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DiscussionYasuotheChosenOne/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 10:22 PM
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DiscussionYasuotheChosenOne/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 02:39 AM
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Way to assume men are competent lovers bwahahhah I did not, but they’re certainly more competent than women, since they actually understand the assignment; enjoy the sex. Many women just…. Are there, and expect you to do everything. If the sex was good, it’s because of him, and if the sex is bad, it’s also because of him. Many women take no control over their own sexual needs. They don’t vet for men who want to get them off, who love eating pussy or lots of foreplay. Ya’ll just pick whoever is c…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 10:22 PM
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You cum less often with randoms, but you cum way more often with competent lovers. Inexperienced take. I don’t agree with it because it’s not true. Women are multi orgasmic. Men love prostitutes because sex. Relationship prostitutes absorb resources but aren’t guaranteed to put out. It’s the worst of both worlds lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:40 AM
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Exactly. Except the pussy isn’t even guaranteed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 07:19 AM
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Naw this is nonsense. Sex is mutual. If you aren’t getting mutual satisfaction out of sex, but are entertaining the relationship because of the other perks, you are most definitely just a prostitute. Only women seem to date men they don’t want to fuck because of other qualities he has. Ya’ll are silly, and it’s no surprise you divorce so often (married for money + sex life is trash = bail at slightest inconvenience).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 07:18 AM
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Killing stuff is beneficial though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 08:22 PM
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I mean, it kind of is the way you (and many women) seem to think physical fitness works. Almost like ya’ll are simply LARPing as being physically active.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:38 AM
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So they always brought “more to the table” but this is because women de facto bring more to the table as sex is costlier for them than it is for men. It was, but times have changed. Sex is now basically “cost free”, and women are definitely taking advantage of that. Yea that’s stupid. That’s like a woman saying “Chad bought her roses and flowers, he married her why not me?” Um because he’s out of your league hun. I disagree. Remember sex is free now so the value of pussy is down, though it’s bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:59 PM
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It aint called “getting lucky” for no reason lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 06:55 AM
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You’re saying men have to increase their effort. But that’s not what is happening men are offering less like they want sex on date 3 but they also want to split the dates. The fact that they even think buying a woman three dates should equal sex is so absurd. That’s literally as crazy as some random average woman wanting Chad to marry her. Men are offering less because women are offering less of what men want. Many women having the mindset that they shouldn’t have to do anything when it comes to…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 05:17 AM
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Lol first you gotta find a woman emotionally mature and aware enough to have an open discussion. Many can’t. It devolves quickly into emotional mud slinging, and once she feels slighted, good luck fixing that. I’ve lost plenty of women trying to discuss things openly. It’s way more effective to just do whatever I want, and if she’s still there then she’s still there 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 01:05 AM
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Naw ya’ll are attributing to much intent and malice to the average guy. More than likely, post nut clarity hit him like a wall and he realized he doesn’t actually like you. I say this here often but it’s really the only way to be sure if a dude actually likes you. He needs to be drained of all sexual desire for you, and in that moment, you’ll see it. If his instincts are to get his shit and bail, he doesn’t like you, but if he’s down to kick it with you even when he doesn’t wanna fuck you, he li…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 01:01 AM
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Naw everyone is 100% manipulative. That doesn’t mean it’s for nefarious purposes though Putting your best foot forward is manipulation, but it’s also sound advice when socializing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:07 PM
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More like they learned sex from having sex. You act like women are these bastions of sexual competency. Many women literally do nothing in the sheets. They showed up, so they’re parts done. Others will give some “meh” head and then call it good. I definitely agree men should let women find their groove, but it would behoove men to learn how to stay within that groove. That requires control and awareness. Especially as she reaches climax, many women lose control of themselves, and it’ll be up to …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:38 AM
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I’d say women with big boobs/good figures and slightly above average faces probably have the highest “attainability:attractiveness” ratio, Above average women are the most desired for LTRs, but they still don’t feel as attainable as average women. Average woman is that goldilocks zone for casual sex, so they get hit on the most. They also make up the vast majority of “starter GFs”. but hot women in general get far more interest than average. Oh no doubt far more interest (especially online) but …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:48 AM
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You’d be getting attention for looking weird, not sexual attention. Unless, or course, you’re thiccer than a snickers with a naturally cute face. Then you’d get sexual attention in whatever, but certainly not as much as if your ass was hanging out and your titties were pushed up on full display
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:14 AM
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Average women are the least likely to dress modestly, as they are literally 30 minutes of makeup away from looking above average
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:12 AM
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Lol literally today, in 2024, most people are fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:47 PM
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Average women get hit on the most because they have the highest “attainability : attractiveness” ratio. Hot women get the most attention, but the least direct approaches. So makes sense. Guys are very aware of how they stack up relatively in the SMV. They tend to avoid approaching women deemed “too hot”, assuming they’re already taken or wouldn’t be interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:45 PM
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Body cam or it didn’t happen. Walk around in full makeup, bra, thong and high heels vs no makeup, a burlap sac, sweat pants and crocs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:41 PM
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Highly concentrated on those thighs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:31 PM
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Naw the scared one’s should be locked up for their own protection. Let the people brave enough to face reality continue to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:22 PM
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As all sci-fi novels show, in a society where humanity has eliminated risk, we manufacture it. Guaranteed in a world free of rape, there’d be rape simulators.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:20 PM
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Naw love isn’t rare. The issue is people think love is rare, when really it’s common and easy to find. Why do you think people are so guarded of their emotions/hearts? If you open yourself up, you’ll easily fall in love with the people you like. People just put up walls and facades to appear more mature and sophisticated and “idgaf”, when really they do, they’re just damaged and don’t know any better. Like seriously no one really believes being single is better than a fulfilling relationships. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:15 AM
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Just sounds like nonsense people made up cause they’re haters “Dudes going after the baddies have issues 🤪” First off who doesn’t have issues? Everyone’s fucked. The people acting like they aren’t are simply further along the socio-path. The only weird thing is why people still question why Dicaprio is, and is able too, fuck young attractive women. It’s not gonna work ladies. If a man gets rich and famous enough, he’s fucking young baddies. And if a woman was young and hot enough, she’d fuck old…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:36 AM
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It’s not, but even if it was? Who’s gonna question a dude who just fucked a 10? Ya’ll are goofy fucking the hottest women on earth would make any man want to brag to their bros 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:35 AM
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That’s literally not how being gay works at all. This is just another shaming tactic by women. It’s always either small dick, no pussy, or gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 06:30 AM
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Fucking 10s is gay bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 04:06 AM
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If it benefits her then yes. We see this with bullies too. Dudes who treat others like shit, but are nice to her, are attractive, despite the fact that one day they’re very likely to turn that aggression towards her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 11:30 PM
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Lol really? You don’t think women prefer men who give them preferential treatment?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 10:55 PM
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I just realized, I don’t think I’ve ever heard a man use the excuse “she changed” 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:57 PM
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Two average people working together can be exceptional. The issue here is that somewhere along the way, we forgot that dating/relationships are about cooperation, and not entirely about looks and money. And yes, I’m pointing the finger at women here since as you said men are more willing to run the race together while women seem to be standing at the finish line waiting for winners.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 05:37 AM
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“Disgusted” - Dreamville
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 11:16 PM
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So that no one else drinks from it? If I leave a drink unattended I have to air drink it from then on and it’s annoying spilling liquor/anything down my beard lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 09:25 PM
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It could though. The vast majority of men’s biggest issue is simply being out of shape. Leaning out and bulking up would do wonders for any man of any age’s dating prospects.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 12:15 AM
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Lol yeah that’s what I was saying but guess I worded poorly. Basically sucking dick is easy cause it’s not complicated, eating pussy is hard because it requires more finesse. But if you got experience with both you have a better perspective than me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 10:23 PM
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I’ve never sucked a dick, so I wouldn’t know, but it seems fairly straight forward. I think a lot of women are also porn sick so they think sucking a dick requires a bunch of over the top shit and constant deep throating (which feels meh at best). Literally the best head technique is just sucking on the tip (glans)of the dick while stroking the shaft/playing with the balls. Eating pussy (imo) requires a bit more finesse.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 10:07 PM
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Speak for yourself. My jaw feels like it’s doing wind sprints and my tongue hurts later. Also my tongue frenulum thing slides inbetween my bottom front teeth and gets sliced up pretty good. All while I’m focusing on how she’s responding to whatever pattern I’m trying to lock in on. Trying to get my tongue steady while she’s shaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 09:58 PM
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It’s all manipulation. The makeup and perfume you put on before the date to make him think you’re more attractive and smell good is manipulation too! Laughing at jokes you don’t get/like. Going to places you don’t care about going to(pizza/jazz), feigning interest in his interests, it’s all manipulation. Everyone everywhere is constantly manipulating themselves to fit in
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 09:29 PM
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Bruh wealthy bachelors have nothing on single mom’s lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 10:11 AM
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women Succubi
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 03:49 AM
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Not to downplay the situation but, many men wouldn’t dare turn down their GFs/Wives sexual advances, knowing full well she’ll likely take it personally, even if he’s not in the mood. It’s often glossed over (because women wanting to slee with you is never framed as a negative), but women definitely disregard men’s consent too. Many believing men are always in the mood and that they (women) are completely irresistible and beyond rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 02:12 AM
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From men noticing women’s exes and casual partners tend to look surprisingly different than their husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 01:21 PM
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Naw porn is to much, just go full slut mode. Seriously, ya’ll so scared of being labeled sluts. Just embrace it. Men aint finna do shit but roll over and accept it cause we tryna fuck too. It’s nonsense ya’ll haven’t freed the damn pussy yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 01:10 PM
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No, though they don’t seem to struggle getting the ring 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 01:04 PM
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Better to be the fuckboi who gets married if you’re gonna go that route.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:17 AM
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Lol bruh 😂😂😂. Women will absolutely marry a dude they aren’t sexually attracted to because of his fatherly/provisions qualities. Being a husband or a BF means nothing. It also doesn’t mean she isn’t in love with or attracted to her SO but… Look at who women chose to fuck casually/fantasize about/masturbate to! Those are the men they want to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:10 AM
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Naw. Few men would prefer porn over real women, except those of us who get laid regularly enough to occasionally want to bust a nut without having to worry about someone else’s needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 04:15 AM
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Men thinking with their dicks has never been a viable excuse. Women thinking with their pussies isn’t either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 08:49 AM
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They literally are we have plenty of literature to back it up. You can’t tell me every man is abusive (we know there not) so there’s no way to math out how every single women has been in an abusive relationship without admitting that perhaps those types of men are simply more alluring.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:27 AM
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So then why are the most sexually successful men the abuse ones? Why are violent, aggressive men so much more viscerally attractive to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 03:17 AM
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Lol, what’s your stat for the first point? https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1854883/
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 11:13 PM
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Women are watching a shit ton of porn themselves. And even if they aren’t, IMO, they’re doing something worse; using vibrators. A man with “deathgrip” or not being to get off because he’s “porn sick” is hardly an issue. Just means he won’t cum to soon and can clap cheeks endlessly. Get him some viagra/Cialis and he’s good to go. A woman with “deathgrip” or “porn sick” won’t cum at all and will blame it on men for being bad in bed. She’ll need her vibrator to get off and is only sexually attracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 09:57 PM
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Bruh is this /s? Starving women into compliance? Jesus christ if men wanted to subjugate women they wouldn’t starve them out, they’d just strong arm them. It’s 2024 if men were biologically wired to subjugate women, and those men were more likely to reproduce, then how do women have any autonomy today? Why would men support feminism, and give women rights anywhere when they apparently are evolved to hate women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 09:51 PM
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But clearly they aren’t. Women are constantly “getting sick” and we can see this in the way they bitch about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 12:02 PM
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Okay so then what’s the problem? Are most women just lazy?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:47 AM
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Avoiding men would require hyper vigilance, similar to constantly washing your hands to avoid getting sick. Both can easily be accomplished but require intentional effort. Intentional effort is exhaustive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:39 AM
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Apparently not? If it was, why would it even be a concern?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:24 AM
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So you don’t find your husband attractive? And if he’s the tallest man you’ve been with, then you literally married the tallest man you’ve been with. Not to mention, there are plenty of places where the average height is <5’6” so technically your husband could be tall locally 🤷🏾‍♂️ Which hivemind am I parroting? Where have you ever heard someone question the n-count required to assume most dick is bad? And speaking of, what’s your n-count. You say your husband was the first to try to get you off…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 12:24 AM
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Don’t do it. She sounds like she’ll make things exceptionally complicated for you at work if things escalate. There’s also a chance she’s just bread-crumbing you, and the moment you make a move she’ll cry foul (I’ve literally had this happen with a girl I worked with before and as you imagine despite having texts to prove it, I was blamed, shamed, and eventually fired). The best kind of women to fuck with at work are the low key ones. She’s beyond extra. Stalker class. Your treading a thin line …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:50 PM
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Because then you’ll have to maintain a state of hyper awareness which is both stressful and exhausting. Eventually your guard will drop, and you’ll be easy pickings
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:27 PM
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This makes no sense and never has. If men didn’t care about women’s orgasms, then why would women fake them? Obviously men care. Our dicks and sexual prowess are connected to our egos. Being bad in bed is not something any man strives for (or even believes he is). Not to mention, getting laid is hard work. To go through all that effort just to not care if the sex is any good doesn’t math out. Literally never met a man who brags about being bad in bed. And speaking of math, 99%? How many dicks ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 09:58 PM
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No, just my own experiences and theories as an above average guy with really good dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 09:05 PM
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All dicks bad and all pussies the same 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 09:00 PM
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Naw women definitely like good dick but it comes second to looks/money/status. My guess is because good dick isn’t something that gets her any social points like the other 3 do. Besides, she can always just lie about her sex life. Having an attractive BF is more impressive than good dick to other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 01:11 PM
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Oh man faking orgasms is the greatest disservice women provide. Literally training dudes to be bad in bed. Mind boggling lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:55 AM
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Men value women for mutable characteristics with low bars while women value men for largely immutable characteristics with high bars. For instance being pleasant and average looking is enough for a many woman to be very successful romantically. Meanwhile a dude must be above average in many ways before dating gets easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:53 PM
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How can you confidently say that? By being confident. You don’t even know me. It’s not about you, but about the state of average men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:47 PM
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this mentality is exactly what we hate the most. A sentiment that has always baffled me, but perhaps because I am man. Women hate what men value in them, and try desperately to separate themselves from those expectations, all the while heavily pursing men who conform to their own expectations. Worst of all, it’s working. As narcissistic as it may be, women are somehow both punishing men for not being what they want, and for expecting women to be, well… anything 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 11:40 AM
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Lol no you don’t 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 06:57 AM
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Women do add value but the value men seek is something all women can provide. The value women seek must be cultivated meticulously.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 06:52 AM
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It’s just how gender roles/expectations work despite people seemingly being stupid about it. Same as women wanting financial security in a man. Doesn’t matter if it’s “unfair” or whatever, if women want that, men have no choice but to get money or struggle with women. Similarly, women who don’t/refuse to provide value in the way men want will struggle dating. If men want mommy bang maids well… women become bang maids for the men they find attractive so 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:06 PM
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IME, women slip into that role on their own. It’s how many women show “value”; by playing mother/housekeeper.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 09:59 PM
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They still charge it to the game though. Plenty of women believe their effort should be compensated, while also claiming they don’t do it for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:56 AM
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Ambien does the math but I prefer cialis over viagra.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:53 AM
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Lol if you can’t manage both you’re doing it wrong 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 12:36 AM
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If you know then why are you fucking them? And you don’t want to hurt the feelings of someone who doesn’t care about yours? Why can’t ya’ll be that nice to the dudes you reject? Why not just let them fuck you since you don’t wanna hurt their feelings? Point being, fuck those dudes. It’s frustrating cause I literally tell women straight up I want to make them cum and it doesn’t benefit me. Ya’ll still go for the guys who don’t give a fuck lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:51 PM
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Ehh yes and no you don’t, since true ugly is statically uncommon. You likely just see average people you think are unattractive in relationships all the time, which is fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:48 PM
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I think it’s more so that there’s a man willing to fuck any woman, which extrapolated across the whole gender equals “men will fuck anything”. For women there are absolutely men they’d collectively never touch, and as such are completely locked out of sex (aside paying for it). This makes it seem like men have no standards (because ugly women can get laid) and women have high standards (because ugly men can’t get laid).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:31 PM
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I don’t understand, how do they think she should enjoy it? I mean, if she’s enjoying it she’s enjoying it right? I agree though each woman is “unique” and one must learn/adjust to her bodies needs (which is a lot of the fun of sex… at least for me anyway lol). Hmm okay I’ve definitely seen this, but also even in more experienced women. We really need to get past these patriarchal ideals of sex and women so that they can feel more comfy getting fucked. I definitely feel a lot of women hold back f…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:07 PM
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A lot of women are saying the men don’t even care about their pleasure so why would men get frustrated if they don’t care? She has nothing to lose by communicating her needs (so long as she doesn’t do it in an insulting way). Saying “do this” or “right there” or “like that” isn’t going to ruin the mood. Or hell, just take control of your own pleasure. Reach down and rub the clit if he’s ignoring it. Bring a vibrator. Set sexual boundaries (I don’t have sex with guys who don’t eat pussy), or just…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:45 PM
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If you fake it how do you know they don’t care? In fact, if they didn’t care, why did you even fake it in the first place?!? Dude doesn’t care right? So why put more effort into pretending to enjoy it instead of voicing your issues or just kicking him out??? Why instead do you choose to reinforce bad habits/sex and then just send him out with his ego bolstered to go fuck other women? Ya’ll females are goofy as fuck 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:37 PM
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We have so much evidence and literature showing that effed up men do better sexually. It’s not victim blaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:33 PM
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Lol and how many men have you fucked to make this assessment? 🤔 How do you feel about men who are overt in their desire to make you orgasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:30 PM
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And how do you know this? Are men literally telling you they do not care about your pleasure, and just want to use you for a quick nut? Do you think such a strategy would work for any man who isn’t Chad tier? Do you think the common man, who has to grind for even a chance at pussy, would intentionally be a bad lover, just because? Math aint mathin. Too much work to get laid to intentionally disregard your partner’s pleasure unless you already have an abundance of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:25 PM
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Exactly this. Women approach sex with the mindset that it’ll be subpar and that it’s basically something they give to men. With this kind of mentality it’s no surprise women struggle to orgasm. Even crazier (as you said) how could you know you aren’t going to cum? How could you know that the sex will most likely be subpar if you haven’t fucked? Either women’s n-counts are higher than they let on (meaning they have the experience to rightfully assume most sex is subpar), or the hivemind strikes a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:22 PM
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Naw that’s more like in-group bias which men don’t really have. Like yeah we respect each other but more so in the sense that other men are potential threats and walking around being an asshole is a surefire way to get your ass kicked. For the most part dudes don’t give two-fucks about other random dudes 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 11:27 PM
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Conversely, male privilege is knowing that all (most) sex will be at least good enough, while women have no way of vetting for good dick, and that every sexual encounter is a gamble
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 11:23 PM
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Afraid of liking dick? Do you avoid unattractive men because you’re afraid of liking ugly? I don’t like dicks period. Im not afraid of them, I just don’t want to watch other men fuck. Feels cuckish.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 11:18 PM
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Unresolved? I personally do not enjoy watching another man fuck some women lol. I much rather watch a women fuck herself 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 11:08 PM
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What stats am I twisting? It’s literally right there in the study 🤔 And I don’t care if women out earn men. In fact please do so we can hurry up and make SAHDs the norm. Working sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 10:50 AM
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1/3? Cap. 1/3 of marriages are egalitarian with the dude making slightly more, and half have a male breadwinner, leaving ~16% of women out earning their husbands with only a fraction of them being the sole breadwinners https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2023/04/13/in-a-growing-share-of-u-s-marriages-husbands-and-wives-earn-about-the-same/
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 09:26 AM
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Exactly. I don’t expect women to do shit in bed, and as such, got really good at figuring out what individual women like. I guess when you fumble around in the dark long enough, you eventually learn to “see”.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:14 AM
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I mean are we talking pheromone stink or like haven’t washed properly stink? The former I feel is common, even if people don’t want to admit it. Panty sniffing is “weird” but it’s all about them pheromones, not the smell of urine/shit. My GF likes to cuddle with my sweaty gym shirt 🤷🏾‍♂️ Now are there dudes into the smell of nasty unwashed flesh? Sure, but definitely outliers lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 08:38 AM
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Bruh, she wants to cum just like every other woman, and she’ll get there just like every other women too; consistent stimulation of the genitals. It’s literally no more work than fucking any other random woman. Many have no clue what they want or how they like it. The majority of their sexual experiences are with a vibrator or some incompetent lover. 90% of sex is the dude taking control anyway so while her experience helps, in the end whether the sex is good will be on him. She’s just gonna end…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:52 AM
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Decently sized sample. Lots of variety. All races and sizes. Virgins and sluts. Doesn’t seem to matter 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:34 AM
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Yes of course but anytime someone says “jackhammer” online ya’ll all have this same rigid assumption of what is meant, yet literally never have I encounter a women who didn’t enjoy getting her cheeks clapped 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:13 AM
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Only real offense is smelling really bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:11 AM
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Bench press em 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:10 AM
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You’re mistake was assuming I have sex to get myself off, when actually I have sex to get her off. I wouldn’t advocate for, or, utilize the “jackhammer” technique if it was not effective. Any speed/force will feel good for me so what I want is irrelevant 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:56 AM
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I mean yeah you still gotta get them in the sheets, and there’s more to sex than just pure fitness, but certainly you have a massive leg up on the majority of dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 01:56 AM
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You all say that online. Ya’ll got porn brain or something. In real life, getting fucked hard for a sustained period of time in a position you like is enjoyable, so long as you aren’t going too deep or too hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 01:55 AM
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Men, the truth is, if you’ve ever been fit, it becomes abundantly clear why women would pursue those types of men sexually. 90% of sex is dude putting in work (which is why women can get away with being out of shape), and if you’re out of shape/weak, well, you aint finna be able to fuck her good and hard. Seriously imagine the type of force a dude can put into sex when he can squat/dealift multiples of her bodyweight. And god help you if you skip your cardio. Trust me I know cardio is ass. Runni…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 01:27 AM
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Yes but it doesn’t “feel good” in a vacuum. Even alone on lockdown, it wasn’t like you’d never met another human before, or didn’t have concepts of beauty; what’s attractive or not (both culturally and to you). Emulating personal and/or cultural ideals of beauty will make you feel good because it’s socially validating. You don’t need others around to know this once you’ve experienced it. You’ll simply imagine in your minds eye the attention you’ll receive, and “feel good” about dressing up. Agai…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 08:21 AM
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I could agree women are doing it for their own enjoyment if everything they did didn’t specifically enhance their looks. It’s not like women are painting on clown faces and wearing burlap sacs. And the lengths many go to certainly could not be “for themselves”. Humans are lazy. I guarantee the vast majority of women wish they could feel secure never having to wear makeup/dress up. Just imagine what you’d do in a vacuum. If there were no other humans, would you dress up still? The answer is no, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:37 AM
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My GF does them herself at home. Takes em off every couple of days.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 12:36 PM
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Yeah but beards aren’t the same. For one it doesn’t universally make dudes faces more attractive. Tons of women don’t like beards, or even think they’re deceptive (go figure lol). Extensions can be removed and applied. Beards, not so much. The equivalent would be more like drawing on a hairline or something
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 10:01 AM
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And many do have sparse lashes. Certainly not as lush as extensions make them. I don’t even know what it is about them that’s attractive. So weird. And I can’t think of any little tricks like that guys can pull to improve their face game. Seems for dudes it’s all bone structure
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:45 AM
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Eyelash extensions have a massive impact on a women’s looks and ya’ll are bummy asf for denying it. On god men should start asking for before/after pics 😂 Prove you as cute without makeup girl!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:34 AM
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I find assholery to be quite effective. Of course the trick is to be a playful asshole instead of a blatant piece of shit asshole lol. I guess technically the piece of shit guy still finds success though. Women are weird. I remember my nice guy days and it still baffles me but whatever lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:30 AM
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Because “vibe” is the feel/aura you give off through your personality, and personality comes second to looks. It’s just unlikely that it’s any kind of “psychological blockage” that’s preventing a man from dating successfully. You know how women like to say the bar is on the floor for men? Well it is… for attractive men. If you’re +7 as a dude dating is pretty easy regardless of your personality. You may not be able to maintain relationships for long term but you’ll definitely get lots of women w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 11:48 PM
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None of this matters if you’re attractive. Emo Chad slays even though he’s a sad boy and cuts himself or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 10:57 PM
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Confidence comes from real world results. Delusion is believing in imaginary results. A touch of delusion is healthy. It precludes confidence in a lot of ways, but real confidence requires actual verifiable results. Being confident in your ability to succeed, without ever having actually succeeded, is delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 10:47 PM
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Depends how attractive you are 😏😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 10:21 PM
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Why cap. Character don’t mean shit if you ain’t attractive enough. Not like women are giving “good guys” a shot just cause they’re good guys. Looks matter above all else. Bout time we all just admit we’re shallow and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 09:52 PM
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The most common reason for divorce is financial. Women have higher abuse rates and similar rates of cheating in relationships so 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 09:20 AM
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Anxiety aka sexual tension.
/r/BlackPillScience11/07/24 12:13 AM
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I know, but it doesn’t matter. It’s much complicated for men to have multiple orgasms (many do not want you fucking with their prostate no matter how good it’s suppose to feel). Women are naturally multi orgasmic. They have no refractory period. You don’t need to do anything weird. They can experience orgasms in multiple different ways repeatedly without making her uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 09:50 PM
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It might help if women didn’t act like live blowup dolls in bed. Communicate. Participate. And maybe know how to get yourself off so that it’s not a complete guessing game in the sheets. Also, maybe set some boundaries. Like, don’t have sex with men who don’t eat the pussy 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 01:35 PM
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Im talking specifically about the “orgasm gap”. “Who cares” because it’s not real. You forgot the rest of the math When you do cum, ya’ll gettin +2 orgasms 50% x 2 = 1 = who cares 🤷🏾‍♂️ Really it’s just that men can cum easier. Women take more work to get off but can cum more times. The trade off is way more than fair. I’d trade with women in a heart beat. And I love making women cum. Literally no point to sex if she doesn’t cum.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 01:22 PM
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Lol how did you come to that conclusion? 😂 I’ve fucked a lot of different women and if there has ever been a gap, it’s been in women’s favor. At minimum ya’ll are 3:1 favorites. Talk about one-sided lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 01:03 PM
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Meh, it’s not offensive anymore because I understand how it is for women sexually. Ya’ll aren’t use to fucking someone who’s actually competent in bed. I’m sure some women have faked it with me, but I’m assured of my sexual prowess. Real confidence comes from real world feedback.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 12:52 PM
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Yes I’ve met many women like you and your friends but you all cum in the end. Like seriously I’ve had a lot of experience fucking with women who couldn’t even get themselves off. Usually it’s mostly mental, but also can require a competent partner. Not even to brag but my n-count is ~160ish at this point. Can’t even remember the last women who I couldn’t eventually get off repeatedly 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 09:17 AM
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I don’t disagree except for the most hardened of masturbators. For most, a few days/weeks off will reset their nerve endings, that said, what do you mean nerves don’t work like that? If you subject nerve endings to consistent stimulation, they deaden. Why would that not be the same for the clitoris, a massive bundle of nerves? Also, I don’t even understand how male death grip is an issue. Surely dude lasting too long is better than not long enough. Worst case he just has to finish with his hands…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 07:58 AM
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Cap. Women don’t have a refractory time like men do. Some women do need a slight cool down but are ready to go again in minutes. Dudes need hours to recover, if not a full day. Literally never met a woman who couldn’t cum multiple times. It’s always either she’s never orgasmed (yet), or she’s multiorgasmic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:59 AM
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So? Most people don’t want stuff in their ass so it’s irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:56 AM
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Ah yes squeezing a dick too hard can cause men to not be able to cum from normal vagina sensations, but vibrating the clitoris at speeds far beyond human capabilities has no effect on the clitoris 🙄🙄🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:45 AM
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Not to mention everyones competing against her vibrator, which can be a daunting task. Also, women aren’t ready to have the talk about how maybe hugging the vibrator all their lives might make it harder for them to orgasm organically.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:29 AM
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I don’t take it seriously because ya’ll are multi orgasmic. Who cares if you only cum 50% of the time with a random encounter. When you do cum, ya’ll getting +2 orgasms a session, and when you find someone who can make you cum, you cum in the majority of sessions. Orgasm gap is a myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:26 AM
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Yup. My GFs slowly being poisoned. It’s unfortunate, but what can you do. She doesn’t even realize it. It’s like she’s going through the Redpill rage lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 07:39 AM
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That’s called pump n dumping, which is not spinning plates. The goal of plate spinning isn’t to break as many as possible, it’s to keep them spinning. The analogy is actually pretty perfect because much like actual plate spinning, trying to spin to many plates at once is foolish, often resulting in dropping them all. Hence the difference between someone who intentionally drops plates (pumpndump) and someone who spins them (casual dating). Idk anyone who plates a woman he doesn’t like. Often plat…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 03:35 AM
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A very small minority of women “date with abundance.” I think k some orbiters might think they have a chance with a girl who has told him specifically “I just see you as a friend.” But it’s not like she considers them as potential partners. Abundance is the confidence that comes from having options. It doesn’t matter if she doesn’t consider them potential partners, they’re still potential options. And it isn’t just “casual dating” or they’d call it “casual dating.” Don’t be obtuse. What do you c…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 01:04 AM
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Lol no, it’s just another way to say casual dating. It’s not different than how women date, in fact, I personally learned of this from women. I think a lot of guys start out thinking dating is a 1:1 thing, but date enough women and learn that many have multiple contingency plans, and are drowning in abundance
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 10:53 PM
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Casual dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 10:52 PM
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Nothing will stop uncomfortable situations and it’s stupid to even consider trying to stop them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 10:39 PM
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I’d say most abuse is unintentional. Also, women are statistically more likely to be abusive than men in relationships so…. Especially if they man is perceived as beneath her. She’ll shit on dude all day and no one will bat an eye
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:12 AM
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Are we talking true 50/50? Or that 50/50 where dude makes 2x her income but they split the bills but he pays for damn near everything else and she complains about “unpaid labor” and shit? Even we talking full 50/50 that means combined their spending power is doubled, and if she has the looks advantage over him then it’s very likely he’s doing whatever to keep her happy. So she likely gets a more loyal simp who she can abuse, exploit, cheat on, gaslight, and then leave for a more attractive partn…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:50 AM
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Humblebrag
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 11:07 PM
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7/10 aint exactly regular. Easily attractive enough for the majority of men even +8s (and he says she’s ~7.5-8)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 03:22 AM
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No phones and no driving with less than 6hrs of sleep or if you’ve been awake longer than 24hrs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 08:58 PM
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That’s literally the opposite of effort. Allowing someone to abuse you is passivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 06:35 AM
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Any day now. Probably after the first female president 😏😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 04:55 AM
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wanting sex isn't bad What about pretending you don’t to manipulate someone’s opinion of you so they’ll commit? i know men want sex, i don't know whether they only want sex Often, neither do they. Still, just don’t fuck them till you’re comfy and it doesn’t matter. how do you think a man would react if you said you didn't want to be physical until you were boyfriend/girlfriend/monogamous? thats like months into dating... Lol this system was in place for centuries and men went along with it just …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 01:32 AM
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or do you think women are perfect lie detectors and catch every lie? You don’t need to be. You already know what they want. The question is what do you want. If you want an LTR, you either make men commit first, or you fuck guys casually until one of them decides he likes your vibe and pussy and commits. Either are viable strategies but in both cases the dude wants to fuck you. So his lies are meaningless. for me, i had this assumption of, well every guy can't be a liar so if i met 10 liars in a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 11:53 PM
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the number of men who are lying to you is 100% So then how are ya’ll (women in general) getting deceived? If I knew 100% of women wanted to use me for money I’d just never spend money on women who aren’t giving me pussy 🤷🏾‍♂️ 100% of men who show interest want to fuck you so just don’t give up the pussy until you get what you want. Their lies will amount to nothing because ultimately you already know what their goal is; to fuck you. All you have to do is wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 11:37 PM
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Oh I know, it’s just the gaslighting from average women that irritates me. “Money don’t matter cause I got my own” nonsense. I’d take the over on a woman making less than her man every time. Triply so if she’s a dime.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 01:19 AM
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Literally the only thing women gaining financial freedom did was… increase men’s requirements for financial provisioning while also making it harder to achieve those goals. I will say, to some women’s credit, a decent minority are seemingly okay with financially egalitarian relationships (though men still spend more on their spouse than vice versa), but overwhelmingly (and recently seemingly more common) women are “chasing that bag”.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 12:38 AM
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Seriously, just look at the cosmetic industry. Definitely doesn’t scream “high self esteem” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 12:25 AM
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Who said only? My next sentence was literally “especially if he vibes with the women it’s connected to”. Like yeah obviously if you want an LTR, a dude who only wants to fuck you isn’t what you want, but you certainly want a dude who wants to fuck you enthusiastically. Would you prefer the opposite (just to play extremes here)? A man who loves you for you but finds sex with you to be unpleasant?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 12:16 AM
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Never. Im too attractive to pay for pussy with money (excluding dates), but I’m not foolish enough to think if I wasn’t this handsome, witty and confident, I could not partake in the sexual market place.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 09:20 PM
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Right they need men to be honest and “themselves” so they can judge you fully, while they hide behind makeup and “not being like that” so men can’t judge them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 09:10 PM
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I feel bad for the women who are around you. Cap. Shut it down. If sex wasn’t transactional then women would just hand it out to whoever wanted it like men do. Instead, ya’ll trade it for stuff. So yeah, whether you realize or not you see sex as transactional too; as a reward you give to deserving men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 09:08 PM
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Then you assume you have bad pussy cause I assure you dudes are not leaving good pussy. Especially if he vibes with the women it’s connected to. That’s literally the basis of an LTR right there alone. As I tell women having sex with a dude simply speed-runs the process. If you think slowly manipulating him emotionally/financially is gonna improve sexual compatibility I got some bad news for you. At best you’ll end up with a simp with no options, at worst, he’ll still leave anyway, just with more…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 09:04 PM
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Exactly. So stop playing stupid games and just be the slut you are or are not. It’s not like sluts struggle to find LTRs. Plenty of men love and will LTR sluts it’s nothing. And honestly the real turn off isn’t being a slut, it’s acting like on in public. A “lady in the streets” is what men want. The sloppy slutty girl who everyone knows and has taken a shot at is not. In the end, it simply comes down to female misogyny. Sexually forward women “fuck up the game” for other women because they give…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 08:47 PM
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Rejection is a legit primordial fear, but men don’t fear rejection, they fear the humiliation of not being sexually successful. Rejection is women’s primordial fear, for being rejected within a group was akin to death.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 08:27 PM
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At this point, it’s pretty much concluded that women would behave just like men if they were in our position. This is honestly not a gendered thing. We have plenty of stats backing up women being violent and rapey just like men, they just lack the means and the drive. Why else would the majority of women’s victims be kids. The majority of men’s victims are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 09:24 PM
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They want the benefits men provide without any of the downsides. A lofty dream. Dudes have been imagining the same for centuries. But just like the sexual revolution didn’t go the way men hoped, I don’t think men will just build a utopia for women and leave them to their devices 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 08:42 PM
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Being lean improves your face, and makes you look taller. Shave your head if your hairlines receding and grow a beard if you can. The bald head, lean/yoked look is attractive to many women. Im rockin it myself. It’s a polarizing look too so it kind of filters women on its own. The women into you are really into you and the one’s who aren’t are repulsed completely lol. Your body is completely relevant and you’re a fool to think otherwise. Women love strong arms and broad shoulders. A nice back an…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:04 AM
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It doesn’t matter. If you’re an average guy, your biggest concern should be becoming above average. Nothing else matters. Ignore women completely. Don’t socialize. Just stack paper and hit the gym. Women are exponentially more receptive to dudes as your attractiveness increases. Being fitted and lean will have more ROI than years of socializing and cold approaching as an average dude. Seriously. Just completely remove this question from your mind. You’ll realize how futile it is to concern yours…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 11:12 PM
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Losing weight without lifting is a sure fire way to end up skinny fat which is a special hell unto itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:47 PM
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To be fair, only an dumbass would be concerned with failing an STD test. If you’re raw dogging randoms you’re a clown and deserve to get caught up. Ladies too. If you’re letting randoms nut inside you you’re a female clown and deserve to get caught up too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 03:40 AM
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Being good at sex for women often implies eating the pussy. Again if women just made that a standard (must eat to enter) then a lot more dudes would probably eat pussy. Although… I can already see women abusing this by having dudes eat her pussy and then not putting out. Adding more fuel to the sexual assault fire
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 02:59 AM
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Looks, money and status.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 09:58 PM
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I think it’s because it garners them no social benefits. The only way others know you’re getting good dick is if you brag or they ask, other wise it’s “hidden”. The big 3 (LMS) all speak for themselves. It’s also why I think women are fascinated with height. If dudes walked around with their dicks out, women’s preference for big dicks would simply be common sense (instead of “it’s about how you use it”)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:58 PM
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Ehh yes and no. IOIs are just positive body language. Even the most blatant of IOIs should be considered with context (are you in a strip club or a grocery store?).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:53 PM
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Body language isn’t gonna tell you if a man can fuck well or eat pussy though. It’ll really only show that he moves confidently or not
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:12 PM
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And she can easily force you to prove it by saying she doesn’t fuck dudes who don’t eat her pussy first. So now, you can’t get inside her until your prove your oral skills 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:11 PM
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Honestly. Idk, but after millions of years, you’d think ya’ll would come up with something if you actually cared. I for one make it very easy for women. I express my fetish for making women cum. How I hate orgasming if she hasn’t. How much I enjoy eating pussy, or how big my dick is, or that I’m multi-orgasmic. Nope. Has literally negative effect on the majority of women, often causing women who were originally interested to lose interest. That said, I still say it. The way I see it, I can’t fuc…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 07:48 PM
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Yup. Idk why women don’t vet for sexual compatibility 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 07:18 PM
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I think they’re implying women can fuck each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 07:14 PM
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So basically porn raises men’s standards. Same as social media raising women’s. So we could call that a draw, expect women also watch porn, and masturbate with machines that exceed human capacities. Here’s a hard truth: Women can get “death grip” too. So perhaps, just perhaps, and decent chunk of women struggle to orgasm with a partner because they’re use to fucking machines 🤷🏾‍♂️ So, fairs fair. Neither of us can get the other off because we’re both real.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 08:11 AM
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I agree. I’m also a Millennial and remember pre-cellphone life, wall mounted corded phones, and dial-up internet where you were constantly getting knocked off the modem by said phone. But yeah it’s crazy how things have changed. How much faster communication has gotten, and how it’s allowed us all to basically speed run through relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:25 PM
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Lol naw talkin your way out is just too easy, but for sure a lot of guys are idiots 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:18 PM
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Seriously. Im grateful for every woman who finds me attractive 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:12 PM
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On paper sure. In reality it’s not as readily obvious. Especially if we’re talking about actual Chads here. These dudes often don’t need to do/say anything 🤷🏾‍♂️ Meanwhile Average Joe with swag is grinding… hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:11 PM
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Bruh, I got a Chad friend and it’s like… you can’t even be mad at this dude he’s such a good person. Hella frustrating cause he’s tall and handsome too 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:03 PM
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A lot harder to talk yourself out of pussy when you’re attractive but I agree dudes definitely do that shit alot. Hell I do it constantly. I can’t help it and always come off as arrogant which often rubs people wrong 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:59 PM
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You don’t have to be model tier. Above average is good enough. But certainly one can be physically meh but have an attractive personality that compensates. Not as easy as just being physically attractive though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:49 PM
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If you a woman with straight male friends play a prank on these guy call them at 3am and ask if they want to come over I bet that they will always say yes!!! I mean to be fair, this would likely work on most men. I’ve basically fucked all of my girl friends. The truth being that, men don’t just make friendships with random women on purpose. You either become friends through other friends/social events/work, because you guys dated/fucked, or you’re an orbiter. Dude has no reason to approach a ran…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:47 PM
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If she thinks you’re physically attractive, you’re always funny as hell 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:41 PM
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Sounds about right 🤷🏾‍♂️ I’d seen some study that said the gap was decreasing, and that young women actually cheated more.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:30 PM
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This, but seriously. I wonder if it's because our brains allow us to fill in the missing pieces with an idealized version of who the person really is. Undoubtably. Similar to why romance novels/erotic fiction are sooo much more popular amongst women. Even in real life, a huge part of being successful as men is maintaining some kind of image. Women often need a good “story”. For instance, passport bros. They’re gross because they are traveling in search of pussy, but if they were just traveling a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:29 PM
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Hmmm fair point actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:21 PM
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What does the data show? Women cheat slightly less than men do last I checked.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:19 PM
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Lol no doubt, though apparently women cheat at similar rates as men. I think women just tend to be better at hiding it. I remember reading a study once that women tend to cheat with men who are far away, while men tend to cheat with women in close proximity. In other words. Men seem to cheat out of convenience, while women cheat out of opportunity (upgrade/branch swing). But if we include emotional cheating, I’d say women cheat a little more. Especially since the advent of internet/social media.…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 09:58 PM
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Women prefer using social media for cheating than dating apps. Makes sense, seeing as a dating app is a specific thing (for dating/hooking up) where as social media “isn’t meant for that”.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 09:35 PM
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You wanna reel women in? Make them all insecure asf and then sell them products to “fix” it (makeup).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 09:34 PM
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I mean sure some guys may feel like that but that’s something for them to work through. TRP is not about hating women or being jealous that others can get them. It’s about getting on the level where you can get them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:15 PM
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If the behaviors only attract women with baggage, then TRP can’t be damaging baggage-less women. Which then begs the question: who is damaging all the women? The truth is, it doesn’t matter who. Everyone gets damaged. Young men are just as prone to damaging women as older men. Young women are just as prone to damaging men as older women. It doesn’t matter. Just cause a dude is RP doesn’t mean he wants to damage you. Just because dude is just a normal guy doesn’t mean he won’t ruin your life. Peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 06:38 PM
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RP dudes do not care if you’re a slut or whatever. You giving up the pussy has no negative barring on his opinion of you. Sex was the goal. Shitting on the women who give it up is not conducive to getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 06:34 PM
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You’re absolutely wrong. Again, the behaviors of the common person are not driving anything. It is literally corporations and propaganda. And I’m not bitter nor a nihilist. Im a realist. I have plenty of purpose and meaning in my life. Tons of loved ones I help and support. I just don’t give a fuck about randoms. I care about myself and my own. That’s literally all I can do 🤷🏾‍♂️ And if everyone did that. If everyone selfishly pursued their own fulfillment, and lives their best lives, then the p…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:02 AM
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No one’s stopping you from living a miserable life so that future generations can potentially be better off. Do you bro. I’ll stick to being selfish; uplifting my friends and family and not giving a fuck about anyone else but me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 03:59 AM
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I never said nothing matters though. My life is full of purpose and meaning. Im just not gonna waste my time living life on poverty mode so future generations can be better off. I got one life to live. Ima spend it enriching myself and my loved ones. If everyone else did the same, we’d be good. Benevolent selfishness.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 03:42 AM
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Many women are trash at making their men feel desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 07:28 PM
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The world isn’t going to shit because of anything the common man does to anyone. The arrogance needed to believe you have any value or sway in reality is immense. The average person aint shit and there actions aint shit. You wanna solve some problems, take it up with the corporations speed running us through global warming. The world is shit because people can literally see shit burning down. Our oceans. Our air. Our land. Our governments. Our people. It’s not nihilism, it’s realism. I aint finn…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 07:17 PM
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Because it’s an extremely emotional event. Any dude who watches their wife shit out their child is gonna be traumatized lol. Not to mention the radical change in relationship dynamic. Going from #1 to #2 is a rough transition for many. But truthfully, idk 🤷🏾‍♂️ but PPD in men is real and completely ignored by everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 07:06 PM
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And that’s your right, but some of us would rather get laid and enjoy ourselves. We all gonna die eventually, you can’t take your pride and self respect with you. You’re gonna shit/piss on yourself, become worm food, and be lost to history just like everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 06:58 PM
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Or maybe he’s suffering from PPD and needs help 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 06:48 PM
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Wait, how does divorcing give her a break? Assuming she gets custody, wouldn’t her workload be the same, if not increase, since she just lost what was likely the breadwinner of her relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 06:40 PM
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The difference is in if you’re attractive or not
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 08:10 AM
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Ehhh it’s stagnated though. Since 2012, it’s actually been going down. https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2023/04/13/in-a-growing-share-of-u-s-marriages-husbands-and-wives-earn-about-the-same/
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 05:21 PM
0

I know why men don’t. Because the risks of being killed in a car accident are statistically low (despite being a common way to die). But if women are so concerned with “small probability, extremely high impact” events, why do they drive?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 01:28 AM
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So then why don’t all women have thick thighs and calves from riding bikes everywhere? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 10:49 PM
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Bruh, it’s literally called Make up, as in “make up a better version of your facial features to appear more attractive than you are”. It’s text book deception. That said, it’s not like men don’t appreciate makeup, but call a spade and spade ladies get off your high horse. Like, ya’ll even created the term “rape by deception” for men who claimed they were wealthier or wore lifts and a toupee to sleep with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 11:53 AM
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Frustrating how women downplay makeup and it’s derivatives. My GF recently started wearing fake lashes. The difference is staggering with nothing else but just putting the lashes on. Now, I realize tons of women wear fake lashes. I never noticed, but now that I see it, it’s insane. My girl obviously looks good without the lashes but that extra length/fullness really makes the eyes pop and ya’ll just act like it makes no difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:02 AM
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I just don’t understand why men would care about something women don’t care about. If women truly did not care about small dicks then they should reflect that sentiment no? So why do men not feel that way? Growing up dudes never competed over dick size. No one cared about dick size. Even in porn, yeah there’s big dicks, but who cares? It’s like height. Growing up as a kid, no boy is thinking the tall guys are popular because they’re tall. No one thinks that shit matters until someone makes them …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:44 AM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 10:57 PM
5

Well, certainly that casts doubt on OPs story but it definitely happens. I got a couple of chad-lite/chad friends and they easily fuck their way through all the ladies around us. Though I have first hand experience at “poisoning the well” too, where you get rejected by to many girls in a group and the rest reject you retroactively (hive mind effect). So, I believe it’s possible, but I also don’t really care if their story is real. Easier just to assume people are being honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 10:44 PM
2

Yes, many tenets of TRP are applicable to LTRs. The point is it’s not specifically about them. It’s more so about STRs and understand how to get them consistently.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 10:05 PM
1

Oh of course. A lot of it is applicable, but still, TRP directly advices against LTRs (marriage).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 10:04 PM
8

Why not? I’ve slept with the majority of my female friends 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 09:43 PM
5

What facts are men denying? We’re pretty open and honest about our sexualities 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 09:30 PM
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TRP isn’t even about LTRs bro 😂 It advises against marriage. A man who’s attractive and can consistently get laid casually (like the man in OOP) doesn’t need to get married. He can get everything and more from women without having to pay any real costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 09:24 PM
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Wha? This has to be bait lol. You got a 41 minimum list da fuck?! And the salient factor in all this is that if men collectively “stepped up”, then so would women’s expectations. Just look at how you guys are spiraling out in the beauty industry. Enough is never enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 06:34 AM
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Bruh. Theres no way your missing this. No one believes action movies are real because we exist in reality. No one thinks video games are real because it’s not reflective of reality. Women emulate porn in real life! You say porn is not real and then we fuck you and it’s like “choke me till I pass out” 😒 Oh and just for reference the only porn I watch is women masturbating alone, which, is very real lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:16 AM
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That’s not what I’m saying. Im saying if women don’t want men to believe porn is real, then perhaps women should stop emulating porn stuff IRL. Like, I never cared for the more violent, choking/bdsm/cnc stuff, but it’s so commonly desire amongst women that I had to develop a taste for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:10 AM
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The point is why harp on about how porn isn’t real when IRL women spend a considerable amount of effort to replicate that not realness? It makes no sense to expect men to not be affected while simultaneous emulating the very thing you try to convince men isn’t real. It’s like some kind of reverse gaslighting? Or normal gaslighting? IDK, it’s weird though. Ya’ll always trying to play on both sides of the fence.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:48 AM
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The way my girl puts it is she’s “a boss” but likes spending my money 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 10:32 PM
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Yes it does. If you both working full time then you can afford a damn maid.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 08:30 PM
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Thicc women are drowning in options. Straight flooded. You see a fat ass? Every dude within the vicinity seen that ass. They’re in crazy high demand (especially slim thicc women) so it just is what it is. Just keep spittin. Keep approaching the types of women you want and you’ll find success eventually. I absolutely love me a bottom heavy woman so I understand your pain lol. Skinny and fat hoes everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:40 PM
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The most common is “he’ll just use me for easy sex” as if giving up the pussy is the prerequisite for approaching men lol It’s more like the men they’d approach would be the ones they’d give the pussy up for free to
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:19 PM
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No source, just anecdotal, but are their sources to the contrary? Hypergamy has been unleashed in full force and unmitigated. Women still uphold the patriarchy. And no it’s not internalized misogyny. The patriarchy benefits women. What feminism sought was to simply allow women to side step the negative aspects of the patriarchy while still benefitting from it. Yes, we’re all slaves in capitalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:16 PM
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For women or society? For women you’d be good enough so long as you’re better than her. In feminism you need to be better than everyone else too. For society you’re never good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:43 PM
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Excellent clap back.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:32 PM
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Exactly. And then on top of that people seem to think it’s impossible to recover from those poor choices. I mean yeah some of them will really fuck you (like hard drugs and sleep deprivation), but you can definitely get back into a healthy lifestyle at basically any age and recover years, even decades of vitality. Sleep, exercise, and diet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:12 AM
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Some do 🤷🏾‍♂️ Technically (literally) TRP advocates for openness with your “plates”. I keep shit real. I’ll let the women I’m fuckin know I’m fuckin other people. You lose more girls but the ones the stick around are the better options. Hell many don’t even care. Tons of girls just looking for 1 good dick they can fuck with occasionally until they find a serious relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 10:10 PM
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Bro cardio and sleep. 30 isn’t even close to old. Wake me when I’m 60.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:45 PM
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I said women, not you. We’re talking in general. And I’m just replying to your comment lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:13 AM
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Yeah, but they still want their partner to be attractive to them. The misunderstanding is that women think “attractive to men” means baddie tier insta-model, when really it means “not obese or disfigured”, which even then… 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:07 AM
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So you deny the multi billion dollar industry that is vibrating silicone? Held up predominately by women? We got women falling in love with AI chatbots. Women are gonna be fuckin AI boyfriends too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 02:52 AM
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Yea and I look 22, tf? He can’t tell between a woman his age and a woman 18-22? 😭Yeah no. So then you look like a fully matured adult. Men should care about more than physical attraction at their grown age. It’s embarrassing when they can’t. Why? Because that’s what you (women) want? We all want people who think we look good but if that’s all a guy can see he’s just a loser to me tbh. No one only cares about looks, but they’re crucial. No man would even interact with you if they weren’t attracte…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:35 PM
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Bruh women have been fucking software (“hardware” 😏) for decades get of your high horse 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 09:46 PM
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No, this is nonsense. Men want sex. Your body will always matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 09:38 PM
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for being 22 He doesn’t know your age, just your looks. You being 22 is just a coincidence. Men don’t care how old you are (just be over 18). All that matters is you’re attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 09:37 PM
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Hey, good for you bro 👍🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 09:31 PM
1

As opposed to what? Cynical and rigid? “Experienced” and jaded?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 09:16 PM
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How do you know? Women are pretty good at keeping shit on the DL 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 01:04 AM
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Yes but enough of them do. Just date women. Many are most definitely dating/fucking other dudes on the side while staying open to something more serious. And I’m not saying this is wrong, in fact I think it’s the more prudent way to approach dating. I just think it’s way more common for dudes to fall into the 1:1 dating trap because of a lack of options, whereas women naturally spin plates
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 12:54 AM
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It’s less about treating a 10 like a 10 and more about treating a 10 like a 10 in front of your partner that’s a 2 while also treating them like a 0. Seems particularly unique of women to shit on their man in the presence of better men 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 12:44 AM
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Felt this. As a fellow “worst fucking man”, well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 12:42 AM
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Naw honestly I’ve never seen a man dunk on his girl in public the way some women do. The blatant disrespect, men don’t seem to take it to that level ever. Not saying it never happens but the average man doesn’t even command the power to attempt it, but any random average girl could. I’ve certainly had women throw me under the bus in front of another guy. Absolutely brutal lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 12:40 AM
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Yup. If a girl I’m out with starts flirting with some dude I’ll just start flirting with some girl. Hell, maybe I’ll come over and start flirting with him too 🤷🏾‍♂️😂 In the end flirting not that big a deal and even if it is you don’t ever show it. Just go on like nothing happened. Might even still get the pussy at the end of the night. Then just ghost or get over it. Plenty of other options.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 12:31 AM
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Spinning plates is literally how women date. It behooves men to do the same, for approaching dating as a 1:1 thing is foolhardy. Abundance good. Oneitis and simpery bad. Blah blah blah.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 12:28 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 10:55 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 10:22 AM
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Which is why I cold approach 😏😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 08:30 AM
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A generation? Lol I was born in the 90s. This is an ongoing thing. And I’ve had many GFs and casual partners. Compliments even from women who find you attractive are rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:01 PM
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Incentivize? Just raise your kids better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 10:36 PM
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As if women don’t assume the dude complimenting her wants to fuck? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 10:32 PM
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I mean… it simply could be that men make better actors, athletes, musicians and writers than women. I mean just look at women’s sports. All that needs to happen is women rally fully behind and support the leagues, but they prefer men’s 🤷🏾‍♂️ Women aren’t watchin male centered things for men’s sake. They just like watching men do shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:55 PM
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I don’t even know why anyone pushes back against it. Hair traps hella sweat and bacteria. It literally makes you smell more. I shave my pits and trim my pubes because otherwise I get extra musty.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:13 AM
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What?! Parents are 100% responsible for their kids fitness and health. Obesity is not ruled by genetics and it’s a poor excuse. Make your kids participate in physical activity daily and don’t let them eat garbage and sit around all day. This should be basic shit yet somehow childhood obesity is rampant. I seriously pray you don’t keep this “after they pop out it’s to late 🤷🏾‍♂️” and “parents aren’t responsible for their kids fitness” energy if/when you have kids 🤦🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:33 AM
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Less info on what, exactly? And how does her learning these things with someone else beneficial to me? Is more standards better? There’s always a power imbalance. The simplest one being sex. I know women like to act like their sexuality vs men’s isn’t a power imbalance but ya’ll sure do love to exploit the shit out of it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:26 AM
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That I like women who are fun and not jaded?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:01 AM
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You’re wrong most dudes don’t want to pump and dump. There are all kinds of reasons a dude decides not to fuck you again but I assure you he still wants pussy, just not yours (anymore). Your average guy does not have the options to just pump and dump women. It takes way too long to secure even one girl, why would he just dump her? Truth is, just like men, many of ya’ll are trash. The biggest difference is that men will see if the pussy is any good first, while women will just ghost.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 12:55 AM
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Honestly the best type. Obviously bad actors ruin a lot of people’s innocence but those who still have that light in them make excellent companions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 12:48 AM
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Uh, if mom’s fat/gaining weight then most likely she’s eating too much/doing too little which absolutely bleeds over into the kids life. Childhood obesity is rampant as fuck and to say there’s no correlation between a child and their parent’s weight is silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 12:34 AM
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Who? Maybe inexperienced dudes. Lying to get laid just spirals out overtime. Much better to tell women you’re just interested casually and let them choose up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 07:53 PM
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Well sure. You don’t find success cold approaching by just bulldozing your way through interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 07:23 PM
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So then you have no experience and thus, are talking nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 11:49 AM
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Definitely both, but men are upfront with the fact that looks are crucial. Only women seem to virtue signal about all this personality stuff. Personality only matters after crossing the looks threshold.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 09:34 AM
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Lol nonsense. Just bad luck on your part 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:58 AM
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Shhh. Hormones aren’t real we’re all fully functioning humans we’re above such animalistic impulses.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:49 AM
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The issue is that you come in close, physical contact with men constantly, every day, all the time, and are still alive to type this nonsense. Had you spent even a day that close, to that many bears, you’d be dead 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 11:04 PM
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Lol same. I’ll say something like “Oh shit me too! Can’t afford to have another organ harvested” and then show her the big scar on my abdomen. Then after some questions I’ll tell her I have more that maybe she’ll see if she’s lucky 😉 Works every time lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 07:48 PM
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Source? https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC9106334/ Status isn’t being rich They are closely intertwined. Many women don’t care for abs and forearms. Sure some like chest and shoulders. It doesn’t matter. If you look strong/fit you’ll attractive the most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 07:11 PM
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Society slowly getting blackpilled? Lol the natural progression
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 11:05 PM
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Highest correlation is the appearance of strength. Famous dude gets pussy like rich dudes. Status does not illicit “genuine desire”. Forearms and abs illicit genuine desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 10:25 PM
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Because old men should know better and young women are victims of circumstance. Clearly women into older men were abused and men into younger women are predators 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:43 PM
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compared to 1 in three Swear last week it was 1 in 4. Dudes out here putting in work 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:34 AM
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True. Hell just not getting enough sleep severely affects cognitive ability. No more sleepy sex I guess 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:29 AM
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Honestly walking in grass barefoot is such a soothing feeling, but also alien. Crazy to think we were once always barefoot. Now, my toes rarely see the sun, let a lone the ground 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 12:34 AM
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Morals are nonsense. At the end of the day, you don’t want bad outcomes, so you play nice and hope others follow suit. When you gain enough power to avoid those bad outcomes morals fall away. They literally mean nothing. They’re simply shackles for the common person.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 11:44 PM
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It’s weird, because it’s an uncommon age gap, but that shouldn’t matter. People are gonna judge you no matter what you do. Fuck em. What really matters is making sure he’s serious about you and communicating your expectations. Make sure you’re both on the same page working toward the same goals. Also, hopefully he doesn’t already have kids lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:29 AM
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Silly question. There is no right or wrong answer. When you find a man that you’re attracted to and vibe with, you’re probably not gonna care about his age 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 08:43 AM
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Same boat. Hell even went bald and it only made me look more handsome/distinguished. I’m also way more confident and give way less fucks about women’s nonsense which, conveniently, is attractive to them 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:45 PM
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Because the number 1 predictor of sexual success in men is the appearance of strength, not how well he can navigate social interactions. And for women, it’s her face. We know men place high value on looks, only some women try to cap like personality is key. Coincidentally, tall ripped dudes all seem to have great personalities 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:07 PM
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No what I’m saying is that relationships are easy to get and maintain for me. I know how to keep my woman happy. It’s not hard. Im not saying I’m jumping in and out of em lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:58 PM
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I agree, though sometimes I feel it’s not that they’re less horny, just less driven for sex. I know many girls who haven’t had sex in a long time, but are masturbating multiple times a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:49 PM
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Cap. No man is telling women to wear makeup. No man is demanding that women maintain some level of looks. These are choices you make and men simply react to them. If there were less “baddies” around men would just fuck with the lesser baddies. It’d change nothing. Ya’ll think men’s perceptions are warped but IRL it’s not the dudes who are delusional 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:43 PM
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Whether you believe me or not has not effect on my reality. And this isn’t scorn nor contempt. Merely observations. Maybe try spending more time around women 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:42 PM
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But you are though. Women get horny for and fuck men constantly. IYKYK 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:38 PM
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Yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:36 PM
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Care to point out the delusion? Are you saying that nothing would change if every woman suddenly dropped 1-2 points in the face? If so, why wear makeup at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:35 PM
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Lol you would be wrong. I don’t have dating issues. Im in bed with my GF right now. In fact, I’ve always found getting/maintaining LTRs to be easy. My GF also doesn’t wear makeup. I don’t personally even have a problem with makeup, but it is certainly a huge advantage for women, especially when you consider that the most attractive part of a woman to men is her face! It’d be like if dudes just walked around in muscle suits.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:32 PM
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I am operating from the assumption. Idk where you are where you’re often seeing average dudes with dimes. I rarely see dimes off top, let a lone with an average guy. Not saying it doesn’t happen (I work in an extremely social environment and see all kinds of couples) but often people are fairly looks matched.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:30 PM
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No change? Men already see average women as attractive. Average women benefit the most from makeup so without it they’d just be average. Chad’s would just fuck less women (because all the “7s” dropped back down to 5-6s), and average men would have more options as the inflated egos of basic bitches comes back down to reality. Ideally at least. Since makeup exists already it’d take a long time for the current women to die off and be replaced by new generations raised without the insecurities of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:25 PM
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That’s not how it would work. Women’s expectations for who’s obtainable would readjust. They wouldn’t feel they deserve more attractive men because those men would interact with her less. Like if you grew up in a village where all the men looked like potatoes you’d be attract to Mr. Potato head.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:12 PM
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They literally aren’t. Women are walking around half naked everywhere just fine. The vast majority of their wears designed to accentuate their femininity and attract men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:02 PM
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I see what you’re saying, but I think that’s kind of a different beast. People definitely can feel insecure about shit they should be confident about because of what society tells them. If you’re fit, you’re in better shape than the majority of people. You can be confident in that because it’s a fact. But if you’re more concerned with being the strongest/biggest then yeah you probably gonna use PEDs and have body dysmorphia. I agree women don’t care how much you lift. It’s all about how you look…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:23 PM
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Towards what? Towards life. Are you joking? Being fit is a fucking super power. Walk around with a strong pair of legs and back and tell me you don’t feel good as fuck. And you think the ladies won’t notice? Trust me they’re checkin out a tight butt and arms on dudes. And yeah social success feels amazing in it’s own way, but it’ll be easier to find success if you’re fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:59 AM
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It just depends on your starting point. If the majority of your interactions with women are poor, you should just focus on the gym and stacking paper. Socializing will probably burn more bridges than it builds. Better off just watching funny movies or something to build a repertoire of comebacks and jokes. If you’re at least somewhat successful with women already then sure; go out, socialize, kick it with friends, join hobbies etc. Even still, lifting will have the highest ROI. Nothing builds co…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:05 AM
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Perception is reality. It’s vastly easier to be perceived as charismatic/funny when you’re physically attractive; even when you aren’t charismatic/funny. It’s worth waaaaaaaaaaaaay more to just get in shape than it is to try and work on your charisma/humor. In fact, it’ll be even harder to build if you’re unattractive. Just lift. Work on personality after you’re attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:12 AM
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Exactly. Why worry about dudes only wanting sex when they can’t fuck you if you don’t let them! You have nothing to waste. Everything is on your terms as the woman. It’s literally your game to lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:27 PM
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So then don’t have sex with them? Make dude invest financially and emotionally first if you’re so afraid of getting pumped and dumped. He’ll get bored and move on, or backburner you and put in less effort. Either way, time will weed out the majority of “players” See this is how I know women are clowns. Such an easy solution to their dating “problems” only shows many of ya’ll are trying to lock men down with sex, and getting jaded when he takes the free pussy and bails. What could men do if women…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:06 PM
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The issue is most men won’t know if he likes a woman until after he fucks her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:57 PM
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I’ve pointed this out to people before too. Woman gets caught up fuckin some dude and cries rape to avoid consequences. It’s the easy W. Worse case scenario for her is a slap on the wrist, and full support from her community, regardless of the outcome. Meanwhile dude is literally fighting for his life. The social damage irreparable. The potential jail time unrecoverable. And of course, the stain on his criminal record. That kind of accusation haunts you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:50 PM
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Only if they didn’t normally wear a tux. If you wear makeup regularly, you don’t get points for wearing makeup on our date.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 01:35 AM
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Certainly helps, but also hiking is enjoyable. Now shits gonna get realllll awkward on the trails. Dudes better start investing in bear costumes I guess 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 05:32 AM
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Lol this shit may actually ruin hiking 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:28 AM
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I agree many with tattoos are kind, but the look of tattoos gives people more of an edge. Take a nerdy white boy and tat him up and he’ll have better results with women. Is what it is 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 06:23 AM
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Sexual Market Value aka how sexy you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 12:44 AM
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Almost literally the only men attacking women are the ones you know already. The men you fuck are the guys most likely to harm you. Yet women aren’t all celibate, and criminals/violent men are still crushing it. To this day one of the easiest ways for a man to increase his SMV is to get tattoos. I’m starting to think women are picking the bear for some kind of ravishment fantasy 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 11:03 PM
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So approaching a woman walking around by herself in public is “isolating” her? 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 12:10 AM
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Everyone wants attention and validation, and a man’s desire for it will be lower than women’s on average. Literally a huge component of fucking women is making her feel desired and special (desiring only her vs desiring any women). Im a cold approacher. Lone women are just easier to approach. In a group you have to spit game to everyone at once. You can’t just walk up and start talking to her only like you would if she was by herself. Not to mention if the others in the group don’t like you they…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 11:18 PM
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Honestly the fact that men are bigger and stronger yet women are more aggressive toward men simply shows women feel entitled to violence against men. Likely rooted in some kind of “revenge fantasy”, I’ve never known a man who felt hitting women was okay, but women seem to feel hitting men is acceptable 🤷🏾‍♂️ If women truly feared men violence against them should be minimal, not greater than right? Would you rather punch a bear or a man? 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 11:09 PM
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Where are men saying they want to be alone in the woods with a woman? It’s a hypothetical. Why would that thought even cross your mind? Very strange. It’s a random encounter with a man or a bear. The odds of a random man being in the fraction of men who kills/rapes women is orders of magnitude lower than a random bear disemboweling you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 10:42 PM
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Lol I mean at least you’re consistent in your trolling. Even ramping it up. Bravo.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 10:07 PM
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Lol ya’ll are free to have opinions just like others are free to criticize them. Lol had it been one long paragraph you would’ve complained it was one long paragraph. Complaining about grammatics online is low tier trolling lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 09:55 PM
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They would absolutely ask why you were alone in the woods fuckin around with bears 😂😂😂 I find it incredibly condescending that women believe their actions are above questioning. As if shit just happens to them and they’re just innocently existing in a vacuum. Does bad shit happen? Absolutely, but you know why scores of people aren’t eaten by bears? Because they know to stay the fuck out of the woods!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 09:01 PM
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Goldilocks would be more apt. She sleeps in all their beds after all 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:29 AM
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But what if the outfit you wore specifically attracted wild animals and you knew that? Like, if you got mauled by a bear alone in the woods vs mauled by a bear alone in the woods running around in a suit made of dear carcasses? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 11:28 PM
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Judging others for breaking social expectations is basic math.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:00 PM
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Obviously her value as a human has nothing to do with how many dicks’s she taken… But as an LTR prospect, that’s on the men/women interested in her to decide. People will absolutely judge you for your lifestyle no matter if you’re a saint or a slut. Pick a path and walk it. Accept that if you pick a path that’s socially unacceptable, that people are going to talk shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:29 PM
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When I say relationships, I’m talking LTRs. TRP specifically says LTRs are a poor idea in this day and age, but there’s obviously plenty of overlap between getting casual sex and getting LTRs. I believe “Married Red Pill” is specific to managing LTRs though I’ve never read any of their material.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 11:56 PM
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Of course
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 11:28 PM
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The Redpill isn’t about the subjugation of women. The Redpill isn’t even about relationships per se. It’s about sexual dynamics and self improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 09:51 PM
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Once you start looking like a man (late 20s) you have the options to date younger and older women. In your early 20s a lot of men still look like boys and even if they’re physically more attractive many older women won’t consider you for anything serious. So as a man you hit that stride in your early 30s basically all women from 18-50 are viable options
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:48 AM
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They do prefer older men though. You even say so in your OP(average 2-4 years older). Middle school girls want a highschool BF. Highschool girls fuck Seniors, dudes with cars/jobs, College guys. College girls are fuckin graduates. Educated women fuck educated men. Wealthy women fuck wealthy men. The majority of marriages has a male breadwinner. To claim women don’t care is delusional. They may not care for casual sex (being broke can limit fun activities and may make it hard to have sex if neith…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:17 AM
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Naw dating pool definitely expands greatly with age if you’re even slightly attractive as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:13 AM
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Lol so if you had multiple suitors, you’d pursue them all with equal enthusiasm? Since you don’t rank them, that’d make them all equal?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 06:31 PM
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No more so than cleavage 😏😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 06:15 PM
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Lol yeah I wouldn’t know 🤷🏾‍♂️😂 But a list of +4 things you apply to your face is gonna sound like a lot more than “minimal” to most guys who probably apply nothing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:43 AM
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Lol yeah you say this is minimal but it definitely sounds like a full face routine 😂 Not to mention I’m sure the difference is subtle, but really makes your face pop. Like outlining a drawing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 12:55 AM
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And some of us can grow gloriously full/thick beards. It’s just meant to be 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 12:47 AM
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Their not friends, they’re “friendsly”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:03 PM
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That’s a huge plus. Confidence spills into all other aspects of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:15 PM
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Sure, but it’d definitely boost your confidence into the sky 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:59 PM
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No one seriously thinks Ariana Grande is average except edge lords online. Wanna see average? Take a stroll through your local Walmart or equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 08:41 PM
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a weak 6 I like to call it a “soft/hard 6”. Soft 6 = she’s a 6 naturally. Hard 6 = she’s trying. Makeup, hair, fitted; she’s a 6
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 08:38 PM
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Sure, but I don’t think men want to raise kids alone. They don’t gain anything from it like women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:18 PM
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Because everything is about sex. Again, men already surpass women in every metric. Improving financially, physically would only bolster women’s standards. We need to knee cap women, not men, because women are the ones who need a power imbalance to feel attracted. Men don’t give a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:58 PM
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It is not. Sex drive is what makes men pursue women. If dudes behaved more like women sexually we’d just die off from passivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:44 PM
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Because then we’d all die off unless artifical wombs are created. As much as women bitch about it, if men did not pursue them so vehemently, we’d probably still be living in the trees somewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:43 PM
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But improved men would still want sex more than unimproved women, which would lead to the same dynamic except just with more, attractive men. Above average dudes are already fucking/dating average women. The average man already makes more than his wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:07 PM
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Lol Panda bears are incredibly aggressive. Black bears a better choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 08:16 PM
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If all men improve, so do women’s standards. If all men became Gods, women would desire super God. Solely improving men is not the solution because women being shitty is part of the problem. Women aren’t getting any better in the ways men appreciate and making men more attractive would only further fuel their egoism. The only way back would be to push for marriages again. Shame premartial sex, out of wedlock kids, adultery etc. Get enough women on the bus and they’ll all get on it. Men will get …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 08:10 PM
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Dudes biggest fear is that he catches a case/gets “metoo’d” and ends up in a social ditch.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 08:41 AM
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Same. I didn’t choose the red pill. Dealing with women led me there. You go on enough dates and eat enough Ls and anyone would start to question why.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 05:41 PM
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Yeah I said not exactly proud of. Im not ashamed of it but it doesn’t really mean anything to me personally. It’s just a fact 🤷🏾‍♂️ Lol trust me there are many times I’m wondering why some girl is fuckin with me 😂 Idk if that was meant to be an insult but actually I’ve always been excellent at LTRs. Though I aint getting married until I decide to start a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:03 AM
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Lol don’t trip I get STD tests multiple times of year and it’s not like I’m fuckin crack heads unprotected. Never even had a cold sore. But I understand. It is what it is. Having a triple digit n isn’t exactly something I’m proud of. Most of it was racked up in a 1 year span when I was briefly locally famous lol. Honestly astounding what a little fame will do for a dudes SMV
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 05:08 AM
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Only if it strokes your ego. Are acts of service not ego stroking to those who appreciate them? Hmm maybe I am stretching that definition a bit. I feel like being able to tell people my girl cooks and cleans for me if I want “fluffs” me up 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 02:34 AM
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You’re welcome
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 02:18 AM
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I see it as making him feel like a man. Having a woman who’s doing “wifey” things for you is definitely ego stroking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 01:59 AM
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That all falls under “stroking his ego”. Many men indeed love being catered too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 01:12 AM
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I don’t think men are flat or one dimensional. I’m saying they’re easier to keep happy in a relationship. There’s simply more expected of men to keep a woman sated in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 01:07 AM
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Make me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 12:50 AM
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Again, means nothing, and I have nachos now so 🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 12:22 AM
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Im not making anything a competition I am stating a fact. Men have a much short list of “requirements” to be sated in a relationship than women. Full stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 12:22 AM
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Nope, I read it all, but god damn 25 years? That’s rough.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 12:20 AM
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Oh no my credibility with internet strangers 😩 Ya’ll have no bearing on my reality. Even if you don’t believe me or whatever, I’m still laying here in bed typing this while my girl puts all this damn food in our bed cause she just made dinner 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 12:20 AM
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I didn’t say there’s no emotional labor, I said men are simply easier to please. This isn’t some controversial thing I know you ladies know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 12:17 AM
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Lol is there a “nothowmenwork” subreddit? 😂 Besides, I know how to deal with women and am quite successful fucking ya’ll so 😛
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 12:14 AM
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Cause I’m confident enough to be able to give compliments without worrying about stroking someone else’s ego. Also, flirting is fun, and practice makes perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 12:10 AM
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I agree, and women have a mountain of requirements to keep them happy. Dudes are simple: stroke their egos, and fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 12:05 AM
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Lol and why were you with this dude for any amount?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 12:03 AM
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As friends? Plenty. Dudes don’t ask for much shit a text every few months and drinks once a year and it’s like nothings changed lol. Romantically… zero, but it ain’t hard to stroke the male ego. Women only struggle because of their own egos.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 12:02 AM
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Because men have to deal with his women’s emotions. Waaaaaaaaaaaaay more emotional labor keeping your women happy than it is keeping your man happy. Of course, no one talks about that 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 11:50 PM
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It literally is and you all know it since the vast majority of men that you encounter do not harm you or even give a fuck about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 07:38 AM
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Yeah I’m not them. I can get dates and sex but it’s been a ride getting to the point I’m at now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 04:04 AM
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Im not denying reality. It is simply a fact. Please do google shirtless pics of BTS members. They are ripped and lean. No one would think they are weak by any stretch of the imagination. Facial features are low on the list of importance when it comes to a man’s attractiveness. Sure, asian women like softer facial features, but dude is still gonna be tall and lean. And Im in a relationship already for many years now. I’ve never had issues getting or maintaining relationships 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:50 AM
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I mean, I also have a really big dick if that helps 🤷🏾‍♂️😂 Also, I wasn’t bragging.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:38 AM
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Actually they do and if you actually interviewed women in Asia you would find out that men like that are literally their type. Fit, rich, famous, and white skinned? No surprise. Did you know being married is actually way less stressful and more fulfilling being a cheap man-whore? You should think about it. 😉 Lol I’m actually relationship oriented, but apparently my natural self just kind of leads to sex with women 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:33 AM
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Hahaha naw bro straight up I just love eating pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:21 AM
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They’re a world famous boy band! They don’t even exist in the “real world”. Meanwhile in the real world, my n-count is in the low triple digits.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:09 AM
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But again, strength is attractive. In fact it’s the number 1 predictor of sexual success in men. So basically you’re asking men to give up any chance of being attractive to women in exchange for women feeling safer. It’s a massive L for both sides and would lead us to extinction.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 11:51 PM
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Well since it’s such a small group of men committing the majority of crimes, it is annoying to be lumped in with them, but IRL it’s mostly a non attractive man’s issues so 🤷🏾‍♂️ For the average and up dudes it’s just a matter of not doing/saying creepy things and you’re good.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 11:47 PM
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I agree, that was a bit of a stretch in logic, but it is the default mode women assume in a relationship, despite “not wanting to do it”. Which is why I responding to your comment of women not wanting to act like their partners mom, even though that’s how most women express love for their partners; by taking care of them 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 11:43 PM
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Sure, but what I’m saying is it’s not his strength that sets off her alarm bells, it’s his behavior. The average woman is not living in fear of every man she encounters despite them all being stronger than her, but strange men doing strange things are definitely disconcerting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 11:38 PM
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Look, I understand their fears, even if statistically unlikely, a .1% chance of being raped or murdered feels like a lot. Especially with the way it’s so common place in media (especially women’s media). Even still it’ll mostly be a man’s behavior, and not his strength, that’s of concern. In fact, strong looking dudes are very attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 11:14 PM
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Uh because women shit on weak men. Do you not know women? They would absolutely be the “men” of today if they were the stronger ones. Hell, even as the weaker ones they try to be men still. If everything was the same except men were suddenly weaker women would enslave us lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 10:47 PM
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And I’m saying it’s dumb women say they don’t want X, and then go out and make X happen on their own. You don’t want your man to treat you like his mom? Then stop treating him like your son! Stop doing his laundry. Stop picking up his stuff. Stop whatever you think you’re doing that makes him a kid. Stop enabling him. Or accept that maybe, just maybe, this is a role you take on yourself and perpetuate on your own. Have any of you ever met a man who ask you to mommy him outside of some fetish? Se…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 10:39 PM
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Lol whine? 😂 Men aren’t labeled rapists/murders because of their stature. It’s mostly just fear mongering and sour grapes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 10:36 PM
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Then stop doing it? Are these dudes approaching you saying they want a mommy? Or do when just pick up the mommy role on their own and then grow resentful? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 10:06 PM
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Hell no. So I can watch my options and potential shrivel up? So I can get abused/bullied by women? Like seriously women shit on dudes now you really think things would be better if men were weaker than them?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 10:03 PM
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I’d agree if it was like she invited you over only to eat the pussy and then leave. But if you’re fuckin then it doesn’t matter if she’s not really attracted to you because that means she’s compromising her standards to get something out of you with sex. Which means you’re getting pussy 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 07:42 PM
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No. Nothing wrong with pleasing a woman so long as you’re doing it because you want to. If you’re doing it because you hope it’ll make her like you more or some other supplicating reason then yeah, that’s bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 09:01 AM
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Who cares. Ima eat that pussy because I want to, not because she wants me to. Her enjoying herself is merely a consequence of me enjoying eating her pussy 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:23 AM
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Hoe is short for whore which is a prostitute. A hoe is a person who has sex for stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 11:48 AM
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We don’t call it a transaction to have a fun time with our friends, do we? We don’t call it that because it’s crass. It still is what it is, and you acknowledge that Even though there is some give and take. Your friends aren’t your friends just because. You’re “worth” having around/knowing. They benefit from interacting with you; from “transacting” with you. But If you became a nuisance, your value as a friend would drop and people would stop interacting with you; refusing the “transactions of f…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 11:21 AM
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Lol compensate? Look I harbor no illusions here. Women are crushing it. They’re comfy and complacent. I imagine they’ll continue to ramp up the madness simply because they can. No, but they already do that. Women complain that men don’t appreciate all the “work” they put into dating/attracting men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 11:06 AM
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Not when dealing with women. Most interactions are going to end in the early stages, before she has to put it any real work. If dude can never get past those early stages than he’s gonna be doing a lot for little pay off
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:38 AM
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It’s a fallacy in logic, but not when considering human behavior. Emotion kicks in before logic, so it makes sense that some people simply don’t dig deeper (or in the brain’s case, climb higher) than their feels.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 09:13 PM
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If they were we wouldn’t have this many sexless dudes 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:57 PM
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More logical doesn’t mean devoid of emotions (which are illogical). Men just have a propensity to math things out where women have a propensity to feel things out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:54 PM
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Well obviously you shouldn’t be fucking dudes you aren’t attracted to. And yeah many do not cum from penetration but many do. Plus there’s lots of way to play with a clitoris. And even if she “requires” toys to get off, most women still deeply enjoy the feeling of being filled with dick. Not to mention the more sensual/passionate aspects of sex. Your vibrators not gonna whisper how good your tight pussy feels in your ear, or gaze deeply into your eyes and kiss you passionately. It’s not gonna pl…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:14 AM
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Yes, really. Especially the women who aren’t suffering from “death grip”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:47 AM
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The streets of course
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:39 AM
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Sex toys are a convenience, but not as good as real pussy. Just like how women prefer actually getting fucked to vibrating silicone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:38 AM
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Happier single than with the wrong man. They still want a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:34 AM
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To me the Red pill is simply a “tool kit” providing the necessary information to help one improve their results with women and life in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 08:47 PM
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Now im confused. Are you saying you intentionally misrepresented TRP? What you believe and if you’re Red pilled doesn’t really matter. Just strange how people who don’t know shit are the dominant voice in what TRP “is”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 08:32 PM
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You’re talking about the grifters, not TRP. TRP isn’t gassing dudes up or blaming others. It blames you for your own outcomes, and that you need to improve if you want better results.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 08:11 PM
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My GF knows we aint getting married or having kids too 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:48 PM
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Free the boobs! Succumb to gravities pull!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 09:01 PM
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Face game needs to be at least average. Ugly/deformed face is definitely gonna hurt results lol. But certainly getting fit will have significant ROI (for your face, too)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 08:55 PM
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They complain first because they tried before knowing they weren’t good enough as is. Then they take whatever pill and get bitter that being themselves isn’t enough. Then they put in the work and get even more bitter because they were always short and/or had a stupid face lol And those are heavy Ls walking the path that basically ends with celibacy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 08:20 PM
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Yes it can and it does. First off truly ugly people are outliers so let’s ignore them. The majority of people are plain; average. Average face. Average body. For men this means overweight with a pudgy face. Nothing ruins a mans facial aesthetics like body fat. It makes their faces look soft and weak. Leaning out is that 1-2 punch because not only does it sculpts the body, it also sculpts the face. A plain face will look much better when leaned out and angular. Looking weak is absolutely a death …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 09:37 PM
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I agree, but they can start at almost any age and the results will increase their dating pool significantly
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:45 PM
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Appearance of strength is the number one predicator of sexual success in men. What makes a dude look strong? Thick forearms and upper arms (not like Arnold but still solid) and abs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:43 PM
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Just doin my part to keep the plebs informed 😁✌🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:15 PM
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what you said is mostly true but too many generalizations and sweeping assumptions- many men have horribly aged faces or bodies despite working out and many women do in fact care about this and not just money Well yes obviously this is in general, but realize much more of women’s looks depend on her face, and much more of men’s depends on their body. Men rate face as the most attractive part on a woman, while for women it’s arms/chest on men (appearance of strength). Acquiring wealth wont always…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:07 PM
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Lol TRP isn’t even about dating women (although you can if you want). The goal is simply to be attractive to them. It doesn’t aim to shame women into not being sluts. In fact, RP dudes love sluts. Why wouldn’t they? Sluts give out free pussy 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:22 PM
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Lol the difference is that bars/clubs are sexually charged. Insane how women act like they aren’t open to sexual advances when dressed half naked and drinking out with their friends. Seriously get off your high horse unless you’re there with your man we all know what’s up. Or at the very least you know why the dudes are there and you are specifically putting yourself in an environment where horny drunk men will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 06:12 AM
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Society doesn’t hate old women, you just slowly become irrelevant, like most men have always been. The reason it seems men are “allowed” to age is because the things women find attractive in men can still be cultivated in their old age. They can still hit the gym and get lean, build confidence, status, and stack paper. All of these things will give them access to younger and more attractive women. Conversely, women can’t really improve an aging face without extreme (and often botched) measures. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:37 AM
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Fuck her as often and as much as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 03:16 AM
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The one’s who can most definitely date like women, and it’s highly recommend to do so at any level. Abundance is a beautiful thing that I think a lot of women take for granted, but the average man will be like “woah wtf?!”. That feeling of knowing not only that you have more options waiting, but also being able to easily acquire more options, is akin to a superpower. It’s a very… satisfying kind of feeling, and that boosts confidence, which in turn makes you more attractive and gives even more o…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:38 PM
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Not necessarily. It’s not as if makeup makes women behave insecurely. Makeup actually boosts confidence, so you could say that men prefer confident women, and that women use makeup to pretend to be more confident than they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 09:01 AM
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Bad choice or not as long as it’s an offer, and not an ultimatum, the L is on you (the one who accepts the offer).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:11 AM
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Naw they just want sex with hot guys. Age literally means nothing if you’re old but look young and hot you’re fuckin 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:09 AM
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Straw! OP never said old. Never said 50. Every. Single. Time. Someone erects this strawman. Older men. Women prefer older men in general. Whether that’s 1 year or 20 years. No one thinks 20 yr olds want to fuck +50 yr olds .
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:08 AM
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Idk about most, but it is frustrating how people seem to gloss over the simple fact that people will do a lot of shameful stuff for money/fame. It’s literally no surprise that shit tons of people are exchanging sexual favors for stuff. A lot of these cases seem like sour grapes “I sucked his dick and he didn’t give me the part? Rape.”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:35 AM
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To this day I don’t think any of Cosby’s cases have been proven, but as Chappelle said, it looks bad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:32 AM
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Really? You’ve heard a man say he specifically pursues women who are crazy? 😏 She’s hot. She’s fun. Her being crazy is simply tolerated. It might make things more exciting but I assure you he aint in it for the times when shit hits the fan.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 10:11 PM
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Yeah she’s “fun” in an outgoing kind of way but it’s not really a strict requirement on any dudes list. Boring women can easily get the dick too, they just tend to stay home and shit. No man (in general) is fucking crazy because she’s crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 05:59 AM
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Because no one cares. Men don’t deny the truth; that they’ll put up with a crazy bitch in order to fuck her, but that’s despite her personality, not because. Are there men who enjoy emotional abuse? Sure, but 9.9/10 if a dudes fucking with a crazy bitch it’s because she has a vagina. Men like vaginas who stroke their ego. It’s basic girl game 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:04 AM
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Lol I’m sorry for your loss 😔😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 08:46 PM
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Stop you? Idk about OC but a lot of us are fuckin and enjoying watching everything spinout lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 08:32 PM
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Lol she’ll want to be around you often. Make excuses to be near you. Listen intently and laugh at your nonsense. Smiley. Touchy. She will make it easier for you to hit on her and ask her out. She will be surprisingly available. Overall, she’ll make it easier for you, not harder. If she’s playing weird games or being ambiguous in her intent/desires then she either doesn’t like you much or she’s got some trauma. But yes asking him out directly would work too. Complimenting his fish wouldn’t hurt e…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:13 PM
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Obviously there are varying levels but for men’s sake the only one that matters is blatant interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 08:57 PM
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Woah. Men lie up and women lie down. So is it rape if a dude embellishes his sexual conquests? Is it rape if she downplays hers? This is strange because you never see or hear a women complain about how she found out her man was lying about being a virgin after they got married or something… yet their are plenty of posts of dudes finding out their wife/fiance lied about being a virgin to get the ring 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 08:22 PM
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Whatever that woman requires for a relationship to exist. Usually financial and emotional provisioning. And yes some women are ballers but the vast majority are not and even the ballers aren’t too keen on dating men who make substantially less than they do further shrinking their options (which is counter to men where money greatly increases their options)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 07:54 PM
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But what are the results that would benefit her with men? Honest question. TRT for men increases pretty much everything that makes a man sexually attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 05:06 AM
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For every dude that wouldn’t fuck a fat woman there is a man who will. I personally would rather fuck a fat girl than a skinny girl. I like my woman thicc and I’d rather her be thicc and fat than skinny and slim 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 05:05 AM
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That’s mostly for casual sex though, which we all know women will never run out of options for, but what about men willing to provide for her or support her emotionally? Women’s options for LTRs definitely dwindle, while an attract man can continue to dip into the younger generations… imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 05:04 AM
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Does that not happen though? Im in my early 30s and a few of my female friends are indeed starting to worry about settling down.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 05:00 AM
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Oh no doubt. In fact now that you mention it dudes can also hop on TRT too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 01:02 AM
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That sex is important to women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 10:30 PM
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Yes women can exercise but the results will be minimal. Why? Because most of women’s looks is in her face. Face game consistently goes down with age and not much you can do about it except makeup and botox and shit. For men though, it’s mostly about the body. Yes face matters too but getting lean does great things to men’s faces. Plus, being lean does great things to their bodies. The ROI is significantly higher in men’s case and they can do it at basically any age. Remember women are already ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 10:30 PM
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Of course not lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 10:20 PM
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Lies. She doesn’t even need to stay active or take care of herself 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 09:06 PM
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I always figured “the wall” was simply women’s declining fertility. I got a few single female friends in their 30s who are concerned with or giving up on ever having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 09:05 PM
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Cardio. Super easy to gain cardiovascular strength. Any dude at anytime can start and stick to a routine and be in decent shape in a year or 2. This is the biggest advantage older men have over older women (and fertility) because you can’t reverse age your face, but you can exercise your body.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 09:00 PM
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Yo women are still wanting to get their cheeks clapped into old age. Nursing homes are prime examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:45 PM
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People are reporting less sex, but that’s not what it looks like out on the streets. Perhaps I’m just getting more attractive but seems every woman is fucking or receptive to being fucked. They just keep a lot of that shit on the DL 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:00 PM
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He’s gay. The compliments are accepted because their’s no risk he wants to fuck you. Complimenting women as a straight man often backfires. They’ll quickly assume you’re interested and distance themselves if they aren’t. Better to just playfully talk shit if you’re trying to befriend them 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:50 PM
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I disagree though. I have waaaay more female friends than male 🤷🏾‍♂️ IME most women simply love fun charismatic men who talk shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:11 PM
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Yes. There was a whole big thing for the last few years about not enough “economically attractive” men. It’s nonsense that women don’t care about provisioning there standards have literally only gone up with their own income.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 08:52 AM
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Good for you. “We” simply wouldn’t get along. Nothing wrong with that. I find an easy way to gauge a women’s interest is if she’s receptive to teasing. Certainly with this method you’re gonna disqualify the girl’s who simply don’t like being teased at all but it’s no loss for either party in this case 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 02:02 AM
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Lol why because they can’t take a joke or be teased? I agree women who take themselves too serious are gonna struggle more with dating. No one likes a “banter nazi” who gets easily offended over benign comments/jokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 11:15 PM
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It’s because the difference between their made up selves and their natural selves is often drastic. Drastic enough that when they show up in their normal state that they look sick/pale. It’s a them problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 10:24 PM
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Oh I know real love exists. I’ve been in love a few times and currently do love my own GF… but I’m no fool to believe what we have is common. We’re basically high school sweethearts. Our relationship is a team. When I’m broke, she covers the bills, and when I’m up, I pay for everything and spoil her. It’s all love. We got that “reciprocal simping” action going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 07:35 AM
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Bruh you can be nice to women and still talk shit. I highly recommend you learn to intertwine being a dick with being a genuinely nice person. It will give you more of an “edge” and greatly improves flirting/cold approaching. Women are use to people eggshelling around them. Dudes who can keep it real without sounding insecure/bitter are more attractive. Nice dudes with no edge just come off as simpy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 11:19 PM
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Right, so money problems being widely known as a leading cause of divorce means that this isn’t atypical female behavior. It’s not reserved for escorts. From the male perspective, women’s dating strategy is basically prostitution. They do not tend to give pussy away for free like men do dick. Men are sluts. Women are prostitutes 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 11:09 PM
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They're using you, unless you don't mind being used and not wanted for who you are. Once the money stops, they leave. 🏃‍♂️ 🏃‍♀️ How is this any different for your typical woman in a relationship? If a man loses his income the countdown to relationship denotation begins.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:40 PM
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Well shit, that’s good to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:25 PM
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As I keep saying money is King when it comes to LTRs with women. If you’re attractive and broke you can fuck but you’ll struggle with LTRs with looks matched women. If your paper’s stacked but you’re average in looks you’ll get LTRs but casually you’ll struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 09:55 PM
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IQ and income both correlate negatively with having kids so 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 09:43 PM
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Reciprocial simping is the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 04:41 PM
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Only if you lack confidence in yourself. Once you build that real world confidence getting rejected is just the cost of doing business, but her not being interested in you will have no effect on your confidence because it doesn’t change anything about you. For instance I have a lot of confidence and my sexual skills and her rejecting isn’t gonna make my dick any less big or my cunnilingus any less proficient 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 04:38 AM
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You don’t just develop social skills now, it takes time. Young as in of legal age? Then cap. Young women like tall lean guys just like the rest of you. If dude at 20 was chubby and at 30 is lean he’ll get love from young women easily. Money doesn’t get panties wet but it opens doors to experiences that do. And experience definitely get panties wet so 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 11:12 PM
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That’s not the RP argument. The argument is simply that the things women find attractive in a man are developed slowly over time (aside being born with Chad looks). Confidence, wealth, experience, physical stature; all are developed over time. A 20 yr old man may be more youthfully attractive, but by 30 he’ll have more money, and more experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 10:23 PM
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Obviously there is a difference. The arguement is that women go for older men, not old men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 09:15 PM
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Was it a date? Thought it was just a reaction video 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 11:28 AM
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What do you mean? I don’t know if this is rage bait or not. Could be, but we’ve hit a point where everyone says everything online is fake which simply derails discussion. Who cares really. Most of this shit is based on actual “issues” between men and women. Even if they staged it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 11:10 AM
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Lol sure but that’s less fun 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 06:02 AM
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This isn’t about what’s better or worse imo. We don’t know about their relationship but off top it looks disrespectful to make such comments in front of your man. We don’t, that’s why I said I’m willing to bet. Simply experience as a man. Women don’t tend to give overt compliments to non-Chad like characters. In fact it’s pretty much taboo to stroke the male ego in female-land. This coming from a slightly above average dude with a big dick. I rarely get compliments on it unless I specifically fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:07 AM
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She’s oogling it. Does she oogle her BFs dick too? I’m willing to bet she’s never said anything like that about his dick before. And she definitely saved that away in her “spank bank” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 10:19 PM
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Surprisingly, all dudes and zero push back from the ladies 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 10:13 PM
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This all always comes down to avoiding settling, but if you want a relationship and simply can’t find what you want, then you’re settling for being single. It’s interesting how settling down use to be a good thing, and now has become some kind of competition between women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:49 AM
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Could they? Were women just running in groups like gazelle and men were just hiding in the bushes waiting to ambush them? Wouldn’t other men stop them? Jealousy is an evolved trait so it’s not like dudes would just take turns passing around the women right? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 11:48 PM
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Most people don’t make perfect LTR partners. There are tons of people who make good partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:08 AM
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Because first hand experience trumps the anecdotal experience especially when it comes to relationships. “Looking around” would barely glean the depths of human relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 03:44 AM
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The hidden sweet spot (not the one under the tongue)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 09:08 PM
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How could you know this as a virgin? How many people had you dated to come to this conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 09:04 PM
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From my perspective a lot of the ‘manosphere’ content perpetuates these ideas that women are an object for a man to possess. Completely normal and extremely neurotic of women to get offended by this kind of nonsense. For instance, say you hire a plumber. The plumber is a man, but do you see him as only a man? No, you also see him as an object, a tool to fix your toilet. But just because you see him as an “object” doesn’t mean you don’t also see them as a person, too. Objectification and possessi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 10:01 PM
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The manosphere isn’t about hating women 🤷🏾‍♂️ So why does feminism get a pass but the manosphere doesn’t? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:21 PM
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They aren’t, but it’s shit like that that prevents these movements from gaining traction.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 08:43 PM
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So then feminism is misandrist?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 08:42 PM
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8-9 wins for sex. 6-7 with money wins for LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 09:17 AM
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If she’s interested in you, it literally doesn’t matter if she’s at work or working out. Just be respectful about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 09:35 PM
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Fat tax. They’re a drain on the medical system, use more resources, take up more space, need special accommodations, etc etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 08:54 PM
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Not really, because regardless of consent, his intent was not to send the video to a child. The fact a child saw it is merely coincidental. If dude intentionally got a child’s number and sent them that video, then yeah they should burn.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 11:12 AM
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Fortunately, most men wouldn’t send a video of themselves masturbating to people in their social circle. It’s literally social suicide lol. Takes a special kind of stupid to do something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 11:03 AM
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You implied he was defending the action of sending the video to a kid “Ugh, he only jerked off in front of one little kid, it’s fine!” The kid just happened to have the phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 10:58 AM
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The video wasn’t sent to the kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 10:47 AM
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You think dudes are just born hating women? It’s learned just like it is for women through bad experiences. Don’t forget women are at the top for child abuse so it stands to reason many boys first experiences with a women are poor 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 12:52 AM
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Trauma bonding. If I pushed a human baby out of my dick I’d probably take responsibility for it too 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 11:53 AM
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Local Chads. Not all the Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 11:35 AM
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Intimate partners means the men women select for. We have tons of evidence showing that women are attracted to dangerous men and that the majority of men aren’t murders.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 10:25 AM
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If a woman would abuse her child then how do you think she would treat her man?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 10:22 AM
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And women didn’t have access to all of the Chads. Both men and women were more realistic about their options and what was consider attractive, but I believe what were seeing today is the effects of social media, especially on women’s expectations. Social media has poisoned the well by exposing people to the best versions of themselves. Worse so for women because they actually have access to better versions of men (even if just for sex), and because it ramps female competition up to 11. Social me…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 04:56 AM
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Median incomes: 25: $40k 35: $53k 45: $55k 55: $61k 65: $60k Median income for breadwinning men is $90k ($30k for the women). Median income for egalitarian couples is $60k (each).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 09:08 PM
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Call it whatever you want, it still shows a clear pattern that men with more money (or who are projected to make more money in the future) are more likely to get married. Money is king for LTRs
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 08:55 PM
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Ehhh. Majority of marriages has a male breadwinner earning a median wage 3x his spouses (majority being 55%). Median wage in egalitarian is marriages (29% of marriages) is ~60k (each) So… majority of dudes getting married are decently above median wage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 08:23 PM
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It’s the same with dick size and money. Why would men be concerned about these things when dealing with women if women didn’t actually care about them? Yes, individual women may not care, but the collective certainly does lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 08:41 AM
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Exactly. If dude is out of her league or she really likes him she won’t play hard to get, she’ll make things as easy as possible for him to escalate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:33 AM
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Well fortunately this is a fairly niche corner of the web but I’m saying it lol. These guys already know it’s part of why some of them are salty. Women can be sluts and still find relationship success. Meanwhile dudes struggling just to get a first date. Feels cruel, especially if you’ve been seriously trying and aren’t a bad guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 12:57 AM
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Cause they’re haters and they aint gettin no pussy 😂 Seriously the only bad kind of sluts are prostitutes and the openly known slut (as in, multiple other men within his social circle have also fucked with her or she’s in porn/OF).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 12:53 AM
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There are dudes repulsed by sluts and dudes who love them. Slutty women are not struggling to find commitment, except for in cases where their reputations have been burned down, and even the, ex-porn stars get married all the time. OF creators have BFs and spouses. For every man who dislikes sluts, there’s someone who loves them 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 12:23 AM
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There are plenty of men who LTR the women they sleep with casually. If dude is talking shit maybe he just didn’t like you very much. If the pussy was good and the vibe is right, you being easy won’t matter. Sluts (who maintain the “lady in the streets”) do not struggle to find commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 12:11 AM
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Fair enough lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 08:47 PM
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The women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 08:46 PM
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It’d work either way though. Being direct or being coy, either way dudes goal is to fuck you and he has no choice but to keep pursuing to get there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 08:42 PM
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False. You’re only an easy slut if dudes getting his dick sucked before even knowing your name. If dudes clapping cheeks at the end of a first/second date, he’s just thinking you really like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 08:41 PM
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Do you think those men would have dropped those women if instead they had been more direct with their desire? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 08:35 PM
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Oh I was sooooo open and friendly and cute and flirtatious and "Oooh you're not like other GiRlS" and all I got was a buncha simps and negging to show for it. Lol I didn’t say finding the perfect guy was easy, but come on they can’t all be saying that shit 😂 I'd know, I've witnessed many such instances where women "settled". Not good. Nothing wrong with settling unless you’re constantly comparing. Everyone has flaws. If he treats you good and you’re attracted to him sexually, it’s not gonna get …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 09:10 AM
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This isn’t unique to women. I definitely said people. This attack vector is simply more common amongst women. And I’m not sure what you’re trying to say no one can decide how anyone else feels.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 08:48 AM
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I don’t disagree and fundamentally I don’t think any other man would either. If anyone should reproduce, it’s Chads. But someone has to raise those kids and the best person for that is the father so leave the Chads for Stacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 05:19 AM
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Love is easy to find if you’re actually open to it. Bruh women have been pushing out babies forever. You live in a time where pregnancy couldn’t be easier get that nonsense outta here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 05:15 AM
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Whether something is an unwarranted worry is not for you to decide.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 05:13 AM
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Lol sure it can. Telling an obese person they’re fat and gross may be true, but it’s still disrespectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 09:58 PM
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Because they’re still human? Which means emotions hit before logic 🤷🏾‍♂️ Just because I understand and accept that I’m bald, doesn’t mean it doesn’t still sting when someone intentionally points it out to try and hurt me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 09:29 PM
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Probably because people (especially women) use “insecurities” as an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 09:23 PM
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Lol and? Everyone has insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 09:12 PM
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Nonsense. Nature exists and its influences on all living things is real. God/Christianity are human constructs. “We exist because our parents had sex” is not some wild claim. If you don’t believe that idk what to tell ya 🤷🏾‍♂️ My belief system is tethered to reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 08:07 PM
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No it doesn’t. Again, nature doesn’t give a fuck what you want. We exist because we’re driven to survive and reproduce. Im not saying it’s right or wrong. It just is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 06:39 AM
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No I don’t think it’s a problem with society, but there are pressures pushing people away from having kids, when normally they probably would have. Lol yeah I agree we don’t need women constantly pregnant, but I doubt we’re at a point where truly not wanting kids is the norm. We’re literally evolved to pass down our genes 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:51 AM
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I’m saying people who say they don’t want kids usually just don’t feel having kids is a smart move, not that they literally have an aversion to having kids. Are their people who don’t want kids period? Of course. Are they the average person? No. We wouldn’t be here today if we were driven not to reproduce. Many people change their minds about children as they age.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 01:31 AM
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I said it sounds like coping because our biological imperative as humans is to reproduce. Not wanting kids as a human is not typical, and is usually indicative of sociological issues 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 01:01 AM
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IDK why they’d care about individual people not reproducing. Likely stems from jealously/insecurities, but reproducing is literally our biological imperative. Nature doesn’t care about all the noise, it’s goal is to pass down genes and we are here and alive today because our ancestors successfully did so. Everyone before us passed on their genes so it makes sense that we (being a byproduct of successful mating over millennia) would have the desire to propagate successfully too. People (especiall…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 12:44 AM
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Hmm makes sense. Basically warm approaching vs cold approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 12:17 PM
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I have no reason to doubt your experiences, but I aint seen it 🤷🏾‍♂️ Go to a bar or a club and the hot girls spend the whole night with their friends then bounce. Lots of dudes looking her way but no one normal looking making a move. Actually easier to approach hot girls in public places like shops or activities. Still don’t see it happening though… but I do see weird lookin dudes with cuties so it must be happening somewhere lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 11:44 AM
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This is literally false. Online men shoot their shot at the baddies, but in real life attractive women are approached the least. Average women get the most attention by far. Average dudes do not have the balls to hit on hot women and Chad’s fuck with average/above average women for the easy lay.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 11:23 AM
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Which you use to accumulate damage anyway. Might as well get damaged by someone with money and experience 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 07:10 AM
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I never understood this “ugly people are invisible” thing. They’re not. Ugly people stand out in a crowd like a beautiful person would. Average people would be invisible since they’re the common person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:26 AM
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That’s only online though. In real life men stay in there lane. You never see the ugly awkward guy trying to spit game to the hottie sitting the center of her group of friends. It’s slightly frustrating how people have extrapolated that men shoot out of their league because of anonymity online. No shit they do, but in the real world IG model level girls exude way to much “dread”.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:18 AM
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Lol I’ve seen the women they fuck. And not using a condom isn’t “one-upmanship”. It’s actually pretty stupid lol 1 has 2 baby momma’s and the other has 3
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 07:19 PM
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Colloquially known as abundance. It’s actually easily understandable the way women behave if you’ve ever experienced true abundance. It’s a legit social adavantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 12:07 AM
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If you’re actually average, just self improve. Truly average guys can become above average simply by hitting the gym. If you’re actually below average, god help you. Monk mode may be the only way without resorting to extreme measures.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 06:55 AM
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Yes “dark sercets”. Women watch the majority of violent, rapey porn. Their sexuality is still taboo to openly express (slut shaming), and many are still sexually repressed. I eagerly await the day the pussy is set free. No more “for the streets”. We’re all in the streets together. I don’t think it’s over exaggerated. Again, women are still socialized not to be sexual. We’re going through a whole paradigm shift around women’s sexuality right now. It’s silly to pretend that women don’t like dick a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 06:52 AM
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If we’re together on vacations, go to the same place, share the same hotel, how tf will they hide that from me? Lol fair, but I assume you don’t all vacation together every time 🤷🏾‍♂️ Plus female friends aren’t as secretive as you think. I didn’t mean they were secretive because they’re women, but because they’re human. It’s easier to share dark secrets with strangers or, like online, anonymity. Okay.. that’s completely different than sleeping with random men lol are you serious? Lol sorry guess…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 01:02 AM
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That’s why I said it’s not all women, but it’s not some rare event. A big misunderstanding between people is thinking that just cause your friends you “know” them. It’s just as likely that your friends simply don’t tell you, because the vibe in your group is that you guys don’t do that. As if people don’t hide shit from each other. I’ve fucked tons of women who seemed like they “weren’t the type” only to find out they’re masturbating multiple times a day in private to keep their libido in check.…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 09:46 PM
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I mean to be fair, if you actually have many female friends/fuck women, you’d know that they do indeed go on vacations and fuck random locals (obviously not all women, but it’s not some rare event) As a redpill guy I don’t see anything wrong with women having fun or even enjoying their sexuality. As far as I’m concerned, no redpill guy would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 04:20 AM
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Lol when did I see they were obsessed? I said they love dick but obviously not just any dick. Most women have a dick they enjoy fucking consistently. I agree they prefer FWB > random hook ups but that doesn’t mean they aint out there getting fucked. No need to be prudish women are sexual beings too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:04 PM
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Men slut shaming is a form of simping.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:52 PM
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Bro cap! You seriously see women getting constantly disrespected in real life? Everywhere I got I see men being considerate of women. Holding doors. Saying excuse me. Being polite. Dudes being openly rude are legit outliers. Online everyone talks shit so it’s not representative.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:24 AM
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16% of married women breadwin. Stop the cap.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 10:16 PM
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Lol cause they’re lazy? I often ask the same thing. Apparently, a lot of women just have a collection of nudes they take “for themselves”. Just massive albums of selfies and nudes because of narcissism lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 09:51 PM
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women get less orgasms, risk more, could get pregnant, and lose value and respect according to the redpill by having sex. They lose value for LTRs, but TRP isn’t about LTRs it’s about casual sex so sluts are appreciated. A lot of men love to shame, disrespect, dehumanize and humiliate women who have a lot of sex. That’s mostly women let’s be real. The only guys truly condemning sluts are dudes lock out of casual sex and religious guys. Most other badmouthing from men is just shit talking and pos…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 10:45 AM
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A Red pill guy’s stance on high n count women should be something like “I wouldn’t LTR her, but otherwise don’t care and enjoy promiscuous women”. Like, any guy who wants casual has to accept that means women will be fucking other guys too. If you can’t accept that you probably aren’t redpilled
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 10:33 AM
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Yes. They’re giving out “free” pussy 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:45 AM
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Yes I think certain human actions are best controlled for the benefit of society. Reproduction should be one of them though I admit it’d be tough since it’s a human right. But for societies sake yeah some of us straight up shouldn’t reproduce. In 100 years maybe only 10% of the population will be “unwanted” and we can easily just give those people some kind of “sorry your genetics are trash” stipend.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:14 AM
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Maybe stop approaching sex as something you give to men and start having sex because since you must be attracted otherwise why did you accept his offer to go out? If he’s an icky creep why are you even with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 05:35 AM
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You realize that “forced to marry” was uncommon even where practiced. Women definitely had a say in who they married and most societies women had rights. They weren’t just slaves despite being “property”. No the point is ya’ll make it sound like everything was roses for men and hell for women, when really it was hell for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:57 AM
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You mean should it be controlled by men. No. I mean should it be controlled by society. And if we were to impose some sort of control at society level on who gets to procreate and who doesn't why should it take the form of subjugating half the population rather than just the minority of men deemed unworthy? Well there’d also be a roughly equal percentage of women deemed unworthy. We’d be subjugating say the bottom 40% of each gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:54 AM
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Cap. Women’s sexual attractions aren’t that diverse. If a dude is attractive to “bad girls” I guarantee he’s attractive to “good girls” too. The only difference being “good girls” would be more concerned with their image of being associated with a “bad boy”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 12:25 AM
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Being an asshole literally only attracted more women of all kinds. Good girls, bad girls, educated, rich, poor etc. It’s pure c0pe that only “certain types” of women are attracted to jerks. At this point we can say women in general are attracted to them 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 12:16 AM
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That’a because they try to find out by getting dude to invest emotionally/financially first. It’s easy to fake caring about a woman when you wanna fuck her, but good luck trying to fake caring while lying next to her after you just bused that nut. That post nut clarity will reveal his true colors. You don’t even have to fuck him just get good at hand jobs/blow jobs. Jack dude off then see if he wants to kick it. If he says he has to go then there’s your answer lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 12:12 AM
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If we’re being real, women are the gateway to future generations. Morally, should that be controlled? Should women, the gender the literally births people, be allowed to just fuck whoever all willy-nilly? And we as a society simply clean up the mess after? Logically, it makes complete sense to control women. Letting them freely fuck felons and degenerates probably isn’t good for society long term… but also morally women should have the right to choose. It’s an interesting conundrum. Women hold a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 12:07 AM
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You wanna know if a guy is into you? Fuck him. Then see how he behaves drained of all desire to fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 11:49 PM
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I think his point is that not every woman from the past was some young hot virgin model forced to marry some ugly troll man. Most likely, she too was an ugly troll and the pairing was matched. It’s unlikely a serf or peasant was marrying baddies 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 10:44 PM
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Obsession? Lol maybe those acting out some kind of revenge fantasy. It’s just awareness to avoid getting played. Mostly because around that time is when women start shifting priorities from “Alpha fucks” to “Beta bucks”. TRP isn’t even about having kids or LTRs anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 09:47 AM
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Yeah that’s not a Redpill belief but nice try 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:59 AM
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Bruh tons of us never even knew are dads so it’s not even that serious. The number of old men reproducing is less than the number of single moms/absent fathers lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:58 AM
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Depends on your goals. If your dating for an LTR than it’ll help when you finally get that first date. Would suck a lot to fumble to ball cause you fumbled the bag. If you just tryna fuck then it means nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:50 AM
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Sure if by dating you mean getting to know women, but when it comes to an LTR, money is crucial.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 03:53 AM
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thats... what patriarchy teaches men tho Does it? i remember a very famous pastor holding up his bible and saying that a man isn't a man if there's a noise downstairs at night and he isn't the one who goes to investigate. Insane that women could take men risking their lives for them as an insult. I don’t know many dudes who would rather their girl risk her life for them. Even if she a well trained officer of something, it’s highly unlikely she could take a full grown man. I’d much rather have he…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 01:51 AM
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yes, you let them have their way Yes, exactly. It’s only really an issue when the dominate person doesn’t know how to take a more submissive role when their partner is more competent on a matter. But this comes down to socialization. Men learn pretty quickly that being submissive/cooperative doesn’t work very well with a lot of women. If they don’t make moves and dominate the interactions then nothing ever happens or progresses. its unsurprising women are not interested in living their lives thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 12:36 AM
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if you were raised to be cooperative, it would cost you a lot to partner with someone who was raised to dominate others, Only if you can’t put your ego aside. I’d argue this person just isn’t actually cooperative. If they were, they’d know how to work with someone who’s dominate. It’s the ego. Women are being socialized not to accept the cooperative complementary role so they feel some type of way working with a man who’s more dominate… but if you’re submissive/cooperative, you’re ultimately goi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 11:02 PM
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Naw it’s irrelevant. The odds of being born autistic are extremely low. Going from a 1/36 chance to a 1/24 chance means statistically you’d have to have 24 children to get 1 with autism. Roll them dice 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:26 AM
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Exactly what Im implying and literally that simple. Obviously she doesn’t want to be violenced but part of the fun from riding a shark is that it may bite you too 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:48 AM
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Becky? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 02:27 AM
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Literally the first thing on their list of “business” would be what to do with the only man on the island 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 02:11 AM
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Risk of violence literally increases ones odds of hooking up though 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 02:03 AM
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I’d certainly be curious as to why I was excluded, but I wouldn’t turn down the chance to hang out with the hot girls years later lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 01:49 AM
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Sure but many are still enjoying casual sex while they look (not that theirs anything wrong with that). I’ve fucked with women who apparently hadn’t had sex in years and would just wait around for months for me to fuck with them again. They just weren’t really interested in sex but occasionally got that itch and had their own specific dude they’d go to to scratch it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 12:50 AM
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That or younger women. It’s just the woman his own age he’ll struggle with until his late 20s/early 30s. I have realized though that as I get more attractive to women, the effects are noticeable from the top down. That is, older women start to notice and hit on me first as I get more attractive. Younger women hit on me last.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 12:37 AM
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Lol you have no clue what you’re talking about. You’re making assumptions based clearly on being online too much. I do quite well with women. Have tons of female friends. My best friend is a girl and I’m laying in bed next to my GF of 7 yrs right now 😂 Im close to my moms too. Just because I “locker talk” online doesn’t mean I hate women or something. Ima black man. We have our own way of talking about women/slang that may sound gross to other women but so does the way women talk about men to wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:56 PM
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Yeah no dude trying to get pussy is saying that to a woman wtf? We’re having discussions online, not trying to attract women 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:45 PM
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Lol do you not hang around women? They talk just like men do in private company stop playin 😂 It’s like how women online are up in arms over “females” yet in real life ya’ll call each other females and bitches 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:36 PM
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We’re speaking about adults I assumed. Of course when you’re child or teenager it’s totally different. Agreed. Also, plenty of women date dudes their same age/same education/same income level. Not everyone is dating “up”, or most people wouldn’t be marrying the opposite sex version of themselves. Most people are basic and marry someone basic. 55% of marriages has a male breadwinner earning a median income 3x higher than his spouses so… 🤷🏾‍♂️ In my 20’s and have no friends who prefer bald men but…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:08 PM
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Lol I mean, I got 2 19 yr olds at my job tryna fuck with me. Know a 21 yr old girl who wants my kid too (she might be 22 now actually). Keeps the ego boosted but I got a GF and I don’t want those problems 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:02 PM
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Sure. Never met a Chad who wasn’t drowning in pussy if he wanted 🤷🏾‍♂️ But they lean toward older Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:48 PM
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Minimal? Depends on where they at. Is 16 with 18 minimal? What about 19 with 21? A Junior with a graduate? Freshmen withe a Junior? Obviously as you get older it matters less but at a young age 2 years can make a big difference. And again, I said more established, not fully. Mr. 17 with a car is only 2 years off dude who’s 15, but Mr. 15 can’t drive or even work 🤷🏾‍♂️ Lol yes I’m aware. I was just explaining why hypergamy can be frustrating if you’re not the kind of guy women pursue hypergamousl…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:46 PM
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Bruh, 2 years older is still older! No one said women are fucking old men. Why you guys strawman this argument like this every time is so weird. Women are fucking older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:37 PM
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Sisyphus cope? 😂 No one’s complaining about the effort. Just stating the facts. We all know women care nothing for the process and only want the finished result. We all know men are very forgiving of women. Wow no shit people get older? Wife goggles are real?! No way! Who would have guessed that people get attached to those they love 😳🙄 Yeah don’t worry Im not afraid of beta this or alpha that. I pick up “little weights” because the alternative is being small and weak and frail in my old age (pl…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:23 PM
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Lol and men who are attractive have to literally move mountains to achieve it (seriously you know how much weight you have to move to build a sexually attractive physique?) Much more work than just being porn tall and leggy, not eating food, doing coke, and having plastic surgery 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:04 PM
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A good amount of women look like feet to. They just have more convenient ways of hiding it (makeup + male thirst).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:45 PM
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Because being a young man in your 20s who can’t get pussy because all the girls are fucking older more established guys is frustrating as fuck!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:44 PM
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All motives are selfish. Humans never do things “just because”. As has been pointed out even being nice makes you feel good. You get dopamine hits from it. It’s selfishly inclined. If being nice made you sad you wouldn’t do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 11:36 PM
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Men can’t sleep with as many as possible if women are monogamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 06:48 AM
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I agree. Men’s problem is that we incentivize women to do whatever. Even the boss bitches we don’t really like we’ll still fuck. She may struggle to find LTRs but it’s mostly because of her own standards (as you say, poor positioning). Seems both sides are incentivizing traits they don’t want in a partner, and then getting upset when all of their options have traits they don’t want.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 02:51 AM
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Damn congrats. I got no kids yet, but one day probably lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 02:35 AM
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It’s not that it’s unattractive, it’s just viewed as unattractive by women. Men are incentivized to provide so of course not providing seems like an unattractive option. Women control the narrative on what men pursue. If women were fawning over broke dudes who cooked and clean you better believe dudes would be “maidmaxxing”, but they don’t. The majority of married men are breadwinning. More money gives access to badder bitches. This seems to just be the way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 01:56 AM
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Shit hopefully the trend picks up. Working sucks I’d rather clean and raise kids 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:21 PM
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Naw kisses from mom. Trauma from pops.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 06:04 AM
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So essentially the combined effort of the mother and father is to slowly anesthetize their children to trauma by fucking with them and then kissing it better.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:44 AM
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So… trauma? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 03:12 AM
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Sure I could google it, but wtf is an nlog? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 01:54 AM
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What’s a father? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 01:35 AM
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Then they aren’t Redpilled or they got weird ass goals. Whole point of TRP is to be able to attract women/get laid so I guess you could use it to hook up with virgins but literally TRP does not care. Enjoy the decline and all that jazz. Get money and fuck bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 11:37 PM
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No. Redpill would say he’s a cuck if he was trying to LTR her, but fucking her without having to pay or commit is the gold standard 👍🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:46 PM
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Hmm idk I think those guys are just being haters. Calling a woman ugly/fat is like callin a dude short/bald.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 07:05 AM
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Lol some of us can get younger women despite being here. This shit is interesting and you can’t really discuss it openly. Plus not like attractive dudes don’t have problems with women too. There’s levels to this shit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:35 AM
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Lol falling off as in less popular now days 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:25 AM
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Getting a first date means it’s your game to lose. Much better than not even being in the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 03:28 AM
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Yet hot men with shit personalities crush it. Being more attractive will automatically make your personality seem better. Just be attractive is literally all that matters for men to be successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:34 AM
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Naw try reading the sidebar and stop listening to grifters. Ya’ll have no idea what TRP is lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:33 AM
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Seriously all my boys stay fresh. What dude doesn’t understand that smelling like ass and being musty repels women? This is something any dude would easily observe interacting with any human.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:29 AM
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The tightest girls just needed to be fully wet/lubed up. Vaginas push out babies for christ sake there’s no dick that’s too thick. Only length is ever an issue and as I keep saying you just don’t put all of it inside her. If you got 8” and she can only take 5” then you just only put 4.5” inside her 🤷🏾‍♂️ Gotta be able to gauge depth and then only max out at the spot. Trying to put more than that in will just hurt her or worse, make her bleed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 03:54 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 11:12 PM
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Because they lack the looks/vibe required to attract women casually, and women select for men with money for LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 11:08 PM
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Idk? Maybe she’s inciting the guy to anger. Doing a “haha what are you gonna do about it 🖕🏾” dance 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:58 PM
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Yeah bro just run up and snatch her pursue and throw it over your shoulder and start strutting around like a model. She’ll totally think it’s fun/flirty 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 09:05 AM
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Snatching someone’s hat off their head is assault is it not? Like imagine it was a cop and you just ran up and snatched their hat off their head.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 08:47 AM
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Taking someones hat is easily disrespectful. Let’s be real, most guys wearing hats in a club are probably trying to hide the scalp. It’ll probably be more aggravating to see some girl snatch your hat and run off with it. Not to mention, you shouldn’t be putting your hands on anyone anyway. Just gender flip it. We already know how it’d go for most dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 08:42 AM
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Lol yeah I know
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:12 AM
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Lol I know. It was nonsense math.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:11 AM
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Only if that authenticity and confidence is tempered against reality. If everyone hates your authentic self, and sees you confidence as arrogance, you should probably do some reflecting and self improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 06:42 AM
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No, I realize that only 30% of suspicious men were right. That could be only 4% of the population, but if 100% of the population was suspicious, than 30% of them would be right.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 06:38 AM
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30% of suspicious men were right, but it’s not 30% of all men, it’s 30% of suspicious men(so maybe only 10% of men are suspicious). So, if 100% of men were suspicious, then 30% of them would be right.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 06:36 AM
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It’d be like saying 30% of people who suspected they had a cold, really have covid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 06:29 AM
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Sure if you wanna be attractive to more woman, but just being hot will be more than enough. You’d drown in pussy before your personality ever mattered.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:46 AM
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Which is notoriously poor advice lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:37 AM
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I know it’s probably not, but technically this could still mean 30% of men are not the father. If 30% of the 100% of men who suspected they weren’t the father, weren’t the father, then if 100% of men suspected they weren’t the father, it’d follow that 30% of them would indeed not be the father.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:29 AM
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Yes lol. If you’re cumming you aint gonna be upset about it. And the senstive part on the dick is the glans so it’s inside you no matter how long the dick 🤷🏾‍♂️ It is unfortunate not being able to “clap” the cheeks since your pelvis can’t reach her… but what choice does big dick have? Most of ya’ll can’t fit more than 6-7”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 10:46 PM
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Because it’s a known and observable phenomena? Why not ask dudes in those vacation sights if they have an easy time fuckin vacationing women. The answer will be yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 09:38 PM
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No, you’re being obtuse if you think a dude with a 10” dick needs to stuff all of it inside of you! Dude could use only half his length, or however much she can take without discomfort. He has a range of depths he can utilize.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 09:37 PM
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“So big that it hurts” is either girth or he’s ramming the cervix. Im decently girthy but not so much that she can’t even fit it in her mouth. Lengthwise I’m +8” and can easily bottom out in the majority of women so I can definitely hurt them if I’m not careful. But since I don’t like causing pain, I’m careful 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 09:08 PM
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Lol my n-count is triple digits and I’ve never seen it. Unless we’re talking extreme amounts of girth then “she can take it”, she just might not be able to fit all of it inside her which again, just means you don’t use all of your dick. Simple. They love being filled to the brim every single one of them so long as you don’t hurt them (ramming the cervix).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 09:06 PM
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I don’t disagree. Mums the word when it comes to casual for sure, but if a women is fucking local dudes casually then I’d bet money she’s fuckin foreign dudes on vacation too 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 09:01 PM
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Sure you can do it at home but it’s a risk to your reputation. You can only fuck so many dudes in your area before people start connecting dots. So you travel to some place where no one knows you and live out your sexual fantasies. Then you come back home and talk about the museums and the sights and how you definitely weren’t out there to hookup 😉😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 07:49 PM
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Lol naw women love dick they just try to get it in ways that avoids ruining their rep. So they go on “girl’s trips” to places where no one knows them so they can slut it up with impunity and then come back with their reps still intact. Swear it’s like some of ya’ll don’t fuck women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 07:48 PM
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Lol and what Im saying is they can all take big dick and have literally never had a girl complain, even the ones that struggled to fit me girth wise. Length is only really an issue in some positions but for the most part it’s as simple as not bottoming out inside her. They all like it deep. What they don’t all like is having their cervix rammed. So again, just stop short and you’re good.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 07:45 PM
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I don’t beat myself up how did you get that? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 07:36 PM
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I MYSELF HAVE STRONG FEMININE ENERGY Pussy don’t want pussy bro. Try being a dick 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:29 AM
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It’s not less common women just call it “going on a vacation”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 10:29 AM
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Sexiness does not exist in a vacuum. Just because you think you’re sexy means nothing if reality doesn’t validate it. The reason a girl can put something sexy on and feel sexy is because whatever she’s wearing has been validated as a sexy look. Women aint painting clown faces on and saying it’s sexy. They’re doing things that men explicitly find sexy already. Literally just an ego trip. Women need constant validation of their looks or they spiral into depression. Dudes don’t need it because most…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 09:17 AM
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It’s the same for women. Sexiness doesn’t exist in a vacuum. It requires observers to validate. Wearing it by yourself is like a killer revisiting a murder site. They’re just trying to relive the experience of being desired
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 09:11 AM
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Nothing about your anatomy needs to change dude just needs to stop shoving all of his dick into girls who can’t take it 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:09 AM
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Honestly, fair. I still attract fairly young women, but it’s really not much more different with older women. Many still have never experienced multiple orgasms from their partners or at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:48 AM
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Lol bro there are so many women out there who believe they can’t cum. Or believe they can’t cum with a partner or without toys. I’ve had to baby step many women into multiple orgasms. Hell just saying you can consistently give women orgasms is met with resistance. They don’t believe it’s possible because it’s not their experience, and it’s surprisingly common.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:35 AM
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“Bigger than that” checking in. Sounds like a skill issue. Gotta gauge how much dick she can take before you start clappin away. Ramming the cervix hurts, but I’ve never met a women who didn’t love the feeling of being completely filled with dick 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:05 AM
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This is asinine. Obesity is a relatively new phenomena. For all of human history dudes were either skinny or ripped unless rich, then they could be fat. I stands to reason that women evolved attractive towards displays of fitness.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:36 AM
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No it’s literally just what women select for. Men who can provide have greater access to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 12:38 AM
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2100 members I stand by that never lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:47 PM
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Ah I took universally as “attractive to women everywhere” not “attractive to every single woman”. Still, leanness and wealth are pretty strong contenders for universally attractive. I think many women would agree if they were completely honest. I think women’s porn habits are a very strong indicator of what’s attractive and it’s never fat or short men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:34 PM
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It doesn’t matter about universal attractiveness, only what’s attractive in general. Most men use a “shotgun” approach to dating so being attractive to women in general wins. Tall(er), lean, decent income, and social. Everything else is just noise. Women’s porn is not even half as diverse as men’s. All their erotica is variations of the same guy. There is no short, fat, poor men with good hearts porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:24 PM
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I honestly can’t tell you. Gotta keep shit fresh, organic. Gotta know how to think on your feet. My answer would depend on how she asked her question and what’s led up to that moment. Most girls aren’t actually looking for an exact number so just accuse her of being jealous for asking or something. Or just tell her your number fuck it, it doesn’t really matter 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:45 AM
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Yup. Show, don’t tell. Women don’t care how many women you’ve slept with, only that you have the capacity to attract women, and if you’re attractive then, well… you’ll attract women 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:19 AM
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My anecdotal experience agrees, and really it just makes sense. In fact, if you’re a guy, try masturbating with a vibrator. Just put it on frenulum (underside of the glans that connects to the foreskin). It’s basically the male clitoris. The next time you have sex a bet you’ll notice you last longer. I know I do 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 01:24 AM
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I honestly wouldn’t know though I haven’t seen much fat short poor guy porn for women 🤷🏾‍♂️ I know men’s porn is crazy diverse from baddies to obese+pregnant women sitting on balloons 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 01:03 AM
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Oh no doubt. Surprising a girl by trying to choke her out won’t go well with the majority of them lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 01:02 AM
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All kinds of ED exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 11:52 PM
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Or how about their high powered vibrator making them unable to cum from normal human touch 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 11:47 PM
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More cap. The average man could still get hard for average women even when masturbating to 1-100 looks. Sex and masturbation are not the same and a real flesh and blood woman expressing sexual interest in you is much more satisfying than rubbing one out. Pretty much every single man (even Chads) watch porn and yet the casual sex game is alive and well. Single moms abound. People still dating and getting fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 11:46 PM
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I mean if you have enough casual sex you’d assume most women do in fact enjoy it, and then if you look into women’s porn preferences… well there’s an awful lot of rough sex, gangbangs, rape, etc. More so than what men watch so 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 11:40 PM
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Lol you need more experience fucking women then 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 10:18 PM
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You do realize the simpler of the “Ockham’s razor” is that *women are ultimatuming men into fucking them raw under threat of not being able to fuck them at all.” Seriously who do you think such tactics would be more effective on? A man begging is a turn off. It’s way more likely to lead to the end of the interaction, not into getting what he wants (unprotected sex). But if she told him if he doesn’t fuck her raw he can’t fuck her…. Yeah that sounds like it would be a much more effective strategy…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 10:14 PM
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That’s for the courts to decide. In the mean time, even slightly above average guys like me have plenty of women offering to let me hit it raw. I could only imagine what it’s like for a true Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 09:53 PM
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Math. Ya’ll act like babies just fall out the sky. On your most fertile day you have like 40% odds of getting pregnant (scaling slowly up from 0 and then crashing quickly). Literally the 5 days leading up to ovulation, ovulation day, and the day after is all you got (~7 days). Dude would have to be a pretty good shot to get her pregnant on the first try. So more than likely she had sex with him multiple times. So what? He begged her to fuck raw everytime they had sex? She had no perception of he…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 09:49 PM
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I mean sure I know dudes who’ve never worn a condom and they are very successful with women 🤷🏾‍♂️ The key is they could never legally fuck women without a condom unless they consented.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 09:30 PM
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I am him. Clearly (him as in I and not Yasuo 😂)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 09:28 PM
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The human condition is suffering. We all suffer women aren’t unique in this regard. And if you think men couldn’t easily lock up women you’re a fool.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 04:30 AM
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Casually I’m rarely asked to use a condom, and when I pull one out, they often proclaim it’s all good cause they on BC. There are shit tons of single mom’s so obviously condoms do suck more. Begging simply can’t account for the amount of unplanned pregnancies. The only way it’s possible is if women are letting men hit it raw. Like seriously statistically it should be damn near impossible to get pregnant. Ya’ll are only fertile 7 days a month so that means specifically on those 7 days women are h…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 03:57 AM
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How do you think your ancestors did it? When an invading group came and killed all the men and burned down the village, many women chose rape over death. It’s terrible to say but women have literally evolved mechanisms to cope with rape. Very likely women would simply fold and then over the generations better men would rise up and given women rights again and the cycle repeats.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 01:54 AM
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Yeah I feel slowly condom use is falling off. I have 2 “Chad” friends who’ve never used a condom, and use tinder like a buffet (and they’re fuckin +7s). When I was a kid we all made sure we had condoms. Made sure to stay strapped up. You got bagged on for fuckin women raw it was seen as stupid and risky (unless it was your GF)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 12:10 AM
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Lol really? You think Chad is begging to fuck raw? It’s like ya’ll don’t have casual sex. OOP is right most women don’t come prepared and don’t care. If she thinks you’re sexy she’ll risk letting you cum inside her
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 09:28 PM
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And the vast majorities of marriages have a male breadwinner (meaning he’s making at least 60% of the income). Median is 3x their spouses. So yeah she’s working full time but dude is bringing in at least 50% more than her. Wash the dishes 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 01:40 AM
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“Logically”, sexual relations are a social issue. If one gender can freely have access to sex while the other cannot, is that not inequality?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 12:22 AM
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There’s a difference between being attracted to someone and being physically attracted to them. Plenty of dudes are attractive LTR prospects without actually being physically attractive. Lots of women will accept a dude who doesn’t get her wet but has money and father skills (beta bucks). They can easily just cheat on the side and if caught they’ll just blame dude for not washing the dishes or something
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 01:05 AM
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I mean, it’s not that ludicrous. Women are quite adamant about the vast majority of men being unattractive, and yet most people end up in LTRs. No way all these women are finding and dating/marrying that small fraction of men who spark true arousal in them. In fact, we already know this to be true. AF/BB is an observable phenomena. One that a lot of women will openly admit too, and one easily noticeable when comparing who women fuck casually with who they end up dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 01:01 AM
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I understand, but like you said telling them later is just a manipulation tactic. What’s dude gonna say after you tell him? Probably something about how he didn’t know and you should’ve said something. Then you keep the ruse by blaming him for not being assertive. Now he thinking maybe he’s still got the green light and makes a move on you (“Well, how bout we grab a drink then?”) And boom, the fly is in the spider’s web. At this point you could accept the offer or reject him and drink up the val…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 09:52 PM
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Yup. And it’s even backed by plausible deniability. Things like this are part of why I became Red Pilled. Female tactics are fascinating. Where as men tend to be more direct, women set little pit falls and let you walk into them, and then pretend they didn’t do it on purpose lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 09:41 PM
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Lol not saying they’re fuckin but a lot of dudes feel “safe” about gay men around their girl when there are in fact gay men who will fuck women. Same as lesbians who occasionally get dicked down.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 09:47 AM
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Lol just a heads up but some “gay” men are really bi and just play it up but still fuck women occasionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:36 AM
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to men i guess Yes. Men think the men women let fuck them raw off minimal investment are viewed as high value to women. any guy they have sex with, yes, thats a risk of sex idk why you would have sex with someone and not want their cum inside you lol thats like... what sexual attraction is and generally women don't have sex with someone they aren't sexually attracted to Lol honestly didn’t expect you to be so candid but exactly my point. If she felt he was average or low value she would not want…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 12:56 AM
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He’s high value because he can fuck women raw. You really think women just risk getting pregnant by any random guy? Or that men have any say in whether he doesn’t use a condom? Lol Hell do you think just any random guy can consistently get ONS???
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 12:30 AM
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If a women lets you fuck her raw she sees you as high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 12:26 AM
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Shit at least they think you have one. I’m black and actually have a big dick yet women never believe and are astonished when I actually pull out a big dick. Maybe it’s cause I’m “only” 5’11 😏😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 09:23 PM
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It’s the sweet spot for women because 7s have the most options. She’s attractive, but not so attractive as to feel unobtainable/high maintenance.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 09:20 PM
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Of course men love average women. Love is more about that emotional connection. Hotness really starts at an 8. I’m talking undeniably attractive people. Head turning.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 01:27 AM
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This is a bluepilled take.The ROI on physical attractiveness gains is too great to ignore. Your words will reach more people the more attractive you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 03:53 AM
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The majority of people are overweight so yeah, top priority. No one said you couldn’t talk yourself out of pussy, but holding a conversation isn’t a massive hurdle. The confidence gained from being more physically attractive will make it much easier to interact with others and work on your Game. Use the halo effect to your advantage. Mr Average well dressed would only do better by being more physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 11:23 PM
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No. Girls like arms, chest and abs. If your face is at least average getting leaner/fitter will do wonders for how well women perceive your abilities to flirt/listen/pass shit tests. When a girl is attracted to you she’ll make it easier for you to hit on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 09:17 PM
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Fair. And like another poster said the effort required to get into shape will affect your personality. It not only strengthens the body but the mind too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 09:14 PM
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Those men were below average to start. TRP specifically goes over this but you really need to be at least average to have a shot. Going from average to above is night and day. Going from below to average is basically the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 03:50 AM
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Which is why hitting the gym/getting in shape is the number 1 advice for improving dating prospects. Fixing your personality in any appreciable way is a massive undertaking and once stress tested, usually falls back to your original self. Improving your looks will improve your personality in that people will assume your personalities better because you’re more attractive. You can be the same shitty/boring person you always were but suddenly people will act like you’re much more interesting and s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 11:49 PM
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Lol as I said, I’ve gotten off on tons of tickets. Though the blunt in the ashtray is hot. Got arrested 1 time for the smell of weed in my car and that was it. No more smoking in the car. It was a lady cop too. She was hatin 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:31 PM
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I mean sure it’s not full proof. Sometimes you’re just fucked but you can easily talk your way out of mild speeding tickets.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:24 PM
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It’s all about the finesse. I get out of tickets constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:17 PM
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Well imo as a guy, the hotter the girl is relative to the dude the less he feels he can keep her, but certainly if he manages to fuck her he’ll keep trying to fuck her. He may mot try to LTR her though
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 08:50 PM
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Lol true.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 08:47 PM
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I didn’t blame anyone. It just is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 08:17 AM
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Sex for sex isn’t an “exchange”. Neither party loses or gains anything. They cancel out. The average guy does not have access to this kind of “free love”. They must pay. They must compensate with money or status or whatever. That pure raw lust women show toward men they’re truly attracted to is something many men will never experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 08:07 AM
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Tell me I’m wrong. Tell me women hand out pussy for free like men do. Sex for sex. You can’t. Women exchange sex. Listen to how a lot of women approach sex; as something they give to men. Why aren’t wealthy women scooping up broke men? Why aren’t beautiful women fuckin with broke men? I honestly don’t say it to be offensive though I realize the word prostitute is inflammatory. Conversely men are sluts; we have sex just for sexes sake. If you had a sliding scale between Full on prostitute to Full…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 07:07 AM
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7s aren’t hot but they’re firmly in the “cute” zone. That’s the sweet spot to men for LTRs but a little too much work for casual. Good chance if a dude manages to fuck a +7 casually he’ll try to keep her lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:41 AM
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Yes. Women are prostitutes. They claim otherwise, but we can clearly see what happens as a women gets hotter; the men she fucks with get exponentially wealthier. Thus it becomes an impossible task for an average man to fuck true 9s and 10s. She’s undoubtably fucking millionares/billionares/high status men. As such, her pool of viable candidates is minuscule.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:29 AM
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Don’t they already support them though? Aren’t there all kinds of government/financial programs for single parents?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 01:22 AM
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Average women have the most casual sex/offers. The amount goes down as you approach both ends of the SMV (ugly and hot women have the least).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 01:16 AM
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To give as many women multiple orgasms as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 11:20 PM
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TRP isn’t about marriage or having kids. It’s pretty much the opposite; fuck bitches and get money 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 09:29 PM
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It wasn’t men it was elites. Some of which were women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 09:08 PM
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We’re switching from Wolves to Lions lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 11:36 AM
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If anything it’d get bigger. People have clearly never heard of Jelqing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 11:04 AM
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Fairs fair. If you can’t play the game you can at least heckle the players from the stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 11:01 AM
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Im 5’11. I was a linemen. Wasn’t professional or anything but I ate and lifted big and so I got big. A lot leaner now but when I get fat I just get big. When a normal guy who has no muscle gets fat they just get fat. Muscle + fat = big (the one girls like) No muscle + fat = fat (the one that’s common and not attractive)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 03:14 AM
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Lol you’re describing a type of man that is not common and in a lot of cases unachievable. Shoulder width and height are genetic. You’re talking about a man who use to be fit but got fat. Like an ex lineman. Notice how there is no fat guy porn for women. No popular erotica with a fat male lead.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 03:01 AM
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Who said women were naturally chaste? They just aren’t as horny as men. Women aren’t choosy to avoid STDs, they’re choosy because they have the options to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 11:13 PM
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You safe guard the women because they are the vector point for pregnancy and STDs. If women were as horny as men average dudes would be getting fucked instead of her vibrator while she waits on Chad to rotate back to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:40 PM
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The vast majority of women will no do this for me FTFY 👍🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:34 PM
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Bad metaphor since genies are subservient. They’ll get back in the bottle if “we” tell them too 🤷🏾‍♂️ Cat’s definitely out of the bag though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:27 PM
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Because they’re females. Men care less about personality flaws if they’re getting pussy. Though obvious a poor idea for LTRs, it is what it is. It has nothing to do with them being felons. They just have vaginas.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 10:31 AM
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I don’t have the will power to give a fuck about every random person, and neither do you so don’t try to high road me here. Unless you’re donating to charity and volunteering at homeless shelters, you’re likely no better than me. Worse, if you simply pay lip service to the blight of others. At least I got the balls enough to keep it real and tell them to get their shit together. It’s never too late to start making quality decisions in life. One of those being not imploding relationships over cho…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:19 AM
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Minimum wage is $15/hr here. That’s $60k combine. Get a maid, and maybe don’t have kids if you’re poor 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:58 AM
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Fair for childcare. Dudes seem to underestimate the requirements of early childcare.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:57 AM
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I have minimal sympathy. There are men who cook, clean, and manage childcare; pick those niggas. You have ample time to learn how this dude lives his life before you move in and have kids together. If you wait until the kids pop out to learn if he actually can cook, and haven’t once been in this dudes living space, or discussed childcare, then tough.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:50 AM
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Median household income in my area is $90k. Average is $120k. Average cost of a maid is $25-$70/hr. I give my girl $300/mon and she’s happy. Im finna start given her $500 a month for her birthday and she’s gonna shit bricks 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:42 AM
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Disagree. Just cause people are poor at planning doesn’t mean it’s hard. For instance I work grave and my GF works day. Im home in the mornings, we’re both home in the afternoon, and she’s home at night. Plus, it pays to have family/friends and trusted neighbors willing to help out. Keep those connections strong before having kids and you’re good 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:35 AM
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Much much cheaper and less stressful. Though FWB can have high standards, they have minimal expectations for men. Just show up, kick it, fuck, and bail. All the good shit and the only bad is that eventually she’ll either want more or find some guy who offers her more. But again if you have the capacity to get FWB you just find another (or have multiple on rotation). Stay on good terms and your old FWBs will come back if their relationships fail too. I got hoes I been fuckin with since highschool…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:00 AM
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Disagree. I just pay my girl to do the chores. Much simpler than all this “who cleans more 🤪” nonsense. The whole chores thing baffles me just get a fuckin maid people ya’ll got 2 incomes you can afford it. Fighting over fuckin socks and dishes is ridiculous lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 12:54 AM
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FWB are better if you’re “that guy” but LTRs are the way for the majority of men. FWB guy has the options and choices to freely fuckzone women and could easily fall into in LTR if he wanted. A lot of women in FWB are just hoping dude decides to LTR her so it’s a pretty kush position to be in as a dude. LTRs responsibilities/expectations multiply significantly. If you were never the FWB guy, then LTRs are almost always a heavy compromise on the dudes part, and she’ll know it. If you aren’t attrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 12:48 AM
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A cognitive bias in which our impression of a person (how they look) colors who we believe they are. Attractive people are attributed positive character aspects based solely on how they look (he’s hot, so he must be a good person). Conversely the “horn effect” attributes negative aspects to unattractive people (he’s ugly, so he must be a misogynist).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 09:16 PM
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My experience as well. It’s insane, but I tell dudes (especially white men) if you want more success with women, get tattoos.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 08:59 PM
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Halo effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 08:57 PM
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A choice in having the kid or not if she “accidentally” gets pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 04:05 AM
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It’d be 50/50 if men had a choice. The men who want to be father’s are in their children’s lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 03:07 AM
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It’d only be fair if women acted in good faith. The fact the we all just kind of pretend women aren’t intentionally weaponizing children and reproduction is mildly infuriating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 03:05 AM
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Men want new pussy very quickly after getting a girl (no matter how good the sex is) and they don’t like admitting it because it’s unpleasant. This makes it hard for girls to get validation from sex. Men want sex quickly because it’s important. Sexual compatibility is crucial and it’s a bitch to get emotionally and financially invested in bad pussy or a women whose not sexual attracted to you. This of course is in direct conflict with women’s desire to secure emotional and financial investment f…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 12:34 AM
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I agree. Things are much different than they were in 2007. Good times dating back then. Women were a lot more receptive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:46 AM
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The odds of getting pregnant from precum is very low. Hell, the odds of getting pregnant in general are very low.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 02:41 AM
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Well yeah flirting and boundaries are crucial.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 02:16 AM
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It’s 70% not 80% for non-reciprocal violence. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1854883/ Full disclosure: the studies from 2007.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 12:33 AM
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The method is sound, it’s the execution that’s the problem lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 12:06 AM
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Female autonomy is not an issue for TRP/PUA. The whole point is to get good or stfu, with the disclaimer that if you’re not at least average in looks, you’re fucked without heavily compensating. Women being fully autonomous is great for the men who can compete. Much easier to get no strings attached pussy and “spin plates”.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 11:44 PM
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Haha yeah and what a shit show that is. He struggles to hold down a job and owes backpay.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 04:34 AM
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Oh yeah no doubt her income is very useful. Yeah kids not mine. Funny I have no clue where her money goes. I don’t manage it. I just pay for shit so she doesn’t have to lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 04:13 AM
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South of Tacoma. Closer to Olympia.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 03:57 AM
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Maybe I would. Like I said it’s just how I feel. My girl works so Idk how it’d actually be, but even when she was broke and struggling it was nothing paying for everything. She’s not boujee or anything so that helps a lot. Her son found video games young and that was a wrap. A new xbox every 5 yrs and he’s good lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 01:32 AM
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She has a kid. Live in the PNW. Rents $1300. Idk I mean she’s always worked but I never felt like I needed her money for anything. Im not saying we’d be living lavish but we both grew up poor so we know how to stretch money.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 12:48 AM
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Im making $70k. Could easily make it work.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 12:21 AM
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Yes she is her house hold income increased by 250%! Him simply matching what she was paying in rent would afford her a significantly better place. Again, this is relatively. Clearly she’s not ballin or living the life of luxury, but relative to making $20k, $50k is luxurious.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:25 AM
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Compared to only making $20k alone they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:33 AM
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Depends. If you mean in the absolute term then no, but relatively, being with a man who grosses a minimum 150% of your income is nothing to sneeze at. You’ll be living a lifestyle way above what you could’ve alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:57 AM
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Ehhh not according to marriage stats (Idk how much longer till new data comes out, but definitely gettin some mileage outta these stats) 55% of marriages the man bread wins (makes at least 60% of the house hold income). The median income being 3x higher than their wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:46 AM
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Lol no falling in love is easy is fuck you just have to be willing. The problem is most people are hurt and jaded from allowing themselves to fall in love before and much rather cut ties early than risk getting hurt again.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 12:27 AM
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(or society primes us to see women as more sexually appealing than men through advertising and media, which is another deeper discussion) I also believe social media raises women’s perception of what’s normal. Similar to how people claim men’s raised from watching porn, social media is porn for women. They use it for attention, validation, and sliding into DMs is easy. They having such easy access to all the attractive men in the area makes it seem like they’re what’s average, and real average m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 12:25 AM
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Dual incomes are worth it. The average person isn’t even breaking $40k/yr.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 11:54 PM
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Paying with his looks only adds more credence to the value of guy 1. Guy 2 is paying with his looks too, they just aren’t enough. He doesn’t have enough value for her to just fuck with him on the merit of his looks alone. He must compensate. If guy 1 decided to even consider LTRing her guy 2 would be dropped.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 10:56 PM
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Easier to manipulate into what?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 09:17 PM
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So men are forced into parenthood/child support based on women’s whims? Tax payers already pick up the tab and men pay most of the taxes 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 12:16 AM
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Seriously. Women act like dudes out here Jedi mind tricking them, and yet 100% of men’s “tricks” can easily be foiled by just not giving up the pussy! Literally every man’s “scheme” is to fuck so just don’t do it until you’ve got the ring or whatever you want first. Absolutely insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 10:02 PM
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Agreed. The Jackhammer is more of a finishing move. Definitely shouldn’t be used off top lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 09:57 PM
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This is asinine. Being fucked hard and fast definitely is pleasurable for women. The ole Jackhammer is quite effective, especially if you’re actually wielding a decently sized hammer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 09:52 PM
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Yup. They have no way of knowing who’s actually a competent lover. I tried for years to find a way to express overtly my sexual competence to no avail. Short of walking around with women I already fucked and having them vouch for me, women just follow the tingles. It’s no surprise the common narrative amongst women is “most men suck in bed”. .
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 09:48 PM
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Lol 10 minutes is more than enough time 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:04 AM
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On God I always befriend that weird guy everyone avoids. Doesn’t take much just acknowledge his existence occasionally. Don’t need to be besties or anything just don’t be like everyone else who treats them like shit lol. Haven’t had to find out if my due diligence is worth the effort but… I certainly aint finna fuck around lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:26 PM
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Not to mention (at least according to pornhub) women view gangbang content slightly more than men do so 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 06:26 AM
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The latter is 100% preferred but yoked dudes still get the pussy so it doesn’t really matter. And the dude fuckin around 2-3 times a week at 10% bf just might be on roids too. 10% Bf isn’t easy to maintain.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 01:42 AM
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Lol idk it’s not something I’m personally worried about. I just meant more so if you needed to investigate someone, going through their social media seems less extreme than hiring a PI, though the PI would likely get better results so 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:10 AM
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By going through all their shit. A lot of people have a pretty extensive social media presence. Their pics, their friends, who they follow etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:02 AM
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This is a great way to put it. In fact being stuck in traffic should be especially humbling to those who believe the world bends to their will.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:08 PM
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Right just sift through their social media for free 👌🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:56 PM
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Not that big a deal. As if people don’t cyber stalk people they’re interested in to learn more about them 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:55 PM
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Socially. Sex is a whole different game.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:25 AM
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IME dominant women become submissive around even more dominant men they’re attracted too. Some dominant women even manage to “play both sides” and can reign in the dominance and play the submissive role for their SO.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:55 PM
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They aint ready for this. Women are still collectively going through “red pill rage”.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:58 AM
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Yeah you most likely overinflate women’s sexual interest in you probably by around a factor of 2-3x Confidence wise yeah I assume most women are already interested in me, but realistically I know that’s not the case. There are easy ways to check if a women’s interested in you I’m 6’3, 190lbs, and 16-18% bf. Pretty face. Nice stats. The easy +7. Idk might have to agree to disagree bro IMO if she receptive she’s willing. Only ego and circumstance stands in your way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 03:36 AM
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I agree with the stats that it is probably about a fifth to a quarter of women who have had casual sex. Be realistic how attractive are you? I got a decent face, atheltic build but overweight. When I’m leaner, it’s as if every woman is single. Even taken women act as if they’re single around me. Conversations easily turn sexual, even without meaning too. I’d say at my natural peak I’m ~7.5 and even at that level I feel like I could fuck any woman. I could only imagine what it’d be like to be a t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 02:57 AM
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As someone who is in one of those groups, Fair. I have no real insight on how the groups operate. I’ve just heard it’s a lot of shit talking and smearing exes/awkward dates. Definitely could be location dependent I think there is an argument both ways. Makes sense. I respect people who couldn't do it. I guess it makes sense from women’s perspective since ya’ll are generally pursued. Gotta sift through your suitors. Where as for men, we have the luxury of pursing women we want, so it’s more likel…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:45 PM
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Well, there is the “are we dating the same man” groups. IMO, I don’t think men are criticized anymore than women, but I do think dating multiple people is something that comes more “naturally” to women. Women’s “drama” is over the dilemma of her choices. Deciding between multiple suitors pinning after her. Men’s is the flip side of women’s. It’s from the perspective of one of the dudes pinning after her, focusing on her only and pouring all his resources into getting her. I personally grew up th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:09 PM
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sure in a hypothetical relationship most women never experience Yeah idk. Maybe vet for pussy eating skills before you LTR him 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:50 PM
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i dont think i've ever had a sexual partner i didn't go down on This is the crux of the orgasm myth. Women cum less in random casual encounters because men are less willing to go down on strangers. Women on the other hand seem to have no problem sucking random dicks 🤷🏾‍♂️ And that’s not shade. God bless the effort , but it explains why women don’t cum as much during casual; men aren’t taking the steps necessary to get her there because eating random pussy is gross (likely stemming from a touch o…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:45 PM
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Oh I agree, and my thought process was the same. I wouldn’t think a smaller dick means weaker orgasms, so it stands to reason smaller clits wouldn’t mean weaker orgasms. Though of course, idk 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:15 AM
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Zero evidence. None. Yeah that’s why I said perhaps. And yeah the dick definitely rubs against the clit at certain angles. Never thought I’d ask such a question on Reddit, but if your dick is inside a vagina and somehow still in contact with her clitoris, Ima have to see that dick. Lol it’d be a hard picture to take. But some motion rubs the clitoral hood back and forth across the clit. This. Combined with angling the hips downward when he thrusts inwards will pull the clit down toward the base/…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 12:23 AM
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Lol I don’t know what kind of scenario you’re imaging but we’re assuming they’re fucking a guy they’re sexually attracted to. And the jackhammer is very effective idk why women lambast it online when IRL the love it. IRL isn’t like a porno where dudes can just jackhammer away for days. A good sustained pounding is right up most women’s alley for pleasure. The issue usually being the man’s staying power.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 12:14 AM
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Im not saying a smaller clit is defective, but perhaps less responsive. And yeah the dick definitely rubs against the clit at certain angles. Same with grinding the clit against the pubic bone or the ball sack slapping against it during doggie style. Definitely not confusing it with the urethral opening lol. Gotta roll them hips girl!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 11:49 PM
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The point is death grip is nonsense. Women aren’t up in arms because men take to long to cum.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 11:40 PM
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This is demonstrably false. Not to mention, missionary isn’t the only position. Maybe get on top and use your hips more? If you’re not going to put in the effort to try and get him off then you can’t complain about him using use as a masturbatory aid 🤷🏾‍♂️ When it’s the other way around (she takes forever to get off) it’s never her fault (ie “death wand”). It’s always his fault if she can’t cum.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 11:33 PM
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Oh I’m aware the ciltoris wraps down the side of the vagina and stretches far back. The clitoris being the literal “tip” of the iceberg. That said, I doubt all clitori are the same size/shape/placement. This could easily explain the variance in penetrated experiences. A larger or shallower (as in closer to the surface inside the vagina) clitoris would lend to get stimuli, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 11:30 PM
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Lol i understand that. I make too much with no health insurance too. Just had to eat a $10k emergency bill. I’ve never had medicial insurance so I’m ahead over my lifetime but it was still painful lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 10:56 PM
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Brutal. Yeah definitely hit the doctors cause that’s far from normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:44 PM
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Yeah definitely weird. Women out here vetting for bad dick and then reinforcing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:43 PM
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It’s when men who “watch too much porn” struggle to cum with real women because the pussy isn’t as tight as his hand grip. A strange thing for women to complain about and honestly has always sounded like cap. Who complains because dude has too much staying power? No I think it’s more like the woman wasn’t very attractive or the pussy was subpar and dude just couldn’t really get into it fully with her 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:08 PM
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Now if we could only squash this orgasm gap nonsense. Sure for casual, 1 nighters women cum less, but in relationships or with a competent lover, women cum waaaay more.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:04 PM
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I’ve read that the distance between the clitoris and vaginal opening really matters when it comes to penetration feeling good or being able to orgasm. Anecdotally, I’ve “taught” women to cum from vaginal penetration by switching back and forth from playing with the clit and fucking them. A lot of sex is mental so if you can trick her brain into linking orgasms with penetration, it seems to make it easier to happen 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 08:59 PM
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Free dates are the way. Or cheap dates like ice cream/coffee. I liked the buying a drink thing though. It was a simple way to express interest for both parties. The offering and the accepting of the drink broke the ice, and you could proceed under the assumption she was interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 09:40 PM
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I heard olden times women dropped something to give the man an ability to pick it up for her. Not bad at all, I recommend it. In more recent olden times they let you buy them dinner/drink(s). Nowadays they just take the free meal/drink(s) and bail or call you misogynistic for expecting compensation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 09:26 PM
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Dogs are pre-selection manifested.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 09:21 PM
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It’s always been tough but it was a lot easier IMO. And I’ve never tried dating apps I’ve always cold approached 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 09:07 PM
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For both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 11:19 PM
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Lol if someones throwing brown flags Im stayin away 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 10:00 PM
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Men have hormones too 🤷🏾‍♂️ Either way it’s legit https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6659987/
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:34 AM
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Funnily enough, if you looked through rose colored glasses then technically all the flags would be red. Which would be bad right? Yet looking through rose colored glasses means seeing everything as positive. So despite all the red flags, you’d be assuming they’re good 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:06 AM
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They never are. You really think mom and/or dad wouldn’t welcome their abused daughter back into their arms? Her parents would have to be sociopaths to not give a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:42 AM
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Women don’t meet the real man until after marriage and children. This is nonsense. Marriage and kids are massive changes in lifestyles. Both men and women can behave different afterwards. I feel a lot of people down play that men can get post partim depression too. I also know plenty of guys whose women gave up after she had kids with him. And it’s the easy win cause dudes have very few options when she decides to just shit the bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:48 AM
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Fuck reading books you nerd the highest ROI for men is lifting weights and getting lean (10-15% body fat). If you’re attractive enough women start and carry conversations with you. All your jokes land and shit like “vibe” and “chemistry” happen seamlessly. Suddenly you just “get her” and your this amazing conversationalist 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 10:48 PM
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Lol it won’t matter. He’s been drowning in pussy since we were in middle school. He’s tall as fuck and athletic. His “game” for picking up women has been being an emotionally distant asshole. He’ll continue to be just fine lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 12:40 AM
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He’s tall as fuck and athletic, so I guess he just never noticed/considered women’s nonsense until now that he’s in his 30s 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 12:39 AM
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I never said anything to him about TRP. He found it on his own.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 12:38 AM
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Slowly more and more of my friends are talking about the redpill. Very interesting watching them go through things I had years prior. The realizations. The dots connecting. I still pretend I’ve never heard of the shit. 1 of my homies is in the stage where he’s just shouting that shit out loud at people and I’m just quietly laughing thinking how I use to be him too. Takes time to work through it. My little bro just asked me about redpill podcasts yesterday. Im just like 🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️ (though ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 09:53 PM
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The point was that women keep secrets so men won’t find dealbreakers too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 01:13 AM
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Ah yes and the website where every women registers her n-count is where 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 12:59 AM
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Not caring about them himself does not mean he doesn’t care that you care about it. Im sure most men just want their girl to be happy. That doesn’t mean he has to care about her nonsense anymore than she has to care about his. Would you rather have a partner who doesn’t even try to pretend to care? The fact that your man is willing to entertain things he’s not interested in for you should be endearing, no? Everyone “fakes” shit for the betterment of the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:55 AM
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Gotta play the game. Women want to be respected like men. If you don’t at least act like her accomplishments are important, she’ll get bitter that you only want her cause she’s sexy 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:51 PM
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Statistically likely to get cheated on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:49 PM
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Lol really? You can’t see how a fully autonomous man with his own paid off house doesn’t help you? What kind of math do ya’ll women be doing? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:47 PM
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Looks, money and status. The holy trinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:41 PM
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But it does mean you get access to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:08 PM
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This is not a gendered issue. Women lose their shit if you can’t stay hard or orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:44 PM
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I theorizes it’s why women love tall men. “Tall” is synonymous with “big dick”. I wonder how well taller guys would do if height correlated with smaller dicks 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:36 PM
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Muscles matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 08:12 PM
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They do if you pay them. Their rates vary, but you’re looking at something like $20-$70/hr. $300/mon keep a small family home clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:27 AM
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Maids are cheap. The average two income household can afford it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:47 AM
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Again, easily seen a mile away. Alcoholism and abuse are best friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 10:51 PM
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Lol what percent of men have hit you? Physical abuse can be seen coming from a mile away 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 10:32 PM
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It’s not a different issue, it’s the issue. I always tell women who complain about their men doing nothing to just stop doing stuff! It’s not that hard just stop cleaning up after him and see what happens. Of course they can’t. And they can’t for the reason this is all an issue in the first place; women have a lower disgust threshold. It’s rarely that the man literally lacks the capacity to care for himself (I mean really, if it was true why the fuck are you with/married to him in the first fuck…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 12:14 AM
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That’s what all (most) relationships are. If you were raised in a solid two parent household, than for most people, their first “loves” will be their parents, specifically the opposite gendered one. “Momma’s boy”. “Daddies girl.” We are all just love junkies trying to replicate our first high.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 11:56 PM
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Im a decently attractive guy but man, seeing how women react to really attractive guys is…. humbling to say the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 11:35 PM
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It is if you aren’t stupid with your money. If they haven’t burnt down their credit scores and/or drowning in debt they have plenty of financial leverage.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:56 AM
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Rent is high. Are they all living with a bunch of roommates? Yes, as are a lot of people, especially those in LTRs. Living with people is a smart move financially. How do they plan to support a family? If they passport bro, how do they plan to support their wives? Lol why would they even care when they can’t get a GF in the first place? But if they could, they’d support them the same way the majority of people do; on two incomes. Average household income is ~$65k. Enough to live comfortably in m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:09 AM
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The incentives. I think a lot of guys are simply comfortable enough at a level that’s just not impressive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:16 AM
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Men’s swipe data is representative of how they approach dating IRL. Talk to as many women as possible because the majority of them will not respond, or, eventually ghost. Online it’s just thrown into hyperdrive because it takes a lot more time and effort to physically approach a bunch of women (and subsequently eat a bunch of Ls), whereas online, you can “approach” much faster (swipe), and the Ls aren’t as “dense”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:08 AM
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Destined to get divorced means he got married in the first place. A much higher bar than simply getting into a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:04 AM
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Yes and no. The more attractive you are, the less shit women will give you, but they’ll still give you shit. The tests come from anxiety. Being attractive just makes her feel more at ease/at ease easier but few women will just leave with a random hot guy she’s never met before. He’s still gotta build some rapport and comfort with her even if she’s already sexually attracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 12:16 AM
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At least in regard to casual, ime women love being seen as “pieces of meat” by attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 11:39 PM
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Even women who just wanna get fucked do this. Hell even women who don’t want anything do this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 10:45 PM
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It’s actually not. The difference is women’s hair just thins to death, whereas men’s hair thins, recedes and evaporates. It’s also much easier for women to style their hair in ways that conceal the thinning, since their hairlines stay intact.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:00 PM
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Yes but you never know the extent to which she doesn’t look like that. I know girls who look great with makeup, but completely blank/plain without it. It’s like their faces are genetically dispositioned for makeup. They literally go from +7s (in the face) to 5s. The difference is insane and the fact women down play this is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:51 PM
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Same with the “morning after” when you see her without makeup. I’ve had girls go from a cute face to straight up no face. Scary stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:35 PM
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Don’t forget “rape by deception” 😏😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 09:42 PM
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I accept that responsibility. Im man enough to admit when I’ve fucked up and she trusts me enough to forgive me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 09:28 AM
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I respect my girl as an equal, but I lead the relationship. She defers most shit to me, but I have no problem taking a back seat when it comes to areas she’s more competent in.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 05:57 AM
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Follower/follower nothing gets done. They both wait around for the other to lead. Which is similar to the Leader/Leader, where nothing gets done because both parties refuse to yield ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 05:52 AM
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No RP guy thinks this though. It’s a strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 10:23 AM
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And there’s low male competition because the females give up the pussy to whoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 12:41 AM
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The average age gap is like 2.3 yrs (with the man being older), so it’s safe to assume that yes, most 40 year old men are dating women in their 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:42 PM
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Lol love is easily induced and has been replicated many times. Literally just stare deeply into someone’s eyes for a long time and share deeply personal (likely trauma) events. Laugh, cry, bond, connect, love. Good job. Easy. The issue is people unwilling to be vulnerable. Building these walls around their hearts and then being surprised they can’t “find” love. You don’t “find” love, you make it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:38 PM
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Oh okay then yes we agree lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 02:18 AM
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Right so it makes 0 sense that women would be afraid of men over their size. OP made it sound like the threat of violence is real because men are bigger, when it’s that bigger size that gets them wet. So unless you’re saying fear arouses women…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 07:59 AM
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That it’s not the size of men women are “afraid” of. Bigger, taller, stronger guys get way more pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 07:57 AM
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And yet, the appearance of strength is the strongest predictor of sexual success.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 07:06 AM
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Who do women date and marry? Is it the men with nothing to offer? Do they “yield their rewards” to who ever comes knocking? Or do a small subset of “high value men” garner the lions share of female attention 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 12:12 AM
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I slowed down to about 5-6 yearly after 100. Which overall is just under average over my active life but it was really long periods of monogamy followed by periods of racking up a lot. Yup this is me too. I fall into LTRs easily and do enjoy them but when single I’m just running through women lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 09:51 PM
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Being old but having had kids > being old and having had no kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 07:23 AM
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I say this all the time. Your typical dude isn’t pumping and dumping. It likely took a decent amount of effort to get laid in the first. The only reason dude is ghosting instantly is if, as you said, she had poor hygiene or something (definitely not uncommon). That, or do has tons of options and does not give a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 10:38 PM
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Yeah and it’s not any better when you didn’t have kids and you really wish you had.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 10:02 PM
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https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3016701/
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:04 AM
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Yes, regularly as in it was possible to happen, but not that it regularly happened. Getting pregnant even on purpose is hard to do. It simply gets harder and harder with age. Many pregnancies will simply end up as miscarriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 03:04 AM
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Feasible as in practical, not possible. And yes, it’s very likely your great grandmother simply enjoyed a very active sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 03:02 AM
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Obviously pre-menopausal women can get pregnant, the odds just start stacking up against the conceivability of the child. Your grandfather being born when your great grandmother was 42 says nothing of how long it took before she actually had your grandfather.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:54 AM
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Yes. We are all incredibly lucky. We just barely missed having to endure incredible amounts of pain and suffering medically.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 12:10 AM
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Understandably, but I bet they’re still happy knowing their kids are out there somewhere. I like to believe most parents don’t regret their kids lol. Plus still less lonely than not getting visits on Easter and holidays 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:53 PM
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Coping. Yes. That’s literally what life is lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:29 PM
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No doubt. Just sayin, it’s lonely at the top, and it seems part of the “mid life crisis” is denying this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:24 PM
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Not to mention imagine what that was like +100 yrs ago. Modern medicine is the only reason geriatric pregnancies are feasible.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:09 PM
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Until they get older. Shouldn’t even need a study for that nursing homes are some of the saddest places in America
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:07 PM
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If the patriarchy exists, it’s concentrated in the hands of the elites. The average man is a victim, not a participant. They’re being scapegoated so we’re to busy infighting and not sending the elites to the guillotine
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:13 AM
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If women didn’t like hierarchies then average men making average money would be crushing it. But they aren’t. Interestingly enough, the people at the top of hierarchies get the lions share of pussy 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:30 AM
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Cap. Ugly is rare the average women isn’t even seeing ugly let alone dating it. The vast majority of people are in the 3-7 SMV range and none of that is ugly. Ugly is all in the face. It’s severe asymmetry or deformity. There’s no way the average women is giving these guys a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:27 AM
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Average women literally have the highest n-counts. They are getting pumped left right and centered you’re trippin lol Being objectively ugly as a woman is rare, yet your experience is that of an average man’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:29 AM
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I use to. Stopped counting in the 120s and that was back in ‘09. 160 is a conservative guess but I slowed down a lot in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:06 AM
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How do I know what? My n-count? And I’m 5’11
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:08 PM
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I feel this is 99% of women (people) though. Everyone is glued to their phones. The vast majority of people are not sooo busy they don’t have time to respond to a text. It literally takes minimal time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:14 AM
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Choice is the key difference here. Being able to decide that none of your 100 suitors are good enough is vastly different than not having any options to choose from. I refuse to believe ya’ll can’t grasp this. Everyone has faced a desperate situation before and had to make the best of their situation. Having no choice is objectively worse than having a choice, even if the choices are poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:43 AM
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I agree, and I believe even people who “settle” don’t settle for people they aren’t at least minimally attracted to. No one’s out there LTRing people they find genuinely repulsive without ulterior motives (resource extraction).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 11:11 PM
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Not everyone is in a position to even be strong willed. Will power is finite. Most people’s lives are filled with stress and lack of sleep it’s not surprised their wills are weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 10:08 PM
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Yeah but being a women is like counting with a massive bankroll (relative to your bet sizes). Risk is essentially 0. All they have to do is play the game half decent and wait for shit to pan out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:59 PM
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Lol I see you bro! Puttin up them big numbers. I aint gay but I was briefly “high status” in my local area and was fuckin multiple different women a week for a couple years.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:36 AM
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Yes? Are you implying that men don’t like big girls cause…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:07 PM
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Naw tons of men like big girls. Myself included. I love that thickness and big girls are much better for cuddles 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:06 PM
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Is it really that much more enjoyable to use your finger directly than to hold a small toy on the clit? I guess I hadn’t realized men were getting pleasure in their fingers from rubbing a clit…. For me personally, yes. I love the feel of pussy. Playing with it. The warmth. The wettness. It’s all soft and squishy. Also excellent mouth feel. But mostly, it’s the pleasure of knowing I’m bringing her pleasure. That she’s writhing because I’m touching her in a way that she likes. And when she cums, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:49 AM
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Data says you cut out the triple digiters. My numbers legit but I realize I’m an outlier. Just wanted to know the other 4 peoples numbers lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:39 AM
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No, Im sure he’s at least slightly worried but has pushed said thoughts deep down because, they’d only be construed as insecurities, and weaponized against him. He’d gain literally nothing voicing his concerns. That said, if he found out later in the relationship that his girl was a slut, those insecurities will undoubtably surface.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:55 AM
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Just replace jacked with lean.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:48 AM
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Curious of the other 4 triple digit n-counters. Anyone over 200? Im sittin around 160.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:46 AM
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They usually do. Look at marriage stats. The majority of marriages the man is the breadwinner and makes 3x what his wife makes ($30k vs $90k). You think she aint benefitting off all the surplus cash? Just wash the damn dishes 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:29 AM
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Cause you make less money and benefit from the extra money men make 🤷🏾‍♂️ Personally I just pay my GF to clean. It’s literally nothing and is insane that it’s a point of contention in relationships. Vet your fuckin men for cleanliness before you move in together! It’s not that hard you goofy ass females 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:23 AM
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Women push the narrative that it’s hard to get them off. Really it’s just that casual sex dudes have options and don’t like eating random pussy. Women orgasm much more in LTRs with dudes who give a fuck, and eat the pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 12:35 AM
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Lol seriously. Violence (or the capacity for it) clearly attracts a decent chunk of women. If incels had the spine to be that aggressive and assertive, they’d undoubtably be getting laid 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:27 AM
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Shit whose pet asks for permission to use the bathroom? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 11:27 AM
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Boys and girls reach physical maturity around 16.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 07:05 AM
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The pressure is self inflicted. Men do not tell women to do all that, but they do appreciate attractive women. Women conflate that with “pressure” but really it’s just competition anxiety; If she’s not wearing makeup and someone else is then she misses out on those benefits. So now it’s basically a requirement for them because they’ve attached their egos to how people treat their inflated selves. Going back is too heavy of a blow to the psyche. But of course they can’t admit that so it’s the “Pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 12:05 AM
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Yeah yeah it just so happens that attractive women always end up with wealthy men. Look it’s all good. Im not throwin stones. The female dating strategy is akin to prostitution. Beautiful women are obviously going to leverage their looks to secure that bag.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:36 AM
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That’s because as women get more attractive, they pursue wealth more and more. Attractive women are always with wealthy guys, regardless of his looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 10:01 PM
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I don’t think women aren’t attracted to the average man, he’s just not enough to sate their ego. He’s coo. He’s nice. But they feel they can do better so why not shoot their shot 🤷🏾‍♂️ The fact that most men get married (if they want) and laid is proof enough that the average man is good enough… he just has to wait till she’s in her 30s to accept it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 06:24 AM
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Lol it was clearly sarcasm 😂 Whether you think I get pussy or not has no barring on if I get pussy or not. It’s not like I could prove it. You’d never believe my n-count so 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 11:08 PM
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Calm your apex fallacy down. Highly successful men and hot women are outliers. Further, known sluts are outliers. Hot women may drip sex appeal, but they literally have the least amount of casual sex, and thus are even less likely to be a slut, let alone a known slut. Hot women are way more likely to be “prostitutes”. Being an insta thot doesn’t make you a slut. Nor does having and onlyfans or being hot. Sex makes you a slut. Lots of sex with lots of people is what makes you a slut. So no. I cal…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 10:34 PM
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This is where women need to “touch grass”. In real life men do not chase the hottest women. They don’t. They can’t. The cost socially is too high and their balls are not big enough to eat an L like that. Most dudes will auto reject themselves and keep it pushing. Online is a different beast. There is no social backlash for shooting your shot so of course dudes are gonna lob hail mary’s at the baddies. And lets not pretend average girls aren’t still drowning in dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:59 PM
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Men like ran through women to fuck. Niggas aint out here LTRing a known slut. What you’re seeing is simply that most women are ran through already, especially the ones making themselves available to the average guy. And good on you for thinking church girls aren’t in the “ran through” category too 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:50 PM
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Men find women attractive. That's it. FTFY 👍🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 10:23 AM
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Dam your clam, thank you ma’am.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:52 AM
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If you are not high value - paternity fraud is fully justified. This logic would only end badly for women. Literally just shit tons of single angry mom’s lol. Ya’ll need the cucks on your side for this plan to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:50 AM
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You think it’s a fantasy that giving an average dude more money would make his dating life easier? 😂 Come on. Be serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:52 AM
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Nonsense. Good luck finding an LTR if broke or in a lower tax bracket. Money is absolutely crucial if looking for commitment with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:50 AM
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Looks make sex easier Money makes dating easier. If you want casual sex as a man, hit the gym. If you want LTRs as a man, get money. If every average dude was given a bonus of say, $50k/yr, their dating prospects would grow significantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:13 PM
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Women are even more insecure then men, yet we manage to put up with your nonsense 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:46 AM
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Bro. I’ve soaked countless Ls. Im speaking from experience, too. Scooping attractive women with low self esteem is certainly doable but is nothing to model success over. Yes, hot girls get the least amount of approaches in real life. Most dudes simply auto reject themselves. A lot of attractive women are very down to earth and open to less than Chad level men. That said, for your average guy it’ll be a grueling trial. Most dudes just don’t have the stomach to consistently eat Ls. Especially if t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:40 AM
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Sure but what usually happens when an 8 feels like a 4 is she won’t hook up with you because she feels unattractive. A huge part of women’s sexuality is how you make her feel and if she feels gross then she’s gonna feel like you’re gross for thinking she’s hot when she’s clearly gross (in her mind). Just like how a lot of women will avoid Chads because they’re too attractive, they’ll avoid average guy if she feels below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:21 AM
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Nonsense. It’s viable for average and up men. Game matters. Social skills. Awareness. These things can be developed, honed, and weld like a blade. But of course, getting into the +6.5/10 SMV will range will help you immensely if you’re average. Hit the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:17 PM
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Why limit yourself? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:11 PM
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A much better mentality. Every women is a potential option until proven otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:29 PM
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Not everyone wants to be bothered by strangers This is your problem off top. If you’re to scared to “bother” people then yeah cold approachings gonna suck. It’s not your job to police other people’s feelings. Lifes to short. Shoot your shots while you can. The people who don’t wanna talk will let you know. At that point just bow out gracefully and keep it pushin.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:43 AM
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The difference between friends and more is intent. If you don’t wanna end up as friends just flirt with her. If you’re confident just approach in a flirty way from the jump. If you wanna “warm up” the cold approach first then flirt only after you’ve established a level of rapport
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:56 AM
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Yes. Doing the basics is enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:28 AM
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Lol if your approach feels like you’re trying to sell her something you’re doing it wrong. Just practice striking up bengin convos with strangers. Man or women. Chat up people and you’ll start to see the “flow” in conversations and better navigate interactions. I find most people are quite receptive to small talk. From there it’s just learning to distinguish between people who connect with you and those who don’t 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:15 AM
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Where are you getting your stats? Men are still very much the majority of breadwinners, but even more importantly is that the majority of men are not unemployed, drug addicts or alcoholics. If these are the types of men you fuck with then you’re either poor or stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:33 PM
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Sure but be real the majority of married men aren’t unemployed drug addict/alcoholics being supported by their wives. In fact if you picked any random married couple, it’s far more likely that she is the unemployed alcoholic than he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:08 PM
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I refuse to believe they aren’t aware of this. Women attacking people’s character/starting rumors/backhanded compliment type of passive aggression is basic women 101 shit. Anyone whose seriously interacted with women knows this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 07:37 PM
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Which men? Certainly not the ones young women are pursuing (college educated men).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 06:51 PM
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No, but still a good chance he’s making much more than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 06:47 PM
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No Im not, it’s just what the stats say. The majority of marriages have a male breadwinner/sole provider, and in those marriages the wives median income is 1/3 her husbands. These are your own stats. Why get upset? We all know what it is only women seem to deny the obvious. Ya’ll do not like providing. Period. The small chunk of female breadwinning marriages are on life support. If as a man you are not making close to the same amount as your wife, then you better be making more 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 06:36 PM
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No I don’t need my girl to my 6 figures. Just don’t be drowning in debt lol. The average income for women in my age bracket is $50k. More than enough for me 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 07:14 AM
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The average person is making sub $50k. A dude makin +6 figures is definitely gonna have an easier time dating amongst the average women. If we’re talking attractive women then no. Attractive women (especially those makin +6 figures themselves) are going for peak men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:42 AM
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Lol hey those aren’t “my” words. I work with a lot of asians and have heard some of the younger guys say that. If it’s true or not idk but seemed funny here since yeah normally you’d expect at least a white dude to be first 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:12 AM
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K-Pop really skyrocketed asian men’s attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:00 AM
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Definitely annoying. I’ll pour liquids into a cup measurer first, then measure that amount in grams.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:45 AM
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85% of men aren’t physically attractive to women. Average men are not ugly they’re just not physically attractive enough. You can be sexually attractive without being physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:53 PM
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Idk if they’re sexually attractive to wealth, but certainly the power that wealth brings.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:52 PM
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If you’re a 4-6/10 as a man you can absolutely find success sexually, but it’ll require quality game/personality. It would 100% be easier to just hit the gym and become a +6.5/10 in looks, but you can definitely game your way into panties as an average guy. Women don’t think average guys are ugly, they just aren’t physically arousing. They must compensate with game/personality. If they can’t then they can also compensate with money but money is not sexually arousing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:50 PM
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Just cause everyone loses, doesn’t mean someone can’t lose more. The majority of relationships the man is the breadwinner. It’s very likely he entered the marriage with more “stuff” and those splitting everything in half was more costly to him 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:42 PM
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But 55% of marriages the man is the breadwinner/sole provider, and on average makes 3x his wife’s income. So spun another way, 84% of marriages the man makes equal or more than his wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:37 PM
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If you think an average guy can’t be sexually attractive to women you’re a fool. If we’re talking objectively ugly men than yeah don’t ever expect to be sexually arousing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:12 PM
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Naw bro she’ll marry the beta and fuck the Chad on the side if she’s so inclined. Marrying the broke hot guy is not the move. The “trophy” in a marriage is not ever having to spend her own money if she doesn’t want to. Chad might fuck around with average and settle with attractive, but he doesn’t if he’s broke. Attractive women are shooting for physically and financially attractive men. Looks alone are not enough for Stacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:50 PM
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Most likely because men tend to have more to lose in a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:00 PM
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Maybe. That’ll depend on his game/personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:53 PM
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Meeks is an outlier. There are tons of handsome dudes who aren’t models. Some even struggle with women. They don’t like providing period. You think all those “bossbabes” can’t find a hot Chad? No, they just can’t find a hot Chad “on there level” whose willing to commit to her. Oh, I never said average rich guy would be sexually desired by his women. That’ll depend more on his game/personality. It’s very likely that broke Chad was fucking her, but my point was that she wouldn’t LTR him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:52 PM
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100%. Women do not like providing. Marriage statistics should make this abundantly clear. AF/BB. Common this is basic stuff. Average dude with paper stacks will absolutely shit on broke Chad for relationships. Broke Chad will get easy lays but he aint gonna be LTRing attractive women while being broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:31 PM
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Money means a lot when attracting women for serious relationships though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:24 PM
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Yeah most dudes slip into depression/suicidal. Bat shit crazy sounds more like a women move.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:03 PM
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Which is apparently attractive since those are the men every women ends up with 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:50 PM
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Lol everywhere on reddit. A man claiming he’s good at getting women off is met with fire. Women truly believe their pussies are rubix cubes out here. Once you know how to get one off the rest are all similar combinations of the same thing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:04 PM
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Why isn’t “girl’s night” just hanging out with your friends in a casual setting or getting dinner? Why is it half naked drunk at a bar with your other (likely single) friends? I rarely go to the bars with my bois. Ill come through for the barbeque or a sports game at the crib where it’s just us and the GFs. Hitting the club/bar is kind of weird without you SO.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 09:21 PM
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Seriously no cap. I’ve mastered the art of making women cum. I know it sounds arrogant but it’s truth. I joke with my girl all the time that she’s only with me cause of how well I eat the pussy. I would literally warn casual partners that I’d probably be the best they’d ever had 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 09:15 PM
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Man right?! Apparently orgasms are a lot of “work” physically. As in, they take a lot out of her. If I make her cum more than 4-5 times she’s out for the week lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 09:08 PM
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Lol I just thought of it as making her dreams cum true 😏 Hahaha no seriously it was definitely weird at first but I worked nights so it was convenient getting home at 3am. She really seemed to enjoy it too so 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 04:19 AM
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I agree. Or at least just never turn down my initiations lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 12:50 AM
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My ex was like this. It was lovely. She never initiated though. Told me she liked just being “taken”. I definitely put that to the test. Fucking her anywhere I could get away with lol. Kind of weird but she liked being “fucked awake”. Even sleeping her pussy was always wet and ready 🤷🏾‍♂️ My current GF is mean though. She never lets me just eat her pussy randomly or fuck her when the mood strikes me. She initiates occasionally but she’s way more stingy with the pussy. Always complains that I mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:46 PM
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People who think women don’t use social media to date are naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:37 PM
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Men are vastly stronger than women it’s not even close. Child birth is rough no cap but we’ve basically eliminated that struggle. Women claiming pregnancy is rough today is like black people claiming slavery was rough. We do not live in a time where child birth is a death sentence nor do I live the life of a field nigga. Just cause you was tilling the fields or carrying water doesn’t mean you work working at the same capacity or productivity level. No, they educated women because being completel…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:51 AM
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Weaker does not mean mentally. We’re talking physically weaker. Men like to feel like protectors. Being bigger, but weaker than you women would be emasculating for the majority of men. Emotionally strong, and capable women are attractive. No one wants to date a child, though men are certainly more accepting of cognitive impairments in women 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:11 AM
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Because men appreciate smaller, weaker, feminine women… which is now misogyny. So it must be traditional 😏😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 11:37 PM
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Calling things revenge fantasies doesn’t make them go away. Do you truly believe your male friends are more candid with you than their male friends? Get your head out of the sand. Women like Chad cause he’s hot. He doesn’t have to give a fuck. Misogynistic Chad is still clappin cheeks all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:20 PM
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I know Chad’s too. Hell, I’m a Chad lite. Men in general like women, but we don’t give a fuck about randoms any more than the next. I know Chad’s who “know the truth” about women (because he’s fucking them, they’re cheating on their SOs with him, he sees the levels of depravity women will stoop too to fuck with him). He definitely holds a level of contempt for women, but it’s not like he hates them. It’s the same with incels. They don’t hate women, they hate women’s behavior. Just different side…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:15 PM
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Are they? Seems pretty normal to me. Women have this way of poking at your insecurities. Some say it’s to see if you’re confident or not, other times she’s just being a bitch, either way, seems to be a basic tool of women’s comportment. Obviously my experience is anecdotal, but I’ve literally asked tons of women (in real life) why they do this shit and usually it’s “just to see if I could get him to react/do X”. My conclusion is women are professional neggers and they do that shit for sport.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:42 PM
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Lol cope. Chad does not give a fuck 😂 And you think those women give a fuck about Chad? If everything about him remained the same except now he was Billy, he’d be an incel/beta bux.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:37 PM
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It’s funny how women try to shit on negging but, when you interact/flirt with women they will absolutely “neg” the shit out of you. Now, I say “neg” because “trying to make someone insecure enough to hook up with you” is questionable, but talking shit/teasing is part of banter/flirting. For instance, I’m bald. It’s an easy, rich target for “negging” and is often the go too for women. Getting your feelings hurt is a sure way to dry up the pussy but knowing how to take it and dish it back out buil…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:20 PM
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Black privilege! 🥳
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:08 AM
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Anger is not the point. Acceptance is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 11:37 PM
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But we are not in the collapse of civilization are we? In implies currently collapsing. Which it could very well be. The average civilization lasts 340yrs. I did not say America was 340 yrs old (hence 1776). Average means so last less and some last more.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 09:53 PM
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Humans are animals how is this not making sense? God making us in his image (human) does not change humans being animals. We’re just higher order. We all still breathe, eat, and fuck, just like animals. Straight up we’re simply domesticated. Like the difference between a wild animal and a pet. I’m telling you this balance we’re maintaining between each other is delicate. Take COVID for example. People were hoarding toilet paper! Just imagine if it was food or water.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 08:41 PM
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We’re 100% still in the wild. Just cause there’s buildings now instead of trees doesn’t mean shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 07:28 PM
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How do you know we’re not? The average civilization lasts about ~340 years. America was founded in 1776. That just makes us smart animals. Whose justifying terrible actions? What are terrible actions? There is no universal laws dictating what is or isn’t. Everything you believe and know is because of where you were born and raised. If you lived in a place where murder and cannibalism were cultural norms, guess what you’d be eating… Accountability just helps to smooth out the bumps in society. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 07:20 PM
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We’re animals with the capacity to reason. Simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 07:09 PM
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I mean...but putting it that way is sorta weird, as if women are holding some kind of leash but meanwhile they're voluntarily having sex all the time. They’re holding the sexual power, as do all female species. They decide which males get to fuck. The rest either resort to rape or die alone. And they're not a monolith, it's not all women simultaneously deciding with a hivemind, it would simply not be possible to coordinate a universal strike on sex. Oh I agree. I just meant it would be vastly ea…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 04:59 AM
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Im not saying men are slaves but why down play the effects of hormones? There’s all kinds of regulatory aspects controlled by hormones that you have no say over. Hell, even free will/choice is debatable. If the average man could just switch off his sexuality I assure you he would.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 04:53 AM
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Yes but that doesn’t mean we aren’t still animalistic at our base. To deny that is foolish. We can easily see people revert to baser instincts. Just look at how mobs work. People easily get caught up in the emotions and start flipping cars and looting.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 04:41 AM
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I didn’t mean any sex, just casual, but even still is not all sex essentially controlled by women (in hetero relationships). How is a straight man to get pussy without paying or committing a crime? He needs a consenting women and, if all women simply locked sex behind LTRs, what could you do? 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 04:38 AM
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The point is most men are not participating, because women control the sexual market. Does it really sound easier to get all men to stop pursing women, than getting all women to reject all casual sex? They already reject the vast majority of offers, why not that small % that they open their legs for too? (Btw I enjoy casual sex myself just asking hypothetically)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 02:25 AM
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It always makes me laugh how desperately some people feel they need to distance themselves from animals. Like yeah good job you can consider the consequences of your actions, but see how quickly you revert back to those animalistic instincts if the Government collapsed or the power went out for to long. See how “civilized” you are when there’s not enough food and you have to compete for water with your neighbors.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 02:20 AM
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You know this is nonsense. Otherwise women wouldn’t fuck tall handsome Chads, they’d go for big heavy guys or martial artists. Someone trained in subduing others. This is not what happens. Lanky artistic Chad is drowning in pussy and probably couldn’t even defend himself from the women he’s fucking. Get this misandry outta here. (Though I agree men are horny beasts 😂)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 02:17 AM
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I said this in another post. Women deny their universal desire for big dick, but all have a preference for taller guys who conveniently (stereotypically) have bigger dicks. Makes you wonder if she knew a shorter guy had a big dick if she’d choose him 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 08:19 PM
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That means nothing. It’s the same for every women. They can only get pregnant in the days leading up to ovulation and a little after. The rest of the month, it aint happening. And even when fertile there odds of getting pregnant are low. So you’re telling me, these women just happened to accidentally get fucked raw within those ~6 days she’s fertile? Come on. Be logical here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 04:34 AM
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Because Im not naive enough to believe that she forgot to take her pill in the 1 week a month that she’s fertile enough to get pregnant. Seriously, look at a fertility graph. Peak fertility lasts like 2 days. You can’t even get pregnant if you aren’t ovulating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 04:28 AM
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Getting pregnant “accidentally” is not easy. Women’s fertility window is fairly narrow. I would not be surprised if a lot of “accidental pregnancies” weren’t calculated.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 04:14 AM
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Depends on what you consider results. Cold approaching is basically connecting with strangers. Getting good at it is quite valuable in general. You gotta treat it like any other “skill” though. Most are gonna be trash at first but with time and many Ls you get good.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 10:56 PM
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Definitely need the stomach for eating Ls. A bitter spirit won’t make it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:41 PM
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Only if it works for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:39 PM
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Hard to shake the mindset when it’s your reality 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:23 AM
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Yes, but… “Reciprocal partner violence does not appear to be only comprised of self-defensive acts of violence. Several studies have found that men and women initiate violence against an intimate partner at approximately the same rate.” https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1854883/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:57 AM
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It depends. Generally women will postision themselves on the “right” side. I believe it’s an instinctual thing, rooted in the base fear of abandonment/ostracization. Being on the “outside” was a death sentence especially for women so they’ve evolved a “virtue signaling” mechanism. Obviously that’s nonsense (the evolved virtue signaling) but it sounds good 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 09:48 PM
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Litterallly the opposite if anything. Even the men who would pay for the First date would dump someone that doesn't cover their part of the common expenditures. Not to mention it's simply financially impossible for most people to live on 1 income. Ask yourself what type of man has the options to just dump his GF because “she won’t pay more”. Tons of men just accept pussy as payment (and women wield pussy as such) And most people are "frugal", atleast on the basic level. Most people live paycheck…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 09:40 PM
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Yup. They offer more of what women want (money) but it means nothing since women aren’t too keen on providing or sharing their wealth. The offer less of what men want (feminine disposition), but demand more from men, all why shouting equality. Very confusing times lol. Especially since they fold under a truly masculine man. The gaslighting has hurt us all
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 09:15 PM
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maybe for a date but as the LTR progresses things easily slide into a more traditional role financially. Most men are pretty “frugal” (they don’t need much to be happy), and have no problem sliding money to their girl. It’s no surprise, seeing as women control ~85% of consumer purchasing. I promise women are not dating men who make “equal or more” than them so they can split everything 50/50 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 08:50 PM
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Women are also the main victims of rape, sexual assault, and domestic violence. Highly debatable and statistics are slowly showing this to be wrong. Men and women are raped at similar levels. Sexual assault is a weird one. Im sure every single women could claim she’s been sexually assaulted in some way. I know tons of dudes who’ve been sexually assaulted but don’t see it as some traumatic event. As far as DV, women reign supreme. They’re the majority of perpetrators. Most DV is reciprocal (1:1),…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 07:33 PM
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Very true also. If you’re big you need a proportionally large dick but as you said height doesn’t correlate well with dick size. Still, by the time she realizes Mr 6’4 is only packin 6”, it’ll be in her mouth 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 07:23 PM
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Because what man is going to admit they have a small dick? Men lie up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:11 AM
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Lol suddenly a bunch of women are into “CNC”. I’d never even heard of it 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:51 AM
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Again irrelevant. Just cause a women proclaims she wants big dick does not mean she’ll believe you have one. Remember you can’t overtly tell her. She’d doubt you and it’d be a turn off. You just have to be attractive enough for her to fuck with you. My point being that, more women would’ve fucked with me had they known I had the shlong. BTW regardless of what individual women say, you all have a preference for big(ger) dicks. Why would it make sense that in every other aspect, women want bigger/…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:48 AM
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Irrelevant, if they never believe. Women who want big dick just go for tall guys, and most women go for tall guys so 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 11:13 PM
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Obesity!!! America has crazy portion sizes and everything is soaked in high fructose corn syrup. And while women can get away with being obese, fat on men always looks like shit. It collects mainly in the midsection and chest. Beer belly and moobs are not sexy. If you aren’t lean as a man, get there before you say anything. Not skinny. Lean. The ROI is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 11:03 PM
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Oh no of course not. Those are just my “insecurities” as a big dick guy whose “only” 5’11. I sometimes wonder how different things would be if women knew what I was packin. I guess it’s lucky I wasn’t much taller cause I would’ve ruined a lot more women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 10:09 PM
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An interesting conundrum, since I feel dick size is like height for a lot of women, which is also part of the allure of taller men (bigger dicks). Where the correlation between height and dick size is small, I’m confident if women knew both height and dick size that a lot more shorter guys would pass. Being the literal “big dick” in a room would be “high status”. But since you can’t say anything about dick size, no one knows, so height defaults as “big dick”.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 09:57 PM
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This is key. Women not only have safe spaces, but they also convert male groups into their spaces. A group of dudes will “defer” to the women in the group out of courtesy. Stop being crass. Be more attentive to social faux pas. Basically, trying not to look or sound like a clown. It’s one thing to be at the bottom of a male social hierarchy. It’s another women there’s women in the mix.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 05:56 AM
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Lol no all of them. Tons of people look older for their age. It’s compounded when she’s struttin around in full makeup, everything tight fitting and she’s full breasted and hipped out. You’re delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 08:42 PM
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Wheres that study of the study that literally shows that yes, men lie up and women lie down. Someone has to have it!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 08:11 PM
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Sure but not to the same degree on average. Most men lack the social clout needed to effectively slander others, whereas just being a women is generally credible enough especially thanks too the WAW effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:16 PM
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If “social violence” was considered a real thing, women would be putting up some serious numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:48 PM
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It’s just a general term for arousal. Dudes experience the same thing. I can feel my balls tingle/prickle when I get a twinge of sexual arousal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:26 PM
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To twist it into a tranny joke says otherwise 😏😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:16 PM
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No homo? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:15 PM
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That’s a compliment bro 😂👍🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:02 PM
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CMV: A fat ass is equivalent to a big dick
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 07:52 PM
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That’s not because of porn though. Men are literally being deincentivized to pursue women. It’s become a lot more effort for a lot less women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:48 AM
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Yeah until you find a man who can make you cum, then you can have multiple orgasms a session while he spends the whole time holding back his 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:33 AM
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So then why aren’t men less thirsty? The vast majority of men utilize porn so they should be more sexually blunted right? Yet dudes out here make you think they got polydipsia.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:19 AM
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No. The average guy is just as helpless against a gun or blade, and this kind of thinking may be exactly why dudes are killed way more often lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:40 AM
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Yes but they recover size and function once you stop and if you’re doing it right they’ll recover very quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 05:46 AM
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The main reason I here for women not communicating is basically fear of hurting dudes ego. So they just let whatever happens happens. Maybe speak up if shits going in a weird or painful direction but ultimately they’ll just take it and if it’s bad you just won’t get a call back 🤷🏾‍♂️ Some women even honestly don’t know or can’t verbalize what they like. I mean obviously you should play with the clit but I feel for women it’s mostly about being desired and him having his way with her. But again I…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:33 AM
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Ah yes, because you are all women 🙄 Get at least 20 women under your belt first. You’re woefully misinformed in the sexual mechanics of fucking women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:20 AM
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Lol ya’ll can’t take critism without feeling like someone is blaming everything on you. Very telling. Men also work harder and have no safety nets for failure (women can literally pack up their shit and set up in another man’s life if they wanted). Bro the average women is complacent in bed already. Go fuck more women. Just like dating they feel their role is just showing up. Luckily for all of you vaginas feel amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:25 AM
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Lol I didn’t solely blame women sex is a team sport. How much experience do you have fucking women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:12 AM
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https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2023/04/13/in-a-growing-share-of-u-s-marriages-husbands-and-wives-earn-about-the-same/ “In marriages where the husband is the primary provider, wives earn a median of $30,000 annually. This translates into 31% of husbands’ median earnings of $96,000 in these marriages.”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:05 AM
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Which is insane but here we are lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:49 AM
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Lol idk about the implants (usually easy to tell when a womens tits look solid lol) but nutting in they eyes causes orgasms? Lol no man thinks this 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:36 AM
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What about all the “lack of economically attractive” men? What about alll the baby mamas bitching about how they don’t want their ex no more cause he aint shit (all while raising his kid)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:27 AM
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I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table. -Material needs (house,$): Yet women still love for men who make more. You still want providers you just refuse to accept your own nature. Emotional needs (companionship, support): You’ll never find a better companion than a man who loves you. -Physical needs: Lol no. Masturbating is an okay substitute, but is just convenient. Sex is much better in every way. Any women whose had good dick would not mastu…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:23 AM
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Do you think porn and social media has not effected women’s standards even slightly? If you can get what you want then yeah your standards are probably fine but there are tons of women who basically price themselves out of the market and then blame men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:03 AM
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Interesting. I bet beet powder would pair well with creatine then. But man I know and it’s been making me spin my wheels. When I got a pump I look decently solid but when without it I feel bloated especially if I’ve eaten. Can’t decide if I should just gain first or lose first. Been slowly losing though cause holidays are coming and I just know I’m finna be eating well for like 2 months straight lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:00 AM
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Beet powder? Ill have to look into that. For me personally I’m still in that kind of skinny fat zone. I look average in clothes but without a shirt it’s clear I lift thought not lean. Probably 18% bf. Trying to get down to 10% before I bulk back up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:56 PM
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Shit… you got me lol. Obviously the people who do this aren’t the target of the post 🤦🏾‍♂️😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:52 PM
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Lol I mean I don’t doubt you. Im at ~1-2hrs a day (lifting then cardio). Results are coo but honestly… why not steroids? Bitches can’t tell and so much faster. Im leaning towards it but I still got that “natty is best 🤪” mentality. I’ve scheduled a couple appointments at a Men’s Testosterone Clinic but cancel at the last minite every time lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:50 PM
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Cardio is truly key. Lifting is very important too but I sweat every dude who only lifts and then discovers cardio realizes they should’ve been doing more
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:48 PM
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Mid still better than nothing. You can do a lot with mid and +$70k 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:46 PM
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Especially if you can’t grow one. Just shave it. That includes the head too I don’t understand men (especially white men) who rock the “cul-de-sac” look. Just shave that shit clean lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:45 PM
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Whose they? Plenty of men do all of this and more. This is basic guy stuff lol (except the gym).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:43 PM
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She’s stable now. When we got together she was definitely struggling and drowning in debt. She was living with family, but she had a full time job. Still, it was her disposition and looks that attracted me. So I made it work. Now years later, I could die and know she’d be good. But yes I am very egotistical. Selfish. Asshole. Arrogant. I can’t help it. Im an amazing person and I love myself. I’m just an optimist brimming with self confidence 🤷🏾‍♂️ But I don’t care if Im more educated. I don’t (t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:05 PM
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My area has a high cost of living. Don’t wanna dox myself lol. I make low 6 figures. My girl makes less than half of me (and I helped her get a promotion). Financially, all I care is that she can pay her own bills. Afford your own rent, insurance, phone etc etc. If she can do that then I have no problems paying for everything else. Im pretty minimalist, and just blow money cause I don’t need it. Dump everything into BTC and chill or just give it to her to buy shit. It’s nothing. Her education is…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:44 PM
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Looking for the wrong kind. You need a man whose benevolently selfish. I do what I want but what I want is to make my girl happy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:50 PM
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Which is fair. I personally am controlling and selfish. I do very well in LTRs lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:32 PM
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