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Old people are far more brain rotted by smartphones than young people. "Phones" are a convenient scapegoat to hide the real structural issues that have made young adults and teenagers more "locked down" and isolated in the past 20 years partly because Boomers hate seeing young people out being young
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:00 PM
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That stuff mostly died out after the Great Recession, not a recent trend. Even by the 2010s, the helicopter parenting panopticon was already in full swing. The difference is that dating apps were actually fun/useful from 2012 until about 2018 when monetization turned Tinder into a slot machine. "De urbanization" is also a factor in the US. Americans have increasingly moved to exurbs and/or sprawling metro areas where it's harder to socialize informally, and car insurance rates + "graduated licen…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:56 PM
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ENM is the least problematic of the bunch ENM is absolutely vile and probably the worst of the bunch. There's a lot of manipulation in that space, and it's usually a one-sided arrangement in practice (more often the man is the one sleeping around as well, not the woman getting easy dick) The whole polyamory thing really highlights a broader issue with modern dating - people are afraid to just be single and date/sleep around. People aren't getting married, but they shack up together for 10+ years…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:25 PM
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Husbands died early back then or ran away to the colonies, same shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 07:29 PM
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Extremely trad-pilled. Women in 1810 didn't pop out 10 kids in 10 years. They basically just kept having them until menopause.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 04:31 PM
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People like "top AI researchers" do a lot more to push the Culture than you think, especially super online stuff. Remember that Caroline from FTX had a whole Tumblr. Smart people are often both crazy and bored, so they can get into some weird shit and spend all day on the computer.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 04:29 PM
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Female Dating Strategy was a GOLDMINE for girl cringe back in the day. Sad it went away.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 04:24 PM
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You post like a grifter PUA bro flying high on Addy and Modafinil.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 04:21 PM
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I'm 5'6" on a good day, and the majority of women I have dated were my height or taller. But I did OK on FACE and FRAME
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 03:07 AM
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What's your substack bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 03:02 AM
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It should match with your natural personality. You missed my point. Some men's natural personality is already too expressive. You're taking her on a little bit of a fun rollercoaster...it's playful. You are doing too much for a first date. Someone is still pretty much a stranger after 1, 2, 3 dates. It's different than texting someone you actually know. A lot of guys suffer from "halo effect" from dating where if you feel like you had a good time, you assume she did even if she was just being po…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 09:35 PM
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Height matters way, way less than people on places like PPD try to make it seem. At least in "the West" short height is often correlated with certain ethnicities that are not portrayed as masculine/attractive (for men anyway) by the dominant society. Being obese or genetically ugly is far more of a hindrance. Remember the old phrase used to be HEIGHT, FACE, FRAME. That's 3 areas, and you probably didn't draw an unlucky combo in all 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 09:31 PM
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It also doesn't even work as well anymore because "back home" is not as poor as it was 40 years ago when they left.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 09:25 PM
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Balance is key here, especially with points 4 and 5. Being too expressive can be a big turn off, as can texting too excessively with emojis and shit. It all depends on your natural personality and flow + the type of women you normally date. Back in my OLD days, I know for a fact that I blew it several times for being too expressive in IRL conversations, and I would have died of embarrassment texting something like your example in point 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 09:19 PM
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That is not a normal sample, it was urology clinic (i.e. skew low)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 07:38 PM
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5.1 is not the average unless you're counting old, fat men who can barely get it up anymore. Average is more like 6.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 04:54 PM
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You went 0 to 100 here. And I think we are on the same side.....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 04:29 AM
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The problem is, a lot of people's "best lives possible" involves somebody else having to sacrifice something and making their own life worse How?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 10:22 PM
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Boo hoo, who will support the poor therapists, divorce lawyers, CPS workers, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 10:21 PM
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Why should people compromise? Relationships have massive financial and social effects whether they go well or go poorly. You only get one life. Women and men both deserve the best life possible vs. dragging themselves down to avoid the spinster/bachelor insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 09:39 PM
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Making women eligible for the draft would actually hurt men more if a draft were to happen. Women are generally not allowed to serve in combat roles, which means they would fill up the "safe" roles away from the front lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 04:02 PM
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If your profile isn't recognized as attractive pretty quickly Conventionally attractive as well. It becomes a problem if you have a certain "type", or if you just try to tailor your profile to stand out vs. appeal to a wider set of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:58 PM
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The "judgement" in bar/nightlife is just different though. Your name, age, and exact height are blasted out before someone even speaks to you. Having fun and letting loose brings a different energy than whatever pics and witty bio you put on your dating app profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:56 PM
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Huge portion of those are probably social media, not dating apps tbh. It's kind of like how 5-10 years ago, people would lie about meeting on an app because it was still seen as kind of weird. Now, "app" is sometimes the acceptable way of saying "they slid in the DMs"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:54 PM
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The Tricknology is strong here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 04:29 AM
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That stuff basically only affects minors though, which is a very small portion of the dating pool. Teens socializing less in person means that they have stunted social skills and different "norms" once they become young adults. Do you not "grok" that what people experience in their formative years sticks with them in the future? Increased cars per household would counteract the effect of graduated licensing laws, and it's hard to know which would have a bigger effect on how much teenagers go out…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 09:29 PM
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. I don't see how graduated licensing laws A big part of graduated licensing laws are "no passengers under 18" as well as a curfew as early as like 10pm. So why would teenagers bother getting a license if they can't drive with their friends places or stay out reasonably late? Not to mention getting added to parents' insurance is very expensive even when kids just have their permit, not even full license. Some people in my state are paying like $300/month for their kid just to practice driving wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 08:24 PM
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"Graduated licensing laws" and stricter enforcement of underage drinking are big ones. Of course no one funds research on this because it's easier to blame the dang phones.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 08:03 PM
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Dismissive-avoidant not anxious.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 07:08 PM
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BIPOC Twitter genuinely believes white people "stole" all of their cultural contributions and that even Isaac Newton is bullshit. They were talking about all of this stuff in the barber shop long before Twitter existed. "Kings and Queens in our glorious past" was already a joke in Do The Right Thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 07:06 PM
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2024 is appearing to be a fluke. Trump has dramatically lost support among young voters. One reason being that the "dork right" that people thought Trump got rid of has come back in full force during Trump 2.0.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 07:04 PM
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Even with compatibility taken into account, in the past it was easier to find and integrate into social circles where people shared your lifestyle, interests, political views, values, etc. That's not really true though. In the past, there was simply far more social pressure to get married and have kids at relatively young age. "Compatibility" wasn't even a factor in many cases rather than "you are gonna be an old maid/bum, settle for someone quick". "Stranger danger" has always been the default …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 06:57 PM
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People stopped socializing in person in large part due to legal and financial changes (the insurance industry is evil + law enforcement is greedy and overbearing). Video games and scrolling became popular because the 3rd spaces were already dying. People get the chicken-and-egg wrong here because it's easy to blame the Gosh Dang Phones instead of scrapping the harmful "safety" policies that have been enacted in the past 20-30 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 06:49 PM
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It takes like 6-12 months of going to the gym 3-4 days a week and not eating like an asshole. If it takes you "lots of years and a tight diet" to achieve a fit body, you are fat as fuck, don't try, and/or have a serious binge eating problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:34 PM
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But I do know multiple women who won’t even consider OLD for safety reasons These women just shouldn't be using dating apps at all then, period. OLD is not for everyone, but you don't maximize $$$$ so of course it gets pushed on people who shouldn't be there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 05:43 PM
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3 is so true. There's so many first dates I've been on from apps that in retrospect, I should have just ended in like 5 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 05:41 PM
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You're probably thinking of OkCupid, which was one of the first casualties of match group. The quizes on the old site were so fun. The safety features on the apps are already abused by "revenge reporting". If anything, there needs to be less, or at least a more reasonable ban system vs. "perma'd for no reason" I don't think people "head straight for the apps". Especially now that they are all gamified and largely useless. I think it's more like all the skittish, weird people got told "put yourse…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 05:35 PM
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A lot of the chronic dating app users simply delete and remake their profile every couple months, so it wouldn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 05:31 PM
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BMI underestimates fatness for people who are on the shorter side and people with lower muscle mass. Women are shorter and carry less muscle mass on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 06:51 PM
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Why do effete, middle-class Americans always go on about “third spaces”!? Same reason they blame "social media" and "phones" for every social ill. It's a convenient scapegoat that avoids actually attacking real problems (which would implicate real people, not vague concepts)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:29 PM
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A lot of younger people are incredibly confused on what is socially appropriate in different areas and situations of their lives. Younger people are actually more aware of what is socially appropriate. The ugly truth is that a lot of Boomer/Gen X and even older Milennial "dating" culture was incredibly toxic, full of SA, messy break-ups, etc. Zoomers have simply learned a lesson, which means fewer relationships overall. There's far less "well I've been divorced 3 times already, 4th time must be …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:28 PM
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Scammers are constantly recreating profiles to avoid bans and cast a wide net. Some of them even use the same profile spoofed to a dozen cities. Plenty of YouTube videos of these guys being caught in the act. Though they do it with fake male profiles to trap women as well. Apps have been dead for a couple years now, Tinder probably 5 years at this point. Even Raya opened the doors to the masses. What's amazing is that people still try to use them or act like they work.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 07:11 PM
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Consent is not required just to start a conversation with someone. Yes it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:21 PM
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They're the ones that go shopping, buy gifts, decorate and cook Yeah, men never geek out over their grills at a cookout.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:16 PM
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"Not fat and has his hair" is like an automatic 7-8/10 in your demographic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:05 PM
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FACE HEIGHT FRAME
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:04 PM
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The other recommendations are boomer slop. Recommending dating via Discord or online games is just straight up gonna lead to crimes being committed and ruined lives. "Discord" is a meme, not the kind you wanna be associated with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:02 PM
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It's true for most women IME. They would much rather simply have a "sperm donor" to make babies and then be left alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:58 PM
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We a solution for that - people are making AI boyfriends/girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 09:16 PM
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There's lies, damn lies, and statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 04:29 AM
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You think that someone smart with a good job who doesn't do drugs, doesn't smoke, only drinks occasionally, doesn't gamble and is smart with money has a high chance of being abusive or a cheater? There are many men like this, actually. A lot of these "Type A, high achiever" guys can be quite nasty behind closed doors. And there's lots of guys who smoke cigarettes, like a drink, or are kind of "dopey" but end up being good men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 10:09 PM
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Those are somewhat superficial traits tbh. Real vetting is looking for those tells that someone is abusive or a cheater.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 09:16 PM
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Maybe 30 years ago. It was definitely pretty frowned upon even like 10-15 years ago. Arguably worse - people were making content complaining about people talking to them, now it's the opposite (waaaah waaaah why is everyone so anti social???)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 08:38 PM
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They're either engaged by 22 or have some sort of crippling anxiety and never leave the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 07:53 PM
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Please don't bleach your skin. Also, you have no business using steroids unless you are over 25, under 15% bodyfat, and have been lifting seriously for 5+ years (and really, you should have a competitive goal in mind, not just "I wanna look better").
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 07:44 PM
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Wrong. Every man, big or small, has the same weak spot. All it takes is one swift kick/knee. And "vermins" knees can get there easier
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 07:43 PM
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She should take a shower and stop hating men then? Men can tell when a woman is misandrist, even before they speak to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 02:47 PM
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What type of interest do you think women are receiving and how are they receiving it? Depends on how much they put themselves out there tbh. Has more to do with that than looks. Do you think the average woman has the opportunity to hook up with celebrities and party on yachts? Do you think the average woman is able to get her bills paid by going on a dating app, or do you think many average (non-sex-worker) women are getting their bills paid by someone they're not in a relationship with? No to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 06:48 PM
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99% of gamblers quit before they hit the jackpot. She just needs to try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:07 PM
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More reason to wait at the finish line, because she’ll also more likely have her shit together. That’s a huge reason why the age of most first marriages are getting older and older. Not really. Personal growth is not a given. Many of the "best" marriage candidates are already off the market by their mid-20s (dating future spouse if not married). A lot of the people who are single at 35, especially men, either have divorce baggage and/or they still have some sort of arrested development. They try…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:04 PM
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Smart women love to shut their brain off with mindless TV such as Love Island tho
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:02 PM
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Schools/workplaces are partly to blame for this tbf. Pendulum has swung too far in the other direction where boys are shot down for even just trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 05:55 PM
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Basically, the Internet and people going outside less. "AFCs" back in the pickup artist days were guys who had fairly normal lives, but couldn't be "total fuckboys" and just pick up chicks at will at the bar. They tried, it just didn't work out as well as they wanted. Most of the self-described incels don't even try.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 05:53 PM
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I strongly disagree, even 50 years ago, a household could survive on 1 income, now it would be impossible for the average couple. They want a partner they are attracted to, with a job that can pay for his lifestyle, and someone that does his part in the relationship and domestic duties There's THREE things. 50 years ago, about 0 men did any domestic duties besides mowing the lawn and "fixing". Most of them were not attractive (nobody went to the gym or cared about clothes/skincare, and plenty we…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 09:47 PM
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They want a partner they are attracted to, with a job that can pay for his lifestyle, and someone that does his part in the relationship and domestic duties Men today are far, far, more likely to be able to provide that than men 50 or 100 years ago, though. The vast majority of women in say the 50s or 60s married a man who at best could do 2 out of 3 of those things, usually 0 or 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 04:20 PM
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That's only due to age. A surplus of women over 50 means nothing for "dating" because they can't have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 04:19 PM
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The only women in the history of ever who have been homemakers have been upper middle class and royalty. Royalty and the upper middle class weren't homemakers lmfao. They had a team of servants. In the Victorian era, even middle-middle class women often had at least 1 or 2 servants to help out around the house (as do people in third world countries today). It was really only the mid-20th century, for a portion of the population, where women just were "homemakers" in the sense that we view it. Ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 04:17 PM
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P A S S P O R T
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 04:15 PM
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These wattapad stories have made the gen z women pornbrained. All women are smutbrained.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 04:11 PM
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Most people in blue states/liberal areas have zero problems with gender roles as well tbh. Conservatives online vastly play up the "feminazi" stereotype stuff. A lot of the lefty, feminist women actual complain about left-wing men not being masculine enough, have super stereotypical girly hobbies, want kids, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 03:52 PM
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Well, the gym and coffee shops are not places to "meet women". Festivals and "going out" depend a lot on the type of place, how big your group is/solo, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 03:50 PM
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Well yeah, obviously. Concerts are a very easy environment. A lot of "thuggish" looking people are suspicious at venues that have a history of problems. Some of them are, some aren't. Some places profile everyone. I'm a small guy, clean cut, and I've been asked to have my Zyn pouch inspected (looking for harder drugs) at some places. Bouncers aren't police. And honestly, if someone shows up with effort and looks clean cut, they're aren't gonna worry too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 08:43 PM
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People who post things like this usually have very low N-counts tbh. They are inexperienced due to various hangups and/or they are unattractive and have had mostly shitty partners. The stereotypical "high-N party girl" probably views most of her hookups with a blur. The real "alpha widow" thing comes from some guy she casually, off and on. Not just a "wham bam thank you ma'am".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 08:06 PM
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Yeah nah, ain't dating a girl who would be willing to wait. And to address what I know your point is - don't care if she's dated trans men in the past and done whatever she wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 08:00 PM
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Firefox on the phone, use Desktop site option. UBlock Origin. Free
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 07:58 PM
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YT Premium is superior to all the other music apps. I've used it as a music app and I get to watch videos without apps and get to download them and play them in the background whilst doing other shit I get to do this for free on YouTube with free extensions in my browser + a simple command line tool.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 07:55 PM
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Refusing to take the blame for anything, or being unusually sensitive about small insults/teases are big tells. You can probably brush off a couple things (maybe they have had some rough times or have complex about something small you didn't know), but if it's a pattern, you'll notice it fairly soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 07:53 PM
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Police enforce the law. A lot of people who break the law, or at least are involved and swept up in crimes due to bad friends, are kind, gentle souls (or at least to people they care about/view as innocent). A lot of people who are violent, abusive assholes don't break the law, or at least do it in ways that are hard to track until they snap/get lazy. Basically, Police are gonna profile people differently because they have different facts vs. someone who has spent social time with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 07:49 PM
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like a down to earth country boy who performs traditional masculinity isnt setting off anyone's "hes an asshole" alert Some of them do. Especially if you run into them when they are drinking too much, or if it's a small situation where they are unleashing due to stress/w/e "Asshole alarms" have more to do with how someone behaves around others, how they talk, facial changes, how they react to challenges/pressure/insults. It's not about how many friends they have, if they are "country" or "city",…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 07:45 PM
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Honestly, 5'7-5'8 can be worse if you have the incel mindset. At 5'3", you're basically like "fuck it". You either just accept things, or go totally the opposite and have DGAF charisma. A lot of 5'7-5'8 guys do well in dating because they have other things going for them, but for a certain kind of guy with the hopeless mindset, it's like Sisyphus. You're not short enough to rationally call yourself "an outlier", but you always feel like you're too small. Convenient excuse if you are already in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 07:45 PM
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At least at a strip club, it's a real person putting on act to make a connection with the guy. On OnlyFans, most of the models (100% of the popular, viral ones) outsource their chat to some guy in the Phillippines or India. Many of them don't even have access to the account. They just take pictures/videos and send them to their "manager" who handles all the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 07:40 PM
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I would not date a girl who waited 6 months for sex with her last boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 07:38 PM
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Women are far more likely to be "consensus driven" than men. It's a binary, but it's a trend that reflects a lot of things. Women in "edgy" spaces (outside of far left-wing politics, but even then...that's because of "Eggs") always have their pick of men simply because there's fewer women there. Women in more "consensus" or at least "communal" spaces typically have to compete for men because there's fewer men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 07:37 PM
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It's pretty much roulette. Many girls barely remember what they put on their profile, so "ask about it" doesn't do much
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 07:08 PM
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Youtube likes to nerf Adblock fairly often now. UBlock origin is more reliable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 05:58 PM
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All the women I've talked to complain this is like 90% of openers. "hope u are having a good day, u seem like a great girl i'd love to get to know u better" being relatively high effort and still bland AF. The opener really doesn't matter much IME. If you ask a girl "something about her profile" like people say, she either gets bored because 5 other guys tried that, or she goes on a one-sided rant with nothing to continue the convo. "What's going on" works better because every day is a new possi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 05:51 PM
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You are describing a man. Very few women will have the "fridge" body of no chest/no hips unless they are some sort of strength athlete (and even then, they'll have an ass)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 05:47 PM
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These guys like OP don't understand that it's the exes, especially if they are "on again, off again", who are more likely to be cheating partners than some random fling.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 05:39 PM
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Dating apps are a place to be extremely selective otherwise you’re overwhelmed. Most conversations go nowhere on apps though. So if you're too selective, you aren't overwhelmed, but a lot of disappointment. Better way is to be "normal" picky until you have like 5 matches, see if any of them can actually hold and conversation, and then go back to swiping if/when they fizzle.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 05:35 PM
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The scale from like 7+ really doesn't show much difference tbh, I think that get that part super wrong. There's an obvious difference between the "2" and "4", not so much between "7" and "9". Some of the placements don't really make sense either
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 05:32 PM
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Never been in this situation. Usually the opposite - my partner gets stressed out about dumb shit or screams over something minor, and I have to keep my cool. I would ask why women do this based on my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 06:37 AM
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The left grew lazy, because they really thought poor white guys were always automatically vote for them. So they stopped talking to them. Even worse is that they thought poor black and brown guys would always vote for them because "the right is racist"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:42 AM
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They are just as much of a factor. And things like having a "fridge body" or apple fat distribution cannot be changed. They are genetic like height is for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:36 AM
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There's plenty of couples who work well as a team, but favor their spouse over their kids. That's not good either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:10 AM
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Growing up with parents who love each other more than they love the child is also damaging to children in a different way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:08 AM
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Parents who focus on their own relationship over their kids end up being neglectful of their kids' needs. It's a balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:07 AM
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height is not an issue for men as it is for women. that is a huge difference. women dont deal with baldness to the same extent as men Women have other issues like fat distribution, hormonal problems, etc 95% of women can go from average to "hot" on this program. No, they can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:04 AM
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Young men in the US have not become more right-wing than they were 20 or 30 years ago. Young women have become much more left-wing though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:02 AM
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The Democrats had a handsome, young male influencer on their side. Then they cancelled him because for "manipulation" because he was talking to multiple women at the same time. Pretty much sums up the left's struggles with young men. Even before that, the attacks on "Bernie Bros" (despite the fact that IME, most of the diehard Bernie supporters were young women), was very telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:56 AM
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I think those are more common than substance abuse as a coping mechanism tbh. Even most drinkers don't necessarily turn to the bottle when they are depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:46 AM
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You can get into better shape. You can work on your skincare like women do. You can get a better haircut and style. Hell, you can hop on fin if your hairloss is still early stages. If you're really obsessed, you can get a TRT prescription to improve gym gains (or just find a steroid souce) Women have the same genetic factor as men. Everyone has a ceiling, but working on yourself is how you get there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:42 AM
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It's actually 1269 chats, not just swipes. Either they were all bots, or guy just has zero rizz. If you chat with over 1000 women, more than 1 is gonna go on a date with you,
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 04:11 AM
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You are deformed ugly or just have negative rizz if you are a 6'4" white guy who can't get laid with OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:18 AM
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1269 matches leading to 1 date is honestly more insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:00 AM
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Women have sphincters too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:59 AM
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Femdom literally disgusts me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 07:25 PM
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More women are obese than men though, and bodyfat differences/lifting can actually skew BMI a bit in the "overweight" range vs obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 07:25 PM
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No, they mostly push pills
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 07:24 PM
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Men can friendzone women too, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 03:02 AM
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My answer is "Yes I would marry a woman outside of The West" regardless of how it's defined. I just bring it up because I've seen some truly dumb takes on what is "The West".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 02:59 AM
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. There are cultures really messed up that you won’t want your kids anywhere near. Yes, USA is one
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 12:49 PM
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Learn another language. Not hard these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 05:50 AM
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You will have cultural differences Good. I don't want my children raised in American culture. They would be poisoned with American citizenship at birth (worldwide income tax + bank reporting) but ideally we could solve that before they became adults. You should speak her native language too Not hard if you move abroad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 04:23 AM
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No because I'd marry a woman from Russia, China, Türkiye (and many others, just examples that are clearly outside of "The West"). I just bring it up because I've recently seen "passport" type guys try to claim countries that are very obviously "Western", like Colombia, as outside of "The West". It seems like more and more slop content creators define "The West" as "settler colonies that speak English". Like would these guys consider Quebec or Jamaica not "The West"? Utter lunacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 04:17 AM
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that are financial traders or entrepreneurs are degenerates like sex workers I mean yes. "Degenerate gambler" is an old, old phrase, and there is a heavy overlap between traders and gamblers. Crypto traders proudly call themselves "degens". "Entrepreneurs" aren't much better. They often have an irrational self confidence even when the odds aren't really in their favor. Do you feel that way about women who are entrepreneurs? Yes. I think all entrepreneurs are scammers and degens. Because they are…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 04:05 AM
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I said it gets exponentially harder for every inch below 5"8", not that it's a hard barrier. 5'8" is basically average. 5'7" is a lot harder. 5'6" is a lot harder than 5'7". 5'5" is extremely difficult. 5'4" and below, not gonna make it unless you passport + you are "hard" and really get down like a local in lower-tier Latin America/Asia. Shorter men get called napoleon's if they have a napoleon complex. Again, research Halo and Devil complex. Shorter men get called "Napoleon complex" for things…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 04:01 AM
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She is out of his league
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:58 AM
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Probably like $200-250k because in my unique circumstances, that would alter how I live my life. Honestly even like 50k, and I'd move up some things I want to do that would likely change the course of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:54 AM
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Do these K-Pop girlies not realize that South Korea has one of the biggest gender divides on the planet, with Korean men being notoriously sexist and misogynists relative to other "developed" nations? Like the "4B" movement started there for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:53 AM
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They're just riffing. Why would he reject a tall queen with a sense of humor? A little bit of teasing from a woman is a better sign than being boring. It goes compliment > light tease >>> joke/question about your profile >> hardcore tease >>>>>>>>>>>>> generic "hey"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:47 AM
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Most of them assume it's not gonna come up + have no options that will care. It's "fast money", no different than guys who are "entrepreneurs" or "traders" for years with no plan other than "get the bag". It's empowering in the sense that they have a niche that they can exploit, and plenty of men can respect that. I wouldn't necessarily avoid a sex worker for dating (though they often have other red flags that are not unique to sex work, just more common in that subgroup)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:44 AM
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What is "Western"? Latin America is part of "The West" by any reasonable definition, as are many of the countries that passport bros used to go 10+ years ago like Poland, Czechia, Croatia, Hungary, etc since they are Western Christian (historically) + part of the EU. And even if you only restrict it to the US, Canada, and Western Europe, by definition like 50% of the women in those countries aren't native English speakers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:40 AM
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You can speak their language.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:38 AM
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If you're under 5'8"ish, it gets exponentially harder for every inch shorter. And there are 7th graders who are over 6ft tall..... They WILL care if you are overcompensating for what you see as a shortcoming, which many do See the thing is, they project. Shorter men get called "Napoleon's" simply for trying to live their lives, acting far more calm and patient than a 6'2" guy with an attitude. Halo effect is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:36 AM
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Use a fetish app
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:35 AM
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Yes, but also FACE and FRAME. Tbh for most guys, if you excel at least 1/3, and you're "decent" (not super deficient) in the other 2, you'll do fine. It's guys who are average or below average at all 3, or very below average in 1+ category (i.e. 5'6" or shorter plus ugly, or 5'10" with an average face and weak frame) who really struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:19 AM
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It is for a subset of women. It's like that meme of "I consent, I consent, I don't"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:16 AM
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Why? Going to prostitues is extremely trad + lindy. They call it the "oldest profession" for a reason (even if that's not strictly true). Some women just don't wanna be kept, and some guys would rather spend money to be with a more attractive woman for a night vs. what they could get with "commitment". There's nothing wrong with wine, women, song, and games of chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:14 AM
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Unless you look below mid Or you're short. Instant DQ for many.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:13 AM
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I still would not as a man, for the reason I outlined. So these events aren't gonna work either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:11 AM
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The "meta" shifts on these things. For a while, speed dating was seen as lame and mostly a sausage fest. Now that dating apps are less popular/seen as cringe, some groups of women have started to organize events in bigger cities. There's quite a few posts on Reddit like "why did no men come to my speed dating event" because men haven't got the "vibe switch" info. The other aspect is that women have no issue making new gal pals at a "dating" event, whereas the guys there are focused on dating, no…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 03:08 PM
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Men are raised with the idea that hitting a romantic partner is a big taboo, and women mostly aren't. Those ideas stick around even if people end up in a same-sex relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 03:03 PM
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And these issues impact everyone, not just young men. A lot of women are basically being "brain rotted" because they are stuck in some isolated, car dependent area. It's not even "organized" activities. Even stuff like walking around your neighborhood and having small interactions with others makes a huge difference vs. being at home all the time like you are in confinement.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 07:16 PM
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Because women have bad radars, and will slander decent men as "having red flags" over nonsense things.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 07:14 PM
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Why? Are people who move from poor countries to the US to make money "losers"?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:29 PM
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What's wrong with being a "passport bro"? I don't like living in America for reasons way beyond "da wimmenz", so it seems like a win/win for me personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:53 AM
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If you're from a first world country, you can get your passport.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:51 AM
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Pound for pound, they matter a lot. Tall guys can get in shape and be healthy any time they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:50 AM
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Oh good, you can get your ass beat for a living and people will still make fun of you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 04:09 PM
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They don't though, pound for pound. "Height, Face, Frame" is the golden law. And in the US/Canada/Northern Europe, HEIGHT is the most important factor. If you're like 5'8"/173cm, other factors might matter, but if you are like under 170cm/5'7", it's kinda over.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 04:29 AM
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It's not even a physical thing sometimes. Yeah, less atrractive women are more likely to approach, but even when an attractive woman does the thought is "what do you want from me/what is wrong with you"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 04:04 AM
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Some of them were, but the "average" is slightly below. A key factor with the girls who were in my league or near it that approached me, is that they often gave me "psycho" vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 03:59 AM
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"Beta" and "short" aren't the same thing. Many/most "betabuxx" guys are tall and conventionally attractive. That is about attitude more than physical traits. Short guys are often either total omegas or hardened asshole "alphas".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 03:52 AM
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No, it's not. Ask your husband what it's like to be a short man. It's not good. It's basically a minor disability like dyslexia.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 03:49 AM
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No ma'am
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 07:55 PM
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The diaspora in South America is the reason they changed the law because they flooded the system in order to get visa free travel and the ability to move to a developed country. It's not gonna go back to how it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 07:53 PM
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Your lawyer blowing smoke up your ass so you don't whine for a refund. It's not gonna happen bro. Italy doesn't want millions of South Americans and guidos from NJ being able to vote in their elections or using the passport to flood the EU or embarass the country abroad as "Italians". You are an American. Deal with it. Source: Happened to me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 07:52 PM
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Bro, it's more like 2-4 TRILLION in lost GDP when you factor in men who refuse to work or get married due to the shortage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 07:49 PM
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Arguably more like trillions
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 07:48 PM
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Why though? It's all the risks of sex with none of the benefit. Unless you have a thing for fat girls, never understood the guys who think "a notch is a notch"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 07:45 PM
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See edit
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 07:44 PM
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3 months absolute minimum, if it's a stranger, more like 6+ Edit: Didn't realize this was "sapphic". You bring a Uhaul to the next date in this situation
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 07:41 PM
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Short men make less money and are less desired as hetero partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 07:34 PM
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You come across as a Russian bot sowing social discord in the west By posting shit from India?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 02:35 PM
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"27, time to sell"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 02:32 PM
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You shouldn't give them any sympathy. It's an attempt to draw a false equivalence. More options is always better.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 02:30 PM
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I would encourage women who say dumb shit like this to take a look at the OLD dating profile of a male friend or relative who you think is a "decent" guy. You will be shocked at the relative lack of attention and also how bad most of the women are also at conversations.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 02:29 PM
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even a very nerdy introverted guy can shoot his shot 50+ shots in one day. And yet, they aren't. What mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:26 AM
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It's not white guys who are watching Fresh and Fit lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:47 AM
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I broadly agree with you, but there are things going on in society that push people in a certain direction (away from relationships).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:31 AM
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The biggest Redpill voices are guys like Tate, Sneako, and F&F. All Black......
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:30 AM
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you are deluding yourself if you think his primary audience isn't young white men. You are deluding yourself if you think it is. "One in 5 young people in the UK have a positive view of Andrew Tate, percentages higher among minorities" https://www.isdglobal.org/isd-in-the-news/survey-one-in-five-young-people-in-the-uk-view-andrew-tate-in-a-positive-light/ And this is a broad trend across the "manosphere" and "red pill" community as it exists now. It's not a weird online thing for white nerds any…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:45 AM
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"This show" is bullshit because Tate's fanbase is far browner and poorer than average. Young white men are not his audience. There's a reason Tate "reverted to Islam". His fans are basically the next generation that "Four Lions" parodied.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:27 AM
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The fit birds always show up in spring. Spring and summer lovin' bruv...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:24 AM
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How old are you? Are you from a Western country? Have you talked to any older female friends, relatives, etc? Men used to be incredibly thirsty in public 20, 30, 40 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:21 AM
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Back in the day before the internet if a man wanted to express interest in a woman he had to do it in person. He had to risk rejection, looking like a fool, and men would do it far less frequently compared to modern day standards. With the advent of the internet. One thirsty guy can bother 50+ 100+ women a day with "hey" "u up?" "hi beautiful 😍" Men used to do this 24/7 before the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:20 AM
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Good luck convincing young men with raging hormones to stop doing what comes natural. It's already happened. Young men aren't all morons solely controlled by hormones. People respond to incentives. The message from culture in general is that approaching women can be risky, relationships can be risky (divorce, child support, DV). This is really a personality thing. Some people are simply entitled and believe that "thing will always work out". Other people actually pay attention and understand ris…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:16 AM
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I pretty much never text women I am dating. Probably why I can't make a relationship stick.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:13 AM
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Not just VPN. Reddit uses device tagging + posting history (i.e. you use a VPN in Japan but post on US times, yeah that's obvious).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:11 AM
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They have background detection algos that target alts. Knowing guys of his vintage and personality from other forums, he probably got yeeted on an alt and doesn't realize how the auto-ban works.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:10 AM
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They fit?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:08 AM
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Hot women are easier to approach, but the mid/less attractive women are much more thirsty if they find you attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:07 AM
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Honestly, the Red Pill/Andrew Tate stuff is more common with "normal" seeming guys now. My brother is a total shut-in, never leaves the house, and he is totally the opposite of that. The "video games, internet, anime 24/7" communities are not doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:06 AM
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Living paired is cheaper than living single though
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 11:55 PM
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"Looking for an LTR" is historically very weird in itself. Most people historically would just play the field, and then fall in love with someone if they had really good chemistry. LTRs and marriage where something that just happened, not a deliberate goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 11:52 PM
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Bitter men hate attractive women living their lives. It's really not complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 11:50 PM
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The way this woman talks you can tell she is braindead trash She's very obviously not lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 11:49 PM
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Gets to a bigger point. Women's standards aren't too high. They are too arbitrary.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 03:11 PM
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Risky, obviously. Also FWIW, I have some friends who totally whip it in a Toyota Camry. They just also have a bike on the side lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:16 AM
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the type of girl looking for someone more financially stable will likely be turned off by a car that's 20+ years old, Many financially stable people own 20+ year old cars because they don't want to waste money on a car payment. It's basically been a meme since the "MIllionaire Next Door" came out in the 1990s that people in BMWs are up to their eyeballs in debt (so called "$30k millionaires") while the people with decent savings and good jobs drive Toyotas.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 07:33 PM
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Bala whatchaar naka TESLA gooja. They "low caste", TESLA filla "High status" chaar.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:33 AM
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Then why are you saying New Year's Eve is today? Come on now, Aussie. We are sick of Australians. "After Midnight" on December 30th is not "New Year's Eve", and it isn't even technically December 31 on the West Coast!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:30 AM
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Impressed by Central Asia. I know ISLAM approves of cousin marriage and Catholicism does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:29 AM
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Walk more. Eat less.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:27 AM
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It means fuck off If you aren't American.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:27 AM
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Most Russian women are above average in the US, even the ethnics from wherever. The girls from Moscow are literal models, and even the Western regions are usually smokeshows.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:21 AM
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Grim
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:19 AM
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Accurate, and she thinks she's this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AOvCyD9bbDM
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:12 AM
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5lbs over the holidays is very normal. Half of that is water weight/eating BIG. You just adjust by eating a bit less over the Winter.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:08 AM
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Kazakhstan has a lower inbreeding percentage than Western Europe Citation needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:06 AM
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🤩
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:05 AM
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Don't be sedentary.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:04 AM
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New Year's Eve is tomorrow. Aussie RAUS!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:03 AM
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Veeja kaise praapt VISA
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 06:57 AM
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The 2 friends of mine who fucked the most women drove a 2008 Corolla and a 2010 Nissan. It depends on your scene. The circles I roll with, a Tesla would definitely be a negative. A new BMW would probably be a shit test.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 06:33 AM
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It’s hard to find men who just exist shorter than 5’5. Clearly you don't know Latino men, or white men on the East Coast.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 06:27 AM
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Soupy is literally a neckbeard lame who doesn't drink/party, so he married up tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 06:25 AM
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They're both trailer park 9s.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 06:22 AM
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They are looks matched. He is an attractive guy, and she is an attractive woman. And they both look "lower class". He's got a gaudy chain, so I'm sure he is "aggressive". So this is not surprising at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 06:21 AM
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as practice for my attempt to go to a bar for new years eve. New Years Eve is literally amateur hour. One of the worst nights of the year to try to "get laid" next to St Patrick's Day. All of the turbo normies go out and make a fool of themselves and be stupid. Bar staff are on super-edge dealing with them and have zero tolerance unless you're a true blue regular or a friend of their's. You're better off on a random Thursday at a place where you are a known quantity. Also, go to a dive bar, espe…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 06:17 AM
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They are 8+ because they are a niche successful band.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 06:12 AM
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There are many parallels between dating and the job market.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 06:11 AM
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I'm spacey all the time. I get cranky when I'm hungry. I mostly just shutdown when I'm tired. I guess that's loopy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:53 AM
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If that's average I'm a 7.5 minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:51 AM
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Males are not attracted to money or status. I am. You're not going to turn us on by making more $. It's not part of our evaluation matrix. Yes I am, and yes it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:49 AM
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The General tried to make her mains, and it didn't work. She for the road.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:48 AM
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Less than zero. Owning a flashy BMW M3 is actually probably a negative for the type of women I typically date (they'll assume you're an insecure douchebag unless you charmed them beforehand). It literally only matters that you own a car, and even then, if you're a super dedicated bicycle bro who's in good shape because you bike/walk/transit everywhere and "rebel" against the idea that you need a car, that can be a bonus for some women. Most women want a guy who's self-reliant and isn't asking th…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:45 AM
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There's a lot of pressure for men to be in romantic relationships that women cast aside. Men get the same amount of pressure from parents, relatives, family friends, etc. to "settle down" and be in a relationship. Also, men who are single past a certain age are seen as literally dangerous by society in a way that older single women are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:42 AM
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Yeah, I like colored hair and nose rings as well, but I grew up in that "alt" scene. IMO a lot of guys online hate it because they live in some rural/suburban shithole where the only women with died hair and nose rings are fat weirdo chicks, not hotties who to go raves or basement concerts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 04:34 AM
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American metro areas are much more spread out and quasi-rural than UK cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 10:59 PM
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I define a "small town" as any metro under 2 million fwiw. The 2-5 million people metros are pretty sus as well, especially if they aren't on the coast.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 04:36 AM
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Say you live in a rural shithole without saying it lmfao. they're on the side that doesn't hate men These liberal/leftists women are the first ones to talk about how they want "zaddy", have feminine hobbies (baking, fashion, being 'demure'), are totally submissive, fuck men who have a mattress on the floor.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 04:35 AM
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Nobody shaves their head anymore. Septum piercings and tattoos are hot af.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 04:32 AM
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Small town America I’ll give the edge to liberal women, Not true. Liberals in small towns are usually the blue haired goblins that people talk about. Hot liberals move to big cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 04:26 AM
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It's not true in reality. Maybe it was true 10 years ago, and there's a lot of shysters repeating stale memes to get engagement bucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 04:25 AM
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Politics does not matter. There's far more other factors here based on personal preference since liberal vs conservative has a big demographic component in the US. The women I personally like (white, college educated, on the "alternative" side) tend to skew liberal or left-wing, but some of them have various weird beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 04:24 AM
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A lot of men in their 20s lift weights or have active jobs that build some amount of muscle.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 04:21 AM
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What has happened is that LGBTQ has become the new emo kid. LOL, emo kids were considered queer back in the day too. "Our dudes look like chicks and our chicks look like dykes. Cause emo is one step below transvestite" "But, I mean it's the 2000's. Can't two…or 4 dudes make out with each other without being gay" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZmxFyf-PAV4
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:05 AM
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She used to be the General's mains. Must be taking the break up from the python hard, trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:02 AM
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That's the average for men all of all ages. 20 year olds are slightly taller and thinner on average. Average for a guy in his early 20s is more like 5'10" and 185ish.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:00 AM
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Women get their back blown out by losers alll the time. You have to adapt
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 09:32 AM
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No, it's simpler than that. Men usually earn more and are less likely to get custody unless they fight. It's "cheaper to keep her"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 07:52 AM
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It's cheaper to keep her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 07:50 AM
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You seem confident that you will be in the 80th percentile and will be able to get a partner. You have percentiles wrong. It would be "20th percentile", i.e. "top 80%", which 80% of people are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:41 PM
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OnlyFans girls already outsource their "fan interaction" DMs to guys in India and the Phillippines on Fiver anyway. Switching to AI won't change much
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:40 PM
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This statement was coined by women who were likely smash & passed No, IME, it's guys who have a history of bad intentions who say this. Then they project their own attitude/belief onto other men. "They say the coolest playas and foulest heart breakers in the world. God gets us back, he makes us have precious little girls."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:29 AM
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Rich people buy expensive clothes, just not the flashy mid market stuff like Gucci. And this is a very American, east coast thing. In other countries, it's baller mode
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 03:08 AM
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In reality, "old money" rich men tend to marry within their group/class and tend to be very stingy with their money, often frowning upon overspending on luxury brands and constant vacations that aren't business/job related. That's an East Coast WASP thing, not an old money thing. And wealthy people usually have hired help
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 02:22 AM
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Most Americans live in suburbs though. I'd bet that the number of people in hookup culture is higher than 10% in major cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 02:11 AM
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I think some of this is selection bias tbh. Guys who "passport bro" usually go to large cities that are known for party scenes, good nightlife, sexually open cultures. Obviously you're gonna have an easier time in Bogota or Medillin or Buenos Aires than day suburban Dallas or St Louis. A more fair comparison is NYC or LA to BA.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 02:07 AM
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A lot of people cannot.afford a mortgage or rent without 2 incomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 01:59 AM
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So are you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 05:29 AM
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Women date down, and men date up, if the man is attractive. Online dating and social media don't really matter in the grand scheme of things. The biggest factor is "getting in where you fit in", followed by having rizz + "closing ability".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:51 AM
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40g is difficult to reach in one meal for the avg person if Saar, do NOT redeem the card
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:04 AM
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I am an American mutt, like 50% Slavic (Polish-ish), 25% Southern Euro, 25% French-Canadian. But people IRL who are Arabic often think I'm Arabic, and I've met a fair number of Mexicans who look like Spaniards/Middle Eastern
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:39 AM
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I am YT, (though people often think I am Arab or part-Latino...), some of us are here too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:28 AM
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You hit 100g daily, not in a single meal. Can look like 25g at breakfast, 40g at lunch, 35g at dinner, varies, you know? Eggs and dairy are big sources of protein as well. Plus, you don't need to be obsessive about this shit. Going to the gym and being "reasonable" are far more important than your day-to-day macros if you want to "look good" and aren't trying to compete.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:23 AM
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Is everyone on here Black/Brown?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:20 AM
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"Hookup culture" has existed forever bro. What country are your parents from? Were you raised in some Protestant cult?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:17 AM
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I live and have only have ever lived/will ever live (if I'm in the US) in states where abortion is protected by State law. I literally don't give a shit about what happens in Texas or Alabama or whatever. They still arrest people for smoking weed, that's a nah from me, might as well be Uzbekistan. But I have the burden of a US passport, so I want to make sure that they don't fuck with my crypto and foreign riches.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:10 AM
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you should be worried about out them dying from an unplanned or planned pregnancy that goes wrong while they can’t get abortion and doctors are waiting to long to terminate due to anti-abortions laws. Just recently a woman died in Texas. I'm more concerned about hack "doctors" making a political statement tbh. I'm 100% pro abortion myself (up to birth, put them kids on a rock if you don't want them), but it makes my blood boil when these doctors refuse to perform necessary medical care to make s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:05 AM
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Lots of women do be loving a "project". TBH I have had more women interested in me at my lowest points vs my highest.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 07:59 AM
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Seriously, 90s were probably the peak of "movies"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 07:58 AM
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I don't understand how he "can't afford the medication". Basic blood pressure medication costs like $10/month in the USA. It's rare to have hypertension that young if she is truly a "normal weight", but in general it's a pretty common thing and the medicine isn't exactly exotic or rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 07:52 AM
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"Protein" is overrated by a lot of people. You only need like 1g/kg bodyweight plus a little extra unless you're juicy. Average guy who targets 75-90kg BW, 100-125 grams a day is sufficient, and you'll probably hit that with 1 decent meal + 2 "do whatever"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 07:46 AM
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Be hot and/or "reckless". The rest is up to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 11:14 PM
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It's 50% a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 10:30 PM
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Overcoming mental blocks/societal pressure is the hardest part IME. I had girls madly thirsting for me when I was young, and I blew them off because "it's work" or "mom will ground me". Women are actually thirsty as hell, but men are taught to be just as wary for various reasons. Female standards are actually incredibly low, it's more about being in the right place and acting the right way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 10:03 PM
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Bottom 30% don't even get "friendzone". Women don't even want to talk to them in case they try to orbit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 04:28 AM
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It's wild to me that these tropes are still talked about (both Entourage and Sex and the City) in places like this when they are literally 20+ years old at this point. Like I am an old fogey at 30, and I was in grade school when these shows premiered, the cast are basically my parents/aunts/uncles age. "Vanderpump Rules" (Jaxx is the prototypical 'alpha' male) and the 90 Day Fiance series should be discussed way more than this Xer bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 04:13 AM
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Shows like Entourage Entourage was definitely "interesting" for men slightly younger than the Sex and the City generation, but often as voyeuristic thing, not how they actually lived their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 04:10 AM
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How old are you? I'm 30 and most men my age have never heard of Sex and the City, let alone Zoomers. The women on SatC are literally the same age as my parents/aunts, and I was already in school when Sex and the City was on the air. Also just speaking in general - SatC is the "unrealistic" because the dating culture in large cities, especially NYC, is extremely different from most of the USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 04:06 AM
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My experience - the "tiers" vary a lot depending on Location Location Location Your "game" and how you can talk to people, meet people, socialize Your HEIGHT, FACE, and FRAME overall ............. How much money you have. A huge part of getting women is simply "shots on goal", i.e., are you in the right spot to meet women, and then secondarily, can you talk to them (and can you chat with people in general and build a "connection" that opens doors) and then seal the deal. The more attractive you …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 04:02 AM
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No, it was not in Western countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 09:03 PM
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Drug abuse absolutely was worse. Crime was far higher Mental illness often went undiagnosed, and the number of crazy people on the street was even higher than today.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:23 AM
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All of those things except obesity were worse 40 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:50 PM
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Various people I've read on Twitter. Not true, IME Gen Z is not any taller or shorter on average than Millennials
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:54 PM
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Pressing X to doubt rn.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:39 PM
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Of course, when something disproves a talking point, it's lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:31 PM
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Misandry is hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:30 PM
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Skill issue. Leave flyover country and you'll see the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:30 PM
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I keep reading on Twitter that Zoomers/younger kids are all "massively tall". Is that true in your experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:28 PM
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Simple search https://www.texastribune.org/2024/09/18/maternal-mortality-2020-2021/ Also note that Roe was not overturned until summer 2022, and the drastic increase happened before 2022. So it's clearly a different issue with the healthcare system. Reminder that a majority of Americans live in a state where abortion is allowed by State law, often "constitutionally mandated" (and a couple large states like AZ and FL will join them this November). I feel for people in Red States, but ultimately, …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:03 PM
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Why would it be any different? Poland has the same abortion ban as Texas.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:00 PM
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Doctors are refusing to perform medically necessary, and therefore legal, abortions as a political statement instead of doing their job.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:39 PM
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In Texas it did between 2019 and 2022. Adjusted for a certain public health crisis, it did not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:39 PM
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Poland has a total abortion ban, and the maternal mortality rate is significantly lower than the US's. So there's something else rotten in the US healthcare system.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:37 PM
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That sounds like doctors violating their Hippocratic oath to prove a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:28 PM
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Where has there been a drastic uptick? Also, do you think there may have been a general crisis in the healthcare system in the "last few years" unrelated to abortion?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:27 PM
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Social media and dating apps are not the issue. It has more to due with general social alienation in the US, which predates social media and dating apps (bad urban planning, puritanical culture)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:17 PM
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Yea because dysfunctional men are more likely to end up serving long sentences in jail
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:13 PM
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The most radical, men hating feminists I've met have usually been pretty "typical" looking (maybe they have certain haircut IYKYK). The stereotypical blue hair, septum piercing women I've met many have been feminists, but they didn't hate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:08 PM
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Local Brazilian spots are better, but not everyone has those.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:06 PM
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"Antisocial" means "Antisocial personality disorder" in this case. Clinically "antisocial" means "behaves in a way that is harmful to society", not "is against social interaction". And a lot of ASPD people are ugly and a lot of schizoids are handsome. Also, Schizoids by definition are not seeking relationships and tend to be asexual. So they are not raging online about a lack of a partner because it's a symptom of the disorder that they tend to not want one in the first place. Weird people onlin…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:53 PM
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Right now is basically the peak for color, though Summer is nice as well on the coast. If you want to see leaves, I'd recommend getting a car so you can drive around a bit since the exact timing can vary depending on location.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:49 PM
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Nah there's certain details that are the difference between a friendly guy, and a guy who fucks. One is what Good Looking Loser called "killer instinct". That's basically the ability to go from flirting/joking around with someone to kissing them and bringing them back to your place. Being attractive, talking to people, having a good time, are "101 level stuff" in terms of dating people. The real advice is in the details on how to turn a flirty encounter into an actual hookup or date. But that's …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:43 PM
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Antisocial men tend to have the most success though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:39 PM
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People having kids at 21 was an unmitigated disaster for society. The generation that got married at 19 and started popping out kids at 20 also had incredibly high divorce rates, lots of "latch key kids", etc. The norm for most of history was that people typically got married more like their mid-20s, when they were a bit more mature and established. Even then, there was a lot of marital problems (men drinking up the whole paycheck, neglected mothers taking their frustrations out on their kids, e…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:37 PM
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It's naive to think the other way
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 11:50 PM
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I do. It's reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:28 PM
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You can't stay at my crib, pick your panties up Oh, you mad? Well, ha-ha, ho, you let me fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 06:04 AM
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"Safe men" are statistically more dangerous. The vast majority of victims knew their assailant beforehand.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 05:58 AM
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No, they aren't. Most of them are gentlemen. "Feminist" men are far more likely to be predators than frat bros tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 05:58 AM
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Male feminist "allies" and commie "comrades" are notorious for being sex pests and deviants. The frat bros, the "weird neckbeards" and the "dudes" are ironically far more respectful when push comes to shove even if they say politically incorrect things.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 03:40 AM
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Violence rates for men are also mostly between men, but interracial violence is also biased a certain way just like intergender violence is (and it's not "the oppressor" doing more of the the violence, it's the "oppressed")
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 03:37 AM
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A random man is statistically safer than a man than a woman knows though. So it really doesn't. Your boyfriend/husband/"good friend" is far more dangerous than some random guy who approaches you at a bar or swipes right on a dating app.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 03:35 AM
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Poodles and other small dogs like Chihuahuas are honestly more vicious in general than big dogs, even the scary ones like pitbulls. The difference is that pitbulls can cause a lot more damage if they happen to lash out. Metaphor here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 03:32 AM
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I'm a small man who only drives small cars. Big men and big trucks both inspire a "I can take them down immediately feeling". I guess that's what testosterone does.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 03:29 AM
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So go back to your home country.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 03:26 AM
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Yes, it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:22 AM
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That's simply impossible by shear numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:22 AM
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When I used to get really high all the time, I would be paranoid that my teeth were rotting out of skull and obessively trace over them with my tongue. Full blown psychosis is when you can't distinguish reality from your fantasy for a long period of time. Paranoia is common side effect from weed, like saying stupid shit when you drink. Full blown psychosis is when you sober up and still can't get in touch with reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:19 AM
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Then you should be swimming matches in any decent size city. Your problem is either living in the middle of nowhere, or having a repulsive bio (and you can fix the bio with ChatGPT). DM me your bio, but I'm guessing the problem is simply your location.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 06:31 AM
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my city has a little over 200k Yep, that's the problem. Travel and you won't have any issue. Honestly, you need to move. Spend $15 on a week of Tinder Gold and travel to a major city, update your bio saying that you're gonna move there. At 5'10" and your pics, you will slay if your bio isn't toxic af. I’m 5’10” in an average height city of 6’1”. 6'1" is not average anywhere outside of the Netherlands (and Dutch birds are freaky). If you're in the US, no, the average height is not 6'1" in your ci…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 06:14 AM
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Fuck you. Edit: Lol, you deleted the thirst traps immediately. Queen, I like tall women. You are a demon.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 05:27 AM
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It means I will get banned if I say what I want to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 05:26 AM
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Not really. There's more women who will consider a chubby guy who's 6' tall vs a guy who has a perfect body and is 5'7".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 05:25 AM
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I'm about to Fed Post.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 05:23 AM
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If you're white and you live in a sundown town, you don't get any matches either. There's just no fucking people there! These places are the middle of nowhere, the general "pool" is much smaller. And being a "swarthy white" can be just as bad as being non-white tbh. They like BIG LAD ~cuntry~ boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 05:03 AM
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It's 100% a factor because a lot of women will set filters or automatically swipe left if a guy is below a certain height, even if he has a V shaped body, broad shoulders, nice hair, manly looking face, and defined arms. A lot of the men who complain on PPD have all these things, but they are 5'7" and [video game voice] ELIMINATED.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 05:01 AM
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You're short. That's the biggest issue, not your ethnicity or your looks. You're obviously in great shape, have great pictures, and are not ugly. Remove your height from your profile, and post your bio for review anonymously on another subreddit for review just to get some perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:55 AM
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His pics seem pretty good to me overall. Bio must be awful or blank, or he lives in the middle of fucking nowhere. Or he's just freaking out over ugly women liking his profile, like no shit, that's just how it goes. A lot of your "likes", people who swiped right before you saw them, are gonna be unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:51 AM
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Nah, it can make a difference. You're a solidly above average guy. If you're short, I would just take your height off your profile. I would also probably remove the shirtless picture in the white shorts since it seems too "vain" (you already have shirtless pics that are "active", you don't need to pose like that). Is your bio actively bad or blank? You could probably make a decent bio with ChatGPT if you can't think of anything. Oftentimes, being kinda inoffensive is best if you already have a d…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:48 AM
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You're not ugly though. Are you short? Are you in a rural area or a small city? Are you trying to "swirl" exclusively?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:46 AM
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Asking my male friends to take pictures just feels so fucking tacky though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:38 AM
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It's not even ratio sometimes. Sometimes it's just sheer numbers. Dating in NYC or Boston is definitely easier for men than San Francisco or Seattle, but even San Francisco or Seattle are far, far easier than some random town that only has 250,000 people in a 50 mile radius. Plus, there's other factors that come into play based on local "vibe", demographics, etc. Some guys will absolutely slay in a place like LA and only do "OK" in DC, and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:37 AM
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What unstated part of your advice am I missing? How tall are you? Objectively, how attractive is your face? What {removed due to PPD policy} are you (you know what I'm saying)? Most importantly - are in you in a city, or the middle of nowhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:34 AM
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take your shirt off of you can pull it off (I’m not buff, but it works great) You have to be careful tho. I had a tasteful shirtless pic that should have been a big "win" (building furniture and it was hot), and Bumble forced me to take it down.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:33 AM
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First off, you have to live in a major city You have to live in a major city for "dating" apps to work as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:31 AM
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Just looking for hookups or casual Many relationships start off as hookups or casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:31 AM
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but a dude wearing a well-fitting shirt with defined forearms and a good smile is going to have much more success. Is that true if it's a mirror selfie though? Women greatly prefer candid photos to selfies too, in my experience. That's the real issue. Men understand that shirtless photos are trashy, but men don't typically take as many candid photos as women do. Every single "candid" photo that I have available (other than 1 kinda iffy one I took in the gym) was taken by a female friend, or by f…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:25 AM
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Joint activities - no way. Worse than apps. Bars and parties - only once you put in the work and get invited to the parties and become a regular know feature at the right kind of bar (i.e. "social proof")
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:22 AM
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Men don't take pictures of themselves when they're out with friends. That's a huge part of it. Plus, there's simply a bad ratio for men on dating apps. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:21 AM
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You grew up upper middle class or better then. In poorer areas, 16 is late.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:14 AM
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US, same thing. One of my aunts has been an OB/GYN nurse at an inner city, "rough" area hospital for 30 years. She regularly has had patients who are 14 or 15 and pregnant. Teen pregnancy in general has decreased by a lot in the US, but she still sees them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:13 AM
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US: 18 seems young based on my personal experience, but I know that Zoomers are a bit more "behind the curve" compared to Milennials, let alone what Gen X and Boomers were doing. Girls having babies at 16, 17 wasn't unusual when I was growing up (I'm early 30s), especially in poorer areas. Some people were having sex as early as 13 or 14 among my peers, 17-18ish was the "norm", 20-21 was definitely "late bloomer" territory, so the average was probably closer to about 17.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:12 AM
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I'm his first girlfriend, and he didn't have much luck in the romance department before I came along. But was he a virgin? There's a big difference between guys who are withdrawn and can occasionally snag a hookup vs the guys who post here that can't even get that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 03:59 AM
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Putting 10 bands on Red can change a guy's life too, but it also can backfire in a big way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 03:58 AM
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four ex-husbands Bait used to be more subtle
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 03:17 PM
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Competition is useless stress.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 03:05 PM
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I am 100% serious. Lock em up. Women who use SSRIs should be banned from public life in general
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 03:05 PM
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80% of men should be sent to a labor camp far away from society, with the expectation that many of them won't return. So us high IQ Chads will have our pick of the women. It's that simple. I hate men, send them away so that I can charm women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:37 AM
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The problem is white knights who will ruin a man's life because a woman is mentally ill and reacts negatively to a man who talks to her. Put more women in jail for antisocial behavior. Ban problematic women from clubs and lock them up. If we simply crack down on mentally ill women (and throw them in jail, for. looong time and permanently ban them from bars/clubs/apps), solves a lot of problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:33 AM
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Infidelity literally only matters in the case of false paternity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:37 AM
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They refuse to be healthy (19-21 BMI).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:36 AM
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Not my problem Definitely not my problem. If you want to pursue your passions and you need a husband to do it, be a better woman that men want to marry Not my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:36 AM
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when a man does something inappropriate or creepy, how do you suggest we phrase our boundaries or redirection without it coming off as a full rejection? You should be as rude and nasty as possible. The thing men complain about isn't women being hostile when they say something creepy. It's the women who freak out when men say something normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:34 AM
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Their exchange was not open to US citizens. The people who lost significant amounts of money were often not on the up and up themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:40 AM
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This is Caroline describing her ideal man on Tumblr https://np.reddit.com/r/Buttcoin/comments/ytv0dv/tumblr_blog_of_caroline_ellison_exceo_of_alameda/ Also important to remember that everyone involved with this company was yakked out of their mind on various amphetamines the whole time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:37 AM
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Zuck is also kinda ugly/average at best as well as coming across as pretty awkward/spe*gy in public (people joked that he was a robot/alien years ago). Priscilla is his match/a bit above his league. Guys don't understand that money isn't like a super cheat code that makes hot women automatically adore you if you have enough. The average 9/10 model would vastly prefer a charismatic, average-to-handsome guy who "only" has like $10 million (and there's plenty of them to go around) vs a billionaire …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:29 AM
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My theory is that wealthy men who are in the more image-focused industries (like Hollywood or music) are more likely to prioritize looks over everything else in a partner. People in Hollywood and music are also often good looking themselves, at least when they are young (with the exception of the "producers" like Weinstein). And more importantly, they are surrounded by an industry that is superficial about looks. Guys in "nerdy" industries are more likely to be superficial about "intelligence".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:27 AM
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Zuck and his wife are looks matched tbh, and they seem to have a great marriage. Getting rich doesn't automatically mean that you go for a supermodel, it just means you get to pick.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:25 AM
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"Expectations" have nothing to do with a woman's quality. How hot she, how interesting she is, what her family is like, does.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:21 AM
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The type of women you like, maybe. A lot of hot girls like twinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:20 AM
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Smaller cities do not have "higher quality", unless we have extremely different ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:18 AM
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but filter that out and boy does the quality increase rapidly from there. None of them are single past age 23. What planet do you live on?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:13 AM
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Delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:13 AM
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You are out of your God damned mind. All of the "high quality" women in small towns are married or move away by the time they are 23.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:13 AM
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"Girls are like buses, miss one next 15 one coming". "She's not yours, it's just your turn" Basically, you need to dehumanize people a lot more when you date. They are NPCs until they earn your attention via demonstrating consistent interest in you + having traits you enjoy. If they aren't feeling you, onto to the next quest. For instance, when I lived in FL I was quite popular and felt like I fit in a lot better and had pretty good luck overall with women. I come back home and it's just been fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:11 AM
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Men are shamed much less for being single and playing the field/having multiple partners, I mean it’s a running joke that men have a 2nd family on the other side of town. Women will never be allowed that grace. You know how many females out here got kids by 2,3,4 BDs?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 12:46 AM
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because they are not set back as much as women are when they have a baby. Child support is financially ruinous to men. And women can be sure that the child is there's. Men cannot unless the woman allows a paternity test, and many will strong arm men into getting put on child support even without a test, and the biased family court will support them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 12:44 AM
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This is not always the case. Some women will be absolutely brutal even if a guy just says "hey, how are you doing". Anything from literally going limp/numb like he's not even a person to actually causing a scene like he tried to grope her. It's Schroedinger's crazy girl. Most women don't act like this, but men have no way of knowing which women are nuts like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 12:37 AM
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In the US, general rule is that any group of girls larger than about 3 means that they do not want attention from men. Even if some/most of them are single and open to a guy, general vibe is that it's "girls night" and they don't want their friends running off with a "random" guy. There's always a "queen bee" mother figure who will shut it down... Even if they happen to click with a group of guys, pairing off is discouraged. Girls go in groups of 2-3, or alone, if they really want to be approach…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 12:34 AM
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The consequences of falling into a sink hole are not as bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 12:23 AM
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I truthfully don't care at all about body count. They all thots anyway. "It's only your turn" is a mantra men need to be taught in school.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 04:15 AM
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Sure, you can DM. But the number of matches you get is highly dependent on your location as well. I'm definitely not top 20% (height alone means I'm bottom 20%), and I get matches in populated areas, even 1 or 2 in less populated areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 02:38 AM
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Real life is too risky. Could ruin your entire future
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 02:25 AM
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I support neurodiversity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 06:49 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:07 PM
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How is it trolling to say that different abilities are not a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:00 PM
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Wow, so you're saying it's bad thing. Internalized ableism.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:49 PM
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Oh wow, so having a kid with autism is a bad thing? FOH with this ableism.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:45 PM
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Having kids young is very bad for both the children and the parents. Having kids in your late 30s is far better than having kids in your 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:45 PM
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Pre-requisite. Why would you be in a long term relationship with someone you are not sexually compatible with? go back to feeling like it's an obligation or pre-requisite It is an obligation. Stay single if you don't want to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:41 PM
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How hard do you guys think it is for a man to pull his looksmatch? Depends entirely on where a man lives and his social circle. Most guys roughly pair up with their looksmatch, but there's cases where guys can over or under shoot based on gender ratio, social habits.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:34 AM
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Yeah, she's S-tier for me as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:32 AM
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When men have more money they get to be the man of the house Wrong. A lot of "housewives" absolutely wear the pants in their relationship. It's like hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:18 AM
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I'm saying enjoy life for yourself and you won't be such a mothball who never gets dates. That is not how it works for men!! It's very common for men to enjoy their lives, go out to eat, travel, have hobbies, and simply not meet any women. Women don't want to talk to men like men want to talk to women, unless you go to the right spots and learn the right rules. So go king, tell me all about how I wrong I am while continuing to not have any success. You are not a man. You talk to lots of people w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:12 AM
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Yes, living life that doesn't revolve around chasing pussy is the literal point. You don't understand how it works. It's not about "chasing pussy". A lot of men will literally never even meet a woman to go on a date with if they don't make it a priority. Men are not constantly flooded with options unless they are in certain environments. It's extremely easy for a man to never meet a decent woman, let alone actually know how to talk to her, if he doesn't practice and/or get advice. You're basical…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:03 AM
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Additional Q4M: If you were in the husband's place, how would you feel/react? I'd have divorce papers on the table and leave without a word. This is beyond "disrespect".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:00 AM
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You should do all of those things if you enjoy them, but they won't get you a woman. That's the point. These are all "nice things to do for life", but living a good life does not get you a girlfriend. Telling men "just enjoy your life and a GF will happen" does not help them. It's Dope with a C.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:56 AM
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I think they should move and/or get better pics if they are failing on them. Apps are still the best bet.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:54 AM
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None of these things help a man find women. This is advice for women who want to find a man. Men need to be proactive because they are expected to make the moves. Suggesting to gain new knowledge for the simple act of enjoying expanding your brain. These guys gain knowledge constantly. They are overflowing with knowledge. Just look at 4chan. Women want to date men who enjoy life Plenty of men enjoy life, and have lives that involve meeting zero potential women to date for years on end. Again, "j…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:39 AM
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Any man who tells a woman that he is a virgin, deserves to remain a virgin. Just lie casually if it comes up. Plenty of men with high "body counts" are bad at sex. You just have to get it in once, and then it's not a lie anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:31 AM
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Bragging about how you eat pussy is cringe behavior. I guarantee everyone involved in this exchange was well over 2 bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:29 AM
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If they're being an asshole, you don't have to talk to them Depends a lot on the show lol. Sometimes it's a miss and everyone there is an asshole. If you've been there, you know. It's just part of the game. Generally I don't experience this stuff because you don't really spend much time talking to the stuck-up people. Well no. I point is that is they look at you like you're a piece of shit because you even tried to speak to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:45 AM
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3 is the only valid advice here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:44 AM
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watch Emily in Paris, She fucks Ch*d from 3 different countries. How does this help men who can't get a woman? It's literally blackpill fuel for the average hopeless guy who posts here. travel alone And do what? learn something in a class for the simple enjoyment of knowledge You realize that 90% of the guys who complain that they can't get a date can "mansplain" for hours about something? Especially the ones with autism (they have a "special interest" almost by definition). take yourself to din…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:40 AM
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A significant minority of them think they're serious business and will not talk to someone who isn't in "the scene" (come on now, you must realize that "punk" is incredibly self-absorbed if you've spent any time around these people). Some of them are just kinda autistic themselves and very rude. It's extremely variable in my experience. They might treat you like a leper. They might become instant best buddies and party all night with you. It's just high variability.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:36 AM
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"Bar with live music" and "small concert" are almost one and the same by this point Not necessarily. There's some bars that happen to have live music sometimes to mix things up vs. just playing music over the speaker. There's some bars that are primarily concert venues and have shows 5-7 nights a week and are fixtures of a local "scene". The key whether people are going there primarily to go to "a bar" and maybe see a band vs people who are specifically going to see a band, and the venue is a ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:48 AM
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If your city has a nice-ish music scene meeting local and smaller bands is a good way to make friends! Only if you look the part. You have a better chance of making a real friend, if you're actually interested in the music, but you're gonna deal with a lot more people who are incredibly rude, cliquey, and have poor social skills as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:44 AM
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Every punk/rock/metal/hardcore/whatever show I've been to has like 10-15 breaks between sets where you can go talk to people These are most cliquey people on the planet though. You unironically have a better chance of making friends at a random "bro/basic girl" bar playing generic pop music.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:42 AM
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People who complain that they can't find a job are usually limiting themselves to a particular field and/or income. Well yeah, anyone can get a part time job in retail in a week, but that doesn't pay the bills. My husband and I don't mix our finances. I'm not even sure how much he makes. Why the fuck are you married then? This is insane to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:40 AM
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Then why even get married at all? The point of marriage is to combine finances. You should have enough saved as a couple anyway that the mortgage and bills can be paid even if one partner gets laid off from their job. Job lay offs are just a fact of life, so really having a mortgage that you can't afford on one spouse's income is just irresponsible in general.. Having separate accounts is insane unless there's some sort of family business/trust fund involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:24 AM
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Wander around a bit - if you catch a snippet of someone else's conversation that interests you then join in. "This weird guy keeps trying to talk to people" Holding a drink in your hand makes it a little less awkward to stand around "This creepy drunk guy keeps scanning the room like a predator" If you feel like dancing then dance "This weird guy is dancing around strangely" Disclaimer: I'm in Europe. I go to raves and clubs to dance - I do not go to bars to sit at the bar and get drunk. The Ame…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:22 PM
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Right wing men being overrepresented in "fitness culture" does not mean that every single man who goes to the gym is right wing. Plenty of liberal and left wing men lift weights. Journalists are their own strange class of people, they aren't even representative of the typical liberal young woman. Also, you misread those articles. The point of them is that neo-Nazi groups are using fitness culture as a Trojan horse to attract young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:06 PM
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In large blue cities like NYC, women assume that a man who calls himself a "centrist" is a conservative who is lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:03 PM
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When you say conservative men are more masculine, did you mean to say they’re old and obese? Young men and old men are the exact same amount of "Conservative". There no significant age gap in politics anymore in the US, except among young women who are far more left wing than their mothers and grandmothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:02 PM
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NYC has a high ratio of single young women to single young men. That's why there's "lonely women" in NYC. It has nothing to do with politics or the men being "soy boys". When women in big, blue cities complain about the "lack of masculine men", they don't mean they're all limp-wrested skinny fat weirdos. They mean that they aren't "chivalrous" in the sense of paying for dates, seeking commitment, walking on the street side of the sidewalk, etc. Also a lot of these women have strange triggers aro…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:01 PM
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They mean conservative gender roles, not politics. This really shouldn't be surprising. IME, the most outspoken "feminist", "leftist" women are also the biggest girly-girls, into stereotypical feminine things, fetishize being "frail uwu smol beans", submissive, etc. They mean they want a guy who holds the door, isn't poly, takes initiative in the relationship, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:55 PM
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Basically she wants a man with a BAPian (Bronze Age Pervert, an extreme rightwing nietzchian movement, for those not terminally online) fascist aesthetic with liberal values. I think you need to log off for a bit. Lifting weights is not a "fascist aesthetic" in the eyes of anyone sane.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:51 PM
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That's a delusion that "strong sturdy blue collar" men have. Getting your physique through gym/training for sport (which is really a simulation of war) is far more masculine than toiling in a field.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:49 PM
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It's like Bronze Age Pervert having a debate with one of the Chapo Traphouse "men" Felix was a bouncer in college, and he used to do CrossFit and BJJ.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:46 PM
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300k is not a small city.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:38 AM
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That doesn't mean that everyone with a bachelor's degree earns more than everyone who doesn't have one. Women are more likely to go into careers that require a degree, but pay less than some careers that don't require a degree (which have more men).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:36 AM
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Education does not have 1:1 correlation with earnings or economic value
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 03:42 PM
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Wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 01:29 PM
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Can't fix height though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 01:16 PM
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Well yeah, if you hate me, of course you don't want to date them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 01:14 PM
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I'm curious, but not sure if any women who post here are healthy (19-21 BMI)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 02:37 AM
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They don't hire escorts. They are kings of spinning plates and picking up women at clubs, on apps, day game, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 01:14 AM
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Unmarried couples can't even get a hotel room together in some countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:27 PM
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How is being a virgin until marriage enforced by law Sex outside of marriage is illegal in Middle Eastern countries, potentially punishable by death.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:22 PM
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Those Aba and Preach vids are great tho. Myron is one of my favorite lolcows.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:14 PM
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You realize Saudi citizens are in a uniquely privileged position, right? Compare the oil-backed goodies Saudis get with people in Egypt or Algeria.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:00 PM
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Trump is honest, unlike lyin' Kamala.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:59 PM
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100% sincere.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:58 PM
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No, it's telling these 3 OH 4s what's up! Every man knows that calling women dumb whores for posting bikini pics, with some Hitler memes in between, is how you get girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:57 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:56 PM
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Sir, they are the number 1 men's podcast in the world! How can you say that they give bad advice? (I was obviously joking. Ethan Klein from h3h3 productions has done some funny exposes of FnF as well, including an interview with one of the women they had on their show).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:56 PM
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Dating in the US is hard for a variety of reasons. Basically any foreign country outside of US/Canada (besides like India or backwaters in the Middle East that don't have expats) seems "easy" for men due to the fact that you can live in a major city for far cheaper than you can in North America.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:18 PM
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All those are easy, sign me up. Any man can achieve those if he tries whereas in the West, your fate is determined at birth by your genetic height.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:16 PM
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I live in a socially conservative part of the United States. People get married at around 24-25 here. There is no "party scene". Many people are quite religious and go on apps "lookng for a life partner".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:15 PM
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Women are bad at giving dating advice because their advice is always skewed by their opinion of you. Women who are your friends have a positive bias towards you, and cannot put themselves in the shoes of other women who view you as disgusting, a "random", a weirdo, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:14 PM
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Fresh and Fit are the self proclaimed "number 1 men's podcast in the world". Myron displays his rizz daily on Twitter. Are you telling me they don't give good advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:13 PM
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The West, obviously. I am from the West, and I think the culture is too repressed already where I live. I would not want to live in a place where being a virgin until marriage is enforced by law.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:07 PM
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Compromise and sacrifice has to be made in order to ensure a healthy relationship Nope. Nobody is worth sacrificing your own needs. For instance, I saw a post on AITA where a guy was asking if he was in the wrong for being uncomfortable with his girlfriend wearing a g-string bikini to the beach He is wrong. A man cannot dictate what a woman choses to wear.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:06 PM
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Often from young women themselves. That trying to find a quality young man is nearly impossible. They're ignoring men who are too short.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:03 PM
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This is a good thing though. Your own needs should always come first unless you have biological children.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:06 PM
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Why the hell would we date guys that are still interested in clubbing, drugs and consuming insane amounts of alcohol while 'accidentally' cheating I know plenty of guys who were/are doing this in their early 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:05 PM
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It's an even smaller handful of young men who have those things (and growing smaller). It's not growing smaller. Working out and fitness is far more popular with young guys than it is with crusty 50 year olds. Just because fewer young men go to college doesn't mean that there's not a significant number of them who did and make good money (25 year old men are more likely to have a degree than 50 year old men anyway). The number of rich, fit, young guys is increasing compared to 20 or 30 years ago…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:04 PM
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My point was that the % of young men who can be described by Guy A is even smaller. No, it's not. You vastly underestimate how many young men are absolutely killing it, and overestimate how many old men are in good shape. It's like 10-15% of the young guys vs less than 5% of the 50 year olds. This is "bope" as the Bloods would say by aging Gen Xers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:02 PM
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I know 40 year olds in the US who look far better than some women in their mid-20s do in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:58 PM
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Nah, there's definitely a sizeable minority of men in their 30s and 40s who hate women their own age, like the OP is talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:57 PM
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Buying a cheap car is not being poor. And I wish used cars were still this cheap in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:47 PM
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He sounds like one of those pepole who won't buy a "foreign" car.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:47 PM
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Because they want actual advice that won't lead to a potentially very bad outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:45 PM
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If your hobbies are video games and woodworking, your goals are career focused, and you live outside of a major city, this strategy is not gonna get you women. Don't be pigheaded.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:44 PM
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My time was spent chasing my goals, getting in the gym, and participating in hobbies/social life. This only works if you live in a place where hobbies/social life involves meeting a lot of single women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:43 PM
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Why are you talking about a 24-25 year old when your original post was a "20 year old secretary"?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 09:49 PM
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Too much attention and investment is a turn off for women though. They like to be given breadcrumbs. That's basically a lot of what the "red pill" was about. Heartiste has a "3 to 2" rule - you only give back about 2/3 of the attention/affection/interest that a woman gives to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 06:49 PM
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Yeah, I'd agree, most guys peak in mid to late 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 06:47 PM
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The 20 yo is busy and stressed out with school and her part time job.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 06:46 PM
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They're lying or they're fat and disgusting. The vast majority of women will not date or marry a man who's 5'7" or shorter, especially if they aren't total landwhales. If you want a woman who's anywhere near a healthy BMI and you aren't a cuckold, odds are very slim if you're shorter than 5'8" in the US unless you're under 25 and find a unicorn with rock bottom self-esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 06:14 AM
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So you're blackpilled then. Happens every damn time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 06:10 AM
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It's not the same dating a 20 secretary with little responsabilities that dating a 40 yo with a manager position that has to travel to other cities once a week. The 40 year old manager has more time to have fun because she wants to "let her hair down". She'll invite you to go on trips with her if she likes you. The 20 year old is stressed with college as well as her job as well as the general craziness of young people. Again, like I said, part of this is selection bias. The women who are really,…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:52 AM
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One being obese, shooting for guys who looked like Leonardo Dicaprio.. Well, it's different for gay men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:51 AM
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Old men are simps, that's how they were raised. I'm a 30 year old Boomer, so not quite that generation. There's a difference between "buying a drink for girl you've never talked to" like the Old Heads do and "offering to buy a round after you've chatted for 20 minutes" though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:50 AM
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They don't do it to women either
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 06:48 PM
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It's a mix of: Old men have more money so buying a drink doesn't phase them as much. $15 means a lot less if you make $150k a year and have $1 mil net worth vs being a broke 23 year old Old men, if they're older than like 40 especially, came from a time when spending money on women was more "the norm", and there wasn't so much hand wringing about "being a simp"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 06:40 PM
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I disagree with the "more fun" part. I think fun and seriousness is largely a personality trait that doesn't change much with age. At 21, most people are still single, so the dating pool consists of both the serious and the not so serious types. By 28, 29, the "serious" types are mostly gone while the "have fun" types make up a larger portion. The idea that women "suddenly turn 30 and start chasing responsible guys/demand commitment" just doesn't happen like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 06:38 PM
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Depends on how young. Most guys are better looking at 25 vs 21. 32 vs 25, not so much, best case is they hold onto their looks/get in even better shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 06:35 PM
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Exactly. Older women who are still single are probably easier to manipulate if anything because the women with decent heads on their shoulders aren't single when they are 35
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 06:34 PM
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They don't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 06:31 PM
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Minority groups think an area is "hostile" simply if there aren't "people who look like them" around. Women do the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:18 PM
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Blue and Red pill come from The Matrix (1999), not some moronic US politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:51 PM
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Using OLD how difficult is it to send messages to 10 women in a day or two days How many guys do you think get 10 matches every 2 days? If you don't pay for the app, you only get like 10-20 right swipes a day, so that's a 25-50% match rate. Even if you do pay, the odds that you get 5 likes a day from women you actually want to date is pretty low after your first 1-2 weeks on the app (might never happen if you live in a more sparsely populated area or you have a dealbreaker like height or r*ce)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:43 PM
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If you don't live in a major city, it's totally possible. I think there's about 1000 total single, childless, age appropriate, decent looking women within a 20-25 mile radius of me (and I don't mean 19-21 BMI). And it's not like you're gonna run into them all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:42 PM
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Only in certain bars and clubs, and these guys are too weird to know which ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:40 PM
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They are not hostile to women. Women falsely assume that any place that's male dominated is "hostile", so they stay away and the cycle repeats.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:38 PM
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No, they don't. Only delusional m*ids think that teenage girls are attracted to their crusty post wall, bald asses.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 07:45 PM
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That's life. You can pretty much tell within 5 minutes if a date is gonna go well or poorly once you've been on a few dates. It should be more normalized to bail early and save people time. There's multiple dates I've been on where I regret not leaving before we even ordered a drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 07:43 PM
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Teenage m*ids often sexually harass their female teachers as well though
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 07:31 PM
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Woah, my dude, who hurt you? This is not a normal one. Don't be weird, ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 07:11 PM
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It does. Even starting at 6 is a bad idea tbh. The top 5% matter far more than the lower 60%. The lower 60% aren't gonna do anything with their education anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 07:07 PM
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In the US we have this lovely thing called "at will employment" which means you can be fired for no reason at all. Then the burden of proof is on you to claim in court that it was for a protected reason like sex-based discrimination
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 07:00 PM
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International Men's Day is fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 06:47 PM
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Men are also more likely to die from murder, suicide, drug overdoses, and car accidents. Those tend to happen at a younger age, so they have a big impact on the life expectancy gap as well. In the US, 95% of male 20 year olds make it to age 40 vs 97.5% of female 20 year olds. That's a large chunk of the life expectancy gap, and 20/30 somethings are not dying of a heart attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 06:44 PM
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It's not made for women. Women are smarter on average than men, but men have a much higher variance in intelligence. So there's a lot more boys than girls in special Ed classes, and more boys than girls in highly advanced classes, academic competition winners, etc. even though the average girl slightly outperforms the average boy. That's why gender segregation makes no sense because it doesn't account for outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 06:40 PM
9

That hurts high performing boys who are ready for school at age 6.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 06:37 PM
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The solution is for the problem boys to leave school after 8th grade to go work in the mines, logging camps, join the merchant marine, etc to get a SKILL and contribute. Learning requires sitting still and paying attention. The upper 20-30% of boys who can handle it and dominate the class should stay, the rest should go be rowdy with "the lads" somewhere dangerous and away from society.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 06:36 PM
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Women get more education than men, but women tend to chose careers that pay less/have less economic value. An electrician makes about the same as a teacher on average, but the electrician doesn't need a degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 06:34 PM
1

Because a brilliant student is exponentially more valuable than a merely above average one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:56 PM
1

The statistics are self reported, that's the entire point!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:54 PM
0

The orgasm gap is fake. Women reinvent their memories.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:42 AM
2

Height is a hard cutoff for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:41 AM
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It's sad that you think "you're not entitled to sex" means "hate"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:09 PM
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You need to log off.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:03 PM
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Where are you seeing "hate for all autistic men" because I said that inclusion doesn't mean sex? You have some issues beyond autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:00 PM
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This kind of response suggests a cluster B personality disorder, not autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:55 PM
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Yeah he needs to block and delete immediately. This chick is crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:54 PM
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Inclusion doesn't mean they want to fuck you, moron.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:52 PM
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Body count doesn't matter, but keeping a list with a rating is psycho behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:51 PM
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Tbf a lot of women with high body counts are pretty shy/lame in bed. I don't really care about "body count" myself, but the "taking detailed notes" is a major red flag and he should dump her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:50 PM
0

It's not "usually bad". It's usually good.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:48 PM
2

This is not a representative sample.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:46 PM
-1

Diffrent strokes for diffrent "folks". I'm not average in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 05:09 AM
0

Some people are "niche" and don't meet people who match their energy unless they live in a place with a lot of people though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 05:04 AM
2

Woman: My dad left when I was 3 and has never cared for me. A woman chose him though, that's why you were born. I was robbed at gunpoint by a man Men get robbed too. when I married a man he cheated on me and beat me. You CHOSE that man. You reap what you sow.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:48 AM
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"Reciprocating" is a grey area though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:40 AM
3

Casual sex is way more fun than cocaine IME. Way more healthy too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:39 AM
1

Why? Casual sex is often enjoyable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:37 AM
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There's no such thing as "using" someone for sex. Sex is supposed to be a mutually enjoyable experience. Casual doesn't mean bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:37 AM
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How fucking weird are you to worry about things like "N count"?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:35 AM
3

Lots of women just want sex, just like men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:30 AM
10

It's a push and pull thing though. Smart men don't "chase" a woman who doesn't give back.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:27 AM
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What's her height, weight, dress size, face rating out of 10, age? What's your height, weight, age, Overhead Press, Bench, Squat, and Deadlift PR (bonus for Snatch and C&J), face rating out of 10, net worth? Also, your flair says "wife", yet you talk about your "girlfriend". Bruh..................
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:18 AM
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The person who consders themself "more attractive" is lazier in any relationship. Oftentimes, that's the woman for various reasons, but not always,
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:17 AM
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Mrs. Robinson type women only want young men because they are fit, virile, somewhat good looking, etc. It's good for a very specific niche of young guy who's kinda socially awkward but otherwise "attractive". It's not an option for guys who are overweight, ugly, dumb, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:12 AM
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I have a few. One is a total player who currently has a long term GF. Most of the rest are average guys who have GFs, a couple are single. Yes, I have a couple. All are girls I previously dated/hooked up with but relationship didn't work on my end or hers for various reasons. Kinda. They are fine people, but our lifestyle/values just don't really mesh. Depends on the context. I don't really like the kind of people I work with, but I can manage to make friends "socially" in "scenes" I enjoy. My m…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:52 AM
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If you're a young man who's half way decent looking, you will have plenty of opportunities. When I was in college, I called a coworker stupid to her face, and she tried to follow me home like a week later... Social environment matters at least as much as raw "attractiveness" does.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:47 AM
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Why does it matter either way? How fucking weird are you people that you're asking questions about "sexual history" early on in the dating process?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:00 PM
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Military is instant Red Flag for normal people. Jody says what's up. It's very rare that they're at a concert and randomly hook up someone longterm Speak for yourself, boot boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:21 AM
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Men who are truck drivers or out of state workers often have women in "different areas codes". It's a red flag because the travelling makes it easy for men to seduce women in multiple states with plausible deniability. I've seen this. Women who are flight attendents or travel nurses same thing - they hit the road and have men around the country. Also, a lot of blue collar jobs, nurses, cops, paramedics, firefighters, etc. work shifts, which means they have weird schedules and a lot of stress. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:17 AM
2

Guys that don’t advertise themselves online is a green flag, And yet women think the opposite. Men shouldn't comment on what "green flags" are for women looking for men, and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:15 AM
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However, by the time his report had been released into the world a week or so later, he already had met and started dating his one in 6 million girlfriend who met all his requirements, both sane and weird. Turns out she had an office a few doors down from his and they just hadn't met yet. He's dumb as fuck because he failed to account for "selection bias". Women who share his unique love for his [obscure mathematics] are far more likely to be nearby in a city like Cambridge/Boston that's full of…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:14 AM
1

Places where people share your values. That's gonna be different for every person.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:12 AM
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If a woman doesn't want to have sex with you, she doesn't love you Deep #RealTalk #LifeFacts
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:11 AM
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She go from one {man} to the next one, moving around fast Don't love dude (uh-uh), she just do that think it make me mad Stubborn, aggressive, possessive, and jealous it's more than that Telling me his sex ain't good as mine while I hit from the back Sitting inside the car, this ho just talking, think she selling me dreams I had to look twice, I seen my {friend} number 'cross her screen Censorship added per Reddit content policy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:06 AM
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The bond between a parent and a child is different than between a husband and wife. Parents share DNA with their children, it's like the bond with your own parents, grandparents, siblings, cousins, etc. Very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:03 AM
1

Can't use prn or mastubate either.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 04:59 AM
0

Sex. Love always fades. Sex is concrete.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 04:58 AM
1

Dating apps aren't the only place to meet people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 04:29 AM
3

they're having fun and dancing People who are having fun and dancing with their friends don't want to talk to some random.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 09:57 PM
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where the number of available men seems nearly endless to your average women The number of available women is also nearly endless by that logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 09:57 PM
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A few months is way too long. Guys who aren't stalkers won't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 02:31 PM
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Lots of people just have no need to, plus they're older and busy working so they don't have the time. If you move to a country when you're in your 30s, 40, or older, you live in a community full of people who speak your language (and you have family/friends/social services to help with forms), you work a job where you don't need great English/are stay at home parent, you just don't any English, so you don't bother. If you go to any city with a big immigrant community, there's tons of people, esp…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 02:28 PM
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It's honestly pretty easy to do. Immigrants tend to live in an immigrant community, often work lower level jobs with other immigrants, and now with the internet you can consume exclusively media from the "old country". I had some neighbors from Brazil who had been in the US probably 20+ years and barely spoke English.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 02:19 PM
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M*ids need to stop talking over women and mansplaining
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 01:42 PM
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Also, women don't know how to be "approachable". When a woman who complains about this says she "puts herself out there", she means "sitting at a bar staring at her phone the whole time".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 01:36 PM
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I had a woman literally wave at me at a bar once because she’d spent minutes staring at me and I hadn’t reciprocated. I continued to ignore her. She left embarrassed Extremely based
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 01:33 PM
1

Skinny vs muscular makes zero difference. It's "height, face, frame" plus "don't be fat"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 06:26 PM
1

No it does not. It's height, face, frame.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 06:25 PM
1

No, it will make the problems worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 05:01 PM
1

Sam Sulek is 22 and he legit looks like he's in his 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 04:57 PM
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Sex Ed shouldn't even be in school at all IMO, let alone relationship "education"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 04:50 PM
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It leads to an anti-social, selfish society.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 04:06 PM
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No. More education is the problem! The more boundaries you set up, the worse it gets. More lax attitudes are the answer. You have to learn these things by doing and trial/error.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:57 PM
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It creates suspicion. Kids claim their peers are "stalkers" for saying they have a crush on them, or accuse their friends of "emotional abuse" for sharing feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:56 PM
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It is. This "education" leads to people pathologizing normal interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:47 PM
2

Google "enthusiastic consent".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:47 PM
3

Wrong. Most women are Dominant and want to control men. Submissive women are actually quite rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:42 PM
1

Are you 50 years old? They have taught these things in school for over a decade now. That's why young men give up on dating and play video games instead
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:41 PM
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Yes, and teaching these topics in schools is a big reason why young people are so isolated and can't form relationships. They see "grooming" and "emotional abuse" in every interaction
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:39 PM
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It is mandatory, and it's resulted in a disaster. Title IX "campus rape hysteria" is a big reason why things are so messed up
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:38 PM
0

Why would a child free person want an LTR? Child free is fine for recreation, no go for long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:23 PM
2

The single women are all disgusting unless you're elite.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:22 PM
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Society has always been profoundly antisocial to people outside of the "tribe" or known individuals. Honestly, right now is the best time in human history to be a sort of "free agent". You think people in the 1950s were just dying to meet strangers and be friends with them? Fuck no, they hung out with their cousins and people they knew since middle school.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:21 PM
1

Some women (usually immature or from messed up backgrounds) think that "coochie" is a way to control a man and get whatever they want, so they get very angry when a man isn't phased by not having sex/can't be whipped that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:07 PM
1

Women's extremely.poor mental health and their high rate of drug addiction is an under discussed topic when it comes to "the dating market".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:05 PM
1

Does this include using sex toys in the bedroom? Either with a partner or without.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:04 PM
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It shows that they have no idea what they are talking about. Getting muscle does not help with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:03 PM
2

Politics was way more fun back in 2020 when it was impossible to pin anyone down, and everyone had their own wacky thing going on. It's so boring now that we're back to the same old uniparty shit, flinging mud over culture war nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 08:21 PM
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She didn't do anything wrong. The guy messed up when he told her to shut up. That's harassment
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:53 PM
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The man. The woman did nothing wrong. The man tried to beat her up. He shouldn't laugh so loud and bother other students
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:43 PM
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It's selection bias to some extent. People who can easily walk away from a relationship spend more time single and "on the market" vs the people who can't walk away. So if you are dating, the people you meet are more likely to be the walk away type.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:16 PM
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Asking someone to do something does not entitle you to them actually doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:13 PM
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That guy messed up for escalating the situation. He should have been expelled
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:12 PM
4

Well, it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 07:42 PM
6

No, this happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 07:37 PM
2

Good man. 99% of gamblers stop before they hit it big time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 07:13 PM
1

I recommend trading meme coins.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 07:10 PM
1

You don't have to have money to do whatever you want. You can bum maxxx for a while
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 07:08 PM
1

"Dollars can be exchanged for goods and services"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:54 PM
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25 is extremely young to be financially set for life. Be realistic, 35 is more attainable. You should be on the path at 25, hardly anyone is "there" yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:52 PM
2

Wealth is in fact zero-sum. If everyone has a million dollars, having a million dollars is meaningless. Resources are finite
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:51 PM
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Because they always lie about this shit as a "gotcha". No one believes that the chubby guy with a beard and a 4/10 face was the best sexual experience a woman had while the hot guy was boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:49 PM
1

What country are your parents from?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:54 PM
0

Women on PPD. They constantly lie
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:52 PM
0

They're just straight up lying though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:43 PM
0

Prediction: They're all going to lie like they normally do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:43 PM
1

Correct. It's a Dom vs Sub thing. I'm a Dom
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 04:25 AM
4

I like the idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 08:28 PM
9

The difference is that men's "locker room talk" is usually very generalized whereas women's "locker room talk" is more likely to be about current or past relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 08:27 PM
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Random means you're more likely to be seen by people if you fit a "niche" that otherwise gets buried by the algorithm. The "algorithm" doesn't account well for people that might have a sense of humor or style that is attractive to a minority of people but not also gets a lot of left swipes. The point is that it should be like "hot or not" for everyone in your area using the app that has a mutual filter fit. I've never received a like from a woman outside of my age range. Women definitely get a l…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 08:19 PM
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Why even bother requiring feedback then? The main way to make dating apps better is to limit the algorithm (just show people in your area, pure random), and require "mutual fit" on filters like age, distance, height. Part of the reason women get flooded with likes is that many of the guys who swipe on them are too old, too young, too far away, wrong height, etc, but those guys still get shown the profile of girls who will never see them unless they have premium
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 03:40 PM
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Women find an equal number of men attractive as men do women IMO. The difference is that a lot more men have unfixable traits like being too short or going bald at a young age. There's no real "unfixable" traits for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 02:10 PM
2

Because when people get unmatched, they're gonna feel scorned. And some of them will lash out and say nasty things.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 01:39 PM
2

Tweak 2 would lead to an incredible increase in the number of abusive comments. Feedback would often be negative
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 01:08 PM
0

"Visa" is not an acronym. You don't put it in all caps.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 01:06 PM
1

You can learn from the experiences of your friends and acquaintances as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 03:03 AM
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"Behind every powerful man is a powerful woman"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:05 PM
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These male crimes always precede with some form of suffering usually the inability to get women, to get sex. No, they don't. Many men who are serial killers of women or serial rapists have wives or girlfriends. Don't make shit up to justify your irrational hatred of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:02 PM
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No because having sex with an escort is not the same thing. It doesn't fire the same "success" neuron. It's fake experience that might actually hurt him in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:00 PM
1

Oral sex is vastly over-recommended in "sex advice" for whatever reason. Nipple stimulation and using your hands (either fingering or rubbing) is vastly under-recommended.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:55 PM
1

I’m not going to have time to read every single one of these studies in detail but I have a theory: the stigma around PVI orgasms comes from dating economics. IMO the stigma is related to the fact that dick size and shape matters a lot for PIV orgasms, and men can't control their size or shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:54 PM
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These are the things in my experience that I typically think of when I think about how dating is hard for the average woman. Abuse, violence, sexual assault, the threats of all these possibilities from prior experiences involving them These are not "average" experiences. People who grew up in abusive environments are attracted to abusive people because it's what they think is normal. Then they go on the internet and act like all men are evil because they can't vet properly like average people ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:38 PM
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Nah, it's obvious from the women who've posted here that it's a mental issue/trauma experience. A lot of these women either don't know what clean water is, or subconciously prefer dirty water and don't realize that they do until they've gotten diarrhea a few times.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:36 PM
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Sounds like you have a "type". One time is a tragedy. 2 times is a coincidence. 3 times is a maldadaptive pattern. The issue is you need therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:25 PM
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Yes that's my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:23 PM
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They will still pick 6'2. 5'6" is just too short for most women. They think you're disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:23 PM
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If her lips moving, she lying. This is just a fact of life. Most men understand this and grow up when they are like 18, 19.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:01 AM
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For gen Z the average is more like 5'11 No, it's not. Average 20-29 year old man is like 5'9".6 according to CDC data, even for just white men it's like 5'10.5" or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:29 AM
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You can make friends at concerts and house parties. One of my best friends I met smoking outside of a small concert I went to by myself. I've literally gone to many shows by myself, just wanting to see whoever was playing, and I ended up meeting hookups, going to random after parties, meeting new friends, building connections. It's a social environment. If you can hang, and it's something you enjoy anyway, there's probably people there who want to build some kind of connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:28 AM
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Women don't understand how stacked the dating apps are for men. Their experience is that they download the app, they get hundreds of matches and have to pick through the fuckbois and weirdos. They don't understand that their guy friends, who they know are perfectly normal and maybe even kinda cute, barely get matches. And if they do get matches, they deal with a lot of flakes, weird women, etc. There's a lot of "social bias" that comes in here. I've experienced this myself. Girls I was FWB were …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:19 AM
1

How would you feel about 5'6" and handsome vs 6'1" and average looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:11 AM
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Notice she said 5'9" as the "short guy". Average male height in the US is 5'9.5", and the guys who talk about short being a disadvantage are usually like 5'6" or 5'7".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:11 AM
1

So you're a "chaser" then?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:09 AM
2

Shoulder to waist ratio matters more than shoulder to hip ratio. Women like a man with a donk. The guy you posted has a fucking beer gut.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:07 AM
2

They repel a certain kind of man. I'm a big fan myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:05 AM
1

Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:04 AM
2

Well yes because hot women like her are a dime a dozen in "your country".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:04 AM
5

Nah, she cute. Hair dye is weird, but she has a nice body and she looks pretty decent without makeup in a bad picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:03 AM
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Doesn't matter what the weirdos here say, 2 is vastly preferrable to most women. Especially since most women assume that tall == big, and they don't see what you're packing until after they are already attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:01 AM
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Yes. Young people being locked inside and not allowed to see their friends in person has a horrible effect on them. Especially when you add in all the unnecessary dramatics from the media. We basically sacrificed the mental health of an entire generation to save a few extra old people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:40 AM
5

The mental health issues during the pandemic were caused by the social isolation of lockdown, not the virus. Get a fucking grip.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:34 AM
2

“women just need to choose better!!” Women do need to choose better though. Yes, most of the men who abuse women are not the stereoypical "Chad" type, but women in generally need to do a better job of vetting the men they interact with. A blanket idea that "all men ain't shit" often directly leads to chosing bad men. Learning to identify good men is also a skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:25 AM
1

Have you tried?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:47 AM
1

Move to a city. If you're a single guy and you're not religious, your options for any sort of socialization, not just dating, are going to be very limited and it fucks with your "social muscles"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:45 AM
2

Meet women online. Not apps, like sliding in the DMs or Discord (though be careful with that one).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:44 AM
2

Especially bars and clubs I've met multiple women I ended up dating at a bar/concert. Also, it's easier to meet people in these environments if you go with 1 or 2 friends (not a huge group). Or if you go to a place often, you just naturally run into people and you're sort of "in the scene". Being a familiar face and/or having people with you amplifies the social environment, makes other people more comfortable to talk to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:43 AM
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OK, what about the other 12 things she suggested? Concerts, house parties, festivals, happy hours, art walks, aren't fun?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:42 AM
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Women are not gonna reject you left and right IRL just because you are 5'7". I've approached and been approached, it's fine. It's guys who are like 5"4 or 5'3" that really struggle even IRL. Honestly, just leave your height blank on apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:40 AM
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Yeah I mostly get compliments from other men tbh. The amount of attention from women is about the same as when I was just thin. It's not being fat that's the biggest factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:38 AM
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The primary killer of men are men as well. Yet people hear constantly talk about how men need more friends. And most men who kill women are already in a relationship. It's not some guy who hits on you at a bar or goes on a Tinder date with you. Whatever percent chance I would not want any girls I know to be risky about it You have a much higher chance of dying in a car accident than being murdered by a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:34 AM
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You are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:32 AM
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Nope, friendzoning was from before this insipid “alpha, beta” rubbish was in the common discourse. No, it wasn't. Also women objectively don’t do that to men, men do it to themselves because they can’t get over it. Some women do. This is how I know you're new to this. It originally was about nerdy guys being whipped around by BPD hoes (tale as old as time). Later on, normies showed up and made it about this nonsense of "men being entitled"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:29 PM
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You clearly don't because it was always related to the idea of women having "beta orbiters". It didn't just mean a gentle let down, it meant the like skit the OP posted. A "friend" who got jealous if other women took your attention away, expected "boyfriend" treatment, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:17 PM
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Age 20-45 is what matters. https://www.populationpyramid.net/georgia/2023/ https://www.populationpyramid.net/united-states-of-america/2023/ Notice how in the US, there is a slight male surpluse until the 55ish age group. In Georgia, it's slight female surplus starting at 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:16 PM
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You answer questions, but they used to have user created quizes. Like personality tests, but on all kinds of topics. https://techcrunch.com/2008/06/18/okcupid-spins-off-quiz-engine-helloquizzy/
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:12 PM
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You must be very young or not clued in.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:11 PM
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It's not hard for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:07 PM
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It's over diagnosed, largely self.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:39 PM
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I live in the US, so IDGAF about the global average. I compare countries to where I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:55 PM
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"Autism in Women" does not exist. It's just sociopaths with a "quirk"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:46 PM
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That was after normies glommed on to the term. The original meaning was more of a toxic friendship like the clip you posted. Related to the term "beta orbiter"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:42 PM
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Because they lie, plain and simple. There simply aren't that many men who do this on apps. I've heard women who've never even used apps talk about how they are "full of weirdos". Many more who feel uncomfortable simply from having to see ugly or short men, let alone see that those guys swiped right!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:41 PM
1

The majority of men have experienced some sort of nuclear rejection with social consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:38 PM
1

It's about as likely as it is for a woman to get killed or assaulted by a male partner/guy they go on a date with. Yet women are encouraged to believe that it's a epidemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:37 PM
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If you think a man who approaches you for a date is going to kill you, you need a lobotomy. Women's skyrocketing rates of mental illness, and the way society actually encourages them, is an under discussed topic when it comes to "dating issues"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:35 PM
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Wrong, it starts to factor men as young as 35 vs in the US where it doesn't favor men until age 60.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:27 PM
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Because men who act like that quickly get corrected. They get banned from the platform. Also, just personal experience. Women end conversations or ignore perfectly normal/fine messages. No chance that there's tons of creeps.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:25 PM
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Show me a fat guy with a bad haircut and BO who wears nothing but hockey jerseys and sweatpants, and I'll agree that that guy needs to work on himself If he's 6'2" he doesn't have to work on anything at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:24 PM
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The gender ratio in your country favors men, like most post-Soviet states. Also, language is going to be a key thing here. Obviously guys who can speak Georgian have an advantage over guys who don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:22 PM
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It seems now that the term "friend zone" now means when someone nefariously keeps you around for their own benefit? This is always what it meant. It got twisted in definition by people who claim that men are "entitled to sex for doing nice things" and "can't handle a gentle rejection". Friend zone means "boyfriend treatment without being a boyfriend" if that makes sense. It doesn't just mean "we are platonic"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:19 PM
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Wrong, women are gatekeepers of both.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:49 PM
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No, they don't. Dating is far easier for women than men, period. 90% of the issues women complain about are personal issues around anxiety
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:48 PM
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How old are you? This doesn't happen. Men have their life ruined for telling a girl she looks pretty at a club. You're either 60 years old or lying like women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:42 AM
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Look at history. Women were commonly described as "ravenous", "sirens", etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:39 AM
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No, by 20+% for younger generations. For 18-29 year olds, only 75% of women are attracted to men vs 90% of men are attracted to women. And there's 105 men for every 100 women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:38 AM
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Male feminists are far more likely to be predators, and Antifa Leftist Feminist women are far more likely to have "kinks" that are borderline pro-rape. It's a perfect match.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:35 AM
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Do scantily clad women deserve unwanted sexual attention? No If you present yourself in a certain way, you can't control who is going to express interest. Attention is extremely different from sexual assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:33 AM
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I prefer hot and maybe a little mean to me tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:27 AM
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No, it does not. The only key variable here is promiscuity. People from all walks of life are hoes and fuckboys.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:48 AM
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It has nothing to do with city, domain, or politics. Drunks hang out with other drunks. Hoes hang out with other hoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:41 AM
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Because straight men outnumber straight women, and the issue is compounded by cultural factors that shame promiscuous women (they do still exist) and also geographic factors (due to the local economy, some places have a huge number of men, some have a huge number of women).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:40 AM
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We will never want to fuck as much as you do Historically, women wanted to fuck more than men did.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:38 AM
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Women have it easier in dating than men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:35 AM
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And you can't generalize the entire population based on your friend group. "Birds of a feather flock together" and that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:33 AM
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Social circles tend to "cluster" on a lot of behaviors. If you do cocaine and drink a lot, the people in your social circle are more likely than the overall population to also do cocaine and/or drink heavily. If you're promiscuous and cheat in relationships, your friends are more likely to be promiscuous and cheat in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:32 AM
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Tinder in the early days was pretty nice too. Much higher swipe limits, less refined algorithm.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:42 AM
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We had that before tinder.. It sucked. No one used it. Tinder was great when it first came out, before they started adding paywalls to things. And people did use online dating before Tinder. It's just that the "internet" in general was less popular before smartphones, more strange people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:41 AM
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It was much better. You just sent messages to people you were interested in, and you could take various user developed "quizes" to show off your personality as well as the typical dating profile sections. I used to take those quizes all the time, even when I was underage/not interested in dating online (you didn't need an account to take them).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:40 AM
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uh they also get harassed off the app by all the men taking their dating woes out on random women No, they don't. I guarantee most women have not had that happen. They hear shit from a minority of women that meet a weird guy, and project.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:38 AM
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The 90% number came from a snapshot of Tinder users in Italy. India, not Italy. Tinder is roughly 50/50 male/female in the EU, 65/35 in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:37 AM
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The only way to fix dating apps would cause them to be unprofitable. Dating apps worked well when the "algorithm" was very basic, and you had a ton of swipes, if not unlimited. Basically, they work if you just show people with matching distance and age filters, in a random stack, with no "scoring", and tons of swipes (maybe something like 30 right swipes a day to filter out bots or people who spam right swipes). No showing "likes". No "scores". Just "hot singles in your area". Limiting matches i…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:36 AM
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Sir it's a very important religious ritual.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:24 PM
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It's not the same. How many adult women have a medical clitoral hood removal vs how many men have medical circumcisions as adults?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:10 AM
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That's not how it works. It's a religious ceremony performed on an infant for some religions. I'm against routine circumcision myself, but banning it all together is akin to banning religious slaughter of animals that some religions require. Also, male circumcision is not anywhere as destructive as FGM. Some men end up needing a medical circumcision as adults due to issues like Phimosis. There's basically no medical reason why an adult woman would need the equivalent of FGM..That doesn't mean ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 02:24 AM
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I am pro abortion up to the 42nd week. It's the most trad form of contraception.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:10 PM
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Not all women can get pregnant, and some men can.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:09 PM
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Circumcision is literally a mandatory religious act for some people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:08 PM
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Over 90% of men are heterosexual, and less than 75% of women are. Not to mention that there's already more men than women (roughly 105 men to every 100 women). If you're in your 20s, there ends up being almost 130 straight men for every 100 straight women. Tough odds.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:56 PM
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Of course it is. Simple supply and demand. There are far more straight men than straight women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:53 PM
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Constant ghosting. It was hard for me to wrap my head around when I first started dating because women claim the opposite all the time. I just had to adjust my mentality and stop listening to anything they said or taking it at face value.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:26 PM
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Apply this to certain other characteristics a person has, and you sound like a raving fascist lunatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:23 PM
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That stuff sticks with you for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:16 PM
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False
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:25 AM
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Having a degree and a good job isn't enough. Men also need to be tall, charismatic, in good shape, match a woman's politics, and more. It's a simple fact that men outnumber, and the numbers are even worse when you account for the fact that 25% of Gen Z women are lesbians vs only 10% of Gen Z men are gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 01:17 AM
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"I guess this is growing up"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 10:37 PM
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Robert Downey Jr is a prime example, though he's been sober for decades. That guy went through a lifetime of alcohol/drug abuse, and he still looks way younger than his age.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:56 PM
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Flowers or being pampered would be kind of weird. I had an ex-gf that used to love to give me clothes though, and that was kind of nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:29 PM
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Alcohol is a serious stressor on the body, but a lot of alcoholics seem to maintain a "youthful" vibe due to the lack of outside stress/responsibility. You see that a lot, where literal bums or celebrities with a long history of addiction can still look younger than "ordinary" people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:19 PM
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If you take any random average man, chances are that 100% of their interactions with “hot and horny” women have been negative, manipulative, and non genuine. I guess I'm not an average man then.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:14 PM
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Yes. Most of my relationships I have slept with the woman on the first date. 2nd date at the latest. Actually, several of my relationships we slept together as a ONS that turned into a relationship. Lack of interest in sex usually means poor chemistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:12 PM
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Girl I was dating for a couple months. Planned a nice beach date on a rare warm Fall day. She showed up hungover as fuck, 30 minutes late, with obvious hickeys. Being ghosted after talking about future plans more times than I can count. Lots of "hot/cold" behavior in general. Overall, my experiences have been good. But there's some jarring shit that BP people claim "never happens" that I've seen plenty of times.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:08 PM
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Below 5'8" it gets exponentially harder the shorter you are. As a 5'6" guy with some shorter friends, I'd say 5'4" or so is where it starts to get really difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:00 PM
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Not true IME. Maybe on dating apps to some extent, but definitely not true IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:58 PM
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Statistically, that's as rare as a married couple where the husband is 20+ years older.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:20 PM
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Eh, not really. And TBH, a lot of the old guys on TRT or Viagra don't actually need them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 09:40 PM
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85% is definitely too high, but remember that the median adult in the US like 50 year olds. When you add up single young men, old guys, men in "dead bedroom" relationships, I wouldn't be surprised if like 50% of men haven't had sex in the past year.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 08:11 PM
2

We put the pressure on. No Way! Climate refugees get bent.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 07:48 PM
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No dice. US, Europe, and Canada need to learn from Australia. "No Way" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1vCQHps_k3E
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 07:43 PM
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Fuck off, fed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 07:37 PM
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They ain't coming here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 07:36 PM
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Exactly. Car dealers basically have a monopoly. They have no reason to play the games they do, yet they still do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:41 PM
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Mediocre people gotta eat too. Why do you think buying a car sucks so bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:34 PM
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We are interested in men who don't need "work on themselves" so they are datable Not true lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:31 PM
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7.6% of married couples in the US have a husband that's 10+ years older than the wife. So it's not the average, but it's certainly not super rare either. For comparison, about 6% of US workers make $175k a year or more. 5.5% of adults have a PhD or a professional degree like an MD or JD. 10% of adults don't have a high school diploma or GED.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:29 PM
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2-3 years older is the average. There's a decent minority of women who prefer 5-10+ years older, and some more women who are open to it even if it's not there first preference. A lot of guys in their 30s/40s are either married, or out of shape and unattractive, so it balances out for the minority of men who still have it together (and a lot who don't, who attract the daddy issue/fetishist types). It's hardly an outlier either. 18.8% of married couples in the US have a husband that's 6+ years old…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:21 PM
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Many women find younger men appealing. They are less likely to be out of shape, bald, wrinkly, their dicks still work, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:19 PM
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There's lots of bad products that need to be sold, and lots of bad managers who need to put food on the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:18 PM
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Yeah I disagree with the people in the comments saying that she "never liked him" or that he "never had a chance". He simply waited too long to escalate the relationship, so she assumed he wanted to just be friends. If they were going out to social events and doing couple things, there's certainly a point where he could have went for a kiss or flirted heavily and made things happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:12 PM
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They straight up teach these things in sales and marketing workshops and seminars to help young salespeople pitch to someone who is more receptive for a warm approach over just massive cold calls/emails/pitch to everyone. And yet these guys seem to ignore it all or are told to ignore it all by their manager because they just harass everyone anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:09 PM
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Sir, please read Spengler.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 03:49 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:36 AM
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If they’re not impressed by a coffee date then why do they have to go on one? You are missing the point. They are not impressed by it. They do not want a high pressure, high obligation date like a fancy dinner for the first meeting. 3rd or 4th date? Sure, that's normal. But people don't want to be "locked in" to a fancy dinner for someone they barely know. Asking a normal woman, not a hooker, to go to Nobu on the first date makes you look like a douche. It's casual drinks at a nice bar. Gives yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:21 AM
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You are a prostitute. Normal hot women do not think like that. They want a casual drink with the option to do more.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:20 AM
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Most women don't want to be taken to Nobu for a first date. That's "doing too much"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:20 AM
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Yes they are lol I work in the nightlife industry, and know a lot of bottle girls So you are completley out of touch with reality. I'm talking about women who are lawyers, art students, PhD scientists, who live in a normal NE city, not fucking Las Vegas. They get approached by wealthy men all the time asking them to nobu, Delilah, Carbone etc. so why would they be impressed with a low effort date? Because they aren't prostitutes who want to fuck rich old men?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:18 AM
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You live in Vegas and you are a prostitute, so I guess it makes sense. IME, the hotest women I've matched with/dated have been total down with something lowkey. Drinks at a nice place, maybe some apps. "Going out to dinner at a fancy restaurant" is like girlfriend stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:14 AM
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Not true, some men are just dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:12 AM
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Those women are usually not on a first date. There's a huge difference between a first date, and a woman who is your girlfriend or at least someone you're casually seeing. Melanin is dripping from this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:11 AM
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Not my experience. The hot girls don't care because they are confident that they can get a boyfriend whenever they want one. They don't want to waste their time on a whole dinner date for a first meeting because the guy might be weird. It's the "mid" women who are more cautious because they are paranoid about being "ditched" and are looking for total commitment early since they aren't confident that they can get it on demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:08 AM
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In my experience, it's the uglier/less desirable women that demand more.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:05 AM
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I have never experienced this, either on apps or with female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:04 AM
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You can't take people on Reddit seriously. Especially on a "dating" subreddit which by definition is full of people who are either bitter and jaded, or inexperienced. Many people want something "low effort" for a first date like ice cream or coffee because it's casual and low stakes. Some people don't. It's just the nature of the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:59 AM
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They ain't coming here, I'll tell you that much. We don't owe them a place, they can figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:52 AM
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People generally don't change political affliations as they age, that much. What happens is that a lot of people who are more likely to be liberal in the first place - poor, black/brown, marginalized - are just less likely to survive to age 50 or 60. People who are "left leaning" or "centrist" when they're young might have a lower tolerance for extreme left-wing policies once they get older and have some money, but it's largely due to the fact that poor people just die younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:50 AM
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Gen X was never particularly "liberal", and political affliation is usually pretty fixed once you hit 25/30.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:49 AM
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Women are more liberal than their moms. But men are more conservative than their fathers. Not totally true. Gen Z men are roughly the same politically as Milennial or Boomer men. Gen X men are the most conservative demographic, so many Zoomer men are actually less conservative than their fathers. Gen Z women are way, way, way more left wing than older women. Definitely more left wing than their mothers, as Gen X women are the most conservative generation of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:43 AM
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Nationwide, Gen Xers are actually more conservative than Boomers. I'd imagine it's the same in Texas, maybe even moreso because a lot of Boomers in Texas were raised there whereas a lot of middle-aged people moved to Texas from other states specfically looking for a "conservative place".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:42 AM
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there's gonna be 1.2 billion refugees coming north Fuck no there's not. Sink the boats, build the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:38 AM
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Long story short more fertile religious societies/cultures will conquer or absorb less fertile ones. History doesn’t lie. Where does history say this?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:38 AM
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That assumes that the children of the religious don't defect and leave the faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:37 AM
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Liberalism has won every battle since the French Revolution. Liberal, egalitarian values defeated the kings and empires of old. It is the natural path of the Faustian man, a world without limits. Also, every <<hochkultur>> rises into a Civilization, and then decays as it loses its vital spirit. This is simply the natural order, just like a human being has a virile adolesence that turns into a stagnant adulthood and then eventually senility and death. Dumbass Evangelical fantasies don't change th…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:36 AM
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My dad's dog had to be put down because he bit someone who broke into his house. Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:07 PM
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I was a teenage boy once, and I was never like that. The men who teach women that "all men are dangerous" are usually predators themselves. It's all projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:05 PM
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Well clearly not all men are dangerous since you share your location with 2 men (your bf and uncle), one of whom is not related to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:04 PM
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Capitalism has been the dominant mode of economic production in the US and western Europe for 200 years. Why did capitalist countries have high birth rates and family formation in 1910 but not today? When Marx wrote Capital, the TFR was close to 5 children per woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:00 PM
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AES countries like China, Vietnam, and Cuba also have a sub-replacement fertility rate. Cuba's fertility rate is lower than the US. China is lower than Japan. Also, the US and all the other capitalist countries had stable birth rates before the 1960s.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 10:58 PM
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Why is this a bad thing? People having kids in their early 20s means a lot of emotionally immature parents who pass on various forms of trauma. Having a lot of kids before you are emotionally ready to handle children frequently results in various forms of abuse. Also, people live longer now, and are healthier for longer as a result. A 70 year old person in 2024 is similar in "aging" to an 63-65 year old in 1990.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 10:56 PM
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Kelly Clarkson is fat, and Kim Kardashian has a fake ass. Christina Hendricks has 99th percentile fat distribution. None of these women looked like her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 10:55 PM
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True, the quality is actually worse than fast food. Though some high schools in the US do have contracts with places like Chik-Fil-A.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:57 PM
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If you're using US sizes, a size 12 is fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:43 PM
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It's higher status than the private sector equivalent (working at a fast food restaurant). But in general, public sector is not higher status in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:27 PM
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"Virtuous" - just admit they are fat and mid looking at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:25 PM
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The point is that even men you think are attractive or at least "normal and decent" have a much harder time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 03:24 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:05 PM
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There's basically 2 kinds of "mommy issues". Type 1 is when mother's have bad emotional boundaries with their children and create "son husbands" or "daughter friends". These mothers are in a role-reversal situation where their children are expected to provide the emotional support that a peer or even parent would. They expect their son or daughter to act like a husband, father, friend, sister, etc, and lash out when a child can't provide the support an adult connection would. Type 2 is when moth…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 05:03 AM
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I think a general rule is that "Daddy issues" make people have an anxious attachment style (very clingy, sensitive, desperate for attention) whereas "Mommy issues" tend to produce a more avoidant attachment style (distant, aloof, trust issues, pull away when people get close, desperate to prove their achievement).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 04:31 AM
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Women's crimes as bad mothers are far more common than men's. The men mentioned as "bad dads" like Homer Simpson or Peter Griffin are mostly just dumb and loud. There's countless examples of bad mothers in media who either act incredibly cruel and distant towards their children, or are overly affectionate and have very poor boundaries with them, often treating sons like a quasi-husband or daughters like a gal pal
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 04:29 AM
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Monica Gallagher on Shameless (the dad Frank is terrible too, but Monica is generally worse because she abandons the family all together). Selina Meyer on Veep Lucille Bluth and Lindsey on Arrested Development. Mallory Archer on Archer. Gillian Darmody on Boardwalk Empire, very heavy incest and "son husband" vibes with her son Jimmy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 04:26 AM
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Applying for a job has a low success rate, but you still do it because you want a job to have income to live. Rejection isn't a big deal. There is an extra risk in dating because many women are psycho and will cause a scene, or even put you online and try to embarrass you. But tbh, people online are sick of that shaming. As long as you are not doing anything wrong (i.e. not drunk, not sulking, accepting a no, not groping), people will be fine with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:22 AM
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Your odds of winning a bet on Black in Roulette are 48.6%. But it's not at all unusual to lose 10 in a row or win 10 in a row. Also, just because 75% of women want to be approached doesn't mean that they all have the same kind of guy that they want to approach them. And you don't know the context of where they were approached, or their mood at the time (or where they were in their cycle.....), etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:20 AM
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Absolutely not. My parents have terrible taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:38 PM
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I think Zoomers may be understating as well, just much less so.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 05:25 PM
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What kinds of structural changes would make women more willingly to be with men? There are none. A significant number of women, probably 20-30%, possibly close to 50, don't really have any desire to be with a man outside of maybe an exciting hookup or a sperm donor. The only way you fix things is to make men more scarce so the numbers add up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 05:00 PM
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Either way, the goal is to reduce the number of men. In the past, we had wars, slavery, adventures where men would either not come back or basically be "away" for their whole reproductive lives, etc. I think mass abortion is a more humane solution
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:58 PM
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Yeah, show any female friend of guy his Tinder profile, and she will be shocked at the lack of matches/likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:56 PM
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Women want Stacy, not Chad. Over 25% of Gen Z women are sapphic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:54 PM
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This is correct. Or use all these extra Y chromosomes for hard labor. Lots of boys are "too rowdy" for school. Put them on a ship or a lumber camp like we used to. Give them the hands on education they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:53 PM
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The problem is that men are then shamed for trying to give/receive valid advice that will make more women chose them. The Tate's and the Fresh n Fit's of the world are just raging clowns, but the original purpose of the "manosphere" was to give men real advice beyond "just take a shower and 🐝 urself"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:52 PM
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No woman is considering a man who is 50 miles away unless she lives in the middle of nowhere. In a big city, living like 5 or 6 miles away is almost a "long distance relationship".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:37 PM
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They are not LARPing. That's a disgusting thing to say. More likely is that older generations are repressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:35 PM
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I lied, it's more like 25% vs less than 10% of men. https://news.gallup.com/poll/611864/lgbtq-identification.aspx
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:18 PM
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Actually it's more than that. Over 25% of Gen Z women identify as lesbian or bisexual, and most bisexual women aren't really interested in men. https://news.gallup.com/poll/611864/lgbtq-identification.aspx It's an under discussed topic, but the fact is that young men arent only competing with each other for a smaller number of women, they're competing with other women as well. This explains a lot of the "relationship gap" IMO, more so than women "sharing Chad"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:16 PM
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"Men don't approach anymore, they should grow some balls if they want a girlfriend" "Men and women should be totally segregated in public"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:40 PM
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Even the fringe voices refuse to talk about the real issue. It's purely a numbers game. There's more young men than young women, young women are far more likely to be lesbians (something like 15% of Zoomer women are lesbian or bi, and bi women usually refuse to date men, only occasionally hookup), and young women are fatter than young men. There's simply not enough supply to match demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:33 PM
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The majority of men are not HVM
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:30 PM
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Women understand this when they chase a high value man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:14 PM
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How is it terrible?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:09 PM
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"Gymcel" is not a term invented by black pillers. You can go to TikTok or X (the everything app) and find all kinds of women talking about how gym guys are unattractive, vain, girly, etc. That doesn't mean that men should just avoid the gym. Lifting is really good for you and helps your mood. But men should not expect that going to the gym will make them more attractive to women (for that you really just need to not be fat)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:09 PM
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Yes he does, a HVM won't marry a woman who cheats.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:57 PM
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That's a mistress or a jump off, not a WIFE
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:53 PM
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The best part about the 6 hours is that if you're lifting, like 2/3 is rest periods when you can scroll social media. Or if you do cardio, you can just zone out with a podcast or audiobook. Being active doesn't even really take much time out of your life at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:51 PM
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"Gymcel" is a phrase for a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:49 PM
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If a wife has a HVM for a husband and can't meet his sexual needs, why would he stay with her if she doesn't allow him to meet his needs elsewhere. Why would a man stay married to a woman who can't have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:43 PM
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HVM bring a lot of the table, so they can cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:42 PM
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Is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:38 PM
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Sounds like he's not a HVM. A woman married to an HVM would allow her man to satisfy his needs when she cannot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:36 PM
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A HVM won't accept this because he wants to be certain of paternity
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:35 PM
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A HVM is poly by default. Women who can get HVM understand this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:34 PM
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Asking your husband to use condoms if he cheats is reasonable IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:26 PM
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A high value man provides and pays the bills. As TK Kirkland said, I can be faithful or I can pay the bills. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8JrJMxu-hXs A high value man is a rare thing, so women need to be flexible if they want one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:25 PM
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Having a side piece doesn't mean a man wants a divorce. He simply has too much love to give.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:07 PM
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Takes 2 to tango.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:49 PM
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Cheating doesn't mean you get VD
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:18 PM
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They wouldn't marry these men and have children with them if they didn't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:13 PM
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Nah, these men reveal themselves long before a marriage. Women like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:08 PM
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A high value man who provides has the right to get a little on the side.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:55 PM
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They choose to marry a man like that. Many women are dominant and like "fixing" or "mommying" men and/or they like having a martyr complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:54 PM
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There's no such thing as an "equal footing".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:20 PM
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Yes, I like the power imbalance. Why wouldn't I like having an advantage?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 02:54 PM
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Because women only approach men who are way out of their league. If a woman approaches first, she's either ugly or something is wrong. So she's one time use at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 01:43 PM
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It's a huge turn off when a girl approaches first.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 01:42 PM
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We need to do something about the epidemic of SSRI abuse among young women. As well as the related phenomenon where young women are increasingly becoming cult-like devotees to liberal politics. Making politics less prominent in people's lives would be a good start. We were a lot better off when fewer people voted or really cared about what was going on. And I firmly believe that a lot of people simply can't handle it without going insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:15 PM
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They don't do so seamlessly. The irony is the more trans people you meet, the more obvious they are even if they put in a lot of effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:14 AM
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Nursing is not a successful career. I can smell the "broke" and the feral dogs from here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:13 AM
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I'm talking about appearance and voice, not behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:06 AM
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Don't ever, ever, ever ask out a woman who is working.
/r/seduction25/08/24 04:05 AM
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99% of trans people are "clockable" if you know enough trans people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:39 AM
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You can't understand women by listening to what women say. "Watch what they do, not what they say" applies to many things in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:38 AM
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Women are vulnerable to sexism-driven violence because of their own choices. If a pitbull owner gets mauled, that's their own fault Women do not earn more than men in the US, despite recently becoming more educated Because they choose careers that don't pay as much. Education does not automatically entitle someone to a higher salary.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:34 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:31 AM
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If all you have is being hot, you'll always shoot below your league.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:04 AM
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In many cases, they do lie. "Play stupid games, win stupid prizes". Women chose to marry those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 05:32 AM
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Men who don't get "chosen" are simply genetic dead ends, which means they are more likely to be unhealthy in the first place. Marriage doesn't inherently benefit men, it's just that men who are more "fit" in a general sense are more like to be chosen. Hang out with friends, do some really fun hobbies. You and your bros go out and party somewhere, road trip, bar hop, hell: hit a strip club or something. If you're 40+ years old, this behavior is fucking pathetic. Imagine doing this at 55 or 60... …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 05:15 AM
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There's 3 sides to every story - what he said, what she said, and the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 05:12 AM
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Personality doesn't matter. Just showing up in the right place is 99% of it. The rest is height, face, frame. "Personality" is irrelevant compared to simply being in the right place, at the right time. It's proximity and then simply being attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 05:08 AM
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Women are insane and coddled by society.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 05:05 AM
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Women who pursue are mentally ill and/or waaaaaay below a man's league. It's fucking creepy when women are forward, and it's a massive turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 04:41 AM
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Women who are "unhappy with the market" usually reject 99% of the men who approach them either immediately or after some minor "ick". And it's just not the case that 99% of men are repulsive cave trolls who don't bathe and play video games all day
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 04:09 AM
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Women cheat more than more men. And being violent doesn't make a man "unmarriageable". Gambling and drugs depend - a guy who is rich enough to handle a drug or gambling habit and/or good looking isn't necessarily "unmarriageable". Women are fatter than men (BMI is skewed due to differences in muscle mass and height). Women are more likely to have mental health issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 04:06 AM
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It's because women focus on superficial traits and wonder why their "obvious" standards don't actually correlate to finding a decent guy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 04:01 AM
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It's simple math. Fewer men = better for me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 03:58 AM
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It fills me with a sense of dread. This shit is disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 06:36 PM
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Travel, ideally overseas.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 06:32 PM
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Yes, George Clooney would be the prototypical example of "tall, dark, and handsome"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 06:29 PM
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Keeping yourself in shape and groomed has nothing to do with whether or not people want to socialize with you. And personality really doesn't matter much. If people don't like you, you just end up in trouble for not taking a hint or just not talking to them at all
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 06:20 PM
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Give them $25k with the stipulation that they have to travel or live somewhere new for a least a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 06:18 PM
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A parent trying to help their loser kid socialize is even more embarrassing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 06:17 PM
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IME the only women that act rude/cold are roughly 23-35 year olds who are "mid" or slightly hot. Ugly women, older women, younger women, really hot like 10/10 women, are all normal or nice. Basically any woman not in my dating range, all normal. In it? Deranged.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 06:10 PM
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Even pre-War, Kiev was just 10x better than anywhere in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 06:07 PM
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Absolutely. ALL men are my competitors. Male to female ratio is the number 1 most important factor in the dating market. In an ideal world, 80% of men would basically be isolated from the market by being in labor camps, on boats sailing the world, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 06:06 PM
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Yeah, that's like 99% of it. Though IME the hotter the girl I slept with, the better she was in bed for my preferences (on average, not always)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 03:54 AM
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Relationship is much harder to get than casual sex. Most of my relationships started with casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 03:53 AM
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He was trying to set up a FWB situation, and he's mad that you didn't accept it. If he actually wasn't interested, he wouldn't have said "let me know if you're in the area".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 03:49 AM
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That's not at all true. I went a date with a girl from Hinge, and it was only after we had sex that she said "woah, I don't even know your last name".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 03:47 AM
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All of those places will still Mog anywhere in the US tbh, especially if you speak Ukrainian or Russian fluently.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 03:45 AM
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"Expanding my social circle" is the only one I've tried. It worked fairly quickly, but success is up and down. I got new hookups/interest from girls fairly quickly, but actually getting a relationship always takes time. You're not gonna click with everyone you meet. It just gives you more "shots on goal" with better odds than swiping on an app. Important to note that "expanding my social circle" largely came via going out to bars or live events in a "scene" that I was interested. And I also smok…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 03:42 AM
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would make a tiktok trend of "why does nobody ask me out?" and shame men about not being real men if they stop pursuing women This is already a trend online.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:55 AM
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"Hobosexual"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:12 PM
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Single men are highly stigmatized after a certain age. People assume there's something wrong with a man who doesn't have a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 03:01 PM
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Modern humans are the most self-centered, apathetic, and anti-social generation in human history Humans used to commit genocide casually. Constant war between neighboring tribes was the norm for most of human history. Modern humans are actually the most pro-social generation ever. If you told someone in 1920 that people in developing countries have rights and deserve compassion, they'd think you had a screw loose.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 02:55 PM
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80% of men should simply be doing hard labor, far away from society.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 02:53 PM
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And what's the result in these countries? Women are more attractive, and men have more options. That's only with a 54% women vs 46% men population. Imagine how insanely awesome it would be if it was 90% women and 10% men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 02:52 PM
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10:1 Female:Male.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 02:51 PM
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My mental image of a 47 year old really isn't all that appealing in terms of how far ahead of me and how much more mature they would be. When I met her (I was 27, she was 39), I thought she was about the same age as me, maybe like 5 years older, and she was way less mature than I was lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:08 AM
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30 is not that old, or "the wall" in any way. 35, 40, yeah, that starts to be a bit "old" even if the woman is still pretty good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:59 AM
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I'm 30. I've hooked up with women younger than me, but the vast majority have been somewhere between the same age and 12 years older.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:57 AM
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Apps have sort of lost their "cultural moment". They are years past being cool. So the people still on them tend to be the more neurotic, picky, shut in types. Whereas people who go out to bars are looking to enjoy themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 12:56 PM
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Easily 5% of the population should be locked up
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 02:16 PM
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We need more people in prison, men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:26 PM
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These women most likely support "prison abolition" in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:25 PM
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Wrong. In the past, we understood that low value men had no purpose in society other than doing dangerous work, far away. More men should be sent to the coal mines, timber fields, military service, with the expectation that some of them will stay there forever. That corrects the gender ratio and allows women to not have to interact with the losers and creeps.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:20 PM
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You have a fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:13 PM
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No, it was understood that women are obsessed with sex, and needed to be restrained.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:12 PM
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Fetishists maybe. Men like healthy (19-21 BMI) women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:11 PM
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We understood this for hundred of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 12:52 AM
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Men interrupting women at work is not the same as what happens during a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 09:11 PM
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A Time article is not facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 09:01 PM
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No, it's fact. The number one sign a date is going well as a man is if the woman has done 80% of the talking. If women aren't talking, she's not interested
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 07:01 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 06:42 PM
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Bro you know that's not what we're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 06:31 PM
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Curie was a smart researcher. That's not the same as remembering casual conversations or relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 06:16 PM
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Nobody is perfect, but men don't rewrite history based on feelings. Women do this constantly, especially with relationships (this is the main cause of the "orgasm gap")
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 05:57 PM
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She was lying. Women's memories aren't based in fact. They are based on how they feel about a person/situation at the current moment. If the guy made her mad for some reason, suddenly he was always a rude assehole who never let her speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 05:51 PM
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Casual convos are not the same as dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 05:37 PM
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Correct. If he wants you, he will let you know. I think you're leaving out details from your story too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 05:17 PM
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Correct. It looks desperate or like you're trying to exploit him for something
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 05:14 PM
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Flirting is manipulative
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 05:11 PM
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Nope, surveys say the exact opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 05:11 PM
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You were manipulating him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 05:05 PM
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Nope, over 15% of Gen Z women are lesbian or Bi, and most Bi women are "homo romantic", basically the only date women but occasionally they will hookup with a man. That's self reported, I think more like 40-50% of women are Bi and most lean towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 05:00 PM
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Statistically there isn't someone out there for everyone. Men age 20-39 outnumber women, roughly 104 men for every 100 women. Add in the fact that women are more likely to be gay or bisexual than men, and there's simply not enough women for every man to find someone (and that's not even getting into the fact that women are fatter than men!)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 04:02 PM
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Many prosecutors use flimsy evidence and take shortcuts to get the job done.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 04:00 PM
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No because the jury only decides based on "facts" the prosecutor gives them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:49 PM
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Different jobs have different responsibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:25 PM
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You don't have to be dialed in though. Just have the right experience. I agree with the 80/20 rule in the sense that only 20ish% of guys have what it takes, but not in the "only 20% of men are attractive" sense. It's more like 50, 60% of guys could do it if they were knowledgeable
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:21 PM
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Tbf I think it's more than 20% of men who can do this, most guys just don't get proper advice and screw things up for themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 02:19 PM
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Those guys are screwed. If you don't get that half a second lust, you're gonna be settled for at best. They should join a monestary.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 02:00 PM
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I talk to him regularly
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 01:59 PM
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Nah, he was a successful high value man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 01:58 PM
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No idea. I usually avoid talking about myself as much as possible. TBH, I think this is a "selection bias" attitude. A lot of women might claim that a man "didn't ask a single question" if the conversation was 50/50 instead of her dominating it. A lot of guys don't understand that women want to do 70, 80% of the talking.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 01:36 PM
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What a lot of guys don't understand is that she either likes you or doesn't like you within like 1 minute. After that, it's all about "not screwing up" until she's so attached that she doesn't want to dump you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 01:35 PM
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He was a successful content creator who was taken too soon by a health issue that many in the black community deal with (hypertension). He was a high value man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 01:30 PM
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Because they messed up. There needs to be real consequences for when they fuck up at their job.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 01:30 PM
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To get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 04:29 AM
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No, but men can be fearful of being accused of a crime or domestic abuse, which is basically a form of violence (being threatened that authority will come down on them). A false accusation is honestly worse than d*ath tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 04:20 AM
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We have proper DNA evidence now though. A case like Patricia Meili can't happen today. The guy who murdered 4 college students in Moscow Idaho was identified based on a touch DNA print on a sheath that was tied to his father. There's simply no way for substantial DNA evidence not to exist in a rape trial.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 04:18 AM
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The accuser who put them in jail and the police officers + prosecutors should be "broken on the wheel" as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 04:10 AM
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The thing is that there's plenty of 24 year old men who are already rich and established. And smart women know that "potential" is worth what's above the door i.e. nothing. Every broke 24 year old says they're gonna be a baller.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 04:08 AM
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Most women in the US will not date a man who lives with his parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 04:06 AM
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"Part time" is the key here, plus how expensive is the city you live in?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 04:05 AM
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He was a high value man who was married twice. High value men have different timelines.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:42 AM
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That's not what saying someone is "marriage, but not hookup material" means.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:56 PM
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Mental gymnastics. "Husband material" implies settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:30 PM
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People in the PRC are more satisfied that the West. The talks of "war" are bloodthirsty American hawks trying to start shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:15 PM
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Sounds like we rely on them for chips, not that we control them. Only Americans are arrogant enough to think that trade relationships are somehow a form of control
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:12 PM
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Why does reunification have to involve military force?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:12 PM
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Taiwan is not a 3rd world country, it's highly developed. And we do not have effective control over them. Superpowers don't exist unless they have technological superiority. Imperial Warmaking can't be successful unless you have superior technology and the ability to mass produce it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:04 PM
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Both the Republic of China and the People's Republic consider Taiwan province to be part of China.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:02 PM
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Let me guess, you aren't even American? This coal posting usually comes from Canada or Australia. And industrial capacity is how you win wars. America won wars in the past we had the most and the best technology. Nowadays that means Chips.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 06:59 PM
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Exactly, building more battleships is just gonna put more young Americans under the Taiwan Strait. Modern battles aren't fought the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 06:57 PM
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Why is there going to be a war over Taiwan?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 06:56 PM
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How does any of that make American industry competitive?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 06:56 PM
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Most people meet their life partner before 25 IME. As the late great Kevin Samuels said "27, time to sell. 30, 50% off. 35, clearance rack. 40? Outlet. 50? Goodwill, Salvation Army!"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 06:53 PM
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You gotta be careful with positive emotions too though, especially early on in a relationship. Being too enthusiastic about anything makes you look like a little kid at best. Cool, detached, but responsive to her needs is what women like. Remember that as a man, you are just a prop in her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 06:47 PM
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As he said, the key is just to get her talking about herself. If she asks you something, you answer shortly and pivot it back to her immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 01:39 PM
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S-tier advice. Should be pinned post.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 01:33 PM
1

I mean that's retail in the same way car sales is "retail". The more expensive the stuff you sell is, the more money you make. Even then, sales guys are kind of a red flag for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 09:01 PM
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Most retail workers do not make commission, and usually the jobs aren't full time. It still pays better than it used to, but it's usually like $15-20/hr depending on where you live and hard to get more than 30 hours a week without tenure.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 08:56 PM
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Most people do not own a house for their whole lives - the average is 7 years in America. And passing on stocks to your family is much more liquid and has a higher rate of return.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:10 PM
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The global average means fuck all compared to your immediate neighbors. The global average salary would mean you're homeless in the United States.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:27 PM
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Why do women think owning a home is a major financial goal? Often it's more expensive than renting and a poor investment unless you plan to stay in the house for over a decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:09 PM
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Roommates, not really as long as there isn't like 5 guys in a house. I spoke to my roommate's girlfriend maybe like 5 times in 2 years before she moved in.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:08 PM
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. The overwhelming majority of men and women in their 20s and even early 30s can't afford to buy homes, and renting them is often just as expensive as having the mortgage yourself IME the expectation varies by age. Usually it's something like under 25: Just don't live with your parents. 25-early 30s: Don't live with more than like 2 roommates. Mid-30s and up: Have your own place. The exact ages might drift up and down depending on how expensive your city is. The expectation of buying vs renting …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:06 PM
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Poor people just don't pay their bills, so they don't care about credit scores or costs of things. If there's money in the bank, they spend it until it's gone and/or whatever loans they have are maxed out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:03 PM
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$20/hr is not that high of a bar to clear though. That's basically "have some kind of job beyond retail/fast food". Even the shittiest construction/warehouse jobs will pay like $20-22/hr in expensive cities, the qualifications are basically "show up on time, sober".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:01 PM
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Lots of women brag about how they have multiple {censored} on rotation lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 03:51 AM
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Women don’t find enough men appealing solely on looks Yes, they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 11:32 PM
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Many of these women also sleep with multiple men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 11:30 PM
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That's not what "abdominal obesity" means. A pouch near the uterus is not "abdominal obesity", a big gut is, storing fat around the waist (which is near the belly button or slightly above it) is. Even thin, healthy women have some fat around the reproductive organs, of course. Women typically do not store excess fat around the waist (some do though, largely genetic, aka an "apple" body shape), even a lot of very fat women have slim-ish waists with excess fat on the arms, legs, hips, etc. (aka th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 11:29 PM
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Same brother. You learn with time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 12:24 AM
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It's really a combo of matching her mood + escalating things at the right pace. Second one is hard to describe unless you've been there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:45 PM
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I mean this should be obvious. You don't treat a random old person the same way you treat a woman you're trying to seduce. And women who want a relationship don't want to be treated the same way a man treats his grandmother or a random man. There's an entire term for this - the "Madonna/Whore" complex where men neglect their wives and seek out affairs because they view their wife/gf the same way they view their mother/grandmother.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:44 PM
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There's far more to it than that. Being a decent guy is only the prerequisite. Game is important for men. Most men figure it out naturally or have "Chad" friends, uncles, cousins, who teach them. Socially awkward men without these support groups, who are either isolated or only hang out with other weird nerds, absolutely need to be taught how to be proper seducers as well as just being decent. Women don't just want to be treated like a "human being". You expect different treatment from a romanti…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:41 PM
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The problem seems way worse in the US vs Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:32 PM
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Women also don’t want to compliment men, especially in bed. TF are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:10 PM
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You have a hand you can use during coitus. And tbh, you should be making your woman orgasm before PiV. Fingering and/or oral works well on most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:02 PM
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I do believe that women orgasm more easily with attractive men regardless of effort. I also think there's a "devil's horns" effect with the orgasm gap. Memories are not always accurate. I think many women say they had a bad sexual experience because of what happened after sex, not during.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:00 PM
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The orgasm gap is a case of false memory. A man can rock your world, then if he pisses you off later on, suddenly "he was terrible in bed". It's the equivalent of men calling women ugly after they get rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 10:54 PM
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Not really because 40-something men didn't take care of themselves like they do now, and they were far less fit. This is what 40 year olds look like in the Aughts https://np.reddit.com/r/Millennials/comments/1cwysap/38_year_olds_in_2005/
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 08:37 PM
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Women don't date men who live 50 miles away
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 08:33 PM
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That's nonsense. If women were actually having more casual sex, then it would be easier for guys to get casual relationships or hookups, and they wouldn't complain so much. Guys invent things like "they're all sharing Chad" because they can't imagine that women simply are just not having sex. SSRIs and general social isolation have tanked dating for women too. Also, you're too focused on these "are we dating the same guy" videos that go viral. They aren't normal. They are jokes/extreme cases whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 08:25 PM
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Dating at work is highly discouraged at any "real" job. And the US doesn't have as big of a pub/club culture due to sprawl and more religious people/more upright attitudes around drinking and drugs (not everyone, but it's more common to find teetotalers)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 07:17 PM
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The lack of 3rd places also has to do with car-centric development. My grandparents grew up in a dense city with plenty of streetcars and bus lines. That same city now only has buses that come once every half hour at best and has lost a ton of people. Hell, even my other grandma's hometown of 40,000 had trolleys when she was growing up. Everyone moving out to sprawling suburbs means harder to have third places where people hang out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 07:15 PM
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That's the only one that's possibly valid, but even then, people online have predicted 15 of the last 5 recessions. There's some indicators that aren't great, but that doesn't mean the Great Depression will happen, or things will crash next week. People under 35 have really only experienced 2 recessions, both of which were very unusual. The GFC in 2008 was very painful and long lasting. The COVID recession was incredibly short and had a quick recovery (unemployment was above 7% for only 6 months…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:46 PM
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That's partly because height is correlated with things like general health, nutrition, intelligence. Short men's quality of life isn't necessarily lower only because they are short. It's also because many men are short because they come from worse circumstances
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:45 PM
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BMI is not the same thing as body fat percentage. BMI is (height in cm) squared divided by weight in kilos. Body fat percentage is the percentage of your body weight that is fat. Someone with a BMI of 25 could be 40+% body fat if they are a sedentary woman. Someone with a BMI of 25 could be 10% bodyfat if they are a jacked bodybuilder guy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:34 PM
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Honestly, I could never imagine raising kids in the US with how psychotic the schools and some of the other parents are. It was bad enough when I was growing up that I already wanted to leave, and it's gotten worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:24 PM
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"You would make a fine bangmaid, m'lady". Lol, it's only mildly better than "birthing hips"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:23 PM
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You say social media is manufactured, but every "problem" you mentioned in your OP is a social media driven hysteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:20 PM
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All of those problems you listed except maybe number 5 are total bullshit. People have been fear mongering about "World War 3" and "da Climate CRISIS" for decades (climate change is real, but the fear mongering is largely an excuse to force more refugees into Western countries. We could solve it tomorrow if we just built more nuclear power). Political violence in the UK/US is not gonna happen, turn off the damn TV and social media. Income inequality means jack shit - get your life together and d…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:17 PM
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It's quite rare though. If you look at studies of the general population, most people above 23-24 BMI tend to have excess body fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:07 PM
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It isn't that common. Not many people have a serious strength training regimen, women even less so than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:10 PM
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That's pathetic. Having nothing is better than having someone gross you don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:03 PM
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There's 2 sides to the equation. It's not just about male competition, it's also about female competition. In a room full of ugly people, an average person is a 10/10. In a room full of supermodels, an average woman is like a 2/10. Stuff like height doesn't matter as much as guys like to claim. Dating in W Europe is still easier simply because there's more options, same with Latin America. There's also some cultural factors at play of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:01 PM
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It's not due to Instagram or social media. It's because the "average" has gotten less attractive, so the overall standards have shifted.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:00 PM
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Why do you match with people who are unattractive? You can just have no matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:58 PM
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Yes, that's women pushing back against the 19-21 BMI thing by asking "are you 19-21 BMI" don't know what they are talking about. A man with a healthy amount of muscle will have a fat-free mass index of like 21 minimum. So even if he's a lean 12% bodyfat, that puts his BMI at 24. Whereas for women, a FFMI of 21 is pretty elite. Most women with a BMI of 24/25, unless they are serious strength trainers, will be pushing 30+% BF which is starting to be too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:54 PM
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Storing fat in the abdominal region is a male trait. Women do have higher body fat than men, but it's a difference of like 7%, nothing crazy, and it tends to store more in the legs, arms, chest. Abdominal fat is the bad kind, on men and women. That's why "waist to height" or "waist to hip" ratio is often used as a health marker. Big waist is not good.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:52 PM
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That's government nonsense. Many people, especially women, who are sedentary have excess body fat at a 24 BMI.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:36 PM
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No, healthy BMI is 19-21.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 05:53 PM
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BMI is different for men vs women due to muscle mass. A healthy man has a FFMI over 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 05:47 PM
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"Normal" is nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:46 AM
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I’m an actual researcher Which agency do you work for? DHS? Shame on you for serving a regime that supports a genocide in Palestine.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 05:35 AM
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Unless you lift weights, 19-21 BMI is "healthy" for women. If you squat 2 plates, it's different.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 05:01 AM
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You are very privileged if you live in NYC. Many of us are not shooting fish in a barrel like you are. Travel out to an "average" American city and see how bad it is. Then travel out to Small Town USA....
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:47 AM
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Most ({REDACTED by mods}) women with a healthy (19-21 BMI) weight are attractive though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:41 AM
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A healthy (19-21 BMI) woman is the only unrealistic part of his "bar" because 90% of women in the US are unhealthy. There's plenty of "trad", psycho holy roller women in the US like he wants. They are all just chubby (23-25 BMI) or most common swamp beasts (25+ BMI).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:37 AM
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Then he's delusional. Merely finding a healthy (19-21 BMI) woman in the United $nakes of AmeriKKKa is impossible unless you are Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:33 AM
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Women will have an orgasm and feel good in the moment, and then if it doesn't work out "he ain't shit".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:32 AM
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Are you healthy?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:31 AM
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No, they just need to be healthy (19-21 BMI). Everything else is secondary. That's why men are increasingly getting passports and finding women overseas.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:18 AM
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OP is vastly exaggerating the bar. It's literally just being healthy (19-21 BMI). That's how bad it is in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:17 AM
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The bar is just being healthy (19-21 BMI). That's how bad it is. Healthy (19-21 BMI) women are so rare that there's really no other standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:16 AM
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I think a lot of people don't have perfect recall of sexual situations. How they felt in the moment is different from how they might feel months or years later if they feel slighted by that person for unrelated reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:15 AM
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Data is not possible in situations like this. People aren't answering honestly about sexual encounters to researchers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:04 AM
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Having sex with someone casually doesn't mean that you're being "used". Even if it's a one-time thing. Sex is fun, and plenty of men do actually care about making sure their partner is having a good time even in a casual situation. People enjoy flings. Same advice I tell men who are virgins "late": just don't bring it up. If you're vibing with someone, they're just gonna assume you've done it before. It's more about finding someone who makes you feel comfortable and just letting things happen. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 02:36 AM
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I would agree. If a woman is a virgin past her early 20s, I would assume she has a very low libido or baggage from religious upbringing or mental issues. It also means that she's more likely to have unrealistic ideas about sex and relationships and expect to wait super long to have sex. I only date white and Asian women, so I don't think race is a factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 02:30 AM
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I agree that male mental health issues aren't taken seriously. There are far too many addicts, abusers, and crazy men who only get locked up when they get caught doing a crime. And even then, there's an army of women with excess empathy who get swindled by these men and spend hundreds of hours trying to get them back into society to hurt more people. "Loneliness" is a fake issue. Any man who is not alone by choice, has blown so many chances that it's a non issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 08:55 PM
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You don't have a point. The feminists were correct. Men's "loneliness" is fake. Men who are alone choose to be out of preference or their own actions that alienate them from others. The media largely invented this because there's panic over men who choose to be alone not being subject to social programming via shaming tactics. Then the discourse got ate up by men who are mentally ill, abusive, or just plain bad people to whine about how they are "so alone", even though they've used up all their …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 08:32 PM
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Because the "male loneliness epidemic" is not real. It's just whiners.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 08:16 PM
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It works on women, that's why they think it works on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 08:15 PM
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No, if there's competitors in orbit, he's going to drop her. Part of the "fantasy" is that you have to pretend that he's the only you're talking to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 08:14 PM
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Some women do like being worked over, until the facade drops. That's why "love bombing" exists. It works on some people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 08:13 PM
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Depression, schizoid personality disorder, anxiety
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 08:11 PM
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Asexuality is often caused by other comorbid disorders. It is definitely "off" even if it doesn't meat the definition since it doesn't by itself impair a functioning life. The species as a whole is not a greater concern than people you know. I am not an egalitarian, at all. Attempts to improve "humanity as a whole" often resort on too few resources being given to those who can most effectively use them to achieve higher ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 08:04 PM
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Women participate in a lot of lolcow discourse. It is just gossip at the end of the day, of course a lot of women are gonna get into that. The New Zealand Ranch is like 50% women easily, they have whole boards for beauty influencers and shit
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:54 PM
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Because a desire to reproduce is a natural part of being human. Not wanting to do that is "off" in some way. Who gives a fuck about "humanity" as a whole?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:49 PM
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Why would a guy want to compete? Girls are like the bus, miss one, next 15 one coming.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:40 PM
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Actively not wanting children is pretty messed up, yes. Some people just don't have children because it doesn't work out, but choosing to not have kids is a rejection of normal humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:39 PM
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They're mentally ill imo. Huge red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 02:03 PM
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That's just nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 01:58 PM
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No, they don't. Other men are also competition or "NPCs"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 01:38 PM
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"Men have lots of safe spaces. I know, I mined them for data to get classified as hate speech"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 01:30 PM
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We know what you're doing when you do this really simple "manipulation".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 01:24 PM
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Yes, these are all (except for the last paragraph) examples of things women do to signal interest
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 01:24 PM
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This post is just "how women send signals" or "Girl Game 101". All the artists here who struggle should take notes. The only part I disagree with is the "checking out another guy". This is something that women think works because it inspires jealousy/forces him to act. Really it does the exact opposite, most guys will just give up. Otherwise, 9/10, good summary.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 01:23 PM
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I agree that men are more willing to mindlessly follow the direction of sociopathic politicians who declare war for selfish reasons. That's not broadly true. In World War 1 they would hand out "white feathers" to men to label them as cowards.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 01:18 PM
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Team sports and fraternities are alienating, not bonding, if you don't really like the other people or don't enjoy the activity itself. Nothing against them, just don't enjoy that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 01:17 PM
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Bringing politics and questionable practices (a lot of recycling goes straight to the dump, and the energy to recycle contributes to climate change) is not the point here. Nobody's policies "help everybody".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 01:14 PM
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Men talk about men this way as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 01:05 PM
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Nobody wants to be a cuck raising another man's kid. If you already have kids of your own, it's a bit different.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:02 PM
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TBF women who date men without kids also complain about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:02 PM
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Most women prefer men who are naturally tall and masculine looking vs a 5'8" gymcel.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 05:32 AM
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Facts, but location matters a lot. Even if you're attractive to women, if you live in a place where there's no "dating" culture, you're gonna struggle
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 05:30 AM
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If you live in a big city and actively go out or have a social circle, you're meeting women anywhere from 21/22 up to early 40s. People don't know your exact age IRL, you're just in the same spaces, especially if you take care of yourself. 28 is not too old for women in their early 20s who are post-college if you meet them IRL (or even on apps tbh, lots of 22/23 year old women will date a 28 year old guy). I have a friend who was 35 when he started dating his 21 year old gf, and they met as cowo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:31 AM
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Nowadays, there's a lot of vaguely "femcel" women who go to South Korea to find a kpop husbando.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 03:57 AM
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Feminism and socialism have always been intertwined.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 03:56 AM
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I'm talking about men. Women can find someone anywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 03:54 AM
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“I would like to chat more with you, are you comfortable giving me your phone number?” Ick
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:24 PM
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27 BMI, 18ish% BF
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:14 PM
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Depends where you live. I swiped through the entire Tinder stack in 2 days (no premium, that's just how few profiles there were and how few I swiped right on)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:04 PM
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Women like to "neg" men, news at 11.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:03 PM
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This body type is very attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:01 PM
1

Why is The Red Pill crowd generally right-wing? You would think they would sympathize with their Muslim and Latino brothers who are more likely to have a macho mentality. Many Red Pillers are Muslim or Latino, and also right wing. Minority does not mean Left Wing - polls show Latino men are roughly 50/50 in the upcoming Presidential race.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:59 PM
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Because it's vague and there's no way to counter it other than saying "so what"? And many people lack the strength to say "so what"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 12:11 AM
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It's fine. Like not ideal, but some women think that level of bluntness is charming.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:03 PM
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Passport "Brothers" are usually Brothers, ya feel me? Many of them are self-hating because they hate their "single mother" and women in their "community" are the most likely to be obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:00 PM
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There's a difference between "quirky spergy" and "scaring the hoes". Anecdote: My good friend "B" is a total party animal, extrovert guy who's also very loyal and open, so he friends with a lot of people who could be described as "odd" being generous. One time we were at a party, and his friend "D" that he knew from high school showed up. "D" and I were outside smoking with a group of girls, just casually chatting. D started aggressively hitting on one of the girls who was clearly with her girlf…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:55 PM
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My guess is that his friends were either player fuckboy types, or raging misogynistic stereotypes who can't go 5 minutes without ranting about "the state of Western women and their hypergamy", not shy quiet nerds. If he meant normal shy nerdy guys, then he's not really their friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:48 PM
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Not if you live in a decent size city and you have some sort of interest that puts you in mixed gender social situations. A fact that a lot of people here won't admit or don't understand is that suburbs and small towns are not places for young adults who aren't either from, or religious or married and can form social bonds that way. It's just so much easier to meet friends when there's a lot of people in a similar "situation" to you in close proximity (i.e. similar age, hobbies, relationship sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:45 PM
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It doesn't take 6-12 months to build up a social circle. You can have a solid set of acquaintances in like 2 months if you're trying and not in a really anti-social area. And you don't even really need good friends to benefit from "social proof". Simply being recognized as a regular by bartenders, door guys, other regulars in "the scene" gives you that sort of social proof. Because those people know other people, and you knowing them makes you part of the "network" if that makes sense. You go to…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:35 PM
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I think that applies to anyone who you see regularly. It didn't even really hit me how much my parents have aged until I moved away and only saw them 2 times a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:09 PM
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People don't always "look their age" either. I dated a woman who was 40 in my late 20s, and I honestly thought she was like 30 when we met. She showed me some pics from a couple years before we met, and she looked like she was 25 in her late 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:07 PM
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Nah it's because a lot of passport bros have a very skewed idea of what "foreign" women are like. They clearly haven't met any men from a past generation who had a "mail order bride". When I worked a retail job when I was younger, I had a supervisor who was married to a Filipina woman he met online. She was "traditional" in some ways like cooking a lot, but she also proudly worked, definitely was not "submissive" in the doormat sense, brought "resources" to the table (her family had some farmlan…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:05 PM
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"Passport bro" doesn't just mean "guy who travels and meets women". It's largely come out of TikTok and YouTube in past few years, by people who think that "having a passport" and "travelling abroad" are like hidden wisdom cheat code. Notice how almost all of them only go to few countries like Colombia, Thailand, may Dominican Republic. There's always been guys who traveled and had sex (Roosh made his whole brand off it), but they usually had far more diverse destinations in mind, all over Europ…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 09:59 PM
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27-30ish really is the sweet spot for a lot of guys. Established enough in life to probably have your own place, or only 1 roommate, and able to spend money on dating.Young enough to date early 20s without having to be super rich/high status, acceptable or ideal to women your own age plus a little old, still considered a "hot young thing" for women in their 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 09:52 PM
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It's a professional art that they practice and refine. It's not the same thing as riffing in a conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 08:16 PM
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Standup is not the same as conversation A person was either funny or they weren’t. How funny you find something is colored by how much you like them. A stronger reaction is approval seeking behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 08:14 PM
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Yes, he is fairly good looking. And a professional stand up routine is different from giving with someone 1-on-1 or in a group. How attractive you are is a huge factor in how funny/charismatic you come across. The same level of humor with a woman who thinks you're hot is very different from one who is not into you. Have you never experienced this going on a date with different women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 08:07 PM
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The hotter you are, the funnier you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 08:02 PM
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You're from a country where having a healthy BMI standard is still considered more "normal"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 08:01 PM
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Every woman can get a man if she chooses. So a woman who "can't get a man" is simply choosing to be single. A man who can't get women has something wrong with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:57 PM
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Did you miss the "bullying" part? People were incredibly cruel towards anyone who was "different" before the Internet
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:11 AM
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I'm not a kissless virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:10 AM
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There was a time where I would skip breakfast, drink 8-10 cups of coffee a day, and only have like a sandwich for lunch. I was absolutely mental by the time I drove home.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 02:01 AM
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It was way worse and social media has been a net positive for opening up peoples' horizons (socially, knowledge wise, career wise, etc. It shows people worlds they never thought were possible). The people today who talk about how they are lonely would have totally isolated, and probably bullied relentlessly, if they were around 25 or 30 years ago. Also, if you were an awkward nerdy person, you were basically screwed in terms of learning social skills unless you were lucky enough to have some ver…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 01:59 AM
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I wish I was a millionaire singer that women throw themselves at
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 01:56 AM
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Has that been proven in court or is it hearsay?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:16 PM
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I recommend the 1995 film "Kids" to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:44 PM
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Rihanna was in a relationship with one of the most famous pop stars of her generation. And she threw it all away because she was not feminine and agreeable. Now she's post wall and has to resort to a sugar baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:41 PM
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Yes but how do you know you're not going to orgasm during sex with another person. I mean that's just self fulfilling prophecy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:27 PM
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How would you even know if you're going to orgasm if you've never had sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:04 PM
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Brother, please study the immortal science.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:01 PM
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"The Origin of the Family, Private Property and the State", Engels, F., 1884. Edit: "Capital, Vol 1" Marx, 1867, was supposed to be in the original post.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:03 AM
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Brother you need to hit the books, study science.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 03:06 AM
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Men are also seen as "less than" if they don't have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 02:53 AM
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If you've ever actually lived in a multigenerational environment, you realize how stifling that is. This is literally the "longhouse" people talk about.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 02:52 AM
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My grandma came to live with us for like 2-3 weeks when me and my brother were born. I'm 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 02:49 AM
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older kids would look after younger kids to make sure nothing too crazy happened. Lots of crazy things happened, often the older kids inflicting trauma on the younger kids. Be real now. The shit kids got into even 30 or 40 years ago would be shocking to modern sensibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 02:47 AM
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Lmao do moms never go from focus on studies to where are my grand babies???!? Lol, my mom went from "I'll kill you if you get a girl pregnant" to "when are you gonna bring a girl home so I can have grandbabies" in like 6 months when I turned 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 02:41 AM
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In the past 17 women procreated for every 1 man, per some research conducted. That's because men would die in wars or castrated as slaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:58 AM
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No. TikTok is only being banned because the US threw a tantrum over a Chinese app being more popular than US social media. The "negative influence" and "security" concerns are all hogwash. They are big mad that a foreign company could beat US tech companies at their own game. Match group is a US company, so they won't be banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:57 AM
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Bro doesn't even know how base influences superstructure smdh. Are they teaching science in colleges anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:51 AM
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No it's not. People were messed up before Capitalism. You think people had excellent childhoods and egalitarian gender roles in the Feudal era?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:50 AM
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DEI is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:08 AM
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Do you like women? I mean yes, a lot of them are fat in the US, but even some of the bigger girls still have pretty faces.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:06 AM
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Project 2025 is written by a bunch of freaks who supported DeSantis.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:01 AM
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I highly doubt that given the gender ratio in California being terrible for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:01 AM
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Tattoos are hot though
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:44 PM
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All these guys look like liberals though
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:43 PM
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What is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:35 PM
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Most women absolutely care. You lose, you're a loser and she's gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:57 PM
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Trump has denounced Project 2025 repeatedly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:56 PM
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She would be though
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:55 PM
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Not the same
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:53 PM
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