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I don’t think it takes 2 hours and 45 minutes to figure out whether you’re physically attracted to someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 05:54 AM
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Women in this thread all saying no thanks but every man that looks like what OP is describing has an attractive significant other.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 04:46 AM
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If OP was autistic he never would have been a fuck boy at any point
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:41 PM
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Define “in great shape”. Like are we talking long distance runner physique or gym physique? I only ask because in my teens I was the former, and it did absolutely no favors for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:20 PM
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Women whose looksmatches are chads
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 09:52 PM
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Fair. And no because pineapple pizza is goated.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:38 PM
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Then why keep having causal sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:34 PM
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Nobody’s arguing against that. That isn’t the issue at hand. The issue is women repeatedly accepting those offers despite claiming being pumped and dumped is as bad as male loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:32 PM
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Ahh…I see we’ve moved on from the denial phase and onto the defensive phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 08:46 AM
8

He probably watched reels from grifters for a while and thought they were the representation of what the red pill really is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 03:04 PM
4

Empires that didn’t practice monogamy crumbled because men weren’t motivated to do anything, including fight for their empire.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 04:48 PM
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So the men who worked their asses off into their 30s and 40s to build their looks, status, etc. aren’t deserving…but the 30 and 40 something year old women who spent their 20s getting ran through that are now screaming “where have the good men gone” are deserving?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 07:03 PM
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The only place I’ve seen men do this are in movies, Female locker room talk on the other hand: intricate details about sex, penis size, ass hair, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:51 PM
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Female attractiveness isn’t as attached to muscularity as male attractiveness is. End thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 08:17 PM
-5

So you would agree Donald Trump is a better person than Luigi Mangione?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 06:03 PM
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15 percent is still generous. And you forgot to add the false accusations going the other direction. And the divorce robberies. And the overall contributions to the male loneliness epidemic. And the list goes on. Men can be shitty. Women can be shitty. But society today only believes one and not the other, and that needs to stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 05:58 PM
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Those figures are far from genuine. Paternity fraud is AT LEAST a 1 percent risk, because that’s the percentage of fathers who FOUND OUT that they’re not their child’s father. Who knows how many women get away with it. That 30 percent statistic is self-reported, and as for the result of reports that made it to law enforcement: False report: 5.9% Case did not proceed: 44.9% Case proceeded: 35.3 Insufficient information: 13.9% Safe to say that far less than 30 percent of women have been assaulted.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 05:52 PM
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So there are more bad men simply because men are physically stronger? And the only way to be a bad actor is to assault someone? Paternity fraud? False rape accusations? Legal robbery via divorce court?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 04:22 PM
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Generally speaking, men are replaceable to women pre-wall. Women are replaceable to men post-wall. The women who act upon this principle are the ones who hit the wall the hardest.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 10:02 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/vajAr3GjDm
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:57 PM
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Cheating easily, but you also shouldn’t dismiss people’s pasts as some sort of nothingburger.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 12:55 PM
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Came here to say this. Women think masculinity is synonymous with attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 01:13 PM
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The thing is for women it’s not a barrier. For men, absolutely it is. Men value purity. Women value experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:12 PM
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That’s what reading The Guardian would tell you. Red Pillers that frequent this sub have been shouting from the rooftops that Andrew Tate is a hypocrite and a grifter.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 02:23 AM
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I think you’re mistaking the red pill for the Andrew Tate cult. Two completely different ideologies.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 02:09 AM
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This is where the “I don’t want sex to ruin the relationship” argument falls apart when women defend making a guy in a relationship wait for sex but not others. Sex is very much a part of the vetting process for women. It’ll happen ASAP if she’s truly attracted to the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 12:36 PM
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A shy and average looking woman has it easier than an outgoing and average looking man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 10:36 PM
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The point is that being seen as an available hole is better than not even being seen at all…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:01 PM
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Pretty sure women didn’t have a loneliness epidemic in the 90s.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:08 PM
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You make very good observations. However, are these observed behaviors from women due to indecisiveness? My first inclination is that this is strategy rather than indecisiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 02:02 PM
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Guy 3 isn’t getting sex until she runs out of other options.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 01:51 PM
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Scrolled too far for this comment
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 01:37 PM
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Well then prevalence aside yes, I’d say the rule applies to pegging too. If you’re a weirdo who likes pegging then, well, sucks to suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 07:18 PM
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Blowjobs and anal are mainstream sex acts. Pegging is a niche sex act. I don’t think you can apply the same principle to both.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 04:32 PM
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Respectfully have to disagree with your wife (and agree with you) on the first one. Women who are open to sex before marriage (and don’t have a universal 3 date or 30 day rule that they’ve made no exceptions for) have told me that sex is a part of the vetting process itself. One woman’s quote to me was “I want to make sure all of your parts work”. That part of the vetting process is expedited for attractive men and put on the back burner for others. Women know sex is inevitable in a relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 02:32 PM
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That argument truly died when women started forcing their men to get vasectomies
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 02:58 PM
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Women are more content to be alone because women are never truly alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:13 PM
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I mean we already pay for women’s poor decision making so why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 12:38 PM
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Doubtful. Women on this sub have made a fuss about the husband stitch on numerous occasions, which is far more infrequent than paternity fraud. Something tells me you’re no different.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:01 PM
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I’m so glad I started this thread man. A lot of self-proclaimed compassionate people showing their true colors.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 02:53 PM
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It doesn’t make sense to you because you’re downplaying the seriousness of paternity fraud. It seems we have reached an impasse…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 07:46 PM
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So if it happens about as often as women becoming pregnant via rape, should we not obsess about that either? That’s why I’m making the comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 07:35 PM
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So women are mind-readers when it comes to virgins but not abusers and serial killers?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 07:32 PM
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Huh? Even the CDC says 20 percent of abortions happen after the first trimester.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 07:24 PM
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It’s estimated to happen about as often, if not more often, as women becoming pregnant via rape, which we see discussed on national platforms as nauseum (and rightfully so, don’t get me wrong)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 07:18 PM
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The embryo develops a brain within the first month of conception, as well as a heart. All of which more than likely happens prior to an abortion. But that’s aside from the point. It’s not the man’s fault he fell victim to paternity fraud. It IS the woman’s fault she got pregnant in my hypothetical.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 06:55 PM
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In other words, to avoid consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 06:17 PM
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So why get the abortion?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 06:04 PM
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So a woman who becomes pregnant via a casual fling shouldn’t have to own up to her own actions but a paternity fraud victim should?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 06:01 PM
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People are responsible for their own actions. That’s the logic. The unborn child shouldn’t have to pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 05:56 PM
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So using that logic you’d agree that women who become pregnant after a casual hookup shouldn’t be able to have an abortion?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 05:54 PM
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The woman gets the freedom to have a go bag. There, we’re even.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 12:39 PM
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If sex for women often sucks then why do women often have sex? If sex for women often sucks then why would women even bother jumping through hoops to cheat on their spouses at a rate similar to men cheating on theirs? Something isn’t adding up here…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:13 PM
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Fax (neither should have a hoe phase)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:16 AM
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But are they marrying them?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:00 PM
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For men dating is night and day more difficult. Also men don’t deny women have struggles. We simply disagree that they should be used as a reason for men to kneel before women and bow to their wishes. Which, obviously, many men like you do, and as a result we now live in the third wave feminist hellscape we have today.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:45 PM
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You’re missing the point. Men acknowledge that women have struggles, whether it be pregnancy, menstruation, fear of being alone in public, etc. We men aren’t asking women to fix men’s issues, but rather simply acknowledge them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:39 PM
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It’s a valid complaint though. How would women like it if men told them to stop bitching about pregnancy?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:33 PM
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It’s not necessarily what we’re looking for in those comment sections, but rather what would happen if the roles were reversed. The comments would not hesitate to say “he’s an asshole for not appreciating your hard work taking care of HIS children” or “he’s obviously a pervert and a predator, STAY FAR AWAY”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 01:50 PM
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I’d even argue that it’s hilarious BECAUSE it’s pathetically lacking in self awareness
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 01:09 PM
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A set of fringe conservative guidelines that people keep linking Trump to, no matter how many times he says he has no ties to it. Doesn’t stop liberals from using it as a talking point though
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 08:27 PM
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Even worse is the update OP posted in another post. The wife cheated on him and yet the comment section is still piling on OP. Truly insane levels of misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:50 PM
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The comments all say “your body your choice BUT yada yada yada blah blah blah”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:43 PM
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If it wasn’t for double standards, Reddit would have no standards at all
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:16 PM
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I think a big reason women downplay how much of a need affection and intimacy is for men is because they follow all of these social media accounts of single women in their 30s whose whole gimmick is basically “I’m a single woman in my 30s and proud and happy about it”. And because of this, women are like “see, these women are just fine on their own, why can’t men say the same?” However, it’s blatantly obvious deep down inside that these women are not happy, or else they wouldn’t be spending thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 01:27 PM
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Being Christpilled myself yes it is morally bad. But taking that out of the equation, dual mating strategy negatively affects the dating market for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 01:38 PM
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Men will date women around their own age if said women have their priorities straight and have minimal baggage. That doesn’t include high body count women or single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 01:13 PM
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Also who else is saying anything about sex work? If men want prostitutes they don’t have to travel to a third world country to do that. Most passport bros go overseas to find romantic partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 01:07 PM
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I’m not in favor of paying for sex in any way shape or form but that money’s better served going to women in poverty than going to some OF whore
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 11:27 AM
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Oh you sweet summer child. Give it some time. Your taste in men may not ever change, but your priorities certainly will. Dual mating strategy baybay!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 01:47 PM
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This comment perfectly encapsulates why men don’t take what women say at face value…because it vastly contradicts what men are observing in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:19 PM
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Men don’t hit the same wall women do
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 01:24 PM
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Yeah because how dare a woman be held accountable for telling people behind her fiancé’s back that he’s not good at sex and her exes were better…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:38 PM
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swear that he valued honesty and could handle it I’d say he handled it pretty well tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:27 PM
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Yeah that comment section was disappointing to see but not necessarily surprising. Reddit has always been a cesspool of white knights.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:08 PM
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No worries mate
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:35 PM
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Just for clarification this was a theory I saw floating around on social media, not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:31 PM
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Lizzo was cancelled? That’s news to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 03:28 PM
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Women just need to do squats and cardio 2 days a week to achieve peak value.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:42 AM
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Is height king? Are muscles king? I dunno…but I know damn well personality isn’t king.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:56 PM
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You don’t because they’re not
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:53 PM
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Even if it’s just pump and dump, Chads are just as bad if not worse than simps when it comes to giving undeserved validation to these types of women. Validation comes in various forms, whether that comes through online comments, likes, OF subscriptions, etc (via simps) or through sex (via Chads).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 03:26 PM
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Men aren’t telling women that they should start caring, but rather just start being honest and upfront about their preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 05:17 PM
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And there it is… The buzzword that women and bluepillers have been using as a defense mechanism against nice guys speaking out. The “i” word.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 01:59 PM
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Feminists hate when they’re objectified…unless they can make a profit off of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:30 AM
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It’s used waaaaaay beyond those parameters…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:22 AM
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Umm…what?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:01 PM
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Women: Our options suck Men: Y’all have options?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:02 PM
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Those aren’t high standards whatsoever. And the last part of that reads “men need to know their place and let women be the ones with high standards”. Most men don’t hate women. And as for the ones that do…well…you can only have so many bad experiences with women before feelings of resentment start to creep in. That’s just human nature. A vast majority of men with those expectations also expect to pay for their dates. Women are the ones who want their men to be traditional while maintaining their…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:38 PM
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Like a drunken one night stand at a bachelorette party ‘didn’t count’ And the explanation for that would be something along the lines of “it didn’t mean anything”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:41 PM
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It all comes down to simping. Modern men simp for women more than they ever have in history as far as I can remember.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:26 PM
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open a text book any history text book This has to be the most redundant and disingenuous argument ever and I see it all the time on the internet. Who in the blue hell casually reads history books in their spare time? (At least to the degree as to which I see this argument used online)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:46 PM
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If the Incel Rising was going to happen, it would of happened. Instead they just sit in their basement watching porn and playing videogames. This cannot be emphasized enough. It’s been nearly a decade since the Isla Vista shooting yet that remains the outstanding case in regards to incel violence, despite how much more frequently men have been ridiculed for being virgins as of late. Incels aren’t as violent as society makes them out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:46 PM
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I wouldn’t say all men. Just incels. Despite the fact that their bad experiences come from chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:08 PM
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The first movie you’re referring to is Goon, and by no means is the woman you’re referring to in that movie some sort of laughingstock.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:13 PM
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The fact that Rich Piana existed shows the opposite. Dude had the face of an ogre but was successful simply because he was jacked.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 10:17 PM
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But you didn’t respond to what the post is saying. How do these things make men insecure?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 02:06 PM
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Her competition decides her level
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:34 PM
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Yup. A beta orbiter is a man who has been friendzoned. An alpha widow is a woman who has been fuckzoned.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 12:32 PM
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Clearly the guy is a Chad!!! Well he’s certainly not an ugly guy since they can’t even get a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:21 PM
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The sad part is society has just run along with this misandry. It’s to the point where even men who display a “male guilt” complex are repulsive to women because they think those men have some sort of ulterior motives.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:52 PM
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Damn that’s rough. Hopefully everything has been better since brother!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:26 PM
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500 calories a day for 10 weeks???? I went on an 1800 calorie per day cut for a month and even then it seemed like I was constantly hungry…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 01:37 PM
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Flair checks out. Have my upvote.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 12:22 PM
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Women will call romantically unsuccessful men inc*ls in an attempt to validate their choices of men. They’re convincing themselves that these men are unsuccessful because they’re internally misogynistic or something of the sort, when in reality women are way more shallow than they think they are. So between this and what you’ve described, it’s a coping mechanism on multiple fronts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 08:50 PM
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Yep. And the same women who use “inc*l” as an insult are the ones that say they can’t stand men because “all they care about is sex”.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 12:53 PM
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You’re really going to come onto a post with almost 100 comments in less than 4 hours and comment this?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 05:39 PM
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Translation: Join activities or groups with an ulterior motive IF you pass a certain looks threshold.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:39 PM
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I think where OP is getting at is that “it will just happen” was a strategy that boomers (as well as modern women) were able to employ with a high success rate. Modern men, especially those in r/ForeverAlone, not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:24 PM
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Man I loved when the hypocrisy came full circle when the same people and media outlets who bashed Leonardo DiCaprio also bashed Vivek Ramaswamy for bringing up raising the voting age to 25. For example: https://www.salon.com/2022/09/15/dating-leonard-dicaprio-gigi-hadid-age-gap/ https://www.salon.com/2023/05/16/candidate-wants-to-restrict-voting-for-americans-between-18-to-25-amid-struggles_partner/
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 01:18 PM
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I’d like to add that the fact that our society does this to men writ large is dangerous as fuck…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:19 PM
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When did the original commenter say he was average?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 10:48 PM
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Promiscuous women wouldn’t even give average men a chance anyway, so it’s a two way street of not wanting each other. The alpha widow complex is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 10:42 PM
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Been married for 6 years and in a relationship for 12. Swing and a miss.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 10:25 PM
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Yep she’s recreational use only
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 08:10 PM
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That escalated quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 04:25 AM
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Glad we have an understanding here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 04:25 AM
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Because there’s zero link whatsoever between economic success and societal stability… /s Come on now, you know better than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 08:30 PM
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People deal with worse things in society like poverty and hunger Exactly. Our society isn’t exactly thriving right now. Maybe it would be if people were contributing more instead of mooching off of their parents/the government.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 08:23 PM
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History shows it’s a problem for society. By nature men are polygamous, and women are hypergamous. Prior to societally enforced monogamy, only top tier men were mating with women because of this, leading to all other men becoming disinterested in contributing to a society that was unfair to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 08:10 PM
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At some point we have to address the fact that men, like women, can have less than desirable sexual encounters.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 02:40 PM
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Yeah that’s not how things play out in the real world…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 08:40 PM
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Because women need to believe the man is inherently misogynistic to make themselves look better, when in reality he doesn’t pass a looks/money/status threshold.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:27 PM
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Any celebrity with the last name Larson…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:49 PM
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The person doing the zoning in both scenarios is a user. The person getting fuckzoned has it better because they’re at least getting sex from the person they’re attracted to…making them a user of sorts as well, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 05:05 PM
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Case and point women don’t get friendzoned, and it shows via not having sympathy for men who have been friendzoned. Women get fuckzoned, meaning they’re still able to get sex and validation from men that don’t want to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 02:21 PM
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If you don’t go to the gym, then go to the gym. If you already do…then keep pushin bro. You got this!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:35 PM
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It seems like the schedule was what bothered you more, and not his muscularity. Your last sentence is spot on though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 08:43 PM
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Yup. Insecure women “have preferences”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 08:24 PM
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So essentially traditional redpill. Not the stuff you see on the podcasts these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:03 PM
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Yup. ‘Incel’ is another example.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:21 PM
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Then where does the “fuck” in fuckboy come from?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:20 PM
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There are plenty of people that exist in the middle of these two extreme opposites
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 10:21 PM
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Bro’s a simp
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:59 PM
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Idk man people are crazy haha
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:41 PM
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Also noteworthy…American women have ridiculous beauty standards for men. E.g., the woman on here that said John Krasinski was a 6…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:38 PM
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Yeah there was no “Speculation” flair so I had to use the discussion one haha
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:35 PM
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So we almost agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:32 PM
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Ahh there’s the disconnect. Yeah I could see him being a 4 in other countries. But here in America the bar is absolutely lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:15 PM
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Oh I agree. I can’t understand why men (or women as well for that matter) don’t get in shape to improve either their current relationship or their relationship prospects. But that being said, the average man is not fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:06 PM
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I know you’re expecting me to say Billie Eilish or something similar to that, but I know women on that level are above that. I just think for both men and women our standards are too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:57 PM
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Man are our beauty standards this out of whack? A lot of people don’t understand how ugly ugly can be. Also are you guys American?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:55 PM
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Glad you guys pointed out the post history of the man in question. A couple questions for me that come up based on this: Did this behavior start before or after the wife lost attraction? Is the man also contributing to the dead bedroom by holding his SO to the same standards as these internet whores?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:40 PM
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On a scale of 1-10, with 5 being average, this is a 5/6-10 guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:27 PM
1

Precisely. I just think men need to stop simping. Yes, simping has always been a thing, but it really became an issue once OLD and easier access to pornography came about. Combine that with modern feminism taking a stranglehold on society and the result you get is the level of hypergamy we see today.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 02:44 PM
8

I mean it is 2023…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 08:13 PM
2

Fuckin landchad bro 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 07:09 PM
1

I mean enough women care to the point where i typed in “why do men care about” on google and the first suggestion that came up was “why do men care about body count” Plus women ask that question over and over again on Reddit, whether it’s on this sub or others.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 02:27 PM
9

If single promiscuous women in their thirties aren’t struggling then why are women so upset about the fact that guys care about body count?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:17 PM
2

Yup. It’s the whole reason why women get upset about the fact that guys care about body count. They want their cake and they want to eat it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:04 PM
1

But are they happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:41 PM
0

Accurate up until the last sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:15 PM
9

Who said the mysterious guy with the bad boy edge was poor?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 01:35 PM
3

Yeah I somewhat misattributed my reply. I was trying to say women like to have sex nearly as much as men not that they’re nearly as horny as men. I do agree with you though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 05:16 PM
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Women make up 40 percent of sex addicts. Yes, lower than men, but to say “not in the same ballpark” is absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:33 PM
-2

Not all men are simps…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 07:13 PM
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A harsh pill to swallow for both men and women. Women: just because you had sex with a guy doesn’t mean he’s attracted to you Men: to have sex with a woman you have to clear a high bar looks-wise
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 07:08 PM
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Virgin men have trouble finding a sexual partner. Feminists: “they’re incels and women should stay away from them” Average men struggle to find dates. Feminists : ”women are allowed to have preferences” Men are shamed for not wanting to be with obese women. Feminists: “men are insecure” Men aren’t having any luck on dating apps. Feminists: “that’s because all men want is sex and they should be ignored (unless they’re extremely attractive)”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 02:12 PM
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But typically, that’s going to be off-putting to most women. I’d like to rephrase that to “that’s going to be off-putting to women most of the time.” The biggest variable here isn’t who the woman is. It’s the attractiveness of the man approaching her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 07:40 PM
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A woman admitting women get sex easily isn’t something you see everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 12:11 PM
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Well that’s part of the issue. The checklist for what the average woman wants is much larger than that of the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 12:09 PM
1

Simping is the primary cause of hypergamy. If men stopped simping hypergamy would cease to exist. Then women would have no choice but to lower their standards. But that won’t happen anytime soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 12:43 PM
1

Men just need to stop simping. All there is to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 12:21 PM
2

For validation? Didn’t you just list social stigma as one of your main talking points in the original post?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:20 PM
5

And she mentioned stealthing in the OP. How many times have we seen stories about women poking holes in condoms? Again, the risks may not be at the same level but for men there are plenty.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 12:49 PM
2

Did you read through the thread? In no world am I justifying sexual assault. I’ve explained why that is in detail. And why do you have to believe incels commit a majority of sexual assaults?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 07:28 PM
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Bingo. Feminists/Bluepillers need to believe incels are sexless and dateless because they are misogynistic. That’s what keeps their narrative afloat. The reality, however, is that men become involuntarily celibate because “personality is king” is a complete fallacy, and the fact of the matter is they don’t meet a certain looks threshold in a hypergamous dating sphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 07:07 PM
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A lot of times there are little to no warning signs with perpetrators, so by me saying they’re allowing these men into their lives isn’t victim blaming. Would I blame the front desk clerk for allowing the Vegas shooter into the hotel? Fuck no. That would be ridiculous. But it happened. And, speaking outside of romantically interested individuals, what makes you automatically think the guy at work is an incel? What makes you think the rapist at the grocery store (weird example) is automatically a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:13 PM
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No, I said multiple women are allowing these men into their lives. I’m guessing this isn’t a lack of reading comprehension and that you’re just trying to twist my words to signify moral superiority. And I’m the one that provided data (Via the National Sexual Violence Resource Center btw). All you did was post a link to a Wikipedia page. And these statistics don’t factor in the women who were afraid to identify the perpetrator as being their sexual partner out of fear that it will happen again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:51 PM
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Eight out of ten rape victims know the perpetrator personally. Also a majority of rapists are repeat offenders, meaning multiple women are allowing these men into their lives. Making a common sense conclusion using this data tells me incels aren’t committing a majority of these crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:23 PM
1

That’s fine. Just make sure you set your looks threshold accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:38 AM
1

I was just saying “success with women” is a broad term. Does it make you worse at getting women in the first place? Perhaps not. Does it make you worse at maintaining a relationship with a woman? Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 09:24 PM
3

Tell me you don’t take addiction seriously without telling me you don’t take addiction seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 12:53 PM
1

What about married men like myself? I got into porn when I was younger and couldn’t get a girlfriend but when I got a girlfriend (now wife) later on I couldn’t stop watching porn. It negatively affected our relationship. After numerous tries I was finally able to quit watching porn once I gave up on fapping as well. Now my wife is my only sexual outlet, and the improvement I’ve seen in my life has been significant.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 12:37 PM
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Good bot
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:59 AM
12

Please for the love of all things holy tell me you forgot to add the sarcasm tag
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 12:23 PM
4

They’re not chasing them they’re settling for them because status-matched women won’t give them the time of day
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 02:34 PM
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Yup. Calories in/calories out. Don’t have too much time for exercise? Reduce caloric intake.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 12:40 PM
5

Women don’t say yes because they don’t have the ability to say no…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 09:58 AM
1

Water is wet
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 09:45 AM
-2

Do we really want to go down this rabbit hole?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 08:21 PM
9

You just described a lot of women (a lot of people in general, actually)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 12:18 PM
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Why would men lie about hard truths?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:57 PM
1

In that case if sex is so miserable then why have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 08:04 PM
6

If you don’t date men then what perspective do you have to offer on the matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:47 PM
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Yes, the number one thing men look for in a potential mate is looks. But the thing is men will readily admit that as opposed to going off on some virtue signaling “personality is king” tangent.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 09:29 PM
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I’m just naming a large group of people (over 1 million Americans are high school football players alone). You also have people who play any sport that requires strength training, people who go to the gym frequently, those who have fast metabolisms, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 02:14 PM
1

Go to any college or high school football roster. That works too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 01:59 PM
1

Any NFL roster will do
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 01:56 PM
1

I sure as fuck hope so
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:35 PM
2

The problem isn’t that pick up artistry works. The problem is that women let it work…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 03:23 PM
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Damn…a woman who settles for a looksmatched(!) husband has to openly flirt with a more attractive man to make herself feel like she’s “still got it”. Hypergamy is cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 08:53 PM
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Yeah that’s just baffling to me. Like what the hell else do these women think men opening up looks like to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:25 PM
1

Yeah your definition of traditionalism is just a liiiiiiiitle off…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:55 PM
5

If you’re not that attractive you’re going to struggle regardless of ND or NT
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:00 PM
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All of which to say ND vs NT is a nonfactor when it comes to a female’s ability to find a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:09 PM
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Where the guy is better looking? Tons. Where the girl is better looking? Just one of my friends, but he’s confident and not afraid of rejection (which he faces quite often…he just takes a shit ton of chances). Edit: he’s also from a small town, so hypergamy isn’t as much of a thing since the dating pool is smaller
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:08 AM
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There are lots of average Joes and average Jane’s coupled up indeed. I will say, though, that typically the female wears the pants in looksmatched relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:47 AM
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No he’s upset with western women because that’s EXACTLY what they’re doing now with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:58 PM
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Late to the party. If I were to fathom a guess these are probably looksmatched men at the ugliest
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 10:28 PM
2

Frequently insulting people is not common autistic behavior. Perhaps a small portion of those with Asperger’s can unknowingly insult people but outside of that no that’s not normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 03:05 PM
1

Yeah as an autistic person myself I agree with what everyone else is saying. Your brother’s behavior has nothing to do with being on the spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 02:54 PM
1

I’ve always said redpill theory is mostly accurate, but the way it has been practiced in society is flawed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 09:49 AM
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You’d be surprised how many men are into Amazonian-type chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 01:49 PM
1

I sense a Letterkenny reference incoming
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 09:57 AM
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Wow. I just don’t have words for what I just read… Thanks for the share. Cheers!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:48 AM
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Do you have a link for the Rolling Stone piece? I agree with you btw…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:15 AM
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I’m going to start off by saying the MC in question is a piece of garbage, and there’s no excuses for what he did. That being said…of course the comments go on to vilify men writ large, as per usual with r/relationship_advice. Saying this is something that is characteristic of men and men only, as if women have never cheated while their husbands are overseas fighting for our freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 04:07 PM
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Spot on
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 01:25 PM
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No it means he has a lot of work to do in the looks department
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 12:24 PM
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Women just do squats and cardio and they’re good to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 09:45 AM
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Good read sir. But is the point of the story really that women don’t know what women want? Or is it that women would rather maintain their female mystique than help their brother find a date and earn $100 in the process?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 02:38 PM
1

And women openly complain about men on any other forum that exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 08:15 PM
1

If you lose your job or get severely injured AND become emotional and vulnerable about it, then yes, you’re getting divorced or left for dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 04:35 PM
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Random af but how many of those 5 were quarterbacks?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 09:08 PM
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You don’t have to be vulnerable in order for your wife to give you support. We each have our roles within the marriage and that’s how we support one another on a daily basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 04:24 PM
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I concur. I shared my story on this thread as well. I also displayed vulnerability to my SO during a tough period in my life and have learned not to do so ever again. But the thing is suppressing my vulnerabilities isn’t something that tears away at me inside. Because, like you said, we men are masculine at our core. It became second nature for me really fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:19 PM
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The former
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:10 PM
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The crying was more of a boiling point, per se. It probably happened two or three times total while I was at that job (I was there for about two years). From the beginning she showed a dislike of my vulnerability. For some reason I didn’t respond accordingly to that disdain until my most recent meltdown. I was more blue-pilled back then so I was confused as to why she wasn’t comforting me in those situations. Growing up I had sisters who told me how much they appreciate it when men are vulnerabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:42 PM
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It’s no surprise to a lot of men on PPD that women do not like vulnerability in men as much as they say they do. Thankfully my wife is at least honest about this. About 5 years ago I had a job that drove me towards depression because of how rigorous and stressful it was, and my superiors in the office would plaster me any time I messed up. On my worst days I would just go home and pigeonhole myself, and explain to my wife while I’m tears how much I hate my job and how it’s tearing me apart. Inst…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:02 PM
1

In those situations nature always trumps nurture
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:55 PM
2

Spoken like someone that has collected negative emotional baggage. Nice ad hominem tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 02:04 PM
1

Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 04:00 PM
3

So you’re going to go on record right now and say Kohberger being bullied by women had absolutely nothing to do with Kohberger becoming violent?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 02:00 PM
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I don’t think women claim otherwise. The real issue, however, is that women want men to abide by traditional male gender values while simultaneously foregoing traditional female gender values. Rules for thee and not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 01:36 PM
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This may be a top 5 comment. Cheers mate!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 04:17 PM
2

The thing that needs to be realized is that society is currently shifted in favor of feminism. That “balance” that you speak of is something that the less radical parts of the manosphere are advocating for. Feminists just want to take and take and take, and, as we see with the way modern society is going, things just aren’t working out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 04:14 PM
0

Yeah she teed that one up for you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:15 PM
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Iran is in Europe?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 10:30 AM
3

Immediately jumping to race. That’s the true definition of racism.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 10:28 AM
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Scenario 2 seems most likely, but if men stayed the course future generations would be able to enjoy scenario 1. Women that currently populate the dating market have become so used to their hypergamous ways that they will never settle for anything less. “As long as there are those that remember what was, there will always be those that are unable to accept what can be” - Thanos
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 03:37 PM
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Young women don’t want LTRs with older men. Hookups? Entirely different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:23 PM
6

Progressive ideology
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 02:27 PM
3

Again, why are we giving people excuses for being manipulative?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 08:02 PM
2

That’s a whole different scenario. You’re describing a “talking” phase rather than a friendzone. The interested person in that scenario I’m sure is making their intentions known one way or the other before meeting the other person, or is at the very least giving hints (something women are supposedly experts at).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 05:53 PM
3

That doesn’t give the other party an excuse to be manipulative.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 03:33 PM
5

If only one party is attracted to the other then yes that is correct. Nothing wrong with it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 02:40 PM
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Human decency. By no means is the friendzoned party blameless because they’re at fault for not reading the room. But the other person continuing to lead that friendship on is downright manipulative.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 02:30 PM
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Didn’t know wanting something more than a friendship was such a terrible thing… Also attraction isn’t something you can simply turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 02:26 PM
2

Interesting points. I believe that falls directly in line with a thought that I had about friendzoning: Men friendzone women because they feel they aren’t romantically compatible with them. Women friendzone men because they don’t find them physically attractive. Hence why men have sex with women they friendzone but women won’t have sex with men they friendzone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 02:15 PM
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The fault lies within leading on an inherently unhealthy friendship (one where one friend wants to become romantically involved and the other doesn’t).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 01:58 PM
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Nothing beautiful about it if one friend wants to become romantically involved and the other doesn’t. Those friendships are inherently unhealthy. So if she’s leading that on even though she wants nothing to do with him romantically then, yes, she is at fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 01:54 PM
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This may be the best definition I’ve ever seen. People whose looks are ‘unremarkable’.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:20 PM
3

Hypergamy - Any average looking woman can catch a musky. AF/BB - Most women, however, will be catching and releasing said musky, and will have to settle with bringing home a catfish in the livewell.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 02:00 PM
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What kind of research? Research where they just straight up ask men and women what their respective preferences are? Of course those are the results you’re going to get. Unlike women, men are up front about their preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 01:43 PM
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/thread
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 01:20 PM
2

Yup. Big difference between being around beautiful women and being friends with beautiful women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:35 AM
8

Tis the birth of the alpha widow
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 01:40 PM
1

Lol People in the “30+” age range and younger make up the vast majority of the dating market, so I really don’t know what your argument is. Also age ≠ maturity. Baby boomers are a perfect example of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 09:53 AM
1

Whichever one is better looking
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 09:29 PM
2

With the library example that you mentioned, would you say the woman would be fine with an approach in that scenario if the man met a certain attractiveness threshold?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 05:22 PM
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Are men just not allowed to approach women at all then? Is that where we are at now in the year 2022?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 05:11 PM
2

We see it all the time. Women will belittle men, whether it be men that they used to date or men that approach them asking them out on a date, and then try to convince themselves that they don’t partake in such rude behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 05:05 PM
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You must be 16 to believe this is how grown women deal with being approached by men they are not interested. Uhh no this happens a lot. My wife’s 32 year old coworker did this with a friend of mine after rejecting him. Another 30 year old friend of mine mentioned a similar instance happening to him recently. Obviously this type of rejection is rampant in high school and college but now as a 31 year old myself I’m shocked to see how much this still happens amongst my peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:10 PM
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For women yes stats do indeed reflect that. One thing I find interesting is that those sources indicate the reasoning for the infidelity being high stress levels and long hours. And yes, I do think that plays part, but there’s another reasoning that I just can’t ignore: Many nurses share a workplace with plenty of men…men who are very cognizant of health, fitness, and personal hygiene, and their looks reflect that. Combine that with financial stability and you have yourself a workplace with plen…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:05 PM
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Regardless, there was no societal mandate that led to men being polygamous and women being hypergamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:51 PM
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Autistic men don’t get rejected. They don’t even initiate in the first place. This coming from an autistic man. Once I got the courage to start initiating the game changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:41 AM
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Now if a man were to say “I will not be fucking any ugly women” society would shame him into oblivion. See the double standard?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:09 AM
1

Reluctantly, often times. Betabux. But the Alpha Widow effect is also very real.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:31 PM
1

Gotcha. No offense but your last paragraph makes sense now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 10:20 PM
1

Are you guys fraternal or identical twins?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 10:14 PM
1

Fraternal?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 09:54 PM
7

Blue pilled guy pulls chicks because he’s good looking and rich. One can only imagine how much bad advice he gives to his friends…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:18 PM
3

*Bloodhound Gang intensifies
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 10:38 PM
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“This just in: new studies have shown a rise in zoos as a destination for first dates.”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 10:38 PM
2

It sounds all well and good in theory but with how many blue pilled men there are, I just don’t think it’s feasible.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:51 PM
5

I’m on the spectrum and have been married for five years. I may be in the minority but I’d rule out “never”.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 12:19 AM
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I’m someone who is on the spectrum…and holy shit were things difficult in the dating market when I was in high school, even more so as a male. As a man, you are the initiator, and let’s just say that’s not something autistic people are comfortable with. Like at all. Eventually I figured things out in college since college is a place where I’m forced into situations outside of my comfort zone. That eventually gave me the confidence to at least initiate things with a girl, which then led to me hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 12:13 AM
2

/s?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 12:16 AM
1

There’s a name for the man you are describing, and that is Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 11:59 PM
4

Could definitely be that, and could also be this: Their respective attractiveness levels were similar 20 years ago when they first started dating. But as she progressed out of his league looks-wise he started acquiring resources/wealth to counteract.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 10:15 PM
1

Unless they’re living in absolute misery (take the Conway’s for example).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 09:34 PM
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This is an anecdote so take it with a grain of salt, but only once have I known a conservative woman and a liberal man that have married. He cheated on her and they divorced after only being married a couple years. Their relationship was miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 09:31 PM
1

Yeah I feel as if OP is limiting her own options in that sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 03:32 PM
1

Agreed with this. I was also rail thin in my early 20 mostly because of my fast metabolism. But now that I’m in my 30s my metabolism has slowed down. That combined with a workout routine I started 2 years ago has my body looking better than it ever has at 31 years old (going along with the making effort to work on yourself point you made).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 02:37 PM
2

You could say that for the original trilogy as well as the prequels. But when Disney and Kathleen Kennedy brought the sequels around they wanted to appeal Star Wars to females as well. Rey being the protagonist was the driving force behind that (no pun intended).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 07:41 PM
8

Asexual? Not that I recall since she had that romantic moment at the end with Kylo. Psychopath? Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 03:46 PM
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I’d like to throw the Star Wars sequels into the mix. Rey and Kylo deserve a shout.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 02:52 PM
2

A good couple submits to each other. Yes, there are many couples out there with an imbalanced power dynamic (I’m even willing to say too many), but by no means is that the best case scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 02:31 PM
6

Yup these men fill a very particular niche. The guys that compensate for what they lack status wise with pure looks and charm. Women will hook up with these men but won’t enter committed relationships with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:29 PM
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Not necessarily romantic relationships. This goes along with point number 2 in OP’s post.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:11 PM
2

Nope it’s a valid point. Women possess this privilege early on in their lives, but that privilege leads to solid relationships/friendships that often exist for the rest of their lives. Just as an athlete earns money/fame throughout their short careers that benefits them the rest of their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 12:51 PM
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I think a huge divide is occurring because of something you touched on. Men are driven by the sexual validation that women provide. Women are driven by the security and protection that men provide. Where it falls apart is that women have the “men aren’t entitled to sexual validation” mindset. Men, on the other hand, provide women the security and protection that they desire as a means of common courtesy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:46 PM
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That’s because there aren’t enough men that tall to go around. Eventually women realize they might have to settle for someone shorter than what they prefer because there isn’t an abundance of what they want the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 01:46 PM
3

Olivia Wilde is that you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:10 PM
1

My wife, like many women, doesn’t like it when I watch pornography behind her back. But because I watched it for so long before I met her, it became an addiction, and I couldn’t simply quit watching once our relationship began. It has been an 11 year struggle. A cycle of indulging, then quitting, then confession, then relapse. And the cycle begins again.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:23 PM
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It should be noted that peak SMV for a man is older than it is for women. Much older I’d say.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:26 PM
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Beat me to it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:50 PM
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I’m one of those 5 percent of autistic men that are married. Porn was my outlet before I built up the strength to talk to women. Now that I’m married I’m struggling with it because it became an addiction that negatively impacts my marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 05:02 PM
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This is why the red pill exists. Red pillers are the men who work within that system of toxic masculinity because they know it works, and women allow it to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 02:20 PM
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Ahh gotcha. So like an outside looking in, or ‘perspective blackpill’, per se.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:45 PM
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Your flair doesn’t match up with your comment
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:40 PM
1

That would make sense. Each time an individual participates in casual sex with a new partner their n count increases. For women, this is problematic. For men, not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:32 PM
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/Thread
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:53 PM
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Average woman I’d say is around Melissa McCarthy at her thinnest
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:08 AM
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Because at least men are honest about it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 01:50 PM
1

Along with the denigration of men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:25 PM
1

It’s possible to be protective of women’s rights and safety without being full blown feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:07 PM
1

Yep. When AEW landed CM Punk, they got all the baggage that comes with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:55 PM
1

Agreed but this doesn’t make OP’s post any less true
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 11:39 AM
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I think the more interesting focus group would be to ask this question to the significant others of those who have a high n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 02:52 PM
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This is why at the end of the day taking the redpill or the bluepill in search for ways men can adapt is counterproductive. Because at the end of the day the change needs to happen within women. And I’m not saying women need to change the things they’re attracted to, but rather be honest about what they’re attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 08:50 PM
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My thoughts to a tee. And yes I’ll probably still watch as well haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 08:38 PM
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They still do. I just feel as if women as a whole react to it differently nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 08:09 PM
1

Not She-Hulk tho
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 08:05 PM
3

which I’m guessing is reflective of the way things were back then. I was obviously speculating. So you’re saying men didn’t come onto women like that in the 80s?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 07:47 PM
2

Was watching the original Top Gun last night and one thing I noted was how strong Maverick came onto Charlie at the beginning of the movie when they were at the bar, which is behavior that is discouraged in today’s media. Now I’m 31 years old and not too keen on the dating/hookup scene back in the 80s but Charlie enjoyed the attention she got from Maverick and his comrades in the bar, which I’m guessing is reflective of the way things were back then. With the recent feminist movement do women ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 07:13 PM
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There’s something redpill needs to understand and there’s something bluepill needs to understand: Redpill needs to understand that their philosophy is immoral. Bluepill needs to understand that redpill philosophy, while immoral, actually works.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 02:45 PM
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Essentially looking better with age. Better looking face, more muscular, better weight distribution, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 02:52 PM
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The fact that everyone here is all over the place with their answers tells you all you need to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 06:09 AM
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I think red pill men basically hate women because of a belief that they have a leg up over men in society and life in general. They also believe women see looks over everything else in regards to attraction. Also, red pillers see women as something to be enjoyed in a sexual manner. Blue pillers respect women and the role they play in society, but at the same time take anything that women say at face value. They believe personality, charisma, hobbies, etc factor into attractiveness. Me personally…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 01:37 PM
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Isn’t black pill just a pessimistic red pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 01:06 PM
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Another thing is that women don’t seem to understand the concept of baggage
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:53 PM
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Very true. I guess I was more thinking of what a man desires to be as time passes by. However, I wasn’t factoring in any past promiscuities of their SO’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:56 PM
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I feel like age is a big factor here. Would what you’re saying apply to 22 year old men? Absolutely. 33 year old men? Not so much…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:43 PM
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