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Why would I be expected to sit with a man and babysit his feelings after he just told me he's willingly drinking down a philosophy that doesn't view me as human? Women can't educate men out of an antifeminist/bigoted mindset because we're the demographic that's being written in as the poison apple. People only change their minds when challenged by a person they respect and the manosphere is built on the idea that women do not deserve respect. It's why this whole ass sub doesn't work - incels com…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 01:00 PM
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Sounds like a collab every once in a while would fit. Unfortunately the other guy who responded to this comment highlighted the primary issue with this. A man who is viewed as engaging with feminists or doing things that women want is essentially 'sleeping with the enemy' in the minds of the men already in that pipeline. I can think of several male influencers who take substantially feminist positions (jimmy on relationships, speechprof, that one Australian guy whose name escapes me) and they ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:28 PM
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Don't buy this. Plus your positioning feminism as being inherently incompatible with men and their wants which I find pretty suspicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:23 PM
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What if a man had openly identified as a feminist and provided a role model that was capable of balancing men's and women's issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:55 AM
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Re: the sexual trauma, I don't think most/many men realize how few times sex can be painful for you while your male partner is clearly in 'happy penis mode' before that alienation begins.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:38 AM
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Why? IDK I thought it might be inconvenient for men to lose their broodmares to sepsis and shit but I suppose gas prices and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:07 AM
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Pretty sure you're missing the point of my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:51 PM
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no shit emotional labor is work LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:50 PM
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If we can talk about percentages, then it's true to acknowledge that 'men' are the group that voted in majority for trump while 'women' did not vote in majority for trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:49 PM
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I could link you to any number of articles portraying white women as some sort of enemy of the state b/c they voted so hard for trump, but I don't whine about it. Why? B/c I know they aren't aimed at me as I didn't vote for him. It seems to me that the men who are angry about the stereotype & blowback are the ones that feel called out by the 'men voted en masse for trump' conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 06:39 PM
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Being sexy is work, i.e. labor, and labor deserves to be compensated.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 06:32 PM
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JD Vance is connected to the TheoBros who hold all those lines of thought and Trump met with Nick personally so those lines of thinking are connected directly to the reins of power and I reject your premise that I need not be concerned about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 06:20 PM
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D'aw. Not only do you expect me to play with only the one ball you focused in on (the TRP sub), but I have to play by your definition of what makes a sub active enough to be a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 11:26 PM
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We both know that sub is still incredibly active and quarantining it was a worthless gesture long ago that has resulted in no further action. Reddit and the manosphere can point to the quarantine and say the situation is under control and/or 'the poor men are oppressed and silenced'.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 11:17 PM
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there are literally incel mass shooters my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:59 AM
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and why exactly aren't men concerned when they open the internet and see the raging misogyny that exists....well, everywhere. "repeal the 19th", "women are property", "bruh women are just emotional children, men are the logical ones bro, believe me bro", "modern women are poison bro, you gotta go get them poor ones that don't think they should have rights so they'll submit to you and treat you like a king bro". women are supposed to walk on eggshells for the sake of pulling men into the fold and…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:56 AM
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reddit literally hosts the redpill and all the subs in its ecosystem. it also happily hosts rape and sadism fetish subs that are nearly entirely dominated by men gaggling on about how they want to rape and abuse women. my favorite was a guy who said his fantasy was wrapping a woman up in razor wire and throwing her off a building so he could watch her dead body hang there as a sack of flesh and bones, isn't that charming? point me to an equal number of woman-dominated subs where the participants…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:37 AM
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I don't see matt walsh or jd vance or trump or any of the other misogynistic dudes in the news getting cancelled.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:28 AM
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You must not be seeing all the conversations women are talking about having with their partners about child-bearing over the next four years. These are women who are just at the age where they felt they could have a child or two and are now scheduling IUD insertions or appointments to renew their birth control due to safety concerns. *Partnered* women. Those guys might maybe be still getting to fuck, but they're now losing out on their chance to get a kid off their wife/girlfriend. I'd call that…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:18 AM
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If I'm reading correctly, the 40 to 55 age group of women were the strongest trump supporters so I suppose they'll have to get over their "post-wall ick".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:11 AM
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There's been a lot of talk about explicitly de-centering men and I personally think that's the way to go. Nothing so formalized as the 4b movement, though I admire women who can be that extreme, but just women drifting in the direction we've already been headed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:06 AM
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we're not allowed to reject men that we don't want? wild lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:00 AM
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oh no's, the possibility of helping a woman who thinks that she and other women are humans with rights.....the horrors
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:44 AM
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the vast majority of your post which is utter nonsense I can't believe people legitimately take time out of their day to sit down and write......that entire hot mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:22 AM
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The same right wingers that want women to pump out more babies would have an absolute meltdown at pretty much everything listed above.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:21 AM
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I forget what it's called, but there's this specific mentality where people will anticipate loss or rejection so they spin themselves up in thinking there's no point in trying in the first place. All to protect a very fragile ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:15 AM
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The simple answer is that shredding someone's self-esteem has pretty much never been proven to be a good catalyst towards self-improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:38 AM
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Something is wrong with today's society. I'm just trying to figure out what it wrong. Sexism. The last gasping breaths of the angry patriarchy. Late stage capitalism. Take your pick.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:36 AM
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But ultimately money circles back around to freedom. There's a reason people refer to certain amounts of money as "fuck you money" - it's that it confers on the owner the freedom of choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 02:44 AM
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women have even more power over their bodies. And? The one thing I should have ultimate, indelible control over in this world is my own fucking body.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 01:12 AM
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is that by having given women power over there bodies, many benefits have been gained, in my opinion, the positives are all negatives in disguise, and the negatives are the consequences we see now. Imagine saying, with one's whole chest, that half of humanity having power over their own bodies is bad. It makes everything that comes after this point utterly absurd in nature, unless the reader believes slavery is ethical/necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 12:24 AM
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The further way stray from these roles the more fucked up dating and relationships will become. Yeah, so that's literally the exact opposite of my point. The language used is harmful in ways that correspond to the original posters text.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 09:38 PM
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With respect to one gay couple, not "gays".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:45 AM
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This is a good example of why women are willing to wait longer. If you don't like her enough as a person to make it beyond three dates without a dick wetting, it makes good sense for her to throw you back and try with the next guy until she finds one that appreciates her as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:31 AM
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This sounds whiny as hell. Oh no, I 'shamed' the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:16 AM
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It's not a weapon and it's most often use is being said in frustration by women who swiped right on a guy with "looking for long term" in his dating profile only to find out that he's actually looking for a fuck buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:13 AM
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You're trying to use one example when I'm talking about broader discourse within the gay community.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:10 AM
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Entirely incorrect. The linguistic difference carries over into gay male relationships where bottoms are viewed as less masculine than tops because of who is penetrating and who is being penetrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:45 AM
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👀
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 12:33 AM
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Riiiight
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 12:26 AM
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I don't think the men are referring to Instagram models as slump busters so your entire premise is flawed
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 12:26 AM
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All of that is fundamentally incorrect
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 12:05 AM
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I doubt you feel the same way when men talk about fucking "slump busters". Or when they say they have to "drink until she's pretty". Men fuck women they aren't attracted to all the time for the sole purpose of getting their ducks wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:10 PM
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Also in the same language vein - men "fuck" and women "get fucked". What's another way the English language interprets getting fucked? Getting ripped off or having one pulled over on you. Our cultural narrative about who wins during sex is crystal clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:05 PM
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but for a woman it seems like taking an advil That's if it goes well. If it doesn't go well, it's not just not fulfilling, it's actively draining.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:02 PM
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✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:21 PM
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You wanna lump roughly fifty percent of the human population into the same bucket? Lol, be my guest....but you're not gonna like the results. Also.. limp men together of we shit on then? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 03:59 PM
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Nah bro, I simply choose not to take criticism from the type of man who would have a mental breakdown over finding out that his girlfriend has given blowjobs before meeting him lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 03:57 PM
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and a blatant hypocrite so.... considered and discarded
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:28 AM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 04:37 AM
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Big mad fighting words lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 04:37 AM
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Well that clearly made you uncomfortable lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 01:55 AM
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I grew up with men too and I can not say the same about them It still sends chills down my spine to think back to the first time I realized a grown man was staring at me like I was lunch and remembering that I was probably all of nine years old at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 01:14 AM
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the interest men who want to settle down have in virgins have no sexual component to it The lies men tell themselves get funnier and funnier.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 12:48 AM
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Putting random campers in the same category as botanists is an impressive stretch. The last time I went camping, there was a man across the camp from me who was either schizo or coming off drugs and spent his time either screaming random rap lyrics, talking loudly to himself, or laying in the camping roadway so cars couldn't pass. Bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:05 PM
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Proving my point to the letter
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:57 PM
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You fundamentally misunderstood the assignment. L.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:42 PM
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When hiking in yellowstone, I've done things before like wear a bear bell and carry bear spray. Not everything needs to be solved with firearms.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:41 PM
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Point made.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:40 PM
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It's almost like you didn't even bother to read to comprehend and just went "BUT BEAR 😡😡😡"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:39 PM
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This comment displays some fundamental issues with reading comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:37 PM
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How do you know the bear won't have an erection? 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:36 PM
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I usually prefer to shower when I come home from hiking but you do you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:34 PM
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Riveting
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:34 PM
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A bear won't have an erection while he's eating me, but there's dudes out there that would be flying full mast if they got a chance to watch the bear eating me. Snuff videos were a thing for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:42 AM
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I chose bear because of how the question was originally presented to me - You're walking in the woods and in that same woods is either a random bear or a random man, which would you prefer? No shit the bear is the correct choice in that scenario. If the bear is present, then I'm hiking in bear country and I'll have already taken precautions. The bear is supposed to be there, it's his home. The random man is the wild card, not the local wildlife, and thus represents the greater threat. Terminally…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:38 AM
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yall really miss me with all the love stuff. I didn't really say anything about love as I fundamentally don't believe most men, particularly all men who would go out of their way to identify as rp, are capable of loving women. All or almost all of that which pertains to love, most straight men reserve exclusively for other men. The people whom they admire, respect, adore, revere, honor, whom they imitate, idolize, and form profound attachments to, whom they are willing to teach and from whom the…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:26 AM
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he does not have a mind for academics Plus his mother is supposedly quite intelligent and accomplished which probably gave his superior man-brain a complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:31 AM
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This is part of it, but you can't understate their desire for even minimally earning women to be forced to leave the workplace. Their working assumption is that if they can trim women's options down to "poverty" or "marry the first man you can get your hands on", then they'll get more pussy. And all of their rage ultimately comes down to pussy access.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:25 AM
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Sex work isn't something I would wish on any woman, but the idea of making men pay to take a woman's virginity does make sense from the perspective of males on this sub. Over and over again, it appears to be the only thing about us you truly value so why shouldn't we monetize it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:17 AM
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these redpill guys seem to be heavily into the idea of being with a girl that's a doormat. I think it's a "feather in their cap" if they can break one, but it's not really necessary. They'll happily take one that's been pre-trained to be a doormat which is why you frequently see suggestions that they dip into religious communities to find young, virgin wives. Also, I am kinda living for all the male hatred Pearl is getting in this thread. She's literally prostrated herself on the ground, thrown …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:06 AM
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looking to wife something up, something Lol, love the obviousness
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:40 AM
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I think that person was pointing out the fallacy men here always like to inhabit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:13 AM
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"hey women, why can't you just simply devote the entire sum of your life's energy to meeting male beauty standards?"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:18 AM
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Sharing one's point of view is generally why people post on the Internet, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 01:02 AM
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That you're incorrect
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 12:59 AM
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This place is so unhinged, I genuinely can't tell if you're sarcastically agreeing with me or actually think what you've said is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:59 PM
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Please try to be more original in your anger, this is basically a duplicate of what redpill dude #2 said.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:39 PM
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Not by half.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:38 PM
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Thanks for proving my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:38 PM
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You're on reddit and have somehow not been exposed to Harrison Butker’s mind-bendingly stupid commencement speech?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:30 PM
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Most men actually don’t know what TRP is. You’re overestimating their reach. Not by half. And that ignores the fact that, even if they don't know exactly what TRP is, they still live in a society where young men of prime dating age are moving further to the alt right on women's issues. Many male students apparently were yelling "fuck yeah" at the recent 'women belong in the kitchen' commencement debacle.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:29 AM
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I doubt that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:26 AM
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Compelling
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:25 AM
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Bubblefuck-Nowhere NY. I submit to the committee that we rename your hometown BubbleButtFuck-Nowhere, NY For science.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:24 AM
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Have any of you ever had an athlete, entertainer or celebrity send you a private message on social media? Have any of you matched with an athlete, entertainer or celebrity on an online dating app? Have any of you been flown around the world on exotic vacations by rich and powerful men? Literally no, no, and no.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:08 AM
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Viewing every person you’re on a date with as “someone that hates my entire gender” has so many things wrong with it You're exaggerating. With the proliferation of manosphere nonsense online it's more correctly "going on dates with someone who has the potential to hate my entire gender". The rest of the comment is just ranty nonsense I can't make heads or tails of.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:18 AM
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My selected medical providers are perfectly capable of simultaneously telling me things I may not wish to hear while still respecting my humanity and personal rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:16 AM
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I have intentionally never rejected a man in a humiliating fashion because I don't wish to be murdered over a hurt ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:12 AM
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Women have learned a lot about the manosphere in recent years due to it becoming mainstream. We have and it's not limited to the items you point out, rather we've been exposed to the raw, enraged hatred that so many men have for women. It is thus reasonable for women to adopt extremely self-protective measures when daring to enter into a relationship in a society where Andy Tatertot is a household name. "Gold digging" is merely one of those protections. It says, "if I'm going to risk being with …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 07:37 AM
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It's always nice when you people come right out and say that your entire simple-minded ethos is based on who you think you can beat the hell out of.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 07:17 AM
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In summary, just "be fit, feminine, and friendly bruh". A perfect blank wall onto which a man can project his own desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 07:11 AM
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(Im a psychologist) I love when I find confirmation in the wild that my insistence on female medical providers is well founded.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 07:08 AM
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Those groups are a godsend and for that very reason tend to make Internet men very angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 07:07 AM
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Do men provide good dating advice for women? The type of dating advice that men tend to provide can be summarized as stay young & thin forever, jettison any personality or aspirations of your own that may come in conflict with what a man may want, and prepare for a lifetime of service. In short, they provide deeply patriarchal and self centered advice that is actively harmful to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 07:00 AM
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we aren't equal and probably never will be. Oh gee look, it appears I wasn't dishonest
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 06:52 AM
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It makes zero sense to square leftism (within which lies the overarching progressive value of equality between the sexes) with a viewpoint that states women are overly emotional faithless bitches who only possess the logical power of children.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 06:05 AM
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Literally no.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 12:57 PM
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Ahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 10:30 AM
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A redpiller who only wants to stick his dick in liberal women doesn't seem like a recipe for success unless lying one's ass off is a key part of the equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 08:20 AM
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It's funny that "men should at least consider dating average women" is so rage inducing to the dudes here that the post gets ratio'd with over 100 comments and 1 net up vote lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 08:11 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 11:28 PM
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Yeah I mean I wasn't arguing with you that the enslaved women would have it worse, I'm just saying that the men forget about their own issues during their masturbatory fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 11:28 PM
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Didn't think this forum did the whole "doomer" shit but m'kay
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:42 PM
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But he's not asking "do you think that I should find her attractive", he's asking if she thinks she is. She should answer from her own mind because that's how the question is phrased.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:39 AM
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I don't this this is really that complicated. The majority of people are straight so if you ask women if they think Lizzo is attractive, they'll say yes on the basis of her style, hair, smile, confidence..... something they admire about her. If men say a woman looks like Lizzo, he's not talking about any of that, he's just saying she's fat. There is no similar paradox because men aren't under the same pressure to be successful AND good looking. Men don't need to look for ways to see Adam Sandler…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 12:56 AM
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That too. I was thinking of the stupidity of not realizing a fuckin ten year old pregnant rape victim is an actual medical emergency.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 11:11 PM
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I can read. I just have the misfortune to also live in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 11:06 PM
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feminists have been making mens' lives miserable for a century at this point, "Boohoo my submissive sex slaves and house cleaners are gone, I'm so persecuted"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 11:05 PM
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they'll be the warlords No they won't. The ratio of men who think they're "real men of the manosphere" to available warlord positions will make sure of that. And warriors is just fancy terminology for cannon fodder.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 11:02 PM
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Yeah they said that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 07:51 PM
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The men here usually miss that part of the "inevitable collapse" because they're too busy salivating over how bad they imagine it will be for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 07:18 PM
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I can confidently say that receiving a constant stream of hatred and put-downs throughout your most formative years can really screw you up. And yet when women experience sexism from men from the time we can walk.....crickets.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 07:00 PM
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How far the movement gets is up to women; they appear to be sleepwalking so far If you ask most feminists who or what is the biggest threat to feminism/women, many of them will say TERFS or SWERFS with absolutely no hesitation. Meanwhile I'm like, that's great and all ma'am, but have you noticed the literal nuclear bomb brewing over in the manosphere?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 06:19 PM
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As this sector of the manosphere is growing I’ve noticed an increasing amount of reactionarty opinions particularly about women’s rights growing as well. Things like women shouldn’t vote, giving women the right to vote brought down western civilization, hating on women in college, calling any women who works a job a girl boss. This is literally the entire reason I'm here. When redpill was only a stupid dating strategy for losers, it had no impact on my life. You wanna cosplay an alpha male and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 06:05 PM
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Should women be more proactive in promoting pro-male ethical non-monogamy? No I have argued that late bloomer men are entitled to have sex outside of committed relationships while within committed relationships, up to and including extramarital sex. Unironically. Lol. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 05:57 AM
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This needs to be discussed. Does it tho? Don't we have entirely enough N count threads? A man who is promiscuous is desirable. A man who isn't is likely not. You're missing the point that we want him to be desirable and yet not use that desireability to fuck everything in sight while lying about wanting a relationship. It's damn simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:58 AM
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I see, did you tell that to the dude up thread as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 09:16 PM
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I don't care. Except you clearly do care about women in aggregate exhibiting the same kind of behavior that the red pill man up thread exhibited.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 09:16 PM
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Lol, I knew this level of outrage was going to happen. Somehow you were going to attempt to track my lack of penis (inability to piss my name into the snow) into a defense for why I should have to be a low-N count/virgin into my thirties unless I'm married.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 08:11 PM
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Lol, this is all literally just your opinion. RP men decided they wanted to force women to appear to have different rules so you guys made up the framework that we have "different strategies, goals, etc." It's all just made up so you can excuse a man for having a ho period (because you want that for yourself) while vilifying women for having one (because you don't like that).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 07:12 PM
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Only in your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 07:09 PM
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I don't think even seeing a man admit this is going to make them give up the fantasy of the 'cock carousel' ruining women forever. They like to pretend there are different rules for men and women to play by.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:05 PM
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women are equal to men feminism ruined women So women are equal to men but the only sociopolitical movement that acknowledged this fact is evil and ruined us? Lol. I genuinely do not understand how "redpill" women hold these kind of cognitive dissonances together.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 09:33 AM
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K?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 09:04 AM
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if match, look at details of person and go from there For men. Women read the profile because we're not morons
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 07:05 AM
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Andrew Tate is 6'2 with the body of a Greek god. And no fuckin chin. Seriously, I have never talked with a woman who thought he was attractive and I wish men would clock that instead of worshiping the tatertot
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:19 AM
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Men decided on a social contact women never agreed to. An unaccompanied woman isn’t “fair game”, This is the crux of this whole conversation and the thing men are resolutely refusing to understand. Men collectively decided - Man NEED sex Woman should provide sex Woman in public is potential source of sex My NEED for sex is more important than literally anything she's doing at the moment. and hey presto - cold approach. Women didn't ask for this shit. No-one checked in with us about when and wher…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:09 AM
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Ew no. My reddit life is my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 12:50 AM
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He's fine. He finds my methods for driving strange men away amusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 11:29 PM
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"no unattractive people” No, that's what women want to be able to swipe on. The NO FAT BITCHES is a direct quote. Sorry to be the one to break it to you, but your gender sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 10:22 PM
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Guess I have to be the bearer of bad news shrug
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 10:06 PM
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using "females" unironically? Gross. My point exactly. villianizing an entire gender's sexuality. You mean the gender that rapes mine? Again, boohoo, poor men. They have it so rough lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 10:05 PM
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what do they know about you on apps? Interests, hobbies, literally the shit people put in their profiles? The fuck kinda question is this lol like respectfully talking Boy do I have news for you.....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 10:04 PM
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Given that I'm married, YES PLEASE
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 10:03 PM
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Translation: I prefer to go OUTSIDE of my home and not get accosted by strange men offering me their dick while doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:28 PM
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Boohoo, females don't like it when I see them in public and make a sexual advance on them. Wahmens so mean....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:27 PM
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For many women who are dating? Unequivocally - yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:26 PM
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Yep. You know nothing about me other than what my visual appearance does to your dick. You don't know or care about me as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:25 PM
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It always amuses me how angry men get over the idea that women might want to date men they're attracted to. Meanwhile, their dating profiles are screaming NO FAT BITCHES and NO SINGLE MOMS!!11! E - I also appreciate how this comment indirectly confirms that actually desirable men aren't the ones forcing cold approaches on women in public lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:25 PM
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Something is better than nothing Even if I have nothing to eat, that doesn't mean I should be jealous of the person who was handed a literal shit sandwich.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:06 AM
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Why is so hard for men to just leave us the fuck alone? If we want to date, we'll be on an app. Find us there and stop forcing stupid and pointless interactions with us because you're horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:41 AM
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Yeah, fuck dem wahmen and their stupid ideas about being comfortable in public. Men wanna cold approach because they need sex so they're just gonna DO IT. sincerely, the "fuck your feelings" crowd
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:36 AM
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What advice would you give her when it comes to picking guys, sustaining stable marriages and healthy families? Based off stats, I'd tell her to pursue an advanced education, marry a similarly educated man, and wait until she's at least in her late twenties to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:19 AM
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different but equal "Separate but equal" is certainly not a very rosy starting point, that's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 07:22 AM
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I am stunned at the amount of effort you put into this comment. Brava.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:19 AM
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A significant portion of men on tinder are married so....
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:14 AM
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settling with an “adjustable 7”. Success in RP is fundamentally about being able to be a manipulative asshole and not getting pushback for it. They'll take a ten who doesn't realize she's a ten (the Holy Grail for manipulative men), but frankly most attractive women know they have options. Don't ignore the deliberate choice to use the word "adjustable", they want her to be attractive enough to stomach looking at, yet able to be adjusted to fit his expectations (clean for me, cook for me, submit …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:08 AM
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You can share your concerns, fine Literally what I'm doing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:58 PM
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quite a lot of women feel like if they get all dolled up we should be paying for that "Quite a lot" is an egregious overestimate of the number of women who actually hold this opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 01:18 AM
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And yet men on here say all the time about how they don't want "driven and ambitious" women so....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 11:40 PM
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they’re not only pushing the idea of dependence, but are also somehow framing it as their right. You're missing one of the largest reasons for these influencers taking this track for their social media - male viewership responding positively to women promoting dependence and submission to other women. It's literally just a grift.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 11:39 PM
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Any woman living in submission is suffering, irrespective of whether she wants to hear it. Most don't. shrug
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 11:32 PM
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Anyway what kind of touching is going on when you are on public transit, exactly Any and all kinds Is it worth stabbing someone over instead of reporting them? You don't know what a hatpin is, do you? Nor have have you tried to file a report about inappropriate bus touching
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:38 AM
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I like how the men touching me aren't the "nuts" ones in your paradigm, just the women defending themselves. Very cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 08:06 PM
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It's fun to watch someone type a big, performative 'waaaa' and then pretend they don't understand how Internet communication works. Please continue.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 08:04 PM
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Not outwardly treating it as a test and not internally seeing it as a test are two different things. Pretending that we're all unaware of how men speak of women they've fucked in the ass after the fact is unnecessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:57 PM
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No, I don't like the expectation that women should provide anal to men in order to keep them around or prove that they're "more attracted" to them than previous boyfriends. And I doubt most people would refer to a quarter of women or less as "plenty", real life is not porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:30 PM
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I prefer "to actively discourage from inappropriate touching".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:08 PM
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Asking more than once is pestering. And I look forward to the day when relationships are expected to reach a point where ramming a dildo up the guys ass is considered "natural".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:06 PM
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You're the one who said "anything" bud
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 09:25 AM
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have you heard of divorce-rape? Oh the made up thing manosphere men whine about because they lack empathy for actual rape and needed something that sounded bad to whine about? Yeah, too often in fact. if she liked you enough she would be turned on enough to try anything Allow me to introduce you to sadists who literally like to cut people apart for sexual pleasure. So....no. They won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:30 AM
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The part I'm referring to is the waiting months and months before putting the pressure on. Mentioning it in the beginning with no pressure is.... whatever. Men like anal, it's degrading and painful and domineering, hits all their hot spots. Women all know this so telling us you like anal is like telling us the sky is blue. Waiting until you've gotten your emotional hooks deeply into someone before you start revealing that it's a big deal and pestering about is grossly deceitful. If someone was u…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 06:13 AM
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It terrifies me to know that there are men out there willing to play the manipulation long game to get women to become their personal kink dispensers. Thankfully most of the anal/fetish obsessed ones nope out after a few dates where they don't get what they want, but I genuinely don't know how women are supposed to screen out the guys willing to play the long game.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:52 AM
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PPD men: you love me? Great, now bend over and let me harm you because I heard you let your shit hole ex Dave do it in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:39 AM
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Only if she's his third wife and he's about 55 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:31 AM
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Your entire post completely ignores the 20-year change in diagnostic criteria that has occurred for this condition.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:23 AM
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I've been on a few public buses where I could have used one of those hat pins....
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:21 AM
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The advent of online dating means that women can actually consent to being approached. If she's on a dating app, she's available. Random women out in public now expect men to confine their amorous attentions to women who have consented to being approached.... which I personally think is entirely reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:19 AM
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I’m living out my truth Lol, this is some "I'm manifesting good things" bullshit right here. My wish for all the starry-eyed 20-something red pill women is that they join the rest of us in reality at some point in the near future.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:07 AM
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I haven't been in the competition for a decade dear..... marriage does that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:05 AM
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I would rather have a man who wants to earn money and provide something valuable to his wife and family than one who loads dishes Guess it's asking for too much to have a man who does both huh LOL. I’ll take the one who puts me and my children and my family way above your tax bracket Statistically speaking, you're going to have a perfectly average man with a perfectly average wage who calls himself an alpha and wears sunglasses indoors.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:04 AM
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If you’d rather submit to a boss I don't "submit" to a boss. That's my point. I interview for a job, I take the job if I like it, I take the paycheck that I earn, spend it how I want, and if I don't like my working environment, I leave. at home in a better, superior environment Lol. That's such a load of self soothing bull. you don’t get to choose your boss You seem to be confusing having a job with being an actual enslaved person. you can submit to your boss and take care of a grown man child, …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:02 AM
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Never said being SAHM or SAHW was easy… it’s a full time job. Neither title implies submission. For all you believers in genderless folks, Lol, what left fielders asshole did this fall out of? working EQUALLY (if not harder) than my man in the workforce while contributing 50-50 to bills No shit that sucks. That's why men should be picking up their lazy ass slack. I'm not putting on a housedress and compliantly sucking dick on demand just because dudes refuse to learn how to load a dishwasher.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 02:57 AM
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what’s the difference between submitting to your boss vs your husband? Oh gol, this dumbass question again. Do you submit to your boss? Is that submission 24/7/365? Does he or she control every aspect of your life, including your sex life? No? Gee golly, guess we found the answer. my boss can suck it for all I care Yeah....that precisely. And yet you still had to ask the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 02:54 AM
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enjoy a life without the 9-5 feminist grind. Submitting to some RP asshole who thinks he owns his tradwife is nothing more than a different kind of grind. We don't get to avoid hard, we just get to choose which kind of hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 02:36 AM
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Please, they think 'hypergamy' is practically on par with gravity as a stated fact of the universe. Even unhinged left the station quite a while ago at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 02:33 AM
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It may have one singular root in self-improvement, but anyone who reads the sidebar can see that it's actually primarily rooted in a strenuous dislike of women. There's no other reason for the sidebar to contain reading material like "the oldest teenager in the house". Heck if you go to the sub and read any of the posts on a day-to-day basis, you could practically substitute the language used with deer hunters talking about hunting and killing deer. Women are spoken of as though they are faceles…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 02:24 AM
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I see too many caps and italics in that comment for that to be true, but whatever floats your boat bubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 02:17 AM
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100% of millennial/gen z men actually go ahead and get a fucking job that doesn’t involve being naked on camera Look who hasn't heard of NEETs or aspirational twitch streamers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 07:00 PM
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So basically you can't even address the question without screaming jargon. Cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 06:52 PM
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So rather than admitting that men have the exact same issue (being an asshole at work is both helpful in seeking status and difficult to turn off at home), you'd rather just handwave about dollar signs. The money women earn doesn't come marked with a vagina, it spends just the same. very high 5fig salary or low 6figs accept him possibly working lots of overtime and not being as available for her, or being more domineering in conflicts? I earn in this range and exhibit none of those issues so....…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 06:49 PM
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Why would I want the person I’m dating doing that to me at home due to him seeking those types of roles/promotions?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 12:32 PM
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You didn't say that, you said I wouldn't care if they did. You'd be wrong, about both components.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 12:32 PM
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Funny. Talking over other people and making assumptions is what men do when they're in leading roles at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 12:22 PM
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And here folks we see what happens when parents don't tell their kids that hitting is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 12:06 PM
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Stockholm syndrome happens for a reason. At a certain point, our circuits just get overwhelmed and thinking someone else loves you and wants the best for you while shutting off your own critical thinking just becomes.....easier. Doesn't mean it's healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 07:33 AM
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Crabs in a bucket. They believe that submission is good and if you're out living an amazing life without submission, you're a threat to the wall they've built around their minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 07:31 AM
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Yes, being physical with your wife in some situations to discipline her if she was being unruly was accepted 😑 So....in other words..... domestic abuse was okay if the man said it was okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 07:26 AM
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As an exmormon, they tell us to show off how happy and amazing our lives are, to put on this fake air of niceness and happiness And once you acknowledge that you're unhappy and that a portion of that unhappiness is due to fundamental inequalities with men.....BAM. Conveniently you're now no longer conservative, you're a "liberal feminist in therapy" and men get to continue joking about how women are happier stuck at home taking orders from exclusively male power structures.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 07:23 AM
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Religion That community aspect can't be underscored enough. The US has all but wiped out third spaces except for those associated with a religion. Strong community ties are so profoundly linked to human health, they literally show up in the blue zones along with diet and exercise.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 07:20 AM
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Precisely this. My dad is conservative/Christian as they come and he was pleased as punch at me pursuing an education and career. He's also a decent human being who doesn't base his worldview on hating women so .....there's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 07:16 AM
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I think a lot of the more vocal men who hold this "college is a bad idea for women" view are well past college aged themselves. So they've selfishly shifted from a mindset of "college is a place to meet other people my age" to "college aged girls are what I want and they're all out of my reach while they're surrounded by their peers.....must get them away". Of course some mid tier guy in his 40s is going to brush past women meeting partners at college, he can no longer participate in that scene …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 07:14 AM
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"Vice President of Pointlessness." And when men get to this level, they're what exactly? "Vice President of Muh Smol Dick"? Or are we only denigrating job titles when women achieve them?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 07:04 AM
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Having the communication skills and confidence to ask for what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 07:01 AM
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modern women are becoming more and more morally corrupt Yeah....no. Women are just operating as humans would be expected to operate and are making rational decisions under an existing paradigm. Capitalism hasn't left millennial/gen z people with a lot of wealth generating opportunities and work life balance is super sucky. Women were told by men that our primary value is in youth and beauty so they went "k", and monetized it. Excusing the fact that the market exists at all by just saying "simps"…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 06:36 AM
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Don't accept the scraps Why do you think more and more women are choosing to remain single? That's us not accepting scraps. As I said, there literally are not enough good/decent men who are able to be partners that add to a woman's life - so the alternative is singlehood, not "look harder".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 07:34 AM
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I already told you it's your prerogative to believe whatever you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 08:01 PM
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hey if women are willing to try out the scraps we throw at their doors, what's the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 08:00 PM
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Pretty sure that was called.....garble. but okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 08:00 PM
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Lemme guess, you want me to waste a couple hours of my time rolling back through the comments on recent threads all so you can pretend you don't read the exact same bullshit on this sub that I do? Lol nah bruh, I played that nonsense exactly twice before I realized ppd males are endless black holes of ignorance that will get suck down whatever I come back with and move directly on to their next complaint. You wanna pretend like you don't see it too? That's your prerogative, but I no longer spend…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:45 PM
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Boy what?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:47 PM
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it's sour grapes to ask "where are all the good men". Mkay, tell that to the industry professionals who actually concur that it's a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:46 PM
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Ppd men when women use their past experiences and observations to contextualize a comment response:😡
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:44 PM
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You realize fuckboi is a character description, not a prophecy.....right?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:43 PM
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/thathappened
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:42 PM
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At least they won’t be reproducing I guess lol We can only hope
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:41 PM
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Frat bros and guys that go to parties are the kost misogynistic men who engage in "locker room talk". You mean the men women derisively refer to as fuckbois and warn each other about? Those men?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:05 AM
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ignoring those men's particular issues and attitudes, My comment directly addressed the type of issues I see men complaining about on this sub and the attitude they employ while doing the complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:02 AM
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Lol, I don't hear the complaints of four billion men (thank the good lord) so why would I address anything but the whining I'm exposed to on this sub? It's what I have to go by. Men aren't exactly coming here and complaining about women borderline murdering them or beating the shit out of them or any other real problems, they're complaining about exactly the stuff I mentioned. Sorry if the truth isn't exactly flattering to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:01 AM
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Safily we safe along, safe along, safe along
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:47 AM
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They are by all accounts of logic and reasoning better on average by a significant margin. Wat. Based on what logic and reasoning? The tingling of your asshole?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:40 AM
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Sounds fragile
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:38 AM
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Define "most". And if they don't actually work, why even bring them up as a tactic for helping women avoid liars and suave manipulators?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:45 AM
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I get told you can have kids when you're like 50, Good luck with all the autistic kids. you become more mature as you age, and younger women like you. Do you look like Henry Cavill? Then yes. Are you a multi-millionaire with decently preserved looks? Then also yes. Otherwise, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:34 AM
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i am talking about the system where a Women picks a Guy and the father vets him, You know there are multiple cases where I've seen men on trp (and similar spaces) brag that they're raising submissive daughters to be "good wives" for other sons in their community, right? Some men hate women so much even their own daughters are not exempt. Men should not be anywhere near the spouse choosing process for their daughters, we're not your damn property to assign off.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:26 AM
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You can just admit you don't know anything about childbirth, this is a safe space for men to own their ignorance.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:21 AM
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......and you think those work in any sort of meaningful way? K.....
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:19 AM
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Tell me you know nothing about childbirth without telling me you know nothing about childbirth.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:18 AM
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Any way you slice it, it's worse for men I thought you all were gonna shove our noses in it and punish us for having rights and self respect by passport bro'ing it up? All I ever hear is that western women are eminently replaceable by young, nubile, developing world women who will enthusiastically submit to slobbering all over your cheesy knobs in order to have a roof over their heads. Now you're telling me I need to feel sorry for men because women are such a rare resource, there literally aren…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:16 AM
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Deduce what, hidden lies? Tell you what, give every woman a state of the art polygraph machine and the permission to use it....then get back to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:13 AM
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Then we maybe we should expend our efforts on helping people stay healthy and productive later in life instead of forcing women to pop out babies they don't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:09 AM
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Yes. Stripping women of all rights, including the fundamental right to vote, is an extremely popular viewpoint among the men here. ....and they wonder why women won't fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:07 AM
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This is the piece that gets missed. While the maternal death rate in this country is known, the maternal injury rate is severely under counted. We do not have an accurate handle on how many women narrowly avoid death during the course of their pregnancies because they don't show up in statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:02 AM
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This describes about 75% of the men on this sub..... I'd say it's more than some.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:57 AM
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My job has never required me to clean literal shit that's been blown up a screaming infants back, nor to wash it off walls when a curious toddler digs in their diaper and decides to paint with the contents. It's never asked me to undergo 24 hours of brutal labor flat on my back while strangers look at my vagina and I shit myself. It's never required me to feed another human using my own body. I'll take the job, please and thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:56 AM
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Why should I and my daughters be pushed into poverty to procreate for society? Why should we risk death and maternal injuries? I've said for many years, if I could be a dad, I'd have at least two kids. But I don't get that option, I have to be mom. I have to puke my guts out for months, get big and ungainly, experience the literal worst pain humans are routinely exposed to, risk death, serve as a mobile feeding station for another human, and then be socially shamed if my body doesn't snap back i…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:51 AM
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Infinite growth is the only humane solution unless you intend us to start eugenics and culling programs, forced abortions/contraceptives and child policies like China's. Or you could just, ya know, educate women and provide free access to birth control. That's been shown to work literally everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:42 AM
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and I also know college chicks who post feet pics on OF to make a few extra hundred bucks If men are stupid enough to pay women to look at our feet, that's a "them" problem. Sex work with your face is one thing, but I personally think any woman making money off her feet is hilarious, not toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:23 AM
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It's fascinating to me that the men here insist on consistently characterizing any man who happens to be awkward, quiet, and/or ugly as "safe".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:29 AM
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Every time men ask this question, I find myself wondering if you actually believe abusive men waltz up to women and go "hi, I'm Dave the woman beater, let's get pie". They lie. That's it. That's the big mystery. Abusive people who don't mind hurting others lack the moral backbone and empathy required to restrain themselves from using manipulation to get partners. Once the partner is "got", then they pull the mask back. You'd be shocked how many women get hit or raped for the very first time on t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:27 AM
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they are just a non-factor in women's primary attraction to men. According to unsuccessful dudes on this sub. I dated with intention in my early twenties and knew plenty of other young women who did so as well. It's just sour grapes to say "boohoo, women only want exciting bad boys".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:54 AM
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I believe NYT and either WaPo or Vox have done articles on the subject and have interviewed both psychiatrists as well as professional matchmakers. Globally, there's about 65 million surplus men. To the extent shortages are relevant, it's the women shortage that guarantees single men Which doesn't matter except for Chinese men and the women who are being kidnapped from the surrounding countries. The disparity is not evenly globally distributed and, if men hadn't hated women so much to abort or a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:20 PM
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What an odd projection on your part, my dad thinks I'm awesome. Sorry if yours does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:15 PM
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solipsism Aw, I wondered how long it was going to take for ppd males' favorite word to make an appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:14 PM
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What does that even mean? It was legal to enslave women? In some cases, literally yes. But in a broader context, it means that women were historically seen as the property of their husbands. No we can't. And why? You offer no alternative method of accounting for #of children desired vs. # of actual children in a pre-birth control/ pre-feminist context. other careers are also more dangerous than childbirth when you take into account the lifetime risk. Not the average career, which was my point. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:13 PM
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Men were expected to sacrifice their lives for their families. And women were expected to sacrifice theirs to even have them. Sure, no women married and bore children for themselves or their children. There was no birth control nor did women have any legal ownership over their own bodies. Marital rape wasn't officially outlawed in the West until the 1990s. If we go by the number of women who still want to have more than five children today (when they actually have a choice in the matter), we can…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:33 PM
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There's nothing malicious about masculinity. Not only is that statement laughably incorrect, ignoring a supposed partners comfort in order to make yourself feel better/be more successful is pretty darn malicious. Disregarding women's comfort sounds bad on the surface The surface, an inch down, ten feet down......you're really downplaying that. It sounds bad no matter how deep you go. if they got upset, no big deal Men caring about women as humans challenge. Level - impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:28 PM
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Who tf said anything about having to stay home? That's a whole ass jump lol. Fwiw, I also don't see men out here respecting sahm either. What I do see is them treating them like freeloaders and gold diggers who owe them 168 hours a week of labor availability in return for a roof over their head.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:18 PM
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girls for figuring out dudes aren’t that complicated and meeting them in the middle. Men tend to have very strange ideas about where "the middle" actually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:16 PM
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Men are pretty realistic about what options they have at every stage of life. I see no evidence of this. Instead, I see men blowing smoke up their own asses about how their "relationship value" only goes up as they age. What's there to talk about? Lol, bring up the link between male parent age and fetal health and watch the angry male tears pour out because they simply can't deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:14 PM
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I've gotten more dating success by leaning into more masculine behavior and disregarding women's comfort. Malicious behavior is almost always a short cut to getting what one wants so it should be no surprise that it works on dating as well. Millionaires/billionaires step on plenty of people on the way up and they just get comfortable doing other people dirty.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:11 PM
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I'm very clearly referring to the common complaints men give about women in spaces like ppd
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:08 PM
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the woman's program if commitment and kids Lol, we're supposed to believe that having kids is strictly a "woman's program" when all I hear about is dudes saying they want to 'secure their genetic legacy' or some dumb shit. And commitment? Nah, plenty of men out here demanding exclusive commitment from women, even when they're not willing to provide it themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:55 AM
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I don't think they're less creepy, I just think they're more honest. When you, as a much older man, seek out the affections of beautiful young women who are out of your sexual league, you're only going to be successful if you can offer something that offsets your saggy balls and dwindling vitality. Men like to blow smoke up their collective asses and pretend that the average young woman is organically attracted to the average old man, but that is blatantly untrue. She's forfeiting her youth to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:36 AM
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Have you ever looked at mortality rates for turn of the century coal miners or railroad workers? I looked into this at one point and found it was statistically more dangerous to be a woman giving birth than a man working in a coal mine at the turn of the century. Nearly all women were expected to marry and bear children for their husbands while only a select portion of men worked in coal mines or on railroads. Even today, there are very few professions that have higher mortality rates than givin…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:19 AM
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When men claim they're being "bullied" because "modern women won't submit to me" or "that girl I want to date has an onlyfans", it becomes pretty difficult to take the whining seriously. Being blunt AF, the things men complain about vis-a-vis women sound petty compared to what I've seen and heard women experience at the hands of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:15 AM
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women who can't get on a man's program Ew. We gonna go ahead and criticize unsuccessful men for being "unable to get on a woman's program" too or is sacrificing your life's chance at self actualization something only women are expected to do to get a partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:09 AM
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they couldn't find a man "on their level" to date were the majority and that there was an actual problem, Any article you see published about this subject will bluntly acknowledge that there aren't enough decent male partners available for straight women. The causes I've seen discussed track back to women shedding enforced gender roles faster than men are willing to accommodate and men not picking up the appropriate emotional/interpersonal skills women value in the face of changing gender roles.…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:03 AM
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the reality is they have a finite window. When confronted with this reality, it can be hard to accept. So do men and they obviously have an even harder time talking about it since it gets shushed on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:59 AM
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You're confused as to why writing pages of drivel about how women never mentally mature beyond the age of 18 is bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 06:56 PM
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You managed to read "women are the oldest teenager in the house" and still somehow have nO iDeA what I'm talking about. Typical. Please waste your time spoon feeding me something about TRP that I'll then pretend you're misinterpreting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:58 PM
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Again, it's not "can't", it's practical vs theoretical
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:12 AM
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riiiiiiight
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:15 PM
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I like how we're all supposed to buy into the hyperventilating that women ruin their "pair bonding" by having casual sex with attractive men, but a guy having one bad date thirty years ago is simply perpetual evidence that women are naturally manipulative and devious.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:38 PM
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Believing men have things worse than women is not a core belief. For you, perhaps. Other people who are equally adamant they're red pill probably don't agree. They simply asked what was the thesis of the redpill. Yes, and I'm addressing the thesis as implemented rather than the idealized thesis.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:35 PM
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Men will take women out on dates with the only intention being to use their actual BODY. Why am I supposed to get bent out of shape about a hypothetical tiktok girl who goes on a date so she can eat twenty bucks worth of Applebee's?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:15 PM
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This is basically asking me to Google something for you. Go read the sidebar
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:07 PM
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They DO get it, that's why there's such a push to strip us of our rights. If they can disenfranchise us and throw us back into the mud pit of despair we crawled out of, then we have no choice but to drag our sorry carcasses back to obeying their capricious whims.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:06 PM
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What effect these ppl and the TRP ecosystem has hat's another topic. and I don't really care. Take the good from things discard the bad Lol, that's a convenience you have that the women who are actually impacted by TRPs general nonsense do not. We have to be aware of the popular implementation of trp, not the tightest, most constricted central thesis possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:02 PM
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Sex workers shoot to hell the male fantasy that they can be sloppy and slovenly and old and still get hot young pussy to fuck them like their lives depend on it. It's women overtly saying "no, you don't deserve that, if you want that experience from us, that's work on our part and you'll have to compensate us".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:32 AM
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Plenty of stuff in the blue pill reddit that boil down to "men bad". I'm unaware of any major sub on Reddit that has aggregated and pushes an entire side bar of "literature" detailing how men, for example, never mentally mature beyond childhood or how giving men rights will lead to the downfall of civilization. The only part that is a fundamental thesis to red pill is the On Dating section. That's borderline just a 'no true Scotsman' approach. Most of the dudes here piss and moan about red pill …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:27 AM
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The definition of "stable" you're using here is incredibly one-dimensional.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:50 AM
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There are plenty of items on the redpill sidebar that boil down to the "women bad" nonsense listed in the "On Society" and "On Nature" sections of OP's post.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:44 AM
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but where it wasn’t inappropriate to go seeking casual sex either In any place where that's allowed, that behavior is going to quickly drown out anything else going on in that space and then "poof", your wholesome place is no longer so wholesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 06:18 PM
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You've got the black down pat but you're ignoring the white No, I'm ignoring male whining about how women should defer to their ridiculous libidos. I'm also pointing out that it's unnecessary for procreation. Meanwhile you've somehow turned this into an airing of the grievances about anything and everything, including onlyfans girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:19 PM
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the 'obsession' with sex almost always ensures that woman will be able to lock down a man for that task Gee, that makes it pretty clear that it would actually be men's fault if we had fewer babies, not women's. Maybe men should be less selfish and think more about the future of the species.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 06:13 PM
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like how you picked the class of women that 'unga bunga me horny' levels of testosterone benefits THE MOST. How does it benefit a woman who wants three evenly spaced children between the ages of 27 and 33 to know she lives in a world chock full of males who've been dying to stick their dicks in her since the day she turned 18?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:11 PM
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There are well-known exceptions (us, bonobos, dolphins 😬) Ah yes, the rapists of the animal kingdom. Funny how that works lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:09 PM
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What a ridiculous jump to go from "we don't require that males have a sky high sex drive" to "sTorKs bRinG bAbiEs".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:07 PM
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Humanity would quickly go extinct if men weren't designed to be 'obsessed' with sex. Not even a little. You've clearly never encountered a woman whose ovaries have informed her it's time for a baby. Or noticed that its women who dream about how many children they want to have. The species would have drastically less sex, but only marginally fewer babies. The predatory male sex drive is completely biologically useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:26 AM
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Gee I didn't know asking to not have rape threats screamed at me from passing cars while I'm out walking was asking to be treated like royalty.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:56 PM
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I totes believe you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:53 AM
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well gee that just hurts me right in the feels
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:30 AM
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What's that people say? It's a joke, not a dick? It's just reddit, calm down.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 05:16 AM
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I think you can just Google it bud
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:14 AM
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absolutely zero tolerance for bullshit is basically not having a forgiving heart. Yeah no. There's a difference between a partner who makes a one-off mistake and one who expects their partner to be permanently unhappy at some level.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:13 AM
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lesbians are far more likely to get married in the first place, more easily and more quickly Yep, the uhaul joke exists for a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:31 PM
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an analysis of lesbian relationships shows that women are the ones who are most guilty of this. You've completely failed to account for differences in the types of relationship breaking behaviors exhibited. Every lesbian I've interacted with has had an absolute zero bullshit tolerance; I've left them shaking their heads in disgust when I reveal what I (and other straight women) routinely put up with in relationships. A lesbian is typically much more independent, less likely to be tied down by ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:23 PM
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The fuck is an inkel? Some new manosphere fool got triggered by the "c"? , yet your kind This really just sounds like "boohoo, how dare women get mad when only a small percentage of us are killing you".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:58 AM
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So no answer. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:56 AM
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I posted Taylor Tomlinson's bit in another comment about wanting a house-husband with ambition and, what I find particularly interesting, is that if you watch the whole five or six minutes of that segment you'll notice her expanding on her husband resenting her for giving up his dreams to wholesale support hers (dead dreams under my pillow haha, that sort of thing). The men who watch that bit tend to get their feathers all ruffled like "how dare a woman strip a man of his dreams and destiny and …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:58 PM
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Because too many dudes that want to stay home think it consists of "sitting on the floor, smoking weed, and eating crumbs". And that guy, does indeed, suck. https://www.tiktok.com/@itsjustajokemate/video/7207590792163085569
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:49 PM
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I prefer to think they have some sort of fishing kink and it tickles their jimmies every time they get to yell about the "fisherman taking advice from a fish" hypothetical.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 06:56 AM
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I don't care beyond hoping that the ones who intend to be shitty, domineering, & abusive partners fall flat on their face.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 06:53 AM
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That's not objective fact since older measurements are not directly comparable to those of today. But sure, it makes total sense that women were happier being raped & beaten by husbands they couldn't leave, lobotomized, and institutionalized over shit like post partum depression. Sometimes I have to just laugh at the way the men here undermine other men's attempts to appear reasonable. They'll say over and over again who us? no we're not misogynistic, we don't believe in rape, we just want intim…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 06:38 AM
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that worked for most of recorded history If you were a man. Didn't work for shit for women. say it’s pretty inevitable that most men want to turn the clock back. dick no wet, man need slave again What a terrible facet of humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:01 AM
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IF men want to have sex and not be rapists, then yes. They're more than welcome to opt out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:56 PM
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You went "poor men, the evil wahmens only want Chad" and then, as per the usual, left it open-ended as to what should be done to women to rectify the situation for men. I simply filled in the blank
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:48 PM
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Does masturbation produce orgasm or sexual pleasure? Simple yes or no will suffice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:35 PM
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why wouldn’t men want to design a system where they have the upper hand? You mean like the system that has existed for most of recorded history and is still slowly being dismantled? Yeah, we're aware you did that. Be happy we just want equality and not revenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:30 PM
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a microscopic minorty, Lol. Incels are not a microscopic minority, no matter how much you may want that to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:28 PM
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That is radically untrue for women. Bad sex is absolutely worse than no sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:24 PM
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If you want to fuck someone and that someone doesn't want to fuck you, of course the onus is on you to either find someone else or make yourself desirable to that person. Demanding they subject themselves to sex with no organic desire is demanding women allow themselves to be raped for men's happiness. This is not complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:20 PM
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Conservatives got enough forced birth advocates on the supreme court that women lost a measure of bodily autonomy at the national level. Conservative mouthpieces and even one previous R congressional candidate are openly advocating for women to lose the right to vote. They're definitely doing the primary thing tradcon dudes are gagging for: hurting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:14 PM
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So....enslave & disenfranchise half the population because of men's collective dick woes. Basically what I stated, thanks for proving my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:02 PM
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Or what happens when you try to force an equivalency where none was stated, but who's counting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:01 PM
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Seems like end-user error.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:00 PM
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Feeeeeemales It's funny how controversial the statement "women shouldn't be put in rape camps" is here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 05:20 PM
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This is what happens when people can't read.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 05:15 PM
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It might not be as lonely as not having friends but it can be lonely. Which is why I specified "not as important as having friends". You asked the question, gave an example, and I answered.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 05:14 PM
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There is a very real concern that men are able to send in photos and specifications of women they know in real life and make sex dolls of them without their consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 11:26 AM
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This is assuming the woman does it willingly and happily. I'm pretty sure the stepmother thought Cinderella was happy too. some women enjoy cooking and cleaning. LOL. And they say women have a hamster for a brain, good grief.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 10:31 AM
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I’m saying some men have a preference for women who can cook and clean. Because they don't want to cook and clean and are instead specifically looking for a woman to perform that repetitive and devalued domestic labor for them. This is not rocket science my guy. There is literally zero amount of hand waving that is going to effectively disguise what men who "value" these characteristics are doing. Some women prefer not wanting to make major decisions in the household. Lol. Some. As in any greate…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 10:29 AM
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I think the word that conveys your inteneded meaning would have been "indefensible". I think my word choice is fine. Who says the person looking after the home is being ordered to do so? The guy looking for submission explicitly tied to the cooking and cleaning. In many traditional families the woman had no control over her own fertility or sex life and would be regularly raped by her husband when he wanted sex and she didn't because, of course, marital rape wasn't outlawed in all states until t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 10:25 AM
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It goes to show you how warped and misandrist the world is. Allow me to rephrase - The world is misandrist because I can't value a submissive woman who will subject herself to my dominance without people judging me for it, woe is me At this point, I can only assume it takes willful misunderstanding to not see this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 10:21 AM
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he did list handy. If the women don't find you handsome, they should at least find you handy While it is true that it's the only "labor" related characteristic he listed for men (while all characteristics for women related to the labor we provide to men), the word he chose is specifically one that has value among men. Men look down on other men who can't change the oil in their car. They admire men who can patch pipe and fix tractors and do "man shit". We don't admire women who submit. We feel s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:54 AM
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"I can't tell the structural power difference between having a life compromised entirely of cooking and cleaning and a life where I order other people to cook and clean for me" a male redditer, desperately trying to defend a defenseless position.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:49 AM
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ok
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:47 AM
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So cleaning and cooking doesn't add value to women's life when she exhibits them? Do men not cook and clean then? Submissive doesn't mean being a servile Cinderella, it means wanting the guy to take the lead. Some women don't want to have to make many decisions and trust the guy to make the right choice. The lies men tell themselves about women's submission would be hilarious if they weren't so delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:46 AM
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It's particularly concerning when you map it up against the fact that the incel portion of the manosphere is particularly keen on "nationalizing the sex supply". I.e., putting women in rape camps.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:40 AM
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It's definitely not like "having no friends". We're a communal, tribal species, studies show we quite literally die sooner if we are 'out of group'. Sexual pleasure/orgasm can be solved with a flesh light or a vibrator.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:35 AM
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You're asking redpill men about empathy.....for a woman. That's gonna be a "no" chief.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:14 AM
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This should be patently obvious, but all those traits you listed for men? They're useful things men actually want to be. Tall, strong, handy, dominant....those are all positive descriptors that add value to the man's life when he exhibits them. Now look at what you laid out for women. You made her a fucking submissive Cinderella, cooking and cleaning for you while saying yessir all day long. That doesn't add value to her life. No woman wants to be that helpless and powerless sad sack. Men here c…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:10 AM
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I'm good. Just laughing at the performative victimhood you've ascribed to men.....and laughter's healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:03 AM
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911? If men need a wahmbulance, pretty sure they can call their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 06:34 AM
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leveling the playing field My fuckin sides, that's hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 03:32 AM
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Can you quote it? 😑 It's private It is not private, you have to make one extra click to the new host. The red pill describes our world as it is. Proven through psychology and biology. LO-fucking-L
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 02:49 AM
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Good looking humans can still make the choice to not behave like shit, shocking tho that may be.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 02:43 AM
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I dislike the explicit valuation of women as "young+skinny+beautiful" equals higher dollar value. I reject the premise that women are most valuable when they're existing in the most male-preferred state during the biologically tiny window it's available to us. However, as another comment pointed out, Playboy has existed for decades and courtesans long before that. So what I like about it is the opportunity women have to monetize the male gaze. If men expect us to perform sexual labor for them (a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 02:18 AM
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I was making a dry observation. I'm well aware that, in real life, men lie through their teeth when they encounter a woman they wish to stick their dick in.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 02:02 AM
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Assuming you're actually serious and not just JAQing off, here's a bright & shiny example. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/160b5u/woman_the_most_responsible_teenager_in_the_house/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb I await your explanation as to why referring to women as children isn't AKSHUALLY misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:39 PM
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If this subreddit is full of you all pretending to 'like' us, bemused laughter can be my only response.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:43 PM
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Your whole premise here is flawed. Yes, we want men that have upstanding traits like loyalty. No, we don't want men who choose to be with us out of desperation because no one else will have them. This is not fucking complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:26 PM
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All this says to me is that you haven't read the sidebar
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:18 PM
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What does any of that have to do with winning elections and the like? Bro, you're the one that decided you wanted to focus on "winning elections" as the only important topic of conversation. I have flying fuck all to do with winning elections, I just pointed out the error in your suggestion that gender was irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:03 AM
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Average Joe will become misogynistic after ingesting what's on the red pill sidebar....which was my original point. Thank you and goodnight!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:59 AM
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All this time pissed away in this forum and I still remain unpleasantly surprised at the esoteric nonsense men whine about.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:57 AM
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Trump didn’t just magically go away That tends to happen when you stage an insurrection. Gender has nothing to do with this. Riiiiight. The Proud Boys are "proud Western chauvinists" for no reason whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:25 PM
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friendzoned guy getting lowkey abused Lowkey abused My gosh, the victim mentality lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:23 PM
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I just think liberalism has failed. How convenient that the thing that makes life bearable for women can just be deemed "failed" by a random man on the internet lol. Clearly that should be enough for me to just crawl back to my own kitchen now and put the shackle on myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:35 PM
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do all the jobs that women by and far do not or do not want to do Still holding on to the idea that women just magically don't want good paying trades jobs because, idk, our vaginas somehow make us scared of wrenches? Couldn't possibly be all the asshole men who make a point to constantly spew sexual filth and harassment our way or demean us. Noooooo. Female bad, end of thought process.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:33 PM
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i'm gonna wear this, I'm so excited about my date tonight. He loves it when i bend it over and arch my back aaaand they're broken lmao. Wow. Broken by made up scenarios that never happen. Impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:30 PM
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Strange how no women were on antidepressants prior to the 19th amendment...... oh wait no it's not since they weren't invented until the 1950s.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:23 AM
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you and people like you go on and on and on about this, you endlessly write and debate this like on here Bruh ⬆️😂 We get it, you're mad about women having rights. We don't need eighty paragraphs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:08 AM
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but liberalism has clearly utterly failed and isn't working It's only failed if your only metric of evaluation is the sexual success of young men. As a woman, I'm pretty happy to have rights and shit. Utter success in my book, I give freedom two thumbs up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:28 AM
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What's crap is men thinking that "societal signs" can be boiled down to the birth rate and male happiness. Lol. Every single time y'all bring this topic up, you leave out the fact that women make up half of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:11 AM
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You don't need to listen to Tate to see that male and female are not equals Maybe men don't, but women sure don't naturally view themselves as unequal, submissive bangmaids.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:03 AM
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So anything one learns and benefits from, adds value to their lives. I struggle to see how becoming a raging misogynist who believes any of the items on the red pill sidebar could add value to one's life in the 21st century.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:01 AM
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It feels like something has radically changed in the past five years, and I cannot pinpoint exactly what could have happened. Tiktok happened. Aggression and anger drive interaction and preying on young men's entitled sexual anger is pretty much the easiest way ever to drive views. Tell them women are fundamentally weak children who were designed for submission or that we're slutty/ hypergamous wenches who are out of control, or any one of a hundred variations of redpills idiotic axioms, but wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:54 AM
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If you think women who look for dick appointments are some sort of very rare exception.....I don't think you've been paying attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:59 PM
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A wife is a second mother, therapist, and unpaid whore enduring mediocre maintenance sex. All day everyday day therapist mother maid, nymph then a virgin, nurse than a servant https://youtu.be/jvU4xWsN7-A?si=vxnB7qKuRUvhsxG3
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:32 PM
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Nope. I've encountered numerous examples of high flyer badass corporate type women who use men as "dick appointments" and have less than zero desire for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:22 PM
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Again, that's a "you" problem. People see what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:17 PM
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I'm good thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:16 PM
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Or they'll just hate him because their mom is normal and that daddy fantasy is weird af
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:16 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:13 AM
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Highly desirable women gatekeep relationships just fine
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:11 AM
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Sounds like we shouldn't trust men who do fuck either
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:08 AM
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I mean he's probably going to get divorced and his daughters will likely be disgusted with him for a good long while but, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:06 AM
0

And it has to be the majority why?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:02 AM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:01 AM
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You can easily look up and see the sky is blue, my point exactly. Which means if you don't acknowledge that the sky is blue, there's no point in my expending effort trying to prove it to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:00 AM
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Did the sub suddenly become a room?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:58 AM
0

That does seem to be the prevailing perception among PPD males
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:55 AM
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Buddy my guy I'm not going to do your job for you LOL. It's like asking me to prove the sky is blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:56 PM
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There were glaring red flags/incompatibilities. Then why'd you sleep with them? I wasn't seeking a relationship at that time of my life, Then why'd you sleep with them? And if we take your answer and pretend it's coming out of a woman's mouth, are the men on this subreddit going to froth in anger?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:55 PM
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It's entirely possible for a man to form a relationship with a woman he quickly first slept with. That's entirely inconsistent with the shouting on this thread that those women are high-n count and therefore unworthy of relationships. Also inconsistent with the red pill axiom, "she's never yours it's just your turn" that eschews relationships entirely. .
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:54 PM
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That narrative is about forty years out of date. The labor participation percentage for women in the United States is nearly 60%. Try try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:52 PM
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So once again, no accountability for the married man. Woman bad, the end. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:51 PM
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I did and I discarded it because it's irrelevant to the question at hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:08 PM
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Point is for virtually no men is it a win to wait and pay for dates who was sexually easy for other men. Sounds like a male perception problem. Maybe if men didn't see dates as putting coins into a slot machine, they'd be less upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:07 PM
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I'm pointing out the hypocrisy of you guys crying big old tears about women being horrible while the men in the exact same sub are cheating on their partners LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:05 PM
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https://reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:04 PM
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but it depends on the woman. Which returns us to a validation of the op title
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:03 PM
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You would only need 0.1% of husbands The number of men who engage in domestic abuse is already higher than that so.....
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:03 PM
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Their fault. It always is on this sub, this comment adds nothing new. No accountability for men, ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:01 PM
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Gee, almost like different people want different things Having to wait and pay for dates for a woman who puts out right away for other men is a Loss regardless of whether the man likes casual or relationships. They shouldn't date if they're going to cry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:00 PM
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they were designed this way Men were designed to cheat? Concur.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:52 PM
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Stuff like this makes me lowkey doubt women. Because the married men participating can clearly not handle any accountability whatsoever eyeroll
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:52 PM
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That's why the man offers more of himself to his wife than to a casual woman, That's hilariously incorrect. Many men treat their wives like absolute slaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:41 PM
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Men pine after and obsess over women they claim to hate (ig/of, high body count, single moms) while neglecting/resenting/minimizing their wives and girlfriends. There was just an AITA front page post about this. Dude wasn't successful (in work or in dating) in his younger years, was financially supported by his wife in early marriage years, then hit it big and surprise surprise, the wife and their two daughters was no longer good enough. He quit inviting her to company events, would get annoyed …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:38 PM
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Every time I've pointed out that men see themselves as winning if a woman fucks them and then immediately gets up and walks away, I've been met with faux outrage and crocodile tears about how boohoo, men aren't heartless monsters who just want sex, we want intimacy too 😭 So which is it? Do men win under the pump and dump scenario or under the relationship scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:34 PM
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It's especially funny to hear them whine and then turn around and run their mouths about how they treat women they perceive as "past use worthless whores" one (horrible) way followed directly by bragging about how much better they'd treat an 18 year old virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:30 PM
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I'm aware. I pointed out that he agreed with you that women are 'bad at marriage' when left to our own devices.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:52 AM
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Bruh, that comment wasn't about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:45 AM
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Oh gotcha gotcha, we're supposed to take everything men say at face value while women's advice is....what again? Oh right, as useless as taking fishing advice from a fish. Cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:43 AM
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RP oppose marriage. That's not entirely correct. They oppose marriage until they believe they can get into one that's entirely beneficial to the man. And it's not irrelevant. People are pointing out the junk understanding of OPs post and doing so requires contrasting men's and women's behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:50 PM
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Lol, they're definitely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:48 PM
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You compared lesbian women to gay male marriage in a one to one way. With even the barest of understanding about the cultural differences between those two groups, anyone should be able to see how ridiculous that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:33 PM
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Every attempt that has been made to survey the sub has shown that the clear majority of men here view themselves as red pill. There's a reason I phrased my answer the way I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:31 PM
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This stage will likely end the bloodline of a vast majority of men who can’t find a mate,
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:21 PM
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I took it as just a chance for him to rant about how women are the big bad for not being broodmares anymore. With perhaps a dash of agreement that women ARE bad at marriage when we're not silent, submissive, and pregnant. Which would make him in agreement with the OP.......
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:20 PM
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Women have sex because happy and harmonious relationship. I was introduced to the idea that men believe women have (or should have) a 'tolerable level of permanent unhappiness' and I've honestly never seen anything so accurate. It's why so many men pretend to be blindsided by divorce, they kind of knew in the background that she was unhappy but he thought she'd suck it up and just keep taking it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:13 PM
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RP teaches pumping and dumping bitches for sport. It's not about intimacy, it's literally just sex for the dudes here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:08 PM
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douchecanoe Paul Dolan and his viral: “Women are happiest childfree and unmarried” blah blah blah. Seems like men are the ones bad at marriage if we're happier without y'all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:06 PM
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The fact that you think 'dress slacks' are gonna bring the college girls to your yard....😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 12:40 AM
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I remember (when I was in undergrad) thinking that the thirty something 'townie' guys that hit up the college bars were blatantly disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 12:38 AM
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even in my late 20s many truly desirable women I cross paths with who seem smart, funny, sexy etc are taken, often engaged, sometimes married, and as savage as it may sound I think it’s fair to say that women in their 30s are not always but often single for a reason. And you think the single men in that age bracket are not? Pardon me while I laugh my ass off. So many of those dudes are so toxic they could probably live in the no-go zone for Chernobyl.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 12:34 AM
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They're not shame words, they're descriptions. The stupid wahmens are SHAMING ME however is a buzzphrase. Any criticism leveled at men is characterized by the manosphere as 'shaming' because how dare men be held accountable for being shitty humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 12:29 AM
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Wish women had the same protection, but sexism means men who share nudes don't suffer the same consequences as women who take them. Your choices are probably for the best tho, a woman who shared a nude with her boyfriend just to have him vengefully make it public doesn't need the additional trauma of dating someone super judgemental. Just tell women BEFORE the date, telling them ON the date is fucking weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 12:26 AM
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Not unless the state has specifically outlawed it AND you're successfully prosecuted. So basically no.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 12:23 AM
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Never come across it. Yes you have. You just didn't recognize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 07:29 AM
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If they didn't post their nudes themselves and they're a victim of hate crime, it's unethical and illegal act done by the person who has posted these photos, not by the person who found them Which won't show up on the search results. Makes me wish women could access a database of any man who's ever non-consensually shared a nude since, ya know, that's actually a crime. Unlike posting your own tatas to reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 07:21 AM
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So you used an artificially intelligent search engine (which people are already uncomfortable enough about) to go look for online nudes of women you've never met.....just so you could bring it up to them and 'confront' them about it on a date and feel self righteous. Gee. I wonder why you're getting pushback. I also wonder how many of those nudes are actually the result of revenge porn rather than the woman consensually sharing her images outside of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 07:18 AM
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Also, what makes you believe that a virgin would like to disclose such a personal information to a man she’s just starting to know so he can lie about his true intentions and take advantage of her? Many virgins keep that information until the last minute. If I had to date again, you wouldn't be able to pay me enough to reveal that my count is a big ole one until I'd assured myself the dude wasn't some asshole redpill/tradcon 'purity' hunter.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 09:47 PM
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Portions of the manosphere are actually advising men to go to church for the express reason of feigning religion long enough to grab a naive young virgin for themselves and then dip.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 09:42 PM
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That's probably because the imperfections women are encouraged to embrace are things like "your nose is 23% larger than Instagram says is ideal" rather than "hey, it's totally okay to be an emotionally abusive and insulting asshat who thinks rape jokes are peak humor".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 09:30 PM
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This post needs to get saved and linked every time some idiot redpiller goes "but muh divorce rape".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 09:21 PM
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This is in the same vein as men going HAHA WOMEN DRIVERS while women get lower car insurance rates because we're statistically a safer bet.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 09:18 PM
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Your conclusions are nonsensical and don't take into account the fact that men usually bring more financial assets to the table before and after mairrage. Says who? Your gut? Anecdotally, I brought zero debt and six times the liquid assets into my marriage that my husband did. Other women my age were more on parity. This comment basically tries to negate OPs stats with feels and baseless assertions lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 09:17 PM
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Not even a little. The average man reacts to being given instructions during sex like a toddler being told to put on a coat. Pouty tantrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 06:31 PM
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It's not "difficult to understand", I'm underscoring the fundamental reason it's such a shit take.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:30 AM
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Yammering about the free market is nonsensical because women. are. not. objects.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:29 AM
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including your father, brothers, friends) What a weird fucking leap. I don't think any of the men I know that fit any of those three categories are even 1% as shitty as the men here. I don't "choose to believe", I see evidence of those beliefs and if you refuse to see it, that's a you problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:28 AM
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I'm not going to be grateful for men not raping me because some emaciated, starving people somewhere are stealing food.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:25 AM
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Wow does that comment miss my point. By like, a mile.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 05:26 AM
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To the shitty men participating, perhaps. Not to anyone with a brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 05:24 AM
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If it was going to upset you, you probably should have thought more about your original comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 05:23 AM
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Think about that in terms of pre-societal primates or other non-humanoid mammals. Except we ARE human so, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 05:22 AM
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Men frequently have a very nasty habit of imagining two different types of power when they assign the label of 'powerful' to either men or women. A man is powerful when he gets what he wants by forcing other people to bend to his will. That's also framed as admirable power. In their framework, a woman is 'powerful' if she is young and skinny and beautiful enough to "trick" a man into sleeping with her and buying her a diamond necklace. They hate that power, never mind that in most cases the man …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 11:02 PM
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A couple threads up from this one is a thread where most of the men are complaining that if they had a truly free dating market, they'd be able to use their physical strength to overpower women. They're mad that exactly what you're describing is not legal and thus their only reasoning for not doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 10:57 PM
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Nina is just a tool to get at Logan. Except she's not, she's a person. And op's post makes it pretty clear that this distinction of person versus object is a key component of the discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 10:51 PM
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You can't take another guy's woman just because you're physically stronger. Hm yes, the free market wherein women suddenly become objects instead of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 10:41 PM
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Women ASKED for power and reciprocated nothing. Here's this shit take reframed: Women - stop raping us Men - hmmm, maybe. But have you thought about what you'll give us in return?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 10:40 PM
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It does and multiple women have said so.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 06:43 PM
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Except the responses to this post prove they're not as many women are saying they're just dandy with inexperienced men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 09:45 AM
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There's no distinction in the way you wrote your OP so that's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:05 AM
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This feels like a mildly disguised N count thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:02 AM
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I love how high N count men are characterized here as 'hot and kind' but similar women are always denigrated as ran through/disgusting/unable to pair bond. It's the "kind" part that really makes me laugh, as though fuckboys are out here saving cats from trees and feeding the homeless LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:45 AM
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I'm repulsed by arrogant men who've fucked everyone in a fifty mile radius. So, no. In a battle over the two, I'd take the inexperienced one each time (all other things equal).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:21 AM
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Im going to make an assumption You know what they say about assumptions, yes? First of all, I don't date women so this "whataboutism" just comes off as whiney. Second of all, while I understand why they do it, I don't appreciate the way those women participate in reinforcing the narrative that the most valuable thing a woman can be is young, attractive, and sexualized as I find it unhelpful from a women's rights standpoint. So, your ASSumption would be incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:52 PM
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Sad faces lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 08:32 PM
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If I had to date again, anyone in hospital healthcare or emergency medicine would be a hard, HARD no. Firefighters, probably no as well. The cop thing, I've heard of women who dated cops and then, upon breaking up, the whole department was sent to harass them so badly they had to move. I consider dating a cop with jurisdiction over your living/working area to be the equivalent of shitting where you eat. Plus I just don't want to get punched in the face every time he gets mad. I might be willing …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 08:27 PM
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And that's why you misunderstand men. Your entire comment just indicated that I don't misunderstand men at all lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 09:16 PM
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I just described women in most mainstream porn. Or did you think women's breasts naturally defy gravity while being giant? Or that the vast majority of women have no labia? It's plastic surgery bud. Major plastic surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 09:15 PM
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I wouldn't even attempt to get into a relationship. Neither would I, that was my original point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 09:12 PM
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If you were a woman, the redpill crowd would be on here absolutely screaming that you were useless as a potential partner because you've been "alpha widowed".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:47 AM
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"women need to be consigned to misery and strife so men can get their dicks wet" is a more common take around here than one would hope in a developed society.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:42 AM
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Male fantasy is much more possible for average women to step into that role. If we're using porn as the guidelines, then you're saying the average woman should be okay with getting silicone pumped into her boobs and her labia chopped off.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:31 AM
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How many words should one use to tell you you're wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 12:45 AM
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Men are going to continue being horrible and there's nothing anyone can do to stop us so HA Thanks for that super insightful contribution.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 12:43 AM
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They are. For instance, if I were dating, I personally would prefer to not date a single father or a man whore. But redpill likes to sit on its dias and scream that men are allowed to be those things and desirable, meanwhile women in the exact same circumstances are "dangerous" and "bad" for men. It's just - "I don't want to take responsibility for the basis behind my preferences so I'm going to pretend they're scientific".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 12:42 AM
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You're confusing my brevity with a lack of substance..... probably because you don't like what I said. Eh, typical PPD male.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:42 PM
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female missionary.....Her lack of money didn't disqualify her to me. Not shocking since the church hammers female submission pretty heavily. Ooo a house slave for room and board Money doesn't equate to having substance in your character or even work ethic. No, but it does equate to being able to eat and put a roof over your head and people get pretty mentally messed up when they can't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:41 PM
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single mom dating a childless man is not fine According to redpill. Not according to real life. This is the classic mistake of redpill. Men take "things I want to be true" and wedge them in as "things that are universally true". since the dawn of time Yeah and sexism has existed since the dawn of time as well. Not a great look.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:36 PM
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Aw, couldn't even frame a rebuttal. It's alright, feel the butthurt flow, it's good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:23 PM
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I require someone of substance And, if that were actually true, you'd find that most of those people are working.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:21 PM
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Because redpill says so. Dating a single mom is no different than dating a single father and every single mom has a single dad match out there somewhere. RP men just want to make hand waving excuses for continuing to value young, inexperienced, and more vulnerable women. Not a mystery.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:20 PM
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scratch the surface Emphasis on the scratch. Simply clicking on basically any one of their "sidebar" links will reveal horrific amounts of sexism. The "reformed incel" post talks about wanting to take a scalpel to a woman's face.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:12 PM
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What boys are being taught right now are "respect women", Oh no. The horror. what if I told you that in respecting yourself, sometimes this necessarily means the woman will feel disrespected? Then you're doing it wrong. what if I told you that holding your boundaries as a man sometimes requires masculinity that a woman would consider toxic Again, doing it wrong. It's not that hard to not be a disrespectful asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:09 PM
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they date single moms, accept dead bedrooms, high notch counts or bad attitudes and condemn men who chose younger women with less baggage. None of those things (except the db) are unilaterally bad, that's just the entitled tradcon side of rp talking. A blue pill dude wouldn't have those hangups and takes a more "women are just people, like me" approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:07 PM
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don't know anything about those men. Your original comment indicates you are "those men".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 11:39 AM
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I really like Atomic Habits by James Clear. And for fucks sake, don't read the redpill sidebar. It's full of bullshit like "women never mentally mature beyond age 18 because this guy from the 1800s said so" and "here's the sad story of a man that went after attractive college women and they didn't give him their virginity and that's why women are the worst". It's useless rage bait written by bitter divorced dudes and sexist tradcons.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:43 AM
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"Groom yourself better and go to the gym" works because.....duh. "Be a sexist asshole who sees and treats woman as inferior for reasons x y and z" doesn't. Dudes see part A working and think part B is the real part of the equation bringing success.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:37 AM
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I'm in this camp. Being the higher earner or on par with my male partner makes me more comfortable asserting "no, I'm not your mommy maid". I feel deserving of equal respect and able to genuinely push back on any narrative that positions me as the weaker half of the relationship. Which is probably why it makes the redpill dudes here so mad when women make good money.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:31 AM
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If I went on a date and told the man that I was a bum still living with my parents and no income, I'd fully expect to be laughed out of the room by any decent man looking for an actual partner. Men who can afford to have a non working spouse seem to typically just want the most beautiful personal assistant/prostitute they can afford. ....then they turn around and shame the woman as a gold digger.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:26 AM
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Men !! It's not your fault!! This is basically the tagline of this entire group. Men display plenty of emotions, it's just that most of them are some form of anger because they've learned that anger gets them what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:20 AM
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You've literally just described a trauma response and then blamed the traumatized person for exhibiting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:17 AM
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K bub
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:36 PM
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Someone should probably tell the men here that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 09:55 AM
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Source - your gut.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 09:54 AM
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And yet she will since the entire redpill ideology is birthed in bitterness and disatisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 09:54 AM
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Sounds like someone hasn't heard of a prenup.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 09:53 AM
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Mkay, then may you too enjoy a relationship that lasts forty five years and is capped off by your wife acknowledging that the best thing about you is a service you provide to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:15 AM
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Why should she have to deal with yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:13 AM
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They don’t prove anything on their own. They don't. Yet men here seem convinced that they're useful for proving women are more likely to abandon their marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:13 AM
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Good gosh that's terrible. Forty five years in and she emotionally replies that she loves everything about him while all he's got is one example of her doing something for him. Fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:12 AM
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God as my witness, I'll never go hungry again
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:03 AM
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As opposed to your 'feeling' that because women are the primary filers women bear the primary responsibility? Oh yeah, lol, no feels there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:54 PM
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they aren't very relevant to these discussions anyway How convenient. Particularly when the op is literally about men leaving when they get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:52 PM
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half of your shit. I know this may come as a shock to men, but it isn't your shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:52 PM
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How are men trying to scare women? The wall is real Congrats, you answered your own question.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:51 PM
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I’d rather be the source of my girls trauma Average red pill man
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:50 PM
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A YouTube link, lol. The most credible of sources. I think that caps that ramble rant off perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:33 PM
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The person who files for divorce doesn't have to be the same person who caused the divorce, but the men here aren't ready for that conversation. Oh and - they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:31 PM
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Because, in general, they don't. https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-cheats-more-the-demographics-of-cheating-in-america
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:31 PM
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"everything is women's fault and men bear no accountability ever" The PPD male anthem
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:28 PM
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That and they want to scare women into settling down when they're younger and, consequently, more naive. Makes it way easier for men to manipulate us and foster deliberate codependency.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:24 PM
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the Simpson's pill Why are the men here so motherfucking dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:17 PM
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Men when they cheat on a woman and she files for divorce - it's her fault, waaa, wahmens divorce men so often 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:16 PM
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And they'll studiously ignore the phenomenon of older men shoving their housewives out the door after the kids are grown so he can date the cute new secretary. We have alimony for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:15 PM
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men are often seen as only caring about one thing, which is apparently not their partner's personalities. Gee idk, probably because that's almost exclusively how men talk about sex online.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 05:56 PM
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The men here are going to tell you that, essentially, you can purchase a man's loyalty by handing him your youth in giftwrapping. That he'll "always remember her as young" and other such bullshit. And they'll studiously ignore the phenomenon of older men shoving their housewives out the door after the kids are grown so he can date the cute new secretary. We have alimony for a reason. Women can give men everything, youth, fidelity, etc. and men will still leave her stranded.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 05:50 PM
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I don't think there's going to be an answer to that question that doesn't involve "make women go back to being miserable again by dictating their choices to them".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:44 PM
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Maybe we should bombard men with the same kind of sexually servile messaging women start receiving as soon as they're teenagers reading their first Cosmo - top ten ways to blow her mind in bed - and make sure every issue of every men's magazine in existence talks incessantly about oral.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:34 PM
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I never really crave water that badly, but if I do, I can just turn on any faucet Sure would be nice to know the faucet wasn't going to murder or rape you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 05:53 PM
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It means I find anti feminists generally useless and think they can go gargle ballsacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 05:34 PM
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This is really the correct answer. All too frequently, what men think/want is absolutely not in a woman's best interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 02:59 AM
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Second BVE
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:00 PM
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If one does not shit post, does one truly live?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:55 PM
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And they're miserable And the men aren't?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:48 PM
2

Yeah.....no
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:47 PM
0

Point on the doll where the pink movie hurt male feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:46 PM
3

Nah, just no patience for male bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:45 PM
3

Aw I'm flattered I bother you so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:14 PM
8

This entire question is built on false premises.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 07:55 AM
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I would never endeavor to make men less afraid of me as that's not in my best interest when it comes to my physical safety. I wish they were fucking terrified of me (for actual real things, not made up shit like 'divorce rape').
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 07:53 AM
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Leaning on old patriarchal norms to soothe his ego about what his "rightful" place is in the world. If you have to pretend that 'muh biology' says your dick makes you more suitable for leadership, I just assume you suck at life and needed a crutch.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 07:50 AM
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The redpill brain - comparing a sarcastic Twitter hashtag few women use with an actual real world body count. Let me just play you the world's smallest violin for men's feels about women's rage on a fucking social media site.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 07:45 AM
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You know, instead of being grossly misinformed, you could take more than a five second look at the dead bedroom community and see that approximately fifty percent of the community is women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 07:36 AM
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Me. This place could use a hardcore feminist with a dash of red pill hatred. 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 07:34 AM
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I've noticed that the men who are on this forum who say they're in their forties and fifties have a real tendency to display some sort of regressed maturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 08:59 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:15 PM
1

And?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:15 PM
1

You sound like you belong in the seven brides for seven brothers movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:14 PM
1

LOL Yes, domestic violence is indeed hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:12 PM
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It shouldn't be unpopular because it's true. The top comment right now is a dude complaining that a woman who approached him was ugly and it repulsed him so much he didn't even want to be her friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 04:21 AM
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I don't think the bdsm community is wild about the idea of adding explicit anti-feminists to its ranks tho so probably not the best mention for most dudes here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 04:16 AM
7

Angry male strippers who come out dancing with machetes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 04:06 AM
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Go to Church Disclaimer: I don't go to church. For the love of everything, stop telling horrible dudes who aren't having success dating (and clearly aren't Christian or they'd already be going) to use churches as a honey pot of young trad ladies. I grew up in the church and trust me, we don't want you if poaching women and scurrying away with them is your goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 04:03 AM
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My sexuality doesn't take and diminish. Women's sexuality requires vulnerability and giving. Men just take and crow about it and then have the audacity to tell me I'm ruining myself by letting their dicks drive up my N count. That tells me even men acknowledge their sexual attention is a net negative for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:29 AM
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Lol. Mkay bub. I'll acknowledge that you're trying and we can both move on because......yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:27 PM
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Someone liking you as a whole that much that they wanna be with you isn't valuing you? Because I'm the same person whether you get to stick your dick in me or not. If I have to take your dick for you to want to be around you, then you clearly don't like ME as a person that much, you like the "me" you saw as a potential sex aid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:19 PM
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Yeah mate, it's not entitlement. It's "well shit, I had hoped that one saw me as more than a potential hole to fuck".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:11 PM
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Life expectancy has fuck all to do with this topic
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:10 PM
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in fact women initiate violence in relationships more often Oh gol, this again. The world of the PPD male, where an open handed slap is the equivalent of strangling someone to death.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:38 AM
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You've made the classic mistake of characterizing all bad behaviors as "feminine". Ignoring household duties to play video games and abandoning your family to chase after the nineteen year old intern aren't feminine qualities, they're distinctly male ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:23 AM
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You're plainly ignoring that a) most men are some level of misogynist so if we ignored all of them, we'd have no partners and b) there's a difference between the violent/creepy/predatory sexism displayed by maladaptive incel types and the gregarious "make me a sandwich sweetie" sexism displayed by jock types. But, for obvious reasons, the dudes here don't want to examine either of those facts too closely.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:03 AM
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Your OP talked about the girlfriend role in general and now that you're getting genuine pushback, you seem to want to narrow it down to whether I (one woman) have a violent male as a partner. That's not the question. The "role" of girlfriend includes the capacity to be a recipient of violence, full stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:00 AM
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And in the half that "aren't equal", the husband may only outearn the wife by ten percent. This study was not well done.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:02 AM
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Ew, don't attempt to armchair therapist this. I'm talking statistically.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:45 AM
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I feel like most Lemme tell you, it doesn't have to be 'most' to be 'enough'
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:57 PM
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The girlfriend role looks good from the outside until boyfriend decides he's into choking or anal and you're supposed to be submissive to his sexual "needs" and let him captain the ship or whatever bullshit he sells to justify him running roughshod over your humanity. Girlfriend role looks good until you realize nearly any average male can kill you with their bare hands over any ole dumb shit. Girlfriend role sucks ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:37 PM
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Be a lot less rape......
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:34 PM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 09:46 PM
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defending TIL exasperation = defending
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 09:46 PM
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Bubbie if anyone sounds salty, it's you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 06:27 AM
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If women REALLY cared about this they would give NO one a pass lol. Gol dam the men here are stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:28 AM
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Caring about it and being able to do anything about it are two different things.....but I have zero expectations men will ever understand that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:27 AM
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We don't really have a lot of other options. When about 25% are entrenched misogynists and about half the remaining pool is vaguely sexist, meh, we do what we can.....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 11:46 PM
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🙄 look I have no idea why you're sold on the idea that incels aren't violent, but unfortunately the facts say they are and pontificating about it isn't going to change that fact
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:10 PM
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O....kay. Men are violent. In other news, water makes things wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:06 PM
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https://www.cbsnews.com/news/incel-threat-secret-service-report/ The Threat Landscape: Incel and Misogynist Violent Extremism | McCain Institute https://www.mccaininstitute.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/10/incel-and-misogynist-violent-extremism-read-ahead-materials-august-2.pdf https://www.splcenter.org/news/2023/05/23/after-incel-attack-male-supremacism-growing https://www.congress.gov/event/116th-congress/house-event/LC64275/text?s=1&r=14 https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2021/mar/03/ince…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:03 PM
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All for him just to use me to get to a friend of mine that he actually liked. Yeah the woman in the OP is just asking to be used. If the scenario was gender flopped, every dude in here would be laughing and calling her a simp. guys, no matter what, will always value a woman that’s desperate for their attention less than one that’s not giving as much of it to them. Hard truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:19 PM
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despite the fact that every single statistic shows that there's ZERO correlation between inceldom and femicide, domestic violence, rape, mass shootings, sexual assault, molestation, etc. The federal government had to put out a fucking report on incel violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:04 PM
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And the guys who don't get laid a lot view us as "femoids" or whatever the fuck incel language they roll with. So we may as well fuck the hot ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:01 PM
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It is just those in the middle, who have something to lose, but not enough they may wanna lose a bit... that are consistent liars. So men at the top are misogynistic, men at the bottom are misogynistic......and men in the middle are misogynistic but too much of a bitch boy to own it. Basically all men dislike women. Cool. I'm referring to this comment next time some PPD dude says misogyny is rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:58 PM
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Nah, I find them to be equally misogynistic just with a different way of expressing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:49 PM
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doing so will not only make her far more likely to fuck you again, it will make her far more open to casual sex in the future. So....... manipulation
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:36 AM
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So.....you were a fuckboy, but hate being called one? Do you ask women if they were "sluts" or do you keep some excuse handy as to why that's different?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:21 AM
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Fuck boy is synonymous with douchebag so....no. You might be able to use it as a status boost with other men, but from a woman it's definitely meant as an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:19 AM
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Lemme know when it becomes possible for women to perpetually stay in the 18 to 21 yro range that men surveyed say is most attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 11:24 PM
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This post is exactly why I laugh when the men here say that women are entitled 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 11:19 PM
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The single biggest mistake men make in online dating is filtering by women's age. But bring that up and the men here start howling......
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 11:15 PM
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I don't click links that come from PPD dudes. Y'all creepy and violent AF
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 10:56 PM
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I read that and just pictured him going feeeeeeeemale.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:17 PM
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You've projected malice onto a completely innocuous statement. Given the context of your statement, I absolutely have not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:14 PM
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Aw look, it can quote redpillisms and think it's got an argument. Adorable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:13 PM
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If you feel your money entitles you to buy a servant, then pay for staff to do your housework. That isn't what your partner is there for. This could probably be repeated somewhere around 1000 times (with the modification that money ALSO doesn't entitle one to sex) and PPD men still wouldn't get it. It's an attitude that's consistently displayed here. They don't want a woman with a good career cuz that's "boss babe feminism", but they also don't want to pay for anything because that's being taken…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 11:52 AM
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I did as well. Reddit just replied to my comment and told me it "didn't violate any rules". 😑
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 11:44 AM
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Lexapro doesn't usually solve misogyny, but I'm sure you can ask your doctor for some if you want. Good luck 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 08:45 AM
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Boohoo, I can't tell women they're worthless after 25 without pushback. Woe is me, women are such misandrists.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:05 AM
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Lol, you can keep making excuses about why men should be allowed to get old and flabby with non-working dicks while women have to stay young forever to be desirable. It's not like it's going to change my opinion about the 50-year-old dudes who prey on young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:02 AM
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I really only want a wife to take care of Ew. Why do men think it's attractive or desirable to treat women like helpless children. Of course women don't want to date a man who still holds these kinds of sexist, outdated opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:58 AM
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Related, are you ok with a 500 lb. partner? Missing four limbs? TIL asking men to date women their own age is like asking women to date limbless 500 lb men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:36 AM
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surejan.gif
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:34 AM
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Perfect!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:31 AM
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you are being unfair to that dude Boohoo, elderly men should be able to seek out their fertile young brides in peace with no judgement 😭. And he was being openly sexist in that comment, seeking out a very junior bride was not the worst of his offenses. Being unfair to him would require him to be a good person and his own commentary shows that he is not so I'm pretty comfortable making that judgment call. They could be very happy Could being the operative word. I'm sure the dude is, and isn't tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:27 AM
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Because 50-year-old Uncle Dave bringing an 18 year old to the Christmas party is the same as being gay 🤣. These men here, y'all tell on yourselves the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:14 AM
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Yay sex tourism. Yay modern age human trafficking.....
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:13 AM
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Muh biology!!!!1!!! Chill bro, we've already got a dude in the comments defending dudes who find 14 year old girls attractive. One's enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:12 AM
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I'm (55/M) rarely attracted to women over the age of 45. Why do the men here feel the need to explain to me in detail why they're not good human beings? Like, you're a man and you're here. I already know that you're not a good human lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:11 AM
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Yeah mate, there is 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:10 AM
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Yeah and most people here are talking about an average woman who's had three or four partners in long-term relationships plus a few during college and they feel entitled to act like she's made herself permanently untouchable. Men get options and endless opportunity, while women get told their entire lives are defined by what they do from age 18 to 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:10 AM
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Am I supposed to clap for the dude who married the person who's going to change his diapers for free when he's in his 70s and that she's not going to get to enjoy her retirement because she's saddled with an old man? Nah. Men are so entitled it makes them delusional and I am under no obligation to indulge that delusion. Women make the decisions they need to make, it doesn't mean that they're the most beneficial decisions that they could be making if we lived in an equal society.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:08 AM
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Oh no.... a woman over the age of ripe old 25. AND SHE HISSES TOO.....RUUUUUUUN. Lol, men are such entitled fucking cowards
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:05 AM
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Oh no, you've explained to me yet another way in which our society experiences and allows for entrenched sexism. The horror..... definitely haven't seen that before.....
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:04 AM
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And why aren't women allowed the opportunity to put the work in and improve once they get past the age of 25 and hit tHe wAlL? Oh right. Sexism, duh. My whole point was that men are seen as having endless opportunity and women are seeing as having incredibly short time windows of value before they turn into irredeemable unfertile cat ladies. Red pill says that men get the opportunity to fix themselves at any age while women have to make the "right" choices between the ages of 18 and 25 or else P…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:03 AM
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Nope. Do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:00 AM
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That's still so disappointing, for 24-year-old women to be expected to care for elderly retired men. I'm not saying that you're applauding it, but speaking about it does make it sound like you're trying to normalize it and it absolutely should not be normalized.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:59 AM
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And maybe women don't get all of their likes and dislikes in a partner figured out until they're in their thirties. But unfortunately men are trying to rig the game such that a woman who tries to figure herself out in her twenties is characterized as "riding the cock carousel", but a guy who spends his 20s playing video games, smoking weed, dressing like a total schlub, and showering once a week is suddenly an upstanding potential partner when he hits his stride at 33. Fucking ridiculous 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:14 AM
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I like when men out and out admit that older guys who date younger are explicitly looking for an inexperienced and naive woman. It just makes the bold-faced predatory nature of it so much more obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:11 AM
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Are you seriously suggesting that we're supposed to applaud older retired dudes for dating 24-year-olds instead of 18-year-olds? Blech. I'm a good guy, I'm only stealing MOST of her youth instead of ALL of her youth
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:09 AM
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Ew
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:07 AM
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Yeah this sounds like the fantasy ravings of a man who thinks it's acceptable for men to get everything they want while women make do with a few crumbs on their plate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:07 AM
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Who needs the perverted uncle at the family Christmas party?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:04 AM
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It's literally just men repeating something over and over because it's advantageous for them. It's good for them to gas themselves up as people who get better and more desirable with age so that they have time to mess around and live their lives. It also works to their benefit to gaslight women and threaten them with poor marriages and perpetual loneliness if they don't pick some dude and settle down by the time they're 23.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:02 AM
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The powerless simp of a woman no woman with a brain actually wants to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 03:53 PM
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No they don't, that's literally just anecdotal manosphere whining. "I couldn't possibly improve myself because this one time I read about this one guy who went to therapy for three months and he STILL didn't get any sex!!!".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 07:22 PM
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a beautiful, kind, loyal, divorced Filipino woman. He is 5’4” and looks like a literal troll but he is a kind person & a solid provider. He ordered her up online sight unseen & left the borders of our native county - just once in his lifetime - to go get her. Before he met her his body count in Thailand was in quadruple digits. He’s 5’2” btw. One is married to a Thai wife who is 35 years his junior. She’s a dutiful wife, Hork. Why is this the future so many men want for women. For women to be dr…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 07:05 PM
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I don't think passport bros care a whole heck of a lot about trafficking or women's well-being in general. Many of them are specifically traveling to countries where women are treated as "usable bodies" simply because of their gender. For them it's a feature, not a bug.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 06:21 PM
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All single American men who are having any difficulty whatsoever with dating must focus on establishing remote work and relocating If they put even 50% of that effort into making themselves more emotionally stable and attractive, they could just date in their own country. Apparently asking men to go to therapy and see women as their equals is so hard they'd rather fly halfway around the world to avoid it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 06:15 PM
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Men already boohoo about being asked to date women their own age past about 35. The only direction they'll expand their ranges is downward. They would be happier if they first saw women as people instead of status symbols and providers of sex/fertility and increasing their flexibility about age would follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 04:06 AM
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"as a female" X for doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 04:03 AM
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I’m sure a guy will date a girl planning and paying for dates and sleeping with him right away because why the hell not, doesn’t mean he truly values her in the long term. I bet this dude values her exactly as much as yesterday's sandwich. She fell in his lap and made everything go his way and all he had to do was shrug and say "sure, you can suck my dick". He's invested absolutely nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 03:57 AM
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just someone who isn’t a piece of shit The real 80/20 rule out right there lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 03:50 AM
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I'm not about to act over-the-top positively towards a dude that might be love bombing me. You take the time to show me you're a decent human being, I'll show you my squishy romantic underbelly little by little.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 06:09 PM
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I feel pretty comfy judging a man who thinks women owe him sex on his timeline but you do you boo
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:19 AM
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I'm struggling to remember the visit in the Colin Firth version, but in the most recent version it's definitely played as Elizabeth being quietly horrified at the changes she sees in her friend and how she must now act/behave.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 02:16 AM
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Meh, if he found one easy to get sex toy, he can find another. He probably wanted variety anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 02:01 AM
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And I'd be willing to bet she lost interest in you when, instead of acknowledging her own attempts to believe she had control over her safety, you shit all over her and made sure she understood men can murder and rape her and there's nothing she can do about it. Spoiler alert, we all already know and it's rude as hell for men to force the issue down our throats.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 01:31 AM
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If the average man was approached by a woman, would he always take her up on that offer if there were no repercussions? If so, would he take her up on that offer even if he was in a relationship? Hell yes. That's the central tension of most of the men here, they aren't "Chad" with enough options to fuck a new pussy every weekend and it makes them sadbois. Listen to the way they talk about men they view as "top tier", they think it's completely reasonable that if such a man deigns to settle down …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 01:20 AM
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I don't think men like the ones who hang out here are capable of seeing the quiet desperation Charlotte's character is meant to portray. They see a woman with a roof and food and think "what's her problem, she should be GRATEFUL". When, in reality, Charlotte probably would have had a much more fulfilling life sans the odious Collins.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 01:06 AM
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I thought I agreed with this based on the title, but the text was an entirely different story. You've made "the standards that were always there" entirely about physical attraction while completely ignoring that women used to be compelled to stay with men who raped them, harmed them, cheated on them, or otherwise behaved in some heinous/undesirable fashion. Women didn't want to be married off to ethically gross dudes who would harm them, but there wasn't much of a choice for many pre-feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 12:55 AM
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I doubt it matters that much to him. He's getting sucked, fucked, and doesn't have to pay for most of it. He's winning.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:00 PM
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I was still shocked at how well pick-me strategy worked Why? If you throw away all your self respect and give sexist men exactly what they want, you'll immediately find one. Every woman knows if she advertises herself as a sex addict submissive waifu who puts out, cooks, cleans, and doesn't ask for anything in return, she can have a guy tomorrow. I'm honestly shocked it took a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 06:57 PM
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I've heard it referred to as "just wanting kids for the Kodak moments"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 06:52 PM
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Men are incredibly entitled and take women's labor for granted.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 06:48 PM
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Not at all
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 04:57 PM
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No. Power is being able to take what you want or already having it. Not simpering and fluttering your eyelids and hoping you can seduce someone into giving it to you. Men wanting sex from me doesn't give me power, it just means they might decide to take it from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 06:35 AM
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He's not Mr Perfect if he's running around sticking his dick in everything that moves.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 11:32 PM
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Your title specifically mentions femininity so....yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 11:30 PM
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What are you even saying. That you're calling an undesirable behavior feminine when it's exhibited almost entirely by males.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 07:15 PM
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School shooters are weak and feminine. Lol. PPD logic in action. Nearly zero school shooters are female but, simultaneously, shooting up a school is FeMiNinE because I acknowledge that behavior is bad and I can only ascribe bad behaviors to the feminine
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:57 PM
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Almost every ick a woman has is a visceral response to a man displaying behaviour and habits that indicate foundational lack of masculinity and strength. There's nothing more "foundationally masculine", in a patriarchal sense, than being recklessly violent and I definitely think incels with mass shooter vibes give women the "ick". So....no. Pretty much everything you've written here is incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:45 PM
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As opposed to your comment, which is clearly not whiny or emotional at all lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:07 PM
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I don't think they just want sex, they want the entire bangmaid sex fantasy to go along with it. They want things to go back to the way they were when women had absolutely no power, when we were expected to be submissive and silent and men held all the important/influential societal positions. Sex is just step one in asserting themselves and "putting women in their rightful place".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:46 AM
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Any man here is automatically going to fail at your capped items because they see those as traits only owed to them by women, not something they need to be. That's why they're in a misogynistic hellhole like this in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:36 AM
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There is zero connection between posting pictures online in a capacity that relates to your job and fucking randos until you find one you want to keep. Yet here's PPD dudes, screaming about women's social media accounts again, as though a puppy gets murdered every time a girl posts a bikini photo.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 03:18 AM
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No well-adjusted, functional woman would ever want to spend the rest of their lives with one of these men. Omg, you don't want to waste your entire potential and throw away everything you could accomplish and experience in life to be some average dickheads "first mate" on his ship of two that sails wherever he points? Shocking. I am SHOCKED. Harrumph, modern women, wanting to experience fulfillment and joy and shit. The worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:11 AM
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That whole sub is literally proving the previous person's point. Men there talk about their wives like servants who aren't meeting their quarterly metrics. Edit - AHAHAHAHA case in point, one of the "best of" posts is a man who openly admits his wife has told him that sex is painful for her post childbirth and not only does his complete lack of self awareness allow him to just breeze past that glaring issue to continue complaining about her starfishing, the useless males who are supposedly "expe…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:08 AM
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Based on the way PPD men use the term, when they say a "boundary has been crossed", what they actually mean is "I gave a woman an order and she didn't do it"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:59 AM
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He wasn't "sadboi insecure", he was verbally abusive and controlling and that behavior absolutely does need to be condemned. He specifically pursued a woman who lived her life in a bright, vivid way that she valued and enjoyed and he expected her to just drop that and become a nun to nurse his bullshit. It was as though he thought her whole life leading up to him was just one big dating audition and once she'd "won" him oBvIoUsLy she had no need to have those things anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:48 AM
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Because there are terrible men here who want to make my life politically impossible and I feel it's my patriotic duty to shit all over their misconceptions about women. E - I like how men always come flying in with the "wahmens not submitting and making muh sandwiches is Marxist" line. It's predicable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:18 PM
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The women who aren't doing sex work voluntarily would have a higher cost of entry to make an exception, not lower. Idk what you're not getting about this. If you want a hooker that costs $75, you're gonna need to aim for a meth addict missing half her teeth.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:15 PM
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Welcome to the world. Prostitution exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 03:22 PM
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If I'm getting paid, that means I don't actually want to fuck you and there's no reason to expect you'd get any sort of discount off a normal sex worker since that's essentially what would be happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 03:22 PM
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Idk, based on a recent ask thread I think escorts run in the 500-1000 an hour range.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:47 AM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:00 AM
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Your question is easily answered if you look at what other women refer to as a "pick me". Women can more easily get commitment if they throw their own dignity and self respect under the bus and become a stepford wife character that submits, sucks, and stays. When a man wants to choose a woman to commit to, he asks himself "how much is she willing to give me" and then chooses the one with the lowest boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:47 AM
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I wouldn't plan on it for my whole marriage, but I'd be super happy to switch back and forth with a house husband so we both have a three to five year period to recharge every once in awhile. The catch being that he needs to work his ass off in the home the way housewives are expected to. I better not have to cook or clean a dish or fold laundry. Men see house husband and think that means "I vacuum the house for five minutes a day and then spend nine hours playing video games". I also wouldn't a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:25 AM
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Women think if a guy pays its because he's a gentleman who is willing to spend money on them because they are so great to be around Yeah no. We've mostly all figured out that you all think you can buy pussy for the cost of an Applebee's entree. In fact, if I ever dated again, I'd be paying for my own meals until I trusted the guy enough to establish he wasn't a douchy asswagon who thought he could get me to prostitute myself for dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:11 AM
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You want me to give personal responses to your specific Twitter issue and I'm not gonna do that because a) the title of your question asked about the topic in the abstract and b) I don't want to bump up against "making things personal".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 04:45 AM
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That's contrary to your previous statement but mkay
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 04:40 AM
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See? In your example, the guy telling me he thinks horrifying shit should happen to me is making a "dumb" statement while you're characterizing me telling him he's full of shit as "hateful/racist".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 08:26 PM
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The gendered language you're using implies you think there isn't an amount of money someone could successfully offer to fuck my husband lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 08:24 PM
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That's your best pick for something that is actually satire but "women are too stupid to tell"? Yikes. K.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 08:17 AM
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Is it cheating if the partner agrees to it? I posed the hypothetical "what if someone offered me a million dollars" to my husband and he said he'd be mad if I didn't take it. You could probably say most men have a price tag on their wives/partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 05:37 AM
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It's satirical in the way a guy who's talking shit about his boss exclaims I was just making a joke when he turns around and realizes boss is standing right behind him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 05:35 AM
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People clowning on dumb statements is less a problem than the people making the dumb statements. I will say tho, you're echoing the sentiments of the mod team here - it's apparently a non issue to say (for example) that women should be disenfranchised breeding slaves and a v big issue to say "wow that's a shit take and you're an idiot". Instead, you have to a) face the reality that some nitwit thinks that about your gender and b) address it like it's a valuable opinion that has its merits. IMHO,…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 01:56 AM
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There's plenty of content there that is in no way satirical. I've posted screenshots up directly from earnest/angry idiots who frequent places like WAATGM or any of the various redpill ecosystems. Married red pill is a favorite because the dedication even purportedly married dudes have for misunderstanding women is borderline impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 12:14 AM
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Statistically the Amish are the happiest people in the country, Oh my fucking gosh, snort. Tell me you've never interacted directly with Amish without telling me you've never directly interacted with Amish.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 03:41 PM
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I feel like the OP doesn't realize what he's saying here is "we better preemptively avoid having a fascist takeover later by just accepting fascism now".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 09:39 AM
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Your whole argument is predicated on women a) not being a part of society and b) not contributing to society in any way unless pregnant. Which is..... laughably wrong. You men here are a trip.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 09:23 AM
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Or by holding opinions like the one expressed in the OP. Good luck finding a girlfriend to stick your dick in when all you've got to offer is endless ranting about how women should go back to being slaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 02:04 AM
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Yeah let's just take half the intellectual potential of our society and chain it to a stove until it dies giving birth to it's 11th child MKAYYYYY .....sounds like a good plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 02:03 AM
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Hand a woman an academic degree and she'll want a ....more interesting life than changing diapers and washing skidmarks out of her drunk husband's underware. Men didn't do a very good job of allowing women to pursue interesting and meaningful lives so us taking over our own destinies and you making sad faces about it sounds like a you problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:57 AM
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Right. Lemme just turn my brain off and ignore millions of threats to my rights and existence as a free woman. Hurdur, done.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:20 AM
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Modern women have not nearly enough children and they're pretty useless for the economy with their HR jobs and art degrees, they're mostly dead weight and even a negative influence. Cool. Island of men. Off you go now, wouldn't want to be a dead weight. We'll let you know when mars is ready for colonization.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:18 AM
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Yum. Providing a man a "well watered garden" of convenience. Every woman's dream relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:16 AM
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So is this the point where I flag down OP and point out that men are doing 'the thing they definitely aren't doing' on his actual post?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:28 AM
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Man, you're really glazing over how dedicated and devoted millions of young men are to that dude and others like him. They may have wanted help at one point, but they found it most palatably to be coming from men who focus on putting down women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:26 AM
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government institutions need to want boys and men to succeed in life even if it may cannibalize on the sucesses of women No thanks. I'd rather have a society of lonely men ranting on the internet then have my rights and opportunities stripped away by a 'cannibalizing' government.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:09 AM
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I have found that the men here just trot out that tired line about not listening to fish if you want to catch them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:05 AM
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It's not really out of topic. If men were as lonely and willing to change as you intimate, Andrew Tate wouldn't be so popular. Women have been pretty clear that he's a singularly awful human being, and yet young, presumably lonely, men keep falling all over him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:03 AM
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For women, it creates fear that there’s a community of people that legitimately wants this. Except, there literally is a community of people that legitimately wants this. Incels. There's all sorts of incel writing, from a variety of numerous sources, expounding on the idea of socializing access to women/sex. It was actually popular enough that a university professor wrote a paper on it at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 03:46 AM
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Did you not see the "young/naive" portion of the comment? The ability of man to cultivate all of those undesirable characteristics in a woman increases when she's younger and more naive and more "moldable".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 03:44 AM
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It'd also be nice to completely eliminate the possibility the dude is keeping her around because she's an easy lay. Maybe the dude should learn to see her as more than a replacement for a sock.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 03:42 AM
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withholding sex doesn’t alleviate lust and just incentivizes the guy to rush into a relationship to get it. That sounds like a problem for the dude to address himself, rather than trying to convince women to have sex before they're ready.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 03:09 AM
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a lot of times, especially here, women tell guys to just lower their standards I don't see women telling men to lower their standards, so much as I see them saying that they should make them more realistic and less dehumanizing. Think about the arch typical Chad, he's cool, tall, wealthy, extroverted, well built, and probably has a big dick. Do you, random man, want to be chad? Probably. Now think about the ideal woman that gets described here frequently: submissive, with no career ideals or asp…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 02:49 AM
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This war in Ukraine is going to be God's gift to MRAs for the next decade of whining. Wah, I was never forced to fight but I feel entitled to draw on other men's experiences. Also you feeeeemales can't bring up the treatment of women in Afghanistan/Iraq/Iran/Pakistan/India/etc, because you're not them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 02:42 AM
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Fun fact, in the United States a female congresswoman was one of the main proponents for getting women added to the draft in a recent bill. It was voted down by conservative men. They don't want us to join the draft and they also don't want us to vote because we don't join the draft. She's a witch if she swims and if she drowns, she's innocent LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:03 AM
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Are you Ukrainian? Or Russian? Or are you laying claim to things that have no impact on you whatsoever? Because if that's the case, we can go ahead and discuss honor killing which seems like a fun idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:02 AM
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Much troll very edge
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:01 AM
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Tell me you don't know what the word 'sensationalized' means without telling me you don't know what the word 'sensationalized' means.....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:00 AM
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The men are often specifically complaining about their lack of success, while the women are often not. Yup, lots of the women here (myself included) are partnered. Speaking for myself, I'm not here because of any lack of dating success on my part. I'm here because this is where the shitty sexist men are and I like yelling at them LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 05:51 AM
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Take a drink when the local reddit expert chimes in with the "akshually" hot take
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 10:47 PM
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if they don't register for the draft. Which is, say it with me now, writing your name on a card. Oh boohoo the humanity. Da wahmens did this to me 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 10:42 PM
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Homeslice this is Purge Week, I'm finally allowed to treat sexist ass men like the enemy they are. Begone
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:15 PM
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but it is historically accurate. Says the remaining living WW1 vets that reviewed the footage? LOL whether or not a man started a war should be irrelevant Nah, not when it's specifically juxtaposed against women being unable to vote because men wouldn't allow them to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:09 PM
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And not a single male born after 1960 in the United States has been drafted. Doesn't mean y'all won't shut up about it. Waaaah, I had to write my name on a card, respect mah authority
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:07 PM
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They're never going to admit it. Women couldn't vote because of discrimination from men and the choices made by men. Men went to war in world war I because of the choices and actions of other men. In one instance you have men deciding the fate of men, and in another instance you have men deciding the fate of women. They refuse to see the difference because that would place them at an ethical disadvantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:01 PM
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Wow, such stunning and completely real historical footage of real life men's totes fighting in wars started by women. Oh, except.....not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:59 PM
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The time period and location lol. Here's a tiny cross section of the vast body of the human experience that might possibly support my point, pay no attention to the man behind the curtain that represents anything historical or those other countries that hold billions of people LOL. Fucking entitled crybabies the lot of redpillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:55 PM
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Oh nos, I criticized the incel. How dare I hurt his fefes over here where he can't see me 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:09 PM
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every other liberal woman online complains about how she has the hots for conservative men and liberal men are a turnoff? Ahahahahahaha what fantasy land did this come from?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:02 PM
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white nationalism got it right lmao Ew
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:01 PM
1

Dinosaurs
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:00 PM
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Can you do the same for men? The constraints you had to put on that statement make me fucking chuckle
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:00 PM
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The opposite of TRP is thoughtful and respectful? Daww, it's like you haven't even read the sidebar
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:29 AM
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Men actually do something about it. Yeah like bitching online and writing pages of drivel about why women suck. Really the most something of somethings. The whole point of RP is to adapt to circumstances Clearly not or becoming increasingly hostile to the political and social preferences of the people you're trying to stick your dicks in wouldn't be the entire ethos of trp.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:27 AM
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I want to be the first to die when Yellowstone blows
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:50 AM
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You haven't figured out PPD yet. Women are supposed to be submissive and capitulate to everything their big manly man says but also everything is still their fault because hypergamy/gynocentricity/something something woman bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:17 AM
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Trad dresses probably don't have pockets, correct
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:15 AM
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Wut
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:14 AM
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RP is turning mainstream because it soothes men's ouchies about women moving towards equality and not having to fuck them. Am I an undesirable partner who hasn't changed to keep up with an increasingly egalitarian world? No, it's the women who are wrong, thank you redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:14 AM
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No one worth listening to ever said red pill dudes were smart.....
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:26 AM
2

Yeah and the men here want to have sex with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:25 AM
1

You look angry, which is frankly the exact look I expect to see on the kind of man who posts here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:40 AM
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A misogynist when an attractive woman posts in roast me: Cracks knuckles My time to whine has come. All shall now read my treatise on how much I hate attractive women and DESPAIR
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:39 AM
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So your grandmaster poobah theory is that the opposite of red pillers, thoughtful and respectful men, are causing trauma to women by dating them? LOL Oh no, I dated a man who respected me as a human being and understood boundaries and consent, clearly I'm now traumatized forever, woe is me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:28 AM
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TFW you want to be the one causing the emotional trauma....
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:25 AM
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Casual advertisement of white nationalism, yum. So weird how these trad advertisement memes always feature white families LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:23 AM
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The sub has made me think deeply about men and now I don't like men. Weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:18 AM
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My age range was set from 25-40 That doesn't mean you swiped on 40 year olds as often as you swiped on 25 year olds. Your personal bias is impacting those percentages.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:06 AM
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Going strictly off the content of this sub... For women: find the fountain of eternal youth and stay 19 forever live in your FeMiNinE, which of course means being nonconfrontational, silly, and non ambitious in a way that strictly benefits men subvert your personality and get real comfortable kneeling on the floor in submission so you can "get on his program" and "be his first mate/bitchboy". be a virgin sex goddess who's willing to inexplicably have sex on the first date with the "correct" man.…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 01:59 AM
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Sure. Because zero women have permanent/semipermanent damage from birth control pills, iuds, or bisalps eyeroll. Imagine, men taking responsibility for their own fertility. The horror.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 01:51 AM
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This post sounds a lot like that one time that one Republican senator vomited out that nonsense about women's bodies having a way of "shutting down" rape, ergo if we became pregnant after a rape it was ultimately our fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 12:43 AM
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that’s real life interactions that everyone can agree with; Lol, only if one lives in a bubble of horrible men. they’re just complaining about men Ah yes, women's comments are 'complaints' while men's hot takes are just 'the way it is'. Heaven save us from the arrogance of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 01:57 AM
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You are aware that women can read things that aren't written explicitly for them on the internet, yes? didn’t make these rules, that’s how it is. No that's how trp says it is, which is a very different thing from how it actually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 12:31 AM
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And yet, trp tells women we're supposed to think the exact opposite about men and pride ourselves on marrying used up community dick. Aren't you happy Mary? Dave knows what every women in a thirty mile radius looks like naked and, when he turned 40, it was YOU he decided to settle down with!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 12:26 AM
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If a man were to discover that his girlfriend made him wait 8 dates for sex but once slept with a guy in cancun 20 minutes after meeting him, it would be a humiliating discovery Good fuck, handling men's fragile egos is exhausting
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 12:17 AM
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This is very much a, "if you smell shit all day, check your own shoe" type situation
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 10:43 PM
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No one loves us either. They love to fuck us, they love when we clean or cook. Or actual interests and personalities are irrelevant to 90% of the world. This is why I always have an irritated laugh when I see redpillers claiming "I'm not a misogynist, I love fucking women" as tho appreciating the sensation of your dick in a vagina magically absolves you of the responsibility of being a decent human when everyone's clothes are on.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 01:35 AM
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Everything you've described here is a "you" problem and just means you belong in therapy, not any kind of broad social statement about dating in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 01:21 AM
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Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 01:17 AM
5

the woman might be a person THE HORROR
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 08:28 AM
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Modern society is essentially a dystopia due to female empowerment. It's bemusing that this is a) only tangentially related to your actual CMV statement and b) stated as unequivocal fact. It gives off an odor of "I can't purchase a 17 year old virgin from her father and inherit his company while she stays at home and bears MY children and serves MY imperatives..... therefore western civilization has fallen and we're all doomed". When I envision a dystopia, it looks a lot more like what historica…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 08:24 AM
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Because really awful men are really good liars. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:07 PM
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Thankfully plenty of women do
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:04 PM
2

Several dates without sex? Gasp. Call the authorities. This is clearly a war crime. Those poor poor men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 02:46 AM
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they can open their legs on date 2, oOoO wow, such generous much thoughtful. that's just the situation for most guys. Most guys are gross assholes who think sex from a woman is purchased by a single Applebee's pick two dinner and then have the audacity to complain "waaaa dating so hard"? Sounds like they deserve to be single then.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:24 PM
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For example, when men say that they prefer a housewife they are not saying they want a woman that is less free or trapped Yeah, they just want a personal bangmaid and butler whose entire life purpose is doing precisely the shit you need them to do. Gee how could anyone ever read malicious intent into that? 🫠
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 08:45 PM
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Feminism and the growth of technology are also a positive feedback loop. Women contributed to the development of higher living standards and technological progress specifically because feminism opened those doors.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 08:41 PM
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I would have joined in on the hat pin trend and jabbed every man who tried to inappropriately grope me which would have likely ended up with me dead and raped in an alleyway somewhere. Thank goodness I was born when I was.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 08:40 PM
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It's indisputably better, women don't have to stay in relationships in order to survive. If a woman is with a man, she actually wants to be with him because she's able to and capable of providing for herself without him. Men just haven't caught up with the need to provide value in other facets of life beyond the financial.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 08:35 PM
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The push for anorexic women comes from women themselves, Nope. I helped a group of women get a pro-anorexia sub taken down on this platform that was run and used by men. They would exclusively post women with their ribs showing, their pelvis bones showing, collar bones jutting out, knees all swollen up. These women probably had BMIs of between 14 and 16. The entire rhetoric of the sub was that any woman who didn't look like these women was disgusting because all women owe it to men to look like …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 08:29 PM
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Porn never put its hands around my throat and attempted to choke me because it "looked cool when he saw it online". Yay, this is fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 07:49 PM
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I'd never put more than 1 date and a drink investment into a woman for sex. It's really fucking hilarious to contrast this "women better fucking open their legs on date ONE or I'm GONE" attitude with the "it's so hard out there, woe is man" dribble in your first bit. Like, the problem is staring y'all right in the face and you still ignore it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 07:46 PM
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Where do you live that they aren't? And no, you didn't, you gave an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 06:17 PM
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Do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 08:55 AM
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I'm talking about the much more common 38M dating a 25F, for instance). Oh great, so instead of a 22 year age gap, we're only talking 13 years. Greeeaat. 👍 In reality, young women are highly sought after and may receive numerous advances from potential suitors. As a result, they possess significant power in choosing their partner, which makes dating them no easy feat. This is ass backwards for all but the Instagram model type girls. A normal 20 year old is impressed by a guy that has a car and h…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 08:20 AM
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Clearly the plan would be to do as a great many men did and simply dump her out onto the street and upgrade to a newer model. As a bonus, thanks to his pals in the manosphere, he can now complain that the paltry amount of alimony he'll owe her for her years of service is tantamount to 'divorce rape'. Yay, being a man is fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 08:05 AM
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l don't want my woman to contribute any percentage of the income No shit. How dare the house slave have an opportunity to build an escape fund and make, gasp, social and professional connections outside the home?!?! It's just....too horrible to contemplate. -- a "conservative man", circa 2023
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 08:00 AM
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I think people are entitled to clear and concise communication so they can practice informed consent when choosing who to fuck and who not to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:21 AM
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Yes yes, men will fuck anything that gets their dick wet. Your low standards are neither my problem nor correlated to the nonsense listed in the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:08 PM
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This i understand. Which is precisely why I think the points made in the OP are bogus. I want to get my dick wet and a) you're not completely repulsive and b) you let me smash would have sufficed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:07 PM
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And your hypothetical man wants to stick his dick in a "bad partner" why? Also, I don't believe any of the points you laid out unilaterally make someone a bad partner which makes your "gotcha" question a moot point. Men call women a bitch for a number of things, like, "she reminded me to unload the dishwasher AGAIN, what a fucking BITCH". You haven't described a bad partner. You've described a woman your example man neither likes nor respects. If he were himself a decent person, he would just co…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:08 PM
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She let herself go - (Probably the most common) Either she gained a ton of weight, aged ungracefully Meanwhile all men are, of course, in the gym on the daily and look the exact same they did at age 23. Except oops, about 3/4 of men in the United States are either overweight or obese. She has an orange flag .... maybe her bodycount So clearly the logical course of action here is to keep porking her and contributing to both her and your body counts. She's just a big ol bitch - And your dick clear…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:06 PM
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Why do so many men consider it “dating down” to find the most desirable women they possibly can? Lol, none of the men here are going to be willing to answer that because it undermines the fundamental RP premise of "women so hypergamous and greedy and bad". A balding forty year old man with a good career is absolutely dating "up" in men's eyes if he snags the 23 year old broke college girl. Otherwise, having a younger partner wouldn't be such a bragging point with the cargo shorts set.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:26 AM
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Every single woman with a successful career eschews having a stay at home spouse?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:11 AM
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Lol. See and that's like a "silly dad story". When men do incompetent things like that, we're all allowed and encouraged to see the humor in it. If it was mom and she made the same mistake because she was rushing out the door to work or whatever, men like the type that frequent this sub turn it into a broader narrative about how "women have abandoned their homes and children". When it's only funny when it's a man making a mistake, it shows how much more we expect from women when they parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:09 AM
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Probably because most men are shit at it and just play video games and feed the kids fucking Doritos.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 04:04 PM
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So you have nothing constructive and just want to blather on about your engagement ring fantasies? Cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 04:03 PM
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Every time someone brings up this debate, I wonder where all the pearl clutching and hand wringing is over men who "want to have it all". Like, oh no, a man who wants to have an interesting and fulfilling career and be a dad.....wow that's only 85 percent of suburban America right there. Neil Armstrong was a father of multiple children when he flew to the moon. He got to do both specifically because he had a nameless and unfamous missus that stayed home and wiped noses and cooked casseroles whil…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 09:16 AM
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Hopefully because she fucking likes him, I've noticed this flies over the heads of redpill men on the regular. What, a woman, like men?? No never, I have to keep her poor and working in the home so I have a purpose
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 08:37 PM
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What do you mean Redpill? .....is this a serious question?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 09:15 AM
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It says a lot about this sub that you have laid out an explicitly exploitative scenario where a man flew to an incredibly impoverished locale, found a woman from the slums, and essentially purchased her lifelong loyalty for the family transforming amount of $300 a month.....and the men here are rushing to tell you all about how that's just fine and peachy lol. Redpill men can't see women being exploited even when smacked in the face with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 07:09 AM
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You may not care about this Redpill is explicitly amoral so expect the men here to give zero shits about exploitation. Doesn't matter, had sex is the beginning, middle, and end of a redpiller's code of ethics.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 06:58 AM
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If he wants that, or that that's a practical way for him to meet his life goals, then what's wrong with it? Mmhmm, and what percentage of men do you think will attain their highest life goals by changing diapers? traditional gender roles are traditional because they're proven by time to work in practice. Nope. In fact, the very fact that feminism was a necessary outgrowth of women's unhappiness shows that they didn't work, they were just forced. You're the one who seems to be attacking the valid…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 07:34 PM
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when we reverse roles Nobody said anything about reversing roles. I outearn my husband and if I ever had to date again I'd be paying for my own check. It's not so much women get "used" for sex. Nah, men use women for sex all the time by straight up lying to them. It's why redpill promotes itself as 'amoral'.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 09:28 AM
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This comment doesn't track at all with what I wrote. A man who is happy to sit back and let a woman waste her money on him and then, with no effort on his part, gets to start fucking her is not a man that will value the relationship. He's invested nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 07:10 AM
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Essentially - avoid all men who practice the PUA/redpill way of getting a woman into bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:53 AM
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Letting a man fuck you after you've been paying his way for over a month is the fast track to ending up with a low value hobosexual who will cheat on you the first chance he gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:52 AM
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Given that a sizeable portion of men apparently can't wait to replace us with sex robot bangmaids, I'm gonna go with "no".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:33 AM
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“Most men are good men, but women don’t want good men This one ranks highly. RP men's standard for what makes a 'good man' is like: does he lift? Does he have a job (of any kind)? Does he avoid literally beating the shit out of his partners? Thumbs up! Good guy! Then they'll be offended that women don't want to date Steve the misogynistic asshole who has a whole car and a whole job and won't hit you (probably). Just go look at the WAATGM sub and laugh along at the shithole of gross men who think…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:28 AM
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I'm curious if you'd expect a man to completely meet all his life goals and achieve his highest form of happiness if he was told to stay home, change shit filled diapers, and cook cheese toasties?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:17 AM
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now we are beginning to see its decline imma poke it with a stick to hurry it along.....and pop some popcorn
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 06:48 AM
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You asked a group of men who a) think women should remain virgins and then immediately flip into sex goddesses on the first date for him only and b) think submission is a normal thing to expect from women in 2023. They're almost all going to pick option 1 because that's the most in line with their ideology about the way women should behave.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 09:34 PM
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It gives the impression because it's true for the vast majority of women. Glad I could clear that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 09:26 PM
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Well, see, here's the problem champ. Girls typically finish puberty at 14-16, so if your sole basis for attraction is breasts and butt, you attraction starts down there. This was making me laugh through the whole thread. OP was so careful to add that 18 year old cutoff like his biology was simultaneously instinctual and uncontrollable by conscious thought, but conveniently also obeyed the law.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 05:42 AM
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People have all these convoluted theories And not just theories, but fully fleshed out structures that describes how they expect women to behave. Submission, for example. It's the golden, untouchable calf that men here think women should be offering them on a silver platter. Telling them it's about as attractive a proposition as opining women should eat dog shit falls on deaf ears and leads to screeching. It's pretty impossible to date when you have out of touch, regimented, and unreasonable exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 05:35 AM
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That's incorrect for many women, but I have zero chance of convincing any man who's going to benefit from women's labor of that fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 05:28 AM
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I think the contention in this space comes because the last guy in your comment (I'll fuck you but I don't want a relationship with you) is the undisputed winner in redpill land. Women see that as a knock (you're cute but you're no good for long term) while redpill men see that as being high value (she thinks I'm a shit person and let me fuck her anyway cuz I'm hot).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 12:19 AM
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Gee, I guess men who want a family probably should have prioritized getting into a family producing relationship in their late 20s to early 30s. Especially since we now know y'alls sperm degrades too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 11:52 PM
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The lies men tell themselves to feel better lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 11:41 PM
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I'll never understand why women are fine with hiring themselves out as free maids. A financial advisor would have a field day with this woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 06:41 PM
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it's not just a women hating movement Yeah ladies, it's only 90% about hating women....SEE???? What a relief, here I was thinking hating women was the whole shebang.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:45 AM
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Average men want to with a passion. T No they don't. They don't want to organically, they just know it's their best option for steady sex. If they woke up tomorrow looking like Henry Cavill, commitment would go out the window.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:24 AM
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that she went for conventionally very attractive men This makes it sound like you think women have no grounds to be upset about a lack of commitment when Dave the toothless and homeless drunk around the corner is right there, ready to move in and commit. People want partners they're attracted to. Shocking.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:18 AM
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Came here for the inevitable number of men who were going to go waaahh, women should give up their chances of self actualization and let me dictate their lives for FREE Was not disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:09 AM
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No thanks to the work she's putting in cooking and cleaning and ironing your uniform.....which is the point. When a woman's married, her home labor at least counts for something in the event of a breakup/divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 06:43 AM
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K 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:25 PM
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I can only still understand about 25% of this comment because for some reason you refuse to use periods. The one thing I can react to is that it's pretty obvious that men don't actually care about male domestic abuse. You guys only bring it up in the context of minimizing women's issues. Look at the point of this entire post, it was about men needing improvement and you're in the comments going off about male domestic abuse for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:21 PM
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Why are men supposed to be responsible for fixing shitty women? Ope you seem to be lost. Go read the OP bub. Not everything can be deflected onto "but wahmens". It is an interesting point tho, why did women have to beg men to do better? Why didn't yall just, idk, be good humans and do it on your own? Huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:03 AM
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And if men hadn't slammed us into a wall, feminism wouldn't need to exist so....
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:02 AM
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domestic violence is almost equal in perp Sure. In manosphere fantasy land where consequences don't matter and men are never at fault. the reason men listen to the manopshere guys is because they address them So does the YouTuber I mentioned. So does marital counseling. Or therapy. But nooooo. Those don't pat men on the back and soothe them by repeating "woman bad" in their ear. chunk everything to treat women good Oh no. Imagine actually treating your partner well. The horror. redpillers didn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:00 AM
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theoretically, it should result in a good dating life Why? If I spend my life rescuing orphaned kittens, is some man out there now obligated to find me attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:44 AM
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Insinuating that women have ever made an actual effort to fix this, Why are women supposed to be responsible for fixing shitty men? That's never stopped them from sharing and banging the top 20% of men Waah, women have sex with men they find attractive. That also tracks with my assertion that there aren't enough good men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:11 AM
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I don't believe that narrative at all K They're also some of the most chronically single guys that I know. This makes it sound like men need a sex cookie to advocate for women's rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:09 AM
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shitty feminist Antifeminism is just men going - waaaah women wanted to vote and I'm big mad. It's stupid hilarious how mad men are about a movement that was necessary for women to get rights. This hyperbolic rant about feminists having "dirty little hands" puts a nice bow on it. Of course they hear it, it's goddamn everywhere, and they're rightly sick of it. Hi, women are people and you should stop opposing them being treated that way. Men - OH MY GOSH JUST SHUT UP AHHHHHH YOU'RE HURTING ME
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:05 AM
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Lol, I'm not whataboutthewahmen-ing this post. Go make your own post if your thesis is that the average woman is shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:59 AM
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Welp, go on a dating analysis site where women warn other women about seemingly nice guys. The dadbod looking realtor that beat the shit out of his ex wife. The plain bob sales guy who's cheating on his girlfriend with six other women. Drunks. Drug addicts. It's not about "good jobs", it's about having the skills to have a successful relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:02 AM
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Oh noooooo muh short men redirection, I've absolutely NEVER had a PPD man do that before.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:00 AM
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You can start with your flair. Simple - men, don't be a shitty antifeminist and I won't shit on you. Not hard. How do you think they're going to start respecting you if all they hear - boys and men who aren't (yet) nihilistic sex-crazed misogynists, mind you - is you screaming bloody murder about anything and everything men do "wrong"? They're not going to hear me. That was my whole fucking point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:52 AM
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then i wonder why dont men seek out your supposedly GOOD creators who will bring men RESULTS Because they're challenging and tell them shit they don't want to hear, duh. More often than not these women have been passed around among chads. Oh nos. The absolute horror. Muh Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:51 AM
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There's no way for women to fix this alone. Most women I converse with out in the dating world have reached the conclusion that there quite literally are not enough suitable, single men available as partners. Drug/alcohol abuse, narcissism, domestic violence, 'manosphere' behavior, etc are rampant among men and don't just make dating the guy 'unattractive' but actually dangerous and damaging to date. Men don't have their heads wrapped around the issue. They think a woman having an Instagram acco…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:04 PM
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Presumably because they can't abandon their children consequence free.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 10:52 PM
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Welp, had enough impact to comment so 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:39 PM
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Just don't compare women to children and you'll be fine. The manosphere loves to do that (precisely because their rhetoric is that women are perpetually childlike) and it needs to stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 10:33 AM
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The entire post is about that broader topic; my comment chain you replied to is more focused on the issues I pointed out. the boyfriend pinning his girlfriend to the ground To call that a restriction in rights is somewhat ridiculous in the first place. If bullets are flying, most people are going to want to be under something. My point is that, if you take this linguistic framework out of this specific shooting incident, the exact reasoning and language you're using can be weaponized to restrict…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 10:31 AM
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And we're not talking about any of those things. This thread is specifically about the ways that misogyny is coded in flowery and protective language to keep women, specifically, down.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 08:41 AM
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directly comparing women to men A- at least it would be legal and B - maybe just try not comparing us to anything because women are kind of our own thing...yeah?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 08:40 AM
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Just realize that the 'we need to protect you from yourself' argument is one that tradcon men will regularly use to try to promote the idea that women shouldn't be able to vote. Their hot take is that women are driving western society off of a cliff and they need to protect us from ourselves. Shit escalates.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:26 AM
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adds another tally to the "redpill men directly comparing women to children while also wanting to fuck them" chart
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:23 AM
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Poor men. Must suck to have a "biological instinct" that makes you want to be the hero in out of the ordinary situations while y'alls normal MO is hating the shit out of half of humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:57 AM
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Uh-huh. Thus answered by men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:32 AM
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How nauseatingly hubristic
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:32 AM
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This sub lol. PPD men : women are so incredibly stupid and worthless and slutty and all the bad things and we should reject and avoid them for all time Also PPD men: ah yes, yes, we ARE selfless and brave, aren't we, look at us help the sweet women we're so devoted and dutiful towards
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:22 AM
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It's pretty clear it's meant to be negative for women, the way it's talked about. And I think you'll find that PPD women generally say "bring on the sexbots". Any man who could replace a real human being with plastic is not a man that belongs in the dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 05:59 AM
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Dressed like a schlub and at the end of a long day.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:31 AM
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There literally are not enough viable impoverished, developing world women available for all western men to 'punish' western women for daring to have rights. The US alone has 350 million people. The 'passport bro' Dreamland of the Philippines only has about a third of that. You take up all the available women and then what giant pool of women are you going to tap? India? Those parents don't want their daughters marrying unsuccessful white dudes. China? Pfft. Chinese women are already super picky…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 03:49 AM
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Yup, when I'm scrubbing, I've literally had men throw bottles out their car at me as I walk down the sidewalk.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 03:28 AM
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Women trying to date keep running across shitty men trying to 'alpha' at them because of Tatertot. Burgeoning popularity of groups like the proud boys who have as a foundational tenement that women ain't shit and are meant for babies and housework. State of Louisiana tried to pass the death penalty for women getting abortions because of tradcon dumbasses who are a portion of the manosphere. And one dude in the state of Michigan ran for Congress while being steeped in the manosphere and held the …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 10:19 PM
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Judging based on the posts of men here, apparently it's incredibly difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 07:53 PM
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gestures at the current state of everything
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 07:48 PM
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Why am I supposed to act surprised or impressed that being a lying sack of shit with no moral compass to prevent one from hurting or manipulating others will be able to 'attract'? I'd be able to get millions of dollars in loans if I could just lie effectively about how much capital I had......it's just that they'd probably eventually find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 11:52 AM
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This isn't about creating a fulfilling relationship Ah yes, the redpill creed
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 11:50 AM
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It doesn't work to create fulfilling relationships and anyone who needs me to pitch why being a good person is 'more optimal' needs more help than I can give.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 08:24 AM
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Taking one for the team and sleeping with other guys would greatly help these people. WHY the fuck do incel types always seem to circle back around to the idea that women need to just "suck it up and fuck"? It gets called "equitable distribution of sexual resources" or "helping a friend out" or whatever other euphemism they think makes it sound palatable. It's rape. Having sex with someone who doesn't want to have sex with you is rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 08:12 AM
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I don't think any red pill man on this entire sub understands that the entire point of narcissistic manipulation is to prevent people from telling that you're a bad person LOL. Like, no shit women can't tell, it's called lying with ✨style✨.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 08:01 AM
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Probably because the members of the manosphere won't shut up about it and keep vomiting their bullshit everywhere. Then it impacts our ability to live our lives and we have to get involved. Anytime the manosphere gets tired of women pushing back against it, they're free to go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 02:40 AM
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Yeah the fish are actively trying to get away from the fishermen because the fishermen represents a clear and present danger to their very lives. I suppose for red pill men, perhaps it makes sense LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 02:39 AM
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Redpillers are walking sacks of shit who have to fake confidence by acting 'alpha'....don't see how that's better
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 02:35 AM
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Redpill men eat and/or harm the women they catch? Okay, I can get with that 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:56 PM
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It doesn't speak highly of red pill men that they constantly use fishing as an analogy for getting women when, frequently, the fish winds up dead or with a hook stuck in its mouth and in serious pain as a result of being caught. What about that is supposed to sound attractive to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 08:47 PM
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The moment you feel the need to get pedantic about my question is probably the moment you should re-read the OP and remind yourself that we're specifically on the topic of toxicity. Your handwaving about the lead up to men becoming bitter and angry walks up to the point at hand and then stops short. Not being approached is standard for most men. It's repeated, active rejection that erodes your soul To which I would reply that therapy seems a more appropriate solution than picking up a toxic inte…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 12:34 PM
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That was fifteen years ago so I have no idea. Are you suggesting it's reasonable to be rejected 51 times and suddenly decide the answer is to adopt an ideology that says the opposite sex should be stripped of rights and is inherently stupid?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:36 AM
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but many are also fine settling down Lol. No. Most people marry someone within 1-3 years of their own age. You're just repeating old guy fantasy lore.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 08:27 AM
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Most women I know had crushes and about half of them were rejected by any given particular crush. I myself was rejected a few times, sometimes cruelly. And yet, ta-da, still didn't fall into an ideology that posits men should be required to be submissive and be stripped of their rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 08:26 AM
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Fuckbois? Lol. No
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 08:23 AM
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Nah I've been explicitly told the wall is brutal and unyielding and undefeated for wahmens.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 01:47 PM
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I don't know what you call a normal man. Men who view women as human beings with thoughts and opinions as valid as their own instead of feeling entitled to submission or that their partner is merely the 'oldest teenager in the house'. but because I was rejected Earth to men - women get rejected too. Sometimes quite cruelly. But the thing I found in the red pill content was a different approach to dating, The redpill explicitly teaches that women are hypergamous, slutty, overly emotional things t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 01:46 PM
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I "approached" that first boyfriend. If a man is approaching hundreds of women and getting nothing but rejections, he should probably stop doing that and seriously reevaluate who and when he's "approaching".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 01:42 PM
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Gee, having someone love you and commit to you....the worsssst
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:04 AM
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I'm 33 right now, and I'm dating three girls, two of them are aged 22 and 24, the other gal is 32-33 (I don't remember exactly how old she is), Uh-huhhh Honestly, I feel bad for the 33 years old gal. So would I. Probably not for the same reason tho
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:46 AM
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Well they're not "blue" pill lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 03:44 AM
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Lol. I knew a good PPD male would find a way to 'nuh-uh' that. The wall is undefeated, except for these very specific cases which I have a bunch of hand waving reasons to disregard.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 02:51 AM
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Plenty of the men who are replying here are bemoaning the fact that their first sexual experience didn't come until they were between the ages of 20 to 23. I was older than that when I lost my virginity. So....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 02:37 AM
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If wealth is a way to jump over the wall, then women don't hit the wall either. I don't see Jennifer Lopez or Cher having trouble with dating young attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 02:36 AM
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I joined one of those are we dating the same guy groups just because I wanted to see what women who are in the dating pool are dealing with nowadays. Well over half of these men that I see posted look like absolute potatoes and yet are out here being cheating, lying, emotionally abusive pieces of shit. It's not just "Chad".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 02:31 AM
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But when you're hiking through the wilderness and a snake slithers across your path, you assume it's venomous even if it's more than likely not. Your list left out anti-feminists and misogynist men in general, like the kind who frequent these forums. I now have to wonder if every man I interact with in public secretly thinks I should be confined to my home, forced to be submissive to my husband, and stripped of my ability to work or vote. It's a real gas, let me tell you, having to play the game…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 02:24 AM
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And are women treating them like hot young chads in the absence of clear signs of wealth? Old men are just generally more willing to purchase attention than old women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 02:14 AM
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think that a lot of the anger and misogyny coming from redpill/manosphere types has to do with the feeling of having missed out on the sexual experimentation phase of one's teenage/early adult years. I didn't have my first real boyfriend until I was in college and yet somehow I've managed to not fall into a hole where I think men are barely human beings who should not be allowed to vote and don't deserve rights. Odd. The 'pill sphere' can really be defined as just red pillers since normal people…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 02:07 AM
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Ah yes. "Female women". And obviously. There's but nothing but fuss about those large Facebook groups that women use for dating on this very sub, so clearly we're actively searching for advice. It's just that we're searching for advice about how not to get screwed over by bad men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 02:04 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/127rfts/is_chasing_women_that_said_no_to_your_date/jegy0up?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3 Dis you? Here's me clarifying I'm not interested. Edit: here's a perfect example of an account it'd be really nice to be able to block. Sexual harassment. Personal insults. A 13-day-old account that has all the hallmarks of being a troll/ban evasion account. And reporting has resulted in nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 12:27 AM
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Hm. Yeah, still sounds jaded to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 05:22 PM
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Desktop worked. AvgPrius is unblocked and I guess free to resume calling me a femcel :/
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 09:15 AM
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I have had very little success with reporting. I'm attempting to unblock avgprius, but that account is not listed in my blocked users section under account settings. Clicking on your link also does not result in any unblock options, only the option to 'block account'. Is there another location the account would be listed or do I perhaps need to use desktop instead of mobile?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 08:57 AM
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Is my unblocking them necessary? I do not "abuse" the block function; if I've blocked someone, it's because their rhetoric was trollish or abusive in some way and I don't wish to engage with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 08:23 AM
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men who have either been divorced or see what happens to men who go through divorce and they want none of it. So the bitter, jaded dudes. Cool. Bon voyage.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 08:20 AM
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It isn't true at all that an average wholesome religious "Nice Guy" has the appeal Chad does, it's simply false and so the only way for us guys to have a chance at attracting those women is to toss out all the blue pills we've been fed our entire lives and swallow down the difficult RP. I'm amused that this is an argument when it's pretty widely known exactly why women don't want to date Nice Guys. They suck. They're terrible, entitled people. There's an entire sub for "Christian" redpill men an…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 04:58 AM
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The majority of women want a strong, masculine man who leads. No, they want an adult partner who is capable of handling their shit cooly and competently like an adult. Very few women are looking to be dragged about by the nose by some alpha energy dude, thumping his chest saying "me have penis, me make leader ugha bugga". There are some women out there who would rather take the reigns or be masculine in some ways (being the breadwinner, the protector, having more masculine clothing The fact that…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 04:39 AM
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Men actually rarely “go their own way.” Which is why a better explanation for that abbreviation is 'men gnashing teeth over women'.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 04:34 AM
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This discounts the fact that many women do try to guide their partners and give feedback about what they find pleasurable and the men lose their shit over it. So what, whip out a dildo after he's done? Guess what, the same men that get pissy about feedback on sex get pissy about sex toys. Telling women to be 'responsible' for their orgasm is only reasonable if you assume her partner is capable of being taught.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 04:29 AM
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Yeah I guess it has been a disaster for shitty, substandard men who can't get laid anymore LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:07 PM
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Wanting an adult who's just smart enough to do household chores is pretty indicative of wanting a submissive bangmaid.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:04 PM
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🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:41 PM
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if women wouldn't be so deficient in this Have you tried being compliant? Maybe y'all should
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:39 PM
1

K
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 01:31 PM
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Okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 01:30 PM
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compliance is number one Blech. We know. As per your example, y'all won't shut up about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 01:29 PM
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Is the meaning of "example" not clear here? And if you don't think that any of my examples comprise significant numbers, I'm going to guess you don't know much about, for example the tabletop gaming community or sci-fi nerds in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:55 AM
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It's one example bud
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:56 AM
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Based on my participation in "are we dating the same guy" - abusers, cheaters, shitty redpillers and niceguys
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:56 AM
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Oh yes, silly me, smart enough to suck dick and be a bangmaid. Crucial for redpill dudes....
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:55 AM
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Nerdy bookish types are not "far from the norm". I see them everywhere I go. And frequently, I see them in relationships with other nerdy types.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:20 AM
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Other nerdy bookish types do it all the time. Demisexual. Sapiosexual. There are lots of people who value their partners beyond their fuckability.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 05:44 AM
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smart enough to figure out basic life tasks with a bit of effort. Smart enough to suck a dick, as I said in my original comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 05:42 AM
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My point is it doesn't matter. As long as OP picked above a 2 or a 3 in intelligence, redpill men will prioritize appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 05:04 AM
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You're asking redpill men this question? As long as the woman in question has enough intelligence to suck a dick, they're going for the superficial every time. All of the answers prior to mine so far confirm this. They've actively made it clear that they have no use for intelligent women and, in fact, regard it as less desirable for a LTR because it makes it harder to control the woman and 'get her on their program'.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:53 AM
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a spiel like a used car salesman This is a great analogy and rings really true for most things I've read redpill/PUA guys trying
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 08:31 PM
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Negging is deliberate and intended to be manipulative. Teasing is intended to be fun and carried out with someone with whom that dynamic is already established. That's why teasing is called teasing and negging is called negging.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 08:05 PM
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Bud, I'm thinking you didn't understand the meaning of my original comment
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 08:02 PM
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Not everything's a straw man bud. PUA tactics include negging.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:54 PM
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Is wearing makeup an attempt to deliberately harm another person's self image, the way negging is? Oh look, no. Is 'flirting' the same as deliberately deploying a bunch of intentional PUA tactics designed to weaponize what they think the "female psychology" is? Oh look, also no.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:56 PM
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If it was flirting, it'd be called..... flirting.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:44 PM
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No, it's not banter. It's being deliberately destructive to someone's self esteem in order to manipulate them. Glad I could clear that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:41 PM
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You should probably go look up what negging is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:36 PM
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They could try viewing women as something beyond objects to "pick up", for starters.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:36 PM
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I've already answered your question bud. My guess is you don't like hearing that PUA/seduction tactics are manipulation so you're throwing different variations of the same question against the wall to see if I give another answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:26 PM
1

Lol, till your reputation for being a terrible lay gets out
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:23 PM
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No . A woman who has sex in make up without disclosing it is literally a rapist!. Troll score 3/10
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:22 PM
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If you can't tell the difference between practicing manipulative PUA tactics like negging and putting on a dress I can't help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:19 PM
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How many times and in how many different ways would you like for me to repeat that it's not okay to manipulate people?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:17 PM
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No one wants sex Cool we can all go home
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:10 PM
1

Your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:10 PM
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Manipulating people is wrong and manipulation is the foundation of PUA. Happy to clear that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:05 AM
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Ew
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:03 AM
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The natural may or may not realize what he's doing, if you've been attractive your whole life, sometimes you wind up thinking things just "happen". The unnatural one definitely knows what he's doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 09:07 AM
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Unsurprising. Few people want to admit they're the villain in someone else's story.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 09:06 AM
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It's misandry to believe men want sex? Someone tell the entire redpill sub and their plate spinning nonsense lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:07 AM
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Redpill men are never going to be "the best" so....no.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:05 AM
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How is this post not a rant?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:48 AM
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1 - you didn't specify "player". You said the natural "type". If he's a player I pick neither. 2 - if the first is a player and I absolutely must pick one, I still prefer the one who engages that way for fun as opposed to the one who learned to do it as the first is less likely to be malicious about their manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:41 AM
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has worked hard on learning the act of seduction. Maybe read a pick-up book or two Blech, instant turnoff. I wouldn't want to date a guy who learned how to be a manipulator from other manipulators.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:25 AM
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He said exactly that - spending time with women that isn't sex is a chore. And reminder that you're not supposed to personal attack bub. Go read the rules :)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:12 AM
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I need some periods to understand that text wall bub.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:07 AM
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1- I gave you multiple examples of why you're wrong. 2 - I've seen everything from the suggestion that rape should be legalized to outright comments that say women should lose the right to vote and all the way up to men talking about killing women get upvoted here. If that's anyone's idea of "discussion", heaven help them. Men's excuse is always "but one time I saw a Twitter account post hashtag k*llallmen so it's justified".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:39 AM
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That doesn't fix it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:35 AM
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men do not criticize women at all May I introduce you to ....this entire sub? Or all of the MRA/antifeminist subs? Or 4chan? Or the manosphere side of TikTok? Or YouTube?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:22 AM
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I then had this epiphany: as a man you HAVE to skillfully drive things in a sexual direction on the 2-4th date, or Since this is a CMV thread, I'll just say I'd be disgusted if some guy I was feeling things out with was treating me as an open sex hole after a sum total of 2-8 hours of knowing each other. She didn't like you. Get over it. Don't turn her reaction into yet another shitty redpill axiom where women are simplified to "escalate by touching button A at time T to get sexy time W".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:19 AM
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Except that men don’t view a second „date” as the prize but as a chore. I'm saving this for the next time some PPD male tries telling me "bUt mEn wAnT iNtiMacY" when I tell them we all know they're just looking to get their dicks wet. If men actually wanted intimacy, time with the woman you wanted that intimacy with wouldn't be a chore.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:10 AM
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Just confirms my hypothesis that staying away from first date physical stuff is really helpful in ruling out terrible men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:56 AM
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it is reality, I just explained why it isn't but ok 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:22 AM
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I mean, if you're going to make up your own narrative about why women say certain things to other women, I can't help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 11:40 PM
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"you go queen, you deserve better" even though she is a 5 herself. Because, in that context, the man has usually behaved in a way that he's made an ass of himself. How do you fail to understand that those lines are generally about behavior and treatment, not appearance?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:28 PM
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Yes it does. The manosphere argument is that women's imperatives rule the world (muh gynocentricity) and I'm pointing out that heinously offensive and anti-woman content is apparently just fine even though clearly most women would prefer it banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:25 PM
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One of the mods of WAATGM is a pedophile and men there routinely positively discuss marital rape. Even with that level of discourse, they're neither banned nor quarantined. The incel sub was banned because incels get violent and occasionally that violence spills out and they murder people. Reddit doesn't like liability for that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:20 PM
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Blech. This is one of the myriad reasons being a woman sucks. Evil wears a smiling face and approaches with placating lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:18 PM
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Actually the dudes getting the better end of the deal in that exchange. From what little I know, prostitutes are easily between $200 and a grand per night. As long as his rent is below six grand a month, he's coming out ahead. Way waaaay ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:47 PM
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At this point I'm just genuinely amused at how angry so many PPD males are getting over the fact I think his comparison is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:39 PM
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I just don't like the hoes, Whenever I read men saying stuff like this, I always wonder if the women in their lives know how much disdain the commenter holds for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:34 PM
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Can you just read my reply to the other dude instead of asking the same question multiple times
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:31 PM
1

If I poke you, will you say "hive" yet again like a good boy?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:15 PM
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Nope. My point exactly. Now you're gonna pivot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:15 PM
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And yet, it remains unbanned.....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:14 PM
1

Comparing an female elite athlete with an average man makes zero sense. And yet that's exactly what he did....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:13 PM
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Can confirm most women are decidedly democrats/liberal. Shocking. Whyever would women NOT want to join the party that houses open misogynists like yourself and wants them to shut up and disappear back to the kitchen? A real head scratcher.....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:08 PM
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Lol. That's so frequently the best PPD males have got as a comeback for historical fact, I could about set my watch by it at this point. you weren't supposed to notice that! In fact, uh, uh, you're a MISANDRIST for even mentioning it, yeah!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:05 PM
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Apparently mister obsessed summoned me? I had to block him because he was screeching the same inane shit over and over. More accusations of man hating I presume? Given the content of your post, that's actually kinda hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:59 PM
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Because she's one of the most fit and muscular people he could have chosen for a base comparison. Adding forty pounds to her makes the comp pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:55 PM
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Mkay. And did you catch that my comment was gender flipped?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:53 PM
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she's most likely using steroids, Yeeeaahhhhh...... Probably one of the most tested people in her sport and you think she's using. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:52 PM
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You can just say you don't have a comeback bub, it's okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:54 AM
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Perhaps the fact she's more muscular than an average dude? I thought the standard PPD male hot take was that women weren't capable of being more muscular than men and were therefore unsuitable for things like leadership etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:53 AM
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no feminine features Bullshit. She has an adorable face and gymnasts frequently do girly shit like put bows in their hair. What's that to do with attractiveness? Idk bud, probably to emphasize the physical fitness part?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:52 AM
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feminist punching bags Poor men. It's so awful having to see women have rights and shit. It's like being punched 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:30 AM
2

His description is even more pointless with that additional information.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:04 AM
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I guess you haven't seen the approximately 5,489 threads on this very sub devoted to castigating women for not dating 5/10 men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:03 AM
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How convenient that men have no responsibility under your relational framework lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:01 AM
5

And yet PPD males constantly bang on about how attractive women would be "if they'd just not get fat". Guess that's all a lie, shocking.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:01 AM
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TRP created emotionally stunted men with a new vocab and a use for creatine.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:59 AM
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Basically the society feminism has given us sucks more than what we had before in every conceivable way. ......for men. It clearly doesn't suck less for women since we actually get to, you know, have a modicum of control over the course of our own lives now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:51 AM
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They actually all laughed it off and continued the discussion - do you feel the same way about how that was handled? Curious to see the answer on this....but I doubt you'll get much sympathy from PPD males on that front. I see men here routinely blame women for all manner of violence, including rape, all the time. And they excuse the double standard with some nonsensical "but wahmens guard sex access" bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:28 AM
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But, please, PPD women ,go ahead and blame me for "picking" these women as I know you will, Oh you mean like PPD men do literally every time the topic of domestic violence against women comes up?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:15 AM
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Oh look, I was correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:05 AM
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TIL I learned equality is based entirely on bench press stats. I greatly value the contributions women make to humanity, namely in their ability to nurture children No you don't. Your examples explicitly show that you only value women's contributions when they occur in the tiny little box so that you've labeled "just women things".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:58 AM
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All that I ask for in a relationship is some level of deference in my ability to lead, Yep, there it is. All I ask is that MY woman recognize that I'M THE PENIS and PENIS MUST LEAD. Lol. Men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:10 AM
1

Is that the sum total you have to offer to the conversation? Typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:53 AM
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Did you read the OP, like, at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:52 AM
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I would never have any kind of a relationship with a woman who stood up for herself or believed she deserved rights and respect. Gotta love when ppd men tell on themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:51 AM
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Yeah, if a petite and insanely fit international athlete is only a 6/10 to you, idk what to tell you other than that your definition of average is essentially meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:50 AM
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Everything you just said is incorrect and your last sentence indicates many women probably have identified you as too untrustworthy to air their political opinions around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:31 AM
1

The piece that always gets me is "Women: the oldest teenager in the house". It's like, buddy my guy, why are you trying to fuck someone that (per your own ideology) is mentally a minor? Maybe......stop?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:29 AM
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Of course they don't because that would require reflection and self examination and redpill men have egos roughly the size of Jupiter preventing such personal growth.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:15 AM
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The best women out there are apolitical "The best women out there have unformed political opinions I can manipulate to match my own and all women who disagree with me have the same type of opinions". Wow, such originality. I've never heard anything even mildly similar coming out of a conservative man's mouth. No never. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:14 AM
1

This question summarizes the entire red pill side bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:09 AM
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Let's give a 5/10 man 2 options. Option 1 is a 5/10 woman. Option 2 is a 8/10 woman. Most 5/10 men will chase the 8/10 woman It's that simple. People like attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:04 AM
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This is not an average woman in any way, shape, or form bud. This is probably a woman you've undershot by a point or two on the attractiveness scale who is willing to essentially sell her sex life to unfaithful men in exchange for housing. I've met exactly zero women who behave this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:02 AM
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Lol, it was legal for grandpa to rape grandma in some states into the mid 1990s. That's just historical fact bud. They got treated like queens. Appropriate comparison considering the number of murdered and miserable queens that litter history.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:15 AM
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I recognize I need these services. Oh, so you're no different than the women in your example. Good to know. Also, precisely my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:13 AM
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and in return for treating grandpa like the king of his own castle and (statistically) caring for grandpa in his old age, grandma got treated like a child for most of her life, never got to live out her own life's ambitions, and died alone. what a bargain. no wonder women today are choosing differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 08:05 PM
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boohoo, I brought home a paycheck and my wife (who also works) didn't give me a blowie and another son as a thank you. woe is me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 08:02 PM
1

Learn to be in touch with your emotions, be someone outside of the material world, develop an internal set of values rather than projecting them onto others, learn how to have fun, groom and take care of your appearance, learn how to present yourself, re-examine how you view your masculinity cause if your entire masculinity relies on taking autonomy away from her, then that’s where it becomes toxic Men within the manosphere act like this request is the same as asking men to sprout wings and fly,…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:55 PM
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How many of y'all are farmers, carpenters, plumbers, line repairmen I'm one of those things, now how many of the men here are? Or do most of you all stock shelves at wal-mart, play video games, and masturbate your days away?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:51 PM
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No, men want to bring home a paycheck and have a submissive wife do literally everything else including suck his dick and bear his children in gratitude. Men want to provide one thing and expect everything in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:38 PM
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Expecting women to be compliant and submissive is misogyny. Fixed that for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:36 PM
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Weird how men don't like hearing "women should submit to men because men are men and women are women" put in crass biological terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:33 PM
2

Yep, they're so entitled they view having to see their partner as an equal too massive an inconvenience. Mores the pity.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:18 PM
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As compared to the man who I responded to who clearly filled his comment with citations.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:17 PM
2

Yeah. I mean, what am I thinking being anti-misogynist in a redpiller space. Crazy. I should just hate women and think of them as compliant and submissive house slaves like all the cool kids do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:16 PM
7

K. Point on the doll where the vacuum cleaner hurt men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:14 PM
2

Like most adults should, I'm perfectly capable of following a recipe and making good food.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:05 PM
1

Women did not have it any worse than men historically, Women could legally be raped by their husbands in some US states into the mid 1990s. I could go on, but I think that historical reality nicely puts a pin in things.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 02:20 PM
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Modern men don’t want, respect, or value most of these things, lol. Like seriously, I’ve never met a single adult young man who gave a shit about a woman being able to sew on a button or whether she gardened. It's always funny to me to see PPD males banging on about trad shit like this. I live on a farm and can do a bunch of 'trad' shit exactly like that one was talking about and yet I routinely get framed as an unfeminine man hater. It's like, pick an angle boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 01:53 PM
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It is of no advantage to the modern man, it Ima go tell my husband that me providing health insurance for both of us isn't an advantage and see how hard he laughs. Brb. Women of the past were in general not marrying men they didnt want just because they had to. Ignorant and explicitly incorrect. They held plenty of power in society and could do a lot for the family. They had the kind of fake power people pretend exists when they say things like submission is strength. At the end of the day, all …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 01:41 PM
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men were just getting too much before. They were getting something inappropriate. And when you take away something someone was wrongly getting, they feel wronged and entitled to it's return. Your sentences there explain, essentially, the entire manosphere movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 01:35 PM
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Explain for me, in detail, why a movement that exists solely for getting women the rights they were wrongly denied for centuries is supposed to prioritize male feelings or else it's hAteReD. I'm all ears for this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 01:31 PM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 01:29 PM
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wOmWn gEttInG rIgHtS iS aNti-MaLe
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 01:29 PM
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First of all, I must have really touched a nerve because wtf are FIVE of my inbox notifications from you. Two, this is fucking hilarious: Men are getting women who still want him to fill his gender role all while also doing the chores The chores.....the CHORES. Oh the humanity. Men have to know how to empty a dishwasher now, won't someone think of THE POOR POOR MEN. Western civilization has failed us and we are all doomed for the male half of our species is being expected to vacuum. Woe. WOE Som…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 01:28 PM
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PPD men : boohoo, hate is when the wahmens don't prioritize ME
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 01:24 PM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 01:23 PM
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Lol of course men here would say that .... American feminism prioritizes male feels the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 08:05 AM
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I’m not sure about the men on this sub though, I can clarify this one for you - the men here are HUGE on female submission. I’ve also had guys come off intimidated though and I actually ended up dating one which was a pretty big mistake, but it was when I had just started uni so I didn’t realize how much of a red flag it was. Yep, hence the OP that men need to improve their mindsets and get their emotional shit sorted if they want a better chance at attracting a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:56 AM
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PPD men think the five most radical Twitter feminists represent all American feminism. At any rate, a) you didn't specify and b) feminism doesn't need to prioritize male opinions to be "better".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:53 AM
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Best way to ensure you're a one night stand is to be a selfish shit in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:47 AM
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I think it's even simpler, men just want to have their cake and eat it too. They want one pool of women to be slutty and nasty and promiscuous with any man who will have them and then, when they're done with that scene, they want another pool of women who are chaste, virginal, and submissive to engage to keep their homes and birth/raise their children. If they had their way, these two pools of women would be essentially on different planets and available at the drop of a hat. So "learning to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:00 AM
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You think men in the past were broody? Have you not looked at the statistics around how many boomer men so much as changed a diaper for their kids? Younger, modern men are doing much better at picking up equal parenting loads.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:50 AM
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Why does women being property result in a "better world"? Are women somehow not part of the world? It would be better to just be honest and admit that women being property results in a better life for men at the direct expense of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:46 AM
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Hell, I and plenty of women I work with out earn their husbands
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:44 AM
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They typically only give advice on how to be a nice boyfriend guy, and not about how to be a sexy hookup guy. Why would women give advice on how to become a useless fuckboi when we're drowning in the fuckers already?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:41 AM
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Correction - Good men are scarce and any man who refuses to date feminists isn't a good man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:40 AM
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This comment dovetails nicely with the reality that PPD men frequently call modern women "entitled" when, in reality, there is nothing more entitled than expecting your partner to exist solely to submit to you and fulfill your imperatives simply because you have dangling genitalia and your partner has innie genitalia.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:38 AM
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he realizes that he’s getting less than what his father got and his father before him. Why is a woman who isn't a submissive slave in a frock "less"? If men didn't have such a fucked and entitled mindset, they'd actually realize they're getting more than generations of men past got. They're getting educated partners with careers that can help put food on the table and pay the mortgage. They're getting a partner who is choosing to have them in their life as opposed to being forced via economic re…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:35 AM
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Lol okay 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 02:15 AM
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Patriarchal social structures weren't and aren't there to make women miserable The subjugation of women was and is their precise purpose. That women are miserable when subjugated was more of a happy accident for the men in charge. They expect women to be happy and pleased while enduring forced submission because they incorrectly assume we're made for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:33 AM
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I said what I said and if men are unwilling to accept historical reality, that's on them. Why are there a million removed comments under yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:30 AM
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Ah well now that you've SAID it, clearly it's truth lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 08:44 AM
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This is phrased better and I agree. Women had fertility and maybe a dowry and they just had to hope that was enough to get them a roof and food without too much misery in the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:18 AM
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Surviving in the rough and wild wilderness against bears did not require men subjugating the female half of the population. Beating other nations in war did not require subjugating the female half of the population. In fact, patriarchal societies voluntarily shot themselves in the foot by sticking 50% of their intellectual potential in a kitchen and telling them to cook pies and make babies. There's no clear benefit to a society for many of the decisions that men imposed upon women. They made th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:16 AM
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Women used to aspire to be housewives and mothers. Because that was how they built social credit among their peers. Being a housewife or a stay-at-home mom is not self-actualizing for many women. We're seeing the results right now of what happens when you offer women other paths to social success beyond motherhood and housewifery. What are women doing? They're choosing not to have children and the birth rate reflects that. If I remember correctly from reading about fertility rates worldwide, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:01 AM
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Plus the equal credit act didn't pop in until about halfway through the 70s. Hey chekov, thanks for replying and then immediately blocking me. 👍 Trash taking itself out without my asking is the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 05:56 AM
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Doesn't that tilt the table in the other direction and incentivize a lack of marriage instead? I'm not sure how Iceland has their assistance structured, do you lose it if you have a husband? If so, you'd functionally get penalized for being married.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 05:54 AM
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Historically, the maternal mortality rate meant that childbirth was statistically more deadly than working in a coal mine and that was at the turn of the century. As long as there wasn't a war on, pregnancy complications sent plenty enough young women to the grave to keep up and generally surpass the number of men dying of non-war related activities. Functionally this meant the male:female ratio was skewed geographically more than anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 05:53 AM
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Basically, women have always had high standards, they were just forced to lower them in the past in order to survive I agree with most of what you wrote except for this. I don't think we should frame "doesn't beat me nor rape me" as a high standard. People like to forget that marital rape was legal in some states in the US into the mid-1990s. Women were made to feel like they'd won the lottery if their man didn't hit them, didn't drink too much, and kept a roof up. Nowadays that's the rock botto…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 05:50 AM
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Step 1 - force men to view women as human beings rather than breeding stock or defective men. Vis a vis "building a better historical society for women", that would probably knock out about 80% of the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 05:45 AM
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and according to the men here, they will never be able to find a partner because older men will all be dating women 20-30 years younger. I think female suffering is an intentional part of the system, not a hapless side effect. Once her designated man is dead and she's over thirty, she might as well wander off into the wild and be eaten by a bear for all the manosphere gives a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:05 AM
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This comment betrays a severe lack of understanding of the differences between systemic sexism (no voting, no credit cards, no abortion in even life threatening situations, systemic discrimination, etc etc) and individual "shit behavior" (omg one time I saw a woman tweet hashtagkillallmen on Twitter 😡 or boohoo women refuse to date me). Edit - don't fucking DM me to continue your tirade. That's not what this sub is for.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:03 AM
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Titsucker herr Not only does this comment make no sense, it completely ignores even a hint of male accountability. 10/10 male PPD comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:02 AM
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The fact that things had to change to be better directly implies that women were oppressed, but I'm guessing most PPD men don't realize that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 12:56 AM
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So many man out there showing hate to women then expect everything to be fixed. Excuse me, I commented antifeminist things and insulted 28 women online today, WHERE MAH WAHMENS AT In all seriousness, there are large swaths of the manosphere that literally don't think women should be able to vote. I'm not sure how you can "educate" that kind of willful malice away.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 12:54 AM
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It's a thinly veiled attempt to scare women in their late teens and early 20s into dating men 15-20 years their senior
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 09:41 PM
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Yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 09:06 PM
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There’s an entire post about how if a woman is traditional, 34, and unmarried it’s because she became traditional late in life and is an ex whore and she would have been married at 22 if she was truly traditional That entire post is so bad it's hilarious. Just dudes, primarily in the 40s and 50s, absolutely SEETHING that this clearly attractive woman didn't obey their arbitrary "rules of life for wahmens to live by". It's not as cringy as the one where the same group of older men try to deconstr…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 07:23 PM
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So men who commit violent crimes deserve absolution and a redemption arc but a young woman who tests out a new guy, consensually, every weekend during college and then decides she wants to date seriously at age 25 is.....? All the PPD males say it together now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 07:18 PM
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Do PPD men really not understand the difference between this woman didn't put out on day one and this woman was such a bad lay and the women's groups that post things like this man became verbally unhinged and started threatening me or this man tried to add my teenage daughter on Snapchat or that man is actually married to one of my friends. It's so dull it has just to be an intentional exercise in preventing male accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 07:12 PM
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PPD men - "heheh girls just need to pick better men" Women - attempt to form social network to warn other women about bad men PPD men - "ha, we'll just lie BETTER now"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 07:08 PM
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There's a whole sub on Reddit dedicated to this as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 05:18 PM
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Good grief thats gross. I completely stand by the ending of my original post. Also, you wouldn't have likely gotten into the group in my area unless you've weirdly had a girl page for a long time. They specifically look at profile history.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 05:17 PM
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So.....did you respond to the wrong person because the group I mentioned has like 100k ish men. AWDTSG ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:56 PM
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Yeah we already know redpill men are incapable of believing bad things about other men and would rather just lazily assume women are lying. Tell me something I don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:54 PM
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Of course you will ignore everything she said. She who
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:53 PM
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I actually joined a group but you think you have better insight into the ages than I do? Its all ages and I see plenty of women in their 20s and early 30s represented.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:50 PM
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The posts are hosted on trp.red because they're trying desperately to drive people over there, but the sub itself is still active. Just because the images of the women they like to make up heinous stories about are no longer hosted directly on Reddit itself doesn't mean the subs dead. Just click over there, one can read all about such riveting topics as "eggs expiring" and "woman attempts dating at the near-death age of 29".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 07:05 AM
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YOU'RE A GIIRRRL https://youtu.be/VLB_v1UMubc
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 06:22 AM
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Their primary function was to alert women about men on dating apps that are rapists, physical and emotional abusers, and cheaters. Since then, however, some (not all, some are still moderated to their original purpose) groups have started posting frivolous things After all the male whining and outrage about the existence of these groups, I actually joined my local one just to see what all the fuss was about. The stories of what some of these women have been through, that they're telling specific…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 05:15 AM
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No they did not. The main one, whereareallthegoodmen is still active and as against TOS as ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 05:10 AM
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K...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 06:54 AM
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PPD males? Yeah we know.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 06:40 AM
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And plenty of RPers slut shame. Not so different.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:01 PM
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Idk if they'd stick around a bad guy for longer or not. But truthfully I don't care? Uh-huh. Basically what I've been saying. What's the alternative, pick 80 year olds Ah yes. Clearly if you can't fuck 22 year olds, 80 year old seniors are your only other option. baggage is more so the consequence of bad experiences. And men in their thirties have none of that? Mkay.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:16 AM
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Baggage isn't a synonym for experience to me. Except, conveniently, almost all your examples correspond to the existence of previous partners. they have plenty of other options. According to redpill man logic, the young woman in the OP should have had "plenty of other options" too, due to her age. And yet, social conditioning and the lack of experience combined to make her more vulnerable to sticking around with an objectively bad dude for longer than a more experienced woman would have. Men ass…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:51 AM
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I mean, if you're feeling some kinda way about deliberately going after young women because they have "less baggage" (i.e., less experience), then you probably already know it isn't entirely ethical. Why should younger women have to put up with the "baggage" of older men?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:33 AM
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Yikes. Obsessed much?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:31 AM
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You tell me. Hit dogs holler.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 12:00 AM
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This just sounds like men making excuses to be lazy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:59 PM
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No, no need to clarify his age. My point was that it doesn't matter. You put up with the BS that he was shoveling your way for quite a bit longer than a woman with more confidence and more experience dating would have. That's in no way a judgment on you, just an example of why bad men prefer to date younger, less experienced women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:59 PM
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It may sound easier on the surface, which I still don't agree that it actually is, but the main thing that you have to keep in mind is that "easier" does not impart long-term fulfillment. Sure, a woman can get a man by switching off her brain, putting on a stupid frilly dress and giggling a lot, but have a look at Maslow's hierarchy of needs. She's never going to self-actualize and eventually that's going to come back and bite her in the ass. I wouldn't call a life lived in such a way that you'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:42 PM
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This entire post is a prime example of why shitty older men deliberately target young women. A woman in her 30s would have shut that shit down with the quickness.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:35 PM
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The whole premise was about making women feel desired. It tapped into the mental side of female sexuality that SOOO many men just ignore exists. This is the component that is being ignored both by OP asking the question the way it was phrased and, frankly, by over 90% of discussion I've seen from men on this subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:30 PM
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a scenario in which a 70 year old hobo screams at them "Hey, big tits, screw me right now!" and tries to grab their ass I like how, to tilt this question in your favor, you had to rule out a type of scenario that actually happens to women. I don't want to be "approached" by some guy practicing his shitty redpill/pua shit irrespective of how good looking he is. If he's good looking, he's more than likely a fuckboi used to getting his way who cold approaches 100 women a day looking for a place to …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:08 PM
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I take no responsibility Correct, male responsibility isn't real popular around here. Cheers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 06:30 PM
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This is like when someone gives an apology that starts with "I'm sorry you feel that way" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:43 PM
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I don't think these descriptions are insulting. Lucky for you, you've got several women in the comments willing to take the time to give you the constructive feedback that yes, they are insulting.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 11:50 PM
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Removing extreme outliers is what you’re SUPPOSED to do. Only in specific cases. It's highly doubtful this is one of them given the sample size and demographics. Once you take into account that they represent an intentionally surveyed component of his data, it's almost certainly erroneous to throw them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 11:16 PM
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Again, discounting the additional expectations women have beyond the basic ones. Buddy, you are spinning your wheels here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 11:14 PM
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Interesting, interesting. Alternatively, when people intentionally insult my entire gender by painting us as chaotic and irrational, I can take notice of it and not like it because that is also a reasonable thing to do. Cheers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:25 PM
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