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| 0 | Dating as a “mid” woman isn’t as easy as most men make it out to beTell me I’m wrong. You can’t even explain yourself, all you can do is offend people and not give an explanation. But you know, that’s all the guys on this sub can do anyways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/23 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Dating as a “mid” woman isn’t as easy as most men make it out to beAndddd that’s probably why you’re alone. I understand that men have little options. My comments were sarcastic as a response to the man saying that ugly women have soooo many options but we uglies were chasing attractive people. I was just throwing it back at their face what they say to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 04:52 PM |
| -2 | Dating as a “mid” woman isn’t as easy as most men make it out to beEverybody has is bad. Not just you. You guys sure like to victimize yourself. I’m done with this sub though. Good luck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 04:17 PM |
| – | Dating as a “mid” woman isn’t as easy as most men make it out to beYou’re very delusional if you think like that. The only men that pay me any attention when Dumbass people like you tell me to “lower my standards” are deranged, psychopathic, narcissistic, SCAMMING men who want to only abuse me. What the hell is wrong with you? What the hell am I supposed to lower my standards to when all I’m asking is that they’re maybe on the same intellectual level as I am? The guys that are on my same intellectual level, usually are able to get women who are wayyy hotter tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 08:25 AM |
| 2 | Dating as a “mid” woman isn’t as easy as most men make it out to beSame for ALL the guys on this sub unfortunately :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 08:20 AM |
| -4 | Dating as a “mid” woman isn’t as easy as most men make it out to beEXACTLY! Thank you, I didn’t know how to put it so succinctly myself. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again. Yes, even an ugly atrocious women like myself gets attention, but attention from deranged, psychopath, scamming men. Then men like to say, that “see, you have options”. And dumb delusional bimbos will tell me “you should lower your standards and you’re alone because your standards are so high”. Yet again, pushing me to these assholes and psychopaths. You guys should stop saying you ge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 12:07 AM |
| 2 | Dating as a “mid” woman isn’t as easy as most men make it out to beAwww there we go. Men have so many options. If they just considered the attention from below average women. But again they don’t exist lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 12:03 AM |
| 3 | Dating as a “mid” woman isn’t as easy as most men make it out to beImagine having put your self worth in a number lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 11:52 PM |
| 15 | Dating as a “mid” woman isn’t as easy as most men make it out to beNo, some of us are just ugly and will be alone :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 11:48 PM |
| 3 | Dating as a “mid” woman isn’t as easy as most men make it out to beI see it so much irl. It’s much more common than ugly face women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 11:48 PM |
| 7 | Dating as a “mid” woman isn’t as easy as most men make it out to beNo, this was asked a lot on the sub to men and almost all unanimously said that the women must have a pretty face. I think for the vast majority of men, this is very true. She must have a pretty face and the body is alright. Most men don’t want a women with an ugly face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 11:47 PM |
| 3 | Dating as a “mid” woman isn’t as easy as most men make it out to beMeans nothing to most men. The consensus is that she must have a beautiful face. If she has a beautiful above average face then the body can be trash. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 11:46 PM |
| – | Who and where are these invisible women?Do you not read. I never said what you said that I just said lmao. Also, not flipping out. I’m providing you just that, with perspective from the same women you claim to want a perspective from. Can you not read or are you going to dismiss me again because you refuse to listen? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 03:20 AM |
| 16 | Who and where are these invisible women?And today you learn about anecdotal evidence. Just because you personally don’t live it doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen. Yes, what differentiates us women from you men is that you believe any attention, being bad or good, is good attention. I think you are right in that women, even the gross ones like me, can manage to get attention from PSYCHOPATHS, DERRANGED IDIOTS, AND SCAMMERS. Yes, we get attention. attention from people who want to hurt us and take advantage of us because we are literally s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 03:13 AM |
| 3 | I regularly see women say on here that men overrate their own appearance, but women are guilty of this to a significantly higher degree.I don’t “feel ugly”, I am ugly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/23 07:19 PM |
| 23 | I regularly see women say on here that men overrate their own appearance, but women are guilty of this to a significantly higher degree.Why are you guys so damn evil? Like let me explain to you why I AS AN UGLY WOMEN “HAVR STANDARDS”. The truth is I DONT. As a butt ugly women, I simply cannot afford to lower my standards any less. Why? Because if I do, I’ll most certainly be vulnerable enough to end up with any deranged psychopath that comes my way. I can’t, my pride is probably too strong, but hell, I’d rather have my dignity than lose it over some f-Boi who only has disdain and disgust for me. Even the unattractive men that ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/23 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Most women aren't on dating apps. So how are they getting relationships or having sex?No, lol. She’s not. You don’t know what kind of crazy you can put your dick in because thats all you care about anyways right? And no, getting dms and random Interactions with men that literally just want to hurt you or insult you is not interaction. Getting hit on by deranged sociopaths isn’t interaction. Why can’t you get this across your big skull? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/23 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Most women aren't on dating apps. So how are they getting relationships or having sex?Yeah because getting hit on by old creepy and deranged people is such a joy right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/23 09:10 PM |
| – | I think it's bullshit that there's a "compliment gap" between men and women. What these men really want is sexual validation.How are they not substantive enough? Pretty coherent to me. All I hear from you is you do in fact want more compliments from women. And no, he doesn’t have to provide evidence as it’s something the op is putting out there as speculation as to why men would want compliments. I’ll concede with you, it is common knowledge that me get less compliments than women. That’s not what was being claimed. It can’t even be called bad faith as they’re not trying to coerce you into thinking some way. Again, it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/23 06:34 PM |
| – | I think it's bullshit that there's a "compliment gap" between men and women. What these men really want is sexual validation.Your post is pretty low quality. Everyone on this sub can’t take criticism because you guys all are into your victim mentality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/23 05:59 PM |
| 0 | Most women aren't on dating apps. So how are they getting relationships or having sex?Lol, such false information. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/23 02:35 PM |
| – | Most women aren't on dating apps. So how are they getting relationships or having sex?Well, there ya go. You only got with your wife cuz she was hot and look were that got you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/23 02:07 AM |
| – | Most women aren't on dating apps. So how are they getting relationships or having sex?That’s actually cope for saying you want a young beautiful fertile women who looks like your wife. You can’t have everything, but good luck finding it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/23 12:50 AM |
| 0 | Most women aren't on dating apps. So how are they getting relationships or having sex?Umm no. I have to keep repeating myself over and over. Of course ugly and below average women can get married and date. That’s nothing new, however, many are in really bad and abusive relationships. I’m not discounting the fact that they can be in loving an fulfilling relationships, but that is rare and the default is that their partner doesn’t love them for anything other than the pragmatic purpose they serve. These men don’t adore them, they only cope with them because that’s all they could ge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 11:31 PM |
| 1 | How many men have you told that "looks don't matter?"What? And how many men have told me the same. Just had an asshole tell me that here the other day and when questioned they said “well, for romance, and no I don’t interact with ugly women because they serve me no purpose”. Like the hell? But yeah, I don’t bullshit people. Looks so matter. But they only matter for entering, for love is really weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 11:08 PM |
| 10 | Most women aren't on dating apps. So how are they getting relationships or having sex?*be an average to attractive women. There corrected it for you. It seems all the guys on this sub don’t think that below average and ugly women exist. Ohh right, we don’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 10:08 PM |
| – | Why is the question, "What do you bring to the table?" so offensive to some?I don’t find it offensive. I literally don’t bring anything to the table so it doesn’t bother me to admit this, so dating isn’t really in my prospects anyways. I think it’s a great thing to ask women. They are the ones that get really offended at the question though. Usually beautiful women who only have looks to bring get offended, but men don’t care because they are beautiful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 06:15 AM |
| 2 | Men would be alot less frustrated in the dating effort if they were given brutally honest and often politically incorrect truths about what most women expect from a man.His girlfriend is leagues hotter than him, the philipino and the white girl. Like how? And the funny part is that the white girl was really into him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 12:11 AM |
| 7 | What are you going to do when your partner ages?It’s a true statistic, I actually read this in developmental class. Unfortunately, it all made me jaded towards the idea of a relationships. In fact women report that the main reasons for them divorcing are abuse (either physical or verbal), cheating, and falling out of love as some of the main reasons for divorce. Women actually are more likely to approach about divorce though. Guess what men report as their reasons? Falling out of love can’t remember the top three, but cheating wasn’t in that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 11:28 PM |
| 2 | Women objectify themselves.I wish I was decent enough looking to just garner respect. Even if my assumptions come from a sexist nature, I don’t think you can begin to imagine the lack of respect ugly women get from yes men and women. The only people who I feel are sexist are the so called feminist who only see the problems of attractive women. It is not wrong to be desired, it is natural. To call this sexist is just another way of isolating women from the feminist movement. I don’t necessarily want the attention from men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Modern dating is ruined, and it's not just because of the women, men are also to blameAlright. Good day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 09:33 PM |
| – | CMV: Fresh and Fit don't teach men to succeed.Ohhh, that would have been funny if I understood it. Yikes, sorry. That is funny, now that I read it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Modern dating is ruined, and it's not just because of the women, men are also to blameEveryone can be empathetic including women and they can be empathetic towards you. If you need a hug just say so, I’m not anyone’s enemy, I’m human just like you 🫂. I’m not an emotional person either and I don’t express emotions outward, but I am not above letting people know that they are human and are allowed to feel. Good day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 09:29 PM |
| – | CMV: Fresh and Fit don't teach men to succeed.God damn, y’all are dumb. Edit: it’s funny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Modern dating is ruined, and it's not just because of the women, men are also to blameWhat? Dude you can’t be serious. You complain about how people don’t empathize with men, yet you think that empathy is earned? You can’t be serious and think you actually can engage in actual intellectual conversations when you can’t even keep one linear thought. Empathy is innate it not something people earn or don’t. You can’t learn it, you just are. It’s something you give to people as a part of being human. You’re just mean and trying to purposely find ugly people below you (because you subc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Modern dating is ruined, and it's not just because of the women, men are also to blameThat’s what I’ve been saying this whole time, yet you describe that you don’t personally do that. I was trying to be empathetic and offer you a different perspective in my comment about precisely this. About how I love engaging people to get some experience and conversation from them. Then you completely disregard what I say and basically say suck it up buttercup that’s how we work. Why did you describe that you only interact with women in one way and then say now that you don’t. Because you kno… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Modern dating is ruined, and it's not just because of the women, men are also to blameBecause they are humans too. Because I don’t think you are, maybe misguided. I think humans can be good :) But didn’t you just describe to me how you did engage in this shallow behavior and then now say that men aren’t shallow? How does that work? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Modern dating is ruined, and it's not just because of the women, men are also to blameNo, lol. An “I “ really? Yes, but I don’t believe men and women can be true friends. Maybe acquaintances but not friends. People usually always have friends who are on the same attractiveness level anyways. Men more often than not, like you, only want to engage women they believe are potential for mating. So of course naturally it’ll be a hotter women they befriend. I do talk to men, I’m not some socially awkward beast who can’t make conversations, but I get treated like some kind of nuclear war… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Modern dating is ruined, and it's not just because of the women, men are also to blameYeah, I’m kind of very happy I don’t have to deal with anyone because I actually like being left alone. I think people find it weird too, they tell me I should want to be with someone, anyone. And nope, I don’t have any ideal about men, I have an ideal of what humans are supposed to be. The baseline of human decency. I have an ideal of what humans are supposed to be and yes, I am angry that people don’t live up to that standard. People are disgusting. It’s only fair that I hold people up to the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Modern dating is ruined, and it's not just because of the women, men are also to blameTalking to men, is like talking to brick walls. People in general really. I just don’t, I’m not here to get advice on how to date. Not interested, I just like to see how men really think and it’s clear they all think the same. Humans like you make me incredibly sad to be a part of humanity. No, I don’t need your approval nor anyone else’s. Also, I am over it. Doesn’t mean I get to not feel some type of way about it. Was it not clear that I already know how the world works, it doesn’t mean I don’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Modern dating is ruined, and it's not just because of the women, men are also to blameFair enough. I completely agree about your own preferences and about how you view your potential partner. I think everyone is allowed to have standards. No, I meant you do sound entitled in the way that you say that you would only have fruitful conversation with women you find attractive/ potential mates. It’s as if the person you talk to has to be attractive in order for you to consider them as humans worth engaging. I don’t mean to say that people are entitled to anything, they’re not. But the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 07:34 PM |
| – | CMV: Fresh and Fit don't teach men to succeed.Ohh and sure, we had so much time to fuck around 30-50 guys A SEMESTER. Like we didn’t have to work, study, and take extremely hard classes. Yeah, life is so hard for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Modern dating is ruined, and it's not just because of the women, men are also to blameDamn, at least your honest about it. It’s fucked you go through life thinking people are disgusting for things they can’t change and you do probably treat them worst. You shouldn’t though. You miss out of so much from people by vetting them through their looks. I can actually hear the contempt in your voice. I hope you don’t ever need anything from those disgusting people. Well, by the way you think I can probably see you have nothing else but looks to go for. I would say the entitled one is you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Modern dating is ruined, and it's not just because of the women, men are also to blameYeah no, I don’t want to “fix anyone” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 06:21 PM |
| 5 | Modern dating is ruined, and it's not just because of the women, men are also to blameNot true. If you look at real life, MOST MEN marry someone that is more attractive. Almost NEVER, the other way around. No one wants ugly bitches, not even other ugly men. I really don’t know what world you’re living in, but I want in. If it’s so easy for me to get with an above average man then I want in, except what you monkey brain idiots don’t understand is that most women don’t want to “just get with a man”. You think those hot men want anything serious? Probably not, they probably just pum… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 06:18 PM |
| 3 | Modern dating is ruined, and it's not just because of the women, men are also to blameThis sub is so disappointing. I really believe a lot of the men here are closeted incels with extremely high expectations, little socialization, and little regard for what actual life for women really is. Yes, a lot of these men come off as “woah is me, all I can get is fat ugly bitches” while simultaneously bashing women for having standards. We get it, no one wants ugly bitches and the only experiences they note are those of the normal attractive women. It’s as if ugly fat women didn’t exist. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 06:11 PM |
| 3 | Modern dating is ruined, and it's not just because of the women, men are also to blameThat’s kinda fucked up. I get that you’re not sexually attracted to them, but you don’t have to act disgusted towards women you don’t find attractive. You should treat everyone the same, I think ugly and maybe obese women already know where they stand. They’re not going to think you like them and heck you’re not gods gift to the world. Just because you’re more attractive than someone doesn’t mean they are attracted to you. Buts it’s fucked up to say I don’t interact with them and avoid them beca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 06:03 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Most men would be content with women at least acknowledging how atrocious dating has become for males, rather than gaslighting them and insisting it was invariably something they were doing wrong or that it was their “personality.”Not true. Can you say for a fact that women don’t actually have to work to get laid? All both have to do is be decent looking enough to fuck. Men are just stuck in such victim mentality that you guys can’t just do things for yourself, there has to be a reward. Most of the men here are like “woahh is me, I am an impressive person and I go to gym a lot and women still don’t want me boohoo 😢 “ Having sex for either gender is quite easy. Requires no skill from either gender. It’s not impressive to m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/23 06:56 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most men would be content with women at least acknowledging how atrocious dating has become for males, rather than gaslighting them and insisting it was invariably something they were doing wrong or that it was their “personality.”This will never be the case because the vast majority of women have more to lose than men. Women have different values when it comes to Interacting with men. Women want love, acknowledgement, and adoration. They are looking for serious things, usually. The women who love casual sex are in the minority and it shows, just look at the number of women to men on dating apps. Far less women on there and far less women who are actually serious about a relationship on there. Now men, men think with thei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/23 09:13 AM |
| 3 | Promiscuous women who preach that you shouldn't judge women by their sexual past are the first ones to judge virgin guys for their lack of sexual pastYeah, women are virtue signaling bitches, men are assholes. Yep, it doesn’t surprise me that people suck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 10:52 PM |
| 9 | Women saying it's hard for them to find a man to 'commit' is pure hypocrisyNo, this is hypocrisy at its finest. You yourself wouldn’t date an ugly women. I’d say it’s the same for both genders. I think it’s the same for both, i see this with men too. They don’t admit it but they’ll use ugly women for sex. I guess It’s fair, but both genders suck. Not just one! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Got a window into average woman's dating life. It was an absolute shockIt only works if you’re pretty. Ugly women get thrown to the curb. Men on this sub are a bit delusional. It’s a if ugly women don’t exist to y’all and i have news for you. Ugly women exist and it’s not so much like this women describes. And there are lots of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 10:42 PM |
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