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Idk if you can understand this in hindsight as you reread but… it was a sarcastic comment, which makes your attempt at ambiguous clarity all the more funny
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 01:49 PM
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Nah dude women are only attracted to handsome douchebags who neg them. Get with the program or go back to the grass where life is greener and the bitches have flavor In fact, take me with you bruh it’s sad here
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 07:58 AM
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“Net negative triggering” is fuckin dumb lol. The trick is to show you have a life outside of her inclusion, then slowly reveal that you wish to include her. Don’t bother forcing yourself to do things for her or remember all her details, instead allow women to be part of your life as any other person would. With a position that matters as much as it should or could and then build from there. Showing interest is good, but don’t lend to them the belief that you are less without them. They want the…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 07:07 AM
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Nah it’s more complicated but just barely - women are supposed to be the emotionally intelligent half of humanity, but science proves that this social conclusion is hilariously flawed. Women are just as susceptible to being emotionally challenged and immature as men are, it’s expressed differently, but they are not anymore emotionally intelligent overall. If anything, I’d argue that men are more demanding and women are more complicit to men’s demands, which leads to a hierarchy that establishes …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 01:52 PM
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Women do not all see this example man you’ve described as “the same pump and dump” experience. They like to think they are special, and this man is seeing potential in them that he hasn’t met elsewhere. Obviously this is hilariously naive and borderline narcissistic, but it could be argued that this has allowed the survival of many otherwise unborn children. Mothers can often have children with men they deem superior or successful, and then the man will leave them and they will raise his child w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 01:43 PM
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What about if it’s said by a dude like the dude who just said it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 12:52 PM
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“Women will treat you as well or as poor as you let them” is a mindset that informs men of what they are held accountable for and why it impacts them. Your move!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 09:05 AM
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Nah this dismisses all the valid arguments for the gray within social sex dynamics. Men have it better for self expression in way of self awareness because they are often/mostly held accountable for their choices. Women have it better for self expression in way of self preservation because they have more opportunity to network their feelings and are often/mostly held accountable for what motivates them. Men have it worse for self assurance because they are held to a standard of what men should d…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 07:35 AM
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Yes, mutual orgasms between men and women in heterosexual relationships were generally less common and less discussed in previous generations compared to recent ones, primarily due to an enduring "orgasm gap" where women have historically experienced fewer orgasms. While the sexual revolution of the 1960s and 70s increased the acceptance of female sexuality, it did not immediately eliminate the disparity in pleasure, with studies over the past 20 years continuing to show that men are more likely…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 01:39 PM
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Coverture: English common law (brought to the US) practiced "coverture," where a married woman's legal existence was suspended and subsumed into her husband's. Wives could not own property, sign contracts, or keep their own wages. Wife Sales: In England, the high cost of divorce led some lower-class individuals to sell their wives, treating them explicitly as transferable property. Other Cultural Examples: Pre-contact Hawaii: Historical accounts indicate practices of "wife-capture" and forced se…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 01:37 PM
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Previous generations, particularly Baby Boomers, operated under rigid mid-century social norms that often constricted gender roles, yet they also pioneered "free love" and open attitudes toward sex. While older, pre-digital generations may have viewed gender roles more traditionally, current trends show that younger generations are actually experiencing a significant "sex recession," indicating a shift in focus away from immediate sexual interaction toward caution and, perhaps, different forms o…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 01:32 PM
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They do, actually; plenty of men don’t see the value of a woman beyond their orgasm. It’s a documented issue but is less apparent within the recent generations. I think empathy as a whole is on the rise
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 11:28 AM
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Talk about privilege. I can’t imagine going through life being unquestionable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 04:25 AM
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Good advice. Also if a man is to listen to a woman online, such as we are now, it helps when they have self awareness and a moral compass
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 04:07 AM
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Birds of a feather
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 06:49 AM
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Looks are useless without personality. Personality is the epitome of skill
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 06:45 AM
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Skill is an expression of commitment to something. Women typically want a partner who can elevate their perception of events or opportunity. This is where skill generalizes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 06:42 AM
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I think women who aren’t turned on by skill haven’t gathered any of their own
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 06:39 AM
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I’m 5’2 and many women have admired me for my talent. My name is Prince
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 06:38 AM
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If you are at a game that your boyfriend is participating in, and you have no desire to watch their participation, you are the shitty part of that context
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 06:37 AM
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I agree with what you’ve presented. It’s far past the surface level that most people are exposed to or take pleasure in figuring out upon exposure. This stuff about chromosomes only explains as much as we can philosophically respect, so don’t lose your appreciation for what you’ve conveyed. It’s fascinating how diverse we are biologically even within the dual sex expression.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 04:17 AM
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That’s a real… Heartbreaker…34
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:48 AM
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Ding ding ding
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:47 AM
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Well said
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:53 PM
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Small gain is worth more than a large compromise, is the anecdote from the fish and fisherman analogy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:49 PM
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Her defense is that he is below the standard threshold of what she tolerates in her little beauty bubble. If you switched her into an ugly body she’d give up within a week. Her entire social adaptation is realizing her physical worth and struggling to accept that it isn’t hers to control
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 01:08 PM
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That’s wild. It’s weird to be in this thread and slowly realize why I was subconsciously rationalizing an anger towards women. It’s not that women are irrational, it’s that their point of reference for purpose and reason can be so easily and so often skewed to view men as less functionally necessary. The fucked up part is this man has explained with this long winded passion piece a really interesting shift in culture. Women in societies with immense social privilege do not recognize their abunda…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:57 AM
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Does financially sustaining oneself and increasing the productivity of a business not indicate successful existence? My point is that this can be achieved and even maintained through unhealthy means
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:18 PM
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This advice is hilarious because 25 years ago it’s probably what headstrong women were recommending to each other. We’ve amassed a gendered advantage that has flipped
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 01:48 PM
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You vastly underestimate how many men can exist with mentally ill brains and choices, and still get by. Sure it only lasts so long, but sometimes that’s well into adulthood
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 01:55 AM
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This is only true when men are desperate and date women who need them for what they provide. It’s incredibly obvious to anyone with self awareness, when they are being used. If you’re being used and you’re not aware, you’re using her too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:09 PM
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True but also… wow
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:10 AM
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Men are driven to meet women in a way that women aren’t driven to meet men, on average. Men tend to approach and this is how we exercise our benefit in selection. If a woman controls the outcome of sex, a man presents the option.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 11:15 PM
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That’s really bizarre to me. So you’re allowed to enjoy many people before you lock in, but they can’t experience half that? Your n count must be in the hundreds
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 01:52 PM
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Without porn I’d have quite the imagination at the cost of knowing what thousands of vaginas look like
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 01:42 PM
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Women have insane egos in this generation. They do not dare to understand the complexities of existence as a man when they happily select a small % without considering the ramifications. It’s almost as if women would rather compete more than men because men do not gain ego from competition without some sort of advantage, whether it be genetic, financial, or situational.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:29 AM
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Don’t worry about it much. When you have a feature like height that is seen as weak, you must simply not be weak. I’m 5’5 and have scoliosis so I will only become shorter with time. It’s just life for anyone to accept and make do
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:03 AM
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Nah I intend to be a viable dating candidate well into my 40s. Might not be as visually attractive, but neither will they lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 06:50 PM
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Ya I’m 27. There’s time :)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 06:48 PM
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Women take less time to get into new relationships than men. It’s statistically proven. So yeah, you’re not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 06:46 PM
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That’s fucked up. Being single is a way stronger indicator of self respect than bagging a gremlin. Plus I disagree logically because if I saw a married woman with a man far uglier than she is, I’d assume she has low self esteem and married for what he provides financially. if a woman assumes less of me because I’m single than I assume she is wasted oxygen anyways. What kind of human thinks being alone is less worthy than being with people below their capacity?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 06:38 PM
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Yeah probably. I took a 4 year break from dating and ended up with a dud. The previous wasn’t tho, she actually cared about me as a person. Lead me to think way too highly of myself tho and I ruined it. Oh well, live and learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 06:28 PM
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After what I went through. Here are the signs: she texts many other men and says they are “just friends” She never bothers to make stuff happen, it’s always on you. She doesn’t need to communicate with you about things. Kind of just goes with the flow because it’s easier than accidentally revealing she doesn’t care about you. She acts different than she explains. If she says she’s a giver and then can’t find anything to give you, can’t determine what would actually be beneficial to your life, sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 06:23 PM
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Not like you’d find out with that mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:51 PM
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Women are passively worried about their visual expiration date, so they seek out relationships to nurture their egos. The vast majority of men don’t have access to the dating pool the way the women do, so the combination becomes a self fulfilling prophesy of men sleeping down and women building a false sense of entitlement
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 02:34 PM
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Yeah I can get plenty hard at the visuals of tall women. It’s just difficult for me to see them as options when they don’t consider me as an option. 5’6 M
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:17 PM
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This is wrong. Men who cannot find attraction to women because of their height are insecure. I’m a 5’6 man and I would date a woman taller than me. The problem is that women have no desire to date men shorter than them. They see it as a social indicator of underachievement
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:15 PM
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And 95% of women couldn’t either, while using societal expectation to argue that men should do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:46 PM
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She said she thinks everyone has a Steve, when he suggests that a Steve is a man who will drop everything to be with you. So yeah, he’s a plan b guy but also a guy with just as much right to happiness as you. Yet Steve is only equal when you lose all leverage opportunities with better candidates. The irony to me is that Steve and the woman who maintains him were always equals, but only Steve noticed. Yet his humility and her ego end up balancing and they elope. This is why I am happy to be alone…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:26 PM
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Well, considering men don’t really befriend women unless they have something to gain, which usually means chance at future prospects together, those women are probably right to think they can lazily get with one of those men. The issue is, those men are leveraging this same type of relationship opportunity with many other women and as a result aren’t really viable partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:07 PM
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Good for you and your future partners. Glad to see at least one comment that understands the full message.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:04 PM
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Then why do you talk to him? What is to gain from slowing down someone else’s opportunity? Why is it satisfying to receive attention in a way that won’t be reciprocated?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:02 PM
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You misunderstand, this woman and many others have a “Steve” that is never intended to be a boyfriend, but instead used as a friend for emotional support and to remind them that they are desirable. It’s a nice guy that doesn’t have the passive aggressive energy. Many women do this to their men “friends” without realizing that the guy is interested in them sexually/romantically, or without caring to. When people use each other for energy, there is a lapse in personal accountability. “Steve” in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:00 PM
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A tall woman can see all men as viable options but chooses to embrace societal expectations and limits her choices according to her height. A short man can see all women as viable options but will still be selected less due to women prioritizing height as a signal of desirability Struggle of tall women is self inflicted due to group think. If they were able to consider men shorter than them as options, height wouldn’t even be as large of an obstacle for the future generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:39 PM
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Lil Wayne is a huge outlier tho due to his fame and status. The shitty part about how women select their partner is related to how they require other women to see a similar beauty. They use group think when making assessment more than men do, so in order to jump that hurdle you have to be considered a viable option by many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:32 PM
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Being a short man sucks because it’s hard to be seen as dominant or assertive without coming across as insecure. People judge short men in a way that is exclusive to them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:24 PM
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Men and women change a lot in their 20s. It’s the period of development for most people because that is when they benefit the most from self realizing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 05:04 PM
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Yeah I agree, if a woman is willing to break your fantasy she’s aware of how you’re feeling and is comfortable changing the narrative to better suit reality. It creates short term emotions that benefit both in the long term
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 03:36 PM
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Why did you date someone you weren’t sexually compatible with? Or am I to understand you didn’t need to find them attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 06:40 AM
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I think you probably used them and then got bored and they could tell
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 09:23 PM
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Sounds like you were always aware that they weren’t good looking, so who was the jerk again? It’s misleading to date someone you’re not horny for. That’s probably why your ugly ex boyfriends grew to dislike you. They knew you found them expendable
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 07:35 AM
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Obesity a is byproduct of commercialized eating. Eating to obesity exists alongside a world of self image obsession, it is the realm average people consider “beneath”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 04:20 AM
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Yeah I’m a skinnier guy and prefer thicker women. Generally guys want something that would blend well with their genetics. So obviously hot women but also it’s a case by case thing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 03:15 AM
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It shouldn’t surprise anyone when we can google any pov or opinion and find a way to validate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:36 AM
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I think there’s an argument for delusion at play. Many men delete half the women as options and then expect women not to do the same. People have gotten more attractive. As civilization succeeds in valuing image and grandeur without failing, so does it’s core activities. Competition and status override morality and value, so does their counterparts and offspring
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 12:53 AM
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Man treats woman like a tool for happiness, so woman learns how to regulate by gaining leverage in other areas. Paying for things less often, reducing their tasks for sustenance, forming expectations before reward, becoming entitled to said conditions. The imbalance of using others becomes part of the identity of the victim, such that they are encouraged to cyclically re-enter their trauma. Our expectations of treatment shape our interests and what is considered our baseline of function
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 05:23 PM
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Women who have adapted to being used end up using their surrounding in response. It’s the cycle of trauma
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 05:07 PM
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Because they exist like average men? Oh well
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 03:55 PM
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Big facts. Women need men just as much as we need them. But what they need from us is cultivated passively through societal expectations. They use us in a way that benefits even when we use them. It’s a giant battle of victims
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 03:51 PM
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Sex is like half the reason for existence from my pov. The shared intimacy of affection and desire for each other is powerful.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 03:11 PM
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I support body positivity when the woman doesn’t seem to be suffering from her weight. When it becomes enabling I think it’s virtue signaling
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 02:54 PM
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Because women are the most vocal of insecurity. Men in contrast usually opt to keep their concerns to themselves. It’s much harder to receive positive affirmation while complaining of loneliness as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 08:39 PM
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Easier to fake pleasure and orgasm when you know it comes with benefits
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 07:29 PM
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Nah that’s how women decide how well you’ll take care of them, meaning they are thinking way further ahead in the date than men are
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 07:26 PM
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It’s because women use groupthink more than men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 04:08 AM
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Because the summation of experience of an attractive human leads to more opportunity for happiness. We assume they’re better off and easier to be around as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 12:53 PM
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Dominance as a psychological factor is not clear based on physical presentation. Most women are more interested in identifying a handsome dominant man than an average. They think the confidence charismatic average looking man is faking it. Because that’s what they do as average looking women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 03:57 PM
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“You wake up a man, how long would it take you to have casual sex and how would you go about it” is literally the prompt lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 07:09 AM
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Your response is of no concern to the question because you don’t have casual interest in sex. The idea of the question is to see if women understand the difference in access to casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 06:59 AM
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Depends on the appearance of their new found man body
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 06:57 AM
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Women give healthier men a chance when they need to
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 07:52 PM
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Online dating culture makes average men suffer because they are undesirable and average women have inflated self image because of the amount of men willing to try them. People are more informed and society does not encourage being sexually assertive unless you are attractive. Men are less capable of handling rejection because they can instead exist in lifestyles that deny the opportunity - gaming, porn, online fantasies
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 07:13 PM
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when women draw this conclusion it’s because they see being attractive, assertive and confident as interchangeable traits. They cannot understand how someone who lacks one can have the others, because it doesn’t align with their experiences. Then as they get older the more they experience this the more they open up to it. But early on in life you can’t really win with confidence if the women you aim for are stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 09:22 PM
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Lol a bisexual man does not mean a cheater or a gay leaning individual. It means a man who can find sexual attraction to both men and women. Your pov is good to understand tho because it’s probably the main argument women would make for not dating bi men. The smart ones will simply never tell you, though. And be ready for it bc he’ll have the traits you desire
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 09:16 PM
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So you’re feeling physical arousal but it doesn’t channel towards human interaction?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:36 PM
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Your second part about asexual nature makes no sense to me. If they feel the desire to fuck they are attracted to other humans and seek sex with them. That’s not asexual. Your description better indicates sexual incompatibility than asexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:19 PM
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Height is biologically attractive for men to have. It allows you to be seen easier, it allows you to control an environment better, and it literally signals to the women that you’re capable of creating a similar outcome for their children. It is not inherently negative to be short, but it’s inherently beneficial to be tall. I say all of this as a 5’6 man who isn’t even concerned with his height. I simply understand the benefit. The taller you are (up to a point; no one benefits from being an abs…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 09:34 PM
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The amount of trashy women is equivalent to the amount of loser men, so yes, I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:38 PM
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You seem jealous that he is ok with being used, but you shouldn’t be because he’s using her too
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:52 PM
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Lmfao it’s alright I’m unbothered by being sized up. I don’t enjoy being small but it’s not so unpleasant that I desire to bulk.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:22 AM
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They just don’t have the life experiences to gauge strength expression. I’m sure 90% of women think they could handle me in a fight because I’m 5’6 120 pounds
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 08:53 PM
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It’s easier for women to get sex so they don’t focus on it, it’s harder for men to get sex so they focus on it. Both genders want relationships, stability, compromise and love. Both genders have been brainwashed into thinking that equality can exist naturally, and the consequence is that now many people aren’t dating or fucking at all. Agency and Ego > Logic and understanding
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 08:43 PM
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So you want a man who’s as good as or better than you. But then to find an equal you must understand your worth. This is where there is a disconnect. The concept isn’t to explain an entire perspective of human nature but the largest observable branch of condition. This is currently the largest observable category that I can confidently place women in. They are observant enough to logically prioritize their needs and desires but not enough to see where this places men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 08:34 PM
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You can’t expect women to just agree with you even though you’re right. Women do not see the world as black and white, they want to think they exist in a constant grey.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 07:48 PM
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You’re replying to a woman who is making comments on existing as a short man. I don’t think we need to place value on her perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:42 PM
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So is it compensation because he’s short or compensation because he views shortness as a disadvantage? Because I’m seeing a lot of overlap in how women use make up
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:40 PM
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Women use height as a way of conveying how high value they believe themselves to be. No rational woman would turn away a handsome 5”11 who’s got his shit together to be with a 6’2 guy who doesn’t. Height requirement in profile shud be a left swipe always, because odds are she’s a dumb bitch anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 11:24 PM
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☕️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:11 PM
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Ahahahhaa, no dude you dont get it, men don’t like being approached! Trust me, I’m a woman who has approached 3 men to subtly flirt and 1 man I even asked out! He turned me down though so now I’m assuming all men are like that because my assumptions are never questioned or challenged because I’m a high functioning autistic savant woman
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:05 PM
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If a man is deemed attractive, it is unlikely he is going to choose a partner who doesn’t also have attractive traits. These can range from physical to intellectual, to psychological. Usually a man is deemed attractive for a mixture of these characteristics where as a woman is valued more heavily for physical traits, while still portraying value through the others characteristics as well. Obviously this doesn’t account for the intricate patterns of presentation and assessment on case by case bas…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 04:58 AM
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It’s true, if he had other candidates of equal value, he could have favor towards them in some way… there are so many things that determine what we value
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 12:49 AM
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Lol I am not a fan of self sabotage
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 09:14 PM
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71% of Americans are overweight and 40% are obese. Bunch of fat fuckers. Considering they can’t stop eating I’d wager they also can’t be honest about sex
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:49 PM
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People assume that passion and power are pleasurable in timely fashion… because it can be. It also can be selfish and dangerous. Toxicity is the control and display of power as an objective and power can be achieved without toxicity
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 10:49 PM
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If a man does x that’s bad, it’s less bad when a woman does it, culturally speaking (NA) Stealing - justified for child Raping - a man is stronger Cheating - SO was mistreating them Abusing a partner - he’s whipped Sexual harassment- she was just flirting
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:55 PM
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Because consequences for women are not the same as they are for men. In my experience, men are more willing to be wrong because they have been proven wrong more often. Women take less chances and this reduction of risk means increase in safety, comfort with psychological conditions and a certain indirect fortification of insecurities. Men are directly insecure, where as women are indirect. When a person is not logically given variables to reduce their appreciation for perception, they are less l…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:41 PM
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Consequences are different depending on gender. That and culture of how boys and girls are raised and perceived is about as honest an explanation as you’ll get. It’s far too complicated to reduce variables and pinpoint the reasoning, but my take is that women are not as logically encouraged to be honest or take the blame even when they are to blame. Where as being a male and choosing to avoid blame is immediately destructive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:22 PM
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I think if it makes no sense then you’re an entitled bitch, but that’s probably a symptom of your surrounding enabling you. I’d imagine you have a boyfriend who pays for everything and intends to coddle your future. Hope it works out for ya!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 03:46 PM
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Sounds like a bunch of reasons for you to rationalize your approach to men. Good luck embracing that life permanently lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 02:31 PM
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not to shit on what you’ve written… but the evidence is the existence of ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:37 PM
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Sounds like a man problem then, and to be fair a wonderfully sound explanation for why 3-5 exists anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 06:34 PM
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But the 6-7 guy won’t give her a shot, because she’s a 4. She will naturally be humbled or turn into a femcel like so many do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 06:27 PM
1

Are you interested in the women you’re labeling 3-5? Probably not, so why are you even including them in the equation?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 06:15 PM
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Oh it’s clearly happening in a similar quantity to men. This age of image has become technologic toxicity and a ton of people are either going to be humbled and change or they will suffer. I love it because I’m a risk taking man who has been turned down dozens of times throughout life, and I feel nothing but pride for it. I took chances others don’t and seeing them seethe about it online gives me a justice boner
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:33 PM
0

SIMPS make it easier if you ask me. They’re not confident or charismatic so you stick out more if you are
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:27 PM
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So let them? Hopefully all the women who are undesirable humans will lose out on continued relevance biologically, same as all the shit men, so we get a better future for our offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:25 PM
2

But only trauma when it’s a woman despising all men? I think women just don’t understand the trauma of never being desired. Men throw themselves at women because they are the prize. The prize gets first say in what they want and then she will reduce her options until she finds her equal. Men have a way harder time doing this unless they have reason to be confident, like desirability
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 04:54 PM
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Yeah, justifying authentic interest and lowering your guard with someone because they’re genuine and selective and appreciate you is so immoral! Ugh what a self centered ass! I would never try to find my equal because then I’d have to be vulnerable and approachable, an actual candidate for sharing a future. Disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 07:42 PM
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Which is silly because being attractive doesn’t necessarily mean you’re meeting compatible people. As a man, if I meet a woman who is willingly alone (not by design) I am immediately intrigued and consider that a viable condition for a life partner. Being selective isn’t always elitist, it’s also a symptom of confidence. Who shits on confidence best? Insecure settlers
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 07:24 PM
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A lot of people are too emotionally stunted to tell the difference and therefore use sex as a method to become intimate. It’s biologically the most intimate form of connection, basically forcing participants to at least consider developing feelings for each other. In fact much of civilization is held together by the desire to sexually bond. There’s just a lot more to it that many people cannot sustain because as you’ve stated, being biologically intimate isn’t the same thing as being emotionally…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 04:26 PM
1

I’m sure your boyfriend will be faultless and you’ll experience passionate unrelenting love that forms the perfect unison. You definitely seem like someone that will come to 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:16 PM
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No he’s saying that being emotionally attracted to someone for who they are is not the same as lusting for someone’s biology. Are you confused on the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:09 PM
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I mean.. my girls tits sag a fair amount but I still get hard fondling them. Can’t have it all always
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:50 AM
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Women can’t face being acknowledged for their insecurities like saggy boobs but can have opinions of mens bodies like the dicks and other genetically predetermined features
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:23 AM
3

Oh lord have mercy on this OP
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 09:28 PM
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It’s not an excuse to recognize your dad was culturally influenced and likely devaluated in his mental health struggle. I’m sorry you were so close to the bitterness. My Dad was also an unchanged angry man
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 09:13 PM
1

Sounds ironic
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 09:08 PM
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Yeah because many men are convinced by our culture (at least in the US) that seeking mental health guidance makes you a sissy, a wimp, a whiner, a baby, etc. Men are mistreated by each other constantly. Vulnerability is not the norm, so people choose a modern version that fits the fucked up paradigm It also doesn’t help that men are often lead to believe that showing weakness around women is unattractive. There’s a huge difference between showing weakness and being weak. Men largely don’t unders…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:40 PM
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Ok I had to google manosphere to understand fully. I think the last part is an interesting discussion. To me the manosphere is a place for guys to vent their frustrations, knowing they’ll appear to a target minority that equally frequents the same forums. But these frustrations are not due to gender equality, they are due to inadequate sources of concern for men’s mental health. It’s pretty evident that men are the more dangerous sex in society and men tend to “nurture their wounds” in isolation…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:26 PM
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Do you consider your husband an outlier in the “manosphere”? I ask because I see your comments consistently in this subreddit and find myself confused on what compels you to maintain. Perhaps you’re like me and have a fair amount of free-time at work?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:17 PM
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Because you are of the same opinion as me and somehow read otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:03 PM
2

All I think rn is that you are an emotional illiterate
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:15 PM
1

My first partner was a relationship that I realized wasn’t what I wanted. We were 19 and attending college. She was more sexually active than me and willing to be only with me but her past was alarming because it didn’t align with what she told me. Also, there were red flags I chose to ignore to lose my virginity. Had sex maybe 5-7 times Second partner was a fling, we both had no intent of dating but after hooking up I was super into her and she cut it off. Had sex once Third partner was a commi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:27 PM
2

Well most of us can’t, and of those of us who can, much of it is incorrectly used. Just as statistics can be shaped to suit a narrative, peoples understanding of quantity and quality are skewed. Hell, many people I’ve met are too insecure to even correctly remember their reality
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:12 PM
1

Same can be said of many jobs men are funneled into. Also, there are many jobs men and women are equally valued in that I’ve omitted
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:08 PM
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No one rational would care about that but also still recognizes it can exist. It is my reality to be low n high f. Imo, men who are high value do not care how many times a woman has been fucked, but instead how many partners lead to that number. Idk how many times I can explain this. If a man is bothered by sexual experience he’s insecure of his own lacking experience. Tell me this, are you basing reddit responses to a ratio of reality? The majority of redditors are people who do not engage in r…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:02 PM
1

I’ve compiled a list of jobs that are currently either favoring women in pay or favoring women in job allocation opportunity: nursing, psychologist, teaching, sex work, entertainment streaming, personal healthcare assistant and home healthcare, veterinarian, writing/editors, kinesiology, chemical engineering, advertising sales agent, paralegal assistant, modeling, internet influencing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:58 PM
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Sounds like a pointless visualization to rationalize being incapable of forming bonds due to trauma
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:50 PM
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Because it doesn’t literally reshape the pussy lol, it’s never been about the amount of thrusts into a vagina. It’s about who she is willing to let thrust into her vagina. My n count is 6, my f count is in the thousands. I’d be happy with a similar number for my girl, because it shows she fucked the same man for a prolonged time rather than many men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:46 PM
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You are probably in the minority with those specifics in your search for a partner, and if you’re not, there are certainly way less women willing to speak up about it. I hold no ill will towards the timing of sex in relationships. I’ve been with 6 girls in my life and all of them we fucked within a few dates of seeing each other. Emotional maturity can lead to quickly realizing compatibility and sex is another part of that experience. Mostly I find it gross when women have sex with men, realize …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:36 PM
1

No, society enables women to do it constantly without even realizing and I find it disgusting. Here are examples Woman chooses dangerous partner multiple times, ends up getting beat. Even though she has a history of abuse from partners in relationships, the woman will be praised for speaking up about her abuser and continue the cycle. Woman thinks men are pigs because she keeps dating men who just want to pay to fuck her, like a hooker. Only the difference is rather than being a literal hooker, …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:26 PM
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Agree with everything you said other than the viability of learning a woman’s n count. It has use because it tells you how willing she is to engage in sexual encounters before meeting you and based on how she replies it gives you room to make psychological assessments of what she may do while you’re trying to approach her as a life partner. If there is no desire to be long term partners, it doesn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:19 PM
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You can tell if a woman is using you for emotional/sexual comfort or if she’s seriously considering you as her 1 to 1 partner, based on her desires and choices when you aren’t around. If she’s low contact, puts in low effort and shows little interest in you as a person, she’s probably emotionally stunted and using sex to justify her projections of her surrounding and self. My strongest realization is that women are just as emotionally insecure as men, but rather than compartmentalize or recogniz…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:14 PM
1

Satisfaction with self is pretty solid, though I do agree they go hand in hand often
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:05 PM
2

I’m simply trying to provide you my analysis of why women choose to avoid explaining their sexual history. It’s not like I want it to be this way, nor do I favor women lying for personal benefit. If you read my comment history you’d see that I don’t really favor women’s perspective in the dating market. It made me avoid sexual intimacy for years after my break up. Unfortunately people who decide everyone is either their ally or their enemy actually help to maintain this disproportional desire to…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:00 PM
2

Ok, so what is your argument for why the majority of high n count women decide to be that way? I’d argue that a large increase in sexual partners has a negative impact on mental health because it displays that emotional compatibility and longevity are overlooked in favor of short term satisfaction. In favor of idealistic opportunity rather than rational understanding of intent
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:53 PM
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Women don’t enjoy being psychologically labeled based on their choices with sexual history because direct correlations do not account for historic conditions on a personal level. The problem is that women have more opportunity to have casual sex, have less interest in pleasing themselves by masturbating, and are inherently disadvantaged by being alone. Being a man and being alone is easier because it’s safer and society is more accepting of men being alone. Women are expected to find a proper pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:51 PM
3

Men ask about n count to get a gauge for how a woman approaches opportunity. It gives you an idea of her mental health. Women who fuck many men have a lower standard for how they see their own worth, and that directly would correlate with the relationships integrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:44 PM
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I think you’re ignoring a lot of work women have favor in, and it’s proven that income disparity has shrank dramatically in the last decade. Wouldn’t surprise me if it even equalizes by say 2030, because women are given opportunity increase with each advancement in policy and tech.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:40 PM
0

Sounds like she still benefited more than the manipulator here ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:36 PM
1

So your wife enjoys that you have interests outside of her and takes pride in becoming your priority in a timely sexy fashion? Sounds like you’re benefiting from a structure you can’t even understand, while it’s being described.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 03:28 PM
1

What’s the point of it being aimed at women when they all say they don’t do it? Lmao these are objective analytical options
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 06:09 PM
1

This is illogical. If a man has few options he is less likely to risk ruining the chance he’s built towards with his SO. If a woman has many options, she is less likely to stick with the man she has chosen. You don’t make sense and you didn’t even answer my question
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:37 AM
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Sounds like a backhanded compliment to me. I’d just assume jealousy and move on with raw dogging my baby maker
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 08:52 AM
1

Lol why would it be from lack of options? There are many reasons to stay faithful to a girl without it being lack of options. You trippin dog
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 03:07 AM
1

Your idea of love is legit but it’s also something most people never get to experience mutually. It’s not an easy thing to love and be loved in a way that is largely inseparable. That is the kind of love you’re describing. There’s a reason most marriages end in divorce, and most relationships end in break ups. Compatibility beyond the physical form, in all ways beings positive, is extremely hard to find. People grow and change at different rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 02:56 AM
1

Statistics is easy to use and hard to use properly. It’s like how we gauge unemployment. Useless numbers
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 02:39 PM
5

But it’s so nice to buy women whatever they want and be their watering can. It’s so nice!! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 04:28 PM
2

That’s why I love Reddit, it gives an idea of the zaniness of the average mind and all the while teaches you red flags
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 02:14 PM
4

No it will only help him feel like he has purpose in this discussion beyond the initial presentation
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:29 PM
14

So you can make your point but he can’t? Why even have an opinion then? Why expect your audience to value you more than you value them? You sound like the women you dislike
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:28 PM
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It’s weird that you feel comfortable speaking for most redditors. As a guy that’s also about 5’6”, and is very aware of height advantage, yes it’s possible to be naive and avoid the harsh reality but that has never benefited anyone of any height. Rational short men exist who understand implications and read response patterns in real time to gauge dating viability
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:25 PM
1

This is the part of perception I personally have to deal with that becomes such a hassle. Why are people assuming because a man is short he is just a beta bank account? Short men are disadvantaged and either become excellent in social settings or resort to some sort of talent expression. Unfortunately average men do not understand
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 07:15 AM
1

Stop talking back, we’re in a verbal porno rn
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:07 PM
1

Shut up girl it’s pussy slapping time
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:05 PM
6

Why do you think they’re born women? It never stops amazing me that women expect men to make first moves constantly while they are terrified of rejection. Talk about a lapse in judgement; and then they assume we ignore the subtle flirting/insinuations from body language or wording, but do not register our ignorance or the possibility that we weren’t aware (same as the lack of awareness required to make that assessment)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:04 PM
0

You wanted someone who brought less than you, so I think it makes sense to want someone equal to you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:02 PM
2

What about the other stuff like social media and tv? Onlyfans would be a typical girly hobby but only 1/10 girls would actually find success and they’re aware of that. I’m very certain women enjoy the product that is mens horniness and make a game of it for profit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:45 PM
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Did you even read what I wrote about the typical “women” associated “hobbies”? They’re just as empty as what you’ve listed. Plus I stated all people are hypocrites, but thanks for making my point lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:35 PM
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Any man worth his potential wouldn’t be reducing his partner to housecleaner, regardless of income disparity. House work should be distributed in an efficient and logical way that suits the couple, anything else is consequential to one of the people. Plus, taking care of the home has a lot of redundancies that aren’t accounted for because they’re.. you know.. not handled by women generally.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:32 PM
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That last sentence kind of encapsulates how women think and further reveals to me that people are hypocrites at heart. Women are just less aware of it. Tell me how mens interests shape them any differently than women in incompatibility? Your examples have clear examples in women; salt crystals, onlyfans, zodiac signs, social media addiction and tv program reliance. Most people of the tech age are just boring consumers, gender held equally
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:28 PM
3

Well I’m straight so men don’t really satisfy my desire for appreciation. It’s a nice gesture to be complimented regardless of sexual orientation, though
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:01 PM
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I dont identify with any of those thoughts or logic. Rape is an extremely impactful experience that affects a person both physically and mentally, being unwanted is an extremely impactful experience that affects a person both physically and mentally. To be honest if that doesn’t make sense to you, you’re selective in what is worth empathizing with and become a non factor in my own understanding and interest in the topics
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:15 PM
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Unsurprisingly your sentiment on attraction and shared intimacy is shared! Men can also identify with a more emotional/intimate sexual experience. My point was about the topic of the post, not the OP’s easiness
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:12 PM
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Well said. I’ve considered how men do not have empathy for women who aren’t attractive to them, it’s gotta be hard to be a woman who feels inadequate because she’s not super pretty
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:03 PM
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People who say they would be ok with being invisible to attraction are ungrateful and inconsiderate. Living a life without being attractive in some way is not enjoyable. People sustain each other, whether it’s through sex or social validation. Being able to attract opportunity is so vital
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 02:59 PM
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It’s more so not having someone to be affectionate with. The playful/affectionate happenings are very sustaining for quality of life. Being without touch as a man becomes quite a burden
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 01:48 AM
3

Lol he’s tripping I’m a guy who’s been with 5 women and haven’t been with a girl in years. It sucks but it’s not that bad. Masturbating is easy and efficient
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 01:34 AM
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Isn’t he more making a philosophical observation of how biology accommodates power leverage for women? I’d say the counterargument to his findings are that ugly women have even less to work with than ugly men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:58 PM
1

You really are, it’s like the perfect symbiosis of incel and femcel
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:57 PM
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What happens when you get a girl pregnant while using a condom, and she goes behind your back and carry’s the child? Child support for a child you didn’t philosophically support There’s no moral argument against allowing abortion or allowing a man equal say in the creation of a human
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:42 PM
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Older women who are still alone are likely alone for reasons that do not apply to the young woman. There are tons of reasons for incompatibility with women just as there are for men. Plus when was the last time someone gave you advice because they had gone through what you’re experiencing and they end up with an entirely different anecdote? The reality of life is that people form opinions from inconclusive evidence, it’s simply a bias that cannot be avoided. The sooner a person accepts their bia…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 04:33 PM
2

Good thing it also helps filter for the men. If a woman doesn’t wanna be with you because you won’t dominate her, she’s a selective hoe anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 03:13 PM
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