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Being romantic with a woman that reciprocate is totally fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 10:31 PM
23

Romantic behavior if not reciprocated is simping
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 10:30 PM
2

Not the redpill, but studies have shown that the most attractive age range on average for women in terms of looks is 18-24. On average not all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 07:39 PM
1

Say my name
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 01:34 PM
1

True, i guess some of them think it's gonna ruin the mood
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:54 PM
0

But then what if the majority of women they've been with liked those things? Wouldn't it make some sense that they assume it's gonna be similar for most girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:44 PM
0

What would be some of those?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:23 PM
1

Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:06 PM
1

Im. Mean the addictions and behavior created by those my bad
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:01 PM
1

That's good to hear, does this only gets talked about within the confinement of relationships or also for any men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 10:55 PM
2

How does it works?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 10:50 PM
6

The question was how do you recognize them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 10:46 PM
7

Religious men are addicted to porn too
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 10:45 PM
0

You could also say that clumps of cell are humans since when you kill a pregnant woman you can be accused of double homicide right? Using those kind of arguments isn't very useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:05 PM
0

Choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:24 PM
1

"This isn't just a philosophical discussion." Nothing philosophical here. I just explained to you where those people come from. "I'm forced to carry a fetus to term in my own body as a real life incubator. " No you're not, you're forced to use contraception or take the risk and potentially have to raise a kid. It's still a choice with disadvantages but still a choice anyway. "Again this is my point exactly. Y'all don't empathize at all. You don't give a crap about the "life" let's be honest." Ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:30 PM
1

I don't have an opinion on the matter really. You have your perception that the baby is a clump of cell, they have their opinion that the clump of cell is a bady hence the difference of opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:12 PM
1

Isn't that more about the life of the child than the sexuality of the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:58 PM
2

The redpill never say " you're gonna become a top 1% man" however if you're not fat one could argue you're already in the top 30% since 70% of the population is fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:21 PM
1

Yup that's why i said they adjust their age ranges.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 11:42 PM
1

Well they adjust their age range but a common complaint insaw is that men in their late 30s and into their 40s don't want to date women their age and tend to go for 5 to 10 years younger than them which leave the women of the same age with a pool of older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 11:32 PM
1

Why would they be daft for not wanting to date a woman in her 40s?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 11:13 PM
1

Oh yeah i "ruined" women past because i use an umbrella term that even women use. You're not making sense
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 07:45 PM
2

When it comes to pumped and dumped and all things related to bodycount it's the same handful of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 05:41 PM
3

"For every woman with a bad past is a man who ruined said woman’s past." Bologne it's minority of men that impact multiple women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 05:37 PM
2

Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 05:03 PM
2

I never said it was?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:59 PM
2

Sure, but i don't see why a couple of inches less make that much difference to them even though i don't mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:58 PM
2

"It’s funny how men refuse to compromise on physical features yet expect women to somehow enjoy sex with men they aren’t attracted to. Men with fetishes refuse to compromise." Most people men and women and up compromising when they get into relationships. "Men throw extended fits when women cut their hair or seek breast reduction. Men express preferences for brunettes, blondes, or redheads with tap-dancing glee. Men leer at and seek porn with women with large breasts or small. Huge asses or pre-…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:57 PM
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" The steps to become a top 20% man are reaaaly objectively easy and can be done in a year minimum" What would be those steps according to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:38 PM
2

They can say wathever they want. It's the expectations that are going to cause them problems because as i said there's an issue of supply and demand. If most women want a tall men , most of them won't get what they want because there isn't enough tall men go around. Futhermore, with demands the "value" of those men increase which mean that they're more likely to not commit and cheat. If most women can't love a man because he's a couple inches shorter than they would like a majority of them is go…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:35 PM
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Supply and demands issues
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:22 PM
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Statistically speaking you'll find them almost everywhere bar gyms or maybe on hikes. It's 70% of the population
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:20 PM
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That's only because you disagree with his idea
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:17 PM
1

Have you looked at the rate of divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:56 AM
1

I mean it is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:49 AM
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And those relationships don't last more than a decade most of the time anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:25 PM
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There's enough sedation for that not to happen and even if it did they don't really have hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:29 PM
3

Isn't that a play on what women say
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:09 PM
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That's true that men are blamed but that's because women are considered as someone with inherent value which is also positive reinforcement.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 01:39 PM
7

Correct, except one would argue most women rather than some.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 01:34 PM
1

Op is wrong but you're probably looking too far into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 01:39 AM
1

But they're used as tools for the same outcome in this context
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 11:10 PM
2

And what does it have to do with someone saying don't chase women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 09:12 PM
0

Nah 70% of adult are overweight the market is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 09:06 PM
2

Well i don't see why not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 09:05 PM
1

Untrue you can find men that asked out thousands of gals and will tell you that's not worth it. Hell you can even look at tinder analytics where some dude swipe right 50000 women and only get a date with 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 09:01 PM
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Depends on why he died.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:18 PM
0

Reaching for stars?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 08:39 AM
0

Porn is the best sedation
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 08:42 PM
1

Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 03:25 AM
4

Then why are they on dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 11:45 PM
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Women need men more than they want them and men want women more than they need them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 11:30 PM
4

Supply and demand issues
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 05:00 PM
2

Well i'm glad you're better off now
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 04:49 PM
1

Well it's fucking rough. I've never heard of someone that actually did the work and make themselves as attractive as possible get crushed like that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 04:22 PM
2

Goddamn
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 04:10 PM
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I mean if you want a relationship that makes perfect sense to ask advice to those ahead of you and not at the same level.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 05:34 PM
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I mean if you want a relationship that makes perfect sense to ask advice to those ahead of you and not at the same level.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 05:34 PM
3

Oh but you forgot the 18 different birth controls
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 08:53 AM
0

Arguable when you look at their outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:22 PM
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Most redpill people would agree that bad outcomes that happen to you are your fault most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 09:31 PM
2

Most of those claims are asinine so not really an issue
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 09:07 PM
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There's always a chance the question is do you take a risk or not. But you have responsibility for the choice you make and your reaction to the outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 07:32 PM
1

Thinking because there's a risk means i think you shouldn't do anything is quite foolish of you and narrow minded. Life is a succession of choices between safety and risk taking, both can result in bad or good outcomes but you have a share of responsibilty in both. Rather than saying " oh no there's orage outside i might get hit by lightning" how about you ask yourself what's the likelyhood of it happening and what you can do to futher the chances of it happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:40 PM
0

It's very simple, you can only be cheated if you put yourself in a situation where you can be. De facto entering in a relationship is accepting the possibilty of being cheated on but of course there are many things you can do to lower the likelyhood of it happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:13 PM
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No that sound perfectly consistent for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 05:50 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 05:49 PM
2

That would be sympathy if he never experienced anything similar i guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 08:17 PM
2

I sure will lemme prepare the popcorn
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 12:13 PM
2

But it won't exist if there isn't enough people to maintain it anymore is that not obvious?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:44 AM
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An healthy society than can't sustain itself in the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:29 AM
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Yeah the lies wouldn't be surprising
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 10:53 PM
2

I agree but question is how much him being validated by other women make him more attractive as opposed to him being already physically attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 01:02 PM
2

That's observable but i don't know to how much of the population it's applicable
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 12:46 PM
2

Do most women care as much about sexual past as men?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 02:06 AM
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Thinking you're entitled to someone is only gonna breed failure. I wouldn't consider women attracted to high earning men immediatly as gold digge, most women are attracted to high earning parters to a certain degree anyway. What make you a gold digger is taking without giving anything. If you're only searching for a man to take care of you without making any effort then sure you're one but if you're helpful not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 01:43 AM
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Yes it halo effect is universal. But he was moreso talking about the type of picture, tatoo percing etc...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 01:37 AM
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I don't see how it's bad if she brings what the high earning men want which most of the time isn't an equal earning partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 01:31 AM
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Why would that be required if male and female are attracted to different things in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 01:05 AM
2

From what i've seen of the actual trp sub they actually got nothing to do with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 01:02 AM
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Most men are moral and accountable that's part of why they get laid less than their immoral counterparts. Arguing about what people should do is useless too, not only moral is relative but your perception of it is also not optimal depending on which outcome you want. Also why should men make an effort to be more moral when women aren't better than them.?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:21 PM
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Wether or not they are doesn't matter. If lying work on them why would the guys stop? What about the women that know that they're getting lied to and keep falling for it once again which is a good chunk of them
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:08 PM
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Yes it is a direct consequence of their behavior. If women stopped giving sex to "lying little scumbags that will say anything to get laid" no men would do that anymore. Why would you stop doing something that's rewarded everytime you do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:54 PM
1

Who decides who are the representatives?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:24 PM
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Tradcon =/= redpill
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:04 PM
1

You using liable put responsibility on men and by the same occasion create a justification for cheating since you infer it's their fault
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:54 PM
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It's not truth that is hateful it's your perception that make it appear as such. However your perception isn't objective so truth isn't hateful in any objective manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:06 PM
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Truth cannot be hateful
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:53 PM
3

Lazy people getting fat after marriage and getting worse than they were before marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 10:57 PM
2

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 12:15 PM
2

It's meant for average frustrated chumps
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:12 AM
0

Let's go with journalism sociology , humanities and languages (especially english)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 12:37 AM
-1

? Once again i don't see those successful women y'all are talking about most of them major in low paying jobs with less hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 11:37 PM
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If they didn't major to end up with worthless jobs 3/4 of the time maybe your first point would stand. Having a BA in journalism doesn't make you superior
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 10:45 PM
1

All men are instinctivly attracted to young women it's in our dna you can poll in any part of the world younger women are just more attractive by default like taller men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:46 PM
-1

How many of those wives take care of themselves like mentioned above how many are kind and caring still? Probably a minority which plays a role in wife googles.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:28 PM
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Some are and that's enough to take precotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:54 PM
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I already told you it's too late and hostile how?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 02:03 PM
3

That's actually a nice answer to this nonsense. I'll remember that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:59 AM
7

Yes it is a big issue for western countries of which many are bellow replacement rate already. It's just too late to fix it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:09 AM
1

I don't see any good or bad in that, i'm just pointing out that women outearning men and being in a relationship with them is reinforcing op argument since most of them will end up single
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:38 PM
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Not sure they will settle tho
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:31 PM
3

Who knows some must truly be mentally ill
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:40 PM
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Men liking thin women is also part of their deep rooted pedophialia they should real women QUEENS!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:29 PM
0

But they're more likely to remain single and to join the increasing single ladies compared to their counterparts that make less money. Complaints of higher earning women not finding financially attractive men are already there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:22 PM
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She's saying liking petite women is pedophilia
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:12 PM
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Well the number of single women will keep increasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:04 PM
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Of course men liking petite women is rooted in pedophillia like white whamen having big dogs is rooted in zoophillia i saw it on twitter so it must be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:01 PM
2

Likelyhood of divorce are much higher in those configurations
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 07:52 PM
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Well going to jail for a few years is arguably better than bringing an a child forced onto you and being saddled with child support for the nex two decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 11:36 PM
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"i had my fun no fun for you." style
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:12 PM
0

Said women don't believe men when they share their exepriences in many posts. So, does it seems surprising to you that does same men in return have an hard time believing those said women?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:53 PM
1

You say it's masculine because it's convenient for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:27 PM
-1

If you don't fullfil your partner desires don't be surprise they go fullfil them somewhere else. Yes they should be allowed to cheat if you won't have sex with them or you get fat on them. That goes for men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:24 PM
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It should be established at the start of a relationship that both side would not get lazy or complacent and fat fucks. Those case must represent majority of relationships too. Wether you're a man or a woman if you get fat or lazy and you're partner won't have sex/cheat on you it's your fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:19 PM
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If the partner became unattractive that's grows fat on their SO they can blame themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:08 PM
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For not wanting to talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:52 PM
5

Some dudes got fired for less than that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:49 PM
4

You want him to get reported to hr?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:47 PM
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May i introduce you to the concept of spectrum ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:57 PM
3

Different rules for different guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:56 PM
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Depends on what issue for the answer. But it is true that women issues are way more considered in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:53 PM
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It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 11:51 AM
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Thanks i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 09:14 AM
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Studies suggest that about only 40% of men reproduced throughout humanity as opposed to 80% for women so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:51 AM
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He made his choices and blamed it on the rp. I don't remember rp telling me to do anything but i do remember it being presented as a toolbox to achieve wanted outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:49 AM
2

No they definitly do exist wether or not they're a vocal minority is unclear however.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:14 AM
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That's not the usual definition but even then i don't see how it's manipulative. We see plenty of short women wanting tall men only and it's not perceived as manipulative.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:06 AM
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No man get more upgrade his looks so he can "control" women that makes no sense, he do so to be more attractive especially when becoming attractive takes way more efforts for men than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:40 AM
3

So if someone tries to be more attractive to get better outcomes you consider that manipulation ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:31 AM
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What is manipultive in looks max then lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:11 AM
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Looks max? Really? Would you consider women wearing makeup manipulation too?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:52 AM
1

Depends on the timeline, you're told to consider them irreversible
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:41 AM
3

I mean it's a fact that women are the most attractive to men between 20-24 this has been studied.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 12:04 PM
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Depends the range of age first of all, but once again if she's attractive in her 30s she was probably more attractive in her 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:42 AM
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Yes i did my bad
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:11 AM
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Most women become less attractive with time. Once again i didn't say they aren't appealing. I said they're less appealing than their younger counterparts on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 12:56 AM
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Catfishing?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 10:58 PM
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A good chunk of them put photos of the when they were thinner or are good at exploiting angles. There are countless stories of guys being catfished on weight
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 10:40 PM
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A good chunk of them put photos of the when they were thinner or are good at exploiting angles. There are countless stories of guys being catfished on weight
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 10:40 PM
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Because it's one of the first precipitator of divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 12:08 PM
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That you shouldn't tolerate those behaviors?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:51 PM
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It doesn't
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:28 AM
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Some are saying the exact opposite in a new post
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 05:26 PM
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Or getting wrecked in the real world and realizing what you was told were lies
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 12:54 PM
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They're not undatable but less attractive than their 10/20 year old younger equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 12:52 PM
6

This isn't second hand perpective
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 12:43 PM
1

Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:36 PM
2

The subject was ethics
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:35 PM
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The concept agree with is the one of rollo, it's descriptive you get the tools you need to get the outcome you want. Yes the "redpill" is composed of multiple people with opposing idea and not an united group.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:10 PM
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The redpill isn't about following a specific lifestyle but having the knowledge you need to get the outcome that you want. For instance if your goal is to be in a LTR redpill will tell you that a women with a low bodycount is a better bet than one with higher however if you want a bachelor life there's no need to care about bodycount. As for exemples of men who are rp aware and married rp thor and rollo tomassi come to mind
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:46 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:28 PM
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Most of them were never worth it to begin with honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 01:27 PM
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Don't ever get into a relationship then.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 11:14 AM
2

You talk about it like you didn't want to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 11:11 AM
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Yes i did one isn't more unethical than the other
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 10:39 AM
2

As a very smart man said they omaha beach brought to them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 11:34 PM
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Cocky but they don't get encouraged that's the difference. Do you think there's more cocky fat dudes or cocky fat gals?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:06 PM
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Why would something she has already in abundence make me more attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:39 PM
2

And how does that matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:35 PM
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And that doesn't matter because they chose it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:30 PM
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Their choices in both cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:15 PM
4

No one ever said that fat dudes where attractive and they don't get any positive reinforcement like women do through body positivity
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:12 PM
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Yeah but it's the most powerful known factor and as a proof you just need to look at the impact of testosterone increase on body builders men or women during usage of drugs
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:10 PM
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It is factually impossible, men have 12 to 17 times the amount of testosterone a women have. They have sex drive that people think but not as much as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 10:19 AM
3

You didn't have same issue with sperm donor.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 10:16 AM
4

B-but i feel like
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 10:15 AM
2

Well most women are more promiscuous than i'd like so i'm gonna have to search harder or lower my expectations same things for you now. Are gonna stop whining and take agency in your life or lower your standards? If you're not willing to do what it takes go pound sand.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 10:04 AM
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Is seeing your partner as a failure for not making you able to cum is gonna make you cum as opposed to finding a new partner? No, so etheir you accept or you move along that's it, can call him a failure if that's what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 09:55 AM
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Well keep on searching or suck it up. You can also train your guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 09:27 AM
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Don't they choose partners who can't give them orgasm? Why don't they move on?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 09:10 AM
2

Do you want the average man?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 09:00 AM
2

Yes that would be the coherent and fair outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:53 AM
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Sure why not that would more coherent with the message we've been getting for years now. But oh wait, in some states you can have your money taken away even if you gave up on your parents right.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:50 AM
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But women told us for years that men had no autority on on what a woman do with her body even in the confinement of a marriage, that doesn't make sense! Without autority there cannot be responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:44 AM
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Ok having children is your choice so it's your responsibility not the dude. Your body your choice amirite
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:40 AM
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She's nuts that's all there is
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:56 PM
2

Which they can start balancing with finacial success and women their age lowering their physical standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:54 PM
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How do all those things work if the girl doesn't even let you a chance display your personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:17 PM
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I dunno both are very good indicators of low iq to me. But i could bypass them depending on how bad the chick is and how horny i am.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 01:48 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 09:49 PM
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They can stop holding back on food, that's one benefit
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 09:43 PM
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Well first of all, i don't consider that to be sad, it is what it is. It's not because it doesnnt feels good that it's wrong. Attractivness is less subjective than people think. Being tall for exemple makes you more attractive to an overwhelming majority of women. Aknowledging facts doesn't make you mad for it, my feelings won't get hurt if someone don't find me attractive that i don't even know it would make no sense. Men are interested with getting many women because it's hardwired in us the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 08:22 PM
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The most attractive men are the victors, they get access to the most women easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:11 PM
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No it wasn't about suffering, i was testing the consistency of his logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 12:50 PM
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No i disagree, even in norway the most egalitarian country the differences in career get bigger. It's not the radical feminist that push for equality in politics or high paying jobs. It's most feminist which i critisize because all of that evaporate when it's a job without air conditioning. You're totally right many people want equality of outcome instead of equality of oportunity, distorded data and anecdotal evidences play a role but i think the main issue is that those people are lazy and see…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 12:45 PM
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Loving masculine women isn't inherently wrong you're just a minority i guess. But the only way to know if you're gonna like it is be in a relationship with them. One issue you might encounter is that masculine women tend to want someone even more masculine. However there are some anecdotal data showing that some couples where the roles are reversed can maintain themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 02:44 AM
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What i meant is that women who push for women to be represented in politics and stems will never say the same for straining manual jobs. Also while i aknowledge your garbage lady, you can concede that she's a minority and statistically insignificant when we look at the big picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 02:17 AM
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Well some women accept it if you're strong enough financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 11:49 PM
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Well what else do you expect him to do? Bargain with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 11:39 PM
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It's not about dictating, it's do you accept those terms or not if yes then that's not cheating because there's no deceit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 11:29 PM
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Ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 11:25 PM
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No it's not, if before you enters a relationship he tells you that his sexuality won't br exclusive that's not cheating, that's just being in a one sided open relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 10:32 PM
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It's not cheating if he tells you how it's gonna be right from the start
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 10:30 PM
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But nobody can define it when asked to but more important you didn't adress the claim above by your standards wouldn't it be sexist?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 10:20 PM
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Well for instance nobody calls it sexist when women are saying nonsense like "women are more emotionally intelligent!" While nobody even knows what it means.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:54 PM
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What outliers are you talking about? Are you trolling? Most women are overweight just like men, hell most women are more fat than men if you compare them at equal height.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:51 PM
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No they definitly don't want equality no feminist that says we should have same representation in workplace is willing to collect garbage, it's only for jobs that are convenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:37 PM
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If i didn't use those words you'd complain that i don't take into account exceptions. "You know it just takes one person to love you, right?" This is a stupid comment when most relationships are unhappy To think you're attractive you need positive reinforcement or you cannot know that you are in the first place and a good chunk of men between 18 and 30 don't get any. "You can find a woman who is actually similar to you and appreciates all of you, including your so-called "weaknesses". Even you p…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:25 PM
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The fact that the more attractive you are the more you have options and that it has been proven throughout history again and again that to victors go the spoils.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:06 PM
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That's not a solid proof of better intelligence, there are studies showing that girls get graded higher than boys at level. Teachers are shown to have biases and the education system overwhelmingly ran by women. There are also studies that show that the way school is designed is way more positive for girls than for boys, boys are kinesthetic learner which isn't taken into account in the education system and those issues were made worse by the pandemic. Boys are just marginalized in the education…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 08:58 PM
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Nobody want real equality when it comes to work anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 08:40 PM
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I'd argue that most of the top 10 studies women major in are absolutly worthless to society and result in low incomes so not really a proof of intellect. Futhermore it's statically proven men are more likely to have higher iq than women but also likely to have extremly iq because the variety of iq level for men is wider than for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 08:37 PM
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The people who are obese and in relationship became fat on their partners most of the time and said partners are fat also or too lazy/incentivised to leave. Male under 4ft are statistically irrelevant and unattractive to a crushing majority of women anyway. Being autistic isn't a death sentence, disabled people aren't already in relationship pre disability struggle immensly m, even some other disabled people don't want them for being disabled. "people on Death Row or long prison sentences..." Ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 08:26 PM
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By having them believe that you have control on everything that comes your way and that they'll always be safe by your side.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 08:06 PM
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It's not really about emotion, it's pretty factual that women like tall, rich, popular and smart men if you have none of those quality you're not gonna attract anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 07:56 PM
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Men and women aren't that different than other men and women respectivly most people are attracted to the same things.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 02:54 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 02:28 PM
2

Who do you include in your community? What if your partner found valid reason to not help them? Would that be a dealbreaker?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 02:18 PM
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What are some of those same values?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 11:46 AM
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Princella is incoherent jaded woman. It doesn't matter if i personally know single father or not (which i know a decent amount of btw) it's a fact that single fathers perform better than single mothers on average and it's not even close anyone can look up the stats on internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 11:36 AM
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Most single fathers perform better than single moms in raising their kids. There plenty of fathers who wanted custody and it was unfairly denied to them. There are plenty of fathers who don't have the custody but still provide for their kids excluding alimony and child support. You're claim that men have no capacity for love is just rooted in your feelings and bitterness.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 11:29 AM
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What about single fathers?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:12 AM
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Sure, i agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 01:00 AM
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More than 70% of women wouldn't have sex. And most couple would evaporate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 12:52 AM
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I think by 2030 the usage anti-depressant will be higher than right now too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 12:50 AM
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I wonder how big differences in iq are on average, i don't see anyone as complete fool in my family and a good amount of my cousins and uncles have high level jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 05:09 PM
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What's interesting is that men tend to have more variance than women in various metrics like this exemple of iq: you're more likely to be extremly dumb as male but also more likely to extremly intelligent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 10:30 AM
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I take it that she used her personnal experience to say that men who are vocal about younger women being attractive won't get one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 03:49 PM
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What i don't understand is why would you say that whatever op said is realtalk when she only made her personnal experience a generality which i would argue isn't very smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 03:35 PM
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No it's only one inche under the average statistically
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 03:28 PM
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And what does that change? Does it disprove that a 35 year old guy can attract 20 year old gal? Nobody said that every 30 something guy could get an early 20s gal but that doesn't mean it's impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 03:24 PM
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The "realtalk" "i haven't saw it so it must not exist" is very cogent indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 03:01 PM
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Understandable however from a factual standpoint she's still more attractive than the average thirty something women based on weight and her body.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 06:27 PM
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The average 30 year old is overweight dude she looks better than the average
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 05:45 PM
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As in do most men even experience the ability to make this choice? And even if they did would they even have the awareness to be able choose?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 01:39 AM
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Do they all have the choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 01:05 AM
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Well now, you and everyone who read this knows why men don't approch women anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:46 AM
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Same reason the few men that go to women stop too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:37 AM
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? Nobody claimed she wouldn't make money that's also a known advantage of being on the pod, exposure.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 11:28 AM
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My question would be is he equally fine with you dressing provocativly when he's not here?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 05:15 PM
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We were talking about approching not looks here. Most women never got rejected overtly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 01:12 AM
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You're right they probably should but they most likely won't, however even if they did they would probably flood guys who already have a lot of options so i have my reservations on wether it will improve things or not for them. There are studies of obese women having more pull than extremly attractive dudes on dating apps. You can be obese and still get matches if you're invisible you have a very easy way of not being anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 09:12 PM
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You're not the average woman then
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 08:29 PM
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I mean the level of happiness have gone down...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 10:57 PM
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At least the confusion was taken away and know you can make an informed choice
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 11:09 PM
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What he's saying is that in the domain of romantic relationship most of the time women are loved for things that they're born with and men are loved for things that they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 10:52 PM
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Well high value has nothing to do with human value it's used to describe people from a sexual or relationship attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:51 PM
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But yet the least happy people in america are 40+ year old women single and childless.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 12:53 PM
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Yes, and you can also account for fertility level getting lower with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 04:40 PM
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It's not about being gross or not there was a study that polled a large array of men from 18 to 60 and they found on average that the most attractive women ranged from 18 to 24. Attraction isn't a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:45 PM
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If other women want him you're logically more likely to be attracted to him compared to a guy nobody is attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 12:50 PM
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Cognitive dissonance
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 02:08 PM
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He's the one talking in bad faith
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 01:38 PM
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" There’s also a wide range of things someone can be guilty of outside of rape or murder. " Depends on what you consider being guilty is. "Like using you for sex." Unless it's non-consensual accusing someone of using you for sex make no sense both parties wanted sex or it's rape but just because someone doesn't want a relationship doesn't mean they use you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 11:25 PM
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Being wary of an individual isn't the same as assuming said individual has neferious intent or is guilty based on the word of someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 07:32 PM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 10:49 AM
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Well then that would be 4.5% then based on dating apps studies
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 10:30 AM
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Well it's not the same. When a women is the main breadwinner chance of break up are increased.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 12:35 PM
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But that's not the subject here you know i'm talking about them being "duped" when they wanted to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 11:14 PM
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It's very simple: both parties wanted to have sex -> they had sex. Only one partie wanted a relationship -> no relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 10:48 PM
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"Explainable by wars and performing more dangerous jobs before reaching marriagable age." That doesn't change the fact that women are willing to share higher status men, if they didn't out humans wouldn't be that developped now. "I've read the study. A single Y-chromosomal genetic bottleneck 8,000 years ago does not dictate human behavior when modern humans have existed for far longer." Well if you look at this study plus other ones you can certainly get an idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 10:46 PM
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What do you mean duped? They wanted to have sex with the high status guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 10:36 PM
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There are studies that show that since the beginning of our specie only 40% of men have reproduced vs 80% of women. An other study shows that 8000 years ago 1 men for 17 women was reproducing. Women would choose to be with those men because they were attractive wether or not there was a prospect for the future or not, even against their parents whishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 10:35 PM
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No, even women of higher status chose to be concubines throughout history because they wanted to be with that guy even though he was not exclusive, powerful men have always been attractive and had hords of women after them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 10:19 PM
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This is not a fantasy, polyginy is as old as humanity the only thing is that it's reserved to top echelon guys
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 08:57 PM
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Sexism is discrimination or priviledge based on sex . Chivalry as it's define here is by definition a priviledge based on sex so it is sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 06:36 PM
1

Muh "who hurt you?"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 06:37 PM
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Being a virgin doesn't make you trad per say
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:24 PM
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He probably meant for an ltr, not just busting a nut.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:23 PM
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The rp is a toolbox
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 11:59 PM
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Well said
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 06:11 PM
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They delusionally put themselves in the "friend zone" and women delusionally put themselves in the "sex zone".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 05:53 PM
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Not popular enough to make a huge impact realistically.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 05:48 PM
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"In my family" your family is an exception it makes no sense to bring it if we speak in general. You, your mother and your sister might not leave but majority will.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:58 PM
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While i don't agree with his idea, making an argument for the exception to the rule is also dumb. A women outearning her husband is one of the biggest predicator on a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:54 PM
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It's a praxeology
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 09:37 PM
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It's not an issue when it comes to non-western countries
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:55 PM
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We wouldn't be here
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:59 PM
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My bad i misread
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 10:56 AM
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What i'm saying is that men are naturally more attracted by youth than their counterpart
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 10:46 AM
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How about women are not as attracted by youth as men are?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 10:10 AM
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She was cutting off people and changing subject throughout the live, that's why.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 08:48 PM
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What good point did she make that wasn't followed by a terrible conclusion ? She had some decent idea but the conclusion she made out of them were absurd. She literally said dudes who jumped in the way to protect their girl from bullet and died only did it to not lose pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 08:46 PM
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You only seen 3 minutes of a three hour show, she was delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 08:42 PM
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Yeah, because a man who has plenty women after him is the most direct way of proving value. He has a lot of women getting women is hard for most men, he's doing something right. He is the man that other men want to be and other women want to fuck but the purpose isn't to reach that it's just to be around women and the consequence of being able to is what i stated above.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 01:19 PM
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Doesn't that contradict the trans agenda
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 11:56 AM
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It's not what you say, it's how you say it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 11:52 AM
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Do you know the definition of female?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 11:49 AM
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You really think men fuck women to flex on other dudes? Are you a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 11:41 AM
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Then people would just put their instagram in their bio.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:40 PM
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The girls would still match them and even less average dude because scarcity
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:26 PM
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Well i can't force anyone to stop but there are many downsides to it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 06:31 PM
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Also you would need to remove all social apps especially instagram for it to work
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 03:57 PM
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Well, bravo you exarcerbate the issue we have today by giving even more options to those who already have and less to those who don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 03:55 PM
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There's no incentive for a man to use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 03:47 PM
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There's no positive about drinking alcohol. The safest thing would be to avoid drinking it bar special occasions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 03:15 PM
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So we aren't equal, then you shouldn't seek for equality and start talking about unfairness when it stop being convenient for you. You're inconsistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 03:06 PM
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Do you not understand basic logic?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 02:58 PM
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Sure, men have no reproductive rights and women having reproductive rights isn't equality of rights and choices. men have no reproductive rights and women having no reproductive rights is equality of rights and choices by definition. If you really want equality you shouldn't complain either you take rights from both sex or you give it to both.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 02:48 PM
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So making them equal to men when it comes to reproductive rights. Isn't equality what people wanted?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 02:37 PM
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On average wether he exercise or not a man is still stronger than a majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 08:14 AM
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Well good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 08:13 AM
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Well then what kind of man do you want? What i stated encapsulate the overwhelming majority of men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 08:06 AM
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Being an onlyfan girl makes you a hoe and a promiscuous woman (even if you're not) for a majority of men and it will disqualify you for most of them. Fast money comes with slow problems
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 08:01 AM
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Well that would be part of talking negativly about them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:46 AM
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Wether or not you masturbate to them, in most case those women aren't good bet for relationship. A man will indulge in sexual activity with women they'd never have relation with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:41 AM
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Financial reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:24 AM
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When?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:29 AM
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Wow, calling autistic someone that disagree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 11:17 PM
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Just because many people use it as such doesn't mean it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 10:57 PM
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No it relies on numerous studies and common experieces to create a predictive framework
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 10:56 PM
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Those divorce are overwhelmingly initiated by women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 10:55 PM
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It's not an ideology it's a praxeology that observe commonality in behavior to create wanted outcomes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 10:32 PM
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" A person can have realistic understanding of dating, marriage and intergender relationships" that's what the redpill is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 10:28 PM
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No thanks, I'll pick myself. I'm not lazy nor do i expect people to accept my deficiencies.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:43 PM
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Yes if it's because i'm lazy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:32 PM
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Why do you go to the extreme?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:14 PM
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That's your assumption since you extrapolate that from what he said
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 06:33 PM
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They do for long term relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 06:05 PM
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A man who's attractive to a majority of women. Playboys love sluts but not for ltr.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 06:04 PM
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Most of those relationships fail bring pain and divorces
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 06:34 PM
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How many women want this though ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 08:29 AM
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The issue doesn't lie with the providing part so no also they don't represent most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 09:25 PM
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"What motivation does a man have to fight for women when those same women are choosing some shitting men to mate with?" I don't see any interest to fight for women within the confinement of dating. Also by what concrete criteria are they shitty abusive doesn't expend enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 08:39 PM
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How does that correlate with those complaints
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 08:20 PM
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No the society will collapse
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 08:10 PM
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And they often have bad habits that are annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 08:00 PM
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Shitty how?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:51 PM
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Well that would an issue of self estim in this case. As far as i'm concerned rejection is part of the male experience but it can be used as an asset to better yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:49 PM
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Well it's not about blame it's to replace behavior inconducive to success by behavior conducive to success
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:43 PM
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"handle rejection without blaming themselves." "deflecting fault for your rejection" ? I'm confused
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:34 PM
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There's a difference between beating yourself down and trying to make an objective assesment as to why rejection happened
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:19 PM
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Here: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1732362/pdf/v057p00993.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:15 PM
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For 1 women that suicide, 9 men do as for attempts i don't have a number yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:08 PM
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"You do know studies show most couples are evenly matched in terms of looks and socioeconomic status right?" And most of those don't work as i said above "I explained the height you just dont comprehend. I cant fix stupid." you did not explain you just dismissed my question two times now. Also ad personam attacks?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:03 PM
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For the first one i'll just put that men who get divorced are 9 times more likely to suicide than women and that the overall rate of suicide from divorcee compared to marrier is 2.4 times higher
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:00 PM
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Most men don't find any issue with providing long term for their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:56 PM
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Your friends seem to above average earner which lower the chance of divorce/break-up but you're personal experience doesn't reflect the full picture, did you know that most women want a man that earn 52% more than them and to add to that women in breadwinner position are more likely to divorce "What Im describing isnt unusual...you do know MOST couples are evenly matched in terms of socioeconomics?" And most couple don't work, we have more than 50% of divorce nowadays. "As for height...less than…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:49 PM
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Show me the woman who want a man that makes the same amount of money, same height and behavior. Women raised their standard because they have more options simple. I want a soft women so she can be good mother to my kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:04 PM
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It just observe behavior and outcome of said behavior to create a predictive framework
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:16 PM
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Do you think that will make them happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:00 PM
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Red pill isn't an ideology it's a praxeology
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:59 PM
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It doesn't change the proximate goal
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:39 PM
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What does it have to do with this hypothetical situation ? There's no reason to give up sex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:14 PM
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Both go together having consistent sex is the proximate goal but the ultimate goal is to reproduction
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:59 PM
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Attractive women have an abundance mindset which is why they don't have as much investment in dating as men and why they tend to put the blame on them and not self improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:51 PM
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Most dudes don't start arguments out of nowhere what was the reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:29 PM
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Did you often get into argument with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:27 PM
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You told him you would give up you're career? And were you an high earner at the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:23 PM
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That's not how it works most women are monogamous they only want one partner to mate with ideally. Men ideally want multiple partner to have sex with if they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:18 PM
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Why not do both?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:07 PM
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Well said
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:01 PM
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Rollo's daughter isn't a girlboss she's in her early 20s getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:01 PM
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" It is also a myth that demisexuality is a sign of low sex drive. Once demisexual people are in a sexual relationship, they have varying levels of sex drive. Some may have sex often, while others may not. Demisexuality only refers to the type of attraction that person feels, not how often they have sex. WebMD" even if that was true that they refuse to have multiple sexual partner which is debatable, they still statistically insignificant "Our bodies have evolved, we have lighter bones, we are t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:56 PM
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" Yes, one dude once told me I'd educated myself out of the gene pool for having an advanced degree." He's right with you're education you're raisong you standards so only a small minority of men are attractive to you plus you don't provide them what they want. " I've also had men who complained about my devotion to my teaching career who ended up leaving me for a woman who got to be a SAHM." They complain about it because it does nothing for them they'd much rather have a soft women that's gonn…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:21 PM
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" What about demisexual men? " same reason: lower testoterone lower sex drive. " So urges evolve with time, culture and conditioning? Women used to sleep around earlier as well for increasing the chances of impregnation. The male genitals are built in a way that they push out the semen of other men present in the woman. If women were not programmed to sleep around what was the need for these kind of genitals? " It's not the ideal situation for women though our bodies haven't evolved. A women hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:08 PM
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Sure i'll concede that after more search women tend to be better investor than men because they're more risk averse
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:52 PM
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I see however studies that shows that women have hard time managing ressources: https://www.unbiased.co.uk/discover/personal-finance/budgeting/financial-planning-for-women-what-s-stopping-women-from-managing-their-own-finances
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:31 PM
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" So if these men go against natural programing should they be called abnormal or treated? Because if not then we just have different kinds of men who have different instincts, conditioning and motives. " Making rules for the majority based on minorities is asanine, those men probably have lower testoterone which result in lower sex drive not the case most men. They don't choose to be asexual they just are. Women sleeping around for fun is a very recent concept that only came with contraception.…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:21 PM
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Women represent 2/3 of the debt in america
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:14 PM
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Men are the disposable sex, sperm is cheap, eggs are expensive. For the survival of our species a woman dying is worse than man dying.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:10 PM
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"You do realise we have asexual and Demisexual men as well." Exception doesn't make the rule. "But women mostly don't like dating single fathers and even early women didn't like their partners having kids with other women because resources for her kids used to get divided." This evaporate if the man has enough excess ressources. Women don't have the same drive to sleep around than men, they'd rather have the best man they can get and build a family, the women who were sleeping around to reproduc…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:06 PM
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And he might live her and her kid to die which is the reason they have such investment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 11:58 AM
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Biology isn't the source of all our behavior as education and environment play a role, it's the source of our desire and needs in mates of the opposite sex. Porn correlate perfectly with lower rate of employement and the lower rate of attendence in college. What porn do is satisfying the male reproductive strategy unlimited sexual access without having to become high value when sex drive is a huge part of male motivation. Porn is a sedative and if you the usage of drug it's even worse. It's more…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 11:54 AM
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The stats reflect what he says though. And of course someone who have invested time and ressources in a belief have hard time letting go of those, that's called an ego investment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:13 AM
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Most men are into monogamous marriage because it's their best bet at reproducing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:06 AM
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Well, we've reached the point of diminishing return, i rest my case.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:04 AM
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They don't pick sexless marriage they just got no choice because they lack attractiveness, do you really think the average husband and wife are happy, do you think those men making sacrifices is worth it when you have more than 50% divorce anyway, do you think they're happy when their wife won't have sex with them more than twice a year and they're addicted to pornography. Do you think their wife his happy when she lives with a tub o'lard she don't love anymore. Do you think such place is conduc…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:58 AM
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Once again you're making an appeal to moral, i won't tell you what's right or wrong i don't care i'm telling based on our past what our tendecies are biology is amoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:49 AM
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They have cripling porn addictions and would cheat given the occasion the overwhelming majority is faithful by lack of choice
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:46 AM
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Because men and women are different "why won't you think like me!" Is the only thing that appear from your answer and what you're doing is trying to do is to square a circle but that won't ever work
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:43 AM
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Biology doesn't care about morals or concept it just is how it is because it has been optimal for survival and guess what studies are saying that since the start of humanity a minority of male (around 40%) have reproduced versus a majority of female (from 80 to 90%) have reproduced, that tells you that polygamy has always been a thing and that our bodies are adapted for it. Whether or not the morals have changed through the time the machine is still the same because it doesn't update fast enough…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:17 AM
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Our bodies have not changed from 10000 years ago we still have the same innate desires. We still have the same attraction triggers. For exemple women can make their own money but they still prefer someone that can't provide more on average but we are not caveman this is a civilized society right? Yet what was arousing at those times still is today
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:53 AM
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Because from a biological standpoint it prompt men to initiate with women to reproduce with the widest range of women. The male mating strategy is unlimited sexual access but only top echelon men could pull it off through ages. A man can impregnate thousands of women in a year when they can bring only one child which is why men have higher testoterone and libido
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:42 AM
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Once again would you date someone exactly the same characteristics as you from a money standpoint, personality standpoint and physical standpoint?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:17 AM
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" That's not a relationship so I don't know why you are defining it as such.That's essentially a platonic acquaintance that you can bang while raising a child together." Oh, so you don't see this as a relationship well this is exactly how most men perceive a relationship without sex. That's essentially a platonic friend that you'd hang around with while the only interest you would have is raising you kid. Women love sex sure, but on average they don't love sex nearly as much as men as they have …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:02 AM
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You cant negotiate desire
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:47 PM
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" I don't agree with the definitions people appeal to in this community. I don't consider intercourse to be only way to display affection." That's not what i'm saying here. Attention is for women the equivalent of sex for man. And what i'm asking you is how would you feel if to have an ltr and kids, you had to give up on having any interactions with your partner outside of sexual intercourse and maybe chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:43 PM
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No men don't want career women because they have masculine traits like women don't like dating men with feminine traits. Men don't look for equality in a partner they look for a complementary. Would you date someone who is equal to you in height, income, and behave the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:37 PM
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Well i'm asking you if you would give up any kind of attention from you partner outside of sex in exchange for an ltr and kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:31 PM
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What you propose is pretty much the functional equivalent of you having just sex with your partner without any kind of act of affection. Would you be fine with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:22 PM
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