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Just to be clear, AF/BB is TRP’s bastardization of David Buss’s research and theories on dual mating strategies. One way TRP likes to frame AF/BB is that a woman will have kids with Chad and then find nice beta to settle down with and support those kids. Another way is that women will simply have a lot of wild casual sex with various Chads (cock carousel) before settling down with a beta. Buss’s actual theory is that both men and women participate in short and long term mating strategies and mat…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 11:54 AM
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I think it’s because the 2000s were dominated by more form fitting clothing and since fashion seems to work on a 30 year cycle we’re swinging back to the bulkier fits of the 80s and 90s
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:35 AM
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Don’t make me think about music theory
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:31 AM
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Could it be that (1) there are more men than women at the gym and/or that (2) the women are more shy about asking for help?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 04:16 PM
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Maybe this is just the typical “kids these days” routine but I used to hear the older male trainers at the gym complain about the ~18-22 year olds, mainly that they would sit on equipment using there phones when there might be someone waiting to use it. Or that the trainers felt like asking politely for them to do something wasn’t effective and they just had to bark orders. There were a lot of these kids since it was a college town.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 04:00 PM
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I don’t remember that part of my study abroad trip
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 12:11 PM
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Oh don’t forget the multiple self published websites
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 12:09 PM
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This is either peak autism or obvious trolling, with the parallel being the female orgasm debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 12:04 PM
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Uhhhh ok
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 06:51 PM
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For example homicide might include everything from self defense/ manslaughter to premeditated murder
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 06:51 PM
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Don’t disagree but they were organized around a much more coherent ideology that can be debated. I’m not always sure what the youths now consider redpill but it seems more like general disgruntlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 06:43 PM
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Supposedly the data controls for offense type and criminal history https://www.ussc.gov/sites/default/files/pdf/research-and-publications/research-publications/2017/20171114\_Demographics.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 06:41 PM
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College frats and sororities in my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:52 PM
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Sauce?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:28 PM
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So much of the community now associates TRP with the Tate brothers or sneako or other nebulous “redpill” content that sprang out of the old subreddit/forums and have never even heard of any anyone like Rollo. Sometimes that makes it hard to understand what we’re even talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:28 PM
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Differences in sentencing and how domestic violence and sex crimes are treated are all valid points about the justice system. But to say that men aren’t generally more violent than women is absurd. Not only do they make up the vast majority of arrests for violent crime but psychological studies have consistently demonstrated that men are more prone toward physical violence and aggression from a young age.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:25 PM
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I don’t know about men in general but I know how I feel about individual men complaining about specific circumstances. I knew a guy who was in his mid 20s, obese, lived with his parents, didn’t get out much, had no job or career path And then he would complain when the only girls he matched with on hinge were fat…. Like I’m sorry but also I don’t have that much sympathy for you dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 04:51 PM
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They don’t even feed you? My company has an annual meeting every year where we get together for a couple days and do some productive things/presentations but mostly socialize, team build, go on field trips, celebrate milestones etc. And we do one nice open bar dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 02:24 PM
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I was 19 and worked in a Woodshop
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 02:21 PM
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Unreasonable standards smh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 02:20 PM
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Feels kind of gross but I wouldn’t consider it morally wrong unless your morals discourage premarital sex anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 02:19 PM
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Surely the person with “larping” in their handle isn’t trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 02:18 PM
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One of the biggest problems with the red pill is that it just doesn’t listen to women. Yeah that’s by design Why is she dating that asshole? Again, the actual redpill addresses this head on. Feminism exists because society didn’t listen to women Now that’s somewhat true. British women lead the charge in the early anti-slavery movement but they couldn’t speak publicly or before parliament on the issue because it was considered immodest. Frustration over this hindrance gave rise to the feminist mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 02:14 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:55 PM
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It’s not a hard read, in fact my comment was longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 01:56 PM
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There’s so much to unpack here. - Just because someone wants marriage and kids doesn’t mean it just magically happens. If men could snap their fingers and have a partner this sub along with the entire manosphere would not exist. - owning a home is great but not a mandatory prerequisite for marriage and kids - if they’re as broke as you describe I don’t think anyone is going to make their partner be a stay at home parent, though I have seen this situation where the family is on food stamps. In ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 12:41 PM
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Daycare is not child abandonment people
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 12:27 PM
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You assume that everything you’ve just said is simply self-evident instead of a political bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 12:21 PM
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Yeah it’s just current thing going around racist Twitter but I just can’t get in on the outrage. From everything I’ve heard it’s pretty good.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 12:10 PM
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Okay Quentin
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 12:07 PM
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I also know a couple where the man didn’t give up even though the woman had better options… except it ended up with his cheating and their divorce lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 11:58 AM
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Fair, I haven’t been as familiar with 4b
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 11:55 AM
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No as long as he’s willing to share the radio.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 02:32 AM
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No it’s actually to just do it. It would just be nice to not be the only one who notices.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 02:20 AM
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Are you replying to the right comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 02:19 AM
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This may shock you but men and women are different
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 11:39 PM
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Exactly, a woman who was truly representative of the average in America would be about 40, borderline obese, and make $45,000 a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 09:50 PM
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I mean I guess by definition that’s discrimination
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:15 PM
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I think it’s always fair to say someone could have chosen better because that’s basically always true. No one gets through life making the most optimal choice for their situation every single time, or even a minority of the time. But if you were talking to a real person and offering real advice you would probably be more specific. For example: “You probably could have made a better choice with the information you had at the time.” “This bad choice was one in a series of bad choices. You should f…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:14 PM
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And yet all they do is talk about women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:47 PM
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It’s probably a waste of time to leave a serious comment but this is the kind of post that makes me just shake my head as I get older. I watched my mom nurse my dad 24/7 when he was deathly ill with pneumonia. I watched my grandma nurse my grandpa 24/7 when his health was failing. Now I watch my mom take care of her mom, wiping her ass, washing her soiled clothes, cutting her hair and nails, breaking herself down in the process. It’s mostly women who I see caring for their husbands, their loved …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:28 PM
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You’re right, that’s why China and some parts of India have serious imbalances of men and women now, it’s because they loved those baby girls sooo so much…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:21 PM
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Surprised no one’s pulled the “TRP isn’t prescriptive” card yet by the day is young
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:19 PM
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“More efficient” lol no they just get scurvy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:17 PM
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Oh shit whaddup iirc you basically just said “no” But I’m not even making a statistical argument here, this is just anecdote
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:56 PM
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Oh dont worry plenty of women earn more and do all those things anyway lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:49 PM
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If I were a woman I would have a tough coital encounter scheduled with a fit, hung stud for every spare half-hour Peak male solipsism
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:49 PM
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The best solution is obviously to label yourself with an incurable condition, make it your identity, and use it to explain every problem you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:06 PM
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If anything this sub has actually become more balanced over time if you compare it to the start like 10 years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:04 PM
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Idk man, I guess people form strong habits that are hard to consciously break. And I’m not saying I personally deal with this but I’ve just seen/met people like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 03:23 PM
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What is the question exactly? Are you asking why it’s bad for one partner to be more dominant than the other or two make more money than the other in a committed relationship? Are you asking why it’s bad for an employer/employee or student/teacher relationship to become sexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:20 PM
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I mean some people literally have no limit. The dishes will stay in the sink until there are literally no clean dishes and then only what is needed in the moment will get washed. If that’s genuinely someone’s standard you basically have to leave or do the asking at more reasonable times.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:18 PM
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I don’t think you understand what I’m saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:15 PM
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I agree, just reminding everyone of the official redpill stance on the matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:04 PM
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See the trash seems like one of the easier “threshold” questions because if it’s full/overflowing and you can’t fit anymore it’s time to go out. But I also don’t put this just on men because I’ve had a lot of female roommates who would just keep piling things on top instead of taking it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:03 PM
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Yup so simple that we keep arguing about it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:00 PM
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In a perfect world it would just happen because he’s a grown adult who does things he sees needs to be done, not a teenager. But if you have to ask, trash is probably a right now thing. If he has to say he’ll do it within five hours my guess is it won’t happen at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 11:58 AM
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Very true. And yet I’ve also been told that women are a hive mind with no individuality…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 11:54 AM
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Part of that is because it’s not a real community. It’s a foil created by the redpill, so it can be anything and nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 11:14 AM
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Isn’t it for men over a certain age?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 11:12 AM
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These are still traditionally masculine traits, and are still expected exclusively of men. With five seconds of observation you can see that most competent women functioning in society as employees, business owners, volunteers, etc. are perfectly capable of initiative, communication, responsibility, and so on. It doesn’t make sense to apply those traits specifically to a dating market which doesn’t incentivize them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 11:10 AM
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https://theredarchive.com/dictionary/alpha-widow
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:57 AM
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Someone doesn’t have to consciously aware of their desires to have them exploited
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 09:47 PM
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All of that can be true and it can also be pragmatically meaningless. Ultimately if you want something about your life to change, you are the only one who can see it through.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 09:47 PM
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On this sub? No….
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:00 PM
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Personally I prefer the grapefruit method
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:00 PM
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The usual deflection but at least you live up to your flair
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 06:55 PM
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Question: is the redpill against a free sexual marketplace? If you can’t find women who want to sleep with you outside of marriage or a committed relationship how are you supposed to spin plates?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 06:33 PM
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Women who are more in touch with their femininity… including those feminine wiles. This is how men get duped lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:31 PM
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Sex premium
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:29 PM
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I suspect they’re more successful at it than MGTOW but that’s just a hunch
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:29 PM
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It’s the same as wanting a virgin who will immediately have casual sex with you. It’s not about realism or any grandiose ideas about society, it’s just the philosophy of “I got mine”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:27 PM
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Maybe she actually just wants to set you two up
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:44 PM
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It’s not so much about the amount of work as it was the type of work and the structure in which in was performed. See: Martha Ballard
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:43 PM
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Wild to volunteer your kid for an anchor marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:03 PM
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I’ve noticed that country artists are trying to morph into pop or rap and rap artists are trying to morph into country
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:01 PM
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He’s trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 11:59 AM
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I think the point is that we tend to look at post-war America as though it was the historical standard instead of what it really was, a historical anomaly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 11:51 AM
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Side note: I actually don’t think as many men are doing their own regular vehicles maintenance as they’d like to claim. I’ve changed my own oil before, it’s a pain in the ass and half the cost of paying to have it done is the oil itself anyway so you don’t save that much money. Tire rotation? Also a pain in the ass considering the business I bought the tires from has an automatic lift and will do it for free. And so on. Technology has made chores outside the house easy just like it’s made chores…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:34 PM
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And the 50/50 roommate thing could work just fine as a solution until there are kids involved. Then someone has to care for the child and also determine to what standard the child will be cared for.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:27 PM
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>women like to talk, but never keep their word Yeah men have never famously betrayed anyone 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 02:14 PM
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Are you one of those who thinks men and women tend to have the same sex drives? Because just can’t see how pussy isn’t valued more than dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 02:00 PM
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I started reading this without looking at who OP was and thought halfway through is this a Lilith post? Yup Lilith post
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 01:59 PM
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Concise
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:18 PM
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Sexual aggression is so weird. I look up at the dog park and see my middle aged spayed female dog humping another dog (???)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:12 PM
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Would be hilarious if everyone flaked
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 11:50 AM
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A common refrain I hear from complaints from women about being sex objects is that men are “success objects” and prioritizing a man’s earning potential is just as objectifying. So I’m led to believe that if a man gets a job he’s selling his body to his boss.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 11:48 AM
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I’m regularly told by men that they would happily sell their bodies if there were a market
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 11:45 AM
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This is really just another variation on economically incentivizing childbirth and it sounds even more costly and still as ineffective.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 11:44 AM
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r/im14andthisisdeep
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:21 AM
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There’s a girl in my office who wears an obscene amount of makeup and it’s the kind of thing you know everyone notices but no one wants to bring up because she’s nice and good at her job
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:57 PM
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This is “not the slam dunk you think it is”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:54 PM
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I thought Rollo went to art school
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:50 PM
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Not delving into this wall of pasted text I’m not appealing to him, I’m pointing to his work as part of the foundation of RP. If Buss is even aware that his work has been used this way he hasn’t commented on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:26 PM
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The terms you’re explaining are basically intersectional feminism/ critical theory. You can understand something and also think its reasoning is flawed. The OG redpill was influenced heavily by the work of David Buss, not a sociologist but an evolutionary psychologist. That’s actually where terms like “mate guarding” and “long/short term mating strategies” come from.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 11:44 AM
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I mean they kind of do, where do you think the term peacocking comes from
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 08:34 PM
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Because expectations crash into the wall of reality
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 08:33 PM
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What does this even mean??
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 08:30 PM
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Fair, for all the complaining about what women think “average” is the male idea of “average” is just as distorted in this space.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:13 PM
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That’s it, be sure to double down
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:08 PM
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Sometimes the female fatties on My 600 Pound Life clearly have a partner with a feeding fetish who doesn’t actually want her to lose weight. So I guess there’s someone for everyone…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:07 PM
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Same logic applies to male and female promiscuity. No one is giving a woman who gets laid a fist bump because it’s not hard to do. No one is going to praise men for being single because it’s the default
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 12:12 PM
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Yes I’m sure you have a good grasp on heterosexual relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 12:06 PM
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Seems like hip dips just come from a lack of muscle mass anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 12:03 PM
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Gee I wonder why that language would be alienating
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:42 AM
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I would argue that Jordan Peterson is pretty “blue pill”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 06:59 PM
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Throw in some chicken or vegetable stock, some basil, and some cream and that’s a tomato soup you should 100% eat with a grilled cheese
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:53 PM
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Tomatoes, onions, and peppers? Looks like soup to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:25 PM
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It’s an interesting question. I think marriage is idealized by everyone to some extent, but also men and women probably generally have different ideal visions of what that marriage is. Disappointment comes from your expectations not aligning with reality. If more women than men are disappointed then i guess women are expecting too much from a marriage. Anecdotally, shortly after we got married by father in law told my husband “now that you’re married she’ll just start improving your life, go wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:23 PM
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So noble
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:39 PM
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Besties
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:26 PM
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?????
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 12:04 PM
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It’s okay to say that of society (generally, modern developed western society) but important to not attribute to entirely to human nature on some base level. Ever heard of the Seige of Suiyang? The army garrisoned in the fort killed and ate every last woman, child, and elderly man before they would surrender, because loyalty to the dynasty was more important than any notion of individual human life or even an individual family unit. Gives “women and children first” new meaning
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:57 AM
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I love how this turned into one of those man versus gorilla thought experiments
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:46 AM
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Could that just be high energy?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:12 PM
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Men themselves clearly think it costs something or we wouldn’t have had so many n count posts that a dedicated thread had to be created
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:10 PM
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Some femcel shit
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:03 PM
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I’ve never seen one in a pot tbh but that doesn’t mean it’s impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:02 PM
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I think guys want to be seen in whatever way gets them laid
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 02:45 PM
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Add to that the fact that it’s an ex relationship so there are some hard or at least complicated feelings towards this person now that OP is likely to apply to other women by association
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:34 PM
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Cool story bro not sure what that has to do with anything
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 04:14 AM
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Unless they’re taking drugs or dehydrating themselves I don’t think it’s ever bad for someone to exercise
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:26 AM
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I guess everything I work, I manage the finances, I shop and cook and clean the house, I do the yardwork, I’m the primary parent, I give blowjobs, maintain a healthy weight and appearance, offer stimulating conversation, indulge in his whims, and I don’t nag I have to say it does wear on me though so I’ve stopped doing my husband’s laundry which so far has helped.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 08:38 PM
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Are you sure it wasn’t you who was charmed?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:37 PM
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I’m with you on forms of insurance besides health. That ones so fucked in the US that literally no one understands it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:48 PM
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Protecting women is just a noble rationalization for the disgust, that’s not actually what it’s about
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:40 PM
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I don’t think you have to, could work in your favor
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:38 PM
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“No homo”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:21 PM
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Oh that’s not this guy’s problem, he has a girlfriend. Every day is my ADHD this, my autism that, orange man bad, I’m oppressed because a rich patron won’t appear out of thin air to fund my shitty art, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:16 PM
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My husband has an old friend on Facebook who posts “woe-is-me and my [fill in the blank]” constantly, like multiple times a day. I find him sad but entertaining, my husband is genuinely disgusted by him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 12:10 PM
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Sauce?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 04:32 PM
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Some countries actually have started cracking down on a certain form of passport bro-ing, i.e. surrogacy: https://www.euronews.com/2024/10/24/cambodia-cracks-down-on-illegal-international-surrogacy-as-demand-remains-high
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 06:25 PM
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I don’t think Reddit has a positive impact on anyone… So no, and I’m also not here to have a positive impact. I was initially here to work through my own issues and now just for entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:08 PM
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It’s true, who do you think was really running the British empire?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 02:43 PM
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Yeah could be. Just reminds me of the articles complaining about “the kids these days” going back like 150 years. I used to see headlines about how bosses didn’t know how to manage their millennial employees and I see the same headlines now that have just replaced millennial with Gen Z.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:13 PM
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Guess someone doesn’t care about people in the the third world
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:45 PM
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Have I been conditioned to overlook the negative or have you been conditioned to overlook the positive?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:26 PM
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No one’s listened to Jordi p in a while since he fell off the map
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:41 PM
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In the lore, AWALT specifically refers to the idea that all women are hypergamous, just some more than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:46 PM
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Yes please, PLEASE touch grass
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:44 PM
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I do
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:09 PM
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>So not 10x more, 2 or 3 times more. What? Who said 10x to begin with? >paying a guy on fiverr from pakistan You actually put money into this. I admire the commitment I guess. I wish I still had that kind of time to waste but that’s the way of things. But on to the meat of it: >I'm pretty sure that most SAHDs are accidental/unintentional or temporary, but then that has strange implications for the idea that the relationships are stable when they were designed to be that way, as I mentioned above…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:18 PM
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Sounds like by your definition it’s not earned, just granted or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 01:36 PM
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Wait are you talking about this case? This guy made up such goofy shit it was being memed online for weeks
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:53 AM
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…Miniature banker? Anyway, I never read or watched the 50 shades series but my understanding is that by the second or third book he’s totally committed to her and they get married and the BDSM stuff is just the spice? I think a lot of these romance novels whether they’re the classic paperbacks or the post-tumblr ebooks follow a similar pattern. Like yes the ultimate female fantasy is a powerful man who she can tame. Real people rarely conform to fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:49 AM
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I think it’s men who need to make peace with this, or else this community would not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:40 AM
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That 50% stat is more like 10% for couples with breadwinner husbands. But regardless, I don’t know why you keep making this about something it’s not. My impression is simply that if you pick a random SAHM and a random SAHM, you’ll find that they are operating on wildly different levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:34 AM
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Anytime someone complains about getting downvoted… I just have to downvote lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 09:39 PM
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Hi
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 09:38 PM
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I hope that didn’t take you too long to write out because around 75% of single mothers are employed, meaning they are definitionally NOT stay-at-home-mothers which is the topic at hand
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 09:38 PM
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“No” Got ‘em
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 03:38 PM
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Yeah in general SAH dads are just not on the same level as SAH moms
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 12:52 PM
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My parents knew people in the 90s who said the same shit “I just can’t imagine bringing a child into this world 🎻” Now people are nostalgic for the 90s Like of course I worry about my kids’ future but people have had kids and trudged forward with life as best they could in way way worse situations
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 12:47 PM
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Much of the increase in maternal mortality rates comes from the introduction of a pregnancy checkbox on death certificates Regardless, we’re hand wringing about like 12 deaths per 100,000 versus 19 when the mortality rate at the beginning of the 20th century was in the hundreds per 100,000 births. The adoption of antibiotics in the 50s and 60 was revolutionary. And wealth does not have an impact on how many children people have
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 12:45 PM
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Yeah when you don’t have to invest much in your offspring it makes sense to have a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:11 AM
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Compared to what, 1 year ago? 10 years ago? 50 years ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 10:04 PM
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>Wall of text “I'm still working on a precise thesis here.” “Women can’t communicate logically and clearly” Mhm yeah ok
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 09:28 PM
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I used to browse r/RedPillWomen a lot and my impression was that many of the women on that sub had tried everything to get their husbands to step up and take responsibility for things and were now trying the whole “first mate/captain” dynamic, like the only thing stopping him from being an alpha was that she simply wasn’t submitting enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 09:21 PM
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Then trust me you’re fine
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 09:15 PM
0

Where are you in the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 08:23 PM
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I think it makes evolutionary sense. If children are a relatively low investment for you then having as many as possible sounds great. If children are burdensome as they are for women then you’re focused way more on quality than quantity.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 07:31 PM
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Oh don’t worry you’ll probably work and do childcare whether you’re single or not lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:52 PM
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I think they’re just trying to verbalize a strong biological imperative
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:51 PM
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The world is literally better than ever
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:44 PM
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You kind of answered your own question. Pregnancy and motherhood are a massive tax on the body and mind. I’m ready to pop with my second right now. I can’t cough or sneeze without peeing myself and by the end of the day I can barely walk because my pelvis is so out of whack at this point. And since it’s my second I know that there are just different challenges on the other side of birth. I know that I’ll spend weeks bleeding and leaking milk, months waking up in the middle of the night to nurse,…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:42 PM
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I wouldn’t say my own personal legacy, but part of why I had kids was because I felt like I was the next link in a chain that had stretched out way before me and hopefully way after me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:30 PM
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You could have just said yolo Also I’ll die on this hill: you can be smart with your money and still have fun
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 08:37 PM
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https://youtu.be/476e\_ck5H-M
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 08:35 PM
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Are girlbosses feminine?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:23 PM
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Good thinking. The plate looked tasty though 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:52 PM
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Comment is already deleted lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:20 PM
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I don’t make the rules
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:19 PM
2

You don’t think personality traits are biologically influenced?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:19 PM
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Men are attracted to markers of fertility in women like large breasts or a certain hip to waist ratio. Does that somehow mean women on a whole are disadvantaged, or just that busty women with hourglass figures are advantaged over women without those attractive traits?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:42 PM
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It’s just weird framing to say that any trait one sex finds attractive means the other is at a “disadvantage.”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:39 PM
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I can’t make a wood fired pizza at home
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:08 PM
2

Maybe the answer is outside
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:07 PM
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Yes, my foremothers would be appalled that i don’t live a cushy life of *checks notes* working sun up to sun down on a homestead
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:05 PM
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We’re arguing about baking now?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:02 PM
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And that change took place over centuries
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 05:02 PM
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“Hand foot mouth disease is highly contagious. Wash your hands frequently and try not to get too close to your child.” lol yeah okay tell that to my son who wants to but my entire chin in his mouth for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:53 PM
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Seems to be some kind of fetish stunt video anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:51 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:44 PM
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> Women here say that if we as a guy are single, it’s our fault that we are at fault. I’ll keep saying this. To be pragmatic about your own life, It’s not about who’s at fault. It’s about what you can most control. Is it more realistic to change something about yourself or the rest of the world? > they act surprised and again call me a liar when I tell I have never been in a relationship. Not my main point, but I don’t see how that would contradict your claim that women on they internet say it’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:43 PM
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I don’t know what that has to do with my prior comment
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:58 PM
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Maybe if you’re posting thirst traps but I don’t think that’s most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:39 PM
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I never said that, only that I think we’re missing some information you’re either unwilling or unable to share that might explain your sister’s attitude. Mental illness doesn’t given you permission to do or behave in any way you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 12:11 PM
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It just struck me as missing some context
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:50 AM
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A women who becomes a man’s plate is not acting out her optimal mating strategy. A man who commits to one woman is not acting out his optimal mating strategy. Success for either party does come at the other party’s expense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 08:45 PM
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It all comes down to this: What’s easier, to change something about yourself, or to fundamentally change human nature, society, biology etc.? It might feel good if someone responds to your difficulty getting a date with “it’s not your fault, we should upend society so that you can get a date” but it’s not going to happen overnight and therefore won’t help you. “Maybe you should try x, y, or z” probably feels shitty and frustrating but it might at least get you somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 08:39 PM
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If your sister is really a psychiatrist and doesn’t recommend therapy or medication I have to question the legitimacy of your bipolar disorder
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 05:44 PM
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So what, you want to reverse gender roles? Are blue collar women really sexy to men? Are submissive house husbands really sexy to women? Bizarre take.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 02:02 PM
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Well I’ve seen some discourse about “the failures of choice feminism” lately
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 12:47 AM
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My probably very unpopular opinion; It’s because in much of the developed world left-wing parties have captured the loyalty of most female voters, especially young single women. There’s a normal human tendency to start to align your beliefs to the party rather than your party alliance to your preexisting beliefs. So left-wing parties repeat these talking points about the pink tax and wage gap because it’s politically advantageous and party members absorb them uncritically because they trust the …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 04:22 PM
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Well for starters you seem to be having multiple hypothetical conversations with someone who may or may not exist in your head. Not sure what we’re supposed to do with that. I think of “uncaring” as me saying my grandma is really sick and someone responding with “well no one lives forever”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:37 PM
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That’s why I said “more or less”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 03:24 PM
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If I thought I could find a man who would do those three things (more or less) for me I would have. He doesn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 01:49 PM
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The tough thing I think about now is aging
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 11:52 AM
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“Keep his stomach full, balls empty, and ego stroked” They definitely want it all ways
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 11:43 AM
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You could say modern society has lost touch with this practice (like where I live Quinceñeras are a huge deal for girls) but traditionally rites of passage/ coming of age ceremonies have been very common for boys. In fact Jordan Peterson (whatever you think of him) has theorized that these ceremonies have historically been especially important for young men BECAUSE they don’t undergo some light-switch-esque puberty marker like menstruation to mark their adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:38 PM
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Especially when there’s also discourse around what the “average” man is, and how women think Chad is average. Damned at all levels
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:31 PM
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Do the mens’ appearance and socioeconomic status factor into these crime stats? What are you looking at exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:30 PM
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Yeah the hot/crazy scale would not exist if men were not similarly tempted
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:27 PM
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Has she always been this crazy or is it a new development?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:25 PM
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r/whoosh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:16 PM
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> I on the other hand will not be surprised when a gold digger only calls me on payday, If I spoiled woman leaves me if I get sick or if a stripper won't stop stripping if I fall in love with her. And summary only be surprised and surprising things actually happen Okay so why are you engaging with them? Sounds like a bad choice if you know they’re gold diggers and strippers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:17 PM
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Pretty sure the guys stopping to help ARE the white knights lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 04:22 PM
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TF kinda church is this
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:37 PM
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Who are the real men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:35 PM
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“For women it’s easy on the front end and hard the rest of the way through.” Okay but you realize dating IS the front end right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:32 PM
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You complain about female privilege but it’s usually men who said that privilege. The reddit app used to require you to use asterisks to italicize or bold certain words. Now it has better character formatting tools built in but I keep forgetting that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 11:43 AM
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Specifically how many *men*
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:56 AM
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JFC what kind of women are y’all dating?? This is basic stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:09 PM
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Can you link to some of these think pieces you’re talking about? I think the pie-in-the-sky dream for “career women” is that they’ll be able to pursue something challenging and fulfilling outside the home and so will her husband and they’ll split responsibilities 50/50 at home. Hasn’t really caught on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:47 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 02:08 PM
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Ah but you’re forgetting the very common scenario c which is the worst of both worlds: the man either doesnt understand or doesn’t care about the woman’s needs and they have duty sex once a month
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 11:54 AM
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Then doesn’t it stand to reason that someone who wants to rape someone is going to do it regardless of whether someone tells them it’s wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 04:41 PM
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Fair enough Edit to add though: it sounds scary that 95% of respondents admitted to using at least one tactic until you see that the most innocuous strategies like asking repeatedly have high rates of use and the most rapey strategies like stopping her from leaving have the lowest rates of use.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 04:32 PM
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A seminar on how to not be sexist sounds about as effective as abstinence based sex ed
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 01:51 PM
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So you think it’s crass to discuss bodily functions and fluids
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:20 PM
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Where is this survey?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:18 PM
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Is this in reference to the proposed 50% government stake?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:14 PM
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Pretty sure humans can’t reproduce asexually so I don’t know what you’re on about
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:14 PM
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Which language in particular is disrespectful?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:12 PM
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You tried
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:11 PM
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This just seems like an angry rant, so I’m only responding to the title: The CDC tracks reports of rape, intimate partner violence, sexual coercion, etc. and while “made to penetrate” and “penetrated” are tracked separately for men there are still millions of victims. Unsurprisingly women make up the majority of the aggressors in the “made to penetrate category” and men make up the majority in the “penetrated” category. You seem to be conflating men’s understanding of rape and sexual coercion as…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:08 PM
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>Because most womens personalities are the same. If you genuinely believe this then there’s not much left to say. >thewoman was trying her best to get me to laugh, to entertain me, to get me to like her, I would be shocked. That’s not what it means to click with someone
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:07 PM
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Sounds like you fall into this trap
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:46 PM
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I’ve seen guys date women just because they’re conventionally attractive and feminine but they then deal with a lot of the stereotypical relationship drama you might expect from a Stacy-esque hot girl. Not saying you should seek out “ugly” girls but sometimes what we think we should want and what we really want are two different things. A 10/10 you can’t hold a conversation with loses its luster pretty quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:55 PM
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I have a coworker who’s kind of useless and who no one likes who just quit because he found an opportunity more in line with his goals. Some problems just solve themselves I guess. 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:35 PM
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Shouldn’t this be obvious? How often do we say on this sub that there’s an imbalance in the dating market? Of course women don’t have to think as hard about who they’re approaching, who’s approaching them, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:32 PM
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Do you live in a HCOL area? Seems like 160k should be very comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:26 PM
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I was going to ask you to convince me my life is under threat but I didn’t see at the bottom of your comment that you don’t hold that belief yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:24 PM
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Convince me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:24 PM
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Buddy I don’t think you understand what the man flu is
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:42 PM
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I have a very hard time believing this could ever happen, just given certain truths about human nature and the different distributions of violent tendencies between the sexes. That’s not to say there aren’t some hard ladies who actively conspire against oppressive regimes. Most Americans know that Harriet Tubman escaped slavery and then went on to smuggle dozens of other slaves to freedom. But a lot of people don’t know that Harriet Tubman explicitly threatened to shoot anyone who got cold feet …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:39 PM
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How is marriage itself a human rights violation?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:15 AM
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Would love to be a fly on the wall
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 11:26 PM
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If he’s specifically looking for a relationship I would say that if you can’t easily hold a conversation with her about a wide variety of topics, then it’s not relationship material.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 11:25 PM
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I haven’t had this experience but then I’ve always had kind of alt/non-traditional friend groups. But I just joined a women’s volunteer organization with a strong social component and we’re going to brunch saturaday so I’ll report back if I observe this behavior among the normies 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 11:23 PM
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Is there some reason y’all are star crossed lovers or are you just torturing yourself recreationally?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:05 PM
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> Artificial womb technology and advanced reproductive options allow men to secure their genetic legacy via solo fatherhood LMAO that is NOT how men want to secure their genetic legacy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:43 PM
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Because my husband has a very straightforward Type A personality while my family tends to be very passive aggressive and neurotic. But that was something that I liked about him and his family, that they could yell over one another and argue and then make up. No silent treatment or storming off, they’re just more laid back and forgiving. So yeah there was a bit of a “culture clash” initially.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:08 PM
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There’s a fair question to be asked about the value of these tasks. If my husband lived alone he would let dirty clothes pile up until he literally had nothing left to wear. Then he would either pull out just what he needs to wash or wash it all and have to dig through the laundry basket of clean clothes to find what he needs for the next several weeks because he’s not going to take time to sort and put away laundry. But because he lives with me and I run a load when the hamper is full and then …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:04 PM
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For me it’s quite the opposite. After a full day of work I’ll cook and clean the kitchen and tidy up and do yard work and wrangle our toddler into bed and my husband will never even think to look up from whatever recreational thing he’s doing. It simply doesn’t bother him, assuming he even notices what’s happening. If I’m relaxing and he starts doing something productive I get anxious, like I need to help or do something similarly productive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:52 PM
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My parents were reluctant to accept the man I married but I also don’t think they would want an active role in “vetting” any partners. I think that has more to do with their personalities than anything though. In the modern west I think there’s kind of subtle approach to your kids’ significant others. Most parents don’t feel like they can or should overtly say you shouldn’t date someone, but you can also definitely pick up on how they feel about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:49 PM
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It was all a dream
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:21 PM
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Anything requiring relatively complex motor function is safe for now. I actually heard a podcaster talk about how job couldn’t be replaced because people want to hear what he has to say. Like dude your job is one of the first to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 12:02 PM
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This but if you pan further to the left there’s a wrecked house and a crying infant 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 12:00 PM
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I don’t, because I don’t hold those contradictory views. It doesn’t seem like the commenters you linked to do either considering you sourced them from two completely different pools of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 11:58 AM
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This is one reason why it’s wild to me that people who aren’t religious at all think porn and masturbation are cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 11:55 AM
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My assumption was that it was symbolic since his victim was 17 years old and he’ll be eligible for parole in 17 years (half of his sentence)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 09:20 PM
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It’s not getting better anytime soon
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 09:18 PM
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Yeah I get that. I’m honestly not one to talk because my routine is shot right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 05:22 PM
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Regular cardio and strength training can improve mood and sleep, boost metabolism, relieve stress, manage weight, improve stamina, and lower blood pressure. Over the long term you’ll face a lower risk of heart disease, cancer, and diabetes and see improved bone density, cognitive resilience, and joint stability. If you’re obese there’s really nothing in your body that won’t fuck up, and even if you’re not obese exercise is still good for you. So that’s the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 04:53 PM
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Do they?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 04:43 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 04:42 PM
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I honestly hope this is fake because I can’t handle the second hand embarrassment of this guy thinking any of this is attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 04:42 PM
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I would agree, and yet these communities exist. Somehow RP is able to shape shift however it needs to to avoid criticism. Right now it’s a coherent ideology that can exclude certain wings when it needs to, tomorrow it will just be a toolbox.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 04:39 PM
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Well now we’re just going in circles
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 04:15 PM
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I’m very familiar with the ATUS but you offered an anecdote
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 03:02 PM
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According to the American time use survey it depends on whether they have small kids
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 02:22 PM
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It’s great at manipulating an insecure woman who may or may not have BPD into NSA sex, not for forming a healthy relationship. The latter isn’t necessarily the goal of those tactics.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 02:20 PM
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>When society was more conservative women voted more conservative than men I’d have to know more about this. Is it in reference to something like prohibition?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 02:18 PM
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She said she thought she would have had “better sense” if she were a little older, and separately that she didn’t think my grandpa was ready to be a dad. They did later divorce, so obviously that’s part of it. I think she always felt like she let him talk her into marriage only for the whole thing to implode.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 02:16 PM
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You said very clearly “This is not Red Pill.” Clearly it is in some communities.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 02:14 PM
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Funny, I could say something similar but with the sexes reversed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:57 PM
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Where does this figure come from?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:57 PM
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Whenever it’s inconvenient
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:56 PM
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Genuinely interesting take
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:54 PM
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My own grandmother told me she regretted having kids as young as she did and she wasn’t even a young mother for the 50s. Like 23 or something. That doesn’t mean she wanted to “hoe out.”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:52 PM
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Is this the whole “you’ll submit to a corporate overlord but not your husband” bit?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:50 PM
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[r/RedPillWomen](r/RedPillWomen) and [r/marriedredpill](r/marriedredpill) would disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:47 PM
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Something something Freud
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:46 PM
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At least it’s a plan
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:29 PM
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So what now?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 12:17 AM
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There’s no moralizing about it. It just comes down to this: are you successful or not? If not, can you do something about it or is it everyone’s responsibility besides your own? In theory that’s what the redpill was supposed to be. All the resentment was handwaved away as the anger phase. In reality the “anger phase” is what keeps it alive, not self-improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 02:32 PM
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Yeah men would never abuse their power or deploy gestapo or genocide millions or rationalize their emotions…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:37 PM
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You could find your soulmate and have the most fairytale romance in the world and it will still have problems. Life will wear you down. Each of your flaws will wear you down.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:30 PM
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I look forward to our utopian future
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:25 PM
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Yes, clearly this is the worst time in all of human history because orange man
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:04 AM
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Idk modern society is pretty great. Not perfect but that’s an unrealistic standard to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:32 PM
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Yes individuals are influenced by culture
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:23 PM
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Like the rent
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:20 PM
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I guess that answers that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:06 PM
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I’m not saying it’s every conversation, just that it’s not zero
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:02 PM
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It’s not about can’t, it’s won’t
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:01 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 04:12 AM
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> red pill at its core tells men to change. Work out. Make money. Build discipline. How much of that core do you really see anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 04:10 AM
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You’re not a rational actor
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:55 AM
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I always wonder how many of these paternity test conversations go something like this: “I want a DNA test” “Okay organize it” Doesn’t happen because wife is the household manager and nothing happens if she doesn’t do it “Shes being resistant”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:52 AM
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I thought this was satire for a moment
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 04:22 AM
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I rest my case
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 11:29 PM
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This is structured like it was written by AI
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 10:21 PM
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I’m pretty sure there have been times and places where it essentially was legally mandated, or at least a lack of sex was grounds for annulment or divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 06:18 PM
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Sex isn’t going to sustain the marriage long term, because that’s only one half of why marriage exists in the first place (the other half being the children sex produces), but that doesn’t mean it isn’t an important foundation. That said, people talk about 80/20 in the context of female attraction but I really think that the historically optimal social setup for men is that 80% of women are respectable marriageable “Madonnas” and then they have fun with the 20% of whores on the side.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:13 PM
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And how many free drinks have you gotten from men simple from being a women? None because I don’t accept them. Because of the implication. How many things have men done for you simply because you were a woman? Fairly often but not because I asked. But once someone is insisting on doing something nice for you, even if you didn’t ask for it and don’t need it, you don’t want to be a dick and make a fuss about it. How many dates have you gone where the man paid? First dates? I haven’t been on many b…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:05 PM
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Sometimes they’re tears of anger or frustration
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:50 AM
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Depends on if they want kids
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:50 AM
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Kids
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:46 AM
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That’s the thing, the line of what’s considered modest is pretty context dependent. Modesty is different on a Spanish beach than it is in Saudi Arabia. It’s different in a remote tribe in the Amazon than it is in a typical western city.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:47 PM
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If it were me I’d just run away but yeah that’s assault
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 04:50 PM
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I have to ask the question I always ask when the topic of modest dress comes up: what do you consider modest?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 04:48 PM
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I knew it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:44 AM
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Idk that epidural’s pretty great
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:43 AM
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Sounds like she’s complimenting you in a roundabout way
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:40 AM
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(((I don’t dispute anything you say about western civilization))) (((But people often throw the draft out in the context of voting rights in an American context, when the two actually have little explicitly to do with each other.)))
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:16 PM
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Because it’s an inappropriate comparison as I tried to lay out. You could say chess and checkers or astrophysics and quantum mechanics. If you cross the two categories it’s like comparing dating to skiing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:13 PM
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Yes, women are selective for a reason, that’s the point
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:38 AM
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That’s all fine and good until the social contract breaks down at the individual level.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:37 AM
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Similar to the pay gap, does this disappear if you exclude mothers and instead only compare men to childless women? Such as? I don’t disagree with the others
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:32 AM
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It’s not like the female orgasm is necessary for reproduction. There’s less evolutionary reason to reinforce it like the male orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:29 AM
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(((Reminder that men’s rights like voting were never contingent on being drafted)))
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:27 AM
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I’m sure the grifters are thriving on grievance twitter rn but I’m talking mainly about the banned sub. Does this sound like OP cares about his audience’s feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:25 AM
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I reject the comparison
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:17 AM
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It’s not like the FBI publishes statistics on attempted roofies. And they can’t publish assaults that aren’t reported.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:15 AM
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I’ve often heard femcel is an oxymoron
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 03:41 AM
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I feel like ChatGPT is the LLM with the most hallucinations
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 03:39 AM
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You can’t have debate about difficulty level because we’re not even playing the same game. Keep in mind that selectors are selecting from a pool of pursuers in most cases. Sometimes being pursued is harmless, it’s just a guy swiping right, flirting with you, asking for your number, whatever. Other times he’s trying to spike your drink, pin you down in a club, follow you home, grope you on the street, all experiences I’ve had. There’s a very peculiar predator/prey dynamic set up from puberty beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 03:37 AM
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Do we apply that to both sexes?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:22 AM
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The last thing the OG redpill cared about was preserving feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:21 AM
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I don’t know a ton about my parents’ dating life before they met but it sounds like my dad was a burnout and my mom was an insecure ugly duckling. They met probably around 30, broke up and got back together at one point over my dad’s involvement in Scientology, got married in their mid thirties. I met my husband in college and eloped at 23 which was crazy and rebellious by their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 12:00 PM
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Very possible it will take time to see the full effect
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:34 PM
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There’s also a small but measureable impact of car seat laws on the likelihood that third children will be born to a family https://www.journals.uchicago.edu/doi/abs/10.1086/731812
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:52 PM
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Texas passed its heartbeat bill before Roe V Wade was overturned. After dibs they passed a full ban.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:49 PM
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Let’s just say there’s a reason incel and “woe-is-me” posts are banned on here
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:47 PM
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True, that’s interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:46 PM
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Im looking at the 14 states with total or near-total bans and comparing their birth rate post-law to pre-law https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jama/fullarticle/2830297
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:44 PM
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I actually don’t think the birth rate is a factor in the pro-life movement. I’m just disputing that the result of abortion restrictions will be abstinence. Highly doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:34 PM
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Yes, in Texas there were 255 more infant deaths in 2022 over 2021 and many of those were babies with severe congenital defects. But there were also somewhere between 5 and 8 thousand more births.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:30 PM
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There has been an increase in mortality rates higher than the national average, but not enough to offset the increased births
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 12:36 PM
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Posting here because it doesn’t really address OP’s question: I’m currently pregnant with my second kid and it’s hard to get excited about a third when I can’t cough without peeing myself and when my back hurts so much at the end of the day I sometimes can’t walk. Effective birth control has completely changed the way developed countries think about family formation. It used to be an inevitability of life, so young people were urged to marry and form stable family units with strong ties to exten…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 12:25 PM
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In theory men are the more ideal employee compared to women due to the taxing and time consuming nature of childbirth. In practice that doesn’t seem to be hurting women’s overall employment rate. And of course it depends on the individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 12:16 PM
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There’s actually been an increase in the number of live births per year in states that introduced heartbeat bills. Hard to say if that was just a continuation of an existing trajectory and jt will decline in the coming years, or how much of an effect the de facto abortion ban really has on that number.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 12:10 PM
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We already do, its just the wombs aren’t artificial.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:50 AM
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Stay weird, PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:46 AM
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If she’s from a prestigious family I assume the guy she’s dating is also in a similar social strata so maybe a $2k isn’t a big deal for him
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:43 AM
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One of my favorite tropes in Seinfeld is how every episode Jerry is dating a new girl that he breaks up with because she has some kind of quirk that his neurotic personality just can’t handle. Literary the modern day ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:40 AM
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Fr “women will toss men aside like it’s nothing but I’m not negatively generalizing about any particular group”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:34 AM
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Add me to the group that didn’t expect their man to pay for or organize shit lmao 🙋‍♀️ maybe I should have
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:27 AM
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And what’s actually happening? Men are putting their heads down and gravitating toward manosphere "self-improvement", grinding to be in the top 10% for wealth, status, looks. If only that were the case. Most would rather take the black pill and blame society instead of doing something.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:23 AM
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A teammate would be great. Problem is I’m starting to think men would rather be providers than teammates when it comes down to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 08:39 PM
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That doesn’t really fit with feminine patterns of sexual selection, as much as some women would even like to pretend.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 03:57 PM
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People like Elon Musk or whoever is propelling the economy and scientific innovation would do what they’re doing even if they were broke and alone (could argue he’s just rich and alone lol). There are some people, usually men, who just become so singularly obsessed with something that the incentives don’t matter at that point, they’re just going to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 03:10 PM
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Glad I’m not crazy and this person is getting roasted in the comments https://www.np.reddit.com/r/SameGrassButGreener/s/Tv5uE4ChKo
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 03:06 PM
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The introverted AND super affectionate requirements probably make this near impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 03:05 PM
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Men see attractive women as sex object first and people second. Doesn’t mean they’re going to commit violence against them, just that they’re seen as a commodity in a way an unattractive woman or a man is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 03:04 PM
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“…still have not untangled themselves from patriarchy enough and then make content under the guise of feminism (when their version of it is immature)” What would be a mature version of it? Are we seriously calling this internalized misogyny in [current year]?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:58 PM
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Really? My husband and I have a joint checking account but lots of separate savings and investment accounts and we have to make sure each of us is listed as the beneficiary or else it would be a huge headache to access those funds if someone died.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:11 AM
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I just never understand married people who keep their finances separate, especially if you go on to have kids. Just seems so counterproductive to not think in terms of the household instead of mine and yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 09:16 PM
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A gardener???
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 09:12 PM
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If you’re married it’s kind of both of your debt right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 09:09 PM
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Couldn’t take you with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 08:03 PM
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I’m honestly surprised by just how consistently bad these takes are
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 08:02 PM
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That’s interesting, is it all elephant subspecies? My husband sent the meme to me earlier with his own caption “when you fart in the kitchen”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 02:13 AM
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Even my son’s toddler sized T-shirt from target is like this
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:29 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 06:11 PM
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Probably either the “standard American accent” popularized by the media or whatever you would hear on the west coast in LA or SF (lots of up speak, “valley girl” origins)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 02:54 PM
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Sex sells
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 02:51 PM
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my family used to love this show
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 02:50 PM
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Okay so you don’t consider MRAs to be part of the manosphere. Thats reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 02:45 PM
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I had the same thought based on the post title
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 03:46 AM
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So triggered by the word you could engage with the actual question
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 03:43 AM
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Google is boring, that’s why I’m on PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:31 PM
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Where do I find these dating statistics?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 07:58 PM
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If by weaponized you mean criticized Every other day on this sub is a new complaint about feminists or feminism. Does that mean the term is being weaponized or just that the ideology is being criticized?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:45 PM
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Too online
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:41 PM
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Are rajputs considered a caste or is that totally different? I remember a friend I had in school marrying outside his caste (which he described as the warrior caste) and having some family members refuse to attend the wedding.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:00 PM
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Because that’s probably the truth. They’re not NOT looking for a relationship, but they’re looking for sex first.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 01:57 PM
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Because we know it’s a soft spot
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 01:56 PM
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Dude, according do your own source (Wikipedia) the term was coined by bloggers who were definitely not haters: http://themanosphere.blogspot.com/2009/11/start-of-manosphere.html The Start of The Manosphere This could be the beginning of something great. We have decided that a blog, in which our conversations and opinions will be posted for you to read, is a fantastic idea. Doesn't really matter if you don't think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 01:41 PM
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If doctors prescribed diet and exercise as much as they prescribe pills… nothing would change because no one wants to diet and exercise lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 11:36 AM
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“You can ask Red Pillers something, and for the most part you get the same answers.” You know why this sub exists? It wasn’t always a bluepill/redpill debate sub. It was more of a debate sub for people already in the redpill community.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:57 PM
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Why immediately contradict yourself in the same sentence?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:53 PM
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Literally just came from browsing another thread where someone with a red pill thread used trust me bro as a source
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:51 PM
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My ex introduced me to Friends so apparently yes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:43 AM
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I’m also told we shouldn’t feel bad for them if the paternity test comes back negative or they lose half their assets
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:41 AM
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Takes 2 to tango
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:18 AM
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Do people do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:17 AM
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If anyone is curious, the data we already have suggests that women who have better health outcomes even when controlled for socioeconomic factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:15 AM
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Same reason I feel sorry for my toddler when he does something stupid and hurts himself. Aw sorry buddy that hurt. It was avoidable, but sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:15 AM
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I’ve been under the impression that there’s a shortage of high quality women (low body count, healthy weight, etc.) on the dating market. Does more acceptance of those standards somehow make those women more plentiful? Real question. I guess if there’s more honesty about what men want then more women may be willing to conform to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:30 PM
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What chores do you do for the entire household? What chores does your partner do for the entire household?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:19 PM
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Does your partner ever do things for you without you asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:14 PM
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lol I wish my husband cut the grass
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:04 PM
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Another Olympic level mental gymnast
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:02 PM
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Sorry to the people in those situations then
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:18 PM
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That’s because women have no opinion, positive or negative, on unselected men. On top of that people tend to speak up when they’re unhappy with something compared to when they’re content with something.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:11 AM
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Wanting a romantic partner no Saying/thinking he *deserves* a romantic partner is different
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:24 AM
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Been there before. One of the weirder things was overhearing how much higher their rent was going to be
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 10:10 PM
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Maybe lesbians have a better orgasm rate
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 08:36 PM
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“I wonder if we’re invading Cuba this weekend” What a sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 12:35 PM
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Man y’all this is not that deep. We have different biology and it’s no one’s “fault”.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 12:30 PM
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The buddy means I can’t begin to understand your incoherent rambling enough to respond
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 11:39 AM
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Sure, but did it ever claim to be otherwise? Even the tone of r/marriedredpill is like they’re making the best of a bad situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 03:05 AM
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Rollo Tomassi is one of the best known RP content creators and is married, but always encourages men not to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 03:04 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:05 AM
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Buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:02 AM
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Most likely yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 10:00 PM
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I honestly have no idea what’s going on in this screenshot
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 09:59 PM
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This is some Olympic level mental gymnastics
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 02:01 PM
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That’s the thing, you want someone competent and confident if you’re going to be that vulnerable. I hate to invoke this one but it’s true, men and women are different
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 11:18 AM
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There’s way more vulnerability involved in being penetrated than there is in penetrating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 11:05 AM
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Sounds like a you problem
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 03:30 AM
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Those are some spicy irises
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 03:28 AM
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Diabolical
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 03:26 AM
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I take it Massey lost
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 03:24 AM
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Not a SAHM, but a mom I think baby-free time on any budget matters way more than how much money is spent on the date. We left my son with his grandparents for a few days when he was 6 mo while we went on a trip. It wasn’t anything crazy, we just drove to the beach a few states away but it was very much needed to avoid a nervous breakdown on my part.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 03:21 AM
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What’s the cutoff for modern? Oprah was big in the 90s when Gen X was in their late teens to early 30s. Now they’re reaching retirement and I’m constantly told they don’t understand the dynamics of modern dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 04:25 PM
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Oprah, not someone like Mary Wollstonecraft, started the gender war, good to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 04:00 PM
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Yeah it’s rough. Work doesn’t stop just because you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 03:57 PM
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I had to take a philosophy course in grad school so obvi we were going to be reading Marxist literature. During the discussion portion a guy in my class said “when are the people gonna like… rise up?” I don’t know Tim, when are *you* gonna rise up?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:56 PM
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“Blah blah blah TL;DR Woman Bad” Men have a higher sex drive than women leading to a natural imbalance in interest between the sexes. Sorry. Men tend to assume their irrational actions have rational motivations. In reality they’re just as emotionally driven as anyone else, maybe just by different kinds of emotion. Clearly you’ve never men a man who’s a compulsive liar, but I certainly have. Men, like any individual, approach every new interaction with a huge amount of preconceived ideas. The onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 01:59 PM
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A story used to rationalize subjugation
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:39 AM
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Fair enough, I shouldn’t assume
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 09:02 PM
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Eve’s temptation in the garden of Eden was used to discriminate against women by clergy for centuries. Humans can hold a grudge…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:53 PM
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> If you believe in universal karma do you not believe the energy you put out into the universe will surely be thrown back at you? I believe that the signals you feed the algorithm will be thrown back at you to create a feedback loop, that’s for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:36 PM
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I think women are in search of relationships with men or they wouldn’t join platforms like hinge
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:34 PM
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So just to be clear, you support these quotas even though they are largely in violation of the civil rights act
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:32 PM
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I’ve been out of the dating game long enough I don’t think I could accurately say. But in a dating market where men and women are pursuing each other, the problem is necessarily two-sided. Takes two to tango.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:36 PM
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Sure, but not everyone can be thoroughly educated in all things. Political polls exist to gauge public perception of candidates or topics, that doesn’t mean the individuals they poll are educated on those topics, and yet the data is still valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:32 PM
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Supporting “women’s education and professional advancement” as you rephrased it is not discrimination against men. Supporting “policies that encourage hiring/promoting women, female only scholarships” as OP initially asked does necessarily involve some discrimination against men. Why? Because if you have a diversity quota to meet (as was very common in 2010s Silicon Valley and beyond prior to more recent enforcement of federal law) and you’re looking at those two candidates I mentioned earlier t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:30 PM
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Well, I guess this is why elsewhere in this thread I said that the precise definition of a feminist gets fuzzy. A layperson might still call themselves a feminist despite never reading feminist literature.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:57 PM
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Two sides of the same coin, two different experiences on either side of the same “dating problem”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:55 PM
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You have two candidates for a job, one male one female. They have equal qualifications including degrees and years of experience, are competing for equal compensation, have both had good interviews. Who do you hire?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:48 PM
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I mean if you’re trying to take the temperature of he average layperson, not experts
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:46 PM
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What would you propose as an alternative? I’d suggest Pew Research data.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:27 PM
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>Can men be discriminated on basis of their gender? >Seldom. >Do you support policies that encourage hiring/promoting women, female only scholarships? >Yes. So is that one of the rare instances of discrimination?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:25 PM
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What human rights are being infringed?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:24 PM
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A ridiculous term yes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 01:54 PM
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Oh I know what a terf is, you’d probably call me one
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 01:53 PM
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Allyship lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 01:24 PM
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To be fair, it’s tricky because the definition of “feminist” is so fuzzy. The average millennial normie just says “yeah I guess im a feminist because I believe in equal right for women.” They may not realize they’re sharing that term with the intersectional reddit-mod-Instagram-infographic feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 01:23 PM
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No I’ve never asked those questions on Reddit because it’s a waste of time. Personally, I’ve never defended self-described feminists. Usually my criticism on this sub is that some men will use “feminist” and “woman” interchangeably, which muddies the waters and conveniently assumes the most extreme views are held by all women. It would be like using “men” and “redpillers” interchangeably.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:31 AM
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I have to say, I’ve never been hit on or harassed in the street as much as I was in Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:25 AM
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Actually Japan is pouring a lot of resources into increasing the marriage rate because it’s tied to their low birth rate
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:51 AM
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One of many many Covid-era pieces about how “whiteness” harms white peope too. See also: the term “anti-racism” One’s been at it in a public way for longer but they’re not so different.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:47 AM
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What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 01:09 AM
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And we know it’s not hard to be visible to men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 12:21 AM
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What do you consider modest attire? This Or this? Or even this or this?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 12:19 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 09:26 PM
2

Widowers are sexy I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 03:12 PM
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Hone ‘em. Hone those skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:25 PM
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One theory: there’s a lot of anger and unrest among young men that manifests as online trolling but irl they don’t actually hate individual women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:24 PM
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This entire post presupposes that whatever constitutes the leadership of the feminist movement at this point HAS any interest, purported or genuine, in addressing uniquely male issues. They don’t. That’s not what allyship means to these people. Why? Because they don’t believe those issues are worse than the issues facing women, if they exist at all. You can tell by applying it to any other oppressor/oppressed-narrative relationship. Five or six years ago did BLM promise anything in return for al…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:22 PM
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If we’re bringing up the natural world it’s really not her choice lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:12 PM
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Caveman, returning to cave empty handed: “The hunt wasn’t successful today” Cavewoman: “I gathered”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:09 PM
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Are you single, and if so who cooks for you? But yeah that’s why I shop, cook, AND generate the majority of household income. Because specialization… <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:06 PM
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Not wrong honestly. I remember the excitement on its own of going to the “video store” with my dad and picking out a movie to watch on a Friday night, I remember discovering some favorites but I don’t remember the duds even though there had to have been some lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 12:36 PM
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That’s absolutely why some of us are here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 12:32 PM
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You stop approaching to focus on yourself and then start back up after. Or ideally you become so desirable that women throw themselves at you but that’s top 1% shit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 12:31 PM
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I’m told by a certain user that watching porn with women in it means I’m not really straight 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:05 AM
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Are you telling me an unsuccessful man who hits the gym and gets a raise isn’t going to have more success with women on the other side? That’s RP “monk mode” in a nutshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:04 AM
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It certainly wouldn’t* help the birth rate but some people would still pair up
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:02 AM
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If that were the case this sub wouldn’t exist (for many reasons)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:59 AM
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I think we’re talking more about broad biologically driven trends than individual choice
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 12:03 AM
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I guess it’s no different from a schoolboy pulling on a classmates hair (“That means he likes you”) Maybe you’re just looking for a reaction, even if it’s a negative one. Or maybe it’s because aggression and affection are bizarrely intertwined? Like when something is so cute you want to bite it, or when my female dog hate fucks her bed to death.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 11:16 PM
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Interesting to see this depressing from the male side, seems like it should just be depressing from the female side.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 11:11 PM
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You’d be surprised at how different two people’s ideas of shared responsibility can look. That’s usually where problems arise.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 10:47 PM
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I guess it sounds very appealing if your SO isn’t doing them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 10:41 PM
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That’s due to social contagion, and the lack of a sexual motivation
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 10:37 PM
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🌈 brain structure 🌈
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 07:01 PM
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And the reason is male sexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:57 PM
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I’ve watched a very sexually and romantically forward woman in the wild, and I would agree that she actually was not all that successful with men. I think it was just so weird to the guys that she flirted with it was off-putting, like what’s the catch? She was desperate to the point of it being awkward. But I would also say she had more success initially before she developed a bad reputation within that community and guys started to avoid her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:52 PM
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Who is shaming men for being responsible adults who happen to be single? I see men get shamed for being single losers I see men get shamed for being single deadbeat dads But men who mind their own business, are employed and self sufficient, reasonably healthy and attractive and just choose to be single? I’m not sure I even see hate for that type of voluntarily single woman. Neither are really the type of people to draw attention to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:41 PM
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It’s [current year]
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:32 PM
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There’s so much going on in this story, I feel like it would make a great comedy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 01:58 PM
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Flair is appropriate
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 01:04 PM
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Pretty sure it was overturned simply on the grounds that abortion isn’t a constitutionally protected right. We could always pass federal legislation to regulate it that would overrule state laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 01:02 PM
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If I were single then probably
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 10:52 AM
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🥈
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 03:12 AM
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Best I’ve gotten is the rest of the orange chicken at the end of the night at Panda Express
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 02:08 AM
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I love this question lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:22 PM
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Women aren’t mind readers
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:53 PM
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You don’t seem to be having any trouble engaging with nuanced answers to your question in this thread, so I’m not sure what the issue is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:19 PM
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Wasn’t this you in another chain: “Then it’s incumbent on users to ASK QUESTIONS to gain clarity, not to ASSUME an ulterior motive or subtext.”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:13 PM
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👏
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 06:28 PM
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Just as long as you understand this is how you get blindsided by Trump twice. Plugging your ears and yelling la la la doesn’t make the thing go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 05:53 PM
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Idk dude it sounds like you just didn’t like the answers. But to give my own answer, I think there’s an amount of unspoken subtext in every human interaction. Some types of interactions have more that goes unspoken than others, and some people are more attuned to what goes unspoken than others. I’ve known people who read way too far into those interactions and see things that I don’t think are there. I’ve also known people who take at face value interactions I deem to be way more complicated. Li…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 05:32 PM
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How are men, at large, forced to reflect on systems (?) in a way that women aren’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:19 PM
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I think my kid needs to be a park ranger or something. If he’s outside he’s happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:50 PM
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Can you link to the post you made so we can actually see the responses? What is going on in your life that this is your fixation?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:49 PM
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<image> This is always so relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:47 PM
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Because the other commenter was clearly offended
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:46 PM
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*people
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:21 PM
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It doesn’t offend me, I’m trying to explain why you should be allowed to express your opinion. You’re welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:13 PM
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Do you care FOR children? Or do you not actually know anything about what having kids entails?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:33 AM
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The discussion around legalizing or decriminalizing sexwork seems to have a lot in common with legalizing or decriminalizing drugs or gambling. Keeping it illegal allows the black market to thrive. Legalizing it comes with its own budding problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:32 AM
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He’s allowed to say the offensive thing here because if it were removed and banned you would be given the false impression it doesn’t exist
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:25 AM
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“…apart from having kids” Do you have kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:22 AM
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Can you at least reference some of the studies you start off by dismissing as biased?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:09 AM
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Comment equivalent of “nuh uh”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 11:43 AM
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Also very true
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 11:42 AM
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If the government were remotely fiscally responsible, sure. Instead that money just goes into the pot.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 11:41 AM
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Where do you think those social safety nets come from?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:26 AM
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Not only has the MMR in the US been overinflated (https://www.npr.org/sections/health-shots/2024/03/13/1238269753/maternal-mortality-overestimate-deaths-births-health-disparities) but even if you take it at face value you’re about as likely to die in a car accident.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:25 AM
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Because try running a political campaign on cutting social security and Medicare and see how that goes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:18 AM
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Avoiding a population cliff would certainly be nice though
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:15 AM
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Countries that have implemented paid childcare and parental leave programs have seen increases in the fertility rate, just not enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:14 AM
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Yes, and?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:08 AM
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Hard to watch a loved one go from being sharp to not knowing what year it is basically overnight. Or maybe it’s better than a slow decline, I don’t know. Given the prevalence of things like Alzheimer’s and dementia I wouldn’t be surprised if I one day have the misfortune of finding out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 03:04 PM
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I mean the redpill has always been pretty clear that decentering women (establishing frame) paradoxically attracts women. I’m not sure who you’re debating.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 03:02 PM
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So I was right, the goalposts have moved from “women are worse” to “men and women are equally bad” back to “women are worse” according to need.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 02:53 PM
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“Completely agree. The problem is that more often than not the people who are unwilling to honestly communicate are not men.” “And again, more often than not the people who are unwilling to honestly communicate are not men.” “Men have been consistently clear and straightforward in what men would want and desire in women. The opposite is not true.“ Can you explain these statements to me since I didn’t comprehend them correctly?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 11:41 AM
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I’m just trying to get my head around the ground rules I mean no you didn’t say ALL women believe men have no emotions but you did say most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 11:38 AM
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Point being, you’re not just venting. You’ve identified a problem and would propose a solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 07:00 PM
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Can you expand on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 05:28 PM
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>But for some reason it is only ever socially acceptable to point out when it happens to men, and pointing out when it happens to women is sexist and misogynistic and wrong. I thought you said women didn’t think men had emotions. Is it other men shaming men for expressing emotions?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 05:25 PM
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>I'm saying both teams do the same aount of total bad things That’s not what I read
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 05:22 PM
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Requests for sympathy are the Trojan horse
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 03:40 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 03:17 PM
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Everything I’ve ever heard from men is that they’re purely rational actors and women are the ones driven by their emotions. Hm.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 03:16 PM
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Are you sick rn?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:06 PM
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Oh yeah I remember this one https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/1948550619856308 We recruited 820 women (Mage = 34.64 years, SD = 10.93) using Amazon’s Mechanical Turk and paid them US$0.26 as remuneration.1 Their current relationship status was mostly single (40%), followed by married (33%), and currently in a committed relationship (but not married; 27%). Most women identified as heterosexual (85%) rather than homosexual (4%) or bisexual (11%). We chose to include only the 698 self-i…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 09:14 AM
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I was just under the impression men were purely rational actors and that women were the oldest teenagers in the house, but noted
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 09:03 AM
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I would think it should be self explanatory that a minor isn’t under some kind of obligation to be honest with their accuser but oh well
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:09 AM
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Many such cases
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:08 AM
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You have feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:06 AM
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I think we were originally trying to determine whether she was being strung along or not getting her way. I guess the final answer is both.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:06 AM
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If so, not explicitly. I’ve only ever heard the redpill call dating and relationships amoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:05 AM
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Wait a second. Earlier you said that the only reasonable assumption to draw from someone’s words or lack of words was exactly what those words mean, no more or less. He says he wants to get married, what else is she supposed to draw from that statement?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:03 AM
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Do you speak from experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 04:34 PM
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I mean yeah she wants to believe that the relationship is going to culminate in marriage badly enough that she’s unable to face the truth, and she enables the relationship to go on even though their goals are incompatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 04:33 PM
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Women aren’t mind readers. Men should just say what they want or don’t want. Now of course saying what he really wants would mean the dissolution of the relationship, which is benefitted from greatly…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 04:31 PM
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On paper with all emotional context and body language removed sure. But we should know that’s not how these things work.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 02:28 PM
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I’ve known someone who’s wanted to marry her long term boyfriend for years and he always says they should wait for a variety of reasons related to time and money (I want you to have a big wedding, a big ring, take a nice honeymoon) even though she would be happy with something simpler. Is she being strung along or not getting her way?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 02:26 PM
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There’s a lot that could mean. It could mean the sexual relationship is so new that the two haven’t had the conversation about a romantic relationship yet. It could mean there are a lot of lies by omission. Some people are masters at saying things that are technically true but which imply something untruthful. But no, I don’t think you’re obligated to announce your intentions when you first meet someone because you may not know your own intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 12:04 PM
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I think some men lean into their identity as a provider so much they don’t necessarily thing about the interpersonal relationship. Take Elon Musk: does he have the means to financially care for his gazillion children? Absolutely. But there’s no way he can be an active part of each of their lives, which has had and will have major repercussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 11:59 AM
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No, you’re not obligated to be in a relationship you don’t want. But can we at least agree that stringing someone along is a cousin to ghosting someone, in that they both involve an unwillingness to honestly communicate? Really the question is: do you as a human being have a moral obligation to but truthful and communicate with others clearly?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 11:55 AM
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I think the kind of people you’re describing have insulated themselves from opposing viewpoints so well that they never even encounter that statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 03:44 PM
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I picked it because everyone knows it but yeah I could have said 50 Shades of Gray or something
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 12:05 PM
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Except for this one https://www.tristatehomepage.com/news/crime/woman-arrested-for-reporting-false-rape-allegations-to-epd/
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 02:46 AM
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Takes two to tango
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 02:30 AM
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Now that’s a more interesting argument
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 02:25 AM
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lol ok hun
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 12:49 AM
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All you’re really saying is that you have no theory of mind for the opposition
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 12:46 AM
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A lot of people are deliberately unkind on an anonymous forum in a way they wouldn’t be to someone’s face
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 11:59 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 11:57 PM
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So you prefer anecdote
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 08:35 PM
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Oh so your source is Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:56 PM
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True, it’s not really my thing but tumblr girls love a gay romance for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 02:43 PM
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Flair tracks
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 02:05 PM
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I was under the impression that porn itself wasn’t all that popular among straight women and the porn that is most popular among straight women which is literotica (think Morning Glory Milking Farm) is always hetero.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 11:52 AM
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To be fair it probably depends on where you are. I live in a red state with a higher fertility rate and a lower average age of first marriage relative to the rest of the country. People I know get married and have kids and the women stay home and do all the domestic stuff, or work and still do all the domestic stuff (lmao)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 11:50 AM
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Is this something there’s actually discourse around? This is the first I’m hearing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 11:32 AM
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As I said, the real one. It’s got grass and everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 11:10 AM
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Sauce?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 03:18 AM
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You don’t really want that, you want to be attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:06 PM
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Questions like these are pointless. “What if women were actually men and men were actually women??” Well then we would have men and women. Idk what you want me to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:36 PM
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One way of looking at positive masculinity is simply that it’s traditional masculinity. Then of course we get into the stalemate of “I won’t be traditionally masculine/feminine if you won’t be traditionally feminine/masculine!” But it’s also worth noting that out in the real world women embrace motherhood, beauty standards, submissiveness (as loaded as that word is), and domestic roles (by necessity) all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:53 PM
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“I mean we can see why this is just by looking at mens vs womens dating content. Manosphere content is often about finding the reality of womens nature and how to navigate it, whereas "femosphere" content is either about explicit sexual experiences or ranting about what the men in the manosphere are talking about.” <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 11:58 AM
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I’m sure Debrah Soh calls it hoeflation…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 06:40 PM
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See above
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:54 PM
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It just makes me love and appreciate my parents more for putting up with me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:01 AM
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Recognize the usernames but not sure I’ve seen them recently. I pop in and out for months at a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:00 AM
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Paper beats rock beats scissors beats paper
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 02:57 AM
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The way this was initially phrased I definitely thought you meant how many at one time
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 02:57 AM
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You specifically said “young men were not a priority until the red pill came along.“ Not true. The activities of young men were of great interest long before 21st century Internet forums.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 08:55 PM
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I asked Grok to search historical records for a concern about lonely listless young men. Here are some excerpts: **Ancient Rome (Augustan Era, late 1st century BC–early 1st century AD)** Emperor Augustus enacted moral legislation like the Lex Julia de Maritandis Ordinibus (18 BC) and Lex Papia Poppaea (9 AD) to promote marriage and childbearing among the upper classes while penalizing celibacy. Unmarried men (especially over 25) faced inheritance restrictions, could not fully receive legacies, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 08:27 PM
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A fetish is born
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 07:05 PM
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Yawn
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:29 PM
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Married to a man with ADHD so maybe there’s something to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:50 PM
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I don’t know if women behave any differently because we’re all human before we’re male/female (shocking, I know). The problem is when supremacists of any persuasion rationalize that their group is somehow above it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 11:50 AM
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In theory the old Redpill philosophy was supposed to include some stoicism and self sufficiency but in reality it usually just stoked the flames of entitlement and resentment, because blaming others is a lot easier than blaming yourself. Community leaders would address the problem by calling it “the anger phase” initiated had to go through to reach enlightenment on the other side. Problem of course is that many never left “the anger phase.”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 11:45 AM
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Is this a thing? Does this happen? Did it happen to you? It just seems very specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 11:37 AM
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Is this a thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 09:25 PM
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If I know grandmas they probably want the phone call more than anything
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 09:25 PM
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I’ve seen complaints about men not approaching but I don’t think I’ve seen one about men not caring about their girl’s outfit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 07:58 PM
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All I can see is this meme: https://knowyourmeme.com/memes/date-with-this-girl-or-a-meeting-with-andrew-tate
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 07:56 PM
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He made a reddit post so that’s a good start
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 07:53 PM
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I did that with alphabet stickers as a kid and then discovered I had an allergy to the glue. Was covered in little red letters long after the stickers came off.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 04:46 PM
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This will probably get taken down and reposted as a debate post
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 04:42 PM
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I am
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 04:11 PM
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I actually don’t know if that is something they can decide. It’s probably innate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 04:10 PM
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As long as you’re a remotely attractive woman there is no way to escape objectification. Wearing sexy revealing clothing is a response to the male gaze. Wearing modest clothing is also a response to the male gaze. You ARE sexual object until you age out and that’s just what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:26 AM
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I don’t know if anyone still uses it but I used to see “terpers”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 06:28 PM
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What do you mean by needy?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 06:27 PM
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☕️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 06:26 PM
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“but then women are not owed emotional concern from those same men when the men they actually selected hurt them.” Uh yeah I’m not seeing this anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 11:34 AM
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Exactly why r/incel was banned
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 02:44 AM
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What action do you want her to take?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 02:43 AM
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I’ve tried it twice and found it helpful once and unhelpful once. Only way to know unfortunately is to try.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 02:41 AM
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I find it hard to believe
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 02:39 AM
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Withdrawal is a bitch though
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 02:36 AM
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But did you ever have a conversation with her about what it was like to raise those seven children? I’ve been blessed to have my maternal grandma in my life for 30 years but there were a lot of stories I didn’t hear from her when I was a kid because they weren’t the kind of things you open up to a kid about.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 11:30 AM
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AFAIK the G and the T are different and not mutually exclusive
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 02:33 AM
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It’s called 2016 glam
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 02:31 AM
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If she’s not cheating this should be a red flag for her
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 10:58 PM
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Ozempic will get us there
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 08:17 PM
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People are not rational
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 08:15 PM
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That’s because people sort themselves into tribes and everyone on this sub is here to argue with the other tribe
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:35 AM
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Two degrees (over educated), employed (thankfully I didn’t spend much on my over education)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 11:49 AM
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Yup, shits depressing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 11:47 AM
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The walls of text with the same emoji dispersed throughout are a red flag lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 11:43 AM
2

They don’t say it but its the natural conclusion
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 11:39 AM
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Love and attraction aren’t exactly rational things. Both sexes enter into relationships that are worse for them than being single all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 11:38 AM
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I don’t really even disagree, its a bizarre reflex to any problem. But it’s also a meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 09:08 PM
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It’s a meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 08:23 PM
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“Everyone hates Karens until there's one on the same delayed flight and all of a sudden we are all getting a $200 voucher!”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 07:40 PM
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What do you consider to be an average woman OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 07:36 PM
2

Top quality rage bait
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 01:25 PM
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“Two fundamentally different statements are met with different reactions wah”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 10:45 AM
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the context of what I've read in this reddit. Well there’s your problem
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 05:09 PM
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The people who think others should be indefinitely shamed for having a different worldview at one point in time are just petty tyrants with no theory of mind for their opposition. I can understand what draws young men to certain influencers without being drawn to them myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 05:05 PM
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You may not want to follow that line of reasoning to its natural conclusion…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:59 PM
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Bruh I was giving you an out and you just doubled down lmao 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:47 PM
1

Oh I just assumed you had marched with the suffragettes or something my b
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:46 PM
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It’s a wood burning stove, smokes gotta go somewhere. Maybe there’s a pipe or chimney we can’t see.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 01:50 PM
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You must be very old
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 01:46 PM
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Maybe it’s autocorrect, maybe it’s maybelline
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 01:40 PM
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Remarkable lack of agency
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 09:07 AM
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Well, for us humans… we want to really get to know them…” What’s the perspective for women, on the other hand? How do you begin to engage with someone who views you as other to the point of not being the same species?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 09:00 AM
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It’s usually just a revenge fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 08:05 PM
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Appreciate that you get the reference, sometimes people just think my name is Martha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 03:44 AM
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Probably just a reddit issue
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 06:05 PM
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Wtf Reformation actually came out with “The Divorce Collection”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 06:04 PM
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I’d love to know what your vision of a SMV 1 woman is
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 05:09 PM
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Who is collecting organizing and publishing this data you cite?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 05:05 PM
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You’re right I almost forgot
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 04:01 PM
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Im starting to see this EVERYWHERE now. PSA for everyone: the algorithm feeds you more and more of what you engage with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 03:30 PM
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Weird, maybe should have reminded the mods I was a woman when getting temp bans
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 04:28 AM
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Yeah I’m not seeing it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 04:18 AM
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I mean yeah it’s in the vows “Till death do we part”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 08:27 PM
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Depends on if we count background YouTube videos
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 08:26 PM
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Really, the whole world
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 08:26 PM
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Did you actually watch the video?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 05:04 PM
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Did you actually watch the video?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 05:04 PM
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ugly, old, obese, short as midget women have 1000s of offers to hookup on dating apps. Big if true
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 12:34 PM
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the majority of women are fat, desperate, slutty, gold digging single mothers? Big if true
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 12:31 PM
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Because sex is a really strong biological imperative for men. Side note, are there insufficient safety standards in the logging industry or is it just an inherently risky field? I honestly don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 12:28 PM
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I get that women are overrepresented in roles like HR but i want to know where people are finding these bullshit corporate babysitting PowerPoint jobs, because that is NOT my desk job lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 09:02 PM
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I mean you could say I “tamed a bad boy” but I think it’s more like he just grew up and became more mature like people do. People aren’t static.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 05:52 PM
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Competence at games, for example
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 10:00 PM
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Goodbye forever
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 05:36 PM
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Maybe California. Anywhere in the southeast or Southwest will just fuck you I’m a different way come summer.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 04:53 PM
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If the obesity epidemic disappeared tomorrow how would that affect the dating market? More than 40% of American adults are considered obese. Men often say that obesity is the main, if not the only, dealbreaker for attractiveness in women. In OD terms, people usually swipe left on fat girls and girls usually try to conceal this negative quality by posting group photos and selfies with really high camera angles. So if tomorrow obesity as a condition was all but eliminated from the globe which of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 04:43 PM
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Once or twice, just when I see bad car accidents or hazards on the road
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 01:14 PM
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In some ways
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 01:12 PM
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Well that’s a first. Passed a guy jerking it on a park bench yesterday. Ope. I called the police department to report because there’s a playground not far from there. Probably nothing came of it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 12:42 PM
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Now tell that to OP
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 12:39 PM
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Competence can be influenced by genetics. Intelligence for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 12:36 PM
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Ironically, this is where the Red Pill alpha bros that tell you to quit being a SIMP, get over your oneitis and start living in abundance are truly on to something. Everyone’s least favorite part of the redpill is the personal responsibility part, which is probably why it’s a critically endangered species in these spaces now.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 12:35 PM
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I mean I don’t know if her statement is true but it is definitely consistent with what’s repeated here every day: women are valued for just existing, and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 12:32 PM
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Why do you think men seem to get more benefit from relationships than women do?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 12:24 PM
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If women had low standards we’d still be living in grass huts
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 12:20 PM
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If you log off around you’ll see people are still pairing up and getting married
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 12:19 PM
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And?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 12:15 PM
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Competence is attractive, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 04:03 AM
2

So who built society again?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 02:35 PM
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So society was built by many types of people performing many types of tasks?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 03:13 AM
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You said you take care of society. Do you volunteer in your community or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 02:57 AM
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ALL BITCHES WANT TO DO IS CHARGE THEY PHONE EAT HOT CHIP AND LIE
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 02:54 AM
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What do you do for a living? Just curious
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 02:51 AM
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OP was literally complaining about not wanting to cook anything a few days ago
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 02:49 AM
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Reminds me of a classic Alex Jones rant about some conspiracy that’s at least within the realm of physical possibility and then ope suddenly we’re talking about inter-dimensional vampires
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 07:46 PM
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Unpopular opinion: I think a lot of MtF transition is driven by sexual fetish like autogynephilia and a lot of FtM transition is driven by social contagion just like eating disorders.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 07:09 PM
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You’re completely discounting the sexual component of MtF transitions
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 06:32 PM
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https://youtu.be/uguXNL93fWg
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 06:30 PM
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I liked having a female OB with kids because she was able to add an extra layer legitimacy to the medical advice with her personal experience. But I’ve also had male gynos and know male gynos that are amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 10:13 PM
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Aside from the all the usual gripes about the American healthcare system at large, I’ve never had a bad or abusive provider of either sex. Hurried or busy maybe, but not bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 10:08 PM
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Fair enough. My flair would be Purple Pilled but that doesn’t afford you any more opportunities off the Q4_ posts so I got bored and changed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 01:05 PM
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I don’t disagree with any of this and I don’t think most people would disagree with it. But FWIW this bit: Understand that women LOVE sex and that sex is something enjoyable for both of you, rather than something that the woman "gives" the man. Get it out of your head that a woman having sex = a slut. Do not be judgemental. Understand that sex is a completely normal thing, and nothing to shame someone about. Respect her as a person. She's not a whore for having sex. Respect her privacy. Do not k…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 12:17 PM
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It’s almost like the advice men give women is just as self-serving as the advice women give men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 12:06 PM
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Half the women there have zero self esteem or and the other half are men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 12:05 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 03:53 AM
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Watch what they do, not what they say
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 01:56 PM
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Always important to remember that when me talk about women they’re not picturing anyone other than a young attractive woman
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 01:53 PM
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I tried to find out where the image originated but there are so many altered images of Alex Pretti and of frames of the recordings of the incident that there’s too much noise to sift through.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 01:51 PM
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Same reason humans have ever created any kind of religious imagery
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 12:48 PM
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Shits WILD but I think it transcends any kind of debate about female attraction. Yes it was practically a meme for weeks that Luigi Mangioni was attractive, but he has tens of thousands of male and female supporters for what he allegedly did, not for his appearance. Or think back to any police shooting of a black person that blew up in the media in the 2010s. Media would immediately scour the victim’s Facebook page and depending on their political stance cherry pick the most thug-looking or the …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 12:45 PM
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discriminated against in family courts Tell me more
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 08:53 PM
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I think men actually like it when women “just exist.” It’s much easier than engaging with an individual with their own goals and POV.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 05:53 PM
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I said nothing of the sort. I pointed out a statistical fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:18 PM
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Eh I’m pretty sure men tend to live shorter lines due to The effects of testosterone on systems like fat distribution Men with dangerous jobs and reckless men pushing the average down.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:16 PM
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We solved a lot of it with widespread access to birth control but in general it can’t be.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:12 PM
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For example: “Hey in the future can you put this away when you’re done?” Turned into a whole thing 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:09 PM
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I’ve had the opposite experience. I thought men wanted clear and respectful communication. Turns out that’s either wrong or the response to that communication isn’t to reciprocate but instead to get emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 03:53 PM
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I would argue that the “sidebar” operates much more like a manifesto than a manual. Looking at the table of contents, there are several self-help focused chapters: Of Love and War, Schedules of Mating, All-in-One Red Pill 101, Briffault's Law, Relationships the Red Pill and you, etc. But large swaths veer into ideology, like much of the first part which is just an excerpt from Esther Vilar’s The Manipulated Man. The there’s Sexual Utopia in Power which is a critique of the feminist movement, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 03:48 PM
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Hoping it doesn’t come to this but we also have a stack of firewood next to our fireplace just in case
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 02:38 AM
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Assuming you’re willing to do it, I guess if you already dislike each other there’s no much risk in offering. Seems weird tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 02:36 AM
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Patrilineal descent and tribal governance in the hands of male leaders. There are some theories that early societies actually tended to be matriarchal and matrilineal but it’s a controversial topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 02:34 AM
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I’m not obligated to give them my kidney but I also don’t have the right to terminate their life out of convenience.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 02:30 AM
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Is the fetus’ right to live and your right to live mutually exclusive?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 02:29 AM
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There have been threads in just the last week pretty much arguing just that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 01:39 AM
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I’m not even pro life but it’s not hard to understand that some people see the unborn as fully human and deserving of human rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 01:38 AM
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Too much grass I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 01:35 AM
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Ngl I’m jealous
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 10:12 PM
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Who the what now
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 10:11 PM
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You have to detox by visiting the Middle East
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 01:23 PM
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We “should” do a lot of things but instinct and yes culture would have it another way
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 01:20 PM
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Always love how your options in Europe are Left and Far Right but the Far Right politicians are like agnostic lesbians married to POC 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 01:18 PM
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Yes 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 01:08 PM
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Maybe but old habits die hard. I think there’s a reason men still tend to be a few years older than their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 01:06 PM
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Here? Where? Besides Lilith
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 01:04 PM
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Probably has more to do with the trans thing tbh. Lesbians want to be with a woman, not a man, and straight women want to be with a man, not a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 01:24 AM
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Farmers markets
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 08:41 PM
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https://youtu.be/oHO6m_UmwSs
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 08:39 PM
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Important note: feminist =/= woman
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 05:40 PM
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And that will probably be the focus of her trial this year. The prosecution is alleging she was of sound mind when she planned and committed the murders and her defense will say she was not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 04:47 PM
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I can give you way more than four the (fucking) Internet search engines cloud computing smart phones mRNA vaccine technology CRISPR widespread availability of prenatal ultrasounds and genetic testing the reusable rockets Elon is working on LED lighting 3d printers and advanced robotics in manufacturing robot assisted surgery immunotherapy (I think we’ve literally cured certain kind of leukemia now)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 04:40 PM
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I’m more or less agreeing with you. To the extent that she’s getting a “pussy pass” I think it’s because the idea of a mother killing her children is particularly hard to stomach even though most child homicides are committed by women. But as I quoted above there are examples of the reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 04:34 PM
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We’ve had a lot of great technological developments since the 80s and 90s
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 04:25 PM
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I think people have a desire to find reasons things happen, because the idea that it’s all random chaos is worse. Because I am Martha Ballard pilled I would recommend reading up on the Purrinton murders: Edes concluded that it was the expression of “terror and alarm” on the part of the women that caused Purrinton to change his original plan, which was only to kill himself. “Seeing their distress, and anticipating how poignant it would be on his death, he no doubt determined to take them all with…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 04:14 PM
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I mean she also slit her wrists and jumped out a window and the husband sued the hospital for overmedicating her and not properly managing her mental illness But yeah something something pussy pass
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 03:53 PM
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How far did the ups from WW2 last? When did our decline start?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 03:44 PM
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I know someone who dated a girl with a 2 yo for about six months and he got a little too invested imo, like shit talking the kid’s dad around him. We were like hey bro… maybe don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 03:38 PM
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r/menwritingwomen
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 03:36 PM
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Have we not prospered in the past several decades?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 03:33 PM
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Oh but you see he used the word “postulated.” He wins by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 03:29 PM
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We can discuss whether the oppressive patriarchy has really existed in developed countries for the last 50-100 years but beyond that… seriously? Queen Elizabeth I became one of Britain’s very few female monarchs because there were no other legitimate male heirs, therefore patriarchy is a myth? “If dating is really that hard, how does Chad get dates?”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 03:27 PM
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This actually is the ideal RP world imo. Majority of women are chaste wife material and a underclass (maybe 20%?) of women are essentially prostitutes to have fun with on the side. How else are you supposed to complain about feminism and “modern women” and still get to carry out your biological imperative of having a variety of sexual partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 09:57 AM
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I think if men had the second ability they would be surprised to find how boring the truth actually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 09:51 AM
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Majority of posts are made by men and they’re usually complaining about how dating his hard
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 03:01 AM
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Ah the blue line at the bottom
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 12:26 AM
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Didn’t say a good personality. It essentially just said a pulse.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 11:56 PM
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You… think women are the ones bitching on PPD? Well I’ve seen it all now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 11:55 PM
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Case closed, anyone not RP is kinky
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 04:52 PM
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Same reason road rage makes people do and say thing a they need would to your face
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 03:45 PM
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Yes, men have low standards
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 03:43 PM
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I had an ex I still hung out with for a while but we eventually lost contact. My husband dated a girl who broke things off but he continued to be good friends with her and her brother. She’s married now and we’re married now and they’re certainly family friends now. I think a Seinfeld/Elaine relationship is possible, just not for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 12:25 PM
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Also confused because he literally does have a mustache
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 05:55 PM
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But what he did change, he intentionally changed to better highlight who he already was as a person
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:06 PM
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I think most normal people have no issue with this. It’s only the most alpha bros and desperate men who view sex and relationships this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 10:29 PM
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And on top of that, any success is actually redpill by default
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 06:55 PM
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What, and cold approach?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 06:54 PM
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How often have people on this sub complained about supposedly useless advice like “be yourself” or “improve your presentation”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 06:53 PM
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Kid got me sick 🤧
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 05:01 PM
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I’ve noticed those principals of inclusion go out the window when they become inconvenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 04:49 PM
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👋
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 04:48 PM
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The consensus seems to be that it’s bidirectional. Substance abuse and mental health problems often precede homelessness and the stress of homelessness exacerbates or triggers other issues. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25989002/
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 03:47 PM
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That about sums up internet discourse
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:35 PM
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I think it’s because the people living in their cars or asking people for favors are in a fundamentally different situation than the people actually on the street. You typically don’t end up as what everyone calls homeless without serious mental health and/or drug problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:35 PM
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This has so many layers to it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:11 PM
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You’re late to the party
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 04:13 AM
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Yes go monk mode
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 03:13 AM
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A decade in internet terms
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 03:10 AM
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Something something JD Vance
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 03:10 AM
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There are lots of reasons men traditionally approach and women don’t, but if an increasing number of men are wary of approaching women I suspect it’s because they’re worried about coming off as predatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 01:27 AM
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Are you talking about child tax credits? The foster care system?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 09:23 PM
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I think this is usually in response to men saying that sex is a need. Like yes in some sense, but not on the same level that food or water or oh then are needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 06:12 PM
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I have plenty of empathy, but there’s not much point in bringing it up here
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 09:03 PM
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Just think of them like cats
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 08:58 PM
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Don’t be filled with dread over dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 03:10 PM
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Wait so we’re not a monolith now?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 02:46 PM
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In the opening scene of the first episode of Sex and the City, one of the main characters Miranda says she feels like at this point in her 30s why settle? She’s been on dates with the short fat ugly men and they’re just as bad as the hot ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 02:42 PM
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I hope you stub your toe today… does that mean you’ve never stubbed your toe?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 02:39 PM
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Not sure how those are mutually exclusive
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 01:10 PM
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https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZThh7XLPN/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 01:09 PM
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Now that’s the redpill I know
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 01:01 PM
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It’s a counter to the typical woe-is-mankind post men make.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 12:55 PM
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Yeah the thoughts of the men around her aren’t always predatory, often they’re just put off or confused. Idk, it’s like watching someone make an ass of themselves in any situation. Makes you cringe in second hand embarrassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 03:38 AM
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The grass is always greener
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 03:31 AM
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Damn that photo makes him look old
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 03:27 AM
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Whether true or not, I just have to assume there’s something wrong with her. And because I know how the men perceive her and it’s not flattering.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 03:24 AM
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When I see a really slutty woman I don’t police or judge her, I just feel bad for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 11:53 PM
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The lyrics are a bit cringe and copey, but it's painfully catchy and simple. ^ every t swift song ever
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 11:50 PM
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That’s exactly why it’s dangerous
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 11:50 PM
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Men and women are both guilty about assuming women are a monolith. Hypothetical RP Man and Hypothetical BP Woman will both assume women are broadly pro-abortion, when men and women have similar levels of support for abortion. They’ll both assume women are progressive and vote democrat when 46% of women voted Trump in the last US Presidential election. And my favorite, both will use women and feminists interchangeably even though 61% of women identify to varying degrees as feminist, with only 19%…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 09:36 PM
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The WILPF was outspoken against the draft, as was SOS.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 06:38 PM
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Thots and prayers
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 06:29 PM
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Watching the couples on financial audit makes me think that financial issues like any other “reason” for divorce is just the straw that broke the camel’s back. Usually there are years of resentment and disdain underlying the financial problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 05:31 PM
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🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 05:28 PM
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this man man wouldn’t dance he didn’t ask a single question
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 05:27 PM
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Damn what flights are you on?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 04:57 PM
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Same worldview that lets people decry ableism one minute and call Greg Abbott “Governor Hot wheels” the next. They were never principals, just tools.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 01:56 PM
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Probably because the women who saw the red flags and avoided them don’t have much of a story to tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 01:51 PM
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I’ve certainly been envious of men. Each sex has their own biological struggles that the other likes to forget.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 07:37 PM
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A better word to use would be resentment toward women who have something they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 05:21 PM
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Personally I’m not, exactly because I don’t want to owe anyone anythin
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 05:18 PM
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So you see the problem with talking about “feminists” broadly
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 04:17 PM
3

What do you owe him if he pays for the second date?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 04:13 PM
1

Dude you’re not supposed to broadcast that it’s a gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 12:08 PM
3

Sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 12:06 PM
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What fucked me up was being told that I am loser compared to the man I knew was a rapist by the girl who I was trying to warn about him.... Would love to know more
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 12:05 PM
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All sounds good to me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 12:04 PM
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But you seem to think that “feminist” is like some sort of personality trait all women have to some extent the more feminist a woman is And that may be fair. Most women have no intention of ceding their right to vote in elections. At one point that was the core plant of the feminist platform, so does that make them 10% feminist?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 12:03 PM
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What does that inverse look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 11:58 AM
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The philosophy begins and ends with “I got mine.” That’s what they mean by amoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 12:56 AM
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Probably true, it’s just that my own toxic trait is I can’t help but comment even if I have nothing to say lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:35 PM
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I don’t think most abusers start out being abusive
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:34 PM
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Fair enough, I just can’t not comment
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:32 PM
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The good guy wasn't expecting sex from you (no good man does) I find this hard to believe given the amount of heartburn on display
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 10:37 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 10:36 PM
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Maybe this is whataboutism but we could all stand to recognize the positive traits and toxic traits our mothers exhibited too?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 10:25 PM
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You’re right, OP was trying to be so vague I forgot that he’s almost certainly talking about dating and rejection. So let’s say the soup kitchen is a date, the volunteer is the man paying for a date, and the guests are women being taken on the date. What does the woman/guest owe the man/volunteer besides basic respect?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 10:24 PM
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A man on this sub once became so enraged that he repeatedly threatened to find and rape me 21st century…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 09:12 PM
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Of course we as a society want to reward people who do good. But if I go volunteer at a soup kitchen and get pissy when the guests don’t drop to the floor and kiss my feet for being there then maybe I wasn’t all that nice and selfless to begin with. You have to have the humility to accept thatk kindness, decency, and civil service don’t guarantee praise or material rewards, but that they’re worthwhile anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 07:25 PM
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I wonder how tall her heels are
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 05:58 PM
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I think men are more likely to debate other men than women are to debate other women, but I also think that men make up the majority on the sub and there’s more diversity of their beliefs (red pill v. Blue pill)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 05:57 PM
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And the “far right” in Europe is a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 04:53 PM
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Welcome to 99.9% of recorded human history
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 04:35 PM
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Kk
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 04:34 PM
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Uhh the comments are calling her ugly lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 04:32 PM
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Is that supposed to mean that we’re in capitalism and it’s bad or we’re not in capitalism and it’s bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 03:44 PM
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Step 1: get off reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 03:43 PM
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Fascinating
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 03:42 PM
1

That’s a stretch
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 03:41 PM
2

What rules are being broken?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 02:59 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 02:58 PM
3

Tell me more. I want to make sure I fill out the right tax forms this year.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 02:54 PM
1

I can’t trust anyone with a diagnosis on the Internet at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 02:00 PM
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I think it’s well known at this point that women tend to interpret men’s flirting as friendliness and men tend to interpret women’s friendliness as flirting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 01:58 PM
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Most misogynists don't really hate women. In fact, they like them. They want to love women and be loved by them, they want to have realtionships, intimacy, families, children with them and live their lives alongside women. Not because women are soooo good and angelic, but because men are attracted to most women and have high interest in them. Yeah looks like it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 01:55 PM
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Can you point me in a direction?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 01:53 PM
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Tbf I’m not really even sure what a feminist is anymore, if J.K. isn’t one. Seems like feminism has been absorbed into the intersectional blob. But OP wasn’t talking about feminists, he just said women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 01:52 PM
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Sweet where do I sign up?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 01:50 PM
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OP isn’t just talking about society, he’s clearly talking about individual women As a man, no woman outside of your immediate family will ever care about you unless you earn it. No one, especially childless women, care about men's problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 01:49 PM
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Muhhhh men only want sex uhhhh dirty animals amirite, sex ≠ love n shiet uhhhh Isn’t that what underlies your own post?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 12:13 PM
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You'll almost never see a man saying something like "Kill all women", "all women are disgusting", "all mothers are disgusting child abusers", "always take men's side, only help men", "I wish women didn't exist", "ugly women should be dying in war and be cannon fodder for beautiful ones", "most women walking around today are genetic garbage that should've died by natural selection" Where are you reading this?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 12:11 PM
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I wouldn’t be participating in this sub if the men of MGTOW and the redpill hadn’t already made me feel like shit
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 12:08 PM
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Bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 12:07 PM
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But you’re not watching me get punched out, I’m just some hypothetical person somewhere in the world with a basket of woman-problems. What are you personally going to do about my problems?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 03:39 AM
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Do you care about my problems as a woman you’ve never met and never will?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 03:32 AM
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What’s your schedule?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 11:37 PM
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Yeah I think his grand plan to repopulate the earth may backfire
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 11:35 PM
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Seems antithetical to TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 10:00 PM
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Compliance as in letting her use sex toys?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 07:54 PM
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Based purely on upvote/downvote ratios on posts, criticism of women hands down.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 07:32 PM
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You will be missed… whoever you are
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 07:31 PM
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Men just want sex and/or sexual exclusivity Oh yeah and that’s antithetical to the institution of marriage /s
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 02:48 PM
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quite literally every single woman who ever existed and who ever will Meta
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 02:47 PM
2

“Still married” also doesn’t necessarily mean still together
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 12:01 PM
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We come in peace
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 11:58 AM
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What forums are you reading?? The only online space I see middle aged women frequent are Facebook mom groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 01:43 AM
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Paternity fraud is an issue that affects countless families across the United States. Studies reported by the New York Times show that as many as 30 percent of dads paying child support are doing so for children who are not theirs. Correction: this random law office with a financial interest in this issue said a thing and cited no actual sources
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 12:18 AM
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Almost like that’s why OP made this post
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 12:14 AM
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Sure, if you can pull it off
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 10:34 PM
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pickmes (not that it's not a real concept but the term is being used very inflationary) A Pickme is as much of a real concept as a simp or a white knight
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 08:17 PM
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s o c i e t y
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 07:26 PM
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Change how
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 05:54 PM
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And what then
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 04:18 PM
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I think fast food habits are the answer. Yeah you objectively need to increase your caloric intake and so youre going to be hungrier than usual. But then if your habit when hungry is to go through the drive through, hoo boy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 03:38 PM
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Getting laid as a man is very difficult. Okay so what now?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 03:36 PM
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I’m gonna say that is an abnormal amount of weight gain, but she was probably overweight to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 03:11 PM
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Having kids as a woman shouldn't be this difficult I think many men don't understand the plight of the women. How difficult it is to grow, birth, and care for an infant. There's just too much you have to do as a woman. Whereas for men, they just have to skeet. It's as simple for them. Yet they go on rant about how feminism ruined women and they don’t know their place anymore. Each sex has its cross to bear. The grass is always greener.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 03:07 PM
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Here’s the thing about being yourself. It’s not that you wouldn’t be a more desirable partner if you were something other than yourself. It’s that most people are not psycho enough to successfully pretend to be someone they’re not 24/7. Here are your options, in order of most optimal to least: grind until you really are a better version of yourself successfully pretend to be someone better than you are be yourself try to pretend you’re someone you’re not and embarrassingly fail
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 02:50 PM
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Can confirm that his mom was fatter The funny thing is that I think she was trying to rush him to the bathroom to throw up and he didn’t make it… that’s the point at which you just throw up on the side of the road though
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 02:43 PM
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More or less trashy than when I watched a fat kid projectile vomit at a McDonald’s
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 12:14 PM
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Fascinating
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 12:13 PM
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Clickbait
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 12:11 PM
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Is this a thought experiment or a real event? I don’t see how we’re supposed to know with certainty whether someone on the Internet is lying or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 12:16 AM
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If she’s as dumpy as you claim it could be an ego thing. She’d rather say she didn’t find any of the men attractive than that she found some attractive but they weren’t interested. I don’t think she has a reason to lie to others but maybe to herself. But without seeing the original post we’re all just endlessly speculating and projecting whatever narrative we want onto a blank canvas. Would interesting to see the actual comment section….
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 11:13 PM
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it will happen when you stop looking Terrible dating advice, don’t listen to women go into monk mode and focus on statusmaxxing and looksmaxxing bro Based, redpilled
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 05:10 PM
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Don’t discount that one crazy relative though. I know someone who invited herself to a destination wedding because she had a timeshare 45 minutes away from the venue.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 04:25 PM
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The MBB-ification of Zoomer girls is real but how many of these profiles are actually just bots?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 02:54 PM
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Good job
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 02:43 PM
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Something something feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 06:08 PM
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It’s a holdover from chivalric traditions. But typically the reason you don’t see women proposing is because “if he wanted to he would.”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 05:41 PM
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After watching financial audit I’m starting to see the appeal of shows like the whatever podcast. People who are too dumb to survive are entertaining as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 01:38 PM
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Edgy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 01:37 PM
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Finish this title Milking Farm 2:
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 01:35 PM
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Men would never 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 03:50 AM
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In what way? Besides, I assume, being a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 01:43 PM
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Crying about innate inequalities could basically describe this sub. Biology. Men have stronger sexual urges and a greater desire for women than the other way around, meaning there will always be a sexual imbalance.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 01:12 PM
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I see what you’re saying with the 1-5 scale being reported as a binary
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 01:06 PM
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Tell me more about the questionnaires OP cited
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 03:33 AM
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Yeah let me rape the drug kingpin, that’ll stop him
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 03:23 AM
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Tell me more about the data
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 03:23 AM
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Are you seeing something in OP’s sources that I’m not?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:21 PM
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I think “would you ever cheat” is a more reasonable question to ask but I wouldn’t be alarmed if someone answered yes, because having consensual sex with someone while lying to your partner isn’t on the same level as inflicting physical harm on someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 09:37 PM
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💀 I’ve always heard nurses are extremely toxic. But I can’t say that’s been my experience irl. I think if you have genuine friends who want the best for you, male or femal, they’ll be honest even if it’s uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 09:35 PM
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This comment explains your thinking better than your post did. Yeah because the nice guy won't longer buy them anymore things. lol yeah sure that’s what it is 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 08:03 PM
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I don’t think you’re using “women are wonderful” or “just world fallacy” correctly here but anyway, Usually women realize the nice guy isn’t nice when he stops being nice. Really, that’s all there is to it. And then they say, “ohh he was actually a sneaky fucker.” The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 07:45 PM
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Depends on where you start the clock: Scenario 1: if you knew you would face no consequences would you intentionally decide to become pregnant by another man and never tell your husband? Scenario 2: regardless of how you got in this situation you now find yourself pregnant with another man’s baby. If you know he’ll never find out independently, do you tell him? Scenario 2 makes sense to ask, scenario 1 is utterly unhinged. If it’s true (and to be clear I’m not sure it is because nothing that I’v…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 07:42 PM
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What questions were the surveyed men specifically asked? I understand that people are capable of horrible things, but do you fear starving to death if you don’t rape someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 06:13 PM
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Eh how many of us are really here to do more than shitpost?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 06:11 PM
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Was it really? That’s what OP says but I’m not sure the sources he cites actually support his claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 05:53 PM
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Do you think the men in these surveys were asked “would you rape someone if you were born a hun?” Honestly having browsed the studies OP linked I’m not sure they even support his claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 05:52 PM
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I mean don’t get me wrong, I’ve also been on the wrong end of dogpile by women, but in general that’s what I’ve observed. It’s even an explicit rule over at r/breakingmoms though tbf that’s because it’s explicitly supposed to be a place to vent.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 05:50 PM
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Because the truth is that it’s a huge no-no in that kind of space to exhibit anything approaching blunt honesty. Online female spaces rarely allow anything other than positivity and praise.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:51 PM
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I can’t think of a person I hate so much or think is so evil I would kill them. There’s a reason we rely on a justice system, even one that’s flawed, rather than mob or vigilante justice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:56 PM
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Uhhhh that is not what I remember from that cesspit of cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:37 PM
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Most I don’t know, but certainly many. I do think that invoking the male loneliness epidemic any time men do something you don’t like is like the new “toxic masculinity” and it keeps discussion of the problem from ever being specific enough to be useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:32 PM
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That’s the problem though, the original questionnaire asked about all kinds of unwanted sexual contact, not just assault. But for years it’s been regurgitated as a simple “1 in 4 will be raped”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:31 PM
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Man toddlers are little barbarians. They just go up and bite each other for no reason 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:28 PM
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lol did you ever browse r/marriedredpill?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:28 PM
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Oh now you think they’re Satan? Haven’t heard that one before in the past 10 years lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:16 PM
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I mean she might have a point
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:14 PM
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How do you reconcile marriage with your self description as redpilled?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:12 PM
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In general I agree that people love to run with data that is misleading at best, like the gender pay gap or the idea that 1 in 4 women will be raped in their lives. Both claims are misleading and/or based on bad methodology. But idk…. If you asked me whether I would murder someone in a totally hypothetical situation where I knew I would never be caught… I think I would still have some morals that would prevent me from even considering that. 🤨 “Men would rape but ONLY in a hypothetical situation …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:10 PM
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Yeah like I said I don’t know you irl and it may make perfect sense for your situation. That’s just the gut reaction I have when a guy says he he can’t do something right now because he wants to do it the “right way”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:03 PM
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Sauce?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:00 PM
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Uhh it sounds like he doesn’t want to do it at all babe… but hey I don’t know you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 12:31 PM
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Do you have a partner at home with your newborn right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 12:30 PM
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Yes women have trended further left than men have trended right. I’m not one of them so your instinct to attack my group identity is misplaced. Oh and I think you misspelled “think”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 12:27 PM
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I never brought up your intelligence. Only your willingness to look something up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:56 PM
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Fascinating
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:44 PM
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Then you need to pick up a dictionary
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:43 PM
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I like that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:42 PM
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Fair enough but do you really think “ruthlessness” and “self-centeredness” are unbiased descriptors of like half the country? Assuming bias was ever a concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 09:42 PM
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What are those values?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 09:10 PM
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Yeah I’d say he likes romantic gestures. So am I the prostitute?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 08:36 PM
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What do you consider a breadwinner?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 08:33 PM
2

K?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 08:32 PM
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Oops guess he’s a gold digger
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 08:32 PM
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That’s part of why we started dating, but not why we got married
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 08:00 PM
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I’m sure feminine temperaments do lean more collectivist and masculine temperaments do lean more individualist. But I think the current divide in American politics has more to do with who each party has directly appealed to for decades. The democrats basically positioned themselves to be the default party of anyone considered disadvantaged- women, LGBT, POC, etc. Even if individuals might have more conservative leanings on certain issues, the left will always seem like home base, the safe bet. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 07:40 PM
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Sauce?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 07:28 PM
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I understand why you might think that since I’m a stranger on the Internet
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 07:24 PM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 06:01 PM
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I’m not speaking for the echo chamber
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 05:43 PM
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Medical school, which I’m sure you’ll have fun with but whatever. Prior to school I made about $50k while he job hopped from hourly stuff to a $40k salary though he only worked there for a few months before being accepted. By the time he graduated I was making $90k+ through various promotions and maneuvers. We applied for our mortgage on my income alone because the paperwork was simpler. While he was in school there were some low points where he really considered skipping residency and pursuing …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 05:42 PM
1

Competence is also an attractive trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 05:28 PM
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It’s fluctuated but I made 100% of our income for four years while he was in school. Now he makes about 2/3 what I do. FWIW he will eventually outearn me but that was never guaranteed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 05:22 PM
2

Wealth in a pre-industrialized world just looked like an abundance of resources, like food and shelter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 05:18 PM
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I don’t agree with OP’s take Yes, men also suffer from acting upon their biological urges, courting and peacocking being a part of that. We all suffer from our impulses
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 05:17 PM
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We have to some extent. People go Dutch. Honestly most of the peacocking I’ve seen men do wasn’t asked for by the women they’re trying to woo. They just have the vague, you could even say biological, urge to get her attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:52 PM
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How would I know without finding out?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:51 PM
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Idk, nature’s just weird man
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:39 PM
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The plumage that male peacocks depend on to attract mates also cause them to be killed by predators more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:22 PM
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Uhh I’ve never heard of being able to hold in your period but ok… and on-demand abortions would be handy I guess but have you ever had a first trimester abortion or miscarriage? It’s not exactly a chill experience. It’s basically like birth, just of a smaller fetus.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:18 PM
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lol we used to camp in a van down by the river for fun
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:08 PM
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IT’S ALL COMPUTER
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:34 PM
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Yes, we can live in as egalitarian a utopia as we want, we’re all still slaves to biology to some extent. How many men on this sub have said they wish they had no sex drive or were gay?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:32 PM
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Does this mean my husband has been prostituting himself for our entire relationship since I’ve been the breadwinner or does this only go one way?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:31 PM
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Tell that to biology
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:29 PM
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It’s just a sense that you have something people want, and not in a good way. Probably one of those things men can’t understand the same way there are experienced women can’t understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:28 PM
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You don’t have to choose to be with a man for your body to be coveted by men. That’s out of your control. A woman might choose not to have kids but that doesn’t change the fact that so much of her physiology and psychology are primed for children. Girls learn from an early age that their body will do gross, involuntary, and painful things out of their control, like menstruate, in preparation for something they can’t understand and which doesn’t require her understanding. I’m just saying, there’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 02:33 PM
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Not being obese is practically an accomplishment for either sex in America lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 02:27 PM
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Our bodies don’t really belong to ourselves. They belong to lustful men and helpless infants until they’re used up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 02:25 PM
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Some dudes are into that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 02:05 PM
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Then quit
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:17 AM
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Men are only going to listen to advice from other men anyway, even if they’re saying the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:16 AM
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K bye
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 12:07 AM
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I struggle with this more with parents knowing their kids location at all times. I wonder if some separation is healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 12:05 AM
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The problem is online dating to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 12:04 AM
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Do we also have a moral obligation to force female representation among construction workers? What about male representation among daycare workers?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 12:08 PM
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If you’re not a 7’-1” trillionaire with a 12” dick it’s over brooo
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 01:26 AM
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Yeah I’ve never had a “roster” and no one I know has ever had a “roster” but then I was never in a sorority or anything like that. I would imagine situationships abound in that kind of environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 09:29 PM
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29 which I guess is ancient for the churn of 19 year olds on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 07:42 PM
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I maintain that women do not care about penis size as much as men do. Women only hurl size-related insults because they know it’s a sore spot. Why do men care so much? My best guess is that it’s as simple as “mine is bigger than yours.” Male competitiveness applied to something very intimate. Partner experience is secondary at best. Sorry you’re spiraling OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 05:30 PM
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Terminally online take. Bruuuutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 05:24 PM
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Global data on marriage and divorce Divorce rates have been trending down in many places but so have marriage rates. I’m starting to see more on the correlation between higher fertility rates and positive opinions about children, basically if you view children as a blessing rather than a burden you’re more likely to have them and have more of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 05:16 PM
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Not in my opinion or experience. But hey, that’s anecdotal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 09:38 PM
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No one ever thinks of the children smh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 09:37 PM
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It simply means that sex in itself is a big deal to most women, no matter how much she’s into the guy. It could mean she doesn’t want to be that physically and emotionally vulnerable with someone she just met.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 09:34 PM
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Ah yeah in France it might make sense. In the US we’d be spending around the same as daycare for two kids plus losing our spare bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 07:19 PM
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Do you guys have enough money that that’s just not a concern? I’ve looked into an au pair before and found that the cost just don’t make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 06:43 PM
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Love is a funny thing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 04:12 PM
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Okay well that’s a more thoughtful explanation. I guess we’ll see.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 04:12 PM
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🥅👉🥅
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 01:32 PM
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Shouldn’t it be 80% women and 20% men? Or what are they blackpillers on now, 95/5?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 12:46 PM
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That’s because an aversion to chores is not something you struggle with in the first place. The constant arguing and negotiation disappointment only arises when two people have very different standards of living.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 12:44 PM
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Especially in the case of the Tate Brothers. They’re literally facing charges for seducing young women and then trapping them in prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 01:06 PM
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In a world of billions, “millions” means nothing. You’d have to be more specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 01:03 PM
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Is this the indeed-ification of dating? You sound like you’re job hunting. I understand there are some parallels but this is excessive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 03:10 AM
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My generation probably does more cooking than my grandma’s. At least in the US the microwave oven and TV dinners combined with a lack of recipes on demand via the Internet discouraged a lot of people from cooking from scratch.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 12:26 AM
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How’s your relationship with your mom?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 07:26 PM
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Let me see if I follow. So they’re slaves to capitalism and being told by capitalism to turn on the tribe. Does that mean their tribe is actually capitalism and not “the west” if women are a hive mind dependent on the tribe?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 04:57 PM
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stop giving men vague general advice about attracting women Most of the rp advice is vague too, it just uses specialized jargon so it seems more credible. Vague: focus on improving your life instead of focusing on a partner Based, apparently: statusmaxx while in monk mode
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 04:50 PM
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It can be proven by the fact that women will turn "on the tribe" the moment an "order from above" arrives. Doesn’t this seem like a contradiction?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 04:47 PM
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8% of American heterosexual couples have a 10 plus years age gap So, the minority?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 04:43 PM
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More than that, they always post bait
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 04:42 PM
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Are you sure it was the sushi? A lot of people have been getting that bug lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 07:06 PM
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It’s my toddler, he’s the guy 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 07:05 PM
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Sounds like a shit therapist
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 11:45 PM
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You used to this language a lot in r/marriedredpill and r/RedPillWomen and some of it has leaked out into the mainstream over time. Men are “Captains” and women are “First Mates” who are submissive but submission is a beautiful voluntary thing, and so on and so forth. The men who talk about things like submissiveness and cooperation can be sorted into two categories: Those who really mean it in the literal sense and apply it to all male/female relationships, not just their personal relationship.…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 04:06 PM
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Many years ago on some RP forum I saw a guy agonize over whether this girl he was casually seeing was really a virgin or not because she’d had a Pap smear done by her gynecologist. Of course she wasn’t a virgin after he was done but he was very torn up at the idea that he didn’t get to her first.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 12:15 PM
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So this is someone you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 05:01 AM
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I’ve never heard of this. Do you have examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 04:04 AM
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What are they shaming exactly, getting married?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 04:02 AM
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You should try it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 04:33 PM
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Props. How do you manage so many relationships and flings?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 04:32 PM
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You should probably break up then
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 02:06 PM
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Concurrently?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 02:04 PM
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Fair, I’m a stranger on the Internet
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 08:35 PM
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He sounds like an average guy pretending to be something more
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 08:35 PM
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Here’s a tip. If she’s sitting at a table in a restaurant having a conversation with other people that’s not the time to interrupt and ask her out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 06:57 PM
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Why do they want to fuck betabuxx? I don’t know but I think the redpill had something to say about this…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 06:56 PM
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hot young woman and makes her moan his name in ecstasy while he’s fucking her brains out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 06:53 PM
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That’s fair, I’m just a stranger on the Internet. I don’t know you or your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 05:23 PM
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If the FWB is really a FWB and now someone he’s simping for
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 05:21 PM
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Trust me- find better role models
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 03:20 PM
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If the FWB is real
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 03:20 PM
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I think it makes you successful in most places, but it doesn’t keep you from being sad and lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 03:06 PM
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(In civil court)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 03:03 PM
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BP: focus on self improvement RP: bullshit, I’m going to focus on status maxxing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 02:39 PM
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Lmao do you just call everyone a rapist?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 02:36 PM
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service based company 32 working there full time toyota FWB relationship with a 22 year old looks like a 5 on a good day position allows him to offer internship, sometimes a job lonely for most of his years OP I hate to tell you this but your mentor is a loser who gets to feel like he’s not a loser by impressing younger men with his sad life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 02:35 PM
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It’s terminal
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 02:29 PM
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I see you have TDS
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 01:10 PM
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I’m not sure those days ever existed. 2020 Pew poll (quick edit to add that the title is confusing but the graphic doesn’t only cover LGB adults.) Smithsonian article on the Stanford HCMST poll For age groups 30-65+ the most common way to meet a partner has been friends and family, work, and school. For the 18-29 group, school and online have edged out other categories because (1) the sample is disproportionately young and still in school and (2) obviously online dating has taken off. So while m…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 01:38 AM
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So no?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 01:12 AM
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If you think society is at a low you need some perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:48 PM
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Have you been here for purge week?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:46 PM
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Define X
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:45 PM
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I mean you can do both
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 10:36 PM
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I would say better or at least further along at a younger age. More educated, higher paid (though it’s hard to say with inflation), married sooner, homeowner sooner, more kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 12:10 AM
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while they would fancy my type of looks when they were 20 themselves at +30 they're a generation that is predominately into men who can grow big bushy beards and look like military contractors, lumberjacks or some other manly shit. Plenty of men in their thirties look like burly men with beards so this sounds like it has less to do with age more that you’re not their type.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 12:21 PM
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How so
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 07:30 PM
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Glad to know men have no agency. That explains a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 06:56 PM
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You can end a relationship and still be an involved parent
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 06:55 PM
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Exactly, single dads somehow lose all agency
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 02:52 PM
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41% of I mates come from single mother households Since 23% of children in the US live in single parent (de facto single mom) households, it’s entirely fair to say they’re overrepresented in the prison population. It’s also still fair to say that single moms are demonized while the uninvolved dads are forgotten. Both can be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 02:51 PM
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Oh for sure, it’s messy stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 02:46 PM
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I wasn’t picturing the guy to literally be a stranger so I agree that’s weird
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 01:01 PM
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🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 01:00 PM
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Mid on the scale of women you would consider pursuing or mid as in the actual average woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 12:59 PM
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I mean sure but we can’t also ignore the stark difference in lighting, setting, staging, and overall quality between these two photos Actually what am I saying it’s PPD of course we can
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 12:58 PM
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