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| 2 | Looking to keep fit as a mom^ that is 💯 | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/07/23 01:59 AM |
| – | Young Men Cannot Compete With Older Men For The Most Attractive FemalesThat is 100% true. I was “single” for like 6 months last year. I’m 48 and it was like fishing with dynamite. In the first couple of weeks I had ~150 matches on hinge with very attractive women that I chose. I was shocked to be honest because I was concerned that it would be harder at this age. That was the most pussy rich six months of my life 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 08:51 PM |
| 6 | Both men and women would be happier if they quit using dating apps.Nah, dating apps are great when you are busy and don’t want to hang out with the fraternity/sorority crowd who need to get shitfaced to have a good time. You can quickly and easily choose based on attraction and see if you can have a pressure free chat. I love dating apps but I also have a lot of success in them and I get that it is not everyone’s experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 05:09 PM |
| – | Men from Poorer Countries, What Do You Think of "Passport Bros."I have no proof of this but I’d imagine most trips are to Asia, South America and Eastern Europe in that order. I wouldn’t think of doing sex tourism in Africa having been in various countries there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Women claiming to be 'Sapiosexual' often do so either inaccurately or as code for something else.That is a really long post but I agree with the title. It really just means that you must be attractive, rich and smart. Mostly used by Eastern European women in my experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 06:11 PM |
| 4 | There is a 50/50 male to female ratio, but somehow more than half of young men are single. How does this make sense?Valuable men date multiple women at a time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/23 08:26 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, what percentage of men that have a problem finding a woman that likes him romantically are overestimating how much that problem has to do with his natural appearance?I’ll guess that you’re not trying to have children and are just fucking around. In that case, pretty much all betts are off because nobody knows what anybody else has going on in their head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/23 10:31 AM |
| -1 | Ladies, what percentage of men that have a problem finding a woman that likes him romantically are overestimating how much that problem has to do with his natural appearance?Exactly, your ability to correctly identify where you stand is fundamentally dependent on your experience and can be anywhere between 0-10. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/23 09:29 AM |
| 2 | Causing arousal isn’t the same thing as causing happiness/enjoyment in a relationshipI don’t know how to put it but first you should ignore pills because the majority of that shit is non sense in the way it’s presented (it’s trying to sell you common sense shit that you don’t get because you’re delusional ) and more gambling than anything else. Having said that, while arousal may not lead to long term happiness, I believe, it is the prerequisite for longevity. The variables involved are just too vast to make any real claim on literally anything. Follow the rule of being the best… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/23 09:26 AM |
| 1 | Boyfriend has low testosteroneI’m thinking you’re overthinking a little bit. I’m pretty sure you guys can have children. Has he had his sperm checked? How old is he? How old are you? What are his mental conditions? Depression maybe? What is his family like? Any mental issues? Low T doesn’t mean infertility. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/05/23 09:13 AM |
| 1 | Do you care about a women's income when it comes to dating?It all depends, if you can comfortably support everything you want to do and another person without it being a burden then it doesn’t matter at all. That is probably not the case in many relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/23 08:52 AM |
| 1 | Many men who have nothing going for them and are low value try to get high value or attractive women, and then complain and moan that they’re “alone forever” but don’t ever lower their standards.This is because of media bombardment. If that wasn’t so wide spread, people would be surrounded by people in their own social range and find a match there. Watching instagram models all day makes people think that what they see is achievable because of some duche who uses that to take advantage of them says that if you follow his plan, you’ll be drowning in pussy. It’s funny how out of touch with reality most people are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 04:27 PM |
| 0 | Men, how long is waiting for sex too long?I’m out if it doesn’t happen by the 3rd date | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Hi, I'm not redpilleed at all but I've found it enlightening in this groupI would generally ignore that none sense to be honest. A lot of these things are common sense but RP takes those simple ideas and takes them completely out of the reservation. Be you, be a good all around human being, the rest is a matter of your environment | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/04/23 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Hi, I'm not redpilleed at all but I've found it enlightening in this groupYou actually ran into men who are RP? Where do you live, out of curiosity? | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/04/23 10:22 PM |
| 5 | Considering joining the Air Force but I’m nervous about how it’ll impact my dating lifeDo not join the military as a necessity, that’s a huge undertaking and responsibility. Get a job, any job, save money and move out to a bigger city. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/23 04:04 PM |
| 1 | How do you all have these PurplePillDebate conversations and not get depressed/triggered? Genuine question (New Here)Most of it is general lack of experience and or misunderstanding of women in general, wanting something not attainable because of believing in everything you see online, lack of confidence. This generates these weird conspiracies, theories and odd ball questions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 05:13 PM |
| -1 | Men who want women in their early 20s should just date them when they are in their mid 20sMen always want women in that age range regardless of their own age and the good news is that women value stability above all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 08:03 AM |
| 4 | Do men actually have it better dating wise ?Yes. Some men are totally at an advantage. However, those are the minority. Most men are not socially equipped to reconcile what they see in media vs what they can get irl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 07:43 AM |
| 2 | Women get over breakups faster because they do less work to initiate relationshipsNo. Women seem to get over it quicker because they already told you for a long time that they are leaving but you didn’t notice. You only found out when she actually walked out the door. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 01:45 PM |
| 3 | Got a window into average woman's dating life. It was an absolute shockYou should get a window into a 9 and that will totally fuck up your perception of things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 11:30 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Chris Brown Is the Ultimate Example of Why the Red Pill Is Correct.Have you had a chance to discover the term “outlier” by any chance? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 10:05 AM |
| 1 | How is it physically possible that there are twice as many single men as women?That is totally fine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 05:21 PM |
| 1 | How is it physically possible that there are twice as many single men as women?I am not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Violence should never be expectedI think it depends on a situation. Sometimes violence is the only way to resolve issues and it’s advantageous to have that as a tool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 06:01 AM |
| 1 | How is it physically possible that there are twice as many single men as women?Yikes. I make close to 2M a year, I have multiple hobbies that don’t require me to go to the gym. I’m ripped, six pack and whatever is considered attractive by women in their late 20s, early thirties. I did this because I could and it was fun. 🤷🏻♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 05:55 AM |
| 3 | Violence should never be expectedViolence in its many forms is fundamental to human nature. Boys should exhibit dominance if they are to become confident leaders. You don’t have to go far to see this working, just go to your local playground anywhere outside of the US where helicopter parents don’t interfere in every aspect of their children’s development. Where I grew up, someone always left the playground crying with a black eye or a bloody nose and that was ok. I became a very resourceful and dominant man who has no trouble … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 05:08 AM |
| 0 | How is it physically possible that there are twice as many single men as women?Aw gosh, I’m very successful and when I dropped into the pool of singles in my mid 40s it was like fishing with dynamite. I am fairly certain that you may have a distorted view of how dating works when you’re a successful and a confident male. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 04:32 AM |
| 16 | How is it physically possible that there are twice as many single men as women?When I was single, I dated multiple women at a time 3-5. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 02:29 AM |
| – | How has your relationship with your mother impacted your view of women now?My mother has always given me a perspective on women and their motivations. I rarely took her advice and then ‘found out’ 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 05:51 PM |
| 3 | For the committed ladies: how do you feel about your husband/boyfriend hiding money and investments from you as a backup plan?You shouldn’t hide anything because that just erodes trust which is the foundation of any well functioning relationship. What you should have though, is separate bank accounts that is your own money. A shared account where you both contribute. A shared fun account where you both contribute. A shared big purchase account where you both contribute. Separate retirement accounts which are parts of a living trust. You can figure out how to treat investment accounts. Could be both shared and individua… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Do most single women have a "Steve"?No to which part honey? Being nice here is just a weakness of character at best and downright manipulation at worst. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 06:48 PM |
| 3 | Do most single women have a "Steve"?Men who can, do the same thing. Just like women who can, do this. It’s about being desirable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Q4a How sexually demanding are you in relationships?Enthusiasm is my #1 requirement, several times a week. Occasional threesome in any configuration | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Women getting all these degrees is really just intrasexual warfare the upper classes and beta males trying to take all the women.😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Is height a serious thing to consider when wanting to have children?I suppose you gotta do you and if it’s bothering you that much then you should let her go. You should probably make up something else to say though when you tell her to fuck off. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/03/23 08:13 PM |
| 2 | There is zero point in being confident as a man if you’re physically unattractive.I don’t know about that at all. I spent a lot of time in HK and there are as many confident Asian males picking up Russian models as there are white men doing the same. The problem is with American women. I’ve been living in the US for decades and refuse to date American women. Had one, that was enough. white European male | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 10:14 AM |
| 11 | Casual sex or short flings are more likely to be fulfilling for guys than relationship sexI’m sorry but that is nonsense. The conclusion does not follow the examples as that is just an opinion. I slept with A LOT of women in my life and to me long term relationship sex is significantly better than casual sex with someone new. This may of course depend on an individual. Sexually inexperienced men will fuck their long term partner the same way they will fuck someone new. This might be why so many women are sexually unsatisfied with their partners. I am convinced this is lack of experie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Men have almost zero opportunity to meet women unless it is organic or through mutual friends, coworkers or in the short window of time they are in college if they go. You can be the hottest guy in the room, but rarely is it fruitful if you approach. This shows men have it far worse than women.Your place of residence doesn’t change anything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 03:06 PM |
| 2 | The vast majority of men would prefer a relationship to constantly trying for hookups. Women however only give their attention to the ones that only want sex.The men to whom the attention goes can get sex from a lot of women and so a lot of women want them. Those who would “prefer” a relationship are those who couldn’t get pussy to save their lives. Don’t blame women or anyone else but yourself and or your circumstances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Men have almost zero opportunity to meet women unless it is organic or through mutual friends, coworkers or in the short window of time they are in college if they go. You can be the hottest guy in the room, but rarely is it fruitful if you approach. This shows men have it far worse than women.I’ve been in Paris extensively and find it to be a fairly easy place to meet women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 07:46 PM |
| 8 | Men are forced to approach in abundance if they want any shot at getting laid or an LTR, yet they are shamed for it by women who want to feel special creating a very frustrating situation for men.So much whining in this sub. In other news, water is still wet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/22 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Men have almost zero opportunity to meet women unless it is organic or through mutual friends, coworkers or in the short window of time they are in college if they go. You can be the hottest guy in the room, but rarely is it fruitful if you approach. This shows men have it far worse than women.That may very well be right as I make significantly more than 80k and maybe it’s the places I hang out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 05:18 AM |
| 2 | What are the steps a guy takes before you sleep with him?You should be confident and relaxed in the way you speak. You should have life experiences and stories to tell. You should tell those stories in an animated fashion. Exaggerate a little bit and be funny and a bit self deprecating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/22 03:38 AM |
| 3 | Is it really a man's job to approach women first?I’m not going to read all of that. Women will approach you if you’re exceptional. 99% of men are not exceptional in any way so sure, it happens, but it is very unlikely that it will happen to you so if you want to get those rookie numbers up, you have to work on this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 07:58 PM |
| 6 | Honestly, what do you think when you see adult men following younger girls on social media?I know I shouldn’t even comment on this because of my personal point of view but I think following people on social media is absolutely stupid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 01:31 AM |
| 6 | do we have more power over men than we think we do?I think the popular media has been screwing with women’s heads for ages. The reality is that men find all sorts of women attractive all the time and those who reciprocate chance communication by feeling confident will naturally get more attention. Culture also plays a big part in this. Have you ever been in Rome or Rio or Barcelona for example and noticed that people look at each other a lot more often? In the US it’s a lot less common in my experience so there is also the cultural aspect that m… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/05/22 11:30 PM |
| 1 | [CMV] "Love isn't everything"Maybe you could read up a bit more on history and come back here with something of more essence. Thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 07:19 AM |
| 2 | [CMV] "Love isn't everything"All of that is great but what again is your point here? Seems like you’re trying to say that the Soviet communists were somehow better than nazis because you were personally affected by one side. Yeah, you’ll have to do better at convincing me of that because the way it stands nazis and Soviet communists are equally bad no matter how many of your folk went out the chimney. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 06:54 AM |
| 2 | [CMV] "Love isn't everything"You probably shouldn’t take it personally. Stalin defeating Hitler was an existential problem and has nothing to do with Jews and you have no reason to thank him. He didn’t do it for you and if it was easier to have your lot meet the maker early, there would have not been a choice. My family being from Poland Ukraine border would beg to differ. My grandmother was terrified of Ukrainians an order of magnitude more than of nazi occupiers. Where did you get your story? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 05:14 AM |
| 2 | You can't be the "stability guy" and expect the "casual sex guy" treatmentYou think it has nothing to do with what the man projects character wise? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 12:25 AM |
| 2 | You can't be the "stability guy" and expect the "casual sex guy" treatmentWhat are you basing this opinion on? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/22 10:52 PM |
| 4 | You can't be the "stability guy" and expect the "casual sex guy" treatmentThat is such nonsense. You’re the stability guy because your character isn’t deep enough to be both. There is no reason you can’t be both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/22 09:40 PM |
| 2 | [CMV] "Love isn't everything"Seems they were fucked by both sides. Bolsheviks were in no way any better than Nazis in the grand scheme of things and Russia did coordinate the start of the war with Germany. I put Stalin and Hitler on a fairly even ground. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/22 09:28 PM |
| 5 | Women, Sex, and AttractionSexual attraction is as elusive a topic as “the answer to life, the universe and everything”. I believe that once you establish a mutual attraction with a partner so that a choice in one’s favor can be made, it is up to the couple and their dynamic to be sexually adventurous. To put it simply, if your girl doesn’t give you sloppy blowjobs in the dressing room, you’re probably not creating sexually charged situations in the department store or what leads up to you being there. You don’t have to b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/22 07:51 PM |
| 3 | Why do you people still bother with debating here?I’m really only here to talk shit to be honest. I don’t even know how I ended up here in the first place ✌️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 07:14 AM |
| 1 | This “small subset” of women who claim to be struggling could hop on Reddit right now and have their pick of the litter but they won’t do it. That’s an option most men will NEVER haveHave you been anywhere in the world? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 02:38 AM |
| 1 | This “small subset” of women who claim to be struggling could hop on Reddit right now and have their pick of the litter but they won’t do it. That’s an option most men will NEVER haveFair enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/22 06:51 PM |
| 4 | This “small subset” of women who claim to be struggling could hop on Reddit right now and have their pick of the litter but they won’t do it. That’s an option most men will NEVER haveI don’t know. Sounds like pure speculation but based on the questions I see in this sub regularly, I stand by my own guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/22 06:45 PM |
| 14 | This “small subset” of women who claim to be struggling could hop on Reddit right now and have their pick of the litter but they won’t do it. That’s an option most men will NEVER havePick of the litter? What are you talking about man. Reddit isn’t any different than real life. 95% creepy losers, 4% is anywhere between taken and otherwise not interested. 1% datable men. You are delusional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/22 06:26 PM |
| 4 | Lying to (multiple) girls + cold approaching is the best way to get laid a lotAll of that is true and fun and games until you come across one that will do the same thing to you and completely devastate you emotionally. High numbers come with all sorts of baggage and is a lot like a threesome with two women. You think it’s all unicorns and rainbows until it happens and it turns out that it isn’t anywhere as great as you imagined. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/22 05:57 AM |
| 1 | What if the high quality people stay in the dating market longer ?That is non sense. You have no idea who hangs out where but it’s good to know where you stand on the topic 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Is being good with women and sex just something you're born with like height? you either have it or you don't?No, it isn’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 06:34 AM |
| 2 | What are some shortcuts guys can use to get better results with women?Title says “what are some shortcuts” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 02:08 AM |
| 2 | What if the high quality people stay in the dating market longer ?I don’t know, you’re losing valuable experience by not actively being out there and I would argue that you might have an overinflated sense of your own value and that is a handicap. Honestly I don’t even know what you’re talking about. I’m all those things you say you are. Technologist (top schools, top tech companies), I’d say 8/10 appearance wise, rich. Never hung out with coworkers and always surrounded by other attractive people. Never once had anything you said crossed my mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 01:38 AM |
| 3 | What are some shortcuts guys can use to get better results with women?The only shortcut is to go lower, everything else requires, work, luck and natural talent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 01:13 AM |
| 2 | What are some shortcuts guys can use to get better results with women?Lower your standards | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 01:07 AM |
| 2 | The One Standard That Fixes Modern DatingThings are getting confused. Church and culture were the pussy regulators for a long time. With the advent of birth control and changing cultural attitudes, deregulation began taking place where pussy could make its own decision about what goes in it and how often. This deregulation created a free market for pussy with each individual being their own free agent and so you have huge fluctuations in the value of pussy based on region and really just the feelings of the owner. Ugly pussies can be a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 11:33 PM |
| 2 | The One Standard That Fixes Modern DatingYeah but that would require everyone to act with common sense but the sad truth is that 90% of people are complete morons | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 10:45 PM |
| 3 | The One Standard That Fixes Modern DatingI think you might have trouble regulating pussy. It’s been getting severely deregulated in the recent history. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 08:27 PM |
| 3 | The One Standard That Fixes Modern DatingPussy is like penny stocks. Everyone can get it but nobody will get rich from it until you learn how to invest. That either comes later in life for the smart people, or never for the dummies. There is nothing to fix. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Are men really bad at over/underestimating a woman's interest?Yes, people in general are bad at estimating everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 07:41 PM |
| 25 | Why do men always come back?Some worthless dudes do try to come back once they realize you’re the best they’ve had so far and they were lucky to have you. However, as you said, once a woman is out of your life, she was actually out a looong time ago and is not going to return unless she, herself, is or feels worthless. It’s just a fact of life and a lesson to not be with worthless people who are too many notches below you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/05/22 07:13 PM |
| 1 | What other socially acceptable ways to pickup women?Very eloquently put and 100% truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 06:58 PM |
| 2 | The reason men get butthurt about women making them waitMen who don’t get pussy get butthurt about women making them wait. Men who do, don’t have to wait which then helps them realize that 🎵In the end it doesn’t even ma-a-a-ter 🎵 and focus on more important qualities of women they choose to date or wife or what have you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Men have almost zero opportunity to meet women unless it is organic or through mutual friends, coworkers or in the short window of time they are in college if they go. You can be the hottest guy in the room, but rarely is it fruitful if you approach. This shows men have it far worse than women.You mean like Seattle? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/22 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Is dating actually fun for you?Dating was always tons of fun for me. People are a lot of fun to meet, they all have stories, some are shy, some are outgoing, some are cute, some are hot, some want to fuck, some want to wait. In my dating days it was one of my top hobbies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 12:17 AM |
| 2 | Do men over 30 really get higher in sexual market value?Over 30 is a huge range with a lot of nuances. I expressed this before but for me my late 30s early 40s were by far the best in terms of attracting very attractive women. Men reach their highest earning potential in that age range and even now in my late 40s I am able to attract women at their most attractive age, to me, early to mid 30s. So in other words I believe the answer to the question is yes in the age ranges I mentioned. On the other hand women in their early 20s for example were never … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 12:05 AM |
| 1 | When to have s*x with someone you date?47, yes | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/05/22 11:48 PM |
| 1 | When to have s*x with someone you date?I don’t think I ever specifically looked for a relationship. All of mine were a result of meeting the right person at the right time for things to grow. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/05/22 09:10 PM |
| 0 | When to have s*x with someone you date?Slippery slope, I never expected sex on the first date but whenever there is a spark and opportunity that is arbitrarily blocked on principle I’ve walked away right then and there and called someone else. Case in point: I met a super hot girl that was often on business in SF. The first time we met she called me after getting my number from a friend of mine while I was out at an event. I picked her up, we had a few drinks, introduced her to my friends, we danced and hit it off really well but she… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/05/22 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Should men really care that much about "slut shaming"?Just wanted to stop by and mention that sluts are my absolute favorite | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 12:48 AM |
| 3 | Do nice guys actually exist?No | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 09:08 PM |
| 10 | Do nice guys actually exist?“Nice guy” gets always confused with “spineless guy”. They are not the same thing but “nice guys” put a positive spin on rather unattractive qualities. Lack of assertiveness, lack of dominant features, lack of initiative, and on and on. Women do want nice guys who are able to lead and exhibit masculine qualities. Women don’t want to be with other women generally so having feminine qualities isn’t to your advantage. You have to somehow find a way to work that out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 08:05 PM |
| 2 | If there is a very high chance that a woman will divorce you in marriage is there any reason for men to get married anymore?I suppose good luck with that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 03:02 PM |
| 2 | If there is a very high chance that a woman will divorce you in marriage is there any reason for men to get married anymore?So what do you want to do, dick around alone for the rest of your life afraid of women and your own shadow? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 02:59 PM |
| -1 | If there is a very high chance that a woman will divorce you in marriage is there any reason for men to get married anymore?Yes, you can be married as many times as you want. Nobody ever said that life ended because you got a divorce. Also, children are an experience that is unmatched by literally any other experience you might have so you should definitely do that and then provide an environment where those children can thrive regardless of the silly little feelings and insecurities you might have. It’s bigger than you, accept it and live your life to its fullest while striving to be a better human being every day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 06:03 AM |
| 3 | How could OLD be improved?There isn’t much to be improved. You have an opportunity to put your best foot forward by putting in effort. 99% of men don’t put any effort and then whine that they don’t get matches. Shocker. The last time I used tinder, I paid for the subscription, tested my pictures before creating the profile, dressed properly, didn’t have cringy selfies in the mirror and had over 50 high quality, attractive matches. Picked 5 out of those after realizing no chemistry with the rest and I’ve been with the one… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 09:50 PM |
| 1 | How long does it take to become good at sex?15 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 03:07 PM |
| 2 | How long does it take to become good at sex?I would say that it took me until my thirties to get all the techniques down to have a fairly good chance to get a girl off the first time. The hardest part was being able to have the general ability to read cues and adapt. The discovery of one particular technique was a fucking game changer and most women I’ve been with since then were able to cum as a result and I’ve been with a lot of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 10:42 PM |
| 0 | What are the professions of the men on this sub?Top tier software engineering leadership. Everybody knows what that looks like on the inside. I don’t, however, share the classic SE characteristics. I’m tall, light hair, green eyes and dress like a European that I am. Historically, always in the company of very attractive, mostly Eastern European, women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 10:27 PM |
| 2 | What do you think is the solution to most of the guys struggling immensely with womenAw fuck, yeah, not sure what to say because sitting there and waiting for shit to materialize precisely up to your standard is a losing game. That is true about literally everything a human being may desire. You have to reach for the stars if you know what I mean. Pussy isn’t just going ton rain on you regardless of how the weather girls might make it sound https://youtu.be/UcUahmMQDAM | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/22 07:07 AM |
| 0 | What do you think is the solution to most of the guys struggling immensely with womenTo be honest that sounds very high and I might be out of touch with reality but where did you get that statistic if you don’t mind my asking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/22 06:18 AM |
| -1 | What do you think is the solution to most of the guys struggling immensely with womenI’m not sure where that statistic applies. Globally? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/22 06:08 AM |
| -1 | What do you think is the solution to most of the guys struggling immensely with womenYou mean men who choose to not be proactive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/22 06:07 AM |
| -1 | What do you think is the solution to most of the guys struggling immensely with womenI don’t think you should wait for anything. You have to be proactive in any endeavor you choose to succeed in and dating isn’t any different in that respect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/22 05:39 AM |
| 2 | What do you think is the solution to most of the guys struggling immensely with womenIt’s a non issue, you will find a mate. You may not find the instagram model you want to bang but statistically you will find someone to grow old with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/22 05:28 AM |
| 5 | Q4W: How easy is it to get free stuff for being a womanI have literally never given any woman anything for free. No free drinks at the bar, none of that unless there is mutual romantic interest that I can feel and I’m pretty observant. That behavior sends totally the wrong message. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 12:45 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: How easy is it to get free stuff for being a womanI have literally never given any woman anything for free. No free drinks at the bar, none of that unless there is mutual romantic interest that I can feel and I’m pretty observant. That behavior sends totally the wrong message. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 12:44 AM |
| 1 | What is an average guy?Is that a problem and do you think the two are related? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Is it fair to assume a lot of women are just like this?That is a very good point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 10:14 PM |
| 2 | What is an average guy?Totally and you are right sometimes it’s hard to bring up some really personal questions in real life and Reddit does help with that but it can get very dark very quickly. I am guilty of getting wrapped up in some really stupid conversations that I later regret having but since it’s anonymous it doesn’t have any real implications. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 09:06 PM |
| 1 | What percentage of men even want that "High Value Male" lifestyle?I don’t know who Kevin is but a lot of these high value blah blah definitions are nonsense packaged for men with weak social skills and often productized. Men who have a hard time getting pussy, go on instagram and fantasize about the instagram models. Then they think to themselves, look at Kevin, he gets pussy in every city east of Mississippi and he has a seminar that he does to help out his fellows for a nominal price of $300 per seminar and promises attraction on demand. Then you get the boo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 09:00 PM |
| 2 | What is an average guy?I don’t know but the responses I get to comments and really the vast majority of posts in the sub are terrifying and it feels like the men who post are either disconnected from social reality or don’t have the tools to make connections with the opposite sex. I don’t see this in RL in my social circles at all. I see men of all ages talk up women over coffee or walking down a street or at a bakery regularly and it brings a smile to everyone’s face. The sun is out, people are starting to look more … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Is there ever a point when finding a sexual partner is easier for the average man than for the average woman?Yes, in places where generally women outnumber men so places like Russia/Ukraine quickly come to mind as they are losing young men to the conflict as we speak. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 04:55 PM |
| 2 | Is it fair to assume a lot of women are just like this?No, majority of women aren’t like this but 1 out of 10, in my experience has varying levels of crazy that could be anywhere from mildly insecure to a complete fucking nutcase that will set your car on fire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 04:16 PM |
| 1 | The problem is that women do not have real sexualities, and as society becomes more liberated, this fact becomes more relevant.😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 03:53 PM |
| 1 | What is an average guy?In RL? What? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 02:45 PM |
| 1 | The problem is that women do not have real sexualities, and as society becomes more liberated, this fact becomes more relevant.Well, a significant portion of them were there with their husbands so I would have to go with a no | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 02:44 PM |
| 3 | What can actually be done to improve the dating scene for everyoneYour comment is a bit ambiguous when describing the age gap but if you specifically mean women in their 20s then I agree with you that it isn’t common for men in their forties but if you mean men in their 30s then I have to strongly disagree. Most men I knew in my party 30s rarely dated women older than 26 and 10 year gap was common throughout the western world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 05:25 AM |
| 1 | What is an average guy?Why wouldn’t you be fully transparent? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 05:20 AM |
| 8 | What can actually be done to improve the dating scene for everyoneA fair amount of men my age, late 40s, who are well off, date/marry very attractive women in their early/mid 30s. It isn’t a myth and it doesn’t scare nor attempts to degrade anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 04:37 AM |
| 1 | The problem is that women do not have real sexualities, and as society becomes more liberated, this fact becomes more relevant.That’s what I though. Keep being poor and lonely. Maybe you should call your mom to help you make some decisions ✌️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 02:37 AM |
| 1 | The problem is that women do not have real sexualities, and as society becomes more liberated, this fact becomes more relevant.Prove it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 02:31 AM |
| 1 | The problem is that women do not have real sexualities, and as society becomes more liberated, this fact becomes more relevant.Aha, you begged me to post pictures of my cars and garage a month ago. I’m thinking you should probably pick another person to talk shit to because it didn’t really work out the last time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 02:25 AM |
| 2 | The problem is that women do not have real sexualities, and as society becomes more liberated, this fact becomes more relevant.You really don’t need to project your unfortunate situation onto others. It makes you sound desperate and trapped. I said in the vicinity because I stopped counting in my mid 30s and since that time I’ve done significantly better than up to that point. There is no next move, there wasn’t even the first move as nothing you have or will say has anything to do with reality as you simply don’t have the knowledge or the experience to have an opinion worth hearing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 02:13 AM |
| 2 | What is an average guy?Sounds about right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 01:20 AM |
| -3 | The problem is that women do not have real sexualities, and as society becomes more liberated, this fact becomes more relevant.What a stupid example. Did you play only once? I’ve been with somewhere in the vicinity of 200 women so the sample size is decent and skewed towards women who are sexually open. Maybe the problem isn’t biology but the oppressive culture that looks down upon women who are sexually liberated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 01:09 AM |
| -3 | The problem is that women do not have real sexualities, and as society becomes more liberated, this fact becomes more relevant.The cock attached to this account proves contrary to the hundred studies 🤷🏻♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 12:26 AM |
| 6 | What is an average guy?Looks and social skills don’t align and I think that’s the biggest problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 11:47 PM |
| 9 | The problem is that women do not have real sexualities, and as society becomes more liberated, this fact becomes more relevant.My gosh this is such fucking nonsense it literally hurt my brain having to read it. Yeah, bitches do get horny AF and want dick just as much as men do. Whoever said women are pseudo sexual because of an undeveloped phallus is a fucking moron and needs to immediately seek professional help but I’m afraid it’s already too late based on the rest of the gallactically stupid shit written in the post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 10:24 PM |
| 77 | What is an average guy?And average male on Reddit is significantly below average in real life. This is obvious by the posts and responses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 09:30 PM |
| 3 | What happens when a married woman goes on tinder?Yet another stupid post on ppd. 1. How is this a surprise 2. One woman who gets tingles means nothing 3. Women already know dick is everywhere What’s your point exactly here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 06:41 PM |
| 2 | Men have almost zero opportunity to meet women unless it is organic or through mutual friends, coworkers or in the short window of time they are in college if they go. You can be the hottest guy in the room, but rarely is it fruitful if you approach. This shows men have it far worse than women.Cape Town is one of my favorite places to go ❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/22 01:21 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Aging means committment is based on false advertisingWhy are posts on this sub so fucking stupid? You know there is more to people than what they looked like 10 years ago in a Hollywood frame vs a phone pic. Posts like this is precisely why you never get pussy and even when you do it’s on the low side of mediocre with a whole lot of luck. Women are a lot more open to men who actually like women 🤦♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/22 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Men have almost zero opportunity to meet women unless it is organic or through mutual friends, coworkers or in the short window of time they are in college if they go. You can be the hottest guy in the room, but rarely is it fruitful if you approach. This shows men have it far worse than women.In that case I am not sure what to say. My experience in London was fantastic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/22 04:26 PM |
| 4 | Men have almost zero opportunity to meet women unless it is organic or through mutual friends, coworkers or in the short window of time they are in college if they go. You can be the hottest guy in the room, but rarely is it fruitful if you approach. This shows men have it far worse than women.I lived in London proper for 2 years and you couldn’t throw a rock without hitting some model on the head. Are you sure you’re in London? Everyone says they are from London but then it turns out they actually live in Surrey with their parents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/22 03:34 PM |
| 19 | Men have almost zero opportunity to meet women unless it is organic or through mutual friends, coworkers or in the short window of time they are in college if they go. You can be the hottest guy in the room, but rarely is it fruitful if you approach. This shows men have it far worse than women.Nonsense, have you been to Prague, Belgrade, Rio, Bogota, Miami, LA, Beijing, Ulaanbaatar, Moscow, Cape Town, Marrakesh, Paris or literally any other major city in the world? It is full of single and attractive women that are friendly, approachable and absolutely willing to give you a chance to make a move. What are you even talking about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/22 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Is height preference more than just physical attraction?You seem to have very low self esteem, very low sense of self worth and a very male outlook on what is important to women which happens to be laughably wrong. Maybe in the trailer park or the ghetto those things are important but when you are already rich and surrounded by other rich people, this doesn’t really work the way that you think. I do appreciate your comment though, it’s interesting to be reminded time and time again how sad the state of affairs is for men in this sub. So disconnected … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/22 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Yes, many women overwhelmingly do not like it when "beta males" attempt to succeed, improve themselves, or learn to stand up for themselves .I don’t know dude, I can’t say that I identify with any of the things you are saying. It sounds like you spent way too much time thinking about how inadequate you are vs being positive and going after your goals, whatever they might be. Seems you are also trying to blame someone else for the way that you feel which I don’t identify with either. In general, the majority of people go through some sort of hardship, social pressures and expectations. Some people find their way either by them selves … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 10:52 PM |
| 2 | What age do you think Men and Woman are at their most sexually attractive?None of you are the .1% sorry. Those are outliers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Older women shaming men for dating and sleeping with younger women out of jealousy and labeling it as “predatory” is extremely hypocritical and inaccurate, most men go after younger women because women age faster and younger women are far more attractive, not because they’re easier to manipulate18-22 year old girl/woman I understand is iffy at certain gaps. I’ve dated a few that age when I was much much older and it wasn’t my cup of tea. On the other hand, when you’re in your 20s you’re an adult so pretty much everyone else can go fuck themselves with their opinion. There is nothing to debate here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 07:29 PM |
| 1 | What age do you think Men and Woman are at their most sexually attractive?Lol, men or should I say boys in their 20s are only attractive to girls around that age. They aren’t attractive to any women that I’ve known and I’ve known quite a few. In your 20s you have nothing interesting to say and literally the whole world would continue on unchanged if another 20 year old didn’t speak a word for the entirety of the decade. You don’t know how your dick works, you haven’t been anywhere or seen anything and you don’t have any money worth bringing up and that is 99.9% of the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 06:57 PM |
| 6 | paying for the first dateMost of you who want to split are poor, uncultured or straight up cheap. In any of those cases if I were a woman, that would have been the last thing we did together. Yikes, this approach might work in some cultures but is severely looked down upon in the majority of others so I wish you luck with all of that 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 03:20 PM |
| 0 | Thailand = red pill principles highlighted😂😂😂 There really is no nice way to put it so I’m going to just come out and say it. You, sir, are an idiot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Is the only reason to get married now is to procreate?For a lack of a better word, no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/22 10:16 AM |
| 2 | How common do you think these petty women are?I hope that you realize that this way of thinking is one of the things to add to the list of things to improve about yourself. It isn’t a healthy outlook | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 08:01 PM |
| 3 | How common do you think these petty women are?I don’t know what your situation is but I can tell you that that is simply not the case. Nobody is perfect and those who say they are should be avoided as they are delusional. Perfection delusions are what drive fanaticism and I would urge you to recognize flaws as natural parts of every being. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 07:51 PM |
| 3 | How common do you think these petty women are?What do you think the problem is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 07:33 PM |
| 4 | How common do you think these petty women are?You’ll be that way by choice? Oh, ok. Well, good luck finding anyone that’s willing to deal with your level of crazy I guess. There are all sorts of crazy people walking the earth so to say such woman doesn’t exist would be wrong. I am more worried about you since it looks like you have a very skewed sense of what’s out there for some reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 07:14 PM |
| 7 | How common do you think these petty women are?What are you even talking about? The answer is no, you shouldn’t be any of those things you listed in the last paragraph and the first paragraph is just pure nonsense having nothing to do with anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 06:47 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about not dating and only visiting sex workers?That’s just stupid 🤷🏻♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 03:10 PM |
| 7 | What do you think about not dating and only visiting sex workers?Terrible idea. Sex with prostitutes is a great addition to an exciting life but on its own I can imagine is empty and unfulfilling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 05:08 AM |
| 9 | The top 3 things a woman can give to a man are Kids > Sex > Loyalty in that order.I disagree, I think you’re looking into it too much. This shit isn’t about gifts, it’s about living a fulfilling life which has different priorities at different stages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 02:06 AM |
| 0 | Unpopular Opinion: Most Niceguys are are Legitimately Alright Men and Not Manipulative PlayersYes except they don’t have the necessary skills to come across as a worthy short or long term mate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 07:42 PM |
| 3 | Male tiktok user tells women to not go for men like him (basically virtually every red flag you can think of) and go for nice guys instead... women double down.Women don’t want thirsty motherfuckers that represent no value by said thirst and nice guys aren’t nice, they are just incapable of getting pussy because they are shy or <put your favorite excuse here> and no woman wants a clinger that no other woman wants. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 05:58 PM |
| 1 | What percentage of woman these days are participating in "sugar dating"? And how do you think it affects the dating market?women != woman Negligible percentage, no effect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 05:46 PM |
| 0 | Q4M who believe that women having tattoos is a “red flag” for promiscuity: do you have tattoos?Complete nonsense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Q4M is it easier to hookup or get a relationship with a 22 year old woman or a 32 year old woman?I was definitely generalizing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 12:53 AM |
| 3 | Do you respect someone who has consistently dated out of their supposed league less or more?I find that hard to believe in a circle of normal men. I personally never came across men who hated other men for getting pussy out of their league as that is generally cause for celebration. I am thinking you were being trolled or there are some unusual circumstances at play. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 09:50 PM |
| 0 | Do you respect someone who has consistently dated out of their supposed league less or more?Was that a man or a woman who who was hated on for dating out of their league and were they hated by same or opposite sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Q4M is it easier to hookup or get a relationship with a 22 year old woman or a 32 year old woman?A woman in her thirties will try to manipulate her partner into children and marriage. One in her early/mid 20s doesn’t yet have that strong drive yet so I guess one could say that she is easier to manipulate into sex although I’d hardly call the latter manipulation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 06:02 PM |
| 1 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern worldI don’t know what engineers at Fiat or Skoda do but from what I know from interests in brands I drive guys like Jock Clear or Hans Mezger are very involved in the motorsport | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 09:16 PM |
| 1 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern worldI agree that society can push you toward it. Like your parents, for example. In my opinion you should drop that baggage as soon as humanly possible and if I had to do it again I would have had kids a lot sooner than I had and definitely more. Again, from personal experience it hasn’t been social pressure or biology that made me feel the way i do. I was very happy partying it up without responsibility and it wasn’t until a couple of years after my first kid was born that I understood how much tim… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 08:14 PM |
| 1 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern worldWhat I said about cars was to illustrate a point and every mechanic or a shop foreman drives the car before it’s returned to my hands with half of my garage being high performance race cars/motorcycles that you can drive on the road. Sure, maybe the sound or the lighting engineer doesn’t need to drive the car they designed parts for and i can imagine the materials engineer doesn’t need to drive the car on which the oil pan they designed go on but the chief engineer that’s responsible for the end… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 08:01 PM |
| 1 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern world😂 EECS - Berkeley you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 07:45 PM |
| 0 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern worldHaving an engineering degree I might know a thing or two about engineering but go ahead, keep going. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 07:42 PM |
| 0 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern worldYou’ve lost the privilege to be taken seriously at this point. Your argument have no basis in real world experience. Sorry, but thank you for playing. Mechanics test drive cars they work on and engineers design and then drive them. Couch racers on the other hand don’t know what it feels to be in one. You’re the couch driver so don’t be stupid now as there is literally no exit out of the silly shit you say no matter how you dress it up. You simply do not know 🤷🏻♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 07:37 PM |
| 0 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern worldThere is nothing you can say to get yourself out of the hole that you’re in having talked shit with no backup. Without life experience, without having knowledge, without concrete data you’re just a mouth that makes noise. You’re like the guy who gives you advice on buying a Ferrari having never been in one but having seen others drive some. You’re funny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 07:16 PM |
| 1 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern world😂😂😂 in that case you should probably keep chillin in your mom’s basement, rip another bong hit and get back to your fantasy games kid because you don’t have the first clue about what you’re talking about on any element of the discussion 😂😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 07:04 PM |
| 1 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern worldYou haven’t answered my questions so I’ll just be here waiting to be enlightened. Go ahead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 06:57 PM |
| 3 | Q4ALL, What is wrong with current dating scene? and why do redpill men believe it's bad for the society?Nothing is wrong 😂. 200 years ago you had to own a horse drawn carriage to go anywhere and fuck a bitch you like for like 10 years while writing letters most of that time which took weeks to deliver and she strung you along until you got married while also having 12 fools just like you writing her the same shit the whole time. That’s on the high end of things. On the low end you’d get to bone a toothless leprechaun in your village if you were so lucky to live to an age where you could even do th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 06:49 PM |
| 0 | Most women are only going to pursue guys they believe are above their league so most men should try to display themselves as higher.Stop following instagram models, throw out your television and delete other social media accounts then go outside to see the world around you. What you’ll notice is that the reality is nothing like what you see on the screen … not even in LA 😂 99.9 % of women aren’t hyperpromiscuous There aren’t as many Chads competing with you as you may have thought Most folks are just living their regular life having bigger problems than the body count 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 06:41 PM |
| 1 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern world😂oookkk, do you also know what I want for lunch today? You haven’t answered my question about drones? Do you have children? From what I can tell, you think you’re enlightened because of something you heard somewhere and thought, oh shit, this is a great idea and you’re passing it along as original thought but I don’t see anything beyond a shallow opinion of a 2 dimensional male that is generally disgruntled with the way his life is going. I don’t know the reasons for that, maybe lack of nurture … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 05:25 PM |
| 1 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern worldNo, you can’t have that with a friend unless your mode of friendship significantly differs from mine. You are simply looking on two surfaces and calling the same thing because there is no account for depth. We aren’t talking about benefits. You are saying your SO is a friend + sex. I am saying it is more than that. Benefits have nothing to do with anything. Kids isn’t drone programming. Have you ever programmed a drone? What are you talking about? No. I don’t want to leave children behind to fit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 09:28 AM |
| 2 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern worldIn my personal case we are long term companions with same goals, a partnership to reach those goals, to eventually raise children as a unit and rely on each other for deep understanding and path to grow together and apart while enjoying a romantic connection, a perspective that a friend won’t have simply because most of them haven’t had their finger in your ass. Your point of view while technically correct is severely limited by what seems like lack of depth. While you can hold the opinion that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 09:05 AM |
| 6 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern worldI’m going to come right out and say that you, sir, are totally full of shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 08:28 AM |
| 2 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern worldI simply disagree but I respect your opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 07:32 AM |
| 0 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern worldThat is definitely not the only reason and no, they aren’t 🤷🏻♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 07:31 AM |
| 2 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern worldHave you thought about why that perception is what it is or is it easier to repeat something someone said at some point somewhere about something related to this having a pretty damn big motive to do so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 06:46 AM |
| 1 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern worldI literally beg to differ with you on every point but having very close but astonishingly selfish friends who think the way that you do, I am not surprised that more people like them exist to whom relationships are glorified friendships. Interestingly enough I’ve fucked people together with those friends and my observation is they will never have the closeness with their SO as I do with mine because no matter who the girl is, his wife or some chick we double teamed in Ibiza, they always treat th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 06:42 AM |
| 6 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern worldMeh, hookers aren’t any different than any other entertainer and the fact that it sets reds flags for sounds more like the wrong, albeit not surprising, frame of mind. Not all hookers are drug addicted, toothless streetwalkers that get beaten up by pimps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 02:20 AM |
| 62 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern worldBeing in a relationship isn’t just about sex and you’re missing out big time if that’s all you’re expecting to get out of it. Having said that, hookers, Brazilian being my favorite, are just a whole lot of fun and there is definitely a time and a place (like Centaurus for example) for that but to suggest that hookers are better than a serious relationship is just silly. No, they are not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 01:59 AM |
| 2 | How big of a deal is it, dating someone who has different political beliefs than you do? Are relationships better when both people are on the same page, politically? Or do political differences make for more interesting interactions? Just curious what people think.Depends on how much of a nut job the other person is and whether they realize that, at least in the US, both sides are the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 11:50 PM |
| 11 | Virginity is a choiceOh goodness what a stupid statement. No, sometimes virginity isn’t a choice. How about the guy who can’t get it up or the guy who was born without a copulation tool? What you are trying to say has 100s of counter examples and therefore your statement is false. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 09:03 PM |
| 2 | Sugar Dating RealityPretty much stopped reading after the second paragraph as what you’re sayin is a reach at best but generally just complete nonsense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 05:05 AM |
| 10 | Q4M: does it bother you when you see a 30+ women settle down with a HVM?Redpill is a bunch of used car salesmen taking money from vulnerable antisocial dudes who watch instagram models and think they’ll be getting some of that if they only follow these 17 steps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 01:00 AM |
| 2 | Is height preference more than just physical attraction?Should probably get some rest then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 11:27 PM |
| 2 | Is height preference more than just physical attraction?I see, in that case what I said went right over your head and I’m sorry to be the one to break this to you, buddy, but you might have an undiagnosed mental disability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Is height preference more than just physical attraction?Proof? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 08:48 PM |
| 2 | Is height preference more than just physical attraction?Is english your second language? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 11:20 AM |
| 3 | Is height preference more than just physical attraction?I don’t think I do, buddy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 09:41 AM |
| 3 | Is height preference more than just physical attraction?Interestingly enough, once the $600k threshold is reached, your dick, in fact, starts to get bigger by about .5 inch per $150k increment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 08:27 AM |
| 13 | Is height preference more than just physical attraction?You gain an inch with every $150k increment in salary past 5’7 in the US. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Average people follow Societal Norms (And judge others by them): Age Gap ExampleI have to chime in here, in my late thirties, I briefly dated a girl in her late twenties that went back to college. It turned out to only be a FWB setup and she would set me up with some of her friends from school who were in their early twenties. I’ve gone out with 8 of them in that age group and all were a non starter on multiple levels due to immaturity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 01:37 AM |
| 3 | Average people follow Societal Norms (And judge others by them): Age Gap ExampleSelf deception 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 01:15 AM |
| -1 | Average people follow Societal Norms (And judge others by them): Age Gap ExampleI agree with the OP but I’ve noticed that this sub has some super weak opinion posts that can literally be argued successfully in multiple directions and often turn into shitshows between the opinion groups. It’s tiring. For the record I’m in my upper mid 40s, my SO is in early 30s, I’m about to start a second family and I’m fucking terrified by the fact that there is such a big age difference and the fact that I’m about to father a child this late. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 10:52 PM |
| 1 | (Casual) Sex really is overrated and job prospects are shockingly underrated around hereWhat she says is dead on point. What’s your argument here exactly as i’ve read your responses so far and you haven’t made one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 12:44 AM |
| 4 | (Casual) Sex really is overrated and job prospects are shockingly underrated around hereNo. Sex isn’t overrated to some and there is no scientific proof that fucking makes you poor and or miserable in life. I’m going to go out on the limb here and say that you are confusing things and connecting the wrong dots. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/22 10:34 PM |
| 2 | should society support or shame dumping good partner for a better one?Gosh, I’m not sure whether indifference to external appearance is connected to self esteem. Some people simply don’t care. However, that lack of care has social implications and while under some circumstances the connotation may be neutral as the occasion does not call for particular standard of appearance, in others it’s detrimental. Regardless of one’s own preferences it’s always helpful to be diplomatic in all aspects of life, this goes for what you choose to wear. I think a scientific word f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/22 10:11 PM |
| 1 | The response to men who complain about the dating world of “maybe you should improve yourself or find out what you’re doing wrong” is simply disingenuous and yet another deflectionSomething else is then a problem and the fact that you don’t know what the problem is is even a bigger problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/22 09:44 PM |
| 1 | should society support or shame dumping good partner for a better one?Well yeah, you need to be in a position of having nothing and barely surviving for it to work. Nobody with money and power ever said, no, I’m sorry, I’m going to have 1000 virgins in the next life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/22 09:29 PM |
| 4 | The response to men who complain about the dating world of “maybe you should improve yourself or find out what you’re doing wrong” is simply disingenuous and yet another deflectionYou’re saying advice is bullshit, I’m saying it isn’t unless I missed something obvious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/22 11:01 AM |
| 4 | The response to men who complain about the dating world of “maybe you should improve yourself or find out what you’re doing wrong” is simply disingenuous and yet another deflectionI would say that the advice is generally valid as a generalization. Nobody knows what you do, what you look like and what you’re lacking as to complain that you can’t get pussy or that women “are particular”. You are either doing something wrong, aren’t doing something or are generally incapable of achieving what you desire if you’re complaining. What I think you should be doing is looking inward and come to a realization about where you are in the pecking order and then acting accordingly in or… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/22 10:00 AM |
| 2 | should society support or shame dumping good partner for a better one?The thing is that “society” often IS religion or rather the shape of “society”, what it deems good, what it deems evil, what it deems appropriate vs not is in its foundation drawn and equated from religious beliefs and generally idiotic customs that were put in place to control and segregate those with power vs those without and give the serfdom a sliver of hope to continue being in line. So they are very closely related in my mind. Religion might be nice when you read the <insert your favorite … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/22 07:39 AM |
| 2 | should society support or shame dumping good partner for a better one?Fuck that shit, where does it say anyone is required to be loyal for the rest of their life? Loyalty was invented by those with means to control those without. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/22 01:06 AM |
| 3 | should society support or shame dumping good partner for a better one?History has shown that the general opinion of the “society” has been largely detrimental to human progress. I’ll just leave this here for you to ponder: Christianity Edit: Make that all Abrahamic religions as those collectively are by far the biggest poison inflicted on humanity to date and largely considered pillars for modern social moral compass’ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 11:33 PM |
| 2 | should society support or shame dumping good partner for a better one?Society can go fuck itself. It is your life that you get to go through once. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 09:28 PM |
| 5 | Will Jada Smith VS Chris RockWill is a moron for doing what he did 🤷🏻♂️. I’m not sure there is much to discuss. Women literally do not need the kind of protection they may have needed 5000 years ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Why is sex important or significant at all?Relationships are fucking awesome. Even those that don’t work out and you literally can’t be serious in insinuating that watching porn is in any way a substitute. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 06:30 AM |
| 1 | The rise of cuck culture and how it impacted dating.I suggest Afghanistan 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 10:05 PM |
| 1 | The rise of cuck culture and how it impacted dating.Are you upset that women get to express their sexuality as they please? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 09:31 PM |
| 1 | The rise of cuck culture and how it impacted dating.Why is that a problem? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Intelligence and personality matter A LOTI am scared for those you say you helped if it’s true because you can’t keep up with the basic assumptions and generalizations you’ve made in your original comment and keep sticking to an invalid point. Do you prescribe medication and provide diagnosis 😱 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Intelligence and personality matter A LOTThat’s not what you said. You said that everybody can do the job of a SE but they choose not to because it’s a job nobody wants to do. You are then trying to desperately insinuate that technology companies were started by business visionaries without any need for their technology background which is stupid in the best possible case. But go ahead show me how you proved this elusive point. Show proof. Saying words doesn’t make them true sweet heart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 12:32 PM |
| 1 | Intelligence and personality matter A LOTI’d like to hear it in your own words, thanks, I’ll wait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Intelligence and personality matter A LOTYou proved nothing, just said a bunch of baseless non sense and called yourself victorious. Yikes, way to be delusional. Good luck with all that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 12:24 PM |
| 3 | Intelligence and personality matter A LOTOh right 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 12:21 PM |
| 1 | The rise of cuck culture and how it impacted dating.I see no impact on modern dating but I like the fact that sexual horizons opened to some folks who would have otherwise not considered some sexual behavior. I like the fact that women are empowered to fulfill their sexual desires openly. It makes for some hot relationships and hot sex. Sluts are awesome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 11:52 AM |
| 1 | I feel like young men should never commit to a relationship if women will have sex with them regardless.I think there is a lot to learn from long term relationships about yourself and women in your case. There is also no better sex than intimate long term relationship sex. Having a different girl every night isn’t as great as it sounds just like it isn’t that great to have two girls at once unless all of you have done it before a few times. In your twenties you should be learning a lot. You should probably shift your frame of mind a bit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 11:41 AM |
| 2 | Confidence doesn't help physically unattractive menBeing severely overweight sends a ton of negative signals so it is not weird in my view that you get negative attention. The moral of the story is that if you want to be competitive, you have to make an effort in that direction. Hypothetically, if I like to watch downhill skiing but myself can’t be bothered to practice, how can I complain that my times are shitty? Of course this is more complicated if you can’t do anything about your condition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 11:25 AM |
| 1 | Confidence doesn't help physically unattractive menBeing attractive is a door, confidence is what takes you through it so you really need a little bit of the first and a lot of the second to make it through and keep the interest level high. On the other hand, I am not sure what you mean by unattractive. Both men and women eventually learn where they land in terms of attractiveness and need to choose a mate. The (I don’t like to use the word unattractive as a general term) less attractive folks will eventually hook up with other less attractive f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 11:12 AM |
| 1 | Intelligence and personality matter A LOTShow me. I’d like to see what you have because you are absolutely full of shit. What do you do in your day job and what do you pull in annually? I’m going to be asking for proof on hard to believe numbers so don’t lie. I would really like to get an idea about who I’m talking to here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 09:54 AM |
| 1 | Intelligence and personality matter A LOTClearly not, what are you even talking about. Can you point with a finger to the place where said point was made. I’ll wait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 09:36 AM |
| 4 | Intelligence and personality matter A LOTThe solution to every losing argument isn’t to come out and say “you’re proving my point” 😂. You’re doing this all over this thread. You should chill and enjoy your 5 figure job and stop hating on those who worked really hard to get through the whatever number of years to get their degrees in one of the most competitive educational disciplines in the past several decades and who are now reaping the benefits. You can also go back to school but start with not posting galactically stupid generaliza… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 06:55 AM |
| 2 | Intelligence and personality matter A LOTAwww, imitation is the ultimate form of flattery. You’d do great as a third. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 05:50 AM |
| 2 | Intelligence and personality matter A LOTA hahahaha, you can’t turn this around on me. That’s not how it works. You have to prove that your generalization is correct now that I proved on my own example that there exists an exception. Don’t be stupid and play the turn things around game. Prove your original comment by proving I don’t exist. That’s how proofs work 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 05:11 AM |
| 2 | Intelligence and personality matter A LOTRepeating non sense over and over won’t make it true hon but you do you 🤡 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 05:00 AM |
| 2 | Intelligence and personality matter A LOTWhat point is that exactly? That everyone can do an engineering job but they choose not to because they are above it in terms of intelligence as your comment suggests? 😂. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 04:58 AM |
| 2 | Intelligence and personality matter A LOTI wasn’t responding to the original post, I was responding to a comment which is 100% wrong while you went off some tangent irrelevant to my comment and now you’re grabbing at straws. Just say, “oops, I may have misunderstood the context of the conversation” and we can just move on because you can’t win this no matter how you spin it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 04:42 AM |
| 2 | Intelligence and personality matter A LOTA majority of which having either strong or direct background in technology. You’re naive to think that a class in Python provides any insight into how to make a computer work from the ground up. You would be incapable of doing the most elementary work on a software engineering team. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 04:39 AM |
| 2 | Intelligence and personality matter A LOTAgain here you go with not understanding how things work. You must prove the generalization. I don’t need to prove the exception because I am the proof. 😂 I don’t think you’d be capable of doing the job nobody wants hon. And poppy took a class in programming 😂 You’re both funny in an awkward way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 04:33 AM |
| 2 | Intelligence and personality matter A LOTI don’t think I can help you if you don’t understand the original comment in the first place. Specifically to what you just said, I’d like to correct you and say a job that no one qualified by either education or experience is capable of doing. Capable being the operative word. Poppy generalized, i corrected the generalization so I suppose the onus is on you to prove that the generalization is correct which you can’t because I am the living exception to the generalization which makes the general… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 04:27 AM |
| 0 | Intelligence and personality matter A LOTI’m responding to the comment below, you responded to my comment in the context of the original comment which is primarily about technologists. I am saying the original comment is incorrect. Myself and my circle are examples of the comment being incorrect. You’re talking about something out of context of the comment and while I know what you mean, your comment is tangential at best. Totally, my GF and I are always looking for a third + Original comment for your convenience Hard truth: software e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Intelligence and personality matter A LOTTopic: technology and technologists You: harr harr harr but what about not technology Me: what are you talking about, stay on topic Based on the fact that you’re a woman and not in technology makes you the least interesting person to talk to on this topic because you have absolutely no frame of reference about anything that’s been said this far in this thread So we’re both rich, if you’re in your early thirties and as attractive as you say, feel free to drop me a dm Your turn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 02:07 AM |
| 2 | Intelligence and personality matter A LOTTechnology companies. Not companies that existed before technology in the current sense of the word existed. Think, don’t react, it makes you sound stupid. My entire life I’ve dated very attractive women in the general sense where 90% of men would think they are attractive. Why don’t you tell me how you’re doing, where do you live, what do you make, where do you vacation and where is your SO on the scale of 1-10. I’ll wait 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 01:52 AM |
| 5 | Intelligence and personality matter A LOTThe most successful companies today are technology companies that were built by “STEMlords” and they hire what we call weasels to do the marketing and sales. Those skills are valuable but without product and engineering there would be nothing to market or sell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 01:07 AM |
| 0 | Issues with accepting highly promiscuous people in LTR (male/female)I think times before present were not conducive to the survival of those types of relationships long term because maintenance cost was significantly higher. I personally know many people in the lifestyle who have remained together and those who haven’t made it weren’t planning to be together for ever but remained very close after the break up. In my experience those types of relationships fall apart for the reasons that conventional relationships do with the only difference being that cheating m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 12:00 AM |
| 0 | Issues with accepting highly promiscuous people in LTR (male/female)There will be problems if you’re on the completely opposite side of the page on any basic value. People on the same page on lots of sex partners and sexual openness end up in healthy swinger relationships. Something that probably wouldn’t be possible with one person in the relationship that is not open or not confident about this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 11:44 PM |
| 11 | Intelligence and personality matter A LOTNot in the slightest. Most sales/marketing/put your favorite slacker in school occupation can’t get past the most basic CS course in college. Those who are smart and good at math and other sciences fall out around the first half of a semester. Half of those left don’t make it past low level CS that involve hardware, assembly and EE aspects of CS. It certainly isn’t a choice. It’s a combination of lack of discipline and ability. Those of us who get paid 7 figures for those things nobody wants to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 11:29 PM |
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