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Nobody cares if an 80 year old wants to date a 30 yr old. We care about 18yr olds because we remember how naive and immature we were then.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 05:55 AM
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I used a sperm donor and I choose by the most well written essay. The site said he was 5'10", i didn't even see any photos besides a baby picture. But i wanted an intelligent baby. My lesbian couple friends choose by the best looking. Different people select for different qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:35 PM
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Who ever thought women didn't care about looks? You can see even in elementary school that their crushes are on the cute and popular guys. The thing is that personality can ruin attraction in even very good looking men. That's what women mean by personality being more important. But if you don't meet the minimum look threshold women will never like you even if you have a great personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:45 AM
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Maybe men as a whole age better? But POC people age better than white people. So POC women age better than white men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:45 AM
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Men don't follow that rule lol. I have several mental illnesses I'm very open about and it has never deterred any man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:07 AM
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I do need to work on it, it's become such a habit now especially since it was always rewarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:01 AM
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No I'm straight up toxic now. I will cuss them out and we will have screaming matches now. Then I'll calm down and apologize and be extra sweet. I went too far in the other direction, but people love it for whatever reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:55 AM
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I used to be a really nice woman and men were meh about me. I became more of a bitch and they were obsessed. Same with women (I'm bi) nobody was obsessed with me when I was nice and shy. People love highs and lows.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:35 AM
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I've been assaulted by men too many times. They don't fight fair. I was teamed up against 3 guys against me and I called them out and said at least let's do this one against one and they laughed in my face. Most men don't stop at no, they at a minimum try to convince you. I guess you don't know because they don't show this side to other men only their intimate partners. If you are a good guy you assume others are like you and that's just false. Every woman I said no to respected it immediately (…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:25 AM
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More women in the population
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 01:43 AM
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There are more single women than men in New York so men are the ones with options. It just goes to show whoever has more options tends to be pickier.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 01:42 AM
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It's definitely an excuse and they should communicate it with their partner and not just look for outside validation. It's just from the men I know they cheated because an opportunity presented itself and the women went looking for a connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:26 AM
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Pretty much any man who has the opportunity to cheat and thinks he won't get caught will go for it. Women cheat too but usually more of affairs as opposed to one night stands. They claim to do it because some emotional aspect was missing from their relationships. Just my experience of knowing male and female cheaters.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:17 AM
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I think it's rare for men to be predators but the ones that are are repeat offenders. So it's probably few men racking up crazy numbers
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 12:56 AM
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I always had the man pay for the first date but then I would pay for the second date.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 12:24 AM
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It's an example of something that occurs in a relationship that men would not be ok with going without. Like women wouldn't be with a broke guy that she had to pay for everything for. It doesn't mean I don't enjoy sex or that I think women don't enjoy sex. Most women wouldn't be ok with a sexless relationship either. Men often don't care about how much money their partner contributes (the example OP gave for women not actually caring about men) so I gave an example of something men care about. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 09:56 PM
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Do you think men love women for just being women? How many men would stay in a relationship with zero sex? All relationships have transactions. That doesn't mean people don't love their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 10:59 AM
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Men often don't take polite rejections seriously and will try to convince women. When I was married I showed them my ring and said sorry I'm already married and a guy insisted it was fake and wouldn't leave me alone until I gave him two hugs and agreed to meet him at the same coffee shop for a date the next day. I've never been back to that coffee shop and I was a regular before then. I'm still polite when I turn men down but sometimes men push boundaries if they think the woman is nice and they…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:25 PM
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Actually women's type is fun and thrilling. Looks are secondary, but most less attractive guys are too insecure with their own looks to act this carefree and playful.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 09:17 PM
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Did she mean she thought you were slow or child like? I'm also autistic and everyone I've met says I'm childlike but nobody had a problem having sex with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:27 AM
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My best friend is a fat guy and he will only date skinny girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:07 PM
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Passport bros are fine. It's the sex tourists that women hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 10:43 PM
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Yes on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 08:54 PM
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There's a new trend of women going Europe and sleeping with the hottest guys while ovulating and then coming back pregnant and raising the kid on their own
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 08:33 PM
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The person whose job pays more gets to keep their job duh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:18 PM
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By more emotional they mean more empathetic. Anger is an emotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:17 PM
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Just start putting yourself into social situations. The more the better. If your looks are already good you just need to meet more people and work on your social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:24 PM
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You would rather just give up? Invest in yourself the way Op described and you will get women along the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:22 PM
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I hate the fully bald head look, but balding with a buzz cut is very attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 02:50 AM
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My list Similar taste in music and film so we can enjoy them together. Attractive to me Good communicating skills: Has friends so I'm not his only supporter person No Drugs (minimal weed or alcohol ok) Sexually compatible
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:09 PM
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Except for the him only talking about himself, this seems like a healthy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 05:57 AM
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But the 5'1" woman needs a tall man if she doesn't want to have short kids, if anything it's more understandable for her to want a tall guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 10:59 PM
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The issue is that ND guys want to date the best looking ND girls. I'm in an autism group and several women complain about wanting to date and meet men and non of the guys are interested. Every group several guys will DM me and some of them are interesting and some are boring. Some are good looking and some aren't. So even if a ND woman wants to date an ND man if she's cute she still has a ton of options and will pick the Chad of ND men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:56 PM
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Not if the girl is a nerd herself. Then they enjoy the hobbies together.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:00 PM
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Like all the men calling Margot Robbie mid?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 10:47 PM
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I exclusively date scrawny guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 10:43 PM
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I like short men. I've dated several. I've only dated one really tall guy and I don't even know how tall he was because I never asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 10:38 PM
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I'm an identical twin and so many people have a twin fetish. Guys really think that they can date both of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 10:29 PM
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Women should never approach. If they do the men categorize them as less attractive than him. Women want to be with someone who was harder to get because he will elevate her value based on the chase.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 07:20 PM
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Nailed it!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 12:34 AM
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Everyone wants that. I said I would choose the excitement over being with a boring guy which was the option Op said women should settle for.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 12:27 AM
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A plain boring partner isn't better than being a side piece tho. Women would rather have excitement that leads to heartbreak than be bored with a partner. That's why a lot of women are choosing to be single instead of settling. Why be in a relationship with someone when you are bored when you are together? Just masturbate and hang out with friends you have fun with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 10:34 PM
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This should be everyone's take. Why people are getting super defensive of either side is wild to me. They weren't compatible end of.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:02 PM
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It depends on the guy. My ex that the relationship ended when he was 24 hasn't dated since and has to pay for sex now. He was a lot more experienced than me when we met I had only had sex with one guy before him and he said he had 7 partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:49 PM
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One thing I want to point out about my ex who hasn't dated since me several years ago. He was so negative. Almost every comment he made was judgmental or complaining about something. All of my friends hated him (guys and girls both). He had a cute face, but nobody wants to be around someone so harsh.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 04:58 PM
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Why do people think women are being used for sex? Women enjoy sex too and enjoy it more with a hot partner. When women are younger they want to have fun. (I wasn't like this because I'm more demisexual ) but I had friends like this. The using was mutual.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 10:50 PM
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Jonah Hill the guy that this entire thread is about. And telling someone not to cheat isn't a boundary. If you are in a monogamous relationship it's already known by both parties that the expectation is no sex outside of the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:23 AM
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Absolutely I do. I even assume hot guys that ask me out are pulling a prank on me and always say no so I'm not embarrassed. I only date people who I have already befriended so I know that they aren't going to be mean to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:20 AM
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I've already explained it. Boundaries and for yourself not ways to control others
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 02:33 AM
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If they want to cheat they will. Telling them no to is meaningless. Your boundary should be to leave if they do or don't date men you don't trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 01:46 AM
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Boundaries are for yourself you can't set boundaries for other people that's controlling. He is dumb for wanting to date someone and then change everything about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 12:11 AM
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Most women can not even tell men's heights unless it is near their own. I dated a guy who was much taller than me but I don't know his height because I never asked and he never said. He looked like a foot taller than me, but I'm pretty sure if he had been 6'5" he would have mentioned it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 04:09 AM
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I don't see any humans as better or worse unless they are racist or have some glaringly obvious moral failings. I can admire someone for being more skilled at something than me, but I will have areas in my life that I am more skilled at than them, neither person is better. And I certainly would not want to be around someone who talked down to me. I'm not sure I really understand what you mean by better?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 01:52 AM
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I come to this specific sub to be entertained. Love the fighting honestly and I thought it was what the spirit of this sub was about.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 01:41 AM
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I always laugh when men complain that women want a man taller than herself, the majority of men are taller for most women so why is that an issue with them. I'm 5'5" and dated a guy that was 5'5" and someone was like well you wouldn't date someone shorter than you like it was such a gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 01:38 AM
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Agree. I've never been impressed by athletes, I've been asked out by a few college athletes and turned them down. A talented artist? I would probably throw myself at them not gonna lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:27 PM
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It said 46 perfect or men were raped by women, that's still mostly men. And where is the study that says men are assaulted by women? I didn't see one. It shows that women were perpetrators where they have positions of power which makes sense because child molesters/rapists seek jobs that put them in contact with people they can victimize. And more should be done when women have raped men, they should get just as much jail time as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 11:15 PM
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Actually research shows that men are more dishonest than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 10:49 PM
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Most men who are raped and assaulted are victims of other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 10:28 PM
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Men that go for joint custody usually get it. Most men really don't want custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 10:21 PM
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I have autism myself and your self awareness is like a lot of the autistic people I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 04:36 PM
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Get over yourself. This attitude lacks self awareness. Are you on the autism spectrum by chance? If you really have this problem it is easily solved by wearing a mask and sunglasses. It seems like you just wanted to come here to brag about yourself. I've had men try to pay me to be their sugar babies and been scouted for porn. I don't think any higher of myself because of it, your attitude is embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 05:35 AM
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Every girls dream guy is the bad guy with a heart of gold. They think he will change for them and that they are special and initially the relationship is thrilling. Then they realize he is just a shitty person and not the Hollywood stereotype of a bad boy. They learn their lesson and avoid them in the future. Sometimes the only way to learn a lesson is to get burned.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 01:14 AM
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They could learn it if they tried but they would rather play the victim because it would take actual work to learn. I'm an autistic woman and I didn't learn to mask well until my 30s. You need to see how people treat you after you behave in certain ways or say certain things. Then reevaluate every time what you could have done differently to get a more positive result. I practice things I'm interested in talking about and write them down and then come back to them the next day and reword everyth…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 09:39 AM
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Autistic boys get excuses made for them for not being able to mask as well, for being misogynistic and tone deaf. Autistic women aren't allowed to behave that way and are only somewhat able to mask better because we were forced to by always being bullied for our behavior and it being blamed on our character and not our autism. Boys get away with so many more behavioral issues that women are never allowed. And we get bullied by both women and men all of our lives, we learn each time we get bullie…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 09:30 AM
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Women with autism get raped at such a high rate. It really depends on what you consider easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 09:20 AM
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A lot of girls didn't get diagnosed as kids and only found out they have autism as adults. I didn't get diagnosed until I was 33 even though I didn't even talk in school until the 3rd grade.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 10:34 PM
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Unattractive men have always treated me worse than hot guys. Maybe they hate themselves and are pushing their hate onto me not to deal. Who knows, but I'm done giving them a chance when more attractive men treat me better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 10:11 PM
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Men go bald and almost nobody looks good bald. Men lose their looks faster than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 01:35 AM
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And men don't have issues with it, they will date ND women. I have several severe mental illnesses and no man ever cared even slightly. If anything they liked me more and thought it was cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 01:33 AM
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That Ok Cupid data is so old and you forgot to mention the part where the women were more likely to reply to men that they thought were below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 01:08 AM
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It also depends on how they approach. If they like my band shirt or something and come over to mention that or like my tattoos and compliment those and ask if there are stories behind them I'm way more receptive to that then just coming up to me and asking me out. I've actually immediately went out with a not very cute guy who did that. We went to my car to listen to the music and drove to a coffee shop and hung out right then because he engaged me in a way I felt was genuine. We don't want to f…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 05:23 PM
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My advice is to go for awkward girls if you are awkward. They will be more forgiving of awkwardness and they probably aren't doing well socially either and would like someone to be interested/approach them.
/r/ExRedPill23/06/23 12:11 AM
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I know it's because they find them more attractive, but women also find younger men more attractive. The reason they don't go for younger men is maturity and stability but they still find younger men the most attractive by looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 02:52 PM
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He was 5'5" rented a room in someone else's house and was a pizza delivery guy. He looked like Paul Dano who is one of my celebrity crushes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 02:15 AM
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I am the exception, my boyfriend cried in my arms and I brushed his hair with my fingers. That was in the first two months of dating and we dated for 2 years. Neither one of us ever mentioned it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 02:00 AM
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We don't hate them we don't even think about them. Men are the ones that hate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 01:55 AM
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I was in a relationship for 2 years and was mute 95 percent of the time because I have selective mutism and didn't feel safe to talk around him because he criticized everything and everyone. He is an incel now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 10:53 PM
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Tattoo artist. Women are very attractive to tattoo artists, I've been friends with some not cute ones and they still got so many girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:34 PM
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The men that just spew vitriol about women are only shooting themselves in the foot. I try to help them, but they don't actually want help they just want to go on their misogynistic rants. I even agree with some of their points like that attractiveness is just as important to both men and women and that a lot of average men do get shafted because a lot of average women only go for men out of their league. I tell them to work on their social skills and find a specific look and hobbies that are in…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 04:45 AM
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I'm ok with it because I think they both get something out of it. The guy gets his ideal girl and the girl gets the benefit of more money and status. I don't see it as exploiting anyone because they both know what they are getting into and what they get out of it. Men should be aware that these women aren't as obedient and submissive as they think they will be and there can be a lot of jealousy and drama. My guy friend is a passport bro and I've heard about all of the drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:45 PM
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He made the claim first that they treat them the same so he needs to show his proof then.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 01:53 PM
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Do you have any source that they treat them the same? I've witnessed men humiliating women they thought were ugly many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 05:26 AM
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No they don't they purposely try to be mean or humiliate unattractive women. The same way women try to humiliate unattractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 04:04 AM
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I feel like these people don't have any friends of the opposite gender. I've had a lot of guy friends and I have compassion for them and try to help them get women ( if I was single I would even date them because they're great).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:50 AM
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It wasn't a would you questioner it was an experiment with actual hot people going up and propositioning people. They had no idea they were in an experiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 10:42 PM
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The same amount of men and women age like wine though. Men seem to believe that it's only possible for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:52 PM
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The thing most men don't realize is that unattractive guys are just as mean and horrible as hot guys and in my experience hot guys have even been nicer because they aren't bitter. If they are going to treat you the same wouldn't anyone choose the hotter person?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:40 PM
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A lot of women actually have been victims at the hands of men and aren't playing anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 11:53 PM
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You think sugar babies don't marry their rich boyfriends? Of course they do, they are trying to secure their bag.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 07:29 AM
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It's funny you think sugar babies are loyal. The sleep with hot young men and talk shit about the old rich guy to them. If you have to pay for someone to be with you you can't expect loyalty.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 06:55 AM
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You are only taking about bodies and faces matter a lot more to woman than a mens body. Also 5'11" is tall so by your own metrics you would be desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 08:22 PM
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Not in my experience. Guys ask me to be their girlfriends on the first date every time and I don't hook up with anyone until we've been in a relationship for a while and I've ended every relationship I've ever been in.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 06:50 AM
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Not really in reality women are the gatekeepers to both sex and relationships. Only the top 1 % of men are gatekeepers to relationships. For average people women gatekeep both.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 06:28 AM
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Bitch please my ex boyfriend was the same height as me and ate 5 times as much food as me and we were both skinny. Women gain weight much easier than men and it takes much longer to lose it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 06:19 AM
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I got slut shamed in high school when I was a virgin and never even kissed anyone. The rumor was started by a guy I wouldn't have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 04:59 PM
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If you are attractive all you need to do is wear mascara and it takes less than a minute to apply.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 06:05 PM
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That's absolutely ridiculous and he shouldn't be allowed to practice law. False accusations are still rare though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 05:23 AM
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Most rape cases don't even go to trial, that doesn't mean those men aren't rapists it just means there wasn't enough proof. False accusations are rare and heinous and I think someone who falsely accuses another person should have to do jail time themselves (though this would probably also be hard to prove). Rape is actually underreported because people don't want to go through the traumatic process when they know chances for justice are slim.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 05:03 AM
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It's actually not more visually cued for men. Women are very visual. Look at any woman's apartment, grooming habits etc. they like their spaces to be visually appealing and put way more effort into making them that way than men. There is no science behind men being more visual. I do agree higher testosterone makes men focus more on sex than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 08:48 PM
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I like their personalities and am still attracted to them. They're attractive to me, just not the hottest I could have been with. Looks aren't the most important thing, once someone meets the threshold for attractiveness personally, loyalty, shared interests and sexual compatibility are more important. I look for all of these things and don't just date random people.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 04:42 PM
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No but I'm unable to work and require a lot of care. I also initiate sex every day, it's called trade offs. Nobody in a relationship goes in expecting nothing. Everyone tries to get whatever needs they have met.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 02:42 PM
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Whenever really hot guys asked me out I said No and always dated men less attractive than me because I have several mental illnesses and I think that knocks me way down in value. If they think I'm the cutest they could get they were more likely to take care of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 05:37 AM
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I had a boyfriend that a lot of people thought was ugly but he was amazing in bed. (I also didn't think he was ugly but everyone told me I could do way better). Maybe women who see an attractive woman with a less attractive man think "he must be good in bed"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 10:36 PM
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Single parents should date other single parents and should not cohabitate in my opinion. I'm a mom and this is what I would do. Why would I try to make someone else raise my kids? It's not their responsibility, it's mine. And I wouldn't want to add anyone to the household because that's not fair to the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 06:01 PM
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Is love, companionship, celebrating each other triumphs and being supportive during the struggles meaningless to you? If you marry someone who you truly love and respect marriage makes life much happier and easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 06:02 PM
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Do these guys not have eyes. Look who dates in middle school and high school. It's the attractive and popular guys. The people who don't notice this are being willfully blind.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 09:10 PM
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What are your hobbies?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 04:26 AM
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The self improvement aspect will help you with women, but everything else is toxic trash that will just turn you bitter. I've had a few men offer to be my sugar daddies and I declined all of them. I dated a guy who was a pizza delivery guy that was the same height as me (I'm 5'5") he was skinny not muscular and he lived in a trailer on some land. According to redpill I never would have been in a relationship with him and would have jumped at the chance to be a sugar baby. I date people that I ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 03:32 AM
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It's not the same. Women have to go thru the traumatic experience of being pregnant and giving birth. It wrecks their bodies. Not comparable at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 11:32 PM
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You can't even get an abortion if you are a child that has been raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 10:44 PM
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Outlawing abortion is pretty oppressive. Women can have advantages in some areas while still being oppressed in others.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 10:17 PM
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Well I am married now to someone I'm very attracted to and we still have sex all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 10:11 PM
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I said in a relationship with. I've never had casual sex. In a relationship means they were my boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 05:01 PM
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Every man I have been in a relationship with I been extremely attracted to and we had sex at least one a day. Why do you think women aren't attracted to the men they are in relationships with? Such a strange take.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 01:15 AM
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A lot of things are genetic, I have had one zit in my life and I don't use any special face wash regimen. I just wash my face in the shower. Since I have never worn foundation because I don't need it I also look much younger than people who wear makeup. For the negatives I have several severe mental illnesses. Some things can be tweaked, but a lot is just because of your genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:10 PM
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I never said looks don't matter I clearly stated that they do. I said they don't have to be Chad they just have to meet a baseline and for most women that is slightly above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 06:25 AM
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A boyfriend cried in my arms and I held him and brushed his hair with my hand. Women who see it as weak are emotionally stunted.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 03:44 AM
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Is this supposed to be some sort of revelation? It's almost universal for both genders to prefer a slim and fit partner over someone obese. Everyone already knows this. Men here claim looks are the most important factor to women and it's just false. Women need a base level of attractiveness and then personality matters a lot more. Just because looks and not being a single mom are the only factors that matters to men doesn't mean women feel the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:22 AM
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Keep Lying to Yourself. It depends on personality, culture, upbringing, trauma, socialization and many other factors. No gender is superior.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:07 AM
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My opinion is that Paul Dano and Anna Kendrick are just the epitome of average. They are both slim so maybe I am underrating them? Am I wrong or do people agree with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 11:12 PM
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Wrong. I just need to have the last word. It's a personality flaw of mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 03:50 AM
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What you are saying is meaningless because that's how the world is now. What is your point about them possibly wanting them in a different world? It doesn't change that they are no longer marrying and trying for children.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 03:33 AM
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How does wanting a kid but refusing to have one mean anything other than they don't want kids? I'm talking about having kids with a husband and that lifestyle which they are choosing not to pursue.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 02:52 AM
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Women are grossed out by men who they consider ugly hitting on them and they make fun of you to their friends later. Being delusional about your looks isn't a good look on anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 02:37 AM
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Lol I have children. The majority of women I know stopped wanting children during the pandemic because the world is a dumpster fire and climate change is accelerating. Nobody wants to raise kids in this environment even if they would have wanted them before.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 01:43 AM
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Most women don't want to get married anymore. The newer generation isn't ok with being expected to do most of the housework, they have their own money and a lot don't want kids. They date for companionship not marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:26 PM
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and back then a lot of people used MySpace and Facebook as a dating app. People have always been sliding into people they find hot DMs. Met several boyfriends that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:48 PM
1

I've never said it. I've always said men have to reach a certain level of attractiveness and once that is reached personality becomes more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 11:16 PM
1

False. I was a teen in the 90s. Nobody said looks weren't important. Johnny Depp and Leonardo DiCaprio were huge heart throbs and they were very attractive. No teenagers had crushes on unattractive guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:30 PM
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It's not accurate though. I don't understand why you believe it was ever that way when it wasn't. Unless you are talking about when women couldn't vote or make their own money and were forced to settle in which case they were likely lying to themselves as well to feel better about their marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:20 PM
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That's not what a misogynist is and women as a whole never said looks don't matter, maybe they said it to an unattractive friend because they didn't want him to be hopeless. I don't know why you seem to think this was ever pervasive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:05 PM
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What do you mean that women don't love men in the same way? In my experience women are more loving than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:16 PM
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What if she ghosts him after sex because he sucked in bed? Was he pump and dumped?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 05:36 PM
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I think with more masculine hobbies women do like men who are into the same things. Like a woman that loves football would love to date a man that loves football. Or a woman that loves punk music would love to date a man who loves punk. They aren't attracted to men who share their feminine hobbies because most women aren't attracted to feminine men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:31 PM
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If a man tries to be friends first it makes me feel that he isn't that attracted to me. The same is true if he doesn't physically touch me on the first date (hugs, hand holding, kissing not trying to go straight to sex). Once I feel like they are in the friend category it's more difficult for me to find them attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:23 PM
1

Abusive men are very good at hiding their abuse until they have you moved in and dependent on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 04:19 PM
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The younger ones would. Maybe the older ones are stuck in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 01:41 AM
1

Most bisexual women prefer bisexual men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 01:29 AM
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Every bisexual woman love's feminine men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 12:57 AM
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It's not true at all, a ton of women prefer feminine men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 11:44 PM
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You must look more masculine and are trying to cope. A ton of women old and young like feminine features on men. Women go crazy for Matthew grey gubler and a ton of them think he is hotter than Shamar Moore who is very masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 11:41 PM
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They say that they aren't cute and are too short as well. I usually date guys around 5'5" which is also my height and feminine guys. I'm bi so I prefer feminine features in men.
/r/ExRedPill01/05/23 11:59 PM
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My friends always hated whoever I dated so it's false for me.
/r/ExRedPill01/05/23 05:13 AM
1

My thoughts are that both men and women are trying to get the most attractive person they can that also shares some interests and communication comes naturally. Being more dominant is attractive to women and being more submissive is attractive to men (for most people). But nobody wants to be with someone who is taking advantage of them.
/r/ExRedPill21/04/23 05:01 AM
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If they paid for something on a date I would pay for something else to show interest. Like if he paid for movie tickets I would buy popcorn. And sneak in drink's because they are way overpriced. One guy's favorite soda was Jones soda so I always had it stocked for him in my fridge. If women expect all that they aren't worth your time. But I know men don't always have a ton of women they can date so they settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:11 PM
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When women couldn't own property or make money unless it was a menial job. Times have changed. And a lot of men do want companionship and not just sex, even those that initially just want sex eventually want more when they get bored by sex alone. The problem is that people don't go online to praise the genuine men and women, but people will go online to complain about the problematic ones so people think they are more prevalent than they are in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:43 PM
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Look at the statistics most foreign women initiate divorce after they have their green card, it’s even higher than typical divorce rates
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 07:44 AM
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Actually it’s 73 not close to 80.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 01:25 AM
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40 is old and a ton of men are balding at 40. You said men aren’t attracted to women aging giving age markers and when I do the same it’s body shaming? Ask anyone under 40 and test will tell you 40 is old.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 01:08 AM
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Women aren’t attracted to old men either. Men are most attractive at 25. Nobody is really attracted to bald men, they have to have something else going for them like fame. Men who keep their hair bad stay in shape look better than women their age, but these men are rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:56 AM
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And the women abroad are into you for money and a green card and make fun of you behind your back. Most of those marriages end in divorce after the woman gets her green card.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:48 AM
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I feel bad for men that are lonely and want a relationship. Guys that just want sex should just see sex workers if they can’t get sex based on their looks and personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 01:48 AM
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Honestly if a guy doesn’t make even a small move on the first date I wouldn’t see him again. It would feel like he just wasn’t attracted to me enough. If I agree to a first date I’m already open to kissing the person. Women want me to be super attracted to them the same way that men want that from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:05 PM
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Her life sounds like a dream to you, but to most women it sounds like a nightmare. Very few women would want this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:51 AM
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And some people gain weight because of antipsychotics that both slow down your metabolism and make you feel famished about half an hour after taking them. I’m in the normal weight category but only because I don’t eat all day because wether I have eaten or not the meds always cause a binge.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:06 AM
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My overweight guy friend will only date skinny women and was offended when I called him a hypocrite. He said it was the same as any other type of physical preference, that you don’t have to have it yourself to want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:52 PM
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Tom Hardy is a 10
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 02:49 AM
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Tom Hardy is a 10. Paul Dano is a 5. But I would date either. Most people have a range of who they find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 02:46 AM
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This was several years ago before you had to swipe and anyone could message you, but I got 1,000 messages from guys in one day. It was so overwhelming that I couldn’t find someone I liked because I didn’t read past the first 50 messages.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 08:29 PM
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Nobody has to get married. In my own personal experience I’ve had sex with my partners every day even after 10 years. I’m bisexual so maybe that gives me a higher sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 04:47 AM
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It also depends on where you live in the United States. Flint Michigan still doesn’t have clean water.
/r/ExRedPill21/03/23 03:00 AM
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Men are more likely to be a victim of a random crime, not crime in general. Walking around may be more dangerous for them, but women are more likely to be victims from people they know.
/r/ExRedPill21/03/23 02:56 AM
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Black women are also more likely to die in childbirth.
/r/ExRedPill21/03/23 02:51 AM
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They don’t have to have a period and bleed every month for days. They are painful, messy, and extremely unpleasant. There is nothing enjoyable about them. I throw up from pain every first day of my cycle. I would gladly be a man if I never had to menstruate again.
/r/ExRedPill21/03/23 02:46 AM
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I’m attracted to short guys and they asked me out. I always wore converse around them so I would be as short as I could for them. I’m not even tall I’m 5’5”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 04:19 AM
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Men who are insecure about their height would never date someone taller than them. Short guys always as me my height. I’ve never asked a man his height. I mostly date short guys and any that were shorter than me had a huge complex about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 04:02 AM
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I’ve never used a sex toy with a woman and I’m bisexual. I have used one with a man. Women are better at pleasing other women because they have the same parts and know what they enjoy and try that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 03:51 AM
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Those women just aren’t attracted to the guys they starfish for. Sex with them isn’t exciting. Have sex with someone who is attracted to you and see the difference for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 01:39 AM
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Men are socialized to think they are always right. Not surprising that they think their experiences are universal. Men tend to see woman as a monolith while most women know both men and women differ as individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 01:34 AM
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I’m in a normal weight range now and look a little chubby because of my small bones, but much happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:33 AM
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I think a lot of men are like you. Yes they want sex but they also want a best friend to do things with and have fun with outside of the bedroom too. Which is exactly what I want as a woman. I’m bisexual and from my experiences dating both, men and women are a lot more similar than they are different. Who wouldn’t want kinky sex with a best friend? It’s the dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:02 AM
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For the health is thinly veiled fat phobia. Nobody cared about my health when I was anorexic they always told me how good I looked even though I was starving. I have small bones so I carried it well, but was still obviously sick. My actual doctor told me I was his healthiest patient and everyone else was fat even though I was there for having the flu so how healthy was I really?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 07:18 PM
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As a teenager I did let people bully me into not dating guys I liked because they were shorter than me or fat. As an adult though I don’t care. Friends have called my partners ugly and said I can do way better. It really made me think less of them, not the person i liked as an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 07:12 PM
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Men have cried in my arms and I brushed the hair out of their faces and talked in a soothing voice to calm them. I think we know different men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:56 AM
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I have first hand experiences with women’s delusions of their attractiveness level. I’ve had straight girl friends tell me my boyfriends ugly when they are clearly more attractive than them! I’m attracted to both genders I know my guys have been hotter than them but they actually think they are the more attractive ones and my boyfriends were ugly! I date guys in my league and less attractive girls will hit on me and claim I should be with them because they are hotter than the guys when they clea…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 02:45 AM
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That sounds like an extremely unhealthy dynamic and not the norm. It must depend on the circles you associate with. My friends talk to me about everything and me them. This included guy friends they complain about everything to me because I don’t judge and give them my perspective as a woman. Just yesterday I told my autistic guy friend that he needs to touch a date on the first date or she will lose interest because it will make her feel like you aren’t attracted to her if you don’t even try an…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 01:17 AM
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You were making good points until you said women call the cops on someone for whistling. The cops would not show up for that they would laugh at those women. They didn’t even show up to talk to me about a stalker that left me death threat voice messages that I played for them. He is in prison now but not until over a decade later and because he stalked many women and made an online video about threatening a massacre. And if women are accusing you of being a pedophile for existing in a public spa…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 01:05 AM
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I always order the second cheapest thing on the menu so that don’t think you are being too nice but it doesn’t cost them a fortune. And I’ll buy them a small snack or other small something.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 10:49 PM
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Started out strong and went completely off the rails. This right here is exactly how women end up with men with a bunch of red flags who appeared nice and like a good guy at first.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 10:45 PM
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Killing a spider and unclogging the toilet take seconds. Laundering and putting away that underwear on the floor is definitely the raw deal of the two. Most women use their friends as emotional support and men use their partners because they don’t want to feel embarrassed in front of their guy friends. And guy friends usually do things together and don’t sit around and talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 10:41 PM
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Wtf I’m a twin and would never want to have sex with my twin involved or even have sex with someone who my twin had sex with before eww.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:56 AM
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It seems weird that the woman who replied to you said she was demisexual. I’m demisexual and the exact opposite. I only date one person a time no matter what. After going on a first date with someone I want to see where it goes and won’t date anyone else at the same time. There will always be a ton of men to date. I focus my attention on one at a time because otherwise I feel like I would not be able to attach to them at all. If I don’t feel like it could go anywhere I just won’t go on a second …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:33 PM
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I’ve always only focused on one person at a time. It just feels borderline cheating to date multiple people to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:25 PM
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Well it fuckin works.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:23 PM
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We actually have to try to restrain ourselves to not text too much when we are obsessed. And when we get a reply it’s a huge hit of dopamine. If it takes a few minutes for him to reply it’s agonizing because we think what if he doesn’t like us anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 08:23 PM
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I think both men and women want to have more sex when they have positive reinforcement. It strokes my ego to go down on someone and make them moan and have an extreme reaction and I want to do it more. If someone doesn’t seem like they are enjoying sex with me I will never want to have it with them again. Just my thoughts as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 08:19 PM
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Shy women will blush and look down a lot and trip over words when they are attracted to men. I do this with men I’m extremely attracted to and they always chuckle and can totally tell. They seem to get a kick out of it. They will even try to make you even more flustered by flirting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 08:09 PM
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At least take her to Denny’s are order off the cheap 4/6/8 dollar menu. Booth seating options are more conducive for an intimate feeling than a McDonald’s where people are coming in and out and it’s more chaotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:22 PM
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I think men should pay for the main activity and women should pay for the snacks or something that is less expensive but still shows some level of reciprocity. This shows that the women is actually interested in the guy and not just bored and looking for free entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:20 PM
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It doesn’t teach you that, but it does teach you how to be more confident when talking to women and how they react to things you say so you can readjust to be more likable. On the escalating front I would tell you to always make physical contact on the first date, even if it’s just holding hands. And be aware that consent of a small physical thing means she is likely open to more physicality and slowly escalate until she gives a sign that she is not comfortable. Either by saying no or also havin…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:15 PM
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It’s hyperbole. Obviously some people do literally everything but it’s not the majority like he claims and is he not making a broad statement about everyone? I didn’t see him say some people he generalized everyone. As the chose better part was tongue and cheek about the whole point of the thread. It’s literally the main point of Op’s post.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:45 AM
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Befriended women who you aren’t attracted to and talk to them to practice your social skills if it works out you made a friend. Social skills can be learned but you need to practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:22 AM
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Inexperienced women want an orgasm to. I was with a virgin when I was a virgin and the sex was bad and his social skills weren’t good. Experienced men are better in bed and a lot have better social skills because life has taught them what works and what doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:14 AM
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It depends on which law you are talking about. Rapists get off a lot of the time even though they are guilty just because their isn’t enough proof and they don’t have to prove that they are innocent the women have to prove guilt. It’s true men get harsher sentences for other crimes. Women have better social privileges and men have better financial privileges. It’s not black and white.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:06 AM
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I have no problem with you discussing your own personal experience but you are generalizing all women/men when it actually a fraction. I would love to see your sources to prove me wrong and am willing to change my opinion if presented with proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:47 AM
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Which society? Not the one we live in. You should get help to overcome your paranoia and biases against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:00 AM
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Nobody says that. If people you know do it you are choosing the wrong people to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 01:40 AM
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This is exactly how it works for women too. The men here just have a victim mentality and don’t want to make any changes to improve their social skills. They would rather just blame women for being shallow and tell each other they’re right. They could easily date if they were open to advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:37 AM
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I think short men are hot and have dated men shorter than me because they had attractive faces. So you’ve already been proven wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:17 AM
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He was hot just looking by photos, he loses his attractiveness after realizing what a horrible misogynist he was.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:08 AM
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Average and unattractive women are invisible to them so they never notice average couples. They only notice hot girls who usually have hot boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:05 AM
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Social skills play a bigger role. An average guy with good social skills becomes a 10. A 10 who is socially inept loses a lot of that attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:01 AM
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Women are given way more opportunities to cheat. If men had the same opportunities they would cheat more.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:38 PM
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Yes! at first when I meet people I always am a little weary that they are settling up a joke at my expense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 03:56 PM
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I’m demisexual and have a ton of sex when I’m in love with someone. It just means you need an emotional connection before you become attracted, not that you have a low libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 06:59 AM
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I have every issue of the 80s run of the new mutants including the first appearance of Deadpool. I bought them one by one at a half camera store half comic book store, where I used to buy my equipment for my darkroom for photography. I also still have my vintage collection of 80s comic book shirts I used to buy off eBay for under $10 that people are selling for over $100 each now. I do mixed media art with my drawings and collage from comics. I used to sit by myself and draw during lunch at scho…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 04:18 AM
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Are you white? because colorism is a thing and darker skin women are obsessed with having lighter skin kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 02:50 AM
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I’m 37 and destitute and men throw themselves at me. I’m extremely submissive and people think I’m a lot younger than I am because I used to be agoraphobic and never saw the sun. It’s weird. I have great style tho so people assume I’m cool which has a status value to both men and women. Little do people know I was not popular when young and was actually bullied. People see an image and project their ideas of that image onto you. If you are a man I highly recommend emulating men that women think …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:23 AM
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I have a friend who has done this and the women are beautiful, but he says that they are really boring and extremely clingy and possessive. So if looks are what matter most to you it can work well, but it may not be the dream relationship they think it will be. Also they are all trying to get pregnant ASAP.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:13 AM
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Women took over those roles during WW2 and could do it again if they had to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 11:09 PM
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A lot of men have poor social skills. Nobody wants to be around someone awkward because we feel their energy and it gives us anxiety. Most men are attractive physically, but if they are anxious I don’t want to be around them. We want to be around someone who we feel happy with. How someone makes you feel is more important than their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:46 AM
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Guys being blatantly misogynistic here and then doubling down when they are proven wrong by their own quotes will never not be funny to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 01:07 AM
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The more time I spend on this subreddit the more my respect for men goes down. You guys really think you are worth all of this entitlement? No wonder women don’t want to date average men anymore. You guys sound exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 12:33 AM
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You sound like a drag. And kinda dumb. You just keep repeating the same thing over and not even thinking critically or adding anything new. You would get on any women’s nerves after about 10 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 12:12 AM
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But then why can’t men lower their standards? Why should women be the ones to lower their standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 06:24 PM
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Depends on the woman. I had a rich, attractive boyfriend but he was so boring that I broke up with him for a fun pizza delivery guy. I’ve had multiple offers to be a sugar baby. As long as I have a place to live and a bit of spending money I’m good. I want to have a fun life not a wealthy one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:42 PM
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I’m a bi woman and I think most men are more attractive than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 07:24 AM
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That’s my exact age range as a woman, 5 years difference either direction. You have similar life experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 05:02 AM
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Attractive women are the gatekeepers to both
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 09:22 PM
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How did you ever believe that women didn’t care about looks? Did you not notice the guys girls were dating in jr high and high school? The hot guys always had girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 12:27 AM
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Still citing that old study as if it’s relevant today, you sound boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 12:19 AM
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I’ve never worn makeup because I just don’t want to. Men always think I am wearing makeup but I just have good skin and chapstick. I think makeup ages women and washes them out so the more they use it the less naturally attractive they become.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:04 AM
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Have you tried for long enough? Some women take a long time to warm up but most people have given up before then. I’m the only person to ever give my partner an orgasm but it takes a while every time for her to warm up. Some people just take longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:55 AM
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He probably was shocked and hadn’t processed it yet. This is why SA is under reported for both genders when it happens people are overwhelmed and don’t know what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 09:56 PM
1

Stop with the bullshit most actual rapists aren’t even punished. I’m glad this guy is suing he should sue both the woman and the company.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 09:52 PM
1

It was Alison Wonderland someone in the rave scene. The stalker was Redacted apparently he also threatened a massacre. I don’t know if I’m allowed to post his name.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:11 AM
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Men do not get arrested for looking at woman. I had a male stalker who threatened to murder me on my answering machine and the cops still wouldn’t grant me a restraining order because he’s young you don’t want to ruin his life. He is in jail now for stalking a celebrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:26 AM
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The thing is that maybe some women don’t admit is that the most important quality is how the guy makes her feel and if he is exciting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 05:57 PM
3

How do you know they are worse than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 05:23 PM
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Abusers and cheaters are initially charming and nice. The abuse starts once they feel you are too invested to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:17 AM
27

They actually get insulted when unattractive men hit on them because it makes them feel like they must be uglier than they thought they were if he thought he had a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:16 AM
3

I dress like a tomboy and this has happened to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:13 AM
1

Paul Dano for both looks and what I’ve seen of his personality through interviews. He’s also incredibly talented which I find really attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 04:09 AM
27

We accept the love we think we deserve. If your parents destroyed your self esteem as a child you seek it out as an adult because it’s comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 02:19 AM
2

I don’t think attractiveness is considered when joining a group, they just want people who have actually read the book and want to discuss it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:57 AM
2

Book clubs are mostly female so it might actually be advantageous to be the only male.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:29 AM
2

Why are men happier when married and women are happier when single if marriage is so unfair to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:15 AM
1

I kinda feel bad for Bill, everyone knew Kennedy was a huge slut and nobody cared.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 03:54 AM
3

If she only wants sex every 3 months you are a bad lover. If you gave her orgasms she would want sex every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 03:51 AM
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Book stores, the library, book groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:44 AM
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Not everyone. A bunch of old guys tried to get me to be their sugar baby and I wasn’t interested. I dated a rich guy my own age, but he was boring so I broke up with him. Good looks with a good personality wins with me every time. I have a different than normal taste in looks. Paul Dano is super hot to me. The first movie I saw with him I thought omg he’s so cute!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:42 AM
4

You don’t even see that her logical answers are true. You are still arguing off of your emotions and narrow mindedness. Ironic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 01:09 AM
2

You are the one being biased In this entire post. I’ve seen both genders do it but men use the “what about men” or “if the genders were reversed men would crucified” a lot more. And do you not have differently gendered friends? I’m more likely to believe my friend (man or woman) about what they complain about in their relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 01:02 AM
1

I got divorced and said you keep your stuff and I’ll keep mine. I was the one with the lower income. Not everyone is out to screw people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 03:41 AM
1

You should just turn it into an open relationship. It’s not fair that you are the only one allowed to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 03:40 AM
13

It doesn’t matter if the woman is nice or rude, some rejected men will always lash out in violence. I’ve always been nice to men I’ve rejected and have even given them hugs that they asked for. I’ve still been attacked by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 10:47 PM
16

I was attacked for saying no when a guy asked me out and I wasn’t even rude. What world do you live in where zero men lash out when their ego is hurt?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 10:37 PM
2

I’m shy and I used to just sit next to people I had a crush on and never interact with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 07:37 AM
37

No I would consider it emotional cheating because he has a “personal” relationship with the creator. It’s not the same as lusting after a porn star who will never know you exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 03:47 AM
1

As long as nobody is hurt by it and nobody was taken advantage of I would not care. I can understand being in a dry spell and craving sexual intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:16 AM
2

I had a boyfriend who would go down on me but we never had full sex and he wouldn’t let me go down on him either. It eats at your self esteem. I ended up cheating on him with my ex. The boyfriend was rich and my ex was poor, but good sex is more important to me than money. If there’s no sex it isn’t a marriage it’s a roommate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:02 AM
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Marriage is worse for women than men. The only reason for either to marry is a more stable home life for kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:06 AM
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As an autistic woman, women are fake as hell. They will act like your friend and then talk a bunch of shit about you behind your back.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 05:49 AM
1

My first serious relationship was with a bisexual man. It just didn’t matter to me. I thought I was straight the entirety of our relationship. Didn’t realize I was also bi until a few years later.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 04:49 AM
5

I didn’t say that men couldn’t. They are still the ones that ask for relationships and women decide if they want that or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 01:26 AM
5

It’s what men tell themselves, but women are the gate keepers of relationships, at least if they go for someone in their own league.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 01:04 AM
1

My ring was a 60’s toy machine plastic one. It was perfect. I collect vintage toys.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 04:41 AM
2

Some people don’t get resentful at all even though they have been through shit, because they realize men and women aren’t monoliths and judge people individually. I’ve never judged anyone based on past experiences with someone else, that’s asinine.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 01:12 AM
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Autistic women are preyed on by abusive people though. I’m bi and autistic and that’s why I say people because it hasn’t just been men. We are way too gullible. I take everything everyone says to me at face value and it’s dangerous because it’s harder to spot manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 12:57 AM
1

I still want to do all this and I’m in my 30s. My older parter doesn’t though and yells at me if I have two white claws at home. We haven’t made out since we got married. I still drink and be silly with my friends staying up late and talking/listening to music. No making out though because I’m not a cheater. My personality has been the same since I was 24. The older partner is usually the one dragging the younger down.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 12:34 AM
1

No personality seems better than the one you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 12:05 AM
2

My ex boyfriend lied about his count by doubling it, but it made me think less of him because I had only had one partner. When he finally told me I was like, um I almost broke up with you because I thought 12 partners was high, so dumb to lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 04:57 AM
8

Sounds like she wanted to isolate you so she could abuse you. That’s rough, I’m sorry you had to go through that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 03:53 AM
16

You should have gotten that marriage annulled. This is a psycho response from her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 03:02 AM
1

Women want sex as much as men, if there’s no sex in a relationship its a friendship not a couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 03:01 AM
2

We still know. We know if it feels good or it doesn’t. When I lost my virginity I was like sex sucks and ended the relationship because I didn’t want to experience that again. My next boyfriend was great in bed. He seemed pretty happy that I had only had sex one time before him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 12:52 AM
1

It is racist if you aren’t attracted to any people from a certain race. There are gorgeous people of all races. If you can’t even find one attractive then yeah you seem racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 08:06 PM
1

I guess I didn’t consider that. I was only going by my own experience of crying when I’m upset or someone is yelling at me. I’ve never cried about consequences of my own actions. What you described is manipulative, thanks for pointing that out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 08:51 AM
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Because he claimed I was lying about it. And I wasn’t. I have never lied about n count or anything. I’m an open book to my partners and for someone to just assume I’m lying is offensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 06:52 AM
1

When I told my ex what I weighed (which at the time was 98lbs) he didn’t believe me and made me get on a scale. It showed 98lbs and he was shocked. I didn’t realize that that was not an ok thing for him to do at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:04 AM
0

Might want to work on that personality if you don’t have Chads looks, your social skills are lacking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 01:31 AM
0

You said in many cases the sex is also veiled manipulation. You implied women use sex’s a a manipulation tactic and don’t have sex because they enjoy it. But I’m the dumb one?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 01:13 AM
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Also when men say women cry to manipulate them. We aren’t Oscar winners we can’t cry on cue. This is what my face does when I’m upset. I hate being seen crying.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:13 AM
0

You have no idea what you are talking about and can’t prove it. Everything you have stated about 40 year olds is wrong. You still haven’t answered my question about how old you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:07 AM
0

Then show me your sources that show the majority is how you say they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:14 PM
1

What if the woman wants to watch gay porn? I only watch gay porn because I don’t want to see women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 09:53 PM
1

If average Adam is good in bed he becomes Chad to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:08 PM
1

How old are you? I don’t think you know many 40 year olds. Plenty of them still get dates and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:01 PM
2

Because women don’t enjoy sex? This awful take is why women won’t date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:50 PM
1

Who do you consider stunning?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:18 PM
1

All models wear makeup and look pretty average without it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:18 PM
1

People say I look like a mix of Rooney Mara and Eva Green. I’m not going to post photos of myself because that would trigger my schizophrenia.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:16 PM
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People usually rate me an 8 and I’ve never worn makeup. I’m also extremely mentally ill and nobody has rejected me for it. One of my mental illnesses is schizophrenia and nobody has found that to be a deterrent.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:22 AM
7

And freeze is a common response to traumatic situations and people seem to think if the victim didn’t say No or try to fight it isn’t rape.
/r/ExRedPill18/11/22 12:25 AM
5

This is why I don’t wear any makeup. They either think I’m attractive or not. Never had any guy mention my bare face. I also don’t care about height, but if the guy is the same height as me I wear shoes as flat as I can because I don’t want him to feel insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:30 PM
1

Just wear boots it give you height without looking like you are trying to look taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:25 PM
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They care about youth and beauty, which for women those are status markers. They would leave their partners for someone younger and more beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 04:52 PM
2

I don’t really know, but I don’t expect things out of anyone. Everyone is going to do what they want. I wanted to help so I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 07:03 AM
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They would be like Leo DiCaprio. Trading in girlfriends once they became too old for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:10 AM
4

My friend hurt his neck and was in a neck brace. I went to his house to help him with his kid and washed all of his dishes. He hasn’t done anything similar for me, but I haven’t needed him to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:09 AM
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Men would be even more hypergamous than women if they had the options women have.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:20 AM
1

Well I prefer women to men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 06:37 PM
1

I doubt you would date a woman with a scraggly beard, if you wouldn’t you are just as shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 06:03 PM
3

He called himself a 4/10 to try to look humble. Even he knows he is more attractive than that. If he was a real 4 he would not be brave enough to try this experiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 01:33 AM
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I don’t know. My guy friend mentioned a reality star he thought was hot and I said I wasn’t attracted to her because she had way too much plastic surgery. He said he didn’t know she had plastic surgery. I found a pre surgery photo of her online and she had a completely different face.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:17 AM
2

The virgin I had sex with couldn’t figure out how to get it in. I was a virgin too so I didn’t know either. It was because I wasn’t wet enough because he did no foreplay. We just didn’t have sex because we couldn’t make it happen lol. My sister was a virgin when the guy she was with was also a virgin, they couldn’t figure it out either.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 03:49 AM
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I agree, virginity isn’t something to be ashamed of. I’ve never lied about how many people I’ve slept with though. It makes me feel kinda icky that people thought I was lying and was actually way more promiscuous. I have never even asked if someone is a virgin or not they usually tell me if they want me to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 03:43 AM
3

Paul Dano and Jonah Hill are crushes of mine so you’re not wrong. Guys have told me that an ugly actress they thought was pretty was Hellen bonhom Carter who I think is gorgeous. But I think men and women do have different ideas on what is attractive. I’ve never thought any of the Victoria secret models were attractive. Imogen Poots is the most gorgeous woman in the world to me, and most guys are like meh.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 11:23 PM
6

Go to a Mac store and ask them to do a natural make up look for you so you can see if you want to buy those products. They will do that for anyone. You don’t have to buy any makeup, you can just say you changed your mind and walk out. They don’t take the makeup off of you, you have to do that yourself regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 10:14 PM
6

Some men can’t even tell women have had plastic surgery even when it’s obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 10:11 PM
5

Michael Cera, Jessie Eisenberg, Paul Dano, Jonah Hill, are these not popular average looking actors?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 09:41 PM
2

This reminds me of when I was 15 and had a huge crush on this 20 something guy working at blockbuster. I went in every week asking him for recommendations. I was hoping he would ask me out lol. I actually watched every movie he recommended and liked the majority which fueled my crush even more. I married someone who I had a lot of the same movie and music tastes. We met in a fan group of a certain band. My advice would be join and engage in groups of your favorite bands, directors, actors, autho…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:06 PM
1

I’ve always deleted my account the same day and don’t date anyone from the apps because it was way too overwhelming. I’ve never had an app for more than one day. I just dated people who befriended me after too many crazy app experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:32 PM
12

When men cry in front of me I always hold them and brush their hair with my hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 02:31 AM
6

Similar style is a big influence for me. If they dress in a style I like it boosts their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 12:04 AM
1

If I’m single and don’t feel like dating I can go a few years without sex. If I’m in a relationship I want it at least once a day. I think I might be demisexual, but maybe not because I can still tell if I am attracted to people I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 11:39 PM
1

This guy is so stupid, I have schizophrenia and even in my delusional states I can comprehend things better than he can here. If this is what he brings to the table I can see how hiding it is the only way women would be comfortable taking to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 01:12 AM
6

My first abusive relationship with in 9th grade and the abuse ramped up after I broke up with him and made it clear we we’re never getting back together. It really traumatized me and I refused to befriend or even talk to anyone for the rest of high school I was terrified. I still have ptsd and freak out every time I see a teenager. It really changed my whole personality because I was fun and a tiny rebellious before then. Now I’m just scared a lot. Also I have an abuse kink now and want to be tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 12:40 AM
6

It was a scraggly neck beardy type beard and I would never be able to kiss someone or otherwise be intimidate if I was not attracted to them. He would have been attractive without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:38 PM
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I had a friend who wanted to date me. He would have been attractive if he had shaved off his blonde wizard beard, or at least cut it shorter and maintain it. I never want to be someone who tells someone what to do with their own body, so I never mentioned it but also never dated him. Maybe I should have been temporarily mean and told him why he couldn’t get a girlfriend and maybe changed his life for the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 05:57 PM
2

I mentioned that some younger people have more life experiences than sheltered older people and got attacked and was told the older person was always predatory. Even in cases where the younger person perused the older. (All of these hypothetical people were over 18).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 12:53 AM
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I’ve never had protection from men, but I have received abuse from boyfriends. And if you think I should have just left, I did and that was when the abuse/stalking escalated.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 02:24 AM
3

I barely even notice the body. Face is absolutely the most important trait to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 09:43 PM
5

What you described sounds exactly like a 5 and only if you have all of your hair. If you are bald you would be a 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 09:39 PM
1

The way you feel about the unattractive girls you date, is the way the pretty girls who reject you feel about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 09:34 PM
1

Most women that want relationships aren’t even on Old. They are meeting and getting to know people in person before deciding if they are interested or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 07:11 PM
3

I like kissing on the first date, otherwise it doesn’t feel like a date but just a hang out.
/r/ExRedPill22/10/22 03:34 AM
3

Because what he is saying for the approach that men take is way closer to how women approach it. I can’t tell if he is serious.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/22 12:09 AM
1

My ex was 5’5 and had acne scars on his face but he was hot to me, all of my friends said he was ugly and I could do much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 11:58 PM
8

Is that a joke ? Women want to be validated and chosen and accepted. Men would desire casual sex more than women if they could get it as easily as women do.
/r/ExRedPill20/10/22 07:39 PM
2

I guess not everyone is like me. I was wrong to assume every woman would react the way I did. I also have never ignored any guy trying to talk to me either though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 02:30 AM
2

It’s really a no win situation because both people have valid expectations,
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:34 PM
2

She sounds insufferable, you should block her and ignore her permanently.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:28 PM
2

If insulting is an Ok response to you, than you would rather she insult you when you approach or ignore you? You seem to think they are equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:21 PM
0

We don’t get aggressive with them. We feel hurt and avoid them in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:16 PM
4

Did you just call her or did you yell “you forgot your card”? If you just yelled with no reference to the card you probably scared her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:15 PM
5

He keeps saying the same thing over and over. You’ve answered it clearly multiple times and he thinks you are the dumb one. He won’t be helpful to strangers but has no problem arguing with people who have already given him a direct answer. He would rather be annoying than helpful, that’s his choice but most people would not want to be around that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:12 PM
2

They used to call those guys desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 04:58 AM
5

I dated a guy who was 5’5” and he was a delivery boy for papa johns. He also lived in a trailer. He was skinny and had a cute face.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 04:51 AM
1

I guess both destroy your self image. I went 3 years without touching or talking to anyone, and I was very depressed. The rape gave me Ptsd which is still going strong 13 years later.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 11:10 PM
1

Marriage benefits men more than women though. I would never try to scam anyone out of anything, but men are happier being married than women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 04:46 AM
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I thought this was common knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 02:45 AM
4

The point is you guys who think being ignored is worse than how women are treated now is laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 05:19 PM
2

I don’t blame her for cheating. This type of thing, no sexual advances in a relationship, destroys the person who desires it’s self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 05:25 AM
2

Have you been raped? I have so fuck off. I’m just saying being ignored by men would not be worse than being harassed by them all the time like it is now. And most men who are sexually assaulted are assaulted by other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 04:29 PM
2

It must be 1 in 4 are sexually assaulted then not raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:29 PM
3

1 in 4 women experience it in their life time. Nobody said every week it only takes once to traumatize you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:37 AM
1

Women get more and more attracted to people they spend time with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 11:43 PM
3

Better than getting ptsd from being raped like a lot women have now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 11:07 PM
1

No it’s because camping and survival skills are not only appealing to boys. Girls want to learn these things too and Boy Scouts is way cooler than the lame Girl Scouts. My friends and I used to ditch Girl Scouts and hang out in the boys bathroom where they would never look for us. I don’t know why men think only men are interested in male dominated hobbies. Women weren’t allowed to join before but there has always been an interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 05:59 PM
2

I wouldn’t date anyone with an n count of more than 10. People who sleep around have issues, man or woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:24 PM
0

Well when I was 25 everyone thought I was 14 because I was anorexic. Yesterday my neighbor said to say hi to my mom for them. I don’t live with my mom, I live with my partner who is 5 years older than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:42 AM
9

“They only go for hot guys like me”. Get over yourself OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 02:11 PM
35

Or she is upset that you are mocking someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:36 PM
3

Autistic girls had to learn how to adapt socially at a young age. Autistic men and boys were allowed to get away with more autistic behaviors as children.
/r/ExRedPill18/09/22 03:01 AM
1

I would only do anal if the guy let me peg him first.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 05:15 PM
47

I’ve never tried to date anyone I’ve rejected. If I didn’t like them then why would I like them now. There are plenty of new people to meet who I might actually like.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 01:53 AM
1

What I meant was hotness means nothing if I’m bored but I don’t think it came out right.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 01:50 AM
3

They have to be average or more than average for it to work, but as long as baseline is met then fun is the most important. I would rather date an average guy who is somewhat attractive and fun than a Chad who bored me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 01:18 AM
5

The most important factor is if we have fun together. If I’m bored I don’t care how hot you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 12:54 AM
10

That isn’t exclusive to boys/men, girls/women get abandoned and neglected by their parents too.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/22 10:20 PM
7

Nobody would survive if this were true. Even baby moneys chose cuddling a fake robotic mom over eating food. Babies die without human touch.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/22 09:54 PM
2

I can though and so can my guy friends. I’ve been friends with a few guys I’ve had crushes on who already had girlfriends. I’ve had plenty of close guy friends while I have been in relationships too. People can have crushes on people without acting on them. Also I’ve never been only attracted to the person I’m dating ever. Crushes are crushes. It’s not wrong to have other crushes while you are in a relationship, it’s only wrong if you act on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 08:46 PM
1

What advice does redpill give bi guys?
/r/ExRedPill16/09/22 01:19 AM
3

What about bi people?
/r/ExRedPill16/09/22 12:05 AM
7

It’s because they think they deserve someone with model good looks because of their status. If they tried dating someone in their league looks wise they wouldn’t be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 09:06 PM
3

You sound very sexually inexperienced. Most people want to date others who have similar n counts as them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 07:10 PM
14

Women don’t prefer fat men if it’s a beer belly. I am also bi and think it all depends on where the fat accumulates. A guy that just looks big but the fat is evenly distributed can look good, as can a woman that carries fat in her chest and ass. Either gender with a double chin looks worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 06:21 PM
7

The one girl obviously thought you were cute back then, so you probably were cute. Some women get off on humiliating people. It doesn’t even have to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 12:39 AM
9

I’m always polite, but I have known some women who are offended if they think you are below their league. They take it as an insult that you thought you had a chance. Sad but true.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:06 AM
1

Yes it’s guys that think they are hot enough not to put in any effort. They are hot, but I still would want at least a day getting to know them even if I were single.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:31 AM
2

I know that, I’m married to a Parisian. We would both rather live in Paris, but we live in California because she makes way more money here than she would be able to in Paris. At least we live by the beach.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 11:36 PM
1

I didn’t even say you were from the US. I said you likely have more money/better resources than they do. I read your comment, I know what Western Europe is, are you saying there isn’t wealth inequality in European countries?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:36 PM
4

She’s with you because you offer her a better future not because she thinks you are really hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:04 PM
7

European men throw themselves at me while I am in Europe too. I think all people are attracted to someone different because it’s more exciting than the people you are used to being around all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:03 PM
1

I’m bisexual so I get it. I have to do it too, or women will get bored with me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:29 AM
2

My friend offered to pay me to date him while I was dating our mutual friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:01 AM
3

Men know I’m married and ask me to have affairs with them. Men don’t care if women are taken at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:56 AM
2

Wow I’m more creative than I thought!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:31 AM
6

No schizophrenics don’t know their delusions are delusions. They feel 100% real. So even if this is a delusional I’ll never know.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:54 AM
0

I still look a way I find attractive. I’ve never followed any fashion trends I’ve always worn what I like. Girls used to not believe I had boyfriends because of my not attractive (to them style). They used to ask me if I dressed differently when I met or was around my boyfriends and looked incredulous when I said I was dressed like I always dress.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:13 AM
0

We want to feel a wide variety of emotions. The push and pull gets us hooked. If someone is shitty all the time we don’t want him, but if someone is nice all the time we don’t want him either.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 01:44 AM
16

What I don’t get is why they think they are nicer than the hot guy. Usually they are the same in niceness so why would any woman choose the less attractive guy.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/22 01:40 AM
1

My theory is that men like excitement and toxicity as much as women and that no matter how hot someone is, if they aren’t exciting enough men will break up with them for women that do give them that rush.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 01:02 AM
1

Yeah because you know how everyone thinks and feels. You lack awareness that women are not a monolith. You won’t get it and continue think you know everything, good luck with that mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:50 AM
3

You are delusional if you think looks don’t make a difference. I have multiple severe mental illnesses and act like it and nobody cares. If I didn’t look attractive nobody would put up with that shit
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:45 AM
-1

No I don’t. Men don’t even like my style, I wear fashionable mens clothes. I wear what I am attracted to not other people
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:28 AM
4

You sound pretentious as fuck, that doesn’t make you smarter. Most intelligent people speak as concisely as possible because they want everyone to be able to understand them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:08 AM
2

But I am constantly done up at home every day because it improves my mood. Nobody even sees me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:02 AM
2

No we feel pretty because we have eyes. We look in the mirror done up and plain and we see which is prettier.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 11:59 PM
5

A tattoo artist said I had to have my bra off for an upper back tattoo ( I was young it was my first tattoo) and I was sitting leaning forward the whole time exposed. Later when I looked at the tattoo I noticed it could have been done with just moving the arm straps and the bra didn’t even need to be removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 11:54 PM
1

No schizophrenic voices are heard outside the head not inside. (I have schizophrenia). And you know it’s coming from someone else not you and cause you extreme fear (what she said isn’t rational but it’s not schizophrenia). Unless that was just a joke?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 11:44 PM
3

We do it because we look better and it makes us feel more confident. I never go anywhere and I still do my hair every day. I don’t wear make up because I can’t stand the feeling of it, but I wear my contacts instead of glasses every day because I feel better about myself that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 11:39 PM
4

I started dating at 11 and didn’t go through puberty until 14. Kids have crushes. My first crush was when I was 8. It’s not about sex at that age. The most I wanted was kisses (not making out).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:44 PM
0

No because I’m bisexual and it’s usually younger women that want to date me. Let’s be real, everyone values youth and people lose their looks as they age. Every man and woman I’ve met over 27 claims they look young for their age. And it’s considered a compliment to tell people they look younger than they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 10:56 PM
3

I can’t believe you put Amy Schumer on the same league of the other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 09:05 PM
4

Every single person you listed is attractive apart from Anna Kendrick who is average.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 09:03 PM
-1

Giovanni Ribisi is hot not average.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 08:51 PM
6

Attractive men: Tom Hardy, Michael B. Jordan, Women: Imogine Poots, Hunter Schafer Average men: Jessie Eisenberg, Jonah Hill Women: Anna Kendrick, Gabby Hoffman
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 11:46 AM
3

I had 3 until I was 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 02:56 AM
2

Not true. My friend went on a dating site to meet Philippinas and they all wanted tall white men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:41 AM
1

I always think, what if someone did rape someone but they were black out drunk so they don’t remember it? That person would insist they were innocent and probably truly believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:14 AM
2

You are so delusional, false accusations are rare. If you keep attracting women who falsely accuse you, you need to work on yourself to see why you choose these kind of partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:04 PM
6

I got carded for a rated R movie when I was 35. You only need to be 17 to see a rated R movie. I’ve never worn makeup and have always had clear skin, maybe that was a factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 11:49 PM
6

Rachel True played a teenager in the craft when she was 27 and she actually looked young
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 11:36 PM
2

I’m a woman and as a girl I was told to never cry or show emotions. I’m too weak to fight, so I just disassociate when bad things are happening to me. It’s harmful for everyone to be stoic all the time. I hope you are able to show your emotions more now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 09:41 PM
2

That’s true. I also probably have a skewed view of average just like men do here. When I think of average I think of slim body and plain face. I think the actual average is overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 08:27 PM
1

I have really small bones, so weight shows really easily. My ring size is size 2, I think the average is size 7. You probably have more muscles than I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 08:25 PM
1

Money will only make you more attractive if you are already average. Unless you are a millionaire and gold diggers want you only for money and don’t even like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:49 PM
3

I’m disabled and I can’t really exercise, so yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 06:35 PM
11

I’m 5’5” and 130lbs and I’m curvy. I need to lose weight. I look best at 120.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:44 PM
2

Women want someone fun, nice is boring. If someone is constantly nice to me it seems like they think I’m superior to them instead of equals.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 02:58 AM
3

When I lost my virginity, my boyfriend answered the phone because his mom was a controlling psycho and the neighbor called her at work and said my car was in her driveway. He was saying no we aren’t having sex blah blah blah. He hung up we finished and then I left. As I was walking to my car she quickly parked hers next to it. I Ignored her and drove away and broke up with my boyfriend when I got home. We were both over 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 12:21 AM
1

He dresses like a nerd, put him in edgy clothes and he could be a bad boy IF he has the personality for it. It’s definitely a mixture of personality and image.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:12 AM
1

Criminals having Groupies is true for both genders. I used to be in a Facebook group called Leslie Van Houten is the sexiest killer girl and there were tons of guys in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:05 AM
3

It wasn’t his girlfriend, it was all of their mutual friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 09:00 PM
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No they aren’t. Men are protected by other men. There was a post today about a guy who was upset with his girlfriend for ruining a guys life when the guy was the one who ruined his own life. He thought ruining the guys reputation was worse than the sex crime the guy committed. Happens very often that men downplay and protect men who have done horrible things.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 06:56 PM
3

I think most intelligent men can be very funny, but you have to get the joke as they are as overtly funny, but more clever.
/r/ExRedPill28/08/22 05:49 AM
2

All of these men must have serious personality problems if they aren’t getting women who desire sex with them and think that women want to manipulate them. If you are fun women will want to have sex with you. All of you complaining sound neurotic and bitter, no wonder no women want to be with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 04:54 AM
1

I was able to have boyfriends for years when I struggled with selective mutism, multiple mental illnesses, autism and being poor. My parents were neglectful and didn’t let me date until I was 18. If my child doesn’t find someone I will feel as if I failed as a parent. I know everything not to do without doing a completely 180 and screwing them up in the opposite way. My parents were popular party kids who drank, had sex and did drugs as teenagers. They assumed I would be like them so I wasn’t al…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 02:33 AM
2

Does he interact with both guys and girls with his gaming? Does he know how to flirt? You are setting him up for failure and it’s sad because you are doing the best you can. This is a new generation, the old rules don’t apply anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 02:11 AM
10

I was the worst player on every team I played on and was blamed for every loss. I’m actually decent at sports when I’m alone, but I get stage fright.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 02:03 AM
4

Did you need your parents to tell you all this though? My parents were very neglectful to the point that I have a personality disorder yet you can definitely pick up from media that brushing and flossing your teeth are recommended for dental health. Dental problems can be genetic also, but brushing and flossing still help.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 01:54 AM
3

Marrying someone famous.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:58 PM
3

They also seem to think guys like you are assholes and people only like you for your looks. And that they have way better personalities. Some of the hottest guys I have met were also the kindest and most fun. They don’t have a clue.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:24 PM
2

Richard Cabral is the hottest guy in the world to me. Some rating system on Reddit rated him a 3 out of 10. The Chris guys look basic to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 11:40 PM
1

You’d be surprised. I’m bisexual and for a few years I thought I was a lesbian, men are even more persistent when they think you are a lesbian because they want to turn you straight for a huge ego boost. I’m a tomboy with hair to my shoulders idk about butch lesbians experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 01:08 AM
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That’s an insane jump. I’m bisexual and feel bad for both men and women. Empathy is not an either or. And I already said non toxic men, the men you referenced are at the extreme end of toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 08:47 PM
231

Nobody deserves sex or a partner for just a existing, but have some empathy for men who aren’t toxic and do the best that they can to enhance their looks and still can’t get a date. That has to be soul crushing to just feel like your best still isn’t good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 07:43 PM
3

Carrying yourself with confidence and like you respect yourself while also being humble is what I like, not sure about other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 03:35 PM
5

I’ve made out with people I wasn’t attracted to at all because they tried to kiss me and I didn’t want to be rude. I have very poor boundaries and feel absolutely terrible about causing people pain or embarrassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 03:22 PM
4

Why would they keep a relationship if a red flag comes out later in the relationship? There are.valid reasons for break ups that don’t reflect badly on the person who ends it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 05:24 AM
9

How is more than 5 sleeping around at 30. If they have been dating since they were 15 they could have over a year long relationship with each person they had sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 05:21 AM
1

This is how you end up a 40 year old virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 05:18 AM
3

Definitely for me. I can’t even be on top for sex it feels so uncomfortable for me. I want to be completely dominated. But it doesn’t have to be by a physical strong person. The most dominant person I’ve been with was 5’5” and 110lbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 03:59 AM
1

My male friends have all told me that they think about sex whenever they see any slightly attractive women. They imagine fucking her. Even if they really don’t want to think about it. A few have told me this, maybe they were outliers.
/r/ExRedPill21/08/22 03:48 AM
3

Art or drama class, there’s a higher ratio of women to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 01:52 AM
1

Most people get raped by people they know and trusted though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 01:19 AM
0

Men think about sex way more though. When I’m in a relationship I want sex with my partner multiple times a day and I think I have a high sex drive because even after years together I still desire that. But when I’m single I can go weeks without even thinking about sex. I don’t think men can turn off their sexual thoughts like that.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/22 06:00 PM
1

They all tried to add me on social media years later and pretended like we were great friends, and one of them told me he was in love with me back then. It was like all of them completely forgot about bullying me and only remembered the good times,
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 04:39 AM
1

What ever happened to “sorry I’m not interested” It’s short and gets the point across firmly without being mean. I’ve never been mean to anyone who asked me out, and I’ve dated plenty of short guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:24 AM
0

Empaths don’t exist, usually people calling themselves empaths are narcissists hate to break it to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:19 AM
8

We did everything friends do together, sneak into football games by climbing a fence, food fights with each other, using art supplies to draw matching goth looks onto our faces in art class.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 10:39 PM
13

I did enjoy male friends but then they joined up and did mean girl shit to me because I wouldn’t sleep with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 09:42 PM
1

The advice to guys is to pretend to care less, then I explained how I react when guys seem more aloof, I start chasing them. My post was very confusing reading it back, sorry.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/22 04:13 PM
1

My advice is to appear to be the one who cares less. Even if you really like them. They will think you are someone special. Nobody likes clingy people. If someone is always trying to impress me I see them as low value. If I’m the one who feels compelled to impress you then I feel lucky to be with you.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/22 02:02 AM
1

Guys or girls, a stutter and asthma.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 11:45 PM
1

I don’t think anyone weight 170 is skinny. I’m 120 and 5’5” and I don’t even think I’m skinny. I think I’m average.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 08:35 PM
3

Kinda sad, they just want your body but don’t actually like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 02:54 AM
8

I think the fact that you think you are so hot and everyone wants to fuck you is pretty off putting
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 02:47 AM
1

I live is San Diego
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 08:38 PM
5

I live in California too, nobody pays $30 dollars for coffee. And do you not have Mexican restaurants where you live? You can both get a drink and meal for two for $30.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 08:07 PM
4

I usually do bowling, mini golf or something similar for a first date. You can chat while you play, can tease each other about gutter balls and high five or hug for strikes/spares. It builds more tension than just a coffee date. Play one game. You will definitely see if you hit it off or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 08:03 PM
2

The one thing I know is you need to match the affection or enthusiasm of the other person or have less. Never be the more affectionate/invested one in the relationship as a guy. If you are it gives her all the power. (What I’ve learned about what turns me or other women off as a bisexual woman).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:27 PM
3

I wanted a vintage quarter machine/ 15 cent machine ring. And that’s exactly what I got. I was very happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:47 AM
1

The hottest actor in the world to me is Richard Cabral. His looks are perfect to me. Henry Cavil is meh. I just mentioned how hot an actor in a movie was to my partner. They said you would find them really attractive. Everyone you are really attracted to is kinda ugly. Self Roast?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 10:22 PM
1

It does help. I had about 50 social media friends, but had a bunch of different cool hobbies and had a unique style. People actually thought I only had so few social media friends because I was super selective. If I ever sent a message to someone they instantly became my friend. Most told me they thought I was too cool and would be mean so they never would have messaged me first.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 05:11 PM
6

Hate it. I try to be polite, and that usually means they think they have a chance of convincing me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 02:49 PM
2

Why do babies stare longer at attractive people? Some of attraction is innate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 11:04 PM
3

A fucking stupid analogy that had nothing to do with the topic at hand. And you keep telling me how I am when you’ve never met me and your assessments couldn’t be further than the truth. But I’m the dumb one, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:24 PM
3

You keep giving made up examples that have nothing to do with the situation and claim that’s how women are. Do you know what a straw man means?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:14 PM
2

Now you are just using straw men. You have your narrative and I’m not going to convince you otherwise. He shouldn’t be in a relationship at all if he doesn’t have time for one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:37 PM
9

Did you read the story? He expects her to wait around for him for a year while not getting her needs me. If that isn’t the epitome of entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:14 PM
8

There’s no relationship if a guy is neglecting emotional connection with his partner. I’d rather be poor with a guy that loves spending time with me than be with an rich man who emotionally unavailable. Zach doesn’t sound like a good man to me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:59 PM
3

I’m bi and all of my guy friends are already in relationships and so am I. That’s the only way it works if one of them is attracted to the other. All of my guy friends tell their girlfriend I’m a lesbian though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:07 AM
1

As long as you are fun I don’t care if you are dumb. I would rather have fun hanging out with a dumb guy than be bored talking about something I have zero interest in because an intelligent guy wants to show off how knowledgeable he is on a topic.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/22 08:55 PM
29

Asking if the number is fake or calling it while I’m still in front of you would make me afraid of you because it would show how controlling you are.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/22 06:14 PM
1

Men can get more attractive with age if they keep all their hair. A full head of grey hair on a guy can be hot. Balding lowers mens attractiveness a lot though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 01:30 AM
10

That’s not desperate. She’s still dating you after two months, she is obviously very into you if she is still going out on dates with you. She wants a relationship because it would prove she is the most important girl you are dating and you chose her over the other girls you are sleeping with. She wants to feel special and not just some girl you are going to pump and dump.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:33 AM
1

Yes she could have made others wait. I waited until I was in relationships before having sex. But almost everyone I dated asked to be exclusive after the first date. I still didn’t sleep with them until a few more dates though because I want to feel like we have a connection first. Women won’t sleep with anyone, that’s more of a male thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:24 AM
2

Why don’t you want a relationship though? You can always break up if it doesn’t work out. Or do you not want to be monogamous? Does she even know you are sleeping with other girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:19 AM
6

Say “Fuck off” or “Fuck you” and if the person was a friend realize they weren’t really a friend and stop talking to them. If it’s a stranger I would say just ignore it and walk away from them. You never know if a stranger might try to start a fight over.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 04:06 PM
26

One of the main things I noticed about confident men compared to insecure men is the way they act toward teasing or jokes at their expense. Confident men will laugh it off or agree with it and add even more to it that sounds so extreme that it’s obviously a joke. Insecure men will get really quiet or seem obviously upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 03:50 PM
1

Any excuse from cheaters is a way to deflect responsibility for their actions. Cheating takes steps to happen and the cheater kept deciding to go through with the cheating every step of the way.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 01:25 PM
10

You admit yourself that you’ve never even been in a relationship and by the rest of your word vomit you unsurprisingly know nothing about being in one. If you only want casual sex and don’t want relationships it’s fine, but you can’t really speak on relationships when you’ve never even been in one.
/r/ExRedPill01/08/22 03:44 PM
2

Short women want tall men even more than tall women because they don’t want short sons.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:16 PM
2

No we mature at the same rate. All of my guy friends who were the same age as me had the same maturity level too. Most people of both genders aren’t mature until mid 20s at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 02:03 PM
2

It’s a deal breaker. Without sex it’s just a friendship. I would ask for an open relationship though, I think it’s shitty to sneak around. (Woman here)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:26 AM
2

I’m in a two woman relationship and the baby stage was so hard when I was unable to breast feed. After they can talk and are potty trained it’s easy. My daughter doesn’t want to spend a minute without me. We skate, rough house, play video games, read to each other(she reads one chapter I read one chapter). Have drawing contests. I recommend it after the age of 3, but before then it’s so difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:22 AM
4

I’m a stay at home mom and it’s way harder than a job. It’s exhausting. Its easier to work retail. Especially in the baby stage with no boob to feed them. Good Luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:06 AM
2

He doesn’t understand that style is a part of looks. I’ve been attracted to guys who weren’t conveniently attractive because we had very similar style. It’s a green flag that we would get along.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:10 AM
8

I dated nerdy guys that I was their first kiss/they lost their virginity to me. And one guy who was a sociopath who threatened to kill me and everybody I loved if I ever broke up with him so he would be the only one in the world who loved me. Not sure what that says about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 12:36 AM
9

Date whoever the fuck you want (that’s legal) why do you care what other people think? I date people who have similar taste in everything as me. Same for friends. What’s the point if you don’t mesh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:24 PM
11

You have no possible way of knowing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:18 PM
15

No, friends always tell me my boyfriends are ugly. I think they are just trying to sabotage me because they are unhappy in their own sexual pursuits.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 12:40 AM
2

I moan, say oh my god or fuck in sexy voice. Only if I’m actually feeling it though. It feels too obvious to fake it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:42 PM
5

I stand corrected, thanks for providing statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 03:43 PM
2

I don’t know where they get that women with multiple tattoos sleep around. They probably think we are impulsive or something, but that doesn’t mean we are impulsive with everything. Most of the tattooed women I know don’t sleep around and some are even asexual. They just like expressing themselves with art including on their bodies and aren’t uptight about “ruining their skin”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:34 PM
6

I always run to the door because I feel bad for making them hold the door for so long. I still thank them though. The other day a family was leaving out the door I was a few feet away from, and this young boy held the door open for me before catching up with his family. I thought that was so kind of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 07:45 AM
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Not being able to get matches on dating sites as an average and even above average man. I see these men who I would consider 7s and they tell me they have zero matches on dating apps. I don’t think that’s fair. I think the solution for this is women giving chances to people of the same level of attractiveness as themselves. I don’t see this happening any time soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 07:38 AM
0

Only if we have been friends for a few months and I feel comfortable and like it’s friendly conversation. Just texting s f haven’t met I would assume you were a “slut” that only wanted sex. We have to have rapport first.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 12:39 AM
15

Social skills and nonconformity. It took me a while to realize that nobody cares about my niche hobby. If something is becoming relevant in entertainment, watch/listen to it, know a few facts about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:39 PM
3

Sunken in eyes, slim nose strong chin
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:50 PM
3

I took that AI thing and was so happy with my results, they rated me 7.5, thought I was 18 (I’m 36 but people do think I’m a teenager in real life sometimes which nobody online believes) and a bmi of 18.5 and then I noticed that they thought I was a man. They were 75 % sure I was a man, (I’m not a man) they said I would live to be 75.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:43 AM
3

I’m friends with a guy who is obese, but everyone loves him and he does well with women. He just has calming energy, keeps it positive, and asks interesting follow up questions to answers you give him. He’s great.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:17 PM
5

I’m not a feminist. Feminists are over the top and are always trying to show how woke they are, I find it condescending.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:23 PM
5

Men are not more attractive for any of those things (at least not to me). I’ve dated a rich guy who my guy friend was so impressed with his expensive car. I didn’t give a shit about the car. The only thing I could tell you about is that it’s black. Looks combined with personality are the only things that determines a guys level of attractiveness. Everything you mentioned is meaningless unless the woman is a gold digger and even then she isn’t attracted to you she is attracted to the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:03 PM
9

I’m 36 and I wouldn’t date any guy older than 45. I prefer exactly my age, but have mostly dated younger because I look younger than my age. Bald men can look good, but only if they already were really attractive when they had hair. I would not be attracted to an average bald guy. I think the men that age better than women are the ones that still have all their hair, otherwise women age better.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:07 PM
2

Then I never say it first (way too insecure for that) I will say it back if I mean it and pretend I didn’t hear it if I don’t a break up soon after.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:07 AM
2

Alien ant farm version or Michael Jackson?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:40 AM
2

He kissed me right when she said that. It was my first kiss. We were all hanging out in front of a movie theater and decided to see a movie and made out a lot during it. He was an amazing kisser. A few days later he told me he wanted me to meet his parole officer because I was a good influence. I was too shy to even ask him why he was on parole. While making out he gave me a ton of hickies on my neck and my mom made me break up with him. It was a relief because I had no idea how to end it. I nev…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:22 AM
8

Men have told me they were in love with me when we were just friends and had never went on a date. They definitely just wanted sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:17 AM
2

I’ve never said it first. The guy or girl has always said it first. If I don’t love them back I pretend not to have heard them. Some people have said they love me before we even started dating. Which is not good.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:15 AM
2

I’ve never given my number to a guy who cold approached. Surprisingly I did date a random kinda hot guy who my friend told to kiss me while holding up a camera and we didn’t know each other. I found out later he was felon. So never again.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:12 AM
1

Kindness is when you do something for someone because you want to with no other motive. Niceness is when you expect something good from the person you were nice to, and you wouldn’t have been nice to them if you knew they wouldn’t reciprocated.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 12:31 AM
1

I thought you mean ex now, but she was a girlfriend at the time chill.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 12:21 AM
1

I mean she probably didn’t remember. You would have to be black out drunk to have sex with 2 other guys when your actual boyfriend is at the party.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 11:39 PM
3

They should have a 5 year no fault divorce law. If after 5 years or less any of the partners want to divorce they can and everyone keeps what they initially came into the relationship with and equally splits what was made during the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 06:52 PM
3

I have bipolar disorder, schizophrenia, ptsd, and I used to be anorexic. I’ve never had a problem getting dates. I’m always open about this and most people don’t care. Just follow rule number 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:57 PM
11

Tattoo Artist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:23 PM
1

7
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 10:26 PM
8

He probably did. Which is why nobody should glamorize virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 02:49 PM
4

I mean fucking one guy alone you only learn what he knows. I’ve picked up different skills from everyone I dated. I haven’t dated many people but if I had stuck to one person I wouldn’t be as good as I am unless he was extremely experienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 04:36 AM
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I did that. The first time we tried he couldn’t figure out how to put it in. The second time we had sex but it was very lackluster. I wish I had saved my virginity for my second serious boyfriend who was amazing in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 04:30 AM
2

I married my long distance relationship. We were from different countries, in Europe and the U.S. so nobody married the other for a green card.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:34 AM
2

Nobody thinks that. It’s obviously because gay men have the most sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 09:23 PM
0

No idea if they are top 5 percent or not but I match with every profile where I think the guy is hot. I don’t swipe on anyone that has a shirtless photo though. They usually message me pretty fast. I often get overwhelmed with too many messages and end up deleting the whole account because of anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 06:42 PM
1

I ask them if I can go down on them every night. Always mention how hot I think they are. Buy them their favorite snacks. Tell them to go visit their friends alone if they want to, so they don’t have to worry about spending time with me there. They do a lot for me. I can’t work because I’m disabled, so I try to make sure that they know I appreciate them. I know I stifle them somewhat because of my disability so I try to make up for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:10 AM
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My favorite was Lance too. I’m bisexual now or always was, but didn’t know it at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 02:21 AM
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Also I don’t care if he liked me or not. I didn’t like him so why would it matter to me if he liked me or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:02 PM
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Why did he take me out on dates and pay for everything then? I broke up with him even though he was hot and paid for everything. Something you think all women want. You think you know everything without even knowing anything about the people involved. You just seem bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 10:56 PM
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We both use each other for sex. I’ve been in a relationship with Chad but I got bored after a few weeks and broke up with him. Just because you would be willing to date someone hot with a boring personality, most women want more than that. Why be in a relationship with someone like that when you can have sex with him when you want without being bored the rest of the time. I guess you think women don’t like sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 10:35 PM
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That we are only looking for hot guys. I want a guy that is fun to be with who meets my threshold for attractiveness. If he has model good looks but is boring I would rather date a less attractive but more interesting guy. We don’t only sleep with Chad because we are trying to get him to date us. We use Chad for sex the same way he is probably using us and date someone more compatible. We are choosing to be with less attractive men because they bring more to the table than looks. But since men v…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 09:37 PM
3

Um no, just because someone is better looking doesn’t make them better at sex. The boyfriend I had the best sex with was actually the least attractive guy I dated. He just knew what he was doing in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 07:56 PM
8

When I lost my virginity it sucked. I knew it was terrible. Just like you can tell if someone is a good or bad kisser.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 07:48 PM
5

How do you know she wouldn’t have loved him in her prime years? She hadn’t met him yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:50 PM
3

I’m bisexual and have both mommy and daddy issues. It’s rough.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 09:46 PM
3

Attractive people usually have a better personality too because they aren’t hung up on insecurities and tend to be fun to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 08:34 PM
3

It is if you don’t meet those same standards. If you are fit and thin then I thinks it’s reasonable to want the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 08:21 PM
3

Not for women. Familiarity makes you more attractive to your partner. We have been together 12 years and still have sex almost every day. And the sex is better now than in the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 01:12 AM
18

Why do men leave when women get Cancer?
/r/ExRedPill05/07/22 05:11 PM
3

Everyone has feelings. I have found that most women are more empathetic than men. It isn’t women going on shooting sprees. You shouldn’t judge an entire gender on some bad experiences. Those women that hurt you are bad people, but not women in general.
/r/ExRedPill05/07/22 02:02 AM
0

Because it’s annoying to be approached by people that you don’t know who know nothing about you. I have social anxiety and I don’t want all of these randos trying to talk to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 11:48 PM
1

You can spend all that time cleaning and the kids will have destroyed all of that hard work half an hour later. And then you have to do it all again. Plus young kids want your attention all the time. I don’t get any time to myself because she wants me to do everything with her. I would rather have a job that ends when I get home than be a stay at home mom where you are expected to work all day and night.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:21 PM
3

I never even noticed height as a factor in dating and have dated men my height and shorter than me. But recently I’ve become more and more attracted to taller guys and I do think it’s because all of this talk about height being a factor in attractiveness has brought it to my attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 12:48 AM
2

But almost all women wouldn’t accept a date from someone that just walks up and asks them out. They are more open to dating people they have seen around a few times and have talked to more than once. As a stranger your best shot is dating apps because women are there for that reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 08:58 PM
4

My best advice is to take an art class in college. That was the only class that I made a ton of friends and a guy I dated. Everyone is more relaxed and open to being playful. Or an acting class too. People aren’t as focused at trying to learn and be serious. More connections can be made.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 08:24 PM
2

I would never accept a date from a stranger. I would have to be around them more before deciding if I wanted to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 08:16 PM
1

I’m technically underweight as a woman but I think I look chubby.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 10:17 PM
1

Men don’t want women who are taller than them either.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 08:56 PM
15

No nice girls are women trying to date out of their league and when rejected call the men an asshole instead of trying to improve themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 08:54 PM
0

Men don’t want to date women who are taller than them either. A majority of men want a woman who is shorter than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 08:51 PM
4

Yes we do, we have eyes. I wouldn’t want to have sex with them or date them do to maturity differences, but physically they are definitely more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 11:36 PM
3

Of course 25 year old men are hotter physically. But emotionally I want someone around my age or older.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 11:32 PM
6

The only time I’ve rejected guys I was attracted to was because I thought they were too good looking and I assumed they would have girls throwing themselves at them and would be more likely to cheat. Not because I have too many options.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 01:48 AM
8

Most of those Asian women looking for an American husband are single moms. My friend was on a dating app to meet Asian women and almost all of them already had a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 03:20 AM
3

If the women you have been with don’t care about sex you are probably a lousy lover, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:50 AM
21

It still doesn’t work unless you are at least somewhat attractive. I have guy friends I talk to about everything and I would never sleep with them because I’m not attracted to them. One I’ve been friends with for 19 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 12:45 AM
6

If rapists were given the death penalty they would kill their victims so they couldn’t identify them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:49 PM
1

I was literally like the girl from She’s all that. I dressed in vintage comic book shirts and wore glasses. After high school I got a “cooler” wardrobe and contacts. I went from getting no attention from anyone, to attention from very attractive guys. Looks really are important and the image of being a cool person helps too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 10:02 PM
5

My ex boyfriend tried to get me back about 5 years after we broke up and said I was the love of his life. He was a psycho and I would never get back together with him. He can’t get a girlfriend now and pays prostitutes for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 02:22 PM
2

When I was younger I was watching a show and there were a lot of sex scenes and it made me think I was too old to be a virgin. So I found another virgin to have sex with. I was 19.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:03 AM
16

If an opportunity to cheat is given to men, most would cheat. Women have plenty of opportunity, but most only cheat if theses an emotional connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 06:45 PM
6

I’ve been telling men for years to pick a subculture that looks interesting and lean into it. Goth girls want goth guys ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 11:13 PM
3

No sexually very aggressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 11:05 PM
4

I don’t watch porn during it. I’ve tried but it’s just distracting. I just imagine being aggressively dominated.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 10:15 PM
6

Women were easier to date than men for me. They all pursued me though so maybe I had the upper hand. They were incredibly romantic. My wife and I are from different countries and started long distance. She made me a handmade post card with all of my favorite images/images she knew I would love every day that we were apart. I have hundreds.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 02:27 AM
4

Most of the quality women are already in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 07:51 PM
6

I don’t think I’m that attractive. One of the most popular guys from school who was in a semi famous band asked me out twice over the years, I stood him up twice because I thought he was out of my league. I think when people say I’m beautiful or pretty that they are just being nice. I don’t ask people if they think I’m attractive, they just tell me. I don’t wear makeup and wear mens clothes so I don’t see why people would think I’m attractive when I put in zero effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:28 AM
1

I was too intimidated. He was way out of my league.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:52 AM
1

No I picked a guy from online dating. Went on a 5 hour date with him. Lunch, movies, then bowling and after feeling comfortable enough I had sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:25 AM
1

Universally women don’t agree though
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 11:33 PM
5

I will give you my reason. I was dating my long term boyfriend and he cheated on me. I broke up with him, but he kept begging me to take him back bought me a bunch of stuff relating to my hobbies and just tried to win me back. I decided I did want to get back together with him, but to make myself feel better about the cheating I wanted to have sex with the hottest guy I could find so it would feel more even. That was my only one night stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 05:20 PM
1

Men do too. Everyone uses the same tricks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 01:06 PM
2

I don’t care about height, but I would react positively if he seems confident. If you are insecure about a perceived flaw you come off like you aren’t good enough already. Women don’t want to be with guys who they think they are better than. If you are confident and come across like you wouldn’t care if I rejected you, you would instantly become more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 12:44 AM
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Interesting. I guess women and men are the same in that regard then. I don’t know if they don’t see it and they actually think they still look like this, or if they are trying to manipulate people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 03:31 PM
2

That’s what he said.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 03:16 PM
13

A lot of guys use photos from years ago when they actually looked attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 02:53 PM
6

I had a guy friend that posted photos of himself from 10 years ago where he was in shape and then when he met the women they would find out he was fat and much older. He said most women were too polite to say anything and ended up sleeping with him anyway. He claimed to have had sex with over 100 women. I stopped being friends with him because I thought that was predatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 02:51 PM
2

Sex has to be a component in a relationship otherwise we are just friends. Is it a need? It’s important for bonding and self esteem, but you won’t die if you can’t have it. When I’ve been single I have gone years without sex, but in a relationship I want it every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 04:15 AM
2

No because my only past long term relationship was with a psychopath that threatened to kill me and everyone that I loved and showed me the weapon he bought to do it with. I would never invite him back into my life. The others I didn’t spend enough time with to form an emotional connection, so I would rather find someone new than go backwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 12:12 AM
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If I don’t have an orgasm during sex with someone, I never have sex with them again. It does not take much effort to give me an orgasm and I’m willing to guide them. If they can’t do the bare minimum what would be the point in having sex with them again.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 12:03 AM
1

It’s the person with less power in the relationship that is romantic, to try to win or keep the affection of the one who cares less. I’ve seen this go both ways, like the girlfriend who buys their boyfriend a new gaming system or some other expensive gift that he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 02:12 PM
7

I have a vast vocabulary from being an avid reader, but I’m still dumb. And the internet helped expand my vocabulary because I would look up words I didn’t know the meaning to. Before the internet I had to guess what the word meant and I wasn’t always right.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 10:38 PM
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Your personality doesn’t seem great either. If you are fine with women being with you for your money and not being attracted to you physically you can date whoever is willing. Just know the way you feel about fat women is the way thin women likely feel about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 05:16 PM
8

Bisexual women. We are used to height differences that can go in either direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 12:33 AM
1

The most attractive person chooses both.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 10:27 PM
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What men need to do is pick a sub culture look. Other people within that subculture will notice you and be more interested in dating you. Goth girls want goth guys, punk girls want punk guys, vegans want other vegans ect,
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 01:51 AM
2

Yes they are. I won’t have sex with man more than twice if I don’t have an orgasm. The first time could be nerves, so I try again, if it doesn’t happen the second time I end it. I date people in my own league though. Hotter guys have asked me on dates but I said no because I thought they were out of my league and was intimidated.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 01:18 AM
1

No they don’t. If you are lusting after these types of women maybe you should change YOUR standards. Most women want love not money.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 12:43 AM
1

Never say I love you first. Guys always said they loved me before I said it, and if they said it too early I didn’t say it back.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 10:02 PM
2

I never really looked at womens profiles. I didn’t use my best photos on dating apps because I didn’t want them to be disappointed when they actually met me. Actually when I had dating apps I just used one photo of me in a Halloween costume (I thought I would get more interesting people this way.) Everyone said I looked better in person. I did have a guy friend who used old photos of himself where he was a lot thinner. He said most women were too polite to leave the date even though he was older…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:48 AM
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I listened to his audio book about addiction. It’s the best I’ve ever read about that topic. I wasn’t attracted to him before but after I read that book I was. He didn’t come across as feminine at all, he is actually quite masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 01:58 AM
4

Can’t you tell if someone is overweight with just a photo of their face even if there is only one photo? People either have a round face or thin face.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 01:51 AM
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Why is multiple tattoos a sign that she sleeps around? Most of the highly tattooed women I know have normal n counts but just love art/body modifications.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 06:18 PM
2

Mental illness is only given as a diagnosis if it impairs your life. If you have all the symptoms, but it is not effecting you or causing you distress you would not be diagnosed. At least that’s how it’s supposed to be. I bring up my mental illnesses on the first date because they are going to find out eventually and why prolong the inevitable if it’s a problem for them. I have several debilitating mental illnesses and nobody has ever not asked for a second date. If you are open about (and also …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 02:45 AM
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Either Op has a very low IQ or is being willfully obtuse. Don’t bother engaging.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 01:34 AM
1

I used to think that men and women mostly thought the same way. Then more than one male friend said every time they saw a women who they found even slightly attractive they imagined having sex with them. Like multiple women every day. I’ve never looked at a man and started thinking about sex with him. It was eye opening.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 12:08 AM
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A lot of men and women have the same interests, this isn’t the 50’s. And of course sex is important in a relationship, but if that’s all the relationship is to you just hire a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 09:36 PM
5

Almost all of my best friends in my life have been guys. Both women are men can be boring. In fact, 90 percent of people are pretty boring to me, but people I’ve stayed friends with are interesting (to me) people. If you think all women are boring that says more about you than them. Women all have different personalities just like men. No two people are exactly the same not even identical twins.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 09:11 PM
6

Don’t tell jokes like a stand up comedian, there just corny. Make up jokes about the things you are already having a conversation about.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 06:07 PM
5

They pretend they know me from somewhere. We go back and forth trying to figure out where they know me from and say I probably just look like someone they knew. Then they ask me out. It’s happened multiple times and I have very unique features and am mixed race and I’ve never met anyone that looks like me. Either there really is my doppelgänger out there or it’s a tactic to start talking to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 01:36 PM
8

My spouse gets the wild side, I’m willing to try whatever they want. I never explored any kinks with anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 04:24 AM
7

I had to pretend to still be in love with him for months while very slowly being more and more distant to try to push him away. He became vegan and broke up with me for a high school girl who was a vegan and I was so relieved. I wanted to warn her but I was afraid she would tell him and he could snap on me and kill me, so I didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 02:02 AM
5

20, he was 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 01:42 AM
9

I had a boyfriend threaten to kill all of my friends and family if I broke up with him, so that nobody in the world would love me except him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 01:08 AM
3

Dakota Johnson is beautiful. I thought average was someone like Anna Kendrick. But I also have never found a single Victoria secrets model attractive. I’m bisexual. I think the most attractive actress I’ve ever seen is Imogine Poots. And Tom Hardy is the most attractive male. Both took my breath away when I first saw them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 07:25 PM
1

Just say you hate women bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 06:46 PM
7

Have you seen the sub r/truerateme there will be 8 and 9 guys and people will give them a rating of 5 or 6. And then the actually ugly guys will get a rating of 4.5 it’s wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 02:07 PM
5

Sadly that probably true. I was at a hospital and I met this older guy who offered to buy me a car if I dated him. I said no because I thought that would be predatory of me, especially since I met his teenage daughter and it felt like I would be taking away money from her as well. My friend at the hospital said I was a fool. She flirted with him and they dated and he brought her a car and the breast implants she always wanted. She broke up with him shortly after. I stopped being friends with her…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 01:45 PM
1

I have bipolar disorder and schizophrenia. I disclose that on the first date. I’ve never had a man not ask for a second date.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 06:06 AM
1

I know a straight guy with all girl friends. He says men are trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 05:58 AM
0

A lot of my male friends only have female friends. I’ve found both men and women to be interesting or incredibly boring. It just matters whose interests and personality types align.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 05:57 AM
7

I’ve seen young hot women with 80 year old men in Thailand, also saw one with a guy that was morbidly obese. I think some people are so desperate to get out of their situation that they will be with any Americans.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 05:54 AM
2

I haven’t met a single adopted kid that wasn’t fucked up. My friend was adopted as a baby by a wealthy family and she hates them but pretends to love them to their faces because she wants the inheritance.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 02:38 AM
14

I was a patient at the psychiatric hospital. A guy left a card he made in art therapy on my bed when he was discharged that said he enjoyed talking to me and gave me his number if I wanted to go on a date. I didn’t even remember who he was, but I thought the approach was thoughtful so I texted him when I got out. We ended up dating for 3 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:04 AM
1

But how do you know if he was selfish or not since the Bible depiction of him wasn’t real.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 06:08 AM
1

Don’t believe what he says. I’ve been married for ten years and we still have sex almost every day. There are women with high sex drives who don’t use sex as a weapon and see it as something for both partners to enjoy and stay connected.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 06:01 AM
1

Jesus isn’t real.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 05:57 AM
2

The most common line from guys approaching me is them pretending they know me from school or something and then acting like they confused me for someone else. At that point we have been talking a little bit trying to figure out where they might know me from and they shoot their shot. At first I thought they actually confused me for someone else, but after it happened a few times I realized it was an opening to talk to me. I don’t mind it as far as openings go, it’s better than the guys that are …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 03:09 PM
3

5 is low. What if over 10 years they had 10 relationships that lasted a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 01:45 PM
3

I don’t wear makeup at all. I would think it’s a little weird that he wanted to wear makeup. I can understand if it’s just filling in eyebrow’s or something small, but a face full of makeup would be a turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:25 PM
1

My ex boyfriend lied but in the opposite direction. He said 14 when it was really 6, he told me after we were together a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:38 PM
2

Maybe. It’s also possible that I don’t lie about it because I’m a terrible liar and you can immediately tell I am lying because my face and body language gives it away.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:28 PM
1

I have never lied about how many people I’ve had sex with. It’s 6 (I don’t count hand stuff if I did it would be 10). And I have made out with 22 . Most of the people I have made out with were friends that kissed me out of nowhere and I just went with it but didn’t want to sleep with them. I never had a one night stand. I don’t know if people would consider this a lot or a little (I think it depends on the person).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:48 PM
2

It depends on how old you are. If you are under 21 I think it would be fine admitting you were a virgin, but at least pretend you have made out with someone before. Never admit you have never been kissed. Also on your first date don’t be afraid to touch them. Hold their hand, hug them and if they are receptive of this you can go in for a kiss. Not making any moves on the first date is a turn off. If you are 21 or older I would not mention you are a virgin. When you lose your virginity if it’s aw…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:40 PM
2

I think unattractive women are more likely to sleep around than attractive women. The unattractive ones need validation and feel they get that because guys will sleep with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:21 PM
3

I marred the woman who I met while we were in different countries. She didn’t marry me for a green card she’s from Paris and would rather live there, but we live in the US because I don’t speak French and her English is perfect. Neither one of us cheated and we both visited each other for a month at a time every few months.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:17 PM
0

Brad Pitt, Tom Hardy, Henry Cavill
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 07:40 PM
1

Nobody thinks of him as a sex symbol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 07:26 PM
3

He is ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 07:19 PM
3

I used to get free food a lot without any expectations. Mostly it was because people felt sorry for me because I was anorexic or having a panic attack. In high school a guy would buy me a soda or candy if I let him take a photo of me. Just standing there not doing anything sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 02:05 AM
4

But do they never cum? Op was talking about women who never cum during sex, not just some of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 01:41 AM
62

I have sex every day (I’m married). I have a high sex drive. I orgasm every time I have sex though. Would men still want sex if they never orgasmed? I bet their sex drives would plummet if they never orgasmed during sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 10:34 PM
3

Yes it is about them being hot, but ugly guys assume that they are nicer and they aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 12:34 AM
4

She means hot or ugly men treat women the same, and usually the hot ones are nicer because they aren’t bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:59 PM
5

My wife and I like 90 percent of the same music/movies/books. Everything we’ve shown each other that we hadn’t seen we liked. The only thing we don’t agree on is that I love asmr and she hates it. She’s from Europe and I’m from the US. Before I got into a relationship with her, I was single for 3 years because nobody met my standards of having enough things in common. I didn’t date or have casual sex during this time. I’ve only had two relationships in my life because of these standards and the …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:16 PM
1

Women shouldn’t get married either, nobody really gains anything from marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 12:00 AM
3

The guys that do hit on me don’t take no for an answer and won’t let me leave until I hug them or agree to a date, I’m shy and they can tell I won’t yell at them or do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 06:45 PM
1

Have a lot in common so we enjoy doing things together, have regular sex where we both have orgasms, have some separate friends so we have other people who can also give us emotional support, have our own hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 01:04 AM
0

I just think I’m a lot of women’s type because I look kinda a like a tomboy. Medium length hair and skinny, but I only wear mens clothes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 06:46 PM
1

Finds and would want to have sex with very few people. My sister has only been attracted to two people in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 06:43 PM
2

Men used to give me free food if they worked in restaurants. I definitely didn’t ask for it, they just brought it to my table. In high school this one guy bought me a soda or candy everyday if I let him take a picture of me. This was back in the disposable camera days. I kinda miss the free food to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 06:28 PM
3

I’m bi and I’ve never even hit on women. Once they find out I’m bi they hit on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 05:47 PM
8

Only if it was a poly relationship and I had another partner to be sexual with. My sister and her partner never have sex though. One is asexual and the other is a grey ace.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 01:47 PM
4

I think men are more attractive than women as a whole, but I’m not attracted to that plastic/ filler look. I’m bisexual and only about ten percent of women are attractive to me, while probably 40 percent of guys are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 02:12 AM
3

I would date someone I am less attracted to if we loved all the same movies, bands, shows ect. But I have to be attracted to them still. I would never date someone who I wasn’t attracted to. I tried it once and they could tell I wasn’t into it at all. Then I had to come up with a bullshit reason so I didn’t hurt their feelings. Never again.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 12:01 AM
2

Women love excitement. Toxic relationships are exciting, they have highs and lows. Most women find men who idolize them boring. They already know where they stand with these men. The push and pull of relationship is addictive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 09:44 PM
2

I don’t care about money as long as I have a place to live, food, and enough gas money to drive my car. I married for love. We are below the poverty line for where we live. We have a great relationship, great communication and lots of sex. Money can’t buy that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 06:58 PM
5

Damn I can’t spell anything right.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 08:10 PM
14

Most women don’t want to date guys that still look like teenagers. Men do though. This guy selling wine at the supermarket asked to see my ID and was shocked. He said I looked younger than his 16 year old daughter and then he asked me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 07:38 PM
37

I usually go for someone who is cute but has poor social skills/social anxiety. It’s a win win for me because I have social anxiety too. Not as much pressure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 05:22 PM
1

But those 40 year olds were even more attractive in their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 11:28 PM
1

I prefer them to be at least one inch taller than me, but I have dated guys shorter than me. I just prefer to have my arms under on the hug, it’s awkward when someone shorter than you tries to be the top.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 05:54 PM
3

I have no problem with any man visiting escorts unless he is cheating on me to do it. I see it the same way as I see people paying therapists to listen to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 04:29 PM
8

I just like skinny guys, they can be short and not have any muscles but they have to be skinny. (I used to be anorexic so maybe that’s why I’m so biased about weight).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 03:07 PM
32

I’m a loser baby, so why don’t you kill me?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 09:10 PM
11

And they all looked better when they were younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 05:47 PM
24

Especially the ones saying 40. In no universe is any 40 year old more attractive than a 20 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 03:49 PM
7

Men 21-25, women 25-29
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 03:46 PM
10

Women will stop liking you over the tiniest thing. Without even communicating and giving you a chance to change it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 01:37 AM
9

Guys offered to be my sugar daddy pretty often when I was in my early and mid 20s. I always declined because I care more about love than money.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 02:46 PM
10

Daycares are great for socialization. We did half stay at home/ half daycare. I have to be home because I’m disabled and can’t work, but I wanted my daughter to be socialized. I also loved daycare as a kid because I got to hang out with friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 12:05 PM
2

No, I’ve only bailed on dates because I was too intimidated by the guy. One guy being one of the coolest guys from school who was also in a band. I ended up standing him up twice in the period of 5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 05:50 PM
2

Lol this is the fun type of personality I looked for.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 01:43 AM
13

Only wanted to go to the movies for dates. Wanted to stay home a lot. Vanilla sex. Agreed with me a lot instead of giving their own opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 09:49 PM
12

I used to seek out nerdy guys because I thought that was my type. Most of them ended up being boring. I ended up marrying a “cool” type who was semi famous in certain circles. Maybe I wanted to be a cool kid after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 09:25 PM
2

I had a guy friend that was hilarious. But I was not attracted to him. He was fat and I was very skinny. I knew he had a crush on me, but I only considered him a friend. We made out once because he kissed me randomly and I didn’t want to be rude. I had to tell him after that I valued his friendship and didn’t want to ruin it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 06:09 PM
10

This is true. My male friends say they get bored having sex with the same women and I have been with my partner for ten years (and we have sex every night) and I’m not bored at all. It’s just as good as in the beginning of the relationship. My male friends also say they think about sex when they see any slightly attractive women. I noticed if people are cute or not, but never think of having sex with them on sight alone. And I consider myself a high libido woman since I want sex every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 07:11 PM
2

Not for me or my sister. Some women need to get to know men before sleeping with them. He could be Tom Hardy and I would still need to spend the day getting to know him before sleeping with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:38 PM
2

Yeah it does say a lot about the women. My sister said the guy that propositioned her was really hot, but asking for sex as an opening was an instant turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 01:00 PM
2

The women would get with each other before him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 03:35 AM
24

Some guy approached my sister in a parking lot and asked her if she wanted to fuck in his car. I don’t see how that could work for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 03:34 AM
4

I have several married friends and all of the women are slightly more attractive than the men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:48 PM
1

You are saying for relationships that men date people less attractive than them and that is simply not true. Most couples are the same attractiveness or the woman is slightly more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:46 PM
1

No she is isn’t. We have been together 10 years and have sex every night. She would not be able to fake that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:42 PM
2

This is so hilariously wrong. Most people date and have sex with people around their same attractiveness level. Anything else would be really desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:33 PM
1

Most women can orgasm, but people aren’t putting in the time and effort to give her one. My current partner never had an orgasm before me and it takes about half an hour every time to make her cum. Her past partners just weren’t patient enough and would give up before then. She has an orgasm every time we have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:09 PM
5

The reason I think I’m good at head is because my partners are softly moaning and saying oh my god. If they are faking that then it’s their problem it sucks, the same with women who fake orgasms. I did ask all of my guy friends how to give the best head before I ever tried it, and did what they told me to do. If my partner didn’t enjoy sex I would try to get better because I feel their enjoyment is my responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:47 PM
9

The worst part for me was periods. They are painful and messy. I used to throw up from pain every time I had mine. People looking at me differently, I kind of enjoyed the attention. The bad thing was that I was severely bullied after rejecting a friend. I went on one date with him and I didn’t think we made a good match, when I told him he seemed ok. The next day he turned all of our male friends against me and they would assault me and say disgusting things about me in front of everyone (which …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 06:11 PM
5

Looks are definitely important. I’m seriously mentally ill and people always want to help me. At the mental hospital they let me have the headphones all day every day and there were only two pairs to go around. I was put into a Dbt program immediately even though there was a waitlist. I was allowed to bypass it. Every psychiatrists I’ve had has been willing to prescribe me benzos, and even after I overdosed on them and almost died, they never got taken away from me. People in the hospital wanted…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 05:24 PM
4

As a woman I’ve always known that being fat was less attractive. I wouldn’t even date when I weighed 130lbs at 5’5” because I didn’t want to have sex while being overweight. (I was skinny fat). I think a lot of people, both men and women believe they are more attractive than they are. I’ve had friends of both genders that I thought were below average, who themselves thought they were hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 08:24 PM
8

To have respect for yourself and your partner. Respect boundaries and make sure they respect yours. Don’t chase people that don’t put the same energy into you. Take care of your body and mental health, looking your best improves your confidence and the energy you put out into the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 08:12 PM
4

I’m a woman and I don’t really vet at all, I just want to have fun and make out and have a good flow of conversation. I have never been ghosted or not asked out on a second date. People do say that they think I act more like a teenager than an adult though. And I have accidentally put myself in dangerous situations. I just think relationships should be fun, I don’t think anyone men or women want to be bored on a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 05:08 PM
3

Maybe for stability and ability to provide, but men and womens looks peak at mid 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 11:51 PM
25

My friend and her husband always argue in front of me when I’m at their house. Can’t be too happy if you don’t even care about making your guest uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 01:18 AM
5

My dad spent more time with me when I was a kid than my mom. I dressed in “boy clothes” and was more rough and tumble. Then in 5th grade there was a rumor I was a lesbian and nobody wanted to be my friend. I completely changed my wardrobe, became more docile and got my first boyfriend the next year. I do believe both attitudes and behavior stemmed from positive/negative reinforcement.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 05:26 PM
2

Plus not all abusive people are psychopaths. Some people are just shitty, but not disordered.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 05:41 PM
1

My guy friend is fat, but he will only date skinny girls. He called a girl fat for being 130lbs. He is close to 300. I told him he was a hypocrite and he got angry at me and said people are allowed to have standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 06:03 PM
18

This is batshit crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 08:27 PM
1

I would prefer a guy with a body count of 10. enough that he knows what he is doing, but not so high that he’s slept with every girl who would sleep with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 07:56 PM
5

Someone that looks like Paul Dano, has some hobbies he enjoys and a few close friends. Is moderately intelligent. Has a career he may be unhappy with, but it pays the bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 01:56 PM
3

I lost my virginity two months before I turned 20. I thought I was getting a bit old to still be a virgin so I befriended this guy I thought was cute, s month later we were dating and a month after that I lost my virginity to him. He was also a virgin which is what I wanted because I was too intimidated to have sex with someone experienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 10:36 AM
8

I still have sex with my partner every day after being together 11 years, I have an orgasm every time I have sex though. Maybe the guys aren’t prioritizing their wife’s orgasms.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 12:38 AM
2

I haven’t given up even though I’m in my 30s and married. I want to look good for myself though. I don’t care how others think I look.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 11:42 PM
1

I didn’t tell them. I guess that’s just the type of person I attract. It boosted my self esteem, if they wanted me that much they could have me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 10:52 PM
1

I had a pattern of dating people who when I broke up with them, would not take no as an answer and started sending me a bunch of gifts. I would feel bad for them and get back together with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 10:13 PM
1

I’m from Southern California, that could be a factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 11:10 PM
5

I got the most attention from men when I was anorexic. Not just top 20 percent men, all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 09:08 PM
3

I don’t know. I still think there’s pressure on women to have ideal bodies too. I’m 5’5” and when I weighed 130lbs I would not even date or sleep with anyone because I thought I was too fat. I think both men and women want to date people they are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 08:16 PM
1

I believe him. I accidentally called a friend that I no longer speak to because the name was above the one I was trying to call. I should have removed her from my contacts, I’m really embarrassed now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 08:19 PM
1

Take art classes at a community college. The majority of people taking art in college are women and art classes are very social and fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 01:11 AM
1

I think the most important factor is having an attractive face. Body can always be changed (besides height).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 12:41 AM
5

I’m bisexual, all of the girls I dated flirted with me first. I would not be confident enough to make the first move.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 08:47 PM
9

Or they are just Bisexual. I’ve never kissed a girl for male attention. I have kisses girls though (In public sometimes), it’s because I feel like kissing her in that moment, it’s not a show for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:06 AM
1

As long as he can have fwb or one night stands until she is ready to commit , if he’s willing to wait for this woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 11:52 PM
1

If she has one night stands and fwb, I don’t see why she would make anyone wait. I never understand the notion of sleeping with some people right away and making others wait. I am not a woman who has one night stands or fwb though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 11:46 PM
3

Artists, writers or anyone creative.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 07:10 PM
3

9 was the only one I thought was attractive, I would rate her an 8. They others all seem 5 or below.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:38 AM
2

Girls are not boring. Sure there are boring women and men, but also a lot of interesting people of both genders. To make such a broad statement shows that he is narrow minded, or perhaps just really shallow and only going for girls that people put on a pedestal so they never had to develop a personality. I think women have advantages in dating and men have advantages in friendships. Men will tell you to your face if they have a problem with you. Women are more likely to be passive aggressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 01:03 AM
1

Every guy I’ve ever been on a date with. I didn’t date that much. And 3 of them also said they loved me on the first date. I didn’t believe that they loved me, and didn’t say it back because they barely knew me at that point in time. I continued dating them because I like focusing on one person at a time and don’t want to meet multiple guys in the same month (I’m too introverted for that). The only celebrity people have said I look like is Winona Ryder. I see it in some photos of me, but I don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 03:19 AM
3

Not really, I started dating when I was 11.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 08:11 PM
10

I didn’t date that many guys, like 7 guys. Most women are probably just dating above their league I date guys who are my equal in looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 06:44 PM
18

Every guy I’ve ever dated asked me to be his girlfriend on the first date. I have said no to dates with guys who seemed like they might be fuck boys though. I just dated guys I was attracted to who had a lot of similar interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 05:41 PM
6

I want to be reparented and choose people who treat me more like their child than their equal. My parents were alcoholics and neglectful and I never felt taken care of.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 02:01 AM
12

Attractive guys have usually been nicer to me than the guy who were less attractive who I initially thought were nice. The less attractive guys were the ones who were abusive. Most abusive people are initially very nice to you to get you to go out with them in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 12:15 AM
3

I had a friend who waited to do a dna test until the baby was 3 years old. It turned out the baby wasn’t his. He should have got the test right away. The baby bonded with him and then he obviously left his wife, so the baby never saw him again. I feel the same way about paternity tests as I do about prenups. They should both be used for a persons own protection. You can’t just blindly trust people with these life changing decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 09:00 PM
2

True. I would be insecure about it, but then relieved whenever he did respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 01:16 AM
9

I think she was trying to hurt you. If she wasn’t attracted to you,why would she have kids with you? Most people want their kids to be cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 09:58 PM
13

I prefer when men respond quickly to my texts. If they don’t respond for several hours I think I’m being ghosted.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:25 PM
5

Womens standards are insane. When I was on dating apps I focused on average guys that I thought were kind of cute who had a lot of the same interests as me. I didn’t even try to match with Chads because I knew they were out of my league. This Chad somewhat famous musician (that was in my fourth grade class but we never talked back then) asked me out twice over the period of a few years. I stood him up twice because I thought he was too much above me. I prefer partners that I considered my equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 04:38 PM
3

I read that divorce from people from disadvantaged countries with Americans is much high than American/American divorce rates. Once they have their green card, most choose to divorce the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 04:25 PM
0

He said he wasn’t attracted to the women that wanted to date him in person. He doesn’t want to lower his standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:53 AM
4

I had a boyfriend who I had sex with every day up to 3 times a day for two years. He was average looking, but had a lot of confidence. My friends said he was ugly, which I didn’t agree with. He actually broke up with me because I had selective mutism and would not be able to speak to him sometimes, and he said the silence hurt him. We broke up over ten years ago. He told me ever since tinder came out he hasn’t been able to get any dates. He is 5’5” and his confidence had to be seen in person. He…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 10:30 PM
0

I had a guy friend who told me he was going to kill himself and then stopped answering his phone. I immediately went to his house to check on him. (He was a convicted felon so I didn’t want a cop doing a wellness check in case something went wrong). Real friends will be there for you, these women just sounds like they use people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 09:19 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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