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ProgressNotARussianBot1984/r/MensRights21/05/24 12:24 PM
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Most desirable to least. For X scenario: She's rich and wants me to be SAHD: 5,3,4,2,,,,,,1 Why? 5-she's in her 20's. 3-I'll cook cuz she's rich. 4-it's her money she's rich. 2-she can have no job if she's rich. 1-not attracted so can't have kids unless doing sperm extraction. She wants to SAHM and I work: 5, 2,,, 4,,,,,,3, 1 Why? 5- again, young. 2- she doesn't need education to be SAHM. 4 - I'll have to be financially controlling but I can do that. 3- why is she SAHM but doesn't cook?. 1- agai…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 07:27 PM
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Did your BF shut her down and put her in her place? It's his job to control his family member's expectations. But I'm weird, I cut my mom out of my life due to her behaviour. Valentines? WTF
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:57 PM
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True, just a significant amount were when young from my life experiences in Ontario Canada. Many good decent educated women LOVED dating my two violent drug addict friends in highschool (small town so friend selection was limited to closest people lol, no longer friends). And again when I visited hometown. Just the bad boys cleaning up outside their stays in jail. But not most women. No, never said that. Just a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 01:38 PM
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Most of the women I saw hooking up with bad boy felons were like you. Good decent women. They just liked the excitement from dating the violent felon. I'm most talking about the fewer girls that had his kid. Many who did get pregnant chose abortion, in Canada it's freely available and I'm very happy it is as a tax payer.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 01:35 PM
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I didn't say anything about fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:22 AM
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I disagree. But I'll narrow my statement to young women, if that's more fair to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:12 AM
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I decided to go to university, graduate with honours, build up my career, get a masters, save, invest, and be a passport bro to Philippines and find a wife from extreme poverty in a small farm town there, over breaking the law and being a felon to date western women. To each their own. But I am mad at the taxes I pay to support all the criminals in the overflowing jails who have multiple baby momma's.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 01:59 AM
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"Please vote to increase taxes on good men, I need more welfare to care for my kids while the baby daddy is in jail"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 01:56 AM
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"Stop being immoral or I will shame you as a fellow man" -me "Why would I do that, I'm sleeping with tons of hot women and you're not?" -immoral felon "good point hmmmm"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 01:55 AM
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I guess I need to link the guy with one million right swipes. I'm sure he hit the end of the queue. He did get his match tho! Singular, not plural. winning
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:44 PM
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I've been bought dinners by men before. Not women. He said love, not just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:35 PM
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Ok whats the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:10 PM
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Oh ya just wait until your older. When you are 40+ there's very few singles so it's easy to go through them. Also new accounts get put to the top of pile. Just for short little while. But hey even so, it's a business, give tinder it's $30 they earned it. Hot men don't need to pay, it's not tinders fault you do need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 08:37 PM
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Ya, but it doesn't block you from the app, and doesn't hide your profile. You are available to women, they just have to get to the bottom of the queue. And based on their 5% right swipe rate, many women get there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 07:01 PM
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Some*, and some men do too. I think it's cuz Idiocracy is playing out in real time. We subsidize immaturity. End welfare and let the strong and smart win.
/r/MensRights20/07/24 06:29 PM
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Most people debate horribly. It's why I don't debate, I just educate. I state I'm pro freedom, and someone can ask me questions and I will teach them, but I don't bother trying to debate that communism is better or worse than freedom. my solution? Let each state pick if they want communism or freedom, and I'll move to where I want to be. Once given a choice, I know my ideas will win. Why debate when you can dominate?
/r/MensRights20/07/24 06:26 PM
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Hi, I never came from sex until I was 27. Why? Every girl I had sex with I wasn't attracted to enough when naked to get hard to. They were obese and I was fit, just not my type after I saw the clothes come off. It's no bodies 'fault', I don't blame them for their body type, you can be beautiful at all sizes, but the solution was when I was 27 I started dating a older woman with a very curvy body who I found attractive. BAMN started to orgasm. Now I will say this girl also works harder for me in …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 06:21 PM
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Do you have proof of this? Cuz in my home town i literally see many people I know on there, both as a guy and my fake girl profile. There's no hiding in my experience. You might be at the bottom of the queue as your elo is low, but that's on you LOL. Gotta be hot, that's a given.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 06:18 PM
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How? Seriously what features does this? May you link to any source to confirm this?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 06:17 PM
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The substitute is either Seeking.com or passport bros for me. I only share my life experiences, and those are the only methods I've found that have decent results. Go on Tinder passport and set your profile to Philippines. It was the first time I had decent matches and convos. I also done Seeking.com it's the only time I gone on a date with a non-obese woman. But if dating obese single poor moms are your type, no reason to leave Western countries, especially USA. Lots more to pick from here. To …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:36 PM
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Ok, please ask the mods to make a mega thread as it's off topic, and us men can laugh at all the men who stick their dick in crazy. But you won't see it here, as it's not on topic, as most men date women, and thus talk about women here. Be the change you want to see in the world, don't just complain. I'll happily contribute at least three examples for all of us to join in with a hearity laugh. If you request it, I'll message the mods asking for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:28 PM
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I disagree. It's worth while to be friends with women. Actually the most I ever learned was from my female friends, many who were dating my male friends. I got to see exactly how women act around men they are interested in. THat info is valuable to a man. Plus they are nice to talk to. If you end up not dating them (I never did) you still have a friend. Just have a back bone and don't be walked over.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:15 PM
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We blame both people. Men tell men "Don't stick your dick in crazy". This is also given to women by "Don't sleep with dangerous men". These are similar for both genders, equal. But see I know a few men who sticked their dick in crazy. My best friend in high school fucked raw an known ex-escort with a meth addiction. She's pregnant, and I laughed at him for it. Same thing when another girl I knew chased after a known thug and felon and got pregnant and became a single mom. I laughed at her for it…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:00 PM
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You can't claim that Incels get rejected because of the female metaphysical abilities to detect bad personalities, while simultaneously complaining about choosing degenerates as the fathers of your kids Hello Police, I'd like to report a murder. She has a family dude, be nice to her!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:55 PM
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I'd say the most important part in a cold approach is the first 1 min to get her attention. That is based first on specific traits the woman wants to see when looking at you. I can't say they are predetermined as that's ban worthy because it's against trp which preaches not predetermined traits. So I'll say muscle amount that is more than possible for naturally short men. But after that first minute, other traits matter. But that first minute is why 50%+ of my cold approaches failed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 01:51 PM
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As a beautiful mid at best guy who has gone 0/300 in my cold approaches in Canada, yes it is worth it to cold approach in the Philippines.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 01:47 PM
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I hate some.feminist lead policies that increase my taxes to increase social programs and hurt my ability to get a job. In Canada it's legal to ban men from applying to jobs, but can't ban women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 12:58 PM
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Some do some.dont. Married redpill forum doesn't. Passport bros doesn't. They are pro marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 12:57 PM
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Lol ikr. People seem to care more about stopping Wade Wilson from seeing the death penalty. Full on petitions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 12:55 PM
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I have to agree. I preach dating overseas, but respectfully and politely. I don't insult western women, I say they are wonderful, but foreign women are wonderful too. And I haven't been banned at all. Sure every day I get called a sex trafficker on here but whatever they are being an asshole. I don't scoop to their level, I just politely say it's true love.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 12:52 PM
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Ok then do Europe. Just takes lower due to higher taxes and lower salary. Or do whatever you want. I'm just here to share my life experiences with other men. I'm not your dad, do what you want
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 12:46 PM
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No, it's true love!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 12:43 PM
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If you want a woman who makes more than you, either be really hot or date an older woman. I'm fine with being a provider to a quality woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 12:43 PM
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Oh ya, I forgot, I'm also moving to USA to make money. Thats an important part I left out. Need that visa. Or illegal immigration
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:08 AM
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No, do what I do. Study hard, graduate with honours from uni, get a masters, get a job, get promoted, save and invest. Then retire early to Thailand and find a wife there. If dating is hard for you, don't change yourself, change your location.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:02 AM
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I see no issues. Young, no kids, healthy. Ya she's alternative looking, but acting traditional, sounds fine to me
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/07/24 03:59 AM
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No. As long as she's fine with my member, same with me. I use toys on her, she's happy AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:35 PM
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I meant all friendships. Why limit it to only women or sex? Thats weird. Are you asking if a man would pick sex and male friends, or women and male friends but no sex? Odd probably former then as they still have friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 04:39 PM
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You mean friendships? Well I'm not taking about friendships, but those are very important. If I had to choose between the two, I pick friends over sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 04:05 PM
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And I'm saying a relationship is more important to more men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:41 PM
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wildly unfair to the vast majority of men, The unfair part is forcing the vast majority of unsuccessful men to subsidize the successful men by paying taxes that support kids that aren't theirs. I personal want my 40% tax rate to be cut to at most 10%, and just gut nearly all social programs. Medicare, public education, social security, Medicaid, military (reduced cuz it's just a make work program now). A tiny allowance for renting a bed (not a room), rice and beans, and a bus pass is a fine soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:22 PM
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No, sex in a relationship with a lovely woman who wants to be your wife and mother to your kids is the biggest motivation for men. Casual sex is distant and far 2nd place at best
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:18 PM
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OLD has increased the amount of blackish in the world than red. Society is ever changing, with the internet it's speed running change.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 01:47 PM
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IDK in Canada living together makes you the same as married by common laws. I do know men who don't live with women when they date. They like their alone time and house to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 01:19 PM
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Can you find one? I've been rejected for being Bi before. You mentioned women's friendships borderline Bi. Doesn't mean those women would tolerate that behaviour in their man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 08:08 PM
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Statistics isn't science. -Mark Twain
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 07:32 PM
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Gotta move to Thailand if you want to date younger forever
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 07:31 PM
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Why even debate this? Like arguing probabilities without stats. Sounds exhausting
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 07:29 PM
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"A person shouldn’t bank on getting with someone that much younger because most young people prefer to date closer to their own age." A person can have any preference if they prefer staying single over settling. Single, or picking the bear, both good options
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 07:28 PM
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Hotter <> Easier dating
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 07:25 PM
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Step dad? He has his own kids. My sister tied her tubes after she was done with the party boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 11:31 PM
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Are you saying women would hate a man having the same high standards they allow themselves to have? Crazy talk. That would mean so many blue pillers aren't better than redpiller, just giant hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 10:04 PM
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Ya id concur with that. 30+ is much easier to stand out as a decent person and others start to focus on finding decent people, over other traits. My sister is a great example, she wanted the party boys when young. But after having kids, in her 30s she wanted and found a decent tradesman who is a good dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 09:58 PM
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Hi, u/TRPCop This guy right here. arrest him! Respect the tag. Seriously, you call yourself RP and just broke one of their major rules of respect the hierarchy. Amateur
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:46 PM
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" I dont want to be married ever. "....to a woman not good enough! I'm down to marry. Just waiting for Jennifier Aniston to accept my proposal. Or a woman as rich/hot as her. It's the bare minimum, or I will pick the bear! A lot of my female friends agree, they don't want to settle for less than what they deserve, and they will stay single until then. But they still want to be married.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:35 PM
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Ya, it's an argument I've had with myself. I had a best friend who was the normal bad boy while I was a virgin in highschool. Every girl only wanted him. I decided I wanted university and a career more than I wanted women. Now I'm an accountant and he's a drug addict, but I can't say I blame him, he had so many amazing women begging for him. Not sure ho OP expects me to hold him to account when I question being like him myself. I guess the best way is to vote to end any welfare and social progra…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:26 PM
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What age range is this generally? I noticed for myself, as people get older, only those with 1/2 struggle. Dating for decent people looking for decent people gets a lot easier with age. Younger people under 30, completely different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:05 PM
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bad social skills: = guy walking up to girls and trying to start a conversation and being blown off "Welp guess you are just bad at it" The friend with the best social skills with women was a drug addict who was violent. Did he have social skills or did women just want to sleep with him and not other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:03 PM
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Redpill men are a small minority. It makes sense the AFC reflects Ask men thread and not TRP threads.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:00 PM
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Says you, not stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:57 PM
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Ok And what stats say which one is systemic problem and which one is not? I never saw those stats. How did statistics determine the cut off? See science and statistics don't tell you that, they don't say X is a problem and Y isn't. They say which is worse, then YOU CLASSIFIED them as systemic or not
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:16 PM
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I only share my life experiences, see flair. Stats? Nah IDC. I also pick the bear, cuz women can't hold other women accountable for False rape accusations
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:12 PM
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Yes, the answer is for me to be better. /S too
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:10 PM
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It's only sexist if it would be racist to apply to while/black.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:03 PM
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Simple, we can be friends, not family. It would be difficult for me to not be reminded of her cheating, so I would struggle to treat them to the level the kid deserves from their father. So at best I could be their friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:44 PM
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Ok, so call the cops on the violent bad men dating women. I've done that, he went to jail. Guess what? She dated a good guy! Win win, right? Wrong, she left the good guy when the violent guy served his jail term, and now they have a new baby! Ok, what do I do next?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:41 PM
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"Hey dude don't be violent! I'll hold you accountable and shame you!" - All Good Men "I don't care if you shame me, I'm sleeping with tons of hot women, and you're a virgin, why would I be like you?" -bad boy "Damn that's a good point, continue on!"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:40 PM
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"why not focus on the source of the problem which is the violent men" Is it a problem? If a woman picks a violent man over a non violent man due to her preference, I don't see a problem. That's what she picked. If I pick pizza over rice and beans, is pizza a problem cuz it makes me fat? I picked it cuz I prefer being fat :)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:38 PM
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We do, it's called the law and the 10 commandments. We tell men (and women) not to murder. Yet they do it. Almost like each person is an individual and not just a gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:36 PM
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"was a systemic problem" This is called gatekeeping. "My problem is a real problem, but your's isn't because XYZ arbitrary reasons"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:35 PM
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How about "chose better or stay single"? For example, my sister had kids with a high school drop out drug addict who rarely works and lives in his mom's house. She's college educated, hard working, always employed, no illegal drug addictions. If she asked me for advice I'd say "don't date high school drop outs with drug addictions, and stay single if you no good options are available" Or in short form "Pick better or stay single" Eventually she divorced that man, and found a better man after yea…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:33 PM
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In Canada step.dads are liable for child support And yet women still don't understand why men don't want to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 10:49 AM
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Again, no arguments with it being good. I think only good parents should have kids. But it's not a revenge fantasy to say more people are ending up single, instead of improving to be good enough to marry and parent
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 06:54 PM
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Yup agreed, fewer bad marriages out there. More people ending up single, like I said. Not a revenge fantasy just true. But it's a good thing they are single, they would be bad at marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 06:04 PM
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Marriage and fertility rates are setting new record lows every decade. It's not a fantasy. It's reality measured by the federal government.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:28 PM
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Yes, tons of 20 yo Thai women would love a western man in his 30s and 40s who self improved. There's always self improving and dating in your 60s+, my grandma says dating is super easy for single men in the nursing home.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 08:07 AM
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Which is totally fine cuz we are in a feminist equal society now where the women needing everything to be perfect in the man are also perfect themselves, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:16 AM
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To other women. Talking to men, they often still gaslight. Very frustrating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:13 AM
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Can't argue with OP, they make a great argument. As always, men are to blame and the solution is for all men to be better. Just self improve guys, even if it takes until you're 50 yo. One day I hope to be enough of a real man to bring something to the table besides the bare minimum of career, personality, fitness, caring partner and would be good dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:40 PM
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Very obviously wrong. One it's a child, so can't be at fault, a parent must be. And between the father and mother, it must be the man, because it always is, like 90% of the time. It's just statistics. It's probably because of his internalized misogyny due to living under the patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 05:36 PM
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Beachy LOL love it. In my extended family there's 10 young men from early 20s to mid 30s. Most are college + educated, some very successful and well off, others not so much. We are all unmarried no kids. I noticed for myself going from my 20s to 30s that my desire to just be with women my own age has decreased a lot. It's not so much that I'm chasing younger women (I am), but I'm also chasing dating in general so much less. The thought of being alone isn't scary at all when you spent your 20s al…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 05:19 PM
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ugh I get it, it would give me the ick as well. A man shouldn't brag about a 19 y/o, there's nothing to brag about. Bragging implies one is better than the other, and that's disrespectful. Men need to have more tact.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 05:10 PM
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The men. Men need to be better. Always.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 04:47 PM
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Agreed, men are at fault. Always.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 04:32 PM
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Arbitrage is the simultaneous purchase and sale of an asset in different markets to exploit tiny differences in their prices High price for women in the west, low price for women in the east. I'm Canadian, we have 10% more young men than young women due to many Asian men coming here but not women. This means that the 'price' of women in the east is much lower. In short, if/when passport bros takes off, it will start to equalize the prices as there will be less demand in the west, and more demand…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 03:45 PM
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This is why men often date younger, women their age and themselves see the man as not good enough. Hopefully one day I'm man enough to be able to marry and have kids with a woman my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 02:38 PM
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Survival of the fittest then. Either way, just end welfare. I don't want to subsidize other people. Also if someone can't afford kids, the govt should put them in the foster system. Parenting is a privilege, if you can't afford it don't be one. Yes I am pro choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 03:33 AM
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CEO can suffer. I'm no hypocrite, suffering is good for all. I thought you said cutting welfare hurts the rich? Good hurt em by ending welfare.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 02:52 AM
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Nah rather end welfare than force corporations to pay higher wages. I like that people suffer, it builds character.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 02:47 AM
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Even more reason to end the programs, stick it to the rich, end welfare lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 02:13 AM
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Is my flair worse or better?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 01:47 AM
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I don't care about why, just what. Why is an endless pointless debate, I debated why in my 20s, I'm too old for that now. What is happening? Less marriage, still having kids, higher taxes, more social programs, more govt spending. Why is it happening? Oh im sure it's somehow some way some where a man is at fault, and the solution is for him to be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 01:41 AM
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Higher body fat % after accounting for natural differences (7-10% for tits) would be a big one I noticed with me and my friends dating in our 20s when we were all young.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 01:21 AM
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OP, congrats, very impressive. Very rarely do I see someone post about a topic they haven't read. "...Morgan Stanley forecasts, 45% of prime working age women (ages 25-44) will be single by 2030—the largest share in history—up from 41% in 2018." I bolded every word of "single" and "childless". Hmm. Ctrl F "child", three hits, none about being childless. Why did you edit the title from the quote? Seriously, your link goes right to it. Women in USA are still having kids, they just are marrying the…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 11:18 PM
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I happily buy X Blue every month. I never bought Reddit gold for this reason. Reddit hates me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 05:23 PM
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You can't have anything to do with child custody nor support in a pre-nup as the it belongs to the child. Effectively the parent is the just guardian of the 'trust' of child support, you can't wave the trustee's claim to it, nor change it at all. As for infidelity, it may be not allowed as some regions have rules about "Going against the spirit of the law". Meaning prenups can't go against the idea of no fault divorce. Talk to a lawyer about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 03:17 PM
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The only person that matters is me. I don't need to convince anyone. Not my job.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 10:33 PM
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Yes, feminism is about gender equality right? And I'm pro that. I don't believe in discrimination.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 10:05 PM
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No, I'm a feminist and believe in equality. I teach my kids what they should do, it's up to them to chose good choices. If they fail, I don't bail them out tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:49 PM
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Some people have disabilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 02:04 PM
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Some men just need to SELF IMPROVE more to get success in dating. It might take them a few decades. Just keep grinding and eventually women will want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 01:13 PM
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Is she wrong tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 10:56 PM
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Thank God for Thailand. She can vote for our laws but not their laws. Ya I'm Canadian, I'm literally seeing women vote for the great depression cuz our leader is Mr. hairdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 09:10 PM
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Has she had abortions before?
/r/MensRights06/07/24 08:53 PM
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Honestly genuinely, who hurt her? What was his name? Cuz that's a lot of anger. I've noticed many angry women at 30 from past relationship trauma start to be mad at all men not just her ex.
/r/MensRights06/07/24 08:53 PM
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And have you pay for it. Insanity. And then they also make escorts illegal, wtf. If no women want a man, let him get laid at least with the little money he does have remaining in a mutually beneficial consenting transaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 08:49 PM
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Yes. Yes, and I do have a preference for women.
/r/MensRights06/07/24 05:33 AM
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I think I'm 10 for 10 of the women I've dated having mental health issues. Now NAWALT just the ones I was able to date cuz the competition for healthy women is high. While the competition for healthy men is low. As a fit guy, I have only been able to date obese women. Yet I had multiple dates with fit attractive men in their 20s. It's so eye opening. And when I talk to bi women, EVERY one said they prefer dating men. While there are more bad men than bad women daters out there, overall the effor…
/r/MensRights06/07/24 03:20 AM
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I'm actually the same. When I turned 27 I never once was in a serious relationship not for lack of trying but every girl I found who dated me was just not relationship material. So I date 6 men over the next couple of years. The most attractive, kind, fun people I ever dated. Also one stalker...so good and bad. Never had a woman ask me out and buy me dinner, but multiple men did and during the first month of dating men. I do recommend it.
/r/MensRights06/07/24 02:19 AM
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Because we live in a matriarchy
/r/MensRights06/07/24 02:14 AM
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Friends, or open relationship material.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 09:56 PM
1

Approaching is not masculine, you just want it to be to justify not doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 08:38 PM
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You're reading into my comments, projecting, then strawmanning. Please stop
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 07:24 PM
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You're post comes across as woe is me. I'm solution oriented. I don't bitch at random strangers. Congrats on asking out men, that's a big step. It was hard for me to build up the courage to make the first move when I started out. I think I asked out one girl a year for first three years before I got use to it. I would never call you ugly, beauty is subjective and who am I to determine that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:00 PM
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I'm dating an older poly married mom who slept around a lot in her youth. She was telling me stories of high end law firm partners taking her out to dinner at 20 y/o offering $8k/mth to be 'spoiled gf', and various men with money buying her coke. Or threesomes with various Chads she met. She's a lot of fun, and a great girl, and mom. She lived in a big city and just in the days of Plenty of Fish even. The opporunities are now global, girls can be 'flown out' over a Instagram DM. One time she sai…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 03:35 PM
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Hi, I'm very close to Bob. While I don't complain (cuz it doesn't do anything) I share my dating life experiences from my 20s and how I didn't find a wife to have kids with who wasn't fat and had no kids. Lots of obese women or those looking for a step dad but didn't want more kids. Not complaining, not woe is me, just sharing life experience
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 03:25 PM
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While you may have been taught a certain way, after years of not finding a suitable partner, the onus is on you to adapt your strategy. After a few years as an adult, you should make decisions for yourself and not what society or your parents are telling you. Did you seek out any mentors to help teach you a successful strategy? Late 20s is a decade of dating, it's a very long time, more than enough to try multiple strategies.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 03:11 PM
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My issue is that there's welfare and free healthcare (Canada, and USA Medicare), so people's standards are one thing, they can literally avoid all people, but the issue is those people who hate me and want nothing to do with me, vote to raise my taxes so tehy can have more free stuff. No, if you want standards that rule out 80%+ of partners, fine, don't need us, but then don't tax those people you say you don't want, especially for more welfare to pay for a kid you might have had from the bad bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 02:54 PM
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Exactly she didn't try hard enough for my standards. I'm not interested in having kids with a woman who spent her youth not trying hard to find a husband. IMHO it's the most important decision in ones life who yo have kids with, and I only want to have kids with people who prioritized it early in life. We can be friends tho. Or an open relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 02:27 PM
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She would have to explain why she failed to find a husband in early mid 20s. For example: I tried finding a wife when young. I approached hundreds of women, I went to the gym, I dressed better, got a skincare routine, built up my social circle, graduated uni with honours and started my masters. It didn't work, every girl rejected me, but the important part is I tried. So as long as she can prove she tried to a sufficient level of effort, I'll have no issue with her age at all. But I never met a …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 02:08 PM
2

Speed run Roman collapse. But this law dates back to 1999.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 11:03 AM
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Yes, but even if the man lives in China with 1.4B people, there's still 2B+ women outside his country, I'm sure one of them will be his type. Do you disagree?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 08:05 PM
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My sisters are amazing! College educated, hard working, good moms, bread winners in the family, beautiful, caring, kind. They are exactly like the type of women I'd love to marry. But them and women like them often preferred the high school drop out drug addict, and sadly i chose graduating university with honours. I'm not their type generally.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:56 PM
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Might. Means possible. As I said, never say never, anything is possible, just not probable. She can go date men not like me. MOST men are not like me, I'm unique. Yes, I don't want to have kids with a 32 y/o woman. I'm currently in a relationship with a 38 y/o woman. We are not having kids. It's open relationship, so if I want kids I can go have them with a younger woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:53 PM
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My only relationship over 6 months is the current one im in with a older married poly mother of 2. She's great, not the relationship I expected as it's not leading to kids or marriage, and we don't live together (housing is crazy in Canada) but I enjoy it. 4 years. I don't hate women, and I know many lovely women in my life, especially my sisters and my female friends, and gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:51 PM
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"I would never say she will die alone" Ty for quoting me. I rest my case.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:46 PM
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I said don't expect it, as she's not entitled to anything. I also said I wouldn't shame her choice, no matter how improbable. I didn't say she would die alone, just that nothing wrong with that. But I do admit I have been learning from being on this sub, and my views have been changing. I'm much more optimistic and open minded now than even months ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:31 PM
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I don't tell people how they should live their life. Im not gonna say a man should be happy in any situation. I will say, wouldn't ever be me in their position. Even if the alternative is being single forever. I have no kids, and never dated a single mom before.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:25 PM
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Never say never. If she has an amazing personality, that's most important.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:20 PM
1

I think it's because dating gets much easier for men as they age. There's a lot more women than men in the 70+ age range. My grandma says that single men clean up in dating in the nursing home. So as long as a man keeps grinding, and becomes the best man he can be, eventually he will get a gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 06:37 PM
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yes actually. Both my sisters are college educated hard working bread winners in their family. Both married high school drop out drug addicts. I noticed many lovely university educated women chasing my bad boy best friend. I asked them "why are you dating him?" "cuz he's hot and fun" But all those girls just saw him as a good time, eventually (say late 20s) they decided to chase 'better' men. But lots of emotional trauma from being cheated on was still with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 05:21 PM
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I agree with the happy part. I just saw my two sisters both marry high school drop outs and drug addicts cuz "they were fun and hot" and then were very unhappy to find out these men make for terrible husbands and fathers. Both my sisters divorced these men then went on to find men who I quote one sister "is completely different than the kinds of guys I'm use to [having kids with]". They are dating 'normal' non asshole men but also not having kids with these men. One even tried dating my sister w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 05:19 PM
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If both man and woman are doctors? So you're implying a man in his 30s trying to date a woman in her 30s, and it not being applicable to a young man trying to date a young woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 05:14 PM
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It's generally understood you gain 2lbs/mth first year, 1lbs/mth second year, and 0.5/mth and so on. ya you really do cap out 80% fast for muscle gain in 3~ years of hard training. You can get that last 0.25lbs/mth in your 4th year, but it's not much
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:38 PM
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you don't have to improve, you can move to where the competition is weaker. As a short reasonably successful guy, I can move to a shorter poorer less educated country and really do much better at dating with zero self improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:25 PM
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There's something beautiful about finding a young woman and growing old with her. Congrats!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:06 PM
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Yes absolutely! I'm just waiting for Jennifer Anistan to accept my marriage proposal. She's hot in her 50s, nothing wrong with a 20 year age gap. Also about the inevitable age thing, I value a woman who gives me her youth, I'll remember her into her old age and as the Bible says "remember your young wife". Youth is a lovely gift to give. But nothing wrong with dating an old woman, as long as you are still attracted to her. There's also nothing wrong with an older person dating a younger person. …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:05 PM
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Hmm I do know some guy 5'7 who did well finding a wife. Generally they found her when they were in highschool tho, so no longer an option for myself. But ya. Asking your friends group for advice is always good if they are similar to you. That assumes one wants to change. I like who I am and not interested in changing myself, just my location.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:04 PM
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I never said they can't go to another western country. Any and all countries they desire. Why limit yourself to eastern countries? Why limit yourself at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 07:27 PM
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So? I don't want that. I want a kind and loving partner in life. You are jagged pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:51 PM
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There's impoverished areas in all countries. Just date a woman from a good middle class family.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:33 PM
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Trp help me learn that Women are attracted to a man who has the confidence of someone who makes 3x the median local salary. It's not the money but the confidence the money gives a man. You can either earn more money, or move to where the competition makes less. Ty. My outlook on life vastly improved when I opened my mind to all the options available to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:32 PM
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To you. If it was lower to me, I wouldn't move. A quality partner>money
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:29 PM
1

Agreed OP is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 05:52 PM
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I never said poor women. I recommend men date women who are educated, have food and shelter and not in poverty. I just said different country. Plenty of women that are doing just fine in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 05:47 PM
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There's no blame with location changes. No one made a mistake being born elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 05:36 PM
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That's kinda racist. Women in other countries are gross? No sir. That's discrimination and that's bad
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 05:35 PM
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What's the next step if a guy isn't in all those categories, and still struggles? Does changing location become the next step?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 05:30 PM
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all women's league is top 10% of men. I did the math, it checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 05:25 PM
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There's other options that those two. A man could move to another country. No self improvement needed, nor giving up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 05:24 PM
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Incorrect, one can say they can't find a good western wife, and go overseas to find a wife. No need to blame himself at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 05:19 PM
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or get a passport. If the competition is too high in Alaska for a man to find a wife, I recommend a easier location, like Thailand.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 05:18 PM
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I fully agree with you. I learned that women like men who are significantly wealthier than them. TRP is about how money improves your attitude and that's a turn on for women. Then I realized that getting a passport and retiring early overseas off $20k/yr was much easier than becoming a multi-millionaire in USA. I no longer try that foolish idea of trying to get women to lower their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 04:36 PM
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Who are you to say it doesn't help my self esteem. It does, massively.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 01:44 AM
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Yup
/r/MensRights02/07/24 09:33 PM
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Good, then you understand my position but disagree. That's cool. I want my tax dollars back, I'm not interested in paying for women's welfare because they had a kid. I'd rather the father be the one paying for it (or non custodial mother).
/r/MensRights02/07/24 08:06 PM
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I'm not, if a woman gives custody to the father, or the judge does, she's liable for child support. It's gender neutral law. And if a woman is in Texas? Does that change your opinion? What if she's religious and thinks abortion is murder? Does her morale values factor? You seem to have turned abortion into a liable for the pro life women.
/r/MensRights02/07/24 08:05 PM
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That's your opinion and I understand it. Personally I don't want men running around having kids that they don't pay to support. Im against welfare, rather end the program. Now you understand if there's no welfare and no child support, many women will have their children confiscated by the govt and put into foster care. I'm ok paying more taxes to help the foster care system. I just think asking fathers to support children is a decent compromise vs higher taxes on me to support foster care. But y…
/r/MensRights02/07/24 07:11 PM
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I don't want this law changed. Seems fine to me. Only exception is a cap on child support based on income to say $5k/mth max unless costs for strictly the child are itemized. Otherwise it's good. I don't want men running around having kids they don't pay child support to, regardless of abortion legality.
/r/MensRights02/07/24 07:04 PM
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I'm not making biological arguments. I'm stating present day law. If you don't like it. Change it. My only argument is it is disrespectful to not tell your partner you are getting an abortion. Legally he can't stop you. That's a fact. There's no "say".
/r/MensRights02/07/24 02:19 PM
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So? A child is born, it deserves support from the mother and father.
/r/MensRights02/07/24 01:54 PM
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In Canada step dads are liable for child support by being" In Place of a Parent" Mother's may receive up to two support checks per kids. Not three tho....yet!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 12:32 PM
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1 I never mentioned stats. So? 2 they are not for true gender equality they are all hypocrits then. 3 may you cite that in law. To my understanding the law is gender neutral. Yes I am. So?
/r/MensRights02/07/24 03:04 AM
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A child may be swapped accidentally at the hospital. I encourage both genders to want a DNA test to prevent this. I'm pro drafting women, and TRUE Feminists will agree (hehe and true Scotsman) Men can as well. 6 I personally suspect everyone regardless of gender. The kids deserve the highest caution possible. Men can also surrender children. There's been examples of such in USA too. But ya, what's the point of all this? I'm confused. How does this relate to OP?
/r/MensRights02/07/24 02:23 AM
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Biology is not equal. Men don't need to go through the pain of pregnancy nor periods, it's quite nice for them. The downside of no pain of pregnancy is also no control past sex. You are in the driver's seat as it's your body, not his. What does "say" mean? Yes you should have a conversation with him unless if he's a stranger and you never want anything to do with him again, and you are not keeping it. If he's a partner or a friend, it should be a conversation, a base level of respect to him to s…
/r/MensRights02/07/24 01:17 AM
1

And how many men in their 20s did you find attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 07:59 PM
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And what % of the young men were you not interested in either? Say 100% of 40 yo, and 80% of 20 yo?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 07:58 PM
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And what % of the young men were you not interested in either? Say 100% of 40 yo, and 80% of 20 yo?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 07:58 PM
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I do agree with you there, if my gf is doing dishes, I'll help, not just watch TV waiting for her to be done. Honestly I don't there is a one size fits all. In some cases I would want 50/50 financial contribution even with unequal incomes, and others I'm ok with her not paying any bills. But I do think that actions done in the past matter a lot, she would be dating me if I didn't have a good income.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:48 PM
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Do you think the violent felon that is hot will respect her no matter what she does? Cuz if he did, she wouldn't find him hot anymore. Catch 22.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/24 06:26 PM
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They should or the wife should leave him. Both my college educated sisters married high school drop outs with basic manual labour jobs who didn't little to help at the house and both sisters were the bread winner. Eventually they did the right thing and divorced those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:12 PM
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How do you factor the hours I put into university to earn said higher income? And the years of overtime to get promoted? Why is hours worked right now and not before the deciding factor?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:10 PM
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I use to use reddit nuke app to delete everything. I'll have to find something like that. But ya, I don't connect things to myself on this account. FB and Instagram are clean. But ya I'll figure out how to clean this and Twitter. I'll have to try Google searching myself to see what comes up
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:55 PM
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I did, 40% is not income tax, it's all tax. Income, payroll, property, sales. Excluding excise tax and fees, as they are very small.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:02 PM
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See, great news example of what not to privatize. Same with roads. Just can't reasonably do it. And police, needs govt. But healthcare, dental, water infrastructure, ya privatize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 08:23 PM
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Anywhere. Hot. Cold, I don't mind. Probably NYC as it's decent for a guy ok with roommates and educated. $150k USD in Canada has 50% income tax, 13% sales tax, plus higher housing costs. Ya I'll be going to B4 after CPA, then going to USA. Maybe eventually do some traveling. I'm 31 so some time to do all this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 08:08 PM
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So? Sounds awesome. I'm pro bankruptcy, big fan. Same for the big banks in 2009, should have gone bankrupt. Freedom>money
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 06:41 PM
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Obviously the answer is more of the same. We just haven't taxed ourselves enough to reach prosperity. /S I can't wait to move to USA, at least the pay is decent.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:59 PM
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THIS And they'll just laugh at you for this argument, but I'm working class, and I pay 40% tax in Canada. Much of the money goes to programs that benefit women and families. Personally, I'd prefer to privatize literally everything possible. School, healthcare, Social Security, water infrastructure, ending child tax credits. Let families pay for their own costs, I'm tired of it. And if they can't, the gov't can take custody of their kids. Just cut my taxes, it's legalized slavery at 40%. Hell $15…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:56 PM
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Feminism doesn't breed, that's the issue. And it also imports people who actively fight feminism. EX: My friend comes from Pakistan, he's gay. He would die there. Women aren't treated much better. Yet in Canada, we import many people who actively fight for sharia law, which last time I checked opposes feminism. As a feminist state (just ask Trudeau!), I wonder how this plays out long term. I'm a bi guy fine with just being straight if I have to, so I'll be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:49 PM
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That's my retirement plan!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 06:19 PM
2

20 isn't a teen. Literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 06:00 PM
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Bad assumes I know what is best for them. Who am I to determine that? Some people paralyze themselves to feel true to who they want to be (disabled). If that's what they deem is best, then as an adult they can go ahead. Same with gender, if you want to, go ahead, if you think a different gender makes you happy, who am I to tell you otherwise? And same to the 19 y/o dating a 45 y/o.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 05:59 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Oo9buo9Mtos
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 10:49 PM
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As a fit guy, I was always shocked that I could only get dates with obese women. Well I'd go on these dates cuz why not let's see if we are compatible. So many times I find that the diet these girls have makes me ill when we eat out together. One girl asked me to take her to pizza for the third time that week. I gagged thinking of all the grease. She got mad when I ordered a Ceasar salad (still lots of fat, was terrible). She didn't want to go anywhere else. She mentioned all the guys she dated …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 05:40 PM
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"not all dogs have 4 legs. Some have 3!" Ya...I guess that's true. Sure, let's not generalize that dogs have 4 legs. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 05:36 PM
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Cuz these women were good marriage prospects, and they are easy to find. You always gamble on who they were are, fact of life risk. May you restate your argument cuz you seem to be going in circles. I said I'd marry them. And you said I'd need to marry them to find out who they really are I accept they are good marriage prospects, not 100% guaranteed to be amazing people (everything has a risk, even drinking water).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 10:49 PM
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Yes, id marry them, or as you said put a ring on these women. For marriage prospects they are wonderful. As wives you're right need to live with them first.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 10:39 PM
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I can describe my dating experience, I don't know what 'average' is and not interested in debating what that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 06:18 PM
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I find the draft weird concept. Like you want to enslave this person, force them to fight until they will die, and give them a gun??? And they expect the slave to not target the slave owner? Weird.
/r/MensRights17/06/24 07:21 PM
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For me, it's not about a woman's looks at 30, it's her priorities. I'd prefer the normal girl next door who wants kids and priorities finding her partner in her early-mid 20s vs a hot 30 y/o who delayed it. Sure the 30 y/o is hotter, but if she cared about marriage and kids, she would have prioritized it first, IMHO. Now it's possible she did prioritize it and just failed to find her partner, that's on her to explain that to me if she wants me to date her with marriage/kids on the table, otherwi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:03 PM
1

Then steal pictures. It's not illegal. Use AI and make a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 09:07 AM
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There's no "winning" this debate. It's unfalsifiable to them, no matter of studies will convince them that men want more than just sex and actually want a partner. It's cuz all the men they are interested in, just wanted sex from them. But he's not most men lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 09:05 AM
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I really wouldn't. I met many women id make my wife. I asked them out. They all said no. Decent women and men are very easy to find, they're not rare, just they are in high demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 09:01 AM
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Men can't even be providers now. My local Canadian university bans men from applying to jobs. They straight up forcing women to get higher paying jobs now. And since most women want a man who makes more money, naturally most guys can provide at the level demanded.
/r/MensRights15/06/24 11:27 AM
1

Fair, but we talking healthy normal babies
/r/MensRights13/06/24 11:11 AM
1

The word is sterilized. I feel the same way for women who can't afford to raise their kids after sleeping with a known dead beat.
/r/MensRights13/06/24 11:05 AM
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Idk, I never gave up a kid to the hospital before. Only heard a man with dead wife doing it
/r/MensRights12/06/24 08:58 PM
1

My argument was in isolation. Yes reform the whole system, agreed. But men can't sign away child support if it belongs to the child.
/r/MensRights12/06/24 08:16 PM
1

Can the father not also drop off the baby this way? Some men have, but I only heard of sole custody situations.
/r/MensRights12/06/24 08:13 PM
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That's true. Can men not also?
/r/MensRights12/06/24 08:12 PM
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You argued things I didn't talk about so ignored that. Yes biology is not fair. Yes IMHO women should be able to sign away child support but the courts say they can't cuz it belongs to the child. A better argument is that child support belongs to the woman (if she has custody) and she should be able sign away child support obligations, and that men should be able to ask for this. Now, hypothetically if abortion is banned, this would not apply yes? I think it's unfair to punish pro life woman for…
/r/MensRights12/06/24 08:12 PM
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It should be. Now, step dad's shouldn't be forced to pay for child support. https://x.com/Freegarenskinz1/status/1778888735985218011
/r/MensRights12/06/24 06:42 PM
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Name a country that allows that. Any where in the world, at any time in history.
/r/MensRights12/06/24 06:42 PM
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It's a fact of life. Women can't opt out of parenthood after a baby is born. Same with men. But abortion is legal because well it's their body. When men carry a baby, then you can say the same thing. Of all the things to fight, this should be last. In Canada, step dad's are liable for child support. THIS is something to fight against, not fathers supporting their kids. https://x.com/Freegarenskinz1/status/1778888735985218011
/r/MensRights12/06/24 06:41 PM
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In Canada, step dad's are liable for child support. https://x.com/Freegarenskinz1/status/1778888735985218011
/r/MensRights12/06/24 06:30 PM
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Yes. I agree to that. Birth control and other advances really gave them options
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 04:41 PM
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The girl I'm seeing explained it like this "It's a black bear, they are mostly harmless, while 5%~ of men are not harmless" I agree to that. but if it was a polar bear, you are right. But the whole point to the topic was to be controversial. It's a real man vs woman world out there now. My local university has started banning men from applying to jobs in ontario
/r/MensRights12/06/24 04:18 PM
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"Very similar to how men wanted a beautiful young woman (sometimes multiple women) and no one ever questioned " Society was based on questioning it. It's why virgin until marriage and monogamy was the STANDARD. Modern society is vulnerable when large amounts of young men are without relationships, frustrated sexually. Marriage was designed to discourage men having multiple women, and women use to demand marriage before sex. Where do you get that men having multiple women wasn't questioned 50 yea…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 03:31 PM
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Don't you know, it's 2024 and all women are 10's. They say so themselves, and if you believe it you will materialize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 03:27 PM
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What are you arguing? Do you think my statement was meaning cm's? Or numerous inches that anyone with depth perception needed to drive would have?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 03:00 PM
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Ya but they demand NO standard at all. 100% subjective everything. It's pointless to debate them. Hence why this sub is really just for fun not for debates.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 02:28 PM
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We are talking height. It's a hard fixed easy measured stat. I'm below average height because it's a fact. There's no consider lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 02:27 PM
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AFter the black plague killed 1/3rd of europe, wages for workers were so high, the rich passed laws banning them from wearing purple so the rich can wear purple and everyone knows they are 'old school rich', not worker rich. That lasted for about 100 yrs. If population falls, asset holders (rich) would be the most hurt, not grandkids
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 02:25 PM
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You don't see the issue with the point being a below average woman wants a 'average' 6 foot man? If she's below average, date below average LOL. Or stay single, her choice, but just don't complain if dating is hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 02:08 PM
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Nothing unfair, but don't complain when Leo dates a woman less than half his age. Fair is fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:29 PM
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Insecure, jealous, loser. I know there's more. I laugh every time I'm called one of them, it's so common
/r/MensRights09/06/24 10:41 AM
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Agreed. Man I hate every year my tax RATE goes up. Not just total taxes. Canada and our social security payroll taxes just increased by 50% last few years. Nevermind that the tax brackets never increase by cost of living. All for more money to give to people with zero accountability
/r/MensRights09/06/24 10:38 AM
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Women just hate the word nice. Call yourself a nice guy and find out yourself lol
/r/MensRights09/06/24 10:34 AM
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Yes the child deserves to know it's mother and father for certain. Sometimes hospitals swap babies. See what I did there? Best interests of the child, lol cuz no one cares about men interest. Must also add women's interest.
/r/MensRights09/06/24 08:27 AM
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I actually do agree with you. Who am I to say that drug addict isn't a better dad than me? Just cuz I have a career and clean criminal record, doesn't mean I'm "better" It's also why I decided to never give advice to women. I'm not a woman so who am I to give advice to them. They should ask another woman for advice. I love that women are free to date anyone, cuz I'm also free to go date 21 yo in Thailand. Who is to say despite her not knowing English and have no career or university education th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:02 PM
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I'm not perfect, I have faults. I'm not rich for example. When women have rejected me and dated a guy similar to me but with more money, I tip my hat and accept the loss. Good for those women! But when the women go after drug addicts, I respond "pick better". It's really not hard. IDK why but both my college educated hard working beautiful sisters married high school drop outs, drug addicted men with no drive to be better, anger issues, and overall bad men. If my sisters asked me for my opinion …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:05 PM
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I intend to live in the Philippines surrounded by her family so she has lots of familial support. Most people do most things in life poorly, you can use it to justify not doing anything in life. I'm going to live life to the best I can. I don't let others failures deter me if I'm motivated to succeed. I'll just not be like your uncle, it's very easy to not mistreat people so I should have no issues there. You worry about many things. Whats you game plan in life?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:32 PM
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That's your choice to make. You are free to say it's too high risk to date men and have kids as too many are bad men. I won't even try to change your mind. But as a good man who would like a family, my plan is to retire by 40 and move to the Philippines and find a wife there. I've noticed many women here don't want to date seriously. That's fine, I support their choice, I ask they support mine to move abroad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 05:22 PM
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Some men don't. Some men do take care of their kids I have no kids, so I'm not a deadbeat. That's a W. If you want to argue men have gotten worse over time, I can say the same for women. We are more alike than we are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 05:09 PM
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TRP rarely talks about economic effects. It's not THAT the birth rates are falling, it's WHY. If average women don't want average men, and thus have less kids, the why is important to TRP, and then one dating advice would be to not be an average man. Any talk about the problems of low birth rates is outside of TRP mostly. But the why it's falling is important when talking about culture, which is apart of TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 05:00 PM
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I never said anything about immigrants being unwanted, you did.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:46 PM
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Yes because immigration only.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:09 PM
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Hot guys are just more funny, their jokes are better even if they say it the exact same way an unhot guy says it, it's his vibe and energy that make the joke funny. If you aren't funny it's cuz your vibe is bad. I'm starting to understand it all. It all makes sense. When a college girl makes a joke, I also laugh harder, so men are no better or worse than women. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:27 PM
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Lurk, I know you are smarter than this. Are you just purposely being dense to troll him? USA fertility rate has been falling for a century and just hit a new record low.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:18 PM
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"will be buying tickets to the Titanic after it hit the iceberg," I'm stealing this. LMAO!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:16 PM
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Yes, the law is designed to screw actions men often do, but not specifically men. It's like a massive sales tax only on clothes. Sure it's gender neutral but most clothes sold are to women. Me and my 6 year old jeans aren't affected much as a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 11:14 AM
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I gave court cases as examples of where the step dad paid child support at a rate higher than the bio dad. As for if it's different in each province, well it's actually different with each judge. There's so few rules to limit judges in family court.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 11:11 AM
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Ya f the kids is what I say then. I care about good laws more than the kids
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 11:06 AM
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I'm a proud future American once I get my CPA and public work experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 12:41 AM
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Because I'm willing to share and be a part of his harem. The unsaid answer lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 12:20 AM
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Me neither, and the child support cases go back to 1999! Guess what the judge said during that trial "men will continue to date single moms and be liable for child support because they don't read court cases before dating" paraphrased ofc. Lmao so you haven't heard of it by design, they want you ignorant of the law so they can stick you with the bill!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 12:16 AM
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It gets worse. Canada bases child support off of the relationship to the child. So if you have a daughter who is a single mom and you babysit to help out as a good grandma....yes you may be liable for child support. There's law firms warning people about this potential. So not only are men punished for helping so are grandparents!! Lmao USA is better, even for common law as well. IMHO no cap on child support based on income is also egregious. Thankfully I'm not rich so I don't have to worry abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 12:13 AM
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Yes, see all the laws are literally gender neutral, it's just goes after gender norms. One, there's very few primary care single dads, so it's rare for women to be in that situation. Two, it's based on income, higher income more child support, and men know women like men who make more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:55 PM
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https://twitter.com/Freegarenskinz1/status/1778888735985218011?t=dImL9JVYIp7bGjm2q8lNXg&s=19 One guy made a thread about it for child support. It links to court cases that have established precedent in Canada. https://twitter.com/realChrisBrunet/status/1797366223144919461?t=GWk0KHb3CHVkkxkt6djKlw&s=19 Here is an example of a govt funded institution banning men from jobs that don't relate to their gender. Yes it's terrible and super anti men. That's my country now sadly. Honestly it. Hurts single…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:47 PM
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Once upon a time, a woman was mean to me. Is this evidence of society hating me?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:36 PM
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In Canada, men who step up and date single moms and help them with their kid, even for a Peroid less than three years, are hit with child support, up to the full amount the bio dad would pay and up to when the child turns 25 if they go to university. Also it's legal to ban men from applying to jobs, but not women. Same with banning white people but can't ban minorities. Those are two examples I like to give that are very clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:35 PM
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when a society allows male only circumcised, this isn't shocking to me.
/r/MensRights05/06/24 06:06 PM
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TRP is even encouraging this now. They have adapted. So it even fits with the red vs blue theme of this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 08:39 PM
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I think you are wrong OP. here is why: A part of TRP is that money and status is a big part of attraction. They have threads about climbing the corporate ladder. Personally I think men peak at 75, about 5 years before their life expectancy. At that point it gives women like this: Mia Dio (@miiadio) • Instagram photos and videos enough time to get into his will. so it's not at 30-40 that TRP sub says but at 70-90!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 08:12 PM
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Yes, fit, wealthy but ugly men like myself :) I'm by no means attractive, if I was, I wouldn't have to do this. But I do like my life, no real complaints, I love being me. This isn't woah is me, just my life experiences. Everything outside dating is pretty good. And dating in Philippines will be much easier, just need to work for it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:14 AM
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Oh, ya no W2 job, need to build own business or just have passive income. Currently I'm at 500k USD invested and 31, so I'm hoping by 45 I can easily hit 1m USD. At 4% interest should yield $40k USD a year just passive income. Plus any contract gigs I take doing taxes or consulting by that age. In accounting, doing CPA then public to get that work experience doing 80 hr weeks. Fat men? Ya if you are fat, stay in USA. I only talk about men with ambition who make goals with plans lasting decades. …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:30 AM
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Oh I forgot the last piece of the picture. After a man has built his career to his 40s, also hitting the gym so is fit not fat, he has to get a remote job and move to Philippines to date younger women. Or at 50, he can get a early retirement visa to Thailand and date there. There's 4 billion women in the world. If he struggled to date in USA when young, why stay in USA when older? Go abroad and find his future wife there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 12:25 AM
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Yes, it should motivate young men to spend years to build up their experience, then by the time they are in their 30s and 40s, they should be ready to date women in their 20s. Yet some reason women shame men who do this. Lose -lose situation, no wonder fertility rates are at record lows.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 08:04 PM
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So...use two birth controls as you should be. If not three
/r/MensRights03/06/24 12:05 AM
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Ok, I'll use both
/r/MensRights03/06/24 12:04 AM
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This. They need therapy and to heal. I'm an accountant not a therapist, I can't heal them. They should work on themselves until they are ready to date me or date someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 08:09 PM
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That's like Japan refusing to use nukes (if they had em). Ok but you will lose the war.
/r/MensRights02/06/24 06:39 PM
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War crime? A win is a win!
/r/MensRights02/06/24 03:49 PM
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Isn't Australia doing the same thing Canada is and importing tons of men with poor views on women? To what extent are domestic men blamed for foreign men's actions?
/r/MensRights02/06/24 03:27 PM
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What's the argument? Lots of marriages I saw the man worked the same hours as a wife then did nothing at home. The real issue is the women were attracted to them cause they were hot and fun, and thought they could build a family off that. Nope, pick better. But they aren't wrong. This is a common thing cuz women commonly pick men based on non work contributions, but things like height. If your first way to pick your husband is he's 6'+, well 85% men are gone and you won't be able to pick based o…
/r/MensRights02/06/24 01:11 PM
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Ive had nothing but positive experiences with women outside of asking them out. Women often are fearful of disrespecting men as many have experienced violence from me . We are bigger, it's not rational but it's biology
/r/MensRights01/06/24 11:18 AM
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See, that's why our enemy is genius. They don't need men for funds anymore, they have the gov't! And the gov't doesn't need any man, if he doesn't work to pay the taxes, the gov't will just import another one who will. And print more money. "NOTHING CAN GO WRONG" -women voting democrat
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/24 08:42 PM
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He probably even has a 401K and no credit card debt. ICK!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/24 08:40 PM
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Unapologetically too. No shame at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:46 PM
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I'm seeing a poly married woman. She's lovely, a great mom, good wife. I was going through some hard times with pain and an injury. I straight up broke down crying. You know what she did? Emotionally supported me. That's how you vet, be an actual human being and if she doesn't like it go find another one. That's the test, don't be 'stoic', be open, and if she tries to hurt you by using your vulnerabilities against you, say "thank you for doing this before I married you" and leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:50 PM
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I feel the same way with older women. They are beautiful, it's just the negative energy they put out that turns men away.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:52 AM
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I learned so much from feminists. Turns out everything is the patriarchy fault. As a man, if I desire a younger woman, damn patriarchy socially conditioned me to be, it's not my fault. If I get angry, patriarchy told me I should be. If I gamble away my life savings? Yup again it's the patriarchy. Man, we really need to kill this patriarchy, my liver can't handle all the beer it's making me drink.
/r/MensRights30/05/24 02:12 AM
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Feminists became easier to understand when i learned that the Patriarchy is the Boogieman living under their bed.
/r/MensRights29/05/24 01:49 PM
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4)Will often develop weird complexes towards women as a result of being a virgin for so long. Very likely to have an 1ncel mentality or leave you for a younger woman to relive his lost youth. This is wrong OP. They won't leave you for a younger woman, but they will decide they are poly and date you and the younger woman at the same time. Speaking from my experience as a late bloomer, if I'm not having kids in my youth, then I'll date around. Monogamy is for kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 01:48 PM
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Fair, the data isn't perfect. Im not arguing against you either. Just wondering.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:05 AM
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Ok, so what's the age gaps of just living together?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:25 AM
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What people who prioritize marriage prefer. Many people don't want marriage anymore, and they are not accurately sampled here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:23 AM
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Lol oh 100% But costs will fall. The patent expires 2031 for novo. One day only the rich had car phones. Now my toddler niece has a iPad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:18 PM
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Ya 300lbs is lost cause. But 170 to 145 is 🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 08:08 PM
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IMHO marriage is the most important thing you do in life. I prefer my wife prioritize it early in life, early or mid 20s. It's not an attraction issue, it's a shared values issue. I agree, Many people don't want to marry if there's no kids. And affording kids is hard nowadays I could do it, but we be poor. Not many women want to be poor just to have a husband and kid (singular).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 08:05 PM
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I also disagree with OP. Ty for updating your argument. 50% is very understandable. Lots of people on both sides of the marriage market. Certainly not a majority of people struggling, just a loud minority. The trend is lower tho, the marriage rate is still dropping every decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 07:44 PM
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Hi! I guess I'm the outlier here. Never had a serious relationship in my 20s. It's easier to get dates in my 30s, but even harder to find women I want to a serious relationship with. Many are already married, or just no longer compatible with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:46 PM
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yes, but the median marriage age doesn't tell you much when marriage rate is at record lows. Back in 1950s when 90%+ married, yes it mattered a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:46 PM
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mind to cite that? Very interesting. But that's huge, massive even. 15% less is crazy high just from a drug. Naturally lifestyle and exercise and diet matter too
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:41 PM
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Well idk about you and the men in your life but i would never leave a 19 yo I knocked up to be a single mom She's moving in and we are raising the baby together properly. I'm not a deadbeat and most men aren't either. Question, did you pick the bear? As for why, why not? She's an adult, treat her like one. Stop infantalizing adults, it's insulting
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:07 PM
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Canada it's effectively 18, or the judge has you by the nuts for dating 16-17. Under 16 is straight to jail Yes, legal and nothing wrong with it. I'm seeing an older poly girl. She tried to shame me for dating a 20 yo woman at 30. Told her the same I tell you, nothing wrong with that, I accept no shame, and IDC. She's an adult, stop infantalizing adults, on their behalf I'm insulted, stop treating them like children, it's discrimination
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 08:45 PM
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I actually have, but only in this threads context to not be a hypocrite. Not often you hear of people shaming Cher or madonna but often Leo.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 08:42 PM
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No no, they should be able to drink, vote, die for their country, smoke and do porn. Anything but date a man in his 30s+. They aren't developed enough for that yet
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 08:07 PM
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There's nothing wrong with that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 08:01 PM
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When you live in the artic circle, everything is food. But cool 90% is fine idc
/r/MensRights24/05/24 11:04 AM
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Yup. Which hey that's fair maybe. I can understand that IF they said that. No, they just say men are more dangerous Insulting. If they hate men, just say that
/r/MensRights23/05/24 09:43 PM
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Let's be honest and fair. at least 1% of men would prioritize control over a woman. The real issue is that 100% of polar bears WILL eat you. Maybe like 50% of grizziles will, depends if they are a mom with cubs, or how close you get. Common black bear? I've walked within ten yards of a few, they are more interested in trees and random garbage. Curious guys, but even them I'd say 5% will attack, much much more than 1% of men. If it's a panda bear, fine, I also choose the panda over men LOL. It's …
/r/MensRights23/05/24 08:37 PM
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Love this take and your flair. Ya, but this response could be copy pasted for half the threads here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 05:34 PM
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Here in Canada, the older the woman, the more you are ordered to pay alimony when she leaves you. Great system, no idea why men are walking away.... "hey shouldn’t be shamed for that. And we cannot ignore that they did not make these choices alone. They followed the mandates culture gave them, and they were doing what they believed to be the right thing at the time." This is BS. There's tons of traditional view points being shared since the dawn of society telling women to be mothers. The girls …
/r/MensRights23/05/24 04:39 PM
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This. Men (and women) built modern society. No nature predators, no famines, much fewer illnesses, it's pretty decent vs any time 100+ years ago. Most of our health problems are now self inflicted. Very few women are dying of child birth which use to be a huge risk to her life (not just health). And yet men aren't good enough lol. Whatever, fine, let people who say men aren't the bare minimum go live in a men free grass hut society. I'll enjoy my single life.
/r/MensRights23/05/24 03:54 PM
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Oh wow honestly you should have just not bothered cuz I stopped caring as soon as you started to shame me.
/r/MensRights22/05/24 06:09 PM
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Please cite the push back he received
/r/MensRights22/05/24 05:19 PM
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Please cite that
/r/MensRights22/05/24 05:19 PM
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Purple pill debates, redpill, forever alone. Where are all the good men. It's that bad. Short guys. Many are banned now tho I admit. Mgtow had these types of talks a lot. Lots of subs have wide genderized generalizations towards women. Same for women, they have subs to do this too. Two X for example.
/r/MensRights22/05/24 04:22 PM
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Ya, especially this sub. There's other subs for this kind of discourse.
/r/MensRights22/05/24 04:11 PM
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"just die alone dude" Thanks bro never thought of that
/r/MensRights22/05/24 03:47 PM
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I have to agree. Lots of cult like men as well. No need to gender it really
/r/MensRights22/05/24 03:40 PM
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Hell that's how you get banned on seeking now. You either offer over text and have a bio showing you traveling the world. Or you use Instagram. I actually followed one of my tinder matches we had a decent convos going. A month later she stops responding. And in a few months she posts pictures on Instagram in a new major city every month. Ya...cuz a broke college girl is self funding that lol. It's not till these girls reach 30 that they start giving normal guys a chance lmao.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/05/24 02:02 PM
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I think Terry crews came forward with his experience and was taken seriously. Not many but they are there
/r/MensRights22/05/24 11:19 AM
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Best to provide an example when saying things like this
/r/MensRights22/05/24 11:17 AM
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Men have just stopped approaching women, not even just at work but in general. Now "woke people" are crying how no men approach them and they refuse to approach men. Well.... what did they think men would react with to protect themselves? Super easy to predict, yet they are surprised can't even connect the dots.
/r/MensRights22/05/24 11:16 AM
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This. If I accuse someone of stealing my car, we should find him with my car. If I accuse someone of punching me, I should have bruises, and maybe some of their DNA on me. The only difference between rape and sex is consent. Which you can't prove cuz consent can be withdrawn anytime. Feminists see the difficulty to prove as proof of patriarchy. It's insane.
/r/MensRights22/05/24 11:14 AM
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My own gf said she would pick the bear. It's not just online. Online reflects how many people act.
/r/MensRights22/05/24 11:08 AM
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Easy. Im in Ontario Canada. Our laws here allow for discrimination to "help offset past discrimination". My local university bans men from applying to jobs and states this openly in the job ad. Why is it legal? Cuz something something men haven't been discriminated against historically (if you ignore forced drafts forcing the men to die in war lol). It's historical cherry picking. It's illegal to discriminate against women the same way. Congratulations, now we are raising a generation of discrim…
/r/MensRights22/05/24 11:05 AM
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My gf's 'out' was that it's only a black bear (harmless I've been around them many times). She just ignores the intended meaning. But it's fair. I agree with her. I chose the bear over a woman. The bear can't accuse me of rape. half /s
/r/MensRights22/05/24 12:57 AM
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In my mid 20s, I got to see my tinder matches were also on seeking arrangements. Ya, cuz I want to compete with a sugar daddy lmao. No surprise, they rarely replied to my messages. Honestly now I'm in my 30s making 100k, id rather be the sugar daddy dating the college girl, than dating the women my age that rejected me when I was younger.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/05/24 11:23 PM
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Oh really? I actually didn't know that. What's the total population of the islands other than the capital city island? Like uninhabitable?
/r/MensRights21/05/24 11:08 PM
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It's so small idc. No space to live there unless you're rich
/r/MensRights21/05/24 10:46 PM
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Oh wow yes, old one but bad. One of the first black pills the Internet gave me about how some people view men.
/r/MensRights21/05/24 08:57 PM
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She swiped right 9% of the time. I really wish Bumble and Tinder put everyone's swipe right % on their profile. I'd love to left swipe on any girl sub 10%. I'm just not interested in princesses, sorry not sorry.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/05/24 07:44 PM
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I personally support women wearing as little clothes in public as they want. It's never asking for it. But that's me. I also don't walk in the ghetto at night.
/r/MensRights21/05/24 07:39 PM
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UK is a failed state now lol. Singapore is a city. I try only to focus on us and Canada. But that's me. Our laws aren't outright against men, just very sneaky against men. Like custody goes to the primary care giver....who ever has tits! See it could totally be a man /s
/r/MensRights21/05/24 07:36 PM
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Yes it's how I downloaded it. Years ago tho. Graham is pretty unlikable but damn did he show up there. I'll always have some respect for him for that I watched the whole trial too, all 9 hours on YouTube. His rant is ten minutes
/r/MensRights21/05/24 05:44 PM
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Girl math "130k + 60k<130k" Lol I love social media, people are so honest on it it's refreshing The real answer is they use it as an excuse for their standards. They could just say that, but they have to pretend it's some other reason.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/05/24 05:39 PM
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Lol wow ya that timing. Nice find! So depressing it's this common
/r/MensRights21/05/24 05:36 PM
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"I can't date someone who doesn't make as much as I do" Why can't any of these girls date and get engaged while they are broke in university surrounded by men 'on their level'? Oh is it cuz they think they can sleep around, and when they have their 100K salary a man on their level will want the same, cuz men and women are equal (yet she only dates taller??)? I went to university, I saw those girls, they ALWAYS dated older graduated guys with careers already. I never got a single date from a girl…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/05/24 04:24 PM
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If the m&m would accuse me of rape, no I would not eat them.
/r/MensRights21/05/24 03:56 PM
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LOL OK which one of you guys created a fake woman's profile and made posts for years on end just to write this and make it look legit? It literally have EVERY talking point we share here in it. It's 10/10 perfect, so whose gonna fess up? It's too perfect to be real LOL. I can't even pick my favourite part, it's all good.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/05/24 03:35 PM
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I don't think openly being a gold digger is anti men, but some of the things she says about men is hateful. Like we are only good for our money and if we are middle class we are a dusty
/r/MensRights21/05/24 03:04 PM
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I think that's a reasonable question
/r/MensRights21/05/24 03:03 PM
5

What is m&m ? Like the rapper or meat store?
/r/MensRights21/05/24 02:44 PM
18

Well if he wasn't anti Roe before then, he is now LMAO
/r/MensRights21/05/24 02:13 PM
13

Did they assume his I mean their gender? Uh oh
/r/MensRights21/05/24 01:55 PM
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See this is how threads get derailed. Our enemies are smart. They don't come out with out right anti male things when it comes to the law, cuz that's overturned easy. The issue is they degrade due process and innocent until proven guilty to the point where it's a joke, then selectively apply the new standards as they see fit. I see this often in female teacher rape cases getting off with probation, and male teachers getting years in jail. On the surface the law is equal, but the application and …
/r/MensRights21/05/24 01:49 PM
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Kavanaugh is a prime example. The dude would have been fired if he didn't keep his high school calendar LOL. She didn't even know what year it was! How do you argue against that? No criminal trial, just a job interview. I have Senator Graham's rant downloaded, I relisten occasionally just to remember what society is like to men.
/r/MensRights21/05/24 01:46 PM
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OMG I can't believe I ever forgot about that. It still affects me in how I treat women at work, as dangerous goods handle with care. Ty solid addition to the list, no heat.
/r/MensRights21/05/24 01:05 PM
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The best thing about this is when I state a preference I have with dating women, and a woman questions me about it, I just say that's how I feel. I am now unburdened by the need to justify my thinking. It's wonderful! "I want to marry a girl under 35" WHY? IS THERE SOMETHING WRONG WITH OLDER WOMEN? "That's just how a I feel"
/r/MensRights20/05/24 11:54 PM
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Exactly. I can name many things they did to hurt men.unfairly. Go to feminism sub, there's a thread asking why feminism has a bad rep. Many top level comments say "when you are use to superiority, equality feels like discrimination" Lol I could easily answer that question honestly but then they would ban me. It's amazing what an echo chamber can say. I'm happy men's rights sub isn't ban happy.
/r/MensRights20/05/24 09:04 PM
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Simlpe, cuz MRA was created after feminism, which is clearly gender biased vs egalitarian. It's really only a push back to where feminism is actively taking away rights from men. EX: Canada it's legal to discriminate against men and ban them from apply to jobs. This isn't the case for women. I'd support one movement, egalitarianism, and we all fight for real equality. But that's not what feminists want, hence MRA name.
/r/MensRights20/05/24 08:43 PM
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Name one thing feminism has done for men? Many MRAs believe in women's rights like voting, able to have a bank account, no discrimination when applying to jobs, etc. In my country in Canada, they made it legal to discriminate against men now. My local university won't hire me, they state tehy don't allow men to apply to jobs. It's insane.
/r/MensRights20/05/24 08:42 PM
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I don't know if this sub is right for it, but ya it's about time men stand up for themselves when they are insulted as an entire gender
/r/MensRights20/05/24 02:28 PM
2

I don't even argue anymore about fairness, I just plan to move to USA, stack cash, then retire by 45 to the Philippines. I use to argue with women in my 20s about this insanity. Wasted my time. I'm so happy to be 30 with life experience now.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/24 11:03 AM
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"ugh he's not even the bare minimum. I'm looking for a man in finance, with a trust fund, 6'5, blue eyes" It has 23m views now lol Canada it's legal to ban men from applying to jobs. Then women complain there isn't enough "economically" attractive men. You don't say.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/24 10:55 AM
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Dude there are midget women bragging how they only date 5'10 and up men. Nothing is fake or real anymore. Marriage rate is at record lows. There's a reason for it. It's real. So must be some crazy stuff out there that's also real. Sadly many men don't have dating experience with lovely humble caring women to offset seeing the crazy parts of others dating profiles.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/24 10:27 AM
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This is pointless, you're now just projecting onto me. Bye
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 01:50 AM
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Income and effort would be top two. No I don't want her to be more attractive, nor younger (when I was 25 I wanted a 25 yo), nor more nurturing nor more empathetic nor more caring. Equal to me is more than enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 01:08 AM
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Then get on my level and we Gucci.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 12:22 AM
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They are all very attractive women, so yes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:09 PM
2

May you provide a link as an example? Pictures speak a thousand words.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:03 PM
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Oh that's her type. Well maybe one of you gents can date her. Sadly I'm a nice guy so I have to pass.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/24 05:01 PM
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Ah yes, the infamous used car for sale for new car prices. Never gets sold but price goes up every year cuz 'vintage' lol. I should list my '15 civic for $40k, I have more chances than her of getting what I want.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/24 04:58 PM
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I agree, hence why I think all negative generalizations are received poorly. Some men are dangerous. Just not most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 04:40 PM
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LOL "All men are rapists, so I pick the bear" We just went through this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 04:30 PM
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It's why I have a passport. I can travel to sex work positive countries. Thank God I'm not violent so I have no criminal record stopping me from getting a passport. Many men women have rejected me for have criminal records, often for violence. I wish those people good luck in their relationship. I'm so happy I didn't try to be like the guys they slept with, otherwise I'd be trapped in Canada with Nordic style laws
/r/MensRights17/05/24 03:11 PM
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Ah so just drive by trolling. I approve
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:39 PM
2

Ah, the need to be right, I remember when I was young and wanted to argue for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:17 PM
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Why argue this? What's the point? It's not like a race where you can time each gender, how do you measure moreso? Is it a competition? What's the prize?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 01:23 PM
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That's the normal response I get. Often guys will say I should hit the gym to not get rejected. They assume I didn't, yet I put on 60lbs from lifting during my 20s. I appreciate you asked instead of assumed. But outside of dating, I love my life. I plan to prioritize traveling now, go to places I want to retire early to.
/r/MensRights16/05/24 10:36 PM
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Tried? From 18 to 31 today I've approached 300 women in person, all rejections. From online, 20 girls. If I had to choose to date them again or see escorts, I chose the escorts. We were never a match.
/r/MensRights16/05/24 10:20 PM
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They rarely judge men on integrity, substance or goodness, but rather romanticize their capacity for violence and confidence in manipulating women. As a guy who worked hard to be a decent man, and would be good father, I'm so happy escorts exist. Cuz dating as a decent man is a pointless for myself IMHO. A sex drive is pointlessly frustrating, thankfully there's means I can go see to relieve myself. I refuse to be a violent man, despite seeing many violent men have endless options of attractive …
/r/MensRights16/05/24 04:14 PM
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Not with that attitude! Become trans for a week, then trans back to a guy. semi /s. The world is messed up, good luck
/r/MensRights16/05/24 02:05 PM
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Men are hated not even just on Reddit, but my own gov't. My local public university BANS men (and whites) from applying to jobs. It's insanity. I want to leave my own country over this.
/r/MensRights15/05/24 03:02 PM
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You don't have a family with a hooker.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 11:44 PM
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Welp I guess I got 5 years to make bank then retire before women make it so every employer refuses to hire white men
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/24 08:08 PM
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Ty, I try my best to emulate them myself, and care about women who are vulnerable to abuse, financial included.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:03 PM
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Some men don't. If a older man wants to date younger, I would expect this if I was a woman or not date him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:51 PM
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I'd agree with you but it's 2024 and I live in Canada, and if I did, I'd lose my job cuz "misogyny". So I have to disagree. Recently our govt is trying to pass retroactive law to criminalize "bad speech" online. So....women are perfect, only men are terrible, and that's not hate speech to men cuz REEEE There is no arguing, there is no debating, that's illegal until I move to USA, even then it's not great
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/24 04:15 PM
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She can use the money he put in escrow account for her to support herself until she finds employment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:01 PM
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I love agreeing with them. "Yes hunny, dump your husband of 5 years and two kids cuz he didn't make tiktoks with you after working 12 hrs. The dating market for middle aged overweight moms is Soo hot right now, you can do better". Why argue with women? It's much better agreeing with them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/24 03:59 PM
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Or that men are just stupid around attractive women, and therefore any woman that is attractive automatically has more power.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:34 PM
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I fully agree, the men who date younger women shouldn't disrespect older women. There's nothing wrong with being older woman, they deserve respect, not insults. If a man has a age preference, he can pursue that respectfully, without insulting those who don't meet it. I personally LOVE getting older as a guy. In my 30s, I'm enjoying a more moderate sex drive, the career my education and hard work built in my 20s, the disposable income that comes from a decade of saving, and the life experience to…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:29 PM
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Single at 33, and average are mutually exclusive IMHO. If she wanted to be married, she would be. I learned that saying from a decade of hearing women tell me lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/24 02:24 PM
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Good thing the new bf with a decent career can now support her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 01:51 PM
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she can be dependent on her new bf who can support her with his career.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 01:51 PM
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Men's crazy standard for young women is just as insane as MANY women's standard for 6'2+ guys. Everyone wants to be that top 1% exception to the rule, and refuse to settle. Well that's their right to live how they want. No need to shame men or women, insults are not needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 01:50 PM
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Not real? Would you also say Anna Nicole Smith's love for 90 y/o husband wasn't real? True love right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 01:48 PM
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Peace
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/05/24 04:23 PM
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Exploitation or oppressing the person. As per Oxford.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:11 AM
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Isn't the not committing the question? We are talking about dating, not marriage. I think dating older women is amazing and even better than young women, especially if they are married. Drama free, highly experienced woman who goes for what she wants is a lot of fun. I don't have kids with older women, but why not date? I'm dating an older poly woman now, she's great, and if I meet a young woman to have kids with that's fine too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:50 AM
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So it's not about being predatory, you just don't like it no matter what. Understood
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:46 AM
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Oh so just same life plan is needed? Not the rest
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:54 PM
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Oh ok, but if it's not actively and just a one off and not specifically seeking younger, then it's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:26 PM
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In Canada, dating a single mom makes you liable for child support. Dating a girl, makes you liable for alimony. No moving in together, nor kids, nor marriage needed. It's not so much that being a man has less rights, just all the things correlated with being a man are punished. It's crazy Also local university bans men from applying to certain jobs, unrelated to the job itself, just an IT role. I saw the ad. It's insane. We are discriminated against here.
/r/MensRights10/05/24 05:36 PM
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I meant all of those together, not piece meal
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:05 PM
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Oh ok that makes sense. So if I take the bus or drive a old car, rent, in a low ranking job, want a similar life plan, then it's ok. Ty for clarifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 03:54 PM
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Ok. So how does two people determine if it's ok to date? How do they measure their respective power levels? Is there a scouter that can read it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:09 PM
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What if the older man is poor, or mentally delayed? Is there a power imbalance in favour of teh younger woman who isn't poor and mentally healthy?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 01:45 PM
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Ok, so it's only fine to have a age gap if he's a really nice guy, who doesn't prey upon women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 01:43 PM
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most women have zero interest in most men, regardless of age gaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 01:42 PM
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young women are disgusted by most men sniffing around, not exclusive to older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 01:41 PM
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Have kids, just less. To have 10m population you still need kids. Well. You can have kids, I ain't having them unless I can afford a house and send them to university and find a good wife to have them with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:12 PM
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Give people freedom, and if they chose not to have kids, then accept a declining population. Just end the pension system, make people save themselves or chose MAID. Problem solved. Korea 100 years ago had 10M population, now like 50M. Why not go back to 10M? Nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:20 PM
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I think you mean "why are people like this?" as you didn't ask those people what gender they identify as.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:49 PM
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See it's weird, I'm the same maturity I was at 18 as I am now. I just have more money and education, but fundamentally the same person and think the same, just older. But that's me, other people do mature more. I was already mature at a early age due to life experiences happening to me young. Parents dying will do that to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:18 PM
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I'm like a fun uncle to the kids. I can take them out for fun day at the fair, and not have to do all the hard parts either. Honestly it's great. And very little legal risks, unlike marriage in the west now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:52 PM
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Ya, see I prefer marrying women who prioritize finding serious men and cut off non serious men quickly, before reaching late 20s unmarried. I think women use to not have sex until marriage to deter non serious men from dating them non seriously. It's one strategy to think about to help. But that's just my preference, tons of men out there think differently. I'm sure she will find someone to marry her eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:26 PM
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You can get married when broke and not have kids until you are older and more stable. In fact, the idea of being with a woman when I'm broke and building life together sounds ideal to me. Marriage material there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:17 PM
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Why stay with a man who isn't serious for years? At what point do they leave the man who refuses to marry them and find a man who values having a family? We are talking a decade of dating. Serious things need to change, you shouldn't do the same thing over and over and expect different results.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:56 PM
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Nothing wrong with dating a legal aged adult. For my country that's 18-99 year old. Of course, a older man needs to be understanding of a younger woman, and her needs, and not take advantage of her less life experience. Be a decent person, and it's ok. Personally, I don't support age gaps of more than 50 years, but that's my personal choice, you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:22 PM
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As a guy who struggled to find a wife, only found girls in their hot girl summers, I actually reached my late 20s and gave up looking for a wife, and started dating married poly women. It's actually amazing. Married women are GOOD women, night and day difference from the single women I was able to get dates with. I highly recommend it for men struggling to date and reached late 20s. Many of the good women are married past 25, try dating married women, worth a shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:20 PM
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27-30 yo is kinda old to still be looking for kids and a husband from scratch. Why hasn't she found her husband yet? Seems odd, like I would want to know what her strategy is to get married and have kids, how she's adapting her strategy after years of it not working, if I was going to marry a girl like her. Like it's a decade of dating, and not succeeding at finding the one, it's fair to have some questions as to why it hasn't worked out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:18 PM
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I'll happily commit to a young healthy happy woman. Never dated one, so I haven't committed. But one day i'm sure I will, it might take moving to a new country to find her, but if you keep at it, working hard at a goal, it has a good chance of working out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:06 PM
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Sugar babies. Renting a room is cheap, utilities included, groceries for rice beans eggs are cheap. Not sure what I spend my accountant salary plus investment income on besides sugar babies. I don't have materialistic desires beyond what one paycheck covers easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:18 PM
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Agreed, always be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:14 AM
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Ok so not cut and dry, we need each person to fill out their privilege forums before we can determine if they can date.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:52 AM
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Ok so just the power imbalance is the problem. What if the man is rich but mentally retarded?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:18 AM
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What if the man is also in poverty?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:15 AM
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then no one would date! HA
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:51 PM
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He doesn't live there
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 07:00 PM
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Sure, it's freedom. Free to chose. She is free to date how she wants. I'm free to have preferences for who I date. Freedom isn't toxic, only actions are. And preferences generally aren't toxic if said respectfully. "I only date women who prioritize family early in life" is not toxic. I'm not saying older women are less than. They are wonderful in their own right. I just don't want to have a kid with a 32 year old woman, respectfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 10:36 PM
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Please, no need for insults. Remember the human.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:55 PM
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I would never say she will die alone. Just that she might if she needs to date men like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:32 PM
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I make my own views. I've held these views before I even watched YouTube. I'm 31, I first watched YouTube at 17 (dial up before then) and I've thought this since 15. No, I know where most our tax money goes to roughly. Medicare, social security, defense and interest on debt are the top four for federal spending. We run about 6% of gdp in deficit each year and not even a recession. Federal reserve is hiking rates to reduce inflation and selling govt bonds, leading to higher interest costs and hig…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:49 PM
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She's wrong. I'll have you know plenty of men are looking for older women. If she's struggling to find a man to marry at 60+ maybe she needs to check her personality and shower more! I personally would love to marry a 60+ women if she was attractive. 6 ft, no wrinkles, and nice abs bare minimum.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/24 08:22 PM
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Outside of reddit, I stfu cuz I have a job. I live in Ontario, men have been fired from public jobs for laughing at jokes when drunk at a sports event. Yes. It's terrible, but you will never hear me complain, I'm saving to move abroad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:09 PM
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Thank you, I'll keep looking for the right spot. When I find it I'll move. I heard some islands in Asia don't have people there. So I might start looking there when I save up to travel. No, rest assured, I won't be retiring here in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:03 PM
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I believe in women's rights, including the right to die alone. Are you against women's rights?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:58 PM
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Yes. I believe in the Freedom to be homeless. Not too bad, that's the life they chose, respect it. I never mentioned Rand, the beautiful woman she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:57 PM
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Yes I would be honest with my daughter and tell her things consist with how I raised her. To prioritize having a family when young. I won't shame her. I just say don't expect men like me to be interested in her anymore. Nothing wrong with dying alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:39 PM
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If you pay for social security, you can take it. I'm just in favor of ending it right now. Pay all money out until it's empty then end it I believe in a government, not lawless anarchy. You do know the difference right?? I'm in favor of taxes to pay for roads police fire. Those aren't social programs that redistribute money to other citizens. You do know the difference right??? Right????
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:38 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:12 PM
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Ty girl, appreciate the support
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:08 PM
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What is there to elaborate? I pay taxes to go to social programs that support women who have kids with broke men and that hurts my ability to succeed in the dating market. Kill the programs and return my money to me. End of story.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:59 PM
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Ending all social programs and returning the taxes to the tax payers. That's it. 100% that's all that is needed. No medicare, no social security, no food stamps, no section 8 housing, no affirmative action. You are on your own. That alone will fix the dating market. Oh and defending the border. INB4 "Women pay taxes too". Yes and they can have their taxes back, congrats. Equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:35 PM
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I don't complain. I'm a man, no one cares if I complain, so I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:34 PM
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The same thing I do if I had a son: "Well it's your life, live it how you want" I don't shame women over 27 for being single. I just set my age range to 18-25 and bite my tongue.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:32 PM
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well it takes two to tango. Either it's men or women's fault. Men have said because their right swipe rate on Tinder is over 20%, it's not their fault. It's a solid argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:31 PM
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As a law abiding man, I fully support this. In fact, I think back ground checks should be free and able to get without their consent for all women to run before any date, even if they met him at the bar. Anything to help women avoid dating dangerous men I fully support!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 07:14 PM
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It's gendering it that's hate. If they said children need to be taught not to rape, I'd agree with you. No need to single out a gender here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:51 PM
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It's the laws that give those 'bad actors' a loud voice. In Canada, step dads are liable for child support. They will do anything to screw over men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:46 PM
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So? Who cares about people who are wrong. Let them be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:07 PM
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It's fine cuz even tho I'm 31, I'm mentally basically 22 y/o. So it works out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:21 PM
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Ya what a waste I prefer learning skills and making more money but damn, they Even vote to tax the hell out of me for it too
/r/BlackPillScience15/04/24 04:49 PM
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Ya. Any single mom I date I won't move in unless I'm willing to adopt her kids soon after. Probably means none of the single moms will date me. Oh well.
/r/MensRights12/04/24 02:01 PM
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In Ontario, step dad's have been ordered to pay child support for living together less than two years
/r/MensRights12/04/24 01:23 PM
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All those threads about men aging better than women are wrong. Men and women are equally hot 10/10s at all ages. Beauty is subjective. Men in no way shape or form are better than women, and visa versa. We are equal. But everyone is allowed to have preferences. Nothing wrong with a man dating a younger woman, but that doesn't mean the younger woman is 'better' than older women. They are all equally hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:59 PM
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In highschool I heard some women say they like tall men. I assumed it was only a small group of women, and an equal amount would like short men cuz we all have different preferences and everyone is beautiful to someone. Ya....not so much. I'm not autistic. I was raised by a single mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:42 PM
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That's my issue as well. People often say you can't properly vet a man. Yet I saw both my sisters marry drug addicts who dropped out of highschool and were angry men. Even the bare minimum of vetting isn't being done. My one sister is struggling financially now, and I see it as her fault cuz she's bad at vetting the most important decision in her life, who she wants as her partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:40 PM
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Plenty of men would be with Pearl. She just has to pick one. The fact she hasn't, she's a bad pick me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 12:30 AM
1

despite the serious tone of the sub, the memes are the best here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 01:26 PM
1

Many women openly dislike bi men. homophobia is very common. I've experienced it as a bi guy, even with bi women! I agree with you, don't compromise the core beliefs. Find someone that generally compliments you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 01:25 PM
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Oh you don't want kids. Ya that massively changes everything. It's very niche and isn't relevant to most people, except ones like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 01:22 PM
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For men or women, politics doesn't matter to much to me. But hate does. If you hate someone for their gender, I'm not interested. Sadly I've met a few women who support hateful policies against men like banning them from jobs. That's 100% a deal breaker when starting to date a woman. The hard part is learning where they are like this early on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 01:21 PM
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If you think women never make it obvious when they like a guy, well we have bad news for you friend!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 12:53 PM
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Those are child Grapists and sex tourists. Passport bros are dating legal women trying to find a wife. If they aren't, they aren't PPB.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:19 AM
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That's fine. I don't limit my life based on others'approval. I decide what I want to do and live it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:18 AM
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Yup those are the stats. I'm just talking about recent small yet growing trends
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:15 AM
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Well when men like me were fit, broke, young, virgin, in university, struggling, doing our best, short, and approaching short virgin fit broke young women in university we got shot down a lot. So even when you set your standards to what you have yourself, it doesn't mean you can get them. That's why many men are going to Thailand.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:07 AM
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I do have to be attracted to her. I have standards even tho dating is hard, I don't lower them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:06 PM
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Idk,.I think I'm wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 08:52 PM
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That's her priorities. She's free to have preferences. I am stating my preferences right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:38 PM
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That's fine, she can just say she prefers staying single. Just communicate what you want. Yes. I was making a comparison, they are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:37 PM
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Maybe, I guess. I do help people close to me. I've had a friend who was being abused so I offered her a bed to get away from him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:36 PM
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Bad at managing it or spending it? Like addictions? I don't have any thankfully. So it's pretty easy not to overspend. Currently I'm budgeting a savings rate of 20% of my cash flow from only my salary. Could be higher but my roommate moved out, and I need a car for work.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:30 PM
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I would demonstrate these traits from the first date, I don't wait until marriage to show I would be a good husband. Do you want to see my budget? I have income budget, cashflow budget. I just did a dividend tracker to accurately budget my dividends from my 3 registered accounts (all maxed) and my taxable account. I also have a portfolio tracker I made in excel that breaks down the market value of all the stocks I own in all 4 accounts and puts them into sectors so I can see if I have a balanced…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:22 PM
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To not stay single. You need to put in work to get what you want. If I want to make money, I need a job so I have to apply. I can't expect a headhunter to find me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:12 PM
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In Canada it's legal as long as the courts agree that some men at any time in history were oppressive to women and minorities. That's a bit stretched but it's true. It is legal. Multi billion dollar companies like sunlife have great legal teams. They won't if it wasn't legal. But no one has ever oppressed men before in history so it's illegal to favour them....again, not joking. I can cite sources in law if you want. Even court cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:11 PM
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No, OP you are wrong it's a woman's world. When I was applying to accounting jobs, so many job postings said "We prefer hiring women and minorities". They are given preferences cuz it's their world. When applying to scholarships many were "This is for women only". Again cuz it's a woman's world. Most men are not dominating the world. The few men on the top are working in women's best interests because it's their world.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:38 PM
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So she hasn't approached many men and asked them out? No wonder she's single. Well that's her choice to make. Nothing wrong with staying single forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:52 PM
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That's true, TRP isn't most men. But there are a decent amount of them. I am one. I can share my life experiences of approaching and lifting for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:51 PM
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I think men and women are both equally saint-y.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:49 PM
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This is a great question! What do I bring to the table? Well if I was a husband and stay at home dad, I'd be emotionally supportive to my partner, I have great budgeting skills (I work in finance), I'm a decent cook always cooking from scratch healthy meals with good protein that are affordable. I love kids and am an amazing uncle where my nieces and nephews love me. I have no debt or mental health issues and lots of savings to help her with the downpayment for our house. I could keep going, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:48 PM
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Ya that's enough for me to be a stay at home dad. I can do it. Eating vegetarian, taking the bus, living in a small apartment. Ya I can do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:28 PM
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Again, I don't debate why they did what they did. Just what.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 01:59 PM
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again, that is why. I don't debate why. Just what.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 01:58 PM
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I don't debate why Just what. Why is a pointless debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 01:02 PM
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Idk. I never dated a virgin before. Many of my guy friends never did too. Is it not typical? Maybe, I just share my life experiences for those who can relate. All I care about is my life experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 11:55 AM
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Canada. No not religious or traditional. Very similar to USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 11:34 AM
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Ok you are not making the affirmative claim that tinder is equal. Good, so I have nothing to argue against. Bye
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:39 AM
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Ya no wonder she's single. That's not enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:10 AM
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Oh I'm sorry. Please post your sources showing the gini coefficient is very low. I'm sure they are better than mine Ewww constructive criticism! Lame
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:09 AM
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Most of my guy friends in university were single. No, they would not dump or cheat on a virgin girl waiting until marriage. Most were virgins themselves. I am real. We have different life experiences. Now I did have a couple really hot guy friends. They both slept with 70+ women combined.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:45 AM
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Ok, so like say top 10% hotness guy. It be fair to ask for top 10% income then.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:43 AM
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all advertisements are lies. That's the game. It's the consumer's job not to fall for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:42 AM
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In economics they use a gini coefficient to help measure how inequal an economy is. USA is very unequal, the rich are very rich. Tinder is worse than USA. https://minhphan.substack.com/p/inequality-on-tinder-and-more
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:41 AM
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I never once heard of one of my single guy friends being asked out and he said "no". Many men were done with trying tho. Rejection is hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:23 AM
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Majority of my guy friends were single in their 20s, and actively wanted to be in a relationship. No, not just fuck, commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:21 AM
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I agree. Like a 21 y/o woman is about equally mature to a 38 y/o man. It's just such a stark contrast in my experience. Me personally, I'd like to be the stay at home dad tending to her needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:17 AM
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Personal experiences are actually the only thing I care about. That and hard facts. Surveys? Throw them out. Give me swiping data!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:15 AM
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This! Why does it bother OP? Let her be. He can go look for women in other countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:10 AM
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That's ideal actually! I'd love me a 30 y/o actuary who provides for me to be a stay at home dad. Sadly I never met a woman who wanted that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:08 AM
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I'd even go as far to say no sex until she's proposed to. Even married! Wait, no sex until marriage. Has anyone thought of that before? It seems like it would work!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:03 AM
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I don't see the issue with a 40 year old man chosing to sleep with 30 y/o escorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:01 AM
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She put off having a family because she hadn't met someone to have a family with? Oh then I'd love to hear what she did to improve. TRP teaches men to hit the gym. How long has she been lifting? TRP teaches men to approach and ask out women. How many men has she asked out? If she hasn't met the right man after a year of search, one would expect she change her strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:00 AM
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Women have a 15% right swipe rate on Tinder. Men have 45%, or 3x women. I can understand why men say women are chasing the top 20% of men. Even 15% makes sense!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 01:56 AM
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OP, she can expect anything she wants. There is nothing wrong with her standards. She can keep them high. Same goes for men as well. If a 50 y/o man wants to retire to Thailand and sets his standards for only dating beautiful 18-25 y/o women, then there is nothing wrong with his standards. It goes both ways. Any gender can expect anything for any reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 01:54 AM
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Yes, and who gets hurt more? It's men. I'm sorry you don't like stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 12:03 AM
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men are victims from other people more. You don't need to genderize the perp. It involves women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 11:48 PM
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Men are not condemned for their biases/preferences. EX: many men are going overseas to find women. And providing they do it respectfully, women don't shame them for leaving and prefering foreign women for wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 11:47 PM
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I'm a big supporter of it. I think women should do what they think is best for themselves. Who needs a future generation?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 09:59 PM
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And they can be mono, I'm just not gonna be if im not being a dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 12:12 AM
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Like why would I commit to one woman for life until death do we part if we aren't having kids? Just be poly instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:17 PM
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What's the point of monogamy without having kids? And record amounts of women don't want kids now. Poly just makes sense. There are no rules to dating anymore, it's not the 50s.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 03:26 PM
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The tax payer, duh!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/24 02:44 PM
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I don't think sex work devalues women, that was someone else. Believe it or not, I'm actually much happier due to these subs helping me understand women more. I was much more sad when I was in my 20s struggling to understand why I was struggling with dating. As you said, as long as I'm happy, everything else doesn't matter much. Thankfully I enjoy my life, it's rather relaxing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/24 01:48 PM
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I used USD for net worth as everyone knows what it's worth is. I used CAD when you asked about statistics so you can research it yourself. Otherwise you might look up USA income data while I'm Canadian.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/24 01:33 PM
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I genuinely like the man I am. And I don't want to change who I am as a person. Diet, style, lifestyle, fitness, sure I'll change that but that's not what therapy is for. Either a woman accepts who I am as a person, or she doesn't. I'm ok if I stay single. I don't ask for sympathy, I'm ok in life. It could be so much worse. Yes, a relationship takes love, not just money. I have some female friends. They are cool, one just got married and is opening a pet store so I helped her finance it a bit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/24 01:11 PM
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Idk. I'm about $150k Canadian. Just $100k cad if counting only taxable income. That is more than the 90th income percentile for women 25 to 34. I'm 31. Idk about non divorced women. You can look for that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/24 01:05 PM
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About $500k USD in the bank, depending on the market that day, and 6 figure income. Currently taking my masters so hopefully a raise after.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/24 12:58 PM
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I've never been in a serious relationship. Every woman I asked said no. And I'm an accountant with enough money to support a stay at home wife. Im not angry at women. I accept them as who they are. This sub helps show who they are honestly.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/24 12:57 PM
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Yes. If she's a doctor and wants to marry a man and make him a stay at home father, then makes sense she needs to be in her 30s. If she's also open to adoption then makes sense. Otherwise, no, not really. That girl chose to let you not marry her for 9 years. That's her choice to make. Life is all about the decisions you make.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/24 11:15 AM
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They should just live with another single woman. Have a roommate for company. I heard single moms doing that, I think it's genius. They should all date each other! Not me, I'm just not enough of a 'real man' to do that lmao.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/24 11:11 AM
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Is there any trait that men have a higher preference for than women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 02:01 AM
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I guess I don't understand what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 02:00 AM
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Do 40 yo men prefer dating their same age as much as 40 yo women do?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 12:55 AM
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The issue is that fit men don't have the same desire for a fit partner as fit women do. It's not equal demand and supply. Similar to partner's age, men have a different preference for age range than women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 12:05 AM
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Cher proves this isn't the case. She's dating a guy in his 20s. Yes this one celebrity shows the wall is a lie. Women can have amazing men chasing them at any age. Most cases is debatable. If an old woman wanted a young man, she could get one if she wanted. But most don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:14 PM
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Ya it would be weird if a man had a requirement that a girl be younger, but there's nothing wrong with age gap relationships inherently. I've also dated women 13 years older than me and girls 8 years younger. It's best to be open minded when looking for a life partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:01 PM
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Very reasonable take. Happy to see unhealthy relationships called out no matter the age gaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 06:52 PM
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Most young healthy women don't want to date most men, even men their age. So that's just the normal male dating experience. There are 100 million young women in extreme poverty in the world. I'm sure if a older man wanted to find a wife to marry and be with he could find one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 06:48 PM
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thankfully in my province we have welfare enough to support someone. So you can always leave even if you are broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 03:25 PM
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Yup some men die from being drugged and robbed. Life has risks. I'll do whatever I want. Regardless of laughter. Even if I die trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 11:33 AM
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You're right, girls in America won't care. He will have to go to Asia to find one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 02:02 AM
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I'm looking at it how modern women look at 80% of men today. Realistic not idealistic. Do you disagree that most young women find most young men unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 01:47 AM
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There's always MAID
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 08:11 PM
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Same here, it turns out I didn't have ED when I was younger, I just wasn't with women I found attractive. As soon as I was, all erection issues went away.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 08:04 PM
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most young women find most men unattractive anyway. But money talks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 08:02 PM
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If they want to be attractive to women Cuz men learned most of them are unattractive to women, so becoming more unattractive isn't that big of a deal. Things like money matter more.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 07:57 PM
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Men don't get hotter, they just get richer.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 07:56 PM
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I blame welfare. Nothing like an eviction notice to bring standards back to reality
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/24 12:40 PM
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What options? I'm seeing record lows in marriage rates and fertility. It's obvious more and more people are ending up single.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 12:35 AM
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Hmm that's actually a huge red flag. A woman wanting to move away from the culture that is a big reason you like her? But hey different time back then. A woman using a man to leave an area has potential to not work out. Clearly it did work, just I'd be worried.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/03/24 06:14 PM
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That's beautiful. I wish I had examples of a good relationship in my life growing up. A woman's willingness to learn is such a turn on lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/03/24 03:38 PM
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Good thing I don't marry modern women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/24 06:09 PM
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Hence how I suggested men date younger women. Good ones get married early. Obvious don't break any laws, but yes you need to marry younger. Good future wives don't wait until they are 30 to start to find a husband, they prioritize it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/24 03:05 AM
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I'd recommend any man dating post 27 y/o women to get a vasectomy and freeze your sperm. Just too much risk.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/24 02:46 AM
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Philippines probably. Some remote village in poverty where the girl hasn't ever heard the word Instagram cuz she can't afford a cell phone. Or the middle in the amazon rain forest in Brazil. Best guess
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/24 02:38 AM
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The flipside is if a girl is 23, graduated college and working hard in her field, has a budget and sticks to it, learned how to cook and take care of herself, and wants a husband, you can get married MUCH faster cuz as you said there's less time to collect trauma. I'd say 1.5 years minimum of actual vetting like dating life if she's amazing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/24 01:10 AM
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Married by 33? Honestly, the older the woman the longer you need to date before marriage. At 32, I'd recommend not proposing before 4 years of dating just due to the high risk factor of women who don't prioritize marriage are. So she'd be married at 36 earliest, first kid at 38 assuming 1 year of trying if she's lucky. There is no child 2.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/24 12:19 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 11:27 PM
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Yes it does. Geographical location maxing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 11:22 PM
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I agree with you. There is only action, adjust to life. It's why I tell unhappy men in the west to geomax to a country they have a better time dating it to find a wife. No one likes complaining without action to solve your problems
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 10:48 PM
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I'd volunteer for boys. Not interested in mentoring girls as I'm a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 09:58 PM
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I have a bad experience with therapy. I was raised by a narissist who took me to therapy to teach me I was the problem. Therapist agreed with her cuz well I was 8-11 years old. Turned out as soon as I cut her out of my life, I became much happier. Often therapy is used as a insult to imply a person struggling to date has fundamental problems when they stated they don't. I've had people tell me on here I need therapy, and they know nothing about me. But if you need it, and you find a good one, it…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 09:09 PM
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Solid answer! Yes poor mental health is one of the biggest things that keeps good men away. Happy you worked on yourself and it worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:02 PM
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just some women. Women are not a monolith. I know some young mormon girls happily married to average men. They too don't represent all women, just some women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:30 PM
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What steps did you do to make yourself better to get better men? Did you approach these better men? Go to the gym? Learn good game to get the amazing men to date you? I'm actually curious what women do when they struggle to find decent men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:27 PM
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we live in a democracy, and women out number men, thus can control the laws. My old boy scouts now includes girls. The culture has changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:25 PM
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There’s just not enough attractive men to go around. This can be said for anyone really. Men could say the same. You can't disprove it cuz there is no universal definition of 'attractive'. I could show dexa scan studies showing women are more overweight than men, but that doesn't prove men are 'more attractive'.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:24 PM
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does the why matter? If young women are not dating a lot of young single men, and it's for reasons out of their control, does it matter? What is the purpose? Why seems endlessly debatable with no way to prove it. Motive isn't needed for a guilty verdict.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:22 PM
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Proverbs 21:9 — 'Better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife. ' And Proverbs 21:19 — 'Better to live in a desert than with a quarrelsome and nagging wife. These come to mind
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 03:56 PM
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Trp even says money is very important. It's very expensive to move abroad and retire early and find a wife in the Philippines. Without money you can't do that, you must be able to provide for her, your family, and her parents. Most likely need to buy her and her parents a house so they approve you marrying her.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 01:20 PM
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No, because taxes. It's understood women prefer men who can provide for a family. A govt taxing child free men to pay for programs to support women having kids is not a free market.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 11:22 PM
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No one deserves to get cheated on, just leave just get divorced. Or mutually agree to allow non exclusivity. I'm seeing a married woman, her husband wanted open marriage, and she agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:56 PM
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You could afford one, just not for a very long time. The girl I use to see liked me so only 3k/mth. But I love very frugally otherwise, like $20k living costs
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 06:55 AM
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Cool not asking you to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 04:37 AM
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That's great and all but it won't be enough. We only have so much copper, etc in the world. It's finite, eventually living standards must fall. I do support doing that, but you should accept life gonna be harder forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 04:37 AM
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No, it's cause there isn't enough resources for everyone to live like 1990s americans. China and India are competing and winning for your jobs. We literally don't have enough cheap oil for 8B people to be 1st world. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 04:29 AM
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Regardless of inflation, and excluding 1940-2010, USA is the wealthest country in the wealthiest time ever. Also we have record amounts of childfree women now. If they wanted to get married, money isn't the big stopper. Most families in the world are dirt poor all living in 1 bedroom apartment. Most people rarely eat meat. 1B people live on $5/day. As a guy with $500K saved and 6 figure income, western women don't care that much about money, unless if they are a sugar baby. Now if you move to Ph…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 04:26 AM
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Most do sure, only takes some people in power to stop you. It was only one country, in the world of 256 countries so an outlier. I have a vasectomy so IDC either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 04:22 AM
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That was literally a decade ago. It was RISUG in brazil, I watched a youtube interview of a man involved in trying to get it approved for use, and he stated he had push back from various women's groups and in gov't. Vasagel is the new version, it's also stuck in trials, but I haven't heard the cause for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 04:05 AM
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Yes, I've seen men complain about it. I'm very much pro child support. Men who work for cash should go to jail for tax fraud 100%. I'm down for giving more money to enforce these laws, lock em up! Straight to jail, no bail. I've never missed a child support payment, mostly cuz I don't have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:07 PM
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That's ok, travel overseas for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:05 PM
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the issue is 1) there's been cases of feminists trying to shut down the trials like old school vasagel, 2) millions of sperm vs one egg, it's harder I say this with a vasectomy, highly recommended. Just freeze your sperm like a sperm donor.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:40 PM
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They do, they go to jail. Numerous men are in jail for not paying child support despite debtors prisons being illegal. Also women can do that, they are strong and independent. I don't idolize deadbeats, I encourage everyone, especially women, to avoid them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:38 PM
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This is wrong. It's not birth control, it's not a big deal, even when there is a birth, cuz the having kids is subsidized by the gov't. THAT is the root of the war, taxes. Even before birth control there was infanticide. Condoms are fine birth control, same with anal, birth control pill isn't a massive change. BUT giving money to single mothers outside of marriage from hard working men is a massive change. It use to be those women had to work, now I know multiple women who never had a job and ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 09:13 PM
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or the draft. Legalized slavery until likely death.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 09:06 PM
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I have to agree, as a guy who was reading MGTOW forums for a dozen years all the way back to the old forums ran by Nacho, there's a lot of complaining. The turning point was when I looked at men in my life who were divorced, and try to project MGTOW views on to them to see if it lined up. The issue is all these men in my life had significant personal issues that hurt their marriages yet every man on MGTOW was perfect so they said LOL. But passport bros is all about leaving. No complaining, no de…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 09:05 PM
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https://www.google.com/search?q=FEMTOW&rlz=1C1CHBF_enCA953CA953&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8 I'm not seeing it. Did you make it up?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 09:02 PM
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Yet women never marry while in university and equally broke as other men on campus. It's always at 31 and DEI promotions raising their income do they want equality
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/24 11:59 AM
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I'd rather live in poverty with a lovely wife, than be rich with a woman who doesn't truly love me I think women can relate to that when it comes to refusing to settle for a man they don't love. The difference is the hard work I put in to be good enough.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/24 11:57 AM
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Everyone does better with good management. I work better since my boss empowers me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 08:21 PM
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Cuz raising a family is hard work, if she doesn't put in enough effort when it's easy, she won't when it's hard
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 08:20 PM
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Oh ya, it's not recommended to go abroad for love unless if you are ok with living there. That's my game plan. Just gonna get my masters and better work experience before I do. Was any country you thought of specifically for men? I haven't really talked to women who have thought about it. Congrats on finding a partner, it's such a beautiful thing when it works out
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 07:10 PM
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Southern Ontario. Not GTA but mid tier city of 1M in the region. I had some money from parents, and invested in Tesla so I've always been able to afford decent life. It's not something I found women cared about during my early to mid 20s. Sure some women are looking for that, I didn't find any who wanted that with me, oh well NBD. They all wanted hot girl summers, just looking to hook up, or already had kids and needed a man to support them. There are decent women out there that wanted something…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 06:29 PM
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As a Canadian I can afford to have a kid in my two bedroom rent controlled apartment. I just can't find a Canadian girl that wants that. So need to find a foreign bride. As for young people, if the man is older and established it's still easy to afford to live. Need to take the bus and eat rice and beans and live in a two bedroom apartment. Then you can easily have a kid. The hard part is finding the women who want that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:56 PM
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To be, trying to hit $1m and a remote job first. Taking my masters then going into public accounting
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:54 PM
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I work hard to be a passport bro..so there's that. I pay a lot in taxes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:25 PM
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It's almost like modern men haven't had a good father figure to teach them how to act.... almost like by design
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:21 PM
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move to philippines, lowest obesity rates around.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:04 PM
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This is why I hate democracy. Give me a dictator any day.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:03 PM
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sadly men are bad at forming in groups as other men are seen as competition. Also we are outnumbered by women since we die sooner. But I agree, if women don't want beta men, then they should vote to give back beta's tax dollars.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:02 PM
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or you can go overseas to date a girl in extreme poverty. It's an option of any man that makes more than $40K/yr, save up for 2 decades then go abroad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:01 PM
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True, and it's ok to only talk about one gender in a specific case at a time. Where's the hate men thread? Is FDS still private?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 03:59 PM
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I agree, women do what is in their own best interests. I've met many women who had a kid with the hot bad boy, and went on gov't benefits, working a low wage job, and getting by with no child support. They chose to live life like that, that's their best interests. Men struggle to understand that to many women, anything is better than being with an ugly man. Even dying alone or being a single mom. That's her best interests according to her, not according to other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 03:58 PM
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Are men encouraging women to settle? I thought men are encouraging men to be passport bros and just leave the west for a woman who truly desires him?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 03:40 PM
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What if she was 19?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 03:26 PM
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How old is she? 25 or under? Awesome, she wants a serious relationship and is interested in me. Over 25? IDK it depends on if she's traumatized from the hook ups, and if she's not really attracted to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 03:25 PM
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Na, as a man, I do what I must. I've downgraded my lifestyle massively since I'm planning to save to travel and retire early. It's not difficult. In fact after lifting for years, and hundreds of refections professionally and romantically, changing lifestyle is easy. Of Course redpilled men are niche vs general society, I admit that.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/24 12:39 AM
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Exceptions are made for sugar mamas!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 02:47 PM
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Just like you hand waved most people? JK I agree. If you have criticism, substantiate them. I took some social science classes, giant jokes. But needed the electives. Hell even economics was terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 07:03 PM
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Studies only matter if you trust academics more than your life experiences. After seeing academia in university, I don't
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 01:12 PM
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I learned that TRP is about things you can control to maximize sexual strategy, like money. And when I learned of passport bros, I realized that ya women are attracted to you when you make 2x the income of her last three bfs combined, cuz you have a level of confidence in you. And thus i realized I am a redpill guy, so I updated my flair. I also learned that the terms we use are spreading into mainstream society and the ideas are being recognized by others.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 01:11 PM
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Many are overseas in other countries like Phillippines or Colombia or Thailand, or Mexico or Cuba. My 50 yo neighbour who drove a school bus had a Cuban gf in her 20s. And that was back in 2000's.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 11:18 PM
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How is this a debate post? WHat am I suppose to do? Say no this scientific study is wrong cuz, here is a different study? Then if people agree with me, that's circle jerking. needs to be discussion post. As OP, you are wrong, that study is wrong. I have to say this according to the rules, or I'm banned for circlejerking
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 08:33 PM
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That sounds like gate keeping predatory behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 04:47 PM
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I'm often finding young women trying to predate on older wealthy men, trying to seduce them to get that bag. Men need to warn men not to fall victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 02:50 PM
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I agree, as a guy who prefers women in their 30s who took the time to go to the gym, take care of themselves, and built their career, they are the best. I don't prefer 20 yo college girls, but I don't limit myself from dating them either. I find men who prefer 18 yos weird. But if they just so happen to be dating one, then it's A OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 02:48 PM
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Not every age gap is a problem but the odds go way up. I agree, as with everything, it depends on how you do it. Interracial dating? That's fine. Fetishizing black women and dating them exclusively? Bad. Age gap relationships? That's fine. Seeking young women cuz you want to control them? Bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 07:06 PM
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How do you view yourself when you were 18, today?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 07:02 PM
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They do. While I don't we will unlearn electricity, that doesn't mean you won't lack the men who know how to maintain it. Many countries are regressing in real time lol.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/01/24 06:38 PM
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Same here. I have little interest in single older women. If she was a good wife, she would be one by now. So pass
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/01/24 12:38 AM
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Some women prefer us living in grass huts as long as they can date thugs. Crazy but true. Tingles>functioning society
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/24 06:38 PM
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Dear single moms over 30, Your experiences with men are bad since all the good ones are married or not interested. Good Men are learning to be happy single. It's not that all men suck, just the ones who want you do. There are plenty of happily married and bachelor men. My grandpa died happily married, I have a uncle, happily single no kids. If all you see is bad men, it's probably due to your age, happy people don't wait till their 30s to find good partners. My dating advice is simple: don't. No…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/24 06:36 PM
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Long but worth it. Great description of women men need to watch out for. Don't be fooled, the past matters. Is she 'traditional' now? Was she before?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/24 02:59 PM
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It can be both. Girls wanted to join, otherwise they wouldn't have changed it cuz no demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 11:01 PM
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Cuz they can force themselves into men's spaces. Even boy scouts allows girls now. So we have to interact with them There's no space for men to just talk to men really. Even trp is quarantined and dying
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 12:03 PM
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People will be offended at anything you say. That's their problem. Anger phase is ugly, trp knew that, and accepted it and helped men get past it. Now you just have permanently angry men. Congratulations
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 03:00 AM
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Which funny enough, social media has helped many men. Tiktok is being used as a girls diary and girl talk, and for the first time men can listen in to see how they really feel with no social pressure to say/act otherwise. And it's enlightening, after it pisses you off first.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 07:36 PM
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honestly ,men just need to put their foot down more about what they will and will not accept. they whine and bitch but then continue to date these women. Based on the marriage and fertility rates, they are. And as a culture, we are dying out cuz of it. Eventually another culture that doesn't have these issues will take over.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 07:30 PM
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Oh so it's men's fault women have to spend so much money on makeup? Regarding social pressures, ever been to church? They have some pressures there, like virginity until marriage. Did you feel pressured to conform to those pressures?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 06:26 PM
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Men aren't asking women to pay for their leg lengthening, that's the difference here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 06:24 PM
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All women? Or some? I like the girl I'm seeing. But I haven't liked most. That's normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:13 PM
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Everyone commented about sex and celibacy, just ignoring how important a loving relationship is in life. Honestly sex is one of the least important things a good relationship can bring, and a hooker can act like a substitute for only sex, not love.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 08:07 PM
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Ty , I am a good boy! Woof
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 01:05 PM
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that's fair. Then I'd say cheating is never ok, get consent first. Or just never agree to exclusivity, even if you are married XD
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 03:06 AM
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Absolutely, I just haven't dated as many men to make that statement. Unless you could violent, then many men are that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 02:47 AM
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Depends on what is communicated. I'm in a poly relationship with a married mom. She asked me for monogamy, and I told her "We're not having kids, and I'm ok with that, but I wouldn't ever offer monogamy. That's for marriage and kids". And that's fine, cuz she agreed. I stated a boundary very clearly and stuck to it, and told her to leave if she's uncomfortable with it. Communication is key. No I'm not a top man, I just know what I want and I'm willing to walk away if needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 02:29 AM
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You are forgiven
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 01:24 AM
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So? She will be with someone of bad character. What's the big deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 01:03 AM
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To you. I believe in freedom, including the freedom to end your life at any time. If I believe in that, how can I not believe in a maladaptive life providing it doesn't hurt others?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 01:02 AM
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Potentially. Do one first, and see if it works. If not, do both. But I doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 12:16 AM
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I'll be honest, many women I've dated don't meet that standard. Plenty of girls have mental health issues today and that makes them struggle to be a normal adult. I've seen very dirty apartments. so the basics aren't the basics for everyone. That guy made healthy meals at home, that's already a rare trait. Hence we glorify it, cuz we need to. I've had guy friends who didn't meet that as well. Just smoked weed and lived on welfare. At least their rooms were clean tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 11:15 PM
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can confirm, was soon as boring. Instead of cleaning my room I should have started doing coke LOL. But that's their loss, I like being 'boring' with a great career and household skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 11:13 PM
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As a guy who does those things, girls aren't really caring about that. It's not like it helps with dating LOL. I guess if I already bring them back to my place and it's clean, it helps, but the struggle is getting the date first. But the question would be is how can women filter for that? I'd suggest a lot of first dates and asking questions to the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 11:12 PM
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Oh I'm not talking relative high, just above replacement levels. I don't think people want to have five kids and raise them to university level standards. That's a huge ask. But not long ago it was common to want two boys and a girl, but struggle to afford it. Nowadays people can't even buy houses.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 10:57 PM
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What country even has the freedom level I am talking about? Maybe 1800s USA. High fertility then. But most countries aren't pro freedom to the level I'm talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 10:25 PM
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I don't mean directly. I mean in general. Ex: all my tinder matches were obese. Not insulting, not to their face, and it's assuming it's context is I was asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 10:23 PM
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Ya of course! I'm a big supporter of child support. My request is to tie it to the cost of raising kids, I think a reasonable cap is needed for the huge outliers of millionaires. But we could also raise it higher on the low end. I don't believe in jail for not paying, but work camps I can get behind! Not sure how to make it legal but blah details
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 10:00 PM
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Yes, stop taxing the hard working people so much where they can't afford kids. Freedom from having to support other people having kids will help those who work hard to afford kids to be able to. Id love to boast the fertility rate, but jobs pay $65k and houses start at $600k for a townhouse. With enough regulation cut and lowered taxes (freedom) I can afford it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 09:54 PM
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yup, but there's nothing wrong with being stupid. If there was then we have a BIG problem lol. That's most people IMHO, men and women are unearned high standards I just wish these people who have high standards admitted they are unreasonable. That's my only issue. I'm not entitled to date them, I can just go overseas if I need a wife who has reasonable standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 08:09 PM
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Women: It's hard to vet men today for marriage. Many men (they are attracted to) only want casual fun, and it's harder to vet a man by getting to know his family as they are often broken up or he doesn't have a dad. Men: It's hard to become the man women want you to be when raised by a single mom who raised you to be a nice guy. The lack of good male role model makes finding your way in life very difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:06 PM
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Yes of course, that's my preference too, that doesn't mean it's wrong for them to live in other ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:55 PM
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You don't have to shame children outside marriage, just stop subsidizing it with welfare and tax credits. The reason we have so many single moms is the gov't pays them to be them. Don't, let them work to afford their kids or lose custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:34 PM
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Entitled assumes she won't get what she wants, or isn't ok with dying alone. I think there's nothing wrong with an average woman saying "I demand a millionaire under 40 yo husband who is tall and hot, and if I don't get him I'm ok with dying alone. I accept this is unlikely to find him as an average woman and I refuse to improve in any meaningful way" How do you feel about that level of self awareness?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:03 PM
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I believe in freedom. But that also excludes social programs, which mean many broke single parents would lose custody of their kids for failing to provide for them. Generally society is bad at taking kids away from broke parents, so it's hard to implement freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 04:57 PM
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What is wrong with women saying "I want only a rich man or I'll stay single"? Seriously, what is wrong with having unrealistic standards? Ok, so she dies alone, so what? What is wrong with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 04:55 PM
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I will. Please link to him and I'll tell him bad boy. But I don't see it much as TRP tries hard to not talk politics at all. They do ban people for it often.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 04:54 PM
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RPM in the anger phase are angry yes. Eventually they will reach acceptance. what do I want? I believe in freedom. Women can vote, work, be single moms, date thugs, I don't care. I just want my tax money back. I just don't want to subsidize their lifestyle. If women want to be single moms, that's cool, but they have to pay their own bills or lose custody of their children. That's all, I don't want to pay to fund women having other men's kids. But all the women's (negative) rights I'm all for it.…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 04:53 PM
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to that I agree. It's why I'm carefully very precise in the words I say to not be insulting but to only be descriptive. But if people want to be offended, they find a way. I describe my tinder matches as obese when talking about them online (not to their face cuz I'm not asked) because they are, it's not an insult, yet often people are offended on their behalf. It's exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 04:42 PM
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She is very submissive to me. But no not monogamous. It's unusal for sure, it's why I never wrote a field report for TRP as it's not something that is really common for the sub. Now I'm not having kids with her as she doesn't want more, and i think kids with two men doesn't work, and I'm ok with that. And I might even have kids with a different girl, but IDK that's to be determined. You're welcome. From our experiences, most poly relationships tend to be dumpster fires LOL. But she's great, I ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 02:52 PM
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Hi, yes poly relationship. I'm unsure how TRP contradicts this, may you expand on that? TRP is basically men sharing notes on how they can improve themselves to get the women they want, usually through Personality/Looks/Money/Status, but they are prescriptive about what type of woman you need to date, that's up to the man. Some chose to be married like MarriedRedpill sub. But ya, she has a husband, and dates me and choses not to date other men. I see her primarily, and occassionally date/hook up…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 02:39 PM
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and they have the gall to ask why men think they can't have preferences...it's our lived experiences with women saying so. It's MY truth :)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 01:17 PM
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Disgusting is an opinion, you have no proof from science he is disgusting hence insulting. He is short and that's it. Just short. Fat is overweight or obese which is measurable by science like BMI and body fat %.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 12:28 PM
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There's always a reason to insult men having preferences if you want to find one. And people wonder why men say they can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 12:03 PM
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Yes, but how would you know? Better example is short. I'm short. It's not an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 12:02 PM
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Look I'm short. Calling me short isn't an insult. I don't get mad at people who do. And women who don't date short men just have a preference, I don't think they aren't allowed to express it. I'm not a hypocrite
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:42 AM
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Calling someone obese isn't an insult, it's a fact. Ugly is an insult, as there is no test to determine it. But many men, myself included, say we aren't allowed to have preferences like not wanting obese women due to how women react to men saying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:17 AM
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Hmm very vague. No wonder why men say they can't have preferences, it's not clear when they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:14 AM
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Ya if my corrected sentence is an issue, then ya proves men can't have preferences. I do my best to be objective when describing my matches. Obese poor infertile single mom is descriptive not insulting at all, as I am stating facts not opinions. I'm sure they are lovely people and are attractive to some men. Just not my preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 02:06 AM
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Ya of course. I have babysat for them before. He's a decent guy, otherwise I won't be dating her. Going on 3 years, covid was interesting time. I'm not down with cheaters.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 02:02 AM
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I'm curious, what specifically is the issue with the first sentence? Fat is just a fact, but I prefer overweight or obese as these are more clearly defined. It's not an insult to state "my matches are obese", it's just true. Or is it ugly? Cuz that's stating a preference, and there's no real clear test for that. Would the sentence "I can't find a decent woman because most of my matches are obese women?" Be a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 01:51 AM
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This is why I come to this sub. Some times men deserved to be called out, and that doesn't happen in their spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 01:49 AM
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Huge agree. This is why I'm always kind and respectful. I don't insult western women, but I do tell men to go overseas if they are unhappy with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 01:48 AM
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YES! yes it is OP. And the Red pillers have red hair. Like this one: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z0gGh1NiSUg
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 01:45 AM
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Go look at the passport bro subreddit, every day they have people coming on there to mock them for prefering foreign women as wives. It's in real life. I'm currently seeing a married mom. She mentioned one guy she dated as a single mom decided he didn't want to date her after he learned she was a single mom, and she was pissed cuz she thought "he wasn't anything great himself". I told her he's allowed to have preferences. She agreed kinda but was clearly still annoyed. The idea of men saying "no…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 01:44 AM
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avg length of first time marriages is now set at 7/8 years. oh wow that's depressing. I never heard that stat but looks to be right. That's not even enough time to have 3 kids and have the youngest start school. That's....so terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 12:44 AM
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and you call yourself blue pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 12:41 AM
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How can we debate a question? OP jsut delete this and state your opinion you want debated. If I comment stating an opinion one way, I'd get banned for circle jerking, so this is ajust ban bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 12:30 AM
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I do, but many men lacked a father growing up, and it shows. Thankfully I found TRP, and it became the dad I never had. My single mother grew me to become entitled, thankfully TRP fixed that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 06:53 PM
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Lol I also can't find any good women. It's a crisis lol. Good = supermodel.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/24 12:36 PM
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That was 3.5 hrs away and not much bigger. A large city was Toronto at 10 hours bus ride. Again I said college student, didn't have a car for most of my time
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:25 AM
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Never heard of any events in my small city at the time. No longer that way now tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:19 AM
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There were some years where my dates were zero while on tinder. Being a college student in a trades city can be like that. It was fine. Find other things
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:23 AM
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No, in my personal experience, that isn't necessary
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:22 AM
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Correct. Close friend. Was making out with a girl. He her and a mutual friend was there. She regretted it, and filed a charge. He took a plea cuz thats the justice system, pay money to win. She later apologized to me, asked if I hated her. I didn't, but I made sure to keep my distance. Some other times didn't lead to a charge, but social rep hurt. Friend of a friend ended up with a assault with a weapon charge cuz his girl cheated but cried rape. Scary stuff, be safe out there and avoid the craz…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:45 PM
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Simple work around. No man is allowed on a birth certificate until he gets tested. Now he has to volunteer. Or court order, usually when child support is demanded.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:32 PM
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It's really easy to say you want to be single when you are a young attractive woman. Life is really amazing honestly (girl I'm seeing agrees so not just my male view) But I notice a lot on tiktok of older women struggling when that male attention finally does go away. So hard to tell if they can geninuely see how the future will be and are ok with it. Some are, my girl's mom is one. She's single for 20 years, and just is fine (ish) with being single the whole time. It's kinda like a college kid …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:30 PM
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I do find it amusing when men are told to share their experiences, and we are on a sub whose purpose is to debate one group who share their experiences, and another set up to purposely deny it, yet only one side is quarantined. And we are asked why men don't open up. TRP died after quarantine, traffic plummeted, and numerous mods have been banned off Reddit. Ya...I wonder why more men don't open up, and when they do they are angry. TRP use to help men get past the anger phase. Now many men don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:06 PM
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I just wanted to take some time to mention my flair. I'm here to share my life experiences, to help the men who relate to me and looking for answers. I think manosphere is a great help to me. Every man sharing their experiences has helped me understand more about dating in the western world. It helps me heal and look towards solutions. And I found one, moving to another culture. Based on other mens and my experiences, I decided what's best for me is to move to philippines to find a genuine lovin…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:59 PM
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I think the issue is people don't state their 'group'. You can have 6'4 guys giving dating advice that's meh at best but he thinks it's amazing due to how women see him. You can have 5'2 Indian men in Sweden talking about how dating is pointless, and not mention how they are an outliar in their area. You can have Moromons talk about how marriage is awesome and recommend, without stating that their subgroup actively avoids hook up culture and marries young. Whenever I actually find someone that h…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:52 PM
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I think they rationalize the same women do. Men: "This girl isn't acting wifey but if i'm a good man and set a good example, she will become one. I hope so cuz I struggle to find someone else" Women: "This guy doesn't act husband material since he's a bad boy, but I'm a good woman and set a good example and marry him, he will become a good husband. I can fix him, at least I hope so cuz I struggle to find someone else I'm attracted to" It's rather similar
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:36 PM
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Not a requirement, but a strong preference in a world where they have Bumble and can set a height filter (very easy to filter for, vs say game), and there's no shame to hook up culture and women actively tell each other not to settle for less than what they want and always have got. The ability for women to find their preferences for casual sex (cuz relationships seem to be dying) has increased. It's still just a preference, not a requirement, and game/looks (non genetic)/money matters more. But…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 02:24 PM
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Ya it shocked me too. The young guy at work told me you had to. The ultimate dating profile, one with follower counts lol It all sounds so shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:19 PM
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I've had women do that to me . So ya I agree. Its happened. But hard to tell. Maybe if the sex was amazing he would be interested in her. Can't debate hypothetical well
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:58 PM
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I've had women do that to me . So ya I agree. Its happened. But hard to tell. Maybe if the sex was amazing he would be interested in her. Can't debate hypothetical well
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:28 PM
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Maybe I'm the outlier, but I've found most women bad at sex. Often it's to the point where I end it. I will call or end it in person tho, so not ghosting. But I didn't use them for sex, I just lost interest due to use wanting/giving different things. Are other men not similar? Hard to find someone good at sex of either gender, or even enthusiastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:15 PM
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This is what made TRP so annoying for a long time. ALl these guys giving advice, but all based on Pre data plan experience. It took them a long time to recognize the market was changing to new tech. I recently saw an EC advocate for geomax, interestingly enough. IDK if EC's words qualify for being TRP for the purposes of this subs debate tho or if it's only the sidebar written in 2012 we can debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:58 PM
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Ya can't tie money and ability to approach. Been abused too much. Even my girl has used men for dinner dates. So can't do it, too many bad actors. Thankfully she didn't with me, free first date. Buying a drink just to talk to a girl is weird. Buying a drink cuz you had a good convo for 30 mins and want to keep going? Seems fine to me. But I'm bad person to take advice from. Just thinking out loud
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 09:30 PM
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does cold approach work for you if the apps don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:46 PM
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more like a IOI. Which is recommended. Women do approach men, indirectly. If you don't think so, it's cuz I have bad news for you. Let her show you she wants you to approach her first. I heard olden times women dropped something to give the man an ability to pick it up for her. Not bad at all, I recommend it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:46 PM
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hell the biggest dating app is Instagram, and tehy don't even try to be a dating app. Truth is, people want dating apps, so they use the product. The apps don't control us, they just fill a demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:43 PM
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I remember approaching women being MUCH easier in high school pre Tinder. As soon as Tinder came out, dating became 10x harder if I remember correctly. Not complaining, stating my observations.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:42 PM
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but she's very attractive and smart, she said so herself, that makes it true*. *Contrary to her lived experiences
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/24 08:36 PM
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A perfect description of the problems with hookup culture. She can sleep with tall fit men but can't get the commitment from them but then she can't settle for less cuz hypergamy prevents her from doing so. She thinks she can get the top man. She struggles cuz that's biology. Women want the best genetics they KNOW and as soon as they have experiences with top men, they now know that. It's rough but the only solution really is virginity until marriage. Who knew, religion that lasted hundreds of y…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/01/24 03:38 PM
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If that is the terms she agrees to, it's fine. Voluntary transaction, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:03 PM
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The issues is the divorce laws are not set up to be transactional. You can't pre set child support, prenups can be thrown out for not being "fair", the process is full of BS and very expensive to go to court. If it was a simple sign a contract with these exit details it would be fine. It's not. You can't even control custody rights, lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 02:02 PM
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Yes, but without the sarcasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 05:01 PM
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Dude, I'm never selling my American healthcare stocks. Buy and hold for life. That and funeral homes and pet store stocks. Nothing but the easiest life time customer base. Investing with redpill knowledge lmao. Ya it's amazing. And society is already breaking due to all this changes no politician understands and can manage effectively. I'm 31, just started dating women in their 30s. Never been more motivated to not bother in my life lol.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/12/23 05:39 PM
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No no, there are virgin men out there who would want her. But she will NEVER want them. It's amazing, we have reels of 38 yo career women who state they prefer dying alone over setting for a man who makes less money than them. They have all this education, and success, and all this money, but it's not enough, and even dating a man that would increase their HHI by 80% is seen as below the bare minimum. Can't make this shit up!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/12/23 02:41 PM
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No, I encourage men to use steroids. Not so for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 08:40 PM
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Andrea Shaw It goes without saying, when talking about fit women and attraction, don't do steroids.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:54 PM
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cuz muscles do matter, but there's just so few fit women available they are basically unicorns. Very rare. So the competition is so weak that just being thin stands out already. ​ 70%+ of Americans are fat. Keep that in mind whenever talking about fitness. And there's less fit women than men. Further making it hard to talk about fit women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:53 PM
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It's ok, to me it's all BDE
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:29 PM
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As long as you also identify as 19 yo, then it's ok. It's 2023, you can identify as anything you want
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:23 PM
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That's manipulation! The horror Totally different when older men date young women. They, idk, do something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:22 PM
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Ok fair enough, ty
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:03 PM
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Ewww teenagers, that's gross. Adults only.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:56 PM
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Ok so age gap relationships bad, but age gap casual sex ok? Just trying to understand your views.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:53 PM
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So that would apply to all relationships with gross men right? Not just age gapped relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:17 PM
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I date men 10-20 years younger than myself. Do you like having someone less smart to mold?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:17 PM
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You right, let's mess up Cuba instead
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:49 PM
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If you don't move back to USA, she can't get a green card. Just gotta live in the third world bro, easy peezy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:39 PM
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You can't get a green card if you don't move back to USA. It's literally only love they would marry a guy for if he stays in her country. No green card available
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:18 PM
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Those aren't real passport bros. Those are mad men pretending. If he was really gonna leave, he wouldn't be mad. I'm not mad, life is so much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:17 PM
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oh ya, many men are telling men to live in 3rd world counttries forever, or don't bother doing it at all. Something about how her culture is vital to her happiness. She just won't be happy in a foreign country like USA vs her 3rd world homeland.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:10 PM
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No no, you see, she will love me for me. Not my money. Need some optimism my friend, life is easier that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:08 PM
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No, I appreciate him educating me about options abroad. It's a helpful service. TY OP for your hard work.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:08 PM
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to get them to accept to change their standards No, see by the time a man has enough money and work experience to move abroad, he's not trying to get women his age to lower their standards. Most likely he encourages them to be exactly who they want to be, and he'll just leave, without any anger or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:03 PM
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Women are being very reasonable. Sure USA is the richest country in the world, and 80% of men globally never make $40K USD. But all American men should just level up and become millionaires. It's not that hard guys, are you even trying? Of course, I'm not a millionaire, but I plan to be. Same same.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:01 PM
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Help me with this math problem. Top 20% of numbers between 1-10 are 8,9 and 10, right? Ok, so if we add 10 to every number between 1-10, the top 20% would be all the numbers right? Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:59 PM
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My thoughts and prayers are with them. I think they will find a wife, they just need to wait for the American women to fly over to marry them as well! Genius
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:57 PM
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The American special. Next up, Russia! Oh wait that was 1990s. Next up, Colombia! Oh shit no 80s. I know, INDIA!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:56 PM
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No no no, see she will love me for me, not my money. Sure I have money, but that's such a small small part of the relationship. It's cuz we have similar values, and she just finds me very attractive :D Need to be optimistic in life man, it's so much better that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:55 PM
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That's not what he REALLY meant, you need to read between the lines to TRULY understand his words. He's a kind and gentle soul.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:52 PM
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"Why won't the hot tall successful educated men with careers message me back on bumble? Like we matched, so obviously I'm hot enough for them. This is so weird, cuz when I was 24 getting dates with men on my 'level' was sooo easy. ALL men need to show women more respect and reply to me when I message you UGH"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/12/23 04:04 PM
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It's true, I agree with them. Just so happens only attractive women have interesting things to say, pure coincidence!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:56 PM
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Isn't it awesome seeing someone speak so confidently on something you know for a fact they are 100% wrong on? Just really puts into perspective every conversation you have on reddit might be with a person like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:48 PM
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Cuz they yearn to be oppressed. It's their kink
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 07:32 PM
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"I trust you"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 02:40 PM
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Yes, cuz I'm a decent guy. Cuz I have my life in order and do drugs responsibility, hold down a career, and care about sleep and not having a criminal record. So I'm boring, lame, dull, and I love it XD
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 11:38 PM
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I think having money as a man and being 35+, really helps with dating if you retire overseas. I haven't heard of a man struggling to date with money in a few countries overseas. Common are Colombia, Philippines, Thailand. So yes, if you are struggling in the west, just leave, you won't struggle overseas generally. Most women find most men unattractive anyway, and many American women want $300k+ salaries to marry you, vs $30k overseas.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 01:45 PM
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It's been more or less true in my life. I'm happy that yours is different. I'm 31 yo white guy in Canada, my life experiences are unique to me, and family and friends group.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 01:30 PM
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We are all young at heart
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 01:21 AM
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And birth control and abortion. They are all a factor. And somewhat economics,.we are poorer, but we aren't even having one kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 01:16 AM
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As a fit 5'7, guess my input isn't needed lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:57 PM
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Sure. No experience can be traumatic too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 10:08 AM
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Absolutely! Both genders are prone to bad choices. Look at how fat we are. We only get fatter with age. Bad choices, both genders. I'm fit and only make good choices as a guy but I'm the exception
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 10:33 PM
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Yes, and what age do they meet?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 10:32 PM
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Ok. I never met a older woman who met the standards. I'm talking about. Too rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 05:38 PM
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It's not in men's nature to cheat. I'm not a redpill man. See flair
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 05:36 PM
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Often men just date younger women to find less traumatized ones. Also go overseas.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 05:35 PM
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Women who have less baggage are harder to find. So many are traumatized by toxic situationships
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:34 PM
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I don't suggest married men cheat. Especially if the wife requestes monogamy. But idk ask the women who want a cheating Chad over faithful beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:28 PM
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Solid argument! Well guess we need to bring back arranged marriages for the price of a cow and two pigs then to not waste a girls youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:38 PM
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The older she is, the Longer the period to vet her is. So if she was 20, it is a much faster process, so less of her youth is "wasted". Btw I find the idea of saying a woman is "wasting" her youth distasteful.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:08 PM
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No, I think 27 is old for just meeting a girl and wanting 4 kids without decent risk of fertility issues, given the needed timeline to vet a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:56 PM
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Oh man I can't win with you. I painted a virgin good career, fit, thin loving woman, and you disregard her cuz she's 25. Lmao ok Maybe the women here that talk about men's crazy standards are right lol You married? Don't answer rhetorical question
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:16 PM
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I'm assuming the older woman personality comes perfect as is. She can be a virgin as well A unicorn yes, but I never said common lol. I'm sure one or two in the world exist
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:47 PM
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Basically. Modern dating is real hook ups with Chad during hot girl summers, or sleeping with sugar daddies to pay rent and tuition. Marriage is the last thing on mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:53 AM
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It's not. I'm a big supporter of virgin marriage even with modern divorce laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:52 AM
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They meet the girls at 24?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:50 AM
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Maybe that's due to their choices in life, not their age. A 26 yo without trauma, who is fit and thin, good education and career, good finances, loving and caring, is a great partner. Even better than the 18 yo.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:50 AM
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Maturity is a choice not an age. Past 18 of course ime. No, not everyone has unhealed trauma. You have to heal from it, or you probably are not ready for a relationship. I know I can't fix a girl. If she comes to me with unhealed trauma, it's a sign of immaturity
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:47 AM
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The flip side is true An older woman with no baggage, fit, thin, good career, caring, loving, is actually the best partner cuz she has had time to show you what she is as a person. 25+ is preferred. Just hard to find. Hence why many men have to date younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:45 AM
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Cuz they don't match them. Short women don't want short men. Fat women don't want fat men. Broke women don't want broke men. Etc Etc. What happened to feminism and equality? Can't find any BTW I'm 5'7 and dated 2 women taller than me, both had MASSIVE issues with it, and one dumped me for it, the other had a mental breakdown over it. Current girl I see is taller when she wears heels. Some short men have no problem with it, but ALL short men have a problem if you have a problem with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:29 PM
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There's no proving this. There's no test for "you have high standards", no peer reviewed studies showing this as a fact. It's just note sharing, and obviously you'll find people that say "well my notes say your notes are wrong"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:26 PM
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Yes. Most men can't be 6ft Chad's. Length lengthening is torture. The key to being a good beta bucks is having more money than your GFS friends bfs. The easiest way is moving overseas where you make more than the locals. It's about being relative Chad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:53 PM
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First step be better. Second step, avoid the toxic people. Third, put yourself out there and vet for their character principles values and goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:15 PM
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I agree, don't move somewhere where you won't be happy if you get no dates. I'm Canadian so the idea of no winter is nice even if I'm single in Philippines
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:55 PM
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No argument I don't meet the bare minimum and proud of it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:36 PM
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Have you thought about getting a remote job and moving to the Philippines? I heard dating as a older educated successful guy is much easier there than in USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:25 PM
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Ok confirmed, Stacy = bare minimum
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:46 PM
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they're only talking about stacies When 70%+ of the population is fat, what even is a stacey? Is a stacey a girl who runs once a week and eats healthy? Cuz that's a rarity despite being the bare minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:43 PM
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Ok, I can't relate to what it's like with autism. You sound like a good friend, I'm sorry you're having such a rough go of it. Social ques are hard to read even if NT.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:51 PM
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If you think about it, it makes sense. Evolution requires her to be entitled to the best genetics. And society requires her to give that entitlement up, just the same way that society requires men to give up their freedom and fight in a war for their family. Childless men without financial incentives don't fight, they walk away. Why die?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:37 PM
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No disrespect intended, are you a good friend? I admit probably most men would just want sex, but so few men wanted friendship? Is it lack of common interests?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 02:28 PM
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I think women are designed by nature to be picky to further evolution. Without that, how else do you think humans came out on top apex predator? It's why society was built on marriage which was founded by women remaining virgins, marrying a man, and never leaving him. Cuz society knew women wanted hook up culture with the top men, and the bottom men would destroy society. It also gives those bottom men a reason to fight in a war for their country other than money and war time privileges. Fightin…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 02:25 PM
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Survey's are also BS spouted within biased academia. I prefer counting things, like marriage rate, swipe data, avg age of first marriage. People just lie, Academia and TRP, all BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 11:17 PM
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You can't prove it cuz people just lie. You just look for signs. Are we dating the same guy, and West Elm Caleb are good signs. The increasing avg age of married, record low marriage rates, how annoying incel online are getting, what % women swipe left vs right on compared to men. Surveys don't tell you anything. Need to look at actions. Actions are telling us it's bad out there, but they don't say why. You have to guess at why.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 11:14 PM
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It took me a long time to realize some women don't like funny men, they just find hot men funny, and ugly men unfunny.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 03:02 AM
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A short description of the women would be appreciated. Age/location (region)/career/education. Requirements are one side of the coin.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 03:01 AM
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Just something I made up just now. Women have gaslight, denied, and said it's an outlier for them only being interested in select few men, for a long time. Now we have viral trends of it, and still told not to believe your eyes cuz it's 1984. “The Party told you to reject the evidence of your eyes and ears. It was their final, most essential command.”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 01:52 AM
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no incels content He who must not be named! Blue and red are wrong. Deduce the correct answer lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 11:31 PM
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That's the issue right? Women only want men significantly better than themselves, and men only want to be marginally better than the women. No one is happy lol. Look, I'm a decently fit guy. But if a girl tells me I need to be shredded, she needs to be at least thin herself or I just don't see the point of endless goal post moving.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 10:50 PM
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Fittest is very easy to determine, especially if I'm fit and lean with some abs, and she's obese. But sure, tell me I'm wrong. IDC, I'm not changing my mind, it's made up! I'm pretty sure that 200+lbs girl at 5'3 isn't doing 3 plate deadlifts for reps or doing 10 hrs in the gym a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 09:40 PM
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I never said attractive, but he will be more attractive, yet still unattractive. We know 80% of men will always be unattractive no matter what..it's just the degree of unattractiveness. A richer man will be less unattractive lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 09:13 PM
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This is wrong. I have one bitter friend who does very well with women. So it can't be the bitterness, must be something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 08:49 PM
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As a 31M I fully support and agree with your choice. It's actually what I plan to do as well. I'm not going to settle, instead I'll just go overseas and support someone who I enjoy spending my later years with. Why not? Much better than a bad marriage here. Cheers! Where do you think you want to go to?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 08:49 PM
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No, I'm not attracted to you, and I won't be until you fix yourself". Nothing wrong with that IF the girl made more money than me, were fitter than me, and split the bill at dinner. But when the girl that is fatter, poorer, and entitled says that, I don't have any motivation to improve for her as I already see myself as too good for her since I value fitness and a career, etc and I have more. That's the issue. Work harder for a prize, no a participation trophy (no offense intended)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 08:43 PM
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Ya, I like saying that "Women get hurt by Chad, and turn around and say all men are bad" When "Are we dating the same guy" FB groups and West Elm Caleb went viral in the last few years, it was just icing on the gaslighted denied and totally rare cake.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 08:41 PM
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LOL as a guy who has done a lot to get a relationship, often people will just then say "well you must have a bad personality and are a terrible person" Cuz no gf nullifies what friends think of your personality lol. And my mom XD
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 08:28 PM
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Same here, honesty would go a long way. Both blue pill and red pill lie to men. All during my 20s, I thought TRP was right that I failed at dating cuz I didn't lift enough, approach enough, dress better, and game better. So I did that, yet still never had a relationship. I noticed guys who were taller than me, dress worse, didn't approach as much, didn't lift, but were bad boys get the hottest girls with ease. If girls just told me "Hi Bot, you're great guy, but I'm in my hot girl summer right n…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 08:17 PM
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Ya actually. For a long time I thought I was a BAD person cuz I failed at dating. Even today SO MANY people say "Oh well you sound like a good person but cuz you struggled at dating you must have a terrible personality" Great, now I feel like a bad person despite my friends and family liking who I am. The gaslighting sucked. But now? I know I'm awesome and my life is MUCH better cuz of it. It's so freeing and relaxing knowing I tried, and I'm a good person, and it just didn't work out. Oh well, …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 08:08 PM
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I don't really differentiate between sex work lite and sex work. All the same to me. Why lie about one and not the other, I see no benefit. Plus the stories are consistent year over year, and in other areas, she's an honest person. Is anything 100%? Even gravity is a theory. She also admited to sleeping with 90+ people...so whore or not, it doesn't change much LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 03:18 PM
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I think all women are beautiful 10/10 queens, and they are healthy at any size It's just a coincidence that I date fit women under 25. It's not a preference or anything. Back to reality, you have to go overseas. Philippines has low obesity rates and high fertility rates and no divorce laws. It's like fishing, go to where the fish are, unless if your goal is to just drink beer while watching the line. USA (and kinda Canada) are great to make money. I can save 3 years of expenses overseas every ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 05:01 AM
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Ahahah not the prime numbers! This sub is the best comedy since I'm going to hell for this was banned.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/12/23 04:50 AM
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Yup, but I generally leave that part unsaid. "I prefer women 25+" is the same as "I like funny, kind, smart men" Both leave out the key part of "who is also hot". I'm just channeling my inner feminine energy lately :D Most women gain a lot of weight as they age, but if I said I prefer fit 30+ women, it's essentially an oxymoron based on probabilities. Sure they exist, but I'll probably end up finding a 22 yo girl who meets my standards first. After you understand women, their means of communicat…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 02:47 AM
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I do appreciate the tact that women seem to have moreso than men. We are too confrontational sometimes. I blame toxic masculinity lmao If you don't have something nice to say, don't
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 02:02 AM
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I don't think anyone spoke to her and called her a mid. Spoke of her, but not to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 01:53 AM
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I prefer women 25+ actually. 18 is too young to develop as a person. Things take time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 01:40 AM
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Lol men do the same. I've only dated below average women. I seek good personalities. Most men do. We call it don't stick your dick in crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 01:31 AM
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That's fair, you can assume the worst or best. Both exist. I know girls I wanted who are married and who are single and struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 12:47 AM
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This is where women finding most men as unattractive actually helps men. Since women find most men unattractive, becoming more unattractive doesn't hurt most men much. Going from a 3 to 2 or 1 is whatever if he went from $30K/yr to $100K/yr during that time. They just need to compensate with money status etc. but since men find most women ranking on a normal distribution, becoming less attractive actually hurts most women. Going from a 5 or 6 to a 2 or 1 is a BIG drop, and money isn't as importa…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 12:02 AM
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LOL what? Yes you can, everyone is born healthy weight and young. Just get married while you have that. That's so much easier than getting rich. You can't control height. Can't control age LOL in this context of dating, ya you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 12:00 AM
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The internet has voted her mid, need a new example /s Ya, some RPers are insane. But I do find it hilarious calling women average is seen as insulting, while we have stats showing women ranking most men as below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:58 PM
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Women over 30 on average have way more emotional baggage, are way more demanding, weigh more, are less pretty, want relationships to move too fast, and are coping very hard I prefer my women 25+, providing they have none of those traits. All 10% of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:55 PM
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In reality they go “who?! He went to school with us? Are you sure? Any case, I gotta pick up the kids and meet my husband at the park for soccer practice!” Outside of divorce and older men dating younger women (the ex wife being single), we have almost 1:1 gender ratios, so if a man is single, one woman is too. Unless you are poly, but poly and kids with both women is pretty rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:54 PM
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I actually prefer women 25+, so hard to argue why RP does. I prefer my woman to have 5+ yrs as an adult, working on her education, building her career, hitting the gym, eating healthy, building a solid group of friends, avoiding toxic people, and learning how to cook. Can't do all that at 18. So ya, 25+ women please, all 10% that qualify.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:51 PM
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I too like to build up men of straw and knock them down. Me so strong!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:45 PM
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Men too, I keep thinking if I give hot college girls lots of money for dates and fun times that eventually they will love me. It hasn't worked out yet, but I'm optimistic I'll find the right one before all the money is gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:42 PM
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Sure, define normal for me first tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 08:53 PM
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HOLY C$#@%( Ya...poor dude. She thinks cuz she's not asking for 5 star hotels in 10 different countries, that 3 star hotels in 3 countries is reasonable. While being 37+ when she met her husband...a school teacher.....no words.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/12/23 08:41 PM
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That's cool. It's harder to get into for sure. It does exist, and in anything the best make a lot. But the lower end is bleak.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 08:25 PM
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I never said male escort for women LOL I'm bi XD
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 08:17 PM
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I didn't say she was alone, she cleaned with other girls. She was never hurt or felt unsafe. She wasn't a street walker, THAT is a dangerous job in vancouver at the time. This wasn't it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 08:16 PM
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Literally me. And I'm awesome :D University degree, a career, fit. Dregs? How insulting
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 08:15 PM
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normal is being 170 lbs today for women. This girl was thin and fit. Gotta put in the work. And some genetic luck, she has a cute face. If you have some luck, put in hard work at the gym and kitchen, and don't mind lingerie modelling, ya back in the Dot com boom, life wasn't hard. There is MUCH less pay now for sex work today, our economy sucks now LOL but the competition is not there at all. Very few women in the gym working hard to be a naked maid lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 08:14 PM
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I looked into being a male escort. $100/hr IF you get business lmao. Men can't live off 10hrs of nude cleaning. If they could, sign me up! I want a side hustle lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 07:20 PM
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Cuz being a young healthy single woman is just better than most of anything else (excluding rich Chad top 1%). I'm seeing a older girl, when she was 19 she was paid STUPID money for being a naked maid. That's it, no pics or sex, just naked cleaning 10hrs/week and you can live in Vancouver high cost city easy. Modeling gigs for side cash easy. Some rich men even paid for private photo shoot again STUPID money like down payment on a house money. It wasn't even crude nude porn photos. Casual dating…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 05:09 PM
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Not if they are lying even to themselves. Many people in my life are doing that, living in denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 10:02 PM
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You don't have complete control. That's like telling a new grad applying to jobs where EVERY employer demands experience cuz it's a recession, is 100% in their control. I've been there, it's not, sometimes it's society/economy. The solution? Move, change economies.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 07:11 PM
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Funny, when it comes to simps, women generally ignore them and never date them. Yet somehow, a man who she would never sleep with his opinion of her affects how she acts with men that are not simps? Weird. I think the more likely explaination is: "I don't have to bring anything to the table for a great man, cuz I've dated* rich successful hot guys by just being me all during my early 20s" *dated meaning 3 months of great sex and nights out but nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 07:10 PM
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Ya people of both genders are delusional. Don't date them, staying single is better. As always, for men and women, pick better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 12:09 AM
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Cuz I want to get to know my girl. Nothing off limits, that's how I roll. And same from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 10:39 PM
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They love the idea of it, but not the reality that comes with it. As if no real thought has went into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 05:08 PM
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How do you disprove one of the genders? Lets say 100% of each gender believes in their respective opinion. Who is to say which one is wrong? Men: "Women say one thing and mean another" Women: "Ditto for men" I can say this, no woman has approached me, asking me to be a house husband for me to turn down. But I have approached many poor women looking for a homemaker. But how do you measure this? Surveys? See the above point about saying one thing. Everyone lies. Only thing I care about is actions,…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 05:05 PM
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Same. I tried it once with the girl I dated soon after. Immediately I could it was a no and stop. Just oblivious to how his looks impacted him . And ya, he eventually got a charge. Meanwhile I went to university and have a clean record lmao. I don't regret not getting the girls he did.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 07:36 PM
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You almost literally cannot argue half of the shit that comes up if you've ever been in love or had a semi healthy relationship even once. This is how I feel when talking to women I have no interest in dating. Like we can't relate at all, two very different experiences and desires. It's a universal problem. Endless debates that go no where. It's why I support echo chambers and a debate sub like this. You need to talk to people you relate to to further understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 07:23 PM
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When I asked my Chad friend how to get girls like hiim, he said, and I direct quote: "Just go for it man. Girls want to sleep with you. Ya they will put up resistance but just push forward past the no" Ya....LOL. Safe to say I am sexual assault accusation free.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 07:19 PM
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Lilth, all women are 10/10 boss babe Stacy's.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 06:36 PM
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This is it and can sum up A LOT of what men do. "Why do men do X?" "Cuz women sleep with men who do X" IME. Men try to compete and form hierarchies cuz it seems that women like them that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:32 PM
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oh ya, gold star lesbians they call it. (Some) Women are BRUTAL. It's why I recommend women to date women. Personal experience is AMAZING
/r/MensRights05/12/23 02:46 PM
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I miss the sub that use to take other people's quotas and frame it in 1938 Nazi Germany. Banger of a sub. God I hate censorship, I think they got shut down.
/r/MensRights05/12/23 02:42 PM
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I'm short at 5'7. Many women have told me it was a huge issue. Now I could get dates off OLD, but they were all obese women. I don't approach obese women in person. There's' the disconnect (just had to ask me what I thought was the reason, which technically you still haven't LOL guess you don't care about my own opinion of my own life?)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:25 PM
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Lol my mom says she loves my personality. Nice just world fallacy you got there. Cheers!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 01:50 PM
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I gained 60 lbs of muscle from 5x5 and testosterone. For 6+ years lifting. I was lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 01:24 PM
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I've approached 300+ women in my 20s.100% rejection rate. I don't approach any more cuz it's dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 12:18 PM
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Spending cash hard during a war with no regard about how it will continue in the future...and they have kids Hope those girls are open to working hard hours if their husband dies
/r/TheRedPill05/12/23 12:05 PM
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Yes for real. 0/300
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 11:23 PM
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That's why I love Tiktok. Finally you have a platform where young thin women can talk about their dating experiences, and you can go back and look at prior reels. You can get a sense of "Is she the kind of girl I would date?" unlike on Reddit where you have ZERO idea if what this person says matters to you since you would never date them. Type in "never had a boyfriend" into Tiktok and you can see the same girls having issues dating the same types of men, and they think if they pick a new man wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:36 PM
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LOL ty mods for not deleting these posts. Good insight to see what you deal with
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:33 PM
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Hey look. People agreeing on PPD. Not a common sight haha. Cheer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 06:12 PM
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IDK, we just need to codify in law that false accusations are ok for women to do. I think eventually with enough men's lives ruined, they will stop. Here is a great example, went to trial. Enjoy paying those well deserved legal bills men. Mark Pearson tried for sex crime after brushing past actress in Waterloo station | Daily Mail Online
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:58 PM
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AS a man who has cold approached hundreds of women, yes, I get the same success rate as hiding in my room XD.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:56 PM
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"If you want women, stop talking to those who don't give you signals to talk to them" Is more reasonable. Cold approaching is dead, and actually dangerous to men now. If you are a student, don't cold approach on campus. Same with work. And the gym now too. Just don't anywhere unless if the girl is eye fucking you. If you need to experience what that is like to identify it, try a trip to the philippines.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:56 PM
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First yup free country, do what you want. If someone said I prefer being single and I have no problems with that, then sure, have one sided standards. The issue is when they complain. I think the Internet is slowly understanding that many women are truly ok being single. TBH the marriage rate per 1k people only really tanked since 2017. The Internet is still very new to human social trends and analyzing them. Im not saying women should be as lean or as fit as men. But a 1:1 ratio of hours worked…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:53 PM
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Islam is the fastest growing religion in Canada. As a guy, I'll be fine. I wonder how women feel about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:44 PM
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boredom I bet. It's why I love Twitter, you know who you are talking to and if they have a reputation. Anonyamous has it's downside, and wasting your time is one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:47 PM
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OMG thank you! you're the first person I've seen made this argument, same as I do. Whether feminism is right or wrong doesn't matter if it's going to die out. But try telling them that, they just don't care. Why? Cuz they think they will be dead by then....as if screwing over other people's children is A OK :(. And yet society cares about climate change. It's so weird. It would be one thing to try to have below replacement fertiilty rates for a reason (Ex China 1 kid policy). But we have them an…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:46 PM
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And that's awesome, I love people having better standards. The issue I'm seeing is I find people are good at raising their standards for other people, but not on themselves. It's great to want a man who is fit and successful, but I'm seeing a lot of people who aren't fit and successful themselves. Same with height, they aren't tall themselves. I'd love to be able to tell men "Men, women are doing so amazing, they hit the gym 3 times a week, health a balanced diet, and paid off their student loan…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:40 PM
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male victims get to report/go to the doctor more often bc they don't live in fear of their partner, and a lot of the author saying stuff and then not providing the data to back it up. Source? I'd like some data to back it up
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:32 PM
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I have to agree. Don't date men not willing to work when the woman is working. The goal should be mutual relaxation time, not zero sum. It seems many young people struggle with this. Men don't even acknowledge the amount of work they put on women. I'm dating a married woman, and I literally get to see it first hand as a 3rd party. It's eye opening experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:30 PM
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Ya it's really telling. When I see myself as a trustworthy decent man, I always saw women go for the worst types of men...who were hot. Hot magically made him have a great personality, but when he dumps her, suddenly this hot guy being means turns into ALL men being mean. It's really weird being blamed for shit I never did, and being told it's my fault due to my bad personality cuz I noticed these things. Like anyone who notices, is a bad person. Even now, I'm not saying all women, some are grea…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:28 PM
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I think it was always adversarial. With women never being more empowered, having 2x more university degrees than men, young full time kid free women earning more than the same men, right to vote, #MeToo, numerous social programs, abortion one car ride away, birth control, we are seeing what women do when they can choose. All those old stories of old couples who stayed together but hated each other, dead bedrooms, the huge divorce rate as soon as no fault was passed, it's clear to me that some de…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:10 PM
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It's cuz of my personality, it's only 5'7/6' rating, and women aren't settling for the bare minimum anymore. Also don't be racist, admins will ban you. Mods are actually more chill than the admins I've found.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 02:26 AM
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In a bit of pain, doing my best. You make the day better tho, always making me laugh. Thanks buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:12 AM
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Meh, he makes me laugh. He's always consistently wrong, and it's funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:11 AM
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Oh hey ROB how u doing buddy, didn't see ur username at first but the insults helped.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 12:42 AM
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Yes, and when men do it in TRP called the anger phase, we get banned and censored. Who was trying to ban these men from emotionally maturing into better men? Ellen Pao was CEO at that time. I find it amazing. Whenever there's a man's group, women work very hard to invade it or shut it down by using excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 12:01 AM
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Oh for sure. Here in Canada it's legal to discriminate if the courts like you (they will say it's for correcting past wrongs) I've literally applied to numerous jobs saying "we prefer hiring women and minorities" I'm a white guy. At some points I've 'changed' my gender that day and applied as a woman. But took off my first name so wasn't as convincing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:38 PM
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I'm university educated, working on my masters, wear dress shirts and leather shoes to interviews, and even I have been rejected by numerous minimum wage jobs in my field of accounting. The job market is crazy sometimes when you have no experience. Now I'm set. And in an amazing job I was able to do fast and easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:19 PM
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Wow, I can't believe you just insulted her. I have nothing left to say to you. Feel free to block me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:16 PM
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Looks don't matter. Im just as into old grannies as I am into women in their 20s. Just so happens by coincidence all the girls I've dated were in there 20s. Personality matters most, needs to be a 6'/6' personality or you will struggle at dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:15 PM
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My mom says I am very pleasant. Are you calling my mama a liar?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:11 PM
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Yup, all my time goes to productive pursuits now. Doing a masters, gonna switch companies after, build my career more. I might have to move to a country where women approach me. And that's ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:10 PM
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If I wasn't taxed so much, I'd agree. Cut my taxes 50% and I'd be so happy just being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:20 PM
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I think your first 3 would do 90% of the job. I agree. But society will never do it, so we will continue to import a specific religion that has high fertility rates. It's hiliarous, gov'ts have made welfare a ponzi scheme, taxed and regulated people's ability to have kids away, then went to high fertitilty countries to import their youth, and we think their culture won't come with it. Naming a country or religion gets you banned by admins
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:19 PM
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how can we say it's true if it's CMV?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:00 PM
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As a man in my 30s, I have appreaciated how my sex drive has decreased. A warm breeze use to make me hard. Now I actively have to be encouraged to want it. IDK why women want to delay marriage until they start dating men in their 30s, my sex drive has decreased allowing me to massively increase my standards in who I date. Honestly, I doubt I'd ever get married in the West.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:59 PM
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Ya same with the women. Everyone is similar. When I look at everyone around me, I'm shocked any one has kids today.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:56 PM
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Sex is such a small part of dating.Dating is seeking a partner in life, someone to love, to hold, to emotionally support you during the hard times, and celebrate with you during the good times. Dating is to build a family with someone, and encourage each other to be the best person they can be. At least that's how I seen it, but as a guy who has never had a serious monogamous relationship leading to marriage and kids, what do I know XD It does seem most people agree with you, hence why the marri…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:55 PM
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I've seen it. He just had to be really: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NHHEcmZtJvY Good thing all men are 10/10 kings
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:51 PM
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My dating life became easier when I stopped approaching women, and starting waiting for women to approach me. Any day now...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:50 PM
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He hasn't. If a great woman wants him, she can ask him out. He stopped trying to get her, but she can keep trying to get him. If a man has asked out hundreds of girls and always gotten rejected, I'd suggest to him to stop, and let women ask him out as he focuses on himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:48 PM
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You are miss understanding her. That hot 6' jacked bad boy has a great personality.That 5'6 asian man studying in the library is mean and has a bad personality. It's 100% true (in her words). For me it's the same thing with single women over 30, they just have bad personalities. The world is just and everyone gets what they deserve :D.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:46 PM
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offset your personality Yes I have to agree with you. Anyone that struggles with dating, probably has an issue with their personality. If you are a young man struggling, personality. If you are a woman over 40, personality. Me? My personality is very 5'7 sadly :( I need to level it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:44 PM
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no, I'm pro discrimination. Mostly cuz Canada has made it legal to discriminate against men, but not women. I prefer consistency.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:42 PM
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This isn't true. Filipina women love hard working educated successful wealthy white Western men. Go over there and find out for yourself. Billions of women in the world, they love men like you. Western women? Ya they don't want you, stop wasting your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:38 PM
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No stay on the drugs, just it's a next for some men. It can't work ever. That's fine. It's like attraction, if it's not working, just walk away. Nothing you can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 12:19 PM
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Ya this is what they don't get. Every guy they date wants submission (exaggerated) cuz every guy they date is better than them. It cuz men are better, but cuz women only date better. It's just their definition of better is weird. He could be a drug dealer, but 6' and hot, so very top tier guy if you want a bad boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 12:13 PM
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What qualifies the man? Well women demand men to be better than themselves, that's why he needs obedience. If I need to be stronger, smarter, richer, more successful, then I need to lead and she needs to follow. But hey I'm down for equality, get on my level and we can have collaboration. I clear 100k, I want her to as well. Also hit the gym often lifting and running, she needs to as well. Equality is awesome and preferred actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:36 AM
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Yup, and it's working. Crazy, in the world of the Internet, we still have people choosing religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 10:17 PM
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Spinsters have always existed. You never had to marry. Slavery has been illegal for centuries
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:28 PM
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Islam is the fastest growing religion
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:27 PM
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I graduated highschool in 2009. Not only was there no trades jobs, I couldn't even get a zero pay coop job in a trade. I lived in a trades town. I couldn't give away my labour. So I became an accountant, Solid choice! Very happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:27 PM
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I can afford that on a accountant income in Canada. A 3 bdrm apartment is about 50% of my salary. Then take bus to work, cook at home, and no car or trips. And feed two kids vegetarian meals. Most of the world actually less on less. The issue is if I wanted to own a house and if I wanted to pay for kids education, or pay for retirement. And finding a wife who wants that. Most don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:24 PM
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8 balls are the best. Even have an app now, but I'm old school hard shaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 09:34 PM
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We don't have a crystal ball That is a phrase I have heard many men say to women. LOL how it's flipped
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:28 PM
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everything is a fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:10 PM
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May I ask what life event is the cut off? Is it graduate university and a year out of school? What about college and a year? What is the magic about 23?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 01:32 AM
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Exactly, I have to agree with the cats, even if I don't understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:41 PM
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I don't think dating a felon makes you a bad person, but yes huge red flag. It's not ignored. It's mocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:39 PM
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did they say it was JUST?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 08:35 PM
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Are the men saying the women are shitty, or that they have shitty taste in men? I personally, don't insult women, I just question their tastes in men. But is that not the norm? Just today I saw a tweet from a nurse dating a felon. She's a hard working girl so she's fine, him? LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 08:34 PM
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No it's not hilarious, cuz I didn't laugh. What CMV is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 08:31 PM
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Sorry, where did I say most?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:52 AM
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Small farm town, but poor but blue collar. No crime
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:30 PM
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I would, cuz women do. I've seen girls choose to have a kid with hot bad boys, then never have to work. Sure, it's poverty, but they chose it, so it's success by their decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:10 PM
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I heard Chad is happiest of all. Happiness inequality is crazy, someone get Elizabeth Warren to fix Big Happy!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:09 PM
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When she's on my level. I'm a feminist and believe in equality XD. Or she has a history of making good decisions, or at least a history of not making bad ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:05 PM
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Anything without a feminist studies research paper supporting is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:38 PM
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Ya what you had to do in university is no joke, time to party? How about time to sleep lol. But ya you don't go from dating those men, to dating career men who are good fathers without massive issues. And my sister is finding out it's hard to date 'boring'* men *Defined as anyone who doesn't do cocaine lol But the money and lack of kids is a positive for us educated men (I'm accounting so less $ ha).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 06:32 PM
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That's the issue with men and women communication. Men say hvm is a good father, hard worker, a role model. And women say the men my sister's are dating are hvm by dating them. It's confusing as hell. Of course when my sister's divorced those men, the type of guy they now deemed HVM is a good hard working man with money lmao. It's all so contextual that if you don't know the woman personally, it makes communication impossible, cuz definitions of words don't match. I've heard women call men who m…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:19 PM
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Ya that's life for hundreds of millions of people in the world. The world is rough outside USA and western countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:15 PM
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Fake news.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:14 PM
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Ok 1 kid in 1 bdrm is fine. I was being extreme sure. Ya I've noticed broke college girls don't want to date fellow broke college men. But professional women in their 30s want to date fellow men on their level. It's all about age range. I made 100k in my 20s sure, but that's rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 04:46 PM
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Actually I change my mind. Her moving for a career, and you not ready to leave family, is a good reason. Ty
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 04:42 PM
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He sounds bad at vetting in a LTR. Those are problems sub 6 mths should be identified
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 04:39 PM
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I can describe what I saw. Sarah, my older sister (43 now), when in high school was a gorgeous woman. She loved to party, so went after Shawn who had rich parents, dropped out of highschool (she did too), did hard core drugs, criminal record, partied, was tall, bad boy thug type, but ya he was 'fun'. When my sister got pregnant, she actually got a job, went for her GED, then got her PSW course, and became a hard working educated woman and a good mom. Props to her. The father? Ya he didn't change…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 04:38 PM
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Yes, that's actually my experience after I graduated with BBA in accounting. I got rejected for a couple years before covid boom meant I got hired, But I was applying to jobs across the world, I changed my city, and I got work. You never moved to a city to be closer to jobs when applying in competitive market? Employers want people to start TOMORROW not 60 days notice you need to give your landlord to move. Now I have a great job, and they are paying me to do my CPA, and I'm quite happy, cuz I m…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 03:48 PM
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You still failed Ok I'm confused then.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 03:45 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 03:44 PM
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Shit I'm all for personal accountability, but blaming the person cheated on is a new level for me. Not against it, but DAMN harsh.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 03:43 PM
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Ya, also I wouldn't date someone with any bad relationship experience, such a ick! Just pick better men, find a wife first go or it's a hard pass for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 03:40 PM
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Saying 'didn't work out' seems like hand waving the problem. Women want men with serious relatioship experience where it didn't just so happen end randomly. You need a good reason IF she asks. Sure I like your advice, say it didn't work out, and if asked, she cheated.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 03:39 PM
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The best is when a man goes viral against his will. West Elm Caleb lost his job cuz all the women complained about 'men' (ie this one man they were all dating), and he went viral. He didn't even post any content, not reels from him at all. I want to go find those girls who complained about Caleb, and see if they have any reels complaining about "all men" cuz all men are the same....in their experience, totally not related to personal selection bias. But if I mention west elm Caleb, and lack of g…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 03:36 PM
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How dare you! ARe you saying she wants to justify what she already wants to do anyway? Ya that's accurate. It's ilke a man saying he will only date young women cuz if a woman is older there's a reason she's single, without taking the time to figure out why (maybe she had health issues before). If you want to do something, it's easy to find justification to do it, it just will be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 03:25 PM
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This is actually very reasonable. And doesn't come across as circular logic of "Women should chase men who do well with women, cuz they do well with women". It's like employers demanding experience for entry level jobs with entry level pay LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 03:19 PM
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The biggest problem with reddit is...I can't see who I'm talking to. I swear, I wouldn't even listen to 25% of commentors if there was a face attached to everyone's profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 03:17 PM
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"women should keep 'dating' the same players they always have, cuz anyone who isn't able to fuck numerous women is obviously cuz they are a bad person, cuz women are the ultimate test in a man's life and the sole decider of value as a person" Genius!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 03:16 PM
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See, appealing to reason isn't proof to them, it won't work. Unless you have some scientific study, they just disregard it. And if that study is ran from a woman studies prof, well expect the results to confirm their beliefs. It's never enough, like debating capitalism vs communism, they always support commies no matter how many people have died.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 03:08 PM
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Who knows, gotta try different things and find out. Maybe culture change is needed for him to succeed. I do suggest the gym and building a career also. This advice is unisex btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 03:01 PM
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Oh. Well then that's awesome, glad those choices helped you find your person! It's what I assumed would be the case for women that struggled, but again, you're the only person that answered that question when I read a girl struggled (one actually did answer saying they did nothing, but most just ignored it). Ya USA, I'm Canadian, kinda close.cultures so I can understand the environment more.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 12:42 PM
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Isn't it interesting to see how people progress over time? I get to see the men my sister's dated as they have divorced and gotten older. Hugely different from the men they chased when in their 20s. I think learning from watching is underrated. Those are interesting tests. Honesty based on eating habits, I rule out most obese women. I can't eat grease as a fitness nut. But ya good point about weight loss and her leaving, but divorce is high, and I doubt it's all from weight loss, so it seems she…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:58 AM
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Same answer. Now if she moved to Alaska, or him to Philippines and it was the same. It's now only him. It's why I recommend men to fly to Philippines and try dating to see how location matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:51 AM
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Exactly. Dating isn't a meritocracy where equal goes for equal. If so, dating as a guy would be child's play easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:50 AM
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Ty for the answer. So how did that work for you? And mind if I ask where you live for context? You're honestly the first who has replied to that type of question.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:49 AM
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The location he is in. The culture there. And him. Correlation ok, now what's the causation? Hmm
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 03:54 AM
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Ya they aren't great choices, naturally a wife and family is best. But being a sugar daddy makes it easier to focus on your mission in life. You can just end the relationship and pick a new one whenever you want, abundance is innate to the it due to $. Giving you free time to focus on your goals when you want, and when you want to have fun, it's 100x easier than doing it the traditional hook up way. It will be interesting to see how it plays out if it takes off. Honesty, I feel for the educated …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 03:51 AM
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Oh ya, don't purchase women, that's human trafficking and bad. I personally want an educated woman, I have a bachelor's and working on my masters, id prefer my Filipina wife to have at least a college diploma.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 02:43 AM
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No no, they are strong and independent women also. They just live in a different country. Why are you shaming these women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 02:33 AM
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That's brutal. Saving that comment, good to note Ya, it's always amusing looking at the life of the people insulting you. Really helps reaffirm your own life choices ha.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 11:33 PM
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I do feel sorry for you, being trad is attacked often. I'm often told feminism was about giving women choice, but yet one choice gets insulted, it frustrates me and I'm a guy. What's the worst insult you had for it? Girl I'm seeing gets called pick me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 11:22 PM
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Ya actually. No, not low income, im working on my masters, got a good job paying for the degree too. and have decent investment income. I'm Canadian so, ya high cost of living lol. Low tier city, a decent four bdrm house is $1m CAD and my income is $150k CAD. It's crazy here but I could buy a very old house further from work for $650k. I don't use my income to try to get women directly. Sure I mention my job and education, but I'm not buying a new BMW in cash to try to get a wife, I'm looking fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 11:19 PM
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I would wear the most outrageous dumb stuff if I didn't worry about losing my job. I feel it has a different affect if a woman wears this quote tho. Gonna find one for the guys that fits
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 10:06 PM
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Isn't grandpa dead or married? Or we talking divorced? He ain't rich after divorce lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 10:05 PM
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Cuz I see it. I see my sister who chased bad boys now having to settle for a man she has no attraction to cuz she doesn't want to be lonely. It's been 5 years, I haven't even seen them kiss. Cuz I have seen the women I have grown up with make terrible decisions, and end up alone, or it terrible relationships cuz they can't leave cuz of their prior bad decisions. I'm not celebrating it, but I am being happy I was right. How was I right? Cuz when I was a teen growing up with these girls, they reje…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 10:01 PM
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I work with one. Industry, she's the finance director, been with the SP500 company since college days and she's retiring soon. Good boss. But ya this company is easy to work for. Rarely over 40 hr weeks except for budgets. WFH any day. Good pay for the job. But I hear you, it's very commonly said here to focus on WLB. If I worked in public accounting, I doubt many women would want the 80 work weeks for months on end a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:52 PM
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"Hippity hoppity, women are property " tate By making it rhyme he is able to influence young boys more effectively. Dangerous man
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:35 PM
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Funny enough, I blame the patriarchy XD No seriously, I was raised being told women value relationships and family more than men. Clearly it's not the case as more and more women are deciding to stay single. Men haven't changed massively. If anything, women have changed with feminism, there's been no large scale men-ist movement LOL causing men to change. And it seems women are using their new found economic freedom to walk away from men. It does go against how I was raised and condiitioned by s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:30 PM
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Should that be shamed? I don't get it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:22 PM
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I do, can see my comment above.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:24 PM
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I would like this life plan, meet a girl at 25, date two years, engaged a year, married for a year, trying for baby #1 for a year, pregnancy for a year(ish), repeat until baby #3. That means no getting pregnant at 35 and the potential struggles with it. This seems like a reasonable life plan. So I can see why they say 25. Now if you are religious where it's dating for 6 months, married by 1 year, and immediately into baby making, and just want 2 kids, ya I'd say 30 is just fine! Not my style
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:24 PM
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She can just date other widows! Modern solutions
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:13 PM
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I have to agree, to some coping mechanisms for men to feel like women will regret not marrying them in their 20s. Women are beautiful at any age. Men shouldn't shame women for being over 30 and single, and women shouldn't shame men for going to Philippines to find 26 yo wives. All life choices are valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:13 PM
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"Ladies, you can't date your Chad bot, men are ending up single the horror! AHAHAHA" LOL futurama, we can all date robots. Short the stock market cuz there gonna be no new customers in 20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:06 PM
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If you struggle with dating women, it's not due to any preference women tend to have but cuz of your personality* *a totally unfalsifiable claim, awesome Ya there's really never any proving this stuff. It's like capitalism vs communism. Even if commie's killed 100M people, people still say it's better. At some point you have to pick what you think is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:52 PM
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You're the business owner, if you think there is a profitable business go for it and prove it. But that series of logic of "why not both?" applies to well everything. Sure go make everything. The only issue is it might not be profitable if not enough demand. Are you cash flow positive? Decent IRR? Wait, you used your personal reddit account to post about your business? Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:45 PM
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Ya. I usually do a small test. Tiny small suggestion as to how to get better outcomes. If poorly received, I make a mental note to let her self reflection by herself instead of having someone to bounce thoughts off of. I remember one girl who was great at analyzing my behaviors, and giving critical and justified insight on other points of view. Amazing smart girl, working at a nuclear plant as an engineer. When I made a small statement about her, instead of the accepting and thought provoking pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:00 PM
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Ya very short sighted. So much more. Finances, education, values, health, emotional support. So many people see dating as just sex. Men and women, men with the TRP players and women on hot girl summers. Which I get, it's hard to find a genuine partner to support and love you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:42 PM
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Your welcome. I guess the men who want a marriage to an equal partner. But who cares about them blah!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:27 PM
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I struggle to. Apparently making $100k isn't enough nowadays for average income women. 50/50 is seen as heresy lol. I grew up as a feminist so i love equality. It's not that women aren't choosing poverty, it's that they hold men to higher standards than themselves, then blame men for not meeting those standards. Like income. I've never dated a woman who made more money (or equal!) than me, and that's not from me selecting for it, that was women choosing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:58 PM
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As a fit guy, obese women like dating guys like me. Like doesn't go for like. This assumes there was even an equal ratio of fat and fit men and women. There isn't lol. For example, there isn't an equal amount of educated men and women. There's more women. So saying educated women date educated men is wrong, as there isn't enough men, they all literally can't do that. Tell those master degree women that like attracts like as they struggle to find educated men. Lol. If there isn't equal educated m…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:56 PM
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That's literally the definition of hypergamy, choosing to be single if you can't get better, and more women are choosing to be single. And imho, leaving men to have to be single (cuz more or less equal gender ratio). Women not settling for men who don't make more $ and staying single is hypergamy. Yes it's code for women have standards and are raising them. It's easy to have one word to explain this. I don't think we disagree, it seems semantics really. If women demand men make more money than t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:52 PM
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They are, but only on their lunch break ha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:26 PM
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This is assuming life is a meritocracy. Do you really believe that? Come on. How many fat people want to only date fat people? Hypergamy is literally saying "dating isn't meritocracy, men need to be better" The genders are different, one may be more dysfunctional, just like one is taller and stronger. Just like one makes more money than the other. Now if you are talking about gay dating, maybe. Even then there are masc's and fem's. Not equal. What happened to opposites attract? Never true?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:24 PM
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Have you tried being attractive? I also haven't :(
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:19 PM
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To add to this, I have never talked to a woman in person or online who has struggled with dating and done the work similar to men in TRP. When I struggled at dating, I hit the gym and ate healthy, put on 60 lbs of muscle, approached hundreds of women, dressed better, graduated uni with honours, saved and invested, worked hard, built my friends groups, and overall became a decent man I wanted to be. I never heard from a girl who has done that and struggled with dating. Especially the eating healt…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:15 PM
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Oh I agree too. If the culture didn't allow me to build a family, I'm not risking my life for it. I'd rather rebuild from the rubble. I kinda blame nukes. They made armies less important and thus individual men less important. And cheap debt, it made the taxes paid by men less valuable. Honesty the future looks bleak for the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:04 PM
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One. Not an incel. Two, a few girls actually did reject me earlier and tried to settle for me. Naturally I passed
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 10:03 AM
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It's about being rejected by that girl earlier. It's actually happened to me, a few girls who rejected me earlier wanted me later in life. I wasn't the hot girl summer guy, but I'm the settle down guy . Honesty my standards increase for women as they age, I want to see personal growth like I did during my 20s. Those girls didn't have it. A 30 yo woman who worked on herself, studied, hit the gym, ate well, is healthy across the board, paid off debt and saved, is actually more desirable than a you…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 10:01 AM
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Not fully wrong, he did hit on some freshmen girls at one point he refused to date any more. But even older women wanted him. One was his fiance (idk how they broke up but she deserved better). Beautiful kind woman university grad working as chemical engineer at Energizer. He was 19 and she was 22. Idk how, I literally asked her why you with Ryan. She even agreed to his proposal to my shock. I went to university and lost touch with him. Years later found out he's hard deep into meth, I didn't ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:31 AM
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He had to get a GED I think he took 6 years lol. I stayed a fifth year for co-op before deciding on university.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:20 AM
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A man who expresses standards Reddit: "you're insecure and can't handle a real woman" Ya, there's just so much BS surrounding dating advice. I think men having a men's only group uncensored is helpful, and PPD is good to add counter balance But the former is now banned off reddit lol. And X is not good at communication long forum yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:11 AM
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6/10. It's much less good verse 2016 OG TRP. And it bans black pill so is an echo chamber. Also it caters to ECs even if they are wildly off track. But there isn't a better alternative. Example I found as a 5'7 guy who put on 60 lbs of muscle, the gym does nothing for your dating life, despite it being rule one of TRP. But talking about it is banned in TRP, they don't allow 'defeatist' talk. Saying that game only works if she's attracted to you, is also banned. But if you are avg height or talle…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:07 AM
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r/TheRedPill
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:40 AM
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IT's the damn patriarchy at it again. Down with the patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:32 AM
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Ok so billions of people live worse than that. And they still have kids. Sure, I can afford 3 bdrm apartment for 4 kids, but it be tight and the wife would probably need to work when kids in school. But I'm ok living in poverty if it means I have a caring wife and lovely kids. Many women don't want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:09 AM
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Ya people believe in pure freedom, but it doesn't exist except for a short period of time. Sure you can have freedom, and women in the west do, but if you stop having kids, either you shut down immigration, or your culture will die out in a democracy. Same with men, they can have freedom, but if no one fights in a war, your culture dies out. It's something me as a libertarian struggle with, at what point do you take away freedom to preserve your culture. Do you let Hitler win or implement a draf…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:55 PM
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I should have injected growth hormone when I turned 5. I was caught slacking! Maybe as a fetus XD
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:59 PM
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Ty for the perspective. I think the mindset of "make a good honest effort and be reasonable" is something that can apply to more topics we discuss. Too often it's black and white painted by people. Ya drastic changes are wild. Like that one fat celebrity who wanted his life guard girlfriend to stop posting bikini pics...what did he expect when it's related to her job. Like telling a porn star to only do girl on girl scenes (could you imagine?)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:58 PM
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I'm in accounting tyvm. Not a millionaire, but I'm well off. 5'7 so 2" below the 5'9 avg. I'm with a girl now, mutual attraction, it's complicated (married poly girl, no kids/marriage in the future, eventually I'm moving countries). Ya I grew up in a small farm town. Girls have kids early and often there, like it's a career cuz they get paid lol. You don't have to believe it, I'm typing for the men who do
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:49 PM
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Jenna and Shay off the top of my head. Allisa gets less as she lost custody but use to get 2/3rsd of that, she never had to work. But hey cool, didn't happen cuz you disagree LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:42 PM
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Well he did buy lots of drugs to have fun with, she was a party girl, who became clean cuz pregnant, which fair, and turned out to be a great mom. The issue is often the man doesn't, as it seems men are less likely to change with knocking up a girl. I think the bonding experience of pregnancy is a big reason why. Men aren't even sure of paternity lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:40 PM
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so? Cut the programs anyway. Make everyone strong independent queens/kings and not need no (tax paying) man/woman! But i'm actually for a $1k/mth UBI. It's much smaller than a lot of people receive. Here in canada I know a few women getting $40K/yr from the gov't for 5 kids they have. Ya, cut that by 66% minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:09 PM
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Clearly not a big enough red flag to many women. It's hard, especially without a good father raising you, which she had :/
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:56 PM
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Oh ok, the onus is the man tries to vet her reasonably well in a reasonable amount of time, while being honest. Quite subjective but I understand. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:53 PM
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From what I've seen in my life, women go after deadbeat men, and turn them into fathers, and the men continue to be deadbeats. No one fucked over the woman, he continued to be exactly what he always was, not a father. No victim status that I saw. Hence prefer cutting social programs. She's strong and independent and doesn't need a man anyway, she can get by just fine without help.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:52 PM
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just dating would be nice. No sex needed in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:50 PM
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I chose both. Seems like being a sugar daddy is better than finding a woman who hit 30 and would otherwise reject you when she was 22. Seems that with divorce rates at 50%~, that it's a risky bet I otherwise don't want. TRP preaches finding your mission as a man. Find a purpose, outside of family and women. It's hard, I haven't found it, but worth trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:49 PM
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Oh cool, I don't hear from many women like you who struggled at dating. I did as a guy. So I hit the gym, put on 60 lbs of muscle, and approached hundreds of girls. May I ask what steps you implemented to do better at dating? Always good to hear the other side Edit: no response is typical, every time lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:47 PM
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I saw a 4chan meme of greentext, question was: "Why should I support a country where I can't get any pussy?" Crude, but I understand the frustration. If a family (not just sex lol), is something you value highly and society is structured in a way that prevented you from getting it, why fight a war? You wouldn't. Now we have nukes to stop most wars, so the real threat is economic. Lots of gov't debt is based on future tax base being productive. What if it's not? $31T debt at 5% is 40% of tax reve…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:44 PM
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Sweden says: No this man is wrong, everything is fine! LOL, eventually we find out who is right. Either a society can function with a lot of sexless frustrated young men with nothing to lose, or it can't. Sure we can look to history to have an idea, but that's totally different cuz now we have...911! Checkmate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:39 PM
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The obvious solution is to cut social programs. Any man that wants gov't gfs is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:37 PM
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This is correct. THe only real solution I can see with many women chosing to avoid men, is to cut these social programs so that women (and men who use them) are 100% independent. If you are independent and don't need a partner, then go without social programs. Otherwise it feels mean :'( to be ignored and be used financially through taxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:36 PM
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No I agree with him. It's my fault I'm short. Height is something highly desired by young women in their hot girl summer. I should have moved to a country where I'm taller if I wanted to do well. Thankfully at 31, I'm on a solid path to moving to a better country. Fixing my mistakes. I think it's the only way men can do better, 100% self accountability no matter what. Haven't seen other options be successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:33 PM
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I assume you mean when he promised to be monogamous? Seems bad on his part, just state you refuse exclusivity. Be honest about your intentions men!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:31 PM
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Hi, I fit that target market. By working hard, lifting, studying, saving, investing, building your career and net worth, and retiring to Philippines or getting a remote job and leaving. Young men aren't desired much in the West, many are single and don't want to be. So move to where you are desired. I think a poorer, high fertility rate, low obesity rate, easy visa country like Philippines that has no divorce laws, and have a positive view on white men (me) who can provide for a family (also me)…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:30 PM
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To clarify, is it ok to ask a girl to change, as long as it's not expecting nor demanding her to do so? At what point is your advice saying find someone 100% exactly what you want. Where's the line? Generally, I agree. If I date a girl, and I realize she has certain traits about her that I don't want my future wife to have, I should express my preference, not demand it, and if she says no, walk away politely. Is this wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:02 PM
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I see it with my friends and family. When I was struggling to get girls I found TRP and befriended a guy who did well with women. Then I started to watch, and compare notes on TRP. And noticed a trend. I listened to my sisters talk about men. Ya they do share cuz we are family. I also listened to my Chad bad boy friend, he like to brag, and it was easy to brag to me cuz I didn't have a gf most of high school. What is a bady boy? I can describe Ryan. He banged 20 attractive women during the 5 yea…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:56 PM
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I have a few questions for you, first: How dare you? Second: It's really hard to tell who would make a good partner. My sister chased after a trust fund kid drug addict who dropped out of highschool and never had a job. He could be just as good of a boy friend as the kid studying in the library, working PT at the gas station, and never broke the law before. It truly is a coin flip, you can't tell a book by it's cover. You shouldn't blame her for ending up a single mom, she didn't deserve it. Act…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:45 PM
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It's what they chose, they prefer it. Many times, friends and family, I've seen women chose the hot bad boy who treats them badly, over the nice guy when they are young and childless. They do it cuz they value what that man brings more than other men. Generally looks and fun times. Sure they get use to bad treatment, but they also get use to amazingly hot sex, the thing they went for him for in the first place. Everything has trade offs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:38 PM
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What specifically about climate change worries you? It seems to me to only screw the poor in hot countries. Are you in a poor hot country? I'm well off in Canada, I'm not worried personally. Cost of living is pretty stupid if you want a big family cuz house prices. One kid seems very manageable if you find a well off husband and willing to live frugally. Ya pregnancy is huge toll on women. Huge respect to those who do it. That is my male privilege I admit. Surprised this is last. Is it the cosme…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:18 PM
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They can benefit from going into the adoption system, which I support giving more Money to them. Just not parents. Lol wtf? No I'm against supporting adult men too. I'm not a hypocrite lmao. No, all children go to adoption system if parents can't afford them. Boys and girls, I tear families apart regardless of gender (/s).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:48 PM
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I did, didn't find any. Guess it doesn't exist
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:39 PM
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In many ways I agree and understand that. Which reasons are stopping you specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:22 PM
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I'm actually a compromising man. I'm ok with UBI for the amount to rent a bed (not room), eat rice and beans, cloth yourself, and get a buss pass, and small amount of misc spending. But nothing more, and nothing for having kids. One check, every adult citizen receives for about $1k~/mth. If you have a kid and can't afford it, give up for adoption. No homeless, no starving. But ya if you get sick you don't get care. I can compromise and give care to kids in the adoption system. Otherwise parents …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:58 PM
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Do you have better data that shows peoples actions and not their words? Non surveys please, just statistics. People lie a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:39 PM
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Ya saying you can see a bunch of 30 yo + men with women who are that old doesn't really matter much to a guy who wants to date young and not spend his 20s alone and pissed off at dating scene. And when I look at healthy young women, they tend to date high quality men, usually very attractive and tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:36 PM
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Dating apps is actually the best data you can get. It's shows peoples actions, and doesn't rely on their words. A survey of people's body counts relies on them being honest LOL fat chance. I trust swipe data more than anything. How else do you get good data of people's actions in a large population?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:33 PM
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A guy like me only has gotten dates from Tinder. Of the 300+ approaches to women, I was rejected 100% of the time. I have nothing else to draw on outside my tinder dates and what I see other people do like my family and friends. I'm not terminally online as I have approached a lot, but I do draw on my tinder experiences a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:31 PM
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That's common place, women are no longer putting family over lifestyle, that's fine that's your choice. And men like me are planning to go overseas, where I can find a girl who was raised in poverty and doesn't prioritize middle class lifestyle or more over family. Both choices are valid and fine. It's a free country. I think poverty builds character so ya I see the honour.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:26 PM
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I don't want to opt out, I want to end the programs. How is that not clear? End SNAP end Medicare and Medicaid, end section 8. Not opt out, eliminate the program. Is that clear enough? I'm not sure how much easier I can make this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:24 PM
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Disregard age, look for what you want in a man. If that's wealth, success, education, stability, fatherhood traits, etc, then yes older men would be included. If you want youth, inexperience, student loan debt, then that's probably younger men. But can't generalize too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:01 PM
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OR they just say that, so they can continue their hot girl summer. Honestly, both men and women lie so much about dating, You can't tell what is real. Only actions. If a girl is rejecting a guy for non material reasons, she's not seriously looking for a relationship, just wants to continue what she's doing (usually a hoe phase). It's why surveys are such BS, people lie to themselves most of all. Current girl I'm seeing says "BJs don't count for Bodycount" LOL. I guess oral SEX isn't sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:57 PM
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This is age range dependent. When I was approaching women, I found most were not looking for a relatioship, but hot girl summer and a hot guy to have it with. So <27, looks is first. >26 career and money is important. But I've also seen women set their 'standards' for money in a relationship so high I think it's justification for them to continue their hot girl summer (IE: They don't really demand 500K salaries, they just want to keep sleeping around while saying they want a relationship. Which …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:53 PM
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No, I didn't say all women. Some women need men to pay taxes to afford to have kids. I don't want women to need men, so end the programs Pls expand on your statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:44 PM
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Because you value having kids, and a husband over being single. Same reason I do, or so I guess. I'd prefer poverty and a family over more money and single. (For record I can buy a house no problem in cash) But I think most modern marriage age (18-26) women don't share that preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:39 PM
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And again, how does that change my statement? Genuine question. This isn't a competition of who benefits more, I care about it existing at all. Any woman benefiting is the problem, not the ratio.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:19 PM
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I'm only speak about marriage age women 18-25. The older women didn't care about family, hence why they don't have one. Actions>words
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:16 PM
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I think that's more for women, than men. I know some men who are single always. Really the only thing they offer of decent value, is the ability to commit to a woman and help her raise kids, otherwise they stay single and celibate. Naturally they have a higher desire for kids, and marriage than the women who are refusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:05 PM
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I've found the worst is average Boomer greed. In my city, we have rent control that destroys supply of affordable rentals, and zoning, which makes it illegal/very expensive to build high density housing near offices. Plus development fees so high to lower property taxes for existing home owners. Housing is the number one barrier to families in 1st world countries. And that's usually due to your local gov't over ran by Karens who want their house to compound like the SP500 LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:49 PM
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This is true (but every where is being hurt financially). But the more telling thing is women don't even want marriage and have one kid. It's not TOO hard to have one kid financially. Housing the biggest cost is cut massively as a family of 3 could live in 1 bdrm apartment (kid can have the curtained off dining room). But marriage rates are collapsing, so yes there is social changes adding to this. I say this knowing a 4 bdrm house is $1M CAD in my bad city, And 1 bdrm apt is $2k/mth. I'm rent c…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:43 PM
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I can afford to raise a family of 5 in my rent controlled 1 bdrm apartment, as I take the bus to work, cook my vegetarian meals at home, and work 60hrs/wk. This is actually very common in poor countries. The hardest part about that? Finding a wife willing to do it with me. That's it. Men can't provide for a family at the living standards women demand, and guess what, neither can the women LOL. Yes kids are hard work and take a lot out of you. If you don't care about kids, then don't. Yes, there …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:39 PM
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I have many questions for you, first off: How dare you? I've noticed you could literally state what people do, and they will still try to twist it to something else that is virtuous. There's never a "you got me" moment. Any man who does bad with women MUST have a bad personality. How do you test for it? YOU CANT it's the perfect scapegoat.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:21 PM
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No, I don't want a woman to settle for me, cuz that would lead to divorce. I know women demand men to be better than them, so I'll have to move to a country where women of marriage age deem me better. Seeing so many women walk away from marriage has helped me realize why so many marriages are unhappy. Women only want to be with men better than them, but most men aren't, thus unhappy marriage. I don't want women to 'need' men again, I just don't want to pay taxes to subsidize them, like medicare/…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:07 PM
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Yes, and it's used to incentivize women to have kids with deadbeat men. Not a troll, this is a very rational argument. Money is something I provide in a relationship. If I'm taxed, I can't provide as much. Violent felons don't have much money, but welfare helps women have their kids. Understand? Hence I'm against the program and want my money back.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:00 AM
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No, while that is true. My point is some women benefit from my tax dollars. They don't want anything to do with me, so I want none of my money to help them. This isn't a gender debate of who gets more or less , I'm against any woman getting money from me, even if it's 80% men using these programs, that means 20% are women. And even if women pay 80% of the taxes, that means 20% are from men like me. Idc, still scrap the programs. I fundamentally see social programs funded by my taxes as a means t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:58 AM
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Lol see what I mean, people still debating this shit. Can't make this shit up. Eventually you just have to chose what you believe in, there's just no convincing some people cuz they are a lost cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:48 AM
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Nothing is perfect. Much better than current system that pays women more money for each child they have. Bad incentive.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/11/23 04:45 AM
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Omg the horror! Dating a man on her level? You're so cruel you misogynist. That or give up for adoption. I'm a big supporter of giving more money to the adoption system over single moms hand outs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/11/23 04:44 AM
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Lol see what I mean, debating communism. Sorry I have better things to do lmao. At the end of the day, you have to pick something to believe in, nothing is 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 01:49 AM
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This is what TRP teaches, go out and find out. Trust your eyes. Yet when guys touch grass and talk about what they see, they are then told "Well that's confirmation bias, you need to post your source". It's like debating capitalism vs communism. Despite commies killing millions of people, many people STILL believe in it cuz "not true communism" or other rationalization. I say this as a guy who's approached and asked out 300+ girls, and touched the grass needed to talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 01:39 AM
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Ya, situationships, hot girl summers, hoe phases, all the same thing, just a way for a girl to have 'fun' with top guys. Ya, funny enough, every girl I got a date with from Tinder wanted only something casual with me but none actually stated it. They didn't want to be seen as a slut as they act like one. But of course all these women were significantly less attractive than me (obese, I'm not), and that's the issue with hook up culture. Girls get use to having fun with guys who will never settle …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 01:37 AM
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I think the issue is bimodal distribution. In the 50s MOST people got married young. Nowadays it seems some get into serious relationships and marry and have kids. My niece is one, engage (wedding delayed due to covid) having second baby, meet him at 16 in highschool. But increasingly more women are just having their 'hot girl summers' with the best men they can get, which leads them asking "Are we dating the same guy?" and turns out ya they are sharing. And for every three girls doing this, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 01:32 AM
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Type in "never had a boyfriend" into Tiktok and you will find young beautiful girls talking about how every guy there were into and fucked, jsut wanted a situationship with them. God I can't imagine having such low self respect as to just be used by everyone you want to be in a relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 01:27 AM
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And yet, I know multiple women who do this. Ya it's very minimal, so they live very frugal (2 bdrm apt, small town, no car, cook own meals), yet they chose this lifestyle, welfare and a bad boy baby daddies. Don't ask me why they do it, I chose to go to university and now being punished with sky high taxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 01:25 AM
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Hard pass. Lots of unintelligent people in the world. I find it best to avoid them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 10:08 PM
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Hi, I'd like to be 50/50 man, never found a girl who wanted that. I have made bread from scratch, and often cook my own meals with ingredients. I like making stews and roasts, large meals I can have leftovers. Naturally I clean after myself. Can't speak about the kids, cuz don't have any cuz never found a girl who wanted an equal (or any relationship) with me If a man can't do those things, I suggest not dating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 09:48 PM
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Ok, so you prefer being alone over a 50/50 relationship with the above things I stated? And provide, does that mean raising 2 kids in a 2 bdrm rental, cooking own meals, and taking the bus to work, and frugal lifestyle? Or something more?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 09:30 PM
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then state that. You know each relationship is unique right? Just be better than most people. For example, age gap marriages tend to fail, but I'll just be better than most people and make it work.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:58 PM
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If you don't want the emotional support, care, intimacy (and GOOD sex), affection, and love of a relationship, then sure. It seems more common amongst modern women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:57 PM
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Cool. That's your concern. I'm concerned with my tax bill and I want it reduced by cutting social programs. Your tax bill doesn't affect my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 08:57 PM
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​ You’re talking about liberals and plenty of men are also liberals. Yet, you don’t want to blame liberal men? I blame them too of course. So is everyone else. The main people who benefit from social programs are children, the impoverished, the disabled, and parents. Yes, so? Everyone else paying taxes doesn't change that I don't want to contribute to these programs. Yes, cut services to those people. ​ An old Stacy I know can’t even get child support because her baby daddy lives off of the gove…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 08:55 PM
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All of them? Wow! Even the social programs that help disabled people? You're in favour of a dog eat dog world and anyone who can't keep up should just die? I mean, that's your opinion but most people are more compassionate than that so it won't happen. Yes >Stop pretending that only men pay taxes. Again, women paying taxes DOES NOTHING to change my statement I'm against these programs cuz I pay taxes. How much taxes women pay doesn't change anything about my tax bill. Cut the programs, and then …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 08:42 PM
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Absolutely vital. NOTHING is more important than a loving wife and good children and a community that supports you. But I don't have it, so I make do. Life could be worse as a educated wealthy hard working unmarried professional with a passport. Sure materialism and drugs and casual sex is kinda empty, but much better than most lives I see people living. Nothing is worse than being lonely in a loveless marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 08:27 PM
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I agree, Im not entitled to a woman. Hence why I support scrapping all the social programs. If women want to avoid all men, A ok in my books, just end the social programs. Full independence, both financially and romantically. Instead of stealing, how about robbed, forcefully taken, confiscated, black mailed or something else? We live in a democracy, I can vote and advocate for changes I support. You paying taxes as a woman doesn't address my issue with the programs existing. I'm concerned about …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 08:08 PM
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How does that change anything in my argument? Idc if other women pay into it, scrap the programs. Both genders can avoid each other in the dating market, if they also do so in the taxation department. Full independence
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 08:05 PM
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In other words, women rank higher in agreeableness than men. Lone wolves tend to be men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 07:50 PM
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The same applies to fighting a war. I'm more likely to fight against any govt that implements a draft, than I am for my country. Welcome to a world where men accept women don't want them. Sustainable? We will find out the hard way. I heard the army is struggling with recruitment. Not surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 07:29 PM
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Cuz women vote to tax me so much I'm forced to pay for social programs I don't want to, to help people that want nothing to do with me. If all women want to avoid all men, cool, I don't mind, just stop stealing more of my money to make your lives easier. I'd happily be single with 30% more net income
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 06:53 PM
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I'm 31 and I think the oldest would be 30. But my standards for what she needs to be rise fast as she ages cuz I want a wife that used her 20s like I did. I studied and graduated with honours, started a masters, built my career, saved and invested, ate healthy and went to the gym lifting, built good friends groups, and avoided toxic people. The younger you are the less time you have had to develop those habits so naturally my standards are lower. But past 30, it's kinda like do you ever want to …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 06:26 PM
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"It's like totally impossible to tell who would make a good father! That ex con might just be as amazing a dad as that boring 9-5 guy who doesn't even do coke. Truly a coin flip, I can't be blamed for it"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/11/23 06:22 PM
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