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If you are not ready for a relationship, then don't get into a relationship right now. Work on your own life. You may end up finding the right man, you may change how you look at relationships, you may not. Being a single woman doesn't mean that you have to be poor. I am single and living better than ever. I am single because I decided to take a break from relationships and work on my business. I have a very financially comfortable life.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/26 03:18 PM
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Numbers show that 7percent of single women are on Tinder (as you said "swipe left" or whatever). That means 93percent of single women are not. So perhaps think that the average woman who is looking for the average man, is NOT the same woman who is looking for hooking up with a man who she deems as attractive. Perhaps, some women are mainly looking for physical attractiveness and other women are attracted to a partner for different reasons?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 10:36 AM
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He is who he is. You cannot change someone. Are there things that you do like about him? You have to decide if you like and love him as is, or let him go and find someone who will. Now, yes, if he needs mental health help, you should help him to improve there. But not everyone needs/wants a perfectly "manly" man, so if you cannot accept him, let him go.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/25 07:52 AM
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That's you, perhaps, but not everyone. Look, most people want to build a life with someone, so that means not really buying a home until married. A lot of women also change their lives to fit with their husband's life, so she cannot figure out the future when she is waiting on her other half, in order to plan her future. If you want to be a bachelor and purchase your own home and make decisions regarding your life on your own, without taking another person into account, that's fine for you. For …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 02:06 AM
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I think most people look at marriage as a stability. In a relationship, things happen that cause one partner to sacrifice for the other. Want to move for one spouse's job? More secure to do that in a marriage. Want to purchase a home together that feels like home to both partners? Marriage. Want to have children? More secure in a marriage. It is difficult for some people to move forward in adult life, when they are waiting for a partner in a secure relationship, to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 05:55 PM
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Sounds manipulative. He is definitely being fake with you, so no reason to keep seeing him. An honest guy just wouldn't have deleted just yet.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/25 04:27 PM
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Definitely have seen it go both ways. Have seen men financially cleaned out. Have seen women being misled into thinking they were getting their dream life with their dream man, only to be used or abused. Have seen extremely creepy older men with underage boys or girls. Have seen happy Normal couples. There are all types of people and everyone needs to be cautious.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 02:07 PM
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Did he lie or did he not actually know? If you were thst concerned, you should have researched more about this yourself. Also, no one is genetically perfect, so if you had had children with someone else, that Also would have been a roll of the dice.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/25 03:50 PM
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I mean, I personally don't think we need more people. Also, how are you going to have more females? IVF and select according to sex? Who is going to do that? Government paid surrogates? Then who is going to raise them? It makes no sense. Nature is right around 50/50, but for males, the mating game is competitive and some males pass on their genes a lot while others not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 04:37 PM
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No, I just lived in India for a long time and...hardly knew any families with daughters. The ratio is very skewed there, so when I see "global" that is where my mind goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 04:29 PM
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Well look, there is a huge war going on in Eastern Europe. So many young men are dying. That means there are more women than men. Perhaps try your luck there. Another thing to note, is that if you are "odd", due to language and cultural differences, they may not realize (at first anyway. I do know a woman from a poor Eastern European background, who married an American guy who "looks good on paper" and is physically ok-attractiveness; but it wasn't long before she began apologizing for her husba…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 04:27 PM
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Globally includes areas where females are commonly aborted or "mysteriously die" in early infancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 04:19 PM
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A lot of women who don't want to be single, would choose to remain single or share a man, before deciding to go with an undesirable man. Best bet is for undesirable men to work on themselves and their lives, instead of imagining some fantasy where desirable women have to choose them. Unfortunately, for some fo these men, the issue is lack of social awareness or just their own mental state and that can be difficult to change or improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 03:03 PM
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Look at your last sentence. You state that a higher percentage of women are happier to be single. So, in that case, no matter how many more women than men, a man who is not desirable (for whatever reason) will remain undesirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 02:55 PM
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Let him go. It's his life and he should enjoy his life. Being part of a couple does not mean cutting one's self off from the rest of life and living. If he cheats, then he would have eventually anyway and now you know. More than likely he is just going to go and have a good time and come back home to you, never having any interest in any other girl. When I was a very attractive young woman working in sales, I would meet guys all of the time, who, first thing out of their mouths, was all about th…
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/25 04:31 PM
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Having children, when mentally unable to handle it, turns one's life into a nightmare. I know 2 women who had children and honestly should not have had children. Another, who knew she could not mentally handle children, is married and living her best life. Only you know yourself and what you can or cannot handle, so don't let others' opinions bother you
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/25 10:58 PM
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YES. Of course not everyone is able to properly deal with an older Child (as any older child who needs to be adopted has gone through some type of trauma, and some people are not equipped to deal with that and may cause more trauma to the child)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 10:40 PM
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Adopting a baby at age 47 is not going to be easy. Surrogacy or donor egg would work, but more costly
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 08:45 PM
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She wants to pay for a hot young prostitute, while telling herself it is for trying to conceive a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 08:39 PM
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As an older woman---Eww. No. Rather not have a man that have to be extra freaky in bed or whatever. Try a younger woman--they aren't ready for marriage yet and might be more willing to try out something new. Older women already know what they do or don't like, and as they are not looking to have children or necessarily get married, they are not going to put in the same effort as a woman your own age, who is trying to get a husband in time to have a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 05:24 AM
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No it isn't. I am a woman, but earn more. If I want to enjoy my money, I am going to pay. If I want to use my money to enjoy something with another person, I am going to pay for the other person. What am I going to do with my earnings? Spend on myself and watch those around me struggle?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:42 PM
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Sure. As a blonde, did date guys who had a thing for blondes (or even blonde Americans). Whatever, men are going to go for who they are attracted to. Better to be with someone who is attracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:56 AM
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No. Actually it was more of a late-bloomer type of thing. The guys were not attractive, immature. Grew up a bit and dated women 2 to 3 yrs younger than they were. One of my good friends, lamented how he was always going to be a Virgin, when he turned 18. He ended up dating 2 extremely attractive women, and then married the 3rd woman. It is very typical for some men in their teens and early 20s, to not yet be attractive to women, and then suddenly they are (but generally not to the women who reme…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:05 PM
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Advice: as a general xer, I recall all of my male friends lamenting how they would never get a girlfriend. This is typical for most young men, to feel that way. So many of the guys thought that they would be single and alone for their entire lives. However most ended up married, with children, and I cannot think of any who remained single. What young men are feeling, is very normal for their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:18 PM
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It does, because if a woman wants to get married, she could be waiting for years before knowing if he actually wants to marry her or is just waiting to get to a point in his life where he moves on with someone else. Whether to feel secure in making sacrifices (like moving or not moving for a career or the man's career), if the woman wants to be able to make decisions for the future (it is difficult to plan for one's future, when living in relationship limbo or waiting to be able to make plans wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 04:34 AM
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No. The type of men who leave, are either the ones who have ALREADY left for their career (so they would have left, no matter if they brought a wife with them, or met someone in their new location); a guy who is adventurous, open-minded and wants to travel and experience the world, and therefore would havw ledr mo matter what; OR the type that is kind of a loser at home, but due to the privileges that come from being born in the west, can be considered successful in a poorer region of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 07:15 PM
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You are from different cultures. You are probably better off to find someone who is either from your culture, or will adapt to your culture. Because, you are already 32 and if you want marriage soon, it is a lot less likely that it is going to happen with an American guy who wants to stick with American dating culture.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/24 01:09 AM
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I think it is because there are a lot of things that women cannot do as easily, so they have to keep asking their husbands until their husbands do those things. As a single woman, there are things around my home that have taken me all day, that a stronger man could have done in a few minutes (like, removing a washer and dryer that were too large to fit through the doors, so I had to remove doors, use a hammer to allow the large pieces to squeeze through). When I was married, my husband used to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:39 PM
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Very true
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 12:29 AM
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Because many men do not take care of their children, so seeing a man who does, means he is "proven" to be a good father, and that is attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 08:31 AM
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Well. Since going on anti-hormone drugs after being diagnosed with cancer, I actually feel no desire to partner with anyone. I was already taking a break from being in a relationship, to work on my life/travel/business. So, perhaps my feelings/reactions are not everyone's. However, I did think that once I took some time for myself, I would go out and date again. Now, I don't feel like that at ALL. And, I like my life better now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:37 AM
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The only person who can decide whether or not they are a loser, is one's self. Does the person have anything else that is important to them? Are they doing any good for anyone or anything? Any sort of accomplishments that they are proud of? I am sure that there are plenty of mate-less people who are engrossed in their own lives and do not consider themselves to be losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:02 PM
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No. Of course I am a bit older. But anyway, back in high school, my high school friends and I wanted jobs at the grocery store. Produce department paid more, AND I had experience in produce, having worked selling local farmers produce for years as a child! No. They hired my male friends, who knew nothing about fruits and vegetables for produce and stuck me as a cashier, earning 4.25 an hour....so I took that job because I was desperate, but also started my own business, calling off from my job w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:49 AM
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I don't think anyone thinks that single mothers are better mothers?? I think it is sympathizing with how difficult it is for someone to be a single mother (just as it is difficult to be a single father). Right now, I have my sister's (she passed away) youngest children. I work full time, make good money and have an extremely flexible schedule AND have my mother helping with the kids (but of course, she is elderly and cannot drive and has to spend a lot of time going to doctors herself), and it i…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 04:04 AM
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IDK. One of my friends took care of his stepfather all during the last months of his life. There is definitely less benefit now, but in the past, children, ESPECIALLY strong young men, were beneficial no matter if they had actual genetic ties or not. Today, children are more of a burden instead of a benefit. Definitely men should not be financially forced to provide for children that are not theirs (these days we have government programs, so not as if we are subjecting kids to starve or anything…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:02 PM
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No. You can never truly know what the future will bring. No one should have to live in hll. People hide their true selves and people change. Sorry, if I found my man looking at child-prn? Divorce! Man r*pes someone? Murders someone? Divorce! Man Steals all of my money/empties shared accounts/takes out huge loans? Divorce! Man is horribly abusive? Divorce! Punches you, strangles you? Divorce! Harasses you non-stop for weirder and weirder sex? Divorce! Man wants to live in total filth and also doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:07 AM
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All that I can say, is that when I was 20yrs old, 30something men were "gross and old" to me. Of course, I was already married, so not looking for any man. When divorced in my 30s, I found 40something men to be way too old. Now that I am in my 40s, age is whatever (but I also don't have any desire to date anymore). I do know some women who are married to much older men, and to be honest? In most cases their husbands appear younger than their age, and these guys are generally good guys, who had n…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 01:31 PM
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Culturally incompatibility, means that both people come from different cultures, and therefore different expectations of how life should operate. Don't feel like typing out a whole d*mn story.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 11:41 AM
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Yes, preferences change. As a 16yr old, I wanted a tall guy, rebellious (I was also rebellious). I went for someone who suffered depression, because I thought I could take care of him and help him improve. I also thought that he would grow up and we would lead "normal" lives. NO. Didn't happen. After divorcing, I then made the mistake of going for someone "different". The cultural differences were way too much to deal with. Then I realized that both times, I was going for the guy who others thou…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 03:44 AM
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I did meet men who wanted to start families. However, I was on the fence about doing so, as I had a son who had health issues and I needed to work full time to pay for all of his needs (so, didn't see where I would have time to have another child, without being neglectful of the one that I already had). I remember one guy in particular. He was a lawyer who had divorced because he wanted children (However, he complained that I went to buy groceries for my son when my son was at his father's. But …
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/24 07:34 PM
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36 is not too old. I went on dating apps at 37 to 39 and met plenty of decent men.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/24 07:00 PM
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1)People are not animals 2) Human nature is adaptive and not exactly one way or another
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 06:48 PM
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Happened to me. Got breast cancer at age 42. I literally do NOT care that I don't look the same anymore. Perhaps if something like that happens to you, you will no longer care about how you look either. Before, I looked at least 10yrs younger than my age. Had waist-length blonde hair, thin and in shape, perfect breasts. Now, radiation has aged my chest and neck to look MUCH older than my age, my breasts are now misshapen, scarred and atrophied (atrophy caused by current medications that block es…
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/24 02:11 PM
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Are men aware that the majority still need to adjust their behavior, in order to be living in a decent society?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 06:16 PM
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Nah. I met quite a few men who wanted to marry and have children, when I was 36. The reason that I didn't, was because I already had a child with health issues and an ex who refused to pay for anything and would always threaten to quit his job and cause our son to lose his health insurance. All of my money went to my son, and his father even would eat a lot of the food that i prepared according to our son's health issues, so i ended up having to purchase extra food. My son did end up moving back…
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/24 10:40 PM
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He is not stupid. He knows that you are 36 yrs old. One last conversation, and time for you to move on. Truth is, if he wanted to marry you, you would at least already be engaged. If he cared about you, he would already have had conversations and you would be broken up or engaged.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/24 10:08 PM
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There was DEFINITELY a stigma!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:37 AM
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What? Yes there was. I remember going to bars that had music, and allowed under 21, with a hand stamp that said no alcohol. In college town, so it was half college kids and half from the local high schools. We steered CLEAR of the creepy balding 30somethings--did not even want to say hello. Nope--we were basically only interested in our own age or a couple years older.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 12:19 AM
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No, a lot of women are grossed out by such, because they remember back to when they were just 18yrs old and 30+ men bothered them. Both men and women with 18yr old Daughters are also horrified at the thought of some older man going after their daughter, who they know is too immature to be with a 30+man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 08:30 PM
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More divorce (some couples no longer want to be intimate but their lives are do entwined that they choose to look the other way). Less marriages--people who know that they will cheat will not take the chance on marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 01:21 AM
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I was mistaken for younger when I was in my 30s. At age 33, I did beer promotions (you know, you put on cute little outfits and hand out free beer and promotional products). When the team of girls went out for a company party, once, I was the only one who got carded and was much older than the other girls. I seriously did look younger than they did. But except for being able to be hired for that job for extra money, looking younger than my age has NEVER been a plus point. I have always been self…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:12 PM
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Answer: He doesn't like women, so makes excuses to throw everyone off of the truth . In real life he is a furry, or he likes to pay, or he likes to wear diapers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 10:38 PM
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Have you ever experienced having a father that could not do a great job providing? Have you ever raised a child with a man who refused to provide? Have you ever had to take care of someone else's children because their father was a complete waste? If so, then you might agree that a woman would be stupid to choose a man who could not provide, and also all of these people who try and make women not want to be mistaken for "gold-diggers" are not doing anyone (except maybe loser men) any favors.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 01:50 AM
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The father of my nieces, told their mother that he would hate her forever if she had an abortion. He has done nothing for his children, ever. She started to leave the kids with him, while she went to work. He basically quit working, and completely neglected his children while she was at work. Family took over helping out with the children and kicked him to the curb, when it was discovered that he sat on the computer playing video games and looking at underage girl porn all day, leaving the baby …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 11:58 PM
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You are a man? Well of course you might choose a younger woman, more inexperienced in life. Men are generally looking for something different out of a relationship, than what a woman is looking for. A younger person dating an older person, is generally looking to be taken care of and not going to be an equal partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 09:20 PM
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A younger person is inexperienced in LIFE. Everything is not sex🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 09:04 PM
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Sure. Women don't want sexual perverts, who spend all of their money on Only Fans, follow tons of "hot Instagram models", need every gross kink that they have seen on some porno to be fulfilled. Women want a man who can at least take care of themselves and not sit there working a part time job and mooching off of her or others. Women want a man who her family and social group will be accepting of and think "She got herself a great guy". Women want a man who will propose marriage or some sort of …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:03 PM
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Not like men. There are many early 20something women who are sitting there waiting on a ring that isn't coming.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 03:59 AM
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Where you are saying " Be nice, buy not too nice", etc.. That is where your problem lies. To be honest? Most men do NOT have this issue, where they are confused about what being Nice, but also Assertive, etc. means. It literally comes naturally to many people, but not to all people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 06:09 AM
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No. Genuinely helpful. Look, I have a 40yr old relative who just learned that she is Autistic (and all people who maybe have a bit more trouble navigating social situations are not Autistic. Everyone cannot be great at everything). Anyway, this person always struggled with work, coworkers, friends. Learning that she had Autism REALLY clarified past struggles AND allows for her to take her social unawareness into consideration, when making choices for her future. Sometimes, when you can look at a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:46 AM
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Ok. This is not an issue for the majority of men/people. If it is an issue for you, then consider that you may have some social ineptitude? Unfortunately that is difficult to overcome, but you can still work on yourself and learn a bit more about navigating social situations. You may also be able to meet a woman who similarly suffers from lack of social awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:37 AM
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I was taking care of my baby while working at the same time. The long hours were difficult due to not wanting to have to have my child at work. Now? I work all of the time, because I don't have a kid to also worry about. I love my work. However, if given the choice, I would have chosen to Stay at home with my child, when my child was young. That is not because one is easier or more difficult than the other. It is because it would have been better for my child. The difficult part of working, was …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:33 AM
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I was a parent who took my child to work. That was difficult. But, at least I had no worries about the safety of my child. Choice was sealed when sister-in-law lost her job because the daycare shut down due to the death of a baby (baby was insured by an older, mentally handicapped child, who was still younger than school-age. Obviously a clear case of poor supervision on the part of the adults who were present). My husband had some issues and was either not working or not working full time, so d…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:06 AM
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So, to answer your question, the reason that taller men are attractive, is because women feel SAFE. Since then, though, I have dated men who were shorter than myself (I am 5'3"). My shorter brother was also very much the ladies man before he married, so lacking height does not equal unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:21 PM
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My ex husband was very tall. Back in high school, I could never get to me locker, because there were crowds of trouble-maker kids blocking that whole hall. When I walked with him, the other kids literally parted and moved out of the way. Later, I had a business, and you know what? We were the ONLY business in the neighborhood that did not experience an armed robbery. That was both because local people liked us, AND everyone was more than a bit scared of my (now ex) husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:19 PM
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Don't think so. I was a very strong, fit woman when I was young. Majority of men were much stronger, however.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:54 AM
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"Starter girlfriends" are for teenagers. After that, one should have more maturity, even if a 1st relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:45 PM
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Yes, BECAUSE, the more a woman has to offer (even if that is just being extremely attractive), the more other men are going to compete for her attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 12:09 AM
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Low self esteem. The need to be in control.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 09:39 AM
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Marry a woman whose father has a nice business and no son who wants to take over. Or he at least also has room for you to become a high-earning part of the business.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/24 12:07 PM
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No, I don't think it is obsolete, because in any couple/relationship, people have to make life decisions that involve sacrifice from the other person. It is much riskier or more difficult to do things like decide to move for one partner's job, without marriage. Also, decisions made if one person becomes incapacitated.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 04:58 AM
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As someone who is self-employed, it is NOT at all the same as having to rely on a spouse. I have such total freedom. My business partner's wife, while she definitely has it easier than some, I could not imagine having to put up with what she has to put up with (and she does get a decent sized "allowance" because I can't work with someone who wouldn't do so). But, wow, I could not imagine not being able to control every decision in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:15 PM
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The modest dressing to control other men, so that they are not turned on by the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:00 PM
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No. I legit have a number of friends that became pregnant and gave birth with no issues, between the ages of 40 and 43. One friend who had her 1st (and only child) at 44. I think it is harder, if you have fertility issues, to treat those issues as you become older, but definitely 35, 38 even 40 is no problem for the majority of women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:25 PM
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Ok. 35 is not the established cut-off for fertility. I know plenty of women who give birth in their early 40s and even some in their late 40s. 50 is probably more line the cutoff, with 45 starting to be a cutoff for some. Of course, some women may have other issues that cause them to become infertile earlier, but definitely 35 is NOT the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:04 PM
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Ok, you should definitely get your stress and anxiety under control before becoming pregnant. I had little stress or anxiety UNTIL I was pregnant--pregnancy hormones and responsibilities towards your little one will only increase stress and anxiety.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/23 05:21 AM
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Machinery, equipment, robots, etc. can take the place of many physical and/or mental tasks that currently have to be done by younger, more physically and mentally fit people. Then, when there are less people, there will be MORE land/housing/etc. for those who are here. Also, immigration.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:35 AM
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Just going by my experience, all men who I knew, who were like that in their 20s, remained like that in their 40s and 50s. They never "matured'.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/23 01:31 AM
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There is no argument. A man who wants to sleep around, and not allow for his woman to sleep around, and she is not ok with him sleeping around; is just a basic incompatibility. She should leave and find someone who is more respectful about what she wants in a relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/23 02:33 AM
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I think nearly anyone would be on heightened senses, if approached (for any reason) in this manner. As an older woman (pre-online, pre-cell-phones, when online dating was considered to be only for losers,etc.), I have been cold-approached in ways that were not creepy at all. The key is that the men who cold-approached; did so in well-lit areas where there were plenty of other people, started off with more innocent small-talk and interactions and READING SOCIAL CUES before escalating to flirting.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:58 PM
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I haven't seen it. Of course not looking for it either
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:31 AM
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Move on. He knows his issues--that's why he borrowed his mommy's car--to trick you into thinking that he was more grown up and responsible than he actually is.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/23 12:46 AM
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I would never be with a man who has kids that he is not raising.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:48 PM
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Go back to work, so that he can afford to take some breaks.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/23 08:16 PM
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No, but majority would be embarrassed by having a "loser" guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:11 AM
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Do you have money? Can you afford to travel? Take a trip somewhere tropical, hang out. Meet a younger woman, or widowed/abandoned single mom. Take her on some dates. Ask her to get married. Have a few kids! I have literally seen elderly men with wives and their own kids and step-kids. So, it is not too late for you. If you have no luck in your hometown area, go elsewhere. Though probably you may also need some therapy, to get past whatever it is that is causing you to feel as though you cannot m…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:58 PM
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It is better to work. Because, sure staying at home is nice and you don't have to deal with the stress of a career, BUT what are you going to do in the event that you do have to support yourself (and possibly him and Children)? My grandfathers passed away in their 40s. One grandmother quickly remarried. The other, had no ability to earn and she tried what she could, but ended up broke--and she had a home in one of the wealthiest areas in USA. She ended up selling it and then ran out of money a d…
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/23 06:50 AM
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Doing drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 02:12 AM
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No. I think anyone who has spent significant time in India , would not dismiss someone due to belief on astrology. Also, most who spend significant time in India, may also talk about or have something to do with astrology, and those who would be dismissive of that, are the ones who are less open-minded.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:59 PM
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But it is saying that anyone who calls it "stupid" or thinks less of someone... Is actually pretty uneducated themselves, to not know and understand that this is a huge religious belief. Most in India will not marry someone, whose astrology does not match up, business decisions are made according to astrology. Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:57 PM
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Do you all realize that astrology is part of the religion for most people in India? And that life choices are based on Astrological readings?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 10:16 AM
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Should be decided on a case by case basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 03:20 AM
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Jealousy. Men who cannot convince any woman to have sex with them, are jealous that if a woman wants to have sex, it is easier for her. Some men, who have a woman who regularly have sex with them, are also jealous, because they have low self esteem for other reasons, and therefore any woman who is having sex with them, must be inferior (in his mind only), so it doesn't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 03:59 AM
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And don't forget, if something should happen to one's husband. My father became extremely disabled in his mid-40s and my mother then had to become his full-time caretaker AND the earner. My uncle, became disabled in his 50s and my aunt had never worked and it was very difficult for her to have to enter the job market in a low-wage, entry type of job. One of my grandfathers passed away in his early 40s, and my grandmother had worked, but mainly raised a lot of children and could not earn enough t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 04:28 AM
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Um. No. Majority of men do not define themselves as single because they are not sexually active. In fact, there are countless men out there, who define themselves as single, even though they are sleeping with several women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:35 PM
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Yes. This is why so many men travel to poorer countries to sleep with sex workers. Yes, they normally pay more for the flight and hotel, food, than for the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 07:01 AM
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I know plenty of people in arranged marriages. The majority who I know, are not happy. A lot of cheating, a suicide, a guy making his wife live on a pittance while he funds the lives of his prostitute girlfriends.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/23 06:12 AM
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For most people, flirting behavior and dating behavior comes naturally. For others, their behavior comes across as "strange", "too strong", etc., so they need to learn and apply little "tricks" in order to not scare people away. For example, some people get extremely clingy and don't allow for their interest to even breathe. By playing "hard to get", they just seem more "normal". Most people have other interests and things going on in their lives and do not become all-consumed by a love interest…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:27 AM
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Honestly, as a woman who travels a lot, most of the women who go abroad specifically to try and meet someone. Well, there are reasons why they have trouble meeting someone "at home". Perhaps they are unattractive, extremely overweight, a bit "off", getting older. Often, older women can get into a relationship with a much younger guy. The men are fine with very overweight women. The men are mostly looking for a way out and up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 11:08 AM
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Most young women are creeper out by older men. Young men are also creeped out by older women--that's why there are so many posts putting down women in their 30s. They are mostly made by young men in their teens. Yes, the majority of young people are creeped out by the thought of romantic relationships with people much older. Trust me, as a young woman, I had absolutely ZERO interest in older men, and was always horrified when one would try to hit on me. Same with my peers. It is not weird at all…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:09 PM
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The average woman would not join a poly relationship just for a free place to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:50 AM
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It's actually because a lot of older women remember creepy older men from their youth and also making poor decisions that they later regretted. I agree that people under 25 can make decisions for themselves, however huge age gaps, when one person is very young, often mean that something is not right. It doesn't matter whether the younger person is male or female, straight or gay relationship. 40yr old with an 18yr old? 30yr old with a 16yr old? 22yr old with a 12yr old? In my middle school, the …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:59 PM
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Well, you only live once, so maybe tell him "Why not, if that is what you want to do". He is an adult. I assume he knows what he can and cannot afford, so he can make his own decisions.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/23 02:01 AM
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Ok, the main thing is: Do you have any current issues with your husband? Going 3 years into the past isn't going to help your life or relationship
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/23 11:51 PM
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Experience
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:48 PM
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Think about it. In the past, when it took extreme physical labor to procure food, whether through hunting or when agriculture began, women would have needed what? A strong man, who was capable of feeding the group. On top of being strong, being smart might also work in a man's favor, as far as procuring or protecting. So, then women would have been attracted to what? A strong, intelligent man. If you watch mating between deer, you will see that the young strong buck will get the majority of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 10:00 PM
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Always a little suspicious of men who are single when they have such small children. Also, yes, you will have to deal with the child's mother for the entirety of your relationship. He is right, too--she isn't going to change, so he has no option other than to just accept her as she is, if he wants his child in his life. That is typical for anyone co-parenting--you cannot control the other person and just have to accept and do what you can to keep the relationship as smooth as possible, for the c…
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/23 05:52 AM
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Sure, people can be friends with members of the opposite sex, or sex that they are attracted to. Proper boundaries are a must though. And, to women? Yes, unless you're very unattractive to them, your straight male friends are into you. When I divorced in my 30s, all of our male friends from our school days hit on me and asked me out-- I was surprised and a little grossed out. These days, I am friendly towards men, but keep a fair amount of distance. Also, if I happen to see an old friend, who is…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 09:07 PM
1

Maybe those women are just trying to make you feel bad. That wasn't my experience, so whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 08:47 PM
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No. Poor people having a lot of kids does not work. People in poverty with children usually become burdens on others, neglect their children, expose their children to dangerous situations. Their children lack in opportunities, grow up traumatized.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 08:29 PM
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Nope. You never can truly know anyone. Also, some marriages that look good from the outside, are not happy marriages between good people. Also, people die. People change. Mental illness happens. Disability happens. There are people put there who seem all about their family, and then they just take off and leave their family in bad situations. How often has a spouse, family members and community been shocked when the husband or wife turns out to be a pedophile who leaves their family and tries to…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 07:18 PM
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If older, A man with an unattractive wife. People are always a bit suspicious of single people in general (something wrong with them? Are they going to steal my man/woman?) Married people like other married people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 11:53 PM
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I was a tomboy, and I switched schools often, but all through elementary school, my best friend was the prettiest and most feminine girl. I did however, generally have the most popular boy as my little boyfriend. 2nd most popular guy hated me🤷‍♀️. Middle school, my best friend was also a tomboy. Eventually I was talked into cheering, as I was tiny and could do a lot of flips and splits, but I hated it and some of the girls were mean about my lack of trying to look nice (do up my hair, lack of ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:16 PM
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They have money, so they don't care if you have money or not. What they probably care about, is your character, if their son is happy, etc.. Don't stress about the money, or your lack of money.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/23 01:39 AM
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I have spent considerable time in Thailand. Yes, men with issues such as being unattractive, shy, socially awkward can get women there. However, I have seen plenty of foreign business men with unattractive local business women. I have a work associate who has an extremely unattractive "girlfriend" who is sucking him dry of money. Anyway, if you are a millionaire, don't mistake women's interest as being because you are physically attractive. Also, did you know that some dating/marriage services t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 10:08 PM
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Marriage is a good deal, if any person wants to stay in a relationship and there are sacrifices and compromises that must be made by either side. One person gets their dream job requiring a move? Well, if the other now needs to move and find new employment or spend time unemployed, in order to follow--better to be married, than make drastic life changes for someone who could leave you on a whim with no legal recourses, as far as financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 02:49 PM
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Most women were not able to just go and get a job, that would support themselves. One of grandmothers did not get a job until she was in her 70s. Before that she was at home. Had her children, did the cooking, cleaning, sewed all the family's clothing. She couldn't even drive. Actually, my other grandmother did not drive either. She did work, in theater and as a part time teacher, but that didn't earn anything. Also, she had a ton of children to care for. One of my great-grandmothers worked as a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 12:46 AM
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No. Definitely men had to be adults, in order to be in a relationship. This time period, men can be the least responsible compared to any other time in history.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 11:53 PM
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That doesn't even make any sense. If a man has to be an adult, he doesn't want to be in a relationship? Ok, whatever. Women don't generally want to be in relationships with men who act like incompetent children. If you only want a relationship so that you can act as an incompetent child, well, there are some low-self-esteem women who might accept you for awhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 11:26 PM
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Well. Perhaps try finding a man who cannot have sex. There are men out there, who for whatever reason, are not sexual. The majority of men, are not going to want to enter a relationship that does not involve sex.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/23 06:55 PM
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1) trust your gut on this guy and move on. 2) a lot of guys who go to foreign countries to meet women, do so because they are socially awkward and give off odd vibes that scare away their local women. Sometimes, when you go to a different country, or are around people from a different culture, social awkwardness may not be noticed as much or may be brushed off as a cultural difference 3) Anyway, this man is projecting onto you, not actually trying to get to know you. That is enough of a red flag…
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/23 05:29 AM
1

I loved sports at first, but as a small, late-developer, I was constantly made fun of or out down by PE teachers, once I hit middle school and that was the end of sports for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:52 AM
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Well, most of the guys who I know, who have/are paying for sex, are NOT getting "20yr old hotties". Have you ever walked on walking street in Pattaya? 🤢. The only hotties are the ladyboys, to be honest. Then majority of the men are also just gross. Now, in Pattaya, I have seen plenty of cute young women out on dates with young men who are unattractive but NOT GROSS, or shy, or cute but have some sort of physical deformity or issue. There are the more upscale places, too, but any "hotties" either…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:33 AM
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No The men who I know who cannot easily date, they would not make a good SO to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 01:02 AM
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Being that men are still the main ones to propose, how are women at fault for not getting married. I mean, every day there are posts from young men who have been dating a young woman for a certain period of time, and she wants to get married and he does not. There are posts from women not wanting to be "forever girlfriends". So
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 12:00 AM
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Not from what I have seen. I saw plenty of married couples (without or with little kids, or teens, with in-laws) in Pattaya, in Santo Domingo, etc. The man from a Western country and the woman from the country in which we were in.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 02:13 AM
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No. If it "worked", society would still be doing it. It didn't work. Men were essentially slaves, working for their families. Women were entrapped in doing work for nonpay and were living very restricted lives. Sure, for some it worked, but many others were trapped in bad situations. The men in my family died young, due to the hard work that they did. Then, the women and younger children suffered because the woman could not go out and earn a real living. If a man became disabled? What then? His …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 05:10 PM
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Well, for guys who cannot attract women locally, why not go elsewhere? I was in Thailand last month, and there were quite a few adorably dorky guys, with their adorable wives and children. I saw another guy, at a coffee shop, SO NERVOUS on his date with an attractive young Thai woman---it was cute, actually. I mean, there were also the entirely disgusting men, going after the not-so-attractive prostitutes. But, yeah, these woman are going to expect a certain financial situation from the man. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:35 AM
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Men would not like to be treated in the way that women are treated. How do I know? Because I used to sometimes go out with my much less attractive friend, and once she would get quite drunk, she would begin hitting on men, touching men, trying kiss men; and the men DID NOT APPRECIATE that at all! Eventually she stopped. It was getting creepy and embarrassing
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:11 PM
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Why would Man "A" opt out of dating because man "B" can't attract the person he wants? That makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:57 PM
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I don't know. Of all of the black women who I know from school, only one is married and the remaining are single. One of the remaining has children, with no father involved, even though she is very religious. The others have no children. These women were in the advanced classes, very intelligent, all except one have great careers. Their looks, honestly vary, but some are or were very attractive, but they all have a lot to offer. I would honestly say that it is racism.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:32 AM
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As an older woman, I have seen many of my "dorky, geeky, unattractive, loser, etc." 18yr old male friends, who would OFTEN whine about how they were going to "never have a girlfriend ", "die a virgin"; get out of our hometown, go to college, meet a compatible woman and they have now been happily married for 15yrs, 20yrs. Honestly, my friends would make similar negative remarks about "the popular girls", "all girls"; but the was pre-internet. I have seen others take a bit more time. During my 30s…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 05:49 PM
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Just because you wouldn't be happy with that life, doesn't mean that her husband isn't. My son confided that he would live to be a Stay At Home Husband, and I believe him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 04:44 AM
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Look up the hardness. As a jeweler, I can tell you that opal is too fragile for an engagement ring.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 12:09 PM
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Opals are too fragile for everyday wear. An opal engagement ring that is worn everyday, will have to be replaced constantly
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 08:01 AM
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This literally has nothing to do with being male or female. It has to do with the lifestyle that one wants and can afford. So, those women are just not compatible with what you want. There are plenty of men who would be compatible with those women. There are plenty of women, who also don't want that lifestyle and would be more compatible with the lifestyle that you want to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 10:08 AM
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I would say that most are getting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:29 AM
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Yes, and nature also has consequences for those actions. If you commit one of those actions, nature causes other humans to react.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:28 AM
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Boyfriend? Sure. Husband? No. Unless his extra money were going to children from a previous relationship, or charities, or other family members in need, retirement funds. Otherwise, what is the point of making money, if not to enjoy it? Also, I actually currently make more money than any man who I have ever dated, so if he makes significantly more than that, why are we both still working 40hours? One or both of us should cut back. Heck, if he is smart enough to make substantially more, if he is …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:17 PM
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I would beg to differ. There are plenty of wives/spouses out there who are negative towards their husband's/spouse's business. Who "put their foot down" and complain about the long hours worked, who try to force their spouse to just "get a job", who throw fits about not only the time but also the money that must be invested in a business. I also know of plenty of wives who begin to secretly spend their husband's or even husband's family's business's money and end up racking up a lot of debt for …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 04:14 PM
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There was an older woman in a decent apartment complex, who used to try and ply preteen boys with alcohol, cigarettes and weed; and then try to have sex with them when they were drunk. She was extremely creepy, and many young guys were assaulted by her. She would sometimes come into where we worked, and teenage boys whom she had tried (or succeeded in) exploiting, would get a horrified look on their faces and try to walk to other way and avoid her. They also begged out of having to help her, rin…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:20 PM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 04:32 PM
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Yes. Have a family member, who is very attractive, but has no social skills at all. Getting dates was no problem, but getting a relationship was impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 08:59 AM
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Because they are paying PEOPLE, most of whom re exploited or have other issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 08:30 AM
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Not doing much together -- not that big of an issue, relationships do not have to be about shared interests. Lack of ambition? Huge problem. He will likely not improve.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/22 08:02 PM
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Well, marrying someone close in age is no guarantee that you will grow old together, either.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/22 04:36 PM
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Probably an eating disorder.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/22 12:40 PM
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No. I was with one person from 16-33, and didn't feel that I was missing out on anything, except that he became obsessed with porn as the internet came about. Afterwards, most of the next guys were worse, to be honest. Maybe one about equal. Those pre-porn years were the best, and I don't think that time is coming back for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 06:55 PM
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First relationship of 16 years was 6'6", last person was 5'2". I am not tall and found it easier to date not tall men, but whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 03:03 PM
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My sisters had/have more issues finding good men for partners. My brother's are opposites and both met their current partners at a young age. One brother is short and not as good - looking, but he has all the best personality traits and really understands women due to having so many sisters and female relatives. He is only 5', but was very popular and had girls chase after him all of the time. The other brother is super-atractive, but a bit off and hard to be around. He had trouble keeping a gir…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 10:24 AM
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Eh, I do trade shows and the amount of cheating men is insane. I keep my distance, because SO many men try and proposition is women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 04:52 AM
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Yeah, but have you seen the documentaries on people who have sex dolls? They dress them up, talk to them, take them out to restaurants, buy them engagement rings.....of course those are the people willing to be on camera, but that's what I picture, haha
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 08:06 AM
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A man is perfectly free to make that choice. I think that a lot of people see sex toys as different than purchasing used underwear, socks or farts in jars, though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 07:26 AM
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Well, I would prefer to be single, rather than date someone who owns a sex-doll. Of course, I won't want to date anyone who feels the need to purchase used underwear/socks. What about, aren't there guys buying some girl's farts in a jar? These are probably the same ones who would buy sex dolls, so.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 08:04 PM
1

I personally think that most jobs and work heavily involve mental fighting
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 09:12 AM
3

The average man goes after the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 12:57 PM
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I meant there are some women who do that. However, the men are often after just money and/or citizenship. .
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:23 AM
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Disagree. Have seen plenty of wealthy men marry attractive women who are not wealthy at all. Have seen wealthy men marry much younger unattractive women who had no wealth. If a man has plenty of wealth, then he usually isn't concerned with how wealthy his partner is, though he would likely be concerned with her ability to impress his social group.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 08:02 PM
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Haha, well you never know--Some people are very literal. Anyway, Some men, in real life, do make their intentions of a hookup known, but they are able to do so with finesse. I don't think that women feel repulsed, unless the guy comes off as creepy/socially unaware/potentially dangerous/maybe if he is crude. I don't think that a woman feels insulted, unless the guy causes her to feel that she is only good enough for a hookup and not a relationship, OR she has been having trouble finding any man …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:50 PM
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Please do not ask that question to any woman. If you really just want hookups, you are going to have to learn to be a bit charming and flirt and use less direct language (but use direct language when getting consent, just not the word "fornicate"). During the flirting stage, be interested in more about her, even if you are only looking for a hookup, she is still a person. Also, keep in mind that there are a lot of women who are not into hookups, so don't press if she is not interested and do not…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:25 PM
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As a 44 yr old, I will tell you that you absolutely can have "hot and heavy" sex in your 30s and 40s. Now, things can happen, such as poor health, but otherwise it can definitely be the same as for those in their teens/twenties.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:55 AM
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No, I married in my late teens, actually. Divorced at around 33.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:36 AM
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The first woman obviously gets dumped, because the man feels that he has been missing out, by being tied down all of those years. The second couple stays together, because they currently have fun together and enjoy their lives together; but also know, from their pasts, that they are not missing out on anything .
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 08:53 AM
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I would not lose respect for a man losing badly in an mma match. I would lose respect for a man who would run away from a problem/fight/issue. Like, if a man were having issues at work and decided to not stand up for himself in any way (at the very least, decide to look for new employment).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 01:33 AM
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Men are not women, and many men have difficulty understanding women and women's lives. This man, is just thinking "Wow, if I could make money doing sex-type work, that would be so EASY compared to what I do now. I could make tons of money, more than I do currently!". He cannot look at it from a woman's point of view and cannot understand why a woman does not see sex-type work in the same way that he sees sex-type work. Sometimes, if you point out to a man, that he does in fact have the same oppo…
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/22 12:17 AM
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As a woman, I feel protective towards the children in my family. Outside of my family as well. I recall once, at a park, a little boy fell from quite high up, and I rushed over to him as if he were my own child. When I handed him off to his father, is when I realized that I did not even have time to think before reacting. I also recall being protective towards my father, but he was disabled at that time, so not sure if that made a difference in "flight or fight" response or not. I can't really r…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 01:52 AM
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Look, if you are going to inherit a business worth millions, it is going to be difficult for you to find a man of equal financial worth --- not everyone has an inheritance coming. In my opinion, what you need are strong boundaries. Make it clear that in no way do you plan to support a man, You do NOT want a househusband, etc .. Don't date men who don't work, and don't put up with a man who tries to weasel out of working. If you put your foot down when a man tries to cross your boundaries, then t…
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/22 12:24 PM
6

Oh gosh, these things are basically mass-produced by writers. Go with any. There are tons of older ones at used book stores, thrift stores...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:11 PM
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Read a few "Romance" novels. You will find what turns women on (however, some novels are outlier).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:21 PM
1

Yeah, but when these guys mature / grow up, they will likely find themselves actually annoyed by 18yr olds. Some of these guys may actually find themselves attracting many more women within 5-10yrs of their own age, suddenly becoming "popular" with women and having more options and they will be perfectly happy with that. I personally know plenty of men who could not get a girlfriend in high school, were awkward in college, and then circumstances changed--they improved, their location changed, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 03:14 PM
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Most 40-50yr old men are NOT dating 18-25yr olds, not are they going after that age group. Maybe 30-50yr olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 02:39 PM
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And don't forget if the husband passed away or becomes disabled. Several women in my family, ended up with disabled husbands and having to enter the workforce or work much harder than before, around age 50, when there are not a lot of opportunities for those with little to no experience. Plus, they still had to care for the home and their husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:38 AM
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Who cares, and how does it hurt anyone else? When I was attractive, never really remember women commenting anything. However, when I became very ill, women began to comment all of the time. Of course, I know that I am not "beautiful" in the same way that I was. People are commenting that I am beautiful because I look like I am improving, I got out of bed and dressed nicely, whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 07:10 PM
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He's 58, so for him, why not "rush"? For you, though, you have to consider the rest of your life. If he passes away? If he somehow loses his fortune? Both of those things happen, and since he already has children, there is a chance that you end up with very little to use to take care of your child. He has nothing to lose by moving quickly, but that doesn't mean that you can't slow it down. Don't quit your job. He can still pay for things, if work🤷. Eventually, when you have a fat bank account fo…
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/22 10:34 AM
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Oh, no. He will go for custody and then neglect the kid, because he doesn't want to pay child support
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 12:22 PM
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This idea comes from a man who thinks that he has everything to offer a woman and therefore the woman should immediately sleep with him, but she doesn't. This man also assumes that other "lesser" men are getting easy sex from the same woman. It is all assumptions from some men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 02:10 PM
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It can be that, when either working for someone else or having a business; there is no choice to cut back. On several occasions, I have been stuck with my own business--it just was not possible to cut back the level of responsibility or work without losing the business, or severely disappointing the customers (which would then cause the profits to drop too low to support the overhead of the Business). The only option for me, at one point, when I needed to care for my child due to illness, was to…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 08:58 AM
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Never wanting to drive. What am I? The chauffeur? I can't deal with lazy, neurotic, someone who wants to treat me like a servant, or whatever reason he has for refusing to drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 06:13 AM
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This story doesn't ring true to me. I am not saying that there are not those few trashy women out there, but other women would not go around talking about some guy's "huge cock". That mainly happens on commercials made to sell insecure men enhancements. Also, most people, men and women would not go and brag to their current SO about their ex, unless baited into doing so. This screams troll-post and if it isn't, just dump a woman who is that disrespectful and trashy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 02:27 AM
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How many women in the USA are getting paid for sex? I only see it in the open in 3rd world countries. Minimum wage jobs will not pay a person enough to survive on alone (though possibly by combining more than one peron's income). In the USA, my experience in knowing prostitutes mainly involves women who did not make the choice for themselves--an employees mother who was stolen from her country and forced into prostitution (but later managed to escape and did choose working minimum wage jobs), th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 02:06 AM
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That is where you are wrong. Why is it that the majority of women who work in prostitution from poor backgrounds? The majority have few if any other options. Have you traveled through areas known for sex tourism? Does it appear to be mutually beneficial? Sit at the tables in Boca Chica, look at the faces of the young women with the old men, does it look as if they actually want to be there? Most didnt even seem to be pretending, just waiting for it to all be over. I am not saying that there are …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 12:49 AM
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I think that there are a small amount of men who are sad cases--lonely, lacking social skills, physically unattractive, and those men hire prostitutes because they cannot otherwise convince any woman to have sex with them. I think that the rest of the men who pay for sex simply do not see women as actual people, do not care about potential consequences, and have no problem using people for their own gain. I know many men who have paid for sex and they are narcissistic, self absorbed and think of…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 04:16 PM
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Often times, though, the high-earner also may be too busy to take care of the child, or may not want the responsibilities of taking care of the children full time. I do know of cases where the higher earner also happened to mostly work from home and had the more flexible schedule and that is why they got full or more custody, but I also know of cases the higher earner simply did not have the time to care for the children full time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 05:33 AM
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Didn't that famous French woman just leave her child that she never wanted with his father? She wanted an abortion and her husband wanted the child. She didn't leave right away, maybe when the child was 2 or so. Never felt maternal and never bonded with the baby. Happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 04:05 PM
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Maybe because once agreeing to marry, she began to have second thoughts. Couldn't get the cheating out of her head, and decided that she didn't want to be cheated on in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 05:35 AM
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Yes, I used to hire these young muscular guys who worked out at the gym, and they were not as strong as the smaller guys who regularly worked the job. A lot of their muscle seemed useless for real-life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 05:27 AM
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I did. Though we are now divorced, I don't think that I regret it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 03:26 AM
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Where do you get that alimony is forever? That usually only occurs in cases where the couple is elderly and one spouse was a homemaker. I have gone on dates with doctors who had stay at home wives and they are only paying alimony for about 3-5 yrs. One guy was planning to pay until their youngest child went to school. I know another couple, where the wife got 6 months of alimony, which was long enough for her to find new employment.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/17 02:23 AM
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Hmmm, not sure. I know that for myself, I don't have a problem with men wanting a long term relationship(the problem is with me, freaking out that I don't know them that well yet and don't want another bad relationship). I live in the southern USA, so it is a totally different culture.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/17 01:58 AM
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Maybe there is some sort of vibe that you are unconsciously giving off?
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/17 06:21 AM
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Yes, but you live in an area where so many people are just as attractive as you are. If you are in an area with less people, and less attractive people, a guy may feel more like he has to commit because he doesn't have endless options. Also, just smaller cities and towns have a different culture. LA is full of single people and the average age of marriage is higher than other areas.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/17 06:07 AM
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In my opinion, it would be worth it. Your level of attractiveness may be considered higher in different areas, as well (however, in some areas you may not fit in and therefore your options would decrease).
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/17 05:41 AM
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The area probably has a lot to do with it.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/17 05:32 AM
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You can have whatever preferences you would prefer. Just remember, though, that women's preferences do not necessarily align with your own. I have heard many physically fit men complain that it has been so difficult for them to find women who are in shape. It was because that while, yes, those men were in shape, they did not have the traits that were important to the women who they considered equally physically fit. In other words, how in shape a guy is, is not necessarily of the same importance…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 09:01 AM
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Probably a relative of mine. Not ridiculously high, but dated a lot. Married young, divorced. Dated more. Now married with a slew of kids to a much younger guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 09:09 PM
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Some wait staff do this in order to obtain large tips. Basically, they are stealing from their employer, hoping some of it lands in their pocket.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 06:53 PM
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Plenty of men are in LTRs with women and have zero intention of making her a life partner and mother to his children. (plenty of women as well)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 02:41 AM
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Wealthy male. There are plenty of beautiful females in horrible situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 02:29 AM
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Being. Sat there for a couple of seconds confused by the title....
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 09:40 PM
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Not me. If left on my own I could not care less about my appearance. Men always complain that they want to see me in New outfits, wearing a certain style of make-up, etc. Fine. Then he can take me shopping for it.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/17 01:02 AM
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No. I met my ex husband before internet porn. As teens, we looked at it together as a curiosity. I was bored quickly. Later I accidentally stumbled across some things that he was looking at that made me feel physically ill. I also accidentally found in my ex boyfriend's browser or something that he was obsessed with overweight women, which just made me feel as though he was not attracted to me, I was just the socially acceptable choice. I would rather not see any of it. There is an incognito cho…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 05:56 PM
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No one really pushes men into these jobs either anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 12:31 AM
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I am a female and think that I was most attractive ages 32-38. Age 39 now and see some ageing, also work out less. Everyone's attractiveness level does not peak at the same age. In my peer-group, some were most attractive around 18, and some were like myself and most attractive in their 30's. This is true for males and females. Some of the most attractive high school seniors aged horribly. Some kids who were pimple-faced, gangly, whatever became more attractive. Some people stayed attractive the…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 12:30 AM
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In this case I would say to go for it. There is no guarantee that you would be successful in breastfeeding if you did not have the surgery, either.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/17 11:52 PM
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If the couple can afford for one partner to stay at home, then it certainly can still make sense today. Life with 2 working partners can be hectic and stressful depending on the job/scheuduling. It is not unusual for couples to have very little free time for themselves, let alone each other. Things like working different shifts or scedules, having to take care of errands/obligations can seriously suck up time and add stress to people's lives. It is definitely easier If one partner stays at home …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 08:59 PM
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If this is his attitude now, how will he act of something goes wrong and for whatever reason he cannot earn an income? There is zero reason for you to not get a job and contribute financially so that the both of you can enjoy your lives with less stress. Of sales pick up, then the situation can be reconsidered. What would happen if he lost his job? If he became disabled whether temporarily or permanently? Let me say, that my Aunt stayed at home during the first 20 years of her marriage. At age 4…
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/17 03:22 AM
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There are plenty of single women who do not date, "cat ladies" or whatever. The difference is that their lives are not consumed by an inablity to get "laid", like the incel males. The women just sort of accept their lives and concentrate on other things instead of lack of a sex-life
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 10:19 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 10:11 AM
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Yeah sure....be prepared for a ton of drama.....
/r/askTRP24/01/17 02:59 PM
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I have seen it. May depend on your location. As a female, I have always had men try to solicit me on sites like OKCupid, and recently while checking out the female profiles, I have noticed a lot more that are blatant advertisements for prostitution. In fact, I decided to delete my account because of that fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/17 08:39 PM
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Well, those women's children are probably more likely to not do well and survive. More so in the past, but also today.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/17 08:08 PM
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Are you Indian? If not, that is the key. Also, did you meet her on a matrimonial site? This guy met her through a matrimonial site. Did you meet her family? If not, then she has zero intention of marrying you. If you have, then her family is more westernized culturally.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 08:05 PM
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Honestly, very few people in this site are going to understand Indian culture, and therefore are not going to be able to give you good advice. You would be better off discussing potential marriage with other Indian men, who are from India. Also, can't hurt to ask this woman more about herself, her beliefs, her values.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 12:01 PM
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He's Indian. She's Indian. She isn't going to sleep with him unless they become engaged(which in India means making preparations for the marriage). Also, she will just be expected to adjust to him.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 11:59 AM
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First of all, not sure what ethnicity of women you are going for, but I have noticed that quite often men of Indian descent think that they are less physically attractive than they actually are AND apologize for their "darkness", which no one who is not Indian actually gives a damn about. So, you may be giving off a vibe of unattractiveness, rather than being unattractive. 2nd, and MOST importantly, the fact that you are being shut down may have ZERO to do with facial unattractiveness and EVERYT…
/r/askTRP23/01/17 11:50 AM
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Ah, ok. I just ignore everyone named Taco. I had no idea why so many were using it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/17 01:46 AM
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Ah, ok. It thought that maybe it had something to do with "lady parts" or whatever...thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/17 11:37 PM
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Yes, it was my child's personal medical history. Had no plan to leave it up there
/r/MensRights22/01/17 10:30 PM
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Is putting "Taco" in your username a code for anything? I have noticed that the majority of women who do so are looking for "donations", but have seen a lot of men's profiles also with the word Taco. Are those guys looking for prostitutes or something? Yeah, OKC seems full of men offering money and women and trans asking for money......
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/17 10:14 PM
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Yes it is. It is actually difficult to find bands smaller than 32. At 5'4" 90lbs, I needed a smaller band than 32. At 95-108 lbs I needed a 32. At 115-125, I was a 34. 125lbs was my weight the day before my child was born, so perhaps the weight was distributed a bit differently than if not pregnant. But yes, a 32 is a small band size.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/17 12:07 PM
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Yes, it is worth it.
/r/askTRP21/01/17 07:41 AM
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Not so much abrasive, as odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 09:17 AM
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Ha, no. Didn't want to leave someone else's personal medical information up. Figured that I left it up long enough for the conversation.
/r/MensRights20/01/17 09:14 AM
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Could be cultural/ familial background differences. In some large families, this is normal behavior. Nearly any group of New Jersey Italians will be talking over each other and find this to be normal friendly conversation. Throw someone from a different background in there, and they will misread the situation.
/r/askMRP20/01/17 07:28 AM
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Sweatpants, NO....clean gym clothes, Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 02:29 AM
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Sure, until something happens. My father became extremely disabled at a young age. My mother had to take care of him and the work, though he contributed what he was able to contribute.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 07:10 AM
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I have tried to date some of these types who are Indian. It is impossible due to their gender views, and views of what a relationship is supposed to be like.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 09:40 PM
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No. We had not had a chance to grow up and become adults yet. Some of my siblings also married equally young. One is still married, but his wife is like a child. Even if they had just waited to marry each other later, there would be a huge difference in the dynamics of the relationship AND they would both be more mature people. The rest of us divorced, all the same issues. Immaturity, naivete, unrealistic expectations, thinking that the grass is greener, making poor decisions early on that negat…
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/17 01:22 AM
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No, I was actually thinking of the creepiest 2 customers....they both happen to be attractive and well groomed....I mean, if you haven't been placed into a situation where you are essentially trapped (which really attracts the completely socially clueless as well as the ones who enjoy taking advantage of people and/or making people uncomfortable), then you just have no idea...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 12:26 AM
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We will disagree. The two creepiest people that I know are physically gifted genetically....just not socially
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 10:43 PM
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Eh, at 23 you have plenty of time to get married. Perosnally, I married at 18 and it was a mistake. Years later, divorced in my 30's and still could have gotten remarried and started all over again.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/17 10:10 PM
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So, then you are in your 30's. I doubt anyone has a second thought about your relationship because that seems to be a normal age-range. Now, If your girlfriend were with a man in his late 50's, people would probaby talk, and others would feel sorry for her. 11yrs is nothing...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 10:02 PM
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Eh, she doesn't even like men. Who watches her show? My guess is Older women who sit at home all day, so what she is really selling is just a fantasy, nothing that those women are actively going for.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 09:58 PM
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Pretty sure that according to most feminist women, they are all for the woman having the choice to do what she wants sexually. Feminism is about choice. If a woman wants the older, more stable guy, then that is her choice. If she wants the really old guy who will treat her like a princess, that is her choice. When she is with the guy (of any age) solely because she feels forced to be with him, that is what feminism,is against. Now, will you have women complain because they are jealous of what an…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 09:56 PM
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I thought that "cougars" were only truly socially acceptable when it was an older couple, where the wealthy man basically buys a new, younger plaything...and the woman does the same. Neither is for me, and both cases seem off-putting, but whatever, not my life. On online dating, I am constantly messaged by young guys in their late teens and early 20's. I figure that it is due to the fact that women in that age range are either: more likely to want to wait months before becoming sexual and are le…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 09:48 PM
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Oh, no. Trust me, you only have no idea because you have not experienced this first-hand. I could probably fill a book with both creepy women and creepy men who have bothered my employees or myself while at work. Only a lack of grooming contributed to their un-attractiveness, and some were in fact quite attractive. Physical attractiveness does not correlate with lack of mental illnesses or social savvyness. A person can be attractive and still socially clueless, or unable to empathise with other…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 09:41 PM
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Oh, yeah thanks. I figured that I left it up long enough to be relevant and wanted to get rid of it before I forgot that it was there.
/r/MensRights15/01/17 06:27 AM
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It retracted somewhat when he was a child, I believe that it was very right while he was going through puberty and an infection is what ended up causing the major issue. I honestly never looked at it myself, and have not looked at it since he was around 3yrs old, and a few times at 8yrs old when he was hospitalized with MRSA. Anyway, he was given a steroid cream that was supposed to loosen the foreskin, and a type of antibiotic that he was not allergic to to get rid of the infection. Unfortunate…
/r/MensRights15/01/17 04:39 AM
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If anyone told me "hey, baby, nice ass". I would immediately be unattracted. Sorry, I don't run with a social circle that would be ok with that sort of behavior. I cannot imagine any of the men with whom I had been interested in, EVER making a comment like that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 04:29 AM
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I am not lying. Phimosis is a problem that led to circumcision or other surgery such as slitting the foreskin being performed on adult men. Look it up. Even in ancient Roman (can't remember exactly, I had never heard of it until my son had it) it is well documented as a cause of male infertility and one the gods of male fertility is clearly shown as suffering from the condition. I think Pompeii or something. I think there was something about Greek culture really loving their foreskins, but writt…
/r/MensRights15/01/17 04:13 AM
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My personal opinion is that he has already told you that he is afraid of becoming more serious, etc. You are both still young and have not experienced a lot of relationships. While to some, this may be a plus, other people end up feeling as though they "missed out". If you two stay together, it is probably unlikely that those feelings will go away for him. It is more likely that he will just coast along in the relationship and then end up breaking up down the road, when either another woman show…
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/17 03:50 AM
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Yes, this began in his teens, as he physically grew and came down with his illness at the same time.
/r/MensRights15/01/17 02:48 AM
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Really? Try working in retail where you are basically "captive". If there is time for a lot of interaction between the customer and employee, the creepy men and women will gravitate to that place and creep out the employees. Also, just make a profile on OKC using a somewhat attractive female picture. The number of creepy messages is absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 02:23 AM
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He has phimosis (sp?), which he was given steroid creams for and did not work all that well, instead it just ended up that sometimes the very tight foreskin would retract and get stuck. He also has an unrelated condition that makes him extremely susceptible to infections, and those infections often are less likely to heal AND he is allergic to many antiobiotics. After several infections, he was circumcised. Both of those issues, phimosis and infections, were behind early circumcisions. Not that …
/r/MensRights15/01/17 01:55 AM
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You are incorrect. My extremely hot brother is constantly creeping out women whenever he opens his Autistic mouth. Women are extremely attracted at first glance, and he scares them off with socially-clueless behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 09:48 PM
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I don't know, I am a woman who has had some really terrible and scary first dates. The men who I know don't run into crazy situations until much later down the line
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 09:27 AM
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I am a woman who does nearly the same thing. I will be all excited about a potential date, and then not feel like leaving the house when the time comes. I also live in the middle of nowhere, so meeting any date is quite a drive for me. I have quit seeing guys because it turns out that they live further away than I originally thought and I just don't feel like driving.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 09:25 AM
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I was saying that women who say no when they mean yes are flakey. Flakey people will bring nothing good to your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 04:50 AM
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Personally, I would never want to deal with someone who is flakey anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 03:53 AM
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Seeing what my son had to go through as a late teen, I would completely respect his decision to circumcise his sons if that is what he chooses to do. I know that the risk of complications from not having a male circumcision is rare, but my son had several problems. Some of those problems are somewhat genetic. Had I known, of course I would have had it done when he was an infant. Can't predict the future, though, and I thought not circumcising was the right choice at that time.
/r/MensRights14/01/17 03:52 AM
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No. I am saying that if the girl says that she isn't going to sleep with you tonight, respect that. If she changes her mind, she is free to say so. Not trying to be pushy is how you avoid rape charges.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 03:48 AM
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Why not just respect what the girl is saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 03:05 AM
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My ex-husband was stalked by his ex-girlfriend for a couple of Years after breaking up. It was pretty scary and who knows what she was capable of doing. He is a large guy and no one in law enforcement took it seriously until she went way over the edge.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 03:05 AM
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Even though both are called circumcision, they are both 2 very different procedures with different outcomes. I actually did not have the procedure done on my son, and unfortunately he was one of the few men who did end up suffering from some of the complications that led to circumcision being normally performed in the first place. That said, I think that it is a very difficult decision for parents to make. I would completely back my son's decision of he chose to have the procedure done on his ow…
/r/MensRights14/01/17 02:38 AM
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I don't know. It is a violation to publicly reveal what was meant to be private.
/r/MensRights14/01/17 02:33 AM
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Disgusting. A 13yr old cannot consent to sex, because he is not mentally developed enough to properly consider all of the consequences. The type of adult who would take advantage of a child deserves a much more severe punishment.
/r/MensRights14/01/17 02:32 AM
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I think that it can if she is struggling, just in regards to what I have seen with friends in similar situations. Going to depend on a lot of circimstances, though.
/r/MensRights14/01/17 02:29 AM
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Well, as a person who doesnt really know the whole story, it is difficult to say what the best move is in this situation. No idea what sort of disorder your child may or may not have. It is not unusual for something to be wrong with a child and take a few different doctors and visits before one figured out the problem (my son was wrongly diagnosed as developing asthma, when in fact he had a completely different and much more severe problem). In the event that your son does not have a disorder at…
/r/MensRights14/01/17 02:28 AM
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Consenting to protected sex is not the same thing as consenting to unprotected sex. I would feel seriously violated if this happened to me. I think that anyone, female or male would feel violated. If you, as a male, put on a condom and only wanted to have protected sex, and somehow she secretly removed the condom, it would be the same thing. Probably not as emotionally damaging as rape, but any person would feel pretty damn violated.
/r/MensRights14/01/17 01:36 AM
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I don't think that this is a real problem for most people. Most of the world does not live like a Maury Povich show. If anything should be changed, then any laws requiring child support from men who turn out to not be the biological parent should be changed (but not when it comes to use of sperm donors or men who adopt). This affects a minority of people. I don't believe your 10% number that you pulled out of the air. I can only think of 1 child who I know and does not have a strong resemblance …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 11:17 PM
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Then perhaps you and your friends are about the same attractiveness level. I have had female friends stop wanting to go out with me, because I was more attractive and received more attention. During my early 30's, when I worked part time by gettting paid to hang out in night clubs, there were 3 young women who were far more attractive than the rest of us, and it was obvious that they received more attention.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/17 04:19 AM
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Mid-thirties is not the same as mid-forties. As a guy in your mid-thirties, you are still physically attractive and have decent sexual stamina. By mid-forties, most men No longer look atttractive and are horrible in bed. I am a female, nearing 40 myself, and have gone on many dates with men in their forties. The difference in appearance for a 40yr old and 45yr old is astounding! Don't even ask me how many I had to quit seeing because when I would not sleep with them sans condom....they can't kee…
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/17 04:15 AM
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Meh, some of my best friends are "fat", yet they have met and married really great men. Don't sell yourself short. There are probably countless men who are also on the road to self-improvement themselves. There are probably countless men who would be interested in you right now.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/17 03:39 AM
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Nope, I am the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 06:56 AM
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You can tell, though. The men who haven't had a hotter woman in the past will bend over backwards and want commitment right away.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 06:55 AM
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No. I prefer to be the better-looking one in the relationship:). Actually, once I went on a date with a guy who was considered extremely attractive and women did in fact throw themselves at him. Even going as far as writing their numbers on the backside of his hand. He was really weird, though, so I lost interest in him. A male friend of mine who used to be attractive also had women throwing themselves at him. Now he is nothing to look at, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 06:54 AM
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Yes, I prefer when a man asks first. Not every single step, but before intercourse for the 1st time? Definitely.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 04:51 AM
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Who knows.....maybe they didn't realize how difficult it would be. One was actually engaged before becoming pregnant, but broke off the engagement...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 04:45 AM
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I am bony myself. Even when I am very muscular. When my ex husband was thin (and also muscular), sex was horribly uncomfortable. Much better once he packed on a few pounds. Years later, after divorcing, I only go for slightly chubby men. No bruising.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 04:43 AM
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I prefer slightly chubby men. Sex is much better when bones aren't slamming each other and leaving bruises.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 12:07 PM
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Eh, You would be surprised how much some guys spend.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 03:57 AM
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No, because they will feel a rush when the response is very favorable. By very favorable, I mean as response such as "Oh, so glad to hear from you!" or "I would love to go to XYZ with you". NOT something such as " I missed you so much, I can't wait to see you, I have been thinking about you constantly!". The response should convey pleasant excitement, as in you have been so busy doing this and that and the person has not been on your mind, but now that you have heard from them, you are reminded …
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 07:26 AM
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Sure, if you are currently acting clingy and needy, suddenly pull back a bit and become busy with your own life. At first, the other person will be relieved that you are contacting less and/or acting less needy and clingy. Next, the other person will miss you a bit and then start to wonder WHY you are suddenly not as clingy, causing that person to move towards you. Whenever the other person moves towards you, initiates contact or plans; you respond very favorably. Your favorable response will se…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 02:44 AM
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It's the UK. Comparatively speaking, I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 05:55 PM
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Yes, I think so. I mean, he was rejected for whatever reason. Perhaps if the woman were desperate enough she would stick with him, but if she could pull Brad Pitt in the first place, she could surely pull someone else.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 04:10 PM
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Well, acting clingy and needy will turn anyone off. Those type of people need to work on being aloof and acting disinterested. Personally, I find it very manly when a guy is not afraid to say what he means or go after what he wants in life.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 09:23 AM
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Alcoholic nectar? IDK, writing style doesn't seem very manly, sort of surprising that you are a Trump Supporter. Also, remember that non-Americans only get limited political news about the USA and mostly don't even care.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 09:21 AM
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I can't Why did I read most of that
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 09:18 AM
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To me, the amount of first dates seems sort of low. While I have never met anyone off of tinder, I have used other apps and online sites. Maybe I am just the type who would rather meet someone over coffee and see if there is a possibility rather than just text endlessly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 09:07 AM
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Gah.... I wish that I could easily dismiss this as a troll, unfortunately I remember all too well when creepy friends of my parents began to hit on my sisters and myself as teens.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 11:41 PM
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My advice to someone like you is to not wait to find a wife. There is nothing wrong with marrying before you are ready to start a family and having a supportive wife while you are working on a future together. When I began dating at age 36, I met so many men aged 40-48 who wanted to start families but we're having trouble finding a younger woman. Personally, I was not in a position to have another child as my child had medical needs. Years later, the majority of those men are still not married w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 04:46 AM
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Men are not realistic at all. If you saw some of the types of men who fill the inboxes of attractive women you would quickly realize that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 06:18 AM
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I don't think that randomly sleeping around is really going to be good for future relationships, but I do think that having had a few previous relationships before marriage is a good thing. I married at 18, divorced at 30 and definitely see where having previous relationship experience can make for better relationships in the future. It still will take the right sort of person, though. I have met people who have learned nothing from their past, and also people who are not happy with what they ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/16 04:36 PM
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Yes, the guy making good income could become disabled, pass away, lose his job, or you could just get a divorce. Even most stay at home mothers/wives who I know work jobs during different times in their marriage
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/16 12:28 AM
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You are only 21. You still have plenty of time before you need to seriously consider whether or not you want children. The majority of my friends decided to have children only when in their 30's. Plenty had their first after the age of 35. Have several family members and friends who always knew that they did not want children, and they are perfectly happy.There are plusses and minuses to each decision, and no rush yet to have to make up your mind now.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/16 09:30 PM
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Not really related to your question at all, but my sister's IQ is 165. She is not socially clueless, has a large circle of friends, often hosts parties and get-togethers. She is married to a really nice guy whose IQ is about average. As far as I know, she has never dated a guy with a similarly high IQ. Her exes are average guys with average jobs, but equally social.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/16 06:39 PM
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Yes, there are huge cultural differences when it comes to mate selections and what is expected out of a relationship. Trying to date inter-culturally, trying to have a cross-cultural marriage or relationship can truly cause culture-shock.Your head will spin when you realize that "truths" about life that you once thought were basic common sense are not "truths" at all.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/16 05:43 PM
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Sucks for your 17 yr old. Being a teen is competitive and your child is being used, taught to sacrifice themselves for you. Same thing happened to me. So glad that my eldest niece was able to tell her mother no. Instead she is on the high school cheerleading team, part of many school clubs and extracurricular activities, Often wins school competitions that include free travel, in all top classes with over a 4.0 GPA. She will be able to get into a top college and marry a top quality guy, rather t…
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/16 10:30 PM
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My ex husband is a great gift-giver, as is my son. My brothers, not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 05:13 AM
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I just consider it as the way it works. No use to think about it in any other manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 12:11 AM
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I mean, I am not meeting men at night clubs or frat parties, hooking up and then expecting a great relationship. Not all men cheat, not all men will want to trade-up. However, most people want a partner who makes them look good. Women want the guy who will make their friends and family say " Wow, you are so lucky to have him". Men want the same thing. That means that once you are married, you keep yourself up. Is the successful man going to say to himself "Alright, I have a wife. Now I can quit …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 11:23 PM
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You are wrong to think that men in their late 30's/early 40's are not looking to marry. As I married young the first time, I never really began to date until I divorced (in my 30's, but still young enough to marry and have a second family). At first, I went on many "coffee dates" that did not go much further due to the fact that I was not ready for anything just yet. There were plenty of men interested in marriage and children (one of the oddest dates included a guy who found it very important t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 11:14 PM
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Not true. Men find me attractive. I would prefer that men value me for traits other than attractiveness. I cannot force others to adjust to me, however, I can only adjust myself to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 09:13 PM
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I stopped reading right when you stated that you let him wine and dine you just for the lulz.....Ok, so you dates some self-absorbed men, but you seem equally self-absorbed so you got what you project yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 09:09 PM
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The question is not about whether a woman should place her entire value on her appearance. It was about what MEN value when considering a woman for dating/relationship/marriage. Appearance is one of the top factors that men are interested in when finding a woman. That is not at all the same thing,as what a woman should value about herself, not what will be of most importance to a woman's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 08:31 PM
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But have you taken into account that many of the men in that forum are young themselves and also are having trouble attracting/keeping women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 08:23 PM
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I don't think that society is saying that I order to be considered successful a woman has to be married. There are many many women who are considered successful for accomplishments that have nothing to do with marriage. I also don't think that this thread was about beauty being a woman's greatest asset to herself, but rather that when men are considering a woman's assets, beauty is what they put first.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 07:39 PM
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Degree does not equal intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 06:10 PM
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The use of the internet is in fact changing how men and women find partners. This will take a bit of time to show up the in statistics of how and when people meet their partners and what type of partners each ends up marrying.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 06:08 PM
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Where do you get that a uneducated "10" is an emasculating, heartless ice-queen? Sorry, that seems like petty jealousy. I know a few women who would be considered at the top of the attractiveness scale, and they are nice and kind-hearted.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 05:50 PM
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The fact that I am a single mother (and I am not technically a single mother, as my ex husband is completely involved) doesn't really matter by my age (38). Actually the fact that my child is a college student, rather than a small child, is a plus. Sure, there are things other than looks that the men like about me. However, they don't learn those things about me right away. They go for me because I have a "Trophy Wife" look, would look good on their arm and increase their status. At first, I did…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 04:09 PM
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I am woman who has no college education and debt from an ill child. I am also very physically attractive for my age-group.I have no shortage of highly educated men after me. Doctors, PHD's, not one seems to care about my lack of education. I mean, they say other great things about me: my personality, my values, character, but I would be fooling myself to think that they would show interest if I were less attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 01:49 AM
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Proximity, lack of dating skills, poor self-esteem when it comes to dating, same social circles, same socio-economic background
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 12:34 AM
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Sure, if you want to have an arranged marriage, just join a matrimonial site like shaadi.com.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 06:21 AM
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Ok, it looks to me that you only checked out only AFTER she complained about her ex wanting implants. So, then the problem was with you, basing your own opinions on her ex's opinion. Getting something as major as implants is a personal decision for women to make, not a decision for a man to make for her. There can be complications, they are not permanent and must be re-done. They can interfere with breastfeeding. Small-breasted women are not doomed to single-hood or having to accept a low qualit…
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/16 02:34 PM
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Doesn't mean that she finds you unattractive. Means that she is loyal to her boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/16 04:34 AM
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Maybe she was really into her boyfriend and therefore he was on her mind and that is why show brought him into the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/16 04:33 AM
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So, guys want to drop out of dating because they can't attract supermodels? Ok. I am sure the supermodels are upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/16 02:42 AM
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It's probably hormonal. Castrated men/chemically castrated men do not feel the same way. Men in medications that affect sex drive do not feel the same way.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/16 02:21 AM
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Yes, you are wrong for not being appreciative. Perhaps you have some sort of issues and do not feel that you should be treated well.
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/16 04:46 AM
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Nope. I have plenty of friends who had the first at 35 or 36 and the second at 38. I had my first at 19 and probably my last.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 04:42 AM
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Nothing is wrong with having a first child at 34. I have plenty of friends who had their first children after 35. They are all healthy so far. Personally I had mine shortly before age 20, and my child has health problems (which were not evident until he was a preteen).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/16 11:51 PM
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Doubtful. Even if the woman has a decently paying job, there are going to be times when she has to call off to care for her child. What about in the event that the child becomes ill? Happened to me. I built a very good business, struggling the entire time with working hard and taking care of my child (was married but he was worthless half of the time). My child then became ill and there was no way that I could properly take care of both the child and business, so I had to walk away from the busi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/16 11:22 PM
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Yes, and also using family resources in the mistress. It might be fine if the family is wealthy, but it isn't unusual for men to spend money on the new mistress while neglecting the wife and kids at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/16 11:09 PM
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I have seen quite a few marriages where the guy was considering leaving for someone younger, but the financial costs would have been too high. I have also seen the attitude of "Now that I have made it" (financially, with a business that the wife put equal work into) " I don't need you!"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/16 11:02 PM
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It is very difficult and quite the struggle of a woman tries to raise children with the wrong man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/16 10:55 PM
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I don't know, I don't act dumb and have never had any issue with men being unattracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/16 01:50 AM
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Sounds like you are angry that you can't afford to take women out on better dates. Whether to pay for a date or not actually had zero to do with the women and totally about men competing for women. Paying for nice dates, trips, gifts is not the only way that men compete for women. There are other ways that you can show that you care, that you will be there, that you are interested. Paying for nice dates does not take much effort from a guy who earns a good income and wants to enjoy activities wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 08:32 PM
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First of all, if the man cannot pay for the entire date, then he needs to offer cheaper dates. There is nothing wrong with cheap/free dates if that is what you can afford. I also think that it is presumptuous to ask out a person and just assume that they can afford to pay their share or the whole thing. This can go either way, the person asks someone out to an expensive place or someone asks to be taken to an expensive place. I have only ever paid my share of a date once, because it was obvious …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 08:26 AM
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What would be the point of fighting for women to pay for dates? The more attractive the woman is as a potential date, the more men are going to do what they think they have to do in order to date her. Say there is a 30yr old guy who has a decent car, his own place, good job and plenty of disposable income. He offers an attractive 25yr old woman a nice, paid for date. The woman chooses that date over another date offered by a 25yr old guy who is just starting out, lives with roommates and invited…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 07:48 AM
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I think those are different types of women. Some women just naturally like things like make up, some use it solely to be attractive to men, and others don't like it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/16 10:26 AM
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You would be surprised at the negative reactions that women get when they don't wear make-up. There are a ton of women who love getting dolled up, either treating make up as an artistic expression or way to vastly improve their appearance, and then there are the women who truly only wear it to "fit in". Some of those women just accept make up as something that women do, and the other ones truly feel alien to the concept, but go with it in order to not be called "Dyke", "Bitch", and talked about …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/16 10:25 AM
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Well, I think that hindsight is 20/20 and you handled this situation pretty well, BUT I wonder if all of the drama could have been avoided by handling the situation slightly different. Perhaps things could have gone differently had you become instantly stern with Lexi and without being mean or dramatic, let her know that in NO way was is appropriate for her to suggest propostioning you. Then, turn to your girlfriend and show disappointment/disgust that she would suggest that. Then, quit talking …
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 10:10 AM
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Female, an not really attracted to men with them. Think that they look nice on most women, can appreciate the artwork on men, just not usually attracted to men with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/16 12:58 AM
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Getting to know him and spend time around him. This was way back in high school, so a different sort of environment than once you are finished with school. I think that he began flirting with me, and I then I began to notice things that I liked about him. Including things about his physical appearance. So, I would say that it had a lot to do with repeated exposure, possibly? Possibly also that he was liked in our group of friends? We are divorced now, but I would still rate him as attractive, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/16 05:12 PM
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Sure, how many single mothers do you know get enough child support and government assistance to live a life not full of struggle? Very very few. Examples of child support from people who I know are $200 per month for 1 child, $100 a month for 2 children, $400 a month for 1 child. How much do you think that really helps? I know women who stay with lazy unemployed fathers of their children because at least they can use him for sub-par childcare while they work, which is better than $50 a month or …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/16 03:47 PM
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I don't think that it has anything to do with red pill. It had to do with the economy. People voted for Trump in spite of inappropriate bullying and sexist remarks, not because of them. People who voted for Trump are struggling financially and Hilary did nothing to address THEIR concerns, or they are financially successful and saw Hilary's plans as a potential to derail that success. Both candidates left a lot to be desired, and both ran fairly dirty campaigns.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/16 03:31 PM
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If the state is paying for the part of the leave, then it is different. Otherwise a policy like this would hurt women's chances at getting hired.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/16 03:24 PM
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If companies in the USA had give PAID leave for mothers for 1-2 yrs, NO ONE would hire women of child-bearing age. I am a woman and I wouldn't. My opinion is that if you and your husband want to have a kid, then as a couple you need to figure out how to pay for it. Sure, some leave for both parents in order to adjust and for the mother to recover, but forcing EMPLOYERS to pay 1-2 yrs is ridiculous and would cause companies to bankrupt.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/16 02:55 PM
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Not true. When I first met my ex husband, I thought that he was unattractive. I also didn't like his personanlity. The next year, our friends were hanging out together and we began dating. We were together for 17yrs and I found him attractive the entire time. Now, I have male friends who I have known for 20+ yrs. Originally I did not find them physically attractive, however if any of them were single, there are quite a few that I would consider for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/16 02:44 PM
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When I used to own a business, I kicked out unruly customers. Whether they were acting inappropriately with employees, women, children, being vocally racist, violent towards anyone. Male or female (had some local drunk woman walk up to a male employee and grab his crotch while he was carrying trash out back once. Called the cops on her so that we could permanently ban her and charge her with trespassing should she ever come onto the property again). Kicked out people who would stand outside begg…
/r/MGTOW13/11/16 04:48 AM
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Anyone who calls their 2 yr old child an asshole should never have and children. And a bottle at 2 yrs old? Does the kid still have teeth? Sounds like the kid is not being properly taken care of "here have this bottle and shut up"... Which is probably why the child is acting difficult...it is the only way the poor kid can attempt to get what he needs.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/16 08:31 PM
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Wait, she doesn't work and doesn't cook for you? Wants to control your choices (though that looks like your fault because why did you ask to buy a computer in the first place rather than just buy it?). I mean, this looks like the second piece of advice that I am going to give that basically says your problem is that she (and you) have a lack of relationship experience. A relationship is what the 2 people make of it, and in my opinion she seems childish, immature and not really contributing. In m…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/16 08:28 PM
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No, because she is not putting effort into the relationship. She is instead obsessing over "feelings" for someone else. She needs to get left, date other people and learn what a relationship is all about so that if she finds someone else who wants to be with her, she will appreciate what she has. If he stays, all he is doing is prolonging the inevitable and wasting his time.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/16 08:15 PM
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Leave her. If she is not happy with you, you cannot force her to be happy with you. Some people believe that the grass is greener where you water it, others believe that it is greener on the other side. She sounds somewhat immature in regards to relationships. I mean, it is perfectly normal to become attracted to other people and most people in long term relationships deal with this without acting on those feelings or damaging their current relationship. Your best bet is to leave before she gets…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/16 08:13 PM
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She could have walked away. People deal with bad relationships every day. Only a few people resort to this sort of behavior.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/16 05:27 AM
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What? You are saying it is partially his fault because he didn't make her feel secure?? No, that is ridiculous. It is 100% her fault. Only her fault. No relationship is ever going to be perfect. I am not sure what she was angry about, but people get their feelings hurt/get cheated on/ get broken up with every day AND THEY DONT DO SOMETHING HORRIBLE LIKE THIS! The woman is a violent nut. I hope that her child is taken away, because she is not safe to be around.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/16 05:22 AM
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The something that they liked about him, is his money, power and status. Few people have that amount. Those people can get away with behaviors that others cannot.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 10:18 PM
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I don't think so. My father became disabled at a young age, so my mother had to work. Also, shortly before becoming disabled, it seemed as though he were going to leave my mother. Either way, if she couldn't work, she would have been in a pretty sure situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/16 02:38 PM
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This was just sad to read. I just don't see how pregnancy=controlling (the remote) AND not doing anything around the house . I can see where you are coming from, wanting to let things go while she is pregnant.....but there is absolutely no reason for you to live unhappily/miserably OR to let yourself be taken advantage of.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/16 05:02 AM
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Pursue
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/16 04:44 AM
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I don't know, that sort of thing might work with some women, maybe younger ones? Seems odd to me, though. I wouldn't respond to texts like that. Just try to meet her in person and don't text a lot. Texting can easily be misunderstood.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/16 01:43 AM
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Saw it happen. Couple split after the guy was injured. Nasty divorce.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 03:42 AM
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Why would women go their own way? Many different reasons. Possibly unattractive, socially inept (possibly socially inept enough to not realize how to become attractive). Bad experiences in past relationships, whether romantic or familial. Childhood sexual abuse. Past abusive relationships. Had a very controlling father. Maybe the woman has no desire to have children and enjoys single life. No one to have to answer to, No one asking her to make sacrifices. No one trying to control her. Fear of in…
/r/MGTOW01/10/16 01:41 AM
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As long as you are confident that you will be able to complete a degree, get a degree. With no degree, you will be pretty much limited to only the lowest jobs. If you have reliable transportation, You can start out at a community college and then transfer to a 4yr college, with financial aid, there will be little to no debt accrued during community college. If you feel that you do not do well in academic environments, then get a 2 yr trade degree. Electricians, plumbers, etc make good income. Ag…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/16 02:41 PM
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Ok, to young men, yes, most women over 30 will look old and unattractive in the same way that other men over 30 look old to them. The truth, though, is that women are capable of looking hot and attractive well into their late 30's/early 40's. No, not all women will still look hot or as hot as they age, and neither do most men (luckily for some men, there are probably more women who are able to look past just the physical attraction/appearance and go with men who are less physically attractive). …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/16 02:29 AM
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Not all. It really depends on how fast the guy is aging, genetics and how well he takes care of himself. At my 10yr high school reunion, there were plenty of 28yr old men who were not aging well. On the flip side, I have met several men in their late 40's and 50's who have improved their success with women and are now considered attractive, though they were not as teens/early twenties men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/16 11:42 PM
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Difficult childhood. Poor parenting. Witnessing others' bad experiences. Scared of being able to handle it. Not spending a lot of time around children and not used to how to take care of them. Health issues. Not seeing the importance of having children. Many many reasons.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 06:46 AM
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Why in the world to you want to go through so much drama when you could simply speak up now?
/r/askTRP27/09/16 05:41 AM
1

This seems silly to me. So, basically you are throwing your relationship away because you are hurt and too weak to speak up? You would rather suffer and then passive-agressively make her suffer in retaliation? Why not just speak up and save yourself the drama?
/r/askTRP27/09/16 05:40 AM
1

Yes, it is fine. If you are planning for the future and saving, even better.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 05:34 AM
1

Also, don't forget that one accident or illness can cause a business owner to lose everything. My father suffered financially twice due to unforseen circumstances. Had he had a regular job, someone would have covered for him and he could have gone right back to his position after recovering ( the 1st time). I have been telling my ( somewhat unhealthy) son for years, go to school and get a good job. If you want a business, do it on the side. After he saw his grandmother become ill and realized th…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 09:45 PM
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Stick to escorts? Why not simply ask for consent before proceeding? Is it really that difficult to sexily ask a woman "Do like this?", "Do you want me?","Do you want me to..", "Would you like if I..." etc. while escalating physically?? A lot of men do in fact do this! Also, do not have sex with a woman who is drunk, unless she is your regular sex-partner who is ok with this. Again, there are a lot of men who do not sex with a woman when she is drunk, no matter how heated things become, they will…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 07:49 PM
1

Why not just ask for consent before penetration? Is it that difficult to Sexily look at a woman and ask " Do you want me?" while making out, before penetrating? Is is that difficult to ask "Do you like when I....." while escalating physically? Also, don't have sex with drunk women, unless that woman is your girlfriend with whom you regularly have sex with (and she has not said no for whatever reason).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 02:18 AM
1

Why not simply get consent before penetration? Is is that difficult to Sexily look at woman while making out and ask "Do you want me?". Is there any reason NOT to ask for consent, other than the fact that she may say no? And also don't have sex with a drunk woman, unless she is your girlfriend who you regularly have to sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 02:12 AM
1

You are 19. So much of your life is ahead of you. To be honest, I remember a few of my friends feeling similarly to the way that you feel way back when we were 19. Now, that life is so far behind us that we didn't even know what we were rushing for, why we were worried about things. My advice to any 19yr old, would be to avoid any relationships/friendships that being drama into your life. Concentrate on positioning yourself for a good future. Don't worry about women, don't put all of your energi…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 08:31 PM
2

Yes, and it also depends on age and geography. Older men(40+) get very offended even by the woman offering.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 01:32 PM
1

Eh, no one usually knew because people were ignorant about genetics AND because people usually cheated with those living nearby, it would be likely with your SO's relative or similarly-looking person. It wasn't as if people were likely to have a child of another race.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 03:41 AM
2

My day today as an attractive late-30yr old: Wake up and work 6 guys send me "good morning messages" Work some more, with coffee Guy that I used to see comes over and begs to take me out to lunch. He refuses to let me pay, which always makes me uncomfortable, but I accept *Go back home and continue working Spend time erasing several messages from my work emails from men who I do not know and are trying to hit on me *Erase photos of myself from my company webpages in order to not have to waste so…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 03:28 AM
1

Well, quiting is different than being layed off or losing your job through no fault of your own. Just like in this story, where the guy implies being in legal trouble due to his own doings. I wouldn't recommend that a man keeps a girlfriend who falls into either of those categories either.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 08:20 PM
1

The laws were old, before paternity testing was even a possibility. In the old days, the husband was considered the father no matter what.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 01:49 PM
4

She is upset, give her a couple of days. Let some of the emotion die down, and then try to reclaim your items. Alternately, you can ask the police to accompany you and set a time with her to retrieve your items.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 11:33 PM
2

You have been dating for only 3 months, a small present is fine. You don't have spend alot, either. TO be honest, sometimes women find it a bit creepy when a guy overspends early in a relationship. Like, what? Do you have to buy her affections? Does she have to buy yours?
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 02:04 PM
1

And if her husband leaves her? Then what?
/r/TheRedPill24/07/16 06:30 AM
1

Why would I be committed to someone after a few dates? Especially someone met online, where there are no earlier interactions? For me, it isn't the disapproval of others. It is the fact that HE would look down on those important to me. Not everyone is like this, but I have gone on enough dates where comments are made that make me think to myself "Whoa, you really think that way?".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/16 03:43 PM
1

No, but people from different socio-economic backgrounds have different interests, etc. I grew up very poor, did not attend college because I could not afford it. I don't appear to have grown up in poverty, though. I also have been exposed to plenty of wealthy people, so I can appear to fit in. I have a high IQ, I earn decent money now. I have a sort of "trophy-wife: look. However, I have not really been able to date most of the men who ask me out because of social class differences. Some things…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/16 05:33 AM
1

Not all girls are developed at age 16, though more are these days.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 12:30 AM
1

I disagree. I think that these type of women specifically seek out a career in teaching. There are non- teaching women who go after young boys, but I bet that they rarely are prosecuted, or even found out about.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 12:26 AM
2

Well, because they were not wanting to have a baby either at all, or at that moment. They are married and already have kids. They either considered themselves finished, or were going to try and have another one later. One was on an IUD that has a ridiculously low failure rate, and when it does fail, usually results in a non-viable ectopic pregnancy. Yet, they ended up with a healthy baby! No birth control is 100% So, just keep that in mind and use more than 1 method.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 06:28 AM
1

My experience with loose skin, is that it may tighten up a bit, but it will always be loose. Surgery is the only real option.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 04:33 PM
4

Oh, it's true. I have several married friends who accidentally became pregnant while on various forms of birth control. None of them wanted a baby at this point in their lives. Either already had one 1 or 2yrs old, or already had children in their tweens and teens. Felt sorriest for the one with 1yr old twins and an IUD. "Surprise"! Never trust birth control.....
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 02:33 PM
1

Exactly. One weirdo will sexually assualt several women....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/16 04:44 PM
-1

And if the 13 yr old boy is having sex with his hot male teacher?
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 11:10 PM
1

Yeah, USA's health insurance is terrible. A complete testing for STD's cost me $400.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 08:07 PM
1

Most people get mono as infants, and there are no symptoms. Once a person gets mono, they become immune to it, but can transfer it to others. I remembered learning about this back in high school. Kissing babies on the mouth is usually how most people get exposed and become immune to the disease, without ever even knowing that they had it.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 08:03 PM
1

No, fertility only begins to slowly fall for women beginning around age 24. Fertility does not begin to fall measurably until age 38. Plenty of my friends are having healthy babies right now. Their ages are 36-40. None have gone through any treatments.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 07:10 PM
1

Well, in all fairness, men with invisible diseases are also called lazy. In fact, these type of men MAY be less likely to even be able to get married, because in general a lazy man is less acceptable/his laziness more visible than a woman's. My son was/is constantly put down due to his health problems being labeled as laziness....
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/16 12:05 AM
1

Yes, I think that allowing men to opt out would only put more burden (in the form of taxes to cover benefits/programs, as well as the societal costs of impoverished children) on the men (and women) who are more responsible and either do not have children or choose to take care of their children. If we really wanted to reduce the number of children who are unwanted by their fathers, than making birth control and abortion more easily accessible and affordable would be a better plan. It seems that …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/16 08:52 PM
1

No. If I have just begun seeing the man, I immediately lose interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/16 07:41 PM
1

Not a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/16 07:41 PM
1

Yes, I am older with a grown up child, met a man 7yrs older than I am, and whose children are in their teens. He wanted a child, but didn't want to get married. Oh, and he also wanted to involve himself in my business, even though he has a job making 3 times what I make. AND he wanted me to live in HIS house. There was no way! I don't want a child unless there is a really good chance that the child will grow up with both parents in the same home( it is much more difficult to care for a child sep…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/16 07:32 PM
1

I am attracted to men who end first dates with a hug.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/16 04:51 PM
1

Sure. I have met men who have custody because they have better/more flexible work schedules. It makes sense for those men to have custody (though one man regretted getting custody, most guys love it). If custody cannot be split, then whatever is best for the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/16 02:36 PM
7

Well, I am a female, but have been feeling the same way about most of your points ( also self-employed). I also lost income/business when ending my two long-term relationships out of spite from the men (even though one was cheating, he was angry that I was leaving....go figure). I always assume that it is my own workaholic tendencies that cause me to rather be working, and if I worked for someone else, I would be happy with the distraction. But, then a guy becomes more demanding of my time and/o…
/r/askTRP04/06/16 02:04 PM
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