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There’s only one response to someone who got this pressed over being told to touch grass. Touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:39 PM
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Where’s the change my view? I don’t appreciate male “breadwinners” you’re completely correct. The tantrum you’re throwing here is a perfect example of why we don’t. You’re pathetic. Just like every single other male who thinks he’s somehow doing anyone a favor by having a job. Good job you’re doing the bare minimum, stop fucking crying about it. I will never ever in a million years have a relationship with this type of person, because you can’t see past the tip of your own nose.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 11:19 AM
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This doesn’t happen. Much like men don’t approach for friendship purposes. She most likely already knows someone in the group if she were to approach. Why do you ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 01:41 AM
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I’m one of the women who don’t want to be approached. If I don’t know you and you aren’t in any way tangentially related to any of my social circles, then I have no desire to meet you no matter how you look. Most of the time I’m with one or more people and I know you’re not trying to be friends, so bugger off. I’ve had to stop going out because guys will refuse to understand the concept of personal space.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 01:07 AM
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Brainrot moment 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 12:59 AM
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I think most of us don’t really like OLD and prefer guys who are already in our social circles. That’s what I do anyway. I have met guys through gaming, social media, guys who were already friends or friends of friends, guys from university classes and that kind of thing. I don’t sleep with strangers and PPD has made me even more wary of OLD. I live in a big city, so finding people is never an issue. My bf I met on an mmo and we really hit it off. I prefer finding a natural connection over swipi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 12:50 AM
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Yes I’m sure a guy whose sole argument was “did you know that you can lie” has ever noticed when a woman was actually trying to sniff him out 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:05 PM
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You aren’t fooling anyone, OP. I know your type, as do most women. There’s nothing special about being manipulative or a liar and I think you will find women have more practice with this kind of thing. What do you even get out of all this other than hindering your ability to find long term partners? Most women who are looking for a hookup literally won’t give a fuck about your personal beliefs. Those who do care will be more careful around you, won’t be asking straight forward questions and will…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 12:14 PM
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We LOVE the smell of victim blaming in the morning don’t we? Especially since OP doesn’t at all know or understand how these people got together in the first place, as if the guy was abusive to her from the beginning. As someone who’s been with an abusive guy, I can tell you this is not how it works. But sure we’re gaslighting you. Women actually all love being abused, just don’t tell anyone. It’s a secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 02:27 PM
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PPD really wasn’t a good idea was it? It’s depressing to see how badly people lose themselves and this place isn’t helping.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:43 PM
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If it didn’t work for them would they really be making a thing out of it? I don’t understand why it’s a problem to you. I’ve gone with a PUA before because I kinda liked the attention, but I never considered myself fooled because of it. If you’re looking to get laid anyway why is it so bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 08:10 AM
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Generally when people tell another they should work on themselves, what they mean is their mental health. Obviously this can include staying physically active, picking up hobbies or seeing a therapist. Basically anything to get out there instead of sitting at home and writing posts on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 02:31 AM
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Both are disgusting, but at least in this scenario the feeling would be passing and I wouldn’t be living it 24/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 02:03 AM
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Let’s be honest for a second, the sub is the bubble, not the other way around. Things do not work like people here like to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:26 AM
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Ew gross
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:14 AM
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You’re into anime women? As in the characters in the animes? Bro what? You don’t have to do OLD to find a partner. I’ve only been on the sub for a few weeks and have already managed a few mental breakdowns over responses telling me to go back to the kitchen. The worst was a comment chain with a guy who was literally trying to brainwash me into thinking I wanted to be a stay at home mom instead of focusing on my career. I get depressed for similar reasons as you, because I know a lot of what redp…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:05 AM
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31.3% didn’t though, which is a fairly large number considering the circumstances. It’s 1 in 3, in other words. Meanwhile the men in this thread act as if it’s literally every woman. Ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:43 AM
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I think it’s important to have a way to warn other women about potential SA and cheating, because often times perpetrators face no punishment for their crimes. I have a few exes whom I would post on such a list after what they did to me, but sadly I don’t know of any for my area.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:56 AM
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You completely lost me with the analogy since I’m neither an economist nor American, but men being a drain on women’s lives isn’t something most women actually believe. A lot of women vent about past (maybe even present) relationships because it just so happens that many of us do end up in abusive relationships. Another thing is sexual harassment and how it translates into feeling unsafe in public or around men. I understand that for men who are young and inexperienced if they end up seeing misa…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:23 AM
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Where are men like you hiding? And how do you exist in a place like this? Sorry, I’m not coming on to you or anything but my god. I came to the sub to get a better understanding of the struggles men face, but I’m confused because most complaints seem to be about some perceived behavior in women that I can’t relate to. Or the height meme as if anyone outside dating apps care about height.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 08:46 AM
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I would definitely travel if my only other option was dating a red pilled man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:19 PM
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I’ll try and respond to each point made, thanks for writing such a detailed response without the underlying anger we usually face here. This place genuinely turns people of all genders into cynics and I’ve come to expect misogyny which I understand wasn’t your intention. I think most women would be uncomfortable by being likened to a commodity to be traded. Whether its the fisherman thing or the blacksmith example. It’s off putting. If we’re going to be stripping down conversations and rating th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:33 AM
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Umm I’m gonna give you the benefit of the doubt and assume this was just phrased poorly instead of logic’d poorly, because there’s obviously equal amounts of single men and women. Did you mean to suggest single women are happier than single men? Because I am fully aware that more women aren’t actively looking. You also said the exact opposite to the comment I responded to, did you mean to respond to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:14 AM
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I got the ick with my current boyfriend and ignored the feeling, which I’m glad I did, but I will say that it was not because of this: Do women really expect men to be doing performative masculinity as a stand up gig for 24/7? I’ve gotten the ick from masculine guys doing masculine things and if you think the ick has anything at all to do with masculinity and not just a feeling you get when things feel wrong for you, then you’re on the wrong track.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:50 PM
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I understand analogies perfectly fine, it’s just that the analogy in this particular instance betrays a view that’s not very desirable to most people. To gain a nuanced view on people, which is what you want, you need to ask multiple people. I understand that for guys who don’t consider women people they wouldn’t want to ask women, but then at least ask multiple men. What I think is a little bit sad though is a lot of advice from men (like the super seducer himself) includes putting yourself in …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:08 PM
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I think they were talking about dating women, not crafting metal tools. I understand the difference may be confusing to certain demographics, but this is about forging bonds between people, not sheets of metal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:36 AM
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Dude get lost. No one cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:29 PM
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The way it was phrased did make it come off pickme esque to me. Having or not having the same drive for a relationship does not in any way correlate with difficulty in finding a relationship. These are different things. Maybe women can get laid easier, but if women are opting out of the dating scene entirely, which seems to be the case, that suggests it’s not nearly as easy for women as you would have us believe. And saying that we’re happier alone also kinda defeats your own point that dating s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 04:20 AM
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What exactly makes dating harder for guys? Are you phrasing it like this to appease them or do you genuinely believe this?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:12 AM
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Let’s say we take a nuanced look at TRP. Who made you the authority? You presented points without explaining in detail why you agree with each point. Are we supposed to just take what you say at face value? What makes you think so? What women are you talking about? What demographic? - I’ve been attracted to guys I didn’t find good looking because of their charm. I know it’s true for a lot of my friends too. What kind of weakness? Physical or emotional weakness? Economic weakness? Educational wea…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:07 AM
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Every time I read any pill or “high value” stuff I wanna jump off a cliff. Bringing any of it up in casual conversation is an instant red flag. People here are awful, both men and women. Rewording things to remove the misogyny is a good first step, but holy shit I can’t wait until this place is gone. It’s like an echo chamber full of depression and it’s hard to not get affected by it, despite being in a long term relationship. I’ve had my fair share of posts removed for calling out the insanity …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:39 AM
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Leave us alone then lmao. There’s nothing worse than guys who pretend to be interested in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:50 PM
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It’s so sad to see the men who think self improvement in any way should include bringing down other people, mostly women, in order to make them feel better about themselves. Or the idea that it’s women’s “fault” that they need to self improve at all. I understand needing to channel your anger, but they’ve completely misplaced the anger and women never did anything to deserve all this hate from these men. I’m really glad that you’ve finally put it all behind you, I think you’ll be much happier wi…
/r/ExRedPill05/04/23 03:26 PM
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Since our lovely thread was removed I’ll put my last comment here. Where did I claim to be a prize? Your “data” was meant to put me down, because you’ll always be able to find statistics to support your views. Why does women wanting to be seen as equals upset you guys so much? Do you not understand how upsetting it is to always be put down? Just for saying we want to be seen as human too? The guy I responded to literally said what reads as “go back to the kitchen” and I face pushback for saying …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 09:03 PM
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Excuse me what? How is women wanting to be seen as equals doing any of those things? And how is practically being owned by your husband in any way an ideal scenario for any woman? In the past we had no options, no choice. And now that we do, that’s somehow a bad thing? Are you being serious right now? And saying I’m playing the victim? What the hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 12:54 PM
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Lol American women catching strays here. I’m Nordic personally and I’d say our reputation is pretty good even if I don’t particularly like talking about desirability in that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 12:48 PM
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You say red pill is about self improvement, but also admit that it’s self improvement with the goal of finding a “traditional wife”. In other words, you hold regressive views and seek to return to classical gender roles. So in reality its just a really underhanded tactic and a way for you to leverage power over women. Why do you have to blame women at all? I find it odd. Why can you not focus on self improvement without blaming women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 12:10 PM
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How would you know its “not common” when the only data you have is from people who complain?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:12 AM
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This is true for successful women too then.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:51 AM
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This comment sounds like it belongs nowhere
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 02:26 AM
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Yours was an exercise in logic, i.e not biology. What you are attempting to add as constraints retroactively are, again, from your own feelings and purely subjective. It does not take long to refute the points made in your OP, because like I said, all of the data points are purely subjective and untestable. Since all of the data is subjective, we can only compare semantics. This is a logic exercise that’s reasonably within the field of physics.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 10:16 PM
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Physics isn’t biology, but it doesn’t surprise me that you don’t know the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 09:56 PM
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Physics yes. I’ll let you know when my university opens up their clown specialization in biology so you can join too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 09:47 PM
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I don’t know who either of those people are and I don’t care to know. Your own post compares men and women with completely subjective and unprovable data. Ergo the comparison is fallacious. The only thing that’s logically equivalent to promiscuous woman would be promiscuous man. Trust me, I’m a scientist.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 09:23 PM
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This is absolutely right. I’m fed up with trying to have a dialogue, because you always get shit on. It’s so frustrating trying to have a discussion and giving meaningful answers from your point of view just to have some jackass come along and derail everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 09:16 PM
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“As a woman” is enough for people to believe you less here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 09:10 PM
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My god this is just sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 09:07 PM
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False equivalence. Johns are the equivalent of prostitutes, promiscuous men are the equivalent of promiscuous women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 09:00 PM
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No one owes anyone anything, but I do find it a bit funny when guys will say that women’s standards are too low while simultaneously blaming women for being slutty and ending up in abusive relationships. Like you said it seems like things would actually be better if these women had higher standards instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 08:55 PM
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I have a similar experience to yours. Men I’ve spoken to personally, both real life and online generally show MORE interest in me after realizing I’m in STEM. I think PPD and redpillers are completely blind to the attraction there is to career oriented women. I’ve had an engineer make an actual website to ask me out. A physics graduate confessed that he was crazy about me and every other girl seemed boring. My ex told me I was the only woman he had ever known who had a personality. It’s like a d…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 08:47 PM
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It’s anonymous insofar as not having actual real world identities. But I’m still on edge.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:05 PM
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I absolutely expected this response. I’ve tried to have a dialogue, but men are incapable of anything that isn’t parroting their prejudiced ideas. If there’s one thing this place has taught me, it’s to never let my guard down.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:16 PM
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Lmao I would never admit to anything in here, the men on here are absolutely vile and judgmental.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:21 PM
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I’m extroverted so I love social interaction, but I’m also a timid person so I’m not amazing at standing up for myself or telling people gtfo. I do understand that it’s hard to read women sometimes and I also can sympathize with the confusion about approaching women and sexual subjects. I felt attacked in the other comments though, so my brain went defensive. I do think it’s important to not apply coercion when chatting up a woman because no one enjoys being made uncomfortable. I think I’m prett…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:37 PM
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Women approaching men is a different topic yes and it’s exhausting to keep repeating myself, but I’ve literally posted elsewhere my own experience in approaching men. Ime men do not appreciate being approached by women, so I keep myself in check. You have already made up your mind about me and other women. I very clearly communicated what I would be fine with, but obviously boundaries are and will always be entirely personal. This can’t be so difficult to understand, surely?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 11:44 AM
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How are you able to respond so calmly to this guy? I had a back and forth discussion myself here and I could not stay composed. Trying to dictate my life, telling me what I can and can’t do and having a recipe for happiness ready for me where I should bring up children and be a voice in my local community. I got so sick and angry who the fuck are these people to tell me what I can and can’t do? And the only thing that matters to society is our beauty and youth. It’s all so fucking gross. And app…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:01 AM
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Maybe this will come off weird and off topic, but how do you stay on this sub without it affecting your psyche? I kinda need a place to vent over some of the absolute insane replies I’ve had, but I don’t really know where to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:41 AM
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This sounds like bs. I’ve heard so many guys say they don’t agree with the Hollywood style beauty and also disliking things like makeup and so on. They clearly would disagree with you. There’s even the whole pointy elbow meme where one tiny thing about a woman ruins her completely for some men. I’d say hot is hot for women too, it’s just that a lot of men put in nearly zero effort into their own appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:31 AM
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What fearmongering? These were both things that happened to me. There’s a very big leap between saying something sexual and the guy fucking leaning up against me and telling me he wants to hurt me. Same with wanting to put kids in me. I was freaked the fuck out in both scenarios. Women approaching men is a different subject entirely. If you checked the post again it clearly asks how a man can a approach a woman without scaring her. I have my own thoughts on women approaching men, but this is cle…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:06 AM
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2 months and you went through all that? How 💀 My god those men are unhinged.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 02:52 PM
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Lol nice try but several of them are late 20s and virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 02:49 PM
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Well why should I have to listen to you when you clearly didn’t listen to me? The question was how do guys avoid making women afraid when approaching us and I answered the question. I don’t want to be harassed in public. I can’t speak for all women, but consent is a good and agreed upon first step. If it wasn’t clear I had consented to neither experience from my examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 01:06 PM
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Well this was a Q4W so I felt qualified to answer. I feel like you’re kinda making strawmen against me for no reason. Like it’s really exhausting to have conversations with someone who keeps bringing up arguments no one even spoke about. You went on a tangent without even listening to me and considering my words or the meaning behind them. For the record I felt so grossed about my boundaries being crossed at bars and clubs that I’ve completely stopped going. I don’t mind men making a move, but r…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 12:49 PM
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Bro. What? There’s no way you’re serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 08:26 AM
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What does this have to do with anything? Why is it every time you as a woman bring up wanting respect there will be some guy bringing up dumb ass stuff like Neanderthal relationship dynamics?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 08:23 AM
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If male led relationships worked so well, we wouldn’t be where we are now. I would have never been happy in such a relationship, but I suppose a woman’s opinion doesn’t matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 08:16 AM
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This is true for women too though. It’s not just men with self esteem issues and I know many women who struggle to find partners. Even more struggle to find the right partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 08:03 AM
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Even if many women do want to fill a traditional role, then it’s their choice. You don’t get to tell all women what we can or can’t do. I personally have no interest in being a SAHM, so I won’t be compatible with a guy who wants that in a woman. I have had no issue finding men who aren’t stuck in this aged mindset though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:56 AM
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I’ve seen this thrown around here but what exactly defines low and high quality women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:46 AM
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Thankfully a lot of men seem genuinely happy to have an equal partner, at least ime with the early to mid twenties guys I’ve spoken to. I’m not sure about the men on this sub though, people here seem a little confrontational. I’d say I have a generally positive reaction from guys realizing I’m pursuing a degree in astro physics. It’s also really cute when they get overly excited by the fact which has happened a few times. I’ve also had guys come off intimidated though and I actually ended up dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:36 AM
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I think this is why I don’t personally enjoy dating. It’s too transactional and not organic and they’re both turn offs to me. I’m not looking for a guy who can provide for me, I’m looking for a partner and a friend and someone I want to spend my life and have fun with. Someone with similar views and interests and a solid social network. Now the other thing and I’m not sure how much is down to wanting traditionalism or if sone things are just in our nature, because guys seem thrown off by being a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:19 AM
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Treat her like a human being, listen to her and don’t talk over her. Don’t act like you know better and don’t talk down to her. I’ve lost count of how many guys end up talking at me I stead of to me. It gets annoying and frustrating and I end up zoning out. I’ll address each of the scenarios next. For the first one, just say you’re a huge fan of the video game series and ask a few questions related to the game, share your favorite things and if she’s into it you can always go from there. If she’…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 12:23 AM
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Yeah no you don’t need to be talking forgiveness immediately after a crime has been committed. Forgiveness is something that comes much later, years down the line when the perpetrator has shown remorse for their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 11:58 PM
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I did though? Your entire post could be conflated to calling us sex objects. I’m not the one who’s rambling and making nonsensical opinionated statements about the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 09:38 PM
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Lmao we are not some fucking commodity to be traded, we are human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 08:15 PM
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Dude no my closing points are that everything is temporary. EVERYTHING. Professional athletes will not be able to continue their careers after they age in much the same way. People get old and no matter what we spend our youth doing we won’t be able to return to it later. You seem to have real concerns, but you’re also dead set on putting us down and judging us negatively for investing time in our appearance. This is what we don’t need. Yes the things listed are all real problems, but you seem t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:54 PM
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Uh no that’s not how that works. Having people look at your pictures does not mean you want to fuck them, what is this insanity? Or do gymbros want to fuck all the dudes who check out and comment on their gym pics?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:31 PM
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I think personal anecdotes count just slightly more than statistics you have pulled out of your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 08:04 AM
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I didn’t shame or deflect. Last I checked Bill Burr was a comedian, so could we maybe agree not to follow his subjective hypothesis when we really should be looking towards social sciences for help, if anything? Just because you say you are right does not make you right. The points you are arguing are all nuanced subjective issues and there’s no right or wrong answer that will suit everyone. It’s up to the individual couple to discuss boundaries, but when a boundary limits freedom for your partn…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 07:57 AM
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Bruh what are you on? Seek help.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 07:11 AM
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You said it so much better than I ever could, thank you for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 07:09 AM
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Alright so your entire argument is based on the presumption that these women don’t have alternate sources of validation to thirst trapping on their instagram. First of all how would you know? You haven’t asked them, have you? What would classify as an appropriate source of validation, in your opinion? You’re attacking women for using our youth and the work we put into ourselves, but why should we not? Nothing in life lasts forever and if guys enjoy the content so much, why the complaining? It fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 07:04 AM
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That’s a fair point, but it sounds almost like a self confidence issue which I understand is shared among a lot of men. But it’s a thing for women too, I have friends who never get attention from men and I do feel sorry for them because I know they’re trying. I would sympathize with guys and I have in the past, but this guy in the comment I responded to is attacking people simply for living their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:32 AM
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Because I think it would boost his confidence and I have no problem with him talking to other women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:23 AM
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Where’s your own emotional maturity and logical reasoning skills? You avoided debating a single one of the points I made. Feminists seem to disagree with me a lot, and I’ve not attacked men as a whole, so I’m not sure what comments you have seen. I will defend myself and people like me when I feel attacked though, but that does not make me a rusty hammer. It just means I will fight back. If you want to take pity on women, start with the fact that we’re pressured into caring about beauty and make…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 10:26 PM
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How charming. Can’t say I expected more from a man who gets depressed over beautiful people existing though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:57 PM
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You are judging people for doing an activity they enjoy doing in their free time. Your entire argument is based on a presumption that these women don’t have “permanent” sources of validation when there is no such thing. In other words pure jealousy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:02 PM
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The armchair psychology is real. Why in the world would you pretend to know women posting bikini shots on instagram have nothing else going on in life? The worrying is entirely unsolicited and unwanted. Young people should be allowed to be young. You do not have to judge people who use their looks. Everything is temporary, it’s not just looks. The last paragraph reeks of jealousy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 08:50 PM
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Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 08:40 PM
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I meant our age as in young people. I would hope he’s not partying with even younger people since they’d be minors. I have nothing against him seeing other early to mid 20s women, why do you keep trying to put words in my mouth? Me and her just had a falling out early on and I’m a petty bitch so I don’t like her. But it’s a personal issue between me and her so I’m not gonna stop my bf from hanging out with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 07:12 PM
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I would prefer he hangs out with people our age so yes, that includes the women. I would love for him to get attention from other women. One of his best friends is a woman and I have no issue with the fact. Sadly me and her don’t get along too well (long story), but I would never dream of getting between them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 06:57 PM
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I’ve pushed my bf to be more social and I think going to parties would be amazing for him to boost his confidence back to where it used to be. We both trust each other enough to know that the other wouldn’t do anything stupid and seeing him get interest from others is incredibly sexy. I would never date a man who’s so insecure that he would isolate me from my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 06:33 PM
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Uhh huh. So your dick getting hard over women is superior to women “wanting attention”? Never mind that you don’t understand the female point of view at all, this just sounds heavily opinionated and needlessly judgmental. No one posts bikini shots of themselves for attractions sake, but for validation and appreciation of oneself. It’s fun to show off, guys do it too in their own ways. Claiming that we do it to “upgrade” and that posting selfies is somehow a sign that we don’t appreciate our man …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 06:25 PM
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Totally, I have had similar experiences. Hot guys seem to take it in stride much more and I’ve had a much easier time being seen as human. I’ve attempted dating guys who weren’t physically attractive because they matched my energy, but the self doubt and insecurity is too much for me to deal with. I’m a girlfriend, not a therapist. The incel types have been much harder for me to reach and not just romantically. They seem reserved and incapable of recognizing me as human, and they don’t seem to e…
/r/ExRedPill08/02/23 07:37 AM
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I’m a woman and I absolutely do care about men’s views. The only men I let in to my inner social circle are all either feminist or egalitarian. I don’t want anything to do with men who don’t support me or my views, but I make every effort to include those who do. Men are absolutely welcome in feminist spaces, because feminism isn’t exclusive. Having an inclusive and diversified space greatly enhances the discourse.
/r/ExRedPill10/01/23 08:42 AM
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Lmao we’re people and we like to have fun, it literally is that easy.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/22 04:25 PM
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You must be joking? A man that down to earth and able to have fun while completely owning the room is extremely sexy no matter what he looks like.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/22 05:34 AM
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He did not come off like that to me, you’re reading too much into his innocently describing her looks. Besides his story was not at all about her, he’s not addressing women, his anecdote very clearly pleads with misogynist men to do a little introspection. We aren’t being attacked just because he didn’t put her on a pedestal.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/22 05:29 AM
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