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We were also used to be able to challenge people to duels... So?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 01:33 AM
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Where did I defend marrying someone that young? I just said it used to happen. Chill God dammit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 01:23 AM
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I never talked about concent, it didnt even exist back then. I was talking about a societal costume.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 01:18 AM
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Nor only that, but the age you were able to have sex with someone was much lower too. Adult men in their 30s used to marry women when they were in their teens.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 12:56 AM
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No. Why are you generalizating how a woman thinks, when that's not what I was saying. Any sensible person knows when you just meet someone the sex is only mediocre at best. Well... you are doing the same with men... so? My argument is if u want sex, go get sex from promiscuous ppl or those who actually want to have casual sex with you, not ppl who THINK you want to date them. My whole argument is to STOP wasting time by putting so much effort into a date. Men are the ones putting in extra effort…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 09:33 AM
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Do you think men expect mindblowing sex from someone they barely know? Thats a womans way of thinking. Your whole argument is "men should putnwomens needs before their own" just because... Women know men date for sex, if something else (like a relationship) follows, then better, but the main objective is getting our balls emptied. But knowing that, there is a lot of women that date men whitout any intention of having sex, why dont you tell them to put mans needs first?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 08:47 AM
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The "sad" part is than in the most probable scenario, girl from anecdotae 1 and 2 didnt learn shit and made the same kind of mistakes over and over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:55 PM
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Dude, most of them cant even be up to a basic standard: dont be fat, dont be promiscuous, dont have unresolved mental issues...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:51 PM
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Most of my batting attempts have ended with lackluster results at best, so Im not precicely motivated to keep batting.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:53 AM
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Women on the west are poor prospects
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:16 PM
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Women dont have to be in EVERY space either
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 07:02 AM
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Im a male psychologist, believe me, I see what feminism has done to men first hand. Men need their own spaces, free from any kind feminization.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:57 AM
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Argentinian, nice catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:56 AM
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I would be more worried why what andrew tate and sneako says coincides so much with the male experience, those two and many more are idiots, and andrew tate is disgusting, BUT... they are the ones that are saying to young men "I hear you, you are not alone, its not all your fault". Think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:46 AM
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Not alienating them would be enough
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:38 AM
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Nope, its better for men to be alone than to help women but not recieve any reciprocity.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:25 AM
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So men spaces become about women?? no thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:22 AM
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Well you have some points right, while most of us recognize this new wave of RP influencers is complete BS (Fresh & Fit for example) they still provide solutions for most mens problems, I personaly ended a four years dry spell doing exactly what those two idiots said, so yes, they are full of bullshit but at leats they give you something to work with. Also, you say women are losing right and they want "equality"TM ... well, what rights are they losing that put them below men, if it is abortion, …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:21 AM
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If a guy doesn't meet my standards, it's irrelevant whether he's equal to me. Thats the problem with wanting to shit above your ass, or as we say in spanish "cagar mas alto de lo que tenés el culo" Honestly, what makes you think you deser someone better than you? If your equal is settling, what do you provide tat would make someone better be interested in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:04 AM
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One group encompases the other. I wouldnt seriously date any of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 12:57 AM
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That might be your case, IDK how old are you, but a great portion of young people have no problem fucking on a first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:42 PM
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And thats womens doing. Before the sexual revolution being a hoe was frowned upon and socially shamed by both men and women. Women used to ask commitment before sex, now they push for non monogamy, multidating is becoming the norm and women are the ones allowing it. You cant blame men from seeking sex from the get go under this circumstances. If you are not fucking with her, someone else is, and it might be more than one guy. Nobody wants to be the guy that tries to form an emotional bond with a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:46 PM
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I agree 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:21 PM
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He is, but, if women have abortion we should have a legal construct to not be obligated to pay any kind of support for children we never intended to sire. If women can legally opt out of motherhood, then we should be able too, after all, didnt they want equality???...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 07:55 PM
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I never talked about rape. In Argentina abortion used to be allowed only in case than the fetus wasnt viable, high risk pregnancy or rape, then the leftist came. But Im of the opinion than if you are old enough to spread your legs, you are old enough to take care of whatever comes out of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 06:16 PM
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freedom to be sexual — you cannot have sexual freedom without bodily autonomy which is literally up for debate across the world constantly Dont mistake freedom of choice with freedom from consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:52 AM
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Those women are lowkey admiting that the only thing they can offer to men is their pussy, its not a loss for us, but a reflection of their low value.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:28 AM
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I doubt he was scared, his line of though could have been something like "why the hell does this stranger expect me to put myself in harms way to protect her?"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 11:52 AM
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Childfree all the way
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:42 PM
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The same argument could be made regarding feminism and their sexual liberation...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 10:28 AM
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Make women great again. As you said, the older you get, the less horny you are, so sex no longer takes that much priority when looking for a woman. And lets be honest, a LOT of women dont have that much to offer besides sex, specially if you dont want kids. Add to that than their expectations are through the roof (they deny that of course) and you will find yourself being way more in peace at home, with a beer in one hand and in front of a screen than catering to a womans needs to get some pussy…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 11:39 PM
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As long as it doesnt rob me more than a minute or puts me in harm way, I have no trouble helping a stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:46 PM
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So, a friendship. Id rather have someone that calls me only to fuck then vanishes from my life. I have enogh female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 04:09 PM
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Good loving girlfriend and a cheater are two very separated categories. I wouldnt want her back, but I would want retribution.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 11:51 AM
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My limit is 7-8 years younger, im 35, so someone arround 27-28 is my limit. Younger is physically preetier but I have nor the time nor energy to deal with someone younger. I dont date older than me. I expect any future partner to take care of herself, do excersice, eat properly, dont drink or smoke in excess and you will age with grace.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 11:33 AM
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Dude, get off the internet for a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 01:37 PM
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Everyone get old, but not to the same result. Someone ugly will be an ugly odl person, while someone preety or beautifuull will most likely have a soft landind on old age. Also some habits result in a better time during old age, for example excersice, which is linked to a nice looking body. Men are more visual, looks weight heavier for us than for you when choosing a LTR partner, after all, we cant fake an erection, so we need to find you good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:17 AM
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Even most men willing to commit wont wait to have sex until after being in a formal relationship with said woman. Being formal with someone does take time, and even men who seek a LTR would be unwilling to wait maybe months for something they could get on a first or second date with someone else. Supply and demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 12:08 AM
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Do you honestly belive than in the current sex positive era men would make a line to date women with whom sex was not a part of the dating phase??? Men are not flocking towards women who want commitment before sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 11:02 PM
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Because we are not talking about everydays life, we are talking about dating. And men date first and foremost for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:05 PM
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And I would reduce that number to below 100 when you ass all their filters.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:20 PM
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For example, the whining that assholes, criminals, junkies, and serial killers have girlfriends/admirers. Never do these whiny men think “I shouldnt want to be around women with those kinds of interests”. No, they’re jealous these women won’t fuck them. Its not jealousy, its a mixture of anger, envy, frustration and a bit of entitlement. On one hand, you hear women complaining about how they are treated by men, all those junkies and criminals are not precisely pussy starved. They can treat women…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:18 PM
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Its not an ick, its a shaming tactic. They use it because they know their better years are ending and they wont get the attention from the men they would like to have. Beauty and money go hand in hand, and they know their beauty is fading and each year there is a fresh batch of competition into the market. They know than men with status and money want women with a certain amount of beauty (among other things) and you wont find a perky ass and tits in a 40yo mother of two.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 08:00 PM
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1) a lot of men would fuck anythhing with a pulse. One of my friend who was a late bloomer went after fat women because they didnt have many issues to put out, and he went even if he didnt find them atractive, they were just a willing hole for him. 2) men are the ones doing the courting, we put the most effort during the talking and dating phase, so we dont want to pay an overinflated price for something that used to be on discount. 3) as a man, being able to get sex the same way a woman is capa…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 08:00 AM
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Your grandma has a point. If someone wanted to asault a woman, would he choose a decent girl or someone that he though deserved it?? A man can understand a girl that makes everybody wait, thats a trait of values and character. But doesnt see in a good light qhen someone that is the town hoe wants to make them wait (its like paying full price for a car that was used as a taxi, basically you are getting scammed) Some men with anti social personality dissorder wouldnt take that lightly... and would…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 12:14 AM
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OP is not talking about morality. And to be honest, who cares? Women let a lot of offensive and inmoral thing pass depending on how atractive a man is, if their morality is selective, ours should be too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:35 PM
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TBH, Ive know a few women who respond better to being mistreated that to empathy and affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 01:57 PM
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You have to look this from a mans perspective. Women dont value sex as much because they always have someone willing to fuck, also, they dont need to be active during courtship. For men its quite the oposite, we dont have people willing to have sex with us just for exisiting, and we have to actively look for people and put time and effort to maybe get laid. If I were in a relationship and my partner said she did not want to have sex anymore (ever) I would leave. Men date for sex, women for relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:19 AM
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Two to the chest, one to the head.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:10 AM
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There is a big difference between use and abuse of porn. Its not the same if you ocasionally watch something versus dailynuse of more extreme forms of porn. Also, if that were true, no man would pairbond.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 06:51 PM
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Lets be honest considering maturbating to a porn video as cheating is stretching the term quite a lot. There is no physical nor emotional relation to thewoman on the video, nor is the man who´s masturbating having sex with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:36 PM
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Single mother running a scam dietary trend. She became one of those "consultants" that you pay a monthly fee to be able to belong to her "lion club" carnivore diet consultant service. She has no qualifications to give anyone a dietary plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:53 PM
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The moment I saw how Jordan Peterson´s daughter turned out, I lost all respect for him as a role model. His views come from a world that no longer exist, men used to get recognition and sometimes even a partner for their sacrifice, now they are just one cog in a machine. IMO ditching society´s expectations from us is the way to go, at least until we are respected and apreciated again.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 06:50 PM
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Nope, its worse and more filthy mouthed
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:47 PM
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Let me rephrase it to what we actualy think: "Im not a mind reader, nor have the fucking intention to be one. Say what you fucking want or dont complain when you dont get it. Act like an adult, not a fucking todler throwing a tantrum" There you have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 09:19 PM
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IMO what most men (including myself) expect from a relationship are sex, companionship and peace, and the first two are basic components from a relationship, and the woman gets exactly the same, those are shared, not exchanged. Peace is more tricky but it should be basic too. If both are getting the same, by giving exactly that, is it a transaction? The problem is than women expect much more from a relationship than men. Besides the previously mentioned things, they excpect a protector, a provid…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 09:14 PM
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IDK if I have completely given up, but I stopped trying altogether, its been almost two years since my last date. I dont consider myself undesirable, Im 1,80mts tall, 77Kgs of mostly muscle (5 11", 170lbs) I have a psychology major, a good income for my country, well read, I do carpentry as a hobby besides the gym and some videogames. I have a good life long friend group and years long friendships with women, so Im not a loner. Im a conservative, so Im looking for a monogamous relationship, I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 12:17 AM
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Well, considering that you tag yourself as a radfem, it doesnt surprise me that you wont see men as anything more than trash. Before critizising someone else, take a look at your own biases.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 03:07 AM
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I never said they deserve to be abused, I said they choose to subject themselves to abuse, thats very different. What I said, and I stand by my words, is that they are objects with no self love nor self respect, but we dont dehumanize them, they dehumanize themselves with life choices like participating in bdsm porn. And if you portrait yourself as an object to be abused, thats how people will see you. You cant demand treatment from others whwn you dont treat yourself that way. Portrait yourself…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 01:58 AM
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Enjoying violence and practicing violence are two very different things, or do you consider anyone who enjoyed watching John Wick a murderer??? And its fun how you put "most men" on the same bag, but I didnt do so with women, I only spoke about a very specific group within women. And for your information, I have the same opinion of men who suject themselves to the same kind of treatment, its not a gendered issue for me, the post refered to female subs. Its almost imposible to respect and humaniz…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 08:59 PM
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Enjoying violence and practicing violence are two very different things, or do you consider anyone who enjoyed watching John Wick a murderer??? And its fun how you put "most men" on the same bag, but I didnt do so with women, I only spoke about a very specific group within women. And for your information, I have the same opinion of men who suject themselves to the same kind of treatment, its not a gendered issue for me, the post refered to female subs. Its almost imposible to respect and humaniz…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 08:58 PM
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And where is your counter argument? ...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 12:58 AM
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I agree, yet that doesnt excuse them from the choice they made when they joined that industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 12:23 PM
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The only instance I would empathize with those women is if the had absolutely no other way to put food on their childs plate, and only if they do it as a short term solution. But some of these women see this as a valid way of earning a living. And some of them earn A LOT of money. They dont care about the permanent damage they might do to their bodies as long as they get cash and attention. There is a famous OF performer from the Netherlands who does extreme anal penetrations (triple anal fistin…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 07:59 AM
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Women are worried than porn degrades women? Sorry but thats bullshit. Women are degrading women the moment they accept participating in those acts. I have watched my fair share of extreme bdsm porn, and I can not imagine how anyone would have an ounce of respect for the woman who participates as the submisive. That is the kind of women that agrees to be urinated (sometimes inside her), have her breast and genitals slapped, whipped, pierced (even skewered), stretched, vacuum pumped or even inject…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 03:37 AM
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In that scenario, my first nuance would be getting other women. If I allready had pussy at home, and I happened to be content with it, why would I go through the trouble of finding new women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:07 PM
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Elon Musk: while really wealthy, his fortune is used for high risk investments, its just a matter of time until the wrong project bankrupts him. Also, he impregnates women for a hobby, he has 11 children qith 3 women, each kid will get less than 10% of whatever remains if any. Not the best of the best. Johnny: wealthy and famous, yes, but he is the male version of Amber, a drug addicted mess who is 23 years older than her, again, not the best option for someone with her beauty. This time he was …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:19 PM
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Nope, we might want to fuck an Amber Heard, but we wont want anything else with someone like her. That kind of woman is damaged goods, sadly for her, her only valuable asset is her proclivity to unhinged sex
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 09:10 AM
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I was being sarcastic with the question marks
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 03:12 PM
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Maybe because Russians are the attakers???
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:32 AM
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Between foreplay and the actual fucking, yes, but I think he meant 30 minutes of thrusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:45 AM
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Yes, but its still an orgasm, some women cant even do that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 01:24 AM
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It is unreasonable for men considering how fast we can give ourselves an orgasm (yes, without porn)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:54 AM
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Easy, because it implies effor, loss of power and a posible ego backfire.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 11:36 AM
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Yes, and?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:54 PM
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But what's the appeal of anal sex in straight sex? I have heard and read about so many husbands/boyfriends who are secretly disappointed/resentful towards their wives/gfs for denying them anal sex. First and foremost, men like sexual variety, and an alternative way to stimulate our penis is always wellcomed, 95% of our sexuality goes through our dick. To answer your question, as a strict monogamous man I would lose interest to someone who is unwilling to put 100% in the bedroom. I wont go to oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:35 PM
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Promiscuity is a great predictor of infidelity, and if you are going to bet years of your life with someone, would you choose a good or a shitty option?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:48 AM
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Because children can be shitty too, its mostly their parents fault, but still.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:32 PM
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Or maybe he didnt want cheese? Or he considered than $3 for a single extra was too much?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 06:30 AM
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I dont want kid because there are allready A LOT of mental dissorders in my family, I dont want to deal with that from a kid too. Neither would I want someone with kids as a partner, at some point you will be expected to step up and help raising that child, and that would rob me of my time and money. Without the desire for kids, the main objective most people has when searching for a partner dissapears, so, I dont put effort in finding one. Last time I invited a woman for diner was a year and a …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 04:55 AM
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Luckly my job is mostly individualistic, I rarely have to deal with other people´s mistakes. But my entire shift is composed of women, after 6 1/2 years they know a lot of my opinions, the key is talking about someone they dont know and then holding that particular person accountable and say you wouldnt tolerate that BS from someone, that way you can shit talk women and not make it feel like you are attacking them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 06:30 PM
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I bet women wanting to shit higher than their ass has nothing to do with them being single... Women are hypergamous, most well educated women wouldnt look down for someone with just a bachelor degree. The problem those women have is that there are very few man up to their standards, those men know it and play the field. That fear is their protection for their ego. "She can't reject me if I don't ask her out". For men dating is a numbers game, would you bet on a horse that has a low chance of mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:51 AM
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Well, since Im not trying to have sex with them, I dont care about their expectations and demands regarding men towards me, so Im not trying to fit her "man" archetype. Also I wouldnt tolerate any kind of disrespect from women, going from arriving late to some commitment/date, to talking shit about men. Neither would I tolerate emotional outbursts or emotional "reasoning". Ball busting women have no place in my life. And last but not least, I dont care about offending them, I speak my mind freel…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:43 AM
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After my last set of shitty/lead-to-nothing dates, I decided to throw the towel. I havent even invited a woman for a cup of coffee over the last year and a half, and not having to deal with dating and women in said context feels great. I noticed that since I chosed not to chase women anymore, my libido dropped to the ground up to the point I spent a whole week (or week and a half) without masturbating because I completely forgot about it. Now I masturbate for hygienic purpouses only, to avoid ni…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:21 AM
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You might not lose the desire to have a partner, but you lose the need to have sex. Losing the need makes you stop searching. And once you stop searching, you feel a sense of peace. Of course, this doesnt eradicate the desire, but you will have a significant drop in your libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 03:51 AM
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Who recieved the dowry depends on the country and moment in history. In some countries men had to pay dowry because they were basically taking away part of the bride´s family workforce. Women lacked right and were seen as "property" if you want to take up to the letter some feminist BS, so it makes sense men "bought" her. Also, it was a way of showing he could provide for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:07 PM
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Yes, women cant be bought from their families anymore, and considering how women are today, thats a good thing, they are not worth any dowry. But, as long as men are the ones chasing (if you preffer that term), women will put themselves in a priviliged position and feel like they are a prize. Which considering how most of them behave, its a blatant deception. We are at an age where the only unique use (straight) men have for women is sex and reproduction, everything else can be obtained from oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 06:11 PM
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Yes, as long as men are the ones doing the courting, women will be the prize, but... Lets be honest, compared to previous generations, most women downgraded from "The prize" to a participation award, most of them are not worth the effort. Men today have to put ten times the effort to get someone thats half the woman his grandmother was (at best), yet women wonder why most men dont go the commitment route anymore...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 11:26 PM
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Because it doesnt benefit them...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 07:23 PM
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A hoe is a hoe
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 09:39 AM
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If you have to tell the world that you are a functional adult intead of shutting up about something that expectable, then yes, you are looking for attention and feeding your narcisism.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 04:39 PM
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Easy, you dont expect to be praised for being an adult
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 03:54 PM
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Yet it doesnt mean all men are like that. Single mothers are not evil, for the most part they are stupid for having sex with men that wouldnt stay to raise a kid. Thats the problem feminism started with the sexual revolution, "giving it up" too quickly entails short term pleasure but no one prepared them for the long term consequences.. This didnt happen nearly as much when waiting for sex was the norm and the man was demanded a level of comitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:41 PM
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Tell that to the rise of single mothers households...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:26 PM
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If it was a widespread behavior they would accept it since they would have the same authority the moment they had a daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:25 PM
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Before feminism ruined the family unit, the father was the one in charge of enforcing boundaries to their children, and specially regarding women, he was the last filter any suitor would have to pass to be able to date/marry said daughter. Men used to ask the hand of their beloved to her father. It was a good way to ensure the daughter did not end with a man that was worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 03:20 AM
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TBH no. I would have to put effort to keep a relationship, and I would have to put effort to get good sex, so, twice the effort for something my partner should provide. If I were in such situation I would ditch the unenthusiastic one and keep the one that fucks well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 02:36 AM
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Personality doesnt make my dick go hard. If I dont find her atractive, I wont want to fuck with her, and if I dont want to fuck with her, why would I date her?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 03:41 AM
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So, a former prostitute?? Hell no. No man should fall that low as to date a former prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 07:04 PM
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You dont seem to understand. I dont have any problem hugging one of my friends, thats actually how we greet most times, we know eachother over 30 years. What a portion of men strugle is getting romantical touch from women, not platonic touch (specially from men).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 10:06 PM
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Why should I care... As other comenter said, platonic touch and romantical touch are two very different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 08:04 PM
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Why is it so hard to understand that what we lack are not handshakes or hugs, but a woman´s touch?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 05:57 PM
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just meet the threshold of affection. Tell me love is transactional for women without telling me love is transactional for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:59 PM
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Yet all of those are factors in the equation. If you dont measure up in some extent to those variables you will end as nothing more than a friend, good, but not good enough to take things futher.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 04:40 AM
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You got to set hypergamy in a her context, she will go after the best she can get, without even being aware of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 03:46 AM
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I had long hair for seven years, it took a bit of shampoo and conditioner and thats it, the rest is bullshit than women buy because they want to. Nails? five minutes with a nail clipper, the rest is because you want it, and most men dont like fake plastic nails. Not fat doesnt mean "Better be a Victoria´s Secret Angel" (the old school ones) as long as you dont eat like a pig and move your ass a bit, you will be fine. But in USA, most of you are morbidly obese, at that point the problem goes beyo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 06:26 AM
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IMO the affected partner should leave instead of cheating, regardless of gender. Yet I understand why she cheated, and if you read in my comments under this same thread, you will see that the husband earned being cheated long ago. The moment he said to her than "if she wanted sex so much, she shoud fuck with someone else". I dont feel bad for the husband in this particular case. That guy became a self fullfilling prophesy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 11:59 AM
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They both are childfree. IMO they should have split years ago, even before getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 10:58 PM
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Dont. He always was very low libido, and never tried to do anything to solve it, he even once told her that "if she wanted sex so much, she should find someone else to fuck" He almost cheated on her a few months before marriage. And now the guy needs to watch pictures from other women before being able to have sex with her, as a preparation, and he even justifies himself. She tolerates that because she feels guilty for cheating, because "what she did is worse than what he does" (her words). They…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 09:57 PM
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Yes, she even did it again in an overtly way right after we had our little chat, to which I reinforced the boundaries. As I comented to someone else right under here Im not going to make a new move, I told her Im not the kind of man thats pushy nor begs for attention, and unless she wants something the fliirting has to end. I told her that if she wanted to revisit that conversation it up to her, she allready knows where I stand. Also, Im not the kind of man that thinks "If you dont want to fuck,…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 09:53 PM
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Nope, I see it from a diferent perspective. This mutual flirting had been going for two years under the premise that she would have never cheated on her husband, for us it was a game, not an innocent one but a game still. When I saw than the underlying rules were different, I made my move and she did not reciprocate it. Im not going to make a new move, I told her Im not the kind of man thats pushy nor begs for attention, and unless she wants something the fliirting has to end. I told her that if…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 09:46 PM
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Yes, Im currently living that situation with a years long friend, the problem is that she flirts back. We played this little game for over two years, until she told me she cheated on her husband years ago (I never knew until two months ago). I never took a step foward because I thought she was very loyal to him, she endured eight years of his ED and very low libido until she finally cheated. She was raised a conservative christian, so marriage and fidelity were important values and goals for her…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:29 PM
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Scarce and boring most of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 06:13 PM
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TBH, after tons of shitty and dissapointing experiences with women, a small part of me will always hate them, not individually, but as a group.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 10:43 AM
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Nope, and I tried it twice. First time was with a male therapist who also was a sexologist, his final advice was than I should watch dating coach content. He was married for at least 10 years. Second time was with a female therapist, she is almost 20 years older than me, so she is out of touch with the current dating landscape.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 02:33 AM
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You should google "behavior extinction"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 09:20 AM
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There is always the penis size talk, but no one talks about the vagina size. The average vagona can fit an average penis, but there are different base sizes. Just like penis size, vagina size depends on things like race and body size just to give two factors. You will have a hard time fitting the average african penis into an asian vagina, the same way neither would get much stimulation if you swapped the races. I know vaginas stretch, quite a lot if you dwell into some fetish porn genres, but i…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:43 AM
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15 years ago dating was enjoyable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 11:23 AM
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All of them, but not many can afford it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 02:15 PM
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So fat and poor is the way to go??? c´mon dude, muscles and money are not a magical solution, but make things easier. Also, you dont need to be a roidhead, just enough muscle to have a manly shape and make clothes look better on you than the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 02:07 PM
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Someone never heard about bodybuilding, powerlifting and strongman...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 04:00 AM
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Six years have passed, did you find that man or changed your standard?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 03:58 AM
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Are most women deserving of a man like that? I HIGHLY doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:42 PM
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that type of society can only be maintained through brute force. Brute force that women never had to install it on the first place, neither mantain it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 06:51 PM
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Realistically or internet version?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 07:09 PM
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Good for you. Regretably I have a lot of coleagues than would rather tell you what you want to hear than what you need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:33 AM
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Thats a problem in psychology, the proffesional is there to say what you need to hear, not what you want to hear and catter your feelings. Psychology is a means to an end, that end is solving problems, not make you feel good for a short amount of time and change nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 07:33 AM
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There is a difference between finding something arousing, and making it a lifestyle. This is not a "spank me daddy" scenario, the kind of women I described in my previous comment lack two things, awareness and self respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 06:38 AM
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I have a lot of female patients (Im a psychologist) who strugle with dating, they all fall into the cliches so oftenly written here. From going to men that are way above their league, men who have a lifestyle thats not compatible with commitment and monogamy, to men that mistreat them. Women really strugle with one simple rule: Dont reward bad behavior They keep complaining about how these men treat them, yet they keep spreading their legs for them, they cant grasp the idea than those men dont n…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 04:35 AM
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I dont believe in marriage, but I would difintely be in a relationship with a woman like that. At my age I look for functionality more than raw passion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 01:14 PM
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Except China who is not precisely interested in human rights, most of the regions you mentioned stagnated with time. To give you an example, Mathematics were born in Babilon (Irak) and their greatest contibution to the world in the last 50 years is Jihad...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 12:18 PM
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White men invented most of what drew society to the prosperity we currently have, almost all of the great geniuses were white men. While Europe grew, created wonders and developed technology, most african nations still waged tribal wars with bows and spears (some tribes still do). If you want more evidence, look what happened to the african countries led by white men, Rhodesia was once known as "the jewel from Africa", now its called Zimbabwe...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:59 PM
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Look at the crime statistics and make your own conclusions
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:33 PM
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Im not wasting my time with dating apps anymore. I admit that some of the most interesting women from dating apps were from Bumble, but still, IDGAF anymore, the moment they removed the filters access they lost me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:34 AM
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Its one really basic stuff, putting it simple, once you learn something that changes and broadens your perspective, you cant unlearn it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 08:29 PM
2

Basically, the cave allegory from Plato
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:24 PM
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There is a video of a guy making the calculations of how much of every product she uses for one aplication and the derived costs, in the end, her makeup was worth $12 per date.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 02:39 AM
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Since women are the ones that go crazy, why dont they wait until marriage??? Dont blame men for women´s bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 10:55 PM
2

Sure... thats why they aply a recipe that failed multiple times for them and countless women... Maybe they are just delusional hoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:01 PM
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So, women decide to hoe and its men´s fault because they played along??? Really...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 07:00 PM
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Smart, no problem, but a smart that acts smartass is a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:25 AM
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But for her to be physically into you, you have to be atractive to her, and that will come easier if you present youself a certain way lookswise and go beyond basic hygiene. If she finds you physically atractive her predisposition to find you sexually atractive will improve, and that will have an effect on how she relates emotionally to you. First impressions matter, a lot, and once a woman puts you in a certain categorie its preety hard to change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 07:33 AM
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Many do, many dont, its practically a coin toss. Regarding your second point, if you are going to use money as your main asset, use it wisely. Use it to get fit, dress well and expensive, drive a nice car, have a nice home. Show money instead of just expending it on them, if you go to a date on flip flops and a worn down clothes, no bank account will help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:13 AM
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Yet the expectation of paying for dates, gifts, etc exist in A LOT of women, even when they earn more than enough to pay for their share. And Ive met more than one career woman that wants to be a SAHM for a few years when they get married. A man is always paying, one way or the other under the excuse that said woman is "traditional".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 05:40 AM
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Exactly the oposite, a model type of woman wouldnt give average joe the time of the day, but she would spread her legs for soemone with lots of money (like Trump) for the lifestyle they can provide. The man might not write a check to her, but a lot of money will go from his pockets to her in a multitude of ways (like expensive gifts, travels, lifestyle, etc). Every man pays for a womans company and sexual access, the HVM has access to more exclusive markets.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:14 AM
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Technically speaking, they are the ones that do the sexual selection, so, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:58 PM
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And a lot of "loyal, respectful and humble" get cheated by their partner with a man that is nothing like that, so who is really the high value one?? Agreed, Trump is way too old for pulling 20 something women, yet he has always been arround with beautifull women (way younger than him), who stay with him and let him impregnate them, IMO thats a better proof of high value than getting an ONS with a 20 something.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:46 AM
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You are high value when women go out of their way to try to sleep with you instead of you going after them. How you make that depends, using one of your examples, Trump is an old man, he wont be in shape, but the ridiculous amount of money he has overcompensates his looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:23 AM
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Regardless of dick size, a lot of women dont comunicate what they like in bed, yet they complain when they dont orgasm. I dont have the crystal balls, nor do I read minds, if they want an orgasm, they should at least comunicate what they need to get one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:23 AM
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Remember "its only bad if men do it", sexualizing women in no exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:46 PM
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Unless they have BPD
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 12:24 PM
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TBH, I would treat her better than anyone else in my life, as long as she did the same for me. But as someone childfree, if she wanted to be financially supported, I would expect her to become a free use bangmaid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 12:08 PM
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I dont want kids, so option 1 seems like a better deal as long as she does what I say in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:26 PM
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Remember what Im going to tell you now, it will explain most female cognitive dissonances: "Its only bad when men do it"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:51 PM
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Destiny marriage blew up because the guy had an open ended marriage and his wife basically got fucked by a lot of men he knew.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 08:04 PM
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I wouldnt take a man that let his wife (now ex-wife) get fucked by other men as an example of any kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 05:03 AM
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Does that mean in the bedroom, women only rarely and reluctantly offer intimacy, almost like a chore they 'have to do' in order to have him continue to fund her luxury lifestyle? That kind of women know that the moment she closes her legs, he will close his wallet. Also, gold diggers better be adventurous in bed, there is always a younger and kinkier gold digger arround the corner.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 09:48 PM
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Indeed, just look at pictures of how women dressed half a century ago in arab countries, and how quickly that changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:50 AM
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Im from Argentina, inflation has nothing to do with women going after high earners. Inflation is the dildo that fucks us all, women got demanding regardless of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 09:54 AM
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Then why dont you make a humanizing comparison? make it concise, easy to understand and culturally neutral so it doesnt get lost in translation... I´ll wait...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 07:21 PM
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Than she did A LOT of hookups before. And Im not willing to pay full price for a rental car.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 02:39 AM
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Idiots will be idiots, never feel sorry for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:54 PM
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The thing is, you were holding back because at the end of the day you didnt want to hurt your sister badly, a rapist wont have the same considerations. If a woman is able to actually injure a man trying to hurt her, it will only anger him more, and thats when shit wil most likely hit the fan for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:24 AM
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Women only have power when men allow it, rape is the oldest example about it, women only have sexual autonomy because men are civilized enough to not take it away.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 05:40 AM
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Its always the ugly ones, if they there´s a preety one, she is a silver spoon leftard.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 05:36 AM
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As an argentinian who spent his forming years in the University of Buenos Aires (la UBA), Ive seen leftards use, abuse and twist beyond recognition different movement for their own interests. And female movements are among the most distorted of them. Ni una menos was born as a demand for justice, not for chetitas to be able to legally abort.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 05:35 AM
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Wait until shit really hits the fan. Men will realize they are the stronger sex and can impose themselves, and women will remember than their greatest leverage is between their legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 05:15 AM
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"Ni una menos" has been arround eight years in Argentina it didnt start in Mexico. Honestly, the movement lost a lot of it drive, it doesnt appear in mass media the way it did a few years ago. And it seems a part of the current administration is trying to take down the abortion law. All those "female empowerment movements" are leftards circle jerks. The moment one of those self proclaimed hairy amrpit feminists come across a real man, they shift their values preety quickly (until they get dumped…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 05:08 AM
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Easy, a woman spreads it to a HVM, the HVM sleeps with multiple women and they all get the disease. People seem to think its harder to contract something from oral, and lots of people do oral withot a barrier method (like condoms) because thats not a hole that gets her preagnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 06:04 PM
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There is a saying in my country "el que se quema con leche, ve la vaca y llora" (He who burns himself with milk sees the cow and cries), Maybe that employer had such a shitty female worker than he prefers just to avoid problems altogether, after all, sex might not have been a job requirement for said position.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:13 PM
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Excellent, thats the right mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:10 PM
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Because, I dont think its a matter of male gaze anymore, there are a lot of women that not only train in skimpy clothes, but also upload pics of themselves on the gym in said skimpy clothes, they are looking for attention, and the male gaze is attention. Female only gyms might have an audience because of the types of services they offer, like classes that only women take and might not be avaible on regular gyms as easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 02:21 PM
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In todays attention seeking culture, female only gyms are dying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 02:12 PM
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I bet there was more to that story than not doing her job well. She might have stirred a lot of drama or acused someone of sexual harrasment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 02:10 PM
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And by heavy I mean I'm hip thrusting 55kg, RDLing 35kg and incorporating 6 different workouts. Sorry to tell you, but thats not heavy training, the women on my gym with a "gym ass" are pulling twice that weight on hip thrusts. You might want to up the loads on all your excercises.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 02:08 PM
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I would think they are doing a lot of harm to their future children just because of a personal choice. Meet someone, form a family and dont be selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 06:35 AM
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Be careful, I have low sex drive too, the difference is that not being horny took away my biggest motivator to go after women. I weed red flags really quick, but since I dont have anything that makes me want to power myself through a multitude of women with red flags until I find one thats worth the effort, I stay home or socialize with friends if I want to do something social, but I have no real reason to date anymore. If I have sexual urges, wanking solves them preety easily, without any finan…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:19 AM
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Beauty is one of womens strongests assets, and men are more visual regarding their sexual stimulation. A lot of women let themselves go after childbirth, and Im not talking about the first year, most of the preagnancy weight gets burned with lactation. Im talking about the ones that get focused on being a mother and disregard their appearance wich affects how desirable their husband finds them. In todays world, with all the modern apliances there is no excuse to make time to take care of your ap…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 11:22 PM
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Yes, so what? The male beauty standard is overweight, the catch is that its a lot of muscle mass with under 12% body fat. Henry Cavill and Chris Hemsworth are two good examples of that. Technically speaking, the male beauty standard is harder to achieve and mantain than the female one...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 09:56 PM
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There are more disrable and less desirable body shapes, the most desirables are hourglass and pear shaped. It doesnt mean that the other shapes are not atractive (I would debate about "round" shape), its only that most men would gravitate towards hourglass and pear.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 05:54 PM
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Most men like women weighting near the lower end of BMI. I would add than the now fit girl trend made a lot of men like slim toned women too. The men who like thicker women think of women like Sofia Vergara or Salma Hayek, lots of boobs, ass and legs with a proportionate waist to keep the hourglass shape. They are not thinking in surgery mutants like Kim Kardashian or the average chubby girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 05:26 PM
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Petite slim, as long as her stomach is flat (without visible abs better, I hate "fitgirl" abs) and has a nice hip/waist ratio I dont care about boob or ass size. This and a preety face and I would be beyond happy. She could literaly have two fried eggs as boobs and I wouldnt care, neither do I need one of those "gym rat girls" asses IG pushes everyday. As long as her BMI is arround 18 with as little body fat as posible Im fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 05:02 PM
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I tried to date women outside of my physical prefference, and TBH, I knew I was forcing myself to be there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 06:47 AM
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Most men have a refractory period after orgasms that prevents multiple orgasms. I bet he is including a lot of prostate play in this. And also, I have a refractary period after my second orgasm instead of the first if I keep going and dont cut stimulation. ​ There are women, who after putting the effort in, can cum easily and on command. Most women can’t “train themselves”. I have to disagree with you, take a quick look on some of the sexuality subreddits, there are lot of women who come from an…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 01:28 PM
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yet...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 12:50 PM
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Since it would be a strict monogamous relationship, how much sexual variety would she bring? would she be willing to experiment in bed? would she satisfy his kinks without complain?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 05:38 AM
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Yet they are fucking them instead of fucking someone who would treat them way better. Sometimes its really hard not to think women like to be mistreated.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 10:15 AM
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Think of the hero archetype; he's strong, courageous, willful and assertive. He uses his strength to help others in need and doesn't let setbacks impede his goals. He's kind and helpful, not just to women and children but to his friends, and people enjoy being around him. He stands by his values and doesn't compromise them for anyone, and isn't easily goaded into losing his cool by mere words of disrespect. He's compassionate, and would go to great lengths to please the woman he loves because he…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 09:03 AM
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Yes, I dont trust women who still keep an ex arround.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 06:07 AM
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Thank "cultural enrichment" for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 03:19 PM
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Adding to what you say, woman have been lied than they can whithold sex for any reason for any amount of time and their man will remain loyal, they dont understand than one of their main assets and one of the main reasons men go after them is the holes between their legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:00 AM
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You want a LTR? its easy, add more to his life than just your body and its holes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 04:47 AM
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It’s about the when, where and how. As a man old enough to have called to his first GF by a line phone, what you say is bullshit. Each year women come up with more and more obstacles for the average joe, yet they spread far and wide for the asshole who will pump and dump them. And at this point its funny to watch, its like a train accident in slow motion. We men can recognize just by what you tell us about the current man you are seeing what will happen. And you commit the same mistake over and …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 04:33 AM
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Women use makeup to compete with other women, no one is more critical of women appearance than women themselves. If women colectively stoped using makeup of all kinds, men would still want to fuck. So yes, if there is the posibility of making that trade, I dont pay for dates and you dont cover your face with some random bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:55 AM
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I live in a latin american country, most women here have traditional views on dating. The only women who make an active effort, or even the ones that take the first step themselves are either leftist or to promiscuous to be LTR material.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:51 PM
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Only if she clarified from day one that she wanted something casual or a FWB situation. The "exclusivity talk" its just one more symptom of how morally degraded our culture has become. Years ago you didnt have to tell the person you were getting to know that they are not allowed to sleep arround anymore, it was asumed that you werent dating multiple people. And could you really trust someone who was sleeping arround while dating you to stop just because you asked??? think it this way, you have t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 07:52 AM
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There is a disporportionate level of effort and and investment (not only economical) put by men on the early stages of dating, do you really think a man would be confortable investing in some woman for her to get fucked by someone else??? Lets be honest, at most you might win the "dick her down" contest, but thats not a solid foundation for a relationship. The moment a problem arises or she gets bored, she will look for a new flavor of dick without thinking twice. Also, the kind of woman that do…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 07:45 AM
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I like the idea of a woman, the reality on the other hand...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 09:20 AM
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If you ask whats natural, you have to remember one thing, nature doesnt give anyone oportunities, you adapt or die, easy as that. You are using a lot of examples that are outside of nature, like police protection, or the posibility to go to school, when your arguments should go arround cavemen level society. Remember than humans (and its evolutionary ancestors) spent thousands of years living with the bare minimum, we have had written history for the last five thousands years alone, on evolution…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:24 AM
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On the long run it will get cheaper even with the high class ones, just have sex with one as frecuently as your married friends get laid. In ten years they might get it once per mont with some luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 01:34 PM
2

I might tolerate marihuana, but hard drugs are a dealbreaker for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 06:59 PM
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the AI will never hold antifeminist views, or toxic masculinity AI has prooven to be traditionalist and racist, so, I doubt that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 09:23 PM
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Bro code.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 11:46 AM
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It seems that way because when you talk down some woman's promoscuity, even "normal" women defend her, therefore, they are hoe currently ona hiatus.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 04:33 PM
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Easy, I dont date whores. Id rather remain alone than have any kind of relationship with a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:50 AM
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Every woman can become a whore, not every man can become a whoremonger. Thats why.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:21 AM
2

Im guesing you speak spanish, the translation is putanero.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:20 AM
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Yes, one of my cousins allways dated for money. She ended marrying a high ranking executive in a multinational compañy. Almost all my female friends have confirmed the red pill in one way or the other. I look at young women a lot more jaded thanks to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 01:18 AM
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I consider myself a non traditional man to some extent: I wont finance any of my future partner´s living standards or expectations, if she considers herself an adult, she should pay for her own shit. I wont go out of my way to help a woman who is a stranger, unless she is an elderly woman, we all should have respect for the elders. Same with preagnat women unless she is a family member. I wont definitely not put my safety at risk to protect a female stranger, even if she is about to get mugged, …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 01:51 AM
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Still she abandoned him the moment he needed her the most
/r/AntiFeminists24/12/23 10:26 PM
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Gender studies are based on psychology and sociology for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 07:22 PM
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Men take into account those things to give you the time of the day regarding dating. A woman´s personality and values is what makes her LTR material or just a ONS/FWB at most.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 06:48 PM
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Well modern psychology also says than if a man believes he is a woman, he actually is one. I would question a lot more whatever science has to say regarding any social science.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 06:46 PM
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Yet looks is the first thing that makes you pay attention at someone, so a good looking man will be given more chances to display such characteristics. Looks are the first filter, not the only one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 06:12 PM
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TBH, if your mother believes a 22yo hooker intead of her own son regarding rape, he is way better without her.
/r/AntiFeminists24/12/23 06:10 PM
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Regarding emphaty, the fact that we are less empatic is what allows us to disregard the well being of people that puts those we care about in danger. Or do you think we should have empathy for third parties while protecting someone dear to us?. Our lack of empathy is functional for survival. Men are more narcissistic... sure... Please remind me which gender´s social media is full of selfies on a disproportionate level? Men care about looks the way women care about our income. I´ve never seen a h…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 06:06 PM
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you cant delegate that with a partner if you want to keep them arround. well yeah, no one wants to be treated as a subordinate. would you stay with a woman who ordered you around? You misunderstood, what I meant is that you cant delegate handling your partners emotional need to someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:47 AM
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A house is a necesity, a woman is not. And if you wanted, you can pay people to deal with your house issues and cleaning, you cant delegate that with a partner if you want to keep them arround.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:59 PM
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Well, If he wore a similar outfit and had similar amount of cash, yes, status symbols take you far with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:58 PM
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Because relationship need upkept and you have to go through the other person issues, with a "harem" the moment one of the women starts bringing issues or stress you replace her. And by having multiple women you will allways have at least one avaible to get your dick wet, with a commited partner, if she is not feeling it, you dont get to fuck. While you might not have a "deep emotional connection", the benefits surpass the costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:58 PM
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Your SO is a special case, how many persons earn what he earns? For the common man or woman a single income house is not a realistic posibility without a serious downgrade on lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:44 PM
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In fact I get a little “eeked” by the finance bros that act like they can buy your time and affection. He literally used to keep it from women bc he didn’t like feeling like that was why they were there (he described it as them immediately trying to get a commitment that they didn’t seem interested in before they found that out). This, doesnt contradict what I saide, it validates it. And I bet than if you reach a certain tier of wealth, women will fuck with a lot of enthusiasm because they know …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:15 PM
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Men dont want women that only desire them for their money, yet we understand it is something that paves the way with women and gives us access to a certain caliber of looks in them way more easily. And I bet than if you reach a certain tier of wealth, women will fuck with a lot of enthusiasm because they know they might not ever find another man like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:31 PM
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He fucked Caley Cucko the first seassons
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:19 PM
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One case doesnt make the whole group, I dont think I need to explain how generalizations work. Your case is not representative of the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:42 AM
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One case doesnt make the whole group, and I never said it was imposible, I said it was harder. In my experience, and taking into account most of my female friends, women gravitate towards looks and money, being the second even more important as it might be the critical factor that makes them stay with a certain man. Good conversations might make men interesting, but looks and money are way more helpfull to get laid quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:42 AM
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This is bullshit. First of all, if a woman doesnt find you physically atractive, she wont give you the chance to talk. If she finds you physically atractive, you allready have half dick in, you only have to tell her what she wants to hear, the way she wants to hear it, not something interesting. If you are unatractive it doesnt matter if you are the reincarnation of Da Vinci, Nietzsche, or whoever, getting laid will be harder for you. A lot of women might find you interesting, but not fuckable. …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:41 AM
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Every romantic movie ever made
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 02:03 AM
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they wont get special treatment unless I get some form of autority over themyeah thats a red flag Everything is a red flag today. Expecting special treatment without giving anything in return is entitlement. The way men live is not tolerable for women. What men are missing is that women don't want "special treatment" We want men to treat themselves and others the way that women treat themselves and others. If you want someone to treat you differently from the rest, its special treatment. And why…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 08:09 PM
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Its not about hittig them, its about excerting concecuences for certain actions besides dumping them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:59 PM
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More like, they wont get special treatment unless I get some form of autority over them, its a give and take scenario. If a woman wants equality, she can get it from me, I wont try to excert autority over her, but she wont get any kind of special treatment just for being a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:54 PM
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Because an adult has autority over children and ways to enforce it (yes, even physical ones). With women you dont have that. The commont take is that men should be the main providers, and in exchange, women should do the things you listed. In reality, with the current economy, we know thats not posible without a serious downgrade on lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 07:58 AM
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I would tell her to become a nun. She is too old to have those expectations, I would understand those from a fit barely 20s woman who would exploit her beauty and youth to maximize results. But for someone nearing 40yo, who would have a harder time getting preagnant and not wanting to work too much, nahhh, she asks to much for what she has to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 08:05 AM
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Only one of them believes it is a real woman
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 07:16 AM
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Since you are talking from a christian spiritual level, Im going to answer you likewise. If God trully existed and saw how women act today, he would have smiten them long ago. He punished Eve casting her away from paradise and condemning her to give birth in pain dissobeying one simpe order, "dont eat a fucking Apple". Imagine what he would do with modern women, all the promiscuous, self absorbed, abortionist women who "dont need no man" would be in for a shitstorm. But since there is no magic b…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 02:08 AM
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Their standards are bare minimum, but only for hot guys. Women say all the time that men think with their dick, and they are not different, the moment a hot guy appears they all think with their pussies. There is one specific anecdotae that comes into my mind. a coworker/friend of mine cheated on her BF with one of her friend´s brother. The guy is a few years older and is ripped. One day I see her very distressed because the guy mistreated her and insulted her from head to toe, do you know what …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 04:51 AM
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Her face is mostly plastic surgeries, she started with those in her 20s. Compare her in Transformers 1 or Two and a half men (she was younger there) Vs Megan today. She might have a nice (but not as nice as before) body, but her face is another story.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 07:00 AM
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I'm 30 and i still feel like im 20 at heart. You might be 20 at heart, but not at your body. When women (and men) age they become less preety, deal with it. On average a 20yo will always be preetier than a 30yo, and a 30yo will look much better on average than a 40yo. Even if you take good care of yourself, your tits will start to sag, no matter what you do. Your skin will lose colagen, giving it more expression marks like crow´s feet, and it also will gain a lot of spots (specially if you sunba…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 04:01 AM
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The economy would take a great hit, think on all the money men expend trying to court and sleep with women. Fashion industry, restaurants, some forms of entertainament industries (except videogames) would be most affected. Also women would lose pussy and preety privileges, life would get a lot harder for some of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 01:00 PM
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Yes, I would be fine, but I would tell her that she is the one that should go and ask for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:37 AM
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Tattoos and non reconstructive plastic surgery make me lose atraction, they are not a hard criteria but definitely wont make said woman my first choice. Leftist and rad feminists views are definitely a discarding criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:38 AM
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I think men value more the ability to have casual sex whenever they want over casual sex itself. Going to a bar/reunion/group activity/etc with the certainty that you are capable of bringing someone home to have sex if you wanted is one of the best ways to validate your masculinity. Dont forget than being a hoe as a woman is way easier than being one as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:50 AM
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But hey... women are not a hivemind... hahahaha. They are overgrown todlers, they never take any acountability for the relationships they form or the men they choose to sleep with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:54 AM
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We are talking about who can cum more consistently and who is easier to please in bed, the victim card is out of place.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:02 AM
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And I could argue that men lose an erection because they find the woman in bed with them sexually boring. Lets be honest, you got the easy job, not only you have an organ which doesnt depend on wether you are more active or laid back to satisfy your partner, you also have a partner that has been playing with his since he hit puberty, its easy to please someone when that someone knows really well how to have an orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:38 AM
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Yet women can get dry...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:57 AM
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Thats a shitty excuse to not to take responsability of your own pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:21 AM
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Different political inclinations are just a reflection of different values. Different values are a great reason not to date someone long term. I wouldnt have a LTR with a leftist even if she was the last woman on earth, Id rather wank myself to death.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 03:42 PM
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1) yes, but remember that it doesnt mean equality of outcome 2) considering how the majority of women vote left, I have my reservations. 3) their entrance to the workforce is one of the main factors that allowed the declive in salaries values, because they basically doubled the supply of candidates for job positions. At this point its not something we can revert back, the damage is done. 4) only when they are a danger to others. On the other hand, I think some women are asking to be slapped when…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:49 AM
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Remember fellas, there is no cheaper woman than the most expensive whore
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:50 AM
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For women its a half truth, for men is full on 100% fiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 09:13 AM
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I understand your logic, but dude... cmon...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:09 AM
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The problem with modern "traditional" women is that they expect men to foot all the bills and still do half the chores and child rearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 07:23 AM
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I always thought that excuse was preety stupid, after all she is caring for her own children...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 05:54 AM
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If that entitles free access for the man (and all he wants to do) to her body, then it would be a fair deal. But we know she would want free access to the credit card but she would have a big list of "Not to do" on the bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 05:31 AM
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I mean, it's advantageous for women to lie about things like this so more power to them. If I were a woman, I would probably act the same way so can't really blame them. Yet women complain quite a lot when a guy fakes feeling just to sleep with them. Under your logic, more power for men like these.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:50 PM
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Between this and the current dating pool, men truly have no incentive besides sex to date. Remove sex and what incentives do you have to invest a lot of time and effort to keep a modern whamentm with the attention spam of a toddler?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 10:26 PM
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There in not such a thing as involuntarily fertile childless woman. With the amount of male attention they get, I doubt it would be hard for them to find someone that would cum inside them. Maybe they should have more realistic standards. we all know at least one preety woman in her 30s that wants to be a mother but doesnt find anyone thats "up to her standards".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:52 PM
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So, showers, manscaping (well, the female equivalent) and gym 3x times per week?? What do you think???
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:14 AM
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Most times its more than them. If they lost their V card when they were teens (hence no jobs) the most likely scenario is that he came from a wealthier (or slightly wealthier) family than her. This is what I have seen in my female friends and aquaintances, pussy is a credit card reader at any age.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:00 PM
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If someone wants to cheat, she will find a way to justufy her actions
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 08:47 PM
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Good one jajajajajajajaja Like a piece of paper ever stopped women from cheating...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:48 PM
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So, regarding point no2, women basically take the relationship as a hostage and demand a higher degree of commitment (and higher penalty for breaking that commitment) in order to just keep them arround. And they you wonder why there are women in 10+ relationships without marriage...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:41 PM
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Not really, when I say she should not be boring during sex I dont mean she must give me a BJ just the way I like it. What I mean is that she should be someone willing to try stuff (respecting both our boundaries) and engage actively in it (initiating and being an active participant, not a dead starfish). Regarding hobbies, I like reading, videogames and Im dwelling in carpentry, I dont need her to share those with me (if she does fine, but its not a requirement), the same way she might have hobb…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 01:09 AM
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Then she is free to leave
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 09:08 PM
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As long as she is not boring regarding sex, then no, we all have the right to like different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 07:44 PM
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I have quite a lot of friends, Im talking about romantic companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:33 AM
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As someone with low libido, this wouldnt solve anything, you might not want to stick your dick on anything with a pulse, but the lonelines and need for affection wont dissapear. You would basically need a pill that erases all emotions, but that would bring a lot of new problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 07:00 PM
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TBH, men dont spend half their lives in an onanistic relationship with their cellphone cameras like women do, so, of course we wont be taking pictures up to their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 04:46 PM
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Yes, then you go from anger to resignation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 02:18 AM
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In a way, being able to get laid with ease is a status symbol for men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 09:15 PM
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Yet still one mistake or one missed (ambiguos) clue can ruin your chances with said woman
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 09:01 PM
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So, would I date a fit (but not shredded), proffesional, educated, scy fi/ noir book lover, non alcoholic/drug user, no emotional demanding, who likes to cook for others, low body count, no ex drama, and has a snarky racist/clasist dark humour 34yo woman??? Where do I fucking sign
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:06 AM
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The only thing that matters is the success rate, and who cares if its legal, you would be dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:22 PM
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There is some past behaviour that you can never compensate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 06:59 PM
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Still missing the point. There are women not worth waiting for because the dont have anything of value to offer beyond sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 02:48 AM
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While I agree with you, you completely missed the point. There is a great proportion of women who are not relationship material at all, men detect that and they dont pursue things further beyond sex (which comes quite early with that kind of women). Also, no matter what they try, that kind of woman cant sudenly turn into relationship material, and any inteligent man knows that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 02:36 AM
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The reason most men don't have a partner today is because most women have chosen to be childless. Wrong, most men dont have a partner because women´s hypergamy went out of control.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 02:29 AM
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If men didn't rabidly spew hatred about sluts and how they don't respect women who are "easy" then women wouldn't need to do this. Both men and women dislike sluts, men are just more vocal about it. Ask any mother if they would be proud if her daughter was the town bicylce. But men do the pump & dump thing. Most women don't want to experience that, especially if they see you as having relationship potential. And if said woman had any relationship potential in men´s eyes, she wouldnt get dumped a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 01:38 AM
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Let me put it this way: Her looks is why you first go after her, her personality is why you stay (or leave).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 03:38 AM
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There are some chubby chasers (a minority), but most men preffer women with a healthy BMI. Most times I see a man with a fat woman, I think he is setling because he cant get something better.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:52 PM
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I agree. Im childfree myself, I wouldnt even date someone who wants kids, even less someone who allready has them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:36 AM
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The percentage of women, including single mothers goes up to 5,64%, still, one in twenty. Now tell me, what can a single mother provide that a childless woman cant without all the extra hassle? TBH, the extra 3,52% is not worth the cost.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:30 AM
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The delusion calculator doesnt have that parameter on the male version
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:11 AM
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Really? I put: between 28 and 34 yo, not married (duhh), no children, no overweight, between 5´and 5´7", any race and earning at least 30K (wich is less than the average income) Only 2,12% of women meet those criteria Im 34yo (had to put between 32 and 37), single, 5´11", not obese, white, and above average income (had to play with the numbers since Im from another country) Only 0,88% of men met those criteria. There is 2,4 women who meet my criteria, for every me thats out there, who is really …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:44 AM
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Should man expect/demand for sex for being a "gentleman"? There, I rephrased your question, and in a way, we allready do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:46 PM
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I agree, but if you have to make the effort to court someone each time you want sex, would you preffer a different woman or allways the same one? IMO it gets tiring courting new woman, but so does courting the same one always, you have to make the same effort but there is barely any novelty in what you will get after some time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:18 AM
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No need to jump through hoops courting them, getting to know them, etc, just wake up next to them every day. Im not relationship expert, but if you think that once she becomes your GF you dont have to court her anymore you are really wrong. Also, even if it is fake interest, you still have to keep paying attention and getting to know things about her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:56 AM
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1)So why are women so good at getting men off? And even if it's harder to learn, why aren't they making the effort to learn it? Because men have been jacking off almost daily (and more than once every day on some cases) their whole teen years, they know preety well how to reach an orgasm quickly (as to not get caught) from an early age. Add to that that some women are really bad at comunicating their needs in the bedroom and some of them even expect that the man should magicaly know how to pleas…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 06:05 PM
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Im on my cellphone now, so I wont be quoting: 1) tbh it must be way easier to give someone an orgasm when you have the same set of genitals. Its like being born with the user manual. 2) With the amount and variety of contraceptive methods women have at their disposal, I find your reasoning lackluster at best. 3) I agree, but I stand by my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 11:04 AM
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Women believe they are born knowing how to fuck like a godess, and that only men can be bad at sex. Preety easy to believe when some of them barely participate and men still finish easily. Some men are are just happy to be there and get a crumb of pussy, I dont know many women who are just happy to get a crumb of dick... In the end, their egos take a really heavy hit if someone even insinuates they dont know how to please a man, so they blame him or make dumb excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:44 AM
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Isnt a cougar someone 40+yo?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:37 PM
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There are many species that practice sex for pleasure, dolphins are one of them, and monkeys wank a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:36 AM
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Because it takes charm, confidence and a good physique (among many other things) to be a promiscuous man. To be a promiscuous woman, you only have to spread far and wide.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:11 PM
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They swap one asshole for a different asshole, they dont learn from their mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:09 PM
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They feel bad when they are treated as second class citizens, yet they keep choosing to date asshole after asshole, so... ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:46 PM
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As far as I have seen, men who treat women poorly get more from them (on an investment, tolerant and sexual level) than men who treat them well. I have both friends and patients as examples. I sometimes think than treating them well is a bad investment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:02 PM
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Unless she kept the fetus in a jar to do a DNA test (wich I highly doubt) and prove it was actually this man´s kid, this wouldnt hold in court, the defense attorney could argue that she has no way to prove that the child was actualy the defendant´s kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:52 AM
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So women should stop using makeup because it is basically a deception? dude... There is an old saying: "Men love what they see and women what they hear Thats why women wear makeup and men lie"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:46 AM
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To compensate for pressure, he gets the benefits of being in the relationship. Increased confidence, sexual satisfaction, self-respect, social status, purpose, all of the feel good brain chemistry and more. Dude, the only thing you listed that remains constant is the pressure, everything else varies in time and might even end up dissapearing. Why would any sane man submit himself to constant pleasure for variable "rewards"??? I rather have a pleasant care-free life without a woman than the scena…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:53 AM
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Because men are way more logical and pragmatic than women. Women fall a lot in emotional rationalization, wich is a cognitive bias, to keep it shortly its "the world is as I feel it".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:38 PM
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IMO no, if you want to fight, be prepared to get beaten. A general advice I give women when they come with this "I could take you out on a fight" is to never escalate a situation to a level you cant handle it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:15 AM
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Yep, perfectly fine, a lot less dealing with emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:52 PM
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Experience and rewards. I have a years long history of very low success rate when dating women, I have only been in a relationchip 13 years ago and it lasted for three months. Couple the low success rate with the quality of women that pays me attention now and honestly, the juice is not worth the squeeze.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:41 AM
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Yes, but I bet most rapist dont wait until the victim´s body is ready to be penetrated, nor will the be gentle when doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:48 PM
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Isnt an evaluation of the vagina (and other orifices) for traumatic injueries part of the test?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:28 PM
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Either a positive rape kit or video evidence of the assault itself. Everything else is refutable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:11 PM
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Your past will permeate in your behaviour, you wont be able to hide it for long.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:36 PM
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That might be true depending case by case, for some people the desert is just a stage, for others is their whole lives. Also, regarding the man with options, the one he chosed might be his favorite beverage today, but the moment the drink starts to get sour, he will be able to find a different one wayyyy easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:50 PM
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The thing is than after a point you see no return in improving yourself, I did the gym (still do), dressing better, etc and saw almost no return. The last time I had sex (two and a half years ago I think) was following some of Fresh&Fit advices (I found their channel during the pandemic and found it funny, but soon got tired by the format). Im 34 now and the quality of women that pays me attention now is not worth the effort. Whatever I do, I do it for myself, I train because I find it fullfilli…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 05:41 AM
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he wont leave me or cheat on me the second he gets another option Sorry to burst your bubble, but its way more probable that if you are going to be cheated its by a man with options. A man without them will hold the woman he has as tight as posible as he knows he wont be able to replace her nearly as easy. Remember than if you are thirsty, a glass of water is way more worthy in a desert than in a spring.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:22 AM
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I know, but there should be a way to filter those kind of profiles automatically.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 11:24 AM
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IMO, there should be an AI that rounds out a womans weight by the pictures (and angles) they take them from, Landwhales are skillfull in hiding their humongous body mass.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:35 AM
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more so that they're addicted to the mental patterns that facilitate their abuse and they lack the agency in many cases to become aware of those patterns and change. So, they are not accountable in any way? Sorry, but there is an old saying that says "fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me", just swap fool with mistreat. But since they are "addicted" to the emotional extremes of a disfunctional relationship, any guy who cant provide that shouldnt get her partner´s best sexual acts?…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:50 PM
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Sometimes whatever act that they did in the past with someone else was painful or traumatic, and avoiding the act is simply a matter of wanting to avoid physical/emotional pain, and has nothing to do with their feelings toward you or how you measure up to past partners. Yet still, you are paying for another man´s mistakes. The previous partner who mistreated her got rewarded with the sexual acts he wanted. On the other hand, you treat her right and get half of what the other guy got. Sometimes i…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:21 PM
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TBH, my investment in said relationship would decrease a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:34 PM
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This is one area that the redpill needs to provide more support for women to feel comfy doing Just like feminism has provided a comfy enviroment for me to aproach... Why would men want to tailor everything to suit women better???
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:09 AM
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I seek to date women. Honestly no, I wouldnt date either overweigth or obese. If I dont find you atractive I dont care how nice you are, call me superficial, but part of being in a couple/dating is wanting to see the other person naked, and I wouldnt want that with someone thats not a normal BMI or a bit below.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:33 AM
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In your 20´s you have to show potential. In your 30´s and beyond, you have to show results.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:31 AM
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There is an easier explanation, nobody wants ugly women at a fuck fest. so they dont get admited.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 05:59 PM
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They want a traditional man that treats them like they are the female protagonist from a romantic movie. Most wont admit it, but the average 30yo women grew with romantic and disney princess movies, they have those expectations deeply engrained
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 12:42 AM
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Because women are never truly alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 12:37 AM
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13 years single and counting. At this point Im too used to being alone, I admit than sometimes I would like a partner, but at this point she would be a nuisance in most cases. Im just too used to not satisfying anyone's needs or expectations and taking care of my own without anyone's help.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 12:35 AM
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Wellllllll, fellas, it’s because he’s Chad. He’s hot, he’s rich, he’s funny, he’s interesting, he can play the guitar. Why should you get what he does? I really want to know, seriously. I’m not a 19 year old Instagram model, and I don’t expect to be treated like one. We shouldnt, but a lot of women expect "im special treatment" when they are just another average plain jane. Add to that than a lot of women still act as teenagers, posting at least 2 or 3 selfies showcasing their body, either to ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 11:28 PM
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Instant red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 11:18 AM
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Sudenly no women does shit tests...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:54 PM
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There is no cheaper woman than the most expensive prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:09 AM
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This time, Im picking the vintage edition.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:33 AM
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Promiscuity has nothing to do with sex promiscuity noun /ˌprɒmɪsˈkjuːəti/ /ˌprɑːmɪsˈkjuːəti/[uncountable] (disapproving) ​behaviour that involves having many sexual partners sexual promiscuity ​ Some people...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:25 PM
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I agree, but lets be honest, in most cases, she wouldnt take it well. I agree its not a by hour calculation, but if one ends doing the most chores, while also contributing the most money, that person would be very resentfull of their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:25 PM
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Life is unfair, so what... In your example, if the man is more efficient, why should he be "punished" for his efficience by having to help with workload thats not his? Wouldnt he be resentfult for having to take the load of someone ineficient or incompetent? If the woman is not efficient or is incompetent at doing those chores, its not the man´s problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:17 PM
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If you want someone who contributes as much financially as you do, then choose to date women who make as much as you do. And then shit might happen and she might lose her job, make a career shift to a less earning one or directly decide to stop working. We men know that if we pull any of those three (the getting fired being not up on our feet after a short time), the relationship would be hanging by a thread, women think they can do whatever they want and their partner should be ok with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:09 PM
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And they do, when the woman cant work (or chooses not to) he is supporting an entire family out of his income alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:57 PM
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And yet I would swallow it and take my share of the burden without complying, but I wouldnt be asking for a maid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 09:53 AM
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Im someone pragmatic, IDGAF about effort, I care about results. If someone wants a lifestyle that cant afford by themself but can get it because its afordable thanks to my income, I expect something in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 09:44 AM
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There's no excuse for letting the person you love consistently put more work into your shared life than you do. The same could be said about incomes, why should one be putting more money than the other in a shared home??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 09:20 AM
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"Making more money" is not an excuse for men to not help out. If you make more money then at least hire a housekeeper. If a man made more money, and hires a housekeeper to handle domestic chores... What is the less earning partner contributing? Why would the man work harder only to see all that extra work go to a housekeepers salary? when would he enjoy all that extra effort rewards? Wouldnt the woman be benefiting from this instead of the man? Dont men get stressed too? how would generating mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 09:13 AM
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They would still live the same life because they are behavioraly acustomed to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:32 AM
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Taking my friends group as a sample, its 70/30 in favor of non cheaters.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 04:03 PM
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The issue with ugly ducklings is that its not our insecurities that keep her with us, its theirs that drove them to us. Id rather have an ugly duckling that wont leave because she feels im the best she can get than a bombshell that drops me the moment her waist gets an inch smaller. And BTW, in todays day and age, no women will do what you tell them., "restrict them", tell another joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 12:27 PM
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The well anecdotically documented issue with GF´s glow up is that they start feeling that they can do better than you now and they cheat and/or dump you. I would rather keep her at an average level than have her "glow up" and raise the expectations and demands bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 09:28 PM
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Thats not the point. You would have never seen as much women and girls barely dressed on the streets as today, and lets better not speak about gym clothes for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 03:05 PM
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Same with women, some go down the streets showing more skin than a belly dancer.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 02:52 PM
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The men who wanted sex before marriage were still having it. In those times it was very common for young men to be taken to a prostitute by their fathers. Consuming prostitutes was far more common and way less judged than it is today.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 02:45 PM
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Disregarding economy, which fucked us all equaly, men are far better than in the 50´s. We graduate far more than in those years. We care far more for our bodies and looks. We take far more care of our mental health than before. We can take care of a household by ourselves, something that most men couldnt before We respect women far more than then (just look how feminism is seen worldwide). We dont beat women down nearly as much as before. Back in the 50´s a man beating his wife wasnt such a big …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 02:41 PM
1

In my experience, after 30 there is a drop in quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 10:49 PM
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I think that would be the 7/10, option B would be plain ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 07:27 AM
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Im between option A and C, if I dont find someone atractive, I have no interest in having sex with er, no matter how good she is. Option A might be a living sexdoll, great to parade her arround, but boring to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 07:24 AM
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TBH, I would have sex with any of my close female friends if they wanted to, even the ones commited or married. The married one is well aware of this, she even told me than if she wasnt married, we would be having sex long ago. That woman is amazing, its a shame someone got her first.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:34 AM
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How does your comment contradict mine? I never said there werent hot 40s or 30s, what I said is than there are less hot women as you go up on age.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:35 AM
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And one of the most consumed porn categories by women is BDSM, and one of their most common fantasies is "r@pe"... That doesnt mean every woman that consumes that would act that way on the bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:41 AM
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Nobody said than there arent beautifull 30s and 40s women, what its usually said is that the proportion of atractive women decreases as age increases. Its more common to find a preety 21yo woman on the streets than a 30s, and a 40s that steals your gaze is even rarer.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:38 AM
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IMO, what we think depends on the age of the woman. A woman being a virgin at 18yo is something quite ordinary (not as common as years ago, but still normal). An early 20s virgin might be of a conservative upbring (maybe religious but not necesarily), or has low libido, its rarer, but still might happen. A 30+ virgin is a sign of alarm, I would avoid them, they either have too many expectations, no interest on sex at all or expect a legal commitment before having sex, and that is too much for me…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:18 AM
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I got to agree, I slept with one a few times, and that woman did things that I would have never expected without asking in a LTR, she swallowed on the first date and offered me anal on the second (Im still beating myself for not having lube then, but who could expect anal on a second date). But my God, she was a trainwreak, I didnt dodge a bullet, I dodged artillery fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:40 AM
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Ok then, I will rephrase the question for you. What other things has a early 20s woman, besides her body, that would make men (and men my age group) chase her?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 04:25 AM
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Except No4, I´m guilty of the other options. I would add that you dont have to be autistic to have bad socialization, you just have to be exposed to a bad enviroment in your younger years or being a social outcast to be screwed too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 04:21 AM
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For starters, I not only mentioned material stuff, Im an adult capable of pulling my weight in a household (as I live alone, I do all household chores) and I said Im someone reliable on an emotional level and monogamous. But following your logic, what has an early 20s woman to offer a mid 30s man besides her body?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 04:12 AM
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Economical stability, a home, someone she can share the burden of said home (Im not looking for a full time maid), someone who is reliable not only in the monetary aspect, Im a great listener (im a therapist) and faithfullness (Im a strict monogamist). Physically speaking Im quite fit and tall (78Kg at 1,80mts), broad shoulders but not chiseled abs, and good face symetry.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 03:38 AM
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Its not a matter of believing or not, its just happens that some of my patients fit that ideology quite well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 05:30 PM
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I preffer to be alone than with someone that is setling with me. The difference between an early 20s yo and a mid 30s yo woman is than the first one is on peak SMV, the second one not even close. Its not a case of me being still not good enough, its her overprizing herself, so, even if I qualify, why pay full price for an old dented car?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 09:44 PM
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Im a psychologist and I have seen this phenomenon in some of my female patients, but not even remotely as much on my male ones. I would change "alpha" for "the one" though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 09:26 PM
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Somehow men like you live in a culture in which woman never ask men out or get paid for everything We dont deny these women exist, the problem is the proportion and their target audience. Average Jane still expects average Joe or higher to aproach and pay, the only way average Jane would ask a man out is if he stand out of the rest by a FAR margin, and if she is the one paying its because she wants to give a good impresion, not because she is expected to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 09:08 PM
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Sure... and thats why there are twice as many single men under 30yo than single women under that same age...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 08:55 PM
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Henry Cavill seems to be the most desireable man today
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 04:34 AM
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Damn you missed hard that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 02:13 AM
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Shaving the ass is gays, not the balls. After all, its common courtesy, no one wants pubic hair in their mouth when giving oral.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 02:08 AM
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And men dont shave their balls just because they have spare time. Regarding boobjobs, women do it for a lot of reasons, one being they dont like their current size and want a more femenine (curvy) figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 01:57 AM
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If we care for your apearance, and you care for ours, then apearance is important regardless of sex, we both put effort, so its not something just women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 01:56 AM
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Im just going to quote myself at this point: Men get way more attention when they dress better, get a nice haircut, trim their beard and wear status symbols like an expensive watch or shoes. If we both care for the same things, its a zero sum game, therefore, its not a factor to take into account.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:52 PM
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Actually, its the same than when men try to outlift eachother at the gym, or when men play any sort of physical competitive sport. We know we wont atract women because we lift five pound more than the guy next to us or because we are the best football player in our group, but the recognition inside the group is what matters. The same happens to women, they just dont do it as overtly as us. But regarding physical beauty and the other sex, men get way more attention when they dress better, get a n…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:35 PM
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If we both care for the same thing, its a zero sum game, therefore, its not a factor to take into account.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:29 PM
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TBH thats a problem women created for themselves the moment they started wearing makeup even for grocery shoping instead than only for special occasions. Even when they have a nights out with their female friends only, they all wear makeup, even if they all have no intention to interact with men that night. They just dont want to be the ugly one in the group, hence, women wear makeup to compete with eachother.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:27 PM
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And women care about the same things, how many woman do you know that chase fat guys full of pimples and greasy hair???
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:12 PM
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You say women have to face lots of challenges, yet you only list them having to "ornate themselves" for men and periods. The first one we know is false, women "ornate themselves" for other women, as a form of intrasexual competition, men couldnt give less of a fuck if you have your nails done or whatever shit you did to your hair this month. The second one really depends on each particular woman, for some is just a nuance, and for a small group is really painful. Yet a lot of companies contempla…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 09:53 PM
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Modern medicine has minimized the risks of giving birth, and if you get an epidurial you can minimize pain a lot. And while periods are an inconvenience in the best case scenarios, lots of countries contemplate a work free day. Also, preagnant women and recent mother have special protections and maternity leaves far greater than mens. In my country if you fire a woman seven months prior or after giving birth, the employer has to pay double indemnization. IMO thats a LOT of pussy related privileg…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 03:56 AM
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Its a woman that makes you pay another man´s broken dishes. You have to put more emotional labour dealing with her past experiences. You will have to deal with a lot of insecurities, emotional outburst and will have to do a lot more of reasuring, and in some cases even if you do all that to perfection, there is still a chance she might leave you and return to her "abuser". Also, there might be things she has done for the previous partner that "traumatized her", that she is now unwilling to do wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 08:54 PM
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Come to Argentina you can bang a 20yo really preety escort for a third of that. Our economy is really fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:26 AM
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Men dont get women being pasive...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 05:43 AM
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There is only one thing you need to understand about women behaviour: "its only bad when men do it"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:15 PM
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They are off the table for me for a LTR, and even for something casual in most cases. There is absolutely nothing a single mother can provide than a child free woman cant, and most times without extra complications.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 08:00 AM
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Yes, it is the only aspect of my life that I have not been able to solve after years of trying, I lost hope in solving it, but something (biology) still drives me to try from time to time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 08:14 AM
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You shuold have asked her if, using the same logic, women who pursue a career instead of being SAHM arent failing their social duties too
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 10:22 AM
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Imagin if porn pages worked like IG but with users: "Here are other 20 people with similar tastes" It would rip Tinder a new one
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 06:33 PM
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Women are also able to carry more fat than men, especially in their boobs and butts, and still look good if the fat is minimal in the rest of their bodies such as their waist and limbs. I would add than a bit of fat in their tights also helps their femenine figure. IDK if you noticed, but a lot of women that cut fat and train lose a bit of curves.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 06:59 PM
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I feel immense sympathy for the women who endure this on a daily basis. Do you really think women endure this on a daily basis in todays world? This became one of the many statements women overinflate to have something to play the victim card.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 09:35 PM
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Bodycount is about the amount of partners you had, not how much you fuck with each of them. A LTR with a woman who has a lot of sex only with you is a great deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:23 AM
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To stop shit from hitting the fan. You dont learn to operate a power plant in a week, without power you cant pump water into the cities, you cant suply things places like hospitals or food cold storages.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:43 AM
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So, I have to chose between someone than will compare me against just one men and has shown she can commit to someone VS someone who will compare me against lot of men and and has shown she is unable to hold a relationship for a long time. Why is this even a question? are you the woman with a lot of flings?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:41 AM
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If all women die, society wouldnt change much, honestly they do a lot of dissposable jobs, and even in those than are necesary, like healthcare, with only half the population, there would be half the demand. I do agre than men without the need to achieve to stand out for women would certainly slow down society and consumerism. If all men die, women would be dead or full tribal cavemen within three months tops. Without men keeping society infrastructure running (electricity, water, gas, fuel, foo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:25 AM
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They are unable to learn quick enough
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:11 AM
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Im from a south american country, I started with the browser version of Badoo in 2013, and as you said, the algorithm worked at your favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:51 PM
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Did a lot of people use dating apps legitimately a decade ago? Dont know if a lot, but yes, and they were completely different. Back then IG only was three years old, there were barely any people fishing for followers, the people there was actually interested in meeting someone, you could also hold really interesting conversations and women were way more engaging (preety women). People selling some form of sex were almost non existent, there were one or two prostitutes but that was it (no conten…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:43 AM
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And 50 years ago, an eastern women could walk as freely as a western one, there are lots of pictures of arab women in the 70s dressed just like the ones in the west. Also, dont forget they have a completely different set of values than us, lots of arab women see their western counterparts in a very negative way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 11:44 AM
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If I have to explain it to you... Basically, these kind of idiots are doing more harm than good to men with their shitty rethorics and echo chambers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 11:03 AM
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Yes, what I never heard is movements like the ones in the west fighting there...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 11:02 AM
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Then why are feminist so vocal and active here in the west than there? I dont see a mass migration of feminist to eastern countries...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 11:01 AM
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I don’t think it is dying. These content creators are more popular then ever. I do think they will create an even larger crowd of bitter, lost men. Exactly, they are doing more harm than good to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:55 AM
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Exactly my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:53 AM
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who is a single mother running dietary "solve it all" meat based program. A meat-based diet can be relatively nutritionally complete if you eat organ meats and cook everything less The problem is than she is not a dietician nor has any kind of medical training, she is just another guru, at least her father is a guru with a degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:47 AM
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Quoting myself: I understood that there was nothing inherintly wrong with me regarding why I couldnt atract women when I was younger, it helped me and improved my self esteem. It helped me to find fullfilment in other things regardless of being single and by knowing than manhood is more than just sticking your dick into other people as much as you can. I train, try to dress well, have a career (two jobs actually, which makes dating hard to schedule), read a lot as well, so I got the self improve…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:45 AM
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Thats why I said its lost its way, but this new wave of RP spokemen has over monetarized it, they are profiting on mens suffering, they trully dont care about helping men because they would lose customers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:38 AM
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Telling someone they are worthless for half the planets population is basically telling them they are worthless...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:36 AM
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Feminism has become a feminist shitshow, when the third wave started, they went nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:35 AM
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Jet you see the most radical and polarized feminist on free western countries and Europe. I never saw one bare chested feminist protest in an arabic country, meanwhile on the west they even shit at churches doors, why dont they do that on a mosque? Easy to answer, feminist have gone this far because the west has let them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:32 AM
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Because both ideologies impart a polarized cosmovision. If you read my point again I said feminism lost its original purpouse (first and second wave) and became a doctrine that you cant openly critique without the posibility of some really negative consequences (like jeopardizing your job). feminism ieven is working against women when they affirm than men than take pills and get surgeries can become women, just look what is happening at female sports.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:30 AM
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Jut think for a moment, why do you think millions of men choose to hear/subscribe to the beliefs of people like F&F or Andrew Tate ? Because these guys found a way to capitalize men´s frustrations and tergiversed traditional values into a women shaming shitshow.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:24 AM
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I watch Better Bachelor too, IMO he is the most down to earth guy from the whole manosphere, and what I found really interesting about him, is that he is not trying to sell you a magic recipe to solve all your problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:21 AM
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She was involved in some sort of scheme with her dieting coaching, basically scamming people. Jordan did a really shitty job teaching her moral values, and I cant take seriously a man who tries to teach a moral and conduct code while failing to impart it to his own daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:19 AM
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IMO terminology like this is part of why TRP is becoming something completely different, and I know it started with the PUAs, but come on, back then it was dress well and train, not going to the point of getting surgeries just to get one more bitch per month.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:17 AM
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The problem is than TRP became a plataform for idiots selling "self improvement"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:11 AM
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I agree, I did all of those things too and didnt help much, its an exhausting numbers game.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 09:53 AM
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Most sexually active women (specially hoes) are into the party and nightlife scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 06:08 PM
2

Yes, I am too
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 08:05 PM
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The only good advice my father gave me regarding women was "its better they think you are son of a bitch than a boludo (a form of idiot in spanish"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 06:00 PM
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I say you would need to add a few more characteristics to this woman to make her interesting, the way she is described now, she sounds more like a good friend than someone interesting for a relationship. For example, non argumentative, curious in bed, nurturig, funny, shares some interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 05:59 PM
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To have all those females characteristics, women dont need to be the brightest bulb. On the other hand, a dumb man wont be like the one you described.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 06:27 AM
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I never said he should act, I talked about female behaviour towards taken men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 11:46 AM
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They dont fuck anything that isnt traditionally masculine in some way, yet they expect us to "deconstruct our masculinity" (obviously to their convenience). Women are a shitstorm of incoherences.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 09:37 AM
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You are right, but thanks to the advent of social media, a lot of man hating women are polluting the minds of young girls with a hate dogma, girls than have not had such experiences. Leave assaults on the side for a second and see how feminism talks about marriage, now look at the discourse a lot of young women (some who never had a relationship) repeat like parrots.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:47 AM
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You are correct, but the intention differs when a parent says it to when a feminist group says it, the first one cares about your safety, the second needs to push a narrative of men=bad. On the same topic, then women shouldnt be offended when men sexually objetify them, after all, we are just recognizing their sexual atractiveness, and lets be honest women are way better at objetifying women that we could ever be. Also its way better to be seen as a sexual object than one of the worst kind of cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:06 AM
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There should be an AA for Rimworld, that game is really addictive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 07:25 AM
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I blame the rapist, they should be held acountable, not all men. Please answer all the point in just one message, this is going to lead to a lot of subtreads otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 07:20 AM
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If it were equal for everybody, I would support it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 07:19 AM
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Regarding what I dont understand about women: How they can keep dating assholes and complaining about how they treat them. If you keep getting "pumped and dumped" but still go after the same kind of man, how can you not see the pattern? How they think they know best how to raise a child just because they are the ones getting preagnant, because "a mother knows whats best". How they complain about "weaponized incompetence" while most times they are the ones that undermine how their partner does th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 07:18 AM
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-How men find 18 year old's attractive when they're past the age of 20. Gives me a weird feeling and yes I do judge men based on this. Perkier breast, slimmer waist, softer skin, no expresion marks, and I could go on, but I guess you get the idea. -Why men place so much value on sex. I mean its literally just a few minutes of pleasure. It doesn't define a person. Because, unlike women, sex is something we dont have at our disposal all the time, we got to make an active effort to get laid, and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 07:06 AM
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"Im not looking for a relationship" (with you)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 03:54 AM
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Start looking into smaller companies and indie developers, I would recomend Dead Cells, Hand of Fate or Rimworld
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 03:17 AM
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Its not just one, but my most recent time killer is Rimworld.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 03:13 AM
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No, videogames have been my main form of entertainament and escapism since I was 6yo and got my SEGA Genesys, I wouldnt let them go. how do you reconcile not wanting to give up something to improve your chances but then also lament the frustration of not getting sex? Easy, you are asking me to leave the certain entertainament of videogames for the posibility of having sex (either casual or in a LTR), the discussion would be entirely different if I was exchanging one certainty for an other.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 03:08 AM
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Do you think women dont expect protection from us in todays world? Even in the safest countries, if a woman is getting harrased, robbed, etc, she wont go to other women for protection, she will look at the nearest man. It's also pretty loosely tied to leadership; does the President submit to his secret service agents? If he is in a dangerous situation and one agent shouts "duck down" at him, im beting he is not going to argue with him
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 11:17 AM
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Do you know than an IQ of 145 is the 99th percentile? Its highly unlikely that that kind of woman would be happy with an average intelect man. And regarding while should she submit, even if she can financially provide for herself, she will still expect protection from men, and in todays world men are starting to question themselves about that social demand. If we are going to put our security on the line for yours, you better make yourself worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:47 PM
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Maybe for promiscuous women, but for chaste women a promiscuous man is certainly not attractive. If you want to be a promiscuous man, you shouldn't complain that women with stricter morals about sex don't want you. Promiscuosness on a man gives him the confidence that he can get women easy, and confidence is something than women find atractive in men, so, she might not like that he fucked arround a lot before her, but she certainly will like the confidence with which she is aproached and courted…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:27 AM
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Understandable. But you wouldn't have a problem with just having sex with those women? Do you really think that women without a hoe phase are willing to enter a relationship with a man who is willing to sleep with hoes? Men are willing to have sex with hoe, they are not willing to keep them arround, thats a big difference between men and women, a promiscuous man is atractive because of preselection, a promiscuos woman not. Well that also holds for me. But do you think that those women the moment…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 10:00 AM
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I never said I would be willing to have a relationship with a former hoe, nor would she be the first option if I were (wich Im not). I would wait for sex with someone who showed me she is worth waiting for (not a hoe). The problem is that in todays world most cronically single women had a hoe phase. The late 20s/early 30s single women I know have too many issues, brings a lot of drama or have seen more dick than an urologist. And Im not willing to wait for sex nor get into a LTR with someone who…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 08:05 AM
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men ghosting after sex isn’t a problem women created. I disagree, if you create all the conditions for a forest fire to happen, and then it happens, then you are responsible. The moment women made sex a "cheap" (low investment) comodity, they made themselves easily replaceable. Before the pill, women who gave it preety quickly were socially shunned, now they are cheered by feminism. Sex used to require a lot of commitment before being on the table, sometimes even marriage. Now most women have ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 06:00 AM
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Not more than what she made her first wait
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 05:00 AM
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Nope thats the reality women created since the invention of the contraceptive pill, they were the ones who started to give sex without asking for commitment. Before the pill, the modern woman we have today would be compared to a harlot.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 04:23 AM
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Would you feel offended or put off by a woman having a 2-3 month no sex rule? Only if she reveals to me (or if it si quite noticeable) than she had a hoe phase. I wouldnt drop someone for wanting to wait for sex, as long as she shows active interest in being with me. Also, if Im made to wait, I expect the wait to be worth it, if I have to wait for 3 months to get missionary and a half ass BJ, Im out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 04:02 AM
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Because everything we might have learned from the previous generaton became obsolete, the dating landscape changed beyond recognition in the last ten years.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 10:15 AM
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If women had "female intuition" they wouldnt date one shitty guy after the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 06:28 AM
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The problem is that in most cases, big real tits come attached to fat women. Now, a slim woman with big tits is dazzling .
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 04:53 AM
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A great proportion of men preffer small natural breast over big plastic tits, a lot are disgusted by BBL, find botox faces unnatural, etc. Its women who set the bar so high for themselves, if you think about it, the fashion industry is basically run by women and gay men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 01:58 AM
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Women. Do you really think that men would stop pursuing women if they sudenly decided to stop getting surgeries/botox or using certain trendy makeup??? Its all intrasexual competition, you dont do it for us, you dont do it for yourself, you do it for other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 06:55 AM
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You can love someone but still love yourself more
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 04:38 AM
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Not in todays world and relationship dynamics. Why would I lose a much necesary part of my body for someone that can leave me on a whim without any concequence?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 04:33 AM
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Yes, but a good proportion of them would still be DTF if the chance appeared.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 06:45 PM
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Good luck im not looking to have kids. Sperm quality is affected by a lot of lifestyle choices, not just age. Regardless of that, men over 50 and beyond can still have kids, women cant say the same...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 12:44 AM
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In a way yes, but mostly no. We all age, but I train 3x per week, 79Kg below average body fat on 1,80mts height. I expect someone that shows a similar level of dedication to their body as I do. I dont pretend a Victoria Secret model. I date when I feel like to, and that is not often due to work (I got two) and academic demands. I only had one relationship but things didnt work (feelings faded on both sides) so, I kept my baggage (and body count) low. And regarding my expectations, after years of…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 12:24 AM
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Why is it sad to date a woman your own age? A combination of baggage, high expectations and depreciating looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:53 PM
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I´ve dated one recently, it improbale but not imposible. The thing is that with such age difference comes a lot of other differences that make a LTR unviable. One can try, but findig a woman as young as that compatible its like finding a needle in a haystack. The 35 years old was the most realistic part (sadly). IMO the perfect combination between beauty and brains its on the range of 26-30.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:07 PM
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34yo and I find women between 18-25 the most physically atractive. I reopened bumble yesterday and set the age range to 23-35, got to be realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 01:58 PM
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How is it not helpful?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:13 AM
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Show interest in other ways besides sex: be the one to start conversations sometimes, have little gestures, show physical affection (acain not sex). Basically, add something to his life, not just your dating expectations. Choose better men: I realy doubt that woman cant realize who is a fuckboy (considering than you flaunt yourselves of being the most perceptive sex). If you see that the man you are after has more women interested in him, you most likely are going to get pumped and dumped. Delay…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 06:57 PM
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IMO, months is too much, even men interested in a LTR will bounce. Sex is one of the best ways a woman has to prove than she doesnt see that man as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 06:09 PM
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"Looking for a guy that can make me laugh" is just another way to say "entertain me" The only way men expect "entertainment" from a woman is under the sheets, and of course you can express that overtly and expect success.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 05:15 AM
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I allready got banned once, did a new account 5 min later with another email without repercusions
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 05:58 AM
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You can always make a new acount.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 02:20 AM
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An important distinction in today's world
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 11:48 PM
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You forget than dating for men its a numbers game and womans attention is a flickering thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 05:40 PM
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Firstly, sex work is work Depending how you define what a job is. Also, in the scenario the OP is describing, men would not seek sex for pleasure, so prostitutes and pornography wouldnt have a demand to profit from. So... you don't just listen to female singers because you like their music? Bear in mind, a lot of female singers have more female fans than male fans, and female fans tend to buy more stuff in comparison to male fans. Most of them are probably not gonna have to get a different caree…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:00 PM
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Female influencers, a lot of actresess and singers, and of course pornstars would need to find a job. Women would have to show talent and aptitude for everything, Women would lose pussy and preety privilege, and being insufferable or an asshole would entail real consequences for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:15 PM
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It just happens than peak fertility coincides with peak beauty, some of us value peak beauty, I personaly dont want children. Aging is a combination of genetics and lifestyle, eat well, excercise and have an adequate sleep schedule and you wont age as fast as someone who dgaf about all that. Regarding women specifically, I bet years of using makeup do a number on your skin, unlike men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:05 AM
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Marriage benefits women, having children doesnt, but guess who is the most likely to get baby fever?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 02:50 AM
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Lower than agreable and not a land whale???? c´mon...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:21 PM
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I have no problem with a career woman, I have a problem with the expectations she brings. A female neurosurgeon wouldnt even consider dating a male cashier, you cant say the same if you reverse the roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:15 PM
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I would like a commited monogamous relationship with lots of sex and no children.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:09 AM
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Exactly, thats why you never take a former hoe
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:31 PM
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Indeed, she is not truly atracted to you, only to what she can get from the relationship, and it shows in her sexual enthusiasm with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 10:36 AM
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What makes you think I waste my time with hoes? I only did it once, and when I realized what she was, I made sure she knew I didnt want anything serious (the "with her" was silent). When she realized I wasnt going to change my mind, she ghosted. Im 34yo, by my age, all women who are worth a dime are allready taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 10:24 AM
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oh boy, how lucky am I? uhhh how much practice has she had doing this? How promiscuous is this woman? fuck I should get an STD panel I need to be very careful calling this woman back, I don't want to get too emotionally invested in case I'm 'the flavor of the week' I have been exactly through the same sequence of thoughts with a very promiscuous coworker. Thank God I realized she had seen more penises than a public toilet and never pursued something serious with her. Time proved me right, she ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 09:31 AM
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The problem is that you are just another dick in her list, women like that change men faster than their panties. If you want to have a relationship, getting involved with a woman like that is a bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 09:16 AM
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Saying something and doing something are completely different things. There is a big difference between making a racist remark and attacking someone from a diferent race, just to give an example. The average "chauvinist" is all bark and no bite, but an actual hoe did really suck all those dicks dry.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 09:14 AM
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Indeed. I have the upmost respect for men than quickly replace women that dont do what they desire in bed, and hoes (or former ones) dont deserve any respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 09:09 AM
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Once a hoe, always a hoe. The only worst thing than a hoe is a reformed hoe, the kind of woman who was a hoe with every previous partner except you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 07:36 PM
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Homosexuality was removed from the dsm by voting, even the guy who proposed removing it said they did everything wrong, they never made a serious research before making a desición. It was a political decision not a sciense based one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 11:39 AM
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"Alpha women" are narcisistic nagging bitches that call themselves that way because of how deluded they are. Put those same behaviours on men and tell me if you feel intimidated or disgusted...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 07:13 AM
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In this day an age men dont need to objetify women, they do it to themselves and far better than what we ever did.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:21 AM
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Well... prostitution isnt the oldest profession for nothing. IMO I have to agree, I first aproached all my current female friends because I found them physically appealing and wanted to have sex with them. The ones I kept as friends after I found they were in a relationship were the ones that I found interesting as persons too, but my main drive to have anything to do with them was sex, and if I had the chance to sleep with any of them, I would take it. I have to agree that if sex wasnt pleasura…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:18 AM
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Its not only about missing the sex part, but whats worst its not having experienced "young love", that phase when loving someone wasnt mediated by a list of demands and satisfying unrealistic expectations. When loving and being loved was just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 05:37 AM
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Wait until she gets older and reality hits her in the face really hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:10 AM
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The third one, and there seems to be a fourth now
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:54 PM
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Honestly, I couldnt agree more. Men need to stop with the protect and provide bullshit. Dont pay for womens expectations and demands. Dont use your hard earned money to finance her dreams and goals, let her strugle the same way you do. And most important, dont protect them anymore, from themselves or others. Dont put your health on the line to play the hero. If you see a woman getting assaulted, just call the police and dont intervene. Your life does not have less value for you to throw it away …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:33 AM
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An entire wave of feminism flew over your head...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:17 AM
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Rule 1 & 2
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 08:27 AM
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Who cares about those clowns. They are the equivalent of soap-opera drama for gullible young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 08:17 AM
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A few men fuck more than their share
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 06:17 AM
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I´m single (and I have been for a LONG time), but this is what I would like in a partner. I need physical affection (besides sex), spooning and sometimes being the little spoon, hugs, surprise kisses, a caress while walking by my side, you get the drill. Basically she showing affection instead of me having to go look for it (that was one of the reasons I broke up with my only exGF years ago) I dont want gifts, I allready own all I want or I can buy it, my tastes are cheap. I dont need to be dine…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 08:09 AM
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Everything, at once, right now. But without having to ask for it, if they have to, then they dont want it anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 05:47 AM
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Well done, you found the way to portrait women as victims on a post talking about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 03:11 AM
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So yeah, you envy what these guys have, but they’re not over joyed and on cloud 9 with the woman you’re in love with. They may get “sex” but to them it’s masturbating with a human….which gets very boring very quickly. Who cares if he is not in love? He is still getting way more from the woman that I fancy (we all been there) than what I ever would.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 03:09 AM
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I think it is more of a necesity, if men were as picky as women we wouldnt be arround eight billion people worldwide. I go "you motherf*cker" for a gorgeous girl, if it is below average I stat to question why he is with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 11:30 AM
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If a girl tells you she had an abusive ex, just don't bother dating her. Not worth the risk that she prefers it and is damaged emotionally from it. And this is the solid 8/10, hottest girl in my social circle. If she wanted a great man she could. But it won't be me I think that it takes two to make an abusive relationship, in one case both are abusive, on the other one abuses an the other endures (notice how I never stated genders in this afirmation). If a woman endures abuse, no matter the excu…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:27 AM
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She's a great girl, attractive, in her 20s, finished college, good job, lovely personality She might have those characteristics, but her actions make her trash. In the sexual market, women´s actions set their value, and going after a man that almost killed her, makes her not worth a dime.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:52 AM
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Your comunity is an exception to the rule, stop using it as an example and look at the broader picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:15 AM
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They talked a lot about some of their daughters dating and repeatedly lamented that there doesn’t seem to be very many good hardworking guys out there. The other father is a coach at the local university and said he’s noticed a lack of work ethic and drive with a lot of his recruits over the past 10 years or so. Think it this way, how are men rewarded for being a good hardworker in todays society??? In our parent generation a hard working man could land a woman that was (most likely) going to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:23 AM
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As long as she is not an economical burden, I dont care if she is a cashier or a neurosurgeon. The cashier might have more free time for dates and do fun stuff too, and she might have more down to earth expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 08:35 AM
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Do you go thrugh life with a pile of studies under your arm just in case you have a discussion with someone??? No matter how much studies you show to someone, if they are fixed on their views, they wont change them. Showing studies to win arguments is stupid, even more considering that peer review from most of the topic we discuss here is almost non existent, and most studies are biased in some form.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 06:31 PM
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And thats called being a consolation prize. You got to ask yourself what changed for her from the first instance to the second, most likely she was multidating and got dumped by the main guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 06:27 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 08:48 AM
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A woman can know her way in the beedroom without having a full cementery for a bodycount. Promiscuity is correlated with higher levels of dissatisfaction with your partner and cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 08:07 AM
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Its not about being the first choice, its about being the first choice while you are in a relationship with that person. I want a potential partner to feel lucky she is with me, not just settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 07:54 AM
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No, but I expect to be her first choice while she is with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 07:52 AM
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The thing is, than women dont start looking for a husband at 23, most of them fool arround until their early 30s and then sudenly remember that the clock is ticking. Men dont hate the strategy, what we hate is the consequences of that strategy, aka a lot of emotionally damaged, sexually worn down women who settle and make their current partner pay for the broken dishes of all the men that went between their legs, all while believeng they have the same worth thant their erly 20s version.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:34 AM
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The moment a man ejaculates, he stops being the owner of his own sperm, if a woman uses the content of a condom to inseminate herself, she gets no punishment from the law.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:28 PM
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Nobody forces women to be mothers, the state forces men to be fathers in case of preagnancy, and thats all you need to know to answer your predicament.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 12:48 AM
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The thing is than most porn users know than porn its just fantasy, even if we wanted a 18yo girl who´s dying to suck us dry and then take it dry in the ass, we know that we wont find someone like that. BUT, IMO most women who had a top tier man, think they are entitled to more of the same kind, they dont understand than unless they are way above average, that was a once in a lifetime chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 10:12 PM
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There are different grades of obesity depending on BMI, you dont need a scooter for the first degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 08:39 PM
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Do yourself on the female calculator, it will show how women that rejected you are trully deluded.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 08:38 PM
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I think it covers currently married, not divorced
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 08:35 PM
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Do yourself on the female calculator, you wouldnt believe the results
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 08:35 PM
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Im not from USA but I found this interesting Age: 22 to 29 Not married and no children Not black. In my country there are barely any blacks (in USA they are 13% of the population, so it is not a really exclusive filter) Between 4 11" and 5 5" (this is where I went a bit picky, the average female height in my country is 5 2", in USA 5"4, so, not a hard filter either) Not overweight. Income is irrelevant Only 7.17% of the women fit those criteria, thats really sad. Did it again putting my age and …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 08:10 PM
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A little correction, Mrs Perfect never rode the CC
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 07:24 AM
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Men like to be providers only for a woman who is worthy of their sacrifice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 03:19 AM
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I used to like dating them, now I feel it like a chore most times. I enjoy the company of women, only of certain women who Im close with, not women in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 03:18 AM
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From a statstic point of view you have to define your sample. For example, Im from south america, some cultural values might affect my answers, also, to make things easier to analize, using slide menues for the first part will be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:38 PM
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Women´s hornyness depends on the stage of their cicle, and since they dont all are at the same stage at the same time, men have to be horny all the time to be ready to impregnate different women, remember than men are poligamy oriented while women are hypergamy oriented in their reproductive strategy. As a man with a libido lower than average, you can be frustrated anyway, that wont disapear because you dont feel the need to stick it in everyone with a pulse.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:21 PM
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Before you answer, I would like to list common side effects from female hormonal birth control: Oily skin and acne mood swings pain at the injection site (for depo) weight gainpainful cramps and worsened periods (for IUD mainly but has been observed on the pill) irritability -depression suicide (rare) Nausea Headaches and dizziness Strokes (rare, more likely if you smoke) bone thinning (depo, extended use) blood pressure issues -bloating If I were a woman, considering this list, I would take it …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 02:16 PM
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I googled him and some of the first pics that popped were his wardrobe at the Venice Festival, and thats not the only efeminate ones he has, his jaw might be the only masculine thing he has. were you made to believe those standards are easy when they are, indeed not? And thats entirely womens fault to swallow those standards. Women started to shave their body hair a little over a hundred years ago, when a razor compañy wanted to expand their market, same with the beauty industry, the models got …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 02:07 PM
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Indeed, some women can rock a more masculine jaw (like the Xena picture for example) and some men can be femenine and still be found atractive by a lot of women (like timothée chalamet) But you missed the main point of the argument I made, we are evaluated by different standars and beauty has more relevance in women, but their standards are easier to achieve than the male ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 06:37 PM
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Think about it: a short girl with thick thighs and big baby eyes will be considered attractive, but her brother who will look similar will be considered "meh" or unattractive. She is average, he is invisible. The second woman might be wearing contacts, and I bet she is reaching her 30s if not allready there, asians are tricky in that sense. But IMO, a skinny woman is desirable by most men (and being skinny while being young is not hard at all), a skinny man is not desirable by most women. The th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 04:18 PM
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Its funny than the ideological movement that seeks EqualityTM only sees flaws in men. For feminism only men can be bad parents, only men can be abusers, only men can be r@pists, etc, while women are angels who can do no harm. I have dated with varying degrees of success (im taking some time off now), but I noticed a shift in womens expectations the moment IG setled on my country. Dating apps used to be good, now are shitholes of overinflated egos and disrespect.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:26 PM
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What about anything you’re doing is supposed to initiate pussy towards you? Thats exactly my point, it shouldnt and it doesnt initiate a pussy tsunami. But somehow women who see themselves as "strong independent" believe they deserve the world. A man has to walk the street to find a lot of "strong independent women" its not an achievement, its the bare minimum to be a functional adult but they want to be praised for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:20 PM
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I live by myself, have two jobs, a career, save arround 40% of my monthly income, hit the gym three times per week, 1,80mts tall and I dont have a pussy tsunami comming after me. Toxic masculinity is a feminist invention, its quite curious how they never talk about toxic femininity.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:57 AM
3

We dont plan dates for attention, we do it because we want to have sex with said woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:56 PM
1

Thats exactly how I feel when I meet with one of my female friends (all married or soon to be). Its SOOO much easier and enjoyable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:55 PM
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the guy who's doing the logistical planning and probably paying actual money kind of has a point since he isn't actually experiencing you doing anything overt for him. Huh? What a guy does for a date is for both of them but what a woman does is only for her? How'd you work that out? Because most men are just happy with grabbing a beer somewhere, thats all they need, even changing bars is unnecesary. Date planning is meant to entertain women, we are way more simple and easier to please.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 09:05 AM
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IMO, women in their 20s will always be more atractive, that doesnt mean there are not beautifull women in their 30s. The real issue with single women in their 30s is than most likely they are looking someone to start a family. Also, at their 30s they bring a lot more baggage and demands. Too much trouble for too little to win.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:12 AM
0

If your whole sex life went trough just your shaft, you would try to stick it in holes as different as posible.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 08:15 AM
2

Yes, but at least you kwon that things are beyond your reach, it brings a sense of peace knowing than your dating situation is for the most part not your fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 07:22 AM
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IMO, they are not willing to experiment, they are willing to get used in certain ways to keep a HVM, that they wouldnt allow average joe because he is not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 07:20 AM
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variety of different women > a single woman No shit Sherlock, the problem is than most men can barely meet and keep one woman. And I highly doubt you are sleeping with a variety of women without spending money in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 06:37 AM
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The problem is very simple, average women have overinflated expectations, some of them expect a Calvin Klein underwear model or better while average men know they wont get a Victoria´s Secret model. "Average" is used to put them in their place, because they aim way above their league. And yes, most men settle, IMO the only ones that dont are the ones that met their partner when they both were under 25yo.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 01:18 PM
7

I dont have patience for other people bullshit, I would ditch her the moment she becomes a quarter of what you listed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 02:15 PM
3

Men also dress, shave/trim (Im talking about beard and hair, not just pubes) and use cologne for dates. IMO if a woman needs a lot of time for that procedure (except the shaving), is she really preety or just smoke and mirrors?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 04:13 PM
0

Yes it does, sometimes is more noticeable, sometimes it is barely so.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:45 AM
0

Why would any man tell he paid ofr sex in the first place??
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 06:04 PM
1

Take two pictures of the same woman (one who allways kept the same lifestyle), when she was 20, and other when she was 25 and you will see changes, neither good nor bad, but still noticeable. For example, the teen like waist is long gone by 25yo, just google Megan Fox in "Transformers 1" and five years later in "this is 40", still a beautifull women, but not with the same waist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:30 AM
1

Why the difference? it either should be 4 or 6 weeks for both
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 09:47 PM
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Having children is life altering, yes. Is it something that should be praised? No. Just look at the lower class, they pop babies like there is no tomorrow, dont give a fuck about their well being and they are not asking to be praised. Im from Argentina, a poor family here has arround 7 kids and they start having children very young, there is a lot of teen moms here. Middle class and higher have arround 2 kids and they start in their late twenties/early thirties. Guess wich one complains about th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:03 PM
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Sure, because baby trapping is just a mith... Also, men have no power regarding abortion, if the women decides not to have one, she cant be forced, and then the man is legally forced to be a father.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 02:01 PM
3

Well, do you get a roof over your head, food, clean clothes, medical attention? That is your payment for raising your own children. Demand payment if you do it for another family, not your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:55 PM
2

The thing is, you chose to have children knowing all of this... Choices and consequences...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:53 PM
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We have to put up with you. "Jokes" aside, how do women compensate all the courting/dating stage? Men are the ones who put most of the effort, finances, deal with your (most of the times) unreal expectations, etc. I recently went on a date with a woman who is doing a specialization on hemato-oncology (blood cancer, IDK if I wrote it correctly), when we discussed what we were looking on a relationship she said that she wanted a man that supported her leaving her job for at least two years to rais…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:50 PM
1

Broke? If you're a woman, no one cares. If you're a man, you're fucked. The sane not desperate man doesnt want a parasyte Have mental illnesses, struggle with anxiety, or you're an introvert? If you're a woman, no one cares. If you're a man, you're fucked. When she wont reciprocate sexual advances, wich lead to you not having sex, her anxiety will definitelly matter and get her left over
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 07:18 PM
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Its not the algorytm fault, women have become overly pretentious, pickier and lower quality than years ago. Im better in every aspect of my life than six years ago, and now I cant get a decent match even if my life depended on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 06:21 AM
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In my country (Argentina) you can have a cozy but not luxurious life (if you are single and without kids) with a monthly income of u$s400, so: 1000000 ÷ 400 ÷ 12months = 208 years Im 33, I will most likelly live arround fifty years more, so that leaves arround u$s1600 monthly. Sounds like quite a good deal for something I allways strugled to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 06:12 AM
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For starters, the fact than women´s orgasm is not necesary for reproduction should tell us all something (the vaginal muscular contractions during an orgasm help semen reach the ovarie but still). Regardless of that, women are bad comunicating their desires in bed, some of them dont even know themselves well enough to know what they like in bed. And since a great proportion of them go through life in a passive way, they expect men to provide orgasms. BUT, even if they use it as an insult, the si…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:44 PM
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I agree with you, the preetier, the less chance of being virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 06:44 PM
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How old are both women? A 21yo virgin is not worrysome, a 21yo with a past is. A 35yo with a past is expectable, but a 35yo virgin is concerning.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:07 AM
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There are lots of women that don't exactly know what are their needs in bed. Female sexuality is just not as straightforward as male sexuality. Well its up to them to solve that, maybe that way they wouldnt see sex as a chore.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 03:32 PM
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Use those shit test to shit test her? IMO, some shit test are reasonable, like denying a "boyfriend candidate" sex one night to see how he reacts, some others are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:29 AM
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The pay gap may be nonsense, but the orgasm gap is certainly real. And only the fact that there are female prostitutes for men than male prostitutes for women shows that sex, especially outside of relationships, is on average more enjoyable for men than for women. A matter of supply and demand. Nope, it only shows than women control the sex suply, up to the point they can put a pricetag on it. Also, its far easier for a woman to find someone willing to have sex with her than the other way arroun…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 04:42 AM
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You’re interacting her because you want to put your sex organ INTO her body. Well, all kinds of act have been commited (from the most admirable to the most vile) because it is pleasurable to put our sex organs into yours. Also, if it wasnt pleasurable, men wouldnt tolerate one tenth of the drama women bring. But lets be honest, women generally speaking raise their guard for a certain kind of men, and lower it to the basement for others. They play stupid games with decent men, and win stupid priz…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 04:16 AM
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You are correct on some things but: Some will argue that it is women's fault, that women should properly vet men. However, there are no male characteristics that can be looked at to guarantee that a traditional man is going to be reliable. Traditional roles were destroyed by women, but, if you want to see if a man is traditionally reliable, dont look at his wallet or his "status", look at his behaviour. If he sees something on the street that seems dangerous and inmediatelly is on guard to prote…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 02:30 AM
1

No, but I think than depending your life experiences and circumstances, you are less capable of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 12:46 AM
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I doubt any of those women is capable of genuine love for a man, the first one has her children as a priority (as they should be), and the second has been passed arround so much that by the time she meets you, you are just another notch in her belt. The only true choice is setling for one of them, or remain single.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 06:53 PM
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You are making us choose between shooting ourselves on the right foot, or shooting ourselves on the left foot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:59 PM
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Option B She shows she can hold a LTR without cheating (something than women A wont be able to). Also, dont forget that even if her ex was Henry Cavill with an 1kg chocolate cock that ejaculates money, she will still find something bad about him given enough time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 12:20 AM
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Men dont generalize regarding their female friends, men generalize regarding their dating experience. Female friends are women who dont see you as a potential dating option, or if they do, they allready have a MUCH better candidate, you know putting effort is futile and most likely will result in losing a friend. So, if they dont see you as a sexual option, they basically become a dude with tits, they dont count towars generalizations regarding dating because you dont date any of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 08:03 PM
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Or she didn’t know you fucking existed, or you were a loser 10 years ago. Its not about him and her specifically, its about women like her not picking guys like him when they were younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 05:47 AM
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Im a psychologist, so I excersice dependability, empathy and niceness really well. No woman ever wanted to rip my clothes off for any of those traits... If I ever get in a relationship I want to be the guy she cant hold herself from fucking his brains out, not the guy who she knows will step up and be responsable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 05:45 AM
1

So, you think a 21 yo doesnt sunbath or wear makeup?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 10:00 PM
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Ww both age at the same rate. The problem is that women sunbath and wear makeup way more than men, that has long term efects on the skin. Some women than sunbath or go to tanning saloons look like dried leather when they age. Regarding makeup, when they wear it they look a bit younger, they can disguise some things, when they remove it they look older because you are not used to seeing them without it. Men, for the most part, dont sunbath as much and definitelly dont wear makeup, we always look …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 09:18 PM
3

Let me explain this in one simple sentence: If a woman is romantically atracted to you, the bar is in hell, If not, it is sky high.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 08:28 AM
1

Ohh, I did not see the tag
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 08:18 AM
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Why the automod?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 02:02 AM
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Now she is facing the concecuences of her own choices and she complains. Shocking... I bet she had a long line of suitors, but none was "good enough" for her.
/r/AntiFeminists21/01/23 08:35 AM
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Because they know it is the only true reason men seek them for a relationship/fling
/r/AntiFeminists20/01/23 03:09 AM
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My comment was not based on reddit. Most 60+ married men I know speak ill about marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 06:05 PM
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Settle and complain. How many average men speak well of marriage??? ever asked yourself why???
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 09:47 AM
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Marriage would do a lot of good to her
/r/AntiFeminists18/01/23 04:00 AM
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From the moment she presents herself barely dressed, she becomes another hole with a last name.
/r/AntiFeminists16/01/23 02:21 AM
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They get it with their wallet. Those influencers are trying to sell something, and the harem wetdream is one hell of a selling pitch. If I remember one of the clowns from fresh and fit paid for suggar babies while treating men who give money to hoes as simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:18 AM
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The average woman then. Look Borderline Personality Dissorder, and you will find the basic hoe.
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/23 08:13 AM
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/r/AntiFeminists14/01/23 03:26 PM
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Im allready option 1, and while I would love some kind of relationship, I wont give it all up for a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 04:26 AM
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hmmm how are you defining quality man vs woman and who gets to decide? If you're only attracting low quality women, doesn't that imply you're of "low" quality as well? Not necesarily, womens expectations and demands increased across the board, and the older they get, more they expect. When I was 20, men who had a car were ahead of most men dating wise. At 30´s in my country, if you own a house you are a better candidate than those who rent. Obviously, the car went from an extra to a base require…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:24 PM
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What makes you think I go after IG fit chicks? I used them as an example to picture the current "pinacle" of female atractiveness, I dont have the patience required to deal with some high manteinance self centered woman who lives only for her cellphone and her displayed image on social media. Also, as I said before, Im almost 34yo (wich is not old for a man) and improved in every aspect of my life (physically, mentally, educationally and financially), yet the woman I atract are worse mentally an…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 06:09 PM
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Mediocre deepfake, you can see how "Jordan" voice changes at 00:44 Regardles of that, his daughter is a real shitshow, single mother (baby father was a real case), running some kind of scheme called "The lion club" where she gives dieting mentoring without any kind of medical training, never got anywhere in her life without daddy´s help. She is everything JP talks against in modern women, yet he coddles her. He trully failed as a parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:28 AM
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The percentage of overweight women is preety similar, but even fat women can pull men easier than a fat man can pull women. Also their beauty standards require less effort to be achieved, just dont over eat, they dont have a IG fit chick body to be atractive. But you seem to forget something, women go for looks and money, even if you become a fucking greek god, you need cash to keep up with her expectations, and those wont come cheap. The IG fit hot chick wont just look for someone muscular, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 06:53 PM
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Weight, looks, N count, personality, age and career Weight and looks are part of the same category, that cound be called beauty. N count speaks volumes about how a woman sees sex and monogamy. Personality is what will make me stay with her instead of being just a date or a ONS, but we wont even reach that if I dont find her preety. Age as a number is not important, im 33 (almost 34), but, I have to concede than younger women have less bagagge. Regarding her career, as long as she can cover the l…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 08:13 AM
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The same way women have their sweet 15 or 16 depending on the country, there used to be a similar celebration for a man´s 18th birthday. A sweet 15/16 is a rite of passage for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 06:33 AM
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Most women have male friends depending on the use they can find for him. Most women have female friends of their same looks level, their group might have one exception, but most women of the same group are similarly atractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 05:24 AM
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The church has a lot of cases where this was disproven
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 05:30 PM
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As a male CBT my work consist to create cognitive dissonance (among other things) about any belief that hinders my patients well being, and feminism goes to the grinder too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 02:55 AM
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Well... Im a therapist and I speak shit about feminism all the time. Sometimes, covertly, when feminist viewpoints are hindering my patients I question them openly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 02:54 AM
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Im perfectly fine with someone who doesnt cry she is opressed in some form and has a heathy BMI index. And I would like someone who is a switch.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 02:46 AM
2

She wished she lived in XVI century, imagine a woman like her in those times
/r/AntiFeminists05/01/23 02:40 AM
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At least ten/twelve years ago feminism started having a public appearance in my country. When its viewpoints on men sounded like bullshit to me I started questioning and thinking about my own response to those arguments, wich surprise surprise, were very aligned with TRP. Its been on the last few years when I saw a notorious change of behaviour in women than my viewpoints were solidified. Feminist women are as biased as RP men in their views, no matter how well educated they are. Single, in a co…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:02 PM
0

Yes please, I would totally go to her witch trial.
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 07:39 PM
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I dont remember men asked for permision to build civilization, why should women need to be allowed to???
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:38 PM
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TBH, the last five years interacting with women only confirmed my RP viewpoints, why should those change if I find someone that wants to be in a relationship with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:26 PM
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There is complaining about something reasonable, and there is complaining because water is wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:38 AM
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I wouldnt marry, but I seek someone who is not a pain in the ass that complains all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:19 PM
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Atually yes, I didnt know it was a thing here. It was fun to shitpost without the need to question beliefs. It was a shame that some people resorted to personal attacks instead of understanding the spirit of the festivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:57 AM
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Yeah, but try to reason with them...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:25 PM
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I never spoke about two women, my problem is with women that say a thing and act the oposite way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:02 PM
2

As I said to someone in another post, english is not my first language, United States is not the center of the world, no matter how much you want it to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:53 PM
2

Why do you bring this up, are you interested? need advice? or asking for a friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:52 PM
0

If that picture wasnt edited, I would.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:38 PM
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If I went outside with a shirt that said "I sell churros" and complained every time someone asks me for a churro, I would be an idiot. If a woman dresses herself in a way that is visually or sexually appealing she has no right to complain when people looks at her, regardless of why she dressed that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:32 PM
3

She doesnt have much on the tit department to add it to the list.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:13 PM
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If you objetify yourself, all men are going to see you as an object, not just the subgroup you want to. So, dont complain about things like catcalling when you wear a miniskirt as wide as a belt.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:11 PM
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Its purge week, one week per year where rules are lifted and users are allowed to post things like this for a laugh or to piss off the people than thinks differently from them. think of it as a wierd catharsis.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:09 PM
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Think of it this way, they are casting a fishing net instead of throwing a fishing line to catch only one species of fish but complaining their net caught a lot of unappetizing fishes. Objetyfing themselves obviously brings way more headaches than desired results, but they still do it. I have seen women going to party than wore miniskirts that seemed more like a wide belt, they could not sit nor croush without showing everything underneath, Yet they complained when men took a peak.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:08 PM
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Its Purge Week, its not intended to be a debate, just a a clash of controversial arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:02 PM
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Well...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:01 PM
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Yes, I know, but the point still stands
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:00 PM
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I know the pic was edited, but the point still remains, a significant group of women complain than men treat them as sex objects, while doing the same to themselves. You are going to come with the same arguments than everybody does, about that it is her choice, she doesnt want to be objetified by certain men, yada yada, dont waste your breath.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:35 PM
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9GAG, that is the only photo avaible, but it ilustrates the hipocresy quite well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:29 PM
1

Its a joke, actually Im in favor of more variety of sextoys for men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:16 PM
0

Or have an OF
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:48 PM
1

Is this a comic or just some guy doing drawings?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:15 AM
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Depends on the country, in mine they are not common assets.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:12 AM
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In some countries inheritances are not considered common assets.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:38 AM
3

Actually, inheritances are not common assets. Think of it as a way of protecting your familys capital. Imagine if you inherited four houses than your parents built, a year later you divorce and your wife gets two of them, like WTF, she was not even family when they were constructed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:36 AM
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Some do, a small subset doesnt. I wouldnt date one, I exect someone to be on pair with me regarding physical fitness (I train 3x per week, fit and in a healthy BMI)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:26 AM
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If the "object of desire" isnt sought after, there must be a really good reason why.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:20 AM
1

They are portrayed as confrontational and way too loud/masculine
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:19 AM
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"You tell me you dont know how to fix the fridge? but you are a fucking robot, you should know how"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:54 AM
2

It seems she liked the rough shag. NEVER date a SA victim, they are trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:51 AM
2

Got to turn those holes into piggy banks
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:46 AM
2

Let me tell you a short story that happened to me two weeks ago: I went to have dinner and beers with a female friend (G 28f), after eating our meal she told me she wanted to walk arround the neighbourhood for a bit. In said walk, we ended in a 24hs pharmacy because she needed to buy anticonceptive pill. While we were in the line she asked me if I wanted to see a movie (she lives 30 minutes by car away and there are no cinemas where I live, we dined near my home) so she basically invited herself…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:27 AM
1

Have you seen the size of some Bad Dragon dildos? You know those can be attached to fucking machines? A woman can have her insides rearranged by something the size of a 2Lts Coca Cola bottle for as long as she wants allready.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:05 AM
1

Just like a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:24 AM
2

By the same logic, a fembot wont cheat and leave you taking away half your shit if you commited the stupid mistake of marrying her. Also, a lot of women dont know how to fuck properly too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:23 AM
1

you see a 20 year old college girl let a 35 year old unemployed crackhead convict who beats the shit out of her to pump sperm into her while the nice guy her age who treats her good gets friendzoned and considers him "boring" Never better worded, this is what happens when they are left to their own devices. Some women will pick one asshole after the next, complain about all men, while believing they are a prize themselves after years of being used by scum.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:16 AM
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Who cares, its a thing, not a person. Do you ask your toothbrush permision before putting it in your mouth?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:58 AM
1

Comunist leaders allways had luxuries than the people did not, just look how Stalin, Lenin, the Castros or Chavez lived. Sexual monogamy wouldnt restrict any liberty to women, in fact, it would help them, as men would be enforced to be monogamous too, so, no pumping and dumping. Women would get lead to and used for sex almost never. The solution that was aplied in ancient times was to send men to war, were tehy could rape the neighbouring women as much as they wanted. If we use the same system f…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:50 AM
1

Absolutely true, but the only ones bitching about opression are leftist women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:02 AM
0

Met one, the excuse: its a lot of work. I had long curly hair (below scapula) and its nothing you cant solve in 10 minutes top.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:17 AM
0

Regretably, they are a plague
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:58 AM
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You fail to see the Che Guevara shirt, leftist always complain about opression while enjoying every perk of capitalism. Most women are left leaning. Cmon, the picture is preety obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:17 AM
2

Look at the leftist feminist, she is the one that is being served by the truly opressed
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:12 AM
8

Never be sirprised of what a hoe can do with her ass
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:44 PM
3

Indeed, I dont expect quality discussion when the subject of it are women being made acountable
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:19 PM
2

Depends if you are looking for fun or a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:52 AM
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English is not my first language. Si querés te lo escribo en español... La "triste" verdad es que todos conocemos una o dos chicas bonitas que fueron maltratadas por un tipo que luce como el. No tengo ninguna simpatía por estas mujeres, encuentran lo que buscan.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:50 AM
3

Damn, she looks mid 40s on that last pic
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:33 AM
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Give 20 years to the japanese, you wont be able to distinguish a sexbot from a real woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:11 AM
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Im more disgusted by these women willingly putting themselves in harms way that the guy who openly admits he hit a woman publically. Say whatever you want, but women like these crave a black eye.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:21 AM
40

The "sad" truth is that we all know one or two preety girls that got mistreated by a guy that looks like him. I have no simpaty for these women, they get what they are loking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:04 AM
1

Actually, he has his own plot of land where he is building his own home, he used to travel in a bus he himself turned into a motorized home.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:40 AM
1

Better Bachelor is the most centered, down to earth creator content on the whole manosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 04:50 AM
1

If you think it, on ancient times womens survivability depended on them being part of the group, they couldnt afford to go against the social norms because they could be expelled. Its in their nature to be more agreable and influentiable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 12:35 PM
4

Says the genre that uses a ton of different facial products
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/22 03:40 AM
0

I indulge in sounding (and other stuff) from time to time, I started as a way to give some variety to masturbation. But I have never gone to the stretching side of the kink. Women can indulge in sounding too, via their urethras (wich as someone said, are shorter) or their cervix (the utherus opening).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 07:58 AM
6

You think fuckbois won't wait weeks? Oh man. They'll wait months and years and just keep trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 11:04 PM
11

IMO the only way a fuckboy would wait for months is if he is having sex with someone else while waiting for you...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 10:06 PM
4

Smaller egos??? have you seen the average woman IG profile, selfie after selfie after selfie, if thats not an overinflated ego IDK what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:35 AM
1

Considering how much women value their appearance, that kind of accident would change their personality...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 02:57 AM
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1) those are thing you have to put A LOT of work to get/learn/achieve. Women are born with sexual value, as long as you know how to keep it (read again, keep, not obtain) you will be fine. 2) I didnt know having a pool of potential sexual partners to take or reject was such a hassle, poor thing, imagine first having to get the attention of a woman who has a lot of choices and THEN decide if she is worth your time. You are fishing in a barrel and complaining about it. 3) Thats not the case for mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:48 PM
1

I know what intermitent reward is, but still, some people might do everything right and still almost never get results. Also you are speaking as if anybody could reach the milestone of becoming desireable, not everybody starts from the same spot neither. And there is also people that doesnt do shit to improve and still gets sex, sometimes even more than the people who works on themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 12:06 AM
2

but sex at the end of the day is and will always be a reward men will get after so much hard work. It would be if by the end of the day, men didnt have to move a muscle to get their orgasm, like zero effort at all, BUT guess wich is the sex that does most of the physical labor during sex... The second problem is that for sex to be a reward, it should be obtained every time you do the conditioned behaviors, we both know that you can do everything right and still not get laid. The third problem is…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 10:17 PM
1

IMO, when the notion of romantical love became popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:08 PM
18

Well, there isnt a whole political doctrine pushing the message than all male bodies are beutifull... Ive only seen messages treating obese women as beautifull (just look at one of the latest calvin klein campaigns for example), there is not the same message about obese men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 09:24 AM
1

Show disinterest in a partner. They’ll long for the moments when you’re loving and sweet. Then leave them on read. Ignore them for a few days. They’ll lose their shit. This is regretfully true. The sad part is that if you show interest, and try to text often, you are the one who will end with the short stick.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 05:56 PM
1

For most of them, yes. Some were way beyond my league, and I reffered them to other more specialized profesionals. It also depends on how willing is the patient to do what he has to do to improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 04:11 PM
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Regretably, in this case, the male therapist has been married for more than ten years, he told me he could only imagine how the dating landscape was because of other clients (he never breached confidentiality) and after hearing them, he was glad he is married. He ended suggesting me that I should look for "tutorials" on how to date in todays world (Like I never thought of that duhhh). After that session I stopped going. The second therapist was the female one, she did ACT (acceptance and commitm…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 02:14 AM
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Yes, twice, one of the main issues was my lack of sex life, I had a man (who was also a sex therapist) and a woman as therapists, both couldnt help me. And Im a therapist myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 12:42 AM
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IMO, they stay because those relationships are very polarised, the lows are catastrophic, but the highs feel like paradise. Think of an addict getting her dose.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 10:13 PM
1

Yes, but they are still the ones doing the courting dance
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 10:45 AM
14

IMO its not fear of being alone or not being confortable of being single. The actual problem is that one main components to uphold masculinity is getting sexual access (a problem women dont have). In todays world getting sexual access from a desireable women has become way harder thanks to lack of social skills, lack of father figures (on both sexes), social media and dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 11:31 PM
1

look up the hottest actresses and models, So, women with millions to keep their looks and without the need to keep their own house in order (maids) or work 9hs shifts?? Im talking about regular people, not the 1%. Its very easy to keep your looks at your 30s when you have time to train, personal trainers, dieticians, and the best cosmetics and surgeries. Same with emotional baggage, which by the way, is mostly caused by men. As a gender you should really clean up your act before criticizing wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:38 PM
1

I would say women in their 20s have more energy than women in their 30s because they have a lot less to deal with. Responsabilities pile up as you age.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:43 PM
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Women are easier to abuse in their early twenties and I think for a lot of men that’s a big part of it. I would say some, not a lot. IMO lots of men seek younger women because they are physically more atractive, have more energy, and have very little emotional bagagge.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:06 PM
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As a 33yo I got to say, being on your 30s doesnt make you old, BUT you are not young anymore either. Just compare what your body could handle when you were 20, and then add ten years of aging, you dont recover from a hangover as quickly, you dont handle lack of sleep as good as before, physical excersice becomes a bit harder and gains dont come as fast as before, expresion marks in the face, I could continue but you get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:53 PM
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I went to a private highschool were you were worth as a person depending of how big were your parents wallet. Mines werent big enough, I saw from a young age how the douches and the bullies from school got the girls. I was raised by a "single" mother, as my father wasnt of sharing too much time with their sons (his schizoprenia didnt help with that). So, I never developed the necesary skills to be good at getting girls. I started uni, got into a gym, gained 15Kg in muscle, but still the lack of …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:57 AM
3

Just give us GLaDOS voice.
/r/AntiFeminists19/11/22 06:15 PM
0

Yes, but you can count with the fingers of one hand the women who are friendship worthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 09:55 AM
1

I never spoke about passive men. The guy in the example was entertained with his cellphone instead of paying attention to whatever "hint" a woman threw (and lets face it, "staring" doesnt qualify as a hint). Women are mostly passive, and talking about a guy with her friends expecting him to hear the conversation and aproach her has a drastically low rate of success. But women do this kind of shit all the time, because if they were direct, they would have to face rejection, this way they shield t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 07:25 AM
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I know they can be passive with success, but they dont have the right to complain if doing nothing yields no results.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 06:55 AM
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He also doesn’t get that if HE got up earlier, we could have had sex again before I had to leave, but because he wanted to sleep in I couldn’t do anything about him wanting it. He doesn’t get that when he started something it just made me kinda cranky all day. TBH, do you think than wour boyfriend would be upset if you said "hey, wake up, I wanna fuck" ?????? Also, its not his fault you cant let go of shit people do. ​ There’s a totally hot guy in the coffee shop sitting on his phone. This absol…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 04:41 AM
2

But a creep who is right.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 04:00 AM
2

Girl No1 was the last time I lent money too. Girl No2 is the last time I have expectations from a friendship with a woman. I never had to go through shit like this with a male friend.
/r/AntiFeminists17/11/22 01:51 PM
2

I had two cases: years long friend from uni, she asked me money and because I trusted her, I lended it to her. She asked for 10K pesos, but since it was a lot I lended her 5K pesos, she told me she would give them back to me in two months (she had a way better job than me, so she could repay me in that timeframe). Well, she took one fucking year to repay me and in the middle of that year she tried to make me believe I only lended her 3K. After she made the final payment, she cut all contact with…
/r/AntiFeminists17/11/22 05:47 AM
2

My sex life is nothing to brag about, Ive been in years long dry spells mostly for not putting myself out (I consider dating and courting a chore, and I dont like proffesionals). Your body gets used to the lack of sex, wich reinforces not putting yourself out because you dont feel the need to. But what you certainly get affected by is lack of touch and loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 10:35 PM
2

I used to have a modern woman, 3rd wave feminist friend. Last time I heard from her, she was going the frecuent panic attack route, after the way she ended the friendship (a years long one), I couldnt care less about her well being. Im actually glad her ideology is taking a toll on her.
/r/AntiFeminists16/11/22 10:21 PM
2

The psychofarmacology rute for sure
/r/AntiFeminists15/11/22 07:44 AM
2

This is not something seen with the af/bb logic, this happens in regular relationships as a way of behavioral control by rewarding or punishing certain things men do. If they didnt use it as a reward, why would they deprive themselves of it when her man fucks up or does something she doesnt aprove?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 07:14 PM
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I preffer women undre 1,65mts but that wouldnt stop me from dating someone a taller (Im 1,80mts). What most of us has is a weight requirement, I like women with a BMI of 20 or under.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 01:45 AM
0

I wouldnt trust a word that buffon says
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 01:39 AM
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The moment sperm leaves a man´s body, they lose all reproductive rights. If you use a condom, throw it, but the girl uses the content to inseminate herself, you have to take responsability for the child. Or if you cum in her mouth, but she uses it too. If the girl lies to you about birth control is the same scenario. Even if you donate it to a female friend who wants kids, she can come after you for child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 12:08 AM
1

Ask this yourself, wich is easier to achieve?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 08:55 PM
4

The ancient greeks were right, love is between men, women are needed for reproduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:52 PM
4

We all know a few, I my case I know 3 who are very vocal about their sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:50 PM
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Hypergamy. It has made me see all intersexual mating behavior from women as transactional, basically as implicit prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:35 PM
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IMO if women want men to suppor abortions, they should support financial abortion for men, after all, shouldnt we all have the same rights?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:20 PM
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If they're hot in their 20s, especially this day in age, they just roll on into their 30s looking hot as ever and making more effort and having more money to sometimes look even better. Hot, yes, hot as ever not in a million years. Her waist gets bigger, tits start to go down, skin is not as smoth, expresion marks become way more notorious. Dont try to gaslight us by saying than the average woman looks better in her early 30´s than what she did in her early 20´s. I agree with the rest of your po…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:44 PM
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TBH, I lost all empathy towards women who are not direct family members or years long friends. IDGAF about a random woman getting assaulted, the same way they DGAF about men.
/r/AntiFeminists29/10/22 09:40 PM
1

Just look how the average woman behaves while partying, they grind at each other, kiss pasionatelly and touch eachother in plain sight. If they were behind closed doors, most of them would be fucking eachother.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 10:00 AM
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You forget something, women dont hit on men nearly as often as they get hit on. This is a pasive way of atracting mates, men are active as they make the aproaches. To get aproached without doing much, they need to be atractive (think of a fishermen using an apetizing bait). One more thing, the requirements to be an atractive women are far easier to achieve than to be an atractive man. For example, being slim (reducing the amount you eat, and not eating junk) is way easier than being muscular (wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:47 AM
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Where in my comment did I say something about punishing women? I just said that you should asume than a man first intention is to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:20 PM
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No. As someone stated in another post, if men were 100% transparent with their intentions, they would never get laid unless they were a hard 10. Just imagine a man saying something like "Im just chatting with you because I want to tap that juicy ass", how many men would get laid if they were really honest??? Just asume than if you dont look like an ork from LotR and a male stranger initatetes conversations with you, his first priority is to fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:19 AM
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The logic is in the generalization, not in the theme of such generalization.
/r/AntiFeminists18/10/22 11:47 AM
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Acording to that logic, she shouldnt get ofended when men say all women are whores
/r/AntiFeminists17/10/22 10:15 PM
2

Beside their bodies, I cant think of any positive trait in modern women as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 12:10 PM
2

Laughs in Two and a half men
/r/AntiFeminists15/10/22 09:47 AM
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Workout is harder and takes way more time to achieve results than aplying some mascara or wearing a push-up bra. ​ Fighting a war is hard, child birth is hard, climbing everest is hard. dont derail the conversation with things than mostly men do (fighting in wars) or that they are incapable of (childbirth)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 12:30 PM
2

Steroids still require you to do the workout, they dont give you instant muscles
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 12:15 PM
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You can put makeup, colthes and implants to make you more beautifull. There is not easy way to increase your strenght.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:45 AM
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In the end its the womans fault, they are the ones in charge of the sexual selection of the species, they accept the "power imbalance" because they can improve their quality of life without effort thanks to it. If they dont like it, they should ONLY accept the aproaches from men of their same age and income.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:47 AM
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Well, considering than men that can get lots of sex stand in a higher eschelon of the social hierarchy of men, getting oversexualized and by that getting lots of sex (even if you had enough to be satisfied) wouldnt be troublesome as it is for a woman, since having lots of sex entails negative social conotations for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 10:33 PM
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IMO what will happen is than men will stop protecting women, either from accidents, dangerous situations, or other men. Without the urge for sex, the main drive for men to form bonds with women dissapears. So, why would you protect someone you have no interest in.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:08 AM
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Not even if I got paid for taking it. Most likely scenario, it would be filled with feminist propaganda on how men are toxic, and women are opressed innocent victims who do no harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:20 AM
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Indeed, sex its not accesory, its a main component of a relationship, sometimes one of the clear diferences between one and a friendship. OP has a girl friend, not a girlfriend, he hasnt realized it yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 08:30 AM
0

Your friend is a wise man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 07:27 AM
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IMO, Mark will be fucking someone behind her back that whole year. As you get older you know that sex is not special and definitely not something worth waiting for.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 07:24 AM
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A man with little to no experience with women (not just sex) after a certain age.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 06:02 PM
7

an advantage is something only one side has, if both sides can get the same its not an advantage
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 03:15 AM
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None
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 03:13 AM
2

Cant you lawyer up and go agains HR for harrasment??
/r/AntiFeminists07/10/22 10:16 PM
3

Yes, I know two women, its not just about promiscuity (tho one is a real hoe) its about their choices regarding men, they go for the asshole that mistreats them and uses them all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 02:27 PM
0

It depends on what the man desires that woman for, a LTR or an ONS.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 03:36 AM
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wether she has a doctorate or not, men get fucked anyway in divorce. Also, there are a lot of useless doctorates.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 01:01 AM
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IMO, as a man, a woman´s career wont make her more sexually desirable in my eyes, but for a LTR one thends to seek an "equal"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 12:44 AM
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I think you are reading it the wrong way, for us its more like: "a doctorate wont make you more sexually desireable"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 11:36 PM
1

my friends are stunners, we all stay decently in shape Sorry to say this, but for men a stunner is not decently shaped, its way above that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:38 PM
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Especially the feminine ones and bottoms Well, I dont want to sound like an asshole (but I will anyways), but femenine gay men are as emotionaly driven as straight women, its only expected they behave the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:18 AM
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Men worry about STDs too, and we have the fear of being baby trapped. What made you think we dont get worried about our health and the posibility of being a parent with some random chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:03 AM
1

Are you kidding right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 06:57 AM
1

What about this situation semi reversed? You’re a guy fucking a girl you really like, she even wants to fuck you 7 days a week, sleepover, backrubs, morning blow jobs and all. What woman would do that for just a fuckbuddy??? The girl is clearly invested beyond just "liking him"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 06:54 AM
1

Lots of women threaten to kill themselves if their first boyfriend broke up with them And that is called emotional blackmail.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 06:51 AM
1

If women were willing to forgo all that, once they establish a relationship, they would never cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 06:50 AM
1

Because at that age you dont apreciate what you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:15 AM
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If men don’t have much real life interaction with women and don’t consume actual female-led media (men often find it beneath them to engage is female driven art forms such as female directed movies, female written novels, even finale singers and other female artists), than literally the only thing informing their perspective on women is porn. I watched female lead and written shows, read crime books writen by women, and while some of them are fine (never great), they focus on things men dont put…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 09:36 AM
1

I always wear rubber. Besides that, I dont value sex that much to pay for a higher end escort (I wouldnt pay for a regualr one either).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 03:08 AM
2

Higher chance to get STDs through escorts
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 08:16 AM
1

Happened to me when I said than women who dont report being raped are partially responsible of all future rapes their rapist commits
/r/AntiFeminists29/09/22 04:07 AM
1

He is talking about their fatness, not about their income
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 04:50 AM
1

If you have to put a facade and lots of effort to land a date, what make you think than landing a GF is easier?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 04:49 AM
2

Fathers teach their sons to never hit women, women theach their sons never to hit women, I never heard anyone theach their daughters to treat boys right
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 04:43 AM
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It shows a lot you are a woman, you cant comprehend than men view sex in a completely different way, but I will indulge you and anser your questions. I didnt feel like I lost my self respect, she was hot and avaible and I took the chance. If she is a trianwreak its her problem, not mine, I can choose to cut ties with someone that I have no desire to pursue something for whatever reason. I have friendships from my kindergarden days, so I know how to keep people I cherrish in my life. Throw your f…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:41 AM
1

Well why were you fooling around with someone you would call a trainwreak don't you have any self respect Because she was willing and was the perfect oportunity to cut a dry spell, I didnt sought her, she sought me. Is there a law that says you cannot keep in touch with someone. So you didn't feel emotional towards a ONS wtf Why should I keep in touch? because we fucked once? I went on a date, had sex and thats it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:10 AM
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And thats the problem with feminism, they change their narrative when it suits them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:02 AM
1

Sinse when its a privilege not being hit on by the oposite sex, and men get judged by their choice of clothes, all my life women told me I than I should dress a certain way because it would make me look better (preety ironic coming from the gender you are not suposed to tell how they should dress).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:01 AM
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The girl I was fooling with was a trainwreak, she offered me to fuck without condom on the second date (I wore it), she let me finish in her mouth and swallowed it without me asking, thats definitely not the kind of woman you want to be involved with long term. And the ONS is a ONS, you dont keep in touch.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 04:59 AM
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2, one was an ONS, and the other girl was something just to fool arround
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 03:08 AM
1

I wanna say rape/assault don’t count, because those are ethically wrong and illegal Lots of really violent men have no issues getting women, so I doubt even those "taint" a man forever. IMO what can really fuck up a man is not developing social skills in their teen years
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:42 AM
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For me its not a matter of age alone, but how much bagagge she brings. But yes, being 33yo my range of preference goes from 25 to 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:36 AM
1

Honestly, IDK if I would go full on hiring high end escorts. At the level of success you are mentioning it would be very difficult not to think than the women who would date me would do it for my money, at least with escorts it would be more sincere and drama free.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:31 AM
1

TBH their dating pool shrinks because they dont bother to look past their degrees, the could date someone below them academically, but they "deserve the best".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:49 AM
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If you need to spend a lot of time and money to be found atractive, are you really atractive or its just smoke and mirrors? Lets be honest, take makeup, hair dye, push up bras, heels, figure acentuating clothes and surgeries away (among others) and even the most atractive women becomes average at best. Get rid of those and most of you will drop at least 3 points in a scale from 1 to 10. If you dont believe me, google pictures from female celebrities with and without makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 10:41 PM
1

Here are my examples: Using sex as a reward/punishment system. Parental alienation. Baby trapping. Making another man raise a child thats not his. Acussing normal behaviour as mysoginism if it doesnt benefit her. False allegations of violence/sexual abuse. Most of what you listed are behaviours than both sexes have.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:03 PM
1

Yes, and?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:23 PM
1

Nope, thats one advantage of being a man, we can leave the wife with the kids and go with the boys for a beer, and no kids talk there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:18 AM
2

Argentina
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 09:56 PM
3

Not in my country, most times its shitty working conditions and being underpaid. I can afford to work on mental health as a part time job because the callcenter pays good money. If not I would be really screwed. If I could go back in time I would shift careers in a blink.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:14 PM
2

I work both at a callcenter than deals with work related injuries (night shifts), and Im a clinical psychologist (tuesday and wednesday afternoons).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:08 PM
2

Women are not bothered to be single and childless until their friends get married and start having a family. When they start to feel left out, or that they dont fit in their friend group, thats when they start getting bitter regarding their solitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:49 PM
2

Working night shifts for the most part, then gym or a bar with friends, I dont have the energy to try to meet women anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:32 PM
4

You should evaluate how your partner percieves vulnerability in men, see how she reacts to men displaying unmanly behaviours (like being over emotional, fear/cowardice or dependency), that will give you a good parameter. Maybe choose a movie or use someone else relationship as an example. Some women will be open to male emotions, while others will remember your vulnerabilities to weaponize them later. There is no flawless method to determine how a woman will react when you open, and remember tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:59 AM
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Psychologist here, your statement is false, there are different tipes of psychotherapy developed for different diagnoses and some are more prevalent in women, like borderline personality dissorder or eating dissorders. That doesnt mean than DBT or CBT doesnt work the same way for both men and women otr than. Overall, men seek less therapy than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 09:21 PM
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Or they should put their age and sex in their user flare, its not that hard and you only need to do it once
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:27 PM
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Their have comically poor standards for anything that validates their world view but impossibly high ones for anything that challenges it. Thats called confirmation bias, everybody has it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:50 PM
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isnt "good enough" the definition of settling?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:37 AM
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Because they have to settle when they realize they will never get the kind of man they truly desire or become a cat lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:33 AM
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Honestly, there is no point about continuing this conversation, you are making me the center of the argunment instead of the main point of the post. But well, men and women are judged by different standards, men can sleep arround a lot and its not seen necesarily as bad by a lot of people. Women can expect a man with a 6/6/6/6 and they dont get shamed because "you deserve the best gurl". A woman who sleeps with anybody is seen as bad as a man who doesnt get laid. We both get judged for the same,…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:00 PM
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I had quite a dry spell before knowing her, but yes, I preffer sex sooner than later. For me promiscuity is not only a matter of timeframes but a matter of volume, I only slept with her before knowing her well, and only had one ONS. She is blowing a different guy every week, there is a significative difference between us both.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:51 PM
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I didnt know she was promiscuos when I met her, I only knew she had broken up with her BF (but didnt know why). Then I learned she was dating someone while sleeping with me. She stayed with the first guy for a while and moved on from me. She seemed like a nice woman at first, but when I started to know her better (we kept in touch because we still work together, also dont shit were you eat) I saw the trainweak she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:32 PM
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I slept with case no2 twice, but she was the one who aproached me (this was a month after I entered the job, I barely knew her then). Im not interested in promiscuos women at all. I agree with you than most women dont sleep arround (much) but the proportion certainly increases year after year.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:47 PM
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I guess you haven’t heard of “ethically non-monogamous” ENM people? If you want to fuck with other people, why have a relationship on the first place? I bet most of these peopleé partners are voluntary cucks just not to be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:31 PM
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Case no2 has a different partner almost every week, so yeah, at least three different persons every month.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:04 PM
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"responsible and ethical promiscuity" must be the most leftist thing I heard this whole week, and I live in a third world shithole. Regardless of that, and back to the main topic of this post, women like these two are undesirable for LTR for any man with two working neurons. Either they will be a pain in your ass, you will get cheated or catch an STD, I know for a fact then case no2 doesnt get tested regularly (case no1 does).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:03 PM
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My workplace is FULL of leftists, they dont get shamed, specially case no2 who almost seems to be cheered by the most radicalized ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 12:58 PM
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Its way easier for a women to be a slut than for a man to be a stud. To get laid consistently with different women a man must be good looking, charming, witty and have the time and money to be able to date multiple women (ergo, no average man). Even average women can be slut without effort, they just need to spread her legs far and wide, there will always be people willing to sleep with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 12:54 PM
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Its a callcenter in Argentina.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:19 AM
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We dont complain about women not being virgins until marriage, what we complain is about excesses and the concequences they entail. a woman who has been in one or two LTR by 30 and had one or two flings is not undesirable, but someone who racked up a count of 50+ certainly is, it shows in their attitudes and the way they speak about men. I know two cases, one says all men are trash and the other cant keep her legs closed if her life depended on it. The first one used to be a wildcard (daughter o…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:05 AM
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I honestly don't see the allure of younger women. Slimmer waist, perkier tits, better skin and less expresion mark. ​ To me the whole "women past 30 is old" is just ridiculous and is way for creeps to justify going after younger women. There is a big difference between the body of a 20´s something (before 25) and a 30´s year old women. If you know the women from all your life (like a classmate or a life long friend), you can testify how aging has hit them. Age hits us all, but not everybody ages…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 05:54 AM
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Seems like a sad waste of time
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 08:33 AM
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Ask her how many of the men in the family are rapist? is dad a rapist too? grandpa? cousins?
/r/AntiFeminists21/08/22 04:34 AM
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Anyone who argues using this kind of formulas needs to get a life ASAP
/r/AntiFeminists16/08/22 08:41 AM
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Monkey branching is when you allready have another guy in line before leaving your current partner. If you split, take a bit of time to mourn the relationship with your legs closed, and then you meet someone new, then it is not monkey branching.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 09:38 AM
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I would be perfectly fine waiting for a virgin, thats not the case with women who had ONS onf fuck buddies. Think of virginity as a brand new car, once you take it out of the dealership it loses 40% of its value.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 09:32 AM
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Im one of those men and this is going to be a long aswer, so bear with me, this is going to consider a lot of different aproaches. The bodycount depend on her age, its not the same she slept with five men by age 15 than by age 25. But still bodycounts reveal someones view on sex and relationships. If she gives sex up too early, it is implied she doesnt value it as an intimate part of a relationship, and if she had sex with a lot of guy, then you are just another penis in a long list. Women with …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 09:02 AM
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Thats not going to make them stop wanting pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 01:56 AM
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If sex is so unimportant, why is monogamy so important? Moral values and STDs
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:56 PM
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The natural progression of a relationship as we know it is the following: The man approaches> The woman accepts his advances if she finds him sufficiently attractive > he displays his personality (this is where the courting and dates happen) > they eventually have sex > they get into a relationship. In this linear progression, how does the man have more of a say of who he is in a relationship with than the woman? She accepts his advances, and if she doesn’t find him appealing she would have reje…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 06:50 PM
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Its not small, its anal friendly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 10:29 PM
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Ask a few sex positive, progresive women how would they fell if their daughters did camshow, traditional porn or escorted. Then you can find a really non ambiguous definition of self respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 02:22 AM
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No, I have self respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 12:29 AM
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A degree on her wall, or a CEO position wont make her look hotter. As long as she is not an economical burden I dont care if she works as a cook or as a neurosurgeon.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:25 AM
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Because he is a loudmouth and an idiot, thats how a lot of people get famous
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:46 AM
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So, basically, set limits to them so they dont hurt themselves??? just like children???
/r/AntiFeminists30/07/22 03:29 AM
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I knew someone who very wisely said "there is no cheaper woman than the most expensive prostitute", so all the cash would go on escorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 06:56 AM
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I dont think any female hobby is atractive per se, a toned butt on the other hand...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 05:42 AM
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To women as a whole, none at all. For acquaintances, unless they brought it to themselves, I do feel empathy. For example, I do feel bad for one of my female friends who is in a sexless marriage (too different libidos), but I dont feel bad at all for a female friend who got back with a dude that mistreats her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:00 AM
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I would be less anoyed because (pussy) is something I will never be able to provide, but I would dump her anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 11:26 AM
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just beautifull
/r/AntiFeminists20/07/22 08:26 AM
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nope, they would charge you to be able to have more simultaneous matches, while filling your current match capacity with bots.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 03:35 AM
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Buenos Aires - Argentina I dont believe that marriage is a good option for men in todays world
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 06:38 PM
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Im 33, I noticed that the quality of women that pays attention to me has decreased (both in looks and in mental health) while Im better financially, with a degree and more independent overall. Honestly, Id rather die alone than pick the leftovers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 06:51 AM
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1 and 2 not a red flag per se, depends on the attitude. 3 RED FLAG 4 mehh 5 RED FLAG if she lives dressed provocately 6 RED FLAG 7 she is stupid, might be red flag 8 Depends on the amount/size and connotations 9 to 33 RED FLAGSSSS There is no woman who hasnt at least 5 of the items on this list, some might be circunstantial or one time only, but they still appear.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:37 AM
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Number 4 is not thicc, thast just fat, thicc is Christina Hendrix or Jennifer Love Hewitt in her good years, voluptuous but with a good waistline
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 03:26 AM
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PiV
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 08:59 AM
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Another self absorbed imbecile. His opinion about depression is utter bullshit, Im still trying to figure out why idiots like him are given access to a mic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 08:21 AM
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Punctuation please, its really hard to read. Im very convinced than modern women are not even worth the shit that comes out of their asses.
/r/AntiFeminists17/07/22 07:14 AM
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You dont have to pay for other mens broken dishes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 05:26 AM
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Someone allready said it, sperm donation
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 01:22 AM
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Legal or illegal?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 09:00 PM
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Im from a third world country (Argentina) and we got a saying here: "Educated people reproduce linealy, poor people reproduce exponentialy" Poverty is a numbers game, not even an economic one, make a similar policy for lower classes like the chinese "one child" and poverty will solve itself on the long run
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 06:22 AM
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In mine (Argentina) its 90 paid days for women (+90 optional unpaid days) and 2 weeks for men (it used to be 2 days only)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:31 AM
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petite slim-fit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 02:54 AM
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Actually its estimated than the ratios are preety even, except on Anorexia wich its 9 to 1. Men just dont go to a mental health proffesional as much as women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:40 AM
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1) the betrayal and lack of respect from your SO 2) from a mating point of view, I had to court you, I had to put effort to get in a relationship with you. Its like she is giving away something that I had to put effort to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 10:09 PM
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Im going to be 100% honest here. Getting penetrated is not humilliating for a woman, but its feminizing for a man. Men are the ones who have the "penetrating organ" while women dont. Also, Its kind of dominating in a way to enter somebody else´s body. I personally enjoy anal stimulation fron time to time when I masturbate, I even own a few toys (none penis shaped), BUT, I would never let a woman analy stimulate me in any kind of way, there is no way I would allow any kind of feminizing act that …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 03:47 AM
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and I might say no if he's a bad person This statement speaks for itself
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 04:43 AM
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EVERY girl who looks half decent, and I mean basically not be fat and have an average or above face, can generate a massive following online. Not fat? even fat ones pull hot guys with abs
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 04:36 AM
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There is a difference between having a replacement in line and having to look for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:10 PM
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There is a difference between sleeping with someone after breaking up and allready having a backup in line.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 03:31 PM
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Its not about validation, its about paying taxes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:55 PM
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Why do you strugle with it? its a simple cost benefit analysis. I am currently not dating, but when I was I always tried to be seen in public with women, and when I left the place (usualy a bar or restaurant) I made sure the staff saw she was not drunk or in distress. The only time I was in company of a drunk woman, I made the staff call her a cab and then I made sure the bouncer saw I went my separate way (when she got into the cab I told her to share her location with me in a loud tone so the …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:43 AM
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False acusations of r@pe and DV are weaponized in family and labour courts. Also, those statistics are biased because they dont count cases where the event couldnt be proved as a false acusation (I refer in cases where there is a conflict of interest like family court, not in all cases)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:40 PM
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1) Men are up to four time more likely to be killed while being a victim of a crime (except r@pe). 2) Yes, but if a woman takes initiative, her probability of being sucessfull is astronomicaly higher than a mans. Basically women can get sex almost on demand. 3) You have to worry about being falsely acused of doing something or morning-after regrets, also. 4) True. 5) Depends on the line of work, and specially your boss. Also, you dont have affirmative action and quotas to help you. 6) Body image…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:26 PM
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Yes, but we strayed so far away from evolution than hypergamy is outdated for our species. Between plastic surgery and modern medicine, hypergamy became obsolete.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 01:52 PM
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La donna e mobile qual piuva al vento. Muta d'accento e di pensier Verdi was speaking a great truth in 1851, its funny how things that TRP says have been in the popullar culture from centuries
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 07:51 AM
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Daddy governament gives money, not validation
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 07:35 AM
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There is a "save post" button for a reason...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:28 AM
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Finding a partner instead of someone that just wants to use her genitals
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 01:19 AM
1

Japan will be our testing ground
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:03 AM
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But how much of guys want to be in hookup culture or FWB, and are otherwise not looking for a relationship? Why? If “ the right one” came along relationship wise, would you give up any care for hook ups/causal sex? I would love a childfree LTR, but there are not many single (sane) women that dont want children at my age bracket. Hook up culture is tiresome, expensive and unfullfilling. So, I dont try anymore, what I desire is an exotically rare good, and the rest are leftovers (at my age bracket…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 08:17 AM
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Another completely useless comment that doesnt help OP at all
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:04 AM
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Sex, emotional intimacy, financial support, physical intimacy, emotional support and affirmation, etc. As someone who has been single the last 12 years (with only two hookups in between) I call this bullshit, you might want a woman, but you dont need one. The only thing a woman is truly necesary for is sex, the rest you can get from other sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 01:56 AM
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10 - Victoria Secret archangel 1 - body positivity, fat acceptance, non waxed feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:13 AM
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What I meant is than if she wanted to go vacationing every year or expensive dinners every time, she should be able to provide those for herself without a man to cover part of her bill. She should expect nothing more than what she can provide for herself when she is single. Men are not ATMs the same way women are not just their genitals. As I stated before, I want someone who doesnt want children, so all the childbearing and child raising part a woman can provide becomes irrelevant for me. Under…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 07:37 PM
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From an evolutionary point of view, if we were as picky as women, we wouldnt fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 07:32 PM
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I preffer to be alone than in the company of someone im not atracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 05:19 AM
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Im: 1.80mts tall 76Kg fit but no gymrat College degree and almost finishing a post graduate career Live by myself, I support myself and Im able to save money I dont want children I have a really dark sense of humour, I read a lot and enjoy chilling more than going out to big crowded places. I would like a girl: not taller than 1.65 (preferably but not exclusive) slim, I value more a small waist than big tits. I dont find "IG fit girl" super atractive either, I preffer someone not overtrained or …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:48 AM
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Im going to answer both comments here, please keep things in an orderly fashion does that mean any of my future partners shouldnt get oral from me bacause one woman didnt wash properly??? If you don't wanna fuckin do it, then I hope you don't fuckin do it. I want to do it, at least once with each woman I sleep with, because each of them shouldnt pay for another woman´s broken dishes. ​ And maybe it hurt. Maybe she hated it. It's happened before. Haven't you ever had something happen to you that …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:30 PM
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If you're wanting a transactional relationship where you expect her to do things she doesn't you're also gonna be that asshole ex. You're Joe. You're the guy she did things with that she didn't wanna do because he pressured her. Most women I know say all their exes were assholes, so that doesnt mean much to me. A first class boyfriend is one that gets treated with love, respect, and empathy, not one that gets butt stuff she doesn't wanna do. You know you're first class when you feel supported an…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:12 AM
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Yes, but I think men´s ephypany in most cases goes arround the line of "pussy is overrated", and we start to tolerate a lot less bullshit from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:31 AM
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This is a hypotetical situation in my case (as Im single right now), I adhere to strict monogamy in my relationships so I expect all the sexual variety I could hypotetically get from multiple women in a future partner, if I dont get that, I start to lose interest fast. ​ Ask her. Maybe she tried it and didn't like it? Maybe it's not about you or Joe but what she wanted to do at the time? Maybe she liked Joe better? Only she knows. If she tried it and she didnt liked it, she tried it Joe´s way, n…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:25 AM
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Because for all you know, she didn't actually like doing those things, but was pressured or coerced into doing them. (...) Do they really allow them though? Or do they feel pressured or coerced? Unless said woman was held at gunpoint or her life was in inmediate danger, then she had a choice, and she choose to comply. ​ If a man let his ex put a finger up his ass, is he then obligated to allow his next girlfriend to do that, even if he hated it? Of course not. He has at least the moral obligatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:48 AM
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My example is different, I said why should I not get the same things an asshole got? If Joe trash talked and mistreated her the whole relationship and she spreaded her asscheeks for him, why couldnt I get the same if im not treating her like a piece of trash? If she didnt liked buttstuff before, why did she do it with him but not with me? That leads to two possible lines of thought, either she doesnt think I deserve buttstuff (for whatever reason) or than I should treat her the same way Joe if I…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:20 AM
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So she's obligated to continue doing something she doesn't like because she tried/did it in the past? This sounds a lot like "she did anal with an ex, so now she has to do it with me. Even though she hated it and it was painful for her, she owes it to me because she's tried it in the past." Yes and no. If her abusive asshole ex got more from her in bed, why shouldnt the new man who treats her well get the same stuff or better? Women allow assholes to do things that dont allow people who treats t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 11:56 PM
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However, I have read other things where if a woman is really interested in you, she will not think about sex with you right away. It will be on her mind, but it won't be the top thing. She will want to bond with you emotionally, build a connection and foundation with you, spend time with you, really get to know you... before having sex with you. For women, sex is just the icing and building a strong emotional bond and mental connection with a man is the cake. Understandable, but as a man I would…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 11:49 PM
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The bar is on the floor once you bypass a certain threshold, once the woman "aprobes you", you can be a shitty boyfriend as long as you keep her enthralled. Getting that "approbation" is a completely different business, with a high bar but judged by different atributes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:00 PM
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I think the damage is done, there are women in their 40´s warning young girls what a life under third wave feminism values have lead them, and they still dont listen. Young men are a shadow of what the older generations were, and I dont think old fashion values in men (like protect and provide) will return considering the kind of women we have today. Men, for better or worse, have adapted to the changes women introduced in intersexual dynamics. Its the women the ones who still expect prince char…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 01:35 PM
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Im just going to say than among my female friends, the ones than are 30+ and still single are the most unhappy of all my friends. I have one female friend who married 3 years ago, she is 31 now and its overall happy, one who just got the ring and its 28 (never had a serious issue with her BF as far as I know, years long relationship) and lastly one who is 30 and its building a house with his years long BF (building a house in my country is really difficult if you are middle class). From my 30+ s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 06:05 PM
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The gender pay gap its a myth, if it were true, the governament could simply verify it by checking peoples income, chosen field of work and amount of work hours in the IRS. Women just chose to work less and in field than have low salaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 05:15 PM
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Most men that dont do a lot of asking out are thinking about legal repercutions, not about ruining frienships.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 02:24 PM
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