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It's a big ass cope. Yes, some men will peak in their mid 30s and 40s. Through hard work and determination, they will earn good incomes, get power, status and clout. And that will up their market value. But that isn't most men. Most men will continue to be nothing and nobodies into their middle aged life and beyond. They start graying by 40. Losing their hair. Erectile dysfunction by late 40s and 50s. So most ain't peaking at shit without money, status, influence etc. And anyone who says most me…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 11:55 AM
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I'm not saying men get no choice. But you have to be chosen first to even get a choice. And alot of men today aren't getting chosen. And I find that telling. How so many men lack the natural ability to be choose-worthy without society forcing women to choose them. And being that we're human and have the ability to naturally manipulate attraction, the fact that so many me can't even do that is also telling. Even RedPill and Game. Alot of men are bad at applying it. And only end up embarrassing th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 03:49 AM
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How so? Yall kill me bringing up a point but not bothering to elaborate. Trying to imply correctness. Rather than explaining how you're correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 03:37 AM
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No. They're not. But it amazes me how many people can't cultivate a good one. And I don't even mind one or two imperfections. But alot of men are unattractive on multiple fronts. You can't be unattractive on multiple fronts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 02:14 AM
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Doesn't work that way. As women have inherent value. Whereas men do not. Look at the animal kingdom. The weak males lose the ability reproduce and no mercy is shown to them. If they lose the "battle" between other males, no one cares. Which is why you see multiple males being able to put up relatively strong fights in order to earn the right to reproduce. With human males you have them slinking into secret online communities to bitch and complain about Tyrone and Chad and other successful men wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 01:57 AM
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Why would you need game when you could take away women's rights to earn money, hold property and be independent? And on top of that create a culture where you raised women, from birth, to believe getting married and having children was their ultimate life goal. So no, men in the past didn't need game. All you need do is be born male, and have a job and the ability to provide a modest life. That is why so many men are bad with women these days. Instead of being like animals and letting the unattr…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 01:45 AM
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I think overexposure to certain looks is heavily screwing over alot of people. Due to social media, we have this weird idea that attractive people are plentiful and everywhere. But just think of how many legitimately conventially attractive men and women you know IRL. Used to be there would be one or two very pretty girls in a county, now theyre all over online. And filters and plastic surgery had made it worse. Regular looking average people are underrepresented because they're less likely to p…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 03:00 AM
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Most do though. And yall know they do. Unless a man tells a woman upfront that it's casual (not using vague language at all) he's lying to get sex. And he knows it. Own it in that case. And if past mistakes cant be forgiven, I hope you've never made one. Lying to someone to sleep with them isn't a mistake. String people along isn't s mistake. Preying on people with low self esteem or weak boundaries isn't a mistake. It's a choice. Mistake denotes you didn't realize it was wrong or realize the ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 01:17 AM
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Promiscuous people use other people badly all the time. Which is why I don't respect them. Especially promiscuous men. They don't like to own up to all the shady shit they've done to get sex. I've even seen them trying to spin really morally bankrupt stories into one's that don't make them look bad. But men who spent years diligently chasing pussy usually have a whole closet full of situations they'd rather not think about. And I just can't respect anyone who can consistently mistreat other peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 12:38 AM
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Exactly. Why do people refuse to except that? Your dick and sperm was not put there for fun times. It is there for procreation first. If you get off on it, that's secondary. It's like trying to argue that you should be able to float. Gravity on Earth disagrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 10:19 AM
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It's not ironic. Those women are stupid too. I'm merely reminding men that they do the exact same. But they only hold women accountable for them choosing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:33 AM
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In cases like that, they should do it themselves. I remember once I saw thread where a guy mentioned that his wife didn't wash dishes as thoroughly as he liked. So they decided he would wash them all. I hate that bickering nitpicking bullshit that people do. You don't like it? You do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 05:13 AM
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If a woman has to nag, she should dump you. No one nags for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 03:42 AM
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See point A
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 03:41 AM
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That's it, really. "I chose wrong and don't want to break up. How can I make her behave?" It's goofy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:56 AM
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Most of the time the answer is A. And if it is, that's your fault. I wouldn't keep dating a person who bitched at me. I also wouldn't keep dating a person I need to tell to do shit. It means you're not compatible. But people try to work through everything and the shit is toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:54 AM
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Right. If someone is bitching at you you either: A. Chose the wrong person. So break up. Or B. Aren't doing something you should be doing. So do it without being asked. It's not that hard to solve this problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:31 AM
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I want to mentor kids one day. I love elementary aged kids. And young teenagers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 01:15 AM
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Interesting. I didn't know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 12:47 AM
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I've never had casual sex. I've been celibate by choice for years. I would continue to not have sex for life. As I do not want children at all. I would recommend other women do the same. Mass celibacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 12:46 AM
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It's basic logic. They are being willfully illogical. Which is the exact same shit that women do when they want to avoid personal responsibility. And the Manospehre shits on women who do this. But look how men do the exact same shit. They want to be able to ejaculate their sperm into vaginal canals because it "feels good" but then don't want to take responsibility for the result of that. When they knew the result of that. Yep..I should be able to put my hand on a hot stove and not get burned. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 11:58 PM
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EXACTLY. No one can steal your fucking biological material. No one. No law exists that can extract a man's choice from him. They just don't want to be responsible for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:06 PM
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Has got it going on
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:32 AM
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Well. At least you're honest. Some men seem to think that the responsibility of care for men should fall wholly on women. And not at all on men. Because it's "normal" for men to not care for each other. And I think that's a damn shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:02 AM
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Yes. They are symptoms of a larger problem. But I think that any individual complaining should see it as their responsibility to try to affect some change. Misandry is a symptom of a much larger problem in modern day society. And yet the Manosphere was created by individuals trying to combat the issue. Is it mainstream? No. But it is having alot of impact on alot of men and women by creating spaces to allow conversations to be had and information to be dispersed. That is doing something. Startin…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:01 AM
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So you're admitting that even when men have this conversation with other men, those men still don't care? So what are women supposed to do about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 12:29 AM
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Raise a child then. Stop talking out of your ass. Go out and adopt a child. And raise it. There are plenty. You won't get a day off for 18 years. Don't complain either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 12:28 AM
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Stay on topic. I asked why can't you? Who are you waiting for to fix it? And everything starts with one individual. Who rallies others to the cause. You don't want to do that? Cool. But stop complaining then.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 12:17 AM
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Most people's jobs are not that demanding. Most people work your standard 40 hours a week. They're not managers. Or team leaders. Or bosses. They don't carry massive stress on their heads. You do? Your friend does? That's yall. The world does not revolve around you and your life. And even if you are tired and stressed in your work, it does not take away your obligation to your children and family. Don't want that added stress? Great. Stay single. People these days think they can have it all. You…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 12:15 AM
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We can ascend human nature. Or at least manipulate it. Look at the world around you. People are constantly using human nature to get the results they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 12:08 AM
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Lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 10:58 AM
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🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 You live in 2022 AD, sir. Not in BC. You have all kinds of tools at your disposal that your ancestors did not. Like I said, you want change, but you don't want to do it yourself. All change started with one person.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 07:53 AM
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Society is men. Society is not some machine or sentient being. It's not. It's people. 50% male people. Stop waiting on intangible Society to do something. You do it. You take steps to do it. Or you have nothing to complain about. While I disagree with alot of Manosphere gurus, at least they took the steps to create spaces to allow men to talk about it. To raise the issues. But alot of yall sit around waiting for shit to change. For someone else over there to do the work. And I'm saying, why can'…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 07:50 AM
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I'm alone too. A bunch of us are alone. You're not guaranteed shit. That's what alot if men don't get. You're a good person with a job? Great. So what? Why should anyone else care? You don't care about anyone else suffering. They don't care about you. That's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 07:48 AM
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My point. Men don't care about men. And I want to know why that's not a conversation men are having with other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 07:47 AM
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People always gonna have a negative opinion. You can control that. The same happened to women. To any group. That's life. Criticism shouldn't stop men from doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 07:46 AM
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Again, that's still not helping the issue. So many men sit around asking "how come women aren't taking these male issues seriously" And I want to know why men don't. Yall don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 07:45 AM
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Men should fix that then. They're 50% of the population. They can't force women to care. But they can choose to care themselves. But they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 04:33 AM
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No. A man should want to help. There's always something to be done. A man shouldn't have to be reminded of or asked to do shit by his wife. I see men sitting around going "well, tell me what you want me to do." You didn't see the lawn getting long? You didn't hear the tap leaking? You didn't notice the last load finished in the dryer? You didn't realize the bills hadn't been opened up? You don't see/ hear your kids acting a fool? You didn't notice your wife seems especially stressed out? I can't…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 03:58 AM
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You can learn a lot from Reddit. I find all kinds of interesting topics and books and articles on Reddit. I watch all kinds of interesting videos on YouTube in the background while I work on things. Debating other people is never a waste of time. And if my posts were shit, you wouldn't be emotionally reacting to them. 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 03:47 AM
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7 and 10 year olds would both be in school. I said "work part time" in the case. For younger kids, under 5 especially, most definitely. Everything takes 3 times longer with little kids. Older ones are more manageable. But even still by 7 and 10 they would also be involved in a bunch of activities after school and mom would be I charge of shuttling them around, and running errands in between. People must think raising kids is giving them food and a place to sleep. They require time and entertainm…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 03:34 AM
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Look at the men's comments here. They think raising kids doesn't take that much time. That's asinine. Especially little kids. And teenagers need life guidance or they get out of hand. It's not easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 02:42 AM
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I disagree. Cleaning, cooking, chores etc fall under this as well. And I didn't say active as in moving. I said productive. You could be sitting on your ass reading a book. Newspaper. That's a productive activity. You're at least learning and gaining information. As long as your house is in order. And it should be in order. Everyday. But when you have young kids, there's always something to do because kids demand so much time that all the other obligations go unfinished. But dudes wanna sit on t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 02:31 AM
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Not me. I'm not having kids. But if you do, it makes the most sense for one parent to stay home. If both work with kids, the child care and chore should be 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 02:07 AM
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You've never deal with kids before, I see. They're fucking cunts. Especially 2-3 years old. On top of housework and other chores. You become a SAHD and let's find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 02:02 AM
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No. I'm not saying that. I said, be useful and productive. Playing video games and watching TV is neither. Blow off steam doing something worth something. Hobbies are productive and allow you to blow off steam. And this is extended to all kinds of activities. But dudes these days think sitting on their ass staring at a screen is attractive.. it's not. Not in women either. But yall like fucking them anyway. So that's not my business. Men want women to find their laziness and idleness attractive. …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 02:01 AM
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How is it not? You've never baby sat a young child before? While also doing chores? Shit is work. It takes alot of time and mental energy. Your post is literally indicating how fucking Clueless you are to how much trouble young kids cause. SAHM can't piss or shit without the kids in the bathroom. They follow them through all the chores. Mess it up. Interfere. Cry, scream, knock shit over. Fall down. Fight with each other. Your ignorance is seeping through. Don't have children. Please. You've cle…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 01:56 AM
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I didn't say give her a break. I said 50/50. She is cleaning up dinner. You run the baths for the kids and get them in. She comes and you both get them dressed and in the bed. Put them to sleep by 7 or 8 or 9 etc. Then take a few hours of break time. You get more free time the older the kids get. But the first 6-8 years is little break time. That's literally what you agree to when you become a parent. Men not wanting to help raise their own kids is why women are put off more and more by pregnanc…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 01:42 AM
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In my opinion: 40 hours a week for the man. Plus paying all bills. SAHM "works" 40 hours a week when kids are young. Husband comes home and shares child rearing 50/50 on nights and weekends when kids are young (you don't get a break from being a father it's a 24/7 job). Wife gets a part time job when the kids go to elementary school. Wife gets a full time job when kids go to middle school. And all bills are split separately. And both save for college. All the other stuff you mentioned (grooming …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 01:37 AM

I agree with the title of this post. Didn't read the text. But most people's life doesn't reflect this truth. Most people will say they agree. But then have a whole graveyard of failed relationships. I checked out and decided to stay single early. And am just now getting to the point I want to date again.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 12:50 AM
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Yep. So most men have no reason not to do it. It's just laziness otherwise. And most men would look really good with some muscle. Their faces square out, and they even walk differently and more confidently.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 07:40 AM
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It's a natural process is what I'm saying. I didn't mean easy as in "just half ass it and get jacked". The barrier to entry is low. Your body is designed to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 07:30 AM
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Looks aren't everything. The problem is that women are willing to take looks if you're not offering anything else. And a large portion of men aren't offering anything else. They're not tall. Not well hung. Not muscular. Not rich. Not especially funny. Not masculine. Not. Not. Not. Not. Which is why men created a system of forcing women to depend on men to ensure men could marry and father children. Because the average person is not achieving any other goal on life past reproduction. The thing is…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 07:26 AM
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No. I'm not. Everyone acts like it's some kinda science. Your body was designed to work and build and waste and gain and lose muscle and fat. But people on regiments need to believe on their regiments are the solution. They aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 07:13 AM
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Who said 6 months? 🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃 How have multiple people taken my post out of context? You exercise for life. Who is suggesting exercising for a short term muscle gain? Not me. If you exercise multiple times a week (as you should do) for life, there's no reason for any man (or woman) to not have muscle. It's not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 07:11 AM
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Yes. It's easier for a man to achieve. So what? How come everything a woman does or can do needs to be reflected through the male standard? It doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 07:09 AM
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Women dont need to build muscle like men do. Because......They're women. 🤨 Yes. Creatine is in meat. I am aware of that. Eating it as a oral supplement is indeed not an ancestral diet. It's abnormal to eat it the way gym bros do for gains
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 07:08 AM
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It's not a hot take. I'm saying, there's no reason for most men to not lift and build muscle. Not everyone needs to be shredded. But muscle looks better than excess fat on every man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 06:36 AM
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No. Women can choose to stay alone. With little distress. Men can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 06:35 AM
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Any man or woman can build muscle. You don't need a specific plan. You body was designed to do it. It's why laborers will have nice muscles despite not going to the gym. I swear gym bros act like human beings were walking skeletons until pre workout and creatine supplements were a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 06:33 AM
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Who? I think the average person knows shredded takes big effort. But lifting weights in general, doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 06:32 AM
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It's easy to build muscle. Just eat relatively healthy. Enough protein and move shit. Musculature looks good. Shredded requires a specific effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 05:20 AM
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How so? Yall have to explain yourselves. "Nuh uh" isn't an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 05:04 AM
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They're hilarious. I love picking those people's brains. Figure out why they do what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 04:53 AM
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If you find debates boring, it means you're boring. I always find something amusing in discourse. At minimum, you get an idea of human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 04:48 AM
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Yes. Most men are average. So if average is all most women can get, then staying single is better. That's what I'm saying. The earth is over populated. Couple up, for what? By accepting a man into a her life a woman has to deal with pregnancy, children, child rearing, and more unpaid labor. When she could stay single. And avoid that burden all together. Unless a man has more to offer than that, most women should say no thank you. Also, men can be above average in other ways than money. He can be…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 03:47 AM
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They can't. "Good" also means "a man that can add more value to my life". And we just determined that most men indeed cannot add anything. So most women should choose single, celibate lifestyles.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 03:30 AM
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No. Not cash prizes. Women have cash. They can buy their own prizes. Women have lower sex drives compared to men. If all else is equal, steady sex and a partner in crime is more beneficial to men and not women. A woman can get steady sex from men. And a partner in crime and life companionship from women. Partnering mostly benefits men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 01:14 AM
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What does he have to offer? Women have their own places to live, food, clothing, transportation, money. And access to free, on demand, sex because men don't value their own sexuality. If she needs protection, she can get a gun (US) or a state of the art security system. If she wants a baby she can go buy sperm and impregnate herself and raise the child alone. If she needs emotional support she can call her girlfriends. What does a man have to offer to her for an exclusive relationship? Nothing. …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 01:12 AM
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Equality doesn't exist. Humans like to believe it does. It doesn't. It's the ultimate idealistic bullshit. The reality is, someone will always have the upper hand on someone else. And women now have the upper hand. You can't fault women for "abusing" this power. Men did. All human beings do. It's what we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:49 AM
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"Society" is 50% men. It's not a machine. It's not a sentient being. 🤨 Women, historically, have been protected from men by men, so that those men could use those women to benefit men (by being wives and carrying their children). Not for any aulturistic reason. In a world where men do not exist. Women don't need protection. So I always find it weird when this point is brought up. Men aren't doing women a favor by protecting them. Protecting women is protecting their own interests. Historically m…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:30 AM
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Nothing. He has nothing to offer. If a woman's standard of life will stay exactly the same, there's no benefit to her having you in it. I think more women should be single and celibate. The herd needs to be culled.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:13 AM
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If thats true....why are male suicide rates so high? Why are so many men homeless? Why do men go to prison more often? Why aren't more men working to change that? You care about a few men on an individual level? That doesn't mean much. It's problematic that men don't care about men on a grand scale. I see the Manosphere bringing up all these male issues. And yet, the average man is doing exactly nothing to combat them. And men need to get over their preoccupation with women. It's not women's res…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 11:37 PM
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That's a lie. Men don't care. Men don't talk to other men about their feelings, struggles etc. Men cannot get their need for touch or emotional intimacy fulfilled by other men in the way women can with women. Men don't validate each other like women do. Men don't look out for each other like women do. Yall compete with each other. Criticize each other. Usurp each other. Mock each others feelings. Kill each other in wars. Men don't care about women. They care about what women can do for them (sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 11:20 PM
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Men don't care about men as human beings. Men have this idea that the onus of caring about men is 100% on women. It's not. It's mostly on men. But they give less than two fucks about themselves or another man. But all women have to have this outpouring of neverending support for them. It's stupid. Male suicide rates, imprisonment rates, homelessness rates, violence rates etc are sky high. But what are men doing about it? They make up 50% of the population. Men are out here caring just as little …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 10:40 PM
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I think your personality and character (or status in case of a man) can bump you up a point or two. So it should be 1-10.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 05:34 AM
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People are notoriously horrible at rating others. Most women are 5s. Not ugly. But not striking in anyway. A 4 is not super ugly. But something about them seems slightly ugly. A 6 is pretty. Slightly more interesting looking than a 5, but definitely not beautiful like 7s and 8s. 9s all won the genetic lottery and are super rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:34 AM
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RP content also allows detractors. FDS has to manually approve every single post until you become a "trusted" poster. They go through your history as well and will block you being apart of a bunch of random subreddits even if you've never said anything negative. I've noticed female-controlled gender politics subreddits are way more averse to disagreement than male ones. The other day I recommended an average looking woman go out alone instead of with her better looking friends if she wanted to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 12:23 PM
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Because they're likely to be securely attached. You can overcome the downsides of a broken home. You have to. If you don't, you shouldn't be dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 11:13 AM
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They're just entitled, unhappy people. At least RP men make content using their faces and show association with the cause. FDS members all hide who they are. They believe in it strongly but refuse to put their face or name to it? Nahhh.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 11:11 AM
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50% of the population is divorced. That's considered a "broken home". So they're automatically disqualified for the crime of being born to incompatible parents? Damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:31 AM
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But but...Men love toxic women.. Which is why toxic chicks are never single.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:13 AM
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I love how it's your fault if you grew up in a broken home. 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:11 AM
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Right. None live by the shit they preach. I remember one was talking shit about never marry over 23. His wife, that he married, after being a RP guru is in her 40s. 🤣🤣🤣 Not one of these dudes live the lives they tell others to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:31 PM
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Most can't even hold frame, though. Thats the best part. These RP gurus stay getting easily knocked off "frame". The whole concept is weird. Either you have frame or you don't. It's hard to fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:51 PM
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Oh yeah I agree. It's very contradictory. I was just making fun of the OP. I actually was watching a married Manosphere Youtuber that admitted that his least favorite RP tenant was that men should sleep around. He said it was extremely risking and just increasing the odds of them getting some low quality woman pregnant and ruining their lives. Not to mention the massive waste of life it is. And how the amount of time it took to get an extra notch could be used way more productively and lucrative…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:40 PM
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These women aren't shitty, they're just not attracted to the men. They range from average woman to crazy woman.. The reason they treat them badly is they have no desire to associate with these men Some are shitty. It's fine to not be attracted. But if you choose to treat someone badly, it's because you're a bad person. The end. Contrary to all the virtue signalling on reddit, Moral Standing is very very very low on the list of what people look for in a partner I agree. Which is why I have no sym…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:24 PM
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No...there are different types of women in the world. Strange, I know. The RP focuses on one exact archetype of woman. Those women would never hang out here. They're too busy watching reality TV shows, and running up their snap chat score. They're too busy posting thirst traps online. Gossiping about who they're fucking. And doing their hair to go meet up with a sneaky link. They don't read. They don't seek knowledge. And often are not curious about schools of thought like the Red Pill. I know g…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:19 PM
1

Are you 12? 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Why is every salty dude here so bad at insults?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:59 AM
1

Says the dude that's an incel. All you got is time. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:48 AM
1

Yeah. Your post reflects as much. You're quite alienating
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:47 AM
1

🤣🤣🤣🤣 Lame AF. This is why the RP will never be taken seriously. If full of a bunch of lame dudes. Trying hard to have hot takes about complex topics. But they end up look stupid. 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:46 AM
1

So you're single, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:44 AM
1

I agree. I also think there's an element of displacing responsibility. They shouldn't have to make sure you're a good person..it's 100% your fault if they let you mistrest them. Alot of the women men are complaining about seem like shitty people at first impression.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:42 AM
3

Once? Twice? Doesn't matter. People make bad decisions. It happens. Doing it over and over again are problematic. People who learn quickly are who you should be looking for. Expecting perfection is asinine. That's not reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:30 AM
4

That makes no sense. I wouldn't date a man that had casual sex. But once or twice is reasonable in today's world where casual sex is hailed as the norm. Once a girl slept with a man quickly because she was told it was liberating. She realized it wasn't. Never did it again. And here you upset that it wasn't you? Yall are insecure AF. You deserve to be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:28 AM
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You'll end up single and alone. Yall are so insecure and petty AF. You lack the ability to read character. Yall can't distinguish a game player from a sincere women. And in that case you deserve to be disqualified.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:26 AM
5

Yep. So when they find out later on, they'll dump you. The Red Pill gives such bad advice. They keep men single. Shitty women love these games. Good women don't. It's not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:25 AM
7

Nah. Alot of women lack character. And integrity. And take pride in hubris and chasing validation. But men still fuck em, wife em, impregnate em, so. 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:59 AM
5

That's it, really. You can say the same for women too. But men don't seem to mind complacent women, so. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:57 AM
4

Because women get pregnant. Men sire child who they provide for. And two men don't. 🙃🙃🙃🙃 Pregnancy has historically been dangerous. That's why women evolved to cautious. Men desire to raise their own off spring and can only be sure of it one way. I feel like the reason why are biologically simple. Also, gay men acting like sex is not big deal is a big reason why people don't feel sorry for them when they get HIV. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:10 AM
3

No, it's not. Being viewed as "hook up material" by the lowest common denominator type of woman and then feeling good about their assessment of you makes you look like a loser. You should only care for the opinions and judgements of men and women that are respectable and that you respect. Not a bunch of silly women who spend their days unproductive sifting through male attention, and watching reality TV shows and other pop culture media. It amazes me the number of men that care what stupid women…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:39 AM
4

I agree. But I do think the average man is at least aware of what it is. They've heard of it. Looked into it at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:08 AM
10

You sound like one of those people with weak ass boundaries and weak will to improve themselves getting mad that you can't just stay as you are an improve your interactions with other people. You're the weak boundary equivalent of a fat person claiming they starve themselves but can't lose weight. You simply want to get something by doing nothing. Pick a struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:03 AM
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Right. Why is this so hard to understand? 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:02 AM
4

I have no idea. I have asked women this in the past. Only to be met with ninja level deflection. They won't answer directly. No matter how you ask the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:33 PM
13

That's a shame then. You should assess why you're so easily influenced. Because even you admitted that you didn't enjoy it. I mean, I could understand once or twice. Just to see what the hype was. But honestly, I don't understand feeling unfulfilled over and over, but doing it again and again and again. That part is weird to me. As an objective observer.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:35 AM
10

You didn't answer your own question. You've engaged in it, you tell me. I haven't. Are you saying you do things because "socieity" tells you to and not because you want to? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:19 AM
7

That's trashy as well. So I don't know what point you think you're making. "Well, other people do it too" isn't excuse for you to choose to be a low quality person. 🤷‍♀️ Nah, it's still on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:10 AM
2

It's the attitude behind it. I don't like anyone who has no qualms about using another person. For any reason. It pegs you as a low quality person. Male or female. 🤷‍♀️ I don't care how normalized it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:09 AM
10

Yep. It's quite foul. Hearing men talking about how they can have sex with and discard another person without a care in the world is disgusting. I'm not impressed. I'm quite repulsed. But other men high five each other about it. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:20 AM
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Avoid anyone who focuses too heavily on shit that doesn't matter at the end of the day. People obsessed with looks, status, income, clout, fame, being "fun" etc are always a bad bet. They care too much about unimportant shit. When you're ill, and we all end up ill, none of that shit matters. When you're shitting yourself from chemotherapy, none of that matters. People have to think 20 years later. But most only care about now. The same for friendship. Get all these chucklehead losers the fuck up…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:27 AM
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Integrity. That's the only way. People have a list a mile long for what they are looking for in another person. And it rarely includes integrity. Integrity is doing the right thing when no one else is looking. Standing by your values when no one else does. I lose respect for anyone who says X but does Y. But that's most people. Most of the time. And I'm not talking about minor hypocrisies either. You need to find a person that has demonstrated this character trait without fail. Time and time aga…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 05:39 AM
4

I agree. Before porn existed, men were still jacking it. I can masturbate by imagination only. So can anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 05:19 AM
2

As a woman, I hate this shit too. Fuck you and your punk ass twerking. I can't stand that shit. So attention whore-y. Women get away with it because women are inherently seen as non serious and non threatening. I wish more women would make this behavior unacceptable. The problem is, when women police other women, it's always in some morally superiority style ("don't act like a whore") rather than just a regular "Why don't yall act like adults?" Type of way. I can't stand it. And if a woman criti…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:20 AM
4

Emotional and insecure is unattractive to me, period. Male or female. I have no idea why men and women give emotional and insecure women such a pass. But I personally don't. It's one thing to have a moment of insecurity. Or a moment of emotionality. But if it's a cornerstone of your personality it a no for me. I find it unattractive because it's a behavior that needs to be worked on and improved on. A fat person needs to lose weight. They're told to do it. Told they're unhealthy. But overly emot…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:58 AM
2

It's wrong. Exploitation is wrong period. And it works both ways. There are age gap relationships where the younger person is exploiting the older (think gold diggers). But there's too many instances of the older exploiting the younger lack of boundaries for me to feel comfortable with them. And age has something to do with it as well. Generally if the younger is past 30 they've acquired a good amount if adult life experience to "defend" themselves. Under 25? It's damn near always the younger be…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:27 AM
4

"Full of himself." 🤦‍♀️ There's people who like to turn up. But aren't looking to be looked at. Then there's the people that are cocky and full of themselves. Those people require feedback group the group and alter their behavior to get maximum validation. They're corny ass fuck IMO. And I make it a point to not validate them. Which is funny. Because they always manage to zero in on the one person who isn't impressed with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:24 AM
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What the OP describes is a person who needs to be seen. The type that takes feedback from people and ratches it up or down depending on the reaction they're getting. Which is why they are often cocky. What you're talking about is just you're run of the mill extroverted. And I'd still say no because I don't want to be with someone who likes going out, crowds and loud music and dancing. Because it's the exact opposite of what I like to do. And we wouldn't be compatible at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:51 AM
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Number 1. Maybe number 2. Why? Because I'd be doing the exact same thing. If I was at a night club (which I wouldn't be) I would be there because I was a DD and that's it. I don't like dancing, crowds or music (that much). Which means me and number 1 would likely be be introverts and prefer conversation to loud ass, crowded places. Dudes like number 3 are my least favorite. I don't like people whose self esteem hinges on being liked by others or getting the attention of others. People who need t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:13 AM
0

Yes. It does. Male or female. I don't like any age gap relationships. Because more often than not, someone is being exploited.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:28 AM
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That's really it. I wouldn't date someone that used porn excessively. A few minutes a few times a week to masturbate. And as long as it isn't weird shit. Any more than that and a I wouldn't consider dating you at all. I amazes me all the men who claim to be "on their purpose" but expend all their energy jacking off. It pegs you as a low ambition person IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:27 AM
1

Maybe. But the shit is certainly more overused these days. People won't even hear out the other person's POV. It's an immediate "you're insecure because someone hurt you". The other day I had some man write 500 words about how I as bitter, insecure and hurt all because I disagreed with him on something. He wrote a whole saga that didn't at all apply to me or my life. It was weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:26 PM
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Insecure is the new insult period. If you have an opinion that differs from someone else's? Insecure. If your opinion is in judgement of someone else? Insecure. If you say anything that makes another person feel bad about their life choices? Insecure. If you don't want to date someone because of XYZ? Insecure. The shit is so overused these days. People say that to take you down a notch. And to make themselves feel better. "No..it's not the fact that I am overweight that he does want to date me. …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:31 PM
2

I did answer your question. The OP asked if women should have sex when they're not particularly in the mood. I said yes. That's meeting a man's need. Is it not? If you're hungry, eating a turkey sandwich and a bag of chips is quelling your hunger, right? Is it a 5 star steak? No. But you're not hungry anymore either. So one should expect variations in sex in a relationship. You shouldn't expect the best meal every time. Nor the best sex ever everytime. But here you are asking if a man should do …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:11 PM
1

🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ Yall literally think that because someone, at some point defined something that there is no other way to interpret it. Thats not how concepts work. Masculine and feminine are not tangible. They are concepts. Concepts that only exist as mutually shared ideas between people. This reality means that the idea of masculinity and femininity is changeable. One person cannot unilaterally decide what it is. You can however place parameters on it and say "masculinity according to X" or "f…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 09:56 PM
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People need to live in reality. This is the reality of long term relationships like marriage. You're living in a delusion if you think every time you have sex with your partner over decades of being together that it's going to be spectacular. That is a very immature POV from jump. You get the opportunity to raise a family, build a legacy, have regular access to sex, have intimacy, and companionship, love, trust etc. You're getting all that from a relationship as well. Grown men shouldn't be sulk…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 09:50 PM
3

Yes. As long as you aren't sick, in pain, or injured. (Or menstruating if you're not into period sex) The next question you should be asking is: Men are you okay with knowing your wife isn't in the mood but still willing to have sex with you? I've seen some men not be able to get over the fact that their wife's "interest" isn't as high as theirs or as burning as theirs is. It's like some men just don't understand that women have way less testosterone than men do. And expect women to be as outrag…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 09:20 PM
1

This man could have 25 kids in a few years if he plays his cards wrong. 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 01:19 AM
0

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/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 01:18 AM
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I've heard it's a state by state thing. And men have the same fate in those states as well. Its really dumb. How obsessed people are with other people's procreation. It shouldn't be hard to do at all. You can get fake tits easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 12:28 PM
2

There are no equals. Even in friend groups. One is always slightly more dominant than the others. And they're aware of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 12:13 PM
2

So? What does that have to do with a grown ass man threatening someone because they said something he didn't like? Your post isn't answering my question. It's weak behavior. Violence should only be used in self defense or to protect someone else. Otherwise you're bitch made.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 12:11 PM
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Doctors don't just give out vascetomies easily. Not to 20 year olds. So getting approval will be your first obstacle.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 11:19 AM
2

This is how masculine energy is supposed to be used. Not chasing women. Being useful. And building. Of course stupid women hate that. They love useless, but fun men. Which is why it makes no sense for a man to make himself into what a silly ass woman likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:49 AM

Yes. They did. You don't make laws prohibiting women from working voting, owning property, getting an education etc and say that isn't force. That's force. Men and women, thousands of years ago, had to work together to survive. That's true. The last few hundred they have not. And yet there were laws, created by men, specifically designed to keep women chained to men. Give a woman a choice and many would have chosen not to have a man. Like many these days are choosing. And rightfully so. There's …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:32 AM
1

Some women bitch to bitch. People bitch to bitch. The fuck would a dominant man care to respond? Lions don't bother trying to catch the mice that scurry around their feet. Because they see it as a waste.of their precious energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:47 AM

There was always less benefit for women. Duh. That's the reason men literally forced women to depend on men for survival. Now women can make the choice to date or not. The outcome? Less men are getting picked because women are choosing themselves and a quiet life and not a man. There need to be less women Dating. More single, childfree women in the world. It's not our responsibility to fulfill any man's needs. Ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:38 AM
3

No. But women also aren't walking around talking about Alpha this and Alpha that, so.....my point stands. Most people aren't leaders. Or capable of taking in that burden. But dudes in the Manosphere are too salty to admit they ain't got the natural traits to measure up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:32 AM
3

Women aren't soft. They just aren't men. Imagine trying to compare the two. Alot of men are soft when compared to other men that aren't soft. But some of yall are soft when compared to some women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:31 AM
2

Masculine and feminine are not binary. That's also a sliding scale. And yall think I care about what a masculine man wants? I don't. He is free to want what he wants and live how he lives. It has nothing to do with me and my life. Yall really think that all women sit around wondering how they can be attractive to men. Newsflash: many women don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:27 AM
3

No. That's not how yall are soft. Yall are still soft though. Betas have always existed. But a beta 100-500 years ago isn't was no where near as soft as men are these days. The entire human race has gone soft. That's what technological advancement does to people. And I find it weird that so many of yall hate to admit it. You don't need to go around telling someone you're a bad ass if you're a bad ass. You also wouldn't feel threatened by someone suggesting you weren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:15 AM
0

That's true. But it is situational. In a group of males. It's easy to tell who is dominant and who is not. Most of the men in a group of males clearly are not. But game recognizes game. So the strongest members will easily find each other and begin to lead. I just don't get why so many men have a hard time admitting they aren't top dogs. And never were. And never will be. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:47 AM
3

Lol a man comparing himself to a woman. Ain't that some shit? Men should be comparing themselves to men. Not women. Like I said, SOFT. Why is a grown man comparing himself to a woman who, is biologically designed to be physically weaker? That's like me calling myself strong when compared to a 5 year old child that is physically incapable of being stronger than me. How dumb.would that make me look, sir? You wouldn't need the RP if you weren't soft. Strong men don't hang around the Manosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:45 AM
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🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ These traits are a sliding scale. The vast majority of men possess these traits in decent amounts. Which is why most men are considered "beta". Masculine men are rare AF. Most of yall are soft.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 01:27 AM
9

It's funny how many people are saying "people would be boring". The drive to have sex is not a personality trait that hedonists think it is. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 12:28 AM
3

Westerners would hate it. This is how the east and west differ. In the East, men and women will keep up a mask for years. They will be the perfect BF or GF. And then change the moment the ink on the marriage license is dry. Happens all the time. Which is why people here will sometimes get married but not file the official paper work until 2-3 years later after "figuring out" if their partner is a tolerable companion after living together a few years. This leads to people hiding truths before mar…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 09:28 PM
7

Yes. Men can have whatever opinions they want. But I would never seek to have problem with a man having rights. And freedoms. Ever. Women are the prize. History has taught us that. When men invaded villages, they'd kill the men and take the women. Men don't value men. And they never have. Yall love bringing up suicide rates in men. But 50% of the world is male. So if men are killing themselves, and there's no emotional support, it means that men don't care to support men. Because they're still h…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 10:44 AM
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Men should have no opinion on it. It's funny. If women are happier raising kids, and doing housework, why did men work collectively to craft a system full of laws and cultural norms to discourage or prohibit women from working/earning money etc? Wouldn't women naturally choose to be housewives even if presented with the option not to be? But modern times prove this isn't true. Doesn't it? The only way men can guarantee that most of them get picked is to make sure women have no other options but …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 09:20 AM
0

No. One isn't wrong. I would rather stay single than approach a man. Gimpgirl would not. If I choose to stay single by not approaching a man, that's not only my right, it's also my business. And has nothing to do with what any other woman is doing. Men act like something bad is gonna happen to women who choose to stay single. Women dont lose out by staying single. Men lose out by women staying single.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:25 AM
1

It's not worth it to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:08 AM
2

Do you have breakdown percentage of each one? I'd imagine the last one is really common for men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:08 AM
1

Why wouldn't two, completely individual women, have differing opinions? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:52 AM
1

My problem is expectation. I couldn't imagine expecting a man to pay for me. Or expecting a man to do XYZ while being whole ass strangers. People these days are fucking weird. And think their entitlement is normal. If a man ever had the expectation to have sex by date 3, I'd never speak to him again. People kill me claiming to want long term relationships. But they don't actually want to delay anything to properly vet the other person before partaking in anything. I just don't think having sex e…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:10 AM
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My favorite is when men try warn women against staying single like they're doing them a favor or something. Even if a woman regrets not getting married or not having kids, that regret is easier to process when you don't have to worry about a man or kids. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:24 AM
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🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️ Suck to suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:23 AM
21

Good. Imagine being a woman 200 years ago. These women would be forced to marry and have sex with some man despite not desiring it. Or not having time to. What a good time to be alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 07:37 AM
0

I'll happily die single before I approach a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 07:26 AM
4

Why would they be attracted in the same way? Heterosexual men seek to impregnanate women. They look for traits that show that a woman can carry a pregnancy. A good amount of body fat, a full chest, and hips and ass are part of this. So men are drawn to women in this way to fulfill a biological imperative. This is probably also why men are more aggressive sexual thoughts about women. But a lesbian doesn't really have hear DNA screaming "replicate with that woman" because it's not biologically pos…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:31 PM
3

Have a party. Invite women. Get them drunk and high. Then have sex with them. What could go wrong? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:50 AM
5

Yep. I swear givers need to find other givers. Let takers be selfish assholes by themselves. And leave us givers alone. I think so many decent people just get swallowed up in a river of shitty ones that they never meet each other. These days I take people are immediate face value and disqualify them quickly. All relationships. If you seem shitty, it's because you are. And life is much quieter for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:44 PM
4

Yeah. Social media has really fried people's brains. It's a shame. How influencable people are. How most people don't act as individuals. But as followers. How society has to create strict norms and apply them to most people or else they will easily be led astray. Like stupid lambs that keep wandering off the farm. Everyone is selfish because they consume so much media encouraging selfishness and lack the inability withstand it..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:18 PM
3

This is the only answer. Alot of men expect sex early. Moving in together, getting married, making it official, sharing bank information etc is all taboo by date 3. But sex isn't? Make it make sense to me.. These people wouldn't put you on their insurance. But they expect you to risk pregnancy, an STD, emotional and psychological turmoil to have sex with them? Stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:08 PM
1

It's unethical. And a woman letting you pay for her or buy expensive stuff for her and then rejecting you is also unethical. Both are shitty behaviors. Legitimately. It shows a lack of integrity. Regardless as to what other people do, it doesn't excuse you from holding yourself to a set of standards and principles. If you choose not to have integrity. Its because you chose not to. Not because "women do it too."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:40 AM
1

That's unethical.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:23 AM
12

Just because they're rich doesn't mean they are good at picking a good spouse or being a good spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:01 PM
15

Exactly. People in the past were unhappy AF. But there was a big "suck it up and suffer through it" culture that was prevalent. People love hyping tradition. When traditionally, marriage wasn't focused on happiness, as you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 01:59 PM
15

They verbally tell on themselves. Most people are followers and easily influenced. If they consume enough, it gives them a big ego and a big mouth. They will literally recite popular RP "truths" verbatim. Or use the same manner of speaking as gurus use. (Psuedo-intellectual) They need to show off how smart they are. So can't wait to tell on themselves. All you have to do is watch RP content for a few weeks and you'll get the hang of it picking it up. I call men out of their RP bullshit all the t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 01:56 PM
3

I didn't make it more than 15 mins in. Once the AE part started, I turned it off. It was way too fucking obvious that it was a scam. And the Norway chick was mega delusional. She thought she hit the fucking lottery off Tinder. 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 01:52 PM
1

Ehhhh. I think a substantial portion are. I also think middle and lower middle class make up a substantial portion as well. Upper class? I don't see it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 01:11 AM
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I don't care. If they want to stay unmarried, let them. However a man who doesn't want to get married should not expect a woman who does to stick around. Date women who also don't want to get married. Or stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:12 AM
1

This fucking guy dated a woman for weeks! Told her he deleted his hinge, texted over Christmas, took photos of her at the MET, asked her intentions. If that's true then people have no right to be defending him. Thats blantant gross manipulation. If applied to any other circumstance, (job, housing, business etc) people would be outraged, but so many men are emotional and weak egoed in the Manosphere that they refuse to call out legitimately bad behavior in men as long as a woman is the victim. An…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:56 AM
-1

Society doesn't owe you: order, not murdering your family members, human decency, job, shelter, laws or protection. Anyone can make a list about what they're not owed in regards to basic human integrity. And it will always look as stupid as the one you've created.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:52 AM
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Exactly. This person has common sense. You have me all the way fucked up. Whether you have Herpes or not, the reality is, you have likely slept with multiple people with it. And the shit lays dormant. You're risking a permanent STD for sex? That's a no for me. Promiscuous people have no excuse for their behavior when STD are brought into the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 10:00 PM
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Say that when you get herpes. Everyone walks around ignoring medical professionals advice. Then act surprised Pikachu face when they get a permanent STD. You act like the fact that you haven't gotten an STD yet means you won't get one ever. When statistics aren't really on your side.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 09:57 PM
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Here you are, calling me dumb. Acting like you're defending FWB in general. When in reality you're just defending yourself and your choices. Yall kill me feigning objectivity. Like I said, people who keep these relationships untied off generally are prone to liking drama, confusion, hurt feelings, bickering, jealousy etc that come with keeping the people around. And I find it insufferable and exhausting as I highly value peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 09:43 AM
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Your misogyny isn't even entertaining. It's just a drag. 🙄🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 09:18 AM
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No. They don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 09:16 AM
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That's a good analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 10:30 PM
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Clean break. I don't understand people who stay friends. You will never be friends with a person you used to fuck like you are with your friends you've never slept with. It's like a string of untied loose ends. A perpetually cracked window that neither cools not offers a breeze. So then, what the point? I find that people who stay friends with exes are people who like the threat of unnecessary drama to be constantly present in their life. And that's corny AF to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:38 PM
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I know I am. I just don't say it. Because people think it's not real because they don't experience it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 10:59 AM
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Do you think 'I like you' is enough, or do you think others who engage in casual sex experience it differently? "I like you" would be the seed of "this person may be a sexual option." But without love and respect I would never follow through. I cannot tolerate the idea of sleeping with someone I don't love, trust and respect. So I don't understand how people can have sex. It's not an experience I can fathom at all. Being comfortable with having sex with a stranger. Or someone you don't care for.…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:45 AM
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Expression of shared intimacy. I don't experience sexual arousal as an itch. Or as an strong carnal need that alot of people seem to have. I like you. I love you. I respect you. I want to feel closer to you so I have sex as an expression of that feeling. It's also why I don't prefer to orgasm most of the time as I find it incredibly mentally and physically draining requiring a long recovery period.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:22 AM
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It's at least conceivable to me that an attractive, pleasant woman could read FDS just for the tips on identifying plate-spinners and abusers, maybe even comment now and then, while fully recognizing that most of the sub's content is cartoonishly toxic. Right. This is FDSs only strong point. And I always recommend people learn about ideologies they don't fully agree with. FDS isn't all bad. The same for RP. Take what is helpful but ignore the rest. I find it funny that Redpillers will shit on FD…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 03:54 AM
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Women can't weaponize sex if men would stop being obsessed with it. You need food, air, water, shelter. You're not gonna die without sex. But men act like death awaits when they can't get laid. And that urge isn't women's responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:01 AM
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Ur? 🤮🤮🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 12:08 AM
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I would not consider dating any man that was small minded enough to cling to and associate with any flawed ideology like the RedPill. Does the RedPill make some relevant points? Sure. Is alot of it laughable bullshit? Yes, it is. So just pick out the good points and throw the rest away. No need to call yourself a RedPiller. The same for FDS. They have some really good points hidden under a mountain of misandry. And I can't respect women too stupid not to recognize that and distance themselves fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 12:08 AM
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You spelled people wrong. What is this propaganda in the Manosphere that men, by virtue of being male, are more logical than women? Plenty of men ignore reality, truth, and data if it doesn't fit their narrative. Have you not spent considerable time in the Manosphere? 90% of the rhetoric is emotionally motivated mixed with some fact. And most men aren't STEM. And STEM men can still be prone to emotionality because they are people. Too many of yall take the XY chromosome=logical/rational thing to…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 09:07 AM
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They will expect you to be able to provide them with an above average lifestyle for the country you live in. Not the country they live in. I think alot of men think they can marry a woman from another country and bring her to their home country and she will be grateful. Nah, she's gonna look around and say "Why can't you afford what the Jones' can afford". As foreigners see developed counties and land of milk and honey. Like I said, good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 02:08 PM
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My favorite is when they resort to anti logic and downvoting. So many men on this subreddit are illogical, overly emotional, and can't admit that they're wrong. Alpha where?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:30 PM
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Good luck. Foreign women are more unapologetically hypergamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:28 PM
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"The best job I ever had was a job where I could come in late, leave early, sleep whenever I wanted to and still get paid in full and full benefits" 🤨 It's not abnormal for a woman to want a relationship and a future if she's sleeping with someone and spending time on them. Just like it's not abnormal for an employer to expect their employee to fulfill certain requirements (like doing their job) in order to receive a pay check. Why suggest otherwise? A woman slept with you for 6 months while ask…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:19 PM
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Right. It's not complicated. You can only be friend zoned if you choose to stick around in the friendzone. I'd never stay friends with someone who didn't want me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:15 PM
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Skin color and height are not choices. Sexual promiscuity is. So you cannot conflate the two. Promiscuous also get defensive when judged for their past because they aren't used to it. A week or so ago, I made a post saying that men who sleep around often have to be deceptive at times to get sex and that it was a low integrity behavior. And a bunch if dudes who sleep around got in their feelings over it. When you call a cad a man whore he laughs. Tell him his past indicates a person of low charac…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 11:59 AM
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The reason is simple: A lot of women resent judgment/criticism in any form. Most people do. Especially these ddays. People want to be able to live their lives without stopping to question their own behavior. And they resent anyone who brings up unpleasant things they'd rather not think about. Alot of promiscuous women claim to be confident in their sexual choices. If you were confident you wouldn't get mad when someone passed on you because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:46 AM
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I wouldn't consider dating someone who did this. It's a deal breaker. I believe that when it's over, move on. People who are sentimental about mementos from relationships from the past are weird AF to me. I don't do it. And Id expect a partner not to either.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 07:49 AM
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I think what makes this whole discussion difficult is that people often poorly evaluate their own intelligence I agree. The over estimate their own level of curiousity. Most people aren't curious. I love talking to because they always have some interesting insight that I would never have thought about. Some novel view on the world that I would never have thought about. This would be what I think of when I hear "intellectual". But do you find that a substantial amount of people fit this descripti…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 12:15 AM
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It may be. I'm not saying it isn't. I'm merely pointing out how frequently it is misused and misappropriated by people in general. People love to attribute characteristics to themselves they simply don't possess. Most people simply don't care to look at things in a critical, open minded and analytical way. They make their minds up and then don't prefer to think about it anymore. And don't like to be challenged. Which is fine. But decided not intellectual..
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 12:05 AM
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No. I'm not. I'm surprised people don't know they're not actually intellectual. It's used frequently by people. But often isn't true. It's like saying "I like to be athletic and work out regularly" all the while being a person who works out once a week. That's not athletic at all. And once a week doesn't qualify as "regularly". That video merely illustrated what I already knew: people suck at accurately evcavaluating themselves objectively. No one is gonna say "I don't value intellectual convers…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 11:44 PM
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who I can also have an intellectual conversation with. This is one of the most generic things people say. Everyone says this but it's almost never true IME. I was watching a Youtube video a couple of hours ago. A reaction video to video of a woman doing something toxic. Anyway, the Youtuber says "I like to have intellectual conversations. And I need a woman who I can have an intellectual conversation with." Which made me roll my eyes because all of his videos are fairly short because he doesn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 09:51 AM
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I would say working side by side with a person is a good way to get to know them. But workplace? Ehhh. Nah. Too risky. Volunteering? Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 03:48 AM
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I agree. It used to be a big factor in the past. Being a man of high integrity. Not so much anymore. As most people don't have integrity. So they don't value it. However it's the most important quality for me personally. A man can have all the looks, money and status in the world, but if he doesn't have integrity, it's a flat out no for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 10:06 PM
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This is a really good point. That's exactly what they do. They are too insulated. It only works if you can dump a heaping pile on them and crush them under the weight of the shame before they can slither away. Light shaming doesn't work. Truthful, poignant shaming is quite effective as it's hard for the listener to ignore.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:06 PM

One is illegal. Both are predatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 01:10 PM
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It was pure luck. I signed it and it was empty. Fate, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 12:31 PM
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First. 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 12:01 PM

I've fallen for many plain-looking girls. I like nerdy, a little non-polished girls. I'd take them over duck-faced Instagram models any day. Even though this is true for you, you have to admit it's not for alot of men. For example I'm not impressed by a man's status fame and money. If I don't like him, those things aren't going to make me like him. However alot of women be way more interested in a man when they find out he has those things. I've seen it with my own eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:39 AM

Envy? For what? Pointing out reality? People are easily bamboozled. By fame. Beauty. Etc. I don't get it. And am not impressed by people easily bamboozled.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:10 AM
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She's good looking. So what? I don't get people who get bamboozled. It's like how people freak out when a celebrity walks in. Why? They're famous. So what.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:09 AM
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lot of women don't think they're average. They have tonnes of options (for sex), so that leads many of them to believe that they're hot shit and deserve a relationship with a guy out of their league. I don't get that. I see alot of women that aren't even good looking acting like they are. It's a delusion spurred on by other women. Other Women tell them they look good. Dudes get drunk and hit on them at that bar. But they have to realize that men don't check for them during daylight hours, on soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 10:29 AM

Right. But all the men in the Manosphere act like they don't regularly engage in this behavior. I bet money they do. Which is why the manosphere is mostly obsessed with the bad behavior of women that are 7+ and aren't really concerned with 1-5 unless they do something especially shitty. It's all "Why can't pretty girls behave?" Ain't no one checking for a "good girl" if she's plain.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:29 AM

I believe it. Men don't remember the women they ignore. It's like you don't exist. When pretty girls are present all your average looking ones become invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:06 AM
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Why can't men just admit that and then leave those chicks alone? At best she's using you for an ego boost. So you can choose to not give her any attention because it's obvious she's out of your league. Average and below average men's biggest trump card is their ability to just not give any attention. The biggest simps are average/below average. They're the ones gassing really attractive women's heads up most. Hot men aren't that pressed on hot women. As an average looking woman I'm not stupid en…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:46 AM
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Ok, if that's so easy, how many of you would be willing to refuse sex with a girl you know is physically out of your league, all for the sake of "being able to pair bond with my future life partner?" I would also like the answer to this question. This is why I can't respect any man who claims to want X all the while doing Y and judging all the other people also doing Y. Yall are one and the same. I am average. I live average men. I have no history of shooting out of my league either. I expect th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:56 AM
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I was looking for this comment. 👌 Glad to see someone else also has sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:22 AM
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Or...masturbate. 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:54 AM
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So you're saying that because I get horny I must go out and have casual sex? 🤔 I guess if I'm poor and need money, I should rob a bank. Since I clearly have no other options.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:51 AM
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Yes. You can. But alot of RP doesn't advocate settling down. They advocate sleeping with as many women as possible. Because it's a man's "nature". It's bullshit. It's not nature. It's choice
/r/ExRedPill27/01/22 05:49 AM
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If you know they're lying, the why don't you leave? The end. It's not anymore complicated than that. By your logic, I should go out and committ crimes. Why? Well, because other people have committed crimes. And it affected me. So that's reason enough to do the same. You're salty and vindictive. You just proved that. Instead of just walking away and being the bigger person. You need to get even. Which pegs you as a toxic person. But people like you never think you get what you deserve. You always…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 04:20 AM
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Online interaction is more honest. It's all anonymous. People are the least full of shit online. Even trolls. They prove how unhappy and attention seeking alot of people are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 04:17 AM
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Bull shit. If you are looking for a job, you need to be out there putting in applications and sending out resumes, right? Not sleeping in late and watching TV all day. So if a man wants to be married, he should be looking for a wife. Not sleeping around. If you want to sleep around, go ahead. But stop acting like you aren't making the choice to do so.
/r/ExRedPill27/01/22 04:15 AM
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Bull shit. If you are looking for a job, you need to be out there putting in applications and sending out resumes, right? Not sleeping in late and watching TV all day. So if a man wants to be married, he should be looking for a wife. Not sleeping around. If you want to sleep around, go ahead. But stop acting like you aren't making the choice to do so.
/r/ExRedPill27/01/22 04:15 AM
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No. Why is that so hard for people who have casual sex to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 04:13 AM
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Then the woman should end it. I personally have no interest in long term dating. It's weird, in other countries is perfectly normal to be married within a year if all other things are compatible. Date for years for what? If your end goal is marriage. Just get married if there are no red flags. . People these days waste too much time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 12:25 AM
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Why? Marriage doesn't mean with them, per se. It's intention. I date for marriage only. Dating someone not interested in marriage ever is a waste of both our time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 12:23 AM
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Either that or you're realizing your argument makes no sense because literally no one is agreeing with you. Even the predatory age gap post got more support than this one is getting n
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:44 PM
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It's transparent. You can think that the person is lying. Sure. Go ahead. But then the onus is on you to walk away. No harm. No foul. No time wasted. You're just grasping at reasons to be mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:43 PM
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u/meddit-throwaway Where's my response at? 🤔 Mr. Logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:30 PM

I think the premise has some truth to it. Is it necessarily 100%? Of course not. But IME it is definitely true. If you're attracting only toxic people, you need to figure out what it is about you that's attracting them. If you keep attracting sharks, you might want to check for a bleed somewhere. I think the type of people you attract and the type of behavior you attract from other people can give you insights on the things you need to improve about yourself. For example I was being taking advan…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:20 PM
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I'm single by choice lol, you mad? I don't believe you. You're talking out the side of your neck. And you think your "arguement" makes sense. People like you regularly embarrass themselves IRL. Which is why no one likes you. It's not other people. It's you. Nothing you've said here makes the least bit of logical sense. None of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:13 PM
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It rots the brain, really. I have to actually take breaks after a while. Because it's so far removed from reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:06 PM
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"I don't want to have sex before I get to know you" is both transparent, open and intentional. What are you talking about? Has logic always been this difficult for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:02 PM
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This is the most ridiculous claim I've seen in a while here, OP. And that's saying alot because people post all kinds of ridiculous ass claims here. Posts like this is why you're single/unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:01 PM
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Right. What's so fucking hard to understand about that? These people are constantly telling on themselves. Thoughts like this are why they're single. Not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 10:59 PM
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Alot of men have that suave, playful, "be exciting" attitude though. And I just don't prefer it. I do recognize that alot of women do. But it doesn't nothing for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 12:44 PM
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No. I don't. But it's not 50%. Definitely less than that. But common enough that everyone knows several women that fall into this category.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 12:38 PM
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I swear the RP only talks about the same one archetype of woman: Women who like to have keys jangled in front of their faces like a rattle to a baby. It's the same broad over and over again. And RP and PUA teaches game to appeal to this archetype of women the most. Even though they aren't even half of women. I would say 25-30% maybe. But they are the type to like drama, excitement, roller coasters, are extroverted, dress like sex pots etc. But it doesn't teach men to interact with any other type…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 04:38 AM
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5' 8"* 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 04:18 AM
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I don't think it's practiced often in reality. I think it would only work if there was already clear attraction/comfort between you and it was asked in a serious manner. I think too many men are goofy and would laugh or say it in a really joking manner. Which would be unattractive. I think a certain degree of sincerely and vulnerability would be needed to ask to kiss a person and be taken seriously. From the sayer and the listener.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 04:15 AM
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Yes. They should. Or they shouldn't be dating you. I personally think it's weird to continue to date someone who has tributes you don't like. At best you should be neutral about them. But I would break up with someone who admitted they were tolerating some physical trait in me. When they honestly preferred (strongly) the exact opposite. I think it's generally disrespectful to sit and date someone when they don't suit your preference. So if someone said to be "I prefer short women" its a rap for …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:54 PM
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Oof. I've never used an app. But this experience is quite interesting. I've only ever heard women complaining about it being terrible. So I can only use their stories as reality for apps. I think women do meet annoying men. But I also think alot of women lie. And complain about regular Joes contacting them where they're a regular Jane. Alot of men and women want the best that they can get. And being presented with those options ( though way out of their league) creates an attitude that they if t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 08:28 AM
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There's nothing wrong with being nice. Nothing wrong with being kind. However there's a difference between being a nice person overall and elbowing your way into a woman's line of vision to do something for her in the hopes that she will validate you with a smile, a thank you, a touch or sex. Alot of men do things for women when they aren't asked. Or even wanted or needed. So many men think that if they do something nice, but completely unrequested favor for a woman, that they will be given some…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 05:55 AM
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A man having kids means he picked wrong. His decision making skills are shit. He had multiple children with the wrong person. And now his kids get to pay for it by being brought up in a broken home. It pegs him as a loser. Men don't get points for this shit. It's just as big a shame as when women choose the wrong man. But single fathers legitimately believe that them having kids isn't baggage. It's always baggage. Man or woman. Single women don't want single fathers. Which is why they resort to …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 04:42 AM
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Women will never outearn men. For that to happen women would need to have far more highly intelligent people among them who'd be happy to become workaholics. Stop talking about a minority of men. Thus isn't most men. Most people are not ambitious. Not highly intelligent. Not workaholics. Not high earners. Not just most women. Most men as well. Yall kill me purposely avoiding saying "most men" because you are starkly aware that you don't fit into the category of exceptional men. You're just avera…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 03:06 AM
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Exactly. Which is why it's in women's best interest to disqualify men based on their past as well. Have a history of using women just for sex? 👌👌 That's a no for me, dawg. You don't get to do that, then turn around and say you have the makings for a serious, long term relationship and that you respect women. You only respect your sexual urges. Which is fine. But Most men try to walk back this behavior and say "Well, I've matured". Which is the same thing hoes and sluts say.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 02:55 AM
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What? The reality that men choose jobs that, on average, pay more than jobs that women choose? That is also reality. And any woman who gets upset at that is an idiot. And I say that as a woman who has not chosen a job that pays alot of money because that field or work doesn't appeal to me. More power to the people that it does appeal to. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 01:11 AM
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Yeah being intentionally vague is lame to me, I can only speak for dudes but I think it’s extremely easy to read a situation or vibe almost instantly or at least in the first few interactions, whether it be through a dating app or in person, you KNOW what a person is looking for It's a cultural thing. People notice. We can read situations, people, and vibes. I live in Asia. This is apart of the culture. The onus is on you to be able to read a room and read another person and react accordingly. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:20 PM
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I like how men on PPD just cannot understand that men lie about this. Single mothers are given so much energy it's like so many single father's think them being single parents is somehow less bad. So they lie because in their mind it's not a big deal because "of course women like children". It's a massive double standard. I've seen so many posts on r/childfree written by childfree women who keep encountering this behavior from men. They legitimately believe being a single father isn't as bad as …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:09 PM
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Plenty of men also want drama. If you are a man, and you're choosing to date an emotional, volatile, jealous prone, argument-loving, fly off the handle type of woman, it's because you love drama too. Even RP gurus seek out these women..so they can keep them in line. It gives them something to do. Someone to argue with. Someone to put in their place. Someone to look after. Men never admit to it though. Then these men will go out in public and say "Well all women are dramatic like this so I had no…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:00 PM
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Brunch and hiking isn't a personality just like video games aren't. But there's a cultural bias that one dimensionality is ok as long as you go outside. You're right. Alot of women are also boring AF and corny AF. And they are given a pass for being basic and boring whereas men often times aren't. But we realize that what women can get away with and what men can get away with are completely different. Also some of this comes off as wanting to be wined and dined or expecting men to plan all the d…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:53 PM
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Stop. Yall act like average AF or below average men don't do this. They do. Do they have any business doing this? No. They should recognize their "lane" and stay in it. But alot of men and women want to at least known what it feels like to play the game that the most attractive get to play. At least a few times in their lives. It's why you see overweight, unattractive women acting stuck up when a man approaches them and they know damn well they don't get as much attention as an attractive woman.…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:47 PM
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The biggest issue men have is their unquenchable thirst to be sexually validated by women. If you give women the power to validate your sexual attractiveness and worth as a man and human, you, by extension, give them the power to invalidate you just as easily by simply rejecting your advances. It is also extremely unfair to burden women with the responsibility of validating you as a man. It is not their job to do so and it is extremely taxing for them to be given this burden which they never wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:34 PM
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You choose a lot of things everyday. Alot of which are natural. And technically beneficial to you. However you can still choose not to do them. For a variety of reasons. You're saying that if a person doesn't choose to get in a monogamous relationship and stay in it that it means it's not natural. And I'm saying it's not that black and white. There are reasons for why people don't. Good reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:21 PM
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They have no obligation. However if you play the vague game it means you also have no integrity. The onus is on you to not take advantage of other people. You don't get off the hook for that. It's my fault if I allow a man to spend money on me (that he offered heartily to spend) if I know for a fucking fact that I don't like him, and will never like him. I don't get to just play coy and say "tee hee, well he offered so what was I supposed to do?" If you have integrity (which the vast majority of…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:12 PM
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It's normal and natural when two compatible people are together. If you're an immature, toxic, drama loving, excitement needing POS then it's not gonna ever be natural for you. Also alot of people are in relationships with people they aren't compatible with. And that leads to more unhappiness. People in the past weren't compatible either. But their was an element of "Just suck it up and deal" that ensured people stayed married anyway. People always hype 50 year marriages like it wasn't filled wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:01 PM
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I agree. The responsibility falls to both parties. The man, if he has integrity, should mention flat out that the encounter is sex only. Alot men avoid doing this a leave it vague so that they can get sex out of it without any responsibility because later on the can claim they never said they wanted a relationship. But they also never said it was just sex. Women also need to make sure they get confirmation of what it is upfront before anything happens as well. And if she doesn't then she is resp…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:57 PM
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Why do yall always bring up "man with means"? 99% of men have never fallen in this category. So it doesn't apply to the vast majority. If anything, marriage guarantees every man get his allotted woman. So men had something to build on and live for. Otherwise, they'd lose their fucking minds due to unhappiness, depression and feelings of worthlessness. Look at the modern world. How upset men get when no woman chooses them. In a world where women are not allowed to work or have freedom, a man is g…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:50 PM
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I don't think it's just a belief system. Partially? Sure. To what degree? I cannot say. But from what I've noticed is that men care tremendously about what women think of them. Which is why men's behavior "changes" when around women. They can't behave normally if a woman enters the room. They're body language changes. Voice tone changes. Manner of speech changes.etc. I've never observed this behavior in women. May be a really high status man? But that's a rare occurrence. Men and boys act like t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:31 AM
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You've gotten lazy. That's probably it. Most women have a responsive sex drive. You do something that makes you look manly (like having a life, goal, schedule, plans, etc) and the woman responds by getting aroused at you being a whole ass man with other things to do than sit around. Whereas all a woman needs to do is be female and fuckable and a man can get aroused. More than likely you got into the idea that you don't have to work for sex anymore. You do. It's like fanning a flame. You have to …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:11 AM
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Because men need women. In a way women have never needed men. And so many men, especially in the Manosphere, just cannot admit that. How sad and empty their lives are without a woman in it. How they feel incomplete. Which is why they have this whole subculture called the Manoaphere dedicated to women. Complaining about women. Talking about women. Criticizing women. Trying to figure out how to get a woman. Etc. And it's not just because of society and cultural expectation either. In conclusion, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:06 AM
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I didn't say 25 and 21 had nothing in common. Go back and re-read. 🤨 There will be a marked difference in maturity though. You were young. There is distinct period of growth that happens between 18 and 25. 18 year old and 25 year are are pretty far apart in maturity, I'd argue. Our brains are malleable. But only to some degree. You cannot rush experience. There are certain experiences that can only happen to you once to reach 18+ that never could under 18. So while some people are more mature du…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:50 AM
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Yes so men's height isn't "fully developed" until 25, and for the last 5 year of that period the growth is 0.2% which is ridicule. It's just the second time I explain you this and you're not addressing it. What does this have to do with height? You're conflating two completely different things. Cognitive ability vs Height. 🤔 Yep, I makes sense. it's ALWAYS in development. You're conflating biology with experience and ability to learn from experience. After a quick google search, turns out that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:33 AM
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It's not a joke. I personally made it a law that 18 year olds should be allowed to go to war? Well damn, I had no idea I was a whole ass government. Here I was thinking I was one person. Some wankers indeed go for age gaps due to younger people being easier to manipulate but doesn't mean all cases are the same. Yes. They do. And I'm specifically talking about the ones that do. I didn't say they were all the same. There are bound to be ones that are normal. But can we not take a second to talk ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:34 AM
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Fully developed is defined in the dictionary. 🤨 Your decision making capabilities, life experience, impulsiveness etc are all still in development. You act you were the same person at 18 and at 25. You weren't. It was night and day. Alot happens in those 7 years. Alot of maturing. Alot of growth. A 16 year old child is developed enough to drive a car. But they still aren't ready to make a myriad of adult decisions. Which is why they are still classified as children. Development also plays a role…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:26 AM
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No. It is proven that the brain is not fully developed. 🤨 And my opinion goes for men and women? So why are you assuming I only meant men dating younger women? Women do the exact same with men under 25. I have nothing in common with a 21 year old. He's a boy to me. Old enough to drink, to work, to make decisions. But lacking severely in life experience with regards to sex and relationships and life. And I know that. I could take advantage if I wanted. I know that too. Which is why I don't consid…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:42 AM
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There are way too many instances reported by the younger party later on after it ends about all the ways they were taken advantage of. And if you've ever spent considerable time around a couple with a big age gap (with one being under 25) you can observe all the ways the older one is clearly taking advantage of the younger one. It makes you uncomfortable to bear witness to it. But the person with the upper hand always seems to know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:13 AM
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No one has a problem with age gaps. As long as it's with a person whose brain is fully developed. Why is that so hard to comprehend. If you're 35 going after someone 21, you know exactly why. And this goes for men and women. Gay and straight. I'm gonna side eye you at best. Lose respect for you at worse. I've seen these relationships upclose plenty of times. They're weird. The power balance is off. To everyone who sees it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 07:54 AM
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Are you okay? 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 07:51 AM
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Have to disagree there are no perks for being man anymore Anymore is the keyword. But there were for hundreds and thousands of years. Why should women care about the equilibrium being off now? Come back and talk to us in a few thousands years. People abusing a power imbalance is human nature. And the only time people complain is when the one not benefiting from it. When they're benefiting they don't care about anyone losing. Not compareable. The one are leg ups for the majority for half the popu…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 07:57 PM
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The racist stuff one was today. A few hours ago. Which is why I brought it up. There were 3 others the last 2 days. So my point still stands, doesn't it? The racist stuff was deleted by a mod. But the others didn't violate any rules which means the OP deleted it. Yall kill me not being able to read. When I said men, I meant men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 07:47 PM
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Women who've slept around won't. Which is why promiscuous dudes end up with women with decent body counts as well. I don't know why they get on Reddit and lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:43 PM
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Yeah. I just had one removed by the mods. But the person was saying legit racist stuff. But the mild ones being deleted are crazy. It won't even be heated..but I guess once they realize no one is on their side, they give up and delete it. Maybe they feel it makes them look bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:37 PM
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Exactly. There are times when you can sense something is off in a person. And I the responsibility falls on you not to exploit them. But I have had men recall some really sad sexual experiences where it was clear the woman in question had trauma. And they still had sex with her. And I've noticed a trend where promiscuous men will all allude to having had those kinds of sexual experiences over and over again. And I simply can't respect it. There's a youtuber I liked to watch. He mentioned how he …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:30 PM
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It's not shouting matches. I just don't back down. I am quite good at disagreeing with other people. And picking apart their POV. It makes no sense to reply to another person's comment, go back and forth, then delete it. Just don't start the comment thread in that case. And my points are always well thought out. People don't upvote badly worded, poorly thought out content. They just don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:13 PM
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Yes. They do. If you downvote, block, or delete comments, you care.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:48 PM
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Yep. Any woman that is low count but doesn't have a standard on it could potentially not see a problem with keeping her count low long term either. While he may want to lock her down. She may want to explore. Every promiscuous girl had a low n count at one point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:14 PM
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Exactly. It's the biggest cope ever. You don't have to say "I've fucked 50 women" directly. They tell on themselves indirectly. "I had my fun". "I did partied alot when I was younger." "I used to date alot but now I'm mature." "Casual sex isnt a big deal to me." "I've done some things I'm not proud of". They will immediately react in defense of any negative opinion you hold on promiscuity and will try to "objectively" defend it. All the while defending themselves. Their social media will have gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:00 PM
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No. It's not. This is you, a person who cannot accept any criticism of anything you say, overreacting. You cannot make a post onReddit and then throw a fit when someone disagrees with you. Making a thread will incur disagreement. But you're acting like this is the first time in your entire life anyone has ever disagreed with you. Insulting someone's race? Really? Because they said they wouldn't date you because of an ideology you held? That shit make logical sense to you? I need to work on my in…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:54 AM
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I can understand dog piling. But it will be just me and the other person. And I'll get a notification that my comment got 10 likes and when I click on it, all the other posts are deleted. The shit is weird. It is pride and embarrassment at having been bested.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:48 AM
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Of course it is. The whole Manosphere is about women. It's the Womanosphere at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:41 AM
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I didn't say you wanted me to choose you specifically. I mean you as in "any man who would leave a person because they are sick". So what are you even talking about? How did this become a thread about you specifically? You're not that important OP. No one here cares about you. You're nobody here. I responded to the idea of the thread. But here you are insulting race because you thought I was specifically talking about you? Do I know you? No. Have I ever met you? No. So one what planet could I be…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:29 AM
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Which is why I always reiterate what the original comment was about in my response. Just incase they delete theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:25 AM
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Oh, so you're done insulting race? And no, I don't think you're acting like a bad ass. You're trying to. But no one is impressed. You make a thread and then get upset when I make a reasonable arguement in disagreement. Thus showing you have the inability to admit you're wrong. But hurl racial insults instead. That's not masculine. At all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:25 AM
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They could just stop responding. Why delete? That's weirder.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:21 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:10 AM
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Alot of things we discuss aren't 100% anything. It comes down to arguing what is the most reasonable and logical of the POVs. But alot of these dudes just want to be right. They think that by virtue of having a penis it makes them logical. They're emotional and easily affected. Imagine deleting your entire Reddit account over an exchange on a subreddit. The second they lose frame (and they always do) they delete their account. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:09 AM
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I love how you think insulting someone race is a thing. It makes you look as weak as you are. No one will be impressed. You're so affected. Regardless of what race I am, I have a vagina. And will by virtue always be more valuable. And there is nothing you can say to change that. You're a grown man, unable to control your emotions. I see why you're single. You overreact at any criticism of your ideas. The RedPill only attracts weak men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:07 AM
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Exactly. Rare. If you have a ton of options you can choose only those women. But most men don't have many options. And so most men prey on stupid women, women with weak boundaries, desperate women, drunk women, vulnerable women, agreeable women. And they know they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:05 AM
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Exactly. And we don't get to choose. Biology/nature did. I can paint on stripes and eat grass but Im still not a fucking zebra.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 10:47 AM
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I didn't make anything personal. Anyone who reads this would agree. You're just another thin skinned, fake Alpha weak dude on RedPill acting like a bad ass. But betraying yourself by getting triggered and saying emotionally vindictive shit. Just another day on PPD for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 10:46 AM
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Healthy years are everyone's resource. It's the single most important resource you have. And you'd have to have options to have a type. You wouldn't be involved in RedPill if you had options. Chad with natural game and good looks doesn't hang around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 10:45 AM
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Yeah. But people try to discount what you're saying based on other communities you participate in. And that shit is annoying AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 08:39 AM
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I think it depends. Everyone is young and dumb. I give people a pass for one or two stupid things. A late teens, early 20something being a simp once or twice isn't a big deal. So long as you own it. And you self improve and don't overcorrect like an asshole. But for me, a dude simping, then trying to hide it, and not learning from it, or even worse, still having feelings for her years later after he played himself would be a major deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 08:38 AM
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This is why you use different accounts for different things. People are always looking through your history. I have 5 accounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 08:33 AM
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Men on this subreddit are so thin skinned. They will respond to my post. We go back and forth debating. And when they have run out of things to say, instead if just admitting they're wrong, they delete their comments. Like it never happened. This has happened to me 4 times in 2 days. Imagine being all the way grown and deleting comments because you put your foot in your mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 08:20 AM
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I do think people are over the whole Trans inclusion thing at this point. They're trying to take over what it means to be a woman. And they aren't women. The biologically are not. And no law, no amount of complaining, and no amount of inclusion can change that. I refuse to refer to them as women. I'm a woman. They are trans women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 08:17 AM
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So by this logic, no woman should invest her healthy years in you. You're a bad choice. I wouldn't choose you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 08:14 AM
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They don't. They don't want to admit it either. They like the idea of objectivity. And resent the reality of it. Humans are getting better. But overall, most societies don't encourage too much abstract thought. Because most aren't capable of it. But you're not allowed to say most people below average in abstraction ability without them getting mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 07:41 AM
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I disagree. Financial situations can be controlled. Prepared for. Avoided. You can adjust your lifestyle to avoid financial ruin. You can work more. You can save better. Getting old and sick is a reality. For you. And for me. So you're a piece of shit if you get rid of someone when they get sick. Unless you are perfectly happy to be gotten rid of when you get sick. Not if, when. People need to live in reality and not in some vindictive delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 05:35 AM
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How is this block feature aby different than how other websites blocking works? I no longer want to see your shit. You can no longer see mine. I could see it being problematic only within the same thread. But if I blocked a person after reading their comment (because I no longer want to see content from them) I don't see how that affects anyone else. In a long, nested thread, I get. But in an individual comment I don't get.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 04:19 AM
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It's not a free leg up. It's an attempt at correcting an unbalanced system. It's it a perfect way? No. But it is a way. Imagine all the perks men got just for being male. Or the rich got just for being rich. If systems like that are allowed to go on unbalanced for long enough, you end up with people not being able to even break into it. Plenty of people get a "leg up" everyday. Not just minorities and not just women. But when it's your buddies fathers friend giving you the leg up, you just call …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 04:01 AM
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I agree. Being RedPilled already means you habor some negative feelings towards women. I think anyone who could honestly handle poly wouldn't be attracted to RP at all. They wouldn't have the propensity to develop the bitterness all RedPillers have.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 03:54 AM

By this logic, any man who has ever simped for a woman should simp for every woman? 🤔 Well, men of PPD, get to simping then. 🤣🤣🤣 Yall wonder why yall are single. You don't like logic. This is an overcorrection.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:55 AM
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Men do it all the time. They're human. But then these liars and deceivers come along and try to gaslight women into sleeping with them and then think after it's said and done they get to be a good person still. You don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:31 AM
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It's my right. Is it not? Sex requires two people. You don't get to determine someone else's standard for sex. And if you think you do, you're a trash human being. It's like me telling you how to spend your money or how to spend your life. That's your choice. And if I try to influence your ability to do those things (by manipulating you out of your money or time) than that would make me a bad person. Men who have casual sex all lie for it. Why are yall upset at that reality being revealed. I bet…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 11:33 PM
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This is how people are? When most people debate, they debate their own POV and then try to pass it off as an objective observation.. Which is why they get upset when it gets picked apart. It causes cognitive dissonance. It's just human nature. You're asking for skills most people simply don't possess. Remember they put Socrates to death for his constant questioning of their supposed values and beliefs. We hail the ability to be detached and objective as an ideal because most people don't possess…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 11:11 PM

Saying you can't develop feelings without having sex is a lie. Any man who says that is morally bankrupt and lacks severely in integrity. You're blatantly lying to another person to sleep with them. It's extremely manipulative behavior. The idea that you should be able to "try out" another human beings body is fucking disgusting. Though, I would be happy if a man openly admitted to this. So he could be instantly disqualified. Men in the Manosphere always talk about how women tell on themselves. …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 11:00 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 07:58 AM
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It's not her face, per se. Her air in the show is just attractive because she's in character. People can become more attractive when personality, energy, mannerisms etc all come into play. Which is why you can't really judge a person just by their appearance in a picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 02:13 AM
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I agree. I think it's the character she plays. In other photos she doesn't come off as attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 01:44 AM
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A "good father" wouldn't have a child with an "unfit mother". If a woman is a shitty mother, and the father just sits back and lets her be a shitty mother, he is A SHITTY FATHER. Preach. 👏👏👏👏👏 Make it make sense. How people play the victim. When it was their choice to reproduce with a shitty woman or man. You're not a martyr. You're an idiot. And I pity your children. People have to accept personal responsibility. I don't pity these kinds of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:30 AM
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Tax papers. 🤨 If that ain't fucked, I don't know what is. And all kids go to day care too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 10:39 AM
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Most women also earn their own money. And pay their own bills. And contribute monetarily to the household. Most US women don't expect to manage their husband's money either. I live in Asia. 6 out of 10 women don't work. They work a couple of years after college. Get married. Have a baby and don't work. They are technically stay at home mothers. Except their children are all in government sponsored day care throughout the day. So from 8am-2pm every day, their kids are being cared for else where. …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:35 AM
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Exactly. Leave them to themselves. What's the problem? Date amongst the non-obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 04:58 AM
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For example, men here should expect to be a provider but also to let their wives control the finance. Basically men make money, women spend it. Bingo. This is true all across the Eastern world. American men ain't ready for this conversation though. Also men should expect that in-laws are going play much more important roles. People here are also more collectivist, so prepare to play social games and deal with passive aggression and vague social clues. Again. Yep. Asians all live in collectivist …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 04:56 AM
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You're a grown ass man. And this how you choose to behave. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 03:41 AM
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There is always one. Is what I'm saying. Remove valor, respect, rank, medals, accommodations and awards from the military. And watch no one join up. And I am look for the truth. The truth is everyone is inherently selfish. You keep trying to prove otherwise. And I keep countering to prove that, no matter what example you use, ulterior motive and selfishness will be present there. This is how debate works. 🤨 So then if you have run out of examples to counter mine. You have to then give in and adm…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 03:38 AM
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It's both. Why can't it be both? Most men of a certain age are not interested in women under a certain age because after a while the generation difference grates. And most women of a certain age are not interested in men past a certain age for the same reason. Is most hard to comprehend? And no, there aren't enough. Which is why if a man doesn't have money you rarely see it. 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 03:34 AM
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What you care about. And fall on a grenade knowing you will be honored. No one would go to war, fall on grenades, and sacrifice their lives if eternal valor, honor, and respect was not guaranteed to them after death. So my point still stands. There is no full alturism behind it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 02:50 AM
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And staying married for 40 years isn't indicative of actual happiness. But the Manosphere loves reminding everyone of the past when men and women just shut up and stayed unhappily married. Same same.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 02:13 AM
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with members of their in-group. 🤨 So you're saying they aren't good for goodness sake? That's my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 02:12 AM

You don't do anything for women anyway. So what are you talking about? No one is altruistic. Men are not alturisitc. Everything you do is about benefiting you. What's the problem if women do the exact same. Yall kill me acting like people go into certain fields of study and hold certain jobs because it was a duty placed on them to be of service to the overall good of society. Nah, it ain't that complicated. People study and work in jobs that interest them, and that earn them money so they can ea…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 01:30 AM
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Why care? I don't care about any man I'm not attracted to living his best life. He deserves to. That isn't my business. But these dudes need to believe that all the fat chicks that turned them down are sleeping alone. They ain't.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 11:13 PM
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Right. Overweight women still get dates. 🤣🤣 They love pretending like fat women get no love. Stooooppp it. Fat People still fuck too. Just because it's not what you want doesn't mean no one else does either. There are always takers. Look at My 600 pound life. Even bedridden women have men. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 10:57 PM
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So what though. That's reality. It's like saying most men arent focused on beautiful women. Of course they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 10:50 PM
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It happens but it's not the norm. Men legit think that most early 20something women are interested in their post 35 year old ass. They aren't. It's like men on PDD think women don't have eyes and can't see that the average man isn't that attractive. Nor is he tall. Nor is he rich. Nor is he charismatic. They love focusing on the men who have it all. And that's not most men. So why be delusional about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 09:06 PM
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Chris Hemsworth is an attractive, rich and famous actor. The rules for him are not the rules for leftover 98% of men. So why bring an outlier up? You consistently dating 19-22 is you admitting to predatory behavior. Under 25 year old guarantees the person brain isn't developed fully and you, the older person, can leverage that against them. So again, I don't see what you think you're flexing. I've never seen a man over 30 dating under 25 not taking advantage of the woman in one way or another. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 09:02 PM
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Yes. I still maintain their are equal amounts of shitty men and women out there. So I don't trust people who claim to be a good person only surrounded by bad ones. More than likely you're surrounded by your "standard" of person. But for some reason you think you're better than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 08:03 PM
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What does that have to do with the reality that most men and women statistically date around their own ages? Stop trying to change the subject and answer my question. Young women are massively turned off by older men. But yall ignore their disgust and still think you have a chance. You don't. Data proves you don't. A 20 year old doesn't want your 35 year old ass. I've seen stories of women finding out the man they were dating was late 30s or 40s and not late 20s early 30s like he claimed. In the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 07:58 PM
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Shut up. You know exactly what I mean. You're an adult warping my words because of your feelings. How asinine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 07:51 PM
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Delusional. Most men and women statistically date around their own ages. Most 35+ men have no interest in early 20 women outside of admitting they are sexually attractive. It's shocking, but men actually want companionship, too. And a 40 year old man will have nothing in common with a 25 year old. And vice versa. Yall keep pushing this narrative but data literally does not back it up. You can't just make shit up and call it facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 07:49 PM
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Insecurity. The downside of beauty treatments is that they can become so excessive that the woman doesn't like the way she naturally looks without them. This can be weave, lashes and makeup. Little by little their self esteem begins to hinge on these things and then they feel ugly or naked without them. Women who always wear makeup have anxiety about going out without it. It's okay to like it. But I also think it's weird to never see a person without this extra shit
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 01:56 PM
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No. They are a healthy amount. But not most.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 12:42 PM
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Life ain't that complicated. People keep trying to make it as such to make a tiny fraction of people happy. I'm not doing it. Women are female. And male are men. The end. I can sympathize with a person who feels they were born in the wrong body, but it does not change reality. And I'm not pretending like it does. I heard someone say "I'm a biological woman" the other day. No, you're a woman. The onus is on transgender to refer to themselves as Trans women. Not only women to refer to themselves a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 12:41 PM
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Yall dont have global options. I love how you think men in other countries are gonna let you carry their women off. 🤣🤣🤣 Not to mention, most women abroad don't want you. Watch some mail order bride documentaries. The women are just as entitled. Yall are so delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 12:37 PM
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Plus.. just like women who get battered can't always know that the man is an asshole... Bullshit. Have you ever read battered women's stories? When they tell the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth, they reveal that there were massive red flags before the man ever hit her. Abusers overstep boundaries early on. To see what you will put up with. They get more and more brazen. It's why they can appear normal to people they can't take advantage of. But be horrible to a woman that they b…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 09:48 AM
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You have to keep vetting. This is why you don't jump into a relationship quickly. People show you who they really are when they don't need to present their "dating" face. It's always best to get to know a person over time. And get character references by getting to know who they know. And watching what they do and how they behave. And then decide. People these days vet lazily. Get in a relationship. Then bitch down the line. Most people are easily gonna walk away once they wasted a certain amoun…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 09:09 AM
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You can know. Like I said, this behavior is a fucking lack of empathy. So many men choose women with their dicks. And then get mad when her character is shit. Like I said, you don't get to choose badly then complain. You have to watch people. Across a ton of situations and circumstances. This will tell you who they are. Women who do shit like laugh at another person vnerability will usually do something equally shitty in another situation. But like I said, alot of men "forgive" behavior in women…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 09:06 AM
-1

Oooohhhh. You got me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 08:59 AM
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🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 How can I believe men when men cannot physically enter into another person's mind and know their intention/behavior? You're talking out your ass. Unsurprisingly. I couldn't imagine thinking all men were bad just because some are. Yall are hell bent on staying bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 08:59 AM
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All women have XX chromosomes. That's the only thing all women have.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 08:57 AM
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🙄🙄🙄 Why are yall obsessed with these kinds of women? There are women like this, thats true. They aren't all women though. Stop dating women you can never be vulnerable with and you can avoid this problem. I've seen men date women like this and then complain about them later. It makes no sense. You can't choose poorly then complain. Laughing at a person being vulnerable is a lack of empathy across the board. And women as a collective do not lack empathy. Just the shitty ones you choose to date. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 07:24 AM

Thats not their handbook. They only advocate what is in their handbook. All the other stuff is posted by random contributors. As long as it doesn't directly go against anything in their handbook, the mods allow it. How is that any different than RP? It's like saying that because a Christian said it then it's written in the Bible. That's not true. I'm not ignoring anything. I said FDS is misandrist. Toxic AF. And not perfect. But they don't regularly advocate deception. I read them daily. You can…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 07:20 AM
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Definition of a comment: a verbal or written remark expressing an opinion or reaction. 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 06:21 AM

That's still not deception. That's omission. Let's say I ask you a question. You refuse to answer. You have not deceived me. If I ask you a question, and you tell me a lie to hide the truth. Then that's deception. People are entitled to withhold information. That's honest at least. And you're entitled to be upset. And act on my refusal. But it's not deception. And I consider "promoting" to mean "written in thir handbook". And they don't advocate that there. One post? Isn't direct advocation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 06:20 AM
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I consider deception to be presenting yourself in a false way. For example, wearing makeup so heavy it changes your entire face when you take it off. Or wearing body shapers that slim you but have a massive gut under it. Or overrepresenting your status etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 06:16 AM
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I've read FDS extensively and I've never seen them say deceive a man to get a man. They are all about making a man work for them. And glowing up and taking better care of yourself is not deception. 🤨 Lying about having a child to get better dating options, for example, is. And I've never seen them do anything like that. Like I said, FDS has it'd problems. But they aren't deceivers. Just your regularly, unfriendly neighborhood misadrists.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 03:56 AM
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You're they? I was speaking in general. Not about you specifically. So then what are you talking about? You make no sense. Like alot of men around here. Emotional ass men. Logical where? 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 03:54 AM
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I'm not putting words in anyone's mouth. I'm observing that these people say a bunch of shit that isn't factually backed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 02:47 AM
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The saltiness in some of these responses. 🤣🤣 Damn, just answer the question. It's not that hard. Just say you don't measure up. Why be passive aggressive about it. Yall have a chance to describe what you think a good man is, but so many of your are so fucking petty that you have to "stick it" to women by describing some Chad that only lives in the mind of the Manosphere. Tell me you're bitter without telling me you're bitter. Woo wee.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 12:12 AM
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I did not sleep around in college. I wasn't friends with girls who did. I had a parttime job that I worked most weekends. So did my female friends. And yes, I did notice the women who did sleep around and the ones who did party. We didn't run in the same circles. Birds of a feather. 🤨 Not all people are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 11:09 PM

True. For all the crap FDS does, they don't advocate deception. People always have to reach. I get not liking something. I get not agreeing with it. But there's no need to make shit up about it. They believe in cutting men off for breathing too loud. If anything they encourage extremely pickiness mixed with misandry. But never deception..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 10:57 PM
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Men in the Manosphere dont read. If they didn't, their little ideology wouldn't make sense. They take about evolution and history. But skip over all the parts where a man needed a wife or else he would die early because men didn't know woman skills. Just like women didn't know male skills. They have a need to believe men did 90% of the work though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 10:40 PM
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Doing something really off putting thinking it's cool. And it's not. It'd essentially essentially brain fart but physical.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 11:25 AM
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And his actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 10:44 AM
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And yet, when a woman won't fuck you you lose the will to even live. You go and whine about women on the internet ad nauseum. For yeaaaarrrrrssssss. You change your whole outlook on life over a woman. 300,000 years of evolution. Heh.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 10:22 AM
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1 woman=billions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 06:56 AM
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Yes it's run by men. So what? We can survive without electricity, plumbing and mechanics. Have done for thousands of years. My point still stands, no? And I recently read a book on the history of the world. Anyway, life for people as hunters and gatherers was much better for overall quality of life than farming was. Farming settled human beings. But it also lead to more starvation and famine and thus death among us in ways that being nomads did not. And most of the world has been made up on farm…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:42 AM
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Women can't self replicate. It's literally impossible LOL I said "If they could". Did you just not read, or? 🤔 But society is maintained on the backs of men. Men created and currently maintain society. Explain to me, how you can systematically, exclude 50% of the world population for participating in society full for thousands of years and then turn around and "you didn't contribute anything. I did the work?" Where the logic? Without which, you would for example, would have no hospital to go to …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:32 AM
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Why couldn't women hunt? Tell me the developmental reason women lack the ability run an animal off a cliff? Also why can't women create weapons to fend predators? Or build shelter? Have you ever read a book on what ancient societies? Women were proficient in a FUCK TON of skills. An outrageous amounts. They took alot of mental fortitude to carry out. Yall really believe men were hunting and protecting while all women did was collect berries or some shit and getting pregnant. They carried out alo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:13 AM
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Nah. If they valued men they wouldn't have started wars that saw billions of them slaughtered. Men kill me bragging about fighting and dying in another man's war. If men weren't here, neither would war. Or the death toll its caused just in recorded history. Going to war isn't a flex. It's a goddamn shame. That for tens of thousands of years men haven't been able to settle anything without slaughtering each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:10 AM
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People still lived in spite of all the extra shit we have today. People need food, water air and a shelter. Everything else is extra. I don't want to settle some grudge against men. 95% of men haven't contributed anything to the modern world besides having a job. Unless you are a direct contributor to the modern world, stop acting like you are. Tell me what you built. I asked a few men these exact questions a couple weeks ago. None answered.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:07 AM
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Read the comment below this one. Men have only ever protected women from other men. Yall keep screaming "but what about the technology?" We don't need it. If we did, people wouldn't have been able walk the earth and survive and replicate for tens of thousands of years despite not having it. The same would happen if all this shit went away. And you're deluding yourself if you think it won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 03:34 AM
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No. Women don't. I've had this conversation many of times. Do you think the people living in the jungle of South America hunting and gathering and living completely off the land and traditional medical treatments give a fuck about our modern sciences? They don't. People 500 years ago didn't. People 5000 years ago didn't. In a world where men didn't exist and women could self replicate some how, women would still live. Yall actually think 2022 is the best version of life. It's not. Our time perio…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 03:30 AM
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They aren't. Which is why the Manosphere exists. Not being wanted by a woman is detrimental to men. A man not wanting a woman isn't nearly as hurtful to a woman. Which makes sense why men created a system where they forced women to depend on them. It's not that women need men. It's that men can't find purpose in their lives without women. Thus continually proving that women are the prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 02:13 AM
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They've been disposable to other men since the beginning of time. I'm sick of yall implying men are disposable only in relation to women. Men don't value men. And never have. They have only valued men to the degree that they can use them to further their agenda. Remember an invading army would slaughter all the men and take all the women and children.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 02:11 AM
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Some college girls. I swear yall think women are all the exact same. All the college chicks you see out partying represent only a portion of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 02:35 PM
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Most people's body count is under 10. 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:14 AM
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No. That he likes promiscuous women. If that's your thing, go ahead. But if you don't know where to look for women that don't chase hedonism, that on you. So many promiscuous men just DO NOT want to admit that the company they keep isn't that good. I was watching a video recently. A dude went to a college homecoming interviewing women and men. He asked them their body count and views on sex. 100% of them were promiscuous. Like it was laughable. But not surprising. They are people who like going …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:27 AM
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Statistics literally prove otherwise. The average person is not promiscuous. No matter how true yall want it to be. Even MGTOW and RedPill Youtubers get all their content about "loose" women from women who only post thotty photos and videos on social media. It's like watching a compilation of the same girl over and over again. Look at places like Fresh and Fit. They use the exact same archetype of woman to represent all women. When they could try going into an average middle America small town a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 10:56 PM
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If all a man knows is women with high body counts, that says something about that man. Men will literally lay down with dogs and claim all women have fleas. No, the women you choose to surround yourself with has fleas.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 08:56 PM
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No, they aren't. 🤨 Yall are just obsessed with the women who do. They are the most vocal about it body count. Because they're insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 08:20 PM
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This. I've been reading RP blogs for 12 years now. It did not used to be this toxic. Really toxic people were a minority. Now it's the majority. And a cult mindset has developed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:56 PM
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I could. However he would have to have a career. And have some ambition for his life. Doesn't mean he has a "I want to be rich" mindset, but a "I want to be financially stable" mindset. Also, he should be good with money. And should make at least the average salary for his age.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:54 PM
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I come from a very large family, and we all take care of each other. That's good, at least. So no reason for me to force myself into a relationship I don’t want, nor have a man in a relationship where he’s unwanted, because I want a caretaker. Do you think marriage and a relationship I don’t want guarantees when I die someone will be there? Does that not sound like a recipe for a troubled relationship full of resentment? Do you realize men die before women? Have you heard of divorce? I could get…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:52 PM
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They shouldn't. It's so normalized these days. I remember a BF I had in college calling all kinds of nasty shit because he was mad. It didn't hurt me. But I was so shocked at his behavior. I just stood there staring at him thinking "what the fuck even is this behavior?" And then they next day he sheepishly apologizes. The shit is sooooo weird. When I push the nuclear button on someone, it's because they have pushed me too far, and I am severing the relationship. Even still. Going nuclear would n…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:10 PM
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No. 🤨 I'm talking about you confiding something vulnerable in them and then, later on, when they're mad, just throwing it back in your face. As a way of humiliating you. I would never fight dirty (humiliation, verbal abuse etc) with someone I was in a relationship with. I could understand spewing vitriol at a person who hurt your family or something. But a "I'm in a bad mood so I'm gonna go nuclear" and then apologizing is a no for me dawg. I will NOT tolerate it. Period. Not friends. Not lovers…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 01:24 PM
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Preach. Fuck casual sex. I hate it. Never had it. Don't want it. And I instantly like dislike a person (romantically) of they like it/have done it. I really hate all the hype surrounding casual relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:59 AM
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I do not want a relationship or a commitment ever, and that’s ok. Once I got FWB, I realized every need in my life is filled. I am financially independent. Emotional and mental support from amazing family and friends. FWB is for physical needs. Im not a romantic person and I don’t crave companionship. I think more men and women would benefit from seeing if they actually want a romantic relationship or if it’s something being shoved on them. This is all fine and good. But the reality is you will …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:57 AM
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🤤🤤🤤🤤 I saw a news clip that wild boar in Texas were an invasive problem. And people were trapping dozens every night.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:16 AM
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Where do you live where you have wild hogs roaming outside? Do you eat them?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:51 AM
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the potential threats this poses to our welfare and social web due to the lack of taxpayers to finance the system and the aging of the society is not the same as wanting the population to grow. Tough luck. 🤨 For you and for me. We're fucked I guess. The idea that we need to create people to fill the spots to support the other people here because we created a system that required constant input in the way of human life, is asinine. A controlled decline may be beneficial, but an uncontrolled decli…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:09 PM
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Not ever. 🤨 If the population decreases, the scale of society needs to follow suit. The idea that we should produce more living, breathing, humans beings to suffer life's woes to fill up spots in a bloated society is asinine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:26 PM
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I can't stand this shit. Even if I hate a person's fucking guts, I have never thrown something back in another person's face out of anger. People who do are the scum of the Earth. I immediately hate a person who does this to other people or has done it to others. I don't care what a person has done. If you throw some dark shit they told you in confidence back at them when you're mad at them, you're a piece of shit. The inability to control your anger. And allowing it to turn into cruelty and ext…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:51 PM

Ideology? Sure. Philosophy? Let's not go off the deep end. The reason RedPill isn't taken seriously is because too much of it is emotionally driven bullshit anti-logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:54 PM
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If you're gonna get on the Internet and espouse rhetoric about sex, dating, relationships, evolution, history etc you better be well read or you're talking out your ass. Which is why so much of RedPill rhetoric is essentially garbage because it's not actually rooted in any kind of concrete evidence. It's alot of confirmation bias. From men that have no idea the depth of the topics they drone on and on about.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 02:30 PM
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"Philosopher" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢 RedPill gurus are so psuedo intellectual it hurts. The fact that they don't read heavily is so obvious. Their "education" is social media videos and content.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 12:50 PM
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I know. 🤨 Her claims aren't true. You cannot just say whatever and make shit true.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:42 AM
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30 (or younger) 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:25 AM
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Yall just be saying whatever. The majority of men are married to women within their age range. The average 50 year old man is not dating /married to / sleeping with a 30 year old (or younger) woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:07 AM
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Women deep down idealize men to much. I would say the exact opposite. Men's idealization of women is why every dude has had his heart shattered into pieces by some chick that was obviously going to betray him when he was younger. And then men's who life perspective changes. Look at the RedPill/Manosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 05:48 AM
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For many Dateless is worse, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 05:39 AM

I always ask them why they downvoted me. They always respond that they didn't. On a nested thread. 2 days old. A phantom came and downvoted a comment. People who downvote won't even admit they did it. All the while claiming they aren't petty. I bet that dude who reported me started a whole new different account on PPD. So he can restore his persona. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 01:15 AM

Then it makes more sense to not go into that kind of work. Because when you say controversial stuff, the internet starts gunning for you. And the internet always find something. And you end up with egg on your face.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 01:13 AM
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Ha.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:54 PM
2

For the low price of 19.99 you too can be Alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:53 PM
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Why not just own it? Things have no power if you own it. He could have explained why he did it. What he learned. And how it changed etc. But these dudes go online spewing these ideas, all the while knowing they have done the exact opposite in the past. Why let yourself be exposed? Just own up to it early on. That way no one can embarrass you later.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:52 PM
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It's cowardly to use the downvote button at all. I have never once pressed downvote. Because I don't get in my feelings about other people's right to have an opinion. Imagine being an adult and needing to be agreed with otherwise you're gonna get emotional. I can't relate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:49 PM
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It was so instantaneous. Off-puttingly so.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:45 PM
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Yes. And he lost the plot very quickly when it was brought up on a podcast. He was so fucking triggered. So reactive. He's not Alpha anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:30 PM
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The Manosphere has so many posers in it. So many men talking the talk. But can't walk the walk. I was watching a video yesterday of a podcast featuring a dude that called himself "Alpha". A woman on the podcast asks him about an article he wrote years ago. And he loses his shit. He flies of the handle. It was so quick to get emotional AF over something he wrote and published. He couldn't even control himself. And he was a late 40s, early 50s man. The woman didn't criticize or antagonize him in a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:26 PM
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If you're a man, and you put up with it, that's your problem. I don't support hypocritical behavior in women. But I also don't want to sleep with them, so. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 08:27 PM

One. People can care about whatever they want. People are allowed to be hypocrites. Two. Stop messing with women who think like this. Just cut off any woman that is secretive about things you care about. Me personally, you have the right to ask about someone's past. And they have the right not to tell you. I disagree with the idea that people should be out here telling anyone they don't have the right to hold X Y Z pov just because you disagree with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:17 AM
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Yep. It's like all the people who brag about being good in bed. Except "good" varies from partner to partner. What one likes, the other may not. People always need to Trump shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:15 AM
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Exactly. Women with visible and invisible disabilities. Everyone wants someone that signals "healthy". And the disabled can't help themselves. I recently saw a FB video of a girl who had cancer as a child. The treatment caused her growth plates to fuse early. So she is stuck in a 9 year old body. She is 23 now but looks like a 4th grader.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:27 PM
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Exactly. Women who say this say it for various reasons as well. Some can't admit they're the problem. So they blame men. While others actually have experience with men over and over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:50 PM
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I would agree. I don't like the word tomboy per se. But I realize there isn't really a word for the person you're describing. I would say date tall women who aren't followers and easily influenced. Alot of women's height insecurity stems from what other women will say and think about them dating you. Which is why, as a tall woman, I would never date a man who mentioned my height being a problem, even as a joke. Because often times it's how they really feel. I pay close attention to if a man is s…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 02:12 AM
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I'm not talking about that. Im talking about people feeling the need to label the way they have sex (which, let's be honest, is probably vanilla) as kinky. I roll my eyes when people say stuff like "What are your kinks?" We live in a time where everyone wants to come off as cool. And so they pretend to be having this wild kinky sex. And shaming anyone who isn't as vanilla. When, like I said, most people like and enjoy and prefer vanilla sex. And true kinky people are in the minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:42 AM
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Yall are too black and white in your thinking. It's not either or. It's both. Some men are intimidated by it. Some men are not. Why does everything always have to be "all". Or even most? There are people who do. And people who don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:23 AM
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I'm simple too. Also, I feel like most people don't even actually have kinks. They pretend to be "kinky" because it's the new thing to do. Ever notice how people talk about kinks with a "cool girl/guy" attitude? People actually into alternative sexual behaviors are the least braggy about it. Just an observation I've noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:00 AM
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I didn't say anything about wooing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:45 PM
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Exactly. If anything "kinda" relationships remind you what you don't have consistently.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 01:08 PM
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Companionship. Life is lonely if you go it alone. Friendship has its limits. There is a whole set of intimacies you can only experience with a lover that you cannot with friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:29 PM
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Ding ding ding ding. This is the correct answer. The women who they say they want, they don't pursue. Also, those women wouldn't have them, so.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:24 AM
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No. It's easy to hype up a time period when you didn't live in it. We are all so spoiled and ignorant that we think the world was better in the past. It wasn't. It was just the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:23 AM
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That's weird. How long was his vacation? I thought even basic surgeries required a 3+ weeks for the bruising and puffiness to go down.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:22 AM
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No. Kids are born of two people. Not one. Having both will be better. But one is better than none. However people should work as hard as possible to ensure a child has Two adequate parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 07:51 AM
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Yes. Your continued obsession with me is interesting. You're an adult. And this is how you behave. At least on other subreddits, teenagers hang around. Here, we're all grown.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 07:35 AM
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I laugh at them. Mock them. Waste their time. Imagine how much of an ego stroke it is to know that your words have the power to have people following you around. Creating fake accounts to troll you. Creating posts to take you down and rally troops. All for having an opinion on the internet. Strange. I must be somebody. To be imbued with this power.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 07:28 AM
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You act like this is my first rodeo. I deal with jealous people like you on Reddit regularly. I'm famous in alot of people's minds on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 07:25 AM
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Still replying. Baiting doesn't exist. I have zero power over you. You choose to reply to me. Like I said, you're a nobody to me. A fan, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 07:18 AM
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Why are you still replying? Coming from a place of logic does not produce this behavior. You have no logical reason. Emotion does though. 👁👄👁
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 07:11 AM
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You gave your opinion. Which you are entitled to. I will not stop posting. Which I am entitled to. Now that we have come to this understanding, there exists no reason for you to ever comment on my posts, is there? 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 07:04 AM
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So you're mad because I said something about you and it hurt your feelings and your ego? Tell the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 06:59 AM
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I have nothing important to say, and yet you read my posts, and recognize my username. Meaning my words are living rent free in your head. You have the option to block me. But no, you choose to complain. You have all kinds of other options. And this is what you do. Just say my posts get under your skin. Because I don't recall any of yours. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 06:44 AM
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A. This question is structured weirdly. People should just act like themselves. And meet someone who suits them. I don't get the whole "man does this" and "woman does that" attitude people have. I don't need to be told how to be. I don't care to tell others how to be. B. Don't marry a working woman that is stingy with her money? I wouldn't be comfortable with a man footing the bill for me all the time. I prefer to pay sometimes. While you pay sometime. But we don't keep a strict count of who pai…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 06:39 AM
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In the past you'd be a virgin, or a n count that can be done with a couple of fingers. Perhaps your father had some businesses he wanted to pass on to your future children. Youd probably understand how to do housework or if not be of a station that knew how to properly tell the servants what needed to be done. That's true. But yall act like just because all of these things no longer are true, then there's no point in exercising any standards whatsoever. And I disagree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 06:24 AM
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See, I agreed with the title. But then you shit the bed with the text. And convoluted reasoning. Yall are good at doing that. Men should stop being as pressed as they are about women. And women wouldn't be as entitled as they are. But most men can't stop gassing women's heads up. They just can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 05:45 AM
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So you're saying Jeff Benzos fucked 2 women during that time? One was an old flame so he didn't have to "work" for it? Sounds like a productive use of time to me. Bet Jeff wasn't at the club gawking, while rubbing his hands together. And licking his lips. Or thirsting over girls on Instagram. Or on OF. My point still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 01:13 AM
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What does "I find you sexually attractive" have to do with sleeping with you? Are there no other indicators of genuine sexual interest other than opening your legs? How did your ancestors do it sir? 👁👄👁 Are you saying, as human beings, we should give in to our baser instincts all the time? When I need to shit, I should just drop my pants where I stand and go to town? When I'm hungry, I should just eat the most unhealthy, but delicious, food every meal without concern for my health? When I'm sad,…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 01:00 AM
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That's not unreasonable. I know whether I like you or not by then. Fuck that. You're not "trying out" my body. It's the entitlement for me. You talk about sexual preference before hand too. If that's what you're worried about. For example a person who is kinky AF knows they will never be happy with a person who prefers Vanilla sex. No need to try the shit out. It's like expecting a man to "try out" spending his money on me. And then hoping I don't run off. Which is why I don't fuck with men who …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:46 AM
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So salty. So do men. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 You lose your looks. Lose your hair. Lose your ability to get hard. Who is fucking a balding, aged old dude that struggles to get hard? It amazes me that men actually believe that they get better with time. Only a handful do. And they have lucky genetics as well as invested time into exercise and body care since they were young. The average Joe isn't doing that and you know it. You're not doing that. And you know it. So you basically just admitted that you have nothing,…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:34 AM
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You should be. You should already have the mindset that you want to get married before the first date. Otherwise, why are you dating? This is how it worked for thousands of years. But people these days think it is weird. Who is interviewing employees that maybe want a job? You go to an interview with the idea that you want a job. In advance. Make sense please. Like I said before, what is the benefit of wasting thousands of hours from your life on causal, incompatible, sometimes toxic relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:34 PM
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don’t have to bang the guy on date 1. People these days expect it by the 3rd date. That's outrageous to me. In the past you would come fully equipped with character references, and background check, etc. And it would still take a few months of courting before engagement. And then a month or so before marriage. you can only date a handful of people you already know. Why is this seen as a negative thing? I would rather date 2 people I know well and get in a productive LTR with one. Than waste time…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:15 PM
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If it's a cold approach: Most would say no. Most should say no. Who the fuck are you that I need to agree to go on a date with you without knowing a considerable amount about you? People go straight to dating. And I find that weird. In the past, you had whole communities of upstanding people to vouch for you and your character because they knew you your whole life. But in the modern world, those references don't exist as much. They are looser. So, you have to do your own research on the front en…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:47 PM
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There are varying degrees. The type of wife a general needs is different from the type of wife a lieutenant needs is different from the type of wife a foot soldier needs. Most men are foot soldiers. And then walk around expecting all women to behave like a foot soldiers wife. I disagree. A man of status and power is taking a massive liability by being with a woman who is overly submissive. Because an overly submissive woman is a weak lock: anyone can break in. So how can a woman like that hold y…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:35 PM
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I didn't say equal partner. I said "I don't want a man who wants a women to lower herself so he can feel better". Yall forget, women have varying degrees of masculine feminine energy as well. So some women's dominance eclipses even a man's. And I don't mean that in a "acts like a dude" kind of way. I mean it in a "naturally has presence, influence and "frame" even in the world of men" that some men may not possess. But yall don't want to have that conversation. Alot of men need for all women to …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:29 PM
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Well in your original post you were talking about people who could be in too many long term relationships. If you have picked a partner who isn’t cheating on you then you’re not getting stds and if you use two forms of birth control risk of pregnancy is low. True. However the risk for STDs like herpes is still there even in LTRs. And you've had 10+? It's crazy to me. Not to mention the time you're wasting with a person who is ultimately a waste of time because the relationship ends. If you are d…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:17 PM
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Even still, the point stands. You found no one? If so, your ability to source vet candidates sucks at minimum. If you found no one. It's you. It can't be everyone else. You're doing something wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:32 PM
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Why oh why do yall think most men want the same thing? Men with weak(ish) masculine energy want women to be submissive so they can feel dominant because they aren't top dogs in the world on men, they are mid to lower pack members. Say that, please. As a woman I will not lower myself so some man can feel good about his masculinity. That's his business. I'm mine. We are mutually exclusive. Plenty of men don't want "yes" wives. Just yall cornballs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 02:47 PM
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What other reason does a person with life goals and productive hobbies have to have more? Assuming you have standards for yourself. Why would a sensible person be out here risking pregnancy and STD? It doesn't add up to me. I am not interested in strange D. I don't want to risk pregnancy. I don't want an STD. I don't often meet people I'm compatible with highly (which is the only time I'd invest in a relationship) and I have a bunch of projects and goals and hobbies that keep my mind busy. Peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 02:25 PM
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More than 5. By 40. If you want marriage. One or two casual sex okay. But a preference for it is a no to me. Not necessarily promiscuous. But more than 5 means you waste too much time on sex and relationships. No ever talks about all the years people waste chasing hook up, and shitty incompatible relationships. How much life is wasted on that shit. I think it's weird to have a new relationship every 1.5 or 2 years for a decade. You need to stay alone and figure some shit out if you keep failing …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:54 PM
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How are those pictures not "covered in fuzz" 🙃🙃🙃 His back is literally covered. Like I said. Before razors were invented, I doubt anyone gave a fuck about hair. For thousands of years hairy backs, pussy, balls, arm pits, etc where not a big deal. No one gave a fuck. Nature made us this way. And yall walk around acting like it's a big ass deal. This is what cultural influences do to people's brains. It leaves them with the inability to overcome programing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:43 PM

I'm tall. Most women cannot distinguish height at all. They're mostly talking out of the sides of their neck. And if the height thing were really true, the vast majorty of men would never get any play. And data has told us it's simply not true. Heightest women are the loudest. I'm willing to bet most of them don't stick to it if the guy is attractive to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:39 PM

You want cum in your mouth. Wet pussy in your mouth. But you draw the line at hair? I don't get it. It's hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:37 PM
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Men systematically oppressed women for thousands of years. Forced women to be wives and mothers. Took away their rights to vote, own property, and earn money. Smart women were forced to raise kids and give up on their dreams. And men didn't step in to say "hey, this is really wrong, we should stop". So don't tell me that men helped women. Thats like saying slave owners had their slaves best interest in mind. People are shitty. And selfish. Always have been. Always will be. You can complain, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:03 PM
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There are exceptions of course but i'd say the average woman doesn't feel empathy for the average man. The average first worlder doesn't feel empathy for the average third world person. The average meat eater doesn't feel empathy for animals who spend their whole lives in factories. The average homeowner doesn't feel empathy for the homeless on the street. The average healthy person doesn't feel empathy for people on hospice right now. The list goes on and on and on. Most people don't feel empat…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 12:59 PM

No. It's not that big of a deal. Plus it's fuzzy and warm. As long as a man is in decent shape, being covered in fuzz is not a big deal. And I don't get why people make it out to be such.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 12:26 PM

Most people don't have massive bushes. 🧐 Just normal sized ones. And I don't see anything wrong with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 12:25 PM

Most women are not expecting over 6 foot. Not honestly. Maybe in online profiles. But in person, an average height woman would struggle to distinguish 5'9 and over 6 foot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 12:24 PM
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Imagine if everyone is the world retracted their empathy for others because of one injustice among many? I didn't say he doesn't have the right to find misandry wrong. But refusing empathy for 50% of the population just because some people are misandrist is a fucking over correction. It makes no damn sense. People on this subreddit are so emotionally driven and illogical. Where are all these logical men at the Manosphere is always talking about? Cause yall use very poor logic and reasoning for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:30 AM
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That's fine. Wanting kids isn't lifescript. The creepy "mother does this" "father does that" traditional rhetoric is. It's weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:13 AM
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His execution is him stomping his feet with crossed arms and pouting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:12 AM
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Victim mentality alert. Being male doesn't mean that sex is your only reason for living. Yall complain when women say men only want sex. Then complain when we sex shouldn't be the be all end all. Pick a struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:51 AM
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A person with high integrity. Not fake virtue signaling. True, honest integrity. It's weird how many people like looks play a role in a person's value. 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:45 AM
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Yall love the lifescript, don't yall. "People in the past did it this way so it is the best and only way to do it." Weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:39 AM
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Yep. They can make bank just by being pretty on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:38 AM
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Yall have to stop this. You are one man. You "threatening" to not care about women's issues until male suicide hits zero (which is IMPOSSIBLE. People kill themselves for all kinds of reasons not just sex) is ridiculous. It akin to a child packing an bag of dirty clothes and then threatening to run away. You sound sooooooooo immature. You have a point in your complaints about misandry. But your execution is laughable at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:36 AM
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🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:32 AM
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Sex is important......to some end. Then it's importance stops. Men who act like it's the end all be all always come off unattractive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:31 AM
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Why waste time sleeping around if you're looking for a life partner? Why risk STD or unwanted pregnancy by a rando?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:22 AM
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And do you stick to women who fit your list mostly?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:14 AM
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Most people aren't repulsive. Most people are at least average. So for me, a man who is a 4 or 5 in the face and body is enough more than. That's my minimum standard for sexual attraction physically. And most men meet that. I can't see why people have 30-50% of their requirements physical aspects. It's weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:43 AM
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With threads like this, I always wonder what the commenter looks like. I also wonder if they actually stick to their lists. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:53 AM
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This is the most reasonable reply. I think people get too caught up on looks. Looks fade. Fast. And permanently. Companionship and friendship are the reason couples make it 40+ years together happily.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:53 AM

I don't need to be a man to know that alot of men and women regularly fail to live up to the requirements they say they have. You see it all the time illustrated here. Dudes talking shit about fat women. But then admitting that they sleep with them on occasion. Men talking about crazy women, toxic women, entitled women, and the telling stories about how their messing with a girl that exactly like that. People lie all the time. Alot of people want to go along with what others say. Everyone is tou…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:05 AM

Gotta disagree with you - some men don’t care, but a lot of men who grew up seeing women with clean shaven bodies were more or less culturally indoctrinated to find that attractive. That's still a sheeple to me. There is only so far influence can go. You have your own brain. It's up to you to use it. My girlfriend absolutely hates her body hair and feels more comfortable when she’s shaved, and I know other women who feel the same way. Good for her. That's her choice. And her right. But I disagre…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:03 AM
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It's a think though. Alot of men claim to have preferences on body hair when asked. You're right, they don't actually care. But why go to lengths to pretend like you do publicly. It's like all the women who lie about needing a man over 6 foot. Alot of them are just copying what other women say.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 12:58 AM

He shouldn't have any opinion against it. It's normal. So what's the problem. It's a minor, nothing complaint in the grand scheme of life. I couldn't imagine complaining a man had hair on his balls. Its not a thought that crosses my mind. And I would be instantly turned off by any man that even brought it up. It's like an average height woman saying "I like guys that are 6 foot and up, but you're 5' 9" and I guess it isn't a dealbreaker". Why even say it then if you don't actually care? People t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 12:53 AM

You're an outlier definitely.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 12:50 AM
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Why is being a virgin at 30 the worst thing in the world? People give so much energy to sex and virginity. It's a wonder we can function higher than primates. I will never understand the grand preoccupation with having sex as if it is the end all be all of life. If I had kids, I'd raise them to be healthy. With healthy boundaries. And a healthy ability make decisions for themselves. And enlighten them on the truths of the world that no one tells you really. But I wouldn't instill in them the ide…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 12:14 AM

Butthurt, cringy, salty, edgy, edgelord, triggered These are all passive aggressive terms people on Reddit use when a commenter makes a good point and they no longer have a leg to stand on so they take a petty swipe at you instead. Stay corny.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 12:10 AM
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Your manner of thinking is not normal. I understand now, why you need the red pill to make up for the things you lack. Like I said, too many of yall think you're intellectuals. You think you have something deep and profound to say. And just end up sounding ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 12:07 AM

They don't shave in a bunch of countries. But North American men in particular act like body hair is strange. They allow outside forces to influence them. When in reality the average man doesn't care on a visceral level. He just pretend to dislike it cause everyone does.. A heterosexual man isn't kicking an attractive woman with body hair out the bed. But in public they will sit and lie about it like parrots.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 12:05 AM

It's bullshit because when push comes to shove no man would care. They don't actually have a repulsion to it. They are just followers and easily influenced. "Other people don't like body hair, so I won't either". Sheeple. I can't stand a follower.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 12:04 AM

Body hair. The number of grown ass heterosexual men who think body hair on a woman is "Ew" is too damn many. It is not, in anyway abnormal. But I regularly see posts online and hear men criticizing women for having body hair. People these days sleep with strangers. Eat ass. Swallow cum. Lick pussy etc. But act like idiots about body hair. I immediately dislike a man when he brings up body hair. It makes you look immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:02 PM

Standards on height are weight proportion is ridiculous when they are really specific. People thinking high incomes, and extravagance are normal. Men who have warped ideas about what a natural female body looks like. People expecting rom com, fairy tale relationships to happen to them without any work on their part. It's weird when people envy relationships of others as if it was magic and those people don't consistently put effort into making it work and keeping the relationship healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 10:45 PM
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Asking for a person to be open about their background is problematic? Like I said, yall love hiding your eyes and then playing the victim. Your job is to make sure a person is suitable before wasting time on them. This is why I never pity a person who got burned in a relationship. It's always their fault. They just hate owning up to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 10:15 PM
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Loyalty, and love are not the same as worshiping. If that needs to be explained to you, it means that you have a cognitive deficiency. Again, yall have problems interacting with the world in normal healthy ways, then blame other people when your belief systems put them off.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 10:07 PM
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He lacks the ability to clearly explain himself in a reasonable manner. The onus is on him to make his point clear. Not on us to auto adjust the level of toxicity in the ideas he is spewing. A crazy person is crazy because they do crazy shit. You don't get to say "Oh maybe they didn't mean it literally" while espousing or engaging in toxic behavior. "Get you a woman that cares deeply for you" and "Get you a woman that worships the ground you walk on so you can treat them shitty" are two very dif…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 10:06 PM
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Does Integrity change? How is extroversion, hobbies, career, and kids ending relationships in toxic ways? Makes no sense to imply they could. You're talking about the natural progression of life. One day I will be old. Of no choice of my own. But I can still make that choice to have integrity. That does get taken away ever. But back to my bigger point… the person that changes (or makes a major mistake) could be YOU! And that’s not something that is reflected in your posts here. You come across a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 10:01 PM
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I don't want to BE worshipped. Why don't you get that? It's not a flex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 09:14 PM
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../s..at the end of a sentence on Reddit indicates sarcasm. I was being sarcastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:06 PM
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According to RP spaces, you cannot. I didn't make the rules. I just follow em. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:57 PM
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Women- MUCH LIKE MEN_-experience their own personal thoughts, feelings, perspectives, and preferenes. Stop spreading fake news. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:50 PM
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Again. If you copy someone, it's because you chose to. Yall kill me trying to displace responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:30 PM
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Those women are unhealthy too. 🙃 If they jump off a bridge are you gonna jump too? Like I said the onus is on you to control your behavior. "Everyone else is shitty too." Isn't a free pass to be terrible yourself. Why do I have to explain that to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:13 PM
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"I want to be in a one sided relationship with a person I have no real feelings for". Yep. Sounds like a person with a healthy mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:52 PM
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You spelled "Date a woman who has weak boundaries and zero standards and allows you go use her at your whim" wrong. What kind of toxic bullshit is this? I would never want a person to worship the ground I walked on. You're a loser if you do. It means that something is you is deficient. It's not a normal behavior. Healthy people have a conscience. You don't get a pat on the back for taking advantage of someone who has no boundaries. I don't care if they're a doormat. You don't get points for shit…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:31 PM
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I think yall also don't realize that alot of women need excitement, danger and drama constantly. Which is why alot of them go after the cocky asshole. Me personally, I just don't get it. It's not a choice, per se. I am just not drawn to that kind of man, or behavior. And never have been. I'm just legit not impressed by Chads and Tyrones. Never have been. The only problem I have with it all is how so many women are painted in the same light. Chicks who like bad boys make the most noise and stand …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:58 PM
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I disagree. Men who are very looks focused will care. Im talking men who regularly comment on, are easily put off by and are extra sensitive to women's appearances. They're all assholes about aging. They're the old dudes who ogle young girls and say creepy shit. The ones who can't accept no one wants to fuck an old dude. So I always avoid men like that. I want a man that has realistic standards for beauty. They do exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:15 PM
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Your comment is literally proving my point. Just admit you're wrong. Holy shit. Millions of mutilated genitals, but the cultures where it happens find it horrible? No. They find it normal. Go ahead, downvote this comment like a little bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:28 AM
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Female Gential Mutilation is normalized in the coutnires where it still takes place. So what are you talking about? It's only horrifying to people who live in countries where it doesn't happen. So my point still stands, dummy. You're going on a rant. And you're incorrect. Emotional ass man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 10:21 AM
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That was a nice read.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/22 10:14 AM
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Now the questions is, particularly to the women of PPD: why is confidence (which may be a mask for a any number of serious dangers for women) gets given a pass over neediness (which may mask problems that are less dangerous) Personally, I don't know the answer to the first question. I don't get it. Never liked dudes that were assholes. Even as a teenager. And I never understood why other girls did either. Neediness is unattractive. It comes from a place of low self esteem. And low self worth. Ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 09:32 AM
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I didn't say it was all about getting your dick wet. I said men were pressed. Hard. Men are so concerned with what women are doing. And who they are fucking. And why they aren't paying attention to them. Women don't give the same energy to men. We just don't. But the Manospehre love saying men are the prize. It's like a feminist saying women are as strong as men. The shit is a lie. History has shown us that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:00 AM
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reminder: you’re human and capable of mistakes too! Fuck that. Choices. I am capable of choices. Yall call everything a fucking mistake. Everything isn't a mistake. If you knew it was bad, negative, toxic, shitty and you did it, it was a CHOICE. Not a mistake. People change, especially over decades Yes. People can choose to change into a bad person. Which is why I said "Does the person self introspect and admit to their faults and are they working in them". And I mean that honestly. Being a good…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:38 AM
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Exactly. People just don't like to read. "I couldn't learn it by not cracking a book"= "It doesn't exist" for alot of people.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/22 04:39 AM
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Work on your self esteem, self worth and integrity. Integrity is a big one. Disqualify anyone who doesn't move with integrity. Even if the relationship doesn't work out, a person with integrity won't leave you in pieces or damaged.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/22 04:18 AM
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He made it up. If anything circumcision is normalized that people don't think about it deeply. I think there is no malice behind it. It's just absent-minded "isn't that how it's supposed to be?" At play. Once I sat down and considered it, I decided that I would never circumcise my son. Also, uncut penises look better. I have no idea why people even started cutting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:17 AM
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However, a marriage can fail for reasons out of your control. And no amount of vetting and background checks will prevent it. Name one. That isn't a red flag. And that isn't a lack of integrity. People don't up and change overnight. Your partner didn't just become an asshole overnight. They didn't just become selfish overnight. They didn't become vindictive overnight. They didn't become abusive overnight. These things were all present in the dating stage. I The seed was there. You ignored it. Pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:12 AM
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I'm severe with it. Don't even knock on my door. Don't bother me. Don't show up. No you can't sleep over. If rather pay for a night in a hotel than offer my couch. I'm dead ass serious too. Yo mama not coming in my house. Neither is mine. Makes my skin crawl to have people in my house.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:56 AM
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Plenty of introverts hate having company. You can always go out and see friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:53 AM
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But it's still 100% about women. That's my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:25 AM
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Never. I can't stand people being in my house. Touching my stuff. Breathing my air. My home is my escape. My sanctuary. My worst nightmare is to come home from a the hustle and bustle of the world and my partner have company over.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:07 AM
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No. I want to get married for two reasons: A. I feel like it is the ultimate commitment. Like we would become a family. I don't have a family. I haven't dated for years. I chose celibacy because I knew I didn't want back to back meaningless relationship before I wanted to get married. So I decided to wait until I was ready to date for marriage. B. You would have power of attorney over all my assets and decisions should something happen to me. And the same for you. Staying unmarried is real cute …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:39 AM
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A. A man of at least average height. I'm 5'11". 5'9" and up. And doesn't care about being shorter at all. It won't bother me. B. A man that exercises regularly but not excessively. Like fitness addicts or body builders. Some musculature. But not low body fat. C. A man with integrity. I can't stand people whose behavior doesn't match their supposed values and morals. Even in friendships. D. A man that has a life plan. Who has a goal. Doesn't have to be huge. But has to have a goal. E. A man who r…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:23 AM
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Citation needed. Maybe your spending too much time in online pill spaces. The Manosphere. 🤨 Men going on rampages because of women. Men killing women. Men raping women. Men holding women hostage as sex slaves. Men paying for for sex workers. Men consuming porn featuring women. Only Fans. Men seeing no purpose to participate in society if they don't have a woman allocated to them. Look at history. Men oppressed women because they can't stand the idea that they can't control them. And that allowin…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:14 AM
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People want to be accepted though. Fit in. Socialize. Have jobs. Have relationships. Live in society. And participate. We're not wild animals.. When we start employ standards, others will follow suit. It's like a riot. It's only a riot because hundreds of people are acting stupid. If 50 of them stopped, the other 50 would slowly follow suit. People fan the flames and then complain about the big ass fire. Make it make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:49 AM
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Be the change you wish to see. I wish more people got this. It's not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:47 AM
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Some women do. But the vast majority of men do. Go to FDS. Have you ever noticed how the vast majority of their posts are about women? Even if man are part if the post, the majority of it is them talking about women, femaleness, how to protect women, how to assert boundaries as a woman, how a woman should be treated etc. The Manosphere is men analyzing women. Complaining about shit women do. Laughing at women's behavior. Criticizing women's behavior. Bitching that no woman wants them. Exchanging…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:35 AM
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A. It is still your choice. "Everyone else is terrible too" is an attempt to avoid personal responsibility. B. No. Be decent for you. I didn't say do it for other people. C. Exactly. D. No. You have the option to keep yourself to yourself. Too many people struggle with being alone. Learn to he alone. One good friend is better than 20 shitty ones. Being a loner is better than shitty relationships. E. Integrity. Your morals. Your values. Your standards. Apply them to yourself. Refuse to bend on th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:29 AM
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No. It's not. 🤨 Take responsibility for yourself. If you keep getting shit on, it's because you choose the wrong people continuously. Thats on you. That's your fault. A shitty person is a shitty person is a shitty person. When you see a red flag, move on immediately. Go to relationship advice subreddits. People constantly put up with bad behavior from others. Then go online to bitch and moan about it. When walking away early on was an option. You don't get to involve yourself with shitty people.…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:20 AM
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Right. Men stay some stupid shit. "If society doesn't ensure I get a woman, I see no reason to participate". Thus illustrating that women are the prize. I doubt women would feel like the world is falling apart if they couldn't get a man. Men are soooooooooo pressed on women. Look at the Manosphere. It's 100% dedicated to talking about women. Dudes with 100% of their content being about women. Then saying women aren't the prize. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:08 AM
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It's not that complicated. 🤨 How to solve the Dating Market: A. Choose to stop being terrible. B. Choose to be a decent person. C. Expect the same from others you deal with. D. Refuse to deal with anyone who is toxic. E. Move with integrity. F. Expect integrity from others. The end. Everyone thinks the onus is on other people. But change starts with you. If you are participating in the dating market place by engaging in casual hook.ups, situationships, finessing men, game playing, tit for tattin…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:07 AM
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His wife sounds like a simple, humble person. Which suits his simple humble life. I see so many men going overseas and latching on to girls that don't want a simple humble life and then getting upset when the woman starts complaining about seeing more, doing more and going more places. A 22 year old 9 doesn't want to live in your small town and work at Walmart. But when you see these couples, they are almost always mismatched. And I just laugh and laugh. Because the man can never believe his luc…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:59 PM
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You find them by going out. And doing stuff. Pick up some more hobbies. And interests. If you don't have any hobbies or interests that involve other people you're not gonna meet anyone. Even if you don't particularly like socializing alot, you have to pick up some that force you to at least be around other people. It could be volunteering. I'm not saying going to bars and clubs. But going to basketball once or twice a week is nothing really.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/22 11:07 PM
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Yes. There is strife. But it stems from black men and black women. Neither is the problem more than the other. Both are the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:02 PM
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You have a way. You just don't want to put the effort in. "I shouldn't have to make any changes to my daily routine but I still expect to get a partner". Makes no sense. You need to change it up so hard and force yourself to get out more. Or stop complaining.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/22 10:57 PM
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Yall have to pick a struggle. You can't be out here complaining about all the men getting taken advantage of by women they chose. And saying women are the ones who pick poorly. I would say most women and most men pick poorly. So many people these days think that the onus isn't on them to pick and vet a person thoroughly. The Manosphere is literally attesting to the fact that men pick the wrong chicks, get their feelings destroyed. And then turn to Red Pill. No. It's not because all women are ter…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:53 PM
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Now, it probably helps that he went for a woman who was around the same age and attractiveness level. Yes. That helped. If you're 45 and fat and a low earner, choosing a 21 year old is a fucking delusion. Then they act surprised when she was using them all along. Alot of these men can't be humble and shoot within their league. They shoot for the stars. And think a young, attractive foreign woman wants to stay married to them. The delusion is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:42 PM
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I'm not saying don't go. I'm saying if you're going to go, drop the delusions first. Women from poor, under developed SEA countries are interested in you primarily because you can elevate their standard of living. The will engage in a whole relationship with you. Marry you. All the while having zero real feelings for you. Most Western men want love relationships. But in underdeveloped countries, transactional ones are quite common. If you can deal with that reality, go ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:38 PM
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No. It's not that hard. I don't want to waste my life on raising a child. I have a bunch of interests that keep me busy. I want to wake up when I want. Sleep when I want. Have free time and peace and quiet in my home. The end. I would rather be reading and learning than cleaning up after a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:25 PM
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Most black men socialize in predominately black circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:23 PM
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No. It's not abnormal. You're still very young. Everyone has their own schedule. Everyone is different. People who sleep around merely make the most noise about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:58 PM
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I simply cannot have sex with an overweight woman more than once or twice. Ahahahahaha. Men are so duplicitous. And then wonder why fat chicks have such high self esteem bordering on arrogance. Yall will dig to the bottom of the barrel for sex. Then ridicule the same women in public. Trifling.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:21 PM
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He has every right to complain. But his complaining is not logical is what I'm saying. He made the decision. He is now dealing with the consequences. Me personally, I would just suck it up and raise my goddamn child. Take the L.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:19 PM
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I agree. Anyone who regularly posts on social media is a fucking weirdo. I don't respect anyone who is active in a non business or hobby related social media account. Heavily cultivated personal accounts are weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:08 PM
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Obviously when he said he wanted her to keep the baby he didn't say "just shit it out I'll take it" he wanted to have the baby WITH HER. Regardless. You run the risk of ending up a single parent the moment you have a child. People don't want to live in this reality. Your partner could die and you'd be alone. There is no guarantee of co parenting. And maybe I misread but I could have sworn he said that she told him point blank she didn't want to raise the child before it was born. Her never said …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:06 PM
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He can't control her. He wanted the baby. She did not. She told him that point blank. You don't get to agree to being 50/50 parent. You agree to being a 100% parent the second you bring a child into the world. She opted out. She told him she wouldn't mind the baby being adopted. The ball is in his court to raise the child, or adopt it out. This woman allowed him to have a say over her body by bringing his child forth and risking her life to do it, and he is complaining about having the child he …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:47 PM
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If thry were smart they wouldn't try. It's important to know your strengths. Men resort to the same tactics that women do. For example: A. Taking the post out of context when they're losing instead of just admitting theyre wrong. B. Making shit up that you never even said. Literally putting words in your mouth. C. Deflecting to another, unrelated topic, and acting like the two are related. D. Downvoting comments that disagree with them instead of opening up a discourse. That is the point of Redd…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:22 PM
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The man didn't want her to get an abortion. She had the baby. Gave it to him. Now he wants her to be forced to 50/50 custody (meaning help him out) even though she told him she didn't want a baby. So he got what he wanted. And being a full time father probably sucks dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:17 PM
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83 percent of black men are married to black women. What statistics are you looking at? Yall kill me spreading fake news. Stop watching Kevin Samuels. He's a charlatan.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:16 PM
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Nah. Thats most of the men here too. Yall suck at debating a POV well. And think that by virtue of being male you're good at making logically consistent points. You're not. Alot of the women here suck at debate. But so do alot of the men. It's literally the pot making fun of the kettle at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:14 PM
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Chad and Brad and dem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:12 PM
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He wanted the baby as long as he was the one doing less of the work. The mother played him at his own game. And now he is salty. Hahaha haha. Raising a child is so appealing to men. As long as they aren't the ones doing it. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:12 PM
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It should be banned quite frankly. You can easily throw a pair of baggy shorts over those legging and a loose fitting shirt over your top and still have range of motion, support and coverage. I could never.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:08 PM
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As if women show empathy towards men. Some women lack empathy. That's true. Doesn't mean all of them do. To imply such an arguement and claim rooted in emotional logic. Perhaps being a decent person has nothing to do with your ability to attract a partner. Yes. It does. You're literally talking out the side of your neck. Yall be just saying whatever you want. And thinking it's a good point. I amazes me truly the number of men who lack the ability to debate and make good, logically sound and reas…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:07 PM
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Tag me in the post. Or shut up. 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:03 PM
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People act like reproducing is some grand thing. It's not that big of a deal. It's only hailed as such because it makes the mediocre masses feel special about their mediocrity. Anyone can shit out a baby. People these days prefer to spend their time on other things instead of raising children.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:56 AM
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No. It's not. I'm not saying these women are ugly. I'm saying men notice shiny things more than average looking things. It's human nature. If an expensive sports car rolls up, no one is noticing your basic ass Toyota Camry.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:41 AM
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I agree with you. Most women and men don't prefer intellect. Everyone says "I want someone I can have an intellectual conversation with". And this never true. Not for 95% of the people who say this. I would say a dude like you has to weed out the majority of women to find an fulfilling relationship. Dumbing yourself down to be liked will just make you resentful.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:31 AM
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It did. Have you seek how try hard pretty women are in their 40s. They still look good. But nowhere near as youthful as they were at 20. They work harder than the devil to "act" youthful. It's basically over correcting. And they come off desperate AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:05 AM
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I agree. But as women were not allowed to talk about this reality. Women should be allowed to walk around in attention seeing clothing and get attention, but also not attention. And on their whim too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:03 AM
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It is. Which is why I personally go out of my way not to give attention to people who behave in ways that are attention seeking. I ignore them especially. Imagine your temporary looks being the cornerstone of your self esteem. It's a poor investment. As no one will care in 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:01 AM
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The have an element of truth to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:48 AM
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I agree. And they do know what to expect. The same chick would be sobbing on snap chat if zero men checked her out that day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:40 AM
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Good for you. That doesn't take away the reality that it forest work out for alot of people. It's like saying that you've need happily married for 20 years. But still the divorce rate is 50 percent. And I didn't say they were intolerant. They don't prefer you. So let's not act like a white man is a preference in Asia. They are still insulated and still prefer their own kind. Westerners legit act like people in other countries are waiting for them to come and save them. They aren't. They have the…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:36 AM
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Of course some don't. I didn't say they did. I said their motivation is often transactional. That's the nature of their culture. They are xenophobic. Not racist. They mostly refer to stick to their own kind. Why wouldn't they? They were raised in countries where 99.9% of the population is the same race. So women that break the ranks of this standard are inherently not traditional, and should be regarded suspiciously. Especially if you didn't meet them in a normal way like by introduction or from…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:56 AM
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Immigrant parent want their kids to marry within their own culture. Asian, African, European, South American all expect their kids to marry someone from the same background. They're not giving their kids to you. And their kids will be Americanized anyway. So...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:51 AM
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Women dress like this for the attention. You know damn well they do. I hate how women work harder than the devil to avoid admitting that truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:49 AM
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Women like this like the attention. And like complaining about the attention. Imagine if she went out and every man refused to check her out. Like a mass effort to ignore her ass. She would be online that night complaining about getting old. Men would be wise to avoid women who wear attention seeking clothing. I could never walk out in public with my whole ass hanging out in tight legging. Never.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:47 AM
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Am I right in assuming you’re a western woman who’s moved to E Asia? I never met a single one who wasn’t bitter af about how her male compatriots had a relatively easier time dating while she actually started having to make an effort for the first time in her life. I feel like this is driving your thoughts on this issue. Stop. I'm not bitter at all. People always deflect to calling people bitter, salty jealous etc when they disagree with them and challenge their incorrectly held beliefs. Miss me…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:04 AM
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What does that have to do with being traditional? Broadening your horizons means understanding that other cultures have different rules. And yours isn't the be all end all. Asian societies are homogenous. And often time xenophobic AF. So 99% are not marrying outside their race for that purpose alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:53 AM
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Stop lying. 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:52 AM
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All women are the same. They want the same shit. Take a poor girl from her country village to the big city and after a while she will expect the city lifestyle. Let's not be delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:47 AM
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It is classist. You're offended but it's not untrue. Fairness is only hailed in western countries. People in Eastern countries are discriminatory as fuck. Age, looks, height, disability, education, race and social class are all fair game in Asia. And there are often no laws to prohibit it. But here you are mad that the rest of the world doesn't operate on your western standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:45 AM
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Where did I say that? 🤔 Here we go again. Grown men relying on emotional logic and just making shit up. How female of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:54 AM
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It's three times higher than native marriages. And this is a country where not fault divorce is impossible. Most people over 50 are unhappy but resigned to a loveless, sexless marriage. But all yall care about are divorce stats. . These rants about how western men shouldn't even try to consider Asian women always seem to smack of racism against Asian women and their intentions whenever i read them. It's not a rant. It's the truth. It's reality. Go live in a foreign country. Learn the language an…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:53 AM
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Exactly. 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:07 AM
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You mean a country that is under developed. With rampant crime. Corruption and poverty? Where women end up married young saddled with multiple children and dirt poor for their entire lives? Yes. In those countries a white man is a step up. Why? Because he can provide certain life style. These men in the comments thing the women's motivations are love and respect for them. No. It's transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:06 AM
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Decent means decent character. Character means loyalty. Integrity. Honesty. 🤨 Men in Asia don't marry these women because they don't want to be locked into a marriage with a woman that has nothing to offer according to their culture. And being able to cook, clean, and pretend to be nice isn't fooling an Asian dude. Their game and vetting is way different than Western standards. As long as she is in a desperate position (being poor, uneducated and from a lower class) the odds that she is finessin…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:04 AM
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Because......in Gerrmany.....most men are white? There is a difference in the type of woman who has the means and education and will to leave her home country and immigrate. Versus a poor woman looking for a foreign sucker to take care of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:00 AM
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They don't want her because she is of low character. Not just low social class. Unfortunately social class has a huge bearing on behavior in homogenous countries. Kids raised in poor households have a much stronger poverty mindset than kids raised in individualistic ones. I have seen this be true 95% of the time in Asia. So what you are left with is a person that money hungry, makes poor decisions with money, marries for money, because it is really hard for them to escape their social class via …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:58 AM
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Where? I have only ever spoken on Asia because I live in Asia. Stop talking out your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:22 AM
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What's funny is yall think that going abroad is gonna save you. It's not. People are the same everywhere. Women who are traditional stay traditional by marrying a traditional man. The act of marrying outside your culture is not traditional. At all. It's quite progressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:21 AM
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I guarantee you haven’t actually lived abroad if you don’t think some women in many countries are lining up to marry (white*) western men. Not high quality ones of good character. Charlatans? Yep. Scammers? Yep. I’m not American but I am a white western man who has lived in East Asia, Central Europe, Russia and Eastern Europe and I can absolutely say without a doubt that dating is easier for most white western men in those countries, and it definitely isn’t all about money. What is the long term…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:18 AM
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I didn't say they couldn't get married. I said they couldn't get married to decent women of that culture. There is a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:03 AM
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Ahahaha. 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ Mofo dead bedrooms are also common. Like I said, in Asian countries no fault divorce is not a thing. You can't get rid of your wife because she won't suck your dick. I have seen women change up once they sign the marriage papers. It's so common here that men will literally have a wedding and not file the paper work until years.later because they are worried about their partner changing up after marriage. That is something both men and women do here because they are so worri…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:52 AM
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No. They are not. They are a step up for Asian women from the lowest class. Lower middle class and upper class women consider it "sluming". I have lived here for a decade. I have not once seen a random white dude without high status married to an Asian chick from a decent family background. The ones married to decent women work in highly coveted jobs and have high incomes and can provide a good stable lifestyle. Just being white doesn't mean shit. Like I said, foreign men all have this same POV …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:46 AM
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I'm not from any of those counties. Never said I was. Is reading comprehension that hard?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:42 AM
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Look up mail order bride scams or mail order bride marriages gone wrong. Men are stupid when it comes to the possibility of getting a young bride. Which is why they are willing to roll the dice. And risk getting burned. And alotnof them end up burned. Because they go over seas. Shoot out of their league. Bring a hot ass woman home and then shows her all the more attractive men who she can do better with. Yall are not bucking the odds. Thinking that you can purchase love and loyalty is a delusion…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:41 AM
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I'm not saying obesity is attractive. I'm saying they will not be grateful. They want more for themselves and their families. And will use your stupid ass as a come up. I have seen men marry SEA women. Being them to their home countries. The woman will get a job, earn money, send it home for a few years. The currency exchange is ridiculous. They are earn a years income in a month in a more developed country. And once they have sent enough, they will go home. Leave your goofy ass behind. Shit hap…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:38 AM
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Rich east Asian men are not marrying SEA women. Asians marry, damn near exclusively, within similar social classes. So a super rich man is marrying a woman born and bred in a rich ass family. Period. Their families are extremely leary of any woman born out of their class and they are seen exclusively as gold diggers (and often are) because, as I said, once the bag is secured, Asian woman cant be divorced easily. No fault divorce isn't a thing. And they will tolerate alot (like cheating and mistr…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:33 AM
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No. Not all. You have to vet every woman regardless of culture. In Eastern countries the entire family and the family history is put under a microscope before marriage takes place. Parents have to meet and approve of each other's children before the give their blessing on marriage. It is how they ensure their child won't be used or abused because no fault divorce is impossible in alot of Asian countries. An Asian woman who operates outside of cultural standards by dating, sleeping with or living…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:22 AM
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That's true. However all too often, I see foreign men and women idealizing Eastern cultures. And marrying into them without knowing the "rules" and getting taken advantage of like fools.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:18 AM
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That's true. So what? Since when has obesity ended with you losing half your assets? Focusing on weight is not important. Not when losing your money is on the line. Asian women play the long game. They know you have preconceived notions about them. And they will use that ignorance to hang you and rob you blind. I've seen the shit happen way too many times. I have no idea why Western men still think Asian women are demure, submissive and traditional. Many of them are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:42 PM
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Go live abroad. Stay for 5+ years. You will find this is not true. Not true at all. A person of low character has low character. Period. Culture does not prevent bad behavior in women. But being a foreign man, you don't know what red flags to look out for. Yall think a woman cooking, cleaning ans having sex with you and living with you unmarried is a green flag. In Asia that shit is the biggest fucking red flag. An Asian man knows he is being finessed when a woman is eager to everything for him,…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:38 PM
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I love how Western men think going abroad is the answer. Go ahead. You will attract scammers and liars trying to finesse you for a green card. Or access to jobs to earn money in your home country to send back to their family. Women in other countries are not lining up to marry Westerners like yall would like to believe. Women from traditional backgrounds with traditional parents follow the traditional route of marrying within their own cultures. The ones who don't don't do it out of choice, they…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:29 PM
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The core of red pill is based on selfishness, these men don't care about the health of their audience. Shock pieces garner $$$$$ and interest that goes into their bank account. What it leaves you is often miserable, unsuccessful with a bad reputation. Yep. I think RP is interesting to learn and consider. But 95% of it is trash.
/r/ExRedPill02/01/22 06:23 PM

Shhhh. You're gonna look like a bitter hater. The reality is, 30s and early 20s are light years apart in headspace and maturity. Marrying a 23 year old will have you divorced in 10 year with a 33 year old lamenting how they didn't get to "live". And I'm not referring to sleeping around either. I'm talking about adulting. Getting a job. Getting your own first paycheck. Renting your first adult apartment. And all the other adult things that come with being a 20 something after college. It's like a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:54 PM
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It does not. What is it with all these dudes thinking that women don't live in and observe the world around them just like yall do? Reality isn't that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:03 PM
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They are not. People who use them, use them exclusively for sneaky links. It's so suspect that alot of them won't put their faces on their profiles. Just random items. No one wants to get "caught" online looking for dates. It's seen as suspect AF. The only ones who do it regularly are Asians apart of the lower social classes. And they often do it to meet westerners to date because in their minds Westenrs have lower standards. They aren't wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:02 PM
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Do you live in Asia? Have you seen it? If the average height for an Asian woman is 162. And the average for a man is 175, most women will end up with men 10+ centimeters taller than them. The same is technically true for Western countries as well. Asian women are less picky about height cutoffs. As I said, a man at 168cm with a good, stable job will beat out a dude standing 175cm any day of the week in Asia.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:00 PM

Stop projecting emotional man who consumes too much RP content and thinks it applies to every woman. You look dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:55 PM
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Right. And by short I mean under 6 feet. The average height is like 175cm here. And I see men under that coupled with shorter women all the damn time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:54 PM
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Yes. But it does happen. Though much less because people stick to friend groups and don't really interact with those outside the group or too disconnected from a group member. Introductions are made from friend to friend. Not via strangers. So sneaky links are much harder in Asia. Not impossible though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:53 PM
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Reading comprehension is hard. The refers to men who have no empathy and think that women, by virtue of being female, deserve no empathy are losers. If English isn't your first language, I understand. If it is, 😬😬😬😬
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:51 PM
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Talking about it is not "complaining", cunt. Drop the pathetic emasculation attempts you stupid dog. Is this an example of a man maintaining masculine frame? 🤔 Rollo Tomassi would be ashamed. Such a campaign is pointless because feminists control the gender narrative. Anyone who backs that sort of legislation is an idiot and will face career suicide. Men shouldn't be fIgHtInG fOr SoCiAl cHaNgE, we see the rules of the game and act in such a way that we win. cAmPaIgNiNg is for the bitches. All of…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:49 PM
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50% of the Earth population is male. Why didn't men create a hastag for it? 🤔 The onus is on women, for what? Men have agency as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:47 PM

Yeah. So consider that shit heavily before doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:46 PM
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That surprised you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:45 PM
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Indeed they are and we're not choosing the likes of you... What does divorce rape have to do with me specifically? I have never divorced raped a man. So you're talking out your ass. Implying so comes from a place of emotion. And an inability to maintain a cool head when debating someone. Don't yall shit on wome for this same behavior? 🤔 In fact, I know you haven't been paying attention, but men have been choosing to date and marry women from all parts of the world, just not the west and especial…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:44 PM
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You're a loser if you married the wrong person. Period. Admit the shit. Own it. And move on. So many prefer to play the victim though. And that only goes so far. At some point your poor decision making must come into question. At some point Accountability must take over. The only losers are the women that go to College and get useless degrees like Gender Studies, Journalism or Modern Art and accumulate hundreds of thousands in debt only to get to the job market and be left out due to not having …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:38 PM
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Yep. Thats a good arguement. Why aren't men actively working to change family court laws? Are you campaigning for it currently? Or just complaining about it quietly on the internet like a bitch? If the former, good for you. If the latter, you're part of the problem, aren't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:33 PM
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They don't. A man having a nice face will beat out a tall dude with an ugly one any day in Asia. It's the opposite in America. In Asia, there is a no fault divorce system. So women choose men who can provide for them. Of course a tall, good looking, smart, educated, top earning man is a prize. But looks will be quickly forfeited for money and status and stability in Asian countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:31 PM
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I hope you are. If you aren't, I pity your GF. I love how people in relationships act like the act of being in a relationship means that it's a healthy one. Plenty of toxic relationships out there that never break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:29 PM
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Are the men not responsible for the women they chose? Really? These women didn't just go bad overnight. It's like when women claim that a man suddenly became abusive. It's a lie. There were red flags before he ever lifted a hand to hit her. And she ignored them. There has to be accountability. Even though a man who is divorce raped is a victim, he is not 100% faultless. Like I said, let's be real.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:28 PM
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But some sex workers are trafficked? Correct? And plenty of women care about the mistreatment of men in the court system. Provide evidence that they don't. Or shut up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:26 PM
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I was watching a video recently. A dude had caught his wife having an affair. Military dude. She had his kid in the car with the other man and everything. Anyways, he goes on this long ass rant about all the things he has done for her. He took in her child by another man. The father was, in his own words, a "piece of shit and not in the child's life"🚩. He then goes on to say that when they first got together they broken up alot. 🚩 they fought alot 🚩. She disrespected him alot. 🚩 She had manipula…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:24 PM
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Women also deflect. Like you are doing. Stay on topic. Or don't comment. All these weak ass masculine energy as men. Maintain frame where? Deflecting, and purposely going off topic is a lose of frame. The RP gurus would be so ashamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:17 PM
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Find one misadrist post I've written. Like I said, emotional, female logic. Making shit up all because I disagreed with you. Which is exactly what yall ridicule women for doing. It's just easier to just admit that you are dead ass wrong. A person with a lack of empathy for others doesn't deserve shit. Male or female. And I stand by that. I'm awaiting my tags for all my supposed misadrist posts. Don't be a bitch. Tag me in them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:14 PM
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Divorced men choose to get divorced the moment the get married. Let's be clear. Only married people can get divorced. The two are linked. And cannot be divided. Divorce is a risk you take with marriage. As I said in another comment, these men are at fault partially as well. You do not get to marry and have kids with some shitty ass woman and then cry victim when she takes you for all you are worth. Is she still dead as wrong? Yes. Is the court system broken? Always has been. But the man in quest…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:12 PM
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I said men who think like that. 🤨 Reading comprehension is hard. 🙃 Just like people who kick puppies and who hurt children don't deserve to be happy. Pay attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:08 PM
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Exactly. They think 100% of the women in these jobs chose it. Many are trafficked. Others are groomed from young ages. And others have no choice if they want to eat. And not acknowledging those women and just choosing to focus on the ones who choose it for the fast cash says alot about these men's manner of thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:07 PM
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Say sorry to yourself. Your behavior doesn't hurt me. It's it you who puts this energy out in the world around you. And that energy is the reason no woman wants you. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:05 PM
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Like the other person said: evidence. And to counter, men are responsible for the shitty wome they choose. Yall love laughing at women who are saddled with kids from Chad and Tyrone. Give that same energy to men. Men go out and marry and have kids with the lowest denominator type of woman. Then cry foul with that stupid women uses the court system against them. The court system is shit. Women who use it against men are shit. But men who choose to get involved with toxic women are not 100% faultl…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:04 PM
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Either coutner my point or shut up. It amazes me the amount of men on this subbreddit that cannot debate back and forth. Again, yall give all this heat to women. All the while lacking the ability to argue a point well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:01 PM
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Have you lived in any of these countries? Because I've lived here for a decade. How the hell can a YouTube video lasting 10 minutes perfectly portray a culture? Let's live in the world of logic. Please.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:59 PM
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I don't expect anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:58 PM
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The fundamental difference is that women make a conscious decision to be a sex worker Except in instances where they are trafficked. Or when young girls are groomed into it. 🤨 Or when they are so poor they have no other way to make money. You do realize that there are all kinds of women in sex work, right? Men have no choice how the legal system treats them. Yes, they do. Laws in developed, democratic countries can be changed. 🤨 Do you just dislike logic and reality, or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:57 PM
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Spoken just like a person who has nothing left to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:55 PM
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Ahahahahaha. You don't trust my eyes? Most men are taller than most women. Men under 183cms in Asia do just fine. Women don't cut off men for height. As long as the man is taller than her (which most men already are) women are not pressed about it. A woman standing 163 will consider all men taller than that. And thats the majority. Again. Please go live in the fuckign world. Your first world country is not the center of the universe.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:54 PM
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What logic is this? What are you basing this lack of sympathy for on? Has every single woman on the planet Earth done something to you? If not your point makes zero sense. I could understand not having sympathy for a person who directly mistreated you. But having zero sympathy or empathy for all women just because some women mistreated you means you are a bitter piece of crap. And it's the reason why you are alone. Logical men, where? All I see is a bunch of boys in their feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:52 PM
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They're legit fucking losers. "I'm gonna be a criminal because other people commit crimes. I'm gonna show a lack of empathy to others because it's happened to me before." How stupid is that behavior? It's not rooted in logic at all. Then the same mofos wonder why their lives are so unhappy and empty. Men who think like that don't deserve to be happy. You cannot take your pain out on another person. Give it back to the person that gave it to you. Or better yet, just let the shit go. So many men i…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:49 PM
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Again. What does another individuals lack of empathy have to do with you? "I'm a piece of shit because other people are". That's you. You sound stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:45 PM
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Asia. 🤨 most men aren't tall. As long as a man has a good education, and a stable job, and a good personality, he will he the preference. Tall dudes with nothing but height can kick rocks to women here. They legit don't care. I see short men doing just fine here. Yall need to expand horizons. Life in the West is not the end all be all of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:44 PM
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If you don't care, that's fine. But the person I'm responding to doesn't care because men are mistreated in the family court system as if one is inherently more deserving of sympathy than the other. Yall talk so much shit about women using emotional logical, and most of the men here do as well. I couldn't imagine thinking someone else's pain doesn't deserve empathy all because another wrong is being committed somewhere else in the world. I'm starting to realize why so many of yall are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:42 PM

Technically. But these traits, without being acted on in a negative way towards innocent people isn't bad IMO. I think of Dark Triad as a person who uses these traits to harm others. Dexter technically does. But since it's the scum bags of the world....
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:34 PM
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I'm not lying. It is an individuals woman's choice to date men 6 feet and up. However, reality is that a large part of this behavior is motivated by what other women are doing. And what their women will think. I'm not removing personal responsibility. Im offering a explanation for this behavior. In countries where height isn't coveted, none of the women care much. However they do care for, job and income, in countries where other women prioritize job and income.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:32 PM

Dexter isn't dark triad. He is a serial killer. But outside of his work, he does no harm to others. He only harms those who deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:27 PM
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Go ahead and try. Most men will not listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:25 PM
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I love how yall think having zero empathy for other people is a flex. The fact that a woman could be mistreated is deserving of empathy. And showing empathy to that issue does not, in anyway, take away from or lessen the mistreatment of men in family courts. Nor does it lessen any empathy directed towards that issue. You act like not showing empathy in the former is somehow "getting back at" someone. It just pegs you as an asshole. Again, and so many men here wonder why they can't get a decent w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:24 PM
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Exactly. Some idiot on another thread was trying to justify not helping where you could do so without harming yourself, because "women these days aren't traditional".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:21 PM

Did you see the Tyanna Trump cool kicks episode? This chick is "famous" for being a whole ass porn star and every single dude in the shop that day was acting like a simp and thirsting after her. And acting so impressed with her like she was their childhood hero. Men love lamenting the audacity of women who sleep around for having such high self esteem. But in the presence of men, they are treated like Gods. And men start acting differently, speaking differently, and competing all because the chi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:14 PM

I agree. Marriage and divorce are coupled. People kill me getting married but then getting upset when the divorce stats are brought up because it is a bitter reality they'd rather not have to consider. Only those in relationships can be cheated on. Only those who are married can be divorced. If you choose marriage, you are also inadvertently agreeing to the possibility of divorce at the same time
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:09 PM
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Women are followers. The individual woman doesn't really care as long as a man is taller than her. She only pretends to care to appease her friend group and to be congruent with other women. Which means she is an idiot and a follower. And you shouldn't date her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:06 PM
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Projection alert. Yall mother fuckers love to obsess over some mythical "every man" that every single woman is interested in. He does not exist. Yall actually be out here believing these Redpill gurus. It's fucking fake news. Men do not check out women who are average looking, wearing average attire. Women get looked at by wearing tight clothing (think yoga pants) or revealing clothing (plunging neck line or shirt skirts) or being above average in looks. The end. I'm talking about everyday regul…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:49 PM
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Yall mofos are always talking about tradition. Which one? Society as it wad 500 years ago was traditional. Should we go back to that? How about 1000 years? How about 5000 years? Yall love picking and choosing. The way people lived in the past was not inherently the correct way to live. It was merely a different way. A set of cultural norms and standards that were born out of the events that took place in times before. If you choose not to help a person in need, when you could have, it is because…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:02 PM

My standards aren't unrealistic. It's a projection on your part. Just like how women who sleep around need to believe that other women all do the same so they don't have to feel bad about it. Men who use pornography heavily cope by telling themselves that all the other men do as well. So they are normal and there is no need for them to self introspect about it or change. But there are men who don't use it at all. Or use it in a limited capacity. Or just refer to masturbate to memory or imaginati…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:55 PM
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You got it all wrong. Men don't notice or remember women who don't sexualize themselves. Women who dress in a non sexualized manner and are plain literally do not register on alot of men's radars.. And why would they. There is always a scantily clad or beautiful woman in the background to look at. Dress in a regular shirt, jeans and shoes with regular hair. And be a 5. No man will look your way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:49 PM

I didn't say don't watch porn. I said uses it regularly. There's a difference. Yall love having no standards for yourself. All the while having a list of requirements for other people. If you watch porn regularly and frequently, you are damaging your ability to be in a healthy relationship because you are damaging your ability to view sex in a healthy manner. The same can be said for people who regularly put themselves in contact with shitty toxic people that leave them jaded and bitter. If you …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:40 PM
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I didn't say she was entitled. It's basic human decency to help another person if you can. Seeing a woman in need of help and not helping her just because another woman did you wrong is an asinine behavior. You are literally a piece of human trash. Bitter and jaded. Yall bitch and moan about how shitty other people are, all the while being shitty people yourself. The onus is on you to be better. Because only you can control yourself. If you don't have any standard for yourself, regardless of wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:36 PM

Social media is a waste of time. That's why. I can't respect anyone who regularly uploads to, or participates is social media sites likeFB, Instagram and snap chat or Twitter in a non-hobby or business related manner. Period. If you have an Instagram and you use it to slide into DMs or you use it to like or follow women, that's a no for me dawg. Men with a purpose are not on these social media sites wasting massive amounts of time on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:34 PM
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Exactly. I don't know even one woman that chases bad boys. Why? I dont hang around those kinds of women. Never have. 🤷‍♀️ The same for toxic men. I don't know any toxic men. Why? I don't hang around toxic men. And I find men who chase the hedonistic lifestyle to be extremely unattractive. So I am repeled by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:26 PM
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Good luck with the guilt. If you think you can handle another person veing attacked right in front of you and not offering a helping hand when there is no loss to you, then that means that you are a shitty person. I couldn't imagine not helping another person because another person who shared traits with them did something wrong to me in the past. You mofos are so bitter and then wonder why no one wants you around in real life. Pick a struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:04 PM
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Exactly. Work on yourself. Sitting around excessively humbling other people does not leave much time for self reflection. Every guru in the manoshphere partakes in the mayhem regularly then retired to their room to criticize others who do the same. They want women to stop being toxic. Yet all they do is sleep with toxic women. No one sees it as their responsibility to exercise integrity and refuse to participate. They want other people to change. But they don't embody the change fully themselves…
/r/ExRedPill02/01/22 12:02 PM
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WOMEN 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:42 AM
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They're massive hypocrites. They all claim to want to be married with a good woman that with provide them with kids and a good life. But then they dedicate all of their time to sleeping around with women they say they don't respect? If a good woman is hard to find then wouldn't it make more sense to dedicate your time to looking? They talk about women's ability to bond with men. But then aren't they also eroding this ability in women by having casual sex with them? So aren't they the ones destro…
/r/ExRedPill02/01/22 11:32 AM
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It is unrealistic. However, let them have it. If someone had a standard that I didn't fit, I would immediately cross them off as an option. And I wouldn't reconsider later even if they tried to renege. I can't stand people who have standards they aren't willing to stand by completely and utterly. It shows a lack of integrity to try and go back. Imagine how many women would be left cold if every chick who demanded 6 foot and up only had the option of getting attention, resources, relationships, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:58 AM
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No. Men have 100% of the blame for spending resources on women they are not in exclusive relationships with. Period. Yall try too hard to deflect criticism by saying "they do it too". People need to learn accountability without deflection. Even if someone else does some shit wrong, doesn't take away from the fact that you didn't some shit wrong. But people love deflecting to avoid living with uncomfortable truths.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:31 AM
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cope. No man buys a drink for a woman randomly. Theres always a motive ( like wanting to start chit chat hoping it turns into a relationship and/ or sex) . Stop talking bullshit But is a poor investment. The odds of her talking to you and that interaction being fulfilling are not guaranteed. How many men buy drinks and the girls take them and walk away? Or talk for a couple of minutes and then make an excuse to leave? It's stupid. And if you do it, you're stupid. It's another thing to buy a drin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:13 AM

Posts like this are why I would never date a man obsessed with attractive women. Dudes with Instagrams, dudes who watch porn regularly, men with subscriptions on OF and the like are all red flags. If a man that is average at best is thirsting after women prettier than I am, I would put him out to pasture to go after those pretty women. I will never understand why men and women settle for relationships with people who secretly wish they could find someone better than you in some way. Dude in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:08 AM
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No. Some go for Stacy. Some go for fat chicks. Some go for the girl next door. Some go for nerdy girls. The list goes on and on. But Stacy and the girl next door are seen as universally liked archetypes. Stop pretending you don't know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:04 AM
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Just because there is a subreddit for it does not mean it is more common. Go outside, look around. How many well built, body conscious men are holding the hands of overweight/obsese women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 09:54 AM
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Those are outliers. And you know that. 1 out if thousands does not negate the fact that most fit men don't date fat women. And I say fit meaning "goes to the jump and lifts weights regularly".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 09:48 AM
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Yes. Men do like a variety. However certain categories are way more popular than others. Let's not pretend that that granny porn is as popular as 18-25, year old women's porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 09:47 AM
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I agree. You shouldn't step in if the odds are against you. But there's nothing wrong with stepping in if you can both help and won't risk bodily harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 09:23 AM
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I didn't say men were entitled. I said buying shit for women just because they are women creates an entitled attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:55 AM
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See what I'm saying? A beer isn't a nice gesture. It's an unnecessary one that plants the seed of entitlement. And then it grows from there. Have you never seen how humbly women behave when they are around men who aren't tripping over themselves to do shit for them for free?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:45 AM

Ehhhhh. I would end the relationship, personally. I don't want someone who has feelings for me hanging around me if I don't return the same sentiment. It's so weird that yall don't mind that. The shit makes me uncomfortable. I don't get the whole "let's ignore the elephant in the room and be friends" behavior that alot of yall engage in. If I liked someone and they didn't like me, I'm ending the relationship. If someone liked me and I didn't like them, I'm still ending it. I don't like drama. An…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:44 AM
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No. Men will instinctually protect a woman. Men viscerally cannot stand by and watch a woman be attacked by another male. You will see men laughing at two women fighting. But if a man joins in, men from multiple directions will step in to protect her. It's like how women have a natural instinct to protect children. Just the sound of a baby in distress will draw a woman near to find out what is wrong and try to help it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:36 AM
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Women aren't entitled to anything from men. But I regularly see men giving away shit to women for free all the time. Even when the woman doesn't ask for it. For example, buying woman drinks in bars. Sending women cashapps. Paying for things for them. Even plain women can get this treatment from men. But men are upset that women don't give pussy away as easily as they give their time, attention and resources away. And to that I say "stop being an idiot and take personal responsibility."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:14 AM
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It's weird AF. Plenty of ugly fat girls hanging around. Like this dude said, women who he likes don't like him. Implying that some plain, homely and kinda ugly girls like him just fine. Have you ever seen one of those "nerds try dating" videos? The dudes were not attractive, socially awkward, poorly dressed etc. Making eyes at the handful of above average girls also into nerdy things. All the while ignoring all the plain and homely girls into the same nerdy things who were socially awkward as we…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:07 AM

Really? Because dead bedrooms are quite common here. It's just not talked about. After the kids are born, existing within the same house together as roommates is kinda common. Asian countries are big on appearances. As long as you show up to family events, and events that require spousal or parental participation, no one cares how loveless, sexless your life is behind closed doors. It's not a better system. It's a different system
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:04 AM
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Nah, beta orbiters are almost always swinging around a girl who is out of their league. Exactly. They STAY sweating girls out of their league. Men simp for women out of their league more often than not. If a man is a 3, he will thirst after a 5 or 6. He will shy away from 7+. But if a man is a 5, come hell or high water, he will thirst after 7-8s and sometimes 9s. The shit looks stupid to the casual observer. I'd never date a man I witnessed shooting out of his league. Because they look stupid. …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:02 AM
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I have. I have seen it with my own goddamn eyes. On multiple occasions. And I cringed for them. Men cannot hide when they have attraction for a woman. Other women pick it up quite easily. And are made uncomfortable if they dont return the same sentiment. The shit happens. Whether it should or shouldn't. If what you say is true, you wouldn't see old, crusty, balding and flat out unattractive men holding the hands of young women in SEA countries, for example. Have you never seen a foreign bride do…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:00 AM
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And so they get what they deserve. The man in the OP deserves no pity.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:44 AM
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No. Women who have these stupid standards don't deserve respect or attention. If she wants 6 foot but you're 5'9" walk away. Leave her there waiting for her six foot man. But every 5'9" dude sticks around trying to convince her to prefer him. Letting her call him short. Listening to her backhanded comments on his height. Women like that only do the shit because they know there will be no consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:16 AM
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If you want to perceive it that way, go ahead. I love how bitter yall come across online. But then wonder why no one wants you in real life. If you have your shit together, but no one wants you, it's you. Not other people. At some point you gotta stop blaming other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:13 AM

I would choose to stay single then. Even if it was permanent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:33 AM
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No. That's not too much to ask. Women like that are garbage human beings. I hate anyone (male or female) that can't treat another person with basic human dignity. Even if you aren't attracted to someone, that's no excuse to ridicule and debase them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:23 AM
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Yes. Women who do shit like that are toxic AF. But like yall love to say "Why are you judging all women based on the handful of shitty women you choose to be around?" Short men need to steer clear of women who don't like them. If that's 9 out of 10, then so be it. If most men under 6 foot stopped messing with any woman the moment she said she preferred 6 foot and above, then most women wouldn't have this standard even. Women talk out the sides of their necks all the time. Why? Because they know …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:22 AM
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"I can't have sex with you?" goes online "WOMEN DONT HAVE BASIC RESPECT FOR MYN". It's not women's job to valid any man sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:09 AM

Yall would lose your minds if no fault divorce was removed from the table in Western countries. Not just women, but men as well. I live in Asia. No fault divorce is impossible. You can only divorce your spouse if you can prove they cheated on you, or they beat you, or they deserted you. Otherwise, your futures are linked to each other permanently. There was a story in the news a few years back. The head of a major corporation here was trying to trade his wife in for a younger model. He had moved…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:07 AM
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You all don’t want empathy you want your dick sucked. Yep. When they say respect, they aren't talking about being shown basic human decency, being treated kindly etc. They're talking about sexual respect. If women aren't willing to see them sexually, it's akin to spitting on them in the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:01 AM
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If you're poor, you shouldn't be dating at all. Financial security is more important than sex, relationships and dating. Being ethnic is also fine. And so is being shorter than 6 foot. But yall stay pressed on these entitled women's every word and keep getting your feelings hurt. If a woman has a list and it excludes you, why get mad? Just don't pay her any attention. And leave her along to live her life. But as I said in another post, men will sit around online being short, ugly, broke and ethn…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:56 AM
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You make no sense ma'am. If you cannot go back and figure out my point, that was clearly stated multiple times, you are literally proving my point of women being illogical, and off base. All the while acting like they know what they are talking about. I have spent alot of time? You act like I have an extensive post history here. I do not. Again, you're adding on "facts" that are not real and don't exist. My account is a few months old. I haven't posted here in over a month. I only started post a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:32 AM

That being said, I bet a lot of the guys ranting about women online are like that. They may vocally agree on the importance of self-improvement, but fail to live up to that standard. I can’t say I’m not one of them, at times. That's it really. That's most people. Embody it or shut the fuck up, really. But alot of the people following RP, following Manosphere, and the likes of Kevin Samuels are the exact men they criticize online. Which is why I'm never surprised when one of these RP dudes reveal…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:28 AM
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Even still. If a man is 3 or 4, he needs to stay in his lane. Funny thing is foreign men get this. Western men are the delusional ones. I live in Asia. A dude that is a 3 wouldn't turn his head to stare at a woman that is attractive. He doesn't waste the effort because he is aware she is out of his league. And he will only go for girls in his league. You won't catch him making eyes at or having any delusional expectation that a female 6 would show him any interest. In Asia, if a dude isn't that …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:23 AM
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It depends on which ancestors, most died by 40. Adjusted for inflation men in the 40-60s needed to earn 3x less than we do currently and that was for a house and a family or we can go further back than that when people were taking war brides and stuff. Of course it's still a choice but to say women have no part in it is just running defense for What does this have to do with modern men's choices to remain beholden to their sexual desires as if they have zero control over it. Also this ig model S…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:20 AM
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I'm not being belligerent at all. I'm saying you make no sense. My point was relevant. You took a relevant point and tried to make it into something that I didn't say, nor did I imply. Saying people need to criticize themselves had nothing to do with me being honest with myself. However you tried to connect the two. For no reason. As we were speaking in generalities and not about me specifically. Instead of admitting you didn't need to take it there, you continued doing this. Again, this is why …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:16 AM
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Men always sit around talking about how women mistake being able to fuck a certain of man for being able to secure a ring from a certain caliber of man. But they never talk about how constant access to porn, adult images, Instagram, and OF of outrageously attractive women gives alot of men the delusion that they would have a shot in hell with a woman who looked like that. The dude in the OP has been consuming content from women light years out of his league. So much so, that he has ruined his br…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:14 AM
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No. Society has high ones. But most men will take what they can get. So that's why the standard seems to have more leeway.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:10 AM
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I'm not insulting you. I'm being dead ass serious. You have no sense. But you think you do. Have you never heard of the Dunning-Kreuger effect? People who are the most incompetent believe they are highly competent. Your post makes no sense. But you think you have a point. 🤷‍♀️ I assume you are a woman. If so, posts like this are why men call women illogical.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:02 AM
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Again, how did your male ancestors do it? 🤔🤔🤔🤔 They had the lowest access to pussy and they made it. But men these days can't live without sexual gratification constantly. That testosterone can be utilized to propel a man to do all kinds of things. Spending it on OF, fapping off, liking Instagram model posts and thirsting after women who don't want you is your own choice. It's the easiest, laziest use of testosterone. But everything nowadays is easy gratification, so. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:59 AM
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Of course people have reasons. But at the end of the day, it was 100% their choice. There is no getting around that. And I'm not talking from an abundance mindset. I'm saying that being alone is even better than paying for an only fans. Or watching porn. Or simping over insta thot pics etc. Men can choose to be happy without a woman. But so many of yall refuse to. Then blame women for your choosing to consume porn, buying OF or getting into relationships with low quality shitty women. How did yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:16 AM
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Do you know you have no damn sense at all? Or is this the first youve heard of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:11 AM
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It's a choice. That you make. No one else made you make it. No one else forced your hand. That's my point. So many men sit around bitching about them choosing the wrong women. And the complaining when they reap the consequences of choosing the wrong woman. It's always someone else's fault. Never your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:52 AM
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No. They choose to turn to that. Take responsibility for your behavior. You wanna sub to OF, go ahead. But accept that you did it because you wanted to. Not because women made you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:45 AM
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Yea. Alot of these dudes are repulsive because they don't take care of themselves or put effort in and want to be liked for having the body of a honey baked ham, poor hygiene and shitty eating habits. Topped off with an affinity for above average looking slim pretty women. I want to see what dudes who sit around in RP spaces look like. How they carry themselves. And the energy they project. Because I'm willing to bet that alot of them take no responsibility for their own masculinity, all the whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:44 AM
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🤦‍♀️ Why would I comment on this post by talking about myself specifically? Tell me how talking about myself, my problems, my bad choices has any bearing on this post in particular? And please, do use detail. Why would a person spend 100% of their time in self reflection and self criticism? 🤔 does that logically make sense to you? I said people need to learn how to criticize themselves and not put the blame 100% on others. That statement does not, in anyway take away from the daily conversation,…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:39 AM
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Sure. Maybe they haven't. But at the end of the day, we need to focus our energy on ourselves and not others. How many people do you know that can sit around for hours on end and talk shit about how shitty men or women are? Imagine if they directed that same critical eye on themselves? But no one wants to do that. And that's their right. But it's also a choice. So me, personally, I leave these people alone. Being bitter. Being jaded. Being hurt etc. After a certain point is 100% a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:26 AM
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But yall think there are zero negative effects on men from consuming these types on content and fucking around with these types of women? 🤔 Not only are there, a woman who chose to not sleep around because she doesn't value that kind of behavior isn't going to pick a man who clearly does. Yall all think that women are lining up to marry men who love whores but what to marry Madonnas. No woman wants to be seen as your madonna knowing full and well you like and prefer whores.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:23 AM
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I have no empathy for people who choose to become bad themselves. For refusing to grow. Because getting burned is literally the universe telling you to grow. But alot of people refuse. They choose to put 100% of the blame on the other party. And that is the epitome of cowardice in my opinion. Maybe the other person is an absolute piece of human trash. But you need to figure out why you chose to get involved with them and fix that. And stop focusing on blaming them. It's a deflection, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:16 AM
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But I see you all as a bunch of disappointed and hurt idealists or - and I don’t mean this in a patronising way - damaged children. We have all been let down by people, but isn’t it always better to try to heal and heal others instead of this constant bickering and insulting which just leads to more hate on both sides? Yes. But that would require personal accountability. Alot of men and women don't want to take responsibility for the types of people they allowed in their lives, for the types of …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:10 AM
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So you like them morbidly obese? Which is fine. But the euphemisms are unnecessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:16 AM
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No. Not extra thick. It's called morbid obesity. People love saying they don't mind, but all the while refusing to call it what it is. Stop with the euphemisms then. 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:57 PM
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I'm saying is that level of skin darkening is repulsive because it indicates an unhealthy body. That woman's skin is that dark around her ass because she is morbidly obese. But someone is having sex with an unhealthy person. And that's just repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:52 PM
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The downside of huge asses that no one talks about: chub rub. Most people's buttons cracks are darker naturally, but that degree of dark comes from the skin rubbing together as she walks. Meaning her body is not designed to support that kind of weight. Also, me will have sex anything. Nothing appealing about that. And yet she has multiple sex videos. 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:39 PM
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Stop. You're responsible for your damn self. People kill me trying to avoid personal responsibility. If you're trash, you're trash because you choose to be. Not because of someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:36 PM
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Most men aren't high quality. And most women don't marry high quality men. Slut or otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:56 PM
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No. I'm saying most women these days ain't shit. But most men these days ain't shit either. So they deserve each other. The idea that there are more ain't shit women than there are ain't shit men is a lie. Western men don't get that. They shit on Western women as if they aren't their perfect counterpart.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:42 AM
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Most sluts get married though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:40 AM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:54 AM
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You act like that's a bad thing. It's better than being treated poorly. Ever notice how simps and pick mes always end up with the short end of the stick? Doormats are public toilets. When people realize you will accept any treatment, they take joy in treating you like crap. I don't envy pick mes. They're the ultimate cowards.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:53 AM
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Rock bottom? So many people sit around lamenting how the dating world has gone to shit, all the while participating fully in the downfall. So no need to complain about it then. The dude that hangs out on incel forums is the same dude that has multiple OF subscriptions and is gassing up women's heads constantly. But then wonders why they are all so full of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:37 AM
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No. Not by some piece of shit person. And objectively, no one really likes simps or pick mes. Even as friends. Who wants to be friends with someone whose backbone is non existent? I hate human doormats. At first I pity them. Then their cowardice starts to stink to high heaven.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:36 AM
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I would say alot don't want to know. They don't want it to be blurted out one day. Or exposed online. Or for other people to know. They fear being made fun of by other men. They are afraid of being the dude married to a slut. However, if there was no way to find out that a dudes woman had a sordid past, the average man would have zero problem wifing up a promiscuous woman. As long as she treated him right. Alot of men say one thing, but to the exact opposite. It's quite easy to pick out a woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:12 AM
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The definition of pick me has been warped. Originally, it meant a woman who has weak boundaries, no standards and would say and do whatever needed to keep a man. Basically a female simp. The kind of woman that would let a man cheat on her, but then sit around and make excuses for it, or pretend like it wasn't happening. The type to have all kinds of skeletons in their relationship closet, but then put on a fake happiness mask to the outside world. The type to say "other girls do X but I do Y" to…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:08 AM
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Most men are too. So, it works out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:47 AM
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I agree. But the vast majority of men don't seem to. So enjoy the ride to the bottom.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:21 AM
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No. Why would there be?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:19 AM
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I agree. Alot of smart black men get bitter by being raised surrounded by "hood" women and men. And feel rejected through adolescence. Not because there is anything wrong with them, but because those types of black women don't suit him and he would likely have to expand his surrounding to find women who would have.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:01 AM
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But they aren't just as pale. The make up of their skin is different. Which is why they are considered Asian and not white.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:31 AM
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Thinking that people who don't sleep around are repressing themselves is a major projection. Some people have values. Morals. And integrity. And maintaining those things means more than "having fun" sexually. What's the problem with that? From what I can surmise, just by observing, people who have slept around try to lower the bar by shaming people who haven't into leveling the playing field by sleeping around too so they don't have to feel bad. And that goes for men and women. Ever notice how p…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:18 AM
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I live in Asia. A. The have less body hair overall. A full beard is extremely rare here. They may be able to grow chin hair and a mustache. But not thick ones like white males can. B. Some Asian men are very appearance focused. In general Asians consider it basic manners to maintain a groomed appearance because you are judged for being sloppy. However the vast majority of Asian males don't have skin care routines. Though having them is not seen as a negative or effeminate thing. C. They are peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:14 AM
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It's a man's fault if he feels like no one likes him. Because it's always a lie. Just like when women say they don't have any men interested in them. The truth is, people want, usually, what they can't have and don't deserve. And men get with women who treat them poorly because they choose to. The other option they have is to stay single and look for someone else. Why is being abused better than being alone? It makes no sense. The man in question has to take responsibility for his choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:57 AM
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Because alot of men lust after women that aren't interested in them. They like pictures of, glare at, drool over, fap off to, financially support etc women who wouldn't spit on them if they were on fire. If most men were more exclusive and stingy with their attention, most women wouldn't have such inflated egos..but most men exercise zero control over their sexual urges. And then get mad when women use it against them. Stop giving yourself away for free. Ignore any woman that would never give yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:14 AM
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The only thing you can tell us about this woman is that she was beautiful? And you wonder why it didn't work out? Start looking for a baseline of attractiveness (so an average looking woman) and then start looking for integrity. If the person shows a lack of integrity (which alot of people do these days), move on. I don't care how attractive she is. When people exercise standards their outcomes improve. Or at the very least, your heartache decreases. If something doesn't work out with a high int…
/r/ExRedPill01/01/22 12:08 AM
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Again. Not all. Not even most. So many men refuse to adequately vet a potential woman, then cry and moan when she takes advantage of them. I've never met a person who turned out to be shitty, who didn't have a bunch of red flags in the beginning that the other person chose to ignore. In that case, you get what you deserve. You're not a martyr.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:03 AM
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You're one person. With one experience. We're talking tens of millions of men. Some men will go a lifetime without having a woman interested in them. Most will not though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:01 AM
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How do you? Yall spend too much time on the Internet in these kinds of spaces. And after a while you start thinking that what is true in the bubble is true in reality. It's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:44 PM
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That's not true. Yall just be saying whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:25 PM
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No. It won't. People can invent all they want. You cannot make up for the in-built human desire to feel real love and acceptance from another human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 02:34 PM
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Women who like excitement, emotional rollercoasters, drama, attention, risky sex etc are turned off by virgins. The red pill focuses on a very specific archetype of women. And those women make up a decent portion of females in Western countries. But they are by no means all women. They are just usually extroverted, hypersexual so they stand out more. I would say a more chill, introverted, girl who doesn't like all that extra shit women these days do wouldn't have any problem with a male virgin o…
/r/ExRedPill31/12/21 02:05 PM
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Absolutely not. Again, men acting like men only care about sex. But when women do it, they are called out for dehumanizing men. But men do it all the time. The reality is that most men want to be liked by a woman. Genuinely so. A man cares tremendously if a woman he has feelings for truly likes him. It's the reason why men sit up straighter, act differently, become nervous etc when a women enters the room. It's why women can tell when a man really likes her because a man in love cannot control h…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 01:46 PM
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Yes, he does. He needs to change the world in a meaningful way. That is what exceptional is. It's why some people are written about in history. But the vast majority of us die as nobodies. The word exceptional literally demands you stand out jn a way the 99% fails to do. If you have not done that, shut up and go sit down. Why talk shit about your female counterpart that is just as unexceptional as you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 01:39 PM
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Keyword: once in a while. Yall are all regulars.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 01:36 PM
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Divide the number of innovative men from the last 500 year by the number of men that lived in the last 500 years. We're talking less than 1% and you know it. Just because 99% of inventions were made by humans with XY chromosomes does not take away from the reality that 99% of those XY chromosome holders have not innovated anything. One man created the internet. One man created the airplane. One man created electricity. One man discovered gravity. One man founded a new country. The list goes on a…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 01:33 PM
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Point out where I wrote I deserved an exceptional man? I am average. But you don't see me sitting around shitting on other average people. Ever since Kevin Samuels started spouting that HVM bullshit and the "men built the world" BS all the average and below average men actual believe they did these things. But fail in listing off even one thing they themselves have innovated. All the while shitting on women for being average or uninnovative. When they are exactly the same. It's stupid behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 01:29 PM
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That's a should woulda coulda. As I've said. It's easy to say that because those things exist. Just try to imagine all the things that don't yet exist. That none of us regular people could ever dream of creating because we are average at best and the extraordinary person who will go on to invent it hasn't been born yet, or is somewhere working on it now while we talk on a subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 01:23 PM
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No. It's simpler: because they are average at best. And average isn't innovative. Nor is it ambitious. Nor is does it have leadership qualities. Nor is it particularly smart. Nor does it have much will. Nor does it have much drive. Pre-feminism. Pre-womens rights. 99% of men were still average or below average. The "fall" of modern women has no change on that reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 01:21 PM
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I agree, innovations do have a range. But we all know what range I'm talking about when I say innovative. If it's not changing the world in a big way, it's not innovative.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 01:18 PM
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There has been no significant change despite hundreds of years of men not being oppressed. Women have the excuse that they were oppressed for thousands of years. What excuse do the 99% of non-innovative men have?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 01:17 PM
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No. It's not. We live in an age where anyone born in a developed country has the opportunity to be successful. So then why haven't you innovated anything? Are you working on something currently? When are you planning on putting it out? What will it do? What problem will it fix? If you're not currently working on an innovation (as most men and women are not) stop talking about what innovative men have done. Because an innovative man worked night and day for years. Failed thousands of times. Befor…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:03 AM
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I agree. This is the era. Unlike any other in the past. However the reality is most men and women are still not exceptional, regardless of what era we live in. If anything, the majority of men have no excuse for not being exceptional now, when they did in the past (field slave example) so I ask: Why are the vast majority of men born into developed, first world countries in the 20th and 21st century still not exceptional? Still not innovators. Still not leaders. Still not exceptionally ambitious.…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:37 AM
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I didn't say women would have. I'm saying, neither would most men. But as I've said, the other 99% don't want to have that conversation. They keep avoiding it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:34 AM
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That's a whataboutism. A shoulda coulda woulda. Like I asked another poster: Why haven't you innovated anything? We live in a time where anyone has a shot. All you need do is be born in a developed country and you have no excuse for not being exceptional AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:13 AM
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I was watching an Aba and Preach video. A dude was on there talking about HVM this and HVM that. So Aba asked him "Do you make the coveted 100k a year?" And he starts stuttering real hard and avoiding the question before finally admitting that he didn't. That's most of the dudes on these subreddits. If you're a man that has to put down women (who are, by your own admission, weaker and more inferior than men) then doesn't that mean that you don't measure up in the world of successful men? I could…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:11 AM
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Nope. That's a whataboutism. Why haven't you? Let's stop talking about other people. And ask ourselves "Why haven't I innovated anything". Because the world is literally your oyster. And no one has any excuse for being average or below average in the modern world........unless they don't have makings to be exceptional. And based on data.......the vast vast vast vast majority of men do not have the makings. But that reality hurts yalls feelings. So you sit around online talking about what other m…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:01 AM
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I find it telling how many men have a hard time admitting they are extremely average at best. And often times below average. But love ragging on women. 99% of women were not innovators. 99% of men were not either. What's the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 04:57 AM
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A very very very very very very small fraction of men are responsible for innovation. If those men had never existed, or were deleted from history, the rest of men would never be able to make up for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 03:26 AM
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I've seen game being used both online and in person. It's cringy AF. It seems out of character AF. The dudes don't have the ability to apply it in an authentic way. And it feels very rehearsed and just puts you off.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 07:01 AM
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No. I stand by what I said. Women are not nearly this preoccupied with that men are doing. Some? Sure. But they don't give it the same energy most men give to thinking about women. Women complain, rightfully so, about being discriminated against. Some women take it overboard. But overall, women aren't nearly as concerned with what men are doing as long as they aren't bothering or hindering them in anyway. . The manosphere is literally men complaining about women living their lives and not paying…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 04:45 AM
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I agree. Alot of men are not leaders. It takes a truly aware man to admit that. Alot of men in the Manosphere, I've noticed, struggle with the reality that they don't have natural leadership qualities. Like a handful of men do. So instead of just being humble and staying in their lane and developing boundaries, and self respect and standards they try and feign acting like someone they aren't. By engaging in behaviors that don't suit them. Most men are capybara, swallows, turtles etc. But they, f…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 12:12 AM
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Again. What does off spring have to do with will to be a productive member of society? People adapt. People should adapt. Just because we did XYZ for thousands of years (remember, the world was not as advanced as it was now) doesn't mean we have to keep moving and living according to those standards. But so many simply refuse to adapt. I find it telling that the female version of the Manosphere doesn't exist. Even with feminist spaces. Or FDS Women don't participate in those space nearly to the …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 10:43 PM
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That sounds like a problem with men, doesn't it? If women don't oppress themselves, men will not work or produce? Make it make sense. Like people have said before, men's real problem with women these days is that they can no longer control them, and use them to fulfil the male agenda. I couldn't imagine the whole female gender laying down and doing nothing because a man doesn't want to fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 01:13 PM
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So what you're saying is....men need women to show them sexual attention or they will simply choose to be unproductive members of society? 🤔 Is this why mgtow is 100% about women even though they apparently "went their own way"? 🤔 So then wouldn't this revelation mean women are in fact the prize? 🤔 Men say women are not powerful. But women have the ability to fall whole empires. Is that not power? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 07:59 AM
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Again. What does getting pregnant have to do with the reality that male sexuality was considered more destructive? Women were more vulnerable. Men more destructive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 06:28 AM
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Male sexuality was also surpressed. 🤨 If anything, male sexuality has historically been viewed as worse and more in need of policing than female sexuality. It's like yall don't like history books or something. Women have always been protected from men. By men. It's never been the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 01:08 PM
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"He's being demonized because he's a man". This was a test. If she stays, it will escalate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 02:58 PM
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Punching holes in the wall is problematic AF. I was empathetic up until that point. I would immediately break up with someone that punched a hole in the wall over a bad mood and a bad day. How a person gets mad is very important information when considering a long term relationship with them. Punching holes in the wall is a MASSIVE red flag. Traumatic experience? I could understand. But a bad day? That's a no for me dawg.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 01:44 PM
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He's in it for the money. His aim is too keep men disenfranchised so they keep supporting him. I clicked on his live stream for a minute today. He had 600 bucks in super chats in one minute. Yall a silly if you think he gives a fuck about men. His content is geared towards telling women off because men tune in the most for that. He has basically stopped any content focused on men improving themselves. If that's not telling, I don't know what is.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/21 12:39 PM
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Kevin has alot of men out here copying his behavior. Men have varying degrees of masculine energy. Alot of men a medium to low masculine energy. But watching Kevin gases their heads up and they think they can be like him. It's weird AF. And embarrassing too.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/21 04:30 AM
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But we will have to reduce certain industries. Think of the economy. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 08:56 AM
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That's fair. You are entitled to your opinion. But why seek to stop me is my question? When you have the choice to skip over it, never read it, never use any time on it. But why complain about it? Until now no one has answered why they aren't exercising their free will to simply ignore it. Reddit even has a block feature. Also Ben Shapiro and Jordan Peterson have influenced the word in ways most people never will. Whether or not you agree with them or their style. They will be remembered in hist…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 06:20 AM
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Again. You say condescending as if it is a catch all phrase that everyone who reads my comments thinks. Again, if they don't want to read or comment, that's fine. I could understand if I went around harassing people into responding. But I never have. Just don't respond. Why tell someone not to talk in a certain way because you don't like it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 06:07 AM
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So change the way I talk? Are you going to change the way you talk? I don't honestly believe that alot of people speak differently than they type. It's more than likely that they simply don't have much to say. Which is fine. But don't act like there is anything wrong with having more to say. I would never complain about a short comment on Reddit. Even though I enjoy reading long ones. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 05:14 AM
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Laugh at me. ✅ Imply I'm stupid. ✅ Counter my arguement with a well thought out post because ALL MEN built the world (and are there for inherently intelligent)❌ Interesting. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 04:41 AM
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I have had multiple people comment that they won't read long posts. Do yall not read? Where do you get information from? How can you participate in Manosphere an not have read research findings, and books on genders, sex, evolution etc? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 04:37 AM
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Come, now. Answer the question. Oh, wait. You don't like to read, so you wouldn't have a knowledge base to call on to even begin formulating a point. Got it.👌
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 04:30 AM
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Why do so many of yall disliking reading? This is why I don't trust alot the assertions people here make. You can't read a reddit comment. But you read research papers about studies done on men/women/sex and dating? You read books on evolution, history and sex? How do yall acquire knowledge without reading? 🤨 What do yall base your opinions on?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 04:28 AM
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Why comment then? The person engaging in stupid behavior is you. I skip over posts that don't interest me. It's the annoyance at some people for liking to read, for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 04:25 AM
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ts totally because off less bone density, muscle mass, and men geared towards being for violent Yes. This is biologically true. However, a starving woman, with no man around, but a weapon, and game to be killed, is going to lay down and die? Or is she going to use that weapon, study the games behaviors, and devise a way to take it down? Let's also remember we have a mechanism that compels us to stay alive by any means necessary. The former cannot be true then,can it. I think you assumed this bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 04:20 AM
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Men are just drawn to innovative jobs and careers Why are 99% of men not innovators then? Even Google has male janitors. Most men are paper pushers. Tools for other men. Told to execute an action by another man. And they do that. The end. They are not qualified to do more than what they are told by a man more qualified than them. The idea that men, as a collective, are innovators in as lie. Just because must most innovators are male doesn't take away from the fact that 99% of men aren't innovato…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 04:10 AM
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Less apt as a group, hell yes. In a world where life is on the line and death is immenent, do you think that women could not work together for their collective survival?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 04:01 AM
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This whole post makes no sense. None. Have you every learned this history of humankind? From the beginning until now? I am currently reading a book on it now. The author brings up an interesting point: The only biological constraints nature placed on men and women is the fact that men can sire children. And women cannot. That women can carry and give birth to a breastfeed children and men cannot. Outside of the biological, qualifiable differences between men and women, everything else is made up…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 03:59 AM
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Exactly. Let's all gather together to thank the 0.0000000001% of the people in the world who created all these fields ans advancements and breakthroughs that allow us to have the life we live today. Cause I know I had no hand in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 03:51 AM
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Are you saying men are animals in that they lack the ability to think using higher cognitive thinking? Or should we just view them we do as the common dog? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 03:31 AM
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So I keep seeing this "Men built the world" concept brought up. I was reading an article yesterday. Completely unrelated to the Manosphere. Anyway, in it, the male author, says "Men designed the Internet and.....(etc etc)....and now women get to participate in this." And as I've said before: One man is the reason for the Internet (and everything else in the modern world) and women and men get to partipate in using these things. Then I got to thinking: Do men actually believe that women are devel…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 03:28 AM
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You are still dehumanizing men. But when women do it, it's bad. 🙃 Men are not animals. 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 03:16 AM
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🤔 So what you are saying is men do not have the need, nor desire for love, and companionship, respect, mutual trust? Well damn. And here I was thinking men were human. Thank you for enlightening me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 03:09 AM
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Why would you want a person that is all about you? It reminds me of the wedding scene where the bride has zero personality and only likes what he likes. If you want that, buy a sex doll. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 02:47 AM
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Would you date a man with zero ambition, no big dreams, and zero social status? No you wouldn't. The zero ambition and no dreams thing extends to have no standards either. The idea that a person can have no ambition, and no dreams but some how have this unwavering desire to be a man's perfect SAHW is a fantasy. A woman like this would have no shame, now self respect, and would be a lazy freeloader. A mooch. Who would lay around your house all day. And contribute nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 12:15 AM
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I watched the first season. But by the beginning of the second season, I got tired of the incessant conniving, scheming, bait and switches. So I stopped watching it. There were too many surprised around every corner.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 12:11 AM
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I read all the responses. I think people who want "appropriate" or "right" sex are the most vocal. People who dont like the "standard" idea of what sex is supposed to be are more likely to be quiet about it. Sex is seen as this hedonistic, carnal act. And it is definitely that for most people. However I don't like this kind of sex. Never have. And I don't get why other people do. As I am not a person that is very body focused. Not even stimulation focused. And I hate anything that overwhelms the…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 10:27 PM
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I agree. Some people are very sensual and stimulation-focused and easily stimulated. I am none of those things and don't enjoy those things very much so I would bore a person like that to death. I also don't value orgasms like other people seem to. They exhaust me mentally and physically and would want to have them sparingly. But I can still enjoy sex without them. It's the journey for me. It's quality time spent together to me. And I find it bizarre that people can have/like having multiple org…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 10:07 PM
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It's not up to you to decide. Many women are vegetarians but even more get creeped out by guys that get enjoyment out of torturing and killing animals. Oh shut up. Plenty of meat-eating women make fun if men enjoying hunting and fishing and you know it damn well they do. Again, shooting a deer or catching a fish and killing both is not torture. These animals fall prey to other animals all the time. Human methods are less painful and more swift, one could argue. So you're talking out of the side …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:03 PM
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No it doesn't. Fishing and hunting are hobbies. As long as they eat the animal, I see nothing wrong with it. Most men are basic bitches. So what? Most women are basic bitches too. I feel like hunting and fishing are really good hobbies to have because at least they are productive. They aren't sitting around playing video games, watching TV or hanging out. They are out in nature waiting hours to trap an animal trying to evade them. I don't have the patience nor the skill for either so I admire pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 11:52 AM
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What's wrong with putting up a picture of you with a fish you caught? Or a deer you shot? 🤔 I know it's a common photo for men, but women's photos all literally look the same too. People look for anything to complain abou, it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 11:47 AM
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I have some idea about astrology, why it was used, when etc - after all, I had history in school, and I am also naturally curious. Bullshit. Astrology isn't taught in history class. All most people know about Astrology is their sun sign, which is the sign that is determined by your birth date. And they know of short, incorrect horoscopes written in magazines and newspaper, that, by the way, are not written by actual astrologers. Horoscopes are written by regular people which is why they never ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 11:43 AM
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You should learn anything before judging it harshly. I don't care what it is. Or how controversial it appears to be. To judge something without knowing anything about it is ignorant. Most people know next to nothing about Astrology, the different branches of it, the history of it, how it was used, why it was used and whether or not it is actually valid or not because they have never bothered to check. And I will never understand being that stupid. To ride off something I do not know. Everyone is…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 10:47 AM
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I agree. But if you're going to talk about it, learn it first. It's weird how people learn less than the tip of the iceberg and then act like experts. Even experts don't use it to judge people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 08:11 AM
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Exactly. It might be smarter to stay away. And it's a shame the disservice alot of ignorant women do to Astrology. It is extremely complex and takes decades to learn. I cringe when I see women learning the bare basics and judging people on it. It's stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 07:18 AM
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I don't get this. White collar work also requires some repetition. So what? There is a big difference between the mental landscape of a person who loves farming versus a person who loves research. A big difference between a person who works in manual construction and a person who works in finance. There is a difference in how a roofer and how a criminal attorney like to expend their mental energy. A carpenter is a very skilled job. But it is also repetitively measuring things and being exact all…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 07:16 AM
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Yes. A subset of men is staunchly like this. If they weren't society wouldn't exist how it does. We need close minded people who stick to their comfort zones. Do they suck as partners for people not like this? Yes. But I also think that this personality type is beneficial for boring, repetitive jobs. They lack the natural desire to want much. So they are very content. Albeit boring and prone to being ignorant. Men like this work the same job for 40 years. And the world needs that. Men like this …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 04:08 AM
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I get on well with blue collar men. However they are typically sterotypes, where they are misogynistic, they are homophobic, they are racist, they are temperamental, they are uneducated, and they are small minded. < men like this are exhasting. I think this isn't talked about enough. Certain types of men with certain makeups are likely to be drawn to blue collar work over white collar. A person drawn to blue collar work is likely to be quiet, easy going, hardworking, reliable, able to do the sam…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 03:41 AM
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She's a boring person. That's the answer. I dislike people who don't have anything to say. Some people like it, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 01:34 AM
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Ahahahha I love that you honestly expect me to change myself for you. That truly takes alot of nerve. I pity your children and husband for having such a silly wife and mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:56 AM
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You read that? Wow. This week Reddi comments. Next week you might just attempt to read a book if you can muster up the mental energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:50 AM
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I agree. Disagreebleness is also about confidently not following social norms, and doing it while being charming. I didn't mean to imply disagreeable meant the ending had a shitty personality. Disagreeable people are often likeable people. But they just aren't going to do what they people want because it is expected. They are more able to confidently act in their own favor. I think disagreeable is often incorrectly conflate with mean, bad person. And it's not. I consider myself disagreeable. In …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:49 AM
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You have posted multiple threads about this. Either go the work or shut up about it. You want the reward before you have done the work. Which is why you are so unhappy. You like nursing your depression and unhappiness. You don't want answers. Youre just pretending that you do. Stop wasting people's time.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 12:42 AM
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And just like an illogical woman, once your point has been countered and you can no longer defend it, you refuse to admit to being wrong. Or altering your original POV. This is why I don't like most women. They act like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:37 AM
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Your point makes no sense. There are different standards for communication based on the medium. An article, for example, has different standards than a novel, which has different standards from a scientific journal, which has different standard from a blog which had different standards from a children's book. So there is no one way. You are just lazy. Say that. You don't like to read. You saying long comments should be deleted is like a person who hates novels saying they should all be burned. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:31 AM
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The problem is essentially what you're suggesting is based upon a fantasy past that doesn't exist anymore. And incidentally, the idea you think these women all have empty inboxes is frankly laughable. Do you really think a woman who posts pictures of herself at the beach surfing doesn't get oodles of attention? Even the woman who uploads her own art is going to get DMs and comments and attention by the truckloads. I didn't mean they got zero attention. But I bet their inboxes are alot different …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:27 AM
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No. I don't talk like you. That's it. Who are you that you think other people need to communicate in a way that you do? That's the part I don't get. I dislike short comments because they rarely extrapolate on anything. But I don't think they should be deleted because it's not my style.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:10 AM
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Don't respond. Again, it's your choice. I don't understand the complaint. The beauty of Reddit is your ability to choose to answer or not. Unlike in real life where you could be locked into a conversation with a long winded person. On Reddit you can just click off an let it drop. It sounds to me like you are trying to control how other people communicate. Only in a way that appeals to you. Respond to what appeals to you. Ignore what doesn't. Attempting to having comments you don't like deleted b…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 10:37 PM
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If you're not going to read a long post, don't respond? It's really that simple. I couldn't imagine responding to something I didn't read. It's like doing a job without getting directions. It's not obligatory to respond at all. And if you don't want to read it is most logical not to comment. It seems weird that it's the poster's fault for you being lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 10:25 PM
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Communication, attentiveness, quality time and money are also regularly affected by life's problems. Again, it is a bad idea to date a person who cannot go without or live with less when periods in life demand a reduction in these things. Pretending like all of this will be plentiful avaliable all of the time is a delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 10:17 PM
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Don't get sick. Don't get hospitalized. Don't get surgery. Life happens. And people who can't endure lack of sex when life happens make for bad partners. IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:25 PM
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Again. I'm no expert but I am pretty autism cannot be diagnosed from reading a post on the internet. To even attempt to would be wildly unthetical for a person specialized in it let alone some random person who knows nothing about it. To even suggest it is, is ignorant AF. So stop trying to walk around the fact that you put your foot in your mouth. This conversation with you is a waste of time. I like a debate. But at this point it's like wrestling a greased pig. You have nothing interesting to …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:22 PM
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Swiping left and right, and LTR, marriage and kids can hardly be conflated. 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:18 PM
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I would doubt this statement. I'm sure there are plenty of disagreeable men who are good people at their core, and that probably makes them the ideal partners. They'll get what they want, get things done, which will benefit the family, and they'll still not be doing anything bad or truly harmful. I disagree. Adamantly. Alot of men are followers. They do what they are told by other people. Tow the line. Trot like a good show pony. The go to work, do their jobs, don't rock the boat, go home to the…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 01:15 PM
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So what? A relationship with a person you don't really like will cost more. And let's not act like the act of thrusting requires more than 10 mins.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 12:50 PM
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Yes. This is the exact reason. The problem is when disagreeable is attached to a person that has other toxic traits. It's really hard to find a disagreeable man who is a good person at his core. So alot of women go for bad guys. A woman who is agreeable is seen as attractive to men. A man who is too agreeable is seen as unattractive to women. The problem is that while there are more agreeable women than there are men, agreeable men are still the majority of men. In varying degrees. Alot of men c…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 11:35 AM
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A person "x" can be nice to people "y" and be asshole to people "z" at the same time. Yes, people have layers. But they don't have multiple personalities. I read somewhere once that a person can only hide their true behavior for 3 months or so. So I disagree with the idea that people can suddenly up and change one day. And people usually have a reason for treating others differently. The red pill is nothing more than shared experiences of multiple men with various cultural backgrounds on a scale…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 09:40 AM
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Your behavior was ignorant. Literally the definition of ignorant. I don't have autism. Suggesting someone does as an insult is ignorant AF. I don't mind being insulted, but at least be original. We are all adults here. I see why so many of you are single. You're cornballs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 09:20 AM
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It's weird how people can have the exact opposite opinion. Like how come people can be surrounded only by people who don't sleep around or do dumb toxic shit. And others swear on terrible people are left. Something is going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 09:17 AM
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Fly to where it's legal and fuck a woman there then. No one will question a man wanting to go to Vegas. What you are suggesting is morally wrong. Go ahead. Do it. And when your life sucks harder after you are done, don't complain. There are also escort services where you live. Use one. It ain't the best way, but at least it's an honest one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 08:12 AM
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How do you know? If you go out to nightclubs, you can only judge women by the types you see at night clubs. Not by the types that participate in other activities in their free time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 07:06 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 06:58 AM
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I understand. Thank you for explaining your POV. I think the RP needs to ask women who are able to explain their POV what they want. And not extrapolate all women's desires based on a subset of women liking a certain archetype.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 06:40 AM
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"I'm not and the imaginary people I hang around with aren't so it must be you". I know people. So do you. I assume you are an adult. As am I. Have you never noticed the duplicitous nature of people. How they will eagerly tell you one thing, but the opposite will be true. But they, because they are biased, choose to ignore outliers that don't fit their narrative? This is human nature. We get to choose the people we hang out with. We get to choose the people who choose to date, marry and have kids…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 05:13 AM
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So. Until now, I have been insulted by every man whose point I have countered. Instead of sticking to the issue at hand (which I did. I responded to your post and didn't insult you at all or go off topic) you insult me. Why? Eloquence and the ability to convince and be persuasive is the most powerful tool in the world. Bitterness isn't. Saltiness isn't. The inability to admit when you are wrong isn't. You are a fully grown man that cannot admit that you are nothing special. And because you are n…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 04:05 AM
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So what you are saying is: "I cannot explain how this is related to in×el content. So instead of admitting that I am talking out of the side of my neck, I will just further insult you". I don't understand ignorant people. Making fun of other people while you are literally putting your foot in your mouth. I can't relate. I would have just explained my POV.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 03:50 AM
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If you have to call names, without being able to supply a retort it means you've lost. It's the emotionality for me. Even if a person was autistic what would that have to do with the arguement they made? Nothing, right? Men are just as intellectually cowardly just like women are. Hate being criticized. Can't admit when someone is right. Thin-Skinned. Lacks the ability to be objective. Gets defensive. Calls names. All the shit that Manosphere communities mock women for. All the while doing the sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 03:46 AM
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Women like you have such a talent for burping up paragraph after paragraph whilst failing to understand a concept as simple as No. People like you have a problem with countering arguements so instead you insult the person. Most people don't do anything especially significant or remarkable with their lives. Why are we pretending like that's not true. Even though we know it is. Do you know why most men built infrastructure you see today? Because when those fields were created, women were barred fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 03:42 AM
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Sorry. Autocorrect got me. I meant roster. A rotation of women. Spinning plates. If every man is supposed to be spinning plates then where are all these virginal women waiting to marry them at?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 03:25 AM
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I don’t know why are you arguing about these since women themselves admit RP claims? Some do. But I have noticed that RP has a way of ignoring, completely and utterly, women who don't. Like how Fresh and Fit on YouTube only invite the same archetype of delusional woman (OF girls, pornstars, Instagram groupies) to their podcast. They purposely use the kinds of women who will reinforce what they believe to be true. No one talks to the girls who don't like Chad and Tyrones. Because it is in the bes…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 03:24 AM
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Exactly. We cannot know. Men say "Men built the world". As if women, in the absence of men, women would have been utterly incapable if it. Women wouldn't have just lay down and died off. But since men will never fuck off, we can never know for sure. But the premise is still. bullshit. The idea that the human desire/will to survive will collapse with the disappearance of males. I disagree. If there was a was a way for women to self fertilize and only produce female children, humanity would still …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 03:19 AM
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It's a lack of wanting to take a stance on anything. If you like sleeping around, cool. But stop judging promiscuous women. You also can't control your sex drive. Stop creating caveats to make what you do okay. I just don't understand how the RP thinks that actions speak louders than words except for when they topic of men sleeping around but expecting there to be virginal women to marry. That logical inconsistency isn't talked about.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 03:11 AM
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You have to pick one or the other though. Stop acting like humans are on the same level as chimps. We aren't. We are not ruled by our lizard brain like other animals are. To suggest we are is stupid. We can do better. And we should.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 03:09 AM
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Thanks. I will look into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 03:06 AM
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It makes no sense. These same men shame women for thinking they are prettier than they are. For thinking they deserve a HVM when they don't. But then don't agree to their own ordinariness. They are speak as though they are the exception. Nah, I'm pretty sure you're they generic ass rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 03:00 AM
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It's the lack of self-criticism in the Manosphere for men. No one checks anyone on anything. If a man said it, it must be right. And it's just getting outlandish at thus point with average Joe's talking down to averagewomen like they are better in every way. They aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:39 AM
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Just because you follow some moral code doesn't mean you require your partner to follow the same values. That's not true though. It has been proven that relationships founded on shared values due better long term. A devout Christian who goes to church multiple times per week isn't marrying a staunch, raving atheist. People marry with people like them. They bond over similarity. To suggest otherwise a big fat lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 01:10 AM
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People love that they know about fallacies. 😏 My post would have been less interesting had I said "Why do so many men engage in apex fallacy?". 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 01:09 AM
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I agree. Just say it. You're entitled to want it. Whether you get it or not is up to your future wife agreeing to it. But it's the mental gymnastics. The inability to even accept that it might not be attractive to women. I notice they don't like to consider that possibility. And like you, I respect them as well. If you want a woman you can train. Cool. Just say that. But stop trying to justify your kink as normal but trying to tell other men that is also what they should want and if they don't, …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 01:07 AM
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But you wouldn't prefer a man who has slept around, and then tells you that it's okay because he was supposed to because men were created to sew their wild oats while women were not? And even with awkward and unattractive dudes. I would avoid anyone who felt salty that they didn't get to partake in the pussy fest. A less experienced man envious and desirous of casual sex is also a bad bet. I want a man that just stayed in his own lane. And even if he is more awkward than most, and less attractiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 12:51 AM
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Even if you were right, sleeping around would still make a man more broadly attractive then have low experience hoping the end up with another low experience female I disagree. If a woman is low experience, but would have had the propensity to sleep around, marrying you at 22-23 before she slept around isn't going to prevent her from later in divorce raping you and riding the cock carousel at 35. You can steal a wolf cub from its mother and hand rear it, but it is still a wolf and still has the …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 12:45 AM
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That's it really. Why can't people just take in information. And pass judgement case by case? Even if you agree with certain parts of of RP, why can't men admit to the parts that are stupid? Because there are stupid parts. You see men criticizing FDS all the time for being close minded, cult-like, female inel content. But then they behave the exact* same way in male spaces. I was apart of FDS years ago. I seen it mentioned on th RP subreddit so I joined and read around out of curiousity like I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 12:27 AM
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Yes, It can be applied to most women as well. So what? It amazes me how so many men claim to be more logical than women, but then, when a point is made that calls them out, the can only answer for it by saying "So do most women." It's a lack of objectivity and inability to detach the biased emotions of the self from the point being made, for me. As I have said most men engage in emotional anti logic just like women. It's not as obvious though. 😏 Most women are cogs. Have only ever been cogs. And…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 12:02 AM
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I'm just trying to let them know they have lettuce stuck in their teeth and it's not a good look. RP gurus hype these dudes up and tell them "You can be extraordinary too for the low price of 599.99" And then they send them out there to make a fool of themselves because these personas and manners of speaking/behaving that work for some men, don't work for them at all. It's like the Emperors New Clothes. They don't know they are walking around naked.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 11:42 PM
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Hilarious that this is allowed here but if the genders were swapped it would be removed for being “in*el content” lol How is this that kind of content? You make no sense. As I have said, there are too many people in these spaces that think they can just throw anything at the wall and it will stick. This content is not related to in*el content at all, but I would LOVE to see you try and find a connection between the two. As I've said, people love feigning the ability to make abstract connections …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 11:36 PM
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…does him not being an engineer detract from his statement? Have you seen his resume? He has a degree in chemical engineering. That's right. But his resume includes a position at Office Max, Marketing Firm, Personal Shopper, Youtuber/Commentator. None of which are engineering. Or related to it. And there are 10 years of work history missing from his resume. Maybe be he has worked extensively in an engineering field, but why isn't it on his resume? In 2021 chemical engineering related fields are.…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 11:24 PM
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You didn't answer my question, sir. Most men aren't hot. You know this. I know this. So why is so much attention being given to hot men and the charmed life they get to live, by average and below average men? It makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 11:12 PM
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I am not mad. It's funny how men and women always refer to jealousy as the root of any opinion that they disagree with. It's intellectually lazy in my opinion. Men can have their spaces. Go right ahead. But stop acting like something you're not. It's like so many men aren't aware of how stupid they make themselves look. I am not shitting on blue collar workers either. Nothing wrong with being what you are. Every one plays their own role. Buts it's stupid for a turtle to fancy himself a tiger, is…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 11:10 PM
1

Right. When women do it, it's because women are weak followers. But they don't notice that they all do it too. How can you have hundreds of commentators on a topic and only one or two original voices?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 10:36 PM
1

Pretentious? Maybe. But at least I don't copy the way other people think and speak. But if you are going to do it, I am asking you be good at it. It's like watching a dude that isn't funny at all trying to be funny because too many of his friends are actual comedians. It amazes how easily influencable most men are. And they have the nerve to shit on women for being followers. They watch 40 red pill videos and change their whole personality over night. It's the weak sense of self, for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 10:34 PM
1

It's like a person putting on glasses and acting like their IQ went up 30 points. It's stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 10:31 PM
1

Men in the RP regularly speak on behalf of women. As I have stated, they think they have some deep knowledge to espouse on all of us. But the nimrods don't notice this massive inconsistency in this part of the rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 10:30 PM
2

So? Are you an intellectual? Imagine how many female accomplishments could have been recorded in history if men had not oppressed women for thousands of years. Does it matter that there would have been less accomplished women, than accomplished men? I don't think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 10:29 PM
2

I was watching a red pill commentator. Woman and a man. The guy goes: "No woman should have a roaster." And the female co-host responds "No person should have a roster." And the man responds by non-verbally shaking his head and making sounds showing that he disagreed with her. It's the blatant hypocrisy. If every man has a harem, how are the majority of women supposed to remain virginal? 🤔 No one asks the hard question in RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 10:27 PM
1

Isn't it more confident though to own your averageness?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 10:22 PM
2

It's the hole in the back of their heads, for me. They suck at it. So so hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 10:16 PM
1

Tell me some of their names so I can look them up. I've been reading RP content for 10 years, on and off, and I've not found anyone who is saying anything new and original. It's people repeating the same old "truth bombs" that have been out there more than a decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 10:13 PM
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And another thing: Why does every dude in the Manosphere talk like they are fucking intellectual? I've noticed a trend where damn near every comment made by men in places like WHATGMG, YouTube Manosphere content, Reddit RP spaces, have this smug psuedo-intellectual tone to it. It's like every dude has watched one too many Patrice O Neal and Jordan Peterson videos. And thinks that because he is male and because he has a penis, he is also capable of the level of abstract, poignant, and relevant bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 03:04 PM
13

Why do men in the RP/Manosphere love telling themselves that a woman who has chosen to not sleep around will be attracted to a man who has slept around? These same men will sit around espousing the importance of shared values. And how values should matter over everything. So if a woman has missed the cock carousel in today's climate, it is because she intentionally wanted to because she does not value casual sex. So why would she want the exact opposite in a partner? Why would she want a man who…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 03:04 PM
3

Where did I say that I thought it was? Please link my directly to this mythical comment, you think I wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 02:44 PM
5

But since you don't have a wife, you don't know for sure your method will work, right? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 02:40 PM
5

How you gonna get a wife without ever spending money? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 02:34 PM
22

I figured as much. I can't stand people who kick up a bunch of dust talking about what they will and won't put up with, but then do the exact opposite if opportunity presents itself. Your values are your values if they can survive being tested.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 02:22 PM
1

Emotional plus rich/famous. There is a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 10:00 AM
2

He sounds like a very passive aggressive person. He doesn't like you. Instead of just not talking to you and declining your invitation(because he is likely a coward) he went along and decided to slight you instead. Block him. The best thing to do with people like this is to ignore them. Full stop. Act like they aren't there. If they try and talk to you, act like they aren't there. Like I said, they are cowards. So this will embarrass the hell out of them because passive aggressive people think t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 09:54 AM
3

I stumbled across a thread on Reddit. Can't remember where. A girl said she was having sex with her BF. Anyway, it was taking too long. And she said "Are you done yet?" And he immediately stopped. And then for a week after (before she posted the thread) refused to touch her. It's ego crushing to fuck a woman knowing she doesn't want you. In most cases it is. It's why men don't get emotional satisfaction from fucking hookers. It's sex. She agreed to it. You get off. But knowing that you had to pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 09:43 AM
1

People who gather spit in the corner of their mouths when they talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 08:26 AM
1

Personally I don't mind if a guy has "basic" interest like watching sports or whatever, but it is the lack of intellectual curiosity and strong character that turn me off. Yep. That's the rub. It's often either or. Never both, I've found. And I would say I am not an experience person per se. I am open to new information and new POVs. Always. And I try to view information objectively regardless if I like the person or the source personally. But the vast majority of people are not like this. They …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 05:42 AM
1

True. But men who are idiosyncratic would not be interested in the same things as a man who was more of an average dude. Like I see alot of men still have "can cook and clean" high on their list for a woman as if these are things that are rare. Most people live alone. Most don't hire cleaners and cooks. And most cannot afford to eat out every meal. So it stands to reason the vast majority of women are cooking their own meals and cleaning their own house. So I personally see that as a "standard m…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 04:05 AM
2

Whenever I go out and try, none of what is said online here matches up with my experiences in real life. Because your experiences in real life are the real and valid ones. What people write in these spaces doesn't override that. I think I need therapy, but I gotta get out of these pill spaces, there is no answer, I have just been fooled by randomness I agree. These spaces are toxic AF for people like yourself who are susceptible to influence from this way of thinking. You have to cut it off. I'v…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 03:30 AM
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Disagreeable men are often more successful than agreeable ones. Being disagreeable has nothing to do with being a contraian for the sake of it. But it is often thought of this way by people because people simply don't like being disagreed with. Also, I've noticed alot of agreeable people resent how disagreeable people color outside the lines and get rewarded for it. I read a study once and the results showed that agreeable people will agree with a consensus they know for a fact is incorrect when…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 02:05 AM
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This is the answer. Most people are agreeable. The exact same goes for men. Women are more energetically agreeable. Men will be more relaxed about it, but they are still followers of what other men and women are doing. As a very disagreeable person, I do not often meet men or women who are willing to risk disapproval of others by saying exactly what they think. In conclusion, most people are sheep. Not just women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 01:40 AM
1

Sure. If you were compatible. How many marriages were genuine love marriages? Alot of people married out of expectation, obligation, and need even. And it was men having sexual affairs. This was not something women did. Where there "loose" women who also enjoyed sex? Yes. But I doubt the average married woman who was married a virgin and brought up traditional was some sex lion in the bedroom. And were talking about average people. Not the rich. Not people who lived in big cities and had access …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 12:14 AM
1

I agree. When it's normalized, no one is the wiser. Bad sex is only bad because you've had good sex to compare it too. I just don't see a a guy that has had sex with an enthusiastic partner (and the ego boost it brings) being able to be as satisfied long term with with exact opposite of it. The way modern people have sex is nothing like it was 150 years ago even.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 11:57 PM
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Again. I doubt this. In countries where sex is a duty and women aren't supposed to like it, it's normalized. But western men have at least had sex or been exposed heavily to porn showing willing partners. So they are already primed to expect this behavior. And if they don't get it, many men per perplexed and will be turned off and insecure that she didn't enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 11:54 PM
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It's not rooted in logic. It's pure emotion. Misogynistic tendencies are born out of anger, rage, resentment, disappointment. Not logic.
/r/ExRedPill22/10/21 11:09 PM
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It sucked for men in that they had to have sex with someone completely not into it. An unenthusuatic partner is a boner crusher and an ego crusher. I doubt men of the modern Western world would be able to have sex with a person just laying there waiting for it to be over. Men need to feel wanted during sex. Which is why I laugh when men talk about marrying women from under developed countries where sex is still viewed as something women are not supposed to like but is a duty.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 11:07 PM
2

I have a student that is a one-man human rainforest. He is in a constant state of being moist. The only time he is dry is in the winter time. I couldn't imagine sleeping next to that. He likely moistens the sheets while sleeping as well. I know it's not his fault, but damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 09:51 PM
3

-long nails on men Have you ever seen a man with long nails click clacking them on a surface. 🤢🤢🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 09:48 PM
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Once, I could understand. But 4 times? She is just taking the piss. I also hate it when people use shorthand in texting. "Where r u? I want 2 b there by 5. I will c u at 4:30." Just fucking take the time to type it out. Holy shit. I've seen people do this shit on Facebook comments. A whole post written by a 30something adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 09:45 PM
2

That's now how Astrology works. 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 09:42 PM
3

I am often amazed at the lack of objectivity people have in the RP/manoshphere/Dating/Marriage communities. People are so eager to take sides. And so eager to close off their mind to new information. So eager to agree with everything a person said because they said some things you agreed with once or twice before. So eager to congregate in spaces that echo back only what they believe to be true. So eager to actively avoid any learning about the other side lest they risk having their minds change…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:10 PM
4

Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 01:10 PM
9

If social rules had not be placed on people, they wouldn't have. The rule was put there for a reason. People have not changed. Times have. I get what you mean though. Almost no one waits for love. And even though it is hard to be a lone mushroom I think it's better to keep looking rather than settling and joining the carnage. Even if it is really lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 12:46 PM
2

Yea, I don't get that. It's weird. Once you cross the boundary of sleeping with someone, your ability to ever be friends ends. Can you be friendly and cordial? Sure. Friends? No. I always think people who do that do so because they simply like drama, or the possibility of drama by keeping their exes close. Often times, there is nothing unique about the friendships either. They just kinda exist and talk from time to time. You can do that shit with anyone. There are tons of people you can have tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 09:23 AM
2

I would say the biggest reason for RJ is because people don't fully end relationships. For example, I think people should have detached, neutral opinions of all of their exes. I would not date a person who talked about an ex is a sentimental or reminiscing way. I'm not saying you should hate the person. You should be indifferent to them. At best a passing acquaintances with them. Relationships have doors. When it is over, close the door, lock it and throw away the key and move on. I am not a fan…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:55 AM
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Donovan Sharpe was recently outted for being married to a 44 year old woman with an extensive promiscuous past. So basically means that he does not practice what he preaches. And shows how alot of these RP gurus are all talk. But in reality, their "tips" don't work which is why none of them are dating these elusive 23 year old women. A man who is rich, or famous or both can date really young women when he is in his 40s. Everyone else? Nope. No 23 year old girl is checking for a 40 year old man. …
/r/ExRedPill22/10/21 02:49 AM
2

Notice this with women my red pill awakening.. when you start to treat them the way they do they hate it I was willing to answer your question. Up until you said this: now they start to submit Stop. Get some help.
/r/ExRedPill22/10/21 02:45 AM
4

Hahaha. True. You hate fake? Stop watching porn. Full stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 03:38 PM
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Yep. Most women these days have real-looking fake shit all over them. Men often can't tell the difference between modest fake and natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 03:22 PM
13

Joe Rogan said it best when he called an unedited picture of kims but a "full saggy diaper". She has ruined her body.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 03:15 PM
7

Sounds like you need some self esteem. Get therapy.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 01:08 PM
2

I think it's a mixture of things. If can be insecurity or jealousy. But I also think it indicates a lack of similar values. A person who has fucked 3 people likely has certain values when it comes to sex and relationships even if they aren't consciously aware of it. Their gut reacts with resentment at a parter with 60 bodies because it offends their values. I realized I could never date a person who thinks casual sex is okay because every time I hear people talk about casual sex nonchalantly, it…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:45 PM
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Accept who you are. Shine where you shine. I'm a really charismatic, interesting person that is memorable everywhere I go. I have seen people who aren't like this try to feign these traits. It is cringey to the next level. You cannot change your personality. People will sense that you are faking it and they will dislike you. Watch some public game videos where these dudes use their "skills" on women. It feels forced AF and out of character. If you are a turtle, you will never bounce as gracefull…
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 12:40 PM
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Say it again for the people in the back.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:30 AM
3

Yeah. I'd respect them more if they just came out at said it straight up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 10:45 PM
1

There's a limit to everything. Being too tall is a thing. I think it's surface-level trendy to be into really tall dudes right now. But it doesn't physically look good past a certain point. Alot of basketball players look uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 02:47 PM
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Again, you have limited mental energy. Work takes alot of out most people. I'm not talking about 40 mins of exercise a day. I'm talking the people who wake up, prepare shakes and supplements, get their equipment ready, head out and spend 2 hours a day at the gym. Then they prepare their meals, eat, go to work. Rinse and repeat. The day goes past quite fast. And you cannot do everything. Some of the most intellectually boring people I know have every extensive grooming habits.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 02:37 PM
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No. It's not. You have a limited amount of time and mental energy. You cannot have a life that revolves around exercising, preparing meals, eating on an extremely fixed schedule and constantly grooming your body and do a bunch of other things well. That's just reality. Something has to give. I've also noticed that people who have extremely detailed skin care routines, and other religious grooming habits are boring. You cannot dedicate 2 hours a day to hair and make up everyday before doing your …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 02:34 PM
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As a tall woman, height has its limit. Tall men look good proportionally until to 6 foot 4. 6 foot five is huge. And anything over that just looks ridiculous in my opinion. I know people cant change it. But it looks very excessive. I don't get the type over extraordinarily tall men. I would take a 5'11 dude over a 6'6 one any day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 01:06 PM
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I couldn't imagine dating someone whose life revolved around their eating schedule and work out schedule. Gym rats are usually boring AF people too. All that time invested in exercise means they aren't well versed in much of anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 12:44 PM
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Men are not sexually attracted to money, status or education in women. That part makes sense. A man can become a much more attractive sexual option to most women if he has money, status and education. I think it was more than just your degree. It was you having any ambition. I've seen men say they dislike competitive women. Competitiveness, in my mind, means a person who is engaging in direct competition with you. But what alot of men mean, I've come to realize, is that a woman having ambition f…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 12:43 PM
2

Right. Which is why people need to watch it with how much RP content they read. The RP will gas people's heads up and having them think that as men they need to excel and everything. It's really unattractive behavior. It's best to know your strong points and look for someone who excels at your weak ones. Which is what a partnership is. But the RP had every dude legit thinking he has a "program", or that he is making big moves, or that he is the leader of men etc. When it's just not true. Most du…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 12:29 PM
2

I didn't say it did. You aren't understanding my point clearly. You can be smart and feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 12:12 PM
0

You can call me a NLOG if you want. 🤷‍♀️ Like I said, people aren't allowed to say it. Even if it's true. Because people don't like to hear it. Even if it's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 09:21 AM
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Yep. I hate over dressers. I admire them. I admire their dedication to looking good. But I wouldn't fit into the life of a person who is that dedicated to their appearance. The same for a man who was a bodybuilder, for example. I taken up exercise regularly for health, but I'm not a gym rat. And never will be. I think it comes down to wanting a partner whose lifestyle is compatible. Certain things like looks and grooming habits can covertly signal incompatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 04:25 AM
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No need to. It's a sliding scale. In certain settings you might be funny. In others you might not. Some people are hilarious no matter where they go. I think in the RP men are often not reminded enough of their average/below averageness. Nor do many people like to admit that they want their partner deficient in certain traits by comparison to themselves because their ego needs it. It's all just apart of the human condition. But certain parts make people uncomfortable to talk about/admit openly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 04:13 AM
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No. Most men prefer stereotypical women. Their mouths will tell you that they don't. But they are lying. NLOG is often portrayed as a woman who likes to do manly things. Drinking, sports etc. But I disagree. Women who try to act like men are just insecure. NLOG are women who are calm, reasonable and rational. Women who use actual logic and not the bizarre emotional logic alot of women prefer to to use. You can have a conversation with them about any topic and they won't turn belligerent or berat…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 12:36 AM

Sooooooooooo? It's not perfect. Nothing is. Welcome to life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 02:03 PM

You're being unnecessarily disagreeable. Everyone is so fake intellectual in RP. I swear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 02:03 PM
3

Equal rights. Equal treatment. That black and white. The rest is grey.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 01:19 PM
4

Again, get to the end, and then judge. Other people lie all the time. Fat activists will praise fat bodies but then have a sexual "preference" for fit ones. But they won't publicly own it. Women will claim to want Dad Bods but if given a choice between the same man, pudge or fit, the vast vast majority would choose fit. As I've said, people lie. Everyone is so fake woke these days. Men's faces change once they start lifting. Not just their body. Again, a man can be ugly in the face and win women…
/r/ExRedPill19/10/21 01:03 PM
3

Well do it to the end, then decide if it is worth it. You're already preemptively disappointed. And I don't get that.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/21 12:50 PM
5

Unless you have lifted, and put on a decent amount of muscle, you cannot know for sure how it would affect your dating options. The way you have replied, indicates you haven't actually done it.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/21 12:28 PM
2

I have no idea. But I also don't understand why a person who wants a woman that can be happy with one man, would waste mental energy on the women who can't.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/21 12:48 AM
4

It's not about social anxiety. It's about the rare handful of people who don't actually care to participate in social behavior/truly aren't pressed about being disliked or liked. Most people are self conscious/insecure about their social status and what other people think of them. Yo varying degrees. But there are a handful of people who don't. And never have.
/r/ExRedPill18/10/21 11:57 PM
2

The girls you chose didn't choose you. That's the problem. Just because you like someone doesn't mean they feel the same way. When people are presented with options, and they choose another option, it means that wasn't the right person for you. Because If the person was hung up on you, they would ignore the other options. They would subconsciously do this. I consider this a positive, personally. If I am interested in a person, and they show they are genuinely interested in me, but another more a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 11:53 PM
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Some do. Some don't.
/r/ExRedPill18/10/21 12:44 PM
1

A bizarre amount of people only do this, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 10:41 AM
1

There are people who spend their who days texting, looking at social media, going to hang out at a party or club. Occasionally watching TV. I've seen them. They exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 09:54 AM
5

How old are you?
/r/ExRedPill17/10/21 11:51 PM
0

No, it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 01:08 PM
4

This is reason. I wish they would just say it like this. Instead of all the mental gymnastics.
/r/ExRedPill17/10/21 05:55 AM
2

If the person never promised you exclusivity before sleeping together, you were not bamboozled. As I said, alot of men and women engage in covert contracts. If you don't bring up a topic and get direct answer, you are not the victim for assuming what the person meant. Alot of people who engage in covert contract do so because they fear rejection if they had asked directly. And that's on them. Like I said, most people will not lie. They will give non-answers that can be interpreted any way. There…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 11:05 PM
1

The keyword here is self. Its called self esteem. Not everyone-else-esteem. It was her responsibility to treat her low self esteem. If she chose not to, that was her fault. Using sex to raise your self esteem is still your choice. So my point still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 11:01 PM
6

This. Either get the oven properly warmed up every single time or have sex less frequently when you're willing to put in the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 02:09 PM
0

The problem is you see this shit all over Reddit. Every relationship advice subreddit is full of this advice. Is your partner upset about something you did in the past? Well, too bad for them. TELL THEM TO GET OVER IT! It's sickening. Don't date then. Or take responsibility for how your actions affect other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 12:59 PM
3

Most people prefer to marry people of their same culture/racial background. Marriage is already hard. Intercultural marriage is even more difficult. If anything, Westerners are more romantic about marriage and love. People in less developed countries are very transactional when they consider marriage. Which is why these men end up being taken advantage of.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/21 11:20 AM
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Its still toxic AF. People want to be in healthy relationships, but don't think they should show empathy for their partners distress. Then everyone wonders why their relationship falls apart. People are terrible. And selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 11:17 AM
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Yes. No one talks about this. Generally foreigners can only marry people of a much lower social class. And those people are usually poor or uneducated so they see foreigners as a chance to live and earn money in another country. Im sure Morrocans of the middle and upper classes would not be interested in marrying foreigners. I live in South Korea and I see this all the time. I don't know any foreign men or women married to middle class or higher people. All low class. Low education. The delusion…
/r/ExRedPill16/10/21 10:52 AM
6

Stop reading RP content. It's not for everyone. Follow your gut instead. Alot of RP rhetoric applies to certain types of women. But not all women. It doesn't apply to me at all, for example. I read it out of pure fascination. But I don't implement any of it or force myself to accept it as true. If something doesn't feel true for you, it's because it's not. If your interaction with a man doesn't make you feel good, it's because it's not what you want. Figure out clearly what you want (not what RP…
/r/ExRedPill16/10/21 10:45 AM
1

Why do you expect me to read your comments if you are gonna keep downvoting me like a bitch? How entitled of you. Stop wasting my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 10:20 AM
8

I never understand this POV. The shaming and undermining of other people's feelings. If someone doesn't want to see you having sex with another person, it must be because they are fundamentally broken as a person. It's their fault. Your answer shows a lack of empathy and compassion for your partners feelings. People these days shame other people for their feelings. Whereas in the past this wasn't the case. If a person was the cause of distress to another person, they truly felt bad about it. Now…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 10:15 AM
0

What does it matter if someone is male or female? I will never for the life of men understand people who feel comfortable in echo chambers. What it is like to be afraid that your POV might be challenged. This is the problem with RP communities. They divide people over things that don't even after. We are talking about people at the end of the day. Who gives a fuck if they have a dick or vagina? People get on Reddit, which is an POV-sharing website. And then tell people they aren't allowed to sha…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 10:04 AM
2

Yes. And I stopped comment on WHATGMG. It's a place that advocates the bashing of women unabashed but you're not allowed to say anything in criticism of men. And I cannot respect that stance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 09:37 AM
2

What does it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 09:31 AM
15

You don't necessarily have to maintain interest in one particular thing. But you should have the desire to put your energy into something. We all have free time. Some have alot. Some have a little. However in my experience people who don't have hobbies show a lack of curiosity. They also show a lack of desire to self improve and to grow. They also do not want to spend their time productively. They are always boring people. The types to sit and watch TV 5 hours a day. Or the type to spend all day…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 08:36 AM
1

A big difference with men and women is women don't need to be exceptional to find a partner. That's true. But it's a standard that men simply don't hold for women. I've seen men implying that women shouldn't be so strict with their standards for men, because aren't that strict with their standards for women. And nothing is stopping men from exercising standards against women. I think there's quite a lot of good advice on TRP but also loads of nonsense and PUA stuff that's just stupid. It's the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 07:47 AM
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Exactly. I saw a tiktok of some dude talking about how he went on a date with an African girl in Africa. Anyway, she comes to his house to pick him up because he doesn't know the area as a tourist. Anyway he said that she comes in and immediately tries to do the dishes in his sink. Then she tries to straighten up his house. Then they go on a date and this woman pays for the taxi there. And she pays for the food. AND she was feeding him by hand because he didn't know how to eat the food. He procl…
/r/ExRedPill16/10/21 07:41 AM
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The is a difference between being nice and kind and supplicating. Alot men who call themselves "nice" are men who supplicate. They supplicate because they have no boundaries, no self respect and people can sense it. So no one likes them. The feign being nice because they are too afraid to be themselves and run the risk of not being liked by some people. And they can't stand that. Plenty of really kind people with strong boundaries. They can go from nice to mean in 5 seconds and they don't let ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 07:22 AM
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Right. They tend to offer advice for like the top 15% of men. And those men wouldn't need the advice. It simply does not apply to at least half of the men. I cringe when I see the most regular fucking man trying to implement RP tactics. It's like trying to watch a fish walk on land. It's awkward. It doesn't suit them. Just like the vast majority of women are not exceptional, neither are men. But I guess RP gurus wouldn't be making any money if they reminded men how average/below average most of …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 07:18 AM
3

You don't need looks. Or intelligence. There is plenty one can do to learn to assert boundaries. The internet has all kinds of free info. Anything that makes you feel upset, disrespected or hurt is someone overstepping a boundary.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/21 05:03 AM
33

A person hobbies would not bother me. But not having any hobbies would. Avoid anyone without hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 04:30 AM
5

You can be shy. You can be ugly. But when other people disrespect you, you need to say something. You need to walk away. Cut off those relationships etc. You need to not tolerate it. Alot of these dudes will let people treat them any kind of way. And they will just sit there and take it. Because they lack self esteem and self worth.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/21 04:20 AM
1

It comes from people wanting a fairy tale marriage. They want to believe it will all work out. So men and women avoid talking about the hard issues. They want to believe that love is enough. It's not. As I said in another thread, alot of people seem to engage in covert contracts in relationships. That behavior is born out of cowardice and the fear of being turned down.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 02:02 AM
2

People will spend years of their lives trying to accept an incompatibility. I won't even start a relationship if our values, and expectations on relationships, sex, and commitment are not the same. Also money. If the person has bad money habits or its too frugal, it's a no for me dawg. Most relationships are fall apart because of one of these issues. So just get the shit out early on and if you differ in any of it, move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 01:49 AM
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Alot of men avoid having to work on themselves. Spineless and weak mean "no boundaries or standards". Alot of men have no boundaries, or weak boundaries. And they don't want to work on building the self confidence to assert them. I'm not saying you need to be the most popular, the most extroverted, the most charismatic. But you need to have the ability to stand up for yourself when other people over step their boundaries with you. And if you are a man that refuses to do that, then you are will f…
/r/ExRedPill16/10/21 01:29 AM
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Yep. The OP is doing stuff out of character for herself. Which is why she is drained. If a man doesn't like your upkeep behaviors, you aren't compatible. I have no idea why people ignore major incompatibilities in relationships. I personally hate being incompatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 01:20 AM
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You seem incompatible. Some women LOVE looking good. They do it for themselves and enjoy the grooming process. Those women do well with men who are visual and like a woman to always look good. Some women are low maintenance. They shower and are clean kept with no extras. Alot of men like that as well. Your sex drives also seem extremely incompatible. There are also plenty of men who have lower sexual needs. I have no idea why people think that talking about sex drive/sexual appetite/sexual expec…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 12:38 AM
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The problem OP, is that while some do lie, alot of them don't. I've noticed that a lot of men will not blatantly lie and say "I want a serious relationship with you" before sleeping with a woman only to reneg later. What they will do is loosely imply it may be an option if the woman sleeps with him. And when women ask men directly, alot of them self report men giving evasive answers to these questions. The man will mention wanting to "see where it goes" or "keep things casual". So the women will…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 12:26 AM
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People like this are always threatening to marry women abroad. To that I say: GO FUCKING DO IT. I grimace everytime I see a western dude who speaks one language and has only ever lived in a first world country pedestalizing foreign cultures they know nothing about. Foreign countries believe in marriage as a duty. Alot of it is spent unhappily but people believe in sticking it out. American men AND women are obsessed with fairy tale marriages. The third world is not. I am always amazed at how thi…
/r/ExRedPill15/10/21 11:51 PM
1

Yep. They could just stop talking about, and thinking about women, but all mgtow spaces are covered with topics only pertaining to women. Makes no damn sense. Talk about hobbies or something.
/r/ExRedPill15/10/21 11:47 PM
1

I agree that kind of thing happens. But people are to eager/entitled to be accepted as they are. That's not reality in life. 60k a year isn't much in the US if you have kids and a wife. If there was a way to earn more, but you refused to do it because your wife should just "accept you as you are" then you're an idiot. In cases like that, it comes down to pure ego. If you can do better together then you should work as a team. If your wife is helping you expand your business and not nagging you to…
/r/ExRedPill15/10/21 11:45 PM
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He is probably a nice person. But he also behaves very cocky at times. He is overly confident at time. And I personally don't like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 05:31 PM
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I'd just add to this and say it puts people on top who are exceptionally intelligent, exceptionally hard-working, exceptionally focused, exceptionally high risk taking and willing to sacrifice their social lives and family lives and face huge amounts of negative press and attacks from competitors. People like this make up an incredibly small minority of men but men make up the vast vast percentage of people like this Say it again for the people in the back. The vast majority of men don't meet th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 05:09 PM
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Fuck that bitch. She's a bad person. Be happy you realized that now. How utterly outrageous to do something like that. Never speak to her again. Never acknowledge her again. Wow. Shit like this makes my blood boil.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 05:04 PM
1

I don't need a study. Studies are wrong all the time. They have huge margins of error. Didn't you know that? There are studies that disprove every study. What is proven right by one study on Monday is proven wrong by different study on Tuesday. So I always take studies with a big ass heap of salt. Believing one or two studies at face value is the reason so much information manipulation takes place and so much misinformation is spread. 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 04:31 PM
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The problem is, to some end, really attractive people are not given the ability to develope certain traits that you see in other people. They are insulated and treated differently by other people. They get to play life on easy mode. And other people are often the reason for this. Other people are more agreeable with and polite to and fond of attractive men and women. Pretty privilege is a thing. And it is often provided by other people. You have surely noticed how most people act around attracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 04:11 PM
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Explain to me logically why women cannot hunt? Men did hunting because......and this is going to shock and amaze you......JOBS WERE PURPOSELY DIVIDED. Men where given certain jobs to do. And women were given certain jobs to do. Women never interfered with "men jobs" and men never interfered with "women jobs". Men didn't even concern themselves with women jobs. Which is why they needed a woman to do it for them. RP men have this idea that men have historically been raised to do all the work that …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 04:00 PM
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Your dad sounds like a regular dude. Plenty of average Joe's own a business. Having a business doesn't necessarily make you exceptional. I know men that run businesses quite well, however they do the same job day in and day out and rarely want to change and grow in that business. My current boss is that type of person. Being in the same business doing the same job the same way mostly unchanged for 20 year. My boss is also intellectually lazy and doesn't really seek to grow and improve and develo…
/r/ExRedPill15/10/21 03:48 PM
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Me neither. I can't stand his brand of fake humble. He is physically good looking. But I'm attracted more to the person than the looks (as long as you look decent) and his cockiness is really unattractive to me personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:42 PM
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Caveman times. There are no men. What threat is there to women? Wild animals? Sure. The outdoors? Of course. Women would still hunt, gather foods, cooks, fashion tools and build shelter, and protect themselves in the absence of men etc. To suggest otherwise is just you lying. Bold faced lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:40 PM
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I live in South Korea. It's damn near taboo to have a baby in your 20s. People consider you lower class if you do. At the earliest it's late 20s. So 28 of 29. Most have one in their early 30s. Between 30 and 35. And it is considered perfectly normal and reasonable. And most babies are born healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:35 PM
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Men are physically stronger than women. Physical strength does not equal superior in everything. Which you are claiming by calling men superior. That is like saying a woman is superior for being able to beat a small child to death. That's an unfair fight from the beginning. It's like saying a heavy weight boxer is better at his craft because he beats a feather weight when the disparity I weight class's is a big deal that cannot be overlooked. Men are soldiers? Makes sense. Since men are the ones…
/r/ExRedPill15/10/21 03:32 PM
2

How do women need men for survival? Go back to the beginning. No men ever existed. What threat was there to womens safetyin the absence of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:11 PM
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What a stupid claim. Human being won't just lay down and die. If all this shit goes away, human being will live on. The idea that we cannot live without all this stupid shit is asinine. We did it for thousands of years. 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:10 PM
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She would be wrong in that case. However, as I mentioned in another thread, there are leagues in dating/marriage. Clever, future focused, intellectual women cannot be married to an average Joe "this is good enough" type of man. They can't be. The match doesn't work. That kind of woman would need to be married to her male counterpart. And a man who has no desire to grow wouldn't suit that kind of women. Alot of RP men have it in their heads that men didn't pick equals when it came to marriage. An…
/r/ExRedPill15/10/21 03:07 PM
2

I made another comment just today. 99% of the infrastructure we have to day can be done away with. We live in a time of surplus, of excess of gluttony. If men stopped existing, we would go back to being simple farmers. And the earth would thank us for that. Everyone is eager to point out men "built" the world without also owning that men are the ones killing it. Women don't need protection. Women only ever needed to be protected from other men. Not lions, tigers and bears. It's easy to claim you…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 02:46 PM
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No. Men are not. Men are apples. Women are oranges. You can not compare two things equally that are fundamentally different. Men are superior to women and yet the Manosphere exists. It is completely ans utterly dedicated to complaining about a thing that is inferior to men. Make it make sense. Men don't hold any power in relationships. Men are made whole by women. Again, which is why so many men are depressed and dejected when women don't give them attention. A man gains status and respect by be…
/r/ExRedPill15/10/21 02:37 PM
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No one does. Kids should be put second to their biological parent only. I do not think it is right to put your kids second to a non-biological parent. It feels unethical. This is why I think single parents should focus on raising their children to adulthood and then think about dating. Dating as a single parent causes so much distress for the children too. And people without kids also have the right to want to be prioritized in a relationship. They shouldn't have to suck it up and deal with comi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 02:29 PM
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If a woman wants kids, it's 30. I'm all for women living their lives on their own terms, but I hate when women (and men) wait too long to have children. It's risking the potential health of the child. Feminism and liberation cannot override nature. If you want children, it's better to do it by your late 20s. If a woman doesn't want kids? Never. I said it. Never. A woman without kids will always be attractive. As long as she is of normal weight and takes care of her hygiene, she will be eligible …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 02:26 PM
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It's delusion. It's natural for parents to want their offspring to be put first. Men do it as well. I recently read a thread on r/childfree. A woman said she ran across a thread posted in her group she is apart of. It was a single father asking "Why am I only getting getting matches with women with kids? Are there no women without kids in this city?" She had to politely inform that women without kids don't want men with kids. Single moms are given so much shit that single dads will sometimes thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 02:21 PM
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I disagree. Not those words specifically. How the person carries themselves. Their mannerisms. Their facial expressions determine this. Jason Mamoa has a "I'm really sexually attractive and I know it" energy. He is humble. But not that humble. And you can see it in his energy. It's not his fault that he was born good looking. However you can tell he is a product of having been really attractive his whole life. And to some end, that energy can make a person dislikeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 02:11 PM
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That's fine. That's her choice. He doesn't have the right to tell her she should be happy. She doesn't have to settle. There was this one caller. Really nice and polite woman. She was well educated. High earning. He asked her if she would mind a man making 60 a year as an expert plumber. She said no problem. Then she added that she would want to help him to expand his business to earn more money. Kevin cuts her off and tells her that she needs to accept him making 60k for the rest of his life. B…
/r/ExRedPill15/10/21 02:04 PM
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Don't they have the OLD platforms that are more in depth? Like the dating websites? Wouldn't that be better and more in depth than an app.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 01:39 PM
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The idea that women are beneath men in anyway. The idea that a man has a right to cheat on his wife. The idea that a woman needs to accept a man making 20 bucks an hour and be happy with that. They idea that a woman will never find a man to marry her if she doesn't pass his personal standards. The idea that he is a HVM. The idea that he cares about getting people married. The idea that he cares about helping men improve themselves. As you said, he is a snake oil salesman. He only cares about get…
/r/ExRedPill15/10/21 01:35 PM
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He is not wrong about the fact that a lot of women are entitled while bringing nothing to the table themselves. He isn't wrong about women having over inflated SMV either. Nothing wrong with being a 4 or 5. He isn't wrong about criticizing women who choose bad mates and have kids with them. And he isn't wrong for suggesting that single mothers need stop living in the delusion that most men want women with kids.
/r/ExRedPill15/10/21 01:29 PM
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How is pointing out that men choose women like this with glaring red flags shaming? 🤔 Are you saying this does not happen? Is my comment incorrect? You are saying we can bash women? Drag women? but we better not say anything in criticism of men's behavior even though it is true?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/10/21 01:23 PM
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Yep. Men are angry that women have a choice. Women have too much freedom. They are no longer owed anything. I came across a thread saying that men didn't need women but women needed men. That's a lie. The Manosphere and RP are testament to this fact. Literally millions of men joining together to complain about what women are doing. They claim to not need women, but 100% of their content is about women. I saw a comment written by a man. He said that men can be happy with a TV, Playstation, mini f…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 01:21 PM
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Ah, my bad. The lower part was about the topic of the thread. I will delete that part. Kevin isn't 100% wrong. However the parts where he is wrong and very very VERY wrong. It's too much. And he just ignores these glaring inconsistencies. And people have said that they tried to engage him on them, and he refuses to respond to them.
/r/ExRedPill15/10/21 01:13 PM
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And he never talks about it. People fuck up. Mistakes and bad decisions happen. I find it strange that he completely refuses to talk about his past. At all. In any capacity. He calls himself HVM but he picked wrong twice? He risked alimony and child support? He couldn't work through the problems in the marriage? Yet he feels justified in giving advice to other people? I read a comment yesterday. About Kevin's M.O. I will post it below: Edit: A male perspective: First, regarding Kevin Samuels. I …
/r/ExRedPill15/10/21 01:00 PM
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Look up some pictures of him. There is one where he is wearing a Hermes belt, and a neck scarf and a cross chest bag and sunglasses and two bracelets and a ring and a watch. It's gaudy AF. Fashion sense, my ass. He is a peacock. He needs attention. His outfit will be fine. But he adds unnecessary shit to it. He is so insecure about his appearance. I couldn't imagine being married to a man that into fashion and looking good.
/r/ExRedPill15/10/21 12:46 PM
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Go back to his older videos. He had this raggedy ass brown mantel background. He had zero style/design sense. Yet he was working as a personal shopper. Now that he finally learned style, he goes overboard. He over accessorizes. He over decorates his background. He over does everything. But he has always had money like that. Hm. 👁👄👁
/r/ExRedPill15/10/21 12:22 PM
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Even still. Every dude in the RP acts like they're doing big things. They aren't. They are not creators, builders, or leaders of anything except their YouTube accounts. They all want to have these amazing origin stories. But they don't have the make up of a man that is a leader. They are just you run of the mill foot soldier who lacks the ambition and ability to make meaningful changes in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 10:38 AM
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So? The problem is that men don't get anything out of it? I disagree. Men were never obligated to get anything out of it. That's the problem. For thousands of years men were led to believe they had a right to a woman. They didn't. But they created a system of making women dependent on men in every way so that a woman needed a man in order to make a living. But now that system doesn't exist anymore. And men can't stand it. And to that I say 🤷‍♀️. No one is entitled to anything. They never were. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 10:36 AM
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That's the problem. Average these days for a man means below average for a man historically. If even a man didn't make a ton of money, he was competent in a ton of other things. He could build anything. He could fix anything. He spent his free time on productive activities. Men used to spend all their time doing masculine activities. Hunting and fishing were considered sports. Men went out, did things, and even though they had fun, it produced some result. Men these days do what? Go to work. Com…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 04:13 AM
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I was watching a RP video yesterday. The guy in it is, of course, criticizing women's impossible standards. He was reacting to a Fresh and Fit podcast in which girls who didn't have anything to offer were demanding the world. While criticizing women, he also criticized men. He said that men these days aren't really giving women anything to want in them. Men are weak, overweight, under ambitious, and spends their time frivolously on video games. Men these days are so unattractive that women would…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:54 AM
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We don't need 8 billion people. That's what yall don't get. If all this unnecessary shit didn't exist, the population of 8 billion wouldn't exist. Human being are so full of themselves. We think we are so important. So special. We need to live. Nah, nature disagrees. Which is why we die. And there is nothing wrong with death.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:28 AM
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I don't understand this logic. It assumes that the current system and technology is beneficial to people. To some end, it is. But to another end it is not. If men built the world, men are also the ones killing the world. They are the ones building machines that destroy the environment. Genetically re-engineering foods. Etc. Using up natural resources. The cause of the imbalance in riches vs poverty and the likes. Men have always been the ones to fight in war.......because they are the ones who s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:07 AM
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"Thick" should be defined as thick thighs/butt and full chest with a flat stomach. This body type is only naturally possible on women with hourglass shapes. To some end, pear shapes. If the stomach sticks out in an unsightly manner, you're fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 02:57 AM
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Men are, according to RP rhetoric, judged by their ability to provide income and to some end status and stability. In order to do all three one has to be future oriented and driven in their career.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 02:18 AM
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Yeah. But money and the ability to provide is supposed to be the most important. In words, this is true. In reality, in RP alot of men see themselves as HVM if they have a nice body and alpha attitude. Most of these men are employees. Cogs in someone else's machine. Making a salary of less than 50k a year. All the while shit talking women online. Again, if you have natural, in born desire to be successful, why waste energy on RP spaces? It's like a dream factory for men. They come into these spa…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 01:28 AM
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Dudes that make alot of money and are goal oriented and future driven work all the time. They don't care much about anything else. If anything, men like this are more apt to quickly find a woman, date and marry her so that they can satisfy that part of their life and go back to working on their plans. If you are in the top 10-20% of earners, I highly doubt you dedicate your time to anything else but success. And men like this are usually very average looking. Many of whom don't look like they ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 12:57 AM
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I agree. I disagree with the idea that a man who is serious about his career and future and achievements is wasting time chasing women and trying to increase their notch count.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 12:27 AM
2

Yes. I meant that crowd. I assume the regular folk are just regular.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 02:47 PM
2

Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 12:18 PM
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Women don't like low effort, no-foreplay sex. The act of penetration isn't that satisfying. All the other parts are more pleasurable for a woman. Women like the build up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 11:23 AM
2

Exactly. He acts too brand new for my blood. He was broke and struggling. Nothing wrong with that. But own it at least. He acts like he's been doing well for the last 20 years. And he hasn't. He was as average as anyone else.
/r/ExRedPill14/10/21 07:22 AM
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Why don't these men go and live in these countries they love praising so much. I'm sure immigration would be fairly straightforward. Learn the language, adopt the lifestyle, follow the cultural practices. To the tee. But be willing to give up the well developed infrastructure you live in for a third world country. Hey, but at least the women are submissive and sex is controlled. 🙄
/r/ExRedPill14/10/21 05:32 AM
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Why keep it though? Newly means "still abortable". I am not pro-frivolous abortion. However in cases where they child is being born in less than ideal circumstances, it's best to exercise that option. But no, she is planning to bring a loser man's baby to term. And she's asking someone else to pay for it. I don't get how these women think that's okay. Makes no sense.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/10/21 04:54 AM
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They live in a bubble. Where everything and everyone is vapid AF. Also celebrities are not normal people. Their world is not ours. We live on Earth. They live on Mars.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 04:52 AM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Real smooth. She just casually sneaks in the horrifying fact that she is newly pregnant with another man's baby at the end there. Good job. 👏👏
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/10/21 04:33 AM
4

I once saw a video clip of a man talking about how he went past the cemetery and her saw a bunch of women buried alone. As proof that modern day women are dying alone. And I'm like "Ummmm we all die alone." And the dead do care who they are buried next to. Only the living care about that sentimental shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 04:26 AM
12

I would say no. People who live in LA live in a completely different world than the rest of us. So that has to be taken into account. I would say that women like the look of Kim K and the like more than men do. Men won't turn down Kim K for sex. However men will also sleep with a woman with a normal, natural body.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 03:34 AM
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You are not very handsome. You are extremely average looking. There is nothing remarkable about the way you look. And since we cannot see your full body, I am going to guess you are not in decent shape either. Makes sense, as you are 16. And probably are not athletic. And to be frank, you aren't surrounded by women. You're surrounded by girls. Immature girls that like immature things and do immature things. That is the nature of being a teenager. I think you are getting ahead of yourself. You ar…
/r/ExRedPill14/10/21 12:59 AM
10

I doubt that is linked to lack of sex. Let's not be ridiculous. Men desire power, control, ego, admiration, legacy. Those are more attributive to war than sex drive. 🙄
/r/ExRedPill13/10/21 11:55 PM
10

Exactly. Makes no sense. Everything women do is negative, but in their nature. But everything men do is positive and in their nature. How did men survive in a world where access to sex was heavily controlled? They didn't go on rampages.
/r/ExRedPill13/10/21 10:09 PM
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These dudes are misogynistic. I wish they would just say it. They need women to be lower than them to feel like men. Just say it. Stop with all the mental gymnastics. Stop with the justifications. I love how they think women are lower than men, but they dedicate their income source to talking about, complaining about, criticizing women. Their whole lives revolve around women. They are obsessed with what women are doing and the rights they have. But they think they are better than women.
/r/ExRedPill13/10/21 02:45 PM
1

You literally have no idea what I'm talking about, but here you are running your mouth. Makes no sense. You'd actually have to know what the culture of character fully entailed to counter it. And your response here proved you do not. So then why comment? I did not say people had no character. I said character is not nearly as emphasized as it was 19th century and before. You can see this difference in literature written and set in the 19th century and before. That culture no longer exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 02:38 PM
1

Your logic makes no sense. Who enters into a long term relationship with just anybody? I've never heard of that. The whole point of dating is to sift out people you're not compatible. And to try to build relationships with who you are compatible with. If you are on a date, you are literally there to build some kind of relationship with another person. Whether or not it's the person in front of you. So it makes the most sense to state up front which type of relationship (casual/serious) you are l…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 01:43 PM
1

Most people don't lie. As I said, rather than lie, people will give a non-answer. However, in my opinion, I would prefer someone to have a decided answer. Otherwise, in my opinion, I'm wasting my time. You don't know what you want? That's fair. But if I do, I don't see the need to spend my time on someone who doesn't. My life is too short.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 12:48 PM
2

You can choose to be a good person. You can choose to only hang out with, spend time with, and respect people who hold themselves to high standards. On a grand scale, the overall culture has to change. Unfortunately most people need rules imposed on them. Or they will be horrible. But the individual can have standards for themselves and the company they keep in spite of it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 11:13 AM
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So. If someone asks you "Why are you dating?" You should answer "I am looking for a LTR". Doesn't have to be with that person. Answering it that way does not at all imply that it is with that person. It's merely stating ones intent clearly. Again, men who are just looking for casual sex will never say that out right. Instead they prefer to give wishy washy answers like they are just dating casually or not looking for anything seriously. Great. Good for you. If I want a relationship (with the rig…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 11:11 AM
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Even still. People strived to be decent. Everyone these days is just terrible. And proud of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 09:48 AM
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If they don't know what they want, move on. Full stop. Alot of men will not admit to only looking for casual sex. But that is exactly what they are doing. If a person wants a relationships, they should say that clearly without it needing to be dragged out. If they act wishy washy, that's the answer. Alot of people are having casual sex, casual relationships, situationships. Good for them. If that's not what you want, drop anyone that doesn't give you a clear answer. Men want to be able to have f…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 09:47 AM
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The 19th century marked the end of the culture of character. Character traits used to be more highly valued in relationships. Which was why everyone was so sincere and earnest. Then in the early 20th century people started moving to cities and the culture of personality started. Where personalitybwas valued over character. So now all that matters is being superficially likeable. No one works on character anymore. No one has values anymore. Because it's not valued. Everyone is vapid. Heathens. Fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 09:42 AM
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It just continues to amazes me. How easily they tell on themselves. How naively they do it. They really think a non-toxic man is going to read this and date her. If anything she is signaling toxic me to message her. She has already put up with a string of men's shit, what's one more.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/10/21 08:57 AM
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It's all over YT but I've legit never seen it talked about, hinted at or even acted out IRL. And the Manosphere has been around for 10+ years. It's still fairly underground. Spend too much time in it and it will have you convinced everyone thinks like this. And you will start to perceive the world like this.
/r/ExRedPill13/10/21 04:06 AM
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It's not about you finding a person attractive or not. It's about treating people with human decency. If you ignore a woman or treat them as less than just because you are not attracted to her sexually than you are a piece if shit. Period.
/r/ExRedPill13/10/21 01:56 AM
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Nah. She's not that big. Buy 135 is the higher end of her weight class. So she should look healthy, and thick but not fat. She looks fat. And when you're short 15 extra pounds is alot.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/10/21 01:00 AM
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