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Oh lifetime risk is a lot different than saying every year. I can totally see that but then you have to think about the situations that lead to statistic. Plenty of people drive without seat belts or drunk or very fast or just plain tired after a long day. There's a risk to reward that you have to account for. Some people need to drive to work otherwise there's a greater risk of being homeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 07:05 PM
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If people actually had a one in 100 chance of dying in a car accident every year, I don't think that many people would get in their cars. That would be an astronomical risk to say the least. Car accidents probably happen that often but many don't lead to deaths. I've been in like 4 bumper accidents since I started driving 15 years ago but they were all very minimal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 06:20 PM
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I mean if you're fat, you have to be open to dating other fat people. I've seen plenty of couples that are both overweight and happy together. Might be because I lived in the bible belt south for over a decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 07:21 PM
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And that specific type of woman probably doesn't want you. You might have to settle for fat because most Americans are fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 01:11 AM
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Being large might be a huge disadvantage but being like 4-5 inches taller is not going to make that big of an impact calorie-wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 09:19 PM
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What have you done besides going to the gym? Once you're in decent shape, it's going to be a lot of diminishing returns. You would probably benefit more from making friends and improving your social skills. I've met a lot of women through mutual friends rather than dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 02:22 AM
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Probably has more to do with how early in the relationship you do it. Obviously don't do it before the first date, plenty of people love to write paragraphs before ever meeting up and I think that's crazy. I used to write love letters to my ex but that was like 2 months into an exclusive relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 02:17 AM
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5'7 is really not that big of a deal for men, as long as he's like 3-4 inches taller than whoever he's talking to. Just have to make sure you meet people in person like bars/clubs/parties/etc. rather than a dating app.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 11:35 PM
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Really depends on your own schedules and how far apart you live from each other. I just like to meetup for a day on the weekend and a night during the week, assuming you both work regular 9-5 schedules.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 11:27 PM
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Do things with your time, don't just sit at home after work everyday. Hit the gym, try out some new places around you, maybe catch a movie. Hang out with friends. Don't be the guy who's glued to his couch or computer desk and waiting for the girl to text him. I can go for a week without texting my girl because I prefer meeting in person and talking face to face. I also don't do long distance relationships so it could be different for that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:13 PM
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This would be like if you got to see the ending of movies before watching them imo. Would ruin all the suspense for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:50 PM
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Stranded meaning it's like a rare situation otherwise I wouldn't stay with someone who's dumb enough to constantly get stranded. For example, her car breaks down on the highway. I'm not going to drive an hour so that she doesn't have to spend 10 minutes on the bus though. Gotta have some self respect if you want others to respect you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:47 PM
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Really depends on the meaning of nice then. I'm not rude or closed off to most people but I'm also not trying to be everyone's friend either. If someone asks me for directions on the street, I'll help them. If someone asks me for money on the street, I'm not giving out handouts. I think a lot of people don't know how to say no and that can be an issue. If an acquaintance called me up and asked me to drive an hour because they're stranded, I'm probably just going to say sorry and hope they make i…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:19 PM
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I mean I can tell if a girl is genuinely nice or trying to put on an act. It's the way they treat others, especially people who provide no benefit to them. It's akin to the cliche, how people treat a server says a lot about them. It's also something that is over time, people can put on an act at first and you have to let the mask fall sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 05:56 PM
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The nice guy makes me want to vomit, he's obviously going overboard lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 05:35 PM
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It really doesn't matter what a woman's profile says though since there's a huge mismatch in the gender ratio.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 12:05 AM
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Can I say that I've never seen 'listener' spelled as 'lisinor'? It almost looks like it's another language lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 12:03 AM
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Shallow shit really only matters that much on dating apps though. I've never been disqualified for my height IRL because I'm taller than most women and I'm just 5'10.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 08:29 PM
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I hit the gym 4 times/week currently. Thinking that people can just put in hard work and just bench 500 lbs is the most delusional shit. Yeah I guess you have a top 1% in genetics but then again, anyone can type anything on the internet. It's okay though, you probably lost all your pictures and videos.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 08:11 PM
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Yeah I doubt it but cool if you did. Let me guess, you didn't take any pictures from back then or lost them all right.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:39 PM
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prenup and postnup That's redundant lol. A postnup is basically a prenuptial agreeement that you signed after marriage. Good luck keeping assets that you created after a marrage, all to yourself. Look at bezos, he had to give billions to his ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:45 PM
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We talking about the same Chris Hemsworths who has to use steroids to get to that physical peak? Yeah you're not going to find that many steroid users unless you're at a fitness influencer event.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:39 PM
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Plenty of people in this world, move on to someone who finds you attractive. I can't change my race, I know that a lot of women don't find asian men attractive but I did find someone who finds me attractive. I've dated my fair share of women throughout my life and I was never the most attractive guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:35 PM
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Have you ever tried to think before you talk? Like I've never dated a fat woman in my life but I don't go around saying that fat people don't deserve to date others. I just choose to date skinny or average build women. I've never been shamed for my dating choices either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:30 PM
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Pretty sure that has more to do with their diet. If you ever go to Japan, you're not going to see a fast food restaurant on every city block like you do here in the US. Even our soda consumption is through the roof here in the US, unlimited refills at basically every restaurant. When I worked in food service, people would drink a giant cup of sweet tea or soda and then get it refilled so they could drink more on the way home.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:24 PM
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Meanwhile, a 5/10 woman can fairly easily engage in situationships or ONS with 8/10 guys, which makes a female alpha widow quite common. I don't know about what you've seen but my friend never brought home 5s considering he got the pick of the litter. Hot guys can pick and choose and very likely wouldn't just pick a 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 01:59 PM
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There's a difference between a "nice guy" and a genuinely nice guy though. My roommate in college was a genuinely nice guy and never had trouble getting a date. He was an alright looking dude but he was 5'5 and out of shape so didn't meet all the conventional standards of masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 01:45 PM
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I've seen a lot and it was always caused by the man but I also come from a conservative background so the man is the head of the household. Our anecdotes don't really say much in the broader picture though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 01:38 PM
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I don't see how the women on here would be a good representation of the average woman. Most women wouldn't even need to be on a subreddit that talks about dating dynamics, they live their life oblivious to this kind of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 01:36 PM
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You act like kids are going to listen to their dads lmao. Trust me, it's not that simple because if you remember, your parents probably told you how to study hard but most people didn't listen. I tell my younger brother to workout but he has every excuse against the gym even after getting a membership.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 01:32 PM
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You obviously ask for their sex tapes first.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:14 PM
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A gym membership is also a waste of money then, just buy some dumbbells and workout at home. 99% of Americans are not competitive weightlifters or bodybuilders, they can just do some push ups at home. Do you own a TV, cause that's a waste of money too. I can watch anything I want on my phone or laptop. Do you own a vacuum? That's a waste of money too because you can just use a broom. If spending $1000 for a device that I will use every single day for years is wrong then call me wrong but I'll co…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:12 PM
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Some of us have eyes, I can see that most people, at least here in the US are very similar. I can talk to about 80% of the male population about football. I could bring up videogames with another like 60% of the male population. You're missing the point that most men go to the gym wearing the same shit, just like they wear the same shit to the bars and the same shit when going out for dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:08 PM
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Bro if the cost of an iphone is going to make or break you then I have no idea what kind of investments you handle. My portfolio can go up or down like $10000 in one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:53 PM
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More like you're oblivious to your own biases. Most people are " basic" people. 90% of my guy friends love videogames, sports, fitness, etc. We all pretty much dress a like too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:48 PM
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Idk about that one, I'm in the gym everyday and most guys are literally wearing the same shit. Tshirt + basketball shorts or sweatpants. Hell that's what I wear too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:37 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 01:55 AM
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As if boomers aren't "acting like a fucking child" still in their 60s.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 01:35 AM
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What even is a perfect schedule? Also why would it have to be static? My schedule changes regularly and I like it that way honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 06:22 PM
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Neither would men tbh. I always think of the below average height man getting matched with the above average weight woman. Neither are going to be happy most likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 08:04 PM
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Its almost impossible to live in NYC without a decent job so there is no way thats the reason. This is what you said and what I disagreed with. It's possible and is the daily life for probably hundreds of thousands of people in this city if not millions. So many people working retail and food service in NYC. I doubt they make more than 40k/year.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 10:52 PM
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Living in NYC, there are so many types of people. Just because they live in NYC, doesn't mean they don't still live at home and work at Target. There's so many random jobs in this city in order to keep it running. There's people who work at my gym and making $15/hour in NYC.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 10:41 PM
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That just depends on the woman, plenty of good looking guys will get picked over average dudes. Looks get you in the door, so without looks you might not even get chosen to see how great your sense of humor is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 06:38 PM
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Can you link a comment saying looks don't matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 06:37 PM
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Obviously looks matter but they're not the only thing that matters. Does anyone actually believe that looks don't matter? Maybe if you're blind I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 06:03 PM
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Yeah it was for a first date and I'd say a lot of young Americans are living in big cities now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 08:17 AM
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I live in NYC so dinners are expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:22 AM
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Sounds pointless ngl since there's like 2 decades for things to change. My father didn't use dating apps for example. I'd rather ask my friends who have success with women than go ask my father.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:09 AM
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I wish meals were still just $30. I can't even go to Chipotle for 2 for that price anymore. Last dinner was like $100 with drinks + tip and that's not even sushi.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:03 AM
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Going off that logic, if a woman only goes on a date with a man for his resources (free dinner/dates/experiences) without any intentions of furthering a relationship, is that robbery?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:50 AM
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Might not be the norm but the 7 year itch is a meme, where divorces spike around that mark.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:20 PM
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No one said anything about individual abs, I'd probably have to cut down like 10-15 lbs to show that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 10:51 PM
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I used to be crazy lean, like 20 lbs lighter. Overall, I feel much healthier now and don't even bother tracking what I eat. I just eat until I'm not hungry and whatever I want if I'm eating out. A nice bonus is that I don't feel as cold now that it's winter haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 05:35 PM
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I do in the mornings before I eat if I flex. I might not be exactly 20% but somewhere in that range. <image> This is kinda what my abs look like waking up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 03:42 PM
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I'm still looking for my dream girl with 3 tits.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:21 PM
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I went to a good barbershop to learn how to style my hair. I had the most success with a place that has a lot of clients that have my type of hair basically. Nowadays, I rock an easy long on top and short on the sides and all it takes is a cut every 2-3 weeks and a comb after a shower.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:18 PM
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Lots of advice that you can read online even but the problem with that in my honest opinion is that it goes in one ear and out the other. It's only when you actually intentionally do something that you really pick up on it, instead of just reading theory. For instance, before I started dating, I was like a fish on land. I'd awkwardly try to pick up girls in college and that didn't do me any good. It wasn't until I actually had a friend that turned into a close friend and eventually my girlfriend…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:06 PM
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Yeah exactly, I went out for brunch yesterday and straight up just pigged out haha. About to go lift in 2 hours, don't feel the least bit guilty.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:50 PM
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I love being around 20% bodyfat. Feels like the perfect weight for me, where I can eat what I want and never have to track macros. In the mornings, I can still flex and see abs. I couldn't stand being under 15%.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 10:15 AM
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That's how I feel but one of my reasons is I'm hesitant to sign myself up for the risk of a 18 year bill tied to a random woman. My friend did that and lost the gamble, kid is already in high school by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 10:06 AM
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Lmao let me guess, you're conservative and probably drive a truck and own guns. I'm not into men but it's crazy how much conservative men rant about there not being anymore traditional women now so they just don't list being conservative on their profiles anymore in hopes of getting any matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 08:58 PM
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Do you even understand how alimony works? I don't even think most men know how it works in the first place. It's not like you suddenly get hit with alimony after being together for 6 months. Alimony is mostly thrown around here as a boogeyman just like how men don't have a right to custody of their children is thrown around. There are multiple ways to contest alimony as well, things like age/health/marriage duration, all come into effect when figuring out alimony. Like I said above, most people …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:35 PM
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That is not necessarily true. It was within the confines of marriage, but not necessarily outside of it. I'm not even sure what you mean by this. Women still couldn't vote outside of marriage. They couldn't own property either unless they were married. Also, I’d say cultivating the next generation of human beings is a HUGE element of autonomy. That’s a level of control societally that insane. That sounds like an extreme cop-out. Yeah you get that if you want children maybe, but what if you didn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:52 PM
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Going to daycare beat being home with my parents as a kid. Even my nephew loves daycare because all of his friends are there. I'm a little older but even I remember daycare having all of the disney movies and a huge playroom with lots of toys.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:44 PM
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Sounds more like you need to keep with the times. Just because I say I want a car, doesn't mean I want a car from the 1960s or 1980s. If you want an old-fashioned marriage, you're going to need to find a traditional woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:42 PM
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Conservative men also sound difficult and useless if we're going by the typical guy ranting about the second amendment and Trump. Also seen too many "libertarians" who are basically just conservatives with another name.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:38 PM
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Is it that much of a reach when women didn't have any autonomy in society? They couldn't own land, couldn't vote, couldn't have a credit line at the store, couldn't get educated, etc. The long goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:32 PM
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It gives off the same energy that slave owners claimed that slavery would free Africans from their savage ways. Definitely not because they wanted free labor and pure racism.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:20 PM
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People love to whine just like people making minimum wage love to whine about a wealth tax. I doubt most people who whine about alimony have even been close to a situation where they'd be liable for alimony. I have old friends from high school who whine about the wealth tax on incomes over $250k and yet they're making close to $30k/year. If anything, that wealth tax would basically help them without taking any of their money in additional taxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:17 PM
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My point is that it was nothing to do with some righteous "burden of responsibility". It was done because society was incredibly sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:09 PM
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/u/No-Rough-7390 obviously doesn't have an answer to that because it would go against his entire RP beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:08 PM
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Or you're just born into a family and inherit the wealth. Like even in my traditional culture, women don't receive a sizeable portion of the inheritance. It's expected that she will receive it through her husband's family.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:06 PM
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If it was the FAMILY that was set to do that, then how come bachelors were able to do that? You didn't have to marry as a man to inherit property or go to school or even open a business.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:00 PM
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Funny thing is that men can get just as emotional. I've been around men who start fights because you say their favorite NFL team sucks. That's definitely emotional to think that, someone else's opinion about which group of grown men playing with a ball is better, means enough to get physically violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 03:52 PM
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This is all anecdotal so I can put my own experiences in as well. When I was in my early 20s, I was depressed and addicted to video games. I hated my situation in life and because of that, I'd ignore my friends, my family and my co-workers. I've grown past that point and have changed my mentality towards life after hitting rock bottom. Just as you think that you might have had a lot of love to give, I didn't even know what that even meant. I grew up moving around a lot and was never really able …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:59 PM
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Sounds like you live in your TikTok feed. I live in NYC, I do see men who paint their nails and love fashion. That still doesn't equate to the majority of men being into makeup and dressing up flamboyantly. I can count the number of men I've seen this week who have painted their nails with my finger and I see hundreds of people just commuting home from work.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:53 PM
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Just like there are men who like makeup and painting their nails, you're most likely in the minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:18 PM
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This is only true if you consistently see your family regularly maybe. I moved out of the house when I was 17 from immigrant parents. What they value is different from what I value. Sure I can think of their feelings but they don't really know me nor what's best for me. If I left it up to them, they'd say I should marry the first woman I dated and have a child at 21 straight out of college. Nah miss me with that, I didn't even know myself at 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:24 PM
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I forgot this was a pissing contest, my bad. My point was that corporate employers are not just going to accept something because it's "natural". It's not natural for me to wear a suit and tie or be clean shaven every morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:42 PM
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I mean even as a man, I have to shave, keep a proper haircut, hide tattoos, etc. It's just the nature of corporate jobs, sometimes you get lucky though with a more lax environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:18 PM
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With the prices I've seen, I'd much rather spend that on so many other things like an upcoming snowboarding trip.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:24 PM
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Been over 15 years with this same hand, hasn't gotten old yet. I change the content I watch. I also don't just use my hand though, I've been in and out of relationships as well. I just wouldn't visit a prostitute though because it sounds like so much hassle for 10 mins with a stranger basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:28 PM
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I'd rather use my hand than visit a prostitute considering both are just used for an orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:12 PM
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It's like having 100 concerts to choose from and 0 concerts to choose from for me. I don't go to concerts so 0 and 100 are the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:17 AM
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Western culture is definitely encouraging healthy diet with all the Pepsi and McDonald's ads, definitely! /s Pretty sure I've seen more cigarette ads than I've seen of healthy foods like fruits/vegetables.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:05 PM
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But if grandpa is rich, he will just choose the college student girlfriend though. That's what I've been told on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:39 PM
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nah bro, I bought an online course that says I'll become a millionaire in 90 days. It only cost me $50/month, I can get you the hook up if you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:35 PM
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Good luck with that. Like if you want to have your fun then go have your fun but if you're in a relationship, be prepared to be single. I would never give a hall pass to my partner so I don't expect her to give me one either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:32 AM
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Sure if you're attractive enough to pull it off. Odds are that the average guy can't pull it off though when he hits 30 and is most likely overweight and possibly balding with a dead end job. I just turned 30 recently and I'm in great shape, hit the gym 3-5 times a week and still have a full head of hair and it's been easier for me because I'm more established compared to when I was 22 for example. I'm still no Chad or anything though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:02 AM
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Dunno about the clean part, gay men can also be messy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:09 PM
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Most people don't give a fuck, it only seems that way because we're on a subreddit dedicated to this. I personally can't stay on this subreddit for too long because it's such a cesspool, good entertainment though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 06:37 PM
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You can set up laws to punish violence and harassment but can you set up laws forcing people to enter into a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 06:19 PM
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What's your solution then? Even if women are more understanding about men's sexual and romantic needs, it's not going to be of any help to virgin men who want a relationship. It would just seem like they're being pitied.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 06:17 PM
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I actually like the links that you listed, especially the second one. People need to learn how to make a budget. If you can't afford to fund a college fund then you can't and that's fine. Make sure you get your own expenses taken care of. A bunch of these stories include debt, yeah if you fuck up your finances early then expect to have some financial troubles. https://www.apartments.com/portland-or/min-3-bedrooms/?so=2 I see a lot of options for 3 bedrooms under $2000. If you're making $100k and…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 07:39 PM
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You clearly missed my entire point. Would you say your typical man is drowning in pussy and getting 500 matches a day? What if I pull up a reddit post of a guy who's swimming in pussy and matches and use that as my source?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:58 PM
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I define the typical woman as just the general population of women. I took this post as a huge generalization of women and not just some niche community that you had to go digging back to 2017 to find a source in the news. If it was actually occurring in the general population, it shouldn't be hard to pull sources left and right from something more recent than 6 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:52 PM
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There are always going to be outliers hence the expression, exceptions don't make the rule. Has someone said that term before in the history of the internet? Sure. Is your typical woman saying that? I doubt it. If you search for anything using "that magic Internet box", you'll get something back. I've actually never heard any guy say "where have all the good women gone?", yet there's a link for that too unsurprisingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:48 PM
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My point is that the very niche outliers mean nothing just like Chad's dating experiences mean nothing to the average guy. Just because Chad is banging 5 girls a week, means nothing to Billy Bob who gets 2 dates every 6 months. Pulling up a random source from the Daily mail is basically the equivalent to women thinking that all men are having sex because they're fucking Chad every week.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:46 PM
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Why are you using Atlanta as an example when it's also a massive major metro area akin to NYC lmao. You can absolutely live in places like Pittsburgh or Tampa or Portland on $100k. No one would call those 3 cities the rural Midwest.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:43 PM
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With how minimum wage workers usually tend to be, I wouldn't want them in my house lmao. I've seen how the typical high school teenager working in fast food is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:11 PM
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Come on man, no way you post shit sources like that. I'm a dude and that's like the equivalent of a woman posting a hot guy's dating experiences and wondering why men in general are having trouble with dating. Daily Mail is basically Fox News if you're from the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:08 PM
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Probably has more to do with getting the best options that she can get. If she's doing the bare minimum, she's probably not going to be as attractive than someone who puts in more effort into fashion/makeup/fitness. It's like a job market, I could put the bare minimum and work an hourly job or I could go to university and get a career that could pay more and lead to better opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 01:08 AM
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It's only a moral issue if it goes against your morals. For me, I couldn't care less what that woman does with her professor. They're two consenting adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 12:54 AM
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If the shoe fits....... This is coming from someone who's played my own fair share of video games lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 12:32 AM
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My first sentence was a direct response to the comment I replied too. I made a more general point in the following statements. I made an intentional distinction to say people because it's not gender specific and I know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 12:29 AM
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Yeah I didn't say overweight men, I said overweight people. I know it's not gender specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 11:26 PM
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Gotta get in the gym first or become active which I doubt the average male even is. Too many overweight people playing video games and eating delivery. I try to hit the gym 3-4 times/week yet a bunch of my friends don't bother because they're hooked onto League of Legends or WoW.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 09:40 PM
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Mans just got a massive forehead.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 10:45 PM
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I'm a bit shy of 5'11 barefoot and I still don't see that many people taller than me in public. Crazy how I can go a whole day without seeing someone taller sometimes and I live in NYC.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 10:38 PM
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Alright boomer, we're not talking about the 60s. My uncle still had issues getting dates in his 20s and he's over 50 now because he's 5'4. He did eventually get married in his 30s though but that was probably more due to luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 10:36 PM
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It's just the easy filter metric when you get tons of matches. Let's not kid ourselves, women get hundreds of matches. It's like jobs filtering through candidates by requiring a college degree, even for menial jobs. It's a first pass filter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 10:34 PM
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In places that small, I wouldn't be surprised if 70% of the population are either children or married/too old for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 12:19 AM
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More like you're allowed to change how you feel about some things. I was raised to believe that violence and stealing are never ok. Just because I now believe that violence is sometimes warranted, does not mean that I have to change how I think about stealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:27 PM
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Sometimes you have to do the inviting. When I was still playing league of legends and just moved to a new city, I'd invite people to join me for a game night. Usually is a fun experience. Another example is when I talked to someone and they brought up motorcycle/dirt bike racing, I said that sounds interesting and they invited me to come to the event on the next weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:52 PM
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Is that why you have to post on Reddit for someone at 40?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:43 PM
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Life is full of consequences. For example I played videogames in the dark as a kid and started wearing glasses in elementary school. You just have to move on and make the best of your past choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:32 PM
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There's probably a meth head that will date you if youre able to provide financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:58 AM
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If it's concealed then it's not intimidating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 03:09 PM
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Good luck bringing that gun everywhere you go without drawing attention to yourself unless you live in a red state.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 01:58 PM
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At the same time though, it's a pre-selected crowd on these forums. There's probably more anime watchers on reddit as a percentage than the general public for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:11 PM
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If you're going to base your life on what-ifs like that, you could also believe that your life would be different if you just walked into a gas station and bought a winning lottery ticket and got millions of dollars. No point thinking about the hypothetical.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:49 AM
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It usually is more complex unless you're talking about dating apps. Most women don't go around in real life with a tape measure so usually as long as you're taller than her then it doesn't really matter. Now if you're on an app then it's a completely different story because the options are skewed in their favor. Why settle for the 5'6 guy when the next swipe has someone that's 5'10 for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 06:39 PM
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You're free to do that but you can't tell others what is meaningful or meaningless to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 01:06 AM
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There are plenty of bot accounts though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 09:55 PM
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Real life is not a fairy tale though. In real life, that tortoise might die before making it past the half way mark. I've seen it in real life, dudes who never reach their potential. Goes to med school, only finishes like half of it and then burns out and drops out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:31 PM
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Imagine actions having consequences. If I punch someone, I can't just say it was a right to bodily autonomy. I'm probably going to get punched back. You have the bodily autonomy to abstain from sex if you're afraid of paying child support. As for circumcision, that's more of a religious thing. I'm not cut because it's not normal in my culture to be cut. The selective service thing, I understand where it came from but let's be honest, we're never going to get drafted in the near future. Too many …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:29 PM
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I support that notion as a man instead of having the state raise that child with tax money. If you want to stick your dick in someone then be prepared to raise the child unless the man is willing to press charges for rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 01:11 PM
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That experiment just shows how desperate some men are for a warm hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:04 PM
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Unless you're lucky as hell then it takes a lot of time and dates with many people to find that right person.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:49 PM
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I don't get this statement. Why is it mutually exclusive that either the person is sleeping around or improving themselves? People can do both at the same time. I can hit the gym, study, move up in my career and still sleep around on the weekends when I'm off from work. Won’t the world be better that way? This sounds like a throwaway comment. It's so general that there's really no response to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:47 PM
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You can date whoever you want to date. I personally don't date black women and that's a choice that I'm free to make because I'm just not physically attracted to them. I still interact with them as people though, just not in a romantic way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 01:38 PM
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Does anyone actually care about strangers across the world besides the minimal amount where you might donate some money if they have a natural disaster and hope nothing bad happens to them? I have too much going on in my own personal life to worry about world conditions and about random people in other countries or even in a different city than me. I've heard about Japan's low birthrate but nothing I can do about it so I don't spend my time worrying about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 01:26 AM
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There is clearly a difference in the distinction. Young people are not a majority of undesirable men, they are a majority of people who are struggling financially. There's 60 year old men that are undesirable or men in their 40s or 50s.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:15 PM
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Maybe you should read up the thread and follow the discussion. These undesirable men are antisocial, socially unaware, jealous, insecure, incels, or in a big financial struggle. Those men are a minority Minority according to who? incels are a minority That's more than just incels And yes, That a majority is "antisocial, socially unaware, jealous, insecure, incels, or in a big financial struggle" is exactly what I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:39 PM
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Reading comprehension is hard. antisocial, socially unaware, jealous, insecure, incels, or in a big financial struggle. I argued that this would be a majority of people and that a subset of this group (the "in a big financial struggle" part) is consisting of a lot of young people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:02 PM
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No, I never claimed that young people equates to a majority. Re-read my statement. I said "a majority of young people", not "young people are the majority of people".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 06:41 PM
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For dating, that can definitely be debatable considering most men after 30 are not having nearly as much trouble as late teens/20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 06:38 PM
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antisocial, socially unaware, jealous, insecure, incels, or in a big financial struggle. That's more than just incels considering a majority of young people are not in the best financial situation, plenty of people with student loans or still living with their parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 04:38 PM
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Minority according to who?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 03:25 PM
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Your comments just come off as being argumentative for the sake of it. My friends are not thieves but if I go out anywhere, I'm not leaving my phone unattended.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:02 PM
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OP mentioned calling a sorority sister, you clearly didn't read their posts. As for calling an ambulance, if I thought someone needed help I would, instead of going through their phone and moving them someplace else.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:29 PM
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Who the hell even has a lawyer on speed dial besides the rich? I'd easily call my parents or a friend first before a lawyer but I'm not a millionaire :shrug:.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:25 PM
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What if I said unattractive men should just lower their standards and date the unattractive obese women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:20 PM
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Nah I'd think to myself, if he had other options he would've taken them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 02:02 PM
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Reddit doesn't have a reading level requirement, just gotta remember that sometimes when discussing anything on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:52 PM
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Let's be honest here, what reason would she have for dating someone who's unattractive and a nobody?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:48 PM
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They still happen in the south, especially in the bible belt.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:41 PM
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Those are no volcels because they don't see those women as an actual option, they're invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:40 PM
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I've always heard it was 6 feet 6 inch 6 figures and not a 6 pack.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:14 AM
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A conversation that you have with someone you just met. Sure if you've been friends longer than you generally talk about hobbies. I'm talking about someone like a new coworker or that shares mutual friends and you're just meeting them for the first time at a hangout.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:16 PM
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What happens if intruder comes in such as robber or thief? Do people actually worry about this more than just locking the front door and installing a security system on their doors/windows? I sleep peacefully and never worry about these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 10:02 PM
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I find that a lot of men don't really know how to have a general conversation if it doesn't either involve sports/video games/the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 09:59 PM
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There's a considerable amount of men who don't want children. I'm personally on the fence myself but I know others who are diehard childfree.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:15 AM
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I'd call that a vocal minority just like there are with men as well. Men bitching about not being able to get dates and having to pay for first dates, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:13 AM
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Sounds like me where I don't bother arguing either because chances are I'm not going to change your mind. It's like when my buddies argue that some of these Mr. Olympia contestants are natty. I just nod and move on. Am I agreeable? Nah but I have no horse in the race so I'd rather talk about something else. Or when I worked in a restaurant and had people talking about vaccines/covid, just nod and smile. How's the saying go, argue with an idiot and they'll beat you with experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:06 PM
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I already read the blog and looked for actual sources. Instead, they just link to another page on their blog. Seems like it's a blog that's just farming ad revenue and more clients for the author. Zero links to any studies or external sources. For therapy, go here for Dr. Whiten and go here for other clinicians in her group practice Best Life Behavioral Health. For coaching with Dr. Whiten, go here. Order Dr. Whiten’s books, 52 Emails to Transform Your Marriage and How to Talk to Your Kids about…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 08:01 PM
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That source literally is trying to cater to men hence it's talking about their male clients. Talk about bias. Did you really just try to source a garbage blog that just uses another page on the blog as their sources?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:56 PM
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Majority of men here who are spewing these things probably don't even talk to women in real life hence why they don't spew them in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:51 PM
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Probably because there are a lot of weirdos. I'm a guy but I've seen the messages that other guys send to friends or other women. Bunch of weird opening lines because there's zero risk on apps for saying whatever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:49 PM
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the leading dating (not hook up) websites, they have just as many female profiles as men Pretty sure hinge and bumble are still a majority men. Not sure what other leading app you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:47 PM
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The average man has sex with their hand too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:33 PM
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This is Japan, not the US or the internet lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:45 PM
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Sounds like you spend too much time online.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:36 AM
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I call bullshit on relatively painless, maybe less painful but definitely not relatively painless.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:34 AM
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There was a guy in Michigan who was apparently listed as the father of a kid by his ex-gf Then it's obviously not just any guy. Seems like there would need to be some past relationship history and he probably signed the birth certificate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 01:24 AM
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I'd rather that then having mothers abandoning them in the forest or some shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 10:33 AM
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Stop spreading this bullshit lmao. If this were true, every woman could just put Elon Musk as the father.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 10:32 AM
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Probably for the same reason that most people move in together instead of paying for two rents indefinitely. It saves money.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 10:22 AM
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If you're so happy then why are you even posting in this subreddit instead of just enjoying your life. Just sounds like copium.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:27 PM
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Your very first sentence. Raising children makes them yours as far as I and the law are concerned. I could spend 5 years and a lot of money while raising someone else's child and then just have them walk out of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:41 PM
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Looks like that doctrine applies when the primary caretaker gives up custody. Can you link any material on how hard a case like that would be to win?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:47 PM
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Why even entertain that person? If a woman said it wasn't her fault that she happened to be a mother of three and explaining that the father was a deadbeat, I'd just move on. Too many fish in the sea.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:38 PM
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As far as the law is concerned, if you don't have custody then that's not your kid. If you break up with their parent, then that parent has all the rights and can keep you away from said child.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:37 PM
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Like I said in my comment, I lived in the bible belt. Schools didn't just give out condoms, we never had the planned parenthood assemblies. We even had a prayer before announcements in a public school. Currently it's illegal to even have an abortion after 6 weeks in that state and that's if you can find someone who's willing to perform it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 06:32 PM
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Being book smart and socially dumb does not make them the smartest.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 06:13 PM
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Eh, my friend in high school became a father in 11th grade. Good luck getting any condoms in the rural south when the closest store was miles away and you don't have a car nor can you really ask your parent for condoms since it was the bible belt. Being in the bible belt, it also meant no abortion either. Plenty of mothers at that high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 06:09 PM
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The thing is that looking in from the outside, I didn't give off that vibe. I have a good career, graduated with honors with a 4 year degree on a full ride scholarship, have friends, etc. If these men are happy with just playing video games then there's no harm in that. But if they're unhappy with their situation in life and using video games as a distraction then it's clearly not a solution. It's basically kicking the can down the road.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 05:45 PM
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They're not a long term solution though, at least they weren't for me. Every year I just felt even more sad about the state of my life, like a compound depression. I didn't start enjoying my life until I took a break from them and started slowly fixing the parts of my life that I neglected. Sleep/diet/fitness were a huge change for me. I went from chronically underweight due to putting off meals for more game time to a more healthy weight. I slept more instead of jumping on my pc as soon as my e…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 04:57 PM
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Some might not be clinically addicted but a vast majority are using video games as a coping mechanism or distraction. It's crazy how many guys will spend 4 hours a day on the games and avoid other things in their life like gym/diet/sleep. I'm guilty of it myself when I used to perma queue up for League of Legends. Havent touched that game in 2.5 years now though somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 04:37 PM
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At this point, it's like a chicken or the egg problem. What came first, the video game addiction and lack of ambition or the failure in society? I can personally say that it was my video game addiction that started when I was around 8 years old until around 25 before I could kick the addiction and start using my time better. Nowadays I still play video games but I play in spurts so I can get other things done like going to the gym or cooking actual meals. I took a huge break from the games from …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 04:27 PM
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I wouldn't be surprised if immigrants are the number 1 source of construction workers either. Good luck with the home supply when you cut out the Hispanics and Chinese who are building homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 04:19 PM
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You're talking about women like they're an entirely different species, no surprise that you might not get an invite.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 05:44 PM
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Sounds like more excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 05:43 PM
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Hmm I got most of those and I agree that those traits are attractive and I've had some success in dating but I don't have women just flocking at me. I'm not tall or very tall since I'm only 5'10 and my eyes are kinda shit but my glasses make up for it imo since they're stylish. I've been in 3 long term relationships and a bunch of short term ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:54 PM
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My wallet is so small nowadays, I gave up the trifold and just rock a small wallet that holds a few cards. Everything is either credit from a card or my phone else I do bring like $200 in cash for emergencies.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:48 PM
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A gay ugly guy in a suit is still a fat ugly guy in a suit How did a suit change a guy from gay to fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:45 PM
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Bruh, everyone in my high school wore polos if they could afford them. I went to school in the rural south with 90% black student population and ralph lauren polos were a status symbol along with jordans.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:44 PM
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I think while attraction can be very diverse, there are some shared traits that are not attractive. For example, bad breath, long nose hairs, yellow teeth, unkempt beards, etc. Grooming and personal hygiene are separate from genetics but play a huge role in why some guys get zero attention. I used to be cheap and get a haircut twice a year so by around month 4, I started to look homeless. Nowadays I get a haircut every month and keep the rest of my hygiene/grooming in check.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:39 PM
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I'm about to be 30 in a few months and still say bro, what's wrong with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:33 PM
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No matter how small, its still a part of the sample size. If it happens 5000 times in a million cases then it's statistically irrelevant. That would be less than 1% of cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:34 PM
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They can be real but it doesn't mean that it's a significant sample size. Just because you witnessed 50 cheaters, that still might have an insignificant impact on cheating as a whole which likely is millions of people. My group of 10 friends is nothing compared to the millions of adults above the age of 32 for instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:48 AM
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Your experiences are still just anecdotal. For example, everyone in my friend group has bought a house and we're all just 25-32 but we're mostly professionals or business owners making six figures. I'm not naive enough to say that everyone can buy a house by 32.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:13 AM
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proof that theres 300 of those posts? proof that op was a member during those posts being made? there's a search bar for past posts
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:35 AM
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Only if her boyfriend was there. I don't follow my girlfriend around everywhere, sometimes she goes out to dinner with her friends without me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:11 AM
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The only mention of ego in your source is the below: Sympathy comes from our ego. It is what we know we should do, and often, it is telling others what to do or feel as well. Empathy comes from the heart I am not telling someone what or how to feel. I'm just being understanding of how painful a pregnancy can be. I'm not going up to a pregnant friend and saying " you must be in so much pain" but if they do bring up something in conversation then I'll listen and give encouragement.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:59 AM
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Empathy is shown in how much compassion and understanding we can give to another. Sympathy is more of a feeling of pity for another. Empathy is our ability to understand how someone feels while sympathy is our relief in not having the same problems. That's from your source. I can understand how someone is feeling and show compassion instead of pity. I've been crippled before with a nasty foot infection and couldn't walk very well but I never broke my leg. Can still relate to someone with a broke…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:49 AM
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Sure, here's the Oxford definition for empathy: the ability to imagine and understand the thoughts, perspective, and emotions of another person. In counselling and psychotherapy empathy is often considered to be one of the necessary qualities enabling a successful therapeutic relationship the very first line says "the ability to imagine", I can imagine that breaking a leg would be very painful but I don't necessarily have to experience it myself to know that it's going to be painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:33 AM
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Wtf is an elder Stacy? That's an oxymoron just like a scrawny Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:13 AM
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One might have an electric scooter and taking the injury in stride meanwhile the other guy is broke and stuck with crutches. My point is that it's possible to feel empathy for others even if you didn't go through the exact same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:09 AM
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By that scenario then no one can really empathize. Maybe someone broke their leg while drunk and someone else broke it while being sober. They probably didn't experience the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:44 PM
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bro started balding
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:35 PM
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End of the day, who cares besides yourself? If you're gonna take those offhanded remarks personally, then go ahead but I've never cared. I'm Asian and people still shout China Flu near me, I really don't care lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:55 PM
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He was on /r/popular yesterday with his boots, funny picture ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:52 PM
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I go to the gym but I don't even track my body fat percentage. I'm 5'10 and 170 lbs, go to the gym 3-5 times/week. Still no idea what my body fat percentage is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:44 PM
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Mostly has to do with the fact that it's acceptable for women to cry but you're seen as feminine if you cry as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:43 PM
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Just do what Ron DeSantis does, wear cowboy boots with lifts in them. Probably adds like 4 inches ezpz.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:39 PM
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I don't think there are blue pilled principles. Blue pill is just what red pillers call people who don't agree with them. Kinda like what Christians would describe non Christians as. Plenty of different people who are not Christians
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 09:57 PM
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Picky eaters are not just women lol. Met my fair share of both genders being picky eaters.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 06:44 PM
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Maybe you're just not compatible then or maybe you're looking for a unicorn. One of my exes was very into video games and I thought I hit the jackpot. We'd game for hours together and it was great. Then I learned that she only ate American comfort food and everything else was too exotic. Only place we went to for dates was like AppleBees's, Ruby Tuesday and TJI Fridays. Yeah even if my current partner doesn't game, I value her not being a picky eater way above that. I don't want to eat only Pizz…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:25 PM
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Honestly sounds like you have the only child syndrome. You just want to do what you want and if you don't like it, then it becomes a chore. I have a brother and it wasn't always about what I wanted to do growing up. We had to take turns on picking where we got food from, sometimes McDonalds sometimes Taco Bell, etc. We took turns on the computer, shared a bedroom, shared toys,etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:08 PM
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If you don't want to do that shit because you didn't want to, she might just end up finding someone who will do that shit with her because they want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:06 PM
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Even those come with compromises then. Are you doing the monkey dance when your friends want to play chess but you'd rather play checkers for example? Sometimes my friends want to do a certain raid whereas I'd rather do the new raid but in the end, I'd rather spend time with them instead of doing the new raid solo.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:03 PM
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In that case, you're going to need to do what they want to do sometimes. Who made you king and get unilateral decision making power over what you and your partner get to do? If you don't want to do certain things, you can always try your luck at finding someone who is more of a homebody.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:53 PM
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Do you have many long term friends? Being happy with being alone is fine and there's nothing wrong with not wanting to be social. I used to just chill on my own and raid a shit ton, thousands of hours online. I just don't think that's healthy for a relationship, to avoid the compromises that come with sharing your life with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:49 PM
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What exactly do you want out of a relationship? Is it just sex and then you can go to your own respective rooms for solo hobbies?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:46 PM
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My point is that it's a mutual arrangement though. If I'm doing the monkey dance for her, she's also doing it for me too. If she wasn't then I wouldn't stick around very long. I've dated selfish women in the past and it doesn't take long for them to show their true colors.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:43 PM
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Can I ask if you've been in any long term relationships or long term offline friendships? Sometimes it's not about you, it's about them. A friend came into town 2 weeks ago and wanted to see the tourist sites because I live in NYC. I've seen Time Square like 50 times but I still go since he has never been. We made it a whole day event of just going to other touristy sites like Chelsea Market, DUMBO, etc. You can be selfish and only think about what you want but that usually just ends up in a lon…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:38 PM
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No it's because it sounds like a chore for you to spend time with your partner. It's not always about you and what you want to do. Relationships come with a lot of compromise because you're two separate humans. Do I enjoy going to the mall with my partner? Not really but if it makes her happy then I'll go. Does she enjoy watching sci-fi movies as much as I do? No but she will indulge in my interests from time to time. Do I think I can cook a better steak for cheaper than most steakhouses? Yes bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:28 PM
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You come off condescending as fuck. You had an easy childhood it seems but that's not everyone's life. I lost my father at 20, I also lived in poverty as a child, life wasn't all sunshine and rainbows.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:23 PM
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We're both going to an event for example and I enjoy spending time with her. It's a couple activity Did you just miss this entire first sentence? I'm not entertaining her lmao, we're both getting outside of the house. She's not pulling me by the ear and dragging me there like a child. It's fun to "touch grass" sometimes, see a new movie, try a new restaurant, look at the stars. If it's too much effort to spend time with your SO then maybe you might just enjoy being single and that's ok. I've bee…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:12 PM
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It's not? We're both going to an event for example and I enjoy spending time with her. It's a couple activity whereas playing video games is more of a me activity. I have 2 days off a week, I can give up a night to spend time with her and then have the other night to game with the boys. I also spend the afternoon doing my own thing too. But if I'm in a relationship, I don't mind giving up some time to get to know the other person. Otherwise what's the point of being in a relationship? I might as…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 03:28 PM
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Having adhd makes me a terrible listener personally. If I'm having a long conversation, my focus will tend to drift. Like did I pay the credit card bill this month? Did I remember to put the leftovers in the fridge? Did I walk the dog? etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 03:21 PM
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Sounds like you want to put the bare minimum effort into a relationship. I'm sometimes like that, leave me alone to my video games. At that point though, you might as well be single. I'm happy being single and able to do what I want when I want. But when I'm dating someone, I also know that I have to take their feelings into account.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 03:16 PM
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By that logic, we'd have more success if we delete video games too. That way, men might avoid stunting their social skills and actually "touch grass".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:44 AM
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A bum is a bum no matter where they're at. Someone with no social skills is still going to be having trouble with social skills somewhere else unless it's due to a language barrier of sorts. Plenty of universal unattractive traits. But there are regional advantages for sure. I'm Asian and have a lot more success in NYC than I did in the rural South.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:59 PM
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Top 30% probably includes married men who don't want to get with an older woman when their wife is a much more attractive option. Also the whole moral debate about cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:48 PM
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I like to come on here every 6 months or so and just debate. Stay too long and you might just get sucked into the echo chamber.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:18 PM
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I can see that being the case but on that same note, the men they know are still the ones who are generally more in touch with social skills. The loners and shut-ins still don't get a chance. The ones who are unable to provide also don't get a chance. The hideous people are still going to be hideous. I've dated plenty of people that I met through mutual friends and I always say that it's a great way to meet people. That's still too difficult for some men though, to socialize and cultivate a frie…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:44 PM
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If you got rid of dating apps and social media, what do you think will happen? Do you think women will just become attracted to the bottom of the totem pole? In the past, they did it out of necessity since they couldn't buy homes/open bank accounts/afford their lifestyles. Nowadays, you'd need to find a way to put the genie back in the bottle, so to speak. That's clearly not going to happen. Therefore, I wonder what is this grand solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:29 PM
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No one is claiming that everyone has a "home court advantage" somewhere. You could be universally ugly for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:23 PM
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Men have already accepted it though. Sure you can just dip out and play videogames/watch porn/pay for onlyfans but most men are not going to do anything about the status quo. You might have the odd guy that takes matters into his own hands but realistically, that's not enough to change the status quo either. There is no solution just like how you can't tell most men to just date overweight women unless they really want that. There's no solution to this issue just like there's no solution to capi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:20 PM
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I didn't say that he started underwater welding right away. He started welding, mostly the compactors behind big stores like Wal-Mart and what-not, and then transitioned to underwater welding over time. He was welding within 2 months though as opposed to having 2+ years left of his 4 year comp-sci degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:04 PM
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Here's an example, a study says that 60% of men in their 20s are having trouble with romantic relationships. Another study could say that 70% of men above the age of 35 are in a relationship. I don't think the first study is a cause for concern, just sounds like men have to take time to work on themselves, their careers, their financial standing, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:02 PM
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Sure I get what you're saying but on the flip side, people also need to do more research into the sample sizes of these studies as well. Plenty of studies are biased or the conclusions made from them are obviously made from someone with an ulterior motive in mind. I've lived throughout the US east coast and it's pretty normal to see couples of varying attractive levels everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:50 PM
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I live in NYC and there's so many odd looking couples on the streets and in the public parks. Plenty of dudes that are not the most attractive, seen plenty of neckbeards who are with nerdy women all the time. If you're not in NYC or another city that's mostly pedestrians then look in your grocery stores or Wal-mart. Plenty of odd looking couples there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:27 PM
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Ugly people don't want to date other ugly people. That's kinda obvious since what's the point of dating someone that doesn't turn you on. It just leads to being in a dead bedroom imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:04 PM
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I don't think anyone chooses those jobs voluntarily. For example, I know an underwater welder. He went to school for computer science but was unable to get his degree when his firstborn came so he started welding because it paid well and he could start asap. Same with coal miners or any other hard labor or even enlisting in the military. I went to a poor rural high school and almost every guy went into the Army.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:56 PM
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Sounds like they just see you as a good friend. You can be a good friend and a terrible choice for a romantic partner. I wouldn't date half the women in my friend group but they're always fun and exciting to hang out with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:46 PM
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Kinda reminds me of overweight guys who don't want overweight women. I know plenty of overweight guys at work who think their money is enough to get them an instagram model.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:28 PM
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I'd take the struggles of a billionaire any day on the planet. That's not how the world works though. Fight your own battles instead of worrying about others. The grass is always greener on the other side.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:27 PM
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People also believe that they can change or "fix" others. Had an ex who thought she could just change my gaming habits.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:25 PM
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I hope OP just casually forgot to mention that they're a billionaire.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:15 AM
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Looks can also be improved. Not saying you're going to go from unattractive to becoming an Instagram model but you can definitely go from a 2 to a 5 with some work. Plenty of people have glow ups. Get braces/contacts/decent haircut/grow a beard/get in the gym/fix your diet/hire a stylist/visit the dermatologist/etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:17 PM
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I know if I am not eye to eye with a man claiming to be my height he’s full of shit. Dude could just have a 5head.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 05:26 PM
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I live in NYC, I know I'll never own a house here so when I want to buy a house, I know I'll have to move. Like I said, location matters. I was looking at houses when interest rates were low in Atlanta. Big metro area, houses in the outskirts for around 400k-500k. Sure it's a big move but if I want a house then that's an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:29 AM
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Let me guess, you're also a part of Antiwork. If it's your dream to have a nice home with a yard, that's more than doable for most people. Depends on how much of a priority you make it and location you want. Don't go expecting a nice home in a big metro area for example, since those go for half a million at least. It's also going to be a 30 year mortgage too, most likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 06:52 PM
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If I remember correctly, I think I gave you some advice. Some of it may have sounded harsh too but it was honest haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 07:12 AM
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Being honest gets you labelled as an asshole. I usually sugarcoat everything unless it's someone that I'm extremely close with, like my brother. If my brother is asking me for advice, I'll give him the blunt truth. But if it's some random, I'm not about to deal with some meltdown because people can't take things objectively. I used to be honest with more people but I'd get called an asshole. "Man, I'm having trouble with dates, do you have any advice?" "Yeah, you can try dressing better. I'll go…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 11:40 PM
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Just don't date betas, problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 10:24 PM
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Eh, I generally don't introduce women to my friends until we're exclusive and I don't become exclusive until after we've had sex. I have introduced women to friends if I happened to meet a friend while I was on a date with her but that's a pretty rare occurrence in a big city.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 10:23 PM
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It's nice but at the same time, it's the norm in my culture. It would probably even be offensive if I denied my mom the opportunity because she'd probably feel left out within her friend group. If anything, she's the one more excited about my future children than I am. I always get asked about grandchildren during holidays when I see her lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:08 PM
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Others in the wider society think all sorts of things, you have to learn how to filter. Otherwise you're going to think the election was stolen, the UFOs are in Area 51, and all sorts of other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:20 PM
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A lot has to do with culture and the way we were raised.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:18 PM
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We all have our own cultures though, even if we all grew up in the same country. It'd be hard for me to raise children with someone who I don't see eye to eye with, culturally. For example, in my culture, my mom would move in with us when we have children so that we both can work while my mom takes care of the kids. It's happened to all my cousins who have children, my aunts move in and help, generally until the kids start school. Some women are against having their MiL living with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:15 PM
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That still accounts for less than 1% of 1% of the world's population. Still a boogeyman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 11:50 AM
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I mean he's married now, he dated and then got married 4 years after we graduated.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 10:46 PM
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Who said anything about dating? I'm talking about fucking as a ONS
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 10:47 AM
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The point is that even looks might not be needed as long as you're not a deformed midget. Looks are only heavily weighted on the apps because it's literally based on pictures, nobody cares about your bio if you're unattractive. I pull more women at clubs than I do on apps because I'm not a white 6'2 model. Easier to stand out if I can display non-physical traits like confidence/charisma/speech/etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 12:25 AM
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Can't beat an SEC school party, I don't care for college sports besides being an excuse to drink lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 12:13 AM
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Nah, we hosted parties in our apartment dorm freshman year at an SEC school.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 11:11 PM
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I'd say most Stacys don't chase, they just make it easier for you to chase them. Still gotta put in the leg work.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 08:27 PM
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This doesn't mean that short and less handsome dudes don't fuck though. My roommate in college fucked a lot even though he's 5'5 and average face. Dude was very charismatic and had success in person and didn't use OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 08:00 PM
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Some parents may not be comfortable with their child traveling to certain areas or far away. At least with the state boundary, it narrows it down a lot. Imagine if your child went to Hawaii for vacation and there happened to be an issue or accident, not everyone can just afford a last minute flight to Hawaii or anywhere cross country.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 05:00 PM
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I can see the intent behind it but yeah, it's annoying if the ex is spiteful.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 04:49 PM
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When a parent has physical custody of the child and wants to take the child out of the State of New York, the parent must get approval from the New York family court to do so or get consent from the non-custodial parent. Problems may arise when the non-custodial says no and the custodial parent takes the child outside the state anyway. The custodial parent could find themselves in violation of the custody order and could face fines, penalties or jail time. https://www.nydivorcefirm.com/happens-p…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 04:24 PM
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Sounds like you're naive is all, I'm 29. I've seen the annoyances of dating single parents because I went to high school in the poor rural south. So many single parents, so I saw that there are some good ones and other not so good ones. People who make the choice to have a child as a teenager or early 20s, don't tend to make the best decisions. I'd almost compare dealing with an ex to credit card debt. Do people figure it out and deal with credit card debt? Sure. Do I want to deal with credit ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 03:50 PM
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Sounds like you didn't date them for long or just got lucky and didn't have to deal with a crazy ex. Imagine you and your partner wanted to go to Disney World for Winter Vacation with their child (your step child) but you couldn't because their ex said only if you take the ex too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 03:27 PM
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I haven't looked into steroids because I don't need them. I think I have a natural above average testosterone level, although it's not what it used to be at 22 now that I'm 29 haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 03:22 PM
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I personally hate a home gym. I'd only have a home gym if I could afford one with machines too. I don't want just a squat rack and dumbbells haha. Gimme a leg press machine, cable machine, calf raise machine, leg curls, leg extensions, etc. I think a home gym is great for just building raw strength but it's not as good for hypertrophy compared to a box gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 03:18 PM
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Majority of dark skinned women are not celebrities who have been able to become multi-millionaires. To be fair though, neither of them are dark-skinned, I'd classify both of them as light skin. Dark skin is more like Shaunette Wilson.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 03:14 PM
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Gotta do hip thrusts if you want the booty, all the women at my gym, hog the squat racks to do their hip thrusts.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 03:09 PM
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Your level didn't go up a lot as you hit 30, their level went down a lot when they had a child. Single men don't want single mothers. It's like computers, you had to be rich to afford a computer in the 80s. Nowadays, everyone and their grandma has a computer because the price of computers went down just like the attractiveness of women who have a child goes down.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 03:06 PM
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It's not just Gary, it's also Tom who just stares at people and making them uncomfortable. Just because Tom doesn't make a scene, no one wants to be stared at like a zoo animal. I got dudes at the gym staring at me and I'm a man, I can't imagine how bad it is for women. I used to have people staring at me growing up because I was the only Asian person (besides my family) in a 10 mile radius, only one at my high school. (No offense to Toms out there, just a random name).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 03:00 PM
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I'm not saying the campaigns are targeted at Autistic people specifically, but at guys who can't take a hint. Autistic people are just a subset of that. I've met plenty of Autistic people who push boundaries because they can't read social cues. Since I work in software, it seems this industry is full of autistic people since we just have to interact with a computer for most of the time. Like I'll give a cue that I don't want to talk about their day anymore but I can't exactly say it out loud bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 01:26 PM
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I think that mostly comes down to autism and the inability to read social cues. I've seen it all the time, where guys can't take a hint and that's what the campaigns are about. If you go up to a woman at the bar and she's avoiding eye contact or facing her body away from you, it's a sign to go away. But people with autism are unable to take the hint. Don't be a Joey lol. https://www.reddit.com/r/therewasanattempt/comments/11y05h8/to_dance_with_the_girl/
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 01:12 PM
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What country are you in? If it's Australia or the UK, then you're still getting hit because it's Rupert Murdoch, that's the problem. He makes money off creating outrage. He owns The Sun and The Times in the UK (and owns FoxNews/NY Post).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 12:54 PM
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I'm not talking about the kids, I'm talking about the other parent. I've heard enough horror stories from my friends who deal with this, that I never want to deal with it personally. My friend couldn't take his son to Disney World because the mother was spiteful and would only allow him if he also paid for her to go too. Keep in mind that they haven't been together for 8 years. He's already remarried someone else, kinda weird to pay and have your ex come along too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 12:47 PM
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Don't go believing Fox News and NY Post for everything, they're just entertainment companies. If I believed NY Post, I'd have to stay in my NYC apartment all day and never leave because of the "rising crime wave". Or that shutting down drag races will be more important than gun laws for our children's safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 12:40 PM
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Most people don't want to deal with baby momma/baby daddy drama. It's like another person in your relationship, at least until the child is 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 12:26 PM
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So no suggestions on better places to live?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:02 PM
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I think it's terminally online people who read about the #MeToo movement, where dudes like Cosby/Weinstein are going on a SA spree and catch charges, and think it's the norm. I remember that there was a female Twitch streamer who tried to say that a pro LOL player, SAed her and it backfired hard. https://www.talkesport.com/news/yourprincess-quit-twitch-rivals-drama-explained/
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 10:27 PM
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Just look at this thread, plenty of people are making it seem like you have no chance unless you're a model or that you'll catch a sexual harassment charge. I've done my own fair share of approaches and have never worried about getting a charge. Maybe it's because I can read social cues rather well but I've seen some dudes in clubs who can't read the room. Even then, it's just a rough rejection and people move on. I think you'd have to take it pretty far to get a SA charge like straight up gropi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:29 PM
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If it works, it works. I've seen more success from random lines than I do from giving compliments or telling a joke. What's cringe imo is when dudes either use "Your beautiful" or the "What do you want, a joke or a fun fact?".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:07 PM
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Fun fact, I had it happen to me unprompted. I had an OkCupid account from way back circa 2012. Didn't use it for awhile and when I decided to check it out again for shits and giggles, I noticed it got hacked lol. I had to recover the account through my email and found that whoever hacked it, had changed it to a Russian woman. Man, the inbox was full haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:50 PM
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That's why you gotta come up with weird quirky lines imo. I've sent a few that had success because they just elicit interest and a need to respond. For example, during the summer heat wave, Man it's hot, we should try cooking eggs on the sidewalk. Got a fair amount of responses just because it wasn't about them but rather a random goofy opener. Most women have already heard all the compliment openers, mines opens differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:45 PM
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Where else do you recommend moving too? Every place has its pros and cons.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:40 PM
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That's what I'm trying to say. I'm no model either, I'm 5'10, very fit, average face and still managed to have fun over the summer when I just moved here last spring.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:10 PM
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Sounds like you need to move then, it's hard to find anything in a small city. I used to live in a college town of 150k people and now live in NYC, it's night and day difference. Of course, you have to level up too but then there's so many more people to choose from. I'm curious what your profile looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:00 PM
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Next thing you're going to be surprised about is that rich billionaires still play video games instead of just hustlin all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 12:31 AM
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Oops, I thought that was the entire point of this sub. It's okay though if you don't have a rebuttal besides personal attacks. My cave is rather cozy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 12:27 AM
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So you agree that intentionally having one night stands are a horrible practice then? If you have to ask this then it already shows how you really feel, if you think objectifying and ONS are the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:28 PM
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Once you open the jar, it's very hard to reseal it. Imagine your mom said that her favorite child was your sibling. No matter how many times she says that she didn't mean it, you're always going to have it at the back of your mind. Same thing in this case, she's going to wonder if you're only her friend because you're biding your time for another opportunity in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:16 PM
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The irony is pretty thick. So approaching somebody as a person you only want to have sex with is objectifying, but it's not objectifying to have sex with a person that you are only interested in having sex with? I don't follow. I just explained it as simple as I could. It's objectifying to approach someone as a person you only want to have sex with if you only see them as a walking fleshlight. It's not objectifying to have sex with a person that you are only interested in having sex with if you …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:10 PM
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LMFAO, am I really getting advice from someone who's had zero success? Here's the thing, I treat everyone as a person, doesn't matter if they're a service worker, if they're a homeless person, even if they did wrong to me. I don't treat women as a walking fleshlight, more so I see them as something more than just a hole. Maybe I've had enough sex that I want something more in the bedroom. I talk during sex, maybe that's weird but I can't stand sex that's only moaning and silence. In order to do …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 10:04 PM
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That's the entire point of this sub. Purple Pill DEBATE. It's not called PurplePillCirclejerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 10:00 PM
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I think he hit the nail on the head. I (28M USA) have had only one relationship in my life and I am still a virgin. How the fuck do i start hooking up with women at this age?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 09:47 PM
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I get that but what I'm saying it that it's become so much a norm that it's hard to separate people who are happy to split vs people who end up thinking you're not into them because you asked to split. If I'm already going to invest hours into meeting up, I'm not going to throw the date because I didn't want to pay $50. It's like if a guy stops seeing a woman after sex. Who knows if that's because he just wanted sex or because there were other incompatibilities. For instance, one time I ended it…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:33 PM
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I know what he's saying but since the guy paying on first dates has become the norm, it starts to send mixed signals to women. If I ask to split, maybe she thinks that I don't like her that much (had that happen before but thankfully she went on another date haha).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 01:23 PM
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I value my time though. My contracting rate is $200/hour. A dinner is like an extra $50 if I'm paying for both VS splitting. It's not that big of a deal for me personally if I'm already investing time. It reminds me of when I used to always wait on sales to buy something I really wanted. Nowadays if I really want something, I don't mind paying full price instead of having to check the price everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:59 PM
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Honestly, I love when a woman offers to split but I'm not going to ask her to do it. It's the offer or that she pulls out her wallet, that I like. I don't mind that much about paying but I hate when women don't even offer. I come from a culture where people will fight for the bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:19 PM
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Same reason men complain about having to pay for dates but continue to do it. I'm not a fan of paying for dates but I do it because it's become the norm. Sure, I could always ask to split but I'd rather just pay instead of getting ghosted because I didn't pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:45 PM
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What about penguins?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:35 PM
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Lmao, I sometimes still get looks from people in public when I'm on a date with white women. It's not as bad as it was last year when I lived in the South, since I live in NYC now. I can't imagine what it'd be like in the 80s.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:11 PM
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Unless said gold medal was from a blowjob competition ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:45 PM
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She's a 4/10 for me. I'm not attracted to dark skin nor very short women. I can go as low as 5'2 but pref 5'4 at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:43 PM
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There's a difference between not good looking and not terrible looking. As long as you got a good face and able to talk a good game, you can score on Tinder. I'm sure most early 40s are not in shape either so that's a plus. I'm 29 and a lot of people my age are not going to the gym. I can't imagine how bad it is at 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:40 PM
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We're not talking about heterosexual relationships specifically. We're talking about using older rich men for resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:37 PM
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Nope, that's like a strip club without the lap dance
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:31 PM
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You're just proving my point even more with your response. You're annoying because you come off as someone who thinks they're smarter than everyone else, so much that you have to literally explain it everytime. When I said no offence, I meant it as honestly as I could. It's the same context as if someone is 4'10 and I said you're short, no offence. No one likes a know it all, they're annoying. Hence why the meme, "Well, aksually......" With the nerd glasses became a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:13 AM
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Yeah, just cut my dating options by 2/3rds. Just because civil rights act and MLK happened, doesn't mean shit since we're still dealing with racism even today.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:51 AM
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Yeah, I'm not giving up a $20 or $50 bill. I usually just carry 3 $20 bills on me for emergencies. I use my phone and cards for almost everything but sometimes some places only take cash here in NYC. As for my experiences with panhandlers, it falls in line with your experience. When I did offer to get a guy some food in a gas station, he said he'd take cash instead because the gas station down the road had better options. Yeah, I wasn't born yesterday and gonna call bullshit on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:46 AM
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Eh, I'll take how it is now because I'd probably be lynched as a POC who dates all races of women including white women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:42 AM
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Get called crazy and you could end up in the psych ward depending on the context, it's not uncommon.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:41 AM
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I didn't say that sarcastically, you just give off a vibe of someone who tries to explain everything just like now. "Well ackshually, ...." I don't tend to sugarcoat my words on here so I called it how I see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:13 AM
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They're not equivalent in your opinion but I wouldn't want to be called either. They're both just as bad imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:06 AM
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God, I hope you didn't try to explain to the woman like you're doing here. No wonder she threw a drink in your face, you're annoying, no offense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:59 AM
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Has anyone who brings up 50 years ago, actually lived through that time period? This is beginning to sound like some rose colored glasses experience. It's just like when vanilla WoW was re-released, people had such high expectations and only ended up being disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:49 AM
0

I forgot it was a contest.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:47 AM
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I mean you're the one who took it literally and elaborated on beggars so I followed your lead. When I said "Everyone walks past the beggar everyday.", that was figure of speech meant to say that people only care about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:42 AM
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I see plenty of female beggars here in Brooklyn. People still walk past them. I don't even carry small bills so I've never put money in their buckets.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:34 PM
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You want some advice, go subscribe to a few youtubers that I watched for awhile when I was going through a 5 year improvement phase. Teachingmenfashion, Jose is great for a wide variety of advice. alpha m., same thing, Aaron is great for just a wide variety of advice. My dad died when I was in school, I didn't have a father figure who taught me the ropes to being a man and modern dating. Some of the advice they give might not apply to you but there is a lot of good advice in there. For example, …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:30 PM
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Do you guys just live on Instagram/TikTok/Twitter? I only use Reddit and I can choose the content I consume. People with no profile pics can trash men all they want, I'm not offended. I used to care as an angsty teenager but I learned that it doesn't affect my life at all. The #metoo movement had no effect on me. Dunno what legal bills you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:13 PM
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Let me rephrase that for you. majority of people don’t and will never have other people’s best interests in mind Human nature is selfish. Everyone walks past the beggar everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:08 PM
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Sure, that's why porn is such a great tool. I get horny just as much as the next guy, even in relationships, I'd still jack off. Some men feel shame for jacking off but I embrace it. It's been a part of my life since I was 13, not just gonna give it up but I have taken breaks in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 10:45 PM
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I didn't change the subject, it's called an analogy. No one cares about other people complaining in the first place, it's not just men. If a woman was complaining about always getting used for sex, I wouldn't lose a second of sleep. Second of all, no one cares about irrelevant people complaining. I don't care if people complain about my choices, they're irrelevant. Had some people say that I should work more because I decided to take 2 months off work since I could afford it. In their minds, I w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 10:40 PM
1

Lmfao my bad for not thinking like a caveman. I'm taking everyone and locking us in a room and calling the cops. What good is me going downstairs to die, going to do for anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 10:18 PM
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I mean it's like a poor guy complaining about Tesla prices. Tesla is not going to drop their prices to $25000 so that he can afford it. He's better off buying a Toyota.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 10:17 PM
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I can be kind to a woman and still not want to fuck her. I helped some lady carry her baby stroller down the steps because no one else was nearby. Just because I don't want to fuck her, doesn't mean I think she doesn't matter as a human being. Why do so many people on here equate sex with human worth when they're both separate things. I treat service workers like I'd treat my friends but I wouldn't date one. They don't matter to me in terms of dating market place.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:52 PM
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You finish off with "life is unfair, deal with it" so if guys collectively decide they've had enough of the dysfunctional bullshit and tell women it's time to go back to traditional gender roles, whether they want to or not, is it fair game to say the exact same thing back to you? You can't force anyone to go back to traditional gender roles. I'm a man and I'm not stupid enough to just put my life on the line if there's a house intruder like how other men feel like they have too. I don't let tra…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:47 PM
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I mean if we go off my hourly rate, I'm already investing over $200 in time costs, what's an easy dinner going to cost me? I gotta eat anyways. I date women who usually have high paying careers so I doubt they're coming out just for a dinner. If so, I guess I'm paying for their company so it's whatever. Worst case, I can test out some jokes and small talk on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:33 PM
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As men like to say, "Pick Better". If I'm paying for a date, I'm going into it knowingly. I don't date college students anymore because that's usually the demographic that will use you for a meal and the fact that they're too immature for me. I'm 29 and the lowest I go is 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 08:24 PM
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When you source nypost, I know you're not being serious then. According to them, I shouldn't be able to leave my NYC apartment because of all the crime here. Yet I go out every single day and feel more safe here than I did in a red state where everyone owned a gun. NYPost is FoxNews in another format, same owner. Same owner who's getting sued right now for defamation about a stolen election in the US lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 08:10 PM
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People with options, that's who. I do it too as a man because I don't get invested into someone right off the bat. I used to get invested early but it just made me look desperate. I could do 3 dates in a day with different women if I had nothing else planned and wasn't dating anyone exclusively.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 08:06 PM
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People always call my diet boring but that doesn't mean they think I'm boring. I eat chicken thighs, white rice and cabbage A LOT, at least 6 times every week. If someone called my testosterone levels boring, I wouldn't take offense either since I'm not on TRT.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:05 PM
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Congratulations, you just figured out basic human nature. Most people don't choose to become better, they do it because they have to, in order to get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:50 PM
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I'm curious what kind of man cares about half that shit, like are they in their 50s or something? I couldn't care less if my wife can knit, sow on a button, garden, etc. Doesn't have to cook from scratch either. Cleaning, we both can do. Like do these men just go from their mom's house to their wife's house?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:48 PM
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I can see it if the man is making millions a year. But there's not enough millionaire men to go around. I make over 200k/year and still split with the women I date. Nothing wrong with taking turns on a meal, it's not like I'm making her pay for a car. I date women who have a career though so maybe that's the difference. I stopped dating college students.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:40 PM
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Maybe read my entire comment, I said there's a risk still. Obviously they can break.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 12:25 PM
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Sounds stupid to me but if it works for other people then more power to them. I'm not looking for a wife who wants to be a SAHM, she has to work too. If we're divorced or I die, then she can take care of herself/the kids. I lost my dad while I was still in school and my mom was able to take care of us still. Why would I ever pay my wife because our children got good grades? Its OUR child lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:19 PM
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Sure, there's a risk to almost anything worthwhile. You can avoid everything if you want. I wear a seatbelt when I drive just like I avoid putting my mouth down there when it's a ONS.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:17 PM
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Driving a car could lead to death though. So many auto accidents every year. If not death then a shit ton of medical bills and chronic injury.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:11 PM
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I mean it's pretty common in my personal life to see, so to speak "power couples". Doctor husband, lawyer wife. Business owner couples. Two white collar careers. It's not typical in the average population though but my income places me in the top 3%.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:06 PM
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Still doesn't protect assets earned afterwards during a marriage. It's still basically a pre-nup that you forgot to do before marriage. I can't get a post nuptial that will protect 10-15 years of my future earnings. I don't have rich parents so it's not like I'm trying to protect an inheritance.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:01 PM
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Eh, I bring my own condoms and don't raw dog. Sure there's a risk but there's a risk to driving a car too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 03:33 PM
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Prenuptials don't do shit for assets earned during marriage. It's in the name, pre nuptial so assets brought into the marriage not during it. I have around mid six figures in assets. That's nothing compared to what I would earn in my lifetime. I'm not stupid to think that I'm someone special and will never get a divorce. I hope it's forever but if she turns into a meth addict, then yeah that's a divorce right there. I'm obviously going to hedge my bet by vetting them. All of my high earning frie…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 03:29 PM
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Yeah I'd absolutely care about my wife making her own income. What's gonna happen if we divorce and it's only my money that we split? I make over 200k and will make more with 3-5 years more experience. I'm not looking to be the sole breadwinner. I don't want a SAHMom for a partner. The house is just one expense, let's not forget children are expensive as fuck. I don't make millions a year so maybe it's different for them but women are not all dating the same 0.25% of men who make over a million …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 03:19 PM
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Relevant name haha. So many BJ's have been lackluster so even if they do give head, there's no guarantee that it's any good.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 03:15 PM
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I'm sure they don't care about attracting the average guy making 50k. I think a woman having a good career is attractive because I don't want to buy a million dollar house in NYC on my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 02:48 PM
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I don't expect head or eat pussy for a ONS. Don't know them well enough to put my mouth there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 02:43 PM
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It's all about physical traits now. Plenty of engineers make six figures and can't even get a date now. Good luck if you're bald, short, ugly even if you got a higher income. Back in the day, it was just having an income.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 02:41 PM
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Even on dating apps, you still have the initial in-person communication. You don't just become a couple off the apps, you still have to date in person. Sure, you can't show charisma, intelligence, non-tangibles on dating apps, that's why everyone is shallow to an extent on dating apps because pictures and prompts are the only things you can go off of. "You don't take a good picture, so you must not be a good partner"? Or I thought your written answers were not creative enough, you're not good en…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 07:39 PM
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If all you have to go off of is pictures and prompts then dating apps are definitely supposed to be tailored towards your audience. You can't compare dating apps to in person dating because there's a huge mismatch in options. Would you compare working a remote job to working in a coffee shop? I can go to "work" from my pc, butt naked and morning breath and musky as hell. Good luck doing that at the coffee shop.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 07:06 PM
1

Just look at current teenagers and youll see the outcome. Bunch of kids addicted to TikTok and YouTube shorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:03 PM
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What's funny and what I've witnessed time and time again is that as soon as an ugly man has any success, he does a complete 180. Before the relationship, he's all about he'll be the best partner and not another bad boy. Then once he has a relationship, his attitude changes because he thinks that since he's attracted one person now, he's become attractive and can get other women too. Ego is a dangerous thing lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 12:29 AM
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I went to a big state school and had a very diverse friend group in college. The engineering majors were the most noticeable but even gen Ed was full of guys who looked like they rolled out of bed. My brother is able to survive, he's not going to die because he has clothes all over his floor or doesn't vacuum/mop. He's not going to die because he relies on the meal plans at school. He's not going to die because he wore the same shirt for 10 days in a row either. Survive is such an exaggeration b…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 07:29 PM
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Lmao, so it's my family's fault that 5 out of every 6 personal bathrooms I went to, had poop stains everywhere right? Also my family's fault that all these guys live off either meal plans or frozen meals because they can't cook right? Must be my family's fault that these guys can't even shower and fix their greasy hair too. I was an engineering major so I've seen a lot of nappy greasy hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 07:13 PM
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Where did I say anything about gender roles or something being solely on men? Stop making a strawman pointing back at women. I'm sure they don't all meet the bar either. My entire point is that the average man is pretty clueless when it comes to taking care of himself. I'll admit that I ate a lot of frozen meals when I moved out as well. Hungry mans, frozen wings, microwave pasta, you name it. It got better once I started watching the Food Network though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 07:11 PM
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I didn't say shit about gender roles, I'm saying the average man didn't learn to cook or clean while growing up. My brother didn't even learn how to use the washing machine until he moved out to college. Dude can't cook to save his life either so lived off the meal plan. Now he can make eggs and rice and boil some frozen vegetables. That's about it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 07:05 PM
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You ever gone into the freshmen college dorms? It's usually a mess lmao. I've seen dudes who don't even unpack their shit and live out of cardboard boxes that are still messy. Let's not talk about all the shit stained toilets I saw when I had to use someone else's bathroom. I'd be very surprised if the average man can cook a balanced meal and not just a frozen meal you pour in the pan and heat up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 07:00 PM
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Sadly it's becoming common for toddlers to get their own tablet. My nephew is not even 2 yet, turns 2 in September and he has his own hand me down iPad for watching YouTube kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 04:47 PM
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There's always renting and even in NYC, you can get an apartment with roommates for $500 if you go to the outer boroughs like Queens or outter Brooklyn. Sure it's not going to be some gentrified place like Williamsburg.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 04:30 PM
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I always like to point out the gym. Everyone wants to reap the rewards but no one wants to work for it. Look at the gym on January 1st compared to January 16th. People are easy to give up. My engineering 101 class had around 200 students in a huge lecture hall. My senior class had 17 students. I had to drop my first calc class and retake it the next semester because I couldn't keep up. Then had to take calc 2 over the summer so I wouldn't fall behind. Shit happens, you gotta deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 04:17 PM
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Tap water is included with my rent. Might add a cheap drink mix if I'm feeling spicy. I used to even drink Dr Thunder as a college student lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 04:06 PM
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No idea why people invest into ETFs when they're broke. You're going to earn like 5% of $1000 a year on avg but that money could go into improving yourself so much more if used elsewhere. Compare sticking $1000 and making $50 a year VS using that for some sort of career booster. Even small things like spending $20 for a professional resume review can go a long way. Or maybe a $100 suit for interviews, maybe even a better pair of shoes or better nutrition. If I could go back my college days, I'd …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 09:09 PM
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Not everyone can grow facial hair that looks good. I have to shave because my beard would be patchy when I grow it out. Literally a weird goatee with strays on my jaw and cheeks lol. I blame it on East Asian genetics though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 09:06 PM
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There are people who are terminally online which is the sad part. People who don't bother to "touch grass", so all of their opinions are based on what they read in some corner of the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 02:52 PM
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Sexual Dimorphism. One gender is judged for too many partners, the other is judged for lack of partners. Same way a chick with nice tits is attractive but a dude walking around with man boobs is unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 02:47 PM
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Same reason why the men on here are upset about being judged for being a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 01:09 PM
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The juiciest asses I've seen are on chubby women who have their fat in all the right places. The best looking asses to me though are usually gym bunnies with their nice toned ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 01:29 AM
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Plenty of men I knew from high school were but I also went to high school in the bible belt. I was still in college while my classmates were posting baby pictures on Facebook.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 12:34 AM
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You mean like everything else ever? Every marvel movie you watch? Every rap music you listen to? Every fictional book you read? So now you're moving the goalposts because you can't refute what I said about Iron Man being different from Thor OR each of the Harry Potter books. As for FNF, just because other people are repetitive, doesn't mean you have to be repetitive. I watch plenty of food travel videos like Mark Weins and it's always at least another new experience in each video. I watch some v…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 12:13 AM
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I'm talking about literally the same shit, same stories, same talking points, same questions, etc. At least with a Marvel movie, there's at least another superhero and plot line. Watching Iron Man vs watching Thor is still a different experience. Each of the Harry Potter books also has a different plot line. Meanwhile, watching F&F today vs the episode from 4 months ago is the same thing regurgitated. I don't even have to watch the most recent episode to know that it probably had them using the …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 11:42 PM
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It reminds me of when a male high school student gets raped by his female teacher. All the guys in the comment are the first to downplay it and say shit like "I wish my teacher had sex with me" or "He's so lucky, he won the lottery".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 11:38 PM
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Yeah the hosts and the guy that does the cameras are weird as fuck. I don't think any of them have any success with women unless they're paying for pussy, no cap. They were even exposed for being on that sugar baby site.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 11:29 PM
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I'd say it's based on similar values and upbringing. Countries like Sweden are very egalitarian, whereas in China and Russia, they're more traditional. In China, the guy needs to have a car/house/career before he can really think about marriage. I'm sure that's a lot more attractive because of similar values.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 11:25 PM
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Not gonna lie, I know plenty of gym bros who want a woman with a fat ass. You're not going to find many petite women with a fat ass so of course they're going to go for the chubby ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 09:21 PM
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I honestly don't know why guys watch their podcast. It's literally the same content on repeat, see it once and you've seen it all. It's the same anecdotes over and over again. I saw a couple of their episodes just to see what everyone was talking about. It's like every episode, Myron talks about the women in a candy store anecdote like it's some huge gotcha moment lol. I don't think it's necessarily hard to poke holes in their views either but they only bring on club girls. They bring on some wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 08:54 PM
1

I get that but if we're going off the US census data, there are less than 4% of men who are under 5'4. Like I said, I acknowledge that dating is going to be hard for some people but most people are not that height. Just like it's hard to date for someone who has a disfigured face or missing a limb. The exceptions are exceptional for a reason. Most people have some actionable steps that they can make, in order to become more attractive. Nowadays you can even get height surgery if you can afford i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 06:25 PM
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I can see where they're coming from. I was talking to a woman last summer who was already planning baby names and marriage after 2 dates. I was like damn, chill out, I haven't even met your friends or family yet. She was 28 and really thinking about timelines but I definitely wasn't on the same wavelength.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 05:20 PM
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If showing up is all a guy expects from the courting phase then he's probably someone with low self-esteem. I've been there before, I just wanted a girlfriend because I thought it'd change my own value. I expect a woman to do much more than just show up. If she can't hold a conversation, I'm moving on. If she constantly checks her phone on a date, I'm moving on. If she can't even at least offer to split the bill, I'm moving on. I always pay for the first date but I hate when it's just expected o…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 05:14 PM
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Sounds like a blackpill mentality. Sure they can just show up and that's enough for a dude that has no standards. But who wants a person with no standards? Sounds miserable if you ask me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 05:07 PM
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I get that, I have friends that have dating issues too but they're not really the epitome of a person that I'd want to date. Dudes who wear the same clothes for years and put no effort into looking great. Dudes who give up on their fitness goals after a month because their body is sore. Dudes who can't even manage to stick to a meal plan because fast food tastes so good which usually results in an unhealthy body. The cool thing is that I don't have to date them, we just play videogames together …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 04:58 PM
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It's not uncommon though for fathers to be like that especially when I was growing up in the 90s and early 2000s.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:52 PM
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Steroids don't do shit if you don't even hit the gym haha. I had a friend who thought he could just drink protein powder and take steroids and he'd become jacked while playing videogames.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 01:46 PM
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Plenty of dudes on here "argue for their friend", they say they don't have any dating trouble but their friends do. It's so weird how common it is on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 01:43 PM
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To be fair, doesn't that really depend on MOS? Like if you're a barber or mechanic, do you really need to pass a physical test? I can understand if you're infantry or other combat role. My barber is a dude in his 50s that can probably do a couple pushups but man does he cut hair well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 11:36 PM
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Is it that or is it also that fathers actively choose not to be the primary caregiver? When I was growing up, my dad basically always told me to ask my mom for anything. If I needed my report card signed, I had to ask mom. If I needed new clothes, I had to tell mom. If I needed more lunch money, guess who I had to get it from? Mom. My Dad was pretty absent in a caregiver role, he was just the breadwinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 11:35 PM
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I guess /u/Miserable-Ruin-3020 decided to shut up instead of pay up haha
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 10:02 PM
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Eh, I heard they're going to China, Mandarin (China's main language) is even taught in Russian schools. Also there's a shortage of women in China so they solve each other's problems. China's dictator even went to Russia this week to see Putin.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:47 PM
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Good luck getting in or out of Russia/Ukraine right now with the war.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:24 PM
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I can just say that I'm a financial investor. At that point, I would investing around 2-3 million dollars and living off the profit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:23 PM
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No, I'm Chinese but grew up in the States.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:21 PM
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No shit, of course it can't measure body fat. It's used to track weight status. How exactly would BMI even be able to tell someone if they're 15% or 20% body fat? You'd have to use calipers or a Dexa scan. Just because it doesn't apply to the exceptional 10%, doesn't mean its flawed. It's just like the Medicaid means test. It only tests for annual income so people with $2 million dollar trust funds would still qualify if they don't withdraw over $12500 a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:16 PM
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Mining as in working in a mine? I don't mind the engineering job because it's pretty chill. 40 hours/week with good benefits, can't really argue with that. Good mental stimulation too, of course there are bad days too but mostly good days. Name another job field I could transition into without going back to school or working manual labor and that even remotely competes with 200k/year. I'm on track to retire before 40 at this rate so it seems the wisest choice right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:53 PM
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Furthermore, studies have shown that BMI levels correlate with body fat and with future health risks. High BMI predicts future morbidity and death. Therefore, BMI is an appropriate measure for screening for obesity and its health risks. That's from the link you posted. It never said that BMI "is only good as a guide to how a population is doing". You just decided to interpret it that way. As for me, yeah I got some fat which is why I'm cutting. It's not like I'm cutting because I want to cut mus…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:48 PM
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Like I said above, BMI is a useful measurement for like 90%+ of the population. Are there exceptions? Sure. Is it delusional to think that BMI doesn't work for over 90%+ of people? I certainly think so. Most people are not walking around with mostly muscle. I mean even take myself for reference, I hit overweight BMI but I'm cutting down to 170 in the next 2 months. I'd be back to normal BMI and still have muscle.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 06:56 PM
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Even manual labour workers can be overweight. Just because they work out all day doesn't mean shit if they still got a massive beer gut. I see plenty of construction workers who look borderline pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 06:41 PM
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I mean I mentioned obese in my comment which is like 30 BMI. But the difference though is that I've worked out for around 7 years, started at 22 and now I'm 29. How many people do you know who workout for 7 years? Probably not a significant portion of the population. I'd guesstimate around 3-5% if that. BMI is a useful measurement for like 90%+ of the population. It has its uses.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 06:11 PM
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Don't lotto winners end up broke within a year? Hardly the best example of people. I hated my first couple engineering jobs. I can tolerate my current one because the pay is great. No idea how surrounding myself with people who have careers, is 'gold digging'. Sounds like a bit of a reach. We split dinner bills just like any normal friend group. Would I like to quit my job and retire now? Sure. Can I though? No. So I'd rather be working this job over something that pays less and probably has no …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 06:09 PM
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I went to a shit state school in the south. Still had access to the career center and coaching/interview prep.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 05:10 PM
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Let's be honest though, it's 1/3 of women in the clubs. When I go to the clubs, I really don't see that many obese women. I'd say I also find around 1/3 of the women in clubs as attractive too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 05:09 PM
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Really depends on who you surround yourself with. I live in NYC and everyone I know has some sort of white collar office job. Whether it's a banker, engineer, media, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 05:07 PM
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As Ronnie Coleman put it best, everyone wants to be jacked but no one wants to pick up heavy ass weights. I'm all about delayed gratification, spend maybe 30% of my income so I can retire comfortably at 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 04:16 PM
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That's probably just as likely as someone making six figures. Sure it's easy to do if you have discipline. I workout 6 days a week. But if you compare how many people are in the gym in January every year compared to the other 11 months, people don't workout lol. I can't even get a machine in January without waiting. Today there's like 8 other people and 20 open machines.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 02:33 PM
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Yeah they're called Walmart. https://www.google.com/search?client=firefox-b-1-m&biw=360&bih=667&tbm=isch&sa=1&q=walmart+in+china&oq=walmart+in+china&aqs=mobile-gws-lite..0l5#
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 02:06 PM
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Should be even easier to stick out from the pack then. I workout and currently cutting to have visible abs again by summer time. I get a lot more attention now than I did when I was skinny. Went from 5'10 140 lbs to 180 lbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 01:47 PM
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I absolutely choose face over anything else. She could always hit the gym or get tits later on. Can't fix a fucked up face though. Can fix a nose maybe. A lot of times I think women get a boob job for themselves. I know at least 3 couples where the woman got a boob job after marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 01:45 PM
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This is the biggest delusion. Sure, some dudes are muscular but it's less than 10% if not 5% of men who make the cut of obese BMI from muscle. I've worked out in the gym for years and still have a normal BMI at 5'10 and 180 lbs. I'd probably have to jump on roids to hit that obese BMI from muscle. The same people who believe this delusion are the same people who don't want to workout because they're afraid of being too big when in fact, it takes years to hit that stage. You don't just suddenly b…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 01:34 PM
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I know of at least 3 countries that have Walmart; the US, Canada and China. I'm sure there's even more though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 01:29 PM
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I find that you have to bank on other characteristics. My uncle is short (so is the rest of my mom's family) but he's one of the hardest working people I know. He was still working 14 hours a day, 7 days a week up until he turned 52. His wife is the same way, both literally live to work so it was a match. Now they've switched to part-time work after they sold their main business.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 01:24 PM
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I am East Asian (Chinese but I grew up in the US). I've even had blind dates too which is kinda like arranged marriages. I can get set up with someone that would be a good match and we see if we like each other. It's not forced and it's by choice, I usually have good experiences with it. Sometimes you just don't click though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 10:21 AM
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This only works if you're Indian. Otherwise where do you get an arranged marriage as a Midwestern white guy lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 01:28 AM
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It's shifted drastically in even just the last 2-3 years. Before and after pandemic was a pretty big turning point on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 08:33 PM
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I think Asian people see him as half-white but to white Americans, he's just another Asian man. Dude could pass as an ABC (American born Chinese). I just noticed getting some attention when that movie came out compared to maybe 1 match every 2 months before that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 08:31 PM
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Thanks but honestly there was no other option since there's no way my parents could do anything for me when they were struggling on their own. Either I made it or I was homeless basically, so that really lights a fire under one's ass haha. I moved out into the dorms at 17 and never looked back.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 08:27 PM
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I'm a man that managed to accomplish this. Grew up to poor immigrant parents who came to the US as indentured servants. Lived in a 4 bedroom house with 20 other indentured servants while my parents worked 70 hour weeks. I still managed to somehow get a full ride scholarship because I graduated top of my class. Got an engineering degree and now make over 200k/year in NYC after 10 years of experience. I'm nothing special either, I was just told by my mom to focus on school early on. You can either…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 08:20 PM
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How was Henry Golding not attractive in that film? Dude looked good and had money/connections/main character energy/etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 08:16 PM
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It's the mainstream red pill. It's not the red pill from the early 2000s maybe but it's what's become the red pill today. Just like 20 years ago you wouldn't classify a videogame player as an athlete. Nowadays if you're a pro CSGO or LOL player, you're now an Esports Athlete.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 06:07 PM
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I'll believe it when I see it. I think most of those guys are just chronically online and don't have a social life so they resort to parasocial relationships with youtubers. I don't understand why anyone else would pay $100 to post a message on the screen for 5 seconds. It's just like dudes who donate to female twitch streamers or OnlyFans accounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:55 PM
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Most of the red pilled guys I see are ones who got into the red pill because they couldn't get laid. All they do is read or consume the videos but never actually take action. Look at all the men who donate 100s of dollars to Fresh and Fit just to have their message on screen lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:13 PM
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Everyone looks good to someone with beer goggles. Plenty of ugly people get laid at closing time. Not saying she's gonna be a model either but a hole is a hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:09 PM
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This looks like an old study from 2011. I can say as an East Asian man, it has gotten noticeably easier in the last 5 years in getting matches. It basically started whenever that crazy rich Asians movie came out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:07 PM
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What do you do with the rest of your time? Have you thought about using that time to get into a better career? My friend took up truck driving school in the summer of 2021 and he's already making over $70k/year after transitioning from working in fast food. It's not the most glorious job but it's probably the one in highest demand right now. I've had really bad depression in the past so I get it. If you need help though, I'd recommend therapy since I'm not a huge fan of antidepressants.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 01:54 PM
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That's true if you account for the average of men and women. I'm talking about just men, my bad if I didn't make that clear. Do you have any medical disabilities that impact your ability to earn money? https://www.fool.com/the-ascent/research/average-us-income/#u.s.-income-by-gender
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 05:01 PM
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The average person makes like 50k a year. You're telling me you can't even make average? Do you have any medical disabilities?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 10:56 AM
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Honestly you're better off figuring out how to make more money first.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:04 AM
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I don't think lesser of them as a person. They can live their life any way they want, we all go on our path through life. I wouldn't date a slut seriously though if that's what you're asking but that's mostly because we probably have different values. I grew up pretty conservative and have dated a bunch of conservative women in the past. By conservative I don't mean politically but more so lifestyle. For example, most if not all of my past relationships have been pretty low on PDA by mutual choi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:50 AM
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I'd say that's mostly because guys really don't care a lot of the time as long as the woman is attractive enough to him. Beggars can't be choosers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:26 AM
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Personally it really comes down to age imo. If she's under 25 and slept with over 10 people, I'd consider her a slut. If she's 30 and over 20 bodies, that's a slut in my book. Just my opinion though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:23 AM
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Did you even read the article you linked? It reads as some meme case where the guy hired an entertainment lawyer to deal with family court. Also it's a case from over 20 years ago, got anything recent?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 01:13 AM
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It's definitely not legal in the US, no idea where you live though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 01:09 AM
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Society doesn't care that you disagree. Just like a drunk driver doesn't care if you disagree about the risks of driving a car. You can disagree all you want but you're still going to be on the hook for child support. My best friend in high school learned that the hard way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 01:08 AM
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Sure but I've yet to see some guy that's actually put together and have trouble dating. If it's not some visual unattractiveness then it's usually anxiety or low self esteem or just broke/no career. Some are just beyond bitter though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 05:20 PM
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Every woman in this thread is an outlier tbh, how many women do you think post on PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 05:06 PM
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It's kind of like when people read reviews before buying a product. At least you know that man has been in a relationship before and he's not some kind of weirdo. I do the same with women to a degree. If a woman is in her late 20s and never been in a relationship, it makes me a bit hesitant. Of course, if she's been in 10 relationships, that also makes me hesitant.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 04:53 PM
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Haha, yeah good luck with keeping it a secret. It's just like people who cheat and say that their spouse will never know about the affair.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 01:45 AM
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Dm me your profile, I'm curious when people say they actually have 0 matches. I find it hard to believe in fact if you really did put in all that effort to make it appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 12:20 AM
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"lift like your life depends on it" Literally never heard of that phrase before. Also lifting isn't going to do much on its own. I lifted for years and didn't really see results until I touched up other parts of my appearance like clothes, hair, teeth and actual social skills, charisma, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 12:16 AM
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You overestimate the average person lmao. We all know how dangerous drinking and driving is, yet there's still so many accidents due to drunk driving. Factor in the fact that drunk driving requires a car in the first place, there are even more people who are careless.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 12:07 AM
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You might but I'd say most people would take the money. Looks fade but money can at least set up your future a lot better. Money also means more disposable income for trips out of town or nice experiences like indoor skydiving or whatever you want to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 11:36 PM
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Tell that to a judge.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:38 PM
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Oh I know that vasectomies can't be reversed easily or with any guarantee. I also know that there's no other choice when it comes to 100% guaranteed birth control for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:37 PM
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It's still her body so she should still have the choice of an abortion. I guess I believe in bodily autonomy. That's the equality. She can't force me to get a vasectomy and I can't force her to get an abortion. Whatever I say is not going to change your mind though, so take care.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:33 PM
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It's the only relevant male health procedure in regards to pregnancies. Until something new becomes mainstream like that male birth control pill, vasectomy is the only comparison we have. What else would be the equivalent in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:31 PM
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You could not more yet? What does this even mean? As a man you also get to choose your destiny. You can choose to be celibate or get a vasectomy. Anything else and you're choosing the chance of a pregnancy. It's just like if you want to eat like shit. You can choose to eat processed foods but don't be surprised when your waistline is 10 inches over what you wanted. Cause and effect my dude, learn to be accountable for your own actions. If you fuck her without a vasectomy then you roll the dice. …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:29 PM
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I never said life was fair because it's not. On the flip side, women are always the ones who have to become pregnant and give birth while the man can drink beers and smoke and eat sushi or whatever without penalty during the time his child is in the belly. That's the trade-off. One sex doesn't get a choice when it comes to abortion, the other sex doesn't get a choice who has to carry the child if they want a child. Like I said before, your choices as a man are either to be celibate or get a vase…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:21 PM
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The man doesn't have to be a parent, he just has to pay money to help raise the kid and be an absent father. The kid didn't choose to be born. I think it's fair instead of forcing the public to pay even more for child welfare.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:15 PM
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A man can't choose a medical procedure for someone else. That's the difference. If he wants full reproductive protection then he has to get a vasectomy. That's what my old manager did, he doesn't want the risk of child support so he got the snip. I guess I live in reality but you can continue to believe what you want. The US government doesn't care what you want with regard to sex and child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:13 PM
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Choosing sex is actually choosing to be a parent in any western country. What are you going to tell the judge? Saying that she "baby trapped" you is going to get you laughed out of the courtroom with child support payments lol. My friend already tried that :P.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:10 PM
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That's not how it works lmao. A man can choose to not engage in sex. If he chooses to engage in sex then he should know that there's a risk of pregnancy. Can't have your cake and eat it too. My best friend in high school got a girl pregnant in 11th grade. He became a father during our senior year of HS lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:06 PM
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It's a lot more than 1% lol. Using this measure, an estimated 53.6 million people, or 17.4 percent of the U.S. population, live in tracts that are low-income and low access and are more than one-half mile or 10 miles from the nearest supermarket. https://www.ers.usda.gov/data-products/food-access-research-atlas/documentation/ Sounds like you just lived a sheltered life so far. Where have you lived in your 22 years of life so far?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 08:23 PM
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Living in a rural area doesn't just give you free land lmao. If you're poor, you're still living in a mobile home in like a trailer park. Rich farmers own the land. There was a sod company that owned all the land that the farmers didn't own, where I lived. Now let's say since you're poor, you also have 5-6 people living in that mobile home with just one refrigerator. Guess what? You either have to shop every couple days or you buy a lot of processed foods because they keep longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 07:57 PM
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Different anatomies. Only women can become pregnant so this will never be equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 07:11 PM
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You've clearly never lived in poor towns. There is no Costco nearby. Groceries are super expensive also because you lose the benefit of low prices due to population (more people means more turnover therefore food doesn't go bad). I used to live in a rural town and groceries cost more than they do here in NYC. Chicken was easily $4/lb because they only sold the small 1-2 lb packages.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 07:01 PM
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Cool then you open yourself to being disappointed. Holding others to a standard just leads to disappointment imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 06:48 PM
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Only if she can request a vasectomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 06:47 PM
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Gonna need more than just oatmeal. I'm a big fan of oatmeal but you can't exactly eat three meals of it everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 06:37 PM
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Probably because most of America is overweight? I've lived in poor towns in the US and it's a bunch of fat people because processed food is so cheap. Salads/healthy foods are like $5-10 for 300 calories or you could buy some $3 microwave dinner with 500 calories that tastes better.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 02:48 PM
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Gotta have a pretty face too, I can slide the boob one down a notch if I can max out the face slider.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 10:29 AM
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I still masturbated in relationships so I still do that when single lol. I've always had a strong sex drive though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 04:18 AM
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Oh I had a boring personality too, software dev with a video game addiction pretty much sums it up lol. If we were not talking about video games then I was also socially inept. Nowadays I don't play many games anymore and have broaden my interests into travel/food/investing/fitness/politics/music/tv shows/etc. I've also noticed that my standards increased as my options increased. It's hard sometimes to focus on what's important instead of what my lower brain wants haha. I had someone really into…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:58 AM
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You basically described my transformation between 22 and 29 except I wasn't fat but extremely skinny. Went from 135 lbs to 180 lbs currently through the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:40 AM
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I'm sure they can all crowdfund server fees and figure out how to host an online forum like FDS did.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:38 AM
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If women can have the right to abort their baby, can men have the right to Financial abortion from the child. Wouldn't that make it fair? How is that fair? That just pushes the cost to the general public. If you can fuck a woman, you can pay child support. I'm a guy who knows I risk a pregnancy every time I fuck a woman, even with a condom. Every man should know there's a risk of 18 years of payments when you fuck a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:09 AM
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You can change race, Michael Jackson proved that. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:07 AM
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Are we talking dating or marriages now? Marriages are another ballpark considering it's a lot more commitment. Also what marriage/divorce statistic are you talking about? I just did some basic research and divorce rates seem to be going down every year in the last decade. Can you link any study to back up your claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:03 AM
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I see models and dimes all the time, is that because model tier looks are common or because I live in NYC? Anecdotal experiences really don't mean much in the greater scheme of things unless you have scientific data to back it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:57 AM
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Yep. I find that a lot of people are hypocrites on here. They love to say either, not all men or not all women but then don't care about the reverse. The same guy saying, not all men just want casual sex will go on the offense and say every woman will go on a date for a free dinner, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:34 PM
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I mean this entire sub is based on generalizations. Don't take anything said here with 100% certainty. There will always be exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:13 PM
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Hmm, well there was a military base about 25 mins away from the college town lol. People will always desire what they don't have, that's the nature of the hedonistic treadmill.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:57 PM
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I've dated in both situations and the big city is my choice. I lived in a college town of around 200k people and it was atrocious in terms of choice of women. The women that were attractive were always taken. Now I live in NYC with 8 million people and it's been great. Sure you have more competition but also far more options. I'm also a very competitive person so I thrive when pushed. You also have more to life than just dating. NYC is great for food, great for meeting the best of the best in yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:21 PM
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Sounds like you watch way too much social media. You should never date a person for their potential. I don't date women who "could" be attractive if they decided to take care of their body or hygiene. I'm not going to go out and find an overweight woman who has a pretty face and hope she loses the weight. You should also choose people who are doing things with their life and not playing a victim on the internet because the world is a cruel place.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:17 PM
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Sounds like you don't date much if you have that mindset. I've never even revealed my income to any woman even when I was briefly unemployed. Most guys don't have the power to just pull up in a Lambo lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:51 PM
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It's a maturity difference, men don't mature at the same rate as women. It doesn't even have to do with being rich but being independent. Guys in their 20s are still living with 3 roommates or their parents. They're still trying to get their careers off the ground or out of debt. They're probably still trying to understand their own emotions and going through that initial bout of depression and quarter life crisis.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:48 PM
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At that point, you're probably going to need a friend to wingman and tell you what you did wrong. I didn't know what I was doing wrong at first until I had a friend point it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:44 PM
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What are you intending to do after premed? Also 4 years from 26 to 30 is a long time, so much time to improve every aspect of your life. You can transform your body drastically in 3 years, I know I did. Working out should just be a side quest because it's basically time gated unless you're juicing. I worked out 3 times a week for 90 mins, so that left a lot of time for improving everything else. Also what have you done in terms of dating women? Everyone wants to wait until they're a finished pac…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 07:37 PM
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Not really, considering that you're probably going to benefit from splitting rent and shit with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 07:25 PM
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The irony is that they likely have nothing to get squeezed for. All the guys scared about getting divorce graped are most likely broke anyways or sub $10k bank account since that's a majority of people in the US. Also the men who are 30+ virgins, I wonder what they did with their 20s, did they just lock themselves in their house after work (assuming they even worked)?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 07:20 PM
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So many men on here have that weird mindset that they'd rather wallow in their despair instead of doing something about it. "The juice is not worth the squeeze" so instead, they'd rather just post "hard truths" on PPD and continue to be angry lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 06:37 PM
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You get invited through friends just like anything else. Do you not have any friends who host parties? If not then host your own lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 02:09 PM
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Lol are you very young? The game changed when dating apps came out. It's like saying life hasn't changed since we all started carrying mobile computers in our pockets. I'm just saying that life was a lot different 20 years ago. Internet has grown in leaps and bounds since then. I can't imagine what dating was like in the 80s but I'm sure it included snail mail.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 01:23 PM
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I've had women confess to me, but I never found them attractive sadly. Even had one tell me she wanted to have my kids and I don't speak to her anymore because it turned super awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 01:59 AM
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I've been to house parties a bunch in the past. Who goes around introducing themselves to everyone? I've always just chilled out, found something to drink and if I need a beer pong partner, then I'll hit someone up. Even if you do introduce yourself to everyone, there's like a 15% chance they'll even remember you or your name lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 01:50 AM
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On the flipside, I couldn't be friends with someone who's daydreaming about us boinking while I find them unattractive. Would just be too awkward and I'm a guy saying that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 01:39 AM
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Could always go at happy hour, no one said you have to go past your bedtime.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 01:36 AM
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The guy put himself in the friendzone, he didn't build a rapport, instead he tried a bait and switch lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 01:33 AM
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First link is a study that only included 113 recently married couples in 2017 from Texas. That's probably the most useless study imo due to sample size and source of data. The second study is from before 2003 with even datapoints from the 1980s. Doesn't seem as relevant nowadays with the age of dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 01:26 AM
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First link is a study that only included 113 recently married couples in 2017 from Texas. That's probably the most useless study imo due to sample size and source of data. The second study is from before 2003 with even datapoints from the 1980s. Doesn't seem as relevant nowadays with the age of dating apps. edit: Can people do like 2 mins of due diligence before posting the first study they find on google?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 01:25 AM
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Well, I need glasses or contacts to see. I chose a nice pair of glasses over contacts personally, that also double as sunglasses so win-win.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 10:57 PM
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That's true, you don't want to come off as someone that you're not. It'll probably just lead to them being disappointed when you do meet up haha. I can do a profile review if you want, I'm not some dating guru but I like to think that I have an eye for aesthetics. I'm a pretty average looking person that you'd miss in a sea of other people, but I try to play to my strengths and minimize my flaws. For example, my face is not as symmetrical as I'd like so I use glasses and try to minimize straight…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 09:28 PM
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I use PPD when I'm bored, that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 09:18 PM
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I think picture selection and quality are huge differentiators. It's not just about how you look but how you come across in a still picture. I've done some reviews for people who objectively look better than me, but their pictures drop the ball for them. Lighting, quality, clothes, grooming, pose, etc. are all pretty big. I usually try to get a haircut before taking new pictures. I'm not trying to show off my 3-week-old hair lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 07:49 PM
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I'm not saying to go with "hey" lmao. A lot of my openers are very basic though. For example, my last 3 openers that got a reply are: It's cold outside, what are you binging right now? Favorite place you've tried lately? Nothing beats a workout, amirite? As you can tell, those openers are very basic, but they all work if you let your pictures carry. I'm not trying to tell her about some train fact or go with some crazy specific comment for her. Most of the time I would suggest guys who overthink…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 07:04 PM
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Nah it's mostly just PPD or some other dark corner of the internet that actually gives them an audience. A lot of other subreddits will just straight up remove the posts or comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 06:38 PM
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It's a death spiral. People who don't get results don't like putting in effort because they're not getting shit. Neverending cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 05:22 PM
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Generic openers still work. I'm not saying to go with 'hey beautiful' or some other cringe shit like that but just normal openers. I think if it takes more than 10 seconds then you're thinking too hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 05:02 PM
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You have to stand out in your pictures, not in your openers lol. That's the god's honest truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 04:30 PM
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Broccoli was what I ate because spinach was not it lol. I could eat a pound of a broccoli a day when I wanted to lose weight without feeling overly hungry.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 02:49 PM
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PPD is such a weird place imo. You have to take everything said here with a major grain of salt. I've learned over the time I've been here that some people here live through their screens. Some are men who are 40-year-old virgins and waiting for that revenge fantasy to come true. Tons of dudes here in their 30s and 40s that will say one thing and probably do something else if they ever got a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 02:32 PM
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It should be a supplement and not an all or nothing deal. I go out with friends, and I use apps and I date within my social circles. I even dated within my mom's social circles at one point since a lot of her friends have daughters my age. Don't put all your eggs in one basket just like how I put my financial investments into many baskets.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 02:09 PM
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I'd say it's mostly for sex or the guy just have no options so he has low standards. I lower my standards for casual sex personally. I can fuck slightly overweight but I'd never go exclusive with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:38 PM
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On some apps, you don't have to match though for people to send a message. I use hinge mostly and I can send a like with a message to any profile I see, whether we match or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:34 PM
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The message doesn't really much. I hate all the canned messages that other guys try and justify. The cringiest shit is when a guy is like "Do you want a knock knock joke, a random train fact or an observation?". Basically he's telling on himself, how big of a simp he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:33 PM
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Same reason attractive men do it, because it's very convenient. I can swipe at work or when I'm taking a shit or on the subway or when I'm at the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:31 PM
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Oh I get what you mean. Most of it I think comes down to guys not being told to be physically appealing early on. I know I was a late bloomer because of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:17 PM
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That's a given though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 11:37 AM
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It's not necessarily to hide my natural scent but to throw in another element. It's the same thing as wearing a necklace or nice shoes. I'm not trying to hide my neck or my normal shoes. I smell like deodorant without cologne anyways because I'd smell like BO after a long day naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 11:32 AM
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Introspection requires a lot of work and dropping the ego. I still have work to do but it's really just examing every part of yourself. Everyone has room for improvement. I'm an overthinker at times so I'll go over past situations and kind of dissect them. A lot of trial and error when it comes to dating for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 11:29 AM
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People are liars. You're reading too much into it. You're going to find bad people because they still exist. Just have to move on. I talked to someone for 2 months only for them to say that they're not ready to date. It sucks but you just have to move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 11:22 AM
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What do you mean by West Elm Caleb? Someone who just lovebombs and disappears?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 04:02 AM
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No one needs a good reason to reject someone. That's the honest truth. I stopped talking to a woman because she didn't laugh at my jokes. If you have to convince someone to like you, it's probably doomed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 03:37 AM
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Tinder and Omegle experiments are biased though because they're through a screen. There's something about that face to face in person that can change how someone is perceived. It's like when you have a facetime call before a first date and get two different feelings from them. Smell is huge else why do people pay hundreds for small bottles of cologne/perfume. One of my most common compliments from women are my hands and trimmed nails. It's weird how often they say I could be a hand model or that…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 03:32 AM
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It really doesn't matter why she rejected you, just know she doesn't want you. At least that's how I go about my dating life. Getting ghosted and getting the no connection text is the same thing in my book. But it wasn't always that way. I dwelled on someone for years in the past until I realized it was such a waste of time and energy. It really comes down to introspection imo. Figure out what your faults are and fix them, no one is perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 03:27 AM
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Depends on how you went about it. I'm a guy but I've gotten approached by women when I'm grocery shopping or out in public and even once at the gym. Most of the time it's women I don't find remotely attractive and I have no idea how she's going to react if I reject her. At first it made me very uncomfortable because I didn't want to lead her on but at the same time I just had no attraction. Now I try to pay a compliment and then say Im already taken even when I'm single.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 03:22 AM
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I'd take almonds over pecans in my brownies.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 01:51 AM
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Sounds normal imo. I don't think about dating a woman exclusively unless she has a great personality and intelligence too. If she doesn't, then it'll be over by date 3. Maybe I'm thinking about wife material now so don't really care about just sex longterm.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 01:48 AM
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"normal" nowadays is a lot of complaining though. Reddit is notorious for it, just look at any of the major subreddits. It gets tiring being around people who endlessly complain about their shitty job without making any effort to get another job for example. I was working at a restaurant last year and it was just full of customers complaining about Biden.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 01:47 AM
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Learn how to break the touch barrier early on and how to escalate. Even small things like a high five early on is a great way to break the touch barrier.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 01:37 AM
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Some parts of your personality should be changed though imo. For example, I've been a very cynical person in the past and it's just not fun for anyone involved. Also, people don't like complainers. No one wants to just hear someone constantly complaining about the little things, usually it's better to be chill about the small things.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 01:34 AM
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LOL it happens every year unfortunately. I just look on the bright side, those people are the reason I'm getting cheap membership haha. Glad I can get a squat rack or bench now though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:41 AM
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Are you sure you're looking at woman on your level? What does that even mean lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:39 AM
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Your other comment said that your photos on photofeeler had poor results. Probably means it's time to improve that however you can. Gotta be attractive to attract women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 11:02 PM
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It's so easy but why are so many men fat too? My gym has been back to normal for like 2 weeks now. Everyone who did the new year's resolution has already given up. I remember there was no machine free on January 3rd but now it's most machines free again.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 10:57 PM
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I'm attracted to curves. TS has a pretty face but no curves.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 10:51 PM
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Even then there are some terrible questions/jokes too. What were your last five openers?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 10:47 PM
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Then you just delete your account and remake it after a couple weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 10:41 PM
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It's not a new generation every year lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 10:40 PM
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This sounds like an issue for both men and women. A lot of people get married in their 20s so there's of course going to be less people in their 30s left over.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 05:57 PM
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I buy from Amazon like 4 times a month and never gotten something I didn't order. Do people who get wrong items just buy from sellers on there that are not fulfilled by Amazon? I've seen the cheaper prices on some items but you have to pay for shipping so it's never worth it for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:55 PM
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How often do you think dudes are put in jail for not making enough money?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 10:42 AM
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I'm talking about the ones clearly about the military. Drunk driving deaths have nothing to do with age, you can get run over at 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 10:37 AM
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Dunno why people flexing about a day in combat boots like it means anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 10:35 AM
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The issue is not combat jobs but in South Korea for example, you have to put your life on pause for 2 years in your 20s. You get like $600 which is a pittance.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 10:27 AM
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I guess you think you're so tough for serving active duty? Cool good for you I guess. I'll gladly take living in a country that doesn't require it because my taxes pay for the volunteers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 04:26 AM
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Most of my comments in this thread are tongue-in-cheek. Don't think too hard my man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 04:17 AM
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You forget that we have nukes now. Ukraine doesn't have nukes or do you think Russia would've invaded them if they still had nukes? The US has enough nukes to blow up the entire world. Same reason no other country wants to join the fight against Russia. I've spent 2 years in Army JROTC, I've worn combat boots for drill meets and what not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 04:02 AM
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You act like the US doesn't already have around 1.4 million service members and top of the line equipment. Unless the rest of the world is going to gang up on us, this situation sounds very unlikely. If Ukraine had nukes like the US, they wouldn't be pressing people into service, they would just shoot nukes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:55 AM
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At least in the US, you have to sign up because we have enough volunteers. Whole different ball game when it's mandatory without enough volunteers like in South Korea or Ukraine.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:50 AM
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Sounds like you haven't been on Facebook much lol. I see the stupid posts with that writing every now and then. "Too young to drink but not too young to die". Saw it a lot when Russia first invaded Ukraine.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:48 AM
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Sometimes that's intentional though. I'm guilty of the fade too. If someone wants to only talk about themselves or steer the conversation away from themselves all the time, I might as well not even be there. Conversation is an art imo, it's a balance but people without social skills usually just tilt it too far one way or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:09 AM
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I am for real, believe it or not, I've found out a lot of women like to be choked during sex personally. The tying up part comes after a couple rounds of sex though, I don't do that during the first time, have to let them feel safe first. Mines was an extreme example but yeah, you can't just reveal things right away. Some things you have to let trickle out or you get the weird looks. Another example is that I don't reveal that my dad died of cancer early on. I just kind of jump over that early o…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 01:35 AM
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I don't tell my dates that I like to tie them up and choke them off the rip. They find out but it's "fun" by that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 01:23 AM
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The internet is full of people who believe JFK is going to be resurrected sometime this week too. The beauty of the internet is that you can find an echo chamber for just about anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 01:13 AM
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I have to agree with ChatGPT then, I think TS is also too skinny and flat imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 01:03 AM
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I guess you don't value a healthy relationship either. You don't believe in depression either right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 01:01 AM
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I want a blonde bombshell too. Nothing wrong with wanting something, I just accept that I'm hitting way above my belt if I somehow manage to get that blonde bombshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 12:56 AM
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You really think the ugly women are going to be posting selfies on the subreddits en masse? The real eye opener is just going to any Wal-mart in the US. Lots of overweight women and men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 12:51 AM
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I'm not blaming the men. I'm just saying it's not a crime for women to reject men they don't find attractive. In the same vein, it's not a crime for men to reject women they don't find attractive. It's crazy how bitter you sound for supposedly someone else's fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 10:46 PM
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Never going to know until you try though and so many guys on here don't even want to try. I've been here long enough to talk to so many guys who keep saying "The juice is not worth the squeeze." so they don't even try. Imagine if I never changed between 22 and 29. I would never know what I'd get. It's not a crime for women to reject men they don't find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 10:12 PM
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I also do alright for myself and I am referring to myself since I've lived on both sides of the fence. I was unattractive at 22 and I don't blame anyone for not giving me a chance. I was super skinny 135 lbs at 5'10, had acne, couldn't dress, played too much video games. Now I'm 29 and changed things. I don't know what other people are doing so I can't speak for them. I just noticed that I get attention now after I made myself more attractive. I don't know why you guys try and promote guys who d…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 10:08 PM
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If you doubt she desires you over just feeling wanted then do you really want to pursue her?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 10:05 PM
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She probably doubts that you really desire her (over just any vagina) if you don't give her attention too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:44 PM
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Are you all men? I wasn't aware that we don't have the luxury of being picky! Guess I didn't get the memo.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:42 PM
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Sounds like you got a reactive libido too then
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:38 PM
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A hooker doesn't need to find you sexually desirable; you just need to give her money.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:34 PM
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You don't have to dance like an expert lmao. Just let loose and move with the music. I have the dance moves of a child, but it doesn't matter because nobody has ever called me out for being a bad dancer.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:34 PM
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Men without options don't have the luxury of being picky.* I've been pretty picky with women since I don't date fat/ugly/broke women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:28 PM
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Probably has to do with the fact that some people use dating apps as their only source due to being an introvert or just lacking social skills or a social circle. I've matched with a lot of women who just don't have friends in real life that they hang with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 07:34 PM
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Half of the states don't have abortion rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 05:08 PM
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Both are medical procedures used to prevent childbirth. My bad, if only men had fetuses within them to abort then we might have a literal comparison. For now, though in reality, a vasectomy is the male equivalent to an abortion unless you want to talk about a man taking extraordinary measures to ensure the woman doesn't go to term.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 03:13 AM
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I'm a childless single guy but this just sounds like more of my taxes going to welfare and more unhappy people. Who's winning here? I guess the private prisons win?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 02:20 AM
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I think it's the new generation. I'm 29 and date women between 22-32 and it's always the younger naive women who think content creation is a viable career. Sure, there are millionaires from content creation but there are also millionaires from winning the lottery too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 01:38 AM
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Yeah I have a private social media account. No public shit on mines but it is required for dating here in NYC otherwise people think you're either a boomer or a serial killer lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:58 AM
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Yeah, I've met my fair share of women who say they're content creators. I don't date men but I'm sure there are men who say it too. I live in NYC so there are a lot of wannabe "influencers" here. "I'm a content creator with 50k following on Instagram". "Oh wow, good for you that you can afford NYC rent on that". "Well no, my parents have to pay my rent." That's verbatim what someone told me like 2 months ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:54 AM
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There are a lot of guys on PPD who hate on social media and those who use it. If you read enough threads on here, you'll see what I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:48 AM
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Being a content creator is a red flag imo. It's like a guy saying he's a crypto trader.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:46 AM
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You can just as easily say if he didn't want the risk of a child, he shouldn't have nutted in her. I've never worried about a potential child but maybe that's because I've never nutted in a woman and always pulled out with a condom.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:36 AM
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The antithesis to a woman's abortion is a man's option of getting a vasectomy or being celibate. My old manager actually went through with the vasectomy because he never wants kids and he likes having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:30 AM
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And you must have not logic classes in school. Sounds like you missed English class too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:28 AM
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By that logic, the opt out for men is a vasectomy and subsequent testing to ensure that you're infertile.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:20 AM
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You can't get money from a broke dude. Go look up the statistics on how often court ordered child support is actually paid. I know a lot of guys from my high school years who had kids and worked a minimum wage job. The court is not going to put them on the streets, so the child only gets what's left.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:15 AM
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Nah, the bulk of those with 5000+ friends are the hustlers, by that I mean people who will add every mutual they can because it's another potential customer. My FB was full of people trying to sell hair products/fake lashes/cosmetics/supplements/classes/clothes/etc. I got nothing against them but I do have to mute or unfriend a lot of them lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 11:59 PM
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I wouldn't call her a wack job but that she had her toes in so many circles. Off the top of my head, female engineer, religious, part of a sorority, multiracial, was in the military, went to multiple colleges, tried to break into another industry as a side hustle, big into community service, etc. We were close friends for a bit until we both graduated and grew apart. She was big into "live your best life", honestly felt like she had 30 hours in her day compared to everyone else's 24.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 09:30 PM
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The age of consent here is 17 so we good /s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 09:19 PM
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If it's a lifetime purchase, I'd rather just get the SBD because it's easier to adjust size on the fly. I hate having to adjust size on the Inzer. This is mostly because I sometimes let my brother use my belt.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 09:16 PM
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I wonder how many relationships you've been in. I've never been in a relationship with someone who doesn't contribute to the cost early on. Usually, it's within the first couple dates, I'll pick up the first meal and she'll pick up the second.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 09:07 PM
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You think the women coming from Asia is going to have much work prospects here in the US? Do you expect her to just somehow become perfectly fluent in English and land a good job? I have family and friends who come here in their 20s and it's rough. They end up working in restaurants (look at all those Chinese restaurants) as well as sweatshops (tons of sweatshops here in NYC running under the radar) and laundromats.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 08:59 PM
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I'm not saying there are none but good luck filtering through the scammers especially if you're unattractive. Lookism is huge in China. How much experience do you have with people who married Asian women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 08:56 PM
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No, I'm from a country that's become a world power at this point, I'm sure you can guess which Asian country that is. A lot of people don't care about coming to the US anymore, in fact they're scared from all the shootings in the news. At least at home, they can go out at night and send their kids to school without a threat of someone pulling a gun. The Asian hate crimes in NYC don't really give them much confidence. There are still some who will choose to come to the US, in fact some will even …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 08:52 PM
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You don't have that option if you can't cook. If you can cook, then you don't need a wife who can cook is what I'm saying. I cook all my meals because it doesn't make sense to me to pay either a lot of money or get a subpar meal compared to what I can make. I can either buy 3 steaks from Costco for like $30 or pay someone $50 to cook 1 good steak, I already know what I'm choosing lol. Going to need to eat for the rest of my life, might as well learn how to cook now lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 08:35 PM
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Nah it was annoying having my food dictated by my mom growing up. She had the saying "You can either eat what I make or you can buy your own food and cook.". I'd much rather make what I want. Also if I ate what she made everyday I'd lose so much muscle because they don't really eat a lot of protein. It's a lot of rice and vegetables. She doesn't cook chicken or beef either, it's fish or pork or tofu.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 08:18 PM
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My whole family is full of immigrants who cook for a living, I'm an immigrant myself. That doesn't mean I need someone to cook for me. I had my mom teach me recipes and I cook for myself. It's nice going home for the holidays but that's an occasional thing. I dated a southern girl in my early 20s who enjoyed cleaning and cooking. She was good at it too but we just didn't work out long term. Even in that relationship, we both cooked. It just seems childish to have one person cook because the othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 08:02 PM
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Depends how much effort you put in and your network. 120 in a year sounds like you rarely post or you have no network. I had 500 within a month but it was mostly just my network of friends, acquaintances and coworkers. My friend had 5000 within a couple weeks but she also has like 5000 friends on Facebook and she posts a weekly food review thing on Insta.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 07:49 PM
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If we're talking LinkedIn or maybe Twitter/Facebook then sure. On Instagram though, all I usually see are people trying to push a product at best lol. So many MLMs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 07:43 PM
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Shhhh don't crush their dreams like that. If only it took just looks for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 07:26 PM
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I really wonder how many of the guys here who praise passport bros have actually done any research into it. It's not as easy as they seem to make it. One of my friends from high school went to Vietnam to find a wife and it was a long process to get her to the states. That's with the help of his family in Vietnam helping him look for a compatible wife in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 07:19 PM
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Depends on circumstances imo. I don't think it's that hard to attract women but there's definitely a tier system. Like if you have no interest at all from women, I think most people can look in the mirror and figure out a few reasons why. Dropping the ego is the hard part though. I grew up with a very "things will work out on their own" until I was 22 and living on my own and either working or playing videogames. It wasn't until I decided to hit the gym, dress better and actually put some effort…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:57 PM
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I'm just going off this subs lingo so by HVM I just mean someone who's had casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:54 PM
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That's just to attract the fat men otherwise they wouldn't have to tell men to hit the gym in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:39 PM
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I think there's a difference between men who did it out of choice. My friend was in the air force for 10 years and stationed in Poland. He dated and married a polish woman and brought her back. It's not that he couldn't find someone in the US, he just wasn't in the US for years. I know another Army guy who found his wife in Korea because he was stationed there as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:29 PM
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Sounds like you're more likely to find a gold digger if you go overseas. I'm an immigrant myself in the US and the only people in my country who would marry a foreigner are people who will leave you as soon as you lose your job. Where do you expect a foreigner to find a wife in an Asian country? He's probably on the dating apps or at bars. Good place to find a traditional wife /s.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:05 PM
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Sounds like a vetting issue imo unless you think everyone who's ever stepped in a bar is damaged or something. I've gone to the bar in the past because my company paid for happy hour, does that mean my entire company is just a bunch of bar-flys? We were always there on Fridays because it was a team bonding event with free wings and booze. I've also gone to the bar with friends and sometimes we end up going home with other people. Doesn't mean we're some lazy people. I'm a guy so maybe it's more …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 04:53 PM
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Let's be real, the same dudes complaining about women are probably the same ones who want their chicken tendies. I guess you can teach your mail order bride to use an air fryer for your tendies. Seems weird that you need your wife to cook, maybe it's the fact that I lived on my own for 5 years but needing someone else to cook seems childish.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 04:32 PM
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Why is every poster on here LARPing as a high value man? So many guys are like "It's not me but it's my brothers who are struggling". This is like the same shit as "My friend needs help getting his dick up, can you help him"? I'm skeptical if we're talking about you or "one of these dudes".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 04:27 PM
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My entire premise is based on guys complaining about fat women getting dick and fat guys not getting pussy. I just said if you want what the women are getting then go ahead and get it. You don't get to just decide that dick and pussy are of equal value and say you want pussy instead. Sounds like you did your own set of mental gymnastics and read way too hard into what you thought I was implying. My argument was mostly tongue in cheek but you took it to some next level mental gymnastics lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 12:26 AM
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It's not mythical but it's also women that I wouldn't stick my dick in either. I went to high school in the poor rural south. Broke ugly people paired up with broke ugly people. It's the same people you'd see if you went to Wal-Mart at 2 am.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 10:05 PM
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I can see why we differ in the way we think. In your mind, getting fucked by a guy and being gay are the same thing. In my mind, those are two separate things. There are straight guys who have gotten fucked by a guy before. They just learned that they're not gay. You can be straight and get fucked by a guy, they're not mutually exclusive. Getting fucked by a guy doesn't make you gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 10:02 PM
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Probably, go ask them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:58 PM
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A fact or statement can still be complaining. I just said if you want to get fucked like fat women are, then be my guest. It's not like fat women are getting attractive women to fuck them, they're getting dicks. So if the market is full of free dicks, that's your choice if you want to be involved for not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:50 PM
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My comment was in response to someone saying that fat women can get fucked easier than men because clearly there's a huge market of horny men. You don't get to pick and choose what the market is full of, you can either accept it or choose not to be involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:44 PM
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Why does it matter if I go to upscale bars? I just went to a regular gay bar and was literally getting hit on left and right. Even my fat friend from out of town was getting attention there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:41 PM
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LOL, can you quote where I said you can change your sexual orientation? I said you can choose to get fucked, I didn't say you can choose to be gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:38 PM
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Everyone wasn't broke though, just the ones who lived in the trailer parks. There were also people who lived in houses and sent their kids to private schools.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:37 PM
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I never said homosexuality was a choice. The choice is if you want to get fucked. Getting fucked by a dude doesn't make you gay, it just means you got fucked by a dude. Maybe they're just super horny, who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:28 PM
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I got nothing against gay people, in fact I work with a lot of gay people because NYC is pretty liberal. Sounds like you're trying to do a lot of mental gymnastics. If you want some head, who cares if it's from a dude. Just close your eyes and pretend it's a woman. I've fucked some fat women before and turned the lights off and imagined she was hot. I got no shame to admit that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:27 PM
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Then don't change then, nobody is forcing you to change. You're not going to die from not getting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:22 PM
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Sexuality is fluid though, straight guys still get blowjobs from dudes. It's not like getting a blowjob from a guy will make your dick fall off lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 08:24 PM
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Incels complaining about fat women getting dick, maybe they should stop complaining about free dick if they don't want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 08:11 PM
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Then lose the weight and get pussy. No one said pussy was free like dick is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 08:10 PM
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More like penis is free. Guys like to say that even fat chicks can easily get sex but that's because penis is free. If you want a penis then go get one because they're free. Pussy cost money, people out there paying $400 for an hour of pussy. Probably means most fat guys are not getting that free pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 08:10 PM
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I mean it was the norm. Living in a double wide with like 6 people and paying $300 in rent. Broke but thats what happens in the poor rural south.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:36 PM
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Who's talking about the Indian guy? The US is majority white people and even the 5'2 bald trailer trash always had a baby momma with him. I lived in the broke south for years. Broke people fucked other broke people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:07 PM
-1

Nah, even fat men can get fucked if they wanted, just download Grindr.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:03 PM
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His barber got a fat chin and yeah definitely no jawline.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:27 AM
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I'm not calling his chin the weakest chin possible, but it is recessed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:25 AM
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We looking at the same dude? 7:13 in the video, that's a weak chin my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:16 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_BivX1F9X0Q Just look at the before and after, definitely hid his weak chin.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:06 AM
1

Don't look up James Harden without a beard.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:03 AM
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Have you ever been in a relationship? They're usually mutually beneficial, I don't go around keeping score of who benefits more.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 01:56 AM
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You ever heard of death grip syndrome? That's what they're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 11:28 PM
5

I'm curious too, can you find one?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 08:23 PM
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This is a shitpost debate forum, don't base your entire worldview on what you read on Reddit. Most people on here are unhappy in real life and use this as a way to pass the time. Judging from your username, I'd say you're also probably unhappy too just like most people on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 08:22 PM
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"I will not educate my children" is an available option, just not in the US. Go to Afghanistan and there's even laws forbidding the education of young girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 07:28 PM
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I mean there's limits to it imo. If my wife was addicted to meth and refused to get better, I'd leave her too, especially if we had kids. The last thing I need is for my kids to grow up with drugs in the house. I don't get what you're trying to even get at. My dad had cancer and my mom stayed with him until he passed, even when he couldn't work for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 02:14 AM
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Shit the same can be said for men too. There's a study that says most men leave their wives when they get cancer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 01:08 AM
2

I find masturbation to be a normal thing, but people will absolutely demonize it. I'm in and out of relationships but even when I'm in a relationship, I still masturbate because it's like 10 mins on a slow morning and I move on to other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 11:07 PM
4

RedPill in a nutshell basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 11:04 PM
0

Depends on where you're at. I still had school prayers in a public high school because I went to school in the bible belt back in the 2010s.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 11:01 PM
2

You can be book smart and still have no street smarts. I work with very intelligent people who went to ivy league schools and they still do stupid things because they lack common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:32 PM
1

Sun damage is another big one especially if you live somewhere with a summer season. Fine lines, wrinkles, sunspots, etc. all add unnecessary age to people as they get older. I put on sunscreen regularly in order to avoid the damage.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 07:54 PM
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Extreme fitness? I hit the gym regularly but I'm not using steroids or counting my calories lmao. Hitting the gym just gives me an outlet to decompress, I used to be a big gamer but gave that up a couple years ago because it got boring. I don't date overweight chicks, come to NYC and you'll see most young people are not overweight. We have to walk everywhere lol, I get 10k steps daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:24 PM
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meh I'm also Asian, 5'10, 180 lbs and muscular, good hair, clear skin, white straight teeth, thick eyebrows, narrow eyes and I do fine. I also live in NYC so I'm not trying to find a needle in a haystack in the Midwest. No one is telling me to find a 300 lb woman on here. I also don't go around saying I don't date fat chicks, that's something that doesn't need to be said. Edit: Do you have a career and a social life that includes men and women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:14 PM
1

Judging from your name, are you autistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:11 PM
4

whatever you say....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:56 PM
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I’m just about ready to give up looking for a partner. I’m so tired. You made a post 29 days ago about how hard it is to find decent men and ready to give up. Which is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:45 PM
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I'm not projecting anything lmao, I'm being realistic. I know the internet means jackshit, I'm not on here to get validation either. It just makes you sound like a clown for making a comment downplaying Brady. I don't even like men, but I know he's drowning in pussy if he wanted it. He's single and has more than enough zeros in his bank account as well as the status to back it up. He's not worried about a rando on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:41 PM
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Yeah, and Shakira was calling my number on New Year's. Just saying that the chances of him showing interest in you are pretty slim when he has the pick of the litter.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:37 PM
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Don't worry, he's probably not interested in you either.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:32 PM
1

I'm definitely not 10% bf lmao, I'm closer to 20% but that's because I'm in the middle of a bulk. You can see my abs if I flex for example. My face is pretty average, but I use sunscreen religiously and have a skincare routine, so I look a lot younger than most people my age. I use crest white strips and have straight teeth so that's a plus too I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 12:39 AM
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Lmao, the lifestyle chooses you, you don't suddenly just wake up one day with street cred haha. I went to high school in Philly and you don't suddenly just get in with gangs lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 11:31 PM
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I do well in NYC but I'm also not 5'7 (I'm 5'10 and 180 lbs and fit) or autistic though so your results may vary. Which large city did you try?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 11:28 PM
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More like they learned how to dress/carry themselves. You don't have to be rich to dress right. I can rock a $15 stainless steel chain from Amazon and thrift my outfits for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 08:03 PM
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I agree with this, I'm 29 and still get asked if I'm an undergrad in college and carded for alcohol lol. I blame it on sunscreen and my Asian genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 08:00 PM
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Both men and women have advantages and disadvantages as you say. I haven't gotten into a fight since middle school for example. I don't go out seeking a fight nor do I care to instigate one when I'm out. I've seen the damage that a knockout in a bar can do. I want no part of that. I'm perfectly fine walking away from a potential fight even if I get mocked or called a pussy. I control my ego, I don't let it control me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 04:01 PM
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Lmao, sounds like a you problem. I'm a guy and I've never had the urge to physically assault someone. Words are words, I really don't give a shit what most people say. I'm Asian and grew up getting called out for eating dogs and cats, having a small dick, being a nerd, being broke and wearing old clothes, you name it. The only time I got into a fight was in self defense and that really didn't last long because I knew to go for his head since I was like 5 inches taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 01:46 PM
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People don't want to be accountable for themselves. So many people push the blame on others.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 01:43 PM
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Depends on the location/term, I could get it for around $300/year if I went with a 10-year term, but I'd ideally want 20 years since that's basically enough time to get a child out of the house. Where are you getting 20/mo?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 03:14 AM
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I'm sure it depends on location and whatnot but I'm curious to hear about cheaper options. I just got a quote from state farm which gave me the best price for auto insurance, so thought I'd try a quote from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:45 AM
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401K and IRA are assets in the sense that if you're applying for a mortgage, you have to declare them. The bank doesn't really care about the Social Security benefit that you might get in 20 or 30 years whereas 401K/IRA have cash values today.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 01:08 AM
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I just checked term life for myself (healthy, 29m, 20 year term, 500k insurance) and it's around $500/year. To me that's a drop in the bucket but I'm sure $500 to other people can be better spent in the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 12:55 AM
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401K/IRA are assets. Retirement benefits would more likely be a pension/Social Security.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 12:50 AM
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The excuse is that the money could be better spent in the moment. Not everyone has extra income like that in a single income family. No point going into credit card debt just to make sure your term life insurance is paid for imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 12:46 AM
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I can see getting lean for summer being great but it's not often that I'm without a shirt on in the wintertime lol. I'm not going to be able to show off my abs until we're already in the bedroom and at that point it doesn't matter. Being a little bulky makes my shoulders and forearms pop though which has definitely gotten me more subtle compliments than my abs ever did.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 12:44 AM
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I don't think you need to stay as lean as possible, that shit's not healthy nor fun. I'm 5'10 and about 175-180 lbs now, nowhere near as lean as possible. I might cut a little during the summer but being lean sucks for putting on muscle. There are no shortcuts to being handsome but there are definitely cheat codes. Using sunscreen every day makes my skin look a lot younger than other people my age. Eating a balanced diet helps with that too. I drink around 4 liters of water a day too because I e…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 12:23 AM
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That's what the minoxidil/finasteride is for. Time to jump on that shit if you got a bad jawline. Makeup for men really is just a good haircut/beard and fitness. A lot of guys don't even get regular haircuts or do their hair, you really think they're going to go through the effort of daily makeup routine? I got a skincare routine as a guy and most guys don't even bother with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 12:08 AM
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Would you take the risk of a dead bedroom though?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 01:57 AM
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Sounds like you got all your information from Fox News lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:11 AM
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Don't conservatives love to lie and be hypocrites about these things? Their holier-than-thou attitude is cliche at this point. The conservatives who speak out against abortion but have demanded women get abortions if it's their child.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:09 AM
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Most people figure out how to have sex by 25. If a man can't figure it out then yeah it's odd imo. At the bare minimum he should know why he's completely sexless, whether that's being unattractive physically or mentally or broke or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 11:20 PM
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Stop dating older women. I noticed it when I date too, the older ones are the picky ones who choose when to be traditional when it suits them and when they don't want to be traditional. The younger crowd is more chill in my experience, more go with the flow.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 01:11 PM
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It means that you're going to have to get your foot in the door and get experience just like a career. I didn't start off having casual sex, my first experience was with a long term gf. I was bad but I got better over time. She wasn't going to leave me over bad sex because we were more than just fuckbuddies. If we were just fuckbuddies, I don't think it would've lasted more than 2 sessions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 01:04 PM
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This is largely location dependent. I lived in the south US and it was normal to be friendly to strangers. Now in NYC, it's like people ignore everyone else unless they need something.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 03:54 AM
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It's called google, this is PPD not a biology class.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 03:47 AM
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Probably because most guys can't fuck a woman and get her to orgasm due to lack of experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 03:43 AM
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Depends on context. I can find 50% of women on OLD attractive to fuck and then dump. But women don't care about just sex because they have so many options for just sex. For a relationship though, my standards go way up because if she's the only one I fuck for the rest of my life and going to be the mother of my children, she better look damn good.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 03:04 PM
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Here's the thing, I was you at 21. I had a comp sci degree, above average salary, money in the bank and valuable skills for work. I didn't have any women interested in me though because I literally didn't go out besides to work, the grocery store and if I was motivated, maybe the gym. I spent way too much time online playing videogames and browsing reddit/quora/etc. I'm 29 now, I still have a career as a software dev, but I also try and get out of the house more in order to get out of my bubble.…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 02:43 PM
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Funny how you didn't include anything about meeting people. Do you expect a gf to teleport into your bedroom?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 02:11 PM
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It makes sense if the nagging is just doing his share of the chores. It wouldn't make sense to just let him skip out on all chores just because he causes a fight, that just leads to resentment anyways. Sounds like this relationship has an expiration date.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 09:44 PM
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MGTOW are also winning if they finally decide to go their own way, but we all know they're here to stay lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:55 PM
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What do you expect from the blackpillers? They have zero accountability and try to shift the blame as much as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:31 PM
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Add in the fact that it says sexual acts instead of sexual partners meaning a couple having sex daily has sex 365 times as often each year compared to a celibate person.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:26 PM
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Can you link the actual article? There's no abstract and it's behind a paywall.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:23 PM
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What would that do? Absolutely nothing because I'm not a public figure with a following. I have as much influence as a random guy in a grocery store lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:45 PM
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This is like saying, the low minimum wage is a way for upper middle-class men to reduce their male competition. Like sure it I have an upper hand because of money but it's not like I can control the minimum wage.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 06:39 PM
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Why are you even staying in that hypothetical situation? I'll never accept a stay at home gf, sounds like a fancier name for leech. I can pay a maid to come twice a month for less than $100, why would I want a partner who can't pull her weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 04:26 PM
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Time and effort is only money if you're a business owner. Most people work 2000 hours a year and don't get paid for the rest. I work 9-5, I don't get paid overtime. So my time at 7pm is not really money, it's just me time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:19 PM
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Most guys are overweight in the US just like most women are overweight. Seems hypocritical to say guys want more than a fatty when they're also likely to be a fatty or broke or whatever the average man is in the US. I go to the gym 5-6 times a week, the New Year's crowd is already dying down. 3 weeks and my gym is almost back to normal after being full after New Year's. Doesn't take long for people to give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:13 PM
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That's shit that guys should be doing regardless of women. But if he needs a reason then sure, do it for women. I don't need women to motivate me to make more money, I grew in poverty and that's enough motivation to never go back. I don't need women for motivation to get rejected often, I experienced that when I didn't hear back from over 2000 job applications. My motivation for getting fit and being healthy is the fact that my dad died in his 40s due to health issues. A lot of people live shelt…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:08 PM
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The average woman is fat though lmao, at least in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:02 PM
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That just sounds like someone who doesn't know how to curate their Instagram profile. The most you're going to get from mines is that I live in NYC and who my friends are. I don't show my address or my last name or job or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 08:46 PM
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but is not it nice that mentally ill women can also get sex and feel loved even for a while? Some average men do not even get 1% of that just because they are not tall or they are autistic. You're basically virtue signaling for men here. You're feeling sorry for men because they can't get sex due to not being tall and autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 08:38 PM
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How is Instagram worse than phone? I haven't changed my phone number in over 10 years, not going to do that just to stop a stalker. Blocking a phone number doesn't block someone from calling you on a different phone. Meanwhile, I can just block someone on Instagram, and then they can't see my profile unless I grant them access even if they make a new Instagram account. There's a reason that you'll get Instagram from women easily compared to getting their numbers. You can put your Instagram on pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 08:35 PM
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So, you're trying to virtue signal for other men? I don't get it lmao. I watch porn, never been shamed for it. I don't broadcast that I watch porn to everyone I meet either. Everyone I know has watched porn. I've never paid for sex, but I have paid for a dinner that led to sex and nothing else so maybe that was prostitution with a meal included haha. You can find shaming for anything on the internet, stop looking for it. There are people shaming Asians in tech, I don't bother looking for those p…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 08:17 PM
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Go pay a prostitute. Boom, there's your sex and feeling loved for a bit. Life's unfair, I learned that lesson as a child, so I don't bother thinking about why life is unfair. I'm not tall and I'm Asian but I still do well for myself in terms of dating and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 08:12 PM
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Haha good luck when she traps you with a baby and farms your future earnings for 18 years. Poking holes in condoms or lying about birth control. Do you guys even think with your brain and not just your dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:42 PM
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Who said anything about real phone no? I take chats off dating apps and onto Instagram within the first couple days. Insta chat is much better for chatting and doesn't require me giving out my number. Dating apps are too limited imo, can't even send memes. Add on the fact that insta also shows me more about them and it's a no brainer.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:26 PM
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What are you even taking about? Who said anything about going for douche bags?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:18 PM
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I already answered this
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:02 PM
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But you're not lazy enough to avoid posting a shitty CMV. hmm.... edit: and it gets removed lmao, guess it really was a shitty CMV
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 03:03 PM
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That article proves nothing, it didn't link an actual source lmao. I could say A new study by Harvard University has shown that people who use Reddit have a 58% greater chance of believing misinformation. and that's just as credible as the Fox News article.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 03:02 PM
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I opened the article and there was no link to the study. Fox News is not known for being a good source, they're literally in a lawsuit right now for $1.6 billion dollars for spreading misinformation about voting machines lmao. I always read the studies linked on reddit though, I don't just believe shitty claims by other users.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:59 PM
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Link the actual study otherwise it's bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:58 PM
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I decided to humor you and open the link against my better judgement. I don't see any academic study linked on that page. Even the page says that the supposed study had 284 subjects. Definitely not enough people to base a study off of.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:56 PM
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Sounds like every person in the world, man or woman. People are selfish and self-centered. I hope that's not a new revelation for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:51 PM
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foxnews Didn't even have to click the link. According to FoxNews, I shouldn't even be able to walk outside here in NYC due to all the crime. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:49 PM
2

Care to post these studies?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:43 PM
2

What's the alternative? Voting for the conservatives who take your bodily autonomy away? I'll pass on the group who worships their sky daddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:37 PM
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At least they're still getting a top school education and money-making career afterwards. That's better than the high school dropout drug addicts that I grew up with in the poverty class here in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:36 PM
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Reading comprehension is key my friend The irony of this comment lmao. It's you that's lacking reading comprehension. No one was comparing you to LeBron in a literal sense. I compared you calling yourself a Zaddy vs LeBron calling himself a GOAT. He's proven that he's worthy of a GOAT title. You've proven nothing because reddit handles don't mean shit. The ugliest guy can make an account named "GigaChad69PussySlayer", does that make him a Giga Chad pussy slayer now?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:30 PM
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Imagine comparing yourself to Lebron. If Lebron said he's one of the greatest basketball players ever when he was in high school, then yeah people would say he's delusional. We accept that he's one of the GOATs after he's proven the fact. We don't know shit about you besides the fact that you like to rage on reddit. If you said you're a good troll on reddit then we'd believe you. For all we know, you could be an obese neckbeard hiding behind a facetious reddit handle.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 01:49 PM
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Didn't mean directly on the app but once conversation moved to snap/insta.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 01:13 PM
2

Do people still use tanning beds? I only hear about tanning lotions nowadays, even got a free bottle with a skincare product last year. I tan easily so never bothered with fake tans anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 03:37 AM
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Some women just don't have the patience to deal with bullshit. I've heard of some of my female friends who deleted the app after seeing one dick pic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:11 AM
1

Alright, so let's say I have no money and I moved to a city somewhere, where do I live? What do I eat? Do I have to sleep on the streets and beg for food? Where do I get information for welfare services if I'm new in town and just somehow managed to hitchhike to the city with a backpack of clothes. If I'm lucky, I made it to a blue state that is more accommodating but if it's like Idaho, then what? People in the bottom rung of poverty live a very different life than you or I do. I grew up with t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 09:29 PM
1

For every person who started over with nothing and built their lives from scratch, there's another person who didn't make it and is either homeless or dead. The only way out of the town I grew up in was if you did well in school and went to college or you went into the Army. That was about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 09:08 PM
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I think at some point though, it's not about willpower but just surviving. I understand where you're coming from because I've never been obese/overweight in my life, so I've always thought it was just excuses. Even when I lived in a food desert, I worked in a restaurant so was always able to make my own food. But obviously everyone there doesn't work in a restaurant that had fresh ingredients (not fast food). When people can't afford that extra $20 to improve their food choices then it's not a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 08:55 PM
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Yeah, you're talking about the basics but what about hunger satiation? I could eat a salad that's 400 calories and I'm super full or eat a burger that's 400 calories and still be hungry. Calories is not the end all be all that people love to make it out to be. When I was cutting weight for my physique, I'd eat a bag of broccoli that was 150 calories for a pound of it which made it easy to feel full. If I only had chicken nuggets, I'd probably eat 800 calories to feel as full as those 150 calorie…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 08:34 PM
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So, you have other options then if you don't buy it. Some people don't have other options, so it's either cheap unhealthy food or starve.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 08:23 PM
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A lot of people live in food deserts where the cheap food is usually unhealthy food. I've lived in a food desert before where the only "grocery store" was a Dollar General if you didn't have a car. Good luck getting a balanced diet from there. Meals tend to be hot dogs/freezer meals/canned vegetables/etc. Not exactly healthy and can be easy to overeat due to calorie dense food.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 07:51 PM
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I go to the gym to put on muscle, if I just wanted to lose weight, I'd just stay out of the kitchen lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 12:38 AM
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You say, "we all are" and then we also have people on PPD who say the juice is not worth the squeeze, so they don't bother improving their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 05:42 PM
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The way I see it is that the state is trying to separate a marriage back into two equal people. If you want to talk about fair then the man should become a SAHD and have the mother provide but that's not feasible because if they divorce then they're also not in the same household anymore. Alimony is basically the state giving the former SAHP the equivalent of a SAHP. No other circumstance is like a marriage where you're able to file jointly. I don't think the breadwinner was ever complaining abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:45 PM
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I know if my wife is a SAHM for 8 years, I'm going to owe alimony. I'm not going to complain after 8 years that it's unfair. If you don't want your wife being a SAHM then make an agreement for both of you to work. If she doesn't work then divorce her, don't wait 8 years after the fact when she's already raised your kids. At that point you're crying over spilled milk.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:08 PM
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Then he should've made that decision up front and found aore compatible partner instead of waiting 8 years and saying it doesn't work anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 10:50 PM
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That's still not a source, this is just speculation on your part. If he was so rich, why would he need his family to bankroll the initial $250k? I have friends who are VPs in finance right now, they make around $200k/year but they're nowhere near rich because high salary doesn't mean you save any of it. Who's richer, the guy making $200k/year and saving $10k a year or the guy making $60k/year and saving $15k?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:27 PM
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Source? He needed a loan from his family/friends to even start Amazon. Literally starting a company in a garage is the opposite of being rich lol. That's something broke college students do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:13 PM
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They started the business in the garage together though. She didn't marry him after Amazon was already big.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:00 PM
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The man got the years of experience in his career. Anyone in a career will tell you that the years of experience are worth their weight in gold. My salary went from 60k/year to over 200k/year with 8 years of experience. Hoping to hit 500k/year after another 5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:57 PM
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Don't expect to rent a 1bdrm apt then lmao. I lived with 3 roommates starting off because the rent was less than half of a 1bdrm apartment. I'm living with roommates now in NYC because I pay less than if I lived on my own. I mean I also worked during high school too because I had a disabled parent. Obviously couldn't buy a house but I was making like $3000/month over the summer working 12-hour days (10 am-10pm in a restaurant). My own lived experience is a bit different because I also ended up w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 05:47 PM
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I mean that advice still works depending on your area. I could go to many places and have a job tomorrow if I needed one. Planet Fitness is always hiring, Target is always hiring, Wal-mart is always hiring, Lowes is always hiring, etc. A job is better than no job, but some people think those jobs are beneath them even if they're unemployed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 05:31 PM
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They're way easier because they don't have power so who cares about them. Power equals sex in a lot of circles, so if they couldn't get sex then they're probably powerless and not an attractive target for a spy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 02:14 AM
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I mean in the US there's 975 men to every 1000 women. How do you explain the 9 to 1 ratio of men to women on Tinder? Easy, most women are not on Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 11:42 PM
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You act like a congressman from California can't get laid otherwise. Pretty sure politicians have their own orgies lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 10:43 PM
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I mean most women are not on OLD else how is there 9x as many men on Tinder. I have a lot of female friends who are not on any dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:12 PM
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This is not the 1800s anymore or did you miss the memo lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:25 AM
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I thought a fat ass was great now, people are paying to have a fat ass. Now a fat belly is another thing, nobody is trying to show off a fat belly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:18 AM
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I mean there are a ton of laws that shouldn't exist but if you're dumb enough to get caught then jokes on you. Just like how it's still illegal to carry weed in certain states.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:47 PM
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Nah, it's just like a man driving a Ferrari. Most people don't care how he made his money.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:21 PM
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I used to live in a state with common law marriages and that's just bad decision making on the streamer's end, you'd have to cohabitate for it to be considered common law marriage iirc. It's just like women angry about getting pump and dumped. Guess he'll think twice about living with his girlfriend from now on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:07 PM
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In a perfect world, people who don't want to be financially and legally tied to someone would just decide not to get married, instead of complaining about it after the fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:24 PM
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I live in NYC and those prices are super cheap. I don't remember the last time a coffee was only $3.50 unless you're talking a small black coffee. Once you add in the milk for a latte or whatever, it goes up to like $6. $8 mini golf? Yeah, more like $20. $15 brunch? Only if you just get appetizers and a drink maybe. Don't forget Tip. Are you sure you're not in the midwest or the suburbs?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:22 PM
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The same can be said about women who turned into an OnlyFans creator and made bank. Wasn't it Amouranth who made millions from Twitch/OnlyFans/etc. and her husband was some nobody she married before she made it big? Taylor Swift's boyfriend will also cash in if or when they get married too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:10 PM
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You mean I can't decide if I want to pay for someone else's meal or I can't decide where I want to eat? What kind of logic is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:55 PM
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No idea but Google might have an answer for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 06:42 PM
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No idea where you live but I can't even get 2 coffees for less than $10. What are you doing for first dates? Splitting a sandwich?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 06:01 PM
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You act like that person can't decline that place. I've declined some choices because I don't eat dairy. I've had people decline going to a sushi place because they don't eat raw fish. Imagine using your mouth to make sounds. If I pick a burger place and you don't eat beef, I'm not going to drag your ass to it. wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:53 PM
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Why does teen love require monogamy? Teenagers also cheat on each other lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:36 PM
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Not employed, in education or training. Basically a bum.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 02:44 AM
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Depends on the industry, it's an unsaid rule just like you can't go into certain corporate jobs with an unkempt beard or a face tattoo.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 01:21 AM
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Alright, make the guys wear makeup too then lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 01:13 AM
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You act like it's only from the left. Meanwhile the right is vocal about hating Biden and hating immigrants and hating gun laws and hating masks, etc. People like to complain, nothing new.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 12:44 AM
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Why not require women to wear suits/ties because men also wear suits/ties? I think it's silly though to require covering up your arms when it's not a normal dress code in our society. If this was Iran, then sure but it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 12:40 AM
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I think this just sounds childish for women to hide their arms. Low cut blouses I can understand but really arms? Next time, they have to hide their ankles too right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 12:19 AM
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I guess the headscarf is next.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 11:50 PM
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Sounds like the best way to get laid is having a less attractive friend. It reminds me of the dating app advice, never be the more unattractive person in your photos.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 11:38 PM
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That link just shows the divorce rates for various occupations. Where's the one with actual data backing up 56% of engineers being married? That's the data I'm interested in, it's been almost a decade since I took a 500 level college class on statistics so the reference to R brings back memories of all-nighters lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 11:11 PM
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More like you made a statement that 56% of engineers are married, then linked two sources with dead links. Once I called you out on that, you tried sending me down a rabbit hole lmao. I did check out the ACS and it says nothing about 56% of engineers being married. Not surprised since if there was an actual data set for it, the two links you gave might have actually properly linked to the data. The fact that both sources you gave had a dead link, just shows that it was a clickbait article for vi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:50 PM
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If the women started approaching the top 10% of men, that still doesn't change anything for the low value men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:01 PM
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You can't find a direct link to the relevant data so you're pushing it on me lol. Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 08:11 PM
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I am happy alone long term. I didn't go on a date between 2019 and the beginning of 2022. Being alone means I don't have to worry about someone else, giving my time to someone else or being accountable to someone else. I could be as selfish as I wanted to be. Don't you have friends to occasionally do things with? If not, then it probably is an easier task to make friends than finding a partner. Lowest barriers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 07:05 PM
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Let's see if those 18-year-old thick legged Latinas want a 35-year-old NEET.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:59 PM
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What exactly is wrong with buying something you want? You might not pay the $77k for the car but I bet they sell thousands of that model every year. Who cares what you value or what you see as a false sense of spending if it's not your money that they're spending. If it is your money, then you're not compatible and should probably break up. Also, it's not just women, what about men who spend $250k+ on a Lambo or Ferrari?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:57 PM
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There are thousands of random employment websites. I skimmed the article and clicked the link for the source only to get redirected to another random site called zippia. Can you link the primary source data then? I'm doing fine dating as an engineer but I've always been interested in studies but what gets linked on here is always some random super bias website that doesn't even have a legitimate primary source. 99% of studies linked on PPD are just advertisement farms with a clickbait title that…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:50 PM
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My point was that comparing penis to pussy is stupid because one has zero value to anyone. Anyone, man or woman can get a free penis in their bed tonight as long as they're not in the middle of nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:44 PM
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You literally didn't even learn from your first source lmfao. Another random website called "the ladders" that also dead links their source. Guess I should just make an article that says whatever I want and then dead link the source as proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:22 PM
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Your example reminds me of the "study" that showed that women in Washington had an average of 40 past sexual partners. The proof is the absence of an actual study. I've yet to see a scientific study on the divorce rates of engineers or their dating struggle. If you do find one, I'm interested in reading such a study.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:14 PM
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That's because penis is free. If you want one, then try out grindr. Even unattractive men can get "dates" off grindr.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:05 PM
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Sure, men can go on grindr and do the same thing. It has nothing to do with women and more to do with the fact that men will take anything with a hole including other men. If you want a penis, then go on Grindr.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:03 PM
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Let them complain in their bedroom on the internet, it's not going to change anything though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:01 PM
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Lmao, nice source. A site called "electronic products" that has a dead link when clicking the actual study link in the post. That source you posted is not even worth the time to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:00 PM
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Some people are great as friends and terrible as a partner. For example, people who say yes to everything. If I have a friend who's willing to lend money to their friends, cool. If my wife is someone who's willing to lend our money to friends, nah fuck that, that's my money too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 02:57 PM
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Being a good person doesn't make you an attractive person. Being a good person just means you're a good person.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 02:53 PM
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Sounds more like you're a masochist if you go out seeking people who hate you. I didn't even know who Drew Afualo was, had to look her up. You can pretty much find someone popular to hate on anything. I mean even Kanye started saying the quiet things out loud and became a literal Nazi. Do you think Drew Afualo cares what men think of her? She's probably making bank off her simps regardless, she's just like the female version of Andrew Tate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 05:04 AM
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Confidence doesn't mean being loud or not giving a fuck and being a rebel or whatever. If you're not going to give a fuck and just want to piss people off, then yeah, you're going to come across as an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 05:01 AM
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As someone else said, she still has to pass the boner test lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:42 AM
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Might have to do with age or how you grew up. I was an only child until 12 so I'm used to doing things alone if need be. If I want to try a new restaurant and no one is available, then I'll go on my own and get a table for one. Like even if I'm alone, I'm never lonely if that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 01:46 AM
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Guess I find my own company enjoyable. I can do things alone or with people, it doesn't really matter to me. Probably has to do with the fact that I grew up an only child until I was 12.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 01:44 AM
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I'm 29 so yeah under 30. How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 01:35 AM
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I mean I have separate goals from a relationship. I want to visit multiple countries, retire my mom, try different food, experience different cultures and events. I think there's more to life than a relationship or having kids. Think about what you would be doing in a relationship. I hope you're not just going to sit at home and look at each other all day lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 01:33 AM
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Not if it means the other partner doesn't want to do said thing with an exception for social events like birthday parties/weddings/family events/etc. I like watching the SuperBowl, the only football game I watch every year. I don't expect my partner to just sit through 2 hours of it just for my sake. I think it's better for both of us if she does what she wants with her time. Do you ever go out without your partner? Like to a sports game with the bros?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 01:29 AM
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Are you saying she's not willing to do any of that if it's not the ballet? Like I can get my partner to dress up nice for dinner and then go watch a movie we both want to watch or see a stand-up comedy set or music artist that we're both interested in, that then leads to sex at home as well. I'm just wondering if the ballet is required.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 12:29 AM
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I always found date night to be better if it's a mutually interesting thing. No idea why I would ever go to the ballet as a date night especially if it's not of extreme importance to her. I'd just suggest doing something else like going to a nice restaurant or some other fun activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 12:19 AM
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I'm sure a growing percentage of people are also getting fatter and even more broke. Probably correlates with people who are not dating because they just have no options. Like do you date? If you don't date, is it because you have no options?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 12:15 AM
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If you're not sexually compatible then break up. So you would be fine if your partner slept with someone else because he had wanted sex more often than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 11:38 PM
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Depends on your lifestyle and if you're dating. If you stay at home all day after work, then sure it's cheaper. I did that in the past where I was saving over half my paycheck every month. Nowadays though, I spend more on clothes/food/experiences like music/movies/restaurants/etc. Child-free doesn't mean you're not dating; in fact it gives you more time to date in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 09:12 PM
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I don't expect my partner to just "suck it up" and just go with me. I like to watch the World Championship of LoL every year. My partners in the past all hated it, so I just watched it with friends who were also interested. I don't have to do things solely with my partner. My ex loves watching Keeping up with the Kardashians and I find it absolutely boring, so I don't watch, and she understands. I'd obviously suck it up for family events but not for a damn ballet lol. Doesn't she have friends wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 08:42 PM
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Changes for you and putting on an act are different things imo. Changing for someone sounds more permanent whereas an act is only temporary. What happens when the mask slips off?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 08:07 PM
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Some people are lazy, entitled, fat and ridiculous but does that mean the entire country is? I don't think so. I've had a lot of great dating experiences that I don't regret. Usually though it's an incompatibility like wanting different things out of life or different timelines for children that end it for me. My point was just to fish somewhere else other than fishing in Virginia. Don't go fishing on Instagram and Tinder if you don't want some entitled western woman. To say that the entire coun…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 07:38 PM
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I mean if you're trying to find someone great in bumfuck nowhere or strictly off the apps then yeah, good luck. My best relationship experiences have been through mutual friends in NYC. The apps are just great for hook ups and people who ghost, that's the honest truth. I also tried to find people in a small college town of about 150k and the options were not that great. At least NYC has 8 million people so there's at least some chance haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 07:19 PM
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Software developer with almost a decade experience in big tech in NYC. https://www.levels.fyi/?compare=Google,Facebook,Microsoft&track=Software%20Engineer# Look what a staff engineer makes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 07:15 PM
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If you want to go abroad then go ahead, I'm not interested in having to deal with immigration and whatnot. My friend did that and it's such a hassle to even vet a woman overseas who might just take you to the cleaners after her green card comes through. I also don't even worry about fat chicks. I don't associate with them just like I don't associate with broke people. Why would I stress myself with woman I don't even see as an option?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 06:59 PM
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Eh, I kind of agree with that pod speaker. Most men are average looking so they're not doomed to fail if they actually do something with themselves. Most people nowadays are just lazy imo, hence why the country is full of obese and overweight people. I think most people can improve their dating options with self-improvement but there are a few who have no hope. If a man is 5'4, then sure he's fucked but that's only 3 out of every 100 men. If a man is butt ugly that nothing helps, then yeah, he's…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 06:44 PM
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I didn't hit my stride until 27. My dating life between 23 and 27 is light years apart in terms of matches. But if he's one of those 40-year-old virgins then yeah, I got no hope for him. I also don't know what he looks like so I get that people can be super ugly and out of the market due to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 06:30 PM
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This reminds me of the conversation that people have in high school about college. Everyone is like, "OMG college is going to be so fun, all the parties and all the freedom and so much fun and no more drama." Then you actually go to college and its basically just high school again with maybe some parties here and there, but the drama still decides to show up lol. Then people are like " OMG once we graduate college and start working, it's going to be so great and finally no drama." Then you reali…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:18 PM
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Just look up genuine burning desire I know you have Google. Looks like a bunch of RP influencers trying to sell inexperienced men a dream. I don't see any scientific study and just a bunch of books/twitter posts by RP influencers. But you can continue to believe in this burning desire, doesn't look like I can change your mind, so cheers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:09 PM
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I'm curious to see how your opinion will or will not change after you've been in a relationship. It's not always sunshine and flowers haha. You're basically joining two different people together so it's a lot of getting to know someone and how they operate, that's a lot of the work. That's why everyone says communication is so important. I've been in like 5 relationships in my life and most do have that butterflies and rainbows for the first 2-3 months but they also all stabilized. I'd actually …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:00 PM
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Sounds like someone was trying to sell you a dream then. Relationships are a lot of work and whoever says it's not, is lying to you. I don't think this genuine burning desire exists besides the honeymoon phase. It's not some super rare thing unless we're talking about a king and his mistress or some other unequal power dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 03:52 PM
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I mean if you're talking about density or whatever, then maybe it's time for some minoxidil or finasteride. If it's severe then a hair transplant might be the answer. I don't compare my skin to others, I compare it to my own. We all have different skin types/composition so what's the point of comparing to others. Here are some examples. https://www.dearbrightly.com/blog/tretinoin-before-and-after/
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 03:27 PM
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So how many relationships have you been in? And how many were with a woman who showed genuine burning desire for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 03:23 PM
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Honestly just sounds like the honeymoon phase then. Who knows maybe you've experienced this fantasy but all of my relationships have just been normal relationships. The women still had their periods and it was a week of trying to be on her good side lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 05:02 AM
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You've been in a relationship where there's absolutely no disagreements because she's so infatuated with you? I call bullshit because no one is perfect which means no relationship is perfect either. Like I said, this sounds like some fantasy that men tell other men in the internet. Better yet, did you hear this from Tate or some RP influencer?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:45 AM
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That sounds like a fantasy that inexperienced men try to sell other inexperienced men on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:32 AM
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Exactly, so her going to Europe vs staying in NYC and cheating on me, doesn't really change anything. I'd just end the relationship. Not sure about this genuine burning desire thing though, sounds like the honeymoon phase of a new relationship. That shit dies down after a while regardless of if she truly values me or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 03:44 AM
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I mean she can be on my side without defending my honor or whatever. As long as she's not the one insulting me for no reason then I really don't care what others say. Now if I did or said something stupid then it's fair game, she can join in. I don't take myself too seriously nor do I want a woman who takes herself too seriously. Life is better without the stress.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 03:41 AM
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I mean if she wanted to cheat, she could just cheat here in NYC. Going to Europe doesn't really give any advantage. If she does cheat, I can just break up and move on to someone else. No big deal, let the trash take itself out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 03:38 AM
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I use a retinol cream and moisturizer, definitely notice results. My skin is way more even tone and smooth after using the retinol for 6 months now. As for hair, you can get a perm to change texture if you want. I have naturally straight hair due to being east Asian so a perm gives me curls.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 03:13 AM
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Do you need your girl to defend you though? I don't need anyone to defend me so maybe we're just different. I don't really care what random people think of me. If your friends are insulting you then it's time to find new friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:59 AM
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To me, that sounds like an incompatibility. It's just like if a man was childfree, I hope his wife doesn't just decide to get knocked up by the neighbor.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:03 AM
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I don't find it hard to believe that 80% of Americans don't go to the gym. I find it hard to believe that people who want to go to the gym are unable to go. Like if you don't want to go then of course you're not going to go if it's not required. You said Most people can't even get to the gym 3 times a WEEK When it's actually something along the lines of Most people don't want to go to the gym 3 times a WEEK
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:02 AM
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Let they know and if they're against you being intimate with others then break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 01:44 AM
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Care to name acceptable situations? If you say it's because of a dead bedroom or whatever, then just break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 01:37 AM
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Sounds like you can't handle having your ego bruised. For me personally, I don't have this "stand by your man" requirement from my partner if there's a hint of truth to it. Like if someone called me stupid after I did something stupid then sure I deserved it. If someone said something racist, I don't see the point of telling them off because it's not going to change their mind anyways. I'd just choose to cut those racist people from our lives and if she continues to hang around them then I'd bre…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 01:31 AM
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Add in work from home and you can fuck during lunch too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 01:15 AM
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Most people can't even get to the gym 3 times a WEEK. Don't act like this isn't worthy of questioning. More like they don't prioritize it. I find it hard to believe some people can't make it to the 24 hour gym for 30 mins to an hour. Like what are they doing with their time? Newborn? I think those people just don't want to work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 01:13 AM
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The only person I have to blame is myself if I didn't at least try everything I could. Stop taking accountability for outcomes, take accountability for actions. Sounds like you just restated what I said. I get that there are unavoidable obstacles but it's up to me to do as much as I can or look back in regret. As long as I put in all my effort, I can say that I truly tried. I might fail but it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 10:31 PM
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I don't give up easy, but I also know when I want to call it quits. I put all my effort into a relationship when I'm in one, but I also know that if I'm the only one putting in 100% then that's a relationship I don't want to be a part of. It's a mutual effort to keep a relationship going.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 10:28 PM
1

Have you ever lived in or been to the US? Also, where are you from, for reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 10:27 PM
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A lot of Americans also rent instead of own their place. I know every apartment I lived at didn't allow us to change our oil on premise. Why would I buy oil and then find a spot to change it when I can just pay $20 and have someone do all the work. I spend an extra $5 and save myself so much work/clean up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 09:20 PM
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I can see people letting themselves go during a relationship and then wondering where the sexual spark went. For example, men and women will stop going to the gym and start putting on weight OR they might just stop date nights altogether. At that point, it's like a roommate who just happen to have kids together kind of situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 08:01 PM
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Sounds like most people in unhappy relationships and the blame is not just on women. Personally, I'd be looking for a divorce than staying with a woman that I was unhappy with. I'd rather be happy single than unhappily married.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 07:55 PM
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And you wonder why no one wants you? Like damn lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 07:48 PM
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If you tried and it didn't work out then that's all you can really do. I go to the gym regularly and keep up with a fresh cut and nice clothes so even if I get rejected, I know I did everything I could. The worst feeling is not trying for me because it creates regret. If I asked a girl out and she said no then cool but that's better than never asking her out or wondering if it's my hair/clothes/physique that held me back, at least for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 06:52 PM
1

I'm not the best dancer but I got better with YouTube and a full-length mirror in my living room. I'm naturally really bad with rhythm but I can at least look like I know what I'm doing. No one is dancing salsa or ballroom in the club so just keep some easy moves and you're good to go. Half the time, you're probably just grinding anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 06:32 PM
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I was merely trying to tell you to stop basing your life on these demographic trends. Live your life, we all fail at things, but it doesn't mean you shouldn't even try. I remember when I first started dating and one of the most parroted stat back then was that Asian men are the least desirable. Well, I'm an Asian man and I could've just given up and lived with that knowledge. Instead, I figured, what do I have to lose by trying? In my mind, at worst it was just going to be a blow to my ego if I …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 06:27 PM
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Here's the thing, I don't care about demographic trends. They are legitimate but I have no control over them so why would I live my life that way? 10% of people make six figures. Over 50% of people are obese. Over 50% of people don't have enough savings to last a month unemployed. If it's cost prohibitive then work on getting there. It took me five years, so what. It was worth it in the end. It took me three years to get into great physical shape at the gym too. It took me four years to get my d…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 06:03 PM
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Again, you're the common denominator. If you can't meet people, then move. I moved 12 hours away last year after planning the move for 5 years. If you're unable to have success where you're at then make a plan and take action. I would've moved after 3 years of saving up, but Covid got in the way. If you want to stay due to family/job/whatever, then that's your own choice and there's nothing anyone else can do for you then.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 05:48 PM
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I don't mind tats, everyone has them now in their 20s here in the US. Maybe you're not from the US so it could be different where you're at.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 05:45 PM
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If the conversation is long dead, then yeah, move on. But if you can't even start/keep one going then that's something to work on. If she's obviously not interested then don't just keep it going, there's no point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 05:44 PM
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I've seen a bunch over the years of going to the gym. My favorite is when all they say is um um um um um.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 04:12 PM
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Sure but if they're mid twenties and still virgins then the common denominator is them. Everyone gets rejected but if it never works then at some point you have to do some introspection. I strike out a lot just like anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 04:06 PM
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I mean if you can't talk and strike up a conversation then yeah, I'd call that socially awkward. Like do they expect the women to always take the lead in conversations? You don't need to have anything to talk about, just small talk. "Hey, I like your shoes, where'd you get them" or "That's a sick tattoo, I've been thinking of getting one too." Easy shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 02:31 PM
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I thought this entire post was about clubs or bars.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 02:23 PM
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Time to save up for the height surgery, that's what all the short tech guys are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 02:22 PM
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All decent looking, all have stable good income jobs, all have a newish cars yet 6/10 of them I'd bet are still virgins. Are they socially awkward around women? I've seen gymbros who literally stutter when talking to a hot girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 02:10 PM
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Nah make it money and cooking matched. I make money so she better know how to cook something homemade and not out of a freezer box.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 02:08 PM
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I just meant in a club setting. They're not going to see your micropeen until it's time for business and there's not enough talking going on to get the ick unless you're very socially awkward. Obese/rail thin, I can see but I still put height ahead of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:52 PM
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Not to sound patronizing but I don't think that's a big deal. I'm 5'10 so just an inch taller and I do alright for myself. I don't think the inch matters that much, but I guess every little bit helps. How's your fitness?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:41 PM
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Nah, none of those 3 things are as up front as height. Maybe physique if that means super obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 03:20 AM
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Most women are not at the clubs though. What you said might be true if you're trying to talk to women from everyday life. I think you'd have more success in the clubs being jacked than being slim imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 03:00 AM
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I do agree that height is first if the man is super short, think 5'4 or under.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 12:34 AM
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Sure, if you're super short then yeah but above 5'5 or so and fitness becomes more important imo. Just need to find a 5'3 chick at the club to make sure you're taller than her. But if you're 4'11 then yeah, good luck finding a 4'9 chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 12:34 AM
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You definitely can tell if someone lifts even if they wear a collared shirt and pants. https://i.imgur.com/mq6kxVt.png
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 12:32 AM
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Are you having full conversations in the club? Whenever I went, there wasn't much talking going on. Mostly just dancing, so if you somehow fucked up by saying something in the 5 seconds of conversation then that's kinda on you imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 12:30 AM
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How tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 12:27 AM
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Who said anything about a relationship? Most people just go to find a hookup.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 12:21 AM
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Depends on if she's had enough drinks for the beer goggles to come in. I've been in the right place at the right time before.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 12:20 AM
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It doesn't have to be a keyboard but just destruction of property in general or inability to control their anger. The overall prevalence of inappropriate, intense, or poorly controlled anger in the U.S. population was 7.8%. Anger was especially common among men and younger adults, and was associated with decreased psychosocial functioning. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4384185/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 11:54 PM
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I agree that it would have to be a discussion point beforehand. I get that you get what you pay for, but nothing can buy undivided attention and unconditional love. By that I mean, you can't find a daycare that is really going to go above and beyond, they're just going to provide what you pay for. I could care less about the yoga or speaking 3 languages but more so the ability to just give all your attention to the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 09:48 PM
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I mean if they want their kids raised by one of them and she makes more money then yeah, it's on him to stay home. You might not care about who raises/takes care of your kids, but some people do. I personally will not put my kids in daycare because I was in daycare as a kid and it was awful. My experience was getting some goldfish and then just watching Disney movies for hours and hours until nap time. Rinse and repeat. My mom has already volunteered to take care of my kids though because that's…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 09:27 PM
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I mean you just need one parent to stay home so this would just mean your spouse would stay home while you continue working on your own employment ambitions. It's literally what happens in a lot of households where the husband is the breadwinner CEO/lawyer/doctor/etc. and the wife stays home to take care of the kids. In regard to OP's post, the role would just be reversed where the wife is the breadwinner, and the husband is a SAHP.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 09:15 PM
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Here's the thing though, after a certain point, going to the gym is purely for looks. I'm 5'10 and 175 lbs. I could maintain this level of fitness and probably be in the top 5% of the US population. At this point, it's not about health/fitness because I work a tech job, I don't need more strength to write code. I think wearing nicer clothes is better for society because it makes society look better and brings joy to people. Imagine going everywhere and it looked like Skid Row because everyone is…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 09:05 PM
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I am answering the question, you just don't agree with me. I do think it's a good thing that it matters. If it didn't matter, people wouldn't care to put effort into their appearance and thus most of us would be walking around with old clothes and yellow teeth. I don't find that attractive so I think it is a good thing that physical appearance matters. The only people who'd think it would be a good thing that it didn't matter are the ones who don't put effort into their appearance thus it would …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:53 PM
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Yes I do think it matters, just like I think having regular sex in a relationship matters. If you're fine with a dead bedroom/asexual then you might not think it matters and that's cool. I need my gf/wife to be physically attractive to me or I'd break up/divorce her. I've been in a relationship before where I wasn't physically attracted to her, and it just didn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:45 PM
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It's part of the process, physical attraction is important in a relationship and thus how you dress yourself matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:31 PM
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It seems like you don't understand how dating works. Do you regularly date women? It sounds like you're one of the users on here that has no experience dating and hopes everyone just does the bare minimum along with you. The guys who say they have a job and are not fat, and now deserve a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:28 PM
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What exactly is a successful fitness business? I've seen a bunch of personal trainers who barely make ends meet because they don't have enough clients. They might pull in $2000/month on a good month.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:26 PM
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Depends on what stage in life you're in. If you want the stability and everything that comes with it then cool. I'm in a phase where I'm not looking to settle down and have kids anytime soon, so dating around is great because I don't have to hold myself accountable to someone else either. She can go have fun with someone else if I'm busy for a few weeks due to work. I don't have to deal with keeping in touch so to speak, all the little things in a relationship. It also means I don't have to ask …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:24 PM
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There's being competitive and then there's being stupid. Like I'm super competitive but I'm not going to break my own keyboard because I lost a game. That just means I have to buy myself a new one. My roommate in college ended up punching a hole in the wall over a videogame. My dad broke a brand-new pc monitor out of rage too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:20 PM
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You don't have to be convicted in order to be violent. I'm sure a bunch of the fights that break out in bars don't lead to a formal charge. I personally don't care to fight but I have had people try to square up with me, I just back away because it's not worth the risk. For all I know, he could have a knife in his pants with the intent to use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:19 PM
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I mean OP's goes on dates with women, so I'd assume compatibility is judged on those dates. But off the bat, there are certain things that you can figure out off the rip. If someone wore a MAGA/Antivax hat, I'd already know that they're not compatible with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:14 PM
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Some people don't believe in daycare, they don't want their kids raised by random people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:11 PM
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Did you read the second paragraph? I'm sure having to stay home and run a household might affect building your own business.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:31 PM
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It's a good thing if you enjoy getting no dates or a dead bedroom. Physical appearance is one of the most important parts when it comes to attraction. The only people who say it's a good thing to not care about your appearance are the ones who are not trying to find a date or that handle rejection extremely well. If you're not trying to date other people, then sure don't put effort into your clothes. No issue with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:46 PM
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It adds another dimension to someone. Someone who can dress vs someone who can't dress says a lot about them. I don't care about the latest trends but if you go around wearing clothes that are old/torn or too big/too small, it probably means you don't care about your appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:30 PM
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I own a primary home and rental property In a good neighborhood, Don't dox yourself but what does this even mean? Like are you living in Westchester or somewhere relatively far from Manhattan? Some recent stats 12% of New Yorkers earn 6 figs. I would like to know the age range,what percentage are under 40. 12% of over 8 million people is still 1 million people, filter through age and whatnot and it's still a sizeable number of people, hundreds of thousands. You don't think women see a bunch of h…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 06:52 PM
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One of them said the guy was single for 15 years. That’s not the same thing as saying “they have zero experiences” Might as well be zero experience. Go tell an employer that you have experience, but it was 15 years ago, they'll laugh at you just like anyone else would.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 06:38 PM
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I mean you're the 40 year old virgin are you not? Anyone who's not doing it out of choice definitely has something weird about them or they're just ugly, man or woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 06:35 PM
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Lmao, who cares if it's superficial, everyone is superficial. No one cares if you got the personality of a saint if you look like a trainwreck. I'm sure you've learned that in life already or you're just naive/young.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 06:02 PM
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I think a 6 pack is overrated imo. I used to have one, but I was way too lean and like 150 lbs. I get more compliments for my shoulders/arms/back than I ever did for my six pack. You can't exactly see a six pack with clothes on, especially in the winter. I'll cut down in the summer and bring it back if I feel like maintaining it for a couple months but who knows. Owning a home means nothing in NYC because everyone is renting anyways and if you own then it probably means you're still renting or l…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 05:48 PM
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I'm east Asian think Chinese/Japanese features. I work out so got big shoulders and great hair which are my most complimented features. Never really got a compliment on my face specifically lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 05:41 PM
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I'm a 29-year-old Asian but I date in NYC so there are a lot of women here. I wouldn't call myself that attractive but I'm 5'10, 175 lbs and fit so maybe I go against the Asian stereotype of being short and skinny. Definitely had women say that I'm attractive for an Asian man but that's like a backhand compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 05:24 PM
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Now it's 2%? Can you show these stats? I'm definitely not 8 9 or 10 and I hooked up over the summer up to just before halloween weekend on the apps. Edit: How old are you because as much as guys on here want to say that men get better with age, most young women don't want to go out with men who are significantly older. I'm in that sweet spot at 29 imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 05:16 PM
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Yeah, if you're around 30 then it's a buffet in cities like NYC. 25 might make you too young for women who are also 25 and 40 makes you too old for some women imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 04:02 PM
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I mean if you're on the app for 20 years, that's not a good sign that you're looking for something serious or you're just unattractive in which case it doesn't matter about your anecdotal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 04:00 PM
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It doesn't mean you just give up though. I lived with a Chad in college and it was so easy for him because he had the boyish good looks. I was the nerdy Asian guy in that circle who just happened to randomly get paired with him in the dorms. But to say it wasn't motivating would be a lie. I started dressing better and got rid of my dorky glasses, hit the gym and just got to the point of being the best version of myself. I do alright for myself nowadays but will never be at his level but who care…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 03:51 PM
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Nobody wants an unhygienic person, that's already implied just like no one goes out looking for someone with a disfigured face.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 03:47 PM
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Oh that's after giving birth. Most people are busy taking care of the baby to even think about sex at that point lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 09:20 PM
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You can still have sex when your wife is pregnant. It's not some 9 months of celibacy lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 07:46 PM
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At a daycare, you're able to go home and leave the work there. You're also working with other people so it's not a one-person show and you're able to call in sick. A doctor is paid more because of the upfront cost of education (time & money) and malpractice insurance, not necessarily because it's harder. A doctor in another country with free education does not make as much as they do in the US. I make more money than plenty of doctors because I work in tech, but I wouldn't call my work harder ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:45 PM
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Can we agree that a babysitter/daycare does a lot less than a housewife? I've had to take care of my younger brother and cousins but it's nowhere near what my mom did. I didn't have to do laundry, buy/cook groceries, clean the house, set up doctor appointments, etc. I'm a guy with no interest in being a stay-at-home parent because personally I find it a lot easier to go into my office job than to stay home and take care of a home. Until you have had to deal with young children, I don't really th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:25 PM
5

How many kids do you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:01 PM
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No shit, he was married for 24 years. We don't have the details of their prenup agreement. Some prenups only protect assets brought into a marriage and not assets earned during the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:56 PM
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California does acknowledge legit prenups though. Stop spreading misinformation. Sure, some of them get tossed because they're not even worth the paper they're printed on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:52 PM
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Not necessarily on only fans but on youtube and twitch. There are plenty of streamers/youtubers who are making $$$ like Mr Beast, Casey Neistat, xqc and let's not forget the smaller streamers who still bring in six figures.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:47 PM
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Plenty of wealthy guys if you're willing to go older.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 02:42 PM
1

Sure I get that, I did sports in high school as well as JROTC. But watching sports in a bar with other guys is not my definition of masculine bonding unless you just want an excuse to drink. I already said I'm down to play sports but I can't stand watching them on the TV especially with all the ads they show.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 02:21 PM
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What are these men doing in their 20s besides working if they're alone? Do they just go to work and go home to play videogames and then wonder why they're alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:04 AM
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That's not the reason it's more common in boys. At least do some preliminary research before spreading misinformation. According to some research, Autism is more prevalent in men because we have an X and Y chromosome while women have two X chromosomes. If one of the woman's X chromosome has mutations, then the second one can back it up while men don't have a spare X chromosome to fix the mutation. Dr. Roche’s team found that the problems with NLGN4Y were due to a single amino acid. The researche…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 12:56 AM
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I'm open to playing sports, but I absolutely cannot watch someone else play them because I get bored with all of the commercials. My parents never watched sports besides the Olympics, so it was never a thing at my house. I did watch a lot of WWE smackdown as a kid though lmao. For masculine bonding though, I go and lift weights with friends. Nothing better than getting a good pump.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 12:18 AM
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Not everyone likes sports. I find it boring to watch someone else play with a ball, like insanely boring. I only watch one football game a year and that's only because of the halftime show, I bet you can guess which game that is. I enjoy working out at the gym so I'm not some couch potato but mostly because it's a nice dopamine dose.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 12:02 AM
3

Not everyone breaks up for cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 12:39 AM
3

You can change your weight; you can't change your height.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 12:37 AM
1

Most people don't go to university though. They might where you're from but 50% of my graduating class went into the military, 25% went into the workforce and the rest went into school like a 4-year college or 2-year community college or a trade school.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 11:46 PM
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It's not the aging but the weight gain. I've seen plenty of women who put on 30+ lbs of weight over those 5 years from 20-25.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 11:41 PM
1

I mean most people graduate high school at 18/19 and some younger people might graduate a few months shy of 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 11:40 PM
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I have a few female friends from work and playing videogames who I am not sexually attracted too but they are fun to hang out with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 11:33 PM
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You didn't seek them out though, they were already coworkers. I'm assuming OP was asking if you just randomly go out in public and try to befriend random unattractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 11:31 PM
2

Facts. I grew up with a father who had a very short temper. I thought it was normal to have shouting matches at home. I thought everyone did it behind closed doors until I lived with friends during college.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 11:27 PM
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I'm not talking about just the 2 free checks. I'm talking about the months and months of free unemployment bonuses. I know people who got over $30k worth of unemployment in 12 months. That's a hefty amount of money for staying home.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 10:53 PM
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There were about 1,000 people in greek life at my school out of 30,000 people. That's like 3% of the student body. The cost was like $6,000 a year to pledge so most people couldn't afford it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 04:45 PM
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The same can be said about most attractive men on social media having worse looking partners too. If you're attractive, chances are your partner is going to be less attractive since there are less attractive people compared to unattractive/less attractive people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 04:40 PM
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Money doesn't work like that though. It's always been about supply and demand. I remember during the beginning of the covid pandemic when everyone got free money and there was a shortage of cars/houses, the prices of cars/houses skyrocketed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 04:37 PM
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If only it was that easy, your privilege is showing. Try living in a food desert in certain parts of the US. I remember living somewhere that only had a dollar general as the "grocery store" and there was no gym besides the small room at the high school for students.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 01:28 PM
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Your point sounds like something you just made up in your head based off what you read on the internet. High libido women are just as picky as other women because they still have a lot of options. It's not like they're left with the barely attractive men. They're also great in bed from my own experiences, great at sucking dick and being on top.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 01:02 PM
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Most of the US is overweight, even the military has physical requirements. If you can't pass the PT test, the military doesn't want you. If you're too old, the military doesn't want you. It's not some free meal ticket nor do you make 6 figures off the bat. I know a lot of people who make $1900/month and they leave the military after 4 years barely making more than $2000/month. That's $24k/year, not six figures.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 12:48 PM
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Hahahaha, what happened to being witty and funny? It's funny when even deep down, you know what matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 12:34 PM
4

Look up the definition of hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 12:31 PM
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Go to the major cities of China. Average young male height is like 174 cm which is almost 5'9. The younger generation is taller than the older generation due to better nutrition. Women's average is like 162 cm or almost 5'4 comparatively.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 02:26 AM
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Yeah because you're just vibing to the music. Some people sing along too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 02:16 AM
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Maybe it's normal for you but I've never rode in the car without music or a podcast going. Maybe it's my ADHD but I tend to zone out if I only have the road to focus on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 01:21 AM
5

That's what a good playlist is for. Do you guys just not listen to music?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 12:51 AM
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I obviously didn't mean become mute but to keep conversation to a minimum as in need to know. Don't treat it like a date and share your life story or debate topics like religion/politics/sexual kinks/etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 11:07 PM
2

Only if you're interested in relationships. Otherwise, you can continue to just fuck someone different from the club each night.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 10:55 PM
3

Chad and the more recent GigaChad is pop culture at this point due to all the tiktok memes. It's not confined to just black pill rhetoric. Stacy is just the female version of Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 10:29 PM
6

Don't forget the worst birth rates globally are in South Korea. Worse than Japan or China or any other country on the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 10:26 PM
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Over in China at least, they like men who are 180 cm. That's like 5'11 so basically 6'. But on a more important note, you need a house/car/career.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 10:24 PM
12

You might've just avoided getting your kidneys harvested tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 10:21 PM
1

Money itself means nothing, it's what you do with the money. If you use the money to dress better, groom better, hire a fitness coach, whatever then yeah. But if you're just walking around flashing you banking app or credit card then good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 06:08 PM
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10 mins is a quickie, it's not supposed to last long. But 20-30 mins is enough time for some foreplay and 4-5 positions. What the fuck is 20 mins of struggle snuggle lmao, might have done similar for like a couple mins but not 20 mins and definitely not an everyday thing to struggle snuggle for 20 mins.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 04:13 PM
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LMAO, you really fucking for an hour? God damn you must have found all the nymphos. Most women I have sex with is like 20-30 mins tops. Quickies are like 10 mins. I'm in great shape too so it's not a stamina issue. Most people don't fuck for an hour everyday unless you're a student/unemployed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 02:22 PM
1

You clearly don't get out lol. I don't think there's any guy who's desired by majority of women. Like even Future gets a lot of women but he's so polarizing that he also turns off a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 12:31 PM
2

It's more like what hasn't he said. He comes on too strong a lot of the time. 0-100 real quick. It works sometimes but very rare lol. "Can't wait until we get back to my place so I can tie you up".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 12:13 PM
7

We all have, it's a part of the process. Some of the cringe shit I said in the past should never have made it out of my mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 05:33 AM
21

Easy to get her into bed if he keeps his mouth shut. One of my friends is a former model who fucks everything up by opening his mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 05:13 AM
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No going to lie, if my girlfriend got fat, lost her job or started whining all the time, I'd be gone too. I think that's human nature. Some people might not leave because they feel like they have no other options though or they're afraid of being alone/single.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 12:43 AM
1

You missed the entire point. If a woman just lies there and expects me to do all the work then no thanks. What if a guy just lies there and has you ride him the entire time?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 11:02 PM
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How many women do you have responsibility over? I don't hold myself responsible for another adult, they're free to do what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 06:33 PM
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They don't care about learning they care about experience. I can learn everything. I learned to automatise testing website's UI using NodeJS ect ect... They don't care. I have to lie about my experience. Then learn it right now instead of waiting for someone to hire you for it. You don't need a job that uses something to learn how to use it. I'm looking to learn more about machine learning this year and I have little to no experience with it now. Dynamic programming problems are generally not ea…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:13 PM
1

Yeah well it's again one of these things where they don't want me because I've never been working with it... Despite I'd wish more structure in the work environment. Then start using unit tests then. Don't know why you can't just learn on your own and implement in your own code. I had to pick it up in my second job as well because I didn't use them before. I haven't used C or C++ in my professional life either, but you must remember how of a pain in the ass memory management is. It was a pain bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:50 PM
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Don't men who want submissive women, frame a relationship as a leader and a follower? I don't want a follower; I want a partner. I'll judge the decision based on merit rather than who came up with the idea. If she has a better idea, then I'm all ears.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:23 PM
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Academia is noticeably different from industry imo. I didn't even hear about TDD until my second job and now it's the standard everywhere I go. I wouldn't work somewhere if they didn't practice TDD but try telling that to a professor lol. I also haven't used C or C++ in years so can't really comment on them and what the best practices are. I'm not looking for optimal solutions to Leetcode problems. I'm looking for someone's problem solving ability and how they work a problem out. That's why peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:18 PM
1

TDD What I like most about these early assertions, is that it fits very neatly into a TDD style of coding. You write your most basic test, which may be null or empty arrays. Then you write a single return to match this test. As you add more tricky tests, you can add more one-liners to catch these early on, as is the case with arrays of different lengths. What does this look like without the early returns? More nesting, more places for bugs to hide before your return is reached. Not to mention ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:19 PM
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You told me guys are desperate for a guy who knows the basics of coding. A CS master degree should be a hint. I said someone who can code, as in they are experienced in coding. I'm not looking for someone I have to teach the basics too, they should already know them from prior experience. A CS master degree means nothing to me if you can't pass a leetcode test. I don't even have a CS master degree, just a bachelor's degree but I have 8 years of full-time experience. The consensus is that multipl…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:12 PM
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Also diplomas are certifications. Diplomas don't certify anything because there are no standardizations. A diploma from two different schools means different things. A computer science degree from Stanford holds more weight than a computer science degree from ASU online school. If degrees meant anything, why do nurses and doctors still have to take board exams after graduation? Why do lawyers need to take the bar exam after law school? Why do even mechanics have to pass state licensure exams aft…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:42 PM
3

Time to consider the hair transplant or toupee.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:09 PM
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You don't need a GitHub, my repos are all private anyways. Leetcode is just the cheapest/fastest way to vet someone. I guess you've never done hiring before. Some people can't code their way out of a paper bag because this field doesn't require any professional certification like other engineering fields. My brother is a civil engineer and they're required to be certified, software doesn't require shit. How is it picky to want someone who can at least code and logically reason their way through …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 12:27 PM
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That's what I mean, LinkedIn is trash. I'm also a software engineer and it's a lot easier to get a good job through a referral from friends. You're basically proving my point. How good are your leetcode and behavioral interview skills?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 11:33 AM
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NYC apps are still hit or miss but if you go out to the clubs/bars then yeah it's pretty good imo. Add in dating through mutual friends and it's great, at least in my experience. I'm not religious nor Hispanic so don't really know about that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:12 AM
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Average women in the US weighs 170 lbs. Maybe you're into fat chicks but if a woman is not fat, she's already above average in my books. She might not be drop dead gorgeous or a sex symbol but I'd give her a chance if we vibe. I spent the last 10+ years prior to this year in the south where you'd find the average woman weighing that 170 lbs and it was such a turnoff.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:07 AM
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Eh they're all above average if you count the fact that they're not overweight. A lot of the younger women around here are slim so that already puts them above average. Probably has to do with the fact that everyone walks here in NYC. I get daily 10k steps easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:59 AM
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Weird, I see plenty of average men in relationships. I live near a huge Hispanic population in NYC and these guys are not making six figures and most are like 5'5 yet they're cuffed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:54 AM
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If he's a multimillionaire then he can fly women out. Plane tickets are so affordable nowadays. It's just like oil princes flying out Instagram models to Dubai.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:46 AM
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gamer*
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 09:24 PM
5

There has always been poor people too, is there a poor gene?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:42 PM
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Tl;dr I'm an asshole and people don't want to be around me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:40 PM
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It's like online dating was different in 2014. I remember using it in college and it was great, at least compared it what it is now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:18 PM
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That's the old red pill from before 2014. Nowadays it's way more pessimistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 05:43 PM
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It's the new redpill, just go check any redpill media that just bashes on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 05:39 PM
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If the shoe fits.....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 04:58 PM
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Nah, more like calling someone broke. Gay people can't change their sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 04:51 PM
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There's nothing wrong with men, this sounds like your own personal problem. Stop trying to make it about all inexperienced men. Some inexperienced men are just 21 or 24 and just haven't figured out what's wrong. I didn't get the ball rolling until 22. The issue comes into play when you're 40 and still delusional. It's not cute anymore at 40. There's nothing wrong with experienced women either. I've dated a few in the past and they're wild in bed. Great sex and all. Who knows, I might marry one s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 02:07 PM
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You're 40 and a virgin, is that by choice? Are you waiting until marriage? Like I'm trying to figure out what you're arguing against. If you say there's nothing wrong with you and that there are women who will take you then where are these women? Are you going to say the same at 50 as a virgin? There are no participation trophies when it comes to dating. Everyone doesn't get sex just because they breathe air.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:48 PM
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Who are they? Who are these women that whine when you judge them for not being a virgin? Are these imaginary women or just women on PPD or who? If they're not women you're looking to fuck, then why do they even matter to you? Second of all, you already know deep down why you're a virgin at 40. I knew why I was a virgin at 20, I'm sure you can figure it out for yourself as well. I went through a transformation through my 20s to improve myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:36 PM
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Using apps is like using LinkedIn or Indeed for a job. It's a last resort if you have zero connections. I met most of my exes through mutual friends. No one takes dating apps seriously, maybe there's one person who does but most people swipe nonchalantly. It's like hoping to get a great job off LinkedIn, might happen but 90% of the time, you're gonna get ghosted. It's not what you know, it's who you know in this day and age.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:32 PM
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I'm not gonna lie but if you're 40 and a virgin and it's not because of religion or whatever then yeah there is something wrong with you. That's the brutal truth because most people figured out how to have sex by then. Could be social skills, could be physical features, could be mental, etc. Even ugly and broke people figure out how to have sex in their 20s. What question didn't I answer besides the arbitrary questions?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:25 AM
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Blue pill is not some sort of common belief though. It's just what the red pill calls people who don't believe in TRP. Personally I don't believe the TRP idea that only the top 20% do well in dating. Sure on apps that may be the case, so don't just use apps if you're a man. I don't believe in unconditional love either because there is none in this world. Even babies get love based on the condition that they carry your DNA. You're arguing against a straw man. I don't think anyone has even said th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 10:24 AM
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Inexperienced men are not a monolith. My entire point was that your league is who you're able to get. If you can't get anyone then guess what, your league is zero. If you can get inexperienced women then go for them. You're trying to justify to me why women don't want you when I'm another man dating women. I honestly have no influence over women to get them to like you. I can see why no one in interested in you though. You're very neurotic and an overthinker. You reject yourself before anyone el…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 05:44 AM
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You're not in the same league as women who won't let you play. You're below them. If they don't want you then you're not in the same league. Rihanna doesn't want me, so we're not in the same league. Not sure what you're trying to prove besides the fact that you're at the bottom with no options. Even promiscuous women have options as long as they got a warm hole. If you're a man with zero options then you either fix your own problems or just accept being alone. I don't have a magic pill for you t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 05:23 AM
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I never said they would be compatible. I just said they're probably in the same league. They're both undesirable to someone with choices. Men with options don't go after the promiscuous women. Women with options don't go after the men that are inexperienced. So what does that leave? Promiscuous women with inexperienced men. Compatible and same leagues (or market value) are not the same thing. That's like saying an engineer making 100k is also qualified for a paralegal job because it also pays 10…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 04:38 AM
2

As long as you're 18, it doesn't matter about your age, it's more about your money.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 03:59 AM
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I look through post histories sometimes to get a sense of someone because I have zero idea about them beforehand. Can you explain where I was wrong? My point was that your value is determined by the market. If you tried to get a job tomorrow for 100k/year and no one offers you that job, would you still be worth that salary? I'd say no. If you put a car up for $5000 on craigslist and no one called you up for a year, is that car really worth $5000? I'd say no. Same thing applies to dating. If I as…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 03:35 AM
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Lmao, your post history is pretty wild. You tried justifying mass shootings because people can't get laid, like wtf. If you're 40 and you still haven't figured it out then idk what to tell you. If you're truly ugly as you say you are then you can't be ugly and broke. What do you have going for yourself? There are no participation trophies in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 03:21 AM
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If she's the best that you can do, then yeah, you're in the same league. Dating is not some kind of trading card game where I can trade my S-tier card for your S-tier card. It's literally putting yourself on the market and seeing what you can get. I might think I'm above obese women and if I couldn't even attract them then I'm not even in their league. It's just like the job market, if I think I'm worth 300k/year and I can't get a job offer then I'm only worth what someone is willing to pay me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 02:41 AM
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I've never been with a prostitute so I wouldn't know. I've only heard of some friend's experiences, and it's always been lackluster and expensive as hell. Then again, it's not exactly legal here in NYC like it is in some other places.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 02:21 AM
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What do you expect people on the other side to do? I don't think we can just force women to like men they don't care about. The best we can do is to teach them how to be more attractive but guess what? They don't want that advice, they want to act like a victim and blame everyone else. I used to have zero success with women in the past. I'm not ashamed to admit that I watched alpha m on YouTube to learn more about being a man. Some of his advice is cheesy but a lot of it is solid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:30 AM
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A self-respecting man would rather be taking charge of his life instead of whining on the internet that Chad has it better.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:56 PM
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Sure it's a debate sub but no one even takes actions even when given the advice. I've tried giving pointers to some guys but if you don't give them some cheat code then they don't care about what you say. I've talked to many of the guys on here in private chat over the time I've been on here and it always comes down to them being a victim. So yeah, you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink. Spoiler: there are no cheat codes unless you're born with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:16 PM
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Does it matter what I think if they're worthy or not? I'm a dude dating women, I really don't have a say whether they're worthy or not. I just remember being broke and unattractive so I did something about it. Took me years to change but I did eventually. If 1 out of 3 men can't get a date then it's on them to do something about it instead of whining on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:00 PM
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It's fairly well compared to the guys who don't have sex for over a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:48 PM
2

Sure if you include Instagram and Snapchat.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:48 PM
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Congrats, you found the below average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:47 PM
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Go ahead and shitpost, but at least back your shitpost up and explain why it resonates with you. It wouldn't be shitposting then.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:38 PM
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Go try debating a flat-earther. A lot of them are so entrenched in their belief that you sometimes feel like you're the wrong one lmao. The same can be said about some blackpillers, like I can't give them cheat code for 100% guaranteed pussy, so they run with that fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:36 PM
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It's almost as if gender comes into play. Asian women are one of the most desired race of women while Asian men are the least desired race of men. Same is said in reverse for black people hence why darkskin is not undesirable in black men, in fact it's like a sex symbol of hypermasculinity which men don't want in a woman. Do people have to explain jokes to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:18 PM
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Yeah, because you have no backbone and you're a free therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:14 PM
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Did she blaze it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:13 PM
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Yeah, if you're attention starved which a lot of guys are. It's like if a starving person gets a gas station sub, they'll be happy. I'm not eating another gas station sub if I can help it. Also, gay men can be attractive even if I'm not gay. It's not gay to think men can look good just like I acknowledge that Brad Pitt is attractive. I'd be flattered if a gay man that looked like Brad Pitt talked to me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:01 PM
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Yup, if that's at a bar or club, I'm walking straight up to her. It's just like if you look at a woman and she immediately looks away, basically means she's not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:56 PM
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That's most people. No one wants attention from someone they find unattractive. Whether it's the butterface woman that tried to hit on me or the beggar asking for money, go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:51 PM
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Go outside and see that most people are looks matched. I don't see very many model men with fugly obese women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:40 PM
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That's because they get routinely banned lmao. You're not going to recognize their latest username because it takes them less than 5 days to get banned. I was talking to a poster on here through private chat and he'd literally hit me up with a new username every other day lmao. There's no way to perm ban them since reddit accounts are free and easy to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:22 PM
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I mean I also have the same option as an Asian man in the US. My mom is very social so I will legit get offers from her friends and relatives that ask if I want to be set up on a blind date with someone. Of course, I'm average looking and have a good career which is really what they value, they couldn't care less about my muscles or my height lol. The women that I got introduced to from her friends are very attractive too who just don't know how to date. They focused on school and career basical…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:14 PM
0

More like granny Smith apple vs red delicious apple. Short and tall men are both trying to date attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:21 PM
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That goes for taller people too. I'm 5'10 so never got the short man syndrome but have been called vain or egotistical for going to the gym so often.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:03 PM
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Because you're not going to hear about a women's past while playing videogames in your bedroom. Now if you hang in the same circles as these women, it becomes obvious what's going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:13 PM
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Hinge has one
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:12 PM
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It's just like when I get compliments from people who say, "I look good for an Asian guy". Like what the fuck kind of compliment is that? Most Asian men do not look like kpop stars. It's getting better in the younger generation but try dating 30+, still a bunch of bigots.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:04 PM
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That's like saying Rappers are hot af and women are simping over them. Kpop men and Rappers have nothing to do with us normal people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:57 PM
1

One benefit of being short and lifting is that your muscles pop more at least compared to a taller person. Make the best of a bad situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:48 PM
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At least those guys get out and meet people and try to find real friends. The hardcore incels just stick to their online echo chambers and mute/block people who disagree with them. Can't really just block someone in a real-life meetup with the ease of pressing a button. I've gotten blocked on here for stupid reasons because of people's fragile egos. Last one who blocked me was because the guy said that TRT/steroids should be free so that he could lift weights while on disability payments lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:18 PM
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On dating apps sure but that's due to a population inequality. 9 men to every woman on Tinder would give even an obese ugly woman more matches than a man, especially since men will even swipe right on everyone and filter through the matches to find options.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:16 PM
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Let's be real though, the hardcore incels don't leave their PC/PS5 long enough to go to a meetup.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:51 PM
3

Yeah, and my dad is the King of the United States. Lizzo is like a few workouts from heart failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:49 PM
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Sure, if the guy also gets around but she's definitely going to get away with it to simps/losers who don't fuck around.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:48 PM
1

Here's what I did, back in 2021, I spent a month here in NYC during the summer as a vacation/WFH just to feel it out. After I liked it here more than the south, I got my ducks in a row and moved during the beginning of this year. Don't just move out here before you test drive living here for a bit. I was in a similar situation like you, too scared to pull the trigger early on because I would have to move away from family as well. But I'm glad I finally made the move.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:19 AM
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Here's my advice, move away from the midwest and don't move to the south either. I'm also Asian and had no luck in the south but I'm having a lot more success in NYC now. It took me like 5 years after graduation to move but I did it eventually. You don't need to rush it but know that it's another world in terms of dating options.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:39 PM
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Only dumb or egotistical men are expected to get into a fight if they're called a bitch. I've never gotten into a bar fight because someone calling me a bitch is not worth the risk of a concussion. My brain is my moneymaker after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:34 PM
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I lived in the rural south, it was full of land whales. Sure one might be cute but most were bigger than me during a bulk
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:29 PM
1

Haha, going to the gym is addicting or maybe that's just me. What kind of plateau? Are you running a program and for how long? As for diet, I just eat really clean whole foods. What are you eating? I eat a breakfast of protein bread with peanut butter and some eggs on the side. Lunch and Dinner is more eggs and some sort of meat like chicken or pork with some vegetables and rice. I also take protein powder too after workouts. Eating a lot is hard for me too, so I just make something tasty and wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:31 PM
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Yeah, I'm in the gym everyday so far this month. If I'm not lifting that day, I'm doing cardio/stretching. I only go to the gym 3 times/week during the summer though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:10 PM
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I think it's great time if you got your shit together, it means you have less competition because of the amount of simps and losers who don't even have a chance. I had fun this summer, went on a lot of dates. I'm taking a break from dating this winter to bulk and then get shredded for next summer and repeat the process. It's like Warren Buffet being afraid of the broke people sabotaging his investments lmao. Warren doesn't give a shit about the people who can't afford stocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:46 PM
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Please tell me it's actual scientific studies and not just a link to a random website with some clickbait title and links to adjacent studies. Most studies that are linked on here are just from the first page of the google search result.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:40 PM
3

Everyone and their mother (literally) has a pair of white AF1s in my neighborhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:36 PM
1

Here's the thing, you can be both good and not valuable to the market. You can think of yourself as a good man but if no one wants you then you're not valuable, you're just good. Not sure what you're trying to argue here. I'm just saying if you have no/low options when it comes to dating then your value is not as high as you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:31 PM
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Great that's exactly how I was trying to explain dating. Except there's ways to objectively measure a stock without looking at the market price. The market price is just reflective of demand. You look at the financial statements (the objective part) then make a decision based on your interpretation of that data that's subjective part. You base dating on the options you have. The matches or women who actually want to go on a date with you. You don't just give yourself a value and look for someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:29 PM
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Yeah, if you live in delusional land. I'm sure all the Tesla fanboys think the stock is still worth $400 when it's sitting at $125 now. The market doesn't give a shit about subjective value because you can't trade on it. I got a big portfolio of US stocks, international stocks and Bonds. I follow the market because that's the going price. Good luck trading on your subjective values.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:17 PM
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In other words, your definition of "True Value" means nothing to the market if it's just subjective. I could say my car is worth $25,000 to me but if I can't sell it for that much then that's pretty stupid of me. Same with a job. If I said my work is worth $300k/year and no one offers me that salary, then I also look silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:06 PM
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What does true value even mean if no one is willing to pay that? If a company is overvalued and people are willing to pay, then that is its true value at the time. It might not make sense in regard to P/E but that doesn't mean it's a fake value. It's just like any other market; it's determined by the participants of the market. If a company is incredibly overvalued and no one wants to sell it for less, then guess what? It's the true value at the time. You could've said Tesla was way overvalued b…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:00 PM
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If you beat that person in all categories but you can't find anyone better, then that probably means your own value is not much higher. The market determines your value, if you can't find someone more attractive, then the reality is that you're not as attractive as you think you are. If that means, you'll be happy alone then more power to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:16 PM
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That's not my point, I'm saying it depends on the market. If you're unable to get the person you want, then you could be asking for too much. If you're getting options, then more power to you. Dating is not some sort of Trading Card Game where you trade equal value, rather it depends on what you're able to get. Ugly fat billionaire can still get the 10/10 model.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:06 PM
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