Repressing yourself sexually to appear suitable for marriage is dumb

RabbitNRaccoon · 2022-01-01T03:18:21+00:00

Thinking that people who don't sleep around are repressing themselves is a major projection.

Some people have values. Morals. And integrity. And maintaining those things means more than "having fun" sexually.

What's the problem with that?

From what I can surmise, just by observing, people who have slept around try to lower the bar by shaming people who haven't into leveling the playing field by sleeping around too so they don't have to feel bad.

And that goes for men and women. Ever notice how promiscuous people all hang out together?

The reality is, once you have slept around, you can never undo it. But a person who hasn't can do it at any point in their lifetime still. And that reality bothers alot of promiscuous people once they realize that alot of men and women would be repulsed at hearing their sexcapades.

throwaway042994 · 2022-01-01T03:45:33+00:00

If women say don't want to stay virgins, that's fine. If men dare say they don't want to marry a used up woman, well they need to change their attitude!

Both should be fine. We need to realize that marriage only works in conservative, traditional societies but we live in a modern, liberal society. The incentives of marriage in a modern liberal society are all misaligned.

Are we just too dumb to figure out something better? This shit about used up Western women demanding marriage is getting silly, let's find a new institution already where women can have all the sex they want from the ages of 16-33, and where men can actually feel rewarded for having a sexually experienced partner -- marriage in the 21st century ain't it. Telling men to shut up and enjoy a shit sandwich is not going to work.

DeformedCreature117 · 2022-01-01T03:11:08+00:00

"So it’s dumb to miss out on experiences, date around, have fun, and have good sex if that’s what you’re into just because somebody else says you’ll never get married for doing those things"

Well women tell my ass I'm not even allowed to date and that sex is wrong. Where are these women who have sex at?

PM_ME_STRIPPERS · 2022-01-01T03:10:24+00:00

if you are waiting until marriage you are a fucking idiot.

if you are waiting until marriage and you are extremely attractive, you are more than a fucking idiot, you are a moron

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razormachine · 2022-01-01T03:17:59+00:00

That's the spirit! You go girl!

Specific-Tough5411 · 2022-01-01T04:23:26+00:00

To start out, I am not a repressed female, far from it. That being said, I’m going to give you the insight you seem to be desperate for. Women want to date real men. A real man is capable of self care and takes pride in his appearance. Women have to work hard at their appearance and we appreciate when men make the effort.

A real man also respects himself and women. He doesn’t expect a women to host a party for him inside her body simply because he’s taken her out a few times. This thinking is transactional and if you buy that, then yes, hire an escort. Women are real people with real feelings and are typically seeking a man who wants to get to know them. Most women aren’t even going to consider sex before that. Those that do, well, you get what you pay for. They are often broken and damaged. Then you complain about women being crazy. Nope, just the one’s your interested in. Women don’t usually want sex until we feel comfortable with committing to a man. If you get to know a woman and offer her a commitment, you will magically find a woman who is usually willing to be your dream. But that takes effort. You want quality, give quality.

Lastly, a real man isn’t a pushover. Ask our opinions please, but make a decision. No woman likes an indecisive man. We will either say yes or offer a suitable alternative. We know that whatever you show us in the beginning is the best we can expect. If you show us that you are cheap, indecisive, weak and not someone we can respect, don’t expect us to continue with you. We can’t love someone we can’t respect and who doesn’t respect us. You are essentially on a job interview. Can you be the manager for our future together? Do you take my likes and needs into account before making decisions? Do you treat me like I’m valuable? Do you appreciate me?

Most women know that if we get into a relationship, it’s work for us. We usually get stuck with most of the housework and cooking. We are usually expected to do this on top of raising children and maintaining a full time job. And then you us to be sexually alluring and available at a moments notice. It’s not to much to ask for some effort on your part, especially in the beginning.

I hope that helps any man sincerely looking for a partner. If that’s not you, feel free to continue with whatever isn’t working for you now.

baresquad · 2022-01-01T04:32:26+00:00

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SuperSupremeKai · 2022-01-01T08:43:52+00:00

People with low to no n-count want and demand others with low to no n-count.

What's wrong here? I have 0, and I would like to marry a 0. Will I get one? No.

Academic_Repeat_7974 · 2022-01-01T23:39:57+00:00

Nobody would like to date or marry a women who fcked 20 guys in the past.

KickAss2021 · 2022-01-02T14:21:51+00:00

If a person doesn't what you for any reason, you have to move on and date a person who does. This is especially true for women, for every one guy that doesn't want a woman there will be 3 guys waiting in queue.

Title	Repressing yourself sexually to appear suitable for marriage is dumb
Author	baresquad
Upvotes	8
Comments	37
Date	January 1, 2022 3:03 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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