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Debatepurplish_possum/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 08:15 PM
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The old(ish) cat ladies I know are not career women although they all have steady jobs. One most definately was a hard core party girl. Another was a free spirit hippy chick in her youth. Both were very pretty in their youth; both are divorced; the second has grown kids. The third one I know is a weird combination of socially awkward and brash. She's divorced with a teenage kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 02:30 PM
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Usually not a good idea to let someone hit you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:21 AM
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My 1st ex-wife got into an argument with the drummer of the old punk band SNFU. Ended with me smashing his head into the sidewalk -- but not before that asshole bit me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:10 AM
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Deescalation is for pussies. Interestingly when you're ready to go most other guys back down.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:05 AM
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Yeah, but winning a fight is strangely satisfying. And it makes women wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:50 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:33 AM
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NO!!! Conservative women often dress like street walkers. Liberal women often dress like this. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:30 AM
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If 4% of the population is unemployed it's a personal issue. If 40% of the population is unemployed it becomes a societal issue. If the number of disaffected men grows large enough it most certainly is a societal issue regardless of the reason for their disaffection. Disaffected men determined the outcome of the recent election. Women will suffer as a result (not a good thing).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 03:13 PM
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Compared to 2008-2010 today is a cakewalk.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 06:06 AM
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Get a vasectomy and you can fuck any woman who'll have you without worry.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 04:41 AM
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Six vs half dozen.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 04:35 AM
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Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 04:28 AM
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Guess my memories of winter in Fort Leonard Wood are false then.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 02:42 AM
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I was in the Army in the 90s.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 12:08 AM
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Bully by "being honest" or "just trying to help" is nothing new. However, it's always been more of a female thing. This is how girls and women most often bully. Females love plausible deniability. If called on their shit girls/women will act all surprised and hurt: "What did I do? ... I was only trying to help."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 12:04 AM
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Unlike on TV, in reality, which cases are valid and which are BS is totally clear most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 06:03 PM
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I've only had a handful of rape cases (they're very rare). The third and fourth case were the allegations proved false had courses of conduct that clearly showed the sex was consensual but the women didn't want to admit that they did it voluntarily. In one case the young woman wanted to avoid being beaten by her violent father. In the other case the woman want to avoid the scorn of judgmental friends. In cases where the accusations were valid the courses of conduct by all involved were very diff…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 04:19 PM
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No it's not. It's actually way less common than people imagine. Rape is (thankfully) a very rare crime. Regretful sex is not rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 07:45 AM
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News stories are hardly representative. Rape cases are actually very rare. I've handled more murder cases than rape cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 07:44 AM
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Perhaps. However, censorship is worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 01:28 AM
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So women are now demanding entertainment in addition to good dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 01:06 AM
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I thought conservatives didn't like government intervention.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 01:04 AM
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Not couldn't prove it. Actual false allegations. The most recent guy is really lucky he left his i-phone recording. Another is lucky a security guard observed the act -- but strangely was never interviewed by police -- took our investigator several months to find him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 10:32 PM
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I have degrees in geology, science education, and law. Almost no religious people in geology. Very few in law. A few more in education. Many of my fellow education students weren't too smart. Disturbingly dumb actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 10:25 PM
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I'm a public defender. More than half of my clients charged with sexual assaults (ie rape) turned out to be victims of false accusations.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 10:21 PM
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Pretty much every intellectual since the dawn of time until very recently had to pretend to be religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 07:08 PM
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Einstein's religion wasn't anything like what most people think of as religion. It was basically just wonder of the natural world and universe around us.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 06:55 PM
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I have three degrees. I've studied in three countries, on two continents, in multiple cities, states, and provinces. The number of religious people in advanced education is vanishingly small.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 06:21 PM
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Only about 5% of the population is highly intelligent so that's going to eliminate most prospects. Most highly intelligent college graduates are not religious. So based on just those three criteria you've eliminated pretty much everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 03:45 PM
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Problems start when the guy fails to meet her expectations (reasonable or not). For example; if she was expecting him to make partner within five years but instead he gets pushed out and takes a government job she's not going to be happy. It doesn't matter that he's still making more than 90% of men -- she was expecting more. When a guy fails to meet expectations it's like when a stock fails to meet analysts' projections. Doesn't matter that the company is still profitable it's stock falls.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 02:59 PM
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Hot women can get away with destroying cars. Hot guys can get away with not doing the dishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 02:51 PM
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Fatties are sexy AF. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 02:33 PM
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The related concept of archetypes is more useful. Everyone likes to think that they're special snowflakes. However, we're not. There are patterns of human behavior that can be identified and that repeat. People fall into identifiable psychological groups that have little to do with gender, or race, or ethnicity. Example: About a third of the world's population -- across race -- across gender -- across ethnicity -- seems to be programmed to be xenophobic, clannish, and authoritarian.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 02:27 PM
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Stereotypes that gain traction usually have some truth to them. However, that basis is viewed through a hateful lens. For example ,in America, there is an old stereotype dating back hundreds of years that black people are shiftless and lazy. This stereotype had its genesis is slavery. It makes perfect sense that people in bondage would resist anyway they could. But viewed through a slave owners lens this normal reasonable behavior became a sign of mora inferiority.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 02:16 PM
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What does being a forced baby mill have to do with being a decent person?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 02:04 PM
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I still use my VHS. I still have a road atlas in my car which doesn't have GPS or a touch screen. My 1st ex-wife (AKA baby mama #1) sold most of my vinyl records when she developed a drug habit but I still have about 100. The phone we had when I was a kid was a party line. For youngsters who don't know what that is here's a link. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Party_line_(telephony))
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 06:20 AM
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What's promiscuity got to do with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 12:07 AM
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17 years. Some more committed than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 09:22 PM
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After dessert we can go to another place for 2nd dinner. I've actually done that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 09:14 PM
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Perhaps your standards are wack.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 09:04 PM
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"Those guys are wack. What do you want for dessert?"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 09:03 PM
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Every woman I've ever been with loves being objectified that way. Fucked bent over the kitchen table too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 09:02 PM
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Go to a better one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:45 PM
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No, it was their neotenic facial features.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:42 PM
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My GF's a grandmother.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:39 PM
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They're waiting for Mr. Right.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:38 PM
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Obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:35 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:34 PM
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My former secretary: "all your GF's look the same" Me: "(Jane) is Black, (Jean) was Native American, (Jenny) was Mexican, and (Jade) was Swedish. My former secretary: "They all look the same." Strangely, somehow they actually did.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:32 PM
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Nah! Men of culture love plump nerdy women. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:27 PM
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Go to a good college.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:25 PM
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Go to a good college.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:24 PM
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If Betty Sue sleeps with her boyfriend, Bill Bob, and her 2nd cousin Bill Joe it's not a crime for her not to disclose that fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:57 PM
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Of course. Value in the dating marketplace is at least 95% looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:25 PM
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OP isn't all wrong though. Women do indeed pay little attention to most men. The guys women notice are indeed noticed by multiple women. Those noticed guys do indeed often take female attention for granted -- but it's usually not on purpose. Most noticed guys aren't assholes. Indeed they're often quite objectively and actually nice. Why wouldn't they be life's been good to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:21 PM
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Is having a kid to love such a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:15 PM
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It's akin to asking is slavery moral. Some opinions aren't worth dignifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:34 AM
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No! What a stupid question.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 01:34 AM
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Before a court has jurisdiction to order child support it has to establish paternity. All guys have to do is ask for a paternity test and one will be ordered.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 01:33 AM
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No it's not. 2001 was the dot.com bust. We're is the middle of a much better economy today.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:02 PM
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"Civilization" is doing just fine. More people are living better, longer, safer, more free lives than at any other time in history. The world is way better than it was 50 years ago. Infinitely better than it was 100 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:39 PM
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"Civilization" is doing just fine. More people are living better, longer, safer, more free lives than at any other time in history. The world is way better than it was 50 years ago. Infinitely better than it was 100 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:39 PM
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Last time I looked the world was still infested with homo sapiens. Population decline sucks for billionaires but is great for ordinary people. When plague killed a third of Europe the result was the Renaissance.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:09 PM
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All the data I've ever seen indicates that there are significantly more gay guys than lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:51 PM
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No shit! Doesn't change the fact that it's a new standard playbook.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:43 PM
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Funny how we've added all the red stuff recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:41 PM
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Ironically what's in demand/short supply today isn't female office work it's male blue collar labor. The prospect for blue collar men today are better than at any time in the last 50 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:17 PM
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If I were a jr. high boy today I'd let my teachers think I was a Tate fan just to see their reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:15 PM
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I did everything the blue pill playbook says is right and still got burned big time. As they say, its women who turn guys toward the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:12 PM
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THIS! Things haven't changed much. I've been single multiple times since I entered high school in the late 1970s. I gain weight very easily so my weight has fluctuated quite a bit over my adult life. When I'm under 230 lbs (I'm 6'4") meeting women is no problem. That was true in 1984 and it's still true in 2024.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 03:49 PM
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Then there's the totally random things that affect people's lives. The job I have opened up because my predecessor died after he drove into a redwood tree.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 03:38 PM
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Nothing is stopping young men from going to college. Deindustrialization happened to Gen-X (and the tail end of the baby boom). Today's blue collar environment is actually better than it has been anytime in the last 50 years. Thinking women having opportunity somehow degrades men is both a fucked up point of view and not true. It's not a zero sum game. We all benefit socially and economically when we all get to participate fully.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 03:04 PM
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He's not really white. Looks more North African.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:43 AM
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Translation = she doesn't want to lose a useful orbiter (AKA chump).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:41 AM
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Having been present at the births of all my children I can say it's obviously not pleasant. However, lots of things are painful and/unpleasant and/or dangerous. BTW I'm 60. 2 baby mamas with 2 kids each.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:20 AM
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LOL! Young men need to grow the fuck up and realize that being a man is/was never easy and is/was often unpleasant. To quote one of my favorite Clash songs "only a fool would think someone could save you." https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_lt4O-EHNnw
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 03:15 PM
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Sex is most often best the first night. If she didn't cum the first night she's just not that attracted to the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 02:34 PM
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Don't think that's changed. Women who want to fuck let you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 05:38 AM
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Obviously women who want you are much more sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 05:34 AM
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The communication is 99% nonverbal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 05:08 AM
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Just because more men end up prison doesn't mean women aren't starting shit just as often.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 04:38 AM
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10K doesn't buy much. Cost over 60K to get my 2nd ex-wife to the level where she could trade up and dump me. I paid 40K (insurance paid the rest).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 03:09 AM
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Yet that doesn't seem to be working for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 02:36 AM
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LOL! Zero experience but thinks he knows the game. Also, oral is a service I don't provide. Only a few women had a problem with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 02:08 AM
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Being good in bed is easy. Just be attractive. Women cum for hot guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 01:40 AM
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If she wants to play that game she knows where the door is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 10:09 PM
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Of course I cared. Once I discovered that looks were 95% of the game I came to regret all the effort I had previously put into becoming academically and economically successful. I lamented having not spent nearly enough time and effort at the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 06:32 PM
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Women are at least as physically abusive as men. There's no need to redefine abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 04:31 PM
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You don't talk about sex -- you just do it -- or not. If not then you just move on. I've had sex with 57 different women on two continents, in four countries, two Canadian provinces, and ten American states. Never once did I discuss sex, or negotiate the terms of sex, before having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 05:56 AM
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If she is actually physically attracted you do not have to dance like a trained monkey.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 05:50 AM
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LOL. As if the state is ever going to allow parents to bargain away their kids rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 04:41 AM
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I'm very unlikely to kill anyone. However, if it did happen, either accidentally or internationally, it would most likely be someone close. That's just reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 10:49 PM
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Tip: if your wife pepper sprays you while on the phone with 911 don't grab the can, spray her, and say "how do you like it." During deliberations the jury asked the judge if they could convict both the husband and the wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:50 PM
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When there is doubt about paternity the numbers are much higher. One UK study of test taken when there was a doubt showed a paternity not as expected rate of 48%. https://www.manchestereveningnews.co.uk/business/business-news/paternity-test-father-bioclinics-group-12399580
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:24 PM
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You're more likely to be killed by your spouse than a stranger. You're more likely to be betrayed by your spouse than a stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 06:56 PM
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Apparently you didn't open and read the link. This was 3% for the users of a family tree DNA service (like Ancestry or 23 and Me.) Users of such services probably have higher than average socioeconomic standing which is associated with more stable families. I wouldn't be the least bit surprised if the actual population wide number of not parent expected events was significantly higher than 3%.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 06:48 PM
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Whenever women level up they think they deserve better. This is glaringly true for married women who lose weight. Having weight loss surgery doubles divorce rates. https://www.upmc.com/media/news/072022-bariatrics
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 03:04 PM
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Women will absolutely leave a dude if she has leveled up in any way. THIS!!! When a woman is struggling of course her guy needs to accept and support her. When a woman levels up she obviously "deserves better".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 02:56 PM
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Once a guy has jeans, black t-shirts, and a couple of flannels what more does he need?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:34 AM
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Not really relevant since I don't live in or travel to those countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:28 AM
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Perhaps -- but not with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:26 AM
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I'm straight so why would I care about men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:25 AM
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Not a fan of my name so my son isn't a 3rd (I'm a Jr.).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:23 AM
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Marriage = pussy on tap.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:20 AM
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Because they can. Pretty much any horny woman can get laid by a decent looking guy anytime day or night.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:19 AM
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Sex is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:14 AM
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I don't hate sex workers. People are free to choose to be sex workers. However, choices have consequences. Anyone who freely chooses to be a sex worker has disqualified themselves from consideration for LTR/marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:07 AM
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It's a true statement. Women who had sex only infrequently with one partner can fuck like a rabbit in heat with the next. If the sex is based on actual attraction rather than obligation frequency stays high year after year -- even decade after decade. My 1st ex-wife and I had sex 15 to 20 times every week for 17 years. Right up until the very end when she was having sex with another guy too (a 6'6" former Marine). So yes. Women love to fuck guys they're attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:27 AM
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A lifetime of experience and observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:35 PM
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Waiting in line at a Social Distortion concert. A fun alternative event. There are people from 7 to 70. Lots of people brought their kids (including me).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:48 AM
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Time to ban all soccer discussion. Mods do something useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:54 PM
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So be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:52 PM
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Or you can show her the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:52 PM
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If your romantic partner doesn't want sex it's time for a new partner. Bye Felicia.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:51 PM
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Guess men and women aren't so different after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:30 PM
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A big fat booty and a six figure income.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 11:27 AM
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Not seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 11:26 AM
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I've learned from experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:08 AM
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Yeah right.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:07 AM
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Men can still fuck anything that moves if they want. What they need to stop is all the simping.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 12:39 AM
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Never. I come across as quite masculine. Just the opposite actually. Some women have rejected me because they thought I was a knuckle dragging Neanderthal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 09:11 PM
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This is nothing new. I hate most country music. Regardless, the 1980s I used to go to country music bars because it was the easiest place to hookup in my town.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 09:08 PM
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Trump makes my skin crawl. He's the least masculine guy on the planet. He's a thin skinned, whiny, entitled, little bitch who bullies the powerless and kisses the asses of those he perceives as powerful. I just don't understand the attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 08:12 PM
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No idea why guys here want dependent women rather than full fledged partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:59 PM
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Yup. Trump got millions to vote against their self-interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:14 PM
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That's pretty useless. Try another app.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:51 PM
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There are already different child support rules for high income earners for who presumptive guidelines do not apply. https://farzadlaw.com/child-support/extraordinarily-high-income-earner (I'm not in anyway affiliated with these guys. Their web page just popped up when I searched the issue) People here keep wanting to address issues that were addressed many years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:48 PM
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What this really means is that every expense has to be litigated. The Zold case is great for attorney billable hours. Apparently guys would rather pay tens (or even hundreds) of thousand dollars to attorney than to their ex and kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:41 PM
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people who have to give half their business profits to their ex spouse. It’s better to just get have a working spouse and then you avoid it. Yup! That's exactly how it works. However, these guys don't want an equal spouse. They want a spouse that they can control with their money. But they don't want the consequences of that choice if the marriage ends in divorce. They're basically sad little men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:38 PM
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LOL! As if family courts can't reach business assets. You'll just incur more legal fees during the divorce and the court will order you to pay her higher legal fees too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:31 PM
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You can't do that anymore? Back in the day I only considered women with at least a 4-year degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:28 PM
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Biden's economic policies put millions of men back to work in decent paying jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:04 PM
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California did that decades ago. California family law is totally gender neutral.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 01:44 PM
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Good Christian families hate and destroy lives without any guilt -- after all they're doing "gods work."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 01:43 PM
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Silly rabbit, facts don't matter. Big Daddy Trump will make it better -- he just will.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 01:37 PM
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Because men in red states are doing so well. Dating is an issue only tangentially related to politics. For the most part the interests of men and women align. Policies that are good for women like reproductive rights, childcare, healthcare, affordable education ... are also good for men. It's almost as if men and women live together in the same world. Ironically the Biden years have been some of the best for men since the 1970s. Job growth has been concentrated in male dominated blue collar fiel…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 01:26 PM
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If a guy doesn't look good in jeans and a t-shirt fancy clothes won't help.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 12:43 AM
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Damn. Six deal breakers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 12:41 AM
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I have a GF. Previously I did get a few dates (and an ex-wife) from online dating. I'm 6'4" and not ugly so I do better than many other guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 10:52 PM
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women are flooded with "bad" likes, get overwhelmed Women suck at shopping. Every marketer since the dawn of time knows this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 08:45 PM
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Reading her bio won't change much. If you're not attractive she won't want to chat no matter how well matched you are otherwise. If you're hot she'll be interested regardless of whether or not you read her bio.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 08:42 PM
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Why would anyone stay with someone they're not compatible with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 09:03 PM
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If she's not down we're not compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 09:01 PM
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Once in the morning and once before bed is nothing unusual.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:37 PM
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Funny how women are all about things like "common courtesy" when it comes to guys" behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:24 PM
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It's been working that way for 42 years -- since I was 18 and first moved in with a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 05:51 PM
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I was splitting wood just an hour ago. Gotta get the house warm. My GF is coming home today (if she can tear herself away from my oldest daughter's newest baby).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 05:35 PM
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Sex a guy pays for and sex freely and mutually engaged in and enjoyed are two very different things. Paying somebody to pretend to like you is pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 05:31 PM
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If I'm leaving she did something that really pissed me off. Why would I want to drag shit out?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 05:29 PM
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It's worked with every woman I've lived with so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 05:26 PM
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Ghosting works for me. Why would I want to give the woman the last word?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 04:59 PM
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Guys can set whatever level they desire. Mine is sex at least 10 times per week.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 04:57 PM
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People talk about this stuff too much. If he's not getting what he wants he should just bounce.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 04:56 PM
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House work as foreplay. Women look so cute when they're being domestic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 04:54 PM
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Why should he tell her? When he finds someone else she can come home to the empty cold house she created.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 04:52 PM
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If a wife doesn't want to be intimate with her husband that's fine. But she'll have no reason to complain when he leaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 03:58 PM
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He's the kind of creep actual masculine men have to protect women from.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:46 PM
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Elon seems to be a stereotypical lonely man. His kids hate him. He's latched onto his new buddy Trump making himself a fixture at Mar-a-Lago.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:36 PM
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Elon is way worse than a nerd. He's a creepy asshole with some actual power. Elon the incel king. Elliot is the incel martyr.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:29 PM
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Elon is an incel in so far as I doubt he's ever gotten laid without payment. Paying for sex doesn't remove a guy from the incel rolls.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:26 PM
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Nope! Men's "worth" is becoming ever less important as men's physical attractiveness has become every more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 01:50 PM
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You (and many other people) misunderstand the 20/80 (or perhaps now the 5/95) rule. The rule doesn't say that only top guys get sex or relationships. It says that only top guys thrive. Top guys get enough female attention that dating and finding relationships isn't a soul sucking, ego crushing endeavour. The fact that Billy Beta will most likely eventually find a woman willing to settle for him doesn't undermine the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 01:44 PM
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Not sure what world you're living in.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 03:14 AM
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He doesn't care about anyone but himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:06 AM
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Trump has got to be the least masculine man on the planet. He's a fucking joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 09:54 PM
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LOL!!! As if women are ever going to stop fucking hot guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 06:19 PM
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Disappointed. I knew Americans were on average a pretty dumb bunch -- but I really underestimated the depth of their stupidity.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 06:17 PM
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Progressive women like men. They just won't put up with whiny little MAGA bitch boys. Progressive women actually like masculine men more. However, "conservative" men tend to be spineless followers not actual masculine men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 05:26 PM
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Like applying leeches.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 03:54 PM
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Love that movie. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o6oFTghvgmM
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 03:52 PM
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He spends insane amounts on his family. It pisses my mum off. Women hate it when other people get "their" money.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 03:50 PM
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Just because lots of people are doing it doesn't mean it's not crazy. Irrational faith is required for all religion. That's why I'm an atheist. Mega churches take the irrational bullshit to the next level. I can deal with people who keep religion in the background and attend to the secular issues of life rationally. I've never met a person who attended a mega church who didn't let the irrational aspects of religion dominate their life. So again -- hard fucking pass on mega church goers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 01:58 PM
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Yup. I regret not moving to the South for college. Not too many big booty bitches on the northern prairies.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 01:48 PM
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I like the video but I think I'd need to be really wasted to fully appreciate this song.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 01:40 PM
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Women love being objectified -- by the right men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 01:35 PM
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Catholic women are fine just as long as they can hold off on the guilt BS until after sex. Nothing worse that her guilt kicking in after she climaxes but you're not finished yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 01:32 PM
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People can believe whatever they like. However, if their beliefs are batshit crazy I'm not going to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 01:29 PM
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Hell fucking NO!!! Rational thought is a prerequisite for dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 01:27 PM
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It's fun making out with two women in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 01:27 PM
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Women have a lot more options. Once she's drained one beta dry she can dump him and move on to her next victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 04:20 AM
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I had a hot Samoan FWB in California.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 01:27 AM
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I came to the USA for the fat chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 12:57 AM
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The 1970s and 1980s were a period of deindustrialization that created the rust belt as we know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 12:09 PM
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Alternatively they could have been prosecuted, tried, and sentenced to prison (or worse). Seems they got off easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 11:33 AM
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LOL! What the fuck to women need protecting from? Other than their own poor life choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 11:31 AM
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Those female smokers won't be good looking for long.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 11:27 AM
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It's not really that much fun. Sometimes they cry. Sometimes they send you 300 angry texts. Sometimes they get physically abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 11:26 AM
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"Economic reality" reality isn't changing fast at all. Compare the last 40 years to the 40 years 1910 to 1950 or to the 40 years from 1884 to 1924. Things have changed much faster in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 11:09 AM
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It's not actually. I'm not blaming either side. There are no angles here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 09:31 PM
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Lots of people make too big a deal about domestic violence. The vast majority is low level -- just stupid people being stupid. There's most often elements of mutual combat. Police often arrest the wrong person. Police often arest one partner this week and the other next week.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 08:09 PM
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99% of domestic violence is nowhere near that serious. Some of the most serious cases I've handled involved lesbians. BTW I've handled several thousand domestic violence cases over the last 20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:58 PM
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Trump inflicted lasting damage the first go round (he destroyed our Supreme Court). This time will be even worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:50 PM
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Just because women aren't particularly good at violence doesn't mean they don't do it -- and do it often.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:47 PM
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Women commit domestic violence significantly more than men. Women commit child abuse way more than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:44 PM
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$o many rea$on$.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 11:17 AM
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If you're 31 and they're 29 it hardly counts. If you're basically paying them to fuck you it doesn't count at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 11:12 AM
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Ordinary men have always struggled romantically. In the past they suffered in silence. Now they complain openly and incessantly. Not sure that's an improvement. One thing's for sure, being whiny little bitch boys isn't a good look.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 11:08 AM
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Anyone who thinks attractive young women want to fuck middle age guys is delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 11:05 AM
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Nothing -- when you're young too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 10:50 AM
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If she's 20 and he's 35 it's going to be weird. If she's 40 and he's 55 not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 10:49 AM
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Absolutely nothing unusual happens when a 55 year old guy dates a 40 year old woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 10:48 AM
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Translation: A "caring partner" = a hot guy who isn't a total asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 04:09 PM
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Thanks. Just try to share stuff I learned the hard way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:20 AM
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Most sexual communication is nonverbal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:14 AM
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Being dangerous -- but not to dangerous -- works. You gotta look the part though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:13 AM
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Older women like that stuff too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:11 AM
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If women want to be choked and have their fat booties smacked just do it. You might enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:10 AM
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Sorry dude but women are going to act like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:07 AM
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Not seeing a problem. Outside the USA cohabitating couples have babies all the time. A marriage certificate is just a worthless piece of paper.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:05 AM
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Not if he has good genetics. She can always find a Billy Beta to pay for the kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:02 AM
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The old the odds are good but the goods are odd problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:01 AM
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I'm in Vermont. No snow yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 01:59 AM
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Good luck with that. Women only like fucking hot guys. They only fuck ordinary guys when they want something.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 01:57 AM
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Trump's not going to pay for black, brown, and poor fatties to get thin.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 01:55 AM
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Tech bros suck!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 01:54 AM
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You're good looking. I think you knew that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 01:49 AM
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Gross inequality undermines society. Distorted markets don't function well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 09:42 PM
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Individual women are attracted to only a few percent of the male population. Top 20% guys are not attractive to all women but they each have a constituency that's large enough that dating isn't a struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 09:29 PM
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Being an agreeable simp doesn't make women wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 09:24 PM
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I had a GF who used to leave love notes everywhere. I'd have to sweep my apparrtment every time she left so my other GF wouldn't find them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 09:22 PM
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Classic straw man argument. Create a parody of the red pill to prove its bad. All the red pill really did was expose female nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 09:16 PM
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But female math: Women only notice 20% of guys. An "average" guy women notice is thus 90th percentile. Anything less is below average to women. Thus an 89th percentile guy is below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 08:51 PM
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Women don't like ordinary guys. However, women have no problem taking ordinary guys's money. Life sucks for Billy Beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 08:48 PM
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I should have brought a teenage kid with me (I have several) but they have school.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 12:24 AM
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The UK is infinitely better than Texas.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 12:06 AM
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UPS boxline. There's a job I'd like to forget.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 12:04 AM
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It rained all day today in Vermont. I'm still wet. Gotta find a dive bar where it won't matter that my boots and jeans are covered in mud. I've been LARPing as a blue collar dude today.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 11:41 PM
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My youngest daughter doesn't want to give up her most favored position.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 11:38 PM
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Going to Texas for any reason is nothing to brag about. The place absolutely sucks on so many levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 11:36 PM
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Back when I did this shit for a living my hands were way tougher.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 10:48 PM
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Yup, now pretty much every muscle in my upper body is twitching. People used to do stuff like this all the time but now we have machines for most of it. If I were at a location with readily available equipment rentals I would have got a bobcat with a jackhammer attachment. But since that was logistically inconvenient I'm doing things old school.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 08:48 PM
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I've gone soft. 3 hours of actual work (busting up a sidewalk with a sledgehammer) and I have blisters on both hands. Might have to revisit my gloves are for pussies rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 08:24 PM
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Yeah, women are surprisingly lacking when it comes to self-awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 03:04 AM
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Social science BS is hardly reliable data.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 03:00 AM
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The rule doesn't mean lesser guys are totally shut out. It just means that top guys score way more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:15 AM
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You really need to stop equating prostitution with attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:04 AM
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Buying women is an entirely different game.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 01:15 AM
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It certainly supports it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 01:00 AM
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Stop trying to quantify this with false precision. The way of the world is readily apparent when you compare women's dating app history to that of men. You don't need to do any statistical analysis. The difference is blatantly obvious. To quote Bob Dylan "you don't need to be a weatherman to know which way the wind blows."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 12:38 AM
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Compare female and male Tinder history. Everyone knows that almost any woman can get a date within an hour or two on dating apps. Everyone also knows that ordinary men -- not hideous, just ordinary men -- can go months or even years without a date despite significant efforts.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 12:31 AM
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Nerd and attractive aren't mutually exclusive. Indeed nerdiness and hotness are independent variables.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 12:27 AM
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Sorry, but hot guys (which can't be reduced to measurable data points) just need to be not terrible personality wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 12:24 AM
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Men don't seem to understand that attractiveness can't really be quantified. It's a holistic measure.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 12:21 AM
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If you have an obvious fixible flaw fix it. Otherwise get used to disappointment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 12:20 AM
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Choose your parents well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 12:18 AM
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These guys haven't realized that the market doesn't want what they're offering.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 12:18 AM
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Women aren't delusional -- they know which guys are hot and which guys aren't. They'd just rather be with a hot guy occasionally than a not hot guy all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 12:17 AM
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LOL. Nerd girls like hot guys. Fat women like hot guys. Homely women like hot guys. ...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 12:15 AM
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It's proved everyday -- over and over -- on every dating app.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 12:14 AM
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It's been proved by crowd sourced data. The lived dating experience of men proves it. Those of us who actually have some friends and acquaintances know that hot guys get lots of dates, ordinary guys get leftover scraps and crumbs, and unattractive guys starve. The 80/20 rule never said that only the top tier get dates/sex. It's that the top tier gets a disproportionate amount of female attention. It's a measure of inequality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 12:13 AM
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What's changed is that it's more like the 90/10 rule now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 12:07 AM
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A rich autistic tech-bro might be "above-average" in income That doesn't make him a desirable dating prospect Case in point, Elon Musk
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 12:07 AM
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Not quite: Women compare potential dates/mates to other men not themselves. Women expect men to be taller than other men wealthier than other men stronger than other men more confident than other men more assertive than other men take the lead
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 08:25 PM
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These "studies" are total BS. Women virtue signal, women lie (including to themselves), women don't know what they want, and most importantly women gold dig. A woman being attracted to a guys wallet is NOT the same thing as a woman being attracted to a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 08:18 PM
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It's been my experience that women abusers like knives.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 08:10 PM
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This is nothing new. Over 40 years ago I was walking down the main drag in my city with my new GF. We were both 18. A pretty girl in short shorts walked by and my head swiveled. As my eyes turned forward again my GF punched me in the face knocking me on my butt (the only time I've ever been knocked down with a punch). My GF stomped off and I had to run after her apologizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 08:09 PM
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That works too. The next morning breakfast date.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:44 PM
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The date is foreplay. Seriously, a good date followed by sex is way better than just sex. Also, sex just happens. You don't negotiate it (unless it's an actual transaction).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 09:35 AM
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Fuck that. I'm not working my ass off so my wife can stay home. Everyone works.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:17 AM
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You were expecting rationality?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:53 PM
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Since when is it anyone's "job" to be attractive to random strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:52 PM
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Judging from the results of the recent election America loves bullies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:50 PM
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Yeah, there's always a bit of luck involved. Being in the right place at the right time has always been a thing. It's kinda like refounding in basketball. Sometimes the ball comes right to you -- other times it goes the totally opposite direction. You improve your chances by reading the court and positioning yourself well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:44 PM
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Way more. This woman is six feet tall. She's very impressive IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:45 PM
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Just be 98th percentile height with a 98th percentile dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:10 PM
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Fatties eating are sexy. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:09 PM
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Me too! Fatties rock! <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:06 PM
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If you haven't learned how to mean women by your mid-20s you're screwed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:45 PM
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The delusion is strong with this bunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:19 PM
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When they actually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:56 AM
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The last thing I want is a bunch of self righteous uptight assholes telling my teenage daughters what they can and cannot read.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:24 AM
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People's concepts of education vary greatly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:58 AM
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Go somewhere where there is some demand for you. True to a point. I remember being at a club in Miami Beach and thinking I'm not hot enough or rich enough for this place. However, there are lots of guys who aren't in demand anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 02:23 PM
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If you want to attract women you have to be physically attractive to women. It's really as simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 02:19 PM
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This makes no sense. Women don't reward guys with sex. Women are active participants who like sex at least as much as guys do. Women seek out sex at least as much as guys do too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 06:14 AM
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Good God people over think things her. Women are attracted to strong masculine men. They'd prefer he not be an asshole but if the only available strong masculine men are so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:00 AM
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I'm a lawyer.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:55 AM
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Women like hot fixers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:42 PM
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building a rapport. Guy: Hey. (girl thinks guy is hot so she bites) Girl: That all you have to say? Guy: You leave me speechless. Girl: Lame. Guy: Let's get a drink. Girl: OK
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:27 PM
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Those rules don't apply if the guy is hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:18 PM
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For ugly guys it's always wrong place wrong time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:18 PM
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Hot guy approaches -- women flutter. Unattractive guy approaches -- women reach for their pepper spray.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:16 PM
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As long as the guy's hot women love being approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:15 PM
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Validation from their group is super important to most women. Many guys, especially introverted guys, don't realize this. Few women will choose a guy that their friends disapprove of.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:12 PM
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60
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 06:24 AM
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Or that fact that women love being fucked by hot guys -- rich or poor -- it matters not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:09 AM
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OP doesn't have a clue. Unless a guy has a shit ton of money (at least a few million) his economic situation doesn't mean shit. Hot lazy guys aren't smoking pot in their parents' basement. They're smoking pot in the house their GF pays for and driving a fancy SUV that their GF also pays for.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:06 AM
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If your life's been derailed might as well spend all your time at the gym and let a woman (or two) pay your bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:00 AM
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It's been the college educated middle class standard for decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 05:32 PM
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We'll see how well that works for men. I'm predicting a lot of very fat leopards.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:35 PM
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They can keep voting for the leopard eating faces partly then. .
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:34 PM
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Center right with an overlay of annoying identity politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:32 PM
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I can tolerate total chaos.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:12 AM
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Cut my hair myself again. I haven't been to the barber since before COVID. Looks like this (except my beard is grey). <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:09 AM
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Unnecessary work. Keep life simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:07 AM
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Using sex robots would be one of the few things more pathetic than paying a prostitute to pretend to like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:55 AM
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If you have to leave home at 9:00 AM you can start packing at 8:30.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:53 AM
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Having someone to mourn your passing makes getting blown to bits more palatable?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:51 AM
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WTF would I want to spend the rest of my life supporting an ungrateful woman? Patriarchy is a raw deal for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:49 AM
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Who the hell fold laundry anymore? I just stuff it into the appropriate draw.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:46 AM
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My GF's off being grandma at my oldest daughter's house with my newest granddaughter (and my two oldest granddaughters too).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:03 AM
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63% of African American females are single - date outside your race and culture. Just because they're not married doesn't mean they're single. Also, Black women have no desire to fuck or date Billy Beta. The masculinity bar to date Black women is actually higher than that of white women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:23 AM
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I have three degrees, professional credentials, and a six figure career. None of that ever got me laid. The fact I'm 6'4" and not ugly has been getting me laid for the last four decades. I got laid most when I was a broke ass 19 year old college student (and construction worker during the summer).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:17 AM
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Socioeconomic status determines which dating pools you fish in -- not where or not you catch anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:12 AM
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Yeah, my 1st baby mama went into labor at the local welfare office (true story).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:06 AM
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People here way overthink this shit. Attractive guys have kids. Unattractive guys not so much. It's as simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:05 AM
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Attractive but not exceptional.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 12:55 AM
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It's not a zero sum game. You can't just split this 50/50, 60/40, or whatever. Some luck guys have lots of both Alpha and Beta qualities. Some unlucky guys have little of either.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 12:53 AM
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Billy Beta has always been women's preferred Plan-B.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 06:57 PM
2

Marriage vows are just playthings for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:54 PM
0

Agree. Women don't reward loyalty and hard work. Men need to be more selfish. Men have to put themselves first more. Guys need to stop working overtime and second jobs to pay for stuff she wants. Guys need to go to the gym instead. Guys need to play whatever sports they enjoy instead. ...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:53 PM
5

It's romantic when the guy is attractive. It's "creepy" when the guy isn't attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:08 PM
9

It was much easier to approach men in "designated" places like bars Works like that for guys too. I don't think I've ever just walked up to a woman on the street. The closest I came was walking up and talking to a girl at a music festival.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 01:44 PM
1

Women like fucking. Men like fucking. No one is using anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:33 AM
2

But they'll fuck hot broke guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:31 AM
3

I was born in the mid 60s. In the 80s meh guys got little play. In the 90s meh guys got little play. In the 00s meh guys got little play. In the 10s meh guys got little play. Today meh guys get little play. See a pattern.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:27 AM
4

Money is almost totally irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 09:53 PM
4

We just hear about it more. Loser guys used to suffer in silence.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 09:18 PM
2

No, most guys are quite able to take care of themselves. What they can't do is get dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 08:44 PM
7

Fat 40 year old women can still get dates. Fat, or even just meh, 40 year old men can't. It's as simple as that. The idea that women over 30 will die alone and that guys age like fine wine is total bull shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 08:42 PM
13

A hell of a lot more powerful than feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:06 PM
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Or perhaps modern capitalism just wants people alone, isolated, and easy to control.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:49 PM
1

Most of the time that isn't a lie. We really are looking for LTRs. Unfortunately not all women make the cut. I always felt disappointed when I had to end things with women who at one time I thought had potential.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:21 PM
3

Way to totally (and inappropriately) mix AF and BB game together. BB guys aren't "long term prizes". BB guys are chumps that finance women after they can no longer attract guys they actually want to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 02:51 PM
2

If you're on the birth certificate and the biodad waits too long there's nothing he can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 12:03 AM
2

Of course they did -- my people are really letting me down. But her pro-statehood position may have been more of a factor than her support of Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 09:33 PM
8

I could not date someone who thinks gas prices are more important than their neighbors Good way to state it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 09:13 PM
13

Kids aren't commodities. Kids aren't business opportunities. One you're bonded with a child they're yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 07:39 PM
3

Yes, of course. WTF would I want to spend time with a wack job Trump supporter?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 05:18 PM
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Yeah, he's tall, not fat, decent face, and has all his hair (you can see it through the opening in his hat). Put that all together in one person and he's at least 90th percentile. Guy's fashion sense does suck though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:04 PM
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50th percentile is 5'9", pudgy, with a so so face. This guy is way better than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:02 PM
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No idea what you call that but I didn't see a single actual pullup.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 07:56 PM
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New Balance cheap? WTF? They've been upper end actual running shoes for people who actually run since the 1980s.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 07:52 PM
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Don't know what his problem is but he's a 90th percentile guy looks wise (i.e. an average ordinary guy in women's eyes).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 07:50 PM
2

If there are no Billy Betas women's only choice will be to que up at Chad's door.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 10:13 PM
5

Unemployed men are less likely to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:59 PM
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Kids, animals, and old ladies like me too. It's kinda weird actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 02:47 PM
3

No one gets alimony anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 08:57 PM
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They're expecting help from big daddy Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:51 AM
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Nothing. Hence the disappointment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:50 AM
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All those average or worse guys who voted for Trump are going to be disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:58 AM
1

Basically, women don't give a shit about wedding vows.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 10:21 PM
1

Sure. Women are free to do whatever they want. However, men are equally free to not believe women when they profess loyalty
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 10:18 PM
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Not following your logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 07:59 PM
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WFT? Why wouldn't a guy vote for the only sane adult in the race? Voting for a mean spirited, thin skinned, whiny little, Putin bitch boy doesn't make a guy masculine. Just the opposite actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:48 PM
3

That's not hookup culture. That's an entirely different game with different players. Sluts hookup for fun. Hoes have sex for ulterior motives. Sluts are great! Hoes suck!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 10:00 AM
3

Apparently so.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:53 AM
8

Spare us the BS conspiracy theories. Women like to fuck. Men like to fuck. It follows that fucking happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:52 AM
2

Not much difference -- other than virtue signalling -- between "hooking up" and a series of very short "relationships."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:51 AM
6

A very significant portion -- perhaps a majority -- of women love to hookup with hot guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:49 AM
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Because men have daughters, sisters, wives, mothers, and other female friends and family. Life isn't just about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:02 AM
0

Young people (including young women) love to fuck. That's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 07:56 AM
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Trump did a good thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:08 AM
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Venezuelan women are batshit crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:04 AM
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Voted for Harris three weeks ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:39 AM
1

Feisty women rock. Submissive tradional women are boring AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 06:39 PM
1

Way worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 06:38 PM
3

Hell no to stay at home trad wife. Every one works.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 05:48 PM
11

Ban all photos showing exposed female ankles.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 03:14 PM
2

libertarian to fascist pipeline Great phrase -- I'm going to be borrowing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 03:12 PM
7

LOL! I'm all for maternity/paternity leave, childcare, and good food. However, the rest of the Hitler Youth type forced socialization would be a total shit show.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 03:07 PM
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I call them like I see them. On this issue it's guys who have their heads up their asses.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 05:49 AM
-1

Maybe guys should stop being so stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 02:35 AM
14

A woman who's apolitical in today's America is too stupid for me to date. Any woman who doesn't see Trump and people like him as a clear and present danger is a hard pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 02:34 AM
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Women who are interested let you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 06:42 PM
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Not if you never leave your basement, but if you socialize where women drink alcohol it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 06:39 PM
3

OK. Still worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 05:56 PM
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Stop planning/worrying. Relationships just happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 05:32 PM
13

I'm fine with it. I like talking politics. I could never share a bed with a Trump supporter. I have standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 05:30 PM
3

Sure. People are free to do this. However, that means that marriage vows are basically worthless. Marriage is a self-imposed limitation on one's freedom for the benefit of the family. If women aren't willing to keep their side of the bargain marriage is dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 05:27 PM
3

I had two kids in my late 40s. They're in high school now doing just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:52 PM
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Unattractive guys who want kids aren't going to get the chance. Overly picky women who run out the clock waiting for Mr. Right aren't going to have kids. Such is life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:05 PM
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I'm 60. My youngest daughter just turned 14. She's at least as smart and healthy as the kids I had in my early 20s. She started school a bit early so she's the youngest kid in all her freshman classes (9th grade). We just got her 1st quarter grades -- she got all A's (she's in all honors classes). She's also on the varsity tennis team. She likes to wear my old high school letterman jacket (I was a basketball player). The jacket has my grad year on it. My daughter's math teacher asked her about t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:00 PM
3

When things go to shit it's timid hesitant guys who are more likely to come out on the losing end.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 06:18 AM
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Men aren't wired like women. Men don't want that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 06:58 PM
1

No idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 10:18 PM
1

Not weird. That's how things work. Women like to fight for guys. My 1st ex-wife and a side chick fought each other when they were both doing a few days in the local county jail - - ex-wife won -- other chick got sent to solitary.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 10:12 PM
1

This morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 10:11 PM
1

Sluts stay with guys they're vicerally attracted to through all sorts of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 10:08 PM
1

She can rub her clit during sex if she likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 10:02 PM
1

Sluts fuck for fun. Hoes fuck for cash and prizes. Hoes are loyal to $$$. Sluts are loyal to the guy they like to fuck most.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 10:01 PM
2

Sluts in love are the best most loyal GF's on the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:18 PM
-2

I'm no one's trained monkey.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 09:20 PM
3

Fuck a fattie OK
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 06:43 PM
-2

Keep telling yourself that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 06:40 PM
3

Most of the communication is nonverbal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 06:38 PM
5

If a guy fails to perform she's not coming back for seconds.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 06:37 PM
-5

it is not enough just to be nice to women LOL! Sex isn't about being nice. Women want men to take control.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 06:35 PM
1

If anyone is lecturing it's over. Next!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 06:33 PM
-6

If a woman doesn't like what I'm bringing she knows where the door is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 06:31 PM
-9

The orgasm gap is BS! When women fuck guys they're actually attracted to they often have multiple orgaams.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 06:28 PM
7

I'm aware of how manditory reporting works.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 04:21 PM
6

You're the one grasping at straws. Yeast infections are not reportable STDs. They don't get reported to public health officials. Thus aren't part of official STD stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 03:36 PM
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Crime stats are generally unreliable except for homicides and auto thefts. Dead bodies freak people out so they go to the cops (auto thefts are reported because you need a police report number for insurance claims). STDs are like homicides -- they freak people out. When people think they have an STD they go to the doctor (even if it's just the local STD clinic). The numbers doctors are required to report are therefore quite accurate. Increased STD rates are good proxy measurements for increased …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 12:30 PM
25

It's the changes in rates of infection that are telling. Biology is constant. Changing rates indicate changing behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 12:21 PM
24

The majority of blue pill theory is head in sand.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 12:19 PM
4

That fact is irrelevant with regard to changing rates. Biology hasn't changed. A significant increase in female STD rates indicates a significant change in female behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 12:17 PM
1

Women define casual sex out of existence so they can say "I don't do casual."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:59 PM
10

Women under report.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:46 PM
10

LOL!!! What planet are you living on?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:33 PM
10

Everything from diapers to college.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:46 PM
11

You don't legally have to obviously. However, if you marry a single mom you sure as shit will be expected to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:48 PM
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Of course not -- they have (very short) committed relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:17 PM
1

220lb men with 290lb women. That seems about right -- provided the guy is over 6 feet tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 06:51 PM
1

Translation: Happy wife, happy life = no stumbling, no falling short, no failing to meet expectations, no reversals of fortune allowed. It's a threat that only applies to Billy Beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 05:34 PM
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No. It's just a raw deal. You'll be expected to provide for a child whose loyalties will be divided at best. When the inevitable conflict arises mom will almost always take the child's side. Your role will be to just shut the fuck up, go to work, and pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 02:10 PM
3

I did enjoy providing. A friend once noted that I "never buy anything for myself". I was actually proud of that. I was a giant grade A chump. Once she had happily taken everything I had to provide I was unceremoniously kicked to the curb.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 05:01 AM
1

Because wrinkly skin is so attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 08:01 PM
1

My 1st ex-wife had long hair and big glasses for a few years. Guess I got out in time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:59 PM
2

When I was in high school I made extra cash by buying alcohol for other high school students. The drinking age was 18 and I looked 19 when I was 15.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:54 PM
2

I bought my own alcohol, starting from when I was 15.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:51 PM
3

Last time I was in Vegas I walked around The Strip and associated malls for several hours people watching. I observed lots of older (over 35) couples who were fairly well looks matched. When it came to younger couples (under 35) the guy was almost always better looking. I also saw many groups of young women that included both attractive and unattractive members. Notably absent were unattractive young men -- apparently ugly young guys don't go out anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:45 PM
1

Why are so many women bad choices?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:27 PM
1

You're thinking about my 2nd ex-wife. That didn't end well either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 06:50 PM
2

Easy to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 06:48 PM
2

I've been filing tax returns since 1981.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 06:27 PM
1

This one was only a junior fatty (only 185 lbs when we met).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 06:25 PM
1

The last 6 or 7 years have been pretty boring. Time to do something really stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 06:24 PM
1

She wasn't when we got hitched.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 06:22 PM
1

Practice only gets a person so far. Some people just can't flirt and/or fuck well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 06:20 PM
1

I was shedding old documents and came across my 2001 tax return. Adjusted for inflation my 1st ex-wife and I made over 237K that year. We had just bought a house that's now worth over 1.2 million. Her drug use started to spiral out of control the next year and we lost almost everything. Entangling your finances with women is risky AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 06:13 PM
1

Not my thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 06:02 PM
3

It's mostly genetics. Two 400 pound women from my hometown both had weight loss surgery at the same time (they were best friends). Neither was particularly good at following doctors' orders. One lost almost 300 pounds and became painfully skinny. The other only lost about 100 pounds before plateauing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 03:27 PM
0

So what? It's not your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 03:22 PM
-1

If a guy doesn't want to have to pay child support all he has to do is not have sex with fertile women. Easy peasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:52 PM
7

OK. No women under 250 lbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:57 PM
6

As if it's only an American thing. Here's a cute video from South Africa. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=94HVIXPIob4
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:55 PM
6

It's more like 95% and it's for all behaviour modification weight loss attempts (not just dieting). Even weight loss surgery has only about a 50% long term success rate. Even those numbers are suspect since success is measured very broadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:32 PM
6

Very true. I got stories to tell about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:28 PM
1

What is fat? The term covers a lot of ground -- from a 210 pound chick with her cute little belly poking out from under her crop top -- to a 600+ pound woman who struggles to walk across the room.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:24 PM
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she could still go on hikes with me and walk around just fine. Of course she could. 180 pounds is barely chubby. 300 pound and even many 400 pound women can get around just fine. Here's a video of a 350 pound woman walking/hiking just fine (very fine actually). https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_UsEHE5GKb0
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:12 PM
-5

she could still go on hikes with me and walk around just fine. Of course she could. 180 pounds is barely chubby. 300 pound and even many 400 pound women can get around just fine. Here's a video of a 350 pound woman walking/hiking just fine (very fine actually). https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_UsEHE5GKb0
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:11 PM
0

Label it whatever you like. Some people just don't have the ability to switch their persona. I can do urban working class, I can do rural redneck, I can do liberal intellectual elite. Many people don't have that flexibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 08:22 PM
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I get that. I have very little desire to talk to most people. However, while you and I may be able to engage when and if we want, many other STEM nerds can't code switch like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 08:11 PM
1

I was never the fraternity sort.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 03:25 PM
1

I shoot for the stars -- 99th percentile women (that's 305 lbs).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 03:04 PM
1

I was at Applebees yesterday and caught part of the Alabama A&M vs Alabama State game. The halftime show featuring these ladies was really cool. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ygwyGeTd4xg Sometimes I think I should have gone to college in the South.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:58 PM
1

It's never over until you're in the ground. But the longer you wait the harder it's going to be. Also, have reasonable expectations. Catching up 100% isn't likely to be in your cards.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:55 PM
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Jr. high, high school, and college are when and where people learn to socialize. If you missed that window of opportunity it's going to be much harder to learn later. It's like learning a language as an adult rather than as a child. It can be done but it's much harder and you're unlikely to ever be really fluent.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:49 PM
2

Nah, men are different than women. Although I did think it was pretty hot that my 1st ex-wife won a jail fight against a much larger woman (wish I could have seen that).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:28 PM
1

In real world problem solving you often have to be able to "frame" almost instantaneously. If you have to ruminate on everything you're going to suck at your job.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:21 PM
3

some people with super IQs™️ These people tend to be very literal and very linear in their thinking. They may be great at "critical" thinking but they suck at "creative" thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:14 PM
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some people with super IQs™️ These people tend to be very literal and very linear in their thinking. They may be great at "critical" thinking but they suck at "creative" thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:13 PM
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IQ is useless without social intelligence Very true. Fortunately the two often go together. The one dimensional intelligence on the classic STEM nerd is the exception rather than the rule. There's a positive correlation between different types of intelligence. Most smart guys have above average social intelligence. Unfortunate smart guys who lack social intelligence tend to focus on academics and are overrepresented in colleges and universities -- especially in STEM. The more numerous smart guys…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:09 PM
7

If you have to sell yourself its already over.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 02:30 PM
3

Late bloomers are pretty damn rare. If you haven't figured out how to play the game by the time you're in you're 23 or 24 it aint ever going to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 02:29 PM
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Not a very good one. I lost a DUI trial this week.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 06:06 AM
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Not cheap but these guys are the real deal. https://www.schottnyc.com/store/men/jackets
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 06:03 AM
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Black labs and golden retrievers are light years apart. Some of the most vicious unpredictable dogs I've ever encountered were black labs. A neighbors black lab killed his two other dogs -- but for some reason he kept the dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 05:50 AM
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I've been arrested 4 times but never had to wear an ankle monitor (no convictions). The arrests didn't keep me from becoming a cop for a few years or later becoming a lawyer.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 05:37 AM
1

Women would rather share attractive men (either concurrently or serially) than date unattractive men. Unattractive men come to realize their situation and drop out of the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:47 AM
0

It's fucking obvious who he hates.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 03:58 PM
1

Yup. Trump's appeal is that he hates the same people his supporters hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 03:34 PM
1

In a previous incarnation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 03:02 PM
1

How is this even a question?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:32 PM
1

Time to bounce. If a woman isn't really into it early on it's not going to get better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:31 PM
2

It's pretty easy to tell the difference between a woman playing hide and seek and a woman running to the nearest police station.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:27 PM
2

Many times. I really really hate that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:25 PM
4

Yes. Despite conservative rants the USA has had the best economy in the world since the COVID disruption.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:24 PM
28

LOL!!! You actually think SEA, Latin American, and Eastern European women are submissive? Someone is in for a rude awakening.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:16 PM
16

Feminism didn't spring for the ether. Women created feminism as an alternative to their unfulfilling lives and of their own free will follow that path. Nothing sexier than actual strong independent women (not the ones who just claim to be).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:38 AM
41

Women have decided. They decided being a traditional wife sucks!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:03 AM
1

Good dick is a qualitatively different category. Women will go to incredible lengths for good dick. Good dick guy just has to show up. Indeed women will chase him down. Billy Beta has to dance like a trained monkey.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:25 PM
0

Women fuck guys because they're vicerally attracted all the time without the guy having to buy her even a single drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:52 PM
1

I'd need more information (i.e. a full body pic of both of you together) to make a proper evaluation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:34 PM
4

As the phrase is used here it means a guy who is valued for what he can provide rather than for who he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:32 PM
12

When a beta has a reversal of fortune his woman gonna bounce.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:49 PM
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Men are valuable resources, Reality check. Men are a dime a dozen -- this is especially true for dutiful beta guys. Beta provider men have value but NOT in any sort of unique way that would bind a woman to them Beta guys are fungible (i.e. interchangeable). Once one beta is all used up or not meeting expectations he's easily replaced by another.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:30 PM
2

Women love to virtue signal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:23 PM
0

Yes. If anything he's a bit better looking. She has a very basic vibe.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:14 PM
1

NO!!! Stacy got curves. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:07 PM
1

Their glorious leader loves the uneducated.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:06 PM
10

Women actually judge on weight way more than men. A majority of men are totally fine with curvy (i.e. overweight) women. A significant number of men actually prefer fat women. Fat men have no such constituency. The number of women who prefer fat men is vanishingly small.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:04 PM
1

It's not logical. It's a female gut reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:01 PM
7

Who said attraction was logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:00 PM
2

Men don't want to be protectors. Women are drawn to guys to have the ability to be protectors.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 01:59 PM
1

That too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 07:36 PM
4

At bars/clubs women aren't hooking up with top 1% guys -- they're hooking up with the middle of the subset of guys they notice. Women don't even notice the bottom 80% of guys (bars and clubs are full of these invisible guys). So an "ordinary" guy is the middle of the subset of guys women actually notice. Thus, ordinary = 90th percentile.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:40 PM
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Actually not how things work. There are a significant number of guys (including fit ones) who like fat women. The number of women (fit or not) who like fat men is vanishingly small. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 05:02 AM
19

Pretty fat women have no problem getting dates. Pretty fat women have no problem finding boyfriends. Pretty fat women have no problem find husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 02:46 AM
6

Arch big boss bab Nancy Pelosi has five children.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 02:43 AM
2

If a woman had to be an average guy for a year they'd self-delete. It's happened. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Norah_Vincent https://www.nytimes.com/2022/08/18/obituaries/norah-vincent-dead.html
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:02 AM
2

Who the hell "asks" for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 11:58 PM
5

Sadly, if all a woman has to offer is physical then that's all guys will be interested in her for. Guys would love to focus on more but with most women there just isn't anything else. Of course most guys are pretty basic too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 10:30 PM
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the process felt cold, disconnected and even dehumanising. Now imagine how it would feel if you like 100 people and at best two or three responded. That if you then spent a lot of time composing messages for those 2 or 3 each geared to interests they stated in their profiles and not a single one responded. Forgive me, but I'm having a hard time sympathizing with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:41 PM
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I resent how cut-throat I had to be in order to avoid getting absolutely flooded with matches. It's tough out there for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:36 PM
2

Silly rabbit -- the 1st night BJ is so she can "see what (she's) working with." That's a direct quote BTW.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:32 PM
1

She's twisting a bit -- her left leg is back a bit, her weight is on her right leg -- this hides a bit of her left butt cheek.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:27 PM
1

It's the was she's standing. Also, 80% probability she's had a serious tummy tuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:17 PM
2

I'm sorta a fattie expert. I've never noticed such a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:11 PM
1

Yeah I saw. It's a skinny girl problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:03 PM
1

Big heads and big eyes are cute. Like Christina Ricci. <img src="https://m.media-amazon.com/images/M/MV5BODAwMjcxOTMwMV5BMl5BanBnXkFtZTgwODM2MTc5MzI@.\_V1\_.jpg" alt="Sleepy Hollow (1999) - IMDb"/> <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 01:57 PM
1

Just eat more. Gain 40 pounds -- problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 01:51 PM
0

There's a real simple solution. All she has to do is gain 30 or 40 pounds -- problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 01:50 PM
2

What's a "hip dip"?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 01:44 PM
1

An "ideal" app would allow women to be even more discriminating making life even harder for ordinary men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 06:19 AM
5

Content posted by us older guys warning them. Being a Billy Beta is a raw deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:56 AM
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The problem is that the commitment you speak of is dependent on the man's continued good fortune. Being the safe responsible option is actually a rather precarious position. If Billy Beta has a reversal of fortune, or even fails to meet expectations, he'll be kicked to the curb without a second thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:33 AM
0

A lot of words to say 'don't put your dick in crazy.'
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 06:04 PM
1

If he's going to pay for sex he might as well import a bride.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 05:40 PM
1

Yup! We're kinda stupid that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 05:20 PM
0

Shakespeare would beg to differ.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 04:17 PM
0

Stories and music are how we interact and learn to understand people at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 04:00 PM
0

As I posted yesterday -- these issues are best examined through the arts and humanities. Here's an appropriate song by the best band ever to come out of Saskatewan -- The Northern Pikes. The song's She Ain't Pretty (she just looks that way). https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UG3ExHB133k
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 03:20 PM
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Nothing wrong with equity. Also, it was nice to have some women to paint fire hydrants -- something all the guys hated doing. There's also the fact that this stuff isn't brain surgery -- it's really hard to tell who is the best person when its a job most people can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 06:09 AM
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Why isn't he wearing a harness? Every time I went down a manhole I was in a harness attached to a rope so the people on top could pull me up if I passed out from gas. Fun times.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 05:58 AM
1

Lots of guys work for public works departments. I did for five years. Every day may not be disgusting but every time you go underground it's dangerous. The money was good (adjusted for inflation I made $36/hr).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 05:53 AM
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I built nice new sewer tunnels for several years. It's like building small subway tunnels (you use pretty much the same equipment).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 05:48 AM
1

No extra funding but extra consideration. I worked at a big city public works department for several years. The posting for the job I applied for was up for just one day -- I just happened to be at the HR department interviewing for another job when it was posted so I applied. They got over 100 applicants. Only 5 were women. They hired 5 people 2 of who were women. So 40% of the female applicants were hired but less than 3% of the male applicants were hired.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 05:46 AM
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BPD is referred to as best pussy disorder for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 01:53 AM
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Not much of a disguise.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 09:42 PM
3

Call it whatever you like. It's how women roll.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 06:15 PM
4

You don't get to unilaterally change any laws unless you're an absolute monarch. Marriage has evolved and changed. Here's a brief history. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 06:13 PM
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People have indeed changed the terms of the marriage "contract" many times. You just don't get to do it unilaterally.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 06:06 PM
3

Reaches a broader audience.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 05:55 PM
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SpongeBob tells us quite a bit about modern capitalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 05:46 PM
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Government decides what the marriage contract entails. You can either accept those terms or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 05:42 PM
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They already do, but men are dense as fuck, This! But only because what women consider an approach guys would consider only an indication of interest at best. Example. I was at a club in Queens. At the end of the night a drunk girl came up to me and demanded to know why I hadn't asked her to dance given that she had been "smiling at me all night." I hadn't even noticed her before she actually approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 04:51 PM
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Attraction and relationships are best explored through the arts and humanities. Most of the world's best literature, drama, poetry, film, and music explore issues of attraction and relationships. Here's a personal favorite. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c1QNe_3O_so
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 04:43 PM
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Gays wanted the choice to choose the protections and obligations of marriage. Marriage comes with a suite of both protections and obligations. You don't get to pick and choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 04:36 PM
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So don't get married. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 03:32 PM
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You don't have to have the same careers but you should have careers that require roughly similar amounts of education/training/effort. People who aren't high level professionals don't really have a clue what's involved. And it's not just the professional classes -- women who work boring 9 to 5 jobs have no clue what it takes to have a job that entails long hours and/or physical danger. Women who don't understand what their husbands have done/sacrificed to provide almost universally underestimate…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 03:31 PM
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LOL! Keep telling yourself that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:23 PM
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Paying someone to pretend to like you is pathetic. Gonna make losers feel even worse about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 07:26 AM
1

I don't even bother arguing with people who believe in invisible sky daddies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 04:11 AM
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Extraordinary claims require extraordinary proof. There isn't any proof of a supernatural being let alone extraordinary proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 04:03 AM
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Men's standards are very flexible.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 12:12 AM
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She did fine despite FOX's best efforts to mess with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 01:36 AM
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The first sorta has an excuse. For over a decade she had an undiagnosed growth in her brain that caused severe pair. Drugs were a temporary fix. Since she had surgery she's been clean and sober. Too late for the relationship but good for our grandkids. The second played me. I was a grade-A chump.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 12:29 AM
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It's a mass of cells not a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 12:07 AM
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Agree, but the prior poster claimed to be "dirt poor".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 08:54 PM
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Doctors married pretty nurses in the 1950s. Today they marry other top tier professionals.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 07:43 PM
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In California a nurse mother and firefighter father = family income of over $350K per year. Hardly poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 07:41 PM
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Social class determines which dating pool you get to fish in. It doesn't determine if you catch anything or not. Within each dating pool looks reign supreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 07:38 PM
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James Bond is sexier than any number of Tom Hanks characters.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 07:34 PM
2

Not matter what it's always the guy's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 07:31 PM
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File under "no shit."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 07:31 PM
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Yeah, no matter how hard she may be to replace this bitch is getting kicked to the curb.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 02:58 PM
2

A lot of money for assisted masturbation by a woman who doesn't have the least bit of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 03:06 AM
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Paying someone to pretend to like you is pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 02:59 AM
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Guess who made me a cynical asshole? That's right -- women. I met my 1st ex-wife in college too (we were both 18). Twenty years later her foray into drug use cost us everything we had worked to build over the preceding two decades. My second 2nd ex-wife was more than happy to let me bail her out of a lifetime of poor choices. Once she'd burned through what I'd managed to salvage from my 1st marriage she dumped me for a richer guy. I ended up living in a converted garden shed having sold my house…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 12:56 AM
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Women don't care about hardwork and intelligence. Women care about the bounty that results from a guy's hard work and intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 10:25 PM
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$o very $exy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 07:07 PM
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Baby mama's coast to coast! Wherever I roamed I'd have a nice warm place to sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 12:22 AM
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Because for a lot of guys it's true. Height is part of the equation. Short and otherwise ordinary = undateable. Tall and otherwise ordinary = dateable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 08:18 PM
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Looks can't be broken down into measurements. It's a holistic assessment. On average women prefer tall guys but just because someone is tall doesn't mean he's attractive. Inversely, just because a guy is short doesn't mean he's unattractive. Back in 2005 I dated two women who were the same height, same weight, same body shape, same facial shape, even very similar hair. Yet one was significantly sexier than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 02:14 PM
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I'm totally fine with being judged based on my actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 04:26 AM
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Just invest in a mutual fund at your local credit union.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 04:14 AM
1

Last time I looked the earth was infested with homo sapiens.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 04:11 AM
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Given looks are at least 90% of attraction why would you expect anything else?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 03:56 AM
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I've worked with some women who are as mechanically inclined as any guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 06:27 AM
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Prenuptial agreements are for rich people. They're a waste of time effort and legal fees for ordinary folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 06:08 AM
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Acknowledging reality is never a bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 06:05 AM
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Women are quieter about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 06:03 AM
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That's why I have my GF take clippers to my back every couple of months.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 03:56 AM
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Nah. Some guys are hopeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 03:54 AM
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You from New Jersey?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 03:53 AM
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I have a decent jawline. A short beard highlights my jawline.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 03:51 AM
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Young women don't like beards. Older women do. This is nothing new.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 03:50 AM
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No. But I'm not the guy at the donut shop. My 1st ex-wife worked at a donut shop in the 80s. The owner told her she could eat as many donuts as she wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 11:53 PM
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He wants to fatten you up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 11:37 PM
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Ironically mostly Americans who own little.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 11:33 PM
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I got four kids and more grandkids than I can count. Guess that makes me top tier. Cool!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 11:21 PM
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There's more to life than work. Europeans seem to understand this more than Americans.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 11:18 PM
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I've met her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 11:17 PM
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People can have whatever crazy standards they like. However, if they do they're not in a position to bitch about lack of prospective mates. Ohers are totally free to mock them if they do bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:19 PM
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Trump is a clear and present danger to the USA and world. Rivalries are set aside to fight the common enemy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 06:09 AM
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Delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:33 AM
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If your not vicerally attracted day one it's never going to happen. Without that kind of attraction what's the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:32 AM
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I don't believe you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:30 AM
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The relationship may have taken time. The chemistry was there from the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:29 AM
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Nah. I don't care if other people think she's too fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 09:11 PM
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The lust came first. The lust is still there even if they can no longer act on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 02:22 PM
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Those old couples who are still in love were fucking like bunnies when they were young.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 02:15 PM
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A romantic relationship without lust is destined to fail. It can be failed relationship even if the couple is technically still together.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 01:59 PM
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Lust comes first. You can't have a deep emotional relationship without lust.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 08:07 AM
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Nope. The kids were short too. Only saw one tall boy. I pointed him out to my daughter. She knew him. She said "he's on the tennis team." I said is that why you joined the tennis team? Then she punched my shoulder.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 12:10 AM
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The kids at my daughters' high school are all scrawny. No obesity epidemic here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:55 PM
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Perhaps. I know I certainly should have been more of an asshole when I was younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:04 PM
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My daughter but she doesn't really hate guys -- she's just disappointed with her male classmates.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:02 PM
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A lot of words to say -- Women don't want to fuck me. Someonee should make women fuck me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:34 PM
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It's called vetting. It's what women are always saying guys should do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:46 PM
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I much prefer debt-free sluts without tattoos. Extra points for giant fat booties.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:46 PM
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For example, my GF is always complaining our house isn't nice enough to have people over. If she made 200K I'd be great -- lets get a bigger nicer house. I'm not going to be intimidated -- I make six figures -- why wouldn't I want my significant other to make at least as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 08:41 PM
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Celebrate. This is obviously a good thing. I'd love it if my GF earned more than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:08 PM
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Nice. Bet The Donnas listened to that song a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:07 PM
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Link it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 03:42 PM
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I've always had a soft spot for girl bands. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zybIlnw2tao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 03:35 PM
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You don't need a "go bag" you just have to have the ability to say "if that's the way you feel you know where the door is." https://www.youtube.com/shorts/sMbgUzA-a3A
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:33 PM
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That type of woman is at least 80% of the dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 12:44 AM
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Hoes hate sluts. Women who use sex to get what they want hate women who have sex without ulterior motive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 10:35 PM
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I don't. Sluts are great!!! The world needs more women who like having sex and who have sex just because they want to with no ulterior motives.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 08:16 PM
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The UK isn't poor. Tories just like to complain (like American MAGA/Trumpers).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:28 PM
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This election is one where you need to choose a side. There are no neutrals this time. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SKWfnO7fhQM
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:23 PM
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Your kid will soon be 13 -- that's when the real fun starts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:20 PM
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Yup, letting women fill in the blanks with their fantasies is a winning strategy. Once they catch feelings the fantasy can last a very long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:18 PM
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In America women love talking -- mostly about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 02:32 PM
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You realize that none of that disproves the 80/20 rule. It just shows that you don't understand the 80/20 rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:48 AM
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Most women find only 2 or 3 percent of men attractive. But attraction is not random. About 20% of guys are found attractive by enough women that dating isn't a horrific struggle. Another 40% of guys will be found attractive by a few women. The remaining bottom 40% aren't found attractive by any women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:45 AM
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None of this is new. It's been like this for at least the last half century. The only thing that's changed is that now the cat is out of the bag.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:41 AM
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So you're saying adult women (18 and over) are incapable of making their own life choices? Adults are free to make their own decisions. This includes the freedom to make decisions others deem unwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:34 AM
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Not going to disagree. I would have hoped Israeli leadership would have been smart enough to not follow Hamas down this geocidal rabbit hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:42 PM
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Grossly disproportionate Palestinian deaths were part of the plan. Israel's tactical victories are Hamas strategic victories. The last year has seen support for Israel plummeting. Hamas as evil bastards but they're winning my sacrificing their own people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:35 PM
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Hamas did indeed start this round. Hamas doesn't care about either Israeli lives or Palestinian lives. They've sacrificed tens of thousands of their own people to make Netanyahu/Israel look bad. But they've played Netanyahu masterfully. Hamas counted on a grossly disproportionate response to October 7th. Netanyahu didn't disappoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:29 PM
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Hamas are evil bastards -- they killed scores of unarmed Israeli civilians to goad Netanyahu into a disproportionate response sacrificing tens of thousands of their own people in the process. Hamas has played Netanyahu like a fiddle.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:24 PM
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As if pollsters didn't learn anything and didn't adjust their models.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:20 PM
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Remember how dumb Boris Johnson's supporters were. Trump's supporters are an order of magnitude stupider. That's pretty much all you need to know. All of England's bad habits are multiplied in the USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:19 PM
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Something about getting back on the horse.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:15 PM
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I've always found that the less I talk the better things go. Most women don't actually want to talk to guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 02:12 PM
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Translation = entertain me -- dance monkey, dance.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 07:00 PM
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The first study only looked at violent deaths (just homicide and suicide). Even then suicide was more common than homicide: ... Of all deaths with known pregnancy status, 3,203 were by homicide (30.8%) and 7,208 (69.2%) were by suicide. ... The second link only compares homicide of pregnant women to "the three leading obstetric causes of maternal mortality (hypertensive disorders, haemorrhage, or sepsis)." Learn how to read studies/articles where the authors have agenda's to push.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 06:20 PM
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Not sure you understand the rules of engagement.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 06:10 PM
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Pretty sure auto accidents are the leading cause of death for pregnant women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 06:09 PM
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You expect a guy to spill his guts to a stranger on a dating app?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 06:00 PM
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Overly cheerful people are annoying AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 05:58 PM
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Most of this stuff only matters if you pass the looks threshold.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 05:22 PM
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Why does anyone expect empathy? Nature doesn't work like that. Males compete for access to females. Some succeed. Many fail. Haven't people here watched BBC nature shows?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 10:52 PM
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Men at more likely to have a BMI that classifies them as overweight. Whether or not that means guys are on average fatter is debatable. When it comes to people who are obviously fat (i.e. morbidly obese) women predominate.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 05:23 PM
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As if that's a representative sample.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 05:21 PM
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In California they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 05:35 AM
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<image> What's wrong with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 05:33 AM
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Here too. I've made the mistake of straying too far from the ocean.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 10:29 PM
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As if nagging and bitching constitutes good communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 04:30 PM
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High maintenance woman: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 03:29 PM
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Low maintenance woman. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 03:27 PM
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Today I'm going to get paid to drive three hours through country people come from all over the world to see (I even get to claim mileage).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 03:24 PM
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What's wrong with a breakfast burrito?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 03:20 PM
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When women start lecturing most guys just tune them out. What they really should be doing is looking for a new GF/wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 03:18 PM
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without any self awareness AWALT
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 03:14 PM
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There was a pool hall conveniently located two blocks from my high school. The government liquor store was conveniently across the street from the pool hall. The drinking age was 18 so I never got asked for ID (even when I was only 15). Large portions of high school are a blur.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:42 PM
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Might as well skip the entire class if you're going to get in trouble anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:39 PM
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Inexperience -- LOL -- hell no! Most women in abusive relationships have been around the block many times. Like the time a local woman got beat up by both her husband and her boyfriend in the same week. Me and the DA laughed about that one. Don't feel sorry for her -- she's in prison now for having her son break her stepson's leg with a baseball bat (her son's in prison too).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:31 PM
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Talk is cheap applies to women at least as much as it applies to guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:28 PM
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Women: "I can't believe he did that." Me: "It will be OK." (While thinking, of course he did that it was 100% predictable.)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:25 PM
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I plan on wandering off into the forest to be eaten by wolves. The wolves better get their act together. Their range is expanding but they're still a couple hundred miles away.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:22 PM
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WTF are you talking about. Walz was an emotionless zombie the entire debate. Harris was much more "emotional" mocking and toying with Trump. Her facial expressions were priceless.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:19 PM
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Perhaps they just thought you weren't worth their time. Some dates have potential and are worth investing time into. Others are OK but not worth a serious investment of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:15 PM
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no time to date people I'm not really attracted to FIFY
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:10 PM
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banking on """attraction growing with time as we develop a deeper bond""" will lead to people getting hurt FIFY
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:07 PM
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Yup, this is exactly how things go when "friendship" comes first: Then I was out with girlfriends and met this other guy who was so hot and the guy I was dating didn't even enter my mind even when the guy I met asked if I had a boyfriend 😬. That's when I knew I had to break it off
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:02 PM
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50% do not have real degrees. Not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 07:05 PM
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Community Colleges and for profit online schools most certainly don't make the cut.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 07:04 PM
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The average IQ for people who graduate from real universities and respected 4 year colleges is at least 120.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:39 PM
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Canadian women are far less timid. Canadian women don't see imaginary danger around every corner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:49 PM
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Baby Mama #1 and Baby Mama #2
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:40 AM
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Yup. There are also 9 grandkids from the 1st set.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:40 AM
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Average hourly pay for production and nonsupervisory workers — who make up four-fifths of employees — hit $30.27 in August, according to the latest report from the Bureau of Labor Statistics. https://thehill.com/opinion/finance/4882184-rising-wages-working-class-americans/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:28 AM
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2Q 2024, the median rent for newly constructed apartments plunged 6.2% to $1,746 from the previous year, below their peak of $1,889 in 1Q 2022. https://www.globest.com/2024/09/30/q2-rents-post-second-steepest-drop-in-five-years/?slreturn=2024100312311In
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:25 AM
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Many things are cheaper than last year.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:21 AM
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1988,1989, 2008, and 2010 worked for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:19 AM
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Vermont is the only decent rural state in the entire country.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:14 AM
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Or perhaps this is more your speed. Just a cute little 11 bedroom 10,000 sq foot cabin. https://www.realtor.com/realestateandhomes-detail/1044-Gross-Point-Rd_Ferrisburgh_VT_05456_M91781-48834?from=srp-list-card
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:47 AM
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For an extra 30K this one has more character. https://www.realtor.com/realestateandhomes-detail/210-Christian-Hl_Canaan_VT_05903_M45383-97877?from=srp-list-card
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:41 AM
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Don't overthink this. Without sex it's not a relationship -- end of story.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:33 AM
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I’d also wanna live in a cabin in the mountains and have a nice plot of land for homesteading. You don't need much money for that. https://www.realtor.com/realestateandhomes-detail/790-Kings-Run-Rd_Shinglehouse_PA_16748_M90912-15961?from=srp-list-card
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:25 AM
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Actually the economy is doing just fine. Job growth is accelerating. Wages are up. Inflation is way down. Rents are coming down. Used car prices are way down. Even home prices as moderating (slowly).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:18 AM
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That sounds like a nightmare. This seems better. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:15 AM
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Smart people are more reasonable. Also, people who have worked hard over a long time period to achieve something understand that there will always be road blocks, potholes, and detours along the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 10:52 PM
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Nah, uneducated women who managed to come into some money are likely the worst bet for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 10:16 PM
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If you have kids together it can't be avoided.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 07:49 PM
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Statistics don't bare that out. Educated women get married more. Educated women stay married more.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 07:32 PM
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Having regular sex is on the adult male checklist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 06:49 PM
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Men actually need to be more selfish. Guys need to stop dancing like trained monkeys trying to please women. Guys need to just do what they want -- do what feels good to them. If the woman likes it too great. If not she knows where the door is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 02:58 PM
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But how is anyone going to know. It's not like n-count is stamped on women's foreheads.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 01:33 PM
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I never demand anything. If she wants to fuck great. If not I'll find someone who does. No demanding, menacing, or threatening involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 11:58 PM
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Not quite. If she's going to be a LTR chick she needs to bring her A-game. However, its entirely up to her. If she doesn't bring her A-game I'll just find a woman who will.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 11:53 PM
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That might have been true in grandma's small village in the old country but in today's urban world no one knows or cares about a woman's sexual history.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 11:30 PM
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Ok. Give it your best shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:46 PM
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The idea that meh guys can get dates by improving their profiles is laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:43 PM
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The world is better today than its ever been.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:37 PM
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The recession ended in 2012 at the latest. The last 12 years have been the best in living memory for young college grads (an others with marketable skills).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:36 PM
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AWALT for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:33 PM
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Photo quality hardly matters. Hot guys get dates. Meh guys don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:29 PM
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Women have little self awareness in this area.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:27 PM
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No amount of curating can make an unattractive guy attractive -- and being attractive is all that matters when online dating. Guys don't get points for effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:20 PM
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Israel is over estimating the level of support it has with the new generation of Western leaders.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:39 PM
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Some really annoying clients this morning. Gotta love the look on people's faces when the judge revokes bail and remands them for continuing to do the same stupid shit that got them arrested in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:30 PM
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Did Israel really think they wouldn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:27 PM
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Nah, just googled "SSBBW booty".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:00 PM
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Also, just because they're shopping together at Walmart doesn't mean they're a couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 03:28 PM
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But you get a nice view. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 03:26 PM
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Of course they'll be resentful and bitter. That's how people work. Right and wrong have nothing to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 12:41 PM
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Inequality breeds resentment which in turn breeds anger with can be redirected in ways which endanger civil society. The fact that frustrated young men are attracted to MAGA and Trump's empty rantings being a current example.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 04:09 AM
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men don't meet the legitimate requirements of women LOL!!! As if female vetting is rational.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 04:05 AM
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I'm here after morning sex while I'm having breakfast and coffee. And then while I'd otherwise be staring at the ceiling waiting for my cases to be called.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:54 PM
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Depends on whether or not she makes breakfast after you stay the night.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:35 PM
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Women love using money they got from their fathers, boyfriends, husbands, ex-husbands, .... to make themselves look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:32 PM
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When my son was 9 we were watching the Terminator movies together. Had to introduce him to the classics.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:28 PM
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Women hiding financial information (good or bad) is a huge red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:23 PM
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At the end of their shift those women can get laid anytime they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:22 PM
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No it's the same -- just a matter of degree. To be considered hot by women a guy has to be at least 98th percentile. To be considered hot by guys a woman need only be about 80th percentile.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:20 PM
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I'm similarly situated except I have four kids. Something about "going down the only road I've ever known".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 10:50 PM
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One is a smart accomplished woman. The other an angry ranting idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 05:25 PM
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That's very true in Canada and Europe. In the USA there seems to be more pressure to marry (if only to get on your spouse's healthcare plan).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 05:12 PM
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Pesky facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 05:08 PM
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This is BS! Marriage is increasingly reserved for college educated women. Also, smart educated women are much more likely to stay married.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 05:04 PM
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As a wealthy person you have more to lose if a dangerous idiot is in power.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 04:31 PM
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As if Trump gives a shit about his idiot followers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 10:28 AM
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I own a house the neighborhood kids think is haunted.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:51 AM
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I care. The last thing I need is another dependant. I have a six figure career. She should too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 10:12 PM
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Only the second response I've read that mentioned bringing financial resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 10:06 PM
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Do you bring an established career with a six figure income?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 10:05 PM
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Cool. You're pretty much the only woman who mentioned bringing financial resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 10:03 PM
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They're are no longer competitive in today's dating marketplace.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 07:06 PM
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If they're married they're not MGTOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 07:03 PM
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99.9% of those guys would love to date and ultimately get married. They're just not on women's radar. MGTOW is men making the best of a bad situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 06:43 PM
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Not true. Women find fewer and fewer men acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 06:15 PM
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It's no men who are walking away.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 05:50 PM
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she moved back to Argentina because he didn't have enough money Every Betabux guy is one reversal of fortune or failure to meet expectations away from abandonment. Meanwhile, women who are actually viscerally attracted to their man will standby him pretty much no matter what. Being a Betabux is the opposite of winning at life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:07 PM
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Yeah, guys who "bulk" on purpose are idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 08:47 AM
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Africa might be an improvement. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 08:46 AM
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Angola, Doesn't look so bad. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 08:43 AM
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You must somehow look creepy because women generally love large masculine men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 12:16 AM
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Both. Sex is a prerequisite for a relationship. Good relationships make sex better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 10:38 PM
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Pack up and get in/on a car/bus/train/plane and go somewhere -- problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:13 PM
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She just told you that you're her fuck buddy and nothing more. Believe her. Keep fucking her if you feel like but she's disqualified herself from LTR/marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:11 PM
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Do I get extra points for having both a natural science degree and an education degree? The latter was a total waste of time BTW.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:08 PM
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Seems immigrants aren't the ones "taking the pets". Seems it's MAGA folks -- in this case the guy behind Project 2025 -- who kill and disappear family pets. https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2024/sep/24/project-2025-kevin-roberts-killed-dog
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:06 PM
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Don't care. Unless they're in her nose.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 08:00 PM
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Vetting basically means men need to stop believing what women say and really only on what they do. So much for the "believe women" trope.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 07:59 PM
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What you can get is your league.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 02:28 PM
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I'm sure he's just fine without boring women who feel they deserve to be entertained.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:46 PM
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Trust -- but verify.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:16 AM
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I'm not pro-life but I'd have no problem raising my child if his/her mom didn't want him/her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:03 AM
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LOL! I went to law school with a guy who had previously been a nuclear engineer. He was a total nerd. Many of our female classmates thought he was hot. I'm sure the fact he was 6'2" with thick blonde hair, a perfect smile, and a lean athletic physique had nothing to do with it -- some women just like nerds.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:13 AM
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You need to go out and socialize. Women either appear or they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 05:52 PM
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Excellent!!! More big booty bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 01:46 AM
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Building better booties.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 01:45 AM
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I'm basically a teatotaler but not a prude.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 11:59 PM
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Why do people ask if they don't want to know?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 11:57 PM
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Take the girl out. Your family isn't going anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:59 PM
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Let's give all of Ohio back to the Native Americans. White people have ruined it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:57 PM
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Consent and enjoyment are two different things. Women are adults with agency. Women can consent to things they know they won't enjoy. People are free to make poor choices -- or choices they may regret later -- or choices other people wouldn't make.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:13 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:43 PM
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Both. Flirting only works for people who are attractive enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:42 PM
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My high school math teacher grabbed me by my jean jacket and smashed my head into my desk.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 11:59 PM
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My 1st ex-wife loved being pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 02:09 AM
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Extra healthy BMI. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 02:06 AM
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Why are they talking at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:59 AM
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Why "bulking" is a terrible idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:58 AM
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Pretty fly for a white guy. s/ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QtTR-_Klcq8
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:56 AM
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Men work longer hours. Men have more seniority. Men choose college majors that pay more. Men choose to train for well paying trades. Men choose unpleasant and/or dangerous jobs that pay more. That's the wage gap. Women can eliminate it anytime they want. Women can do any or all the above. They choose not to. .
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 04:27 PM
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Yeah, I was in Liverpool last month and thought 'this looks different'. Then I realized last time I was there was 1996.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:21 PM
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If Trump wins the world's despots will rejoice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:17 PM
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Similar but not identical (I think).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:09 PM
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Or Canadian football. Or Irish football.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 05:52 PM
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Four downs is for pussies. Three down Canadian rules football is way better.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 05:51 PM
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No it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:07 AM
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Lots of female teachers seem to have a thing for 13 to 15 year old boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:59 AM
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Who'd pick your salad?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:57 AM
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Romance is way overrated. Better for guys to know women's true nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:53 AM
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Time to make like just as hard for the very rich as we already do for the very poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:15 PM
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Peterson had a few good points back in the day but he went off the rails a long time ago. My homie has really fallen far (we went to undergrad together at the same big university but didn't know each other).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:13 PM
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The social contract of marriage is broken. Only a fool performs a contract when he knows there's a high likelihood the other party will not perform. Guys need to become more selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:09 PM
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Being poisoned at work is violent crime. Being ripped to pieces or crushed at an unsafe job site is violent crime. Being conned out of your life savings in a scam has more long-term impact than being robbed of $50 and your watch on a street corner. Lets call it as it is. Rich people are the criminal class.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:02 PM
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More successful ordinary guys (i.e. guys who are not dependent on a wife's/GF's income) need to do the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 12:06 PM
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The most criminal behavior is found in which economic class? Mhm. The very rich -- by far. Corporations owned and operated by rich people violate environmental laws daily poisoning and shortening the lives of millions. Corporations owned and operated by rich people violate workplace safety laws daily injuring, maiming, and killing millions of their employees. Corporations owned and operated by rich people violate labor laws daily stealing the wages and limiting the rights of millions of employee…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 11:57 AM
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The resentment comes from the expectation that women care about a guy's journey and the struggles he has to overcome along the way. Guys need to understand that women don't care about that. A weight is lifted once a guy realizes that women only care that the journey makes him stronger/more successful/richer. He can continue to struggle for his own reasons if he so chooses -- or he can scale back his efforts. He can choose to enjoy women for what they are as opposed to what he wanted them to be -…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 11:42 AM
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The resentment comes from the expectation that women care about a guy's journey and the struggles he has to overcome along the way. Guys need to understand that women don't care. Once guys realize that women only care that the journey made the guys stronger/more successful/richer a weight is lifted. He can continue to struggle for his own reasons if he so chooses -- or he can scale back his efforts. He can choose to enjoy women for what they are as opposed to what he wanted them to be --- or he …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 11:42 AM
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Fuck that shit! Give me an urban woman with a career, big booty, and a bad attitude (more fun that way).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 08:14 PM
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If they're your GF or wife it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 08:09 PM
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If you're smart and ambitious you can get a real job.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:59 PM
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What disrespect? Big round booties are good. Fried chicken is good too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:01 PM
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People need to lighten up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 05:36 PM
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The benefits of dating a black woman -- big round booty at night -- leftover fried chicken for breakfast. Life is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 04:59 PM
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Not me. I like sex and I've noticed that most women do too. Sex is a mutually enjoyable activity. Not degrading at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 04:53 PM
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99% of Onlyfans girls only make a couple of thousand per year. They'd make more working at McDonald's.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 03:59 PM
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Sluts fuck for fun with no ulterior motive. Hoes fuck as a means to an end.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 07:55 PM
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Yeah, sluts are great! It's hoes who aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 07:45 PM
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20 is nothing. As long as you're not triple digits you're good.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 07:44 PM
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Here comes more manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 07:43 PM
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Women do social groups. Guys don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 03:09 PM
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What the fuck is self-actualization?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:37 AM
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Social circle game ends with college graduation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:58 AM
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So a boring guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:57 AM
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You can't have romantic love without sex. Sex is a prerequisite for love.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:56 AM
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As if women care about such things.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 07:09 PM
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Just be hot. That's it. Nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 02:37 PM
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My old ALF DVDs are worth a lot more after the debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 01:16 PM
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This post is total BS! Here's the reality: 18-23: Walk out of bar -- women say "want to come party at our place." Over 30: Every date is like a job interview.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 12:07 PM
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Yeah, for me it was 19 to 23. Not sure what world the guys who think it gets easier are living in.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 12:05 PM
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Just be Billy Beta. What could possibly go wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:59 AM
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You mean cats aren't on the lunch menu?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:55 AM
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I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 12:17 AM
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Yeah. People who think they know it all are usually idiots. Smart people know the limitations of their knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 12:02 AM
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Before the 1960s people with masters degrees sometimes got tenure.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 12:00 AM
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My daughters are cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:58 PM
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Lesbians are over represented in law enforcement. Never noticed them being better or worse than other cops.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:56 PM
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6'4" But I'm 60 years old. Neigbor is late 30s or early 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:51 PM
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I was working on my house and the woman across the street brought me dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:41 PM
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I've never encountered even one woman who gets turned on by lift numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:33 PM
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Grabbing pussies to save them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:31 PM
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Revenge fucking is a thing. I've done it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:29 PM
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Women don't care about lift numbers. They care about men looking strong and athletic. Tall ripped guy >>> short strong fat guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:28 PM
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I had my 4th kid when I was 47.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:00 PM
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Yup. That's middle age guy locker room talk. Trump has probably never been in an ordinary locker room. Yet somehow he just knows all the other guys are talking about grabbing pussies too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:10 PM
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OP's assertion presupposes most men actually talk about women the way Trump does. They don't. Most "locker room talk" is boring AF. Young guys talk about their cars, or motorcycle, or about getting drunk. Middle age men talk about home improvement projects. Old guys talk about their ailments. I've been in a lot of locker rooms over the last 45 years starting when I was a high school athelete. I've never -- not even once -- heard anyone talk like Trump asserts they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:24 PM
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I got no problem forgiving student debt. We subsidize rich assholes all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 02:27 AM
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Education degrees are totally useless. I'm glad I didn't pay for mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 02:22 AM
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What no Boston Pizza?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 01:43 AM
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Pizza Pizza is just as bad as Little Ceasars. For unfathomable reasons they're everywhere in Toronto.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 01:42 AM
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30 or 40K is chump change these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 01:22 AM
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Business people are generally boring AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 12:39 AM
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Education is about a lot more than money.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 12:38 AM
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No. It's women putting off men by giving them 2nd rate treatment. BJs are a tool women use to control beta guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 11:52 PM
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Why? They're the consolation prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 11:42 PM
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BJs are over rated. I'm fine without them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 11:18 PM
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Justin and his dad before him were both capably PMs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 10:17 PM
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200 lbs is barely even chubby.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:07 AM
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Managed to spend $194 at a thrift store. We got entire shopping cart of stuff. Then we saw a movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:20 PM
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Jawlines pop when you lose weight. Fat lost at the gym is way more important than muscle gained.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:11 PM
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Teen age kids are expensive. They've cost me $230 so far today.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 09:55 PM
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NOOOO!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:16 PM
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Guys need to sort stuff out themselves. Or not. No one is going to help. Many men need to get used to disappointment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 03:32 PM
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Women are perfectly willing to date attractive shy guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:45 PM
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Women like strong guys. They'd prefer he'd not be an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:20 PM
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Women love DGAF attitude especially when the guy isn't an obvious asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 12:04 PM
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As long as I'm getting her best game the number don't matter. Sluts rock! It's hoes who suck. There's a huge difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:02 AM
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Oversized traps and delts look odd. Women hate odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:42 PM
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Tren and HGH make guys look worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:31 PM
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104 degrees in September. WTF.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:27 PM
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You can't fake how you look.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:23 PM
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Society already acknowledges the type of things you're complaining about. Men's problems not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:21 PM
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Just world fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:25 PM
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Every ugly guy knows how sadly true this is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:23 PM
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Hot guys need only mediocre social skills. Great social skills won't help unattractive guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:20 PM
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Sexual/romantic connection is one of the most important parts of life. What good is millions of dollars if you're alone? Feminism has empowered women to choose who they want to fuck. They're predominantly choosing to fuck attractive guys even when they know he's not interested in a relationship with them. Since women only find a small percentage of men attractive this leaves a lot of men shutout. This isn't necessarily a bad thing -- women having agency is good -- but it comes with consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:02 PM
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Women have a habit of defining disloyalty as something other than cheating. "It was already over." "We were taking a break." "If he (BF/husband) hadn't ... (whatever) ... it would never have happened."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:24 AM
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Focusing on yourself becomes increasingly important as guys age. You have to focus on yourself to remain attractive. You have to focus on yourself to become successful. You have to focus on yourself to avoid being sucked dry my women looking to be bailed out from a life of poor choices. Middle age guys need to learn how to more selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 09:25 PM
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Game is way oversold. Go to the gym. Looks are almost everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 09:21 PM
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LOL! Found the Russian troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 07:58 PM
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Trumpers can try but the revolution will fail when their scooters' batteries die and their oxygen tanks empty. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 07:55 PM
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Yeah, very little can be more than hardly any.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:05 PM
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It's science (developmental biology).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 11:27 PM
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It's not a child. It's a mass of cells attached to the woman's body.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 11:12 PM
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WTF?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:11 PM
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When dealing with very attractive men women do indeed act like guys act when dealing with all women who are at least minimally attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:27 PM
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My 1st ex-wife was sporting a buzz cut and was wearing a thrift store black men's siit the night we met. Kind of a punk rock meets Blues Brothers look.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:11 PM
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No sure I want to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:45 PM
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Apparently he's a dangerous animal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:14 PM
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Client came to court with a fur tail attached to his butt. WTF?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:12 PM
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Specious argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:35 PM
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It's a medical procedure. Who the hell wants to have a medical procedure? Of course appropriate medical care (including access to abortion) needs to be available.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:27 PM
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It's a medical procedure. Who the hell wants to have a medical procedure? Of course appropriate medical care (including access to abortion) needs to be available.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:26 PM
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No one should be "pro" abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:00 PM
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Basically you just want to be able to control women's bodies. No way are women going to allow that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:12 PM
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All family law is gender neutral.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:00 PM
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American abortion laws walk all over the autonomy and privacy rights of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:00 PM
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I got an A+ in boreal forest ecology. It was a very interesting class. An ecology degree will get you into medical school if your grades are good.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:16 AM
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My daughters can study anything they like at college. Any degree will get them into law school so they might as well study what they're interested in. My oldest daughter has three degrees. My oldest granddaughter recently got her BA. My second oldest granddaughter is in college now. My two youngest daughters are still in high school but they're on track to go to college.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:57 AM
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When it's an actual rape they certainly do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:59 AM
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Don't believe that trope. Cops love to make felony sex crime arrests. District Attorneys love to prosecute felony sex crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 11:46 PM
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It's exceedingly rare. Way more rare than almost any other crime. I've handled well over 10,000 criminal cases over the last two decades. Only two were rapes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 11:11 PM
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A certain type of tall lanky guy. They still look athletic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 10:53 PM
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It's rare because the vast majority of sex is consensual.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 10:52 PM
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Why ex and my oldest daughter are CPS social workers. One of the first things social workers do after taking a child into custody is feed them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 10:50 PM
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I have four kids. Two sets of two. They ate the same food and participated in the same activities. Yet in each set one is average weight and the other chunky. Genetics is a huge factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 10:48 PM
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For a minute there I thought I knew one of those women (but on closer inspection it wasn't her).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 10:43 PM
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Women care how strong guys look. Their observations are remarkably accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 10:37 PM
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That's not that high a bar. I can do it and I suck at powerlifting (long limbs and small wrists).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 10:35 PM
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I'm all for no abortion laws. It's a medical issue between a doctor and patient.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 10:32 PM
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True, but horrible as that is it's not a Western World issue. Circumcision is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 10:30 PM
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True, but horrible as that is it's not a Western World issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 10:30 PM
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The Western World is a safer place for women now than its ever been.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 10:28 PM
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Rape is very rare. Sex trafficking incredibly vanishing rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 10:27 PM
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Theoretically. However, if you hire a cleaning company there's a 99% probability that the person who shows up will be a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 04:20 PM
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Refusing to do housework is the feminist thing to do. Just hire other women to do those unpleasant chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 03:20 PM
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Yup, you can have the world's best communications skills but you still won't be able to talk to someone who doesn't want to talk to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 01:37 PM
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The women in my life have all been pretty ordinary. That's just how women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 09:06 AM
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I was well over 40 before any women ever asked how many women I'd had sex with. My 2nd ex-wife asked. She was number 53.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 10:25 PM
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The last day of the quintessential bad boy Chad. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 10:23 PM
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An acquaintance of mine was on 600 Life (Season 2 Episode 1). Her husband left her after she lost weight. His new GF is even bigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 10:12 PM
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For a 5'4" woman 437 lbs = BMI 75. That's big but nothing that unusual. I see women that size out and about all the time. There was one at the Labor Day Breakfast I attended this morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 10:09 PM
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Nah. A BMI of 75 should count three times as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:22 PM
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Why? Kids are pretty much the same as they've ever been.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:20 PM
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WTF are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:14 PM
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Get help.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:03 PM
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You wouldn't be a cop for long.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:02 PM
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Same situation in the UK.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:58 PM
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It's not a big deal. "What are you?" is a common question in the USA where there are all sorts of brown people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:18 PM
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You want someone who irrationally belives in an imaginary sky daddy? That's a huge red flag for most high value men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:14 PM
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Oxford Street on a Saturday has a fuck ton of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:01 PM
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Life and struggle have always gone together. Enjoy the fight. What's so great about lazing around doing nothing?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:59 PM
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Outliers at increasingly irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:21 PM
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I'm not a fan of small talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 04:24 AM
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As if women seek intelligent conversation with guys they don't want to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 04:07 AM
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These kinds of events have been almost totally replaced by dating apps. Guys would rather be privately disappointed than publicity humiliated.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 04:04 AM
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Even on a good night out I seldom have more than two women to choose from (i.e. women who seem interested). Some nights none at all. Dating is very different for guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:38 AM
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How does one conjure up these compatible people?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 01:10 AM
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There was a lot of blame to go around in that relationship. We met when we were both 18 year old. Teenagers are noted for their good decision making.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 10:54 PM
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I was only the 2nd guy she'd ever slept with. Her friends used to call her the "Ice Princess." Her being really attracted a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 07:30 PM
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She was a pretty, very smart, college student from a well established East Coast family. On every metric I can think of she was far better than any of the other girls I'd been seeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 06:34 PM
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Relationships can be complicated. I revenge fucked the girl from the 1st example and that threw us off course for several years. But by the time she crashed and burned I thought we were past that -- we had to kids and two houses in California.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 06:18 PM
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Lucky me. I get to have her when she's a broken down 56.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:41 PM
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Guys here should agree with the sentiments of this song. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rzJ21OpFnZ0&list=RDtLr4ewBa00g&index=24
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:14 PM
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This song pretty much describes what guys look for in a woman. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o9RPCDGLPUM&list=RDtLr4ewBa00g&index=6
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:02 PM
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Theoretically, however, in the Western World almost all smart young people go to college.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:32 PM
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Not at three months.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:49 PM
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Unless they're almost ready to pop young pregnant women can stand like everyone else. Equality baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:48 PM
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Yet college educated women are increasingly the only ones getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:46 PM
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You're rather they be dumb, barefoot, and pregnant?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:45 PM
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The guys they went to college with and who they will eventually marry were partying too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:44 PM
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Women have been shallow and hypergamous since way before social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:40 PM
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That one actually loved me for about ten years. Also, how would have waiting for sex have changed anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:07 PM
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I ghosted her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:42 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:41 PM
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Women say they hate shirtless pics, however, they seem more than willing to overlook that faux pas if the guy actually has a good body. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:43 PM
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I could write a book. I'll just give three examples here: A high school GF dumped me. When I asked her why she said I had a "funny body" (she wasn't wrong, I managed to be both tall and gangly and fat at the same time). 40 years later, when I'm a successful professional and she's on disability after her knee replacement surgeries didn't go so well, she contacted me to "catch up". My 1st ex-wife cheated on me with a 6'6" drug dealing former Marine with washboard abs. She got addicted (to both him…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:27 PM
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I hate being pampered. It's usually totally insincere. Whenever a woman does it the first thing I think is, what does she want. Or it gets thrown back in your face later. The "I did everything for you" BS where the "everything" is just superficial shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:59 PM
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I prefer women who are educated, have careers, and pay half the bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:54 PM
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Feminist are the least crazy women. Women who went to Catholic or Christian school are the crazy ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:27 PM
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Actually, there aren't. Sexual attraction is demonstrated by dropped panties.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:25 PM
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Even better -- she'll have a career and can pay half the rent/mortgage.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:23 PM
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Following somebody increases their ego -- not yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:25 AM
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That's a good thing!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:24 AM
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Intense sexual attraction is the opposite of dehumanizing -- its the essence of being human.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:32 AM
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Why the fuck wouldn't a guy want a woman who is really into whatever he is?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:52 AM
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Most certainly. It's a huge green flag. It shows she's actually attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:44 AM
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Believe women but not men. I'm not surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:12 PM
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Have you met women?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:06 PM
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Some are. Others are getting shut out.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:03 PM
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The experience of millions of men is significant evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:00 PM
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In the long run yes. However, women can use apps to hookup with more attractive guys. This temporarily inflates their egos and self-rating. Eventually, life experience corrects this -- but that can take years.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 09:38 PM
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sugar babies AKA prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:12 PM
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Sexually attracted and socially like are not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:10 PM
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Guys need to be both hot and endowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:00 PM
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The level of fitness required for good health is much easier to attain than the level of fitness required to attract young hotties. Indeed acquiring and maintaining the amount of muscle women now think of as normal can negatively impact your health. The last doctor I had was a tall thin runner type. Seemed to be in great health for an older guy but I doubt young women were lining up to fuck him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:40 PM
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Who cares if they do or don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:33 PM
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Never said they like them. I said the fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:30 PM
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Women like having all the power in the sexual marketplace and don't like being reminded that their power is fading.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:08 PM
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Far better than helicopter parenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:06 PM
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They do. Older women hook up with younger guys for sex all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:04 PM
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The problem with this argument is that an old dude isn't getting a young hottie unless he's a phenomenally attractive old dude. For most guys this just isn't possible -- they don't have the genetics. For the very few old dudes who might be able to pull it off it requires constant work to remain in good enough shape for young hotties. It takes way more "improving" to go young.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:03 PM
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You were expecting logic and consistency?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 07:50 AM
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Women need to stop thinking that men should be happy to pay for the chance to bask in their presence.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 03:25 AM
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At least not complaining about it 24/7 like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:10 AM
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What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:08 AM
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You always need to have at least two so they can amuse each other. My two kids were only 11 months apart. The second set just shy of two years apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:38 AM
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The world will be fine. This planet is infested with homo sapiens.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:35 AM
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Some things just aren't amenable to quantification.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:20 AM
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Now it's your turn to get a graduate degree and a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:19 AM
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The seemed pretty typical -- other than having attention spans way longer than many kids (i.e. they could watch entire movies or read all afternoon).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:17 AM
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Surveillance would work.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:08 AM
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If she ain't paying half the bills she's not marriage material.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:08 AM
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Free range is the best way to parent. Haven't lost a kid yet (although there were a few close calls).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:06 AM
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There a bit of truth to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:53 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:51 AM
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I'm cool with that provided she's making six figures too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:50 AM
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They're easy and fun. Infants sleep all day. Toddlers and preschoolers are easy to entertain. I'd take mine to the local playground. I could sit on a bench and read for several hours. When we got back home the kids would take a three hour nap. I did this even in winter. Put them in their snow suits and let them go.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:48 AM
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Yeah, one 13-year-old can be fun to interact with. A room full of 30+ 13-year-olds is no fun at all. I hated teaching (they always gave me the worst jr. high classes).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:44 AM
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Kids aren't nearly as much work as women assert.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:42 AM
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What's the breakdown by age? Pretty sure most 25 to 40 year old women work.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:41 AM
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Self-reported I'm sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:39 AM
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There is little difference between American and Canadian women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:38 AM
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Birthrate BS dressed up in ill applied sociology. Durkheim's anomie applied to people adrift outside society -- not to people actively engaged in struggles to change society. Also, the vast majority of women work. The ideal family has shifted from "Father Knows Best" to a partnership of equals. Like any partnership the division of responsibilities and labor is subject to ongoing negotiation. Fathers today (married or not) are far more involved in their children's lives than the stereotypical 195…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:34 AM
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Nah. They'd rather have mom working a low wage job.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 07:07 PM
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Edmonton hasn't been conservative since the 1970s. There's a reason they call it "Redmonton."
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:53 PM
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Vancouver Island is beautiful but it's always been a bitch to make a living there. Edmonton is probably the easiest place in North America for working class people to raise a family. Jobs are plentiful and pay reasonably well, housing isn't cheap but it's not insane, the city has great infrastructure for families (everything from daycares in elementary schools, to playgrounds, to bike trails, swimming pools and skating rinks).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:28 PM
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The US Army revoked my top secret security clearance because of ties to a foreign country.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:01 PM
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My daughters are all over 5'8" but they're not particularly athletic. My 13-year-old is on her high school tennis team though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:59 PM
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A recipe for flaming out early.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:56 PM
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Dude needs to 1) join a gym, and 2) find a divorce attorney. Once a woman loses attraction its over and there's no going back (been there).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:55 PM
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Yup. Capitalism wanted atomized commodified workers. They got that. Now they're surprised Pikachu faced that family formation has tanked.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:49 PM
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I raised my first two kids in Edmonton working blue collar gigs no problem. It was actually easier than in the USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:43 PM
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Nice two bedroom apartments can be had in the less trendy parts of the Bay Area for about $2,400. An acquaintance lives in one in American Canyon. Even secretaries with no specific skills make 60K in the Bay Area. A family with a secretary making 60K and (for example) a truck driver making 80K can easily afford that. Lots do -- my acquaintance's complex is full of kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:19 PM
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The bank has agency too. The bank can choose not to loan to a drunk. Payday loan people most likely won't give a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:11 PM
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I was both a young parent and an old parent (two different baby mamas) I have 9 grandkids with two more in the pipeline. I'll be playing with a couple of them this evening. The quality of daycare today is far better than in the 1980s. There were way more crack houses back then. Kids don't give a shit whose name is on the title of the building they live in. Lots of rental complexes are great places to raise kids (lots of other parents and kids to socialize with).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:08 PM
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Voluntary intoxication is not a get out of consequences card. People who choose to drink are still responsible for their actions after all it was their choice to get plastered. To void a contract it would have to be proven that the drunk person didn't intend to enter the contract -- not just that he/she now regrets entering the contract. A contract signed by a person who was unknowingly drugged would not be valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:54 PM
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Fracking has been used for decades. It's a legit process. What's needed are controls on the chemicals used (more than just water/steam is injected). Also, oil and gas companies need to be held to account for externalities (i.e. groundwater contamination, road damage, subsidence/earthquake, ...). The solution isn't either "drill baby drill" or a total ban.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:47 PM
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I'm 60, but my youngest daughter is only 13. It was only a few years ago that I was paying over $2,500 a month for daycare. That said poor people often don't pay list price for daycare. I know I didn't for my two oldest kids back in the late 80s and early 90s. I live in California. Obviously poor people aren't buying houses. However, today's inflated pay scales pretty much mirror today's inflated rents. Renting has never been easy for poor people. The good job market over the last decade has sig…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:34 PM
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Raising kids is insanely expensive If you let it be. It actually doesn't take much to keep baby homo sapiens alive. My 1st ex-wife went into labor in the local welfare office. Our son turned out fine. He's a medical professional with three degrees who's been making six figures since his mid 20's. He's married to another medical professional. They have 4 kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:08 PM
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I had 2 kids with my 2nd ex-wife after we got married when she was 37 and I was 43. They're both in high school now and doing very well. My littlest was born when my ex was 39. She tested into her school district's gifted student program and pretty much always gets straight A's. Her sister's grades aren't quite as good but they're not bad -- she's also a very gifted artist.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:03 PM
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Upper middle class professionals generally don't give a shit about women's n-count. They realize that women from their social class almost all had some fun in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:12 AM
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Monica was (and is) sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:05 AM
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Nah, that ain't happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:51 AM
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It's an argument that has been put forth seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:51 AM
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Yup. Previously I got a public works job after an excavation collapsed on my predecessor.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:43 AM
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I got my job because my predecessor drove into a big ass tree on a windy mountain road and killed himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:25 AM
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I weighed 114 lbs in the 1st grade.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:35 PM
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There's no legal duty to report crime in Canada or the USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 01:51 PM
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Police in my little California town respond to emergency calls within minutes. If you're out in the county sheriff deputies will start rolling immediately but depending on where you are it may take up to an hour for them to reach the scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 09:57 AM
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Long time ago when I trained to be a lifeguard they taught us to never attempt a rescue you don't feel confident you can complete otherwise there may be two people in need of rescue. The same logic applies to violent crime situations. If the circumstances indicate that you can effectively intervene without undue risk the decent human thing is to do so. If the situation is beyond that call 911.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 09:52 AM
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People are "allowed" to file for any reason or no reason at all. Marriage vows mean absolutely nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 04:45 PM
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Sean Connery was right. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oi6i2ACRN7A
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:14 PM
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Yup. My 15-year-old daughter and a couple of her friends made a ten minute slasher film for a local film festival this summer.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:10 PM
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I knew lots of guys like this when I was at university. Seemed 90% of geology students were nordic. They'd be a lot more attractive if they weren't such dorks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:06 PM
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What? He looks like a pussy in that photo. He'd look a hell of a lot better if he played up his masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:02 PM
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Sad music makes me feel better. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lKN3dSEo8_I
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:58 PM
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Trolling bullies is fairplay.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:56 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:52 PM
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Women I talked to about it often thought that men just sleep around a lot and then meet a woman whom they really-really like and marry her. That's what I did -- then we had kids -- then she dumped me for a less attractive millionaire -- then I had to go find more women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:43 PM
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The GF before my present GF made 140K.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:59 AM
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Most banking is boring AF!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:44 AM
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Seems to me she's looking for a lot more than 75K per year.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:42 AM
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I got a Volvo wagon.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:45 PM
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My 1st ex-wife was a librarian in Canada before we moved to the USA and she became a drug addict.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:43 PM
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If finance = assistant manager at the local credit union, then sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:35 PM
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My two littlest daughters are in high school now. Some of their friends are dating. The guys they're dating are pretty normal high school guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:07 PM
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BS! Hardly anything has changed. In the 1950s hot guys got dates ugly guys didn't. In the 1960s hot guys got dates ugly guys didn't. In the 1970s hot guys got dates ugly guys didn't. In the 1980s hot guys got dates ugly guys didn't. In the 1990s hot guys got dates ugly guys didn't. ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rHFB1TgJros
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:45 PM
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Individual women find only a few percent of men attractive. They don't find exactly the same men attractive but there is a lot of overlap. Population wide about 20% of men have a constuency -- a group of women large enough so that for those top 20% of guys dating doesn't total suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 05:28 PM
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