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More specifically its a sex toy made to simulate a schlong. Not saying there's somethign wrong but it's not a hetero man's desire. He may be bi or confused. What goes on in people's bedrooms should probably stay in people's bedrooms, otherwise you're kind of asking for people's take on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:10 PM
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How could a man craving the feeling of cock pounding his ass possibly be called gay? That's just preposterous
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 10:27 AM
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Gamification isn't the reason for the surplus of men on OLD. Most women, even average chicks aren't on OLD because they truly don't feel the need to put themselves out there more. It's already easy mode in irl for them, even without OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:42 AM
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Sorry to hear that you only type at 15wpm. That's got to suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:14 AM
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But why even weaponize slimy meat hole? Don't bitches love communication? Seems like a perfect chance to communicate your issues like a grown adult
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:54 AM
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I just called you a fake ass bitch and that's really what I think about you. We're not homies. If we're done here we can leave it as it is
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:17 AM
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it would have been much more monetarily incentivized to just call them misogynists So being ex-RP deep in it but who's now seen the light and changed his ways is less profitable than being just another beta chump with an opinion? I wonder if you can even keep a straight face while typing out the bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:09 AM
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You just come off fake. I'm telling you exactly what I think
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:51 AM
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Oh no it ends up hurting men! Who are you kidding, you don't actually give a shit about ensuring a successful outcome in another dude's romantic life. It's hilarious reading your false concern for men above and then reading your response to TryLambda just below, you can spot the condescension from a mile away. You're as fake as they come. You're a little fake ass bitch, aren't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:44 AM
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they have to face the fact perhaps their inability to enter a quality relationship is due to their own shortcomings The inability for men to enter quality relatioships is probably the reason they felt the need to resort to TRP in the first place. Your argument pointing to TRP as the root cause of any this keeps getting weaker and weaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:46 AM
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Men were losing trust in women long before TRP showed up in the early 2000s. All TRP did was affirm that the loss of trust was valid -- and it probably is valid, given that shit like AFBB is even admitted by many women these days. Given that marriage has been turned into a scheme for unhappy wives to extort their husbands. All of this had been in motion for decades before TRP made its way on the scene. All TRP promised was a (failed imo) system to navigate relationships in this new trustless env…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:09 AM
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when I know where it will lead them. Do tell :D
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 03:40 AM
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Men probably want to be with traditional women more than obnoxious modern women, but some of it comes down to the guy she chooses also. Not every man she chooses is going to behave perfectly just because she's traditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 03:34 AM
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The only reason men are repulsed by them is that they start to look kind of frumpy right around 35 and men aren't attracted to frumpies. edit: also their gooch starts to smell kinda. Not strong but I think maybe tied to hormones
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 03:04 AM
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zendaya, selena gomez in her prime, anya taylor joy (in her prime)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:41 AM
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If you're going to charge for it, you better be hot. When men are paying for it directly, only the most attractive women get all the business while the rest get ignored. The guys doing expensive favors for their female friends are idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 08:55 PM
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What both scenarios lol. The person "getting friendzoned" and "not getting laid" are the same person.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 08:36 PM
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Unless the chick wants revenge on her boyfriend or husband, it's surprisingly hard. Why risk the social stigma of being a cheater when you can often break up and get with the better option?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 08:16 PM
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"doing wrong and then trying to influence others not to commit the same wrong" So I'm going to say no, my definition is perfectly fine. Moving on now.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 08:07 PM
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Why do you sound surprised that hypocrisy would undermine a person's credibility
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:54 PM
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The low hanging fruit in humanoid robotics is a man's dream: hyper-attractive physically and doesn't talk too much. Sentient female sex bots that are indistinguishable from human females are a sick and twisted revenge fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:41 PM
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It's not hypocritical just to do wrong - otherwise we wouldn't even have a separate word for hypocrisy Right, the word "hypocrisy" exists in doing wrong and then trying to influence others not to commit the same wrong. your argument would suggest everyone is a hypocrite so no opinion should be taken seriously Nope. The only opinions that involve hypocrisy are about how others should behave.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:11 PM
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I feel like it's wrong when I lie as well as when others lie. You don't really feel it's wrong or you would never knowingly engage it. The things that people won't ever intentionally do is how you know what they really feel is wrong. Assuming you're not a psychopath, you probably believe animal abuse and child abuse are wrong. But lying, not so much, there's much more grey area there for you (and most of us in society). The hypocrisy comes from affording oneself the freedom to engage in a behavi…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 06:52 PM
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That's pretty easy to prove: you engage in socially acceptable forms of lying but you also make a moral point about lying being wrong to engage in.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 06:22 PM
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Lying is also acceptable in this society, so long as they lie like an adult (as opposed to lying like a child). And lying like an adult is so widespread because it's acceptable in this society. Things that are truly unacceptable in society are dealt with severity. That's how you know what is really acceptable or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 11:52 AM
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Bad because you say so? Not many people actually believe it's actually bad. The reason it's so widespread is that it's socially acceptable, and only a problem when "they" are engaging in it. OP, don't even worry about accusations of hypocrisy. It's a fucking joke. You're talking about people who take the luxury of being hypocrites in ways most guys could never even dream of.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 11:07 AM
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It comes across as hypocritical If women get to be as hypocritical as they are, I don't see why we'd expect men not to be. Hypocrisy seems to be a very acceptable behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:35 AM
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\^ a woman is talking lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 08:07 AM
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Maybe you should re-read the bible. I would hope that it would make you a better person.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 08:01 AM
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Nah it's not useless. Maybe useless for you. Suggesting that I read the bible seems a bit presumptive. What makes you think I haven't and what do you expect would happen from me reading it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:35 AM
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No. Aggressive and asssertive people are on the assertive end. People pleasers and doormats are on the unassertive end. Alpha/beta is much more like MBTI for men: not actually based on credible science but still useful to navigate people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 11:15 PM
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I want to cuck my caring commited gf with a sexbot lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:41 PM
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If you both want to it's fine. It's not ok when a person decides to start using sex as a bargaining chip for other things like the OP is describing, whether it's the guy or girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 07:46 PM
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There's no getting around it. Unless you're dealing with a very naive guy, you're going to be assumed to have gotten around in your 20s either way. Chances are, most men will project male sexuality on how much you got around and significantly overestimate, so you're doubly fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 07:09 PM
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If the girl wanted to to, but he's intentionally witholding it as a strategy to secure her commitment, then yeah he would be a clown. Actually this illustrates my point perfectly, flip the genders and it's immediately apparent how ridiculous this scenario is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 07:01 PM
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Combined with widespread use of contraceptives it will lead to population collapse and mass immigration. Kind of what happened to the Roman Empire but with different causes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 05:44 PM
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They shouldn't get to choose but they do get to. This is what all the progressive madness about pronouns has led to, and academia pushing the "gender as a social construct" meme. We care too much about protecting the feelings of the few genderqueer, nonbinary and women transitioning to M while the FtM turn this into a proper shit show.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 05:33 PM
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If there's a difference between women and trans women, shouldn't trans women have their own separate set of pronouns?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 09:11 AM
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"Plenty of chicks give it up quick if you meet their standard for casual, but withold sex from guys who don't." This is a pretty blackpill view though. I was just born attractive enough for a few easy lays, trust me it wasn't my charming personality that did it for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:45 AM
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How about I just do what I want. Yeah I think I'll do that instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:37 AM
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Because it's a lie. Having sex with others is totally fine as long as it's not done behind their back.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:32 AM
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These days I do pay hookers because I have the cash and they look much hotter. That's really the only difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:28 AM
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Exactly, I better not be paying for her dinner and I better be getting sex within the first couple of low effort hangouts I have before and it was easy. Plenty of chicks give it up quick if you meet their standard for casual, but withold sex from guys who don't. That's not exactly a secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:58 AM
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who said I'm paying for her dinner lol Don't even bother trying to withold sex unless you're a virgin, it won't fly with anyone except a spineless simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:35 AM
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Virgin and witholding sex: totally fine, good on you ANY n-count and is now witholding sex: she's a clown
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:20 AM
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Wealth inequality causes real problems Not if you can pacify the poor people with video games and porn. Hopefully you get my point
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:14 AM
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If you're going to be doing anything that you already know the other person might not like, it's your responsibility to divulge that. It's not on the other person to suspect you of it and ask. They run the risk of being called "insecure" and ruining the relationship early on if they suspected wrong (especially a guy). It's mostly an issue of the one who knows intentionally hiding that information so that they stick around.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 10:57 PM
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You nailed it. If it doesn't involve lying and deception, it's not cheating. Cheating necessarily involves some form of deception, to answer your question that's what's objectively wrong with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 08:59 PM
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if they were cheating and keeping it a secret, would there have been nothing wrong with that? Or do you think seeing something wrong with it is misconception on your part?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 07:44 PM
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About 3-6 months to get a girlfriend, not necessarily a girlfriend I even want to be around but just whatever I manage to get. A girlfriend I actually want to make my girlfriend, probably never.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 08:40 PM
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this isn't the early 2010s, video feed algorithms haven't worked that way for a while
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:27 PM
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lol this is why you never justify yourself to women. I knew from the first comment it would devolve to this
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 11:01 PM
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oh yeah you're that diehard FDS chick, I almost forgot lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 03:37 PM
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A person self-professing their greatness isn't really threatening as much as irritating. Especially online where no one can verify anything you're claiming
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 03:22 PM
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I wish. If I was the spokesperson, first thing I'd do is stop gaslighting everyone with false indignation when people point out obvious truths
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 03:18 PM
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whoosh I was pointing out the irony of the statement Whether women are dominant or submissive themselves, they're into pretty much nothing but dominant men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 08:05 AM
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Why must we be so boring. you did it for me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 06:12 AM
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You're assuming dominant don't also prefer dominant men, but they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 06:08 AM
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try reading what you wrote back to yourself and see if you can take your own advice. I bet you won't
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:57 AM
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Who cares about nations? I'm not on women's schedule, neither are a lot of men, but they just assumed we would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 11:09 PM
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I think we're making the dating market better. A lot of women think they can fuck around and settle down in their 30s, as if men are on THEIR schedule. I'm in my 30s, I'm still pretty good looking and in shape, I've been "matched up" with women looking to settle down by various friends and family members. I have no intention of ever marrying, but I do tell them "yeah maybe when I'm 40" just to see the annoyed look on their face.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 11:04 PM
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Why would you shut a person who doesn't want you around out of your life? Are you really asking this? Why WOULDN'T you shut them out of your life
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 09:03 PM
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They're both good reasons to shut that person out of your life, I don't see how that contradicts anything I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 07:39 PM
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You flirt and make moves early on so she can reject you because you lack social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 07:15 PM
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Ok but this is not what the OP is describing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 06:38 PM
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The part at the end where you talked about walking away was in the context of either making her reconsider or regaining her respect. For what? What use is a person like that in your life? At best she's proven to be worth nothing more than a hatefuck before you dump her ass for good, but there's no mention of that in your OP. Am I wrong about you leaning towards RP?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 03:49 PM
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Sometimes I pity RPers. Having anyone, man or woman, laugh or scoff at you when you're suffering is such a clear sign that you're dealing with someone who doesn't give a single shit about you. How does anyone with self respect even contemplate how to change her perception of you to one of strength, or how to make her reconsider their decision. Take the vagina out of the equation and think to yourself how you could ever let another person treat you like that. I mean I'm all for not losing your sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 07:30 AM
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I'm not saying anything about FDS just meant that scrolling through the comments of this post is funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 06:25 AM
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The guy would still win, he's probably got a significant reach advantage
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 04:57 AM
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This isn't true. When you ask men to talk about conceptual ideas, the part of the brain related to abstract thinking lights up, but for women it's the part responsible self-perception that lights up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 04:24 AM
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So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 03:54 AM
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Black Are you asking what people find high value in general or to me specifically? Charming, wealthy, physically attractive is perceived as high value by the public. So if I want to be high value to a lot of women this is what I'd focus on. To me high value men are honest, insightful, and they're in certain professions, trades or skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 03:50 AM
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ok, you don't care. So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 03:34 AM
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no, if I recall correctly it's "Female Dinner Strategy"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 02:07 AM
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off topic but it's funny af how literally half of the comments in this thread is you replying everyone who doesn't say something positive about FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 02:05 AM
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those guys were being nice to me without me paying them to do it Well that's exactly the point. You weren't being manipulated for money by whatever obsessive crushes you developed, twitch simps are. How is this not obvious to you? Maybe I'm being a bit harsh, after all this is probably not something you can relate to as a woman because attractive guys will often be nice to women for free, they have nothing to fear. Attractive women don't generally do this because if they're nice to the wrong guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 01:40 AM
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I'm sure they're out there, but you will almost never get a person to admit regret in their lives. For the ones that do it would willingly indicate that they willingly made bad life choices for short term gain. That's too embarrassing for most people to deal with, even semi-anonymously.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 10:38 PM
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Prepare for a life of mediocrity but remember it's better than the alternative of dying alone As I said, look at the context of the point that was being made (I quoted it for you). Think of it like a one-way trip to a different country. Even if your family sees you off at the gate and waves goodbye, you still have to board the plane.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 06:53 PM
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is that something anyone really wants? Look at it in the context of the point that was being made
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 06:40 PM
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If you listen to NDE accounts, they almost never mention others dying with them as part of the experience. It usually seems to be a very personal thing. Strangely enough there are many accounts of family members who died long ago, but relatively few of people dyng alongside them (like in a crash)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 06:19 PM
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He's right. You may die with people by your side, but they stay behind. They only watch as you step into the void.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 04:42 PM
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I'm not agreeing with the OP why would this need to be in automod
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:01 AM
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You said he swipes like on everything and waits until a match eventually connects, this means he has no standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:17 PM
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It may seem "grass is greener" thinking, but I think small market with easygoing people would be nicer than a huge market full of difficult people. Even if your market is huge, there's a natural limit to how many people out of that market you have time to meet. For this reason I'm going to go with the view that gays are very lucky
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 05:28 PM
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Yes. If you want kids but you also want a bulletproof guarantee that you won't be a single mom, that's not going to work. Especially since mothers exercise the right to divorce just as much (if not more) than fathers do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 11:28 PM
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The one thing I give RP men credit for is teaching the younger generation of women that men hate moms most of all Moms of another man's offspring** absolutely. If single moms didn't know before, now they know
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 11:02 PM
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I know you're not referring to me because I gave an example of the outside world but the is probably vague enough that it could be misinterpreted
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 06:28 PM
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Even before OLD became mainstream, guys were getting reamed in the dating world pretty badly anyway. Being in a fraternity in college before the surge of OLD, we socialized plenty but nothing much was different. A handful of guys were cleaning up and the rest were getting rejected left and right. Politely and face to face, but rejected nonetheless. You'd get laid occasionally but it was a slog just as much as OLD is a slog. It's just strange that we are willing to point to anything, literally an…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 05:05 PM
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I'm not trying to tell you what the meaning is, just that there's meaning behind experience, i.e how many times a person has done something. You could even attribute a great meaning to it if you want, that's your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 02:39 AM
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I disagree. There are men who are very clearly assertive and there are men who are clearly spineless appeasers and there's not very much in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 02:09 AM
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It would be great if numbers really did mean nothing That's not to say they mean everything, but there's no point in downplaying that they have some importance.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 01:57 AM
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Leonardo dicaprio is a terrible example. He serially dated a bunch of chicks half his age when he was in his 30s and 40s and had a bunch of others in rotation being a public figure and not adhering to the script can become a publicity nightmare
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 01:52 AM
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ackshually the average n count is 7, they even pinky swore that they were telling the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 01:38 AM
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I think a lot of guys tried do things the right way and decided it isn't worth it. So that's what ends up happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 01:27 AM
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How would you even know that? Do they put "pump and dump" on their profile or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:54 PM
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okay, go have a cry about it if you think it's so sad lol, I'm comfy where I'm at
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:43 PM
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Whatever, I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:38 PM
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No, there's no reason to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:33 PM
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Oops, well there it is anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:24 PM
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You listed a lot of things that are about effort. Wanting it now, pumping and dumping, making sex all about them, expecting you to do it all. These are about men getting what they want while putting in the least effort possible. You might say that they're assholes for doing it this way, but they're responding to the incentives of online dating, and arguably, the incentives that women give men on onlie dating platforms in the long run. I know because 10 years ago when I didn't know about how onli…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:59 PM
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Look at the incentives men deal with. Being a guy who can attract women and then treating them however he feels IS rewarded, being a guy who cares and puts a lot of effort into it ISN'T rewarded nearly as much. Even average dudes seem to realize it's a waste of time to put effort, and all of this is from results (or lack thereof) they've gotten from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:47 PM
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We both know this is directed at the average single millenial woman who over the past decade has been arrogantly been telling men they're not good enough for her and instead shooting way above their range. And now can't find a decent guy to settle down with them like they assumed would happen. As a millenial dude who had to deal with their nasty attitude, I'm enjoying the hell out of it. Not a single fuck will be given about their hardships.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:18 PM
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Aren't you an EU citizen? Have most of these countries been within in the EU possibly?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:25 AM
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rbhipp
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:24 AM
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of all places, why would you choose Qatar? I've worked abroad also, and sure the women abroad were much better than western women. But I still think this is not a realistic solution by any stretch. It's near impossible to set down roots in a different country without a LOT of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:03 AM
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People don't "just move" to another country, that notion is kind of ridiculous. Have you ever moved to a different country? Imagine the resources, logistics and planning that it takes. How are you going to find work without a VISA sponsorship prepared? How much effort will you put into learning the local language? If you're from the US, are you willing to pay taxes in your own country as well as the host country? Do you realize how difficult it can be to own a business or buy land in most countr…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:22 AM
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guk
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:00 AM
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There's probably tens of thousands of guides online for how to write a profile that contain the same information. I can't believe you wasted your time writing this, OP
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 02:53 AM
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try the top 50% Literally every single above-average woman who isn't a cunty bitch is heavily sought after. For men it's a lot less forgiving.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:34 PM
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The benefits of marriage: 1)having to make sacrifices 2)suffering What a great list
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:28 PM
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lol, it's just funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:21 PM
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Yeah it's silly to come here expecting real debate. Slinging shit is so much fun though
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:10 PM
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lol ok, your personal situation aside (which is none of my business) I love the hamstering coming from millenial women in general right now on this topic. Again, not referring to you, just in general. I think it's great, it's entertaining as fuck and it seems to be getting better
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:06 PM
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Only 80%?? pretty much 100% of men desire the top 20% of women almost 100% of men also desire the top 40% above average women. As in, for relationships, not just to have sex with. The middle of the bell curve is kind of a mix of "would relationship" and "would only bang". The bottom 30% is ignored and gets the average male treatment. Most single women on PPD fall into the last 2 groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 08:59 PM
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This blackpills the TRPer
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 07:30 PM
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It's strange how the priority for most women in their 20s is "looking for something serious" with the most attractive, most successful guys possible. Now that those scarce men are pairing off with other women, they're getting older and less desirable, the prospects of ever having something serious with those desirable men is rapidly slipping between their fingers, then they're "choosing" the spinster cat-mom lifestyle in droves. Let's be honest this is much less a choice than an adaptation to ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:22 PM
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What really gets me is that dudes SAID this would happen years ago it was labeled a revenge fantasy, and now it's just beginning to happen women acting like it was their life plan all along
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 05:33 AM
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What biological clock? A lot of women have given up on the idea of having children entirely and are ready to live as crazy happy-go-lucky cat ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 04:41 AM
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I mean even her snoo avatar has blue hair, what did you expect
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 04:28 AM
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Honestly I think reddit themselves did a lot to destroy the original TRP community which they now retroactively claim was more about self improvement and so on, but I don't think they predicted that the philosophy would end up being infiltrated by incels. To be fair I never considered toe original TRP to be much actual help to AFCs, but more of a distraction to keep men grinding away on a self-improvement treadmill with few results to show for it. Their results on the whole were...underwhelming …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 12:19 AM
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you're still talking about tone but saying the content is pretty much the same just toned down. My original point to OP was that he was calling it BS based on the tone. Anyway I don't think there's much about female sexuality that men are glad to discover. I honetsly think learning about female sexuality makes men angry, and the harsh tone emerges from that. Not the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 11:17 PM
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is it basically that women want successful men, but successful men want younger women? Or is there more to it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 09:20 PM
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It should be common sense that men and women generally can't be friends, with a few exceptions. A lot of women just seem to want guy friends which is probably the only reason this debate even exists in teh first place. I've had female friends in the past but they've always been pretty superficial friendships where it feels like I'm just fulfilling a "guy friend" role.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 08:44 PM
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I'd rather gross you out than bother trying to prove anything to you. You're overestimating what I think of your opinion of me just a bit here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 07:21 PM
1

I'm glad we agree. It's all spot on as far as I'm concerned The next hooker I "rape" will have "Competitive-Tea4709" scrawled across her forehead and I'll be thinking back fondly to this exchange while I throatfuck her violently. I thought it might amuse you to know
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 06:58 PM
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Sorry but your ideas are pretty much trash imo. I will continue being an "incel" and "raping" hookers. If that's how you see it, I'm not bothered.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 06:43 PM
1

Well that means that to you, sex workers and even industry porn stars who show up to work are actually being raped because they're "not voluntarily" doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 06:32 PM
1

Wrong. It is voluntary except it's transactional. If it was involuntary it would be rape
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 06:19 PM
1

You already acknowledged I'm not celibate so I have no idea how you made teh case for that, nor do I care to go back and read it.s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 06:17 PM
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You might not be celibate then I'm not "involuntarily celibate". Easy Not reading the rest, I'm pretty sure it's not worth my time
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 05:52 PM
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what do you think "involuntary" means? what do you think "celibate" means? I'm choosing voluntarily NOT to be celibate. This honestly shouldn't have you all stumped so bad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 05:43 PM
1

then what are a set of true ideas that you know of that challenge TRP and the mainstream?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 05:38 PM
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How does the more intense, crueler, meaner tone of mainstream ideas make them BS? It seems like you just don't agree with the tone, you even say "it's not the worldview that most people are against, but how it's expressed"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 05:35 PM
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I mean yeah, since figuring out the meaning of certain words is a trivial problem, at least to most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 05:30 PM
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well I have sex so calling that "incel" might be a sign of low intelligence, but that's not my problem
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 05:08 PM
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You're talking about "getting too muscly" but this isn't even the topic of conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:59 PM
1

It's inaccurate. I fuck hookers regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:56 PM
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Tomboys are women who tend to be unattractive and act manly, I think this narrows down why men don't care. Nothing wrong with acting manly, but for men to pay attention they need to be physically attractive (at least physically attractive enough)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:51 PM
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I agree, BUT It's from a mismatch of expectations. One party thinks things are are / were going great and the other just suddenly stops interacting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 04:28 AM
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Are there attractive tomboys or are they just ugly women who act manly? /u/Yukbghhjj can you give an example of someone who's a tomboy?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 02:26 AM
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I've been accused of being an incel plenty on this sub before, why should I care?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 02:20 AM
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I've rarely ever seen tomboy women ever in my life. Definitely haven't as an adult. I'm guessing Emma Stone in Superbad would be a tomboy, but still, that's in a fictional movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:24 AM
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It's a quote from the BBC science documentary "The Female Human", narrated by David Attenbourgh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 11:40 PM
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lol OP is a fucking boss
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 11:37 PM
9

??????? who tf said anything about staring. Stop trying to change the subject
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:25 PM
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Because men don't make excuses about things like this. Women seem to be embarrassed by admitting the truth so they try to bend the truth, it just makes people criticize them even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:19 PM
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but they are though. If you go by their behaviors, they're just as much attention whores that men are if not more Never listen to what women say, it's a huge waste of time
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:52 PM
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wow, interesting. such an insightful observation /s I'm convinced, they do it to get compliments from other men /S
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 07:40 PM
1

I kind of want to see a word where this backfires and it produces a bunch of black pilled Darth Vaders that turn on society. you know, just to make things interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 07:36 PM
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you think guys want to be oggled by other guys or something? It goes without saying that the goal is to get attention, recognition and to show off to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 07:27 PM
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Why do men like to be shirtless in gyms? for attention, to get recognition, to show off Men usually won't bullshit you about this though the way women do. If a guy starts making excuses like women do he ends up looking silly
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 07:14 PM
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I think alcohol just makes women "feel sexy", and if they feel sexy they're also likely to feel horny too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:27 PM
12

Boomer and early genX era sounds like it was pretty great to be a young adult, mid-late 1980s and early 90s. It really seems like things took a cliffdive late 00s, just as I was becoming an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:06 AM
1

Oh. Yeah I can relate to their choice except the celibate part I just hire hookers once in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:03 AM
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I'm confused, are you talking about yourself, here? I'm talking about generally, obviously there are single women who abandon dating entirely but there's women that don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:45 PM
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Originally my goal was to find a pretty, low maintenance forever-girlfriend. Failed at that pretty badly, every single chick I ever got with felt neglected. It wasn't really advice, but realization that I'm pretty much a born loner and having a gf is just not compatible with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:04 PM
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yeah, maybe she'll stay single and have fun with friends and family but PROBABLY she will still be on the dating market trying to hide how damaged she is
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:49 PM
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Makes literally no difference to me. Ghosted, closure, whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:39 PM
1

For marriage minded women: anything more than 0 by 18 anything more than 1 by 22 anything more than 2 after 22 she's unfit for marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:36 PM
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Nah,I'd rather she get over herself now, otherwise in 10 years she'll probably still be on the dating market a ruined person and trying to hide it from everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 03:01 PM
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wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 02:52 PM
1

wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 02:12 PM
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If it doesn't mean anything, why are women so strongly against being included in it? See, they're smart. The men who defend it are idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:19 AM
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why don't they?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:40 AM
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but you won. I was just trying to help lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:55 AM
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they're ok with it as long as the guy is a Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:48 AM
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Yes, I've conceded the debate. You should probably claim your prize from the PPD mods and send them a link to this exchange informing them that you've won.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:36 AM
1

I'm bad at it but I'm not "that bad" at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:14 AM
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I think they're fine as long as the guy doesn't marry her, so imo your sister's husband made a mistake. Did your sister's ex-husband end up cheating on your sister?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:05 AM
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You said my argument was circular because my argument was circular. So you also made a circular argument, but you're arguing against using circular arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:59 AM
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Ok fine, then what does "that important" mean compared to merely "important" You're the one who brought up the semantic shit so why don't you explain the difference to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:37 AM
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this is the answer
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:35 AM
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The question is: how attractive is SHE? I wouldn't be ok with it if she's average looking. Imagine an average chick acting like you're not good enough for her. fuck that, I'd tell her to get over herself. If she's really hot, at least her shirking her hypergamy actually means something. She really is doing you a huge favor by dating you. most women are actually the first chick, but they act like they're the second chick
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:51 AM
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What's the difference between something that's "important" and something that's "SO important"? What are examples of things that are SO important?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:40 AM
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The fact that most people agree that it's important is proof that it is. You can't just decide for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:03 AM
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really though, why bother trying to make a good impresion on the PPD women? who cares. Imagine RP men just said what PPD women wanted to hear, ok now what?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 02:26 AM
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Recent STI test results and accepts cash
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 02:23 AM
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Probably never. Dysfunctional society will either collapse or undergo violent change (probably fascism) before trying to do anything about male sexlessness. 40%, 50%, 60% whatever it will probably remain an area of least concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:02 AM
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This doesn't work for probably 80-90% of guys. If I did this I would have dated no one in my whole life. There was one woman who I might say "worshipped" me but she was so insanely far below my league looks-wise that I almost took it as an insult when she tried to make moves. And I think that might have been a once in a lifetime thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:27 PM
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hmmm ok, interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:53 PM
1

the purge concludes these words mean nothing to me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:12 AM
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he just needs to sunglassesmax then he's a 9/10 for most chicks ​ https://bodyartguru.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/09/broken-heart.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:54 AM
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I said 9. 5 is much closer to 9 than 21 would be. What about the Average bodied chicks in there? And the slightly chubby chicks? The first 2 examples on that graphic probably wouldn't fit into a b cup. A quarter of the women on that graphic are overweight wtf are you talking about fat women aren't desirabe. Literally the only body type missing is "squishy apple" I'm out, no point debating with someone this disingenuous
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:01 PM
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mmmmmm I'm gonna say BOTH despite what delusional men on PPD say, Plenty of Women(TM) date weird gross guys with different length arms all the time. Only difference is -- those guys don't hate women! If men on PPD ever bothered to go outside they would see it. my man happens to be more like 2, but that's just what I'm attracted to. And we were both virgins when we met. I could see myself datign #1 too if he has a good personality, tee hee
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:11 PM
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It was cold out so he gave me his gloves A glove wearing man. This guy had to be one classy mf-er
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:07 PM
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The graphic has a short girl who's as flat as a board, a tall girl that looks like a stick. A muscly girl with a straight waist and broad shoulders. Some that look like perfect hourglass. Average body type. A couple of chicks that are more boxy shaped. Chicks that are pear shaped. Thick women. There's a couple of BBW body types. Apple shaped is the main body type that reliably predicts unhealthy predispositions, the fact that men prefer a variety of 9 other body types ranging from 90-250lb is so…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:33 PM
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Seriously, you'd think PPD women with their many fulfilling relationships would have more to say
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:05 PM
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Nah, you don't need to be extremely tech savvy Use an amnesiac operating system on a burner laptop, use i2p protocol, sell the laptop for parts afterwards. Requires basic tech savviness and a few online guides. Possibly a vpn outside of the US to be safe, and you might not even need encrypted email to send the link It's not ethical, but it is moral because it's truth and an innocent person stands to benefit from truth that has been hidden from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:55 PM
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Today it's a fictional character. In a few weeks she'll probably admit that one of these characters reminds her of a guy she knows in real life. And when you accept that, you might be more open to an open relationship. Women are schemers like this. Watch out. If you find yourself a bitch that fantasizes about a fictional character who you could see as an idealized version of you, that's a keeper.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:48 AM
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As far as different body shapes and sizes, it's a very wide range. Arguably a much wider range than the bodies that women tend to find attractive of men. That was the only claim in the OP
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:25 AM
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you're a snooze fest please stop talking
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:58 AM
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First or second story? There's a major difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:57 AM
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Oh. Yea then just send it anonymously I guess. ezpz
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:43 AM
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You said only a small minority would go for #19 but I'm sure we can agree that most guys would go for #13. How is that possible if they look kinda the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:35 AM
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Doubtful there's hard proof though. Realistically the only evidence he has are probably corroborating testimonies but this is risky and can't be done anonymously
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:17 AM
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If you had to guess, what score/10 do you think a guy would give to #13 as opposed to #19
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:33 AM
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STOP! Exposing a hoe at work is extremely dangerous. He might not care. First find out what his views are on hoes. First make sure the other guys are willing to back up your claims. Also, she will deny, so if you don't have real dirt it's your word against hers and she will win. She will manipulate and cry and try to get everyone against you if she finds out who it was. She might even take you to court, and the judge will know she's probably a big fat hoe but he won't care, he'll still order you…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:18 AM
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You say "those girls". If it's not too personal a question, which one do you look closest to? I promise not to be a jerk
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:07 AM
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If you look like either of those chicks listed as "chubby" or "thick chubby" you'll never have problems getting guys, trust me on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:55 AM
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You would be wrong about that. Unless by "chubby" you actually mean "morbidly obese". You see "chubby" and "thick chubby" from the OP's photo, somewhere between 70-80% of guys would go for that even though they're clearly overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:34 AM
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I think few guys ever really break it down consciously for themselves. Many people kind of go through life based on trying to fulfill expectations, or chasing irrational goals without a clear system, and so on. Sometimes having a person breaking your options down for you can be eye-opening, like looking at a map of the landscape. Society will never be honest with you, I doubt they themselves even even realize they're repeating falsehoods most of the time, so how are they ever gong to tell you th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:22 AM
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Marriage just isn't for me but if 2 consenting adults enter into a Shariah agreement, sure why not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:06 AM
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So anyway we can bring it to the original topic or I'm going to start telling you to fuck off with your off-topic aside, what's it going to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:53 PM
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Like I said, you brought that up halfway through. That's the FIFTH comment down the chain. You don't get to change up the subject on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:47 PM
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Nope.Your words: It's just so frustrating you know. You try so hard to please your wife but deep down this mocking pity is all they feel. my comment that you replied to wasn't about baby mamas and neither was the OP. You started bringing up baby mamas and so on halfway probably because you realized you fucked up, but it's ok I'll keep bringing it back to the topic until you get sick of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:36 PM
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using it to enjoy a certain experience with a person. They're both involved in that experience, so they both get to spend the money for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:32 PM
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No arguments here, and I'm sure that happens also to some degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:23 PM
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The fungibility of money is exactly the reason that child support being spent only on your child is practically impossible unless she only had children from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:17 PM
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out-of-wedlock babies off topic. The topic was married men failing to please their wives. You can try to gradually change the subject to baby mamas and out of wedlock babies because you're backed into a corner, but don't worry I'll make sure we stay on topic and beat you over the head with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:01 PM
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Imagine a single mom of 2. One from Chad and one from Brad. What's to stop the woman from spending the child support money on new sneakers for Chad Jr?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:57 PM
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Damn, I never realized how some of that child support money probably goes to paying for another man's kid instead of his own. lmao!! American men are cucked to the gills
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:53 PM
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Marriage rates are barely 50% in recent years. Even assuming that marriage rates were concentrated among the middle class and professionals you'd still be flat out wrong, and you're especially wrong if you exclude boomers. Even women report feeling less pressure to get married. Nobody gives a shit anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:42 PM
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You're grasping at straws now. Most men don't belong to those "certain echelons".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:12 PM
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Fuck that. Having a wife is a meme now, for the men still putting themselves in that situation, it's their own fault and they deserve to pay the consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:05 PM
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It's nothing new to us, men already say that this is because of AF/BB, we've been making the case for this for a long time now. This is just being presented by a seething woman who might have a learning disability. "I've figured it out" lmfao, finally
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 09:55 PM
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That was the most female-tier troll attempt I've ever seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 09:20 PM
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It's not enough that men be into a much larger variety of body types and shapes, they should also be into old and ugly and women with unhealthy fat distribution too. There should be no beauty standards whatsoever for women (conveniently avoids mentioning anything about the limited female range) Ah, the female perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:50 PM
2

Yeah, liberating yourself from the never-ending bullshit is priceless. You can have women without the bullshit if you adjust a little, hopefully more men see the path.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:09 PM
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A more sizeable...minority. Compare that to women constantly downplaying muscular men to make it seem like THAT's the minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:53 PM
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Not all men have self respect and will do anything for pussy, shocking.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:44 PM
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It's a lame idea for a date early on, considering how few the first couple of dates ever turn into anything more. You're basically asking a guy to over-invest not only his money but also his time on meeting someone that most likely won't turn into much. Maybe 10 or 20 times before anything does. It makes sense if the guy was already had it in mind to check out that restaurant, otherwise it's the sign of a lame ass woman who doesn't respect your time or money.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:35 PM
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more than a few women who are into skinny guys this is a weird way of saying "a small minority of women". You're just reinforcing the OP and the linked study.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:23 PM
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Yall need to expand horizons. Life in the West is not the end all be all of the world. What Asian country are you basing this on? In my experience, height preference was definitely the case when I was an expat in South Korea. Tons of single short men, guys with the most attractive girlfriends also happened to also be freakishly tall. The point about these women being attractive is that when they can choose any type of guy they want -- there is a clear preference for height.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:50 PM
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Be my guest
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:19 PM
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Lol I would love to see the rise of a female eugenicist leader. She would probably get herself assassinated so quickly, it would be hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:15 PM
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Doesn't matter lol. Even if men refuse to, they'd still be entitled to it. They're just not taking advantage of that entitlement. Men just want to be entitled to free sex from attractive women. And personally, I agree that they're entitled to it. This is why there were sex slaves in the past, and probably why sex bots will be this new illicit sex trade in the near future.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:37 PM
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Sex can be commodified, so as long as they're willing to pay for it men actually are entitled to sex. It's just like $200-300 to fuck a chick way out of most men's league, and bonus: it's the type of whore that doesn't expect to be wined and dined first. Women aren't entitled to the men they swoon for, and unless they were born pretty, nothing in the world will ever make it happen for them. Women like OP probably look so fucking busted they only get an endless sea of lames to choose from and not…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:57 AM
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There's really no reason to act surprised. Men try to tell women all the damn time that men mostly become friends hoping it will lead to sex, but instead of shutting up and listening for once these birds argue back that men really do want to be platonic friends and end up being wrong like 95% of the time and feewing sad awwW :( In your case OP, imagine a bunch of bi dudes had warned you that bi's habitually befriend hetero guys to make a sexual move but you ignored their warnings, that would hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:36 AM
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Can you fuck off already? Needy ass bitches, man
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:33 AM
1

Holy shit you're persistent. I'm NOT reading your messages.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:12 PM
1

You should just start getting used to living alongside people who really, really don't like you, and the uncertainty of who that might be. Get used to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:24 PM
1

huh? What?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:17 PM
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What's an example of a man who women respect but never has sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:42 PM
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women aren't born looking hot Now I know I'm talking to a full blown autistic woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:29 PM
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Sure, if they were born with their resources, which is almost never. Women can love guys who inherit huge amounts of wealth and just live life as whoever they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:17 PM
1

I can see why an accurate understanding of women might seem strange to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:16 PM
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Society says you can't discriminate against black women, they're kind of like a sacred group of cherished people. Society is ok with discriminating against short men, that's like a worthless group of subhumans to society. I didn't make the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:10 PM
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That's discrimination, being black isn't something you can change.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:06 PM
1

If she does nothing except look attractive, what part of her personality is he loving her for? The ass and titties part
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:47 PM
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Before the massive wave of spinsterdom we're about to experience, they just found a husband and didn't have to bother anyone else. At least historically, but that's definitely not going to happen anymore. deep down they kind of know they're going to be a burden, I don't think they mind, many of them probably feel entitled to it. They're women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:38 PM
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Men can love a woman even if all she does is be hot and lounge around the house in pajamas all day. It doesn't matter how attractive the guy is, he will eventually need to start bringing things to the table. Having some utility is always a requirement for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:03 PM
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It's such a joke that women can even imagine stepping to men. Deep down they're terrified that men can be just as fucked up to them as they are to anyone who makes themselves an enemy. I almost worry for women sometimes. In the future many of us might be fending for ourselves, but I'd much rather be a man fending for myself among women who hate me, than be a woman fending for myself among men who hate me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:28 PM
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I don't know if it will change the dating market but it's already clear a serious population decline is probably going to happen in most western countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:51 AM
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Women will plug their to this one ears every time. I think it would really hurt women psychologically if they discovered that it's true, but denial is one hell of a coping mechanism.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:47 AM
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Honest to God I didn't hate women until I started reading comments from women on PPD. I think you gals do the rest of women a huge disservice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:23 AM
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But question is, do women really deserve anything better than licking wrinkly old TRP grandpa ballsack
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:06 AM
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You're already allowed to abort your child for any reason you want, you don't need special permission for "short sons" you retard lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:55 AM
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That's just the reality for men, we usually just take it one opportunity at a time. Most guys are a bit like scavengers in the dating marketplace, you can tell from their behaviors. Your personal experience may vary, but no one cares. We can't verify, so it's little more than words and posturing from someone who wants to feel self-important.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:39 AM
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You, a typical silly woman, bonded over your friend's drama. You think men will respond the same way when they're listening to your relationship drama with some dude? Not gonna happen. At best we'll tolerate it and say we care.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:04 AM
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she had some bad gas and ran off to unload it somewhere, it smelled horrible because she ate a cauliflower salad earlier, and then she felt too unsexy to do more so she decided to discuss with her friend about the exact dimensions of each penis they've sucked that month which took up the rest of the night happens all the time bro don't even sweat it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:58 AM
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Guys, don't give a fuck what what anyone thinks of you except for your probation officer
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:07 AM
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Girls also want a chocolate cake that will make them skinny Bad boy will be sweet to you as long as you never piss him off. Most bad boys end up with some domestic violence incident eventually, it just comes with the personality type.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:50 AM
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Don't be the boring guy who buys her flowers, be the exciting guy who slams her head against the wall in a heated argument. Women live for that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:36 AM
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Those guys usually have a few options and you're being a pickme along with 1 or 2 other girls vying for his attention. This is just how it works with pickmes, you're usually not the only one. Being a pickme doesn't really hurt your chances, but pickmes end up feeling butthurt because they "did so much for him and got nothing!"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 06:48 AM
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but you have to make sure to force a laugh anyway, or she'll start to feel uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 06:26 AM
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Would you ever go out of your way to hang out with a boring, insecure dude with stupid NPC tier opinions and who's entire sense of humor revolves around making sarcastic comments? That's basically what the average chick is like, except she's got a pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:56 AM
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pick someone who's company you enjoy lol "pick someone". That's how I know this post was was written by a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:10 AM
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among men, the prevalence of obesity was 40.3%...among women, the prevalence of obesity was 39.7% Proof that more women care about their appearance than men -- a whole 0.6% more!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:02 AM
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If making more money or having more sex is how you're going to try to come to terms with death, I almost feel sorry for you. Nothing but a controlled mind can help you, but hardly anyone bothers with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:50 AM
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the unavoidable unfairness and cruelty that is existence. Dating is kind of a joke for this. I think an even better one is the process of dying. No one wins, we will most likely die of heart disease, and hopefully not cancer or dementia. Happy new year, we're one step closer to that day!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:28 AM
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“Chad” apparently impregnates all the women but doesn’t pay any child support since he contributed his “alpha” genes (lol), which leaves women to go scrambling for beta bux (according to TRP). “Chad” is also an extremely charismatic man that can effortlessly get any woman Even assuming this as the exact definition of "Chad", obviously there are at least some men out of millions who have done exactly this. It's irrelevant whether you personally know a guy like that. Also, how about some of you un…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:14 AM
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who
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:08 AM
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Fuck what your post is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:04 AM
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If women say don't want to stay virgins, that's fine. If men dare say they don't want to marry a used up woman, well they need to change their attitude! Both should be fine. We need to realize that marriage only works in conservative, traditional societies but we live in a modern, liberal society. The incentives of marriage in a modern liberal society are all misaligned. Are we just too dumb to figure out something better? This shit about used up Western women demanding marriage is getting silly…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:45 AM
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Asian guys definitely seem to have better skin. In the end, I don't think anyone really cares. Having nice skin doesn't seem to help dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:26 AM
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what makes you think they don't? Except for the checking out part, first they need to prove they can do everything men can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:18 AM
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Honestly none of what OP wrote sounds bad except the "topless" bit. I don't even mind the guy being low/middle status as long as he's got a clean record and I get to approve him too. There are a lot of millenial chicks who are about to tap into their friends and family as a "social safety net" to try to stay happy in life, not realizing they're actually a burden but everyone's too nice to say something.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:11 AM
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Didn't read that either. I can see some words out of the corner of my eye, but I honestly have no idea wtf you're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:49 AM
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Fathers already know what daughters get up to in college and have to watch them grow up to be 30, directionless, childless and on antidepressant medication. They just try to be understanding out of love for their child. But I'd rather send my daughter to wife school because I want a better life for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:40 AM
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they did everything for their partner and received nothing in return Pickmes almost never target a guy who likes them back. They feel entitled to things from a guy, then they get upset when the guy isn't into her. "But I acted so needy and annoying around you! I deserve x, y and z!"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:35 AM
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I stopped reading at "cope and seethe"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:09 AM
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Men understand that girls bond over talking about their "problems" aka relationship drama, which is why generally they don't want friendships with women. Women seem to think that if women bond over listening to each other's "problems" aka relationship drama, then men should be the same. Just women being dumb as usual
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:03 AM
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you're not a very good troll are you? keep practicing you might get an angry reaction out of someone one day
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:44 AM
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Neither was anything you posted
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:38 AM
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This is the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:35 AM
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omg, like, so much this!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:01 AM
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reported to the mods this should be a CMV
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:38 AM
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Bloomberg opinion article lol the author's name is "Cathy O'Neil" Cathy O'Neil's profile picture is a fat middle aged hag with short blue hair 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:44 PM
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Do you know how much money a companion robot that its users are emotionally attached to could generate for Google or Facebook? lol There's no debate to be had, the market is only growing thanks to the ever worsening dating market. We live in a world where a major chunk of face to face interaction with people in your local community has been replaced by everyone sending text messages to each other, I can only imagine how wrong you would have been about that 20 years ago, talking about how these p…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:19 PM
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I disagree, I like prostitution being "illegal" or grey market. Legalization is probably the worst thing that can happen, women and US government will ruin it. What will continue to change the landscape are apps that connect men to prostitutes with a low risk of being caught. Tinder + instagram are already starting to do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 04:59 PM
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Dudes are going to make fun of it at first and act like they don't want one, then once they're clearly here to stay they'll buy one "just to clean their house" and will end up having sex with them within a week. It's so predictable. Women will probably suddenly start being a little nicer when they come out, especially to guys who ridicule it, and go into full blown bitch mode when they realize men are buying them in droves for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 04:42 PM
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the point of bringing up the surgeon is this: status is the only way for men to be included in "valuable people" that women are born into by default. Men need to make themselves into something like a life saving surgeon to convince society their lives don't belong in "least value" group with the rest of the men. Women don't really need to be life saving surgeons, they're women and society already values their lives pretty highly without them doign anything. There are little details in everyday l…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:28 AM
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easy, I'm going to expose your bullshit! well technically I've already done that, but you continuing to make a fool of yourself just drives the point home
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:12 AM
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That's all pretty irrelevant. The cheap sperm/expensive eggs explanation that you offered in your comment is mostly bullshit, that's the only point I was making.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 12:21 AM
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It has nothing to do with their eggs or sperm but with the (now outdated) attitude that women hold a special status in society, but also that men and women should be considered as equals. Society is made up mostly of dumb people who are afraid to think too hard. People make entire careers in academia out of taking advantage out of this, so it's not surprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 09:10 PM
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Wrong. A woman whose had her tubes tied or who's going through menopause will still be valued by society over most men. It's value literally just for being a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 08:02 PM
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It just refers to the difference of how people are valued by society. If there were 3 people and life pod / life raft that fit only 2 people, who would society choose to sacrifice? A 42 year old male furniture store clerk?, the 42 year old female librarian, or a male world reknowned heart surgeon? Almost always, society would sacrifice the male 42 year old clerk, and choose to save the female librarian and heart surgeon. Things being roughly equal, society will value women more. You don't even h…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 07:28 PM
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Black pill is probably the oldest. There are passages in ancient Hindu texts that have some pretty black pilled messages. The Hebrew Bible / Old Testament has some "problematic" passages also.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:44 AM
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you need to embrace who you are, and start liking yourself I know you're trying to come off like a sagely wise grandma but you actually come off like a silly presumptive grandma with comments like these lol as much as I like myself, I will not be able to stand certain other people. Just part of life
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:38 AM
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Almost every man tells on himself Who is the authority figure that men are "telling on themselves" to?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:15 AM
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The major overlaps that are missing are flirting and escalating -- those are definitely a separate skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:58 AM
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I was just pointing out that your comment had a lot of mention of divorce/ marriage / remarriage for a question that had barely anything to do with these topics
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:40 AM
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You’re so misguided or misinformed. Actually no, I've been there and done that. NEXT
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:34 AM
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incel red pill dudes with massive abusive tendencies. Guys are just there to get some pussy from a pretty girl. You act like redpill men would go down there to slap women in the face and hose them down naked with ice cold water while calling them a cunt at the top of their lungs. But look, they enjoyed it, ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:17 AM
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Often Eastern men are arguably shittier in their estimation. I know this was the attitude in South Korea when I visited among a lot of women, they assume western men are more sympathetic whatever feminist grievance against patriarchy is going on over there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:08 AM
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I think it's going the path of "serial monogamous" relationships with people not being married. Still monogamous but hopping from one guy to the next, just being your turn to prove you're the perfect guy for her and her crotch spawn.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:06 AM
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nobody is locked/shamed into a miserable marriage Marriage is becoming obsolete quickly which I agree is probably a good thing for everyone since it's been turned into a life destroying institution for a lot of people, but OP was specifically asking about monogamous relationships which doesn't necesarily require marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:59 AM
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so you have to work harder to win them over: buying them dinner is an example of that Telling dudes that dinner can ever "win a woman" over is a scam. Stuffing food down your gullet isn't going to make you want a guy where you weren't so sure before -- ever. Just stop lying, hardly anyone falls for it anymore. Women realize they can scam guys like this, but they don't want men to walk away from the scam entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:48 AM
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I think I'm one of the very few people on PPD who will admit that I don't really like women so much. I'm neutral on most men, but I find women to be at least mildly irritating almost always. Thirsty simps aside, I'm surprised at how many RPers will go to bat for women when pressed on the issue. They get called woman haters a lot but I think deep down they're actually woman lovers
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:11 AM
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My thoughts are that it's not true, women still get approached, but for guys that approaching waste of time are just learning quicker. The guys that know it's not a waste of time for them probably still approach, but it's way fewer of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 01:16 AM
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"Well, they call me King Turd up here on Shit Mountain, if you want it you can have the crown"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 09:02 PM
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If apps aren't doing it for you, find a social circle. It's the same advice offered to men that complain about apps anyway, and STILL way easier to do as a single woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 07:57 PM
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Do you ever see young couples in London? Because that was a guy that approached a girl almost 99% of the time. If men have really stopped approaching, it's probably just them adapting to the gender dynamics bullshit way sooner than I thought. Hopefully big cities in the US follow suit because I'm curious to see where this all leads.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 07:50 PM
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Would you feel differently about adopting an orphan baby whose parents died in a war No, I wouldn't feel differently adopting an orphan whose parents died in war -- sad as their situation may be I wouldn't voluntarily adopt them in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 07:29 PM
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i didn't say it did I'm not really here to argue. You do what you want with the information I've offered you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 07:13 PM
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You're not that attractive. You're average and getting mogged by actual attractive girls, who are approached, and they have the leverage to demand relationships from guys they like. Your intended market determines your level of attractiveness -- not "older people".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 07:11 PM
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want to actually embrace the system as it is and use it to their very advantage. Unless you're one of the high tier / high status men you were mentioning, you're going to end up feeling disposable and like no one wants to invest in you. No matter how much you claim to embrace the system they'll just give you a pat on the head and go get fucked by other guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:57 PM
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I get told I'm attractive by older men and women being told this from older men and women actually means "you may not be as pretty as the pretty girls, but you're not hideous so I think you need to hear this" attractive girls don't really need to hear they're attractive from anyone, it's like all they ever hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:35 PM
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Yes, but when put it into practice just a heads up it will lead to people accusing you of selfishness.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 01:40 AM
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I don't understand why women are villainized so much here, I really don't. No one owes you approval
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 12:00 AM
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share the increase in wealth over the course of the relationship, making the assumption that each party equally contributed which is pretty much never the case
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 06:34 PM
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If that higher level of happiness can't arise from within themselves, but only from another, they're not really self-satisfied. They become other-satisfied from an external source.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 05:50 AM
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There was absolutely nothing wrong with women or the way they choose guys I get how this mindset might be beneficial for a TRP trying to power through with a stoic mindset, but it's just not correct because bad choices have bad consequences -- both for themselves and for the men who interact with them. Especially once you get into the 30s and 40s, when bad choices can make having a normal relationship with them impractical and undesirable, so that their only possible role in a man's life is as a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 04:24 AM
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Wrong, when paired with "gander" it refers specifically to female.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 04:00 AM
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If you were self-satisfied, a relationship would literally add nothing to your life. 2 self satisfied people would probably be polite with each other, but would have no purpose to enter into a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 03:30 AM
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Goose is female goose, gander is male goose. https://therationalmale.com/2019/07/26/heirs-of-the-blank-slate/ Rollo Tomasi was a critic of blank slate equalism. Being a "goose-ganderist" is basically being a blue pilled blank slate equalist. In the context, he probably wasn't making a case for that proverb but bringing it up as an example of blue-pilled thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 03:25 AM
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his is why you never talk about your sexual past with men. It's 2021, women are sexually liberated, sexual exploration is encouraged, it would be naive not to assume you've gotten around quite a bit. If anything, men are more likely to overestimate how much you've hoed it up. edit: sure downvote me, but it's just facts 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 08:52 PM
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With this logic, a disease that kills 99% of the male population is good for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 05:18 PM
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ok then
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 05:32 AM
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Never explain yourself to people that don't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 05:25 AM
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From what I've seen, they're busy on weekends for weddings and during school photo season or they're doing part time stuff. Or they have the occasional family photo shoot. I think it varies.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 05:24 AM
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Nah. I have family that does wedding and senior photos in a small town. They're boomers, they know how to use a camera but barely know how to use photoshop. For them it's not even comparable to an software engineer where things are changing at a ridiculous pace.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 05:16 AM
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With this logic, a disease that kills 50% of the male population is good for men, because less competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 02:25 AM
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depends which type of professional photographer Probably not a photographer that just does weddings and school photos
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 02:19 AM
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the mods are size queens
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 02:14 AM
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due to Trash encouraging him heh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 01:58 AM
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You should add more things to your life to get women Nah, I'm good.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 12:54 AM
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Yeah both of you are right. Looks are the main thing for women, but the standard for how good you need to look to make a guy interested is ridiculously forgiving.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 06:50 PM
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Yeah, I've never met a woman who is cool as a pickme in her pre-commitment stage but actually 100% genuine about it too. It's either pickmes just putting on an act or more genuine chicks that are, unfortunately, not as fun to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 06:08 PM
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I agree. I think this is why women HATE it when men say anything positive about pickmes and make arguments like "only a low value man would want a pickme". You're kind of giving away the script for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 05:24 PM
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The problem here is reading comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 06:13 AM
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I don't know how I could make it more clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 05:15 AM
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the point of the joke isn't to make you laugh, but for us to laugh at YOU. And it works great to that end.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 04:35 AM
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If it's different women with differing opinions...then where ARE these women with differing opinions? Why are they so silent? It's like almost like women are terrified of not being in consensus with the group
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 04:26 AM
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We should promote promiscuity for everyone I call first dibs on your mom
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 04:06 AM
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I'm in favor of women's education
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 03:24 AM
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There's hookers every city you go, so there's really no excuse for not getting laid except maybe your own hangups.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 02:52 AM
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What’s the upside of being a RP man? Can't get a wife
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 02:05 AM
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I'm just not ok with society making life and death decisions for me "just in case". At least give me some good incentives to potentially lay down my life and a voluntary choice. But if you're not going to care about your own life, why should I.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 01:47 AM
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Whether there's a draft soon or not, society has already decided ahead of time that only men's lives are expendable. There's no clearer sign that society doesn't give a fuck about you than that. Hopefully dead bodies in coffins enjoy their annual memorial day celebration, because that's all they get.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 01:24 AM
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Nope. If shit hits the fan in your country guess who's being sent to die? You are, you owe society your life. Guess what your society thinks it owes you? Nothing. It takes a bit of courage to look straight at reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 01:06 AM
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Society hardly gives a shit about men either way, so it's not like that changes anything
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 12:58 AM
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and I don't feel even a little bit bad about it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 12:52 AM
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well.. fuck. I guess I still hate women's opinoins on pretty much everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 12:49 AM
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This is one where I strongly sympathize with women. If you're offering your dude enthusiastic sex but he's watching porn instead, why should a chick with any self respect stay with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 12:12 AM
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Hmmm yeah I don't know about that. I can't remember ever writing a long whiny wall of text like you just did
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 12:03 AM
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Whether you were asking about blackpillers or redpillers, I'm still saying something. I don't care which one. I'll say something if I feel like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 11:55 PM
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I don't care who you asked about
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 11:48 PM
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do you see Red Pill Men as the ideal partner for a traditional marriage/relationship? OP do you think redpill men are even worried about this? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 11:45 PM
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Marriage is a hard "no" in the current legal / social environment. Husband material means sucker material always.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 10:53 PM
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It has to be! I mean what are the odds be that there's just a lot of crazy bitches out there
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 09:44 PM
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weird post, for men it's not just one thing like you're making it out to be. By your definition Jeff Bezos would be the highest value man but really he's the world's richest asshole who nobody likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 09:16 PM
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It kind of warms my heart that there's a bunch of butthurt women too and it's not just men. Sucks doesn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 07:55 PM
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Weird. It definitely feels like I am for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 06:51 PM
1

I didn't say "it's about" pickup, just that some pickup is involved. Red pillers still try to get sex somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 06:41 PM
2

That's probably projection. Women hate insecure men even if they're physically attractive, so they think men should respond the same. I don't think they realize that saying it works on insecure women, they're admitting that it works on the biggest segment of the female population. It's hard to say that insecure women are hotter when practically all women (all people) are insecure. There's no frame of reference to compare them to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 06:38 PM
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There is at least some pickup involved, TRP men still have to approach, build attraction and get the women in bed somehow. When critics say it works only on insecure women, they're referring to 'game'.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 06:31 PM
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I doubt it's ever changed anyone's mind. Saying it only works on insecure women is just a manipulation technique to try to get you to stop using TRP. But I guess I agree that practically all people (including women) are insecure about something.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 06:23 PM
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okay, if you say so :) I'll remember these details for the next time you decide to step out of line
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 06:06 PM
1

Maybe they both married insufferable cunts ah shit see what happens when you make things personal?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 06:01 PM
6

I'm starting to think your husband got cancer just from having to listen to you talk lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 05:58 PM
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Humans will always take more if possible. If you can get sex AND more benefits, you will. Men just know better than to demand more out of women. I doubt women really want men to demand more than just sex out of them, they just want to complain that anything at all is being expected of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:35 PM
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If they've been shown to lie on self reported data, then of course evidence that self reported data isn't reliable. If there was test where you could swab a pussy and it would tell you exactly how many dudes she's fucked, there would be an outrage and probably get banned before shit got too real.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:24 PM
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you still think I'm advocating for it. I don't care who dies, black pilled blue pilled, whatever. It will happen, whoever dies, dies. No one mourns the deaths of the "plack pilled" fascists, but the rest are mourned.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:13 PM
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we all know what happened after ww2 you're not special. I'm not saying it's a good thing, I'm just saying this is what will happen. At the rate we're going, a fascist (not Donald Trump, I mean a REAL fascist) is eventually going to gain popular support. And sure he's going to be overthown eventually, but a lot of shit will go down in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:02 PM
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going down the rabbit hole of hard-core conservatism is not the solution. But that's exactly the way it's going to go. It's only ever the fascist dictators to promise men a better future for them and actually deliver. It won't even be hard core conservatism, it will be a fascist dictator and academics already know it and are doing everything they can to stop their eventual persecution.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 03:53 PM
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and sometimes "I'm done fucking all the hot guys I'm ready for you to provide for me now" women are unintentional comedy gold how long before we see marriage in the single digits %, I wonder?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 03:43 PM
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lol I don't look much in the mirror, oh what a comebck
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 02:53 PM
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you're literally the most predictable person I've ever come across. It almost feels like straight up submissive obedience from you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 02:49 PM
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I know you will intentionally miss the point like I said https://www.upi.com/Health_News/2013/05/30/Men-lie-they-had-more-partners-women-lied-about-fewer/62281369935821/ willing to bet you will continue to miss the point
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 02:33 PM
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the average self reported male penis length is almost 8 inches if no one's checking to make sure. I know you will intentionally miss the point
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 02:29 PM
1

as far as I know this really is the strategy for a lot, if not most men. Not our fault, leading with sex is a surefire way to get labeled a creep even if that is your primary motivation. But being valued for pussy first and whatever else a distant second is an idea women really hate to think about and something most men hate to admit. I guess it can seem a bit hurtful and crass but...I really think it's true to a large extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 06:21 AM
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I'm sure it's enjoyable for women, maybe just as much as men, but in their own female way. Definitely not in the same way as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 05:28 AM
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LOL! Willing to bet it's a bunch of bored incels and MGTOWs whose community reddit banned now conducting psych warfare on normal people in relationships. Unintended consequences are a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:44 AM
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How do you know the twitch streamers never lie to the guy and say maybe they'd meet up soemtime even when they have no intention to? How do you know the girls never read too much into the player's intentions and the players always directly lie to them? Are women always honest and men always dishonest in whatever world you're currently living in?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:00 AM
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I agree. It must be the 4th or 5th time that I say, it's all fair game to me. Whether a player misleads a chick or a twitch thot misleads a simp -- that's their problem not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 03:55 AM
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Women aren't quite as stupid as you're making them out to be. They know when they've got a guy on the hook.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 03:50 AM
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Obviously I don't care about being a charmer with the ladies. Are you kidding me right now? lol Sorry, I view a man lying and manipulating the same as a woman lying and manipulating. I know, it must be weird for some people, but it's just that for me it's basically the same thing and I'm fine with both.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 03:37 AM
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They almost always single out guys who spend more money and ignore the rest of the commenters. Whether you see it for what it is or keep defending them I don't really care so much. Like I said I see these things as fair game, but I'm not going to feel bad about some simp who ruined his life just like I won't for a naive girl getting her pussy used like a cum rag and discarded by a player -- fuck her too. No one gets empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 03:30 AM
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It usually starts small like laughing at their jokes more in chat. They get disproportionately more attention, they're treated with more affection or flirting, they remember details about them and act excited to see them, sometimes they may get to a point where they chat privately and share personal information about their lives. You know, stuff that would lead you to think there's something more there. Small spenders never get any of this because there's probably not that much money to extract.…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 03:10 AM
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Twitch thots identify big spenders and manipulate them into thinking they might have a shot to meet eventually when they really don't. The dudes that are spending a few bucks here and there don't get any attention, she grooms the big spenders and bleeds them dry. Don't get me wrong, I think it's fair game. But I also think players using women is fair game too. Fuck them all up. Get that money, get that pussy, push fentanyl, brutalize citizens, betray the people who voted for you. I want to see w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 02:42 AM
2

Whenever you discard social stigmas and make your own choices in life the priority, your self esteem benefits from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 01:54 AM
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I'd say go in with realistic expectations. Sex feels nice and all, but not that amazing. Might explain why people start exploring kinks pretty quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 01:40 AM
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There are few things women of all experience levels hate more than weird, awkward sex, so you better have that threshold of experience under your belt. The rest of it is typical virtue signaling, as always.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 11:43 PM
0

Accept that you're not attractive enough to be with with the one you yearn for, and if you were, you wouldn't be seeking advice. This is even better advice, man or woman. But not something people are prepared to hear. We all want a little bit of hope, that's why it needs to be "be pretty and don't be a bitch", or the male equivalent "be attractive and confident". The advice needs to give us hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 10:25 PM
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be pretty and don't be bitch it's is basically the only advice men repeatedly offer women. The "advice" being posted here is advice men don't give in general, rather just something they think they heard a man say at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 09:22 PM
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it looks like you took a long time to write all that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 08:14 PM
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It's a well known PUA technique to get women talking about themselves ASAP but in a way that makes them feel good about who they are to trick them into thinking there's "a connection". Most of the time men don't really give a fuck that your parents sent you on a vacation to Costa Rica to feed impoverished kids, but it works like a charm for popping that pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 07:46 PM
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36M Lost it at 26 to the most expensive Thai gogo dancer I could get.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 02:53 AM
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because I live in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 12:35 PM
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Seen some of her interviews. She seems like the type of chick that does meditation. I'm only getting 'nice person' / agreeable notes from her, not much else. The type of girl you want to like because you know you should...sound familiar?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 07:02 PM
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I mean, true but here's my thought process: I've been around a good number of women, but never met women who are any fun to be around in my own real life. So I start to wonder, maybe women are just not that fun to be around? But then people object that high quality, fun women are out there, but the reason I've never met any is supposedly that *I* just suck too much. Fair enough, MAYBE it's true. It's worth examining. But then, celebrity women a) high quality b) publicly visible. There should be …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 06:40 PM
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like who?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 06:27 PM
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I like her but she ded
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 04:38 PM
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It has little to do with that. A lot men maybe don't hate her (I surely don't), but they wouldn't want to be hanging out with Oprah.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 04:30 PM
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Not that they had hit the wall, but especially sitting down to have a beer and a conversation with Emma Watson sounds like a short episode in a somewhat unmemorable nightmare I might have once had.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 04:23 PM
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I didn't even like Silverman's edgy comedy routines (tbh a lot of male comedians are just better routine comics) but I find her likeable just as a person in her interviews. I know certain guys can't stand her but imo she has a really interesting personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 06:43 AM
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Decent to top tier comedians. Think Aubrey Plaza onwards Please name them. I did discover Aubrey Plaza and Sarah Silverman in this thread but have never had much luck finding likeable female comedians. I find most other ones actively unlikeable but I'm sure I just don't know about many of the good ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 06:25 AM
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I generally agree, about the females for the most part which is why I made this post to challenge that view. My opinion hasn't changed much, but it has shown me that some females would be better than others to hang out with (or worse than others, depending on how you look at it)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 06:22 AM
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A balding guy (in high school!) with braces and acne had cheerleaders falling all over him?? Take these stories with a grain of salt. Half of the time when you read blog post types it's a person trying to emotionally process something that happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 05:34 AM
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Hm, no I think even really old dinosaurs would probably still be attracted to 20 and 30 year old women sexually, but he won't want them for a relationship. My wording was a bit vague I admit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 03:37 AM
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Not necessarily. For example I know I'd sleep with Aubrey Plaza but even if she friendzoned me I'd stay friends with her just because I find her legitimately funny and interesting as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 03:28 AM
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It's a stage of life thing. Of course, the 30 year old woman will win on looks, but they also tend to be very much into prioritizing their career demands and/or their younger children in a way that meshes very badly with 60 year old men. At 40, women have children in high school or about to leave the nest, and are somewhat established seniority in their career paths, and they're close enough for looks (also he's probably looking like a ripe potato by this age) I'm not saying it won't work, but i…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 03:16 AM
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There's really not a problem. There are limits to how much youth is valuable, even if you take a huge age difference. For example, take a 40 year old man dating a 20 year old woman, that's already prime pussy and the guy is a lucky old geezer. 10 years later he's a 50 year old geezer with a 30 year old woman -- would he really prefer a 20 year old? Probably not. He'll definitely not want a 50 year old woman if he can help it. And when he's 60, he's probably over the moon with a 40 year old but h…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 03:02 AM
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To be honest I liked Audrey Plaza's personality. It kind of seems like she's putting on an act but I would overlook it if I was hanging out with her. Youtube is down worldwide.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 01:10 AM
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who the heck is Elvira? A google search comes up with some lady role playing as a witch, is that who you mean or someone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 01:07 AM
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ok whatever I'm not reading that, post someone who would be interesting to hang out with or stay here and ramble about irrelevant shit by yourself, I really don't care which one you choose
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 12:40 AM
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I didn't answer my own question, I never asked WHY women prefer daytime television I asked why there aren't female late night talk show hosts. I mean, there are male daytime hosts, as you've just shown, regardless of who prefers what.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 12:25 AM
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omfg can you children stop that please?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 12:22 AM
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No straight man enjoys watching that. I did say late night talk show hosts for a reason. It's a different kind of conversation, it's more friendly banter style.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 11:59 PM
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Before or after the cocaine? Or is that even a question
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 11:53 PM
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You do get a chance to see them interact with people in interviews though. Here's Amber Heard talking to jimmy fallon https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HNwoRxZzbjM this bitch a snooze fest
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 11:32 PM
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Unlike real men who are ok with women bending the truth a little, we won't tolerate it when we find out the truth about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 10:38 PM
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Because enough men let us get away with it so it's really not such a big deal. Also even if you try to say anything, we'll probably just publicly shame you. Don't try that deception stuff on women though, it just won't fly 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 10:34 PM
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I meant men should be honest about who they are, not women! If we need to bend the truth a little to get what we want, that should be ok. That's not even lying, that's bending the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 10:29 PM
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Ew. If I women had to date without makeup, bra, heels it would basically make dating for us as hard as it is for men. So we'd actually have to be like in the top 20% of good looking women or we'd have to start actually bringing things to the table in a realationship like they're a guy? Expecting women to stoop down to this level is just gross and sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 10:13 PM
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No, you see it's the baggage of NOT being a cock on the carousel for so many years that makes men hit the wall. Just hit your prefrontal cortex really hard with a blunt object and you'll see it starts to make perfect sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 08:24 PM
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I almost hit the wall but decided not to bother reading it. Yikes!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 07:21 PM
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wowww. nice try I only wear it for myself, not for men. So where was I, oh yeah, it's very important to tell the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 07:10 PM
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All I'm saying is, why go through all that work just to be deceptive? If you heard some of the lies men have told me, it would make you blush. Someone will like you for who you are without having to makeup a bunch of lies and concealer the truth. Honesty is the foundation to a good relationship, remember this guys!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 06:48 PM
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Lying to make yourself look better than you really are. omg soo many guys do this! Just be your authentic self.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 06:02 PM
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If you don't bring it up, it's not really a fact yet. Like, why even bring up facts that make women look bad, it's totally unnecessary!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 05:23 PM
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Let's try this again. My comment: The word "evntually" shows how marriage only reinforces the idea of 80/20. Ironically, on PPD theconcept of a guy finding anyone at all, is often used by BP fags as a way to trivialize this dynamic. your direct reply to that comment: Wait, so you think that you're entitled to not just marriage but to have multiple concubines? Now, again, WHERE did I say anything about men being entitled to marriage, or anything about multiple concubines? Don't pretend like you a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 05:16 PM
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Yup, you're dishonest. If I thought that men were entitled to marriage, why would I say that getting married is too bad a fate for men? Can you stop playing dumb for a second? These were both things you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 04:13 PM
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Who cares if it's true? what matters is that women feel patronized by the truth. It's men's fault for bringing it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 04:07 PM
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you think that you're entitled to not just marriage but to have multiple concubines you originally said I had thought men were ENTITLED to marriage (and concubines, apparently). Are you changing it now because you're dishonest? Because it makes you look dishonest to me. Why did you just do a 180* turn on what you originally said?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 03:27 PM
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Guys like the ones in the photo? Yes, if not close to it. That's the typical kind of guy that describes himself as a 'late bloomer' to avoid looking at what happened in a desperate attempt to finally achieve some semblance of happiness in his life. Actually click on the link and look at the photos of these guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 03:15 PM
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you think that you're entitled to not just marriage but to have multiple concubines I have no idea how you could have deduced this from anything I actually wrote. What?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 03:01 PM
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seems like it went over your head too. I really need to work on my delivery.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 03:02 AM
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The word "evntually" shows how marriage only reinforces the idea of 80/20. Ironically, on PPD theconcept of a guy finding anyone at all, is often used by BP fags as a way to trivialize this dynamic. Of course, the years where guys like in that photo are completely invisible to women are somewhat glossed over, usually by omitting the word 'eventually'. Please laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 02:41 AM
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(that's the joke)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 02:21 AM
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Most of these guys will have no trouble finding someone who will marry them, eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 02:16 AM
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Yeah, and it's consistent. How are you NOT going to compare a person to previous people you've been with? It happens automatically for men and women. How is a guy supposed to compare someone with a porn star? Boobies and ass roundness? Moan sounds? Here is an actual statement that isn't ridden with false equivalency: a woman comparing you to previous men IS LIKE a man comparing his current girlfriend to previous women he's been with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 07:04 PM
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whatever helps you sleep at night bro Thinking that a man comparing his girl to porn stars he's never been with is anything like a woman comparing her current man to previous men she has been with is just totally off the mark. One of them happens autmatically, and the other one almost never does.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 06:58 PM
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As long as you're not the one comparing her to those women, the problem is an imagined one on her end. When men do this, it's called being insecure. On the other hand, for a man is "not-settled" for the problem is SHE will """not""" be comparing you with those men. Even if you're completely oblivious to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 06:44 PM
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Men don't live their lives expecting, hoping, trying or even wanting to lock down a porn star, so it's actually nothing like that at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 06:32 PM
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Don't be the man she "doesn't settle for after readjusting her attitude". Whatever you want to call it, however you want to dress it up, chances are much higher that you will regret ending up as that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 06:20 PM
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I agree, and even this is more credible than most anecdotes thrown around here
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/20 06:20 PM
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It's not an issue unless you *only* seek girls who have a career figured out. Whether you make it an issue is up to you. Instead of advice, here's some perspective: You're only 23 which means most of your dating pool will still be college-age. There lots of women in your dating pool in retail/service who won't lord their career at Chipotle over your head. Until you land a job, women with a career will usually be a pain in the ass to deal with. This is not advice, I'm just showing you the terrain…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/20 07:23 AM
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If you're as confident, tall, athletic, in shape, as you say you are, then you're probably going to have no trouble finding easy pussy. Actually it should be the last worry on your mind. The fact that you're on this subreddit asking where you stand makes me wonder if there's more to this story.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/20 04:34 AM
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It only matters in that it's usually among a few "minimum requirements" that men have to meet. Meeting it is necessary, but on its own not sufficient. When women say money is "not important", they almost always mean something like "it's not important for him to be making 6 figures".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/20 03:32 AM
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Oh just leave it at 'well you're an anger phaser!' and move on, sheesh. We're not even having a discussion anymore quit dragging it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/20 01:19 AM
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I bet you she'd say that type of stuff doesn't work on her even while it's in the middle of working on her 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/20 01:00 AM
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Anger Phaser Go ahead and try to make it about me, I don't care. I don't have to try to make you look bad, your weak arguments already took care of that for me. It was fun, let's do it again sometime.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/20 12:08 AM
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Wait, why change the subject when you were doing so well with your original shitty metaphor? Ok there's a handful of guys in the world making bum fight videos. Who are the men punking violent felons and dangerous thugs like you mentioned? Can we maybe get that number into the double digits? Wow, it really feels like we're on the cusp of exposing a very widespread male strategy here!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 10:33 PM
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Disagree with what? As I said there's no argument being made, it's just numbers. If you accept the methods of the study, then statistically those are the odds.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 09:43 PM
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I think he's saying that statistically there's a 94.6% chance that you wish your husband's wang was bigger. But "only" a 27% chance of you terminating the relationship over it. Not sure if there's an argument being made, but as a guy it's interesting to know. Based on what women say, I would have assumed these figures would be way lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 09:33 PM
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Lol, no we don't we just leave them alone and live our lives. Men definitely don't go around treating the homeless, violent felons and dangerous thugs like punks. They'd just be getting themselves killed eventually. I don't know what's making you say silly things like this, but I'm starting to think you might have over-invested in your shitty metaphor.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 07:01 PM
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Are you palling around with homeless dudes, mentally ill dudes, violent felons, or dangerous thugs? Why not? Right, men don't have a "dual buddy strategy". I'll never befriend these people and then blame it on their shortcomings when I treat them worse. We don't give these kinds of dudes some self-serving line about why we suddenly want to be friends, right as we hit a certain age range where making friends isn't so easy anymore. The whole point of this AF/BB dual strategy and then blaming the d…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 06:29 PM
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maybe, I don't know. I was just saying your original kids theory is logically bunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 06:47 AM
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If the reason to care about you looks is to have nice kids, then logically, people who don't care about having kids, wouldn't care about their looks. But that's not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 06:39 AM
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Women treat men according to their worth. Full stop Not really. It's also an option for men to grow a backbone and either accept only good treatment from everybody including women, or do without. Imagine some dude saying people need to live up to his X, Y, and Z expectations or he'll treat you like a punk. LOL! Most men would tell him to go fuck himself, now they just need to learn to say the same to women who think that way. Accepting bad treatment for any reason is an issue of lacking self res…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 06:18 AM
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username checks out, not all gals leave in the morning
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 06:28 PM
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yeah, I read it -- no one cares. Women can shame the fuck out of gold digging guys no one's going to protest about it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 12:38 AM
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So what? Discimination is wrong if done on the basis of race, sex, etc. It's fine to discriminate behaviors or habits, if you see a gold digging GUY, you have the right to discriminate him as much as a gold digging woman would be. Believe me, he's on his own, nobody will be trying to stand up for him and fighting a gauntlet on his behalf. This post is just mind numbingly dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 12:33 AM
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Why aren't there more gold digger CEOs? Why hasn't there been a gold digger president of the United States? I'll tell you why -- they're being discriminated! Gold diggers deserve a constitutionally protected status above criticism or reproach! Anyone caught saying mean things about gold diggers must be sent to the gallows!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 12:14 AM
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Gold digger shaming is a form of discrimination! Wealthy men denying gold diggers of free money is a violation of their basic human rights!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 11:56 PM
0

Literally nothing happens if it fails. It only saves me time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 11:17 PM
1

Ok, so what if those two things are similar? btw I have a red flair but I'm more of a mgtow so what you're saying might not apply to me if you think I'm TRP line of thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 02:50 AM
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that's cool, I'm not trying to convince you either way. I was just writing my personal reaction after reading that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 12:09 AM
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I stereotype almost every single woman I see. If she's an attractive outgoing girl, I assume she's a slut or has been a slut in the past. If she's in her 30s and single, she's probably easy to get in bed with a few well placed lies and then ghost. If she tries to act tough and makes a lot of sarcastic political comments, I assume she's an insufferable feminist. You'll find a lot of career women in this pile also. If she's a single mom, oh yes you better believe I stereotype the shit out of these…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 12:04 AM
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What a huge scam. Men who are still getting married are SO stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 11:54 PM
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I haven't had female friends because I have zero interest actually talking to women or hanging out with them unless I'm trying to get them to fuck. I honestly couldn't care less about them in any other context. One of my buddy's wives is a tomboy and into "guy stuff", she wanted to be my friend I pretty much had to stop replying to her texts lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 11:46 PM
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You know, it does kind of sadden me how MGTOW brainwashing has completely destroyed my ability to simp for women or be a good little white knight. And worst of all, now I'll never achieve my dream of marrying and eventually getting divorced by an average millenial whore :( I'm glad MGTOW was banned before my life was completely robbed of all my purpose as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 11:58 AM
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As a MGTOW I'm happy to see FDS growing as quickly as it has. You know, to speed things along, because I'm kind of bored waiting to see where this is all going, but I do get the feeling it's going to get interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 10:57 AM
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see these are the kind of stupid requirements I'm referring to They need to line up for the ugliest women in the world? lol never gonna happen, stay "woke"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 09:02 AM
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Calm down, all it means is that you're not expected to tick off a laundry list of stupid requirements like a guy often is. As long as she's not a total cunt and halfway pretty even with the help of makeup (which imo is cheating but w/e), that's worthy of love for a lot of guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 08:49 AM
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no way! there's plenty of resources out there for blue pillers /r/askwomen /r/datingadvice You can check out /r/femaledatingstrategy to see all the women gunning for high value men like you!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 07:59 AM
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can confirm, in my experience lots of single women seem to do a 180 and start to become really, really reasonable people right around this point edit: if you don't believe me do a search on how many women on /r/datingover30 have sudden epiphanies about their height requirements.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 07:43 AM
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Why does it matter if a woman did some sex act with someone else that she now refuses to do with you? https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Madonna%E2%80%93whore_complex This doesn't apply AT ALL to what you're describing. It just comes off like certain women really want men to believe that if they want fairness or consistency from a woman in a relationship, then it's because those men have some kind of psychological disorder.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 04:59 AM
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their favorite f-word (rhymes with ingot) It's really bugging me that I can't figure this out
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 11:29 PM
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I say pop psychology because the person (mis)using these terms is a layman. Basically a regular person in real life but roleplaying as a scientist online. I was hoping not to make it personal but I don't know how else to say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 10:45 PM
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It's just some pop psychology nonsense. It's like saying you "sound like a pisces" but with the added benefit of trying to look smart. See also: people who spew about mbti and attachment styles
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 10:11 PM
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I know two BP men who decided to become cross dressers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 11:56 PM
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It might be more cost effective for the attractiveness quality of women, but it's arguable. And even when you can make a strong case for it, a lot of men are willing to sacrifice cost effectiveness for other benefits, real or imagined. And most importantly, it's not an either/or decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 11:49 PM
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This is just two types of whores with different pricing models.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 11:34 PM
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peeing in her butt Light bondage
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 09:08 PM
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Now you're trying to qualify which men but it doesn't work with the statement. When people make a general statement about men or women, they're not referring to only the slobs. They mean men or women in general. By saying "men should put more effort into their appearance", whether they realize it or not, they're referring to men in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 07:23 PM
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People who participate in hookup culture continuously are probably in the minority, both men and women. It wouldn't surprise me if a majority of younger people have participated at some point or periodically. The reason why: wost women can't get what they want out of hookup culture, and many men might want to be a part of it can't pull it off unless their entire life revolves around pursuing hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 07:48 AM
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this is kind of a badly hidden gotcha question. Of course women won't take it well if you are cheap with them and were generous with other women in the past. But asking it like this is too obvious, you never get a straight answer from women anyway if it's not something that makes them look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 05:42 AM
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Oh wow that's so interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 05:11 AM
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Nope. Marriage is beta bucks and really not condoned by TRP, and married red pill is a tiny niche for those who couldn't help themselves. It's pretty much about spinning plates now that women are whores, excuse me, 'sexually liberated'. Plenty of women who will be plates, but it would be a pipe dream for RP men to think they can find n=2 women in any significant amount anymore. Seriously where do you ever find TRP systematizing strategies for courting chaste women for marriage? That is a non-sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 02:51 AM
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Fuck raising your game. Just leglize prostitution. Nobody needs to make themselves better for whores and we shouldn't be required to court them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 06:27 PM
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If it isn't disputed by anyone, I feel like it won't belong to this discussion either. It belongs in this discussion because you claimed that TRP begins with conclusions and works backwards to get reasoning. I just showed one counterexample of that, and now it's like I'm cheating because you can't poke holes in it. Apparently I needed to post something with faulty premises, so that the conclusion could be proven wrong. Whatever, I'm done wasting my time on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 05:49 PM
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Those aren’t assumptions, they’re common sense. I'm glad you think so because you're supposed to build conclusions on assumptions / premises that are so self-evident they seem like common sense. In a real debate, this is how people make sound conclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 05:31 PM
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For what it's worth, I don't even agree with that particular conclusion either, but our personal agreement was never in question. I just went with the simplest utilitarian argument for TRP that I could think of. This was about whether TRP based any of its conclusions on a set of underlying premises or not, so I think there's a good case to be made by now that at least one of them is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 12:12 PM
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I'd say these are exaples sugar coating women's feelings about ugly men, but otherwise I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 10:31 AM
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Assumption 1: Women in their sexual prime years prefer to fuck Chads (i.e female sexual selection favors robust physical and behavioral characteristics) Assumption 2: As women near the end of their sexual prime years, they tend to pair with men with stabler provisioning characteristics most RP can agree upon: check refuting would disprove trp ideas entirely: check core aspect of trp (conclusion): because (1) and (2) are true, if you consider (2) to be worse than (1), then pursue (1) Basically AF…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 10:13 AM
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No I really don't know you're right, at all. I mean there's plenty of RP men here making all kinds of claims, surely there must be one making the claim you mentioned. C'mon, you can't at least try?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 09:33 AM
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Not because there was anything wrong with being fat, awkward, weak, hateful, and desperate, or with treating women as if they were video game prizes, but because there is something wrong with the women Where does TRP conclude that except for pesky women, being fat, awkward, weak, desperate, etc would otherwise be ok? Can you quote one single TRP who has said anything like this? This discussion was about drawing conclusions and working backwards to get reasoning, and yet here we are. The irony is…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 09:18 AM
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‘It is not my fault in any way that I cannot have sex with any woman that I want, and the women who reject me are morally bad.’ So being fat, being awkward, acting weak and desperate... not a man's fault, but the fault of morally bad women for rejecting them, according to TRP? Are you sure this is a TRP conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 08:36 AM
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Such as what for example?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 08:28 AM
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The problem is that because trp started with conclusion and worked backwards to get reasoning This is a very dubious claim, are we just supposed to take it at face value? What conclusion(s) is he referring to that TRP supposedly worked backwards to get reasoning? Sounds like you might have some idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 08:22 AM
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Despite you saying it's hard to offer a constructive critique, this whole comment in itself just another dime-a-donzen critiques of TRP, but the question remains: why the failure to offer an alternative. Not a critique, why not an alternative? And the answer is because you don't have one that men will actually listen to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 07:48 AM
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I'm totally with you I'm not about that life either. Still, I'd return to a tradcuck labor force in an instant. Without a family to support I'd be making 40-50% more and it would all be going to me. Honestly women in the workforce aren't even needed. It's like having an extra set of men to compete with, except with added #metoo bullshit, maternity leave and gender based office politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 05:10 AM
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I think a lot of forever-aloners and incels would have far less reason to vent endlessly if they could be assured that This is kind of silly. Women have the right to be attracted to attractive men without explaining themselves, dealing with rage comes with the territory. Women need to be honest about telling incels and FAs to fuck off, because this is how women actually feel and you can prove this in 5 seconds by having ANY incel in the world walk up and try to chat up ANY woman in the world. Re…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 04:10 AM
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You're going to have an answer for everything huh. That's ok, I don't need to take your "power" away.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 01:52 AM
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A happy slave is a productive slave
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 01:26 AM
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I was going to say the same thing. Entourage was probably it. I watched one season, scrapped it, and then thought this is probably what Sex and the City was except for low IQ men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 11:55 PM
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In order to help a lot of men, you'd have to be brutally honest about what a typical young woman responds to. There are very few archetypes that exist for this. How many different ways can you think of for a man be socially dominant, building wealth, with an exciting lifestyle at the age of 20? It would lead to many 'average' men to seriously consider the drug dealer path, which would be incredibly destructive for them and for society.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 11:45 PM
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Well, good. It's no skin off my back if you like how things are. Enjoy earning half of what you're worth your whole life, or until you attain C-suite exec status which probably won't ever happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 11:21 PM
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The Quiet Revolution of the 1970s and inflation adjusted wage stagnation since the 1970s are not a coincidence. You got played. Are you feeling empowered yet? Women can't seem to stop being tricked by snakes. You keep getting played like a bratty child and you keep fucking it up for everyone. My mom married a salesman in the 80s and became a housewife, half the time we kids would do the chores around the house anyway so she would pursue her interests and social relationships while my Dad slaved …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 10:48 PM
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Not that many, fortunately. I hold myself to a pretty high standard when it comes to that. Also, I don't try to sneak in my BS by prefacing it with 'seems to be'. Also, I question men all the time. You're barking up the wrong tree.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 10:29 PM
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You thought he was directing the question at men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 02:36 AM
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surprised pikachu face
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 02:25 AM
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Whenever TRP men speak about women, they seem to be speaking about neurotypical women, and whenever TRP men tend to speak about themselves, they seem to be speaking about neurodivergent men. Essentially, it seems to be men on the autism spectrum lusting after neurotypical women You're using 'seems to be' as a way of smuggling through all your unfounded claims. As long as you assume what 'seems to be' as truth, a person could argue ridiculous things like 'the jews are a cabal that is plotting for…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 07:10 PM
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Nah the dudes are usually onto someone else and forget about her by then. It's the broads that get all salty over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 01:07 AM
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It's not just FDS, this is pretty much how women treat men in online dating in general. The illusion of infinite choice makes women a nightmare to deal with. Ironically they'll let a lot slide for the guys they claim to hate, they'll just complain after they've fucked and ghosted.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 12:16 AM
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The "be yourself" phrase is more about the person saying it. It implies that their success was gained by nothing except being genuine, and certainly not by being a self promoter. The ugly truth is that the vast majority of men and women only get what they want by being self promoters. It's very uncomfortable to admit and it requires self-awareness, which most women don't have. If you just 'be yourself' you can't get what you want. If you could, you wouldn't be trying to get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 11:59 PM
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Female asses Poop and farts come out of them. Pretty shameful for me to be attracted to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 04:54 PM
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It wouldn't need to be enforced, the institutions would only be destroyed once and people would once again be forced to experiment. The status quo leads people to complacency and despair; resetting is only to encourage people to find new and better solutions. Until the dummies rebuild their old system, there would be nothing to let them return to old ways for some time, and it gives a chance for innovative people to validate their ideas. If they naturally gravitate towards the same solutions as …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 04:13 PM
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This level of micromanagement and bureaucracy is why women will never lead humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 05:50 AM
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Do you think any of that is new information to me? Of course humans would do this too. This is beside the point, the people in danger wouldn't be kids nearly as much as men and women who decide to be a piece of shit. If you're a POS that's taken out and you have a kid, those genes will have a much lower rate of survival. win/win
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 05:38 AM
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Return to natural order and let human instinct take care of everything. The best design is natural selection of traits that will thrive, without clever humans tinkering with it. Revert all civilization controls over children and relationships. Ban marriage and any other form of fictional union. Ban contraception. Ban any regulation meant to protect women and children (and men, I guess). Any justice must be carried out by vigilantism, without the courts. Ban writing down laws, and ban institution…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 05:15 AM
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Sure. But my end goal is attaining nirvana which would require me to give all of that up anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 08:46 PM
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ok then I overshot your creepiness threshold. Chances are you'd overreact and run away scared, because there are WAY more landscaping workers than chainsaw serial killers, but understandable. My point is that creepyness is ambiguity, of whether something potentially dangerous or not, everyone has a threshold.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 08:40 PM
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#1 point in the video nails it. I can guarantee you'd get creeped out by a man with a chainsaw, smiling at you and not saying anything. Is he just a friendly guy going to his landscaping job, or is he planning to chop you to pieces? You might be in danger, but the intentions aren't so clear. Chances are you just have a higher threshold for what is creepy. On the flipside, I'm a man and I have a really low threshold for creepiness in women, mostly revolving around 'fakeness' which doesn't seem to…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 08:26 PM
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It's pretty unusual. Women will generally care for STR/FWB if a guy is a virgin. Men will generally care for LTRs if the girl is a whore. You know it's true if it's not what you want to hear, but they're still telling you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 05:10 PM
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Male strategy is to cast a wide net. The women IN their league are just as dismissive as the women out of their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 12:48 AM
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Men come back to sex workers again and again. The same men black out at the strip club and spend their paychecks again and again. This is an exchange of money for services agreed upon by both parties. By the same token, if men constantly complained about strip clubs (they don't) the reponse would be this: "then stop going to strip clubs you moron." When do people ever blame the strippers for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 07:21 PM
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Obvioulsy against. To put it more simply Men's low participation in financial abuse reflects consistency in their negative attitudes towards it. Women's behavior doesn't seem reflect that for getting pumped and dumped. Women get pumped and dumped left and right, and then complain about it afterwards. If we're supposed to view these just as bad -- women should act like it is and not just talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 07:15 PM
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What I find delightful is that women take it personally when the men doing the pumps and dumps. So many women, maybe even a majority, seem to have simped for a pump and dump "fuckboy" at one point or another. I might be projecting my own experience here, but I think men who let women finesse money from them are in a very small minority. Limited to the most pathetic guys who visit cam sites and onlyfans. Again, this is just conjecture, I could be viewing it totally backwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 07:06 PM
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They are viewed the same way. Women have to see you as attractive to pull off pumping and dumping women. Men have to see you as attractive to pull off finessing money from them. These things are prohibitively difficult to do habitually, unless you can successfully market yourself as an attractive person.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 06:34 PM
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I could tell you of a woman who I'd think is perfect for about 3 days before the ugly truths of male sexuality set in.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 06:28 PM
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I said they do it for social benefit, not for men. This is always a moving goalpost either way, and absolutely pointless to debate. Even if you do it purely for your own enjoyment, drawing bits and pieces of a face on top of your own face is just creepy behavior that culturally we've normalized. In 100 years, designer babies will probably look back to this time and be absolutely weirded out by the details of how women applied their makeup, and tens of other behaviors that men and women take for …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 06:40 AM
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When the woman asked they decided they weren't into her enough to marry, and whatever arrangement they had wouldn't continue from that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 05:50 AM
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no woman ever: I just drank 4 cans of bud lite, look at my sexy beer belly. also no woman ever: This sexy basketball stuffed under my shirt makes me feel sooo feminine, aren't I sexy babe? Nobody actually wants to look pregnant. It's the hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 05:24 AM
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In particular, /u/a_purring_jew and /u/smurf_e_smurferson, based on their comments. And in general a similar kind of attitude among women, which is not uncommon around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 05:08 AM
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I'm confused. Do you think I'm referring to the hypothetical wife as the one doing the gaslighting?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 05:00 AM
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I put makeup on and dress like a lady as its feminine to me, I will do it till the day I die. Imagine a man claiming to stand on stilts and wearing a fake muscle suit because it makes them feel masculine. No one is going to buy that nonsense, everyone will see through it and ridicule him for it (and rightly so). The cosmetics industry is so entrenched and it's such an emotional investment for women that everyone fails to see it for how absurd it is. Feelings aside, the fact is you're literally d…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 04:48 AM
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It's pretty much the opposite, almost nothing I do is to attract women. I have ambitions, but they mostly revolve around ensuring I thrive, along with being a secret safety net for people who display loyalty to me. Aside from them, no one deserves the fruit of my hard work, definitely not a woman who just happens to show up in my life. If I wanted to attract women, I think I'd have to devote most of my life with this goal in mind. I've done it before, it works but also it's a pretty miserable wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 11:07 PM
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I've seen women on PPD unquestioningly parrot that they produce eggs so they're inherently valuable, therefore they don't have to put any work in. And then will discard all the "less convenient" arguments from evolutionary biology they encounter.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 10:51 PM
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aka "accidentally" getting pregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 06:27 PM
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oh then he has to be extra extra nice to her
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 04:33 AM
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but this actor who was maybe a notch below Brat Pitt would come in Ooh, was it Crisp Ratt?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 04:03 AM
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k but you're still a cuck
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 03:42 AM
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what on earth does this self important livejournal entry have to do with the OP at all? Did you even read the title of the post before writing all that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 03:27 AM
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#1 he has to be nice to his mom #2 he has to love what he does #3 must treat me like a lady #4 must be kind to everyone and love animals #5 at least 6 foot tall built like a quarterback with a chiseled masculine face and a big ole donkey dick, but really not as important as the rest
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 03:16 AM
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That people wnat to pretend "oh that will never happen to me" is not gaslighting For the second and last time, I never said it was. You're a bore to talk to, honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 03:03 AM
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That certain men chose not to listen and make their choices accordingly doesn't make it gaslighting. I never said men ignoring warnings made it gaslighting. I said women denying it when people such as me warn about it, is gaslighting. If it's well known in American culture, then don't deny (not you, but PPD women) it as a significant possibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 02:59 AM
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Thanks for playing, waste someone else's time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 02:54 AM
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It is gaslighting to completely deny it as a significant possibility, and then when it happens, putting it all on the guy for failing to do his part. That's textbook gaslighting. And no, you're not about to convince me otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 02:50 AM
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Are you sure you know what sexual harrassment means? Please look up the definition of sexual harrassment in the dictionary if you're not sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 02:41 AM
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Oh gee, ya think? I know women can't be honest with men that having kids also comes with the very real possibility of sacrificing their wife as an enthusiastic sexual partner. So I guess I just have to point out when they're being gaslighted about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 02:37 AM
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Instead of replying to me with a counter argument, we've now changed the topic to discussing your own, completely different point which I have no interest in discussing, so excuse me. Either address something I said or I'll lose interest and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 12:43 AM
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My mistake. You replied to my comment so I thought you were addressing something I had said, but it's clear you were just trying to make your own point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 12:15 AM
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I somewhat understand what you're getting at, here's the angle I take: When niceguys claim they don't belittle women, the women hearing this rightfully don't see him as a super-cool respectful guy, but rather understand that they ought to be treated like everyone else. The absence of disrespect doesn't automatically mean respect in turn. So again, women understand this concept intuitively, but apparently only when it applies to them. Also known as playing dumb, instead of actual arguments 90% of…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 11:39 PM
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No, women’s sexuality is reactive. Making us feel sexy is key for men who want to seduce us - make us feel sexy, and we will be sexy As long as she doesn't want kids, I've got no problems buying into this. If she wants kids, men might benefit greatly from putting 2 + 2 together and question whether the line above adds up. And if they think it does in those circumstances, who knows maybe they're right -- Godspeed to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 06:30 PM
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My point is that maybe 'feeling sexy' has something to do with it, but not nearly as much as women make it out to be. The fact that hormones can make pregnant women get horny, and then drop off when her body looks much closer to her former self, suggests it has more to do with the hormone profile changing than the feels. This is pretty important for men to know but they're lied to about how much control they really have. Imagine if more men knew that their wife could become frigid after having a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 06:04 PM
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Why are men mostly the perpetators of sexual harassment? This is called 'begging the question'. Men are absolutely the perpetrators of overt sexual harrassment, because they're not worried about confrontation and/or they don't think authority will come down on them. Women fear confrontation and falling out of favor with authority, so majority of sexual harassment from women comes in plausibly deniable ways, such as gossip and spreading rumors. There's no way to know how much non-overt sexual har…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 05:51 PM
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this is something that men are constitutionally incapable of understanding except for a few expert seducer Wouldn't this drop-off in libido predictably happen when women get pregnant though? Pregnant is the awkwardest, unsexiest look (aside from fetishists), yet you do occasionally see women claiming that their uncontrollable hormones are making them horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 05:32 PM
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Being given the same treatment that others in your position were, isn't some huge sign of respect but a sign that you're not being disrespected. This is not some sort of male-only concept, women intuitively understand this when it applies to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 05:19 PM
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The boys down at the lab, what are you talking about? Are you really larping as a 19th century pharmacist right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 05:01 PM
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Would this motivate men to improve themselves more It's not as if retracting bullshit laws needs to be earned through a nebulous "improvement" on behalf men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 04:50 PM
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If it had a low chance of negative side effects like weight gain or lethargy due to the drug, I would, without question.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 04:34 PM
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Could you imagine if men here did this? "Why don't women want to date/marry me after I've slayed so much pussy all my life? Is it just a revenge fantasy?" Obviously men never bring this up as a topic, for reasons that should be obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 10:57 AM
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Men in general, they obviously don't find attractive. To paraphrase what almost every woman on PPD says, just looking attractive on its own isn't enough, they also require "the tingles" for them to be considered attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 10:47 AM
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If it were merely a revenge fantasy, this topic wouldn't be coming up as often as it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 09:55 AM
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dated stupid teenagers when she was a stupid teenager This might be a valid defense if the criticism were directed at girls in their early 20s. stupid isn't inexperience, it's failure to show common sense OVER TIME. Once you get into being a stupid teen, and stupid early 20s, stupid mid 20s, stupid late 20s, stupid early 30s and now you're 35... is it maybe a wonder that guys just think they're talking to a stupid person?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 09:44 AM
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I didn't say it "makes it not a fact". I said it "doesn't make it a fact". I know, logic is hard isn't it? Does wekacuck's tiny little brain hurt?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 07:43 PM
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keep spinning your wheels
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 07:09 PM
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Agreeing with something where "factuality remains unresolved" doesn't make it a fact. Seems like a silly roundabout way of saying opinion, but this is what happens with people who want to be right at all costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 07:06 PM
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Nobody here has yet presented evidence supporting that the assertion is a fact, therefore it remains an opinion. crib my notes, throw them back at me whatever. I'm happy to help you make a fool of yourself if taht's what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 06:57 PM
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Pregnancy and fear of pregnancy is the root of men's power over women. Hmmm, how are you going to avoid proving that this is a fact, I wonder? Or maybe I'm giving you too much credit and you'll actually try.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 06:46 PM
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Agreeing with an opinion doesn't make it a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 06:37 PM
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banning abortion would only lead to more gunshot weddings or men being forced into paying child support Is this all that's supposed to matter to men? Is it hard to imagine the thought of voluntarily exterminating this many human lives year after year, might be a tad more disturbing? Abortion is disgusting and a disgrace on humanity. Once that's taken care of, women can start using contraceptives and sorting out their choices in men like they should already be doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 06:21 PM
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The current rate is 40%, and over half of millennial births. ahem... WHOOOOOOOOOORES!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 03:45 AM
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That wouldn't happen because we'd be figuring this out in the planning stages, before the date. It would be pretty natural too, after you set up the date just hit her with this line: "ok see you there, dishes are around $15 and drinks are around $5. Make sure you bring enough cash, ok?". If she ignores it, don't show up. If she makes a fuss, set her on ignore. If she confirms but then starts playing dumb at the venue, you have the convo on your phone. For a little extra fun, read it out loud so …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 11:30 PM
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Women will never ever intitiate, but I think you're onto something groundbreaking. Men should still initiate, but gauge women's interest by their flexibility to pay before the date. If she's ok paying for herself, she's at least interested in giving you a fair shot. If she wants to pay for both of you, she's a unicorn and/or wants to jump your bones. If she's refuses to pay for herself, chances are you're wasting your time with a meal ticket bimbo who's probably going to shit test you all night.…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 09:45 PM
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haha nailed it, these broads over here thinking their precious companionship is God's gift to men, when really it's just them hanging around like a log until the man finds fun things for them to do
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 04:20 PM
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If you're serious, there are definitely ways to kill your sex drive. Things like porn and antidepressants have a documented effect The kind of unsolicited life advice you get from internet weirdos never ceases to amaze me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 01:36 PM
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Do you wish you could turn off your sexual attraction to the opposite sex so you wouldn't have to deal with them? Absolutely. Not that I "resent" the fact that I'm straight, but if I could turn it off, even without the option to turn it back on, I'd do it in a heartbeat. I don't even want a family, so aside from hedonism what's the point? I'd probably be a lot happier not having sexual desire constantly nagging me, all for people who I've never liked interacting with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 11:44 PM
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I think we've both proven that anyone who waves academic journals off as tradcon conspiracies is probably a moron. It was a team effort though for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 04:01 PM
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Based on the name? No. Sociology as a field of study has to look into marriage and families, it's not just a tradcon thing. We're not talking about the economics department are we? The University of Iowa is considered left leaning -- do your research. The U Chicago and particularly the sociology department at U Chicago is left leaning -- do your research. tl;dr quit wasting people's time and do at least minimal research before debating. A little common sense would be great too, not everything is…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 03:50 PM
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Univeristy of Iowa and University of Chicago. Both are considered left-leaning. Which is beside the point. Conservative doesn't mean pro-man at all costs, liberal doesn't mean pro-woman at all costs. Sometimes you do research and that's just what the findings are, what are you going to do, lock it up in a vault because the data doesn't "empower" women who've had 16+ sexual partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 03:32 PM
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Did you do any research at all into the org behind it? It's a boring old academic sociology journal established by university staff, same as most other academic journals. Not saying it's infallible, but it's not quite on the level that you're making it out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 11:06 PM
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That's just a revenge fantasy. I bet that sub is full of male troll accounts pretending to be women. Dating is even better for women in their 30s, they have much sexual experience to offer, and are way better companions and don't act like immature children. Real men like women their age. I have a lot of friends who started getting asked out MORE after turning 30 ...and other lies women tell themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 09:43 PM
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Not being willing to get married as a man is a signifier of low class to a woman Likewise, low net worth, debt and shitty spending habits as a woman is a signifier of low class. And that's a loooot of women who hope to marry someday. But wealthy men seek to combine resources in marriage, not shoulder a burden. I'd say 90% of women hoping to marry are not merely at a disadvantage, they're screwed. Unless you're an absolute bombshell, you'll marry in your own bracket (if at all).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 08:50 PM
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Your original comment said "average women are more attractive than average men". Meaning women are your prerefence? So you're a lesbian, is that it? Or, you know, stop trying to bullshit me just to win an argument :p
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 06:06 PM
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Are you a man then? Because your original comment said women are more attractive than men, so it sounded like you were making a general statement and not what you're personally attracted to. Correct me if I'm wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 05:58 PM
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Ah ok. We weren't discussing what you like though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 05:53 PM
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The Stanley Milgram experiments came out of questions being asked about human nature after WWII. Educate yourself first and then debate me on it. Plenty of very interesting youtube videos about it, but my point is that agreeability traits aren't a positive or negative indicator of anyone so don't assume it makes you a good person (or bad)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 05:42 PM
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Yeah, that was a textbook defense that the subjects resorted to. Deflect the accountability as much as possible, even though they were the ones agreeing to carry out the action. If only this stuff didn't work like clockwork, I swear.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 05:34 PM
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Being cooperative IS a good quality It also makes you more likely to cooperate in committing atrocities because authority told you to, see the Stanley Milgram experiments. Case in point: it doesn't make women inherently better (or worse), just makes them more pleasant to deal with because conflict makes them uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 05:25 PM
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You'd be surprised how many women convince themselves that their 'real' appearance is them with makeup on, and that their social agreeability traits make them inherently good people. So they end up saying things like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 04:56 PM
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oh, excuse me, male in drag pics. I have nothing left to add, this convo has gone stale.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 04:46 PM
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oh great, he's whipped out the tranny pics. At this point I don't think there's anything for me to add to the discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 04:41 PM
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You sir, are truly a gentleman and a scholar.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 03:58 PM
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their features re quite similar but this one has a male haircut and a beard and no foundation lol are you serious? this is such a waste of time
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 03:34 PM
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Are you not a native English speaker? to "pull it off" is an figure of speech that means to succeed. I'm just saying that type of guy will have success despite the feminine features and characteristics. His face does look very androgynous to me, this might just be a subjective thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 03:21 PM
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No, the first photo is the type of guy with feminine aesthetic I was referring to pulling it off. Not a drag queen with purple glitter lipstick, I mean wtf. Regardless, I was also referring to feminine behavior. For example, shyness, soft spokenness, high sensitivity, giddiness, exciteability, and so on. It's generally not tolerated, unless it comes with a certain aesthetic like the first guy you linked. But very few guys look like that, it's pointless to really discuss as a generality.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 03:07 PM
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If you want to spend time and effort setting up "romantic" dates with a frigid woman, who am I to say? You do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 01:20 PM
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okay Bethany, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 01:19 PM
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Flirting on dates is fun. I don't see the point of flirting if her attraction for you is 0 throughout the process. I might as well be dating a dead fish. If you want to spend time and effort setting up "romantic" dates with a frigid woman, who am I to say? You do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 12:58 PM
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It's a trick question. PPD women idealize Bethanies, so the question is designed to give such women a (false) sense of reassurance. It's a thinly veiled spin on making women choose between a normal guy who treats them well, or a a rich attractive jerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 12:23 PM
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Feminine really is one of the worst things a man can be, not because of toxic masculinity, but because everyone -- both men and women punish feminine behavior from men. (there are exceptions for gender fluid / androgynous type guys with a feminine aesthetic who can pull it off, but this is a small niche)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 12:14 PM
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I had to go back and edit "Bethany", the boring relationship counselor.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 09:37 AM
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What is this, a choose everyone else's adventure story? In real life, men (particularly successful men) prefer this risk than settle for Bethany who's not as much a catch as she thinks she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 09:32 AM
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Bethany sounds like a real snooze fest. In the real world, a man with actual self respect doesn't accept shit deals like this. He would get with Stephanie and if she doesn't put out enough, hire Suzie as his prostitute. Bethanie can be boring relationship counselor.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 09:26 AM
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So I'd also be responsible for taking this broad out on dates and I'm supposed to be happy for the opportunity? lol this is really how women think, seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 09:04 AM
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Wake up, lady. Incels already haven't been procreating since the beginning of time. It's the narcicstic, angry women that would probably be incels if they were men, and their terrible male counterparts that they select, who keep birthing shitty people, and you're going to see a lot more of them. Incels share none of the responsibility in the mess the rest of you have produced, by definition they can't. Sorry if any of this hits close to home.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 08:40 AM
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Whoever these women are, we need more like them. Less of your crotchspawn on this planet, please. Let's enjoy the peace and quiet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 03:24 AM
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wth? Why wouldn't I just hang out with my male friends? how is a sexless relationship different from a normal friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 03:03 AM
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Agree or disagree, whatever, I think I've spent enough time on reddit for today.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 02:47 AM
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"Some women" is kind of meaningless. Not enough women, by a long shot, are ok with compulsory military service. Anyway, my argument was that women weren't actually FORCED into nuclear families. Also my argument is that you're not living in some great "modern society" where going to war while women stay at home are something of the past. It's still a possibility today. If you pay attention you'll find this theme everywhere: more freedoms for women, same traditional expectations of men if they ben…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 02:29 AM
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Just to bring it back, in those eras men have to be forced to go to war while women stayed at home. What a fucking terrible way to live I’m glad the modern society that I live in Assuming you're from a western country (except Israel) you are STILL liable to go to war while the women stay home. It doesn't matter what you believe about the draft, until women decide to vote in favor of mandatory selective service for themselves, which will be: N E V E R Rather stay at home while men go off and die.…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 01:36 AM
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Lifting the combat ban does not mean women are required to register for selective service and poteitnailly go to war. So far, only a handful of women have even been capable of passing combat training. Not to be an asshole, but what brings you to a debate sub when understanding concepts is clearly a challenge for you? Why argue with people if you can't hold your own in a debate?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 01:25 AM
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in those eras men have to be forced to go to war while women stayed at home That hasn't changed. Why do you think every 18 year old male today is required to register for Selective Service while women don't have to? Modern society can still send men off to die in a heartbeat just like in WWI and WWII, and it absolutely will if necessary and women will be comfy at home not lifting a finger to keep their rights -- rather you do it for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 01:09 AM
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I am a man and if the government forces me to have a nuclear family I will feel oppressed too. your words just a few comments ago
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 12:41 AM
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Jesus christ. The government never required by law that women enter into nuclear families, therefore it never FORCED them into it. Women had a right to work, but very did because the structure of the labor market limited women's participation and therefore their choices. Later, the structure of the labor market changed to expand women's participation and choices. ffs, there are history books with photos of women working in factories in the early 1900s US. It's you who is very very wrong, I can't…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 12:35 AM
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They'll just move to tropical climates and they'll whine about it exactly 0 times.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 12:23 AM
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So again, why are we supposed to think y'all are the prize? 🤔🤨 because PPD ladies butts smell like feta cheese and we think that's kind of gross but also kind of hot
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 12:17 AM
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Saying that women were forced into nuclear families is like saying government forced women into (primarily) clerical and service jobs in modern times. People have choices within the structure of their labor market.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 12:00 AM
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Not going to happen when women are participate in the labor force and they'll never agree to go back to 'being oppressed'. But we have nuclear warheads for when we all get sick and tired of being here. Cockroaches seem to have it pretty well figured out anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 11:40 PM
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This idea that women willy nilly get divorced 'for no good reason' is red pill fantasy land. the idea that I even said this is also in some sort of fantasy land. and now I know I'm talking to an I must excuse myself from this conversation, I have no patience for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 11:20 PM
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He's saying women are bad at vetting, AND to top it off they initiate 70% of divorces. He'd absolutely be a hypocrite if he had initiated the divorce in his relationship. Men are still agreeing to marriage with non traditional and non-religious women, most of the time modern women insist that marriage is something they are worthy of (on the whole, they're not).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 11:14 PM
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ok bro, good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 10:52 PM
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Even after she became a manipulative drug addict, he was the one who thought to make it work while she was the one to initiate the divorce. As far as his OP, he's pretty consistent about not failing to vet and then just bailing when things start to go wrong. Women initiating at a 70% rate indicates that they are much less willing to actually maintain a marriage, despite their retarded obsession with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 10:50 PM
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She needed to vet better. Men on PPD are continuously fed this bullshit line about cheating / abusive women, never seen anyone consider maybe they're shifting blame to the wrong party.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 10:17 PM
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It also comes down to your answer why live or not. If you decided your reason to live was limited to getting a girl, you might just be sealing your fate when asking yourself that question at some point in the future ok this time for real, have a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 09:23 PM
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I can't see why suicide would be the ultimatum unless you had a mindset that your life has no value without a female in the picture. People need something ATTAINABLE to give their life meaning, so determine early in life if a girl is attainable or if it's going to be a non-stop uphill battle culminating in divorce, because if you're an incel now, this is likely where that road leads. Immigrants and black people struggle through life, incels can too. With a bit of trial and error you can find way…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 08:08 PM
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It didn’t work? Then you just didn’t give it all you got, so you’re just a lazy incel and self improvement will totally help you. You just don’t want help, you just want to complain and be angry, you angry lazy incel. I totally get this is what other people will say, but who gives a fuck about them. The person doing it will know how much effort they put in. If they put in 1 year worth of effort and still got nowhere, people can talk shit to him and call him lazy, but he doesn't need to doubt tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 07:12 PM
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The advice is great if you limit the self-improvement for a period of 1 year where you give it all you've got. If you find you're getting more female attention, double down in year 2 and you'll land yourself a bimbo sometime that year, guaranteed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 07:03 PM
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>But I wonder why nobody decided to discuss specifically about bisexuality? Because no one cares. It's a boring topic. Most people never thinks about this because most of them aren't bisxual.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 03:08 PM
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Client wanted to do it to me all the time. I'm not going to make this personal to you, but hookers in of any type will always be much more of a risk than a normal girl as long as she's not also a whore in her own way. Even if the risk is less than 0.1%, over enough people that's a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 03:01 PM
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Better yet, ask the escorts to show you what women like. god help you if you're dumb enough to perform oral on a hooker, what horrible advice
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 02:35 PM
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I don't know if you realize how many women with past unhappy relationships you're accidentally insulting here, but I find it kind of funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 10:19 AM
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Baseless claim that you disagree with: "Source?" Baseless claim that you agree with: "Fact."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 11:29 PM
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FDS is more reminiscent of MGTOW, except those guys gave up long ago and turned their sub into memes making fun of women, whereas FDS thinks they'll land a successful, good-looking beta of their dreams just by following a strategy while grumbling about men in private. It worked for TRP to get laid, so why not them to get commitment? Which will make them the angriest of all when they start hitting 40 and she starts to become an actual cat lady like all those jokes on the internet said she would
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 10:56 PM
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Much less so for men. Thanks to this accidental projection of female sexuality onto men, we now know a significant percentage of women probably find it sexy if a man has an adventurous past. But if you hadn't been there, TRP could have told you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 08:53 PM
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Oh. Yeah then we agree, the meme never included single moms. It was mostly just slutty girls who were looking for an LTR. Single moms are their own separate meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 08:33 PM
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Are you playing dumb or am I really not getting this through? You're concocting a male revenge fantasy and saying this is what the "ready to settle down" meme refers to. We already established that the meme actually came from women's own online dating profiles, who thought they'd just waltz right into a LTR after alluding to their "adventurous" history. tl;dr the ready to settle down meme is somethign women themselves invented. Women who use this meme are reductively categorized this way, becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 08:02 PM
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ok, now back to your original point: it's not merely a male revenge fantasy there's quite a bit more to it than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 06:58 PM
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It’s a bizarre revenge fantasy on behalf of men The complete phrase is "I've had my share of fun, now I'm ready to settle down", a frequently repeated phrase as part of former party girls dating profiles About Me section in the mid-late 2000s. Of course, by fun they meant penises. Women somehow thought this was a smart thing to say (don't ask me why), but men called this bullshit out so hard that it's practically vanished from dating sites. But for the men who were lucky enough to see women's en…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 06:46 PM
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Meanwhile I'm over here thinking, "When did I start finding saggy breasts kinda hot?" probably during the time you were coming to terms with the reality of your options
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 02:36 PM
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On the flipside, rich attractive guys would rather talk to a 20 year old and be unfazed by shaming labels, than women in their own age range who think they have much more in common with them. Lots of butthurt 35 year old women angry that so many men their age with means only chase young tail and all they have to choose from is the losers aka no good men left!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 02:10 PM
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The debate was over a while ago, it looks like we're not going to agree, now move on like you said you would. Someone rejecting your half cooked ideas doesn't mean debating in bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 01:50 PM
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Maybe if I actually gave a shit about what you wrote. I'd rather just use language however I want to rather than listen to someone tell me how I ought to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 01:44 PM
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Now that's some next level hamstering. REEEE you can be mysogystic against men if you think they're feminine! clap clap
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 01:36 PM
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As I said, I use the word for both women and cucks, and anyone who uses it that way is safe from being accused of mysonyny. I use hamstering to describe anyone I don't like, male of female. Fun loophole :) oh ok you edited it: It does ruin your point -- men who I view as womanly are not women. They're still men. Q E D Try to referee the language game and you'll find yourself utterly frustrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 01:01 PM
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I'm not a "TRP man" though. I just saw the word and started using it however I wanted to, that's my whole point. I could easily take the word "mental gymnatics" and use the word for men, and then just say "thinking like a retard" for women. Removing a word from usage doesn't get rid of mysogyny. (also you're ignoring the fact that I use 'hamstering' for both men and women, but I get that acknowledging that would ruin your point)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 12:51 PM
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For me it's not a gendered term. I've described behavior from both women and certain cucks as hamstering. I use 'mental gymnastics' for people I like, because it makes them sound intelligent but misguided, but hamsters are dumb, cute animals. Really it depends on an individual's usage of the word. Very few people look up the definition in the TRP glossary before they start to use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 12:36 PM
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If you've given so many so casually that it's all a blur, that would be just as helpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 04:34 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 03:49 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 03:18 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 02:34 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 02:19 PM
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Same reason men do about their own issues. Slutting it up is becoming problem for some women and it makes them upset that it isn't the way it "ought to be". Given how it's probably one of the most common themes around here, it's probably the biggest actual problem women are starting to face.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 02:09 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 01:23 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 07:59 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 07:52 AM
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you're kind of cute when you're mad, has anyone ever told you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 07:35 AM
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I've taken girls to coffee before and fucked them immediately after -- are you telling me this girl who cost me $10 is a prostitute? When did you deny it? lol you're pretty much denying that throughout your posts, and particularly here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 07:04 AM
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It stands to reason that if the male triggers are visual, women will tend to pay more attention to their outward appearance -- and that's exactly what happens. But you probably knew that and just want to rant, so rant away.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 11:09 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 10:55 PM
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And yes, life is unfair, you pay for sex either way Don't know how simps can casually claim this, but then deny that women are basically prostitutes in one way or another. You're asserting that payment is required for sex, but at the same time that it's NOT prostitution because you were able to negotiate the cash payment with other, less direct forms of payment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 10:12 PM
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