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Andre27/r/ExRedPill18/11/22 09:47 PM
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Havent seen playing yourself like this in a good while.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:00 PM
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lol we have no robots anywhere near good enough to replace tradesmen anytime soon. Yeah we dont really have those capable of replacing nurses either. But far more men work in trades than women in nursing or jobs like it. Women are overrepresented in jobs that AI will trivially replace and already is replacing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 12:32 PM
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Oh but I thought you said being freshly out of high school was the issue. If that wasnt what you meant then why did you say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 06:38 PM
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So its better if the woman in question skipped high school and started working at 15? I mean then she is 3 years out of school with 3 years of work experience and not fresh out of high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:22 PM
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I suppose people also cant consent to paying for university? Although you holding that opinion and thinking university debt should just be forgiven wouldnt be at all surprising in todays climate. I mean in the end no person at all can consent to anything from any corporation because the combined information and knowledge and experience of a corporation, its employees and lawyers is so much greater than that of any one individual. You cant consent to buy an apple because the grocery store as a co…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:18 PM
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If you become a piece of shit your brain will slowly stop telling you "lets not do this, I dont want to make them think bad of me, I dont want to seem weird" etc etc. Thats the point. Stop giving a shit about what people think of what you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:04 PM
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Test has nothing to do with morality. Higher test doesnt mean youre more self serving. All higher test does is cause you to act more in general and take more risks, for good or bad. If you are selfish it will cause you to act more selfishly, if youre selfless it will cause you to act more selflessly. And the opposite is true for women, they will act less in general, meaning cause less harm to others but also help others less. A man will kill and rob someone, a woman will party with that man and …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 12:42 PM
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Buddy the source is rational thought. Think for yourself how you would feel in such a scenario, look at other dudes who say they wouldnt be happy in such a scenario. Then think about the fact that for this above guys statement to be a true counter to OP you would have to have a huge percentage of the male population be dudes with high self esteem and confidence, but also just so happen to be completely willing to settle for absolutely mediocre chicks for some reason. Does any of that make sense …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 08:26 PM
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I think its a bit misguided to say that this is purely a feminist thing. This is a biological fact really, you could do a study on cavemen without any real culture and theyd be the same way, theyd feel more empathy for the woman in trouble. We are biologically wired to feel more empathy for women and children than men. Id say its partly because women and children are less capable of defending themselves or taking care of themselves in these kinds of dangerous situations. Not just as victims of m…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:05 PM
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In theory this is true, but OP is also correct. The issue is that a lot of people have a false kind of confidence. They pretend to be confident about their poor choice because duh, it feels like shit to make a shitty choice because you feel you dont have any other option, and people dont want to admit it. In reality they arent confident about it and actually happy about it. So yes, you are correct, someone with high self esteem and confidence does whatever he wants and doesnt give a shit about w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:49 PM
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Id suggest the classic fairytale method of pretending to be a beggar or whatever before you reveal youre actually the prince. But unfortunately that doesnt really seem like itd work in reality, unless you truly go all in and actually pretend to be a beggar or completely broke. Cuz all of this still happens to people with an average income, or slightly below average and renting an apartment or something. Thats still a safe choice to a lot of women, especially at an older age.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:38 PM
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Itd also be helpful if society didnt have people who made excuses like "We shouldnt have to be physically fit."
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:15 PM
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I dont think a sex worker costs as much money as committing to a woman, certainly not any woman that has high demands, and certainly not as much as having a child with said woman. Not to mention sex workers cost no time investment in comparison. Thats all still assuming the guy uses sex workers in the first place, most men dont lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 09:20 PM
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Because you arent a man and dont understand the male brain or thought process. They arent grossed out by her body or by having sex with her. Theyre grossed out by the thought of committing their time and resources to her. Not to mention disgust in general just doesnt factor into male sexuality anywhere near as much as it does for women. So even if they are actually physically disgusted by the woman theres plenty of men who would have sex with her anyways depending on how bad the disgust is and h…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 08:36 PM
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Same, the logic checks out I guess but it just doesnt feel right.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 08:26 PM
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Degrees like that mean nothing to your authority on the subject, universities dont teach shit about actual logic and thinking. Get off your high horse and realize youve been fed ideological propaganda, not intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 12:56 AM
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Lol no. Guys a loser and chicke a loser too. Imagine saying with a straight face "Its not bad to be a cuck"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:16 AM
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Lmao, projecting much arent you. Not my problem if your dream is to make videos for a living and you think capitalism is oppressing you from being able to do that. Im fine working an actual job unlike you, gaming is a hobby not a job. And Elden Ring is an easy game lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:51 PM
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Idk I guess having food is less important than getting to fuck a whore huh. Lmao get a grip at making assumptions. There would be no whores without people like me making sure dumbasses like them and you have food in the first place. Let alone all the construction workers. The fact that you actually believe whoring is the oldest profession shows your naivete and lack of logical thinking. What are you going to whore yourself out for if youre the first person doing any work? Love and affection? Tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:44 PM
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Damn you really are butthurt about your beloved sex workers not being worshipped lmao. You know that being jobless isnt a requirement to upload on youtube right? Besides that fact plenty of actual youtubers are far more productive and beneficial to society than any of your whores. Besides, whats more useless than being a commie? Get a grip on reality and realize that your ideology will never work and youll never get to teach commie theory 3 days a week, do some artistic stitching on the side and…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:40 PM
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So the women be reproducing with thugs and raising thugs. Question answered. Dont reproduce with thugs if you dont want to be a single mother with a criminal son.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:09 PM
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Did you read or did you just see the word "blemish" and get offended?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:50 PM
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If being raised without a father figure isnt directly causing that then something else there is causing it. Such as perhaps the women who choose to be single mothers choose garbage men or perhaps women who do that are garbage themselves. Because it is undeniable fact that sons of single mothers are more likely to end up in prison and be violent and so on than sons with a father and mother or even sons of single fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:49 PM
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Its equally pathetic to sell sex lmao. Youre basically saying "I have no ability or qualifications to be a productive member of society nor do I have the drive or willingness to learn. Or I am so lazy and pathetic that I would rather sell my body, be a blemish on society and get easy money rather than putting in the work to be in any way productive or respectable. I will also do all this while degrading those who support my lifestyle and enable it in the first place."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:37 PM
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Id say when the odds are 50% that one child in a school class isnt fathered by their believed father then thats not all that insignificant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 10:24 AM
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Bro most of anyone couldnt get an education, earn all that much (and therefore own property) or vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 05:49 PM
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Thats a hell of a reach from what I said. And calling someone an incel or saying they cant get relationships does not make you confident or assertive. And yes, I am in a relationship. Maybe tone down your bullshit a bit and dont make assumptions about people you disagree with. That might have something to do with people online finding you unfeminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 04:33 PM
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How would I know why other dudes here call you unfeminine? I know nothing about them or you. My guess would be it comes down to the way you portray yourself and talk online though. You saying you have some feminine qualities doesnt mean much when the actual way you act is the opposite. Perhaps its the fact that your first instinct is to call into question someones ability to attract women and insult them when they say something that you dont like. Mind you, saying things women dont like is very …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 02:34 PM
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we arent talking about women with a couple exes here. Unless those exes were particular pieces of work then youre just putting things completely out of proportion. And yeah, I think an abusive or nasty woman is often about onpar with a single mother or old divorced woman or a habitual slut. Youre kind of treating these as separate qualities but reality is that these women often are single mothers, divorced or sluts for a reason. And the reasons dont tend to be that theyre such kind, sweet and fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 02:04 PM
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You know that men didnt get suffrage much earlier than that right? At the earliest men got suffrage 50 years before women or thereabouts. In most places men didnt get proper universal suffrage until women basically had it as well. But yes women were so darn oppressed by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 12:38 PM
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They werent oppressed is the reality. Women were just as much architects and creators of the old systems as men were. Stop with these insane delusions that women of the past were helpless victims who couldnt do anything. If they were they wouldnt be capable of functioning in the modern world.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 11:46 AM
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I think its possible to probably love a few women without it being a case of not respecting them or not caring as much. But the issue would still be that you cant spend as much time and effort on any one of them so the effect would still be that the care you show is less even if you care as much as you would have otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 11:45 AM
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With a million dollars you could get away with killing a baby and still have money left over.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 11:41 AM
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So women are helpless naive victims and they had no choice but to take oppression in the past? If women are so useless and incapable why should they have power and freedom today? We dont let kids decide how things work so why should we let women who you describe as less capable than kids have any say?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 11:38 AM
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Conventionally attractive physically? No. I fully believe that someone who is ugly and together with an ugly partner. Or has a genetic deformity and so on. I fully believe that these people do love their partners. What I dont believe that someone just loves a woman with an ugly heart or ugly personality and loads of baggage ontop of being not all that attractive physically. This is a case of desperation. Now are the dudes perhaps equally low value? Probably. Are they low value for the same reaso…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 10:48 AM
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Shouldve thought of that sooner.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 10:37 AM
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No one would laugh at 6 exes when they themselves would date someone with 5. There isnt some clearcut line where one over and youre a laughingstock if you date that person. If someone says that 20 partners is a slut, then 19 partners would still make you a loser in their eyes. And by the time people already laugh thats when its too late to do something, youll be even more of a joke if you go along with it. Best thing you can do then is to confidently double down. The best thing you can do overal…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 09:46 PM
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I dont really care about studies when I have personal evidence and evidence from others who have reduced or eliminated their sensory issues. Obviously you wont ever get better at dealing with stimuli if you avoid them all the time like is recommended to autistic people. You have to put yourself in uncomfortable situations to improve and that will always work. People who work with autists recommend to do everything possible to avoid stimuli that they have issues with though. So obviously they wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 02:16 PM
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Women need to be told having 3 inches of fat sagging around their hips isnt attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 02:03 PM
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Oke come on now. Autism doesnt make your brain a rigid solid hunk of meat that cant change. Autistic people are still people, neurodivergence doesnt make them incapable of learning and changing without forcing a mask. It just means it might be harder, or less obvious or even simply a setback where you didnt learn naturally without trying as a child. An autistic person can still get over his sensory issues and there are bootstraps available. It might be very difficult and miserable and perhaps no…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 02:02 PM
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For most women it seems to be physically impossible to simply say insecurity and complaining isnt attractive. They often feel forced to start throwing around "creep" "incel" "loser"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 01:49 PM
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Mentally healthy, stable and good people dont lie even by omission. You know its bad and bothers most people, a good person will be honest about it and look for someone who can accept it even if no one asks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 01:42 PM
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You think that because no one will write or talk about some dude who married his sweetheart and they only ever were with eachother and stuck with eachother. And they will also not usually scream about it to everyone else like a dude who fucks around will.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 01:08 PM
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They should care because other men will respect them less. If other men in their irl circles dont care though then it doesnt matter. At the same time you should also not care because bending over to please other men will lose you even more respect. The best thing you can do is not get serious with women other men would laugh in the face of. The second best thing to do is to just be indifferent as you do it. The worst thing you can do is get serious with a woman like that and then end things with…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 01:04 PM
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Worked fine for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 10:52 AM
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Well theyre supposed to break them and then rebuild them better and stronger. Its that last part that women forget.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 10:07 AM
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If youre autistic the most powerful thing you can do is to get the woman into an activity with you as fast as possible. You may struggle with using your whole body for flirting, but once youre actively doing something that doesnt matter anymore nearly as much and you can make up the difference with a bit of active gesticulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:38 AM
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Every fat person, especiall fat chick, ever will tell you that they eat so little, they do everything right and they just cant lose weight. And every single time when you can actually conclusively prove what they eat they eat far more than they told you they eat. Without fail they will be snacking on something. Eating "healthy" salad with 500 calories of dressings or sauce. Or some healthy snack because it says healthy (and it is somewhat, its just still a lot of calories) or just eating far mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:26 AM
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Most men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 06:51 AM
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Because being a manwhore is not the same as being a female whore. I already laid that out for you. The math adds up perfectly because laying a lot of pipe is good, getting a lot of pipe laid on you is bad. Being a virgin as a woman is good, being a virgin as a man is bad. Women like men with a bit of experience on average, men dislike women who get around. It doesnt have to be 1 = 1 for the math to add up. 1 + 2 + 3 = 10 - 2 x 2 adds up and thats whats going on. The math adds up because one is s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 08:59 PM
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I mean there are women who do that. Whats wrong with that. Wouldnt you be happy to learn of your gfs past as a lot lizard?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 07:27 PM
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Good, thank god im not a little bitch too afraid to be alone to say no to a whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 07:26 PM
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Im not really a fan of manwhores but whining about it and pretending its the same thing as female hoes is willful ignorance. We both know that women shame men for being virgins. We both know that women dont deny manwhores for anything and might even prefer them. And we know this isnt the case in reverse. The day women at large say gross fuck off to manwhores and start praising virgins is the day it will be equal. But that day will never come. Im not a fan of manwhores, but I cant do anything abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 07:25 PM
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Most women are cute. Most women become ugly as they age because they stop taking care of themselves or never did in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:02 PM
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I only recently encountered non single moms in any serious capacity after getting together with my gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:58 PM
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Also what are you learning from a girls experience of getting railed by some strange she doesnt know. Theres nothing to learn lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:55 PM
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Lmao. "Baby im so happy you told me about how you got your pussy blown out by 15 dudes in one night for 20 bucks each."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:54 PM
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Dont pretend to not be a hoe after youve already had hookups just cuz now you want to be serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:27 PM
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And for most men if they learned of her past all of the sudden it feels like worse than work. Its fine to wait for sex with a good girl. If its a whore the only way any dude is waiting is if she tricks him into thinking she hasnt spread her legs to 20 dudes before him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:25 PM
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Nah these men exist. Its just that women who complain about how all men are like this are actively choosing for this type of man with their selection criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 03:20 PM
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It is hyperbole. Thats the point. Thats why its retarded because there are 2 options for the woman who chooses the bear. Either she knows shes being retarded and chooses it anyways to make a non existent point because we all know she wouldnt actually choose the bear. Or she is actually that delusional and braindead that she would actually choose a bear and get eaten alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 03:17 PM
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Except how many men do you encounter and interact with daily and how many wild bears have you ever even seen in person? Even if we removed the in person part and the wild part the amount of bears youve ever seen is absolutely miniscule in comparison to how many men youve seen. Even if youre a zoo worker/wildlife refuge worker who works with bears and also goes out hiking in bear country you would have seen and interacted with a miniscule amount of bears in comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 03:10 PM
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Ok and did every man you meet do that or is that a relatively small portion of all the men you meet? The hypothetical is stupid because you operate from the position of "Men have been dangerous to me before, bears havent, therefore bears are safer." Ignoring the fact that you meet and interact with men constantly and in reality only some of them have or could have been dangerous whereas youve never even seen a wild bear in person so obviously bears havent endangered you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 03:08 PM
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Then you stick to what interests you in that medium instead of trying to force the entirety of it to change to your tastes because you find it sexist or mysoginist or unrepresentative or whatever. Men dont try to force candy crush and the like to change because it doesnt represent them and they dont like it. Men just dont play it and let the moms who like it enjoy it as it is. Meanwhile you have feminists trying to force the parts of gaming that caters to male interests to change to their tastes…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 02:02 PM
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Yeah so they can stick to their interests instead of trying to change something they dont enjoy to fit their tastes and ruin it for everyone that enjoyed the original.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:57 AM
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Just because you disagree with someones views doesnt mean they hold them just to be contrarian or that theyre rebelling just because theyre pissy about something.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:51 AM
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They did because they improved conditions for the german people post ww1. Even regular working german jews supported Hitler at first.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:46 AM
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Feminists like to use this to their advantage a lot dont they. Say vague things that could range anywhere from cautioning against bias to extreme bias and when someone calls you out tell them theyre stupid and obviously its not calling for extreme bias in favor of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:06 AM
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You stop being a "nice guy" by realizing that doing things for your own benefit isnt being an asshole, that saying things people dont like isnt being an asshole, that not helping others always isnt being an asshole, that taking social risks isnt being an asshole. You stop being a nice guy as a naturally nice person by realizing that grabbing a girls ass on a date when she is open and flirty with you isnt being an asshole just because you dont ask for permission first. She might not like it but t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 02:39 PM
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That last sentence is also a reason why these relationships might actually happen. Since it gives them more freedom and independence from their parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 12:45 PM
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The prostitutes themselves arent going to want it, because those things cost money, and the money needs to come from somewhere, namely in the form of taxes from their pockets. Most prostitutes who do it willingly do it for easy money, they dont want to earn less money.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 06:49 AM
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That just sounds like modern bullshit so people can stray and then pretend they never did. People do care about that stuff, especially religious people, and if that past comes out later in a relationship while you made yourself out to be a virgin or some shit its gonna ruin the relationship. Islam Im also pretty sure teaches that virgins should marry virgins and fornicators should marry fornicators. So idk where you get the idea that you should just hide your past from.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 10:41 PM
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And if guy 2 finds out about guy 1 it will fuck with him and if he has any integrity and masculinity in him he will end the relationship because of it. Wow gee, who couldve guessed fucking people you dont see a future with could harm your future with proper men...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 12:03 PM
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The symptoms of withdrawal from women is loneliness and depression. And you never recover from the addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 12:35 PM
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You dont really need to make a choice. But you have to remember that not making a choice is also a choice, one that will lead to an eventual situation where those male untouchables force change once there are too many of them, whether that makes anyone else happy or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 05:58 AM
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Ok, so what if you had those discussions and were compatible but after a while realised that he actually does want to experiment even though he didnt want to do it earlier? You wouldnt be upset if he leaves you to actually experience the things he missed out on and you refuse to experiment with because youve done so already?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 05:20 PM
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Ok and you wouldnt call that person a disgusting pig or a sex addict or any other names or insult him in any way when he asks you to try out anal, you deny him because you didnt like it and he instantly breaks up with you to find a woman who doesnt come with the baggage of not wanting to experiment anymore? Lets say this happens after 3 years of being together, or hell lets make this harder for you, lets say you have a child together? You wouldnt denigrate him in any fashion for ending the relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 12:22 PM
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So we would be the same as we are now? With a history of monogamy and cheating and then a modern world of casual sex and cheating. You know humans used to pretty much mate for life right? And you do know that birds cheat, a lot, dont you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 11:53 AM
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I suggest women be honest, though thats a far fetched dream. Women love to claim that N-count shouldnt matter though, so why not be honest? If enough men dont mind high N or any N then things will be fine anyways and youll infact just weed out the men who do care and save time. If too many men care too much then women will struggle dating, and if so then why shouldnt they struggle? They made choices in their life that arent attractive to men, why should men be forced to conform to those choices …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 06:19 AM
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Why shouldnt you be punished for it though? You take certain choices in life and that locks you out of other ones. In this case you arent even locked out entirely, youre just locked out with certain people. Why is thay a problem? Why should it be just as easy for you to date no matter what? It's a simple fact, you have casual sex and youre locked out of the option of dating some men, why would that be a bad thing and why should they conform to you to make your life easier?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 06:10 AM
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Why should that be the case? And besides even that, it wasnt just objectors and draft dodgers who were given feathers. It was also soldiers on leave, wounded, and vital workers exempt from military service.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 12:43 PM
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Ok so you lie and somehow they find out about the lie and now youve wasted who knows how much of both of your times because the relationship is pretty much over with the combination of their distaste for whatever your bodycount is as well as trust being broken due to the lie. Meanwhile if youre honest you can weed out anyone who doesn't want to be with you due to your bodycount without wasting time and you also don't run into the double trouble of a lie and distaste for your promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:32 AM
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Why? Why would chilling and doing fun stuff just for yourself be boring?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:21 AM
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Why? If you arent horny and dont care for women why wouldnt you just chill out, live on some warm beach as a bum and just have fun? Or work minimally and play videogames?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 06:36 AM
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Yes. And you still just have to eat more. You arent an ectomorph or some shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 03:08 PM
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Most people can have a sixpack at 15-17% BF. Youd have to have truly unfortunate genetics to be unable to have a sixpack at that BF. More likely though you just eat shitty food and have shitty habits that fuck your hormones causing all the fat to go to your stomach. And even more likely than that you just arent training your sixpack. Contrary to popular belief, a sixpack is muscle like any other, and its built in the gym not in the kitchen. Put enough effort into actually developing your core an…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 11:22 AM
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Thats not a thing. You gain muscle if you work out and eat a reasonable surplus of relatively healthy food with decent sleep. You gain fat if youre sedentary and eat in a surplus.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 11:18 AM
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Lmao no they are not. Porn actresses are average at best. Many of them even become below average because they ruin their bodies with surgeries and drugs and their dead eyes from the mental issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:37 AM
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Yeah. So why complain when men have standards like virginity or not being an argumentative and bossy career woman or whatever else? Those preferences help you not become bitter. Im not interested in dating someone with a past who has already become bitter and damaged and who will simply damage me as well once she inevitably cheats or simply gets tired of the relationship and doesnt want to put the work in, and it also protects me from feeling negative emotions because of her past or her combativ…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:35 AM
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Yeah plenty of life to be some pumped and dumped sluts servant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:17 AM
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Yeah. One gets to live a life in luxury. The other gets to live a life of misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:13 AM
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A friendship close enough to be like family between an unrelated man and woman is a cuck move from the man in every way. It doesnt work because men dont work that way, and continuing to participate in it as a man is cucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:08 AM
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No its not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:59 AM
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No I very well think someone could love me even if they have a past. I just dont care for that love and I dont want to love them. Simple as. There is no insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 11:40 AM
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Culture actually is somewhat genetic. Its also very environmental but there are some links to genetics as well. And if a certain culture leads to people not having kids then eventually culture will have an even stronger genetic correlation because people who subscribe to one culture will be genetic dead ends and people who subscribe to the other will proliferate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 11:35 AM
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Always with the insecurity. You dont have anything better to accuse people with?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 11:15 AM
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People dont need to get therapy just because they dont conform to the retarded standards of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:43 AM
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Yes and those other traumas often cause people to become promiscuous. So people with trauma often become promiscuous, and promiscuous people often develop traumas. Why would you bother with promiscuous people?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:34 AM
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I mean if things are dire and there are very few people left thats whats gonna happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 03:22 PM
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Yes, but im talking about your history of going for toxic guys and chasing excitement.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 02:10 PM
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Think of it this way, lets say you desire a virgin, which obviously you dont, but imagine you do. Would it be a dealbreaker for you if she had been fingered by another dude? Or received oral? What if she gave a handjob or blowjob? What about anal?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:49 PM
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If genitalia is involved its sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:48 PM
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Anyone in their right mind would shame those people. The only people who wouldnt are the people who are the exact same themselves, i.e people who take the easy road in life and never work hard for something.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:39 PM
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Yeah thats just not my experience. Most women on OLD are looking for casual sex. And many of the rare few who are looking for a relationship are still open to casual sex which also disqualifies them in my eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 12:46 PM
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You have to affect society to get the best life for yourself. If you allow society to become accepting of mediocre youre hurting yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 11:52 AM
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Hard to explain. Youd have to give specific examples. Its very much based on how she carries her weight. And thats down to genetics and how muscular she is. One girl who is sedentary could be fat at a BMI of 25 while another who is sedentary could be chubby or even curvy at the same weight and BMI. And if she works out or is physically active she could even be curvy or chubby at a BMI of 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 11:46 AM
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I mean you just look curvy in those pics. Youre probably just more attractive with those 20lbs extra.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 11:42 AM
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No. Laying off and letting people do whatever is how you get a society of mediocre people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 11:33 AM
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How do you expect to actually get a guy who isnt toxic though? There is no way to really trust someone with your history to not get bored of the... boring guys. No way to trust you to not just leave randomly or even cheat with those same toxic guys once you do. Even beyond the difficulty to trust someone like you, no guy with self respect is going to want to take someone with that kind of history seriously as it rightfully disgusts most guys. Likely any guy with self respect is gonna nope out an…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 11:26 AM
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The red flag is that they promise something which is too good to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 11:18 AM
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What do the stats matter when maybe 1/50 women on apps are looking for long term relationships and half of them explicitly look for short term while most of the other half have very barren profiles that pretty much just mean theyre also looking for hookups? And of those 1/50 most are ok with short term which kind of also disqualifies them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 09:32 AM
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Doubt, all I see on apps are women who want casual sex. And why would anyone be interested in settling down with a 25 year old who's been ran through and is "different now."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 08:20 PM
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The virgin part is unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 11:47 AM
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Feminism does that with a lot of stuff. You can see the same things in many feminists views on women of history. Where according to some women never had any choice or power before feminism came along. And were just helplessly oppressed. When in reality women werent really oppressed at all, certainly not any more than their father, brothers or husband. And that in reality feminism itself is literally the same thing that women for all of history have done for different purposes. Roman women would …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 11:15 AM
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Definitely more fat chicks on 2X than on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:21 PM
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Not jacked yet but on my way to it and Ive been told that my tastes are fat women. In reality I wouldnt say theyre fat, they certainly might be overweight though thats mostly by BMI. Id say theyre more so chubby or thick.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 12:00 PM
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I mean 250lbs 25% BF is pretty significantly better than ordinary. Thats a lot of muscle even if he isnt super lean. its not like women actually care that much, 25% is not high enough to be any sort of hindrance, you just might pull different girls who prefer a bit more fat over leanness. The muscle mass is still fairly extraordinary. Its very doable for the average man, but because the average man is a fat slob being that muscular makes you stand out a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 09:47 PM
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True but that amount should be pretty reasonable to still look very much muscular and powerful, just perhaps a bit bulkier with no abs. I mean at 6ft you can be pretty lean and muscular still at 200lbs natural if youve been diligent with gym for some years. Should be pretty reasonable still to be in the low to mid 20s of BF% at that weight range and height even if you arent dedicating yourself to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 09:24 PM
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Shouldnt 225-250lbs still be relatively lean at that height, certainly not enough fat to make dating harder? I recall you hit the gym right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 07:21 PM
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If Im gonna wear makeup its gonna be warpaint. And not the black lines shit. Nah, proper full on demon face.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 07:03 PM
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Sure, they dont have to. But if somehow things actually get to the point where only a minority of men have any chance at getting sex, let alone marrying and having kids then things arent gonna look good for that society. And Id say things would go down the drain long before it got to the point of 40% of men having any chance, let alone 10% Youd likely see some men checking out of society and simply minimally sustaining themselves without making any reasonable contribution. Youd see others with v…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 12:28 PM
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And he is also quite likely to fuck the receptions too. Potentially even marry her. Cuz she's there and he sees her all the time. Doesnt matter if she isnt earning as much or as educated.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 12:01 PM
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White feather campaign.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 09:47 AM
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Unhinged how? Im just making a reasonable extrapolation from your claims. Whats unhinged about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 07:31 PM
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You dont like that idea? I mean freedom and agency arent needs, so whats the problem? Or do you perhaps think there are needs other than the immediate ones you need to sustain life? Nah cant be, thats not the Lilith I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 06:23 PM
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I mean I could get behind that. People also dont need freedom, agency or any sort of choice in anything. So why not enslave women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 05:14 PM
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There is such a thing as too perfect. If there arent any flaws to look at then its just a meticulously carved statue, its nice to look at and marvel once but quickly becomes boring. You never come back to it because you already took all of it in once and don't have anything new to look at or feel. Flaws and imperfections add to the experience. On top of that humans are made for the average. You keep coming back to the satisfying meal that is pleasant and reminds you of better times, not because …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 11:05 PM
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You do know that actual XY women and XX men exist right? I.e with the body and reproductive organs of the gender that they arent supposed to be according to chromosomes, not trans people. They were born like that, raised like that and completely think of themselves as that gender. Sometimes they would even reach puberty before anyone realises that they have these syndromes. Especially so in the past with worse medical knowledge as well as currently in less developed regions. Why would it then be…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 10:48 PM
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Yes and I want even her past to myself. Past sexual activity or present cheating it wouldnt make a difference to me. Id be jealous either way if I learned of it and if that happens the relationship ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 10:39 PM
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Extreme outliers are not worth discussing. And yes infact I do think he was probably limited by his disability. Although I doubt someone as intelligent as him was simply idling away thinking, I dont know anything about him really but Id say its rather likely that he at least spent some time in nature and doing the limited amount he could do. He'd likely also consider anyone who had the ability to be physically active but chose not to a fool. Especially so if they held the belief that it wouldnt …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 03:13 PM
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Because being physically active improves your mind. Not only that but if youre living a sedentary life youre constantly draining your mental battery and never really using your physical battery. If youre physically active you allow your mind to rest in a sense and boost your ability to actually use it. Being physically active is vital to be able to truly use your mind to its fullest.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 02:28 PM
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I want her to have muscles. I dont actually care if she is a bit chubby or not, in fact Id prefer she is. But there is a huge difference in how a muscular and chubby girl looks and a girl who just has fat on bone. For most its just a way to say they want someone who isnt fat though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 02:20 PM
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Both are good. You cant properly enjoy movies if your lifestyle is completely sedentary, healthy BMI or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 02:17 PM
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It is a shame for a man to grow old without seeing the beauty and strength of which his body is capable. I strive to be the strongest, best looking, smartest, most disciplined version of myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 03:47 PM
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as far as I know hes bi and an actual cuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 03:34 PM
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It doesnt need to be rational.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 09:31 AM
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Because two virgins will be in the same stage of life when it comes to relationships. Or at least far closer than a virgin and someone with experience will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 09:29 AM
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Most bugs I just flick off me carelessly. Most bugs I kill when they bother me in some way like being indoors. Spiders are the rare exception that I try not to bother even if theyre in my home. Bees and such I usually try to let out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 11:23 AM
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Just go live in an old cabin with the ceiling being only 6 feet.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 10:09 AM
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I mean the pagan traditions and cultures just got included in abrahamic religions... it speaks of both the power of those cultures but also of the intelligence of abrahamic religions.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 09:11 AM
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You do you but Id see it as something wrong with you. Why the need to fuck people you dont see any future with. Why the need for practice with people who will only put baggage on you that will negatively affect any future relationship? Itd be an instant disqualification and honestly I dont even really care about the reasons for or details of the past. The past exists and youre a no go.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 09:08 AM
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Am I dating the town bike?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 08:54 AM
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Why would they not look for fun though? You, or at least your peers, had enough of it for a lifetime when you were younger while they were working to become someone who could have that fun. And now that they are old and established enough to be able to play around they should grow up and settle down because youre ready for that after having your fun? They should just give up on their own time to have fun and settle for some woman who is too old to have fun and "doesnt do things like that anymore…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 03:54 PM
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foid is femoid. numale is new male, modern man. Basically soyboy beta feminist dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 05:53 AM
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Whats your pfp?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 07:26 PM
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its sex work
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 06:59 PM
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tummy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 06:37 PM
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I mean tbf, most women who are virgins dont really care if the guy is one himself or not, and some prefer he isnt. So why wouldnt guys who desire virgins but dont want to stay one themselves do that when they can have their cake and eat it too?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 02:02 PM
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Yeah I know. Doesnt mean that its good to continue drinking the same volume of alcoholic beverages when there is technology to make them less diluted.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 02:01 PM
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Thats more of a second time kind of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 02:00 PM
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It was a joke. Interesting read though, but pretty obvious stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 01:40 PM
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Idk. You could pull off some sick shit with make up, beard styles and dyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:43 PM
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See I suppose thats one of the reasons why I desire another virgin. I still want to spend my life with one person rather than having a string of relationships as that just seems unpleasant to me, but I could in theory do that with any woman, whether shes a virgin or slut or anything in between. But I also want to be someones first just like theyd be mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:41 PM
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The alcohol content of drinks was never as high as it has become in the last few centuries however. It used to be that everyone drank very diluted wine or mead to their meals, something like 2% alcohol content at most. Rather than what we have nowadays with beers that have 8% and spirits and stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:08 PM
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You can find women who call sex work empowering all over reddit. Usually they come out in droves in posts about sex workers who experience consequences for their actions or the rare post from a guy learning that his GF is or was a sex worker. Sometimes you get the more reasonable feminists who actually recognize that there is nothing empowering about sex work.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:06 PM
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Talking shit on a podcast and fucking whores.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:15 PM
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its gonna change how youre perceived though. Sure if youre just slightly tall but also autistic and ugly it might not change much, but change that slightly tall to tall tall and suddenly the autism and ugliness wont matter as much anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:14 PM
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Damn, 7% of women who want to get raped but dont have anyone to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:50 PM
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Its a double standard of womens own creation seeing as most women dont care if the man is a virgin or not, many even prefer he isnt. So men who arent virgins can still find virgin women to be with. Im saving myself for personal reasons and because the ideal woman in my mind would care, not because of some double standard bullshit that doesnt matter. I could likely find a virgin easier if I went out and got experience myself even.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:53 AM
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If thats what she desires. I dont care about marriage either way personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:41 AM
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It doesnt matter if she is a slut or just has a past of failed relationships. It doesnt make a difference to me. And frankly if I fail to find what I want Id rather spend my life with sluts than someone who just has a past of failed relationships. And stubborn how? Its unlikely in the first place that someone with a past is overwhelmingly more amazing than a virgin, most likely she'd only be slightly better. And that isnt even taking into account the baggage and damage that comes together with t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:23 AM
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Sex is an infinite resource, but sex with a woman who no past is rarer than sex with a slut, and therefore more valuable. Also the idea of someone I commit my life to having been with other men before me is disgusting, im not interested. I also dont really care if she is the funniest, sweetest most amazing woman. I will never learn of her being as such anyways because im not interested in pursuing her. And none of it makes up for not being a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:10 AM
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My dick is dirty and immoral? Lmao what. Me not wanting other dudes dicks near a woman I commit to doesn't mean I think my own dick is dirty and will defile her. This isn't some internalized shame garbage. Im not even ashamed of being a virgin although many others likely are, but even they dont think their dick is dirty. They've just been bombarded by this modern culture that devalues purity and lauds promiscuity. I think my sexuality is very good, and very beneficial, and can be used to enjoy l…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:42 AM
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Because what value does sex and relationships with a woman who has been with a bunch of guys before hold? She gave it up to a bunch of people before so she is devalued. Something which is common is less valuable than something which is rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:32 AM
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Its anti-incel content.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 05:00 PM
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Thats because most of the dudes here are blackpillers masquerading as redpillers, and they arent even the good kind of blackpilled people. They havent accepted the truth to use it to get what they want from life, they just complain about the truth. They took the blackpill, choked on it, and refuse to spit it out. They know the truth but they refuse to act so they lost their hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 04:43 PM
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He had hundreds of concubines.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:15 PM
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The oldest game
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:15 PM
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Blatantly false. Women have never in history before the last few centuries just taken care of the house unless they were aristocrats or the equivalent. Women worked the fields alongside their men, and if the men were away at war or dead they worked the fields alone. Women did jobs like brewing, spinning, milling, baking, washing, childcare and not just to take care of the household. These things were done to earn money for the household just like their husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:03 PM
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They didnt, but the men who are allied with the most powerful man and help him maintain his place for their own benefit under him do value exclusivity from their own women. If said top dog goes around fucking his subordinates wives, or if one subordinate fucks anothers wife, then they will be quickly dealt with and replaced by another who is slightly weaker but doesn't fuck with his subordinates. And if he does? Rinse and repeat until you get rid of bad actors and have a hierarchy where the top …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 12:01 PM
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That has to be a pretty damn expensive lifestyle though right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:33 PM
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Western women and expensive as hell col.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:30 PM
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What he means is that women who claim to be slightly overweight are usually obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:01 PM
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No woman is getting criticised for being slightly above ideal healthy weight. No woman is even being criticised for being overweight unless she carries her fat extremely unfortunately, which most of the time also means that she is actually very unhealthy and hormonally unbalanced because that's usually how someone looks gross despite only being slightly overweight. Most women who get criticised for their weight are straight up obese, and severely underweight anorexics get criticised just as much…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:00 PM
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Youre right, but it ends up being an issue anyways. You turn to video games because its the only choice you have, but then you get stuck with it and it prevents you from changing your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 09:23 PM
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Definitely weak blood lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 08:02 PM
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I think you should become comfortable with the idea that despite your success in getting married and humble bragging about being better than others... your blood is still weak, your marriage mediocre, and your children will amount to nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:40 PM
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Warning! Warning! Warning! This is not a based take! Warning! Warning!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:31 PM
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Well idk how true it is but Ive heard you pay far more for a girlfriend than a whore, so according to that logic youd be paying more for something someone else paid less for. Personally I dont really buy it tho. You get a lot more sex from a GF than a whore for your money. The whores themselves even complain about it when they try to become paid girlfriends, i.e sugar babies. Tons of threads started by sugar babies whining about being shortchanged by daddies and that getting their entire life pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:30 PM
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Theyre already getting tax breaks and shit for raising kids. Are they gonna provide government wives to all those men paying for other mens SAHMs? Doubt it, so why should they give their work so that those women who give nothing to them can be SAHMs?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:24 PM
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Lol thats a beta bitch being given advice by a bunch of other betas and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:12 PM
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Then you might just be destined to be a fat slob. I work a physical job and still do calisthenics and lift weights.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 01:34 PM
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Hopefully I dont. Id be incredibly disappointed if I chose to become a mediocre cuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 12:23 PM
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So you think reason caused men to take issue with n-count rather than men taking issue with it causing religions to value virginity? Im more likely to believe the latter since religion is there to guide you through life. And one of those things is that men don't like when their woman has been with other men before him. So religion tells women not to fuck around because if they do no one will marry them and they will have a miserable life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 12:05 PM
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I had the same issue around that time. Found that it got a lot more enjoyable and easier to stay consistent towards the end of the first year. Around 8 months in or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:52 PM
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Well I gained the weight in 2 months. But then I recomped and 4 months after that I looked about what you started as but at 160lbs. So total of 6 months with a 2 month bulk and 4 month recomp. Now Ive been at it another 5-6 months, with a slower bulk of about 15lbs in that time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:06 PM
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Short as hell but pretty nice. I gained a similar amount but in about 2 months when I first started hitting the gym seriously. Started at your end weight but a lot skinnier with less muscle. End result after 6 months was about how you looked in the before pic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:16 PM
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Will Smiths abusive child predator of a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 06:56 AM
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Untrue but a solid strategy. True Lol what? Theyre putting themselves up there cuz they want easy money.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 04:33 PM
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Proly accurate on some level just like AF/BB tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 04:30 PM
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Probably cuz those guys actually get out in nature and get regular exercise.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 04:13 PM
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Easy option in terms of getting the woman would be to passport bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 02:35 PM
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Most people of history would disagree. And so would I.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 01:18 PM
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Just accepting that relationships dont last anyways. Kinda a bitch mindset. Relationship fails? "Oh well, it was bound to fail eventually anyways." Get into a mediocre relationship with someone who is never gonna work for it and who you arent interested in working for either. "Might as well just enjoy our time, not every relationship needs to last!" Its the ultimate mediocre bitchmade mindset of modern (wo)man that is a big part of all the problems we have now. Have at it if you want but this is…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 11:44 AM
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No thanks. Thats a bitchmade mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 09:26 AM
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Kinda cringe take. Adoption is not the same as having a child of your own. By your logic it doesn't matter if your wife cucks you either, you're a parent either way, no need to have your own kid to raise.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:06 AM
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In this case the top commenter is kinda cringe. Adoption isn't a replacement for having biological children, and the idea that it is is some modern retardation from people who have fucked their own biological instincts. But then again I will always be happy to see someone suffer the consequences of their own poor choices. There is too little of that in this world, especially for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:05 AM
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Nah its gay lol. No other way about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 09:21 PM
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Yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 07:10 PM
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Its gay to be pegged yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 06:46 PM
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There are theories that its useful as a group bonding thing basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 06:45 PM
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Most cultures considered being penetrated or submissive as gay/effeminate. Its a modern idea that fucking men is the gay part. Probably also why so many things are considered gay that have nothing to do with fucking other men. And tbh Id agree. Getting pegged by a woman is more gay than topping another dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 06:44 PM
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Relationship goals tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 06:30 PM
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So far
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 06:25 PM
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I doubt you are actually capable of truly improving a mans life, beyond perhaps making it slightly more convenient and easier. Its a rare modern woman who can. Women have forgotten how to be women. Same goes for men tho. The way you talk kinda proves that as well. Its not the way someone who can improve anothers life talks. Its the way someone who has been burned by other people and forgotten what their strengths are talks. I'd know seeing as I'm the same way. It's nice to believe that we'd actu…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 04:15 PM
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Its honestly quite interesting. Historically for example there have been plenty of cases where a husband listens to his wifes advice or worries or premonitions or whatever and it leads to him avoiding death or uncovering betrayal or winning a fight/battle.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 02:23 PM
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Ugly automatically makes for a good partner means the same thing as all ugly men are good partners. Neither of which is something I ever said. I said there are men who would make great partners but are held back by their appearance. Meaning that whether you make a good partner or not is kinda irrelevant for whether you will find a partner or not. The most important thing is mindset and personality (and no, not being kind or loyal or whatever the fuck bullshit), second most important thing is app…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 01:09 PM
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So how exactly does that mean that all ugly men would be great partners? And do you think all men who are great partners get partnered up and no one is held back by his appearance?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 12:54 PM
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Where did I say that ugly men automatically make good partners? Show me where I said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 12:33 PM
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The difference is that im 30. Im not interested in waiting around forever in hopes that maybe I will find the one. If I get into my late 20s its simply not happening and there is no point in keeping course in hopes of a miracle.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 10:58 AM
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Unfortunately the results it gives aren't what Im looking for in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 08:20 AM
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Well see im not interested in a 26 year old. No thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 08:19 AM
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So? Im not your cousin. Im gonna either meet her in my 20s or im not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 09:33 PM
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Ok and my ego isnt getting bruised. If it gets bruised there will be no commitment. If she isnt a virgin she isnt getting committment. I dont care about evolution or whether it is still relevant or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 07:40 PM
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Too busy fucking whores and partying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 07:32 PM
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Ok and I will still not accept a woman who isnt just for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 07:24 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 07:19 PM
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Well thing is... im not particularily interested in a hoe. But ignoring that im also not interested in starting a relationship when im 30. I dont think I will have any desire or energy for that anymore by that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 07:18 PM
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Yeah but thats part of ignoring or evolution. There is no reason to care about cheating or promiscuity anymore so why not marry a whore and let her fuck around? If that is unrealistic to you then why would something slightly less extreme like a slut who acts single online for example be acceptable?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 07:16 PM
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Be a shitty person if it gets you what you want in life. No sky daddy is gonna punish you for it. The only moral course of action in life is one that leads you to what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 06:50 PM
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What other reason is there to do anything? If not for women Id work minimally, play vidya and hit the gym. I would have no desire to be social or earn money. And Id probably still find a life partner lmao. The only reason to actually strive is women. And thinking that this is some issue is thinking that humanity as a whole is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 06:39 PM
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Its what makes it so hard to continue improving. If I end up getting to 30 after 10 years of improvement and I dont have what I want in life there is a good risk that I will end up killing myself, completely isolating and letting myself go, or best case scenario I just turn into a selfish asshole and start doing all the shit women here complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 06:31 PM
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I could change this shit at the snap of my fingers. But im not interested in doing so. Why the hell would I change to become some mediocre cuck who is just fine with wifing up a whore and will forgive cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 06:22 PM
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Lol. Short men definitely get fucked over and treated worse just for being short. Is that news to you or something? Do you actually think short men are treated just like tall men and anything else is just their fault? Its a sin to be short as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 06:12 PM
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Im a healthy weight. And fit and muscular on top of that. Still mostly ignored and minimal contact from people tho. Probably the sense for tism that people seem to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:54 PM
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People who dont like their appearance and also aren't doing anything about it disgust me. And I used to be that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 08:58 PM
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The only moral course of action is one that benefits you. That doesnt necessarily mean always acting for direct gain or in this instance signing up and taking the money. If it helps you feel better about it then donate a portion of the money and take the rest, youre still gaining money. I dont think there is anything wrong with just keeping the money though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 08:55 PM
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You
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 06:00 PM
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No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 05:53 PM
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Milk gives you the strength to be a great warrior. And real men knock up a chick so he has a fresh supply.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:30 PM
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There is some evidence linking modern milk and red meat to a more feminine fat placement. Its not that bad though and isnt going to actually feminize you. Also entirely reversible by quitting red meat and milk if you desire. I dont think there is any extensive hard evidence for it tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:25 PM
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Milk gave the germanic warriors a physical advantage over the roman soldiers. Its part of what allowed them to grow bigger and stronger, but ontop of that theyd drink it before battle which gave them energy and endurance to fight longer and harder. Milk is also part of what built the mongolian empire.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:23 PM
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Im 22 and already got it. Or maybe not baby fever but definitely a fever for knocking a girl up and cherishing and pampering her. And then fucking her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 02:55 PM
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Bit much imo. Have you seen that Jubilee video where some women are deadlifting. The black girl in that video is something around my ideal for bigger girls. Chicks around her size who carry it like her who also hit the gym hard are better yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 02:40 PM
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Btw, ive been wondering. When you say you like fatties do you mean big girls who carry it well and are just supremely curvy or do you mean chicks who actually just have fat flowing off them?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 02:29 PM
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Yeah plenty of times actually. I even know women who are actually useful when moving big and/or heavy stuff. Theyre all countrygirls of one kind or another tho, used to working hard their entire lives and doing actual physical work. And theyre all older women. In the city and also even most younger women on the countryside are completely useless for it though, they lack the strength, the skill and the patience for it. And Id rather take an anorexic dude than them for help. I know 50-60 year old …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 12:13 PM
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Yes and a woman would only be a hindrance there as the second person. Most women lack the strength to do so. And for some reason also the spatial awareness or whatever to properly get it done on top of that, idk why that is but in my experience even if they have the strength to lift whatever bulky thing they still struggle to properly do the job compared to men. Maybe its the fact that they are shorter and smaller and as such are less able to manipulate bulky objects, idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 12:02 PM
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Can you carry a couch down narrow stairs in an apartment building? Women exist who can, 99% of women would just be a hindrance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 11:15 AM
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It wouldnt be survived better by unattractive men. It would be survived better by strong men who havent been sexually selected so much for some attractive traits that they are incapable of dealing with said catastrophe anymore. I.e men who are strong and attractive, but not extreme in their attractive traits, which is what would happen if you had women constantly selecting only a few top men based on attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 07:07 PM
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Yes and it can be taken to such an extreme that it isnt anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 07:04 PM
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Taken to the extreme those fittest 20% will eventually become so extremely attractive that they simply cant survive anymore if the environment becomes suddenly more hazardous.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 05:31 PM
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A trait that is attractive can become so extreme that it hinders survival through sexual selection. In doing so it signals fitness even more extremely because any specimens who are unfit will die due to said trait while only the most attractive can survive with that hindrance. In peacocks thats their feathers. In humans its testosterone which causes masculine traits. Testosterone is bad for your immune system, men with poor immune systems die. So highly masculine men signal that they have a stro…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 05:27 PM
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They are still on their way to extinction if sexual selection for more and more extremely sexually attractive traits continues.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 05:08 PM
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Yes. And one can also look at species which are not yet extinct but clearly suffer from hyper attractive traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 03:48 PM
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Evolution of the fittest can lead a species to extinction. Because sexual attraction is also fitness. So if sexual attraction outweighs actual fitness then you will eventually hyperfocus on that so much that the species cant actually survive anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 02:40 PM
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Its also a completely false reason seeing as youre more likely to not be traded in if you were there before they made it. Not 0 obviously but I cant in any way imagine the chances being anything other than lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 09:46 AM
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They dont. Not really. Hookup culture is the norm in Sweden. There are plenty of single mothers, although probably a bit more likely here that the father is involved. There are plenty of career women. There are plenty of unfeminine women. They might still desire those traditional roles but I dont see why any man would desire to give it to them as it will in no way be worth it to the man in Sweden.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:37 PM
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They dont "think" they are taller than they are. They lie about it because height and the appearance of height is very important for men. Shorter than average men are ridiculed, average men are just average, but if put next to a tall man they are ridiculed. And tall man are basically worshipped. Obviously a man would lie about it if he is short. Kinda pathetic anyways though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 07:55 AM
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A hippo could probably beat an elephant. Not every time, maybe not even half the time, but it would be a fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 08:49 PM
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Yeah so you just run through chicks and dont commit, easy as that. If society is sexually liberal and that means that the only way to have a relationship is to be a beta bitch then either dont have a relationship or change society before having one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 08:48 PM
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Then that ugly guy should max his charisma or money. Not settle for some hoe who treats him like a beta buxx. If he settles for that then thats what he is. And its never about the sex. Its about what it says about you. A sexless relationship with a woman who was a virgin before you is better than a sexless relationship with a former hoe. Have some pride. And its also not about being the sexiest guy ever. Its about being her best. If you settle for being her second, third or most likely 10th best…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:51 PM
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No I wouldnt bother stringing her along or faking interest. I want a serious relationship and I dont want casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:34 PM
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Doubt it. And even if it does better to have pride than happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:10 PM
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lmao yeah nah I doubt it will be that simple. And if it is prices will inflate so much that most people will basically just be eternal slaves to the rich body after body. Working 14 hours a day just to barely be able to afford to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 02:38 PM
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All of those are valid reasons and all of those are also good reasons for men to not bother taking her seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 02:34 PM
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Im sorry but I will never respect a man who accepts that. He is a beta and he should be mocked and derided for being happy with mediocrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 02:29 PM
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I dont see feminists taking accountability. Mostly just blaming men for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 02:11 PM
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Hippo is a close competitor.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 11:30 AM
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So the rich can get even richer for the rest of eternity and the poor will be forced to sell their bodies in ever more depraved ways?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 10:18 AM
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More like he is doing hard things that will improve his life. The others understand that but are too weak to do the same. That threatens them because it shows that they could do better but they arent so they feel like failures and therefore lash out to protect themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 09:20 AM
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Idk about other dudes but for me no. Infact as a young lad I freaked out thinking I was circumsized the first times I got hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 08:50 AM
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Nah lol, others have already said why this is false though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:44 AM
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Just keep em cookin in there
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:07 AM
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You dont need to pull anything back... such an odd take tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:01 AM
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why would it be better to be a stepdad?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 08:14 PM
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Absolutely. Not even a question.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:48 PM
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Saw a woman there complaining about never getting past the first date while still hooking up with baby daddy...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:07 PM
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SEA
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:06 PM
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And then it is also perfectly reasonable that if a woman has previously offered sex for a low price then men are not interested in paying a higher price or even the same price for second hand goods.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 10:45 AM
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Promiscuous women not having trouble getting commitment is not evidence that men do not care or like it. Literally every woman here who is married or in an LTR says that its just not something that comes up in conversation, don't ask don't tell so to say. That does not mean that men dont care, infact I would bet that those men have simply learned to not learn about their womans past, or they just naturally dont think of it. But I can almost guarantee you that most of the women here who were slut…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 10:29 AM
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Posting thirst traps, going on ladies nights out to the club/bar, girls trips and especially dressing sexy while doing so is all behaving as if you were single. Youre keeping the doors open for other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 09:35 AM
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Incel killings are ridiculously uncommon. And many incel killings are literally just incels killing themselves, in their own homes, without harming anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 06:15 AM
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Meat farmers can definitely get quite wealthy and move a lot of money. Its not like they will be swimming in money exactly but animals are valuable and they live pretty well. Its hard work though. Also important to remember that if you work in the military or say as a farmhand in a meat farm, your base pay might be pretty low, but you also probably dont have a lot of expenses, so you can save and invest a significant amount of money even though you are working in a min wage job that you didnt ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:47 AM
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And in refusing to believe that youd have a very naive and simplistic view of humans as purely more than animal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:59 PM
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Honestly I imagine unless you live in a very expensive area that 35k a year allows you to still invest a good chunk as well yeah? Meaning you arent even stuck working your entire life despite probably working full time or close to it, simply because you dont spend on anything really.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:58 PM
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I will continue to shame you because youre a shameful example of a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:48 PM
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Yeah actually it is. Look at nature and you will see plenty of animals killing themselves one way or another trying to get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:47 PM
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You change it by giving men an actual reason to do better. As of now? No reason to be seen. Make women actually economically, emotionally and physically viable and youll see men following suit. But men arent interested in becoming high value for fat, nasty, whores.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:33 PM
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A lot of them already are checking out and only working enough to pay rent for the smallest place they can find, electricity, as little food as possible, a console, and games. That is not a lot of work.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:29 PM
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Cringe take. Yes, lets grind away and uphold society so we get the privilege of giving an easy life to whores.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:26 PM
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And men wont find that reason to get out of bed. Men have no interest in benefitting society and women while women take that benefit and run off without giving it back. Society has always, since the dawn of time, functioned on the basis that women manipulate men into providing for them, and in return give themselves to men. If you just manipulate men into providing for you and forget the second part youre gonna end up with men realizing that theyve been given a shitty deal and they wont buy in a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:23 PM
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Women are that reason. Take away women and men dont have a real reason to fight. Atleast not the extent of war. But then... good luck making social and technological advances either because women are also the reason for men to do good.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:16 PM
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if a dog was smart enough to think about concepts like virginity it would also be obsessed with finding a virgin bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:27 AM
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Women hunted squirrels, rats and other small animals close to home when possible. But larger hunting parties seeking big game would have been exclusively men with few exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:21 AM
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Do you think other animals are like humans with our level of thought? Do you think this obsession with virginity just appeared out of nowhere? This obsession with virginity exists as a combination of our brain size with our natural jealousy and mate guarding instincts. We dont need to see our woman fucking another man now to have our base instincts stimulated, we can get the same effect by simply thinking about the fact that she used to fuck other dudes before us. And there is a reason why histo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:19 AM
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I think the issue with a lot of women is more so a lack of actual abs, rather than carrying fat in the wrong places. Personally I dont think women should strive to have low enough bodyfat for visible abs anyways. But women naturally have a harder time gaining muscle and ontop of that many are too afraid to put on weight, something which not only is necessary to get visible abs but also would likely improve their appearance even otherwise. All those women desperate for a flat tummy and improved a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 04:04 PM
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Usually a good metric is to add 8%. Women who store more of their fat in the tits and/or thighs/ass can get away with more than women who store less fat there, and probably also should have more.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 03:34 PM
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Goodbye, this relationship is over, you lied about being a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 11:46 AM
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Her past is entirely relevant. Who decides for example if a relationship is worth being in based on whether or not you get blowjobs or not. Most people dont. There are more important things even if you want blowjobs. But if you then later learn that the woman you thought just didnt like the idea of giving blowjobs was in the past frequently getting sloppy in bar bathrooms youd obviously be upset. You wanted blowjobs, but you were willing to look past not getting them because you like her otherwi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 10:55 AM
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Take that understanding and use it to find someone good and then keep that relationship healthy. Ignorance is bliss but that doesnt mean knowledge only leads to unhappiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 02:33 PM
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No lol. Although I dont really use dating apps very seriously anyways. Pretty much just occassionally look but seems fairly pointless for what Im looking for, especially in the area I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 01:50 PM
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wasnt the american postal service very respectable before the trump adminstration?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 12:44 PM
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My take is that there should be no after the fact burden placed on the man. If you get pregnant you find the guy and give him an oppurtunity to choose if he wants to be a father or not. If he doesnt want to then youre on your own for raising the child. If he does want to be the father you take a paternity test when the child is born, if it comes out false youre shit out of luck and shouldnt have fucked around so much or tried to trick a man into raising anothers child. And contracts should be av…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 12:23 PM
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Mostly black pillers and feminists. There are very few actual redpillers here. Easy to see if you look at any conversation about Chad or male attractiveness since most here consider height and face the only things that matter for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 11:50 AM
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More like looking for a needle in a stack of needles. And some of the needles are poisoned.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 11:44 AM
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Women who are virgins themselves and value that special connectionof the first time together whether it be for religious reasons or other reasons. Those are the most likely women to prefer virgin men, although important to note that not all virgin women prefer virgin men, not even all virgin women who value that special connection prefer virgin men. And the amount of virgin women who value that special connection is only a small part of all virgin women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 10:29 AM
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We should all steal a little more when it comes to luxury items and corporations. Its ethical.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 08:36 AM
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Youd be better served going for a man who doesnt stuff his face and can actually control his eating habits. The kids will see that and be more likely to do the same and therefore have better control over their own weight. If youve got a man who stuffs his face at every oppurtunity but for whatever reason doesnt get fat... well his kids will stuff their faces too but they might not have whatever made their father not get fat from it. Someone who stays physically active and can control their eatin…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 11:39 AM
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I mean thats probably cuz its a genetic defect so the children inherited it from their father. That doesnt make it a more common defect however. Also as far as orbital surgery goes. Obviously there is risk but as far as I know the chances of anything going wrong are fairly low. BBLs are much riskier for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 10:49 AM
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google says treacher collins appears in 1/50000 people. That is well within the extremely unfortunate range and is like a 0.5 or 1 out of 10. I said anyone at 2 or above. Also some amount of eye spacing is possible. Maybe not directly but the face around eyes can be altered to make the spacing you do have look slightly better.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 10:07 AM
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Nowadays there isnt much that cant be fixed by surgery. Id say most women could become atleast a 5 with surgery even if they are very unfortunate. On the truerateme list for female attractiveness for example Id say at least everyone at 2 or above could be "fixed" with surgery. They might not be able to become attractive, but at least average. It'd probably be quite a lot of expensive surgery and invasive stuff, but its probably doable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 09:56 AM
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Ironically the first paragraph is actually true. Somehow despite spending more time doing paid and unpaid work combined, men still self-report more leisure time than women do with less paid and unpaid work combined.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 06:39 AM
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Id agree but women dont seem to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:04 PM
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Yeah and as far as Ive seen those Dads still do on average more work, both paid and unpaid combined. But women come out to less leisure time despite that. The study I saw some months ago suggested that it might be because of activities like skincare and makeup and the like.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 06:49 PM
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The statistics for men having more free time than women is because women spend a lot more time on stuff like makeup and dressing themselves and consider that time that isnt free time last I saw.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 06:33 PM
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Idk. I just know that thats the case. Men can be sexual in a somewhat paternal role. Women cant do the same in a maternal role.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 04:59 PM
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You generally go to work 5 times a week to pay bills so that is a minimum of 5 sex a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:10 PM
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Ok but a part of leaving when there is a lack of sex is demanding a certain frequency of sex. A specific number is odd but a frequency range is not odd at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:09 PM
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So bills are paid with one day of work a month?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:05 PM
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Why is it not? Are you just supposed to stay within a relationship even if the sex dries up and the other party isnt willing to do anything about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:02 PM
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Because they clearly and directly benefit the perpetrator. Saying that murder and theft are wrong makes a culture and society more stable and helps it outcompete other cultures and societies in the long term and doesn't have significant drawbacks to said culture. That does not make murder and theft objectively wrong, and most cultures and societies also give reasonable exceptions to the rule where someone is reasonably allowed to murder and steal without punishment or with insignificant punishme…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:01 PM
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Its weird to set some precise number but saying you want it about once a day or whatever is not weird at all. And ending the relationship if it stops being anything near to once a day with no desire from the other party to change or improve is perfectly reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:54 PM
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That doesnt really make sense. Say you have a dude, he isnt the best dude, but he's good enough and makes you feel special. Do you refuse the dude and say he is worthless? Or do you graciously accept the dude and try to help him improve? I'll let you in on a secret, you'll refuse the dude and look for better lol. Anyways a better analogy would be making a cake, eating it, liking it, and never looking into how to actually make a cake or improve. Is it even a cake? You dont know.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:45 PM
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Moral systems do not exists separately from rational thought. Morality is human rationalization. There is nothing that inherently makes any course of action right or wrong for everyone. If your goal is to gain territory for your nation, and put it to productive use, but there are local inhabitants who are not cooperating and oppose your rule, then genocide is a correct course of action and you rationalize it by moralizing that they are subhuman. Anyways, the only course of action that can really…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:14 PM
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It sure is, doesn't mean you should strive for ignorance.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:05 PM
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The spirit is willing but the flesh is spongy and bruised.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:03 PM
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yeah that is absolutely insane, I could literally be retired at my current living standards in a year of work at 500k. With wife and kids at 1 mil. Work like that for 5 years and I would have a more luxurious retirement, with kids, than I would ever realistically achieve in my lifetime. 10 years at 500k and I could retire with kids, my kids could retire before theyre even born, and probably their kids and then their grandkids as well could retire before theyre even born.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 08:43 PM
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Interesting. Marriage at 32 doesnt mean they got together at 32 though so likely still optimal to start a relationship before your 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:57 PM
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Well no, because people can also have long ass marriages after getting married in their 30s. Except you never hear of any long marriages where they got married later than mid 20s at the latest.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:54 PM
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There isnt even a point in mentioning anything. If she has her body on Instagram, and especially if she keeps it there when in a relationship... just don't take her seriously. If she doesn't realise it on her own you telling her anything isn't going to help even if she listens to you on that one thing. It just shows that she wants to keep her options open and doesn't consider that unacceptable behavior in a relationship. People shouldnt have to be told that cheating is unacceptable to not cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:46 PM
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I mean its America, might as well be different countries all over the place.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:44 PM
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post it anyways, sub isnt active enough for your post to get buried. It will be seen and interacted with if it has any sort of substance.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:41 PM
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Women would win cuz the men would give up just to get them to shut up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:40 PM
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Every time I hear about people with long ass marriages they always got married early.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:39 PM
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If youre a fairly small guy then bulk. HD abs arent gonna help you when youve got small shoulders, a narrow back and skinny legs. Youre better off losing some ab definition rather than taking a third of the year off of gains.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 02:52 PM
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Having a job doesnt necessarily make you financially responsible though. Probably still more likely to be so when you actually had to work for the money, but nowhere near a guarantee. I mean there was literally a show about people who were going bankrupt because of sms loans in my country, and these were educated young professionals. They just partied too much, consumed too much, and spent beyond their means. I do kinda think among the middle and upper classes women are in general a bit less res…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 02:37 PM
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Thats a long ass cut.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 02:33 PM
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Very possibly. A lot of my random horniness comes from just being bored. When youre busy working, hanging out with friends, or lifting weights, well youre not really thinking horny thoughts. Even if attractive women are around. But your actual libido isnt really different. You could still go 5 times in a day or whatever, you just dont have a reason to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 02:20 PM
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I suppose thats true. You can also just build the strength with OHP though. Its not like thats a bad movement. Very practical. And especially if you arent even strong enough to do handstand push ups. And weights are generally easier to get progressive overload on as well, so once youre well past the strength required for handstand push ups you can progress easier by just adding weight on OHP.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 11:17 AM
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Im already steadily making progress in the gym, on savings/investments and on improving my health and habits. Slowly but surely. I need to take active steps to increase my income (probably gonna look like a new job and ideally skills and certifications) improve my looks (skincare, hairstyle, clothing) and learn skills I need to accomplish what I want in life (homesteading and becoming a charismatic person). I also need to work harder on finishing my drivers license. Something I am actively doing…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:51 AM
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Where is growing to 6 feet of height in there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:41 AM
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Why are you eating pizza ingredients without making the pizza.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:39 AM
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Hard to do a handstand pushup though. Very few people have enough strength to push their BW overhead once, let alone for reps, which is realistically what you will need because handstand push ups will be harder per weight in comparison to overhead press. And that isn't even mentioning the skill required.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:38 AM
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Ive said my thoughts on this before but imo a lot of childfree people are just coping, especially women. They couldnt find Mr Perfect, they didnt have the perfect life, they werent willing to give up their excessive hedonism and consumption in favor of saving money and spending it on building a family, or whatever else and then because it is so painful to think that they are old and childless and will never be able to change that they instead basically brainwash themselves into believing they ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:26 AM
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I mean people are individual and have individual responses to test levels. Raw test levels dont say everything. Peoples brains are also different and perceive things like horniness differently. I will say from personal anecdote, when I was a skinny teenager I was constantly horny, now in my early 20s Im not so skinny anymore, actually carry some muscle and in general live a healthier lifestyle. Im not as directly horny anymore and just dont think as sexually anymore, but in exchange when I do th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:24 AM
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And the people without kids wont exist
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:18 AM
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Being the primary breadwinner doesnt mean the husband gets to relax at home. Very few women are the only breadwinner. Most of those "primary" breadwinners earn only a little bit more than their husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:13 AM
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No it isnt, its just that women dont need to be good partners to be able to have a relationship and children or at the very least sex. There is always some guy willing to at least keep her as a side hoe. And it doesnt even have anything to do with being a good partner, plenty of dudes would be great partners, but theyre simply ugly or come off as weird because of neurodivergence and are socially isolated.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:09 AM
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Speak for yourself. Ive got a bigger chest than some women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:22 PM
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The ones who dont adapt will be people like you who assume men will just happily get neutered and grind away their lives for the benefit of women and the rich. And western culture will die off alongside you. It will get conquered by some other culture which provided actual incentives for men to keep it going, and those who cling too hard to it will die off alongside it. Although most likely your female line will be fine, it will just be conqured by men who dont just provide liberties and privile…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:54 PM
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Society doesnt stay cicilized just because it is civilized. It has to be maintained. And for men to maintain it they need incentives, because the baseline state isnt maintaining civilized society. Those incentives are sex and reproduction, remove the guarantee of sex and reproduction, make them too hard to achieve and men will have no desire to maintain civilization. Best case scenario they will simply be passive and participate as little as possible, which is what is happening now mostly in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:50 PM
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I mean I agree with your husband and you here. 30 min a day was just an example and it may even be easier often to instead do 3 hours in one session per week. or 1 and a half in 2 sessions. Especially if it takes a lot of time to get to and back from the gym. And especially with young children it can obviously be hard to fit in gym time. But you can still fit in some calisthenics or cardio. Its not that hard to do some push ups or squats or pull ups while taking care of kids. Hell do so with the…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:34 PM
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Europe is an odd place. Its so liberal in a sense socially that it kinda circled around to be somewhat traditional again because thats what works best and what both sides prefer most often. And unlike the US there is no stigma here that traditional is 100% bad and must be avoided at all costs. Still not really traditional in the end though, and still very gynocentric in many ways where women often pick and choose the traditional gender roles they want and men are often expected to just comply an…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 10:50 AM
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I mean not really. Think about it this way. Youve got your friens and family in the tribe. Youve all got partners and children. You go off to fight against another tribe. A man who sacrifices himself and such will be seen as a hero, his children will be taken care of and respected. And he is increasing the chance that his own tribe as a whole survives the day and wins, so that his tribe can then repay him by taking care of his children.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 10:41 AM
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If you want civilized society then incentivize men to participate. You cant just say that men are supposed to have self control and be civilized and expect them to follow along if the reward is a sexless marriage, especially when its a sexless marriage with one of these modern sluts who is likely just cheating on him while also arguing, screaming and nagging.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 10:34 AM
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The women rarely are forced to be with those rich men though. They could easily leave but they dont want to because the benefits are worth the drawbacks to them. And they were well aware of the benefits and drawbacks of such relationships before entering one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 09:23 AM
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Theyd be appalled at how racist Europe actually is in comparison. And also how "misogynistic" it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 09:21 AM
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I recall some female journalist writing about covid stuff as well. So not even dating. But apparently men who dont wear masks were some kind of horrible people who put others at risk. But when women didnt get vaccinated their trust just wasnt earned.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 08:59 AM
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At best this will make them view you as a little brother. I.e not sexually at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 08:12 AM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:41 PM
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2 hours a day is overkill. If you do it every day you can easily get away with 30 mins. I hit the gym on only the weekend and at most I spend 5-6 hours. And there is no reason to spend that much if your goal is just basic fitness and health and looking a bit better.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:55 PM
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Then your spouse is a moron.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:00 PM
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SEA is cheaper AND easier in every way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:48 PM
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Sounds like a job for me. I think youre kinda wrong tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:29 PM
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Attracted? Sure. Its impossible not to be attracted to someone like that. But I cant ever imagine myself actually taking a woman like that seriously or ever trusting her. It would be impossible to do. So no, I wouldnt marry someone like that, or date them seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 12:02 PM
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I think this comes down to our social nature as well. Women who stick by their man when something unfortunate happens to him that makes him unable to be the same man he once was, are seen as good women and hold a lot of prestige. And if her man was a very respected member of the community the rest of the community will help her and him and support them since that respect doesnt just disappear. And on the other side, if she leaves him after something bad happened to him she will be a social paria…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 08:10 PM
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Nah I disagree. The reward of raising a perfect girl is that she will find the perfect man, have children with him and give you perfect grandchildren. Your genetic lineage will prosper. Honestly your comment sounds kinda incestuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 07:23 PM
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I love the squat. Deadlift used to be my best friend. Now Squat is my best friend. Just hit 225lbs on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 07:22 PM
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Im marrying a virgin or fucking casually and just having some baby mama. No way Im marrying anything other than a virgin and no way am I doing serial monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 07:16 PM
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I mean it might never come up if you dont want it to. But then again. What if an old client or partner or whatever sees you one day and for whatever reason mentions it? Or what if he happens upon some old text message of yours. Or any number of things. Maybe you get drunk and play some drinking game or whatever one day and it comes up. Maybe an old friend mentions it. Maybe you get drunk and say "Im so glad you could accept me even despite my past" without thinking about it, and he starts to pry…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 07:10 PM
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Precisely because it will be a problem later in the relationship as well. Just because you hide the fact that you used to whore yourself out doesnt make a man suddenly just go "oh alright, I guess its fine, weve been together now for a while already." At best the man will stay with the woman but it will severely damage the relationship. Most likely the relationship will end, whether it be immediately or after some while. So why not just mentioned it early on so you dont waste both of your time?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:58 PM
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Id agree with this list probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:37 PM
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If you do that then dont be surprised when it comes back to bite you down the line if by some chance the guy finds out youre a whore or slut or fucked someone else while dating him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:36 PM
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Yeah. Not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:33 PM
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Genetic competence is not the same as being a stable and productive member of society. The only thing that genetic competence means is having children who themselves are able to have children. Someone who does a lot for society and is stable and healthy but chooses to be childfree is a genetic failure unless they have siblings or other close enough relatives who still have children whos lives he improves.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:07 PM
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Ok so obviously being responsible is not necessarily an evolutionarily advantageous trait. Its neutral. And it can swing into being a disadvantage if youre too responsible to the point that you refuse to ever have kids unless things are perfect (i.e modern childfree people lol) or if you are so irresponsible that you die before even being able to have children irresponsibly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 04:36 PM
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Both options are complete dogshit. I suppose the second option is better as long as the kids are still mine, like if she was the type of girl who literally only wants sex for procreation. And as long as I knew she wasnt cheating. But its only marginally better. Really both options are complete fucking ass. I want a partner who I can have kids with, kiss and cuddle and love but also fuck the piss out of. If I didnt want kids Id choose the first option without even a shred of hesitation though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 08:32 AM
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If I was gonna go for a muslim girl I could get one at home. Plenty of refugees here. Or Id go to Indonesia not ME. Id rather just go to a christian country where people still value virginity though. Its not like they dont exist. Or Id go to one of the east asian countries where women apparently on average are still virgins in their early 20s. All easier options than ME. Maybe im a bit more likely to end up with a girl who is lying to me about it but Id rather take that risk than go ME.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 07:37 AM
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Thats why dickgirls are the best kinds of girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:58 AM
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Youre still not going to struggle with getting chicks in terms of body even if you go roided bodybuilder though. Less women may be into that than just a natty lifter body. But there is still more demand for such bodies than there is supply.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:57 AM
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Lol. Just because you think being GF material is a win doesnt mean guys think the same way. Only time being anything like BF material or Husband material is a win is if the girl is a virgin or very low N. No one wants to be BF material to a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:47 AM
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Fuck all those virgins, bored moms and divorced moms in your church. Be the chad youve always wanted to be. And spread Gods seed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:44 AM
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Yeah idk what to say about that. Doesn't make you a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 10:17 PM
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Bro that woman is wild lol. "How dare an indian man think he is on my lardass level!"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 10:03 PM
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Nah EDIT: wtf kinda question is that anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 09:42 PM
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I mean yeah. Thats what you should do lol. Stay a virgin, find a virgin man, vet him and make sure he wants to have a serious long term relationship. Then have one. But staying a virgin is too hard for women and virgin men are too boring for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 09:20 PM
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Stay a virgin so you waiting is acceptable. Easy as that. Thats too hard to do though so accept the fact that men are gonna see you as a slut if you sleep on the first date or a two-faced bitch if you make him wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 09:02 PM
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Yeah and women dont have an issue with their man seeing other women as just fuckable but not relationship material. Most women infact would like that. Men on the other hand arent interested in being relationship material for a slut. A slut is a slut and he doesnt want to date her. Only reason he is is because he doesnt know she is a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:58 PM
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This is wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:53 PM
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Remind me to never ever consider a french chick for a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:47 PM
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The sad part when I think about short men is that in the past you wouldnt have had nearly as much trouble. There are so many old photos of young couples where the man is shorter than the woman. If you had been born just a little bit earlier you could have gotten women just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 06:43 PM
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Bro is a cuck
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 06:07 PM
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Literally is normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:50 PM
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Nice. Im only on a bit more than 700lbs. 335lbs deadlift but only 220lbs squat and 160lbs bench. I think its not even just sunk cost tho. It just starts getting fun and becomes a part of your life after a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:22 PM
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Gym specifically is actually pretty easy to get away from doing it for women. A lot of dudes start because of women but keep going just for the gains or the bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 04:29 PM
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Dont care, some other fool can save the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 04:26 PM
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Yeah and in the eyes of others youre a hoe either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 04:16 PM
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Sure, but getting treated like a slut because you are a slut isnt the same as getting treated like a beta because you aren't as attractive as the last guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:48 PM
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Yeah idk where youre coming from that. I wouldnt do shit for a woman unless I was actually getting involved with her, and then it wouldnt be about looks, it would be about her level of exclusivity. Ill do hell of a lot for a virgin, minimum effort for anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:34 PM
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Most manosphere dudes are putting in at least some effort on hitting the gym, maybe dressing better, trying to go out and socialize and stuff like that. Incels and Blackpillers are the only ones who might not do so, but even then, there are many incels and blackpillers who still hit the gym and try to dress nice, they just dont think it will help them at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:32 PM
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Isn't that OPs point? They sit around and wait for men, no genuine men come because theyre fat slobs, but they refuse to put effort in and lose weight and instead they complain that all guys are fuckboys and players.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:20 PM
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A sex toy maker? Sounds good to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:07 PM
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https://engineeredathletics.com/2017/07/17/the-mechanical-loading-effect-of-squatting-with-long-and-short-femurs/ Found this. If the table there is to be believed with 44cm femurs and 52cm trunk being long femurs. Then Ive got some XXL femurs at 48cm and 48cm trunk. Assuming my measuring is accurate, might be a bit off but close enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:04 PM
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Id never be able to like a kid if I found out he isnt my kid and I was lied to the entire time. Id be out of there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:27 PM
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If you act like a hoe youre a hoe no matter your intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:26 PM
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I mean frankly this is part of the biological condition. Your brain isn't above biology. Also, unisex bathrooms dont matter, that shit has existed forever in europe. As for sports I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:38 PM
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We have never been just men and women. Most cultures have had some sort of third gender or transgender stuff. It just hasnt been called trans. In many cultures you could choose to be the other gender but you were then expected to behave according to the gender roles of that gender. In others you could be a shaman or magic person of some kind, and usually considered a third gender again. And in some cultures eunuchs were considered a third gender, although becoming a eunuch wasn't always voluntar…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:17 PM
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If theyre a celebrity of some kind you could sell a lie like that but no chance if youre just some chick who happens to be doing OF lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:14 PM
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Either way both people are dead. And frankly death by poisoning might very well be worse than death by chainsaw in many cases. There are some very disturbing and painful poisons. Whereas with a chainsaw youd die pretty quick even from less vital body parts. Also: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sentencing_disparity Youre clueless Lilith.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:51 PM
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Honestly said man should just liquidate what he can, destroy what he cant and then get out of dodge to another country.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:48 PM
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Peterson is manosphere-lite. Shapiro isnt at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:45 PM
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Why should a chainsaw murderer be punished more than a poison murderer? Both murdered a person. And no, women quite literally get punished less for the exact same crimes lol. Get a grip Lilith.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:43 PM
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I mean yeah thats part of what makes an attractive mans life great but only easy and not effortless like an attractive womans life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:41 PM
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I just looked. As per your own words, "lewd not nude." Still pretty weaksauce on your BFs part but he probably looks past it because it isnt too bad and you make up for it otherwise. I doubt he'd be as enthused if you did nude content. And youd probably get dumped if you started doing actual porn. Let alone porn with other dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:38 PM
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Many dudes would be perfectly happy with a blind chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:30 PM
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Destiny is a cuck but who cares about the trans stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:07 PM
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This. If she is a slut she better be fucking on the first date and bringing in other girls for you to fuck and have threesomes with. And also paying half. None of this traditional reformed born again virgin bullshit. I wouldnt bother with a chick like that either way but if I was open to it there is not a chance in hell shes gonna be the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:04 PM
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You dont have to hurt anyone for the shame to be true. Shame is there to prevent you from doing stuff that will lead people to view you as lesser and cause you social harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 11:58 AM
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I mean I also dont view sex workers as beneath me. I would have no issue being friends with them, helping them if they need it and all that, same with sluts. But I have no interest in ever being in a relationship with them either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 11:57 AM
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Many autistic people in general are asexual, trans or other such things. Those women who arent dont really have any issue finding an NT BF. The autistic guys who arent mostly get fucked. Or rather they dont get fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 11:37 AM
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Idk. Should have thought about that before you went and did sexual liberation. Not mens problem that women cant figure out how to get genuine guys. And not their duty to save these hoes who dont know how.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 10:51 AM
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No man would take her seriously if they knew she was fucking another dude while dating her. The fact that he wont find out doesnt change that. And if he ever did find out he would dump her on the spot if he was a strong man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 10:39 AM
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Being an attractive man leads to a great life and also an easy life. Being an attractive woman leads to only a good life but in exchange your life will be completely effortless. Id personally pick being an attractive man but neither is bad. Then anything less than that and a male life is so much worse and harder than a female life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 10:36 AM
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In some places quite literally so as well. I.e clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 10:27 AM
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This. For some reason actively flirting with other women is seen as something that you obviously dont do in a relationship, and should be known as something you dont do without your partner mentioning it. But going out and advertising yourself as single apparently is the status quo, relationship or not, and you're supposed to mention if that makes you uncomfortable to your partner? Except if you do you're seen as insecure and controlling. Nah, fuck that. If a woman advertises herself in a relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 09:20 AM
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I mean thats literally the same thing. Thats exactly the kind of thing youd expect from a hoe getting saved. Hating her savior because he treats her too well. Not exactly a mentally healthy profession, they tend to be fucked in the head or get fucked in the head while being in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 11:35 PM
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There are literally people who hate their partner for treating them too well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 11:27 PM
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Ah. Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 10:37 PM
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People literally abuse their partners because they view themselves as so worthless that they cant believe how any decent person would love or respect them so they hate and disrespect their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 10:31 PM
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I mean women will always be doing what the herd is doing, cant change that. But that doesnt mean you as a man have to be into all the women following the herd. If the herd is wrong I want a rebellious woman. If the herd is right I want a conformist woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 10:22 PM
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A strong man wont bother with a woman like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 10:16 PM
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As if anyone is going to deepfake just some random chick, let alone an entire OF catalogue of it. Also presumably this is a woman who is actually admitting her past. If she was just going to lie about it like every other chick then OPs post is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 08:54 PM
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Because only a weak man would accept a former hoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 06:53 PM
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You cant get away from stuff like that. Best bet for a woman like that is to reform themselves and find a decent but weak man who will look past it. And then make sure not to ruin the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 06:47 PM
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I dont think we are all meat robots. But I also think people severely underestimate how similar we are in many ways as well as how controlled we actually are by instincts and hormones and genetics. Some would like to believe that we are 90% unique and in control.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 06:26 PM
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Not even who to fuck. But who to date. Somehow its worse to actually date someone than just casually fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 05:04 PM
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I would like biological grandchildren so Id hope all my children dont end up gay, trans or childfree. But Im fine with it otherwise. Dont have any issue with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 11:40 AM
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Definitely not a normal woman. Thats a sex doll with below average looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 07:26 AM
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Your dating pool as a woman quite literally shrinks as you get older, and also gets harder to compete in. The older you get the less men will be interested in you and the more competing women you have. And on top of that the less men YOU will be interested in. There are also simply less men alive the older you get although in the west thats a pretty small difference until about 50 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 06:33 AM
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I care
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:37 PM
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My obliques on my left side are kinda scuffed at the top of the abs. I think there is like more than an inch of space between my abs and obliques on the left, and all I can feel there seems to be tendons or whatever. On the right side there isnt a space.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:13 PM
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The second guy would still have a permanent addiction though. And could very well relapse. Id rather have the first person as a partner as they are atleast aware of the dangers of having been addicted in the past and work around it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:04 PM
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might be worth going to a doctor. But in the meanwhile do lower weights with higher reps and make sure you dont overdo it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:00 PM
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Tbh I have no idea what my ideal physical features are. If I was a young lad I would have said a skinny slutty blonde with a tramp stamp (guess why lol) but now I have fried my brain for so long with porn that I literally dont even care about the specifics. I could go with pretty much anything as long as they arent ugly or obese and their personality is good. If I had to say anything it would probably be muscular with some fat on them, i.e a powerlifter kind of look rather than a bikini competit…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 07:54 PM
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Holding both positions is also not inherently flawed or anything. You can want to have casual sex and want those women to get pregnant, after all it only makes sense. More genetic success for you. You can be open to casual sex but unsuccessful in general and hold the belief that abortion is the cause of your lack of success, because now women can fuck whoever they want even if the man will never commit or is a deadbeat with no risk of consequence because she can always abort. So she will never b…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 07:49 PM
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I didnt prefer to be alone. Being alone is the reason I turned to books and internet. If I wasnt alone I would never have gotten into books and internet. Atleast not to the extent I did. I just didnt find it fun to play alone outside, so I found something that I could have fun doing alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 07:29 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Darin_%28singer%29#/media/File:Darin-2021.jpg Been told I look kinda like this guy and I somewhat agree. Not as good looking but not terribly much worse. Personally Id say Im what that guy would be if he was pretty much average, i.e a 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 07:19 PM
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I liked sports and being physically active but I never really had any oppurtunity to do so. When I was a little boy I went to soccer practice but I recall something about fluid buildup in my knee or something and then we stopped going to soccer. Then we moved to the countryside and I enjoyed running around outside in the forest and all and being active, but eventually the few kids around who I played with all moved away and I got more and more into just hanging around alone inside reading books …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 07:14 PM
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Thats what homosexuality in humans is. Or atleast is thought to be. And Im inclined to believe its true. Just because it is biologically successful doesnt necessarily mean that it will be culturally successful though. Although you will find that most cultures in history have given a place to homosexual people, asexual people, transgender people and so on and allowed a portion of the population to go childless. Generally it is culturally expected that you then also stick to the cultural norms aro…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 07:04 PM
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Because reproduction is limited by women, not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 07:00 PM
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Because a singular womans reproduction does matter to society. If one woman doesnt have kids that affects society a lot more than it one man chooses to go childless. So the costs society inflicts are heavier. Generally as you'll find societies accept some portion of women being childless as well though. And there are roles for those women where people will respect them and not judge them for remaining childless.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 06:32 PM
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For 4 there is no way to say. It all depends. If something is a dealbreaker for you though dont entertain a relationship just because the rest is perfect. If something isnt a dealbreaker but you dont like it then make a judgement if the good parts outweigh the bad. And maybe take a look inward and consider how much that part of the past really matters to you. You might find that it really isnt as important to you as you thought. Or you might find that its an even bigger problem than you thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 06:30 PM
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They dont need to be bad people or have done anything wrong for n-count to be a dealbreaker. And no, fuck this patriarchy shit. All men care about n-count. Bluepillers lefties are just too conditioned to give voice to their distaste of womens n-counts. If everything else was equal all men would prefer a woman with a lower n-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 06:24 PM
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The past always matters. All of it. Whether parts of someones past are a dealbreaker/red flag to you or just a neutral fragment of the past is another matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 06:21 PM
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Leave him then.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 05:57 PM
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How is the guy fucking her life up? Him having kids when he doesnt want to would fuck his life up. Women arent entitled to kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 05:02 PM
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What do you mean by popping? And when in your set does it happen? And does it always happen? And does it only happen with low rep heavy weight? Might be a weak tendon though or something. If there is something wrong with your tendons though its probably best to go higher rep sets. Doing so for a while might strengthen your tendons and fix the issue and then you can see if you still get the problem. In general if there is something wrong with your body in terms of exercise the best course of acti…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 05:00 PM
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Women arent entitled to children.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:51 PM
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Because whether a singular man has kids or not is of no relevance to society. Infact pushing every man to have kids is probably detrimental to societies. A mother might push her son to have kids because she wants grandchildren, but society at large does not care if a single man chooses to be childfree and has no reason to punish him for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:49 PM
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True. But its also not quite as simple. Not all the cubs are killed. Older cubs might be spared or evicted. Its not as simple as OP makes it seem, but its also not something that doesnt happen. There are deterrents to women behaving as such and so the benefits have to outweigh them. And scenarios do exist where the benefits do outweigh the deterrents. Generally a woman shouldnt be looking for better if she has children with a man. Even if she has a low quality man. Because the deterrents for doi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:24 PM
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Lions dont help your argument. If a lion male gets killed by another his cubs get killed and his females mate with the new male. Humans arent different. Its not like lion females like having their cubs killed and they try to prevent it but they are usually unsuccessful.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 03:38 PM
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Worse, but not terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 03:29 PM
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The human penis and balls shows relatively little sign of sperm competition. Chimps show a lot more signs of that. Gorillas show even less than humans. As far as I recall.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 03:27 PM
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TwoX cheers it on as something that women should obviously do so they dont suffer any negative effects from ending a relationship... except youre then just leaving the man with all the consequences with no chance to do the same while you pretended everything was fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 03:23 PM
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Googled it. She looks pretty good in the pics I saw. Strong and stout rather than a lardass. Idk what her body looks like under those clothes but she looks muscular and thick rather than like someone who just cant stay away from the food.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 03:20 PM
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I agree but that doesnt mean OP is wrong. These are deterrents to behavior like that. But that doesnt mean women wont try to get away with that behavior anyways. The very best example is how previous men are always abusers, deadbeats, neglectful of her needs etc etc. There is always an excuse why he was a bad partner. Its literally the protection mechanism against those detterents.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:59 PM
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Id say that is also true. If her husband gets maimed and cant hunt anymore. Well the tribe might compensate for that and support him and you. If he has status. But what if the tribe doesnt? What if they give you scraps? The woman is going to go for another man if possible. Or she will prostitute herself to support the family. She isnt going to stay and die with a man who cant support her and who doesnt hold enough respect to get support from others. Similarly what if her man loses so much status…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:50 PM
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Perhaps. Although perhaps not that much. Thats what I recognize in myself. Im not sure if Id say im overwhelmingly like that though. And who knows how hard changing it would be. Might be easy might be hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:47 PM
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wtf what?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:35 PM
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At the same time though if a new male just killed your kids and your husband and your entire family. Well you either adapt or die as well. The women who adapted to that passed on their genes with the new man. Those who didnt didnt pass on their genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:31 PM
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Tbf written text is not as graphic as pictures. Especially if it is softcore. I feel like if a dude was reading something similar it would be considered worse though. Although perhaps only because it would be weird for a dude to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:24 PM
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Bumbler, Windbag, Vulgarian. Some mix of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:22 PM
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Well. Then I just prefer male empowerment to female empowerment. Because Im a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:14 PM
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What male empowerement? You mean the male empowerment fantasy of bashing someones skull in and being a hero? Also two examples with female leads that I actually enjoyed off the top of my head. Movie and Series. Alien and Outlander.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:05 PM
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Yes movies and series. Not stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:03 PM
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Literally not what I said and also not a reflection on anything except what stories I find interesting. Or in this case not even stories. Literally just movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 01:57 PM
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Most enbys are pretty ugly. Trying to look as little like one gender as possible is not a good look.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 01:56 PM
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I dont find them all disinteresting. Just many of them. I literally just finished an audiobook with a female protagonist and antagonist (although both were protagonists and eachothers antagonists.) And one of the only webnovels I still like even now that Im not a teenager anymore is pretty heavily female lead (even though its technically multi-POV) and written by a female author. Infact many of my favorite books have important characters who are female and plenty of them have female protagonists…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 01:53 PM
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I dont. Movies/Series with female protagonists just dont tend to interest me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 01:03 PM
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I doubt the US is 16%
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 01:02 PM
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Let me know.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 01:01 PM
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Fundamentally we are still animals acting on instinct. And this in no way discounts homosexuality. Which is evolutionarily beneficial to passing on genes, otherwise it would have died out long ago seeing as it literally precludes having children if not socially enforced otherwise, it would have died out long before homo sapiens ever existed. And the reason it is beneficial to passing on your genes? Because you have siblings who will have children. Homosexuality is more common in younger siblings…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 11:51 AM
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Same. Although I would like to have a lifelong relationship with the right woman. But my standards for that are sky high whereas my standards for someone Id have kids with is lower. So most realistically Im just going to end up having kids with some woman who Im not in a serious relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:10 AM
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FGM isnt one thing. There are more and less extreme versions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 05:29 AM
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What chores lol? There are machines for everything nowadays. You arent spending that much time on chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 09:43 PM
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Kids arent independent, but that doesnt mean youre spending 24/7 taking care of them. And sure, taking care of siblings is your job too, but not when mom herself had kids she never could take care of properly. And frankly I care little for half-siblings. As far as Im concerned im an only child still and always will be. Either way you can fuck off with your delusion that taking care of kids is some herculean task of constant vigilance. Its not that hard, and it doesnt take that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 09:41 PM
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At worst that is the case for very small children, like 1 and younger. And they quickly become a lot more independent. You arent spending 24/7 on kids for 2 years, let alone 10. Mind you I have siblings, siblings who I was forced to help take care of because my single mom decided to get knocked up again by a man who was hella obviously never gonna do jackshit. And then she wasnt capable of handling them alone, and I saw what her handling of them really was, and it was nowhere near 24/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 09:15 PM
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So you think there is no behaviour that applies to an entire gender, or even an entire species? Or at least 99% of the gender/species? You think all behaviors are at best only applicable to very very similar groups of people who make up a very tiny portion of the population? There are no behaviors that span from Karens to boss bitches to E-thots to orthodox religious housewives to bipolar crazies to shy bookworms to popular girls? And the equivalent for men? There is nothing that all those group…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 05:01 PM
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I dont listen to people who are full of shit, but I am intelligent enough to see when people who are full of shit still say factual and intelligent things. Im also intelligent enough to see how those people aren't genuine about saying those things and they simply do so because thats how they earn their money or fame. The character or intelligence or lack thereof of the people saying an intelligent or factual thing do not make the thing they are saying false.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 04:57 PM
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So how do women not benefit more from monogamy than they do polygyny and casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 04:54 PM
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What I dont understand is why people like you are so incapable of any sort of thought about the actual intricacies of how simple humans actually are. To you humanity is so simply explained "we cant explain human behaviour, because every human is different, there is no possible way to infer how one person may behave from the behaviour of other people in similar circumstances, everyone is different, after all."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 04:53 PM
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Men and women arent monoliths. But they also are a lot more monolithic than some people want to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 01:53 PM
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So Sweden became the way it is now by practicing the things done now? And it isnt just that things can work the way they do now because of a past that worked better? Its pretty widely acknowledged that polygyny leads to far more conflict, far more unstable societies, with fewer men contributing constructively.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 01:51 PM
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So youd jump in the water after him when you cant swim either? Good to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 01:49 PM
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I mean by that logic putting your dick in there is like frotting. And frotting is pretty gay too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 01:47 PM
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Have you not even read scientific literature? Like thats literally something that women themselves agree with, unchecked female promiscuity is a race to the bottom of who can offer the easiest sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:50 PM
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So youre saying its better to live in some wartorn hellhole without our modern scientific advancements just so women can satisfy their desire to be with the best man, even if it means polygyny or casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:48 PM
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Im saying that the redpill isnt full of shit just because the so called influencers and grifters are parroting it to sell their shit while themselves being the exact opposite. If a man who cant swim says that people who cant swim shouldnt jump into water goes and jumps into water, will you say that his statement was full of shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:47 PM
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I mean the redpill does give actionable advice. And it does give you steps to learning social skills. And the anti-women rhetoric is also valuable to teach some guys that yeah, women arent angels. They will fuck you over, they will take advantage of you, they will disrespect you and act shitty. So dont just blindly trust them. Some guys need that kind of advice. What you shouldnt do is listen to "redpillers" trying to sell you something.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:41 PM
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Thats funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:33 PM
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Sure I have. I just dont give a shit if sneako and Tate are throwing stones. They dont matter to me. If they want to throw stones they can throw stones. I will also throw stones, I just dont live in a glass house. I dont discriminate against people living in glass houses.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:32 PM
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I dont necessarily disagree. But men simping is still a big problem for men, the fact that cucks like Sneako and tards like Tate exist doesnt mean that simping isnt a problem that hurts men as a group. Its literally the same as women giving out sex too easily. It means that other women also have to give out sex easily to be able to compete. Overall both things make the whole dating scene worse for everyone except the elites.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:19 PM
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Lol. Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:16 PM
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How can it be effeminate and weak to take charge and act to make a woman orgasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:14 PM
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Tbh Id rather kiss a guy and suck his dick than get pegged. Especially considering if I was doing that it would be a twink or femboy, or maybe not even a guy at all and actually an MtF woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:13 PM
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Iirc only one group of bonobos acts the free sex matriarchal and peaceful way. Because they live in a very bountiful area. Other groups of bonobos act more like chimps.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:05 PM
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I mean monogamy benefits women more in the long run since it is what allowed the stability and technology we now enjoy. But if women are in charge polygyny and casual sex (with the top men) is the outcome. You can see it in literally all matriarchal cultures, theyre either polygynous or very casual with their sex, or both. If men are in charge monogamy is the outcome. And ironically enough women benefit more from monogamy than from polygyny and casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:03 PM
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Same as your last question. Having sex with a dude is gayer obviously, but the scenario presented is manlier than the alternative which is pretty feminine. Both questions are basically this: Would you rather be a Gay Man or a Straight Sissy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 11:59 AM
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I mean tbf some men arent super sexual either and theyre fine with lots of deep conversation and a bit of sex. But the important point is that the sex is there and consistent enough for him. Not some dead bedroom shit or sometimes once a month. And if you asked a man if he wanted a purely romantic or purely sexual relationship 99% would say purely sexual. The romantic part simply does not satisfy men without the sexual part. But that doesnt mean that the romantic part isnt important. I also dont…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 11:54 AM
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When in reality that isnt even true. And in the cases of where it is true it is often missing the context that explains why it is true and why it being true was not unjust to women. Often women could own land just fine, but when they married they became a houshold together with their husband. And the household owned land, not the husband or wife as an individual. And the household took the husbands name and worked as a unit. Feminists took this to mean that women were property, chattel slaves ow…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 11:12 AM
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False. We lived in tribes during caveman times, strength did not rule supreme. We were very cooperative even then, and have been since before homo sapiens existed. Strength certainly ruled, but if a man attempted to use his strength to be overbearing and tyrannical the other men could easily overpower him and kill him. Basically humans domesticating themselves. Cavemen also took good care of the elderly, sick, maimed and deformed. And as far as I know relationships could have gone in many ways t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 09:05 AM
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True, pretty sure MGM has always been more common actually. FGM is pretty niche and limited to some african and maybe asian tribes. Meanwhile eunuchs have existed all over the world pretty much forever until only very recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 08:43 AM
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Sex with a guy is more gay no matter which way you spin it. I would still rather top a dude than get pegged. Only thing going near my ass is toiletpaper.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 08:39 AM
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Hard to believe youre actually a virgin the way you talk. You sure you dont just mean that BJs and anal dont count?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 06:41 AM
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I mean you can preach all you want about just needing to have faith in God and nothing else, but life just doesn't work like that. People need actual incentives, incentives of substance. I.e be a good and faithful man and you will be rewarded with a good and faithful wife. When that incentive is broken and the men see that there are no good and faithful wives to be had... well they will leave, they will look for what they want elsewhere because there isn't any reason to stick around looking for …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 06:34 AM
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Because a fat girl is the SMP equal to a skinny and average looking guy. Thats the problem. People dont want fat girls. People would rather be with an ugly but skinny girl than a pretty fattie.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 05:32 AM
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Honestly I wouldnt be so certain. You didnt mention if he is a shut in. Sure he can play video games all day but Ive known guys with that very description who were getting girls all the time simply cuz they were still extroverted and gave absolutely 0 shits. Girls in school dont really give a shit if you are lazy, spoiled or get shit grades. Video games nowadays are socially acceptable. Being fat doesnt help but is easily made up for by the absolute confidence of giving absolutely no fucks about…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 05:29 AM
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As far as I know some FGM is not much worse than circumcision. Some of it though is basically like chopping off the glans and more.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 05:24 AM
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Same with women who look amazing chubby.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 05:22 AM
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Yeah... doubt that. As for investing. That is what you should do. There isnt really anything else you can do anyways. Its not like people will be buying gold from you in the event of a population collapse. And even if they did you wouldnt be able to retire off it anyways if you couldnt do so off investments. Since there simply wont be people around to support retirees. Land might be the only thing of value you could buy instead, in case corporations keep buying it up and refuse to sell it even i…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 08:28 PM
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Sure. Except this will be a problem that actually impacts you as well. If populations collapse you can say goodbye to retirement. Even if youve got 100 million dollars in investments and savings it will be useless. You wont be able to buy anything with it because the economy will be disintegrated. And government pension? Lol, yeah not gonna happen. You will have worked your entire life just to have to keep working. Your best bet is that you had kids who can help support you. If they want to help…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 08:09 PM
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The fact that us, the interrim generations get shafted by it. And realistically also the modern luxuries we so enjoy wont work nearly as well with smaller economies from less people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 06:02 PM
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The solution is that average and below average men pay women to have the children of above average men. Fair, according to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 06:01 PM
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Men are lonely, women most affected!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 05:54 PM
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You mean the same garbage you buy from brands? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 05:05 PM
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Whats owned by the same small number of companies? Lol. You overestimate your own expertise just because you are in sales. Not everyone is a consumer and the fact that you arent aware of that tells me you have some serious gaps in your knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 05:04 PM
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Youre making a lot of assumptions about what I do. Im not exactly buying in bulk or eating healthy off some ad. I dont see how I was manipulated into buying 30 shirts for $30 that will last me years. As for music, I pirate it. Nothing more needs to be said. Or rather I pirate the music players premium versions. As for eating healthy. Again. Im not following some fad diet or buying advertised "healthy" foods. In general I buy nothing if it is advertised. And I do my own research in terms of what …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:14 PM
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negative misogyny is generally correlated with positive mosogyny, like paying for dates. Women like positive misogyny more than they dislike negative misogyny. For all they want to claim they dislike it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 02:23 PM
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So what exactly do they have in common with modern western women again? I mean Id gladly go back to the non existent time when women were property. That doesnt seem to be the case though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 02:21 PM
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I wear the cheapest shit clothes around. Buy them in bulk for cheap. I listen to pretty much anything. And I eat very basic and healthy for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 02:18 PM
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Doesnt seem to be an issue to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 01:13 PM
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Literally what everyone in history has been warning us of all along. "Patriarchy oppresses women!"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 01:04 PM
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Black slaves werent free to go whenever they wanted. And they also didnt willingly choose to be slaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:49 AM
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The ladies seem happy enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 09:58 AM
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The only guys I know who say women belong in the kitchen have success with women. Must be a useful mindset to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 09:22 AM
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I just said they did have baggage didnt I?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 09:07 AM
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BB isnt bad. And neither is AF. Its only natural. Men just arent interested in being BB for a woman who has spent her life running AF. And women arent capable of making BB work after running AF. They carry too much baggage for it to work and it is not exciting enough for them after a life of AF. With the men not measuring up to the combined power of all their past partners. So if youre gonna do BB, do it from the start. If youre gonna do AF, stick to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 08:58 AM
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Without massively changing our culture it cant be made more fair. And that wont happen in our lifetimes. Cultures can change rapidly admittedly. But not so rapidly that those of us alive now in the west can really benefit. The only ones that might actually see any benefit of a culture shift are those who are still young children and babies. At best the rest of us will see any serious positive change by the time we are 40-50 and by then its pretty much too late. Sure youve got plenty of life left…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 08:13 AM
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Sure. They still want kids tho. So they cope that they cant afford kids. Rather than admitting the truth that they arent willing to make sacrifices for kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 07:36 AM
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Most of the women who want kids but cant afford them in reality just dont want to give up their lifestyle for kids and they also cant lock down a man wealthy enough to support their lifestyle as well as kids so they end up without kids and coping with the lie that they cant afford kids anyways. Most of the women who cant find a man to raise kids with are just unwilling to go below their AF pump and dump standards. So they dont find anyone to commit to them. Some of them are willing to below but …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 07:10 AM
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Just happens to be inherently more unfair towards most men. And women dont see an issue with it because they arent harmed by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 06:39 AM
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Cant really argue. Anything negative said about women nowadays is considered toxic and misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 06:33 AM
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If I was just fucking some chick casually it would be hot to be compared and judged better than anything she has ever had before. For a serious relationship tho? nah
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 06:03 AM
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humans compare. Youd be a very odd human if you didnt compare.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 06:02 AM
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Ive heard tops are at a premium but I dont believe that tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:30 PM
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Well I meant it more so as in how so many girls express how rare that basic shit seemingly is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:29 PM
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There are so many guys with disgusting ass personalities and antisocial behaviour who have no trouble with women. That has literally no bearing on it. It's confidence and assertiveness and simple compounded experience with women. The rest of your personality doesnt matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:04 PM
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Youd be surprised tbh. I feel like I see something like this every day where some girl is impressed by the most basic shit their BF does.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:01 PM
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Sounds a lot like "I dont have a drinking problem, I can quit anytime I want"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:55 PM
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Most likely what will happen if you do is also that you end up with a "virgin." You know the kind, theyve been ran through in uni but theyre born again, they just forget to mention it. Or they took a bunch of sausage up the ass or in their mouth. Or they just straight up lie only for it to come out later with a bunch of tears about how they thought he was such an amazing guy and didnt want to lose him by saying the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:53 PM
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Im always surprised by how the most basic shit impresses girls. I suppose I've experienced it firsthand as well with my friends girls. For some reason Im somehow always more attentive and actually remember details about them more than their BFs, and thats while spending way less time with them. Doesnt seem to have ever helped with actually getting girls myself though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:51 PM
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In my experience this is not true, chocolate cake has let me down every time, without fail. It always looks so damn delicious, and I always have an upset stomach and feel absolutely horrible after just a few small bites.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:48 PM
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Men who look and act like women, and are women for all intents and purposes except you get a side of sausage.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:46 PM
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This lol. A woman who could crush me between her thighs and fold me like laundry is hot. Though realistically thats just a fantasy, not into omega roided up chicks. But hey, maybe I will end up with one of those absolute units of women you sometimes see in powerlifting who look good while being ridiculously strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:44 PM
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Oh you mean there is something wrong psychologically with men who havent had success with women? And thats the reason they dont have success? Maybe for some, but for most its the other way around and the issues are caused by a lack of success with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:41 PM
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Would date a girl taller than me and always was like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:39 PM
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This sounds like basic stuff? Atleast the sugar-free candies stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:38 PM
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Literally several threads and several comments on dailies about this lately. Men here know that there are differences
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:36 PM
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The point is that you cant go around arguing that women dont want men with high Ns or say shit like "its misogynistic to look for virgins when you arent one" when you yourself disprove your own point with your actions. Most men would consider an N of 10 high on a man, atleast in the context of a virgin woman. And even by the highest estimates given by some sources 10 is at the very least average. And thats the HIGHEST estimates. Also I dont recall CimZim ever using the word "misogyny" but you ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:03 PM
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Agreed. Id still call myself somewhat bi though. Although im mostly leaning straight
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:59 PM
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10 vs 1 is quite a bit higher however. And 10 is quite close to being above average even by the standards of the sources that give the highest averages.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:58 PM
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Sure, menopause is normal, doesnt mean its good for you. And anti-depressants wont prevent or reduce osteoporosis or shit like that. Also the amounts of steroids you take for HRT aren't really that bad, especially considering you have no sex hormones really. Also also, taking steps to increase sex hormone levels is also entirely natural human behavior. Weve been doing it since forever by using certain plants and eating certain foods said to make you manlier or do other stuff. Most of them bullsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:56 PM
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I'll be homo any day for a cute twink or femboy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:46 PM
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Really? heart disease perhaps, I dont know. But the cause of osteoporosis is a lack of hormones, and HRT is literally used to treat osteoporosis and prevent it. Also I just googled it. There is a slight risk of cardiovascular disease and stroke for women over 60 on HRT, increased if you start HRT late into menopause. So start HRT early and you will be low risk and not even until youre 60. At which point does it really even matter? Not to mention all the positive effects of actually having sex ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:45 PM
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CimZim honestly seemed like one of the more reasonable women here until she said that she wouldnt date high N men and most virgins/low N women wouldnt while literally being with a man who is much higher N than her and on the cusp of actually being a high N man as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:30 PM
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Shooting
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:28 PM
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If they lost the weight theyd get attention and stop being shy real quick Id bet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:26 PM
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Im Bi, dont need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:25 PM
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Modern societies. They aren't all that different from being a caged animal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:23 PM
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Alpha thing was debunked for wild animals. Animals in capitivity behave exactly like that. Humans are animals in captivity. Whats hard to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:24 PM
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Eventually it will get solved. We will all just be long dead before then. But over time everyone who cant adapt properly to modern relationships will simply have their genetic line end. And only those who are genetically predisposed towards it will survive. Alternatively massive culture shifts and global catastrophies will solve it. Either way all of us will be dead so those of us here who struggle with modernity are kinda shit out of luck there and all we can do is try our best.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:16 PM
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If youre a free stepping stool for someone youre a fool. The only people you should freely help are your own kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:10 PM
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Average casual christians are the most common type though. And I doubt even stricter ones are truly sticking to it all the time. Probably still plenty of hoes pretending to be virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:08 PM
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Squats and I suppose deadlifts already hit most stuff. Its just hamstrings and calves which dont really get anything. Leg curls for hamstrings and then Im just on my feet carrying shit a lot at work so I dont really feel a need to do calf raises. Been thinking of doing abductor/adductor work though since ive heard it improves squat. But the machine is out of order at my gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:06 PM
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I just do Squats and Leg curls. And 5 sets of 8 hours of walking per week.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:32 PM
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There is nowhere in the world where a young ugly/fat man is dating a young average/skinny girl. Unless he is rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:17 PM
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Girls also like a nice ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:16 PM
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Hmm. Didnt know that. Personally Id rather have normal hormones and then die of cancer at 60 or something tho rather than live until 80 on antidepressants with no hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:15 PM
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I recently said this to someone else. But for me specifically its virginity. If they arent a virgin Im not taking them seriously. It doesnt matter if they choose me now when Im still working on myself or however good their personality is or how hot they are, im not putting my all into a woman who has been with other men. For now I probably wouldnt date them at all if they arent a virgin though, but who knows really, Im not exactly swamped in women who want me. But when Im older and Ive basically…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:07 PM
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Mong doctors.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:00 PM
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Maybe its just your bad personality. Just be a better person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:48 PM
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Ive seen a ton of average/skinny guys with average faces who are dating fat or below average girls. Because thats the SMP in the teens/early20s. A fat or ugly chick is the equal of skinny/average dude. Ugly/average guy or fat guy with hotter woman only becomes a thing at 30+ at which point both women their age and younger are interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:46 PM
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Unlikely. Women your age and younger can get guys more established or hotter than you. They have no reason to go for WIP when they can get the finished work.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:28 PM
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Shoulders. And back. But back is hidden with clothes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:27 PM
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Oftentimes what this looks like is a woman dating an older man who is more established in life than herself, and then her deluding herself into thinking her access to his resources and experience means that she is more established and mature than she actually is, and therefore judging guys her age as less established and less mature than herself despite them being equal in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:06 PM
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Why not improve yourself aswell? Hit the gym, improve your personality, learn to cook. Although tbh, if I got in a relationship rn I would also most likely dump her after having improved myself. Because most likely she wouldnt be the kind of woman I want. Although Id never be loyal to her in that case in the first place. If I was in a relationship with someone who isnt the kind of person I want I would just cheat on them whenever.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:02 PM
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Wouldnt it better to go on HRT and get back their hormones instead drugging themselves to cope?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 03:53 PM
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the 50 year old woman is being chased by 60-70 year old chads at best. Although at that age youd be hard pressed to find any chads anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 03:44 PM
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The difference is that young hot guys are fine with getting free stuff and easy sex from an older woman, but theyd never settle down with her. Young hot girls sometimes just date older guys for free stuff, but many are also fine settling down and having a family with said older guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 03:41 PM
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Very true. Id drop my computer instantly without hesitation and live offline for the rest of my life if it meant I could have actual human connection and love.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 03:23 PM
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Tate isnt even giving bullshit advice or saying bullshit. Some of it is yes, and he certainly isnt genuine about many of the things he says, but the stuff he says is still legit a lot of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 03:06 PM
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Honestly it wouldnt even be an issue if they just went for 40-50 year olds when they wanna settle at 30. But they wanna go for 30-35 year olds and complain when those men want to catch up to the life they couldnt live at 20. Or worse yet in those womens eyes... those guys arent interested in 30 year old women at all and want 20 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 02:39 PM
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Personally I dont believe either that women actually mature faster. That may be true for puberty, but once theyre past that at best they are equal to men their age, although in reality Id argue theyre less mature. What they have is access to older men with resources while their male peers as you said are still struggling to get started with life. So then they compare their own access to those older men to men their age, delusionally believing that the fact that they have access to men with resou…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 02:24 PM
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Honestly Ive come to the conclusion that studying body language just doesnt work and thats the real issue. I.e the issue isnt that we dont know body language and how to properly socialize, the issue is that we cant or have a very hard time learning it. Because realistically everyone has to learn that stuff as babies and children atleast to an extent. By now I am just thinking either just keep trying stuff until I figure out by elimination what works and doesnt, or get lucky. Studying people isnt…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 01:12 PM
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Even christian girls sleep around and even if they dont they arent generally into 30 year old virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 01:08 PM
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Thats called hedonism. There is more to life than enjoying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:40 PM
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Clearly you dont love him enough to be with just him and put your all into a relationship with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:39 PM
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Which is odd. Realistically they should. And historically they always did. But in the modern world it seems to have become such that mothers dont care if their son is getting cheated on and cucked even. Whereas historically that mother would have dragged that sons wife into the streets by her hair and beat her up lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:19 PM
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Accurate and based
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 09:00 AM
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Your child will know, even if somehow they never learn the actual truth they will be raised by a weak man and a disgusting woman, they will know. And most likely they will even learn that you're fucking another dude because dad just isn't attractive enough. And think, what message does that send to your son if you have a son? His dad, the person he looks like, is not attractive enough for his mom, is not worthy of monogamy, so by that virtue you are telling your own son that he is not attractive…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:38 AM
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Nah, people like you should be judged and shamed. And so should your husband, but not for the same reasons as you. You should be judged and shamed because your actions are disgusting. He should be judged and shamed so he mans up and takes charge of his life, in reality one might say he deserves pity, but pitying a man does not help him, judging and shaming him for his poor choices that lead him to such a poor place is far more constructive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:34 AM
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I feel bad for your husband, I cant see any scenario here where he is anything except simply desperate for any kind of human connection, and willing to debase himself to get it. Frankly, I doubt he will be content looking back at his life if he lets this run its course until he is old and grey.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:31 AM
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He's a cuck lol. Hopefully for his own good he mans up and leaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:26 AM
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Why not just have your husband raise your boyfriends children while youre at it. He should just be happy to be able to support you and him after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:25 AM
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Pride matters more than happiness. Happiness is a useless emotion and debasing yourself just to be happy is the worst thing you could do as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:25 AM
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Why would they have a panic attack because of a daughter? Daughters of single mothers while not ideal still have far better outcomes than sons of single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:05 AM
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Ok and what about the shaming and insults thrown at men who want virgins or low N women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 07:20 AM
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First one, not even a question about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 07:17 AM
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Ok so then Thai woment arent prostitutes or gold diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 07:16 AM
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Only as long as they themselves cant gain anything from denouncing the other woman. If they can improve their own value to men or advance themselves they will be remorseless in trashing other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 07:07 AM
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Charisma, Confidence and Assertiveness. Those are what matter. The rest is simply flavor. Some women will like your flavor, some wont.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 07:04 AM
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You love your current partner most obviously unless something is seriously wrong and you havent gotten over your Chad ex. You love them most because they are most recent. But you would have loved him more if he was your only. Love wont be evenly split, even if the partners were actually equally good, but youve got less and less there for each individual, if youre on your 10th partner youve probably still got 1% for your 1st, 2% for your 2nd, 4% for your 3rd, 7% for your 4th, 5% for your fifth an…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:57 AM
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I mean if she gets into an argument with the guy and there starts being general dissatisfaction and maybe theyve been together for 5 years and there are no children involved and so her body is signalling shit to her. Well she is quite likely to leave him, and do so for one of the Chads she let eat her out in the past, and this time it likely wont just be eating out. She might not even leave, she might just cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 11:18 PM
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By definition you wouldnt be a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 11:13 PM
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You dont know what virgin means.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 11:12 PM
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Ok so whats the problem? The thing being discussed was a woman putting out easily and then demanding more from new partners to get the same value from her. If youve always demanded the same amount from every man then what is the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 10:51 PM
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Yeah, she fucks around with some men who dont give her the time of day beyond sex, then she gets tired of that and wants a "real" relationship and maybe kids, so she finds some guy who will actually commit to her, he wont get any before he is already committed, and even when he does eventually get its less than once a day if even once a week and she wont be as enthusiastic and she will also be done with exploring her sexuality so he just gets the basic stuff. They move in together, have a kid, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 10:49 PM
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Preferably Id be happy and in love. I just refuse to be happy and in love with a woman who isnt for me and me alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 10:34 PM
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Why didnt you do that with past partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 10:33 PM
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It means the different relationship she wants with you is one where youre a beta who she can push around and have stability with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 10:26 PM
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Been meaning to say this but actually yeah. Id rather die alone and miserable than be happy and in love with someone who has a past. Like, if I had two choices. First choice is that I am retired at a young age with enough money to never need to work again, but Im married to a girl with a past and I have to be fully committed to her, no cheating, no poly, no divorce. And second choice is that im jobless, homeless and penniless, with no love. Id choose the second option. Not even a question about …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 10:24 PM
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I mean yeah, in that scenario the other man is the toy, not her. So you get to claim a woman who uses other men as toys, so indirectly you are the alpha while those previous guys are the betas. On the other hand if she is servicing dudes and you commit to her, you are claiming a woman who is the plaything of other men, so you are the beta cuck to those men. Still wouldnt commit to a woman who has been eaten out by a bunch of dudes tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 10:19 PM
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Yeah, she wants a beta cuck relationship with you, not an alpha fucks relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 10:16 PM
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BJs arent in a grey area, dick is involved. Girl getting oral (or handjob) from a guy is the only thing thats in a grey area. Its technically sex, a sex organ is involved after all. But it doesnt involve dick unlike the rest which is what men actually care about. But at the same time a man is involved still. Its best to just throw it in with the rest that do involve dick though, a man is involved which is close enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 10:12 PM
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Same. If the sex organs are involved its sex, even if only one persons sex organs are involved. Although admittedly specifically for the purposes of N count, receiving oral is in a bit of a weird place for women since dick isnt involved. Might aswell just throw it in there though with the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 10:10 PM
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Yeah and my point is that you literally disprove your own point while trying to argue that youd never be with a high N man. And even if you consider 9 average you dont prove anything and your argument is dead because you yourself didnt care about a mans N while arguing that women care about a mans N. Time and time again women show with their actions that what they say they care about is not true and they are perfectly fine having relationships with high N men despite being low N or virgins thems…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:58 PM
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Literally seen feminists where I live call thai women golddigging chink whores when conversation goes to men here finding Thai wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:53 PM
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They arent nearly as desperate as you make them out to be. It is much more like a lower class or middle class woman marrying a rich or wealthy man. Not so much some impoverished woman who cant take care of herself selling herself into slavery to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:52 PM
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Sure, but its still not happening. She will end up taking some dick anyways most likely just to try it out before she decides shed rather get eaten out. And even if not, she will end up with some BJs on her belt. A girl who has been eaten out by 50 dudes and has never once given PiV, anal, blowjob or even a handjob simply does not exist. Even someone with 5 dudes on her belt doesnt exist, at most I could see someone having been eaten out by 2 dudes with no other experience. And frankly, even if …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:35 PM
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Those women arent victims lol. They know full well what theyre doing unless theyre naive autists, but most arent. Doesnt mean that actual love cant exist or develop either there though. But they certainly arent some exploited group. Nor are they actually in poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:29 PM
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That same woman is also racist towards those Thai women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:26 PM
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9 is high N. Literally, even if you go by actual statistics of what is average nowadays 9 is still high. But even the modern average is high N in reality, the fact that people cant keep a relationship going doesnt change that fact. By every metric you were a virgin getting into a relationship with a high N guy. So tell me, why should men give two shits about not sleeping around, let alone saving their own virginity like yall like to complain so much about? "Eww you want a virgin? Are you even a …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 08:17 PM
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That would never happen though. At most she might have had 1 highschool boyfriend go down on her before she realised she wasnt ready. And yeah obviously BJs count.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 08:04 PM
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So women would happily set into a hierarchy following a woman who actually knows what she is doing if men actually werent there to save them? Theyd actually organize and get shit done?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 06:44 PM
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Thats a fair few partners, and certainly a lot more than you have. And thats most women. They dont care about the guy having more experience than themselves and often actually prefer it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:58 PM
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Pretty standard. Men are more forgiving for everything in casual relationships. Women are always stringent.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:45 PM
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Youre literally in a FWB relationship with a guy, your first guy, who himself has been with plenty of girls and apparently guys before. What the hell are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:43 PM
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Not at all upset about that, I actually wish more low N women were like that, but most arent. Guys arent upset about low N women not wanting high N guys, its just that thats a false statement, most low N women dont care either way and plenty actually prefer higher N men just like they prefer older, smarter, more confident men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:01 PM
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In her imaginary world those top 10% of men would basically be toys used for sex and sperm. And theyd honestly probably be fine with it since in such a scenario the women generally assume basically that the bottom 90% will compliantly work and serve them and their chad babies. So Chad himself wouldnt have to do anything. Thats obviously not gonna happen though and she is delusional but thats the idea they have. Also in that imaginary world shed get knocked up whenever she wanted, and if she want…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 01:16 PM
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I agree with the other guy but I also agree with you in a way. A virgin who does care about me also being a virgin would be rarer than one who doesnt care, and maybe also rarer than one who would prefer an experienced man, idk. But to me the virgin that does care would be more desirable than one who doesnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 12:39 PM
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The start of the decline of western civilization.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 12:30 PM
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The mainstream culture is not oppressing you. The mainstream is oppressing men and giving you privileges.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 12:18 PM
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She might get to she isnt wrong there. But the bottom 80 or 90% of men wouldnt sit by and stay virgins, working to raise chads children. Theyd either nope out leaving single moms to raise children alone while chad runs to new girls constantly and doesnt have time to bother with raising kids. Or more likely theyd just overpower the chads and enslave the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 12:10 PM
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Pretty sure that isnt possible yet beyond theory. Also what do you wanna bet a man will be the one to make it actually possible lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 12:06 PM
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The mormon church isnt a state. Its a niche religion and its rules and laws dont have any real power over you. You can also leave it at any time to claim your secular privilege like most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 12:00 PM
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By primitive I did mean agriculture and onwards. Maybe a bit misleading. Although I personally dont subscribe to the idea that the male desire for virginity comes from paternity uncertainty, atleast not primarily. I think it is much more so about a desire to not be second, beta, or even worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 11:46 AM
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If you live in the west you are in no way oppressed as a woman. Youre oppressed as a person, the same way the men around you are. But you arent oppressed more than them. Infact you might actually be less oppressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 11:41 AM
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Id still not be with her. Itd be great of her and Id respect her for telling me she has a past, but I wouldnt have a relationship with her. Even if her past is in serious relationships where she waited 6 months before sex, but she wants to fuck me on the first date. I still wouldnt have a serious relationship with her. If she isnt a virgin, and that includes anal, blowjobs, handjobs and so on, im not taking her seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 11:16 AM
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With A you wouldnt know though. If no one else knows you arent going to know either. And if I did learn about it by some miracle, like us running into one of those guys randomly, or me finding some picture she stupidly kept around or let one of the guys take, or for any reason... Id break up with her, and it wouldnt matter if we had been together for 1 year or 10 years, if we were 80 or if we had kids. Id be done with that relationship. At most I might keep up a farce for children while being un…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 11:00 AM
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The male participants were literally without the same kind of drama or issues. Thats just women not being able to organize into a hierarchy or survive on their own the same way men can.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 10:22 AM
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No, but Im not going to take someone seriously if they used to be a plaything. If theyve been a plaything in the past they will only ever be a plaything to me. Although im not going to take someone seriously even if their past experience is in serious relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 10:02 AM
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I mean thats what the person would be here lol. And thats what women who have casual sex are to the men they have it with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:56 AM
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Not a chance. There are literal survival shows about average women placed on an island, they either leech off the men or have to get rescued by the producers. They literally cant even settle into following the leadership of a woman who is an expert at it. You really think women would organise at society scale to keep society running without men when they cant even do so with 20 women in a direct survival situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:44 AM
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Youd very quickly lose electricity, internet and phones. Sewers and water would go next. Streets would overflow with garbage. Farms would become unworked and food wouldnt be transported into the cities anyways. Women would survive for sure, but society would collapse and many would die probably. If women disappeared? Society would go on working as usual, men would probably resort to homosexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:41 AM
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There have been some survival shows taking average men and women to some island. In one of them the men got a working hierarchy, made shelter, made fire, got food. Women came over to leech because they couldnt even get shelter from rain. In another the men again got shit working but this time they were on separate islands. The women had one or a few women who knew what to do but the rest refused to settle into a hierarchy and follow their leadership, they had to be rescued from the island.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:38 AM
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Exactly, food is cheap, entertainment is practically free. If you didnt care about family you could literally quit your job now, move somewhere cheap around the equator and bum it on a beach somewhere. And hey look young girls are into that so youd get laid even though youre a bum, atleast if youre somewhat attractive. Alternatively you could work very minimally, get the cheapest apartment around, feed yourself cheaply and entertain yourself with the practically free entertainment of movies, gam…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:34 AM
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I mean yeah, there are other reasons obviously, paternity uncertainty is one of them but I dont actually think that ever applied all that much to the concept of wanting to commit to a virgin. By far the largest reason I think is simply status and not wanting to feel like or appear as a beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:08 AM
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Sleeping with a non virgin isnt being a retroactive cuck. Committing to and marrying a non-virgin is. In this scenario your only two paths in life are to either marry someone who used to be a plaything for some random powerful person, or to be a plaything yourself and get a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:06 AM
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If I had to choose I would rather get fucked myself. Being beta is preferable to being a cuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:04 AM
1

Yeah basically. In the first scenario would you rather be a cuck or get fucked by another man yourself. In the second scenario would you rather be a beta and then get your virgin or would you rather be a retroactive cuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 08:51 AM
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Yeah I am if theyre the 30th guy. Only way he isnt a cuck is if he knows and simply pretending to take her seriously for easy sex. If he is actually serious about her though and knows about her past he is a cuck, no other way about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 08:39 AM
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Sure but I doubt that will be true for Tate, he has too much notoriety. He'd be fine if he was just anonymously trafficking girls and fucking whores though, he'd be able to still get a virgin. Although I think even if he was anonymous he would likely end up with a hoe or slut or golddigger because if you surround yourself with that kind of woman you will likely end up with that kind of woman either way. He'd be able to get a virgin but he likely wouldnt, with his notoriety he wont even be able t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 08:36 AM
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Q4M: Would you rather get fucked in the ass by a man or let that same man fuck your girl? And I suppose the same question in a different style, would you rather be a bottom for another man for some time and then marry a virgin girl, or would you rather have that girl fuck the same man for the same time and then marry her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 08:32 AM
1

Mid 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 08:31 AM
1

True though, just look at the Greek and Romans.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 08:30 AM
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Those will be his only real options if he does ever want to have committment or family though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 08:14 AM
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The real reason why men dont want a woman with a past is because youre a beta, a cuck, if you give committment to such a woman. If you want to know why men would feel that way then think about how humans used to live, we used to live in much smaller areas and groups, where the woman likely always knew you existed. So imagine how youd feel then if a woman you know goes for another man, and has sex with him without any committment. And then when she is dumped she tries you as a second option. Youd…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 08:00 AM
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Getting to regularly hit it as the 30th guy in line, and paying for it is not something that holds any value. You're a cuck and there is no other way around it. There is barely any value there even if you get to hit for free, and its only worth it because it's free and you aren't paying anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 07:45 AM
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Get an older guy, or alternatively get one of the many guys who do want to settle down in their 20s, they exist, they just arent party goes dicking down a new girl every day. This is caused by feminism, women are spending their youth to serve the state, and then want a guy to settle for them when theyre old, and they have to do this because they entered the workforce and therefore diluted it and reduced the value of labor so much so that you can't have a single-income household unless youre like…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 07:40 AM
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Nah the chads who got to hit it without committing or putting any effort in obviously got more value out of their turn. So the simp pays the biggest cost for the smallest return after 30 other guys had their free samples.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 07:26 AM
1

Right when I find a woman worth having a serious relationship with. Not giving it to some hoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 07:19 AM
1

Kinda the point
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 07:17 AM
2

Best kind of fries
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 07:13 AM
1

It does. Being underweight is worse for your health than being overweight, especially in the short term but its not exactly healthy in the longterm either. Only once you reach obesity levels does excess fat become worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 07:13 AM
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I dont see a mention of underweight here. You cant make a comparison between whether being underweight or overweight is worse with only stats for overweight people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 07:10 AM
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I think the reason she only thinks there are those two kinds of men might be because she probably only goes for confident and experienced Chads. And they wont have those issues of being bad at pleasing a woman or too shy to ask. They will either be selfish and only care about cumming, or they just specifically dont care about her. Or they want to give orgasms and know how to do it without guidance.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 02:26 PM
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Slut shaming doesnt harm men though. The most attractive men will get easy sex whether society slutshames or not, and also whether they slutshame or not. Average men dont get easy sex either way, whether women are shamed or not they have to commit far more than the top men. Just that in a sexually liberal society theyre even more likely to end up with a girl ran through by other men. And the bottom men dont get anything anyways, whether sexually liberal or not all they have are prostitutes and m…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 12:56 PM
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Ideally yeah although most men are atleast somewhat realistic and they want sex quick so they want the woman to at least have 1 previous partner. Obviously ideal would be a virgin who wants to fuck right away but thats not going to happen most of the time. Someone with 1 previous partner is good enough for most and willing to fuck a lot sooner most of the time though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 12:35 PM
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Maybe, but in that scenario wouldnt he put in the effort before fucking while he still hasnt achieved post nut clarity? If this is the case then he probably knows all along that he is dumpster diving, and therefore is unwilling to put in the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 12:05 PM
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I agree but at the same time youre still responsible for your partner, and im baffled by how many guys there apparently are who just want to masturbate into the girl and leave and how many women just starfish. You cant be expected to know how to get your partner off without at least time and practice, but preferrably also communication. But you can be expected to at least try without being told. Imo its the same as acting like a committed partner rather than like a single person. You cant be exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 10:35 AM
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1: A bit chubby, probably slightly overweight but seems to carry it well. Hard to tell with clothes tho. Would date, she's very cute. 2: Probably close to or borderline overweight, carries it very well. Just from body I would date but she looks a bit old for me, might just be her frown though. 3: Definitely overweight. Id date her but Im not super attracted to her face, body is fine though, seems to carry weight a bit worse than previous girl but I'm fine with it, probably shouldn't gain more we…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 05:23 PM
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That scenario also makes no sense. Why would you be happy with her promiscuity just because she used to be into you. And in general what the hell do these scenarios change anyways, promiscuous is promiscuous, doesnt matter the circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 12:35 PM
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Their first assumption is also that you think its okay for men to sleep around and that youre some player with 100 bodies. Quite a few times when Ive mentioned I want a virgin to spend my life with the first comment will be something like "and are you yourself a virgin? You disgust me!" or "Oh but its ok for you to sleep around?" without me ever having mentioned anything along those lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 12:34 PM
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Partly so, partly not. Atleast some of the difference between female and male reproductive success comes from patrilocal families. I.e women move to live with their husbands. This leads to the Y chromosome being concentrated while the mitochondria spreads out. And so if something disastrous happens such as war, disease or famine, the Y chromosome dies out while the mitochondria survives. So basically an innocent quirk of our reproductive habits. But at least some part of it is in fact male morta…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 12:24 PM
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Honestly sounds like some kind of hormonal problem. Youve probably checked with doctors already but its odd to be obese with such a diet, even if its quite calorie dense. Alternatively just incorporate more physical activity. Start lifting, turn the fat into muscle and also burn a few extra calories.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 11:44 AM
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Pretty much a skinny and flat short girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 11:39 AM
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Tummy fat is actually quite hot as long as it isnt so much fat that theyve got droop and folds.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 11:35 AM
1

Yeah nah, maybe if you ask the women, but most guys are hella turned off if they learn that their "virgin" girl was the throat goddess of college or whatever. The only people who would say that blowjobs dont count towards n-count are women trying to make themselves appear more chaste than they are, and men trying to get action from a virgin, and those men will brag about it to their bros afterwards, so shows you how much it doesnt count to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 07:21 AM
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As far as I know the traditional stuff like holding doors, pulling out chairs, paying for dinner and such does work. Also not letting her walk home alone at night and stuff like that. Basically being protective of her. It's benevolent sexism and women are attracted to it in general. They aren't attracted to simping though, so do stuff like that from a position of "I'm better than her and need to protect her" rather than from a position of "She is better than me, I need to serve her."
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:26 AM
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Yeah and women can abort, consent to sex is not consent to reproduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:37 PM
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For some dumb reason that group also includes pro-choicers. Which is most baffling of all to me. Because apparently consent to sex equals consent to reproduction for men, but NOT women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:36 PM
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Eh, guys get attacked plenty for their looks, I think most ugly guys just end up keeping to themselves and actively try to stay invisible whereas women maybe dont, at least thats my experience. But if theyre a public figure of any kind, they get mocked for their looks, male or female.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 01:58 PM
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Kinda forgetting average people, who are a large majority. Very few men or women are actually ugly, although if women are asked a good chunk of average men are ugly. Take them into account and its something like Hot Men/Women > Average Women >>> Average Men > Ugly Men > Ugly Women. Which of hot men and women have it better depends on if youre measuring how easy or how good life is, hot women have very easy and good lives, hot men have easy and very good lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 01:55 PM
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Lol no. Im completely confident that I could satisfy women just fine, doesnt make me interested in satisfying some slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 01:35 PM
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I mean, I prefer a virgin, and a lot of other things ARE more important, but if she isnt a virgin I dont care about the other stuff, im not entertaining a relationship in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 01:30 PM
1

0 is low, 1-5 is medium, 6+ is high
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 01:27 PM
1

Who the fuck tells their daughter about fucking some celebrity. And I assume also their husband in this case. How fucking poorly does she think of her husband to tell tales of fucking a celebrity to him and his daughter. And how much of a loser is he to not leave her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 01:16 PM
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Can just go back to slavery, im sure women would be happy if all the low value men were slaves and forced to marry them once the high value men got bored of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:45 AM
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I think his point is that at least until very recently, humans had much better lives in hunter-gatherer tribes than in agricultural societies. But that the earth couldnt support hunter-gatherer tribes anymore so people were forced to do agriculture. And then agriculture outcompeted hunter-gatherers but the individual was worse off. One could even argue that the individual is still worse off even in the modern world.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:44 AM
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The guys being locked down to one girl cuz he got her accidentaly pregnant are the chads...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:09 PM
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Disgusting that youre considered only fuckable if you give your life and resources to them, while another man is so desirable to them that theyll do it with no promises.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:31 PM
5

The sharpener actually breaks and gets dull too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 01:06 PM
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I agree with you, but lets be real here, if society wasnt what it was, with laws and culture, someone like you would be walking a tightrope and probably end up beat to death by some girls father or some competitors. God I wish that was the kind of place we lived in, can't be Genghis Khan 2.0 in this modern shithole.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 01:04 PM
2

W mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:43 PM
2

Guys arent interested in being marriage material for a girl who had her fun with other guys. For most guys being thought of as "marriage material" is disgusting and vile.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:18 PM
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Thats the femcels. Incels do want someone in their league, but those are the femcels pining after chad or normie girls getting pumped and dumped by chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:08 PM
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I think youre using leagues like niches. Im using it more so as a rating of attractiveness, both physical but also mental and possibly material. Sure some girls may be more interested in nerds while others are into gymbros and yet others are into car guys and so on, but within those niches youve got more desirable and less desirable people, those are leagues. Leagues would basically be a measurement of how desirable someone is on average. I.e if everyone in the world was asked how many would say…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 11:54 PM
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I do agree that on a societywide scale your league is rather objective. Individually not so much though. Even if society in general was in agreement that you were on average a 4, another person who society in general considers a 6 might be into you and consider you an 8, and you as a 4 might consider that 6 a 3. I suppose Im kinda also opposing my own previous comment, though in reality such pairings will still be rather rare as most people do conform to societies average, because well, otherwis…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:49 PM
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Yeah, thats true. And often times casual vs serious is how this stuff is revealed. I was just pointing out that it isn't necessarily about that, and that guys can be unwilling to date a girl with a casual past even if he doesnt care about feeling like a loser, or doesnt feel like a loser from it. And how guys can feel like a winner even if they are committing to a woman who didnt need committment from previous guys, I suppose part of that is also whether she demands that committment or not. It w…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:41 PM
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The issue is that the welfare still needs those obsolete men to actually provide those benefits on the behalf of those men. Without those men the welfare state would be powerless to supplant their position. So the state uses the labor of men to steal their role in society and their benefits from said role, only providing stability in return, stability which makes it impossible for the downtrodden to rise up and become more than simply the dregs keeping society running for the benefit of those ab…
/r/AllPillDebate27/03/23 08:24 PM
1

Even just beyond the hit to your pride for having to pay for something others get for free, and do something taboo at best, illegal at worst for it, experiencing that once only to know that the only way to keep experiencing it is that you have to keep paying, would be worse than never having experienced it at all. Also for many people $100 is a full days of work, and unless you're traveling, in many richer countries youd have to pay upwards of $300-400 for the higher quality escorts. Where I liv…
/r/AllPillDebate27/03/23 07:42 PM
1

Even so, autistic and other struggling men in the past would probably still be likely to end up alone more often than regular men. And more likely to end up with single moms, drug addicts or other women with issues even if they did get a partner, and probably at a later age than a regular man. Although frankly back then single moms would have been a lot more desirable than single moms nowadays, less of them in general and unlikely to be some boss bitch dont need a man type who got knocked up by …
/r/AllPillDebate27/03/23 07:33 PM
1

Literally what is happening in the modern world. Rich people actively opposing the wellbeing of the poor and even middle class all over the world. Also we are facing general runaway decadence everywhere, drugs, partying, sex, porn, materialism and on and on. I think we very much are facing another wave of revolutions same as the French revolution inspiring others. And not just economic revolution, I think we will also get moral revolution in one form another alongside it.
/r/AllPillDebate27/03/23 04:57 PM
1

Makes me recall and think of the Bayashabad from ASOIAF. My initial reaction to that was revulsion and disgust. Like imagine being one of the 99/100 men deemed not good enough to become men, have women and children and getting castrated at 13, relegated to being a servant, fills me with a sense of dread. But the more I think of it the more I think if that was actually a real culture those men would actually be happier than modern incels. Theyd know full well why things are the way they are, no o…
/r/AllPillDebate27/03/23 01:59 PM
1

I want similar things and I wouldnt personally be fine with a widowed girl now. Id still like to get a virgin. But if I end up not being able to find what Im looking for by my late 20s I suppose Id be happy to take that. Even more so if Im late 30s or 40s.
/r/AllPillDebate27/03/23 01:25 PM
2

Also volcel is inherently different from incel. Even if you aren't asexual, it's not that big of a deal being a volcel when you know you could get sex or relationship whenever you wanted.
/r/AllPillDebate27/03/23 12:58 PM
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Genetically they will still be more likely to be conservative, settle early, have kids types even with indoctrination though. Certainly not a guarantee. But I think over time that kind of person will be more common simply because the alternatives choose not to have kids in this modern world.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:42 PM
1

Depression and despair do actually work that way. Studies show that forcing smiles does make you happier and helps with depression. It probably wont cure your depression, but its been proven to help and improve your mood. And if you force yourself to smile every day constantly you probably will be happier and less depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:24 AM
3

Hostile misogynists generally also hold benevolently misogynistic beliefs. And while women might be turned off by hostile misogyny they are attracted to benevolent misogyny. Combine that with being tall, attractive and having status/wealth and women couldnt care less if he tells her she cant drive for shit, belongs in the kitchen and should shut up with her stupid opinions. Infact she will wholeheartedly agree with him, she will stop driving, will make food for him and supplant her own thoughts …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:20 AM
1

And mothers slutshame and golddigger shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:17 AM
1

Probably never. I imagine youd just keep that girl as a bootycall who you dont interact with otherwise and just cut her off if she ever wants more.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:03 AM
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By that definition a 5/10 woman is in the same league as an 8/10 guy. But while she definitely wants commitment from him he will never provide it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:48 AM
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In the end my belief is that this will naturally solve itself. The men alive now are fucked though. But eventually we will reach a point where women who seek early commitment simply outcompete party girls and career women reproductively. Because those women wont have children, and if they do the children will be at a disadvantage and have less chance of having children themselves. Alternatively we reach Idiocracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:46 AM
3

Yeah, you when you make shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:43 AM
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I wouldn't know, you'd have to ask the autistic women who have no interest in autistic men. If I had to guess, being autistic doesn't necessarily mean you can't be yourself around non-autistic people. And men in general don't really mind autistic behaviour from women, at a larger rate as compared to women. Even very desirable non-autistic men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:43 AM
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Wasnt there even something in Roman society where slave girls were mistresses for their masters until they got old and their master bored of them, at which point they were married to some other slave when they were 30 years old or whatever? I know Chinese harems had something like this, where if a servant in the harem didnt get the emperors interest she was free to leave and get married when she reached 30, although there were probably plenty of servants used for a few fun times who didnt get pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:33 AM
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Because most men dont gain anything from being sexually liberal? Sluts arent going to slut it up for Billy Beta. Theyre going to take a small piece of Chad each. And Billy Beta will be wanking it alone whether he is sex positive or not. Not to mention that the biggest proponents of slutshaming are women. Its a female tactic to oppose the devaluing of sex as well as protect their sons from sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:23 AM
0

You hire men, but you dont educate them, you dont sell to men, nor do you market to men, because men are not consumers, women are. You promote, give awards and praise and recognize only the best men have to offer, men who are better than anyone else in society. Whereas women get recognition and praise for being average.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:16 AM
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There aren't enough autistic women out there lol. Nor do they necessarily want autistic men just because they themselves are autistic. Women have more options, even if they are autistic, so they have no reason or desire to limit themselves to autistic men, of whom there are more than women even if they did limit themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:13 AM
1

Its not just marriage. Its generally making things too safe and regular.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:55 AM
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That should be how it works yeah lol. The large majority of people will be between a 4-6. Add in 3s and 7s and youve got something like 85% of people. Exceptionally ugly and exceptionally beautiful people are rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:52 AM
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I think the men who do that are generally just happier with less than the women, or more willing to work harder while the woman isn't willing to do more than the minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:44 AM
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They dont lie because they think they did something wrong but don't want to own up to it. They think they were entirely within their rights and they did nothing wrong, which they didnt. But then they still want the benefits of being seen as a chaste woman or a virgin, and get the kind of commitment and dedication those women do. At best they lie because they dont want to lose a man who theyve fallen for because he would not pursue a relationship if he knew her past. So they lie to get what they …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:03 PM
2

It literally doesnt matter. Even if the issues are solved that doesnt mean men will be happy with a same age woman at 30 after a life of nothing, nor should they be.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 10:57 PM
1

so?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:19 PM
0

I mean sure, why wouldnt it be? Most men wont be able or willing to go for it though, but even if they cant or wont they arent happy getting with a woman who would have ignored him when they were younger in favor of an older man while he himself sat there alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 08:54 PM
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Men around late teens to early 20s range constantly observe women their age being dismissive of them because theyre "more mature." Unless the guy is the best of the best of his age around. Then once they reach late 20s and up they observe women at the same age all of the sudden wanting them while saying that its predatory for men their age to date much younger women because those younger women arent mature enough, sometimes the very same women who dismissed them when younger. Men arent intereste…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 08:34 PM
1

It holds true from a historic point of view too. Certainly to an extent it was semi forced but in a lot of cultures men havent really been able to get women until their late 20s/ early 30s historically.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:37 PM
1

BMI is useful as a population wide measurement tool. Its completely useless for individuals though, especially women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:34 PM
1

Always struck me as odd how the western cultural standard for women is underweight or on the line. Dont get me wrong the modern obesity is beauty standard is even more garbage. But Ive always thought slightly overweight looks better than slightly underweight. Especially if they carry some muscle as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:31 PM
1

I think it might be because first of all black people in general seem to carry extra weight much better than white people, and asian/latin men are generally not overweight anyways. White people seem to have gotten the short end of the stick in terms of weight where very few of us carry it well. Black and latino women especially seem to carry extra weight very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:27 PM
1

Not exactly. Let me put it this way. If she was in a serious relationship, but it started with her having sex after the first date, and generally being very free with sex and doing whatever the guy wants. Then she breaks up and doesnt have sex on the first date with the next guy, and is not willing to be as sexual with the new guy in general. Then the new guy will feel like a loser even though both relationships were serious. Now lets say she has a casual relationship but she took time to get se…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:19 PM
1

Youre a laugh. Read some objective history rather than the feminist oppression tinted glasses view of history. Women did not have it any worse than men historically, the oppression they faced their husbands did as well, the people who had it good in history were the rich and powerful, not men. And the only group of women who you could actually justify as having less power than their counterparts would be the most priviliged women, and in exchange for that lack of power they still enjoyed more po…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 01:58 PM
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Its a biological problem which cant be fixed by raising your standards. Hell it probably cant be fixed at all by men. Standards for women are generally raised by women, whether that be women wanting to get an advantage over their peers or mothers inflicting costs on poor women so their sons get better partners. Men could also inflict costs on poor women, which is what is happening now with the widescale lack of commitment, but evidently it isn't working. Remember, slutshaming is something women …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 01:35 PM
0

The fact that women are educated and have careers drives the need for them being such to feed the family. It is of no advantage to the modern man, it is simply something that is required now because it's existance has driven the cost of labour down so far that you can't survive without it. Valid, and I want that, but also ignorant. Women of the past were in general not marrying men they didnt want just because they had to. There was at least some attraction there. Maybe they couldn't get the Cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 01:26 PM
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youth yes. Fitness... no, atleast not the modern vision of fitness. Women having flat tummies and a minimum amount of healthy fat, or even unhealthily low fat is not very traditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 01:16 PM
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CimZims standards wouldnt feel like losing to a guy if she ever got into a serious relationship. Thats not what guys are talking about. They might be against the fact that she has had a casual sexual relationship, but they wouldnt care that she didnt care about his financial status, circumcision opinion or eating habits. The feeling of losing would be more so about needing to pay for dates, wait to have sex, give commitment and so on, and then get her in the right mood, listen to her say stuff l…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 01:08 PM
1

You can be friends with someone who has a wildly different worldview to you. You cant be in a relationship with them. Friendships are a lot more flexible than relationships. You can get value from friendships that aren't complete, you can avoid topics of contention, and hell, you can even argue about them while still maintaining the friendship, hanging out and being there for eachother. I dont think that will work as easily for a relationship though, unless it's a casual one, but if you're build…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 12:59 PM
1

That too indeed. I do think that combined with what I mentioned are by far the most common causes for rape allegations though. And they aren't rape even if the woman feels like they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:06 AM
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I have given it thought, and the answer is there is nothing else to it except a visceral feeling of disgust. If you want the answer to why beyond that you'd have to start looking at evolutionary biological reasons for why I'd have such a feeling of disgust. Also most misogynistic men dont treat women badly, benevolent misogyny is by far the most common kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:04 AM
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Well see, I agree with you. And I know there are a decently large minority of women, even sexually liberal women, who are virgins and waiting for the right partner. But the issue is that you can never be sure that they are that, conversations about that are too stigmatized and lying is too commonplace. Most men, including me, fear that by mentioning a desire for a virgin you will turn off even women who are virgins, and rightfully so. We also fear that we will be lied to and taken for a ride by …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:01 AM
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Most people are uncomfortable with infidelity, even if it's soft infidelity. So the baseline should be that you aren't sexually available to other people when in a relationship, not even through pictures, i.e soft infidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 10:50 AM
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What the other guy said, also just a primal feeling of disgust from knowing a woman has slept with other men before me when combined with romantic attraction. But even then, it literally doesn't matter, a reason isn't needed, no one asks people why they want certain physical traits in their partner, or a certain personality. Unless the person with those preferences is a man I suppose, then women are all for asking why. But if anyone asks a woman why she wants a tall partner she considers "idk, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 10:48 AM
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False allegations where the accuser fully believes in the allegation are probably the most common Id imagine. By that I mean someone who was fully consenting but regret it and convince themselves that they were raped, or drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:58 AM
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And the women who refuse to be truthful about their bodycount fall into the same buckets.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:50 AM
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Women are objects.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:48 AM
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Men will gladly wear boots until theyre literally falling apart around their feet. You arent going to find anyone but the most desperate paying any sort of money, or even taking for free boots that are worn to shit or have holes in them. In the same way most men wont mind their woman losing her beauty over time while with him. But no one wants to settle for a woman past her prime who has become annoying and jaded from high N.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:48 AM
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Good reminder that church girls are still whores these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:45 AM
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If a woman has traveled a lot, there is no way to know if she is a slut or not since its so easy to hide your indiscretions in other countries. Unless she has always had trustworthy travel partners who can vouch for her how would you know that she didnt get railed by someone new on every trip? And even with travel partners this stuff is much easier to hide abroad than at home. If she has tattoos, she is probably more impulsive and more liberal in general, so safe to assume she is also sexually l…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:42 AM
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Should be a whore, but in this modern world? Practically a virgin lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:38 AM
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Its because there is no instinctive visceral disgust from knowing youve been with women before, hell there isnt even that from you being with women while with me I would assume, although I wouldnt know for sure. There might still be issues with the latter though as I wouldnt want to be in a relationship with someone who spends more time and has more sex with other people, even if they are women and im not viscerally disgusted. But frankly if my future partner asked to experiment with women, I wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:34 AM
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To elaborate on the other guys point, very often men are blindsided by relationship troubles. The relationship will be fucked for whatever reason, and it has been for the last few months and the woman has been happily cheating for that time while looking for a new partner because she doesnt care about the relationship anymore, and yet when she breaks up the guy will only be aware of her having started pulling away a few months ago even though thats when the relationship was already over. Alterna…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:32 AM
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Its because most men still want sex but are not interested in waiting months or years to get it for whatever reason, and the assumption with a virgin is that they will have to wait. Maybe they believe that you will be a prude who wont do anything except vanilla sex once a month to try and have kids. Maybe they think you waiting shows you arent actually attracted to them. Maybe they dont believe you and think you saying youre a virgin is a lie to get commitment. Or maybe they just dont want to wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:25 AM
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Kissing, cuddling and any other physical intimacy not involving sexual organs does not count as sex. Playing with tits or ass or generally very sexual touching not involving the sex organs, as well as masturbating infront of someone else is a grey area, although I think mostly not something that needs to be considered, since for the most part if it comes to that it will probably come to sex as well. Handjobs, titjobs, blowjobs, cunnilingus, fingering, rubbing, anal all count as sex, and im not i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:19 AM
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There is no need for a reason, just like there is no need to have a reason for why you want a tall or adventurous or funny partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:11 AM
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Youre kinda missing the point tho. The baseline shouldnt even be that you post whatever you want and the other person has to bring up their discomfort. The baseline should be to not do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 06:19 PM
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I mean you should have, and failing that you should leave them. Really have no one to blame but yourself for picking the wrong partner and staying with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 06:18 PM
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Plenty of people stay with abusive partners who dont pull their weight. Tell that same thing to a woman with a physically abusive husband if you think so, I doubt you will though, and reddit at large certainly wont stand for it. Staying with an abusive person is still your own fault and no one can force you to leave them, but some sympathy is warranted.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:51 PM
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I dont agree at all with the notion that women are entitled to post whatever they want, not when in a committed relationship. You do own your partner in a way in a committed relationship, and it goes both ways. Its kind of the whole point, otherwise cheating wouldnt be an issue. And in my mind if youre in a committed relationship you dont do things your partner doesnt want you to do. And if you dont like their boundaries you break up or discuss the matter. If you want freedom to do whatever with…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:47 PM
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Funny thing, I recall an article interviewing an escort condemning johns and calling them all disgusting creeps who cant get a woman without money. Its not like she was forced into the business or anything either, local woman doing it for easy money because she didnt want to work 40 hours a week for less than she could get from 8 hours escorting. She even said as much herself in the interview although not the specific hours, those are just the average rates for escorts around here compared to av…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:44 PM
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That's a better outlook certainly but I think it's also important to keep in mind that different things have different time constraints on them and put some thought to what you actually want from life so you can then achieve those things. If having kids and spending time with them is important to you then it might be better to focus on that early and then once they are school aged start your own advanced education and career if that is also important to you. If you want to retire early maybe you…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 06:17 PM
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In the end it would also mean nothing biologically. If youre the best man that ever existed and everyone agrees on it but women dont want to fuck you then youre still a genetic failure despite whatever people say.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 03:04 PM
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In a way you are though. If you havent gotten experience with women and youre 30 its going to be a lot harder to start, and when you do you will have the same learning in relationships to do that everyone else around you has already gone through and dont have patience for anymore. And even if you do find someone who is accepting of your inexperience youre never going to really be able to experience what others who did it earlier could. Youre never going to be able to really get a womans best yea…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 02:46 PM
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Isnt realfemsapien a hoe turned into a housewife tho? Why would anyone want her
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 05:21 PM
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Same situation as dumbasses gladly sacrificing themselves for God or Freedom or whatever the fuck else kind of excuse the rich and powerful come up with to get people to sacrifice themselves or their own gain in favor of the gain of the rich and powerful. Something to note though, even though being actually sex positive is a cuck move for the average man, it is strategically advantageous to portray yourself as such when general society is sex positive anyways and your opposition to it won't chan…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 05:10 PM
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When that liberty actively hurts you why the fuck would you support it lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 05:06 PM
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I think the point about swinging can also be achieved in other less extreme ways as well though. Maybe not quite as well but certainly somewhat. For example posting nudes online, primarily for the woman I suppose, might also trigger beneficial jealousy in the man while also making the woman aware of her own desireability without actually engaging in sex with other people. Though I suppose in a way this is also quite extreme since well, nothing disappears from the internet, but its another angle …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 01:07 AM
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You probably are aware of all the reasons of history. But even in the modern world, the simple fact that women are more attracted instinctually to taller men is a rational reason to actually go for a taller man. If she has kids with a taller man her sons will likely be taller, meaning they will be more attractive to other women, meaning they will be more successful sexually which means she is more likely to have more grandchildren. Not to mention the fact that there are non-sexual biases towards…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 10:11 PM
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I mean no, there is a very rational reason to prefer taller men and its not something that is irrelevant in the modern world either. Same with low n women. Both have good reasons for the preference and both are still relevant in the modern world despite modernity making some aspects of it redundant.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 09:09 PM
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authoritarians wouldnt work to supress the young male syndrome through internal policing. It would only work if the authoritarian regime turned the young men outwards towards other states. If they tried to supress young men into working with no hope they would simply have a revolution on their hands, and I think it would succeed. So no I think porn and entertainment are a necessity to supress the unsuccessful men, and it remains to be seen if it is possible long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:24 AM
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You very much can do that though, but it does require the woman to be aware of it and willing to work against it. We arent slaves to our biology, unless you are ignorant to it. And its not like the woman would be making some great sacrifice to work against her hypergamy, unless she wants to jump from man to man. But if she doesnt want that and values stability it would be in her own interests to be aware of her own biology and take steps to maintain that stability. This also isn't something the …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:37 AM
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I mean I probably won't unless I find what I'm looking for before I'm too old.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 10:53 PM
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If the fun is so boring and trivial why do women want to have their hoe phases and early 20s fun? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 10:43 PM
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Was pretty deeply depressed for like 3 years starting from the last semester of high school, at times nearly catatonic where I might just lay in bed for several days, not eat and only move to use the toilet. After that I'm basically just a different person, like I can barely remember anything from that time or before, and the few things I can remember feel like another persons memories. Like it legit feels like I didn't exist until my 21st birthday.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 10:01 PM
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I'd get paternity tests on my children first, assuming I didnt already get it at birth. Just to make sure Im not cucked and risking completely removing my ability to ever create biological children if I am. If I've got enough kids I might consider it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 09:54 PM
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The result of your third paragraph would probably be either societal collapse or more and more men being neutered with porn and videogames while working more and more hours with no possibility of ever retiring.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 09:43 PM
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As someone else said those are just straight up red flags though lol. Maybe not depending on what exactly you mean, for example if smoking weed once in a while is having a joint with friends maybe once every few months then thats understandable but once a week probably starting to get a bit much. And for female friends if you mean just having women in their social group that they are friends with and interact with often then thats not really a red flag, but having a female best friend or constan…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 09:40 PM
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Why would you marry at the age where you are getting your peak level of female attention to women who are now not getting as much attention anymore? Why would you marry when you're finally capable of having your fun after a life of not being able to have fun, to a woman who is done with having fun and is ready to settle?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 09:32 PM
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Thats probably true. Although I think it can be alleviated by the woman being aware of it and actually working together with her man to make it not happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 08:15 PM
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Lol. Its not a kink.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 08:13 PM
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Sure, because more people are overweight. But for regular people who arent muscular a BMI of 18, i.e underweight, is as unhealthy as a BMI of 40, i.e obese. Its much healthier to be overweight without serious muscle at say a BMI of 30 than it is to be slightly underweight at 18 BMI. Infact the overweight range doesnt even come with serious long term health effects, its only unhealthy to be obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:28 PM
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Im not chubby lol, ive got an athletic build with somewhat visible abs. Still like chicks with some fat on solid muscles though, think a bit of tummy pouch and love handles but also a nice muscular ass and thighs and even arms.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:23 PM
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being underweight is worse
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 05:26 PM
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Obese people, yeah very few are attracted, unless theyre a muscular obese person according to BMI. Very few are attracted to obese by BF% however. But overweight? Many people actually are attracted to overweight women and men, especially if they also have some muscle which makes an overweight level of fat much more attractive, also plenty of women exist who carry fat very well and look extremely good and just curvy even though technically they are considered overweight, especially black women. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 05:24 PM
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Thats not what betabuxx is though. Betabuxx isnt about the attraction level of the partner. Its about her not loving you or being attracted to you and settling for you just for your provisioning and potentially also cheating on you or cucking you on the side. You settling down with a 5/10 with a good personality who is stable and faithful instead of with a nutcase 8/10 isn't betabuxxing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 05:18 PM
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Idk, maybe not nowadays but atleast 20-30 years ago paternity fraud seems to have still been relatively existant seeing how many posts there are online of fathers finding out one or more of their kids arent theirs. I agree though I guess that it would probably be a bit more unlikely nowadays. Also funny thing about that good christian comment is that the bible is pretty much a bunch of cuck stories anyways. Its not an uncommon feature there as far as I know. Also historically I would have probab…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 04:32 PM
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Hmm. Interesting, what percentage of fathers are raising another mans child would you say if you have the data? And maybe also what percentage of fathers are completely cucked with no biological children?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 03:39 PM
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Yeah personally cheating is the one thing I wouldn't work through, ever. Doesn't matter if it was a drunken "mistake" or how remorseful they are or whatever, cheating is an instant dealbreaker for me no second chance. I'm willing to work through a lot of things, and compromise on a lot but that's not one of them. At best, if say we had kids, I might stay in the relationship and make it work as a team, but my attachment is gone, I wouldn't stay faithful after their "mistake" and the relationship …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 10:35 AM
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Obviously their fathers (and mothers) would have a say in who they married, and they should have, thats intelligent and good, especially when you are a family unit and not atomized individuals. But that doesn't mean that the father alone just chose some man and everyone else had to go along with it with no say in the matter. The people getting married also had a say in who they wanted to marry, their parents would simply sign off on it because yeah, it's not a great idea to marry some wastrel be…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 10:28 AM
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This is actually exactly the kind of thing that has probably somewhat been lost in modernity as well. It is obviously not the only issue, but I think a lot of the time society at large as well as friends push each other to overreact to everything and bail at the slightest leak in the ship, everything has to be perfect, if there is an issue leave and find someone better and often people have that ingrained in them and no one with more experience to tell them the truth and guide them to solve the …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:35 PM
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Another thing is, often feminists like to portray history as if women had no power in general either, not just in marriage and love. I.e they would be some meek servant to their husbands and fathers who had no say in anything and simply had to do as told. But that is also blatantly false, women had plenty of power in their households and towns. The family units back then were all contributing to their common good, both the husband and wife would be doing work and both would be making decisions a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:30 PM
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The only women actually traded as property were actual slaves and royalty, somewhat also higher nobility. Lower level nobility, middle classes, peasantry and even serf women were not traded, there was literally no incentive or reason to do so. And as for royalty and slaves, it's not like the men had any more choice in those classes lol. Not to mention the fact that it wasn't even really frowned upon for royal women to keep lovers, it was expected even, they were simply supposed to avoid scandal …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:28 PM
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I mean yeah its a very odd thing to ask, but I think that also comes down to culture. Its the kind of question that you get shamed for and a type of dating that is for some reason not accepted in the modern world, like youre supposed to always give everyone a chance and never have any hard cut offs, so asking a question about a hard cut off is for some reason taken as something horrible to do. Meanwhile it would save a lot of time, just go on a date, ask them if they are a virgin or low n, say g…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:41 AM
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So much this. Cant believe how insanely scared people are nowadays, and inadvertently creating the very kinds of problems theyre trying to avoid. Just opposite, or possibly not even that. Also in my personal experience these are the kinds of women who eventually just can't handle the unneccessary pressure they put on themselves and just check out or start screaming at their kids whenever anything goes wrong or anything is done wrong. For one reason or another, whether its just that theyre stress…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 12:35 PM
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You can have sex with a baby next to you though, sleeping or awake or playing in the other room. I don't even see why people consider that so weird. Sure part of the issue is that we don't have family around us anymore to help care for children but I feel like a lot of couples nowadays are also just too squemish about letting the baby be by itself for a moment or see you having sex. Or even just having sex next to a sleeping baby, as if the slightest noise or movement will wake them up, which is…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 12:29 PM
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A woman so focused on career that she doesnt have kids in her late 30s doesnt generally have a serious relationship with a man who wants kids. Also relationships being more fragile at a younger age is cope and not even really true. Thats just people not being willing to put in the work to make relationships work and society encouraging them to just break up at the slightest inconvenience. Also you can start a relationship in your early 20s and have nearly a decade to be together even if you aren…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:27 AM
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How is it more likely to be done alone? More men are interested in having a serious relationship and children with a woman in her early 20s than late 30s. You're actually more likely to end up alone with a sperm bank kid if you focus on your career all your life and then aren't desireable to men anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:18 AM
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The most redpilled societies are matriarchal and gynocentric, we are seeing it now in the west but it's not anything new. When women hold the power they will all gravitate towards the best men and that involves being tall, strong, socially dominant and wealthy even if women are in power. And frankly even patriarchal societies aren't truly patriarchal until you get monogamy. In polygynous patriarchal societies women hold a lot of power over men, and women want to keep that power and they want to …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:25 AM
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I think it does cause problems with bonding, in many ways, especially with people who aren't themselves promiscuous. But I do agree that promiscuousness is also initially caused by other problems which could also include problems with bonding. If you've been promiscuous for a long time it will be a habit to sleep around and break up quick and not give relationships time or effort to grow. Promiscuousness will also be your lived experience which means you won't have that in common with another pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:06 AM
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In the end it doesnt change much though, avoid promiscuous people if you want a serious relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:36 PM
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I would expect it to be both. Brain chemistry does change based on your actions, thoughts and so on. But it also informa your actions and thoughts. It's both for pretty much everything when it comes to behaviour. You behave a certain way because of your brain chemistry, but your brain chemistry also becomes more like that by behaving that way. And you might have initially started behaving that way for many different reasons, whether it be genetics, childhood, environment, diet, disease. It could…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 09:58 AM
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I couldnt care less about Maslow or any other dumbfuck philosopher. Im just tired of dumbfucks like you trying to argue that sex isnt a need and men should just be happy being celibate for their whole life. Just because a lack doesnt kill you doesnt mean its not a need. Maybe a better analogy is that a lack of proper nutrition also doesnt kill you. Not immediately atleast, you can live a long ass life completely lacking some stuff (atleast from diet) and in severe deficiencies or imbalances of o…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:09 PM
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Are you actually that daft? This isnt about just murder. Its about all morality. Its there to maintain powerful peoples power. And the reason we dont see violent power struggle in the west is because the people in power have been too successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 11:45 AM
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What Im saying is that the people in power control who it is moral to murder. If a new group gets enough power their morals of murder will be the actual ones. And the most powerful people will obviously say that harming them is immoral. Whether directly or through indirect morality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 10:48 AM
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People also dont die from a lack of freedom. So why dont you go and become a slave?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 10:08 AM
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Because sexual strategy is amoral... lol. Its just biology and some culture. There is nothing inherently moral about it. Morality is there to control that sexual strategy to peoples and societies advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 10:01 AM
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You know that older people are usually the ones in power? But yes, there is also advantage to society, society just tends to also advantage the people in power the most on top of that. It's in their best interest to keep the social structure stable so they don't lose power. That doesn't mean it's bad for the rest of the population who isn't in power, after all they also benefit from stability and safety. But it does mean that because of that morality the people not in power will have a harder ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 07:51 AM
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because thats what morality is lol. All morality is there to control behaviour for the advantage of the people in power. Why do you try to control male behaviour to your advantage with morality?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 06:34 AM
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You know why that is? When women are in a safe and familiar situation their disgust reaction to sex goes through the roof, that means they will only be willing to do the most vanilla things or possibly be unwilling to have sex at all. Introduce a new guy who isn't safe and familiar and their disgust response disappears and they're willing to do anything or at least a lot more than with their safe partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 06:29 AM
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You hear about plenty of women who cheat and then keep the relationship going for 10 or 20 years after the fact until the husband finds out though. And considering how unlikely it actually is to find out that your partner cheated years ago if they stopped doing so Id guess there are probably a lot of women who were unfaithful and then stopped. Hell it's a damn historical theme, the bible itself encourages shit like that. Man goes off to war, comes back to "his" baby and relationship goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 07:00 PM
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I mean science also confirms that women have more sympathy for women more than men. And men also have more sympathy for women than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 06:51 PM
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I think if you want a show that is a bit more reasonable and not so blatantly just the dregs of women with little reason in their heads then a better one would be the 'whatever' podcast. Still brings on plenty of women who embarass themselves but probably a bit more of a reasonable environment with more actually intelligent discussion imo. Still not really anything special though. But then both are pretty much entertainment. If you want education about how women and men actually behave and think…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:09 PM
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I mean they do bring on girls that will embarass themselves without prompting, but lets be real, thats not just high school dropout onlyfans girls. Theyve also got PHDs and career women on there embarassing themselves. All the manosphere shows do. There are plenty of idiotic, delusional people with degrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:04 PM
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If there isnt pussy to be had men are fine shitting in holes and living on the streets tho. Thats the entire point. The entire reason men strive for more is pussy. Give them free pussy (porn) and they will only aspire enough to access it, which isnt a lot. Remove pussy entirely and a man will live and shit in a hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:39 PM
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Just be born with more symmetry.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 11:25 AM
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religious gatherings probably the only modern social event I could think of where any amount of young people participate and it isnt about alcohol. And there arent a ton of young people who go to religious gatherings, mostly old people, middleaged people and children. Otherwise its just places where socializing isnt the primary function but you could socialize like work or gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 11:24 AM
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Because Id be uncomfortable with her having had sex with other men. Retroactive jealousy or disgust or whatever else I simply dont want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:11 PM
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I dont need to do it but Im capable of doing it and if I find a girl I actually love I should take heed of that capability and make sure I dont act on it. Basic stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 10:13 PM
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Im not looking for a trad wife though. Infact I somewhat dislike a lot of the views that many trad people have. I dont have anything against gay or trans people like many of them for example. Im also very much not a free market capitalist nor anything of the sort. Hell I dont even really care for submissiveness or stuff like that the same way they do. Really the only thing I have in common with trad people is wanting a low n, or in my case a virgin, partner. As well as wanting them to actually b…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 08:01 PM
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Doesnt change the fact that I do need to do that though. I could love someone insanely much and I know in my heart that I would still be perfectly capable of cheating on them, not that I would seek it out, but the risk of it happening oppurtunistically would be there. So if I find someone to actually love I need to keep that in mind so I dont do it. Infact I very much wouldnt seek it out and Id probably just become ignorant to other women for the most part because if Ive got someone to actually …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 07:47 PM
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Incels wouldnt disappear lol. Theyd still be unable to fulfill a biological urge. One of the strongest biological urges there is. Incels would only disappear in such a scenario because ontop of no social stigma they would be effectively neutered by porn and entertainment. Take away that or add in stigma and incels exist. And even without stigma and with porn they would still be lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 12:58 PM
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I think if I didnt hold myself to any standard and simply did what I wanted I would cheat on anyone with pretty much anyone. I do hold myself to a standard though, and so if I actually find what Im looking for in a woman I will be incredibly loyal to her and squash any thoughts of doing wrong to her. If I end up being 30 and not having found what I want though... dont see any reason to be loyal in that case, just fuck whoever, make whatever promises I dont intend to keep etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 12:50 PM
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You really need that spelled out for you? Sex is intrinsically important to humans, its also socially important. As are relationships. If you arent getting any and you see dudes who are getting a ton youll ascribe a higher value to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 12:44 PM
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No they should have sex only in serious commited relationships, ideally only one ever in their lifetime. And that also applies to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 12:35 PM
4

I mean in the eyes of incels they are. They get what incels cant have but want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 12:34 PM
0

I mean there very much are eastern men who rave about the beauty of western women. Personality and Temperament probably not so much tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 11:31 AM
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Data shows that incels tend to not be especially misogynistic compared to general population. And Id personally actually say that they are probably less so and the misogyny only develops overtime from loneliness and lack of success and seeing how women behave with other dudes and who has success and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 11:27 AM
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Im not painting them in any way. Im just describing what would usually happen. Theyd reach their 30s or maybe 40s. Realize their own past and then try to santize it and sell that sanitized version to some poor shmuck too stupid naive or stupid to realize that he is being sold a lie. And maybe some of those relationships end well anyways but certainly not all, and I know many wouldnt buy into it if they knew the truth. These women arent going to turn 30 and then give the truth to everyone willing…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 11:16 AM
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Why not? She would have no issue lying about her past and issues to trick someone into taking her seriously who wouldnt if they knew the truth. Women have no issue tricking and taking advantage of men, men shouldnt extend a kindness to women not extended to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 10:37 AM
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Exactly. Women who do that are for fun only and should never be offered serious commitment. If you learn that your GF used to do stuff like that then dump her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 10:17 AM
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I mean compliments from strangers can hit pretty hard. Men almost never get complimented by strangers and if they do its probably something like "wow youre so strong" when you helped them lift something or whatever, which also feels nice but isnt quite the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:44 PM
1

From what Ive heard about many women is that they want their partner to be a pretty boy with an androgynous or only somewhat masculine face. And want the hyper-masculine bear as their big brother. Obviously many women are also into the masculine bear but for plenty of them there seems to be such a thing as too masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:39 PM
1

Im never having kids with a short chick. Minimum 5'6 but ideally like 5'10. Only exception would be if I permanently move to like SEA where even with a short chick there my kids would be taller than average. And even then Id try to find a taller native.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:35 PM
2

So incels arent allowed to care about bodycount? He isn't allowed to be insecure about the fact that his girl has been with 20, 30, 100 guys before him when she is his first? Is he supposed to just suck it up and stay with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 10:14 PM
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I dont agree, but even if that were true whats wrong with that lol? Not all men can get casual sex from dating apps. And its not like you cant have fun going out outside of women even if the primary reason you did so was women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:39 PM
1

Yes, youre in a fantastic 5 year relationship with a man who does not mind those red flags of yours nor your bodycount. The relationship can only be fantastic because he doesnt care about that. And it's great that youve found a good relationship, truly. But you wouldnt have that relationship with men who do care, it simply would not work out in any sort of way, the only way it could even somewhat work would be if the man was desperate enough to look past it, and that would eventually catch up wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:37 PM
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Why is there anything wrong with going with purpose somewhere to meet women lol? That's like saying that it's creepy for a man to go to a conference where a lot of businessmen and such congregate, alone, in the hopes of building connections and finding a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:25 PM
1

Usually because of sexism and quotas lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:23 PM
1

Old men are still stronger and have more test than even many younger women. Especially a physically active older man, i.e someone working in construction.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:20 PM
1

I mean yeah, because it doesnt work. And you cant exactly just offer exorbitant amounts of money. And personally Im very much uninterested in paying more tax to support people doing better in life than me. And Im definitely not interested in supporting random womens choice to have kids alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:10 PM
2

Thats already the case though. In most places you get tax breaks as well as extra money for children.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:50 PM
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Not really seductive to natives but more so why monogamy allowed Europe to dominate non-monogamous states.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 12:11 PM
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Because it doesnt actually work. There are studies done on it and stimulus checks for having children cause a temporary increase in amount of children born but long term don't affect birth rate at all. Iirc the thought was that it probably gives a push to start having children to people who were already planning to have children, just that now they have them a bit earlier. But it doesn't cause people who are worried about financials or anything else to want to have children in any significant ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:22 AM
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Yeah I dont disagree. Extreme feminism is more common, more socially accepted and directly caused TRP however.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 03:07 PM
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I think pretty much anything that comes out of a modern feminists mouth is bullshit. Its rare to hear them say something actually intelligent. Also no, men in general are not predators of women and children.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 01:24 PM
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See this is what men think when they see all the feminist bullshit of men being privileged, oppressors, scum, always wrong and bad etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:28 PM
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I personally would love to commit to a woman now and spend my life with her. But Id want her to be a virgin. And the issue is most women arent virgins nowadays, and many arent even low N. Many women also dont want to commit until theyre 30 and their best years are gone and theyre ran through. Many women also simply have issues or arent worth committing to or are themselves unable to commit despite wanting to. They are unable to make a relationship work long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 02:02 PM
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How would you know? Never before in western memory has there been a time with so much despair when it comes to relationship and family prospects. Older people fully believed they were gonna find a partner and have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:00 PM
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Everything here. OP is a dumbass. Yes some men are exactly like OP describes. But theyre a tiny insignificant minority, and even in specifically redpill its a small minority. There will also be some men who act somewhat like OP describes but not fully so and with no conscious choice to control women or some shit. The large majority of men are nothing like OP describes. Hell the people most triggered by childfree women are conservative women lol. Men dont care.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:37 AM
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Men ignore unattractive women. Women bully them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 11:06 AM
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Cheating either way is bad. But cheating with another woman I could at least try to work past. And there wouldnt really be a reason to cheat with another woman since I would be fine with letting my gf sleep with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 08:33 AM
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Lol nah, women arent more mature than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 11:31 PM
1

The issue is that if a woman shows interest in a man she is generally interested in a relationship as well. Not just sex. And women in general show interest less. Mr Athlete isnt interested in a relationship with joe schmoes average girlfriend tho. He just wants to fuck. But miss average is delusional and thinks the athlete wants a relationship with her so she jumps ship for dick just to realize that dick cant carry her across the ocean of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 01:14 PM
0

Hilarious considering women are the cause of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 12:12 PM
1

Im pretty sure we dont know if older parents are more likely to have autistic kids because of parental age being a cause of autism or because autistic parents are more likely to have kids at an older age if they have kids at all. Could be both.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 12:12 PM
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I mean depends on how long he's been gambling. Someone still gambling away after 10 years probably has some good advice on how they still have any money to gamble.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 11:58 AM
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Pretty much. Sex isnt something a wife is expected to provide anymore so a marriage doesnt guarantee sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 04:08 PM
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Thats not manipulation. Its prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 04:07 PM
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I can almost guarantee she couldnt reliably earn enough with the amount of sex she has with him to pay for cooking, cleaning and rent. Let alone safe sex with a safe man who is young and at least somewhat attractive. She is absolutely getting more than she puts in from that relationship. Doesn't necessarily mean he is losing either though. Its a win win because he is also almost certainly not spending so much time and money on her that he could get a better deal by paying straight up. They are b…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 03:56 PM
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More like sigma buxxing. Unless the whore is a massive slob he is basically doing the same shit he was already doing and cooking a bit more food and paying slightly more for food. If Im not in a serious relationship by 30-40 Ill probably just get a place near a university somewhere and do the same thing. Maybe even before that if I get a job that allows for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 03:00 PM
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How is free cooking, cleaning and housing in exchange for sex whenever a shit deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 02:52 PM
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I don't think it's that bad for the ukrainian men tbh. War isn't generally known for leaving the victors without women, even if all ukrainian women leave and dont return there will be enough russian women coming in to make up for it. I will also say that Ukrainian men frankly don't really have any other choice either, if they flee the country they will be traitors, they would have to hide their identity to have any chance of a real life and its not like there are an excess of single women elsewh…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 07:37 AM
15

This will be the reality for the west as well, and frankly a large chunk of the world otherwise as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 07:33 AM
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I dont think the key to a healthy relationship is sex 3 times a day. I think its compatible sex drives and desires. And if your compatibility is asexual cuddling, hugging, hand holding and other such degenerate lewd acts then mainting a healthy quantity of that will also help maintain a relationship. And if your compatibility is sex once a week then maintaining good sex once a week makes for a healthy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:35 PM
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Tbh, it can be hard to approach people when you have no social skills at all really and struggle with anxiety, autism, introversion, depression etc. Thats my struggle right now and while I am attempting to approach people and also get into settings where Im around more people, and I agree that just doing is the only real way. It isn't really as simple as just doing it in the end. Despite the fact that I have previously approached even groups of completely random people and had great nights at th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:27 PM
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The majority of men unfortunate in dating didnt even have bad luck in genetics, nor do they have some kind of antisocial or hostile personality. Most of them are average looking with average personalities, or even good personalities. They'll just be introverted, shy and at least somewhat socially challenged if not entirely stunted. There are even attractive ones, because your looks get hit hard by behaving like an autist. Although that will still be a small minority, because few people are anyth…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 09:40 PM
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More humans are alive because we live longer, not because we are having enough children. Most of the world is below replacement, and has been for a while now. We will have less and less young people supporting more and more old people. And eventually something will crack and the old people will be left to suffer and die for their hubris of not having children. It will happen when there are simply too many old people for the young to support. And I imagine it will us that are the old people left …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:19 PM
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Idk, his eyes arent down at his pants are they?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:09 PM
1

Personally Id say junk food is good in the sense that it doesnt fill you up. You can eat a lot of it, and still feel hungry for more. At least I can with McDonalds burgers. Ive previously eaten like 4 double cheeseburgers, and then been hungry again on the drive home. And that was when I weighed like 60kg. Real food doesn't have that problem as much, it actually fills you up much better. Which can be a bad thing if you're trying to bulk up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:08 PM
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I can understand it when you dont have enough fat on you. I fattened myself up. Grandma will always be fattening you up though, and thats good because grandmas food is healthy, bulk up on it and then hit the gym to make use of the fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 09:23 AM
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Thats how it starts. Get your attention from your husband instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 09:22 AM
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Working hard not to cheat I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 08:47 AM
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I doubt its the below poverty ones who are getting filled into university and then the workforce on quotas. And if it was then why not do the same for white americans below the poverty line? 2 poor whites for every 5 poor blacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 08:45 AM
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Also wouldnt a lot of those single women be older widows seeing as men die younger on average?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 08:36 AM
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I dont see how they are impossible at all. First guy thinks unchecked capitalism, monopolies and profitteering off of essential services is bad, but also thinks being gay is a sin, women belong in the home and thinks religion is great. Second guy is literally just basic ass libertarian, free market capitalism, be gay, trans or a cat, who the fuck cares, FREEDOM fuck yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 09:46 PM
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This is part of the problem though. Demonizing the method that works like this. And equating it to treating people like shit. There is nothing misogynistic or douchey about acting like that. The misogyni is and douchery is when you dont take an actual no, harass people or are an asshole. Confidently explaining what you want from someone isnt being an asshole. And by demonizing that kind of confidence into being misogyni you are cursing good young men into behaviour that women dont respond to, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 02:53 PM
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I just dont see myself ever wanting to take a relationship seriously without complete sexual exclusivity. And I find it unlikely that Ill find any virgins by the time im 30, let alone a virgin Id want a relationship with. So at that point I would just start having casual sex. And if Im doing that why not go for younger women. Not to mention if I by some miracle find someone I would want a serious relationship with at that age Im more likely to find one among 20 year olds than other 30-40 year ol…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 02:37 PM
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Cuz why would I go for a 40 year old woman if Im a 40 year old man and could get a 20 or 30 year old. Even if just for casual sex Id go with the latter at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 01:34 PM
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I would be happy being in a relationship with a 40 or 50 or 60 year old when Im the same age, if I got with her in my 20s. If Im single at 30 or 40 I probably wont go for same age women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 12:58 PM
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I agree with the first paragraph. Hard disagree on the second. I think many are just socially stunted in one way or another. Theyre autistic, or they had a poor upbringing, or they just arent very social. So they cant get any female attention. Some may develop those traits while trying and failing but I dont think many start with those traits. And I also dont think those traits actually make it difficult to get female attention. What makes it difficult is lacking the skills for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 12:40 PM
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I mean, I was dealt a bad hand in very many aspects of life. I would refuse it if some woman wanted to "make it up for me" or some shit by having pity sex or a pity relationship with me though. Wanting that would be bizarre, and its straight up feminine. I want to overcome, persevere and get what I want on my own merit. Ive already been lucky in some ways that have compensated for my shortcomings, and while Ive put in the effort to make sure to take advantage of the luck, even then it still both…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 11:18 AM
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Yes people have jobs, friends and family. And already have limited time to invest in their one partner. Now throw a second partner in there and you halved the already small investment. Great job.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 09:18 AM
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One could say the same about polyamory. Insecurity, FOMO, fear of commitment, fear that you cant be satisfied with the same thing. Patching your insecurities with polyamory.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 09:17 AM
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Do you pick two here that you dont have?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 09:43 PM
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Nah getting used for sex was never my worry. Just that I am quite lonely and im not sure if I could resist the temptation of casual sex if I do manage to become socially proficient. Ive lost my friends since Im not in school anymore, and havent really made any real new ones. Barely have any family either. And thats despite the fact that I know that ultimately I wouldnt be able to keep a relationship going long term with someone who isnt a virgin, and that casual short term flings wouldnt really …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:11 PM
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Well sure if I can have sex I can have a relationship. But the issue is finding a woman youd want to have a relationship with, especially a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:05 PM
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Most people also wouldnt want someone who had sex and then went on a first date with you 10 minutes later. It just comes off wrong and gross. And also signals some sort of betabuxx kind of shit. I'm kind of the same as your last paragraph though. Although tbh Idk if I can bring myself to stay a virgin if I developed my social skills enough to actually regularly be able to get sex. Just far too lonely as of now, and it's literally breaking my mind at times. But well, who knows, maybe if I do deve…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:39 PM
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What the other guy said. Personally I keep it simple though, it just bothers me so I wont do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:05 PM
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Im just not interested in committing emotionally or financially to someone who has sex with others or just spends a significant amount of time away from me in general just to be with other people. I also like stability and simplicity and would like to be with someone. That just doesnt work with polyamory. Its inherently less stable, and it would require a lot more work one way or another. Why would I be interested in an arrangment where half the time Im alone because my partner wants to fuck and…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 04:31 PM
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Chad is someone who could get casual sex on the regular if he wanted to, but he doesnt necessarily have to take advantage of it and participate. The chad who doesnt would pretty much be the ideal guy for many women, the so called Alpha Buxx. Those are rare though, most Chads will take advantage of their power.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:14 PM
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Not really a problem with just loser nice guys though. Even men who are successful with women and in life in general seem to often for some reason go for women who play games, cheat on them, are actual escorts etc and then somehow believe the woman loves him and they constantly chase after her and try to win her over. The difference is just that the former simps and doesnt get anything while the latter at least gets sex out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:12 PM
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They also are attracted to those traits on some level. They'd just prefer if those traits were on Chad, not on dorky four-eyes Timmy. Then they break their own rules a few times when they get drunk at parties or just feel lonely, get dicked down by a few regular Chads, and eventually settle with Timmy because Academic or Geek Chad or whatever isn't common and is in high demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 07:32 AM
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If I get too old and feel like Ive missed my chance then yes I will start just having sex and ending the relationship if the woman wants to get serious. And yes you absolutely can expect from others what you are not willing to give, and you can give what you dont expect. The other person is of course free to expect the same that they give, like I do with my virginity for now, but if they dont expect that then what is the issue. Virgin women also exist who would prefer a partner with some experie…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 11:53 PM
5

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 11:49 PM
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How am I not holding myself to the same standard? Im a virgin. Even if I wasnt though, not every standard needs or should be equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 11:48 PM
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Id probably bring my ideals about it up sometime on the first date and ask if they were a virgin. And if not Id thank them for their time. If I dont find what Im looking for and decide to just start having sex I guess I would ask if and when the woman ever brought up getting serious, if I had any doubt about it by that point that is. If I was already confident about their experience I would just decline getting serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 10:53 PM
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You can be a slut if you want. But thats the kind of consequence youre setting yourself up for. You cant act like a slut your entire life and then complain about being treated like one by the people you prefer to have sex with who act like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 10:43 PM
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Yeah I mean thats my plan if I dont manage to make a family. Just laying out the facts that there wont be any retirement at 65 waiting for people who go childfree. Although I think Ill choose heartattack by cocaine and hookers over the glock, but to each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 10:38 PM
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My bet is that its going to return to a more old school system. Where the old take care of the children and do what they can at home, and their children work.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 10:37 PM
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Might be because youre a seasoned blowjobber and the men youre with know that and therefore expect it. Idk but thats just my hunch. Obviously manwhores arent going to be happy with the bj of a virgin from a slut. Also porn, thats a thing in porn so youre with porn addicted men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 10:34 PM
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Most men would be happy with a wife that sucks their dick. They dont care about it being some professional whore sucking. A BJ is a BJ. And I certainly wouldnt wife a whore for the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 09:27 PM
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Jeez youre actually incapable of intelligent thought. Having a child isnt a guarantee of anything, but not having one IS a guarantee of what I talked about the way things are looking. With a child you are not guaranteed to have sunshine and rainbows in your old age, but you will atleast have a chance of it. Also I can guarantee you that if the child is male he will prefer the collapse to whatever the fuck we have now. Thats where men thrive and make something of themselves. Collapse is how a pea…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 08:55 PM
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The children will however be able to support you in your old age.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 08:50 PM
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And yet most women who are childless at an old age regret it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 08:33 PM
2

Increasing standards of living and healthcare means people live longer. Working populations start shrinking before absolute populations.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 08:30 PM
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The girls dont become criminals because girls in general dont commit as much crime. They just become another generation of single mothers with 4 different baby daddies. Strippers, whores, pornstars. Crackheads. Stuff like that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 08:28 PM
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Its not about dying alone. Its about paying into a system that will abandon you and never allow you to retire. Its about being homeless and penniless at 60 from a work injury, after working your ass off your entire life and having your retirement and investments vanish because of a crashing economy, unable to get healthcare for your injury because there are no doctors, and the few that do exist only helping young people because they can actually pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 08:22 PM
1

Sheep take. There arent too many people, and decreasing birth rates from help the climate or biodiversity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 08:16 PM
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Lol. The welfare state isnt going to magically stay intact to support a population that is majority elderly. There wont be enough young people to run it and support your retirement. And you will be sitting there working at 90 because you cant retire and your investments crashed because the economy crashed. Although youd likely die much earlier from a lack of healthcare.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 08:13 PM
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Sure it doesnt. But not having children is a guarantee that you will be left to die the way things are going. And it wont be in a nursing home, abused/neglected or not, it will be homeless on the streets.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 07:27 PM
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No thanks, no one wants to become an old and happy incel lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:53 PM
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A welfare state funded by who, there wont be enough young workers to fund it? Saved money, sure I guess, if you can sell your investments. But you might not be able to sell your investments because of a declining economy from a lack of working population. And what other family members? They will also be old and have themselves to worry about when they also lack kids. And if they have kids their kids aren't going to take care of you, theyve already got their hands full taking care of themselves a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:46 PM
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Populations are not growing in a real sense. Yes we are having more people than the last year, but that isn't because more people are born, it's because old people live longer. We already have less births every year.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:42 PM
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Its not hard to please a cock lol. And I would be more interested in learning to please each other with one woman than come into a relationship with someone who thinks theyre some kind of expert cuz they got ran through by the entire football team.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:06 PM
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No thanks. Im not paying more taxes so some picky hag can have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:02 PM
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Well as far as I can tell if birthrates keep declining having a child is some kind of insurance that you wont be left to die when youre old. And can actually retire in some capacity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:00 PM
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Someone still needs to work though. The money you pay in goes to support the current retired population. With the assumption that the future working population will pay for your own retirement. When there arent enough people working the money you paid in is just gone and you dont get your benefits. And because youll be old you wont be able to do anything about it and youll just be left to die. The best thing you can do now for your future retirement is to not pay taxes and set up a private retir…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 04:53 PM
1

I think it was Tibet that practiced polyandry among the landowners. They did so to keep family property from being split amongst the sons. So all sons were supposed to marry one woman who was supposed to be impartial with them and not favor any one over another. They also practiced polygyny simultaneously however, when there were multiple daughters and no sons another family with multiple sons would send one of their sons to live with that family unit and marry all the sisters.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 02:12 PM
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Isnt Sororal polygyny the most common form of polygyny? As far as I recall at least. And taking on widows also seems fairly normal in general, not just as an islamic thing. I cant recall exactly but the practice of marrying or taking on your dead brothers widowed wife is pretty common isnt it? And I doubt the brother was always unmarried himself. I recall reading at least that there are many societies that are monogamous with the only exception being sororal polygyny. At least ideally in theory.…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 01:48 PM
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Women arent going to be bothered by this the same way men are. The FnF idea of women looking at a mans future and men at a womans past seems to be completely correct for the most part. There is also the fact that women more naturally buy into bluepill ideas like "they chose you and want to be with you now". So they arent bothered by the fact that you gave more of yourself to past partners than you give them, as long as you are with them and loyal to them now. This does not mean that men need to …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 09:17 AM
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Because for such a woman to get a marriage or any kind of serious LTR with me in the first place would require her to lie. So Id be breaking up on that part alone. Let alone the fact that they have a "rich" sexual history.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:19 PM
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Such a marriage would have a 100% divorce rate if I was the man. Also in general no, that does not seem to be the case lol. Sluts dont tend to treat virgin or low N guys they marry very well it from everything you can see. Tends to be the most blatant cases of betabuxx for scraps of attention and a lot of abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:06 PM
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I mean there is pretty much a guarantee that one or both of you cheat. Or it just doesnt work out. Most relationships dont survive long distance even if they would have been fine otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:52 PM
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Might be the redpill content becoming a lot more popular so fast. And those 13% either redefining their relationships or getting rid of shitty girlfriends. Alternatively 3 years of new people entering the 18-29 age group is quite a lot. Probably a good amount of paired up 27-29 year olds getting pushed into the 30+ category. And a bunch of single 15-17 year olds getting into the 18-29 category.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:50 PM
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What age do you think is sensible? Im 22 now soon. and was thinking of giving it until Im 25 maybe and then just accepting that Im not having a family and just having fun. But tbh even waiting until then seems kinda iffy, pretty good risk of it just being a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:48 PM
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Id love to. Hard to imagine myself finding a virgin who has a similar libido to myself though. Im not exactly 16 anymore. Not to mention all the other things that have to match up. There are a lot of differences that I dont care much about but there are still many that I would care about. And not everyone is as indifferent to many things as I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:41 PM
1

You can be fat on a clean diet and lean on a diet of nuclear fallout. You can be an active person, lifting weights, hiking, being outside in general all day. And then eat massive meals of homecooked healthy food, and snack on fruits, nuts, seeds and so on all day. And you'd be overweight, probably fairly healthy, and you just don't care about being lean.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:22 PM
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Most women who say dad bod mean a muscular guy with thick ass forearms and like a 15-25% bodyfat depending on the woman. They dont mean Mr Couch Potato at 35% bodyfat who hasnt touched anything heavier than a cake in his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:49 PM
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Could also be hella active and just not give a shit about being lean, eating whatever the fuck he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:47 PM
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Whats there to explain. Plenty of kids already grow up with single moms or divorced parents. Having two actively participating and contributing parents who just never cared to commit to eachother cant be any worse, infact Id imagine its better. There are even women out there going the IVF single mom route. So this would also be infinitely better than that. Both for the children and the mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:11 PM
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Yeah cuz they dont have aggression hormones and on top of that theyre on antidepressents making them lifeless drones.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 11:12 AM
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I see this a lot but its clear as day that many of th women saying this arent actually emotionally intelligent themselves. And they also wouldnt be able to tell an emotionally intelligent man apart from any other man, other than the niche man who's emotional intelligence is about how to manipulate people into getting what he wants. Many people seem to assume that talking about your emotions and crying about it is emotional intelligence. Its not. Interpreting your emotions and doing something abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 10:56 AM
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This is the idea for me now. Im not really holding out hope for finding a virgin though, much less one that I match with. And if I end up being in my late 20s no closer to finding that I will probably just give up on the idea of family and start fucking around. Maybe have a child with some random woman who wants children without committing to her beyond raising children together.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 07:22 AM
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geomax somewhere where your money goes further and you can become that 1% with minimum wage in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 07:19 AM
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I think back in the day the effects of autism were less pronounced, and people generally had children younger so lower chance of autism. Of course something might be in the water as well, we don't know. But all in all, when the world works in a way where autism is less debilitating and people just have kids younger then youre going to have less autism in the census. Also back in the day autism was less well known and just less diagnosed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 07:08 AM
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Nah Romeo was definitely a bit older.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 07:03 AM
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Yeah. Most sluts arent that smart though. They just hang around in the same general area and just expect the train to never come around again. If you are willing to relocate to the other side of the world though you could become a millionaire off of stripping with some side work and still bag the guy of your dreams. You never know though, even if you do that someone who recognizes you from your past could show up anywhere anytime. Unlikely as it is people have met old friends and enemies and wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:14 AM
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Isnt 14 and 17 romeo and juliet? Didnt end very well for those idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:07 AM
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I mean you can try that. It works for plenty of women, and some even get to keep their beta cuck when he finds out the lie and is too weak willed to do anything. Pretty rough to be one of the women who is too braindead to hide her past properly though, and get kicked to the curb when your boy finds out that youre a whore and lied about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:02 AM
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Oh btw just out of curiosity I checked it out again. Literally one of the first things I saw was someone claiming that scarcity is not real and is just fabricated on a hypergamy post. They literally cant even stay factual on a sub that claims to want to disprove redpill scientifically. Scarcity is not even some evo psych truth that is hard to prove. You literally just have to look up population statistics. There are consistently about 104-107 men for every 100 women for atleast the 0-40 agegroup…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 08:24 PM
1

What if I reject women who dont meet my standards and simply fail to find someone respectable?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 06:15 PM
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Bluepill garbage that just wants to avoid the hard truths and get people to put on their rose-tinted disney glasses again.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 05:59 PM
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Or I can shame them so anyone considering getting into it in the future sees the consequences before they do so. And frankly who cares if someone exposes the problems of an industry after they have already profited from it. I dont see those porn stars doing anything beneficial to society with their profits. All they do is cry because now theyre facing the social consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 05:58 PM
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Yeah and I fully support banning tiktok. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 05:55 PM
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Because easy is weak, soft and often comes with consequences. You pay for an easy life with your health, your mind, your money, your sanity, an easy life comes with drama and problems. Living a hard life is strong and respectable, and what you pay for in effort you earn in physical and mental health, money and simplicity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 05:54 PM
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Yes, but I became addicted in my early teens. Not really surprising that it would take me until now to realize the harm and quit. And you can look down on me all you want, I dont frankly care, and I will keep looking down on porn actors and OF girls and other such women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 05:49 PM
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Because theyre all a drain on society. What else would we compare them to. There is no logical reason not to jail and rehabilitate them just like with other criminals.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 05:44 PM
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Lol, I really could not care less about fucking Mia Khalifa, Lana Rhoades and whoever else of the idiots crying about their choices now. Im also not crying about my "choice" to become addicted to porn, Im fixing my life and living with it. Also, those teenage girls were 18 by the time they got into it, still young, but not the same as watching porn in your pre-teens. Many of them also made bank off it and never said anything while still making bank. They only started crying foul when the consequ…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 05:42 PM
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How is addiction to porn from early teens littering? A 12 year old isn't capable of making that choice, and society should never have encouraged porn in the first place, it should not have been normal or so easy to access, and the conservatives speaking out against it should not have been shunned as prudes and authoritarians. If anyone is an NPC here it is you. And if I littered my entire life by being addicted to porn from a young age, then what I am doing now is cleaning up after myself. So of…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 05:39 PM
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Those same people probably also say that you arent entitled to sex from women who dont like you and arent attracted to you. And that marriage should be about mutual love and attraction, and not a financial and legal contract. I can almost guarantee that. It's an obvious feminist argument and theyre fucking idiotic with their head screwed on wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 05:35 PM
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So if youre rich and pay for the high class option its ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 05:32 PM
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Plenty of hot, charismatic and rich men use prostitutes on the regular simply because its easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 05:31 PM
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Id do that, if I was interested in it. I already do go to a restaurant and even eat pretty much the same stuff every time. And so if I was going to pay for a prostitute Id rather keep paying for the same one Im used to and comfortable with every time as long as I didnt have any issue with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 05:29 PM
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A pimp, robber and drug dealer also engages in their activity regularly to earn a livelihood.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 05:27 PM
0

I mean why not put them in jail and teach them actually useful skills to get a real job? That's what we do with low level criminals. You rehabilitate them to be a useful member of society. By your logic dealing drugs, pimping, racketeering and robbery are also just work. They shouldn't have to fear jail just for doing their job. No, we put them in jail and teach them useful skills to actually participate productively in society, do the same with prostitutes. And while the bureaucrat may at times…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 05:26 PM
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Never paid for porn, and actively quitting it as it is a terrible plight on me and men in general, in a sense forced on us by society from a very young age. In fact by the very feminists who oh so hate the way men treat or sexualise women. Because apparently porn was healthy and ok to watch, and there was nothing wrong with it 10 years ago. But lo and behold, the conservatives were right about porn all along. Young boys should never have been allowed to view porn, but we were and now are trying …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 05:20 PM
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You are allowed to dislike anyone you want, you are allowed to think anything you want about anyone you want. You are even allowed to speak ill of them. None of that is nor should be illegal. You aren't allowed to harm, or threaten people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 05:12 PM
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People who suggest for lonely men to go and pay for sex are absolutely fucking braindead. Prostitution is for rich people who wants easy NSA sex with less risk of drama. Its not for lonely men. How would 1 hour of expensive ass fun that you know is fake even help. Sure some lonely men do that anyways, but it cant help really I dont imagine. And that isn't even considering the social stigma, legality and general grossness of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 05:08 PM
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Be a good and kind person if you want to experience a good and kind world and life. Obviously life doesnt work like that and your girl or guy can cheat on you with some loser no matter how good of a person you are. Being good doesnt make you immune from bad stuff happening to you in general etc. But what is true is that if you live like a criminal, asshole or whatever then life will never be nice. Life might be good, you might get all the material things you want, you might have an easy life, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:32 AM
1

What does it mean to improve yourself and how can you tell you are improving? I am eating healthier, sticking to healthy habits more regularily, working out. Generally slightly less brainfog, tiredness and depression. Less bad thoughts. Quitting bad habits. Stuff like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 06:28 PM
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BMI is kind of useless for women is it not? I mean underweight as in lacking a normal level of fat. When they start getting into the 15% BF range, and for example lose the belly pouch a woman with healthy fat has, and ribs and some other bones start sticking out a bit. I dont find it unattractive exactly at that point, but I prefer a bit more fat. Visible abs lean definitely is a bit disturbing and unattractive though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 06:26 PM
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I mean idk, thats up to them to decide. We dont live in a world where I need to provide anything material anymore. All I'll say is that I'm constantly working to improve myself, improve my body, my habits and my mental state. And I'd like to also improve my financial state further but for now I am not beyond just working diligently and saving for the future. I doubt most mid people can claim to be doing the same, male or female. And where does everyone scream that shit at you every day? Online? …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 06:09 PM
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I mean yeah I pretty much agree, no one part of someone is going to make or break anything for the most part. Most people look good enough as long as they arent too overweight, closer to obese. Some amounts of extra weight dont even matter all that much. Personally Id also say underweight as another limiter but many people seem to not mind underweight like they do overweight which is odd but whatever I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 05:54 PM
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I mean probably also mid? Most people are mid lol. Few are very ugly or especially attractive. But mid is attractive as well, it's just not special.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 05:53 PM
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I mean idk about other guys but I dont like flat stomach on women, and certainly not abs. I prefer the smaller bit of fat there from internal organs pushing out a bit over a more extreme amount of fat from pregnancy, but I prefer the latter over completely flat. Women thin enough to have a flat stomach just aint it. Strong, muscular and meaty over thin and anorexic any day.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 03:19 PM
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Been thinking of getting some nice tights and showing off my ass and thighs tbh. Maybe skip the shorts and show some bulge as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 03:03 PM
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If you know you feel hungry often and have to eat a lot to feel satisfied you should eat more filling meals that are less calorie dense. Eat meals that digest slowly, eat bigger meals and snack less, and use low calorie options. Its as simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 02:57 PM
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If you know you feel hungry often and have to eat a lot to feel satisfied you should eat more filling meals that are less calorie dense. Eat meals that digest slowly, eat bigger meals and snack less, and use low calorie options. Its as simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 02:57 PM
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She literally created drama. No one was sexualizing her, she just doesnt know how normal people behave or what sexualization actually is. And yeah obviously it was men. Wtf do you expect.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 02:42 PM
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You cant get fat from eating too little, even with rare disorders that wont happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 02:34 PM
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Nothing wrong with slightly overweight, few men are going to complain about a woman having lovehandles or being a bit chubby, especially after children.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 02:32 PM
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Thats not the attitude problem Im talking about. Im talking about behaving like theyre the man and treating men like lesser people because they arent as successful as her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 02:23 PM
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She was promoting her OF by creating drama where none existed because that leads to clicks which leads to some of those people paying for her OF.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 02:22 PM
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Being ambitious doesnt make you pleasant to be around, it also doesnt make you unpleasant to be around. But many people who are ambitious are also unpleasant to be around, man or woman, at a disproportionate rate compared to general population. You can still be pleasant and ambitious though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 02:21 PM
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This is actually insightful. I was under the impression for a while to not reveal any insecurities. But revealing base level insecurities that dont really bother me all that much and signal something positive seems like a great idea. Funnily enough I already knew that before I discovered redpill, but then I started thinking not to reveal any insecurity. Dont even have to make shit up seeing as Ive got plenty such insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:09 PM
2

Thats some cheap ass escorting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 12:55 PM
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Just recently saw some clip of a woman complaining about a guy looking at her at the gym, and how she doesnt like being sexualized. She has an OF.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 12:54 PM
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What personality? Ambition, education, career, none of that gives you a personality. And none of that makes you pleasant to be around. Sure people who have all that and a pleasant personality exist, but for most people achieving those things means you dont have a personality and youre unpleasant.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 11:22 AM
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This. Money is a bonus. But if that money comes with OF. Or attitude. Or whatever else, then its a problem. The money isnt the problem, her wanting to peg you is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 11:18 AM
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Of course she is mid, most women are mid, it's unlikely that she is anything special.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 09:15 AM
5

I dont honestly believe only 2% of women leave their seriously ill husbands. On paper that may be true, but I fully believe far more of them just check out of the relationship and get dicked down by someone else to comfort themselves for their struggle of being with a sick man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 09:11 AM
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When you are completely invisible to the people around you, getting abused and bullied seems like heaven in comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 08:51 PM
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Also porn sickness. Its certainly a thing for men and affects many. But for women porn sickness affects most of them, and much more severely. Its just that their version of it is social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 06:23 PM
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Honestly I wanted to disagree. Because look at muslim and hispanic countries now. But tbh you arent even wrong. People in the dark ages century wouldve also disagreed with the claim that Europe was going to rule the world, because it was a backwater in comparison to the Middle East and Far East. But look at Europe with their stable monogamy and slave mentality go.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 05:42 PM
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Dudes get harassed all the time by bigger dudes or groups of dudes when alone. Sucks but this really isnt a female issue. Also just because the woman cant physically overpower you doesnt mean that her harassments are less bad, while she cant physically do anything usually she definitely has more social and legal power to claim he did something, especially if he tries to protect himself by shoving her away or something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 04:28 PM
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If I had a wife and kids Id be fine living anywhere. Maybe a small amount of other people living nearby on the countryside would be nice as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 04:23 PM
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Women are addicted to social norms and advertisement and social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 04:20 PM
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Id tell him its gonna be tough and he is going to either have to possibly wait a long ass time for someone special to come along, or he will have to hit the gym and the bar, get a good body and learn to be social. And Id also warn him that if he decides to do the former he might just end up getting taken advantage of.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 12:13 PM
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I mean its fair enough to question a potential sexual partner on whether they have it and want them to get tested. It would be a bit more odd to ask that a few years into a relationship though. The same way a paternity test isnt really odd, its just not something you can do before youve had sex...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 11:54 AM
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Its definitely the latter. Though if I was in a serious relationship with a woman I would want her to avoid makeup in general as well, small flaws shouldnt be a concern in a serious relationship so it would be ridiculous and concerning if she never wants to be seen with 0 makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 08:06 AM
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I mean sure, bodyfat placement might make one woman more attractive than another depending on the guys preferences. But most guys would say that most girls who arent fat and dont have kids are attractive. Exceptions would be disfigurements and stuff like that. Like its hard for a woman to not be attractive to men, seeing as you can even be overweight and still be attractive just fine to a lot of guys. It's obesity that makes it truly difficult. It's just that obesity and single motherhood is so …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 08:00 AM
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Simp and cuck-shaming for men is the same thing as slut-shaming is for women. It's a tactic to not devalue the supply.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 09:47 PM
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Tough love is needed, but you can't just keep up with tough love forever. Tough love until they start making a change, and then encourage and support them to keep it up. And that's generally also what good friends do, they tell him he is a fat fuck and thats why he isnt getting women and they rib him for it and roast him for it. And then when he starts hitting the gym and losing weight the good friends mention the progress he is making and clap his back.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 09:45 PM
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Its a weird world we live in where not fat and not a single mom is considered exceptionally attractive or even moderately attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 09:09 PM
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I mean general TRP belief, whether true or not, is that older women get over the wall and change their dating strategies and settle because they can't attract chads anymore. And something that is pretty much undeniably true is that an older woman with different standards isnt going to be helpful for getting dates with 20 year olds or making a relationship work at that age. And also the fact that older women in general give useless advice like "be yourself" "there is someone out there for everyon…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 09:03 PM
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Im not exactly insecure about my body, atleast not yet. There is just some odd sense of feeling small, weak and insufficient even if I am much happier with my body now. I didn't have those feelings about my body even back when I was skin and bones pretty much. In general I'm still happy with my body now though, although I'm still working to get bigger and stronger.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 07:53 PM
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Id say even most men would like to feel small sometimes. At least the ones that can get past their own ingrained standards of masculinity. It's just not really something that can be achieved by most men with most women without some imagination and liberty. They will still want to feel big and dominant as well, but sometimes you just want to feel small and like you are in the safe embrace of your mother. It's a comforting thing. That will be different from the female desire to be small though I i…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 06:01 PM
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Sounds perfect if she is paying or cooking. Otherwise fuck that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 05:57 PM
1

Realistically most people will be a 4-6 on a bell curve. Common usage is percentiles though. And in common usage an 8.5 would be about a 7 on a bell curve. Id say thats pretty accurate for a chad. About 15% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:53 PM
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Pretty accurate no? Pretty much every gym guy says they have dysmorphia, insecurities and so on. Personally I have massive insecurities, never had dysmorphia but as Im getting more muscular and better looking its starting to crop up as well. Initially when I first put on some muscle and wasnt skin and bones anymore I felt great about myself and thought I finally looked good. Now every time I look in the mirror I look smaller than the last time and feel less secure about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:39 PM
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