convinced into it because others think they’re deserving. It’s one of the best ways to find out things about yourself like what you’re into, what you like and need sexually. Knowing those things helps you become aware about yourself and being self-aware translates to positive results in your future dating or sex life where you’re able to com…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 04:02 PM
3

Good sex revolves around only the guy doing all the work? This sounds very vanilla.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 06:25 PM
0

No, again, I’m very aware. As I’ve said, still listen to women. Ask a woman for advice, listen to her. Apply what you learned from her in your interactions with other women, watch/listen how they react, act accordingly to reach whatever level of attraction you want to reach.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 06:13 PM
1

You know that’s not what I’m saying there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 01:00 AM
0

No, I’m disagreeing. I’m aware of the point being made.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 12:58 AM
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Yeah that’s why I acknowledged writing in a general sense. But to apply to what you’re talking about, how you attract women is based solely on you. You got all the tools to show off what you wanna show off to attract women. You can also do this in order to attract women by listening to them. Being rich is obtainable but unlikely for a majority, but things like being charismatic and looking like a pro athlete are things most most men who’s sold on what OP is selling will never be. You’re born you…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 12:56 AM
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🙋🏿‍♂️ successful man checking in. Listen to women. Y’all are too busy trying to mimic the behavior of the guy before instead of listening to what’s most important, her. I can’t stress this enough, you can’t “tick all her boxes” yourselves into pussy by trying to precisely imitate what stood out to her in her past. She’s already fucking been there and done that. Listening in this context is extremely broad and interchangeable with the word watch because it can happen or take place in an infinite …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 11:31 PM
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Lol you have 2 people who know each other, share an interest, and can call on one another for help. Sound like a friendship to me and honestly, a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:55 PM
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Chickens come home to roost.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:47 PM
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In the world of sec 230 my boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:46 PM
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So the free speech circle jerk is mad at Elon (who’s mad at Apple for expressing their free speech) for expressing his free speech in suspending Ye from his platform? Conservatism in America is so fucking weird. I wish everybody would just go to law school and actually study this shit. But not really because after these recent years of promoting nothing but anger, fear and distrust, these people are gonna eat each other alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:08 PM
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This is honestly the best post I’ve read here lol. I think a lot how miserable I’d be at 27 if I settled down with who I was with at 19-20 like she wanted. Same for who I dated at 22-23. I had no idea who I was then, evidenced by so much I’ve learned about myself in between time. If I didn’t know myself, how could my partners have known? I’m neither case have I ever once had a shred of regret for choosing myself either. I’m still in a chapter of growth, learning and maturing. I think there’s ast…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 08:53 PM
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Maybe in high school? But even then I was pretty confident so the idea of the other guy being more attractive than me wouldn’t of really crossed my mind. I feel like it’s just something you kind of get over.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:09 PM
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Could be planning something for him and looping you in?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 11:30 PM
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There’s an obese woman that goes to my gym and today I noticed she’s been looking more slim. Clearly losing weight and getting fit. That’s some amazing self-improvement in a world that likes to pretend that fat people refuse to put their health first, I’m happy for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 09:15 PM
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I think there’s some truth to 1 because I see that in myself. I think 2 is completely true. No woman should ever do that stick by his side while he struggles shit. God, I typed this and realized I’m agreeing with fds points lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 08:45 PM
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Yeah, but people should really stop making that association. You realize how nonsensical it is right? You’re basing your judgement of her being lesbian based on a falsehood. I know race content isn’t allowed, but it’s dumb how many times I’ve heard from white women that fucking a black man makes them “damaged goods” or “ruined” in other peoples’ eyes. It’s shit like this that promotes that line of thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 08:26 PM
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What does fucking black men have to do with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 06:26 PM
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Lmao sure. He’s setting those standards for his effort with 0 intention on following through with them once he get what he wants or realizes he’s never getting what he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 04:49 PM
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No you’re right. r/therightcantmeme
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 04:28 PM
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I mean, I find that women are right about me more often than not lol. So yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 04:03 PM
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I think it’s because we have a false sense of camaraderie that convinces a lot of men that we’re on the same team or something. You see a lot of it on this sub. Men will defend other men like it’s their job. So I feel like it boils down to those dads seeing it as a men vs women thing like everything else with dating. Their daughters dating lives are just another product of the dating gender wars. And then, when they realize their daughter is gonna date regardless of their lack involvement, they …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 03:47 PM
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Huh? Being upfront and honest about sex is something (some) men do everyday. You can’t discount others’ experiences as not living on earth when it’s something that we know happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 01:34 AM
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Yeah, I’m not hearing that. I think even with those factors possibly at play, this shit rather easy 🤷🏿‍♂️ If you misread, take accountability for that being your fault like and adult instead of placing blame on somebody being difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 01:32 AM
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I think women are actually insanely easy to understand. All it takes is listening to what they want, need, and watching their behavior. Some hypotheticals I can think of are: A guy gets told by a woman that she likes him but her actions show otherwise. She puts in 0 effort which proves that, yet guy is still convinced that she likes him just because she said so. Leaving him to believe women are hard to figure out when it’s obvious that she isn’t into him based on her actions, he’s just too aloof…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 12:34 AM
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I think they’re just into men who know what they’re doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 11:05 PM
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Oh yeah, that’s for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 10:22 PM
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That would imply that red pill info is objectively correct about everything and as we know, that’s just not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 10:16 PM
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Been there plenty of times. They’re just protective, possibly a bit judgmental about sex/hookup culture and don’t know you. Doesn’t matter when she wants to fuck you though, because she will no matter what her friend says. And if she does but is convinced by her friend, then it’s just her loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 10:13 PM
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Both are easily discernible with a simple eye test. You don’t need numbers for what you can see right in front of you. For instance, 140lbs is gonna look different on two different women dictated by their height. The 5’11 140lbs woman isn’t gonna be fat while a 5’1 140lbs woman might be, so it’s pointless to put strict numbers on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 07:46 PM
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I remember that post. Personally, I find the numbers pointless. You can’t math your way into pussy, just have a good profile and swipe right on her. Breaking it down like this only frustrates men into thinking they have no chance. Like, you’re either apart of that 37 or you’re not. Why stress over whether you have a .5% chance of being that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 06:47 PM
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What’s underhanded? They’re just videos with no real meaning outside of someone expressing their views in respond to roe.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 04:54 PM
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It’s the most efficient route to go if you don’t want kids but nobody is forcing you. Women posting videos on the internet encouraging it has 0 effect on your personal life and decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 04:37 PM
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I don’t even have a bio and still get hit with that stupid shit. I don’t think it could be any more clear that I’m not on dating apps looking for a relationship and yet they still ask what I’m looking for and go off into the done playing games rant when I say that it’s not a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 03:51 PM
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Nope. I just know unintelligence when I see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 07:43 AM
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I did. If those are resources, then the bar is pathetically low. You can’t rely on caselaw without actually knowing the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 07:41 AM
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God. I’m only gonna focus on the first one, because from that alone link alone, you’re just throwing caselaw with no grasp of how anything works. Why did the man in that first link had to pay child support? Well first let’s get some background and facts. In the matter of Shondel J. v. Mark D., 7 N.Y. 3D 330, 853 NE 2d 610, 820 NYS 2d 199, 206 NYSlop op.05238 the New York State Court of Appeals held in a child support proceeding a man who had mistakenly represented himself as the child’s father c…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 07:36 AM
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No you don’t. Especially legally, stop the bullshit. You just can’t magically assume rights to a kid by way of social situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 06:26 AM
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This is not how the law works. At least in the US. A state can’t force you to pay child support for a child that’s not yours because, and this might be a shocker, the child isn’t yours. Like someone else said, for you to pay child support in this scenario, you’d likely have to formally adopt your girlfriends child for it to even be considered by a court. So either post proof of these cases that you seen to give us more context or stop making up egregious theories to defend your reasons for not w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 02:43 AM
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I don’t think that’s just this sub, I think that’s how people are in general. Dating is inherently risky. No matter what, there’s a chance that things might not swing in your favor but that’s how risks work. The best you can do is try to find someone who makes that risk worth it and that’s what it seems like everyone is so afraid of. Afraid that the person they bought food for on the 1st date won’t want a 2nd date or afraid that the person who they wanted to have sex with won’t respect them for …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 02:32 AM
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I always see the notion that women are emotional and illogical only to come to this sub and see men being emotional and illogical.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:11 PM
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You think it’s impossible for that other person to be petty back? If the girl this OP is texting wanted to, she could easily find the new girl and let her know. Same way as the dude who ghosted her could do the same to you, I mean it’s not hard. Even that aside, how would you feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:53 PM
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Let me ask you this then, how would you feel if you just started dating someone and they were sending those pics to prove her worth to someone who ghosted her? Would you still want to date her?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:50 PM
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It makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:45 PM
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Yeah, no clue where the women don’t have casual sex things come from. There’s plenty that don’t of course, but that don’t mean the rest follow suit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:40 PM
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Well if it makes that guy feel better, then I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:36 PM
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She don’t care about that other girl man. By even dating someone that she already ghosted, at most she thinks that girl has awful taste, not that the guy is worth it just simply because somebody else gave him a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:34 PM
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Taking back your power? My boy, you’re getting laughed at by her and her friends in their group chat 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:32 PM
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Looking like a fucking loser is what’s loss lmao. I mean unless that’s not something you care about. Has someone you ghosted ever tried to get their win back with you this way? It’s nothing more than just another text of theirs you won’t respond to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:28 PM
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Ehh, I think she might just put her phone down and get on with her life. You can say she’d care to some extent if she sent your new girl screenshots of the pics you send to make her jealous or something but if that’s not even happening all you’re doing is obsessing over someone who ghosted you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:24 PM
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Nope, I’m prideful too. Just not about people I ghost. Them girls don’t care as much as y’all want them too man lmao. Maybe if it were a guy they didn’t ghost, I could see it but we’re talking about women who didn’t even respect that OP enough to exit his life gracefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:23 PM
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I find that hard to believe. I ghost, and if a woman did that I’d be confused for a quick sec then just never respond. One shouldn’t overestimate their value to someone who forgot about their existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:07 PM
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You think that the other girl cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:00 PM
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Ahh ok I thought you meant some were saying it’s not a real sport or something, been seeing a few of those tweets on twitter. You’re right either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:31 PM
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Speak for yourself lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:22 PM
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What’s the context of “it’s soccer”? Because you can’t tell me this shit isn’t more exciting than the NFL and football is what I played all the way through college.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:21 PM
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They do but groupthink often leads to disaster imo, even if it’s just between two people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 06:03 PM
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Exactly. Nobody wants to marry a fucking yes man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 05:54 PM
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I got a real deal hate for weak women so it’s a strong one or bust lol. Being opinionated and hardworking are qualities I like about myself and definitely would rather have in a partner as opposed to somebody who can’t match that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 04:15 PM
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😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 03:33 PM
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That’s fine. Still doesn’t mean that they see you like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 03:06 PM
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That’s not true, they’re just comfortable around you. Doesn’t automatically mean they want to fuck you either but I’d assume it’s just an experience you haven’t had yet because this has happened to plenty of guys who end up fucking or dating that same woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 02:56 PM
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Look at this man scaring the hoes. Don’t be like him 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 02:53 PM
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Her, but no idea. Whatever comes to mind when I have to do the deed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 06:56 AM
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Yeah based on their post history, I’m going with this being a troll post.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 05:32 AM
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I rather just leave without that person having known what I did. It’s easier for both parties and I’m also well aware that I’m not a pinnacle for dating morality, so whether right or wrong at the end of the day that person I cheated on gets to be free from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 04:59 AM
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Real growth is being able to be happy for you exes like that. I didn’t fight for a different ex who wanted the settled and married lifestyle, but its genuinely good to see that she eventually got that so I feel you on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 02:57 AM
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Yeah but no shame in being young and in love. It makes you dumb and we’ve all been there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 09:00 PM
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Happy it worked out for you and him. Also gave me a bit of perspective, that same thing with your dad’s affair happened to my ex when were teens. That could possibly explain a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 08:31 PM
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Were you waiting for him to break things off first? Because that was me until things eventually boiled completely over to where it had to end, but man that relief felt so great.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 08:27 PM
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For anybody here who were in relationships in your late teens-early 20’s, did you try your hardest to make them work? Or did you eventually give up because you were young with your whole life ahead do you and wanted to experience new things with new people? I ask because I know a few on this sub who preach the importance of finding someone and settling down as early as possible. I’ve known friends when were that age who fought for their relationships or had a partner doing it. The girl I dated i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 08:06 PM
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Lmao huh??? This is all contingent upon every single woman being bi. They’re not. That alone makes this post nonsensical.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 06:30 PM
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Nothing more than 2 dummies on a dating app that don’t know how to use them. Twisting it into manipulation is making this more than what it is. All she did was ask someone who she likes for a hug because she felt down. Weird, because of the context and these 2 haven’t met yet, but not manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 05:34 PM
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They say that to really mean give the guy that you usually wouldn’t a chance because there’s always the belief that guy you wouldn’t give a chance is your perfect match, even though he’ll probably be just as shitty as someone who treated you wrong before. The real answer isn’t to pick better men, it’s to unapologetically know what you want and are looking for and to never settle for less than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 03:14 PM
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A lot of women find height attractive. That’s literally it. Yes, a lot of women like the idea of having a 6ft tall partner. Often times they meet someone who they make an exception for because the connection with that person is worth more than 1 standard that they have on their likely list of standards. Meaning, guys under 6ft have normal and fine dating lives. Making it anything deeper than that is nonsense. Dating is a simple game.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 02:35 AM
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I don’t see why we should care? It’s not my life. I’ve seen plenty of couples like this too, at most I’m happy for the guy, he has a partner, she’s attractive, good for him. Nothing more than that. Their personal lives don’t matter. And also of course women can sleep around and end up married or in relationships. That’s how dating works, there’s no punishment of being forever alone for having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 01:14 AM
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Naw, he doesn’t look like one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 10:17 PM
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I can see that. That’s such a wild trait to carry over into adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 09:38 PM
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I have a neighbor who does that thing where he hysterically cries and screams in pain to his ex girlfriend. It’s pretty pathetic and honestly disturbing but I’m most confused about what people like him hope to accomplish when they do that? Because I’m sure tons of men and women can relate to what whoever he’s crying over is experiencing. Is the goal to get her back? Show her how hurt he is? This man legit wails in agony screaming shit over the phone to her like “you don’t know how much you’re hu…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 09:23 PM
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Yeah, they want that 5 to feel bad about fucking attractive people. Reasons range from envy to genuine stupidity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 09:14 PM
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I wrote that drunk, getting ready for a Saturday night. It’s not serious nor that deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 05:32 PM
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True, I didn’t mean that you’re responsible for your partner’s general happiness, you’re just responsible for things to maintain the good vibes of the relationship. So not doing things like making your partner feel insecure or doing things ti make them feel comfortable in specific situations etc. I agree with you on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 06:01 AM
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Yeah, contrary to the replies I get on this sub, I’ve also been called misogynistic. Like in reality women actually hate me lmao 😭 Yet here, I’d be classified as blue pill. I think. The men have more so of a say when it comes to red vs blue because on both sides it’s possible to be called misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 05:56 AM
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Drake once said “I am in the Matrix, and I just took the blue pill” a few lines after he said “Two girls and they get along like I’m Lou Will,” But what I’m hearing is that a lot of men who this sub call blue pill comfortably live the lives that red pill men aspire for. Whether they call you Chad or betabux, the bottom line is that any man that’s not red pill generally has an easy and also good time and relationship with women whether it’s by way of looks or making them happy, often times both. …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 05:28 AM
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Is it? Because I feel like each answer will be exclusive to the individual. I can’t speak for anyone else but I’d personally take that burden if the woman was worth it because that’s how I think dating works. By being a game of risk and I’m not as scared of taking those risks as much as everyone else seems to be. But no one says I have to do that so I don’t currently but will when I want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 03:24 AM
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Coke, weed, lsd and shrooms women all do each of those so it should really be those women in one group vs meth and heroin users. That said, the drug girlies been ruining my life my entire 20s 😭. Not the meth and heroin ones though, that’s a bit too fast for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 03:15 AM
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No one says that we have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:21 AM
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Nobody needs to flirt with their wife throughout the day and bring home flowers just to fuck. That’s a sign of two people who are sexually incompatible and don’t belong together. The best rationale for why the fuck buddy has what might be perceived as an easier time is because in a relationship there are factors at play that don’t exist in causal situations that affect the general well-being of the relationship. Her fuck buddy isn’t responsible for her happiness and well-being the same way that …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 01:58 AM
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I don’t think it has to be either or. Both one night stands/causal sex and committed relationship sex has their perks that are specific to what that person is looking for. But also random variety reads like an excuse for men who don’t know how to articulate that they just want to fuck a different variety of women without sounding like a bad guy or a fuck boy. A new strange woman who can’t fuck is never gonna be preferable than someone who knows what you like and need sexually. But that doesn’t m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 01:13 AM
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And yet neither am I endorsing it and making the same contribution as you. 2 women wouldn’t be having this back and forth over this topic. So, hope that’s all the citation you needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 09:21 PM
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So? That doesn’t change that your own post is a contribution to what is said is body count culture in my original comment, which a majority of the same post on this sub is written by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 09:10 PM
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This sub. Also literally your own post.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 07:09 PM
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Ok if that’s the case, then being that we are the main purveyors of body count culture, let’s make our dicks valuable by leading the charge to end slut shaming and never obsessing over this shit again. Easy fix. Because if a person wasn’t looked at as less than for fucking a man, which happens to nearly almost every woman even if she’s just fucked 1, keeping track of the number of people a person has had sexual with wouldn’t be a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 06:51 PM
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Well your theory doesn’t take into account how abusive relationships actually work so the reason you think they stay is wrong. The truth is there’s almost an infinite amount of reasons why people stay in abusive relationships. Each case is exclusive to the individual so there’s no generalized answer why women stay with abusers. None of us know.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 09:59 PM
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There’s no problem to fix outside of your own individual problem. Lmao knowing what women like and what they’re attracted to isn’t gonna identify a problem on a relevant scale to fix anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 02:08 AM
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That doesn’t answer what I’m asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 10:31 PM
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Genuinely asking, what are you so afraid of? If romance is something you want to give, you’re interested in someone, so you take the risk and romance her but you also don’t want to because it might backfire? That’s how dating works.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 10:16 PM
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Then maybe this doesn’t apply to people in the suburbs and that’s ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 03:09 PM
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You guys rely on other people to fix everything for you too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 03:08 PM
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People really underestimate the bar you can quickly walk to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 11:10 PM
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I feel like you just refuse to believe them. Them liking a certain man for being nice, respectful, and treating her well isn’t gonna automatically translate into your own individual success. It’s possible that you are nice or respectful in a different way from the other guy that she liked for the same reasons. Expecting to get fucked off generalized advice is never gonna help.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 10:50 PM
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I’m confused about what we’re supposed to do with that information? Say they were good at it, then what? You’re not gonna fuck by emulating personas of what she’s told you she’s been sexually attracted to before.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 10:44 PM
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Cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 10:38 PM
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You wouldn’t actually be choking her if done properly. And it’s for the sensation for me at least. When women choke me it’s not rape fantasy, it just feels nice. Not trying to say whether you should or shouldn’t be comfortable with it, shit I even used to be uncomfortable doing it but yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 09:51 PM
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Even in the context of sex? I don’t believe that. In my head, strangulation requires intent. A person would have to knowingly cut off my airways with intent to cause serious bodily harm for me to see it as an indicator that their violent. Hell, somebody choked me wrong just the other week. Am I to believe she might kill me? Of course not because we’re not talking about actual strangulation here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 09:48 PM
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Oh shit is that what it is? A blood choke? Learned something new.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 09:30 PM
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Understandable. It’s just that when people are talking about choking in this context, we don’t mean actual strangulation. There’s no strangulation when it’s done properly, that other person is always supposed to be able to breath, it’s just pressure to the sides of their neck / under the chin. So proper choking isn’t really an indicator of future dv.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 09:29 PM
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Smart. My first time I went in for the strangle. Ex told me no and showed me how lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 09:22 PM
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Fair. No squeezing on the sides at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 09:21 PM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 09:20 PM
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Q4A: Do you know how to properly choke? Lmao Always a lot of discourse around choking during sex. A lot of people seemingly have a misconception about it and think it involves actual strangling. A lot of people seemingly just don’t know how. So I have to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 09:11 PM
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It was me when I was younger but by 25 I couldn’t do that anymore. You’re right it’s nothing more than being young and dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:32 AM
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What’s wrong with birth rates here?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:30 AM
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Lol no because at worst I don’t believe their demands are unreasonable. It’s as basic as every individual having different needs which they build a set of standards of. They’re entitled to them, you don’t have to meet them, and tbh when you find compatibility those standards are not hard to meet at all. This dating shit is not that hard. Anybody broadly saying that women have insanely unreasonable demands just makes me believe that they have no idea what they’re doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:29 AM
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So if I’m getting this right, the men they yearn for will never commit, but the men that also find them unattractive will commit? Why? Not saying you’re saying women should settle, but you’re basically implying that men that find them less attractive will commit. I don’t believe that. Even if you take out the idea of women having inflated egos, I still don’t think those men wouldn’t commit. Attraction matters. Any dude that has the idea that his partner is gonna feel like he’s settling because o…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:23 AM
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What demands are unreasonable? No one’s forcing you to compete with those demands. Sure, a lot of women may have high salary etc. needs, but a lot of women don’t. You don’t have to go above and beyond when you don’t want to, I don’t do it. And yeah I also get that it’s many men. It’s still normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:04 AM
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You’re assuming every average-below average woman isn’t finding someone? Didn’t the world population just exceed 8 billion too? We’re fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:58 PM
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I’m pretty self aware so admittedly shallow. I have to agree. I have 0 qualms about the dating world and I can’t help but feel like it’s because I don’t put myself in situations that I don’t want to be in, simply for the sake of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 10:16 PM
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To spend my life with a partner that I love. Nothing less, nothing more. I don’t care if it aligns with traditions’ morales, values, rules etc. because it’s a way that works for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:30 PM
2

You sure? Because I’ve come close to doing it in my past relationships and it’s simply because I wanted to have sex with that other person. I was sexually attracted to them and they were available. Anecdotal of course, but I feel like blaming it on emotional reasons and imaginary pissing contest with other men is a cop out. We don’t have to make up excuses for why we do the things when we do when we can just be real with ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 09:43 PM
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Yeah, fun and worth it in the sense that I’m doing what I want, free of judgment or pressure to conform to a life that isn’t for me. I don’t think anyone’s missing out unless casual sex is something they know they want. A lot of people think they want that life but then find out it isn’t for them which is fine, but they’re not missing out on anything because it isn’t for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:44 PM
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Then have fun with her what the hell. You’re confusing yourself for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 10:48 PM
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Thoughts? Those are just her kinks, Jesus. A lot of women are into shit like that. Doesn’t have to be a pseudo-deep PPD meaning behind it. Stop overthinking and enjoy her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 10:17 PM
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I saw that too, it’s ridiculous what people will defend for the sake of giving someone a chance. She has kids and they’re saying giving him a chance because it was so long ago? Stupid as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:38 PM
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I saw that. She’s just desperate and dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:28 PM
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That +1 has been the root of so many pair bonding threads that were all written and posted within the same 6 hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:04 PM
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More like one person with his values screaming past others to adopt those chaste values.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:01 PM
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Of course, because everything has to be us vs them right? I’ve never seen multiple threads in the same day on this sub by women arguing narcissistic assholes are good at sex while husband material men are sitcom characters. In fact, that’s not even a narrative I see in real life but only here in the same rehashed body count debates.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:51 PM
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Whether about virgin or just a woman having sex like a regular person, we’ve all heard it a million times.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:47 PM
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It really shouldn’t be hard to come to terms with the fact that the woman you like has had sex before. You guys are just obsessed with the precious image you’ve created in your heads of these women and that facade constantly gets torn down because how unlikely it is for a majority of men to find a woman who’s abstained from sex with everyone else but somehow becomes a personal slut for you. We get it. That doesn’t warrant having the same conversations about body count consistently, all saying th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:36 PM
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I don’t trust men who take this gender war stuff serious. They bring down the mood at every junction making everything “us vs them” and they project their grievances as the norm. They make for awful friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 07:34 PM
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😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:38 PM
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Yeah but I thought he’d at least be around to double down on it or it something.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 03:51 PM
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What happened to that dude who kept commenting “me and the boys voting to end democracy” on the daily thread last week?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 03:26 PM
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So remain content with mediocracy because people in the past experienced worse? Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 03:25 PM
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🤝
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:09 PM
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Well then maybe don’t assume? Because It wasn’t obvious and I honestly have no idea what you’re on about.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 06:24 PM
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Then why does guy b just not find someone that’s attracted to him the same way as she was attracted to guy a if it’s that important to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 06:20 PM
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Does that sound like an example of a normal and healthy relationship to you? Of course it happens but do you genuinely believe that’s a relationship that sounds like a relationship that’s good for either party? Because to me it reads like one desperate man and one woman that’s settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 06:19 PM
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The point is that dating isn’t black and white. That there’s room for an almost infinite amount of nuance simply because of how different every single individual as individuals with different wants and needs and because of that, experiencing dating someone differently than the next man doesn’t make you any less of a man than him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 06:16 PM
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The entirety of your value hinges on whether one woman finds you attractive compared to someone else? Couldn’t be me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 06:10 PM
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I mean, then it couldn’t be anymore obvious that she’s not attracted to you. You’re also implying that the guy who has to wait will eventually have sex with her. That’s unlikely. You two go on the same date, she fucks the 1st and never the 2nd guy and you think there’s a possibility that she was also attracted to the 2nd guy? C’mon. This stuff isn’t hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 06:05 PM
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3rd paragraph.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 05:59 PM
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She likes him. She’s attracted to him. She’s not attracted to the other guy the same way. Might give him a chance because the dating world works that way. Again doesn’t make him any less, just has a different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 05:59 PM
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Paragraph 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 05:45 PM
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The universal treatment stuff makes no sense. I don’t know how so many people can be so void of nuance when it comes to dating. Say you meet a woman on a dating app, go on some dates and have sex after a few weeks or month of talking. How can you expect to have the same treatment as a guy she dated that she initially met in person at a party/club or something where there’s multiple factors in play that induce passion, impulsivity and don’t require building rapport to be comfortable as an online …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 05:27 PM
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That’s the real problem that they don’t want to acknowledge. I’ve admittedly seen the parallels in my own dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:02 PM
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Ask the individual. You’re expecting a concise answer from a stranger on why another stranger operates. You’re never gonna get anywhere without asking that person. None of us know because we’re not them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:55 PM
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Instant swipe left. You’re overthinking. It’s just a stated preference, just not one I’m compatible with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:52 PM
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I prefer tall women. No strict requirements but 5’8+ women definitely catch my eye more than short women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:22 AM
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It’s not about wanting to sleep with more men. It’s about freedom to have sex without judgment. Having sex with more men would just be a result of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 04:56 AM
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