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PURGE WEEKSillyMushroomTip/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:41 PM
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I remember being a hopeful young man in my late teens, believing in love and thinking it was something real, something to build a life around. Back in the early 2000s, I watched the rise of PUA culture before online dating really took hold. I was there for the online dating boom in 2012 and the Red Pill resurgence of 2019. I even saw the so-called “Great Awakening” in 2020. But now, five years later, it feels like there’s nothing left to believe in. This perspective doesn’t come from bitterness …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 09:43 AM
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Literally this practice needs to stop. It's fucking cruelty and mutilation on a baby
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 09:23 AM
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It was like the that thing a few years ago about sex bots and how women were in full rage mode over it. Or even in the 90s and early 2000s even you were a man and even talked about masterbating you would get shamed for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:56 AM
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People bitch moan and groan everyday. Most of the stats that people post hold no merit because 90 percent of them are surveys and not set in stone. We are all replaceable and everyday walk closer to our lives ending. Do with what you got and make the most of it. Edit: Only responding to the title because I'm lazy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 08:45 PM
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He's out of touch with how rapid the sexual marketplace has shifted and changed the last 20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:11 PM
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Red pill has been hijacked by trad cons that are desperate to hold on to whatever traditional values remain. We live in clown world now
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:48 PM
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If you think life is easier without men, that’s your choice. But don’t forget men are the ones building the roads, fixing the power, defending the country, and taking risks so others can feel safe. If you only see men as a burden maybe you’ve never looked past your own comfort
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 11:24 AM
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This is such a tired narrative. Every time, women acting like basic adulthood is some impossible burden. Being an adult is hard. Men have been dealing with that reality forever, without sympathy, without excuses. You talk about women having to work, raise kids, keep a household, and stay fit as if men don’t have to grind full-time, carry the financial load, protect, provide, maintain confidence, emotional stability, and constantly improve — or else we’re discarded and replaced.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 11:09 AM
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Your boyfriend is a loser for taking it to literal. Plus if he watches Andrew Tate then he needs to talk to someone because that's the biggest grifting piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:49 PM
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At the end of the day, it all comes down to body count and emotional baggage. A jaded man in his 30s, even if he hasnt had alot of dating opportunities, still has the capacity to fall in love. Women in their 30s who are jaded, however, are a different story. They've been through countless men, had guys finish inside them, and had their hearts broken over and over. Every heartbreak chips away at their ability to pair bond. The more times someone’s been through it, the more dead inside they become…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:32 PM
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My girlfriend’s sister is significantly overweight and has a pretty basic personality. She got divorced about two years ago. What’s wild is the sheer number of dates she goes on. She has guys buying her gifts, taking her on vacations, and others she meets up with just to hook up. Her current boyfriend just spent around $1,500 on a brake job for her car and even bought her a PS5, they been only dating like 3 months. I don’t have direct proof, but I’ve sat with them and listened as she openly talk…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 11:00 AM
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Traditional values have faded into obscurity, and marriage has become a relic of the past—an institution where commitment is fleeting and easily discarded. I dont want a traditional woman, but a modern one who embraces progress yet stands equally accountable, held to the same standards of responsibility as men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:01 AM
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Men prefer women that like them back
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:42 AM
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Sounds super expensive imo
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 06:25 PM
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They never read the side bar they just take sound bites the read and run with it. Like you said about when they hit their 30s they are usually bitter and jaded from being on the carousel.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 08:57 PM
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I get triggered with titles like this because people been saying things like since I was teen in the early 2000s. When I was 18 and graduated (a year before Tinder released) I spent time reading PUA books, watch YouTube videos how to date and authentically talked with women in my life what women want in a Man. I still got rejected most of the time even when I was at my best. Women don't understand the volume of rejection Men have to deal with just to get a chance to have a scrap of experience. G…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 07:36 PM
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The manosphere isn't some Trojan horse that led Trump to victory. I voted for Trump and not ashamed of it. I didn't vote for him because "dur hur I'm rEd PiLL"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 07:12 PM
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Because Women are repulsed by firm statements on Men's dating profiles. If you say your looking for hookups then your a pig, if you looking for short term than your not serious enough, and if you put your looking for a relationship your too serious. There is never any win unless your ambiguous
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 10:25 PM
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The dating game is just a dumpster fire right now. Back in the 2000s at least if you got a girls number there at least felt like you had a chance dating, today the sheer volume of rejection guys go through is viscerally defeating. And yet Men still get get fed absolute garbage like "tHe RiGhT OnE wiLL Com3 AloNg!" And "Just keep trying!" But fat Becky on Bumble got a line of guys willing to take her on dates, buy her stuff, and hookup.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 02:00 PM
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Quite frankly I know myself too well. I make women wait for sex because I'm an anxious person and I need like 4-6 weeks just get somewhat comfortable. I wish I wasn't but w.e
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 08:44 PM
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No it's not lol, front page reddit and it's mainstream subs are heavily pro women. They go out their way to ban anyone and subs that even utters words that questions the female narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 11:30 AM
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I got cheated on by all my long term relationship (4 in total lasting over 2+ years each) honestly got tired of getting my heart broke and played around with. Looked into the red pill community and it was a eureka moment. Love is a lie and society keeps Men in the dark
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 12:15 PM
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The real answer of the male existence
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 10:56 PM
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I would be upset and question our relationship. If I knew she had a kid with another man I wouldn't of married her in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 11:51 AM
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Brother preach. The lack of any patience or understanding in the bedroom goes out the window if your man
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:32 PM
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"Not a problem if your good in bed" Where can Men get the experience without constant rejection. That's the issue
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 08:38 PM
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As long as she not overweight and kind I'm down any day of the week
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 06:50 PM
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I've seen more divorces than I've seen happy marriages. In my own personal experience I won't consider marriage because of how many breakups I went through the last 12 years. I hate the feeling emotionally/mentally compromised because of heartache.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:15 AM
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Men should use sex workers as a option not as a total substitute, when I was in that lifestyle I would see a chick once maybe twice a month. However I paid nowhere near your pricing because the girls in my area charge by 15min/30min/1hour intervals. Paying $800 dollars is usually for a full hour session and they have a location to link up at. But this notion that average guys are trying to replicate an entire sex life with sex workers is just not true because they couldnt afford it. That's why O…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 11:22 PM
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Out of anything it should be just decriminalized across all states
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 10:16 AM
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"Luck is what happens when preparation meets opportunity" - Seneca
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 07:53 PM
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What a bait question lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:44 PM
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The average guy just wants an opportunity to date and women even into there 30s/40s got dudes lined up for easy sex on online dating Dated enough 30s/40s year olds when I was in my 20s and most of the time with these chicks is that they are just coping by looking for attention because they aint getting it from there baby daddy or ExHusband anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:46 AM
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The one that hurts the most is my first love in highschool. To keep it brief; she psychologically manipulated and emotionally destroyed me for 2 years straight. I just didn't have enough experience with women to comprehend what she was doing to me, at the time I thought I loved her and she loved me. However the sheer amount of mental anguish I went through was so intense because of her. What hurts the most is that she toyed with me for her amusement and reveled in making me suffer, it took me 2-…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:39 PM
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We are Humans with endless potential to be cruel and heinous towards each other
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 01:54 PM
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If Men want to go overseas to find a traditional woman than whats the big deal? Your calling guys these guys losers; yet Women out here in the west are fat and fucking randoms off Tinder and wondering why they don't want to wife up a whore. However PPBros think that going overseas is the perfect solution but its only a temporary fix. Eventually women from those countries will be exactly what they are here in the west. Its only a matter of time
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 01:00 PM
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Circumcisions should be banned, its mutilation to an infant that can not speak on its behalf. I am circumcised but when I hear people getting their sons snipped it pisses me right off because if baby girls had something similar they would outlaw it the next day. Are there conditions related to foreskins yes but the stigma that "boys have poor hygiene" is honestly appalling
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:59 PM
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I wanted kids and marriage when I was younger in my late teens (circa 2007) to early twenties, now that Im in my 30s Im not interested in either. Mostly because of the nonstop horror stories I hear with bitter baby mamas or ex wifes but mostly because my heart has been broken more than once. We are nothing more than sand in the hour glass
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 07:55 PM
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Chicks can complain about TRP all they want but they are same ones that are rewarding Chad and laughing at average billy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 07:43 PM
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Its over and thats okay. The rabbit is out of the hat now we can't go back
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 07:20 PM
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"Stop trying to shift the blame for your own issues and do something about it" How are most young men suppose to learn and "do something about it" when they aren't even getting opportunity in the first place compared to Becky? Yeah you can put yourself in more advantageous social settings but you still got compete against other Men because "hoeflation" You can be silver tongued but that isn't enough about true aesthetic attractiveness. However how are parents suppose to give advice when they hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 01:09 PM
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The one thing now that I realized when I first got RP'd is that the system hates when Men think for themselves and start vocalizing their struggles with each other. Women out here divorce raping husbands, baby trapping, and going on tinder hoe phases, while simultaneously saying to Men "I'm not like that!"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:29 AM
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Women don't like younger Men unless they are super attractive, thats just how it is. Even so when I dated older women in my 20s they had baggage from previous partners that I could not remedy as much as I tried to be their rock. At the end of the day "hurt people, hurt other people" that what it is in the dating scene in 2024 Thats why I said "love is for the young" because its the only time in our lives where the feelings are the most intense and where a foundation of long term commitment can c…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 06:29 PM
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Love is for the young. As you get older and the more partners you have you start deciphering the games people play, you start seeing the harsh reality of it all. It hard not to be jaded by that. Now that I'm in my 30s I just don't have the same eagerness or capacity to love a woman whole heartedly like I did when I was younger. As much as I admire and desire the feminine beauty all I see is deception.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:16 PM
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Being physically attractive is king
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:06 PM
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This nonsense has been pushed since I was a teenager in 2000s. "Be in touch with your emotions" "treat her like friend" "just be confident" "just be yourself" "treat her like a person" All I got out of that was more confusion, mental frustration, and self defeat because no matter how much I internalized and self reflected I wasnt being successful with women. Women simply do not like Men that are weak, overtly honest, and too much a good guy. Treat her like a celebrity she will treat you like a f…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 09:18 PM
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The italics are 100% accurate. The rest is extreme black pill. Since TRP hit the mainstream in 2020 its been hijacked by grifters, puas, and tradcons. The younger guy finding out about TRP now are struggling with dating worst than when I was in highschool in 2011. Women out here playing victim but simultaneously being ruthless with their behavior. Its all downhill Men should be striving to improve for themselves, make bonds with other men, and realize that life isnt all about pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 03:38 PM
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The Red Pill has been hijacked by pua/tradcons/grifters. Women RPers are out here trying to sell themselves back to traditionalism but are fundamentally still modern, I think this is where alot of the confusion is coming from. The Rational Male is probably the gold standard for TRP or TRP sidebar if it hasnt been perverted yet if your trying to brush up on stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 05:16 PM
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Got punched in the face by ex girlfriend because I wouldnt have sex with her and another time I had a girl insult me through text because I was pussy for not wanting sex on the third date.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 10:10 AM
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TRP has always just been a guide. It takes in field experience to gauge what is real and what is not. I would argue most of it is true but there are gray areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 09:52 AM
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My girl is tall and has a thick frame, to cut to the chase I'm ultimately not entirely sexually attracted to her. She treats me good and thats more important to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 05:13 PM
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If a woman I'm intimately involved with confides in me about her past traumatic experiences than I will 100% respect her story and will be more likely to believe her. I had a girl in highschool that I was close with tell me extremely disturbing details about her rape and it was too descriptive not to believe. However in general the women that openly vocalize publicly about being raped or having partners that were abusive, I'm extremely skeptical. In my opinion its a way to socially position them…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 01:31 PM
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From my perspective is that TRP still holds some merit in terms of sexual strategy but the PUA/Tradcon grifters totally hijacked it in 2020. We have reached the point in the last 4 years that the dating dynamics between the sexes are totally polarized. The rabbit is out of the hat and there is no way putting it back. Really the Pills are a meme now, no different than the wojack meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:22 PM
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Who cares
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:07 AM
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Poetry
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:47 PM
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Stfu grammar nazi, know your place
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:55 PM
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30s is your not old but your deff not young either. Regardless if your a man or woman
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:02 PM
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Cheating is an immediate breakup. Women are absolutely repulsed by men that take them back because "she's changed"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:22 PM
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Plot twist, no one cares this much
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 07:51 PM
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Use to cold approach back in the early 2000s when PUA was big. Back then there was a chance if you asked for a girls number with a confident approach, then there was a good chance you could connect. Now 24 years later, you can't approach a woman without the potential being labeled a creep. Now it's a case if your not a certain looks threshold then your most likely going to fail. That's the hard truth now
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:48 PM
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I didn't say anything close to that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:08 PM
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Never met good women either. I mean you can only be supportive to an extent, can't control how the dating market is changing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:44 PM
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If I had a daughter I would be supportive and love her. But if she constantly complains about where all the good men gone, then I'm going to reality check her. Dating in your 30s is not the same in your 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 10:31 AM
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Women are masters of playing slight of hand
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 01:50 PM
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Personally I think this is a low effort propaganda piece for Men to consider marrying still
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 12:38 PM
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Truth is that Women chasing the best options they can
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:55 PM
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The trad cons and PUAs hijacked the the original TRP community back in 2019 Words like Alpha Male has became a meme now
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:59 PM
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Chick's on here will be "women are not like that!" All you have to be is a "nice, kind, and funny guy" But they literally be on tinder, hook up with a guy instantaneously, and then blame it on some astrology sign that it didn't work out between them. Women are goofy 24/7
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:40 PM
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Chivalry consistently proves that it holds zero value in modern dating climate
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 02:59 PM
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Women consistently prove how goofy they are
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:12 PM
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Enjoy the decline
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:17 AM
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It's all just catchy click bait for views No one cares. Men still going to struggle, Women still going to play both sides of the coin.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 01:34 PM
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Men don't want dating to be easy, we just wanted to be fair or at least feel like a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 01:27 PM
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I'm glad I'm not the only one seeing this, even criticizing actual scenarios involved with women equals immediate backlash. Ever since the ban apocalypse in 2019 people got amnesia
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 08:26 PM
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The author is a female and also a lawyer. In my opinion this is a fluff piece to keep the "you go girl" idea alive Women can't handle being alone
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 06:03 PM
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When men get experience with women there is a confidence that comes with it. Men have to learn how to talk to women, the games they play, and how to initiate sex. Women just have to show up and have tingles if she likes the guy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:30 PM
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It doesn't even matter, women's orgasms doesn't equate to stronger loyalty
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 10:51 PM
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Unless their hot
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 10:02 PM
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What a joke lol Watching the world burn in real time
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 04:38 PM
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Its not that "the red pill chooses you" its just you come to the red pill after getting clowned on for X amount times with women. Found TRP when I was 18 and thought it was misogynist and that girls value personality. Then when I hit 26 and after a series of relationships I started noticing patterns and found TRP and it just made immediate sense, like someone turned on a lightbulb in my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:13 PM
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It's so rare to find an actual male/female friendship. From my experience it just doesn't work out without it getting complicated
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 12:38 AM
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Men find it easier to c o p e
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 11:23 AM
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In the end we are all flawed
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:58 PM
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Is there a small minority that live solitary sure. The majority don't go monk because they can't handle being alone
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:38 PM
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Monk mode life and Women don't go together Your competing for her attention. Why should she give it to a average dude when Chad Thundercock gives her all the tingles
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 03:23 PM
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Marriage in general is a dumb decision
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 07:13 PM
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I agree. Still mgtow is the predominant anti marriage category not red pill in general. Red Pill still aims towards being sexually successful and overall improving with women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 07:01 PM
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Red Pill is not anti marriage, they still value committed relationships unless proven otherwise. But will still adapt to the current modern dating climate in terms of casual dating/hookups Anti marriage is mgtow principles
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 04:34 PM
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Women love moving the goal posts around because it benefits them to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:42 PM
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men actively selecting toxic women For the majority I disagree. There is very little choice and we just take what we can get and hope it turns out for the best
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:39 AM
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Good I hope this guy wins too because fuck that Facebook group
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 06:02 PM
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From 14-25 I use to be a guy that wanted to find "the one" and treat my girl like a princess. There was nothing more than I wanted to be in a committed relationship with someone I love and care about. All I got was shitted on, manipulated, or cheated on by girlfriends that always had another guy lined up on the back burner. Got tired of being a fucking loser and turned into a savage
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 10:25 AM
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If a girl is really into she will make everything easy for you. This advice is for Men to simply not waste their time because if she making things hard for you then that's what kinda relationship its going to be like with them Fuck playing games
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 01:48 PM
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I dont understand why all the hate for Men going overseas for Women. Western women wouldnt have to deal with competition if they just be kinder and not a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 08:19 AM
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I've been rejected because I was too nice all the way to being rejected because I couldn't get hard one time. If she really likes you she'll stick around
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:31 AM
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This has been my experience the last decade of dating
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:52 AM
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Obviously you can be red pill and not misogynistic, its not difficult. However once you start understanding how the game operates and start deciphering womenspeak, don't be shocked when you start naturally becoming more criticial
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 11:00 PM
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Plot twist: Men were suffering and lonely before TRP even got mainstream. TRP is only mainstream because most Men keep getting the shit end of the stick with dating/relationships. Traditional way of love/dating/relationships are dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:17 PM
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The nice guy trope became a thing because throughout the 2000s because the advice girls would give out to men was "just be nice", "just be yourself", or "just be caring." And my generation of Men took it seriously because no one taught us otherwise Now it's considered insulting to be labeled as nice
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 02:50 PM
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Not 35 but 31 Hooked up and dated a lot of older women in my mid 20s so this is my anecdotal experience. The wall is just that point when once they hit 30 their beauty starts dropping off and marriage is less likely to occur. Simply she will never be as pretty as she was in her 20s. Sure are their attractive older women absolutely but usually they are bitter, cold, or just plain a bitch to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 01:55 PM
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The meme of "work on yourself" for men is just another woman way of saying "shut up and cope"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 11:01 AM
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If your girl isnt giving you sex the majority of the time you initiate then you got bigger problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 10:50 AM
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Obviously, just basic level attention is enough standards
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 07:01 PM
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All of this investment for what, for pussy the last guy got for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:27 PM
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"Figure things out" that's what single mothers say to themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 11:04 AM
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Can they avoid being used for sex sure. But at 35 there isn't anything to wait for
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 11:03 AM
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As long as their are humans then there will be cruelty
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 12:14 PM
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The manosphere has been hijacked by grifters trying to make a buck. At the end of the day no one gives a fuck that the dating market is a dumpster fire. Average chick's having their fun finding relationships or getting plugged left,right, and center. While the average guy lives a life of quiet desperation and copes by making the best of what he can. Then we die and all of this was just a fun joke
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 08:31 PM
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From my experience "love" is in essence the same as Santa Claus
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 03:26 PM
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I ran a breakup support group for 6 years and 90% of Men were blindsided when the relationship ended and always went through an existential crisis trying to find themselves again. Women usually check out of relationships months in advance and almost always have a new guy lined up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:02 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 01:34 PM
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I hang around strippers and majority of them are emotional half cooked grenades. The situation won't last no matter how good she makes it sound She gave herself to the streets and that's where she will return
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 04:48 PM
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Suffer in silence
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 10:49 PM
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I am because all they doing is grifting for money, clout, and shockvalue. Do I agree with most of their points yes but all they offer is the same shit that's been pumping out since 2003. Stop telling men to grind their lives away for pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 10:43 AM
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I'm 31m child free and life is pretty good. I would only consider having a kid unless I found a woman younger than me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 07:33 PM
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Cold approaching isn't viable anymore. She most likely got a main guy and has a roster in her pocket pecking to be the next guy. Unless your godly smooth or meet that attractive threshold, you going to be wasting your time
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 06:00 PM
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No, , damage is done
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 11:12 PM
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I remember what dating was like in the before times *pre old) and now the current dating climate. It's a literal shit show now compared to what it use to be. The manosphere is popular now because its the only place giving answers to a problem which most Men are struggling. There's is simply no other place for men to discuss their issues without gearing ridiculed or labeled
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 02:40 PM
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Love my dad but he was extremely difficult and drank way too much when I was a kid. Could never talk to him about things that were bothering me because he would always make it about himself and then proceed to tell me how I'm worthless anyways. He made my teens and early 20s a living hell. We have a better relationship now that I moved out awhile ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 12:01 AM
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That she def gave her pussy up for cheap thrills and looking at me as her safe choice
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:02 AM
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I can't go back, I've seen and experienced so much that no matter what people say to me is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:55 PM
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The game is rigged against men, the fact that it's 2 men for every 1 female makes the entire dating climate a sausage fest. Nature is a cruel bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 10:50 PM
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Women are like the weather, always changing and nothing is absolute.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:39 PM
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It's more common than you think. When I was a good boy in relationships I got starfish sex from my girlfriends but when I became the bad boy afterwards I got the sex I wanted. Women know that they want to get freaky for guys that hit all their buttons not for the guys their settling for. It's not a secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 09:01 AM
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Don't shit where you eat and don't be friends with chicks
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:40 PM
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It just how it is
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:10 PM
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Never ssk or tell about your body count unless your in a serious relationship with them In terms of showing , I hate to say it but you got to have confidence. Got to be able to lead the situation to that point. Girls will no instantly whether your faking or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:22 AM
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I joined here back in 2020 after mgtow got banned. The one thing I learned is that ultimately self improvement is all we got to try to make the best of our individual situations. I frequent this sub because I love the shit talking but I also love that it's the only refuge to discuss dating issues between Men and Women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 08:37 PM
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It's funny because everyone laughs or complains about men not wanting to date single mothers but it's probably the most relevant dating standard men have vocalize in the last 30 years. I dated a single mother, I loved her and had a great experience with her. But they will never love you like they did their baby daddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 08:22 PM
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This is how I operate in my 4 year relationship. No marriage and no assets tied to each other. My girl lives with me and I still have her mail go to her parents house lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:13 PM
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Reddit is a joke. They went out of their way to slap ban hammers on male subs but look the other way towards women ones
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:09 PM
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Don't forget "be nice"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 06:09 PM
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I disagree with men struggling because "serious physical, social, and emotional flaws" The dating climate has just become brutal and if your not plugged into the game then your falling behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 11:50 PM
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It's just an empty phrase to say to men so they shut the fuck up about their dating struggles. I heard it throughout my teens and 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 11:43 AM
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Did not know this , yeah the place is wild as f
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 10:30 PM
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FDS needs the ban hammer
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 10:11 PM
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I agree. As someone who experienced first hand, women are hooking up with more men then they are letting on to be. People on here love pointing "but we have research!' But they are surveys which are not concrete.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:05 PM
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Great job OP , I'm honestly not shocked by the results
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 05:36 PM
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Most of the stats dropped are just surveys which isn't entirely concrete The only truth I know now from the last 12 years of dating. It's a shit show and if your not attractive then you ain't going to cut it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 02:23 PM
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Dating coaches are only in it for themselves charging absorbent rates to pillage of struggling men Example: Coach Corey Wayne charging $1000 dollars an hour for dating advice. Feed you enough info just to get you hooked and not enough so you will perpetually struggle
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 02:10 PM
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People take the pills to literally. Pills are just a reflection of state of mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 10:40 AM
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Suffer
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 06:37 PM
0

When I was a senior in highschool in 2011 everything was being pushed in a certain direction. When Tinder released in 2012 everything changed and womens stock market price skyrocketed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 11:46 AM
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It never works out the way you think it will. Their past always comes back around in some capacity
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 11:41 AM
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Most men should commit to going there own way at this point. Enjoy the decline
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 11:37 AM
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I agree. Women: "why won't men approach us" Average Men: "hey can I buy you a drink Also Women: "Eww not you"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:45 PM
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Men are definitely not cold approaching as much as we use to compared to the early 2000s. Between potentially labeled a creep, competition, and rejection most Men see it as disadvantageous position to be in now. I'd argue that's why Online Dating is saturated with men because why be rejected irl and feel worst about yourself compared to being rejected online and swipe to the next one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 11:59 AM
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What were seeing is TradCons hijack RedPill theory and serve it up as "See we got the answers !" I can't stand them. The old traditional norms don't equate to the modern society.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 11:49 PM
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Correct, this is another great example
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 10:04 PM
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Because they still have the indoctrination of "keeping cupcake happy" I see all the time with my guy friends, they coward in front of their wife's/ LTR girlfriends even asking to go out is almost asking for too much
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 09:48 PM
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Absolutely ever since mgtow/redpill popped off in 2018 the PUAs and Tradcon adopted the logo because they realized they couldn't keep up the illusion anymore. People like Tate, Pearl, and others are trying to be based gurus when they are only in it for the bag.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 06:43 PM
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Almost all my LTRs ended with them cheating on me. The only signs I saw initially was emotional distancing and sex was starting to decrease. You won't know for sure unless you sneak their phone
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 07:50 AM
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I know they ask why Chivalry is dead and then they surprise Pikachu face about it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:57 PM
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Upper hand in a sense of knowing your personal secrets and then when the relationship ends she will tell others about them. Also in a sense of vulnerability in how much are you going to compromise your frame for her. The more you lose your frame and move into her frame the attraction is going to diminish. You can be vulnerable to an extent but with women you always got to be their rock.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:19 PM
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Women tell men to be more vulnerable so they can have an upper hand
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:32 PM
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Cheers
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 11:34 AM
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If your a late bloomer man you should pay for an escort at one point and start gaining some form of experience. Because girls hate guy that have no experience
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 11:22 AM
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Would dump her asap
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 09:33 AM
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Tradcons and puas hijacked TRP in 2020-2021 Tradcons are in deep cope because they still want the traditional norms but it doesn't fit with modern way of life. Preying on their audience to snatch a bag. The original TRP is just a set of ideas to help navigate the current dating climate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 12:30 PM
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I make roughly 100k a year. I made smart financial decisions in my mid 20s so I'm relatively secure for the next 30 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:48 PM
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It's just propaganda spit by older women because they hate competiting with younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 01:17 PM
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Co ed workplaces are wild because someone is always flirting/fucking with someone else. IDC what anyone says because someone is always whispering in your SOs ear in that environment. One of my ex girlfriend cheated on me with one coworker and then left me for a different co worker and my other ex girlfriend left me for the cook at work.I objectively can not trust anyone that enters my romantic life, it doesn't mean I can't have fun in a LTR but Marriage is 100% off the table. When your young yea…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 01:04 PM
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Women's grievances are so minuscule. You want better partners you need to vet better I have no sympathy for women since they pretty much control the dating market
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 04:22 PM
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Charisma is either you got it or not, simple
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 09:40 PM
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Love is simply chemicals that compel us to breed, there is no grand design and the notions of "the one" or "true love" doesn't exist. I once was a young guy that really believed that finding the love of my life and having a future with. Had some good long term relationships that ended and each heartbreak took more out of the romantic gas tank. I'm 31 now, my capacity to love a woman they way I was when I was 18 is drastically different.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 07:54 PM
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I'd like to add to this. There is good amount of time where they just give you their number just so they don't actually have to reject the guy. Then when you go to to text them you get silence, then it's a rabbit hole of feeling rejected and confusion of what did I do wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 07:45 PM
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Yeah I value you a young woman more and wish I could have the ability to date one. However I am not going to throwaway my relationship with my 34 year old gf that I invested 4 years with to get with someone young and pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 04:20 PM
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Masculine women (ie: Tom boys) are still looking for a man more masculine than them and just because they outwardly are putting a masculine front on their brain still is female. Still you need to be aware of your frame, overall attractiveness, and your game. This is just my two cents
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:57 PM
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My apologies. Yeah I would say it would still work in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:42 PM
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Yeah I wouldn't see why not TRP advice would work If you want a burly girl girl to pick you up and do a standing 69 more power to you. Live your best life bro
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:36 PM
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Your splitting hairs here, if morality really mattered then the trope of bad boys wouldn't exist in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 11:01 PM
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"I'll take the dating market is unfair and no one gives a fuck if your moral or unmoral for 500 Alex!"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 10:56 PM
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Show me how morality matters to women more than attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 10:17 PM
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Men have been trying to be moral for the last 24 years, it clearly doesn't hold any value to women in general
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 10:07 PM
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This is a great question. For some males TRP is a shield but for most TRP is a new way of thinking. I would argue that reintegration takes time because it takes time to find a balance
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:20 PM
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Reintegration in what sense ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:13 PM
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Purple pill is between blue and red, not the way way forward. Everyone thinks that TRP is some hate/misogynist group when it's the only group that practically dismantles itself to be better than they previously were.Selff improvement is king in a world that gratifies itself by its image
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:04 PM
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Your skin care routine benefits you long term. Your make up you purchase lasts you X amount of time. Getting you hair done is maintenance. This basic level effort for an adult women because really all you have to do for dates is show up. Women are not figuring out logistics for dates, how the date is going to play out, and a back up plans if your initial plan throws a curve ball. Also don't be going out on dates with dudes all dolled up and shocked that he brings you to is Applebees or Cheesecak…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:14 PM
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The dislike being approached if your not attractive. Just be attractive and your all set.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 02:55 PM
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I don't mind spending money for a date ie: coffee, ice cream, or something low budget that represents a small gesture of kindness. Its not how much you spend on the date, its how fun the date experience is. Dinner dates should only be offered once after you hook up. Anything more than that the check is getting split, idgaf. Too many times I've gone on dates with chicks and then ghost me after I've dropped a couple hundred dollars over the course of a couple dates. They don't mind you spend that …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 02:50 PM
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Marriage contract or once relationships hit the 7 year mark. I got a friend of mine that only gets it once every 3-4 months but she gets to go to Miami with her girlfriends for "girls only trip" Edit: Downvote me harder
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 02:40 PM
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Your assumption is that everyone on PPD is a bunch of neckbeards that are incels. PPD is probably one of the last place on Reddit to question dating dichotomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 11:57 AM
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If your a Man and not working in your 20s and goofing off; your going to get what you deserve in your 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 12:39 PM
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As someone who dated/hooked up with alot of 30/40 year olds, their mindset is not that much different than when they were in their 20. If they still legitimately look good post wall then she's still going to picky and fickle. If her looks have regressed and/or has a kid, yeah she's going to be more cooperative.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 11:38 AM
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There is nothing good about cuckolding, it's bottom of the boot
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 12:25 AM
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PPD doesn't get nowhere near the heat that male collective subs get I saw when Reddit gave all the ban hammers in 2019 and how their were targeted attacks from other subs. It was fucking crazy. Reddit is turning into a shit hole. It clearly leans one side
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 08:53 PM
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No one says this. Humans have the potential to be horrible, men and women. More news at 6
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 12:05 PM
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Cheating is a shitty thing to do
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 10:15 AM
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These are not actual Red Pillers these are just guys hiding behind the banner because they can't think for themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 10:13 AM
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It's not that she can't love but that original love that she experienced with her baby daddy and giving birth to their child is a bond that will always be. Spiritually and emotionally shes imprinted by that. To your point about "they have nothing good to say about their baby father and it was a mistake" but yet they still chose to be with that guy and still bestow him the highest honor by giving him a child. It doesn't represent all women but it's a pattern that shows up to most of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 01:54 AM
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Why do single/childless men complain about single mothers is because they are only looking at us as a consolation prize. She comes to you as her saving grace from the consequences she chose. She will never love you like the way she did her baby daddy, he is always connected to her one way or another. Harder truth is when she was younger most likely she wouldn't of looked at you in the first place. Was in a relationship with a single mother for 4 years
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 11:41 PM
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IMO I feel like the government should stay out of people's romantic life's. This bill could definitely ruin people's life specifically Men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:41 PM
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Nah fam they ain't looking for that, they love their dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 10:45 AM
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Women are simply not trying to date a Man that acts like the women she associates herself with in public. Women hate emotional/vulnerable men unless she's actually in a relationship with you. The examples you list are genuine but are reserved for when relationships actually gets serious. Everything else is splitting hairs
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 11:52 PM
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Had a girl in highschool put me through mental warfare for at least 3 years. She kept telling me how much she loved me, break me down, and build me back up again. It legit took me 5-6 years after highschool to mentally and emotionally recover after that. Had an ex girlfriend punch me in the face after my buddies girlfriend gave me a hug. Had an ex gf try to baby trap me once
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 11:07 AM
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Everyone criticizes TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:35 AM
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Only just 187
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:30 AM
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"because they feel lost and locked out, they don't know how to fix it and nobody's providing any practical, relevant help, or even positivity, encouragement, and understanding" This has been my experience since the mid 2000s, if your an average male then your experience is going to be frustrating while everyone else around you hands you blue pills like: "Gosh I don't know why your not succeeding with women maybe JuSt Be YuRselF or bE MoRe CoNFiDeNt!?" Or "jUsT KEeP TrYiNg!" All the while women j…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:25 AM
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Destiny fucked around and found out
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 10:08 PM
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Slang
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:00 PM
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This is a gimp level comment right here
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 05:24 PM
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no one is entitled to anything However if you want a marriage then the situation has to be beneficial for both people
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 05:06 PM
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because she's finding herself!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 04:11 PM
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Because women always get a free pass for their shitty behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 05:53 PM
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I don't expect people to change for me but I expect my female partner to respect me enough to do those things naturally, if we established a serious relationship. If she's not going to behave in the way I want then she belongs to the streets
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 05:49 PM
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People can't stay in their lane. If someone wants to date someone you get by all means , if you want to date someone older go for it. No one bats an eye when an older chick dates a younger man but other way around your a POS
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 05:43 PM
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"If you feel that what most women want is vapid or superficial, be a person who isn’t vapid or superficial. Volunteer, get involved in charity work, join a club, do anything that magnetizes people with good hearts " This advice has been going around the dating realms for the last 20 years and it doesn't matter. You still need to be quantitively attractive to get with women not because of the obscure womanspeak of having a "good heart and magnetism" "What all women want" is someone attractive but…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 11:54 AM
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I think if people would get rid of the 3 date rule and wait to have sex for a reasonable amount of time then I think their relationship can be built on more than just cheek clapping
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 10:50 AM
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You know whats not healthy, the idea that Men have to go into relationships blindly and not know the pitfalls that can happen to them. Trust needs to be proven over time not because of the whirlwind emotions of love telling you "she's the one!"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 06:38 PM
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How
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 06:21 PM
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Because they're attention hoes. Controversial but I can't take any girl serious when shes on insta/twitter/snap/threads/ etc
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:39 PM
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100% there should be either punishment in jail or total reimbursement
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:44 PM
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Yes absolutely, its should be with the birth certificate. There shouldnt even be controversy about this, whats wrong with Men wanting to know for 100% certain that their child is theirs? It removes all doubts and verifies trust. Women don't like it because they just want men to follow blindly into a 18 year commitment. Then when you find out the child isnt yours they go "oops!, your still on the hook for child support lol"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:32 PM
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When I growing up through the 2000s and 2010s it was preached down my throat that "women want a man that is respectable, considerate, and chivalrous." I believed in traditional values and thought women honestly thought the same. But it didnt equate to the modern dating dynamics that was evolving in real time post-Tinder in 2012. Women just dont want clean cut guys anymore unless they are trying to settle in their 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:19 PM
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Common. Majority of my relationships ended with them cheating. Then when I started playing the field I was the guy they were cheating with or hooking up with some guys girl friend when she's on "girls night out" was really eye opening for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:57 AM
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Older Men dating younger women - EW YOUR A PIG Older Women dating younger men - YOU GO QUEEN
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:52 PM
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There is always a price to pay to being vulnerable with women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 12:00 PM
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"social skills" is ambiguous: I would argue that most men know how to behave and what is right/wrong What your describing is fundamentally game. Learning to be confident with others and knowing how to talk to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:43 AM
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So my question is, if these are women's opinions on casual sex, then why do they keep doing it? Because women have the keep the illusion of plausible deniability. She wants to be "Chads Fleshlight" when he texts her phone
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 10:38 AM
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Men are still willing to commit to relationships but in terms of marriage; men are aware of the risks now Why do I need to split up my assets in a divorce for some chick that walked into my life and made me feel a certain way. Its ludicrous
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:11 PM
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Treat her like a celebrity, she'll treat you like a fan
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:04 PM
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That's her fault if she can't leverage her SMV correctly. Expecting men to marry when you give up your greatest bargaining chip for free to the last guy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:44 PM
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Back in the day (early 2000s) cold approaching was more relaxed. From my experience girls were a lot more easier to talk to and if they rejected you they would let you down easy. There always felt like there was a chance if you kept trying. Getting a phone number was a big deal back then, so when you succeeded it was a relatively positive experience. Now its just they either ignore you or laugh at you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:39 PM
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The more you date the more you start to see people for what they are. I go on dates and its always the same questions, same answers, and similar pasts. The sheer amount of times I heard girls say "my ex was abusive" it was like clockwork. If women didn't have vagina we honestly wouldnt even talk to them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:29 PM
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You have power over your mind - not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength. - Marcus Aurelius
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 09:55 AM
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Still doesn't hold any weight
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 06:47 PM
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All these "statistics" are surveys Women lie about their sexual promiscuity "Everyone Lies" - House M.D
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 06:36 PM
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Red Pill feeds on nothing, it just shows you where you need to improve. Are you a jealous boy that can't handle his shit? Do you get too in your feels where you make hasty decisions? Do you fall for women too easy? These are the signs that you need to be stronger. The man that wants to improve needs to look inward not these fucking losers that hide behind TRP because its easy to hide behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 01:34 PM
1

Because no one wants to settle in todays modern dating climate
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:14 AM
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Woah calm down bro before this whole sub downvotes you /s
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 02:51 PM
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Look for a partner who is already as cooperative as you'd like, if you want a partner. I agree, I think most people should be navigating the modern dating scene with this mindset. The tradcons that hijacked TRP need to to strop trying to resurrect the old norms like its the magic antidote
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 02:49 PM
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If that's what women want to do then that's okay, just don't cry wolf about why they can't find "where all the good men gone" when the clock is running out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 12:48 PM
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The last couple months have been wild on here. Everyone is taking the pills so literal. Its not one size fits all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 12:34 PM
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Red Pillers want control of what they can tangibly alter, ie Looks, Money, Status, and Mental outlook Red Pill been preaching stoicism for so long because you can't control external events but you can control your response to them. Men don't want control of women, they want women to be cooperative that's the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 12:27 PM
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It's a survey its not concrete, people lie all the time. Especially women when it comes to their sexuality. More news at 6
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 12:16 PM
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RedPillers: if women are basically children, why do you not look after them like they’re children? Society panders to women already. More provisioning from the government if your on hard times , significantly less prison time compared to men, and women can still go "tehe I guess my astrology sign is telling me to divorce my husband because its a full moon" She's an independent woman that needs no man, so why should men go out of their way to help them anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 11:49 AM
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Whoever loves first loses Dating in 2023 in a nutshell
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 08:02 PM
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I've had success in dating/relationships over the last 12 years but from my experience most women are fickle. I tell my mom that I wont marry because I'm not putting myself in a financial contract with someone that is incentivized to break it. Why should I risk losing everything for the sake of "love"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 11:44 AM
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As someone whose been with milfs, its lack luster unless your fucking a real former bombshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 11:30 AM
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30 is the number for women, they know it. Its the danger zone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 09:26 AM
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I'm unsure, I had a few female friends lose weight in 100-125lb range. There personality drastically changed when more men were giving them more attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:41 PM
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I joined the Red Pill in 2018 after my ex girlfriend of 4 years cheated on me. But it wasnt just her it was the accumulation of other poor experiences I had with women along the way. Between all the heartbreaks, always feeling blindsided, and never knowing what I did wrong I got tired of being the sucker. It always ended up being "there was another guy." I identify with the mgtow philosophy that marriage is dead, red pill is correct on its theory on women, and Men should not slave themselves to …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:47 PM
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Personally the bitter truth is that once you hit your 30s in dating your not going to give a fuck as you did in your 20s. Its honestly fucking magical
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:22 PM
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Girls are always exploring their options, shes fucking the guy she really wants and possibly keeping beta billy entertained because "gosh darn it, she's just playing hard to get"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 11:32 PM
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"red pill movement" its not a movement its a theory. However its been hijacked by the tradcons and trying to push back with traditionalism. Red Pill discusses age only from the position of Women are this age they want this and when women reach that age they want that. Other than that your splitting hairs
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 07:43 PM
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Girls instinctively know that being 30 its pretty much all over, red pillers dont have to say anything to what they already know lmao Plenty of dudes will still fuck you though but you will never be as beautiful as you were in your 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 03:15 PM
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Grew up with this nonsense advice my entire 20s. Its just cope pills that women spit out while there having a field day with the endless dudes she swipes on Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 06:55 PM
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Cold approaching is fine but only if your attractive, if not then your a creep and how dare you make her uncomfortable /s
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 10:56 AM
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I would be not interested anymore. It would be automatic cue that shes only looking for someone to provide for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 12:56 PM
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The whole system is eroding in real time. I would say most men care about traditional values in women but men have are more accepting that its likely never going to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 12:52 PM
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Dating was depressing in my 20s. Dating in my 30s is just watching the dumpster fire continue.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 12:44 PM
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PUA was the beginning in the early 2000s of the hay days of SoSuave, Then it got branched off then from PUA to Red Pill. They are related but they aren't the same. PUA in my opinion is the "bunny slope" gives you enough insight to practice in real time but doesn't offer anymore than it has to. Keeps TRP is where you want to truly understand the game and understand yourself, where you can start living a life of abundance thats not all about chasing pussy. TRP doesn't discuss PUA because in realit…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:42 PM
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The hoe phase isnt good for anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:06 PM
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31m here and I've never been with a virgin and honestly I wish I could be with a slightly younger woman with it because these hoes aint loyal. None the less OP, the dating game is changed. The notion of marriage and traditionalism doesn't exist anymore. You got to do what's best for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 01:57 PM
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Good point, like Kevin Samuels said being "engaged" is not the same things a being married.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 01:54 PM
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I don't discuss politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:55 AM
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People use alcohol is a depressant. Using it is to kill the pain in general
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:56 PM
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legal in some county's of Nevada. Not the entire state itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:52 PM
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Almost every woman I know would happily give most guys with a good personality a chance, regardless of their status or physical appearance. What scares us off is a bitter, angry, resentful attitude that is just totally detached from reality of dating, or a total refusal to ever improve or take care of yourself. These are the men who see fail time and time again at dating and getting laid. Victim mindsets aren’t attractive. You’re all doing yourselves more harm than good by being here. This is 10…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:50 PM
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Your good bro, we all got different experiences. When I wear shoes I'm in the 5'10 club so I'll take it lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:22 PM
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OP is talking about top 20% men in there early 20s. Which they usually have to lead with their looks over the wallet. Usually are tall, athletic, relatively good facial symmetry. Sprinkle some personality and boom. From my experience which is anecdotal I've asked my current girlfriend and ex's about the dudes they've hooked up with and dated in the past, tallness is a parameter that always pops up. Is it the end all be all no, but as a 5'8 bro I mostly seem invisible, unless I lead with my walle…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:07 PM
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Men in their 20's that are in the top 20% need to exude Chad. Tall, good looking, and relatively got their shit together. The height stigma is real
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:44 PM
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Allergic to accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:54 AM
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Someone that actually knows whats going on for once, "red pill" got high jacked by pua/tradcons enjoy the decline boys
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:51 AM
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I did, he doesn't understand why a miami girls trip is a red flag. My girl caught her saying "I can't wait to go to to Florida so I can get ratchet" and we tried telling him and he thought we were just joking. Hes a lost cause
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:41 PM
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Oscar Wilde: “Everything in the world is about sex, except sex. Sex is about power.” I have a buddy of mine that absolutely loves his girl. Makes her breakfast everyday, pays all the bills, and totally faithful. She rewards him by giving him sex once ever 3-4 months. Shes got him wrapped around her finger and she knows it. I'm 99% sure shes cheating because she goes to miami for a "girls trip"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:16 PM
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If Men could find out the actual sexual history of a average woman, marriage would no longer exist
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 10:51 AM
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I want to say most likely, she started gaining traction in 2018. Girls like her make insane money so its hard to get out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:01 PM
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Yes. One that I hung out with a few times ended up becoming a brazzers girl
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 05:16 PM
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If you put enough effort in approaching, you can get laid while being a below average man in every regard Nothing new here; advice like this has been spinning around since the PUA days of the 2000s. Brian still is 6ft tall and his "raw fat" is most likely distributed proportionately. Your CMV is worthless
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 05:13 PM
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Anecdotal but I went on at 40 dates oneyear and one question I would always ask is "how would you describe your last relationship" and at least 90% of the time the answer was "he was abusive" I stopped taking women seriously after that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 05:08 PM
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Yeah when you take your first red pill its natural to slide back to the blue pill way of thinking. The more you absorb the red pill the less you will go back to your old blue pill tendencies. You got to experience the "red pill rage" and "red pill rage 2.0" before your Blue Pill thinking is completely gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 01:15 PM
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exredpill is a cope sub, its just guys that think that they were Red Pill and then fell back to the plantation
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 01:11 PM
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i'm 30 and I would never consider marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 12:55 PM
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Women can be happy and content with being single, why can’t men? Women are never just "single" though, they are still hooking up and dating men on the side.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:52 AM
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Never listen to women about how to date women because they hate each other. They will hit you with corny soundbite memes about "just be confident" or "just be yourself". They simply dont understand the difficulty scale of how men have it. However. if your trying to figure out why the girl your dating is switching up on you and you ask your female friends why; watch how they will tell you the truth about that. Girls love snitching on each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:13 PM
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This post just seems like hope bait
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:04 PM
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Young Men 18-25 are bottom of the heap, unless you got Chad looks and your tall. The average young man is living a life of quite hell and desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 12:10 AM
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The one thing I've learned being on this sub is that no matter how much men and women discuss their differences, no one gives a fuck and nothing will ever meaningfully change. Men going to continue to be lonely and sexless Women going to do whatever they want until their time runs out and wonder "where all thee good men gone"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 12:04 AM
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I resonate with this I'm 31 5,8, bought a house when I was 25, and I'm financially sound. I have a good head on my shoulders and care about being responsible. But now I've noticed this only matters for women that get tired of riding the carousel. The only chicks that want to date me is used up old single mothers, old divorced chicks, or legit gross chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 10:42 AM
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I've only been approach like 3-4 times in the last 13 years
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 12:32 AM
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Girls having an abundance of choice and options? who knew!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 12:29 AM
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It's called being responsible and conscious of your choices. If women want to sell their body at 18 and collect a bag, then she should have the right to do so. But this constant pandering to them that "they didnt know any better" needs to stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:38 AM
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Once women hit 30 they know instinctually that its all over. Of course they get jealous, why do you think they are always calling other chicks sluts when they get all the male attention. If women were legitimately concerned then they would be teaching their daughters to use their brain, be accountable, and dont waste their best years chasing cheap thrills. Because the one thing you hear from older women all the time is "where are all the good men gone!"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:14 PM
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Exactly. Males are lonely: Women immediately think "Your not entitled to our bodies you pig!"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:07 PM
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Gun pointed to my head I logically would choose B. However the context your missing is that B is most likely doing hook ups now because she's "finding herself" Most likely both women are jaded and bitter
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:58 PM
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I don't think its a passing phase, if anything its going to get worst. It was hard in 2010 but if you talked to a cute girl at the bar/coffee shop got her phone number and asked her out, if felt like there was a chance to take her out. An average looking guy with with a sharp personality there was a real chance to succeed. 2023 is just on another scale of difficult. Trying to date women today just feels demoralizing and frustrating. Looking at a woman the wrong way gets you labeled a creep, tryi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:04 PM
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This is 100% cope. Attraction is non negotiable, its the golden rule of dating that supersedes everything else. Therapy can help you be aware of the signs but in terms of actual true attraction its not going to help that much
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 12:35 AM
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Its either are you attractive or you got the money. There is rarely an inbetwen
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 12:28 AM
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Whenever I comment on posts I keep getting automodded because my flair is wrong. Can anyone help me understand what Im doing wrong ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 12:10 AM
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Im suprised that this post didnt get flagged for "low effort"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:23 PM
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What is with this nonsense of posting with "the correct flair" Tired of trying to answer "question for men" and I keep getting automod because im not appropriately flaired which makes zero sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:13 PM
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If men dont initiate interaction they will remain invisible since women certainly wont make a move This is disingenuous. Over the last decade men have have been putting themselves out there but more men are getting rejected. Approaching in 2023 is not the same as it was in 2003. The game is changed, women are pickier and most men are not in the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:48 PM
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Depending on how the dating scene and society changes. I will never marry and I would tell my "potential" son to never marry either. People don't understand how serious that Men are falling behind in almost every sector and we are going to see a rude awakening in the next 10-20 years
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:17 PM
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100% this is real I had this happen twice in my life with ex girlfriends. As soon as they got off birthcontrol the nagging started and shes cheating on me with a male co-worker
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:06 PM
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"emotional availability" : Is woman speak for I'm looking for my beta provider that is easily manipulated and will bend to my wants and needs. I had my fun with my hook up Chad and now I'm looking for something stable. If you here a chick say this buzzword then she deff been on the carousel and may or may not be with you for the right reasons. Edit: Downvote me harder
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:53 PM
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Deff got played for foodie calls at least a dozen times
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 07:42 PM
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Pandoras box pretty much
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:33 AM
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Because "sex worker" is not sex its "cock tease worker" Getting actual, safe, and legitimate sex services in the US outside of limited grey areas are still met with punishment from the police. Government does not want men to have actual access to sex because why should we, we need to be good little work horses for the system.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:26 AM
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Thats all folks he nailed it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 08:05 PM
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If Men were having such a good time then the suicide rate wouldnt be so high
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:50 PM
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Edit: For the ignorant black pill dipshits, I’m a man. Successful because I understand women, something you should learn to do. Believing looks nonsense just makes you dumb and scare Stroke yourself harder when you say this. Your not saying anything different from what PUAs were preaching in 2001. Game is changing and most guys cant adapt fast enough. Its past the point of a numbers game, average women got more options then their equivalent counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:44 PM
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Yeah I don't understand why people keep saying this nonsense either, dudes need to understand that they are not autistic they are not attractive enough. ffs
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:53 PM
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If you aint pulling chicks based of your looks then 8/10 time chicks are settling for whatever else you provide. As soon as I bought a 4 bedroom house by myself when I was 25 all of sudden chicks were interested in me saying "Wow SillyMushroomTip your so much more mAtUrE then the other guys I've dated" Then I started hearing that word every time I was going out with chicks then I really found out that what they were trying to say is: Your financially mature and good settling down material.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:23 PM
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Give a woman makeup and you will never know her true face
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 07:25 PM
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Bot coming through with this one
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 04:36 PM
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friendship is where romance goes to die
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 04:23 PM
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Whether its paternity test or asking for a prenup agreement, women always have the same knee jerk response of "You dont trust me!" When its not that we don't trust you, is just that we can confirm without doubt that our commitment is not being taken advantage of
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:28 PM
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She's playing a schtick. Pearl calls herself the auntie and shes relying on the mile long line of dudes in her comment section and DMs telling her how pretty she is. Right now shes all about the bag but dont get it twisted, she deffinetely has a dude on the side Women are never single
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:17 PM
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From my experience now being red pilled the last 5 years is that majority of Men cannot move on from Women. Women are a biological addiction for Men, it takes years of acceptance to move on from them. I'm jaded from relationships and even past all my bitterness I still crave the idea of a hot woman in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 02:21 PM
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c o p e
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:11 PM
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Bump
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:11 PM
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From ex girlfriends and current girlfriend, they dont give a fuck about Mens issues. Thats why the soundbite meme of "just be yourself" is pumped out because Women just need to stand there and look pretty while Men need to grind their fingers to the ground just to get acknowledged. I
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:06 PM
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Exactlty! Advice like this I was hearing when I was in my teen and twenties and plot twist it rarely worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:48 PM
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I think the conundrum now is that "the rabbit is out of the hat" in terms of what women say and actually do. She fucks Chad, Pookie, Tyrone on the first date and then makes you wait a month or 2 then your the sucker. Spending money on a woman that wouldn't've even give you a chance in the first place. Controversial but as a man I withhold sex as long as possible and I think more guys should do as well. Dont take her out on expensive dates, see if she likes just spending time with you because you…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:20 PM
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Look I use to be someone who always treated women with kindness and respect, until it kept fucking me over Now I always treat women as: "I'll treat you with same energy your giving me but I treat you slightly worst" also add in some idgaf
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:17 PM
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Because the system doesnt want men to wake up. Its clear as day. Ever since I took the red pill in 2018 almost ever sub has been nuked, yet FDS still remains because its "empowering" clown world
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:18 PM
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My 20s were the most depressing time in my life, 30s are night and day better
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:11 AM
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Womens options to drop for marriage significantly drop but there options to get there cheeks clap stay the same for the most part
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:07 AM
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Yea this is cap
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:32 PM
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I'm someone that goes to strip clubs regularly. However I don't just spend my money on some hot bimbo that goes "hey babe want a dance" I vet and wait a long time before I can find a girl that I can actually vibe with and see regularly. You always got to remember that these girls are only good for fun and that you cant save them. One of the best sexual experiences I ever had was with a stripper and gained alot of experience from it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 03:17 PM
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My friend just had someone they are close with get bagged with the "MeToo" There is no evidence, a rape kit got done and came back negative on the "victim", and still he got thrown in jail and denied bail. The news caught wind of it and they released his name, address, and he hasnt even gone to court yet to defend himself. His reputation is destroyed
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:04 PM
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I get good treatment from my girlfriend. Shes the first one out of multiple relationships where someone takes the time to make sure I'm good
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:26 PM
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Marriage is dead, men shouldnt even consider it anymore, Shes not yours, its just your turn as much I as agree with the phrase is counter intuitive to why men get married in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:33 PM
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It is. Once you get older its gets boring as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:43 PM
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"You should date women your own age, because they'll want you for who you are" Woman speak for: They'll want you for who you are when their done riding the cock carousel and your her safe choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:41 PM
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If a woman isnt give her "all" sexually to you then from my experience she is not with you for the right intentions. She either views you as a nice guy or someone she can control. Your her consolation prize. Most men need to realize that most likely your not her favorite partner she ever been with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:38 PM
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Thats the blue pill matrix, trying to keep you hooked to the game. Thats why the soundbite meme "just be yourself" or "you'll find the right one" keeps getting pumped out there
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:25 PM
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You can either love women or understand them but you cant do both
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 10:53 AM
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Yeah deff dodged a bullet. She straight up broke my heart and played mental warfare on me for fun. She ended up getting a rare neurological disease, Im guessing from all the drugs she took
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 10:21 PM
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This is fake as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:39 PM
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From my experience women lie about there past all the time and never have any accountability for their own misgivings for a relationship ending. Average Becky portraying herself out there as "woe is me" but out here being a under the table hoe
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 08:02 PM
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Women are never honest about there past. However If you know that she "dates" around alot or can never be single than you know shes got a sussy track record.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 02:45 PM
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But if you treat us as a friend, if you hope it will start with friendship and it will develop, it won't. This is the only thing I agree with. The caveat is that Men that accept friendzone are conditions usually placed by Women because the Man in question doesnt have enough experience or confidence in what hes doing to navigate the situation. This ultimately kills attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 12:02 PM
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This was concise and to the point. Its really this simple
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:08 PM
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I learned a long time ago you never ask questions that you cant handle hearing the answer too. Men asking about number count is direct reflection that they are aware that women are more promiscuous now. Men shouldnt even ask anymore because women will never reveal their actual true body count
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:01 PM
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Going to be general. Women don't like Men that spend a large amount of time playing videos games then spending time with them, its boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 08:17 PM
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Soft approach and being friends first are two separate methods
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 12:38 PM
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Women over and over again prove Men wrong all the time. Men sharing there experiences with "trustmebro" - Toxic Women sharing there experiences with tarot cards and swiping on tinder - Empowering
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 11:17 AM
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Men are desperate for love and consistent sex, that's why they marry. Imo there is no benefit to marry because women switch up 24/7
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 11:13 AM
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Be friends first
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 11:13 PM
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no one ever said "men with no options wife promiscuous women" However even high value Men will wife up a attractive hoe because she will cry wolf that "she changed"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 11:36 AM
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They secretly miserable though if they dont have a Man in there life
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:57 PM
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The end game in my opinion is for Men to "Go Their Own Way". Focus on fulfilling hobbies, retirement, and spending time with friends/family. You can always rent a escort for the night if you need that itch scratched. Women are not the end all be all and the sooner Men wake up to fact, they can actually start having fun in 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:04 AM
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lmfao "tax break"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 11:53 PM
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Women lie all the time, whats the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 11:06 PM
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Honestly its just another soundbite for women trying to skirt accountability. Women have zero issue being the town bike for Chad when shes in her peak years but when average Men want to be with a younger Women its vilified. I fucked Chad in the back of his car and ghosted me - He was abusive! I dated an older Man and didn't want me going out at night partying with my friends - Groomer! Now that I'm 35 why are Men still looking at younger women - Pedophile!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 11:51 AM
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Society doesnt want Men to feel there needs are validated. I use to be someone who "Id never use a escort service its pathetic!" then I got older and tried it and it really changed the game for me. I learned more about female nature through strippers and escorts than I ever did from dating random chicks on OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:08 PM
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Women have just as much if not more opportunities now then Men do in almost every facet of life now. But still choose to go down the "sEx wOrkEr" route to make fast cash because its easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:59 PM
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Because its been hammered by women that "don't approach us (unless your chad)" What are average Men suppose to do? They are not good enough for OLD, not good enough for casual sex, not good enough for relationships, not good enough to even listen to. Women out here having a field day picking/fucking the best looking guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:52 PM
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Red Pill works however these online guru bobbleheads are still preaching traditionalism as well. I think its a lot of denial of what actually is happening. Men need to start playing the game for their benefit; just like Women have been doing the last 30 years. Stay Savage
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 09:15 PM
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Had quite a bit of heartbreak in my early years. I don't mind being open but Im not vulnerable anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:52 PM
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Its about keeping your frame with your girl, always being on your grind, and keeping that same energy that you original met her with. The old saying is "death by a thousand cuts" but with women its "death by a thousand concessions"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:50 PM
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This does not keep your wife sexually attracted to you, this is basic level adulting and being a good partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:48 PM
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Facts. Have some average looking female friends and they show me there OLD matches/messages. They are nothing more than Chads slam pig for the night, then cry wolf that he dont commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:13 PM
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C o p e harder
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:32 PM
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I dont understand why your getting flacked here. This word for word was my experience growing up . All these red pill "gurus" are just filling in the void that Men have been craving for the last 15-20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:32 PM
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Its not a case of "not being attracted to their partner" its just that they are settling for a Man at a certain point. What's sadder: Women go through there best years having fun, dating, and chasing Chad. Then settling for their "boyfriend material ™ " partner when the ride is all over at 30 OR Men never realizing the woman he married settled for him and would never pick him in the first place. Its a cold world out here
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 12:30 PM
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People who use the word "healthy" add in whatever word after that imo is virtual signaling
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:45 AM
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Women want the marriage for social status and attention
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 01:44 AM
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Doing the best I can, trying to see if I can get on meds to balance out my mood Have a nice weekend !
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:20 PM
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If you saw me on the street you would think "oh that guy holds himself with confidence and keeps his shit together." I run a successful business, My peers respect me, and overall I always try to connect with people I talk to. I'm in a relationship currently and had many girlfriends prior. My best trait is that I'm a conversationalist; I know how to read a room, adapt, and keep it witty. Underneath the surface I'm always down about myself. I feel like I'm not good enough or worth anything. I deal…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:58 PM
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Getting flash backs to comments saying "did you read the sidebar" on trp subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:10 PM
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If your looking to fool around and have some fun I think passport broing is good for men to get out there to have some fun. Instead of being chastised by insufferable western women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 11:50 AM
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Nah chubby girls are not attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 11:41 AM
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"Meeting the right person at the wrong time" Is woman speak for "Id rather keep fucking hot guys then settle down with you right now"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 11:38 AM
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For context I got Red Pilled at 25 I practiced everything that Red Pill / MGTOW preached and got real results compared to when I was goofy hopeful romantic. I got to the point that I was going on multiple dates a week and for a good amount of time I was "spinning plates" I had 3 girls I was sleeping with simultaneously. The only caveat is that I was having sex with relatively attractive older women (28-40s) which was fun but I still couldn't pull young attractive girls than me (18-26)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:51 AM
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I got banned there as well for criticizing Amazons "rings of power" because they are going to get backlash for going woke instead of sticking to the lore.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:13 AM
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Most guys who believe in redpill have a lot of issues or have not hit some major life milestones like being financially stable, having a great career, education, their own place. Red Pill is not the enemy, its the majority of Men that are simply inexperienced and not getting any experience to grow. Young Men go through there sexual prime frustrated because no one is teaching us how the mating dance works, dating is almost cruel from rejection, and no one even pays you any attention unless your a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:19 AM
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Marriage is a contract that has been incentivized to be broken. If the comment section wants to get married and role the dice more power to them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 06:18 PM
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Its not the manosphere, its all the men that have been financially raped in family court and no one giving a fuck. Its women the "fairer sex" and the government that has weaponized the marriage institution.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 06:16 PM
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Esther Vilar is based
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:35 PM
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No ones perfect and we all have to navigate our individual experiences. In terms of the question that OP asked I stand by it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 10:46 AM
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I've been with my current girlfriend for 4 years now. Prior to her I've been in 3 serious relationships. Had multiple short term girlfriends at one time (spinning plates), been on a long string of first dates/cold approaching, and had a few ONS here and there. I get it the advice sounds cold via text script but it was something that took me years to internalize. The "IDGAFF" attitude is something I still strongly believe and disarms any type of power your plate/ short/long term girlfriend thinks…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:48 PM
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My advice is coming from over the last 14 years of dating. If your a Man and if you really want to succeed with women you have to kill the desire for them thats in your biological wiring. You have to get to this point mentally that "You Dont Give A Flying Fuck" if she leaves you, cheats on you, and if positively she loves you. Nothing is more attractive to a woman than a Man that can't be swayed by his emotions. Also; Don't tolerate a girl withholding sex if extends for long periods of time. If …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 08:34 PM
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All I care is if shes skinny, not a whore, and a free thinker. Thats too much to ask though today lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 08:13 PM
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Stop gaslighting with "Being a empathic human should not be tied to you getting sexually rewarded with access to a woman’s body" This is goofy shit that Women say when they have "male friends" that they friendzoned. Women out here in 2023 hooking up with guys first date and simultaneously keeping good guys on a string for free meals/dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 12:35 PM
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"If you want to attract and retain high quality women AND BE SATISFIED AS WELL, you must progress as well. The ONE thing that men must progress on for a satisfying marriage or dating life is to up your emotional intelligence. It's really that simple." This is disingenuous advice that needs to stop. Women out here reject , manipulate, and laugh at guys that treat them too good.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 12:17 PM
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Dont hate the player, hate the game
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:08 AM
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I stopped caring because women are never honest if they like it or not and what you can improve on. Chicks will ghost you or breakup with you if your sex game sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:13 PM
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If she was denying me sex because of "I dont feel like" then I would automatically assume she is fucking someone else. I have a lot of male friends going through this with there girlfriends like 1-3 months of no sex because "she has a headache." I tell them to flirt with other girls in front of there gf and watch what happens. If she isnt giving it up there are others that will for free lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:15 PM
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This is basic but none the less important for 18-21 year old crowd
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 09:23 PM
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Men can do this. However 99% are blindsided when the divorce initiation takes place. Yes it does work
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:37 AM
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I definitely think there should be more open and honest conversations about love/dating/heartbreak in highschool
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 06:51 PM
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I'm not saying all Women cheat but if your game is tight and you know what your doing, most women will deff cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 06:25 PM
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The Red Pill is a guide for Men to become more masculine and learn tangible ways to improve your game with women. That's why its preached that being in-shape, focusing on your purpose/business, and not treating women as a priority are key components of being successful. Everything boils down to LMS: Looks Money Status I read The Mystery Method after I graduated high school in 2011, I definitely learned how to be quicker/better with my word play and how to initiate/escalate situations. But IMO it…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 10:58 AM
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Because its just another excuse for them to act like a bitch without consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 10:42 AM
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Guys are bitter because they go through there sexual peak (ages 16-25) not getting any sexual attention or positive reinforcement. Average chicks out here acting like celebrities while average guys are treated as worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 10:40 AM
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Literally had my girlfriends sister come over my house and she just re-entered the dating pool because \no shock** she going through a divorce. She's average at best and she's already got 3 dates lined up for the week and they all taking her out on expensive dates. She told us that "She cant waste anymore time and that she's entitled to the money they drop on her because she a girl and she knows her worth" This is what dating is today
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 11:06 PM
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Fantastic comment
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:42 PM
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Love is just a chemical
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 08:01 PM
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The Red Pill is just to be aware of the truth of what actually is happening in the sexual dynamics between Men and Women. I grew up being traditional and wanted to be with a woman long term, to care for her needs, safety, and to have corny romance with. I get into these long term relationships and Id either get cheated on or dumped for a guy that was on the side. Honestly I got tired of being a sucker for Women and the games they played. Then I found the Red Pill and turned into a savage
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:03 PM
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Through my whole dating life i ran into a lot of "Im not like other girls" Its pretty common from my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:48 PM
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friendship is for suckers If your interested in ask her out. She says No, then you move on to a different chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:52 PM
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As Oscar Wilde once said, “ everything in the world is about sex — except sex. Sex is about power.”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:43 PM
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Men are scared to show interest What do you expect when Men are majority of the time rejected and shamed for even trying to talk to a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:04 PM
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"She has plenty of male friends" Yeah you dont want to be with a bitch like this anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:02 PM
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TRP is still a general theory on how to approach the sexual market game. The last 5 years the PUA/Tradcon channels have repackaged it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 03:44 PM
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If young women want real true comittment, then they need to understand that being a virgin is the the ultimate leveraging chip to secure a high quality male.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 03:33 PM
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If he asked me "How I can become a Man?" I would tell him that being a man is about picking a sacrifice.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 07:26 PM
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Honestly I just want to date a young skinny girl, tired of dating women with kids or in there mid 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:47 PM
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Marriage is for suckers Look at Kevin Costners recent divorce the last 3 months. She signed a pre-nup, Kevin offered her a million dollar mansion and 30k a month child support in it. Now shes crying that she wont be able to survive, even though shes the one divorcing him! Court threw it out and now hes ordered to pay 130k a month child support and pay the $300,000 lawyer fees.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:35 PM
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I remeber when PUA was big back in the late 90s and mid/late 2000s. It was 2011-2012 (18 at the time) I started learning "the mystery method" and watched videos by 33Secrets, Todd V, and Roosh. Only problem is that yea I was cold approaching and had no issues talking to women, I couldn't ever close with women. Thats when I decided to quit PUA because being young and dealing with constant rejection was annihilating my mental health. Also Tinder just came out and all my female friends at the time …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 09:28 AM
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the Cock Carousel is real
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 09:09 AM
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Ive been ready for being traditional since I was in highschool but all these chicks been chasing bad boys. Becky been getting her back blown by Chad, having fun and doing whatever she wants. I spent my post highschool working my ass off and having a house in my early 20s. All I got to date is beefed out single mothers
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 09:39 PM
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When I was 14 in 2007 I had an cruel emotionally manipulative girl string me along for 2 -3 years when I was in highschool. She ruthlessly kept toying with my feelings, exploited my sexuality, and knew how to keep me wrapped around her finger. It was a constant rollercoaster of ups and downs with her. I dont know if it was that young hormonal love going through my system but I could never say no to her. She use to my jealously against me and tell me about all the new guys she was seeing "but she…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:08 PM
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Really just another example of how Men and Women don't love each other in the same way. Men love Women just by existing and Women love Men by what he can provide. Sad truth here: Money made dating easier for me once I bought a house when I was 26. However finding younger women to date with no kids were not interested in me, the only women that were interested in me were Single Mothers, Divorcees, and women older than 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:16 PM
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My friend group of guys were going 6 months to 1 year of no sex. In between all of that was desperation of matches on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:51 PM
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Legitimately had this happen to me with my ex girlfriend. As soon as she got off the pill her feelings towards me rapidly diminished. Next thing I know she's fucking coworkers at the car dealership she worked at, all within 8 months after she got off birth control. Words couldn't express how blindsided I was when she switched up so fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 12:50 AM
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It helped me see what the hidden 'rules' were, the rules normal people just understand intuitively. And that helped me develop frameworks to make more friends and date more women than I ever thought I would. This is why red pill is so important right here. Its the hidden rules and maneuvers that no one is ever honest about unlike the classic soundbytes of "JuSt Be YoUrSeLf" or "JuSt KeEp TrYinG!"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:34 PM
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No one is shocked. Women have been doing it under the guise of "traveling" and Men have been doing for better dating prospects. Garunteed now that Men are openly passporting more frequently governments will start trying to ban Men from having access to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 09:59 AM
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This has been my experience the last 10 years. Girl my age or younger just have 0 interest in me. Most of the women Ive been with since 20 have been 4-12 years older than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 07:33 PM
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Doesnt matter being labeled a nice guy is practically being insulted to todays standards
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 05:27 PM
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Nah. I went on a few dates with a attractive chick once and when I didn't sleep with her on the 3rd date she called me "pussy" and "I should go probably go ask my mother for permission" Chicks today are much more colder than Men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 10:00 AM
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Mr.Beast without the money would be another average guy struggling to date
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 09:57 AM
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If i try to self improve, i end up with depression and anxiety due to high expectations and perfectionism. Coming from someone that struggles with this, the best thing to work on first above all else is your internal battle. Once you develop a healthier relationship with yourself, you start having better relationships with other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 11:17 PM
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Marriage is dead. Look what happened to Kevin Costner. Had a official prenup and it got thrown out in court. awarded 150k a month for "child support"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 04:22 PM
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Guy was "spreaking his truth" or trying to convey his issues with the situaiton. Hes was trying to keeps things respectful but firm When a guy does it hes ostracized for it. When a girl does it, its empowering.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 11:17 AM
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C o p e
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 11:00 AM
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because they feel guilty in the sense that they feel they are taking advantage of an underdeveloped mind. lmao. No because women would never be caught dead dating an autistic male. stop the bullshit op
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 10:14 AM
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Never had acess to date a "really hot" woman Always had to settle for a fatty or nothing at all. I choose nothing at all
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:59 AM
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"You can also be way below average and get with women easily" Yeah its called paying for it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 05:15 PM
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Stop the bullshit with men are "obsessed with barely legal girls" Average age men are attracted to is 21 and legal consulting age to sex is 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 10:05 AM
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Women live on easy mode with dating and are ungrateful of how good they have it. Then have the nerve to say to Men "but theirs more risks and we can get like pregnant and stuff" but then still chooses sleezy guys to fuck. Just saw my gf sister facebook messenger inbox, she is average looking at best, had almost over 30 messages from men asking her out on dates. Then she categories dudes for fucking, attention, and free food.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 09:35 AM
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I disagree, this is another example of moving the goal posts of being a woman. Guy was upfront and straight to the point. No where is this controlling. She waits until Jonah is with a new girl over a year later with a kid and says "hEs EmOtIonAllY AbuSiVe" and publicly reveals private texts to destroy his image. Its spiteful and manipulative.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 09:14 AM
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"tried to change and control her" He literally told her his boundaries and if she couldnt accept them as a romantic partner then wishes her all the best and that she should find someone else. When women say boundaries its non negotiable. When a Man has boundaries its "controlling"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 12:08 AM
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Exactly. Just hung out with my girlfriends sister and shes boasting "I cant wait to go out to get free food and drinks because of my dates" Chicks today belong to the street
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 06:59 PM
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"complex mix of things" = Looks, Money, Status
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 08:50 PM
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Women dont have a code
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 04:57 PM
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This was my experience. Except first dates would always happen at a martini lounge for me. My issue was I was good at picking up women that were older than me and trying to attract younger women was still really difficult. I bowed out of the dating game because it got to a point where everything/everyone was predictable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 04:26 PM
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In my 20s I've dated and hooked up with women that were older than be usually by 5-10 years. I always figured "yeah I guess thats just my type of girl." Since entering my 30s younger girls just significantly more attractive. Girls in their 20s just look so much more vibrant
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 12:39 PM
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Frankly I would prefer to be with a virgin woman but this is coming from a place where Ive never been with one
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 09:08 PM
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I've come across women like this that wanted me to push through her boundaries when she said "No" I've always walked away from girls like that because they are the same ones that will hit you with a false accusation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 03:42 PM
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"feeling safe" is woman code for "hes attractive and Ill let him fuck me" Literally a older woman brought me home to her house and let me fuck her in the kitchen on the first date, while her kids were home doing homework. I guess she felt safe lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 03:34 PM
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Women are never single, they always have a guy lined up in the background. Who wouldn't be happy with an abundance of choice, attention, and lack of accountability? The difference with Men is that Men have to struggle which women usually don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 04:53 PM
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This is the correct comment. OP you got to find your own way and never ask women for advice about dating
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 03:02 PM
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Underated point about "needing an internship" This was my experience when I was young and dating, it was emotionally tolling because I couldnt figure out what I was doing right or wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 06:41 PM
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Men dont want older women because they got baggage and they hit the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:08 PM
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The imprint is real
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:01 PM
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My girl gently rubs my back when were talking or we are out with our friends. Makes me feel like shes really in my corner
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 10:18 AM
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OP says: "I garuntee the women in your real life will get weird vibbes from you and be repelled by your energy" But OP posts shits like this and wonders why guys might have negative experience dating https://www.reddit.com/r/CPTSD/comments/12g6jdd/am_i_manipulating_men_into_serving_my_interests/
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 10:01 AM
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Yo I remember this one! Anyone remember that story about how: This girl broke up with her boyfriend because he didnt make enough money and then turns to find out he was a secretive millionaire /or made a bunch of money
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:29 PM
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Women live on tutorial mode
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:17 PM
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yeah i agree
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 05:18 PM
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Women want money. Men want pussy. Nothing new
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 09:38 AM
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"Yet guy act like its some ultimate failure that completely destroys your life" Because we identify with the things we care about. You spend years of your life with someone that you love and all of sudden shes serving you papers, the same person you made wedding vows with isnt the same person that will take you to court. Then Men have to face hardships of: Woman taking the kids and starting some form of child alienation against the Man All financial assets get split - The woman will make all the…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:32 AM
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A womans kryptonite is knowing shes going to get old. So they keep trying to shame Men for being attracted to women at their most attractive lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 11:58 PM
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If the situation was a permanent she can no longer have sex with me then we would have to have a frank discussion about the future of our relationship. My girl knows that if I'm not giving her sex after a certain amount of time then I probably be talking to other girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 10:50 PM
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I live in a competitive dating market, women out here are savages and they deff using their hypergamy in full force
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 10:16 AM
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I've never heard of someone saying "can young men handle older women better" I've been with older women and they are act no different if they were 18 again. From my experience though there can be more dangers associated with dealing with older women ie: baby trapping or she's trying to snare her 'good guy™" If shes got kids from another Man she will never love you like she did her baby daddy. My final point is that if your a younger person dating a much older person then you have to be carful na…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 10:27 AM
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This was a great explanation of ghosting !
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 12:33 AM
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Yeah on some level I feel bad for incels because I remember a time in my life where I struggled with women because no one would "teach me" the game. But at the same time these guys have to break out of there comfort zones/elevate their life a little.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 12:28 AM
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In 7th grade (back in 2005) I use to hang out with this group of girls during break. One day one of them came up to me and said "Sara is trying to get us to go to principle and say your sexually harassing us. We told her no because its not true." I asked her why and she said "Sara just doesnt like you" Honestly it was one of the scariest moments of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 10:14 AM
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What really ended up happening is mgtow subreddit started gaining traction in 2018 and alot of divorced male Youtube content creators started popping up and were talking about mgtow and red pill content. It exploded on the scene because Men started agreeing about their experiences. PUA and Break Up coaches at became mocked because they profit off of Mens suffering. Roosh V and other popular "dating coaches" started changing their position because Men started waking up that its all a fucking joke…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 01:32 PM
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The body count topic is just the recent carousel talking point for the younger crowd Once you hit 30, no one gives a fuck anymore. "People don't change, they just become more of who they really are." House MD
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 09:37 AM
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On almost every red pill outlet its widely discussed that a woman's nature should be accepted. The men that are not actually "red pilled" still blame women for their lack of success. The red pill isnt something that you read in a day and all of sudden "im a pussy slayer" its takes a few years to internalize and cultivate the outcomes you want to happen. I think your mixing up "blame" with holding women accountable for shitty choice in Men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 09:33 AM
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If The Red Pill is wrong and your views on dating are correct then you should have no issues dating or being lonely. When I first found TRP sub at 18 I immediately though "wow what a bunch of fucking assholes treating women like garbage." Then I got older and I saw it from a more understanding perspective. Men infinitely have a harder time dating and that Women play the dating game better and more savagely then Men do. Women are not a special flower that needs to be treated with care and respect…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 09:45 AM
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Keeping first dates short, fun, and simple is they key to building ensuring that there will be a second one. If there is mutual attraction its guarunteed to end the night with a kiss. Too many guys I know and on here go "OMG I just had a date and it lasted 6 hours but she said shes not ready to date" - Not only did you ruin all mystery and excitement for the potential of dating but you inadverdently put yourself in the friendzone like a schmuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 09:19 AM
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Dating was brutal for me during 16-23. When I bought a house at 26 It was a night and day difference in how much women had interest in me. Multiple dates a week and at one point I had 3 girls on rotation. Now at 30 women where really just a waste of time to chase around. I should of been more focused in other areas. Im glad for the experience though. So YES I do think age matters
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:51 AM
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Its not "obsession with sexual purity" in itself. Its the long history of a woman giving it up for the wrong men and they know it. Young Men getting tired of being played by girls their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:35 AM
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because that isnt fun
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 10:37 PM
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Women want Man that give her "feelings" but not lovey dovey kind of feelings She wants the guy that doesnt give a fuck, treats her like a after thought, and make her emotions go up and down.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 06:43 PM
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If your Man your practically trash in society
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 06:41 PM
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If I had to give my 18-23 year old self advice: We live in a world that if your a Man it will be the hardest hill to climb. Don't give into your loneliness or lust to chase women around. Nice guys always finish last and don't ever think otherwise. Start maxing out that Roth IRA every year when you hit 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 05:59 PM
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Because Jeff Bezo is deep down a simp
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 12:25 PM
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Being a Man and dating is just a miserable experience all together. My personal experience dating is getting easier for me as I age. However the nostalgia, novelty, and desire is not there anymore compared to when I was I young man. I love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 08:47 PM
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This is total copium right here
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 08:33 PM
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What comes up, must come down thats what happens with everything. However Red Pill / MGTOW has changed under new pseudo names now. Its here to stay but the prominence it had when it exploded in 2018 wont happen again anytime soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 11:05 PM
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When Men say one thing its literal. "I want to keep things casual" = "I want to keep things casual until I'm ready to commit" When women say one thing it means the total opposite. "I just want a nice guy to treat me right" = "Chad wont commit. I need my BetaBilly to settle down with"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 01:38 PM
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It depends. The man may only have a IQ of 110 but what is he doing in his life that makes him alpha/masculine/attractive. He also may be more smart in other areas than the girl with iq 145. However usually women only want men smarter/better then themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 11:02 AM
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From my experience women will give more active signs if shes really into. However Women love playing the smoke & mirror game, so rarely they approach out of the blue
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:44 PM
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Dating through my late teens and early twenties was literally the worst experience of my life. Its literally rejection city 24/7 As soon as I bought a house at 26 and embraced not giving a fuck about anything anymore, I was all of sudden interesting to women "wow your so mature for your age". Words cant explain how much of a night and day difference it was. However I most was dating/hooking up with older women. 30s - 40s, Girls my age or younger no matter how hard I tried changing my game I coul…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 08:15 PM
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Depends. Im someone that prefers to wait, mostly because I have some form of ptsd because of my past. So if I was interested and attracted to someone and she was like "lets wait til we get comfortable with each other" And it turned into 2-3 months, I would be absolutely be okay for it as long there was some type of exclusivity tied to it. However if a Women was like "Yeah your waiting 3 months til we hook up" I would be like nah
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 08:10 PM
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being a broke man because everyone looks down on you like garbager fat women get praised for body positivity qween
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 08:02 PM
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Because Women have been on this kick of shaming men for wanting to date young women. When a Man dates someone younger its: OMG its because your low key being predatory and basically a pedo When a Woman dates a younger Man its: You go girl!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 11:50 PM
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This comment needs to be gilded or something
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 11:45 PM
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Personally, female friends in my circle have caused unnecessary drama in my life I have female acquaintances though that I'm cool with. I just don't let them close into my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 08:37 PM
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Looks are king because its what opens the door Secondly your mixing up personality with how a man plays the dating game. Women dont want nice guys, they want a bad boy that makes her "fEeL!" Thats why the trope "he treats me like shit but I love him" = "Its a rush of emotions that make me feel"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 08:31 PM
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Back when I would let my wife go to bed while I stayed up playing video games, I rarely got any. It was a subject of tension between us. We would fight all the time. Wherein I was told something along the lines, "I just want you to be nice to me. So basically your wife didn't like you were spending some time for yourself playing a dumb video game and that she wanted to feel special by hoarding all your time. Then she would leverage sex against you and say some goofy shit like "I just want you to…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 08:03 PM
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Anyone that has threats about sex toys for bedroom fun has some issues from the past to resolve.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 11:13 AM
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Would never marry in the current society. I'm sorta doing what your saying in your post. My girlfriend of 4 years lives with me at the house I purchased by myself. Her license and all her mail, taxes, car registration, voting information is all under her parents house address. She pays for all my bills and all I do is pay the mortgage and take care of the house/repairs. Shes totally cool with it and we have a great partnership. But I had to stick to my guns about this because I'm not ever puttin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 11:25 PM
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First found the r /theredpill when I was 17 in 2010 (before tinder). I was still really young at the time and my thoughts was that the red pill was nothing but women haters and players. Thought the community was full of assholes, that offered nothing insightful. Found r /purplepilldebate when I was 18 in 2011 (before tinder) and was like "This is much better. Women like you for personality and looks equally. That a proper mixture of game, charm, and looks is the correct method of dating. Still l…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 11:16 PM
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FDS should be banned like how TRP and MGTOW got banned
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 11:52 AM
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Current shaming culture towards Men is still the same since I was kid in the late 90s-2000s. Men self pleasuring themselves = Gross! Men struggle to get girlfriends = losers! Men paying for intimacy = Something is wrong with him! Men using online dating = Yikes bro, talk to some real people Society runs on a hyper-sexuality now. Women's sexuality is view as beautiful and Mens is vilified as ugly. This video is a great little nugget https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5u13\_Bdw5eY&ab\_channel=Alexand…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 11:43 AM
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Men finally saw that something was wrong. Mainstream media, reddit, and women hated knowing that Men were starting to understand how grossly unfair it it. 2019 was coined the "red pill awakening" for a reason. It was a renaissance
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:35 PM
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Women don't want to engage in relationships with men anymore This is total BS. Girls literally will chase their abusive POS ex boyfriends around or find another one just like him and be like "Omg I lover him so much" then cry wolf about how he "used her" Women are not walking out on the dating field like Men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:31 PM
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The Red Pill is a guide, its up to the user to discern what he feels is the correct way navigate the dating landscape. If you think Men are boring to talk to then you havent spoke/dated enough women. Let us know if you find your unicorn
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:47 PM
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Men love women for what they are. To simply exist is enough for Men to be attracted to them. Women its not the same concept. They love a Man by how he makes her feel, how he can provide and what he can facilitate for her. That's why its beaten to death that Men have to make money.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:38 PM
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I consider yourself an average looking guy. I think your handsome and your 6ft you got a lot of potential to pull chicks. Your skinny and you got a really innocent looking face, put some weight on and get your facial hair going. You dont need surgery at all bro. Secondly, take a break from online dating. Major OLD sites like Tinder and Bumble hire game developers to keep Men hooked on their platform to spend as much cash as possible. Its the same concept as the mouse spinning on the wheel to cat…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:33 PM
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My ex worked as a cocktail waitress in a really popular strip club. She worked time 3 nights a week and was making $1000 a night. She still worked a full time job as well during the day. Some strippers I knew where making $3500-$5000 a night I would 100% become a sex worker if there was a market for average blue collar Men lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 11:15 AM
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chilvalry is 100% dead
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 09:07 PM
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If your a man the first thing you got to do is kill Jealously. If your girl is playing games with your feelings DTB. Its literally the most toxic emotion that will drive you to insane shit for no good reason. Guys dont be jealous, walk away and start fresh!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 08:37 PM
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Personally sex should happen organically, through genuine connection and attraction. I'm a red pill man but personally I like to wait and be the one to dictate when sex is going to happen. I understand the 3 date rule but a lot of people put too much emphasis on it. Also I believe that spiritually sex is very powerful, the more partners we give ourselves to the more we lose a piece of ourselves. I think waiting for sex is a good thing but as long as your not wasting each others time and being di…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:10 PM
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I used to always show my ex girlfriends love, affection, and prioritized their needs if something was bothering her, they all ended up cheating and left me there with my thumb up my ass. 5 years post Red Pill the saying "Whoever loves least wins" has changed my experience. Keeping the frame that she has to work for your affection and prioritize your needs makes the situation 100x better. However I also care about her and respect her needs but dating doesnt stop once you get into a relationship, …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 09:15 PM
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The bar is already on the floor for men. Maybe Men should drive around and starting talking to homeless women to wife up
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 09:04 PM
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You say the "the manosphere express their preferences is far more problematic" however the only subreddits where Men can vent about their experiences is immediately faced with backlash or get quarantined. Neutral sites like r/ MensRights constantly gets under attack because "MiSoGNy!" But subs like Female Dating Strategy is yet to be taken down. It openly talks about financial extortion of men, vilifies, and how to use better mind games.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 03:06 PM
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Its just the sign of the times
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:37 AM
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I agree, I grew up the same way. Girls: I want to get married and have a committed man Also girls: Let download Tinder and get blown out in a parking lot with Chad, I'll text my boyfriend when im home.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:33 AM
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I deal with the second one all the time lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 10:24 PM
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If she isnt doing certain things with you then she really isn't that into you. If shes restricting access to sex or forms of sex then you should consider leaving her first because shes treating you like a option and not a priority.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 04:49 PM
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When I was growing up I was raised that if you were a gentlemen, be honest, and have a positive attitude then getting a girlfriend would be simple. It was a lie. I was left with constant rejection and hit with sound bites like "You would make a great boyfriend sOmEdaY" You realize that this old way of thinking doesn't work with todays current dating culture. Then you turn into a savage and all of sudden women go "wOw uR so interestingg!"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 04:44 PM
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"girl I spoke to for a month" thats your problem right there. If you were interested in her you should of initiate a day within the first 6-8 text exchange. You wasted to much time Shes fucking someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 12:37 PM
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What I like to do on here is share my experience. I don't want young men to be lied to like I did in the early 2000s. Red Pill is the way
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 10:08 AM
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Everyone lies - House MD
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 10:03 AM
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The bullet points are usually all true about women lol But realistically I jus want a date a woman that can hold a conversation and not be fat
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 10:02 AM
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"My brother in christ, please go outside and talk to a human" You do realize hes a Man right? No one will care anyways - too soon?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:29 PM
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Bro it happens. I've been red pill the last 5 years and still gets me wildin out every once in awhile
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:28 PM
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I was approaching girls that I would consider my looks match in my area (which is average), whether they were partiers or quiet coffee shop girl I tried multiple avenues to date and I was met with mostly rejection. I would read dating books, r/ dating, r/ tinder, talk to friends, talk to family for advice and had little success. Reality was that women my age or younger were just not attracted to me. It was either: "I was too nice", "Youd make a great boyfriend someday" or just No. Eventually I h…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 05:51 PM
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This is a shit post. I graduated highschool in 2011 before Tinder/Social media exploded and became part of our lives. After that dating became infinitely much more harder as a Man. W Most of the women I have dated after that milestone since I was 21 have been significantly older than me, single mothers, or divorced women. No matter how much I tried I just couldn't attract single younger women because they were having they were hooking up with better looking guys. Even when I bought a house at 25…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:01 PM
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The Red Pill is just a guide in how you can improve your life and especially with women. What you underestimate is how much young Men don't understand Women. No one teaches us and we rely on media and propaganda to what women like/dislike. We go into the dating game blind. Right from the get go Men are at an immediate disadvantage because Men desire Women and Women capitalize on the attention and options. Why do you think RedPill exploded over the last 5 years because young Men realize how much …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:26 PM
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When I was 18 in 2011 everyone would say to guys "lower your standards" 30 in 2023 and its "lower your standards further" for either blown out single mothers or divorced women. If your an average Man like myself we are just taking whatever we can get (within reason)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:20 PM
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Rollo is ancient and all these nuwave "red pill woke tradcon/pua grifters" are still perpetuating the idea that "Men need to get bank and Women need to be beautiful/young to marry young" and be stay at home wives. This is outdated to todays current way of life. It takes two incomes now to survive within in somewhat safe economic level. We are living in a society that requires Men & Women to slave their lifes away for the sake of the government machine. Women take the most antidepressants and Men…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:17 PM
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Women have been on this since the early 2000s ie: "I want to travel to fInD mYsElF they just dont like that Men are more actively doing it now. Monkey see, monkey do
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:07 PM
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"BF Material" Woman speak for "hes a safe choice and doesnt give me the tingles like chad does"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:00 PM
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Women have it easy for Sex and Dating. Men get crumbs
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:36 AM
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Bro code doesnt exist, its just college humor at best
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 11:51 PM
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Older Men date Younger Women because of Money. Older Women date Younge Men because they are trying to live the good ol days
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 11:41 PM
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We are starting to see this happening more frequent over the last decade. Younger women are getting access to Men that older nagging post wall women want and that they are practically grooming younger Men for a come up.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 09:36 PM
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The only thing that gave me solid advice was the Red Pill side bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:02 AM
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I would agree. It took a lot of YEARS for me to get good with women. But there was this average looking dude I knew that absolutely crushed it. He would hook up with hotties all the time and when we asked him "how did you do it?" he would always respond "idk it just happens"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 10:50 AM
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From my personal experience most women go through a hoe phase. Ive seen it happen with ex girlfriends and platonic girl friends. I had this friend Carli and if you looked at her she had the most innocent face, timid, and was super nice. Your classic coffee shop girl. She always wants to be in a committed relationship but when she's single and starts drinking shes turns into a freak. I introduced her to a friend of mine and eventually they start dating. Then I end up finding out she's hooking/blo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 10:44 AM
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Yeah they do lol explain how they dont
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 11:04 PM
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Been with a handful, some overweight to obese and its always subpar
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:22 PM
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Women live on easy mode bro. They are one swipe away from having whatever situation they desire. ie: Relationship Platonic or FWBs ONS Dates just to use Men for food Men take whatever you can get and hope shes nice to you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:17 PM
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Women live on easy mode
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:45 PM
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Absolutely. If your girl is posting bikini pics on insta shes a thot. You should like as many as possible
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 08:00 PM
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In terms of Rollo Tomassi his book The Rational Male and his content I consider it for the most part fundamental. However since 2018 and the explosion of Mgtow/red pill content. He ego-centrically coined himself the "godfather of red pill" and now embarrassingly makes click-bait content on youtube.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 10:43 AM
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The wall exists for everyone. Nothing new. Reality: After 30-40 dating is boring and the novelty is dead. If Society keeps punishing Men than absolutely stay on your Sigma grindset
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 10:26 AM
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I've been part of the manosphere for a long time and that being said I've seen the changes that's happened. I think its great that Red Pill has entered the mainstream because Men are finally becoming vocal about their issues. But this new phase of Red Pill content creators I just don't see where the direction is. Fresh&Fit, MTR, Andrew Tate, Pearl, WhateverPodcast, Donovan Sharpe, Rich Cooper, and etc are just pumping out rage / gotcha! content, pushing some bullshit book, or charging outrageous…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 10:19 AM
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I live in a cut throat east coast area. Party girl phase tapers off around 26 but they still trying to slut up until their 30s in my geographic. However the standards phase you speak of is from my experience is "I want someone to wife up all my baggage and potentially my cum trophy as well" They belong to the streets
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 10:13 PM
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Fresh&Fit , WhateverPodcast, PearlyClips and others are garbage podcasts dick riding the same content over and over again to for views
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 09:01 PM
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We live in a shallow world. If height was a non issue than we would never talk about it. Everything boils down to Looks - Money - Status
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 11:50 AM
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Body counts in your late teens and early 20s dont matter. Its when you and your friends hit 30 and the girls you use to know have gotten ran through. You wont even have to ask because you will see it in real time through facebook/insta
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:14 PM
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The video is hilarious lol but no not like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 06:30 PM
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"first you get the money, then you get the power, then you get the women" - Tony Montana
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:30 AM
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When it means neutral grounds, it means its a safe place to freely express whether controversial or agreed upon. This is the only safe place left on Reddit to talk about anything pill related.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 08:09 PM
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When I was growing up in the early 2000s body count was a thing. Here we are in 2023 body count is still a thing shocking!, however since this red pill mass awakening young men are really trying to verify how many partners a woman has been with because they are trying relate their own experience with her and secondly if what they are comprehending (red pill) is actually true Men should not care about how many partners have been with unless he deeply and purposely wants marriage. That's it. Howev…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:42 PM
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Everything was good until you got to betabux Betabux wether your young or old is just when a guy can not leverage his attraction to get a relationship. Women that hit the wall are looking for these Men because are the safe choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:22 PM
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Girl after a breakup: "Better jump on tinder to meet new fRiEnDs!" Boy after a breakup: "Better work more hours at work to relieve brutal depression and heartache"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 11:37 AM
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You should be listening to the ones that society keeps silencing. I've been in the mgtow/red community for 5 years and its truly the only path for Men to succeed. However most of these larger red pill pua/ trad con wolves is that they keep spitting the same rhetoric from 5 years ago and serving it up as something new.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:45 PM
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Women have it way easier than Men in the dating arena - more news at 6!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:37 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 06:27 PM
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It's not rocket science that Men love looks. Men are hardwired to look at Women, if we didnt instagram models, porn, make up industry wouldn't exist In terms with women. Looks gets you through the door with women but what determines the rest of the relationship is what you can provide for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 07:04 PM
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Men and Women can't really just be friends
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 05:30 PM
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I'm dating someone I'm settling for. Yes, I would desire to be with someone I'm strongly attracted to but realistically from my own experience produces more chaos than stability. She's very aware that she like me more than I like her but we respect each other so we work well together. If someone isn't that into you guide lines: Who says I love you more? You or Her? Who initiates texting more? How frequent are you having sex? Who rejects sex the most? Who compromises more? You or Her? If your par…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:17 PM
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Are there really unattractive women that get picked on and get zero attention: yes But the girls that are below average are still getting more attention than Men do. Yeah there still is going to be a list of dudes to hook up but there is still a list of guys to date as well. I've seen it first hand looking at girl-friends Tinder/Bumble/OkCupid inboxs. My Tinder profile with professional pictures taken the hieghest inbox I had was: 25. 90% No reply My obese non conventionally attractive girl frie…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:24 PM
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Its never mutual and never on good terms no matter what anyone says.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 12:36 PM
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Yeah if you want to attract higher quality women. Get your Looks, Money, Status up. To inspire lustful/visceral attraction is a whole other thing because if you don't check all the physical boxes and got that swagger than your not getting anywhere. If your short or average in height then your going to have to settle for whatever girl gives you attention
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:02 PM
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Manospherians actually hate how practical this strategy is The only men that are actually mad about this are the men that got played in the first place. The manosphere only coined the term so that they it can be better understood.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 12:46 PM
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Keyword survey. Secondly the "data" is most likely a small group of that took the survey.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:59 PM
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​ When a Woman cheats its because "she needs to find herself"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:52 PM
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My opinion is this. Men that ask about body count on a hookup site like Hinge/Tinder/Bumble don't know what they are doing. Even that texting about bedroom play was far too much over texts and should be explored in person. Most likely his body count was false and trying to perceive higher value in your eyes. Clearly he has no text game. Secondly the STI test if a fair stance especially when it comes to casual sex. I don't sleep with someone unless they actually put the time in to be with me. I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 09:59 PM
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Anecdotal. My experience is women are more likely to cheat more when they go on "girls nights out" or "girls vacation" without their man around. I'm not saying all of them but if they going out alone then they definitely want attention from other men. I've gone to parties and smashed girls with long term boyfriends and they'd just laugh it off like no big deal. Also got waitresses numbers in front of their boyfriends to smash as well, with no issue. I've caught my friends girlfriends on Tinder a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 09:22 PM
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Yeah dude lets seem some pics of you because regular dudes aint getting college girls ever I spent most of twenties being with older women because girls my own age didnt find me attractive enough. I had to settle with dealing with women that old. Average dudes aint getting shit
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 05:27 PM
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RP is not a movement its just an idea. Celibacy gaining traction in women is only after they already been used like a town bike and want to find their "beta bux" provider It doesn't get any better from here. The genders are only going to get more polarized until something extreme happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 10:26 PM
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Women have been vilifying and shaming Men for the last 30 years, through magazines, media, and radio. You get what you sow
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 09:45 PM
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Your mid 30s. I'm 30. I agree dating "isnt that hard" mostly because there is zero novelty anymore at our age. How many times do you see the same trick until its not exciting anymore. But these young boys (16-26) are definitely having a significantly harder time
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 09:30 PM
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Trust me its not happening. Its just meme culture mixed with virtue signaling
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 08:40 PM
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You never ask body count because it immediately puts women off and frames you as a weak guy. Women will never reveal their body count. If they do they will reveal how many boyfriends they had but never reveal all the times she sucked off random chads in her car. This being said its all about tactfully asking the right questions ie: What's your longest relationship(s) How long you been single?, How long have you used tinder/hinge/bumble for? What's your experience like? From there you can get a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:25 PM
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Going to give you my own personal experience. I haven't been able to date/attract girls my own age or younger since I've entered my twenties. Most likely because I'm a regular average looking guy and not 6ft tall. When I was 22 I was dating a 26 year old for 4 years. When I was 26-29 I was dating a string of women in the age bracket of 30-40. However since I hit 30, I don't want to deal with it anymore. I would rather prefer dating someone younger. Women over 28+ either got kids with baby daddy …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:13 PM
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They be lying anyways lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 08:44 PM
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whats wrong with breaking your legs in order to gain a few inches in height? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:51 PM
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Im old enough to remember the PUA wave in the early 2000s. It was the wild west of false hope and PUA artists ripping Mens pockets off for cash. You have to remember at this time in life that tinder really wasn't a thing and that fairy tale love in rom-coms existed. Men honestly believed if they carried themselves with enough confidence and good word play they could get women to like them. Game is still important and if anyone says otherwise is lying because its the basic groundwork where a situ…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 06:21 PM
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Average men generally have to accept what they can get with women. Women have a plethora of choice and can hook up with most guys they find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:01 PM
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Society has been leaving men behind for the last 20-30 years and these are the repercussions of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 10:04 PM
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Boys from puberty to 30 have an insane level of drive for sex, its a hardwired biological narcotic. Its a way to satisfy our base animal instinct. Thus why do you think society extorts men financially with their thirst for sex. “Everything in the world is about sex except sex. Sex is about power.”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 12:42 PM
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Don't even why people over analyze. If you want to be in the dating scene then you need to know where to market yourself. Everything boils down to a combination of: Looks. Money. Status.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 07:52 PM
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When I was younger and before OLD and Tinder even took off. Dating from my perspective back in the early 2000s felt more attainable and organic. Being 30 and experiencing the dating culture now, feel like the wild west. Its chaotic and everyone is in it for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 07:37 PM
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Men need to understand that if their average looking, under 6ft, and make average living wage your getting the bottom barrel for options.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 07:07 PM
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Women like security. When I bought a house when I was 25 all of a sudden I had older women hitting on me saying "wow your so mature for your age" then get their number afterwards. its a real thing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 05:08 PM
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Men NEED to adapt to current dating climate If your seriously dating a woman in 2023 then you need to protect your finances and personal life at all costs. No marriage. No cohabitation (unless she got her mail and/or her living residence is somewhere else)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 04:41 PM
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Because women get princess privilege 24/7
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 04:36 PM
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As someone whose been in that scene, don't trust a stripper to what she has to say about masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 11:44 AM
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All respect fam
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 11:07 PM
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She got the baggage of having a never ending amount of daddy issues
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 10:54 PM
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I've dated bi-sexual women before and yeah its fun for the short term but the long term as Man its just not a good bet long term. IMO if the woman is bi then the situation will be more chaotic and unpredictable. She's more likely to cheat and switch up on you. Just like single mothers are red flag then yea bi sexual women fall in the same category.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 09:40 PM
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courtship is dead
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 05:27 PM
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Women: He just needs to be confident and a go getter! also women: Hes under 6ft? Nah hes not masculine enough
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 05:25 PM
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Women are never actually single. She either got a string of male friends orbiting her or shes hooking up with someone with no label. Men between the ages of 18-30 are literally in a dessert of no attention. Society don't love them and if they aint making a boot load of money and flexing it on social media then your literally garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 05:23 PM
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Men should be striving for the best version of themselves at all times because that's the only thing they can actually control. But even this in itself is cope because 90% of Men are doing for female acceptance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 05:05 PM
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Doesn't matter. Its all about whether he sees the dating climate for what it actually is
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 09:38 PM
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If Men don't have money to leverage then their dating experience is going to be garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:29 PM
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Because its not politically correct. Men are just indoctrinated to be work horses to slave and grind away to keep society running. Secondly big corporations understands that sex sell, if they keep the carrot dangling for men then they will keep ignorantly chasing after women. Look at the suicide statistics. Society doesn't want Men to be "free thinking" because if they gain to much traction they either get shamed or big tech is auto banning them. Reddit has zero issues targeting male spaces but …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 01:29 PM
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Yes, women that hit 30 are past their prime. Some girls can pull off the attractive older woman vibe but most can't. In terms of a serious relationship, older women are much more chaotic then their younger selves. Now that I've gotten older, I'm finding that women in 20s are significantly more attractive and easier to be in a relationship with. That's my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 08:53 PM
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Women are the choosers and wanting to ride the carousel. Dont hate the player, hate the game
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 08:07 PM
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Women want to make it sound good to men that we can be their consulation prize of friendship. Even better is women want to know your intentions so that they can keep the edge in the situation. This is truth
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 01:02 AM
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The Red Pill attracts Men because society has demonized Men for the last 30 years + and its gives a practical guide how to navigate it. Its literally nothing special. When I was 18 in 2011 and this sub was only like 20k subs, online dating was still hush hush and Tinder wasn't even out yet. Men and women's sexuality was shamed extra hard. The only advice Men got about was either from suspicious PUA artists dating or obscure soundbites like: "just be yourself" "just be confident" "you should be h…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 09:50 PM
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If we are talking "advantage" then in my opinion: Men deciding not to settle down is their best move. Not only is this the best protective advantage, simultaneously these keeps women interested so they can never figuratively "have you" Other than that Men have to grind for every bit of attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:26 PM
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This is why the Tinder hoe phase is a thing. Men are replaceable by just one swipe
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 04:38 PM
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FWBs never workout long term. Someone always catches feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 12:02 AM
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Watch what people do not what they say. Golden Rule to all social interactions
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 11:26 PM
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This is irrelevant because its a "survey" people lie all the time on them especially women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 12:34 PM
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If your a Man then your automatically the villian
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 06:35 PM
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When your dating women its more incentive to lie than it is to tell the truth. As much as women say "JuSt Be HoNesT" its smoke and mirrors. I already sacraficed a part of my morality when I re-entered the dating game. Yeah I have zero issue with lying, hurting feelings, and doing what I want for my own self interest. When I was younger I considered myself a hopeless romantic until I realized that the world is mean place lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 06:30 PM
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This has been the a thing for the last 3 decades. However now that older cultures are getting more connected like the west is women's hypergamy is starting to rise. I've been seeing more tik toks of women from other cultures gaining traction.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 07:03 PM
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Going to answer just the title. Yes I know good Men but fail at dating. The problem is that even though they're successful they just dont have that charm and looks to get them to that next stage. Also mix in some simp behavior and its just a total lose situation. I also have Male friends that are just horn dogs but they post shitty facebook memes about how "Love should be about loyalty XYZ" but they cant stay committed for more than a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 06:30 PM
4

I love the swiss cheese reference
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 11:58 PM
2

Didnt know this! Very interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:38 PM
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The day women want a "nice and respectful man" then the whole world will burn
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:23 PM
1

My girlfriend lives with me but my stipulation was that she can't put anything saying that she lives at my house. Her drivers license, mail, taxes, and her car registration is labeled under her parents house. This is the way I like it because of the common law rules in my state. But I agree cohabitation kills sex drive, the old saying goes "familiarity breeds contempt" Edit: My girlfriend and I have a understanding and mutual "relationship". Need to put this in before I get down voted to hell lm…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 06:50 PM
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This guy gets it!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 09:51 PM
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Men go to video games because they get zero attention in the real world. Get a grip. I have my own business, house, and I still play video games just to escape the bullshit of everyday life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 09:50 PM
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"trp men worry more about xyz" Society literally gives zero fucks about Men that suffer but society gives free hand outs for women 24/7
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 09:33 PM
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based comment right here
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 05:53 PM
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Their is definitely a lack of critical thinking with young Men. Even ingesting the Red-Pill the importance of self-reflection, critical thinking, and honest is paramount. You can be a based Red-Piller but what happens when your not utilizing to its fullest potential. Men need to be better, myself included.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 09:18 PM
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WGTOW does not exist. It's cop out because they know what they doing. Young or old they still have more option than any guy in the current marketplace. Either they could of settled down young but didn't OR they get old and they become a spinster. Most guys have to "go their own way" because they either get scraps of attention or literally no attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 08:10 PM
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Can confirm this is the way
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 08:09 PM
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They really dont though OP
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:01 PM
0

red pill women dont exist nice try lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 10:41 PM
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Good question actually. I think it would of taken me much MUCH longer to be RedPilled if I was in the top %10 of Men. I love being red pilled it literally saves me from so much bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:31 PM
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Idk my girl roughly makes roughly 2k more than me a month. I'm not bothered by it but we work as a team so she really helps out for utility bills/food
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:24 PM
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Comment section is rediculous. Old women hooking up with younger guys is "empowering" but Old guys wanting to hook up with younger men is "pedo" Double standard. Men settle for scraps. Women don't understand how good they have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:18 PM
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My girlfriend makes 40k a year more than me, I love it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:07 PM
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Getting laid at 30 is considerably more easier than it was when I was in my late teens and early twenties. Its literally a non issue. Type of women you going to be clapping is other 30 year olds, single mommies, and divorcees. If you got a good a job and can burn a little cash pretty much you can pay for sex with whatever looking escort you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 08:22 PM
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Trust me, everyone knows Women like dating shitty Men. Its literally like clockwork. I'll take "He was so toxic and abusive, but I still love him!" for $500, Alex
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 08:14 PM
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Looks maxing helps but it greatly depends on where a guy stands in the hierarchy as is. Because if your short, have a average face, but a body of a greek god then most of the time that wont gain that much attraction to where you already were previously. Women want the best combination of Looks, Money, Status they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 08:05 PM
1

TRP only has two categories its either Alpha or Beta. Your example is Peter Parker: Yeah he's high morale and good guy but he's literally a vigilante. He prioritizes his purpose of being Spider-Man above all else including MJ. Thus the famous qoute "with great power comes great responsibility" His lifestyle is dangerous, unpredictable, and has insane status. He's practically a bad boy but has a morale code. This makes him Alpha. This brings me into yeah a guy can have a sense "high justice, mora…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 07:49 PM
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"do women include blowjobs in their n count?" Women dont give a fuck. Women are never truthful with body count as is lol there is a grain of truth when they say "if a guy says he slept with x amount of girls divide by 3, for women multiply by 3"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 12:52 PM
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I consider myself a strong believer in Red Pill theory. All we are witnessing is a renaissance of Men opening their minds of how out of touch they are in society and the dating culture. Blue Pill culture is more damaging than Red Pill content.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:02 PM
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"jUsT nEeD tO PuT iN mOrE WoRk Bro" http://www.cpreview.org/blog/2021/6/why-are-we-failing-our-sons-an-inquiry-into-the-education-gap-that-plagues-young-boys-in-america-today
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 12:44 PM
2

Dated singled mothers, multiple times. Not worth it. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 12:29 PM
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Enjoy the decline
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 12:29 PM
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It takes an insane amount of practice to understand when a woman is actually flirting with you. However just because she likes to flirt doesn't automatically mean she's interesting, 50% of the time they just like getting the attention. Women live life on tutorial mode
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 12:23 PM
1

Purple pill is denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:34 PM
4

Men have been falling behind in almost every facet of society currently, its no wonder why males are bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:32 PM
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Issue 1:Men are never taken seriously when it happens to them. Also the lack of accountability society shows to women when they use the rape card for false accusations or when its used for a scapegoat for their actions. Issue 2: The whole not paying for dates/splitting the bill is the current standard to modern dating. It's not that Men can't pay for dates its about not being a sucker when she uses you for a foodie call or just flat out rejects you 1-2 dates in. Traditional style of dating is no…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 02:41 PM
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Hate to break it to you but most women will hold off on "sexual things" depending on whatever category of Man she puts you in. If your someone she's deffinetely into and chasing you, she will go above and beyond to make you satisfied. But if your her 3rd - 4th string back up or "boyfriend material" than she's either going to give you bare minimum sex or put up resistance because "not tonight I have a headache" Its a real thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 06:05 PM
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I think all relationships get to this point. After 3 years with my current girlfriend; I'm at this point. She's gained a lot of weight and I've told her politely that my sexual attraction to her is near zero. I've tried encouraging her and I've gave her tough love but she's still not doing anything about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 02:58 PM
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