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Nobody said that either?? If you do change your mind, then you can just leave. Expecting someone to change because you changed your mind IS controlling. Which sounds a hell of a lot more akin to you being a rape apologist!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 11:22 PM
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It’s also not more than men are having by any stretch. These false beliefs both create and reinforce exactly the problematic parameters young men are faced with. Influencers like Andrew Tate capitalise on this and hurt both women and the men they sell the lie to. Think about it, the only way Tate makes his money is by selling this idea. It’s the same technique used by the kardashians - selling their life, that you fund, that makes theirs possible, right back to you. For eg, telling young men tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:33 PM
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But.. that literally is the average? Do you know what that average means, statistically speaking?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:11 PM
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Fantastic cop out. Really, very impressive
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:10 PM
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Sure, if that’s what was being said, but the claims are that women are actually sleeping with that many people. The two are not often differentiated between, so a bunch of statistical ‘evidence’ is gathered in relation to potential interest, not sexual activity (like OLD matches, no indication of sex let alone physical contact of communication), and the problem is when people try to pass THAT off as the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:08 PM
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That’s not what they asked. They asked about how many people women are sleeping with. Not how many people are interested in them. Two VERY different things that seem to be heavily conflated these days
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:03 PM
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.. because the statistics are skewed by doing this, so the information being relied on becomes more and more inaccurate as it continues. Are you dense?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:01 PM
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You literally don’t see. You don’t see these women having all this sex with guys, cause they’re not. And something as specific to hookup culture as clubbing is makes a terrible example. And you seem to be conflating the average person with.. people of average looks? Average does not mean the same thing when you switch up context like that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:55 PM
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People* believe me it’s far from exclusive to women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:49 PM
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Yeah you’re right. It’s definitely frustrating cause it feels impossible to get through to people with this mindset and show them that life’s not really like that, and it’s better out here. It’s obviously a miserable existence
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 01:27 PM
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Is this a joke? What does living with someone have to do with commitment, the two aren’t mutually exclusive? Do you know what commitment means?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:13 AM
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Is it for work or not? Putting it in quotation marks just makes it seem like you don’t know or don’t believe it’s work related if not everything they do there is work related (which would make sense unless they’re on the clock 24/7 the entirety of the time). If they have to be there for work, then yeah you bet your ass they should be having some kind of enjoyment too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:09 AM
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Making a self observation?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 01:49 AM
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Is this an abattoir cause he just got slaughtered
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 01:44 AM
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How would you know? Seriously, how on earth could you possibly know? Like you’re not even pretending to base it on anything, you’ve just pulled this random number out of thin air. I can tell you’re not a woman, but do you also have limited interaction with them often in specific contexts (professional setting, non-friends, online etc)? This may skew your perception, and honestly it can cause you yourself a lot of grief because it really does make it seem like that’s just how it is, especially if…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 04:43 AM
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Why on earth are you just making up statistics? People would be a lot more willing to listen and understand your pov if you didn’t spout straight up lies. I mean 90%? C’mon man, I’m having a hard time believing that even you believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 02:58 AM
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Okay yikes I don’t agree with op either but come on
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 02:58 PM
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I’ve never seen a backwards view demolished quite as beautifully as this
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 10:37 AM
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I thought they weren’t getting anything at all? That’s what you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 03:03 AM
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Lol what? The entire thing of an open relationship is that you still HAVE that relationship. Fucking around with other people becomes just becomes an OPTION not your responsibility. Honestly I have no idea where you’re pulling this stat that open relationships work for women and not men. It’s so commonly sought after and suggested by men significantly more than women that it’s become a trope, particularly in tv shows. And everything you said in that particular paragraph about the ‘suggestor’ hav…
/r/MensRights22/05/23 04:51 AM
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Not sure you do get it so I’ll elaborate a little bit, I’m sure my comment can be taken as a bit vague. What I’m saying is it’s easy to go out and find a plethora of people to use you to get themselves off. That’s different to people being attracted to you, and/or wanting to make you feel good. It doesn’t make it easy to find sex, it often makes it harder for the sheer amount of bullshit you’d have to sift through to find a viable, let alone safe, option. This holds up to psychological studies t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 07:35 AM
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That’s my point.. I wouldn’t? I’m saying the values sound hypocritical, it seems strange that physical attractiveness for a wife is the priority OVER her educational level but vice versa for the daughter. Isn’t that hypocritical, especially if you take into account parental influence which is generally a driving factor behind educational motivation for kids? It just seems like a strange division, is there a reason that it’s one or the other? Or are they trying to make the point that it IS weird …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 06:55 AM
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Sorry that’s a bit vague, to specify I mean that’s kind of a whole different conversation to ‘should parents pay child support?’ More along the lines of ‘How can we enforce payments going to the child’s well-being?’
/r/MensRights01/05/23 04:11 AM
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Okay but that’s a really random, specific scenario. Doesn’t really apply if you’re talking general logistics?
/r/MensRights01/05/23 04:07 AM
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Is that not absolutely hypocritical though?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 03:22 AM
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Yes there is. It’s exactly the same lifestyle, give up your holes and go to the same efforts. The fact that most women dont want this is absolutely relevant because you too have the same opportunities but won’t take them. If your ailment is the fact these kinds of lifestyles exist I’ve got some bad news for you bro. It’s not women creating these situations, and there’s well more demand than there is supply
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:56 AM
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You don’t have to be attractive or female. Got some holes? You’ll do. You can literally give up everything for this type of lifestyle right now
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:49 AM
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And in turn, so many people are missing that point. If you choose to you could live the same way. But you recognise the effort and low reward aren’t worth it. You could jump on a plane right now and find a swarm of guys in any country willing to fuck your holes for some conditional, unstable temporary accomodation. The point you are missing is that there’s a reason nobody fucking wants that. You could make yourself rich in a few weeks selling drugs, but you won’t do that cause it’s a high risk l…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:47 AM
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An even better way to become financially independent is to not travel at all ever. It sounds more like the best way to never become financially independent. If you’re dependant on others for your financial needs, in a foreign place, you are the furthest possible thing from financially independent
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:25 AM
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Seriously? You think most women are organising multiple tour guide dates for the countries they visit and.. checks notes prostituting themselves for room and board when relocating? Like, do you think this is a safe and viable option for women at all? Not only is she not in any way the ‘average woman’, she’s the overwhelming exception. I don’t know how to begin explaining to you just how far from normal this behaviour is. Man just how far out from reality are you? Perfect example of you don’t kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:21 AM
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I’m quite literally telling you I don’t. Explain it to me. Because my reply was hinting that if you can’t even explain your logic, maybe you didn’t use any
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:39 AM
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Fair, but that’s still different to being lazy. Bdsm isnt always entirely physical, dynamics involving brats as an example - they might not necessarily like to be physically punished with pain per se, but the psychological games and power play are arguably a more important factor in creating the conditions for physical manifestation. Plus brats are kinda known for getting off on making their dom work
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:37 AM
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Fair enough, my misunderstanding
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:28 AM
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I’m not telling you to do anything. I didn’t give you a single suggestion or shred of advice. Did you mean to respond to the original commenter? Cause I’m genuinely confused
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:19 AM
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Of course you have to establish a baseline of facts. And you can be right about something, but shock horror - you still have to be considerate of other people. The sweeping generalisation that women will just be mad ‘anyway’ implies they have no reason to be. But if you’d genuinely been insensitive and a dick about it, then you’d also be in the wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:15 AM
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Yea dude, that’s what pregnancy fucking does. Takeaway and frozen food cravings, fatigue (cooking takes effort + planning), muscle aches, hormone imbalances and so on are inevitable during pregnancy. Vitamin/mineral deficiencies and skewed hormone levels will physically and mentally fuck with you. Every pregnancy is different which is pretty well known. They tend to get harder, and that risk skyrockets when you conceive again less than a year later. Comparatively little. As he himself admits, he…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:04 AM
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Apparently I do. Assuming you’re incapable of explaining why (hence your convenient omission) I’ve got some bad news for you too my friend
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 11:33 PM
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Sure. It’s like a world of people begging you to pleasure to them (not you, them). If you do, you’re a slut, you ‘live life on easy mode’. For men sex is like pizza, even bad pizza is still good. For women it’s like nejsj, at worst it’s an uncomfortable, painful experience that can lead to consequences including assault, pregnancy (with the majority of that burden obviously on the woman as the carrier), public shame etc. You are one swipe away from exactly the same opportunities my guy. Anybody …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 11:30 PM
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Lol it’s easy to find other people begging you to pleasure them, not you. That’s bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 11:11 PM
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It wasn’t a question of attractiveness tho? If they’ll just go home with the next guy just like that then you can be that next guy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 11:01 PM
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Women don’t live life on ‘easy mode’ lmaoo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:58 PM
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Who do you think they are fucking? It’s a two way street my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:57 PM
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They’re comparing the typical biological advantages each sex has over the other. It’s not a stupid comparison, you’re taking it too literally
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:54 PM
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Agree with the other person. Your simple honesty and genuine consideration means you’re already a step ahead of your ‘competition’. It’s extremely difficult to solve a problem without understanding all the contributing factors first. I hope you find the answers you’re looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:47 PM
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I didn’t mention sex? What made you bring that up, is it all you think about?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:44 PM
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Nobody is saying PPD is a unique unfathomable experience, they’re explaining the effect it has on everyday life. And yeah man the weight gain and lethargy were directly related to the pregnancy - hence, it began BEFORE she gave birth for the second time and AFTER she conceived. Do you comprehend that this means it was the pregnancy alone that did this? She didn’t ‘let herself go’ or get ‘lazy’ or anything, it happened TO her, not because of her. That’s why it didn’t happen in the first pregnancy…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:22 AM
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Your post is the complaint though? If it doesn’t matter just hire your escort and go.. your problem has been solved for thousands of years
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 09:02 PM
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Bear with me here cause I do have a point, how do people like Andrew Tate make their money, and who is their target demographic?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 08:54 PM
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Like the beauty industry, those guys’ exclusive source of status and income depends on the insecurity of the men they target. Just like the beauty industry doesn’t profit from confident, happy women - figures like Tate don’t make their money without exploiting vulnerable men. It’s not necessarily about ‘offending’ the ‘mainstream liberal sensibilities’ but further widening the gap between the two extremes of the spectrum and alienating both sides from finding common ground. They are using you. J…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 08:46 PM
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Man you come here specifically asking for advice on this specific topic and then get shitty and cherry pick a specific aspect of a polite reply to contest that you know damn well you’re purposely skewing. If you’re a bitch you can say just say that. Do you want to be told what to do? Cause that’s literally what your post is asking for, but you’re not seeing the irony in that you are demanding answers and role models and then when someone suggests you probably don’t need that you scream don’t tel…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 08:10 PM
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Well yea dude if someone is trying to ‘win’ an argument and prove they’re right for the sake of it instead of working through the specific issue and communicating with the other person, then that’s obviously not gonna end well. Intent is extremely important here
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:59 AM
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Oh honey, submission and submissive bdsm are not the same..
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:45 AM
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Seriously!! Like a guy can literally tear another man down over something as trivial as penis size and then turn around and screech that women only care about physical attributes like height. It’s not even a gender specific thing (eg being a woman in the entertainment industry is brutal), it’s just people perpetuating the very stereotypes they’re complaining about
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:41 AM
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Okay so now. you’re referring to voting circumstances AFTER women were finally allowed to vote. In a country where voting is voluntary. My point was that women were historically NOT ALLOWED to vote. As in, not even the choice. Oh and on the topic of your land ownership point, once again, also an EXTREMELY recent thing for women to be legally permitted to do. What a weird red herring you’ve picked? Please, explain this privilege you speak of cause I’ve never worked at a place where I was not also…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:36 AM
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Also, men don’t have to fix as much or as extensively as they might’ve before, in harsher and more time consuming conditions. We have (thankfully) technologically advanced and improved procedures so that we don’t have to work as hard. That workload has still been greatly reduced though
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:23 AM
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Oh yes women are just born with this intrinsic instinct to instantly understand and be capable of those specific skills needed later in life without any forethought, practice, or planning beforehand! No life prep is required for women, we simply coast along til some kids pop out and those skills magically just kick in /s obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:19 AM
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You should try and meet a woman irl x
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:12 AM
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LITERALLY, as an example - vast majority of people I ever see complaining about dick size are men (and whether male or female they’re almost always teenagers/sexually immature - which says a lot). Women don’t care how long your schlong is, we care if you can get us off. If you think you need a big dick for that, you might just be bad at sex
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:08 AM
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Are you just now learning about choice and.. fashion trends? Just be careful opening a history book you might get a shock x
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:04 AM
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What the hell is the point you’re trying to make?Do you genuinely think women historically ‘do less?’. If you believe this, what do you think about women being forced to stay out of the workforce and certain circumstances (like.. voting) BY men? And is there a window that shows the world outside your own asshole?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:59 PM
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