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Obese. Saggy. Tatted-up. Wrinkled. Happy. In her lane. Emotionally-baggaged. Flourishing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:29 PM
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"Oh golly would you look at that fellas, turns out the secret is 'women are humans, just be normal'!" Red Pill Men: "CuckConspiracyFemoidWifeBitchesLiesAlphaBetaSigmaGammaOmegaBuxxHaxxMaxxing PumpNDump6FeetChadStatusLooks MoneyBLEARGGGHHHK"
/r/ExRedPill24/05/24 09:14 PM
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Completely agreed. Absolutely hate that we've got assholes exploiting this, and I feel the MtF trans movement absolutely has a responsibility to denounce and condemn these criminals and not give them a smokescreen. I acknowledge this is fairly easy for me to say as I'm straight (Into males), but I'd say anyone claiming to be a lesbian trans woman should perhaps be scrutinized very carefully. I want to give the benefit of the doubt and believe it's real in some cases, but I'd say we as a society …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:40 PM
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I do not think it is true at all. Is that somebody who told you that a guy? I find for some reason a lot of guys these days assume and push the myth that it HAS to be these three things. It could be and often is also personality, beliefs/ideals or lifestyle. Maybe more off the top of my head. There is no way you can logically assume you're definitely a good enough match in these other areas to the point when it MUST be looks, money or status. For instance if a guy feels entitled, is a man child,…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:15 PM
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As long as women continue to lump all men in with those men, and placing responsibility on us for things we didn't do Why do you think I worded my comment so specifically? Minority of trash men. Bigger group of semi-trash men who won't directly do the crime but cover for those who do. Then what else? NON-TRASH MEN, OBVIOUSLY. And I said women have to be cautious of men as a group. CAUTIOUS. Not "Oh lol all men are trash." FFS I'm encouraging OP and you to be decent and join us against trash men.…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 12:04 AM
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TBF it's not actually talked about much, IMO society needs more awareness re: the risks and physically deleterious effects of pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:23 PM
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Yeah. I'm a trans woman myself and lacking any other context, I'd be more a little more on guard with a trans woman than a cis woman or a trans man, and I wouldn't begrudge anyone at all for feeling the same about me if they somehow had already been made aware that I was trans. The caveat here is that IMO generally males who'd cause trouble tend not to be willing or able to fully, successfully look, sound and 100% read as a woman, so if they 100% pass and I wouldn't know they're trans without be…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:12 PM
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Uh, I was talking about trans men, i.e female to male trans, so you and the bros replying here are all barking up the wrong tree but hey, what's new huh? Arguing blindly seems to be something dumb men like doing pretty often.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:00 PM
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Oh, so I'm literally discussing trash men who give women trouble and you bring up that? Look at this you fucking ingrate: (US National Park Service) "Brown bears are omnivorous, eating a mixed diet of plants, berries, fish, and small mammals." " (Black Bears) Most of their diet consists of berries, fruit, sedges, and insects. They will also occasionally consume fish, honeycomb, and human food and garbage, so it is important to make sure to keep your items locked up with bear-proof equipment!" An…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:56 PM
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l choose bear, but you need to be aware that it's not that most of your sex (Not gender; I think most women would trust a trans man if they knew he was a trans man) is trash, it's that a certain small percentage is complete trash, but you can't tell who they are until they reveal themselves by which point they've got the upper hand plus there's a disturbing larger group of semi-trash males who might not do the exact same threatening things themselves but will act entitled and defend/be a smokesc…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:56 AM
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If you believe women are incapable I never said they were incapable. My entire post was about likelihood, largely due to the single-minded non-self-preserving mindset of violently criminal men/males. An abuser woman is likely an exploiter, an egotist, a self-righteous horrible delusional person. An abuser man is likely no longer even mentally human, more like a rabid animal or a rage zombie yet with human intelligence, social/legal protections and possibly an overactive libido. It is unfair and …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 12:18 AM
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I'll say this as objectively and non-aggressively as I can. When women abuse men, the worst outcome is likely false rape/abuse allegations (Bearing in mind how often even REAL male on female rape/abuse results in nothing happening or light sentences) or moderate injury. When men abuse women, the worst outcome is often death, severe crippling/disfiguring injury, rape or a lifetime of stressful paranoid looking over your shoulder because the man acted like or even outright said he wanted to do tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 09:56 PM
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I said they'd be suspected of being/look like a predator. Obviously whether a guy objectively is one or not depends on his actual actions. Typical, jumping to say how illogical others are when you can't even be arsed to fucking read properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 09:07 PM
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If someone willingly exposes themselves to a predator it doesn't make the predator suddenly not a predator. Hate the framing that the man is a predator. What else do you realistically expect people to call it when they see a man going for a relationship with a massive power imbalance in his favour, in a world where more than 95% of sex and violent crime is committed by men and systemic economic and sociopolitical advantages exclusively for men exist and are perpetuated by men? Not every man is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:20 PM
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Why do you assume the older person has more 'power'? A 38 year old with a mortgage and a used Tesla arguably has WAY less power and potential than a hot 23 year old.... Power in this world is down to connections, money and influence, likely in that order. The 38 year old is almost guaranteed to have more of those AND more life experience. Do you honestly think someone can beat all those factors with hotness alone? Extra: I'm 34 now. Looking back, I feel like I was a literal child at 23 in compar…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 01:16 PM
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1) Can't comment on what the common discourse is re: Passport bros because I haven't followed that discussion but my first thought when seeing them is "Ugh, dude trying to ride off the USA/Western Nation/White/First World Country Halo Effect and/or trying to score a woman from a less modernized culture unwise to his tricks/more accepting of his tradcon misogynist views, guy's likely a scumbag." 2) Fairly certain the common view re: Age Gap isn't that he's a "loser" but more that he's a predator …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 11:35 AM
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Horrendous. This is utterly disgusting rapey degenerate criminal filth, and I say that as an MtF myself. These twats deserve jail time for sexual harassment. I'd say males, regardless of gender, should either not be allowed on lesbian apps full-stop or only under very specific conditions, i.e fully passing + functioning voice + post-op and must state they are MtF on their profile. The point of MtF is to live as a woman (gender), not to menace females and make a fucking nuisance of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:15 AM
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because you have ‘purple pill woman’ in your flair Ah yeah, understandable. I use that because I'm interested in the debates that go on here and my present day social/work/dating experiences (Especially as a longtime stealth trans) are exclusively woman-gendered except for the miniscule number of people I've disclosed my sex to, but it's definitely an imperfect solution for an imperfect situation. you’re nicer than I expected though. Thanks, I do my best. Glad you can see the permanent reality o…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 07:56 AM
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who thinks women are defined by stereotypes or ‘feelings’. Apologies, but I try my best not to think that and I don't think I was saying anything like that in my comment. I was trying to describe the (mistaken) impression I got of "the tightly controlled degree of stereotypical femininity considered socially acceptable for a sensible woman to display" and saying that I'd imagine the repressive feelings about it may have been even worse for cis women due to common misogynistic attitudes towards "…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 06:09 AM
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Ah right, my bad. 🙏🏻😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:08 PM
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I'm sorry but can you clarify what you mean? You've kinda got me by surprise there and I'm a bit confused, do you want me to tell you what I think about your photos or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:01 PM
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Then sounds like you should be fine at that weight. 👌🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:38 PM
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Agreed. Even as a literal trans woman, back when I first transitioned my mindset towards femininity I'd built up from observing society was "Real women obviously don't actually wear pink, strongly enjoy cute things or actually strongly enjoy anything domestic/nurturing, that's a sexist reductive caricature of women that society forces on them. Stereotypical femininity is only socially permissible if expressed in a deliberately very understated, carefully controlled manner so one does not look li…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 08:23 PM
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I think I'd say I've started seeing a shift where "Any guy who comes near my daughter/sister is gonna meet my shotgun" type grandstanding from dads/brothers has started to be treated with skepticism and raised eyebrows questioning why such men are being violently overprotective whilst turning a blind eye/showing a patent lack of care regarding actual misogynistic treatment/threats to girls and women in the wider world.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 08:09 PM
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Well said. Just look at how much the "angry father/brother ready to beat up or kill other males who might threaten or even be interested in the women in their life" trope has been celebrated in the mainstream up until very recently. A sensible man will understand and acknowledge women's concerns and understand that supporting women gaining greater power and agency is the obvious and only sensible solution. In fact, said sensible men would be suitably wary of other men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:33 PM
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I firmly believe it is a social construct, yes. I mean have you seen how much some guys get into their non-sexual hobbies or special interests? In my experience I've even seen some cases where a group of guys were being fairly normal and it was only disrupted when a male or, unfortunately sometimes, even a female intent on pushing sex and gender stereotypes entered the group and the guys just latched onto the flow and started also acting more stereotypically sex obsessed and even crude and obnox…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:04 PM
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Okay you know this is a perfect example of this thing I find really weird that some guys do (Or at least, I have only seen guys do), and I can't tell if they're being disingenuous in bad faith or they genuinely think this itself is a logical way to think/speak. I admit I'm already annoyed but I'm also semi curious and want to try talking to somebody about this so I'll try my best to be civil. you are not being logical because you are not coming to a conclusion based on a clear set of premises, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:19 PM
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Okay first off I have no idea what the rest of you looks like so I can't say whether your face, bone structure etc. works with it, but assuming you're going for that kind of med-tall bishounen look I'd say you could be either fine weight wise or may be very slightly underweight. It's like...Slender but ideally without looking really bony, you know? Plus oftentimes with too little weight the cheeks can look a bit hollow, which is never very appealing IMO. OTOH if you don't look really bony or hol…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:51 PM
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women who say they’d rather meet a bear I’m guessing are mostly trolling. I'm not. Might be the last time I spell out the logic. I'm not worried about the average man or the average bear. I'm far more worried about the worst men than the worst bears because IMO the worst case men are genuinely harder to avoid/counter/predict. Does this mean that men should prefer to meet a bear in the woods than a strange man? Yeah. My logic is every single human being regardless of gender/sex should logically p…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:25 PM
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Gonna be honest with you, I absolutely naturally feel and want to be disrespectful when it comes to the guys who'd respond to the bear question with "See, we were right, women ARE illogical." They disrespect us with every breath, I don't see why I wouldn't feel at least a little disrespect when examining them in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:15 PM
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Women, what about men do you like? Is there anything special or unique about them? What about them do you appreciate? Also, try to avoid making it dirty. Full disclosure, that second part does make it a bit difficult for me. I'm attracted to what society calls masculine appearance and behaviour, but the thing is those absolutely can be and are sometimes replicated by women/females who are inclined towards doing so . Also because my taste in "masculine" covers multiple extremes, I'm into big buff…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:47 PM
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They think just because they need things spelled out step by step for them women do too. This is like, legit the sickest burn for shitty dudes that I have ever had the pleasure of witnessing. Thank you so much for the exquisite experience. 🍷 Also goddamn, if that flair there was on the official list I'd change to it in a heartbeat. 🐻
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:33 PM
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we now just look silly. They're coming away thinking, "Was what they were saying about women and logic right all along?". With all due respect, I think you're vastly overestimating the social capital, intelligence and numbers of the guys coming to that conclusion. Their opinions are essentially meaningless. The kind of guys who'd conclude that this proves women are illogical are perpetually frothing at the mouth trying to claim that 24/7 anyway. A human cares not for the barking of filthy stray …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:13 PM
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How do you know a man has "done enough" work to be viable? Talking to and interacting with him closely for weeks, months, possibly a year or two. Observing his psychological and emotional responses to all kinds of situations, both good and bad. Seeing him in a pressing situation is something that you can't do deliberately but does help a lot (If someone has bad traits they're harder to hide when the chips are down). What would you look for in a dating profile to indicate it, if possible? Wording…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:30 PM
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Nope nope nope, any of this game playing is a load of tosh, no sane person should want it or do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 06:09 PM
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I'm hardly a spiritual person and definitely not an ascetic, but if I'm not mistaken I think the Buddha also discourages romantic attachment and says that craving sex causes suffering...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:09 PM
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Yes. I would much rather live in a small studio appartment but have a girlfriend, than live in a mansion alone. If that is truly what you feel then, again, I believe we cannot discuss this on common ground. Our desires and values in life are too different. There is no way I would trade luxurious living conditions for a romantic partner. Thank you however, for being open and up front about it. I strongly disagree with your beliefs and do not think they are healthy, but I appreciate the honesty. N…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:41 PM
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I can almost smell the disingenuity and bad faith arguments radiating from you from across the internet and through my f!cking phone screen, but I'll humour you one time. So you think not having a girlfriend and being at minimum wage in a tiny 20sqft apartment are equal? Both would cause equal levels of discomfort to you? Really? Do they?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:55 PM
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Exactly, wtf is wrong with these guys that they can take this all the way to "Oh yeah, well if me not getting a girlfriend/wife isn't oppression then women having arbitrarily less/no income + people being homeless isn't oppression either ." Complete insanity, no logic, just entitlement, anger and sex drive behind their eyes. I was going to respond, but you've got this covered great so thanks so much. These guys are probably too far gone, but hopefully proving them wrong like this will educate ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 02:32 PM
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Most are very unhappy, many are bitter, questioning why despite doing all the things society says you should do to make yourself attractive to others, you're still not getting anywhere while other people are. firmly believe themselves to be inferior and unworthy and that it is right that nobody is interested (while still being bitter about it). "I'm studying but unlike other students I'm failing the test. I'm unhappy and bitter." "I'm a poor student, it makes sense I'm failing the test. And I fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 11:29 AM
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Frankly yeah, I'd say pretty much a want. And also actually yes I'd say we do indeed choose this shit. Like what I want to give and receive in a romantic relationship has changed over the decades, multiple times, often consciously and deliberately in response to experience and information. So yeah, I'd say I do feel like I have the freedom to choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 01:44 AM
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That's down to what you agree to trade with said woman. If you both agreed on that particular thing then sure, I'm just trying to point out that it doesn't work the same for all women and all relationships, so you have zero justification to say women owe men sex. It's an abhorrent baseless statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 01:36 AM
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Unconditional love, adoration and orgasms, a place to feel safe and nurtured. No no no no, you don't owe "women" this. You really don't. You're free to pick your own path in life. Rejoice. But they sure as f!ck don't owe you sex either. If you want to give these things to "a woman" in return for sex, then that's down to you to find a woman who agrees to the terms of that trade with you. But don't be so delusional as to believe this is some holy writ that the species is bound to follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:56 PM
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Bear's Average Thoughts: Food. Shelter. Safety. Are my cubs okay? Are there enemies nearby? Avoid danger. Bear's Worst Thoughts: This person is getting too close. They're a danger to me/my cubs. I'm hungry too. Must scare away or kill. Maybe still avoid fighting because I must not get wounded. Being wounded is death. Man's Average Thoughts: Where am I in this forest? Am I lost? Are there any predators out there? Do I have enough food to get out? How do I get outta here? Man's Worst Thoughts: Fin…
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 02:03 PM
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Many women? Honestly I don't speak to enough women about their relationship preferences to comment on what "many" women want, and I kinda doubt you do either. I do understand the general social stereotype of girls wanting "bad boys" but I'm really not sure how true it actually is, or if it's malicious men in power trying to push a narrative to excuse criminal behaviour. I will say I'm not drawn to guys I find scary. Or maybe let's rephrase that, I never find guys scary directly, but I do registe…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 10:59 AM
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Right when I was thinking "Baaaaah I'm offended/angry/sad that women say they feel safer with bears" or "Here's reams of mathy pure superior masculine logic calculations about why men are BETTERER than your stupid bears" were the most brain-dead takes I'd hear from dumb men on this subject, along comes this guy with "To be respected by women, we men should strive to be as threatening as wild bears". Will wonders never cease? I'm really, really not sure how the men who aren't this dumb can stand …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:16 AM
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Why isn’t this man considered a good ally? IMO he's a good ally if he firmly believes in and consciously supports womens' empowerment and the downfall of misogyny. The qualities you listed don't include that so I don't have enough info to say if he's a good ally or not. Why isn’t this a lifestyle that gets respect? It certainly doesn't warrant disrespect, but it doesn't automatically warrant respect either. And this isn't about man or woman, I would feel equally as neutral about a woman showing …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:03 PM
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Even factoring that in, I don't see how anyone can really believe there are enough females forcing unwilling males to penetrate them to push that statistic down any lower than 90% at absolute worst. Come to think of it even if we're being ludicrously generous and suggest only 70-80% of all rape was committed by men/males, that's still enough IMO to justify influencing people's first impressions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 09:38 AM
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https://supportingsurvivors.humboldt.edu/statistics https://www.webpages.uidaho.edu/monsters/drake/Lecture%20Notes/rape_statistics.htm If the stats have changed since these I'm sure it's still in the 90% percentile at the very least. But whatever, I could hunt for more sources (Fairly certain I saw a global UN study showing worldwide stats too) but anyone with a f!cking pulse knows this and doesn't even need numbers to prove it at this point. Franky I'm already angry I even wasted time engaging …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 08:51 AM
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Not saying being a card carrying racist is okay, but if a certain group shows certain tendencies it makes sense to have a certain degree of caution/judgement based on those tendencies. Like with all things there's obviously a certain line, but you can't just assume it's all the same and in the male crime thing, it's literally 95%+ which is pretty f!cking huge compared to any other group bias. I'm more than half Chinese, and I'll be the first to acknowledge we're sus when it comes to spitting on …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 08:29 AM
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Yes, they are. And 100% objectively justifiably so. 95%+ of all violent crime and 99% of all rapes are commited by men. Men are not all criminals, but basically every single criminal of note is a man. We'd be absolutely illogical idiots not to take this into account in basically every context imaginable. It is common sense. Edit: For those downvoting me, know that denying this simple truth deceives only yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 02:45 AM
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IMO a guy's resources matter but absolutely not in the way redpills think. To me every single relationship is transactional. For instance as far as I know I'm physically attractive, high-earning, caring/nurturing and socially entertaining. I also enjoy performing feminine romantic and sexual behaviours for anyone I am romantically interested in. Anyone I get into a relationship with therefore gets that set of benefits. So if I'm picking a guy, IMO he needs to provide enough benefits to be a clos…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 03:59 AM
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Indeed some are trying and I hope the numbers grow with time. But it's hardly easy to start and run a successful company, and many established male dominated businesses are founded upon multiple generations of generational wealth and direct patriarchal favouritism in many cases, so saying that is a bit like saying "Yeah, we cheated to get a head start, but you can come and compete with us in the same race." New female led business disruptors are indeed a necessity, but by no means a constructive…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 10:15 AM
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But where does your opinion sit on stuff like women “fresh out of college” out earning men in several professional fields on a statistical level? And for such territories your arguments could be reversed; if women are not out earning men at that age in those spheres, does that not mean she is lazy given the average earnings of women in that sphere outperforms men on average? If this is indeed happening in some areas (I'm fairly certain it's not a widespread phenomenon, yet) then I'm glad, it sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 10:07 AM
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False equivalency. If the discrimination was that obvious it wouldn't work. I'm talking about men advancing in their careers with IMO anywhere from 20-50% less effort required in general. And this is just what I see. Of course I might be wrong, but that's been my general perception in over a decade of working life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 09:48 AM
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Even if I make it to the top someday, what if I see it took me considerably more blood, sweat, tears and luck to get there than the men who are also "at the top"? That's where my feelings come from. I'm privileged AF in many senses but I keep constantly seeing the guys on my level get here a hell of a lot easier from what I can tell, at every stage of my career.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 06:50 AM
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Unpopular? Okay. Men still have so much undeserved privilege and favouritism going for them at work that "going Dutch" and similar attempts are effectively a farce. Anything about being "economically equal" between men and women is going to just end up putting the burden 60/40, 70/30 or even 80/20 on the woman rather than actually being anywhere close to 50/50. Until the wage gap and maybe more crucially, the opportunity/favour gap (Almost everyone subconsciously or consciously favouring men for…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:57 AM
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Yeah, generally mentally healthy people don't want to be anybody's sexual plaything. Sorry, I don't think I really understand what you're trying to say here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 11:27 AM
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👆🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 11:02 AM
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It can be a benefit, but whether that benefit is on a given woman's list of wants/needs is also a factor. Not to mention the ideal of attractiveness does vary to a degree based on personal taste, and has to be weighed against her other choices for investment of time and resources. Like if I'm craving a thirst-quenching lime soda on a scorching summer's day, the finest hot café latte in the world, even at 90% off or completely free of charge, would be of very little benefit to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 11:00 AM
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Exactly. The guys spamming these posts (It's the same thing on my feed every damn time, almost considering leaving this sub) whine and whine and whine but seem mentally incapable of comprehending that obviously women (And men who are sane, I'd assume) want relationships with people who are a benefit to their lives. You can think someone else would be a benefit to your life, but if you're not a benefit to theirs' then WHY WOULD THEY GO WITH YOU? WHY? WHAT WOULD BE THE POINT?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 10:30 AM
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This is indeed the logical first step - unfortunately it hasn't worked yet, even though it has worked for most of my peers. So the next logical thing to do is to look for other ways such as chasing the bag or being an aggro asshole. But I don't want to be an asshole so I go for the 1st option. I don't see how this is an unreasonable line of thinking. IMO it's unreasonable because it will lead to results that AFAIK most people don't want. Props to you for avoiding the "be an asshole" crowd but ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 06:18 AM
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Y’all will make every single excuse in the book, including ones why literal skinny 110 lbs hairless homosexuals out perform you. Pfffffffft ahahahahahaha niiiiice~! (high-fives you) 😆 I feel as if I've just taken part in probably one of the most deliberately asshole-ish displays of MtF solidarity in history but eh, some of the so-called "betabuxxer" or whatever attitudes here warrant it IMO. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:13 AM
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Height, muscles, salary, charisma, passion. Sigh, okay then, go right on ahead, be yet another man who blithely ignores what women keep saying they actually want from you ad nauseam and insists on their own criteria -> get all depresso espresso that you can't get a happy relationship -> ???? -> profit I guess? Oh well, happy romancing~!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:28 AM
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Again, if there's a stigma to the stuff you like then it is kind of on you to overcome it if you want to keep the interest...and I'm not sure if I agree you "have to" like guns, I'm a white-collar manager and I'm definitely not particularly interested in Excel or PowerPoint outside of my working hours. Not to mention a lot of women are going to question just why you find it so interesting to "use squad tactics on people" in your free time. By all means be enthusiastic if you're on the job taking…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 03:07 AM
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So you think women are irrationally on guard against normal masc guys, and the majority of single but looking masc guys out there are wonderful fellas who are just hard-done-by victims of unjust suspicion and prosecution ? Despite the extremely similar laundry lists of complaints women tend to have about the guys in their life freely available everywhere as reference for what is going wrong/what NOT to do, and obvious references available everywhere about what women ARE into? If so then yeah, ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 02:41 AM
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I'm starting to realize that when I talk about this directly with normal masc guys like I'm doing here, I find myself so often saying "It's not that simple" and...It really is not that simple. Again. There is no "these hobbies are okay, these aren't". There is no "do this" black and white list. IMO women (myself included for what that's worth) will judge you for your hobbies based on a sliding scale of what those things tend to mean in the present world and also in relation to everything else ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 02:00 AM
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Ahahahaha I'll admit I'm in the camp who does find guys like Stone Cold or The Rock attractive (Though that said I do like me some Ryan Reynolds or Henry Cavill types too) and hotter than Harry Styles, but regardless of aesthetic a guy would absolutely need that ideal caring persona projected by stuff like One Direction/any popular "softer" boy band celebs etc. for me to even consider...Which circles around back to why guys like Harry Styles are popular, and still highlights the "women don't wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 01:47 AM
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But the thing is neither me nor this other person was trying. The straight women (So not LGBT dating per se, unless you mean those straight women thought of it as "Imma attempt dating this specifically LGBT person") approached us, and we weren't interested or looking. Unless of course you mean to suggest that women have their guard up around regular men SO MUCH to the point where, upon seeing me and this other person back before we transitioned, those women in our lives just thought "Huh this su…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 01:27 AM
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"If we have accepted our fate, what's the optimal game plan? Should we just focus on money/status/career then find a girl who is looking to 'settle down'?" It's just crazy how so many guys are so quick to do "try getting money to attract women" or the more unhinged "act like a big dick aggro alpha bossman to attract women" yet the option of "be an attractive, interesting and appealing guy" just doesn't seem to be on the radar even though you'd think that would be the logical first step. Also I f…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:24 PM
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Well there you go, maybe it's time for you to try "enjoying looking good, take pride in your appearance AND also being fully aware that makes you attractive to others". I can't guarantee that will get you a relationship. No one can. But I think doing this is part of why women tend to be mentally healthier, so I highly recommend it. Try to make your life a happy experience to live, relationship or no.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:58 AM
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Continuing to prove my point. It's not just a flat "I'm doing this to attract a mate." Can a woman not enjoy looking good, take pride in her appearance AND also be fully aware that makes her attractive to others? The answer is yes, right? Even straight women are always quick to acknowledge a beautiful woman. Men, on the other hand, largely show complete disinterest. Which is fair enough, that's a valid choice, you've got some women who don't bother either. The issue is that the women who don't c…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:43 AM
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Men eventually got over their preferences and are attracted to non feminine men. Womens preferences have not changed to reflect the change in the world. That is their fault. Strange homoerotic typo aside, I'm guessing you mean to say that men are attracted to "non feminine", non submissive women but women pushed for the world to change, yet basically insist on wanting 6-foot-tall big dick warlord god-kings with untold riches? If so, this is a talking point that I keep seeing quite a few men repe…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:26 AM
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I can't be bothered to get much further involved in this debate past my initial comment...But I will point out that the mentality and tone radiating off your replies here basically utterly proves my point about your average guy's attitude. "Women do A B C D and have this fancy lingerie and stuff, since when do men 'try harder'?" "Who gives a flying fuck? The clothes come off when we fuck anyway." It didn't even take a day for a literal glowing textbook example of what I'm talking about to appear…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:10 AM
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Because in our culture, the average man does a piss-poor job of being intellectually, aesthetically, personally or even sexually appealing to women and most do not seem interested in or capable of doing any better. When you factor in that men having a higher chance of being able to provide financially is pretty much down to thankfully decreasing male privilege which is hardly appealing at all either since the prospect of exchanging sexual and emotional intimacy for money with an unfairly privile…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:01 AM
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Devil's advocate...Or maybe angel's advocate considering how stupid I think the original premise is really, but whenever I've heard women friends say that, 1) They don't say "ugly" and they mean "giving a chance" as in "This is an investment of time, effort and money (Because even if he pays for everything, going to see the guy isn't free and ofc taking tine away from earning and self maintenance) for a guy who could be massively incompetent, entitled, obnoxious or in the worst case an outright …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 02:37 AM
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IMO yes. Simplifying but IMO I'd say most people should be meh to okay alone. With a teammate (Can be a partner, a trusted friend or a trusted family member) they should be hitting okay, good or awesome in the best cases. Bear in mind I don't just mean money earned, even if this is a factor. I've seen some very high earners who, due to their private/home lives and physical/mental health being a complete trainwreck, I'd call outright bad or meh or at most okay. Anyone who can't manage these level…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 09:24 AM
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Why would one need a partner at all if you strive to be independent? Apes together strong But apes alone also okay, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 08:19 AM
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Many flaws in this logic. 1) You're assuming that if men are more willing to do Dangerous, Dirty work then it follows that they should be in charge. It should be obvious that picking your group's leader based on who's got the greatest tolerance for risk and physical suffering is far from a guaranteed recipe for success. 2) You're assuming that women in dire straits wouldn't rather do such work rather than struggle by on welfare, contemplate prostitution or other dead end jobs with no career grow…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:34 PM
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Be that as it may, the point was about how human society has generally been getting more progressive with time, women as a group are getting more progressive yet men as a group are actually getting more conservative, which honestly IMO is an extremely bizarre choice that I can only chalk down to a significant number of men actually trying to preserve older patriarchal norms, which I definitely interpret as a black mark against the group's character.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 10:39 AM
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My opinion, women are superior. The way so many men are becoming deranged, depressed or violent over not being able to get a sexual partner whereas women function perfectly fine without one. No sane person would listen to the MRA/manosphere types yet a significant number of men do, with men as a whole even skewing more conservative with new generations. The mountains of stories about men leaving piss or dirty laundry on the floor, being dirt blind, acting like manchildren in relationships with w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:20 AM
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I can't Google it just this moment, but IIRC men are more prone to mental illness/disorders as a whole so I personally doubt the veracity of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:39 AM
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Okay, no personal attacks, fair. But then maybe please also moderate every man here saying women live life on easy mode because they can whore themselves for money. As a working woman who puts in anywhere from 8-10 hours working every weekday and then comes home to chores and spends most of my weekend exhausted but still doing chores/home upkeep stuff, that feels like a personal attack against me and women like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:28 PM
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Get yourself out of this male victim mindset. You just described the female equivalent of a young dude getting into a life of crime, likely involving drug dealing or insider trading or something, striking it big and living a fast life of luxury, high highs and low lows and insane risk that's all likely to eventually burn away even if you don't get killed/maimed first. It's the high-risk unsustainable lifestyle of choice for a given sex/gender, and it is almost guaranteed not to work out in the e…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:22 AM
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I'm trying to defend cold approaches in general because that's how people meet new people. I don't know what kind of f!cked culture you come from but in my 33 years of life I have never registered cold-approaching random strangers outside as anything approaching a way to meet new people. Seriously, WTF? because of all the cold approaches that have already happened to them. That's their privilege. A "privilege" I and I'm sure any sane woman would gladly lose. You are an utter fool if you think ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:27 PM
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I've never heard that saying, but I think it's stupid. Sadly we have certain men and women in this society who would be into it though, to believe, consciously or unconsciously, that conflict between people (And I'm wording it this way because although these people openly want to see male on male competition first, they actually love seeing any human competition) is what makes us stronger. These are the guys who will start a fight at the drop of a hat. The women who seem to get excited and incre…
/r/ExRedPill20/03/23 09:38 PM
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Fits what I've seen. My mother and her sisters were eternally competing for who was the better mother with a better family. The biggest female woman-haters I've seen are mothers or the kind of young woman who dreams of becoming a mother. It is abhorrent and ridiculous. My (female) best friend's mother starved her to give her brothers money to go out dating girls. My mother slandered every woman she saw who wasn't clearly ugly and poor, and even then she'd bite into some of those too. Woman in a …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 11:47 AM
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Oh hey, it's cool, I mean I have my personal experiences, but I'm like one person in our disturbingly-huge 8 billion population and I've probably met far less than even 0.005% of the people in the world. Maybe you are truly that rare person who actually does the "friend to every living thing" bit and isn't biased towards men. I don't know you and will probably never meet you so I'll just say I have no basis to assume you're not telling the truth, and awesome job at being that kind in this world!…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 05:28 AM
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The "unconditionally kind good girl/woman". She is unwaveringly kind, gentle and giving, always putting others first no matter what. She will help, soothe and care for absolutely anyone with motherly perfection. She will even take time to sit and nurture absolutely vile people, always seeing the good in them and willing to throw herself wholeheartedly into helping them achieve it no matter how they scorn or hurt her. She is a lovely daughter, sister, wife and mother. She is beloved by all, and o…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 09:50 PM
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In addition, this insane upside down world that men and their sycophants have created is literally predicated upon enslaving those big-hearted people and disillusioning/scaring others away from helping. I originally wanted to be a police officer as a child because I reasoned bad men are scary, so I'm willing to risk dying to help get rid of bad men to make everyone feel safe. It felt like the right thing to do. In response, my mother said "You'll be paid peanuts, torn apart like prey by your fel…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 08:53 PM
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Totally agree. It's exploitation of the highest order, and the men responsible and the women who support them should be punished for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 08:39 PM
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But I can complain about how men sneak away to not do them and then underpay them like hell, in effect creating a society where all the money is unevenly distributed towards "male" jobs whilst being strategically taken away from "female" jobs, even though these jobs are also vital to society. It's just a macro version of how men use weaponized incompetence to get women to do their housework and manage the household. "I'm going to deprive/underpay/mistreat you and avoid these duties while I force…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 08:31 PM
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Damn shawty, why dont u come do it yourself? You make me want to you smarmy motherf!cker. I've already been carrying weapons every single day and have practiced martial arts since I was 7. Only reason I don't have a gun is that it's not legal where I am. But you realize that's tens of thousands of hours of my life spent training and being paranoid just to get ready to fight off some horny stray dog subhuman men? You see how f!cking unfair that is? Citizens defending themselves is a band-aid solu…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 01:13 PM
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Well me and the female friends I have in my life aren't like your f!cking sisters. We have to do our own physical stuff. All the time. Shit breaks in the house? We fix it ourselves, who else? Not a complaint, just a statement to you that just because your sisters lean on you does not mean every woman does, and don't you forget it. Yall cant even go outside at night without fearing for your safety. Obviously Im not safe either but I dont have to fret nearly as much as yall. And this part makes my…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 12:10 PM
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What complicates this in practice is that cleanliness often bleeds over into health. More dust = more respiratory blockage and contaminants= weakened immune system = more likely to get sick. Sloppy dishwashing= bacteria on the dining ware = more likely to get sick. More sick = more likely to die. And even worse, as with many things, the one who puts in more effort will carry the team on their back. And this applies in small ways to almost everything. The lower-standard person doesn't need to rec…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 05:59 AM
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Male promiscuity is the most unnatural thing ever. You are the first person I've seen say this online and I am so happy to hear it. I agree wholeheartedly, a lot of their behaviour around it is downright freakish. I really hope this view catches on, would make the world safer.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 05:37 AM
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Men's promiscuity also triggers early puberty thats a baseless and illogical assumption. I'm no expert, but I wouldn't be surprised. I was sexually harassed by my father and older brother and outright frightened as a child by the male sexuality I saw in media and the behaviour of males in my family, their social circles and at school and I had an early puberty. false, male promiscuity is normal, it's abnormal for children to be disturbed by that, and men are mostly not around children in nature …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 05:36 AM
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Lastly, when I've been blatantly direct about my intentions, I've been told that I have to be more subtle, and dance around the intentions, only communicating them indirectly. I think this is bad advice. Unless you're literally walking up to a girl you've never met and saying "You are beautiful and I want you to be my wife and birth me many babies", I think being direct is the only way both parties should communicate. The only caveat to that is I would give women more leeway with being indirect;…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 05:10 AM
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You said "feminists", not "radical feminists" specifically. I've seen a lot of men who get really manipulative when trying to discuss sexism, so I and many women will naturally suspect you of the same. Best be cautious with your wording. Not to mention the very fact you say most feminists want female supremacism already shows you don't know much about the movement. Although I'm curious about why you say "at least I think that's what I have to support". You don't "have to" do anything, but don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 04:34 AM
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If men "waking up" is what gets us macro-scale social failures like the Taliban, I'd argue that men should be opposed to "men waking up" too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 03:25 AM
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Amen to that. A ton of this sub's content sounds like it highlights this dichotomy. All the dangers and injustices in the world for women that we're trying to fight to redress, yet here we've got tons of men basically all chanting some variation of "Women don't like me/won't have sex with me - I'm hateful and angry about it and want them to be forced to do so under threat of punishment". It's like this is their first, last and only concern in life. This is why I cut men out of my life. Most of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 03:23 AM
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Oh look, a man projecting what he wants onto women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 03:16 AM
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Gender gangsterism? I'd say a lot of men do gender thuggism, gender serial killer ism, gender psycho pedo rapistism. As OP says, destructive women are annoying idiots. Destructive men are recruits for the groups of violent idiots that fail civilization like the Taliban. What does that say? That is why the right move for any man these days is not play the game - just keep women out of your life and you will be happy. We don't really need them. They need us. That is what we don't realize, especial…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 03:13 AM
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And like an entitled modern Western man you ignore the fact that whilst less immediately physically dangerous (Although you also probably don't appreciate the risk of catching a disease from an old person, filthy child or patient), a lot of those jobs have the inherent danger of locking you into a low-income field with no other relevant career experience. Poverty and financial instability are a common danger of our times, yet society imposes it on often-financially-unprivileged women who do thes…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 03:03 AM
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Not to mention how society has collectively made a sacrifice of everyone in those jobs by criminally underpaying and underappreciating them. Personally I do think there's also a certain lack of people in those jobs rebelling and demanding more fair pay for the difficult work they do, but that's partially due to a fair number of people in those fields coming from unprivileged backgrounds where they don't have a huge amount of choice in their career paths or mounting worker's strikes, so I still b…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 02:58 AM
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Men get paid, respected and taken seriously more because they earn it working within a system that is biased against them. So your logic is "I'm given more than you because everyones biased against me but I powered through"? That sounds like the biggest victim-hero complex I've ever heard, so yes, we are indeed at one hell of an impasse.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 04:24 PM
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I am always so tired of hearing this. I normally don't bother explaining this anymore. But I've had a bad day so I will explain it to you, almost as a rant. Does the term male privilege mean nothing to you? Paid more. Taken more seriously. Respected more. Less targeted by sexual predators, criminals and general violent men meaning EVERYTHING is inherently safer for you. There are even certain actually well paying blue collar jobs exclusive to you because you know, men literally sexually harass a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 02:09 PM
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What are the number of incels murdering people v the number of femcels trying to ruin men's lives (this is rhetorical as we don't know) Its not as black and white as we think. I will admit, yeah accurate numbers for that will be impossible without a significant tech jump. However I still stand by my point that it's infinitely easier to counter. In fact I'd like to add it's infinitely easier to avoid too, because the psycho-social assault of a malicious woman is only possible if you're connected/…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 10:30 AM
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Still less dangerous and less of a social problem. If someone tries to psychologically ruin you you can walk away, try to rally support/convince others to turn against them, cut them out of your life. In the absolute worst and most stalkery cases tell the police, put out a restraining order and if there's really no other choice relocate, change your phone number and block them on all online platforms/ditch your old accounts. It's a lot of trouble, but even in the very worst cases there's somethi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 09:50 AM
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I'd say they have it worse and are less privileged than incels, but as people they're better. Like someone else has pointed out, femcels don't wake up one day and decide to murder innocent people in a violent temper tantrum the way some incels do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 08:31 AM
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Any time a random man approaches a woman, there is a very high chance she's already anticipating the possibility of a physical altercation because of historical precedent. Even a choice to ignore you is stressful for the woman, because you might respond badly to that too. Any time I'm approached by a random man my mind is basically in alert mode going "How do I remove myself from this situation as quickly as possible in a way that won't trigger this guy? I don't know if he has bad intentions but…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 12:22 AM
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Weird how women complain that 'all men want is sex' until that Chad comes along and she's fucking THROWING it at him This tired old argument. I've heard this so many times I'm getting to think it's a weird kind of projection, you guys throw yourselves at hot women so you want to believe that women throw themselves at hot men. Plus, the entire concept of "Chad" is laughable. You really think there's some "omni-man" square-jawed buff big-dick rich guy with a baritone voice who makes almost any wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 06:07 AM
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If an ordinary man has the same libido and the same attitude to sex as an ordinary woman, then he is even more screwed than with a high libido and a constant desire to have sex with women. Because he has no motivation (just like the average woman towards men) to approach and ask them out. But if no one makes the first move, the women around him end up with men who make the first move. Precisely because these men are motivated by higher libido and primary sexual desire. 1) I kind of imply it in m…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:52 AM
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Yeah, I think they're confused but to be completely honest I also think most mothers, from my experience, have a completely overblown estimation of how desirable and nice their son is (Which sadly also leads to a lot of said sons overestimating themselves, not necessarily through inherent fault but just through being raised that way). To begin with, compared to women, men are generally: Not very aesthetically pleasing (I think even straight women seem to find women more aesthetically pleasing th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:07 AM
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Uhhh, no shit? You can find whoever you want gross, I'm not stopping you. I'm sure literally no woman really cares about who you're refusing to date either. I was just trying to point out that the overwhelming majority of male attention women get is of extremely questionable quality, who you find gross doesn't change that fact. You can't call women rude for ignoring stuff they consider well below their grade.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 02:58 PM
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(Assuming you mean physical attractiveness/desire) As with all things, if you're unhappy you need to change something. You need to either not care about being desired anymore or become a desired person. To be honest? I believe men will never and can never be as desired as women for the simple fact that women are more aesthetically pleasing. A good looking woman will be younger, more pleasant and healthier looking than a good looking man due to various hormonal and face/body shape factors. I thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:47 AM
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women ignore the vast majority of male attention that comes their way, this is an undeniable fact and its rude and women should be judged for it in the sense that men should be less willing to date them as they age Date whoever you want dude, women honestly don't give a crap. Just remember that when it comes to "women ignoring the vast majority of male attention", there's a really good quote I saw on Reddit that comes to mind for me (Paraphrasing): "I might be hungry, I might not be hungry. But …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:30 AM
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I think they both care equally little or as much about each other. However, I think the difference comes from this. All romantic relationships are based on a mix of sex and resources. It's just that a man's attraction to a woman is more heavily based on sex, whereas a woman's attraction to a man is more heavily based on resources. It is this way due to the sociopolitical factors of our species. Ergo, it may superficially appear that a man cares more at times because the main value he sees is in …
/r/ExRedPill14/01/23 07:05 PM
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