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Disagree; all my other windows are titties…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 04:25 AM
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Do you mean that you’d never be friends with someone that you’d want to date?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 04:20 AM
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So, I’m definitely not advising that your pork the fuck out and focus on dating a fetishist, but losing the weight and getting in maxim-cover-shoot shape is also a fucking nightmare. I don’t know, pick the least misogynist fandom that you can think of, dive in and find the least offensive nerd among them? a lifetime of worrying about my own romantic problems left me ill equipped to advise other people facing other problems, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:45 PM
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It’s gorlock the destroyer.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:58 AM
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ironically, it might be easier for her to find suitable chubby chasers than for an absolutely mid woman to find someone suitable; a 5 is a 5 is a 5, but to a chubby chaser gorlock up there is a 10. therefor I don’t buy that just because she fucks it means that any woman anywhere at anytime can find a man to treat her right.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:57 AM
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This is the internet, madam, we didn’t make the rules but by god, we must abide by them so yeah, third party accounts of internet content are the current gold standard of believability here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:48 AM
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So everyone with an even number of chromosomes noticed how op was a woman. but clearly that is the fault of poorly raised, irresponsible men, isn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:42 PM
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K, but next time there’s a thread bagging on passport bros, you’d better be in there defending each and every last one of them bc you know what the struggles about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:30 PM
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How concerned are you that your current gf holds up the standard of your previous gf? is that something that keeps you up at night?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:51 PM
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No, critiquing the premise that romance is merely platonic friendship with sex can wait until you’ve spent some time going over these responses. https://www.reddit.com/r/stupidquestions/comments/181fbum/whats_the_logic_behind_people_that_are/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:59 AM
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You know what; this was me being nice. If I was just belittling your post, the text would have been a lot more nakedly hostile and derogatory. I am asking you about a series of examples of sexless romance, and you are avoiding the question because my tone wasn’t deferential enough? This could have been an example of the socratic method, where your answers to my questions address the flaws in your argument. Accusing me of scoffing at your post in this context is akin to overturning the game board…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 08:48 PM
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Ok, but what about romantic aces? if you agree that a sexuality is a legitimate orientation that people actually exhibit, and I do believe it is, then are their romantic relationships merely platonic if they don’t put out? what about formerly sexual marriages where one or both partners libido goes permanently bye-bye; are their romantic affections intrinsically platonic once the stop fucking? what about young virgins? Are they not dating romantically until they bang? im worried about the romance…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:26 PM
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I’ve never praised anyone for the sheer amount of sexual partners that theyve had, because that would be weird, but I have praised people for the caliber of sexual partner that they’ve managed to seduce, because they were impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 12:00 AM
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Do you mean that it’s a quality over quantity dynamic?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 11:57 PM
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3d printing will gut the manufacturing industry, ai will destroy most desk jobs and also long haul trucking, so without any employment, many women will turn to sex work, but it will have to mostly be full service work since images, video, voice and text can all be ai generated. poor men will use virtual girls sometimes, but rich men will shell out for actual sex workers. full time escorts might use ai-avatars of themselves to generate nudes and chats for clients so they can just read an update b…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 03:42 PM
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Older people know stuff, but there’s no garaunteeing that what they know is going to be the least bit useful to you. Like my nan remembers plot lines from soap operas 40 years ago; she knows a lot of stuff, but not all of its useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:55 AM
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I beg your pardon, are you advising men to just start lying to these women instead? Bc we also get criticized to lying to women and telling them that they’re more appealing than they are in order to sleep with them. so which is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:04 PM
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I hear you, but like 15 years ago I had revised my estate plan and signed a note with a round in the chamber, and then a girl shot me a “u up?” text, so I’m a bit sympathetic to the argument that some mild success at dating can really improve a guys overall mindset. but yeah bringing a lifelong of neurosis and dumping on someone’s lap will kill a honeymoon phase but quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:19 PM
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We can tell; the point is that attractive people can and do wind up in relationships where they put in the work and still wind up feeling cheated, and therefor nothing that you’ve stated here actually has much basis in actual people actually dating one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 01:47 PM
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I don’t know about that; I’ve treated stunningly beautiful women poorly before, and I’m short and ethnic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 01:29 PM
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Having been promiscuous is a big part of why I think that anyone who was or still is more promiscuous than I was as “slutty”.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:46 AM
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Yeah, who wants to lock down the guy who would dis-consider you as a partner bc you both banged on the first date? i guess never hearing from someone you were hopeful about sucks, but that used to happen to me all the time whether I put out or not, so I guess maybe I’m of super sympathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:32 AM
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First of all; the archeological record indicates that our ancestors were basically always fermenting grains and then consuming them. second of all I’m not paying more than $3 for a non alcoholic beverage, fuck off. im the one who quit drinking, and figuring out what to do with my weekends now is my own damned responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:25 AM
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First of all; the archeological record indicates that our ancestors were basically always fermenting grains and then consuming them. second of all I’m not paying more than $3 for a non alcoholic beverage, fuck off. im the one who quit drinking, and figuring out what to do with my weekends now is my own damned responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:24 AM
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this sounds like the preamble to a Trans- exclusionary radical-feminism take.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 04:38 PM
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Th corollary is also a valid question; if the steps you have to undertake in order to care for a lady sound like an unpleasant chore for you, then you need to looksmax and gamemax and probably visit prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 04:28 PM
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I dated big girls back when I wore 30” in the waist.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:59 PM
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Eh, from my graduating class I’d say that most of the 99th percentile were nerds, a few of which did need to be socialized at a later date, but most of the 90th percentile were partiers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 12:15 AM
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Child you ain’t right in the head if you think that old timers hanging out here is what’s keeping you from getting laid. Do the young kids “touch grass” anymore? Have you ever seen a picture of grass? It’s great, you should find some and touch it. And your argument about whether the apps are “real life” or not is basically semantic: what the fuck do you mean when you talk about what’s “real life” or not? I understand if this distinction is beyond you, some wisdom only comes with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 03:38 PM
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Child you ain’t right in the head if you think that old timers hanging out here is what’s keeping you from getting laid. Do the young kids “touch grass” anymore? Have you ever seen a picture of grass? It’s great, you should find some and touch it. And your argument about whether the apps are “real life” or not is basically semantic: what the fuck do you mean when you talk about what’s “real life” or not? I understand if this distinction is beyond you, some wisdom only comes with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 03:37 PM
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Show me this place where no one drugs. On the map. So that I can bring them drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 03:23 PM
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Classy ladies enjoy cocaine, they’re just better dressed when they enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 03:19 PM
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I can quit anytime, as long as it’s after next Tuesday.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 03:15 PM
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Porque no los dos?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 03:07 PM
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Looks matter first, which is similar to being more important, but subtly different from actually being more important. totally splitting hairs, but it’s more of an order of operations thing than a either/or prioritization.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:38 PM
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Sorry, got distracted by sportsball, but I think the crucial difference is the unfair burden of single parenthood faced by women; even if someone, man or woman, has grown virtuously wise from single parenthood, and is no longer so shallow, they still have a gd kid to look after, and that comes with serious drawbacks on the dating scene. and if that virtuous wisdom just makes them target people who don’t mind taking on someone else’s kid, even if they aren’t particularly attractive, that is kind …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:07 AM
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Given the context, its really only the same in those cases where that bitchy model bore him a child for whom he’s actually taking responsibility. and to be candid, if that average girl felt some kind of way about the attraction in her marriage, I would feel very sympathetic towards her, and anyone who wouldn’t is sort of a bad person. eta indefinite article and a dangling participle
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:19 AM
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Only if I know that her boyfriend will hate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:09 AM
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I don’t know about all that, but in principal I would agree that for men and women, the sixes and sevens are kind of in a precarious place; they’re not bottom feeders who have to take what they can get, but they sure as hell don’t have the juice to run the table. uggos can just focus on getting whatever they can and finding a way to be happy about it, professionally gorgeous people can fuck/marry/kill whomever they like, but the merely cute and stylish need to go out there every weekend and mix …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:38 PM
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Yeah, I think for most people the scale is really from 4-10, because who’s ever been hard up enough to date a 2?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:34 PM
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I think it just as, if not more likely that men are just more willing to tough it out in an unsatisfactory relation ship, occasionally wondering if this is all there is to life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:14 PM
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Depending on the age of op, this isn’t much of a stretch at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:07 PM
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So, then you agree entirely with the OP that these women have been having the babies of desirable men only to latter lock down less desirable men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:05 PM
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Garbage take; I know lots of guys with split custody of their kids. if that’s not what you see around you, maybe your community just sucks, I don’t know what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:03 PM
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oh? Then how often is the baby-daddy shorter, balder, fatter, and/or less charming? …seems to matter at least a little bit…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:59 PM
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K, I do not really advocate for that tradcon bullshit, but I pretty much always want all of the benefits of [everything] and none of the drawbacks of [anything].
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:41 PM
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Neuroticism + cheekiness = Snark, which is broadly unappealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:04 PM
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Is the corollary also true, or are straight women somehow not responsible for their own dating hang ups and poor behaviour?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:49 PM
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Does he have a great record collection? eta I just remembered that Neil young isn’t the only one with a hit song called “cinnamon girl” so nvmd. cannot stop hearing D F G C D D every time I see your flair, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:26 PM
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Some probably do, more probably don’t on paper, and then they hit a dry spell and realize that they’d be ok with a little bit of that, but I assume most prefer when their partner is actually aroused. that being said, I’ve heard that scheduled sex is better than you’d think it would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:00 PM
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True, but it’s not hard to argue that underwhelming casual sex is the lesser evil to an underwhelming intimate relationship, and I don’t think it would necessarily be a gendered argument. furthermore I suspect that casual sex is consistently more satisfying for men. Not wildly so, but usually, and enough so that it is broadly understood to be more preferable than not. also; I gets kick out of your flair bc when I was a kid ketamine was a special treat, and now it’s all over the place but I never…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:44 PM
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But the dudes here also complain about being the less attractive dude that a hot woman settles for once she’s done fucking men that she’s actually attracted to. No one actually wants to be in those relationships where their partners doesn’t want to fuck them. And there are some sexy dudes over 30, even 40, but they were always good looking and just found a way to keep it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:21 PM
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The assumption that the relationship will eventually sour seems to be accepted as a given in this RP, af/bb acronym bullshit, whereas the assumption that the relationship will always be fulfilling and rewarding seems to underwrite the rebuttal that casual sex ain’t shit and only ltrs are actually worth pursuing. Both are valid, but neither are right.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 01:00 PM
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But isn’t there a flip side to that? Those hookups aren’t around long enough for one to take for granted or argue with, so unless one always treat their partner perfectly that cuts both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 01:50 PM
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I suppose “getting publicly called out for any transgressions they might have perpetrated“ would be the literal meaning, but what the shit would that even look like? A fucking Henry miller production?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 01:32 PM
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You don’t need an apology for her, what you need is for her to discover that you’re better off without her, without you having to disclose much.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 04:17 PM
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Yeah, I hear that; I don’t work out because I enjoy it, I do it bc I hate not being fit even more. figuring out what you hate the least and focusing on that is probably a great strategy, I wish I’d thought of that instead of doubling down on weightlifting and still not enjoying it when I was younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:45 PM
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I was interrogated by the police for long enough before consulting with legal representation that the case got thrown out of court, and it never got bad enough that I would admit something like this, even anonymously. I know that gym bros are the worst, but you need to take care of yourself physically for your own long term well being. Even if you just focus on sit ups and leg lifts so that your core is toned without getting huge, it will improve your daily, lived experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:12 PM
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Also that, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:57 PM
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I’ve dated women who’ve slept with friends of mine, and vice versa. My friends are mostly decent guys. It’s the women who’ve slept with my sworn arch nemesis’ that I don’t fuck with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:56 PM
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I know that; the secrets make it hotter. but seriously, if I can name a bunch of dudes that she’s been with, and she no longer wants to get down with me, it’s more of a problem than if she just doesn’t want to get down with me. (To whatever degree her libido is the problem.) sorry/not-sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:07 PM
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Here’s the thing; if I thought that my partner was a choir girl and our bedroom were to die, we would have a very different conversation about that than if I knew that she was actually high-volume
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 02:01 PM
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Those are RP chodes trying to have it both ways; I don’t love saying “it’s just misogyny and projection” but this particular criticism is just misogyny and projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:54 PM
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yeah, most of the straight men that I know do their level best to never provide any emotional burden on the guys that they like and respect. this is because most of us do not want to deal with each other’s anxieties and insecurities, we want to know that when we turn to someone, we can count on them to hold fast. And likewise; we try not to force our peers to deal with our own anxieties and insecurities, because we want them to trust in us to hold fast when the time comes. It works best when we …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:51 PM
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K, I can see what’s going on, and your problem is twofold: one is that you have terrible taste in men, and two is that you know it. you don’t let yourself feel attracted to men who you think you might be happy with so you jump into bed with men you can safely assume will treat you poorly bc your avoidant attachment issues force you to pre-reject people to protect your ego from actually being vulnerable with anyone, which sucks. but you’re smart enough to realize some of this dynamic, so you can’…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:13 PM
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had me in the first half, not gonna lie, but you lost me by trying to close with an unprovable assertion.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:53 PM
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And not for nothing, my relationships that began with serious courtship ended in toxic dumpster fires, but the hookups who stuck around tended to end amicably.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:51 PM
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Weird flex, but you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:48 PM
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Yeah, wouldn’t it be vastly superior if you had to jump through a bunch of hoops just to be considered by a man who would demonstrably prefer to sleep with someone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:46 PM
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So its either/or meaningless-hook-up/potential-marriage-material, with absolutely no middle ground in between, except for when none of that applies whatsoever. got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:53 PM
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No, the guys around here are acutely aware of the dynamic that you’re talking about, they just call it AF/bb, and you literally could not have been any more RP about it if you had tried. if it’s an either/or prospect, and fuck off no it isn’t, then guys en masse are going to strive to achieve the more appealing prospect. which prospect sounds more appealing to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:50 PM
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This isn’t how I eventually settled down, but back in the day I’d say that most of my hookups led to at least another date, several turned into a relationship, one of which was somewhat long term. this sounds like a “you” problem to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:45 PM
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i think skin care is a poor equivalent bc it’s gender neutral; we both have faces, we both clean and moisturize our faces, but only one of us may change the tones of our skin to match the ambient lighting or use pigments to match the colour of our eyes or downplay blemishes. likewise while you could get all geared up like an East German gymnast, but the results would be about the same as my going femme; someone will be into that, but probably not anyone you want to date. so syllogistically, I ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:27 PM
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i know that you can only use contouring to mildly affect facial asymmetry, my point was that you don’t have to. look, I don’t actually know you from Adam, but just here in these two posts, it sure sounds like you’re complaining about pretty-privilege. some women are downright un presentable without their war paint. you are apparently super attractive no matter what. i‘m sorry that this sexist trope doesn’t apply to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:45 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:50 PM
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/woooosh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:44 PM
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What do you call three girls from [your rival town] standing in a row? A wind tunnel.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 01:49 PM
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“Try not to suck any dicks on the way to the parking lot! …hey, get back here!”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 01:47 PM
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Lots of swimming power comes from the back, so in addition to being cut, strong swimmers also have a killer “V” But yeah, also the shoulders.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 01:38 PM
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Well, I’ve met that guy and I’m not threatened by him, so I’d probably ask when to expect her back for dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 01:34 PM
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Are your features naturally symmetrical? what is the natural condition of your skin? you might just be pretty enough not to need much make up in order to look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 01:29 PM
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You can paint a plain face onto an ugly face, you can paint a pretty face onto a plain face, and you can paint a perfect face onto a pretty one. plus there’s so much more that a lady can do with her wardrobe in order to accentuate her body. Menswear is getting better, but it still comes down to a properly tailored suit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 01:27 PM
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I don’t really remember it like that at all…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 01:23 PM
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You are complaining about attraction. Women are more attracted to men who are attractive, and here you’ve listed several of the ways in which they treat them as such. you do the same shit with women; beautiful sexy women get treated wildly better than plain frumpy women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:12 PM
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Curious, I’d have guessed that virgins would be the least likely to talk women into casual one night stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:54 PM
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Evertime that I’ve had a few irons in the fire and then settled down with one lady, the narrative around those other relationships has generally needed to be massaged; the truth was always a bit more selfish and fuckboi-tastic than whatever i would tell the woman that I’d lock down. My current relationship started over Covid, and we were very obviously not fucking anyone else, so there wasn’t any of this nonsense. I didn’t notice at the time, but now that we’re talking about it, it was kind of n…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:52 PM
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That’s the perfect method for dating people whom you do not particularly like or respect. fuck whatever they want in a partner as long as you get whatever you want, right? It’s not as though these people are worth caring about, is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:44 PM
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I prefer to judge a marriage based on how many law enforcement professionals it takes to bring them to justice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:48 PM
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I can imagine having a buddy who is only 18 years old. If I had a less accessible hobby, id be willing to engage with a kid who constantly needed me to explain the ‘90’s to them. couldn’t fuck them, though; they don’t understand the 90’s well enough to be sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:38 PM
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Husbands need to continue to seduce their wives. that’s just part of the deal. men generally wanted more sex faster at the outset of the relationship anyway, so this is really just a continuation of that dynamic. as long as the relationship is basically sound, the woman will have a limited need to really seduce their husbands, but if she’s got a reactive sort of sex-drive, then she’ll need to be persuaded to get in the mood. maybe that’s not ideal for everyone, but that’s what’s up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:00 AM
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Were I single at my age, the ideal dating life would quickly satisfy a couple of sexual fantasies and then promptly introduce me to princess beautiful billionaire so that we can roll around the countryside in a Winnebago solving mysteries with my dog and a partially domesticated raccoon.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:40 PM
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frequent and strong sexual desire is normal and natural in a long term relationship ship for men and for women who feel close, relaxed, and attractive, or who are in a new and exciting relationship Feeling close, relaxed, and attractive, or being in a new and exciting relationship is a comparatively high degree of requirements, and it is really disingenuous and obtuse of you to pretend otherwise. Be for real.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:34 PM
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That may be true, but it doesn’t mean that a long term romantic relationship with someone who doesn’t want to fuck you is inherently worth committing to. A relationship without a satisfying degree of mutual attraction would have to be pretty much perfect otherwise in order to be appealing. Is your relationship pretty much perfect but for the degree of mutual attraction between the two of you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:25 PM
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So are you out here having this unromantic sex with your sibling? As long as it’s not romantic, it’s not intimate, so no harm no foul, right? Are you saying that romance without sex should be enough for a marriage? Drop that shit on your spouse and see if they’re automatically ok with it. I’m not sure what your point is, but I can tell that it’s wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:15 PM
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This, you’re praising women for walking out on their marriages right now. This assumption that any woman who leaves is automatically doing the right thing, never mind the consequences to anyone else involved is some benefit of the doubt that men never get, even if you can prove that she cheated, somehow that is his fault every single time, isn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:07 PM
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Well, if you run into one asshole, that guys an asshole. if you run into a consecutive series of assholes, chances are that they’re fine and you’re the asshole…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:00 PM
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So therefor when a dude comes out here and Explicitly Tells You that it’s about more than sex, it’s about demonstrations of affection from your partner, he is Therefor Full Of Shit, because that doesn’t track with what gets typed in all caps here? you are what’s wrong with this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:56 PM
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I’m pretty sure they mean long winded stories about how cool i was at the turn of the century; young women love to hear about the time my long broken up power trio opened for the pixies sans Kim deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:53 PM
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This is something you hear when your friends are calling you out for having a rebound with a lady who’s like 9-12 years younger than you are. ”she’s only with you bc you have a car and your own place and can afford to take her to the coast for the weekend.” Was what one friend scolded me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:47 PM
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Back in my barstar days, I had several friends who would round up to 100 and a couple who hands down had a 100+ kind of history. while we knew it wasn’t exactly normative behaviour, it was familiar to us. it blows my damned mind when I see motherfuckers complain about used up old sluts who’ve had like 5 partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:49 PM
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Metoo changed how I deal with employees and HR, but I still managed to get my mansplaining ass into a long term relationship, so it wasn’t all bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 04:33 PM
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Then I’d say definitely buy it; the real risk of this stuff is that it becomes subject to someone’s shopping-sickness, and they keep buying new products since the dopamine hit from purchasing the last one wore off. that probably won’t happen to you, so you should buy it, and appreciate that it is a valuable consumable that is worth $35 that your skin deserves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 06:59 PM
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I fuck with other la Roche products, and am basically satisfied with them. Cosmetic products just cost a lot if they aren’t Kirkland brand. I don’t know what’s up with your budget, but I’d go for it if the lighting is uncooperative and you’ve been meaning to try something for it anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:44 PM
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My partner and I tell each other that we avoid one another on the Reddit. If she’s been lying to me; Love You, Babe!🖤
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:52 PM
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Can anything be done with lighting or filters to tone it down? Not that I have any idea if that would cost less than $30 or not….
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:47 PM
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I DECLARE: HARMLEEEESSS!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:45 PM
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No one mentioned women in the original comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:43 PM
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Pro styling; having a “professional” come in and make sure that your clothes fit and your outfits match will make you look much better and imply that you’ve got better taste than you actually do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:36 PM
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Yeah so in addition to no longer being 16 years old, she’s also been on meds with shitty side effects for a few years now. and she still looks out of your league.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:33 PM
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Tell that to my tailor.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:31 PM
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…because this is where I come to complain, and I thought that this is what we complain about here. Did I misread the situation? It’s not as if this would be the first time I’ve misconstrued the broader social context.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 05:06 PM
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You think this treatment is going to stop when she gets to junior high? motherfucker I am already talking to horse breeders for a birthday that’s not coming for 6 years. my daughter is better than you are, and she is being raised accordingly. stay mad, hater.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 04:59 PM
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… …. … …given the forum, I’m not sure that I understand the question…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 04:53 PM
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Tell me you didn’t watch downtown abbey without telling me that you’ve never seen an episode of downtown abbey…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 04:42 PM
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I get that this is a subtle distinction that may be splitting hairs, but just because that is what I’m complaining about doesn’t mean that that is WHY I’m complaining about it…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 04:41 PM
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Racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 04:37 PM
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K yeah, I suppose that will generally be worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 04:32 PM
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if that were true, then why did you post your oc in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 04:31 PM
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Pffft, everyone knows that Sherlock Holmes feels nothing…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 04:30 PM
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the selection bias created a confirmation bias. It was just a really biased situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 04:28 PM
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the short answer is I moved to a town with %2 unemployment, I went drinking with some criminals and I met some ex-cops.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 04:27 PM
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That’s real love, right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 04:25 PM
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Casual for me would be a linen or tweed suit with my tie fitted with merely a half Windsor knot…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 04:20 PM
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Tell me that you introduced yourself but pretended not to know who she was.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 04:03 PM
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Don’t be shitty; arguing with lil-babs is one of the things that makes this sub what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 04:02 PM
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I was going over old posts instead of sleeping a week ago, and straight up the text in your posts has changed over the years. I don’t think you enjoy this anymore, not like you used to. obviously I don’t know what’s up with you irl, but I hope you’re good.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:56 PM
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Do you actually try and parse out the schedule of their day, or do you just sit there spiralling until they hit you back?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:52 PM
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What the hell were they saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:51 PM
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You can have a doctorate level comprehension of statistics and still misread the fluctuations. see Silver, Nate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:50 PM
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https://www.delicious.com.au/recipes/group/gallery/0510-matt-moran-flour-free-cake-recipes/ea8rv5jb i know your metaphor isn’t supposed to be all encompassing, but some of us refuse to tolerate gluten.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:46 PM
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Doing surveillance work definitely reinforced the idea that anyone with money is cheating. Obviously more of a confirmation bias thing, but I’ve paid my rent with grainy photos of couples in flagrante delicto, and for a while it made me think that married people are generally available.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:37 PM
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My daughters room is not figuratively appointed like a fairytale castle with cultured stone facade, faux-gilded ornaments, and we did her potty up like a little throne. you think I give so much as a wet shit or a dry fuck how you think her dating life is going to affect anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:34 PM
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Toilet bowl cleaner?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:30 PM
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Or that there weren’t any survivors.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 09:31 PM
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maybe I’m just like my mother; she’s never satisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 10:43 PM
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Partners cheated on rap sheet voting record lists written credit rating
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 08:26 PM
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depends on the doctors, the patients, and the treatment. Treating all three of those factors as equal, then obviously more is more. If those 50 patients are just getting prescriptions rubber stamped but that one patient is getting hands on daily palliative treatment, then it’s a quantity over quality question.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 08:22 PM
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Super true, but haven’t you ever been with someone who clearly isn’t over someone else? Thats a way bigger and more legitimate reason to have insecure feels in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 08:17 PM
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I refuse to believe that I can’t state something so flagrantly inflammatory that it won’t breathe new life into this tired, pointless discussion… …I just haven’t thought of it yet…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 04:25 PM
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Ugh, how do we freshen this up?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 04:04 PM
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Your comment is stressing me the fuck out, bc I’m not convinced that the woman I love has actually just accepted the degree of fuckboi shit in my past. do you honestly think that a man cannot change?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:51 PM
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Wait, who’s the plumber in this analogy? what professional do you call on in order to come and fix your dead bedroom? if the toilet is an analog for the sexual chemistry, then doesn’t insisting that a professional fix it immediately sort of undermine your point that sex isn’t that important a part of a healthy relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:48 PM
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Can you please articulate some of your reasons? Asking for a friend…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:45 PM
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I say that shit all the time, I just said it to my nephew after whooping him at Mario cart like two weeks ago; he drives too nice, he needs to pick a heavier driver and throw his weight around.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:34 AM
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You don’t try and be decent for a reward, you try and be decent so that you can be decent.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:22 PM
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I don’t know man, even if there aren’t a lot of shitty videos on the topic, I’ve never considered “be a giant pushover and let that bitch do whatever the fuck she wants while pretending to like it” was a particularly central tenet of blue pill ism. that’s some weird projection, right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:38 PM
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RP shit works if you want to meet more women, Bp shit works if you want your relationship to last.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:00 PM
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They crazy, and you need to keep it moving.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:59 PM
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That depends; if he’s just trying to meet someone nice to settle down with, he’ll be fine. if he’s trying to fuck his city’s entire A list, he’s gonna have a bad time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:12 PM
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So my grandfather, who was a bit of a baller, left my grandmother for a Vietnamese woman he almost certainly met as an escort. Obviously there are a lot of questions that have gone unanswered, but he married a prostitute from a bad neighbourhood in a developing country. when I dropped out of college and dumped my cheating girlfriend, I taught English for a year in some mountain village in Japan. There were far more local girls than English speakers, so that’s who I dated. The language barrier is…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:54 PM
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Aw, she was the good kind of unreasonable…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 07:08 PM
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Yeah but like, is she ok? Has anyone checked up on her?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 07:07 PM
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Right, but the past is the past and it doesn’t have any bearing on how two people behave when they enter into a committed relationship, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 01:25 PM
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It very much can be, depending on the context; if you’re trying to convince someone to propose to you then it’s a compliment, if you’re letting them down easy it’s an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 01:19 PM
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Yeah, well I day drink from sun up and then cut myself off at dinner, so yeah by the time the sun sets, I’m usually in a mood…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 06:37 PM
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I am worried that by the time my daughter is 16 I will have little to no control over her actions, and would explicitly warn her about the various hazards of working up north, but if that were the best option for her to work up a nest egg, then I probably would. some crews are riskier than others, and maybe there is a discrepancy between how we evaluate risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:35 PM
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When I was working up north, I’d say the crews were about 90% male, and it was a bit dangerous to be a lady up there; not everyone got gang SA’d, but it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:49 PM
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I can imagine coming to terms with a successful OF account much quicker than I can imagine coming to terms with an unsuccessful one; like going through all that for $200 seems like a bit of a shame, but going through it for $20,000 makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:34 PM
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So after publically weeping over the matter and taking several years off of straight scenes Riley Reid was able to lock down a…professional what? Ok, that’s pretty cool, but his free running is more impressive b by far than his relationship. also Tito Ortiz made a career out of getting punched in the head, and then his marriage to a volatile drug addict somehow went up in flames. and I’m not interested in discussing marriages between wealthy older men and “retired” sex workers unless we also dis…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:29 PM
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Ok, but when you say it like that, it sounds even dirtier…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:13 PM
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The only thing I did right before I turned 20 was beating the indictment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:26 PM
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Friendships can be worthwhile or shitty no matter who you have them with. I might handle the tools and the animals, but my dyke friend also handles the tools and the animals. That wasn’t a very good example.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:22 PM
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This is profoundly bad faith argument, even from you. I very much hope that you come here to be get the rottenness out of your system, and that in person you are in fact both kind and actually reasonable to the people who actually have to deal with you. Do not ever treat a real person the way that you deal with us on the internet. Not Ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:21 PM
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Exactly how am I supposed to prove to you what happened between me and some woman you’ve presumably never met 12 years ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 03:37 PM
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Well, what if my daughter turns out fat? I’m not planning on treating her any different if she can get dates or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 03:26 PM
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If she happens to be really into you bc of your star sign/lunar house, you are in for some of the dirtiest sex/the most aggravating break up of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:37 PM
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If she happens to be really into you bc of your star sign/lunar house, you are in for some of the dirtiest sex/the most aggravating break up of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:36 PM
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Not exactly, but I certainly did not appreciate women of my age cohort trying to admonish me for dating around. Some of them were dates who wanted more exclusivity that I wanted, and some of them were peers who just did not appreciate that I wanted to date around while they were looking for a long term partner, but a couple of times I got a bit cross with someone for hating on my love life during a period when I was just enjoying being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 04:57 PM
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Holy shit, absolutely none of that was presented in the original post.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 04:47 PM
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People are universally shitty in this particular respect, it just presents differently in each case.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 02:47 PM
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People are universally shitty in this particular respect, it just presents differently in each case.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 02:47 PM
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People are universally shitty in this particular respect, it just presents differently in each case.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 02:47 PM
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The vast majority of people selfishly take whatever they can get from wherever they can get it. Women do not generally care about you, but they do care about how you make them feel. They like it when they are provided for and when they are fawned over in a particular way and some of them like being treated somewhat poorly for some reason. And for the most part they will try to offer as little as possible to get as much as possible. Until people actually fall in love and try to be good to someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 01:52 PM
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Ok, I came here for a good time, but now I’m beginning to feel attacked… yes, that is the quiet part of what I’ve been saying; complimenting a dude for having his shit together even while you decline to sleep with him seems like a compliment sandwich, but it’s actually quite hurtful. I get that to you it seems like a global, all encompassing compliment, but in that context it means that buddy is so unappealing that it undermines his supposedly awesome qualities. the more awesome his qualities, f…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 01:43 PM
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I suspect that elsewhere you’ve noticed how part of my trip is that anecdotally, men are not privy to these conversations amongst women where they describe fine men they intend to wed as “husband material” and instead we are almost universally familiar with that other thing you mentioned…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 01:29 PM
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Look, I’m sorry about all of the marriages in your life, but most of the married guys I know are doing well enough, my trip is more about how the blanket assumption that this is an unequivocal compliment regardless of the context dismiss’ behaviour that used to annoy the shit out of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 02:56 AM
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Literally just made this point to someone else, it would implicitly be an insult from a woman who treats her husband poorly, bc context matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 02:51 AM
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K, but what about op’s corollary? If you your husband calls you his wet little slut, it’s a term of endearment. If your coworker calls you that, it’s a lawsuit. context matters. It would also be an insult from a woman who treats her husband poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 02:47 AM
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First of all, when I start insulting, it will be unquestionable, and secondly, to what end? There is nothing that I could possible say to you that would make you any worse than you already are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:48 PM
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Well, to whatever degree you wanted eligible western men to understand that, y’all have failed because we think it’s more of a provider-eunuch thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:46 PM
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What the actual shit are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:42 PM
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Ok, great. That doesn’t have much to do with the fact that ”husband material” is a rather backhanded compliment when it’s not coming from your wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:41 PM
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Well then it’s good that they don’t do that to you anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:51 PM
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They are sexually unappealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:49 PM
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No, being deemed “husband material” isn‘t mutually exclusive to being otherwise attractive, but I don’t think guys ever hear women describe their partners as such, and only ever hear women describe their perpetually single friends as such. compliments that narrowly focus on one set of characteristics inherently downplay others, which is part of why sexual objectification can feels shitty. as far as men know the term ”husband material” generally gets thrown around in respect to being responsible …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:48 PM
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first of all, with the economy the way it is I am not the least bit convinced that people no longer need to get married like they used to in the past. I also don’t think that the necessities of the pst were mutually exclusive to loving, respectful marriages. I’m not entirely sure what you think you mean by that. when a husband loves a wife, he takes responsibility for the hard work that goes into making that marriage and that home work. It is devastatingly sad to see you discount that out of han…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:32 PM
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Conversely, I rarely hear women describe their partners as “husband material” , not even the women whom I am confident are madly in love with their husbands. usually when I hear the terms “husband” or “boyfriend material” it is the description of a perpetually single friend; someone inoffensive, with their shit mostly together, but whom they have less than zero romantic or sexual interest in. maybe y’all talk to each other like that, but none of y’all have ever spoken to me like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:19 PM
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Oh, do you not get cat called on the street anymore? yeah, sorry I didn’t realize what was up with you. sorry about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:01 PM
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if you asked me if my friend was attractive, and I told you that ”she has a great personality?” would you then believe that I found her attractive, or unattractive? ”husband material” is generally invoked as the backhanded corollary to “she has a great personality.” both can mean “they have good characteristics, but for obvious reasons I’m a hard no.” Those obvious reasons can be hurtful as fuck. And if you tell me that I’m focusing too much on the latter and not enough on the former, then I’m g…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:59 PM
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How exactly is it a compliment to describe someone that you wouldn’t touch with a ten foot pole as “husband material”? They patently are not, or else you would be willing to have relations with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:46 PM
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well, would You feel insulted when some construction workers on a break inform you about how they find you appealing?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:43 PM
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Husband-materialization and sex-objectification are awesome within the bounds of a healthy, respectful relationship, or at least within the opening stages thereof. in the absence of any worthwhile degree of commitment, then these become backhanded compliments which praises some characteristics while downplaying others.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:56 PM
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Oh, so you don’t think that you’re husband should feel any responsibility to work hard at your marriage and the life you’re building together so long as he’s a best friend, a soulmate, and a lover? Just using your own words, and your own refutation of fools_errand’s words here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:43 PM
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“Husband material” can be a backhanded dismissal describing someone with their shit together that a lady doesn’t find attractive even though he fills out lots of the check marks on her list. It does not universally mean that the person invoking the term actually wants to marry the person that they are describing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:39 PM
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When a woman describes her actual spouse as “husband material” then it is a compliment. When a woman describes a man that she refuses to have a romantic or sexual relations with as “husband material” it is an acknowledgment that he has his shit together and a simultaneous if tacit admission that he is otherwise unappealing. So no, it is not a blanket term of endearment. Women absolutely can understand this, it’s relatively straightforward.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:35 PM
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It’s an insult in any context other than a woman trying to convince you to wed her. If you are trying to marry the guy then you actually mean it. If you would marry the guy but you’re not actually interested in dating him but he seems ok, then it’s the very most backhanded of insults. It’s basically the corollary of describing someone’s looks as “well, she has a great personality.”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:27 PM
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you do realize that being “husband material” does not automatically get you wifed up, right? it’s not a compliment unless she’s actually trying to convince you to propose to her, and that is never the context in which it is used.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:23 PM
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is every last man who is deemed “husband material” RP having regular, great, passionate sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:20 PM
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No, in principle I get it; if a dude is resigned to appealing to attractive young women with his prospects rather than his charisma, then he could come to the conclusion that it’s somehow better to do that abroad. I can certainly see how it might seem less embarrassing; women here probably have the same conversation when they leave, just in English and in the same town where you know the same people and stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 05:39 PM
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Birch, I’m from vancouver and I return there every year for the holidays, what the shit are you talking about? Speak plainly, this is a relatively safe space.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 01:11 PM
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No matter how much ass you crush by behaving this way, you are doing it wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 06:36 PM
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wow, it’s almost as though if you treat a man as though you like him, he will try to lock you down. is that really a surprise to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 01:25 PM
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What about those of us who adopted the child of two randoms? this child bears none of the genetic markers of my patrilineal heritage, but if you try to claim that she is somehow not my legacy, she will rob you blind, just to prove a point; she doesn’t even need your money, she just likes to show off. I chose that child because I love her. And in loving her I made her my child. You don’t have it in you to understand that love, and you never will. No one envies you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:01 AM
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I would be happy for her and low key for myself until she was in better shape then I was, and then I’d be annoyed by all the extra work it would take me to get on her level. if I were in a shittier relationship I might get jealous and paranoid, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 07:23 PM
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I’m sure that some people do turn to their partner for reassurance and support in light of invevitable environmental catastrophe, but solving endemic global problems isn’t what I meant when I put the word “danger” in quotation marks. i meant that anxieties don’t always need to be articulated in order to be assuaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 07:42 PM
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In the absence of actionable peril, like a bad ex or a hot warrant or something, I’ve always assumed that they’re referring to a general sense of safety from a general threat of “danger.” eta: I forgot about spiders, wasps, and rodents; most women I’ve known prefer it when I deal with the vermin, and some women I’ve known were afraid enough of them that they ought to consider it “protection” even though its more of a gross chore. the vermin thing is probably the real answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:23 PM
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Dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:24 PM
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A few weeks ago there was a survey that I don’t care about enough to link to that claimed that under 30 years old, 30% of women are single compared to 60% of men. women tend to date men 2.5 years older than they are, and people in their late 20’s are more couples than people in their early 20’s, so that’s got to be part of it. I doubt that closes the gap, but I bet in narrows it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:47 PM
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Really telling on them self over here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:31 PM
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I assume that you not only want to feel safe, but you also want to labour under the impression that someone, generally someone else, is taking responsibility for that safety. I suppose that semantically you could “feel protected” by your own measures, but that’s not the impression I’ve gotten off of that phrase whenever I’ve heard it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:24 PM
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Why would his current relationship excuse prior shitty-ness on his part? he was shitty to her and he left a paper trail indicating just how shitty he was to her. this is entirely his own fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:10 PM
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None; I already assumed he was a piece of shit, I’ve weaponized therapy-speak before, and I already knew not to leave a paper trail when I’m being shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 01:08 PM
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The closer the families, the less weird it is, but there is and inherrent weirdness to it insofar as if none of the parties involved would feel the least bit weird, then that would in and of itself be weird. but conversely if someone felt a bit weird about the situation, that would be quite normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 02:34 AM
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This is literally what I was talking about in a church basement last week.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 02:29 AM
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ok, is a guy who is a good match for you automatically a low value sex pest if he is similarly well matched with another woman who is happy to sleep with him? like things are going great, you‘re starting to feel it, and then he’s like “so I met someone and we went for a few dates and its already getting serious, so thanks it was nice to meet you, here’s the stuff you left at my place.” Would that automatically make him a piece of shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 02:25 AM
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Jonah Hill is a professional actor who careful dissects the subtext within a script and very closely examines interpersonal dynamics in order to better depict them on camera. He does this for a living, at which he has done quite well for himself. He knows how bad a look this is, he‘s just too pathetic to stop himself. don’t conflate his deliberate weaponization of the therapeutic process with motherfuckers not understanding boundaries, those are two separate problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:52 PM
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If I spent money on Reddit awards…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 05:01 AM
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No, even when I knew I was never gonna see someone again, I’d generally try my level best to rock her god damned world. Unless I had some weird selfish shit going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 02:34 AM
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The same thing I do every weekend, BigVulvaEnergy: TRY TO TAKE OVER THE WORLD!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 02:29 AM
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Sorry, irl got really crazy so I havent been poppin’ off as much., but that’s no excuse. I appreciate your patience, your outrage-tainment is important to all of us here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 02:20 AM
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Being told that you’re unappealing is sort of insulting in the first place. if you’re asking which is worse, it’s whichever is currently happening to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 03:25 AM
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Don’t sell yourself short; it’s cute when you do it…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 08:36 PM
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One of my aunties married a brother from South Carolina on Christmas Eve in Edmonton, and insisted that everyone head out to skate in a blizzard, even though he could not skate under ideal conditions. their divorce was Epic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 08:34 PM
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If someone shoe horns their vegan ism into the conversation, it will eventually become problematic. if you eventually notice that someone is a vegan, then you should keep dating them bc they stand for their beliefs without imposing them; that’s a keeper right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 07:02 PM
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Have you ever dated another creative and disagreed about the aesthetic dimension of one of your works’?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 04:27 PM
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Creatives are easier to date, with their less rigid schedules and mindsets, but technicals probably make better partners, with their professional consistency more likely to be habitual, and their better long term career options.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 04:02 PM
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Matt rife pulled kate beckinsale? Nice…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 01:45 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 10:13 PM
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If we’re talking straight up “not offensively ugly” degree of plain, maybe 2 women who treated me fantastically well. if we’re taking “sort of cute, but perfect for me” then like a score of women over the years; I’m into big girls, so I’ve had beautiful relationships where my mates thought I was jumping on a grenade.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 10:03 PM
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If you’re into comics, it’s a good one. If you’re not into comics then you will find it very, very silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 06:37 PM
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He wrote a comic called “Y: the last man” in which [SPOILER ALERT] all but 3 males on the planet die from a violent flux one afternoon; the main character, his pet monkey, and eventually they track down the mad scientist that started it all. The reconstruction of an all X chromosome world was both the prevailing theme and the pervasive setting of the story.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 05:34 PM
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[Brian K. Vaughn has entered the chat]
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 03:54 PM
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Most 30 year olds look visibly different from how they looked at 23, best case scenario those differences aren’t visible from across the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 10:23 PM
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100 years ago, if your skin was clear and your face was basically symmetrical, you were the fairest beauty in town. now women have to compare with 2015 Jennifer Lawrence, and guys are feeling the pressure to. I suspect it makes ugly people less fuckable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 01:42 PM
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i didn’t have pictures of bettie page and Anita eckbert transmitted straight to a device on my hip several times a day until a few years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 01:38 PM
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[knocking at door] ”pool man!” ”but I don’t have a pool!” ”that’s ok…”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 01:30 PM
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Counterpoint: everything gets harder as you get older, except for making up excuses not to do something, that gets easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 02:34 PM
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And I bet that you’ll be able to patent your own AI driven analytical protocol by the end of 2025; do you think your operation would work better or worse if you just owned a server that provided you with solid analytics or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 08:36 PM
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I have been in several fights, thats why I was so confident about the degree of rocketry involved in a 4 man fistfight.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 08:25 PM
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https://www.google.ca/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=&ved=2ahUKEwjE_f-T0oT_AhUfHTQIHWI5AEEQFnoECCkQAQ&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.forbes.com%2Fsites%2Fforbesbizcouncil%2F2021%2F10%2F04%2Fhow-real-estate-investors-can-use-artificial-intelligence%2F&usg=AOvVaw31lvJGo0SXIQANiE3_W3IA Unless you’re getting in on the ground floor, it could already be happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 07:41 PM
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By the peer review process.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 07:38 PM
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So pull out your knife and stab them in the throat and kidneys; violent confrontations at this scale involve relatively little rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 07:38 PM
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So cute! We print out photo albums every six weeks or so, and she has phases where she loves too look through them, so unfortunately I’m never going to have this conversation with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 07:32 PM
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I firmly believe in the clinical evidence that herb can be a worthwhile supplement in cancer treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 07:28 PM
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Once upon a time I was seeing some lousy band in an empty venue with a woman I’d been dating for like 3 weeks, the guitarist introduced us to the bassist, who was a small, dreadlocked Frenchman, who then proceeded to try and kiss her. I had no idea whether she wanted me to hit him or not, so I didn’t. She told him off succinctly, but we slow faded after that. In principle I should have fucked that guy up, and accepted getting banned from one of the busier venues in town, but she was a fancy educ…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 07:25 PM
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If you’re too afraid to take your licks then you’ve no business dating in public, just keep it strictly online where you can’t be threatened by manlier men. one of them was busy and he other was wasted; punch the spectator in the throat, and then kick the kisser in the kidneys.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 07:17 PM
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Having a shitty kid is the biggest ick, but I dated an engineer with an oil company, and her climate change apologism got old fast. I’ve worked in the oil patch, I would have accepted “it sucks and I worry about it, but they gave me a raise and an assistant, so I’m gonna figure it out.”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 07:12 PM
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Which 97th percentile are you a part of?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 03:54 PM
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That makes lots of sense, this particular anxiety seems to be the nearly exclusive purview of the Y chromosome; that’s why ive never bothered to OP “but what if he’s late all the time but used to be punctual” bc I know the answer, the answer never changes on these dumbass scenarios, for the reasons you’ve articulated here. but I do think the punctuality example is useful bc it works in the absence of a meaningful comparison to this peculiarly male anxiety. By focusing on the annoyance of the dis…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:38 PM
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I meant that the punctuality example was not about anyones anxieties, not even metaphorically; late people are annoying, but I don’t generally worry about them very much. Worry about punctual people when they’re running late. The comparison isn’t meant to be an exactly measured analogue, it’s meant to demonstrate that beneficial treatment is preferable over it’s absence, and that new disclosures can affect the context of a current relationship, even if you personally do not care whether or not y…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:59 PM
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How about “he’s really great, but he’s never on time, then you hear that after he got back from Iraq he was punctual af for his ladies until he moved to your town and now he’s given that shit up?” it’s not about the insecurity, but obviously one is better than the other, even if the situation is otherwise acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:11 PM
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I see what you mean, but I’m not so sure; back in the 90’s we knew that the taliban were marrying illiterate child brides, but no one cared until 9/11. i don’t think anyone cares about anyones massive casualties or outright oppression until it affects their bottom line.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 07:51 PM
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[Laughs in Jungian psychoanalytic theory]
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 07:39 PM
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When one beats an indictment, they are found to be Not Guilty. Trust me; that’s not the same thing as “innocent”, and it doesn’t mean that they didn’t do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 07:29 PM
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If it were an explicit either/or choice then yes, but it wasn’t; go out Friday night, bring home a random. Sleep in till noon, log in for several hours, log out, hit the showers, and go out for Saturday night. Rinse and repeat as necessary. I’m not saying that that’s any way to live your life, but you do have to make time for both. Mileage may vary, but I’ve used Mario cart, diablo, and guitar hero as excuses to go back to my place before, and my partner is currently running a pacifist play thro…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 06:34 PM
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My partner and I keep several of our hobbies discrete from each other. I could not possibly care any less about her book club. She asked me to stop asking her if she wanted to come skiing, and to just assume that the answer is “no.” So maybe I’m coming at it from another angle; we’ve got the things that we share and we’ve got boundaries between what we don’t. Maybe we’re weird, but it seems to be working for now so don’t jinx it. And who the hell wants to date a motherfucker who plays magic the …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 01:22 AM
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Are you deliberately conflating group recreation with romance?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 08:42 PM
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Who invites a shark to their poker table? Why would anyone ever do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 07:53 PM
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Because it was never that serious, and she met someone who took her seriously; I liked her, he loves her. Before that; she was really kind person with a guilt conscience pity dating me until she could move on. Before that; it wasn’t very serious and then my family got sick. Before that; slow fade, no discussion. and for everyone before that just assume it was the consequences of some combination of liquor, drugs, and other women, even if that probably isn’t universally true.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 01:10 PM
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I once had a bisexual girlfriend leave me for another woman, and it didn’t sting nearly as badly as the girlfriend who left me for some other dude. Not even close. I suppose it is sexist to some degree, but I’m just not competing with women the same way that I am automatically in competition with other men, even my bull-dyke colleague with whom I am frequently and not figuratively in direct competition with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 05:49 PM
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Fuck that; the onus lies upon the allergic to make sure that they can breathe clearly for the entire evening. Likewise with vegans assuming that they are automatically to be catered to; people are responsible for their own special needs. seriously, these are the sorts of details that would fall under the purview of getting to know someone, so they aren’t particularly hard to shoehorn into a first date conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 05:43 PM
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What makes you think I’m putting the same moves on different women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 05:16 PM
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The FUPA, her waist/hip ratio, and cottage cheesiness; women can be quite heavy and still be dead sexy as long as these three features are square. its a bit of a catch 22; bigger women can be very attractive, but it usually takes nearly as much work as fit women put in.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 04:58 PM
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I would get her whatever she needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 01:31 PM
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I used to have several friends who were spoken for, both where I was friends with the couple and when I was just friends with her. never got caught up in crowd work, though. most of us are still friends, by the way, I’m just not dating age any longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 05:28 PM
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I don’t really meet any minimum-wage-and-fine-with-that-forever women, and when I do they aren’t usually all that attractive. Her net take home isn’t so much the issue, although more is always better, but the fact is that far fewer broke ass un ambitious women get into situations where they can date upwardly mobile men than women with careers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 05:16 PM
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Wait, are you really out here trying to convince people that any and every teenaged boy who isn’t fucking doesn’t want to fuck? Is that what you are out here stating as though it were true?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 05:09 PM
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Fuck no, obviously not; fatalities skew female, thats what needs to be evened out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 04:30 AM
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the ratio of male/female hands on abusers that I’ve known that I’ve known is about the inverse of the ratio of murderers that I’ve known that I’ve known, and come to think of it my hard-time-ex-con-lady friend did 8 years of 15 year sentence for shooting down the husband that failed to beat her to death, so i guess she’s the unicorn in this discussion. Ladies get handsy fast, but the survival rate is pretty good for those guys. Men might not put hands on their ladies as often, but the survival r…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 01:01 AM
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Booooooooo!!! More Toxic Vitriol!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 07:54 PM
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The gossip blog aspect of it is actually the best part; way better than the actual content.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 04:33 PM
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First of all, OP has explicitly described how she will jump right into bed if the man is fine enough, so cut the shit with “ops waiting game strategy is a sound one.” if it was so gd sound, she wouldn’t mix it up, now would she? second of all, fuck all the way off with your assumptions about my assumptions; that is some egregious ad hominem shit, and I’d know because I do it all the damned time. there is no “physical prize” for a date, just like there is no “interpersonal dynamic prize” for a da…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:25 PM
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I lucked out and got a pretty complete package, but this relationship wouldn’t work (to the degree that it does work) if we couldn’t get each other off; like she has expressly told me that she never would have let me lock her down if she wasn’t satisfied with how that went.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:03 PM
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Seduce someone that she looks up to, and treat them poorly. seduce and really elevate someone that she hates. defile something that she loves. sign her up for like a jillion different mail order clubs and what have you. if she’s allergic to cats, saturate her property in catnip. call the cops and say that someone with her license are number and make and model is swerving all over the road and just took out a mailbox. put a bunch of dog poop in a paper bag, then, put the bag on her doorstep, then…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 02:44 PM
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Booooooooooo!!! and that’s coming from someone who routinely criticizes weak posts on /hypotheticalsituations
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 02:32 PM
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Look, if you’re just incapable of satisfying a sexual partner, then just say that; we’re anonymous on the internet. here I’ll go first; I have no fucking idea how to do my taxes, even before I made any money I had them done. I’m pretty much the same way with IT, can’t figure it out, don’t even fucking try. Its a weird approach to dating, but I think it’s more honest than this nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 02:30 PM
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This will lead her to being nicer, more sexually engaged, more forgiving, etc. It however won't be done out of insecurity, but rather genuine appreciation for the fact that a high value man has picked her. Loool!! every word in this sentence is wrong; my partner knew me platonically back when I was trying to be the biggest fuckboi that I could be. She doesn’t appreciate any of that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 02:25 PM
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Would you please return to the original post and quote for us the passage where OP asked this young lady out?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 07:05 PM
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It is not the least bit ridiculous to discuss people doing exactly that, when that is exactly the behaviour described by OP. are you describing OP as lacking the level of maturity and socials skills required to be aware that some people are seeking long term relationships, and as such, prioritize their companionship with a person before agreeing to sex with them? so if people who behave duplicitously are irrelevant to what you’re talking about specifically, then why did you seek to talk about th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 07:01 PM
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Yes, and if that trust takes too long, it’s because there wasn’t enough attraction. holding hands, hugging, and maybe letting him kiss you doesn’t sound like a very good date; what else are you doing to make these evenings worthwhile? Keep in mind that he’s made reservations somewhere nice, he’s booked the tickets to the show, he came and got you, he’s paying for all this, and the whole time he’s trying his hardest to make you laugh and smile; what are you doing this entire time to make sure tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:47 PM
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That may sound very reasonable on paper, but isn’t it undermined whenever the same person jumps into bed with a fine-ass potential-partner because they know they need to in order to outcompete their fine-ass potential-partners potential-partners? first of all, are you out here saying that that never happens? second of all, does that mean that they just don’t care about actual compatibility as long as the potential-partner is fine enough? and finally; doesn’t this ultimately indicate that fine-ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:24 PM
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first of all, what’s this “again” shit? I’ve never said a word to you before. second of all, if someone inspires more trepidation than attraction within you, congratulations, you are not a match. No one’s hand is so wonderful that holding it can make up for a lack of attraction between two people. Jesus Christ, my partner and I never hold hands! We hold our child’s hand when crossing the street or taking the stairs. why would you even agree to a date with someone if you aren’t actually into them…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:02 PM
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So aside from not fucking them, what do you do to show them that you’re interested in them? Do you just sort of expect them to keep spitting game at you until at some point you decide that you’re in a relationship? every time someone says “oh I couldn’t possibly bear to rush into things, what if I get hurt?” Thats always the end of that conversation; there’s never any discussion about how it’s actually supposed to work, and I think there’s a devil in those details.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 03:13 PM
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That a guy with your handle is calling me out over the possibility that I’ve shot down a half dozen fat chicks over the last 25 years boggles my mind. congratulations, you have befuddled me. I hope that makes you feel good about yourself on some level, since clearly that is a thing that you need in your life. I really hope that you’re doing ok, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:43 PM
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…I am far more interested in your ugly-swap pictures than in any good looking ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:58 PM
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A semi-professional sports league where the big league teams will train potential recruits and send washed up pre-retirees; regional leagues with small town teams.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:36 PM
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There's no such thing as 80%ers. That's a red pill myth exactly who do you think motherfucker was referring to? He was referring to 4/5 guys who do not get anywhere with their looks. Just because it’s a bad read of an outdated metric doesn’t mean that there isn‘t a minority of people who can generate a broad consensus around their sexual appeal, and that these people get treated better than the rest of us. that is not a red pill myth, and describing it as such deserves to be called out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 01:29 AM
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If you measure the height of a demographic of men, then you can calculate the average height among them. if you tally the net worths of a demographic of men, then you can calculate the average wealth among them. and if you survey the amount of past sexual partners, then you can calculate that average among them as well, even if it isn’t an exact analogue for romantic success. and if you are out here trying to convince me that the taller men and the wealthier men get exactly as much experience as…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 10:50 PM
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Did ok Cupid invent the statistical median? Wow, that company is fucking amazing. and even if you do want to talk about 80/20, you are first going to have to establish that tall, symmetrical men with nice hair and smooth skin are treated the exact same as short fat bald guys as a fact before I will concede that the vernacular term by which we have come to refer to this discrepancy has its basis in some lacklustre statistical analysis which only sort of corroborates some shit with very broad anec…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 10:45 PM
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What the shit are you even talking about? how is a mathematical principal supposedly a red pill myth?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 08:58 PM
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Learning how to interpret peoples body language has come in really handy when trying to get a lady off, in more ways than I’m comfortable typing out on the internet. It also comes in really handy at the poker table, and when you get arrested. worst sex was trying to get back together with an ex whom I didn’t love anymore. best was with an ex who was friends with my current, so let’s not ever talk about that…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 06:58 PM
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I got one back in maybe ‘92 or so for not getting sent to the principals office for like 4-5 weeks. Maybe I was a precocious little prick, but even then I knew that it was bullshit. an educator born in 1945 would have been starting their career in about ‘67. 25 years till retirement puts Madame Balthazar in my homeroom till ‘92, provided she was an elder baby boomer which I don’t think she was, she was there for a couple more years.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:17 PM
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That’s brutal, but you did shoot yourself in the foot by answering that question. First you deflect: ”I was told that what happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas.” ”if you’ve never seen my highlight reel, I’m not going to spoil it for you.” ”my personal best is 17, but it turns out that that was with a mannequin after I mixed all my cold medications. Wild time, but maybe that doesn’t count.” ”it’s never occurred to me to count, and I’m worried that that means the answer isn’t very impressive.“ which h…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:02 PM
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For crying out loud; generation x did not invent those fucking ribbons. now retired baby boomer educators invented that shit to get entitled baby boomer parent off their backs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:41 PM
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15 is bush league numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:38 PM
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That is exactly the kind of shit that I tell someone when I’m about to trick them into a very bad deal; watch your six.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:22 PM
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Confirmation bias; you already like attractive people more, so you respond well to their behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:46 AM
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I’ve let down a few women who accepted it gracefully. there isn’t really a way to say this that isn’t both vain and arrogant, but they all seemed rather self aware of the fact that I was much better looking than they were, and one of them was definitely aware that I was dating a more conventionally attractive woman. there were about as many girls who definitely took it poorly, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:45 AM
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She is never not funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 09:48 PM
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Hol up; are you talking about the sketch where she’s the oldest kid on a kids show, and ray Liotta is the grizzled vet in the mascot costume? bc I’m pretty sure that those were prosthetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 09:48 PM
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30 years ago, Rachel Dratch went on Politically Incorrect and said something like “guys tell me that they want a girl who’s got a sense of humour, and I’m like ‘hi, I’ve been on SNL for four years’ and then they dont call me. Then months later they introduce me to their new girlfriend and I realize that when they say ‘sense of humour’ they mean ‘has really big tits and always laughs really hard at my jokes.’” “sense of humour” cuts two ways; as the joker and the audience.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 08:30 PM
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“Femininity” is defined vaguely enough that a self-centred, onstinate motherfucker could label any of these unsavoury characteristics as “un feminine” and call it a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 04:50 PM
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On the one hand I get that each relationship has its own unique dynamic, and that comparison is the thief of joy, but in this scenario, you’re still not getting fed as well as you’d like to be. how strong does the rest of your relationship have to be in order to let frozen-pizza-anniversary-dinner slide?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 04:46 PM
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Less so recently, last year we pivoted to “n-count” which is the same shit in a different pile, and I guess now we’re moving onto “passport bros” I guess. sunrise, sunset.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 04:38 PM
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I’ve never claimed otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 06:36 PM
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Sort of; she was absolutely infatuated with me and i suppose we’d describe her behaviour towards me a simping now, even though that wasn’t a thing back then. I cheated on her and felt super guilty.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 05:35 PM
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Do they live somewhere that would offer similar, comparable, or equally advantageous quality of living to and island resort?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:46 PM
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Hadn’t thought of that but you’re not wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:52 PM
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Samson and Delilah.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 10:52 PM
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Even with the afternoon off I don’t have time to watch all of those, but there might be some confirmation bias at play whenever anyone says that; no one sees the work that does or does not go into locking down 5’s and 6’s because a) no one is watching fives and sixes when our phones are projecting 9’s and niche 8’s directly into our eyeballs, and b) be for real, 5’s and 6’s take less work to lock down so it’s easier to miss. c) the assholes get more attention. When you know someone gorgeous on a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 10:37 PM
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What you’re describing not figuratively happened to my buddy Shawn the summer before second year; at the 3rd bar on his 19th birthday pub crawl he met a 27 year old stage five clinger who proceeded to try her level best to lock his ass down. She extended the limit on his credit card, imposed herself on a visit from his mother, tried to isolate him from the rest of us (although in another context that would have been a good idea) and frequently tried to get him to hit it raw. he turfed her after …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 10:19 PM
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Initially there would be some revenge/honour killing, which would be terrible, but wouldn’t women eventually stop trying to pass off their bastards as their cuckholds children?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 04:29 PM
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So like a year ago there were a bunch of post where RP dudes would put it to women like this almost verbatim, and women always respond that as long as they like the relationship that they’re in the way it is, they’ll be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 04:17 PM
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Your home is not as nice as an island vacation: neither the linens nor the food is as fresh. It isn’t as sunny or spacious. the housekeeping isn’t as diligent. The bar options aren’t as impressive, and neither is the landscaping. nothing about your home is as good as a tropical island resort. What on earth makes you think that anyone ought to prefer your home to a tropical island resort?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 04:10 PM
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What does a man do when he’s just trying to smash compared to how he behaves when he’s trying to act right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 04:00 PM
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Back in high school, I was perfectly willing to bike 15 miles for a toothy blowjob, which I still remember fondly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:32 PM
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Wait what? I am seriously reconsidering some recent interactions that I’ve had…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:20 PM
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So why do you get to decide what degree of corroboration would suggest that there are risks associated with committing to partners with scandalous pasts? Seriously, what makes you such a big deal that you get to determine what that threshold is for everyone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:19 PM
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Do you really believe all of those anonymous stories that always tell you exactly what you want to hear?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:03 PM
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That’s all well and good, as long as the relationship you get into is not only actually better than all of your educational flings, but also feels as though it’s better than all of your educational flings. Stop assuming that either one is a given, and stop assuming that all of your educational flings taught you how to make your partner feel loved enough to stay. Someone feeling too nostalgic for the way things used to be gives me the ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 02:49 PM
1

Eh, I’ve seen baddies rein it in so that they could lock down short guys with money.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 02:19 PM
0

Oh come off it already; younger peoples bodies are more attractive than the bodies of old people. the vast majority of people who are still hot at 50 were even hotter at 20. just because you think someone is gauche for explicitly pursuing someone bc of their young age doesn’t mean that younger people aren’t better looking than old people. come down off your high horse before you catch a chill up there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:41 PM
2

So what? Ops out here acting like every young woman is out here trying to get wife’s up when they very clearly are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:34 PM
1

Would a recovering addict and alcoholic be a good candidate to accompany you on a stag weekend in Vegas or New Orleans? because if your answer was “yes” you either arent a particularly honest person, or you’ve been partying all wrong for your entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:00 AM
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I dislike her much, much less than the rest of the population at large, if that’s what you’re asking. she’s one of the more respectable persons that I’ve met. Other relationships with shittier women involved less respect on both parts. Also, “respect” can be a little vaguer than you’re thinking; just because I respect someone’s right to stand in my presence and breathe my air, doesn’t mean I’m going to entertain their opinion for even a moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 07:44 PM
7

We sure as hell were before you jumped in to change the topic. ​ thanks for that, by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:45 PM
9

What the shit does that have to do with anything? we were comparing married and single women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:07 PM
2

I’ve been trying to downplay the “wife guy” angle ever since they sent mulaney up to rehab.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:31 PM
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Are you asking why married women get more divorces than single women? Is that seriously what your out here asking right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:26 PM
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Anyone can date only people with a matching degree of sexual experience as they do, if they like, but if they complain when their limited options don’t pan out in a satisfying way, I’m gonna point at them and go “haw haw!” Like Nelson on the simpsons. also, I would legit be jealous of a lady with experience like my experience; jealous is as jealous does. But that’s the price you gotta pay if you want to swim in those waters.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 02:52 AM
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You’ve got to assume that this dynamic also plays out anytime a less experienced dude can’t just be chill about his ladies past; as far as he can tell she spent her 20’s dating more or less as she pleased, and since he didn’t he lacks the context to judge how big of a deal the past should or should not be, he pitches a little fit about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 02:25 AM
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I’m not exactly clear on what woman is supposed to be the subject of your sentence. I’m also not sure what I am or am not caring about according to your accusation; whom do I supposedly not care about? and what aspect of their person is or is not amazing enough? You seem to be invoking some righteous indignation but re-reading your question I’m legit not clear what you’re accusing me of, or why a woman ought not to be reassured by whatever it is that you’re accusing me of. i‘d love to argue with…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 06:13 PM
1

To be perfectly candid, if that ”1” were amazing enough then yes, that would absolutely be the ideal. But the only “1”s who seemed amazing enough did not stop to settle down with me in high school, so here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:51 PM
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Are we differentiating between “the fuck zone” and just leading someone on? what about explicit FWB situations where one party wants more but the other refuses to offer it? Does that not qualify as “the fuck zone” to you? If not, why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:45 PM
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I kind of don’t like how people will “have a problem with the term friend zone” and then go on to describe exactly what the rest of us mean when we use the term “friend zone”. sometimes women don‘t find someone attractive enough to sleep with, and then she keeps him around because he’s useful in some other way. The vernacular term that everyone else has agreed to use to describe this dynamic is ”the friend zone”. There is no reason whatsoever to disagree with the terminology used to discuss it j…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:42 PM
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Could you sus out any further differences between the two communities? I’m curious because I’m in a town where there were zero prospects for me until I fell back asswards into something wonderful. If I’m ever out on these streets again…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:31 PM
1

So you married a lower tier man without better options than to condone you fucking other men? That isn’t much of a sales pitch…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:55 PM
3

Tell everyone that you have entirely missed the point of Squid Game without telling everyone that you have entirely missed the point of Squid Game
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:53 PM
1

What I think could work is if we refine the chatbots and then clone them after our own paper trails; social media, work emails, cookies, the whole lot. then we turn all those chatbots loose on each other, and let them come back to us with their top ten lists. So if my ai and your ai think they got on to %97 degree of comparability, then maybe we could figure something out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:42 PM
4

Doesn’t that bring us back to ”looks only get your foot in the door”?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 12:20 AM
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Sorry are we comparing marriages that are still ongoing to marriages that have already ended? Because that methodology sounds specious af. it proves relatively little that my current relationship is more successful than my past, already failed relationships…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 11:55 PM
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In op‘s defence, if we use a gender inclusive “you” in this post, the thesis still stands…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 11:40 PM
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Lol at the idea that this is somehow buoying the marriage success rates of a demographic that cannot possibly have been married for more than 25 years yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 11:34 PM
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I’m sorry that she hurt you, but the end of your relationship was undoubtably more your fault than it was mine, even if I fucked her. Go work through your shit on your own time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 05:40 PM
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Yes. you see how convincing my counter argument was to your counter argument? bet you didn’t expect to be rhetorically humiliated by the old uno reverse card gambit. try harder next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 05:24 PM
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This; cellulite, FUPA, and a bad hip/waist ratio are unappealing. Everything else can be just as beautiful as bony hips.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:06 PM
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You’re thinking of it all wrong, everyone’s value is intrinsic and based mostly on their own efforts and so forth. But everyone whom you convince of this intrinsic value demonstrates this intrinsic value. If the role a person plays in a random hook up is passive and ornamental then maybe that’s not such an accomplishment; everyone can see how pretty you are, that value may have been intrinsic but is was plainly apparent. But if your role in a random hook up is dynamic and instrumental then it’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:38 PM
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This dynamic is real, but I think it’s tertiary; i think women check out of relationships before they end them to a higher degree than men do. This is only vaguely implied by things like most divorces being initiated by women, but I suspect that women use their emotional maturity to imagine the end of crappy relationships in a way that helps them through it, plus to whatever degree that they have more emotional support in their platonic relationships, that also helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:16 PM
1

If I had know that this is how you get virgins to rub off on you, high school would have played out very differently for me…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 01:45 AM
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What have you been doing to these virgins?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 01:08 AM
2

I can’t find the mind blown emoji.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:46 AM
2

Sorry, can we please back it on up to “the possibility that type 2 diabetes originates from the brain rather than the pancreas”?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:08 AM
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Ok lol, but he has a point; an edited report with a deliberate methodology and some effort towards statistical analysis > some jerk off with a YouTube channel. both are full of shit, but only one has a table of contents.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:00 AM
2

Tell me that you’ve never picked up an Australian without telling me that you’ve never picked up an Australian.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 01:54 AM
2

Yeah I’ve gotten down with some big girls, and enjoyed it quite well. Not all big girls are sexy, but some of them got it going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 01:47 AM
1

That bar looks awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 04:34 AM
1

Having money doesn’t really up your wow factor for appealing to new dates, but it definitely factors in when someone you’re already dating is taking stock on whether or not to make it official. Also, how you flaunt your money counts. Basically; don’t. Just be rich and let them figure it out on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 01:30 AM
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I took her meaning as such that her ex boyfriend was the boring, submissive bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 01:17 AM
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You can have a lot of bloodcurdling, vicious fun in Mexico, but you have to get away from the resorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 01:16 AM
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Some people only look good when they’re young, not everyone ages gracefully, and not everyone has money to throw at the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 01:04 AM
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Homeboy in that video clearly needed his cock to be blocked, though. Lurking around slowly dressed like that? Get the fuck outta here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 12:55 AM
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Make sandwiches, not war.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 11:48 PM
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A’ight, I can feel that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 07:38 PM
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Real estate, livestock, precious metals and gems, vast quantities of valuable commodities, large sums of cash money in unmarked, non-sequential bills, new or at least well maintained aircrafts and boats, not cars or fine art so much (not that I’d turn any down,) and food; “make me a sandwich” is a really tired cliché, but have you ever received a fresh made sandwich just as you were thinking “man, I gotta get something for lunch pretty soon”? That sort of awesomeness isn’t gendered, and people j…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 06:53 PM
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Ok, that does sound absolutely awesome, good on both of you, but to what degree does time spent apart count as romance?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 05:55 PM
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Currently coupled, but coming here to argue with y’all made me realize that the romantic life I had previously bemoaned as an embarrassing disaster was in fact wildly successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 01:47 PM
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Yes: stop trying to cut into these discussions with irrelevant shit. No one was talking about fucking chads. There was no good reason for you to bring that up, it was not pertinent to the research I have presented here, so that was just some tedious bullshit that you are obsessed with. You do this a lot. Do you have a lot of people calling you on your shit in real life, or have you pushed them all away already?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 01:34 AM
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I haven’t been with many Swiss girls or any Croatians; how would you compare them?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:24 PM
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to the degree that that is the case, and there is a margin of exceptions in the responses, that isn’t even a little bit what I had referred to above, and this shit is exactly what I was talking about when I asked “how are you projecting your bias’ onto this study?” I thought that I was joking, and I guess I should have added “/s” because I didn’t realize that you were going to take me so literally. Is it springtime wherever you are? Is there any grass available for touching? if so, then you real…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 03:39 PM
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I’d give you an award if that was the sort of thing that I soent my money on…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 03:25 PM
1

The various ways that this dynamic can play out sure seem like they can be rather pervasive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 03:23 PM
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Ah, well in Canada we look down on those guys even if we don’t lift a finger for the kids he walked out on. Most of the deadbeat dads or fatherless families that I’ve known were much younger women, but now that im older, most of the divorces I’ve seen have a dad that’s trying to more or less do right by their kids. Mileage varies.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 02:04 AM
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I don’t understand why you read this and assumed that that was my assumption. Also “best mom” in this context requires further stipulation, in what I managed to read this morning and some of what I quoted above the authors are very clear about the broad range of benefits that these mothers are after.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 09:26 PM
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I’d make sure that he could play this guitar like a motherfucking riot, take him for an extensive makeover montage, as well as hella therapy so he can learn to manage his expectations about how his love life’s gonna go.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 06:57 PM
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thats rough. I guess I have known some single moms with dead beat dads over the years, but the ones I actually deal with are divorced coparents.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 06:44 PM
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So my kid was a bit speech delayed, but our closest parent-friends kid is a great talker. I am not proud of the schadenfreude that I get from stories about his temper tantrums and potty training accidents, so I wonder how gendered this behaviour is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 06:39 PM
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I simply cannot imagine an institution so august that I’d overlook my wife banging the superintendent to secure our children enrollment, if that’s what you’re implying. Eta; maybe if she banged wolverine to get my human kids into professor xaviers school for gifted children. But otherwise, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 05:59 PM
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Absolutely none of this has appeared in the literature or citations yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 05:55 PM
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It is not figuratively counter intuitive insofar as male competitive behaviour is far more easily observable, which is why we have traditionally intuited that men are more competitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 05:52 PM
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I don’t know where you came up, but where I come from divorced fathers are generally pretty committed to remaining in their children’s lives. It sounds like the single mothers that you know had children by shittier men than the single mothers that I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 05:50 PM
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Pics, or it never happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 05:46 PM
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Just say “I don’t personally sleep around, I think I might be Demi-sexual or something, maybe, and I think that’s probably what I want out of a partner; somebody who feels like that but about me.” ignore the fact that you know damned well that you’re not Demi sexual. Ignore any useless twit who get on your case for appropriating demi-sexuality for your own convenience; use it as a short hand for “I‘m not into hook ups and I’m not into girls who are into hook ups.” It is a somewhat dishonest impl…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:22 PM
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Tell everyone that you’ve never turned down a big girl who shot her shot without telling everyone that you’ve never turned down a big girl who shot her shot: no matter how genuinely kind you are about it, you will still catch shade. That goes double for single moms, and that’s coming from a guy who has dated big single moms; turning down the next big girl or single mom makes you the double asshole, even if their just not as fine as your ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:11 PM
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I get that. I watch miss Rachel videos with my toddler, I watch ducktales with my nephews, and I’ve seen some of season 1; it was quite good. But being so into a childrens program that you hold the characters up as feminine ideals is a look. Even if it’s marceline and princess bubblegum.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 01:54 PM
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Question; how much my little pony do you think that the rest of us watch, and why do you think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 06:18 PM
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“Mane 6”? bro…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 06:17 PM
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Speak for yourself, I love me some low hanging fruit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 06:15 PM
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Lol; I considered editing that to lsd, but I was like “no, everyone knows how fucking crazy Michelle was, they’ll get what I mean…”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 03:18 PM
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Not that I know of. She didn’t give me more than I could handle, and I still passed. We didn’t even break up over it. Lots of women have dosed me with lots of drugs over the years, usually excstacy. oddly enough, none of them ever robbed me, most were friends insisting that I party that night, although yeah, some of them were trying to get me to bang them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:40 PM
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PIIIILLLLLSSSS, BABYYYYY!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 08:41 AM
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yeah, my girlfriend from freshman year sent me a beaver shot by snail mail bc she didn’t have phone reception on vacation, dosed me with acid before my chem 210 final, and won amateur night at a local strip cub. im not sweating “Kevin.”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 04:55 AM
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What in the name of mandatory-HR-meetings are you going on about? aside from this being a revealingly weird piece of fanfiction, I truly do not understand the question that you are asking; does the character in the painfully contrived situation described above match the trope that has an entirely different description? I ‘ve dated several women with revenge porn out there, I’m not sure what the hang up is supposed to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 04:35 AM
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Hold on now; I know seceral beautiful women who would be terrible, terrible candidates for a long term commitment…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:46 PM
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Trying to force a connection that isn’t actually there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:23 AM
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If anything, I trust a man with an ugly wife more; he was smart enough not to marry a pretty woman for the wrong reason, and therefor is not a complete idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:12 AM
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Ugly wife; that mensch took a charity case off the market, he loves that woman, that’s a good man right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:08 AM
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First of all, no one loves anyone %100 unless they‘re fucking crazy, and even then only until they %100 hate them. and secondly, what makes you think I stop being attracted to an ex just bc the breakup went nuclear?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:05 AM
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Fuck all that; if I wind up back out in those streets, I’m having everything tucked up tight as a drum.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 07:31 AM
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Tell everyone that you bombed the SAT without telling everyone that you bombed the SAT.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 06:56 PM
1

Chris Claremont was a god among mortals. Rob Liefield is a hack.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 02:41 PM
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My barbarian of a daughter will take whatever she wants from your pathetic sons, and there won’t be a god damned thing that they will be able to do about it. martin Luther king kept guns, because they were coming to shoot him down. I’m fine with being wrong and im fine with causing unspeakable harm, so long as it never falls upon my people there isn’t any right or wrong, there’s only the living and the dead. also; what the shit does this have to do with sex and/or dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 02:00 PM
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Do you generally prefer to date broke motherfuckers ain’t got no prospects?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:07 PM
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Couple of things; first of all, no I wasn’t being particularly sarcastic, and if you cannot imagine how to roll like this quietly without flexing on anyone nor asking anyones permission, then you might not ready for “quiet confidence” just yet, but that a moot point bc… B) if you’re 6’5” you do have the option of putting on a sharp suit and standing there gazing over the crowd with a self satisfied smile. Like seriously, that right there could do a lot of the initial heavy lifting. For real as l…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 06:51 PM
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I think that this dynamic is the leading cause of break ups where the guy can’t deal with the fact that his gf caught some strange before they were official. they were taking it slow so that he could demonstrate an appropriate degree of commitment to her, and that degree of commitment is generally not “casual”; lots of guys don’t really have the bandwidth in their day to day life to court one woman and fuck another, so long before they make it official, she is monopolizing his romantic attention…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 02:29 AM
1

Like anything that isn’t directly observable, you observe the results. So go and produce results; skip that line at the club, walk straight into that vip lounge, do some shots with those owners, sub that dj out for a hot set, win a fight; but do it where you can be observed and never brag about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 01:39 AM
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While it may not be entirely fair to claim that every woman is completely passive in every courtship, a great many women are on the record as saying that they do not primp themselves to look good for men, they do it for themselves. Wouldn’t this undermine the degree of credit that a woman deserves for at least 3 of the things that you’ve listed? The makeup, the wardrobe, and the pictures all existed before anyone even asked her out; She didn’t do it for her date, she just rolls like that. And wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 01:34 AM
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So no matter how short and unappealing a man is, he can still get into a relationship as long as he has enough money to throw at the problem? That is very discouraging.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 12:33 AM
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I’m not out there slinging dick any more, but I’d generally prefer a lady who had 48 or less sexual partners; if I were her 49th partner then her total would round down to 10 and not up to 100.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 06:34 PM
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I am plenty disappointing irl, there isn’t really much of a need for her to be further disappointed in me online.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 06:05 AM
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I never mention any of the annoying shit that my girlfriend does bc I’m low key afraid of the day that she finds this account.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 04:17 AM
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the trouble happens when guys need to put all of their efforts into locking a woman down, such that he has no room in his life for a side piece. If she’s playing a passive enough role in the budding relationship, then she could absolutely have time to smash a good looking match. so then you wind up with a butthurt dude who was fully committed long before she was, he’s gonna feel some kind of way about that discrepancy, and in many cases he probably ought to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 08:47 PM
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Look, if you can make a motherfucker feel like you prefer being with him to being with those 14 dudes, it’ll be fine. if some motherfucker won’t accept that you prefer him to any of those 14 other dudes, then keep it moving, he wasn’t the one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:53 PM
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Qualudes? How old are you? Can one still get qualudes? I wanna take some qualudes…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 02:54 AM
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Counterpoint; I stopped trying to conquer the finest women I met with my penis, and only then did I fall in love. the very finest woman in the world ain’t worth shit if she doesn’t make you feel likewise.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:39 PM
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fuck me, did I hit “reply” without actually making a point? Again? Fuck… no I’m aggreeing with you in principle that a shared cultural context is a really nice component of a relationship, and you can only sort of fake it with young women who are, for some reasons, into your gen x/boomer shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:34 PM
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When I was a frat pledge, one of the older brothers gave us a huge pep talk about picking up women, and how you only ever bang hotter and hotter women, never ever settling for a less attractive girl than the most attractive girl you’ve ever banged. is that what you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 02:35 PM
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I’ve got a millennial ex who’s really into classic fm dad rock, and while she really does seem to love Bob Seger, it’s wasn’t not an affectation to attract older hipsters and bulldykes (she had a type.) anyway, it was pretty sweet to date a younger girl who was into my record collection, even if she was a disaster of a human in most every other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 02:32 PM
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Or simpsons references from seasons 5-9.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 02:26 PM
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Yes, much happier. Like a decade ago I tried to date a college girl, and I basically had to explain every damned thing I said to her, she had no context for what the world was like or about before about 1996, so it didn’t really matter if she had 6% body fat. She wasn’t a stupid girl, I‘m pretty sure she’s gone on to complete her doctorate, and maybe she’d be a great match for me now, but I realized i need to be with someone who basically understands what my childhood would have looked like.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 02:25 PM
2

Then why are you the one asking the question? His answer would be “they shouldn’t.” Why would it be on the black pill adherent to come up with a reason why their own ideology is deficient?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 03:32 AM
1

Isn’t this question literally the entire premise of the black pill ideology?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 03:25 AM
1

Never dated one on purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:26 AM
1

That’s not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 12:55 AM
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Fuck all that; they are perpetuating and reinforcing the very same stereotypes that they claim to rail against.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:21 PM
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In terms of a self reported survey, this does surprise me a little bit; I would have guessed the opposite based on my own preheld beliefs about the prevalence bi-erasure and what have you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 05:15 PM
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I beg your pardon, but what games do you play where justice is a major factor in the outcome? Is there some hot new isometric rpg out on steam that has some sort of groundbreaking new “justice” mechanic to it? Who the fuck is “the house” supposed to god damned be when we’re talking about men and women finding someone to love? Follow up question, what the ever loving fuck is someone supposed to do in order to “stop” whatever the hell it is they are supposedly winning at?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 05:07 PM
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that, plus women do tend to date men a couple years older than they are, some women are in gay relationships, and finally yes, some women are in a relationship with someone who doesn’t self report as being in a relationship, which doesn’t automatically mean that he’s banging anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 05:02 PM
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I honestly don’t see what the big deal about these figures is: %37 of men under 30 are coupled. %66 of women under 30 are coupled. let’s pretend all those men are with women under 30. so %29 of women under 30 are either coupled with men over 30, are in a gay relationship, or are in a relationship with a younger man who describes himself as single. the average age gap in a relationship is between 24-30 months, so let’s say that every 28, 29, and half of the 27 year old women are in relationships …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 04:53 PM
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And besides, the corollary would also be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 04:32 PM
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Anecdotally, women that tall accept/reject my propositions at a comparable rate as other women, but “too short” tends to factor into the rejections.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 03:29 PM
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You could make a big strata; cut the bread into bite sized chucks with some onions, some grated cheese, maybe some ham, into a greased up casserole dish, beaten eggs over top, sprinkle with more cheese, into the oven for a half hour. It’s like a savoury French toast casserole. works for breakfast or dinner. Good stuff. eta; use up the two week old freezer bread with a recipe like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 03:18 AM
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Bread will freeze for a week. Two if your not fussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 03:03 AM
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No she goes down, but I would never try to eat a steak while she does it any other day of the year. (We do something even weirder for my birthday, and Christmas is always at her parents place so no dice.)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 02:57 AM
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Real estate, livestock, horses, boats, gold, precious gems, over insured art, airplanes and/or helicopters, cars (plural), and new socks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 02:54 AM
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Some guys mean submissive, but it could also mean someone who uses their words like a grown up and doesn’t automatically escalate shit. The antonym of “combative.” It could also be in the context of someone who is easy going and not too demanding. i never put that in a profile because its kind of a reddish flag, and besides; announcing that you’re disqualifying people who like to disagree with you is just asking for trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 02:50 AM
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How are those questions different? wait, was I misconstrued as asking some other question every time I asked someone “what do you like in a man?” bc every single time I ever asked that, I thought that it was very obvious how I meant what she found sexy in a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 02:09 AM
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The field only goes up to 9,999
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 02:04 AM
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Oh for fucks sake; let me know if there’s anything you need to tell him…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 02:03 AM
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What’s for dinner?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 01:59 AM
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Say more right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 06:57 PM
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Such a big deal as in why did they face disciplinary action, or why are we still talking about it? professionally it was a serious breach of protocol in a paramilitary setting; you can’t be fucking the people you work with when your job is to strap on a side arm, pair up, and go looking for trouble. personally; I’m not still talking about it. It’s still a little bit funny, but there are no longer any memes in my timeline about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 06:56 PM
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That’s part of it; it’s a personal topic, so everyone gets fired up even though this is all very inconsequential. I never thought of it in those explicit terms, but you’re right. so where did we land with this one? You swear up and down that ladies do all the heavy lifting at the outset of a relationship, be it casual or intimate?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 03:52 PM
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What makes you think that, though? Do you think that there are enough decent people to go around so that everyone can be actually appreciated at the same time? bc I don’t think that there are enough decent people around, and some of us have to make do with lousy friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 03:48 PM
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No I get that, I’m just not convinced that this will be an attainable goal for everyone; some otherwise decent people are going to spend their lives with asshole peers for pretty much their entire lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 03:39 PM
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k, I was trying to have a friendly, respectful conversation, and I don’t know what I’ve done to offend you, but I don’t think it’s fair for you to call me out so personally /s for realz though; you have legit described the dynamic that drove me here in the first place. For the record, I’ve been better to her over the years than it sounds like this dude ever was to you, she swears she was never into me like that back then, and both of us were better looking at age 23, but for pretty much the rest…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 03:34 PM
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Or loathe some, rueful enthusiasm. Hope she’s doing better…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 03:21 PM
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It make take a bit of searching but there are people out there who will value you as a human being, your personality and ideas and feelings. I am not entirely convinced that this is true, think about it; of all the people in the world, how many of them are decent enough to actually appreciate people on a human level? every single person has an upper limit to how many people that they could possibly know well enough to care about, whether or not they are decent or shitty. Every single influence t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 03:18 PM
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I want to actually enjoy sex,and being treated as plan B because his first one didn’t answer the phone isn’t enjoyable. They make it obvious too. Stacey fucks/Becky bucks?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 02:57 PM
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You know, when you describe interacting with them like that, it sounds preferable to actually getting into a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 02:45 PM
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It doesn’t take luck; it takes hard work, steady nerves, and my very funniest jokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 03:21 AM
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Not harder to satisfy per se, but definitely less impressed when you do satisfy her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 03:11 AM
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If this was a joke, it was low key hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 07:40 PM
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…everything i have every read about the topic of sexual success correlates with things that would also correlate with societal contribution or potential for that. Shouldn’t we first stipulate exactly what we’re discussing when we use the term “sexual success?” eta Name one player who is celebrated by society for his sexual achievements Hugh Hefner, Leonardo di Caprio, Gene Simmons, young Howard Hughs, Wilmer Valderamma, honourable mention to Larry Flint; just because you cast shade at these guys…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 07:20 PM
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Yeah, if you describe someone as being good looking but they do not excite you sexually, then you do not find them attractive; you appreciate how good looking they are, but you are not attracted to them. this isn’t a gender thing, because the English language is not gendered.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 06:29 PM
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Not that I noticed, but after 10 minutes I was only sort of paying attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 06:21 PM
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Taking your flair to thailand 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 06:20 PM
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I’m not sure what difference you’re imagining between “how they rate their partners physical attractiveness” and “that irresistible urge to jump someone’s bones.” if you say that someone’s a 10/10 but you don’t want to fuck them, then you don’t actually think that they’re a 10/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:15 PM
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I knew my bible better than she knew hers. Although I did nick a friends much more well thumbed bible as a prop.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:57 PM
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um, actually per the cited research marked diminishment in attraction to a long term partner was noted in only about %50 of respondents.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:47 PM
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Ooh, I definitely found a way to let a girl I was vibing on know when the guy she was vibing on got chlamydia. I didn’t even really have much of a shot with her, I just didn’t want to be vibing on a girl that had chlamydia.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:36 PM
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I wasn‘t above pretending to be really into Pokémon go in order to sleep with a college student. Or pretending to be a devout Christian in order to sleep with a college student. Or pretending to be into nickel back in order to sleep with a college drop out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:33 PM
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Every time someone says “I don’t know why someone would…” somebody somewhere gets off on whatever they’re talking about. It’s basically the founding principle of rule #34.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 11:10 PM
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Fashion and cuisine aren‘t feminine, they’re fabulous.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 11:07 PM
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Wasn’t there an episode where a lady literally does this; buys a robo-clone kit, and download her husband onto it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 11:01 PM
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I really only add cream if it’s shitty coffee or if I need to drive it in me immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 11:00 PM
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“Fuck bitches, get money” is an admirable lesson to teach a young boy, sure, but the fact of the matter is that chasing money can lose you a good woman; you could neglect her or do something that she cannot abide for profit. I’ve never seen anyone lose a bad woman by chasing money, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:59 AM
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tough, but fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:12 AM
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Hook up guy, but only bc both men have to date u til they find their person; relationship guy still has to meet and lock down his one true love, hook up guy just has way more fun doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:25 PM
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There seems to be a deeply held belief that these relationships are inherently garbage, and that these women automatically treat these men with nothing but daily contempt. If someone believed that, then they would probably come to the conclusion that these relationships are are in fact hurtful to half of everyone invoiced in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 09:39 PM
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Everyone needs a hobby…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 09:09 PM
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Whichever would have amused andy more.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:10 AM
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It is. I love those ask Reddit posts that are like “your username is how you die.”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:02 AM
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Not enough info; are the kids awesome or are they shitty? Which one likes me more? is the co-parenting a mess, or is the mother available af every other week? Which one of them has better career prospects? Is the mother going to shoot me down if I date the fun one for a bit first?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 05:41 PM
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No, but we do get brow-beaten and shat on whenever a single mothers child turns out to be an unruly nightmare and we nope out. How is that fair?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 03:34 PM
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Of the dead beat dads I’m aware of, I’d say that there’s a preference for bad boy losers and cheats over underwhelming, ineffective disappointments who just couldn’t cut it as a father and/or partner. But I have seen both. Both are red flags; why did she have a kid with that not-figurative-motherfucker?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 03:29 PM
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I think that stage-of-life might also play an issue; settling down with a single mother and her needy child did not seem nearly as acceptable a prospect in my early 20’s as it does now in my [redacted]. In my case; yes I’m less insecure in that context now, but I’m also more secure in others, and there are a lot of divorcée’s available to date in my cohort, which can be a different scene than a teen mom. Dating divorcée single moms made me reconsider dating teen moms, but their lives still aren’…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 03:24 PM
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Did your biological father step out on his young family, or did your parents split up after trying to keep it together for years?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 03:14 PM
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They way you won’t trust a recovered junkie around heroin is how vanilla people feel about swingers. Heroin isn’t hard to avoid, other people and their appealing genitals are everywhere. also; stop being such a prude, narcotics are fucking awesome and kicking isn’t that hard. Having enjoyed a bit of dragon chasing doesn’t mean that someone is any less deserving of finding a good long term partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 03:09 PM
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And there are men who prefer to date women who spit in their faces and do not allow them to address her by her name; what’s your point? it isn’t on the rest of us to start accepting that any more than it’s on you to start fucking lonely, short men. for the record; the rest of us side eye the guys who vocally prefer experienced women; they are less reprehensible, but no less weird that than the guys who vocally prefer virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:50 PM
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Toss up; but since n=20 is ndb to me, slight edge to the first imaginary young lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 10:31 PM
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Do you know for a fact that she has an exciting, colourful past? are you the sort of guy who featured prominently in her exciting, colourful past? does she need much from you in the way of material support? (If she needs a lot of emotional support, that’s not beta that’s just being a decent partner. Logistical and domestic support is 50/50 good-partner/simp; too much of a good thing can be quite bad.) if the answers are yes, no, and “oh my god, just so god damned much, it just never stops” then …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 10:21 PM
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I don’t know from no af/bb, but I seen this kind of behaviour with my own eyes. its hard to imagine that someone who is interrogating you for the first couple of dates is going to make much of a partner. I have wondered if maybe some of those girls were keen, but just had zero game and scared me right off without meaning to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 10:08 PM
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I guess my point is that a degree of that is inevitable; I never got my obliques as shredded as Brad Pitt in fight club, not even close, but trying to do so introduced me to my ex at the gym. Despite her terrible choice in men, she was mighty fine. but yeah; every reason to get up in your own head is a bad reason to get up in your own head.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 09:20 PM
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Counter point: the women that I dated when I was fitter and better dressed and fronting like I had my shit together were more appealing than the girls I dated when I had other shit going on and was just letting it all hang out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 05:46 PM
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Janis Joplin is a bit of a weird pull for mentioning sex symbols from magazine covers of the past…but I kind of feel it, so go off…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 05:37 PM
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Being the man that a lady selects as her lifelong mate is the ultimate honour that she could possibly bestow upon him. unless she is particularly less appealing now than she used to be, and only so long as she treats you in a preferential manner to how she’s ever treated anyone else. if someone believed that a woman’s appeal only ever decreases, or assumes that she would not or could not ever treat them in a preferential manner, then they would have to come to the conclusion that settling down w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 03:38 AM
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The worst rejection was the young woman who immediately made it a race thing and was deliberately hurtful about it. there have been a few bad reactions; lots of shit talk, several cock-blocks, some stalking, two different women who got me wasted and took advantage of me, and one drink thrown in my face. I’m only talking about 4-5 women over more than a decade here. Most women will either try to be cool or try to disappear in the face of rejection. Apparently I tend to attract a third sort of wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 09:39 PM
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It was wrong of you to go and bail her out; she needed that time alone to reflect on the consequences of her decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 05:31 PM
1

Have you ever been to a Metallica show? As far as gen x bands go, their shows are fucking awesome. Iron maiden shows are more spectacular, but Metallica shows rock harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 05:24 PM
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Kisses and tugs and them heading south once I’m awake enough to kiss back. if you’re just rooting around under the covers then I wake up panicking about who’s down there and what else are they doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 05:16 PM
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Or maybe jealous that no woman would rape them…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 05:11 PM
1

Saurian gonads are largely internal, the protruding organ is pretty much just for excretion,
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 02:52 PM
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First of all, I’m not that short. Second of all, I’m not doing it to pick up women; I’m doing it so that I can literally pick up increasingly large children.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 02:49 PM
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The plaintiff is entitled to submit evidence at trial. Counsel is required to disclose evidence they plan on submitting to the bench and to opposing counsel, but until the trial itself the public at large is generally not privy to counsels legal strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 06:01 PM
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Which groups? asking for a friend…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:57 PM
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Late to the party, but coping with depression using the sweet kiss of a .357 is not the flex you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 04:22 PM
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I’ve met handsome men who won’t cut the apron strings, if that’s what you mean. But otherwise, yeah; the wherewithal to leave the nest and stand on your own is more attractive than the other thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 05:32 PM
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How the fuck am I supposed to know? Ask some older women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 04:42 PM
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not down with your pills, but both of my parents were philandering secret alcoholics and I had to referee their marriage and eventually their divorce. They’ve been in the ground for a few years, and I’m still sorting out how their divorce affects their estates. Between the two of them I learned and probably internalized some really shite lessons in regards to marriage, fidelity, and self medication. bc i watched both of them refuse to accept any responsibility for their own bullshit all my life,…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 07:07 PM
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But it’s a mixed blessing; the implicit threat of my bulky presence can undermine the confidence of someone who would otherwise mean to do me harm, which can go either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 06:41 PM
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that makes no damned sense; if a poor man needs to be financially dominant in his household, then his household will always be limited by his earning potential, and they will all remain poor, even though his wife will probably have to work. if an affluent man insists on the same, then he’s cutting himself off from a lucrative revenue stream. That’s just bad business. This affluent man really wouldn’t suffering any drawbacks that don’t befall the poor man, since both wives would work. The affluen…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:03 PM
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What the hell kind of question is that? In this economy?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 06:38 PM
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But I do also unconsciously try to take up more space around guys who are bigger than I am. People are weird and we all need to try and be less shitty, even to people who are being shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 04:56 AM
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Thanks for chiming in, it’s so great that your keyboard works so that you can try to contribute to the conversation! So exactly how do you keep a man interested when sex is explicitly not on the table? Because without the prospect of a satisfying tryst, then my date needs to do a lot more than just wear a cute outfit and laugh at my jokes; I can get that from anyone, why should it be her? If she’s not going to try and get off with me, then she has to bring some game of her own. Do you got game? …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 04:11 AM
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The hell I don’t; sitting with my thighs together is uncomfortable to my testicles, hips, and eventually lower back. Ever since I went automatic, I frequently pop my left knee all the way over to the door. 99/100 instances of manspreading aren’t about deliberate, malignant ego posturing, they’re about unconscious physiological posture and a lack of awareness. and we all hate that last guy too, so don’t try to pin his bullshit on the rest of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 02:04 AM
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yeah, you picked up on how I have to frame my own fears and insecurities with language like “non negotiable necessity” or ”demonstrating a modicum of self respect” huh? But you’re not the least bit wrong; the comparison with how a partner treated previous partners is projected directly onto and all over how desirable and secure you feel. my point is that it’s not solely the one partners responsibility to feel awesome about how the relationship is going, they both have a role to play in making on…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 12:14 AM
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The longer we date without fucking, the harder it will be to convince me that you are physically attracted to me in a sexual way, which is a non-negotiable necessity to keep me in a relationship. maybe I should have kept fishing some of those times that I cut bait, maybe some of those girls were really into me and just right for me, but they didn’t make me feel as if they really wanted me there, so I moved on. all of the other nice things about getting to know someone are great, some of them are…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 10:49 PM
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Ok, if casual sex is entirely meaningless without any chance of repercussions down the line whatsoever, and intimate partnered sex is the only kind that comes with any degree of attachment and affection, then why shouldn’t we open up all of our relationships? the two kinds of sex aren’t even similar, they have such completely different purposes and outcomes, why on earth should they ever not coexist within the same relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 09:57 PM
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For some reason, 2/3 women that I have ever explicitly rejected and tried to preserve a friendship with were blue eyed brunettes named “Jess” and the third was a blue eyed brunette named ”Jen”. This is basically the only context in which this fact is even the least bit relevant, so I’m telling you now.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:00 PM
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Have you ever had to let someone down easy after they shot their woefully underwhelming shot with you? If yes, then how did you phrase it? please be as precise as you can recall.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 12:58 AM
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That only matters when she actually does forsake all others to take you to have and to hold in sickness and in health until death do you ‘part, but most of the time when someone hears the phrase “you’re such a catch, you’re top shelf spouse material” it’s a condescending easy let down from someone that does not want to marry them. And obviously incels are going to respond poorly to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 12:56 AM
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I’m gonna stop you right there and play the “personal anecdote” card; while I have gotten my current partner to begrudgingly admit that I’m a good partner and a beneficial addition to her household, and that one crazy ex started calling me that and then had someone else’s baby 5 months later, i have otherwise heard that as a scrawny, bespectacled young boy and as a scrawny, bespectacled young man because the women telling me that shit were trying to let me down easy. I am not the sort of person …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 11:29 PM
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So do you then generally seek out promiscuous partners, since locking them down would establish you as being the most attractive possible option for your partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 10:01 PM
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You
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:11 PM
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But what if we turn your second point around? does it then stand to reason that the more casual partners a person has had, then the more flattered their eventual spouse ought to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 04:36 PM
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For real though; I put a time bomb in that kids life. Their entire world could burn down bc I was an asshole. Please don’t fuck other mens wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:28 PM
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i have masturbated to gangbang pornography, even though actually participating in one sounds like it would in fact not be a great way to spend the afternoon/evening; I’m sure the actual fucking is fun, but one thing that I know about myself is that I do not care for the smell of other mens ball sweat, and that distaste scales logarithmically with each set of balls.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:06 PM
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My partner and I knew each other back then, but didn’t hook up till we were middle aged. much worse; I remember exactly how fine she was back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 02:53 PM
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It’s not all it’s cracked up to be, it’s mostly frustrating and sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 02:52 PM
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Well, don’t ever worry about being too nice to this person, since they obviously value honesty above getting along with people. i‘d turn it around on her next time she starts getting on your nerves “one of the qualities that would make me a great second husband is that I’m not gonna put up with too much bullshit; you need to knock that the fuck off, right now.” “As a good choice for a second husband I am thoroughly qualified to declare that you are out of line; back the fuck up.” Basically you w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 02:47 PM
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Was she trying to lay a sick burn on you, or did she think that was a compliment?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 02:00 PM
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This is why I twisted myself into knots in order to never describe, divulge, or in any way disclose any details about my dating life to my current partner. she’s a classy lady, and she knows about my exes who were classy ladies, but the rest of them…DADT.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 07:56 PM
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Spitting’ straight facts here; I’ve had to keep a side chick that I didn’t even like very much in play bc the girl i wanted to lock down didn’t want to be exclusive. It ended poorly for everyone involved. wait, that was at the turn of the century before online dating. I met both of those women irl. maybe it’s not the old
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 03:20 PM
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I’m not disagreeing, but I also think that in general the sort of person that seeks out a pervasively submissive partner is probably selfish and overbearing to the point where they would prefer to never compromise with someone that they presumably love, not even if they have the better idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:38 PM
0

Hot
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 04:00 AM
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Why on earth would anyone consider a deluge of insipid memes to be some sort of syllogistic proof of the validity of an argument? thats fucking daft. also, it seems as if over the holidays, a certain subset of user had ample time away from family, friends, and loved ones to spam a fucking sub Reddit. this is going to be a long fucking year…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 03:58 AM
2

I’ve had hot friends complain that they can’t go out without someone shooting their shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:20 PM
1

Sure am; 5 foot 6 and sexy af ain’t nothin new to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:30 PM
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Jesus Christ, when you put it like that, you do make it sound good on paper. but it’s a fictional trope for a reason. Haven’t you ever daydreamed of getting into a relationship with an idyllically perfect partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:53 AM
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Fascinating. I havent dated a ton of Asian wome, but one did ask about white girls once; she was already a handful before it came up on the second date.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:28 AM
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That’s wild. do they tend to get pissed right the fuck off immediately when they get their answer, or do they usually just cast some side-eye and cop an attitude about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:55 AM
1

Is she alright? Does she need help?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:41 AM
1

Get the fuck out of here with your “enough free time to schedule date night in fucking December like we ain’t got all kinds of shit going on already”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:39 AM
1

Interesting. Just the one time?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:34 AM
1

Sure, as long as she was the one asking me out. Seriously, if you met such a girl and she was like “bro, no cap you’re actually pretty cute and funny, but your profile is a mess, give me your camera for a second…” and then she fixed your profile, you would say yes if she asked you out. But yeah, without her making a few blatant, obvious, and difficult to misconstrue gestures towards seducing me, it would be a bit of a lift to make that relationship happen. but hold on; without her making a few b…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 03:45 PM
2

I’m really not clear what the hell you think you’re talking about, but if a person can only get with another person by scraping and bowing and bending over backwards to suit their every whim, then those two people need to not date.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:01 PM
2

The relationships that you’ve described here sound genuinely awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:33 PM
6

Never shoot your shot with the service staff; if you want to date someone who’s job is to politely help you, then you wait till they make the first move.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 02:06 PM
1

cis-het-dude checking in; 48 or less, bc if I’m #49 then her total rounds down to 10 instead of up to 100.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 12:30 AM
1

Eh, the “for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health” bit is actually pretty crucial to how/why my partner and I trust each other enough to be as intimate as we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 06:43 AM
2

Everything else being equal, given an either/or choice (and without acknowledging just how hypothetical this proposition is) then the advantages of being the fuckboi are readily apparent. The advantages of being husband material depend on the quality of the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:03 PM
2

Demanding to speak to the manager.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:53 PM
1

I won’t consider my relationship to be either long term or successful until one of us delivers the others eulogy. Part marks if we split up but our kids are super successful and happy despite the broken home.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 04:42 PM
1

Oh, she saw how much fun I had in college. Partly, at least. The conversation was unavoidable, because I am not on speaking terms with her college roommate, and it was quite plainly my fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 07:46 AM
1

I think there might be a considerable discrepancy in terms of what is broadly considered an acceptable, marriable career between men and women. Managers and engineers might not be getting down on bended knee for maids and till-jockeys, but nurses, secretaries, and dental hygienists get married every damned day. On the flip side, women with impressive careers don’t seem to be super interested in guys with union cards.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 09:26 PM
2

I worry about this as the more experienced partner; we’ve talked about it, and she says that she’s cool with it, and I get that women don’t stress this angle as much as men do… …but still I worry.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:11 PM
1

It’s generally treated as a red flag. Plus absolutely no one wants to hear me harp on about Cambridge Analytica and that son of a bitch Ajit Pai.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 04:02 AM
0

Your right, the correct order of adjectives would read “these loud, vulgar ho’s”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 01:38 PM
7

I’ve long assumed that that was a necesary function of how interconnected our lives have become.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 01:32 PM
2

That if no one laughs at your joke, let it slide; they fucking heard you just fine, you’re just not as funny as you thought you were.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 02:23 AM
1

I am not confident in my ability to keep a woman interested for 8 dates without using sex to satisfy her. To be candid, I would begin to grow suspicious of her after date #4.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 05:59 PM
1

You voted to drive all the Slavs from your land, do not presume to lecture my spellchecker about bigotry.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:51 AM
1

it would be the only non-corrupted communist country untouched by white supremacy or colonialism, but unfortunately it was invented wholesale by Jack Kirby and Stan lee.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:45 AM
1

We’re you describing RP ideals, or were you projecting some tired nonsense in a lazy effort to cast judgement? Because Having Your Cake And Having It To is not a red-pill thing, it’s a human being thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 12:39 AM
1

You do realize that Wakanda is a fictional country, don’t you? its important to me that you know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 12:13 AM
3

How is Trashcan Lannister’s giant pumpkin head and lopsided face a 10? Are you only sexually attracted to garbage pail kids? That’s really weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:41 PM
2

Yeah lord knows I hate me a slender, leggy woman with really shiny hair and the very brownest eyes I’ve ever seen. come off it, you’ve never had anyone who looks as fine as MTG, and the rest of us know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:36 PM
1

Omg, I so very rarely get to accuse someone of being what’s wrong with their country, so I’m really going to relish in this: good job tanking your country and society for the next century, you absolute nonce. bang up job, I’m sure that Richie-boy is going to knock off that brexit deal straightaway and everything will be well in the kingdom again. Wait, do you have sarcasm on your side of the pond? It’s tough to tell from here, since everything over there is such a joke now. your country is over,…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:33 PM
2

I for one don’t find anything funny about how Americans refuse to differentiate between the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:23 PM
1

bobo was sort of cute in her escort ad, and I suspect that Trashcan Lannister looks better from an angle than she does staring right down the camera lens with her giant pumpkin head. Ann Coulter was probably a babe 30 years ago. Jennifer…katniss/mystique/winters bone grew up in Kentucky and voted republican until her pr people told her to disavow the GOP. nothing about conservatism is in favour of having hot sex. Liberalism got all kinds of hot sex in it; abortions, birth control, legalizing sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:21 PM
1

Absolutely no man can possibly answer this for you; since we’ve all had the exact same penis for our entire lives, none of us can speak as to how much confidence comes from having a different penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:10 PM
1

I’ve been under the assumption that we’re talking about 5-6 dates. also; they’re over on fds, c’mon man, we’ve been over this shit before.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 08:33 PM
1

I don’t make women that I’d like to date long term wait before we get down. Why on earth would I do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 08:27 PM
1

i beg your pardon, but does the blue pill have some sort of monopoly on virtuous intentions, or does it have some sort of rule that you can’t have unrealistic fantasies? a step-ford wife and an NSA side-harem is an appealing fantasy for any straight man, no matter how regressive or progressive he may be.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 08:25 PM
1

This is all well and good, so long as the relationship is all well and good: when she’s making breakfast so that you can sleep in or going all out for your birthday, pretty much no one ever never stops to think “hell yeah; that married TA in her comparative lit seminar didn’t get this treatment.” And it’s debatable if one ought to or not. on the flip side, when the two of you are getting on each other’s nerves, it is not the least bit uncommon to stop and think ”I very much doubt that those frat…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 08:03 PM
1

My boyfriend doesn’t have any ‘cost’ in the relationship. hold up; are you out here telling us that your man doesn’t contribute any emotional labour towards maintaining your relationship? Does he not do anything to keep you happy? Do you never bother him with any of your problems? then why are you with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 07:30 PM
1

I really don’t think that I know any of these women, and I live in deep red territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 03:50 AM
3

come off it, you know exactly what that sentence means. also, without checking the dictionary, are you even capable of defining what you think the word “pathological” means?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:59 PM
3

Sounds exactly like like something a virgin would say.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:33 PM
5

Why are you afraid to answer such a simple question?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:27 PM
2

My point exactly. You cannot see your own downfall nor choose to speak about all aspects of life because you're not ready to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:26 PM
3

”having sex in order to see if there’s comparability is like trying a small portion of a dish in order to see if it’s something that you would like to eat more of.” there, fixed it for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:23 PM
2

Ugh, only a straw man would ever say something like that…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:20 PM
2

Well, you should probably see to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:12 PM
2

r/selfawarewolves
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:12 PM
1

Not with the man-scaping; I would legit go full bush if it weren’t for blow jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 03:25 PM
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The thing about that is that an “all kindness” approach gets you nowhere, so young men tack hard in the other direction. Mileage varies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 03:06 PM
1

I know that you’re joking, but we did this in Manila once, and it was really fun, as long as you’re lenient with your definition of “motorcycle”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 02:56 PM
2

If you don’t bring anything new to stand out, then how worthwhile of a lover or a man could you possibly be?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 02:50 PM
1

That’s a really good point. Probably the only time that I’ve actually heard this come up organically was after someone had been dumped over her (mildly) scandalous past.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:52 PM
0

Am millennial, can confirm.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:49 PM
5

I just hopped in here to speak my piece: I am getting fed up with all this hate on my boy, Adam Average. Adam’s alright, stop bagging on him. Adam probably doesn’t blow your hair back, and I get it; just look at him. He is not impressive. But attraction is as weird as it is particular, and there will be women who will click with his particular flavour of averageness, and they will find him weirdly attractive. That’s who should get into a relationship with Adam. Stop projecting your personal issu…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:35 PM
2

First of all; it wasn’t that many. Second of all; it involved some fucking disasters, and I wish I meant that figuratively. And finally; a woman with a scandalous past who enjoyed it is generally better off than anyone with a scandalous past who didn’t enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:07 AM
1

The Amish n count studies? The high school n count studies? Ten would be a lot for an Amish high school…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:58 AM
1

Well to answer your question, since apparently it applies to me, I think it was worth it. As far as I can recall anyway. id say of the less than 30 people I’ve been with, I regret 6-7 of them. For the most part these were either me being a POS, and I wish I could take it back but I can’t, or a couple of times when I tried to do right by someone and I still got burned. you don’t need to fuck >20 people to wind up getting burned twice. the rest of it was pretty great, up until I tried to settle do…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:59 PM
3

This news is blowing my mind. I’ve never thought of myself as a 12th percentile sort of person, so this is new territory for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 04:15 PM
10

Since when is 20 sexual partners high? is this an Amish forum?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 04:04 PM
1

Yes, but generally those common interests are “partying and fucking.”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 04:03 PM
1

Since when?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 04:26 AM
0

r/unexpectedmulaney
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 04:17 AM
1

Still rough in some ways, but that isn’t his fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:28 AM
1

Do not, under any circumstances, remind me of my late mother. this isn’t just a dating thing, it’s also good form for the general population within line of sight.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:24 AM
2

Which side?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:37 AM
2

Yes, but you’ve got better odds of rolling a hard 8; if you just happen to be naturally pretty good at reading body language and touching people, and you’re getting down with someone your super compatible with who happens to be a really succinct communicator, then yeah it’s possible to rock their world. but maybe hedge your expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 02:57 AM
3

Dressing poorly is disrespectful to everyone you meet who isn’t blind. its also one of several reason why you’re single. your comment^ is another, for the record.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 02:28 PM
3

So, that’s a really weird video, but not that weird of a reason to dump someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 03:21 AM
1

A lot of pantsuits would be weird. Like pantsuits 3-4 times a week without doubling up for several weeks would not be a green flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 03:19 AM
3

…that doesnt doesn’t sound right…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 03:15 AM
3

See there were a few summers when I was wearing those with chuck Taylor’s and comically short cut offs, but i was also wearing a handle bar moustache and a trilby while smoking a pipe and riding a fixed gear bicycle, so if you wouldn’t have dated me, I’d have understood…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 03:11 AM
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Because those of us with standards deserve that kind of respect from our partners, that’s why.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 03:07 AM
2

Not even the least bit weird of a reason to ditch someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 03:04 AM
2

Oof, I tried to date a girl with a garlic allergy, but onions would be an order of magnitude worse. every other recipe starts with onions!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 02:57 AM
4

You needed to put up a trigger warning before your comment, because “claimed to love Italian food and then preferred to order macdonalds when we were in Venice” was gonna be my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 02:55 AM
2

I’m sorry to hear that, to hell with those guys. when I rip on you for dating a short dude, please understand that it’s because I love love, and I love the two of you together, but I do not allow myself to express these sentiments honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:13 PM
2

I beg your pardon, but do you mean to say that men bear no responsibility whatsoever towards making themselves available and open during the beginning of a relationship? Do you mean to say that men do not have any need to manage their households or their relationships once the courtship is over? No, you’ve listed the bare fucking minimum it takes in order to be at the same place as another person at the same time as the effort that a woman Is responsible for during the beginning of a relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:01 PM
1

Was there any discernible difference between how these relationships played out and the ones where you were actually attracted to the guy immediately? Asking for a friend…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:51 PM
1

My necks all jacked up, so I’m glad that I’m not dating someone taller than I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:34 PM
2

Were they insulting you, or were they roasting you? Honest question bc one is not ok and the other is perfectly fine as long as it’s funny. I have definitely roasted my tall friends for dating short dudes, but I also roast my short friends for dating tall dudes. Sometimes beautiful, supportive friendships are explicitly disrespectful…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:33 PM
0

I hear you, but I would like to add that there can be a world of difference between enjoying how someone smiles when you spoil them and using your portfolio in lieu of actual sex appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:13 PM
1

The fuck? a fine wife adds status to a man’s lifestyle. the people who really look up to a rotation of dates are scrubs and men of status don’t really notice their opinions. I have dated easy women because I enjoyed it. The only time I’ve considered what a woman would do to my social standing it was because I was madly in love and figuring out how our life together would play out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:10 PM
2

Didn’t you date in high school? Did your mother not allow it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 02:49 AM
2

And you have been told repeatedly that your experiences are not nearly as universal as you are assuming. I never once came home and mentioned that I was crushing on any girl, I just brought her home to meet them one awkward day. And then eventually I got caught bringing over some other girl. And some time after that I moved out. My parents werent really involved in my social life by highschool, at which point the lads and I were mostly concerned with getting into trouble and keeping it from our …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:24 AM
2

I’m middle aged, and I buried my parents 6 years ago. They were philandering secret alcoholics who hated each other. My mother low key tried to arrange relationships for me with nice girls of the appropriate ethnicity. Absolutely nothing about their lives indicated that they were the sort of people who would be at all helpful in the pursuits that would characterize my youth or the challenges that would come to define my life. perhaps you’re the one who is trying too hard to insist that we are al…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 12:22 AM
1

Hard disagree after dumping several women for being hot mess’.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 10:58 PM
3

Oh, she explicitly did not care if my marriage was healthy, so long as it was catholic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 09:34 PM
2

“Simp-lications “ was right there….…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 08:56 PM
1

I never asked my parents for advice about girls or relationships. Asked my older brother for pointers about how to break up with a girl long distance once, he didn’t have shit to say since he flew to Australia to be with his girlfriend for a year and then broke up with her as she dropped him off at kingsford/smith. But by the time I had questions about girls I had realized that my parents didn’t have any answers for me. So no, the idea that some dudes innately understood that they had to go and …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 08:51 PM
6

I don’t know, apparently when my mom kept yelling “don’t be such an asshole!” that was dating advise…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 08:27 PM
2

I would personally feel fucking awesome about it, bc I’m fairly confident in how I look, so if I’m the ugly one then she’s a babe.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 04:35 PM
2

To be candid, I initially came here looking to find out, and now I keep coming back for the salty flame wars.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 03:45 AM
1

Yeah, but was he though?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 08:18 PM
1

Yeah, we are all of us are withering away into dusty old skeletons, and before long we will each of us be too feeble and decrepit to enjoy our own bodies, much less each other’s. now get out there and live your best life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 06:54 PM
2

Because I’m not not into big girls, and just because you don’t think she’s hot doesn’t mean that she’s not dead sexy. I’ve also picked up women of colour in overwhelmingly white situations; these women were fantastic, but got treated like day old leftovers because Nebraska. and finally; a homely woman who is into you should never be discounted as a potential lover, bc being treated well is just as sexy as looking at someone pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 04:28 PM
1

LEO’s Some of them merely tolerate the bastards, and I appreciate the sort of people who can manage risky situations with grace, which some of them can. It never worked out, but the fact I tried more than once is probably a yellow flag of my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:59 PM
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There’s a sweet spot; you don’t want to be with someone who isn’t over their ex, but you don’t want to be with someone who goes scorched earth at the end of every relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:48 PM
3

I came here to have a good time, and honestly, I feel like I’m being personally attacked now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:42 PM
5

I don’t think that youthful looks are the only factor in how much of your life you want to spend partying; the effort it takes to go out and make it happen is exhausting, and even if I still looked 22, I wouldn’t be as interested just bc it would more feasible than it actually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:37 PM
1

Not proud, but when I would date a conventionally attractive woman I’d get kinda jealous, but when I‘d date a big girl; not so much. some of those big girls had downright scandalous pasts, but it generally didn’t bug me. The prettiest girl I ever dated in college had two exes on campus and another across the country, and it definitely came up more than once.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 03:52 PM
0

Sure, but in that trad-con narrative aren’t the widows many grandchildren supposed to dote on her? that’s how we’ve been treating my nan, even though she divorced grandpa back in ‘93.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 09:41 PM
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i call people out for talking shit all the damned time, the fuck are you going on about? People tend to hear about it when I disapprove, to whit; men who only fuck big girls on the down low are worthless shit heels. see? Not that fucking hard. Repeatedly and public ally affirming shitty behaviour does not become ok just because one day you do better than that. If anything, it makes you an untrustworthy hypocrite. Someone who talks shit and then acts shitty has at least stood by the morals of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:20 AM
1

For the record, the answer is 2 and they’re both Canadian, and to paraphrase the late Stan lee, the reason is so that they look epic. he didn’t mention anything about wanting to bang the superheroes, but they might have just edited that out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:43 PM
-2

Sorry, would you say that it is or that it is not appropriate for a person to talk a whole bunch of toxic garbage as long as they eventually act right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:40 PM
1

I’m really more of a John mulaney sort of a guy personally. he’s also 6’ tall, and has a whole bit about being Asian and gay, so I feel like I’ve got several bases covered here…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 07:09 PM
6

I don’t fuck with these try guys, but that tall Korean fellow sure is handsome. I’m not sure which one is the cheater, though. The one with the glasses and the face?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 05:27 PM
13

I wouldn’t vouch for the mental stability of anyone that I know in an arranged marriage; the parents of my 1st gen friends are generally a fucking mess. we moved my one friends mother out of her home in the middle of the night because his father never stopped beating her, and discussion s with these families do not seem to indicate that things are even a little bit better in the old country. arranged marriages outlast love matches because the people who enter them refuse to break their vows, not…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:08 AM
8

I seen that shit; you do realize that men can also be jerks, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:09 PM
34

Arranged marriages largely exist in contexts that discourage and even outright prohibit divorce. Why don’t you think that this undermines the validity of such a comparison?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:08 PM
2

Hol ‘up, do you mean that red-pill complaints about an/bb are unjustified, or that formerly promiscuous women locking down lacklustre men is unjustified?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 03:36 PM
1

Yes, but but the 4 people that I’m thinking of are troubled mostly by their own predilections towards being awful partners than any difficulty finding someone who will have them. eta one of them really let themselves go, so that doesn’t help.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 02:27 PM
1

Are you kidding? being a Neo nazi was the hottest thing about her, I legit get why she was into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 01:50 AM
1

Shhhh; you’re upsetting my bank balance…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 09:09 PM
3

I dated a neo nazi when I was a kid (I’m biracial, which is doctrinally worse than being an immigrant.) I don’t think I’d do that now, but mostly bc it wasn’t worth the trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 09:04 PM
2

What on earth makes you think that the subconscious reinforcement of a regime that a man benefits from is somehow not instinctual?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 06:52 PM
3

Ok first of all, that was me being melodramatic, and second of all, that was me speaking generally in a context where I should have been specific, to whit; when I’m impressed by another guy, I invariably think “I need to get on his level” and when I disappointed in another guy, I think “that dude needs to at least get on my level. Like, bare minimum.” These thoughts are usually quite fleeting. Furthermore, I was talking about how guys deal with each other in the broadest, day to day terms, when …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 06:48 PM
6

Other men are either better than I am, in which case I am jealous, or they are worse than I am, in which case I am contemptuous. men can have other qualities and I can have other opinions about them, but one of these two things is generally true of all other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 06:13 PM
2

False, do you have any idea how many young women are also artists? they fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 01:27 PM
1

I have a certain kind of tattoos that i didn’t get in the navy. I wish I could say that I was no longer tempted by the sorts of women who are attracted to that, because that’s not who I am or what my life’s about anymore, but the truth is that even though they are invariably the worst and bring nothing but trouble into my life, I’d be lying to you if I said that I didn’t sometimes miss the attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 02:26 AM
0

Go fit your drip at Costco, and take your kirkland brand ass down to the club this weekend; come back Sunday morning and let us know how that worked out for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:22 PM
3

You would be badly mistaken; for all their tall talk about what comes before a ho’, bros stab each other in the back all the damned time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 07:32 PM
13

True, but abusers who are trained combatants can be all that more devastating when they pop off, so 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 07:20 PM
5

Who’s out here fucking a whole bunch of strangers because they don’t like to fuck strangers? name names. I’m still waiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 11:01 PM
5

Sorry, are you saying that every single one of your relationships began sexually and evolved from there? you do realize that you’re allowed to take someone for a few dates before you fuck them, right? You can even date someone that you knew before hand. You don’t have to fuck a stranger in order to form an opinion of whether or not you’d like to try dating them, that notion is as harmful as it is weird. I actually look back fondly on several of my shorter flings, and even at least one of the tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 10:40 PM
6

Who’s out here fucking a whole bunch of strangers because they don’t like to fuck strangers? name names. I’ll wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 10:32 PM
2

And I get that, but to reiterate; The. Worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 10:31 PM
6

Are you saying that I should start enforcing the standards that women impose on men just because you don’t like hypocrisy? I never used to care how short or broke a woman was, but if you’re telling me that I have to change how I date in order to keep things square then I guess I’ll go break it to my partner that these double standards aren’t fucking fair. i guess we’ll work out a custody arrangement just because you can’t/won’t acknowledge when someone has deliberately used gender neutral langua…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 10:30 PM
1

Hey , that sink was the best fuck I’ve ever had.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 10:09 PM
1

You just described an un winnable argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 09:50 PM
1

Yes, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 09:46 PM
2

I have never once in my entire (sober) life told a woman to her face that i wouldn’t consider dating her bc of her past experience. But I have declined to get exclusive with or slow faded women who’s pasts were the source of gossip. That was never the only thing wrong in those relationships, but it wasn’t a non-factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 09:13 PM
3

Neurotic obsession, I guess…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 09:07 PM
2

I know that this wasn’t your point, but stop dating Disney chicks, it’s definitely part of your problem. And that’s coming from someone who’s entire childhood is now released every Thursday night in one hour instalments. Disney chicks are the absolute worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 09:00 PM
3

Come off it; are you out here trying to wife up widows and divorcees with 20 years under their belt? No, you are not. Someone with a few year long relationships knows how to keep that first year going, and with some cooperation can easily figure out the next year as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:54 PM
5

Not that annectdotes prove anything, but the prime-fuckboi-bartender/local-rock-star in my social circle has expressed some genuine regrets about how all the pussy has not resulted in anyone loving him long term. I expressed sympathy bc he seemed like he was having a moment, but I’m actually still pretty jealous of his savoire faire. Maybe I should feel sorry for him, but I don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:43 PM
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I am getting a little sick and tired of this “dudes cannot bear to be compared to exes” bullshit. no one likes being compared to exes, and women are not immune to taking this anxiety to god damned far. the more strangers a person decides to fuck, the more that person likes to fuck strangers. This is a garbage quality in a long term partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:30 PM
1

How so? They’d still have to come to terms with her past and their bias’. what the hell makes you so damned sure that the unkind comparison is the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:21 PM
3

The causative relationship is immaterial when the correlated behaviours and outcomes are negative enough; I don’t care if the stink produces the skunk or vice versa, just get them out of my garden.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 03:09 PM
1

Super man has alien technology which stands in for staffing, and besides it’s right there in the name “fortress of solitude” so right there the isolation doesn’t count, since it’s basically the theme of the lair. Exception that proves the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 03:07 PM
4

But why would I want to be with a woman who chose to sleep with that many inferior men? Any benefit you imagine to be gained by 50 favourable comparisons is undermined by the fact that it’s with a woman who chose to sleep with all of those inferior men. why would she do that? What sort of a person makes that choice? How often are the answers to those questions red flags?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 02:57 PM
5

but the corollary is also true, so how is one worse than the other? both are inexcusable behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 02:41 PM
5

Only the lucky ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:38 PM
1

Underrated comment right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:35 PM
3

The fuck makes you think the third party driver packed that bag?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:30 AM
1

Don’t worry, no one is ever going to mistake you for anyone with any sort of backbone. Everyone in your life knows that they can’t count on you for shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:25 AM
3

Eh, I’m not going to sign off on your plan to just walk away from uncomfortable conversations as being somehow brave or courageous, which it most certainly is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:03 AM
3

There is no point in telling other men not to be abusive and pump'n dump because these kind of people generally don't give a fuck about anything but themselves. don’t be a coward; tell your mates off when you think they’re being assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:40 PM
2

What about if a guy has an ex that is or I guess was a less successful OF content creator? And say a few other exes that were sex workers in mostly non-full-service contexts? seriously does a man need to be beating belle Delphine and Bhad Bhabbie off with a stick before you’ll listen to his opinion that “actually, sex work is a bit of a turn off in a longer term context.”? I do take your meaning, though; didn’t Marcus Aurelius or someone equally tedious write about how meek men aren’t really goo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:27 PM
3

Ten women in one year is not worth bragging about if you are in any sort of a ho’ phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:39 PM
1

This data is really weird, and I find it sort of wanting. Specifically the traits that you’d want in a daughter; what were the ratings for “get down from there” or “it’s bedtime sweetie, close your eyes and go to sleep.” Or even “what’s in your mouth?” on the flip side I think “is that really how you think you’re going to load the dishwasher?” Is going to wind up being a fairly common experience between the two of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:52 PM
2

Dropping off half of a large pepperoni that you purchased with your own money to the guy who is absolutely railing the woman that just left you is not an alpha move. not anywhere, under any circumstances. If thats how you move, your life will dtart improving the second you get real with yourself about who the alpha in your life is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:11 PM
1

I don’t know, I did date one of the other girls for a little after that and she didnot think they were still hooking up. As a social circle I don’t remember them being particularly freaky in any respect, just a bunch of turn of the century college girls. The consensus was that he was just a glutton for emotional punishment, but maybe he grew up to be an actual cuckold, who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 08:00 PM
0

Back in the bad old days before smart phones and jardashians, my and the lads went out on the pull and after last call we dragged a whole gaggle of college girls back to the house, plus one dude. Buddy was the recent ex of the young lady that my mate had pulled. My mate eventually entices her onto his room while I’m spitting game at the others. buddy orders pizza, which is a solid party move when you’re only sort of invited. the next morning, my mate tells me that while they were having at it bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 03:30 PM
9

Obviously that one is legit carrying a torch for you. You’ve led her right into the friend-zone; congratulations.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 02:02 PM
0

Have you ever tried pretending to be gay? Got me out of so many uncomfortable situations where women mistook my winsome dimpled smile, relaxed wit, and eye contact for flirting/a whole ass relationship in her head.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 01:59 PM
2

Because otherwise he might have to transfer to a new ward.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 01:57 PM
2

I learned a lot about life from jerry springer; where and how to place furniture, on-the-fly hairdressing tips, and how awesome Steve is, but this red pill content is just dull and that’s unforgivable. I’ll admit that the first few clips of ks telling some ratchet woman to be realistic about her options gave me a fun little blast of schadenfreude, but that was really his only move and it got old after an afternoon. Still stank up my algorithm for weeks, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 02:01 PM
1

This is how the world ends; not with a bang, but with a price rollback.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 01:49 PM
2

I checked out Kevin samuels and to a lesser degree fresh and fit; they really don’t have much to say, and the quality of any given clip depends entirely on the temerity of the poor woman that they’re belittling to her face.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 01:31 PM
3

miners, loggers, farmers, ranchers, and most tradesmen are inherently stronger than any gym rat. Fight me, or rather, fight my country ass cousins.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 01:28 PM
2

Bullshit; I can literally see what a persons relationship with their own rhythm is. I can tell how coordinated they are, how much cardio they put in, and often some clues about what they do to stay fit. I can tell how much they like the song that’s on, and it can be a body language billboard for both group and personal dynamics. you can tell how someone will fuck by watching how they dance.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 08:36 PM
1

I for one had just enough success to understand that my failures were largely my own responsibility. what’s harder by far is growing older and no longer being even that appealing, although it’s made harder by all of the other trials and tribulations of no longer being young and awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 08:28 PM
3

But how would you feel if the only thing you could do would be to have a less disappointing vagina, and everything else would just be a half-measure coping strategy?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 08:18 PM
1

Perhaps part of the problem is that I think poorly of most people. I don’t know what to tell you, I’m surrounded by assholes all day…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 08:33 PM
1

This absolutely goes two ways; do you think I’m no longer attracted to college girls? You would be mistaken to think so, but you’d be even more mistaken if you thought I was about to go and put up with college girl bullshit just to touch one again; no thank you, I’ll just hold on to my grown ass girlfriend and we’ll probably never do another jaeger bomb so long as we live.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 08:29 PM
0

Sure, but you are just agreeing with me that most women do in fact date assholes, aren’t you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 08:17 PM
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I’m not the one out here claiming that men don’t date psychos; men date and love psychos all day every day. Some men even prefer it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 08:16 PM
4

Every man you know is a beta type, and none of them have commit suicide. beta type =/= promiscuous according to most vernacular definitions offered on this sub. so do you or do you not know anyone who took their own life but was unsuccessful romantically or sexually?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:49 PM
3

I hear you, but nuance makes for annoying, subtle conversations. Fuck that shit, I came here for a flame war.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:45 PM
1

No, but not because I’m cheating on the do or because I’m upset with my partner for not trusting me (she knows too many of my exes to just trust me without ever verifying) it’s because of all the other confidential shit that I’m privy to; the second they’ve got a good baseline for my stress responses,the rest of the lights come up and here comes the lieutenant. Hard pass. now if you can amend the question so that it’s some sort of magic that only checks how faithful I am, then bring it the fuck …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:35 PM
1

You’ve got to assume that beta-sons are easier to raise; what mother has ever wished for a Goofus over a Gallant?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:26 PM
3

In real life? Only the natural limits placed on a man by his circumstances. in terms of this post? The explicit terms as stipulated by the op.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:25 PM
8

Sorry, do you actually believe that only promiscuous people commit suicide?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:10 PM
11

Not that I’ve been taking a survey, but most of the women that I’ve ever spoken with at length have at some point complained about the asshole that they dated.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:59 PM
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The main drawback of dating a woman who loves to travel is that she’s always trying to drag you halfway across the damned world whether or not you want to go. I know that doesn’t sound that bad on paper, but go ahead and try having that fight a few times; you’ll be relieved when she fucks that concierge and you can finally leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 01:48 PM
1

I think it’s really cool that you’re still talking to your stripper ex. I lost track of mine after dfs took her kid from my place, since she was only a couple weeks into her sentence at the time. I guess she’s out now?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 06:51 PM
5

Straight facts right here, and that’s coming from a guy with some embarrassing exes. the number isn’t the problem, it just indicates the problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 06:44 PM
2

Lotta dudes up in here answering this question for women…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 06:36 PM
4

Wait, bc of who’s old profession?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 06:27 PM
1

What do you mean by “lie about their values” and what sort of timeframe do you have in mind? im curious bc I don’t think it’s that terribly difficult for people in general to be dishonest in the longterm about fairly central beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 06:22 PM
3

Lots of things in the real world actually do follow 17 year olds around for the rest of their lives, and if you believe otherwise then I’d kindly request that you find my brothers missing toe and explain yourself to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 06:08 PM
2

You’ve led a charmed life, and not everyone gets to enjoy the degree of support that you’ve grown accustomed to. it is a privilege that you can even contemplate de prioritizing loyalty and thoughtfulness in your romantic goals in lieu of talking and fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 04:52 PM
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Gassed up dude-bros not taking hints are pretty bad to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 04:24 PM
2

Would that be any more or less odd than wasting this much oxygen worrying about a hypothetical group of hypothetical men and the hypothetical outcomes for their hypothetical relationships? None of us are commenting here because we are behaving rationally.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:36 PM
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The instances of paternity fraud that I’ve seen with my own eyes devastated those families in ways that they never fully recovered from and convinced me that it’s the worst possible shit you could put a man through, and that no man should ever have to deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:13 PM
1

Having disposable income is an attractive attribute in a potential partner. already being married to your job is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 07:34 PM
6

I haven’t been to New York in years but weren’t they going through a shortage of educated, earning men ever since big left for Napa?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 07:32 PM
1

Tammy, Audrey, lance, kourtney, Sean, eddy, Sara, corrine, her fathers brother that they don’t talk to since ‘81 is either Kurt or cris, her moms cousins that she doesn’t even know, and she’s the god mother of Sybil, and other Sean. what I have trouble remembering is the names of all of her colleagues and their spouses, but I muddle along. DOB redacted, but I’m planning on taking her to Banff, which is her #2 vacation spot. Her kinks are fairly specific, and we joke about how she’s going to make…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 07:09 PM
1

Yes, but not constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:51 PM
1

Maybe, things are a mess right now and they look like they’re fixin‘ to get even worse before anything gets better, but in the longer term the USA enjoys some advantages. - demographically; there are more American millennials, most of the other countries had a much more severe baby bust. - agriculturally; the Great Plains catch moisture from the Gulf of Mexico and from the jet-stream and will hopefully prove more resistant to drought than the rest of the entire world. -strategically; there will …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:48 PM
1

My baby boomer mother was a closeted lesbian, so…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:36 PM
2

though both come with risks and drawbacks, a drug dealer has more and better opportunities to advance their career than a sex worker: a drug dealer can move up the food chain and become a boss, can go into importing and exporting, and branch out into other crimes using more or less the same tools. im not sure what sort of advancement is possible in a sex work career. More and better clients, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:20 PM
1

And sometimes the causal relationship is immaterial.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:15 PM
1

I take pity on Shakespearean tragedies. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aTto5j32B-0
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:11 PM
1

That’s just, like, your opinion, man…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 03:58 PM
1

Therapists try to offer a better payout than most houses; you can shop around for your favourite pit, but they’re all trying to screw you out of your money. When you shop around for a therapist, you can find one that actually tries to help you get better and choose them over the one who would prefer to keep you on the line until one of you retires. also you’re gonna drop thousands on therapy before it helps you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 03:55 PM
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I hear where your coming from, since the vector of infection seems to be so explicitly homoerotic. the problem is that the monkey pox won’t stay there, eventually slutty bi sexual dudes are gonna give it to straight women, and when they do too many bros are gonna not take it seriously enough because it’s gay. That’s why I don’t bag on monkeypox as a gay disease, even though as diseases go monkey pox is big into musical theatre. also; be careful flying until this is handled, I’ve heard airline st…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 03:51 PM
3

Feel bad for him to; he will eventually wind up with some hotties, but at least one of them will make him miss op something fierce.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 03:40 PM
2

I think our boy casts a bit of a wide net; I don’t think I’m unique in not being slavishly devoted to a singular “type” of woman, and find myself interested in various sorts. he’s still largely correct that a woman I’m just not attracted to will probably never endear herself to me romantically no matter how ideally she behaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 03:32 PM
2

Don’t blame me; I voted for Kodos.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 03:27 PM
2

Pussy is for closers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 10:13 PM
1

K, but that is still what you’re into though, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 10:11 PM
2

Do you mean to say that dudes you thought of as decent guys never pull some fuckboy shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 06:26 PM
2

that’s why I‘d always listen to Alec baldwins Oscar award winning performance from glengarry glenn Ross before i went on a first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 06:06 PM
1

Well then what am I supposed to watch while I masturbate? The fucking View?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 12:50 AM
1

Why do I find this so fucking funny?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 12:47 AM
2

Are you telling me that once a man has convinced a woman to enter into an exclusive relationship with him, that she then has no further commitment or obligations to keep him satisfied and committed to that relationship, yes or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 05:51 PM
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the rest of the relationship has to be somewhere in between “pretty sweet” to “absolutely fucking amazing” in order to make up for that discrepancy, and OOP never would have posted if it were loving a woman doesn’t automatically fix every slight between the two of you, and I thought I was being quite explicit about how I was asking for a direct comparison on the two different courtships, not your opinion on which relationship was preferable overall. Three straight months of pitching woo at a wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:13 AM
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I beg your pardon madam, but you’re the one out here laughing out loud at the idea that someone might like to do their level best to satisfy their partner. You’re the one out here accusing me of making up this idea, when I can assure you that I am very much not the first person to think of actually addressing and attempting to fulfill my partners sexual desires as a thing that one might take personal responsibility for. Even if group sex is no longer on the menu, twelve entire weeks of just hold…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:01 AM
2

Yeah, you get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 11:47 PM
5

The literal definition of the term is to con someone into believing that they are crazy. Then we stretched it to also refer to conning someone into thinking that they’re mistaken when they’ve actually got the right of it. That’s not gaslighting, that’s just a con game. eventually we stretched it to describe just telling someone that they’re wrong and that they’re reasons and ideas are garbage. That’s not gaslighting, that’s just thanksgiving dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 09:27 PM
2

No, if she wants to stay in a relationship with that guy, and we’ll never know unfortunately, then convincing him to be ok with it is a HER problem. Why should it be on him to automatically accept that 12 weeks of holding hands was better than one game of beer pong and also banging her friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 09:21 PM
2

To whatever degree a comment frames his genuine emotional response as somehow disordered it does, but to the various degrees that OOP is dismissed as merely wrong it does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 09:15 PM
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The rule is that if you make a motherfucker wait twelve entire weeks before getting down with him, and then he finds out that he’s the only one who had to do that shit, then you’re the one responsible for convincing him to be ok with it. if you’re not willing to convince him in whatever love language the two of you speak that it was fucking worth it to wait for fucking, then date a different dude because you don’t care about that dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 09:08 PM
2

All true, but finding out that you’re the only one being held to a higher standard with worse treatment is a shit sandwich, and if it doesn’t get served with a nice hot side of fantastic treatment, then there isn’t necessarily any reason *not* to choke on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 08:26 PM
2

Ending a life isn’t the same as disrespecting it, and not every future needs to be lived out. using an axe is a bit much, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 08:06 PM
4

If that’s what it was supposed to be, then it was always a fucking gamble, and OOP would still not have been offside for failing to connect the dots between 4 weeks first kiss…12 first shag…let’s fuck my friend from college. OOP definitely should have gone for the threesome then and there, or maybe 2 bottles of persecco later, but it’s not his fault that he didn’t pick up on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 08:00 PM
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hold on a minute; are you out here telling me that you fuck the people that you don’t care about better than you fuck the people that you do care about? are you doing this on purpose as a deliberate strategy, or is that more of a customary state of affairs thing? because that’s just crazy talk to me; why in the world would you phone it in when you’re fucking someone that you want to stay in a relationship with? Please explain to me how that’s supposed to make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:00 PM
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Beg your pardon, but who got married in the OOP? the original posters problem wasn’t that she loved the frat boy more, it’s that she fucked him better. You’re supposed to fuck the person you love the best, and in light of recent revelations he is reconsidering how he feels about his relationship. the reason is that she is demonstrably unwilling to fuck him properly; I can see choosing to be with someone who *can’t* fuck you properly, but why on earth should he want to be with someone who *won’t*…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 06:32 PM
1

I’m not the sort of man to slag a tight 7/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 10:58 PM
1

That’s kind of funny, bc I remember meeting some bucktoothed yob who insisted that all the Pakistanis in London were cousins.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 08:10 PM
1

Yeah, that sounds about right; i Never said my mate was classy…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 08:07 PM
1

And some of the women I’m describing were actually first or even second generation. If you took my meaning, but are still choosing to get butthurt over my casual phrasing then there really isn’t anything that I can say that will help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:44 PM
0

Are you fucking kidding me? Oh, him and I are going to have words over this…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:36 PM
8

Where in London are all these white women who look better than Emma Watson? I visited a mate who had a flat in Croydon back in ‘18, and hands down the prettiest girls I saw were immigrants.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:40 PM
18

The worst apparatus-anxiety that I ever got was from dating a cam-girl who’s toys made me doubt the size of my fist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 01:41 PM
1

That’s pretty much me but attached with one kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 04:35 AM
1

Get off my lawn.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 01:49 AM
6

For men; you need to be publicly and visibly awesome. Clean up a billiards table, shred a sick guitar solo, grind a gnarly rail, catch a huge fish, beat someone bigger than you are to within an inch of their life, just do it where people will talk about it. owning impressively nice things will do in a pinch, but there simply isn’t any substitute for actually being awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 05:15 PM
1

Here’s a question that could use an answer: how different is the behaviour of premium subscribing women from non-premium subscribers? Are the vast majority of non subscribers out here snatching up all the short kings, or are they swiping on guys who match the parameters that they didn’t bother to set?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 07:59 PM
3

After years of trying to date younger women, I settled down with someone my age, and I just love be being able to use simpsons quotes in daily conversations. It’s just a fun little inside joke we share that doesn’t hurt anyone, unless the inside joke started hurting people, which it almost certainly would.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:58 PM
2

I have but one issue with what you’ve said; all the effort that goes into ducking a lot of women is the opposite of poor impulse control, it’s the dedication to an agenda. that’s just as bad if not worse, but it is exactly not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:13 PM
2

i could loudly and repeatedly insist that you sing “elephants have wrinkles” to me, if you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 07:04 PM
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Yes, but when I say that, I don’t mean it figuratively, I mean that I want to haul anchor and set sail for new lands to pillage and colonize.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 06:58 PM
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I’ve got a couch full of goldfish crackers, a terrified dog, and ”indoor rocks” in my living room that need tending too if you’re really going through it…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 06:46 PM
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It’s bullshit; it’s snap judgements based on preconceived bias and momentary whims. I’ve met lots of trashy looking people that turned out to be rocksteady, and lots of impeccably appointed upstanding citizens who were right proper cunts. that being said, always check their teeth and veins.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 05:15 PM
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I think some men decide which box a woman belongs in, but aside from obvious outliers, I cant think of any particularly compelling reason to believe that they’re much good at telling the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 05:12 PM
1

I’ve turned beneficial friends into girlfriends before.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 05:07 PM
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Because fun women without domestic or maternal instincts make for great honeymoons and garbage relationships; a lack of house training makes for an uneven chore load, a deficit of mothering can contribute to an emotional disconnect, and your definition of “fun” may or may not be disruptive in the long term. are there guys who will sign up for this? Sure, but not all of the men, and they won’t all be into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 04:57 PM
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Sorry, do you think we feel great when we find out that the woman we’re dating is an awful, manipulative liar, or do you believe that this challenge is specific to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 04:43 PM
1

that just makes it hotter…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 11:45 PM
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Didn’t the party of the higher social or educational class lower their standards, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 11:43 PM
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Citation Needed
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 11:40 PM
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That Is Slander, And I Will Not Stand For It, Sir or Madam!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 11:36 PM
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how long is it supposed to take to gain an appropriate degree of comfort with someone? I’ve learned that people have different thresholds for tolerating risks, but my assessment of someone’s degree of comfort is inextricably biased by my own; if I’m comfortable with you after ~12hours of face to face flirting, and you aren’t after ~48 hours of face to face flirting, then that’s 36 hours of my thinking you’re good enough and you thinking I’m not. Eventually, that discrepancy will feel indistingui…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 11:28 PM
1

perhaps you were joking when you wrote this, but this legit happened to me 8-9 years ago. what is you prejudice against murderers?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 10:03 PM
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That’s just it; I’m talking about women who by and large claimed to be into it but the effort just wasn’t there on their part. Maybe you’re a fantastic, engaging date and your game is amazing, but there are other women who seem to think that wearing a cute outfit and laughing at a mans jokes is the sum total of what could possibly be asked of her. Rarely is that ever enough. and I’m not just talking about the women that I’d ghost, I’m also talking about the ones who were pretty and put out when …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:58 AM
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I AINT GOT NO TREE FIDDY!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:25 AM
1

Like some sort of environment where you can evaluate their table manners, how they treat service staff, their palette, and their conversational wit?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:20 AM
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Depending on the meal, and how much you dislike the person, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:07 AM
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And mine is that this effort hasn’t generally been as mutual as you say it ought to be. i remain convinced that the impetus to begin a relationship stems primarily from the efforts of the pursuer. I believe that the intended generally assumes a more passive role, receiving more attention and affection than they give. and finally, I think that this dynamic is bullshit, and it was my primary motivation for being one of those “3 dates or cut bait” choads in my youth: aint nobody got time for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:01 AM
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I cannot help but notice that while you extoll the virtues of mutual effort, you only offer examples of his affections.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:52 AM
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Yes, that would be an appropriate time to pitch woo at someone you’d like to be in a relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:32 AM
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And I’m telling you that it’s a distinction without a difference: if there are increased risks associated with with a variable, the casual relationship is immaterial.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:31 AM
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I’m not sure that I take your meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:24 AM
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Your answer is both specific and vague at the same time, but at least you seem to be suggesting some degree of intentional effort, so I guess that’s something.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:05 AM
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But what are you going to say when someone plays the reverse-uno card? Why would any man want to be in any relationship for no reason, with a woman that isn’t “wooing” him or making him feel special? Why is it literally the point of a relationship for a man to cater to your whims, but not the corollary?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 11:58 PM
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This is the comment I came here for. And I don’t mean “here” as in this thread, today, I mean “here” as in this fucking sub: TOO MANY women seem to believe that showing up in a cute outfit and laughing at my jokes is enough, and if you’re just there for a free meal, it absolutely is. If you’re interested in more, well then so am I, but if I’m the only one putting in any damned effort on these dates, then I’m just going to ghost you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 11:53 PM
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Yes; that is exactly what I meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 11:47 PM
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Yknow, people deciding on whether you‘ve invoked the plural or the singular second person based entirely on whether or not they’ve got an actual response to your point is hands down one of the worst tropes on ppd. worst in terms of both ubiquity and rhetorical dishonesty. please offer your partner our sympathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 11:42 PM
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What patently awful advice: the only advantage to making mistakes is to learn from them. Having regrets is the learning process.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 11:32 PM
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So what are your moves when you’re trying to woo someone fine?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 11:26 PM
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Or you could put some effort towards seducing the guys that you want to get with and not expect them to make all the moves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 11:08 PM
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I like actually seducing women. Wooing them without getting anywhere is the actual worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 11:04 PM
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I’ve dated people that I met for hook ups, so the difference isn’t as stark as you may like.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 11:03 PM
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so, if there is a necessary correlation between correlation and causation, then suggesting that two concurrent phenomena occur in some manner of association with one another is not, in fact, a misrepresentation of any statistic, is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 11:00 PM
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And if you met the worst of them, you’d understand. sometimes shame is a thoroughly appropriate response.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:58 PM
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By actually trying to woo him, thank you for asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:46 PM
3

How often and undeniably to you click with men that don’t impress you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:44 PM
3

How often does causation occur without correlation?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:42 PM
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Disagree, and I’ve dated a neo nazi, an alleged murderer, and an assortment of drug addicts, so I’d know.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:40 PM
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And your disappointment isn’t theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:34 PM
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Or you could try demonstrating your more worthwhile characteristics and trying to impress him with your wit and achievements.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:28 PM
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What if you get to know them as a person, and you find them underwhelming? Are you still going to proceed with the relationship? You aren’t just trying to get to know them, you are evaluating them, you are judging them, and therefor whatever he says has to impress you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:26 PM
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Hot much effort do you expend on a 90 min walk in the park with a guy that you just gave your number to? How much pressure are you under to make sure that you say the exact right thing to get him to react in the exact right way? The dates that you’re thinking of are nicer for you than they are for him, and over time it can become an unreasonable imposition.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:17 PM
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“Omega Huxley” was my stage name in my early, short lived career as a porn star.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:48 PM
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Is this what happened to you in your twenties? Because in mine I tried to date the wifey material girls as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:44 PM
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Does it not then follow that they never lose attraction for the men that didn’t stick around that long?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:42 PM
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The difference is that eventually I come to want my short term partner o fuck off, but I never really come to that point with my long term partner. That’s it, that’s the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:23 PM
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Is every marriage inherently happy, stable, and fulfilling, or do you sort of have to figure it out in the mix with whatever partner you’ve chosen?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:08 PM
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Yeah, that’s not a big deal just walking about town and going about your day, but in your relationship? If a dude wouldn’t even talk to you unless you were made up, that’d be a problem, wouldn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:58 PM
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And who says “romance is dead”…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:45 PM
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Don’t you think that sleeping with hot garbage people reflects poorly on the people who sleep with hot garbage?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:16 PM
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Who care which way the causation runs? The correlation is already an adverse indication in a situation that can cost you half of everything. I date promiscuous women all day, everyday, but this counter argument is garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:13 PM
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Do you believe that shorter term, less intimate relationships are inherently worse treatment than longer term, committed relationships, yes or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:56 PM
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Sleeping with me is an uncommon enough trait among women that I can’t really address that question in any meaningful way, but as a quick gut-check I’d say it is an uncommon hazard of casual sex; some of the people who will fuck you without commitment are crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:05 PM
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Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:02 PM
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Or perhaps because to be included within that selectivity is to literally have sex, which is a worthwhile goal in and of itself to most men. this is also a bit of a vetting process for men looking to lock down a longer term relationship: we don’t want to spend too much time, attention, effort, or affection on women who would prefer to fuck someone else, and we don’t always agree that a slowly stoked sexual connection is inherently better.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:05 AM
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Yes and no; I do think there is a comparison to be drawn between non-famous professionals and non-famous, really attractive, SAH-spouses. Trophy wives. There are ambitious, professional wives of famous men, but i don’t know how many trophy husbands there are out there. I think theres a not-minor distinction between celebrity spouses who can earn their own way and groupies with marriage licenses, and I also think that one is more and one is less.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:45 AM
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It’s your steadfast insistence that motherfuckers are all out here pulling that specific lie to try and fuck past the age of 20 or so. the high-socio-sexual demographic cohort that Ive spent most of my adult life in doesnt really pull that shit, but we do get into physical relationships and then think better of it All Day Long. that leads me to the conclusion that the people in your life must be very immature to have imparted such an impression.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:36 AM
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Actually getting into a committed relationship is awesome. spending an indeterminate period of time trying to convince a woman that you are a worthwhile candidate for a long term relationship for her to decide that you aren’t is the actual worst. meeting a nice lady and getting down without exchanging numbers can be a hell of a lot of fun, but it’s not as good as sleeping with someone for a couple of months before calling it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:22 AM
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If sex is such a victory for a lady then why would she exercise any discretion at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:11 AM
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The way she treats her ex husband in her on stage material is a fucking disgrace, and I have so much pity for that man. ali Wong demonstrates a lot of shit that I wouldn’t fucking tolerate for a minute.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:07 AM
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That’s wonderful, good for you, but op was explicitly about women who have casual sex and then string the guys they actually like along for awhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:56 AM
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If I can be candid, I would say that losing interest after the beginning of a relationship is more common than just straight up leading a poor girl on. At least past high school. wait, are you still in high school? if so, this sub might not be for you until college.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:47 AM
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Right over here: women with whom I was *explicitly* casual have accused me of “catching feels” and “showing intimacy” and “leading her on” after a couple nights of exactly that; being too drunk to drive home and snuggling till I sober up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:43 AM
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I’d say butt-stuff also counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:34 AM
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I refuse to engage in connections that are bereft of attraction, especially when there was plenty of attraction for some other dude. Just go be with that dude and stop stringing other guys along, it’s manipulative and gross
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:04 AM
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Sorry, are you being exclusive with them while sleeping with someone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:26 AM
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I’ve found that in cases such as this, I’m usually sticking around for the sexual encounter to see if our naked chemistry can salvage an otherwise dud of a connection. maybe that behaviour wasn’t great, but the sex was often good enough to keep trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:20 AM
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Just because a lady is willing to engage in some casual sex, doesn’t mean that she’s willing to engage in it with everyone; I thought that that was the point of this op.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:09 AM
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What a patently cruel thing to do to a woman. Please don’t ever do that to a woman who’s going out on a limb and taking her clothes of in front of you for the first time. Just terrible behaviour. What on earth would possess you to do something so callous and hurtful?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 11:58 PM
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I can’t speak as to any clinical compulsion on their part, but these are guys who generally fuck the women that they want to fuck, and they aren’t generally to picky when their partnered up. and I have laid people to rest who died cold and alone. one of them even deserved it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:47 PM
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everything else being equal 9/10: Gay Man Shooting His Shot > Straight Woman Shooting Her Shot even accounting for the uncomfortableness of having my heterosexuality challenged in public, some of the guys who have tried to get with me had game. Straight up, I could see how that was supposed to work, and other times I bet it has. some of the women who have tried to get me to take them home we’re just fucking catastrophes. Not that I was always against that, per se, because I didn’t always exercis…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 02:51 AM
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At the end of a bottle of Oban 18 yr, one of the guys I really look up to, as in he’s fucked everyone he’s wanted to fuck since he was 14, did express some regret that his marriage failed. Not missing his ex wife so much, not personally anyways, but missing the being married part. he was cheating on her, and she was the one putting in all the work, so no shit he missed that set up. the other guy who gets those sorts of results is ostensibly a good dude who is in and out of [unfaithful] longterm …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 02:30 AM
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Yes, but it’s not like she was a foul beast or something, I just met some girls and the big one with the funny jokes and the mullet was actually the hottest.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 04:08 PM
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K, well keep at it bc eventually you’ll pull a freak, and thats when the steamy-letter-to-penthouse shit happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 04:02 PM
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ok, now we’re moving away from the op to define some broader points here: was he a good man up until that terrible day, or was he always a piece of shit and that was just the day that you found out? honest to god, i am not trying to hold you responsible for that human garbage or what he done to you. But I never loved that human garbage, I don’t have to reckon with that fallout. That isn’t an outright denouncement, but obviously I don’t think it was good of you to love that human garbage. also, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 11:45 PM
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Why on earth would anyone go and do a thing like that? If you actually had anything to say, you wouldn’t have used a you gi oh reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 11:30 PM
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Great response, let me ask you this; is it in any way a good thing that you didn’t notice the danger and were unable to defend yourself? You aren’t responsible for his trespass’ but you are still the one who spent 7 months loving on him. You spent seven whole months loving on a piece of shit rapist. That doesn’t make you a piece of shit rapist, it doesn’t make you responsible for the piece of shit rapist (although you ought to put a bullet to him,) but for good or ill, you are the woman who spen…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 11:09 PM
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For so long, I thought that term meant menopause; after which no woman will provide a child to a new husband. Then I thought it merely referred to menopause, as in approaching the point at which a woman would provide no further children to her husband. Now, apparently it’s the summer after finishing her undergrad degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 10:54 PM
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…I know all of those words, but that sentence doesn’t make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 10:47 PM
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You do realize that this is a thread talking about heterosexual relationships, right? The homosexual community plays by their own rules, we literally don’t fuck with them like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 10:45 PM
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Because she might not let you wear a rubber, and you will Definitely be on the hook for child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 09:55 PM
1

Wait, are you cruising for chicks at an all men camping retreat?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 09:52 PM
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Yeah but have you ever soaked one of these women? its bullshit…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 09:51 PM
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Two things: confident, domineering people aren’t inherently good or bad, but they inevitably upset anyone who isn’t in lock step with their agenda. and secondly mild, submissive people aren’t inherently good or bad, but they lack the capacity to really inflict much harm in and of themselves, so we tend not to notice when they’re rotten.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:33 PM
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Which parts of polite society still fuck with heard or Depp. Do you have any idea how much money that man is paying his pr team these days? When was the last time you saw him not at trial or not doing captain Jack for make a wish? neither of them can get the kind of gig that they used to pull. but I was really talking more in the context of ones suitability for a serious romantic relationship. Like if I met Winona, id definitely sneak in some side eye like “you couldn’t tell what a piece of shit…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:42 PM
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so you’re out here telling me that if you took a date downtown, and you walked by a beggar on the street with 4 visible clinical conditions and a swastika tattoo on their neck and you’re date said “wow, I can’t believe that I banged that guy last year.” You would not have any questions about that? no ”they make me horny right now, let’s smash” is not a decision that gets an immediate pass. That’s the entire premise behind incest porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 02:49 PM
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That’s a worst case scenario. Well, that or taking out a mortgage with them…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 02:36 PM
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Sorry, which party is or is not deceiving/coercing? which party is likely codependent, naive, or themselves shitty? which party has some degree of responsibility that may or may not be hand waved one way or the other? and finally, who’s assuming what in the which now?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 04:22 AM
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Depending on the situation, I could learn to live with “that was during my dark second act, but I’ve completed my redemption arc and I’m good to go.”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 04:18 AM
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Yeah deficiencies in either intelligence or moral fibre are exactly the sort of thing that I’m talking about. Either one is bad. If you can’t smell trouble coming, or you won’t turn away, then you’re a worse partner than someone who can and will. also, I never stated that that person was themselves shitty, I just suggested that I’m critical of a particular series of decisions that she made. She could otherwise be a very lovely person, do you have a link to that interview so that I could judge fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 04:15 AM
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And subjective terms are ultimately a matter of personal discretion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 04:07 AM
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And ordinary people who are finally making it work. every other date is garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 10:26 PM
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Only if it’s a fucking disaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 02:11 AM
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Were all of the men in these relationships “sought after” by their counterparts, or did they have to go and do the seeking?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:15 PM
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That’s not your call to make; they react to most of us the way you react to that big gay biker because thats how dangerous most men are to most women, only they have to guess which of us actual are. also, just because you know that gays are awesome dudes, doesn’t mean that half of American men aren’t deathly afraid of being associated with queer spaces and the people within them, and that’s clearly who we were talking about in the first place. stop being obtuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:14 PM
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It’s so nice to see someone actually acknowledge that there can be drawbacks to commitment: too often when we talk about the hot-casual/full-package-commitment dynamic, we blow straight past the fact that being in a relationship takes effort and occasional sacrifice that a short term hook up does not, and that a lot of men are socialized to downplay the benefits of a long term committed relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:07 PM
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Holy shit who does this? If the discussion turns racy I mention something from high school, and stress that it was [redacted] years ago. its like a conversational dick pic: only bust it out when she’s asking for it specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:49 PM
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Generally more attractive with an allotment for people who are “ugly-hot”, especially rock musicians who aren’t actually pretty like Meg white or Karen O.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:44 PM
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K, now imagine that big burly bear with rainbow %1 patches and a bottom rocker on his cuts decided that he doesn’t have to buy you drinks because he already told you you’ve got a pretty mouth. Does that also sound like fun?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:10 AM
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Do you believe that the way that you treat your devoted long term partner is always inherently better in every way to how you treat your casual short term hook up, yes or no? Do you believe that the way that women in general treat their devoted, long term partners is always inherently better in every way to how women in general treat their casual, short term hook ups, yes or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 02:24 AM
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I think that guys without rock steady self esteem will also decline to shoot their shot with really pretty women when they’re sober enough to look for a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 02:12 AM
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How often are those dudes significantly bigger than you are and how often do they get pissy with your answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 01:28 AM
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I don’t know, I’ve tried to overlook a lack of attraction with an otherwise ideal lady before. One of us has been married for like 7 years now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 01:16 AM
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The record will show that I generally choose to hit on unavailable women, or at least tactful women who don’t like me back.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 01:11 AM
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I’ve always found that 2 or 3 sexual partners is best; any more and you’re really just too busy to enjoy yourself. 4 for a special occasion but otherwise I don’t really think men want as many sexual partners as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 01:09 AM
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What if we defined ”average“ as “the guys that aren’t sought after by really any women to speak of” and we define “above average” as “the guys that are sought after by women”?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 09:36 PM
1

how crazy was she? Could/would she have faked a wedding on Instagram?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 04:54 PM
1

It’s the fucking worst; that woman doesn’t deserve my sympathy. her troubles should be a celebration to me, and I really wish that I could enjoy them as such but instead I just feel bad for this person that I refuse to help bc she’s already taken so much from me. and it’s gonna kill her, eventually, so I’ve got that to look forward to…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 04:52 PM
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You want to be the hook up guy until your’re non-exclusive with a woman that you’d prefer to take to have and to hold, then enlisting sounds like a good idea bc burning fallujah to the ground without evacuating any civilians first sounds better than talking to anyone that’s ever met her. one way or the other, we all wind up with regrets, just try to make the unforgivable mistakes that you can live with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:39 PM
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Oh, well then there’s the problem: the women these guys are complaining about are not making them feel as though they are aroused by their men. And then you‘re telling them that they’re feelings are invalid and they don’t deserve to express their concerns. also, don’t you dare complain when you wind up the resentful stepmother to the son of a man who made you feel that he’s aroused by you even though you know he prefers to fuck other women. Good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 07:24 PM
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So if your man prefers to shag other women, then obviously there’s no reason for you to ever have concerns about his “loyalty” so long as he can afford to be your husband. got it. also, you are misreading my concerns: my lady married young and lost her man to COVID. She watched me spend my 20s being the biggest fuckboi I could be. Sometimes the numbers on the scale make her feel shitty about herself, and while I thought that I could fix that problem with my penis, it turns out I actually had to …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 06:49 PM
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This only just occurred to me, but “fuck it” is absolutely the correct answer to whether or not something is awesome enough to risk death over, at least if that thing is actually going to be awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 06:39 PM
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this is leading us right back to “the comparison.” she isn’t getting fucked the way that she wants, and the comparison between how she wants to get fucked and how she is actually getting fucked is exacerbating a problem in her relationship. seriously, if you’re man said that shit to you, would you call up his ex and ask her to teach you how she was his favourite shag or would you feel really, really unwanted? are you legitimately trying to convince me that we should all of us be perfectly conten…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 06:07 PM
1

i like to imagine that the guys who bitch about it the loudest were at some point betrayed, bc then at least then there’s a tangible root to their neuroses.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 05:49 PM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=whxbQkJuqAE we watched this last night, and while she’s funnier than all of my friends put together, this is some shit that I’ve heard of over the years. Congratulations if you and yours don’t ever think like this. enough other women do that guys do need to think about it, even if some dudes obsess over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 05:32 PM
1

No, i get that, but when I have to do something dangerous i am committing to succeeding regardless, so I was already going to do everything that I could have done to affect the outcome and whatever is going to happen is going to happen. The part we learn to consider is whether or not we’ll survive failing. it might seem silly to you, but every single time you’ve seen someone do something awesome, this calculation factored into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 05:28 PM
1

See, where I come from wives typically leave when their husbands have children without them before the child is even born. and while I will admit that I grew up in a trashy neighbourhood, I’ve seen several men find out one of their kids isn’t theirs. I know which I’d rather my family went through. I can’t dig up the research, but men and women evaluate risk differently; women judge the likelihood of an adverse outcome and assume that such results are in advisable, while men judge the severity of…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 05:15 PM
1

Hey man, I’m not here to judge how y’all get your rocks off, just play safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 05:05 PM
1

First of all, 20 years ago cars were comparatively easy to steal, and the back seat of a stolen Oldsmobile can be a surprisingly romantic environment for convincing a young lady that Jesus is ok with mouth stuff. look, I had formative childhood crushes to, and i remember them fondly even if i don’t remember them well, but all of them together don’t matter to me nearly as much as the girl who gave me a pregnancy scare at age 15, and I don’t even remember that girls last name.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 04:46 PM
1

Ok, but what if the dichotomy was between decent sex with your partner, and decent sex with your partner while they’re definetly shutting they’re eyes and fantasying about a brilliant shag that they had with someone that you should definitely be jealous of?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 04:37 PM
1

do you think that would be better or worse than being tricked up into raising a child that isn’t yours as your own? Keep in mind that any blissful ignorance lives on borrowed time and destroys the entire family when the truth comes to light.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 04:33 PM
1

You‘re out here trying to convince me that her relationship was doomed no matter what bc she married a dud. and im telling you that her marriage benefitted, however briefly, from her not having a point of comparison. ultimately we arrive at your point that marrying a disappointing man while young is still a disappointment. and if the question was about “comparison” then being able to compare a lacklustre relationship with an idealized past relationship can and does undermine future relationships…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 04:28 PM
1

Unless I’m actually the sex-bot. How would I know?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 04:19 PM
2

I don’t really know how things play out between young women, but if that boy wanted to get with you, then it was his responsibility to get with you. I’m going out on a limb to assume that he and I were both socialized to take responsibility for courtship and getting into our relationships. If those relationships failed to occur as we wanted them to, then that was due to our own shortcomings. I bet good cash money that if you were to track him down, he’d only remember you as a dream of what could…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 04:17 PM
1

No, there’s a third, terrifying scenario; what if My sex-bot ordered the fabrication and delivery of Her sex-bot?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 04:06 PM
2

Beg pardon, who did the Mormon girl not have a crush on? Is she supposed to have been happier in her marriage if she’d had her back blown out by Harry styles at her bachelorette? (I know this Mormon grew up sheltered from pop-culture, but you’re lying to yourself if you think one direction is what makes him so sexy…)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 04:04 PM
10

Takes one to know one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:40 PM
1

But what if that’s not my girlfriend, what if she’s already been replaced by a sex-bot?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:39 PM
2

The memories of the fantastic women that I never got anywhere with don’t bother me nearly as much as the memories of the fantastic women that I got to be with and will never lay eyes on ever again. by and large we do not care who you used to have a crush on. Should we?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:36 PM
1

You’re right; that thing shouldn’t just appear in my home. So then who ordered my identical twin? you can see why the prospect is so nerve-wracking…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:26 PM
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K, but how many women do you know who have been tricked into raising another woman’s child?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:13 PM
3

You do realize that the point of ppd is to contain the choads here online so that they cant bother us in real life, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:04 PM
75

Op, please do not date your father, brothers, or cousins, no matter how hard up it gets out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:01 PM
3

First of all, we absolutely do wind up as alpha-widowers; anyone who is hung up on “the one who got away” is the widow to that alpha. My formative high school relationship was with a fantastic girl, and the women I dated in college suffered but for a lack of being her. second of all, and I suspect that this is true of other men, the women who I loved from afar absolutely do Not feature prominently among the memories of my fondest loves; I remember them as my greatest failures. That I never manag…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:48 PM
2

Yes; we have safe words for just in case there’s ever a confrontation where there are two of me and she‘s not sure which one of us to shoot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:35 PM
1

You’ve got to assume that taking advantage of a young woman’s naïveté is part of the program, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:27 PM
1

No, but this anxiety is also closely tied to a gross misunderstanding of the term “imposter syndrome” so….
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:16 PM
1

I’m afraid of a sex-bot replacing me; walking around my house, wearing my clothes while I’m trapped in suspended animation at an undisclosed location, my loved ones having no idea…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:04 PM
0

Ok, but if your world view requires you to consider a relationship with someone who detests you, would you rather it be one of your earlier relationships, or your permanent relationship with the last person that you choose? the conclusion is just as stupid, but there is a syllogistic consistency to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:57 PM
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do you realize that you can play the field and vet the women that you date without being a prick and trying to somehow get one over them with your penis? You can do these things and still treat women well, and with some discretion and tact you don’t catch very much criticism at all. You’re not catching heat because what you’re saying is so egregious, you’re catching heat because you’re stirring the pot. Good thing you’re not a role model to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:39 AM
2

No, I’ve deliberately misrepresented my interest in a longer term commitment in order to encourage several women to sleep with me sooner rather than later in the past. I did it by letting the woman fill in the blanks and saying somewhat vague things. Tricking someone into believing that something false is true is lying, even if you avoid affirming the falsehood out loud. eg. several times I have quoted scripture to imply that I was a god-fearing man. I never disclosed that I left the church when…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:11 PM
1

I mean, I’ve definitely done it repeatedly in the past. it even worked a few times. also, balance that against the times that I tried to see the best in her and make it work and still wound up nope-ing out of there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:01 PM
1

The thing is that they’re not all that different; I wasn’t blackout wasted for each of these forgotten liasons, I just didn’t care enough about them to remember. Plus some of them I was too blackout wasted to remember. but most definitely if this topic somehow comes up and she’s dodging the question, its because the answer won’t be what you wanted to hear; those of us who aren’t so clear on the number can at least offer a meaningful ballpark unless the numbers just all the way up there
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 12:17 AM
1

Nah dude, when people start "forgetting" sex partners, they're just fucking LYING to you. Ain't no one forgot someone they had sex with, get the fuck outta here. nope; i had a full-disclosure conversation when I started seeing my lady, we‘d known each other for years, so she knew what I was like and wanted an honest accounting, so that’s what I gave her. plus an additional month or so of just out of the blue remembering other encounters that just straight up slipped my mind after the decades of …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 07:57 PM
2

I couldn’t name 70 people that I had personally met fully dressed without writing the list out to make sure that I wasn’t doubling up on anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 07:25 PM
2

And we keep telling you that we don’t want to date them…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 07:19 PM
3

make a day of it, literally just bang them all out in one go.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 06:59 PM
7

Are beautiful women friendlier, or do we just appreciate friendliness from beautiful women more?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 06:34 PM
1

the primary on this is named after a character from the wire, so all I could think was “oh my god; I’m turning into McNulty.”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 06:29 PM
0

Dating is fucking fantastic with someone who’s really fine; not just good looking but also charming and decent. Datings a fucking grind when they’re kind of a drag. the only advantage that the latter has over the former is that it’s lower stakes, which can be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 02:09 AM
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the only time it actually bugs me is when I know it was someone that I don’t respect, and even then, it’s not me imagining them getting off together, it’s me criticizing her decision to get him off.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:13 PM
1

Holy shit, I probably shouldn’t mention this, but Ginny Hogan has a new book out and the excerpt she posted at NY mag is her typical middle-aged-still-single-schtick but the turd-cutters at that sub don’t seem to have noticed yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:09 PM
1

Yeah, but aren’t you though?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 09:39 PM
0

Back when I was gambling, one thing I worked real hard at was refining two different “tells”, or more accurately I practiced a fake tell and started exaggerating one of my more obvious natural tells. It helped; one guy threatened to shoot me after I took all his money on a bluff that wasn’t a bluff, but he was fine. my point is that eventually I started trying to do this in my dating life, divulging traumatic shit that was only sort of true when it was time to open up heart to heart [usually whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 08:47 PM
1

Are you comparing hot middle aged women to ugly young women? Because if so then yes, but if you’re comparing hot middle aged women to their own college aged daughters then no, because time waits for no one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 06:37 PM
2

where you at? Most middle aged people I know look middle aged, and the people who were hot in their 20’s are generally not nearly as hot in their 40’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 05:47 PM
1

The could bounce either way; is my friend trying to cockblock me but this lady is having none of it? She’s a keeper. is she just being a bitch to someone that I look out for? She’s gotta go. furthermore, as a former wingman, I understand that that role is to support your mates hookup, in this case by making yourself scarce while he’s gaining traction with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 05:32 PM
4

You know, I occasionally hear about women who married young and then need to sow wild oats, but rarely do I ever hear about men marrying young and needing the same. Especially around reddit, where all of these stories are totally %100 true. I wonder if that’s actually the case…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 03:12 PM
5

Shit, that’s probably a big part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 08:21 PM
1

Oh ok, I never thought of it like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 08:20 PM
12

I thought it fairly obvious that in this context we were talking about the skidmarks who complain that liberal women dismiss them as romantic options out of hand over their political beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 08:18 PM
1

Do you think guys ever benefit from that kind of thing? Like if a guy lucks out genetically and all his weight goes to his ______ and a bit to his ________, so it’s not so bad: where is the best place for a dude to carry his excess weight?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 08:08 PM
4

A lot of these tickets will land you a job that is comparable to being a nurse, a teacher, an insurance agent, or those first few years as a junior associate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 07:55 PM
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My entirely unsupportable theory is that these men plan on spending their twenties banging liberal bad-girls and then on their 30th bday meet the manic pixie trophy virgin of their dreams, but I can’t really explain why they get So Choked about the people who choose not to participate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 07:45 PM
1

But there is a difference: bitches out here with a wandering eye and an open tab claiming it was just the latter and not the former could be lying or it genuinely might have played out like that, not that it matters. Source: it’s me. I’m “bitches.”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 07:36 PM
2

Citation Needed
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:39 PM
2

How are women self reporting dating taller men more frequently, but all men are self reporting comparable dating frequencies? The two data points seem highly incongruous, and I suspect that the discrepancy will prove illuminating.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:38 PM
0

It’s not gay! It’s just two men celebrating each other’s strength!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 07:29 PM
3

…and when I had no free award but to give, then were you there for me: hallelujah
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 07:27 PM
1

probably not literally true, and also how often are women golfing or boating ina rainstorm vs how often are women propositioned for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:12 PM
1

Clarence is talking shit about oberfelge [sp] but are there any cases on the docket that could address Davis v. Monroe?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:11 PM
1

So youre really not that different at all then, are you? What with all these things that you refuse to change?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 09:50 PM
1

How so? You did that shit. You are still the woman who did that shit, you have not assumed some other identity. Just because you won’t admit to something doesnt mean you arent exactly the sort of person who would do that thing, and wouldn’t covering it up without any remorse whatsoever make it all the more likely that you would do that exact thing again? could you explain in your own words the process of how you came to declare that you’ve become someone entirely different now? Did something cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 09:41 PM
1

But if this man only knows this carefully manufactured presentation of someone that you claim to be, then how well could he possibly know you? how well could he possibly love you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:55 PM
4

Sometimes yes, but you clearly have never met my friend Kelsey.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 02:11 PM
1

But do you, though? then why do you refuse to disclose all the men you were willing to fuck behind his back? Why do you assert the claim that he’s in a relationship with a version of you that you present to him over the claim that he’s actually in love with you? that’s no way to treat someone that you trust. and it’s definitely no way to treat someone that you actually love.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 02:02 PM
7

Tell me you haven’t been to a tourist destination since your glow up without telling me that you haven’t been to a tourist destination since your glow up: women on vacation Fuck. Not all of them, but at least like a dozen women that I can name, or at least remember fondly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 01:55 PM
1

So then why don’t you trust him?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 01:03 AM
1

Dude, not fair, bc for a split second I thought I had a whole list of haters, and now all of my hopes are dashed. That was mean; you hurt my feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 01:01 AM
1

Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 12:57 AM
1

my nice, deep voice probably edges out my winsome, dimpled smile by a little bit, but the real trick is to say the right thing the right way at the right time with it. If I can manage all that simultaneously, apparently I’m not entirely unappealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 12:57 AM
1

You bring the motherfucking ruckus, and you move with quiet confidence in that motherfucking ruckus. its really a “do or not not; there is no “try”” situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 12:47 AM
1

ok, but what could he possibly have done while he was courting you but before you locked him down that would make you reconsider how well you know this guy and how much you can trust him?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 12:38 AM
2

You keep saying that you treat him well, and then you describe how you treat him poorly. you claim to care about this man, but then you claim that he does not deserve to be in a relationship with someone who respects him enough to be honest with him. you say that you treat him the way that he wants to be treated but what he really wanted was to get into a relationship with a loyal woman who wouldn’t lie to him. you say that his efforts to seduce you were entirely satisfactory, but the only reaso…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 10:40 PM
2

so, when you say: I have no obligation to share this information with him. We weren’t in a relationship and we weren’t exclusive. So there’s just no need for me to tell him about it. There is a line between what he can expect an explanation about and what he can’t. what you are doing with those words is justifying why you don’t feel the need to be honest or forthright with someone that you claim to care about in regards to something that you know that they care about. I’m really unclear as to ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 09:32 PM
2

If you are so madly in love with him, then why don’t you respect him enough to be honest with him? You claim that he wanted to be with a loyal woman, but you admit repeatedly that not only were you dating other men while he was trying his very hardest to convince you to love him enough to be with him, but you’ve spent an entire day in this space justifying why you would not be honest with him about it. if you love him so much, then why don’t you think he deserves to be with someone who respects …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 08:48 PM
2

And have you come to love and care for this man, or is it more of a situation where you like how he treats you and you wouldn’t mind if he‘s also happy or whatever?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 08:23 PM
2

I suppose that’s true. Tell us then; do you think that your man was looking for an honest woman who would treat him with respect and loyalty?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 08:20 PM
2

and yet so few of us ever find them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 08:01 PM
2

My point is that honesty, trustworthiness, and respect are actually quite unique…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 07:55 PM
2

Ok, I assumed that you came to the conclusion that he was worth caring about. don’t you have any idea what he was evaluating you for? Has it occurred to you that maybe honesty and loyalty might have been part of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:55 PM
2

ok, so you were both trying to establish your long term relationship bona fides. What signs were you looking for? what signs would He have been looking for?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:15 PM
1

as far as we know, she only ever fucked one of them; the story ended before they had been dating for 12 whole weeks, so we don’t know if they lived happily ever after or if it was an embarrassing disaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:46 PM
2

Why wouldnt you tell him about they guys you were fucking while he was trying his level best to convince you that he was good enough for you to love?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:31 PM
2

Holy shit, you think the F train in July is bad now?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:02 PM
2

Worst. Tournament. Ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:59 PM
1

Yeah, so women’s faces will look plainer, but that’s going to be offset by all the chubsters and scrawny weaklings being directly juxtaposed against the hardbodies. I think it’d be a wash.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:57 PM
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How many women, let’s say in a given semester year, do you honestly and actually think are only achieving their graduate and undergraduate degrees by virtue of sleeping with someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 04:14 PM
8

I think hot dudes have it easier than average women: average women must one day reckon with their average ness, which can suck very badly. Hot guys rarely have to deal with their own mediocrity, that I’ve ever noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 04:12 PM
2

I’ve adopted, but I was raised in a family where I was probably my fathers only natural born kid. My kid is my kid, and my sisters are my sisters, but i made the choice to adopt my kid. My father never had that choice and as the middle son, I’m still paying for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 04:06 PM
3

THERE WAS NEVER ANY DANGER!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 09:43 PM
1

Obviously; where else am I supposed to dump all of my injury and bitterness? This sun is Saving my relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 08:51 PM
3

Not you, you were never in any danger…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 08:48 PM
1

Wait, really? Who? Keep in mind that Brenda Spencer was 40 years ago and Karla homolka was helping her husband…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 07:18 PM
1

Which of these measures would create the most drastic improvement over a 6 minute trip to the bathroom?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 07:06 PM
3

Sure, but whether your making a deep, personal connection between your bodies and your souls or just grinding out a really selfish quicky, you still have to get naked and get into bed and get busy with them. the vernacular doesn’t cause the shitty attitude, and for that matter I’m not convinced that the shitty attitude causes the vernacular; they’re just fellow travellers on the road to “their own way.”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 06:56 PM
-1

Hands down I have cheated on more ex girlfriends than I ever caught cheating on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 06:36 PM
1

^this guy gets it^
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 12:24 AM
0

for me it’s really a scale between 2 and 9 because if you saw a 1 she would turn you to stone and if you married a 10 you would be obliged to raise an unprecedented coalition of kingdoms and lay waste to your enemies lands if she ever went missing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 12:06 AM
3

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/vcdyko/dating\_women\_as\_a\_woman\_has\_made\_me\_more/
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:05 PM
6

Back in the early 90’s, the incomparable Leonard Cohen did a one page mail in expert advise column for the very cheesy publication, Details for Men; he was the expert on love. one question asked “how long does it take to get over a major heartbreak.” and he replied “you never get over the major heartbreaks.”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 07:22 PM
5

being young and in love was fucking amazing, but a big part of that was that being young was the best and I didn’t appreciate it enough at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 07:18 PM
1

beg your pardon, I wasn’t asking you for advise about where to go or what to do when I go on a date; whether I’m trying to sleep with them or not, I’m delightful company when I choose to be. That wasn’t the point at all. i was specifically trying to ask You about the various different things that You do on your dates that make them worthwhile for the people who date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 09:44 PM
-1

why on earth would I ask some random on the internet how I should enjoy someone’s company when we’re not fucking, I know exactly how I ought to behave when we‘re fully dressed: It looks a lot like how I behave when I’m trying to bang someone. I asked what do You do when you’re fully dressed with a date, and I can’t help but notice that you did not answer the question. my point is that if you’re dating someone but not fucking them, then you need to be bringing some other positive stimulation or i…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 09:13 PM
3

Awesome, could you elaborate on that a little more? in your own words, how do you go about getting to know someone romantically? What sorts of things to you do that build the desirable connection? how and where do you discover good future potentiality?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 08:56 PM
2

Well not-having-sex is sure as hell not about a woman giving a man anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 07:57 PM
10

Sure, fine, but what are you doing for these guys that you’re so very very into but not banging? if they’re not supposed to be coming around to get laid, then exactly why are they supposed to keep coming around?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 07:53 PM
1

Sure, but is this change inherently for the better? Or do all of those things come with trade offs?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 07:48 PM
0

It never really bothered me, but I’m not with any of those girls anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:05 PM
1

So if a man wants a partner, would he better better served to solely court one woman at a time, or should he pursue multiple people In order to get himself that partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:39 PM
1

Who are you talking about? Like don’t name names, but who are the people that you think roll like that? Are you talking about men that you know fairly well, or have you only met them to fuck them occasionally? Have you known them a long time, or have you only recently met them? For that matter, where did you meet them? Because I’m not sure who the hell you’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:36 PM
1

So, which do you think works quicker, solely pursuing one lady at a time, or chasing down any an every woman who will have you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 02:32 PM
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k first of all keeping your story straight isn’t all that hard as long as you keep the lies simple; that’s something I learned growing up in a catholic household, long before I even tried to kiss any schoolgirls. and even really handsome dudes will lie about details that are inconsistent with pulling a bird, details like “I’m married” or “I’m broke.” You don’t mention that shit, you lie. Maybe some nice lady won’t care, but many won’t bang a broke, married dude even if he’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 02:31 PM
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to your second question; yes, sometimes when I wasn’t feeling 100% really exceptional women could be intimidating. Like if she were far enough out of my league, and I hadn‘t had enough whiskey and/or cocaine, then the prospect of being rejected by a woman so fine was might dissuade me from shooting my shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:19 AM
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“Men are forced to approach in abundance if they want any shot at getting laid or an LTR,” I don't think that is true. Why not? Do you think that a man who focuses on solely courting one woman at a time will find an acceptable partner sooner or later than a man who is out there chasing down anyone who will have him?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:04 AM
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Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 11:12 PM
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Thank you for at least spelling it correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 11:11 PM
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So if a woman is fucking a guy she isn’t in a relationship with on the weekly, and is abstaining from any other romantic relationship with any other man, is she “available”?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 10:32 PM
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That it is forbidden in the q’uran as the divine word of the prophet Mohamed, all praise unto him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 10:22 PM
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So, as far as a third party wanting to date such a woman goes, what’s the difference between her being “taken” and her merely being “unavailable”?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 10:18 PM
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lying still makes it easier; easier enough to make the impossible into something you brag about the next day, and easier enough to get those almost-chad guys laid more or less like they’d prefer.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 10:13 PM
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K, but how available are these women, and what does that availability really look like? women who’re regularly fucking someone they’re attracted to are less impressed by short dorks with golden heart’s, and vice versa; my longer, more successful relationships were all preceded by dry spells.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 10:05 PM
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K, but in our defence, some bitches out here claiming to be happily wedded after spending entire days spewing harmful toxic nonsense that the rest of us cannot possibly imagine being happily wedded to. It me; I’m “bitches”.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 06:06 PM
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I fix her tea just the way she likes it every morning while she makes up. I learned how her nan makes her bolognese taste like that, even though I prefer it the way that my nan taught me. My neckrubs and foot massages are either the best she’s ever had, or they’re at least good enough that she’s willing to lie to me about it. I have covered upwards of 2200km on the highways because she had some whim that could only be served in another town. My house looks more or less the way she wants it to, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 07:08 PM
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You are vastly and egregiously underestimating the amount of time I spend not-fucking my lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 06:03 PM
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In the context where a man faces consistent criticism for expressing the desire to have sexual relations with a lady, how is it then so entirely untoward for that man to ask what else specifically he should look forward to in her company? to whit; if he is to undertake the considerable effort that goes into seducing a good woman, then why shouldn’t he choose a good woman who provides articulatable benefits to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 06:01 PM
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tell the rest of us that people only want to bang you and never actually discuss anything with you without telling the rest of us that people only want to bang you and never want to actually discuss anything with you…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 04:57 PM
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this is semantic, but by discrepancies I thought it obvious that I meant the differences between the waiting times of previous partners, not a deviation from some sort of “correct” duration. my point is that ”the natural pace and how we progressed as a couple” is influenced in large part by how appealing you found the guy in the first place; that a guy you were keen to date before anyone asked anyone out gets a naturally quicker pace and a guy that you were convinced to take a chance on takes lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 04:15 PM
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Sorry, some these things that you’ve listed are actually not super tangible concepts. how do you demonstrate commitment, or loyalty? How do you convince them that you’ve been exclusive? Exactly What are you investing in them? I know what I’m expected to do to demonstrate this stuff to a lady that I’m trying to convince to sleep with me, but how do you believe a lady demonstrates this stuff without resorting to just fucking the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 04:06 PM
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