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Appendix 1 only works if you have an abundance of suitors. If you date a woman who has that, its more likely she will choose one that will. If you are a man who has a loy of suitors, the same applies. And its much more likely a woman has more suitors. So, no, i wouldnt say its entitlement. Because you can decide which factors you choose by. Even if its something completely insane, its your freedom to do so. Expecting a woman to put out fast is also a filter for you. Might be a bit more frowned u…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 09:22 AM
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So everything you dream is just to hurt women. Not to help men do better? You see that, right? Very obsessive
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 08:44 PM
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I disagree. A lot of womens issues in dating come from men only wanting to use them for sex. A man who only wants sex gets a robot. Dating is easier for the men who want an actual emotional connection and women can be more at ease. I say all men who want it, should be given one for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 08:41 PM
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Just read OPs comments on this thread bro 😀
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 08:36 PM
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How does it change anything if men who only want to use womens bodies for sex are off the market? The men who are in it for real have an easier time. I dont think women are gonna suffer though. Women suffer because men want to use them for sex. So i see this sex-robot thing as an absolute win.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 08:32 PM
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Yeah. People keep talking about this male "provider" thing on the internet only. IRL the couples usually work together to make ends meet
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 12:53 PM
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Yes. Children deserve love and care. However not everyone who is capable of having a cild, is fit to be a parent. Forcing those people to take care of the child will eventually cause a lot of pain for the child. Although they should financially support the child. If they can. Just a thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:06 PM
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Yes, they are bombarded with offers for sex, without love. But women are usually not looking for sex for the sake of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 08:18 AM
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I don't think its so much that men became undesireablenall of a sudden. I think its mostly the fact that now all likeminded people are connected. But there is the case with social media and porn consumption. I believe the idea of "average" has been skewed very strongly and on both sides. Remember the posts "margot robbie is mid"? I believe it was easier to find a partner when both sides idea of "beautiful" was not photoshopped instagram models/porn stars. Average people simply seem ugly now. Wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 05:39 PM
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Not only by women. They are also an easy target for predatory men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:12 PM
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Misandry is not personal experiences and ignorance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:11 PM
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I never said its a good thing. This causes a multitude of problems. But chaining women again would be unacceptable as well. So what can we do?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 01:17 PM
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And neither would you, if men or women wouldnt exist. But your logic fails. If men are the protectors and do "protect" me, id have nothing to worry about. If men arent there to protect me, ill have no threat to worry about. That was what i was pointing out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 08:18 PM
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Not even going to comment on the first part. Women pay their way now. So if men didnt exist...the threat wouldnt exist... Your argument is literally "you need men to protect you from men".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 08:16 AM
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So you want women to be chained to men? What if the women refuse and instead of having children, get a degree and a career (whats been happening) Also thw safety net provided barely keeps a single mother in relative poverty. The real safety net is always the parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 07:57 PM
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How is this incest when 50% of men have children with 100% of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 08:18 PM
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More so that 50% of men are falling out. Men who lack emotional security might do well with women who want physical security and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 08:17 PM
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This, of course, doesnt mean I dont have physical preferences. Everything matters when looking for a life partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:59 PM
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Well im not sure, havent studied it. But im guessing a woman is looking for something the woman lacked when growing up. Either emotional security, physical security, financial security and so on. Im pretty sure its mostly some sort of security ingrained in the brain. Personally, my parents were emotionally distant so im very much the emotional security ans trust type of vibe. That is when we are talking about long-term relationships. Hooking up just requires the physical looks i guess. But from …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:53 PM
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Different things but point to the same thing - natural selection
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:49 PM
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It's just natural selection. Women have been built to make sure the strongest genes get to reproduce. It's the same everywhere in the animal kingdom. If most women liked most men, there would be no selection. We all have twice as many female ancestors because for a long time 50% of men never reproduced. And those men that did reproduce, produced a lot of children with multiple women. So i suppose, by nature, its not 20/80, its 50/50. I wish every person could find their perfect match every time …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:29 PM
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We have a deal with my sistet that if either one goes on date, they send the first and last name of the person theyre with and whete theyre going. We usually check if the person has some presence in social media, to be sure thats his real name.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:22 PM
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You can easily google this one. Its common knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:18 PM
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I dont. I find it unfortunate that men were raised for a society much different than this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 07:07 AM
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This is not the point of this post though. Most women dont have casual sex. The point is that men see it as a priviledge for a woman that most men want to have sex with you. But its really not a priviledge for most women. It would be a priviledge for a man though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 08:47 AM
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You think 50% of men were simply weaker than women? There was always some sort of a societal structure and women had a father as well. Rape is much more probable when there is anonymity i.e. big cities. And during wars. In a small village everyone knows everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 06:24 AM
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Seems like "all or nothing" mentality. There is a lot in between strangers and having sex but for some reason its too much work for many people. I blame porn with their "your pizza is here" ->"sex" narratives. Thank god thats not how the world works 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 09:20 PM
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You make it seem like men have same rules for all women. They dont. They have "bedroom only" and "relationship material. Why would women be any different?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 07:11 PM
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But lets be realistic. There will always be someone prettier and sexier than you. Feeling like she has to want you "more than any other man" is actually all down to emotional connection, not sexual chemistry. When you love someone, you will pick them even if there are more handsome men/prettier women around. But for some reason the emphasis is on "she didnt have sex with me as fast". Yeah, there are sexier men around.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 07:08 PM
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I agree. I think what has happened after women not being chained by the ankle is natural selection as it was before. We all have twice the number of female ancestors. Which means abour 50% of men never reproduced
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 07:03 PM
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Keyboard toucher 😃. Mind if i steal it and use it as my profession?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 07:59 PM
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I believe its the opposite. Women below 25 are naive and believe in "true love". Men dont want to settle so young. Then men get older and want to settle down (i still see some 35yo men in tinder with 'not sure yet' when describing what they are looking for so not all of them), women get more demanding and paranoid about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 08:04 PM
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Yeah. Women can get casual sex more easily cause men are looking for it more than women and are more thirsty, "punching down" or whatever its called. I personally dont know any women who do casual sex. I know men who are actively looking for it. And im sure the tinder man to woman ratio speaks for itself. Yes. Its a choice for me because its a biological difference. Im not sure, am i supposed to feel bad men cant get sex without commitment? I value deeper connections between people so its kinda …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 05:47 PM
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The market is different in terms of which women you can get casual sex from. Men have to aim lower and find a woman who is looking for the same thing. Some women dont look for casual sex period. And even if theyve had casual sex in the past and figured out it simply doesnt work for them, thats still valid. Women are also human and learn from experiences About your preferenc, to each their own. Everyones experiences a d wants are different. No. If she had sex on the first date with him, agreeing …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 05:39 PM
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You can want both, ofcourse. But you need to understand that the market for these two are very different. Since men accept lower than their league for casual sex, women can sleep higher. And since emotional connection is not included, it seems so much easier to me and i wish i was okay with casual sex. When a woman doesnt jump you straight away, means she isnt looking for casual sex and so she has to analyze all other aspects of you as well. And thats grueling work. Taxes on high incomes are far…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 02:00 PM
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You are assigning wants of a lambo to a toyota. If you value only casual sex then, yes, being a toyota sucks. Average person has to work 100 times harder to get what a rich person would get. And the person still wouldnt get what the millionaire gets. Life is unfair by design. Being jelaous for how some men look is just not a good way to approach life. The idea that if someone offers someone else casual sex then you should also get it is delusional. Influencers get free stuff every day, does this…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:40 AM
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You either are a sedan or you are a lamborghini. It doesnt matte what you feel like you are. Women and men tend to get delusional in that sense. Youre a Toyota then play on your strengths. Don't try to be someone youre not Personally, i dont like casual sex. So the idea of being a lamborghini doesnt matter to me. If easy sex is all you want then,yes, being a Toyota sucks. If you want to be a family car then being a Toyota is great.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 07:39 AM
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Ah i just answered this in a side note actually. I will copy it here, hope thats okay. "A side note : Looks matter less when looking for a life partner and more when youre looking for a ONS or FWB. We love car analogies so heres one. When choosing a car for life you care more about the cost of upkeep, milage, safety and how much fuel it takes. When going for a joyride you really mostly care about looks and then perhaps safety." I dont see why the more reliable car should be offended. Ofcourse th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 07:35 AM
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A side note : Looks matter less when looking for a life partner and more when youre looking for a ONS or FWB. We love car analogies so heres one. When choosing a car for life you care more about the cost of upkeep, milage, safety and how much fuel it takes. When going for a joyride you really mostly care about looks and then perhaps safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 07:28 AM
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Looks and height matter less when youre looking for a life-partner. They still matter, sure, since everything matter when you are choosing a partner for life and want to have a healthy sex life. But not as much as your mental and physical safety. At least for me. Women differ, ofcourse. And some are just dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 07:20 AM
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I agree, it is difficult to compare these issues. Oh im sorry if i came off like i that. My opinion is that, yes men have it more difficult to find matches. Its like starving vs having 100 cakes and 10 of them are poisoned and 40 of them want to use your body and leave (made up numbers for example, i dont know the real statistics). Its hard to compare. Especially if men are bigger and stronger. But the poison still applies when the starving man gets a cake. Its just less lethal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 07:17 AM
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Yeah, there is a weight difference. When you dont have a job, its much shittier than having many job-options and not knowing which ones of them will condemn you into slavery or perhaps kill you. Its the burden of anxiety and risk compared to poverty A very poor comparison, i know. Just seemed like a close-enough of a metaphor.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 07:11 AM
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Im not sure about the culture you live in but here, in europe, its generally 50/50. Women work and ive never had a man who earns more than me. So perhaps this is an argument in your culture but it doesnt apply for Europe for sure. I also feel like the "gold digger" idea is overrated even for USA. Ofcourse there are women who expect these things from a man, especially if they are models, i imagine (given its not a cultural normality where you live). Im sure average women are absolutely cool with …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 07:05 AM
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The physical argument actually works well even with your example. Women are more self-preservation focused. Thats why getting multiple matches just doesnt have the same taste to it that if a man did it. Also i think men being more risk-oriented doesnt have much to do with my claim. Im sorry youve ran into such people, its a shame. Sadly there are shitty people on both sides. The difference is that if a woman chooses wrong, she might die. Men are stronger and bigger. This means women have to do t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 06:57 AM
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I've personally never seen anyone claim women dont have it easier in dating. They also have it much more dangerous though. Its not like its all flowers and rainbows like men here seem to think. Yes, more attention. More matches. Most of them just want to use your body and they will go to great lenghts to hide it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 09:36 PM
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Yeah, she most like came off as a feminent man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 09:32 PM
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Its simple, why would i rely my future and safety on someone else if i had the choice to give myself the security. Men can walk off whenever they feel like it. My career and experience wont.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 07:22 AM
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Its kinda simple. Dont sleep with anyone without commitment... Also , if there are 50 women and 150 men in the dating app then the "average" is skewed. In fact every single persons "average" is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:55 PM
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Yeah. It is hard to get casual sex Cause few women want it and alot of men do want it. Simple marketplace. If you want women to have more casual sex, maybe stop shaming them for it, for starters?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:49 PM
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I agree. Being a player means there are commitment issues, which are pretty much insecurities. But then again, this doesnt mean average men dont have same commitment issues. If a handsome man is insecure can you imagine someone less handsome? Id say its more probable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 05:33 AM
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A player, sure, someone with options. But abuse is more likely done by a man that is insecure in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 06:53 PM
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Owerwhelmingly would mean that 70-100% of women are currently in abusive/cheater relationships. Which means that there are A LOT of male abusers and cheaters. Even if your stastistic were true (which they arent cause they are absurd) it would make more sense to question why men are so abusive. TLDR : source?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 06:51 PM
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The divorce law is actually fair. At least where I live. It is certainly not "the man will give away half his assets." No, anything accumulated during the marriage counts as both persons' property, since marriage makes you a one economic unit. This means anything the woman accuires is also going to be split. Another thing about marriage is that it is not even popular anymore. None of my friends are married. Im 30. 2.100% agree. Infidelity should be a crime. Do you really think men who get many w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 06:39 AM
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You call it womens standards. The reality is that those men were raised for a society that doesnt exist anymore. Yes, partly, because most women now do what men do. So the old gender roles have been dismanteled. It is unfortunate. But the solution isnt to bind women by the ankles again and make them back into "babymaker machines". Its to teach men how to be a loving parter. To offer something other than "provide and protect". But i believe it is a "growing pain" so to speak. Society will adapt a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 09:33 PM
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Its not necessarily a "safe" option. Its the actual option to have a long-term relationship, if they want one. If men want casual sex, they usuamly have to aim lower, so women can aim higher for casual sex. Its a market thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:25 PM
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Pretending to be someone else will not help either if youre ugly. Given someone can look past your looks, when u pretended to be someone else, they will eventually leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 10:19 AM
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Again " I followed the advice, where is my success". Success is nevet guaranteed and each person should do introspection to why it isnt working. Saying "the advice was useless" is just an excuse to not have to work on yourself and to place the blame somewhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 09:01 PM
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"Be yourself" is actually a great advice, given you are looking gor a LTR. You mumight be more attractive short term by lying but in the long term it will cause you pain. Ofcourse there are men who wont get a date whatever they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 08:58 PM
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But most people date exactly like this and this works. This doesnt mean you never get rejected. Rejection is a given when dating and you should be able to handle it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 11:59 AM
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And there are a lot more than that, for who date exactly like this and this works for. If this isnt working for you, figure out why that is, instead of saying this advice is useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 11:58 AM
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I would say this advice would work on most peop, given consistency.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 09:24 PM
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Yeah, attitude is also very important.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 09:22 PM
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Erotica and porn are sadly very male-centered. Most porn is made by men and for men. And porn and erotica arent real life. Also, shocker, men are more thirsty.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 09:20 PM
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Im a woman and im attracted to awkward men. Especially autistic-awkward. I cant stand the talkative/overly confident types. We do exist. Probably as rare as men who like overweight women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:55 PM
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So you expect advice to give you a 100% success rate?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:48 PM
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We, evolutionally speaking, before monogamy, 50% of men never had children. We have twice as much female ancestors than we have male ancestors. Thats how evolution works. Most likely isnt this dire now but its a high probability at least 10% of men will never find a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:45 PM
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Just because some advice doesnt work for you, doesnt mean its useless. Maybe if you cower in the corner while on a singles event, the problem isnt the advice youre being given but rather your social skills? Ofcourse none of the cliche advice doesnt work if you lack basic social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:42 PM
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Exactly. In contrast: food is an actual necessity for survival. And most people still have to figure out how to get it themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 09:00 PM
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No. This is the sub where you blame women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:52 PM
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Define satisfied 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 09:40 PM
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This one is not meaningless. Its quite clear that sacrificing your own well being is ultimately bad for everyone involved. Expecting women to put everyone before themselves sounds narcissistic to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:12 PM
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Narcissists will take refuge anywhere. Doesnt cancel any good idea though, since most people arent narcissists. Otherwise this could be used under most posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 07:43 PM
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That wasn't what OP meant in this case.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 11:07 AM
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The way you read "i dont care how it affects others" out of that post is funny. Making yourself a priority doesnt mean you arent accountable for how you treat others. It means you fill your cup first so you dont have to fill others' from an empty cup.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 09:31 PM
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They aren't. Just the top 10% of women which perhaps are the ones you think you should have.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 07:29 PM
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This. I would love to be a dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:00 PM
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I am not qualified to answer that question sadly. I have no idea and could never.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 08:35 PM
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Sex work isnt easy work, especially if we are talking about porn. Being a cashier is much easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 06:18 PM
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I dont see a reason to why I should. In addition to the damage to my career, finances, body and general freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:06 PM
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They want women to want to have children but dont want women to have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:04 PM
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There are worse existences than being lonely as a man. How about being blind and deaf? How about starving in a warzone? Men are so dramatic and self-centered.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:47 AM
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There is no such thing as “their equal” when men and women are completely different. Your idea of “equal” is subjective to you. Lots of single lonely guys believe they deserve young skinny virgins. Believing it doesnt make it so. And even if it is so. If women choose to rather be alone than date someone who they dont find attractive, I think its much better than when men date someone who they dont find attractive and fake a relationship. This would make for a horrible relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 02:30 PM
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“And those women who choose to be alone, holding out for a much more desirable man than she deserves are fundamentally forcing their equal man to be alone with no option” And how do you know what she deserves and what man is her equal? This paragraph is very telling of your attitude towards women. Maybe not all men “deserve” to be in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 05:37 AM
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Thats the incel theology, yes, that women only want the perfect man and only accept that. But in reality, about half men are in a relationship. Are you really claiming those men are the the absolute perfection in their spouses eyes? Ofcourse everyone wants the best they can get when looking for a life partner. In all aspects. How is it womens fault in this case? And by no means do women all like the same things. Women literally refuse to show pictures of their boyfriends because nobody else find…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 11:26 AM
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No. There are women who feel unlovable. The difference is that men will still fake emotions and use them. Right now you are just seeing that men are more desprate to get sex and thus are willing to settle lower. Women are more content with not having sex or a romantic relationship. Thats about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 07:31 AM
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There certainly are women who are excludef from dating. Being used for sex is not dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 06:21 AM
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False. You are generalizing. I only require the man himself. Most people do. I dont need his salary, i have my own. Havent had a bf who outearns me. What else? Everything else is mind And body. Its the social media that says women have to want a 6figure salary and so on. I could also generalize and say all men want skinny women who have large boobs and ass and a pretty face and thats all that matters. In reality, people date average people and are happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:26 PM
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Yeah and women want to date men but cant be fat or be old or be too skinny or be too loud or too independent… You act like men dont expect anything out of women. Women have as high or even higher expectations set on them. Given they are also expected to have children and be mothers, which in itself sets an expectation on them. The idea that most men want nothing but love is ridiculous. There is no such thing as unconditional love. And in a relationship both sides benefit in one way or another. O…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 07:47 PM
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Perhaps you see it as a more one-sided deal then and im not sure why. Women also get to date men they like. You get nothing from giving family your money.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:03 AM
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But its not said to those women. It is said to women who say “you arent entitled to sex”. So they already dont want sex, so the relationship argument kinda falls flat.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:56 PM
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False. You are in a relationship and THEN you have sex. By my logic at least. Trying to bribe someone into a relationship that doesnt want one, never works. Doesnt mean there arent delusional women out there that think it does. There are delusional women around and also delusional men who believe that just because they have a job, they should get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 11:39 AM
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The key difference with relationships and sex being - both should want it and benefit from that. Money isnt a good analogue tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 11:36 AM
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Its not mistreatment when men are actually statistically 96% more violent. Its like “you dont like my mistreatment and are being defensive? im gonna start being a dick to u”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:50 AM
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So your whole argument is “but they said it about us ?”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:03 PM
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And I carried it all with my current bf because he is autistic. It really isnt expected you do all of it. If a woman expects you to carry it all, its not the right woman for you. This is what feminisim promotes, for women to be more active and leading. But somehow feminism is also demonized. Women also face humiliation and critizism and rejection. Ofcourse after men get what they want from them. Right now you are ,again, just finding excuses. You are responsible for finding help, when you have b…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 11:20 AM
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How is it different, really? Sure, when you think of “male gender role” in a toxic masculinity lense. Otherwise we’re all humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 01:44 PM
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Its your job to fix yourself though. Right now you are using it as an excuse. What happened to you, wasnt your fault. How you heal yourself, is your responsibility. If men refuse to get help and deal with their issues, nobody can help them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 07:14 PM
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Every relationship is transactional in both ends in some way or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 08:23 AM
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If you pick the right partners, it might work. Also the pressure to provide sex would fall off and women wouldnt have to be scared to say “no”.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:16 AM
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Yeah. Just by my current genetics. Ofcourse if im short and bald I would have it more difficult. Just as single mothers or overweight people have it harder. I could provide for the family. I want it that way because I Love my job and couldnt imagine being a housewife. In addition, it is a huge risk to sacrifice your best working years for someone. This would mean a very strong legal agreement that doesnt leave the other party in the relationship in poverty in case of a divorce. I could never tru…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:14 AM
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Then we could still steer for monogamy. Its just hard to raise children with two parents and both working. Also , the incentive to work is to eat.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 08:32 PM
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I think it would be easier. Well I feel like I would be above average man, even If you count out face. Height, money, good talker. I mean, yes im doing fine. But for building a family in the future I would want me to work and him to not work, so one person would take care of the house. Also I love my job.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 08:30 PM
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Well then its a win-win isnt it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 08:25 PM
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Exactly. The emphasis here is so strongly on sex, people forget what having a life partner is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 08:24 PM
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They could also have other husbands/boyfriends. As long as the communication is honest. I think society has pushed the monogamous agenda so long, it just feels more natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 08:23 PM
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No. You can be a judgmental person, if you so wish. Currently, for most women, when a man sees them as a product to be used, they automatically disqualify him. Women just have more choices, it wont hurt the women, it will just hurt the mans chances. Empathy and emotional intelligence can get you quite far.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:51 PM
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This kind of societies didnt see women as human. More as property. It was still patriarchy. In addition the man had to be able to feed all of his women, women didnt work. This is just not possible under capitalism. But poly in matriarchy might be more sustainable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:48 PM
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I think there would be more children in polyamorous relationships. Less productivity for capitalism, yes, but perhaps not a free falling birthrate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:46 PM
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Perhaps. I think the family would have many women and men, would be much more simple to raise children. Ofcourse there would still be monogamy, because its not for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:45 PM
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Its entitlement, yeah. “Chad gets but I dont”. Many women are prettier than me and get free flights to warm places. I dont feel entitled to that because I know im not a model.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:43 PM
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I dont think it would be difficult for me to have a girl like me. Thats the thing. Bi women hit on me, so I think id be fine. I work from and do housework by myself as well. I dont currently live with my bf. Just in futures sake id like to work and have my house taken care of.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:42 PM
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The younger generation doesnt. Gen z is very woke.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:40 PM
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It was either a mistake or she just preferred casual relationships for a while and now simply doesnt. Women can have casual sex with men way over their league. Womens priorities and whole life can change and that is fine. If you arent getting the casual sex, you are perhaps looking at your own level or above.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:40 PM
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I have a great sense of humor and I earn well. Quite confident, taller than any of my family. , loyal to a fault. Also I dont like housework so id probably find a stay at home wife. My father isnt bald either. I feel like it would be easier 1. Because I will know from the get go If a woman actually wants a relationship. Men are way more willing to lie about it to get their way. 2. Because women would be more willing to be a SAHM . My bf refuses to be a SAHD 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:55 PM
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Monogamy was made for patriarcical society. It was made so there was enough women for everyone. Otherwise the top 20% had 1-10 wives and men got angry. I think polygamy will become more popular again soon. For men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:46 PM
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Judging from your comments here I see you are looking for a casual relationship with women on your own level. Women can have casual relationships above their league, if they want to. This is why youre failing. Also just because a woman prefferred casual relationships for a period of time, doesnt mean they have to want one now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:42 PM
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No. You should simply look for women with the same intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:38 PM
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Sexual consistency? So women arent allowed to learn from their previous mistakes? They just have to keep making the mistakes because “consistency”.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:36 PM
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Would be a better “comeback” if the other option had any danger to it at all. Ask anyone “would you rather tell your secrets to a tree or a human” and everyone gives the same answer. Its just a rational thing to choose the tree since it involves no threat. Most men wouldnt choose the bear because…theyre men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:23 PM
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Wouldnt have any experience with men like that if I was chronically online bruv.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:54 PM
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Not like women have any experience with men, who quite literally hunt them since theyre 13 but okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 04:42 PM
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None. With a gun to my head - 3. Then I would run.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 04:40 PM
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Perfection
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:34 PM
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When a man shaves his armpits. I know its more hygienic but cant help but see it as feminen.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 07:27 PM
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I need my man with a beard. Also the more hair on the body, the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 07:26 PM
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Because most people are average. And most men are married/in a relationship. Its not like only handsome men get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:56 PM
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The the much larger group of men who are ugly that are in a relationship beg to differ.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:41 PM
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Thats not how attraction works. You can be conventionally unattractive but be smart and charming still. Perhaps men see women as only the exterior. Im not sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:12 PM
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Most women perhaps prefer If a man who earns a bit more. This doesnt mean sed figures. Just more than her. And there are enough of those guys since men earn more than women on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:10 PM
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What? No. It might sound cringe but im attracted to what a person is and how he carries himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 05:49 PM
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Great studies. Doesnt really take into account the fact that men generally earn more and men who are married also earn more than men that arent. But relax. Perhaps im just an outlier then. Even though I know multiple pairs where the woman earns more. And other peoples ideas and views on things are just that. Their view of the world. Not “spouting garbage” or “complete bullshit”. Try to stay civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 05:34 PM
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Plain Jane just wants to be loved. And lets remember, incels called Margot Robbie “mid”. If your idea of average is a movie star looking woman, then yeah, they expect a man to be more. The real truth is there are as many tastes as there are women. Sure there is a conventionally attractive standard to men and women. But what women are looking for is very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 05:31 PM
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Ive been with men who are ugly but great in bed. It must be a sad life when you feel all a man has to offer is money. Youd be surprised how far love, affection and emotional security will get you with women. Perhaps a minority care soley for money. Most still want to be loved and supported.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 05:28 PM
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Yes, but it only matters to women who dont earn enough to feel financially secure. I earn exactly twice as much as my bf does. And it doesnt matter to me. Because I can buy myself a house and a car. The question in this situation for men is “what do i have to offer to the woman if money is out of the question”. If you manage to provide value outside of monetary means, youre fine and dandy. Money is a problem if a woman doesnt earn enough to feel financially secure or you have nothing else to off…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 06:23 AM
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Wow you dug yourself out of a pit. Give yourself credit for it, doing that isnt easy. Im proud of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 09:05 PM
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Yeah. Its not like the 20-something men are begging the women to marry them and they are saying “no Thanks”. It seems this accusation is generated by some 30-something single man who wants a 20-something woman to marry him and are pissed they dont want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 09:01 PM
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Im a woman and the government takes away my money aswell. It actually takes a larger sum every month than the average paycheck is here. Victim mentality much. Government is taking my money because a deadbeat dad wont take care of his child… /s Thats what living in a society is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:54 PM
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And when you leave a man he is “blindsided” even though you told him multiple times to clean up after himself. But for him its just “drama”. He just didnt listen when she communicatd her needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:43 PM
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If you have to clean up after a man like he is a child, the attraction diminishes. Women are attracted to who they think You are, not just the exterior. If the way they see you changes, so does the sex drive
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:41 PM
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Well where im from, men are usually the passive ones and women are the talkative side. Eastern european women will make it known 😀. I suppose the cultures are different all over the world. But even when women would chase. Youd still say “women choose the rules baaa”, its general womens and mens nature. And ofcourse how the society tries to paint the male and female roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 05:06 PM
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Yes they will. Women will absolutely chase men they deem desirable. My autistic bf was borderline avoidant because of his social anxiety and I still got him. It required effort, let me tell you. And regardless of how women choose, who men pursue also stays the same. The only difference is, men are willing to pursue down and also pursue women they have no intent of commiting to. This is what breaks the market. If men would pursue with genuine interest, women would also have to adapt.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:14 AM
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Men also have a choice of who they choose to pursue. The dating experience is what it is because every man alone makes the choices they make. This is how society works. If men choose not to pursue a lot of women, just the ones they would actually marry, the dating experience would change drasticallt. Women wouldnt have that many choices anymore. Also humans dont necessarily choose who they are attracted to. Just like men. It seems women “choose” but they actually like a man or dont. The differen…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:30 AM
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There are, of course exception. But in general you can still see why the average dating experience is how it is, given the nature of humans. I have an autistic bf, you really think he made any moves? No. But thats just an outlying case. What im answering to is “women make the rules”. The reality is that no single woman makes the rules, most of them just adapt to an already existing society. You really cannot singlehandedly change how the society and social norms are built.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 06:54 AM
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Women dont want every other man to chase them agressively from the age of 14, believe me. Mens agressive nature in mating is also the cause of most dancers in dating for women. Its not because women wanted this. Its because humans as a species were developed like this over thousands of years. Blaming it on women is just short-sighted.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 04:36 PM
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This doesnt mean women set the rules. Nature does. Men are more desprate for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 06:55 PM
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The rules are set also by men who make themselves too easily available. It takes two to tango.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 09:44 PM
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I suppose we are trying and now we are trying to take power away from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:23 PM
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But this is Exactly what OP is talking about. Society wouldnt tell women to “toughen up”.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:22 PM
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Yeah I suppose in this case, you dont feel as threatened as some other guy might. But will those other guys report the assult Or will they be ashamed because the other strong men wouldnt?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:21 PM
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I suppose the difference in your study Is that they included prisoners. Where women are isolated with women and men with other agressive men. That is not a representation of the society, is it? Ofcourse the probability of getting raped for men changes to worse in that situation. https://supportingsurvivors.humboldt.edu/statistics#:~:text=An%20estimated%2091%25%20of%20victims,identify%20in%20these%20gender%20boxes. 91% of victims are women. Also 99% of perpetrators were men. https://www.rainn.org…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:13 PM
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The problem is that humans learn from experience. We can all want a fair judgement but as long as the crime culture doesnt change to % of crimes by black peole = %of black people in community, this prejudice wont change. You wont perhaps event know you are thinking or behaving in a protective way but the survival instinct is telling you there is more danger. Same with men. By the age of 20 all women experience Some form of sexual harrassment. As long as that doesnt change, neither wont the women…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 09:31 PM
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So men dont care about their life being easy?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 09:25 PM
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90% of sexual assult victims are women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 09:19 PM
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As I see it. Most women do. Because we know what its like. Sure, if you say it in a context where you are talking about women experiencing sexual assult, saying “but men are sexually assulted as well” thats not the place. By doing so you are minimising the suffering of 98% of sexual assult victims, who are women. Which is most times Ive seen men discuss the issue here. It clearly is a bigger issue for women but this doesnt mean a sexual assult against a man hold less value. Most women Ive talked…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 09:16 PM
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So its rather about men acknowleding the fact that what happened was not okay. And surrounding people supporting that choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 08:38 PM
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The example you brought has noone who suffers from it. But many men have, even here in PPD, come forward as victims of unwanted sexual attention. And it is enforced, if a victim comes forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 07:44 PM
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What about the men like OP who feel like this is unfair towards them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 07:42 PM
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The idea that your standards change after one really attractive bf is weird. My last bf was way above my league. Dated for 1,5 years. My current bf does not look like a model like the last one did. He is slightly overweight and autistic but still within my original standards. He is still 10 times better than my ex, purely because of how compatible we are and how well he handles life. If I had to choose, id rather marry him. Its not all about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 06:56 PM
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Wait I thought all mens problems were womens fault
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 06:47 PM
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So you think, the fact that OP says women are allowed more things, is solely because men are men and women are women and nothing is necessarily wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 06:45 PM
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By law they are actually punishable as sexual assult, if the man reports it as such. And no. Definition of sexual assult isnt defined by feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 06:43 PM
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I see this and I also see that it’s mostly men that dont take this seriously. I had an argument with a man saying that a man couldnt be sexually assulted. Another man had a drunk older woman sit in his lap and touch him during a company event and when I reported it he said it was fine. Its not fine. The attention was not wanted. He didnt write a report. I talked to women about this they said that he was clearly uncomfortable and this behaviour is unacceptable. Men need to start speaking out. Cal…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 01:55 PM
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I wasnt aware we are talking about mental disorders. Ofcourse if you have a disorder, relationships get even more difficult. Well perhaps they arent happy alone. Even being just content is fine as long as youre not unhappy. When you are settling you are being content in a way I guess but you have to do alot of labor for this relationship to work as well. At some point its easier to be content alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 10:21 PM
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People can be happy single. Those who can, prefer to be alone rather than in an unfulfilling relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:26 PM
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Not really, as long as you get what you need and are happy about it. Some men want younger women, why would that affect me? Im 29 and never felt hotter. I wont have children and will take care of my body and I promise you, I wont settle for a man because im “past my prime”. If men want younger women, let them. I will be dating men who dont. Accept the reality that you wont make women “accept they are worth less”. They get what they want or they are single. Its simple and right. If youre not happ…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 01:43 PM
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Perhaps. But men are also different. Jeff Bezos had a gf who is 53. Dicaprio usually has a gf who is in her 20-s. Its not always “they would if they could”. Most men prefer a woman they can relate to. Have an actual conversation with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 07:42 AM
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Then why are you trying to tell women that they are worth less after 30? Let them date who they want to date and live your life. Thats the whole point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 07:35 AM
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I guess what im trying to say is. Yeah, men might want a 21 year old body. The question is can they afford/get one. And even if they can, the relationship probably wont last very long.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:05 PM
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A 35 year old man would perhaps find a 21 year old body attractive, yea. But unless you are only looking for a pretty thing to fuck and youre rich as fuck and handsome … most men still are looking for an equal partner. A 35-40 year old man might think of starting a family while a 21 year old wants to party on a boat. And trust me. A normal 30 year old woman doesnt want a man who wants to party on boats with 21 year olds. So its fine. If they are consentint adults and both ends get their needs me…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:02 PM
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Yeah and some of them even decide its not for them. Go figure. Its like theyre humans and are learning as they go.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:57 PM
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Oh theres alot. Lying about a childs father Using emotions to manipulate. Now some men see all emotions as manipulation and not communication. Intentionally getting pregnant without a mans consent. Gettint free lunches from date without even considering actually dating the man. I mean. There are sociopaths in both genders. Not hard to fine. Judge a person by who they are. Not by their gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:55 PM
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If its a man who is pleasant to be around and doesnt act like a child… Yeah, no, sperm donors wont outweigh him. If its a manchild who throws a tantrum over a dress and cant clean up after himself. Yeah, id rather have the child on my own. The only ones who should be worried are the men that want a woman to be their next mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:46 PM
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Well. As a woman who had a strong father figure but a lacking maternal side. Hyper independence Male-dominated work field Workaholic Distrust in women Too much trust in men (believe me, its a problem to deal with) Super competative These are the women who earn their own money and fix their own sink. Men find it hard to date them because they are too masculine, loud and because they dont feel secure being feminen, its hard for them to ever rely on a man for anything. Even emotional needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:41 PM
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Age is not as much a factor as height is tbh. Women generally go for older men, so 30yo goes for 35-45 and so on. My older female relatives have actually said that 30 is when a womans life begins. Mainly because you now know who you are and what you want, in contrast to the 20s where youre insecure and lost. Saying there is a cap is just another scare tactic men are trying, to get them to settle for less than the absolute minumum. Perhaps instead of trying to bring women down, be a better man. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:29 PM
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What if you cant choose the man?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:39 PM
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Dominatrix it is 😀
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:38 PM
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Only if i love this man AND Ithe man im marrying will give half of what he owns to me when he cheats on me or verbally/emotionally/physically abuses me, starts drinking or any other addiction, I might be the housewife. Not having a child though. This has to be in writing. Otherwise I think i could also make a bank being a dominatrix. Let some rich old man crawl around and wash my dishes and paint my nails for 1k an hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:37 PM
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I also want to add that using dating apps can make men think they are uglier than they are. Even men who have decent luck in real life fail there. So its not good for mens mental health to use dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 11:37 AM
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Yeah, men are way more thirsty and desprate about sex. That is no news. Even men who are married are on tinder sometimes. The gender imbalance is the main reason for the match imbalance. If the product is in defecit, its value is increased. Which means men feel like they arent getting matches on their level but reality is that on tinder their value is lowered because of market surplus. In a social setting this doesnt happen. So this is why im saying, avoid dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 11:33 AM
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The thing is. Under 20% of people have ever used dating apps. 80% of those are male. So imagine that kind of inbalance in real life. Not only arent 80% of people on there. There is a heavy gender inbalance there. The few women there are getting bombarded and most men get nothing. Dating apps are just a bad place to be in at this time and age. We need a bette alternative.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 10:01 AM
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Yeah men clearly think they know women better than women themselves know themselves. The male ego…astounding…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:07 PM
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I meant for sexual issues in general that might affect the relationship. A fairly easy Google search tbh https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/low-sex-drive-in-women/diagnosis-treatment/drc-20374561
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:38 PM
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Implicit requirement means that it is demanded. If you agree that you should ask your partner her needs first then why write a comment like that in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:37 PM
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Some men are VERY insecure. What else can I say. The same men marry a low bodycount woman (If they can) and complain about her low libido. If you want sex, get someone with a matching libido. Which btw kicked in at 15 so…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:33 PM
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Yeah, to men who see women as actual human beings and never ask for body count. Because they arent objects to be used.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:28 PM
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But thats exactly what you said. I said in my previous comment that if the relationship is happy and both partners needs are met, sex comes naturally. So you should ask your wife about whats bothering her. You said that you should leave her. Meaning If your needs arent met, even when its because her needs arent met, you should leave her instead of communicating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:18 PM
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Im sure that will come up earlier in the relationship. And as the years pass, libido can also change. But even then, when there is Love, there can still be solutions. There are medications for women to heighten libido and of course Viagra for men and such. But for people to get to them, there needs to be open and honest communication between partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:14 PM
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Fixing ur comment here : I want my needs to be met but I dont care about my partners needs. Sure she is replaced. Cause men who women dont want to have sex with have women lining up to them. People who think like you completely miss what a relationship and love for a person is supposed to be like.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:10 PM
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If a relationship is healthy and both sides needs are met, mutually, sex comes naturally. Instead of “demanding” she meet your needs maybe communicate like adults and figure out why her sex drive has dropped. Stress is a big factor usually. A relationship is teamwork not a some sort of a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:57 PM
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Contraception is thousands of years old. During the baby boom you could support a family with one income. And a simple job at that. Now even 2 is not enough. And given you need 2, who is raising the child?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:22 PM
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If you place either one in reddit search you get roughly 10 times more upvotes on top posts for “I hate my wife” so…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:19 PM
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He seems awfully quiet when presented with facts. Anyways. Was a pleasure reading such an ownage.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:17 PM
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As it should. If a man beats You, You should leave and love yourself more. If the relationship with a man endagers you then you should prioritize self-preservation. You shouldnt prioritize your love for someone over your own well-being and happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:15 PM
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Yeah. Social media and porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:12 PM
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Perhaps he even talked to one shitty woman and then attached the properties to all women because all women are the same and if one is shitty then they all are? My theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:11 PM
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And how would you flip the board exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:02 PM
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Yeah. Cause 90% of men would fuck 90% of women. For the sake of sex. Change this and see how the world changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:00 PM
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86% of men who were raped reported the rapist as male…in your source. 91% of rape victims are female. What are you talking about ? https://www.nsvrc.org/sites/default/files/publications_nsvrc_factsheet_media-packet_statistics-about-sexual-violence_0.pdf Also rarely anyone agrees that men cannot be raped. That idea is ludicrous. And those who say that rely on toxic masculinity to carry this statement. My male friends have agressively argued that it’s impossible to sexually assault a man. It’s all…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 04:08 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:16 AM
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I truly believe all incels are narcissists and women can sense that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:57 PM
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I want the rich to be eaten but here we are
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:55 PM
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What about having one FWB instead of different hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:54 PM
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If youre surrounded by hoes you either hang out in places they do or are simply fixated on them for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:52 PM
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I once tried to explain to a guy that my man wouldnt want to fuck a new girl every weekend. He laughed and said all men do. I like how in this case I could use “not all men”. 10/10
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:50 PM
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Ever consider they might like you and not be ready for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:47 PM
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Agree on most parts. Disagree on the last. Its about making a romantic connection to the other side. Clearly romantic. Not just friendly talk but romantic. Which will then turn sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:44 PM
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People hide their red flags one way or the other. Boundaries arent red flags. Some faults arent red flags. Nobody is perfect. Im talking about red flags like “flirts with other people while with you”, “refuses to admit faults” and so on. This isnt just a shortcoming.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 09:30 AM
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Well a woman needs to be absolutely sure about him. No red flags, no wondering if he is into you. 100% sure. And no red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 10:07 PM
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Or live peacefully with cats and wine and friends. Settling doesnt necessarily guarantee a good man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:41 PM
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Professionally I see women handle critizism much better than men. Men absolutely spiral into fistfights.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:37 PM
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Its usually the insecure ones that are assholes. Look at all the hate the incel community spreads. Arent they then supposed to be nice?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:45 PM
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And nothing was ever invented before capitalism. Sure. Nothing funnier than Internet heroes telling me Im an american suburban commie when im actually eastern european socialist and ive seen communism unlike them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 07:58 AM
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But nobody is asking how much he is making. Op is talking about “what do u do for a living”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 06:21 PM
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That just shows you have no idea of women’s hobbies and you assume women do embroidery and knitting?! Like it’s the 1800-s? What a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 06:10 PM
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Yeah you mean the same social reality where men say “fat women and single mothers should know their league”?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 05:57 PM
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It’s never acceptable to ask a woman her body count. It shows you see women as objects. I mean you can ask but then you out yourself. So a friends mom asking for what I do for a living is a gold digger now? Grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 05:30 PM
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Your work is not the same as body count. It’s not a normal conversation topic. Your friends parents won’t ask you that, will they? They will however as “so what do u do for a living?” Because that’s what people do. Also if u think a man’s worth is correlated to how much he earns then there’s your issue. Or a woman’s to her body count for that matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 05:11 PM
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Asking what the person does for a living is offensive only if the man is ashamed of it. Otherwise it’s one of the basic getting to know a person questions. Like one of the first things to ask a person. Also nobody is asking how much you are making. They are just interested what you do 80% of your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:56 PM
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Yeah. He even said that in the comments
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:41 PM
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Women shouldn’t ask questions I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:39 PM
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OP is simply socially inept I think
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:38 PM
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Yeah women should have sex with men before they ask “so what do you do for a living?” to spare men’s fragile egos /s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:36 PM
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Damn gold digger uncles. Hate those.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:34 PM
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This only hurts when youre ashamed of what you do. Usually its just a conversation starter because its an easy topic and people love to talk about things they are good at. It doesnt mean she thinks “youre not attractive, perhaps youre rich”. Thats ludicrous.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:33 PM
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Being a human is also valuable, yes. Everyone should be confident in who they are and what they believe in. That is true confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 09:33 AM
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Yeah but women can get dick easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 07:47 AM
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Yeah. And most of the time they dont want to have that much sex. Male attention is cheap. Its not as valuable to women as female attention is to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 07:44 AM
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This is a dumb conment
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:19 PM
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They are sad they didnt have sex more when they were younger
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:18 PM
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Not on easy mode. Just differently. Because male and female sexualities are different. You can whine about it but it wont change the fact that women can get sex easier but are more likely to be assulted as well. Everything has its ups and downs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:08 PM
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There always is
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:06 PM
2

Yeah. Cause men are easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 09:37 PM
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Not really, scent can up your game.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 08:51 PM
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Yes. Because men are thirstier. She could go without makeup and still get attention. Because men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 08:32 PM
1

What about gray sweatpants?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:53 PM
1

But, but, Margot Robbie can date rich actors…so? Focus on yourself not others.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:51 PM
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“Smell nice” should be in bold. Male perfumes are underrated. Sincerely, All women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:50 PM
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You forget that women are generally more desired by default. Because men are more thirsty. You really think that those eyelashes are the reason the woman gets attention? Nope. Its because she is a woman. And no, there is no fix. Because men are men and women are women. I dont understand the point of this post to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:48 PM
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Shes actually above average since she is not obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 08:25 AM
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I guess its just a certain type of women having trouble after 30. But how about we dont smirk at anyone who is having trouble in dating? How about we start there? But I agree, men after 30 are way sexier than in their 20-s. They usually grow confidence in themselves and what they are and have learned a lot about socializing so in theory they should be doing better than in their 20-s. Even most of the men chronically single in 20-s will eventually find someone by 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:41 AM
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So men who cannot get women should also just shut the fuck up because they could always date obese women with three children? Your claim makes no sense. This is a debate sub to discuss dating issues. Thats what its for.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:42 AM
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You got me there
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:32 PM
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Thats what I meant. It only matters If a woman is fat but a man can be ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:19 PM
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We dont. We just hate men who think women are somehow lesser than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:12 PM
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And the women in this sub could say : “Men are incapable of empathy and are reaping what they sow”. Using absolutes just shows your own incompetence. At least women here admit to having good men in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:11 PM
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So weight only matters for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:15 PM
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“Taller than me” is the norm. That doesnt necessarily mean “tall”.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:10 PM
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Yeah dont forget single mothers and promiscuous women. Also disqualified.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:07 PM
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Dont forget single mothers. Count those out as well. No wonder why there is a mens loneliness epidemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:07 PM
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Literally, women dont like the same men. I constantly see women with men I would never date. Yall have gone a bit off the rails with that 80/20. People like different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:56 AM
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You seem to think all men are either sluts or incels. Aka sluts who can be sluts and sluts who simply can’t? Isn’t that kinda misandrist? I know a lot of men who don’t whore around even though they could.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 09:04 PM
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I got virgin shamed as a girl of 15…by boys. Idk what to tell you, world is fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 09:03 PM
1

Pretty sure human labor costs more than energy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:35 AM
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Exactly. And AI and robots can soon take over most jobs. So as long as the rich people share their hoarded wealth we should be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:09 PM
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And because the Internet has skewed their standards to a point where Margot Robbie is mid and they themselves might be a literal gremlin.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:00 PM
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Hard pass
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:27 PM
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Women are just socially better by nature. Autistic women mask better and usually get anxiety in result.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:39 PM
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I want her here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:36 PM
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“Afraid of how they are going to feed their children”. What children? 😀 Yeah sure instead of having double taxes, people will resort to slavery, sure 😀. Its not going to happen. America is still suffering for taking part in it. My people were slaves for 700 years straight. And that was before german and russian occupations. It wont happen. Id rather kill mysef than give birth to my slaveowners child.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:30 PM
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Rich men wont support any of that because they have wives and daughters. Reasonable men wont support this because they dont want their daughter enslaved by any man. Fathers still tell their daughters “all men” you know? The violent men are, lucky for us, a minority. Yes, there will be an economic crash because of population decline but it certainly wont force women back into their babymaking role. Its way more probable that the entire economic system will change to try and handle a mostly elderl…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:38 AM
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You didnt even pose any solutions to this. How to motivate women to have more children. You really think something like islam will come? No. As soon as the collapse happens, everyone will realize the value of a women giving birth. You think women will submit now, after getting a taste of freedom for the first time? No. Women are already more and more prominent in the governments. And when the shit hits the fan they are the most capable of solving this issue, given they know the painpoints. What …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:32 AM
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How would you fix women being attracted to what they are attracted to? Being forced to be with someone who they dont want to be with is not only opression but rape. And no. Most men are fine and find a wife by 35. And when we are talking about attraction. Im sure there are obese women who would want those men. Or do they deserve to have partners they are attracted to and women dont?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:13 AM
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Never heard any rap songs, have ya?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:52 PM
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Id prefer a goat over whoverer commented that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:50 PM
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How do you determine your league then? If youre constantly not getting a single date then how do you know your league in the market?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:43 PM
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If the water is poison, its not being picky, is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:40 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:39 PM
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I guess she left him when she found out. What else can you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:39 PM
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So you lied about them saying it and quoted it like a citation. Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:32 PM
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The vegetative woman one was sick😀
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:40 PM
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“If you dont give women a choice about having children.” And here we see your agenda. Force women to break their bodies to birth children. Also in the industrial times, child labor was common. The more children you had, the more money you had. Also If the society is built in a way that we rely on the population climbing constantly then this is not sustainable, is it? Women do not have to forced to have 48 hour labors, bring up children, while in poverty and while constantly being shamed for bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:42 PM
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Im a software engineer so no. Took that male dominated field instead and construction/army couldnt pay me enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:15 AM
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28-35
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:07 AM
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Didnt say that. Ofcourse men have a harder time with the gender ratio on OLD sites. What im saying is its not all fun and games either for women who are looking for a serious connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:47 PM
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It has zero value for a woman who is looking for a lifetime partner, not a hookup. It gives me no joy or happiness to get texts like “want a ride” on tinder. All it tells me is that im not morbidly obese. And I know that already.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:45 PM
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Ofcourse. It sex comes easy for women because men offer it easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:43 PM
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If a man makes you feel like you are still competing with other women while being in a relationship with him - RUN.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:27 PM
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What about “love” and “loyalty”?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:25 PM
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Its a waste of time even for women. Yes You get 100 matches and they are all chatting. But you have to filter out 99 of them over the period of a week because they arent serious in their intentions/they follow Andrew Tate and so on. And the one who is starts stalking you. Its not all so black and white.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:43 PM
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“For no reason at all”. Nobody bans stuff for no reason at all. When something gets hateful and promotes hate then its usually banned, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:19 PM
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Yes but on the market, the sexual attention of a man is very very cheap. While sexual attention of a woman is very expensive. You speak as If a womans sexual attention is the same as a mans. Its not. Because of demand and supply. This is why male sexual attention for women isnt appreciated most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:13 PM
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Sexual interest of a man she doesnt know has 0 value in the eyes of an attractive woman. Sexual interest of a woman who he doesnt know has 1 value in the eyes of the man. Because this is how different our sexualities are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:12 PM
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Yeah but neither should cancer treatments, food and shelter be profited on. But here we are. Dating is quite low down that list of things that shouldnt be.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:05 PM
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Exactly. Why would anyone like something that keeps blaming the whole worlds problems on them ? Unless you have masochistic tendencies ofcourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:41 PM
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And If they feel secure. Women tend to lean into the masculine if they have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:40 PM
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This here. They try to solve an OLD issue that stems from simple differences in male and female sexuality. You cannot change the basis of each sexes sexuality by building an app.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:24 PM
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When your business plan is “the state will ban all competitors” its not really a good business plan, is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:19 PM
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Yeah all of the solutions here would just make the user experience insufferable and then it will have an even worse woman to man ratio. You cannot attract users with limitations. Using it should be easier and more enjoyable than other apps to even have a chance at competing in the market.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:19 PM
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The wedding and honeymoon are planned and paid for together so. If I asked for that then how can i blame him? If he is shit in bed then i wouldnt marry him though. Means we arent compatible. If we have compatibility then i would marry him whatever the other relationships were. Perhaps he learned from his previous experiences. As humans do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:18 AM
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https://www.bls.gov/news.release/atus.nr0.htm#:~:text=Household%20Activities%20in%202022%20%2D%2D,(See%20table%201.) How does a man do more work when women do more in all categories?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:53 PM
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There isnt a one-size-fits-all solution to all members of the opposite sex. Just like some men blame women for giving too fast, some men blame them for making them wait too long. Its all about compatibility. You feel the vibe and go from there. Very scientific, I know. Edit : Forgot the autistic people. I have an autistic bf and when we started dating I assumed he wont feel the vibe so I just took the lead and when he said “nope” I tried very hard not to take it personally. :’D
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:46 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:14 AM
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Except this is the main thing divorce lawyers mention that stands out most.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:17 AM
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And you should be honest with your intentions. Communicate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:11 PM
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No. I see sex as something I do with someone I Love.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:09 PM
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If she has to do all the chores herself, the man just seems like a child and she isnt a paedophile.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:07 PM
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Its not even the looks that get lazy. Its the “Hey wanna sex?” Doesnt work on women. Sexuality is much more different. Men can pretty much have sex whenever. A tiny bit of stress tells the womans body “You are in danger so you wouldnt be able to carry a baby so we dont need sex” if that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:58 PM
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Stress and tiredness kills a womans libido more than the mans. Its quite proven.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:53 PM
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Studies show that girls learn social skills more easily during development. Autistic girls do better as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:51 AM
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That’s a good idea actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 09:38 PM
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A healthy BMI is already above average in the USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:58 PM
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And social skills. I feel like a lot of men are lacking in social skills and basic empathy (which in turn makes socializing with women very difficult). All this living online has caused this, I think. I would suggest having some social skills classes and such organized for men who are struggling. It might give the confidence and skills needed. I genuinely believe a lot of men who are struggling arent below average. They just lack the social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:21 PM
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Im from Europe as well. And people not having children has very little to do with religion. Every developed country has issues with birthrate. And its quite clear why. The society promotes money as the end-all-be-all. Rich people are glorified. Money is the name of the game. And simply living is growing more expensive by the year. We had inflation over 20% last year. Not to mention the crisis after crisis situation we are in. No thinking person would feel safe enough to have children here. Havin…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 09:25 AM
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Not even close. If you arent making an active effort to relieve your situation then it doesnt make sense to complain about your situation not getting better. Does it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:52 AM
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Its not worth it to find food. But I will complain about being starved because nobody is offering it to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:50 AM
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Not u. Men in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:31 PM
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Then why cry about being lonely?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:53 PM
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“Men have to put in more effort” under a post that says 45% havent even approached a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:46 PM
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But life isnt only money money money. Its also caring for the sick and elderly. There are more important things than money in this world.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:10 PM
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But statistically, if something harms you as a woman. Its a man. It only makes sense that women develop some counter-measures since they are sexualized from 12 up. Ask any woman. Its the experience that develops these counter measures. Not just the fear of the experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 09:24 PM
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Taking a shit on the bed should be shamed wether it was easy to do or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 09:20 PM
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Yeah. Shark attacks are also rare. Doesnt mean you dont avoid them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:52 PM
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r/whenwomenrefuse
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:20 PM
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Because they have a calling and empthy. Unlike You. We would all be dead without any nurses. Caregivers also work harder than SWEs. Writing code is far less physically and mentally challenging.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:33 PM
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I earn twice what my bf does :) . Its just simple caring relationship. If dont have a capacity to love and give to another person then dont be in a relationship. Honestly. You have no idea what ur talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:59 PM
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If you Love someone and work as a team. An hour of your time is an hour of your time. Both have the same amount of hours in the day. You wouldnt have the person you claim to love waste more hours in the day on chores just because you earn more. Yall dont seem to understand love.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:01 PM
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They do actually when you work.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 10:09 AM
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You see how people like different things. Amazing isnt it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 09:20 AM
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It really isnt. Unless you work on medical software or planes/cars.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:35 AM
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It isnt. I work as a software engineer and we have it easy. Night-shifts? 12h shifts? Dealing with drunk people? Dealing with dying people? Literally cleaning up peoples feces? And for a fraction of the pay. Nurses work waaaay harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:34 AM
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He is also wrong. As a software engineer, a nurses job is a 100 times more demanding in every aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:32 AM
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Wrong. Im a software engineer and we arent allowed to do overtime, costs too much for the client. Nurses work night shifts and 12h shifts, often overtime since someone needs them and they wont just clock out. As a software engineer, a nurse works at least 4 times harder. And the physical and mental toll is a 100 times worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:31 AM
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Its just that the men who make claims like this, trying to calculate how a relationship works, dont understand how a relationship works. Neither do they have a concept of loving another person and wanting whats best for them. Especially If the other person is female. This sub is full of men who simply dont like women. They cannot understand love.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:28 AM
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And I suppose her time and effort are worthless?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:21 AM
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You didnt really answer the question. I also work from home and earn exactly 2 times my bfs salary. Should i just sit home and expect him to come home from his job and cook for me? Reality is its easier for me to do more at home, since i dont commute. As long as i dont have a manchild to clean up after im fine with it because its a relationship, a teamwork. He works the same hours as me so we both do housework. Ridiculous to claim he should do 50% more houswork because he earns less. Same with w…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:01 AM
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Yes. An hour of your time is still an hour of your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:57 AM
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Not being upfront with intentions is wrong. This is why male attention is cheap nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:51 AM
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Thanks, im a romantic at heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:29 PM
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Then dont put any effort in it. Theres enough women who want relationships so im sure that a critical mass cannot be achieved. Most men are still going to find someone by 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:29 PM
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A man who I can trust 100% and who is true to their word. Who can hold a job and who doesnt want children. An introverted hairy bear-type man who I can cuddle for the next 50 years until I die.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:23 PM
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Yeah. And they could easily. Why arent men willing to take care of children or elderly for minimum wage? Nurses? Teachers? All necessary jobs are distributed. And they are all necessary. And to claim men are more impoetant in society is simply delusional. And to claim all men working in necessary places are lonely is even more so. Also, most men are fine. To sacrifice for no gain? You mean work for a salary, to eat and live, like every grown person? To think the society owes You more than that i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 06:47 PM
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Lol. Nope women make 50% of essential functions. There is nothing a man can do that a woman couldnt. So now you admit to men being violent. But when we talk about rape statistics then we wont bring that up, will we?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:36 PM
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No real arguments in your comment. Instead incel terms and bullying. Reported :).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 04:59 PM
1

You forget that women make up roughly 50% of the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 04:58 PM
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So has redpill views. Perhaps that has something to do with mens loneliness, since we are finding correlarions between things.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 04:56 PM
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Yeah, mental healthcare should be much more available to these people. The root cause is likely a very messed up childhood, resulting in personality disorders like narcissism and psycopathy. Normal people dont go killing when they face hardships on life. Only the ones who lack empathy do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:48 PM
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I believe there will be a crash soon but not because male loneliness. Most likely the greed of the rich, impossible cost of living and women refusing to have children in this economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:14 AM
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No, all crimes are at an all time low. Mass shootings are only a thing in US and have always been. Because mentally ill people can get guns.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:12 AM
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Yeah, no, the freedoms are written in most constitutions. And luckyly, I dont plan on having children. If I did and someone started infringing rights i would move to another country.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:11 AM
1

My question still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:09 AM
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No. By having to pay taxes if you want to eat or have a roof over your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:08 AM
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Most peoples are. Unless the person has no empathy or capacity to love the other gender. Then its down to transactional shit only and they believe thats how everyone is. Its sad, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 08:19 PM
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How? The rich control everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 08:15 PM
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You said “many of them are Not” as a claim. Im asking how do u know. I didnt claim to know but looking at movies, social media and porn with literal models might have its effect. On both sexes. And no , saying one thing as a claim in one comment and then saying the complete opposite in the next is not consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:29 PM
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Yeah and they say they want an “average” woman but they actually mean above average, lets be real.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:26 PM
0

Perhaps the Anti-depressant rate simply shows how women manage to ask for help more? You know..:toxic masculinity and shit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:26 PM
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That wont happen. Men wont go to the forest to live in solitude, Will they? Capitalism is built to keep people enslaved.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:20 PM
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But the crime rate is at an all time low.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:18 PM
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How do u know they are not? Given social media and porn is the default ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 06:04 PM
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Well, I dont think its entirely hopeless for most men. Good grooming and social skills help a lot. Im pretty sure there are women out there who would love them. Its just they wont be getting 100 casual sex partners whatever they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:39 PM
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Well, they would say “perhaps try something other than Harvard”. Would You like the people there to tell the men “lower your standards and date people who are morbidly obese”? Also I dont think You should be placing the responsibility for a “reality check” on random people on the internet. Thats whats expected from friends and family.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:37 PM
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I never said there wasnt, did I? Im talking about the probability of one Or the other happening and You keep on talking about the one with 2-10% statistics being more important then the rest. Luckily the court is “innocent until proven guilty” so If he manages not to leave DNA, he is off the hook.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 09:46 AM
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Well they cannot give recommendations like “look better” can they? They are talking about things that are possible to do. What else can they suggest? Just say “nah u ugly, just dont” when a person is asking for help?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 08:59 AM
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This answer just shows your lack of empthy. Having a traumatic experience is one thing. Having to relieve it afterwards and advocates asking “What were you wearing”, “didnt you actually want it” is another kind of trauma in itself. It just shows that men here have no understanding what rape actually does to a woman mentally. It destroys you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 08:51 AM
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Not really, the combination has to be alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:42 AM
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Everything matters if youre looking for a life partner. Everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 11:10 PM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:22 PM
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Amber Heard and Depps case was a good example of what women can be. And im glad she was brought to justice. Theres shitheads on both sides, Lets remember that. But statistics dont lie. And statistics say women are in way more danger.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:15 AM
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I know they can be. But not every man who reaches 25 has been falsely accused of rape. But every woman who reaches 25 has been sexually assulted at least once. And men still try to claim they are the bigger victim. Its sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:11 AM
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You seriously underestimate how predatory men can be…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:03 AM
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Yeah, so its actually worse. 63% of victims give up in court because they cannot handle the cross-questioning about how they were assulted. Its sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:54 AM
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Google a bit. Just because you think so doesnt mean it is so. This , of course, differs by country.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:48 AM
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Not convicted means false allegation, given there is an allegation by a woman. So 90-98% is convicted. Insufficient evidence will also be classified as false allegation in statistics. So even If there was an assult but there arent enough evidence, it will be classified as false allegation. https://www.police.vic.gov.au/sites/default/files/2019-01/FINAL-factsheet-for-web-Challenging-Misconceptions.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:39 AM
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Official false rape reports are 2-10% . So its about 2-10 out of a 100 actual rape cases. I guess if men in this sub are scared, women should be even more so
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 08:01 AM
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That article has No source studies linked that should back up the claims. Doesnt seem valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 08:36 PM
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Can you also reference those studies? Otherwise its just claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:25 PM
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Well. https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2009/11/091110105401.htm#:~:text=A%20woman%20is%20six%20times,longer%20the%20marriage%20the%20more You are wrong. The man is 6 times more likely to leave the woman when she gets sick. This is what happens when you only see what you want to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 08:07 AM
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Where do you get women like that? Most women stand by ther men even If they lose their jobs. But the probablility of a man leaving a woman when she gets sick is way higher than the woman leaving the man. These claims are some red pill internet bullshit. I guess we see what we want to see. I see women constantly supporting their men, however they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 08:21 PM
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Yeah id rather they go and vent in some womens reddit group than go shoot up a mall or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:22 PM
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In average situations, men are still more agressive by nature. More risk taking. So why are we arguing who brings more trouble? Both might. Both might Not. Its not like men are the only ones risking trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:21 PM
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Being up font and honest is never a problem if there is initial attraction. If you are honest and she responds negatively, means she is not interested, move on. Being deceitful at start wont make her like you more, will it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 05:42 PM
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But thats the main thing the posts on PPD are telling me. Women bad because there is a male loneliness epidemic. Women bad because they dont need men and dont want children. Ive also gotten “women shouldnt be allowed to have an education before they have children”. “Women choosing is bad because they choose men who become deadbeat dads” Most posts are about womens standards and expectations being too high. This is the message it gives off.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:08 PM
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Not saying no women ever killed. Im saying there isnt a well group of women whose hero is a mass murderer and think all men should be their sex slaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:48 PM
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Funny that you think uglier = nicer , prettier = broken. Many unattractive men have serious insecurity issues that make them really dangerous and unpredictable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:47 PM
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Get fooled by one? If women bring trouble You might get annoyed. If men bring trouble they might kill you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 12:16 PM
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Well at least these women dont commit violent crimes. Let them be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 11:29 AM
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So you go around asking women what they rate themselves? I highly doubt that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 11:29 AM
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It kind of is though. You either date for a life partner or you dont. The person either matches your requirements or doesnt. There is no “inspiring to commit to you”. The man either wants to or doesnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 11:27 AM
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Like men dont bring trouble? Relationships in general require a lot of effort. If you are too lazy to work on your relationship then be single, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 11:26 AM
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I Love men on this sub. Its “accept less but choose better”🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 11:24 AM
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People are just saying how it is. Material for what?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 11:21 AM
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Well. Previously the wifes job was - kids. The husbands job - money. Now, in this economy, both are money. For survival. Simply put.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 08:09 PM
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You either want a life partner or you dont. Rest is details.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 08:05 PM
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Its just the very attractive women the OP wants that dont want him. Perhaps OP thinks he is on the same level with these girls and is wrong. This would indeed make it seem that all women demand someone “more attractive” when in truth youre just less attractive than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 08:02 PM
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The thing is. They are accepting. But male and female sexualities are very different. Men might have sex just for the sake of it, with someone who they find unattractive. Women (at most part) wont. This is why it might seem men are “accepting” of their situation and women are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 08:00 PM
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As You can clearly see from most posts here and the “male loneliness epidemic” its really mostly the men unhappy about women being able to choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 07:57 PM
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You kinda proved his point there
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 07:52 PM
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My bf is autistic, extremely antisocial and earns 50% of what I do. He is also very reasonable, respectful and caring. Red pill might work for some but people are just too different to have a “one size fits all” kind of a solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 07:25 PM
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Sending you good vibes. Probably one of the hardest thing that can in life. Make sure you give yourself credit for that. You arent failing, youre fighting a tough battle. And doing that well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 09:47 PM
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Shit. Im so sorry this happened to You.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:12 PM
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They expect a bit more, dont they though?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 07:28 PM
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With a good dick game and ability to keep the house clean, food ready…I dont see why they wouldnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 07:19 PM
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I earn twice as much as my bf. Really dont give a shit since I have the money I need. Why would I need HIS money. Wouldnt date unemployed though. At least earn enough to feed and house urself. Doesnt mean I would leave my bf if he lost his job though. We will get through this together.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 07:15 PM
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Men dropped what? There was a post about Margot Robbie being “mid”. Also a post with quite average looking women. Some a bit overweight, some under. Different body types. And comments saying these were 1-2. Social media and porn give a really twisted view of what is average.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:16 PM
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You mean “You shouldnt expect loyalty in a committed relationship”?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 10:13 PM
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Its weird how people want to be “loved and desired for who they are” but when we talk about single moms or obese women them then its a “naaaaah nvm”. Love them for who they are then.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:14 PM
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Fair point
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 06:44 AM
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I found myself a calm autistic gamer boy who has never liked parties or socializing. But they are rare and I aint sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 05:06 PM
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It really doesnt. And most women are fine as long as the man is taller than them. But if someones mind is set on a man who is 2meters id rather they were alone than be constantly angry at some poor man who isnt tall enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 05:03 PM
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Its a rabbit hole. It shocked me that a group of men would take away womens freedom just so they could get their dicks wet. The sheer selfishness and entitlement and narcissism. But I knew narcissists existed so.. But I still date men. Some of them are genuinely good. Gotta use the bullshit filter.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:53 PM
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Shrek was tall. Try lord farquad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:45 PM
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Then they end up unsatisfied either way. Being with someone you dont find attractive is even worse than being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:43 PM
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Us is invading other countries, not protecting itself. Sexual assults on train are a huge problem in Japan. Thats why this is needed there. Its not an imaginary thing, do some research. Also heres the best part - it costs nothing. There are same amount of traincars, same amount of people on the train. The only thing changing is the peoples distribution on the train. 1 in 4 women have been raped and 1 in 26 men so…again, generally, in the world, not a made up problem. https://www.cdc.gov/violence…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:18 AM
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First of all. A physical assult isnt equal to a false accusation. Secondly, these numbers are real. Also there are more unreported sexual assults. If the false accusation was as big of a problem, people would be solving them. Trying to get “men only” workspaces just isnt realistic or doable. But separating people on trains is. Everyone gets to where they are going and people are more safe. We are talking about a huge issue in japans trains with women being sexually assulted and you try to make i…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:29 PM
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Because US is not at war. And who sets those goals and for what? Younger generations doesnt believe in war in general. No I dont want anyone to fight. In US men go to the army to get a scholarship. And you are completely off topic. We are talking about women being assulted on trains and you whine about army like you could ever make it there. Like its a life or death question for women. Its not. The sexual assult threat is way more real than someone attacking your country.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 11:47 AM
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I answered both of these in my previous comments. Men dont wanna go to war because war sucks, not because they arent getting women. Men capable of fighting can easily get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 07:08 AM
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Because of the sheer numbers as I said. If false accusation isnt reported then its just someone saying something, isnt it? 2-8% is the number the specialist estimate. Not mindless. If the accusations are about 5% then 95% are actual sexual assults and thats a waaaaay bigger problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 07:02 AM
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Yes. Men also get assulted. Not denying that. But the sexual assult victims are predominantly women. You think the train issue was brought up just because? Look at some statistics. Its a means to an end. Im not “creating a problem”, youre saying that there isnt an issue with sexual assult on trains in Japan?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:06 PM
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Because, as i said, you cannot distinguish violent and Non-violent men as easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:03 PM
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I would be willing to “men only” and “women only” car. But there is the WHOLE REST OF THE TRAIN. How is that equal to pissing on the street lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:02 PM
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They would, as a LTR. Women who want a LTR will have to look from their own level.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:01 PM
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As I said. The men not getting women arent the ones in combat infantry.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:59 PM
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Maybe looks arent just about sex. Maybe its nice to look at someone who is handsome?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:38 PM
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You could literally say this about this sub. But yet we want empathy towards men…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:37 PM
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Highest IQ ever recorded was a woman tho so…false
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:32 PM
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Do less drugs?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:30 PM
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Ooof. You should see my ex bruv
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:28 PM
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Wow. Well done. It aint easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:27 PM
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Cheesecake with some jam on the side….
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:23 PM
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Yeah, men had their family and woman to use. But women were suffering. They were stuck. Forced to be with men who could do anything to them and they couldnt leave. Now our grandmothers tell us not to become dependant on men. Also I highly doubt any men will riot because they cant force women to be their slaves. Even If they do, they will be put into an institution. Men dont join the military because war is shit. And they dont want to die. Not because they arent getting women. But Id love to see …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:19 PM
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None. Because none of them are an actual LTR. Just some “sexual relationship”.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:25 PM
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This has been tried before. All women being homewives. Didnt work. And most men are doing fine in dating. You sound ridiculous trying to strike because you arent served vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:20 PM
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There can never be true equality. Already because of our physical differences. But also our very very different sexualities, our general wants and needs, social expectations and so and so on. We can push for something “more equal” but it will never be fully equal. Id say everyone should go for what feels natural in a relationship with another. In dating, going duch is the norm in most european countries and anything else needs to be agreed upon. Yes, men make more effort in terms of being seen b…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:39 PM
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Did they protect those women? Strike. Really. See how much it changes. Most men understand that women need to be protected from a small number of men who are a threat to them. Fathers always say to daughters: “All men”. Because it keeps them safe from the few bad apples. They have wives, sisters, daughters. Anyone who doesnt see why the separate cart is a good move has some ulterior motives.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:30 PM
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The “protector” and “providor” role has died out. Im sure most women who are getting sexually assulted on trains have men. Did they manage to protect them? By all means opt out of the society as it is. For everyone else it is working fine. Most grown women work and pay taxes just as you. And sure, we would have no issue collecting garbage, women also change diapers in a nursing home for minimum wage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:16 PM
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So your rights are also infringed because You are Not allowed into a female public toilet?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:10 PM
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Nobody is saying all men are like that. Nobody is judging all men by those standards. But also you cannot see which ones are the sexual predators and which are not. Im not judging a whole sex by a few mens actions. I dont think the men in my life are all predators, THAT would be sexist. But If women can no longer use trains because 10 out of a 1000000 are predators then what other solution do you see ? Im sorry your ego takes a hit but blame the rapists, not the victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:09 PM
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Yeah, most of the men on the train are normal citizens going about their day. But it takes about 100 out of a million to cause an issue where women dont feel safe moving by train. How would You solve this issue otherwise? Your ego is not more important than other peoples physical safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:07 PM
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Yeah well. Women rape less, dont they. Also. Im not claiming there arent false accusations. Its about 2-10% of all accusations. https://www.brown.edu/campus-life/health/services/promotion/sexual-assault-dating-violence/myths-about-sexual-assault-reports But im saying is that 2-8% is false and 90-98% are actual sexual assults. So the issue of sexual assult is a bit more burning one, in this case on trains in Japan. If there are easy solutions like this one, we should use them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:04 PM
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Well in the current context we are solving the issue of sexual assult on trains. And I find it to be an effective way. False accusations, as they do happen, are another topic and not as easily solvable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:01 PM
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Assuming i want casual sex. I wouldnt. Cause if women want casual sex they can shoot 5 levels over their league. Why would they settle for average? I would get a prostitute for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:24 AM
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If white people would constantly assult black people on trains, so much so that its a pattern then they would get their own traincar for their safety because white people cannot behave. But when its one gender assulting the other it seems fine to you? Also its not men that get their own traincar, its women. You think mens rights are infringed by them not being allowed to assult women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:16 AM
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Somehow u are capable of seeing the isse when one race constantly assults the other. But when its one gender constantly assulting the other, You are blind of the abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:01 AM
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Because the problem is sexual assult from one gender to another. Not from one race to another.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:59 AM
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Also revenge porn? By women being allowed to move safely? How are men being punished? By not being able to harrass women on the train?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:58 AM
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It actually does work. Could you name some other options then? Locking up men?! They have most of the train to themselves. Women have one cart if theyre lucky. If anyone is being locked up its the women. But I would lovw to hear your suggestions that are as simple and as effective for reducing sexual assults on public transport.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:58 AM
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Wow. Your narcissism and lack of empathy is showing. “Me me me”. Men will also be taxes since they are the reason this issue exists. This is how society works.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:16 AM
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Reddit thread is not a good source https://www.brown.edu/campus-life/health/services/promotion/sexual-assault-dating-violence/myths-about-sexual-assault-reports
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:14 AM
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Possible accusations? You are more likely to be killed by a shark than be wrongly accused of rape. But for women 1 in 4 Will be sexually assulted. Its about numbers. Probability. Its unreasonable to demand something when the probability of that happening is 0,02 %. Its reasonable when te numbers stack up, like japanese train assults.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 05:16 PM
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And tell me how would You solve the man on man violence on public transports? Im all for solving it but in those cases you cannot tell a criminal from a victim. Japan has huge issues with men groping women on trains. This one is easily fixed. Are you saying we shouldnt do this because we cannot also protect men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 05:12 PM
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Well the trains are packed and there is a problem with identifyinf men who go to trains with the intent of being anonymous. There is a huge problem with sexual assult on public transport in Japan. In my country You are in danger If you are on a late night transport alone. Multiple times have I been in danger and most of my female friends have been assulted/innapropriately touched there. The Police cannot convict those men without hard evidence because the predators also “have rights”. Its much e…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 05:10 PM
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What is the enoemouse expense to others exactly? Less women in the rest of the train? Theres still the same amount of people on the train. There is No extra expense. Maybe stop sexually assulting women if you dont like the societal counter-measures for men not being able to act civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 05:06 PM
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And you can still drive the train. 7/8 of the train. Women can only drive 1/8 If They want to be safe. So I say their rights are being infringed by sexual predators.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 05:04 PM
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Shit example. Men are still going on trains, just as They were before. Nothing changes for them. Its just less women on the train. Are you kidding?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 05:02 PM
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Im talking about sexual assult, in which 98% of perpetrators are men. I am saying the general violence in trains cannot be fixed, at least not as simply , neither could the male on male violence. But there is a way to stop the male to female violence. You think just because we cannot stop the male to male violence we shouldnt stop the male to female violence?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 05:00 PM
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You mean violent crimes by other men Right? You see how even men are afraid of men? Now imagine being a sexual object to those few agressive men, and they are horny. Now imagine being in a public transport with that man where he has a high likelyhood of remaining anonymous. This is why women only transport is needed. Not because men arent victimized by other men. But women are more likely to have the target on their back and there is somethint that can be done. So Why shouldnt it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:18 PM
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Most men (who dont want to assult women) find it reassuring that their mom/gf/sister can feel safe while commuting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:17 PM
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Privilege to not get sexually assulted on public transport? Is it really a privilege? Also No. They dont “claim” being molested. They are actually molested by men on trains. This is also why we have women to women taxies now. Maybe If men stopped assulting women we wouldnt need that “privilege” to not be sexually assulted.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:14 PM
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Working spaces arent anonymous. Assulters will be fired. On the train the sexual predators are anonymous. So would you need a male only working spaces? The only reason I can see is hate/discrimination.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:13 PM
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So your rigth to choose between 8 carriages, not 7 outweighs womens physical safety on trains?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:11 PM
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Yeah. By other men. How would You solve it? Non violent only carriage? The problem is men abusing women on public transport. This can be fixed by women only carriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:10 PM
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Bolt came out with “from women to women” taxi rides and the comments under it were so toxic. If harrassment cases wouldnt happen with taxi drivers than this would be offensive but sadly they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:07 PM
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Then why dont you start a mens support group ? Push mens mental health. Talk about the issues of men. But unrelated to women. For me it seems you are simply hating on women instead of supporting men. Its not about who suffers more. Not a victim gymnastics. Talk about mental health with your friends. Support them mentally And emotionally. Start a movement where me care about other mens wellbeing. Instead of spreading hate and whining about how unjust the world is to men on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 06:17 PM
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How are men beinf vilified? Genuinely asking. Also which resources are you talking about? That are being witheld from men?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:54 PM
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Nice backtracking
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 08:14 AM
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Saying that free market would mean you should be able to use your strenght to take what you want in a romantic context is reffering to rape. And you wrote that. It seems to be on the mens mind here I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:57 AM
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They want to use other peoples product by stealing it *
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:32 AM
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Women dont need to. If you need the threat of prison to not rape and kill then are you restraining yourself or is the society?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:31 AM
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“You cant just use thats how women are wired” Where did I use that? Also no. Free market has nothing to do with nature or strenght. Its demand vs supply without someone regulating either. Not hurting other people in the society is just common sense since we live in a pack.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:28 AM
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Men restrain themselves?!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 11:41 PM
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What the damn are you even talking about. We werent even talking about nature or someones natural instinct to begin with?! We are talking about free market. Which means some people offer and others buy. The more buyers, the higher price, the less buyers the lower price. But in a dating context. Then you say “free market is when I can use my strenght to get what I want regardless of other peoples needs”. Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 11:39 PM
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Most would find someone if their wellbeing depends on it, Lets be honest. Also you are advocating rape as the free market? You could try. But in a developed society you go to prison and are in the actual sexual marketplace based on strength. Also my father was in prison for 9 years. He said “lord have mercy on you if you go there after hurting a woman or a child”. But I mean if you think thats the “free market” then you should be fine with it? Idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 08:32 PM
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Maybe thats why women instinctively choose bigger and stronger men. Youd have to be stronger than him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:39 PM
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If u say so
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/23 08:28 AM
1

Well another benefit is the experience as women often shy away from inexperienced men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 09:56 PM
2

I’m pretty sure they’ve all had enough men offering themselves. They chose not to take them. How could “low value men” then be considered?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 12:51 PM
0

Not even gonna lie, it gives us a new found appreciation to the good men in our lives. Sometimes you gotta see the bad to appreciate the good, ya know? Also its the drama.
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 12:41 PM
1

I would suggest next day to say something “was a nice date” or something. 3 days is excessive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 07:56 AM
1

Google every term before using please, yall use this term for everything without knowing what it means. Im not even communicating with OP here, am I?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 07:48 AM
1

Andrew tate, cmon
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 07:55 PM
2

And if You Google it you will find thousands of men defending adultery when its a man…its the internet…whats your point? Assholes can be men and women? Shocking.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 06:46 PM
2

Men literally defend deadbeat dads ,rapists, cheaters by blaming women. Also im not defending women who abuse children. Im saying the statistics are not saying a woman is more likely to abuse a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 04:30 PM
1

Yeah. Its PPD, not a mental health clinic. Kinda the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 04:29 PM
1

Neglect yes. Emotional abuse, yes. But if you consider the amount of women responsible for the child vs the amount of men that that statistic makes sense. But for sexual abuse 90% of perpetrators were men. https://theconversation.com/new-research-shows-parents-are-major-producers-of-child-sexual-abuse-material-153722 https://aifs.gov.au/resources/policy-and-practice-papers/who-abuses-children This article debunks the idea that you are statistically more likely to be abused by your mother : https…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 06:42 AM
1

Not my job to heal others wounds. Have enough on my plate with mine. Im not dismissing the pain. Im saying everyone is still responsible for their actions, one way or the other. What happened to you is not your responsibility but how you deal with it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 06:26 AM
-1

Never seen that happen irl. Only movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 08:00 PM
-2

Weve all been wounded. Posts like this wont help either. Also. Your issues dont mean you are allowed to be hateful. For women and men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 08:00 PM
0

Marriage has no effect on that. Mothers are generally favored towards women because by nature women are a less risky choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 07:38 PM
1

Godspeed
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:07 PM
3

Lol this made me laugh. Im sure purely from that humor its +2
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:07 PM
1

Im gonna say 7. I would say 8 but im bossy as hell. I have a good figure, work out regularly, software engineer, easy to talk to, long hair, decent face and i think im sometimes funny…7. Also i play video games so, depending on the guy it might be -3 or +3.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:02 PM
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Women are literally demonized when we have children and when we dont. Most men arent fit to be fathers. If only those breeded, we would surely die out. At least mothers stay to take care of the child .
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:53 PM
1

On top of that. A lot of women outearn their men whilst doing more chores. Its really sad. Dont get married girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:22 PM
-2

Ah you missed the point. The OP means “whats the point of marriage if it doesnt force the woman to have sex with me regardless of how shitty i become”. I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:20 PM
3

This!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:19 PM
0

Men like OP wont get this. Im pretty sure they are incapable of deep feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:18 PM
-1

So You just copy paste your idea under random comments regardless of wether its relevant to the comment or not? You can but intimacy. I think u should.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:16 PM
1

There is none for the women either at this point tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:12 PM
1

And I suppose all the men who claim this would be perfect fathers. Especially with their lacking empathy and general narcissism.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 07:42 PM
1

Who asked ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 07:37 PM
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Id probably swipe on A, seems fun to be around and polite. Maybe too active lifestyle for me, so gotta find that out. I like B most actually. Seems genuine and is a gamer. Also seems like someone who doesnt mind a calm chill life. C seems a bit too old to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 07:32 PM
7

Jesus christ you are making it even worse. Clearly you dont even see women as human.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 07:14 PM
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Yeah so the parent that actually stays and raises the kid is now careless and delusional. Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 07:12 PM
3

I thought women were the ones with the unreasonable standards…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 07:11 PM
5

Yeah and we all pay for someones cancer treatment and Trumps golf courses…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 07:10 PM
12

Well the baby is someones. Hunt him down.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 07:09 PM
2

Male attention is worthless by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 07:08 PM
4

Yeah cause women dont want a loving relationship now?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 07:06 PM
10

Yeah and the men who have good work ethic, lives on his own, has a good relationship with his family automatically Will tell me if he will cheat on 7 years, if he will change diapers, if he will simply one day start drinking profousely…nah. Not that simple bro. Shit like that is the mans fault. And thats why they pay alimony. Case closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 07:03 PM
4

Yeah. Man does bad thing -> womans fault somehow, Lets discuss how.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 07:00 PM
1

I wish it was that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:57 PM
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Cause there is no “wall”. Not really. Just something men who hate women made up to feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 06:01 PM
0

Thank god most people understand the term. And no, its not sexist. Nice victim gymnastics tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:53 PM
0

https://www.researchgate.net/profile/Terry-Kupers/publication/242665336_ToxicMasculinityasaBarriertoMentalHealth_TreatmentinPrison/links/56f00ac708ae01ae3e70eee7/ToxicMasculinityasaBarriertoMentalHealth-TreatmentinPrison.pdf Its an actual term. Used by professionals in the field. Just because you dont understand/see it, doesnt mean it doesnt exist. You sound like Tate saying “depression does not exist”.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:00 AM
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I could claim red is blue. We are talking about what is generally considered toxic masculinity. And that is something that is most destructive to the man himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 06:16 PM
2

They still cant afford a home
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:52 AM
3

Good. Separate cities for deranged men. I Love this idea actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:06 PM
1

Not the only but it matters a lot If the goal is a romantic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 02:13 PM
1

But defecit rises prices. Its basic demand and supply.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 02:12 PM
1

Its not active choice who youre sexually attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 11:40 AM
1

Worth of What youre offering always matters
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 11:40 AM
1

/s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 11:39 AM
2

Men who want separate lives are not allowed to use women to give birth then. Also They Will not be services by women anywhere. Full segregation then. Your nurse has to be a man, your server, your teacher also. If there arent any you wont get service. Im fine with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 11:38 AM
1

God I hate when people want me to be better. I just wanna be lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:18 PM
1

Then don’t. Nobody is forcing u.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:16 PM
1

It’s a good point. All of those “why am i not treated like the chad who works out 5 times a week”. It’s actually “I want to be treated like I work out 5 times a week without actually doing that”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:15 PM
1

Stop riding chads ffs
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:13 PM
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So a separate social structure for women? Y’all act like men do everything in the world and it’s hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:59 PM
1

Toxic masculinity is masculinity to the extremes. Have you seen the “be a man” humour dude in TikTok? That’s toxic masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:53 PM
1

Masculinity =/= toxic masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:50 PM
18

So your solution is “take womens rights away so I can fuck”?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:26 PM
-1

Exactly right. There have been studies done. Men usually rate themselves higher than other people would.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:22 PM
-4

Yes. Because if youre looking for a life partner, everything matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:19 PM
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I think its nice when a womans love/attraction is actually worth something. If they found 50% of men attractive, it wouldnt be. This is why men being attracted to you really isnt such a compliment. They are attracted to 50% of women. Doesnt feel special, does it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:19 PM
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Being single is actually a lot more peaceful than being with someone you dont like. What a strange thought that you would be with someone just so you wouldnt be alone. That something a theraphist needs to fix usually. Also, what love if you genuinely dont love him?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:57 PM
1

So they have two options. Perhaps not the one they imagined. But they choose from those they have and are content.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:08 PM
4

Does liking hairy men count?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:27 PM
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And this is why. men here cant say “im average”. Hotness is always determined by the one who is looking. Or In other words…beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:46 PM
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Yup. Because one is easy to achieve and the other is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:40 PM
4

Even If that happened, most people would still prefer human connection. There would just be less desprate and lonely people
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:16 PM
2

At least theyre happy now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:14 PM
1

Not everyone is american. Im from Europe. And im smart enough to not even read all that. Lets agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:39 AM
0

Yeah. As do most female specimens in nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:38 AM
1

I truly believe this is true. NDs tend to fit better together.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 07:34 PM
1

Yeah and my bf is autistic. Its not a big deal. Just harder to find someone compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 07:32 PM
2

This here ⬆️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 07:30 PM
-2

Some men would literally fuck a hole in the wall. I wouldnt call it “more accepting”…just more sexually driven.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 07:27 PM
1

No. The majority of the countries agreed that it is so. God also probably but I am not religious. Freedom is not someones to give. Its a birthright. At least in civilized society.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 06:14 PM
1

It is stated that it is each persons rights on birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 05:20 PM
1

Human rights are actually globally stated by United Nations.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 04:33 PM
5

For you, maybe not. Doesnt take a lot for a man to seem intimidating to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 07:14 PM
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First of all. Women arent “given” freedom. That is their human right. Also. Who wouldnt prefer a better option, If it is presented? Its only the logical choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 07:07 PM
1

So you are saying only well-educated women want men who are rich?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 06:28 PM
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And some are born with rich parents who buy their children their first home while I have to work my ass off for it. Same thing. “Life is unfair and you will fail often”.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:55 AM
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Having a different opinion or not being aware of things is not gaslighting. Please Google the term before using it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:49 AM
1

Kinda felt like defensiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:22 PM
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That was a test question. If you answer with a joke about how small/big it is, then youre not insecure about it. If you answer with an attach, you are insecure about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:43 PM
1

Yeah because women are always treated like women and men are always treated like men. Total equality can never be because we want different things and act differently
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:49 PM
1

Most of us dont, yeah. Dating is very much tied to the culture youre in.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:39 PM
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Surprisingly, if you would ask them what they provide “love and loyalty” rarely comes up. Even though thats the most important part.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:38 PM
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It literally is an option. This is exactly what my bfs have been like. So no, its not that women arent looking for men like that. Also crying about how nature made female and male interaction is absurd. Women have it easier because of how men are naturally. Men are easy to get. If you want to date like women do, date men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:33 PM
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Most people go duch these days. Unless youre in america. In traditional roles, paying for a date provided men the ability to assert dominance. Show they are the provider and so on. Now, in non-traditional relationships, we are more or less equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 07:13 AM
1

I thought it was your looks…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:04 PM
1

You have seen all those other CMV posts?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 07:22 AM
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Except the society will bash you for being “selfish” for not having children. Where im from we’ve had multiple politicians say that women who arent mothers shouldnt have a say in X and so on. If we could get this view to be more common, this shit would never happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 07:21 AM
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Isnt everyone with CMV posts?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 07:11 AM
1

Thats kinda whats been happening, yea.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 07:10 AM
2

Well If the sex is better … 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 10:27 AM
1

Im not. Im in a relationship. But chads probably have decent sex. Otherwise You wouldnt be sad he left.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 10:26 AM
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Kinda is through. Initial attraction fades fast If youre incapable in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 08:23 PM
1

Yes. Maybe mostly. But being left unsatisfied in a marriage for years or months… Also. When a woman makes it all about him and the man doesnt make it all about her…theres the reason for your dead bedroom. No. Mens sexual pleasure is not more important in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 07:35 AM
2

But u said payment is commitment in a relationship. But she commits as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:31 PM
7

This. Men forget women want to enjoy sex too. But if it lasts 2 min, we just get riled up for no reason and end up disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:29 PM
2

But the other side commits as well. Prostitute doesnt pay you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:25 PM
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And both partners should always try to pleasure the other side. If the sex gets very short-lasting when people marry, its just not worth getting all riled up as a woman, to just be left there to sleep it off. This might also be an issue in some cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:25 PM
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I’m sure it’s a nice excuse to think everyone’s on steroids but they aren’t. My bf goes to gym, has a belly but also has shoulders and biceps. Perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:57 PM
2

How dare you say that about my baby. But its a dice roll defenitely
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:43 AM
1

Women literally like the bear-type gymgoers. The deadlifters.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:42 AM
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He isnt popular with incels because he is good with women. He is popular with them because of his mysoginistic and hateful comments against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:41 AM
1

Get a chinese crested.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:00 PM
2

Same goes for men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:35 PM
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Yeah. Like a man would simply marry a woman who is thin. No requirements on boobs, ass, personality, cleaning habits. Sure, the desprate ones might.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:35 PM
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Actually all women prefer the gym dudes who arent ripped. Those veins and stuff dont look good. We like them more thick.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:34 PM
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Wide shoulders, big, hairy, doesnt talk too much. Basically a bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:24 PM
2

Those comments only come up when those “men who struggle with romance” throw some Andrew Tate type of logic into their convos/comments. Then it is obvious why they are struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:19 PM
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Well, you see what you are focused on. I see immature men though. Never seen a woman do any of those things. Men who play video games arent immature all the time, as long as they also work on their life. Men throw tantrums usually because women reject them or when women wear something or when…women exist and dont want them. And as you can see, women are becoming more independent and dont need mens help with their problems. So i see you also support feminism?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:17 PM
1

And can you also see swarms of as emotionally immature men going around? Both sides have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:46 PM
1

The dating scene cannot be “fair”. You see in nature male and female specimens courting the same way ? No. Because theres always a dance that is required. Females choose genes, males have to prove their worth. As it has always been. Strongest genes survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:44 PM
1

It still has the same point attached to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 11:56 AM
1

You havent seen “Why do I have to wait for sex and chad doesnt” type of comments?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:02 PM
1

Yeah but its not “i am skinny so skinny women should like me”. Not that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:36 AM
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Tihe thing is. Not only stacys and chads get to be loved. What OP meant is that there is alot of “Why am I not getting casual sex with hot women constantly” going on on PPD. “Why is it so difficult to get sex, women are gatekeeping sex”. Its constant. Yea, chads get a lot of casual sex because If a woman chooses to have casual sex, she can go 3-5 levels hotter than her to hook up. If a woman wants a serious relationship, she will ignore the chad and try to actually build. Which includes a lot of…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 07:37 PM
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Most people are still creating families. I really doubt the “chad and stacy” problem is as relevant as it seems on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 07:31 PM
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Just because you see her as “looksmatch”, doesnt mean she is. Thats all subjective. She may think your face is 2. Other girl will see it as 8. Random numbers thrown around tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 07:30 PM
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Yeah men like women with more soft features. Its kinda simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 07:26 PM
2

And these matchmaking agencies advertised my OP ask thousands also. Everyone just wants a piece of the desperate male money at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 07:32 AM
5

This sounds a bit like human-trafficing ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 07:31 AM
0

Any company offering a service is going to want to get rich so. I really dont see a difference. Both require a lot of luck and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 07:24 AM
-1

Pahahah im being abused because they want to be friends with me and not fuck me. I am unable to can.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 07:57 PM
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Highly doubt women go nuts when a man they find unattractive is simply near them. 80% of men are unattractive to them, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 07:53 PM
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I dont think you should be attracted to so many people on a romantic level. I dated 3 years and didnt want any of them. At least when I mean it, I mean it. Now im happily in a relationship (2years) with a man I actually want. He is honest and reliable. Its hard to come by in 20-s, I have to say. In both genders. If you have a taste like that, youre bound to be single for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 07:48 PM
0

Well when any argument starts with “all men” or “all women” its not really a reasonable argument, its just bitter whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:57 AM
1

Lol. Yes I have mind reading powers and im a psychic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:52 AM
1

Not expressing your feelings is actually very emotionally immature. Expressing your feelings is not entitlement lol. What the hell
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:51 AM
1

As it comes out, theyd rather be happily single.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:49 AM
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Just because you fail to see the “value” and thus think women “overvalue” themselves, doesnt mean other men dont see the value of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:04 PM
3

Have you considered that perhaps if a big portion of the population seems mentally ill to you…you may be mentally ill yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:03 PM
1

Well women and men are equal to begin with. So this argument is already weird and promoting slavery.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:01 PM
1

Thank god those arent the only choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 09:57 PM
0

Because men want dating to be easier. They are sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 09:53 PM
1

Are You so worried about womens happiness? Maybe let them decide what makes them happy and what doesnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 09:52 PM
1

What is realistic. When every evaluation of a person is subjective. You may think the woman is a 6, the other guy will see her as an 8. Same for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 09:50 PM
1

So after catching feelings and talking them through, he cannot be her friend anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 09:25 PM
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When you say no to him he stops being your friend, which he has been for years…duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:55 PM
1

Why is seeing a human being as something minified to only sex? Because they are a human being with complex lives, hopes and dreams.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:54 PM
1

Its still seeing a human being as a sex-object and only that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:20 PM
1

Seeing women as only “I can get sex from this thing” way. Not sex itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:56 PM
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Yeah, finding out the dude was pretending to be your friend just to get in your pants hurts. Because You thought You actually had a friend. Been there. Expressing your emotions on this doesnt mean You are entitled to his friendship. It mean you were tricked and hurt. Men here just like to use the word “entitled” a lot. Even in places it genuinely doesnt mean anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:49 PM
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Sex is not. Seeing women as “sex givers” is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:44 PM
2

“Trying to dictate other people’s emotions and being bitter when they defy your expectations is the definition of entitlement.” Tell this to all “lonely men” here who follow red pill ideologies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:43 PM
1

The difference being that women dont see men as only valuable in a relationship, as a group. This type of men who see women as only someone to have sex with, should be avoided anyway. That is a very sick way to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:41 PM
1

Just expensive prostitutes then, who happen to be famous or in a relationship. Which makes them cheating prostitutes, which is even worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:09 AM
1

On the spot, on the spot. He takes them out to expensive dates so, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:07 AM
9

Ive only seen men try and put my autistic bf down. Women have been really understanding. One time a woman asked simply “can I talk to you for a second?” And my bf said “no” and looked away. In a social setting. Seemingly really offensive. But the woman probably understood he was autistic and said “Thats the most honest answer Ive heard all day”. And next time I saw her, I was alone and explained that he is autistic, she said “just let him know he is always welcome, okay?” So it depends on the ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 09:08 PM
0

Its my profit over greater good. Single person over the group.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 08:59 PM
1

There have been other economical systems that dont need constant stealing from others.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 08:44 PM
0

The morals come from the society. And at this moment capitalism is based on competition. Everyone out for themselves. This is where morals come from.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 08:37 PM
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I dont think having a wank is the problem. Its normal since the dawn of time. But watching porn, the way it is, desensitises men from normal sex. So normal sex now feels boring and this may eventually cause serious issues in romantic relationships. It’s important to know what real sex is like and not to program your brain to want to do crazy shit to even get hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 06:01 PM
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Ah, then even better.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:08 PM
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I think this is going both ways. Men are getting more feminent , women more masculine. Since everyone is out for themselves and not for the community. Its capitalism most likely, that does this. Women have to get more masculine to survive and rely only on themselves. As women get more masculine, men get more feminen in comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:31 PM
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Since i dont want children, I would be happy if men also took contraceptives. As long as they dont mess with horomones. Hormones are very important in men also. If they have sketchy side-effects like the female ones…No way. It took me about 6 years after quitting birth-control to get back to normal. Luckily we have abortions, where i come from, so that is also a great. But this gives men very little safety. This requires trust between the man and the woman. Vasectomy is maybe even a better solut…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 07:42 AM
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Oof. Well put, sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:16 PM
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If it means nothing to you, so be it. Everyone is different. I have anxiety and find it very hard to trust people, cause of previous trauma. So when someone says they trust me…that is a higher compliment than “I love you”. Love is easy to come by. Trust is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 07:11 AM
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There are as many tastes as there are humans. I’m glad you actually filtered and didn’t just lower your standards and then suffer. Men should learn this from You.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:08 PM
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Well what you consider a compliment actually says a lot about the person you’re dealing with. Mine would be “I trust you”.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:59 PM
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I never said it’s hypocrisy. And all those “body positive” things also don’t make much sense to me. I mean sure, you can be happy with your body, if you want. But other people don’t have to like your body, just because. The same with this post. People like what they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:42 AM
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But thats pretty much all you have on OLD apps. Images. And a sentence. Ofcourse you filter with what you have. In some places 50% of women are overweight and men filter based off that. Should we be making posts about “men cut 50% of women out of their dating pool”. No. Because its their choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:07 PM
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And if theyd rather be single than date a short man then its their choice. If it makes them unhappy - they learn. If not - they continue singleing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:05 PM
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I mean most average people still get with average people and arent chasing Ryan Raynolds or something. The red pill movement is also kind of “virgin porn star please”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:14 PM
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The most abusive boyfriends I had were also the least the attractive. Its not like men show their full personality straight up. Its usually the less attractive ones that have huge insecurities and thus become toxic over time. Just my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 10:26 AM
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It might, because he will feel you dont really like him and might become hateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:40 AM
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If nature is suffering because of demand, the earth is overpopulated.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:39 AM
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Oh. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:38 AM
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Its “settling” any time youd rather be with someone else. “Average” is a subjective thing anyways. “Average” men and women are overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:37 AM
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Thank you. And I agree. In multiple situations a man simply doesnt realize what he seems like to a woman and makes me feel unsafe. Ofcourse after I explain it, it makes sense to them. I guess its the same with when you have physical strength and dont realize how strongly you are actually holding a hand, for example. Most of the time men dont want to make you feel unsafe. But they also dont see themselves through a womans eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 08:11 PM
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So on one hand you are saying “settle” but when you end up with an an abusive man its “pick better”. Id rather we either be single or with someone we want to be with tbh. Healthier. Also the world is overpopulated and most of us cant afford children. The only counter claim to this is “lonely men”.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 07:57 PM
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Isnt “men deserve more options” kind of already a complaint? You are saying men should have more options and more of a dating advantage. Im saying nature kinda made it so that men offer themselves up more and women choose a mate. In nature this is very common. Im saying that if men stopped offering as much, the value of male attention would go up. But its make-believe still, because this is not how men and women were built.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 06:46 AM
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Kinda just seems you are angry at how nature made men and women. Attention of men - easy to get. Attention of women - difficult to get. Maybe If men became more picky…which we know wont happen though, dont we?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 08:58 PM
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Question for women @mods
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:12 PM
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Another group of people but, sure, for them also. Nobody should be where they arent valued. This also applies to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 07:10 AM
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Im have an anxiety disorder and my bf is autistic. The match is amazing. Ive never trusted anyone as I trust him. Pretty sure he is incapable of lying. And me talking all the time takes the pressure to talk off of him. I hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 07:32 PM
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Nice argument lol 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:51 PM
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The same study you posted, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 07:49 AM
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Not really. Women are critizised for being too fat, too skinny. Having children and not working. Not having children and working.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 07:48 AM
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Not a single argument in this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 07:48 AM
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You see the lonely men talking about “government assigned wife”? Cause I do. It was to make a woman a mans property. From a fathers property to a husbands property. Women didnt have rights when marriage was introduced, you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 07:47 AM
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I guess theres assholes in both sexes. Who knew
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:28 PM
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So that 50% then. The presumed 10%
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:20 PM
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Actually it was created for men so every man could get a woman. Patriarchy. Its not like marriages cant be divorced. So as a woman. Nope. No validation there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 02:02 PM
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I only see men half-assing their work. I suppose you see what you want to see. And no, im not going to risk my job to see if anyone notices. Im a senior engineer. Trust me. Theyll notice. I left a job for a better pay and they got a replacement ( a man ). And now, two months later, they are firing him because he wasnt fast enough and want me back. Your claim that someone is faster or slower just because of their sex…complete rubbish.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:48 PM
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Well the study states that between those ages is the only time they are happier in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:44 PM
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That sounds horrid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:43 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 06:37 PM
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Im a female software engineer and I work. Hard. Kind of barking at the wrong tree. So female jobs are useless. Got it. Im not even arguing since your whole comment reeks of someone who is committed to hating women and only seeing bad in them. Good luck though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 06:15 PM
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“Pick better” ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:03 PM
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Well, now both parties work. So other responsibilities should also be split. Including paying for your own food. But thats just my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 02:57 PM
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Yup. Women dont see the value in casual sex most of the time. Its different from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 06:37 AM
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Nobody said they were. But ive never seen that happening. Usually women dont want men who see them as something with a “milage” anyway. And women have to filter men out all the time. Its nice when men do it themselves sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 06:22 AM
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You should use /s when using sarcasm on reddit. People have weird ideas here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 06:20 AM
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So women between 43-52 were more depressed single, otherwise happier single. And men were at every age more depressed single? What’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:14 PM
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It kinda is though, and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:10 PM
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If I’m not sexually attracted to the rich man. Hell naw. If I have to financially take care of the handsome man like he is my son, hell no. So neither. I’d take someone in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:49 PM
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I think it’s still this way in Europe. America has gotten weird lately though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:45 PM
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But then traditionally, there would be no sex before marriage either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:43 PM
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Same. I wonder if there’s a type of women who nobody ever sees because they always out getting free lunches 😀
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:43 PM
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Then simply go get a hooker. This kind of opinion is used by men often and they absolutely take over when the bill arrives, saying you are offending them if you pay for yourself. And then they ask you to go to their place and when you don’t they go mental and ask you to pay the money back. Luckily, in Europe we go Dutch. Not that I haven’t met the men I just described.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:41 PM
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Is that cultural to Brazil and the americas usually?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:36 PM
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And most men don’t even deserve the opportunity to pay. Go figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:35 PM
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As a woman in Europe. Nope. Never liked it, was never expected. Going dutch is the default. Eases a lot of pressure and is way more enjoyable for both parties. But the answer : Depends on the culture. Some asian countries even find going Dutch offensive. America also seems to have a thing for the man paying, I’m not sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:35 PM
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Only women at that age go through menopause and antidepressants are often used to eliviate symptoms of that. Im pretty sure menopause is not coping with reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:21 PM
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Ive actually seen some pretty good wig specialist on the internet. I would use that in my 20-s.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:15 PM
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People who truly stay true to their word are rare though, sadly. In both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:27 PM
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Its funny how redpillers cant decide which side to take in this. Ive seen both “men arent capable” and “men always stay true to their word”. I suppose it depends on the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:23 PM
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Loyal AND hilarious?! We got the full package here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:11 PM
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A bald middle-aged man is not something odd. A bald 20-something man is. Simple as that. Also bald head in your 30-40-s may give you a macho daddy look. Especially if you hit the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:05 PM
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I guess its called growing up. In the start of my 20-s I wanted to go out and go to festivals. Now (late 20-s) I kind of just want to garden and read books as a pasttime. Priorities change with age, its completely normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:51 AM
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I actually also would not suggest marriage. Unless you want to have kids, then I suppose you should.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:48 AM
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You still never know a person 100%. 20 years from now the person can be a completely different person. Its still a very naive thing to trust that a person never changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:21 AM
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Yeah but we are talking about the SAHM type thing here, I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:20 AM
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I am not. Im a software engineer and my partner is a mechanic. I earn just about twice as much as him. So there are times we go to the grocery store I ask how much money he has on his bank account and say “You aint buying shit”. He also doesnt have a fragile ego luckily. I mean ofcourse he wants to pitch in to not feel like a burden so sometimes he still helps out. But most of the time the difference to my financials for buying shit is insifnificant and the difference for his financials would be…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:18 AM
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That is your teammate. What does it matter. Do you really want to put a burden on someone you love when you know you could ease it instead. Sometimes it baffels me how little of love people understand. Everyone gives as much as possible. Figure out financials. If one side earns significantly more, say twice of the other. Of course that side should pitch in more. Cause a relationship is a unit, a team. This whole argument just sounds childish to me “but I want to keep more money to myself and mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:34 PM
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Income doesnt matter. Hours worked matters. If both work 40hours a week it means they have the same amount of time for houswwork.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 08:39 AM
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Agree 100%. Its a huge risk to place your financial safety on another human. It baffels me that some women have that much trust in another human.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 08:34 AM
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A woman could walk into a clinic and choose the genes she wants. If she wants to be a mother. And i mean. Its not like its difficult for women to obtain sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 04:39 PM
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Jobs that men do are not more vital than jobs that women do. Also women are also doctors and engineers. They are just as capable. If men wouldnt do them, women would.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:55 AM
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Nurses keep humans alive. I could also say that water through pipes and electricity are not necessary. We could live off the land and use wells just as we did before. But it would still be a downgrade from our society. As would removing nurses or nursing homes or childcare or schools. Men arent more important than women. Patriarchy is dead, luckily. So men either adapt or die in matriarchy. At least women have the empathy to see why we need nurses and nursing homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:48 AM
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Nurses are not a vital part of the society? Are You joking? And no, men are also not meeting womans needs in some cases. You are claiming all womens needs are met and mens arent. Just as delusional statement as we dont need nurses.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:27 AM
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Nursing homes arent a necessary part? Alright what about nurses? They also work for scraps and men dont wanna do that kind of work. You overestimate the value of men over women, which probably comes from your inner sexism. Im saying both are necessary, You say “mEn iMpoRtAntEr”. Thats why they are sent to war to die i assume.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:57 PM
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If your needs are not met, communicate that to the partner. Stand up for yourself. Yeah and men arent willing to work in a nursing home for the minimum wage either. Both sexes are necessary for the society to run. Mens needs are met when they express them. But usually there is a communication block in these cases where men simply dont talk about what they need. Unless its complaining about it to other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:16 PM
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“Still, man, make up the overwhelming majority of jobs. Women were never oppressed throughout history.” How has this got anything to so with men having needs met in a relationship? Ive always said both parties needs need to be met and thus compromises need to be made to make the relationship work. I have never said men do not have needs. What are you on about.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:04 AM
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I dont need a man to protect me. Okay so previously we were talking about individual relationship dynamics and how I would be more happy, not the society. The society need men and women to run. Without one or the other it will collapse. And now we are talking about jobs in the society and historic opression. Choose a battle please.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 09:07 PM
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No. I want a relationship that is equal. Its transactional in a sense that we have sex when we both want to have sex. We both offer company to eachother and friendship. I dont need a man to pay for me, I earn well myself. You can talk about history all you want but times are changing and women are working as well now. From what i gathered, this is the relationship that you want. You throw money at it and expect sex when you want it. Luckily not a relationship many woman would want these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:25 PM
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Men dont organize my dates or take me shopping. Also im not planning on marrying. Im in a relationship. Security? Statistically speaking if someone kills a woman, its her spouse. Tell me again please what is it that men bring to the table?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:07 PM
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Security, freedom and compassion a man brings ?! I had a good laugh. Women also sacrifice their time and money on you. This goes both ways. Women also waste time in this example. It not only male time and money that matters. Mostly men dont pay for everything so is this the only leverage they have? If so then what about 90% of the relationships where money is always 50/50? In any case. Luckily. Most men are completely fine with having sex when women want it. Makss the experience better for every…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 05:31 PM
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Love is putting others wants and needs above your own mostly. Relationship is all about compromises. “Witholding” sex would mean you were entitled to something. Nobody should be forced to anything in a relationship. As I said, all about balance. Nobodys wants and needs are above the others. Just because the man wants to have more sex does not mean the woman should sacrifice her own happiness and just serve. All about compromises. Communication. Ps! Not only the needs of men. Women also. But as s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:48 PM
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I never said that men dont want more sex. What goalpost are you even talking about? And thats how being in love works. You want to make the other person happy. So this means finding a balance between what both people need. If a man loves you, he also wants you to want to have sex with him. Making the experience enjoyable for both parties. Its all about balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:54 PM
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I dont generalize men. How would I ever get men If I always pay for myself then?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:06 PM
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Strange. Its the other way around for me. I dont care for oral, i just need the penentration part. Its almost like women are different. Go figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 11:25 AM
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Sex is a natural part of a romantic relationship for women aswell. And a necessary part. But there are other parts of that romantic relationships that also have a high value for women. And should have for men but men tend to focus on the sex part more, at least in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 11:21 AM
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That just happens If you go for bimbos or fail to set boundaries. In the real world women prefer to pay since there are men out there who assume you owe them something after paying.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 11:17 AM
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Yeah most women have an experience like this. This seems to be a thing a type of dude does. Psycho manipulators mostly. Maybe some women will feel guilty and agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 11:12 AM
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I do think the dating apps are scewed. For one, there are more men there for some reason. Second, the apps goal is to make money by keeping people there. And third : compatibility cannot be seen through images. While the simulation might be statistically true, there are many factors from the real life and the difference in people that cannot be shown in here. Also the amount of fake profiles/catfishes/bots. In any case, dating online could be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:37 AM
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As a woman, I was on dating apps for 3 years before I found someone I was compatible with and who shared the same expectations as me (LTR). (Im introverted and rarely go out so it was pretty much the only choice). And I had a lot of matches, maybe a date in a month or two but I never found them compatible. Even if the profile looked promising, usually there was no chemistry or the date started acting strange into 1-2 dates. (Claiming they loved me, sending poems etc. Once a dude drank one beer o…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:01 AM
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Seeme like they werent below your level in her eyes. Also the gay men story seems made up af.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:33 PM
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As a woman I could demand reasoning to why I dont have as many options as Margot Robbie…simple answer is she is more attractive. Claiming now that all men are superficial because of it. I mean yeah all humans are, we are visual beings. Crying about it online is not gonna help. TL;DR :”Waaaa im not as attractive as Margot Robbie, all men are evil waaa”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:56 PM
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Not all men can get casual sex from women. If women want to have casual sex they can get it from guys way above their league. So if you are average you have no chance at casual sex. The only common line in all your experiences is you. Think about it. They will say “im not interested in casual sex” to you to not hurt your feelings with “im not interested in casual sex with you”. They are trying to be empathetic in their own way since they cannot change who theyre attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:51 PM
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Get this. Every woman is different. So saying “all women have sex with men who…” is already a deluded statement. Maybe if you saw women as individualistic beings, you wouldve realized that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 06:49 AM
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Womens experience with men though : they dont really care what you did in your teen years. It matters who you are now. Ofcourse nobody wants a slutty woman to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 06:46 AM
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So when a man leaves his child, its the womans fault. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 06:43 AM
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Oh, but they do deal with the consequences. They are the main victims every time. They choose wrong, they might get assulted or killed. And If they choose they keep the baby, they might be shamed for being a single mother. Which also most likely puts them in poverty. But these are just edge cases. Most women are doing fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 06:43 AM
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“Women-sympathizers”…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 09:00 PM
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I mean nature intended it differently. Imagine a man being drawn and only accepting sexual relations to one woman their whole life. Society would be so different
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 06:47 PM
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Yeah. So women are tasked with the filtering. Constant filtering.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 04:21 PM
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Well its sortta easy to filter out those who just want to fuck. Men act different if they mean it. So you filter those out and choose from the ones who have genuine interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 04:19 PM
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It really isnt validating to women when men want to fuck them. Most would fuck a hole in a wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 04:17 PM
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Oof. Nice made-up story to threaten women into becoming a mother. Havent heard the “everyone will want you dead” type yet though. A woman needs to be ready to be a mother. Otherwise the child will suffer. Relax. If in this society women arent ready until 50, maybe look at the society instead of creating scary sories.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 07:37 PM
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There certainly is a type of woman who would be like that I suppose. If he is only attracted to that type of women then im not surprised his views are so scewed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 07:33 PM
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Truth pill here everyone. Stick up for yourselves and set boundaries. Its not that difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 07:32 PM
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For the clout and to be a successful model? Who knows. It’s a toxic relationship to be in, in any case.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 07:44 AM
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Yeah models could try to endure this for a while to get clout.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 08:36 PM
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So why try and control someone into being someone you want instead of finding such a person. I understand standards. But trying to force your standards onto someone is being controlling.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 08:35 PM
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Okay, yeah. I guess you know better than peole who have studied psychology for years and worked in couples theraphy for most of their lives. We are not dicussing here why she publicised them. We are discussing his texts and what it says about his personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 08:33 PM
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Ask any actual professional about this. Please. You are making no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 04:31 PM
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So you are saying its not controlling because she could leave? That makes no sense. The behaviour is what it is regardless of how the other person behaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 03:22 PM
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https://www.highsnobiety.com/p/jonah-hill-texts-therapist-reaction/ Here is a good analysis by a specialist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 02:01 PM
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Right now its about the public being on heels because of his insecurity. He is in a relationship with a model. Her body and face are what she makes money with. Its controlling behaviour and should be scolded by society. In these situations men would say “pick better”. I really dont know why she is with him but i think it wont be for long. Perhaps for his fame.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:56 PM
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The difference with boundaries and control mechanism is that boundary is “I Will Not tolerate this type of behaviour towards me” not “you are not allowed to do this”. So its fine If a woman tells a man what he can post on social media and who he can have as friends? Its really not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:10 PM
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And if a woman would tell a man what he can post and who he can have as friends, we all say they are abusive and controlling.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:08 PM
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Doesnt matter. In any case it shows him being insecure and controlling.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 01:59 PM
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I agree that immature women get less shit than immature men. Its this “ofc shes like this, shes a woman” kind of belief that women are more unstable and emotional in general. This is why some people tend to accept it more.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 01:57 PM
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Men tend to be noutoriously emotionally immature for women, to be completely honest. Its not only women that have a hard time dealing with mens emotions, its men themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 08:38 AM
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I dont see that as a problem. There are 7 billion of us. If women would be suffering while trying bring the birthrate up, its not worth it. Only reasonable way to fix it is to not have women choose between financial safety and having children. But sadly having children in this society greatly increases your chances of falling into poverty as a woman. Men do not have this risk as much as women for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 08:00 AM
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Most men arent empathetic to women. They see women as something to “take” ,”use” or “own”. Its a bout filtering those out. There are shitty women also. Who dont recognize or even care about mens emotions. Gotta filter them out. This thread is about men being vulnerable and wether or not women actually like that. Good women love a strong man who is vulnerable to them. But there is also a difference of being vulnerable and being emotionally inept, that I was reffering to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 07:56 AM
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Its really not brainwashing. Its adapting. Women tried being home-makers and SAHM-s. Most of those women told their daughters and granddaughters not to go down that path. Think about it. Why would that be.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 07:45 AM
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Im not blaming anyone. Ive never said “all men” or anything similar (unlike this post or most comments here). But we are talking about what women want. Im simply explaining there is a difference in being vulnerable and being emotionally immature that men tend to miss. I am very easy to open up to and i am very supportive when i see that the concern is genuine. Sadly a lot of men use emotions to manipulate women, instead of being genuine. (Women do that too). Being empathetic to anyone and all th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 07:27 AM
1

Empathy in this sub at least is lacking on both sides. Because its victim olympics here. Any time anyone mentions sexual violence, men here answer “but what about insert somethin they have worse”; instead of admitting that there is an issue for women. Empathy is hard to come by these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 07:20 AM
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Being vulnerable is only bad If you are emotionally immature or insecure. Women can tell the difference. Crying because a woman posts a photo on Instagram is not being vulnerable. Its being insecure. Theres a huge difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 08:23 PM
4

I love how men always know better what all women want. Relying on a few examples because women are also different and even broken sometimes. You cannot say women want one kind of man. Too many different women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:58 PM
3

Its called communicating how You are feeling to your partner. Stomping around and drinking isnt the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:57 PM
1

I mean a lot of men ive seen on dating apps are already in a LTR or married. I think thats a huge problem. Havent seen womens side but perhaps there also. In real life, depending on where youre at. Its most likely not 80% dudes and 20% girls. Unless you try to find a gf in a football stadium game. Ofcourse there are issues also IRL. But at least women can rely on more than a few pictures and a paragraph.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:25 PM
1

Women make up only 21.9% of tinders users though. So women still use it fairly rarely compared to men. Men will have a harder time there than IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 03:17 PM
2

Thats probably 1 in a 1000 chance. Well done.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:10 PM
1

Tinder is not a valid place. Think about it. Why would an above average woman even need to ve there…They wouldnt. Unless they would just want a hookup. And for that why would they have to get someone on their level when they could get someone better.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:10 AM
1

I kinda see the opposite going on here 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 04:14 PM
4

This is why no pill is 100% true. People are very very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 07:01 PM
1

How does that have anything to do with men being the more reasonable sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 01:12 PM
1

Ofcourse they are. They are trans men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 08:01 AM
3

You cannot solve an inequality that was built in by nature and exaggerated by social media. Kinda just have to adapt.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:28 AM
1

The point is there are deluded and sick people in both genders. Feminism is not “kill all men”. That is a deluded view
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:24 AM
1

This was never my argument. What are you even talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:24 AM
1

I did. We are not talking about Police brutality protestests here. We are talking about men who “dont feel the warmth of the village” burning it down.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:23 AM
1

Men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:21 AM
1

I am pormoting fairness and equal opportunities for all. As is most of the world. The laws are passed for a reason. Maybe look into the reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:20 AM
1

Women can abort a fetus by themselves. Its quite easy to get a miscarriage. Women were tasked by nature to carry the child and raise the child. Why else would there be more single mothers than fathers. If a woman sees she is incapable of providing a decent life or the environment in which she lives might mean they both die, she can choose. Many female animals do that as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:18 AM
1

And yet you fail to see your own part in this. I’m talking about a whole gender being shitty, in your eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:14 AM
1

We all have trauma. What happened to you is not your fault or responsibility. How you heal yourself, is your responsibility though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:12 AM
1

I agree that messing with contraception should be punishable by law. But as men tend to say : “Pick better”. And it was nature that gave women the reproductive rights. You cant change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:24 PM
1

And the same equality rules apply to POC. Its been a white man world too long.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:13 PM
1

Losing the power you had might feel like sabotaging but its not. Nobody is sabotaging men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:11 PM
2

The disease is capitalism most lilely
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:27 PM
1

I thought men were the more reasonable sex
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:26 PM
1

We are talking about the “warmth” the first comment mentioned. As in affection. Not actual human necessities.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:26 PM
1

Yes im aware youd rather have women be slaves at home but weve kinda moved on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:24 PM
1

Did u read the rest of the thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:28 PM
1

Yeah same psychos exist in men also using usernames “killallwomen” but thats fine by u I assume.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:28 PM
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Seems i triggered u with how the society works. 11 replies and counting. This civilization was build during patriarchy, dear. If u dont like it, take it up with them. Also most men are happily in a relationship and willing to defend their family and society so good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:27 PM
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How people treat you depends on how u treat them. It is delusional to believe that 50% of population is deliberately mistreating you. But its narcissistic to believe that if many people treat you the same way, the issue isnt You. Affection is something You have to earn. You might need it to be happy but not to survive. If you are getting arrested for approaching women - youre doing it wrong. Again shifting the blame, as usual. Im not gonna play the victim olympics with you, even though you guys …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:06 PM
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Who is treating you like a monster and denying you of what basic need? Food? Water? PS : sex is not a basic need and includes another person so your rights are not more important than the other persons rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 02:53 PM
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Im quite sure they arent doing this because of someone didnt offer “warmth” to them. Its most likely just to make the poor poorer and make them breed more to provide slaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 02:51 PM
2

Shit. Canada is fucked. I thought USA was the problem child.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 02:49 PM
2

Reasonable people dont blame 50% of the population soley because they were born a certain gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 02:49 PM
1

Id youre 1-2 , then yes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 02:48 PM
1

There have always been and always will be sick people. In a large group no damage can be 100% mitigated. But we have laws to get rid of people who do not follow societal norms. And it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:22 PM
1

Thats exactly whats been happening. Majority like their freedoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:20 PM
1

What exactly are they burning down? And not getting incarcerated?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:19 PM
1

Really think murderers and rapists will be gently released?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:18 PM
1

Doing evil because women don’t want you isn’t really a good reasoning, is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:17 PM
1

But people don’t have uniformed understanding of what’s moral and what’s not. They won’t agree to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 09:19 PM
1

Looks like being a feminist is a good thing now
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 09:18 PM
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You are personally free to do this. Wouldn’t work on a larger scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 08:22 PM
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Nobody is blaming all men bruv
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 08:22 PM
1

But I thought feminism was ruining everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 08:21 PM
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Sincerely doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 08:21 PM
1

Yes but a confident 4 is a 6.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 08:21 PM
0

Yes but a confident 4 is a 6.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 08:21 PM
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Lol, this!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 07:17 PM
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Actually no. I’ve seen confident short men with taller women even. This just takes next level confidence and charisma to pull. Most men would still feel uncomfortable with a taller woman but there was this one short dude who had a tall gf, really pretty. And he said “I kinda look like a badass gangster next to her”.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 07:11 PM
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You seem to have made it your whole personality even. Date men then or don’t date at all. Whatever suits u best
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 07:00 PM
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Yeah most men still say “she was a psycho” not “I misjudged the situation”. Women also say “I had just broken up from a relationship and this is why I had a misjudgment”. Acting like 100% of one gender acknowledges their missteps and the other doesn’t is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 06:59 PM
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Wrong. Men aknowledge the problems they see and women the problem they see. Society depends. Some societies are dealing with banning contraception for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 06:57 PM
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And that one in a million person locked up for good and life goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 06:55 PM
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And the same goes for “women only want men who…” about 50% of the population. People love to exaggerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:33 PM
1

Thank you ! In the real world, yes. But in PPD its desprate and angry men who want to vent.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:31 PM
0

Strong doubt. Wishful thinking. How is feminism then a thing when this works? Then feminism is cancelled? Feminists would never stand disrespect.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:28 PM
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I believe most women feel the same with men. Its all about compatibility. There are A LOT of disgusting people in both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:22 PM
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And then the child will be incarcerated to keep sane people safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:21 PM
1

How would You possibly heavily punish morally wrong actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:16 PM
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Morality structure? Like the church? They dont work. People will still be dumb and do dumb shit. And everyone has to adapt. You will never convince men to not sleep around and not to use prostitutes. Which would be morally right. People will still be people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:03 PM
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Ask a specialist about lovebombing. Its a real behaviour. And I disagree. At least manipulation and lovebombing are real things. “Blinded by pussy” is just “I was thirsty”. By the sex that is supposed to be more rational and more in control of themselves. I see faults in both, not just one sex, when they choose wrong. Perhaps You should do some inner work to see where your double-standards come from.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 08:07 AM
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If You are looking for a life partner it is not “failing”. It is simply a mismatch and you werent compatible anyway so why be frustrated. If your goal is to fuck as many women as possible then yes, it is a failed operation. It depends on your attitude towards it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 07:03 AM
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So “I was blinded by pussy” is not shifting the blame just as “he was manipulating me”? Most of these people try to have excuses to avoid responsibility in these situations. Its not a sex thing. Also, in both of these situations the manipulation most likely existed. And lovebombing is a very real thing manipulative men and women do to get your attention. Neither sex is better in this. But it is funny that those arguments are both evading accountability but You only see the womens argument as tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 07:01 AM
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Yeah. Any theraphist would see the underlying narcissism a mile away.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 06:56 AM
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Incredibly narcissistic view that everyone should try to motivate men and think about them. People have their own problems. There have always been lonely men. Its not so doom and gloomy. 90% of men are doing fine. In addition : there are far greater social problems than a few men not getting laid. Like racism, cost of living, children being massacared at schools.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 06:37 AM
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Sex is not an social incentive game. Its everyones very personal thing. Nobody I going to fuck anyone because its good for the society. Incentive to work and participate in society is food and nice things. Motivating yourself is everyones personal problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 03:54 PM
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Responsibility for…choosing who we would like to mate with? Okay? Luckily If we choose wrong we are the ones who suffer most. Women know that. This is why most of us try to choose carefully (unlike most men who throw themselves at anything). Yeah and then there are a bunch of red flag women who go for red flag men. So what? Let them. Free country. But to blame all women for lonely men because there are red flag women. Its a ridiculous argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 03:14 PM
1

Exactly. Its random complaining about nature created.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 03:08 PM
3

Same. Overly confident men talk too much. Major turnoff.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 03:05 PM
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It does work. People who are confident carry themselves differently and are easier to talk to. Its harder to offend them/hurt their ego when they are content within themselves. The thing is that most of these chronically single men are socially inept or socially anxious. And refuse to get professional help for these issues and rather blame women for wanting “bad men” who are simply confident. Its easier to say “I should be getting as many women as those confident men” than actually deal with you…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 03:04 PM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:58 PM
2

Yeah. But this whole frustration comes when you are not a nice guy. Because you say being nice = you owe me sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:57 PM
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Ooof this ! “average” woman probably looks like an Instagram model or a porn actress. Newsflash : average woman is most likely a tad overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:54 PM
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Yeah and many stupid men will date an obviously psycho woman and then complain about her. Whats your point? Literally all men I see married around me are decent and heartfelt guys who genuinely care about their wives. This claim that “good guys” are overlooked is just an excuse for those “good guys” who btw arent good guys. They are “Nice guys”. Which means they are nice to women as long as they are hoping to fuck them. Which is not a good guy btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:52 PM
7

The “power” you speak of is generated because of how men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:43 PM
3

I kind of think men commit when they are ready to commit themselves. Very viable options might come and go but If he is simply not ready it wont matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 08:18 PM
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Most likely, yes. Too many better looking men there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:45 PM
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I would say this dude might be a 5, he doesnt seem very tall either : https://www.reddit.com/r/Rateme/comments/14nd5wx/rate_me_31m/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:54 PM
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Hard to say. I guess it varies between who is judging. But someone not overweight. Not ugly by any standards but also not noticably handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:51 PM
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Most women are likely looking in a certain range of attractiveness. Say 5-8. Then in this range the personality matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:15 PM
0

Yeah and there are also fat men who refuse to date fat women. There are looneys everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:50 PM
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Looks matter. Personality matters. Your employment matters. Everything matters when youre looking for a life partner. As it should. But the main thing is compatibility. All of the above matching the other sides all of the above.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:38 PM
1

I mean, any relationship is transactional in its core. Both parties are in it to better their life, not the other way around. Even if the transaction is emotional safety or good company, its still a transaction. Nobody in their right mind would be in a relationship that worsens their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:59 AM
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Not where im from. Here women usually date down. Women are more beautiful in eastern europe perhaps but still. Generalizations ruin any argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 07:45 PM
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No, the “men only want one thing” is not about this topic. It is perhaps, yes, that every time a woman goes out with a man “out of her league” she quickly realizes that thats all he wants and has to end it. But she wont sleep with him in this case, would she. Seems like two different topics.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 07:34 PM
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Not sure. A lot of autistic girls are very lively and excitable. They just know somehow instinctively that they have to hold eye contact and the count to three and look away and then count to three and look back and shit like that to try and look normal even though eye contact makes them uneasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 07:32 PM
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Or maybe she just wants ONS-s. I rarely see women complain about this. Usually it is clear what the mens intentions are , unless they are lying and manipulating. And if a woman still chooses to continue she is okay with No-commitment type of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 07:16 PM
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Maybe. But “up” and “down” are still subjective for each person. And this kinda makes this argument fail. Some very unattractive guys also bump and dump because they think they are attractive. Even though they are on their own league.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 07:05 PM
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Well women learn to mask from a very young aga because they are socially more aware that they are different and so they develop coping skills to try and “act normal”. Boys with autism have a harder time with doing that. Social awareness. Social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 07:04 PM
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The 7-4 is also false and everything boils down to the personal preference. A 10 guy who talks too much is a no for me. So all of this rating 1-10 is subjective every time. A guy who seems absolutely horrid to me is the best in the world for another women and its scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 06:07 PM
2

Somewhere where there is a social gathering. Never anywhere she might be alone (store, library, public transport)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 06:03 PM
5

But in tinder all they have is pictures and maybe a sentence. How can they judge personality in that situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 06:01 PM
0

This makes alot of sense. Its the confidence most likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 06:00 PM
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Actually it has been proven women tend to have an easier time learning social skills from early on. This is also the reason why a lot of autistic women dont get diagnosed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 05:59 PM
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I admire mens minimalism. It seems women have all kinds of useless stuff lying around (like decorative pillows) but when a man is living alone he has the necessities and is totally content. Their minimalism. Id like to have less stuff and be content.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 07:43 AM
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I would agree. But most men I see picked up by women and loved and thought of as “the one” I would never go for. As a woman. So yeah, 80% of men are unattractive to me but they arent the same 80% that other women find unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 06:42 PM
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https://ncadv.org/STATISTICS#:~:text=1%20in%203%20women%20and,be%20considered%20%22domestic%20violence.%22&text=1%20in%207%20women%20and,injured%20by%20an%20intimate%20partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 05:34 PM
1

Well then we agree that men are more violent by nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 05:30 PM
3

I dont doubt that at all
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 08:49 PM
7

Exactly. Sometimes marriage can be worse than poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:52 PM
13

I mean…men ask a woman to sacrifice HER career instead, for children. And then get abusive. Ofcourse women get the worse hit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:46 PM
1

Pussy isnt on the market. Pussy is the market. You can try to haggle but beggars cant be choosers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 11:00 AM
1

Jesus christ. Well if 80% of violent crimes are committed by men then it makes sense the society is telling men to do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 10:58 AM
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Do you have an actual argument against mine? Assumptions about people on the internet arent arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 10:57 AM
1

For me it suited well. They adore them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 07:45 PM
1

Communicating your problems should not start a fight. Defo some couples theraphy needed. Or a new wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 07:44 PM
1

And I doubt they have the mental health support in prisons specialized to help those men. And they are stuck there with their abusers. Absolute shitshow.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 03:35 PM
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That is usually the dillemma for women and men alike. Especially when its been a long relationship and you perhaps already have children. Easy to talk about but you have to love yourself more and move through that. Its not going to be easy, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 03:33 PM
2

Exactly. That’s why they are mad. That was my whole point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 03:31 PM
1

For me that means they are treated as queens. They are the one and only for the man and the love shows. I don’t really care what the current online terminology is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 12:03 PM
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No. Just as women who are loved. If you think that is entitlement then you might need to look deep into your heart and try and see if you are capable of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 12:02 PM
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You gotta tell your wife “do better” if you want. Not the damn society.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 12:01 PM
1

They aren’t stay at home dads, they have well-paying jobs and savings. Yes they would.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 12:01 PM
1

Yeah toxic masculinity at its finest.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 11:59 AM
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These things can be all resolved in court. Unless the man has been abusive or has addiction, a 50% custody is pretty much a given. About the money, always get a prenup.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 11:59 AM
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I’m not sure you read those studies right, I cannot find a reference to victims of rape in 50% cases being men. What I do see is that in 80-90% of rape cases the perpetrator is a man. About domestic abuse, it is very likely that men tend to want to endure the situation and feel weak asking for help. This should be changed in a societal level. This is the toxic masculinity spreading that men should be the alphas all the time and just endure things. No they shouldn’t. Also, very sorry this happene…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 11:55 AM
1

Thank you for a very in depth answer. I agree with everything a 100%. And also very sorry this happened to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 11:49 AM
1

I’m 28 and they are +-5 years…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 11:48 AM
1

Sure. Women have no expectations set on by society to have no bodily hair, be skinny, have children because otherwise you’re selfish. Work so you wouldn’t have to rely on a man but also be a good mom etc. etc. Just because you don’t see them doesn’t mean they don’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 11:48 AM
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The argument “I can’t fuck you so I won’t gaslight you” was enough. I’m not even gonna read the rest. You are one of the ones women need to avoid in any situation. And they most likely do. So you don’t probably know what you’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 11:46 AM
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Nobody has to put up with anything in a free country. You choose your partner. Women have more choices, yes. If that’s the problem then the previous problem about women wanting a leader and provider doesn’t really matter does it? Women can choose what they like in any case. Some men are just disappointed that they can and aren’t forced to put up with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 11:44 AM
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They seem happy. Not that this means that they are but some people love to take care of other people. My point is that women do marry this kind of people. Most prefer a man that actively takes care of them. Not the ones who are abusive. This was the main argument here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 11:42 AM
1

So you cannot communicate your problems because they seem to minuscule? I don’t understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 11:40 AM
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No. Like they actually care. And its beautiful to see. Sometimes even the most simple things like asking are you cold or would you like some water. Its just their whole attitude towards their wives that is just beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:43 PM
10

In any case. It the dynamics are off you should communicate your needs as well as possible. If this persists, find a new wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:41 PM
14

As far as Ive seen, perfect matches. And both happy. And I mean…wouldnt the men leave if the women were abusive in any way? Being an adult an all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:36 PM
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Men are just as free to do as they like. If you dont like a dynamic you have in your relationship, communicate your needs. If that doesnt work, find someone suitable. Its really simple. And a made up problem. You can also be a submissive Golden retriever boyfriend who has a boss bitch gf. Just to mention one very popular dynamic. I
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:25 PM
2

As a woman who had to work for literally every single thing I have…you are clueless on how the world works. Also im a software engineer and im better than the men i work with. Every claim you make is wishful thinking to give you some importance over women since you were born as a man. So you wouldnt have to face the fact that women are equal (or better even) and in most high-level areas have to work twice as hard to be noticed as “good”.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:26 PM
3

Its much more likely for a politician to fall into a scandal because of a younger woman. Or paedophilia. Or any other sexual weirdness. So yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:22 PM
2

And the countries that still dont let women go to school care more equally?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:21 PM
2

Oof mommys boys. Had one of those. He was also in his 20-s and no gf. His father wad homophobic so was really scared and said he would write the house to his name If he brings home a gf. All in all, great guy, but didnt wanna move out or grow up. And the initial “Oh wow you have a gf I love her” settles down and the family gets toxic after two years or so. And he always sides with his family and doesnt protect you (still a boy) so you break up with him and leave. Trauma dump I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:17 PM
30

All the men I see married around me treat their women like they are queens though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:06 PM
2

Thank you for explaining why the men say this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:04 PM
2

And men usually want to be the leader so wheres the problemv
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:13 PM
2

Youre just currently talking about something completely different.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:03 PM
3

Peer pressure from women making You an unfit romantic partner? Did you even get the original comment or are you just fuming in the dark here?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 09:13 PM
1

Well we cannot say theres a defecit if we havent tried that service.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 09:04 PM
0

Maybe. Maybe not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 08:33 PM
2

If you can get one for tonight, it means there really isnt a defecit there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 08:33 PM
2

Ive seen the state-appointed wife argument. Minority, though, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:41 PM
7

Prostitution is legal in a lot ot places actually. I think society is adjusting. Women arent collectively stomping anything. They are also adjusting to the new dating and social media thing. Blaming women for how the social media has shaped the society is barking at the wrong tree.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:40 PM
1

You need to add /s for sarcasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:36 PM
2

Why not just get a sex-worker then. Would probably cost the same as a full-time sex worker in your house anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:35 PM
6

Shhh. You forget some men are never responsible for who they are and what they do. Its someone else making them do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:34 PM
6

Thats just what dying patriarchy feels like I imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:33 PM
1

Yeah I think the whole idea of marriage was invented for that. Worked for a while I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:29 PM
2

There have always been narcissistic psychopaths who blame everyone else for their miseries. Their mental issues have nothing to do with how women think but rather the healthcare system in place to fix them or incarcetate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 10:50 AM
1

But why do I need to work hard when men in 60s could enslave women by being the sole provider..And my mom said im perfect. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:53 PM
0

The reality is, everyone has enough problems for their own. And the world is cold and terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:52 PM
1

Youd rather not get a single like and not get rejected on social media?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:50 PM
3

Luckily, italians tend to be social
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:49 PM
1

False
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 10:05 PM
-1

Ive seen those dudes btw. Some men just as toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 10:01 PM
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Dude maybe watch less porn. Im easter european.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 10:00 PM
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She do be kinda killin it doe
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 10:04 PM
1

But mens and womens BMI is the same in america so men are the same. Which makes them still average. So they are above average by american standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 10:01 PM
1

Is it an african or an european swallow lol. I havent seen american so I will say european.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:57 PM
1

Newsflash : women dont look like Instagram models and porn stars. Edit : i said not below average 4-6
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:34 PM
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I actually fully support sex-work as an alternative. Seen very few women who dont. Some might since women are individuals but generally theres really nothing wrong with that. But the thing is men tend to have that all virgin woman thing going on. Also I can assure you no woman is thinking about the street value of pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:31 PM
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Yup. Instead we tend to blame women for how the society is changing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:30 PM
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Umm. People on this sub literally blame woke for not being drafted even though the laws were set by men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:28 PM
7

Marry the men then Idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:24 PM
4

You keep seeing red cars when you keep thinking about one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:23 PM
11

We enjoy the drama tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:19 PM
1

Considering how many men here complain about womens standards Id say no the f they arent 😅. Also most of those women are actually kinda good-looking. If you think that is below average then we know your problem 😀
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:16 PM
2

Don’t tempt me with good time lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:13 PM
5

Well men on PPD do be.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:12 PM
2

Thank you for your insightful post!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:11 PM
2

Luckily only the redpill ones. I naively believe most guys are cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:09 PM
9

Nope the dude should say : “Oh she is probably a stuck up bitch being ran through by chads.” Then this would be all 100% correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:07 PM
1

Maybe If they can get what they want then that is their league. Otherwise this wouldnt work, would it? Otherwise they would have to wind down to get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:04 PM
32

Not to mention the millions of rape cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:59 PM
21

Men expect to get women on “their level” but their level is the women they can get. So if you cant get someone “on your level or lower” perhaps look over “my level” parameter.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:59 PM
0

Haha like a woman has ever said that someone’s opinions worth is based on virginity. Id like to see that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:56 PM
1

The thing is, You really see more extraverts since they tend to do more and go to more places. This might make it seems there are more extraverts. Also extraverts stand out more, since they are louder.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 09:03 AM
1

America has 350million people still. Its just splitting the hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 07:10 AM
2

Yeah I suppose most men arent bodybuilders 😀
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 07:50 PM
1

Well then you would know who is more likely to be unmatched by you anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 07:36 PM
1

Some women have large breasts but arent necessarily overweight, even if BMI says so.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 07:35 PM
1

Yeah I didnt say that. I just had this vision that theres more women who are obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 07:34 PM
1

If a man in demand swipes right, he is most likely already willing to chat. Otherwise whats the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:15 PM
1

If the numbers are high its a red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 11:40 AM
2

Id also like to see how many have unmatched them or reported them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 06:21 PM
0

Where in my comment did I say fat men shouldnt be attracted to fit women. Im was saying its surprising to hear the “women of USA are obese” talk here and to find out that the BMIs are actually the same for both genders. I dont live in USA so from these comments I was kinda sure that the women were fat there. I was just surprised when I googled it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 04:37 PM
1

I mean its weird when cats act like dogs as well…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:24 PM
4

What if im a woman and I dont want to marry?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:21 PM
6

There are only 19 countries that have a higher BMI than USA and none of them are in europe for example. The BMI of men and women in USA is the same so there are just as many fat men as women. So I dont get the “land whales” cries by men here. It does seem that the lowest BMIs tend to be asian countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 09:26 AM
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Yes. I have an ex bf who was very handsome but kind of reserved. The way some women hit on him was even abusive. For creepy women it is very difficult to understand that their attention is unwanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:12 PM
1

You do realize countries go bankrupt and wars cause huge recessions because of wars. Wars cost a lot of money. And even if your assumption was correct - which it is not - that somehow wars bring in money - that is a benefit for the whole country, not just women. Rich men wage wars, the poor people pay for their lives or their sons lives. Ans somehow your deluded world view blamed women 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:46 PM
1

How did women benefit from their sons and husbands and the healthiest men of the society dying? There were literal riots by women against their sons and husbands being sent to the grinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:16 PM
2

Didnt say argumentative. Having a drive and passion for something doesnt make them argumentative. Maybe it takes some “power” away from the man and that feels argumentative since yall are equal now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:52 PM
1

Good explanation. I prefer people with depth and a personality more interesting than a lamp pole 😀.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:45 PM
1

Why are You talking about a completely different thing? We are talking about 20th century wars. Waged by men. Men drafted and brainwashed by men to die. And You claimed it was womens fault? Stop talking about some other shit randomly and answer my question. How was that womens fault when they had no say in it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:44 PM
1

Yeah. Because of the choices of men…How are the women to blame now?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:36 PM
1

Good for You. Can you elaborate Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:35 PM
1

Im talking about 60 years ago still. When wars were waged and women had no say in it. Men did it. Women lost sons and husbands because of it. If men have 99,9 % of the power in the 1920-1940 then how are women to blame?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 01:18 PM
0

Yeah. Brainwashed by other men who ruled the country. Women had rights to be treated as property, yes. This post is about the fact that women dont have it easier than men necessarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 11:10 AM
0

Yeah and men WANTED to go to war. They killed themselves when they were denied service. Occasional wars are also created by men. Women endured the abuse constantly. Not just during wars. This isnt victim olympics. We are talking about safety of women now. Not about who suffers more, cmon. Way to miss the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:45 AM
0

Im not talking medieval times bro. Just 60 years ago or so
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 08:57 PM
1

You said anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 08:56 PM
2

Never said that. Just said women were less safe since they had less rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 08:06 PM
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Attention from paedophiles is better than none? You are making 0 sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 07:41 PM
2

Thats far fetched. Women have been abused in the past way often and they couldnt leave. Now its just the strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 07:41 PM
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It kinda does though. Perhaps not the money part but what it says about the person in general. About their ambition and drive. And perhaps that they are passionate about something. Its also a bonus that your gf/wife isnt a charity case 90% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 07:21 PM
1

How so
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 08:38 PM
1

So women do need motivation as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 05:30 PM
6

I agree. Women also have less of a risky behaviour. Perhaps something to do with testosterone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 06:49 AM
1

Believe me. We also need motivation. A lot of it. I work harder than most of my colleagues. And I work to make this life more tolerable and less like suffering. My sister is currently having a crisis with motivation for work. It’s hard to keep motivated when the salary is just enough to pay for housing and food.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 06:47 AM
1

Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 06:45 AM
0

Women also have libidos and sex drive. Women have less testosterone but its still there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 06:24 AM
1

Or good mothers?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 06:24 AM
-1

Maybe make a comment actually relevant to the post?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 08:02 PM
-1

Maybe discuss. As in a debate. Making weird guesses about the OP is not an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 07:54 PM
2

How so? Perhaps the father is working on that day?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 07:49 PM
2

Or maybe it’s the mom who takes the child there.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 07:22 PM
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I just swapped genders in what he said. If it offends you then his comment should as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 09:02 AM
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Im a woman and I dont believe it. If you have no proof then its not a fact or the truth. Just your delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 09:01 AM
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As a childless F28 I dont care as long as he is a good dad (defenitely no deadbeat dads). Usually they are more mature if they take parenting seriously. And I dont want children so I guess its even preferable that he has some before me and wont come asking me to push a human out💀.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 08:46 PM
1

Guess you are screwed then
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 08:33 PM
0

But we cant because one specific dude is not getting any and feels he should have it as easy as women do…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 08:31 PM
1

The argument is real, cause the brain and female body chemicals still consider it. That is why women are more picky. You think how the body Is built will change because now we have OF?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 04:05 PM
1

There is a way that is reversible and has no side-effects. The procedure takes 10-15 minutes…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 03:56 PM
4

Source? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 07:39 PM
4

It is common sense. Nature made women choose because women have to carry a child for 9 months. I dont think OPs accusations that women dont know that are valid. Maybe he wants us to be like : Oh im so sorry for you…?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 07:38 PM
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Like 2 people denied it in PPD and he wrote an article about it. We all know women have the upper hand cause nature made it so the female chooses. Wtf is he talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 07:36 PM
2

Non-toxic masculinity. Love that term. Im gonna use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:35 PM
1

And yes, mostly egalitarian. But I still like it when the man takes the lead. Decides that we go get groceries, drives the car etc. I see men as the ones who should lead the relationships but women choose the man they trust will lead well. There still have to be roles in a sexual relationship mainly because I like to sleep with a man and a man wants to sleep with a woman. Its hard to explain what i mean. But the point is that you cannot completely ignore our sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:26 PM
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Yeah, but thats how its always been. And how it is in nature. Men advertise and women choose. I understand it is tough but I dont think whining on the internet will help either. And even if you try to make suggestions like “work on your mental and physical health”. It always seems like the answer is “but women dont have to work that hard”. I mean…yeah…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:22 PM
2

I always pay for myself, since I am a working adult. Every woman i know does. Seems like an american cultural issue for me. I mean the basic respect for women and men as human beings should be the same. Neither sex should be hitting/abusing eachother. Both should be working or one of them should be taking care of the kids, if financially possible. But to expect the dating scene to be equal when womens and mens sexualities are so categoriclly different is ridiculous to me. Of course women have it…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:05 PM
0

Im a woman and I believe women still have to be women and men need to be men. Complete equality is impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 07:48 PM
3

Are You insinuating that women arent capable of love or rational thinking?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 06:39 PM
1

Good luck with that 😀.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 06:57 AM
2

And where do you have the stats for that? Sounds made up to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 08:00 PM
-1

You mentioned all women though. Not just feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 07:34 PM
1

Yeah. Thats why we wait until we are sure about his feelings and have no doubts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 06:46 PM
1

When you consider a life partner then you take everything into account. Is the general whole that matters. Most aspects important to you have to be more or less decent.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 06:28 PM
2

And biology says women run the dating game. Why are you guys getting toxic about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 05:18 PM
1

The red pill : Men doing anything to undermine womens standards, preferences, boundaries in order to bolster their own. Once you realize that its just a bunch of 0 emotional intelligence fuckbois and red flags organized.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 05:17 PM
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Im 28 and I prefer to be left alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 03:08 PM
1

Being better today than you were tomorrow is kinda what should be everyones goal. Not just in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 03:03 PM
2

Having sex with a man i have an emotional connection to is way better. Casual sex is just cheat and might as well just do it myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:57 AM
1

Also he broke a marriage contract by cheating. Thats why she should get more.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:50 AM
1

I believe he gave her billions for his cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:49 AM
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Nobody said it would be easy. A relationship with a woman will not be easy either. Anything worth having will not come easy. Also I didnt say stop rubbing it out. Its just the porn part that is toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:45 AM
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Why would anyone want someone who would want anyone. Women want you to want them because of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:43 AM
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I meant to single men generally. You said women’s advice is ambiguous. Here. For someone to read. Not for u personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 09:45 PM
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Want some real advice from a woman? Stop watching porn - it ruins your mental and is an illusion. Grow a spine - Take responsibility for your life. Find who you are, what you are passionate about - start feeling confident in who you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 05:40 PM
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It’s not like they want advice. Stop watching porn. Get some exercise to improve your mental. You think they would do that or rather whine that it’s women’s fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 05:37 PM
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You still shouldn’t bother women. There are women who are interested in you but perhaps porn has made your taste in women unrealistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 05:35 PM
1

Kinda sounds like a mental illness tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 05:25 PM
2

Yeah. Mens sexuality is way weirder I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 05:24 PM
1

Ah thanks. Misread it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 05:23 PM
1

Ah thanks. Misread it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 05:23 PM
5

This. Being used and abused because of their disability is not “having it easier”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 08:39 AM
1

But nobody is giving them a loyal house servant for working 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:15 PM
3

You literally described opression in your post OP…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:13 PM
0

Kinda actually wrote a harsh truth ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:12 PM
1

You should see my anti-social autistic bf then 😀. I like the fact that he is honest and doesnt talk alot. I trust him. I could never trust a man who talks a lot tbh. But his wide shoulders are the icing on the cake. About the topic tho : I want a low body count woman who isnt overweight and has no children. Sounds like the table thing does it not? Ofcourse i am not crazy enough to claim all men are like that cause they arent.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:07 PM
4

Men literally pay to watch fat women eat. Or fetishize cartoon characters. How do men do less of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:03 PM
2

You gonna fight nature now? 😀
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 07:32 PM
1

So whats the difference ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 02:46 PM
1

I dont see marriage as proof of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 12:01 PM
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