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Fr. Completely dehumanizing
/r/ExRedPill14/02/24 03:45 PM
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Really? I wouldn’t care if a guy had like, a gay orgy or something. It doesn’t make them less attractive in my eyes.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/24 10:23 PM
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Lmfao no im not? I don’t date dude’s taller than 5’10. I prefer them to be 5’8-5’9. Im 5’7. You have serious mental health issues if you think women only date super hot guys and no one else. You’re brainwashed. Im a STEM major so I don’t need some rich guy anyway
/r/ExRedPill11/11/23 08:45 PM
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I like short fat guys lmfao. They don’t need to be employed either. You’re really weird
/r/ExRedPill11/11/23 06:09 PM
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They’ve said a lot of fucked up shit about rape. Just shy of saying “rape is the women’s fault” out loud. Like JUST shy of outright saying it. They’re really sick people
/r/ExRedPill11/11/23 01:13 AM
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Someone already said it but r/bropill. It’s not a male only sub, but it’s largely made up of men. It’s a really positive and uplifting place and there is a specific time where relationship advice is allowed so you won’t be bombarded by it
/r/ExRedPill20/08/23 09:13 PM
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Sure. I would marry a man who regularly had orgies before we met. I don’t get what all the fuss is about.
/r/ExRedPill08/08/23 01:52 PM
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You said muscular and fit guys. Now you’re changing your tune and saying fat dudes now? Whatever makes you seem correct, right mr. Misogynistic Throwaway account? Lol. I don’t want some dude to protect me, i want a thicc guy to squish. Edit: I don’t understand why it’s so difficult for dudes here to understand I like fat guys. “You obviously mean the handsome muscular ones because women are evil vapid beings! Im blocking you now so you can’t say otherwise!” I like fat dudes period. You guys are …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 08:27 PM
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I love men period. Especially those in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 07:17 PM
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I like fat guys
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 07:14 PM
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I never said she was an escort anywhere in my comment. I said I heard people talking about it in some versions of the story. Why would I push a narrative about some random guy I don’t know anything about
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 07:11 PM
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Doesn’t bother me at all
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 09:56 PM
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4, 8, 11, 9 (wants kids), 5
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 09:14 PM
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I just do whatever I want 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 09:06 PM
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Maybe it’s just me but I HATE attention so I can’t imagine wanting this. The idea of being someone’s main focus is TERRIFYING. I want the kind of relationship where everything is chill and we just coexist. Im also extremely bashful and shy away from romantic attention because it’s just too much for me, being desired by someone is just… odd. Especially in a sexual manner. Idk if its because it basically never happens to me and im just not used to it but I often have to avert my eyes if someone is…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 09:04 PM
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I don’t get any attention so idk what you’re on about
/r/ExRedPill27/04/23 12:21 AM
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No.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/23 12:03 AM
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No they weren’t. You live in incel fantasy land that’s why you think that. It’s got nothing to do with “culture”
/r/ExRedPill26/04/23 11:51 PM
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What the fuck. I was playing Spyro on the Ps2 at age 13-14 💀 in fact im 23 and still haven’t had sex. Little girls aren’t getting dick dude. Not consensually at least
/r/ExRedPill26/04/23 11:29 PM
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Cool unhinged rant. Im professionally diagnosed with 4 different diagnosis, many of which I’ve had since childhood and I’ve been in therapy for over a decade (both psychotherapists AND psychiatrists gasp), The fact that the first thing you think of when someone mentions that therapy is good is cringy ass kinds on tiktok faking mental illness is not good. There are real mentally ill/disabled people like me but fuck that because kids on tiktok make you angry. You definitely need therapy. Therapy h…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:43 AM
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It’s so funny how people who need therapy the most think it’s bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 10:39 PM
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When it gets pushy and desperate. Constant onslaught of attention and texts freaks me out because the guy seems nuts. Otherwise it’s lovely 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 10:23 PM
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they weren’t buying flowers that’s for sure LMFAO they were definitely smashing each others heads in 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 10:21 PM
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Having preferences is not misogynistic/misandry. Im starting to think people on this sub don’t know what misogyny/misandry IS to begin with. mi·sog·y·ny /məˈsäjənē/ noun dislike of, contempt for, or ingrained prejudice against women. mis·an·dry /məˈsandrē/ noun dislike of, contempt for, or ingrained prejudice against men (i.e. the male sex). Not wanting to date a fat girl or a short guy is NOT misandry/misogynistic. Blatantly hating someone because of their gender IS misandry/misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:27 PM
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This is a shitty person thing, not a gender thing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:22 PM
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It’s literally JUST a tiktok filter. It basically just slaps some male features on a female face, how would that look good in any circumstance?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:51 AM
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Oh sweet! A schizo thread!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:39 AM
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Holy shit finally. A post that doesn’t feel like trudging through sewage when im reading it. I absolutely agree. I also personally believe it can be appealing to men that have/had little control in their life, as a lot of aspects of RP are VERY control oriented. Like maxing out your appearance (gym, clothes, hygiene, hair cuts, etc) and the creepy PUA stuff that RP sometimes contains (that weird psychological manipulation stuff, not having a script/maximizing the amount of women you approach for…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:30 AM
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Dude every other post is about how to manipulate women or how we are evil golddigging whores who only want to be fucked by “chad”. Don’t play dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 10:17 PM
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??? I never said anything about that. It’s just disheartening to see basically an entire subreddit hate you or see you as something to capture for their own gain
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 10:10 PM
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Im not a math person but I’ll take your word for it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 02:43 PM
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I mean it’s just an orgasm. I don’t even need anyone else to do that. It seems the appeal is the other person, to me at least. Like the only way I would allow someone to stick their genitals in me is if I love them and they enrich my life with their presence/complete me. Otherwise I just don’t see the appeal. I actually didn’t understand sex as a loving act until i was like 16 also. It’s most likely just the asexual part of me that doesn’t get it. I’ll probably understand once i start going stea…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 09:22 PM
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Ah okay! No worries. Thanks for sharing :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:46 PM
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I love cooking and im very good at it. My family often asks me to cook for holidays, I got that on lock at least lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:38 PM
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We can’t win man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:37 PM
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My intent wasn’t to upset you or make you the bad guy. Can you blame me for thinking that when you spoke about my sexuality as if it’s a problem? That’s part of me man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:33 PM
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Ik mfs act like if you don’t have sex you die or something. I bet it’s not even that good and is overhyped like most stuff is these days
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:31 PM
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Thank you! Thank you! I’ll be here all night! Lol jk. These types of people really piss me off. At this point it’s borderline personal LMFAO. They gather all this knowledge, and instead of being like: “wow the world is amazing! So much has happened and will happen! I can’t wait to share it with people!” They decide they’re some sort of ultra intelligent demigod 💀 im a STEM student so my life is chock full of mfs like this unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:13 PM
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Yeah I know. Regardless, my point still stands. I have a mental disability so people like that would probably patronize me to feel superior. I’ve had it happen before.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:06 PM
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Holy moly who pissed in your cornflakes? If anything i should be the one with an attitude considering the fact that you think im SO stupid i’d have never considered how my sexuality would affect my dating life! All I said is your comment seemed to SUGGEST that. If that’s not the case then just say so. No need to get your panties is a bunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:04 PM
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Im not interested in dating someone who claims they have an IQ of 140. I steer clear of people who value that sort of thing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:57 PM
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Oh, OK. Sorry I had to make some assumptions to give you semi decent advice bc i thought you were really struggling lol.I really appreciate you being respectful and you taking interest in asexuality, its really refreshing! So the official definition of asexuality is as follows: little to no sexual attraction. As you said, asexuality is a spectrum and there are quite a few micro labels. I for one am demisexual. Demi meaning half, because I only experienced the second half of sexual attraction, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:03 AM
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I forgot to mention, you could benefit very much from therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:44 PM
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Oh, I misunderstood what you meant! I thought you were saying you were asexual and you were asking for a pill to cure unwanted horny. I understand now that you’re expressing a desire to be asexual? Well, unfortunately, being asexual doesn’t save you from being horny. Most of us still half libidos, some of us even have a very high ones. It’s the sexual attraction that we don’t have to varying degrees depending on the type of asexual you are. my body still does whatever it wants even though my bra…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:39 PM
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LMFAO if only! Unfortunately we do not control the horny 😞✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:25 PM
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I was WAITING for this! You guys always have the same reaction! So predictable. You behave completely out of line, but if ANYONE gets upset it’s not YOUR fault, oh no not at all! Everyone is just sensitive, or lacking in self awareness, or unintelligent, or easily offended, or whatever negative trait you pull out of your ass. The fact is, when you treat people poorly, they will defend themselves! Your actions have consequences, and you think with the way you speak to people as if you’re some sup…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:18 PM
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Oh my GOD!! PLEASE forgive me for making a typo sir! Im so foolish! You are clearly superior to me in every way 🥺 /S you are possibly the most insufferable individual I have ever interacted with. I know the difference between your and you’re, my phone auto filled it in and I forgot to change it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 10:28 PM
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so how are you going to grow with any experience? I don’t need to fuck to develop as a person your OCD might make it difficult to develop communication skills OCD does not affect ability to communicate. I’ve had it since kindergarten and I’ve been in therapy for 13 years. Im a grown woman, I don’t need my mental disorder explained to be by some random guy who knows nothing about it or me. just be honest about your asexuality with your partners Why wouldn’t I be? Why are you explaining things to …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 10:26 PM
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First of all, I said I don’t feel primary sexual attraction which means I don’t feel sexual attraction unless a deep romantic/platonic bond has formed. I can feel sexual attraction and I want to have sex. which will complicate things for you further No shit. I didn’t need some random guy online to explain how my sexuality affects my dating life. Also you’re comment seems to suggest I both should and posses the capacity to change that, I can’t. I’ve been this way my whole life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 10:17 PM
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I don’t hook up because Im on the asexual spectrum and I don’t feel primary sexual attraction. You suggesting I hook up is like suggesting a guy try going bi to “step out of his comfort zone”. It’s part of who I am, not because i think its wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 10:03 PM
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Very interesting and while I agree can you explain what part of my post prompted you to mention this? I think its a great reply but i don’t know exactly what part of my comment you are replying to so im only getting half a picture lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 10:01 PM
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Ah okay. I understand. People’s behaviour definitely varies by nation. I wont deny that, but the vibes your post gave off (to me anyway) was kind of race fetish-y (like how guys talk about asian women being delicate/submissive and how they make the perfect waifu) and that kind of affected my interpretation of your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 09:57 PM
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Okay I understand what you’re getting at now. However, my point still stands. It’s most likely you just encountered two women with different personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 09:48 PM
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LMFAO
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:32 PM
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Im also in the EXACT same situation as you and im a woman. All the stuff you mentioned is the exact same for me (no hooking up, no sexual experience, no one wanting a genuine relationship, etc.) it’s less of a gendered thing and more that people like us are uncommon as a whole
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:04 PM
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What im saying is while different countries have different expectations for each sex, you running into an American woman and her being rude isn’t necessarily because she’s a an American woman, more obvious and likely factors come into play besides gender, like how she simply could be a spoilt brat or she has a pushy personality. If I put 5 American women and 5 latina women in front of you they will most likely all behave differently because they have different personalities and experiences. Like…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 07:57 PM
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Yes that and hygiene because I could get sick. Im not very picky looks wise and could possibly even find a redeeming physical feature he has as i can with most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 07:34 PM
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proceeds to say you can make generalizations about people based on nationality Are you dumb? Different countries have different dynamics and expectations for each sex. I never said HOW it would be different i just said it would be because it’s a COMPLETELY DIFFERENT COUNTRY. In india people mainly eat with their hands, even things like rice because it’s how their culture is. In america we do not do that and mainly eat with utensils. That is a fact makes our cultures different.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 07:32 PM
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Well either way I wouldn’t enjoy it. If I HAD to I would pick the girl because she is more trustworthy(unlikely to hurt me while the misogynist would be more likely because he hates women) but probably feel sick after because im not into girls and see them as sisters. If the guy wasn’t an asshole and cleaned himself I would kiss him because I wouldn’t feel repulsed after
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 07:28 PM
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Uh well have you ever considered this is not a gendered this and you just spoke to gasp women with different experiences and personalities!? If anything it would be a cultural difference that isn’t necessarily limited to gender. Im sure if I went to latin america and met a group of men they would be different from american men because they are from a completely different country
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 07:23 PM
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Yeah you’re right. I never got a straight definition so i got confused
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 07:07 PM
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Oh okay. Im not super socially adept so I get shit mixed up. My bad
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:20 PM
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Im wondering if red flag means something different to me. My red flags are shit like violence, homophobia, misogyny, disregard for consent, etc. and are to be avoided entirely. Not just a bad sign or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:18 PM
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wow im so misogynist! Glad you agree
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 01:27 PM
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Dude what are you talking about. Did u reply to the wrong person? I never said any of that. If you think women can’t love their partners fully and only men can you’re a misogynist. Like wtf is that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 02:40 AM
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Dude I know life isn’t fair, im not insisting men should date me, but you’re possibly eliminating perfectly good women by having this red flag for no reason. Idk i just think it doesn’t make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 12:05 AM
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So my dad leaving me at age 6 is a red flag? Red flags are usually things people do or how they act. I have plenty of male role models in my life and a healthy perception of men. I don’t have any crazy emotional problems because my dad left me, im a well adjusted person. But I would be overlooked in this case solely my dad left when it hasn’t caused me problems
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 12:00 AM
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What if she didn’t get the chance or he hurt her? My dad had a psychotic break, remarried to some random woman in like 4 moths and joined a cult in mexico. I loved him when i knew him but i haven’t seen him in a decade and he never supported us. How is that my fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 11:56 PM
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oil, which ironically women environmentalists love to hate Every environmentalist hates oil 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 11:53 PM
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Yeah pretty much. I was excited because I wanted to have a sub with equal discussion but lo and behold 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 08:34 PM
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I wouldn’t have said it if your comment wasn’t bs 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 04:59 PM
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You can send all the paragraphs you want dude but you straight up automatically assumed this girl has ridiculous standards for no reason. You can call yourself purple pilled all you want but that’s blackpill shit. Clearly you aren’t aware that you’re frustrated with women, it was made very obvious in your first comment. You were definitely irritated that this girl is having a hard time and couldn’t connect with a good guy, you felt attacked by it. Stop focusing on shit you can’t control and just…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:36 PM
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No bro YOU need to touch grass if you automatically assume all women are shallow gold diggers bc “muh statistics”. Im living proof that’s not the case. I hope you’re young and this is a maturity issue you grow out of.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:09 PM
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Privileged because i kissed a guy?? You are mental. Im poor, mentally disabled and mentally ill. Im on wellfare because can’t work. YOU tell ME all knowing one. Lmfao it was the only kiss I’ve ever had too 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:06 PM
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What the fuck is wrong with you? I wasn’t fucking raped. You mfs always cry about false rape accusations then accuse a guy I had a consensual encounter with a fucking rapist? Go fuck yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 01:57 PM
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Sure. Whatever keeps you in your shitty bubble pal
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 11:41 AM
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That’s really kind of you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 11:41 AM
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Awe that’s so nice to hear! I’d like talking to you too by the sounds of it :)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 11:40 AM
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I love nerdy hobbies. I take part in them myself, I’d definitely date a guy who’s into that stuff. But you probably won’t believe me due to your lack of grip on reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 11:39 AM
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okay so what do you want? Nothing? Like this is part of the human experience. Nothing can really be done about it either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 11:36 AM
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Ask them what? To date? Im not dating rn but I approach/get approached by them at bars when I go. Made out with one semi-recently
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 11:35 AM
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Sure pal
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 11:35 AM
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I’ve been rejected because i wasn’t hot enough, that’s just life. I just move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 01:44 AM
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You literally called every single woman shallow 💀 “I don’t hate women, i just think they’re ignorant, shallow, vindictive and immature!” Isn’t the good take you think it is. Every day I pray to God to keep men like you away from me and send me a kind, loving man to be my husband. I haven’t encountered any of you irl so im happy with that. Good luck with your undoubtedly miserable life that has arisen from your blatant hatred for 50% of the population i guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 01:33 AM
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I never said that’s how it worked. I literally specified that’s what I would like to see so i suggested it. It’s what draws me to people. Sorry you women hating weirdos can’t wrap your head around people having different tastes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 01:23 AM
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Nah I like short thick dudes 🤤 Edit: stay hating. I know what I like and it’s big boys ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 01:19 AM
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Okay? I don’t care what you think of it, just don’t follow it then. Im literally just suggesting things I like as a woman, sorry not everything is moulded to fit your tastes and desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 01:19 AM
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Okay bro 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 01:16 AM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 12:21 AM
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No because I don’t care. I don’t desire male attention or anyone else’s. I have my family and two childhood best friends, all I need really. Sorry you need other people’s approval to feel validated. Sounds shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 11:05 PM
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I said that because I feel drawn to people like that. I get no male attention or attention in general
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 10:58 PM
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what your discribing is a dark triad individual Yeah and he fucking used those fucked up PUA tactics I was talking about because they are one and the same. Why the fuck is that so hard for you to understand. I made it very clear that not all PUA is manipulative but the emotional manipulation part IS. Both narcissistic people and PUA dudes sometimes use the same tactics. It’s been observed for a very long time. Using a script and holding eye contact to build intimacy on purpose is NOT MANIPULATIO…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 10:20 PM
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Yes autistic people are definitely more at risk. My brother would do almost anything for other peoples approval and friendship. I support him the best I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 10:08 PM
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Yeah I know well adjusted men are usually out in the wild LOL. It’s just astonishing how being in an echo chamber warps one’s perspective so quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 10:03 PM
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Are you talking about the one where you discussed your disability? Im also mentally disabled/mentally ill myself and people definitely pick up on it. Especially men. I have even gotten asked if I was on drugs quite a few times and other ruder comments. I really empathize with you on this, dating with a disability is fucking hard regardless of the kind of disability, even for women and we both know women usually have an easier time dating. When Im not trying to hide the fact im disabled and act l…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 10:01 PM
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This! Also don’t be afraid to be confident and show off the best parts of you/knowledge about the hobby (not to loudly or arrogantly obviously) when you put out confident, smart, upstanding energy like that people are naturally drawn to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:49 PM
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Nice! That’s exactly what I was talking about. Also giving her your IG was a great move because she won’t feel pressured like she would have if you asked for hers. If i were in your shoes and she hasn’t get back to you in a few days and you see her on campus again, try approaching her again and chatting. Maybe even bring up you’re interested in getting to know her better and you think she’s cute, but no pressure if she’s not interested. Gauge her reaction when you speak to her, if she is being c…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:46 PM
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That would have freaked me out tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:39 PM
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For me conversation is best, then ask for number, then date. It might just be me though, im kind of weird in a way because im not interested in a man at all unless i feel connected to him, doesn’t matter how hot he is, ill say no if he just walks up to me and asks me for my number or on a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:38 PM
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I’d say on campus and in social areas are appropriate. I’d love if a guy approached me on campus and chatted with me about classes and stuff :). Also at social gatherings, clubs, hobbiest gatherings, bars, nightclubs, after/before class, etc. Also you can technically approach women anywhere but it’s not always in good taste. When im out running errands i would hate to be bothered bc im lazer focused with my airpods in and it would just be a nuisance. Other no-no areas are places a woman can’t le…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:36 PM
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I don’t think it’s as simple as “is it him or her?” in this case. First of all, dudes on dating apps can be crazy. Not all of them obviously, but I do feel the amount of unhinged guys on dating apps are larger than normal well-adjusted guys on dating apps. Not to mention this somewhat dark tactics these unhinged dudes can employ like emotional manipulation (anyone can manipulate obviously, FDS proves this, but i think it’s obvious that more men employ those creepy tactics then women because they…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:28 PM
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Thank you. Although I just wanted to say, autism can play a role in these things but most autistic people aren’t hateful like this. My autistic brother has come across stuff like this and he immediately said “what are these guys talking about, they’re really weird” then went back to playing minecraft. It’s something that has to be learned or taught.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:22 PM
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Im not sure about % but BBLs are so dangerous many surgeons refuse to do them. To many risks. one in 3000 BBLs result in death, making it one of the most dangerous procedures available breast implants have pretty gnarly side effects too but not much is known about them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:12 PM
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I’ve been here like a week and im starting to hate myself and becoming progressively more convinced I’ll never find a good man. That’s how I knew i needed to hop off the sub. I usually have a great mindset about that sort of thing but those weird ass dudes here who post shit like this have really twisted it. I know better obviously but still
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:02 PM
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there are billions of women. Of couse some of them do that. So what? Mfs on this sub need to adopt this mindset before they end up going ER on 50% of the population. Could you imagine the outrage if i posted that men were evil because one abused me and another groped me repeatedly because I couldn’t escape him? But dudes will post about how women hate average men and would love to watch “Chad” kill them or whatever the fuck. It’s mental
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:23 PM
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OP im going to real with you rn, this is a really sad way to live. This isn’t reality at all. You are dooming yourself to be miserable with this mindset. It’s not women who are hurting you, it’s yourself. This mindset is holding you back. The world is a cruel place and some people may actually think like this but please don’t limit yourself like this. You deserve to be loved by someone and not settle for someone who “loves what you provide” because you think it’s the only option.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:15 PM
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Womens products are always more expensive by at least a dollar where im from. Mens razors have more blades in them and cost less than women’s razors. https://www.cbc.ca/news/business/marketplace-pink-tax-1.6787778 https://www.cbc.ca/player/play/2185995843729 https://www.investopedia.com/pink-tax-5095458 https://www.weforum.org/agenda/2022/07/what-is-the-pink-tax-and-how-does-it-hinder-women/ https://allianceforperiodsupplies.org/tampon-tax/ Everywhere I look online it says the pink tax is real w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:47 PM
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Im not overestimating my knowledge in the slightest. I have personal experiences/research and psychological knowledge regarding this. i never said seduction is evil. Making yourself appealing through normal means and using nice words isn’t fucked. All the psychological manipulation tactics i mentioned are. If you use them correctly you can literally bypass logical thinking to make someone an emotional puppet depending on the situation and the individual. You can deny it all you want but the fact…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:12 PM
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Then why do women’s razors, that are shittier than men’s razors, cost more? Why are there special “lady pens” that cost more?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:06 PM
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You need mental help. Wearing clothes and makeup is NOT psychological manipulation, neither is crying because someone you love is leaving you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:04 PM
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Yeah same. This sub has lowkey started to make me scared of men and hate myself. The amount of guys saying “the only thing men want in a woman is not being fat or mentally ill, most women these days have something wrong with their brain” is sick. Like how the fuck is me being traumatized to the point that i develop mental disorders my fault? That shit doesn’t go away either. Im also currently unable to loose weight due to the meds im taking. The shit men get away with saying here is so fucked up…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:47 AM
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skilled at social interactions You mean studied books and watched videos online that teach you how to psychologically manipulate someone using the weaknesses the human psyche naturally has to get sex right? even the guy that wrote the book admitted his techniques were “horrifying and objectifying” this isn’t “social skillz” or “rizz” dude. Most PUA tactics involve shit narcissistic abusers use to scramble your brain so you’re less likely to leave them. How can you think this is okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:33 AM
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This. And psychological manipulation some guys use. That’s absolutely sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:29 AM
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I cannot believe dudes are tyna act like PUA isn’t manipulative.Neil Strauss himself said these techniques in his books are “objectifying and horrifying” you can do all of the fucked up shit PUAs do (Love bombing, harem management, the 7 hour rules, disclosure/premature intimacy, anchoring, kino escalation, etc) but can’t admit they’re assholes. you know who else uses the techniques I listed? Narcissistic abusers. If you follow crazy ass PUA techniques like the ones I listed you’re no different …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:23 AM
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This sub isn’t for genuine discussion anymore and I doubt it ever was. Those fucked up weirdo guys found out there was a sub where they can post blatantly fucked up shit about women and it can’t be removed because “muh discussion” so they flock here to circlejerk about how evil and shallow women are. Dudes push redpill/blackpill rhetoric on here and nothing is done about it. Meanwhile a women posted how she finds it disturbing that those fucked up PUA psychological manipulation tactics work and …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:16 AM
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The pink tax is real. Hell they’ll make pink pens for “womens hands” and charge an extra buck. Ellen did a whole segment on it back in the day. Funny stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:04 AM
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What the fuck is wrong with you. Idc wtf a guy looks like. People need help like anyone else would.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:12 PM
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Absolutely. I know this is super commie of me but class causes so much more separation then other stuff does. We will always hate each other as long as people are living in mansions while others are starving in the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:10 PM
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Im sorry dude but this is basically entirely gibberish and general insanity. Women need men because they pay taxes and women benefit from taxes at every age How? Where im from everyone starts paying taxes at the age of 12 and don’t get money from the return unless they have some of income (and only certain kinds can get you money on your taxes) i mean i guess i did in a way but that’s because my brother and I have permanent mental disabilities and government money paid for services like therapy …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:02 PM
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Honestly same. I prefer being left alone/ignored than being ran over by an incel in a van
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 10:30 PM
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You’re so real for this
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 10:13 PM
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A husband that is as much my friend as he is the love of my life
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 11:52 PM
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Im just casual about it. Im not foaming at the mouth for a bf or anything, im just kind of vibing. It’ll happen eventually. Also im mentally ill, neurodivergent and kind of mid so I don’t stand out or draw mens interest. They’re always happy to be friends because im kind of odd in a fun way, kind and supportive but they usually think they have/have a chance with hotter girls so they pick them instead which kind of sucks but I don’t hold it against them. Like I said it will happen eventually. Im …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 10:38 PM
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-Shows respect to other people regardless of appearance -has a normal amount of self respect -cares about your well being and allows you to express yourself emotionally without judgement -supports you in your dreams and desires -has healthy boundaries -doesn’t get jealous at the drop of a hat -acknowledges and attempts to manage her emotions when they get out of hand (doesn’t blow up and get hysterical) -maturity -respects your privacy (doesn’t go through your phone or is constantly convinced yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 10:20 PM
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Well, you see young man, sometimes people try things and gasp don’t like them! Idc
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 10:02 PM
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Jokes on you I’ve never fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 09:51 PM
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I cannot believe dudes are tyna act like PUA isn’t manipulative. Neil Strauss himself said these techniques in his books are “objectifying and horrifying” you can do all of the fucked up shit PUAs do (Love bombing, harem management, the 7 hour rules, disclosure/premature intimacy, anchoring, kino escalation, etc) but can’t admit they’re assholes. you know who else uses the techniques I listed? Narcissistic abusers. If you follow crazy ass PUA techniques like the ones I listed you’re no different…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 09:48 PM
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Me too. I watch out for men like this like a fucking hawk
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 06:06 PM
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This only works on low self-esteem women who are oblivious to RP and not knowledgeable of human psychology, i have several books that discuss this and insight due to almost a decade of therapy. It’s pretty easy to pick up on once you are knowledgeable on the subject, i suggest everyone study manipulation tactics so you can protect yourself from a potential abuser by identifying their tactics early on. People who employ these tactics are actually very similar to each other so once you can identif…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 06:04 PM
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I wouldn’t care that much. It would be a bit of a bummer if it’s something I really like obviously. as long as it’s really him not wanting to do it anymore and not some other reason he doesn’t want to divulge (like him wanting me to shave and wash before he eats me out and instead of telling me he lies and says he’s not comfortable with it) What people do outside of a relationship often is different than what they are comfortable doing in a relationship. Also, they may have tried something and n…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 11:23 PM
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A guy buying porn does not affect me in anyway and it never will. Male attention and desire are not my lifeblood like female attention is for dudes on this sub. I genuinely cannot believe this is a real question
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 09:42 PM
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Because im not only on there for hot people so other people might also not be on there for hot people and might swipe on me. It also makes harassment way less dangerous most of the time. If I had to have a guy whip his dick out or yell at at me if i reject him i’d rather it happen digitally then irl. Less scary
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 05:39 PM
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LMFAO ^ summed up the absolute state of this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 05:17 PM
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it’s not necessarily about your status ^ your words. It’s not my problem that you don’t believe that i don’t really care if my partner has s job or not. why would I let something as trivial as that get in between me and someone I really like? This is you being difficult because you’re convinced women want a 6ft chad with a six figure income and I don’t affirm your delusion, your comment history reflects your views pretty clearly. Maybe they’re unable to get a job at the moment, maybe they’re doi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 05:01 PM
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it’s not even about your status Yeah right. This entire thread is about that already, quit playing dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 01:27 PM
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That’s fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 12:48 AM
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Depends on context. Mean in bed in a sexy way?Green flag if you’re into that. Just being mean and disrespectful in general? Red flag. She definitely has some issues that need to be sorted out in therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 12:46 AM
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Good question. It’s hard to say. Are there women out there looking for a funny guy because they only want a personal entertainer? Absolutely. But there are also women like me who want someone funny (goofy really) so we can goof off together. If i were to do stand up it would be awful but people who meet me say im funny because im silly, y’know? Funny is kind of a spectrum with different kinds of funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 12:42 AM
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Same. I have had guys literally laugh at me and tell me their “friend” is interested in my to embarrass said friend. I just assume they’re assholes, heal, and move on. I hold no animosity towards men as a whole because several guys treated me poorly because I have more than two brain cells and can understand that not all dudes are like that. I don’t understand why it’s so fucking hard for these guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 12:34 AM
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Im a virgin who gets really bashful with anything sexual and romantic and struggle with touch repulsion due to a pretty severe anxiety and something that happened in high school that kind of fucked me up. Basically I need a while to be comfortable being touched/fondled or having penetrative sex but im willing to do other sexy stuff, mainly to someone else but i wouldn’t want is reciprocated for a while. I am also average (4-6 range) looking and struggle to loose weight even with exercise and hea…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 12:29 AM
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I mean, I just want a good partner for me. Not the best ever. It’s ironic that blackpill bros who believe that shit in the first place think only a woman could live in a such a vain manner when men are equally as capable of this. Like have you ever met a frat boy before 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 10:01 PM
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I heard versions where she was an escort, someone else said she was a nurse. She was definitely a one night stand though. Regardless his death is still ironic because he apparently told black women they would die alone from hypertension because they’re fat, and he then died of hypertension. https://defendernetwork.com/entertainment/kevin-samuels-cause-of-death-revealed-and-its-ironic/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 09:39 PM
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Why do you care if women wear makeup or do porn. I don’t get it. It’s not even a big deal, maybe get a hobby to distract yourself or something
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 09:08 PM
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Exactly. When someone is an asshole to me i just don’t interact with them and move on. Must be miserable being constantly obsessed with what the opposite sex is doing and why.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 09:04 PM
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I don’t have a boyfriend. Im just not obsessed with societies standards and money like you are. People have so much more to offer than cash. Besides im majoring in STEM so i could probably provide for the both of us if need be
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:36 PM
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I would love shawn. Id still want him if he cried twice a week! Freely showing emotions is a huge green flag
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 03:35 PM
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Me too! I love chubby guys
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 03:17 PM
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Im chubby and have a very defined jaw line due to bone structure :) not having a defined jaw line wouldn’t be a deal breaker, it’s just what i like
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 03:08 PM
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Sure I will! I hold people to the same expectations I hold myself, i don’t have a car and a job so why would i expect a guy to? All the guys I’ve spoken too on OLD (never lead to a date unfortunately) lived with their parents or didn’t have a job. If we’re compatible why should it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 03:04 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:15 AM
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Wow. And to think a minute ago you were being kind to me in another thread. I was just sharing my experience like the OG commenter was. Im being honest, and if you don’t want to believe me that’s okay. I know my truth :)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 03:55 AM
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Thank you! That is very kind of you to say :) I wish you the best
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 03:27 AM
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I know, hence why I said “somewhat” defined. I have seen some that do, im also overweight and have a very sharp jaw line. Bone structure can keep a jaw looking sharp even with weight gain
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 03:26 AM
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Sooooo you saying “remember that next time you complain!” Actually means something else and not the obvious “well you didn’t pick me so you have no right to complain!” You blame women for not picking you then act like this? Yeesh. I wonder how long it will take for you to figure out you’re the problem. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 02:29 AM
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My loss? Dude your attitude towards women sucks. Why should i have to date a guy who seems to barely even like women to begin with. Remember NOT SEXIST OR MISOGYNISTIC aka not hating or holding animosity towards woman is a must for me. Im not putting myself in a shitty situation with someone so i can say i wasn’t picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 02:24 AM
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Awe that’s so nice! I struggle with a lot of stuff so this really made me all warm and fuzzy :)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 02:18 AM
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Yeahhh sorry. Your comment history clearly indicates you do not meet my standards lol. You clearly hold a lot of animosity towards women. Also your attitude sucks. Im into jolly, care free guys. Not guys who think they need to be 10/10 attractive to even bother dating in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 02:17 AM
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I see dudes saying this all the time but I’ve never met anyone with crazy ass standards for men besides those redpill gym bros really. Hell my standards are: not homophobic, sexist, misogynistic, racist and the guy needs to be progressive. That’s it. I’d date a guy with no car and no job if I liked him enough. Idc. (Forgot to add my physical type) im into a wide range of guys with various body types, but my favourite is short chubby guys with a somewhat defined jaw line, beards are nice too :)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 02:10 AM
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Thanks! I also have more than 2 braincells so I know that holding animosity towards an entire group when I don’t know half of them would make me miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:45 AM
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I can’t afford to go to a gym at the moment, but i walk pretty much every day weather permitting. I do plan to join one soon. i eat very little to due lack of appetite caused by the meds, when i do it’s mainly salad/raw vegetables/raw fruit with a lean protein like chicken. I get take out once every 2-3 months and drink a LOT of water. I was loosing weight just fine actually for a while, i was down 12 pounds in a few months until i took an antidepressant that made me incredibly sick. I thought I…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:39 AM
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That’s tough your father hasn’t done us any favours when it comes to cleaning up the poor image women have of us The way my father treated us doesn’t affect how i see other men. Men are diverse people and just because I’ve been mistreated by some of them to the point I hated being physically touched and have to attend therapy doesn’t mean all men are like that. I assume guys are good people until they prove to me otherwise, then i move on from them and heal just like I would with anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:33 AM
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I would do this for my boyfriend if i had one. In fact i almost instinctually do it for everyone. In high school when me and my friends went out for lunch and there was a shady character i always put myself between said person and them so they wouldn’t get hurt if they decided to try something, when someone was frightened by something I always intervened and put myself in between them and the threat. I care deeply and I would gladly die for family and friends, maybe even a stranger. It’s hard fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:45 AM
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Not in my opinion. I would date/marry a walmart cashier if i loved him. I intend to major in STEM so money wont be an issue, i could probably provide for the both of us if need be. Might just be me though
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:41 AM
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I mean I’ve noticed the opposite from men mostly, I have seen plenty of dating profiles that say shit like “no head meds”, “I don’t stick my dick in crazy”, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:36 AM
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Unfortunately I do that and eat well but the scale doesn’t move due to the cocktail of meds i take so i have to deal with “just go to the gym” or “put down the fork fatty” even when im doing all of that. It certainly makes me fell good though so that’s good
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:32 AM
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Don’t care. I will never interact with someone who sees me as lesser in all aspects of life in general, never mind due to my gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:28 AM
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Probably more overweight woman due to how efficiently our bodies store fat. Those are interesting stats though. Do you know if they vary by country?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:26 AM
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What. Everyone should be taking care of themselves to some degree (hygiene, general appearance meaning simple grooming like a hair cut, and not eating themselves to death) because it’s good for your health and also generally basic human decency (the hygiene part). But no one should be obligated to go to the gym, that’s kind of weird of you bro. I like chubbier guys to begin with anyway so i wouldn’t even be into a ripped dude
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:25 AM
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I mean personally I only want someone who is attractive by my standards, which covers a broad range of men in terms of weigh, skin colour, hight, and build. My absolute favourites are short chunky dudes with a bit of muscle and a somewhat defined jaw line. I only date in my range of attractiveness also (4-6)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:22 AM
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I know. That’s why I said “it’s ironic in my case” emphasis on “my case”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:18 AM
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Keep in mind that the internet is not a good reference point for irl stuff. It really brings out the crazies due to anonymity and lack of a physical presence. If the men here said half the shit they said on this sub irl they would have no friends and be considered borderline crazy. Words on a screen do not have the same effect as an in person response
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:16 AM
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Unfortunately that’s just the reality of trying to find a romantic partner. It’s hard work and only pays off after you’ve been through tons of people and find the one
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:12 AM
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If i didn’t have a therapist to help me I would have remained a shut in and killed myself. Therapy isn’t just “talking to a friend” its someone helping you cope and manage in everyday life. Therapy isn’t what you see on tv, when you rant and the therapist goes “and how does that make you feel?”. A good therapist teaches you how to cope with the world and goes through extensive training to be able to do that, cracking open a beer and talking about work stress to your buddy is not even comparable …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 11:51 PM
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Because they’ve been manipulated and psychologically damaged by the abuse? On top of that they might have no place to go, or their partner might legitimately kill them if they catch them trying to escape. A woman not leaving a guy because she’s been brainwashed and he beats the shit out of her is not the same situation as a man not wanting to leave an unsatisfying marriage because it’s too much work/he’s comfortable or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 11:31 PM
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It’s always so funny when i see stuff like this being posted and all the guys are like “men work harder than women so it’s all women’s fault see!!” When my the only thing my dad did was be a literal criminal and have a psychotic break and abandoned my family to join A cult in Mexico. It’s just ironic in my case lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:51 PM
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women lead objectively better lives due to their gender Im mentally disabled/mentally ill and have considered suicide many times in my life. My mom had to dump all the alcohol out in our house so i wouldn’t OD and die. Antidepressants in general have stopped working for me so every day is borderline mental anguish. I may have to end up paying 1500$ out of my own pocket for alternative treatments that could give me brain damage because my conditions are treatment resistant. I have never had sex o…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:44 PM
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Ur just like me fr. I have to remind myself this is the internet and if i met someone like this irl i can just not interact with them. Idc about all of these “dating rules” people make up on here i just vibe so none of it applies to me anyway so that also makes it easier lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:34 PM
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I mean it kind of makes me loose faith in guys sometimes because most guys here think women are horrible shallow manipulators that lie about what type of guy they are interested in because they are secretly vain beings who don’t want other people to know how evil they actually are and that they use “im scared to turn a man down because he might hurt me so i don’t like them approaching me” as an excuse so they don’t have to interact with ugly men because “the chance of that happening so low so it…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:28 PM
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Yes! I mean if i were older. Im rather young so a guy being a single father at this age (early 20s) is usually a bad sign. But in the future when im looking to marry, i would love to date/marry a single dad that’s loving and involved with his children. I would love to be their mom too :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:59 PM
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Yeah, I’ve actually had an incel send me articles talking about height difference between partners to prove to me that women only want tall guys, and the article ended up explaining that the height differences between the average two partners were modest, meaning that really wasn’t much of a difference between the man and the woman💀 his other “proof” was a yahoo finance post some guy wrote. These people are delusional fr
/r/ExRedPill26/03/23 12:38 AM
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YES!!! I can’t count the amount of times I’ve had to explain this to butthurt dudes. Not every girl is going to want you man, why do you care a if a girl wants a super tall guy? If people want to demand extreme standards that most of the population isn’t going to meet, let them. Just look elsewhere and live your life
/r/ExRedPill26/03/23 12:20 AM
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I personally don’t care about any of that in a man. Hell I would date a guy who’s a cashier at walmart if i liked him enough. I intend to get a pHD is natural biology so I’ll be making enough for the both of us 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/ExRedPill26/03/23 12:17 AM
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then why would they write swipe left Because she doesn’t want someone shorter than her standards? Im kind of confused by what you mean or what part of my comment you are replying too. but similar to saying if your less than 50kg swipe left Does it matter what exactly it’s similar to? People are going to have standards that exclude you. That’s my point. There is nothing you can do about it, sure it hurts when you see “no one under 6ft” but what is getting upset about it going to do? Nothing! Like…
/r/ExRedPill25/02/23 03:40 PM
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The only ones I can think of are r/inceltear and r/justneckbeardthings and MAYBE r/niceguys. All of these subs mock dudes who believe in outlandish shit about woman/the world but it’s not 100% redpill oriented. You may see posts like that SOMETIMES but it’s mostly dudes being assholes to women and everyone makes fun of them. Warning for inceltear: its mostly posts directly from that incel website and they can get brutal (pdophilia, rpe, female g*nocide, and other vulgar things). Just a heads up.
/r/ExRedPill23/02/23 08:36 PM
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if people can switch jobs for better perks and higher pay then what makes you think that women wont leave for a guy they deem better than their bf? What makes you think men wont do this? We already know men leave their partners when they are sick/dying FAR more than women do but i only ever see this shit directed at women. Men date bad girls or women that aren’t good for them, men focus on “superficial standards” like hight, labia shape/size/colour, areola size/colour, cellulite, breast size, “t…
/r/ExRedPill17/02/23 11:55 PM
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For me it has to be a balance. In order for me to even be attracted to a man I NEED to get to know him. There is no way some guy could just come up to me, ask me out, and have me say yes no matter what he looks like. 0% chance. Say we meet at a club or at college or something, it starts off friendly. we get to know each other for a few months and we REALLY hit it off, like it’s clear there is a connection between us, im clearly into him as much as he’s into me. That is the perfect time to ask me…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:26 PM
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Okay so what you are describing doing is not misogynistic or manipulative. It’s just presenting an offer in different light, you were enthusiastic and confident about it instead of just asking in a basic manner. Think about it, you highlighted all the good points of tennis and said you desired the persons company! That presents the offer in a great light, this works with anyone regardless of sex/gender. My mom did this all the times when I was a child and so did other parents/baby sitters becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:05 PM
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Holy shit that sub is a fucking cesspool. It says “no blackpill/incel ideology” but its EVERYWHERE dudes un ironically use the terms “stacy” and “chad”. Like 90% of the posts are just “women are shit, look at how they behave” and the comments are no different. It’s literally just a place men go to shit on women, and if you don’t fit the “stacy” mold (don’t have sex all the time and don’t care about mens looks or hight) you’re a “unicorn” and not a normal person like everyone else in society. If …
/r/ExRedPill17/02/23 02:54 PM
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Personally I prefer approaching men then having them approach me. I really like bumble for that reason. I really prefer to use dating apps than anything else, I have some difficult mental health issues so people looking at me for too long or even walking towards me can be kind of panic inducing. I don’t freak out or anything because I know im just being paranoid lol, but if someone approaches me that could hurt me (adults of any gender mainly. im fine with children and the elderly i find) my anx…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 02:35 PM
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Holy fuck man. Having a preference for hight isn’t shallow. Everyone has preferences. Why is everyone else able to cope with this but you and black/redpill guys? Your studies even said the amount of women and men that desire a hight difference is moderate. You ignore half the shit i say than claim im “all over the place” but provide no examples as to how that is the case? My answers all make perfect sense and i respond to everything you mention. The statement i made about your comment where you …
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 06:03 PM
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Holy shit. I agreed that most girls want tall guys TWICE. In both of my comments! Why are you ignoring that? Is it because it goes against your narrative? Why do you keep denying that i acknowledged that? I literally said it can be more challenging for shorter guys to get a date and empathized by communicating my own struggles! Having a preference to date tall guys isn’t shallow either women are allowed to have that preference! The same way men are allowed to not want to date mentally ill/disabl…
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 03:47 PM
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Hell yeah, short king enjoyer solidarity 🤝
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 03:36 AM
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what I actually said is the only reason a woman would accept a shorter guy is if they are rich or better looking I know you said that, and it’s an incorrect blanketed statement. It implies all woman feel this way, which is false even if I was the only woman in the world that felt that way. I even AGREED with you that plenty of women prefer taller men. I acknowledged it can be somewhat harder for a shorter guy to land a date sometimes. You ignored all of that. The study you linked was complete bu…
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 03:27 AM
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Yeah i was diagnosed as a teen but i know for a fact I’ve had it as young as kindergarten age. Im really sorry you’re struggling with this, obsessions are painful but one that effects self esteem like that must be really hard to deal with. I wish you the best man.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 01:01 AM
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I wasn’t talking about female hight preferences. I was talking about how you said that women only date shorter men if they’re rich or good looking and that’s not the case with me or 100% of women on the planet so your statement was incorrect. There are women who like short dudes it’s not impossible for short dudes to get dates, just somewhat harder. Im mentally ill/have mental disability and the medications i take make not only cause weight gain but make it insanely hard to loose any of it. you …
/r/ExRedPill10/02/23 07:51 PM
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I would be fine with a weight thing because dudes would just filter me out instead of possibly swiping on me to tell me im fat or whatever. Unfortunately many people gave a skewed idea of what weight actually looks like on people and how it varies depending on fat distribution and hight so most guys would probably end up filtering out women they would find perfectly attractive. And I know those “no fatties!!” Guys would set their max weight slider at 115 and find out pretty quickly barely any gr…
/r/ExRedPill10/02/23 05:44 PM
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When I was using tinder to date back in my senior year of highschool it was all “im 6ft because apparently that matters” WORD FOR WORD in like EVERY DUDES BIO. Some guys had only that in their bio and they all got a left swipe from me, so annoying
/r/ExRedPill10/02/23 05:38 PM
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98% women I have spoken to don’t want a massive schlong and they find it the idea of one intimidating if that’s any assurance. I certainly don’t want a big one at all, I’ve heard it can be painful and difficult for couples to be intimate.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/23 05:35 PM
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they will date shorter but only if they are richer or better looking Im so tired of hearing this, it drives me up the wall paints women as horribly shallow. I don’t care how much money a man makes and Im not looking for Adonis. I just want a nice, funny man that will love me as much as i love him and our future children. There, theory disproven.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/23 05:33 PM
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No, not for me at least. The only end(s) all for me is mainly bigotry. So transphobia, homophobia, misogyny, racism, sexism, and being against a woman’s right to choose. Also I don’t date mean guys. I do have preferences I lean towards, I like short thick dudes with a bit of muscle, so it’s unlikely I’ll be into a tall skinny guy but it’s possible as I like a large variety of guys. Hight is not something I think about at all, but my cut off point is probably 5’2” and max for me would probably be…
/r/ExRedPill10/02/23 01:23 AM
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Im attracted to short men and so is my mother. There are women who like short men. Im 5’7” and she’s 5’11”. I even said so in a previous comment. You are discounting the positive (ignoring the fact that people are confirming to being attracted to short men) and focusing on the negative (a large group of women like tall men) also there is no way you think a video about women being attracted to a picket fence is real. Unless its on TLC as one of those shows were people are in love with objects lik…
/r/ExRedPill09/02/23 12:22 PM
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I realize high is extremely important to women and they consider short guys to be ugly Whoah there man, that’s simply not true. Do lots of women want guys taller than them? Sure. The same way guy’s say “no fatties” plenty of women say “don’t bother swiping if you’re under 6’0”” but it’s not like you’ll never get a date! I hope that’s not something you think about all the time, you’re bringing yourself down :( I personally LOVE short guys.I like ‘em short and chunky. I myself am fat, (not morbidl…
/r/ExRedPill08/02/23 07:19 PM
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now bring on the dislikes Yeah that’s usually what happens when you make huge sweeping generalizations and tell men they will be liked by women if they have money and they are masculine.
/r/ExRedPill08/02/23 07:06 PM
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It depends on the woman imo. I HATE being approached by strangers, with an exception to children/the elderly or people who need directions or something. A quick “excuse me, how do i get to ___ “ is fine or a quick comment maybe, but when im out im running errands i want to be left alone. I literally fast walk around with airpods in as to show im not interested in communication. If a man were to approach me with intent to “woo” me it would probably trigger my anxiety and i would be eyeing the exi…
/r/ExRedPill03/02/23 02:22 AM
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so what incentive does a woman have when she has unlimited options Im so tired of hearing this. No guys approaches me, no one has ever asked me out, no guy compliments me, and guys aren’t constantly throwing themselves at me. You know who does get approached though? The better looking girls around me. I’ll start a conversation with a guy and he’ll give short, uninterested answers and literally TURN AWAY FROM ME to talk to the 5’0”, small waisted, baby faced woman next to me. Yet not ONCE have I …
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 10:57 PM
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“A hole is drilled into the leg bones - which are then broken in two. A metal rod is surgically fitted inside and held in place by a number of screws. The rod is then slowly lengthened by up to 1mm each day, extending until the patient reaches the desired height and their bones can heal back together.” Basically agonizingly painful. This guy had to do physical therapy 3-4 times a week for 6 months. He had to learn to run and walk again, all because he was 5’4 and thought he wouldn’t be able to f…
/r/ExRedPill25/01/23 11:11 PM
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The last part of this is true for almost EVERYONE, but especially true for redpillers/incels. They don’t want to do the hard work and change their mindsets. I just had a conversation with i guy on this sub i believe, i was giving advice to the OP that his hight (5’9) doesn’t make it impossible to get a gf, and suggested he adopt a mindset called body neutrality (where you accept your flaws are okay and your body is more than something for people to judge/ogle, it’s your home and deserves respect…
/r/ExRedPill25/01/23 05:53 PM
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This is the FIRST thing i thought, i have so much fucking shit going on in my life why do i care who’s fucking who?? I can barely leave my house or find an antidepressant that works. The only thing i “envy” about other people is that they can function in society. Other peoples success is not my concern
/r/ExRedPill25/01/23 05:44 PM
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I really wish you could hear how crazy you sound. That’s a down payment on a house. You could learn to love yourself, function better as a person and keep all that money by working to obtain a more positive view of your body. For free. Unless you take the therapy advice, which would still cost you less than 250k
/r/ExRedPill25/01/23 12:45 AM
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What. You’re not gaslighting yourself into being confident, it’s accepting that your body isn’t an object for other peoples enjoyment because it isn’t. If society can wrongly convince you into thinking you’re worthless because you’re short why can’t you learn to accept yourself the way you are? You would rather have a horribly invasive surgery for like 2inches of hight instead of changing your mindset about something. I think you should see a therapist man
/r/ExRedPill24/01/23 01:06 PM
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Im going to give to you straight, first of all, you are not short. You are average. And there are definitely women who wont date guys below 6ft but they are a huge minority irl. You hear about them all the time online because plenty of guys LOVE to complain about it, which i get, it hurts when people make you feel bad about your body. Hell, when i get in arguments online with men it’s super common for them to just call me fat, which is true LOL (and before you tell me i can just loose the weight…
/r/ExRedPill23/01/23 11:26 PM
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