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I did not 😭😭 should’ve let me enjoy my life not noticing it, that’s evil 😔😔
/r/AllPillDebate20/05/23 02:32 PM
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I don’t actually have a specific height, just kinda picked one. I’m 5’4 and past 5-6 inches height difference is when it starts to feel too over the top.
/r/AllPillDebate20/05/23 02:19 PM
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If they were over 5’10. It’s inconvenient and I personally can’t stand the attitude and appearance of tall people. If they can’t say certain words, like ‘specific’. My biggest pet peeve. I can’t think of more off the top of my head, but I’m sure there is some.
/r/AllPillDebate20/05/23 01:51 PM
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Do they just never interact with one another then? You’re aware you have to talk to enter a relationship right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 05:57 PM
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My cats were in my life before you, and I’m more than happy to make sure they’re in my life after you too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 07:16 AM
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This is the issue with so many people that follow the ‘pill’ logic and in fact, the pills themselves. There’s no objective measurement for what makes a person a ‘chad’ or not. You can make generalisation assumptions about FEATURES that cause this, but if you’re trying it use a numbered metric to establish the behaviour of FOUR MILLION PEOPLE it simply isn’t going to work. Humans are incredibly complicated creatures. And it you use general concepts and statistics as a meant to assume about an ent…
/r/AllPillDebate18/05/23 07:16 AM
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Except this wasn’t written as a generalisation now was it, it was written as an object fact. Not only that, but do you really think my comment was particularly serious in nature? Come on now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 06:29 AM
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Lesbians suddenly cease to exist
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 01:05 AM
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Humans are superficial and want to see attractive people more than ugly ones?!? Gee dude, what a revelation.
/r/AllPillDebate17/05/23 07:01 AM
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Lowest IQ point
/r/AllPillDebate16/05/23 08:30 PM
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Having a conversation with an idiot is tiring
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 02:30 PM
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It’s not of 440.5k considering he swiped left a majority of them. It’s out of 96.7k, which is 1.4%. Still fucking ABYSMAL and depressing though. Tinder is even more superficial than irl since you can reject based off only looks with 0 social consequence. It’s essentially anonymous so you can be as shallow as you want.
/r/AllPillDebate16/05/23 11:43 AM
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You’re moving the goalpost. First it was ‘men don’t get the ick’, then it was ‘that’s only a movie’ now it’s ‘it does happen’. Fact of the matter is it DOES happen. If an attractive woman is doing something annoying, you’re far more likely to overlook it than if an ugly woman is doing the same thing. It’s not a gendered thing. It’s the halo effect. You’re going to get the ick easier with someone you’re not attracted to regardless of genders. If you’re into skinny, short women, you’re probably no…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:44 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:35 AM
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Or… maybe autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 10:37 AM
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Calling it overly idyllic would be fair, but it’s not ‘autistic’.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 10:34 AM
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And yet the idea of not being wanting women because they dare not be 21 isn’t…? Right..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 10:29 AM
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Therein lies your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 10:42 PM
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It’s submissive, not inherently feminine
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 06:13 PM
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If we have different moral opinions about important topics, we’re going to disagree. I’m not going to date a person that is immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 06:04 PM
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Sorry my guy I’ve already got my short boyfriend 😔 Still, as rare as it is to find, I do hope you find someone that appreciates the short guys 🫡
/r/AllPillDebate11/05/23 11:38 AM
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blackbear
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:56 AM
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Well there’s no point challenging me on this view because you’re asking me about a view I don’t have. Women DO fuck short men. That’s undeniable. But for the majority of women if they had the choice between someone 5’4 or 6’4, they’re mostly gonna pick the one that’s 6’4. That doesn’t mean short men don’t get action. Because preference ≠ what happens. You can have all the preferences in the world. You don’t always get what you want. I’m not the best person to ask because I’ve never said short me…
/r/AllPillDebate11/05/23 09:13 AM
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what? when did I ever say that lol
/r/AllPillDebate11/05/23 09:04 AM
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Certainly, I guess I was just kind of worried they wouldn’t be, but was pleasantly surprised :)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 03:15 AM
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🫡
/r/AllPillDebate11/05/23 02:32 AM
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That’s not really a thing to be able to prep for other than being real and not giving any of that fairytale disney nonsense. Agree with 14ers4days, I don’t think it’s really the job of the woman to do. End of the day, I don’t know what the life of a man struggling in dating is like. I can’t give information based on lived experience because I never will experience it. So no matter how much I learn about the opposing perspective, it’s never going to be enough to be able to ‘prepare’ anyone, becau…
/r/AllPillDebate11/05/23 01:26 AM
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Meh, it is what it is. It’s kinda a lose-lose situation. If I say it to my women friends, I’m weird as hell for liking short guys, if I say it online I’m a virtue signalling liar 🤷🏽‍♀️. I don’t particularly mind. I’m not lying. I genuinely prefer short guys, because tall people make me feel incredibly intimidated. It’s also just painfully inconvenient. I don’t know why you’d want a foot+ difference. How do you hug? Kiss? Sounds aggravating. I do acknowledge why it sounds like a lie though. I’m n…
/r/AllPillDebate10/05/23 10:40 PM
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Personally, I prefer short guys to tall guys, but I’m the only person I’ve ever met that has. I don’t mean that to be in a ‘omg look at me i’m so different and special🥰’, I do have a point. Even as someone who LIKES short guys, I get mocked for it. Mostly by other women, though by men too, and I get quizzed like crazy for it. I do wonder where ‘TALL = GOOD’ came from. Because when people laugh at me for my preference, they never actually give good reason. The way short men are treated is abysmal…
/r/AllPillDebate10/05/23 07:49 PM
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Yeah I feel like that’s pretty fair. I agree with the whole not for a ‘test’ or whatever it is people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 02:02 AM
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I find it really interesting to read other perspectives honestly. I just lost my virginity the other day (woo go me), to my boyfriend and who has been waiting a good long while for me to feel not anxious / terrified and be ready for it. I did feel bad for making him wait, but I was really finding it difficult to muster up the ability. So frankly, it’s quite nice to read from the other perspective to help me establish what he may / may not have been thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 01:48 AM
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Why do men watch porn when they have a partner? Why do you masturbate at all if you have a partner Because masturbation and sex aren’t mutually exclusive. Shocking news: people still masturbate and appreciate time alone even when in relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 09:47 PM
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Frankly, I don’t particularly care. I’ve been approached in a variety of places, and so long as the person was polite and respectful, I’ve been more than happy to hear them out assuming I’m not in a relationship at the time. I really don’t think there’s any overly preferable place. It just depends what I’m doing at each place at the time, and how the person approaches. I’d say overall anything in person over online though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 12:51 AM
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Whilst it shouldn’t get to the level of PPD, some of the comments on this sub are basically getting on their knees and sucking reddit admins off in hopes of getting this place banned. You can cry about ‘censorship!!!’ all you like, but it’s a necessary evil if you don’t want this sub nuked, because that’s the way it’s heading with some of the content recently.
/r/AllPillDebate06/05/23 12:48 AM
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I guess that makes sense. The ‘losers’ and bottom of the barrel attract that. It’s probably a relation / understanding thing. Unattractive men are treated the worst out of all men. Black women are treated the worst out of all women. Literally people in this thread insulting black women for being black. It’s a poor treatment thing imo Perhaps thats why they gravitate.
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 03:18 PM
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They’re words. I promise you God isn’t going to smite you on the spot for daring not to follow them to a tee.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 11:09 AM
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I mean, there’s maybe a good point in here but you’re using a very skewed metric. You’re talking about instagram girls. Obviously they’re going to be posting their asses. That’s what gets clicks. Instagram is fundamentally a thirsty and attention seeky app. You get validation from likes, you get likes from posting content people want. For women, thats their bodies. Obviously those that use it ‘seriously’ are going to do that. More men use instagram than women do. Are they at no blame? If I go to…
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 02:26 PM
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I dunno.. maybe its the circles I run in personally then. My friend’s are all very much ‘personality over everything!!!’, and we’re all 18/19. Though I’m not doubting you! I’m only basing this on my own anecdotal group haha
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 09:36 PM
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I genuinely don’t think most women are liars deliberately. I don’t think they do it as a manipulative tactic moreso than an instinctive one. Men typically arent afraid of appearing shallow. They’ll rate people on 1-10 scales, openly care about appearances over all, reject people for their looks etc. Which is honestly pretty admirable. Whereas women are terrified of looking shallow. Because women are supposed to be demure and sweet. I think a lot of women aren’t aware that they’re lying. In their…
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 09:21 PM
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Then men should shut up when women are talking about the female experience. Do they? No. Thats the point. Both sides are equally as bad as each other. Both are doing wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 09:21 PM
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Just say you have no trust and an inability to have platonic friendships, it’s ok. If a woman goes to work, there’s likely a man there, customer, coworker etc who thinks about having sex with her. Shall we ban women from working? If your girlfriend meets your friends, I guarantee at least one is going to think about having sex with her. Should you cut off all your friends? If a woman goes into the street, there’s going to be men that think about having sex with her. Shall we ban women from leavi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 09:11 AM
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I mean.. near all preferences are scrutinised. Some more harshly than others sure. People are going to judge what you like regardless, especially if they don’t fit it. Why do you care about the opinions of those that you’re not attracted to? Personally, I like short guys, especially when they’re shorter than I am. I get made fun of for it like crazy by my friends and family, because it’s not the ‘norm’. Sure, it doesn’t get as judged as your example, but it does happen regardless to what your pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 08:48 PM
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Bang on this is the way. You’re entitled to whatever preference you want. If you’ll only settle for a 8ft lady with natural pink hair and size Z tits, go for it. More realistically, if you ONLY want a girl who wears no more than a size M, or a man no shorter than 6ft, that’s a’okay. It’s only when you’re using that as a means to insult others that don’t fit your criteria that you’re no longer in the right.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:01 PM
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yep
/r/AllPillDebate23/04/23 10:22 PM
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Because the blackpill isn’t absolute and anyone that says it is is stupid. It’s a great baseline. It’s great for looking at a statistical majority. But as with any theory, it’s not going to cover every single base. There’s always going to be outliers and statistical anomalies. You can live life saying ‘I’m short and ugly therefore my chance is 0’ and you’re delusional. Or you can say ‘I’m short and ugly therefore my chance is minimal’. Different statement, far more truthful. Or You’re just bette…
/r/AllPillDebate23/04/23 10:21 PM
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Nah she was always prettier. The best link to modern day cinderella is by Charles Perrault in 1697, where the sisters weren’t explicitly said to be ugly, but it DID say cinderella was ‘far lovelier’
/r/AllPillDebate22/04/23 09:59 AM
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You’re right, quite the funny mistake tbf Would never use IT though, they’re right pathetic So glad to have you back to commenting on every post I make, it’s the highlight of my day xx
/r/AllPillDebate19/04/23 06:04 PM
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It literally just depends on a person by person basis. As much as I’m sure you want to believe it, but every woman isn’tstriving for a 6’4 giant. Sure, statistically speaking it makes it far more likely, but you’re being disingenuous to yourself if you truly think it’s a demand every woman has rather than a majority opinion. It also just depends on the relationship. Even if someone ‘settled’ for a short guy, it could very well be their best relationship that they struggle to get over. The opposi…
/r/AllPillDebate19/04/23 03:37 PM
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💀 this is up there is the funniest shit i’ve read in a bit
/r/AllPillDebate18/04/23 06:05 PM
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Because with the ‘believe all victims’ mentality that’s prevalent in our society, it’s a quick and and easy way to ruin someone for good with little consequence.
/r/MensRights18/04/23 06:04 PM
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Toastie is definitely the food imo and having two foods in a row? 🤢🤢 I’ll claim the first option 👍
/r/AllPillDebate18/04/23 02:05 AM
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Agree 100% with all of this It’s simple really, if you’ve not cheated on your partner: why does it matter? You’ve got nothing to worry about
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:49 AM
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Sure, I agree But we’re specifically talking about girls that ONLY post photos of themselves.
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 11:45 PM
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Because you’re looking at insta thots It’s like if I look at the profile of gym bros and start asking why I’m only seeing guys flexing their muscles and posting their protein shakes
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 11:36 PM
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No not really. I think all ‘pills’ are laid out in a way that is incredibly black and white, where the world simply doesn’t work that way. Being good looking is obviously going to cause you to have far more success than if you’re ugly. That’s the case for either gender, though certainly more specifically for men depending on what we denote as ‘success’. The reason I wouldn’t ever subscribe to the blackpill though is it chooses to act as though that is the deciding factor. Perhaps my view is clou…
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 03:22 PM
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Are you like purposefully dense? If there’s an exception to the ‘rule’ then it means it cannot be impossible, can it. It can be statistically unlikely; but my whole point is it’s not an impossibility to get into a relationship as a deformed man. But sure, please continue to skew things to fit your narrative.
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 03:14 PM
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I’m aware it’s easier for women. I didn’t deny that. But I’m also saying it’s never an impossibility. Take Shane Aylward, Simon Moore and Jono Lancaster. All men with deformities that are married. I even stated there’s a good chance these marriages aren’t for love. My point isn’t who has it easier. My point is it’s not an impossibility.
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 01:48 PM
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Biologically men are wired to be providers
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 01:44 PM
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I don’t think any pill is particularly accurate and I think the truth falls somewhere in between them all. If I HAD to say though, I’d say somewhere mostly between black and red. Black makes the most realistic points but with such a hopeless, defeatist and nihilistic view that it becomes almost false. I prefer the red pill’s view on self improvement, but dislike that they think confidence is all. Most important thing for getting dates: Looks for both and women, personality for maintaining a rela…
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 01:43 PM
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It’s never non existent. There’s plenty of genuinely deformed individuals in relationships. However far far far lower? For sure. Will your relationship be for love or for provisions, etc
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 01:38 PM
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Lmfao it’s beyond pathetic. Either be for body positivity for EVERYONE or be for it for NO ONE. Flip flopping whichever way benefits you in an argument is wild. Especially in one sentence going ‘you’re not a virgin because of height but HAHA bet your dick is small!’ The fact that’s an immediate go to insult to people is grim as hell.
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 07:15 AM
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Genuinely can’t stand people like this. Same types of people to cry fatphobia will then happily body shame the opposite way when it benefits them. Ew
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 07:08 AM
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Meh I don’t know, I’ve had some pretty good debates here that went cordially and were fun. Mostly in DMs, but you certainly can so long as both parties are respectful and open minded
/r/AllPillDebate16/04/23 09:56 PM
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There are incels here. The same way there’s incels on r/purplepilldebate. The same way there’s probably incels in r/cars. Then there’s people who aren’t. For example, I’m a non-incel woman who comes here to debate / learn other views. So no, it’s not solely.
/r/AllPillDebate14/04/23 01:21 PM
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I think a lot of people on this post are being incredibly disingenuous. Are men overall better than woman at chess? Yes. That’s naturally going to be the case, because there are MORE of them that choose to play the game. Chess has about 15% of players being women. The bell curve between genders is going to be very different. Because there’s far fewer women, you’ll likely find the women that DO play to be average, with few high end and few low end players. The spread is smaller, meaning they play…
/r/PussyPassDenied14/04/23 08:38 AM
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Don’t pay attention to her by… making a whole post about her? Seems a bit counterintuitive
/r/AllPillDebate12/04/23 07:58 PM
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Because as I said, I’m talking extreme levels. I don’t think ANY pill is correct. They all have set opinions and rely on confirmation bias so suit their narrative. I think they’ve all got good points and they’ve all got poor points. Neither did I compare feminism and the blackpill. The only thing comparative is that I believe they’ve both incorrect. I think a lot of the time, blackpillers have good points, but it’s language that screws them up. This is why I personally believe the redpill is clo…
/r/AllPillDebate04/04/23 05:01 PM
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The main reason I view and engage in these subs is I like to think logically rather than emotionally. It has nothing to do with the people I do or don’t get along with. I’ve got a small, close knit group of friends who I love and adore, all women. I defend my friends loyally and fiercely over many things, and I often fight tooth and nail for them as they do for me. And yet I still browse here. Why? Mostly because I enjoy seeing both sides of the coin and using that to form my own, middle ground …
/r/AllPillDebate04/04/23 04:33 PM
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Absolutely nothing. She specifically said she thinks it’s a man’s job to plan dates and she refuses to do it. She ‘has a 9-5 job and so doesn’t have time to plan dates’ even though she has time to attend them with her boyfriend, and her husband works MORE than her and is expected to plan for her. Either a ridiculously intensive troll, or a pathetic excuse of a partner who should do her husband a favour and take her sorry ass out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 01:24 AM
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I don’t know why you just deleted your post, but as I told you there, I’ll tell you again; Women aren’t a hivemind. There’s women who hate men and will say horrible things about them for sure. But if you’re using that to say every western woman hates western men.. you’re being quite disingenuous. I mean once again, that’s not a question that can be answered, because one woman doesn’t speak for us all. The same way me saying ‘all western men are disgusting pigs’ is wrong, saying ‘all western wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:56 PM
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Because, simply put, women aren’t a hive mind. The ones complaining about men only wanting sex and not relationships aren’t the same ones that don’t want relationships. They’re two separate groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:49 PM
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No. If you’re not attractive to me, you’re not attractive to me. A person who is confident is typically eons more attractive than someone who isn’t. But that can only count for so much. But what’s considered attractive differs heavily. There’s a running joke in my friend group that I have the worst taste, because I tend to find men attractive that they don’t. You could be an 8 to one woman and a 3 to her best friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:41 PM
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No.. more likely the fact that unlike men, that’s now where the satisfaction comes from. Many men just go to town like a battering ram. Because that’s what they view in porn, that’s what seems correctly. A man can get off from fucking a grapefruit. It is that motion and the feeling that works for them. Porn is (mostly) catered to men, so shows that action as being ‘ideal’. Women complain about not receiving oral because that is more pleasing, not necessarily because of a person’s size.
/r/AllPillDebate03/04/23 10:39 PM
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But it certainly does become a more prevalent divide with age. On attraction basis, it’s rare anyone wants to date significantly older than themselves. But on a financial / security basis, absolutely. A younger man is more likely to find a younger woman that is attracted to HIM (granted that’s still not necessarily easy, but I digress). While an older man is more likely to find a younger woman that finds him physically grotesque, but has stability to provide. If you’re some old dude living the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 03:26 PM
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No because seriously, I don’t know how you can write that, read it back and go ‘yep, that makes me sound normal and rational’. The fact of the matter is most women aren’t going to care for hardcore red pill guys. The same way they probably won’t truly love a hardcore bluepill guy. You gotta find a balance. Sounds like OP has sunk way too hard onto one side. Not really a shock he doesn’t see women as emotionally correct or whatever. That’s obviously going to be the case when you sucker yourself t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 11:57 AM
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I don’t think it’s as black and white as that. There’s aspects in life that being a man is beneficial, there’s aspects in life where being a woman is beneficial. It’s not as nuanced as X has privilege and Y does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:05 PM
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Honestly I think there’s a lot of reasons. In my opinion the main reason is the technological advancement. Then, it was far easier to commit a crime like murder and get away with it without repercussions. There was, therefore, more people murdering because there was less of a chance they would get into any issue. Nowadays, it’s far more likely that a serial killer would be found, so I’d argue that less people commit them. DNA advancements, security cameras everywhere etc. There’s also much more …
/r/AllPillDebate27/03/23 03:01 PM
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Some do the same way some men do. You can’t really give a definitive answer that fits ALL women, because there will be always be outliers. You can discuss general trends, but never a set definite.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:24 AM
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Definitely not the experience of the average woman, though interesting nonetheless
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:20 AM
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what
/r/AllPillDebate22/03/23 05:08 PM
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I mean yeah these are all completely ridiculous don’t get me wrong. But you’re using TikTok as a data metric? The app where any attention is positive because it equates views? The app where it’s views and interaction that can make you ‘famous’? Obviously people are going to post inflammatory things. That’s what gets clicks and ‘clout’. The more people they piss off, the more profit they get. This would be the equivalent of only following The Onion and spouting it as gospel. Anyone who uses TikTo…
/r/AllPillDebate22/03/23 05:07 PM
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It might be because I’m still young and because of that I genuinely still struggle to fully realise the importance of money. I don’t have much financial responsibility and spend frivolously, can have a fun night with £5 etc etc, but I genuinely couldn’t care less. I don’t personally currently see someone being rich as any means to increase their rating. Perhaps one day when that’s more key to life, but for right now? You could have £0.50p in hoof bank and I don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 02:58 AM
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The majority of the time, it’s genuinely because the friend wants to get out of the situation. I go clubbing. A lot. A mixture of alcohol, drugs, and young adults with high hormones can create a lot of uncomfortable situations. My friends and I typically assign a ‘help me!’ sign beforehand. Be it a certain hand gesture if they’re close, or a certain emoji or something quick that can be texted if they’re further. Personally I’ve not seen it happen in my friend group where it’s done out of malice …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 02:51 AM
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This is the guy she’s actually dating for the record. She’s not dating that black guy and never has.
/r/AllPillDebate17/03/23 07:52 PM
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I mean.. the fact they’re not dating probably doesn’t help your point.
/r/AllPillDebate17/03/23 07:17 PM
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Definitely. A few years back is when I first stumbled across pills and such. I remember reading so many hateful things from men, so much so that I immediately dismissed everything they stated as BS and refused to think any further about it. It’s in recent years that I’ve looked at these theories objectively and understood how much of it is factual, but is just overshadowed by the ‘extremists’ using it to be shitty people. I love this sub a lot, because the majority of people here are genuinely v…
/r/AllPillDebate17/03/23 01:12 PM
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Oh no absolutely! I’m very glad to see the majority get what I was saying and see why stooping to insults out of nowhere is so dumb to do! I was more talking about people LIKE him in the first place who genuinely think there can’t possibly be outliers to statistics. Luckily it seems the majority of people on this sub are rational and logical!
/r/AllPillDebate17/03/23 01:01 PM
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Appreciate that very much bud!
/r/AllPillDebate17/03/23 01:00 PM
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Fair enough dude 😊 Thank you for such a calm and courteous back and forth. Life would be far easier of all debates and such went this way haha
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 01:00 PM
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No for definite. I totally agree with you. I’m 19 now. When I had just turned 18, I had people (mostly my other girl friends) asking me when I was going to start an OF, or when I was going to have my ‘hoe phase’. And that was just generally accepted as something to question and ask, under the guise of freedom and sexual liberation. It’s an exploitative market for men and women alike. I’m not, as I said, blaming men for having these preferences. The same way I wouldn’t want a man with a high N co…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:35 PM
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Yeah absolutely, I totally agree with you, I have the direction of modern day views. That women are only ‘liberated’ when they act promiscuously. And I think it’s completely fair for men to choose to not date these types of women. I just think the point would be more accepted if it was presented in a way that wasn’t so vitriolic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:25 PM
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Yeah it’s unsurprising. I outright agree that I’m part of a very very very minimal minority. But that apparently can’t be right and i’m lying for… internet points? I agree the blackpill has mostly truths to it, but if you live life believing there’s no possibility anyone at all is different, you’re only doing yourself a disservice. I didn’t believe the blackpill when I first learnt about it because of the people who would say things like ‘CHAD ONLY’ or ‘UNDER 6FT AND ITS OVER JFL’. It’s only whe…
/r/AllPillDebate17/03/23 12:23 PM
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Sure love, you do you 👍
/r/AllPillDebate17/03/23 10:02 AM
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God, I guess I’ll tell the tall guys I’ve rejected for their height that I was actually lying that whole time and I suddenly do want them, despite that being my preference. How dare I not adhere to every single strict rule and instead have one factor that differs, 😱😱 Grow up
/r/AllPillDebate17/03/23 09:54 AM
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Definitely wouldn’t because like I said, height is a dealbreaker to me. I’m good, I don’t particularly want a guy that towers over me, that’s crazy inconvenient. If you want to live in your constant delusion that no minorities in opinion exist, then you continue in that sad state. Still not a clue who you would insult someone who actively sides with you and agrees with you, but you do you boo!
/r/AllPillDebate17/03/23 09:53 AM
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Laugh harder. I’ll say though, I don’t really get the point. I’m pretty actively pro-blackpill and constantly fight to agree with it, because I think based on logic rather than emotion where possible. So I don’t really get why you’re trying to alienate people on the other side that agree with you, but I digress. The fact of the matter is I wouldn’t date someone tall. It’s inconvenient, why would I choose to constantly have to crane to look at someone. I think the height difference looks ridiculo…
/r/AllPillDebate17/03/23 09:47 AM
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Laugh all you want. Men when a minority of women exist: 😱😱😱 Obviously the majority of women like tall guys. I’m part of the small percent that doesn’t. 🤷🏽‍♀️ Cry about it ig
/r/AllPillDebate17/03/23 09:38 AM
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You’re either trolling or being purposefully obtuse. You’re doing exactly what this post video is doing and choosing to purposefully misrepresent information and what I’ve said. You will see millions of oddballs and regular joes. I implore you to read my comment if you’re going to debate back. That is exactly what my entire point was. Yes, there are loads of average or below average people that get into relationships. The majority of the world is average or below, so that’s obviously going to be…
/r/AllPillDebate17/03/23 09:37 AM
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I mean, this video is pretty disingenuous. Obviously no woman is sitting there going ‘He has a negative canthal tilt? Well now I’m going to reject him.’ or ‘his maxilla is recessed? disgusting 🤢’. Anyone who thinks women think that way is genuinely delusional. That said, this video seems to be claiming lookism isn’t a thing. Which is fundamentally false. Any logical person shouldn’t be saying ‘if you have these features it’s OVER’ because that’s just untrue. But realistically speaking, who’s goi…
/r/AllPillDebate17/03/23 08:43 AM
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genuinely can’t stand tall guys, so someone 5’2-5’8 ish. Preferably not overly muscular bc they’re gross as hell imo. brunet. esp if they’re kind of good at handy work. any accent that’s not from this city, and can drink people under the table; that’s entertaining. that’s all the shallow / superficial features anyway, without going into the less so attributes.
/r/AllPillDebate17/03/23 08:05 AM
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It’s true, you caught me. I’m actually not a woman at all, I’m two cats stacked on top of one another. In all seriousness though, I just do my best to think based off of logic rather than emotion. I’m very anti modern feminism and I like to look objectively at topics such as the dating market. It’s undeniable that it’s unbalanced when you look at it with your head instead of your heart. But I’ll always, no matter what, say that respect is key. Debate is fun and healthy. But as soon as you stoop …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 08:01 AM
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I mean yeah basically. Though frankly I don’t really know when in conversation it’s going to come up that you’d only date a virgin outside of the confines of this forum. But as long as you’re not bashing and being rude to people who don’t fit your standards? Do what you want
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:57 AM
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Which is fine. I just don’t know why you’re choosing to use my comment to push a narrative that’s completely irrelevant to what I actually said.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:49 PM
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honoured tbh 🫶
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:21 PM
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Absolutely, I totally think that’s unfair too. Frankly, I don’t think either person, ‘neckbeard loser’ nor ‘slutty woman’ should be outright shamed for their walks in life. Having a preference against either of those is fair game, in my opinion, so long as you’re not being a dick just because you can. It’s unnecessary. I 100% agree it’s much more acceptable for a woman to be promiscuous whilst a man who’s not successful is looked down upon, and I believe that’s awfully unfair. It’s just I feel m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:38 PM
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Hey love, you know you could always reply to me instead of making a post about my comment. Or at least tag me ! Anyway, I absolutely stand by it. I was literally just talking social etiquette. The two phrasings are very different. Are there going to be women who think you’re a weirdo no matter what because you’d prefer a virgin? Yeah, no doubt about it. The same way there will be people who think you’re weird if you, let’s say, like fat women. Or, anecdotally, people think I’m odd for only datin…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:26 PM
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Have whatever expectations and standards you want to. Just don’t expect everyone to adhere to them. You can then decide if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 03:21 PM
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I’m British, so arguably worse than an American haha
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:48 AM
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When did I justify or state that anyone doing the opposite is any better? I think that it works both directions. ‘I’d prefer not to date a man without drive and ambition’ - A fine standard to have. vs ‘I’d never date a total loser than relies on mommy, how pathetic’. - You’re a dick. Assuming that I agree with the opposite side because I didn’t mention them is.. odd. I answered my opinion about men because that was the question asked. Either gender being unnecessarily callous beyond a simple pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:38 AM
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The whitepill isn’t to do with being a white person. It’s the opposite of the blackpill, accepting that life isn’t fair, the world kind of sucks, but you can still find enjoyment regardless of who you are. This has nothing to do with any pills.
/r/AllPillDebate16/03/23 08:46 AM
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Don’t care. Preferences are preferences. So long as you’re not using it to shame / be hateful, and you don’t care that women also have preferences. Personally I wouldn’t want to date a man with a high BC either. Ex: ‘I don’t feel comfortable dating women with a high body count’ - Totally fine and cool ‘I’ll never date a slut that’s ridden the cock carousel’ - You’re a dick
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 08:37 AM
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They were being sarcastic
/r/AllPillDebate16/03/23 08:32 AM
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Agree with all except the plastic surgery, makeup and fake number. You can call makeup and plastic surgery shallow/vain if you like. But it’s not really toxic to change up insecurities. Men and women alike to it all the time. Going to the gym because youre insecure about your body, wearing platforms because you’re insecure about your height. Vain / a bit sad? Sure. Toxic, no. And the phone number thing is really dependent case by case. There are times where it can genuinely be unsafe to say no. …
/r/AllPillDebate14/03/23 06:39 PM
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Doesn’t prove or disprove anything decisively. It shows people are individualistic and there are outliers that don’t follow trends
/r/AllPillDebate07/03/23 08:52 PM
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Thank you! I’m very very proud to be a part of this team. Even if the days can be upsetting, I love coming into the office and knowing we might be changing at least one person’s life for the better
/r/MensRights26/01/23 09:50 AM
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God this is my biggest fear. When you spend so much time with these young people listening to them, helping them etc, you grow attached to them. The idea of any of the ones I work with dying absolutely terrifies me. When I got the call about one of our boys getting stabbed, genuinely my heart stopped and I had to contain myself from bursting into tears. When he then told us that he didn't care if he died, it broke my heart even more. Actually just yesterday, one of the boys we work with got arre…
/r/MensRights26/01/23 09:49 AM
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I mean.. I don’t agree with either honestly, but the two aren’t comparable You’re talking about a person selling her dignity, body etc, versus a person using idiots willing to find her in return for nothing. This is why you should always go dutch, pay for your own meal, go somewhere cheap like a coffee shop, or don’t go at all. It’s unethical and toxic of her, but with most industries, if there’s someone willing to spend, someone’s gonna get suckered.
/r/MensRights25/01/23 08:26 AM
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This is actually very very key. As I’ve stated before, I work with a charity for mental health exploitation etc. Last week we had a guy come in, about 20 or so years old requesting our 1-1 support service. We have a mix of men and women BUT for the over 18 individuals (because we only work with a few of them at a time, compared to the hundreds of under 18’s), we only have one trained specialist who is a woman. I was assigning her, when he specifically asked not to be paired with a woman. I asked…
/r/MensRights20/01/23 11:05 PM
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Absolutely I agree. There’s so many boys that come in to work with us that you wouldn’t expect. Their behaviour hasn’t changed, they seem exactly the same, but now they’re running drugs from one end of the country to the other. And yet there’s never a spotlight on this issue. I believe this week (since monday) I’ve personally received 5 referrals, with 1 being a girl and 4 being boys. That’s not to say any of them are less or more of victims, they all are. But it’s integral to see the sheer numb…
/r/MensRights18/01/23 09:45 PM
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Thank you so much for this! I’ve actually never heard of this charity! Once I read your comment, I immediately sent an email to my manager to look further into it. It sounds like an amazing cause and right up our alley, so I’m going to see if I can network a bit to help them out! It’s definitely very key. As I said in another comment, keeping boys busy is so so important. We’ve had a bunch of kids we’ve engaged into hobbies such as sports or games, and we’ve found their risk has dramatically red…
/r/MensRights18/01/23 09:43 PM
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Awesome! I’ve added some of the charities and services I’ve personally worked with, though I did see there’s a rule against advertising. Do let me know if you’d rather they come down! But thank you once again, I appreciate it ❤️😊
/r/MensRights18/01/23 09:38 PM
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Awh that’s lovely! I’m more than happy for that to be the case! I’m going to go ahead and edit some of the resources we use to the bottom of my post to potentially help out some more!
/r/MensRights18/01/23 09:24 PM
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Yeah for sure! What in particular would you like information wise? Obviously I can’t give up anything that breaks confidentiality and such, but I’m more than happy to talk generally 😊
/r/MensRights18/01/23 06:13 PM
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It’s certainly very eye opening. I’ve always been fairly neutral on the feminist movement, mostly because as a girl, you’re taught about it through a very rose tinted lens. I was mostly apolitical until recently, so I didn’t think poorly of the feminist movement since everything I was told was of how it benefits my life, how oppressed I am etc. It’s in the past year or two since becoming an ‘adult’ that I’ve started to look into my political views and leanings and such, and I stumbled across the…
/r/MensRights18/01/23 06:13 PM
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LOL it has already happened a few times today! But it’s fine by me, doesn’t impact my opinion
/r/MensRights18/01/23 06:08 PM
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Wow. You know I’ve never thought about that but you’re absolutely right. I did a safeguarding training today in fact and I think there was one or two male examples in the sea of females ones. You’ve opened my eye to that, I’ve never really sit and considered how exactly that correlates so that’s a really good point. We also had to create a presentation regarding exploitation for local schools this week, with me voicing one of the girls being exploited. But only one of the men in my office did an…
/r/MensRights18/01/23 03:33 PM
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Hey! I’m from the UK! I do wonder if there’s similar services out of my country though. We work with a very very small part of the UK. Honestly? Just reaching out to the kids you’re associated with and being willing to monitor and listen. Don’t be afraid to reach out for help. There’s people like our charity who will do the stressful work for you. Providing boys with an outlet (we for example have sent some boys to football academies and seem drastic reductions in their situations). It’s difficu…
/r/MensRights18/01/23 01:09 PM
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Ah of course, you know my entire life do you? What a presumption to make that you must’ve had the hardest life in the world and no one else can possible compete. I’d love to go into my life story and the traumatic details, but I’m not dim enough to insinuate that changes my ability to consent to situations, nor does it negate a person being a literal child. That doesn’t change the fact you are NOT a man at 15. If an adult is attracted to a 15 year old they are a pedophile. To be honest; the leng…
/r/MensRights18/01/23 12:28 PM
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You're not a man when you're 15. You are a boy. No matter what. You are part of the problem.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 12:10 PM
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I'd agree with you.. but.. https://www.manchestereveningnews.co.uk/news/uk-news/vile-pervert-groomed-15-year-25330165 https://warrington-worldwide.co.uk/2020/07/01/man-jailed-after-grooming-15-year-old-warrington-girl-into-sexual-activity-at-his-blackpool-flat/ https://uk.news.yahoo.com/paedophile-31-went-holiday-girl-15-family-convincing-teenager-jailed-144200363.html https://www.gbnews.uk/news/married-man-jailed-for-having-sex-with-15-year-old-girl-acted-like-a-racist-towards-groomed-victim/28…
/r/MensRights18/01/23 11:58 AM
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It's not a matter of 'having no sense of humour' it's a matter of you making a 'joke' about child grooming on a post raising awareness about the issue. 'I was very forward for my age', you know this is exactly what pedophiles say right? *"Oh, you're so mature for your age!"* *"You don't act like you're 15 at all!"* Let's make it clear. If you are pushing 30 and are attracted to 15 year olds, you are a pedophile. Like I said in another comment, I'm 19. My youngest friend is 16 and I am wary about…
/r/MensRights18/01/23 11:26 AM
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Which is literally EXACTLY the issue I'm highlighting. A young girl is groomed by an adult man, and people line to get retribution, and rightly so, as they should. A young boy is groomed by an adult man and he is told that that's cool and he's celebrated for being able to pull. No angry people attempting to protect the boy at all. The woman is not punished. My friend was groomed by a 20 something year old when he was 13/14. Even today, multiple years later, he doesn't see an issue with it. Why? …
/r/MensRights18/01/23 11:18 AM
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Honestly I’m so glad I found this sub. It’s really opened my eyes to problems that aren’t discussed and I had never really considered 🙏
/r/MensRights18/01/23 10:16 AM
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No of course! The child feeling like he hit the jackpot was in the title of the article, not an addition by me! I mostly mention my little point because I feel like boys and men are taught that all female attention should be considered a positive regardless of legality and morality. I for example learnt recently that my male friend had been groomed by a 20 year old when he was 14. Even to date, multiple years later now he considers it not to have been a crime, because he enjoyed it and he felt c…
/r/MensRights18/01/23 10:15 AM
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Exactly that. It’s absolutely wild. There is no accountability for these women. I’m a 19 year old girl. I feel weird even being FRIENDS with anybody under 18. I cannot possibly imagine being 28 years of age and having sex with (raping) a 15 year old. But the problem is there’s 0 accountability for this. It’s seen as ‘cool’ for young boys to ‘pull’ older women and everybody is celebrated for it. It’s disgusting.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 10:12 AM
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If feminists were actually fighting for equality, they would be doing so under the banner of equalitarianism. Even the name of the movement shows it’s crafted to rise women above
/r/MensRights18/01/23 09:45 AM
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19, still pretty dang young but I like educating myself on every view
/r/AllPillDebate17/01/23 04:54 PM
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I’ve been thinking about starting up a youtube channel myself to discuss the mensrights movement. I think it’s key to have some women discussing it since, realistically, it’ll open up the conversation to a wider group of people.
/r/MensRights16/01/23 10:17 PM
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I’m sorry to hear this
/r/MensRights16/01/23 10:14 PM
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When it started? Yes, because there were genuine issues that needed to be addressed and women were treated like second rate citizens. There wasn’t equality and the women in the suffragette movement for example were fighting bravely for a very rational cause. The right to work, the right to vote, the right to hold their own finances etc etc. All very real and proper issues. Modern day feminism? No. There’s not anything to fight for because the original feminist talking points have been resolved. …
/r/AntiFeminists16/01/23 10:09 PM
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Because I am 👍
/r/AntiFeminists05/01/23 10:50 PM
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Yes.. I literally said that in essence. Like I said the term ‘incel’ isn’t being represented in this case. He IS one. That is undeniable fact. But like I said originally, it’s stupid for the poster to mention it when it had nothing to do with what the guy said.
/r/AntiFeminists05/01/23 09:03 PM
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I mean.. while I don’t agree with her notion.. this is from an incel forum. She’s not wrong for saying he’s an incel, he is. But she is wrong for equating it on a post that has nothing to do with his inceldom.
/r/AntiFeminists05/01/23 06:11 PM
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im literally an antifeminist, i get what you’re saying, just had nothing to do with what I said so wasn’t funny 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/AntiFeminists16/11/22 06:34 PM
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what
/r/AntiFeminists16/11/22 12:31 PM
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It wasn’t used in trial since it was done years ago and she successfully argued that it was written specifically for a seminar. Prosecution gave a motive of financial difficulties and said she had researched and purchased a ghost gun kit from online. She claimed she was using it for research for a novel. IIRC she got life with a minimum of 25 years
/r/AntiFeminists13/11/22 03:15 AM
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Wrong person, you’re thinking about Nancy Crampton Brophy who wrote How to Murder your Husband. She wrote an essay about how to get away with killing her husband for a writing seminar years before killing her husband This book by Katy Brent is just a fake crime book
/r/AntiFeminists13/11/22 02:56 AM
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