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Lmao that level of self unawares is crazy to me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 06:09 PM
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We used to watch fear factor as a family. Only way I’d assume mine would know who he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 06:07 PM
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I think they are just able to decipher what they see in front of them lol. It’s not like Joe is a hard guy to figure out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 06:06 PM
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their knowledge of his politics I mean yeah lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 02:26 AM
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Lol right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 02:25 AM
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Women don’t like shit that they think is lame, c’mon.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 02:19 AM
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Is the study that a majority of women are turned off by Joe Rogan really that shocking? Seems like it’d be common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 01:29 AM
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Exception might’ve been the wrong word, judging and stereotyping based on conservative identity is a progressive principle.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:40 PM
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As a progressive, true those are things I preach. However, I’m pretty hateful and exceptions are necessary so I extend that grace situationally. Like I don’t preach don’t judge or stereotype and let love live for particular groups and situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 07:48 PM
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Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 06:12 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:59 PM
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South Dakota’s governor cheating on her husband is why I don’t give a fuck about anything conservatives say about dating, sex, abortion, etc. They judge everybody yet don’t even abide by their own “morals” and do way worse shit like cheating on their spouses.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:45 PM
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Makes sense. I laugh at unfunny attractive women a lot lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:48 PM
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Exception I guess, which makes sense. I can see it going both ways. But getting one to go “lmaooo” usually goes a long way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:47 PM
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It means they know you’re right. Think downvoting is against sun rules
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:06 PM
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Probably
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:56 PM
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Doesn’t work for everybody
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:56 PM
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Outside of looks, making women laugh is probably the easiest way to get laid. Only problem is that women don’t find a majority of men funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:35 PM
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I needed one for difference experience with different people. Simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:21 PM
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Do other men worry about their body count? Honest question. I don’t but I also don’t think it matters for women. But others say it affects people’s ability to pair bond, etc. If that’s all real, shouldn’t men try to maintain moderate numbers in order to have a better chance at successful marriages and minimize their risk of cheating? If so, what numbers are you all trying to maintain?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:38 PM
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Yeah, you’re less responsible because you get to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:11 PM
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Well no, am a man, can’t get pregnant. Never had an STD. But that’s why risk are just that. Condoms mitigate both of those. Decision making plays a part too but if you’re playing safe and smart, there’s nothing gross about taking risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:02 PM
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Yeah, duh because the same applies. If both snort a line, the responsible user of course is gonna be more likely to test for fentanyl than the person who never uses. If both me and you have sex, albeit I do casually and I get tested more, you’re more at risk of contacting and spreading with STD’s. That makes me more responsible, despite the casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:42 PM
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Not bragging, but if anything I’d think that actually makes me more responsible than you. Having raw sex requires regular testing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:59 PM
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Those are just risk. Not something I think makes sex with someone gross. Those same repercussions could exists with someone you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:46 PM
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I pretend to know astrology damn near every day lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:18 PM
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People should be more responsible I feel like people just assume irresponsibility though. Like how would you know if you don’t even participate? Everyone knows STD’s are a risk. It’s why people stay on top of their sexual health, get tested regularly, and get treatment when necessary. Too many from the outside looking in don’t get people enough credit for doing those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:04 PM
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To you. That doesn’t really make it objectively disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:56 PM
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Huh? Having fun encompasses anything you want it to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:49 PM
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“Having sex with strangers is the sleaziest, grossest thing anyone can do” Q4a: What exactly makes sex so demeaning? Everybody seemingly wants to have it, so why do we apply all of these stupid rules and morals to it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:47 PM
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Boy I’m convinced that you don’t even know women lmao. I’ll come but not hang with you. There’s not shit you can show me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 09:04 PM
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But again, you already admitted that’s rare. Not defensive, I just think you struggle to articulate good points, no offense. You respond to me a lot, rarely, if ever, making any sense and here you counter my point that women with qualifies that you say make a good woman are abundant in the US, by saying women with those qualities are rare where you live. That’s not a convincing argument. I don’t doubt that good women exist in Brazil but if I had to guess, I’d assume they don’t hang around a male…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 08:54 PM
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Why would I want to go where you just admitted good women are rare?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 08:30 PM
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I can’t believe you’re telling me being supportive and caring makes a good woman while making the point that doesn’t exist in America. That’s such a low qualifier to meet. You can find supportive and caring women anywhere. They’re abundant if you don’t struggle with pulling.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 08:23 PM
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Can respect that you don’t run from competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 08:14 PM
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from our perspective Exactly. From perspective, not experience. Can you even tell me what a good woman supposedly is? Because I’d bet that every single one of my options is probably a better woman than yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 08:07 PM
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We don’t need your pity lol. Like someone else replied tons of us do fine with American women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:58 PM
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Conservative men have so few options. They’re basically competing among themselves for such a small fraction of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:47 PM
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That’s not the case though. There’s no universal preference. Like there’s women who are turned off by experience because a person’s sex history matters to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:09 PM
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Inexperienced people are too entitled. Y’all simply aren’t a good match for experienced people and it’s a chore for them to give the inexperienced a chance. At some point we’ve all been inexperienced. Your teenage years were your best chance to hone every dating skill in preparation for being a successful adult. Nearly everybody around you socially during your teen years were at the same level as you. If you didn’t take initiative to set yourself for success later in life, that’s on you. Others …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:07 PM
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Yes, they can get it. That’s a privilege. Doesn’t mean they’re cutoff from inexperienced men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:51 PM
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Usually inexperienced people gain experience with other inexperienced people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 01:05 PM
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I make more than you lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:22 AM
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You’re essentially asking what kind of man I am for not being into bad sex. That’s self explanatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 10:59 PM
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I hope you get some experience bro. Good luck out here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 10:49 PM
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Well, no. They’re actually right lil bud. Maybe your emotions blinded you to what was obvious but you don’t have to be a genius to conclude that I simply just dated people my own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 10:41 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 10:24 PM
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Damn, where did I say that? Maybe I was inexperienced and only associated with other inexperienced people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 10:24 PM
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One that doesn’t have me wasting time on inexperience, the fuck? Lmao But yes, I learned at some point, that’s why I said we’ve all been inexperienced at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 10:05 PM
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Point is to understand the mindset, not to argue who’s turned off more or less or more willing to teach.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 09:58 PM
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Communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 09:52 PM
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Yeah, experience matters and I think it goes both ways. I’m repulsed by inexperienced women. Like why is it become my burden to teach someone how to date and have sex? On top of that, you have to deal with the ramifications of them being ignorant to basic things. Inexperienced people get confused over the smallest things which typically results in conflict. Surely their mindset makes sense if you can apply it to your own life. And yes, flirting, reading signals, being smith etc. takes practice b…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 09:35 PM
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They’re obsessed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 07:36 PM
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Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 07:24 PM
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Validation feels good as fuck. Nothing wrong with chasing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 07:20 PM
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Lol she didn’t even do shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 07:20 PM
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Ok but what’s up with the obsession over kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 07:19 PM
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Lmao Tim is such a weird mf man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 06:53 PM
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Gonna send themselves to an early grave being so damn mad about everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 06:37 PM
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She Posted About Making Shakshuka on a Lazy Saturday. Then She Got Death Threats What's up with the obsession that men have with having kids? Are they even ready to be dad's themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 06:17 PM
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I mean, you gotta know that those 2 things aren’t nearly the same. The teacher relationship doesn’t even come close to the parent one, even if you were misled. It’s fine to leave, but don’t be a pussy about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:00 PM
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Lol, you’re ghosting a kid. Calling that not abandonment seems like tryin to make yourself feel better. Feel like a real man would be able to just call it what it is and go on about his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 05:49 PM
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That’s mental gymnastics.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 05:42 PM
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Oh. Is what it is though. Not really concerned in that aspect either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:40 PM
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Disagree, think ghosting a kid is objectively bad. I’d still do it but also being consensus that it’s a bad thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:34 PM
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Yeah that’s where I differ a lot. I don’t view men as a collective.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:33 PM
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Ehh. That’s why I say people are entitled to their judgement but I don’t think it really means anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:29 PM
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Are you really a bad person if you abandon the kid after finding out it’s not yours? I think so but I also would do it. People are entitled to their judgment but I don’t think being a perfect and mistake free person really matters. I’d own being called a coward, bad person, etc. but at least I’m not raising a kid that’s not mine and stuck with a cheater.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 03:59 PM
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Abort. I feel bad for people who think their beliefs matter more than an inconvenience to me. I’m not built to be a damn dad in my 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 10:34 PM
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Agree on going after the right people. I don’t catch as much heat as I used to when I was younger because now I surround myself with the types compatible with that lifestyle. Back then, I was just letting relationship oriented women hover because my excuse was that they could leave anytime they wanted and that was fucking a lot of my shit up. Realized it was unfair for me to put that onus on them when I could stay out of their lives in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 10:33 PM
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Yeah, part of being a fuck boy involves doing some fucked up shit. Whether intentionally or unintentionally. People will hear about it and associate you with that. Imagine being a athlete on a college campus. Yeah people are gonna know that you sleep around but at some point stories about how you lied or something to one are gonna get around. Doesn’t mean that you lie to every single girl, but just lying to one will get people talking. Being 30 and single isn’t problematic for people who don’t m…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 10:29 PM
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If you’re a young man chasing fuck boy dreams, I advise that you work on being emotionally stable and mentally tough because in reality you’re going to: Be disposable: No matter what, you will sometimes develop emotional attachment. Those women will have options. They won’t put their dating lives on pause for you. You will be disposable. It may not affect you the same every single time but you’re delusional if you think you can navigate this without being affected by natural human emotion. Have …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 09:43 PM
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A lot but I think they’d fail miserably. They don’t seem emotionally strong enough. They already cry about “are we dating the same guy?” Facebook groups, they’re not gonna be able to face that type of pressure in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:29 PM
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Lmao ok man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:13 PM
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Anybody with 2 eyes can see that. You’re just an exception who believes that men with 8 inches are widely accessible and available lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:08 PM
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Why Again, because dicks aren’t as big as you think they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:01 PM
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Think you’re conflating average. She may not be fucking average men in terms of looks, but even if she’s fucking 10 good looking dudes from OLD, they’d still have average size.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 02:58 PM
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The average size is about 4-5 inches. If she fucks 10 dudes from OLD, good chance that most of them are about as big as a lighter.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 02:52 PM
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8 inch dicks aren’t as accessible as you think they are. There’s so few with them that it’s not even something you should even be worried about.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 02:37 PM
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Overwhelming consensus on this seems that it’s best to lie when asked about being the best at sex. I agree. I don’t think people who ask questions that they don’t really want to know the answer to realize that they kill the relationship with their insecurities. Being pestered is draining, both men and women do it, and you wouldn’t know how draining it is unless you’ve experienced it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 02:14 PM
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Just observations, relax.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 04:46 PM
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Ehh. My observations and experience differed. Appreciate the input but I didn’t encounter or interact with any women from the trailer parks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:15 PM
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Yeah I’m just saying I’m culture shocked without actually experiencing said culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:10 PM
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The amount of single moms in the US south is insane. I’m legit culture shocked. I don’t think it’s their fault, I think they’re victims to a sexually repressed religious culture that suppresses sex education and birth control. And with how rampant teen pregnancy is down here, I gotta imagine that this culture has kids not even knowing that pregnancy results from sex or that condoms protect against pregnancy. They’re just acting on pure curiosity, bringing lives into a world that they’re not even…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 02:28 PM
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Agreed. I think you put it perfectly in your replying saying that there’s a thousand lives that we could have lived.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:18 PM
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Ok, thought you were implying you made 300k and couldn’t get pussy without red pill. Everything else, idk. Anecdotal of course but I was a broke student up until the time I started making money. I don’t know why that’s blue pill bullshit but if getting ass without money is easy, surely someone making 300k could get laid without red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:14 PM
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I don’t find settling miserable, I find your train of thought miserable. Specifically the “you haven’t met everyone in the world” point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:45 PM
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300k and you couldn’t get ass without red pill? Doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:44 PM
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pick one This is stupid. One persons argument and points have nothing to do with another’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:42 PM
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Y’all outlooks on life are insanely miserable. I can’t imagine being or thinking that I’ve settled because I haven’t met everyone in the world. There’s 3 billion people here lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:39 PM
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ok do it Lmao this is the don’t give a fuck attitude that I want men to quit being soft and have.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:33 PM
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I don’t know what the fuck dudes here want me to say about women lmao. I speak to what I know, navigating dating as a man. Of course that includes harsh criticisms because it’s warranted based on what I observe. We are lost. I don’t need to factor women and what they do into every single topic. Women fucking hate me in real life. I just don’t speak harshly to what I observe or experience involving them because 1. Nobody would know what I’m on about 2. Im not a complainer. Nobody wants to see “q4…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:40 PM
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Quit being soft dude. It’s a comment made in regard to a popular topic here. impossible So you’ve never gotten a girlfriend then immediately got attention from other women? That’s not a thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:13 PM
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Yeah, sure. Constantly forget mentioning one gender here automatically makes the reverse relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:12 PM
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Mhm
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:08 PM
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Ok sure, but this is ppd, I’m talking about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:06 PM
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Baby boy, my level of shallowness is far, far lower than the bar set by my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:04 PM
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That would honestly explain so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:02 PM
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Well no, I’m just making a point about men. What women do really isn’t my concern here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:01 PM
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Lmao please don’t mistake yourself into thinking that I ever need to excuse my behavior. I don’t care about being shallow dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:59 PM
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Average men say they just want average women to see them but they know good and goddamn well that they’d leave their average girlfriend the split second a 10 showed any hint of interest in them. Please stop bullshitting us with the idea that they make perfect boyfriends and are better options than the rest of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:43 PM
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Ehh. It’s subjective. Looks matter to me but being average isn’t necessarily a deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:33 PM
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Can’t even keep track. Not afraid to be vulnerable and open up. It’s always been well received unless it hasn’t in which case I don’t really give a fuck. Like I’m sure an ex has judged me, thought I was soft, whatever, but there’s so many more who have made opening up worth it that the negatives don’t really affect me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:31 PM
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Sure but it’s still a toss up. They just bet on the side that he won’t turn out to be a great lover because not much is loss there as opposed to the reverse. Give an average guy a chance and he’s not a great lover. I can’t fault them for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:25 PM
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there aren’t enough attractive men out there I don’t think that really bothers them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:20 PM
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Why is being average seen as unattractive for men? I don’t know?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:18 PM
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Nothing that I say has to do with anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:17 PM
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Do you live in a perfect world? What guarantee is there that every average man will turn out to be a great lover?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:08 PM
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You can’t see why an average woman would want an attractive boyfriend? Why would she settle for an average man when she can get what she wants? And let’s not pretend that average women don’t pull.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:06 PM
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I fucking hate leaving the comfort of my big city for the shithole Bible Belt. I was just in a McDonald’s and they had fox news on lol. I don’t even like being on dating apps and mingling here. I assume most options here are anti abortion pick me’s that are adverse to fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:04 PM
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Why should they be? What particularly makes average men worth the risk? Average men clearly see something in average women that makes them worth it. You can’t be mad if that effort isn’t returned if you don’t have anything to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:54 PM
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Just going off your words.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:38 PM
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Or maybe they just didn’t want to be with their boyfriends anymore? I have been very vocal Lmao wtf does this even mean? Is every woman supposed to factor you and your opinion into their worldview?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:52 AM
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Lol I’m not holding my breath
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:46 AM
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Everything’s always been projection with those people. They do exactly what they accuse everybody else of doing. It’s why they can’t stop accusing others of pedophilia.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:36 PM
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We’ll have to see if that brand of repub can get back in the White House.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:33 PM
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They are but not nearly with enough to defect to give civilians a chance against the biggest most well funded military in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:09 PM
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American conservatives are obsessed with the idea of a civil war here but I feel like they don’t realize they’d be going against the US military and not other civilians who happen to be progressive or democrat.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:41 PM
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Difference in priorities I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:47 PM
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Still failing to see any real consequence. What’s the affect of getting shit for your preferences? It seems fragile to be concerned with a game of tug of war.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:39 PM
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Why does it matter if they do or don’t? That doesn’t affect me having preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:22 PM
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I mean, fds aside she’s not wrong though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:10 PM
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Magic Johnson invented the triple-double. Not true invented, but makes it more noticeable in terms of the impact on the game. He literally acknowledged that lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:59 PM
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Is this even a question? Of course it can.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:57 PM
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This entire topic centers around mens fear of a woman their romantically interested in, having sex with someone with a bigger dick in her past. They lack confidence but they mask it with bullshit excuses like pair bonding and calling it an indicator for predicting future behavior when choosing their partners. Couple lack of confidence with the common misconception that a big dick automatically equals amazing sex and this is what we get. I was there as a teenager in high school as most were. The …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:20 PM
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Ehh, it’s best to just ignore, he shouldn’t of reached out after finding out about the post. You just gotta let mfers get their grievances off, life goes on. Can’t count how many times I’ve seen my reputation shit on on Facebook or Twitter lmao. There’s no real consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:55 PM
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Lmao guess you really don’t want pussy then.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:45 PM
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Lol honesty is inherently in the question. This game not for you if you too scared to be honest about wanting to have sex with someone to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:43 PM
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Not a woman but you don’t trick them. You communicate and be honest about what you’re looking for without making any promises towards the future. Those that’s looking for the same thing and are interested will go for you. Then when you have sex, you just ghost if you want to. Really simple process.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:34 PM
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Video games and Matt Walsh are ruining men. There’s nothing wrong with gaming at all, I play. But it’s fucking up how these boys perceive reality. What the fuck is a year long campaign to gain honor?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:12 AM
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Lmao it’s overdramatic as shit. Like there’s ample room for you to exist away from sex related content but all it takes is that one bikini pic and boom, we’ve fallen.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 10:00 PM
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That’s what’s hilarious. Sexy music videos, sex in movies and tv, porn, hookup culture and everything else sex has always sold here. We’re fine regardless. It may be a bit much for a lot, sure, but nothing sex wise we do here is gonna crumble the west or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 09:58 PM
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Good point but ironically I think the ignorant bliss is subjective. Like I can see how that would even apply to myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 09:47 PM
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It’s funny as hell watching the way people talk about sex culture in America. You’d think people were fucking in the streets with how big of a boogeyman “degeneracy in the west” has become. They make us sound so sex obsessed when millions of students here don’t even have access to proper sex education. We have so many adults living in fear with no real idea how STD’s or pregnancy works but sure, it’s our sexualization that’s gonna ruin the world lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 08:53 PM
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That’s cool but being the best is a sentiment that gets expressed on this sub a lot, so.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 06:56 PM
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How if the same applies to big cities? Whether rural town or big city like mine, none of our lives come close to the celebrity experience. Applying elements of their lives to ours like it’s the same is dumb. You’re closer to your coworker who could be having an affair than you are to Future. Maybe that’s a better example to base your worldview. But despite being real people, there’s nothing about Nick cannon and Future that relates to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 05:01 PM
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That doesn’t change anything, I live in one of the biggest US cities with an amazing social and same still applies to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 04:46 PM
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We’re so far removed from celebrity that their social lives don’t reflect ours in any way. Like you can’t live in a small rural town and claim that women share men based on Future. There’s 0 social aspects of living in that rural town that would compare to Futures life lmao. You’re essentially judging women’s behavior based on elements that you’ll likely never experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 04:36 PM
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Yeah, bad women exist. I just think RP has a misinterpretation of that existence. Most women are genuinely lovely and pleasant to be around. There’s a lot of shortcomings on the RP side though that reduces their leagues and dating pools to bottom of the barrel women. They assume and project their experience as normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 04:27 PM
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A whole lot more to it than dick size. Good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 04:23 PM
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In my context, for the sake of the point, out of the 10 you are the best. I’m saying that if you’re the best out of 10, you have a stronger claim to the best than you would out of 3. There’s no hypothetical here where you aren’t or there’s 2 other guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 04:22 PM
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Good point
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 04:18 PM
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If being the best sex she’s ever had matters so much, wouldn’t you want her to have sample size larger than 1-2 other men? Being the best out of 10+ means you could actually be her best. Being the best out of 3 leaves a ton of room for her to find improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:54 PM
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Yeah maybe. But that’s no excuse. We’ve all dealt with it. Part of being a man is being able to brush off bad behaviors, treatment, etc. is necessary to our mental health and security.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:43 PM
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Nah, there’s no reason for your mind to default to 6’ men when you get told you’re liked for possessing favorable qualities. That’s a loser mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:36 PM
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Playing himself right out of the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:32 PM
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Insanely depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:32 PM
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My gender is so doomed. Nobody’s confident in themselves anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 06:58 PM
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Porn addiction seems to be getting worse. It’s sad to witness the affects of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:09 AM
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Being a successful men would mean that he’s looked at more than two women. That’s a strict deal breaker for them. Not literally but those women aren’t secure enough to date men who’s had several partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 11:17 PM
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In the context of dating, that’s gonna cause people to die?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 11:13 PM
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I think you do. If I were a woman, there’s nothing about my beliefs or lifestyle that aligns with them. You post like successful men are your worst enemy, that’s all FDS is lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 10:57 PM
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Getting mistaken for a woman for having certain viewpoints and opinions on this sub is funny as hell because I don’t think a lot of men here realize that they emulate the exact sentiments and behaviors as hurt women. Defending arguments like a person’s past doesn’t matter or the practice of having options gets you replies like “you want your cake and to eat it” or “just say you want to fuck hot men.” That aligns with what’s expected from women who like FDS or thought a relationship was gonna las…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 09:30 PM
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😭 giving into persistence never works out well for women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:21 PM
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Why are people gonna start dying?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:20 PM
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Spot on
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:18 PM
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Lol nah being consistent to others standards aren’t my concern. Rich people get theirs so fuck everyone else happens but if it were me, I wouldn’t believe like that. But that doesn’t mean I have to apply the same qualities and values in every single realm of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:18 PM
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That’s supposed to make me feel bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:56 PM
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Surely you’re able to distinguish social constructs like the dating game and government though right? When you get a job, it has implications on your healthcare, your taxes fund law enforcement, the constitution is the foundation for your rights as an employee. That system exists entirely separate from dating, otherwise there’d probably be a tax on the number of tinder matches a person gets. Now if that was the case, sure, you can relate government and dating and make the case to let nature deci…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:56 PM
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so that people give a chance to others Not everybody’s deserving of a chance. If you know what you want, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with not giving a chance where there’s no initial attraction. Giving chances is a risk, cool if other people give them but personally, I prefer to not waste mine not their time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:33 PM
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Nope. This applies to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:31 PM
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Modern dating doesn’t need to be more inclusive. It works for tons of people, they’re not gonna change to appease the grievances of people who can’t adapt. It’s a game of survival of the fittest.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:03 PM
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Funny thing about red pill is that it relies heavily on having good game but no matter how hard red pillers practice, they’ll never be better than those who naturally have good game. This is why modern dating will always be a game of catch up for them. Any woman that’s miserable and insecure enough to fall for red pill shit is low value. Low value women are red pillers ceiling. Top tier women can easily tell apart the try hards from the naturals. They get pulled by men who naturally bring their …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:55 AM
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Ehh, just offering perspective don’t be salty.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:17 PM
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Yeah but I’m not one of them and I’m definitely not alone. What’s crazier is that Matt’s brand even turns off conservative women. I wish I was lying because I personally find republican women gross but the way they talk about conservative men is wild. You do you though, all I’m saying is don’t underestimate how what you support benefits the other side.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:07 PM
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Nope, Matt represents everything that I’m better than and the way he broadcasts it sets the bar so low that it makes navigating socially extremely easy. Being so far removed from his grievances and experiences naturally boosts your ego when you’re above that, so don’t be so sure about the causing pain thing lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:41 PM
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Not gonna lie, I was curious what your dating life was like. Not sure what I expected but I’d never guess boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:19 PM
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Leftist checking in. I love Matt too, his existence is a massive ego boost.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:17 PM
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If that’s the type of stuff you find solstice in, then I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 08:56 PM
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My lord lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 08:54 PM
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There’s nothing impressive about a celebrity having sex, let alone boring sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 08:35 PM
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Lmao sure
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 08:33 PM
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How does being indifferent to pleasure make you a legend? This shit sound boring as hell lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 08:13 PM
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Yeah, agreed. Sad cause I loved twitter but those days gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:09 PM
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Elon is such a stupid bitch. Imagine ghosting somebody only for them to have access to you again because that dumbass wants to remove the block feature on twitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:54 PM
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Have the confidence to believe she likes you regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:22 PM
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Ehh. Confident that I’m liked regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:20 PM
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The blue pill gets misapplied, you motherfuckers don’t know shit about The Matrix lmao. In the scene where Cypher and Smith cut a deal to put Cypher back into the matrix, Cypher tells Smith he wants to go back into the simulation, be rich and important. He says he wants to forget everything that he’s been awaken to claiming that “ignorance is bliss.” Smith tells him he can have whatever he wants. While associated with the simulation in the movie, when properly applied it to real life, the blue p…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:19 PM
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Blue pilled because why should give a fuck about people’s ideal partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:53 PM
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not the guys that you want This speaks to the main point of my first comment. I’m so much more of a better relationship prospect than guys who argue that I’m not based on nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:12 PM
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Live your best life. Your first time can be special and intimate in the moment but 10 years from now you won’t even remember it or even still talk to that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:53 PM
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Getting taken off the market early doesn’t necessarily translate to being in that relationship for the rest of your life. There’s way too much room to operate for good looking guys with good personalities to forever be taken off the market at 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:50 PM
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Ehh, I think you’re mistaken. I’m simply just a man who has a better relationship with women than all the good boys despite the notion that I can’t because of how I look an act.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:49 PM
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Ehh. That plane Jane girl next door shit isn’t for everybody. I get that unattractive women are a lot of y’all types but let’s not pretend we all into the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:53 PM
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While I understand that you’re confused by the belief that a woman should choose either or, on this sub, the issue is consistently framed that way. Common sense let’s us know that’s not necessarily the case in reality, for the purposes of participating here, I framed it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:50 PM
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Not every dude is desperate to be in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:47 PM
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Put my post history side by side with most on this sub, without doubt. Well aware that I don’t have the best set of dating morals but you’ll never see me showing my ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:40 PM
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I mean, you obviously don’t but in the context of this sub, I’m framing it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:37 PM
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Based on their behavior across the internet, where the fuck did the idea that unattractive men automatically treat women better come from? We all see how they lash out and talk about women online. It’s a far better risk for women to take it on an attractive man who might be a fuck boy. At least he’d be attractive and not have resentment over a bad dating life. The sweet nice boys who bash and attack women all day online aren’t gonna do a complete 180 and all of sudden become the best boyfriends …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:21 PM
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Not having to deal with weak ass women. There’s nothing more unattractive than a doormat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:14 PM
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🤝 Man lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 09:11 PM
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Opposite of what we see here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 09:10 PM
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You have a normal dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:50 PM
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Nothing is harder than watching men chase young girls only to let themselves get played. I’m sorry but by a certain point you should have the experiences and tools equipped to not allow someone with far less adulthood experience to take advantage of you. It’s a strict standard but always being on your p’s and q’s is just part of being a man. We gotta stop excusing pathetic behavior. Context.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:49 PM
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And you supposed to be a Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:02 PM
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Yeah that’s the only first day I only know how to have lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:37 PM
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Seems more like an attempt to shoehorn women into everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:56 PM
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Might be unclear on my point. Yes you will be misled and rejected. Never said it’s not misleading, however, you should have the tools necessary to act on your advances regardless and mitigate any resulting fallout. For instance, woman shows interest, you act on it, you get rejected, and without any sense of confusion you act accordingly. I thought it was believe what women say? I don’t date nor live by what threads on this sub says. I can’t apply y’all rules and ways of doing things.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:52 PM
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Why does a question about me have to get turned into what women do?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:31 PM
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It’s not cloudy and misleading though. That’s why I said people who can’t decipher behavior are dumb. For instance, if someone tells you they’re interested, as a man you should be able to analyze the sincerity of that based on behavior and actions. Instead, a lot of us rather be gullible then say it’s others fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:29 PM
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reject your advances So what? You too scared to act on your advances out of fear of rejection? Despite the rejection, she showed interest whether playing games or not. Personally I’m gonna act on it regardless. Y’all gotta stop being so intimidated by everything women and just live.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:21 PM
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Well maybe you’re confusing what this sub says for what I say. yet that women will express interest in them but in more subtle ways Whether average or attractive, interest will be overt. Thats on you if you believe you gotta look for small clues because that’s what they told you here lmao Thirst over you otherwise they are just being nice Another distinction between successful and struggling men. There’s so much space for nuance on the spectrum of thirst and being nice but to you guys, it has to…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:06 PM
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Q4m: why am I supposed to be scared of being a free meal? What’s genuinely lost by paying for dates, even if they go nowhere? Feel like it’s desperate behavior to get hung up over the potential for dates to lead to nowhere. Like I’d rather have a bunch of dates that go nowhere than limit myself because I’m not scared of being played.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:54 PM
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Lol where? Women aren’t subtle at all about interest which is why I don’t get why y’all struggle so bad with interpreting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:44 PM
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As a man, if you can’t interpret the difference between genuine friendship gestures and romantic interest, you’re dumb. 1,2 and 3 are all nothing more than generalized things women do when they’re your friend. They text you, they ask you to hang out, they send pics no different than they would if you were a woman. Being a successful man takes a bit of basic competence. One who is won’t overthink and over analyze friendship gestures from women. They know what true interest looks and feels like an…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:37 PM
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Feel like a lot of women get mistaken that their standards matter to every man, attaching negative connotations to one’s who don’t meet them. I see it in a close friend but I also recently had somebody on bumble message me “you’re up, convince me” and it’s just like, no lol. Can’t help but correlate it with similar things that fds preaches. It’s like you have to follow certain rules and meet certain standards otherwise you’re low value and again, no. There’s just simply a far more fun side of da…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:03 PM
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list of stuff they can do to check and suddenly become successful That’s exactly the case. They expect every single detail to be explained and every question to be answered in an effort to emulate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:08 PM
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Then learn how to comprehend it instead of stewing in ignorance. Validation isn’t a distant reality for tons of men, you’d never see them say something like wanting it sounds like entitlement and sociopathic. So why continue to be blatantly wrong when you gain an understanding?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:37 PM
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For me I think the difference is confidence. Sure they could be the same but only one has the confidence to flaunt it which makes her even more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:31 PM
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Agreed. I’m sorry but it’s seriously just that easy yet people will still find a way to question the simple answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:30 PM
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Again, unless you’re agreeable back, it’s the same as a doormat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 05:55 PM
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Agreed. I don’t listen to advise from most women tbh because their advise is not geared towards my type.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 05:48 PM
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No, that’s being a doormat. Often when people say they want an agreeable partner, that’s not a quality they themselves possess. They want a partner who will be honest and cooperative but they want extend that same privilege to their partner. Someone who gives that but doesn’t receive it in return is a doormat. So unless chad is also agreeable, that’s being a doormat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 05:47 PM
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This an example of what I’m talking about. women have to be agreeable and pleasant to lock down Chad. You speak in absolutes but based on what? Are you a Chad? I’m not claiming to be one but I definitely sleep with whoever I want. I think that agreeableness is one of the most unattractive qualities a woman can have. Nobody wants to be with a doormat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 05:36 PM
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Listening to the advice of men who can’t decipher game is how a lot of women find themselves falling victim to bad dating predicaments. A lot of men apply a halo effect to themselves and other men so their advice usually comes from a place an idealized concept of men, women shouldn’t listen to it. Some examples include telling women to look past red flags for the sake of 2nd chances and not go after attractive men but none of that stuff is really helpful. If women wanna learn how to avoid fuck b…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 05:11 PM
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Women should chase chad and men shouldn’t settle. Advise to the contrary is stupid as fuck, you only live once and life is short to act like looks don’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:02 PM
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It’s possible to see yourself like that with a stranger at a bar?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:35 PM
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Yeah like as in interested in her attraction, not having actual feelings for her though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 04:36 AM
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https://reddit.com/r/dating_advice/s/5jKPjEN5YY
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 02:52 AM
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He didn’t approach her and it’s possible she came on to him first.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 02:52 AM
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Thoughts? I think people overreact to these situations. It would’ve been no hard feelings among my friends, she chose who she chose and closed mouths don’t get fed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 02:25 AM
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People who relationships mean the world to believe that everybody else is just as desperate for one as them lmao. Prospective relationships are abundant. It’s casual sex that’s hard. I know FDS used to say something like that but I think the reverse is true. For men with decent dating lives, there’s rarely, if ever any prolonged period where those type of needs aren’t met. Aside from just sex needs too, because when you’re single, you’re consistently accumulating connections and not every single…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 09:17 PM
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You do the same shit lmao. You’re one of them tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:59 PM
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Ehh, then you would’ve considered that the vote gets split.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 08:10 PM
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I assume it’s because of the assumption that if she’s good and did it with you, then she’s done it with someone else. Illogical but that’s what insecurity does.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 07:37 PM
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Yeah, descent is encouraged on this side. We win, evidenced by almost every election since 2016 so we can afford to split.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 07:12 PM
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I don’t brother, sorry. They exist certainly. But I never see progressive men struggle in my personal life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:31 PM
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Wrong. They embrace masculinity. You wouldn’t know unless you were a man on the left who’s masculinity gets embraced. What’s rewarding? I say being cool, calm and collected is probably the biggest. It’s extremely masculine for a man to not be emotional and hysterical. It’s a trait that shows that he’s capable of thriving under pressure in hard times. Being emotional and hysterical are traits typically associated with conservative men evidenced by their consistent lashing out over the smallest th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:28 PM
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Lol what doesn’t seem right is your blatant misunderstanding of progressive politics. Out of say 10 of my closest male friends who I’m exemplifying in this, not one supported Bernie in the primaries but if you have such little understanding of things, I guess simplifying everything makes sense. That said, out of my closest friends which spreads across different groups and rounds off to about 10 friends give or take, all being progressive, no one has issues dating. The one who struggles most stil…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:20 PM
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I have a friend who recently did the same and she’s literally lost nothing lmao. She talks a lot about this exact thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:07 PM
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I don’t know one who’s been deemed unfuckable. I’m also baffled.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:00 PM
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Sure bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 04:59 PM
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Progressive men have it really easy actually. Pussy basically falls in your lap when you don’t exhibit behaviors and personalities associated with red pill ideology. Yet the boys who have to wait until marriage gets to claim masculinity? No lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 04:51 PM
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I tend to exist in reality, so I haven’t considered any of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 04:39 PM
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And according to this sub the majority of men fall below 1, so.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 04:22 PM
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I think if a man is average having more than one option is doable. If he struggles, his attention should be more focused on attracting a few instead of the many.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 04:21 PM
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Yeah, that’s privilege. Not a woman but I can’t relate either but think its helpful to be aware and acknowledge where privilege exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 04:10 PM
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If they have an abundance of job offers, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 04:05 PM
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But at some point you gotta come to realization that having a roster of options will never be for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 04:02 PM
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Can’t be the case for everybody. Better to focus on a few if you can’t pull many.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 04:01 PM
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That can’t be the reality for every man though. Gotta accept that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 04:00 PM
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A man only has to convince one person that he’s attractive to date. So much of the focus seems to be on abundance when the sole focus should be on attracting just one person. At the very least, a true average man shouldn’t find it that difficult to attract just one person.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:47 PM
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If dating is truly competition, the threshold to meet the bar set by other men, especially successful ones, is so damn low that capitalizing off of the past man’s mistakes is too easy for anyone capable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:15 AM
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Their fantasy is to treat women like trash while reaping the benefits of casual sex but most men here can’t handle being a fuck boy for real. I’ve seen way too many cry about women being “cruel” to think they can handle things like their partners going on other dates, sexual non-exclusivity, getting called a fuck boy as an insult, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:40 PM
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Lmao great point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 08:52 PM
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Not sure what you’re saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 08:51 PM
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Why are women expected to have all the answers? The biggest question a lot of men seemingly want to know is what makes a woman want to fuck but I think there’s misconception that there’s an explanation for every single life occurrence. Women can’t give you a play by play about what made her go home with somebody for you to emulate that other man’s actions. Casual sex happens so dynamically that there’s so many factors at play that it’s impossible to rely on someone else’s success.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 07:48 PM
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Sounds self inflicted.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 07:17 PM
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What’s the injustice here?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 07:10 PM
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You have a very idealized concept of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:44 PM
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Agreed. If you’re a man with no attractive women over 30 are available to you, then you’re just not in their market. The idea of the wall is to protect feelings that come with the reality that one couldn’t pull attractive women in their 20s and they still wont when those women past 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:22 AM
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but it is the bond created during the relationship that makes him remain long term. This is Disney fairytale shit. We don’t live in a perfect world, men lose attraction to their wives over time all the time no matter how much of a bond’s been created. Even as a man myself, there’s no amount of bond that could make me stay if I loss attraction to someone. Idk where you guys get this stuff but be real with yourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:18 AM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:54 AM
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How does that work?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:54 AM
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If women hit a wall at 30, what happens to the ones who got duped into marriage in their late teens-early 20s when they hit 30? Or is it only supposed to happen to single women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:46 AM
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Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 08:32 PM
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Or, it’d just be a conclusion that you’ve come to using those 2 groups as an example to make the case for why you believe that. Of course you could dive deep into the weeds, provide examples, and discuss what makes someone red pill or not, but I’m not that invested. You’re certainly free to disagree what qualifies someone RP, but I’m not gonna go back and forth defending my association of where people align based on what they say here just because you think I’m looking for some effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:28 PM
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Yeah they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:55 PM
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Well, yeah. You actually can make that case using witches against patriarchy and FDS as examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:54 PM
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That’s fine, just know that you’re scaring the hoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:18 PM
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Lol everything I see from them is red pill adjacent. They’re red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:17 PM
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This has nothing to do with sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:11 PM
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Eh, I've seen it enough on this sub to believe otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:11 PM
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It all falls under the same umbrella.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:10 PM
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I've seen enough to know that a lot think women don't like or pursue sex. Has nothing to do with being asexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:09 PM
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I didn't know Well yeah, you don't know lol. It's not uncommon to see it claimed here at all. Just like with everything else, men aren't a hive mind, there isn't an official agreed upon stance across the manosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:08 PM
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The manosphere has no choice but to operate on an idealized concept of women and sex. They’re too soft and intimidated to face reality so they always argue ideas like men and women are different or that women don’t seek out or like sex to protect their fantasies of abundant innocence and one day getting the perfect girlfriend/wife. But take time to be the only man in the room with a group of women in a platonic setting where women are typically most candid about dating and sex and you’ll see how…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:40 PM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 10:10 PM
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This thread is crazy but my takeaway is that you can’t blame women for sex being inaccessible to a lot of men. If sexlessness is truly that rampant, clearly what’s been identified as the problem, is not the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 09:57 PM
1

I would absolutely love if the pick me’s and struggling men just all got together.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 08:53 PM
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I’m never speaking for men. Men being incapable of most shit across the board is quite common knowledge. I know that my experience is not yours. Still doesn’t stop people like you for replying “the vast majority of men” in situations where I’m talking specifically to me. I even asked others to put themselves in my shoes in that question lmao, motherfuckers still find some way to inject their inexperience.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 08:51 PM
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Lmao thanks for providing an example of exactly what I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 08:41 PM
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That’s obviously true otherwise they wouldn’t bitch so much about things that have nothing to do with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 08:38 PM
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Because losers are fucking everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 08:32 PM
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Anything. You can make a statement as simple as “women appreciate good kissers” and somebody will reply “the vast majority of men have never kissed a woman”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 08:19 PM
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I’m tired of everything having to revolve around “the vast majority of men” Every time you speak to an experience that’s foreign to them, other men come out of the woodwork to chime in about what “the vast majority of men” can’t do. Nobody gives a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 08:04 PM
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Being traditional, too reserved and no fun. Having no sex appeal or can’t pull off revealing clothes. Having little to no experience that doesn’t match mine. Having nothing going for herself career or education wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 03:19 PM
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The easiest tell is whether random women and men smile at you or give you infatuated looks for extended periods of time. It’s really not that complicated to tell where you fit in.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:55 PM
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Because I’m making the point specifically to men and not women. That in no way implies that men don’t do it either to anyone with a competent reading level. But for the sake of both sides since it’s apparently so necessary, yes we talk shit. I’ve said and done things waaaay worse than that post.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:35 PM
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Women talk like this behind close doors all the time. You might as well get out of dating if you’re too scared to be gossiped about.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:11 PM
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It’s that I don’t care. There is no implication.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 03:08 PM
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Fault isn’t in question.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 02:56 PM
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That’s fair, parents will fuck their kids up that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 02:55 PM
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Nope, making the point and speaking specifically to men. Not all people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 02:55 PM
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It’s not your fault but how you respond is your responsibility. Don’t cry that all women are cheaters if you actively chose to work through that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 02:42 PM
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No but I’m not a woman nor interested in discussing experiences that I don’t live, so yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 02:42 PM
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Cmv: As men, we’re solely responsible for the type of treatment that we accept. Blaming other people because you allowed yourself to get strung along or other bad shit is dodging accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 02:33 PM
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Not even a question. Yes. Society doesn’t perpetuate the notion of anything. Most of the shit we see discussed like Jonah Hill objectively involves toxicity. Emotions and needs can easily be expressed in a way that doesn’t force other people to change major parts of themselves for the chance to date you. Those aren’t boundaries but controlling behavior. For instance, my biggest boundary is my independence. I’m not a big texter because I like my space and I communicate that. Nobody’s ever called …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 02:03 PM
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Giving someone with that less life experience compared to yours that much power over you is nuts lmao. It’s not always a grind for us. Why do you all make this stuff up?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:08 AM
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🤝
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 11:37 PM
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Nothing is more pathetic than watching an older man get played, be heartbroken, or confused over a younger woman. You got 35 year old men crying over 22 year old girls lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 11:09 PM
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Oh well yeah, duh because 1. Only one of them is facing any type of criminal legal peril and it’s not the president nor does it have anything to do with “corruption” but tax and guns. 2. I don’t live in imagination land.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 09:21 PM
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Republicans are a pr firm?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 08:14 PM
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Republicans make me like Joe Biden more and more everyday. I see a lot of myself and my dad in him and his son Hunter. They shove their relationship down our throats daily, so all I see is a dad who loves and supports his son unconditionally no different than mine does me. As sons who indulge in a particular lifestyle, it’s amazing having a dad who’s values aren’t rooted in how strict conservatism is. There’s so many men my age who are sexless because their lives were shaped by an expectation to…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 05:47 PM
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The exact same approach and advice my dad gave to me. Give them agency become their own person in order to figure themselves out as an individual. No sheltering. Unconditional love. Always helpful. No strict rules or standard to qualify what it means to “be a man”. That all helped me become the best man I could ever hope to be. It got me living life on easy mode, if I ever have a kid I hope I could do the same for him half as good as my dad did for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 05:09 PM
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Thank god for progress. None of that sounds fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 03:08 PM
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I mean, I don’t think he’s that unattractive but I also don’t think many women would find him attractive or go out of their way to get his attention. So I guess you could say average to below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:51 PM
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Easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:47 PM
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Nothing? I am my ideal self.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:18 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:01 PM
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Seems like very hard qualities to come by
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:55 PM
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I do hear a lot that simps are desirable. I think it only becomes an issue when someone is too much of one, doing things like romanticizing and idealizing the connection etc., at least that’s what I’ve heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:42 PM
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Let this sub tell it, being hot is an automatic disqualifying quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:39 PM
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Q4a: what exactly is a good man? In the context of telling women to pick better men and/or give good guys a chance. I’m aware that I’m not one but I observe the world around me and fail to see and understand what the concept of a good man is actually supposed to be when used in modern dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:26 PM
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Nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 03:31 PM
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I’m my ideal self. The main thing I don’t do is box myself in. Like it doesn’t have to be either or in regards to sleeping with as many women as I can or finding a relationship, I do both. When in a relationship, I’m as faithful and committed as can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 03:10 PM
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Is leering and ogling synonymous with checking someone out? Because I’ve always been under the impression that an appreciative glance, what others might call a stare, equates to checking someone out with leering and ogling being associated with being an obvious creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:50 PM
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I don’t think it’s weird. I catch people staring at me a lot, It’s nothing more than an admiring gaze that lasts a few seconds and then you both go on about your lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:40 PM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:34 PM
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Q4m: Is it disrespectful to check out another man’s girlfriend or wife? Personally, I don’t think so. You can’t not expect people to find your partner attractive and if they do, they’re naturally gonna be curious about her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:24 PM
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Whoever wants a traditional girlfriend/wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 06:01 PM
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I mean, that’s what you guys subject yourselves to lol. Couldn’t be me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 05:29 PM
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After witnessing it for the umpteenth time I’m still amazed at people on this sub failure to understand how analogies don’t apply when used wrong along with the assumption that everyone is a woman. Really says a lot about for people who think they know everything lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 05:18 PM
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Jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 05:15 PM
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Future as in you haven’t met him nor had kids yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 04:40 PM
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Food ≠ Dating and sex
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 04:20 PM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 03:58 PM
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How are you supposed to dictate your life and choices around someone you haven’t met? People argue that a person’s past matters so is the expectation to miss out on experiences because your future partner might have a body count preference or not like that you had sex with a certain type of person? You’d have to be an idiot to sacrifice things that you want to do for someone that you haven’t met and may never meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 03:20 PM
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No offense but this post really highlights the lack of intelligence that’s all too common among people who genuinely believe stuff like this. There’s no counterargument necessary to refute objectively braindead takes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 02:52 PM
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Big fan of people trusting their gut. Good for you, honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 08:07 PM
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You don’t say?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 08:00 PM
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I don’t know, probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:55 PM
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Why do people worry so much about their boyfriend or girlfriend interacting with the opposite sex? If someone’s gonna cheat, there’s no level of observing, snooping, controlling who they talk to and what exactly they say to stop cheating from happening. It’s best to enjoy the relationship without stressing so much over cheating. If it happens, it’ll eventually be revealed. No one is that good at lying, so unless you’re haplessly naive and unaware to the world around you, you should have anything…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:42 PM
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You don’t. But if you never do it and that’s her thing, eventually she’s gonna become unsatisfied
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:14 PM
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Disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:40 PM
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For one night stands, of course. But I wouldn’t say that it’s generally normal. In general terms it’s normal for people to grow closer and want more of each other after having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:21 PM
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I knew that I had a particular type and who/what I was attracted to from a very early age. My parents constantly had me at rated R movies and wwe shows. Nowadays people would claim that my parents pushed sex on their kids but all it really did was make me an adult who isn’t confused about the world around me. Meanwhile people my age who grew up extremely sheltered with strict parents can’t even navigate life or dating without training wheels.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 03:49 PM
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Men who don’t eat pussy produce sexually unsatisfied women. Sexually unsatisfied women eventually come across the best sex of their lives and joke about men who suck at sex to those partners who sexually satisfy them. It’s an interesting loop to observe and it helps makes sense why women choose to fuck who they fuck and not fuck who they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 02:10 PM
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there are a finite amount of women Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 02:06 PM
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I never understand why I’m supposed to give a fuck about random women preferences. Someone expressing an ideal height in a guy doesn’t really affect me. Like if they wants 6’1+, am I supposed to feel that women are too picky?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 02:26 AM
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I haven’t seen it either. They take issue with any and everything. I’m assuming the problem is that the movie merely exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 11:18 PM
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It’s hilarious watching how susceptible American conservatives are to manufactured outrage. These people get told that the most minuscule grievances are ruining their lives and all of a sudden every product and form of media needs to be boycotted because of either satan or “woke” Like there’s no reason for these people to care so much about Barbie movie yet here we are with them trying to make it new public enemy number 1. It helps put into perspective why they struggle so much with dating and b…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 11:08 PM
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Clear as day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:28 PM
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I mean unless you’re built like an athlete I still gotta assume that they’re gonna place you in a pool with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:20 PM
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I’m 200+ Well, yeah what else do you expect?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:13 PM
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I don’t need Clear as day that I’m speaking for me and me only.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:12 PM
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So? I don’t need to be coddled by random strangers. And if it’s a lack of empathy from someone that I know personally, that’s an easy excuse to cut contact with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 03:41 PM
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The woman you married is the same woman who used to simp for a narcissistic man How are men so easily intimidated by other men? context
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:54 PM
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The woman you married is the same woman who used to simp for a narcissistic man That’s supposed to scare me? lol y’all are too soft
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:46 PM
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Learned about that in middle school.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:08 AM
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It’s interesting to observe the dynamics around physical cheating as a non monogamous man. People attach tons of emotions and rules to sex but to me sex is just sex. There’s couples that go through each others phones because their trust is so fragile and contingent upon extremely strict rules. I realized early as hell that life isn’t for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:00 AM
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Or just explain your point lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:48 PM
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Lol it’s always CNN. They need to bring back looney bins.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:10 PM
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Mhhhm. Yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:58 PM
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Man, I’d much rather date those “leftovers” than be stuck for a lifetime with someone that I hate being with because I committed in my 20s. Having never known what dating or sex with others is like out of fear of being alone in your 20s is nuts. Also, being careful about who you committed to is kind of inherently a part of being single in your 30s or having slept around. By that point you’ve could’ve easily committed to any one of the people you’ve fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:31 PM
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Only 28 and to each their own for sure but even with left on the market at 30, my dating life is still going to and will always be better than yours and others who think like this. Fear and anxiety has y’all in such a rush to pair up as fast as possible, committing to relationships with people who aren’t right for you because numbers like 30 is scary lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:16 PM
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Right because going “hey kids, gay people exist” is totally pushing sexual orientation into kids. Letting them know that others use different pronouns? The horrors of instilling empathy, respect and knowledge about the world they live in. I guess I thank god my parents whole identity revolved around sex, a sheltered upbringing would have me out here actually believing that your comment aligns with reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:10 PM
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Oh god, not his laptop 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:41 PM
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Live in probably the bluest city in America and yet I don’t know one person who’s whole identity is sex lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:40 PM
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That’s why it’s so unhinged.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:38 PM
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American conservatives are so unhinged and mentally unstable regarding sex. It’s like the greatest threat to salvation for them but yet they have the most unhealthy obsession with it. We got an entire political party so obsessed with the president son’s dick that they’re plastering his nudes during congressional hearings. That’s not normal behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 05:51 PM
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Appreciate the answer
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:46 PM
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Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:26 PM
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Q4m: What type of treatment do average men deserve? Few dates a week? Easy causal sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 01:54 PM
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By doing literally whatever you want. Wanna leave? Do it. Wanna take the fwb offer? Get yours. This stuff isn’t hard to navigate. Can be complicated when other factors like kids and marriage are involved but something less than 3 months? It’s hard to watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 06:25 PM
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Dating multiple people isn’t the problem. It’s people being doormats that don’t know how to react to incompatible behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 06:22 PM
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It’s truly that fucking easy lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 06:00 PM
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Is navigating dating seriously this difficult? How don’t you know what to think in a situation like that? It’s demoralizing watching other men be so helpless over situations that are extremely easy to solve.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 05:52 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 09:59 PM
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More so sex. We talked about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 09:53 PM
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That’s how it’s supposed to go. I came in with an open mind but yep. Lmao. All of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 09:51 PM
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Yeah class time certainly means that you don’t have time for the gym or jobs. Yet here I am, my beta self, fit as fuck, paid, navigating dating with 0 confusion. Poor me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 09:48 PM
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Sure but I learned a lot and have 0 problems on into adulthood, so.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 09:36 PM
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I got an A and learned a ton.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 08:41 PM
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Hate on “feminist” and “liberal arts” classes all you want but professors like this helped me immensely in college. If you’re a young man in college and not taking elective classes centered around dating, sex, and/or feminism, you’re doing yourself a disservice. All the help, answers, cheat codes, etc. you can’t find online and across the manosphere are being taught by actual accredited experts in university level courses. It requires engagement and doing the readings but it’s far more beneficia…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 08:15 PM
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Is there a problem with men overestimating their attractiveness? I feel like the way women treat you is a good indicator of where you stand. At worst, a man who’s truly average in looks is able to get attention from women in public. Whether it be smiles, glances, approached, whatever, even if sparingly. Too many men are claiming to be average then going on to claim that they’re practically invisible to women and that it’s women fault because of inflated egos etc. Ironically, men claiming to be a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 03:09 PM
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Game (rizz, whatever you want to call it) is easy as hell. It’s really nothing more than reading body language and rapidly playing on words. It’s a skill perfected by trial and error, not one learned from red pill influencers and r/seduction. And even when perfected, you’re still gonna get rejected but that’s just how dating goes so it should inherently be expected no matter how good you are at pulling. So work on your own methods and stop being victims to grifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:31 PM
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How to not be a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 10:24 PM
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Doesn’t bother me. If someone crosses the street to avoid me, whatever. That’s their prerogative and has nothing to do with me. There’s women that’ll come over to your apartment/house without ever having met you beforehand, why worry about something so minuscule as one crossing the street?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 10:08 PM
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If you don’t have options in your 20’s, you won’t magically get them in your 30’s. Drastic self-improvement across the board is necessary for that to happen. With the current state of men generally being so pathetic, few will be capable. So yeah it’ll happen but not for most guys, only the ones truly committed to being better.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:39 PM
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Terrible attempt.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 05:32 PM
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Girls really just want to have fun. They have 0 interest in sacrificing that part of themselves to meet your strict dating requirements and rules for the sake of dating you. That’s why so many men will continue to struggle while the ones who aren’t uptight won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:59 PM
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I’d be this way even if I didn’t have options.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 06:02 PM
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replace with her a hotter woman Why does it have to be that though? I’m entitled to do whatever I want regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:35 PM
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It’s a blessing to not be a Jonah Hill ass type of man lmao. Y’all are way too uptight about everything that women do. Seems stressful.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:02 PM
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Do the women that need to know their partners sex past have the same reasons as men who promote that this is imperative information? Or do their reasons generally vary? I think its invasive either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 02:11 PM
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The movements pushing girls to get married and have kids almost as soon as they graduate high school and their early 20s are setting them up for failure. That lifestyle leads to resentment later in life for those who it’s not meant for. It also usually results in them becoming single moms because typically what you have is two people committed to a lifestyle that forces them to get married and have kids before their brains are fully developed. Both partners get robbed of vital periods of young a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 02:59 PM
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Women aren’t hard to figure out. A lot of men are just too anxious and overthink everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 05:42 AM
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Men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:52 PM
1

You’re right.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:16 PM
1

Goddamn
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:15 PM
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I can’t believe that FDS was ever a thing, as if there’s not way better options than a bunch of right wing tradcons lmao. No true “high value man” (not a real thing) is revolving his personality and livlehoood around being seen as a suitable candidate to them. Like there’s women out here who require less and they all make better partners than anyone in the fds space.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:06 PM
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Being conservative sounds boring and miserable as fuck for a man. How do y’all here do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:55 PM
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nothing offensive Maybe. Maybe not. But asking sure does seem to often result in instant rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 04:20 PM
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😂 wtf? You couldn’t at least wait until y’all met and you’ve built a bit more rapport before asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 04:11 PM
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No man, there’s everything wrong with complaining about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 09:16 PM
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Sorry. Guess dating is too hard of a game for men to navigate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 09:05 PM
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Men want to be sexually attractive Duh. I wanted it too. Except I didn’t blame everybody else that I wasn’t and worked on myself extremely early. Most men have the same opportunity when they’re younger. Also, if women only see courtship or passenger princess in you, definitely your fault. Dating app bios have nothing to do with it, women who have “looking for something serious” make exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 09:04 PM
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Same difference
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 08:45 PM
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You can’t asses that for yourself? Theres no sneaky way when you can asses someone’s actions for yourself, you don’t need them to outright say they want exclusivity for you to know that’s the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 08:45 PM
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“I’m not looking for a relationship” and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 08:19 PM
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This tweet. Why are so many mad about being seen as boyfriend material? A woman wouldn’t want “courtship and princess treatment” from you if you didn’t present yourself that way. It’s your fault that women want that from you. And if someone is mistaken, it’s so easy to communicate “I’m not looking for a relationship” and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 07:50 PM
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Q4M: What’s so bad about how women choose who to date and fuck? Saw a comment here say something like “men are wising up to how disgusting and how hypocritical women choose sexual and romantic mates.” Does it really matter? Personally, I believe that people can without explanation do whatever they want when it comes to dating. People expect for dating to be perfectly sensible, logical, ethical and moral but realistically anything a person does outside of what’s expected doesn’t have to be explai…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 05:44 PM
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My parents love that I’m in my late 20s and single. They don’t want me to settle down before I’m ready and see a lot of themselves in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:35 PM
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Q4A: If you’re sexually experienced, what’s attractive about inexperience? Personally I equate inexperience with issues like not knowing what to do in the bedroom, insecurities that restrict someone from exploring and experimenting, and general ignorance to all things sex (health, education, etc.). I’m not claiming that’s the case for all inexperienced people but that’s definitely how I was so I find it really easy to identify those traits in other people and I’m not willing to deal with that. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 08:38 PM
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Except that it wouldn’t. Even if there’s no way to know what a manosphere man looks like, women are still able to know what a man they’re attracted to looks like. That man gets the benefit of having risk taken on him whether he’s manosphere or not. Turns out that he’s not, risk well taken. Turns out that he is, oh well bad risk, it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 05:38 PM
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we all already knew already Yeah man, bad faith questions have a pretty obvious tell. You already knew.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 05:22 PM
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I think it’s gonna continue to be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 05:15 PM
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I mean, yeah. If you think there’s specifics looks to what a manosphere man looks like as opposed to women judging on the fly, whether right or wrong, then idk what to tell you. Spend time people watching in public with them then I guess. But yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:42 PM
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Oh no, your point was obvious lol trust, it wants that clever of a write up. But it definitely highlighted exactly why I asked, so again thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:40 PM
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There’s nothing to answer. You think being right or wrong matters in their judgment of looks lmao. If they think a man looks like one, he’ll be one to them whether he’s one or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:39 PM
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Yeah, this confirms. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:20 PM
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I feel you, I have the same views on women. Through all the gender dysphoria I’ve been lucky enough to surround myself with the best and that’s why’ll you’ll never see me complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:15 PM
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😂 comparatively to who?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:12 PM
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It was never implied that men susceptible to the red pill grift have satisfying dating or sex lives. My comment is clearly contextualized between men who are satisfied and men who aren’t. By conflating the two to be one, “men are having fully satisfying romantic and sex lives, then they hear the RP grifter” you’ve made a way for base assumptive hypothetical, prompting my confusion as to what you’re even talking about. I mean, it was a pretty straightforward question.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:12 PM
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Do you really have to be told that women will unapologetically assume any unpleasant looking man holds ill will towards women no matter what he looks like? Bad question lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:03 PM
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Good point. Lol thank you for answering directly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:42 PM
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Your assumption telling me how I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:41 PM
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Boy they can see that shit from miles away. And it’s not like men who consume manosphere content are shy about sharing that part of themselves socially. It even makes up a lot of their identities honestly. But even if they couldn’t detect, they’d just judge based on how a man looks (which is fine, I’m guilty of doing it to them) whether right or wrong willing to error on the side of being wrong rather than possibly give a man like that a chance. You never heard how women talk about random men?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:38 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:34 PM
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Q4A: Are men too far gone? Because of the manosphere, I don’t see dating and sex ever getting better for disgruntled and struggling men. Now that it’s common knowledge how prominent manosphere beliefs are, it’s not likely that women are ever gonna relent and give those guys a chance. They let far right ideology, Andrew Tate and Kevin Samuels and “alpha males” grift them right out of a normal dating life, all hyped up on movie’s plot device (red pill). Other men will be fine though. There’s too m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:25 PM
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Honestly, I have no real interest in discussing this for real. I didn’t read much of your first post because it was a lot so I’m not even sure what you’re asking. The point is that women like the one in this post are bottom tier. If that’s what men are jealous at other men for having, then be my guest I guess but everyone should have high standards. As to what makes women valuable, that’s something you can figure out yourself. There is no “men’s eyes”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:12 PM
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Look at who’s she’s marrying and making a conscious choice to support. That’s why she’s bottom of the barrel. You don’t want to be with a woman like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 04:28 PM
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at least he has a woman. Want better for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 12:49 PM
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It doesn’t matter how she looks, she’s an awful person. Want better for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 12:48 PM
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I’m a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 12:48 PM
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When you guys make these type of arguments you fail to realize that being with a woman like that is no prize. It’s like y’all are desperate for bottom of the barrel women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 10:04 PM
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Anyone needing this advice is too incompetent to be dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:17 PM
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Because you don’t take yourself too serious and that’s a good thing. I’ve been there before.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:04 PM
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Lol no, just not sure what you’re on about. I make more than you. Have higher degrees than you. Have a better understanding on broader social and economic issues than you. Surely you can understand my confusion on your shoehorning. Aww respond then block :( Don’t be such a pussy Vapelord420
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:03 PM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:53 PM
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Should be able to but still can’t. That’s even worse. that’s black pill. Also, no. It’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:25 PM
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Expect to but can’t. So then it becomes everybody else’s fault that they can’t get ass. That’s what’s really getting more pathetic by the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:02 PM
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your toxic attitude is what helps to cause violence against women. Lmao what are you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 08:12 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 08:06 PM
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For men and women who have similar political views, forming a bond with a mate is simplified. Conservatism has made dating and sex extremely easy for progressive/liberal men. ​ far more single conservative men than conservative single women now exist, as well as far more single liberal women than single liberal men. Single conservative men are perpetually single with few likeminded options, an issue that single liberal men don't appear to face. So even if you are a single liberal man, you have w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 05:44 PM
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Don’t forget stunning.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 08:19 PM
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Worth being tough on crime in this context.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:56 PM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:51 PM
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Happy and committed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:49 PM
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Well I’m not a woman so, no. But I have dated enough to know that it’s not. A girl isn’t gonna just leave you because there’s a stranger that’s more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:31 PM
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No? That’s now how dating works.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:18 PM
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That don’t mean anything. Married people cheat all the time, so you can still be married and uncommitted.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:16 PM
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Can’t judge her happiness but it doesn’t sound like she was all that committed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 06:41 PM
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Where have you witnessed committed women who are happy in their relationships leaving said commitment simply because an attractive man showed interest?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 06:24 PM
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Yeah, that’s what accountability would look like. If you signed up for that lifestyle and aren’t able to maintain it anymore, that’s your fault and whoever relied on that promise should leave you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 06:07 PM
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Ok lol, that’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 06:05 PM
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Lol where does this fantasy that a rich and handsome man can swoon any woman out of commitment come from? No woman that’s happy and committed in her relationship is gonna magically fall for another guy just because he’s attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 05:32 PM
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Changed it because I don’t practice law in my current role so it’s kinda pointless to refer to myself as that. But I do have a license to practice. I was stringing you along because I’m insanely egotistical and never miss a chance to talk my shit. Hope that clears things up boyo.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 05:28 PM
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Lmao, I’m kidding man. I’m licensed. Come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 05:20 PM
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What’s there to make sense of it’s just a simple opinion, one where I think you’re attracted to unattractive plane janes. I already said aside from the overweight thing, so no. I’m calling slim/women that you’d probably be into unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 05:19 PM
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Naw, none. 0.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 05:10 PM
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I think subjects have a single focus when whoever is making the point frames it that way. If a persons making a point about casual sex, it’s already implied that men who don’t participate aren’t a focus.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 05:07 PM
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Well yeah you’re right, obviously I don’t know you. But I can always tell when a man is into unattractive ass women based on their listed preferences. Not a woman by the way lol which is why I can tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 05:04 PM
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Naw, I don’t know anything about law.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 05:01 PM
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Lol PurplishPossum? No I’m not him but I never see legal ignorance from him that’s so common in people who ever went to law school, so.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 04:47 PM
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The focus needs to move away from “most men” when discussing dating. They center every topic around themselves but it’s pointless for the focus to be on a portion of men who basically aren’t participating. For example, if the topic centers around things that men are capable of, it doesn’t make sense to focus on men who aren’t capable. There’s no need to respond to points saying things like “that’s not true for most men.” It invalidates the realities of other men. And with “most” being relative i…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 04:45 PM
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Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 04:21 PM
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Lol, then you don’t really have an idea of how the law works then.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 04:07 PM
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Could there not possibly be an element of fraud on that? I think a case of misleading several women into pregnancy, especially within a short time frame, could fall under the fraud umbrella. Idk, maybe y’all not out here lying to women but I can definitely see myself in a situation of lying by omissions along with some accidents, so I see where the argument could be made.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 04:03 PM
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Lol, are you sure she is? I mean, you can extend that benefit of doubt to someone associated with tea party usa but I’m not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 03:54 PM
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I’ve seen the inside of the one for my city. There’s 3 million+ people here. 2-5 women can have dated or fucked 1 of the same guy. Factor in that there’s tons of that 1 guy and what you have is tons of different men dating and fucking multiple women who happen to might no each other. So, what you have is not women going for the same top% of men. It’s actually just women going for different men who among who they find attractive. Simply put, women don’t go for the same top%, they go for variety a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 03:46 PM
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People who don’t want kids clearly don’t so it’s a pretty pointless insult to throw at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 03:30 PM
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Lol I mean, every thing you list besides being overweight and based on your replies are an indicator of the type of women that you’re into and those types aren’t attractive, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 03:29 PM
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Y’all are into nuns with 0 sex appeal 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 03:04 PM
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B
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 02:56 PM
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Noticing that people are starting to be real nasty towards childless couples and single people who don’t want kids. Tweet 1 Tweet 2 Tweet 1 gets me the most because nobody gives a fuck about that wannabe Viking/medieval times ass rhetoric lmao. But even aside from that, the fear tactics of being alone with no family in your 40s and 50s doesn’t really work either. People really underestimate the extent of immediate and extended families. Like, if I never get married or have kids, Im not gonna be …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 02:49 PM
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Lol ok champ. You got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 11:46 PM
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I don't have an opinion. This is not a gotcha or anything. I mean, if you're trying to catch me up in my bias against the other religion, I can tell you directly that I have a bias against the other religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 07:01 PM
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Point: Red pill men are pretentious about sex because they're insecure. You: "Nothing is more entertaining than watching men tell other men that the "ranking" of men is based on their N count" I don't make it about my own ego definitely relates to the point To a different point maybe but ego, ranking etc. is not what I'm talking about here, so.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 06:58 PM
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If it looks like a duck, it's a duck. I'm not gonna say christians don't hate gay people because of the fact that there's a lot that don't. There's a lot that do hate them under the belief that that hate is inherently a creed of the religion, so I attribute being christian to the hate. Being a christian and not hating gay people doesn't absolve one from being associated with the negatives attached to their religion. Saying this as someone who's family is christian.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 06:39 PM
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Agree 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 06:24 PM
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No, its definitely you. What are you even saying? Your sex life literally has literally no relevance to anything here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 06:18 PM
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I'm sorry but every attempts to disassociate manosphere from the extremely negative sides of itself is so tired. If that just sounds like an insecure guy talking to you, then sure I guess but that post aligns with red pill ideology. I do attribute being christian to hating gay people so it's kinda like the exact opposite to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 06:14 PM
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Well, if that’s your takeaway I won’t tell you any different but you’re so far off base here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 06:06 PM
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wouldn’t say it if I didn’t see it. You can give the benefit of the doubt that it’s just an insecure man, but to me based on the context, it aligns with several manosphere ideals. So niche or not, it’s manosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 05:56 PM
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Manosphere men think they’re the chads or have the potential to be Chad then expose themselves by promoting ideas like cheating on your girlfriend to catch up to her body count. You’re not “top 20%” if you have to play catch up after commitment, you would’ve already been there with nothing to be insecure about.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 05:42 PM
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Do you really need to be told that overcompensating out of spite is a bad thing? But that’s beside what I’m saying, my point specifically to you is that is that this insecurity is evident of a dissatisfied sex life. It’s not “based” to play catch up with your girlfriend because you haven’t had sex with enough women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 04:33 PM
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Lol, calling me a female. This how I know you don't get pussy for real. It's absolutely is revenge, in the most illogical way too. go bang other women behind her back and never let her know. Keep doing this till you can get over the fact. He's advising that men do this shes been with a lot of others in the past Because of this. And if she ever does find out and asks why, just tell her you wanted to have same experience and don't wanna feel like you're some guy she settled on or just use the same…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 04:08 PM
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Why do you feel like you have to get revenge?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 03:24 PM
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I think you guys just have a habit of turning to the extremes to get points across. I can disagree on discrimination without having to turn it into to certain cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 04:29 PM
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We’re not talking about that though. We’re talking about dating grievances.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 04:08 PM
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Anything else in this context being constant complaining about the dating plights of average men. Harsh reality is yes, no one really wants to hear about that shit all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 04:07 PM
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Can’t relate.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 04:01 PM
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You don’t have to lie but at the same time I disagree that you’re experiencing discrimination so it’s kind of like it’ll automatically be seen woe is me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 04:01 PM
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Not necessarily. You don’t have to bottle anything up when you recognize that there’s a time and a place. I mean, I have few grievances but the ones that I do, you’ll never see me expressing them publicly because it’s not helpful to scream into the void.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 03:59 PM
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Not gonna lie, you’re right as hell because using discrimination here definitely made me see woe is me immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 03:52 PM
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Sure we are. Just don’t be surprised that it turns off a lot of women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 03:50 PM
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The woe is me attitude gotta be what’s currently turning women off from average men the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 03:32 PM
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I remember him being sort of popular when I was in middle school.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 02:19 AM
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Did not expect to see that name wow lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 10:49 PM
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Yeah any girl that age should clearly be made aware of the risk they’re taking.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 10:48 PM
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I get more grossed out by age gaps the older I get. Being 28 now, I connect with 21-23 year olds and aside from being on 2 different wavelengths of adulthood, I see men my age and older wanting relationships with young women as robbing them of their 20s. I believe that if an older man genuinely had romantic feelings for a woman that young, he’d defer dating her until she gained a bit more experience in the world as an adult, allowing her to learn and understand herself as an individual outside o…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 10:14 PM
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Everyone enjoys sex. But for me at least there’s an incompatibility with it that I just can’t work with. It’s usually an indicator of a difference in lifestyles and views.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:55 PM
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Agreed. They create their own problems. And then you factor in that they’re delusional and so detached from reality that they believe they’re gonna find a partner who’s amazing at sex despite having had no experience but yet fucks them on the first date. Red pill basically consists of men who’ve bought into the Disney happily ever after trope.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:33 PM
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Everybody wants to be validated, it’s normal. Generally speaking, I have a good life and validation from women still feels good. So yeah its reasonable for men with good careers and hobbies to still care about validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:41 PM
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Most of my friends that are women have boyfriends. I hang out with them with or without their boyfriends. I wish men would stop this every man is a loser shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:07 PM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 08:23 PM
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Still not most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 08:19 PM
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Oh, true I thought you meant without paying because they only give you like 6 likes per day. That’s still a lot for a month though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 08:18 PM
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Jesus, how many women do you swipe on a day?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 08:09 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 08:06 PM
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I don’t avoid dating? I date more than anybody. Not saying it to brag but like, I enjoy an easy and stress free dating life because of my ex. I know that everyone woman isn’t like her. But every woman that’s like her might be a replica of her and learning that they’re what I need to avoid at an early age is what helps make this easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 07:25 PM
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Yup. I’m aware that I’m extremely biased. Mine just happens to typically fall on a bias against ideals that men push. Recognizing that you’re not traditional at an early age and being a teen and young adult that’s into shit like weed and going to strip clubs (when older) will do that to you when you spend so much time with someone who tries to convince you that you’re flawed over things.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 07:05 PM
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Nope, It’s help shape me into the exact type of person I want to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 07:02 PM
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Naw, I allow myself to acknowledge bad emotions. There will always be animosity between us. But you live and you learn, that doesn’t mean I haven’t moved on. You guys have no idea how astonishingly easy a break up is for me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:57 PM
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Change my ways for what? I’m doing perfectly fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:51 PM
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No, it’s absolutely toxic to try to manipulate someone that doesn’t want to be with you anymore into staying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:48 PM
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Will literally freeze hell. There’s for sure toxicity present.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:37 PM
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No it doesn’t. Allow me to clarify. While having a woman cry over you is not necessary to prove that you’re lovable, men who push the idea that you’re inherently unlovable has never known what it’s like for a woman to cry over them. Hope that helps champ.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:36 PM
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Admittedly my beliefs have on dating and gender dynamics are rooted in bitterness projected towards my first girlfriend. Being who I’ve always been and spending so much of my teen and young adult years with a traditional girlfriend really turned me away from anything even slightly adjacent with that side. It’s why I passionately hate things like red pill and fds.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:35 PM
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Isn’t that already implied? We don’t need to center everything around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:22 PM
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Yeah this clearly isn’t a real story lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:10 PM
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No. Men who women will never love want you to be as miserable as them so they try to get you to believe that. If a woman genuinely loves you, she’ll fight tooth and nail to make things work with you. All this other shit is just pushed by men who never had a woman cry over them. They have no idea what it’s actually like.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:06 PM
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It’s not, but conservatives are contributing and I hate conservatism so it’s what I wanted to talk about here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:39 PM
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It’s because they don’t know a world outside of their echo chamber small ass towns bro. They’re dumb enough to believe that any person is walking a perfect line of salvation simply because they say so. Meanwhile people like trump partake in some of the most debaucherous (not a word) shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:33 PM
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Lmao. Such a good point that I’ve never realized.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:30 PM
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So much overlap. Two dumbass groups of people constantly terrorizing society. And if I’m not mistaken, I think they share the same sky god but with different interpretations of who his prophet is. Making their beef even more silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:29 PM
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Conservatives. That’s why I said I hate conservatism.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:26 PM
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And now they want Reddit to ban nsfw subreddits and Clifford the Big Red Dog. I genuinely hate conservatism. All of their issues are framed around a battle for salvation headed by omniscient being who resides in the sky with his magician son as they team up to defend the world from the evil fairy who rules the fiery underworld. And so because of that they feel it’s their duty to dictate our dating sex lives while sexualizing everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:14 PM
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Yup. That would be what accountability looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 04:49 PM
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Hm. I actually see what you mean. I met a Republican girl once and by the time I saw her again a few months later, she had completely changed. I kinda felt weird about it though so that was the end of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 04:37 PM
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So you turned someone conservative?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 04:05 PM
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I’m probably gonna catch a “be civil” for this but to me that person is no different than manosphere men here. I refuse to interact with their disingenuous incapability of basic understanding. They both blatantly ignore topics at hand to purposely misinterpret everything to turn the topic into points they want to make then cry afoul when you don’t engage with their obvious bullshit lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 03:53 PM
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Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 03:11 PM
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It’s been awhile since I last played I’d have to check. Seriously a good game though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 07:59 PM
2

Yup. I’ve been playing on and off since college.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 07:49 PM
2

I see sex as really just that. I can have it or desire to have it with someone that I don't know without emotional safety and a connection. My sexual attraction to someone would grow however, if safety and connection were present.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 07:00 PM
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So incredibly fucking stupid man lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 03:10 PM
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Absolutely. That would be my kid. Unconditional support barring extreme circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 03:00 PM
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I think you’re right.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 02:55 PM
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True, can’t forget they’re delusional about replacement.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 02:54 PM
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That’s what I don’t get. The voters have to know that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 02:51 PM
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Great take.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 02:50 PM
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😂 huge emphasis on the last part
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 02:38 PM
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I agree on all that. I guess I’m speaking from the pov of their voters. Their bases is pushing for the bans while simultaneously watching porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 02:38 PM
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True. It’s so weird though because so many of them watch porn lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 02:34 PM
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What’s up with conservatives push to ban porn? Not supposed to have sex. Can’t get an abortion. Can’t watch porn. Why are these people so dead set on us living this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 02:28 PM
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Yup, naturally progressing is the way to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 01:34 PM
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You’re exactly what I’m talking about in my first comment. That might be how women treat you and men you know but not every man has a pathetic dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 03:00 AM
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You literally know nothing to even assume that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 02:23 AM
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Dating is too serious of a commitment to reluctantly give someone a chance. Life ain’t a romcom and that other person deserves someone that’s actually into them. Reluctantly giving someone a chance in hopes that things might change? That’s crazy and placing the burden of that other persons loneliness is nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 02:23 AM
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Thank you. Your inflated standards cause their loneliness Their loneliness does not outweigh my preferences. Rejecting a great person because they're not perfect is stupid and hurts you I think you're romanticizing the idea of rejecting a great person. By your implication, I'm missing out on something/being hurt. But I'm not, because I'm not missing out on anything by not dating someone that I don't want to be with. It doesn't hurt me to remain single over giving someone a chance. I'm not lookin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 01:58 AM
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I don’t care about that, I want to know why your point is that me choosing to be alone would affect someone else loneliness as if it’s my burden. Yes I know people can have inflated standard. Some people might accuse mine of being inflated, that’s why I’m asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 01:35 AM
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No there is no “what if”, I’m not into her, so please help me understand why I should care? Your point is that if my preference is ridiculous, me and someone else are alone for no good reason but that doesn’t make any sense because her not being my type is good enough reason to be alone. I don’t care if that makes her alone, but according to your point, her being alone is my burden. Absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 01:14 AM
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What? Who cares? If I’m one of those 5 guys and 4 girls are taken and I’m not into the 1 that’s left for me and she’s left alone, that’s not my fault. That person being alone isn’t on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 01:03 AM
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No clue honestly. I chalk it up to baseless hate. People always need to make themselves feel better at the expense of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 07:49 PM
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As expected lol. Gotta defer to that she's not attracted to him. Even though he's an attractive man who's never struggled with dating for as long as I've known him since we were kids. Misery loving company so much is why I think that no one hates men more than other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 07:47 PM
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Nope, she is as are most women. He's attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 07:40 PM
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You guy's are so disconnected from nuance that you only see the world through such a miserable lens man. This is sad. On the path to a dead bedroom. Based on what evidence that exclusive to either person? They’re both settling. Said with 0 inclination to either person's dating life. If she's settling (she's not), I'm glad she's doing it with someone who a majority of men don't come close to touching. She’s not all that attracted to him Yeah she is. so she doesn’t get pumped n dumped. Wouldn't of…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 07:37 PM
3

Same 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 07:21 PM
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One of my best friend has been dating someone who’s been making him “wait” and recently he told me that they finally had sex. It really drove home how stupid of an idea it is that your value to a person can only be measured by arbitrary circumstances. Based on them not having sex immediately, people would have my friend believe that the person he’s dating isn’t attracted to him or as attracted to him as to men in her past because he didn’t receive the same “equal treatment.” But in reality what …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 06:39 PM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 05:03 PM
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It’s something I’m offended by. My mother was one before she met my dad. My dad is my sister’s stepdad. They have an extremely successful and lasting marriage. They have successful kids, they got grandkids. Lol like I take it personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 04:58 PM
2

Then don’t date a single mom. It’s really simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 04:56 PM
2

To a another mediocre season 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 04:55 PM
2

“False hope” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 04:12 PM
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I’m glad Russell Wilson is helping de-stigmatize being a stepdad. A lot of men need to let go of the complex where they’re offended by single moms and stop taking their existence so personal. There’s no need to constantly shame women for someone else being a deadbeat father. There’s no need to try to make men who date single mothers feel less than because they share a connection with someone who’s a dealbreaker for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 03:37 PM
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Oh. No, that was actually one of my lasting thoughts about you because you said that you need women to know about this, I wasn’t deflecting. I was leaving the conversation at that and wasn’t gonna respond to you anymore but then you were wrong about debate. You not being able to convince me that you’re right isn’t me deflecting. You provided evidence, but I’m not saying that women aren’t saying these things. We both agree on the same premise that there’s privilege, we disagree on whether women a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 10:41 PM
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You have a point. I come from the opposite of traditional so I really can’t fathom being that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 09:56 PM
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Never deflected from my topic. I’m not sure what you’re trying to even say here so I’ll just leave it at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 09:53 PM
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No, debate is about providing strong coherent arguments in the matter of opinion. Proving things right is for arguing. You can provide a strong argument, be right, and still not sway a person’s opinion, it’s still debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 09:35 PM
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You care too much man. Just be secure in your opinion without the need to feel right. You’re only searching for validation yourself by trying to get others to see things the way you do. No one cares if other women are aware or not that others are lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 09:20 PM
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I mean, you can but you’d be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 09:19 PM
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2 random women don’t dispel reality for me, I’m sorry. Replies that you get implying otherwise aren’t indicative of what we can conclude by our everyday experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 08:31 PM
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Lol no one is gaslighting you then, everyone already knows it’s privilege in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 08:03 PM
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That doesn’t change that validation from men they don’t want sex with means nothing to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 07:47 PM
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I live in a city with 3 million+ people. I see several different types of people of all ages literally every single day lmao. It’s so dumb to center points around such black and white arguments. You can’t tell me that I don’t see what I see, simply because you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 07:28 PM
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Wanting more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 07:24 PM
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That man is most likely happy and exactly where he wants to be. Stop projecting your grievances onto him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 07:19 PM
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Attention and validation from men they want it from, sure that’s definitely a privilege. Can’t see how it’s one when it the attention overwhelmingly comes from men that they don’t want to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 06:02 PM
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The misconception that women will always want more than causal is so strange. When 2 people start fucking, realistically intent is communicated extremely early on. If a man say that he doesn’t want a relationship, women don’t typically take that to mean that she can convince him otherwise through sex and hopes that a relationship eventually happens. She wants sex just as much as he does and is willing to sacrifice the promise of commitment in exchange to fuck him. Sure they might be sad when the…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 05:00 PM
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Yeah, this is what I always assumed it’s like for women to date conservative men. This is why I never feed into the whole “alpha” male, traditional family values schtick that pushes the idea that they all meet that criteria and any man that doesn’t align with that is a beta simp cuck. It’s like getting made fun of for being a great father by Chris Benoit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 09:27 PM
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It’s never gonna happen. I don’t feel like people who are mentally still in high school well into adulthood ever outgrow it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 08:45 PM
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When I saw a married man hide that and lie to my sister about his age, I instantly knew.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 08:45 PM
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Oh it used to exists, it used to be used around 2014 to mean being aware of systemic grievances. Nowadays it’s just a buzzword attached to anything. ESPN will post a story about women’s basketball, people like Clay Travis will call them work for it, and people who’s brain cells can’t decipher simple logic then cry about it. It doesn’t mean anything. Like, they’re calling Fox News woke now lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 05:06 PM
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Interesting takeaway. Hookups are for sure a gamble.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:59 PM
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Answer the question within the scope please.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:49 PM
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“Relationship sex or casual sex?” Women. Lol c’mon bro. I’m not asking about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:48 PM
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No lies here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:47 PM
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Good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:46 PM
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Bruh, there’s only 2 options to choose from lmao. I respect that you have another opinion but is it relationship or casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:44 PM
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Agree but I’m only curious between the 2 listed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:33 PM
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What’s contributing to the orgasm gap more? Relationship sex or casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:29 PM
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Calm down Bill Cosby. Music of all kind influences in a variety of ways. Dating is not a shit show for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 10:27 PM
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Nah, respectfully you kinda seem like a simp. A not fat woman will have dating on super easy mode, a guaranteed upper middle class lifestyle and guaranteed, quality male validation and attention and will much healthier and be guaranteed to be attractive as a woman Fantasizing this type of pedestal is nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 09:51 PM
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What world do you live in?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 09:22 PM
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You don’t personally know any woman who’s fucked 400 men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 08:49 PM
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This is what I don’t get. Great point. A person has be insanely delusional think their beta this beta that beliefs actually matter more than the kid having a father figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 08:40 PM
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Scapegoating fat women to dodge accountability is crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 08:20 PM
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Give it a rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 08:17 PM
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I respect the fuck out of them. But I personally can’t generalize whether someone’s content with being fat or not. I know that they’re are people who are content with it, you don’t gotta live in the south to see that but I think they’re deserving of grace, especially on a case by case basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 08:16 PM
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More power to you man, they want to take that away from you and to that I say fuck them too. They’re encroaching on your freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 08:11 PM
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Shit, I’ve known women to have had their first younger than 21. You’re right as fuck. Those women had to grow up quick, they never had the chance to live the party, hoe, etc. life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 08:05 PM
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Ehh, how easy it is to be fat doesn’t really matter to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 08:02 PM
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I think people are too harsh on fat people. Not nearly enough people have an understanding of obesity or are even healthy themselves to punch down on fat people the way that so many do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 07:48 PM
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Somewhere across all red states, there’s tons of men who secretly agree with you but no one can know so they have to publicly repress themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:12 PM
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Nope. Not bothered by anything just in the opinion that coffee date culture is dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 05:40 PM
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Then you gotta accept that you just might not get an answer. I don’t really go on dinner dates either but they aren’t often used as a date to screen somebody to see whether they’re worth a more extravagant one in the same vain that coffee dates are. So a real date here might mean any date that’s not a screener for somebody to convince you that they’re worth a better date.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 05:30 PM
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How specific do you need me to be? I’m not sure I can be more clear that anything that’s not a coffee date could be fair game here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 05:06 PM
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I think it’s normal to stay connected but I’d genuinely rather sweep a beach than chat with them occasionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:56 PM
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I mean, unless I’m missing something, I don’t think that you anything to worry about. People have been telling you this on your rateme post.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:43 PM
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I don’t think it necessarily matters what I think, everybody’s different so different things work for different people, there’s no universal answer to how these things are supposed to go. I can’t tell people what’s supposed to happen on their first dates lol, I’m only making commentary on my opinion about things. What’s supposed to happen on mine are 2 people having a good time regardless of what comes next. I can’t do that on an interview.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:39 PM
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Lol for sure, the easy way is often the most convenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:30 PM
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Lmao no? Literally nothing happened. I just thought they were extremely boring dates. I’m still somewhat cool with the 1st date but from a distance because she has a girlfriend. Never connected with the 2nd one again and that was just the end of it. I respect your opinion and don’t think you’re wrong for it, but I’m genuinely grateful to connect with women who do those things differently than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:27 PM
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Gotta ask the people who use screener dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:22 PM
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Anything that’s not an interview. I’m only using real date here because it’s been what I’ve seen people refer to when they talk about what comes after the initial coffee meet up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:20 PM
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Naw nothings ever happened. I only ever been on like 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:19 PM
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Sounds dreadful.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:18 PM
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I guess. Never had to leave one but I’d definitely dip on someone over food.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:17 PM
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I’m not trying to be dismissive but I just looked at your post history and I think you might be obsessing a bit over this with little reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:16 PM
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Lol I don’t believe that you’re naive enough to actually believe that men wouldn’t give a bunch of save face answers to that question.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 03:37 PM
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Men will completely ignore an unattractive woman’s face if she has a great body. I think it’s up to her whether she wants to only been seen attractive that way, but yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 03:17 PM
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Lmao. I drink it to survive mornings not for fun 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 03:14 PM
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Coffee date culture needs to die. It’s a cop out date pushed by people who are too afraid of risks. You don’t need what’s essentially a pre-date to get a feel for whether there’s something there to qualify someone for a real date. That’s what the first date is for and from that, you judge whether there should be a second one. You don’t force someone into a boring interview to prove to you that they’re worthy of a real date. It’s a real shame that so many have been frightened into believing that …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 03:09 PM
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Shit, maybe. Grabbing drinks, a popular first date, is my go to and typically it’s to a neighborhood bar that regularly go to. I can see why tons of people would think that’s boring. But I can’t recount ever having a bad first date. A bunch that never led to a 2nd one, but never a bad one. We can both find what works for the other boring but being unfamiliar with it doesn’t make it odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:25 AM
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Because anything out of the boring ordinary is odd. I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:08 AM
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It’s really not weird, coffee dates are popular among a particular group of people and like you say we have different goals with first dates so it shouldn’t be hard to imagine that there’s also a lot of men that aren’t into them. I personally don’t know anyone who actually goes on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 03:55 AM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 12:34 AM
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Where is it taking place?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 11:11 PM
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I wouldn’t recommend anything. I can’t offer any advice, especially to people that I don’t know personally, outside of my own observations. I recognize that confidence and high self esteem are a necessity but you’re mistaken if you think that I care about helping people get there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 11:10 PM
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Single forever. Anybody saying otherwise better read r/deadbedrooms. You don’t want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 10:29 PM
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Depends on the person. Personally, I got validated by adults a lot as kid and teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 10:27 PM
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Not really weird. Did it once or twice and realized they’re boring to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 10:27 PM
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Depends on how you define success. If success to you means validation from other people, then yeah you’ll have to succeed at dating to build self esteem. But if success is measured by who you are as an individual, you’ll find success in across numerous areas about yourself. Like if you’re into working out and notice gains, that’s success, confidence will come from that. If you’re into your career and benefit from promotions etc., that’s success, self-esteem will come from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 09:32 PM
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Yep, you're not lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 08:21 PM
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Works out regularly Puts effort into his fashion and grooming Has a steady job Has hobbies and passions outside of work Is dealing with or has dealt with his psychological baggage I agree but also believe that these are all things that should be going on, dating be damned.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 08:19 PM
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Again, why dont you just say that? Your inability to frame context isn't my concern man lol. You ask, I confirm, means I did "just say that". That thing you do where you reply to people on this sub broadly outside of the scope of their topic to either guise your misunderstanding or steer the conversation towards something that you want to talk about is the real waste of time and doesn't work on me no different than when one of the aggrieved young men here do the same. So yeah, you and I don't re…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 08:18 PM
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If you say so then too I guess. People don’t need to strategize for basic human interaction imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:56 PM
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Assume it. This isn’t about about those who are lacking more.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:52 PM
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The only thing that’s gonna help men in modern dating is confidence and high self esteem. Looking for advice and strategies is a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:41 PM
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It’s just harsh to me. 5 people is barely, if any experience at imo so it’s shocking that people quantify it as high.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:55 PM
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5? Jesus y’all are harsh.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:26 PM
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“My body count is too high” then lists 11 people lmao boy what the fuck? Sex with 11 people is a “too high” body count?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:29 PM
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Agree. If nobody wants you at your best, it means that your best isn’t very good.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:59 PM
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Casual dating > Looking for a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:36 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:52 PM
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I thought you were asking has anyone here ever beat up Triple H.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:28 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 01:57 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 01:57 PM
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“Your mom” in 2023.. lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 11:10 PM
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😂 you couldn’t pull any of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:52 PM
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Next time, specify more so less is left to interpretation. No, you should be more than capable of using context clues as laid out in my last comment. Your failure or refusal to do so isn't a reflection on me. Every post on this sub is left to interpretation. I see you content here a lot. You make people's topic about what you want to discuss and then pretend your lack of interpretation is the other person's fault when words are so plainly laid out no different than the young boys here who strugg…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:22 PM
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Nope. Got a rule about not fucking my friends. Slipped up for the first time last summer, it complicated and ended about 14 years of friendship. As somebody who learns from my mistakes, I have the discipline to not do it again, especially since any other friendship, new or old, won't resemble the one that ended.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:06 PM
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I'm not gonna give an in depth "it depends" answer to each yes or no question and go into detail as to why when it's clear where I generally stand. You don't need me to break it down for you any more than that for an understanding. Take any "So what about this type of woman?" question and assume that the answer is yes, while understanding that nuance exists and can be applied situationally. “well just read my mind and you’ll get the answer” Nope, not saying this either. Saying make your own exce…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:03 PM
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My point is that women, like FDS subscribers, who aren't like the woman in the comment I linked, are pathetic. This is the answer to your questions. Lol I can't make it any more clearer where I stand on women who are even the slightest bit of adjacent to OP's topic, you can draw your own exceptions. There aren't any other hypotheticals to bring into the equation. ​ The woman you linked literally acknowledged she’d be sad if she got ghosted after sex, so that can’t be what makes her a real woman.…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 09:28 PM
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when very much so real women don’t want to have sex with someone then get dropped A real woman. Your immediate response to discredit anything RP is causing you to ignore very real situations applying to very real people , I’d say most women who have a dating history. It’s a very real fear and possibility to become intimate with someone and have them stop talking to you You're mistaken, I'm not ignoring very real situations, I know they apply to very real people. My point is that women, like FDS …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 08:51 PM
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The pendulum has swung too far for you Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 08:33 PM
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Unattractive, traditional, and being shorter than 5’6-5’7.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 08:09 PM
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Incompatibilities. Someone being too formal. Them suggesting we do something that isn’t fun to me like a coffee date. No spark on the first date. I’m not attracted to them. They say something offensive. I got a few more but off the top of my head all of those are things that make me not accept a first date or not want a second one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:57 PM
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Thursday 2 weeks ago. We grabbed drinks. Can’t remember who asked but I typically do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:14 PM
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Y’all gotta realize that there’s no real answer to this stuff. I have women friends and I’m not trying to get with them. There are men with women friends who are desperate to get with them. It can literally go either way, you can’t say whether they all are or aren’t. If you connect with a woman and want an answer, get to know her and find out for yourself and don’t rely on generalizations.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:01 PM
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Lmao. As a teen I was like “I’ll never smoke” “I don’t need weed”. Now, I smoke every fucking day.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 06:03 PM
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Lol you just aren’t good at backing people into corners as you think you are. Gg.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 06:00 PM
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I mean, this is pretty straightforward for anyone who’s capable of critical thought but I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 05:57 PM
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from what people have said thus far It's your argument though and you haven't said anything. there isn't any negative from the 90 day rule I disagree, it's inherently negative for reasons stated above.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 05:53 PM
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So you think STDs dont affect people? Accidental pregnancies? Going to the OBGYN because the guy scratched her vagina up? Strawmen make terrible arguments. You know that when I say Real women however, are unaffected by men from their past That I'm not speaking in the context of STD's, pregnancies, and injuries, evidenced by They don’t allow someone to have so much power over them that their world revolves around commitment from that person. So from that you should be able to imply that my point …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 05:49 PM
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This isn't about who you know vs who I know and it was never framed that way, except by you Well yeah, fucking duh I framed the context, its my point lmao. Everything is about who you and I know because our viewpoints are shaped by our personal experiences, not generalizations. My first comment is literally about people I know, so it is 100% about that. Do you believe most women, in general, are unaffected by the past men in their lives? I've already answered yes. Speaking in general terms means…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 05:36 PM
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Never said that either. But if most women that you know meet this, But to me, those that aren’t real are pathetic. They usually fall under catch all terms like pick me, tradcon, etc. Then yes, to me, most women that you know are pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 05:15 PM
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Never said that. That’s your experience with them, I can’t really relate. Most/all that I've connected with, yes. They're my type and who I strictly surround myself with. Most that you've experienced, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 05:10 PM
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Was she expecting commitment No.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 05:07 PM
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People that you've had one night stands with affect your existence as an individual? Like you'd see someone that you hooked up with once or twice in public with their SO and genuinely be affected/sad by it because it's not you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 05:06 PM
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No, I'm just not feeding into someone attaching themselves to my point while simultaneously admitting that they don't fit the main variable. assuming that everyone wants “healthy sexual relationships”. Some people just want to use others and it’s a genuine issue. To dismiss it as “a non-adult” issue isn’t right. No, I'm not assuming that everyone wants a healthy relationship with sex but yes, I am referring to people who do as "real adults" in the context of my comment. I don't care if it "isn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 05:01 PM
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That’s your experience with them, I can’t really relate. But to me, those that aren’t real are pathetic. They usually fall under catch all terms like pick me, tradcon, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:50 PM
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Yes actually, my comment was specifically that real adults don't care about being "pumped and dumped" implying that it's not a concept present in healthy sex relationships. You replied that being pumped and dumped was something that you were worried about, you know your situation doesn't fit here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:45 PM
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While I wasn’t worried about being pumpd and dumped, Then you're a real adult who doesn't care about shit like that...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:38 PM
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Yeah me, the one with a healthy approach to sex is delusional, meanwhile the 90 day no sex rule person is completely normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:34 PM
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FDS tears women down no different that red pill does men. They don’t want women to be empowered enough to not care when the man they had sex with doesn’t offer commitment. They want women to see that as a moral failure so they frame those situations as being “pumped and dumped” to drain confidence and convince others to see themselves as disposable. Real women however, are unaffected by men from their past and see themselves as equal participants of sex instead of living in constant fear that se…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:31 PM
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Lmao no you’re wild, I’m just sex positive. Waiting 3 months isn’t gonna save you from what you think it will. You’re naive if you don’t think someone will play the game that long just to fuck. It’s easier for women to absolve themselves from the bullshit of FDS and to just enjoy dating free of the things that FDS tells them is bad. Like a woman isn’t a failure for getting “pumped and dumped”, which shouldn’t even be framed that way because it’s not a real thing. Accurate framing would look like…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:47 PM
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Real adults don’t care about shit (being pumped and dumped) like that. You’re fear mongering.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:33 PM
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Because it’s stupid. I’m not even sure if it’s directed at men but I don’t need to wait for sex as proof that a relationship will work. I’m also not willing wait for someone. I don’t believe that sex has to happen immediately but it’s extremely nonsensical to box human nature into superficial timeframes. A person can wait 3 months to have sex and suffer the same relationship failures had they fucked that person on the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:22 PM
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They are to me. Starting off casual like that is the best way to date. It’s an exciting and thrilling way to kick off a connection and you get to get a feel for sexual compatibility early on. Compare that to people who date formally, who go on coffee shop first dates then 3-5 more dates after that, no sex before exclusivity, etc. I’ll take the woman who knows how to have fun every time over one who only dates formally.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:59 PM
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If you struggle to meet new people, what stopped you from going to an Earth Day clean up today?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:55 PM
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2 because that’s what I’m doing. And getting a date with someone isn’t winning anything, it’s just a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:53 PM
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I can’t believe there’s people delusional enough to think that their stance against abortion matters more than the mistakes that I make.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:12 PM
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A lot of people are never gonna mature sexually past a teenage-like stunted state.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:27 AM
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Haven’t been in an official one but interracial dating is certainly an experience for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 09:38 PM
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Is this even a real issue? Literally nobody has ever accused me of using them for sex. I’m always upfront about not looking for a relationship. If she complains, then our connection doesn’t get past step 2 and I move on because that’s what accountability looks like. If this is really something that’s affecting you, you can avoid any issue by doing the same, otherwise everything you’re on about is your fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 09:18 PM
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No seriously, I’m convinced that a woman who’s into hookups will fuck you if you have any quality that fits their type or what they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:58 PM
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Thank fucking god.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:09 PM
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There is none. Sex is natural. Sex is healthy. You learn yourself, what you like and need outside of the bounds of a relationship. You gain nothing by repressing all of that for the approval of someone who’s just gonna call you a hoe regardless. I don’t believe that high value men are a real thing. But I am tall, good looking, make really good money, great career, and educated as fuck. I wish people would stop speaking for me when they say no established men wants a woman who has sex. I need tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 03:08 PM
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No, I’m proposing that if this stuff is as much of a problem as this sub says, offering relationships that women find worth committing to might help instead of relying on them to lower their standards for them for nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 09:24 PM
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No, just take any 2 people who are either fucking or dating where the man could be considered more attractive than the woman and apply them to post that you see here where people claim that this (women only going for men more attractive than them while ignoring their "looksmatch") is a widespread problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 09:04 PM
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“All else equal, women would prefer men who have more positive traits”? Or are we saying “Women will have uppity standards and wont settle for less, demanding only the best of the best”. ​ To me, that speaks more to the lack in quality of relationships with those men as if the pros of being in a relationship with them don’t outweigh the cons of associating with someone that you’ll never be in a relationship with. That's what I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 08:57 PM
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Are they undervaluing them? Or are the ones being offered to them just not valuable?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 08:53 PM
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No clue what you’re getting at.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 08:48 PM
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Specifically what part of that is confusing enough to need an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 08:47 PM
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I’m not relationship oriented, you’d have to tell me. That’s why I’m asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 08:39 PM
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The only men that might want a relationship with a woman are going to be men around her league. If that were true, we'd never see unattractive women with attractive men. And yet, we do. What do you mean by "benefit of the doubt?". You assume that men in an unattractive woman's league will more likely than not be relationship oriented.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 08:35 PM
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Women would rather be acquainted with men above/out of their league, even if it’s just for sex, than be subject to a relationship with men in their league. To me, that speaks more to the lack in quality of relationships with those men as if the pros of being in a relationship with them don’t outweigh the cons of associating with someone that you’ll never be in a relationship with. So as a man, why not just offer the prospect of relationships that are worth committing to?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 08:30 PM
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you are rejecting any man that might want a relationship with you 4th paragraph doesn't matter. You said this. Even if its a man that "might want a relationship", you're still giving that benefit of doubt based on nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 08:09 PM
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Damn your last paragraph is accurate as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 08:03 PM
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My question is why does the rejected guy always get the benefit of the doubt? Every posts paints these men as relationship oriented based on nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 08:01 PM
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I guarantee you no men is comparing a women's butts and boobs. Well you're wrong, I do. Anyway, your point is contingent that comparison to others is necessary to judge what bad or good sex is. We know that's not true because a woman who's never had sex before is still able to tell when a person can't fuck or when she hasn't had an orgasm. You don't have to have had sex before to know when someone is bad at it. Terrible argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 04:00 PM
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Read about the campsite rule awhile ago on somewhere on Reddit and I’m gonna start following it now that I’m getting older. Since turning 28 I’ve felt kinda weird about getting attention from 21-22 year olds but now my conscious is gonna be clear if I abide by the campsite rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:31 AM
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What’s personal here? Genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:15 AM
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Been single by choice for 5 years. Im not looking for a relationship. Over the span of that 5 years I’ve dated casually, have always conveyed that I’m only dating casually and not looking for a relationship and have turned down the prospect of a relationship several times from women that I’ve dated who proposed that we enter one. That’s what being single by choice looks like to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 11:20 PM
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There’s literally only one side currently attacking him for supporting his friend. He’s not under the watch of anybody outside of the people currently attacking him. I’m deep into the left. I’m not watching anybody. I didn’t even know who Mr Beast was until he started paying for peoples’ eye surgeries the other week. This isn’t gonna be somebody that turns on his friend because genuine friends of people who’ve transitioned but knew them before their transition. I’ve experienced it from a friends…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:39 PM
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My point has already been conveyed. Based on my last reply you should understand exactly what I’m saying. This isn’t delving off into a different topic focused on whether people should do silly things or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:30 PM
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Oh, you’re mistaken that my comment was about you and others.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:23 PM
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Wouldn’t be who I am today had I listened to that when I was 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:20 PM
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Dumb question. You claim that he's being pecked by both sides but then go on to say The liberals will CALL him transphobic and try to cancel him if he does knee toe to the other side. How is he being pecked by both sides then suddenly one side's pecking is hypothetical and is contingent on something that hasn't happened happening? And being from what I've seen, him defending his friend, this hinges on a big "if".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:07 PM
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Where is there behavior being justified? It’s just a comment and I’m not sure what you’re getting at in yours, so let’s just not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:03 PM
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Between this and Ali Alexander, conservatism and pedophilia go hand in hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:56 PM
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Yeah, decent ass day on arms and shoulders.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:54 PM
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Yeah it’s completely silly for other men to be concerned about you having your name and reputation dragged through the mud because you do not care. This is a more accurate take on my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:46 PM
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Exclusively being into women who’s had sex with multiple partners is a win because her past lessens the risk that she’s fucked with lames before. Nobody wants to be with a woman who’s given those type of men a chance, it’s unattractive and relays that they have low standards. Those type of men = Men who judge women for having casual sex. We all know there’s a list of behaviors and personalities that naturally come with being that type of guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:44 PM
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Bigger how? Does this really need explanation? You care that if women local to where you live are aware that you date and have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:13 PM
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No, what I'm saying exactly is that it's silly for men to make a big deal over something that I, an actual affected party, don't think is a big deal. Whether they should or shouldn't care is left to the individual but they'll for sure look silly doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:12 PM
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speak for yourself and don’t expect everyone to feel the same way you do. Am I not already speaking for myself? Y'all are the one's replying to me about circumstances revolving around my life. I think it's people responding to me that shouldn't expect everyone to feel the same way as they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:52 PM
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I mean, I’m flattered but I don’t need others empathy when it comes to these groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:35 PM
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Deepfake porn is a bigger problem than girls in your city believing that you have sex with multiple women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:33 PM
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Oh it definitely strokes my ego for sure lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:32 PM
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Big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:57 PM
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Are you sure you know what you’re saying right now? Yeah, red pill turns men into bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:55 PM
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It’s like saying someone is hysterical for critiquing a group because they won’t be associated with the group Lol it's not. It's like saying that someone places themself as apart of a class of victims without having ever experiencing victimhood of being discussed in those groups. Differencing in the context of racism where where white people advocating civil rights are doing so for the equality of others and not to protect their own nonexistent victim status.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:54 PM
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I don't feel the same way about revenge porn. There's a difference in women gossiping about both having dated or or fucked me than having someone expose me sexually. Both cases ironically leads to sympathy pussy though so when it comes to me specifically, someone sharing my dick picks without my consent isn't all that of a concern but in the bigger scheme of things, revenge porn is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:36 PM
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Are white people not allowed to advocate for civil rights since they’re not minorities What stupid logic, I'm sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:29 PM
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Soft. Too sensitive. Defeatist. Pathetic. List goes on, they’re bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:28 PM
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and you are a bad person for Doing it Good thing I'm speaking from the context of someone that's been posted/discussed and not someone who participates then right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:26 PM
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They post everything Yeah, rude guys, abusers, rapist, all that. But if you're none of that, at worst you'll be talked about for dating or having sex with 2 women who might know each other and there's no harm in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:11 PM
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“I’m a women of God, I will not do that” Boy, I don't care if I was married, I'd ghost my wife for saying something like this lmaoo
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:10 PM
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No, y’all are just overdramatic. Literally nothing happens from being discussed in there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:08 PM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:57 PM
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Should come from no one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:56 PM
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Hmm. Fairly low bar that can be met rather easily and on/by the first date. I’m not against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:45 PM
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Facebook groups where women gossip about men in their city who’ve they dated or fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:41 PM
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No, more so that it has affected me and it still doesn’t matter so I can’t understand why people who’ll never be talked about there care about it so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:40 PM
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The hysteria over Are We Dating the Same Guy groups come from men who’ll never be posted in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:25 PM
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Existing doesn't mean they're a problem lol. What advantages are there in a pick me when I'm subjected to women who fall under "everybody can do those things"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:30 PM
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Never wasted my time on a filthy woman in my life, that’s not something that I know about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:24 PM
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Or maybe, I love doing things for my partners but am turned off by women who make it their personalities for the sake of being more appealing to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:16 PM
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This was this weekend Lmao duh it was last weekend. Took the train back into the city from the suburbs Saturday evening, witnessed them coming in from the suburbs. Still had a great night out, didn't experience anything that happened. far left mayor Ah yes, the mayor that diverts COVID relief funds to the police department is far left. Shit like this will keep the people in the burbs from going downtown, This is great. We don't want people from Naperville or other suburbs who's perception of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:13 PM
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They’re unattractive and pathetic. Too dependent on validation from men for doing simple shit like cooking and cleaning. Everybody can do those things, doing them for a man doesn’t make someone special. I don’t want to be with someone like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:06 PM
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Misery loves company and this sub is evident of that in how men consistently tear down other men. It’s not a hard pill to swallow, it’s actually just sad. It’s sad that you want other men to be as pessimistic as you. You’ve never felt loved by a woman so you’re convinced that it’s impossible and now your mission is to convince others that it’s also impossible for them because ultimately, you want to bring them down. Shit is pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:19 PM
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This was this weekend Lmao duh it was last weekend. Took the train back into the city from the suburbs Saturday evening, witnessed them coming in from the suburbs. Still had a great night, didn't experience anything that happened. far left mayor Ah yes, the mayor that diverts COVID relief funds to the police department is far left. Shit like this will keep the people in the burbs from going downtown, This is great. We don't want people from Naperville here. this will destroy the restaurants and …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:07 PM
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No clue. I only got for “sex appeal baddie” types because that’s what I’m into but attraction is diverse and men have multiple taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:18 AM
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Chicago will continue to flourish as one of the best and most popular cities in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:06 AM
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Love it here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:05 AM
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Men who have traditional wives typically try to cheat on them with women who aren’t traditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:04 AM
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Men who want traditional wives typically lust after the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:31 AM
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This is the most pathetic shit ever lmao. Why are you tearing down men? You want us to sulk and believe we’re worthless for getting broken up with? Red pill is actually about promoting that men be bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:29 AM
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Also I didn’t say it’s a sure way but it’s definitely a greater indicator Never claimed you did. It's not an indicator at all. It's the smarter thing to do for security but I don't think it's an indicator that he will stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:03 AM
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I don’t think it’s an indicator that a man will stay at all. What's there to weigh?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:01 AM
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Ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 10:46 PM
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It’s definitely the smarter thing to do but I don’t think it’s an indicator that a man will stay at all. I have a cousin who got promised all of that by a man before they had kids and he still left after their daughter was born. She’s not the only one it happens to either but the fact that it happens alone is enough for me to think it’s not an indicator that a man will stay at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 10:45 PM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 10:34 PM
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Realized that I habitually lie when rejecting someone and I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it. Everybody seemingly needs an explanation to understand and accept rejection and a majority of the time I don’t have one outside of just not interested in them. But not being interested is never good enough to satisfy curiosity, so I always lie and say that I’ve started seeing someone or chose to pursue something with somebody I’m more compatible with, depending on the context. If it’s someone …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 10:03 PM
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How often do we hear women accuse men of misogyny over the most meaningless and innocuous things; like when all they want is to forcefully coerce men to censure themselves, or to stop doing something as harmless as being on the same street as they are - or even looking at them. Never. Nobody's ever called me one for walking on the same side of the street or looking at them. In fact nobody's ever accused me of misogyny at all. Even though I can kind of be one. You're being overdramatic about this…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 08:58 PM
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Her husband gained 200 pounds and she doesn’t want to leave him. What a dumbass.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 03:40 PM
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That’s exactly the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:48 AM
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Ok. But then why are there married bad boys? If most can’t marry them, we’d see those women behave like men who desire this new soft famine craze women but struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:48 AM
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You tell me. The general consensus on this sub seem to be that a bad boy is any man who women are attracted to. It’s a trope based on nothing and many people who fit it, are married.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 11:31 PM
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I literally buy weed from a married couple. Tons of examples, look at your own life. I have relatives who fit into whatever that stereotype is supposed to mean who are married. I’m sure you know people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 11:29 PM
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You’ve never seen husband material used negatively on this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 11:27 PM
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Yeah but if you say that here, men are gonna reply saying that you’re lying and that you don’t really like other qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 10:56 PM
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Of what?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 10:55 PM
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Then why are there married “bad boys”?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 10:52 PM
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Wouldn’t they know one based on the opposite of who their absent father is though? If they grew up without a father, it’s pretty easy to deduce that a real man has the qualities of someone who wouldn’t be in their kid’s life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 10:51 PM
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It’s hilarious that “wife material” is seen as a positive trait while “husband material” is seen as negative. Like if you’re a woman, it’s seen as a good thing that you’re good enough to get married, everyone praises it. But if you’re a man, you’re seen as a 2nd and safe option. Although you’re the guy that women want a future with, people will try to convince you that there’s no admirable qualities in that. And it’s typically men that think this way. Constantly tearing down other men. Insecurit…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 10:45 PM
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Looks matter but your logic about how they matter is awful. Yes there’s a privilege in being attractive as a man but there’s nuances that dictate reactions. In real life, women give me passes for bad behavior. I can say anything about sex and women that they don’t agree with and they’ll laugh it off. But if I exhibit that same behavior traditional, conservative, FDS type women, they’re gonna call me bitter and resentful no matter how good I look because we don’t have the same relationship/bond a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 09:26 PM
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You’re so disingenuous lmao. No one ever said working on things for losers. Not working on things for/ with first dates however, is reasonable. Stop romanticizing dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 08:10 PM
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What does attraction have to do with it? Anybody can bail from connections that they don’t want to be in.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 07:20 PM
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What does soft and feminine even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 04:22 PM
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So common that it’s a shared experience for many.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 04:20 PM
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No, traditionalism isn’t attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:58 PM
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Yeah, not being dumb enough to work on things with people who I don’t want to with has made my dating life perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:44 PM
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I get cheaper weed by fucking the girl who sells to me. There’s males strippers, porn stars, escorts, only fans models, sugar babies. Tons of ways really.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 03:42 AM
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This is what’s really wrong with dating.. Everybody’s so fucking lost and confused about every single thing. This shit isn’t hard. If your date does something that makes you think you 2 will be incompatible, you don’t looks for ways to change how you are for them, you don’t go on another date with them. There’s no way people should need this much help on issues that are representative of real world dating problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 03:38 AM
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If you have casual or no strings attached sex, how important is it for you to be the only person your partner is fucking?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 12:20 AM
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Women are the one’s waiting in that OP’s post.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 12:03 AM
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I agree with all of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 10:07 PM
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Agree on the hard timeline.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 08:10 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 08:06 PM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 08:06 PM
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Does it? He seems to be having a very hard time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:42 PM
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Is making someone wait 6 months for sex unreasonable? I don’t think so, people are allowed to have their boundaries but I also think it’s unreasonable to expect every single person to be ok with it. I don’t believe in waiting so I’ll never do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:09 PM
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I think I might be a product of the raised by wolves method. It’s a successful one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 06:18 PM
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Lol my dad wouldn’t let that happen to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 06:16 PM
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Type of father that a lot of folks could benefit from.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 05:42 PM
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That’s been the case for a lot of women that I’ve dated. Like you don’t get to not be in your kid’s life and expect that type of sign of respect lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:55 PM
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I’m not into stuff like that. Can still get along with them but I’m not asking for a blessing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:53 PM
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I’ll reject somebody for simply existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:50 PM
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Type of dad I would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:49 PM
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I actually saw your comment about that, congrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:48 PM
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Fair but I don’t think I need their blessing to know my intentions. I’m actually really glad my parents aren’t that type. They trust my choices enough to not worry about someone’s intentions or giving a blessing to my relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:41 PM
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The dad who’s a hillbilly and has a shotgun daughter doesn’t have a chance with me in the first place honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:39 PM
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2nd one. Fucking hate how dirty people can be in the locker room. A bad spot is worth the tradeoff of a clean space.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:37 PM
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I’m not into those type of women so I’d be really confused how we made it that far lol. I’d lose attraction so the relationship would likely be over.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:33 PM
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If I ever get engaged, I’m not asking her dad for permission or his blessing to marry his daughter. This isn’t 1965.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:20 PM
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As much as I go out and as much liquor that I drink, I've never been accused of doing anything that I didn't do. I think you're scaring yourself over this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:15 PM
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This would ruin dating. It would be unfathomably boring to be reduced to one swipe per day with no other dating app options. There’s no issue that needs solving where an idea like this is necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 03:59 PM
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I’m not sure if they’re necessarily exclusive to eachother but pushovers are typically too nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 03:28 PM
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Yes, being a pushover who won’t stand up for herself is unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 02:02 PM
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No. Mixed gatherings are still going strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 02:01 PM
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Where did I indicate that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 06:32 PM
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That I'm a fan of ice cream and find trying new flavors enjoyable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 04:58 PM
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Which is fine, so you can organize the first date, so your angst about coffee dates is completely unnecessary. No, I can have an opinion about them. What are your assumptions about how well you know this person before going on a date? If you already know them IRL then sure, it's easier to skip the coffee date thing. If you met them via OLD, then there's a rationale to meeting for coffee first, as I described. Even if you've been texting them for a while, you still don't really know them, and inv…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 04:57 PM
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At the heart of every true crime documentary is an incompetent police department.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 04:24 PM
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it's really more of pre-first-date screening meeting, This is so incredibly silly to me. A pre first date screening meeting sounds insane to read aloud. I rather just go on the first date. Then it's up to you to make the first date exciting. It's on you to choose what you'll do on the first date. Already do that. It's easy. That you frame it as the other person's responsibility to entertain you says a lot. This isn't framed that way. My original comment is selfishly about everything that I want.…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 04:20 PM
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Yeah interviewing each other over coffee is a bit too formal for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 03:59 PM
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I can’t recommend anything, everybody’s too different for that. I’m a drinker and go out a lot. All of my first dates are to bars in my neighborhood that I frequent.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 03:58 PM
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No offense, but I can easily avoid what seems like a boring dating life to me by doing all those things during activities that I enjoy. I don’t enjoy coffee shops.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 03:55 PM
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Good ass points.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 03:46 PM
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I also think the "pre-Pre-Pre" dates are dumb. Ahh is that still a thing? I used to see people talking about it on twitter. I'll never get what everyone is so afraid of. You're right though. Picnics, being at the park, bike riding, ice cream are all dates thats gotten me exactly everything that I want out of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 03:21 PM
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I’m not gonna flirt with someone in a coffee shop lol. Lmao right? Where I live theres a coffee shop right by a bar that happens to be one of my favorite places. Why would I take someone to the coffee shop instead of showing them a good time at a place that I'm a regular at.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 03:17 PM
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It's not solely about their entertainment though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 03:14 PM
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To each their own but I can figure that out over doing something that I actually enjoy. Coffee dates being low stakes aren't worth the boredom to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 03:13 PM
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is her goal on the first date to fuck? That's how it typically goes unless it doesn't. Which is also fine if it doesn't. Feels like there is a reason they set up a vetting process in a public and casual setting at the start. Yeah. Been blessed enough to never have to this at a coffee shop.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 03:11 PM
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I can do that doing an activity that I’m actually into.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 03:05 PM
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Coffee dates are dumb. The goal is to fuck, have a fun dating life and then eventually settle down. I’m not gonna see a future with someone that starts with such a boring first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 02:54 PM
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Everybody’s aware. It’s just no one’s problem to fix but that individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 12:06 AM
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You’re right. Be the dummy that doesn’t shower because of your disingenuousness then lmao. But for everyone else, we know that I’m speaking in context outside of blatant rejections like for body odor and hygiene. Rejections where people who get ghosted who thinks it’s their fault for something they said. But by all means man if body odor rejections are your experience, don’t let me invalidate that. Remain the way you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:06 AM
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people like you go hard on criticizing men and telling men they are doing something wrong People like me lmao. The point made in my original comment is that rejection isn't always a product of something that we've done wrong... It shouldn't be. This line of thinking is detrimental and why so many men have loser mindsets So yes, believing you're always at fault for rejection is detrimental and plays a part in a lot of mens' defeatist mindsets.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 02:51 AM
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You know that’s not what I’m saying which makes this reply so egregiously unnecessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 02:46 AM
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Yeah of course it can, when processed in a healthy way. I never made claim that rejection couldn’t be that. However, a lot of men don’t use it as an asset to better themself and instead deflect to defeatism.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 08:25 PM
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I’d believe that if I didn’t witness the defeatism that being rejected produced.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:45 PM
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Meant deferring. Not deflecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:40 PM
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You didn't actually. Either way not even sure what you're on about anymore here. Agree to disagree I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:39 PM
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Sure but automatically deferring fault for your rejection to yourself is not an objective assessment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:31 PM
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Which I think is what you actually said word-for-word. Well you're actually thinking wrong then. I said that the opposite of what OP claims is comprehending rejection If a man decides on a date that he doesn't want to get to know her any further, does the woman think to herself "What did I do that was unattractive? Is accepting rejection without issue. Not doing this isn't not comprehending rejection, it's accepting rejection without issue. Nevertheless though, there are tons of women accept rej…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:30 PM
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You’re delusional if you think you have to beat yourself down to comprehend rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:51 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:04 PM
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Where’s the correlation?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:58 PM
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If women have the wall men have what I call the window. It's a quick window of opportunity from around age 16-20 to figure out the dating world and how you want to exist in it. Missing that window leads to an adulthood of consistent dating failures and being stuck in a constant state of confusion about everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:35 PM
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If a man decides on a date that he doesn't want to get to know her any further, does the woman think to herself "What did I do that was unattractive?" Not doing this isn't not comprehending rejection, it's accepting rejection without issue. Everybody should be this way. Able to handle rejection without blaming themselves. When a man gets rejected his immediate reaction is to think "what is wrong with me?" Or "what did I do/say that turned her off?". It shouldn't be. This line of thinking is detr…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:24 PM
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This is kind of a dumb question that’s manipulating tragedies to fit ppd concepts. It has nothing to do with being conditioned to think less of themselves or a macho thing. It’s a panic response in a split moment of chaos.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:12 AM
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Chalk it up to different experiences then I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:01 PM
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lol one for you maybe, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:56 PM
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No one wants a lonely frustrated partner. Misery loves company and they’ll just bring you down too. I’m taking partner with experience. They’re well-rounded, have a sense of themself and know their needs and wants. Makes for an easier time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:14 PM
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This is odd because commitment, monogamy, and faithfulness are values expected in most hetero relationships anyway, yet somehow, they are put under the umbrella of "traditional" which sounds old fashion for some. Lol well yeah, they're put under the traditional umbrella because they're just that, old fashioned. Commitment, monogamy, and faithfulness are all cultural aspects that have defined relationships for a majority of people for generations. That would make them traditional. This isn't a de…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:48 PM
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Because women can be homophobic no different than anybody else. And I also wouldn’t say that straight men don’t have an issue with bi women. A majority of women that I’ve dated have been bisexual. I have friends who are bi. All have shared experiences with me about men either fetishizing them for being bi, being distrustful/accusing them of cheating or generally just unaccepting of their lifestyle. I don’t think it’s fair to say that men don’t seem to have an issue with bi women when their real …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:36 PM
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I wouldn’t say the only thing but looks for sure matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:01 PM
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They do say that. People talk about how no self respecting man will want to date women who party and have sex on this sub all the time lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:01 PM
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Y’all are doing women a disservice and lying to them when you say that high value men want modest and traditional partners. When you attain a certain lifestyle, you want all the pleasures and pleasantries that come along with it. No man who has/had options wants to spend a lifetime with a sexually repressed wife with no sex appeal who’s home all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:04 PM
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Any interpretation of the general example.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:13 PM
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JUST SAY YOU WANT SOME MONEY AND A HOT GUY. Huh? They already do. Like, a lot. That preference is one of the main things that offends men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:28 PM
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I’m scared of traditional women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:29 AM
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It’s a superiority complex thing. Anybody who they deem unworthy of the girl they want but has her is gonna be a bad boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 07:57 PM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 05:07 PM
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They already do, they’re called honors/AP classes. At least that what helped spurt my growth. Music class is to important to be replaced, if students want that socialization they should just aim higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 02:42 PM
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Lol. It’s way worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:00 AM
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How is that supposed to work Doesn't have to. Not meant to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:52 PM
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Man lmao. My opinion about relationships and dating is that more experience and practice with different people makes for an easier experience. It helps you learn yourself, what you like and need outside of the bounds of a relationship. LTR bros or LTR oriented people shouldn’t be getting into serious relationships without experiencing at least 10 people. Whether those experiences be coffee dates, talking stages, sex, flings, whatever. I just think to have a well rounded grasp of all things datin…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 09:58 PM
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I mean, if that’s your takeaway, sure, I don’t give a fuck lol. People who struggle at dating tend to be buzzkills, the less of them around would be for the better. But I think that you know what I’m originally saying is that their grievances don’t matter enough to serve as the default point of view here. But we can go with your interpretation too, either or.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 09:52 PM
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You’re mistaken. Never said those narratives were wrong, they just don’t matter. I’m sure their gloom and doom experiences are valid. However, I don’t think they matter enough to constitute a default position or norms.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 09:39 PM
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Agree. Everything should be discussed from the POV of people with actual experience. Instead it’s people with no experience speaking as if they have tons of it, for people who actually do have experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 09:36 PM
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Idk. But they should really stop speaking for the men who do meet that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 09:34 PM
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No. I’m tired of everything revolving around people who can’t date. Has nothing to do with upvotes and everything to do with consistent bitching and whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 09:33 PM
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My unpopular opinion is that experience with at least 10 people should be a prerequisite for participation. That’s cutting it really low but I’m tired of the perspective of struggling people dominating narratives here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 08:50 PM
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Oh no, I know everything honestly based on what I observe and live. I don’t come up with solutions for problems I don’t experience however.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:43 PM
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Well yeah, I’m not 5’4. Why would I have solutions for something that I’ve never experienced?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 02:46 PM
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I don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 03:09 AM
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It’s insane to me that no one has ever seen it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:30 PM
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Man they really don’t prepare you for the emotional toll of not being relationship oriented and consistently losing connections when those people need a bit more and go on to pursue something serious. Only downside I’ll ever concede when it comes to casual vs serious dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:25 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:12 PM
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You don’t have to be tall, have hair and a big dick to meet modern beauty standards as a man. Everything that can’t be changed can be compensated enough to meet standards. For instance, bald men who have successfully incorporated fashionable hats into their wardrobes aren’t complaining about this stuff. They took initiative to solve an issue and evolved.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:03 PM
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That I’m never satisfied and always in search for something more.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 07:53 PM
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I got called out on my behavior last night for the first time in a very long time. She helps run the are we dating the same guy group in my city though so I listened.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 01:37 PM
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Nothing is gonna change. Whoever you’re trying to date is going to be able to tell you’re using AI, especially the more people become aware of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 01:18 PM
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Stay single
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 07:43 PM
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Men spend way too much time trying to figure out and understand the 2nd type of woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 07:42 PM
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I don’t. I feel detached from them completely and don’t have any plans on every conforming to them. It’s made for an extremely easy dating experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 07:14 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:46 PM
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I think it does increase your value, just not in the way that red pill thinks it does. Having multiple partners has helped me learn myself sexually outside of the bounds of a relationship. It’s helped me discover what I like and what I want/need, shaping me up to be a far more suitable partner than other men who are inexperienced and confused about nearly everything dating wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 02:06 PM
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I think it does increase your value, just not in the way that red pill thinks it does. Having multiple partners has helped me learn myself sexually outside of the bounds of a relationship. It’s helped me discover what I like and what I want/need, shaping me up to be a far more suitable partner than other men who are inexperienced and confused about nearly everything dating wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 02:06 PM
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Does a majority of modern dating problems stem from a portion of men refusing to accept their reality? Generally speaking, fat women know they’re fat, short men know they’re short, unattractive people know they’re unattractive, etc. They all accept their dating realities and operate within those people who are attracted to them standards’. This helps them navigate dating smoothly to their potential. But for that portion of men who can’t accept their reality, they struggle dating wise and they’re…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:26 AM
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No. Not at all. It only shows that nuns aren’t rapist to the extent that priest are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:07 PM
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It’s not, it’s only affecting non participants who are constantly bitching about it. People have been practicing polyamory, non-monogamy, open relationships etc. for years without issue. We just happen to now live in a time where dating sucks for a lot of people who’ll look for any excuse to blame them not being in a relationship on. Poly dating has become a new boogeyman to feed that victim complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:33 PM
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Yes it’s ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:04 PM
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Y’all know who I really feel bad for? The people stuck in miserable relationships because they’re afraid of being single. Yeah the dating world and being single has its issues for people that can’t handle them but it’s never bad enough to settle for somebody that you hate being with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 10:02 PM
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Well, yeah? I’m pretty sure anyone who has sex more than the average person is self aware. Not a woman but realizing how little sex people have and how un-dynamic their sex lives are will make anybody self aware that they’re a bit wild. There’s no fear over not fitting in with normal people though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:32 PM
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The hoe phase thread is hilarious. The types of emotions and insecurities elicited over the idea of others having sex is crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:23 PM
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Men should stop searching for macro level solutions to dating and instead approach dating individualistically. There’s no solution that’s going to fix any generalized plight for men as collective. Specifically average men, who often tend to be the ones in search of the big fix. Believing that there’s a big fix is how we’ve ended up with a collective network of men who soak up the dating grievances of other men and project them as their own traumas, the manosphere. So essentially what we have is …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 01:00 AM
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I’ve honestly never in my life personally known sex/life or someone being made to wait happen to any man I know. It happens for sure. But it’s one of those things where I think pick better women applies. Anyone who waits has no one to blame but themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:36 PM
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Nowhere online because generalized dating advice isn’t useful. Useful dating advice comes from people that you know personally who are well informed on a situation and circumstance that’s personal to the person who seeks advice. For example, me and another person could be experiencing the same dating issue. Say my issue gets resolved while that other person’s doesn’t. I can write a post anywhere offering advice on what to do when that particular issue arises but when that 2nd person reads and fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:28 PM
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He’s a college athlete lol. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:48 PM
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Let’s not pretend that this is the common lifestyle for average women though. Your coworker is capitalizing on a privilege that history and society has created for her, nothing wrong with that. But for other average women there’s nuances and factors at play that don’t allow them to capitalize like your coworker leaving them with just as bad or worse dating experiences as average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:55 AM
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You don’t know what a high value man is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 01:43 AM
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Viewpoints likes this make it so easy for women who don’t care about this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 01:18 AM
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Does it work? Or was your sister being manipulated?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 04:09 AM
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Damn I want to be him
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 04:36 PM
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I think women who have sex aren’t attracted to virgins. Virgin women seem comfortable choosing partners who match their experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 04:35 PM
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How common of a situation is it for people practicing abstinence to think their potential partners’ abstinence is unimportant?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 04:33 PM
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What are some reasons for a woman who’s waiting for marriage to have sex to marry a man who didn’t wait for marriage when she has access to men who will wait who’s ideas align more with her lifestyle and values? I feel like men who want virgins neglect that they have to compete with the type of men who are in high demand by virgin women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 04:12 PM
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This is what I’m talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 02:56 AM
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I think this really highlights modern men. You’re either the type to rage “get the fuck out of here” chastising her for her emotions that’s probably related to some past trauma in her life or the type that don’t want to be associated with that shit, hence Waka walking out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 09:37 PM
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None of those read like right wing talking points. When do they ever put the onus on men for pregnancy?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:24 PM
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Single. I’m sorry but anyone choosing otherwise is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:22 PM
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I figured.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 04:49 PM
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Question for men 25+ who want virgins: Is there a difference between a virgin who’s in her early 20s and a virgin in her late 20s-30s? We always see the virginity discussion coincide with a woman’s youth, men who want virgins typically apply that preference to younger women. Why is it seemingly rarely applied to older virgins?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 04:42 PM
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“The ex isn’t a Chad” lol I wouldn’t give a fuck if he was. Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 01:14 PM
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I feel you lmao I used to be so fucking awkward when I was a teen.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 05:01 PM
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Hot take: men are at fault for successful men. So many women have terrible experiences with men who are either abusers, socially awkward, creeps, cruel and so on that the bar is so low that all it really takes is being halfway attractive (admittedly easier said than done) and socially adept. Men make it so much easier for other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:45 PM
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I live alone so I do whatever. But if I have company or at my parents house or something, seat down. Seat always down when women are there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:21 PM
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What’s there not to get? As I said, I see a bunch of men who want to be Chad. Can’t in the US. So they try to somewhere else. That’s not defending a woman’s talking point that’s what I see right in front of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:27 PM
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Is it traveling and having consensual sex? Or is it purposely looking to exploit women in 3rd world countries in hopes they accept what women back home won’t? I travel and have sex. That doesn’t make me a passport bro. You’ll never see me looking for a wife abroad on the tangent that women in the west are all fat and masculine so therefore prospects are slim. You know that’s the context I’m speaking of here lol not just simply traveling and fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:25 PM
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I mean, there’s more to life socially than school or work. I’d take my chances finding people to date those environments over a program like this any day. It’s just too calculated.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:52 PM
2

Nope. Not organic enough for me personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:41 PM
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Passport bros, just say you’re desperate to be that guy who fucks and has disposable options. That’s what this is all really about. You’re under the belief that you’ll have an easier time achieving that status outside the US. You don’t have to pretend that you’re looking for romance or that there’s no quality options in the US. You want to be Chad. So spare everybody else the bullshit and go try.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:40 PM
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Ahh struggling is the “low quality of offerings” fault. Not the individual. No accountability whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:14 PM
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Excuses. The fundamental reason the passport bro phenomenon is becoming more popular is because those men struggle to date here. It’s not because they’re attracted to women abroad for what they offer in comparison to American women. It’s simply the perception that they’d have an easier time being that guy with disposable options abroad than they would in the US. And then they go and realize that they have to also compete with southeast Asian Chad. It’s really all kind of stupid imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:01 PM
2

When you don’t live a life to please strangers societal expectations, it’s not weird at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:46 AM
5

I don’t understand what you mean but no. None of what you’re talking about equates to attempted ethnic cleansing. You’re being dramatic in search of victimhood. I’ve spent time myself living at my parents house twice before. I’m also unmarried. Sure people have negative opinions about that but by adulthood one should be emotionally mature enough to not be so negatively impacted by what others think. Seriously, who gives a fuck if a stranger things you’re useless? People are judgmental and there’…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:33 AM
7

You’re being extremely dramatic lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:06 AM
1

Well you misinterpreted and I’m now telling you that statement wasn’t inclusive of those who things aren’t better for.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 12:23 AM
1

Is it? I’m confident that I can pull mine when it’s not rational for me to be attracted to them. Like in the case where they’re not attracted to me back or they’re a bad person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 12:05 AM
4

No, my argument is that things are better when women are sexually free and highly selective.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 11:32 PM
6

Well I didn’t say things are better for everyone. I said things are better. That’s subjective to whoever is content with their sex life in modern dating. I didn’t mean for it to be inclusive of the other 99 men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 11:27 PM
3

Agree that a stable society functions on give and take. Dating however, doesn’t. It’s absolutely fuck you I got mine. Also you’re confusing me for a woman. Im not demanding special privilege by birthright. I was born with the same circumstance just as any other man so I guess you could say I’m scorning from a place of fuck you I got mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 11:21 PM
1

Labor and dating market don’t coincide anymore. Sure it sounds like having ones cake and eating it too but what’s wrong with that? Nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 11:16 PM
10

Well yeah. A woman may find a man undesirable but you may see that same man as a desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 09:18 PM
11

I think they’re already rationally deciding who they’re attracted to. Just because a lot of men get left out don’t mean they’re all mindlessly picking men who are no good for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 09:16 PM
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This has nothing to do with that, so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 09:15 PM
65

So free sexually but highly selective? That’s the way it should be rather than have them repressed sexually and less selective. They shouldn’t have to fuck undesirable men for the sake of survival. Things are better this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 08:02 PM
6

0.0837% Roughly 11,400 women in the United States meet your ideal woman standards not bad
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 04:23 PM
1

Pretending that a national abortion ban isn’t the goal. Ignoring anti abortion states want to prevent their residents from getting abortions in other states.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 04:11 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:39 AM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:39 AM
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Abortion benefits men so I genuinely fail to understand the moral objection it. Its just simply not wrong. Everybody apparently wants to avoid unwanted pregnancies. Financial abortions seem to be a popular topic right now but why go through that stress and drama when you and your partner have the option to terminate beforehand? You don’t have to punish unwanted children by subjecting them to a life of neglect for your mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:38 PM
0

Lmao you preaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:11 PM
-2

It’s just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 10:29 PM
6

I feel like a good sex life isn’t so calculated. As long as the chemistry is always great, I’m good.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 01:09 AM
0

Agreed but it’s not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:57 PM
8

I mean if one is capable of having casual sex then it’s safe to assume that he’s also capable of having women in rotation. Its really not something that’s all that special or rare. Sure there’s probably a lot of men who don’t have sex but there’s also plenty that do. So m men who fuck multiple women within recent timeframes aren’t really that hard to come by. I know plenty.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:06 PM
11

Refusing to take someone’s last name is narcissistic but the desperate need for someone to take your last name isn’t narcissistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:19 PM
0

Just wait until you see the seen where her husband sees his dick lmao. That’s really gonna piss you off. It’s a tv show. Calm down.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 08:34 PM
10

So is the solution for all women to think act and operate the same in an effort to make dating easier? Just find and focus on the ones that fit your mold. Why worry so much about the ones who don’t? They aren’t to blame for dating shortcomings.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 01:25 AM
2

Slowly realized over time that I don’t have to lower my standards to get what I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 12:04 AM
1

I don’t think this is true because it’s based on the idea that loyalty is dictated by options and that’s the biggest misconception people have of what it’s like to actually have options. Sure, a person with options date and fuck around more than people who don’t have them. That’s a given but it doesn’t mean that those with options will automatically be disloyal simply because they have options. Connections matter and when you connect with the right person, that connection outweighs cheating for …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:58 PM
1

True
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 11:27 PM
1

Ehh lol I’ll have to draw the line if I made it as far to marriage with a person. I’d just rather start from scratch in that case.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 10:40 PM
1

Like the person that you’re talking to knows or know of other people that you also talk to?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 10:39 PM
3

Why are you expected to cut off all options when you start talking to someone new? I’m a believer in single until exclusivity is discussed and established. That means still swiping on dating apps, going on dates and having sex with other people until it’s been established and agreed upon that I’m a boyfriend and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 10:30 PM
1

It would change nothing. I’m comfortable and I love dating. Money well spent.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 09:51 PM
1

No, every woman I know has a job. I meant that I make money so it’s not a big deal spending it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 06:47 PM
2

Yes. You can’t satisfy people who care about that shit. Even if you just had sex with only 1 person bl prior, it’s still gonna be a problem for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 06:33 PM
2

Lol that’s fine, I don’t mind being a problem. I make the money and am a pleasure to be around. That translates to me paying for dates and treating one night stands like princesses. Why should I care about creating a problem for everyone else when I get everything I want out of dating? This is supposedly all competition right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 06:30 PM
0

That’s some real made up fairytale shit. Having any amount of sex doesn’t affect a person lack of ability to partake in whatever it is that leads up to a enthusiastic yes. If it were real, non promiscuous men would be able to get an enthusiastic yes better/easier than I can and that’s just certainty not the case. I offer a much better connection during the lead up phase because it’s not a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:41 AM
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I’m sorry but that’s such bullshit lol. If it were real I wouldn’t be able to form deep emotional connections, yet I am. It’s not a real thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:24 AM
1

the fact that even if it affects one gender more than the other, Yeah but it doesn't affect either though, it's just sex. It's not a bad thing to engage in.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:19 AM
4

I’m not looking for women who don’t have sex and also don’t care if others aren’t able to find someone who doesn’t. They should go to church if that’s what they want. Pair bonding isn’t a real thing so no reason to worry about that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:10 AM
1

Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:55 PM
1

But that doesn't really change my point does it? Purge taught me that red pill men are insanely committed to memes. Whether minority of users or not they're still redpill, what percentage of users they make up isn't relevant but of course comprehension apparently isn't your strong suit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:46 PM
3

Purge taught me that red pill men are insanely committed to memes. I’m seeing the idea that one side won this imaginary of posting pictures. No way this is the same group that struggles getting casual sex and then wonders why?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:53 PM
2

Coping for what? Enjoying sex? I guess lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:25 PM
3

Not really. I feel like there’s an obsession to make it be and that’s why people come up with stuff like pair bonding but it’s really not a that deep. It’s just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:15 PM
2

Idk about that, my parents showed affection. I think I just like sex and experiencing it with new people and it’s nothing deeper than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:11 PM
1

Weird as hell
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:01 AM
1

How can I deflect from my own point? You right though, I do unapologetically love these hoes lol I’m supposed to feel bad about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:27 PM
-4

We’re talking about us right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:38 PM
-3

Not really a problem. Failure is that individuals fault. I wouldn’t say it’s easy but I recognized very young that I wanted to be that by step 3 so I figured shit out. I don’t empathize with those who couldn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:07 PM
1

Only the ones that failed at their attempted fuck boy phase get neither
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:34 PM
4

Lmao this is wildly accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:30 PM
1

Really makes you wonder how they got like that. Thankfully I’ve never met one in real life and just see their shit on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:36 PM
1

Identifying as ADOS do you believe in that while we were indigenous to North America/Never came from Africa narrative I see a lot on Twitter?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:53 PM
3

My boy, you got a whole life to live ahead of you. When you get older you’ll realize that the stuff you’re talking about here will be nonexistent. I turned 28 a few days ago and life isn’t nearly the same from what it was when I was 19-20.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:46 PM
1

Make believe land.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:44 PM
1

I used to think like this too. Then I graduated high school which opened up a whole new world of experiences based on vastly different people are and realized that it couldn’t be further from the truth. You’re responsible for the company you keep, if your social life is still consumed by women who are attracted to mfs in the streets, to me, that says more about you than it does them. What are you doing or not doing that you can’t experience a regular dating life like the rest of us? I have famil…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:43 PM
1

Inexperience is unattractive to me. But so are 21 year olds. I gotta go with neither and remain single in this scenario lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:06 PM
1

Yeah, I can’t spell it out for you more than I already have, your cognitive shortcomings are extremely uninspiring, you’re on about something completely off topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:56 PM
6

Lol this quote kinda makes me feel bad. A lot of men die by it and yet here I am, not providing shit yet loved unconditionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:10 AM
1

Oh brother, that quote still doesn’t imply “all men who worry about n count are racist.” It in fact, drives the point in my last comment home even further. You’re operating on straight feelings here masked by insults. I’m legitimately sad for you but eternally grateful that I’m not you 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:08 AM
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Genuine advice, excelling above a third grade reading level will be helpful in preventing you from hurting your own feelings over things that aren’t there. “all men who are worried about n-count, are actually just racist” was never expressed in my post. The claim was that men, outside of those who are compatible with women who share their level of experience, that care about body counts are insecure. Evidenced by examples of a particular occurrence where men who ask similar questions to the titl…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:38 AM
19

This is damn near how I swipe on women lmao You can tell when you want to fuck someone in less than a second on first glance.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:10 AM
4

Ah, I see my confusion. Lack of basic comprehension has you mistaken on what a generalization is. Thank you for clearing that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:05 AM
4

What are you even talking about here? Seriously? Lmao if I offended you, I’m deeply sorry but please go be emotional somewhere else man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:48 AM
5

Sucks what religion has done to you guys
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:10 AM
3

Sorry I wasn’t aware that the dude that I wouldn’t expect anything less from speaks for all of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:04 AM
6

No. It’s not an ego boost. It’s actually pretty pathetic to hear. Also, where did you hear that? I personally don’t ever talk about my dick to get laid so how do I support?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 11:58 PM
2

They don’t respect each other or themselves honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 07:54 PM
2

Look, I get that you apparently struggling with comprehension here but this has nothing to do with caring about me. It’s about having enough common decency to not disturb others over things that can be resolved in a calm mature adult manner. Screaming at each other and physically fighting to the point where your neighbors call the police might be what relationships mean to you. But having had more dating experience than you (yes I’d bet that I’m far more experienced than you) and having never fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 07:53 PM
1

Yeah because I totally have to have an understanding of why they’re explosively fighting in ear range of of everyone on our side of the building, otherwise I’m a 15 year old virgin and not an annoyed neighbor. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 07:35 PM
1

Yeah because fighting in public is inherently a part of being in a relationship. Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 07:22 PM
1

That’s actually insane wow. Like fuck other people she has to make this an issue now huh? Fuck that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 07:06 PM
1

Did being aware that others were uncomfortable ever make you guys stop? Just curious because my neighbors don’t seem to care that they’re embarrassing themselves lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 06:36 PM
1

I seriously don’t get it. I’ve been trying to find a word to describe them and explosive fits perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 06:17 PM
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Couples that fight in front of people are fucking weird and it’s annoying to witness. I really don’t understand what’s so hard about relationship conflict resolution that it has to be dramatically displayed in front of unwilling participants? I have some neighbors like this and I’m really starting to hate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 06:03 PM
5

Being a doormat is people pleasing, not a personality trait. Genuine niceness exemplified by things like expressing empathy, being a good listener, sharing compassion. Not being a yes man or decreasing so much of yourself for the sake of others. That’s a weak person. I can’t stand women like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:18 PM
5

Well you answered your own question. In this context, the nice guy is weak. Nobody finds that attractive and rightfully so. You’re allowed to chase and fulfill your desires. Consistently neglecting that for the sake of appearance is why those guys will always finish last imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:08 PM
3

Lol. Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 05:35 AM
2

Sad life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 11:22 PM
2

Lol downvoting is against the rules here, I don’t care about your opinion that much to put forth the effort when I can simply counter argue, so wrong guy. Calm down. That said, still have yet to see conclusive evidence that this is actually a problem so I’ll without doubt believe my own eyes over manufactured hysteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 11:16 PM
2

The first big tell is the lower cased A in her name. Most phones autocorrect capitalization in names, especially on apps where you fill out your first name. 2nd, it’s just clear the scammer or bot is using someone’s picture. No way that woman would lie about he age by just two years with a clear 34 in the background. Scammers aren’t smart and make clear mistakes like this all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 11:11 PM
2

I live by tons of gay bars and have never known women to take kids to drags shows. Drags shows geared towards kids at libraries? Sure. But bars and clubs? That’s delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 11:08 PM
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I’m honestly sick of hearing about drag queens and trans people, not because they exist but because conservatives in America are obsessed with them. Their suppressed desire to either fuck them or be them in an effort to convince the rest of us that their existence is a problem is annoying as hell. No one cares, people are allowed to live how they’d like.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 10:50 PM
3

You seriously can’t tell that this is a fake profile?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 10:32 PM
0

Yeah? I don’t know too many women who think this is how women should behave yet I preach it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 10:22 PM
0

Ehh, my masculinity’s pretty toxic from time to time. One example, I subconsciously do wrong by a lot of women simply because I know that I have something that they want and constantly get passes on behavior which I in turn use to my advantage. That type of behavior might not be exclusive to men but I can recognize it for what it is. If it didn’t exist, I’d be a saint.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 10:02 PM
1

CTE is a motherfucker
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:40 PM
2

Yeah I mean I didn’t want to assume but I see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:29 PM
2

No offense but is Tate mentally disabled? He talks weird like he’s struggling to understand what someone is saying or struggling to express his own words. Genuinely asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:08 PM
1

No, fwb are just two friends who are fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 04:39 PM
1

I was in high school during the peak of the leaked nude era back in like 2011-2013. It was happening to so many girls around my age around social media, shit was lame as hell. I hope they all doing alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 03:51 PM
2

There’s literally no rules to this. You can’t confine fwb to mean that when there’s so many dynamics that exist. Sure there’s exclusive fwb’s. However, I’ve never had an exclusive one. I’ve had some where we do friend things yet I know of others who don’t do friend things. It can present itself multiple ways. So no, being fwb’s isn’t relationship-lite. It’s also such a lie that casual only happens because women want relationships from attractive men. Well-adjusted adults who are keen on communic…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 01:16 AM
1

Thats never been my experience with any women that I know. Most aren’t fucking a man who doesn’t like or aren’t attracted to them unless they’re desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 01:06 AM
5

Why did I feel bad for fds? I guess you just had to be there, idk. It’s kind of self explanatory but they reminded me of men who post “80/20” here nonstop pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 01:03 AM
1

What’s dehumanizing about sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 12:51 AM
1

What’s dehumanizing about sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 12:51 AM
1

Doesn’t have to be? I just felt bad for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 12:49 AM
2

Remember how anti causal sex FDS used to be? They’d complain that it was one sided and that only men benefit which in turn led to less likelihood of relationships or something. But yet everyday reality shows us that tons of women enjoy good fwb connections, sometimes good one night stands and that not every single woman wants to be a girlfriend or wife, whether presently or in the future. Of course casual isn’t for everybody but to try and convince those who enjoy casual to relinquish the freedo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 12:31 AM
1

You go to the wrong gym then I guess. Can’t relate at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:25 PM
5

Who cares? They look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:14 PM
2

Seriously? Those boys are gonna kill themselves, wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:19 PM
2

IVF is pretty expensive huh? I have a friend who’s sister did it but her husband is moderately wealthy. She calls her, her test tube niece lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:59 PM
1

Damn that’s amazing. Type of supportive friend I aspire to genuinely be.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:05 PM
2

Yeah, don’t get caught. Don’t have either of them follow you on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 12:14 AM
1

Oh thank god
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 11:59 PM
0

Should result in a permanent ban form this sub honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 11:44 PM
2

I love dogs. I hate dog owners, so I feel you there. People who leave there dogs unattended to grab coffee piss me off. It’s so negligent. Sometimes I’ll smoke in a park by me at night. Tons of coyotes around, and here comes someone with an unleashed chihuahua. I don’t get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 11:26 PM
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