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Well, yeah. This is a debate sub. Okay, well then in the spirit of good debate I'd like to see the evidence for your claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 07:25 PM
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I made a very clear point actually. You have a specific condition that allows you to reduce emotion and hyperfocus on logic and matching patterns. Neuro typical people are more nuanced and irrational. Also what would I even come up with an argument against? You want me to try and disprove that women don't always say one thing and do the opposite? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 06:04 PM
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You must be <————this tall to whine You
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 06:58 AM
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Why couldn’t you date in high school?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 06:56 AM
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Same graph - women think that only 20% of men are 5/10 - that’s pretty narrow group, right? That same graph shows that women message men they find "unattractive" at higher rates than men do. The pretty obvious explanation is that physical attraction for women is more specific, but also less important overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 09:16 PM
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How many women have you personally known that have dated gangbangers?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 09:05 PM
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You know she can be sympathetic or empathetic to men other than you right? lol She never felt either of those in her previous relationships or for any guy friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 07:11 AM
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In my 50 years of life I have never once seen a woman feel sympathy or empathy towards a man with baggage from other women. Your wife doesn't do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 05:15 PM
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Many times I started to smile only to realize the "compliment" was entirely backhanded. Can you give some examples of compliments you received that you later realized were backhanded?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 07:15 PM
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but what would a straight man wear to feel sexy? Whatever he wants? Anything that makes him look/feel more attractive. Mens bodies and clothes simply aren't sexualized the way women are. That's fine, because it's not the goal. I've only ever known that for "grandma compliments" like "handsome." Then don't wear a tux lol Get a tailored suit that's more stylish or expensive looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 07:14 PM
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If you would say you and other woman wear lingerie home alone because then you are trully doing it for yourself Some women definitely do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 06:54 PM
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Your example doesn’t actually make any sense. Why would people tell someone who doesn’t have trouble sleeping with women to be gay?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 05:43 AM
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They thrive on plausible deniability and hate "what are we?" questions that put them in a YES/NO spot. I'm sorry, are you actually saying men are the ones trying to define their relationship and put a label on it? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:43 PM
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have you been to the relationship or divorce subs? most…naw. There are around 500 people or so at any given time on the divorce sub. There's about 6.5 million adults living in los angeles county alone. This is why school is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 09:18 PM
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The asmongold, million dollar extreme and kotakuinaction subs fit your description and all have over 5k members. Asmongold alone has close to 500k
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 09:15 PM
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Yeah I do wish men took these kind of issues more seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 06:42 PM
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Well, you didn’t last long before resorting to personal attack. Asking questions is a personal attack? Still, you surprisingly admit the massive amount of power women have when it comes to false allegations. All I said was she could make the claim. That's literally true of both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 05:55 PM
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She can claim you forced yourself on her She can claim that regardless of whether or not you kissed her. After that she can blackmail you to hell and back. For what? Your lego collection?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 05:41 PM
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Leverage over what?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 05:07 PM
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And yet… quite a few seem to have a knack for choosing the most abusive, violent, and awful men possible. Most relationships don't have violence or abuse. What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 08:09 PM
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Because conversations. That doesn't prove anything. And a lot of them were women I knew in real life. You know multiple single women that were all on tinder AND they all matched with your fake account? lol If you were just using some models photo and swiping on people you know while acting normal, I don't see the big deal. The original chadfishing claims were about being a model and still getting women while being racist, violent or a felon.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 08:46 PM
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any man who has set up a Chadfish account knows the truth. Every woman chases the Chadfish. How do you know those were real women and not fake chaddecoy accounts?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 08:23 PM
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I don't have any evidence, I don't need it. I will debaate with you though, but you have to stop asking for evidence. Pure gold.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 08:02 PM
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Sure, but a jackass ex-boyfriend is something that all women seem to have in common. Going from gangbanger to jackass is a hell of a goalpost shift.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 06:30 PM
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who beats his girlfriend green and blue Green and blue? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 06:18 PM
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Bruh , sex isn't something only one person can enjoy , you're telling like women don't enjoy sex at all ? No? I'm telling you that people get used to their situations. For women, as soon as they become teenagers they're offered sex pretty much non stop. It stops becoming a selling point early on. Women can get sex on their terms as much as they want I know, my point is that this devalues sex as a benefit for them because it's always available. Free labour isn't enjoyable at all I can't imagine w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 08:03 AM
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80% women can get sex whenever they want , 80% men can't get sex even after a lot of tries So? That just makes sex worthless to women. Telling them they can have sex whenever they want is no different than telling a guy they can provide free labor anytime they want. Occasionally some guys do want to help their friends move a fridge, sure. but a daily/weekly stranger complimenting them in a store in order to get them back to their place to move their couch is going to get old fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 06:05 AM
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What are you trying to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 02:20 AM
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Not manipulating truths said to create misunderstandings. I don't believe you're capable of that. Just from a mental health standpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 02:19 AM
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Nope. I am honest. This is kind of a weird thing to say because I don't think it's actually possible for you to comprehend honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 12:28 AM
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Because there's a desperation in men that doesn't exist in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 12:25 AM
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I've never seen someone get offended on an atomical level.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 12:15 AM
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I’m asking him to provide evidence that supports his own claim (that equality is possible) That's not their claim. They were going back and forth with someone who said "the stats prove this" but then never linked to any stats. The burden of proof is on the person making the claim, not on others to disprove it. The other person is the one who made the claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 05:18 PM
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you did immediately went to insinuate that a man must be gay if he notices that the man is the more attractive one in a couple nowadays. I said he might be more attracted to men than he thinks. That doesn't mean he's gay, but even if it did, so what? That's not a negative thing. It's clear you meant it as a negative thing. Why do you think that? The reason you do it so you can just shut down any further conversation and dismiss any observation by basically going "Ha ha you're gay", because you k…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 05:09 AM
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Someone has never been to college… You can never prove something doesn’t exist you can only prove that something does… Yeah... that was my point? lol You asked the previous person to prove something doesn't exist
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 09:40 PM
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Does everyone spoon feed you your homework as well? How about instead of claiming something doesn’t exist you just provide evidence to prove the opposite? Because if you took a second to actually think about it you'd realize it's not possible? Provide me evidence that the nasa isn't covering up the fact that government cheese is made on the moon.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 04:28 AM
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Yeah I could see that. Like more of an immediate envy or jealousy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 11:19 PM
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I don't think you know what homophobia is lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 11:19 PM
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The average age of first time pregnancy in the US is 27 so including marriage and courtship your numbers are way off. Most people don’t wait until their 30s to “settle down”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 07:37 PM
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I think you’re just more attracted to men than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 07:30 PM
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If women are only attracted to “attractive men,” then 4/5 women are not attracted to their partners. I honestly don't understand how you can type this out and think it makes sense? Each of those women can find their partner attractive while not finding any of the other men attractive. Doesn't that make more sense than trying to claim most women are with men they're not attracted to? lol How are either of you struggling with this so badly?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 07:02 PM
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Because you're arguing so confidently about a topic you're completely illiterate on Out of the two of us I'm the only one that's had a successful dating life, so I don't know how you're in a position to say I'm completely illiterate. Red pill's definition of "women being attracted to attractive men" is that women collectively only consider a small group of above average men attractive Okay, that still doesn't back up your idea of most women not being attracted to their partners at all. One doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 06:55 PM
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Didi you even understand the context of the argument? The context? Yes. Your comment? No. It doesn't make any logical sense. Women here are claiming that it's common knowledge that women are attracted to attractive men Okay. That still doesn't make your point coherent.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 05:29 PM
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Your logic makes no sense. Which would by definition mean that most women in relationships aren't sexually attracted to their partners No it doesn't and if you actually think it does you have way bigger issues you need to work on before you try to tackle any kind of dating or relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:47 PM
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Did you know there are trump-only republicans who were Obama voters This would only be impressive if you ignored the fact that obama went against 2 of the worst candidates the GOP has ever put forth. These people aren't voting on policy, they vote on vibes. You can't reliably replicate what appeals to them. It's like when the "Obama coalition minorities and PMCs" theory of the case fell apart Democrats lost the aspiration to come up with a new idea. I have no idea what you're trying to say here.…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 06:27 PM
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He's alienating independents How is he alienating independents? and certainly any Trump-only Republicans They're a complete and total lost cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:51 PM
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why would anyone do that. You'd have to ask them. But I would assume their answer would be something along the lines of showering/grooming not "actually move the needle significantly on attracting women"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 08:32 PM
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But that's my point. Like do you only do the bare minimum on hygiene because you're single?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 07:35 PM
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so many young guys are struggling, that I think the percentage of them who have poor hygiene is still really small. I don't see why you would think this, even still. Their hygiene doesn't have to be poor to need improvement. Like even just doing the bare minimum on brushing/cleaning your teeth is shooting yourself in the foot. it will not make a difference at all Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 07:32 PM
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But most men can take care of their hygiene just fine so it's pretty useless advice that will somehow be upvoted to the top of every thread where a man asks for dating advice. Most men don't need dating advice though. So we're already dealing with outliers that are specifically saying they struggle and often admit to not being social. So it makes sense to mention hygeine as something to focus on. I mean you don't actually think these guys are scrubbing, trimming their facial hair and dressing up…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 07:07 PM
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we observe that most modern women today tend to care about immutable qualities like looks and showering/dressing better/working out only helps if you are already good looking You would only shower if you thought you were good looking enough to take advantage of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 07:01 PM
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Let's have some fun, shall we? How I imagine you felt typing this out
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 06:39 PM
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That's right, and that's the reason why the first thing in advice should be about attractiveness and not about "common interests", "being a good person", etc. Because despite what guys on this sub say, "attractive" is a wider spectrum than people think. The kind of women who go crazy for timothee chalamet usually aren't the same ones who think bad bunny is the hottest guy on earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 06:32 PM
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You could tell these men to go get a passport and travel overseas, where they’d have better chances. Why not suggest that, if you know they’re cooked in the west due to being short, ugly, bald, ethnic, etc, instead of endless empty platitudes? Adding this to my growing list of evidence that guys on this sub have a humilation fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 06:19 PM
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unattractive men will go out and try to be confident then women will call them creeps or call them out for shooting above their league. Where do you even get this stuff from? 99% of women on the street are way too conflict avoidant to call a guy a creep to his face on the street. Most of the time you're just going to get politely rejected. Regardless of attraction level.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 06:18 PM
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That's not what I asked at all. I asked if you've continued to go on multiple dates with someone after you decided there was something you disliked about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:56 PM
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Have you ever continued to go on dates with someone after deciding there was something about them you didn't like?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 09:03 PM
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If they don't like what they see in your personality, how long do they have to go keep going before they're free to move on?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 07:51 PM
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I'm not narrowing anything. I'm refuting the "crucial point" that you need to be traditional and manly to be in a relationship with the women you and OP are talking about. Eschewing gender roles has nothing to do with being anxious, shy, overly agreeable, inexperienced or unconfident.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 11:46 PM
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Tell you what - just try and name three personality variants instead? You have claimed to know all kinds of ‘different’ people. Conservative, progressive, and liberal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 11:35 PM
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So many of the guys here see absolutely everything as 100% black or white. Black and white thinking is a common symptom of anxiety and autism, which is why it's so common here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 11:30 PM
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The issue is that, many of these women espouse beliefs that men should eschew traditional gender roles and masculinity, then turn around and deny those men sex and relationships. My dude, there is nothing masculine or manly about going outdoors or hiking lol. I know more women than men who are outdoorsy, and the guys are all progressive hippie types. They're as untraditional as it gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 11:29 PM
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I disagree, it's very common to see women here say that attraction matters. It's the degree to how much it matters that's debated. But even still. So what if it's denied? What would it do to help you for women to say they want attractive men? I swear some of you guys won't be happy until you're personally told how ugly and undesirable you are by women. It's like you have a humiliation fetish or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 11:23 PM
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The more I interact with them This is a very normal and human way to talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 05:29 PM
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Was that really the only example you had? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 11:38 PM
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That's a guy, you said there were women making that claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 05:40 PM
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You can't come up with a single post backing up what you're saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 04:30 PM
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According to the people who think it’s hypocritical for a man who wants a virgin even though he’s not a virgin himself Those aren't remotely similar, the original example is a value judgement and you keep responding with differences in physical features. You're not providing any example of actual hypocrisy. I also don't think you realize you're defeating your own argument. If those aren't examples of hypocrisy then you have no reason to be upset or complain about women choosing men who are talle…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:15 PM
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It’s an attribute that they want in the opposite sex that they don’t have themselves. So wanting a woman with long hair is hypocritical if yours is short?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:38 AM
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This is why people don’t cite sources That's not why people don't cite sources lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:42 PM
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Like the hypocrisy Lisa Bilyeu and so many other short women have for height preferences for tall men? Genuinely how is this hypocrisy? You're comparing personal values vs physical preferences It would be like saying a man is a hypocrite if he has blonde hair and prefers brunettes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:28 PM
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This kind of shit is why you’re lonely btw
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 06:45 AM
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I don't see single women at bars and clubs. How would you know if they're single or not? Adult social events are unreliable Everything is unreliable. I haven't heard of too many parties that are open to strangers. Why would you go to a strangers party? I'm talking about something that a friend hosts, a house warming or bbq or game night. Anything. Romance and sex is something I only ever see the aftermath of. I only ever see people who have it. I don't see them getting it. I don't know what gett…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:14 AM
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Bars? Clubs? Social events? House parties? What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 12:14 AM
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How is that different than just not being sexual? Huh? It's different because they're still sexual, they just don't respond to being told they turn guys on or that their body is so hot. They've been hearing that forever. How are men supposed to take initiative to find women? If this is your goal then you need to go places where women are also looking for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 11:33 PM
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I promise you don't have the male experience Oh how embarrassing for you, I'm literally a guy lol. you don't understand how extremely easy it is for a man to make a woman uncomfortable or scared. It's easy to make anyone uncomfortable or scared. I'm talking about doing it unintionally. I notice even the slightest sudden move can accomplish that. Why are you making sudden moves? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 11:23 PM
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But men don't want to make women uncomfortable or scared, and we don't want to be seen as predators. I promise you this is really really easy to do lol Women just seem to hate sexual attention, and we have no way to give it in a way we know they'll be inclined to like. It's not that women hate sexual attention, it's just been offered to them daily since they were like 13. It becomes white noise at a certain point. That's why as they get older they gravitate towards people who make them feel seen…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:48 PM
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I don't really think that most men are capable of loving someone other than themselves tbh Totally disagree, I think you have it backwards. Men are either not being taught or don't know how to love themselves and use relationships and success at work to fill that void. Imo one of the major reasons guys fall apart so hard when their relationships/careers end is that they put all their need for validation into one basket.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 04:28 AM
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Harrassment is defined by an action of repetition That's the situation I described yes, so how is it civil? What were you talking about then ? Did you not read my comment? I was very specific. Have you ever encountered the people hustling their albums on the street in a large city?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:52 PM
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Great, is that a reason to actually abandon any for of civilness ? Abandon what? How is being harassed to buy something civil? I personally never violently rejected them for anything, taht's a simple interraction. It's also not the kind of interaction I was talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:34 PM
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If I'm waiting in a line doing nothing ? Yes, why not ? Most people don't want to be harassed into purchasing something when they're just going about their day. This is a pretty common feeling. That's one of the problem, we created so much barriers that simple interractions are not even tolerable anymore. I have to question your experience with the situation I'm talking about if you consider it a simple interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:12 PM
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You're confusing simple with easy. There's a very real difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:03 PM
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I don’t think the reverse-situation works. I wouldn’t mind women approaching me in everyday life. That’s not really the reverse because you WANT women to approach you. Instead imagine it more like those people trying to hustle their albums on the street. Is there a chance you’ll actually like the music? Of course. Are you in the mood to listen and buy it while you’re in line to get coffee on the way to work? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 04:32 AM
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Most people can do a backflip I don’t even know if I’m confident in saying most people could do a pull-up lol like there’s no way you actually see regular people on a daily basis if you think this
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 04:24 AM
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Two people share a home, furniture, and bills. They stop chasing status upgrades to impress strangers. ...What? lol You've never heard the expression ""Keeping up with the Joneses"? Getting married leads to having kids, having kids leads to needing a bigger car to carry them around in, a bigger house to raise them in, vacations to spend time together etc. There is no bigger economy boost than marriage/family.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 06:22 PM
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which means you quoted them I literally said you’re quoting them lol Doesn’t automatically mean you disagree with them or agree with them Which is why I specified it being used in a larger statement that disagrees lol I get the nuance I really don’t think you do because you specifically asked them what misogynistic elements existed in RP exist even though it was clear they didn’t think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 07:34 PM
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No putting a word in quotes literally means you’re quoting what they’re saying Literally yes, but you’re not understanding the nuance of why. When done with a single word it’s to draw attention to it being out of place with what they’re saying. For example, if you wrote a whole piece critiquing the way the police handled something and mentioned that they arrested the “criminal” it signals you’re using their words and definition because you don’t agree with with how it’s used. too many of yall on…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 07:23 PM
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I usually vent here, no real reason to discuss my gym routine Why are you venting here? It’s a debate sub lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 07:10 PM
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Just because one person says one thing while identifying as a member of a group, doesn’t mean it’s the stance of the whole group. But I thought All Women Are Like That?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 05:43 PM
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If you're going to disrespect a sexual icon like devito, I'm going to say something.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 05:13 PM
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You realize they had to close off the batman returns set to just the actors because women kept throwing their panties and bras at danny right? Danny is more than a sex symbol. He's a sex trademark.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 04:23 PM
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Yes like actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 06:10 AM
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Danny Divito’s humor never made him a sex symbol. You've never seen batman returns then.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 05:56 AM
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What makes you say that? Is their partner a balding 4’11 middle aged man with an incredible sense of humour? It's a little bit of that, but it's more that someone like chris hemsworth is NOT their type physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 05:56 AM
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I wasn't making the argument that no one would ever pick hemsworth.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:29 AM
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Hemsworth has a sense of humor. and danny doesn't???
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:28 AM
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1 in 4 men in the US have a tattoo, it's going to be prevalent among just about any group you look at lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:13 AM
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Then why everytime a guy says he struggles to get dates and it's actually kind of depressing for him (you know, sharing his emotions) ... he is faced with "you must hate women" ; "go take a shower" ; "you just have a loser mindset" ? I've genuinely never seen that happen to anyone who is sincerely talking about their dating struggles in an appropriate way. a problem that mostly relies on chance How is dating success based on chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:10 AM
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that Danny DeVito could beat Chris Hemsworth with enough charm I can think of multiple women I've known over the years who would take devito over hemsworth easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 11:45 PM
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You guys really wear your trauma on your sleeves don't you? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 05:06 PM
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Well one of those requires a sense of care and ability to empathize and listen to the other person. Basically it requires social skills. The other is no different than acting.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 02:38 AM
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Can you stop trauma dumping on me please
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 05:36 PM
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How often do you have bad days?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 05:17 PM
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They didn’t say it was easy. They just said what worked for them. Again, you should really look at how you’re framing everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 06:22 AM
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Quote specifically what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 06:17 AM
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If my (single man) lack of contentment stems from a complete absence of sexual & romantic connections You’re assuming that’s where it stems from. I have a very hard time believing you would be content in a relationship. Did you have sexual and romantic connections at some point in your life before that made you feel content?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 06:13 AM
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What point are you trying to even make? Who said it didn’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 06:03 AM
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They didn’t preach for you to not have sexual relationships though? I find the fact that you both focused on that really telling about your headspace with this whole thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 06:02 AM
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Or, it doesn't make sense, because it doesn't make sense, because you're being disingenuous It wasn't my argument to begin with, so I'm not sure how I'm being disingenuous? I'm operating from knowing that they CAN have romantic relationships. Which is a fact Men can't have romantic relationships either? The person that hasn't given a single honest response is testing my honesty What have I lied about? The problem with this thought experiment is that you need trust without any proof in order to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 02:26 AM
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That doesn't even make any sense Is it possible that it doesn't make sense because you lack the experience to understand what I'm trying to say? The person who has both platonic and romantic relationships telling the other person that their wellbeing stems from their platonic relationships, is of course being disingenuous You're operating from An assumption that the other person has both platonic and romantic relationships That both romantic and platonic relationship is necessary for contentment…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 11:57 PM
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Because someone who has both platonic and casual romantic relationship acting as if it's their platonic relationships that determine their wellbeing, is being disingenuous Do you have enough consistent platonic and casual romantic relationships to make that judgement?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 10:48 PM
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Perhaps you got confused because that's not what I said. I didn't say you did? If she did have sexual encounters, it means that her experience of being single doesn't reflect the experience of a guy who's single. Why does it need to? Therefore, it is crucial information in order to determine how useful her advice is for single men, who are significantly less likely to have sexual encounters. Only if you think men need sexual encounters to be content while being single. If she doesn't think that,…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 09:49 PM
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But the question wasn’t “how do I have sex?” it was “how do I learn to be content with being single?”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 09:01 PM
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Why would that matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:11 PM
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ok
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 10:05 PM
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I know, I said that because with consistent sexual interest they'd eventually embrace or get used to it. Where exactly is this consistent sexual interest coming from?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 09:50 PM
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I never said they were receiving it for the first time. Eventually the shock will subside and their ego boosted. No, what usually happens is guilt and shame for missing an opportunity or further disbelief causing even higher guards against affection being put up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 08:29 PM
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each time a guy complains on this subreddit it always circles back to wanting to be sexually desired. Too many guys on this sub hate themselves to the point that they would never allow themselves to trust that the desire was genuine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 04:55 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 02:37 AM
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What the fuck are you even trying to say here? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 03:45 AM
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Every week? Your gf doesn't get mad that you're hanging out with other girls every week?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 10:03 PM
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Not really, I have lots of female friends actually Do you know for sure that they consider you a friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 08:25 PM
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What's the relevance of this exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 08:21 PM
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You can find the same basic idea being used in any kind of negotiating strategy, business etc. Dating isn't a negotiation or business though. It's not transactional, and approaching it like it is just leads to a relationship built on a really unstable foundation that's unlikely to last in the long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 07:45 PM
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For example: When a feminist leader labels the red pill as misogynistic ince group, you will see the idea will be repeated all over even though it doesn’t make any sense. However when another authority figure (male celebrities, singers, influencers, writers, etc.) brings up the red pill arguments without the label they agree to it. Do you have a specific example you're basing this on? Who would even be considered a "feminist leader" these days? Rephrasing is also another way of meeting them on t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 07:42 PM
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It's the product of men who play too many video games thinking that "be confident" is the trick to beating a boss. I don't know if it's video games as much as internet culture has created a culture of tier list data. In the sense that if you wanted to learn something or get advice you generally had to put in a lot more personal effort to get your conclusion. Now you can skip straight to "expert" level advice on everything. Stocks, dating, what to wear, what to drive etc. This leads to guys being…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:18 PM
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I've never said this to anyone before, but you should seriously consider just using chatgpt to write everything for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 08:11 AM
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Typical homophobic rambling by PPD women. Just call them all fhaggs and be done with it. So tiring How is saying specific men in this sub would be happier being with other men homophobic? lol They're literally arguing FOR more homosexual relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 07:48 PM
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Do you think gaslighting is just disagreeing with someone? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 12:28 AM
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The main rule of workout club is don't tell people you work out because people just take that as an opportunity to ridicule you for not being on roids ....what?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 05:14 PM
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Men like hot women I thought we were talking about lauren sanchez?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 05:29 PM
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Literally everything makes dudes hard lol That's not a good answer. Guys can be attracted to the idea/situation more than the actual woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 06:12 PM
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They aren't duplicitous in what they're attracted to. This is naïve bordering on dishonesty. Guys hook up with women they don't find attractive all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:36 PM
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hey, you can't comprehend a simple example and need something that is exactly the same. Yeah maybe I'm weird but I do think your example needs to actually demonstrate what you're complaining about lol I wonder how you can go in life without being able to associate one behavior with another. It's actually easy when you don't see everything in black and white binary thinking terms. It's weird to me but I don't hate, just weird. I really don't think you understand that I'm not misunderstanding what…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 06:20 PM
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Does it have to be common for someone to be insecure about it? No, but if your example of something a woman would be insecure about includes her bf directly bringing it up in a way that insults her it doesn't make much sense as a counter point to why men shouldn't worry about their exes previous partners. Do you think it's common for men to tell their gf how good the bj their exes gave them? No, which is why I don't think you're doing a good job backing up the point you're trying to make. many h…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 05:30 PM
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If I mention how great the blowjobs my ex gave me it's possible my current gf would feel like she has to live up to her at some point and if she doesn't she'll feel insecure about it You think it's common for women to talk about the dick size of their ex to current boyfriends?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 04:36 PM
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if a guy is not gay then he doesn't care about another dude's sexuality - they literally don't see them as a sexual being I don't think this is what people are talking about when they say guys care about size more than women. It's not a sexual thing. It's perceived masculinity/power.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 04:34 PM
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If you earn money as a man and try to lure a women that because of that you are a better decision but same women have financial independence and guy gets upset because he have to find other ways to relationship to be happen. This is borderline gibberish.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 04:30 PM
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Using brain damage as an insult She wasn’t. there was a big push to get people to stop using raped casually since it was seen as insulting to rape victims? Show me a similar and equal push to stop using the word “slow” specifically in how it’s used to describe people with brain damage. I’m not playing a character You are. It’s very obvious. If it’s not okay to deadname Jenner or Page In your own words explain why it’s not okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 06:01 AM
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Why do you think that’s an incredibly stupid point to make? Because the two situations aren't connected at all. No one would reasonably make this interpretation of what she's saying. So you're either baiting/trolling or you're really dumb. Please stop deadnaming Ye. Please find a real hobby instead of playing this character on reddit. Women could show men the same respect and start to see the value in incompetent men as partners Too obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 11:55 PM
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like if a guy was simulating eating her out then that would appeal to women oh no lol This is an airball of a take. You didn't even touch the rim.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 09:38 PM
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Chris Brown literally beat his wife. If you're talking about rihanna, she was his GF, not his wife. Get fuckin' real man. What point do you think you're making exactly? What Eminem said was bad too Then why are you ruining your mascara crying all over this thread about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 07:12 PM
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There are thousands of other rappers who've used similarly, in fact, usually far worse misogynistic lyrics I don't know if I agree with that. Em was much more direct with his attacks. Most other rappers were talking about generic hoes. Like in terms of women receiving hatred from lyrics, I think it's hard to argue Em didn't put some huge targets on these women's backs. He did the same to men too, but that's not what we're discussing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 06:00 PM
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You could argue this is insensitive to those with brain damage You could, but that would be an incredibly stupid point to try and make. (like Ye from his car accident) In what world is kanye a shorthand example of someone suffering brain damage? lol when a woman is incompetent like this, it is generally seen as sexy Why do men find incompetent women sexy and how is that women's fault? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:56 PM
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Because the judgements being made are making assumptions that men are consuming this when it is predominantly not men. No, the person you responded to was not making a judgement of men, she was explaining HER specific preferences. Why does it matter in the context of your reply to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 04:56 PM
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Don't women watch this type of porn much more than men? Why would that matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 08:22 AM
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Good advice works when it’s followed. Nothing works 100% of the time. That's the point I was making, it has nothing to do with steaks. Reduce your autism when reading comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:17 PM
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To a level of being unfixable? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:14 PM
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You have a very active imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 07:38 AM
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Are you confident that both A) They didn’t develop that personality after being continually rejected and outcast? Why does that matter? Would knowing someone who treated you like shit had a tough life make you accept their treatment? That men with similar personalities who happen to be more attractive, don’t get sex and relationships because of their appearance? With similar personalities to incels online? No, I don't believe they generally get sex so I'm not exactly sure what you're asking here…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 05:30 AM
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Do you feel vulnerable when you ask for info? Not at all, but I've never cared about traditional/toxic masculinity. In what way would a man be embarrassed to show this to another man, compared to women?...I'm trying to understand why you hold the opinions you do. As I said before, this isn't something I personally struggle with. Is your position is that men have no problem telling other men/peers that they need help or don't know what they're doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 01:54 AM
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Do you disagree that incels online generally have extremely abrasive personality traits?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 10:19 PM
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It happens everywhere so much so, that I bet that men instinctively prefer to ask for info from another man. If there's one thing men are known for, it's showing incompetence and vulnerability to another man. They're quite famous for asking other men for help lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 10:14 PM
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Hilarious that this is the ONLY thing you took away from their comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 10:11 PM
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< True, although people tend to get frustrated when given advice that doesn't work. It's advice, not a recipe. Like if I tell you how to grill a steak better, you might still burn it. That doesn't mean I gave bad advice, or that you're incapable of doing it right.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 10:09 PM
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Because a lot of them DO have terrible personalities, and they display it when asking for advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 10:06 PM
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Find the logic in that. Easy. It's made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 10:02 PM
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You sound depressed
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 06:46 PM
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Someone felt CRINGE on the internet. That is UNACCEPTABLE.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 06:26 PM
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they've watched their friends get humiliated for respectfully saying: "Hi." They've been ghosted, laughed at, called creepy just for showing interest. This is not the average guys experience. especially when women openly admitted they only wanna be approached by men they already find attractive. Who in the world wants to be approached by people they find UNattractive? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 06:19 PM
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I'd have the moral sense of losing if "getting everything I wanted" means "changing what I want". That's just literally growing up. You grow up wanting to be a rockstar, turns out you're not very good at playing guitar so instead you end up maybe working at a music label in an office position. Or you go into the arts and design album covers/posters. You make the best of what you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:08 AM
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That doesn't mean anything, there's no guarantee enough men will group up or even be strong enough to make a difference. If your argument is about enforceable power, men don't meet that requirement either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 11:59 PM
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Does this mean men don’t have rights either since they’re enforced by “other” men and can be taken away?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 11:18 PM
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I'mma be honest dude, I don't think pointing to a case involving decades long sex trafficking of minors for child pornography is the best way to make your point. the woman I mentioned in OP should have gotten a sentence at least that long Are there other instances of that crime receiving punishments that long? It seems like arson is just an unfortunate grey area of crime like vehicular assaults where there isn't a specific enough law to match the punishment to the damage caused.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 09:51 PM
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His sentence was 3-10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 08:24 PM
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Compare the sentence Cosby got for being rapey (but not physically harmful) to the slap on the wrist this woman got for burning a man and ruining his life. Cosby only did 3 years in prison, he's already out lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 05:14 PM
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Gonna blow your mind here but... the government is funded by our taxes No shit. The government should still honor its debts, yes? pigs will fly before reparations ever happen, I can guarantee you that. Ok. That doesn't change anything about what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:01 PM
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as well as being told I need to pay reparations You don't. But the government does.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 05:17 PM
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The whole scene is built on hooking up and showing off, not dancing with friends innocently. No one ever said it was. The person you responded to was talking about someone who DOES enjoy just dancing with friends still being able to do so while in a relationship. Someone says that's why they like it there's an 80% chance they're full of shit There's an 80% chance your ex cheated on you like this and you're projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:43 PM
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They wouldn’t have known in the first place. Which is why she’s admitted she’d leave once she learned this. No shit, who wouldn't? Not telling your partner you go to strip clubs weekly is a pretty fuckin big red flag, no? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:32 PM
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Okay, I'll pretend you're 5. Is that what it takes for you to be interested? The claim is women only go to dance and enjoy music. They don't go for anything to do with men. But if you take away men, no women go. All this does is suggest that more single women go to bars than women in relationships lol Even still, no shit removing men and straight single women looking to meet men isn't a successful business plan. You're dropping 80+ of your client base.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:17 PM
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The first 3 points you’re trying to make have nothing to do with the situation. The person you’re responding to never said that clubs needed to be only women, or female only.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:01 PM
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They’re saying they never would have gotten with him in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:59 PM
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No it’s why do people tell these unwanted weirdos that they need to center their lives around chasing a partner? Literally no one gives that advice, but the actual answer is because those unwanted weirdos make threads on subs like this asking why they can't ever get dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 02:20 AM
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Aren’t these men unwanted weirdos in the first place? Your question is basically "why do people make fun of unwanted weirdos" and I feel like if you think reeeeeeeeeeally hard about it, you'll figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:04 AM
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When women talk about how a man splitting the bill on dates is a deal breaker or whatever else, it is just nonsense and a sign that they aren't actually into the dudes they go on dates with. If a woman genuinely likes a man, it won't matter to her how much money he has or whether he pays for dates or not. Women caring about these things is a sign that they don't actually care about the men they date. It seems MUCH more likely to me to be a sign that those women usually only prefer to date the ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 07:40 PM
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Well, I mean most people are the solution and cause to their life problems to some extent or another. I think circumstances/environment matter much more, but it's really just a difference of opinion on that. if you are saying mostly men do this to themselves almost illustrates perfectly, what I am talking about. Explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 05:38 PM
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It comes from men and women alike. In fact men you are vulnerable, share negative emotions come across as less secure and less masculine to women. This just isn't my experience at all. Obviously it happens, but I'm very confident that the majority of vulnerability is unprocessed trauma that shows itself in insecurity that needs to be addressed by therapy and self work. it would be hard to deny there isn’t a prominent trend in society of men suffering in silent desperation and agony. I don't disa…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 05:12 PM
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I think if he meant that he would have said that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 05:01 PM
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which leads to toxic masculinity How?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 04:37 PM
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So it's a masculine trait to twist someone's words against them?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 05:52 AM
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How is that toxic masculinity?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:32 AM
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I find the greatest display of toxic masculinity, often comes from women, when men are trying to articulate the ways in which they suffer. How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:33 AM
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Acknowledgement of what exactly? "Sorry you can't just have sex whenever you want"? Do you honestly think hearing that makes OP feel better?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 05:41 PM
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Can you link to wherever gpt got that information from?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 10:06 PM
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They are. It's called the law. Literally the opposite of personality responsibility lol If you have to be forced into doing something through a penalty, you're not taking personal responsibility are you? And don't act like the industry isn't skeezy. Are you reading what people are saying to you? No one is arguing against that. People specifically telling you the industry is bad, you're the one saying it's fine because people are still choosing to go into it. You're essentially saying that people…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 09:59 PM
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Why aren’t you putting any personal responsibility or accountability on the industry/owners?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 07:52 PM
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OP: SOME people have fucked up sexuality You: So MOST WOMEN have issues? You should at least try to pretend to be asking in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 08:13 PM
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Men don't claim to care about anything other than how hot she is. That's not true at all. All of these manosphere podcasts complain about how women don't bring anything to the table when it comes to being a traditional feminine partner. Like cooking, cleaning, taking care of kids etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 08:10 PM
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The full context (paraphrased) Why put it in quotes if you’re going to paraphrase? lol He never said “women are desperate around a guy with lots of money” on that recording. You’re trying to spin what he said. And do keep in mind this was on a SHOCK-jocks show You’re straight up lying. The recording was behind the scenes footage of trump and Billy bush headed to film access Hollywood. An extremely safe network tv show that did puff pieces about celebrities and actors. “I better use some Tic Tacs…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 07:48 PM
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only thing I got left is roi matters Relationships don't exist in an excel spreadsheet. There's no math or balance that needs to be equaled out at the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 04:20 AM
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Cause If people who do less of that and yet get some while others have to become superman with a 1000 friends minimum to just get a hello then there's a problem I'm going to need more than just "because it's not fair :*("
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 02:53 AM
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I think we can agree that there should be an equalisation point where you start seeing profit for the effort you put in, right? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 08:07 PM
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I personally don’t GAF about relationships anymore at this point This is equivalent to not caring about becoming an astronaut. You never had a chance whether you care or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 09:48 PM
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Sabotaged, or saved?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:08 AM
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Can’t take a picture with a fish, can’t take a picture with a TIGER now I am hearing? I’m pretty sure you’re not interested in the kind of women who would be bothered by stuff like this so who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:06 AM
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I will never understand why you continue talking about things you're not able to understand or experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 10:49 PM
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I do think one of the biggest issues modern men have today is the lack of advocacy for male mental health. Don’t get me wrong, there’s been plenty of studies using male subjects run by male scientists. But the whole socialization of men tends to focus entirely on “suck it up” rather than advocacy for them seeking mental health treatments, being encouraged to vocalize their emotions, etc. I think doing so would support men having stronger intrapersonal relationships and better self esteem that do…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 06:04 PM
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like a lot of women are told and broadly believe that a man not accepting their rejection for sex is spousal rape. That sort of depends on what do you mean by not accepting a rejection for sex? men aren’t allowed to reject women w/out fear of some form of retaliation from their intimate partners- accusing them of being gay Dog, cmon lol. This is not even remotely a common thing at all. Edit: Commenting and then blocking is SO cringe. It's a debate sub, get your emotions in check.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 05:12 PM
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Asking goverment and men to do something about it, isn't maning up. I was unaware of the very strict requirements for "maning" up. Then again you want women to make changes and you immediately go on to say you're looking for the government to help so you're also not "maning" up. You're doing the exact thing you're complaining about. At this point I'm willing to let those politicians on the far-right give it a try, so... guess time will tell. I have a feeling this wasn't a tough decision for you.…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 10:08 PM
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No. My answer to people/groups which want to draw my attention to the problem of mysogony, yet fail to acknowledge boys/men problem is that proper solution for mysogony is for women to men up. For women to man up against mysogony? Isn't that what they're doing? Like if you/men don't care, and aren't putting any effort to make changes, there's nothing they can do but continue on and tell you to fix your own problems. What would need to be done for you to consider the problem addressed? Which coul…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 08:23 PM
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So therapy doesn't count as an answer to men/boys problems because society isn't taking boys/mens problems (lol at that btw) seriously? If not, answer is "just man up", "pull yourself by the bootstraps", "join the military"... There's a pretty specific theme I'm noticing here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 05:26 PM
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Now tell me again how mysogony is a huge problem and I will tell you to just man up. Because that's the answer boys/men get for all their problems since forewer. Do you include "go to therapy" as part of "just man up" or are you intentionally ignoring that element? Because it can't be both.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 04:55 PM
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What exactly are you looking to debate here lol? This whole thing is just a huge rant. I don’t think you’re actually open to be challenged on any of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 08:06 PM
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Yes, that's why I'm likening it to praising single moms, congratulating either situation is fucking retarded But they're not praising the "situation". They're showing support. Being a parent is hard enough, let alone a single one. Both single moms and dads need all the help they can get. It comes off as jealousy to think single moms are getting praised for their situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:55 PM
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Why aren't we applauding all the women who have sex and not end up pregnant Why should we be applauding people for having sex at all dude? lol. Does that honestly not strike you as weird?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 05:54 PM
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It's passive aggressive to accuse him This sentence literally contradicts itself lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:47 AM
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What does most people being able to relate to it or not have to do with them choosing to criticize people like OP? Huh? Because his views likely DO come from a place of being insecure, fragile, or misogynistic. It's the equivalent of people talking about how crime ridden and dangerous areas in cities are, when it's clear they've never been there. The things OP is complaining about are just really not that widespread at all in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:43 AM
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You say something like “I want to matter to someone before life humbles her into appreciating me,” and suddenly you’re insecure, fragile, or worse, misogynistic. Because that's a genuinely weird thing to say, that most people will not be able to relate to lol. This really shouldn't be so difficult to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:04 AM
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I hope elon sees this bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 06:38 AM
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Sorry, you can't redefine the term. Sure you can. You can redefine any word if enough people agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 06:35 AM
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It always cracks me up to see comments like this and then like 2 replies down Why would I help another human just because he has a penis like I do? and The world is inherently unfair, and as it stands at the moment, people are not trying to make it fairer, in fact, the opposite is the case. Want results? Outcompete your competetiors (other men), make yourself competitive. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 10:37 PM
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To the best of my knowledge, no male politician has ever attended the Met Gala with an empty slogan scrawled on their ass. Eric adams did.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:54 PM
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Why? It’s a charity event that’s supported LGBTQ+ and POC for decades. Just a heads up, he's not that kind of leftist.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:48 PM
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Besides your odd comments being supportive of russia, hatred of women, and complaining about racism against white people nothing I guess. I just figured if you could decide who a true leftist is I should be able to as well. Mostly I think you just want an alternative to capitalism because you have absolutely no chance of getting wealthy enough to get a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:47 PM
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Because you're not a true leftist?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:35 PM
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How would you know what a "true leftist" would do?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:24 PM
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No trust leftist would attend the Met Gala How would you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 07:35 PM
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Nope. Do you know anyone who lives their life this way? Do you think it's common? I know you're just itching to call men who would live that way misogynists though so go ahead. huh? lol Why would I care if some dude wants to be by himself? Most guys in this sub spend the majority of their time alone, I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 08:49 PM
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Rape is more common, but not by a huge amount. Be more specific. How much is a "huge amount"? And the reason so many men are getting mad in this thread, is because most men aren’t ready to hear what women think of them. ? That contradicts the multiple upvoted comments every day that state how common men are bashed in the media and online and real life. I think you're talking yourself into a corner here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 08:48 PM
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You have multiple comments disagreeing with general scientific consensus for no reason other than you dislike their conclusions, so no I don't think you'd believe it. So like I said, more than you would be willing to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 08:46 PM
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They do, isn't that what the bear thing is all about? Nope lol If I gave you a box of chocolates and told you one is poisonous, would you still eat it? If eating a box of chocolates was the equivalent to dating, then yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 08:40 PM
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To be alone with a woman. Do you genuinely live your life this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 08:38 PM
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Both rapes and false rape accusations are statically rare Do you agree that one is significantly more common than the other? But the possibility of either happening at all is enough for women to be extremely wary of men, and for men to be extremely wary of women. Then why are so many men in this thread upset at women for being wary of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 08:37 PM
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That’s not what they’re saying. One group is saying the data is alarming, the other is saying the data doesn’t matter. I didn’t strawman you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 07:22 PM
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how many of them have committed sexual assault More than you would be willing to believe
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 07:20 PM
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What other ways do you feel yourself becoming more feminine?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 07:18 PM
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Women already treat all men as predators until proven otherwise They don’t Why would you be offended Why do you think I’m offended?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 07:17 PM
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A risk to take on what?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 07:15 PM
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I literally quoted it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 07:14 PM
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Seeing as I never said that, I think you may be mistaken at best. "A single false accusation is enough to cause skepticism." Skepticism is a fact now? Right So then what are you complaining about?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 09:36 AM
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everything op said past "unknown" just reveals why we have such massive issues with investigating sexual violence EXPLAIN HOW it discredits what OP said. violence... topic... Stop typing like a 14 year old girl trying to get attention on myspace, it's really weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 09:26 AM
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Women use this logic all the time to justify treating random men as predators. So yes, this logic is societally accepted. But your entire argument agrees with the idea of women being justifiably afraid of rape. You specifically are saying it makes sense for women to treat random men as predators. Are you under the impression that skepticism isn't a feeling? lol Did you realize what you said made no sense and decide not to mention it again?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 09:24 AM
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did you miss the part about "unknown" in this op? Explain how that discredits what OP said.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 09:16 AM
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the reason i did bring this up is op's post is on a similiar level of silly without credibility and mainly based on arbitary conclusions + assumptions and data no? Did you miss the multiple studies OP included?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 08:43 AM
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Women have been talking about the same thing for years now, just for rapists instead of accusations. Women are saying the actual amount of rapes doesn't matter? Are you sure?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 08:10 AM
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A single false accusation is enough to cause skepticism. By this logic, a single rape is enough to cause fear. That isn’t a feeling, that is a fact. Are you under the impression that skepticism isn't a feeling? lol That is why you just be proven beyond a reasonable doubt, not a preponderance of the evidence to be convicted in criminal court. ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 07:41 AM
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if the chances of getting raped is around 0,05% false accusations are similiar low... that said we talk past the issue... I don't understand how this relates to what I said at all? My point was that comparing car accidents to rapes is an incredibly stupid way to compare risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 07:37 AM
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Whatever the rate of false accusations are doesn’t really matter So feelings over facts then?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 06:26 AM
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are you aware that it is more than 20x more likely to be in a car accident than getting raped? I can't imagine how dumb I would have to be to find this surprising or informative.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 06:23 AM
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You can simply watch their actions. You’ll see they magically pursue and date all of these men who have the qualities they don’t care about. It’s totally just a coincidence though right? Her husband and her exes who happened to be around 6ft also had great personalities. She did date that 5’9 guy for 2 weeks that one time. You have invented something to be mad about. This kind of shit is going to cause you SO many problems in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 10:06 PM
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I responded to specifically what you wrote. No you didn't. "Your point was about companies exploiting women and children, by getting them to exploit their parents/men." This is bringing the point back to them exploiting men/parents. When I was specifically saying they exploit everyone. The overall point being that it's not unique for men to be exploited. As usual, when it's women doing something wrong, it's not their fault, but society's fault. And men are somehow implicated and blames equally. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:58 PM
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Your point was about companies exploiting women and children No, my point was that companies exploit everyone. 0/1 Do companies exploit men by getting them to exploit women? If so, can you give some examples? You need to re read the comment I responded to. 0/2 I'm still not seeing how any of this adds up to "women = children" Can you just skip to the part where you actually try and make the point you're dancing around?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:19 AM
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What's the connection between my point about companies exploiting everyone and women being children?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 07:24 PM
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You forgot to add the satire tag
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:51 PM
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Calling something manipulative and human trafficking is “giving a shit” It means you care about the act of exploitation and manipulation, not the people doing it. The person you were responding to was making a point that women aren't losing out on passport bros. They don't care if they go overseas to find someone. That has nothing to do with caring about actual abuse they might commit once there. I have no idea how you could find this difficult?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 04:52 AM
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The literal wall of women under you who are calling it manipulative, and going so far as to call it “human trafficking” seem to disagree That's a completely separate issue and doesn't actually refute their point at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 04:38 AM
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But now, men are waking up. They’re realizing they have other options. Instead of tolerating the Western dating scene, they can look abroad, where they don’t have to sift through women with past “hoe phases,” radical feminists, or those with overly masculine or entitled attitudes. Thinking there's enough men doing this to even be considered a "movement" that would threaten the average woman is the biggest sign I've ever seen someone needs to take a break from the internet. Passport bros are remo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 04:35 AM
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are you going to hold individuals against a whole movement or ideology When those individuals are the mods? Yes Like what point are you trying to make?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 09:38 PM
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So you think men just want women to like them? That's it? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:23 AM
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I had no idea I was so rare! This sub is fantastic for self esteem lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:08 AM
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They also use children to exploit parents and women to exploit men. If they can make money on it, they’ll do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 07:01 PM
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Yeah it's definitely possible that the gaslighting and abuse triggered something for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:03 AM
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So these were just unstable, mentally ill women. Not women who couldn’t resist you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:45 AM
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Were they stalking you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:35 AM
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but it doesn't make sense to me how pursuing a degree in liberal arts, or her accounting job suddenly makes someone better at conversation. The more life experience someone has, the more interesting conversation with them will be is a pretty general rule to live by. Doesn't just go for women either. You ever try talking to a NEET about anything other than anime?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 05:52 PM
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Divorce is failure. Divorce happens when you either fucked up at picking a person...Both are shameful and horrible and both mean you fucking failed. I'm guessing she left you and took everything?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:49 PM
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being ripped is seen as an expected standard When was the last time you were in public?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 09:43 AM
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It's not just gals that downvote you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:23 AM
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Your example of killing people in video games is dumb because the consequence is that you can go to jail. My what? I never said that lol Did you even read my comment? Rough sex won't kill you. It might hurt, but that's the point for some women. Okay?....I'm not seeing whatever point you're trying to make. How does the lethality of rough sex affect anything we're talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:02 AM
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What are you talking about? Everyone has fantasies that they would never pursue in reality. It's pretty normal actually? How many people imagine themselves in a different career or job or something but would never actually follow through.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 06:28 PM
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It is a well known fact that around 60% of women watch pornography and are more likely then men to watch degrading and rough stuff like gangbangs. In fact, women are 113% more likely to seek out rough pornography then men. You said this like it was some revelation by itself? lol What's the connection? There's plenty of dudes who are into combat footage/fight videos/gore videos that would get nervous making eye contact let alone dealing with blood or confrontation. In fact, women are 113% more li…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 06:08 AM
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Your evidence for them being pro feminist is that they’re pro feminist? Strong argument. the majority of therapy is based on talking things out Yeah talking things out is chapter one in the feminist playbook. despite men desperately needing their services Didn’t you just say talk therapy works for women instead of men? lol it would be world shattering news Kind of hard to argue against a totally made up scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 10:34 AM
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What part of therapy heavily emphasizes feminism? That doesn’t even make sense. They’re completely different fields with different focuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 09:11 AM
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You need to add some cream and sugar to your comment, it’s way too bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 09:03 AM
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The hard, icky emotions are part of the package No they aren’t? lol There’s a ton of better solutions for what you’re describing. After you get a handle on the extreme emotional outbursts you can bring a partner/friend into the process but until then you’re going to push everyone away.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 09:00 AM
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It's not that deep bro Dude said it was saving lives
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 08:25 PM
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So redpill solved everything, and made you starved for attention? ok
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 08:16 PM
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I don't care what anyone says So then why post to a debate sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 08:09 PM
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If people becoming poorer and regression in technological capability/competence isn't a problem or a "real practical issue" then I guess there's really not much else to say. Why would people become poorer? A return to local businesses would put more money in the average persons hands instead of corporations. The people getting wealthiest from automation are the people who need it the least. But I don't think average people really share your view. Ask the average rural trump voter how they feel a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 07:34 AM
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I know this is all hypotheticals, but since your position is based on it, I'm trying to understand the real practical issues. What do we rely on that's not providable from a less automated solution? Why would we just not simply scale down? It's not like our society runs on rocket ships or something. If amazon up and disappeared tomorrow there would be ramifications but it would just mean a return to local purchasing and longer wait times, less money in the economy. All things we can handle.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 07:10 AM
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This dude trying to cast harry potter spells as a comeback lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 04:45 AM
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In complex societies where resource processing and utilization is a complex process relying on systems of scale and assumptions of ROI that's a poor assumption. Why would society collapse from this instead of adapting? What do we rely on that's not entirely providable from a less automated solution?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 04:43 AM
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Lets see, suicide, education, homelessness, incarceration... the list goes on. What laws would you like to see passed to help with suicide? Honestly this one is always just so weird to see brought up as a failing point for the left because I genuinely can't think of a single fuckin thing conservatives have ever done to help with mental health in this country and somehow they get a pass on that. But I know it's no use arguing. You feel these issues aren't unique enough to men, or that men have th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 07:32 PM
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Why? What message do you think that sends? That there are still political battles to be fought on women's behalf that are unique to them? What would you suggest putting in the mens section if they added it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 07:08 PM
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The left's marketing isn't anti-men per se, it's just pro-everything-except-men. Men are a major part of the majority of the groups listed? What are you talking about? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 07:03 PM
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Why do you think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 07:01 PM
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if Hitler had restricted his mass murder of Jews, Slavs, Roma, homosexuals, Communists, and other people he considered undesirable to men only, historians probably wouldn't remember him as the most evil person who ever lived. After all, who outside the Balkans speaks of the Srebrenica massacre today? Hard disagree. Those events aren't brought up or considered widely because they just don't have the same impact, if you look at scale or history wise. There's genocides involving the japanese, armen…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 06:56 PM
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I'm not trying to convince you of anything lol. I was just letting you know you were wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 01:30 AM
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Strong argument. You convinced me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 01:09 AM
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I don't see the correlation, being emotionally supportive shouldn't be as difficult as carrying someone around Then you've probably never been on the receiving end of someone who's using you for that so it's going to be hard for you to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 07:35 PM
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That notion itself has to be examined though. A lot of men are conditioned to think this way as they grow up. I think it's been examined to death, but I don't disagree overall. People are largely the result of their childhoods so it's difficult to break negative habits like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 07:29 PM
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Why is emotionally supporting your partner problematic? Is that not what you should be doing? The analogous situation would be like helping your partner walk when they twisted an ankle, vs physically carrying them everywhere. Personally I avoid telling anyone about my problems because people are so self absorbed and most likely don't want to hear about it. Would you say you live a mentally healthy enjoyable life at the moment?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 07:26 PM
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Are women more receptive than men to being supported? Yes. All you have to do is read some of the comments from men in this sub anytime the idea of supporting each other or even more importantly seeking out support comes up. Too many dudes on this sub think saying "I'm fine" is a substitution for talking about the issues they're dealing with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 07:22 PM
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They don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 07:19 PM
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Self censorship is weakness. Say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 07:14 PM
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What do you mean by this?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:05 AM
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My point is well defined in that it is clearly possible to overcome depression Cool, I'm proud of you for setting your own goals in this discussion. Unfortunately It has absolutely nothing to do with what we're talking about because I never disagreed with that. You stated that therapy doesn't cure depression and anxiety, I explained that the reason for that is that it can't be cured. You then changed your statement to overcoming depression. Why are therapists so bad at helping people manage it t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 07:11 AM
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You absolutely can make a full recovery from depression or anxiety I notice you did not use the word cure. It may be chronic in certain cases but to approach these conditions with the mindset that you cannot overcome them That's not what I said. You approach drug addiction with the mindset that it's a lifelong condition you have to manage too. That doesn't mean you're acting like you can't overcome it. You have no idea what you're talking about yet you're asserting yourself as some person who un…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 04:48 AM
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I know many people in therapy, and in no instance have any of them ever been cured of their condition. You can't cure depression/anxiety. Even still, I know people who have successfully completed therapy and gone on to have extremely fulfilling lives. How is anecdotal evidence helpful? When you go to a doctor you get cured of your ailment. When you go to a therapist, your mental health may or may not show any improvements. Absolutely terrible argument. What doctor cures you of MS or muscular dys…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 04:14 AM
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can you and all the other therapy worshipers explain why despite more people than ever going to therapy, people are more depressed and anxious than they've ever been? Why do you believe it's impossible for both numbers to rise? This just makes you look like you don't understand percentages/statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 03:43 AM
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I am not attacking women or calling them bad or promiscuous in this post. You literally said a significant amount of women are cheating on their bf or fucking 3 separate guys while online dating lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:29 PM
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They're weird too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 01:10 AM
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Yes, but then dismissed it once I read this dudes comments because he was definitely being creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:52 AM
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I have no idea if the person I replied to was a man or woman, I was calling out their obviously bullshit story. How exactly is that a double standard?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 10:30 PM
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I think it's more likely she put you in the creepy tier, and YOU equate that to being in the wade wilson tier. Which if we're being honest, doesn't make any sense for multiple reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 05:11 PM
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I don’t think any conversation regarding public office should be held in total secret between two people Then your opinion is pretty much irrelevant because that’s not realistic or feasible. Also, it’s witness. Not whiteness. saying it’s too much hassle to keep people reasonably safe is actually illegal What law is it breaking?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 10:14 AM
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Have you ever considered the possibility that in that specific moment, you WERE being creepy?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 10:08 AM
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There is no fucking chance you've seen a woman flip a table at work lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:11 AM
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Ma'am I don't know why y'all feel it's your responsibility to explain away the wrongdoings of women you don't know anything about How is this any different from feeling like it's your responsibility to put down imaginary women you don't know anything about? go back and forth with me about shit i've seen in person You've personally witnessed a woman grill her husband/boyfriend for crying?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:07 AM
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How adorable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 06:22 PM
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Skill issue. Just learn to dodge.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 06:42 AM
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What experience are you basing this on?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 06:40 AM
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Men arnt allowed to cry, because other men would make fun of them. But other men generally don't do that. lol? You could at least TRY to be objective about this dude. Were you homeschooled? Men make fun of each other for literally anything and everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:40 PM
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I don't think you have the personal experience needed to discuss this topic
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:54 PM
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When women talk about taking their boyfriends to a bar to flirt with men and force him to engage in "mate guarding" other women should make them accountable for their abuse. FDS is essentially red pill for women. The reason women don't hold them accountable for anything is probably because they have no idea that site/ideology exists. It's so incredibly niche that it's a dead giveaway that you're terminally online. My ex-gf slapped me for a stupid joke about a TV character and no women held her a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:46 PM
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I don't watch/follow women's fitness accounts so you'll have to do the research on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:26 PM
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Candace Owens also has clueless takes at times but I really like still. Candace is the kind of person who's so disingenuous and dishonest that even Rogan of all people called her out to her face. It's mind-blowing that she still has a following.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:38 PM
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They would probably even accuse Sam Sulek of being problematic Being a fitness influencer while taking steroids to create an unrealistic body standard is hugely problematic. What are you talking about? lol It would be no different than a woman taking ozempic or having certain surgeries done and then filming herself doing a couple squats as if that's all you need to do to attain her body.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:02 PM
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The internet has completely cooked your brain dude. You need to touch all kinds of grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 05:12 AM
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As a man you’re the one who has to make the plans to go out, you’re the one who plans the vacation trips This immediately gives away that you are not speaking from first hand experience lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 05:02 AM
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I'm a heterosexual male lol having some kind of "success" rate at all can be thought of respectable. If you say so
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:50 PM
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It is working… 5% is a pretty respectable rate. lol ok
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 10:04 PM
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There is a reason I spend 2.5k on botox a year, am jacked, and sitting in my spray tan from this morning right now. lmao I wish this was short enough to use as a flair
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 09:22 PM
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It’s very healthy and helps him get laid with improving success. Then why isn't it working? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 09:15 PM
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Women would still rather choose to be reincarnated into a beautiful woman, even if it means increased risk of stalking, groping, being roofied, or SA. What are you using to determine these kind of things happen to "beautiful" women more than "ugly" women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 11:24 PM
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Frankly, debating you is going to be exhausting. I can imagine it would be when you have no idea what you're talking about lol How about we start with why you believe women to be less visual than men. Men are generally more interested in and responsive to visual sexually arousing stimuli than are women. What then contributes to only 20% of men getting matches on OLD? Can you link to where you're getting this stat from?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:38 PM
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My question was asked in good faith. That makes you the dumb one because my point was REALLY simple. Women are not "less visual" than men. Based on what?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:14 PM
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Sorry I didn't realize I would need to literally walk you through this step by step. You used women's lack of attraction to most men as an example of the rigid standard of appearance men are held to. But those two things aren't strictly related especially since visual attraction for women isn't as necessary like it is for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 08:02 PM
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Consult the lack of body positivity for men and how women rate 80% of men unattractive. You're looking at this from a guy's perspective. They're not connected for women like they are for men. For example there are objectively attractive women that I would never be willing to date. Has nothing to do with their appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 07:50 PM
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If I were 6ft tall, perhaps my mental health wouldn't suffer this much to begin with? So you'd be slightly happier but still undateable. Cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:19 PM
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Nothing can help the fact that you'd still be single and unlikeable at 6 feet tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:19 PM
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Using myself as an example, I know what my problem is. My problem is that most women want nothing to do with short men, and I am a short man. lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:13 PM
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It did, you just didn't get it It didn't. You seem incapable of just giving a straightforward simple answer on what a man's duties are like you are for women. You actually seem incapable of discussing men in any context other than by comparing them positively to women. The point is that women are responsible for picking men that won't fulfill their duties What duties? In the absolute majority of cases a degenerate man is known for being a degenerate, he has a reputation, a past, etc. For people …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:49 AM
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That….didnt answer my question at all. You’ve given me what you believe a woman’s duty is. So what is a man’s duty?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:53 AM
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I think people are downvoting because they don't believe you have a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 03:15 AM
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It's a woman's duty to pick the right man as the father of her children What is the man's duty?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 03:09 AM
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Why do I sense you are actually crying. I am concerned. Are you ok? Hey everyone, look at what a good guy I'm being! Hey! Look at me!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 03:05 AM
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They were not so openly in denial of reality in 2020 Biden made a ton of pledges to the LGBT community, including recognizing the transgender day of visibility. What are you basing "not so openly in denial of reality" on? The entire article is a great read I have a hard time believing that considering the section you included is based on a lie. Does he do a better job fact checking in the rest of the article? Democrats need to become once again the party of science, reality, free speech etc. Why…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:41 PM
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Give me some specifics, what wokeness was added to the campaign that wasn't there in 2020?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:20 PM
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Damn man didn't know you were there. Is this what you said to your son after he fell?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:07 PM
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Exactly, listen everyone, calm down. This guy didn't let his baby fall down a flight of stairs while he was playing video games. It was a TODDLER, there's a difference. I gotchu bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:38 PM
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Babies sleep most of the day. You can chill when they're doing that. When they're not asleep you're literally changing them, feeding them, or playing with them. Stop acting like it's hard work. This is coming from the same guy that let his toddler fall down a flight of stairs because he wasn't watching him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:54 PM
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I'm not triggered "you're a fucking low life loser!!!" "God you're insufferable" "You're an unhinged twat" "you seem like unhinged, whining little bitch." "You're a fucking clown dude." "You have absolutely no life boy. Do you think I really care what you have to say?" lol sure
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:38 PM
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and you're triggered as fuck. What is that like 6 comments in an hour across my profile? I'm guessing it's a slow day sitting in a parking lot hoping someone orders something?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:16 PM
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but when it comes to masculinity liberals either say it’s toxic or say nothing at all I totally disagree. Can you give examples of the mainstream democratic platform saying this? liberals have been losing men for a while, and that trend has simply been accelerated in the recent election. It's semantics, but I don't think liberals are losing men as much as conservatives are gaining them. Those men just don't like the liberal answers and that's the reality. It's the reason subs like this exist. th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:29 AM
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The left has either said that masculinity is toxic (e.g. negative) or that any positives of masculinity are equally applicable to women (therefore saying it doesn't exist as a male-specific trait) This isn't true at all though. Ignoring the fact that I don't think this is a major part of the democrat platform, I also think saying that toxic masculinity exists does not mean that masculinity in itself is toxic. Just like I'm sure a conservative would say when their leaders speak about "radical isl…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 10:19 PM
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they cannot appeal to men without acknowledging that masculinity exists, that masculinity is important, and that masculinity is positive. Why do you think this?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:54 PM
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I only mentioned identity politics once Everything you talked about is identity politics, you just don’t want to think of it that way lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:53 PM
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The dems will never ever win until they ditch the woke We won in 2020, and 2022, what has changed about the democratic platform since then?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:45 PM
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Trump repeatedly brought up Harris’s race, called her retarded, and ran a ton of ads about how she’s going to turn criminals into transgender rapists, how is that not identity politics?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:40 PM
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Did you even read what you replied to?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:32 PM
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I don't know how you can say with a straight face that it makes sense for the country to think a president who fabricated evidence to send us to 2 wars that lasted multiple decades, crashed the economy, and failed to stop multiple terrorist attacks did a better job than biden.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 07:41 AM
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Biden’s approval rating is now sitting below Bush post-Katrina Which is genuinely insane and more of a sad indictment of how reactionary and uninformed American voters are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 07:00 AM
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I'm not talking about the type of circumcision that is a personal choice. Genuine question, what are you talking about then? I often wonder what we should do though. If we aren't pieces of shit and want to be taken seriously or given the same consideration we give women's issues, or hell, just not be made fun of/denigrated. Men have got to stop treating everything as a fight or war and embrace the self love/self help mental health model women got into years and years ago. leftists have got to ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:35 AM
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I think it's sometimes that discussions about feminism is what triggers men to think about issues they face What doesn't trigger men these days? Tv shows, comic books, sports, music, dating apps, flags, parades, politics Just add it to the list of never ending events that men use to whine about everything that bothers them. I do see circumcision brought up organically quite often and still met with sarcastic dismissive attitudes from women though. It's not just women, a LOT of men have a sarcast…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:52 PM
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It seems like any time any men's issue is mentioned it's met with "yeah but women have it worse". It's because usually men only mention those issues to attack or diminish women. Those issues aren't being brought up in an organic setting to actually be discussed. It's like the whole outcry about "when is international mens day going to be a thing!"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:21 PM
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You should stop being unattractive and see if things change then.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 02:13 AM
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How do you know they weren’t legitimate? Did they ever tell you why they were going to remove you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:59 PM
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I don’t care how drunk the guy is if he has sex with a woman clearly drunk I never said anything about women being too drunk to consent. Where did you get this from? that’s where most of this regret comes from is creeps. I thought you said women only go for the elite top guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:37 PM
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They don’t go to the bar/club and say let’s go have casual sex with a trash bag This is such a common experience that they've made movies based on the premise. You've never heard a woman regret sleeping with a guy the night before?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:55 PM
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And since blue pilled men are less masculine than red pilled men, you don’t have the experience that more masculine men have. There's no way you actually thought this was a good insult lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:48 PM
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I’ve never known a woman in my entire life no matter how unattractive or how attractive that went on dates with guys she didn’t know, that weren’t clearly above average to elite level desirable men. I think you're confusing a very very specific group of women in a social bubble and conflating what they do with all women. lmao what? I've known plenty of women who dated absolute trash bags at different points in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:47 PM
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Meanwhile women fuck dogs, horses and cell phones. Cell phones? lol Did you really run out of examples after dogs and horses and just decide to throw one more in there?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 04:20 PM
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Neither cosby or weinstein were acquitted. Their decisions were overturned, there's a huge difference. It's why weinstein will probably be tried again. It's also kind of ironic to use examples of 2 rich and powerful men found guilty of sexual assault getting off on technicalities as an example of metoo being bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 08:46 PM
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Absolutely wild to use india of all places as an example of men having fear of backlash for SA against women. Sure, even hitler had his positives Good flair for anyone feeling brave enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 08:36 PM
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You're accidentally correct. Obese people don't eat because they think they're going to starve, they're using food as dopamine to feel better. It's the same thing OP is talking about, using women/gf as a way to fix your life or feel happy. It's the wrong way to go about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:55 PM
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That was mgtow was. You think the MGTOW sub saw women as just other human beings? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:53 PM
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That sub was absolute garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:50 PM
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Do you honestly believe you've ever been the "better catch" for someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:43 PM
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I don't think you actually read what I said lol. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:08 PM
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I bet you also believe whites owe blacks reparations for shit their ancestors did. I don't think anyone speaking in good faith believes white people owe reparations. The government however, absolutely does.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 10:31 PM
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36% alone is somewhat close to half lol I think we're done here. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:24 PM
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About half of the population is conservative leaning That's absolutely not true lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:10 PM
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somebody help me Not worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:10 PM
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Maybe I consider experiences of more people. I think you mean "I fall for personal anecdotes that confirm my world view" Even on this sub you should have seen plenty of testimonies how it sucks and it's a waste of time and so on. This sub is filled with maladjusted autists who are not representative of the average population lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:04 AM
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attractive men who do attract men women still exist Aww shucks ☺️ men don’t approach because tinder works so much for them I never approach. Never have unless you count coworkers/mutual friends. If you’re not into bars/dancing you really only have online dating as an option so I’m not sure why you don’t believe it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:09 AM
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I got dates on tinder. I even had two long term relationships come from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:56 AM
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I’m confused. They’re right? You SHOULD be speaking to a professional and not randos online.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/09/24 10:22 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:57 PM
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"someone else" is obfuscating the entire issue, you're comparing strangers to someone you have an intimate relationship with. It's not reasonable or common to be hurt by your partner even though it's possible. It's largely the point of the relationship to get to a place where you feel comfortable in letting your guard down. That's dangerous to do with strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:08 AM
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This is not for public records, just medical records I have no idea what this has to do with my response? "The public at large" doesn't mean "public records" lmao Sorry if that wasn't obvious It's still not obvious. Legal consequences for who? What does this have to do with standardizing paternity testing? And I'm talking about a hypothetical where the mother is adamant about not getting the kid tested...well, there's not many reasons for that, right? The mother wouldn't be the one waiving it. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:04 AM
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No? Those two situations aren't the same at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 06:48 AM
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The grounds is to verify parentage If both parents are willing to raise the child, then I'm not sure why the public at large should care? If parents want to waive the test then let them, I said it should be standard, not forced. You just talked about legal consequences? That doesn't make any sense. And pushing to get it waived is a confession as much as anything so it's still serving the purpose. A confession of what?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 06:42 AM
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Your life didn't turn out the way you wanted at all huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:36 PM
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I wasn't asking for an exact number, I was asking you to clarify your own hypothetical lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:26 PM
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What do you mean more gen z folks? How many more? Be specific
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:02 PM
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Shallow? It means not very deeply, just touching the surface. Is English your first language? Words can have different meanings. In the context you used it in, most people would assume you meant the guys were being very looks focused and derogatory when speaking about the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:45 PM
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That's a super weird context to use "shallow" in but okay. But sure there are men who do that too So you admit that you were wrong when you said guys would never say anything like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:10 PM
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I'm confused. It sounds like you're agreeing with me that this isn't a gendered issue and men do it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:00 PM
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You didn't say "I would never say anything like that" You said "they (guys) can't even fathom because they (guys) would never say anything of the like to their guy friends" So your whole point is men don't talk about women like that. Which honestly makes me think you either didn't have many guy friends growing up or still don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 08:21 PM
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They can't even fathom it because they would never say anything of the like to their guy friends about their girlfriends. That's just....not even remotely true lol. Did you have guy friends in real life? They'll describe how the man fucked her, his confidence, the size of his dick, each vein on it, the taste I'm starting to think this is a fetish for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 08:14 PM
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No one argued that anyone is going to institute a draft That's literally the argument that's been going back and forth lol Democrats would absolutely institute a draft if national circumstances called for it What national circumstances do you see as a future possibility to make this happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:50 PM
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Is this a bot account?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 06:30 AM
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This is such a terminally online take lol. famously pro war democrats are going to institute a draft lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 06:27 AM
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The majority of them But the rest of them think the woman should die instead? Not trying to advocate for pro-life I’m guessing you don’t know what the word advocate means then? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 06:18 AM
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It being normal doesn't mean a man wants to be in a relationship like that No one is saying they should. They're saying it's normal, which means it's common, which means you can either get over it or deal with finding someone from a smaller pool of dating partners. it's always better to know you are the type she is actually sexually desired not just that she's done with the hot guys and sees you as more stable. How is that hard to understand. Because it's fucking weird to view all interactions t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:06 AM
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I mean isn't that normal? There are going to be people you're more sexually attracted to and people you love more as a person. That doesn't mean either is better than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:29 PM
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You literally just made up a completely different example with completely different circumstances and said "false" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:29 AM
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its a quick litmus test of where you stand. The issue is that it's an extremely inaccurate way to figure that out. Im only interested in winning - straight up. First off LMAO Secondly, winning what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:20 PM
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If that same woman has applied that standard unevenly between you and others she dated before What is this obsession with things being fair? How does the way she treated other guys matter as long as you're being treated the way you want to? quickly figure out how she has treated the guys in the past and you find out where you rank. This is incredibly weird behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:50 PM
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I think this is just a case of not being able to explain it in neurodivergent terms that you can understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 09:43 PM
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I mean you're not though lol. Your comments make it clear that you're over thinking what they said.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 09:22 PM
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You're taking what they said way too literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 08:18 PM
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I'm literally just asking a simple question lol Never did i say men are owed anything, nor did i say men are entitled to anything. If we're going down this road, I never said you said those things. You said you want something, I'm asking if you think you deserve the thing you want? That's it. If you want a spoiler, I'm going to ask why you think you do or don't deserve it depending on your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 04:42 PM
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Im a man and when I say things like "i want to know what a first date is like, or a first kiss, having love and romance." Do you believe you deserve those things?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 04:32 PM
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Where I ended up in life is as a married home owner with a family in the suburbs. Which is why you spend your free time complaining about women on reddit lol I mean congrats, you wifed up a 6 and feel regret. It happens. But this is the response I expected because the common consensus from women on PPD I'm not a woman. But assuming I am just because I disagree with you definitely doesn't help your "i dont have problems with women" defense. The reason why telling a guy the truth of... No one care…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:32 PM
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Bitter, jaded and unhappy with where you ended up in life vs where you think you deserve to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:11 PM
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That study is based on two groups of college aged women in their early 20s. Do you know what the word diverse means?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:47 AM
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If bluntly telling low tier men their faults actually helped this sub wouldn’t be full of guys like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:36 AM
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Being condescending while also inexperienced is a terrible combination man. You’re insufferable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:33 AM
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What are you teaching your son to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:25 AM
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A blackhead-riddled face? yellow teeth? You actually think those people don't know they need to fix those issues? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 08:46 PM
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if a woman rejects me because I have hair like Anton Chigurh, its her fault, not mine. if i like to dress like a geriatric clown, its her fault. I mean it's no one's fault? You're just not compatible in those situations. theres situations in which his advice is valid. Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 08:19 PM
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You should really try talking to more diverse groups of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 08:15 PM
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we haven’t fully normalized the idea of offering sympathy and actual help to men My dude, it's getting turned down for a date. It's really not that big of a deal. Attraction is so personal anyways, how exactly is finding out that Woman A likes skinnyfat guys supposed to help you succeed with Woman B who likes buff guys? You want some actual usable advice? Don't tailor yourself for women who are rejecting you. Be confident in the person you are and find someone who likes that because then you'll …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:27 PM
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If you’re going to reject someone because of their physical appearance, at least be specific so that the person can improve any parts of their appearance that are within their control and have more luck with other people in the future. To anyone in the future who might read this and think it's a good idea. Don't. I can't stress enough how weird it would come off.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:06 PM
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You're trying SO hard to be offensive and it's not working at all lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 09:56 PM
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That's not what they were saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 08:09 PM
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You have no experience with this to speak from. I honestly don't understand how people like you feel compelled to join in on a conversation you're not a part of.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 06:29 PM
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They said looks don't matter at all, and then hooked up with you. Seems pretty straight forward to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 05:41 PM
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how looks don't matter at all, how they don't like fit guys and prefer dad bod and chubby guys, and that they need to be "intellectual stimulated" to even consider it ...and then the exact same girl hook up with me 2 hours after we met Is it possible you're not as good looking as you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 04:57 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 04:47 PM
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So a woman you know in real life embarrassed you and you ran to reddit to try and feel better about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 08:12 PM
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"Let death be kinder than man" by Althea Davis
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 04:18 PM
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Just means you have bad taste
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 04:01 PM
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Tell them that they're on the spectrum? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 08:22 AM
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not binary thinking "if women were as competent as they claim they wouldn't be vulnerable to such tactics" This is binary thinking. You're only allowing for 2 possibilities. Either women are competent and they always catch liars, or they aren't and they're wrong about their competency. Binary thinking is a symptom of being on the spectrum. So that might be worth looking into.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:46 AM
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but talking less 1x a day when you are still getting to know each other is ridiculous. It's clearly not based on how badly this has been working for you. Ask any married couple how many times they talked when they were dating. You're not dating. You're getting to know each other, there's a difference. Once you get to the exclusivity section you can start making more demands of each others free time. Until then there's no reason to invest so much time in each other. People make time for whats imp…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:44 AM
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It's really not. Just head over to facebook and you'll see an endless wave of memes and t shirts saying the exact same thing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:40 AM
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You seem to do a lot of binary thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 11:18 PM
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Might be time for you to learn that different people have different priorities. Your approach has gotten you nowhere and you're not willing to change. So what exactly are you looking for here? Someone to tell you didn't do anything wrong and everyone else has the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 11:15 PM
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Behind every calm male face is a storm that can't be seen Guys on this sub are so fucking weird lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 11:11 PM
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I'm very interesting. How so? I'm also not delusional enough to decide that I'm interesting. This honestly makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:08 PM
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You honestly think it's hard to be interesting? Are you like accidentally boring or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 08:57 PM
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Not just women. I think it's hilarious too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 08:55 PM
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OP has seen now seen first hand what RP has said all along is much more effective- gain higher social status than them Just become a multi millionaire rap artist. IT'S SO EASY.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 08:54 PM
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Any examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 06:17 PM
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Would you willingly be friends with the kind of guys that post here?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 08:04 AM
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Now, from this we could also postulate You’re making a completely unfounded assumption
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 08:02 AM
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its publicly funding human sexuality You absolutely mangled the original point to force it into your argument lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 04:08 PM
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If someone is dying of thirst and you have the capability to give them water, it's absolutely a moral imperative that you do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 04:04 PM
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Nobody would date someone they find unattractive, thing is 80% of men are unattractive to women This is misleading because women honestly just don't think of men in that way. Random guys are not attractive to them, even if they would find them attractive under different circumstances. It's not that women think 80% of men are ugly/unattractive, it's that they don't think about them because why would they?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 11:13 PM
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by the time they realized they been plowed like free prostitutes with amount of trauma that no therapy can fix, its too late too little Too late too little for what?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 11:02 PM
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you doubting there have been millions of men all around the world who have suffered this indignity? Yes. I really hope you didn't just assume that was true without any kind of data to back it up because that would be weird. Never said they did, but they have a duty of care over it's citizens. I'm speaking to something specific, you're talking vaguely about something subjective. You need to narrow it down if you want to argue that the government should be involved. Women are adults and can leave,…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:16 PM
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Because there are millions of men who 100% trust their wife that shouldn't have. First off do you have a source for this? Secondly, the government has no ground to ensure men have a reason to trust their wives or vice versa. I could just as easily say the government should mandate social workers to visit every married couple once a month to see if there's any domestic violence because there's millions of women who 100% trust their husbands when they shouldn't have. When you are married or in a L…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 06:54 PM
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Do those two things conflict with each other? No, but it doesn't answer the question of what's stopping you from going getting your own dna test. Why does it need to be mandatory?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:48 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 04:16 PM
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huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 02:07 AM
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Incel rhetoric. Not "anything that doesn't worship women is women bashing" which is the standard you're using. incel rehetoric isn't open woman bashing, it's hatred. The equivalent would be like saying there's no racism because no one is saying the N-word. A statement like "women take no accountability and spend all their time whining so they can take all their husbands money in a divorce" is clearly and objectively bashing women, but wouldn't meet your bar which is ridiculous. I want examples. …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 11:39 PM
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My argument is that you cannot hold all the elements of a demographic accountable because said demographic is over represented in a given metric within its universe. That depends on the demographic and systems in place. For example, I would say police are an example where you need to hold an entire group accountable. I don't need to provide concrete examples to make this point. Reddit mods are too trigger happy with the ban hammer. Again, I can't debate a point you're too afraid to make. Bottom …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 11:30 PM
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Yeah, I thought it was a reddit or selection bias thing at first. Until, I went on instagram and the website formerly known as twitter and saw a lot of similar stuff. You feel like you see more open hatred of men on social media than women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 11:22 PM
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What's your definition of "open woman bashing" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 11:20 PM
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Nice talk bud I especially like the part where you seem to think I'm capable of countering points you never made because you're too scared of backing up your own argument. I told you to make the argument and I'll explain why you're wrong. Until then you're not saying anything useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 11:01 PM
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Welll I could argue with pretty damning stats about certain specific demographics, but I've been told it's wrong to generalize. Unless, of course, we're talking about men. Go for it. It only ruins your own argument and proves you don't understand the conversation you're trying to involve yourself in.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 10:44 PM
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Why are you lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 10:35 PM
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Bragging about paying for a subscription to social media is the saddest thing I've ever seen in this sub. Edit: not just pay, but HAPPILY paying lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 10:32 PM
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Are you speaking from experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 09:10 PM
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That's not necessarily true. Some people are just garbage and want o spread hate. Sounds like we're talking about two different groups then huh? You're choosing to focus on the much smaller less significant group for some reason. Blips on the radar still do damage. Anyone that pushes the button is garbage. A bee sting compared to a lost limb.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:43 AM
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Why would you need to convince anyone that you fully believe an entirely vanilla and boring opinion? lol Why add the qualifier that you "fully believe" something you're about to say if you're not trying to get out ahead of pushback to it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:50 PM
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I feel like if women didn't care, they wouldn't participate in public shaming or passive aggressive comments about virgin men. Except these are almost always done as an attack on men that have done something wrong or drawn negative attention in the first place. Compare that with the amount of public shaming/passive aggressive comments from men on social media about women. The overwhelming majority of negativity and hateful comments come from men on social media towards women, and it has nothing …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:43 PM
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They openly say that they are not into virgin and inexperinced men. Those traits alone are turnoffs for many women Well yeah, I assume those women are not virgins and experienced themselves. Most people prefer partners with similar histories. Women don't have a habit of attacking random men for their lack of sexual history. Who said this was deep? Its my opinion You're framing it like it's some hard to believe statement, as if you think people would disagree or not believe you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:38 PM
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Because RP content is often hilariously wrong lol. RP content deals with extremes and fringes, it's right about a very very narrow niche of people. It completely ignores the average.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:10 PM
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Thats why incel and virgin are used as insults because they see not being able to attract a woman as a negative thing. Insults are often meant to attack insecurities of the person you're saying them to. The truth is MEN see not being able to attract women as an extremely negative thing. Women don't care if guys can't get any, it's when they become bitter and hostile about not being able to and won't shut up about it that they're forced into the conversation. I fully believe that if there were a …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:07 PM
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I'm sure it makes you feel better to think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 02:59 AM
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The guy struggling to get dates is calling a multimillionaire superbowl winning quarterback weak. Okay lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 02:41 AM
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Her revealing on a podcast how much of a cuck he is probably stings a bit This word has completely lost all meaning if we’re just throwing it situations like this
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:46 AM
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This kind of wisdom is wasted on this sub, but you're completely right.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 09:09 PM
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I hope you're 2 inches shorter in your next life
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:48 PM
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Just doing my good deed for the day is all
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 07:21 AM
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do you only come here to kick people while they’re down I do
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 06:58 AM
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I'm saying i would directly pay the child's needs instead of giving money to my ex. Well no, you said "no child support" should be the penalty for adultery. Now you're saying there would be support, it's just up to a certain limit you've defined. And for clothes or anything the kid wants, I'll buy it when my kid is with me. How would you make this accountable and legally binding?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:29 PM
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I find it so weird that you would choose to stop supporting your children because your wife cheated. Like would you just stop seeing your kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 02:09 AM
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Where did I mention anything about a person with no work experience being a good worker? Are we not using "men with successive rejections" from the OP as the stand in for the worker? What successful well adjusted men are in toxic relationships where they are being called entitled?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 02:57 AM
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There you go with the gaslighting again. There you go using buzzwords you don't fully understand again
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 02:48 AM
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Using your analogy, how is an unemployed person with no work experience a "good worker" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 04:01 PM
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had a year in /played. Rookie numbers
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 03:53 PM
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Does your wife have orbiters?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 05:33 PM
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I'm not really understanding why you'd blame/punish the victim. Because it's a troll account that tries to blatantly rile people up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 02:31 AM
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I can’t believe multiple people fell for such an obvious bait
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 07:03 AM
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You seem to be implying women should accept any and all flaws in men regardless of how detrimental or harmful to the relationship they are. He could be needy and clingy Why do you think this should be tolerated? He could be insecure about your past and his place in it Again, why should this be tolerated?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 07:00 AM
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Considering East asians also share the racial stereotype of “looking young” The common joke/stereotype with that is they look young until they're about 40 and then age rapidly. Have you been around working class Latinos ?? They do not look “younger than average” I've lived in los angeles/southern california my whole life so yes, and yes they do lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:44 AM
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Latinos don’t have special skin lol. Signs of aging are pretty obviously going to show on skin that gets damaged by the sun more than darker skin that has more built in protection against UV damage. It's a well established fact that darker skin looks younger and less wrinkled than lighter skin tones.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 12:26 AM
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I love how nobody in any of these discussions is ever able to explain why a guy should by happy with waiting. I never said you needed to be happy about waiting? I specifically said if you don't want to wait then you should move on. Nobody can just admit that there's no real argument for this other than the obvious I'm not understanding why you think there needs to be an argument for it? The explanation is pretty simple, women don't want to feel like they got played so if they have real feelings …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 08:28 PM
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This sounds like a one-way street going her direction only. Then you're free to move on lol Stop being bitter about people you aren't compatible with
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:59 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 09:31 AM
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I definitely haven't been here for a decade lol. Also, I don't think you understand what I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:23 PM
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Just start a telethon or gofundme instead
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:14 AM
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Why do you enjoy screaming into the void so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 05:52 AM
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The fact you left off health insurance/medical care really shows how uninformed you are on this subject. When you turn 26 and have to start paying for your own instead of being on your parents, you’ll understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:58 AM
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without the option of selling their bodies They have the option, I don’t think it’s a lucrative market but they still have the option. Also as you said, manual labor is the male equivalent of selling their body for money. let’s feel bad for For both. The idea of a living wage is that everyone deserves to make enough to live off of it. No matter how undesirable/unimportant the job is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:42 AM
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A living wage in America has is near universally understood to mean enough money to afford food/rent/medical care. You have no idea what you’re talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:14 AM
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Words are indeed words.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:01 AM
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That might be your experience. The vast majority of first dates were dutch or split checks for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 07:00 AM
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You can see this very easily once you notice that most women expect men to pay for dates from the very beggining, and if a man doesn't pay, then she'll move on to the next one. I have literally never been on a date with a woman who expected me to pay or was upset if I didn't. Stop dating traditional/conservative women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 06:35 AM
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She is getting everything she ever dreamed of Your answer to the question “what rewards do women get for being feminine?” Is “everything they ever dreamed of” ? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:03 AM
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What rewards would you say they receive?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 10:59 PM
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Because people are stupid and fail to realize that if socialism was amazing, the entire world would be socialist right now. Why do you think that? And if capitalism was really that bad, it would not be the most popular system used. Do you think the popularity of financial systems is based on how "good" they are or because they benefit people in power more than other systems?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:15 PM
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Feel free to prove me wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:46 AM
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You're not speaking for the majority either lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:22 AM
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I love that for you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 05:54 PM
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All we see is false accusations left and right You should probably stop trying to speak for all men. It’s weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 08:36 AM
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They were able to get the guy whose research looked into the understanding of alpha male wolves Isn't that just how science works? His original hypothesis was disproven by further research? What do you disagree with about the change to his argument? But that guy says it's not true anymore, so ignore your lying eyes. People's experiences are one of the least reliable ways to analyze or view a situation lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 12:15 AM
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I do believe it enhances attractiveness but when you get to deeply know a person, that attractiveness doesn't matter after a certain point bcz then connection becomes emotional rather than physical. Attraction will always include the physical. I don't understand why you think that reasoning is not accurate. Because I have actual experience dating? lol Gatekeeping now, are we? Yes. You should probably have at least some experience with a subject before speaking on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:36 PM
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i mean...I am at the top 5% of my country just by knowing english, And i know lots of people who know English... We should probably only focus on countries that matter for this Moral of the story: 10% of 3 billion is quite a lot Depends entirely on what you're measuring
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:21 PM
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No, it's a genuine question.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:08 PM
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It hides your true self. I guess I should have been more clear. I was asking what proof you have that most men dislike makeup on women and think it's a lie. Don't know of such thing happening. Most of us prefer the real face not the fake one. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8245686/ Just a single example I explained how and why. You seem to have this issue where you take your opinion and just kind of treat it as objective fact. I don't really understand why. It is obvious that the o…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:07 PM
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Bcz it's a lie. Most of us hate lies. Why do you think most men think makeup is a lie? Follow up, why then do men almost unanimously prefer pictures of women with their make up on? It can be. Although fancier the date, the better the chance of success. That's not true at all lol So whom will you choose one with more effort or less effort. Uh I would choose the one I liked more? That seems fairly obvious. Idk. Do you choose women based on their effort?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:49 PM
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It’s women who need to be honest about only wanting the top 5-10% of men Today I learned I'm in the top 5-10% of men. Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:44 PM
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Why do you wear makeup when we don't even like it that much? Why do you think men don't like makeup? What do women do in initial stages of dating where men plan dates, give flowers, make the first move and ask out? Planning a date can literally be "go get coffee" and pro tip: Don't give flowers on dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:42 PM
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if I punch down and date women lower in attractiveness/overweight Do you believe this is actually possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:38 PM
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it was primarily because they were in the process of joining Nato that Russia started fucking around their borders because there's a clause that says that you can only join Nato if you don't have territorial disputes/wars alongside your border. If that was the case they wouldn't have committed to a full scale invasion and wasted so much manpower/equipment. Unlike the U.S. South Korea is surrounded by enemies. And not a single one of them are going to invade.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:37 PM
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Hell, we almost had a draft during the war on terror. No we didn't. If the government actually thought that they would never need another draft, we wouldn't even have selective service. Yeah I forgot how much the government loves rolling back laws that grant them power/information of their populace. Good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:11 PM
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Wasn't the reason for the war precisely because she wanted to join? or are we crazy? That actually proves my point but there's an entire list of reasons why russia invaded. It's about way more than not wanting them to join nato. I don't think you understand, wars will happen, even though there are ultra-advanced technologies, agreements, peace movements. The development of nato and the nuclear bomb has led to the most peaceful time in world history. men and boys are going to have to face the fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:06 PM
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I can’t recount for you the history of mankind and distill it into a simple sentence of why having no draft is a bad idea Okay. That's probably a good thing because I don't need you to. I’m not sure how to articulate it I noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:39 PM
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Ukraine, Russia and other wars say "hello" Hi. Literally the second option I gave was to join NATO. If Ukraine had, russia wouldn't have touched them. If you need me to explain why then you shouldn't have bothered responding.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:38 PM
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It's a federal offence not to register, and it can affect jobs/student loans if you refuse, so sadly it still is an issue. It's not an issue because they're not going to implement it. Obviously the draft should be retired but I don't care what I signed, I'm not going to war and neither are 99% of the other men that signed it. It's just not happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:34 PM
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I don't think that refutes anything I said. I would also probably not use any history prior to the development of the nuclear bomb as evidence of how modern countries should defend themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:33 PM
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How is a country supposed to defend itself without a draft? Peace treaties, nato, investing in drones, make the military a worthwhile career option There's more than a few options if necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:25 PM
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I think no one should register, but ultimately it's not worth caring about because we will never have another draft in this country again.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:21 PM
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That article doesn't assume men are rapists by default. Do you honestly have an issue with better defined consent education so that we try to avoid these messy edge cases?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:53 PM
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"broadly speaking, I feel like men have proven useless in the political moment" Is this the part you're referring to or was it said at a different time?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:43 PM
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Sub-consciously, we all do. Let me explain it in a way you might understand better. Neurotypical people don't categorize partners by their character stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:11 AM
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Stop trying to date out of an excel spreadsheet. Normal people don't categorize partners by their character stats dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 12:27 AM
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they don’t want to date losers for the most part Don't give away secret knowledge like this for free dude! Go get some grant funding and put together a research paper because this is mind-blowing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:45 PM
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Said in a thread that's talking about how misogyny and misandry is running rampant online... Yeah? I'm not sure what point you think you're making here. It's very clear to me you currently lack the understanding and psychologically of putting people down in ways that don't address the problem if any. I think you mean psychology? It might help to know what words you're using if you're going to try and say I lack understanding on a subject. Please look up the psychologically around shaming people …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:43 PM
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That has nothing really to do with gender bias or something. Why? Men killing women is much more real and serious than women cutting guys dicks off. There's no way mutilation of women's body could be conveyed as something funny and not immediatly cancelled, so i don't agree. You can mutilate women's bodies in real life and not get cancelled so I don't really agree with that. Comedy is an exceptionally efficient way to see bias. Much comedy is actually about serious life experiences and analysis,…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:13 PM
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That's the funny thing about anecdotes, for example I've never seen entire threads calling men slobs. I have seen comment sections full of men belittling women for almost anything on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 06:21 PM
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men calling them hoes yeah Does that not count? I mean you realize it's on nearly every single video featuring a woman showing any amount of skin. Most videos I've come across of women displaying any talent have guys in the comment belittling them. I don't see the same thing on videos featuring men. Also comments agains men always seem like they mean every single man. If a man is writing a hateful comment against a woman it's almost always targeted specifically against that specific woman. "all …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 06:19 PM
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these are comments that I see almost on a daily basis on instagram, while the opposite of that affecting women can only be found in the deepest shitholes of incel forums. You don't see comments calling women hoes or useless on instagram or reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:31 PM
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Do you think it's more common than entire threads/comment sections calling women hoes?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:29 PM
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I have no idea what the fuck you're talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:28 PM
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Publicly humiliating your husband online for TikTok validation points would one hundred percent be decried as redpill manosphere misogyny if done by the other gender and women do that constantly. What do you consider "publicly humiliating your husband" ? Because I see both genders making dumb videos about their partners and I personally don't see the claims of misogyny on ones done by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:27 PM
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Everywhere you look it's misandry. Could you maybe be a little more specific? Places like here and Reddit we can't even talk about dating strategy because if you get banned What do you mean? This sub is literally built around debating dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:24 PM
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OJ getting away with killing his wife was played for jokes too. I don't think comedy is a good example of how people express their views. People laugh at things they don't tolerate all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:23 PM
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Any examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:28 PM
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What is misandrist about complaining about your husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:43 AM
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What are some common misandrist takes that you see that are considered harmless?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:31 AM
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Can you give some examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:29 AM
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Do you think misandry is more common on social media than misogyny?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 06:41 AM
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Well yeah, hair pieces are often pretty terrible looking and plugs are better. But I don't hear women complain about those either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:06 AM
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Most of those aren’t the equivalent to makeup at all. I also genuinely never hear women complain about hair pieces. Men overwhelmingly insult men’s hair vs women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:31 PM
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The vast majority of criminals are men, the vast majority of african americans do not commit crimes. That's about as simple as I can make it for you. What happens when you replace men with a different group or people? A sharp and sudden drop in violence and sex crimes?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:21 PM
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You realize that if you did you would be agreeing with their point that you're....trying to disagree with right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:09 PM
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Reread the comment. No, take a deep breath. Type out what you want to say and THEN hit send. I'm going to read responses you came up with later in the shower lol. I am sure, you will still deny and claim "Too many choices = Choice Overload" Again, nothing you said disputes the claim being presented lol. And it is a quick process. How much time does it take to see a message and if it's low quality, discard it? If it's any amount of time longer than I want it to take, it's too long. So it wouldn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:51 PM
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They seem to know which is which. That doesn't dispute anything that's been said about choice overload lol. Either they are lying that all the messages are from low quality men or they have a quick way to determine which of those are low quality. Or the majority of messages they've read are from low quality men AND it's not a quick process. You might be suffering from dichotomous thinking. It's a symptom of a disorder commonly found on the spectrum. Might be worth looking into.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:05 PM
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You’re assuming that in our family it is not commonly accepted for trusted adults to guide kids when they do something like that and the parents are not present No, my assumption was that you wouldn't be considered a trusted adult by your family. What I described was typical for most families not long ago prior to everyone losing their minds around 15 years ago lol are you saying everyone lost their minds when obama was elected?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:40 PM
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Having too many choices =/= Choice overload. lol all of them are as overall nearly as good as others. and how is the process for determining this different from a situation where you have fewer options? and you know which choice is which Same question as before
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:33 PM
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That's a pretty awkward response don't you think? All jokes aside, you should probably check with her parents before giving her advice like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:27 PM
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Not like I’m personally awkward Do you think it's possible that people feel this way without ever saying it to your face? My niece recently did this and I advised her Are her parents okay with you giving her advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:01 PM
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I'm not in the mood to go over the risks men have to incur with dating but they are more common than the risk of violence and stalking that women often bludgeon others with when told to make smarter decisions. Don't you think it's a little ironic to complain about women being afraid of something you admitted you struggle to keep from doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:56 PM
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Have you been called awkward before?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:21 PM
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That's not the case with dating. Your choices are 500 messages with varying levels of quality and taste. There is no choice overload. You're contradicting yourself here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:12 PM
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I expect you not to build your house in a high traffic area where I'm walkin. Like build your web over by the trash can, or light. Tons of bugs over there. Win/Win.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:37 PM
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Do you have any idea what men expect women to take to the face? I mean ideally they're consenting to that. I never consented to taking spider jizz to the face lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:10 PM
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Well then I would suggest you stop visiting sites that feature that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:36 AM
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Hiking has nothing to do with not liking a spider web in your face lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:33 AM
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You realize those embedded YouTube links aren’t random right? It picks videos based on your browsing history dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:30 AM
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Showing tits and pussy is the same as showing dick Only within the same context. A topless woman at the beach isn’t the same as a guy showing his dick to kids from his car is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:28 AM
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a common theme is women lamenting the fact that its almost impossible to find decent men for LTRs. This has nothing to do with whether or not men are willing to date/marry them. how so many complained about how porn had damaged their ability to have relationships with 'regular' men that they encountered (making LTRs and marriage difficult if not impossible). Again, not what we're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 08:31 PM
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My point was more that escorting can have a whole host of other issues that would make dating/marriage complicated. It's not the body count that's keeping guys from marrying those women as yes porn stars and other women with high body counts can get married whenever they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 06:37 PM
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Where are the blue pills chasing down escorts to propose marriage? It shouldn't matter right? Escorts is a loaded term, if you changed it to include sex workers then I'd say there are a lot of "bluepill" guys willing to date/marry those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 04:21 PM
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Haven't you been following #MeToo and the plentiful "no means no" campaigns? metoo peaked in 2017 and has dropped 70% in interest since then. That's 7 years. Why are you acting like it's still a massive mainstream movement?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 05:36 AM
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Not at all because a dialogue tree has a specific flow and rigidity. You ask a question and then follow up with a question based on if their answer was A or B. Then from A to A1 to A2 to A3 etc. So if you ask about their job, your follow up is going to be related to that based on their answer. Improv would be letting the energy and story dictate what questions get asked and where the conversation goes. Maybe you asked about where they grew up, but that turns into a funny story from your childhoo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 05:29 AM
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My favorite part about your anecdote is that it started very simply with just a woman posting something and you commenting to disagree, that was that. It's now morphed into her "Screaming and blaming men" abuse towards you over.....supporting the wnba? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 08:39 PM
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Because those jobs suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 06:43 PM
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When did I assume blame?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:57 PM
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I dodged it because it's irrelevant to the main point of the discussion. Irrelevant to YOU. I can totally understand why they asked. Sorry, but it's pretty annoying seeing people immediately shift the goalposts to start attacking me personally. How were you personally attacked? Be specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:50 PM
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That's not even remotely true. I'd be willing to bet the vast majority of issues that require therapy can all be traced back to childhood trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:34 PM
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It's very clear you're upset with the idea of men requiring physical intimacy to be happy and are desperately trying to paint me into some kind of villain They very clearly and directly asked you multiple times about your partners feelings on the relationship and you've either dodged it or answered it from your perspective every time. The fact that you're getting so defensive over a really basic question is kind of telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:30 PM
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Whatever isn’t a dating podcast. I’m also not sure how that changes anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 07:05 AM
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Whatever podcast and fresh and fit are 2 obvious ones. I have no idea who david alvareezy is, but his channel also does.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 02:02 AM
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Of course, I would never expect you to better yourself as a person. I was just trying to help you understand what they were saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 10:52 PM
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You won't ever see them on TV, youtube, anything. Not even remotely true. A lot of very popular channels have OF models on regularly. Just watch any of those weirdo dating/game shows or the red pill debate shows. All of them regularly feature women from OF.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:14 PM
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They're saying your judgement is a problem. It's really not that complicated lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:10 PM
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"...so my last situationship ended with him cumming on my face and ghosting me the next day haha" Drop the link
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:43 PM
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because if most men knew the truth The truth doesn't matter. If you're insecure, nothing she says will make you believe her. You're a living example of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:30 PM
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you must be unaware of what short men experience in real life if you think it's only an online take. Said by a guy online who spends time in a sub dedicated to complaining about being short. You are EXACTLY what she's talking about lol. online is where people can speak their actual thoughts. I promise you that's not true dude. Social media is more like halloween, it's all pretend. A lot of people online are playing a character they've created of themselves. They talk how they want to be perceive…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 11:40 PM
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Dismissive of you sure, not OP though. That's not a reasonable take at all lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 05:40 PM
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I mean that's why he's her discussing it. Almost like that's why this sub exists. I have no idea what you're trying to say here? Who is disagreeing with this? I'm sure your stupid posts and advice won't help at all, either. This isn't an advice sub lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:42 PM
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Why does he care? Because he's trying to be successful with women. Doesn't seem like it's working though does it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:36 PM
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Guys in this thread are acting like there are two options only. Binary thinking is a common symptom of autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:34 PM
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Women are basically silent Nazi's, pretending to be a pony. If no one else takes this flair I'm grabbing it. It's amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:13 PM
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Let's switch the genders. Imagine if you had multiple guys commenting "yeah I stuck it in the wrong hole and told her it was an accident ha ha aren't I quirky". I guarantee you, they would be downvoted to oblivion and get a lot of pushback on it. If you actually think this is a comparable situation/analogy you should be embarrassed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:23 PM
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Now, tell me again how bad it is out there for women It’s really bad out there for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 12:00 AM
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Because those kids aren't going to stand a single chance at growing up mentally healthy. Why bring more maladjusted people into the world just for the ego boost?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:09 PM
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Please whatever you do, don’t have a kid. Seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 09:42 PM
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Gender is just clothes dude lol I wasn't using it to mean they were all men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 07:02 PM
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Why did you send this twice?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:53 PM
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Your general consensus would probably matter more if it wasn't pulled from the kind of guys that hang out in PPD daily chat lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:53 PM
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You know I heard people complain at the biases of enforcement on reddit but seeing it first hand is wild. It couldn't possibly be that you're....wrong....could it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:43 PM
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I'm asking for support I know? That's what I said? lol I'm documenting. How's that going for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:39 PM
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Do you not have anyone in real life you can talk to about this stuff? Why do you keep seeking support in these daily chat threads? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:20 PM
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You’re a despicable person. I just want you to know I'm imagining you saying this like daffy duck. When the gloves come off women always make their disdain for any non chad known. I'm not a woman. It's understandable why you would make that mistake though because you don't have experience talking to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:10 PM
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I’m too ugly for casual sex Awww don’t say that. I bet you’re too ugly for a lot of different kinds of sex!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:59 AM
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This was total gibberish lol I have no idea what you think you were saying but it made no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 08:41 AM
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You’re a human fedora
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 06:41 AM
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That not really being a fan fan is short for fanatic. Except for the fact that absolutely no one uses the word like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 05:34 PM
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They do in fact want to be talked to like women. This reads like you're implying women can't be good at or knowledgeable about specific subjects lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 05:31 PM
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If he leaves over that, then he wasn’t really a great guy for her was he?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 06:59 AM
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Women literally list their requirements as a laundry list and it’s not even uncommon for them to do so. Why would their requirements matter to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 11:42 PM
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I can and I will. Especially when people say something as direct as "name a single person". I feel like it's pretty obviously implied that they mean "name a single person of average/standard mental health and human experience" I am a person. Debatable. Which is the entire issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 04:46 PM
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I’ve told you multiple times. You can’t include yourself in conversations like this. You are not a normal person.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 09:44 AM
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Cool
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 09:22 AM
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Isn’t part of the reason Woodstock became so iconic was because it was very counter-cultural I feel like everyone is intentionally ignoring the biggest reason Woodstock is such a cultural moment in history is because some of the most famous bands of all time played the same weekend? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 09:47 AM
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There’s already a documentary about it called ‘Black Men in Brazil’ Are you sure that wasn’t just some porn you watched?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 09:41 AM
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I genuinely have no idea what the fuck you're trying to say dude lol. Is english your first language? What religion are you referring to with "church of woke"?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 05:17 PM
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The official church/state religion is woke? I'm extremely confused about what you're trying to say. Use your words.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:59 PM
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Let's try that again. Because if you post something that is 80% true How exactly was it 80% true?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:40 PM
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Because if you post something that is 80% true How exactly was it 80% true? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 10:41 AM
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which is the official one The official what?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 06:29 AM
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And you really don’t even need to have multiple men in the picture for that to happen. Just wear clothing that flatters you or flaunt your body in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 06:28 AM
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That OK Cupid study set dating discourse back decades. It's the "wolf packs follow an alpha" of dating discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 01:28 AM
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How would you know that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 01:25 AM
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Your very awkwardly worded observation apply to what we were talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 03:18 PM
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By basically you mean “not at all”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:48 AM
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So then it's not an arrogant thought? You're being a little confusing right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:31 PM
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You don't think you could find someone to perfectly complement you out of 2 billion chances?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 05:58 PM
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There is no chance you can actually afford that based on your comment history. You were making minimum wage a year ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 11:15 AM
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I will gladly believe your numbers No you won’t lol Because there’s no way this is the first time you’re coming across this argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 11:06 AM
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Having a different opinion than you doesn't make me ableist.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 08:23 AM
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as someone who didn’t get a handle on genuine socialization until I was nearly 30 Thought as much
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 01:31 AM
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True, but it takes some guys longer than others to see through the bullshit women try to convince themselves and others of. Can you give some examples of bullshit women try to convince themselves and you of? I thought it was just because lonely men are smelly and bad people but they’re standards are too high somehow as well? You seem to have a problem with reading comprehension. Having different standards is not the same as having HIGH standards. It is rather telling though that you take a descr…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:15 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 10:49 PM
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You can ask additional questions, or you can point to resources that deal with the issue, if you know them. It may also happen that you have dealt with and successfully resolved a very similar situation or at least know about one. "Gib me detailed comprehensive guide to fixing my life or fuck off" is certainly a choice. I just have my doubts that it's the best way to fix the issue. But the bottom line is that the principle of the answer should be based on trying to give effective advice and not …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 10:00 PM
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Nah it’s pretty common. I love when people use vague descriptors. What's "pretty common"? Is that like 1 out of 5? More? who have to actually perform up to a certain deliberately obfuscated standard to be successful If you have a general understanding of social norms and how they differ between economic/political classes, the standard is not hard to understand. This is extremely basic shit that people deal with every single day. If you have a sales/retail job, you already understand how to relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 09:56 PM
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He wants a clear and feasible plan, ideally in bullet points. To be perfectly honest, the only real feasible plan for most of them will involve bullet points, just not in the way you're talking about. It's simply impossible to give specific tailored advice to a random person you've never met about something as personal as dating struggles. Why would anyone even think that was possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 09:44 PM
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In my experience most people are “decent” and take showers. Most people don't need help with dating or talking to the opposite sex though, so we're not talking about most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 09:38 PM
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Men don't go around telling women that they're failing at dating because they need to take a shower. But they do go around telling women that they're failing at dating for a TON of other dumb reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 09:35 PM
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Most men, myself included, are told from a young age by the women in their lives to simply be themselves So you're not being yourself in relationships? Do you not feel weird putting on an act and lying to yourself about what you want? That seems like a sad existence to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 09:31 PM
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They don't pursue in the vast majority of cases? Is there a reason you didn't answer the question I asked? Let's try this again. If both families and the groom agree on facilitating the partner, and the only person who objects is the woman, what happens? Which religion? Because enforced monogamy predates the abrahamic religions. Any religion. Laws based on the will of the people can be changed, laws based on scripture can not. Islam is the official religion of saudi arabia. Allowed for the prosp…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 01:08 AM
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What will happen is both families on both sides will agree to facilitate the dating process, and/or make it harder if they don't approve of the prospective partner (on both sides). And if everyone agrees on facilitating the partners except for the woman? What happens? This is why enforced monogamy exists It exists because of religion, full stop. If muslims had been the ones who came to america our country would have been founded on something closer to shariah law. Mercifully, that's not what hap…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:39 PM
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I don't think you responded to the right comment. I never said having standards meant they had a lower sex drive. I was countering the notion that women need a bunch of requirements to be met before sleeping with a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:12 AM
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This comment is a trainwreck. I have no idea what the fuck you're trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:28 AM
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Your answer doesn’t count
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 07:43 PM
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Supporting the child doesn’t show immaturity but having it in the first place without properly vetting the father or preparing does. There are a multitude of reasons for couples to get divorced that have nothing to do with the woman not "properly vetting the father" I don’t understand how a having a stable income is a flex when it comes from the government. Where did I say her income came from the government? And most of it is gonna go to taking care of the kids anyway. As it should, sounds like…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 11:57 PM
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You should probably have some experience with the dating scene before making definitive claims on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:02 AM
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Many single mothers I see are… I don’t care. You asked for benefits and I provided some examples, don’t date single moms if you don’t want to. It’s still weird to run a cost/benefit analysis on dating someone. Also what about the ex you’ll have to deal with Why would you have to deal with the ex?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:59 AM
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Having kids out of wedlock is the direct opposite of a sign of maturity. Who said the child was born out of wedlock? Even then, how does the mother choosing to support the child imply IMmaturity? Her “stable income” probably comes out of your tax dollars. A lot of shit comes out of my tax dollars. So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:58 AM
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I do a CBA on literally everything in my life. Why? I genuinely can't imagine a more sad existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:42 AM
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This was the comment you responded to "I remember the Jennifer Lawrence and Emma Watson leaks. It was all over reddit. They called it the fappening. You couldn't escape seeing them. Some people criticized but it didn't stop the spread." Did you intentionally change the subject away from reddit's reaction when you responded or did you not understand the context of the comment you were replying to?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:39 AM
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What's a positive of dating a single mom? If we're just going by the most vague possible generalities then I would say it's a sign of maturity and competency to manage her life and a childs at the same time. There's a high probability she has a stable source of income and living situation. Finally, you will know that she has experience raising kids if you want to have your own in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:37 AM
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Jokes rank very low on his cost analysis apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:34 AM
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There is literally 0 benefit to dating a single mom and numerous negatives. Sounds pretty hypergamy my dude. Do you do a cost/benefit analysis when dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 11:47 PM
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"Guys, I've only been hit on 7 times tonight. Am I losing it???"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 11:35 PM
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You are not a real person lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 06:54 PM
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Why would women want to make it MORE common for men to approach them? Do you think they feel like it doesn't happen often enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 06:48 PM
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Then why do men on here complain about women on onlyfans so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 06:37 PM
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So your trying to tell me the majority of people didn’t have a problem with a bunch of womens nudes getting leaked? The majority of redditors didn’t have a problem with it, no. Again, your argument hinges on the idea that the majority of Reddit had a bigger problem with celebrity nudes over revenge porn and sexually suggestive photos of minors. Depends what you mean by immediately You can try using context clues like “Reddit had no choice but to act on because of the news coverage” to understand…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 09:29 AM
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You don’t think men judge women for sending nudes to other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 07:18 AM
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An overwhelming majority criticized it You’re letting your biases affect your memory because this is not true. with reddit banning any sub that allows it Not immediately. The fappening was a turning point for candid nudes that Reddit had no choice but to act on because of news coverage. Unless you’re going to try and argue that the site that allowed pics of pre teens in bikinis and upskirt photos decided decided leaked celebrity nudes were going too far?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 07:14 AM
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SLIGHT social awkwardness? lol He’s also 6’2, no idea why you don’t think he’s tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 04:59 AM
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Isn’t it kind of obvious that those women find casual sex with men they find attractive “the right circumstances”? lol Like I’m not totally sure what point you’re making?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 05:58 AM
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Why does that matter? How the word comes to mean something new doesn't really change whether or not it's definition has changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 05:46 PM
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cus if htey had actually come to mean that then no one would have to gaslight anyone. Just because you feel like you're being gaslit doesn't mean you are. Do you disagree with the example I provided? If so, why? no, its obvious what direction you were leaning in So my direction was obvious but not the overall point I was making?....ok. What direction was I heading in if not towards the point I made? either because you're incapable of doing so, or because you're too intellectually cowardly and kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 10:54 PM
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Yea Then why isn't it possible that these words have come to mean the things these people are saying? to shame people out of their usage and gaslight people that its always been this way. What would it matter if the word meant something different at a time? The f slur is a perfect example, there was a time it was extremely commonplace, even in media/films. You could make the argument that when it was used back then, it wasn't with the intention of offending gay people which is sort of true but i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:43 PM
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Do you think it’s possible for language and common definitions to change over time?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 08:33 PM
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Lmaooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 08:50 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 08:48 AM
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Most people don't order chicken strips everywhere they go. Some of us that venture out in the real world try new foods every once in awhile. Occasionally we get recommended to eat somewhere from a friend. Sometimes those meals are good but not great, or we decide we don't like it and try something else from the menu next time and really enjoy it. Then again, I wouldn't be surprised if you just enjoy the act of eating no matter what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 06:31 AM
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Well then I would know they were wrong since that's absurd lol Can you honestly not think of reasonable signals a woman would give? Pretend you're someone else if you need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:05 AM
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I'm trying to imagine how bad his approach is if they went from eye fucking him to not wanting anything to do with him lol. I bet it includes finger guns.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:56 AM
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I’ve had girls abundantly interested in me completely lose interest over the most nonsensical shit How do you know they were abundantly interested?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:55 AM
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Have you enjoyed every single meal you've ever ordered from a restaurant? Like every single meal every time?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:51 AM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 03:35 AM
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It’s dating dude, not a fuckin flea market. You mad you can’t use your coupons or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 07:00 AM
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From what I'm understanding of your comment, when a woman asks a man to open up more, she's expecting him to tailor his sharing to things that don't make her too uncomfortable. Then I would suggest the possibility that you are misunderstanding my comment. He has to calculate how long he's been in a relationship with her and decide what's appropriate. The same way you do for literally every relationship you've ever had. You always have to temper the weight of your issue with the strength of your …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:24 AM
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We're presumably talking about a man opening up to his significant other. I don't know why you're presuming that. I wouldn't consider a husband talking about something 7 years into a marriage the same as a bf on their 4th date. You're acting like trauma dumping applies to both equally though when no one has implied or said that. You're essentially arguing against your own made up narrative. You're calling it trauma dumping. Nope. In fact, I didn't call any specific situation or event trauma dump…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 01:37 AM
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Trauma dumping as a concept is a distortion of the reality that everyone has emotions and trauma and that expressing emotions has to exist outside of paid therapy where others actually experience genuine sympathy. How does a term describing a very specific event deny the reality that everyone has trauma? You're taking situations that extremely context and nuance dependent and literally boiling them down to black/white. Like no shit expressing emotions has to exist outside of paid therapy, no one…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 08:14 AM
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I was asking rhetorically, I already knew the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 06:16 AM
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You have a son?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 05:39 AM
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You're trying WAY too hard to twist everything they're saying. Why would it all start at childhood? Because that's literally where EVERYTHING formative comes from. Just about every single thing that makes you who you are, from the food you like to the way you feel in specific environments can be hardwired into you during childhood. If someone's partner is mature enough to understand emotion being expressed to them without feeling victimized by it, they can handle someone expressing childhood and…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 05:36 AM
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Some of you in here got turned down for a date in junior high and made it your entire personality
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 05:22 AM
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They didn’t diagnose you at all lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 10:21 AM
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What is the relevance of that picture? lol It has nothing to do with the video
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 08:53 AM
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Do you think your long term relationship ended because you were too nice? Or were you an asshole to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 08:51 AM
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Why did you post this as a debate if you’re not even going to comment or reply to anyone in this thread? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 07:08 AM
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What does being rejected have to do with living a perfect life or being saintly? lol Do you equate sexual interest with morality?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:51 PM
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This shit made absolutely no sense dude
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:19 AM
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Do you think it's possible you will become happy/content focusing on those aspects of yourself you can improve?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:58 PM
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If you don't care about your health why does that matter? Self improvement isn't just changing numbers on a stat bar. It's changing things internally/mentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:36 PM
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So if you work out and DON'T receive non-stop sex, and then stop working out, what part of yourself did you actually improve?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:33 PM
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Very good story and I’m quite sorry for you, but not all abusive men are these two million IQ manipulators that women try to say they are. You're vastly overstating how easy it is to be manipulative to people. Lying is one of the most basic things people of any IQ/income/background can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:26 PM
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What if I already achieved the education and employment and hobby interest milestones I want and expect to reach by this point? Then you should be content/happy. Are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:24 PM
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But then it's not really SELF improvement is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:23 PM
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Hey now, some people pay extra for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 11:39 PM
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Who self censors the word coping? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 10:09 PM
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I don’t think you understand the words you’re using
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 08:16 AM
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That’s not good obviously? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 07:55 AM
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You already know the answer to that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 12:10 AM
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You’re displaying signs of codependency dude
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 12:03 AM
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Where are you seeing women holding these views? Your entire post seems to hinge on these ideas being popular with progressives but your link is to a conservative. These women (and men) will claim to be progressive. Have all of these progressive takes, stances, bios etc. But will still hold these views. Which is who I’m talking about. Who are these people you're talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 09:15 PM
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Your comment is a perfect example of why they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 12:28 PM
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Just because there are does not mean it's the norm.... Guys over 6 feet are the minority, how would it NOT be the norm for women to date someone under that height? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:20 AM
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Of course you would pick that song, it's the most popular. Opinion discarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 01:26 AM
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I think it's the second one, but in the gatekeep-y way similar to how some guys don't believe women think about sex/porn. Nothing can be a casual interest for women, like you're either the hardest hardcore gamer or it doesn't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 01:22 AM
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This makes me think of that meme on social media "girls with autism" vs "boys with autism" https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/002/228/216/c53.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 10:40 PM
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It can come from a multitude of places. It's not splitting hairs, it's just not misandry. I think you're trying hard to go out of your way just to avoid a label you dislike. Edit: or you can be a baby and block lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:34 PM
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LOL, I'm 57. Case in point. You seem absolutely miserable to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:57 PM
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According to the men on this sub, autistic women's issues are seen as cute and attractive. Therefore they would be less likely to spend time here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:52 PM
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It's really not. If we use an analogy to racism, this bias would be closer to bigotry or prejudice than hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:40 PM
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It is curious that all of this "unshackling" and "upward economic mobility" has led to women being less happy over subsequent decades Spoken like someone who's never had to work with women over 50 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:26 PM
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You know a lot of chads that work in donut shops? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 04:53 AM
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If you hang out in r/MensRights or similar websites, they talk about that kind of stuff. They really don't. You can click on it right now and see the top 8 post titles are complaints about women or feminists lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:32 AM
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Yes, and that's created by women. Are you a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:29 AM
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Having a bias towards actions taken by a gender isn't misandry. There's no hatred toward men specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:29 AM
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Bro. I promise you. Women are going to think you’re weird af if you do this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 10:26 PM
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No dude, 🥵 is lust. 🤑is greed. 🤮is gluttony. 😡is wrath. 👀is envy. 💅is pride and 😴is sloth.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 10:14 PM
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But isn’t 😍 an indication of lust? Lmaooooooooooooo new flair
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 10:05 PM
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As men we walk a lonely road I believe that's accurate for you, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 01:20 PM
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No need to be short with me about it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:58 AM
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The fact that you consider yourself a “victim” because of that situation is really lending more weight to the idea that you’re whiny. Do you want to set up a gofundme? Do we need to set up a rally and march for support because you had an argument with a shitty gf?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:23 AM
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I mean, you do seem to whine a lot. Is it possible she was right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:49 AM
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Oh no…stop…don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:46 AM
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That’s not a gendered thing. He seems to be very specific in his wording that this is something unique to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:17 AM
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I think it speaks for itself that I can just say "Never Again." and every single guy knows exactally the feeling in the pit of their stomach as their heart sank from just those two words. I'm a guy and I have no fucking idea what you're talking about. What does "never again" being used against you mean in this context?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 01:18 AM
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Is this a satire account?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:15 PM
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Doubt it all you want. You’ll never truly know.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 11:17 AM
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Possibly happier with a better wife? There’s literally no way to know how things would have gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 11:00 AM
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I’m not even allowed to complain about that kind of shit Aren’t you complaining about it now?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 12:42 PM
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Is there really something wrong with a man when he realizes he’s been burned one too many times and decides it’s not worth it and just gives up Yes, he’s a quitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 06:19 AM
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But I see “confidence” and “game” as your looks. It’s called the halo effect. Not at all. Danny devito isn't on anyone's list because of his looks, he's an incredibly charming dude. I know the profile with the Nazi tattoo got over 300 matches with girls begging him to come over and giving him their phone number and addresses. I still don't see what this is supposed to prove. But even in those instances, unless he called or went to those locations it just sounds like more larping online to push a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:09 PM
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The fact women just throw themselves at attractive men. To debunk the whole idea of “game” and “confidence”. I don't think anyone disagrees with the idea that all genders will throw throw themselves at people they find attractive. I'm also not sure how that debunks anything because game and confidence was never about a sure fire 100% blueprint for success. It's about maximizing your chances. There was even that guy who made fake accounts of hot men with nazi tattoos and history of consuming chee…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:43 PM
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I wish guys like you would download tinder again and post screenshots of girls offering sex and what not on this sub. I think it would open a lot of eyes in the blue pill crowd. What about this do you think the blue pill crowd would open their eyes to?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:30 PM
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When did Carolina become a country?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:50 AM
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im unfortunately a more masculine man LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 10:05 AM
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Skill issue tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 10:02 AM
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Why should a man invest time, intimacy and effort in women just to possibly find out she isn’t capable? That's a choice for him to make, isn't it? If he doesn't think she is. I don't have a problem with that. It's funny, another redpiller said that women treat men the way men treat jobs, and it all falls in line perfectly with how women see men as basically disposable tools to be used and discarded if they no longer fulfill their function to make her life better. k. That didn't answer my questio…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:02 PM
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Entry level jobs exist Using this analogy, entry level jobs are often available in high school and college. Failing that, you bring up a good point that these people should find someone at their own experience level. Sex is a job now? For some people literally yes. But my comparison was about both being markers of certain experience and maturity. Someone could be good at sex but a bad person to be in a relationship with, and vice versa Sure. What does this have to do with anything I said? All of…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:25 PM
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In a single question you went from “probably on the autism spectrum” to “very autistic” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 08:20 AM
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I have spent ridiculous amounts of time and energy in places like this trying to defend incels Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 08:17 AM
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See what I mean? Not really, no. I asked you to elaborate on one answer and I gave a real world example of people wanting experience so they don’t waste time. Your response still doesn’t show why it’s bad for someone to prefer their partner to have experience. You don’t even have to make it about sex. Do you think it’s wrong for someone who hikes/camps on long trails to want a partner that has experience with that? What about wanting someone who plays video games because it’s something you enjoy…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:04 AM
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Because you have no idea whether they’d actually be good or not Why should someone invest time, intimacy and effort just to possibly find out the other person isn’t capable? if this person had any value someone else would have given him a chance Would you hire someone for an important job if they have no experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:29 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 01:13 AM
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most of the women commenting admitted to wanting to dump such a man upon finding out about his lack of experience. Do you think that's wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:12 PM
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You're trying way too hard dude
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:52 PM
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my brain is naturally inclined toward research and analysis Good flair here if anyone wants it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 06:05 AM
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Who said anything about legislation? Well then I'm not exactly sure what your point is? People have an opinion and they're sharing it, at the end of the day young women are still allowed to pursue age gap relationships, and older men/women are allowed to caution against it. And no, I don’t tell anyone to “shut up”. But yeah, it’s still a ridiculous thing to try and save a grown adult (especially one in their 20s) from their own decisions. lol Yeah I guess we should just not tell anyone over the …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:14 AM
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But can he do a kickflip? I didn't think so. I rest my case.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:00 AM
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No one is suggesting legislation dude. They're giving advice based on their experience. Do you also tell veterans who warn people against joining the army to shut up because 18 year olds are allowed to sign their life away? They have agency too right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:53 AM
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I'm fine fighting for both, but I've never met a ruling class person who suffered the same identity issues of our class, so I simply prioritize the class issue before all else. We're on the same page more or less with this then. It's real friggin hard to be a bigot when the black transwoman you hate so much has the economic power to match or destroy you. I originally read this as combative but on second thought I think you're saying that removing the wealth disparity will increase the political/…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:20 PM
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It's just annoying that no one recognizes the division of wealth classes in the US, the most wealth dispersed industrialized country to ever exist. I think a very large segment recognize that, more every year it seems. Bernie even coming as close as he did means that there is a sizable portion of voters that care about this as an issue. People want to argue about gender politics and identity issues, dividing our working class against each other over pennies, while the elite and corrupt perpetuat…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:35 PM
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Fucked for life. Better luck next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:54 AM
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Why is the other person important?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:52 AM
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It’s true for the younger generation that most women are ceos, politicians and have most of the wealth?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:10 AM
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Your comment reminded me of this https://www.tiktok.com/@hawthorne_witches_teas/video/7268640081664134446?lang=en
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 07:24 PM
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There’s no minimum amount to raise a kid. If your income matters for supporting your child during the marriage it should matter after as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 07:21 AM
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Your post really was incredibly hard to read though. I lost track of how many things I was supposed imagine at the same time and kept needing to check I wasn’t re reading the same paragraph because you re used so many phrases over and over. The person you replied to wasn’t being rude, they were just trying to help you reach your full potential
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 08:31 PM
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I literally did. Prove you understand what literally means They do this by labeling it as “forced to penetrate” and purposefully hiding the amount of women who raped men by refusing to disclose the exact number of women. Instead hiding the data by referring to them as “people.” If they're hiding the numbers, it's possible that there are more men doing it than you think right? Which is going to be majorly done by women This is an assumption. I did not read past that sentence, because literal all …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 11:39 PM
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you are relying on the deceptive definitions the CDC use Prove they are deceptive. The data of “a person” (I.e. women) forcing a man to penetrate them Both men and women can be forced to penetrate. Those are almost exclusively being women because a male rapist is going to want to orgasm and thus will penetrate them. So first off, this is your opinion, not a fact. Secondly, you're leaving out a whole sexual preference of gay men, who can in fact rape other men by forcing them to penetrate. They c…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 09:12 PM
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Does your wife care about size? Is that why you have an open marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:47 PM
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You know you can just admit you misunderstood the study right? You don’t have to type all that out to try and defend a mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:44 PM
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Still broke
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:40 AM
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Still mad
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:23 AM
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You couldn’t even reply with your own words lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:40 AM
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I’m glad you’ve decided to stop thinking for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:59 AM
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You would need the cgi team that worked on infinity war to make those guys attractive in photos.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 12:03 AM
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Being stared at by a weirdo So you at least admit the dude is a weirdo for staring? Because that’s the entire issue in these comments are people saying this it totally normal and not a big deal. You’re defending his behavior by comparing it to mentally ill homeless people lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 12:00 AM
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That’s not true at all. It’s widely understood socially that staring down someone is a sign of disrespect or a challenge to fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:57 PM
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Are you a Muslim? If not, begone kaffir I can forgive racism, but I draw the line at your insinuation that I'm muslim kaffir In case no one else knew what this means, it's an ethnic slur for black africans
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 02:52 AM
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The husband has the final say and the authority....as long as you’re married it’s your duty to be obedient we know the sharia works because Muslims were never more Prosperous than during the time of the Prophet PBUH and the Rashidun caliphate, all of whom implemented the sharia and more importantly, it is the law ordained by God himself Advocating for a religion that forces women into servitude while simultaneously complaining about them wanting rights is hilariously sad. How does it feel knowin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 11:28 PM
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You’re trying too hard man
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:33 AM
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No you don't lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:30 PM
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The dudes on this sub are not UMC tech bros. It's mainly self hating foreigners and NEETs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:25 PM
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I actually do think that would be better. I also feel like you're downplaying the situation by saying "won't hurt her feelings" as if you're saying you didn't like the dinner she cooked. You're telling someone you're supposed to spend the rest of your life with that you don't trust them. That's a little more than "hurt feelings" right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:00 PM
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I understand exactly what you're saying. So wait, now you do understand why people would be against taking a paternity test? And it's a valid opinion now? That's quite a change based on what you've been saying so far. You said would I let the cops search my home? Why else would they search my home aside for looking for evidence of a crime? Why would someone ask for a paternity test unless they were looking for evidence of infidelity? Are police in the habit of searching places just for shits and…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:01 PM
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Confirming facts makes uncomfortable people uncomfortable. You're not engaging with what I'm saying and I'm not sure if that might be because you're having trouble understanding? This might be a language barrier issue. If they were operating under the color of law, no. Civil rights still exist. We're not talking about the law. This isn't about the legality of the situation, it's about the feeling of an implied accusation. Why are you struggling so hard with this very simple concept? And it's a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:33 PM
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You said you didn't understand why people would be against being asked to take a paternity test. For those people, it's because carries an air of distrust and implied accusation. I gave an example of people being asked to let cops search their home, which carries an air of distrust and implied accusation. Not sure what a stranger So if you knew the people you would consent to their searches? me testing myself and my alleged child This is going to be hard to hear. Brace yourself. This isn't about…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:07 PM
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Do you also think cops should be able to search your car and house whenever they feel like it? After all if you have nothing to hide you have nothing to worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:40 PM
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I don’t understand how people can be against this It’s probably because those people have been in healthy relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:29 AM
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30% of men who do get a paternity test turn out to not be the father This is not a compelling point lol. You’re saying even among people who believe they were lied to about being the father 70% of them are wrong. If you included all pregnancies it could be closer to 90-95% Literally a non issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:22 AM
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You're trying to do what is called a suppresion technique by ridiculing me because you disagree with my point. Please tell me you don't talk to people like this in real life lol. so it's basically pointless to argue for the men who didn't. Nope. She ended it by saying in her experience, many men didn't have to resort to the behavior she was talking about. You're literally throwing a tantrum over something that didn't happen. That is quite literally an acendotal fallacy "The anecdotal fallacy occ…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:19 AM
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Almost all of the men I knew In her very first sentence she makes it clear that she's restricting her example to her own experience. You then complain that she's extrapolating her experience to most men but she never once did that. You're still being weird. You should stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:48 AM
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They never said their experience equaled most men lol They specifically said it was only men they knew. You’re doing what’s called inventing something to be mad at. It’s weird. Don’t do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:05 AM
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How is it hypocritical? Do you trust every person you meet at exactly the same level?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:52 AM
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Why would any decent women fall for such lie? If a woman wants more than sex, she should make the guy wait and get some guarantee or at least some investment from him. Most other times I've seen this situation mentioned by women in this sub, the response has been that if a woman only makes you wait for sex if she's not into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:39 PM
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Sorry, I knew the voting part was correct. It was both voting for trump being being taken as meaning those women wanted the things OP listed AND the idea that half of liberal women want a traditional man that I wanted to see the source for.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:31 PM
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Nope, it's been proven to be true. I'm curious to see the proof on this. Also, almost half of women voted for Trump, and almost half of liberal women prefer a traditional man. Acting like these women are some niche group of people is absurd. The niche group is the women who don't want these things. Also curious to see where this is coming from.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:53 AM
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Not even remotely true. If you believe that, you're probably only surrounding yourself with more religious or traditional women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:52 AM
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Harley was not worse anywhere near enough times to be considered “often” Joker stealing Mxyzptlk’s powers and destroying china multiple times alone puts him on a tier above anyone Batman has faced.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 08:09 AM
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Watch it with your lack of civility This has some real “can I speak to your manager” energy to it God still punished them both Why do you think god is punishing you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 10:57 PM
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Dog breeds are completely different from humans, so it's not the same point at all. It's also the fact that you're completely ignoring the environment and situation necessary to facilitate that kind of crime. So a closer example would be, should you treat a dog differently that grew up in a home that practiced dog fighting, and the answer would obviously be yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 07:29 PM
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What the hell is a hobby app? It's also much easier to transition from work/online dating to a date if you center it around a hobby you both have. That's just how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:34 PM
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I don't think you understood what I said at all lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 09:28 AM
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Literally after you asked other users OTHER users. Not you. Just because someone or something can be more dangerous doesn't mean it is. No shit lol. It means that it CAN be more dangerous. You don't keep a housecat and a lion in the same kind of enclosures do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 09:09 AM
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You tried :/
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 09:07 AM
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Being a slut is cool until another slut is hitting on your boyfriend. Women dont have a problem with being sluts but they have a problem with other women being sluts. LMAO what? I'm pretty sure women/men would have a problem if a virgin was hitting on their partner too. It has nothing to do with them being a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 12:57 AM
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Yes but we were specifically talking at first about the film industry in the context of how stalkers are handled by the industry, that's what I meant. And I was giving additional elements of stalking/sexual abuse behavior from the industry. It's really not as unrelated as you're trying to make it seem. I responded to is a lot more fair in their reasoning I can almost guarantee this is because of your own bias. No, but I'm just going off the general media zeitgeist Feels over reals. this argument…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 09:23 PM
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And racism no longer exists, because a white person said so. For this analogy to work, wouldn't I need to be a woman? I also notice you didn't answer my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:24 PM
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There are a few studies I read a long while ago, but being stocked by a woman is largely completely different than being stocked by a man. Really groundbreaking stuff here. You've turned my whole world upside down with this statement, really. This was looked at because, though the number of female stalkers is lower, the charge rate is often way lower (in terms of percentage) then male stocker. Fascinating. Quick question, do you actually have anything relevant to add?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 11:01 AM
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You're not being laughed at now, so why do you assume you would have then. (i already know the answer to this) but did you go to HR when these situations happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 10:59 AM
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Pitbulls would still be more dangerous as they're capable of more damage when they do bite. That doesn't mean they're not lovely animals that deserve care and affection. Just like men being more violent doesn't mean they're not less deserving of love/care and affection as well. Your personal experience isn't really relevant here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 10:58 AM
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Why are you bringing up the casting couch when the whole issue that was originally mentioned was male and female stalkers? Because it ties into the film industry that the person you responded to mentioned? It's to counter your assertion that you could prove someone's personal experience wrong. All I meant was that the original commenter made a biased statement based on her personal opinions on male stalkers and this other commented that I replied to offered a very well thought out though subject…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 09:31 AM
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None of this would be okay if a man did it. Correct. It wasn't okay when the women did it either, what's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 09:22 AM
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This entire post comes off as you being upset for being called creepy before.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 09:19 AM
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Anyone who tones down a female stalker has never had the actual experience of having a woman follow you around regularly coming to your workplace to harass you, especially in talent jobs where you need to be incredibly focused and "in the zone" to get a scene right or else you're holding up 100+ other peoples jobs and threatening those jobs if you do yours badly. What does this even mean? I genuinely have no idea what you're trying to say. Nothing about this is unique to women at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 09:17 AM
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She won’t reply to you proving her wrong unfortunately. How exactly would you prove someone's personal anecdote wrong? lol. There's nothing to even object to. That's how they see it. As a counter example, as someone who's been in close proximity to the film industry for multiple decades, men are much more of an issue on sets not just to stalking celebrities but also violence and stealing equipment. And that's not to mention the "casting couch" situations that went on for years. Weinstein being t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 09:15 AM
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Sure? Why wouldn't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 09:08 AM
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But in my experience, kindness and goodness ARE, in fact, relevant for sexual arousal for women, though. It's just in the counterintuitive direction i.e. kindness and goodness are unsexy. Can you give some examples of things you believe to be "kindness and goodness" that women find unsexy?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 10:12 PM
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You completely misunderstood what they were saying
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 10:10 PM
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You're entitled to your feelings, but that doesn't change the reality of the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:04 PM
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Do you think you're kind and nice?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:02 PM
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So what is it about? Something better? Better is subjective, but it's about people who pretend to be something they're not. Who talk themselves up to everyone because they're insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:39 PM
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I would take my dating advice from a 21 year old pop singer Based on your posting history I feel like you should be willing to take whatever advice you can get at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 08:00 AM
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That song was not about fucking a boyfriend’s dad lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:56 AM
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Wow you did such a good job trying to change his view. Glad you're the top comment! Keep up the good work mods!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 07:57 AM
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when you try to discuss how to meet women who share your preference everybody starts talking about misogynists and double standards. You're the one who brought up misogyny my dude lol. That's literally what I was replying to in my comment. Full honesty I'm too lazy to find you the receipts. What a shocking turn of events. To be clear everything I've seen and experienced as it pertains to this issue has involved a greater degree of shaming, condemnation, and double standards from some of the wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 11:18 PM
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First of all right of the bat you saw me shame nobody. Never said you did. Stop taking everything as an attack. Secondly every study I've ever seen on promiscuity double standards suggest equivalence across gender. Can you link to one or try to better illustrate the point you're trying to make? Thirdly women actually select more harshly against promiscuity on average than men do. Okay. What does that have to do what I said? If those same women are not promiscuous, and don't speak out against pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 10:59 PM
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Apparently not because the modern zeitgeist says men who don't want promiscuous women are horrible misogynists That isn't true. It's seen as conservative and old fashioned, but the main reason it gets the misogyny label is that those guys typically ONLY shame promiscuous women and not men. Which would be.....misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 10:47 PM
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What am I an example of?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:14 PM
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You don't have any problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:12 PM
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Their argument is that incel is a term they use to refer to themselves so it’s not an insult which refutes OP. You need to practice more critical thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 10:05 AM
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But they do disagree with op? What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:26 AM
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I don't think anyone is making the claim that normal means good. The original comment was about fitting in with any friend group or workplace by being into sports. The reply I responded to was framing it as something weird that people would dislike which simply isn't true.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 07:54 PM
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How is it strawman Because that's what it is? It's not even hyperbole, his argument is a textbook example of a strawman. Me: are you in highschool? Him: So you think all women are children?!?! when most of the leftists swear by their manifestos and kampfs that women are not adults till they reach the age of 25yrs+? Ignoring how terminally online this makes you come off, what specific point are you trying to make?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 07:16 AM
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This sounds like some weird RP denial. It sounds more like you don't have a decent argument to make so you're resorting to really bad strawman attacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:36 AM
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I noticed that you didn't say no. Interesting. This is more of a tell on them than me. How so? You're the one jealous of "bad boys" because they get girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 01:23 AM
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Stoicism is learned behavior from women other men and society at large The very obvious trope of the coach/dad telling a kid to walk it off after getting hurt is an easy example. Women prefer bad boys over nice guys Are you in highschool? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 01:09 AM
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but normal doesn't automatically mean good. No shit, but then you're just getting into personal preference and at that point who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 11:33 PM
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So it's normal in the way that being overweight in america is normal, smoking in the 50s was normal, and overprescribing opioids is normal. Well no lol, because those are all examples of dangerous and unhealthy situations/trends. Liking sports is just a preference so to claim it's not "normal" means you massively over value your own opinion. It's normal in the way same way that celebrating christmas in america is normal, meaning it's extremely common.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 11:18 PM
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Yes, extremely normal to spend your leisure time screaming at your TV, have a lucky piece of clothing you never wash, and spend every waking moment worrying about your fantasy football points. I feel like you're being sarcastic but that literally is incredibly normal lol. If you've ever worked at a major company or with the public you will run into TONS of sports dudes. I mean ffs have you seen how popular soccer is in other parts of the world? See this entire sub dedicated to shitting on being …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 10:36 PM
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You've never gotten a real date from the app?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 10:30 PM
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Why should I be subjected to filtering chubbies out when women have the option to filter out short dudes? Because your preferences are less important. You can complain about the vegan options on the menu at the steakhouse too but it's not going to suddenly make it a priority.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 10:27 PM
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Exactly, if he’s smart he’ll hire prostitutes. Just like you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 06:40 AM
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Is requiring a woman give you sexual favors for money prostitution? Because that’s literally what you said smart men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:40 AM
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You heard it here first everyone. You’re woke if you don’t hire prositutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:29 AM
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Yes. In fact they rather focus on pity crimes from weak people because they are easy targets, even if their actions are not as consequential. Do you have any actual evidence for this? For example, England recently was putting cameras everywhere just to get more income from fines What does this have to do with autistic men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 09:44 PM
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I'm not defending them You're quite literally defending them. The danger is not autistic men that never leave their rooms No one says men who never leave their rooms are physically dangerous. The police would reduce crime the most if they focused on gangs and actual criminals What are you even talking about? You think police are more focused on autistic men than gangmembers and criminals?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 08:40 PM
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Their hate does not have to affect you at all, as long as you don't value their feelings. Couldn't the same be said for the online men you're defending? The ones you say all women bully.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 06:41 PM
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That’s true, but the statistics don’t lie. Women are very unlikely to be attacked by a stranger. It's not a lie, but it's pretty misleading to simply state that fact without explaining the (obvious) reason for why that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 06:40 PM
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Buying into pharma AFTER the peak. You’re a smart cookie.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 05:30 AM
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I agree that it’s unrealistic for a woman to like you for who you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 05:14 AM
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It's only bad form if you ONLY judge women for their body count. If you think everyone should be chaste, that's fine. You're probably a religious kook, but whatever. It's the weird online trad circles that promote a lifestyle that will allow you to sleep around as men while shaming women for doing the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:22 AM
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That's not hypocrisy lol. It's no different than liking a band or sports team but disliking their fans. I can like a city but hate the people that live there. You would only be a hypocrite in that situation if you shamed sex work customers while visiting sex workers yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:18 AM
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They probably prefer guys who weren’t dumb enough to actually think they were “taking out bad guys” You literally signed up to make Cheneys friends at Haliburton rich. What a hero lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 08:10 AM
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That’s part of the issue though. If there’s no reason to think you cheated then proof isn’t going to make them feel them feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:00 PM
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I took that as a bit of hyperbole but you're right, in the end lying about intentions is worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:42 PM
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It's not pretending if it's true. Guys here WOULD do much better dating wise if they stopped worrying about trying to min-max the physical value of their dating prospects.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:22 PM
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No it's not lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 12:18 AM
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I was trying to make them feel better. I don't know how valuable you find that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 08:07 PM
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Your reply is irrelevant to the fragment you've quoted. How? I'm responding directly to your assertion that there's no way to see confidence in an introvert. Any situation that you can see confidence in an extrovert is one you could see it in an introvert. What critical situation would not be available to an introvert to show their confidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 06:59 PM
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There's almost no way to see confidence in an introvert as there usually has to be some sort of critical situation to show it. Being introverted doesn't mean you're socially awkward or insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:55 PM
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Both gay men AND women love talking about how men supposedly only supermodels and aren't aware of how unattractive they are. If it makes you feel any better, I believe you know exactly how unattractive you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:53 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 06:09 AM
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I wasn't talking to you. lol and now I'm talking to YOU. The internet is wild huh? What issue do you want them to confirm or deny?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 05:47 AM
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In your own words, what is the "obvious issue" with their examples and OP's topic?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 05:27 AM
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"If I lived my life based on how life should be, I'd be a very sad individual." - Notarussianbot1984
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:54 PM
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This sub desperately needs an IQ threshold
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:44 PM
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I said approaching 30s. Ohhh that changes everything. It's way less pathetic now because of a few years difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:30 PM
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Your post history is bragging about finally getting dates in your 30s lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 08:09 AM
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When did I say they were freaks?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:19 PM
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What does that have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:35 PM
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If you're a chronically single older man with no friends you have much bigger problems than trying to get laid regularly dude. It's unrealistic for everyone to be a social butterfly Being unrealistic for you doesn't mean it's not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:17 PM
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I'm questioning why you think limiting your future interactions with someone is any kind of a threat or reason to care about what you say. Seems like I struck a nerve tho huh? How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:58 PM
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I can promise you they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:46 AM
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Why do men think the worst thing they can say is they’re not going to talk to you anymore? Like okay? bye lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:46 AM
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It was about as relevant as a snarky comment saying g “u already ignore them" Well no, because you were pretending that you pay attention to them to try and make a point. You're trying to act like you can't ignore issues that you're currently already ignoring. So it's extremely relevant I'd say, snarky or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:25 PM
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Did you respond to the right comment? What do those two things have to do with you ignoring rape culture and the wage gap? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:20 PM
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Hey, does this count for things like “rape culture” and “the wage gap” too? Because, you know, I should be able to fully ignore those things Are you pretending you don't already ignore them?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:10 PM
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Feminists need to be criticized because they're against shelters for men, fair divorce laws, and hotlines for abused men. I've personally never come across any feminist against that. How common of a view do you think that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:05 PM
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So it’s not that you want to cum fast. You want people to be happy that you did? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:45 PM
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Yeah okay buddy I'll get right on that You really just bailed on your whole argument because you can't link the tinder study? lol Uh, what makes it so? The fact that the average man will have multiple sexual and monogamous relationships in their lifetime. You being way below average doesn't change the reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:22 PM
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Yes, they do. This is a proven fact. Please feel free to link to anything that isn't based on online dating or physical attractiveness. A man finding a parter who is truly attracted to him instead of being a settling option is very rare. Again, this is pure cope. I get that it's all you have, but it's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:13 PM
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Women don't find the majority of men attractive Guys don't find the majority of women attractive either. That doesn't change the fact that people still find partners that find them attractive. most men will go their entire lives never knowing what having someone truly attracted to them feels like. This is something you tell yourself to feel better, but it's not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:06 PM
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Except most men don't experience this and will never experience it? It's genuinely sad you feel this way. This is not a rare experience dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:51 PM
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Your idea of a premium relationship is one where you cum fast and behave horny? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:50 PM
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I think they meant leonardo dicaprio and not the zodiac sign lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:18 PM
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Feminism presumes that masculinity has portions of it that are inherently toxic. The ideas and understanding of toxic masculinity came from the mens rights movement, not feminism. It defines toxic as any manifestation of masculinity that makes women uncomfortable. I strongly disagree as most of most well known traits have nothing to do with women and entirely to do with mens interactions with each other. This is an untenable definition because masculinity is adaptive, and healthy masculinity mus…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:15 PM
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High school doesn't count lol. It's like the pre season of your dating life. Everyone is trying out new schemes and players, trying to see what works.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:31 AM
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You should probably have a better grasp of the english language before you try insulting people with it. I genuinely have no idea what you're trying to say. Good try though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:34 PM
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the behavior is flight or fight mode. No, it really isn't lol. It's the exact same as telling a friend who takes criticism badly that you liked the food they made even if it was terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:50 PM
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Wat. Did you not read what I wrote? I did, that's why I responded to it directly lol. You like cars? You should stop liking cars. ? lol Just don't leave your house. Matter of fact, cut the middleman and make yourself a nice underground bunker to live in. This is exactly what I was refuting, locking your door is a win/win. It's simple and doesn't impact your life at all. Same as using a white lie to avoid dealing with the hassle of someone you're not interested in. The alternative just doesn't ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:45 PM
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You’re not understanding. In this instance lying is like locking the door. It’s super easy and extremely harm preventative. Women don’t think every guy is going to chainsaw murder them to death, they’re just “locking the door” conversationally. It’s low effort, low risk. If you can come up with a safer, easier way to reject men that doesn’t involve debating them. Let women know and I’m sure they’d be up for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:27 AM
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Is English your first language?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:41 PM
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You could, but it wouldn't make sense to accept that proposition. Why wouldn't I question the underlying illogic of a non-existent deity that serves as the entire cornerstone to your untenable beliefs about the world, as well as the entire grifting institution that you have constructed atop this imaginary foundation? Surely the grift of organized religion itself provides ample material to criticize, but as a matter of principal God himself must also remain on the table as a subject of critique. …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:22 PM
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you spelled it all wrong. Which word did I spell wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:19 PM
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Yes, it really is. Homie, they overturned Roe v. Wade and are banning abortions in states left and right... You COMPLETELY misunderstood what I said homie. Re read it. You do realize that people change their views on philosophical matters, right? No shit? That's why I said it's a personal reason and choice that everyone needs to come to. It's not a matter of examining the evidence and coming to a reasonable rational decision. This is usually through being presented with evidence Please provide m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 09:36 PM
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100% I've told multiple people on here that dating isn't an excel sheet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 09:33 PM
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the right is just of the opinion that women aren't entitled to rights. it's a valid political position. No, it's really not lol. Trying to pretend like it is, is just masturbatory faux intelligence. But that's also not really the point. What I'm trying to get across is an explanation for why women don't want to try and justify their position, and it's because they shouldn't have to. There's no useful debate between "we want to kill you!" and "let us live peacefully!" you have to argue in good fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 09:20 PM
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I don't like dicks. Have you ever tried one to determine you don't like it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 08:36 PM
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If you can't be attractive you can always be angry
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 08:27 PM
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That's often because women's politics are not based on opinion, but more on their desire for rights/needs. Like I don't see how you can convince someone who's pro choice that it's wrong, that's a purely philosophical and moral stance that depends on your upbringing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 08:24 PM
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Online dating isn't for me because I spend money on dates, do online checks for the women I want to go on dates with, and my only alternative is arranged marriages? I mean, it doesn't sound like it's working for you does it? IF you even find someone in the next few years you'll be in your early 40's by the time you get to marriage and kids, assuming you find the one and don't have to start over.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:28 AM
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What you're describing isn't being nice, it's having issues with social skills and most likely being anxious. 99% of the content from guys in this sub falls into not having social skills lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 08:37 PM
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no man has ever done this lol You don't actually think this do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 08:34 PM
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Are you implying NO men bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 08:33 PM
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Yeah, like, no way, right? That is what most guys are doing. Do women really think men who have lots of casual sex with plenty of women just want a platonic relationship and it just so happens they end up having sex with them every time? This isn't the issue women have with their guy friends wanting sex. Their problem is when guys are afraid to be honest about what they want. If all you want is casual sex, that's fine just be up front about it. If you want to take her on a date, say so. Don't pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 08:32 PM
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I'm an Atheist and if a Christian came up to me and asked me to specifically critique theology and Christian apologetics without dismissing the entire concept of God Dismissing the entire concept of god is different from attacking christianity. Which you COULD do. You can criticize religion as an institution without attacking christians specifically. the concept of toxic masculinity itself is constructed on false premises. Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:07 PM
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How would you like people to disagree with the premise underlying "toxic masculinity" without you feeling like you are attacking them? If I critique a genre of movies made by men and I am making comments specific to those movies and tropes they contain, am I attacking men? For a specific answer, I would say disagree with the specific critiques that are made, and not dismiss the entire concept entirely as if it's being unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:39 AM
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ok
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 09:02 PM
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Because you're a lost cause at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 10:46 PM
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A man asking "how do i get a girl to like me?" is a sociopath. This was on this sub. Upvoted to absolute oblivion. Why did you change their question? lol. How to get women IS a different statement than "how to get a girl"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 10:44 PM
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Do you have any proof of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 06:49 PM
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i've never shot my shot with 10/10 model looking women Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 06:49 PM
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That's why they say "be careful what you wish for", because people focus on the positive parts of the fantasy. That doesn't change the definition of the word though. To fantasize is to "indulge in daydreaming about something desired" according to Google. The DESIRED aspect is a big part of the fantasy. People don't often wish for those things though. You're using fantasy novels for women, so let's use an equivalent for men, porn. I don't imagine a lot of guys are actually wishing for a woman who…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 06:47 PM
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Fantasy is what people wish for. That's not necessarily true. Fantasy often involves things people don't actually want to experience. Like a zombie apocalypse or being soldier So just saying "emotionally vulnerability is sexy" doesn't tell the full story. It's more like"Emotional vulnerability is sexy... when it's earned, reserved for me only, and comes in a package that is decidedly not emotional" I don't think those two statements are incompatible, and I don't see why you've written it so nega…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 04:06 PM
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Fantasy is different from reality. But even still, the stoic man sharing himself emotionally to a woman who’s able to pierce his icy demeanor is a very common story element in fantasy novels.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 08:48 AM
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We don't call anti-Semitism "toxic Judaism" Right, that's because we call it anti-semitism lol. or telling women to get back into the kitchen "toxic femininity". You seem to be misunderstanding that toxic masculinity is a description of the way men interact with each other. It has nothing to do with how they treat other groups. Which sentence in that comment was incoherent and why? Be specific! "The standard definition of toxic masculinity is the enforcement of gender roles on men." It's not an …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:51 PM
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Like I said, it's a bullshit definition. Why Not understanding it isn't a failure on your part. The failure was in your ability to put together a coherent sentence. It has nothing to do with my understanding it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 10:00 PM
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I have no idea what you're trying to say here
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 11:43 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 04:48 PM
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It's less common overall as society has progressed, but even still I hard disagree. It's still very much a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 04:42 PM
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I drew a picture of you :*(
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 11:27 PM
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No offense but, who tf cares “what you’ve heard” personally? Well you should, considering that's the exact same evidence you used to describe what "bluepillers/woke leftists" said about it. Why are you assuming that you’re personal understanding of the term is the same as every other other person that uses the phrase? It's not my personal understanding. To repeat for the second time, I specifically used the words "common" and "standard" meaning those are the mainstream accepted definitions. The …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 11:10 PM
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You’re under-estimating how many crazies I specifically used the words "common" and "standard" I'm not talking about a small group of fringe or crazies. There are even people that think wanting to be a traditional provider in your family is “toxic masculinity” for example lol. I don't care. The fact remains you took the most commonly used definition, re worded it and then acted like it was a more simple and direct definition when it's the exact same thing I've always heard from those groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 10:31 PM
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He's too high Much more accurate way to describe him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 10:28 PM
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Why do you perceive toxic masculinity as an attack on you? I don't understand why people view it through the lens of men vs women. The whole concept is more of a way to describe the dynamics of how men act with each other. The idea that toxically masculine men can be successful with women does not debunk the term.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 10:24 PM
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Being a fighter or a tough guy for example isn’t toxic masculinity. But being so much of a fighter that you end up beating your children or gf.. That is toxic masculinity. No shit? This is the most common used standard definition for toxic masculinity. You basically took what "bluepillers/woke leftists" say and just reworded it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 10:20 PM
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You’re way overthinking it. Which likely why it’s a problem for you in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 07:03 AM
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also how do I make a woman beg? This sub is hilarious lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 06:31 AM
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No it is not, women prefer a guy that comes across that is aloof and indifferent. For men that is not what they want in a woman. We aren't talking about what people prefer. We're talking about how neither men or women likes it when a person is overly attached early in a relationship. Stay on topic. and do simps for them lol I am pretty secure of myself, the opinion of a anonymous redditor means absolute shit to me. Yeah that must be why you're on a 6 day old alt account and you keep deleting you…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 06:30 AM
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What you are describing is a guy wanting things to stay casual who doesn’t see LTR with that women after sleeping with her. "This is why every guy that successful with women knows coming off strong and being emotional attached early is an ick to women." It's the same thing dude. A woman acting like that is a turnoff. men love a woman that simps. No, terminally online dudes who don't have any success with women SAY they do, but the average guy doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:24 AM
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This is why every guy that successful with women knows coming off strong and being emotional attached early is an ick to women. This isn't exclusive to women at all. It's been an extremely common idea in popular culture about women being too attached too early to men. Remember the movie wedding crashers? There was a whole sub plot about isla fischer's character being a "stage 5 clinger" because she was really into vince vaughn after sleeping with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:57 AM
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I promise, women's n-count is not the reason why no one is willing to bond with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:54 AM
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Must be nice knowing you will never give yourself the ick huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 10:29 PM
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they would break up with their bf or be disgusted if they found out their partner or potential partner had limb lengthening surgery That’s because limb lengthening is an incredibly brutal process. It’s closer to feet binding or genital mutilation. It’s expensive, and torturous, you’re essentially breaking your legs and weakening them for life all for a couple inches of height. It’s insane. If the process ever gets to the same level of a nose job then you’ll see it be more acceptable. Then again …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:18 AM
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What fantasy am I talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 08:24 PM
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The man looks dead inside. That's because after having margot there's nothing left to live for.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 06:19 AM
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You're right, sleeping with margot robbie is not the same. It's better. Let me know when jokes about will/Margo drive jada to slap someone on one of the largest stages. You're absolutely floundering right now. That has NOTHING to do with what we're talking about lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 04:48 AM
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Stop it. Margot Robbie isn’t confirmed. It happened. Accept it. Even if it happened, it was speculation. Cope Jada sat this dude down on her show and humiliated him. Their sons friend? And writing a letter to Tupac’s dead ass? Come on. Still hit
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 03:17 AM
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Will smith is being cucked by his sons friend and a dide that’s been dead for 25 years. Will smith also banged margot robbie. His wife could bang half the navy and I'd still say he came out ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 03:01 AM
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From the opinion of those women doesn’t matter To You make a fair point You flipped that opinion FAST lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:43 AM
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Bro your comment history Lmao. How do you even function day to day being SO assmad about life?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:41 AM
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You thought marriage meant you can get regular sex with a woman who wants you? You thought wrong again as your wife can stop fcking you for any conceivable reason . And that's okay. But it's still a reason to not get married. This is the kind of thing you only see from the terminally online. There's no way you say this kind of shit out loud to normal people in real life lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:37 PM
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The good men who get dismissed for surface level reasons are Girls being grossed out by you spending all your time on hentai and manga is a surface level reason? big concepts like demographics Your comment didn't have anything to do with demographics lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 03:56 PM
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Puppy? boring & too nice Are you the puppy in this scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 07:45 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 09:28 PM
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Any normal woman who doesn't live under a rock will notice that at a certain age, she is receiving much, much more attention from men. For a lot of women, this happens as young as 12. Does this mean girls that age are in high demand as well? You mean like a teaching job? It's much harder to get a job at Harvard because there's much more people who want to work there. So you can understand then why it's harder to stand out when trying to date an older woman. Just like it's harder to get a younger…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 06:49 AM
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Why would I want 30 year olds to be impressed with me though when a younger and more attractive woman could be impressed instead? Because the younger woman isn't actually impressed with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 06:33 AM
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Young women aren't stupid. Inexperience isn't the same as stupidity. Their age group is in the highest demand among women and they know it. Normal people don't think like this. This insult is like someone saying "You're only going to Harvard because Boston College didn't accept you!" Do you think it's easier to get a job at harvard or community college? I want you to really give this one some thought before you answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 06:30 AM
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Ironically, as an older man who has had several relationships with women 15-20 years younger, I’ve never, not once gotten so much as a question or odd look from my social group when bringing a much younger girlfriend around. What country do you live in?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 05:37 AM
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what? why would it be an insult to not do well with 30+ year olds? Because the implication is that experienced people with life experience aren't impressed with you. To an 18 year old girl out of high school, a guy having his own apartment is super cool, to a 30 year old, it's pretty much a requirement. If a man is uncomfortable with his partner having male friends? This IS super weird. You're free to have this as a preference, but it's always going to be an uphill battle to claim it's a totally…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 05:27 AM
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Not at all, just incredibly misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 03:56 AM
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"Women in arranged marriages are the most picky." Glad to see indias education system still churning out winners after all these years.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 03:37 AM
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What do you think I'm jealous of?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 03:33 AM
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Women in India are not what the bs Western media propagates they are. Well indian media often showcases them getting treated like pinatas by random men while walking down the street, so I'm not sure that's the argument you wanna go with. Most of them are as financially independent as any other women. So yes. The ones in arranged marriages are picky too?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 02:56 AM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 02:52 AM
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Gender economics sucks huh Having a hard time? the pickier top men get to be Top men are definitely the ones making alt accounts on reddit to whine about women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 02:50 AM
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Your life skills are in such low demand you have to work two full time jobs to get by. Brother you’re not getting revenge on ANYONE lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 02:39 AM
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The women in india are hypergamous and picky?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 02:36 AM
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why would I as a man take a woman who orgasms in 20 minutes with difficulty over a woman who orgasms in 5 minutes easily? A massive amount of posts on this sub are guys chastising women for being too picky and you're over here discarding women for the way they orgasm lol As if you would actually ever be able to make that choice
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:09 PM
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"Compared to non-offenders, offenders had higher mean fertility, more reproductive partners and more marriages." I imagine most people average a single marriage so one particular group having even 2 will mean they have more marriages. That's not really the bombshell you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:11 PM
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only for little Timmy to see the girl he had imaginary feelings for get whisked off by a man that might be deemed his intellectual, moral, and financial inferior. Thinking this shit matters at all when it comes to dating/attraction/relationships is why your dicks stay dry fellas. Like do you really think she's comparing two guys and saying "well this guy is funny, charming and inspires me to want to build a life together.....but that guy likes science. I'll go with him"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:07 PM
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You should probably avoid getting addicted to it, but I know way more people with alcohol addictions than cocaine and that's perfectly legal so it's hard to judge one vice over another.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:44 AM
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Okay so not that bad then drug wise. Who cares? Also notice I mentioned emotionally manipulative. They're in high school, that's not exclusive to being a bully.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:27 AM
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So were the guys in drama and band. What’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:36 AM
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Your neighborhood is full of 50 year old good looking, tall, physically fit men?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:38 AM
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In all fairness totally my own conjecture This should be the sub’s slogan. It so perfectly describes most men here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:20 AM
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Literally just walk around in the suburbs anywhere dude. Who do you think lives in those houses? I promise it’s not young singles buying property.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:18 AM
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Whatever I answer you, you will discard it because it's no longer a matter of understanding me but of contradicting me. Ignoring the fact that this is a complete and total copout. Why are you allowed to disagree with me but I'm not allowed to disagree with you? Do you not see how hypocritical that is? That's why I'm smarter than you. lmao Read that person's reply a thousand times and maybe you can understand where the contradiction is. Ah I get it. This is the part where you realize you misunder…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 05:19 AM
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Which is why you didn't respond to a single thing I said pointing out why you were wrong. Yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 04:46 AM
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she seems to suggest most women are attracted to evil men because "attraction is amoral." Do you know what the word amoral means? Saying attraction is amoral has nothing to do with the amount of women because it's referring to the act specifically. Homosexuality is amoral, am I saying most people are homosexuals? You suggest most women prefer evil men Can you quote where they said this? There lies the (huge) contradiction. I feel like you think you're really clever and intelligent.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 04:42 AM
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Obviously its an extreme example but clearly your character has 0 negative impact on how sexually successful you will be as long as you are attractive. None of those chadfishing experiments were sexually successful so I'm not sure what you're talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:41 AM
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And as criminals breed at 2.7x the population with genetic markers that encourage such behavior If this was true, crime wouldn't be steadily going down over the years. Also what genetic markers are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:39 AM
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You contradict yourself a lot in such a short answer. You tell me attraction is amoral and then suggest women who seek bad men are a minority. How is that a contradiction? Those two points are completely unrelated.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:33 AM
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the lifestyle the original commenter describes is inherently dangerous because of an excess of it. If your whole point is predicated on it being in "excess" which they never specifically mentioned then what exactly are you arguing about? Them: I like to party You: IF YOU PARTY TOO MUCH YOU WILL DIE Like...okay? my argument is engaging in these things to the point she described where "fun" is all you care about WILL come back to bite you And yet hundreds of thousands, maybe millions do it every d…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:28 PM
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Why would I be talking about your country? Lol it doesn’t take “experience” Conveniently always said by someone who lacks it. killing yourself in a car crash Is exactly like partying in your younger years. What a brilliant and smart analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:28 AM
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You’re not even old enough to legally drink lol why are you talking like you have any experience with this? Get to a point in your life where your mom isn’t driving you everywhere before you start giving life lessons.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:15 AM
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The problem is people on this sub treat dating like an excel spreadsheet you can just plug in numbers until you get the answer you want. Dating isn't like that. You can have the most points and still lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:13 PM
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Who said anything about revenge? "Because the first thing I'm thinking about once I do have my shit together The fact that you think having your shit together is some kind of huge level up that lets you start cutting people out of your life is hilarious. I am simply stating that someone who "wouldn't date me before, but will now" is going to be treated the same as a 1/10 no matter what. That's not what you stated. I shouldn't have to explain why but it's pretty obvious by the fact that you just …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 08:56 PM
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The people kind of people who think like this end up extremely bitter and unhappy. Life isn’t an anime. You’re not going to get justice on all those who “wronged” you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 07:46 PM
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But I think that's because men typically don't find women that fun to be with. Men are far cooler and more laid back than women. Have you tried pursuing a relationship with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:42 AM
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So what part were you struggling to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:55 PM
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I'm not trolling or dishonest. I just disagreed with what you said and made a comment about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:52 PM
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Which part are you struggling to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:31 PM
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We will campaign and cause uproar for the injustices and unfair treatment for many groups, but when it comes to straight men... it's always be better or stop complaining and figure it out on your own. Women not dating you isn't injustice lol I think it's complete bullshit for ANYONE regardless of gender, to be held responsible for the crimes and sins of a POS who happens to be in the same gender. Are you being held responsible or being held to the same standard?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:20 PM
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Easier said than done, due to the problem clearly not being in the individual level. What does this even mean? Most women just cannot articulate their "spark" nor "connection" compared to men. I don't really consider "she had big fat tits" to be articulating a spark but okay. Um... a relationship and marriage is a team. If I want to share my life with someone for the rest of my life, I would like to imagine ourselves as a team. You said you were meeting these women for dates. How are we jumping …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:36 PM
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I do know what I want, but it wouldn't matter if I'm dealing with someone who doesn't know what they want. Well it sounds like girls who don't know what they want aren't your type then? So move on when you encounter them. A team cannot work together with an individual with shaky foundation and bails out during downtime. You're not a team.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:05 PM
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how can you develop a spark or connection with someone who doesn’t know what they want? Because you should know what you want but for some lovecraftian reason it’s not enough. You are kenough. What else am I supposed to do? Unfortunately I don't know you well enough to say what the problem might be. If you're being objectively honest about having things together then my opinion would be that you're bad at picking people who would have interest in you. Do the girls you date also have aspirations,…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 06:48 PM
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I mean that nice I guess but what does “appreciation” do for a guy? The way guys talk on this sub I'd expect most of them to start crying uncontrollably at such a rare and beautiful gift. It dosent matter to a guy if a girl appreciates him. It matter will she date him or hookup with him. It's a lot easier to see yourself dating someone you appreciate. So if a guy is trying to date a girl, it’s in his best interest to be what she likes. This is the same as saying your best interest in getting a j…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:33 PM
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My roommate is 6’3 and I’ve known him since 3rd grade. He survived in middle school off pizza rolls and Mountain Dew while playing call of duty until 4am on school nights. Sounds more like he was carbo loading while training hand eye coordination and learning valuable military strategies. All of which helped his body shape into the lean, mean, fuck machine that it is. What a chad. Don't be upset you only come up to his bellybutton.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:29 PM
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Well then women need to give guys a goal. Something to aim towards. Dating isn't a checklist or video game where you complete a task and receive your reward. I promise women will appreciate a man who has his own goals more than a guy who's entire self worth is wrapped up in "what women like."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:33 PM
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This is WAY too nuanced and insightful for this sub lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:29 PM
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It's only negligible because you didn't achieve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:25 PM
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How many posts with the exact same premise are you going to submit? Every week it's another variation on "women say they like men, but they don't like me? Why do?" I'm starting to wonder if this is some kind of humiliation fetish you have? You're constantly finding new ways to tell us how unmanly, uncool, unfit you are and at the same time you're utterly baffled as to why women don't want you. I mean FFS last week you complained that women like guys who ride dirt bikes lol. Like what is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:24 PM
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Anyone claiming that 'nice guys' get rejected because they're 'misogynistic' has clearly never been to a locker room after a local football match where fit young guys would brag about their adventures when no women were around. Have you yourself been to a locker room after a local soccer match?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 03:59 PM
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It's less that black slang gets associated with negative stereotypes and more that minorities are always at the forefront of culture trends. So the vast majority of slang comes from them. I think the last white slang that got co-opted was "bro"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:17 PM
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You have no idea what gaslighting is lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:13 PM
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Being called a fuckboy as a comic As a comic? What does this even mean? He still fucks though doesn't he? Everyone fucks though lol. This is like youtube tier commentary "still hit" I've done it Doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:07 PM
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You're the one who reduced everything to this, missing the general point. If you don't want people to misunderstand what you're saying you need to be more specific. If you're going to speak generally about a specific situation, then people are going to use that specific situation as a means of disagreeing with you. "picky like this" is a completely vague statement that doesn't add anything to the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:34 PM
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But I’m not a woman? Lol Do you just automatically assume anyone who disagrees with you is a woman? Did you brush your teeth today?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:31 PM
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at least 35 of them have been like this, picky about different things I do Your own words are a strawman? Okay. In case you haven't done so today, brush your teeth.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 07:35 PM
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Where does OP live? In a 90s sitcom from what I can tell
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 07:07 PM
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You dated 35 women who needed to remind you to brush your teeth? Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 07:03 PM
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If I think a woman is awesome, I'd catch feelings for her. Not accusing you of being desperate, but this is a sign of not setting your standards high enough. It sounds like you're willing to date anyone and everyone with no regard for compatibility because you just want to be in a relationship. Dating like this almost always leads to the women realizing the relationship not working and wanting out, and the guy feeling unlikable but not understanding why.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:04 PM
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She said "You looked like your photos, you had a kool personality and were attractive, but I didn't 'feel it.'" Then she goes on to say that she has plenty male friends who are attractive What happened in between these two things she told you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:00 PM
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Are you normal? Yes? OF COURSE I remember the situation You remember it because it still stings. That's why you're whining about it in this thread. I don't remember people being rude to me, because I don't really give a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 06:15 PM
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know what it did to my psyche and self esteem NOTHING Well that’s obviously a lie because you’re pretty obviously still seething about it years later. You still remember every detail about the situation lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 06:04 PM
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Again, men do feel the "need" to lie because it increases their odds of getting laid. Just is just not true. I've never been anything but up front and overly transparent with women and I've never had a problem with finding women who were interested in friends with benefits or casually hooking up. The guys who are saying this are going for a very specific type of woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 02:41 AM
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Men will have casual sex with a much wider group of women. It's not WILL, it's HAVE TO. They're not doing it out of the goodness of their heart. Most men are just way more willing to take what they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 02:38 AM
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Women overwhelmingly reject men who don't conform Conform to what?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 03:56 PM
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You seem to have a high school level understanding of like….. everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:25 AM
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Do you really consider "They won't be happy until we're all gay" to be on the level of a man "expressing his feelings" ? You don't think it warrants parody for being a bit over the top?
/r/MensRights25/07/23 11:50 PM
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It is fair to expect something extraordinarily difficult gets more money though. Being a surgeon isn't paid the same across countries though, and one of the reasons it's paid so much in america is the amount of schooling/insurance they have to have which makes it a difficult profession to get into. Most jobs are paid on availability and need, not difficulty.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 03:50 PM
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But jobs aren’t paid based on difficulty? lol What a dumb point
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:49 AM
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If raising kids was easy we wouldn’t have so many shitty people in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:46 AM
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You’re thinking about it like a guy. As if it’s a binary yes/no question that she is able and willing to answer at any time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:23 AM
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I never said you had to wait, I’m talking about women not wanting to be hit on in certain places
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:20 AM
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Exactly? So why risk alienating someone you’re trying to date?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:35 AM
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It’s probably a good idea to respect the wishes of someone you’re trying to date though, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 01:02 AM
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Go on the sex stories subs or any sub for sexually active women and see what they say about just wanting to "be used" by men. 99% of those stories are written by guys pretending to be women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:07 AM
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Your height along with being a self described incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 06:24 PM
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You’re an anomaly compared to the average man though for multiple reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 07:21 AM
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Psychologists or talk therapists? There’s a huge difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 02:50 AM
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"you can't support someone who doesn't want it" This is true of anyone. Have you ever tried to help an alcoholic stop drinking when they don't think they have a problem? Or someone who's married to an abuser that keeps making excuses for their partner? It's pretty much impossible. There's a truth to needing to hit bottom before getting sober. Even after being demonstrated that men who actually seek support have negative outcomes. You haven't demonstrated those negative outcomes are due to being …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 12:06 AM
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It means the standard of care they are given is inadequate. Terminal cancer is a fatal prognosis. Depression isn't. We're not talking about just depression, we're talking about suicidal ideation. Actively and actually planning to kill themselves. You're drawing a false equivalence to justify your apathy I'm not equating them, I'm equating your idea of responsibility that their prevention has. Also what apathy?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:50 PM
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That means nothing. How many people who died of terminal cancer went to the doctors? Correlation isn't causation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:28 PM
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You keep doubling back to the irrate behaviour and video game playing. What are you talking about? I quoted it once. Is this your personal experience? It's my personal experience that guys bottle a lot of stuff up and it comes out in other more negative ways, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:26 PM
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The responses on this sub just make a proper conversation impossible. Changing the subject midway and not remembering your own anecdotes will make any conversation impossible lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 09:40 PM
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Who says I am talking about severe mental issues? "We want you to talk it out instead of playing video games for 12 hours a day. We want you to talk it out instead of getting drunk and mean. Or high. Or coming home pissed off and stomping around the house but refusing to answer whenever someone asks “you okay?” This is what you responded to, if you're not talking about severe issues then I'm not exactly sure what you're talking about. You're asking why it's on men to solve their own small issues…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 09:36 PM
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