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So the only real solution is to play hot and cold games or spin plates as a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:21 AM
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Even if she fakes her orgasms? I would honestly be rather told I am bad in bed and be told to improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:12 AM
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I agree with you. Not everyone here is red pilled and just cares about meaningless sex. They want their partners to physically and emotionally desire them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:10 AM
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Getting to experience love even when it's fleeting or conditional is still worth it IMO. I would even go as far as to say that being in a shitty relationship with someone that argues with you all the time is still better than dealing with loneliness because you know that there's someone out there thinking about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 03:58 PM
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Its a very slippery slope that nobody can really prove.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:59 AM
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I really wish that was the case but people often change their mind about short versus long term or falling in and out of love at the drop of a hat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:17 AM
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A truly sincere person is incredibly rare because they will often tell you things you do not wish to hear. Often times, the trade off is that they don't like you that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 10:26 PM
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3s and 1s.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:12 PM
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Movies, fictional stories, and video game's, are also not real, yet we waste our time on them anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:20 PM
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Women expect the guy to treat them better and hold on to expectations they don't necessarily hold for themselves. The amount of women I met who expected the guy to be mature and responsible while being an absolute trainwreck is astounding.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 01:15 AM
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My LTR gf wants an emotional connection after I either prove to her I am a "real man" or after an intense argument( she started ).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 02:35 PM
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Because most women, especially prostitutes would sooner be down to fuck than offer any emotional intimacy and connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:30 PM
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This is why I pray that my wife gives me daughter's everyday. The amount of work required for a mid physique, practicing social skills through trial and error with women, and making enough money to even be considered a prospective partner is such a difficult undertaking. That I really believe the singularity cannot come soon enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:20 PM
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I suggest that OP just dates overseas for the financial incentives although he might not be looking for advice. You get significantly more spending power and most try to maintain some semblance of dignity and put some effort into being entertaining rather than just stuffing their face full.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 01:12 AM
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Gender wars are just like any other wars. Temporary, voaliatile, and always in pursuit of greener pastures. With the only difference being that most women don't really confront each other or men directly compared to the latter. Underhanded tactics or figuring out how to manipulate emotions is more of their style.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 12:56 AM
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I see it all the time on reddit. Dude who suddenly ghosted me wants to rekindle but now I just learned he's fucking several other women behind my back.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 06:12 PM
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It's not her fault and it's also not the fault of the average man who is usually blamed first when women can't get investment and commitment from a top percentage guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 04:35 PM
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Good read, but isn't red pill supposed to go against black pill. Men do not have intrinsic value but through hard work and change, they can become just as high value as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 04:09 PM
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Uhhh, 1 in 7 adults and 1 in 5 teenagers are victim's of sextortion with boys 14 - 17 being primary targets. I don't know where that sweeping generailization came from.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 03:52 PM
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Random women tries to hit on me in a street I take her up on the offer and after we talk for a bit and flirt we have sex at my place She reveals she is prostitute halfway and blackmails me for money Going by the Nordic Model, I guess I am just fucked(literally) then.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 03:29 PM
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Aside from the lack of accountability, I also fail to see how there can't be any nuance from these scenarios. Did the prostitutes hit on the men first? Is it considered "survival sex" when the prostitutes and OF model aren't struggling anywhere financially or even make more than the buyer? And how are men even supposed to know that women don't enjoy the sex they get out of it? Do they speak for all women, even the one's that are against banning the sex trade?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 03:24 PM
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Anyone who says I am the king-
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 09:15 PM
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It's not a problem if both couple's subscribe to red-pill or blue-pills ideology. My wife admits she was fat and unattractive once, I did too. We both make it a team effort to keep our waistline below 32 by eating healthy and going to the gym regularly. If blue pill thinks that people can be attractive at any size, and personality is what matters, than they can put on so much weight they will need motoroized scooters without their marriage breaking down.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 09:13 PM
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Are these women willing to take time out of their schedule to go somewhere I want to go? Are they willing to buy me a gift from time to time(when it doesn't have to be expensive)? Are they willing to let me vent my frustration and let be vulnerable to them like they were with me? If all these answers are no, then they might as well try and get the most easily obtainable and best commodity.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 08:58 PM
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The statements he makes are widely exaggerated but women I've interacted did have wild mood swings depending on that time of the month and resources don't necessarily just have to mean wealth but also somebodies superior genes or having monogamous affection for them i.e( not that most men here could relate ). Women in my life fell into and out of love faster, my female relatives were prone to emotional outbursts( unless it was really BPD ), and my gf has to mention bringing up kid's everytime sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 02:50 PM
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Uhhh, you answered your own question. Because women don't need men anymore and now alot of them are just opting to stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 02:30 PM
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My gf took me out to dinner at her favorite venues and paid for it although it was later compensated through gifts and other monetary exchanges(as it should, although it was certainly a nice geature and showed me she was serious, given the risk).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 08:09 PM
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I've yet to see someone who fully looksmaxxed first before they gave up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 03:50 PM
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That's why my girl is a keeper. She is happy with the arrangements because in addition to trusting me entrusting her, her dues she appreciates my gifts, no matter how small.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 12:44 PM
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I was looking for this exact comment. The women in OP's scenario is stringing him along like a salivating dog. If she isn't trying to lock you down after your first few dates and willing to some initiatives, then she's not all that into you. I would just cut your losses and move on. This just sounds like a dead bedroom waiting to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 05:55 PM
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Ill take my chances with someone who stays because they need me versus someone who doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 08:08 PM
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She constantly fears losing me so it still worked out in the end. I always aimed below my looksmatch however. Even after improving.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 07:58 PM
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That's the unfortunate reality. If you want to give woman more, she has to have started with less or close to nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 07:01 PM
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Political beliefs are almost interchangeable with gender roles now. You won't find a right leaning boss babe or a leftist who is a young SAHM in the West. From my experience, there is a lot more nuances in other countries because there is less identity politics at play there. My gf i.e takes care of most household duties while still being the breadwinner. She is strong willed and tempermental while still being rational/realizing she's being irrational and willing to talk about relationship probl…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 06:50 PM
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Women men like, old school women, traditional women. Conservative women. It's all the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 06:36 PM
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She is conservative because every women in the US and even women who has been westernized no longer does what she does.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 06:21 PM
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She prioritizes family over career, wants kid's and to be a SAHM, is patient with everyone, has genuine smiles all around, and is very easy going, doesn't have strong political beliefs, enjoys cooking sophisticated meals, is very upfront and honest about what bothers her without making a huge fuss, very emphathetic, and doesn't have huge aspirations such as being the boss of her own startup company i.e.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 06:12 PM
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Hopefully it's not like the stories I hear on reddit...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 04:50 PM
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Conservative women and even girl's from my childhood have generally been more honest with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 04:40 PM
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Nope, she only has to work part time if she ever wants too to showcase her ability and that money is hers, I don't need it. A more than generous allowance will be provided for doing practically nothing or nothing I won't already be doing with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 04:29 PM
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Most conservative women only date for marriage so they will tell you their requirements and outline their expectations from the very start of the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 04:04 PM
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They still work from home sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 02:22 PM
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Yes, they tend to tell you what you need to improve on or what they dislike about you from the get go.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 01:30 PM
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That's a plan of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 01:11 PM
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I've met plenty of older women on dating apps who showed interest in me since I was looking for a committed marriage, with some having achieved successful in a high earning field or being better looking than me as well. I told them I was not expecting much and I was a guy who didn't have previous dating experience or had many options to choose from in the first place( when I guess I did ) so I guess that really peaked their interests and got me a lot of offers since my net worth was high and I w…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 01:07 PM
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The point is that in a conservative household, women take care of all the family members. In a liberal household, everyone is meant to fend for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 03:54 AM
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They will cook a fancy meal for themselves and serve everyone else slop is what I am saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 03:45 AM
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When you mentioned misogny I guess? Neither political spectrum is really focused on male issues unlike both the left and right.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 02:55 AM
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Never going to happen. It will either still be men's fault for being misled by the toxic manosphere or social media and big tech. Heck, I've seen feminists make the issue about how it will affect themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 02:24 AM
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Nope, I don't work a day job, not unless I want one. Most of the time it's about managing the estate and fixing shit that breaks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 02:21 AM
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Landowner, but everytime I say that I get a lot of angry people downvoting. They are in my parent's name for tax related reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 02:10 AM
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I blame whoever made the rules. Both sexes are just playing to win the game. Thank God I didn't have any language barriers dating in my mother country.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 01:58 AM
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My money is all in unliquidable assets, she has a greet teaching position(well not really but its a job atleast), and she lives abroad. I would literally gain more from a divorce if I was the type of guy to want "something new" after awhile, but I am not going to do that to her, ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 01:10 AM
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Maybe not on reddit I guess. Asking or getting angry at your gf/wife for absolutely anything is apparently controlling/ abusive on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 01:03 AM
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Those exist as well. My gf is someone who is willing to help anyone in need even at her own expense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 01:02 AM
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Learning PUA tactics definitely isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 12:59 AM
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Accepting someone isn't the same as loving them unfortunately as I alluded to earlier. Heck I can make another PP post about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 12:57 AM
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You have to constantly improve to keep one, in almost all metrics.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 12:56 AM
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One girl I dated was angry at me for not being proactive enough at texting. I guess I should have just known.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 12:52 AM
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Yeah, I offer lots of praise and emotional intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 11:16 PM
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Morals bend in relations to self interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 10:42 PM
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If someone gave you a million dollars to step on a puppy, you would probably do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 10:39 PM
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No, they just expect me to understand their complex feelings. Conservatives only want me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 10:37 PM
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If im (bread)winning for my family, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 10:36 PM
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And that's why it's better to get praised for it. We've come full circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:59 PM
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The time liberal women spend cooking is time they could be used to work and earn money for themselves, so the reality is that they would rather avoid being in the kitchen or they end up cooking something incredibly simple/unappetizing for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:56 PM
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At least they are reasonable. No guessing games and asking me to entertain them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:49 PM
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I do half of the cooking/cleaning when things don't break...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:45 PM
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She does, and she also hates her job,
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:44 PM
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I don't disagree. Even when my gf said she didn't marry me just for my money, I always remembered the keyword was just.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:43 PM
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I give her an allowance for doing practically nothing or nothing she never wanted to do in the first place, such as raising the kids. I wouldn't call that a non-benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:41 PM
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I got into cooking so me and my gf could share the hobby together. Liberal women would never even want to cook in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:39 PM
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Nope, I do all the repairs. If something breaks or needs replacing/maintenance, I'm Bob the Builder unless it's something super dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:35 PM
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My assets are in a trust fund.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:34 PM
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Actual red pill ideology didn't though- Getting fit, understanding what women are motivated by, and filtering out the good women from the bad literally changed my life for the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:30 PM
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I don't understand why redditors don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:26 PM
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You and your wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:26 PM
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Lol what? All the women who have been on birth control at all times except when trying to make a baby have no sex? You REALLY only have sex to make a baby and never any other time? This is not an “all woman” thing, I assure you, she probably just doesn’t actually like sex with you. That's what I'm saying, women can marry someone without loving or ever wishing to fuck them. If it’s such a small effort, why wouldn’t the man just do it half the time so things feel fair? Most humans don’t like to fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:25 PM
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It's when you are the breadwinner and still lend a hand despite the wealth disparity between you two.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:11 PM
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They only like what women can do for them. They do not respect you as a human being. Which is almost the same thing women are doing. Let's be for real here...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:10 PM
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Half of red-pill comments I see on here and even more on other subreddits are more aligned with the black pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:06 PM
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Already did, but my Reddit algorithm is going wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:04 PM
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Cooking and cleaning are the only 2 things that take up a lot of time when repairs need to be made around a house. Everything else is either barely time-consuming or not needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:04 PM
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My gf did exactly what you described, thank her and thank the lord almighty I never had to deal with the bs of modern day dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 03:45 AM
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I was willing to date as far down as long as they were also willing but most of these women usually end up having serious health problems/unresolved trauma which is something I can't effectively manage without throwing my life off balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 03:42 AM
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Communities of all kinds are out there from sports to gaming. I find that the feeling of camaraderie is even better than being in a committed relationship. If you don't like that, I would just consider sugar/compensated dating in foreign countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 01:05 PM
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Let me guess you believe in Marxism as well then.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 12:20 AM
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It's not just feminists that aren't willing to sit down and willing to have a serious discussion, it's basically anyone who is associated with the left.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 12:18 AM
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I don't disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 11:01 PM
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I agree completely. Although such work is still looked down upon which leaves little room to be desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 08:26 PM
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They are still just as career driven while balancing family responsibilities. The only difference I've found is that they don't lie about how much their job sucks and they would give it up in a heartbeat if someone could provide for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 08:13 PM
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I am just saying how thing's are. If anything, I welcome consevatism and when liberals eventually die out due to their own voilition, so will abortions so I don't really care either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 07:15 PM
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Yeah, because 'progressive' women are more concerned with killing their future offspring than raising them. The rise in conservatism is a self inflicted wound more than anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 06:57 PM
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This is why I don't trust women/feminists who claim they are ok if their husband's make less because there is always a caveat involved. Sure you will find people like my aunt contributing 90 percent of the households income but her bf is also 6'2, not a bad looking dude by any means, and in great shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 06:44 PM
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The more egalatarian a country is, the more birth rates drop. Some people say it's because women don't need men anymore but I don't think it's necessarily that. There is no shortage of highly educated women who are looking for a partner on dating apps especially after they are financially secure and about to miss their fertility window. Still, very few are willing be settle and those who did are very likely to leave the relationship( unless the guy suddenly changes ) when you look at the statist…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 06:08 PM
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The lack of third spaces means you will be limited to apps most of the time in the US. I wish there were more social avenues to talk to women face to face but there aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 03:24 AM
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Well, if it isn't autism, there's definitely something that's making it difficult for you to process empathy although I'm not saying you're a monster or anything like that...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 03:08 AM
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I would personally never do this, and even if I did, I would only mislead women who were never interested in me or only using me as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 03:03 AM
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My apologies, I forgot you and the poster were the same person. I assumed you were somewhere on the spectrum because you struggle to lie and often view problems in black or white( rather objectively ) and struggled understanding social cues like when you met two women who wanted you to lie about their appearance and intellect.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 03:01 AM
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Yeah I went down the rabbit hole and his problem wasn't the latter. It was his lack of social awareness and being devoid of any emotional intelligence due to his autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 02:54 AM
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Oh yeah, that part... Well I checked OP's post history and he definitely has several health related issues that make dating impossible: scizophrenic, living with mom, plus low income is not a good combination.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 02:42 AM
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If you can already get casual sex from FWB. Then you simply aren't trying hard enough or enough times.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 02:33 AM
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The more familiar you are with her friends, the greater the chance romantic interests develop. Pickleball seems to be quite popular right now for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 02:26 AM
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Yeah, you know, like a sports club, reading club, board game club, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 02:22 AM
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With enough quantity, there's eventually going to be compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 02:13 AM
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Always be sure to ask and see if you can join in on the club activities.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 02:12 AM
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You'd be surprised by how quickly women can change when they aren't conforming in front of their friends because peer pressure is a helluva drug. Likewise, I've seen even stout feminists turn into pick-me's over Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 02:09 AM
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I never heard anyone mention this advice before... Edit: I've only heard about redditors ending a relationship because the women they dated because they admit they "settled" for them or were a feminist until the bill came.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 01:56 AM
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I didn't do it because my current gf didn't deserve that kind of treatment. I was able to hit 100 matches on Red Note dating overseas.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 01:55 AM
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Red pill is focused on self improvement and what men can do to make themselves more attractive. They accept that women make the rules in dating and that the only way to win is to beat them at their own game. 99 percent of the time. If you meet someone that keeps claiming to be red pilled, then they are likely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 12:45 PM
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This is also another personal ancedote but the nicest women in my life including my mom and current gf were all "red-pilled" as far as honesty went. They didn't sugar coat my appearance and actively helped me improve it whether by helping me lose weight or by suggesting alternative cloth. The women who claimed I was perfect the way I am, either wanted something from me or was never serious about being friend's/my gf in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 04:58 AM
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I spent 5 minutes trying to find my original comment or post and still can't find it so I assume they were both deleted but if you want to find a good example, just click on any Reddit profile complaining about red pill/manosphere grifters and 9/10 if they are a women, they are doing OF and advertising it on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 04:29 AM
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Right, I don't care about whether or not the marriage is tested when one or the other person slips up and feels attraction for someone else as long as they can recognize it's just their innate biological urge. My concern is when the fantasy they have imagined comes with the expectation that they'll really find an oscar worthy actor in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 12:45 AM
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Some people can also still look ok despite carrying more weight. For women, it doesn't matter if the fat goes to their boobs and butt rather than their waist. For taller or broader shouldered guys, putting on weight doesn't look that bad as long as his body is still proportional (Think of NFL players). I would consider myself a 5 at my healthy weight range but not even above a 3 when obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 12:00 PM
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Yeah I guess you are right. I went too hard on the hyperbole.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:37 AM
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Women who give one word replies aren't pleasant is all I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:25 AM
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I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 09:35 PM
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That's what it felt like yeah but I have seen premarital sex also destroy a lot of relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 09:34 PM
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If the gf doesn't show any interest in him or find a way push the relationship forward. Then she can't be pleasant... only cold and removed. In this type of social climate, I don't even hug my gf without her consent first.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 09:33 PM
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My current girlfriend/future wife are all those thing's but still directs me and orders me around from time to time when she needs something done around the house: like helping her mix something together in the kitchen or reaching for items in grocery shelves. I don't understand why you don't see those traits as compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 01:14 PM
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Yeah, dating a highly attractive women might bring you a few year's worth of happiness but the interest will always comes back to haunt you and bring decades of untold grief if she ever feels like she's simply owed the extravagant lifestyle or deserves better. This is why my parent's who had significantly more life and dating experience told me to pick someone who was emotionally intelligent and plain rather than just intelligent and jaded and I thank them dearly for that advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 01:01 PM
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Are you sure it wasn't because the relationship never progressed. A decade long girlfriend isn't exactly fun unless something about it changes like moving in, sharing bills, and sleeping together.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 12:49 PM
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The novelty or honeymoon phase wears off after a year or two anyways. Plus, a lot of attractive people are too proud to ever be anything other than reserved, passive, and boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 09:04 AM
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The question I want to ask OP is what do they personally want out of a relationship. While everyone has different goals in mind, there's only 2 kinds of people that date. People in group A.) who aren't looking for anything serious and people in group B.) who are looking to settle down. Unfortunately there are a lot of people in group A who later go on to deceive the people in group B as well as people in group B who are still stuck in the past and want to back to an ex or get bored and slip back…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:54 AM
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There are simps who throw money and praise women simply for existing, chad who sexually satisfies almost every women who doesn't look horrendous below a 3, government assistance for single mother's so most just opt for IVF's and date around rather than settling down( point number 2. again ), and we can't forget the tried and true classic phrase, most women already have a stable income job and job, what do I need another man for？Which sadly holds true.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 02:20 AM
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There are mind game's and subtle power plays even in happy and so called perfect relationships. If people were absolutely honest about their intentions, nobody would ever get along. The real question is where do you want the draw the line?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 02:14 AM
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From an evolutionary standpoint, people who were taller were seen as upper class because it was a sign they never lacked the resources to thrive in their environment despite the fact that a bigger body would require a significantly higher calorie intake. So he was either born into wealth/had significant resources or he had the means to acquire it. I'm dating a modernized country girl in my home country who's sweet but as red pilled as you can get although she's never even heard the term before. …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 02:08 AM
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Women are always the ones bringing up the "age gap" and "getting traded in for a newer model." Make up your mind already.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 09:03 PM
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Why can't we take a page out of Japan and seperate sex and intimacy. So long as their husbands are able to provide, they don't really care about which sex workers they see.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 08:54 PM
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No, but I had relatives who were.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 11:18 AM
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We are in full agreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 10:08 PM
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I could ask them the same thing. My suggestion was that progressive men lust after younger women because they want something from them. It's never a one-way street with relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 09:22 PM
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Naw
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 09:03 PM
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I was agreeing with you, I was referring to the woman or simps who trivialize complex issues. Mb for the misunderstanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 05:42 PM
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Leave it to redditors to frame the issue where they think it looks the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 05:32 PM
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Men are just insecure their wife makes more. Meanwhile... Men are the most likely to get divorced after their wife gets a promotion
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 05:24 PM
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It depends on the guy. Most who end up marrying rich milfs tend to care a bit more.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 04:55 PM
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The phillipines is definitely more "westernized" than the rest of the east. As for the latter, I just meant in terms of averages, ancedotes, and my real life experiences. Results may vary.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 04:53 PM
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Where are the sugar mommies lining up to date me?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 04:50 PM
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Insert meme 20 year old woman dating a 45 year old man. "Is this pedophilia?"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 04:49 PM
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Take my upvote. Honesty shouldn't be this rare to see. It feels like I'm going crazy over here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 04:46 PM
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To be fair, it's quite easy to get hired if you are willing to do blue collar work. Heck, you can be self employed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 04:36 PM
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Because the man is able to provide more than a paycheck. That was what dismantling "patriarchy" meant anyway. Whether that's engaging in deep conversation or handling bills or planning family outlings or spending quality time with the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 04:31 PM
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And from my experience, they are no less materialistic or shallow than Western women. It's just being clear about expectations rather than complaining and divorcing you later down the road when they aren't being met.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 04:11 PM
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Men seem totally fine with doing it... I thought we should be against patriarchal standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 04:03 PM
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99.99 percent of the time, the guy is tall and handsome, and the wife is bent and out of shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 03:50 PM
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Almost everyone I know is left performatively. Then Trump won so ¯_(ツ)_/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 03:49 PM
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Even being rich isn't enough coming from someone whose family net worth is in the millions. Most women want guys with similar or higher degrees. It's the reason my aunt divorced after one of her ex-husbands when he couldn't keep up, and a lot of women turned me down during the screening process while I was looking for love overseas. Then, if I date women who are lower on the socioeconomc ladder, I get accused of exploiting them. You can't win no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 03:45 PM
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It's a shining example of liberal hypocrisy. People give me shit all the time for being a landlord on reddit, and sometimes I can even feel the resentment boil over in real life, but atleast I had to work hard to get make my rental properties worth something through my blood sweat and tears, spending months and even a year tearing and repairing everything. Meanwhile, all it takes is someone to get blessed with good looks to cruise life on easy mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 01:23 AM
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I know Im going to get downvoted for saying this, but I can attest. Me and my family own multiple housing complexes, and we mainly rent to college students. They can't keep trash contained in or even out of their rooms. Even the streets are a walking biohazard in one of the neighborhoods.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 10:02 PM
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I said it had to be done, not that I would personally do it. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 01:26 AM
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I never said my solutions would fix anything other than the lack of dating prospects. Even I wouldn't go through with most of it, and I doubt most people would sell their soul and health to score either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 12:50 AM
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Maybe I'm a nihilist, but the way I see it. You can only eat so many fancy meals, make new friends, and find new hobbies before you realize that you only get a little more enjoyment after putting substantially more work in. And then, it's like the sunk cost analysis comes into play. Meaning I'm spending more time trying to make myself happy than being happy. Truth be told. I'd rather fantasize about make-believe scenarios and immerse myself in competitive role-play games. At least then it feels …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 12:16 AM
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Men have much lower QOL standards. Almost everything they do is done to impress women. Even my dad used to convince me to play the guitar to look cool for women, not because he thought I would like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 12:00 AM
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The only way to realistically win is by "gaming" it. Traveling/dating overseas to exploit spending power and being seen as exotic is one, Lying about your political affiliations and beliefs is another, depending on what the political climate is (I.e, you might even attend a Pro-choice rally, become a Mormon, and feed the poor to flirt with the semi-decent looking crack whore when she's not smiling without ever giving a single f). Then there are weight loss pills, plastic surgery, and even HRT to…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 11:54 PM
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Yeah, dating is already hard enough, but having to set aside free time to date can seem impossible if you aren't living well above your means.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 06:04 PM
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A male succubus is called an incubus.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 05:51 PM
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I actually don't mind working part-time, even if it's just an excuse to get out of the house. Still, people have pointed out that there's a difference between wanting to work a job and having some choice over your hours and occupation versus having to work a job that you hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 05:41 PM
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Unless you are a nepo baby who was born into the world with a silver spoon in your hand. It's almost impossible for men below a certain age to have made enough money to support a traditional lifestyle in the West. Oftentimes, these men have given up decades to build their empire.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 08:06 AM
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What's funny to me is that I've seen women simeoutaneously complain and swear off dating broke dudes again after their partners piggybacked off of them to save money on rent or "suddenly came up short" on date nights but they will also disapprove of age gap and overseas dating due to the complete financial control they have over them even though its the only way to make a traditional marriage work, since women claim that most men aren't making enough to purse them. Now we are stuck in a limbo of…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 03:48 AM
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Having a respectable career field has always been important to women, but it doesn't mean you are shit out of luck without it. Sometimes the guarantee of financially stability is enough whether its due to being a nepo baby, inheriting old money, or in my case getting lucky and investing in property when the housing market exploded and now owns more money than I can burn. Not having to work for a living also means my future partner doesn't have to either if they are suffering from burnout out or …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 03:06 AM
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If women would never do the things they would eventually complain about, 99% of their problems would be solved. Tired of men not offering commitment, start withholding sex. Don't want to be pestered about sex after a guy buys dinner or feel guilty about it, go for coffee. Don't want to conform to "Patriarchy" beauty standards, don't wear makeup, and try to pull the hottest guy you can find.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 10:21 PM
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Well, if we are being honest, eventually they do. After he's had his rounds and then he just finds somebody else to screw. Why do you think apps like are we dating the same guy, get used for? Hint: It's not actually about dating...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 09:57 PM
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It's not the ones you didn't. It's the ones you did.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 09:38 PM
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I've made an entire post about this on PPD before. Women only complain about the compromises they have made trying to date the guys they wanted, not the ones they didn't. You can figure the rest out.....
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 08:42 PM
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There has to be a balance. We should work to live not live to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 08:23 PM
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I can't do the whole hypergamous debate again...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 07:52 PM
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Then that's all he needs to hear. Edit: And with all due respect, you would also agree that it's fair that she also shouldn't be angry at him later if he wasn't trying to figure out why she wasn't in the mood or why she was upset since she would normally be receptive towards his advances. Right? Assuming that sex was never meant to be weaponized.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 07:46 PM
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The lack of clear communication or even going completely silent when the guy tries to get her in the mood is, however.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 07:29 PM
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I wish it was just as easy as not being a slob. Women literally require the house to be spotless. A house should be a place to live, not a place to clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 07:06 PM
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The more likely explanation that guys couch surf is because he or she snores or keep tossing and turning in their sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 07:01 PM
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Its pretty much a nonverbal way a woman can tell a man "to go fuck himself." Women are usually more passive aggressive when they get upset after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 06:52 PM
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Not housework specifically. it's the load that they complain about. The essentials such as dishes and laundry take less than 10 to 15 minutes flat. Though kids are a different matter entirely. Women usually expect a higher level of tidiness and cleanliness, so the guy usually compromises to make her happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 06:45 PM
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She gets to make all the financial decisions as well as all the household rules. I.e how often chores should be done and how much money can we spend for recreational activities and restaurants this week. If you want a more extreme example, she might even make him shave his excessive body hair since its a huge turn off during sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 06:36 PM
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Yes, but most women are usually the ones who are rarely content with what they have, even if its enough to survive and live off of. They still dream of bigger and better things and that means pushing their husbands to reach their goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 06:34 PM
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Im fine if both partners dont expect a lot from each other. The issue is when he compromises on how the household runs and contributes just as much as her and doesn't really get anything for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 06:31 PM
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Working 'together' usually means the guy has to compromise on what she wants most of the time. From spending habits to having to "up" their educational degree to cleaning and tidying the house up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 06:27 PM
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"There's no ethical consumption under capitalism, so I guess not." Edit: Plus, I'm a landlord. That means 50 percent of reddit automatically hates me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:45 PM
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Adding to this, its almost ironic how women will blame capitalism for our problems, yet they've done more to drive it by doubling our workforce, which deflated everyones degrees and stagnanted wages. On top of wanting more than everyone else. More income, more handbags, more shoes, more luxuary cars, more expensive houses. Meanwhile, men are content with peace, a Playstation, and a ventilated room.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:34 AM
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Below average men basically don't even exist to women. Its why they talk about how life is unfair for them because the top 0.01 percent of men are sitting on the economic pyramid but don't like to admit hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:09 AM
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From my POV, women usually put men into 3 categories: attractive men, invisible non-men ( which are otherwise known as unattractive men ), and finally, bad men. When an attractive man does something awful to her, she doesn't single him out. She just blames the other boxes with sweeping generalizations.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 11:46 PM
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They want men who can live up to their idea of masculinity even if its smoke and mirrors. A buff and sensitive guy can be 6'3, but women will still lie to themselves and believe they will protect them from harm when the time comes. They want the thrill, risk, and easy money that comes with marrying a drug dealer but not the implications and consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 11:18 PM
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They are both honest about biological truths.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 10:40 PM
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Everyone has a limit. Even a dog gets tired of being kicked. The same woman who complained about an emotionally immature guy suddenly snapping was probably the one who pushed him over the edge.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 10:36 PM
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Average r/relationship_advice comment
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 10:01 PM
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R/Petfree would like to disagree with you. The messaging is spot on, though. Nobody hears from the firefighters, the doctors, and about the cops who died protecting and serving us, only the ones who abused their position and power.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 09:37 PM
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They also won't be the ones doing the approaching since society has told us that men are concerned about a possible rejection, whereas women are concerned about their safety. In a way, this self-fulfilling prophecy means that the people you intentionally or unintentionally meet are either sociopaths who don't care about violating your space or psychopathic pick mes who are probably worse than the most autistic black pill incel who are at the very least honest about who they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 09:14 PM
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I often see women complaining about men who "trade in" their wives once they're older, but they never use these scenarios that OP describes as the reason their marriage broke down, such as a dead bedroom and women feeling burnt out by their careers which meant they weren't contributing as much financially anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 01:11 PM
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Never admit you are inexperienced at dating or in bed to a woman unless you want a sexless marriage, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 12:52 PM
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Is it too hard to even pretend to like the guy and even throw him some pity sex though? Most people aren't even asking for half of what Chad got, just to be seen and heard and not have their feelings and wants dismissed entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 11:57 AM
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As a beta buxx, money is your only leverage. It's definitely a very dangerous game to play for those who don't have prior dating experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 11:54 AM
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OP isn't being accusatory. He's just pointing out what happens when 2 people do end up committing, which PPD and Reddit always seem to insist is never a bad thing. If you agree with OP, then guys might as well go red pill, with their options being used for sex or being used for their wallet.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 11:52 AM
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It's not that the guy is autistic and doesn't have feelings. It's that she doesn't care if he does because she sees the relationship as a mother and son dynamic due to the lack of physical attraction. There doesn't have to be a victim in the story here. The guy pretty much walked into the one-sided relationship himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 11:39 AM
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This comment deserves more up votes. Women are always the first to point out that women don't need men anymore so if marriage used to be about survival, now its for fun as monogamous and committed LTR relationships become more and more rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 11:27 AM
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Women consume more erotica and some of the men they've imagined and brought to life would literally require several plastic surgeries to even exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 11:13 AM
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The biggest difference is that average men aren't the ones choosing their partners at the end of the day. As a result, it doesn't matter if they are hypergamous or not. It has no effect when it comes to dating, and having an OF only makes you look even more pathetic and desperate to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 01:01 AM
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That's the difference. OF is basically a guys virtual fantasy, and even then, everyone ridicules them for thinking they've ever had a chance in the first place. Nothing ends up happening in most situations unless we hear about how someone got their organs harvested on the news after a meet-up went wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 12:56 AM
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The whole analogy is absurd. The man knows that he is chasing after a woman he is never going to catch, when she's behind a virtual screen and name with her face masked or blurred out. Women are literally putting Chad before her kids and forming situationships knowing full well that he's not going to commit until he loses his harem.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 12:38 AM
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You also have to remember that modern women don't believe in "patriarchal beauty standards" anymore, and the so-called OF models might have been the same women who grew up in the 80's and 90's. I interact with some of these women who take better care and pride in their appearance in their 50's. Now, the default look is RBF.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 12:22 AM
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Yeah, to me, wishing for someone's unprecedented execution isn't synonymous with being a good person in my book, even more so when it's about forcing others to align with your supposedly good virtues. It has less to do with the liberal values and beliefs, although I find it hypocritical at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 06:00 PM
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I wouldn't have even had an issue if she wanted him dead, but the issue was that she also wanted me to be fully on board with her. Wishing for someone's death seems like it would be detrimental to anyone's mental well-being, and that's coming from a frequent PPD viewer.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 05:24 PM
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You can hate Trump as a person. You can disagree with his policies. You can even break up with the person who isn't on the same political spectrum, but you can't be two-faced about it and still expect to be shocked when the other guy is just as mindblown thought they were marrying a different person. Not to mention that she was raised with liberal values having attended college in the U.S as a Chinese foreigner but still had parents who approved of a more conservative relationship( no sex before…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 05:12 PM
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Yeah they're missing the looks. An unattactive man thay displays confidence is called a creep. Its like that acceptable vs unacceptable workplace behavior meme. As for myself, I have even had it happen to me even without approaching a female coworker.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 04:45 PM
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Ive dated a really sweet girl up to the point she wanted Trumps assassination attempt to work and made jokes about the ploy failing. When I didn't fully agree she confronted me about it. Everyone, including her parents and friends said the same thing about her. Unfortunately culture wars has gone to the point that holding different beliefs is akin to being a terrible person.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 04:22 PM
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And now, a lot of these women working in the tech field are complaining that their jobs are getting outsourced by Indians and Asians. It's almost like diversity and inclusiveness are great( when the person asking for it benefits). The same applies to a lot of public spaces, too. Men can't have male only avenues because that would be sexual discrimination, but women can. Meanwhile, every time I go to my public swimming pool. It's always the women who are complaining that they shouldn't have to sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 02:03 AM
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The issue with the last part is that it doesn't really change the status quo. It's a whole nothing burger, so to speak. We either do our best to cope by accepting that nothing good will ever happen to us and that being single is actually great or we turn bitter and start finding ways to exploit the other person in a relationship who "we're too good for" as much as possible when he can't find someone we think we deserve. Which is what failing to choose better usually entails. Hurt people hurt oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 01:26 AM
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Women weaponize mental illness and trauma for being terrible partner or other shitty behavior all the time. Next, you'll be telling me that staying single is a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 12:32 AM
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This is why I like to say. If you want 100 percent honestly from a woman, talk to a prostitute. They'll tell you exactly how much you are worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 11:15 PM
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I hate to tell you this, but the early stages of dating usually involve some form of manipulation and bluffing - which is a nicer way of saying lying, a lot of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 11:08 PM
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Men aren't the choosers. We are the beggars. The current top post says it all. You would have to cherry one picture out of 50 to find an overweight and slobbish looking guy to prove that men don't need to be in shape or have a sense of style to find a partner. Edit: That's not even mentioning that mental illness is rising in women at 3x the rate of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 10:58 PM
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Im more surprised by how awful these shots are for all the shit I have heard men get for being unphotogenic. Several women have multiple eye bags, awful close ups you'd think they were taken during a hangover, and a lot carry expressions ranging from disinterested to unstable. I've seen better dressed and looking women who were homeless crack whores. Though I suppose they would be solely relying on their looks to survive given their desperate circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 10:19 PM
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I don't deny that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 08:20 PM
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A man who is willing to put up with that behavior isn't a man with options.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 07:37 PM
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The women complaining about the guys' harem are rarely happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 07:35 PM
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Most men would rather stay in a shitty and abusive relationship than be alone. Even incels aren't complaining that women are terrible to them; they're complaining they can't attract anyone within a thousand-mile radius. You can call them entitled or w/e, but it's not that same kind of deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 07:30 PM
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How is it a revenge fantasy? She is the one laughing all the way to the bank. The actual non-hypothetical nice guy is the one who has to deal with the baggage they put her through, as well as feeding and taking care of kids that aren't his for zero thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 07:27 PM
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"If incels weren't smelly misogynists with bad personalities that blamed women all the time, they'd be in a relationship." Meanwhile, women are admitting they settled for the stable guy when their past abusive relationships didn't work out, even though the sex was great, and now they're living in a dead bedroom as roommates, and not couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 07:22 PM
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The reverse happens when women are ready to settle, and that's only when they've run out of other options.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 07:13 PM
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We’re just saying stop prioritising looks and other materialistic traits so much that you ignore giant red flags and then whine about how all men are rotten.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 07:02 PM
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I saw a post yesterday on relationship advice concerning a husband whose wife settled through and through. The bedroom was completely dead, and she spent her free time writing a book about all the exciting sex she used to have with her toxic exes instead. When kids need to be taken care of and bills need to be paid, women will tolerate their partner, since everyone needs a retirement fund. That's where the alpha fuxx / beta buxx comes into play.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 07:00 PM
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And these are the new generation of men we are creating. Starting from the men who promise women commitment only to pump and dump them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 01:34 AM
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Even if you managed to filter out autistic men from your gene pool, what makes you think they aren't masking other sociapathic and psychopathic tendancies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 01:25 AM
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Sure, you technically could be faithful when you are tempted with hundreds of options, but why wouldn't you? YOLO, and Dating apps and the rise of hookup culture have made it easier than ever to cheat behind your partner's back. While it's true that not all Chad's are abusive cheaters, you can still discern that this is occurring in a lot of female adjacent spaces if you know how to read between the lines. I can even give you some examples if you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:19 AM
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Yay to single motherhood. The kids definitely won't grow up damaged due to the lack of a father figure for guidance or even physically or sexually abused by their moms new bf x 10, who are the real winners of the gene pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:01 AM
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Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 11:51 PM
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How many of these women are divorced single moms with multiple baby daddy's that still have ridiculously high standards who put the kids first, household responsibilities second, and sex last.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 11:50 PM
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If you admit that more attractive guys get preferential treatment Then you acknowledge that the best way to get a date is by improving one's looks or financial status rather than his personality. Being an attractive guy means you don't have to work on your personality anymore; you can get laid even if you're a raging misogynist or a cheater or even a child molester in some cases. In conclusion, you might as well be advocating for red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 11:44 PM
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I don't see how you can be a blue-pilled man and not see any issues. Forget about being your authentic self and work on making yourself more attractive. Then, women will not only want you to approach and make the first move but also let you get away with being an asshole or other kinds of misconduct that would get an uglier man dumped. Once again though, I wouldn't really have an issue if you called yourself red pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 11:31 PM
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And women never go on tirades about "where the good men are" or "talk about the bar being in hell" with nasty generalizations about men afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 11:19 PM
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Nowadays, hot women have no filter anymore due to society telling them the hottest shit around and that even showing basic courtesy makes you feminine, compromising, and weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 11:14 PM
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I've dated a woman who was considered well below average; she even admitted as much herself. I was happy to take her out and treat her, given my limited options as a guy who was also mid at best and letting my money talk. To me, pursuing attractive women feels like a waste of time if she doesn't show genuine interest. It feels like she's tolerating me while I'm wasting their time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 11:09 PM
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Women will complain that men are only after sex, and that it's the reason they're struggling in the dating market. While reminiscing about a guy she met during an orgy after she's had kids and gotten married after she's settled down, resulting in a completely dead bedroom. While also simultaneously blaming the guy for missing his only window to have fun. Can't make this shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 11:02 PM
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If he does not care about getting rejected or feel ostracized from the previous failed attempts, he can eventually find someone that's down to do the deed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 10:11 AM
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That depends on when they want to have fun and when they want to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 03:07 AM
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Great read with very unbiased responses throughout!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 02:41 AM
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There's no way of knowing which of those are down for ONS's, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 02:32 AM
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Interesting...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 02:31 AM
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There's nothing wrong with these takes, I just don't understand why male sexuality is seen as immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 01:52 AM
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Forgive me for not wanting to get profiled online then.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 01:29 AM
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Even a blue pill woman on another post earlier said they didn't do coffee...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 01:28 AM
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"Paid sex is grape" unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 01:22 AM
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Some women are so terrified of rejecting a guy. Asking for a hookup is practically grape.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 01:17 AM
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Well, the guy wouldn't be screaming if he didn't have to foot the bill after the 7th failed date...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 01:12 AM
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And if it works, what about then?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 01:09 AM
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Comments that were popularized into memes and often reiterated on Reddit are: "Men only want one thing, and it's disgusting." "Men will fuck anything." "Dick is cheap."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 01:07 AM
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Hookups aren't meant to be that deep for both parties involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 01:04 AM
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I'd say it's unlikely since hookups are starting to happen in even patriarchal societies such as China and Japan, but I guess we'll never really know.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 01:03 AM
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Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 01:00 AM
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I've only used real examples that were said by other women online.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 12:59 AM
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I CANNOT read a woman's mind. Trying to hook up with a woman who doesn't want sex is like asking to grape her. HOWEVER, only I am at fault, even though there may be one woman out of a million who is down for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 12:57 AM
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They are by no means a small subgroup. Plenty of redditors rebuke guys for trying to hook up with their friend who was like a brother to them or valuing someone for their body rather than who they are as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 12:50 AM
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And I'm assuming most of these guys are still having casual sex with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 12:46 AM
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Because the definition is so broad: "Lying about penis size is grape" "Chad lying about offering commitment for sex is grape." "Having sex with someone who consented before or after getting drunk is grape."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 12:44 AM
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In layman's terms, I swallow the blue pill. I shot my shot until the millionth girl who didn't reject me finally said yes. However, I've made so many women uncomfortable along the way by asking them out, I've practically "graped" them. Is this immoral or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 12:40 AM
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Well, pardon my hyperbole, but talking to 3 to 4 guys simultaneously is still a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 12:32 AM
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So, if it doesn't work out, he's a creep, and if it does, it's a success story? Never mind the fact that some woman will call him out for it anyway, since it wasn't 100% consensual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 12:31 AM
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From Googles AI: Sexually transmitted disease (STD) rates are on the rise, particularly for gonorrhea, syphilis, and chlamydia, with some areas showing a slowing of the increase in congenital syphilis. Between 2020 and 2023, STD diagnoses increased by 4.8% overall, with the greatest increases seen in the 65 and older age group. While overall STI rates in the US dropped by 1.8% in 2023, compared to 2022, this decrease was not seen in all STDs. How else would you explain this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 12:23 AM
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It depends on the type of woman you are trying to attract.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 12:21 AM
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The question is, where do you draw the line between seduction and manipulation? A lot of women admit that they'll drop their pants for someone funny, but how do you know it wasn't an insidious ruse?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 12:16 AM
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Sure, if it isn't a one-sided relationship that involves chasing her like a lost puppy while she texts 20 other guys at the same time, I'd be fine with playing the long game.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 12:10 AM
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I agree with most of your takes, but do you agree that a man trying to get sex is no less immoral in a society that gives it to the "right" kind of man?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 12:05 AM
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It's easy to believe in the just world fallacy when life is working out. Never mind the fact that these people are usually one divorce / breakup away from going full red pill. I've seen it happen all the time online and IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 11:20 PM
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He was being sarcastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 07:49 PM
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It's a turn-on if you're a woman; it's disgusting and creepy if you're a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 07:46 PM
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Yeah, you could say that Redditors in general are not the most well-adjusted and lack good social skills since we spend most of our time online.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 01:27 AM
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Women are aware of it too, but for most of them, it's all plausible deniability until they stop getting what they want, then they go full mask off.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 01:12 AM
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It all goes back to the saying that the juice is hardly worth the squeeze.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 04:00 PM
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That's why I'm somewhat of a black-pill-ed person. I have the body type of an endomorph, which means I can build muscle easily, but it's also hard for me to lose weight as easily. When people, especially women, look at me, they don't assume I'm strong or athletic, even though I've worked in plenty of strenuous blue-collar fields like delivery or construction; all they think about me is that I'm a lazy slob. Planning my calories or cutting would require me to track my daily calorie intake for the…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 01:29 PM
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They're not good looking to us because 70 percent are overweight / obese. If they drop the excess pounds, they have the best eurocentric features of all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 01:48 AM
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What is this false equivalence lmao. Be an emotional tampon and use your energy to help me work through my unresolved problems or Ill view you as useless trash that should die in a ditch.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 12:15 AM
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Yep, that's what I broke things off. They were depressed every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:42 PM
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Most relationships start as a platonic one. Regardless, it doesn't change that they don't want to hear it, and even feminist women will all regress to their gender roles when they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:34 PM
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There's a difference between telling me about my day and ruining my day by telling me how depressed you are all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:23 PM
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I'd be fine if they were willing to reciprocate, but then I'd give them the ick or be told that "I need to get over it," which would be the default advice when men have problems they want to discuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:17 PM
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I couldn't agree more. It's crazy how many married women complain online about their husbands' "trauma dumping" them, when woman I've just met will talk to me about their shitty ex - boyfriends, shitty family, and forcing me into agreeing with whatever political ideology they believe in( Just because I didn't necessarily wish Trumps head was blown off, doesn't mean I like him ).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:02 PM
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Not very often. It's hard to fantasize about a woman when you know you will likely never see her again. Having a niche fetish or 'type' doesn't help either, when I'll never know her personally. I don't care what she wears (if I'm being honest, the best woman looks naked unless she's obese). I don't understand what you mean by being in a relationship. Do you mean with her, or when I'm already in a current one? Either way, I cannot answer this hypothetical scenario because I do not know. IMO, the …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 10:50 PM
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Your last comment reminds me of the episode Homer Simpson's wife turned into Homer.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 03:52 PM
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It's usually the other way around. Chad will never commit and most women prefer a stable partner after their "hoe phase" is over so it's usually the beta provider who gets divorced after she wants to go back to enjoying good dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 01:21 AM
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I can only assume they're "looksmatch" is dating them but I can't assume that that haven't seen significantly more attractive guys hanging with mid to above average looking girls. Make what you will out of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 03:55 PM
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As long as you aren't the same woman complaining about skid marks from poor wipers or men who don't put any effort in the relationship because she can take it or leave it. Then that's fine by me. Just dump them instead of complaining about how the bar is in hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 03:49 PM
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When has morals ever mattered? The only crime is getting caught.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 03:41 PM
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They will still date up, but refuse to have to have any more kids or marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:30 AM
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Take my upvote.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 04:09 PM
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There are blue pill men who don't believe in the just world fallacy? I didn't know they even existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 03:58 PM
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Except when woman come home from a long day at work as a boss babe. Then they want to be pampered and taken care of by a masculine guy, as I stated above.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 12:34 AM
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Generally, a masculine-presenting competent woman tends to seek out partners who fit into their masculine gender roles even more than they do, or what I call raising the bar, so to speak. If she, a strong and independent woman, can do anything he can do, what does she even need him for? A so-called house husband isn't going to make her feel any more feminine unless he's 6'4, extremely extroverted, or has a great face or physique, so what's stopping her from cheating on him with her boss or divor…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:34 PM
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My only question is why Ozempic hasn't solved the biggest dating barrier yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 02:46 PM
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I full-heartedly agree, I also don't care that women don't care about men's dating struggles, but I wish they at least had the decency to stop using their "loneliness" as a gotcha every time a woman feels threatened by a man in an entirely different context. Even if men collectively fucked off and never bothered them again, they'd still find something to complain about like men going overseas or "creating a hostile work environment when men stop interacting with them entirely."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 01:52 AM
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Circumstances can always change no matter how affluent or successful you currently are with Ai taking over our jobs and skyrocketing housing, unless you suggest only millionaire having kid's and even then it's not a guarantee he's financially set for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 05:44 PM
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Well we all need to be weened. That's undeniable. My immigrated parent's were looked after even less. Only food and shelter was provided.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 04:29 PM
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It doesn't change what I said. One accident could lead to a medical bill that leaves you strapped.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 04:27 PM
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What's wrong with letting baby teeth rot 🤷‍♂️, they fall off eventually, and it never seemed to bother me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 04:13 PM
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My mum and pop didn't do 3/4th of the things you suggested. This sounds like coddling and being a helicopter parent. And no, they weren't bad in any way, they helped if I asked, but I was allowed to make my own decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 04:11 PM
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From what I summarized, she is talking about the kids who grew up with a mom who cleaned up after them, and that they'll pay for a maid, but not their wives. I find their statement completely illogical because: 1.) Adults are responsible for cleaning up after themselves, but one person, usually the wife, has a higher standard of cleanliness. If you married a man-child, that's on you. 2.) Her services are completely rendered upon divorce. If you want your husband to pay you to clean, make him do …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:49 PM
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It all depends on the narrative, like you said. Take abortion, for example. China has a long history of prioritizing male heirs and eliminating unwanted Muslim groups, such as the Uyghurs, through abortion. The practice is also forced onto victims of sex traffickers, but you only hear about the woman who suffered because they couldn't get one, not the ones who were forced to get one against their will.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:37 AM
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No, it's more akin to toxic femininity, which leads to toxic masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:14 AM
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By not allowing a man to express weakness unless he wants his words twisted and used against him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 04:19 AM
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It's never phrased like that. Here's a good example. For some woman who are strongly against porn, the jealously is just manifested as a means to get them to stop spending money on OF and prostitutes and spoil them instead. It's never the cheating part that bothers them, which is why in countries such as Japan, seeing a prostitute isn't considered infidelity because the wife of the household manages the finances, so in conclusion, he's allowed to do whatever he wants with his allowance.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 04:17 AM
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I do see young couples walking by my street, but I'm also assuming: - They aren't blood-related brothers and sisters - The dude isn't just a friend - The woman in question isn't dating multiple guys or spinning plates. - One breakup won't change everything (at least I hope not). - Everyone goes outside often. I'm a landlord, and we have tenants who will only leave the house for DoorDash and Garbage Day. Some, I don't even remember what they look like. And for the record, I've seen good-looking g…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:53 AM
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When they get annoyed by your "trauma dumping" at best or lose interest entirely after you share a vulnerable moment about yourself, and oftentimes, they'll even use it against you in an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:11 AM
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Regardless if it was extremely respectful or mildly direspectful. In what world would that be an appropriate response? I've done shitty things like accidentally cutting in line or grabbed someone else's suitcase by mistake and nobody has caused me out or spread false rumours about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:22 AM
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Can't use dating apps, can't cold aporoach, can't complain whenever a woman rants about men after she dates a scumbag because you'll be called a nice guy, can't complain about being alone or you're an incel, can't complain about being friendzoned for the rest of your life, can't date abroad or you're exploiting disadvantaged woman, and you can't hire a prostitute or you're a John. What exactly is a man supposed to do without getting rejected exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:02 AM
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That alone would solve 99% of men's problems on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 04:16 PM
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Reads like satire to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 09:38 PM
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My aunt does this. She dates Chads but doesn't marry them. Since her house is bigger, he comes over for family activities during the weekend. It's also a great way to pay less taxes since married couples have to pay more, like abaxeron said, but this will of course disincentivize marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 09:31 PM
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Sex is part of a healthy relationship. I don't see why it's suddenly taboo when men want it when woman can choose whoever to sleep with without prejudice. Even sexual incompatility is a perfect valid reason for a woman to dump someone. It's impossible to appreciate a "friend" when everyone around you sees you as competition, even her girl friend's can remain protective over her and try to grab her attwntion. It's fun for her, not fun for anybody else. Why do people marry each other when their ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 04:01 PM
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What people are willing do for their friend's is different than how far they are willing to go for their partner. Heck I'd even go as far to say that what I do for my close family member's is different than what I'm willing to do for my distant cousins. Saying I don't care about my crushes feelings is just laying out a crazy assumption. Would you appreciate it if your (future) husband suddenly gave his female coworker or colleague a crazy expensive gift that he never gave to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 03:38 PM
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Some people don't want to wait year's for "something" to happen in a platonic friendship and have to deal her friend's and then her friend's friends. If I want my favorite brand of ice cream, I don't want to browse the entire store first just to find out they were out of stock.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 03:20 PM
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"We can still stay friends." Is the biggest lie people have ever told.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:50 PM
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But if "you didn't do those said things," you never really loved her. Men are only ever fools they can never be manipulated /s
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:46 PM
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Not everyone wants to be part of a big friend's group when: they are busy doing other or more important things, the person has a low social battery( and they already interact with a lot of people at work ), or they might npt always get along with her friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:38 PM
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This mentality is more common in Eastern woman, which of course is fine with all due respect although you'd be called a gold digger in the West. Not that it's any different from getting screwed in a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 06:21 PM
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Pretty woman don't have to pay for drinks and hot guys don't have to pay for sex. What else is new?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 06:05 PM
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True.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:39 PM
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Just visit any Asian country and you'll be showered with praise and affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:03 PM
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I mentioned bodybuilder physiques as well. In the West, I find that high-value women value a low body fat percentage rather than overall strength.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:00 PM
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The people who didn't find success dropped out of dating rather than resorting to these desperate measures.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 09:47 PM
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Social media, simps, and filters have told women who are 4 - 5's at best on a good day they are all 10's.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 07:53 PM
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Guy gets divorced out of the blue after being happily married for 20 year's - his fault or he had it coming Woman marries a criminal or even a repeat offender - She was manipulated by him - even though he was still in prison... and had a rap sheet of charges on his public record.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 11:18 PM
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I've actually started seeing less fat men and women after Ozempic became popular or maybe it's just me. I think the reason some woman aren't as visibly disgusted by fat men is because guy's can pack a lot of weight but also muscle if they work a blue collar field and since most men are taller than women, they have better fat distribution and look more proportionate. If you are fat while being short and weak, it's definitely not going to look good for you though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 11:24 AM
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i.e vote for Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 04:20 PM
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Sure, but I find that woman tend to be a lot more dishonest about preferences then they care to admit. Although I am purely using my ancededotal evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 05:39 PM
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I didn't say they were attracted to it, I said they were willing to look past it under specific circumstances. And I'm sure you know what those circumstances are...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:41 PM
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Everyone wants a caring and thoughtful partner but when it comes to a guy they like, it's on the bottom of the bucket list. They'll even go as far as to blame other people for their shit. See Twoxchromosomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 02:32 PM
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What are "not all men" supposed to do when these guy's have charismatic qualities but terrible character?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 01:01 PM
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We're not mad about woman having more options. We are mad when these woman have the power to choose responsibly but decide to pick the most superficial guy's they find and then blame men who would never find a date in their lifetime for their struggles. Even when some of them, although not all of them, are decent. These people shouldn't dare complain either, or they will be "nice guys" or incels. It's the oasis vs desert comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 02:38 PM
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People just need to learn to treat prostitutes with kindness and respect and avoid overstepping boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 12:31 PM
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It depends on what they are seeing them for. Is it a guy who has a niche fetish they are too embarrassed to explore with anyone else or someone who wants a traditional / chaste wife while they refuse to do the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 02:31 AM
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You can have whatever standards you want, pretending that you have no control over the kind of men you are choosing( usually men who are hot and tall but also, distant, abusive, and not self - aware) however, is dodging accountability. Unless you really want to believe that woman are eternal children like Republicans, but even I think most are just using plausible deniability. Source: My aunt, but she didn't become a raging misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 09:11 PM
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I agree. I would assume that there's also an appeal towards dating or going somewhere that's considered "novelty."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 03:38 AM
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We can either blame or thank year's of generational poverty and caste divides for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 03:24 AM
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Luckily, I'm an exception then...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 05:38 PM
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And people say PBB's will only find materialistic woman. Remind me how western woman are any different.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 02:22 PM
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Yet the bar is in hell apparently... Not that I disagree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 02:17 PM
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At the same time, money in these countries directly tie into status and people who are seen as upper level are viewed as more attractive. As someone who is an American Asian by descent and went back as a PBB, people automatically treat me nicer.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 01:38 PM
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Of course they did; you could argue that the mother's life was more important than both. No mother = no more babies. So, it would be a lot harder to replace the existing numbers, and in life-or-death situations, people would rather throw the baby at a man-eating predator as a sacrifice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:48 PM
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Prehistorically, we lived shorter lives, and there were always immediate threats from bloody wars, food shortages, and disease. Finding a spouse was more about survival and giving birth to a father's legacy to ensure the tribespeople didn't die out. This explains why poorer countries like Palestine have higher birth rates and why most women do not actually like cohabiting with men unless they have something to offer them that they can't already get.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:51 PM
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The route he chose locked the optional side quests he needed, made him lose the respect of his companions, lost to the boss encounter( cause he got fired )，and as a result he ended up with the worst ending in the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:00 PM
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It's like he picked the worst possible dialogue options in an RPG.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 11:54 PM
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Of course, it doesn't. The comic is just me explaining why the least attractive and most attractive human species tend to have negative views about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 11:01 PM
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Assuming that they honestly believe that selling sex is empowering. Otherwise, they are only lying to themselves, and the fact that most have troubled childhoods/trauma proves this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 10:59 PM
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What if I told you that being poor doesn't mean you can't have self respect and dignity. Unlike the woman in the U.S who promote their onlyfans and expose themselves for a few dollars each month. I can also tell you that most men who spend year's learning a different language and relocating aren't doing it just to get the cheapest sex they can find or they'd all just be going to hotspots like Thailand.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 10:21 PM
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Here's a retconned meme explaining why, the ugly blackpill incel is on the left and chad is to the right: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 08:57 PM
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I made a small mistake but I'm not sure why it invalidates my argument though. You don't think year's upon year's of human conditoning has an effect on us, like how most of us prefer grilled meat over meat that been boiled even though they same the calorie density（if not moreso). Or do you honestly believe it's all just a coincidence that our species survived through sheer luck rather than what our ancestors did?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 05:35 PM
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Woman can ask out guy's who are too shy to directly approach but shows signs of interest. While they can also lie about their true intentions, letting woman take the initiative can allow them to decide how fast or slow they want the relationship to go, assuming they are both interested in getting to know each other. Atleast then, they can't claim they were being misled. The HRT theory was suggested by the person who replied above me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 05:32 PM
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You forget that woman can also choose to stay single and that men who are rated as a 6 or 7 are not automatically guaranteed a 5 or a 6. Men still have to compete with other 6 and 7's and 8 and 9's can still string her along with a carrot and stick. Another is the oppurtunity cost involved if you are man below a solid 9. Which is having to court the woman - risk rejection, entertain them - put in a lot of work unless you are a natural, and wine and dine them - spend money on them. To show them t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 05:27 PM
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Stop caring what I think then. I'm just a random guy you will never see again.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:07 PM
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I'm not offended by her choice or anyone else's for that matter. She was the one who took it like a personal attack by making it seem like men hated woman who chose to remain( when most don't ) so I responded the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:18 PM
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In summary, OP is red pilled enough that they admit that HVM are rare / taken / unfaithful but also too black pilled to ever do more than complain( rather than increasing her value ) like most black pilled incels or whatnot. So... she proposes that men start taking these complaints up the ass and stop offering solutions or start hopping on anabolics steroids and inject these compounds in their ass so they have a good physique and face, thus making them more attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:00 PM
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The issue is that being too politically involved in either the left or right will warp people's views into believing what the best course of action is at the time will be the best option all the time, while ignoring all forms of nuance and cause all sorts of unintentional consequences. Just because I can am sympathetic to woman who are uncomfortable having to deal with unwanted attention from creepy or intimidating men, I also think the idea that we should "just leave them alone" doesn't really …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 11:03 PM
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It makes sense from an evolutionary perspective. No more than 100,000 year's ago, men were still Neanderthals engaging in tribal warfare and hunting mammooths. Without men to help woman hunt and defend themselves, our species would have went extinct. At the same time, mortality rates were high and it was easy for men to die fighting other tribes or through disease. Getting overly attached to their husband in this case, would only be detrimental to their survival as a whole. In other words, we ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 06:35 PM
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tldr: Men are abusive because they have been entitled to woman for a very long time. Expecting anything out of them like cleaning, cooking, and even producing a heir is narcissisic or abusive behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 10:34 PM
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Only if you firmly believe that men have had it good for too long and that they should count their blessings for even having a woman around them. Much less expect anything out of them. That of which, isn't a very uncommon take in reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 10:17 PM
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It's more like: Women thinks all men are covert abusers With that in mind, they decide they might as well pick the hottest guy they can land Hot guy's, even those who were semi decent before don't even have to try anymore to get laid / a partner and become complacent Self fulfilling prophecy becomes true
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 09:12 PM
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That only works if woman are the one's who are asking men out. You are looking at numerators when it's about denominators.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 08:27 PM
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Adress your fellow women who think that all PBB want to go overseas to exploit them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 08:24 PM
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I think another reason why these statistics may be skewed is that woman are still in a LTR with men without getting formally recognized as one. Woman like my overachieving aunt, can still choose between top tier men in their late 50's without having to commit and go through the hassle of filing taxes jointly and having to paying more. Whether or not the reason is petty is subjective. Dumping someone because they ate food in a uncivilized manner might seem reasonable but I just found it wild that…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 08:23 PM
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You'd be lucky to find someone with 3 of these qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 02:17 AM
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I'd like to see fewer TwoXChromosome posts in my feed. Is that a good reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 03:39 AM
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And they won't even consider turning their offer down if they are the idealized guy they meet in their dreams. 50 Shades of Grey is extremely popular for a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:37 PM
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We're both talking about a million to one hypothetical scenarios then...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 06:50 PM
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10 isn't a good sample size.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 05:11 PM
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And most woman I've dated briefly have had celebrity crushes. What recourse do you think they will take if they actually fell in love with them, however unlikely?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 05:09 PM
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This is why I'm always baffled when woman claim they don't prioritize looks as much as men. They only start settling for a stable and average looking guy after hoeing around so much, that even top tier sex with "genetically blessed" guys becomes stale.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 04:33 PM
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And people say red pill is too extreme, wtf kind of take is this lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 03:26 AM
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If my date isn't picky about the restaurant, I won't mind paying for her time. Just don't expect me to empty my wallet. I also plan on having dinner at the end of our date, so I'm not just her free meal ticket. If I had an overall terrible time, we are both going to be enjoying street food.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 03:22 AM
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Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 03:01 AM
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What about raising a child from another surrogate then? I guarantee you she still wouldn't be happy with that outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 02:52 AM
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This is what happens when society becomes too tolerant. Nobody is allowed to call anyone out and as a result, nobody feels guilt, shame, or fear for immoral behavior anymore and everyone engages in degeneracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 02:32 AM
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I just used FDS as an example. Overall, PPD has no effect on women besides them getting offended.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 01:56 AM
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But that's what I meant. FDS users and some women only see men as high value or scrotes. They might not necessarily care about their choices as a whole. But if a below-average man is hooking up with a woman that's a solid 7 or 8, they get angry and think there must be a reason she is with him, i.e. money, because now, her value is at stake due to the new power imbalance.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 01:46 AM
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Yeah, fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 01:22 AM
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I don't think my suggestion was that far-fetched. A lot of women, especially FDS users are the ones talking about how valuable men are to them and the NTLOG subreddit is about 5x as big as r / white knighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 01:19 AM
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The issue is that gold diggers in the U.S. demand princess treatment without being one, and instead only see you as a peasant. If I'm going to spend a lavish amount of money on her, I'd rather be treated like a king.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 01:11 AM
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The keyword here is some and that applies to women everywhere. I'm not stupid and naive to think I can get a 9 when I'm a 5 after a cut. I've turned plenty of women who agreed to eagerly after they found out my net worth and I always vet properly. Getting a woman isn't always the hard part, it's keeping her, and half your assets when she files for divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 12:59 AM
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But talking about #notallmen and phrases like "the bar is in hell" is ok to you I assume.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 12:52 AM
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It's also insulting to the woman to think that every last one is only after your wallets and cannot think for themselves. Not to mention the double standards at play here. Plenty of guys get fleeced by those "poor misguided" women" and then she'll be telling him he deserved it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 12:44 AM
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I believe the only reason a lot of women shit on PBBs is because they make them look bad when they've spent so much time, money, and effort to avoid marrying someone in their home country. Just like feminists who will denounce FDS but refuse to believe paternity fraud is a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 12:36 AM
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A blue pill man that actually speaks sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:13 AM
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We do a full remodel first. Furnishings, floorboards, and most fixtures are thrown away.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:39 PM
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And when they finally broke off. It was because he wasn't planning on pursuing a higher master's degree, not the awful thing's he did.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:03 PM
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They would be considered overcontrolling or a narcissistic abuser who sees kids as an extension of themselves nowadays. Heck, you'd be called that just for suggesting that it might not be a good idea to let kids decide whether or not they want to start taking puberty blockers with unknown side effects or make life changing gender reassignment surgeries.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:59 AM
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I'm a huge introvert and I can still make friends online and irl. A guy who can't is definitely a walking red flag unless he has a good reason not too, i.e autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:46 AM
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Some people do not learn until they get burnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:25 AM
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Don't rent to people who don't make 6 figures or plan on making 6 figures(aspiring college students) and you won't have to worry again. Source: Landlord.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:24 AM
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My aunt took her shitty ex-husbands side over her own mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:20 AM
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I said the same exact thing on another thread. The same goes for "unicorns."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:05 AM
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It's not woman overlooking red flags, it's blatantly ignoring from my firsthand experiences. Meanwhile ugly dudes have the police called on them just for looking the wrong way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 02:23 PM
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If you are below average in looks as well as money and do not want to die alone, is there really an alternative?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 04:55 AM
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Poverty is the biggest predicator for most of the ills that inhabit this world sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 05:52 PM
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Love is too strong of a word for me personally, but I find that while some souls are darker than other's, nobody can be easily defined as black and white and that evil does not exist within a vacuum.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 05:39 PM
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But that's the thing though. The vast majority of people on Reddit are, for lack of a better word, "low class people". This doesn't mean they are necessarily bad, per se, but they don't lead great and happy lives or they wouldn't be socializing with strangers online. They'd be out there making 6 figures and spending quality time with friend's and family instead. The fact I get downvoted for admitting that I'm a rich and successful landowner says enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 05:21 PM
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Google which may or may not be a reputable source.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:55 PM
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Yes. That's why it has to be the worst kind aka underage, drugged, or forceful. Otherwise, convictions tend to fail because one could always argue that the encounter started off as consensual. Either way I will not take a side and let the law decide.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:49 PM
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There's no correlation whatsoever. The only difference is that ugly people will have fewer relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:47 PM
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They acknowledge they can be shitty while dodging accountability. I.e when a woman commits DV, it's not about what she did, it's what he did.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:45 PM
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Aren't the worst offenders always famous celebrities who can get away with it due to money or connections? I don't know how the average person is able to escape crime and punishment.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:36 PM
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I wholeheartedly agree with you and OP even though the post went on tangents. Most woman who keeps complaining they end up with abusive / low value men are probably not the most well - adjusted people themselves. Mental health issues have tripled in woman since the 90's and no guy who has options would go for them so that only leaves out the trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 12:21 AM
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Red pill tells you how to get a woman, it doesn't tell you how to keep her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:47 PM
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I suggest reading the manga, the flowers of evil. It describes a mundane society that is completely lifeless because everyone is trying to repress their own sexual desire and want for others, so they aren't seen as gross and different. When the MC finally comes to the realization that everyone is that way, he finally has the courage to embrace them and ask the girl in his dreams out. tl;dr Don't be too accommodating to woman by putting them on a pedestal and you can get laid like the manga says.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:45 PM
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Not allowed. Go to the subreddit and scroll down for 5 seconds.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:33 PM
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I just checked it out. Scrolled 5 posts down and it's about how men should shut up about false rape allegations.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:20 PM
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Don't you know only white people can be racist /s
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 10:59 PM
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If there was a subreddit about how annoyed "XYChromosomes" were at the things woman do, it would get taken down within hours, not even a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 10:28 PM
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We all want the best partners. I don't think there's a single person, man or woman, who can deny that they would pick their second-best option if there weren't any tradeoffs involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 10:18 PM
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And it's still up to men to fix other men's problems even though "patriarchy" has been deeply ingrained in us for over a million years and hurts everyone. Not that I'm asking people to care. Just stop practicing what you clearly do not preach.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 07:07 PM
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That's Jewish propaganda for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 06:57 PM
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Which man doesn't want to have a wife who slept her way to the top and be seen as a cuck! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 05:24 PM
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It's more-so about cases that involve hiring a transgender lesbian as a chef firefighter to battle the L.A fires for the sake of diversity rather than merit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:42 PM
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Everyone, except the rich is getting royally fucked right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:31 PM
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Yeah, I hear that a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:27 PM
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I agree with some of their concerns while dismissing others. Would I consider myself an MRA. Nope. I think we're all selfish and conceited so I'm not going to toot my horn and virtual signal into thinking I'm any different. At the same time, I honestly believe most woman and even feminists would also tear each other apart if it came at their benefit. Just look at how many different waves there are who have wildly different connotations of what feminism is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:23 PM
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Sure, you can say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:08 PM
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I hate to say it, but the economy isn't doing that bad right now (unemployment is fairly low) and we saw the stock prices surge after Trumps election. It's still too early to tell what his presidency means.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:53 PM
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That's because you are living a reddit echo chamber. Those issues didn't even make the top 5. Inflation, Housing, Immigration, Crime rates, DEI hiring practices were all bigger reasons. Even trans rights were probably a bigger issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:40 PM
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Most MRA's are not right leaning and supportive of Trump so I don't know where you are hearing this. The voting block between men and woman was also fairly close, and high voter turnout, which was about the same as last year is what cost the Dems the election, not "radicalized" leftists despite what's being shilled on reddit. If anything, most are worried that Trump winning will make men's issues even more obsolete.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:26 PM
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No, it just means vetting / shit testing someone properly and leaving everything you own in someone else's name and trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:11 AM
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Just think of red pill as a temporary fix for a drug addict. It's not supposed to cure your long-term problems, only alleviate them. Most of the woman you meet for hookups are not marriage material. They are hedonistic just like the men seeking them and will jump on someone else's dick if the opportunity presents itself. At the same time, some would say that pursuing a LTR in today's society is also a foolish ordeal. Vows and commitments mean nothing and finding a good woman is like finding a un…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 11:45 PM
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Not disagreeing with you, but do you really think that doing everything right will make her stay. If a better option comes along, she's gone. I've seen it happen firsthand to one of my relatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 11:34 PM
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How many Billy Betabuxes do you know have the time to be abusive or cheat while masking long enough until marriage? Most of the average men you described are likely older men who have a beer gut from working a 9 - 5-day job and losing their hair from financially related stress while still being expected to watch the kids as well as their older grandparents while simultaneously trying to fix shit that breaks in and out of their house like my neighbor and in the end, still gets absolutely trashed …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:35 AM
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Most people that complain are NEETS who rarely go outside except when they're getting door dash.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:09 AM
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And this is why the vast majority of men turn to crime. It's not because they are inherently more violent, it's that there's almost little to no safety net in place when we do fall on hard times.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:05 AM
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The U.S government should just take a page from the U.K and not only legalize prostitution and surrogacy but normalize it rather than stigmatize it. It should be heavily scrutinized, so any abuse is uncovered rather than swept underground like the fiasco that happened in Switzerland. I'm also in favor of letting female STEM majors into our country while restricting access for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:01 AM
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Red pill isn't 2 people...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 10:18 PM
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We're not magicians. We don't have the ability to pull the exact number out of our asses but just know that it works or we wouldn't have come to the same conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 10:07 PM
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Is that really what women are telling themselves? It seems that a lot of the consensus on reddit is that all men are bad / good at hiding their abuse so it's better to just pick a hot guy who doesn't try to hide it at the very least.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:36 PM
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Politics isn't left and right. It's a horseshoe. The far right believes in fascism while leftists believe in communism. The far right is openly racist while the far left believes only white people can be racist. The far right believes Jews control everything while the far left believes white men control everything. You see where I'm going with this...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:32 AM
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It's because getting pumped and dumped doesn't sound as bad even though it can also be traumatizing and make you feel like shit afterwards. For someone to be 100% enthusiastic about sex, they would have to feel good about it before and after. So yeah, if you really want to muddy the waters even bad sex could be rape if you really want to go there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:33 PM
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Happens...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 09:00 PM
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I think the Japanese yandere only stabbed them without outright killing them, but still. Edit: Nvm, I think you were referring to the one smoking a cigarette, that one did.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 03:58 PM
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No, you got it the other way around. Woman just conveniently forget everything else if the guy is hot...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 03:26 PM
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Plenty of female centered subreddits worshipped Luigi Langoni for killing the health insurance CEO.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 02:31 PM
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Most aren't super attractive but they aren't outright repulsive either. Studies have shown that people who end up in prison are actually more likely to have a spouse or kid's compared to non-offenders. Then you have fangirls who obsess over killers who are attractive in their eyes like the current CEO killer, Mario.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 02:22 PM
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Fine, but how many people do you personally know that are able to keep this act up for so long? It's like woman who want abortion for rape / incest, which taken into account, is less than 1% but I'm going off topic here...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:00 AM
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Yeah, feminism is absolutely garbage in this specific regard. They have no problem with being seen as the fairer sex, which was always a widely held view, but you'll never hear them call it benevolent sexism since it fits their agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 05:50 AM
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Did what I say completely slip your mind because that's not what I said at all. You can find a good Chad, but a good Chad isn't going to be the one pumping and dumping woman left and right. He's already found a keeper unlike the rest of the bad ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 05:39 AM
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We aren't living in the 1970's anymore. If you live in a first world country like the U.S, there are so many ways you could support yourself without having to marry. Homeless? Crash at a friend's place or womans only shelter. Disabled or pregnant? Live off government subsidies. Can't find a job? Support yourself by starting a home business or even an OF.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 05:30 AM
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But are the vast majority of shit stains that hard to spot? Heck, even Charles Manson went to jail eventually. My aunt has dated plenty of terrible dudes and just off our brief encounter we had with some of them at dinner, we knew they weren't the kind of folk we wanted again. What most guys mean by choosing better is that woman frequently ignore bad behavior from Chad while getting pissed at ugly dudes for looking at them the wrong way. Although looks alone do not dictate character and that all…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 05:26 AM
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As long as it's as easy as you say then...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 05:03 AM
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Who said it wasn't. If she wants to claim there was, nothing is stopping her from lying but nowadays most women are just walking away with half of everything just because she decided she was bored of their marriage one day. If there are kids or incriminating phone calls / text messages that showed the dude was terrible towards her, I daresay she deserves even more in compensation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 02:48 AM
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If that were true. Why did feminists fight so hard for no fault divorces.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 01:54 PM
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If I wasn't a overweight average looking kid with acne all over my face I absolutely would have pulled.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 02:03 PM
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We aren't even in their metric. The woman who complains about these "guys" are Chads who go around pumping and dumping woman so just leave our name out of your tirades if you must complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:25 AM
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This is why I went the passport route and treat my future marriage prospects like a business transaction. Sure, it's not real love but what honestly is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:15 AM
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Hedonism. Nobody feels obligated to do shit for their partners so they try to extract as much value as they possibly can out of them before leaving them to dry.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:58 AM
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If it were that easy, then sure. What should a guy do when she decides to keep the baby or takes me to court under common law marriages and claim we shared costs and living expenses.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:56 AM
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Can confirm. As the class clown all throughout middle to high school. I was always popular and fun to have around but never the guy girls wanted to date. It's also a lot of work trying to entertain others and when you can't they just go back to Chad who can pull more girls by simply existing. Blue pill is absolute copium and most woman settle eventually anyways so their advice doesn't help at all if you are still young.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:46 AM
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It's like when woman marries a deadbeat who leaves her as a single mom, they'll say they never saw it coming while a dude who gets divorced out of the blue had it coming.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 04:28 PM
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Ugly people get treated like shit IRL no matter how much virtual signaling they do online.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 11:20 PM
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Do you believe in patriarchy then? What about God or the international Jewish control conspiracy?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 11:17 PM
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I mean sure. The author who wrote 50 shades has no issue with unhealthy power dynamics because the dude was the ideal guy you mentioned and most celebrities can get away with sexual misconduct or whatever you want to call it until they are no longer worshipped or relevant but what's your point. Most woman do not mean what they say and even if they did, it's not like everyone would be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:17 PM
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It's definitely a phenomenon I can see happening. There are 3 times more single men than woman yet all I see online are woman complaining about getting cheated on, used for sex, or having to deal with men who are lazy or emotionally stunted. And last but not least, the whole patriarchy debacle.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:18 AM
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I agree that even a shitty relationship is better than dying alone. Hell, I'd even be ok with it, if that was my only option but I have to ask myself whether or not I should be setting this as a good example for not only my friends and family but society as a whole. Aka, I'm not never going full blue pill no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 01:38 AM
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Yes, but what most people desire can be shoehorned into a few immutable things.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 08:30 PM
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I forgot to mention that men are the same way, so forgive me for not clarifying it goes both ways. All relationships should be settled like a business transaction just like how it's done in most Asian countries, which has the lowest rates of divorce although I believe that number is climbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 06:00 PM
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There's no such thing as raw desire unless you really believe in the blue pill. You have to offer something that will make her want you whether it's your assets or your 6 pack.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 05:33 PM
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Yeah, I'm sort of over with how woman love to play dumb when they know what the real answer is. Heck even my mom who's highly intelligent and successful does it sometimes. Call me a misogynist but I see A LOT of them do it over and over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 05:21 PM
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So, just have a red pill mindset? Work on yourself so she's not just handing you pity sex every now and then. If so, I don't disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 05:14 PM
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I think the guy just needs to grow a spine. No way would my mom or I talk to my dad the way they did, just off my brief observations.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 02:58 PM
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Even if the marriage doesn't end in divorce, it's highly likely the blue pill guy gets trashed most of the time by his wife. Call it a personal anecdote if you will, but I've definitely seen my nerdy neighbor get screamed at by his hot bitchy wife whilst I was doing yardwork outside. His son doesn't respect him either, so I don't even know what he has going for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 05:45 AM
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God forbid, some people are born introverted and autistic amirite? Do you think FAW also deserve to die alone because of these shared traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 05:26 AM
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Finally, an honest woman who accepts they would live in an "unfair" country than a country that sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 03:54 AM
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I don't know when society made such a big deal of cold approaching and pushing physical boundaries at best. I'm not saying that unwanted physical contact isn't something people want to experience but I don't understand how it could be traumatizing either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 03:47 AM
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Yeah, I'm not surprised honestly. When it's Stacie's trying to compete for Chad due to supply vs demand. They act just like how most men pursue an average looking woman. Relentlessly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 03:24 AM
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I strongly believe that most transgender people are not born in the wrong body but rather born into a world that ignores their struggles. The fact talking about men's issues gets you labeled as a MRA and furthermore a misogynist is evidence enough, not that I agree with all their talking points. When the only politically correct option is to be another woman yourself, you get a lot of men with internalized self - hate take drastic options.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 03:07 AM
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Chad can also date a sugar mommy and bang his side chick while he's "working" remotely. I highly suspect one of my relatives who aren't blood related might very well be doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 02:54 AM
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Yes, everyone has their own definition of what being honorable means. It cannot work in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 08:32 PM
1

I prefer an honor-based society but I do not believe it can exist unless there are repercussions for violating it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 08:19 PM
1

Yes, yes, and yes. Red pill is correct for the most part. I do not however believe woman are inherently evil for being hypergamous because woman who didn't select men for their best traits were unable to pass genes on or died before doing so. Hate the sin, not the sinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 08:02 PM
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Women aren't solely to blame. Men just want woman to say they want a tall, loaded, and attractive dude but when they do, they still get upset. Attraction for the most part is non - negotiable so you need to find something they are attracted too rather than go on r/short and tell people how horrible your life is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 03:09 PM
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This sums up how I feel about their complaints as well. Inhale as much copium as you want about how happy you and other woman are at embracing singlehood but if you constantly complain about having a bad experience with dating men, it's time to look at the lowest common denominator.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:58 PM
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Yeah, and he doesn't get woman, pussy, and in most cases the chance to pass on his genes or psychopathic and sociopathic people would have been removed from our society years ago. This is just contentless rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:49 PM
1

Happy endings certainly exist too, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 03:02 PM
1

Once you start treating her well, she leaves lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 02:55 PM
3

Regardless, you need something that will attract them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 02:48 PM
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Don't smile a lot, don't approach and glare at her, don't give her too much attention, correct her when she's wrong about something in a demeaning way, act like you have multiple options around her or even bring up a female friend or colleague, etc. I don't have the stomach to be red pill all the time, but it works. The strategy works for all ages too, from back when I was still in high school to attracting milfs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 02:44 PM
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It's not shallow. Men who were in peak athletic form 2 million years were better at hunting mammoths or some shit. Woman who chose these types of men had a better chance of passing their genes on. That very same desire is still coded into their DNA just like men, who usually don't prefer obese woman because they might just eat the entire mammoth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 02:32 PM
3

How many professional Asians players do you see dominating basketball? Most sports are already quite divided.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 01:58 PM
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It's pointless discussing these kinds of hypothetical scenarios that can only exist in some fictional utopia or if every single person on our planet became a devout Catholic. In OP's case, I would even be fine with seeking a LTR with someone who have had hundreds of partners in the past as long as it was "just a phase" or didn't have so much emotional baggage or still talk to their fwb / exes or give me a kid that wasn't mine but that's just wishful thinking on my part.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 05:34 PM
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The vast majority of men do not have violent thoughts floating in their head. Anyone who has contemplated hurting or murdering other's is already a dormant psychopath or sociopath waiting to snap. Those that pose a danger to society and commit crimes still need to be locked up. The idea of abolishing prison altogether or prisons who seek to reform rather than punish cannot exist in our current society because everyone in the U.S values personal freedom over collectivism unlike other socialist co…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 02:02 PM
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Testosterone does not make you more prone to violence. It makes you a lot more likely to act on any violent thoughts you might have had. Heck, some studies even believe it's a good thing because it makes you better at negotiating and at being fair. Murder and violent crimes are higher in men because there are no social support system's men can turn too unlike women who can rely on prostitution or sugar dating. For them, their only avenue is to join a gang and rob and kill or be robbed and killed…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 05:18 AM
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I would say you are on the dot. Girls who grew up with daddy issues / absent father that never learned what healthy boundaries are, so they end up seeking an older guy and get taken advantage of / groomed / used for sex and it's not until years later, that they realize they were victimized so they end up hating men for not being better.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 11:29 PM
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There's no study that has proven that men are more predisposed towards violence. The only link they found was between people who were in positions of power and those who weren't. Remove men from the equation and there's still going to be violence. Aka, lesbian domestic abuse statistics which currently sits at 44%.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 10:45 PM
1

Fair enough then.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 09:56 PM
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This is a take I've never heard before and actually somewhat agree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 09:51 PM
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When a woman has a bad experience with men, it's a shared experience. When it's a man, it's an outlier. Then again this is reddit after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 09:49 PM
1

I've always seen it as a shit test, or a half-conceited truth based on my lived experiences. In her mind, anyone who agrees with her is just a beta - cuck unworthy of her attention while the bad boy who puts her in her place is the one. There's a reason half the inmates in prison are fathers...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 09:25 PM
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Maybe it's because I'm 6 feet, but I'd rather have woman be honest about their expectations instead of the constant gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:01 AM
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I've come to terms that everyone, including myself is self-centered and selfish to some degree and that I wouldn't be complaining if the roles were swapped. The only sin in my book is when people not only fail to recognize this but act all wholly and mightily. Just like the people celebrating about the murdered CEO when nobody really knows if they would have honestly done better than him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:51 AM
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No, only the money I get from it. Everything else will be owned by my parents' name.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 10:15 PM
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My tenants lol, me and my parents are landlords although reddit will probably crucify me for saying this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 09:47 PM
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It's someone they've already idealized in their head. The guy just needs to do the rest to make of her wish come true and fall in love with her like a romcon or a movie because he's so "kind."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 07:47 PM
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I have no clue honestly. TV shows maybe. My parents are mostly introverts, so you tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 07:11 PM
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It shouldn't but it does. Woman that are complaining about getting treated like a bang maid are also the ones who are dating above their league and don't seem to realize that a guy who has endless options is only sticking around until you've had enough. Then he just finds somebody else to put up with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 07:10 PM
1

Unless you are some famous detective, most work-related topics are boring to discuss. Most men and woman also have different hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 07:03 PM
2

I probably said this a dozen times already, but if you're ripped / at a healthy weight, tall, handsome or have a combination of these 3 things you can definitely find an older sugar mommy even if you're broke. Source: my aunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 06:57 PM
1

Ok, maybe work can count, but not everything else and most of the time it's pretty boring to talk about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 06:54 PM
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Broke and hot men do. They even invented a word for them, hobosexuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 06:52 PM
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The problem with that logic is that your friends, family members, co - workers, and even random strangers you meet can all talk to you about what you're interested about, ignoring the fact that both men and woman tend to have different hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 06:47 PM
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Nope, I'd definitely be ok with this as someone who makes above average but it's going to be a give and take kind of transaction that we'll both have to be agree on before co - habitation or marriage. In my case, she'd get a monthly salary and acquire little from a divorce because all my money will be placed in my parents' trust. Although some woman, especially those in the west would definitely flip out if they were told this so I'm just going to beta-buxx in a poorer country.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 06:37 PM
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It would fall under plausible deniability in a court most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 06:27 PM
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We should love but we should also be realistic about it. Even if you believe it's pure and unadulterated, it's not some magical force that will make all your problems go away once you do. Anyone that says it should, is usually asking the other person to make a personal sacrifice on their behalf by using it as an excuse when they need their compliance.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 06:10 PM
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It's because the vast majority of woman, even the staunchest feminists do not like taking the lead inside the bedroom. When the man makes his "requests" he is still actively taking control of the situation. Hand the reins completely over to the woman and she has no idea what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:26 PM
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And this is why I believe feminists are so invested in overthrowing the patriarchy. They want the wealth and the status for themselves so these top tier men will either choose them or have no choice too. I believe woman who project how men who see them as objects view men in the same lens as obstacles. Avoided.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:17 AM
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Yeah, they're called unicorns...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 02:16 AM
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I agree. You are taking the time out of her day so you can have a good time. It's only fair the man pays.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 02:07 AM
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It's still not the same playing field. Woman can be unattractive, and not have any money, men still need 1 out of the 2 or you're screwed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 01:52 AM
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This but I would like to mention that someone having an easier life doesn't necessarily mean they are guaranteed happiness. It just means it's easier for them to get what you want often times without having to put in nearly as much as effort. However, even exotic seafood will start tasting stale if you end up stranded on a deserted island.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 02:25 AM
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I'm too scared to say this anywhere else, but I do believe a fair percentage of people are transitioning because they truly believe life is easier for them that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 02:04 AM
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Not to be pedantic, but if you did look like Chris Hemsworth, then yes, you'll probably find woman who will be more than interested in keeping you around even if it means that labor isn't fairly split.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 01:45 AM
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What a non - chad man looks like to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 01:22 AM
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Well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 08:12 PM
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7 is still pretty good then, or at least good enough to date a middle aged and "non-athletic" woman. At least that's what I'm often seeing IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 07:57 PM
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And this is why I can't take woman seriously when they say they see "ugly" couples all the time. If the dudes were gender bent, they'd be a high 8 at the very least.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 07:25 PM
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Yeah, you have a point. If you eat the same thing every day, anything will taste stale after awhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:02 PM
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I stopped being blackpilled when I realized I could get the most bang for my beta - buxx in a poorer country.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 09:01 PM
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Yeah, from my aunt's side. They did nothing around the house and got treated like a king because they were a 10 in looks, 6 feet or higher, and either underweight or had a very toned body. A lot were also very lazy or disrespectful towards us (one of them even blamed the kids for the divorce which is just a dick move all around).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 07:36 PM
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I wish you the best of luck then.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 07:11 PM
2

Chad will never settle down. He'll just cheat whenever he can and move on to someone else if he gets bored or discovered. Woman will eventually get fed up and choose the beta provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 07:07 PM
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Most men are so desperate for a relationship they'll do everything she asks and not even expect sex for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 07:05 PM
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And none of them were average men, they had plenty of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 06:51 PM
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They need beta buxxer's just as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 06:48 PM
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His wife doesn't even tell other people they're engaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 06:44 PM
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You are spot on. There is so much infighting that it's never going to be a coherent movement that will push for change.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:57 AM
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I'm not even asking for that much. Just stop asking "where are all the good men"" or stating that the "bar is in hell" when you choose a guy for his supercial looks and then complain when you get a superficial guy who treats you like a disposable bang maid. While you pull up statistics about who does more housework and who benefited more in the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:49 AM
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This reminds me of all the woman asking other woman to practice soliditary with each other for the 100th time while they continue ignoring each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:42 AM
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People are multidimensional. Everyone has positive and negative quirks which makes them good some of the time and bad during others.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:33 AM
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I guess I'm wrong in this case then.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:15 PM
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Then there's nothing to worry about if it's the younger woman seeking out the older guy, right? Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:46 PM
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By the same logic, men who seek out older partners are more likely to produce autistic / neurodivergent kids and woman are more likely to suffer from pregnancy complications. Also, should 2 couples avoid having kids because they both carry dominant genetic disorders? Saying the marriage is going to be perfect is disingenuous but so is saying it's not going to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 04:42 PM
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A blue piller with a red pill take, have we come full circle?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 04:36 PM
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Except what you described often plays in reverse. It's the younger woman seeking out the more confident and successful men a lot of the times due to daddy issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 04:33 PM
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A woman will never find herself out of options, they only shrink as they get older and even then, they'll complain about losing their pretty privilege since they aren't desired as much as before. Whereas most men didn't have any to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 10:37 PM
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I agree somewhat, but I've also never understood why people say mutual abuse doesn't exist when it just pans out in different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 04:50 PM
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I know TwoX isn't representative of real life, but these women seem even less emotionally intelligent than young adults and even teenagers. Let's not forget all the woman who shaved their heads out of spite because Trump won and then posted it online.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 04:48 PM
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My aunt has no trouble dating very sought after men as a woman who is well past her prime at nearly 60, but she also lives in one of the wealthiest areas in California and pays for everything. I'm pretty sure she knows she is using the men just as much as they are using her, but as long as everybody is happy, why should I care 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 04:41 PM
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Great analysis, you can step on the paint in basketball, but don't overstay your welcome if you don't want the whistle blown.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 04:38 PM
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With how common BPD is in woman, your odds are not good regardless. Any woman who gets triggered over a joke or a negative stereotype about woman will likely not stay in the relationship for long, so these respectful guys really are not missing out on much except their divorce papers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 04:17 PM
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Never take what you see online for face value. When it comes to dating in the real world, looks and being confident to the point you don't care what others think will get you farther than virtual signaling for fake internet points.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 04:12 PM
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What you are saying is that the whole thing was just a shit test all along, and woman just needed a way to weed out the men that were soft and inferior in many ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 04:00 PM
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Only ugly dudes have to follow the rules they made.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 03:57 PM
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There's woman who will have sex with men and then abort him if it's a boy. Yeah, I can see it happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 03:54 PM
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Yes, that too. I don't know what makes the dating scene in big cities un- navigable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:27 PM
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I've seen woman all across the globe make dozens of wild unsubstantiated claims on paper while doing the exact opposite in reality including feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:02 PM
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Voting is kept confidential how would I even know.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:28 PM
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I got 20 downvotes for pointing out the same exact thing. I love reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:19 PM
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You don't get it! It's my internalized misogyny that made me vote for Trump! It's still men's fault! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:03 PM
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Blue collar areas are usually more rural / conservative and dating options are a lot more limited compared to cities. They also tend to be Christians who are fundamentally against abortion. Heck, even when I constantly switching schools, I was getting a lot more attention from other girls in rural communities as an ugly mofo.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:01 PM
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No doubt some people fall for it, or I wouldn't see so many of them online. "As a white male, I deeply ashamed of what my race and gender has done (so you should totally sleep with me instead of those other misogynists!)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:53 PM
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Yeah, it's called dating in an undeveloped and recessive country with money lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:39 PM
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^^^ This 100 times. Looks are the biggest factor IRL to getting liked while virtue signaling is the biggest online.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 02:24 PM
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A womanizing Chad will never be called out for making crass comments about her breasts or ass while an "ugly incel (that's only her assumption)" will be treated with contempt for even looking at her the wrong way. That's usually what I've seen happen to me at least once, and a lot of other guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 02:15 PM
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Late reply but if you read my previous, you could say we are in full agreement. Femdom still tries to fulfill mens fantasies instead of woman's. And very few are turned on by catering to those that are weak and pathetic unless there's a monetary incentive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 05:53 PM
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Yeah, I don't know why people want to imagine themselves in their shoes...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 11:30 PM
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And most prostitutes will usually half ass it as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:32 PM
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This is why woman need to stop complaining about the wage gap!!! OFC men make more when woman cannot outperform men in the blue-collar industry, which is facing a shortage right now. My fat, out of shape ass has done moving and I've been able to lift heavier objects than a woman who has done professional deadlifting. Why would you pay someone the same amount for much less?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 04:52 PM
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I feel ya. No, cackling Kamela didn't lose because of racism / sexism. They lost because they ran a terrible campaign. Both my parents and all their relatives immigrated to U.S, became the top 5% wealthiest in our nation, and never had to play that card to get there. It's like telling your coach you deserve to be on the starting lineup without merit and then blaming the referee when you do awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 04:18 PM
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It could certainly be true to an extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 03:35 PM
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I guess we'll never really know.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 03:21 PM
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Just because r/femdom or r/gentlefemdom exists doesn't mean most of the woman are into it. Women that do seem to enjoy it, enjoy it because they are getting validation or want to fulfill their partners desires which is inherently submissive. It just loops back to what the guy wants her to do in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 02:44 PM
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They hide the guy's face sometimes so you think you are them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 01:30 PM
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You will never find a woman who's that into domming. At best, you might find someone who is hypersexual and willing to try everything atleast once and I mean literally everything, like crapping into someone's mouth. I suggest Japan.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 01:21 PM
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I don't think there's a better place to ask this question if you want to foster discussion and debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 01:14 PM
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Just like furry porn( yuck ), good femdom videos or hentai in my case, is hard to come by so there's a much higher demand for it. And yeah, it's like you said. Even the scenes they are reenacting in is just part of their job, and the person paying them is really the one in control.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 01:13 PM
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I hate to tell you this, but eugenics has always existed through natural selection. It wasn't something any Nationalistic government invented even before Hitler. People who prioritized resources and fitness were the only ones who were able to pass their genes down which is why most woman are hypergamous since they needed them to offset the cost of raising a child, which OP has mentioned, is very expensive, especially today.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/11/24 06:26 PM
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I can't believe people forgot Obama and Hilary were huge on drone strikes.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/11/24 12:21 PM
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I'm black pill and I'm not going to kill myself anytime soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 03:21 AM
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Real talk...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:38 PM
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Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:32 AM
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To be fair, this is a debate sub. If he did it elsewhere you could call him that but we're all just here to sling shit at each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:19 AM
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Don't tell them I said this, but nobody expects online activism to achieve anything, we're all just here for the drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:15 AM
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Only the woman who make the 2 contradictory claims I mentioned deserve to be ridiculed. You are no such person.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:41 AM
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I'd call myself a former blackpill, but I never hated / blamed woman for not wanting me or sought pity, not even from myself. The only part of black pill I agree with is that woman will generally choose the best option, not that I fault them for being hypergamous, since that's how our species were able to survive. I'm just tired of woman who keep telling them that their worth isn't between their legs while spouting that they aren't having sex or babies with men now these past few days. Like it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:18 AM
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Like Tywin said, you must always carry out your threats unless you want to be made a fool.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:23 AM
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Yep, whenever I read TwoX and then actually interact with woman in the real world, it always takes a few seconds for me to process the overlap. Most do not actively avoid me when they walk by me to pass the street, and most are quite welcoming whenever I partake in group sports with them. Then again, some people can be Jekyll out there and Hyde online, so it's hard to tell who is genuine and who isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:12 AM
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It's not that extreme until the mask falls off. There was a post on Feminism not even TwoX that said if a woman couldn't divorce rape his husband, she would burn everything he owned down.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:19 PM
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I can still hear Hilary say women have always been the primary victim's of war in my head.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/11/24 05:21 PM
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What I don't understand is why they only made it about gender. Why not bring up her race, her policies, or not being the most conventionally attractive candidate when you do a side by side comparison to woman Melania Trump. Oh right we already know the answer.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/11/24 05:17 PM
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Then it likely still won't come down to 50 / 50 in all honesty. Woman will never put themselves in that position. They'd sooner die alone with their cats than take that risk and I'm sure a lot have already done so. (Which of course, is their choice. I love my cats too.) They already seem them freaking out about no - fault divorce laws being repealed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:12 AM
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Thank you for willing him out of existence /s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:00 AM
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These aren't your average men they still bring status to the woman which means the split is still lopsided.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 02:59 AM
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Sorry if I wasn't clear, it's most average looking men who are dating average looking woman. To put this into perspective, you would have to imagine a guy as his female twin. Not woman dating dudes an entire foot faller or woman weighing just as much as he does.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 01:59 AM
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I don't think any woman who goes on TwoX or TwoX - adjacent subreddit really loves her husband if I'm going to be frank. Reading through some of these posts, you would think that men are holding their wives at gunpoint... although some really do come off as mentally unwell (not in a disparaging way) since some are way too quick to suffer from mental breakdowns or act extremely bipolar all of a sudden. Anyways I'm not here to judge.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:59 PM
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Then she just leaves lmao. She wouldn't be on TwoX or any of those subreddits complaining about her grievances and getting comments to placate her and agree with her that, that man is terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:25 PM
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Don't know why you would even assume that. I've chatted with plenty of girls who still live with their parents even though they are nearing 30 and still get into the kind of family drama you would expect from teenagers. Also, what does it have to do with them being fat and ugly... most still worked and didn't mooch off their parents all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:19 PM
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No? That's just putting words in my mouth. I said I've seen a lot of men and woman being unsanitary. Chad does not get off on being shitty, he doesn't give a single f either way. If she doesn't want to be his bang maid, he can find someone else who will. And this just isn't me saying this, it came straight out of the horse's mouth on one of the askwoman subreddits.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:17 PM
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Highly doubt it. Your competition is stacked higher than the empire state building. It takes a considerable amount of time to either build frame aka muscle or wealth unless you were born into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:07 PM
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It's never stopped Chad from getting hookups and relationships regardless. Either way my point hasn't been disproven.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:05 PM
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But that's still unfair for a whole lot of men who want something in their late 20's or early 30's and pretty much can't get anything until woman get off the cock carousel or until they've already built and solidified their careers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:51 PM
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The difference is that woman leave when an ugly guy does it, but if he's conventionally hot, they'll just play the AMALT card like you just did. I also don't really buy into the idea that most woman, especially the younger generation, clean a whole lot more than their partners. I might get downvoted for this, but I rent quite a bit to university students and have seen my fair share of slobs in both men and women. Like straight up leaving half opened trash bags a few feet outside the door instead…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:41 PM
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So, all these childless men who cannot get a relationship despite having a higher education, own more property, and make more money than other woman are just unlucky and nothing really clicked? All in spite of having fewer overall requirements?!?!? Yeah, I don't buy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:06 PM
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Leave it up to feminists to insist that there's nothing wrong with single motherhood, then pull back the curtains and see how many young women from these households turn to prostitution and choose abusive relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:55 PM
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This is why our family didn't know who to vote for this election. We're dab right in the middle.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:53 PM
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The truth is somewhere in-between. Some dudes lie between their teeth unabashedly, but some women lie also lie to themselves. I remember there was a post on AITAH not too long ago. A woman wanted something more from his fuckbuddy after a few "goes" and got upset when he didn't. So, she told him to go bang a prostitute instead and there were actually a ton of comments agreeing with her which makes me think that this situation wasn't too uncommon. Unfortunately, there is no magical pussy that will…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:24 PM
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I agree with everything you said except being shallow. We evolved to prioritize looks for a reason. Most people who are not conventionally attractive usually aren't the healthiest, at least to some extent...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:13 PM
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Fair enough I suppose, I'm not going to refrain from calling them donkeys when they go off about how the bar is in hell though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:10 PM
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The sad thing is that I would have more respect for woman who would just be honest about their true intentions rather than pretend that they don't care about looks, status, and wealth at all, but like the Joker says, "We live in a society."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:09 PM
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The problem is that most woman will marry Chad and then complain about how he doesn't do enough around the house afterwards. Most men are happy with any relationship they can get, they just don't want to get divorce raped. The two aren't comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:56 PM
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You joke but if you look at history and what happened in Communist China. People who even spoke in villages in an effort to warn others about the ongoing famine was killed. This is what I see Democrats becoming.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 06:39 PM
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Did any state under Republicans suffer billions in property damage due to news outlets inflaming BLM protests. No, I don't think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 06:26 PM
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Seconding this, all the people at my local Home Depot wear MAGA hats and talked about how they are voting for Trump this year. I don't blame them. Who wants to work all day covered in grime and sweat and lose half their paycheck to some guy collecting disability benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 06:22 PM
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If you are talking about semantics, then no, not personally. Nonetheless, let's not pretend she is any more qualified or guilty - free than Charles Manson, who only told people to go and kill some Jews for me. Regardless, just because I disagree with the artist doesn't mean I hate the art. Her character or any other politician has no overall bearing on my vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 06:17 PM
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Thank you for being a real one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 06:13 PM
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I wouldn't say nothing at all. It's definitely been polled in my county before.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 05:55 PM
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I voted for Republicans because I'm scared the Dems will start raising property taxes on all government levels from local to state all the way to federal. If Reddit has taught me anything, it's that the left hates landlords.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 05:39 PM
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I was nearly in tears when they said they weren't having sex with incels now. Like... what?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 05:37 PM
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If Hilary Clinton did what she did on American soil -aka arming powerful insurrections groups in the Middle East, she'd be classified as a war criminal lmao. The only reason they bring up January 6 is because it happened here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 05:33 PM
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All politicians are chock full of shit; I'd rather pick the candidate who doesn't tell me how good theirs smell - see Hilary.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 05:24 PM
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No thoughts, just peer pressure in a society that doesn't let you think for yourself and if you do just remember, "freedom of speech is not freedom from consequences" which just sounds like a thinly veiled threat to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 05:21 PM
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You are the first blue pill man I agree with, congrats(although this isn't dating related).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 05:18 PM
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There was even a Kamala ad that of course was pure evil of a bunch women liking a dude, but once he told them he wasn't voting for Kamala they all reject him. And just now, women are telling each other to stop having sex with conservative men because they're the reason Trump won. For someone who wants to be valued for more than their "parts" they sure as hell don't mind objectifying themselves to get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 04:53 PM
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So long as you hold the 47% of voters belonging to woman in the same contempt instead of blaming internalized misogyny. I don't see why you can't. Not that I agree with you that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 04:40 PM
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This is why most feminists who complain about destroying gender roles don't sniff enough of their own shit. We can talk about destroying gender roles all we want but let's face it, if you aren't a provider that makes significantly more than your spouse you aren't going to be marriage material, and if you start making less. Look forward to signing your divorce papers. Of course, there are other factors like height and facial features but those are beyond your control.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 03:48 PM
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I've never thought about it this way... you've changed my view then.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 12:50 PM
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Both women are getting burned if they are dating the same guy. It's not really helping each other more than helping themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 12:33 AM
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Most people who wanted to divorce were just looking for a reason to do so. It has nothing to do with politics, or household chores, or even abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 02:57 AM
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So, my aunt is basically willing to wipe his ass to put it bluntly lmao. She initiates / takes care of everything from cleaning (well she hires a maid to do that tbf), to paying the bills, to planning family gatherings.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 08:13 PM
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If you felt good about your deeds, then it wasn't pure and unintentional altruism. Simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:59 PM
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Seconding this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:47 PM
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My millionaire aunt is dating the most socially awkward guy I ever met. The dude cannot start or even hold a conversation for longer than a minute. He is so invisible to the rest of their family that she even forgot to buy him a birthday gift. But... hes 6'7 , decently looking, and slim so...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:46 PM
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I'm stealing this line...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:41 PM
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Find a surrogate in a legalized country after retiring. That's what I would do if all else failed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:26 PM
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Nobody is truly altruistic. Anyone who believes they are is lying to themselves. I do good things to feel better about myself later or to make up for the thing's I shouldn't have done in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:03 PM
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This is why I'll never listen to what blue pill has to say. Even if it does get you a date / laid / whatever. These will be the relationships you'll be getting into.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 02:36 PM
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Yeah, the other dude is being ridiculous. It takes a lot of courage to own up to wanting the best of the best and for the most part, it's always been human nature to do so. I would rather someone be honest about what they're getting into rather than deceiving themselves and then blaming everyone else when shit goes south.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 02:31 PM
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And when they finally hit the "jackpot," the dude turns out to be a total slob who won't contribute anything meaningful in her rent-free household until she has had enough and kicks him out or puts up with it long enough to vent her problems out online - see any subreddit that has women (x) over x.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 02:21 PM
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Mid girls in another country perhaps. Otherwise, they'll still be selective.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 02:15 PM
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No disagreements here. Your beliefs are as consistent as mine. We live in the land of the free, and nobody is forced to do anything they don't want too including dating / marriage. If things constantly don't work out, they don't have to keep doing it but neither do they have the right to complain about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 03:28 PM
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Everyone does, but I also think it's important to remember that you can be a victim and still fall under the guidelines of a good person. Jenny was a little bit good and a little bit bad depending on how you see her but aren't we all. I have never liked identity politics for this reason. Edit: The needle theory is probably the most correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 02:44 AM
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Manipulating Forrest was likely for the best. I was just pointing out that it's way harder to fool people than you think. I agree with the rest of your statement too. And yeah, I never understood why so many people hated Jenny. She was a flawed, conflicted, and traumatized person who wasn't able to emotionally recover from her abusive past and in the end, was doomed to repeat it. Still, she didn't let her trauma change who she was (which is more than I could ever ask from your average Feminist) …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:36 AM
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So just so we are clear, if a woman has full agency and makes choices she later regrets( like becoming a full blown prostitute due to lacking a central father figure ) or dating trash men( because families don't arrange marriages anymore ). She takes full responsibility right? So long as there are no double standards and you agree that any woman who believes otherwise is wrong. I will fully admit what I said was misognystic / incel rhetoric / whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:40 AM
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Without sounding like a full blown "misogynist," is giving woman full agency necessarily a good thing though. More choices mean woman more can choose the person they want to marry and more can abstain altogether but there's also more single mothers who are overworked and need to fill 2 roles instead of one, more juvenile delinquency because there's either no father figure in the household to keep them in check or non - biological fathers who are not allowed too. And that's not even getting to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:50 PM
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Good explanation!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:40 PM
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Yeah, I know what you mean, I'm just imagining a Walter White scenario in my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:19 PM
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People think big businesses are doing so to provoke us into fighting a culture war instead of a class war.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:29 PM
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I wonder if he changed or if that was what he always was. We will never know.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:22 PM
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Love bombing is a real thing, but I was never fooled into believing the things that were said.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:21 PM
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Well, at least I believe you then, although I admit it's still not saying much because I still don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:19 PM
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Sorry to hear that. I guess he turned out to be a two faced psychopath, those people certainly exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:59 PM
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They do, but you have at the very top. Even the top 20, 10, or even 1 percent do not cut it. Source: My aunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:52 PM
2

Isn't this a red pill take from a woman's POV?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:40 PM
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Try to be a feminist without hating men challenge( impossible ).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:36 PM
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You can, just: 1.) Be chad 2.) Don't be a non - chad
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:33 PM
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It goes both ways. Do a little and they feel appreciated, do too much and they feel entitlted.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:32 PM
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👏 This.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:31 PM
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I agree with everything you said even though you went a bit off topic. Letting the government decide who gets the most out of socialism - which is currently the people who are playing identity politics the most, is always going to be a bad idea due to the events you mentioned. This is why I always swing a little more to the right and think the government should get less involved with people's lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:52 PM
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My aunt does the same thing but with the genders reversed. Are the men fools then?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:29 PM
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She probably brought it up all the time to her friend's or family member's and joked about how she was the sole breadwinner constantly. I hardly believe people keep quiet about this kind of stuff and even if she did you'd still have people finding out and exchanging cursory glances or gossiping about it to another. Although I believe "society" is also partially to blame for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:04 PM
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Piggybacking this from my last comment, this is why "non-traditional" marriages are not worth it unless your dating market value is so high you get woman like my aunt funding Chad's lifestyle. Woman admit it just as much without outright saying it like the above examples you mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:57 PM
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Woman have stronger ingroup biases. They will likely support themselves when they are face to face with each other especially on the internet, but shit talk each other behind their backs when they aren't. Reddit's echo chambers don't help in this regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:40 PM
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I don't think they like traveling so much as showing off and getting their likes and shares on their social media page. The rest of what you said is true though, marriage is just prostitution with extra steps. Not your bang maid seems to be the motto in 2024, so your choices are either a long unhappy marriage or a very short one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:25 PM
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That I suppose...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 12:47 PM
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4 to 5 month's seems a bit early to tell who a person really is just yet, so I assume these relationships were casual flings right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 12:22 PM
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Even if it wasn't. Saying he "simply got up and walked away from his dying wife" is also disingenuous without any context. We don't know how long he stayed, be it days, weeks, months, or years even. Or if there was tension in the relationship due to him not being able to support her emotionally or financially. Then factor in the loss of freedom and sexual frustration and you get someone James Sunderland in Silent Hill 2 who ends up mercy killing his cancer ridden wife. Not that his actions were …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 01:43 PM
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There's definitely statistics that prove this but I'm too lazy to find it right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 03:18 AM
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Reddit brews negativity. I can't agree more.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 03:12 AM
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Because they're breaking up with them to go back to their abuser!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 03:10 AM
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People who have served jail time are more likely to get laid than those who didn't. Look it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 02:52 AM
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Nobody deserves abuse. Not even people who choose to willingly date abusers. I am just saying that you can't go on to blame other's for the choices you've made.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 02:48 AM
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I usually hate to generalize but woman do tend to like to complain a little more than men or atleast gossip about it in secret to each other when they want to keep their halo.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 02:45 AM
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I can't say all of them get laid but a good number still do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 02:41 AM
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Not alone no. There's always something they offer even though you won't see them admitting it like a big D or someone who's "bad and exciting" like a drug dealer or a motorcycle gang member.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 02:39 AM
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Most are average or above average. I don't see anyone that bad looking unless they are old af.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 02:36 AM
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No, it's time to admit that looks ultimately dictate whether or not a relationship starts and lasts. Nothing else, atleast in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 02:31 AM
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There's nothing to discuss, only thing's to admit.....
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 02:18 AM
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It still doesn't make sense to me. Woman have financial independence and equal rights under the law in the west now. The abused woman you mentioned are now a very insignificant minority and even those that do can still reach out for government assisstance. Not to mention that the internet has made predatory behaviors easily recognizable. Here's a better question. How do the women that aren't falling into these tropes still getting coerced and abused. Like the one's clearly recognizing that it is…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 02:12 AM
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Leaving out just about every other dealbreaker except courtesy, meeting their emotional needs, and household chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 01:31 AM
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Yay mods finally approved the post. Truth be told it's neither a debate or discussion post. It's just me realizing that shades of omission are way too common on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 01:20 AM
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I have never seen a career woman genuinely happy. I would say most are indifferent to it at best and most are even willing admit that they are only doing it because not having any financial independence is risky. Who would have guessed that abandoning their kind and nurturing biological impulses would leave them angry and depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 07:51 PM
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I wanted to make a post about this but it didn't get past the shitpost filter. Woman only complain about the compromises they made, not the dealbreakers they clearly didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 07:43 PM
1

I would argue it's a case where everyone ends up losing but to each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 04:36 AM
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Is the latter that much better though? Instead of woman being forced into servitude, we now have a slew of single mothers and girl boss feminists who are angry at the patriacharchy all the time because all the money they made still isn't enough until they are in the top 0.0001%
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 03:34 AM
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Yeah, my neighbor's wife settled, and she and his son just openly disrespect him all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 03:26 AM
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Screw the men who get mad, I'd rather other woman be upfront and honest instead of the constant gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 03:14 AM
1

Except when he's stringing a woman into a relationship while he's really after sex...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 03:10 AM
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I have no issues with that. Woman who brings up the not all men argument, and also complain there's no good men are donkeys though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:51 AM
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This doesn't get mentioned enough. There's absolutely 0 incentive for being a decent person nowadays. If you aren't manipulating your dates, your job resumes, and even your coworkers and boss into giving you a raise or promotion, good luck getting anywhere in life!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:49 AM
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Yeah, I was sort of confused by what they meant too. Even if these jobs don't pay much, they still have amazing benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 10:39 PM
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It's not a one-way street. Many times, younger woman in question don't want to commit either. They want to have their fun first, and kids + household duties get in the way of that. They'll either find a sugar daddy (or rather simp nowadays) instead or divorce their asses if they do end up together.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 10:37 PM
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No arguments here. What you give is what you get.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 03:08 PM
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The grey area would probably be how fast you want him to stop when the dude is about 3 seconds away from climaxing and whether or not both parties had already established their boundaries since it generally takes time to process what is happening halfway through sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 09:21 PM
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It's generally difficult to when you are about to reach climax and there's even a small chance you can get blue balls from delaying ejaculation. Furthermore, while I and you would likely do our best to remove ourselves, realistically speaking, the assholes most women are screwing wouldn't if they aren't trying to wife her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 09:11 PM
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Good point
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 12:36 PM
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There's comments on the top feminism poster who claim that not stopping halfway through sex when the woman wants too is also rape but go off I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 11:46 AM
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The biggest contributor to divorce is when a man starts making less than his wife followed by infidelity and even then you could probably argue that she was already looking for somebody else because of reason #1.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 12:31 AM
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There's a good chance it'll be considered rape even if nobody remembers what happened when both parties were intoxicated. I wouldn't even risk it tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 12:20 AM
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Can atleast confirm your last statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 11:31 PM
1

Yeah sure thing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 07:44 PM
1

It's the internet. I can post the most deranged thing's I want!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:12 PM
1

Bruh, it's not that serious. I just wanted to share an observation, I'm not on a personal crusade to end tyranny.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:40 AM
1

I doubt it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:50 PM
1

Most couples are happy, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:14 AM
1

Nobody is totally gay or straight, so who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:41 AM
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Yeah, that's how anecdotes' work :P. Also, why would I stick my nose in other people's business...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:41 AM
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Yeah, we both got time, so we can hang on to hope and getting lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:20 AM
1

It would be cool to have AI raise your kids and your elderly parents in the not-too-distant future. You get all the perks and none of the sacrifices.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:07 AM
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I blame the economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:04 AM
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He definitely can't grow a beard either, dude has no facial hair at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:03 AM
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It's always the glasses...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:58 PM
1

I do know some people with so little self-esteem that nothing can hurt them. If what she said didn't faze him, I suppose nobody really loses.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:54 PM
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It's still the case. Most unattractive men can sleep with unattractive women but not in the hundreds.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:53 PM
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He's anyone who has had more than 100 body counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:46 PM
1

All good points!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:43 PM
1

Yeah, you raise a good point. If it was super serious than maybe it was justified.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:42 PM
2

No clue, he looks like your average geek to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:41 PM
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It's an anecdotal story, take it how you will. The dude seems quite friendly and always stops by to say hi, so I don't think he's that bad of a person. I've met my own share of good and bad men and woman, so I'd at least trust my own judgement.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:39 PM
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I hope you find that special someone then. To me it's just a dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:37 PM
2

The sad thing is if he did yell at his wife back, he would have just had the cops called on him like one of my other neighbors. Only thing he said was no. Dude didn't even try to argue :(
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:29 PM
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Why be a family man when you can be Chad, pump and dump woman, and make another man raise your kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:27 PM
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You're a lucky son of a gun.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:19 PM
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But that's exactly what blue pill tells men to do!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:14 PM
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Man is literally Aristotle
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 01:53 PM
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I suppose not, but I assume social gatherings would be the only place.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 01:23 AM
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Well, the least I can say is that they're not going to be cold approaching them, that's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:49 AM
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And this is why no one really wins in hookup culture in the long run unless you are Chad who gets single mothers to look after your kid after you promised her you would stay with her forever. Just like J.P said would happen...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 09:54 PM
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Yeah, I can't be the only one who thinks his comment isn't wild. Why don't I just hope reincarnation is real and wait for my next life while I'm at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 09:43 PM
1

Yeah 2 - 3 links from any of those subreddits is completely fine, but your word is good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 09:36 PM
1

I've only seen them say how gross and disgusting the dude is. Maybe you can back up your claim with a source :P.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 09:09 PM
1

Women hold all the cards in dating right now. They can play whatever hand they want. If they don't want to be with an older dude, they can find a younger one just as easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 08:54 PM
1

SJW's have made pedophilia a huge talking point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 08:52 PM
1

My issue is why they always bring it up with the men? Why not take it up with the women instead of you know, infantilizing them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 08:48 PM
24

I've seen young woman hit on older dudes IRL all the time as well because there's no way in hell society will ever find it acceptable if the genders were flipped. What I find absurd is that most women will still find a way to blame the guy in this scenario somehow even when the woman is all over them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 08:37 PM
10

Woman can also look significantly younger than their age suggests. All nuance is lost on the internet however, people will spin the narrative how they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 08:09 PM
13

I know atleast one, my aunt lol. Housing, food, vacations, insurance, and even his gas.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 02:47 PM
7

I was waiting for this reply. What OP describes happens quite often but is usually applicable after his career kicks off or he gets in serious shape and other women start noticing. It's not gonna play out like his bizarre revenge fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 02:17 PM
2

The vast majority of people are who do online activism are grifters, not that I'm the exception. In group biases definitely exist but even then, there will be infighting involved. I.e even the so-called feminists who want to support all woman hate it when we bring up finding a traditional wife overseas, even when it's not even in their subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:52 AM
1

I agree. Most woman date older because most people (both men and women) are broke but also a lot less responsible nowadays. Now that housing pricings and other costs of living are through the roof; a lot of millennials have to depend on their parents to survive and take care of everything for them, from shelter, to cooking their food, to transportation. As a personal anecdote, me and my parents even had to remind some of our tenants to throw away their own trash on multiple occasions and these w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:49 PM
2

No I suppose not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:11 AM
1

Unrelated, but I'm also applying for a few jobs right now and I'm really considering stretching the truth to get hired. I don't even really need the money; I just need a reason to get out of the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:58 PM
1

It was mostly financial decisions and addressing emails.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:53 PM
2

Nothing made my mom more pissed then when my dad secretly confessed to her that he felt guilty dating her because he could never hope to stand at an equal footing due to her intellect and outstanding education. Even when my mom was better at everything, she still came to my dad for help and advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:47 PM
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Taller, better looking, and with more Aryan features in most circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:40 PM
5

Don't bother talking to blue pill men here, all you'll end up with is a headache.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 04:25 PM
1

Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:35 PM
1

mmm...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:14 AM
0

Most didn't clarify though, so it's hard to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 11:35 PM
1

Hmmm, interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 11:26 PM
1

Most woman would turn them down based off income alone. There's no way you are a potential suitor unless you are making a decent amount more than they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 10:34 PM
1

I suppose not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 10:16 PM
1

Mmmm, good answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:08 PM
2

Yeah, I suppose that sounds fair. The Wire is a classic show, I definitely rewatch some clips from time to time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 06:25 PM
3

Seems boring, but maybe it's just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 06:06 PM
3

You've never heard of a man getting drunk and beating his wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 06:03 PM
2

I would have had sex with you lmao. Not that you would agree to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 06:00 PM
1

Just wondering, do people normally tip them?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 05:57 PM
1

A few give or take.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:54 PM
1

I need a woman who has the same kinks as me to really enjoy sex but it's so niche it might as well be impossible to find someone else who has it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:53 PM
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It's the best I got and the path of least resistance. I'm not waiting a lifetime to find the perfect woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 03:58 AM
1

Atleast my kid will still love me then.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 03:57 AM
-1

I'm getting the most bang for my betabuxx at least by going to foreign countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 06:47 PM
2

Money makes a man more attractive.....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:27 PM
1

Speak for yourself. I still want a family someday and even if my only option is to beta-buxx, I'll do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:26 PM
4

FDS is just most women being honest and saying the quite part out loud. I'd still prefer that over the average blue pill comment I see on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:23 PM
4

It's not your average man, it's Chad xd.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:05 AM
2

It's too late. Generations across generations of people will grow up fat and procreate fat children. The only people we can save are our own.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 03:59 AM
1

True.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:42 AM
2

The real answer is nobody cares about anyone lul. Human nature is inherently selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:02 AM
3

I'm not saying it's ok to fat shame, but there's a reason why their people tend to be a lot slimmer.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:58 AM
1

Well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:55 AM
1

Yes, dating in the west is doomed. My parents who are 50 and don't even use social media told me this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:54 AM
2

Yeah, that's the plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:53 AM
1

Luckily for me, none of this is a problem for one of my prospective matches. I have more than enough money and I do want offspring. She doesn't get along well with her family and I'm fairly sure they've had no contact. She isn't fluent in English, so it's very unlikely she'll leave. Also, most of my wealth is concentrated in pre - marital assets - housing, so she won't get much from a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:50 AM
1

I really want to believe your first paragraph is true, but how do you explain the fact that so many women have a mistrust and hate for men if that wasn't the case, I.E the posts and comments you find on Twox, man vs bear, #notallmen, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:47 AM
2

This is why going overseas is the only way now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:40 AM
1

Sorry I completely do not understand this comment :P. Can you rephrase it please.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:38 AM
1

Chad pumping and dumping woman, say it isn't so.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:32 AM
1

Reminds me of the post a long time ago where a woman got upset a guy (Chad) was just using her for sex, even though that's what they agreed too...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:28 AM
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I wouldn't say there's a short supply of women who have fallen into that kind of thinking, they all became TwoX users. The rest is all true though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:21 AM
1

People still quote GRRM like he's ever going to finish the series...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 05:23 PM
0

That's why I see nothing wrong with doing both at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 04:54 PM
1

Marriage is just prostitution with extra steps lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 03:21 PM
1

I very much agree with the last part. Most of the girls I dated overseas hated their life there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 03:18 PM
1

I believe you in all honesty. Just because they're rich doesn't mean they're going to be generous. Or they might even use that as a leverage against you like how so many women claim that depending on a husband is risky because they have nowhere to go if he's abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 03:15 PM
1

For most men, money is more of a status symbol than an asset. You use it to attract rather than enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 03:04 PM
1

Can confirm most of this through my own life experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 03:02 PM
2

Not if you ask a radical feminist. They'll tell you men start wars, so they are only protecting from them from other men although I still find that logic to be stupid. Even if men didn't fight in wars, there would still be conflict, especially in this day and age where most wars aren't even fought in the battlefield. Not to mention that you still need to maintain a standing army in times of crisis, i.e natural disasters, widespread looting, open rebellion. Whether you agree with war or not is al…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 01:41 AM
2

After beta-buxxing in China, I would say the findings are quite substantiated.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 01:36 AM
0

Everyone is hypergamous. The biggest difference between most men and women is that men tend to be a lot more realistic and aware that there's always going to be trade-offs if you go for the biggest catch. Heck, I knew this even before I started dating. Any girl who is much better looking than you are will require you to constantly initiate, whether it's small talk, planning dates, or taking the relationship to the next level - kissing, sleeping together, moving in (Unless you are Chad) and even …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 01:31 AM
1

I just can't relate, sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 02:54 PM
1

that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 01:08 PM
1

It's mostly just coworkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 01:08 PM
3

Most people talk behind other people's back IRL though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 02:06 AM
2

Who else xd.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 01:37 AM
1

I understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 11:57 PM
1

Hard agree for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 11:17 PM
4

Yes, it's an uphill battle the older you get. Not only do you process food slower, but you also have a harder time gaining muscle. No wonder most pro athletes become morbidly obese after they retire.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:50 PM
-1

Interesting...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:22 PM
2

Ah that makes sense. Even if you were highly successful and scored a babe, it would still be bad for apperances sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:10 PM
2

Both, it's not gender specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:57 PM
4

The risk was too high. She just wanted to skip dating altogether and jump straight to marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:56 PM
1

Good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:54 PM
0

A little I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:51 PM
1

Yes. That's right.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:50 PM
1

I agree it's not easy, but going to China and seeing how so many women can still keep their appearances in spite of this makes me believe it's still doable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:43 PM
2

Oh I've definitely turned down 9ish woman who sought me while beta - buxxing because I knew for a fact, they would have extremely high expectations and demands.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:41 PM
1

Yes, but like I said before. The vast majority of people get wrinkles because they're overweight / obese. That being said, it's impossible to know exactly how many people would still have them if they weren't, because less than 20% of Americans are at a healthy weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:38 PM
1

Eh you have a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:35 PM
3

Yes, it's still a lifestyle choice for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:33 PM
0

I've been talking to a girl who's quite negative about her life and it doesn't really matter to me because I know it will only increase the odds of her coming overseas to stay with me. As long as they don't have to make me agree how awful men are, they can complain to me all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:32 PM
5

If that's what you got out of it, then why do you even date...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:27 PM
5

And for the most part, I think they are. The internet will always be more toxic than real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:26 PM
2

Chatgpt told me the opposite: Excessive consumption of sugary foods and beverages can lead to glycation, a process where sugar molecules attach to proteins and fats, causing advanced glycation end products (AGEs) that damage collagen and elastin. This can result in wrinkles and sagging skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:21 PM
0

It will be a very minority of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:19 PM
1

Yes, it certainly plays a role I suppose. I don't believe anyone's genetic material is "that bad" though because if it was, they would have died off.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:18 PM
1

No I suppose not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:17 PM
1

It depends on the guy I suppose. I think sex is overrated after your first or second time when porn exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:46 PM
1

Well, the most common argument I see people make is that men are pdf's by choosing a significantly younger partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:45 PM
1

Women are. Haven't you heard of the beta buxx / alpha fuxx scenario. Woman will have one-night stands with attractive dudes but eventually marry a provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:42 PM
1

Because they're broke college students or just starting their career and don't have financial stability lul.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:38 PM
1

No, I'm just saying it's much harder to lose weight in a fully committed relationship, not that it's impossible. I've done it while working and depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:36 PM
2

I get what you mean. Attractiveness is all about perception so whether or not I think woman hit a wall or not is meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:34 PM
3

Then it's a handshake.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:32 PM
-1

Edit: MB misunderstood your comment. I am sort of confused though. Why don't most men want to date 10 years younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:32 PM
2

Yes, I fully agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:27 PM
2

As long as there's no complaints, I suppose it's fine then 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:27 PM
2

Agreed, studies have shown that obesity is even worse than smoking, so it comes as no surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:24 PM
4

Yes, that's what I noticed whenever I drive by college students.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:23 PM
0

ooops.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:22 PM
3

Everyone starts looking old past a certain age, there's no denying it but with healthy food and exercise I think you can still look great well until 50.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:20 PM
5

Yeah, it's not gender specific. Men also age with excessive weight gain.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:18 PM
5

The problem with that argument is that a younger man with more hair, a smaller gut, and less shriveled balls would also win most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:18 PM
-2

Weight increases wrinkles sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:16 PM
1

^^^ I know this is coming from a stranger but I'm proud of you and all those other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:11 PM
0

There's usually still an underlying cause as to why they aged so badly in most cases though. From smoking to drug use.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:08 PM
2

It's hard but I believe it can be done.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:07 PM
-1

Yes, but extreme weight gain only exacerbates it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:07 PM
2

Ah I see. Yeah mo money mo problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 12:13 PM
3

With all the negativity plaguing PPD, I'm glad to stumble onto something that's uplifting for once.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 12:33 AM
2

If you are choosing to date a player, fuckboi, or Chad then yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 12:23 AM
1

It's such a shame too. So many people get into a prestigious university just to waste years on a useless degree or pick a terrible profession. My aunt's daughter who studied in U.C Irvine now teaches kids how to draw because she majored in liberal arts whilst a friend of mine at U.T Austin is barely making ends meet tutoring students online as a teacher.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 12:20 AM
1

I'm going back to China next year and staying for an extended period of time to date and put these relationships to the test. Maybe all of it will work out or maybe none of them will. Either way I have options, time, and money so I don't have anything to be concerned about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 09:18 PM
2

Yeah, I found very plain woman very attractive because they were easy to talk too, bubbly, and always in a good mood or extremely feminine so to speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 09:15 PM
2

I always thought this was the norm. Guy and girls have different interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 09:13 PM
0

If their situation is so bad they'd rather leave, then the latter is probably better no matter what. If they're at the end of their rope, they can always divorce and live off government benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 09:10 PM
1

I would upvote this 100 times if I could.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 09:08 PM
2

The last paragraph is a straight up lie. They're feminine, usually a more hardworking and a lot less lazy than the average person in the U.S(A girl I'm e - dating works 12 hours a day, suffers from insomnia, and still makes time for dance class on the weekend to stay slim), and most are will willing to look past a short and ugly man so long as he can provide. There's a reason the men in Switzerland are leaving their country even though it's one of the richest on earth. You can produce the most b…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 09:06 PM
2

Nice looking cloth, food on the table, not having to be a wage slave for the rest of your life, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 08:51 PM
1

Or just bring them back to your home country.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 08:50 PM
2

Yes, if you are scraping at the bottom of the barrel. You could probably find somebody aka an emotionally damaged woman who has never had a healthy relationship before. That and undying persistence I suppose. I realized early on I hated chasing after woman so I can't be bothered too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 08:43 PM
1

I see. I will keep this in mind I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 08:28 PM
2

It still seems too much work honestly. All of that on top of chasing and hounding after woman since I wasn't blessed with a good facial structure and good genetics is just ehhh...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 08:28 PM
3

Yeah no shot lmao. Any girl with that kind of money is living in LA or California. There's no way I am competing against actors, entrepreneurs, executives, and millionaire Chad Thundercock. As for the latter, it's shared custody until she decides to move states...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 08:24 PM
1

It depends on who you are looking for. I've actually had countryside woman and their respective family member's turn my offer down because they felt like the income disparity was too high. To them a middle class American was high class and a high class American was basically a modern day celebrity because of China's unfair hierarchy system. Where you were born, what your occupation is, and how much you made basically dictated your value as a person. If you are decently wealthy like me. You can p…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 08:21 PM
2

There's hoboxsexuals. Guy's who can't even afford to rent an apartment, but fit the 6 foot, 6 pack, generally attractive requirement, and still get laid. My aunt dated one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 07:56 PM
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It's mostly property. We own 8 houses in extremely good area's and rent them in order to receive cash flow. Most family courts are heavily biased towards women. I doubt even a good lawyer and a postnup would do much.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 03:17 AM
2

Yeah, that's why it's impossible to judge off words and promises alone. You have to spend time and date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 03:12 AM
2

There is definitely prettier woman, but you got to be richer than middle class to afford them. Also, they're much thinner so that automatically makes them a +1 or +2 in my book and actually care about their figure even after marriage. Most of the girls I saw after graduating college eventually swelled to a balloon animal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 03:09 AM
3

You're good. I'm tired af and sleepy so I probably should have worded it better.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 03:05 AM
3

So egalitarian that most women won't marry someone who makes less and divorces them when they do...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 03:04 AM
4

Find me someone who's never married another person for their money and looks. Aka a dirty, ugly, and homeless man. I'll be here waiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 03:02 AM
3

Until we accept, we're murdering rapists who deserved to be punished for enslaving women 100 years ago and fight the patriarchy using our male privileges. I guess not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 03:00 AM
3

No, no, no. You misunderstood my post. I was agreeing with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 02:56 AM
6

I don't want to lose custody of my assets, my kids, and have to pay a ton in child support. It's also happened to one of my family members before even after they were with each other for 14 years. I don't want to live with that fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 02:53 AM
0

Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 02:52 AM
3

And yet they'll shout that misogny is everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 02:51 AM
3

Because you definitely wouldn't marry a billionaire lmao. Money means she can stay at home and still receive a monthly salary, she gets to live in a safe community, she can live in a bigger house rent free, she can send money back to her family, if need be, and unlike so many "abusive" men that so many women seemingly end up with, I will actually take care of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 02:49 AM
2

Women choosing when they want to equal with men and when they want to be a child with no responsibilities again...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 02:43 AM
2

Or the market is impossible to navigate unless you were blessed with the genetics of a sculpture. As an Asian American my race is the least or the second least desired here, next to African American women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 02:42 AM
4

Couldn't agree more. Go enjoy your date with your bear lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 02:40 AM
2

Quick question. Do you think it's exploitation if I'm a Chinese American seeking a Chinese wife? Or does it no longer apply?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 02:39 AM
0

Yep, most of the time it's the women using men. Not the other way around. Most of the women from the dating apps contacted me first because they know what my green card and assets were worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 02:38 AM
3

We don't call it beta buxx and alpha fuxx for nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 02:34 AM
3

I just want someone to raise a kid with and not have to deal with an eventual divorce. The whole "men just want a bang maid" probably only happened when people could still support a family with a single income.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 02:33 AM
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Yeah, they're what you call material girls, but at least they're willing to look past a man's looks and height although they would still rather have both. Coming from a Chinese American who beta-buxxed in China for a month and a half.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 02:27 AM
4

But isn't it a given that hookups are just for fun and not supposed to have any LTR prospects. Both guys and girls usually settle for a person who is the complete opposite in the end. Aka someone with a stable job / income, low n-count, responsible, and in most cases a little boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 07:06 PM
5

I don't mind rejection, but I can't be bothered chasing after their asses lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:42 PM
2

My aunt is a perfect example. She dates guy's making less than half of what she makes as a professor but because they are Chad she's fine with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 11:59 PM
0

Might just be me, but imprinting something irremovable on my body just for a chance to get laid seems kind of drastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 11:57 PM
2

Yeah I'm constantly seeing a ripped, tall, and attractive guy dating an average overweight women atleast in the U.S. That's why I don't have a chance here and have to look abroad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 11:52 PM
2

I'm fine with a woman who marries me for my money just like she's fine with marrying someone who is far below her looksmatch. I did my fair share of beta-buxxing in China and can see from both POV's through online dating. Someone who works 12 hours a day and comes homes to a tiny and cramped apartment will give an arm or a leg for a better life. Someone like me who has the means to (putting it bluntly), "afford" an attractive wife will get the best deal I can possibly get. Whether or not it's im…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:03 AM
3

First time I've seen people admit this. Take my updoot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 02:53 AM
–

True.....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 01:40 AM
1

Yeah, I am mostly generalizing from what I've seen or heard. It's impossible to confirm.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 01:33 AM
4

Other countries in the East do better in every other department. Chinese people usually have bigger eyes, Koreans have a higher nose, Thailand have heart shaped faces, and all Japan people have is extra body hair... Edit: Of course I'm generalizing the average population.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 09:43 PM
5

They've been told they're high value anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 08:31 PM
3

People in other countries walk a lot more and are a lot more mindful about their weight. Sure, processed food plays a role but so does the ease and access to it and most Americans would rather not spend any time cooking.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 07:23 PM
6

It's because of Hedonism, especially in the U.S. From fast food, to drugs, to social media, to hookup culture, and a million other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 07:21 PM
3

Most Japanese people aren't even considered good looking lmao, not by western standards and not in the east either.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 06:59 PM
1

It doesn't even have to Japan. When I went to China for a month, it was likely living in a different planet. About a third of the woman I saw were stick thin and almost anorexic looking in a way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 06:42 PM
6

That and companies expecting you to work yourself to death for a salary and job security.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 06:40 PM
0

My parent's get the final say but I make recconendations here and there and do some of the labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 10:33 PM
1

If you consider people in the 25 - 30 age range kid's then sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 10:32 PM
1

No comment lul.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:30 PM
0

Oh, right.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:27 PM
1

I've yet to see any reddit post speaking positively about landlords get upvotes smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:21 PM
3

It's different from when my parents grew up, I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:19 PM
-1

Mb.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:18 PM
-3

You've never been to China then. You can be fired for failing to meet quota's. And while yes you can be fired for any reason, most companies won't try too because you'd get a huge settlement if you can prove they discriminated against you. The black guy who got fired from Tesla won 3.2 million dollars.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:14 PM
1

This is why I'm doing a LDR and dating overseas with my beta-buxx. Someone who's been coddled their entire life won't appreciate anything, someone who had nothing likely will.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:13 PM
0

Classic reddit moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:11 PM
-1

Most tenants aren't on vacation. They are working in the medical schools around here. Also, a deposit is meant to be collateral, not a service.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:11 PM
-2

It's very hard to get fired in the U.S because we have unions and even if they did, you could start a lawsuit and sue them for discrimination or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:09 PM
-3

In the U.S you can't be fired for poor performance lul. Here's to workers' rights. 🍺
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:06 PM
1

Oh, that's actually a huge relief to know. I agree with you on the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:05 PM
-5

Babies need to be looked after; kids who are 12- 13 can manage by themselves unless you are a helicopter parent. They are also working remotely at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 08:58 PM
1

It's a great way of putting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 08:56 PM
0

Yes, I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 08:56 PM
1

If the wife wants a no-fault divorce. They should be free to do so, but at least own up to wanting an upgrade because they can do better or because they want space if that's what they prefer. Some women have literally divorced their husband for "being too perfect" and there far more women who are against no fault divorce than men, not that it shouldn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 08:54 PM
1

I see it repeated a lot on reddit which makes me believe there's some truth to it, but some truths are either being omitted or it's never the whole truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 08:45 PM
-1

Yes, I'm not upset about having to clean after Airbnb customers. Just tenants. I shouldn't have included it tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 08:43 PM
6

Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 08:39 PM
2

Good reply. It's just harder to see on the surface then.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 08:35 PM
1

Thank you for this great answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 08:28 PM
-10

For Airbnb, cleaning is covered. For tenants, we expect people to leave the house in the same condition we left it in as stated in our contract. We don't have time to hire cleaners in-between housing arrangements aka before the new tenants arrive. If there's still filth me and my family members have to get down and dirty. I'm just skeptical about women who claim they do most of the cooking and cleaning in a dual household because it would have to be the bare minimum. Edit: Not sure where the dow…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 08:18 PM
6

and the status they bring. That's why most women wouldn't be caught dead dating someone shorter than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:50 PM
3

So, you don't see anything wrong with half the inmates in prison becoming fathers or women losing feelings the second they see their partner cry.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:43 PM
1

It would be reverse gay conversion therapy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 08:16 PM
1

Who can say for sure?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 08:05 PM
1

Aye
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 08:02 PM
1

Nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 07:59 PM
1

Only through God's divine intervention
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 07:52 PM
1

You are right.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 02:39 AM
3

More men will be with men and more women will be with women. Most men cannot capitalize on the strength difference and most women cannot penetrate other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 02:30 AM
1

Because our ancestors ate the forbidden fruit I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 02:20 AM
2

I'd say the biggest factor would be removing the power imbalance but I do not know if I can prove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 01:11 AM
1

Interesting...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 01:07 AM
2

I guess not, but at least people won't be pointing fingers at the other gender anymore. Or at least not as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 01:03 AM
2

Yeah, it wasn't a good way of putting it. I'd go as far as to say that there's no way of finding out whether or not the findings were valid. Without going full transphobic, if I'm a man who feels like a woman, what am I? You don't have to answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 12:50 AM
7

Unless they were sculpted like a statue.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 12:13 AM
3

Men and women want different things. If men got together with men and women got together with women. There would be less discord in our lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 11:52 PM
1

Wrong reply? If you meant to respond to my post, then it'll still happen but it will be much less likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 11:11 PM
1

Agreed, the biggest factor is opportunity, but If there's less men and women mingling, then there are less chances for women to be raped but not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 11:10 PM
-1

Eh, the post wasn't meant to be taken seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 10:19 PM
2

I don't want to stereotype people but how come I've noticed that black women are usually more upfront and honest about their real feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 10:18 PM
0

It's been proven to not only lower inhibition but also increase one's sexual arousal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 10:12 PM
1

Yes but there will also be less interactions between men and women so overall, there will still be a decrease in sexual offending. I'm going by the assumption that average men cannot find an average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:51 PM
2

Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:49 PM
2

Well I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:33 PM
2

So it's still a net win then.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 07:31 PM
1

I see
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 07:26 PM
2

I presume if they're going for hot guys, their standards will be high as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 07:25 PM
8

That's one unintended consequence I never considered.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 07:21 PM
2

True.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 07:21 PM
4

Not sexually confused. Just being equally attracted to both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 06:26 PM
5

Why didn't God make it happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 06:20 PM
1

Yes, but a lot of women wouldn't have wanted them anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 06:20 PM
6

Bi - sexual people can still find women attractive and be up for a relationship assuming they are wanted or want to explore all their options first.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 06:12 PM
1

I guess the only downside to this would be more STD's for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 06:04 PM
17

Ok, let's just say that Chad is getting all the bitches, now what?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:14 PM
1

Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:23 PM
2

Couldn't agree more. When it comes to hard work most men would rather give up and blame capitalism for everything than try.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 10:23 PM
-1

For a kissless virgin, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 10:11 PM
2

That's another option
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 10:07 PM
7

I don't blame you. Why have the same stale bread every day, when you can have 10 different kinds of cake. Edit: How come only blue pill woman are the only ones being genuine and honest lmao?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 06:20 PM
1

The conversation is going nowhere and I got work tomorrow good night.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 05:02 AM
0

And men...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 05:00 AM
0

Because it's a debate sub on dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 04:58 AM
0

When did PPD become about women's issues again?!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 04:25 AM
0

Then someone else can start a different thread to discuss that...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 04:23 AM
4

Tons of people are not using the correct flairs. I've also seen plenty of purple and no pills people who are blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 02:45 AM
3

Blue pill man - "I won the lottery, why can't you?!"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 12:08 AM
1

Bruh, you just missed the opportunity of a lifetime, twice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:50 PM
1

While that's true. I'm still skeptical because I haven't heard of even one such case.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:13 PM
5

And how do you do that without crossing the line and doing something most people would consider unacceptable?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:04 PM
5

Shitposting on 4Chan and posting fake revenge stories on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:57 PM
2

Yes, but they'd also have to take a necessary risk. What happens if the person who tried to rescue the victim got dragged down with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:52 PM
5

It's just a pity party for them. I doubt most would actually go through with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:50 PM
7

That it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:45 PM
3

TIL
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:43 PM
1

But it's not really their actions but rather inaction. You can't be upset that someone isn't willing to help others fix their problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:43 PM
3

Yes, but that's different.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:39 PM
1

Nobody wants to be on the receiving end of a rejection. They definitely would if it didn't hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:38 PM
1

They'll eventually settle and marry someone for their beta buxx as a consolation prize. I shouldn't have said most.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:32 PM
9

I found other joys in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:31 PM
2

I swear makeup is fucking magic. You could go from a 5 to an 8 by knowing how to apply it. Edit: How come it doesn't work on guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:26 PM
24

It's certainly worked for me a few times, but the act does get tiresome.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:24 PM
14

It doesn't bother me because I've already accepted my fate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:23 PM
2

You're both being ridiculous. Nobody should be shamed for choosing to stay single if it makes them happier. Likewise, couple that are still happy despite a big age gap or someone who married a person from an impoverished country should also be immune to scrutiny.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:17 PM
3

2 is being generous. Some just go by their personal experiences and think that just because they got lucky, everyone else's experiences will follow suit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:12 PM
2

It depends on how they were socialized.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:08 PM
6

Women are more likely to killed by their intimate partners on a daily basis than an incel who plots their revenge fantasy in their basement and never comes out of the house. World War 3 would have to come before men start revolting.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:02 PM
13

But at the end of the day, I still have 98 problems that make it impossible to approach, while Chad has one - social awkwardness.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:56 PM
-1

I would say they lean towards blue rather than black. Nobody said anything about raping or killing woman, and the guy jumps to their rescue by saying anyone who tries should be shot lmao. I totally agree with your last column. People mock FDS day and night but at least they are willing to admit their hypergamous behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:50 PM
3

Yep, nothing changes from what OP described.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:44 PM
6

I doubt it. Most will just stay single like they're already doing if they can't get Chad. There's no trophy husband for 2nd place.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:41 PM
0

Yet I've never heard about any incels actually raping a woman before. Correct my if I'm wrong. In most cases it's popular celebrities or frat boys like Brock Turner who have an entire harem of women that do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:34 PM
74

I like how everyone in this sub including myself, is tired of blue pill telling people to "just be a good person."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:27 PM
2

Unless you have the charisma of a salesman and the humor of a comedian.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:23 PM
2

Unless the women tosses you the ball first, there's no point in even trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:15 PM
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If she wanted to leave she would have already left. The guy either has a lot of material wealth or looks good.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:05 PM
1

I agree with you, life is full of risks and some aren't worth taking. I would never rent a house to somebody if there was the possibility that someone's income wasn't stable or if they were likely to flee. That's why I always go for broke college students.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:24 PM
1

Inb4 someone calls you racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:18 PM
1

I'm surprised to see a woman take a conservative approach on reddit of all places.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:17 PM
1

Possibly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:03 PM
1

Not if I there is only have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:39 PM
1

That's what I noticed too. Everyone with pretty privilege uses it, whether it's for good or for ill.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:27 PM
1

I do it as a defense mechanism. If I already imagined the worst case scenario happening, then nothing can really hurt me. I have only been wrong about authenticity. Plenty of women who look nice have actually been pretty mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:10 PM
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If they firmly believe that men are violent and unstable then they should just opt out of having kids in the first place. I don't know why they are content with not only risking their lives but their child's own life as well. Also, have you considered that men are more concerned about their wallets because most of us do not have support from family and friends and safety nets like homeless shelters.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:04 PM
1

We live in a society.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:11 AM
6

Oh, good point. Good night I'm going to bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:09 AM
8

It just seems sort of silly to ask a guy to refrain from commentating on one of the few places he is allowed to voice his opinion. If there are several other places where he can't and women can, why should he look elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:06 AM
7

And those sites aren't nearly as popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:05 AM
9

Are there really? The only other sub where this would be allowed would be on the MRA's main subreddit and doing so gets you banned from a lot of others. Reddit admins have straight up told its users that "white heteronormative men" aren't a protected class.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:01 AM
1

Well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:58 AM
10

Start taking the bus to work then. It's 70x more likely for you to die in an car accident than from IPV or a stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:55 AM
14

The whole thing reeks of toxic feminity but I don't think we are ready to have this discussion yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:43 AM
9

Yes, there's definitely room for some middle ground here. Not that they'll meet them there...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:42 AM
27

I'll play the devil's advocate here and say the story is likely fake. The vitriol I've seen on the comments are not, however. If there's hundreds of comments that paint the wife as some martyr and automatically assume the husband is a wife beater, what's the point in even getting married anymore if there's so many women who share similar views. All I see on the horizon is a dead bedroom, infidelity, and divorce. Might as well just do hookups or hookers which is easier and cheaper.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:35 AM
22

Is that subreddit the new TwoX or what? Everyone's consensus is that he is in the wrong and so far, I haven't read a single comment that remained neutral until I sorted by controversial. If she was so terrified about domestic abuse and violence, then she should have talked to him about her unresolved trauma and addressed her concerns the first year they met and asked him if it would be fine with him. If he wasn't, they could have gone their own separate ways from there. But after spending 5 year…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:28 AM
1

I e If the women I plan on dating genuinely looks like she's a mean person, I automatically assume she's going to mistreat me if we ever got together, even though it could just be her RBF. Then there's women who are too nice to everyone but in a way that seemed nonauthentic, so in my mind, she is probably just after my beta - buxx. Sorry if it was confusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:07 AM
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