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| 90 | When women talk about “compromise”, they are only speaking about it in one direction- as in coming from men | CMV | daddysgotanew | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 11:08 PM |
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| 4 | If you're not making $100k or more looks don't matter as much as you think.Not even close. You’d have to be making 250+, even then it would be a stretch with a stay at home wife and one kid. Add 50K for each additional child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 02:05 PM |
| 1 | If you're not making $100k or more looks don't matter as much as you think.100K isn’t moving the needle these days. I know a few 20-something girls who make that much working from home with some bullshit lib arts degree. Once you get into the 300K+ range, it’ll start to attract women who are interested in money/lifestyle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 02:03 PM |
| 1 | For Every 16 IQ Points Above 100, a Woman Is 40% Less Likely to Get MarriedYes, conservatives are generally smarter, more logical, and less driven by emotion/feels. More news at 11 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 12:42 PM |
| 0 | High earning women don’t intimidate men from dating themJust say you hate men and be done with it. Live with a dildo or learn to start liking pussy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/24 09:12 PM |
| 1 | High earning women don’t intimidate men from dating themThis. Women who make a lot of money usually come with an ego and narcissistic tendencies. Nobody wants to deal with this. I know several men who make shit tons of money and you’d never know it just by talking to them. They are extremely humble. Every woman I’ve ever known who makes six figures (except my current girlfriend) would always talk about it and try to steer the conversation in that direction. Like bitch, no one cares that you make 101,000 a year in some bullshit HR job that’s going to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/24 09:10 PM |
| 1 | High earning women don’t intimidate men from dating themI mean, 120-140 grand a year isn’t terrible money. Lot of cops/detectives in ritzy areas making that much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/24 09:10 PM |
| – | The expectation for men to be completely self-actualized before even entering the dating market is absolutely ridiculous.This is what I ran into. After college, dating apps are pretty much it. You don’t want to get pepper sprayed at the store or fired from your job for sexual harassment. I can’t remember the last time I saw a single woman by herself at a bar, probably college as well. Found my current girlfriend on Bumble. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/24 01:50 PM |
| 2 | Men are underepresented as sexual abuse victims, women underepresented as sexual aggressors and misconception about men as eternal aggressors and women as eternal victims influence the formation of trauma for similar acts.Exactly. Men raped by other men? Probably pretty common unfortunately, especially when they’re younger. Men raped by women? I mean yea I feel bad for the 2 men a year it happens to I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/24 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Men are underepresented as sexual abuse victims, women underepresented as sexual aggressors and misconception about men as eternal aggressors and women as eternal victims influence the formation of trauma for similar acts.The insinuation that there are vast amounts of women out there raping men is silly. Most women don’t even like sex with the vast majority of men- they’re sure as hell not going to be pushy about it. This whole sub is dedicated to the discussion about how hard it is for men to even get a date, let alone have consistent sex. Unless you look like Henry Cavill and have a coke can for a dick it’s a non-starter. As a bottom 95 percent male you don’t have to ever worry about being “made to penetrate” b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/24 06:58 PM |
| 2 | The real pill that explains modern dating in the WestMy girlfriend technically makes more than me (6,000/yr) and we split everything. I’m not gonna be someone’s cash cow. She agrees that it’s fair. Told her we’re not getting married either. She also agrees, bad idea. Keep shopping until you get a good deal, is my advice. Took me 32 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/24 02:18 PM |
| 2 | Being a woman in your late thirties or forties is not the handicap it used to be. I’ve noticed they’re dating more and more young attractive menLot of desperate bets males out there. Even the good looking ones can’t punch at their weight like they used to be able to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 11:18 AM |
| – | Are Women Truly Outpacing Men and Is The Often-Cited Claim False That This Is What's Driving Down Marriage/Relationships?I’ll have an MBA soon and I work in management making 90K. Let’s just say they don’t care because my job doesn’t sound “sexy” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/24 02:18 PM |
| 3 | Men, what negative dating/relationship experiences have you personally had with women?By mediocre you must mean extremely physically attractive but lacking in every other area. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/24 10:30 PM |
| 2 | Men, what negative dating/relationship experiences have you personally had with women?I disagree. Mediocre or even less than exceptional is the worst thing you can be as a man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/24 10:04 PM |
| 20 | Men, what negative dating/relationship experiences have you personally had with women?Blue pillers are idiots. I could fill a book with my own experiences and things I’ve seen that would make Rollo Tomassi blush. The worst person you can lie to is yourself, and I never will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/24 10:02 PM |
| 5 | Why are girls misleading on what tinder profiles are attractiveYea that’s like the number one rule of redpill dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/24 12:59 PM |
| – | Modern relationships don’t benefit womenYea, nobody on the internet is ever part of the “bad” group. Then there’s pesky old statistics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 12:46 PM |
| 2 | People who assume romantically unsuccessful men just need to "talk to women" more are naiveRight, especially over an empty ice cream container FFS. I’ve seen some men treat women like absolute garbage, and they would keep going back for more and trying to please him. Why? Because he was hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 07:09 PM |
| 0 | Why conservative traditions will withstand the test of time. Simple math.You’re not wrong. But everyone in this thread is going to tell you that you’re wrong and that we’ve somehow surpassed 6 million years of biology in the past 50 because of “feels” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Modern relationships don’t benefit womenHaha yea, pretty much. Both are a choice. You want an easy life where you don’t have to get up at 6AM and go to work every day, you might have to marry the balding short dude with halitosis and a 5 inch chode that makes good money. But again ladies, if you’re choosing that, it’s on you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 02:01 PM |
| 4 | Modern relationships don’t benefit womenOf course most men watch porn, just like most women follow other men on social media or text them while they’re in a relationship. Get over yourself. The “women are wonderful” bullshit is old. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 01:58 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a womanYou know what the solution is? Don’t get married and always be cultivating options. Even if it’s just one other woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 01:36 PM |
| – | "Why are there lots of GORGEOUS women but not a lot of good looking men?"I’m 6’1” and got rejected constantly. It must not matter that much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 08:32 PM |
| -1 | MEN who don't want kids- Why?Yep. I’m gonna give her rope and see if she hangs herself, all while being almost completely non-committal. Nothing to lose and I keep my sanity. Most eventually hang themselves, which is why marriage, joint assets, shared bank accounts, and kids are all a bad idea in the modern era. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 01:38 AM |
| 4 | MEN who don't want kids- Why?This too. Marriage is completely off the table for me as well. I’m not buying the cow, I’ve gotten the milk for free from over 50 women up to this point. You decide one day you don’t like me anymore or that you want to be in a relationship with some dude from work? Cool. Get out of the lease, separate all the stuff, and adios! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 01:35 AM |
| 2 | Dating apps are hard for womenYou’re being intentionally obtuse. I’ll let you try to explain my situation when I was on the apps. Maybe 3 matches a week. Sometimes none for a couple of weeks. Many single moms. Most that did match never sent a message or replied to mine. I’d get a date about every three months, with the majority ghosting me after. The last date I went on before my current girlfriend lasted 3 hours at a bar. She was engaged and very talkative. She initiated a kiss at the end of the night before we parted ways.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 05:05 PM |
| – | CMV: (long) You'd see less guys flocking to the ''manosphere'' if people were honest about the unfairness of dating.It already is, it’s just not spoken about out in the open. There are men out there rotating through 10 women at any given time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Men don't need to settle - they choose toI can tell you as a top 20 percent man that they find way less than 20 percent attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Men don't need to settle - they choose toMost women don’t bring nearly as much value to a relationship as they think they do. Jealous behavior while also keeping other men in their phones, talking shit about their boyfriend, being in significant debt, having permanent STD’s, personality issues, drug and alcohol problems, and the list goes on and on. Most millenial and younger women have at least a couple of those. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 04:35 PM |
| 2 | Men don't need to settle - they choose toMen take what they can get. And for most men, they get very little or even nothing. I’m a pretty good looking dude. I’m over 6 feet tall, educated, live on my own and have a professional career. My standards for women I’ll date are “not fat”, not psycho” and “won’t break a mirror when she looks at it.” That makes for a surprisingly short list, especially when filtering for women who like me back. I have a girlfriend now but I spent many years in bleak dating situations where it was clear that th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 04:23 PM |
| – | CMV: Having no friends is NOT a red flag, especially in the modern dayToo many friends is definitely a reg flag. To me, it indicates that you don’t have confidence, can’t be alone with your own thoughts, and get bored easily and need lots of other people to entertain you/give you attention/stimulation/validation. None of which are good for a relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 04:16 PM |
| – | The problem with modern dating is that women are now in the driver seat but they don’t want to be thereSometimes even a bad experience has a silver lining. I’ve been there too with a few girls and I just won’t accept less anymore. I can detect genuine interest a mile away or within 5 minutes. I can also tell the exact moment when the switch turns off. Then it’s time to go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 04:13 PM |
| 5 | CMV: (long) You'd see less guys flocking to the ''manosphere'' if people were honest about the unfairness of dating.You’re right in a sense. But as a 666 dude, with a college degree and good interpersonal skills, dating was still hard for me. Most women I met on dates would ghost me after. I think what people don’t realize is that most women just don’t like men that much, unless you’re so elite that it becomes competition for women. Obviously, few men meet that standard. So what we’re starting to see is a world learning how to cope with that for a future. Populations are going to collapse for one. There will … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 01:48 PM |
| 1 | The problem with modern dating is that women are now in the driver seat but they don’t want to be thereGoing to be an uphill battle for sure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 11:24 AM |
| -2 | The problem with modern dating is that women are now in the driver seat but they don’t want to be thereLet ‘em think what they want. Reality always wins. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 09:57 AM |
| – | The problem with modern dating is that women are now in the driver seat but they don’t want to be thereThis. Don’t ever date women that don’t have burning desire for you. The issue as an average man is that, you may never experience it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 09:55 AM |
| 3 | Men complaining in a free market where nature chooses will only fall on deaf earsStatus is not king. Looks are. But if you have both? You’re unstoppable. Most men have neither | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 07:31 PM |
| -2 | Give her the chaos she cravesAnd subconsciously, you’ll seek it out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 11:15 AM |
| 6 | CMV: more matches don't mean anything if they're all poor optionsMost men don’t get any matches. Or they get two that don’t go anywhere | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 03:33 PM |
| 1 | CMV: more matches don't mean anything if they're all poor optionsShe chose to go out with him, likely because he was extremely good looking. Most men cannot get a date off of OLD. Women are in a prison of their own making. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 03:29 PM |
| 0 | Marriage is not a requirement anymore and you don’t need to do it if you’re not fully committed to the whole thingStupid. Make your own way and stop depending on someone else’s money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 08:56 PM |
| 1 | A real man wouldn't avoid single mothers when datingI’m not a parent at all lmao. It’s called planning and common sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 08:49 PM |
| 1 | A real man wouldn't avoid single mothers when datingPeople are sensitive to negative judgement/being seen as an “outsider” to the hive mind. Just look at leftists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Some research or survey came out saying 45% of men aged 18-25 have never approached a women.Covid had nothing to do with this. It fucked up a lot of shit but social interactions was not one of those things. Chad was still going to Becky’s house and fucking her without a mask on. I myself had a couple FWB at that time and we still met up and had sex all the time. No one really cared. Who the hell stayed home for 2 years? I worked 50 hours a week in public through the whole thing. Absolutely nothing changed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Some research or survey came out saying 45% of men aged 18-25 have never approached a women.Why would they? Not going to get them anywhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 03:13 PM |
| 29 | Why men today struggle in datingMen just aren’t hot enough. Yea, there’s a lot of soyboys too but they’re not part of the conversation. I’m over 6 feet tall. I can build and fix things. I can weld and do work on vehicles. I can drive heavy equipment and run machinery. I like hunting, fishing, and hiking. I’d say I’m pretty traditionally masculine. Still had plenty of hard work and high hills to climb with dating. I have a girlfriend now but it was always a challenge. How hot you are matters. It matters more than anything else.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 02:58 PM |
| 3 | Have you noticed couples who have their social media profile picture as dyadic (both individuals in their pfp) almost always are happy and in love.They do this because they’re psychos with massive control/jealousy issues. Probably more likely to end in a murder suicide than anything else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 11:36 AM |
| 2 | If there is "someone for everyone out there" how do so many men struggle to find one (1) woman that likes them back?Most women don’t like most men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/24 12:36 PM |
| 0 | Why do the majority of people find their life partner between the ages of 25-30? What happens during this time to cause this phenomenon?For women, they’re smarter and know that time is running out. For men, they also know that time is running out. More than a third of your life is over at that point. Most people don’t make it to 90. For many, half or more of their life is over by then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/24 10:53 PM |
| 1 | The bar is on the floor for a being marriage material womenIt’s the most important thing when only 20 percent of American women are of a healthy weight | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/24 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Relationships are not worth if sex rarely happenThey’re not even worth it most of the time when sex IS happening | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 08:57 PM |
| 1 | The bar is on the floor for a being marriage material women“Attractive? Let's define that one. Most people are pretty average, not attractive. Say one standard deviation above average is the threshold between average and attractive. That means ~15% of women are attractive.” Just being skinny makes a woman attractive. So many of them are so fat that one simple trick makes them desirable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 08:29 PM |
| 1 | The bar is on the floor for a being marriage material womenSo you’re a cunt but you won’t tolerate men who are? Your poor husband lol. Guy deserves better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 08:27 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Males are intimidated by highly educated successful womenNo lol. I’m working on a grad degree and will make six figures next year. It’s not intimidating, it’s just that most of them are insufferable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Blue Pillers on this sub are committed to keep men down (part 2)Blue pillers are idiots. They’re also the morons that vote democrat and are all for open borders, while simultaneously posting on recrutinghell about how they can’t even get a minimum wage job with a PhD. Well no shit Sherlock! Don’t listen to them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 06:52 PM |
| 1 | The best move a single man can make is work on being happy alone.If you’re less than a 8.5-9/10, women are not going to approach you. Not even the ugly ones | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 09:00 PM |
| 3 | What's more annoying than social media and dating apps ruining us is that people are aware of it but tend to forget about it in mostly any discussionAt least 50 percent of relationships start on dating apps. It isn’t going anywhere and it’s going to become the majority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 08:56 PM |
| 3 | Old generations had some solid advice. Whenever I went out on a date, my mom cautioned me nver to take any gift other than candies, cheap chocolates, or maybe a rose or two, coz it woyld give men "ideas"What kind of men actually do this? I’ve never taken a “gift” on any first dates I’ve gone on. That’s ridiculous | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Do women sexually harass men more often?No. The amount of men that would even inspire that amount of lust in women is statistically 5 percent or less, so no. It can’t be more common than the opposite | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Apparently women turn “demisexual” around average menWomen think sex with a condom doesn’t count, if he was less than a 9 it doesn’t count, if she didn’t have an orgasm it didn’t count, blowjobs don’t count, and on and on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 02:52 PM |
| 3 | Apparently women turn “demisexual” around average menI can guarantee you that the vast majority of attractive women have sex with more than 6 people in their life. Maybe that was applicable in 1950, but it’s a whole new world now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 02:50 PM |
| – | If women were as horny as men they wouldn’t have the delusional standards and pickiness they haveYea that’s pretty funny | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 09:41 PM |
| 1 | When is a reasonable time and a good reason to ask for a DNA test?You never ask, you just do. The FBI doesn’t “ask” a suspect for their DNA, they just go dig through their trash and find a tissue. That’s what a good detective does. Verify, verify, verify, and then confront. Otherwise you’re just going to be lied to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 11:23 AM |
| 0 | Your own attractiveness is static, so raising your standards only makes you less likely to find your partnerYes, women can find some bald beta male who gives her $500 bucks a week to spend. Is that what they really want though? No. OP is right. On the open market, single moms are in the bargain bin. High value men don’t want them, and that’s the only men they’re interested in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 11:15 AM |
| 1 | The gender ratio is almost even, so why are so many guys unable to land a single girlfriend, while every girl seems to be takenDoes anyone really care what they think though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 10:56 AM |
| – | 80/20 Rule, OLD vs Real life, and other thoughtsI will say this as a highly educated, white male, over 6 feet tall, who hasn’t lost a single hair, who makes just short of six figures. Women are only really geared to be attracted to the VERY top percentage of men. I’m well above most dudes my age in looks, stature, status, and income. But my results when I was in the market were pretty dismal. Barely any matches online. The ones that did respond would give one word answers. Trying to get a date was like pulling teeth. Most started with the “no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 02:08 PM |
| 1 | The gender ratio is almost even, so why are so many guys unable to land a single girlfriend, while every girl seems to be takenIt wouldn’t. Your face is what matters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 02:02 PM |
| 2 | The gender ratio is almost even, so why are so many guys unable to land a single girlfriend, while every girl seems to be takenWhich ones? My ex was an attorney and we want to a “lawyer ball” dinner one time with all of the local big shot firms in the area. Almost all of the partners of the bigger firms had a much younger woman with them. One of the county judges did too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Women don't really have high standards, they just like the exact same guyDoes that have anything to do with what he said? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Happy Birthday!Haha r/linkedinlunatics just called! | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/07/24 07:17 PM |
| 1 | The hatred of single moms comes from jealousy.I’ve had plenty of girlfriends. I’m no Chad but none of them were single moms, and none were over 29 years old. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: We hear a lot about the "Modern woman". Describe the "Modern Male" that WE have to deal with when datingYep. I know a detective who only dates bombshells. He’s about 5’9” with an underbite. The badge and authority does wonders on a lot of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 12:42 PM |
| – | Vogue dating columnist casually admits that women have it hard in dating because they need to compete for a minority of menHa probably | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Men, especially in this sub go to extra lengths to justify their dependence on women, which is sad especially considering how indifferent women are towards men.What benefits? I’ve never gotten a government dime in my life and don’t want to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 03:03 PM |
| – | Vogue dating columnist casually admits that women have it hard in dating because they need to compete for a minority of menAll thanks to the internet. It’s crazy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 03:00 PM |
| – | Vogue dating columnist casually admits that women have it hard in dating because they need to compete for a minority of menWomen are delusional. They’ve got 80 years on this earth if they’re lucky, and they spend the best 30 sleeping around and looking for Prince Charming. Well, most women ain’t Cinderella and life comes at them fast. The next 30 years will be very interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 02:59 PM |
| – | Vogue dating columnist casually admits that women have it hard in dating because they need to compete for a minority of menAt least they’re not trying to lie about it anymore | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 02:58 PM |
| 6 | Men, especially in this sub go to extra lengths to justify their dependence on women, which is sad especially considering how indifferent women are towards men.Imagine if every man who was getting nothing from society just said “fuck you I’m not paying taxes anymore” There would be a lefty meltdown in 0.5 seconds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 11:06 AM |
| 2 | Men, especially in this sub go to extra lengths to justify their dependence on women, which is sad especially considering how indifferent women are towards men.Within the next 2-3 generations, the west will revert back to 1930’s levels of traditionalism, if it survives that long. No one alive today will ever see it though. We’re in the “weak men create hard times” part of the cycle right now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 11:05 AM |
| 2 | CMV: women with delusional standards due to sexual attention from appealing men are the functional equivalent of men who fall for strippers who just want their moneyWomen have access to phones, internet, and airplanes. You’d be surprised what they have access to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 04:10 PM |
| 2 | CMV: women with delusional standards due to sexual attention from appealing men are the functional equivalent of men who fall for strippers who just want their moneyYea you’re right. It’s worse now. 80/20 was generous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 04:08 PM |
| 2 | CMV: women with delusional standards due to sexual attention from appealing men are the functional equivalent of men who fall for strippers who just want their moneyThe only chart the world ever needed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 04:07 PM |
| 0 | CMV: women with delusional standards due to sexual attention from appealing men are the functional equivalent of men who fall for strippers who just want their moneyThey’re not being pursued but the women are making sure they show up in the HV mens’ rosters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 04:02 PM |
| 1 | CMV: women with delusional standards due to sexual attention from appealing men are the functional equivalent of men who fall for strippers who just want their moneyI think men would be happy if they could easily fuck those strippers. That’s what women are doing. They’re getting the swangin’ thang but not the ring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Do Childfree HVM exist?They’re allowed to do whatever they want like anyone else, but they usually don’t since they rely on safety and stability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Women's standards aren't high the average man has nothing of value to offer.My girlfriend pays for half of everything. She even brought it up first. I agree with her. Hell she makes 10K more a year than I do. She can pitch in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 11:29 AM |
| – | Women's standards aren't high the average man has nothing of value to offer.Of course it is. But women are masters at forging their own demise. It’ll catch up to them eventually. They love voting democrat for instance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 11:22 AM |
| – | Women's standards aren't high the average man has nothing of value to offer.Women hate sex unless it’s with someone she views as a top 5 percent man. And there’s a lot of overlap, meaning most women are chasing the same men. Women now are pissed that they can’t get a top 5 percent man to commit to them, even if they’re in the bottom 50. A top 5 percent woman can barely lock down a man of that level, since he has so many options. These are the entire reasons for this sub even existing. It’s decent looking men making great money going “what happened” and forty-niner women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 11:20 AM |
| 0 | Do Childfree HVM exist?They are to mens’ too. Once you have kids and your boss knows it, he knows you’ll put up with more shit than someone who doesn’t. He knows he doesn’t have to promote you or give you a raise and you’ll still stick around anyway because you have “obligations” and can’t go without a paycheck. Fuck all that. You want to be a wildcard. Able to walk away if you choose. Those married guys with kids are stuck and they hate their lives. I’ve seen it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 11:04 AM |
| 2 | Do Childfree HVM exist?Huh? I’m pretty sure it’s the opposite. Most poor, uneducated people have more kids on average than the other way around. Especially these days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 10:59 AM |
| 1 | From a woman's perspective: Being negative is a universally unattractive trait, regardless of genderPeople who are always happy are usually stupid too. Just remember that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 09:35 PM |
| 2 | Do more attractive and desirable men tend to do less work to raise their children?Attractive men have to do less in general, and are often more successful. Life comes to them rather than having to relentlessly chase it. That would include kids and someone who’s willing to carry the burden of raising his superior genes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 09:32 PM |
| – | It’s 2024. “Go to the gym” and “be confident and maintain frame” is the new “buy her flowers and hold open doors”Unless you’re in Nassau county NY or Beverly Hills, no they didn’t. They’re good a lying too. In my state, the troopers start out around 70K, and they’re considered some of the most elite in the nation. They have hundreds of applicants for every single vacancy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 01:43 PM |
| 3 | Signs your date is probably bad news: If they come with a victim complex higher than Mt Everest. Everybody is out to get them, and it seems they are a magnet for the dregs of society or something.Clearly you were 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 01:42 PM |
| – | It’s 2024. “Go to the gym” and “be confident and maintain frame” is the new “buy her flowers and hold open doors”Agreed. No one gives a fuck about your “frame” if you’re a lackey. The only regular types of men that I see get attention from women despite a mediocre salary are cops. Most of them are stereotypically masculine, work out, and have societally granted power on a wide scale. Women don’t care if you are “head of sales” at XYZ corp, that isn’t sexy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 07:35 PM |
| 4 | Signs your date is probably bad news: If they come with a victim complex higher than Mt Everest. Everybody is out to get them, and it seems they are a magnet for the dregs of society or something.We don’t care. We’re trying to weed you out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 04:04 PM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.Women say that, until they meet a Jason momoa lookalike with a coke can in his pants then it’s “hawk tuah”and “gawk gawk gawk” until she’s dehydrated, even if he is broke and lives with his sister. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 04:02 PM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.Have you ever met a Chad? Some of those men live on random women’s couches for years without ever lifting a finger. They’ve done studies where they found that being 6’4” and having a big dick is better than having a 350K a year salary. If you meet certain physical characteristics, women don’t care if you’re a pedophile that lives under a bridge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 03:57 PM |
| 15 | How do you believe that the dating world is working?“67.85% of ALL American men are already married, like as we speak.” That is heavily skewed towards the older generations. The median age in the US is almost 40 at this point, and it’s only going to go up. If you’re 40 nowadays, you grew up and found a wife in an era before social media and online dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 03:27 PM |
| 15 | Signs your date is probably bad news: If they come with a victim complex higher than Mt Everest. Everybody is out to get them, and it seems they are a magnet for the dregs of society or something.Red flags on a first date for men She is rude or condescending She seems disgusted by the idea of sex, or makes it seem like sexual tension isn’t welcomed She has kids or a history of dating the bad boys She admits to having a mental illness If guys just avoided women with these four characteristics, we wouldn’t even need this sub. Hell we wouldn’t even need the red pill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 01:23 AM |
| 3 | Acting slightly immoral with women is the best way to actually get quality womenFree country brother | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 09:50 PM |
| 2 | Acting slightly immoral with women is the best way to actually get quality womenThe pussy tingles don’t care about what her beta dad “teaches” her. As soon as she gets a taste of alpha louisville slugger, that’s what she’s gonna want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 04:15 PM |
| 3 | Acting slightly immoral with women is the best way to actually get quality womenBecause biology doesn’t coincide with modernly invented social norms. The most desired men I know have no problem swinging multiple options, and the women absolutely do not mind being shared as long as they get a piece of the winners pie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 04:14 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Women should not have to make outfit choices based on the creepiness of malesI always find the leftist/woke denial of reality fascinating. Like yea, we know grown adults shouldn’t murder each other or steal, or rape kids, or anything like that. But the fact that they think their personal moral outrage has any effect on it is truly remarkable. Sane people just go “yea I’m not gonna live in the hood because shit is much more likely to happen there. I’m going to go buy a house in the country around old retired white people” where the most likely criminal offense is some kid… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 09:55 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Women should not have to make outfit choices based on the creepiness of malesExactly. People want zero accountability. And they can have it, sure. But their lives will be harder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 09:47 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women should not have to make outfit choices based on the creepiness of malesI shouldn’t have to lock my scat pack up tight and keep a watchful eye on it when I’m in a restaurant in the city, but since they’re a hot target for thieves, that’s what I do. The world is what it is. Wish in one hand, shit in the other, and see which fills up faster. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 09:45 PM |
| 1 | The standards of "not fat" and "no kids" are the BARE MINIMUM, not "extremely high". Bluepillers are disingenuously abusing semantics and population statistics to try to shame men out of having any standards at all.Most people in college aren’t fat because they’re 20 and still have a raging metabolism. Get back to them at 50 and check. It has nothing to do with socioeconomic status, it’s simply a matter of age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 06:20 PM |
| 2 | The standards of "not fat" and "no kids" are the BARE MINIMUM, not "extremely high". Bluepillers are disingenuously abusing semantics and population statistics to try to shame men out of having any standards at all.Of course they’re trying to shame us. Redpillers simply don’t care, which ironically enrages them more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 06:17 PM |
| -1 | There is nothing “creepy” or “predatory” about 30-40 year old men wanting to date or sleep with 20-25 year olds, it isn’t men’s fault women don’t age wellYou’re right, but you’re going to get 1,000 angry comments from expired women telling you how you’re wrong 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 10:24 AM |
| 1 | Any complaint a man has about the dating market immediately assumes he is strugglingThis place is definitely a lefty echo chamber. I don’t know many grown men who are woke/progressive, and the couple that do lean that way are complete losers, who aren’t respected by either men or women. They’ve never had much personal or professional success. The couple of rich dudes I know with “fuck you” level money are so far right they make Alex Jones look moderate. I always said that getting rich after coming from nothing is the real red pill, which those guys did. Women also subconsciousl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Any complaint a man has about the dating market immediately assumes he is strugglingAs they say, youth is wasted on the young. By the time most people learn a thing or two, they’re in too deep to make drastic changes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 03:19 PM |
| 1 | I always wondered... those of yall who dont want to date ppl who have been in situationships, polyamorous arrangements, ONSs etc... how will you know someone had a "hoe" phase??When you play the nonjudgmental “chill” dude, women will tell you all kinds of shit. They can’t help it really. Women love talking about themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Why most marriages failYea no shit. This is why you never get married. Ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Debate: I don't believe up to 3.7% of men raising children that are not theirs is an insignificant number, and here's why.I’m guessing 10 to 15 percent, with way higher percentages in “certain” populations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 12:40 PM |
| 3 | Debate: I don't believe up to 3.7% of men raising children that are not theirs is an insignificant number, and here's why.It’s way more than 3 percent, I assure you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 12:37 PM |
| 3 | Its insane how much status a beautiful woman can give youComing from Billie Eilish who looks like she has Down syndrome, and also has the body of a 60 year old grandma. That woman is grotesque. Not even the tits can save her. This is the woman talking shit about ugly men 🤣 friggen clown https://x.com/GamesNosh/status/1315822600807952384 What a world we live in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/24 10:51 PM |
| 1 | The bar is on the ground for men is an incredibly toxic statementI currently have a girlfriend and have dated lots of women and had many FWB arrangements over the years but the idea that it was easy is very far from the truth. Most women have simply lost their minds. A man who is 6’3, white, in great shape, isn’t balding, makes six figures a year, and is SINGLE is less than one percent of the population. That’s not even getting into where he stands on the looks scale. Modern women and math don’t get along. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/24 03:17 PM |
| 1 | If a man is not the best sexual partner of his partner, then the relationship is not worth it.Yes, that’s definitely a marker of BPD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/24 01:36 PM |
| 1 | The bar is on the ground for men is an incredibly toxic statementI’m 6’1, have a full head of hair, and am in shape. I’m working on an MBA and make 90 grand a year. I live on my own and can fix just about anything with my hands. I work in management, so it’s not like I’m socially inept. I don’t have kids and I’ve never been married. You think I’m “average”? Get real. Women are simply delusional about what they have to offer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/24 01:34 PM |
| 3 | The bar is on the ground for men is an incredibly toxic statementThis has been my experience as well. I definitely don’t have an 8-pack but every time I hear “just be 6 feet tall and white and you’ll never get rejected” I just chuckle. If that was the case, I’d have Wilt Chamberlain numbers…instead I run an easy 90 percent rejection rate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/24 12:56 PM |
| 1 | If a man is not the best sexual partner of his partner, then the relationship is not worth it.Yea, BPD is a thing. Avoid those women too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 07:04 PM |
| 2 | If a man is not the best sexual partner of his partner, then the relationship is not worth it.This is all spot on. If she’s being naggy, turning down sex- “I’ve got a headache, not tonight” or any of that bullshit, she’s not sufficiently attracted to you and you should move on. Full stop. Too many men spend too much time trying to build sexual attraction when it can’t be done. It’s either there or it isn’t. And if it isn’t and you stick around, you’re in for long term misery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 07:01 PM |
| 2 | Everything I want but he's a Trumper.That’s what they don’t get. Redpill Chad who owns his own business and sees how much he has to pay in taxes every year doesn’t vote democrat lol. Hell, no one with a functioning brain votes democrat. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/06/24 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Protect me and provide for me...but leave me the f**k alone.Give her all the money and get zero sex in return. Where do I sign up? 🤣 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/06/24 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Women on apps need to do their homeworkToo late. Women love stringing men along | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Women on apps need to do their homeworkYea this is how men end up spending a grand on a woman who is never going to touch their penis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 09:23 PM |
| 1 | american women are sabotaging themselves in datingA male 6 isn’t getting shit, especially from any woman that’s over a 5. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 07:04 PM |
| 4 | Western women's dating options are shrinking.Yep. At 30, you’re in the second third if your life. People still acting like teenagers (mostly women) at that point is just sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 01:19 PM |
| -7 | Western women's dating options are shrinking.The first half of life is good. The second half, when you’re dying of pancreatic cancer alone at home, isn’t that great. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 01:05 PM |
| 2 | Western women's dating options are shrinking.Only because they want them to. If they were realistic they could easily get someone on their level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 01:03 PM |
| 3 | What Kind of Evidence would change your Mind about the Red Pill?Yea you’ll never have to do that lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 10:29 PM |
| 4 | What Kind of Evidence would change your Mind about the Red Pill?Exactly. Blue pillers and leftists like to ignore reality. I don’t know how people go through life being that delusional | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 10:12 PM |
| 2 | The problem with modern marriage is that there are 0 repercussions for cheatingWomen won’t admit to anything that is socially unacceptable and makes them look bad, even anonymously | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 09:57 PM |
| 14 | The problem with modern marriage is that there are 0 repercussions for cheatingI’d love to see the actual percentage of child support payments that get spent on the kid. I’d wager it’s less than 10 percent across the board. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 09:56 PM |
| 1 | The problem with modern marriage is that there are 0 repercussions for cheatingOnly dumbass men get married. For women, it’s a lottery ticket if she picks correctly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 09:55 PM |
| 2 | What drives women to settle for guys they're not attracted to in the modern era?Exactly. This is what people don’t understand. If you’re her 10th best choice, you’re screwed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 10:07 PM |
| 1 | How do those who claim to be feminist justify pushing for gender roles and having more benefits when it's convenient?I don’t have the right to carry a gun in all 50 states, even though the constitution says that I do. The government oversteps their boundaries all the time. That’s why you should vote for smaller government. I’m all for personal freedom, including abortions. If that’s what you want to do, you should be able to. But one side shouldn’t have to pay or be responsible for everything. That’s not freedom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 10:15 PM |
| 1 | What are your unpopular opinions about dating, relationships, manosphere, or/and genders?Women are the more looks-focused gender by far. It’s pretty evident when you look at the data. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 08:52 PM |
| 1 | I believe Women "settling" is just biology.You sure made a lot of mistakes didn’t you? Most women do that and more, including getting impregnated by these losers a couple of times. You’re not owed a clean-up man, sorry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 08:50 PM |
| 2 | I believe Women "settling" is just biology.I don’t care how hot she is. Some other man’s saved game is not one that I’m going to play. Less and less men are going to as time progresses, thanks to the red pill going mainstream. There’s a man I work with who is married to a woman with some other man’s crotch fruit. He is a miserable, bitter, broken, and unappreciated human being. The real dad is of course an unstable deadbeat, who comes around every other month with some cash to take the kid on a cool adventure that is way too expensive fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Why does this generation fixate and obsses so much over "therapy"?People want to believe that their failures are due to some external influence, instead of just shit that’s inside their own head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 03:03 PM |
| 8 | Maybe this has been said in here before, but one thing I think is overlooked. Women were not like this 15 years ago.If you want to look like an Instagram bimbo then yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 02:58 PM |
| 4 | Maybe this has been said in here before, but one thing I think is overlooked. Women were not like this 15 years ago.Natural beauty doesn’t need any work. And it usually comes with youth. My girlfriend doesn’t wear a stitch of makeup at 26 and looks great. If I was with someone who needed 4 figures of maintenance a month to look presentable I’d break up with her and find someone more attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 01:43 PM |
| 8 | Maybe this has been said in here before, but one thing I think is overlooked. Women were not like this 15 years ago.Yep. Terrible for society. 15 years ago, your average hot chick would have done well by getting with a 6 foot guy in her hometown making 80K a year in middle management. Would have been considered a catch for her. Nowadays, if you’re only six foot even and making 98K you’re a scrub lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 11:33 AM |
| 6 | Men who romanticize single mothers are not actually attracted to single mothers, they just want to be neededYep. Either they blew up the relationship because they weren’t “haaaappppy” or they fuck losers who don’t stick around and are too stupid to use birth control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 11:36 AM |
| 3 | Men who romanticize single mothers are not actually attracted to single mothers, they just want to be neededNot in my area, they’re all aboard the feminist train and too busy boss babe-ing to have kids. Only the white trash had kids by 25 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 11:34 AM |
| 4 | Men who romanticize single mothers are not actually attracted to single mothers, they just want to be neededMen date single mothers because they can’t get childless women. It’s a value problem. I’m no Chad but thankfully I’ve always been able to attract women that don’t have kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 11:32 AM |
| 1 | Why does TRP make people so angry?Been there done that haha. Watch what people do, not what they say. Words are meaningless | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Why does TRP make people so angry?People can’t stand the truth, especially the wokies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 02:20 PM |
| -5 | Men who are sure their woman is loyal, wouldn't let their woman be hit on in a bar, by Chad, as an experiment.Oh look another woman immune to human mistakes. Never seen one of those before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 06:41 PM |
| 0 | Men who are sure their woman is loyal, wouldn't let their woman be hit on in a bar, by Chad, as an experiment.I know my girl is only as loyal as her options, just like I am. I wouldn’t be surprised if she let some dude hit on her, no. I’m a realist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Manipulative, charming, uncaring, lying men get laid the mostAs long as they’re conventionally good looking as well, have a lot of money, or a big dick, yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Do you think women's preferences shift as they mature or do they just "settle" for men they find less attractive because they want to get marriedAbsolutely | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Do you think women's preferences shift as they mature or do they just "settle" for men they find less attractive because they want to get marriedNo, you’re just white trash | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Do you think women's preferences shift as they mature or do they just "settle" for men they find less attractive because they want to get marriedI’m 32 and have seen the exact same trends. It’s sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 12:49 PM |
| 2 | Do you think women's preferences shift as they mature or do they just "settle" for men they find less attractive because they want to get marriedMost marriages are unhappy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 12:44 PM |
| 3 | Do you think women's preferences shift as they mature or do they just "settle" for men they find less attractive because they want to get marriedYea I’m sure somehow those traits have shifted to more established men with money and a house or two. It never shifts toward the socially awkward dude with big ears who has a heart of gold and works as a stocker at the grocery store. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Do you think women's preferences shift as they mature or do they just "settle" for men they find less attractive because they want to get marriedWomen definitely settle when the egg clock is ticking and Chad isn’t texting her at 1AM anymore. It’s a meme for a reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 12:34 PM |
| 3 | Why does it seem women are a little more pushy with marriage than men?Most women need more money than they have. Even the boss babes I know making 100K aren’t that secure, because 100K isn’t really all that anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 12:26 PM |
| 8 | Why does it seem women are a little more pushy with marriage than men?Because it’s a rip-cord retirement plan for them. Better than a fucking pension if they choose a big enough whale. I’ve had a few women want to marry me but they always talked about in future terms. I’ve never made that much money. If I made half a million a year I assume they’d all be pushing for it very quickly. I’ve seen it happen with other people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 12:21 PM |
| – | The Struggles of Gen Z Men: Facing Economic and Relationship Realities in the Modern WorldLol, no, they do not. Starbucks, Moe’s and Game Stop don’t pay that much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 12:19 PM |
| – | The Struggles of Gen Z Men: Facing Economic and Relationship Realities in the Modern WorldHe’s got a point. Most men today are never going to make it. They’re never going to make a lot of money, have a decent lifestyle, or a wife and kids. It’s just not in the cards for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 12:15 PM |
| 0 | Are high SMV men happier single?They’re all insecure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/24 02:43 PM |
| -1 | Are high SMV men happier single?Agreed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/24 12:23 PM |
| 2 | Are high SMV men happier single?This is why men should always have backup partners and flirt with women other than their girlfriend/wife. She loses attraction when she knows you have no options or can’t do any better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/24 12:21 PM |
| 2 | Are high SMV men happier single?Men are always human doings, even when women love them. Lose your job or get fat and see how quickly the desire disappears | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/24 12:20 PM |
| 5 | Are high SMV men happier single?I did pretty good in my current relationship. She’s pretty much my looks match but acts like she’s 3 points below me. That’s how you want to do it. Doesn’t happen often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/24 12:17 PM |
| 7 | Our culture’s trashing of boys and men is having toxic consequences“Those who can’t do,” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/24 12:12 PM |
| 3 | “Getting off the apps” doesn’t help when the same mindsets are predominantPeople have to work 50 hours a week dude. No one has time to be out hanging with dozens of random people until they can form a “social circle” lmao. I feel like these posts are written by kids still in high school. Wait until the real world hits. By your 30’s you’ll be lucky to have two people in the world who don’t hate your guts just because their maladjusted ass can’t figure anything out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/24 06:47 PM |
| 1 | “Why do top tier men ghost me?” Answer at the end.Fifty shades of gray was just a movie, not reality. It’s amazing how many women can’t separate the two. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/06/24 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Why do women's dating frustrations match with what I experience irl?Why are you listening to a mod on Reddit? Can you imagine what kind of loser ends up in THAT position? Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/24 07:11 PM |
| 2 | Why are so many dudes whipped?The average man may get one half decent option every 5 years, otherwise it’s Rosy Palm and the fleshlight to keep him company | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Why are so many dudes whipped?I stopped listening to what people tell me and started watching what they do a long time ago. Actions are the only thing that matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 11:30 AM |
| 2 | Why are so many dudes whipped?Because they don’t realize there’s always another pussy out there and they are desperate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 11:24 AM |
| -2 | Too many women are seriously NOT looking for an actual human connection with a man.How can you deny it? You can’t. You just don’t like it so you act like it isn’t real | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 03:46 PM |
| 1 | “Psych Hacks” method for securing a high value man or commitment - lure him in with s*x, add value later.Women don’t have to “make” themselves have sex with high value men. They want to so they do. The issue is women who get with men they are lukewarm about, and the men can tell because she starts denying sex, acting bratty, shit testing him constantly etc. Women don’t have a problem offering everything they have to Chad. It’s just that she’s one in a sea of a million at Chads disposal, so he kinda just treats her like a used napkin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 09:49 PM |
| 3 | CMV Dating only becomes easier for men in their 30s because women at that age become more desperate.In my experience, women in their 30’s double down on their standards even more. I’ve always had better luck with 20-somethings | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 08:51 AM |
| – | Women are leaving dating appsI don’t pay for nudes but thanks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 03:56 PM |
| 1 | "You should get therapy", is chasing women all there is to mans life?Yep. People want to believe that there is some higher purpose and that how they act in life means something. The most likely reality is that we’re just bags of meat and bone on a spinning rock inside of an infinitely expanding universe that doesn’t give a fuck about us or even acknowledge our existence. We could all die tomorrow and just be lost to the sands of time without anything noticing. When you think about it, and the basis of absurdism, human behavior, and especially mating behavior- it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 03:13 PM |
| 2 | With hypergamy, where to next for society??At least 90 percent….if men could give their wives truth serum marriage would be a completely dead institution by tomorrow afternoon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 08:46 PM |
| 10 | With hypergamy, where to next for society??Women don’t have egos when Chad is involved. The melt like butter and fold like cheap lawn chairs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 08:38 PM |
| 8 | With hypergamy, where to next for society??Yep. Usually very slowly then all at once | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 08:37 PM |
| 9 | With hypergamy, where to next for society??You ever heard of Rome? Yea, that’s the US now except it’s happening a lot faster | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 08:36 PM |
| 14 | Women are leaving dating appsI remember the town I lived in when I was in college. Every Friday-Saturday night the streets would be filled with thousands of students. People puking, stumbling around, and eating pizza everywhere. Hot chicks with the skimpiest outfits you’ve ever seen even if it was 15 degrees out. It was glorious. Me and my buddy (old roommate there back in the day) went back up there to a popular bar on a Friday night last March on a relatively warm night and it was dead. No holiday, just a regular weekend … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 08:29 PM |
| -2 | Women are leaving dating appsHaha that “not all women” shit will get you every time. Half of the men on this sub have girlfriends and wives that are looking for a sneaky link behind their back. Blue pill is poison. Spit it out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 08:20 PM |
| 7 | Women are leaving dating appsYea but those guys are rare. Most men get nothing, and are absolutely despised | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 08:19 PM |
| 5 | Women are leaving dating appsHow is it mathematically impossible? I know of at least one dude who lives life on easy mode because of the way he looks. He can have hookups every night if he wants to, and sometimes does go through those phases. He gets all kinds of women, married ones included. All he has to do is send the silly “hey” text and they’re ready to come over. He’s part of the top 5 percent. At least 80 percent of women are looking for a man like that, even if they only get to bed him for one night. You have no fuc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 08:16 PM |
| 2 | What is men's obsession's with dating and boinking teenage girl?19 isn’t a teenager. It’s a biologically full grown adult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 06:48 PM |
| 3 | Women are leaving dating appsWomen are lying to you. They’re all Chadsearching on the DL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Do you think women can just passively exist and still get relationships?If they’re not attractive themselves? Yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 06:45 PM |
| 11 | Women are leaving dating appsYep. Shit is wild when you really see it. I’m 6’2”, about a 7 lookswise, dark blonde haired white guy with a decent professional job, live on my own, in good shape, have a degree and working on another- I’d be lucky to get 4 dates a year using apps. Meanwhile a girl I’ve known forever used to get hookups with local celebs when she was 40 pounds overweight. She’s not the best looking either, long, hooked nose and she’s diagnosed bipolar as well. I remember she told me about a pilot who would get … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 06:44 PM |
| 15 | Women are leaving dating appsAaron Clarey has said it best. Most women just don’t like or want men all that much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 06:39 PM |
| 7 | Women are leaving dating appsYou probably should before you end up losing your job or even being arrested once she films you for a viral Tik tok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 06:38 PM |
| 10 | Women are leaving dating appsYep | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 06:37 PM |
| 9 | Women are leaving dating appsEvery woman you know under 35 has used a dating app | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 06:36 PM |
| 0 | Women are leaving dating appsNo they’re not 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 06:35 PM |
| 2 | Do you think women can just passively exist and still get relationships?Women who say they can’t find decent men are full of shit. There are decent men everywhere, they’re just not hot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 12:17 AM |
| 1 | why don't ab*s*rs give people "the ick"?I can spot an asshole from a mile away. I’m a dude though. Women are attracted to that shit though, so it just looks like “confidence” to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 11:09 AM |
| 2 | Do you think women can just passively exist and still get relationships?By decent you mean 6’4”, rich, looks like a Nordic god and has a coke can for a dick right? They should start a support group for women that can’t get Chads lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 10:45 AM |
| -7 | Dating (not "modern dating", dating in general) has been a failure, and is leading to the downfall of societyCan you actually keep a man like that? I doubt it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 10:13 PM |
| 1 | What percentage of men under age 30 do you think have sexual options?10 percent or less | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 06:14 PM |
| 1 | What is more important, status or money?Money. “Status” is silly because most people have none. Unless you can go to all 50 states, walk around in public, and have people recognize you- you really have no status lol. That’s just the shit people tell themselves. Money buys freedom though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/24 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that if she doesn’t like you, it’s just because you don’t have enough looks, money and/or status?Damn that’s some good fiction. You should write books. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 10:38 PM |
| 3 | Is it true that if she doesn’t like you, it’s just because you don’t have enough looks, money and/or status?I remember reading about how most spies- think the CIA, MI6, BND etc. are chosen because they are starkly average or even somewhat ugly. People therefore ignore them. James Bond is definitely fiction, sadly. He’d stand out like a sore thumb and wouldn’t be very good at his job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that if she doesn’t like you, it’s just because you don’t have enough looks, money and/or status?Any time you disagree with a woman it’s gaslighting or abusive haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 10:31 PM |
| 4 | Is it true that if she doesn’t like you, it’s just because you don’t have enough looks, money and/or status?Yea it’s a hard race to the bottom for most men at this point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 10:31 PM |
| 2 | Is it true that if she doesn’t like you, it’s just because you don’t have enough looks, money and/or status?I’ve had many women lose interest in me because they could tell that I’m not a “yes” man. Fine by me. That’s a miserable existence | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 10:22 PM |
| 6 | Is it true that if she doesn’t like you, it’s just because you don’t have enough looks, money and/or status?Yes. And many women are shooting for way above what they can realistically get, while ignoring people on their level. This is why so many of them are “single” for such long periods of time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Case study: A top 10% man who has it all. Why aren’t women interested in him?How handsome are we talking? Because whether you’re in the top 10 percent or not is what makes or breaks you these days. I’m very close to “jake” in stats, only 8 years older. My results over the years are pretty abysmal. I’ve had over 50 partners but most were dead average and I had to work like a dog for nearly every one of those numbers. It was never easy for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 08:16 PM |
| 4 | How Much appeal does being a Policeman give you?I know a couple of badge bunnies who almost exclusively fuck cops and firefighters. Yes, they are both very attractive. Most women are attracted to typical masculine archetypes, which those men fit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/24 07:18 PM |
| 1 | A Question for men. What are the red flags in a relationship that would prevent you from ever proposing marriage.Lol. I’d bet money that at least 68 percent will be unmarried in the next 20 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 10:31 PM |
| 1 | A Question for men. What are the red flags in a relationship that would prevent you from ever proposing marriage.True. The one constant I’ve found is that hoes are always very comfortable around men. Most women are very shy around men, or they at least act very reserved. They aren’t the types that have tons of male friends. They’re often single for long periods of time. A woman who walks into a room and can cozy up to any stranger with a penis is not a woman to be trusted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Saving yourself for marriage - what is your opinion?People are free to do what they want, but I imagine those that agree to those terms will be very odd and or maladjusted. That’s just one part of it. What if he takes his pants off on the wedding night and has a pinky finger for a dick? What if he’s a 1.5 pump chump? What if her pussy smells like rotten garbage? Sex ain’t that serious. Might as well just do it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 01:47 PM |
| 2 | Why are men like this?Because sometimes it works. I knew a whore who would sleep with just about any man that approached her, even if she was already in a relationship. She’s very attractive too, a solid 8. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 05:14 PM |
| – | About the bald man at 30Balding is genetic. I’m 32 and haven’t lost a single hair, and it grows like a weed too. Just like my grandpa. Some guys, like my buddy, started losing it in high school. By the time graduation rolled around he was shaving his head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 11:14 AM |
| 9 | What's stopping you from taking the Blue Pill?You escaped the asylum. You had the courage to pull back the veil and see the truth. We’re proud, and you’re in good company now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 07:36 PM |
| 1 | What's stopping you from taking the Blue Pill?Yea. The people who live in misery are the people who lie to themselves in the mirror every day. AKA the blue pillers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 07:34 PM |
| 1 | What's stopping you from taking the Blue Pill?Reality It’s kind of like being a leftist. When you believe in unicorns and peace and and free shit, you’re ignoring reality. When you’re like me, you get up every day and bust your ass, and see 35 percent of your paycheck gone before you even get it and go WTF? Some people choose to live with their head in the clouds and wishing and dreaming like a child. Others see things as they are with their own eyes and go, “yea, that’s how it actually works.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 07:33 PM |
| 1 | People focus way too much on details, when ultimately most of this can be explained by one simple fact - women are not anywhere NEAR as horny as men. Everything stems from this.If there’s any “communication” necessary, then you’re just not that attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/24 09:41 PM |
| -1 | People focus way too much on details, when ultimately most of this can be explained by one simple fact - women are not anywhere NEAR as horny as men. Everything stems from this.This. It’s reserved for the top percentage of men for the most part, or if you fit her niche. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/24 07:42 PM |
| 1 | What's your dating hot take? Something you believe from your own dating experiences that this sub would typically disagree with?You can have a lot going for you and still be rejected. It’s not my personality. It’s not lack of education. It’s not lack of money. It’s looks. And I’m not even bad looking, I’m just not Chad. The black pill is real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/24 07:29 PM |
| 1 | How do you think the men mental health crisis is going to end?This. The US will return to the third world in 100 years or less. I’ll be gone so thankfully I won’t have to worry about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/24 11:17 AM |
| 4 | Taking Care of yourself FIRST before other Attracts women as a manOnly if those men are top 5-10 percent in looks. Otherwise you’re just a creepy asshole . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 11:20 PM |
| 2 | Taking Care of yourself FIRST before other Attracts women as a manIt’s not the confidence, it’s just that they look good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 11:19 PM |
| 3 | Low Social status is the biggest turn off to women. It's not average looks, or less than desirable income.Who cares. I wouldn’t want to date a clout chaser anyway. That’s just women looking for an upgrade at all times. Everyone except for true celebrities have “low social status” for the most part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/24 10:44 AM |
| – | Dating is paradoxically easier in small towns nowWomen always think they can do better. The one who cares the least is in control. Do the math. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 06:29 PM |
| 1 | It's unreasonable to assume that the average man will step in to help a woman in danger.It’s not worth spending your life in prison because you have a big fucking ego. Fuck that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 06:24 PM |
| 1 | It's unreasonable to assume that the average man will step in to help a woman in danger.I carry a gun with me everywhere. Unless you’re putting me in danger directly, I’d walk right by someone getting assaulted. And I wouldn’t feel the least bit guilty about it. Too many lawyers and cops that will screw you. Not worth it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 06:22 PM |
| 2 | Do women who chase " Chad " have it as bad as men claim ?I’m dead fucking average according to my results on dating apps. They are horrible. I’ve been on less than 40 dates in 11 years from online dating platforms. Even I am now with a thin 26 year old childless woman who makes six figures and worships the ground I walk on. I’m 32, and it did take more than a decade to find her though… The more men a woman dates, the more damage she incurs. The better looking men do exponential amounts of damage to them, where they come to the point where they can’t e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/24 10:22 PM |
| – | He waited for her for 13 yearsYes most men are desperate and will wait indefinitely for mediocre pussy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/24 02:21 PM |
| 3 | Why people overestimate how difficult is for women to get commitment ?100 percent accurate. I can’t even make one slip up. If I do, I can read it on her. Women go on dates looking for ways to disqualify you, unless you’re a Chad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Why people overestimate how difficult is for women to get commitment ?It is hard for women to get relationships with the men she truly desires (top 5 percent) because those men are wanted by every other woman and there’s little incentive to commit or be faithful. If I could sleep with a different woman every week I’d never entertain the thought of a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 08:26 PM |
| 3 | Why is it unreasonable for a woman to want a man who earns the same salary as her or more?Ok? People/businesses are fleeing those shithole states as fast as they can. Last one out of cali can turn the lights off lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/24 05:17 PM |
| 3 | Why is it unreasonable for a woman to want a man who earns the same salary as her or more?It’s almost like the whole US isn’t California. I know, crazy. New Yorkers think the same thing. There’s 48 other states out there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/24 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Women and Men have completely different ideas about sexYou’re just not attracted to your boyfriend. Find someone that you actually like and let that man go | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/24 12:08 PM |
| 2 | Do you feel like couples who need to say "they're happy" on social media rather are the opposite, and aren't actually in fact happy and how fake in general social media is, especially nowadays?True. Real power moves silently. The richest guy I know drives a 2003 Mercury Grand Marquis and dresses like a homeless person lol. Probably got about 30 million in the bank. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Do you feel like couples who need to say "they're happy" on social media rather are the opposite, and aren't actually in fact happy and how fake in general social media is, especially nowadays?Social media is garbage. Me and my current girlfriend don’t post anything on there. If you saw me and her in public, you’d never guess that we both are working on masters degrees and make just short of 200 grand a year. She’ll wear sweatpants with her hair in a bun and I’ll wear a sweatshirt and vans, spitting Skoal on the ground as I walk. People probably think we’re white trash but we’re on our way to winning. She’s 27 and I’m 32. Couldn’t give a fuck less what image I “project” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 05:40 PM |
| 5 | The oft quoted “disinterest” women have in most men extends to even those they ARE interested in - you still have to work for it, and even then most of the time she will find some reason to flakeBecause I’ve been one of those men. My current girlfriend was all over me on the first date, and we had sex within hours of meeting for the first time. That’s what high interest looks like. I’ve also been on dozens of other dates where I could tell the woman was just going through the motions or she was having a good time talking but there were just no sexual undertones. You can tell the difference once you have some experience. But yes, there are men out there who get the “obsession” reaction f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 11:17 AM |
| 7 | Woman realizes that improving herself decreases her chances of finding a partner.Men don’t care about how much money women make. Really, we don’t. I went on a date where a girl bragged about making 85K a year, and then 5 minutes later told me she had almost 200K in student loan debt lmao. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/04/24 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Who would you say are more despairing. Single Mid 30's Men or single mid 30's women?Most people will never make enough money to blow 20 grand on fertility treatments 3-4 times a year. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 11:22 AM |
| 1 | Who would you say are more despairing. Single Mid 30's Men or single mid 30's women?North of 20 is the number that I hear often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 11:18 AM |
| 1 | Who would you say are more despairing. Single Mid 30's Men or single mid 30's women?Men can always get jacked and upskill/get more money. Women can’t get any younger. Both genders value different things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 11:17 AM |
| 14 | How true is "The 'red pill' chooses you."It definitely chose me. I was the stereotypical blue piller with decent looks who managed to get some ass in my late teens/early 20’s. The problem is, that ass was a BPD whore. I didn’t go looking for anything other than information, and once I pulled the curtain back, I couldn’t unsee it. The red pill is everywhere, if you choose to look. People who deny it are like flat earthers. They believe what they want to believe despite evidence to the contrary everywhere. I feel bad for the men that it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 01:29 PM |
| 1 | The only reason why men and women aren't understanding each other is cause both of them are in different phases in datingI don’t really care what you believe, it’s my experience, along with many other men I know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 09:32 PM |
| 3 | The Big Difference of Aging between Men vs Women is...It happens at about 50 IMO. That’s where the men that have kept up with their looks/lifestyle start to become more valuable than women. It’s why the “midlife crisis” exists and a lot of dudes start fucking their 38 year old secretary and get divorced. They start having options unlike they’ve had before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 11:24 AM |
| 14 | The only reason why men and women aren't understanding each other is cause both of them are in different phases in datingThey’re not, but that doesn’t change the fact that they just don’t like most men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 10:05 PM |
| 75 | The only reason why men and women aren't understanding each other is cause both of them are in different phases in datingThe amount of effort I’ve had to put in over the years as a 6’1” white dude now making 90K a year has been astronomical. I can’t imagine how bad most dudes have it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 10:04 PM |
| 1 | How does a naturally nice person go about being less nice without being an outright dickhead?Na, I’ve always had a decent face despite body fat levels. That’s what saved me honestly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 09:18 PM |
| 1 | How does a naturally nice person go about being less nice without being an outright dickhead?That’s just because their maximum physical potential isn’t good enough to inspire attraction. I was screwing a few random girls back in 2015 in college when I was drinking every weekend and had a beer gut and slight man tits. I would go out and get drunk and give no fucks. It worked, at least some of the time. I was never a Chad so it was always work. But it did happen. You gotta be real ugly to have a 6-pack and get no ass | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 09:17 PM |
| – | "More women should make the first move" yeah, and it would still be like TinderYou are. You’re so busy trying to convince people that you’re not, because you really are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 02:53 PM |
| – | "More women should make the first move" yeah, and it would still be like TinderOh what will I ever do. Some stinky vag loser on Reddit reported me. I’m shaking in my boots over here 🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 02:51 PM |
| – | "More women should make the first move" yeah, and it would still be like TinderYou’re a fucking moron | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 12:46 PM |
| – | "More women should make the first move" yeah, and it would still be like TinderOh god. You pulled out every stereotype you could think of, and then called me a racist. That’s rich 🤣🤣🤣 But since you’re a dumbass, here is an article. Are they racist too? https://www.essence.com/news/black-women-have-less-success-in-online/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 12:40 PM |
| 3 | Truth be told, as delusional as women are a man’s greatest enemy is always going to be the desperation of other men. No matter how well your deck is stacked, if you have standards there is always going to be someone willing to work harder than you for less. You simply cannot compete with this.Probably a big D mixed with some sociopathy. That cocktail messes with a lot of women’s heads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 11:11 AM |
| 1 | Truth be told, as delusional as women are a man’s greatest enemy is always going to be the desperation of other men. No matter how well your deck is stacked, if you have standards there is always going to be someone willing to work harder than you for less. You simply cannot compete with this.Truth. The myth that women pine for the man that leaves them or ignores them is false. She just follows the next source of attention and by the end of the week she has completely forgotten about you. That’s fine, because I only want to interact with high interest women. But a lot of men never get that option because they can’t even make the initial catch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 11:10 AM |
| – | "More women should make the first move" yeah, and it would still be like TinderBlack women are consistently rated the least attractive, even when asking black men (who always try to date whites women whenever they can). There was data released on it by the apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 11:06 AM |
| – | "More women should make the first move" yeah, and it would still be like TinderThat only happens if you’re not a Chad. He gets messages like “let’s fuck” and “here’s my address” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 11:05 AM |
| – | Man sues 27 women in an 'Are We Dating the Same Guy' Facebook groupHilarious. I know I’m not hot enough to end up on one of those pages so I used dating apps with impunity. Good for him though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 07:34 PM |
| – | How can the average woman afford to be so picky with who she dates?Lots of the top tier men are throwing women scraps to keep them hanging on, and it’s working. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 06:40 PM |
| 1 | The entire “if a girl is really into you, you’ll know and there is nothing that can dissuade her” narrative really needs to die already. This is completely false, and is misleading generations of men.Yep. A lot of people on here don’t have any actual real world experience though. They think it doesn’t exist because they’ve never seen it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 02:14 PM |
| 2 | It's time that society starts to recognize that career women deserve alpha chadsFunny. My 26 year old, six figure earning girlfriend (I’m 32) seems to like me just fine. She knows she’s going to get old one day and likes the companionship. Maybe we’ll stay together, maybe not. But she’s smart enough to see the value in a relationship with a man who acts like a man (me). | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/04/24 09:33 PM |
| 14 | Is it true that women have higher standards for casual sex and for a relationship?By far. She’s giving the casual guy her best and hoping that he commits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 08:57 PM |
| 1 | "50% of marriages end in divorce" but divorce rates are the lowest they've been in 50 years, which one is it?Yes, that’s because the people that REALLY want to get married make it last because that’s what they’re after. But proportionally, far less people are having the desire to get married. It’s not a requirement anymore. Get the milk for free, why buy the cow and all that. Society is changing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 12:58 AM |
| -1 | "50% of marriages end in divorce" but divorce rates are the lowest they've been in 50 years, which one is it?What? If less people do something, then an outcome resulting from said activity doesn’t happen as much. It’s really simple. We can say that there are a certain number of car crashes per year. If 75 percent of people stopped driving, then there would be less car crashes, by the numbers. Maybe you’re talking the stats within those that are married? Seems like you have the two confused. I went to college too kid. I know how it works, because it’s common sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 12:55 AM |
| 13 | "50% of marriages end in divorce" but divorce rates are the lowest they've been in 50 years, which one is it?Less people getting married, less divorces. It’s not that hard to understand | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 06:39 PM |
| 3 | What's with the huge popularity of polyamory and open relationships at the moment?Women like having options and security at the same time. It’s the definition of having the cake and eating it too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 01:20 PM |
| 9 | Women are not picky at all, maybe less so than menThere’s no libido disparity. There’s a Chad disparity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Let’s stop pretending guys don’t age and have just as many unattractive problems later in lifeYou know why they hit on you? Because sometimes it works. Some of your hot friends have fucked men old enough to be their dad. It happens. Keep seething I guess… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/24 11:28 AM |
| 3 | When dating, why do people claim to speak a foreign language?They think it makes them higher value or something I guess. There’s no real benefit to it in the US unless you’re a warehouse manager or something that needs to regularly communicate with workers in Spanish. One of my exes was Colombian. She would seamlessly go from talking to me to speaking fast and extremely fluent Spanish with her mother, who had limited English speaking ability. I always thought it was funny that they could be talking mad shit about me and I wouldn’t have even known it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Women standards aren’t high, it’s just too many guys are too desperate to not be single.That’s just fucking sad. All to avoid just finding someone on her level. Insanity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 11:57 AM |
| 2 | Women standards aren’t high, it’s just too many guys are too desperate to not be single.Exceptions don’t make the rule. In about 20-30 years there are going to be tens of millions of sad, angry, regretful women. I imagine feminism will go down as one of modern society’s greatest failures. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 02:37 AM |
| 0 | Women standards aren’t high, it’s just too many guys are too desperate to not be single.Trump did nothing wrong. You don’t get extra points in life for being a woke, uninformed leftist just so you know. It just makes you a loser. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 02:34 AM |
| 0 | Women standards aren’t high, it’s just too many guys are too desperate to not be single.There’s power in numbers. Look how many retards put Biden in the White House. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 09:17 PM |
| -1 | Women standards aren’t high, it’s just too many guys are too desperate to not be single.Women’s standards are insanely high. Until society is ready to admit that, we will get nowhere. I don’t know where a hot 30 year old woman who is looking for Prince Charming longdick even thinks she’s going to find him, or even considers why he hasn’t found her yet. These women act like they’re going to live forever, and be hot for the entire duration of it. The reality for most women at 30 is that the train has already left the station and is about 100 miles down the track, at least as far as l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Women have so many options that it's hard to sympathize with those who say they can't find a man.She can wish in one hand and shit in the other and see which fills up faster 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 03:04 PM |
| 2 | Women have so many options that it's hard to sympathize with those who say they can't find a man.I’m a 6’1” dude in decent shape with a full head of hair, making 90K and working on a graduate degree. No addictions, kids, or previous marriages. Live on my own, have a couple of cars. Dating apps were pure hell for me. Almost no matches. I could get a couple dates a year off of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 02:55 PM |
| 3 | I’ve never understood how sex ‘just happens’ so casually for some people in adulthoodExtremely attractive men and women have people trying to have sex with them wherever they go. I imagine that’s how most of these cases happen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/24 12:49 PM |
| 2 | What happened to "if she is like that, she's not really worth being with"?I know a man like this. Women see him as nothing more than a walking wallet. And he doesn’t even make much. 45K a year or so. He gives his entire paycheck to a woman he dated for a while, but hasn’t had sex with in years. He lives with her, and at night she goes out and fucks other people. For a lot of men, some attention is better than no attention, even if it’s all negative | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/24 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Apparently women in your "friends circle" really dislike you hitting on themAnd it’s true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 12:25 PM |
| 2 | Do most women underestimate their sexual bargaining power in modern times?I want a 10 like I want a billion dollars. It’s nice to daydream about, but I know it’s not reality and that it’s never going to happen. Hell I’m a 7, and I’m lucky to get my looks match every now and then. Men aren’t delusional. Life kicks the shit out of us and puts us in our place pretty quickly if we are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 11:47 AM |
| 0 | RIP to Japan, you guys had a good runJapan is a country of losers. We cucked them in WW2 and they never recovered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 06:17 PM |
| 0 | Why people never talk about the fertility in men dropping as they age?That’s all it is. Women big mad at biology though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 10:05 PM |
| – | You're focused on the wrong qualities that are triggering her lust: He's more attractive than you because he's more masculine, not because he's an asshole.Today I learned that Chris Hemsworth, Ryan Gosling and Denzel Washington are just “decent” looking men. Have fun with the cats ladies. It’s gonna be a long ride to old age 🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 12:22 AM |
| – | Why do people not want to accept the reasons modern dating isn’t working?This is Reddit. Everyone makes six figures and owns a house by the time they’re 25 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 11:12 PM |
| 2 | Why do people not want to accept the reasons modern dating isn’t working?No one cares until they’re old, ugly, and and no one gives a shit about them anymore. Then reality hits | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 11:11 PM |
| 4 | what would happen if 1 average guy and 100 attractive women were stranded on a desert islandYep, just look at Ukraine. When the bullets start flying, shit gets real fast, and all those gender norms come right back haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 03:38 PM |
| 6 | This is how women sound when saying "I'm giving the ugly guy a chance".The realities of life do not allow men to be delusional at the level that women are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 03:32 PM |
| 21 | Men who complain about how average women can "easily get casual sex from Chad," would you want to be in the same position?This lol. Sounds like paradise, not punishment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 02:46 PM |
| 0 | At a 50/50 male to female ratio, why are there so many men left out?Weirdos can, yes. Most women are getting fucked constantly, but only by men they are highly attracted to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 02:42 PM |
| – | "Hypergamy" is just logistical common sense.I mean, I love hoes. They can be a ton of fun. But committing to one? Haha yea, that’s a no from me dawg. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 12:03 PM |
| – | "Hypergamy" is just logistical common sense.Women are free to want what they want and never settle for less. But there are only so many dreamy 6’5” Chad plastic surgeons who moonlight as astronauts and love their mom while also having some edgy bad boy traits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 12:01 PM |
| – | Because of high inflation in the U.S, is that the reason as to why women (not all) in the U.S are running towards high earning men and leaving low earners at a rapid rate?That’s because the heat is still on, the mailbox money still comes every week, and there’s a government chicken in every pot. When shit goes south, it’ll go south in a hurry. Only people that have previously prepared and have vast resources will make it out. We’re getting dangerously close, at least in America | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 01:11 PM |
| – | Because of high inflation in the U.S, is that the reason as to why women (not all) in the U.S are running towards high earning men and leaving low earners at a rapid rate?I know half of this sub hasn’t left mom’s basement yet, but for your information it takes a metric fuck ton of money to live decently these days. I’m close to 100K and it isn’t all that much. To have a house and kids and never really worry about bills you need a hell of a lot more than 100K | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 01:06 PM |
| – | Because of high inflation in the U.S, is that the reason as to why women (not all) in the U.S are running towards high earning men and leaving low earners at a rapid rate?Nothing good. We’ve already seen it almost completely implode. 60 percent of marriages end in divorce, the other 40 percent are miserable and stuck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 01:04 PM |
| – | Because of high inflation in the U.S, is that the reason as to why women (not all) in the U.S are running towards high earning men and leaving low earners at a rapid rate?That’s only gonna work if you have a model-tier face and a 9 inch pecker. If you think women are out here simping for average men or even men in the bottom 90 percent you’re out of your mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 01:01 PM |
| – | Because of high inflation in the U.S, is that the reason as to why women (not all) in the U.S are running towards high earning men and leaving low earners at a rapid rate?Most women are making more than most men these days. But for the ones that aren’t, yea, the pocket protecter nerds with high paying, safe jobs are going to be able to dominate by the end of this year. We are headed for a crash like no other and like other hard times that we’ve been through, security will win in the end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 12:57 PM |
| 2 | We overestimate the effort needed from women to date elite men while also undereatimating how difficult for men to date beautiful womenDon’t sugar coat it or the fat chicks will eat that too.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 12:21 PM |
| 4 | The myth that single women are happier according to polls, is just that, a myth.You’d be surprised. She can easily find men to fuck her but she doesn’t want that. She wants commitment and obviously nothing but the lowest tier of men would agree to that. But she’s not really interested in those dudes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 12:18 PM |
| -1 | The myth that single women are happier according to polls, is just that, a myth.“Believe nothing that you hear and only half of what you see” But yea. Most single women that I know are desperately trying to get into relationships/situationships all the time. They’re just trying to do it with men far above their league, failing, and getting bitter about it. It’s becoming more apparent as they are in their early 30’s or getting close to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 12:13 PM |
| 5 | “Extreme male brain is autism and extreme female brain is BPD”How many men get diagnosed with BPD compared to women? I’d bet it’s 1 man to every 100 women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 07:00 PM |
| – | If girls liked or wanted sex as much as guys, most guys wouldn’t struggle to get laidWomen don’t find most men attractive. For the men that they do find attractive, they are just as horny as men, if not more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Opinions on single parents by choice?Yep. I have an acquaintance on my Facebook that is always posting about her kids health issues. She loves the attention but I imagine her husband as her are broke as fuck and likely will be forever. That little bundle of joy turned out to be a nightmare and it’s like 2 or 3 years old I think. They’ll eventually end up divorced too because like I said, she loves attention. Posts constantly and I see all of it. She’s low key throwing feelers for Chads. Not that any Chad is going to want to get inv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 12:19 PM |
| -3 | What's your opinion on men who want to date long term by don't want to get married or have kids?Get off your high horse doofy. No one gives a shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 12:11 PM |
| 1 | What's your opinion on men who want to date long term by don't want to get married or have kids?Thankfully there are women that want that arrangement too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 12:10 PM |
| 1 | What's your opinion on men who want to date long term by don't want to get married or have kids?Thankfully my current girlfriend also doesn’t care about marriage or kids. She said “a piece of paper means nothing“ I agree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 12:08 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think Western Birth Rates are so low?It’s really not, it’s just that low-IQ narcissists do it anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 03:37 PM |
| 5 | Why do you think Western Birth Rates are so low?I’ve never wanted kids so that’s my reason But the other is that no one can afford that shit. Unless you’re making 300K a year household it’s just not feasible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 01:39 PM |
| – | One of the most insanely frustrating things is how women very rarely make it entirely clear when they are interested, making approaching them unnecessarily stressfulProve me wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 07:08 PM |
| – | One of the most insanely frustrating things is how women very rarely make it entirely clear when they are interested, making approaching them unnecessarily stressfulWomen do make it abundantly clear if you’re attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 03:15 PM |
| 3 | The problem with dating advice today is that people are seen as trophies rather than investmentsThe problem with this line of thinking is that there is always someone better. Most people are average. At some point, pursuing “better becomes detrimental. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 10:36 PM |
| -1 | Why is it very difficult for people to accept younger woman are more attractive.I tried going after lower tier women and they didn’t want me either. So I just aim for the 7’s now that are on my level. My current girl is an easy 7. She’s got a banging body which already puts her above the 80 percent of fat chicks out there. Ugly women don’t have lower standards, sorry to say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 10:27 PM |
| 0 | Do you agree with Redonkulas' assessment of what to expect in case of divorce?You and me both brother. I’d cut off my arm with a rusty saw before I would ever get married | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 01:50 PM |
| 5 | How do you avoid desperation and despair as you get older?If you’re even halfway attractive and in shape you could have whatever you wanted | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 03:18 PM |
| 26 | How do you avoid desperation and despair as you get older?Exactly. Attractive women in their 30’s that are still single are batshit insane. Even though they have the most value out of anything else on earth (relative youth and attractiveness) they still can’t lock a man down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 03:16 PM |
| 2 | How do you avoid desperation and despair as you get older?I hate to tell you this but if your dating profiles are a ghost town, no one is hitting you up in DM’s and no one is approaching you in public, you’re not THAT good looking. It’s ok, I’m not either. I’m a 7 on a good day. But to win in the modern world, you need to be a solid 9 before you’re going to get any type of consistency with women. Women just don’t like most men, and it shows in the culture. Women are perfectly fine being alone for the time being if they can’t find their perfect dream ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Is it wrong to "settle" because you can't get what you really want?You’re trying to excuse being fat. Please stop. It’s the one thing within your control. Stop bitching and fix it if you’re serious about being attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 01:34 PM |
| 7 | Which is easier, being a man or being a woman?Most women don’t get raped, despite what the feminists scream | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 03:50 PM |
| 9 | Which is easier, being a man or being a woman?In dating? Women In social situations? Women In the corporate world? Women In marriage? Women In a dark alley in the ghetto or in a war? Men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 03:47 PM |
| 2 | "Enjoy the decline" is a perfectly viable strategy“Better to be a warrior in a garden, than a gardener in a war” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 03:43 PM |
| 4 | "Enjoy the decline" is a perfectly viable strategyShe’s not the only woman he’s fucking, but I doubt she cares. Cheating isn’t a problem for top tier men. It’s just accepted as a consequence of being with a man who has the ultimate amount of options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 03:41 PM |
| 2 | "Enjoy the decline" is a perfectly viable strategyAgreed. I couldn’t care less about having a wife or kids; therefore I have no stake in society. I’m just out to get as much money for as many toys I can before I die. After I’m gone, I won’t have the ability to give a shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 03:37 PM |
| – | Average men struggle because standards of living have raised in the past 20 years and average is no longer good enough for anythingI always laugh and tell my girlfriend that if I was as bad at my job as most other people are at theirs, I would have been in the unemployment line many years ago. But I’m a white, straight man so I have to perform at the top level or else I would be looked at very unfavorably. Other “protected” demographics get a LOT more leeway in how they are allowed fuck up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 03:34 PM |
| – | Average men struggle because standards of living have raised in the past 20 years and average is no longer good enough for anythingI wish “average” people got fired. Life would be so much smoother and efficient. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 03:31 PM |
| -6 | Men do not have high beauty standardsSociety has made sex just as dangerous for men in the form of forced child support. We just don’t care because we want to get laid more than we want to be with a supermodel, unlike women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 10:13 PM |
| -1 | Women are just as redpilled as men.Do you know the difference between criminal and civil? There’s a far lower burden of proof for civil cases, and they are often decided in favor of the plaintiff based on the biases of one person (the judge). There is no indictment and no jury of peers. He didn’t break the law | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 05:38 PM |
| -2 | Women are just as redpilled as men.Sounds like someone else who despite their best efforts to destroy him, is about to run for president again | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Why do older women not understand that most guys who end up with younger women are just playing the odds?I laugh my ass off when women talk about marriage. You’re giving me the pussy for free, why would I pay for it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Why do older women not understand that most guys who end up with younger women are just playing the odds?Who cares? I don’t have kids and never will. I don’t walk around looking at women and wondering if they’d look like my daughter or not. That makes you more weird than anything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 12:17 PM |
| 1 | Why do older women not understand that most guys who end up with younger women are just playing the odds?Nothing lasts forever. I’d rather fuck a string of 23 year olds than have one 40 year old grandma all to myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 12:12 PM |
| 3 | Why do older women not understand that most guys who end up with younger women are just playing the odds?Truth. Not to mention, it’s actually easier to date younger women. I’ve always dated younger than me. Women that are in their 30’s often have insane standards, and they come with more baggage and less value than they’ve ever had. They’ve usually been burned many times by men, have a six figure career and a house that they stole in a divorce, and usually a kid or two. They are all still looking for Prince Charming. I’m just a regular dude making 90K and living in an apartment. I can’t provide the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 12:10 PM |
| – | The number of women having casual sex is highly exaggeratedEasily. I know several like this. One girl I hooked up told me I was the 30th or something. That year. She was 23 and extremely attractive. Model level with a little makeup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 02:47 AM |
| – | The number of women having casual sex is highly exaggeratedYea I’ve had sex with over 50 women and I’ve never had a single STD. I get tested religiously. I figure if I’ve gotten around that much and never caught anything, how loose do you have to be to actually get STD’s regularly? People are apparently fucking a lot more than I do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 02:44 AM |
| – | The number of women having casual sex is highly exaggerated“Good girls are bad girls that haven’t been caught” 5 Seconds of Summer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 02:42 AM |
| – | Men have already lost the gender war and it's bound to get worseI think as a whole, you are right. In my circle it’s very different. I know lots of very successful men. Highly educated, very intelligent, great careers making 200K a year in their 30’s. Interestingly enough, women don’t really want them either. I think it all comes down to looks. Women can get anything they want these days at the push of a button or a swipe on Tinder. They don’t really “need” men socially. The ones that they do choose are often world class losers who just happen to be exceptio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 09:55 PM |
| – | The reason why society shuns age gap dating is because the younger a girl is, the more shes covetedThere actually are tons of over 30 women with no kids. The downside is that they’re nuts and their standards are sky high. If a woman can’t secure commitment by 30; especially if she’s decent looking, then she is definitely damaged goods. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 08:28 PM |
| – | The reason why society shuns age gap dating is because the younger a girl is, the more shes covetedThere actually are tons of over 30 women with no kids. The downside is that they’re nuts and their standards are sky high. If a woman can’t secure commitment by 30; especially if she’s decent looking, then she is definitely damaged goods. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 08:27 PM |
| – | The reason why society shuns age gap dating is because the younger a girl is, the more shes covetedThere actually are tons of over 30 women with no kids. The downside is that they’re nuts and their standards are sky high. If a woman can’t secure commitment by 30; especially if she’s decent looking, then she is definitely damaged goods. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 08:27 PM |
| – | The reason why society shuns age gap dating is because the younger a girl is, the more shes covetedTrue story | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 08:25 PM |
| – | The reason why society shuns age gap dating is because the younger a girl is, the more shes covetedYou must live in some shithole, leftist run city | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 08:20 PM |
| – | The reason why society shuns age gap dating is because the younger a girl is, the more shes covetedHigh value older men aren’t hitting on 12 year olds. That’s a pedophile. 20 year olds are another story. 18 year olds are fine too as they are legal. But you better be verifying age before you do anything with them. I messed around with an 18 YO when I was 27. I made her show me her drivers license lol. Met her on Tinder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 08:20 PM |
| 2 | Do people really want marriage or just the photo ops of marriage?Yea she’s probably got the warts to prove it lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 08:09 PM |
| 0 | Women will reject or lose interest in a guy for the most frivolous reasons, and then completely rule him out no matter what he does to redeem himselfNot if you’re actually attractive. But for regular men she’s trying to force herself to like after coming down off the Chad high….absolutely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 07:51 PM |
| 9 | Society is finished, terminal stageOnce they’re all dead from old age there’s not much they’ll be able to do. He has a point, society will shift back to conservative values. It’s just gonna take another 100 years. Unfortunately I won’t live to see it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 12:18 AM |
| 5 | How big of a concern would it be for you if your children/potential children reached adult age without any romantic success?You can find it to be whatever you want. But it’s the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 01:25 PM |
| 0 | Why are so many men subservient to their wife/gf?Same to you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 11:40 PM |
| 0 | Why are so many men subservient to their wife/gf?I’ve dated dozens of women dude. I know how the game is played. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 10:49 PM |
| 0 | Why are so many men subservient to their wife/gf?I hardly ever see that returned in the other direction. Women just usually do whatever the fuck they want and expect the man to put up with it. Part two is well- it’s really no one’s business. I don’t call my girlfriend every time I fart or get a text from some other girl I know, or buy something. Why would I? She trusts my decision making and that’s that. Men being so spineless today is why we’re headed into the “weak men create hard times” section of the societal decay circle. There was a time… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 10:08 PM |
| – | Men who feel their wives see them as Beta MaleThat’s not what she tells the UPS man that’s bottoming her out with the BBC every week while you’re at work… She been getting a lot of “packages” lately? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 04:38 PM |
| – | Men who feel their wives see them as Beta MaleThe truth that society doesn’t want you to know is that women are far more shallow than men. Those bums? They’re extremely good looking. Women will settle and relax their “standards” in a LOT of other areas when a dude is attractive. What you don’t ever see are ugly bums with hot women. Women do not let unattractive men anywhere near them unless there is shitloads of cash involved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 04:35 PM |
| 5 | Q4W: Who is the most romantically/sexually unsuccessful woman you know? What’s their personality like? Describe her.Yea, being fat or a borderline personality pshyco are about the only ways to screw up as a woman. Even then they’ll have plenty of men lining up to fuck, just not to commit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 04:30 PM |
| 2 | How would you know if your partner was cheating?I thought about that too. Again, I’ve cheated before so when I was being relentlessly accused of it when I wasn’t even doing it, I thought “shit, I’m already being punished so why not?” But I ended up breaking up with that girl and then fucking a new girl the next day, so it all worked out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 12:55 AM |
| 1 | How would you know if your partner was cheating?I’m definitely not a life of the party kind of dude. I don’t even have Facebook or Instagram. I definitely struggle but I always keep an option in the pipeline somehow. No, the women were usually very extroverted/high socially functioning types. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 12:52 AM |
| -1 | Men want new pussy very quickly after getting a girl (no matter how good the sex is) and they don’t like admitting it because it’s unpleasant. This makes it hard for girls to get validation from sex.It’s true. People talk about the 7 year itch, for me it’s always been a 5 month itch. It’s really hard for me to be satisfied with one girl so I know how it is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 12:49 AM |
| 0 | Why are so many men subservient to their wife/gf?Most men can’t get any pussy. If you had one available now, but someone told you that you would likely never see another one, you’d hold on to the one you had pretty tightly and regardless of how bad it treated you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 01:38 PM |
| 2 | How would you know if your partner was cheating?I’ve cheated before and those characteristics are the exact opposite of me. I’m mostly a boring introvert. I definitely do not chase attention and I hate all forms of drama. But at the time, the dick wanted what the dick wanted. No, the couple of girls I cheated on never found out. I don’t think they ever even suspected it. Now I have been accused of it by other women when I was NOT cheating on them. I assumed those were classic cases of projection and cut the cord pretty quick on those, even th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 03:36 AM |
| 1 | “I’ll take Anyone at this Point”It’s likely that in a place like LA, he just doesn’t stand out. Conventionally attractive in a place like Southern California is a lot different than Omaha. I’d imagine that you ain’t shit there unless you look like Sean O’Pry and make a couple million a year. Dude is just in a demographics race that isn’t favorable to his positive attributes. Small fish in a big pond kind of thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Do things become easier when you are a high-value man?What’s the correct race and height? Because I’m a 6’1” white guy (the supposed holy grail) and I can tell you that sadly, my options are very limited. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Do things become easier when you are a high-value man?I’m an easy 7. That’s not delusional- but as a man that doesn’t mean much. Men have to be a Gaussian 9 for looks to actually draw tons of women in | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 01:18 AM |
| 4 | Odds are you won’t be your partner’s “sexist” or “best in bed” - and that’s okayThis is why it is imperative to only take low N-count women seriously | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Most of what gets called “manipulation” and “grooming” seems to be just seduction people don’t likeTruth. 20 year old women aren’t getting “groomed” lmao. They know exactly what the score is. More so than men who are way older than them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 08:38 PM |
| – | Women wearing revealing clothingThey’re just Chadvertising. Trying to get the best deal they can by offering the one thing that works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Prenup a red flag?The only person I have complete trust in on this earth is my mother | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 09:44 PM |
| -1 | What advice would you give your daughters when it comes to dating, marriage and family formation?I will never have kids. Don’t want them, don’t like them, all that. But if I did, the number one thing I would tell them is that the “exciting” dude is only going to be that way for a very short period of time- and that if she’s not careful, he will eventually ruin her life or at the least make it very difficult. I saw it happen many times in my youth. The cool guy knocked up the pretty, quiet girl at 16 and now she’s alone, hooked on drugs, and miserable. They’ll never be able to get a decent m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 05:16 PM |
| 4 | Even ignoring the RP/BP doomers, how does anyone not becone cynical about long term monogamy when working in an office setting full of cheaters?That’s everyone bud. 95 percent of people are complete pieces of shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 02:08 PM |
| 0 | What do you think is the cause for this to happen?Exactly. I always refer to the line from Heat. It’s timeless. “Don’t let yourself become attached to something you can’t walk away from in 30 seconds flat, if you feel the heat around the corner” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 01:06 PM |
| -1 | What do you think is the cause for this to happen?Women don’t actually like or respect men who kowtow to their every demand, bow down and kiss their feet etc…. How many posts on here about the girl that just can’t get away from the bad boy. He treats her like shit, like she’s a sex doll, he steals her money, doesn’t have a job….but he’s just so special that she can’t let him go. This often has to do with looks but I’ve seen some ugly dudes pull it off too when they know how to push the right buttons/manipulate her insecurities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 12:04 PM |
| 5 | The DHS paid almost 700k to a counter-terrorism NGO to intercept and divert Twitter traffic away from people in the “manosphere” and those who take issue with promiscuity. Do you agree with these actions and the funding of this report?Just like “being white and conservative” has always been. Meanwhile, black lives matter and antifa burn down entire city blocks and no one bats an eye. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 02:05 AM |
| 5 | Is approaching women something men are stopping to do? Is it also frowned upon? Also is male sexuality demonized?Correct | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 08:56 PM |
| – | Women consistently rate themselves as being far more attractive than they are, and despite what people here say men rarely do thisThe funny thing about being a man is that you have no delusions. Life slaps the fuck out of you every single day and it’s an uphill battle to get anywhere, all the time. In dating, in the workplace, doesn’t matter. Every day. Men don’t have time for fantasy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Did a (F) Coworker Confirm Major Parts of TRP Theory?Well, we know she’s not attracted to you since she told you all of this. But then again, a country girl from the south isn’t going to interested in some beta leftist anyway. But yea. The red pill is real. You’d be well advised to follow it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 11:57 AM |
| 0 | How do you explain the phenomenon of ‘high quality’ falling for absolute dregs?The 8.5 inch personality gets a lot of women all tied up in a knot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 11:49 AM |
| -1 | How can men prevent sexless, transactional or “bait & switch” marriages or long term relationships?No, you’re just weird. Most women don’t want a man that no other woman wants | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 08:54 PM |
| 2 | How can men prevent sexless, transactional or “bait & switch” marriages or long term relationships?By not getting married. I know, big secret. But that’s it. Once you sign away your leverage you are screwed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Women in their thirties are way better than many women in their twentiesNever said that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 03:03 PM |
| 1 | What age is dating truly over for a guy?Probably at 50 if you really keep yourself up. 30 if you don’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 12:27 PM |
| 3 | Who even are these “top percentile men” that are allegedly getting 80% of the dating results?Funny enough, yea. I know a girl who works in digital marketing and makes 130K a year. She might work 20 hours a week. Good gig if you can get it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Women in their thirties are way better than many women in their twentiesCurrent girl is 25 and I found her on Bumble. I don’t have to drive around. Keep being beta bucks for those single mommies. They need love too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Women in their thirties are way better than many women in their twentiesSo salty because you can’t attract women younger than you. Level up bud. No one wants someone’s leftovers. Just say you like single moms because they’re easy. No one is dogging you but you gotta admit it for what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 06:13 PM |
| 1 | OP expresses peak cognitive dissonance after a bunch of people told her what she did wrong.I don’t know how a 40 year old can think they have “more time” for anything. More of your life is behind you than in front of you at that point for most people . | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/01/24 02:36 PM |
| 7 | Women in their thirties are way better than many women in their twentiesLol. I’ve been in more relationships than you buddy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 01:37 PM |
| 3 | Single aging women with multiple degrees are such fun to be around!I’ll have an MBA shortly and I’d screw/ hang out with a girl that dropped out of high school to work at Burger King if she was hot enough. I can’t fuck a degree, therefore, it doesn’t matter | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/01/24 01:03 PM |
| -1 | Women in their thirties are way better than many women in their twentiesExactly. Pump and dump, and that’s only if they make it easy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 12:06 PM |
| 6 | Women in their thirties are way better than many women in their twentiesJudging by the Facebook posts, most of the people I went to high school/college with are definitely NOT better in their 30’s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 12:01 PM |
| 7 | Women in their thirties are way better than many women in their twenties“Experience” in women is not a valuable trait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 12:00 PM |
| 3 | Who even are these “top percentile men” that are allegedly getting 80% of the dating results?I’m 6’1” and very white yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Who even are these “top percentile men” that are allegedly getting 80% of the dating results?Depending on his looks this isn’t unrealistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 06:24 PM |
| 9 | Who even are these “top percentile men” that are allegedly getting 80% of the dating results?I’m close to 100K and trust me, no one is beating down the door. I couldn’t even get traction with women I’d already had sex with so I went back to the drawing board (bumble) and found a 25 year old who hadn’t been burned by it yet. But yea, no one gives a shit if you make 100K. Half the women I know make more than that, and were doing so in their 20’s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Is there any justification to the notion that men should be allowed to cheat?You’re planning on lying about rape to ruin someone? Hopefully you die in a fire. I mean that sincerely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Why are we glorifying doing normal adult thingsThat’s because women choose hot losers. I work 50 hours a week (at least) maintain a meticulous apartment, two cars, am getting an MBA on the side, and still have time for hobbies on the weekend. All by myself, and I’d argue it’s not even that hard because I’m not a filthy person. I’d say most men are like me. All my buddies are the same. OCD levels of clean. All by themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 11:35 AM |
| 2 | Why are we glorifying doing normal adult thingsIt’s not. It’s the gold standard for Chad. Women don’t care about regular men, and Chad can do whatever he wants and still get laid. Hence that ridiculous thread about men washing their ass or whatever it was. That’s hilarious to think some dudes can be so gross but so good looking that they get away with stuff like that anyway. I remember the first time a really pretty girl looked at me and told me she didn’t shower every day. That is subhuman. I never looked at her the same after that. Fucking… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 11:25 AM |
| 11 | It is okay to quit dating but not okay to quit striving in life.This. If you’re getting laid regularly these days, you’re doing better than at least 60-70 percent of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 10:40 AM |
| 1 | What do you being to the tableHuh? I’m not attracting that. I’m dating a cute, slim 25 year old with no previous marriages or kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 06:25 PM |
| 1 | What do you being to the tableYou think a 6’1” 200 pound dude making 100K a year is the equivalent of some hood rat with 3 kids from 3 different men? Holy shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Why do all feminist subs block most discussions that aren't positive of them?Much like communists, they must attempt to keep you in the dark, so you may not see the ruse for what it is in the light of day. The nazis burned books, and Reddit dangerhairs get you banned. Same concept. If they can silence you and manipulate the flow of information, they can win. Without that, they’re feckless and impotent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 04:34 PM |
| – | Dating, investments, homeownership, and financial prioritiesMen mostly only buy houses if they have families. Otherwise, we really only need a one bedroom apartment. It’s just not a priority for us. I’d like to have some land one day so I will eventually buy a house and property. But it’s not really a priority for me right now. As an unmarried dude with no kids, all I need is a roof over my head and a place to sleep. Even when I buy a house it’ll likely be a small 2-bedroom ranch or something. I don’t need a lot of space. Just room for my guns and a gara… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 01:20 AM |
| 6 | Is the problem with modern dating simply due to options and economics?It’s due to the fact that women only really want the top 10 percent of men. No more, no less | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Women’s Attraction to Dangerous and Violent MenThankfully, they usually are. That’s one benefit of dating crazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 03:34 PM |
| 1 | There's a viral phenomenon on social media (mainly tiktok) of porn bot sites stealing videos of women to pretend to be single lonely older women. What do you think of this trend?Capitalizing on men’s loneliness and desperation. “Well I can’t get anyone under 40 to look at me, maybe this passable granny in my local area will want to fuck” A race to the bottom. That’s all it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 03:57 PM |
| 7 | I am thoroughly confused by the current sexual landscape.100 percent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 12:17 AM |
| 2 | Women who complain about dating, is it incorrect to say they are at fault?That’s probably 40 percent of men under 35. Not exactly unobtainable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 12:29 PM |
| 0 | Women who complain about dating, is it incorrect to say they are at fault?Haha yea. I’m a pretty decent looking dude, over 6 feet tall etc. I’ve been on maybe 100 dates total since I was 16, and I’m 32 now. It was practically a part time job for that many years to get that many dates. I figure an average woman could do that in 6 months without even really trying if she wanted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 12:20 PM |
| 1 | Do you think feminism has made it harder to get laid?What planet is that on? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 06:10 PM |
| 2 | Do you think feminism has made it harder to get laid?What planet is that on? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 06:10 PM |
| 3 | Why is it so hard for taken women to ignore other men who show interest in her?Yup. I’m 32 and the burnouts from my age group are everywhere. Never locked down the Chad, spending hundreds a month on Botox and posting on Facebook about how all men suck. They never saw it coming. It’s hitting them like a Norfolk Southern hotshot right about now. Staring it down and relaxing that there’s nothing left. Depression med stocks are going to hit all time highs in the next 20 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Why is it so hard for taken women to ignore other men who show interest in her?Lol. Time to hit Amish country….. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Why is it so hard for taken women to ignore other men who show interest in her?They absolutely would. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 11:17 PM |
| -2 | Why is it so hard for taken women to ignore other men who show interest in her?Not the ugly ones, no. As soon as she meets someone she sees as superior to her current man, that’s it. She’s gonna cheat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Men mistake women ignoring most men as her being loyal. Let's debateThe internet is one endless thirst trap | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Men mistake women ignoring most men as her being loyal. Let's debateIt’s a dog eat dog world and most men are getting absolutely zero attention from women, so they spend their time throwing shit (and money) at the wall to see what sticks. I’m a relatively above average dude in just about every metric there is (height, hair, looks, education, income, physical condition, dick size etc.) and it’s a damn near constant uphill battle for me. I know that lesser men have it even worse, and they’re pulling out all the stops. Women’s hypergamy is in overdrive these days, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 11:11 PM |
| 2 | Men mistake women ignoring most men as her being loyal. Let's debateYou don’t need to be anywhere near a celebrity as a woman to get massive amounts of attentions online. You just have to be “ok” looking. You don’t even have to be a hot. Trust me, I’ve known some “meh” girls who thought they were the next Kim Kardashian due to the amount of attention they got in Instagram. It’s a real thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 10:07 PM |
| 2 | Men mistake women ignoring most men as her being loyal. Let's debateIt happens a lot more than you think. The girl I’m dating now got a ton of $50-100 gift cards in the mail from men she knows. Some of them she hasn’t spoken to in years according to her. She’ll get random gifts from them all the time. One time she got a Keurig from Amazon that someone ordered for her. She’s cute but she’s no model. I’ve seen many similar things with other women I’ve known. Thirsty men are always at the virtual door, trying to win them over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 10:03 PM |
| 1 | If modern dating just a cycle of: infatuation, get bored, cheat/leave?Yep. We only tried to challenge that paradigm in the last several hundred years, and it’s been an abysmal failure. Humans are not monogamous, at least not past a few years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 06:07 PM |
| 2 | Why are people so reluctant to accept serial monogamy?As it should have. I just laugh at single moms when they suggest dates. I haven’t talked to one in a while but a FWB I had a while ago suggested we go on a weekend trip. I just said “as long as you’re paying!” She got pissed and didn’t talk to me for days. Sorry toots, you’re not getting the young, baggage free bubbly girl treatment. Your baby daddy should have given you that but he was a deadbeat. If you think I’m gonna put that puzzle back together, you’ve got me confused with some other schmu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 05:48 PM |
| 2 | Why are people so reluctant to accept serial monogamy?Less people need to create kids and subsequently ruin their lives. It’s called condoms or birth control pills. If you’re too fucking stupid to use that then I don’t know what to tell you. I started fucking at 16 and I’m 32 now. Dozens and dozens of women and thousands of sex acts later, I still have exactly zero kids. It’s not that hard people… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 05:39 PM |
| 0 | Why are people so reluctant to accept serial monogamy?None of this is a bad thing. I wouldn’t want someone who despised me to feel like they were forced to stay because of some sunk cost fallacy, nor would I do it for someone else. Relationships are supposed to be fun. Once the fun wears off and it becomes a job it’s time to bounce. I already have one job I don’t like and deal with ungrateful idiots because I need money, I’m not about to take on an unpaid one when I can just walk away | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Debate The importance off social skills is absolutely underrated in modern men.No, he’s not. He’s slightly above average looking and has a top 1 percent physique. He’s better than the men that 95 percent of women on this site will ever fuck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Debate The importance off social skills is absolutely underrated in modern men.Social skills will get you nowhere without the looks, especially in the online sphere. You won’t get a chance to show any social skills if she finds you unattractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Reproducing older is creating a generation of disabled kids, and it is morally abhorrentI know I’m being facetious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 12:50 PM |
| 0 | To women who have had both casual flings and longer-term partners, did your attraction to your long-term partners ever match up to your visceral lust for your flings?They do, but the amount of men who experience it is very very small | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 05:53 PM |
| 2 | Reproducing older is creating a generation of disabled kids, and it is morally abhorrentAutists build rockets and create bitcoin companies. I thought we wanted progress? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 04:51 PM |
| 0 | "I don't want to do these things with you" and insecuritySucks to be you man 🤣 but that’s definitely what she was doing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: Why is the % of men/women who have ever had a biological child so low and delayed? Is this a reflection of the changing dating market and sexual behaviour of people in USA?30 year old people with kids are definitely in the minority where I live. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 04:48 PM |
| -1 | Discussion: Why is the % of men/women who have ever had a biological child so low and delayed? Is this a reflection of the changing dating market and sexual behaviour of people in USA?Here we go, another Chad chaser…. Honey, the men that have options are going to exercise them. Why wouldn’t they? If they can have sex with a different woman every day of the week, sire a few progeny out of wedlock and still have a bunch of 25 year old women clamoring for their penis then guess what? That’s what they’re going to do. Stable, decent looking Billy isn’t on Tinder at 35. He’s been married for 10 years already and is out cutting grass at the house while his dog and kid run around the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 04:42 PM |
| -1 | Discussion: Why is the % of men/women who have ever had a biological child so low and delayed? Is this a reflection of the changing dating market and sexual behaviour of people in USA?Those damn 50 cent condoms and $5 packs of birth control. Yea. That’s a real doozy. Newports and natty ice are way more important to keep on hand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 04:04 PM |
| 4 | Discussion: Why is the % of men/women who have ever had a biological child so low and delayed? Is this a reflection of the changing dating market and sexual behaviour of people in USA?No one can afford it. Kids are the ultimate net-negative liability. Dave Ramsey thinks buying a $60,000 car is bad, ha- the kid will cost half a million over 18 years and you can’t sell it or trade it back in either. I’ll take a nice car thank you very much…. Modern women are not worth having kids with. They make terrible judgment calls, are addicted to social media, and would make overall terrible mothers. Most women don’t like most men. Most of us know some men who haven’t been laid in years. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 03:59 PM |
| 4 | "I don't want to do these things with you" and insecurityIt is obvious if you know how attraction/human social dynamics work. Most men are just desperate and have next to zero experience so they end up coming home to their girl getting it in the chow hole from the UPS man and wondering how she could do that. “But babe! You said you didn’t like that anymore!!” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 03:51 PM |
| – | "I don't want to do these things with you" and insecurityShe didn’t want to do any of that with you because those were her “fuck Chad, Fabio, Esteban, Enrique, Chang, Romelio, Ivan, Reggie, and Tyrone” days. Every country was an opportunity for a different colored penis. Women don’t just travel to go look at mountain peaks lmao. They go to experience the “culture” AKA get dicked down by as many men that she’ll never see again as possible. Being in a relationship with you, there was no point in her going anywhere anymore. She had her fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 03:48 PM |
| 4 | "I don't want to do these things with you" and insecurityNot ok. I’m going to assume she sees me as the “safe” option and has low attraction. When a woman truly wants you she will move heaven and earth to be with you, please you, and show you how much she values you. If she is nagging, controlling, bossy, arrogant, obstinate, refuses to try things with you etc. she sees you as below herself, and she’s treating you that way because her biology is telling her that you are an inferior male and must be punished. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 03:43 PM |
| 3 | Is casual sex worth the risk of herpes?If you’re a healthy adult, absolutely nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 01:11 PM |
| 0 | Are men accepting far less these days or has it always been like this?Me too. But we’re not most dudes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 12:10 PM |
| 20 | Are men accepting far less these days or has it always been like this?Most men have zero options at any given time. If they have just one, even if it’s half ass, it’s better than absolutely nothing. And no, no amount of “self improvement” is going to make some average looking 5’8” dude desirable to more than maybe five women. All of whom will be very average themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 12:10 PM |
| 20 | Is casual sex worth the risk of herpes?I’ll go against the grain and say that it’s really no big deal. 80-90 percent of genital herpes carriers have zero symptoms and most of you already have it on your mouth anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Why do women pick the worst partners?Yea they do. People just don’t listen because they don’t want to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/23 02:44 PM |
| 7 | Have any of the men here just stopped bothering with dating?You’d be shocked how high the modern woman’s standards are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/23 02:23 PM |
| 2 | Are young adults infantilized? How does this affect dating?Yes. Just look at how many morons on here think men who like 21 year old girls are “pedophiles” 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/23 02:14 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of the study showing 71% of men have been sexually victimized by a woman?Simply unbelievable. Most men can’t even get laid when they offer money for it, and we’re supposed to believe that the vast majority of men have been raped? Get real. They’re counting any act of sex that involved a beer or a puff off of a spliff as rape. That’s outright ridiculousness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 02:56 AM |
| 4 | Yes women can find relationships at any age , but their choices over 30 start becoming crappyThis. Never married or engaged, no kids. I’ve had probably a dozen serious relationships, over 50 partners, and am currently in a relationship at 32. We don’t plan to ever get married or have kids even if we do stay together. There’s no point. I know a lot of men in their 30’s in the same boat as me. Just because we’re not married with a house and 2.5 kids doesn’t mean we’re losers or undesirable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 11:16 AM |
| 1 | For those of you who think women can get anything for free?I know women worse looking than you who are being wined and dined and jetted around by mean with means. Stop feeling sorry for yourself. Install Tinder, start swiping, and plug your phone in because if you don’t it will be dead by morning after overheating from all the notifications | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 11:08 AM |
| 1 | How do women actually go about guessing a man's wealth?If he’s under 35, owns a house by himself and has a nice car and a decent job: he’s at minimum top 10 percent based off of that alone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/23 07:31 PM |
| – | Would more women around the world engage in polygamy if they could get the kind of men that they want?Nobody uses condoms anymore lady. I haven’t touched one in years. And this is with middle-upper class girls with educations and good jobs. At least they use chemical birth control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/23 02:32 PM |
| – | Would more women around the world engage in polygamy if they could get the kind of men that they want?Women will absolutely engage in polygamy with top tier men. I know some top tier men and it’s not even a question. They openly share and the women are just fine with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/23 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Why beautiful women attract men who are shallow and fickle in short, fleeting relationships?Yep. Women are programmed to want alphas. And alphas are rarely stable. The sociopathic CEO who has never been arrested is a gigantic anomaly. Most alpha type men have done time and struggle to make ends meet. They constantly go against the grain and the system punishes them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/23 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Why don't alpha women date beta simps?Of course. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/23 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Why don't alpha women date beta simps?They love the attention but they don’t respect those men. Not one little bit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Why don't alpha women date beta simps?Yes, and those women are miserable and constantly on the lookout for better/more attractive options. Go read the dead bedrooms sub. That’s nothing more than a running novel of people who are stuck in a relationship with another person that has better options. Mostly women who don’t want to fuck their significant others, but also some men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Why don't alpha women date beta simps?Women only date across or up. Therefore the man has to be as much or even more of a “leader” than her. If she’s a supervisor he needs to be a manager. If she’s in the C-suite, he needs to be the CEO and so and and so on. Women don’t date men “lesser” than themselves. And if they do they’re miserable and find the man contemptuous. This is why so many modern women get mad and cheat when they end up being the ones that wear the pants in the relationship. The only relationships that last are the one… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Want to solve the male loneliness epidemic? Stop letting kids play video games and promote outdoor activities insteadNope! You get to work 60 hours a week and be a cog in the corporate meat grinding wheel like the rest of us. Sweet ain’t it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Want to solve the male loneliness epidemic? Stop letting kids play video games and promote outdoor activities insteadI agree that sitting inside on your ass all day is terrible, and even worse for younger kids. With that said, I consider myself a pretty traditional male with masculine outdoor hobbies. I go hiking, hunting, fishing, shooting at the range, I do urban/abandoned places exploring etc… and I’ve never met a woman doing any of that. I have all the friends I need, but women aren’t interested in meeting strange men out in public. I also go to pubs, bars, and breweries regularly and I can’t remember the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 06:06 PM |
| 1 | The talking point that "older men prey on young girls because older women are less willing to put up with their bullshit" misses the mark.So true. The women that are over 30 have even higher standards (yea it’s crazy) than when they were 20. And they weren’t just letting any dude hit it at that age either. My current girl is 26 and I’m 32. She’s a little older than I’d usually go for but she doesn’t have any past man/kid baggage which is a huge plus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 02:29 PM |
| 10 | The talking point that "older men prey on young girls because older women are less willing to put up with their bullshit" misses the mark.Younger girls are the hardest ones to get. They’re not desperate, they don’t have kids, and they’re way better looking than their older counterparts. If a man can date women way younger than him, it signals that he’s high value. Not that he’s “manipulating” people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 02:11 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most young guys struggle in dating because of the society and time we live in, not because of themselvesHow long did it take you to get to that? 25 years? Ok, you do it for the pussy. That’s a decent perk I guess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 11:05 PM |
| 1 | If ever, at what age do you think “youth” stops becoming an excuse?Age of majority. The cops wouldn’t think it was a funny, childish antic that she slashed someone’s tires. They’d charge her, as an adult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 12:42 AM |
| 1 | this might be an unpopular opinion but dating the top 20% of men are overrated. Just get you an average man and live an average lifestyle. Dating the top 20% of men is not what its cracked up to beYou think women are going to just up and start listening to reason? LMAOOOO. The only way this would ever be possible is if we nuked the internet. No Tick tok, no Fakebook, no Instaslut. But that’s never going to happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 12:20 PM |
| 1 | Guy asks girl who switches up the deal to leave. Subreddit goes wild.I just stated in my last post that they do not. Can you read? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 02:58 PM |
| 11 | What is a the bitter truth for men about dating over 30Most people can’t afford a $1000 emergency expense, at least in America. I wouldn’t call that living easy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 07:46 PM |
| 17 | What is a the bitter truth for men about dating over 30It’s not so much that people in their 20’s don’t have it together, but the fact that it doesn’t matter if you don’t at that age. Most people never really get their shit together, and every decade after just becomes harder and harder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 05:47 PM |
| – | Guy asks girl who switches up the deal to leave. Subreddit goes wild.He didn’t do anything wrong. This happens all the time. Women try to play it cool and pretend they’re into FWB/threesomes and stuff like that, then they catch feels and get offended when it’s not reciprocated. It’s a tale as old as time. This is discussed in the manosphere. Relationships that involve casual sex usually have a short shelf life, as the woman is going to eventually want more. The better looking you are/more you have to offer relative to the woman, the longer she will stick around f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 05:37 PM |
| 1 | "No one owes you anything" is another battle women are going to loseCrying? Man you take this stuff way too seriously 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 01:18 PM |
| 1 | "No one owes you anything" is another battle women are going to loseYou’re apparently a retard. I never advocated for rape | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 12:23 PM |
| 2 | There are many women who are so shallow that a man letting them pay for their own food on a date is a turn-off for them.Well, who cares about those women. My current girlfriend and I split costs on everything. She knows she has to bring more to the table than pussy to keep me around. Find one of those. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 11:36 AM |
| 2 | One of the smartest comments on here recently really resonated with me about the current social environmentI know some ugly motherfuckers who scored some top tier ass simply because they worked with specific women and were around them every day. It doesn’t always, or even usually happen, but it can. Those women would never have given those guys the time of day in passing like in a bar, on an app, or something like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 11:31 AM |
| 1 | "No one owes you anything" is another battle women are going to loseI certainly don’t think I’m owed anything. I get women to have sex with me the old fashioned way- for free. You know what else? I don’t think anyone is owed my tax dollars either. But you danger-haired mentally ill lefties seem to think you are. So how about, fuck you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 08:24 PM |
| -1 | “Women are hornier than men”That’s just because a lot of women settle with men they aren’t attracted to for stability reasons. My current girlfriend hasn’t said no in 5 months. We have sex every time we see each other. One night I almost fell asleep and she was like nuh-uh, not yet, we gotta fuck 🤣. Women are crazy horny for men they’re actually attracted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 01:18 PM |
| 0 | What do you think of OnlyFans whales such as this one?It’s the ultimate form of oneitis. This dude could have fucked 60 different women at $1,000 a pop. Either professionals or just offer some college girl that at a bar for a night of fun. That’s a lot of money for a college girl and many would go for it no questions asked. But instead he fixates. He treats her as a deity, as something to be worshipped. He’s so wrapped up in her and her alone, that he can’t see the forest for the trees. Many men fall into this trap. “Oh there’s this one girl….” No … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/23 04:12 PM |
| – | What do you think of OnlyFans whales such as this one?The power of (often mediocre) pussy is not to be underestimated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/23 04:07 PM |
| 2 | Most advice targeted at men here is to make them wait until they are too old to do anythingNot true. Military and law enforcement will blacklist anyone that has ever been committed or even took SSRI’s or benzos. Any history of negative mental health issues will disqualify you. Private industry is different. They’ll never know if you don’t tell them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 05:27 PM |
| 6 | Most advice targeted at men here is to make them wait until they are too old to do anythingI dated a lawyer and I wear steel toe boots to work. I also made more money than her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 05:23 PM |
| 3 | Feminists and leftists/liberals can be the most mis*gynistic peopleLeftists are hypocrites, and project their feelings onto others. Water is also wet, more at 11 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 02:14 PM |
| 4 | Why do men let their gfs push them around?This bitch steps on this dude’s balls in 10 inch stilettos while he begs for more with tears rolling down his face | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 02:09 PM |
| 44 | Why do men let their gfs push them around?Most men are pussies, especially when they’re trying to get access to pussy. Every time I hear “happy wife, happy life” I just think oh, you poor loser…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 02:04 PM |
| 1 | It's honestly extremely based that society is just tearing apart at the seams and neolibs/bluepills are like "Hell yea man, products to consume"Leftists are masters at ignoring logic and facts. It’s literal kryptonite to them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 01:59 PM |
| -6 | No, men are not "creating single moms"Men take what they can get, women select the men they want from a list of options. Most men will fuck anything while most women are repulsed by the vast majority of men. In the end, women allow access. So yes, I’d say they bear more responsibility | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 07:37 PM |
| – | Men don't need to reveal that they plan on paternity testing.Trust but verify | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 06:55 PM |
| – | Men don't need to reveal that they plan on paternity testing.Yep. Don’t need anyone’s consent. Get a kit, swab their mouth. If you find out it’s not yours, you go straight to the lawyers office (if you’re married) or just ghost her if you’re not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 06:53 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Most young guys struggle in dating because of the society and time we live in, not because of themselvesTo be fair, that job never paid shit and still doesn’t. I make more than most FBI agents just doing a blue collar management job. People do that for the status | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 06:44 PM |
| 0 | “modern women” aren’t real. They’re a result of algorithmically driven content consumption.And I’d say at least 1/3rd of women under 30 have dabbled with onlyfans. At least that many. People are very naive and think that their little bubble is the norm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 02:19 PM |
| 2 | “80% of women date 20% of men” is BSIt’s not BS but believe what you will | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 11:43 PM |
| – | What are successful women supposed to actually do for dating?Try to develop the technology and get back to me. And before you do, make the house 150 years old and the power line pylons in the middle of the Florida swamp. With no human support. Thanks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 10:30 PM |
| 4 | Birth rates are going to keep plummetingNever wanted kids, and don’t care. World needs less people as it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 07:54 PM |
| – | What are successful women supposed to actually do for dating?Already happening. AI can’t sweat pipes or hang transformers on telephone poles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 04:49 PM |
| – | Is she a tease or are your feelings just hurt?Women that are alcoholics sit at home with a box of wine and Netflix. They don’t go sit at bars alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Is she a tease or are your feelings just hurt?Sure you are but I wouldn’t date you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/23 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Is she a tease or are your feelings just hurt?Men do it all the time. Women almost never do, and if they do, there’s likely a motive like he’s saying. She’s either there specifically to get dick or she’s undercover. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/23 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Is she a tease or are your feelings just hurt?Why are you hanging out at bars without your husband? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/23 01:53 PM |
| -1 | The one factor that ruins many marriages that we're apparently not allowed to discuss: childrenYes, people are nut jobs for not wanting to take their kid to be babysat by some $12/hour gender confused moron with green hair and dried cum on her chin who thinks Che Guevara was a hero. Such a good example being set for young growing minds 🤣 But we got our “gurllll powerrrrrr!!!” which resulted in a doubling of the workforce, lower wages, and the new requirement to have two parents working 60 hours a week each to be able to afford a 1950’s cape cod on a postage stamp lot with 10 grand a year … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/23 01:47 PM |
| 8 | Just rewatched Forrest Gump and it made me think about dating a lotYes, they do lash out. But they actually face consequences. They die in prison, on the streets, or eat a bullet by their own hand because no one is willing to help or listen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/23 11:35 PM |
| 4 | Just rewatched Forrest Gump and it made me think about dating a lotAccurate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/23 11:33 PM |
| -3 | Just rewatched Forrest Gump and it made me think about dating a lotMen don’t get a pass for anything they’ve been through. We have men who went to war, killed people, and saw their friends killed in front of them who die homeless on the streets every day and society couldn’t give a shit less. Why? Because they’re men. Women would never face the same fate. If you can’t admit that double standard (among many others), then you are part of the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/23 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Just rewatched Forrest Gump and it made me think about dating a lotIt’s definitely a tale of the redpill for sure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/23 11:29 PM |
| 3 | Hookup culture is insidious and most people aren’t cut out for itCalm the fuck down Jerry Falwell…. Some of us can have fun without destroying ourselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 04:53 PM |
| – | CMV Men that date Single Moms, will always be seen as Cucks/suckers by other Men, and Women need to understand this.Agreed. I remember as far back as being 13 years old, and being disgusted by the thought of a man raising kids that weren’t his. That wasn’t learned behavior, that was biology. I remember kids talking about their “stepdads” and once I figured out exactly what it meant, I thought it was just plain dumb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 12:00 PM |
| 2 | What sex act permanently taints a woman?It’s one of the biggest red flags out there. No, it’s not her fault. But I’m also not getting involved with her either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 12:00 AM |
| 1 | What sex act permanently taints a woman?True | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 11:59 PM |
| 1 | What sex act permanently taints a woman?Well damn, now we’re excluding at least 90 percent of modern western women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Dating Apps Are Purposefully Made Worse to Make People More Miserable.I’ve gotten a lot of sex off of Tinder and bumble but I’ve never won more than $100 bucks at a casino. Dirty rotten bastards | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Dating Apps Are Purposefully Made Worse to Make People More Miserable.No one is really saying that. You know what conservatives really want? Everyone out of our business and our pockets. I don’t give a damn what you do on your own time. If you want to abort your children, cut your dick off, and OD on fentanyl, be my guest. It impacts me not. I’d legalize/make it easily accessible tomorrow if I was president. What I don’t want is you telling ME what to do. How to live my life. That I can’t drive a 6.4 L V8 or carry two guns around on me in public everywhere I go. O… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Dating Apps Are Purposefully Made Worse to Make People More Miserable.No, they’re not. They’re made to work for hot people, and they do that exceptionally well. It’s just that everyone who’s not conventionally attractive ends up trying their luck anyway, to no avail. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Turning 30 and worried about losing desirability from men.Yea ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Turning 30 and worried about losing desirability from men.Female youth and beauty is finite. A lot of women think it lasts forever. Men are better equipped to deal with getting no attention because all but a select few are invisible from 18-80 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Women don't receive a benefit in dating by 'waiting'You’re a classist moron. Good luck with that bitch energy you walk around with every day | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Women don't receive a benefit in dating by 'waiting'Yes, because no one ever goes on more than one date with the same person. I ALWAYS suss out the body count of a girl I’m interested in. And I can usually tell if shes lying or not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 02:10 PM |
| 2 | Women don't receive a benefit in dating by 'waiting'This is why we preach dating younger women. Every promiscuous woman had to start somewhere. The trick is catching her early, where she has sex with you quickly but maybe only did it with one or two other men. By 30, they’re all burned out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Do you think most people would cheat on their partner if the right person was interested?(Tips fedora) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 12:17 PM |
| 1 | Do you think most people would cheat on their partner if the right person was interested?Well she’s at least 80 percent of women so…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 12:17 PM |
| 1 | Do you think most people would cheat on their partner if the right person was interested?Yes. Is this a real question? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 12:14 PM |
| 0 | Attractive women who have trouble finding good men / potential husbandsThey’re everywhere. High status women aren’t interested in them though. I know a guy who owns a trucking company. I’m talking about 20 million in annual revenue. I don’t know exactly what he pays himself every year but it’s probably in the 300K to half a mil range. Wears jeans, boots, and flannels. HS diploma, really smart dude. He’s single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 12:09 PM |
| 3 | Attractive women who have trouble finding good men / potential husbandsOh that’s easy! Date a plumber or a truck driver. Mr average Joe would be thrilled with her. But she doesn’t want that. She thinks she’s above them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 11:22 AM |
| 5 | Attractive women who have trouble finding good men / potential husbandsExactly. This shit bottlenecks at the top. 95 percent of men have next to zero options, the top 5 percent have hundreds, and the top 1 percent that she really wants have THOUSANDS- most of whom are objectively better than her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 11:16 AM |
| 4 | Attractive women who have trouble finding good men / potential husbandsStandards too high. There are only so many 6’5” orthopedic surgeon Chads with 8 inch dongs who volunteer at the puppy shelter on Wednesdays and do CrossFit/strongman competitions on the weekend. All while loving their mother, but being edgy enough to ride a motorcycle and get into the occasional bar fight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 11:10 AM |
| 1 | Double standards are valid since... men sleep with women they would never date and women sleep with men they can never date.The ticket to success in this realm is to make sure you fuck her as soon as possible. If she lets you hit it within the first few hours of knowing her, she’s at least giving you the same chance she gave other men, and she’s physically attracted to you at a minimum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 11:52 AM |
| -2 | There’s a sudden surge of openly anti-male content on tiktok/twitter/threads, etc. What does this mean for the future of gender relations?It’s trendy to hate on men and spread misinformation in order to brainwash the masses. Similar to the global warming hoax. Does global warming happen to some degree? Yea. Is it caused by humans? No. The sea levels haven’t risen for thousands of years. But leftists have morons convinced that the ice caps are going to melt and everyone is going to die (remember that bullshit?) never gonna happen. But they have people convinced that it’s a real threat. This is how dumb, gullible, and easily manipul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 11:16 AM |
| -2 | Why do even women with high libidos prefer monogamy or sex with just one partner?They don’t. I know some hoes that go through men like tissues. Most women have a wandering eye, even when they’re with someone. Just like men do. This may come as a shock, but humans aren’t meant to be monogamous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 11:12 AM |
| -1 | Why do (some) men believe women cheating is “worse”?Truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 12:15 AM |
| -2 | If it's a chore why get in a relationship?I hope this guy leaves you before you wake up one day and decide that those sex acts from 8 years ago that you didn’t actually 110% super-duper-want-to do we’re actually “rape” and that your boyfriend of years is some type of “monster” who’s life you end up ruining. He needs to get the fuck away from you as fast as he can. What’s his number so I can warn him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Who has more unrealistic dating expectations, men or women, why?No idea. It was so stupid I just stopped listening and went back to talking to my buddy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 09:05 PM |
| 2 | Most women respect men with larger penises more than men with smaller ones, even if they do not prefer larger penises in a sexual contextEhh. I’m starting to think there’s just a lot of dudes with big ones out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 09:04 PM |
| 1 | If it's a chore why get in a relationship?And this is when men should walk away. Women that only have pussy to offer will use pussy as a weapon. If they do this to you, you leave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 09:02 PM |
| -1 | If it's a chore why get in a relationship?You need to date someone you’re attracted to then. This is not a normal reaction. It’s just not. If the dude is that repulsive to you, do him a favor and end the relationship. Normal, mentally healthy women don’t equivocate sex with someone they’re in a fucking relationship with to rape. That’s insanity. If he was attractive to you, you wouldn’t feel this way. Let him go. He deserves better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 09:01 PM |
| -4 | If it's a chore why get in a relationship?I don’t end up in these situations. Not for long anyway. I’ll leave | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 08:58 PM |
| 12 | If it's a chore why get in a relationship?It’s 10 percent of the relationship when it’s good and happening regularly and 90 percent when it’s bad or nonexistent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 05:55 PM |
| -16 | If it's a chore why get in a relationship?🎶 YA CANT ALWAYS GET WHAT YA WANNNNTT….. I’m sure he’s done plenty of shit he didn’t feel like doing for you. The least you can do is fuck him. Or leave the relationship/allow him to have sex with other people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Most women respect men with larger penises more than men with smaller ones, even if they do not prefer larger penises in a sexual contextYep I’ve gotten that a lot too. Over 7 can’t be that rare. I’ve had women tell me their exes/some dude they hooked up with was huge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 04:02 PM |
| 2 | JDBF (Just Don’t Be Fat)My buddy is married to a BIG girl, who has never had kids. I imagine once she actually gets pregnant, she’s probably going to end up so large that she’ll need one of those “people of Walmart” scooters to get around on. She’s not gonna get thinner, that’s for sure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Who has more unrealistic dating expectations, men or women, why?Truth. I never pay for anything more than 2 drinks anymore unless I’m getting laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Who has more unrealistic dating expectations, men or women, why?I’m 50 in and I haven’t lost interest yet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Who has more unrealistic dating expectations, men or women, why?I don’t get with women who are only interested in money. In fact, I actively seek out those that aren’t | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 12:02 PM |
| – | Who has more unrealistic dating expectations, men or women, why?Ok broke boy (Sarcasm off) I don’t blame you. I make 80K a year and I wouldn’t even take my girlfriend anywhere that charges 80 bucks a plate. That’s fucking insane. Even for 2 people that’s too much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Who has more unrealistic dating expectations, men or women, why?Exactly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 11:56 AM |
| – | Who has more unrealistic dating expectations, men or women, why?I know a girl that rejected a dude she went on a date with because she didn’t like the way he got out of his car. I wish I was kidding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 11:55 AM |
| – | Who has more unrealistic dating expectations, men or women, why?Women and it ain’t even close. Is this a question? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 11:07 AM |
| 3 | Highly unethical advice from a semi retired man whore, that is the true one pillI know about 15 people from high school that chased that dragon right into the grave already. I graduated in 2010. At least they were “cool” for a little while though! Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 10:57 AM |
| 1 | Highly unethical advice from a semi retired man whore, that is the true one pillYea I’m not gonna do coke but thanks bro 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 10:55 AM |
| 1 | As a male you won't know your true league unless you quit online datingDefinitely not the norm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 10:04 AM |
| 1 | As a male you won't know your true league unless you quit online datingI’m definitely unattractive on Tinder, but the last 20 women I’ve hooked up with came off of there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 10:03 AM |
| 1 | As a male you won't know your true league unless you quit online datingUnfortunately, the internet has largely influenced and replaced real life now. Even if you don’t use it, the women you’re trying to get with are. And they’re directly comparing you to what they can get on Instagram/Tinder/tik tok. So unless you can beat the billions of dollars of online propaganda aimed at millions of gen Z/millennial women every day, you don’t stand much of a chance. It’s just the way of the world now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 11:19 PM |
| 10 | Men who require paternity tests, are you willing to do multiple paternity tests performed by a medical professional and under witness observation?Trust, but verify | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 05:15 PM |
| 3 | Marriage is a extended time escort service scheme.Thank god I’ve never been in a relationship like this. I’ve always been poor so I know women aren’t with me for the money because there is none. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 04:34 PM |
| 2 | Women don't get snatched off the street and sex trafficked, it's not a realistic scenarioIt happens so little that it makes national news when it is discovered. What is far more common, and never talked about; is that most women who are raped/murdered are done so by intimate partners or people who they trust or know personally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 11:46 PM |
| 4 | Women don't get snatched off the street and sex trafficked, it's not a realistic scenarioThat wasn’t sex trafficking. That was a random crime, likely by someone who knows they won’t be caught. Likely an illegal. Kind of like Mollie Tibbets | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Women don't get snatched off the street and sex trafficked, it's not a realistic scenarioSex trafficking is a crime concocted mostly in the minds of Facebook Karens. I mean I’m sure it happens to some degree but the idea that someone in a van is going to place a water bottle in between your tire and wheel well, wait for you to grab it, and then sneak up behind you and snatch you in broad daylight in a mall parking lot with hundreds of people around is laughable….to think people are that naive. Like you said, it’s mostly a crime of the already forgotten. The druggies. The homeless. N… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Let's be real it's the women in the 5.5-7.5 range causing most of the dating/relationships problemHilarious considering women sure want men for their resources (tax dollars) and REEEEEEEEEEE to the high heavens when it is suggested that we don’t get forced to fund welfare for single moms and abortions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 09:38 PM |
| 2 | Let's be real it's the women in the 5.5-7.5 range causing most of the dating/relationships problemThese are the same women telling us that Ryan Gosling is average so take it with a grain of salt lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 09:33 PM |
| 2 | Let's be real it's the women in the 5.5-7.5 range causing most of the dating/relationships problemThat’s because women aren’t trying to jam a Chad up and piss him off which will result in her losing his attention. When you are past a certain looks level as a man; say around 8.5-9+ women KNOW for a fact that you are sleeping with other women. It’s not even a question, it’s just assumed. They know the game and they just don’t give a shit because men like that are rare and women are willing to pass them around to get a piece. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 09:30 PM |
| 3 | Single mothers lie about having raised their standards after having a baby?Might as well have one that says “I spend half of my post tax income on Onlyfans whores” It would be more respectable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 11:06 AM |
| 4 | Single mothers lie about having raised their standards after having a baby?Yea it’s cringeworthy shit. Got a guy at work always talking about the baby daddy drama from his single mom wife because she let some loser cum in her. I feel so bad for him because it’s so easily avoidable- yet men cannot turn down pussy even when it comes with a lifetime of regret and being second best. It’s sad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 11:04 AM |
| 4 | Single mothers lie about having raised their standards after having a baby?Haha true. Big oof there…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 10:59 AM |
| -1 | Dating in your 30s for a guy is way easier as long as you have your shit together.I date real women and have one I’m dating currently. But thanks I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 10:58 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever seen an all around "low-quality" man in a relationship? If so, why do you think she is with him?Yea. A few times. Giant penis is often the answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 12:22 AM |
| 4 | Dating in your 30s for a guy is way easier as long as you have your shit together.Then you’re likely not going to do very well with women, and if you do it going to be because you treat getting laid like a second full time job. I would know, I’m the above average dude. It’s never been easy. Not even close | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 12:18 AM |
| 16 | Dating in your 30s for a guy is way easier as long as you have your shit together.If a woman wants you for your career or stability, she’s not actually attracted to you on a primal level. Just remember that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 12:16 AM |
| 2 | Contrary to what has been posted here lately, STD rates among pregnant women are exploding and have been increasing every year since 2012.To be fair, a man isn’t getting HIV/AIDS from a vagina. You’ve got a better chance of being struck by lightning. There’s an old doctor joke that goes something like “what do you call a man who says he got AIDS from a woman? A fucking lying homo, that’s what!” It’s just not a straight man’s disease. And everything else is curable or only causes minor symptoms if any at all. Genital herpes is asymptomatic in 80-90 percent of people who have it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 04:32 PM |
| 2 | Contrary to what has been posted here lately, STD rates among pregnant women are exploding and have been increasing every year since 2012.I don’t know where these people are. I’ve had sex with over 50 women and hardly ever used condoms. I just went and did my routine STD test again, which was negative for everything, just like always. I even asked for the herpes specific test that includes HSV 1 and 2, and was negative for both of those as well. STD’s always seemed like way overblown hype to me. I’ve literally done everything wrong and never gotten anything. I figured I MUST have asymptomatic herpes by now, as it’s extremely commo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 04:20 PM |
| 0 | If women in their early 20s go through 304 phases, and are not interested in commitment, then how do you explain where all the single ones are?The last time I met a girl who had “only” slept with 4 people was in 9th grade. Women’s counts are astronomical these days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 01:34 PM |
| -1 | If women in their early 20s go through 304 phases, and are not interested in commitment, then how do you explain where all the single ones are?Truth. I know bookworm nerd girls who have 10 bodies already. Women like to fuck. And they like to fuck a lot of different men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 01:33 PM |
| 0 | Men are so afraid to be settled for because they know they are settling themselvesThey all do this now, and it’s exhausting. I don’t give a shit about the mechanic with anger issues that you were dating 6 years ago. I really don’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Men are so afraid to be settled for because they know they are settling themselvesThe dude with the most money out of anyone I know has this issue. He’s blue collar but owns the business. He’s often dirty, dusty, and sweaty from being out helping his crew. He drives an old rusty diesel F-250, because he uses it hard and doesn’t want to beat up a new truck. He could easily buy a new one, or even a G-wagon with cash and it wouldn’t even put a dent in his bank account. All women see though is the exterior and go “naaaahhh.” They are extremely shallow, and ignorant as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 02:39 PM |
| 2 | Men are so afraid to be settled for because they know they are settling themselvesWomen are women. They all follow the same biological narratives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 02:36 PM |
| 3 | Men are so afraid to be settled for because they know they are settling themselvesI’ve seen the same shitty female behavior from women that ranged from physicians and lawyers to Kmart cashiers. The idea that there are “good girls who don’t do that” and “bad girls” along different socioeconomic/class lines is fallacious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Men are so afraid to be settled for because they know they are settling themselvesYou’ve got better experience than any degree could give you, I’m sure. My buddy that worked as a bartender said that 50 percent of women will cheat if given the chance. I believe it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Men are so afraid to be settled for because they know they are settling themselvesThis is why I mostly date whores. They give it up to everyone on the first date, including me. I like sex and can’t stand women that are prudes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Can't even blame em.To be able to actually get into a relationship with a Big-4 finance Chad? About 29. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Can't even blame em.And yet there are very few women that can live and be happy without it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 02:15 PM |
| 0 | Men are constantly told they overrate themselves, despite the fact that the vast majority of men obviously UNDERrate themselves. Meanwhile, women are notorious for overrating their physical appearance.Yea the men out there definitely do not overrate themselves. Pure projection from the female side | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 02:06 PM |
| 1 | The only men who truly benefit from modern dating culture are the tip top percentile of menI know a fat white girl who is only interested in black men. She claims she’s never dated a man with a penis less than 9 inches. She definitely cares about it, and this is a wholly unattractive woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Women will always die aloneWomen are childless and husbandless at record rates these days, and there are articles by scientists who predict it will reach well over 50 percent in that predicament by 2030. That’s not cope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Women will always die aloneAnd you think most women are gonna have it better? If most men are loners, die by suicide, or end up with someone that hates them (and he dies first) that means most women will die alone too. The numbers don’t add up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Women on dating apps are worse than menThis. I don’t care how much money a woman makes as long as it isn’t more than me. Once that threshold is met it’s all over. Women cannot respect non-Chads who make less than them. She will ALWAYS use this as a justification to begin the cheating/monkey branching process. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 06:25 PM |
| 3 | Women on dating apps are worse than menYea that was about 90 percent of my attempted dates off of Tinder/Bumble | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 06:23 PM |
| – | Most college aged women do not want 30+ year old menIf the stats are to be believed….but that’s just being willfully ignorant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 03:56 PM |
| 4 | The question you never want to hear as a young man or at any ageMy job isn’t sexy at all. It sounds like loser shit honestly but I do ok money wise. If I tell a woman what I do and she’s still interested, I know it’s sexual and not related to money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 02:07 PM |
| – | Most college aged women do not want 30+ year old menMaybe if they only polled women born in the 1950’s. Zoomers? Lol. They hit that in 9th grade | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 02:00 PM |
| 0 | Most college aged women do not want 30+ year old menMost? No. Hell no. But 10-20 percent either do or don’t mind. That’s enough to work with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Explain the wolf of wall streetI’m very red pilled and I’ve never fucked a prostitute or done any drugs except consuming alcohol. I wouldn’t even know where to find a prostitute honestly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 01:56 PM |
| – | Lost a friend because her new boyfriend has gaslight her into thinking all men are dangerous and want her sexuallyHow do you know he’s trying to isolate her? It might have been as simple as “you can choose between me and your orbiters but you can’t choose both.” Maybe it was her decision. It’s funny how women are all boss bitches who can do anything a man can do except have any agency when a man actually says something or sets a boundary. You people are hilarious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 01:54 PM |
| – | Lost a friend because her new boyfriend has gaslight her into thinking all men are dangerous and want her sexuallyHe has that mindset because he knows what human nature is. And he knows you’re a weaseley little fuck that’s trying to trick her into giving you some pussy eventually. You’re one of the pathetic “long game” players. You’re too weak to just ask her to fuck and move on if she says no, so you spend years in the friendzone hoping you’ll catch her in a weak moment and get a pity fuck out of her. We know you guys and we know how you operate. You’re not fooling anyone 🤣 She did the right thing telling … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 01:27 PM |
| – | Lost a friend because her new boyfriend has gaslight her into thinking all men are dangerous and want her sexuallyExactly. Sounds like his “girlfriend’s” new boyfriend is pretty based. He knows that men don’t stay friends with women or hover in their orbit unless they want to fuck. He gave her a choice of options and she picked one. Now OP is mad because he actually did think he might get a chance one day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 01:21 PM |
| 0 | As a man that’s getting older it’s literally impossible to not smirk at the problems my female peers are beginning to faceI agree. Being a single parent of either gender is bad. But it’s worse for women. I’ve never met a single mother who was also a physician, a VP, or an accountant. They always have low wage jobs with no future and are looking for a bailout. Single moms and bad decisions tend to go hand in hand in my experience, whereas I cannot say the same for single dads. I know a few who have high earning, respected careers and are all around very good and capable men. Where they failed was marrying the wrong … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 01:12 PM |
| – | What happened when I asked my neighbor is she wanted to go for coffee?Lol bro……they’re all “the type” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 11:49 AM |
| – | What happened when I asked my neighbor is she wanted to go for coffee?Pretty much. If OP was a Chad she’d leave a 5 year relationship in a heartbeat for him, and even intimate the conversations/meetups/sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 11:48 AM |
| -1 | As a man that’s getting older it’s literally impossible to not smirk at the problems my female peers are beginning to faceWomen with kids are damaged goods. And unless they’re going at an extreme discount price (no strings attached sex) they’re not worth the purchase price | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 11:03 AM |
| 1 | As a man that’s getting older it’s literally impossible to not smirk at the problems my female peers are beginning to faceI haven’t seen that as much but I’m in my 30’s still dating women in their mid 20’s who think it’s cool that I’m older. And before anyone says they just want me for money, I’m poor. The women my age that never liked me before still don’t like me. They’re still trying to lock Chad down, just with visible crows feet now. In my experience, women’s standards only go up as they get older and more jaded. No big deal, more younger women for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 10:54 AM |
| 8 | When women talk about “compromise”, they are only speaking about it in one direction- as in coming from menThey actually are. Women expect men to compromise, and get pissed when they don’t. Men simply ask women to compromise, and the women get pissed that they even asked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 11:17 PM |
| – | do women have a "6th sense" or naturally heightened awareness of certain attributes in men that men have a hard time detecting or understanding, that would explain very contradictory/confusing patterns in mate selection?Do you know how big his dick is? It’s probably huge. Do you know how big his dick is? It’s probably small. Women like drugs. Men who have access to free/low cost drugs are appealing to women into that lifestyle. Do you know how big his dick is? It’s probably huge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Population collapse: The worldwide Hell that is comingI would in a second if I could get a remote job. I kinda have to get up and go to a fixed location to work everyday and have 45 percent of my check stolen in taxes so it’s not exactly feasible to move like that. And yea, the world would be better off and everything would be half as expensive. It’s like you don’t understand supply and demand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Population collapse: The worldwide Hell that is comingEhhh. The world needs less people. The US could get by with half the population it has right now and everyone left would be better off | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 02:22 AM |
| 2 | Discussion : Am I wrong in saying I’m noticing more attractive men settling for less attractive women these days?They have to. I’m a 7 so naturally I’ve never had an 8 interested in me. A 7 is a shit ton of work. 6 is the sweet spot, but they’re kinda hard to get as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 11:11 AM |
| 1 | High school and university are the best times in life to meet the opposite sexWrong. My life would be a disaster if I had stayed with my HS/college girlfriends. Thank god I dodged those bullets. Current girlfriend is 26. I’m 31. We would have never met in college. One because she went to another school 200 miles away and two because we would have been too far apart in age | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 11:56 AM |
| 26 | Single mom leaves the room in tears after learning how low value and risky she is to wealthy men.I know a cop who talked about how he would go on domestic violence calls and find a woman with the absolute tar beaten out of her by her just-out-of-prison lover- who would then be present at the jail with a wad of cash in her hand by the time the booking was complete to bail him out. Blood stained shirts, black eyes, busted lips and all. They can’t help themselves. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/10/23 08:26 PM |
| 22 | Single mom leaves the room in tears after learning how low value and risky she is to wealthy men.Mostly to piss off daddy. Women hate weak men, and have an especially poor relationship with weak, beta fathers. I haven’t met a woman who had a healthy relationship with her father in a long time. I’m talking almost a decade | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/10/23 08:21 PM |
| 2 | Gee, I can't imagine why guys only want one thing from you.I can smell the Winstons from here…. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/10/23 02:23 PM |
| 0 | Men who are so worried about a woman not having the same standards for every man are hypocritesYea I forgot this is Reddit where everyone makes a half mil a year in passive income. The reality is that most of the country is worse off than I am. By a lot. And I’d never drop 100 bucks on a random stranger | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Men who are so worried about a woman not having the same standards for every man are hypocritesI never missed out on anything worth a damn by waiting for sex. “Iron Rule of Tomassi #7- Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait for sex; the sex is NEVER worth the wait.“ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 11:39 AM |
| 0 | Men who are so worried about a woman not having the same standards for every man are hypocritesNo, we won’t. Dinner is for women I’m fucking, drinks are for dates. I went out with a girl, we each had two $4 beers, and went back to her place to have sex after a couple hours. She’s now my girlfriend. Low maintenance, my type, and looking for a boyfriend and not a meal ticket. Done and done. You don’t take some chick you don’t even know out for a $100 dinner. Fucking dumb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 11:19 AM |
| 4 | Men who are so worried about a woman not having the same standards for every man are hypocritesThis. A woman will hook up with you within hours if you’re “hot” to her. If not, or she starts making you jump through hoops, that’s her right. But your right as a man is to walk away at that point and find someone who actually wants you and doesn’t want to play games. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 11:16 AM |
| – | CMV online dating for most men is a complete waste of timeHuh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 09:53 AM |
| 0 | In an age where you’re damned if you try to get sexual too quickly and damned if you stay platonic for too long, what’s the best approach?Just go for it. If she acts surprised or disgusted, just ghost/delete her number and move on. Women who are attracted want to have sex just as fast as you do. They’ll hop in bed within hours of meeting you. Good luck! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 08:11 AM |
| – | CMV online dating for most men is a complete waste of timeGet out some more. You’ll see | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 09:24 PM |
| 1 | I am convinced that many women treat men like kings to entice them into marriage and then expect them to be different after marriage and kidsBecause in a lot of cases it’s true. Living for free with someone and having a warm bed to sleep in is a lot easier than getting up at 6:00 every day and going out to work a grueling 50-60 hour week so you can afford to do it by yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 05:20 PM |
| 4 | Hypergamy is never ending and there’s no way to winThis. A woman can make 100K a year just by showing up to some woke corporation and asking for it. It’s really that easy. Companies bend over backwards to draw women in and put them in charge. Men- especially white men are at the bottom of the hierarchy, unless of course you were already born into money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 05:12 PM |
| – | Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively?It wasn’t a partner. I was using her as a live masturbation tool until I found someone else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 05:19 PM |
| 6 | Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively?Yea you done did it. Remember, there’s always Mexico. Couple full tanks of gas and you’re there.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively?Because he’s a bitch that doesn’t even respect or like himself- what do you think he’s going to do to you when the SHTF and the chips are down? Men like that aren’t to be trusted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 10:39 PM |
| 2 | Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively?Keep telling yourself that. I’ve had over 50 sexual partners, and I can think of 4 single moms that I had sex with over that span. 3 knew it was sex only, and would answer my drunk “wyd” booty call texts at midnight; one asked if we could be in a relationship after a couple hookups and trips to the bar. I guffawed….she then laughed and said “yea that’s dumb I don’t even know why I asked.” We continued to hook up for a while until she found some beta bitch willing to wine and dine her. My current… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively?Men do not willfully do this unless they have ZERO options, or are a pedophile. I knew being a “stepdaddy” was wrong when I was about 10-11 years old. I remember kids talking about it at school and I somehow knew it was “wrong” and I felt this visceral disgust about it even though I didn’t even understand it really. What I know now is that was the natural, innate instinct that men have that keeps them from getting cucked. It’s real. I knew it as an actual child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 10:32 PM |
| 7 | Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively?Because no man who does so willingly is happy about it. He knows he’s settling. He knows he’s lowering his standards beyond what should be acceptable. But instead of improving himself so that he can attract childless women, he lays down and lets his lack of pussy make him do stupid shit. He’s weak, and should be chastised for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 10:20 PM |
| 0 | The Percentage of Rape Victims Who Are Men, and the Percentage of Perpetrators Who Are Women, is Higher Than Most People ThinkFemale on male rape is almost a complete myth. I’m sure it’s happened 2 or 3 times in all of history but it’s silly to even think about. What’s she gonna do? Hold a gun to your head? Your dick isn’t going to work under that much stress anyway. The only way she could really do it is load you up with date rape drugs and put a strap on up your ass, but women generally don’t do shit like that because it doesn’t do anything for them sexually. This is a ridiculous stance to take. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Even when it comes to relationships hot guys have this "premium" version of it the average guy just doesn't get to experienceI’ve been the “average” guy on 80 percent of my dates and the “hot guy” on 20 percent of them. All comes down to how attracted she is to you. As a 7, most women aren’t attracted to me. I figure Chads have a 95 percent hit rate at minimum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 10:41 PM |
| 4 | CMV: a girl would hook up with you on a first date if she’s attracted to youThey are. Welcome to 2023 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 08:05 PM |
| 7 | A few of my observations in the medical field as a guy with the male/female ratio being 1:10District manager at my company pays 200K. I’d call that high status | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 07:59 PM |
| 2 | CMV: a girl would hook up with you on a first date if she’s attracted to youAny woman that makes you wait 6 months is either Repulsed by you/attracted to women and still in the closet Asexual Or Has AIDS but doesn’t want to tell you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 11:31 AM |
| 3 | CMV: a girl would hook up with you on a first date if she’s attracted to youYou’re in the 5 percent minority then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 11:27 AM |
| 2 | “Women” are bad at marriage.The girl I’m with now says she doesn’t care if we ever get married and that she wouldn’t let that “ruin the good thing that we have” I agree with her. If she changes her mind and ends the relationship over that, oh well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Today a London schoolgirl was murdered for refusing to go out with her classmateOh here we go. Another once every 5 years anecdotal happening…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 09:33 PM |
| 2 | “Women” are bad at marriage.You know what the solution to marriage is? Not getting married. I never will. Way too risky. Get a girlfriend, live with her, share bills, call yourselves “husband and wife” if you want, hell- have kids with her if that’s what you’re after. But never ever ever ever ever EVER sign government paperwork or take vows saying that you are married. Just don’t do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 11:18 AM |
| 5 | CMV : If you’re the guy she had to lower her “unrealistic” standards for the you’re forever on thin iceThey definitely act that way. I’m a straight male. I could go down to the local Qwik Trip right now and see 5 women that I’d gladly have sex with. Some might even be relationship worthy. They’re all over the place and my standards are very very flexible due to testosterone. I’ve seen women on here say that they go years without seeing a man they’re sexually attracted to. And unless they’re Taylor Swift lookalikes themselves, that must be an insanely lonely and sexually frustrating world to live … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 04:30 PM |
| 0 | CMV : If you’re the guy she had to lower her “unrealistic” standards for the you’re forever on thin iceChad don’t date fat girls. He’ll fuck em on a Wednesday morning when he’s piss drunk and bored but that’s about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Men get destroyed by divorce because they view it as a moral failing. If men adopted the mentality "she's not yours, it's just your turn" they wouldn't get devastated by divorceAnd they all do it. Never forget | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 10:39 PM |
| 4 | Men can't have more sex if they don't approach women. Over 50% of single men have not approached a woman in the past year.Women aren’t interested in non-Chad approaches. You’re setting yourself up for failure if you’re not already “that guy” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Why can't people just be honest with men when it comes to online dating? You aren't getting 0 matches because your pictures are bad, you're getting no matches because you're ugly.Sometimes hot people have ugly kids that get all the bad genes. I’ve seen it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 03:07 PM |
| 2 | Why can't people just be honest with men when it comes to online dating? You aren't getting 0 matches because your pictures are bad, you're getting no matches because you're ugly.You should be. 7/10’s barely get shit in dating apps, I would know because I am one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 03:06 PM |
| 44 | The idea that « the bar is so low » for men is more and more prominent among women. Do you think that it’s true? Does it match reality?When women talk about a “low bar,” they’re only discussing the top 5 percent of objectively attractive men. The other 95 percent don’t even exist as far as they are concerned. Then they wonder why Chad doesn’t clean his room. Because he doesn’t have to. If you don’t want to fuck him the next girl will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 01:55 PM |
| – | Women are becoming accepting of their own averageness yet desire above average in men more than ever beforeWhen all you have is a hammer, everything looks like a nail. You’re projecting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 05:37 PM |
| – | Women are becoming accepting of their own averageness yet desire above average in men more than ever beforeWhy do you leftists vote for someone to literally slit your own throat? Are you that committed to being seen as “not racist”? Because having common sense isn’t racist. It’s just common sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 05:36 PM |
| 1 | CMV The Main Factor for Men who make bad dating decisions is lack off options.Keep being mad and going for men out of your league I guess? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 10:32 AM |
| 5 | CMV: All women will aim for the absolute highest value male within reach first, then work their way down. Men don’t do this.Men like getting laid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 11:58 PM |
| 0 | For people with partners: how often do you have sex now, how often did you have when you started the relationship, how many kids do you have, and how old are you both?You wanna talk about turn offs- women that use their pussy as a weapon. I don’t date women that don’t enjoy sex as much as I do, so it’s a non issue. I’ve dumped a few for low libido issues. Not putting up with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 04:57 PM |
| 2 | For people with partners: how often do you have sex now, how often did you have when you started the relationship, how many kids do you have, and how old are you both?Don’t get married again dummy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 02:51 PM |
| 1 | For people with partners: how often do you have sex now, how often did you have when you started the relationship, how many kids do you have, and how old are you both?This is why you never get married. Always have the option to walk if it’s unsatisfying. Life is too short | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 02:47 PM |
| 0 | For people with partners: how often do you have sex now, how often did you have when you started the relationship, how many kids do you have, and how old are you both?It’s 0.1 percent of the relationship when it’s good and you’re having it a few times a week, it’s 90 percent of the relationship if you’re in a dead bedroom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 02:45 PM |
| 0 | CMV The Main Factor for Men who make bad dating decisions is lack off options.This isn’t shitty male behavior. It’s Chad/men with options behavior | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 02:16 PM |
| 0 | CMV The Main Factor for Men who make bad dating decisions is lack off options.Women are completely blind to the experiences of most men. I’ve never had a cold offer to be FWB with a stranger, and I’m an over 6 foot white dude with a full head of hair, in good shape, educated and making close to six figures. My experiences have usually started with the girl saying “uhhh do you just want me for sex?” like they’re disgusted by the thought when I mention going on a date, and a near complete indifference if we do meet up. That’s what 95 percent of men deal with. The other 5 pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 02:14 PM |
| 0 | CMV The Main Factor for Men who make bad dating decisions is lack off options.Women take what they want, men take what they can get. A story as old as time…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 02:06 PM |
| 14 | CMV: All women will aim for the absolute highest value male within reach first, then work their way down. Men don’t do this.I look at super hot women like I look at a Rolls-Royce; beautiful but completely unobtainable for a regular everyday dude like myself. I know that a woman of that caliber would never be interested in me. I shoot for far more obtainable women. Men know what their league is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 02:04 PM |
| 2 | CMV online dating for most men is a complete waste of timeChads can use whatever they want and it will work. If you’re facing resistance in any venue, you’re not Chad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Women are happier "single" because they're aren't really single at allYou’re not funny | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 09:03 PM |
| 6 | Women are happier "single" because they're aren't really single at allShit I’ve never met one! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 09:00 PM |
| 3 | Women are happier "single" because they're aren't really single at allBoo hoo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Women are happier "single" because they're aren't really single at allYou’d have to be brutally ugly as a woman not to get any attention or sex. Like disfigured and hiding in a basement. Even then, someone would still probably want to hit it and find a way to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 08:56 PM |
| 2 | What Would Make A Couple Want to Divorce After 20+ Years?People realize they married the wrong person all the time. Sometimes it takes a while to figure it out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 04:32 PM |
| 1 | How is it that each woman has tons of guys chasing after them (on average) when they're 51% of the populationBut they do. The fact that it “barely” happens as you say doesn’t mean anything. It still happens. Why are you so bitter about that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Good Looks will become even more important in the coming futureMotorsports have no future? Haha. Maybe for the type of limp wristed fag that will buy an electric car…. There are people that don’t give a shit about progressivism right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 03:06 PM |
| – | How is it that each woman has tons of guys chasing after them (on average) when they're 51% of the populationA bit overweight is ok. 10-15 pounds doesn’t make much difference on a lot of women. 50+ pounds overweight? Yea that’s fat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 12:17 PM |
| – | How is it that each woman has tons of guys chasing after them (on average) when they're 51% of the populationA lot of people don’t date within 1-4 years. I don’t know why you people on here can’t stand to hear that. It happens all the time. My girlfriend now is 6 years younger than me. She was dating a 40 year old when she was 19. It happens | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 12:15 PM |
| 6 | Man tells woman where to find a good man. Such a shame that all the good dude traits women want is usually in this location, but they still look elsewhere.Just tell them to fuck off and walk away at that point. Your dignity is worth more than that | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/09/23 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Today’s female dating strategy will lead to a demographic collapse of liberal progressives and a future where women are treated as second class citizens.You’re not wrong. Leftists can’t see the forest for the trees though. That’s always been their Achilles heel- a catastrophic lack of common sense. Hedonism is here to stay for now boys. Enjoy it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 10:38 PM |
| 0 | How is it that each woman has tons of guys chasing after them (on average) when they're 51% of the populationI mean I’m still fucking girls in their mid 20’s and I’m nowhere near a Chad. A lot of women don’t mind older dudes at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 10:34 PM |
| 1 | How is it that each woman has tons of guys chasing after them (on average) when they're 51% of the populationI assure you, these are just everyday women. I see stunners when I go outside everyday. I’m talking young girls who could easily be models. I’d have absolutely no chance with a woman like that. None. I go for women that are kinda plain looking honestly. And not fat. That’s a dealbreaker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Women with a lot of male friends are a instant 'red flag'Yea the girl I’m seeing now has a couple dude friends. It’s painfully obvious they want to fuck her. One of them has before I’m pretty sure. I have a couple female friends that I have definitely had my dick in all 3 holes with. At first she started off by saying “oh I’m not jealous I don’t care about that stuff” but after she’s seen them pop up on my Snapchat notifications several times I can see that it is bothering her deep down. I’m just enjoying having the dread game do the work for me. She’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Women with a lot of male friends are a instant 'red flag'Because you don’t want to or because you can’t? Big difference there. Just about every man a woman is “friends” with secretly wants to fuck her. And if offered they would jump at the chance immediately. The same can’t always be said for the reverse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 10:24 PM |
| 13 | Women's preferences in men wont allow us to reckon with toxic masculinity anytime soonPeople want what they can’t have | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 10:20 PM |
| 6 | Women's preferences in men wont allow us to reckon with toxic masculinity anytime soonVery accurate. Being a narcissist or psychopath can very well ruin a man’s life. It can cause him to end up in prison on death row if he doesn’t rein it in or manage it properly. If he does, it can often lead him to becoming CEO. It’s all situational. The one common denominator is that being a nice guy will never get you shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 10:18 PM |
| 2 | How is it that each woman has tons of guys chasing after them (on average) when they're 51% of the populationThey all do. I’ve never dated a really “hot” woman. Mostly girl next door, unremarkable without makeup but slim and trim or slim thick workout types with good bodies. Their DM’s were like that GIF of the chick getting hit in the face with all of the hot dogs. Male thirst is unrelenting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 12:41 PM |
| 1 | How is it that each woman has tons of guys chasing after them (on average) when they're 51% of the populationNot to me. I’m 31 and 41 year old women look like grandmothers to me most of the time. I only ever hooked up with one decent looking 40 year old, but it was obvious that she only looked half as good as she did in her 20’s. Sorry ladies, youth is the pinnacle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 12:38 PM |
| 2 | Harshest truths that are very hard to swallow about datingChances of her finding the alpha bucks Chad end well before 40. I’d say 30 is the cutoff. I’m average Joe and I don’t date women over 29. Chad is even less likely to do so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 12:27 PM |
| 5 | Harshest truths that are very hard to swallow about datingIf I was simp enough to date an OF chick I sure as hell wouldn’t give a fuck about what her opinions were. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 12:25 PM |
| 1 | How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man.31 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 02:52 PM |
| 1 | How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man.He took a picture of himself laying on top of that pallet of stacked money in Breaking Bad. “Get a girl with this one simple trick!” That’s the only way an average schlub is going to get 2 dates a week. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 11:58 AM |
| 2 | How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man.Extremely hard. And I’m a 6’1” dude with all my hair that’s about a 7. It’s a metric shit ton of work. The only men that have it on easy mode are the 8.5+‘s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 11:47 AM |
| 2 | Single mom with herpes "don't have the energy to be part of open or poly relationships anymore".True. Extremely common shit though. I’d rather date a woman with herpes than a kid honestly | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/09/23 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Unemployed pregnant mom wants a non-sexual relationship.Your move, Kentucky | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/09/23 04:19 PM |
| 5 | Your SO is not willing to do something sexual with you that they've done in the pastBye bye | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a single mother with a dead kid?Nope. I won’t even put up with divorcees. A failed engagement ( what my current girlfriend has- and she was the one that left) is as much baggage as I’m willing to accept. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Discussion : Do you still believe you’re going to find a partner you’re attracted to without any effort to change or improve?I’ve got the same problem. Women that are truly attracted to a desirable man won’t dare “shit test” him for fear of losing him. They’ll simp and be on their best behavior | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 11:25 AM |
| 8 | Discussion : I’m starting to see the first wave of attractive hit forty voluntarily singleThey’ve all had 100 good men who wanted to commit. Those men just weren’t good looking enough . Oh well, it’s time for a population crash anyway. We have way too many people in the US | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 11:15 AM |
| 7 | CMV: It's ok to leave your husband even if he's a great guySure! And for this reason, men should refuse it in the first place. If a woman really loves you, she’ll be a “forever girlfriend” for you. Any woman desperate for marriage is looking for a bailout ticket | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 10:59 AM |
| 1 | Does being single offer financial benefits for both men and women?More so for men than women. As the old saying goes in a relationship/marriage: Her money is her money and his money is their money…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 02:39 PM |
| 4 | "Does The Wall Exist?" Yes Lady, dating options change over time.The women able to lock down multiple rich men are usually very socially adept. Most women are not, as most of them can’t stop being a bitch long enough to even keep an average man interested | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 02:30 PM |
| 1 | "Does The Wall Exist?" Yes Lady, dating options change over time.Yea you can totally have kids at 50! You go gurlllllllll! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 02:26 PM |
| 7 | The truth is that majority of men won’t even approach/talk to women, yet they keep blaming them for the their lack of success.Yea it’s crazy. 99 percent of people I come across don’t know how to talk about anything other than football stats. At that point I just walk away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 05:37 PM |
| 20 | The truth is that majority of men won’t even approach/talk to women, yet they keep blaming them for the their lack of success.Ehh women are women. And by that I mean they’re all batshit insane to some degree. Comes with the territory | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 05:30 PM |
| 3 | The truth is that majority of men won’t even approach/talk to women, yet they keep blaming them for the their lack of success.Women don’t want to be approached by anyone except the top 10 percent of men, so the other 90 percent are saving their time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 05:27 PM |
| 3 | Remember what I just said about women overestimating their looks and rejecting men in their league? Look what reached front page from r/rareinsults, same day.Could build a whole apartment complex on that shit | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/09/23 03:12 PM |
| 0 | Jobs that are dealbreakers (for me )...what about you?As a male, I’m not interested in women with masculine/ combative jobs. That shit bleeds over into relationships like no tomorrow. I dated an attorney once and will never do that again. That girl thought she knew everything and was insufferable to be around. Bitch, you’re a D-tier law school grad and you indebted yourself to the tune 250K out of your own pocket for the privilege. I wouldn’t call that smart. Funny thing that all the women on here say no cops. Every cop I’ve known has seen more pus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Jobs that are dealbreakers (for me )...what about you?What if he’s the store manager of a Walmart? Look up those salaries. Hint- it’s north of 200K a year now… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 01:08 PM |
| 3 | Doctors warn US is barreling towards same fertility crisis as Japan - where one in 10 men in their 30s are VIRGINS and third of women will be childlessKids are a luxury for the rich and a paycheck for the poor. There’s really no in between. The middle class (if you want to call it that) gets fucked again. On top of that most women don’t find most men attractive. It’s going to be a long, hard brutal road back down the bottom. Society’s best years are behind her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 04:47 AM |
| 16 | Theres a 'wall' for men as well, the wall of incompetence, where you fall behind in comparison to your peers and men your ageThis. I hit the wall when I was born. Spent my whole life so far trying to climb over it. I’m halfway up at 30. Men aren’t born with front loaded value like women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 07:20 PM |
| 0 | Theres a 'wall' for men as well, the wall of incompetence, where you fall behind in comparison to your peers and men your ageThe trick is to always be improving. As you lose your looks; you make more money and accumulate more stuff/property whatever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 07:17 PM |
| 3 | This is all my knowledge from dozens of Hinge dates I've been on. I wish I could have told my younger self this.I really don’t think being bald matters. Every time I go to the bar I see smoking hot women in their 20’s with bald dudes. Every time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 09:05 AM |
| 2 | Discussion : Are you being settled for or a beta bux if you managed to attract a girl primarily because of your personality and chemistry?Why do women lie like this? Do you think it makes you more virtuous or something? I don’t understand it. It’s just so outlandish that it always makes me chuckle because it’s such bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 09:29 PM |
| 1 | The majority of younger women (18-24) are NOT attracted to old men 30+Calm the fuck down. I could have been married 10 times by now but guess what? I don’t fucking want to be | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 08:31 PM |
| – | I will never get the whole “younger woman, older man” dynamic as a younger woman myself.I’m 32 and my dick works like it did when I was 16. No change there. Pills? Maybe when I’m 65 or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 12:52 PM |
| – | I will never get the whole “younger woman, older man” dynamic as a younger woman myself.I’ve always dated younger girls and having excessive amounts of money has unfortunately never been a quality I’ve had. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 12:51 PM |
| – | I will never get the whole “younger woman, older man” dynamic as a younger woman myself.I’m 32 and I still look and feel like I’m 20. I highly doubt I’ll look old or have any of those issues when I’m 40. Not all of us peak at 15 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 12:47 PM |
| – | I will never get the whole “younger woman, older man” dynamic as a younger woman myself.Lmao. You’re so fucking bitter. It hurts to be fat and ugly doesn’t it? 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 12:41 PM |
| – | I will never get the whole “younger woman, older man” dynamic as a younger woman myself.Marriage and who women fuck when they’re young and horny are two completely different things. At least 25 percent of women I’ve talked to/dated have admitted to a fling with a man at least 15-20 years older than them at one point in their youth. It’s not uncommon at all. The girl I’m seeing now was screwing a 40 year old when she was 19. It happens | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 12:40 PM |
| – | I will never get the whole “younger woman, older man” dynamic as a younger woman myself.You don’t have to get it. It doesn’t mean it’s not still a thing. Because it is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 12:38 PM |
| 1 | The majority of younger women (18-24) are NOT attracted to old men 30+But, it has happened for me Try some reading comprehension maybe? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Where do above average but not hot men fall in terms of dating?Yea I make 80K and I’m poor. You’re not wetting panties with that kind of money | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 02:19 AM |
| -1 | Where do above average but not hot men fall in terms of dating?15 sexual partners is not a lot. I know some short ugly dudes with those numbers. Chads are in the 100-250 range. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Where do above average but not hot men fall in terms of dating?That’s exactly it. I’m a 7 and I’m 6’1”. Sometimes I get a skinny 7 that’s really into me, sometimes I couldn’t get a chunky 5 interested. Completely random results, and no way to reliably get anything consistent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 02:09 AM |
| – | Woman Claims It’s Hard To Get Sex, Is That True?Yea I’ve always been into younger women. I did bang a 40 year old one time when I was 26 and I could barely get hard. It was bad. Never again. It’s like your body is going “what the fuck dude? Go find someone that still has viable eggs left” I don’t date anyone over 25 now, and 32 is my limit for sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 12:54 PM |
| – | Woman Claims It’s Hard To Get Sex, Is That True?Young dudes with options (Chads) don’t like old hags. Whoda thunkit’? Better get the best detective on this mystery! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Men should choose better womenThere’s not a lot of good women out there. Not every dude can get one. A hot/pretty woman that isn’t an attention seeker is like a Ferrari 500 Mondial Spider. There’s 13 of them on Earth and every one is spoken for. Most men are going to have to settle. Unless you’re filthy rich, 6’6” and look like that computer generated Chad meme, it’s just the way it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 12:38 PM |
| 0 | We need a modern mythos of "the Average Man"HA ha. You’ll be up against the wall waiting for the bullet like the rest of us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 05:00 PM |
| 6 | Is Social Media Culture Destroying Realistic Expectations?True. If the internet had come 30 years earlier the population crash would have already happened | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 04:14 PM |
| 1 | The majority of younger women (18-24) are NOT attracted to old men 30+They might not be seeking it but at least that many are open to the idea and wouldn’t turn it down. You just don’t know I guess? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 04:12 PM |
| 0 | Nobody owes anyone sex, but it’s a reasonable expectation if there’s commitmentCrazy isn’t it? If only more men would wake up to this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 04:09 PM |
| -1 | Nobody owes anyone sex, but it’s a reasonable expectation if there’s commitmentI’ve had women specifically tell me they were grudge fucking me because the dick was good. Women don’t need to have 81 conditions met to have sex, unless of course they’re not actually attracted to you in the first place. Conditional pussy is a lack of attraction | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 04:03 PM |
| 2 | Nobody owes anyone sex, but it’s a reasonable expectation if there’s commitmentHahahaha damn, you read my mind. Women only need foreplay/chore play if you’re not Chad. Which most men aren’t so they put up with this shit thinking it’s normal behavior. Well, that’s what they want you to think, and this is why the red pill has become so important over the past few years. Men are beginning to lift the veil. Yes, many are still stuck in perpetual blue pill land where they think washing the dishes is going to make their wife start leaking crotch snot. The reality is of course fa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Do abusive/manipulative men have better relationships than normal ones?Probably. People who aren’t afraid to cross boundaries and are somewhat tactful/sneaky about how they do it tend to the the most successful. It’s why CEO’s of companies are usually men with forceful dispositions, strong personality traits and often hints of narcissism. That’s what it takes to get the power. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 07:47 PM |
| – | Do people really think this is reasonable?You are mentally unwell. Seek help | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 07:37 PM |
| – | Do people really think this is reasonable?Yep and the man should walk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 07:36 PM |
| – | Do people really think this is reasonable?Yep. If she’s not fucking you, she’s fucking someone else. Women rarely go without dick. They don’t have to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 07:35 PM |
| – | Do people really think this is reasonable?“Consensual rape” is an oxymoron. There’s no such thing. The act of rape implies non-consent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 07:30 PM |
| – | Do people really think this is reasonable?That woman is a biotch. She wanted to have her cake and eat it too. (Keep the rest of the benefits of marriage but not put out for her husband). She broke the marriage contract. End of story. It has nothing to do with “respect,” it has to do with the fact that she’s more attracted to the new dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 07:26 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Every single dating and relationship issue come down to lack of attractionYou ain’t wrong buddy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 05:49 PM |
| 0 | Should a person in a relationship be allowed to see other people if their partner doesn't want sex?Masculine men aren’t going without sex or staying in shitty “relationships” where pussy is weaponized. It ain’t happening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 05:45 PM |
| 0 | Should a person in a relationship be allowed to see other people if their partner doesn't want sex?Yea fuck that. Tell a woman you’re not going to have sex with her for 2 months and you’ll come home to the mailman or one of her co-workers clapping her cheeks. Somehow doing this to men as a woman is ok though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 05:44 PM |
| 1 | How much money/status do you think it takes for men to compensate for looks?Right. So at 100K you’re already in the top 10 percent. At 200K probably the top 5 or higher. It matters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 12:48 PM |
| 1 | How much money/status do you think it takes for men to compensate for looks?Happens all the time. I’ve seen it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 12:46 PM |
| 1 | How much money/status do you think it takes for men to compensate for looks?Until one of those “poor” people tries to fight a cop and gets shot in the face. The powers at be only “allow” that shit to happen when it’s politically advantageous to them. Once the poors really step out of line though, the boot comes down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 12:45 PM |
| 2 | How much money/status do you think it takes for men to compensate for looks?In the 250K+ per year range your options start to open up well beyond your looks league. Most people will never touch that kind of income or even come close. Women will start to come along for the ride just for the perks at that point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 12:38 PM |
| 0 | Men have allowed modern dating to become how it is by never refusing to date women, no matter how bad her past/heavy her baggage.I definitely prefer less experience over more. I’d rather be the teacher | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 02:46 PM |
| – | Women shouldn’t be demonized for doing sex work but they should understand why guys are jealous and bitter about it.I’ve never watched or downloaded Tik tok. I mean I know what it is because of some of these basic ass women I hang out with and screw but other than that? I really don’t know anything else about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 09:35 PM |
| – | Women shouldn’t be demonized for doing sex work but they should understand why guys are jealous and bitter about it.There’s ways around everything. Especially if they’ve got a few tech nerd simps as their paying customers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 09:34 PM |
| – | Women shouldn’t be demonized for doing sex work but they should understand why guys are jealous and bitter about it.Pussy is an infinitely valuable resource. We know this because of the standards women have. It’s as common as penis but worth wayyyyyyyyy more. If a woman who’s decent looking and skinny can’t make a living off of her sex appeal, she’s not even trying. Hell just the skinny part puts her in the top 20 percent before we even get into what her face looks like- at least in the west. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 09:32 PM |
| 1 | How do the women who are always aloof and dismissive towards men’s approaches expect to meet someone?Yeaaaaaap | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 09:30 PM |
| 1 | How do the women who are always aloof and dismissive towards men’s approaches expect to meet someone?Those women don’t act that way around men they actually want. If you’re getting those signals, it means she’s disgusted by you and wants you to stay away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 09:18 PM |
| – | Women shouldn’t be demonized for doing sex work but they should understand why guys are jealous and bitter about it.Nobody who has an onlyfans is putting anything on a 1099 lmao. Those hoes don’t even know what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 03:52 PM |
| -2 | Women shouldn’t be demonized for doing sex work but they should understand why guys are jealous and bitter about it.Then you’re busted ugly. Any woman that’s a 6 or higher can make 100K a year doing onlyfans or stripping, no problem. It’s why so many are doing it. Girls aren’t posting their pussy on the internet for 100 bucks a month lmao. That’s what they’re telling the IRS maybe..:. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 11:30 AM |
| 2 | The “shy good guy” in practice is actually just a bore and that’s why women aren’t attracted to himBoring can be good. Jail might be exciting, but it’s not ideal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 08:05 PM |
| 1 | A Divorce Attorney's Thoughts On Love and Marriage-James SextonI watched it a few days ago. It was a great video. The man is 100 percent spot on with his analysis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: If “settling” is bad, why should women “lower their standards” and “be less selective/picky”?Sad. Imagine over half your life being behind you and still believing in fairy tales. That’s the reality most modern women face though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 11:50 AM |
| 17 | Q4M - an average looking girl is DESPERATE to date you. How do you feel about it?No woman that is above a 2 is desperate. They can get as much male attention as they want. If she’s directing all of her attention toward you, it means she sees you as her ideal type or is crazy about you, neither of which are bad things if you are also into her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 11:43 AM |
| 3 | Q4M - an average looking girl is DESPERATE to date you. How do you feel about it?Not at all. I love when women are completely attracted to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 11:32 AM |
| – | Men's aversion to be seen as husband material is same as women's aversion to being seen as a sex object.It is. You’re just naive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 12:06 PM |
| 1 | Men's aversion to be seen as husband material is same as women's aversion to being seen as a sex object.You think that’s a myth? I hope you don’t come home to her fucking someone else and end up having your whole worldview shattered that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 12:05 PM |
| 1 | If you cant get casual sex easily then you are unattractiveYou can be 6’5 but if you’re facially average, you have almost no chance. If you’re 5’5” and look like a male model, you’ll do fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 11:56 AM |
| 1 | Would you consider dating a man with a working class / blue collar job ?I’m blue collar. I’m also in the management side of it. I didn’t play sports in school either, so my body is nowhere close to giving out like your ex-football player turned beer drinking fluffy former-Chad husband’s is. Tell me darling, can he even get an erection anymore without Cialis? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Would you consider dating a man with a working class / blue collar job ?Haha. It’s funny because it’s true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Men's aversion to be seen as husband material is same as women's aversion to being seen as a sex object.I’ve had a couple of those over the years. One I met and we hung out like 3 times over 2 years. Never had sex. She didn’t want to. I kept in contact knowing I would hit it eventually. 6 months ago she hits me up with the WYD text. I went over and fucked her. She was all over me. Said “holy shit, I’ve been missing out.” I just laughed. Kept her as a FWB and she caught feels. I told her there’s no fucking way I’d date her seriously. She asked me why, and I told her “you didn’t give a single fuck a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 12:05 PM |
| 1 | Men's aversion to be seen as husband material is same as women's aversion to being seen as a sex object.Well it’s 90 percent of women these days. Doesn’t leave much choice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 11:56 AM |
| 3 | Men's aversion to be seen as husband material is same as women's aversion to being seen as a sex object.Here they don’t just come out and say it. But they are doing it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 11:55 AM |
| 2 | Men's aversion to be seen as husband material is same as women's aversion to being seen as a sex object.It definitely happens. The more penises she’s seen, the more you become “just another penis” to her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 11:46 AM |
| 3 | Men's aversion to be seen as husband material is same as women's aversion to being seen as a sex object.It is definitely a thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 11:44 AM |
| 5 | Men's aversion to be seen as husband material is same as women's aversion to being seen as a sex object.“Husband material” is fine if she’s fucking you the same way she fucked every other dude she dated. The problem occurs when she tells you she’s “not like that anymore” and doesn’t want to be treated like that because “those guys were different and it wasn’t serious” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 11:44 AM |
| 5 | Do you have a “one that got away”?She got married to the man she really wanted, which wasn’t OP. Sounds like red pill to me…. Imprinting is real. I’ve seen that shit happen with crazy results. Women going back to completely subpar men because that’s what they’re used to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 07:44 PM |
| 2 | Do you have a “one that got away”?No. Women are women. There’s billions of them out there and millions I’d be compatible with. There are no unicorns. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 07:39 PM |
| 3 | Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s?Yea fuck that shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 07:22 PM |
| 3 | Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s?“Jfc. Talking about what a woman “So freely gave away” is a toxic mindset to have. “Women are allowed to experiment to find out what we like sexually, decide we don’t like something, and not perform that act again. Men are allowed to do the same.” Well I’m only interested in her when she’s in the “experimental” stage. That make sense? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 07:21 PM |
| 8 | Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s?True. I fucked women in their 20’s when I was in my 20’s and now that I’m in my 30’s…..I still fuck women in their 20’s. They all come with a lot of “experience,” and baggage. Just the way it is. Women grow up very fast, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 07:18 PM |
| 0 | Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s?You can’t do that now either if you’re only making a flat 100K | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 06:48 PM |
| 19 | Single independent women are not really as independent as it seemsThe girl I’m seeing now uses her ex’s Netflix account and they’re also still on the same phone plan. They were engaged at one point though, and she’s going to take him off the phone bill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 06:12 PM |
| 2 | What do you think is at the root of the “Femcel” phenomenon?Everybody on Reddit seems to be able to do this. They make 200K working from home 15 hours a week. If you can do that, might as well move to Japan or some shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 12:07 PM |
| 4 | Testing a potential partner with no sex, while having casual sex/hook ups with other guys before, makes no sense objectively speaking“I could easily dress up nicely, go to a bar, find the most vulnerable woman there, pump her full of drinks, turn on the charm and fuck her, that’s basically what Pickup Artistry is all about.” Lol, tell me you know nothing about seduction without actually telling me you know nothing. I’ve gotten laid on plenty of first dates/nights out with random women and not a single one of them was drunk when we did it. Says more about your lack of skill/looks if you think that’s how it works every time 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 11:47 AM |
| 0 | Testing a potential partner with no sex, while having casual sex/hook ups with other guys before, makes no sense objectively speakingNo it doesn’t and you should walk away if you ever find yourself in this situation. If she doesn’t fuck you on the first/second meetup, she’s either not attracted to you/has hang ups about sex or possibly both. The sex is never worth the wait | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 11:38 AM |
| 1 | The problem for all of us is sex itself.Well he should go chop his own dick off then since he thinks he’s such a monster | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 07:41 PM |
| 2 | The problem for all of us is sex itself.Yea she’s mentally ill for sure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 01:43 PM |
| 1 | The problem for all of us is sex itself.You people on here are bizarre. Like you have clinical issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 01:38 PM |
| -6 | Born Again virgins and hoe phasesNice strawman insult. Some of us have seen plenty of vaginas. I also know that if a woman is calling my 7 inch dick average, then she’s a friggen hoe. I’m in the top 10 percent in that metric. If she’s seen a few 9 inchers then she’s been with several hundred men. They’re just telling on themselves at that point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 11:40 PM |
| 2 | if withholding sex is not a good way to secure commitment, then what is?Yea. I just assume every woman I meet has fucked at least a few men within a couple hours of meeting them. Because most of them have. If she does it for me too, she at least desires me as much as she did them, and therefore passes the test. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 11:16 AM |
| 4 | if withholding sex is not a good way to secure commitment, then what is?Pick commitment minded men instead of ripped bad boys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 11:12 AM |
| 1 | how abnormal is it for women compared to men to have a very high libido?All women have a high libido for the right man. If she’s cold to you/shutting down your advances, she’s not sufficiently attracted. Spend your time on women that are hot for you instead of just lukewarm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 05:26 PM |
| 2 | CMV: If the only reason you’re improving yourself is to get laid, you’re making it more difficult to get laidI’d bet half of the people that do it are only there for the pictures that they can post on Tinder knowing it will up their odds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 01:22 PM |
| 1 | "Hook-up culture is destroying society" is the dumbest thing I've ever heard.Pretty much all forms of it are harmless. I’m just making a point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 02:12 AM |
| 2 | Men aging like fine wine is a myth and women "hitting the wall" is overstatedEverybody on here does pretend to make a top 1 percent salary. It’s kinda ridiculous | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Men aging like fine wine is a myth and women "hitting the wall" is overstatedDefinitely not. If anything, we split costs. I’ll pay for dinner and then she does the next time and so on and so forth. My point is that I don’t make nearly enough money for that to be a determining factor in attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 12:24 AM |
| 2 | Most men catch feelings for their female friends, women rarely for their male buddiesMost women aren’t attracted to most men. Water is wet… Women also don’t have to become “friends” with men to get fucked. They can just cut straight to it. Less desirable men on the other hand don’t have this option. They will often befriend women hoping that there will be a “slow burn” attachment built over time even though she’s repulsed by the thought of stroking his penis but sees him as an easy and reliable source of platonic male attention to feed her ego. It’s a predictable tale, one as ol… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 09:36 PM |
| 4 | Men aging like fine wine is a myth and women "hitting the wall" is overstatedI know a lot of women that date way older men. Is is the majority? No. But there is a sizable number of them out there that have no issue with a 5,10, or even 20 year age gap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 09:30 PM |
| 0 | Men aging like fine wine is a myth and women "hitting the wall" is overstatedIf they are currently single but want to be married and have a house, husband and 4 kids by 35, yes they are old. That shit doesn’t happen overnight. If you just want to be a cool wine aunt, then YOLO baby. You can be 35 at the club on a Thursday night at that point and it doesn’t matter. All about priorities/what you want out of life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Men aging like fine wine is a myth and women "hitting the wall" is overstatedI’m a broke as shit (only making 80K) almost 32 year old and I’m still fucking girls in their 20’s. They’re not with me for the money because my salary is shit for someone my age. The girl I’m with now- we have sex 3 times a day when we see each other. She’s 26. I’ve never had enough money for that to be a deciding factor. I know they’re actually attracted to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 09:24 PM |
| 3 | "Hook-up culture is destroying society" is the dumbest thing I've ever heard.1 in 5 people have genital herpes. People are fucking a lot. Hell I’ve had 50+ partners and I’m no Chad/Casanova. If you’re not part of it, that sucks. But that don’t change the facts, Jack. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 06:32 PM |
| 2 | You're not entitled to anythingYou’re not either boo. Not healthcare, housing, or even safety is a right. Only freedom is guaranteed. Welcome to America | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 11:19 AM |
| 1 | Is it worth it for average guys to get good at bedroom maxxing?My place is spotless but women don’t give a shit once they’re already in your bed. Getting them to that point is the hard part | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 11:18 AM |
| 1 | Is it worth it for average guys to get good at bedroom maxxing?An hour is a long time? News to me. I’m also 7” and have been called average many times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 11:13 AM |
| 3 | Women Admitting That Their Promiscuous Pasts Prevent Them From Enjoying Sex With Their HusbandsThis. I’m a first or second date sex kinda guy now. If it doesn’t happen by then, she’s not as attracted to you as she should be for you to consider proceeding with any type of relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 01:21 PM |
| 1 | The 'Chad C*ck Carousel* is a MythThey’re not lying. I actually see them with new people every time we meet up. They’re clearly fucking. 10 is an extremely low number of lifetime partners. Nearly everyone I know hit that in their very early 20’s and is way higher now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 02:14 AM |
| 16 | Women are outcompeting men in a number of areas, and it’s no mystery why men are falling behind in romanceNot even close to true. It’s the women that are insanely picky and shallow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 02:02 AM |
| 24 | Women are outcompeting men in a number of areas, and it’s no mystery why men are falling behind in romanceWomen are incentivized, given breaks and leeway, and pushed toward success at every turn. Men are told that they are worthless pieces of shit (especially if they are straight and white), regardless of what they do. They have to work 5 times as hard for worse results. Gee, I wonder why men are just saying “fuck it” and walking away. Big mystery we’ve got on our hands…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 02:00 AM |
| 2 | Why do conventionally attractive woman almost always date high status men?People are generally lazy. If you can marry rich and not have to worry about working for a living, why not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 03:25 PM |
| 8 | Educated Women’s arguments here against dating the working class make no senseI’m sure the woman is also hot. The fact that she’s a doctor likely didn’t factor into it much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 11:44 AM |
| 1 | The 'Chad C*ck Carousel* is a MythI haven’t met a girl with only 3 partners since I was like 17. Less than 10 is basically a virgin these days | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 12:10 PM |
| 68 | Do women actually marry the men they aren't really that sexually attracted to?Yes. Families that swore they never would will tear each other apart and become mortal enemies over a little bit of inheritance. You’d be amazed at what the prospect of total financial security will make people act like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 12:19 AM |
| 62 | The 'Chad C*ck Carousel* is a MythThere’s no way I know all 95th percentile people. There’s lying in there. A lot of it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 12:16 AM |
| – | I am NOT seeing "average" men having sex "all the time"5 foot 9, fat, high school diploma, balding, 40K a year | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Dating for long term relationships past university age is pointlessOf course it does | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 09:32 PM |
| 1 | I am NOT seeing "average" men having sex "all the time"Become a Chad and you’ll see. Women don’t give a fuck about monogamy if you’re a top tier man. That shit gets saved for the betas at bailout time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 09:31 PM |
| 7 | I am NOT seeing "average" men having sex "all the time"Lying? Yea no one would ever do that. Women hate social shaming. That doesn’t keep them from getting dicked down in the dark though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 09:28 PM |
| 12 | I am NOT seeing "average" men having sex "all the time"Lol. A 6’2” in shape white guy making six figures in his late 20’s-early 30’s is top 1 percent. You guys are delusional about what “average” really is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 09:23 PM |
| -1 | Dating for long term relationships past university age is pointlessThey shouldn’t. Especially men. Way more to lose on that end settling with some woman who was never really attracted to you to start with and sees a big payday at the end of it all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 03:36 PM |
| -5 | Dating for long term relationships past university age is pointlessWomen don’t care about men’s body count. Actually, the more the better. For men looking for a quality woman, it’s the opposite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 03:34 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women are incredibly entitled and take male providers for grantedOf course they could. But again, if they picked right they get to divorce him and become a millionaire overnight. I’m taking your side here for a moment….not that men should ever get married | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 11:33 AM |
| 1 | Would most men cheat on their partners if given the chance?You can “come across” good looking women all you want. The chance that any one of them wants to have sex with you is slim to none unless you’re a Chad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 11:24 AM |
| 1 | Would most men cheat on their partners if given the chance?Most people would in general if the other person is better looking/higher status etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 11:22 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women are incredibly entitled and take male providers for grantedYou’ve never done any real work if you think being a parent is more difficult than doing hard labor | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 11:19 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women are incredibly entitled and take male providers for grantedSome women pick the right men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 11:13 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women are incredibly entitled and take male providers for grantedThis is not the norm though. Most men do most of the earning (or the women wouldn’t be attracted to them/interested). Women do the majority of the housework and work less outside the home, if at all. Most situations aren’t like yours | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 11:12 AM |
| 1 | I genuinely think dating for women is dangerous... but dont understand why women risk sleeping with men, why?Those are the opinions of women with an unhealthy view of sex/ and or past trauma. A lot of women love sex. A lot of women take risks to get their shit pushed in by men that they are attracted to. A lot of women like seeing and feeling penises. A lot of women actually like semen on them (many of my experiences dictate this). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 05:26 PM |
| 8 | A guy spending a lot of money is a red flag.Keep hating on people that can buy anything they want lol. You’re secretly very attracted to men that have a lot of resources. All women are, it’s natural. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Sex is extremely important to people and when they say it's not, they're lying.That’s a large part of it yes. I’ve had women tell me they never could cum with exes but did with me because I was her “type” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 09:48 PM |
| 1 | CMV I believe that beeing a Step Dad is one off the most humilating things that a Man can do to himself.Correct. I don’t know what point you’re trying to make here. It seems that you’re trying to convince loser men that becoming a stepdad somehow makes them superior to Chad the semen donor. It doesn’t. Whether he gets killed 5 minutes after the impregnation or not. I know some dudes dating women with kids that aren’t theirs. It’s a psychological hellscape for them that I wouldn’t wish on anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Sex is extremely important to people and when they say it's not, they're lying.It’s not though. If sex didn’t feel good to most women we wouldn’t have 8 billion people on this planet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 03:44 PM |
| 0 | Is the pattern of dating the most desirable men in their 20s and then settling in their 30s nd 40s a common pattern of modern day women in most 1st world countries?You’re pretty simple minded then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Sex is extremely important to people and when they say it's not, they're lying.It’s not weird it’s just not the norm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Sex is extremely important to people and when they say it's not, they're lying.31 so not quite there yet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 03:41 PM |
| -1 | Sex is extremely important to people and when they say it's not, they're lying.I’ve fucked more women than you could ever hope to pal. Maybe you’ll figure it out one day but probably not. Back to the hub for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 03:40 PM |
| 1 | CMV I believe that beeing a Step Dad is one off the most humilating things that a Man can do to himself.No, I’m not. The alpha reproduces. The beta does not. Whatever you want to call it, the man who had consequence-free reproduction wins. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 03:38 PM |
| 1 | All men seek two fundamental qualities in partners:Like I said. Go fuck yourself. No one is saying to be a rapist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 03:36 PM |
| – | Sex = Bargaining Chip for Women | Women Enjoy but Don’t *Value* SexI’ve actually dated some women that loved sex. And it wasn’t a ruse to get anything either. They just loved dick. I think that I just got lucky though, and that they are pretty rare in the grand scheme of things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 12:30 PM |
| 1 | CMV I believe that beeing a Step Dad is one off the most humilating things that a Man can do to himself.100 percent accurate. Never seen a step daddy that was better looking than the sperm donor. Women know exactly what the fuck they’re doing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 12:25 PM |
| 0 | CMV I believe that beeing a Step Dad is one off the most humilating things that a Man can do to himself.Yes. The man who shoots the wad into her and tricks another sucker into paying for it wins. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 12:24 PM |
| -1 | CMV I believe that beeing a Step Dad is one off the most humilating things that a Man can do to himself.No man with options chooses a single mom. Not one. You can tell yourself whatever makes you feel better, but reality is reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 12:22 PM |
| 0 | CMV I believe that beeing a Step Dad is one off the most humilating things that a Man can do to himself.It’s a last ditch effort for a low value man to get pussy. Trust me, they’re not happy about it either. But they don’t have any other options for a relationship. I’ve kept a couple single moms around before but it was conditional. I told them it was strictly sex, I don’t want to ever meet your kids, and finally no, I’m not going to change my mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 12:15 PM |
| – | All men seek two fundamental qualities in partners:Shut the fuck up. 99 percent of men are not rapists. We’re telling you that if you decide to remove a very important part of a relationship without justification, or it becomes excessive, we’re going to go find someone who doesn’t tell us no. That’s it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 12:13 PM |
| 1 | CMV: women want sex as much as men do, but with the right person.Yea no shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 12:08 PM |
| 1 | Are woman generally more needy than men?If she’s actually attracted to you, yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Cmv : I now believe women are actually right. Maybe mens personalities are a bigger problem than I believedTrue. And I know this is so due to years of experience being a a 7/10. Most of the women I’ve dated thought I was hilarious, captivating, intelligent, manly, witty etc. But that was only after I passed the looks threshold. Most women wouldn’t even give me the chance to display those characteristics, because I’m not a Chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 10:47 PM |
| -4 | Sex is extremely important to people and when they say it's not, they're lying.An easy 70 percent of the women I’ve had sex with? And I’m no Casanova or king dong but I’ve been around the block. Most women like sex. Most women can have an orgasm from having regular sex. This is not news to anyone that actually……has sex. You’re the exception honey. Find men you’re actually attracted to and you too will have orgasms | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 06:02 PM |
| -4 | Sex is extremely important to people and when they say it's not, they're lying.I’m sure she is. A lot of women on here must have fucked up anatomy down there. “Sex does nothing for me…” like what? Your shit must be broken then. I’ve given women mind blowing orgasms just from penetration. If you need 8 fingers, a tongue, lube, lighting, correct temperature, a compatible zodiac sign, a full moon, and an hour just to have an orgasm, something is wrong with you LMAO. That’s not normal in real life, but seems to be a common theme here on Reddit. Maybe there are just a bunch of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 05:49 PM |
| -1 | Is the pattern of dating the most desirable men in their 20s and then settling in their 30s nd 40s a common pattern of modern day women in most 1st world countries?Lol that same old bullshit. You’re pretty much who you are by the time you’re 16. People don’t change or mature that much over time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 01:00 PM |
| 4 | Men always talk about promiscuous women, and how it affects the women(wich is true) BUT it's the same for menIt’s not the same. I’ve been with over 50 women but if I met my ideal woman I’d be crazy about her just like a high school kid. Women can’t do that. They’re like a pie. Each man takes a piece of her, eventually after 10-20 men all of the pie is gone and there’s nothing left for her to give. Don’t shoot the messenger, blame biology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 12:47 PM |
| – | Could u in the 80s as a Man basically "just exist" and you were basically guaranteed that u will end up with a Wife + Family? Was it that easy?Yep. Two completely different worlds. I was a Chad in the pre-2010 era. Too bad I didn’t give a shit back then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 12:45 PM |
| – | Could u in the 80s as a Man basically "just exist" and you were basically guaranteed that u will end up with a Wife + Family? Was it that easy?Yes. How do you think the previous generations were so large? We’re headed towards a population collapse (which isn’t necessarily a bad thing) but corporations and government are already panicking and trying to figure out how to move forward with far less people/taxpayers in the future. They know that late millennials and gen Z are having almost no kids compared to previous generations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 12:42 PM |
| – | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?Yup | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 08:43 PM |
| – | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?It’s not insecurity. It’s reality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 08:42 PM |
| – | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?Absolutely true. It’s good that she’s getting in shape but it’s also the biggest red flag you can receive all at the same time. She’s prepping the monkey branch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 08:40 PM |
| 0 | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?Boom. End thread | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 08:39 PM |
| 2 | The modern dating world has been somewhat ruined by OLD, but it's mostly men's fault.It’s a misnomer to assume that only the men approaching are getting results. Women absolutely make the first approach on men that they are truly interested in; it’s just that such a small subset of the male population meets that bar that people think it isn’t real. Truly objectively attractive men don’t do much, if any approaching. The women take the lead on that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 08:35 PM |
| – | CMV : Your parents could mostly buy houses easily, you can’t. Your parents found partners and had families, you can’t. It’s normal.I’ve said it before. If the internet had taken off 30-40 years earlier, most of us on this site wouldn’t be here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 05:01 PM |
| 3 | CMV : Your parents could mostly buy houses easily, you can’t. Your parents found partners and had families, you can’t. It’s normal.Yea I still remember 2006. That was a wild and very different time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 04:59 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Your parents could mostly buy houses easily, you can’t. Your parents found partners and had families, you can’t. It’s normal.Nobody grew up being told “you’re gonna be so average one day son!” Starting with the millennials, kids were pumped up to unimaginable heights by their parents. The disconnect between hearing that you’re awesome and can be whatever you want to be, and then reality; is what is causing so much mental illness in society today. The reality is most millennials/gen z are far worse off than their parents ever were, and it’s only going to increase and become more apparent. It was a huge disservice to te… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 04:58 PM |
| 5 | What causes people to do a complete 180?This is what happens when you’re not attractive. Women call it “no spark” but what it really means is “not Chad” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 07:50 PM |
| 1 | CMV Man didnt get worse if you compare men from 1950 to 2022, but if you compare Women from 1950 to 2022 you will see a INSANE decrease in "Dating Partner Quality." I am very curious if someone can prove to me that "back in the day" men were better, but i dont believe it.Musk’s dad didn’t give him 250 billion dollars | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 02:48 PM |
| 2 | As a guy if you had to choose, would you choose to be very physically attractive or have a successful career?Uh. Yea it will. I know some absolute golems that only have the career part down, and they’re dating women hotter than I could ever hope to get the attention of. I’m talking men that have more body hair than an Armenian and probably have to lift multiple rolls of fat just to find their dick. They’re loaded though, and the women they date are bombshells. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 02:45 PM |
| 3 | As a guy if you had to choose, would you choose to be very physically attractive or have a successful career?Most women can make six figures easily just by showing up even if they’re only somewhat attractive. Whether it be onlyfans or the corporate world, opportunity is all over. Most of them are extremely lazy though, so they will chase men with money just so they don’t have to actually do anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 02:41 PM |
| 7 | Beauty is subjective, but unattractive men should know their placeAfter a long dry spell you’d be shocked what we find attractive 🤣 even if the post nut clarity hits shortly after | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 02:38 PM |
| 0 | Women mostly get “the ick” over perceived shortcomings of masculinityI know low body count girls making over 100K that talk about icks. It’s a common thing no matter the demographic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 01:57 PM |
| 1 | I'm confused on the overall stance women have on approachingIt is what it is. I know I’m only a 7, so to get any results at that level is considered fortunate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 11:34 PM |
| 2 | CMV Man didnt get worse if you compare men from 1950 to 2022, but if you compare Women from 1950 to 2022 you will see a INSANE decrease in "Dating Partner Quality." I am very curious if someone can prove to me that "back in the day" men were better, but i dont believe it.Hahahahahahahahaha Delusional | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 09:38 PM |
| 12 | I'm confused on the overall stance women have on approachingAnd of course she’s chasing the dude that already has a FWB and doesn’t give a fuck about her feels. This shit writes itself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 02:58 PM |
| 2 | I'm confused on the overall stance women have on approachingThat’s why left car sales. “If you bother 20 people, 19 will tell you to fuck off but at least one will buy!” Yea that’s fucking mentally exhausting. Only low IQ people enjoy that shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 02:56 PM |
| 2 | I'm confused on the overall stance women have on approachingI haven’t approached a woman in years. It’s not worth the potential humiliation/arrest. I get all my lays/hookups/relationships from Tinder/Bumble/Hinge | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 02:53 PM |
| -7 | CMV Man didnt get worse if you compare men from 1950 to 2022, but if you compare Women from 1950 to 2022 you will see a INSANE decrease in "Dating Partner Quality." I am very curious if someone can prove to me that "back in the day" men were better, but i dont believe it.Talented at what? Making an all-you-can-eat buffet lose money? Tiger Woods is talented. So is Elon Musk Lizzo? Lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 02:35 PM |
| 3 | Most attractive men know they are attractive, and the whole “you’re probably not as good looking as you think you are” nonsense is just a deflection and shaming tactic to once again divert attention from realityYou sound like a bitch. You can’t unfuck him. He had a “look on his face” but he nutted in you raw 150 times. Who really won? 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 11:57 AM |
| 4 | Are "marriageable" women truly rare today? Why or why not?You’re not much of a catch yourself if all you can attract are “man babies that can’t wipe their own ass.” You’re telling on yourself here… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 04:12 PM |
| – | CMV : Even if women are more attractive in their 20’s, the attractive ones don’t want you now and definitely won’t want you in your 30’sThere’s almost 6 years between us. People act like she’s a child and I’m ready for the nursing home at those ages. I agree that it’s ridiculous to think women in their 20’s don’t date men in their 30’s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 03:40 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Social media and dating/hookup culture in the west is encouraging the erosion of the solemnity of long term relationships and life long marriage.It’s not my goal in life so whatever. I dated a few women that definitely wanted it to be though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 06:17 PM |
| 3 | If you struggle with dating, you are BELOW averageTrue. Most women are so delusional these days though that they think that’s the baseline. Crazy really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 02:43 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Even if women are more attractive in their 20’s, the attractive ones don’t want you now and definitely won’t want you in your 30’sI’m in the beginning stages of a thing right now with a girl who just turned 26. I’m on my way to 32. Started as a chat on OLD, then a same night date, and then same night sex. I only make 80K a year so it’s definitely not about the money. Not all younger women are interested in older men. Most aren’t. You just have to find the ones that are if that’s what you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 02:38 PM |
| 5 | How often are women marrying men they have little sexual desire for (or far little compared to other guys they’ve been with)? Are they cognizant of the long term effects of such decisions?Believe it or not, you girls actually like that kind of guy. Why? Because it’s drama, which you thrive off of. My apartment and cars are spotless. I don’t have clutter all over the place. I go to the dentist every 6 months. I don’t have any debt. I pay all the bills on time. You know what women call that? Boring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Height is the most influencing factor to a man's SMVNot even close to true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 12:18 AM |
| 1 | CMV : Women need to follow the example that you can wait longer now to settle than ever as to avoid failed relationships with men they don’t loveA shitty starter home and a car? You need 100K for that now. Good luck I guess. I’m career driven not because I want to be but because I’m passionate about not being homeless. I make 80K now, which given runaway inflation makes me basically a poor person. It’s wild. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 10:40 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Social media and dating/hookup culture in the west is encouraging the erosion of the solemnity of long term relationships and life long marriage.I don’t get what point you’re trying to make. Marriage is dead because women aren’t marriage material. Me being willing to put my dick in you vs. me being willing to marry you are two completely opposite things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 10:38 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Social media and dating/hookup culture in the west is encouraging the erosion of the solemnity of long term relationships and life long marriage.(Delete) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 10:36 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Social media and dating/hookup culture in the west is encouraging the erosion of the solemnity of long term relationships and life long marriage.I heard of a guy that gave up 1.5 million in cash initially, plus $4,000 per month for a lifetime. This is to a woman who didn’t even have a degree and no meaningful skills. It happens more than you think. The bitch basically hit the lottery, simply by marrying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 10:34 PM |
| 2 | CMV : Women need to follow the example that you can wait longer now to settle than ever as to avoid failed relationships with men they don’t loveThis should be considered a red-flag for men or women. Capitalism has convinced people to live to work, rather than work to live. Your primary focus in life should be on relationships with loved ones, not your job. You are meant to be human, not an industrial machine.” I know this is Reddit, and everyone on here makes 150K a year working some part time easy job; but in the real world, most people don’t have the option to do anything but work their life away. Everything just gets more and more ex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Do you prefer slim or curvy?Definitely the top row. The problem with “curvy” chicks is that turn into whales once the metabolism/exercising slows down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 12:46 PM |
| 2 | 65% of Tinder users are in a relationship and 50% are not interested in meeting someone onlineSame here. Haven’t been on 100 Tinder dates but 50 at least over the years. I’m invisible in real life. Online at least I can find someone that’s interested and get laid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 11:37 AM |
| 23 | CMV: Social media and dating/hookup culture in the west is encouraging the erosion of the solemnity of long term relationships and life long marriage.Marriage has been dead since women started playing it like a lottery for cash and prizes. Men have largely walked away and for damn good reason. Women on the other hand have collectively decided that 90 percent of men ain’t shit, and begun to only chase the best looking men. When you only want to get fucked instead of living a stable life, why not go for Chad? It’s what all the thots on tik tok are telling the impressionable youngun’s to do…..we’re two generations into that now. The genie is out… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 06:13 PM |
| – | Would a woman working in a male dominated industry be a deal breaker?Definitely steer away from them usually, as they tend to be very masculine. That clashes with my personality because I’m very masculine as well, being a dude and all. I don’t want to be in constant competition with a woman, I don’t want her to be loud and boisterous etc. They also tend to be very sexually forward and dick hungry (more testosterone than most women) which can be really good if it’s directed at you, but not so good if she gets “bored” and decides to go hit on some other dude, and t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 03:04 PM |
| 1 | 30+ year old women can be just as attractive as a 21 year oldThey can. But it’s much more rare. Most people look middle aged by 30, because they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 01:11 PM |
| 1 | What dating advice would you give to women?Agree with this too. A young, fit woman is like less than 10 percent of the population now. With those two factors in place, you can basically name your price. Every man on earth wants a young (19-29) thin woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 10:06 PM |
| 1 | What dating advice would you give to women?Pick the best man that shows you consistent attention. And I don’t mean consistent like he always calls at 2AM when he’s drunk and the main bitch didn’t come through. Prince Charming isn’t coming ladies. And if he is, you won’t be his only muse. If you’re ok with that, fine. If not, you’ll have to settle for the 7 instead of the 9. I know, life sucks, but at some point you just have to accept it. You’re no model yourself anyway, and you’ve probably got HSV-2. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Men should use every dating app to leverage their online dating market.Accurate. People treat you like background noise. And I’m a solid 7 and over 6 feet tall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 11:37 AM |
| 1 | Men also have a ticking clock until they become undesirable to women. That is why men should do anything to gain experience with them especially in terms of sex.Nobody gives a shit about the top 20 percent of men. I’m 6’1”, full head of hair, 80K a year, have my own place, two cars, will have a MBA in another 10 months…. I have the same issues every other dude has. Ghosting, flaking, disinterest, game playing, etc. I’m not any better off than if I was bald and worked as a janitor at the mall as far as dating is concerned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 02:36 PM |
| – | Why are "happily married" people browsing these subs?What was true or worked for you 17 years ago has no basis in reality now. It’s like someone trying to explain how a telegraph is superior to an IPhone. It just comes across as nonsensical and even ridiculous. Things have changed so much in the past 10 years alone that it is unrecognizable. If you are a woman, it will look even better than it used to. If you’re a man, lord help you. Do not ever get divorced or you’re gonna see just how hard and cold this new brave world is to a “normie.” 17 years… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 07:13 PM |
| – | Why are "happily married" people browsing these subs?Nailed it…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 07:11 PM |
| – | Why are "happily married" people browsing these subs?Just because you’re married doesn’t mean you know what you’re doing. I’ve had way more sexual experience with way more women than most married men. Guaranteed. My longest relationship was a little over a year and I’ve never been married, engaged, or even lived with a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Why even start a family where both parents are working?Not really a flex, but ok. Fucking nasty | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Why even start a family where both parents are working?I make 80K a year. It’s barely enough for me, just one person. A family is a 250K a year proposition, minimum. Good thing I don’t want kids but that’s the minimum amount of money it would take to do it the right way. People don’t think inflation be like it is, but it do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 01:29 PM |
| 5 | Why even start a family where both parents are working?Less than 1 percent of people in real life, but 95 percent on Reddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 01:22 PM |
| 6 | Women constantly assert that men have inflated self images, yet it is abundantly clear that most men are desperate and have zero standards. Women, on the other hand, consistently feel entitled to men way out of their league and think they are models when they are completely average looking.I’ve never met a man that had an overinflated sense of how attractive he was. Men find out where they are at on the totem pole RFQ out in the real world. There’s no room for delusion unless you’re a schizo or something | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 12:38 AM |
| 2 | Women constantly assert that men have inflated self images, yet it is abundantly clear that most men are desperate and have zero standards. Women, on the other hand, consistently feel entitled to men way out of their league and think they are models when they are completely average looking.You’re right. The part about attractive men/unattractive women couples makes sense because men always fuck down or across. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 09:37 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: Men and women who say looks dont matter in the dating market are attractive themselvesLosing a little bit of weight likely didn’t have that effect. It’s probably the money you’re making. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Who do the really attractive women end up with?Usually? No one. That’s the hard truth. Attractive women are common. Attractive men? Not so much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 05:37 PM |
| 3 | What is the reality of the sex life of the average woman?I hear way more high numbers than I hear low numbers from women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 05:26 PM |
| 6 | What is the reality of the sex life of the average woman?Yep, the prevailing idea on here that a woman has an average of 5 partners in her whole life is laughable. I was with a 23 year old at the beginning of this year who admitted to 35 bodies. And that was including a 4 year relationship that turned into a marriage and divorce. Women fuck a LOT. They just don’t fuck most men. The top guys get passed around like a bong at a house party | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 02:52 PM |
| 0 | This sub really needs to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept"No there’s not. What makes you think you’re owed housing? Fucking communist. You’re not owed shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 10:05 AM |
| 4 | This sub really needs to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept"That’s the real red pill. Any man that is a democrat is a self loathing blue pilled cuck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 10:03 AM |
| 1 | Women will reject or make it difficult for men who are too attractive due to intimidation or insecurityYep. I’ve seent it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Women will reject or make it difficult for men who are too attractive due to intimidation or insecurityYea the thing is being a 7 as a man doesn’t really get you anywhere. I’m a 7 so I know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Women will reject or make it difficult for men who are too attractive due to intimidation or insecurityWell your ex husband is a fucking idiot. “No woman has ever wanted me before, but there’s this random thot in Thailand who says she wants to marry me!” Lmao. Dumb as fucking rocks. Oldest trick in the book too. Let me guess, she wouldn’t video chat or talk on the phone with him either. His “girlfriend” was some chain smoking dude in the rainforest with an internet connection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 04:36 PM |
| 3 | Women will reject or make it difficult for men who are too attractive due to intimidation or insecurityYea, it is. If you’re seeing men get turned down, they’re not attractive. Period. Truly attractive men are way rarer than attractive women. If you think those men are getting turned down being such rare commodities as is, you’re nuts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Women will reject or make it difficult for men who are too attractive due to intimidation or insecurityTrue. It happens around 8.5 + | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Women will reject or make it difficult for men who are too attractive due to intimidation or insecurityIt actually does. Women don’t want inexperienced men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Women will reject or make it difficult for men who are too attractive due to intimidation or insecurityNot even close to true. You’re coping to try to deal with rejection. If a woman rejects you, it’s because she sees you as below her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 04:30 PM |
| 2 | Women will reject or make it difficult for men who are too attractive due to intimidation or insecurityThis is not true at all. Women chase attractive men to the ends of the earth. She tries for a relationship, if she can’t get that she’ll settle for being a side piece, stalking him and obsessing about him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 04:29 PM |
| 6 | Beta bucks doesn't exist, women aren't settling and choosing single life with casual datingYea I doubt the people writing the article saw the irony in it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Beta bucks doesn't exist, women aren't settling and choosing single life with casual datingBelieve it or not, women don’t actually like acting like men. They don’t enjoy getting up every day and going into the corporate grinder for 10 hours to make money. Many will do it in the name of empowerment, yes. But it’s not what they really want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 04:21 PM |
| 1 | The entire pill debate has been obscured and distracted by a bizarre fixation on unattractive men’s struggle. While this sucks, it actually makes logical sense unlike the main problem, which is average and above average men struggling to the degree they are.How attractive are those men? I’m guessing very. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 09:20 PM |
| – | The entire pill debate has been obscured and distracted by a bizarre fixation on unattractive men’s struggle. While this sucks, it actually makes logical sense unlike the main problem, which is average and above average men struggling to the degree they are.That’s really not that many. There are probably 400 million people in this country when you count the illegals. There are larger issues than “men not working.” I know men making six figures who are hopelessly single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 12:57 PM |
| 1 | The entire pill debate has been obscured and distracted by a bizarre fixation on unattractive men’s struggle. While this sucks, it actually makes logical sense unlike the main problem, which is average and above average men struggling to the degree they are.Lol. Women who are 2’s won’t take anything less than a man that’s a 9 in most cases. And they think they are owed a man like that just for existing. That’s the problem. It goes beyond just “attractive people want attractive people” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 12:54 PM |
| 5 | Men shouldn’t feel bad about women preferring“bad boys” over “good guys” because those women are not worth chasing in the first placeThose women don’t love those men, I promise you. It’s a transaction so that she doesn’t have to go out and work to make her way in the real world because that’s “hard.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 12:51 PM |
| 6 | The dating market isn't fair and isn't meant to be fair, so we should give young men a breakThat’s just because your buddy doesn’t go out apparently. If he flexed a little of that cash he’d have an ocean of pussy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 10:57 PM |
| 1 | The dating market isn't fair and isn't meant to be fair, so we should give young men a breakYou’re not wrong. I’ve always been amazed with the ass I HAVE been able to get, because while I’m well above average in nearly every measurable metric I’m nowhere near some top tier, genetically elite trust fund Chad. And women would rather have a dude like that for a night than a “regular” dude for a lifetime. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 10:57 PM |
| 1 | How do you justify asking for a woman with a low body count, if yours is high?I’m allowed to want what I want, it’s a free country. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 10:58 PM |
| 14 | Men shouldn’t feel bad about women preferring“bad boys” over “good guys” because those women are not worth chasing in the first placeShe definitely would have rejected him. This is a time honored trope that is so common they have made movies about it. I feel bad for the men that women “settle” for. That’s a fate worse than death. If she doesn’t want you when she’s 22 then she never really did. You’re just the safe option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 10:52 PM |
| 7 | Men shouldn’t feel bad about women preferring“bad boys” over “good guys” because those women are not worth chasing in the first placeWomen would rather be dead than bored. Seriously | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 07:23 PM |
| -1 | Women generally just aren’t that interested in men no matter how attractive because they aren’t as horny. Any interest they do have is greatly overshadowed and diminished by how obsessed men are with women and the anxiety of putting themselves out there or the work involved in courtship.Yea, it’s pretty sad when you see it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 11:56 AM |
| 1 | Women generally just aren’t that interested in men no matter how attractive because they aren’t as horny. Any interest they do have is greatly overshadowed and diminished by how obsessed men are with women and the anxiety of putting themselves out there or the work involved in courtship.They sure love sex with the top 10 percent of men though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Women generally just aren’t that interested in men no matter how attractive because they aren’t as horny. Any interest they do have is greatly overshadowed and diminished by how obsessed men are with women and the anxiety of putting themselves out there or the work involved in courtship.Money definitely helps but your average tech bro doesn’t know how to flex it. He drives an old Corolla because it’s “practical” even though he can afford a Hellcat. He dresses in ill fitting kohls clothes because he doesn’t know what style is. They could easily get women if they knew how to spend some money not be boring. But they’re such squares that they can’t manage to be “exciting.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 11:16 AM |
| 1 | [CMV] Girls who participate in online dating are not to be taken seriously because they don't take guys seriously.That’s all there is to it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 04:06 PM |
| 5 | [CMV] Girls who participate in online dating are not to be taken seriously because they don't take guys seriously.This all comes down to looks. You treat the less good looking girls as options because you don’t care, and you chase the hotter ones. Women do the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 03:56 PM |
| 4 | You get $10,000 if you can make your date reject you in under 1 minute, how do you do it? WEEKLY DISCUSSION TOPICIf you’re a man all you gotta do is show up. There’s a good chance it’s not gonna go anywhere so tell her you have one of her 127 “icks” and you’re golden. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 03:38 PM |
| 1 | How are celebrities like Zac Efron, Taylor Swift, etc still single and not married in their 30s?When you can have whoever or whatever you want at any time, the incentive to settle down with a single option all but evaporates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 04:47 PM |
| 1 | If youre a normal guy, what is the "bare minimum" to be able to get laid, or have dates?I never got more than 7.6 or lower than a 6.1 total on any photo I posted. Therefore I know I’m definitely within that narrow range. No more, no less. I was happy with the ones in the high 7’s; as that should net me some decent options. Looks are VERY objective, maybe you just weren’t using it correctly. If you got rated a 9 but have no luck online, that’s not adding up. OLD success for males starts when you’re in the high 7’s and goes up exponentially from there. A 9 male would have no problem … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 01:11 PM |
| – | Do older woman really think older men date younger woman cause they are easier?The funny thing is, I’ve always found younger women to be way easier, at least initially. But it’s usually fleeting. They move VERY fast, aren’t shy, aren’t afraid to suck and fuck on the first date. They just wanna have a good time. Older women are a pain in the ass. Trying to turn them on is like trying to start a caterpillar diesel engine that has been sitting at the bottom of the ocean for 20 years. They’re bitter. Standoffish. Accusatory. Grossed out by “just having sex.” Come with a list o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 12:29 PM |
| 2 | Does the past matter? Talking about sexual historyGet convicted of a felony and go try to buy a handgun at a store, register to vote, or try to get a job that requires a security clearance and see how that works out for you….. Of course the past matters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 11:25 AM |
| 1 | Marriage for menYes because you’re going to end up living under a bridge if you don’t prioritize a career, education, or both. Have you seen what shit costs now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 11:22 AM |
| 15 | The modern dating dynamic is extremely uneven and it only seems to be getting worseI’ve said it before. My female equivalent looksmatch is dating orthopedic surgeons and millionaires. She’s good looking enough to get private jet rides around the world. She never has to lift a finger for attention or a promotion. As such, she is not interested in someone like me. I just can’t provide that lifestyle even though I look good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 10:43 AM |
| 15 | Men's lack of self-respect is part of the reason for their struggle in dating and financial success.Yea, and most men never “make” anything. Every woman is born | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 10:40 AM |
| 2 | Men's lack of self-respect is part of the reason for their struggle in dating and financial success.Most people have no respect for themselves because no one ever validates them. Therefore, no reason to be delusional. Most people are shit and get treated accordingly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 10:39 AM |
| 1 | Saying that unlike men women today are "happier single" is very disingenuousHookups | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 09:10 PM |
| 2 | CMV : Men assume a woman to be attractive, and are more forgiving of negative traits. Women assume men to be unattractive and try and find the cracks between all the positive traitsTruer words have never been spoken. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 09:07 PM |
| 3 | Saying that unlike men women today are "happier single" is very disingenuous“Women over 30 are really not that picky, even the pretty ones.” Someone is either a Chad or has no real world experience whatsoever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 06:36 PM |
| 7 | Saying that unlike men women today are "happier single" is very disingenuousYou still have them though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 06:34 PM |
| – | CMV: Too Many Sexual Experiences Ruins Sex for WomenThis is exactly it. You just described 75 percent of relationships and marriages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 02:20 PM |
| 10 | If youre a normal guy, what is the "bare minimum" to be able to get laid, or have dates?You’re way better looking than you think. It has nothing to do with your ability to “read social cues.” I’m a photofeeler rated solid 7 and I’m over 6 feet tall. Women in public look right through me or don’t even notice me at all most of the time. The “average” man is even worse off…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 11:26 PM |
| 3 | Any unusual flags/traits you look out for in women?Anything women don’t agree with is abuse LOL. “You won’t date me if I post pictures of my cameltoe on the beach in Miami, you’re an aBUSERrrrr!” 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Any unusual flags/traits you look out for in women?You’d be surprised. I’ve seen it a lot. I walked into a Subway to get a sandwich one day and the girl at the counter was stunning. Not just facially, but her body as well. Perfect hourglass, big plump butt. She was really bubbly as well. Girl legit looked better than most models you see. She looked about 19. A girl like that could have anything or any man she wanted. It was kind of wholesome though because it seemed like she was unaware of it just making sandwiches at Subway on the weekend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 12:47 PM |
| 1 | The situationship , a new, emerging form of relationshipI doubt I’ll make it to 70 but thanks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Is anybody here good at hookup culture, but hates it?If I could go to a club and get laid every weekend that would never get old. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 04:07 PM |
| 0 | The situationship , a new, emerging form of relationshipI’ve lived basically my whole life in solitude. I’m completely used to it even at 31, so no I don’t believe turning 60 is going to change any of that after 30 more years of being ok with it. Most men don’t need people up their ass constantly like women do to feel fulfilled in life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 01:29 PM |
| 1 | How powerful do you think is status in attracting woman?He’s a good looking dude with a reportedly huge dick. No surprises there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 01:26 PM |
| 2 | How powerful do you think is status in attracting woman?Status is validation to women. And validation is the female equivalent of what sex is to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 01:23 PM |
| 7 | How powerful do you think is status in attracting woman?Women never just like “you for you” dude. There’s always an angle. You’re hot (to her), you’re successful, you’re “influential”, you have money, power, a big dick etc. The only thing on earth that loves you unconditionally is your dog. A lot of men find this out when they take the “fall” from a previously privileged position. They lose their looks, their job, become disabled etc. All of the sudden the woman finds that the “spark” isn’t there anymore and she finds it at the gym with Henrique the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 01:20 PM |
| 2 | How powerful do you think is status in attracting woman?Can be extremely important. Look at Matt Rife. Nobody knew who he was 2 years ago. Got up on stage, and now women can’t get enough of him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 01:17 PM |
| – | The situationship , a new, emerging form of relationshipHe’s just a retard then. That stepford wife bullshit doesn’t exist anymore. The only benefit I get from women is sex. There’s no need to commit to anything anymore because I can do everything else myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 12:36 PM |
| 16 | Q4RP: How many women do you know actually "dual mate"?Yep. I’ve got videos and pictures on my old phones of a lot of girls that are married now; whose husbands wouldn’t even believe was the same girl doing that shit 🤣 I feel bad for those men honestly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 06:40 PM |
| 3 | Q4RP: How many women do you know actually "dual mate"?You’ve got it all wrong. Women lead men to the red pill. Men who get around are likely to see it play out in real time. I know I have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 06:34 PM |
| 1 | why should women date you?Way too much effort. If it’s effort for you as a woman, you’re chasing way out of your league. Most women do, just a thought. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 11:45 PM |
| 2 | why should women date you?I’ve got plenty to offer. I make 80K a year and the amount of taxes I pay likely could support at least one deadbeat family for 6 months or so. I’ve dated plenty of women before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 11:16 PM |
| 1 | why should women date you?They shouldn’t if they don’t want to. I also shouldn’t be forced to pay taxes that support single moms, abortions, free healthcare, or any of that other bullshit that has no benefit to me either. Because just like sex isn’t a right, female access to my wallet isn’t a right. Right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 11:10 PM |
| 0 | Men vs Women entering universityObviously people don’t outright say it. But if you’re an adult you should know that words don’t mean shit, only actions do. And people’s actions prove OP’s point completely correct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 04:24 PM |
| 2 | The whole “wOmEn dOn’T oWe yOu sEx” narrative is bullshit, the vast majority of men do not think this at all. Most men just rightfully expect to be able to get women at or below their level of attractiveness.When men say this they usually mean looks. They fail to mention the kids she brought from another man, her spending problems, herpes outbreaks, alcohol/drug addiction, raspy annoying voice, lack of intelligence, slut tendencies etc. That’s not really marrying “up.” It’s getting a formerly premier product at a discount price because it’s damaged/expired. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 04:16 PM |
| 1 | The whole “wOmEn dOn’T oWe yOu sEx” narrative is bullshit, the vast majority of men do not think this at all. Most men just rightfully expect to be able to get women at or below their level of attractiveness.You’d be surprised how valuable your dick is when a woman is truly attracted to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 04:11 PM |
| – | Red(pillers)copers are obsessed with claiming women are dying alone and unhappy, but its men who are doomed. purely just a revenge fantasy grift for men dying alone to cope with.That only lasts till they’re about 30 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 02:16 PM |
| 2 | What is with this sudden womens OBSESSION with height?They really don’t care. I’m 6’1”, no one cares | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 10:15 AM |
| – | If you're struggling to get matches on OLD, or you can't get a date, you are BELOW AVERAGEToday I learned that being 6’1”, having a full head of hair, bench pressing 230 pounds, working on a masters degree, living alone, and working an 80K a year job means I’m below average. Interesting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/23 09:41 PM |
| 2 | Is the sexual market value a legitimate concept?Yep. Seen that. Women aren’t shy around men they like | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/23 02:05 AM |
| 2 | 63% of men in their 20s are single compared to 34% of women, which is the age cohort when young women care about looks the mostWomen don’t give a fuck about sports. How do you guys end up this out of touch with things? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/23 01:55 AM |
| 5 | 63% of men in their 20s are single compared to 34% of women, which is the age cohort when young women care about looks the mostIt’s more than that. 80 percent at minimum. That’s the best case scenario. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/23 01:46 AM |
| 44 | What are guys supposed to do to improve their situation realistically?Honestly, give up on the tradcon shit. The chance that you’re going to find a young, pretty, submissive, low body count woman who is going to have kids and take care of them and dote on your forever is slim to none in the modern world. I don’t care how much of a man you are, how alpha etc., the numbers just aren’t there. 80 percent of women are ran through by 30 and the ones that aren’t never got the chance to because they are bottom of the barrel looks/personality wise. The best think you can d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 06:01 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Women age like milk while Men age like wine is a fallacyWomen are valued for their innocence, men for their experience. Happy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 05:28 PM |
| 13 | CMV: Women age like milk while Men age like wine is a fallacy“Are young women viewed as sexual objects in their youth?” Is this a real question or are you just being facetious? Like it or not men and women are different, despite what the wokies say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 05:14 PM |
| 57 | CMV: Women age like milk while Men age like wine is a fallacyThe simple explanation is that it’s not taboo for men to age. Most men aren’t viewed as sexual objects even in their youth so the fact that we get some lines on our face and some gray hair doesn’t change much. In fact we’re more likely to be taken seriously in professional and social circles at that point. We’re valued for what we provide to society. Sit in a corporate meeting sometime and see who gets the respect. It ain’t the young bucks like me. When the old men speak, everyone listens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 05:08 PM |
| 2 | Men who believe in monogamy, exclusivity and being faithful lose in this dating marketEveryone has a price | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 02:14 PM |
| – | Where Are Y'all Getting Your "Advice" From?Never got much advice from anyone. Figured it all out myself for the most part. Got involved with a BPD girl at 19, which was honestly the best thing that ever happened to me. Got redpilled hard and fast at that tender age; and honestly it probably saved my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Men who believe in monogamy, exclusivity and being faithful lose in this dating marketYou’d be surprised. It definitely works | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Men who believe in monogamy, exclusivity and being faithful lose in this dating marketI’m 31 and I’ve never once had the urge to “settle down” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Men who believe in monogamy, exclusivity and being faithful lose in this dating marketOptions are never irrelevant. If you had a 100K a year job that you were happy with and someone walked up and offered you 200K a year to do something else with little to no downsides you’re telling me you wouldn’t reconsider? Yea ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 01:40 PM |
| 0 | Men who believe in monogamy, exclusivity and being faithful lose in this dating marketIf you’re healthy your dick won’t stop working until you’re 70+ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 01:30 PM |
| 0 | Men who believe in monogamy, exclusivity and being faithful lose in this dating marketThat’s because they’re in the prime of their lives right now. Everything is fun, new, and exciting. Reality hasn’t hit yet. But time is a cold, cold mistress. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Men who believe in monogamy, exclusivity and being faithful lose in this dating marketYes. Think about it this way… You’ll never feel the pain of divorce and love lost. You‘ll never know the feel of a dead bedroom. You’ll never come home to your wife fucking her coworker or eating the pussy of one of her best friends. You’ll never have her weaponize your children against you, take you to court over your assets, steal money from your bank accounts or have her contact her lawyer/law enforcement and tell them that you molested your own children. You won’t have to live in a Motel 6 a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 01:27 PM |
| – | Since when did requiring physical attraction for a romantic relationship make you superficial?Yep. It’s like me thinking I’m owed Megan Fox just for existing. I wouldn’t even be able to get a regular/non-celebrity woman who looked like that to give me the time of day in real life. And I’m a 7 so I’m not ugly, but I’m obviously not top tier. I’m usually happy with 6-7 level women but it’s gotten to the point now where even those women think that they’re owed a Chad. Pretty crazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 11:37 AM |
| 1 | Women have stricter body standards than men do in datingYes, they begrudgingly accept “lesser” men so that they don’t have to drag their ass out of bed at 6AM 5-6 days a week and go to work like men have to do. Men with no options gladly accept this arrangement. It doesn’t mean it’s ideal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 11:44 PM |
| 1 | How many relationships are initiated by women in modern dating?Women straight up walk up to attractive men and ask them to go out on dates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 11:41 PM |
| – | The amount of confidence, personality, game etc needed to attract women is GREATLY overstatedI’m definitely top 30 percent, and I know from experience that “game” is a joke, and not based in reality. She’s either attracted or she’s not. You’ll never talk your way into pussy. Just doesn’t happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 12:58 AM |
| – | The amount of confidence, personality, game etc needed to attract women is GREATLY overstatedI’ve known a few girls that act like their loser, broke, skinny fat boyfriend/husband is the greatest thing on earth; but they’re not common. The one thing that that all have in common is that they got “imprinted” by the guy when they were really young. Think couples that started dating at 16-17 and stayed together into their mid-20’s. Women may not be quick to leave because it’s all they know and they’ve grown comfortable. For the rest? They’re looking for the biggest, best whale they can get b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 12:57 AM |
| – | The people saying "your league is who you can attract" forget they're giving this reply to men who can barley attract any women at allThis just proves that face is everything. I mean we already knew that but… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 12:44 AM |
| – | The people saying "your league is who you can attract" forget they're giving this reply to men who can barley attract any women at allGetting one ugly girl every 3 years doesn’t mean you’re desirable. I’d argue that’s equally bottom-of-the-barrel as being a total incel. It’s not much different | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 12:42 AM |
| – | The people saying "your league is who you can attract" forget they're giving this reply to men who can barley attract any women at allI’ve attracted everything from 4-7.5. I’ve dated a pretty lawyer, a girl with a PhD, a couple butterfaces, and a hot chick with a GED. I’m not sure what my actual league is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 12:40 AM |
| 6 | The idea that we live in a “hookup culture” and that a significant number of women are having an abundance of casual sex is a myth. Most women have zero interest in casual sex and have a limited number of sexual partners in their lifetime.Shit like this happens all the time when conventionally attractive men get involved/show up. Hell that’s pretty tame compared to some of the stuff I’ve seen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 09:49 PM |
| 2 | The idea that we live in a “hookup culture” and that a significant number of women are having an abundance of casual sex is a myth. Most women have zero interest in casual sex and have a limited number of sexual partners in their lifetime.This. It happens everywhere all the time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 09:42 PM |
| 1 | The idea that we live in a “hookup culture” and that a significant number of women are having an abundance of casual sex is a myth. Most women have zero interest in casual sex and have a limited number of sexual partners in their lifetime.Simply not true. You can believe it if you want but the vast majority of women have casual sex and like it. It’s just with a very small subset of the male population. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 09:40 PM |
| 1 | The way women behave with men they’re genuinely attracted to is very different compared to the way they behave with men that have merely grown on them.Lol. That’s not what the girl begging me for a relationship says | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Marriage Rates in the USAFunny because most of the married people I know are poor, uneducated morons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 02:25 PM |
| 7 | The no-fap movement has noble purpose, but it is based on a delusion. Porn is a necessary evil for the good of most menI’ve been doing that for years and it doesn’t mean shit. Women don’t care about that crap. They care what your face looks like | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Men usually don't care about how much a woman earns, but men should care about how high her debt isAnd those women are not actually attracted to those men. Women despise men that are equally “on their level” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Men usually don't care about how much a woman earns, but men should care about how high her debt isI’ve dated an attorney before. I made more money than she did and I wear steel toe boots to work. I also have a degree and no debt, she was 250K in the hole on loans making 60K a year. I’ll have a masters degree next year that is also going to be free, and I’ll likely hit 100K in the next couple years. And yea, she did look older than her age….I would too if I owed someone a quarter of a million dollars. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 12:24 PM |
| – | CMV: Men today have a massive victim mentality, and it is holding them back from finding success.Yep. Anyone that it’s easy to just “move up” or “make more money” in this modern world is a clueless, out of touch moron who has likely never held a job beyond working a lemonade stand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 10:37 PM |
| – | CMV: Men today have a massive victim mentality, and it is holding them back from finding success.Nothing is free | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 10:31 PM |
| – | CMV: Men today have a massive victim mentality, and it is holding them back from finding success.Men have a reason to be the way they are. They have to work 10 times as hard to get somewhere in life, and to attract women 1/5th as good as their mothers were at their age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 10:29 PM |
| 3 | The way women behave with men they’re genuinely attracted to is very different compared to the way they behave with men that have merely grown on them.So very accurate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 10:27 PM |
| 7 | The way women behave with men they’re genuinely attracted to is very different compared to the way they behave with men that have merely grown on them.Women can find new men and new dick as easily as they can breathe air. So if they go back, it means the old dick was superior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 10:25 PM |
| 6 | The way women behave with men they’re genuinely attracted to is very different compared to the way they behave with men that have merely grown on them.Yea that shits crazy. Been there seen that. Most men would go blackpill in 0.5 seconds if they saw the treatment an objectively attractive man gets. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 10:24 PM |
| 12 | The way women behave with men they’re genuinely attracted to is very different compared to the way they behave with men that have merely grown on them.She’s not thinking about the vibrator she’s thinking about the last chad she fucked | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 10:22 PM |
| – | A man's environment and location is the biggest factor in dating successWell, it’s obvious you didn’t go to college just by the grammar mistakes you presented here. Whatever works for you I guess 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 06:57 PM |
| 2 | CMV: It's perfectly valid for men to want a low N woman BECAUSE he's insecure about his sexual performance compared to all of her other loversNobody is getting mad about 2 partners barring extreme circumstances. We’re talking about the girls that have been ran through by three hockey teams worth of Chads. If a woman has been with 30-50 men-which is extremely common these days-she’s had way better than you. Just the law of averages. At those numbers she’s been alpha widowed. She’s had a dude with a 9 incher. It’s just not an appealing thought to most men, at least for commitment. I love sluts, but I’d never take one seriously. They’re … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 02:09 PM |
| – | Why aren't men hypergamous?Men and women both primarily care about looks. Women are the selectors, and most men do not get chosen. Not as a primary option anyway. But as a man, I can do everything I need in life pretty much by myself. Why? Because I have to. When you don’t have a vagina, no one is coming to save you. Now let me go down your list. I have pursued and continue to pursue my own education. Why? Because as a white straight male, I have to in order to advance in corporate America. I will have an MBA next year. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 02:50 AM |
| 1 | CMV : A woman can almost ALWAYS find a better option within a couple of months of trying, so why would they settle?They can’t always get the relationship but they can damn sure get the dick | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 02:32 AM |
| 1 | CMV : A woman can almost ALWAYS find a better option within a couple of months of trying, so why would they settle?“Have you SEEN some 30 year old women?” I do more than see them. I have a couple that I go have sex with every week. But then I put my clothes on and go back home. They’re not commitment material. Way too damaged at that age. I’m 31 myself and at this point, I would never get into a relationship with a woman in her 30’s. I’d rather stay single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 02:28 AM |
| 1 | CMV : A woman can almost ALWAYS find a better option within a couple of months of trying, so why would they settle?It won’t take nearly that long | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 02:21 AM |
| 2 | CMV : A woman can almost ALWAYS find a better option within a couple of months of trying, so why would they settle?There’s next to zero chance they will still be together 5 years from now. She’ll likely be the one to cheat. It’s so easy for women now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 02:21 AM |
| 3 | dating isn't easier for womenThey do if they have a ton of money/status. Women and men are willing to overlook different things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 08:29 PM |
| 9 | dating isn't easier for womenI’m guessing she’s not hot or even real pretty. Men don’t give a damn what your job is. Sorry. I’d rather have a hot 22 year old daycare worker than a frumpy 35 year old surgeon, and it ain’t even close | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 08:26 PM |
| 6 | dating isn't easier for womenJesus christ carry a Glock if you’re so fucking scared. I carry one with me just because I can. ‘Murica and all….but the world isn’t really that dangerous. Especially for western women that everyone bends over backwards for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 08:21 PM |
| 17 | A man's environment and location is the biggest factor in dating successNo, it’s looks, status, and money in that order. The best looking dude in the trailer park is swimming in pussy. Same with the best looking, highest status man in Silicon Valley. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 08:17 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men's stubborn belief that "all women are the same" is holding them back from finding success.Again. You’re one of those weirdos who searches through histories to try to “confirm” your bias. I’m nothing like what I post on here. People would be shocked that I even know what Reddit is. Quit trying to be some pseudo psychologist. You’re just a guy on the internet. Don’t take yourself so seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 08:16 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men's stubborn belief that "all women are the same" is holding them back from finding success.You seem to be the odd one that overthinks everything. The fact is you’re likely extremely good looking and that’s all that really matters | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 10:25 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men's stubborn belief that "all women are the same" is holding them back from finding success.I’m simply stating the fact that I’m neurotypical, and not suffering from major psychological deficits. I never said I was “cool.” Women generally find men that are in charge of things desirable though. And yes, 1 point can make all of the difference, and apparently does in your case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 11:57 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men's stubborn belief that "all women are the same" is holding them back from finding success.You’re way better looking than me most likely. I’m not even ugly. I’m actually considered pretty good looking at a 7 or so. There’s nothing wrong with my personality. People tell me I’m funny and easy to get along with. I manage a team of 20 people at my job. I’m not some autist weirdo. Life gets good for men around the 8 mark. 8.5 is easy mode. 9+ is effortless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 11:08 PM |
| 11 | Men on this sub greatly exaggerate women's hypergamy.Believe it or not, “going outside” is confirmation bias. You’re only seeing the success stories. You’re not seeing the single girls and the other 90 percent of men who are sitting at home jerking off. You see couples and go “look at all the couples!” It’s not the norm. It’s just what you notice. The studied numbers don’t lie though. 63 percent of men aren’t single because “the bar is in hell.” It is for a Chad, but not for everyone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 09:45 PM |
| 13 | Men on this sub greatly exaggerate women's hypergamy.Facts are now an incel echo chamber? Interesting. I guess CNN is an incel echo chamber too since they talked about male sexlessness on a nightly feature a couple months ago. People aren’t just making this shit up for fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 09:36 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Men's stubborn belief that "all women are the same" is holding them back from finding success.“In fact, a lot of men tell me they can't afford to have standards for personality at all, because then they'd never get any.“ This is reality, yes. Even for me. I’m a 6’1” blonde hair blue eyed white dude, in shape with an 80K a year job and working on a masters. If I had any standards beyond “gives me an erection” I’d never get anything. If I didn’t initiate every interaction and do 100 percent of the work to get laid, again, nothing would ever happen. People have no idea how hard it is for th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 09:29 PM |
| – | finding someone better than ex easy?Lol that’s not how it works | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 09:22 PM |
| 29 | Men on this sub greatly exaggerate women's hypergamy.If anything, hypergamy is understated. Within the next 10 years, 50 percent of women over 30 are predicted to be single and childless. That’s not because women are looking to settle with the best man they can find (which they could easily do). It’s because their standards are out of control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 09:20 PM |
| 1 | male and female attraction are fundamentally different and that’s why things like dating apps flat out don’t workYou don’t need “action shots” You just have to be hot. The vast majority of men are not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 09:16 PM |
| 1 | male and female attraction are fundamentally different and that’s why things like dating apps flat out don’t workThis is stupid. Women are always looking for Chad-esque men. Always. If she can’t get it, she’ll settle for the next best thing within reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 09:15 PM |
| 14 | male and female attraction are fundamentally different and that’s why things like dating apps flat out don’t workEven more so honestly. The men that make the cut are such a small percentage. 1-5 percent at most. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 09:14 PM |
| 5 | The average woman is completely delusional about men's income and what they "qualify" for.And most of those higher earners are over 50. Better learn to start liking REALLY wrinkly balls ladies 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 04:50 PM |
| 2 | Is there such a thing as hot girl hobbies?Truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Women should admit it is kind of a privilege that they essentially control the couple's social lifeI was banging a girl one time who had gotten divorced and told me that all of her friends, even the girls, had sided with her ex husband. That should have been the first sign that she was a crazy bitch. It was a wild month haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 04:13 PM |
| – | Most PEOPLE are undateable. Women are just held to a lower standard when it comes to undateable behaviorLol. Reality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 04:10 PM |
| 1 | What is the source of men's motivation for working hard?I like being able to afford things. I want to buy guns, good whiskey and nice new cars/trucks. Eventually I’m going to want a house. None of this can be accomplished without a lot of money. But there are lots of men out there who are happy with less, and don’t care about materialistic things. A couple of old buddies from my childhood don’t even work now. Just live with mom and dad and make enough pocket money doing odd jobs to get by. They’re very satisfied too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 03:41 PM |
| 0 | Most PEOPLE are undateable. Women are just held to a lower standard when it comes to undateable behaviorYou act like that was everyone’s experience, instead of the very small minority that it was | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Most PEOPLE are undateable. Women are just held to a lower standard when it comes to undateable behaviorNot true. People were just happy with less because they didn’t have perfect looking models constantly in their face on their phone to compare their partner to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 06:45 PM |
| 3 | All pills - Is (seriously) dating a single parent off the table for you?All divorce means is that she picked the wrong one, which is again, her fault. Unless he was some Fortune 500 CEO who quit his job and started drinking at 8AM the day after the wedding, she simply chose poorly and decided not to see the obvious signs that the dude she’s with is a loser/isn’t compatible with her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 03:57 PM |
| -2 | Wanna See What Average Couples Look Like? Check Out the Crowd at Your Local ZooI’m not average looking so I’m not interested in average women really. I mean for fun sometimes maybe but that’s about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 03:53 PM |
| – | CMV : Beauty is relative not subjective, and now we are all compared to the images on our phonesWell, you’re you, not most women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 12:55 PM |
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