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If people actually had a one in 100 chance of dying in a car accident every year, I don't think that many people would get in their cars. That would be an astronomical risk to say the least. Car accidents probably happen that often but many don't lead to deaths. I've been in like 4 bumper accidents since I started driving 15 years ago but they were all very minimal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 06:20 PM
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I mean if you're fat, you have to be open to dating other fat people. I've seen plenty of couples that are both overweight and happy together. Might be because I lived in the bible belt south for over a decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 07:21 PM
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And that specific type of woman probably doesn't want you. You might have to settle for fat because most Americans are fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 01:11 AM
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Being large might be a huge disadvantage but being like 4-5 inches taller is not going to make that big of an impact calorie-wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 09:19 PM
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5'7 is really not that big of a deal for men, as long as he's like 3-4 inches taller than whoever he's talking to. Just have to make sure you meet people in person like bars/clubs/parties/etc. rather than a dating app.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 11:35 PM
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This would be like if you got to see the ending of movies before watching them imo. Would ruin all the suspense for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:50 PM
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Stranded meaning it's like a rare situation otherwise I wouldn't stay with someone who's dumb enough to constantly get stranded. For example, her car breaks down on the highway. I'm not going to drive an hour so that she doesn't have to spend 10 minutes on the bus though. Gotta have some self respect if you want others to respect you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:47 PM
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Really depends on the meaning of nice then. I'm not rude or closed off to most people but I'm also not trying to be everyone's friend either. If someone asks me for directions on the street, I'll help them. If someone asks me for money on the street, I'm not giving out handouts. I think a lot of people don't know how to say no and that can be an issue. If an acquaintance called me up and asked me to drive an hour because they're stranded, I'm probably just going to say sorry and hope they make i…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:19 PM
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I mean I can tell if a girl is genuinely nice or trying to put on an act. It's the way they treat others, especially people who provide no benefit to them. It's akin to the cliche, how people treat a server says a lot about them. It's also something that is over time, people can put on an act at first and you have to let the mask fall sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 05:56 PM
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The nice guy makes me want to vomit, he's obviously going overboard lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 05:35 PM
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It really doesn't matter what a woman's profile says though since there's a huge mismatch in the gender ratio.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 12:05 AM
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Can I say that I've never seen 'listener' spelled as 'lisinor'? It almost looks like it's another language lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 12:03 AM
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Shallow shit really only matters that much on dating apps though. I've never been disqualified for my height IRL because I'm taller than most women and I'm just 5'10.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 08:29 PM
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Plenty of people in this world, move on to someone who finds you attractive. I can't change my race, I know that a lot of women don't find asian men attractive but I did find someone who finds me attractive. I've dated my fair share of women throughout my life and I was never the most attractive guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:35 PM
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Pretty sure that has more to do with their diet. If you ever go to Japan, you're not going to see a fast food restaurant on every city block like you do here in the US. Even our soda consumption is through the roof here in the US, unlimited refills at basically every restaurant. When I worked in food service, people would drink a giant cup of sweet tea or soda and then get it refilled so they could drink more on the way home.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:24 PM
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Meanwhile, a 5/10 woman can fairly easily engage in situationships or ONS with 8/10 guys, which makes a female alpha widow quite common. I don't know about what you've seen but my friend never brought home 5s considering he got the pick of the litter. Hot guys can pick and choose and very likely wouldn't just pick a 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 01:59 PM
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There's a difference between a "nice guy" and a genuinely nice guy though. My roommate in college was a genuinely nice guy and never had trouble getting a date. He was an alright looking dude but he was 5'5 and out of shape so didn't meet all the conventional standards of masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 01:45 PM
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I've seen a lot and it was always caused by the man but I also come from a conservative background so the man is the head of the household. Our anecdotes don't really say much in the broader picture though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 01:38 PM
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I don't see how the women on here would be a good representation of the average woman. Most women wouldn't even need to be on a subreddit that talks about dating dynamics, they live their life oblivious to this kind of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 01:36 PM
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You act like kids are going to listen to their dads lmao. Trust me, it's not that simple because if you remember, your parents probably told you how to study hard but most people didn't listen. I tell my younger brother to workout but he has every excuse against the gym even after getting a membership.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 01:32 PM
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You obviously ask for their sex tapes first.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:14 PM
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More like you're oblivious to your own biases. Most people are " basic" people. 90% of my guy friends love videogames, sports, fitness, etc. We all pretty much dress a like too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:48 PM
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Idk about that one, I'm in the gym everyday and most guys are literally wearing the same shit. Tshirt + basketball shorts or sweatpants. Hell that's what I wear too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:37 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 01:55 AM
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As if boomers aren't "acting like a fucking child" still in their 60s.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 01:35 AM
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What even is a perfect schedule? Also why would it have to be static? My schedule changes regularly and I like it that way honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 06:22 PM
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Neither would men tbh. I always think of the below average height man getting matched with the above average weight woman. Neither are going to be happy most likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 08:04 PM
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Its almost impossible to live in NYC without a decent job so there is no way thats the reason. This is what you said and what I disagreed with. It's possible and is the daily life for probably hundreds of thousands of people in this city if not millions. So many people working retail and food service in NYC. I doubt they make more than 40k/year.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 10:52 PM
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Living in NYC, there are so many types of people. Just because they live in NYC, doesn't mean they don't still live at home and work at Target. There's so many random jobs in this city in order to keep it running. There's people who work at my gym and making $15/hour in NYC.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 10:41 PM
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That just depends on the woman, plenty of good looking guys will get picked over average dudes. Looks get you in the door, so without looks you might not even get chosen to see how great your sense of humor is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 06:38 PM
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Can you link a comment saying looks don't matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 06:37 PM
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Obviously looks matter but they're not the only thing that matters. Does anyone actually believe that looks don't matter? Maybe if you're blind I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 06:03 PM
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Sounds pointless ngl since there's like 2 decades for things to change. My father didn't use dating apps for example. I'd rather ask my friends who have success with women than go ask my father.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:09 AM
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Going off that logic, if a woman only goes on a date with a man for his resources (free dinner/dates/experiences) without any intentions of furthering a relationship, is that robbery?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:50 AM
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Might not be the norm but the 7 year itch is a meme, where divorces spike around that mark.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:20 PM
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No one said anything about individual abs, I'd probably have to cut down like 10-15 lbs to show that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 10:51 PM
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I used to be crazy lean, like 20 lbs lighter. Overall, I feel much healthier now and don't even bother tracking what I eat. I just eat until I'm not hungry and whatever I want if I'm eating out. A nice bonus is that I don't feel as cold now that it's winter haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 05:35 PM
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I do in the mornings before I eat if I flex. I might not be exactly 20% but somewhere in that range. <image> This is kinda what my abs look like waking up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 03:42 PM
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I'm still looking for my dream girl with 3 tits.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:21 PM
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I went to a good barbershop to learn how to style my hair. I had the most success with a place that has a lot of clients that have my type of hair basically. Nowadays, I rock an easy long on top and short on the sides and all it takes is a cut every 2-3 weeks and a comb after a shower.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:18 PM
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Lots of advice that you can read online even but the problem with that in my honest opinion is that it goes in one ear and out the other. It's only when you actually intentionally do something that you really pick up on it, instead of just reading theory. For instance, before I started dating, I was like a fish on land. I'd awkwardly try to pick up girls in college and that didn't do me any good. It wasn't until I actually had a friend that turned into a close friend and eventually my girlfriend…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:06 PM
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Yeah exactly, I went out for brunch yesterday and straight up just pigged out haha. About to go lift in 2 hours, don't feel the least bit guilty.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:50 PM
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I love being around 20% bodyfat. Feels like the perfect weight for me, where I can eat what I want and never have to track macros. In the mornings, I can still flex and see abs. I couldn't stand being under 15%.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 10:15 AM
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That's how I feel but one of my reasons is I'm hesitant to sign myself up for the risk of a 18 year bill tied to a random woman. My friend did that and lost the gamble, kid is already in high school by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 10:06 AM
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Lmao let me guess, you're conservative and probably drive a truck and own guns. I'm not into men but it's crazy how much conservative men rant about there not being anymore traditional women now so they just don't list being conservative on their profiles anymore in hopes of getting any matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 08:58 PM
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Do you even understand how alimony works? I don't even think most men know how it works in the first place. It's not like you suddenly get hit with alimony after being together for 6 months. Alimony is mostly thrown around here as a boogeyman just like how men don't have a right to custody of their children is thrown around. There are multiple ways to contest alimony as well, things like age/health/marriage duration, all come into effect when figuring out alimony. Like I said above, most people …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:35 PM
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Going to daycare beat being home with my parents as a kid. Even my nephew loves daycare because all of his friends are there. I'm a little older but even I remember daycare having all of the disney movies and a huge playroom with lots of toys.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:44 PM
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Sounds more like you need to keep with the times. Just because I say I want a car, doesn't mean I want a car from the 1960s or 1980s. If you want an old-fashioned marriage, you're going to need to find a traditional woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:42 PM
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Conservative men also sound difficult and useless if we're going by the typical guy ranting about the second amendment and Trump. Also seen too many "libertarians" who are basically just conservatives with another name.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:38 PM
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People love to whine just like people making minimum wage love to whine about a wealth tax. I doubt most people who whine about alimony have even been close to a situation where they'd be liable for alimony. I have old friends from high school who whine about the wealth tax on incomes over $250k and yet they're making close to $30k/year. If anything, that wealth tax would basically help them without taking any of their money in additional taxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:17 PM
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Funny thing is that men can get just as emotional. I've been around men who start fights because you say their favorite NFL team sucks. That's definitely emotional to think that, someone else's opinion about which group of grown men playing with a ball is better, means enough to get physically violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 03:52 PM
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This is all anecdotal so I can put my own experiences in as well. When I was in my early 20s, I was depressed and addicted to video games. I hated my situation in life and because of that, I'd ignore my friends, my family and my co-workers. I've grown past that point and have changed my mentality towards life after hitting rock bottom. Just as you think that you might have had a lot of love to give, I didn't even know what that even meant. I grew up moving around a lot and was never really able …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:59 PM
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Sounds like you live in your TikTok feed. I live in NYC, I do see men who paint their nails and love fashion. That still doesn't equate to the majority of men being into makeup and dressing up flamboyantly. I can count the number of men I've seen this week who have painted their nails with my finger and I see hundreds of people just commuting home from work.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:53 PM
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Just like there are men who like makeup and painting their nails, you're most likely in the minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:18 PM
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This is only true if you consistently see your family regularly maybe. I moved out of the house when I was 17 from immigrant parents. What they value is different from what I value. Sure I can think of their feelings but they don't really know me nor what's best for me. If I left it up to them, they'd say I should marry the first woman I dated and have a child at 21 straight out of college. Nah miss me with that, I didn't even know myself at 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:24 PM
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I forgot this was a pissing contest, my bad. My point was that corporate employers are not just going to accept something because it's "natural". It's not natural for me to wear a suit and tie or be clean shaven every morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:42 PM
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I mean even as a man, I have to shave, keep a proper haircut, hide tattoos, etc. It's just the nature of corporate jobs, sometimes you get lucky though with a more lax environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:18 PM
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With the prices I've seen, I'd much rather spend that on so many other things like an upcoming snowboarding trip.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:24 PM
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Been over 15 years with this same hand, hasn't gotten old yet. I change the content I watch. I also don't just use my hand though, I've been in and out of relationships as well. I just wouldn't visit a prostitute though because it sounds like so much hassle for 10 mins with a stranger basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:28 PM
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I'd rather use my hand than visit a prostitute considering both are just used for an orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:12 PM
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It's like having 100 concerts to choose from and 0 concerts to choose from for me. I don't go to concerts so 0 and 100 are the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:17 AM
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Western culture is definitely encouraging healthy diet with all the Pepsi and McDonald's ads, definitely! /s Pretty sure I've seen more cigarette ads than I've seen of healthy foods like fruits/vegetables.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:05 PM
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But if grandpa is rich, he will just choose the college student girlfriend though. That's what I've been told on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:39 PM
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nah bro, I bought an online course that says I'll become a millionaire in 90 days. It only cost me $50/month, I can get you the hook up if you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:35 PM
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Good luck with that. Like if you want to have your fun then go have your fun but if you're in a relationship, be prepared to be single. I would never give a hall pass to my partner so I don't expect her to give me one either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:32 AM
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Sure if you're attractive enough to pull it off. Odds are that the average guy can't pull it off though when he hits 30 and is most likely overweight and possibly balding with a dead end job. I just turned 30 recently and I'm in great shape, hit the gym 3-5 times a week and still have a full head of hair and it's been easier for me because I'm more established compared to when I was 22 for example. I'm still no Chad or anything though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:02 AM
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Dunno about the clean part, gay men can also be messy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:09 PM
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You can set up laws to punish violence and harassment but can you set up laws forcing people to enter into a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 06:19 PM
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I actually like the links that you listed, especially the second one. People need to learn how to make a budget. If you can't afford to fund a college fund then you can't and that's fine. Make sure you get your own expenses taken care of. A bunch of these stories include debt, yeah if you fuck up your finances early then expect to have some financial troubles. https://www.apartments.com/portland-or/min-3-bedrooms/?so=2 I see a lot of options for 3 bedrooms under $2000. If you're making $100k and…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 07:39 PM
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I define the typical woman as just the general population of women. I took this post as a huge generalization of women and not just some niche community that you had to go digging back to 2017 to find a source in the news. If it was actually occurring in the general population, it shouldn't be hard to pull sources left and right from something more recent than 6 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:52 PM
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There are always going to be outliers hence the expression, exceptions don't make the rule. Has someone said that term before in the history of the internet? Sure. Is your typical woman saying that? I doubt it. If you search for anything using "that magic Internet box", you'll get something back. I've actually never heard any guy say "where have all the good women gone?", yet there's a link for that too unsurprisingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:48 PM
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My point is that the very niche outliers mean nothing just like Chad's dating experiences mean nothing to the average guy. Just because Chad is banging 5 girls a week, means nothing to Billy Bob who gets 2 dates every 6 months. Pulling up a random source from the Daily mail is basically the equivalent to women thinking that all men are having sex because they're fucking Chad every week.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:46 PM
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Why are you using Atlanta as an example when it's also a massive major metro area akin to NYC lmao. You can absolutely live in places like Pittsburgh or Tampa or Portland on $100k. No one would call those 3 cities the rural Midwest.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:43 PM
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With how minimum wage workers usually tend to be, I wouldn't want them in my house lmao. I've seen how the typical high school teenager working in fast food is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:11 PM
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Come on man, no way you post shit sources like that. I'm a dude and that's like the equivalent of a woman posting a hot guy's dating experiences and wondering why men in general are having trouble with dating. Daily Mail is basically Fox News if you're from the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:08 PM
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Probably has more to do with getting the best options that she can get. If she's doing the bare minimum, she's probably not going to be as attractive than someone who puts in more effort into fashion/makeup/fitness. It's like a job market, I could put the bare minimum and work an hourly job or I could go to university and get a career that could pay more and lead to better opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 01:08 AM
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It's only a moral issue if it goes against your morals. For me, I couldn't care less what that woman does with her professor. They're two consenting adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 12:54 AM
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If the shoe fits....... This is coming from someone who's played my own fair share of video games lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 12:32 AM
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My first sentence was a direct response to the comment I replied too. I made a more general point in the following statements. I made an intentional distinction to say people because it's not gender specific and I know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 12:29 AM
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Yeah I didn't say overweight men, I said overweight people. I know it's not gender specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 11:26 PM
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Gotta get in the gym first or become active which I doubt the average male even is. Too many overweight people playing video games and eating delivery. I try to hit the gym 3-4 times/week yet a bunch of my friends don't bother because they're hooked onto League of Legends or WoW.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 09:40 PM
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Mans just got a massive forehead.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 10:45 PM
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I'm a bit shy of 5'11 barefoot and I still don't see that many people taller than me in public. Crazy how I can go a whole day without seeing someone taller sometimes and I live in NYC.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 10:38 PM
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Alright boomer, we're not talking about the 60s. My uncle still had issues getting dates in his 20s and he's over 50 now because he's 5'4. He did eventually get married in his 30s though but that was probably more due to luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 10:36 PM
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It's just the easy filter metric when you get tons of matches. Let's not kid ourselves, women get hundreds of matches. It's like jobs filtering through candidates by requiring a college degree, even for menial jobs. It's a first pass filter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 10:34 PM
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In places that small, I wouldn't be surprised if 70% of the population are either children or married/too old for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 12:19 AM
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More like you're allowed to change how you feel about some things. I was raised to believe that violence and stealing are never ok. Just because I now believe that violence is sometimes warranted, does not mean that I have to change how I think about stealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:27 PM
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Sometimes you have to do the inviting. When I was still playing league of legends and just moved to a new city, I'd invite people to join me for a game night. Usually is a fun experience. Another example is when I talked to someone and they brought up motorcycle/dirt bike racing, I said that sounds interesting and they invited me to come to the event on the next weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:52 PM
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Life is full of consequences. For example I played videogames in the dark as a kid and started wearing glasses in elementary school. You just have to move on and make the best of your past choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:32 PM
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There's probably a meth head that will date you if youre able to provide financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:58 AM
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If it's concealed then it's not intimidating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 03:09 PM
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Good luck bringing that gun everywhere you go without drawing attention to yourself unless you live in a red state.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 01:58 PM
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At the same time though, it's a pre-selected crowd on these forums. There's probably more anime watchers on reddit as a percentage than the general public for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:11 PM
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If you're going to base your life on what-ifs like that, you could also believe that your life would be different if you just walked into a gas station and bought a winning lottery ticket and got millions of dollars. No point thinking about the hypothetical.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:49 AM
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It usually is more complex unless you're talking about dating apps. Most women don't go around in real life with a tape measure so usually as long as you're taller than her then it doesn't really matter. Now if you're on an app then it's a completely different story because the options are skewed in their favor. Why settle for the 5'6 guy when the next swipe has someone that's 5'10 for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 06:39 PM
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You're free to do that but you can't tell others what is meaningful or meaningless to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 01:06 AM
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That experiment just shows how desperate some men are for a warm hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:04 PM
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Unless you're lucky as hell then it takes a lot of time and dates with many people to find that right person.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:49 PM
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I don't get this statement. Why is it mutually exclusive that either the person is sleeping around or improving themselves? People can do both at the same time. I can hit the gym, study, move up in my career and still sleep around on the weekends when I'm off from work. Won’t the world be better that way? This sounds like a throwaway comment. It's so general that there's really no response to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:47 PM
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You can date whoever you want to date. I personally don't date black women and that's a choice that I'm free to make because I'm just not physically attracted to them. I still interact with them as people though, just not in a romantic way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 01:38 PM
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Does anyone actually care about strangers across the world besides the minimal amount where you might donate some money if they have a natural disaster and hope nothing bad happens to them? I have too much going on in my own personal life to worry about world conditions and about random people in other countries or even in a different city than me. I've heard about Japan's low birthrate but nothing I can do about it so I don't spend my time worrying about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 01:26 AM
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For dating, that can definitely be debatable considering most men after 30 are not having nearly as much trouble as late teens/20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 06:38 PM
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antisocial, socially unaware, jealous, insecure, incels, or in a big financial struggle. That's more than just incels considering a majority of young people are not in the best financial situation, plenty of people with student loans or still living with their parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 04:38 PM
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Minority according to who?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 03:25 PM
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Who the hell even has a lawyer on speed dial besides the rich? I'd easily call my parents or a friend first before a lawyer but I'm not a millionaire :shrug:.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:25 PM
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What if I said unattractive men should just lower their standards and date the unattractive obese women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:20 PM
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Nah I'd think to myself, if he had other options he would've taken them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 02:02 PM
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Reddit doesn't have a reading level requirement, just gotta remember that sometimes when discussing anything on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:52 PM
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Let's be honest here, what reason would she have for dating someone who's unattractive and a nobody?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:48 PM
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They still happen in the south, especially in the bible belt.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:41 PM
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Those are no volcels because they don't see those women as an actual option, they're invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:40 PM
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I've always heard it was 6 feet 6 inch 6 figures and not a 6 pack.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:14 AM
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A conversation that you have with someone you just met. Sure if you've been friends longer than you generally talk about hobbies. I'm talking about someone like a new coworker or that shares mutual friends and you're just meeting them for the first time at a hangout.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:16 PM
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I find that a lot of men don't really know how to have a general conversation if it doesn't either involve sports/video games/the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 09:59 PM
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There's a considerable amount of men who don't want children. I'm personally on the fence myself but I know others who are diehard childfree.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:15 AM
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I'd call that a vocal minority just like there are with men as well. Men bitching about not being able to get dates and having to pay for first dates, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:13 AM
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Sounds like me where I don't bother arguing either because chances are I'm not going to change your mind. It's like when my buddies argue that some of these Mr. Olympia contestants are natty. I just nod and move on. Am I agreeable? Nah but I have no horse in the race so I'd rather talk about something else. Or when I worked in a restaurant and had people talking about vaccines/covid, just nod and smile. How's the saying go, argue with an idiot and they'll beat you with experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:06 PM
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I already read the blog and looked for actual sources. Instead, they just link to another page on their blog. Seems like it's a blog that's just farming ad revenue and more clients for the author. Zero links to any studies or external sources. For therapy, go here for Dr. Whiten and go here for other clinicians in her group practice Best Life Behavioral Health. For coaching with Dr. Whiten, go here. Order Dr. Whiten’s books, 52 Emails to Transform Your Marriage and How to Talk to Your Kids about…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 08:01 PM
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That source literally is trying to cater to men hence it's talking about their male clients. Talk about bias. Did you really just try to source a garbage blog that just uses another page on the blog as their sources?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:56 PM
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Majority of men here who are spewing these things probably don't even talk to women in real life hence why they don't spew them in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:51 PM
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Probably because there are a lot of weirdos. I'm a guy but I've seen the messages that other guys send to friends or other women. Bunch of weird opening lines because there's zero risk on apps for saying whatever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:49 PM
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the leading dating (not hook up) websites, they have just as many female profiles as men Pretty sure hinge and bumble are still a majority men. Not sure what other leading app you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:47 PM
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The average man has sex with their hand too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:33 PM
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This is Japan, not the US or the internet lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:45 PM
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Sounds like you spend too much time online.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:36 AM
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I call bullshit on relatively painless, maybe less painful but definitely not relatively painless.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:34 AM
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Stop spreading this bullshit lmao. If this were true, every woman could just put Elon Musk as the father.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 10:32 AM
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Probably for the same reason that most people move in together instead of paying for two rents indefinitely. It saves money.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 10:22 AM
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If you're so happy then why are you even posting in this subreddit instead of just enjoying your life. Just sounds like copium.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:27 PM
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Your very first sentence. Raising children makes them yours as far as I and the law are concerned. I could spend 5 years and a lot of money while raising someone else's child and then just have them walk out of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:41 PM
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Looks like that doctrine applies when the primary caretaker gives up custody. Can you link any material on how hard a case like that would be to win?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:47 PM
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Why even entertain that person? If a woman said it wasn't her fault that she happened to be a mother of three and explaining that the father was a deadbeat, I'd just move on. Too many fish in the sea.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:38 PM
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As far as the law is concerned, if you don't have custody then that's not your kid. If you break up with their parent, then that parent has all the rights and can keep you away from said child.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:37 PM
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Like I said in my comment, I lived in the bible belt. Schools didn't just give out condoms, we never had the planned parenthood assemblies. We even had a prayer before announcements in a public school. Currently it's illegal to even have an abortion after 6 weeks in that state and that's if you can find someone who's willing to perform it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 06:32 PM
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Being book smart and socially dumb does not make them the smartest.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 06:13 PM
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Eh, my friend in high school became a father in 11th grade. Good luck getting any condoms in the rural south when the closest store was miles away and you don't have a car nor can you really ask your parent for condoms since it was the bible belt. Being in the bible belt, it also meant no abortion either. Plenty of mothers at that high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 06:09 PM
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Some might not be clinically addicted but a vast majority are using video games as a coping mechanism or distraction. It's crazy how many guys will spend 4 hours a day on the games and avoid other things in their life like gym/diet/sleep. I'm guilty of it myself when I used to perma queue up for League of Legends. Havent touched that game in 2.5 years now though somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 04:37 PM
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At this point, it's like a chicken or the egg problem. What came first, the video game addiction and lack of ambition or the failure in society? I can personally say that it was my video game addiction that started when I was around 8 years old until around 25 before I could kick the addiction and start using my time better. Nowadays I still play video games but I play in spurts so I can get other things done like going to the gym or cooking actual meals. I took a huge break from the games from …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 04:27 PM
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You're talking about women like they're an entirely different species, no surprise that you might not get an invite.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 05:44 PM
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Sounds like more excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 05:43 PM
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Hmm I got most of those and I agree that those traits are attractive and I've had some success in dating but I don't have women just flocking at me. I'm not tall or very tall since I'm only 5'10 and my eyes are kinda shit but my glasses make up for it imo since they're stylish. I've been in 3 long term relationships and a bunch of short term ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:54 PM
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My wallet is so small nowadays, I gave up the trifold and just rock a small wallet that holds a few cards. Everything is either credit from a card or my phone else I do bring like $200 in cash for emergencies.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:48 PM
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A gay ugly guy in a suit is still a fat ugly guy in a suit How did a suit change a guy from gay to fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:45 PM
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Bruh, everyone in my high school wore polos if they could afford them. I went to school in the rural south with 90% black student population and ralph lauren polos were a status symbol along with jordans.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:44 PM
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I think while attraction can be very diverse, there are some shared traits that are not attractive. For example, bad breath, long nose hairs, yellow teeth, unkempt beards, etc. Grooming and personal hygiene are separate from genetics but play a huge role in why some guys get zero attention. I used to be cheap and get a haircut twice a year so by around month 4, I started to look homeless. Nowadays I get a haircut every month and keep the rest of my hygiene/grooming in check.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:39 PM
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No matter how small, its still a part of the sample size. If it happens 5000 times in a million cases then it's statistically irrelevant. That would be less than 1% of cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:34 PM
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They can be real but it doesn't mean that it's a significant sample size. Just because you witnessed 50 cheaters, that still might have an insignificant impact on cheating as a whole which likely is millions of people. My group of 10 friends is nothing compared to the millions of adults above the age of 32 for instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:48 AM
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Your experiences are still just anecdotal. For example, everyone in my friend group has bought a house and we're all just 25-32 but we're mostly professionals or business owners making six figures. I'm not naive enough to say that everyone can buy a house by 32.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:13 AM
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proof that theres 300 of those posts? proof that op was a member during those posts being made? there's a search bar for past posts
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:35 AM
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Only if her boyfriend was there. I don't follow my girlfriend around everywhere, sometimes she goes out to dinner with her friends without me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:11 AM
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Sure, here's the Oxford definition for empathy: the ability to imagine and understand the thoughts, perspective, and emotions of another person. In counselling and psychotherapy empathy is often considered to be one of the necessary qualities enabling a successful therapeutic relationship the very first line says "the ability to imagine", I can imagine that breaking a leg would be very painful but I don't necessarily have to experience it myself to know that it's going to be painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:33 AM
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Wtf is an elder Stacy? That's an oxymoron just like a scrawny Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:13 AM
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One might have an electric scooter and taking the injury in stride meanwhile the other guy is broke and stuck with crutches. My point is that it's possible to feel empathy for others even if you didn't go through the exact same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:09 AM
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By that scenario then no one can really empathize. Maybe someone broke their leg while drunk and someone else broke it while being sober. They probably didn't experience the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:44 PM
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bro started balding
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:35 PM
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End of the day, who cares besides yourself? If you're gonna take those offhanded remarks personally, then go ahead but I've never cared. I'm Asian and people still shout China Flu near me, I really don't care lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:55 PM
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He was on /r/popular yesterday with his boots, funny picture ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:52 PM
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Mostly has to do with the fact that it's acceptable for women to cry but you're seen as feminine if you cry as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:43 PM
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Just do what Ron DeSantis does, wear cowboy boots with lifts in them. Probably adds like 4 inches ezpz.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:39 PM
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I don't think there are blue pilled principles. Blue pill is just what red pillers call people who don't agree with them. Kinda like what Christians would describe non Christians as. Plenty of different people who are not Christians
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 09:57 PM
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You come off condescending as fuck. You had an easy childhood it seems but that's not everyone's life. I lost my father at 20, I also lived in poverty as a child, life wasn't all sunshine and rainbows.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:23 PM
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Having adhd makes me a terrible listener personally. If I'm having a long conversation, my focus will tend to drift. Like did I pay the credit card bill this month? Did I remember to put the leftovers in the fridge? Did I walk the dog? etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 03:21 PM
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A bum is a bum no matter where they're at. Someone with no social skills is still going to be having trouble with social skills somewhere else unless it's due to a language barrier of sorts. Plenty of universal unattractive traits. But there are regional advantages for sure. I'm Asian and have a lot more success in NYC than I did in the rural South.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:59 PM
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Top 30% probably includes married men who don't want to get with an older woman when their wife is a much more attractive option. Also the whole moral debate about cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:48 PM
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I like to come on here every 6 months or so and just debate. Stay too long and you might just get sucked into the echo chamber.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:18 PM
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No one is claiming that everyone has a "home court advantage" somewhere. You could be universally ugly for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:23 PM
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I didn't say that he started underwater welding right away. He started welding, mostly the compactors behind big stores like Wal-Mart and what-not, and then transitioned to underwater welding over time. He was welding within 2 months though as opposed to having 2+ years left of his 4 year comp-sci degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:04 PM
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I live in NYC and there's so many odd looking couples on the streets and in the public parks. Plenty of dudes that are not the most attractive, seen plenty of neckbeards who are with nerdy women all the time. If you're not in NYC or another city that's mostly pedestrians then look in your grocery stores or Wal-mart. Plenty of odd looking couples there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:27 PM
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Ugly people don't want to date other ugly people. That's kinda obvious since what's the point of dating someone that doesn't turn you on. It just leads to being in a dead bedroom imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:04 PM
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I don't think anyone chooses those jobs voluntarily. For example, I know an underwater welder. He went to school for computer science but was unable to get his degree when his firstborn came so he started welding because it paid well and he could start asap. Same with coal miners or any other hard labor or even enlisting in the military. I went to a poor rural high school and almost every guy went into the Army.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:56 PM
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Sounds like they just see you as a good friend. You can be a good friend and a terrible choice for a romantic partner. I wouldn't date half the women in my friend group but they're always fun and exciting to hang out with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:46 PM
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Kinda reminds me of overweight guys who don't want overweight women. I know plenty of overweight guys at work who think their money is enough to get them an instagram model.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:28 PM
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I'd take the struggles of a billionaire any day on the planet. That's not how the world works though. Fight your own battles instead of worrying about others. The grass is always greener on the other side.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:27 PM
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People also believe that they can change or "fix" others. Had an ex who thought she could just change my gaming habits.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:25 PM
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I hope OP just casually forgot to mention that they're a billionaire.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:15 AM
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Looks can also be improved. Not saying you're going to go from unattractive to becoming an Instagram model but you can definitely go from a 2 to a 5 with some work. Plenty of people have glow ups. Get braces/contacts/decent haircut/grow a beard/get in the gym/fix your diet/hire a stylist/visit the dermatologist/etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:17 PM
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I know if I am not eye to eye with a man claiming to be my height he’s full of shit. Dude could just have a 5head.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 05:26 PM
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I live in NYC, I know I'll never own a house here so when I want to buy a house, I know I'll have to move. Like I said, location matters. I was looking at houses when interest rates were low in Atlanta. Big metro area, houses in the outskirts for around 400k-500k. Sure it's a big move but if I want a house then that's an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:29 AM
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Let me guess, you're also a part of Antiwork. If it's your dream to have a nice home with a yard, that's more than doable for most people. Depends on how much of a priority you make it and location you want. Don't go expecting a nice home in a big metro area for example, since those go for half a million at least. It's also going to be a 30 year mortgage too, most likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 06:52 PM
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If I remember correctly, I think I gave you some advice. Some of it may have sounded harsh too but it was honest haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 07:12 AM
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Being honest gets you labelled as an asshole. I usually sugarcoat everything unless it's someone that I'm extremely close with, like my brother. If my brother is asking me for advice, I'll give him the blunt truth. But if it's some random, I'm not about to deal with some meltdown because people can't take things objectively. I used to be honest with more people but I'd get called an asshole. "Man, I'm having trouble with dates, do you have any advice?" "Yeah, you can try dressing better. I'll go…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 11:40 PM
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Just don't date betas, problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 10:24 PM
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Eh, I generally don't introduce women to my friends until we're exclusive and I don't become exclusive until after we've had sex. I have introduced women to friends if I happened to meet a friend while I was on a date with her but that's a pretty rare occurrence in a big city.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 10:23 PM
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It's nice but at the same time, it's the norm in my culture. It would probably even be offensive if I denied my mom the opportunity because she'd probably feel left out within her friend group. If anything, she's the one more excited about my future children than I am. I always get asked about grandchildren during holidays when I see her lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:08 PM
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A lot has to do with culture and the way we were raised.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:18 PM
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We all have our own cultures though, even if we all grew up in the same country. It'd be hard for me to raise children with someone who I don't see eye to eye with, culturally. For example, in my culture, my mom would move in with us when we have children so that we both can work while my mom takes care of the kids. It's happened to all my cousins who have children, my aunts move in and help, generally until the kids start school. Some women are against having their MiL living with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:15 PM
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That still accounts for less than 1% of 1% of the world's population. Still a boogeyman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 11:50 AM
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I mean he's married now, he dated and then got married 4 years after we graduated.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 10:46 PM
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Who said anything about dating? I'm talking about fucking as a ONS
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 10:47 AM
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The point is that even looks might not be needed as long as you're not a deformed midget. Looks are only heavily weighted on the apps because it's literally based on pictures, nobody cares about your bio if you're unattractive. I pull more women at clubs than I do on apps because I'm not a white 6'2 model. Easier to stand out if I can display non-physical traits like confidence/charisma/speech/etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 12:25 AM
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Can't beat an SEC school party, I don't care for college sports besides being an excuse to drink lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 12:13 AM
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Nah, we hosted parties in our apartment dorm freshman year at an SEC school.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 11:11 PM
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I'd say most Stacys don't chase, they just make it easier for you to chase them. Still gotta put in the leg work.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 08:27 PM
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This doesn't mean that short and less handsome dudes don't fuck though. My roommate in college fucked a lot even though he's 5'5 and average face. Dude was very charismatic and had success in person and didn't use OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 08:00 PM
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Sounds like you didn't date them for long or just got lucky and didn't have to deal with a crazy ex. Imagine you and your partner wanted to go to Disney World for Winter Vacation with their child (your step child) but you couldn't because their ex said only if you take the ex too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 03:27 PM
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I haven't looked into steroids because I don't need them. I think I have a natural above average testosterone level, although it's not what it used to be at 22 now that I'm 29 haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 03:22 PM
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I personally hate a home gym. I'd only have a home gym if I could afford one with machines too. I don't want just a squat rack and dumbbells haha. Gimme a leg press machine, cable machine, calf raise machine, leg curls, leg extensions, etc. I think a home gym is great for just building raw strength but it's not as good for hypertrophy compared to a box gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 03:18 PM
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Majority of dark skinned women are not celebrities who have been able to become multi-millionaires. To be fair though, neither of them are dark-skinned, I'd classify both of them as light skin. Dark skin is more like Shaunette Wilson.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 03:14 PM
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Gotta do hip thrusts if you want the booty, all the women at my gym, hog the squat racks to do their hip thrusts.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 03:09 PM
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Your level didn't go up a lot as you hit 30, their level went down a lot when they had a child. Single men don't want single mothers. It's like computers, you had to be rich to afford a computer in the 80s. Nowadays, everyone and their grandma has a computer because the price of computers went down just like the attractiveness of women who have a child goes down.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 03:06 PM
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What country are you in? If it's Australia or the UK, then you're still getting hit because it's Rupert Murdoch, that's the problem. He makes money off creating outrage. He owns The Sun and The Times in the UK (and owns FoxNews/NY Post).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 12:54 PM
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I'm not talking about the kids, I'm talking about the other parent. I've heard enough horror stories from my friends who deal with this, that I never want to deal with it personally. My friend couldn't take his son to Disney World because the mother was spiteful and would only allow him if he also paid for her to go too. Keep in mind that they haven't been together for 8 years. He's already remarried someone else, kinda weird to pay and have your ex come along too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 12:47 PM
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Don't go believing Fox News and NY Post for everything, they're just entertainment companies. If I believed NY Post, I'd have to stay in my NYC apartment all day and never leave because of the "rising crime wave". Or that shutting down drag races will be more important than gun laws for our children's safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 12:40 PM
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Most people don't want to deal with baby momma/baby daddy drama. It's like another person in your relationship, at least until the child is 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 12:26 PM
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So no suggestions on better places to live?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:02 PM
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I think it's terminally online people who read about the #MeToo movement, where dudes like Cosby/Weinstein are going on a SA spree and catch charges, and think it's the norm. I remember that there was a female Twitch streamer who tried to say that a pro LOL player, SAed her and it backfired hard. https://www.talkesport.com/news/yourprincess-quit-twitch-rivals-drama-explained/
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 10:27 PM
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Just look at this thread, plenty of people are making it seem like you have no chance unless you're a model or that you'll catch a sexual harassment charge. I've done my own fair share of approaches and have never worried about getting a charge. Maybe it's because I can read social cues rather well but I've seen some dudes in clubs who can't read the room. Even then, it's just a rough rejection and people move on. I think you'd have to take it pretty far to get a SA charge like straight up gropi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:29 PM
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If it works, it works. I've seen more success from random lines than I do from giving compliments or telling a joke. What's cringe imo is when dudes either use "Your beautiful" or the "What do you want, a joke or a fun fact?".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:07 PM
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Fun fact, I had it happen to me unprompted. I had an OkCupid account from way back circa 2012. Didn't use it for awhile and when I decided to check it out again for shits and giggles, I noticed it got hacked lol. I had to recover the account through my email and found that whoever hacked it, had changed it to a Russian woman. Man, the inbox was full haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:50 PM
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That's why you gotta come up with weird quirky lines imo. I've sent a few that had success because they just elicit interest and a need to respond. For example, during the summer heat wave, Man it's hot, we should try cooking eggs on the sidewalk. Got a fair amount of responses just because it wasn't about them but rather a random goofy opener. Most women have already heard all the compliment openers, mines opens differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:45 PM
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Where else do you recommend moving too? Every place has its pros and cons.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:40 PM
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That's what I'm trying to say. I'm no model either, I'm 5'10, very fit, average face and still managed to have fun over the summer when I just moved here last spring.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:10 PM
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Sounds like you need to move then, it's hard to find anything in a small city. I used to live in a college town of 150k people and now live in NYC, it's night and day difference. Of course, you have to level up too but then there's so many more people to choose from. I'm curious what your profile looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:00 PM
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Next thing you're going to be surprised about is that rich billionaires still play video games instead of just hustlin all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 12:31 AM
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That's the entire point of this sub. Purple Pill DEBATE. It's not called PurplePillCirclejerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 10:00 PM
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I value my time though. My contracting rate is $200/hour. A dinner is like an extra $50 if I'm paying for both VS splitting. It's not that big of a deal for me personally if I'm already investing time. It reminds me of when I used to always wait on sales to buy something I really wanted. Nowadays if I really want something, I don't mind paying full price instead of having to check the price everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:59 PM
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Honestly, I love when a woman offers to split but I'm not going to ask her to do it. It's the offer or that she pulls out her wallet, that I like. I don't mind that much about paying but I hate when women don't even offer. I come from a culture where people will fight for the bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:19 PM
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Same reason men complain about having to pay for dates but continue to do it. I'm not a fan of paying for dates but I do it because it's become the norm. Sure, I could always ask to split but I'd rather just pay instead of getting ghosted because I didn't pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:45 PM
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What about penguins?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:35 PM
4

Unless said gold medal was from a blowjob competition ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:45 PM
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She's a 4/10 for me. I'm not attracted to dark skin nor very short women. I can go as low as 5'2 but pref 5'4 at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:43 PM
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There's a difference between not good looking and not terrible looking. As long as you got a good face and able to talk a good game, you can score on Tinder. I'm sure most early 40s are not in shape either so that's a plus. I'm 29 and a lot of people my age are not going to the gym. I can't imagine how bad it is at 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:40 PM
1

We're not talking about heterosexual relationships specifically. We're talking about using older rich men for resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:37 PM
1

Nope, that's like a strip club without the lap dance
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:31 PM
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Yeah, I'm not giving up a $20 or $50 bill. I usually just carry 3 $20 bills on me for emergencies. I use my phone and cards for almost everything but sometimes some places only take cash here in NYC. As for my experiences with panhandlers, it falls in line with your experience. When I did offer to get a guy some food in a gas station, he said he'd take cash instead because the gas station down the road had better options. Yeah, I wasn't born yesterday and gonna call bullshit on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:46 AM
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Get called crazy and you could end up in the psych ward depending on the context, it's not uncommon.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:41 AM
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I didn't say that sarcastically, you just give off a vibe of someone who tries to explain everything just like now. "Well ackshually, ...." I don't tend to sugarcoat my words on here so I called it how I see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:13 AM
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They're not equivalent in your opinion but I wouldn't want to be called either. They're both just as bad imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:06 AM
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God, I hope you didn't try to explain to the woman like you're doing here. No wonder she threw a drink in your face, you're annoying, no offense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:59 AM
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I forgot it was a contest.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:47 AM
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I mean you're the one who took it literally and elaborated on beggars so I followed your lead. When I said "Everyone walks past the beggar everyday.", that was figure of speech meant to say that people only care about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:42 AM
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I see plenty of female beggars here in Brooklyn. People still walk past them. I don't even carry small bills so I've never put money in their buckets.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:34 PM
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You want some advice, go subscribe to a few youtubers that I watched for awhile when I was going through a 5 year improvement phase. Teachingmenfashion, Jose is great for a wide variety of advice. alpha m., same thing, Aaron is great for just a wide variety of advice. My dad died when I was in school, I didn't have a father figure who taught me the ropes to being a man and modern dating. Some of the advice they give might not apply to you but there is a lot of good advice in there. For example, …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:30 PM
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Let me rephrase that for you. majority of people don’t and will never have other people’s best interests in mind Human nature is selfish. Everyone walks past the beggar everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:08 PM
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Sure, that's why porn is such a great tool. I get horny just as much as the next guy, even in relationships, I'd still jack off. Some men feel shame for jacking off but I embrace it. It's been a part of my life since I was 13, not just gonna give it up but I have taken breaks in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 10:45 PM
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I didn't change the subject, it's called an analogy. No one cares about other people complaining in the first place, it's not just men. If a woman was complaining about always getting used for sex, I wouldn't lose a second of sleep. Second of all, no one cares about irrelevant people complaining. I don't care if people complain about my choices, they're irrelevant. Had some people say that I should work more because I decided to take 2 months off work since I could afford it. In their minds, I w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 10:40 PM
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Lmfao my bad for not thinking like a caveman. I'm taking everyone and locking us in a room and calling the cops. What good is me going downstairs to die, going to do for anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 10:18 PM
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I mean it's like a poor guy complaining about Tesla prices. Tesla is not going to drop their prices to $25000 so that he can afford it. He's better off buying a Toyota.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 10:17 PM
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I can be kind to a woman and still not want to fuck her. I helped some lady carry her baby stroller down the steps because no one else was nearby. Just because I don't want to fuck her, doesn't mean I think she doesn't matter as a human being. Why do so many people on here equate sex with human worth when they're both separate things. I treat service workers like I'd treat my friends but I wouldn't date one. They don't matter to me in terms of dating market place.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:52 PM
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You finish off with "life is unfair, deal with it" so if guys collectively decide they've had enough of the dysfunctional bullshit and tell women it's time to go back to traditional gender roles, whether they want to or not, is it fair game to say the exact same thing back to you? You can't force anyone to go back to traditional gender roles. I'm a man and I'm not stupid enough to just put my life on the line if there's a house intruder like how other men feel like they have too. I don't let tra…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:47 PM
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I mean if we go off my hourly rate, I'm already investing over $200 in time costs, what's an easy dinner going to cost me? I gotta eat anyways. I date women who usually have high paying careers so I doubt they're coming out just for a dinner. If so, I guess I'm paying for their company so it's whatever. Worst case, I can test out some jokes and small talk on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:33 PM
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As men like to say, "Pick Better". If I'm paying for a date, I'm going into it knowingly. I don't date college students anymore because that's usually the demographic that will use you for a meal and the fact that they're too immature for me. I'm 29 and the lowest I go is 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 08:24 PM
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When you source nypost, I know you're not being serious then. According to them, I shouldn't be able to leave my NYC apartment because of all the crime here. Yet I go out every single day and feel more safe here than I did in a red state where everyone owned a gun. NYPost is FoxNews in another format, same owner. Same owner who's getting sued right now for defamation about a stolen election in the US lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 08:10 PM
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People with options, that's who. I do it too as a man because I don't get invested into someone right off the bat. I used to get invested early but it just made me look desperate. I could do 3 dates in a day with different women if I had nothing else planned and wasn't dating anyone exclusively.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 08:06 PM
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People always call my diet boring but that doesn't mean they think I'm boring. I eat chicken thighs, white rice and cabbage A LOT, at least 6 times every week. If someone called my testosterone levels boring, I wouldn't take offense either since I'm not on TRT.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:05 PM
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Congratulations, you just figured out basic human nature. Most people don't choose to become better, they do it because they have to, in order to get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:50 PM
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I'm curious what kind of man cares about half that shit, like are they in their 50s or something? I couldn't care less if my wife can knit, sow on a button, garden, etc. Doesn't have to cook from scratch either. Cleaning, we both can do. Like do these men just go from their mom's house to their wife's house?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:48 PM
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I can see it if the man is making millions a year. But there's not enough millionaire men to go around. I make over 200k/year and still split with the women I date. Nothing wrong with taking turns on a meal, it's not like I'm making her pay for a car. I date women who have a career though so maybe that's the difference. I stopped dating college students.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:40 PM
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Maybe read my entire comment, I said there's a risk still. Obviously they can break.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 12:25 PM
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Sure, there's a risk to almost anything worthwhile. You can avoid everything if you want. I wear a seatbelt when I drive just like I avoid putting my mouth down there when it's a ONS.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:17 PM
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Driving a car could lead to death though. So many auto accidents every year. If not death then a shit ton of medical bills and chronic injury.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:11 PM
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Eh, I bring my own condoms and don't raw dog. Sure there's a risk but there's a risk to driving a car too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 03:33 PM
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Prenuptials don't do shit for assets earned during marriage. It's in the name, pre nuptial so assets brought into the marriage not during it. I have around mid six figures in assets. That's nothing compared to what I would earn in my lifetime. I'm not stupid to think that I'm someone special and will never get a divorce. I hope it's forever but if she turns into a meth addict, then yeah that's a divorce right there. I'm obviously going to hedge my bet by vetting them. All of my high earning frie…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 03:29 PM
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Yeah I'd absolutely care about my wife making her own income. What's gonna happen if we divorce and it's only my money that we split? I make over 200k and will make more with 3-5 years more experience. I'm not looking to be the sole breadwinner. I don't want a SAHMom for a partner. The house is just one expense, let's not forget children are expensive as fuck. I don't make millions a year so maybe it's different for them but women are not all dating the same 0.25% of men who make over a million …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 03:19 PM
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Relevant name haha. So many BJ's have been lackluster so even if they do give head, there's no guarantee that it's any good.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 03:15 PM
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I'm sure they don't care about attracting the average guy making 50k. I think a woman having a good career is attractive because I don't want to buy a million dollar house in NYC on my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 02:48 PM
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I don't expect head or eat pussy for a ONS. Don't know them well enough to put my mouth there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 02:43 PM
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It's all about physical traits now. Plenty of engineers make six figures and can't even get a date now. Good luck if you're bald, short, ugly even if you got a higher income. Back in the day, it was just having an income.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 02:41 PM
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Even on dating apps, you still have the initial in-person communication. You don't just become a couple off the apps, you still have to date in person. Sure, you can't show charisma, intelligence, non-tangibles on dating apps, that's why everyone is shallow to an extent on dating apps because pictures and prompts are the only things you can go off of. "You don't take a good picture, so you must not be a good partner"? Or I thought your written answers were not creative enough, you're not good en…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 07:39 PM
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If all you have to go off of is pictures and prompts then dating apps are definitely supposed to be tailored towards your audience. You can't compare dating apps to in person dating because there's a huge mismatch in options. Would you compare working a remote job to working in a coffee shop? I can go to "work" from my pc, butt naked and morning breath and musky as hell. Good luck doing that at the coffee shop.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 07:06 PM
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Just look at current teenagers and youll see the outcome. Bunch of kids addicted to TikTok and YouTube shorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:03 PM
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What's funny and what I've witnessed time and time again is that as soon as an ugly man has any success, he does a complete 180. Before the relationship, he's all about he'll be the best partner and not another bad boy. Then once he has a relationship, his attitude changes because he thinks that since he's attracted one person now, he's become attractive and can get other women too. Ego is a dangerous thing lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 12:29 AM
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Lmao, so it's my family's fault that 5 out of every 6 personal bathrooms I went to, had poop stains everywhere right? Also my family's fault that all these guys live off either meal plans or frozen meals because they can't cook right? Must be my family's fault that these guys can't even shower and fix their greasy hair too. I was an engineering major so I've seen a lot of nappy greasy hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 07:13 PM
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Where did I say anything about gender roles or something being solely on men? Stop making a strawman pointing back at women. I'm sure they don't all meet the bar either. My entire point is that the average man is pretty clueless when it comes to taking care of himself. I'll admit that I ate a lot of frozen meals when I moved out as well. Hungry mans, frozen wings, microwave pasta, you name it. It got better once I started watching the Food Network though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 07:11 PM
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I didn't say shit about gender roles, I'm saying the average man didn't learn to cook or clean while growing up. My brother didn't even learn how to use the washing machine until he moved out to college. Dude can't cook to save his life either so lived off the meal plan. Now he can make eggs and rice and boil some frozen vegetables. That's about it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 07:05 PM
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You ever gone into the freshmen college dorms? It's usually a mess lmao. I've seen dudes who don't even unpack their shit and live out of cardboard boxes that are still messy. Let's not talk about all the shit stained toilets I saw when I had to use someone else's bathroom. I'd be very surprised if the average man can cook a balanced meal and not just a frozen meal you pour in the pan and heat up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 07:00 PM
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Sadly it's becoming common for toddlers to get their own tablet. My nephew is not even 2 yet, turns 2 in September and he has his own hand me down iPad for watching YouTube kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 04:47 PM
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There's always renting and even in NYC, you can get an apartment with roommates for $500 if you go to the outer boroughs like Queens or outter Brooklyn. Sure it's not going to be some gentrified place like Williamsburg.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 04:30 PM
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I always like to point out the gym. Everyone wants to reap the rewards but no one wants to work for it. Look at the gym on January 1st compared to January 16th. People are easy to give up. My engineering 101 class had around 200 students in a huge lecture hall. My senior class had 17 students. I had to drop my first calc class and retake it the next semester because I couldn't keep up. Then had to take calc 2 over the summer so I wouldn't fall behind. Shit happens, you gotta deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 04:17 PM
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Tap water is included with my rent. Might add a cheap drink mix if I'm feeling spicy. I used to even drink Dr Thunder as a college student lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 04:06 PM
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No idea why people invest into ETFs when they're broke. You're going to earn like 5% of $1000 a year on avg but that money could go into improving yourself so much more if used elsewhere. Compare sticking $1000 and making $50 a year VS using that for some sort of career booster. Even small things like spending $20 for a professional resume review can go a long way. Or maybe a $100 suit for interviews, maybe even a better pair of shoes or better nutrition. If I could go back my college days, I'd …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 09:09 PM
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Not everyone can grow facial hair that looks good. I have to shave because my beard would be patchy when I grow it out. Literally a weird goatee with strays on my jaw and cheeks lol. I blame it on East Asian genetics though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 09:06 PM
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There are people who are terminally online which is the sad part. People who don't bother to "touch grass", so all of their opinions are based on what they read in some corner of the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 02:52 PM
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Sexual Dimorphism. One gender is judged for too many partners, the other is judged for lack of partners. Same way a chick with nice tits is attractive but a dude walking around with man boobs is unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 02:47 PM
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Same reason why the men on here are upset about being judged for being a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 01:09 PM
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The juiciest asses I've seen are on chubby women who have their fat in all the right places. The best looking asses to me though are usually gym bunnies with their nice toned ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 01:29 AM
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Plenty of men I knew from high school were but I also went to high school in the bible belt. I was still in college while my classmates were posting baby pictures on Facebook.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 12:34 AM
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You mean like everything else ever? Every marvel movie you watch? Every rap music you listen to? Every fictional book you read? So now you're moving the goalposts because you can't refute what I said about Iron Man being different from Thor OR each of the Harry Potter books. As for FNF, just because other people are repetitive, doesn't mean you have to be repetitive. I watch plenty of food travel videos like Mark Weins and it's always at least another new experience in each video. I watch some v…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 12:13 AM
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I'm talking about literally the same shit, same stories, same talking points, same questions, etc. At least with a Marvel movie, there's at least another superhero and plot line. Watching Iron Man vs watching Thor is still a different experience. Each of the Harry Potter books also has a different plot line. Meanwhile, watching F&F today vs the episode from 4 months ago is the same thing regurgitated. I don't even have to watch the most recent episode to know that it probably had them using the …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 11:42 PM
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It reminds me of when a male high school student gets raped by his female teacher. All the guys in the comment are the first to downplay it and say shit like "I wish my teacher had sex with me" or "He's so lucky, he won the lottery".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 11:38 PM
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Yeah the hosts and the guy that does the cameras are weird as fuck. I don't think any of them have any success with women unless they're paying for pussy, no cap. They were even exposed for being on that sugar baby site.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 11:29 PM
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I'd say it's based on similar values and upbringing. Countries like Sweden are very egalitarian, whereas in China and Russia, they're more traditional. In China, the guy needs to have a car/house/career before he can really think about marriage. I'm sure that's a lot more attractive because of similar values.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 11:25 PM
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Not gonna lie, I know plenty of gym bros who want a woman with a fat ass. You're not going to find many petite women with a fat ass so of course they're going to go for the chubby ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 09:21 PM
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I honestly don't know why guys watch their podcast. It's literally the same content on repeat, see it once and you've seen it all. It's the same anecdotes over and over again. I saw a couple of their episodes just to see what everyone was talking about. It's like every episode, Myron talks about the women in a candy store anecdote like it's some huge gotcha moment lol. I don't think it's necessarily hard to poke holes in their views either but they only bring on club girls. They bring on some wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 08:54 PM
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I get that but if we're going off the US census data, there are less than 4% of men who are under 5'4. Like I said, I acknowledge that dating is going to be hard for some people but most people are not that height. Just like it's hard to date for someone who has a disfigured face or missing a limb. The exceptions are exceptional for a reason. Most people have some actionable steps that they can make, in order to become more attractive. Nowadays you can even get height surgery if you can afford i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 06:25 PM
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I can see where they're coming from. I was talking to a woman last summer who was already planning baby names and marriage after 2 dates. I was like damn, chill out, I haven't even met your friends or family yet. She was 28 and really thinking about timelines but I definitely wasn't on the same wavelength.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 05:20 PM
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If showing up is all a guy expects from the courting phase then he's probably someone with low self-esteem. I've been there before, I just wanted a girlfriend because I thought it'd change my own value. I expect a woman to do much more than just show up. If she can't hold a conversation, I'm moving on. If she constantly checks her phone on a date, I'm moving on. If she can't even at least offer to split the bill, I'm moving on. I always pay for the first date but I hate when it's just expected o…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 05:14 PM
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Sounds like a blackpill mentality. Sure they can just show up and that's enough for a dude that has no standards. But who wants a person with no standards? Sounds miserable if you ask me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 05:07 PM
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I get that, I have friends that have dating issues too but they're not really the epitome of a person that I'd want to date. Dudes who wear the same clothes for years and put no effort into looking great. Dudes who give up on their fitness goals after a month because their body is sore. Dudes who can't even manage to stick to a meal plan because fast food tastes so good which usually results in an unhealthy body. The cool thing is that I don't have to date them, we just play videogames together …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 04:58 PM
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It's not uncommon though for fathers to be like that especially when I was growing up in the 90s and early 2000s.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:52 PM
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Steroids don't do shit if you don't even hit the gym haha. I had a friend who thought he could just drink protein powder and take steroids and he'd become jacked while playing videogames.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 01:46 PM
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Plenty of dudes on here "argue for their friend", they say they don't have any dating trouble but their friends do. It's so weird how common it is on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 01:43 PM
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To be fair, doesn't that really depend on MOS? Like if you're a barber or mechanic, do you really need to pass a physical test? I can understand if you're infantry or other combat role. My barber is a dude in his 50s that can probably do a couple pushups but man does he cut hair well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 11:36 PM
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Is it that or is it also that fathers actively choose not to be the primary caregiver? When I was growing up, my dad basically always told me to ask my mom for anything. If I needed my report card signed, I had to ask mom. If I needed new clothes, I had to tell mom. If I needed more lunch money, guess who I had to get it from? Mom. My Dad was pretty absent in a caregiver role, he was just the breadwinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 11:35 PM
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Eh, I heard they're going to China, Mandarin (China's main language) is even taught in Russian schools. Also there's a shortage of women in China so they solve each other's problems. China's dictator even went to Russia this week to see Putin.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:47 PM
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Good luck getting in or out of Russia/Ukraine right now with the war.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:24 PM
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I can just say that I'm a financial investor. At that point, I would investing around 2-3 million dollars and living off the profit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:23 PM
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No, I'm Chinese but grew up in the States.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:21 PM
2

Mining as in working in a mine? I don't mind the engineering job because it's pretty chill. 40 hours/week with good benefits, can't really argue with that. Good mental stimulation too, of course there are bad days too but mostly good days. Name another job field I could transition into without going back to school or working manual labor and that even remotely competes with 200k/year. I'm on track to retire before 40 at this rate so it seems the wisest choice right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:53 PM
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I mean I mentioned obese in my comment which is like 30 BMI. But the difference though is that I've worked out for around 7 years, started at 22 and now I'm 29. How many people do you know who workout for 7 years? Probably not a significant portion of the population. I'd guesstimate around 3-5% if that. BMI is a useful measurement for like 90%+ of the population. It has its uses.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 06:11 PM
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Don't lotto winners end up broke within a year? Hardly the best example of people. I hated my first couple engineering jobs. I can tolerate my current one because the pay is great. No idea how surrounding myself with people who have careers, is 'gold digging'. Sounds like a bit of a reach. We split dinner bills just like any normal friend group. Would I like to quit my job and retire now? Sure. Can I though? No. So I'd rather be working this job over something that pays less and probably has no …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 06:09 PM
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I went to a shit state school in the south. Still had access to the career center and coaching/interview prep.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 05:10 PM
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Let's be honest though, it's 1/3 of women in the clubs. When I go to the clubs, I really don't see that many obese women. I'd say I also find around 1/3 of the women in clubs as attractive too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 05:09 PM
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Really depends on who you surround yourself with. I live in NYC and everyone I know has some sort of white collar office job. Whether it's a banker, engineer, media, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 05:07 PM
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That's probably just as likely as someone making six figures. Sure it's easy to do if you have discipline. I workout 6 days a week. But if you compare how many people are in the gym in January every year compared to the other 11 months, people don't workout lol. I can't even get a machine in January without waiting. Today there's like 8 other people and 20 open machines.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 02:33 PM
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Should be even easier to stick out from the pack then. I workout and currently cutting to have visible abs again by summer time. I get a lot more attention now than I did when I was skinny. Went from 5'10 140 lbs to 180 lbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 01:47 PM
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This is the biggest delusion. Sure, some dudes are muscular but it's less than 10% if not 5% of men who make the cut of obese BMI from muscle. I've worked out in the gym for years and still have a normal BMI at 5'10 and 180 lbs. I'd probably have to jump on roids to hit that obese BMI from muscle. The same people who believe this delusion are the same people who don't want to workout because they're afraid of being too big when in fact, it takes years to hit that stage. You don't just suddenly b…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 01:34 PM
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I know of at least 3 countries that have Walmart; the US, Canada and China. I'm sure there's even more though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 01:29 PM
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I find that you have to bank on other characteristics. My uncle is short (so is the rest of my mom's family) but he's one of the hardest working people I know. He was still working 14 hours a day, 7 days a week up until he turned 52. His wife is the same way, both literally live to work so it was a match. Now they've switched to part-time work after they sold their main business.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 01:24 PM
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I am East Asian (Chinese but I grew up in the US). I've even had blind dates too which is kinda like arranged marriages. I can get set up with someone that would be a good match and we see if we like each other. It's not forced and it's by choice, I usually have good experiences with it. Sometimes you just don't click though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 10:21 AM
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This only works if you're Indian. Otherwise where do you get an arranged marriage as a Midwestern white guy lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 01:28 AM
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I think Asian people see him as half-white but to white Americans, he's just another Asian man. Dude could pass as an ABC (American born Chinese). I just noticed getting some attention when that movie came out compared to maybe 1 match every 2 months before that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 08:31 PM
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Thanks but honestly there was no other option since there's no way my parents could do anything for me when they were struggling on their own. Either I made it or I was homeless basically, so that really lights a fire under one's ass haha. I moved out into the dorms at 17 and never looked back.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 08:27 PM
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I'm a man that managed to accomplish this. Grew up to poor immigrant parents who came to the US as indentured servants. Lived in a 4 bedroom house with 20 other indentured servants while my parents worked 70 hour weeks. I still managed to somehow get a full ride scholarship because I graduated top of my class. Got an engineering degree and now make over 200k/year in NYC after 10 years of experience. I'm nothing special either, I was just told by my mom to focus on school early on. You can either…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 08:20 PM
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How was Henry Golding not attractive in that film? Dude looked good and had money/connections/main character energy/etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 08:16 PM
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It's the mainstream red pill. It's not the red pill from the early 2000s maybe but it's what's become the red pill today. Just like 20 years ago you wouldn't classify a videogame player as an athlete. Nowadays if you're a pro CSGO or LOL player, you're now an Esports Athlete.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 06:07 PM
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I'll believe it when I see it. I think most of those guys are just chronically online and don't have a social life so they resort to parasocial relationships with youtubers. I don't understand why anyone else would pay $100 to post a message on the screen for 5 seconds. It's just like dudes who donate to female twitch streamers or OnlyFans accounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:55 PM
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Most of the red pilled guys I see are ones who got into the red pill because they couldn't get laid. All they do is read or consume the videos but never actually take action. Look at all the men who donate 100s of dollars to Fresh and Fit just to have their message on screen lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:13 PM
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Everyone looks good to someone with beer goggles. Plenty of ugly people get laid at closing time. Not saying she's gonna be a model either but a hole is a hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:09 PM
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This looks like an old study from 2011. I can say as an East Asian man, it has gotten noticeably easier in the last 5 years in getting matches. It basically started whenever that crazy rich Asians movie came out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:07 PM
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The average person makes like 50k a year. You're telling me you can't even make average? Do you have any medical disabilities?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 10:56 AM
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Honestly you're better off figuring out how to make more money first.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:04 AM
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I don't think lesser of them as a person. They can live their life any way they want, we all go on our path through life. I wouldn't date a slut seriously though if that's what you're asking but that's mostly because we probably have different values. I grew up pretty conservative and have dated a bunch of conservative women in the past. By conservative I don't mean politically but more so lifestyle. For example, most if not all of my past relationships have been pretty low on PDA by mutual choi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:50 AM
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I'd say that's mostly because guys really don't care a lot of the time as long as the woman is attractive enough to him. Beggars can't be choosers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:26 AM
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Personally it really comes down to age imo. If she's under 25 and slept with over 10 people, I'd consider her a slut. If she's 30 and over 20 bodies, that's a slut in my book. Just my opinion though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:23 AM
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Did you even read the article you linked? It reads as some meme case where the guy hired an entertainment lawyer to deal with family court. Also it's a case from over 20 years ago, got anything recent?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 01:13 AM
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It's definitely not legal in the US, no idea where you live though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 01:09 AM
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Sure but I've yet to see some guy that's actually put together and have trouble dating. If it's not some visual unattractiveness then it's usually anxiety or low self esteem or just broke/no career. Some are just beyond bitter though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 05:20 PM
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Every woman in this thread is an outlier tbh, how many women do you think post on PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 05:06 PM
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It's kind of like when people read reviews before buying a product. At least you know that man has been in a relationship before and he's not some kind of weirdo. I do the same with women to a degree. If a woman is in her late 20s and never been in a relationship, it makes me a bit hesitant. Of course, if she's been in 10 relationships, that also makes me hesitant.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 04:53 PM
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Haha, yeah good luck with keeping it a secret. It's just like people who cheat and say that their spouse will never know about the affair.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 01:45 AM
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Dm me your profile, I'm curious when people say they actually have 0 matches. I find it hard to believe in fact if you really did put in all that effort to make it appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 12:20 AM
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"lift like your life depends on it" Literally never heard of that phrase before. Also lifting isn't going to do much on its own. I lifted for years and didn't really see results until I touched up other parts of my appearance like clothes, hair, teeth and actual social skills, charisma, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 12:16 AM
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You overestimate the average person lmao. We all know how dangerous drinking and driving is, yet there's still so many accidents due to drunk driving. Factor in the fact that drunk driving requires a car in the first place, there are even more people who are careless.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 12:07 AM
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You might but I'd say most people would take the money. Looks fade but money can at least set up your future a lot better. Money also means more disposable income for trips out of town or nice experiences like indoor skydiving or whatever you want to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 11:36 PM
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Oh I know that vasectomies can't be reversed easily or with any guarantee. I also know that there's no other choice when it comes to 100% guaranteed birth control for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:37 PM
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It's the only relevant male health procedure in regards to pregnancies. Until something new becomes mainstream like that male birth control pill, vasectomy is the only comparison we have. What else would be the equivalent in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:31 PM
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That's not how it works lmao. A man can choose to not engage in sex. If he chooses to engage in sex then he should know that there's a risk of pregnancy. Can't have your cake and eat it too. My best friend in high school got a girl pregnant in 11th grade. He became a father during our senior year of HS lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:06 PM
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Living in a rural area doesn't just give you free land lmao. If you're poor, you're still living in a mobile home in like a trailer park. Rich farmers own the land. There was a sod company that owned all the land that the farmers didn't own, where I lived. Now let's say since you're poor, you also have 5-6 people living in that mobile home with just one refrigerator. Guess what? You either have to shop every couple days or you buy a lot of processed foods because they keep longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 07:57 PM
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Different anatomies. Only women can become pregnant so this will never be equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 07:11 PM
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You've clearly never lived in poor towns. There is no Costco nearby. Groceries are super expensive also because you lose the benefit of low prices due to population (more people means more turnover therefore food doesn't go bad). I used to live in a rural town and groceries cost more than they do here in NYC. Chicken was easily $4/lb because they only sold the small 1-2 lb packages.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 07:01 PM
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Cool then you open yourself to being disappointed. Holding others to a standard just leads to disappointment imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 06:48 PM
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Only if she can request a vasectomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 06:47 PM
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Gonna need more than just oatmeal. I'm a big fan of oatmeal but you can't exactly eat three meals of it everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 06:37 PM
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Probably because most of America is overweight? I've lived in poor towns in the US and it's a bunch of fat people because processed food is so cheap. Salads/healthy foods are like $5-10 for 300 calories or you could buy some $3 microwave dinner with 500 calories that tastes better.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 02:48 PM
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Gotta have a pretty face too, I can slide the boob one down a notch if I can max out the face slider.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 10:29 AM
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I still masturbated in relationships so I still do that when single lol. I've always had a strong sex drive though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 04:18 AM
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Oh I had a boring personality too, software dev with a video game addiction pretty much sums it up lol. If we were not talking about video games then I was also socially inept. Nowadays I don't play many games anymore and have broaden my interests into travel/food/investing/fitness/politics/music/tv shows/etc. I've also noticed that my standards increased as my options increased. It's hard sometimes to focus on what's important instead of what my lower brain wants haha. I had someone really into…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:58 AM
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You basically described my transformation between 22 and 29 except I wasn't fat but extremely skinny. Went from 135 lbs to 180 lbs currently through the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:40 AM
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I'm sure they can all crowdfund server fees and figure out how to host an online forum like FDS did.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:38 AM
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If women can have the right to abort their baby, can men have the right to Financial abortion from the child. Wouldn't that make it fair? How is that fair? That just pushes the cost to the general public. If you can fuck a woman, you can pay child support. I'm a guy who knows I risk a pregnancy every time I fuck a woman, even with a condom. Every man should know there's a risk of 18 years of payments when you fuck a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:09 AM
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You can change race, Michael Jackson proved that. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:07 AM
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I see models and dimes all the time, is that because model tier looks are common or because I live in NYC? Anecdotal experiences really don't mean much in the greater scheme of things unless you have scientific data to back it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:57 AM
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Yep. I find that a lot of people are hypocrites on here. They love to say either, not all men or not all women but then don't care about the reverse. The same guy saying, not all men just want casual sex will go on the offense and say every woman will go on a date for a free dinner, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:34 PM
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I mean this entire sub is based on generalizations. Don't take anything said here with 100% certainty. There will always be exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:13 PM
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It's a maturity difference, men don't mature at the same rate as women. It doesn't even have to do with being rich but being independent. Guys in their 20s are still living with 3 roommates or their parents. They're still trying to get their careers off the ground or out of debt. They're probably still trying to understand their own emotions and going through that initial bout of depression and quarter life crisis.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:48 PM
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At that point, you're probably going to need a friend to wingman and tell you what you did wrong. I didn't know what I was doing wrong at first until I had a friend point it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:44 PM
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What are you intending to do after premed? Also 4 years from 26 to 30 is a long time, so much time to improve every aspect of your life. You can transform your body drastically in 3 years, I know I did. Working out should just be a side quest because it's basically time gated unless you're juicing. I worked out 3 times a week for 90 mins, so that left a lot of time for improving everything else. Also what have you done in terms of dating women? Everyone wants to wait until they're a finished pac…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 07:37 PM
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Not really, considering that you're probably going to benefit from splitting rent and shit with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 07:25 PM
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The irony is that they likely have nothing to get squeezed for. All the guys scared about getting divorce graped are most likely broke anyways or sub $10k bank account since that's a majority of people in the US. Also the men who are 30+ virgins, I wonder what they did with their 20s, did they just lock themselves in their house after work (assuming they even worked)?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 07:20 PM
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So many men on here have that weird mindset that they'd rather wallow in their despair instead of doing something about it. "The juice is not worth the squeeze" so instead, they'd rather just post "hard truths" on PPD and continue to be angry lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 06:37 PM
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Lol are you very young? The game changed when dating apps came out. It's like saying life hasn't changed since we all started carrying mobile computers in our pockets. I'm just saying that life was a lot different 20 years ago. Internet has grown in leaps and bounds since then. I can't imagine what dating was like in the 80s but I'm sure it included snail mail.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 01:23 PM
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I've had women confess to me, but I never found them attractive sadly. Even had one tell me she wanted to have my kids and I don't speak to her anymore because it turned super awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 01:59 AM
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I've been to house parties a bunch in the past. Who goes around introducing themselves to everyone? I've always just chilled out, found something to drink and if I need a beer pong partner, then I'll hit someone up. Even if you do introduce yourself to everyone, there's like a 15% chance they'll even remember you or your name lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 01:50 AM
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On the flipside, I couldn't be friends with someone who's daydreaming about us boinking while I find them unattractive. Would just be too awkward and I'm a guy saying that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 01:39 AM
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Could always go at happy hour, no one said you have to go past your bedtime.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 01:36 AM
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The guy put himself in the friendzone, he didn't build a rapport, instead he tried a bait and switch lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 01:33 AM
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First link is a study that only included 113 recently married couples in 2017 from Texas. That's probably the most useless study imo due to sample size and source of data. The second study is from before 2003 with even datapoints from the 1980s. Doesn't seem as relevant nowadays with the age of dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 01:26 AM
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First link is a study that only included 113 recently married couples in 2017 from Texas. That's probably the most useless study imo due to sample size and source of data. The second study is from before 2003 with even datapoints from the 1980s. Doesn't seem as relevant nowadays with the age of dating apps. edit: Can people do like 2 mins of due diligence before posting the first study they find on google?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 01:25 AM
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I use PPD when I'm bored, that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 09:18 PM
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You have to stand out in your pictures, not in your openers lol. That's the god's honest truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 04:30 PM
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Broccoli was what I ate because spinach was not it lol. I could eat a pound of a broccoli a day when I wanted to lose weight without feeling overly hungry.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 02:49 PM
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PPD is such a weird place imo. You have to take everything said here with a major grain of salt. I've learned over the time I've been here that some people here live through their screens. Some are men who are 40-year-old virgins and waiting for that revenge fantasy to come true. Tons of dudes here in their 30s and 40s that will say one thing and probably do something else if they ever got a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 02:32 PM
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It should be a supplement and not an all or nothing deal. I go out with friends, and I use apps and I date within my social circles. I even dated within my mom's social circles at one point since a lot of her friends have daughters my age. Don't put all your eggs in one basket just like how I put my financial investments into many baskets.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 02:09 PM
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I'd say it's mostly for sex or the guy just have no options so he has low standards. I lower my standards for casual sex personally. I can fuck slightly overweight but I'd never go exclusive with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:38 PM
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On some apps, you don't have to match though for people to send a message. I use hinge mostly and I can send a like with a message to any profile I see, whether we match or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:34 PM
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The message doesn't really much. I hate all the canned messages that other guys try and justify. The cringiest shit is when a guy is like "Do you want a knock knock joke, a random train fact or an observation?". Basically he's telling on himself, how big of a simp he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:33 PM
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Same reason attractive men do it, because it's very convenient. I can swipe at work or when I'm taking a shit or on the subway or when I'm at the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:31 PM
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Oh I get what you mean. Most of it I think comes down to guys not being told to be physically appealing early on. I know I was a late bloomer because of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:17 PM
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That's a given though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 11:37 AM
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It's not necessarily to hide my natural scent but to throw in another element. It's the same thing as wearing a necklace or nice shoes. I'm not trying to hide my neck or my normal shoes. I smell like deodorant without cologne anyways because I'd smell like BO after a long day naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 11:32 AM
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Introspection requires a lot of work and dropping the ego. I still have work to do but it's really just examing every part of yourself. Everyone has room for improvement. I'm an overthinker at times so I'll go over past situations and kind of dissect them. A lot of trial and error when it comes to dating for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 11:29 AM
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People are liars. You're reading too much into it. You're going to find bad people because they still exist. Just have to move on. I talked to someone for 2 months only for them to say that they're not ready to date. It sucks but you just have to move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 11:22 AM
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What do you mean by West Elm Caleb? Someone who just lovebombs and disappears?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 04:02 AM
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No one needs a good reason to reject someone. That's the honest truth. I stopped talking to a woman because she didn't laugh at my jokes. If you have to convince someone to like you, it's probably doomed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 03:37 AM
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Tinder and Omegle experiments are biased though because they're through a screen. There's something about that face to face in person that can change how someone is perceived. It's like when you have a facetime call before a first date and get two different feelings from them. Smell is huge else why do people pay hundreds for small bottles of cologne/perfume. One of my most common compliments from women are my hands and trimmed nails. It's weird how often they say I could be a hand model or that…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 03:32 AM
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It really doesn't matter why she rejected you, just know she doesn't want you. At least that's how I go about my dating life. Getting ghosted and getting the no connection text is the same thing in my book. But it wasn't always that way. I dwelled on someone for years in the past until I realized it was such a waste of time and energy. It really comes down to introspection imo. Figure out what your faults are and fix them, no one is perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 03:27 AM
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Depends on how you went about it. I'm a guy but I've gotten approached by women when I'm grocery shopping or out in public and even once at the gym. Most of the time it's women I don't find remotely attractive and I have no idea how she's going to react if I reject her. At first it made me very uncomfortable because I didn't want to lead her on but at the same time I just had no attraction. Now I try to pay a compliment and then say Im already taken even when I'm single.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 03:22 AM
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"normal" nowadays is a lot of complaining though. Reddit is notorious for it, just look at any of the major subreddits. It gets tiring being around people who endlessly complain about their shitty job without making any effort to get another job for example. I was working at a restaurant last year and it was just full of customers complaining about Biden.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 01:47 AM
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Learn how to break the touch barrier early on and how to escalate. Even small things like a high five early on is a great way to break the touch barrier.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 01:37 AM
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Some parts of your personality should be changed though imo. For example, I've been a very cynical person in the past and it's just not fun for anyone involved. Also, people don't like complainers. No one wants to just hear someone constantly complaining about the little things, usually it's better to be chill about the small things.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 01:34 AM
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LOL it happens every year unfortunately. I just look on the bright side, those people are the reason I'm getting cheap membership haha. Glad I can get a squat rack or bench now though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:41 AM
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Your other comment said that your photos on photofeeler had poor results. Probably means it's time to improve that however you can. Gotta be attractive to attract women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 11:02 PM
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It's so easy but why are so many men fat too? My gym has been back to normal for like 2 weeks now. Everyone who did the new year's resolution has already given up. I remember there was no machine free on January 3rd but now it's most machines free again.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 10:57 PM
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I'm attracted to curves. TS has a pretty face but no curves.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 10:51 PM
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Then you just delete your account and remake it after a couple weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 10:41 PM
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It's not a new generation every year lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 10:40 PM
1

This sounds like an issue for both men and women. A lot of people get married in their 20s so there's of course going to be less people in their 30s left over.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 05:57 PM
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I buy from Amazon like 4 times a month and never gotten something I didn't order. Do people who get wrong items just buy from sellers on there that are not fulfilled by Amazon? I've seen the cheaper prices on some items but you have to pay for shipping so it's never worth it for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:55 PM
2

How often do you think dudes are put in jail for not making enough money?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 10:42 AM
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I'm talking about the ones clearly about the military. Drunk driving deaths have nothing to do with age, you can get run over at 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 10:37 AM
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The issue is not combat jobs but in South Korea for example, you have to put your life on pause for 2 years in your 20s. You get like $600 which is a pittance.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 10:27 AM
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You act like the US doesn't already have around 1.4 million service members and top of the line equipment. Unless the rest of the world is going to gang up on us, this situation sounds very unlikely. If Ukraine had nukes like the US, they wouldn't be pressing people into service, they would just shoot nukes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:55 AM
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At least in the US, you have to sign up because we have enough volunteers. Whole different ball game when it's mandatory without enough volunteers like in South Korea or Ukraine.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:50 AM
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Sounds like you haven't been on Facebook much lol. I see the stupid posts with that writing every now and then. "Too young to drink but not too young to die". Saw it a lot when Russia first invaded Ukraine.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:48 AM
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Sometimes that's intentional though. I'm guilty of the fade too. If someone wants to only talk about themselves or steer the conversation away from themselves all the time, I might as well not even be there. Conversation is an art imo, it's a balance but people without social skills usually just tilt it too far one way or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:09 AM
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I don't tell my dates that I like to tie them up and choke them off the rip. They find out but it's "fun" by that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 01:23 AM
1

The internet is full of people who believe JFK is going to be resurrected sometime this week too. The beauty of the internet is that you can find an echo chamber for just about anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 01:13 AM
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I have to agree with ChatGPT then, I think TS is also too skinny and flat imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 01:03 AM
1

I guess you don't value a healthy relationship either. You don't believe in depression either right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 01:01 AM
1

I want a blonde bombshell too. Nothing wrong with wanting something, I just accept that I'm hitting way above my belt if I somehow manage to get that blonde bombshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 12:56 AM
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You really think the ugly women are going to be posting selfies on the subreddits en masse? The real eye opener is just going to any Wal-mart in the US. Lots of overweight women and men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 12:51 AM
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She probably doubts that you really desire her (over just any vagina) if you don't give her attention too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:44 PM
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Are you all men? I wasn't aware that we don't have the luxury of being picky! Guess I didn't get the memo.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:42 PM
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Sounds like you got a reactive libido too then
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:38 PM
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A hooker doesn't need to find you sexually desirable; you just need to give her money.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:34 PM
2

You don't have to dance like an expert lmao. Just let loose and move with the music. I have the dance moves of a child, but it doesn't matter because nobody has ever called me out for being a bad dancer.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:34 PM
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Men without options don't have the luxury of being picky.* I've been pretty picky with women since I don't date fat/ugly/broke women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:28 PM
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Probably has to do with the fact that some people use dating apps as their only source due to being an introvert or just lacking social skills or a social circle. I've matched with a lot of women who just don't have friends in real life that they hang with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 07:34 PM
5

Half of the states don't have abortion rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 05:08 PM
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I'm a childless single guy but this just sounds like more of my taxes going to welfare and more unhappy people. Who's winning here? I guess the private prisons win?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 02:20 AM
1

I think it's the new generation. I'm 29 and date women between 22-32 and it's always the younger naive women who think content creation is a viable career. Sure, there are millionaires from content creation but there are also millionaires from winning the lottery too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 01:38 AM
2

Yeah I have a private social media account. No public shit on mines but it is required for dating here in NYC otherwise people think you're either a boomer or a serial killer lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:58 AM
1

Yeah, I've met my fair share of women who say they're content creators. I don't date men but I'm sure there are men who say it too. I live in NYC so there are a lot of wannabe "influencers" here. "I'm a content creator with 50k following on Instagram". "Oh wow, good for you that you can afford NYC rent on that". "Well no, my parents have to pay my rent." That's verbatim what someone told me like 2 months ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:54 AM
1

There are a lot of guys on PPD who hate on social media and those who use it. If you read enough threads on here, you'll see what I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:48 AM
-1

Being a content creator is a red flag imo. It's like a guy saying he's a crypto trader.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:46 AM
2

By that logic, the opt out for men is a vasectomy and subsequent testing to ensure that you're infertile.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:20 AM
2

You can't get money from a broke dude. Go look up the statistics on how often court ordered child support is actually paid. I know a lot of guys from my high school years who had kids and worked a minimum wage job. The court is not going to put them on the streets, so the child only gets what's left.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:15 AM
1

Nah, the bulk of those with 5000+ friends are the hustlers, by that I mean people who will add every mutual they can because it's another potential customer. My FB was full of people trying to sell hair products/fake lashes/cosmetics/supplements/classes/clothes/etc. I got nothing against them but I do have to mute or unfriend a lot of them lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 11:59 PM
1

I wouldn't call her a wack job but that she had her toes in so many circles. Off the top of my head, female engineer, religious, part of a sorority, multiracial, was in the military, went to multiple colleges, tried to break into another industry as a side hustle, big into community service, etc. We were close friends for a bit until we both graduated and grew apart. She was big into "live your best life", honestly felt like she had 30 hours in her day compared to everyone else's 24.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 09:30 PM
1

The age of consent here is 17 so we good /s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 09:19 PM
1

If it's a lifetime purchase, I'd rather just get the SBD because it's easier to adjust size on the fly. I hate having to adjust size on the Inzer. This is mostly because I sometimes let my brother use my belt.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 09:16 PM
4

I wonder how many relationships you've been in. I've never been in a relationship with someone who doesn't contribute to the cost early on. Usually, it's within the first couple dates, I'll pick up the first meal and she'll pick up the second.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 09:07 PM
1

Depends how much effort you put in and your network. 120 in a year sounds like you rarely post or you have no network. I had 500 within a month but it was mostly just my network of friends, acquaintances and coworkers. My friend had 5000 within a couple weeks but she also has like 5000 friends on Facebook and she posts a weekly food review thing on Insta.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 07:49 PM
1

If we're talking LinkedIn or maybe Twitter/Facebook then sure. On Instagram though, all I usually see are people trying to push a product at best lol. So many MLMs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 07:43 PM
3

Shhhh don't crush their dreams like that. If only it took just looks for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 07:26 PM
3

Depends on circumstances imo. I don't think it's that hard to attract women but there's definitely a tier system. Like if you have no interest at all from women, I think most people can look in the mirror and figure out a few reasons why. Dropping the ego is the hard part though. I grew up with a very "things will work out on their own" until I was 22 and living on my own and either working or playing videogames. It wasn't until I decided to hit the gym, dress better and actually put some effort…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:57 PM
2

I'm just going off this subs lingo so by HVM I just mean someone who's had casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:54 PM
6

That's just to attract the fat men otherwise they wouldn't have to tell men to hit the gym in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:39 PM
5

I think there's a difference between men who did it out of choice. My friend was in the air force for 10 years and stationed in Poland. He dated and married a polish woman and brought her back. It's not that he couldn't find someone in the US, he just wasn't in the US for years. I know another Army guy who found his wife in Korea because he was stationed there as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:29 PM
8

Why is every poster on here LARPing as a high value man? So many guys are like "It's not me but it's my brothers who are struggling". This is like the same shit as "My friend needs help getting his dick up, can you help him"? I'm skeptical if we're talking about you or "one of these dudes".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 04:27 PM
4

It's not mythical but it's also women that I wouldn't stick my dick in either. I went to high school in the poor rural south. Broke ugly people paired up with broke ugly people. It's the same people you'd see if you went to Wal-Mart at 2 am.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 10:05 PM
1

Probably, go ask them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:58 PM
2

A fact or statement can still be complaining. I just said if you want to get fucked like fat women are, then be my guest. It's not like fat women are getting attractive women to fuck them, they're getting dicks. So if the market is full of free dicks, that's your choice if you want to be involved for not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:50 PM
1

Why does it matter if I go to upscale bars? I just went to a regular gay bar and was literally getting hit on left and right. Even my fat friend from out of town was getting attention there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:41 PM
2

Everyone wasn't broke though, just the ones who lived in the trailer parks. There were also people who lived in houses and sent their kids to private schools.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:37 PM
2

I never said homosexuality was a choice. The choice is if you want to get fucked. Getting fucked by a dude doesn't make you gay, it just means you got fucked by a dude. Maybe they're just super horny, who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:28 PM
-1

Then don't change then, nobody is forcing you to change. You're not going to die from not getting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:22 PM
4

Incels complaining about fat women getting dick, maybe they should stop complaining about free dick if they don't want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 08:11 PM
-1

Then lose the weight and get pussy. No one said pussy was free like dick is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 08:10 PM
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More like penis is free. Guys like to say that even fat chicks can easily get sex but that's because penis is free. If you want a penis then go get one because they're free. Pussy cost money, people out there paying $400 for an hour of pussy. Probably means most fat guys are not getting that free pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 08:10 PM
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I mean it was the norm. Living in a double wide with like 6 people and paying $300 in rent. Broke but thats what happens in the poor rural south.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:36 PM
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Who's talking about the Indian guy? The US is majority white people and even the 5'2 bald trailer trash always had a baby momma with him. I lived in the broke south for years. Broke people fucked other broke people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:07 PM
-1

Nah, even fat men can get fucked if they wanted, just download Grindr.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:03 PM
2

His barber got a fat chin and yeah definitely no jawline.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:27 AM
5

I'm not calling his chin the weakest chin possible, but it is recessed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:25 AM
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We looking at the same dude? 7:13 in the video, that's a weak chin my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:16 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_BivX1F9X0Q Just look at the before and after, definitely hid his weak chin.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:06 AM
1

Don't look up James Harden without a beard.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:03 AM
9

You ever heard of death grip syndrome? That's what they're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 11:28 PM
5

I'm curious too, can you find one?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 08:23 PM
3

This is a shitpost debate forum, don't base your entire worldview on what you read on Reddit. Most people on here are unhappy in real life and use this as a way to pass the time. Judging from your username, I'd say you're also probably unhappy too just like most people on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 08:22 PM
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I mean there's limits to it imo. If my wife was addicted to meth and refused to get better, I'd leave her too, especially if we had kids. The last thing I need is for my kids to grow up with drugs in the house. I don't get what you're trying to even get at. My dad had cancer and my mom stayed with him until he passed, even when he couldn't work for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 02:14 AM
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Shit the same can be said for men too. There's a study that says most men leave their wives when they get cancer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 01:08 AM
2

I find masturbation to be a normal thing, but people will absolutely demonize it. I'm in and out of relationships but even when I'm in a relationship, I still masturbate because it's like 10 mins on a slow morning and I move on to other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 11:07 PM
0

Depends on where you're at. I still had school prayers in a public high school because I went to school in the bible belt back in the 2010s.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 11:01 PM
2

You can be book smart and still have no street smarts. I work with very intelligent people who went to ivy league schools and they still do stupid things because they lack common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:32 PM
1

Sun damage is another big one especially if you live somewhere with a summer season. Fine lines, wrinkles, sunspots, etc. all add unnecessary age to people as they get older. I put on sunscreen regularly in order to avoid the damage.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 07:54 PM
1

Extreme fitness? I hit the gym regularly but I'm not using steroids or counting my calories lmao. Hitting the gym just gives me an outlet to decompress, I used to be a big gamer but gave that up a couple years ago because it got boring. I don't date overweight chicks, come to NYC and you'll see most young people are not overweight. We have to walk everywhere lol, I get 10k steps daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:24 PM
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meh I'm also Asian, 5'10, 180 lbs and muscular, good hair, clear skin, white straight teeth, thick eyebrows, narrow eyes and I do fine. I also live in NYC so I'm not trying to find a needle in a haystack in the Midwest. No one is telling me to find a 300 lb woman on here. I also don't go around saying I don't date fat chicks, that's something that doesn't need to be said. Edit: Do you have a career and a social life that includes men and women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:14 PM
1

Judging from your name, are you autistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:11 PM
4

whatever you say....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:56 PM
5

I’m just about ready to give up looking for a partner. I’m so tired. You made a post 29 days ago about how hard it is to find decent men and ready to give up. Which is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:45 PM
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I'm not projecting anything lmao, I'm being realistic. I know the internet means jackshit, I'm not on here to get validation either. It just makes you sound like a clown for making a comment downplaying Brady. I don't even like men, but I know he's drowning in pussy if he wanted it. He's single and has more than enough zeros in his bank account as well as the status to back it up. He's not worried about a rando on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:41 PM
3

Yeah, and Shakira was calling my number on New Year's. Just saying that the chances of him showing interest in you are pretty slim when he has the pick of the litter.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:37 PM
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Don't worry, he's probably not interested in you either.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:32 PM
1

I'm definitely not 10% bf lmao, I'm closer to 20% but that's because I'm in the middle of a bulk. You can see my abs if I flex for example. My face is pretty average, but I use sunscreen religiously and have a skincare routine, so I look a lot younger than most people my age. I use crest white strips and have straight teeth so that's a plus too I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 12:39 AM
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Lmao, the lifestyle chooses you, you don't suddenly just wake up one day with street cred haha. I went to high school in Philly and you don't suddenly just get in with gangs lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 11:31 PM
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I do well in NYC but I'm also not 5'7 (I'm 5'10 and 180 lbs and fit) or autistic though so your results may vary. Which large city did you try?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 11:28 PM
2

More like they learned how to dress/carry themselves. You don't have to be rich to dress right. I can rock a $15 stainless steel chain from Amazon and thrift my outfits for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 08:03 PM
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I agree with this, I'm 29 and still get asked if I'm an undergrad in college and carded for alcohol lol. I blame it on sunscreen and my Asian genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 08:00 PM
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People don't want to be accountable for themselves. So many people push the blame on others.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 01:43 PM
3

401K and IRA are assets in the sense that if you're applying for a mortgage, you have to declare them. The bank doesn't really care about the Social Security benefit that you might get in 20 or 30 years whereas 401K/IRA have cash values today.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 01:08 AM
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I just checked term life for myself (healthy, 29m, 20 year term, 500k insurance) and it's around $500/year. To me that's a drop in the bucket but I'm sure $500 to other people can be better spent in the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 12:55 AM
5

401K/IRA are assets. Retirement benefits would more likely be a pension/Social Security.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 12:50 AM
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The excuse is that the money could be better spent in the moment. Not everyone has extra income like that in a single income family. No point going into credit card debt just to make sure your term life insurance is paid for imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 12:46 AM
2

Would you take the risk of a dead bedroom though?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 01:57 AM
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Sounds like you got all your information from Fox News lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:11 AM
4

Don't conservatives love to lie and be hypocrites about these things? Their holier-than-thou attitude is cliche at this point. The conservatives who speak out against abortion but have demanded women get abortions if it's their child.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:09 AM
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Most people figure out how to have sex by 25. If a man can't figure it out then yeah it's odd imo. At the bare minimum he should know why he's completely sexless, whether that's being unattractive physically or mentally or broke or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 11:20 PM
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Stop dating older women. I noticed it when I date too, the older ones are the picky ones who choose when to be traditional when it suits them and when they don't want to be traditional. The younger crowd is more chill in my experience, more go with the flow.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 01:11 PM
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It means that you're going to have to get your foot in the door and get experience just like a career. I didn't start off having casual sex, my first experience was with a long term gf. I was bad but I got better over time. She wasn't going to leave me over bad sex because we were more than just fuckbuddies. If we were just fuckbuddies, I don't think it would've lasted more than 2 sessions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 01:04 PM
1

This is largely location dependent. I lived in the south US and it was normal to be friendly to strangers. Now in NYC, it's like people ignore everyone else unless they need something.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 03:54 AM
1

It's called google, this is PPD not a biology class.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 03:47 AM
2

Probably because most guys can't fuck a woman and get her to orgasm due to lack of experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 03:43 AM
1

Here's the thing, I was you at 21. I had a comp sci degree, above average salary, money in the bank and valuable skills for work. I didn't have any women interested in me though because I literally didn't go out besides to work, the grocery store and if I was motivated, maybe the gym. I spent way too much time online playing videogames and browsing reddit/quora/etc. I'm 29 now, I still have a career as a software dev, but I also try and get out of the house more in order to get out of my bubble.…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 02:43 PM
2

Funny how you didn't include anything about meeting people. Do you expect a gf to teleport into your bedroom?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 02:11 PM
6

MGTOW are also winning if they finally decide to go their own way, but we all know they're here to stay lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:55 PM
1

What do you expect from the blackpillers? They have zero accountability and try to shift the blame as much as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:31 PM
5

Add in the fact that it says sexual acts instead of sexual partners meaning a couple having sex daily has sex 365 times as often each year compared to a celibate person.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:26 PM
1

Can you link the actual article? There's no abstract and it's behind a paywall.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:23 PM
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What would that do? Absolutely nothing because I'm not a public figure with a following. I have as much influence as a random guy in a grocery store lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:45 PM
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This is like saying, the low minimum wage is a way for upper middle-class men to reduce their male competition. Like sure it I have an upper hand because of money but it's not like I can control the minimum wage.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 06:39 PM
2

Time and effort is only money if you're a business owner. Most people work 2000 hours a year and don't get paid for the rest. I work 9-5, I don't get paid overtime. So my time at 7pm is not really money, it's just me time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:19 PM
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Most guys are overweight in the US just like most women are overweight. Seems hypocritical to say guys want more than a fatty when they're also likely to be a fatty or broke or whatever the average man is in the US. I go to the gym 5-6 times a week, the New Year's crowd is already dying down. 3 weeks and my gym is almost back to normal after being full after New Year's. Doesn't take long for people to give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:13 PM
1

That's shit that guys should be doing regardless of women. But if he needs a reason then sure, do it for women. I don't need women to motivate me to make more money, I grew in poverty and that's enough motivation to never go back. I don't need women for motivation to get rejected often, I experienced that when I didn't hear back from over 2000 job applications. My motivation for getting fit and being healthy is the fact that my dad died in his 40s due to health issues. A lot of people live shelt…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:08 PM
2

The average woman is fat though lmao, at least in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:02 PM
3

but is not it nice that mentally ill women can also get sex and feel loved even for a while? Some average men do not even get 1% of that just because they are not tall or they are autistic. You're basically virtue signaling for men here. You're feeling sorry for men because they can't get sex due to not being tall and autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 08:38 PM
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So, you're trying to virtue signal for other men? I don't get it lmao. I watch porn, never been shamed for it. I don't broadcast that I watch porn to everyone I meet either. Everyone I know has watched porn. I've never paid for sex, but I have paid for a dinner that led to sex and nothing else so maybe that was prostitution with a meal included haha. You can find shaming for anything on the internet, stop looking for it. There are people shaming Asians in tech, I don't bother looking for those p…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 08:17 PM
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Go pay a prostitute. Boom, there's your sex and feeling loved for a bit. Life's unfair, I learned that lesson as a child, so I don't bother thinking about why life is unfair. I'm not tall and I'm Asian but I still do well for myself in terms of dating and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 08:12 PM
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Haha good luck when she traps you with a baby and farms your future earnings for 18 years. Poking holes in condoms or lying about birth control. Do you guys even think with your brain and not just your dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:42 PM
1

What are you even taking about? Who said anything about going for douche bags?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:18 PM
1

I already answered this
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:02 PM
2

But you're not lazy enough to avoid posting a shitty CMV. hmm.... edit: and it gets removed lmao, guess it really was a shitty CMV
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 03:03 PM
1

That article proves nothing, it didn't link an actual source lmao. I could say A new study by Harvard University has shown that people who use Reddit have a 58% greater chance of believing misinformation. and that's just as credible as the Fox News article.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 03:02 PM
1

I opened the article and there was no link to the study. Fox News is not known for being a good source, they're literally in a lawsuit right now for $1.6 billion dollars for spreading misinformation about voting machines lmao. I always read the studies linked on reddit though, I don't just believe shitty claims by other users.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:59 PM
1

Link the actual study otherwise it's bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:58 PM
0

I decided to humor you and open the link against my better judgement. I don't see any academic study linked on that page. Even the page says that the supposed study had 284 subjects. Definitely not enough people to base a study off of.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:56 PM
2

Sounds like every person in the world, man or woman. People are selfish and self-centered. I hope that's not a new revelation for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:51 PM
1

foxnews Didn't even have to click the link. According to FoxNews, I shouldn't even be able to walk outside here in NYC due to all the crime. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:49 PM
2

Care to post these studies?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:43 PM
2

What's the alternative? Voting for the conservatives who take your bodily autonomy away? I'll pass on the group who worships their sky daddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:37 PM
3

At least they're still getting a top school education and money-making career afterwards. That's better than the high school dropout drug addicts that I grew up with in the poverty class here in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:36 PM
4

Imagine comparing yourself to Lebron. If Lebron said he's one of the greatest basketball players ever when he was in high school, then yeah people would say he's delusional. We accept that he's one of the GOATs after he's proven the fact. We don't know shit about you besides the fact that you like to rage on reddit. If you said you're a good troll on reddit then we'd believe you. For all we know, you could be an obese neckbeard hiding behind a facetious reddit handle.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 01:49 PM
3

Didn't mean directly on the app but once conversation moved to snap/insta.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 01:13 PM
2

Do people still use tanning beds? I only hear about tanning lotions nowadays, even got a free bottle with a skincare product last year. I tan easily so never bothered with fake tans anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 03:37 AM
11

Some women just don't have the patience to deal with bullshit. I've heard of some of my female friends who deleted the app after seeing one dick pic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:11 AM
2

I go to the gym to put on muscle, if I just wanted to lose weight, I'd just stay out of the kitchen lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 12:38 AM
1

You say, "we all are" and then we also have people on PPD who say the juice is not worth the squeeze, so they don't bother improving their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 05:42 PM
2

Then he should've made that decision up front and found aore compatible partner instead of waiting 8 years and saying it doesn't work anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 10:50 PM
1

That's still not a source, this is just speculation on your part. If he was so rich, why would he need his family to bankroll the initial $250k? I have friends who are VPs in finance right now, they make around $200k/year but they're nowhere near rich because high salary doesn't mean you save any of it. Who's richer, the guy making $200k/year and saving $10k a year or the guy making $60k/year and saving $15k?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:27 PM
1

Source? He needed a loan from his family/friends to even start Amazon. Literally starting a company in a garage is the opposite of being rich lol. That's something broke college students do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:13 PM
3

They started the business in the garage together though. She didn't marry him after Amazon was already big.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:00 PM
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The man got the years of experience in his career. Anyone in a career will tell you that the years of experience are worth their weight in gold. My salary went from 60k/year to over 200k/year with 8 years of experience. Hoping to hit 500k/year after another 5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:57 PM
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Don't expect to rent a 1bdrm apt then lmao. I lived with 3 roommates starting off because the rent was less than half of a 1bdrm apartment. I'm living with roommates now in NYC because I pay less than if I lived on my own. I mean I also worked during high school too because I had a disabled parent. Obviously couldn't buy a house but I was making like $3000/month over the summer working 12-hour days (10 am-10pm in a restaurant). My own lived experience is a bit different because I also ended up w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 05:47 PM
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I mean that advice still works depending on your area. I could go to many places and have a job tomorrow if I needed one. Planet Fitness is always hiring, Target is always hiring, Wal-mart is always hiring, Lowes is always hiring, etc. A job is better than no job, but some people think those jobs are beneath them even if they're unemployed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 05:31 PM
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They're way easier because they don't have power so who cares about them. Power equals sex in a lot of circles, so if they couldn't get sex then they're probably powerless and not an attractive target for a spy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 02:14 AM
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I mean in the US there's 975 men to every 1000 women. How do you explain the 9 to 1 ratio of men to women on Tinder? Easy, most women are not on Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 11:42 PM
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You act like a congressman from California can't get laid otherwise. Pretty sure politicians have their own orgies lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 10:43 PM
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I mean most women are not on OLD else how is there 9x as many men on Tinder. I have a lot of female friends who are not on any dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:12 PM
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This is not the 1800s anymore or did you miss the memo lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:25 AM
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I thought a fat ass was great now, people are paying to have a fat ass. Now a fat belly is another thing, nobody is trying to show off a fat belly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:18 AM
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I mean there are a ton of laws that shouldn't exist but if you're dumb enough to get caught then jokes on you. Just like how it's still illegal to carry weed in certain states.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:47 PM
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I used to live in a state with common law marriages and that's just bad decision making on the streamer's end, you'd have to cohabitate for it to be considered common law marriage iirc. It's just like women angry about getting pump and dumped. Guess he'll think twice about living with his girlfriend from now on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:07 PM
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In a perfect world, people who don't want to be financially and legally tied to someone would just decide not to get married, instead of complaining about it after the fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:24 PM
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I live in NYC and those prices are super cheap. I don't remember the last time a coffee was only $3.50 unless you're talking a small black coffee. Once you add in the milk for a latte or whatever, it goes up to like $6. $8 mini golf? Yeah, more like $20. $15 brunch? Only if you just get appetizers and a drink maybe. Don't forget Tip. Are you sure you're not in the midwest or the suburbs?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:22 PM
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The same can be said about women who turned into an OnlyFans creator and made bank. Wasn't it Amouranth who made millions from Twitch/OnlyFans/etc. and her husband was some nobody she married before she made it big? Taylor Swift's boyfriend will also cash in if or when they get married too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:10 PM
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You mean I can't decide if I want to pay for someone else's meal or I can't decide where I want to eat? What kind of logic is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:55 PM
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No idea but Google might have an answer for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 06:42 PM
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No idea where you live but I can't even get 2 coffees for less than $10. What are you doing for first dates? Splitting a sandwich?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 06:01 PM
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You act like that person can't decline that place. I've declined some choices because I don't eat dairy. I've had people decline going to a sushi place because they don't eat raw fish. Imagine using your mouth to make sounds. If I pick a burger place and you don't eat beef, I'm not going to drag your ass to it. wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:53 PM
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Why does teen love require monogamy? Teenagers also cheat on each other lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:36 PM
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Not employed, in education or training. Basically a bum.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 02:44 AM
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Depends on the industry, it's an unsaid rule just like you can't go into certain corporate jobs with an unkempt beard or a face tattoo.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 01:21 AM
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Alright, make the guys wear makeup too then lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 01:13 AM
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You act like it's only from the left. Meanwhile the right is vocal about hating Biden and hating immigrants and hating gun laws and hating masks, etc. People like to complain, nothing new.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 12:44 AM
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Why not require women to wear suits/ties because men also wear suits/ties? I think it's silly though to require covering up your arms when it's not a normal dress code in our society. If this was Iran, then sure but it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 12:40 AM
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I think this just sounds childish for women to hide their arms. Low cut blouses I can understand but really arms? Next time, they have to hide their ankles too right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 12:19 AM
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I guess the headscarf is next.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 11:50 PM
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Sounds like the best way to get laid is having a less attractive friend. It reminds me of the dating app advice, never be the more unattractive person in your photos.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 11:38 PM
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Let's see if those 18-year-old thick legged Latinas want a 35-year-old NEET.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:59 PM
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What exactly is wrong with buying something you want? You might not pay the $77k for the car but I bet they sell thousands of that model every year. Who cares what you value or what you see as a false sense of spending if it's not your money that they're spending. If it is your money, then you're not compatible and should probably break up. Also, it's not just women, what about men who spend $250k+ on a Lambo or Ferrari?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:57 PM
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My point was that comparing penis to pussy is stupid because one has zero value to anyone. Anyone, man or woman can get a free penis in their bed tonight as long as they're not in the middle of nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:44 PM
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That's because penis is free. If you want one, then try out grindr. Even unattractive men can get "dates" off grindr.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:05 PM
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Sure, men can go on grindr and do the same thing. It has nothing to do with women and more to do with the fact that men will take anything with a hole including other men. If you want a penis, then go on Grindr.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:03 PM
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Let them complain in their bedroom on the internet, it's not going to change anything though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:01 PM
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Lmao, nice source. A site called "electronic products" that has a dead link when clicking the actual study link in the post. That source you posted is not even worth the time to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:00 PM
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Some people are great as friends and terrible as a partner. For example, people who say yes to everything. If I have a friend who's willing to lend money to their friends, cool. If my wife is someone who's willing to lend our money to friends, nah fuck that, that's my money too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 02:57 PM
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Being a good person doesn't make you an attractive person. Being a good person just means you're a good person.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 02:53 PM
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Sounds more like you're a masochist if you go out seeking people who hate you. I didn't even know who Drew Afualo was, had to look her up. You can pretty much find someone popular to hate on anything. I mean even Kanye started saying the quiet things out loud and became a literal Nazi. Do you think Drew Afualo cares what men think of her? She's probably making bank off her simps regardless, she's just like the female version of Andrew Tate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 05:04 AM
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Confidence doesn't mean being loud or not giving a fuck and being a rebel or whatever. If you're not going to give a fuck and just want to piss people off, then yeah, you're going to come across as an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 05:01 AM
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As someone else said, she still has to pass the boner test lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:42 AM
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Guess I find my own company enjoyable. I can do things alone or with people, it doesn't really matter to me. Probably has to do with the fact that I grew up an only child until I was 12.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 01:44 AM
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I mean I have separate goals from a relationship. I want to visit multiple countries, retire my mom, try different food, experience different cultures and events. I think there's more to life than a relationship or having kids. Think about what you would be doing in a relationship. I hope you're not just going to sit at home and look at each other all day lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 01:33 AM
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Are you saying she's not willing to do any of that if it's not the ballet? Like I can get my partner to dress up nice for dinner and then go watch a movie we both want to watch or see a stand-up comedy set or music artist that we're both interested in, that then leads to sex at home as well. I'm just wondering if the ballet is required.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 12:29 AM
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I always found date night to be better if it's a mutually interesting thing. No idea why I would ever go to the ballet as a date night especially if it's not of extreme importance to her. I'd just suggest doing something else like going to a nice restaurant or some other fun activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 12:19 AM
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I'm sure a growing percentage of people are also getting fatter and even more broke. Probably correlates with people who are not dating because they just have no options. Like do you date? If you don't date, is it because you have no options?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 12:15 AM
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If you're not sexually compatible then break up. So you would be fine if your partner slept with someone else because he had wanted sex more often than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 11:38 PM
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Depends on your lifestyle and if you're dating. If you stay at home all day after work, then sure it's cheaper. I did that in the past where I was saving over half my paycheck every month. Nowadays though, I spend more on clothes/food/experiences like music/movies/restaurants/etc. Child-free doesn't mean you're not dating; in fact it gives you more time to date in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 09:12 PM
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I don't expect my partner to just "suck it up" and just go with me. I like to watch the World Championship of LoL every year. My partners in the past all hated it, so I just watched it with friends who were also interested. I don't have to do things solely with my partner. My ex loves watching Keeping up with the Kardashians and I find it absolutely boring, so I don't watch, and she understands. I'd obviously suck it up for family events but not for a damn ballet lol. Doesn't she have friends wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 08:42 PM
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Changes for you and putting on an act are different things imo. Changing for someone sounds more permanent whereas an act is only temporary. What happens when the mask slips off?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 08:07 PM
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Software developer with almost a decade experience in big tech in NYC. https://www.levels.fyi/?compare=Google,Facebook,Microsoft&track=Software%20Engineer# Look what a staff engineer makes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 07:15 PM
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I mean if you're talking about density or whatever, then maybe it's time for some minoxidil or finasteride. If it's severe then a hair transplant might be the answer. I don't compare my skin to others, I compare it to my own. We all have different skin types/composition so what's the point of comparing to others. Here are some examples. https://www.dearbrightly.com/blog/tretinoin-before-and-after/
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 03:27 PM
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You've been in a relationship where there's absolutely no disagreements because she's so infatuated with you? I call bullshit because no one is perfect which means no relationship is perfect either. Like I said, this sounds like some fantasy that men tell other men in the internet. Better yet, did you hear this from Tate or some RP influencer?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:45 AM
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That sounds like a fantasy that inexperienced men try to sell other inexperienced men on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:32 AM
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Exactly, so her going to Europe vs staying in NYC and cheating on me, doesn't really change anything. I'd just end the relationship. Not sure about this genuine burning desire thing though, sounds like the honeymoon phase of a new relationship. That shit dies down after a while regardless of if she truly values me or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 03:44 AM
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I mean she can be on my side without defending my honor or whatever. As long as she's not the one insulting me for no reason then I really don't care what others say. Now if I did or said something stupid then it's fair game, she can join in. I don't take myself too seriously nor do I want a woman who takes herself too seriously. Life is better without the stress.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 03:41 AM
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I mean if she wanted to cheat, she could just cheat here in NYC. Going to Europe doesn't really give any advantage. If she does cheat, I can just break up and move on to someone else. No big deal, let the trash take itself out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 03:38 AM
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I use a retinol cream and moisturizer, definitely notice results. My skin is way more even tone and smooth after using the retinol for 6 months now. As for hair, you can get a perm to change texture if you want. I have naturally straight hair due to being east Asian so a perm gives me curls.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 03:13 AM
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Do you need your girl to defend you though? I don't need anyone to defend me so maybe we're just different. I don't really care what random people think of me. If your friends are insulting you then it's time to find new friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:59 AM
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To me, that sounds like an incompatibility. It's just like if a man was childfree, I hope his wife doesn't just decide to get knocked up by the neighbor.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:03 AM
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I don't find it hard to believe that 80% of Americans don't go to the gym. I find it hard to believe that people who want to go to the gym are unable to go. Like if you don't want to go then of course you're not going to go if it's not required. You said Most people can't even get to the gym 3 times a WEEK When it's actually something along the lines of Most people don't want to go to the gym 3 times a WEEK
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:02 AM
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Let they know and if they're against you being intimate with others then break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 01:44 AM
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Care to name acceptable situations? If you say it's because of a dead bedroom or whatever, then just break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 01:37 AM
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Sounds like you can't handle having your ego bruised. For me personally, I don't have this "stand by your man" requirement from my partner if there's a hint of truth to it. Like if someone called me stupid after I did something stupid then sure I deserved it. If someone said something racist, I don't see the point of telling them off because it's not going to change their mind anyways. I'd just choose to cut those racist people from our lives and if she continues to hang around them then I'd bre…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 01:31 AM
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Add in work from home and you can fuck during lunch too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 01:15 AM
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Most people can't even get to the gym 3 times a WEEK. Don't act like this isn't worthy of questioning. More like they don't prioritize it. I find it hard to believe some people can't make it to the 24 hour gym for 30 mins to an hour. Like what are they doing with their time? Newborn? I think those people just don't want to work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 01:13 AM
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I don't give up easy, but I also know when I want to call it quits. I put all my effort into a relationship when I'm in one, but I also know that if I'm the only one putting in 100% then that's a relationship I don't want to be a part of. It's a mutual effort to keep a relationship going.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 10:28 PM
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A lot of Americans also rent instead of own their place. I know every apartment I lived at didn't allow us to change our oil on premise. Why would I buy oil and then find a spot to change it when I can just pay $20 and have someone do all the work. I spend an extra $5 and save myself so much work/clean up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 09:20 PM
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I can see people letting themselves go during a relationship and then wondering where the sexual spark went. For example, men and women will stop going to the gym and start putting on weight OR they might just stop date nights altogether. At that point, it's like a roommate who just happen to have kids together kind of situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 08:01 PM
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Sounds like most people in unhappy relationships and the blame is not just on women. Personally, I'd be looking for a divorce than staying with a woman that I was unhappy with. I'd rather be happy single than unhappily married.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 07:55 PM
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And you wonder why no one wants you? Like damn lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 07:48 PM
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I'm not the best dancer but I got better with YouTube and a full-length mirror in my living room. I'm naturally really bad with rhythm but I can at least look like I know what I'm doing. No one is dancing salsa or ballroom in the club so just keep some easy moves and you're good to go. Half the time, you're probably just grinding anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 06:32 PM
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Here's the thing, I don't care about demographic trends. They are legitimate but I have no control over them so why would I live my life that way? 10% of people make six figures. Over 50% of people are obese. Over 50% of people don't have enough savings to last a month unemployed. If it's cost prohibitive then work on getting there. It took me five years, so what. It was worth it in the end. It took me three years to get into great physical shape at the gym too. It took me four years to get my d…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 06:03 PM
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Again, you're the common denominator. If you can't meet people, then move. I moved 12 hours away last year after planning the move for 5 years. If you're unable to have success where you're at then make a plan and take action. I would've moved after 3 years of saving up, but Covid got in the way. If you want to stay due to family/job/whatever, then that's your own choice and there's nothing anyone else can do for you then.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 05:48 PM
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I don't mind tats, everyone has them now in their 20s here in the US. Maybe you're not from the US so it could be different where you're at.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 05:45 PM
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If the conversation is long dead, then yeah, move on. But if you can't even start/keep one going then that's something to work on. If she's obviously not interested then don't just keep it going, there's no point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 05:44 PM
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I've seen a bunch over the years of going to the gym. My favorite is when all they say is um um um um um.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 04:12 PM
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Sure but if they're mid twenties and still virgins then the common denominator is them. Everyone gets rejected but if it never works then at some point you have to do some introspection. I strike out a lot just like anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 04:06 PM
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I mean if you can't talk and strike up a conversation then yeah, I'd call that socially awkward. Like do they expect the women to always take the lead in conversations? You don't need to have anything to talk about, just small talk. "Hey, I like your shoes, where'd you get them" or "That's a sick tattoo, I've been thinking of getting one too." Easy shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 02:31 PM
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I thought this entire post was about clubs or bars.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 02:23 PM
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Time to save up for the height surgery, that's what all the short tech guys are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 02:22 PM
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All decent looking, all have stable good income jobs, all have a newish cars yet 6/10 of them I'd bet are still virgins. Are they socially awkward around women? I've seen gymbros who literally stutter when talking to a hot girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 02:10 PM
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Nah make it money and cooking matched. I make money so she better know how to cook something homemade and not out of a freezer box.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 02:08 PM
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Not to sound patronizing but I don't think that's a big deal. I'm 5'10 so just an inch taller and I do alright for myself. I don't think the inch matters that much, but I guess every little bit helps. How's your fitness?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:41 PM
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Nah, none of those 3 things are as up front as height. Maybe physique if that means super obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 03:20 AM
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Most women are not at the clubs though. What you said might be true if you're trying to talk to women from everyday life. I think you'd have more success in the clubs being jacked than being slim imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 03:00 AM
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I do agree that height is first if the man is super short, think 5'4 or under.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 12:34 AM
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Sure, if you're super short then yeah but above 5'5 or so and fitness becomes more important imo. Just need to find a 5'3 chick at the club to make sure you're taller than her. But if you're 4'11 then yeah, good luck finding a 4'9 chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 12:34 AM
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You definitely can tell if someone lifts even if they wear a collared shirt and pants. https://i.imgur.com/mq6kxVt.png
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 12:32 AM
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Are you having full conversations in the club? Whenever I went, there wasn't much talking going on. Mostly just dancing, so if you somehow fucked up by saying something in the 5 seconds of conversation then that's kinda on you imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 12:30 AM
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How tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 12:27 AM
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Who said anything about a relationship? Most people just go to find a hookup.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 12:21 AM
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Depends on if she's had enough drinks for the beer goggles to come in. I've been in the right place at the right time before.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 12:20 AM
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It doesn't have to be a keyboard but just destruction of property in general or inability to control their anger. The overall prevalence of inappropriate, intense, or poorly controlled anger in the U.S. population was 7.8%. Anger was especially common among men and younger adults, and was associated with decreased psychosocial functioning. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4384185/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 11:54 PM
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I agree that it would have to be a discussion point beforehand. I get that you get what you pay for, but nothing can buy undivided attention and unconditional love. By that I mean, you can't find a daycare that is really going to go above and beyond, they're just going to provide what you pay for. I could care less about the yoga or speaking 3 languages but more so the ability to just give all your attention to the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 09:48 PM
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I mean if they want their kids raised by one of them and she makes more money then yeah, it's on him to stay home. You might not care about who raises/takes care of your kids, but some people do. I personally will not put my kids in daycare because I was in daycare as a kid and it was awful. My experience was getting some goldfish and then just watching Disney movies for hours and hours until nap time. Rinse and repeat. My mom has already volunteered to take care of my kids though because that's…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 09:27 PM
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I mean you just need one parent to stay home so this would just mean your spouse would stay home while you continue working on your own employment ambitions. It's literally what happens in a lot of households where the husband is the breadwinner CEO/lawyer/doctor/etc. and the wife stays home to take care of the kids. In regard to OP's post, the role would just be reversed where the wife is the breadwinner, and the husband is a SAHP.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 09:15 PM
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It's part of the process, physical attraction is important in a relationship and thus how you dress yourself matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:31 PM
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It seems like you don't understand how dating works. Do you regularly date women? It sounds like you're one of the users on here that has no experience dating and hopes everyone just does the bare minimum along with you. The guys who say they have a job and are not fat, and now deserve a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:28 PM
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What exactly is a successful fitness business? I've seen a bunch of personal trainers who barely make ends meet because they don't have enough clients. They might pull in $2000/month on a good month.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:26 PM
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Depends on what stage in life you're in. If you want the stability and everything that comes with it then cool. I'm in a phase where I'm not looking to settle down and have kids anytime soon, so dating around is great because I don't have to hold myself accountable to someone else either. She can go have fun with someone else if I'm busy for a few weeks due to work. I don't have to deal with keeping in touch so to speak, all the little things in a relationship. It also means I don't have to ask …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:24 PM
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There's being competitive and then there's being stupid. Like I'm super competitive but I'm not going to break my own keyboard because I lost a game. That just means I have to buy myself a new one. My roommate in college ended up punching a hole in the wall over a videogame. My dad broke a brand-new pc monitor out of rage too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:20 PM
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You don't have to be convicted in order to be violent. I'm sure a bunch of the fights that break out in bars don't lead to a formal charge. I personally don't care to fight but I have had people try to square up with me, I just back away because it's not worth the risk. For all I know, he could have a knife in his pants with the intent to use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:19 PM
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I mean OP's goes on dates with women, so I'd assume compatibility is judged on those dates. But off the bat, there are certain things that you can figure out off the rip. If someone wore a MAGA/Antivax hat, I'd already know that they're not compatible with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:14 PM
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Some people don't believe in daycare, they don't want their kids raised by random people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:11 PM
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Did you read the second paragraph? I'm sure having to stay home and run a household might affect building your own business.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:31 PM
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It's a good thing if you enjoy getting no dates or a dead bedroom. Physical appearance is one of the most important parts when it comes to attraction. The only people who say it's a good thing to not care about your appearance are the ones who are not trying to find a date or that handle rejection extremely well. If you're not trying to date other people, then sure don't put effort into your clothes. No issue with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:46 PM
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It adds another dimension to someone. Someone who can dress vs someone who can't dress says a lot about them. I don't care about the latest trends but if you go around wearing clothes that are old/torn or too big/too small, it probably means you don't care about your appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:30 PM
2

One of them said the guy was single for 15 years. That’s not the same thing as saying “they have zero experiences” Might as well be zero experience. Go tell an employer that you have experience, but it was 15 years ago, they'll laugh at you just like anyone else would.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 06:38 PM
4

I mean you're the 40 year old virgin are you not? Anyone who's not doing it out of choice definitely has something weird about them or they're just ugly, man or woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 06:35 PM
3

Lmao, who cares if it's superficial, everyone is superficial. No one cares if you got the personality of a saint if you look like a trainwreck. I'm sure you've learned that in life already or you're just naive/young.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 06:02 PM
2

I'm a 29-year-old Asian but I date in NYC so there are a lot of women here. I wouldn't call myself that attractive but I'm 5'10, 175 lbs and fit so maybe I go against the Asian stereotype of being short and skinny. Definitely had women say that I'm attractive for an Asian man but that's like a backhand compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 05:24 PM
0

Now it's 2%? Can you show these stats? I'm definitely not 8 9 or 10 and I hooked up over the summer up to just before halloween weekend on the apps. Edit: How old are you because as much as guys on here want to say that men get better with age, most young women don't want to go out with men who are significantly older. I'm in that sweet spot at 29 imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 05:16 PM
3

Yeah, if you're around 30 then it's a buffet in cities like NYC. 25 might make you too young for women who are also 25 and 40 makes you too old for some women imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 04:02 PM
1

I mean if you're on the app for 20 years, that's not a good sign that you're looking for something serious or you're just unattractive in which case it doesn't matter about your anecdotal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 04:00 PM
5

It doesn't mean you just give up though. I lived with a Chad in college and it was so easy for him because he had the boyish good looks. I was the nerdy Asian guy in that circle who just happened to randomly get paired with him in the dorms. But to say it wasn't motivating would be a lie. I started dressing better and got rid of my dorky glasses, hit the gym and just got to the point of being the best version of myself. I do alright for myself nowadays but will never be at his level but who care…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 03:51 PM
3

Nobody wants an unhygienic person, that's already implied just like no one goes out looking for someone with a disfigured face.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 03:47 PM
1

Oh that's after giving birth. Most people are busy taking care of the baby to even think about sex at that point lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 09:20 PM
1

You can still have sex when your wife is pregnant. It's not some 9 months of celibacy lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 07:46 PM
9

No shit, he was married for 24 years. We don't have the details of their prenup agreement. Some prenups only protect assets brought into a marriage and not assets earned during the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:56 PM
8

California does acknowledge legit prenups though. Stop spreading misinformation. Sure, some of them get tossed because they're not even worth the paper they're printed on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:52 PM
1

Not necessarily on only fans but on youtube and twitch. There are plenty of streamers/youtubers who are making $$$ like Mr Beast, Casey Neistat, xqc and let's not forget the smaller streamers who still bring in six figures.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:47 PM
3

Plenty of wealthy guys if you're willing to go older.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 02:42 PM
1

Sure I get that, I did sports in high school as well as JROTC. But watching sports in a bar with other guys is not my definition of masculine bonding unless you just want an excuse to drink. I already said I'm down to play sports but I can't stand watching them on the TV especially with all the ads they show.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 02:21 PM
1

What are these men doing in their 20s besides working if they're alone? Do they just go to work and go home to play videogames and then wonder why they're alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:04 AM
6

That's not the reason it's more common in boys. At least do some preliminary research before spreading misinformation. According to some research, Autism is more prevalent in men because we have an X and Y chromosome while women have two X chromosomes. If one of the woman's X chromosome has mutations, then the second one can back it up while men don't have a spare X chromosome to fix the mutation. Dr. Roche’s team found that the problems with NLGN4Y were due to a single amino acid. The researche…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 12:56 AM
1

I'm open to playing sports, but I absolutely cannot watch someone else play them because I get bored with all of the commercials. My parents never watched sports besides the Olympics, so it was never a thing at my house. I did watch a lot of WWE smackdown as a kid though lmao. For masculine bonding though, I go and lift weights with friends. Nothing better than getting a good pump.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 12:18 AM
0

Not everyone likes sports. I find it boring to watch someone else play with a ball, like insanely boring. I only watch one football game a year and that's only because of the halftime show, I bet you can guess which game that is. I enjoy working out at the gym so I'm not some couch potato but mostly because it's a nice dopamine dose.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 12:02 AM
3

Not everyone breaks up for cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 12:39 AM
3

You can change your weight; you can't change your height.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 12:37 AM
1

Most people don't go to university though. They might where you're from but 50% of my graduating class went into the military, 25% went into the workforce and the rest went into school like a 4-year college or 2-year community college or a trade school.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 11:46 PM
2

It's not the aging but the weight gain. I've seen plenty of women who put on 30+ lbs of weight over those 5 years from 20-25.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 11:41 PM
1

I mean most people graduate high school at 18/19 and some younger people might graduate a few months shy of 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 11:40 PM
6

I have a few female friends from work and playing videogames who I am not sexually attracted too but they are fun to hang out with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 11:33 PM
2

You didn't seek them out though, they were already coworkers. I'm assuming OP was asking if you just randomly go out in public and try to befriend random unattractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 11:31 PM
2

Facts. I grew up with a father who had a very short temper. I thought it was normal to have shouting matches at home. I thought everyone did it behind closed doors until I lived with friends during college.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 11:27 PM
0

I'm not talking about just the 2 free checks. I'm talking about the months and months of free unemployment bonuses. I know people who got over $30k worth of unemployment in 12 months. That's a hefty amount of money for staying home.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 10:53 PM
7

There were about 1,000 people in greek life at my school out of 30,000 people. That's like 3% of the student body. The cost was like $6,000 a year to pledge so most people couldn't afford it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 04:45 PM
8

The same can be said about most attractive men on social media having worse looking partners too. If you're attractive, chances are your partner is going to be less attractive since there are less attractive people compared to unattractive/less attractive people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 04:40 PM
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Money doesn't work like that though. It's always been about supply and demand. I remember during the beginning of the covid pandemic when everyone got free money and there was a shortage of cars/houses, the prices of cars/houses skyrocketed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 04:37 PM
1

If only it was that easy, your privilege is showing. Try living in a food desert in certain parts of the US. I remember living somewhere that only had a dollar general as the "grocery store" and there was no gym besides the small room at the high school for students.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 01:28 PM
3

Your point sounds like something you just made up in your head based off what you read on the internet. High libido women are just as picky as other women because they still have a lot of options. It's not like they're left with the barely attractive men. They're also great in bed from my own experiences, great at sucking dick and being on top.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 01:02 PM
0

Most of the US is overweight, even the military has physical requirements. If you can't pass the PT test, the military doesn't want you. If you're too old, the military doesn't want you. It's not some free meal ticket nor do you make 6 figures off the bat. I know a lot of people who make $1900/month and they leave the military after 4 years barely making more than $2000/month. That's $24k/year, not six figures.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 12:48 PM
5

Hahahaha, what happened to being witty and funny? It's funny when even deep down, you know what matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 12:34 PM
4

Look up the definition of hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 12:31 PM
1

Go to the major cities of China. Average young male height is like 174 cm which is almost 5'9. The younger generation is taller than the older generation due to better nutrition. Women's average is like 162 cm or almost 5'4 comparatively.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 02:26 AM
4

Yeah because you're just vibing to the music. Some people sing along too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 02:16 AM
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Maybe it's normal for you but I've never rode in the car without music or a podcast going. Maybe it's my ADHD but I tend to zone out if I only have the road to focus on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 01:21 AM
5

That's what a good playlist is for. Do you guys just not listen to music?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 12:51 AM
2

I obviously didn't mean become mute but to keep conversation to a minimum as in need to know. Don't treat it like a date and share your life story or debate topics like religion/politics/sexual kinks/etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 11:07 PM
2

Only if you're interested in relationships. Otherwise, you can continue to just fuck someone different from the club each night.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 10:55 PM
3

Chad and the more recent GigaChad is pop culture at this point due to all the tiktok memes. It's not confined to just black pill rhetoric. Stacy is just the female version of Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 10:29 PM
6

Don't forget the worst birth rates globally are in South Korea. Worse than Japan or China or any other country on the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 10:26 PM
5

Over in China at least, they like men who are 180 cm. That's like 5'11 so basically 6'. But on a more important note, you need a house/car/career.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 10:24 PM
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You might've just avoided getting your kidneys harvested tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 10:21 PM
1

Money itself means nothing, it's what you do with the money. If you use the money to dress better, groom better, hire a fitness coach, whatever then yeah. But if you're just walking around flashing you banking app or credit card then good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 06:08 PM
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LMAO, you really fucking for an hour? God damn you must have found all the nymphos. Most women I have sex with is like 20-30 mins tops. Quickies are like 10 mins. I'm in great shape too so it's not a stamina issue. Most people don't fuck for an hour everyday unless you're a student/unemployed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 02:22 PM
1

You clearly don't get out lol. I don't think there's any guy who's desired by majority of women. Like even Future gets a lot of women but he's so polarizing that he also turns off a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 12:31 PM
2

It's more like what hasn't he said. He comes on too strong a lot of the time. 0-100 real quick. It works sometimes but very rare lol. "Can't wait until we get back to my place so I can tie you up".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 12:13 PM
7

We all have, it's a part of the process. Some of the cringe shit I said in the past should never have made it out of my mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 05:33 AM
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Easy to get her into bed if he keeps his mouth shut. One of my friends is a former model who fucks everything up by opening his mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 05:13 AM
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No going to lie, if my girlfriend got fat, lost her job or started whining all the time, I'd be gone too. I think that's human nature. Some people might not leave because they feel like they have no other options though or they're afraid of being alone/single.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 12:43 AM
1

You missed the entire point. If a woman just lies there and expects me to do all the work then no thanks. What if a guy just lies there and has you ride him the entire time?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 11:02 PM
3

How many women do you have responsibility over? I don't hold myself responsible for another adult, they're free to do what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 06:33 PM
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Don't men who want submissive women, frame a relationship as a leader and a follower? I don't want a follower; I want a partner. I'll judge the decision based on merit rather than who came up with the idea. If she has a better idea, then I'm all ears.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:23 PM
1

Also diplomas are certifications. Diplomas don't certify anything because there are no standardizations. A diploma from two different schools means different things. A computer science degree from Stanford holds more weight than a computer science degree from ASU online school. If degrees meant anything, why do nurses and doctors still have to take board exams after graduation? Why do lawyers need to take the bar exam after law school? Why do even mechanics have to pass state licensure exams aft…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:42 PM
3

Time to consider the hair transplant or toupee.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:09 PM
1

You don't need a GitHub, my repos are all private anyways. Leetcode is just the cheapest/fastest way to vet someone. I guess you've never done hiring before. Some people can't code their way out of a paper bag because this field doesn't require any professional certification like other engineering fields. My brother is a civil engineer and they're required to be certified, software doesn't require shit. How is it picky to want someone who can at least code and logically reason their way through …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 12:27 PM
1

That's what I mean, LinkedIn is trash. I'm also a software engineer and it's a lot easier to get a good job through a referral from friends. You're basically proving my point. How good are your leetcode and behavioral interview skills?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 11:33 AM
1

NYC apps are still hit or miss but if you go out to the clubs/bars then yeah it's pretty good imo. Add in dating through mutual friends and it's great, at least in my experience. I'm not religious nor Hispanic so don't really know about that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:12 AM
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Average women in the US weighs 170 lbs. Maybe you're into fat chicks but if a woman is not fat, she's already above average in my books. She might not be drop dead gorgeous or a sex symbol but I'd give her a chance if we vibe. I spent the last 10+ years prior to this year in the south where you'd find the average woman weighing that 170 lbs and it was such a turnoff.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:07 AM
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Eh they're all above average if you count the fact that they're not overweight. A lot of the younger women around here are slim so that already puts them above average. Probably has to do with the fact that everyone walks here in NYC. I get daily 10k steps easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:59 AM
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Weird, I see plenty of average men in relationships. I live near a huge Hispanic population in NYC and these guys are not making six figures and most are like 5'5 yet they're cuffed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:54 AM
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If he's a multimillionaire then he can fly women out. Plane tickets are so affordable nowadays. It's just like oil princes flying out Instagram models to Dubai.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:46 AM
0

gamer*
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 09:24 PM
5

There has always been poor people too, is there a poor gene?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:42 PM
5

Tl;dr I'm an asshole and people don't want to be around me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:40 PM
1

It's like online dating was different in 2014. I remember using it in college and it was great, at least compared it what it is now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:18 PM
0

That's the old red pill from before 2014. Nowadays it's way more pessimistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 05:43 PM
5

It's the new redpill, just go check any redpill media that just bashes on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 05:39 PM
1

If the shoe fits.....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 04:58 PM
1

Nah, more like calling someone broke. Gay people can't change their sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 04:51 PM
5

Using apps is like using LinkedIn or Indeed for a job. It's a last resort if you have zero connections. I met most of my exes through mutual friends. No one takes dating apps seriously, maybe there's one person who does but most people swipe nonchalantly. It's like hoping to get a great job off LinkedIn, might happen but 90% of the time, you're gonna get ghosted. It's not what you know, it's who you know in this day and age.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:32 PM
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Blue pill is not some sort of common belief though. It's just what the red pill calls people who don't believe in TRP. Personally I don't believe the TRP idea that only the top 20% do well in dating. Sure on apps that may be the case, so don't just use apps if you're a man. I don't believe in unconditional love either because there is none in this world. Even babies get love based on the condition that they carry your DNA. You're arguing against a straw man. I don't think anyone has even said th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 10:24 AM
2

As long as you're 18, it doesn't matter about your age, it's more about your money.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 03:59 AM
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I look through post histories sometimes to get a sense of someone because I have zero idea about them beforehand. Can you explain where I was wrong? My point was that your value is determined by the market. If you tried to get a job tomorrow for 100k/year and no one offers you that job, would you still be worth that salary? I'd say no. If you put a car up for $5000 on craigslist and no one called you up for a year, is that car really worth $5000? I'd say no. Same thing applies to dating. If I as…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 03:35 AM
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Lmao, your post history is pretty wild. You tried justifying mass shootings because people can't get laid, like wtf. If you're 40 and you still haven't figured it out then idk what to tell you. If you're truly ugly as you say you are then you can't be ugly and broke. What do you have going for yourself? There are no participation trophies in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 03:21 AM
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If she's the best that you can do, then yeah, you're in the same league. Dating is not some kind of trading card game where I can trade my S-tier card for your S-tier card. It's literally putting yourself on the market and seeing what you can get. I might think I'm above obese women and if I couldn't even attract them then I'm not even in their league. It's just like the job market, if I think I'm worth 300k/year and I can't get a job offer then I'm only worth what someone is willing to pay me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 02:41 AM
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I've never been with a prostitute so I wouldn't know. I've only heard of some friend's experiences, and it's always been lackluster and expensive as hell. Then again, it's not exactly legal here in NYC like it is in some other places.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 02:21 AM
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A self-respecting man would rather be taking charge of his life instead of whining on the internet that Chad has it better.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:56 PM
4

Sure it's a debate sub but no one even takes actions even when given the advice. I've tried giving pointers to some guys but if you don't give them some cheat code then they don't care about what you say. I've talked to many of the guys on here in private chat over the time I've been on here and it always comes down to them being a victim. So yeah, you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink. Spoiler: there are no cheat codes unless you're born with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:16 PM
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Does it matter what I think if they're worthy or not? I'm a dude dating women, I really don't have a say whether they're worthy or not. I just remember being broke and unattractive so I did something about it. Took me years to change but I did eventually. If 1 out of 3 men can't get a date then it's on them to do something about it instead of whining on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:00 PM
2

It's fairly well compared to the guys who don't have sex for over a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:48 PM
2

Sure if you include Instagram and Snapchat.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:48 PM
4

Congrats, you found the below average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:47 PM
4

Go ahead and shitpost, but at least back your shitpost up and explain why it resonates with you. It wouldn't be shitposting then.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:38 PM
9

Go try debating a flat-earther. A lot of them are so entrenched in their belief that you sometimes feel like you're the wrong one lmao. The same can be said about some blackpillers, like I can't give them cheat code for 100% guaranteed pussy, so they run with that fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:36 PM
-1

Yeah, because you have no backbone and you're a free therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:14 PM
3

Did she blaze it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:13 PM
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Yeah, if you're attention starved which a lot of guys are. It's like if a starving person gets a gas station sub, they'll be happy. I'm not eating another gas station sub if I can help it. Also, gay men can be attractive even if I'm not gay. It's not gay to think men can look good just like I acknowledge that Brad Pitt is attractive. I'd be flattered if a gay man that looked like Brad Pitt talked to me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:01 PM
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Yup, if that's at a bar or club, I'm walking straight up to her. It's just like if you look at a woman and she immediately looks away, basically means she's not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:56 PM
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That's most people. No one wants attention from someone they find unattractive. Whether it's the butterface woman that tried to hit on me or the beggar asking for money, go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:51 PM
1

Go outside and see that most people are looks matched. I don't see very many model men with fugly obese women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:40 PM
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That's because they get routinely banned lmao. You're not going to recognize their latest username because it takes them less than 5 days to get banned. I was talking to a poster on here through private chat and he'd literally hit me up with a new username every other day lmao. There's no way to perm ban them since reddit accounts are free and easy to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:22 PM
2

I mean I also have the same option as an Asian man in the US. My mom is very social so I will legit get offers from her friends and relatives that ask if I want to be set up on a blind date with someone. Of course, I'm average looking and have a good career which is really what they value, they couldn't care less about my muscles or my height lol. The women that I got introduced to from her friends are very attractive too who just don't know how to date. They focused on school and career basical…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:14 PM
0

More like granny Smith apple vs red delicious apple. Short and tall men are both trying to date attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:21 PM
0

That goes for taller people too. I'm 5'10 so never got the short man syndrome but have been called vain or egotistical for going to the gym so often.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:03 PM
1

Because you're not going to hear about a women's past while playing videogames in your bedroom. Now if you hang in the same circles as these women, it becomes obvious what's going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:13 PM
1

Hinge has one
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:12 PM
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It's just like when I get compliments from people who say, "I look good for an Asian guy". Like what the fuck kind of compliment is that? Most Asian men do not look like kpop stars. It's getting better in the younger generation but try dating 30+, still a bunch of bigots.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:04 PM
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That's like saying Rappers are hot af and women are simping over them. Kpop men and Rappers have nothing to do with us normal people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:57 PM
1

One benefit of being short and lifting is that your muscles pop more at least compared to a taller person. Make the best of a bad situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:48 PM
5

At least those guys get out and meet people and try to find real friends. The hardcore incels just stick to their online echo chambers and mute/block people who disagree with them. Can't really just block someone in a real-life meetup with the ease of pressing a button. I've gotten blocked on here for stupid reasons because of people's fragile egos. Last one who blocked me was because the guy said that TRT/steroids should be free so that he could lift weights while on disability payments lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:18 PM
3

On dating apps sure but that's due to a population inequality. 9 men to every woman on Tinder would give even an obese ugly woman more matches than a man, especially since men will even swipe right on everyone and filter through the matches to find options.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:16 PM
7

Let's be real though, the hardcore incels don't leave their PC/PS5 long enough to go to a meetup.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:51 PM
3

Yeah, and my dad is the King of the United States. Lizzo is like a few workouts from heart failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:49 PM
3

Sure, if the guy also gets around but she's definitely going to get away with it to simps/losers who don't fuck around.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:48 PM
1

Here's what I did, back in 2021, I spent a month here in NYC during the summer as a vacation/WFH just to feel it out. After I liked it here more than the south, I got my ducks in a row and moved during the beginning of this year. Don't just move out here before you test drive living here for a bit. I was in a similar situation like you, too scared to pull the trigger early on because I would have to move away from family as well. But I'm glad I finally made the move.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:19 AM
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Here's my advice, move away from the midwest and don't move to the south either. I'm also Asian and had no luck in the south but I'm having a lot more success in NYC now. It took me like 5 years after graduation to move but I did it eventually. You don't need to rush it but know that it's another world in terms of dating options.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:39 PM
0

Only dumb or egotistical men are expected to get into a fight if they're called a bitch. I've never gotten into a bar fight because someone calling me a bitch is not worth the risk of a concussion. My brain is my moneymaker after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:34 PM
10

I lived in the rural south, it was full of land whales. Sure one might be cute but most were bigger than me during a bulk
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:29 PM
1

Haha, going to the gym is addicting or maybe that's just me. What kind of plateau? Are you running a program and for how long? As for diet, I just eat really clean whole foods. What are you eating? I eat a breakfast of protein bread with peanut butter and some eggs on the side. Lunch and Dinner is more eggs and some sort of meat like chicken or pork with some vegetables and rice. I also take protein powder too after workouts. Eating a lot is hard for me too, so I just make something tasty and wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:31 PM
1

Yeah, I'm in the gym everyday so far this month. If I'm not lifting that day, I'm doing cardio/stretching. I only go to the gym 3 times/week during the summer though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:10 PM
1

I think it's great time if you got your shit together, it means you have less competition because of the amount of simps and losers who don't even have a chance. I had fun this summer, went on a lot of dates. I'm taking a break from dating this winter to bulk and then get shredded for next summer and repeat the process. It's like Warren Buffet being afraid of the broke people sabotaging his investments lmao. Warren doesn't give a shit about the people who can't afford stocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:46 PM
-2

Please tell me it's actual scientific studies and not just a link to a random website with some clickbait title and links to adjacent studies. Most studies that are linked on here are just from the first page of the google search result.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:40 PM
3

Everyone and their mother (literally) has a pair of white AF1s in my neighborhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:36 PM
1

Here's the thing, you can be both good and not valuable to the market. You can think of yourself as a good man but if no one wants you then you're not valuable, you're just good. Not sure what you're trying to argue here. I'm just saying if you have no/low options when it comes to dating then your value is not as high as you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:31 PM
1

Great that's exactly how I was trying to explain dating. Except there's ways to objectively measure a stock without looking at the market price. The market price is just reflective of demand. You look at the financial statements (the objective part) then make a decision based on your interpretation of that data that's subjective part. You base dating on the options you have. The matches or women who actually want to go on a date with you. You don't just give yourself a value and look for someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:29 PM
1

Yeah, if you live in delusional land. I'm sure all the Tesla fanboys think the stock is still worth $400 when it's sitting at $125 now. The market doesn't give a shit about subjective value because you can't trade on it. I got a big portfolio of US stocks, international stocks and Bonds. I follow the market because that's the going price. Good luck trading on your subjective values.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:17 PM
1

In other words, your definition of "True Value" means nothing to the market if it's just subjective. I could say my car is worth $25,000 to me but if I can't sell it for that much then that's pretty stupid of me. Same with a job. If I said my work is worth $300k/year and no one offers me that salary, then I also look silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:06 PM
1

What does true value even mean if no one is willing to pay that? If a company is overvalued and people are willing to pay, then that is its true value at the time. It might not make sense in regard to P/E but that doesn't mean it's a fake value. It's just like any other market; it's determined by the participants of the market. If a company is incredibly overvalued and no one wants to sell it for less, then guess what? It's the true value at the time. You could've said Tesla was way overvalued b…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:00 PM
1

If you beat that person in all categories but you can't find anyone better, then that probably means your own value is not much higher. The market determines your value, if you can't find someone more attractive, then the reality is that you're not as attractive as you think you are. If that means, you'll be happy alone then more power to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:16 PM
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That's not my point, I'm saying it depends on the market. If you're unable to get the person you want, then you could be asking for too much. If you're getting options, then more power to you. Dating is not some sort of Trading Card Game where you trade equal value, rather it depends on what you're able to get. Ugly fat billionaire can still get the 10/10 model.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:06 PM
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Likewise, speak for yourself instead of saying men don't have standards. You don't have standards, don't rope me in that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:41 PM
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I mean who are you though? If you're someone who's chronically single and unable to get that person, then maybe you are asking for too much. I could say my standards are a Victoria Secret or Playboy model, but all my friends would clown the shit out of me because I'm an average looking man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:38 PM
2

You gonna carry your own child? I need a woman to carry mines because I don't have a uterus.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:33 PM
2

A lot of men are broke too, don't be one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:32 PM
2

Hahahahhahah, I'd rather jerk off than fuck a starfish. At least the women in porn look like they're enjoying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:30 PM
1

Inflation is 7% right now and it's probably most likely going to go down as interest rates increase and less free money is printed. $40k is still livable in the south since that's the equivalent of $20/hour. Where do you live?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:04 PM
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I mean if you're not striving for society's standards then you can't say that women seem to want a solved man. They want someone who's going to go along with society because that's how we are raised, men and women. I don't want a wife who doesn't want to work or take care of children because it's a society standard. In another society, women might be the fighters but that's not the case in ours.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:51 PM
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I mean I lived in a southern city of around 200k people and 60k was enough to live comfortably and save. It's not going to go far in NYC or LA or Miami, but this country is a lot bigger than just the major cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:41 PM
1

That depends on what you define as livable, it's not going to afford you a nice car/house/dinners but it's far from barely livable.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:29 PM
1

Everyone starts somewhere, I lived with roommates until I could afford my own place in a cheap area ($1100/month). Then I moved back with roommates because I lived in my own place for 5 years and it was great until the pandemic lockdown. Been living with roommates again this year and it's been good so far, have to share the kitchen but it is what it is. It's also like $3000/month for a solo apartment where I'm living so I'll take the discounted roommate rent.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:22 PM
1

So how much does an apartment cost there? $600-$1000/month? Also, even if a master's is free, time is still money unless you're working for free. I'm not losing 2 years of full-time salary to get paid part-time and pursue a master's.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:04 PM
1

The US, what country do you live in?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:59 PM
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Masters doesn't mean shit lmao. I still only have a bachelor's degree; a master's is a waste of money/time personally but if it helps you then more power to you. Apartments don't cost your entire paycheck either unless you're working at McDonalds or you want some luxury high rise.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:49 PM
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Lmao, racist against who? I grew up in poverty and my dad died while I was still in school. I guess I didn't have the luxury of just playing videogames and living with my parents. Life is unfair, what are you going to do about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:45 PM
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Depends on how strong her head game is. I swear some have sucked my soul straight out of my body.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:00 PM
2

That's not my point at all. I'm a gamer too but I'm not complaining about not being able to afford my rent or expenses. In fact, gaming has probably saved me thousands of dollars instead of going out every weekend. If you can't afford rent as an adult, maybe spend more time figuring out how to make money, learn a skill, go back to school, whatever it takes. Hearthstone is not going to pay your bills just like League of Legends didn't pay mines.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:47 PM
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It's definitely how you grew up. I'm an Asian man who went to a high school with 95% black people as the only Asian kid. Pretty much meant I grew up liking a different sort of aesthetic lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:42 PM
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Stalking? It's literally front and center on your profile, this is Reddit lmfao. Guess it's out of your control though to support yourself as an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:34 PM
1

Bald only works if you got the head shape for it otherwise you're going to be wearing a hat 99% of the time. I'm 29 and I know all of my friends who are balding because they either show it or their hat is glued on their scalp and I haven't seen their bare head in years.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:31 PM
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Lmao, kettle calling the pot black. Eat less and work out more, I love how you're unwilling to date fat chicks when you're fat yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:24 PM
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It's on you to make more money if you're really that strapped for cash. Looks like you're more focused on hearthstone and gaming lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:21 PM
22

What did you expect from Tinder? Literally a sausage fest app.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:13 AM
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The wall actually is a societal thing. By society.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:37 PM
2

Depends on if you want kids, I'm not raising a toddler in my 40s or 50s lmao. My mom is in her early 50s and both kids are done with college pretty much, my brother finishes next semester.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:34 PM
1

Not necessarily, I'm not Tradcon and I have Tradcon friends. I met some of my friends clubbing and they had Tradcon friends who don't club. I made friends with some guys from the gym and then got invited to hang out afterwards and they have Tradcon friends too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 11:43 AM
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I just see it as an added bonus. I'm going to hang out with friends even when I'm in relationships. Not as often as I did when I was in school but monthly get togethers are usually what I do now. Halloween party, Friendsgiving party, White Elephant Christmas party to name the last few get togethers. Going to small New Year's gathering in a couple days as well. I'm not an extrovert but I do enjoy hanging out with friends on a regular basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 01:07 AM
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Build a social circle then. I date friends of friends occasionally if I meet them at gatherings with mutuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:28 AM
4

Have you never had or seen a woman touch your shoulder? It's the small minute touches, she's not going to just go full on bear hug on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:22 AM
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Honestly. Really it's A. A) She liked my personality, but didn't find me physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:20 AM
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I mean it's not really controversial imo, I even agree with your premise if you see my comment above. My father was a provider and that was pretty much it. He was absent from my life, took no interest in my hobbies, didn't make time to even go to my graduation, no congratulations on awards, etc. If I needed help or support, I went to my mom, she was always the one praising me and my biggest cheerleader. My father didn't have a good childhood or an easy life, so I don't put all the blame on him t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:16 AM
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If it's not worth it to you then dont get it. I'm not getting it either but it is an option. Buying a Lambo or tattoo is also an option but I don't think either is worth getting either. But who am I say if it's worth it to someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 09:00 PM
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I mean that's like saying women who get breast implants tend to have back problems. It's a choice, no one said it wouldn't have consequences. I could say going to the gym every day for the past month has me very sore but I'm not going to stop though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 07:38 PM
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Incels are not bad boys though, they don't even have the brain capacity to think past their defeatist attitudes. Now imagine if they had to think about going their own way against social norms in order to be the bad boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 07:36 PM
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I mean those traits just make you a good person and by extension a good person makes a better candidate for a father but that's only if you want to compare it to criminals and abusers. It gives off "Nice Guy" vibes to say that you're a good person so you would be a good father just like how they think because they're nice then they would be a good boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 07:24 PM
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The traits you named doesn't really say anything about being a good father. My own father was all of that, but he was a terrible father. He was a provider but that was it basically. He was absent from most of my life, never took an interest in my hobbies, didn't even come to my graduation, super petty when it came to mistakes, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 07:19 PM
2

You can already modify height but it's not exactly cheap because the supply vs demand. Even men who are 5'11 want to be 6'2 for example and they have the money to pay for it. It's expensive, like $50k USD for 3 inches. Once it's super affordable then no one is tall at that point and then the goalposts move on just like how not many people have very crooked teeth due to how affordable braces are. https://heightlengthening.com/picture-gallery/
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 07:13 PM
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What exactly is a father material guy? I'm a man as well but I wouldn't call myself a father material because I don't have any children. I think I'd make a good father but who knows, all I can do is speculate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 06:52 PM
1

Hahahaha, rich people provide to third world countries, buy all sorts of crap but they would be broke by providing for one other person. Sure. I meant more so if they went broke from losing their job or something. I have a family friend that was a millionaire until he had to pay for cancer treatment and ended up selling the house. The amount of stress that his wife was under was crazy considering on one hand her husband has cancer and on the other hand, she needs to find a way to pay for shit si…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:35 PM
2

I see, well good luck with that mindset, I guess. One of my best friends is a woman who I met through gaming actually. It just happened that we lived 2 hours from each other. I think one of the best things that helped me understand women was having someone I could bounce questions off of. I wasn't her type so there was no chance of anything romantic, but she makes a killer wingman. I've dated 2 of her friends over the years not counting people we meet out in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:29 PM
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Lmao, then there's one of your issues. You're a product of the people you surround yourself with. If you can't even be friends with a woman that you'd want to date, then that says a lot imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:24 PM
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Where are you looking? Do you have a good size social circle? And are you ugly? Half my family (my mother's side) are all very short. My uncle is 5'3, one of my cousin is 5'2, etc. They're all married with kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:21 PM
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And I never said my dad was rich. I said living on your dad's money is easy. I was responding to what you said here. I think living on your dad's money is only easy if you're lazy and you want to depend on someone or if you have extravagant lifestyle choices. I don't think it's easy because I'd be stressed out on the off chance that he went broke. I find that my life is much easier when I depend on myself to pay for my own cost of living. But to be on topic, it's not exactly easy because no one …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:21 PM
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You got to bring something to the table. Maybe it's the way I grew up that I don't take offense with having money. I was taught that men are the providers and that I'd need a house/car/career before getting married. I'm not spending stacks to buy women bags and shit, but I do pay for expensive dates (not first dates though) and whatnot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:01 PM
1

I mean it works in real life. You can be short and rich and get women, you just can't be short and broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:49 PM
1

Even if eye color doesn't do anything, it's still the same as having a rich father or being tall or being Asian. All of these traits are out of our control, it's not like we start life as a game like Runescape and choose the attributes we want.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:46 PM
1

Living on your dad's money is neither hard nor easy, it's like saying having blue eyes is easy. Those things are out of our control, we don't choose who our fathers are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:28 PM
1

That's a flawed contradiction since it's out of our control just like eye color.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:22 PM
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Going off your username, you just gotta buy a gf for 10k.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:19 PM
1

There's a difference between going from ugly to handsome and going from average to handsome. Sure, if you have those unfortunate traits then being lean might not help as much but most people don't have a crooked nose or uneven eyes or large ears. Most people are average hence the definition of the word.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:18 PM
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Here's one issue that I was told from my friend who works for a homeless shelter. They don't allow drugs or alcohol and plenty of men will absolutely stay out by choice because they can't smoke or drink in there, let alone any illegal drugs. This also means if you're drunk or high, you're going to be denied as well. You come off as someone who has no real-world experience and just bases everything off what you read on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:55 PM
1

Me I'm pretty much set up in life House, car, job. (Am 23) This means nothing if you're not attractive though unless you're looking for someone from a third world country.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:43 PM
1

Men can live the same way, but they need other things going on in their lives. If they're sitting home alone after work every day then yeah, it's going to be hard af.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:41 PM
1

I think you might if you couldn't pick up that heavy dose of sarcasm. Literally dripping with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:07 PM
2

The more rational, logical ones usually don't hang out on these spaces. I always have to take a break from here because it's full of whiny guys who have zero sense of accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:05 PM
1

They're still relatively shorter than average Americans though. I got Korean friends who are usually shorter than me and I'm 5'10. Most of my friends are like 5'6 to 5'8.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 02:59 PM
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Bullshit, go watch any of the current influencers. They spend like 10% of the time telling men to improve themselves and 90% of the time bashing on women. Guarantee you that the guys watching them are probably going to the bathroom/grabbing more popcorn when the topic is improving themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:21 PM
3

Way to move the goalposts lmfao. I just don't bother trying to get the last word nor do I even date fat women in the first place. If she's disrespectful to me then I just unmatch and move on. I don't try and come back with some clever comeback like I'm 13. I'd rather spend that energy talking to someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:25 PM
1

Sounds like my younger self. You need a IDGAF attitude when it comes to women. Sounds like you had it and then you lost it when you started wanting them and becoming desperate. I don't care about women above my own goals. I want to bulk this winter and not drink/eat dessert all the time on dates lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 09:16 PM
2

As soon as he flexes his abs, you're going to have a lot of work to catch up to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 09:12 PM
1

I'm taking a break from dating right now voluntarily. Was going on random dates throughout the summer and up to the week after Halloween but got busy and back on the gym grind now lol. Now if I go on a date, it'd be without alcohol/sweets which is hard imo. Working on the winter bulking and will just get shredded and date in the summer again.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 09:09 PM
0

It's perfectly legal to get on TRT or HRT though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 09:03 PM
1

Nothing wrong with giving up and moving on to other things. The issue is when they don't move on to other things and continue to resent others for their own failure. The MGTOW movement is a prime example. They say they're going their own way, but all the posts on their sub were just about bashing on women lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 09:02 PM
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The difference is that she can just go on to the next option. What exactly are you going to do as a guy? If you had options as a guy, you wouldn't even be entertaining a fat woman in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 08:59 PM
4

It's the same thing as 5'10 guys telling women that they're 6'0. They then think that 6'0 is shorter than it really is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 08:56 PM
1

Too many guys posting on here with negative mindsets have few to no experience with relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 01:18 PM
2

Then move. I lived in the south and had no luck either so I moved to NYC this year and it's been great so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 01:17 PM
1

There are many people in the military, but most people are not in the military.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 01:52 AM
4

Sure, if you're talking about military couples during overseas deployments but most marriages are not like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 01:06 AM
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Had one guy on here recommend getting a sugar baby because she wouldn't divorce rape me lmao. This subreddit has some weird people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 01:03 AM
3

Might as well say men have so many options too then, they all just happen to be in the psych ward and/or obese and/or happen to be a single mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 01:00 AM
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I like the other analogy with water. Men are in the desert with no water and women are in the swamp with a shit ton of undrinkable water.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 06:34 PM
1

That's what TRP used to be about, nowadays it's been hijacked by grifters. I agreed with most of the old ideas, but the new TRP media has me scratching my head half the time and laughing the other half. On F&F, they were asking people if they would rather have a male pilot or a female pilot, that's literally what it's gone to. 99% of people will never even have the ability to make that choice lmao. It's not like I can just choose a male pilot when I book a ticket on Delta.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 05:22 PM
1

They enjoy being told that women will hit the wall at 30 and that women's value goes down as her partner count goes up. Go watch an F&F podcast, it's like 20 mins of bashing men and then 2 hours of bashing women. If you're a red-pilled man, just make sure you're grabbing popcorn while they're bashing men so you can skip that part. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 05:06 PM
3

How do you know someone is vegan or does crossfit? Don't worry, they'll tell you. Same shit with redpilled men, they'll show you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 05:03 PM
0

Plot twist: You went to a school with only a handful of pretty girls so you could keep track of every single one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 05:02 PM
2

The biggest circle jerk I come across are the guys who claim that asking a woman out is going to lead to losing your job and a criminal charge. I honestly want to know how many women they've asked out and how many lost jobs/charges have come as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 04:56 PM
2

Many men on these echo chamber forums maybe just like many men at an AA meeting claim that alcohol is easy to abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 12:42 PM
1

Your friends got any cute single friends? I like dating with friends of friends because it's a free vouch if you're a decent guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 09:59 PM
2

Men have choice if they're attractive just like how rich customers are. Poor customers don't have choice just like unattractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 07:08 PM
1

I blame it on Alibaba and Wish.com. I've been pretty jaded from online purchases because you see a picture and then you get some mediocre product like how Burger King ads are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 07:05 PM
7

Sure if you're talking about Wal-mart or fast food. It's another story with professional jobs. I did 5 individual interviews at the same company to land my current job.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 07:04 PM
2

Then it sounds like you got most of it down already then. You just have to learn how to tone down the weirdness at first since everyone can be awkward or nervous on first dates. Just don't be the person who's talking about a serial killer or negative topic off the rip. I'd recommend not asking a girl to take out her earphones just to ask her out. Make it more natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 06:39 PM
4

It's frustrating because you're going in there with the same expectations as Chad. It's a mindset change that worked for me after I talked to my Chad roommate. He goes into interactions with a no big deal mentality if he gets rejected. He doesn't cry or feel sad, he laughs it off like it's her loss and moves on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 12:51 PM
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If you're awkward, then fix that first. Be social, make friends and develop normal social skills and then approach women. Don't run before you can walk. I'm probably the most awkward person naturally. I worked in a customer facing role in high school to get over it. Then after lockdown I lost a lot of my social skills until I worked in another customer facing role.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 12:46 PM
1

I've got a boogeyman to scare you.... Just don't be a joey.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 12:43 PM
1

It's more like I'll see my friends Instagram and they post a pic with a friend that's super cute. I'll then make a comment on the picture and ask my friend if their friend is single. If so then I'll just send a dm and go from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:14 AM
0

Could be your age tbh considering you mentioned Snapchat. No one in my social circle has used Snapchat since 2018 lol. I think it's the younger generation that uses it now like teenagers/early 20s. I'm 29 for reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 01:35 AM
9

Due to supply and demand on apps, she can just message the 7 or 8. There's like 9 men to every women on Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 01:33 AM
0

Plenty of people add friends of friends on there. That's what a lot of my friends do and how we get some dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 01:20 AM
6

Many women can just go on a dating app and find 7 and 8s, she's never looking at that 3 and thinking he's a 8. This might have been true before social media and dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 01:19 AM
1

I didn't say shit, that was someone else. Care to link a source that more than half of young men are not in a romantic relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 11:59 PM
1

well if man has to wait until 35 to have relationships, dont you find that sad? the average age of marriage is 35 for men You're the one who brought up 35 and then backed it up with marital age. Care to link a source that more than half of young men are not in a romantic relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 11:57 PM
-1

Probably means you don't regularly post pictures of yourself or you're just not conventionally attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 11:53 PM
0

Online dating also includes Instagram which is arguably the biggest source since every woman has one. It's definitely not because of a match group app.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 11:50 PM
1

That would mean that men are getting into relationships sooner then, unless you're saying they get married after being in a relationship for less than 12 months. Marriage is also different from just a relationship. I had my first relationship at 22 right out of college but I didn't marry her. I've had 3 other relationships since then and now I'm 29.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 11:39 PM
11

the majority of men are rated as being physically below average by the majority of women even though that numerically makes no sense. Depends on how you look at it. Most people mean a 5 on the looks scale when they say average. That 5 doesn't change because more men are 3s now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 10:40 PM
1

I don't have an issue with any films taking over the media because I can choose not to watch them. I haven't been to the movie theaters in 10 years. I used to stream the Marvel movies online up until Endgame but got bored of them afterwards. I don't watch romance films at all either. You're acting like the media is forcing the films down your throat rather than people choosing to spend their money to watch said films. If redpill films were popular, then people would watch them and people would c…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 09:08 PM
0

The wall is basically when your options from the opposite sex greatly diminishes. For example if a woman has a child, her options go down. If a man is bald or broke, his options go down. It's not subjective, you can basically see it in real time by switching your photo on an app. If you haven't dated recently then you're speaking from outdated experience. I grew up in poverty but I'm upper middle class now. Im not going to suddenly say that poverty is a choice. I don't know the current struggles…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 01:47 PM
1

It was still around in the early 2010s but you had to go find it. If you mean mainstream then it's still pretty unknown.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 01:43 PM
3

Most important thing is diet. You can't outlift or out skincare a shit diet. Less processed foods, balanced diet of more whole foods and organic if you can afford it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 01:41 PM
3

Correct me if I'm wrong but haven't you been married for 10 years? What are you going off of for not hitting the wall unless you're in an open relationship/cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 01:37 PM
2

Bullshit, I don't watch movies in general. I've watched 2 movies over the last 2 years, neither were romance films. I'm not going to shame people if they want to watch movies though but no one is forcing you to watch them. If you think redpill movies would do better then fund some independent movies but tbh no one wants to watch that shit. It's cringe if anything to watch something about AFBB or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 01:31 PM
2

You're free to make your redpill movies but you can't force other people to watch it. You're not forced to watch romance movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 12:55 AM
1

The median on that scale would be neutral which is still unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:54 PM
1

Oh I'm not saying he was a bad choice for the GOP but just talking about his debate skills. He literally didn't debate anyone because it would've made him look bad considering he was talking about vampires and werewolves when given normal questions in interviews. I'm not saying young women who live at clubs and sell their bodies on onlyfans don't exist. I'm saying that F&F is made up of like 95% if not more of those women. Normal women don't see the desire to talk to people like F&F. Heck I woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:45 PM
2

This is like getting Herschel Walker to run as a senator. You don't look in the clubs for a debate just like you don't look for an ex-NFL player with mutiple CTE injuries to debate and run for office.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:28 PM
-3

Only if women are around. Guys don't usually check each other if we're rude to randoms. I can go out with the boys, and someone cracks a dumb joke making fun of someone and everyone laughs. Let's not forget the gaming sessions too. I didn't get called out much until I started being around women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:15 PM
3

I mean you did happen to find the one with a fitting username....
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 01:15 PM
3

Do you also believe that people can fly and shoot lasers out of their eyes?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 01:10 PM
4

I mean they've admitted that they mostly get their guests from clubs and Instagram DMs. Is that where you go looking for people to debate? It's pure entertainment. If you think not knowing 3 countries is the norm for average women then that probably says a lot more about the people you hang around with. It wasn't even about countries in Africa but countries in general like Canada, Mexico, France, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 01:02 PM
4

It's funny how the guys stay sober and offer the women plenty of free drinks. Not hard to debate tipsy people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 01:15 AM
4

I agree with you, I've seen their content and it's mind-blowing how the women can't even name 3 states or countries or even the President lmao. I don't want anything to do with an Instagram thot or OnlyFans girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 01:14 AM
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I mean I've seen a few of the F&F podcast and so many women on there can't even name 3 countries lmao. Really hard to convince people that they're not scraping the bottom of the intelligence barrel and thus any debate worthy woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 01:10 AM
2

This is such a weird comparison considering men and women are not the same. I'm all about equality and shit but that woman is still able to get pregnant and take care of kids which men value. That man can't become pregnant so what does he have that women want? Absolutely nothing. So no, they're not in the same situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 01:06 AM
7

Let's be real, there's enough porn in the world right now to satisfy any person for a lifetime. If you like BBW porn, there's thousands if not millions of hours online. If you like petite Asian porn, same thing. BBC fetish? They got you covered too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 05:40 PM
1

It's like trying to teach someone confidence. Some things you just got to learn on your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:22 PM
2

I guess you haven't dated much in the last years especially after the pandemic. It's a lot easier said than done to say that women will give you the chance in bars if you're not looking great. Women nowadays are a lot pickier than they used to be, in this age with social media. I'm almost 30 so have seen what it was like dating before the apps and to say that the apps didn't have an effect on in person approach would be a lie. Standards have gone up, going to the gym is so mainstream now. Fitnes…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 02:00 AM
2

A pick-me is basically a man or women who says they're not like other men or women. Your comment about being in touch with your emotions and throwing the back-hand remark of asking if it's gay, gives off that energy. My self confidence is great but I've always been able to fake confidence since high school. I'd just count to 3 and it turns on basically because I needed it to earn money from tips. I can chat a man or woman and keep a decent conversation going if I want to. If you're old like you …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:11 AM
1

I agree with some of the things they say but I don't care about some parts either. For example, I know I have to keep my money up, keep my body in shape, groom, dress, etc. I value a woman's education and earning potential which some red-pill guys don't, but shit happens and if I'm unable to provide, she needs to be able to feed the kids. I don't care much about the high-n things that they spout because nobody I've dated ever talks about that. The entire high-n argument just seems like a reddit …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 12:57 AM
2

You honestly sound like a pick-me, but I'll bite. I'm in touch with my emotions as well, nothing wrong with that. Online dating is one of the most prevalent ways of dating nowadays which is why people focus on it. I also date through mutual friends but that only leads to a few new people every couple of months. I use dating apps to supplement that because I don't go to clubs much anymore and where else are you going to find thousands of other people who are open to dating. I don't really care fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 12:54 AM
5

I'm laughing because you asked if it goes beyond opinion, which it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 12:48 AM
2

I got multiple chronic illnesses from my mother's side which my father never dealt with. Like I said, there's no guarantee on the best genes. My brother got some other genes that are different from mines.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 12:46 AM
0

You are the frontrunner of that genetic line This is only true if you only get the best traits of your parents which we all know is not reality. My dad was born a peasant, but he had model tier looks. Money couldn't buy his genetics. I've gotten some of his traits as well as some from my mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 12:34 AM
3

values? Life experiences? Personality? Feelings and so much more? If we're talking about the current dating dynamics with an emphasis on dating apps, those really don't matter unless you pass the looks threshold. I'm assuming you're a woman if you don't know this already so try making a profile as a man if you want to see the other side of the coin.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 12:29 AM
2

slander and libel reddit armchair lawyers back at it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 12:25 AM
1

Do you live in the city and socialize? I'm probably a 6 and I get attention but mostly through social circle. You'd have to be even more conventionally attractive to have women forcing themselves on you but I still get IOIs. My friend literally gets women touching him though when we go out but he's probably a 10 in his niche. He's got that boyish charm like this pic of JB, where he's cleanshaven with that skater hair and tats.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 06:50 PM
2

A lot of these studies linked are no better than someone making a reddit post on something. Notice how that first link contains a bunch of links redirecting back to the same site because it's an obvious advertisement farming site. It's just like a People magazine or Daily Mail article.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 04:01 PM
5

Average looking face doesn't mean you're a 2 lmao. 2 is an ugly face that might even be scarred, on the flip side 10 is pure genetics. Don't let perfect be the enemy of good. Going from a 5 to a 6 or 7 is doable though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 03:56 PM
3

What Chads do you hang around lmao? I lived with a Chad in college, and he was bringing home hot sorority girls all the time, no overweight/obese girls with butterfaces. If women are throwing themselves at him, why would Chad settle for ugly or average (5'4 170lbs) women? You guys don't even make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 03:50 PM
1

It happens when the guys go through a glow up and don't know what to do with the newfound attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 02:48 PM
1

I mean didn't the Vikings trace their lineage through their fathers? I think their last names were literally son of whoever, like Sorensen or whatever. Patriarchy just means the father is the head of the household and the lineage goes through the father. It has nothing to do with equal rights unless you mean theres an equal right for children to take the mother's last name and have her as the head of household.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 01:59 AM
2

Even if there's a female ruler, men still are the head of the house. England was ruled by Elizabeth for a long time but it was still a patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 01:02 AM
2

Socially awkward is unattractive so fits in with Rule 2. Don't be unattractive. It doesn't specify only physically unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 08:45 PM
1

Dating apps or join a yoga studio lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 05:49 PM
2

You've basically cut like 90% of the dating pool then, better luck going to church and finding someone there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 05:49 PM
5

Babies love looking at me but I think it might be because of my glasses lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 01:30 AM
2

I've been to the bar plenty of times but too be honest, I've never asked a woman out at a grocery store or bus stop. I don't take the bus and I'm always rushing to get my groceries and get home lol. I'd say the grocery store and bus stop would just be the frozen approach unless you got the halo effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 10:21 PM
2

Menopause doesn't happen in your 30s though lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 09:36 PM
5

Warm approach is when you have some social connection to them like a mutual friend or something. That's where I get most of my success, dating people I meet through other people like a Friendsgiving for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 09:31 PM
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You can't just make up your own definition of a term and accept others to go along with it lmao. What if I said cold approach meant you had to do it in the middle of winter too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 09:29 PM
0

Nothing wrong with approaching in a club or bar but know how to take a no gracefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:31 PM
1

I mean I know who I am as an individual, that's got nothing to do with my sex drive lol. I did a lot of meditation and introspection the last few years. That doesn't mean I'm not going to change in the future but we'll see I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:17 PM
1

Most people date within a 5 year age difference. Dating older doesn't really help imo because generally speaking, the good ones are taken early in their 20s. I'm 29 and still dating women from 22-28. My sex drive is still incredibly high maybe because I stay in shape and eat very clean. She was a very innocent church going girl. I didn't know if she knew she was asexual or not. It's in the past now so no sweat but I'm not waiting past a month anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 06:53 PM
1

If it doesn't go together for most young men then it's not common and thus fits the saying unless you're a woman loving woman. Like I said above, I don't feel an emotional attachment until sex hence why I can break up a relationship rather quickly if we're not sexually compatible. I did the waiting for 6 months in the past and it was the biggest letdown because I found out she was actually asexual. Rip 6 months. I got nothing against her personally but we were just not going to last.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 06:40 PM
1

Having your cake and eating it is just a figure of speech, it's about having two things that don't usually come together. If they came together often, you wouldn't have been so frustrated. It reminds me of when I dated in my early 20s in the bible belt. Me being a person who doesn't go to church and then getting rejected because I wasn't someone, they could bring home to their god-fearing parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:31 PM
1

I mean there's only 1/5 the women on dating apps as there are men. It's not like 100 men to 100 women. So, it's like men find a nice smooth bell curve of the women who use filters/makeup on apps attractive compared to the women who find men with shit pictures and pictures of fish unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:22 PM
1

Why would I date outside the country and deal with the shitty immigration laws? My friend married a woman from Asia, and it took them over a year and thousands of dollars to get through the Visa/Green Card process.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:10 PM
1

I only found most of the nursing and marketing women attractive. Most of the women in engineering/math/science/etc were butterfaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:09 PM
1

Your cake is that you wanted someone to stick around until you built an emotional connection. You can have that, but you can't expect people to wait around for that to happen. I'll wait a few weeks or a month for sex if there's other intimacy but I'm not waiting 2-3 months like some women want. 3 months is a huge investment of time/money considering the dates every 1-2 weeks add up. For me personally, I don't become emotionally attached to someone until after sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:00 PM
0

It's like you set yourself up for frustration. You eat your cake and then you're frustrated that it's gone. You set up this barrier and then you're frustrated when they leave. I'd say just accept that it was out of your control. If a woman told me she wanted kids right now, I'll immediately walk out that door. No questions asked and I wouldn't even give it a second thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:41 AM
1

Sounds like you just want your cake and eat it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:28 AM
3

Does that account for the delusional people?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:20 AM
1

Sure if you work at some low wage job. Most high-end jobs require you to pass multiple rounds of interviews. I went through 5-6 rounds of interviews to land my current job but the salary was worth it. Resume might not even get you past the front door for some firms.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 10:21 PM
3

More like 0.0000000001% chance
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 10:17 PM
1

There's a difference between an army of simps and no attention at all. If there's zero attention then it makes me think if she has a bitch personality or something if she's not ugly. Like why else is an attractive woman getting zero attention. It's like you go to take the subway and every car is full but one car in the middle. You wonder why only to find out that someone take a shit in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 04:21 AM
1

I said it would be weird and I'd wonder why, not that it's a red flag. Of course I understand that ugly/boring looking women exist just like ugly and boring looking men exist. Call me shallow but I'm not looking to date an ugly woman. Character is not enough for me to take interest in someone in a romantic sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 03:02 AM
1

The thing is that no one could've predicted how big content creation would become. I'm 29 but when I was 15, content creation didn't pay anything. The only people who did it then did it because they enjoyed making content and didn't think about the potential business. People like NigaHiga, KevJumba, Shane Dawson, Jenna Marbles to name a few. You're looking at it with a clear sense of Hindsight bias. If you would've enjoyed it then, why don't you do content creation now? There are new creators co…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:22 PM
2

Red pill doesn't teach you shit about actual business though. If I was 15 again, I'd probably be a millionaire before 25 but that would also include adding in 10 years of maturing and giving up videogames then. I don't play videogames anymore but to say that I would've given them up at that age is just delusional and hindsight bias. It's the same as if I went back and told my parents at the time to buy Apple stock.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:09 PM
5

What I mean is that as a 15-year-old, without a job and poor parents, what exactly can you do when given the cold hard truth? I grew up in poverty and wore some old clothes, nothing name brand, no phone, etc. What exactly does the red pill do for me? Make me spin into the blackpill basically. The knowledge is more useful after 18 where people will have a job and can actually buy a gym membership, buy their own healthy food, buy nicer clothes, etc. Nowadays with teenagers and social media, kids a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 06:36 PM
2

I think mainstream doesn't teach it because it's harmful to children. We already see in the Zoomer generation, the number of people who use social media and are depressed is increasing. It's like parents protecting their children because of their innocence at a young age. I personally also hung out with the gamers/nerds during freshman year but realized that there were no girls around us. I signed up for track in junior/senior year because I realized that I wasn't athletic enough for football, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 06:12 PM
4

The issue is that you were taking the advice of the past generation instead of from your peers. I never asked my dad how to date women because he was from a different generation. Instead, I asked the guys that were good with girls, the football players, the popular guys, etc. No point asking people how to date when they were still using snail mail and whatnot in their time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 05:28 PM
1

Is fitness not one of the ways that guys stand out? I mean I personally eat clean (no sugar, no dairy, no processed foods, low oil) and I work out at the gym 3-4 times a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 05:21 PM
2

So basically just a bunch of processed food. Those choices are going to catch up with them lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 03:29 AM
1

Depends on if that woman froze her eggs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:00 AM
4

I blame adults not knowing how to cook nowadays lol. I'm 29 and a lot of my friends don't even have a spice cabinet because of how often they eat out. If they do make food at home, that shits gonna be bland as hell lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:58 AM
4

More like 10 mins or however long it takes to get to the nearest club or download an app lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:53 AM
12

What are their definitions of withholding sex? I looked at your links, and they're mostly just made up of personal opinions. If I went to pro-life websites, I'd probably get a bunch of sections that say abortion is abuse as well. If a partner doesn't want sex and you want sex, where's the line between withholding sex and bodily autonomy?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:50 AM
8

Did you just go to google and copy/paste the first 4 links?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:37 AM
4

Sex is work. Sure it's pleasure but it's a workout as well unless all you're doing is laying there with her on top. Sometimes I pass on it because I'm already sore/tire from the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:36 AM
3

I doubt the people on that subreddit are "average". Most average people are not lonely, they might not have a relationship but they're not lonely or posting a subreddit like that. It's like going to an AA meeting and thinking everyone out there is an alcoholic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:44 PM
2

Alright, whatever you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 04:54 PM
2

Lmfao, sure if you're a celebrity maybe. They're not flying themselves just to fuck Joe living in Idaho where the nearest airport is 3 hours away. No idea what kind of dream world you live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 04:49 PM
2

I guess I don't pay for just sex, that's including plane tickets and hotel.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 04:27 PM
2

Good luck with that, long distance is already known to fail most of the time. I'd say it's even worse if you're from two different universes like a farm town vs the big city.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:18 PM
1

Yikes, here comes the boogeyman again. Can you link someone who lost their job for asking a woman out?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:14 PM
2

One of the biggest factor is location. Gotta move if you're living in bumfuck nowhere where your closest neighbor is 5 miles away.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:50 AM
8

This reminds me of the multiple discussions I've had with people on here. I always say that respecting someone's no is not going to risk your job yet people on here say otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:12 AM
-1

Men also divorce their wives for someone better down the line. The starter wife cliche.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 11:47 PM
1

I usually have my picnic at the local park with other people around but if you prefer the secluded forest, more power to you. I'm a dude but I'd be scared if she wanted to lure me and steal my organs in the forest haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 09:58 PM
2

I also said that hookers might work for you, but I'll beat my meat before I pay someone to provide that service.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 08:56 PM
3

If you're routinely the 3rd or 5th or even 7th wheel, then it does have a mental toll as you get older unless you're happy single. But it's not wrong to want a partner and family.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 08:50 PM
2

I guess I'm more of the tangible options. I don't even use the world as a metric because long distance relationships are known to be difficult to sustain, especially if you didn't start off together. What good is a perceived option if I can't take them on a date this week?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 07:34 PM
2

I've gone along with the process in the past. It gets weird when you involve family early on though because like the OP said, it's all about the other factors like car/house/career and the family puts actual attraction pretty low on the totem pole. Also, there's really no way to judge sexual chemistry so you could end up in a dead bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 07:11 PM
2

By options I mean how many dates can you line up. That's an actual number if you're dating because if you're asking women out and you're getting no interest or no matches on OLD then your options are zero, that's hardly subjective and the honest truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 07:01 PM
2

I mean you're assuming I can command the same 200k salary if I move to a remote area. I actually jumped from 80k to 200k but that also includes 3 years of experience in between as well. I'd probably get something like 120k if I job hopped without moving. Not sure where you get that the percentage of viable women being much higher. From what I've seen, NYC has a large number of women who are actually fit or at least not overweight. When I was dating in a smaller city, it seemed like more people w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:06 PM
2

I mean if you don't like that specific analogy then we can just say it's a non-profit charity organization that only accepts $100+ donations. But to be honest, I choose that analogy because there's a whole subreddit called /r/ChoosingBeggars that I like to go to for a laugh sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:21 PM
4

I go on dates for the potential of something more. Hookers are a guaranteed end and from what I've seen, they're not really hotter unless it's legal where you're at.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:20 PM
1

I mean I get where some guys are coming from when they say a relationship is more than just a voluntary desire. Sure, it's not as high on Maslow's hierarchy of needs as food but love is still on there. I went through a phase where I didn't have any desirable options in dating, and I had everything else figured out in my life. Career, fitness, finance, family, friends, etc. but being the 3rd or 5th wheel all the time doesn't really do your mental state any good. Add on the fact that I was constan…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:16 PM
2

Depends on if you need that car for work. Some people don't have the luxury of waiting to purchase a car.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:09 PM
5

Might work for you but personally I'd rather masturbate than go out and find a hooker. Who knows what disease they have, and the prices are insane from what I heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:06 PM
3

Are you saying homeless beggars are not human? I choose that analogy because it's the cliche choosing beggar.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:03 PM
3

Where the hell do you find women in remote areas? Like I lived in a city of 100k before moving here and the options there were even worse. Am I supposed to move to Idaho and look around the rural area? I'm definitely not going out of this country, that's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 04:32 PM
1

I'm not talking about "The One", but rather someone who checks my boxes. Choosing a partner is arguably the biggest decision of your life and I have enough assets that I'm not just going about it willy-nilly. I date with intention but also don't fantasize about future timelines anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 04:31 PM
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I think it's just different norms here in NYC, people don't settle down as quickly. Also 200k in NYC doesn't go as far as it does somewhere else, especially with the taxes and cost of living here. In the bible belt, people generally settle down after college for example. Here though, I'm still looking for my person but there are a ton of options because of the population. Should I have just settled down with the first woman who showed interest?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:39 PM
2

It reminds me people in Afghanistan who sell their daughter off in marriage in order to feed their other kids. Very scummy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:52 PM
3

What's your source on higher middle class avoiding dating? I'd like to think I'm in that range as well as my social circle (200k -/+ income) and we're just having fun with dating. If something comes out of it, cool but I haven't found the one that I want to commit to yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:39 PM
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Depends on if the guy even had the options to Next on. It's like a homeless beggar saying no to fast food and only accepting $100 bills and gourmet food only. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:49 PM
8

I mean you shouldn't need a woman in your life in the first place, it's nice to have someone but not required.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:02 AM
2

Depends on your own status. I constantly get asked by my mom's friends/relatives to go on blind dates with their nieces/daughters/etc. They look at me like a playboy rather than a violent threat because I'm enjoying life at 29 instead of settling down already with kids. I have the career and money to afford the house/kids/whatever else but have chosen to put that off for now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 09:05 PM
1

People get fired for all sorts of reasons, it's at-will employment here in the US. As long as it's not because of a protected class like race/gender/disability/etc. then you can get fired. I know someone who got fired because they had a beard in a position that was not client facing. I don't get why having a beard mattered when they worked in a cubicle, but it is what it is. You can continue to be naive about how society works.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 06:58 PM
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I mean I'm sure my employer would hate to see me posting on a subreddit called PurplePillDebate for example or the fact that I may be open to BDSM kinks. That has no bearing on how I operate at my job, but I've had coworkers who are very big church goers, etc. I don't tell them my religious affiliations and don't care enough about religion, so I've gone along with the random blessings at some dinners even if I'm not Christian. You think my 60-year-old Boomer boss would love to hear about me putt…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 06:18 PM
2

I mean why stress about shit that's out of my control. I don't control her body or her schedule nor are we in an exclusive relationship, let loose and live life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 06:13 PM
1

That analogy was to drive home the point that the world is not fair. I could put my best foot forward and give out every secret I have but what's stopping someone from using that against me professionally?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 06:02 PM
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That's a just world fallacy. If the world was fair, then that might work but it's not. I can't go around leaving my car unlocked just because I'll never hijack someone else's car.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 05:56 PM
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How many women are actually transparent though? I don't even bother asking because first I don't care anymore but second, I'm never going to get the truth on the first date anyways. I don't give them my actual salary on the first date either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 05:54 PM
1

I'm 29, 5'10 and that took a bit of time to adjust to casual sex. It's like going to dinner with a friend vs a girlfriend, compartmentalizing it all. I used to be the guy that after the first date, I would be thinking of our future together. But once I got ghosted a few times, I had to change my mindset. It's about setting realistic expectations and not counting your eggs before they hatch. We're not exclusive until we have the DTR talk. Until then, I live in the moment and have fun. It also hel…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 04:21 PM
1

Personally, I don't date average income women either. I'm a dude making six figures, but my lifestyle wouldn't mesh with someone making 30k. It just doesn't seem compatible when I'm able to put 80-90k a year into investment and retirement savings and she's struggling to pay her bills. I also can see why women don't want to date a man making 50k unless he's attractive because the relationship probably is not going to last. Money is one of the biggest factors of divorce so why even go down that ro…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 03:46 PM
2

Do you workout regularly? Like you can skip the tattoos and piercings if you want like me. But I also work out 3-4 times a week. Being in shape definitely helps me with women, I'm not crazy shredded either. Used to be though when I went 6 times a week and it was great for dating as well but I don't have the time anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 03:09 PM
2

I mean I work with a bunch of professionals and they usually have tattoos that can be hidden under a dress shirt. That means no face/neck/hand tats and preferably nothing big on the wrists/forearms. Muscles will always be conventionally attractive. Some women might not like them but most do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 08:55 AM
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She probably is, I'm not dating anyone exclusively right now. Everyone is having casual sex here in NYC. We did something Friday but for all I know, she had someone else on Saturday but that really doesn't bother me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 08:48 AM
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I don't even give her number to mutual friends before asking her. Sounds like a shit thing to do with someone else's contact info.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 08:40 AM
6

I went lower in looks earlier this year because there was more chemistry and it didn't feel like I was pulling teeth trying to make conversation with her. I didn't want to talk about the latest TikTok memes or whatever was happening in Pop culture like Kanye. In the end though neither would've worked out in the long run. I need that crazy feeling of desire and chemistry at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 08:38 AM
5

One sign is when you jump straight into sexual talk early in the conversation. Like you have zero social grace.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 08:32 AM
3

It's not actual experience though, you think the steamer actually gets to the stage of seeing their dicks in person? It's the perceived feeling that she's better than you and going to expect more.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 08:29 AM
0

Plenty of guys are afraid to ask the hottest girl at the bar. I remember talking to a few that said only 2 guys came up to her in a night, literal Instagram models. Guys will absolutely ask out lower tier women because the risk vs reward. Nobody likes having their ego shattered by a public rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 08:27 AM
9

Might've been less of a headache. Everyone gets tired of arguing at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 08:22 AM
3

That's where muscles, tattoos, piercings come into play. It's not a magic solution but that's typically what some of my friends did in order to become that fboy vibe. They also got a perm to change their hair texture in order to get waves.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 08:15 AM
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That's a terrible argument. I don't think I'm going to get robbed at home but I still lock my door because why not. Takes me 2 seconds to turn the lock and 2 seconds to open it with a key.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 08:02 AM
2

I mean they don't care that much about a man being super tall but they definitely want someone who's taller than them when wearing heels. I'm 5'10 and definitely date some women because I meet their height threshold. I'm not saying 6'5 is instant pussy because you still need to meet a looks threshold too. I just looked at your post history, it seems like if you're paying for sex only, I'd hardly call you handsome since even short handsome dudes can get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:52 AM
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Doesn't matter if the person who's saying it isn't sleeping with you. I've heard some of my friends being called cute or handsome but it was just pity compliments. The friend that never gets laid but all the women in our friend group just try to make him feel better. It's the same thing as women calling a guy she doesn't want to date, "husband material".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 02:16 AM
1

That just means your face is ugly unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 02:00 AM
2

I'd say I look better now at 29 than I did at 21. But it's got nothing to do with my actual age. I started working out regularly, I ate better, I dress better, got a skincare routine going on, had some cosmetic laser surgery done, whitened my teeth, etc. That has nothing to do with age though, I could've done all of that at 21 as well. So, while I agree that some men do look better as they got older, I wouldn't put it down to age. It is all relative though at the end of the day, I just don't fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 01:29 AM
1

I mean what man actually looks better older. You said Clooney but tbh he's also just aged very well, he was already handsome in his 20s. Cutting his hair might make him look better (I still think the long hair makes him more youthful) but the wrinkles and the greying don't really help unless you want to date a grandpa. Some men like Ronaldo look better but after lots of surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 12:03 AM
1

I know a few women who do but it's because they had a glow up. Better clothes, better makeup, better fitness and being less shy. I hang around a lot of Asians since I'm Asian myself and the women truly age like wine due to all the skincare products they use. My aunt that's 55 could easily pass for 40 now but she didn't look as great in the past because of working a manual job all the time. Now shes semi retired and able to spend more time on herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 11:49 PM
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His face in his 20s looks great, no wrinkles on the forehead. His hair even looks great then as well, way more youthful. He has great proportions in his face. I don't really think there's much of a discussion on this because it's all subjective, but I like how he looked in that first picture with the long hair. I could say the same about men though, most men don't really become physically more attractive in their 40s unless they want to jump on gear and get shredded maybe. I don't see the appeal…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 11:23 PM
1

George Clooney can be more attractive at 40 than at 20 He wasn't ugly at 20, far from it. If anything, it's his status that makes him more attractive at an older age, rather than his looks. Take another man who looks like him at 40 and you're not going to get young women in their 20s lining up because it's weird dating someone who looks like your dad. It's just like Leonardo DiCaprio right now. He looked better at 20 but he's still attractive and maintained it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 10:53 PM
2

I think the advice is sound from my own experience. When I first started trying to date women, I went into every interaction expecting sex at the end. That just sets unrealistic expectations because chances are there's no sex at the end. Most guys strike out with most of their attempts, they score on the minority. I probably get a date for every 20 women I ask out and then sex from maybe 1 out of every 10 first dates. So, if I was going into interaction expecting sex, I would probably grow resen…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 06:44 PM
1

At least in your 20s, your metabolism can help somewhat. That's not the case in your 30s though and I agree that a lot of people look skinny fat or fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 06:37 PM
3

I'm not looking at just sex though, I had a bunch of hookups over the summer but it's different without that emotional connection. There's no pillow talk or talks about the future or the long walks at night; it's missing that extra something. I don't even do sleepovers with hookups. Maybe it's because I can afford to buy most things, so I don't really see material things as that eventful compared to experiences that you can't buy with money. You can't buy true desire from someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 05:07 PM
5

Yeah, by their parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 04:46 PM
5

It's more than just sex, it's the emotional desire between two people. Sex you can get from a hookup or just pay the hooker for it. I'd agree that that emotional desire is probably one of the best feelings in the world, better than any pump I've felt in the gym, better than visiting any tourist attraction, better than any meal, better than any raise/promotion that I got, better than winning any award. I don't have children yet and people have said that's one of life's greatest joys but until the…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 04:44 PM
1

And some men become wealthy. Exceptions don't make the rule. The average guy doesn't even work out regularly as they age hence why you see so many men with a beer gut in their mid 30s and onward.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 04:34 PM
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I agree that we should just be upfront with our intentions and whatnot, I don't try to be friends with women I'm interested in. I ask them on a date, if they reject me, I move on. I don't try and switch gears to be friends in an attempt to maybe get sex later on. The thing is that doesn't work for a lot of men judging based off the responses here. I don't think overweight (yes, a lot of men are also overweight) Billy is going to have much success if he's still working at Burger King in his mid 2…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 04:30 PM
3

You say, "friends first route" and now you say, "a desire to enter a romantic relationship", which is it? It's obvious that you're trying to be deceiving if you think that's the same thing. It's like a homeless person trying to be your friend on the street but in the back of your mind, you know he just wants money or food.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 03:27 PM
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If you think good looks is all it takes, then you haven't been out much. Sure, there's a baseline level of looks but there's also a baseline level of social skills too. You can't be ugly as sin for obvious reasons. I know of several gym bros who can't get laid because they can't talk to a woman without stuttering or becoming flushed. When I got ripped before the pandemic, the women didn't just flock to me. It's a myth that being attractive is all you need, any person who goes to the gym with a c…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 03:19 PM
2

Jason Mamoa, Chris Evans, etc. all evoke a huge sense of confidence. It's not just their looks but the way they carry themselves too. They're not walking around simping for every woman like a desperate person with no options.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 03:04 PM
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