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Older doesn't equal significantly older nor did the op say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 06:26 PM
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There are several Youtube channels and tons of videos about it. 69% of women are open to dating younger men according to Bumble and if you Google there are many posts about it so yes, it is becoming more common. Im even one that would prefer a younger man as men my age look 10 years older than me with limp dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 06:23 PM
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You could have wrapped this up in three words. Men are thirsty.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 06:10 PM
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Male thirst is not a privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 06:07 PM
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Would not want to be a man outside not having to go through menopause! LOL Men actually would not even know what to do with themselves if they had hot flashes, weird aches, itchy skin, crappy sleep and a whole host of other things you cannot control.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 03:54 PM
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Whats interesting is many of those men need their own meds. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:43 PM
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I was the same in my youth personally. After 3-5 years with someone I so wanted to be alone. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:39 PM
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Good men are not easily replaced. 'Replaced' by some guy that doesn't give a crap about you, sure, thats easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:33 PM
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Mentally checked out can be true a lot of the time. It has been for me but I never went onto another man. By breakup I could not wait to be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:31 PM
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Many men in this sub thinks looks trump everything, they dont for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:36 AM
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You can keep on mansplaining and personality does not factor, again you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:31 AM
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Yes downvote me like I dont know as a women what a real Chad is. LOL Are you downvoters having sex with these men and hanging out like that to know?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:28 AM
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You have the bare minimum of a Chad, just good looking. You still think its all about looks only. You do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 12:32 AM
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Hes still not a true Chad to me as a woman. Hes a mess and not worth the trouble. Sure I know some women may go there... But really its a small minority. Many just see oh hes a hot mess and look at from afar. A real Chad to me is not so messy... True Chads have their crap together.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 12:22 AM
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You want to think one is a Chad by looks only, they are not. The anxiety ridden, introvert, PTSD guy is not going to be a Chad because he happens to be good looking. He is still going to struggle.(Im not trying to dismiss real PTSD or the like) Chads are not socially awkward and anxiety ridden like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 12:13 AM
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I think you're underrating personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:59 PM
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Actual Chads dont have a severe anxiety disorder though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:58 PM
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I think many of you in this sub underestimate personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:57 PM
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2k for several kids, its not as much as you think it is...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 03:48 AM
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I knew by 18, now 50. Kids are just not for everyone and if I was meant to have them I would have. I had opportunity to. Some of us just know! LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 03:47 AM
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Lets reword your title, its becoming more common for young people in general to not want kids yet. Not just women. We have choices now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 03:43 AM
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lets be real most men in this sub are all about 'women bad'. many are just whiners.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:55 AM
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My stats are 30 years of experience. Not even men Ive dated, just men Ive known in general over 30 years. 80% are slobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:52 AM
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Like this sub is mostly women are bad. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:48 AM
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Nah bro plenty of men cant be bothered to take out the garbage, get up to feed their kid while growing a beer gut and man boobs in a greasy tank top.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:44 AM
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Actually lack of support tends to rank for one of thee top reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:41 AM
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Only if he allows it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:37 AM
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Youre deflecting and not answering the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:37 AM
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Why is it in this sub you all think men are complete idiots and dont know what the deal is??
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:35 AM
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No, youve made it clear you dont believe itshappens to many women and want to live in your own box.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:16 AM
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he does not for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:14 AM
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Ok you do you. Its clear from your replies you have no interest seeing outside your own box.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:14 AM
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Why dont you Google it and see the same things said on many other sites.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 04:52 PM
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No, its happened to most women even those that dont use Reddit. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 04:49 PM
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Many do grow up outside all day with friends. We had to be home at for dinner then home by dark after dinner. Kids all over my neighborhood riding bikes or walking.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 04:41 PM
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So the 45 year old f boy with saggy balls and wrinkles is better?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 08:08 PM
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His wrinkles are so deep too!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 08:00 PM
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You think a 45 year old man chasing 18 year olds is mature, respectful serious?? No respectful mature serious man is chasing 18 year olds. LOL Those 45 year old men chasing me were gross predatory creeps. What a weird leap with asking if I was ran through... I lost my virginity at 18 with my 18 year old virgin boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:56 PM
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They weren't old creepy men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:47 PM
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Nah, my parents knew better and no 45 year old man had good intentions coming after me at 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:41 PM
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Men will have sex with women they hate and think are trash. Women wont have sex with men they hate or think is trash without getting paid by the hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:33 PM
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He aged poorly and flabby.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:26 PM
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So my pretty mom and my dad not wanting a 45 year old man around their 18 year old daughter, oh shes just ugly and dads a simp. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:25 PM
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I find plenty of young women critical about them more over older women. LOL Young women are grossed out by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:24 PM
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Nope seen as creepy by many people of all ages. Specially other 18 year old women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:18 PM
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Exactly, I never see age gap stuff on my social media. Ever. Frankly nobody I know even mentions it, its a weird obsession in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:17 PM
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Simping to me is a man letting women walk all over him treating him like crap and taking it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 02:12 AM
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No it wont!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 02:11 AM
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Ive been an escort for a decade in the US so I do know some things. haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 02:08 AM
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Way more than you think are medium/higher class. In the US anyways. Frankly in the US is so uptight about sex so it would take way more than legalizing it. The US are sexual prudes and sex is still very much shamed, specially for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 02:02 AM
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Look, making it legal will have no impact on the dating market. You seem to not want to listen to multiple posters here saying the same thing. Its legal in many countries and does not impact the dating market. You think it would be magically different in the US? It wont. Most men that even see escorts dont see them because they are lonely, its just for sex/convince. Its not that deep. You think I dont know being an escort for a decade? LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 01:58 AM
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A bunch of men acting toxic. Plenty of good men out there but far too many are a-holes. More than one thinks, at least in this sub. Plenty of women are toxic too out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 01:47 AM
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No, they wont, they see escorts as beneath them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 01:41 AM
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Ive been an escort for a decade. I know what the deal is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 01:39 AM
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If we want credit or to buy a home, etc, we have to report. We file a Schedule C in the US. You also cant put piles of cash in your bank account without questions asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 01:32 AM
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Incels in general dont see escorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 01:29 AM
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Legalizing it wont change the dating market. Legalizing wont prevent trafficking and abuse either. Really it wont help at all scum is scum no matter what the law is, traffickers are still going to do it. It would only make it easier to report abuse without being arrested. Male loneliness has little to do with sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 01:28 AM
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Well, they would cook and clean for pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 01:25 AM
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Most men date close in age and not obsessed with youth. I'll add as a 50 year old escort I do not lack business at all. They could pay for young ones and dont because they like women closer to their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 04:37 PM
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Standards you must pay for a babysitter and my uber? Nah, thats entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 04:30 PM
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Only #4 is reasonable. The rest are entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 04:27 PM
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And a lot of promiscuous people have attachment issues/mental illness. Its not the sex its the reasons why they are having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:45 PM
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Reality, you wont find 1000's of YT videos of women hating on single dads/child free like men do as we just dont have the hate like many men do. I can probably go find 10,000 videos of men hating on single moms/childfree.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:40 AM
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Because women dont hate on single dads or child free.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:55 AM
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Many that post here have no idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:52 AM
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Yet we are upfront on what it is. We both know what it is and know its not true intimacy. So many of you here think men dont know exactly what it is like they are a child. Way to make it seem like men are just idiots. Its trashy for those that lie and scam.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:51 AM
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And there are just as many escorts that wont just do anything. I sure wont and heck no would I get burned by a cig for $500, 99% wont. LOL My experience as an escort, most men are nice fellas. The 'unthinkable' is not the norm at all. Most men I see as well as other escorts are pretty vanilla and nice men. Your post shows you read about some random stuff over what its really like for many escorts. You dont have a clue.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:47 AM
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So lets just call it many men are deadbeats. Thats the real problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:38 AM
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Um lets be real, plenty of men actually do hate single moms as well as child free. I could go find 500+ videos on YT right now with single mom/child free hate. They are 304s, expired, etc. You cant find the same for women hating in single dads or child free dads.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:32 AM
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I see it all over the other dating subs and my short stint on a dating app many years ago, i was catfished too. I think I made it maybe two weeks and I noped out and never looked back. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 04:50 PM
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His wife did at one point so he messed up marrying a women thats not into sex/mismatch drives or his wife is turned off because he is not out of shape and complacent. Ive had way too many say they married a religious prude and then wonder why they are in DB...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 04:46 PM
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Possibly, not every man tells me whats up but enough have to make my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 04:43 PM
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I think many end up there as they are with a non match sexually, they stopped taking care of themselves and they stop dating their wife. I have plenty of experience with men in dead bedroom as an escort. I can see why their wife doesn't want to have sex with their blobbing belly, man boobs, out of breath and sweating all over sucking in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 03:31 PM
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Hes rich and famous. He has not aged well and average looking with a dad bod.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 03:03 PM
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Really, both are doing it, lie about age and use dated photos. Its rampant on apps from both sides. You think nobody will notice you show up looking like a different person?! Apps are just a shit show. I'll die alone drowning in wine eaten by cats before i would ever bother with a dating app. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 03:00 PM
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Why are so so invested? You are being defensive. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 02:50 PM
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10% is more rare. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 02:49 PM
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This sub is mostly women bad. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:46 AM
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I think most fail as they failed to truly vet, family pressure, societal pressure, their own unresolved issues, etc. I think most marry hoping it does last. Pressures to marry and have babies like its the only way to have a good life is still very much alive today even though we have a choice. Its very alive in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:38 AM
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Plenty of avoidants still want the sex... I dated a Fearful many years back for a short time. Its how I found attachment. Learning about it was enlightening. Im a secure. I didnt understand how those that jump person to person, etc did as I couldn't. Didnt even know I was a secure! LOL Now I get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:29 AM
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Though avoidants can jump person to person when they are not triggered anymore looking for another or stick to casual because they dont want to truly bond. They can keep you at a distance avoiding all the rest and still get the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 05:54 PM
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Well one sees hookers.
/r/ExRedPill28/06/24 12:16 AM
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Yes he does.
/r/ExRedPill28/06/24 12:16 AM
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So youre actually mad at male thirst.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 12:10 AM
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They seem to think male thirst is a privilege to women, its not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 12:09 AM
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Male thirst is not a privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 12:09 AM
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Dont forget they dont go through menopause.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 12:05 AM
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You see society valuing you as an incubator a privilege, its not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 12:01 AM
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They share your data so info can be gathered that way. Several dating apps have had leaks/data breach and hacked.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 05:30 PM
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Its a red flag for both sides. If everyone you date is bad, you're the common denominator. If a guy said to me all his exes were crazy playing victim, bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:33 PM
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If you went looking you can find stats on many of the apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:17 PM
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Yup. They ask about history of cancer in your family before they would give you anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 07:09 PM
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Mental health help is becoming more of a thing and less stigmatized than the past but we still have a way to go, specially for men. Also menopause/peri is understudied and dismissed like its no big deal and get over it when it has 200+ symptoms you cannot control. Depression is one of them. Sudden joint pains, insomnia, eats at our bones, eats our muscles, etc, etc, etc. Womens own Drs dismiss them... Just like many older women are on them just for hot flashes as a few of them will minimize them…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 05:43 PM
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Its not a lie, its a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 05:26 PM
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Really its just men in the sub throwing it around like its a gotcha and all about men. LOL I know anger is a sign. Im not the one here that doesnt understand depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 05:25 PM
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You can go look yourself that our hormone fluctuations contribute to depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 05:02 PM
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You really think women are on them because of men? LOL Women are more prone because of our biology, specially at 40+ going into peri/menopause.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:26 PM
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When they throw more women are on them, they never want to include women seek help more and women's biology makes us more prone to depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:24 PM
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Dont need to get rich either. LOL Most of the US makes under $80,000 yet still date, have sex and get married. Heck most of the US lives paycheck to paycheck still dating, having sex and getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 01:54 PM
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so what was the point of posting something that is more rare? LOL The norm is most people date and marry within 5 years of age, its was even the case in 1870.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 02:36 AM
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So the exception, not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 02:14 AM
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Most women would be routing for him in the comments. Never in a million years would I think to go leave a mean comment. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 05:03 PM
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They do it to feel better about themselves and unhappy. Happy people dont go leaving mean comments on some randos video.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 04:58 PM
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And out of all my friends they all dated within 5 years of age. None of us dated some man 10+ years.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 03:01 PM
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Mine is a nice mix of ages/genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 02:53 PM
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My car club has annual picnic/BBQs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 08:06 PM
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Yup!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:27 PM
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Yes, we would rather scoop cat poop. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:11 PM
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And many of the men are busted themselves, they are quite common. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:19 AM
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They do have an option, not to bother with these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:16 AM
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With ANYONE you cant really know! LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:08 AM
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I think its about 50/50 who is a 'mess' to date. Doesnt make them bad people but not good to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:07 AM
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Someone not proposed to doesnt equal they dont find you high value, it can just be as simple as not compatible. Two good people can still not mesh. High value people just dont automatically work with just anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:06 AM
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Im going by title alone. I'll also say I do not hate men or the like. I just know some are crap like some women are crap. Nor do I fear them like other women may. Im very aware though. Heck, Im a part time escort, I see strange men. I 'fear' them less than a man on a dating app. Just saying... I can still get the fear some may feel. I wont dismiss other women fears just because I dont fear in the same way. The fear can be very real for some women. Be it 'irrational', jaded, etc, its still a real…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 02:44 AM
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Ive had plenty of brushes with bad men and it doesnt make me toxic and treat people bad. I got treated toxic so Im going to be toxic is a toxic person thing. Way to excuse men being toxic. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 05:51 PM
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Glad I dont have to deal with them. Im old and they leave me alone. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 08:01 PM
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Whats natural is most people marry and date close in age, all throughout history.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 02:05 PM
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You mean the 'WoMeN BaD' sub? LOL Almost every post is women bad somehow. CMV is just I want to everyone to agree with me and not interested in any sort of view change The most insane takes in that sub.
/r/ExRedPill09/06/24 12:09 PM
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My experience more women step up, Ive stepped up many times myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 12:03 PM
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There is no market for a variety of Kens dolls. They just dont sell as much as Barbies. Little girls dont want Ken dolls, they want barbie.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 01:24 PM
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Ah of course you know every prostitute in the world. Eh? Peer reviewed studies dont factor the independents. Ive never met a prostitute that didnt know exactly what she was doing and didn't hate it. Or lets be real now, most hate their darn jobs lets not act like its some sex worker thing. You want to go by some study, when I live it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 01:25 AM
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No what is shameful is you all making so many assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 01:21 AM
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Source Im an escort. They never study independents.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:58 PM
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Really, less of an STD chance with a good escort, we test often and never go unprotected. Im 9 years in and never a STD.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:26 PM
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The vast majority are independents that chose the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:22 PM
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Men who see women as sex toys did so before they ever saw an escort. Thats a certain type of man and it doesn't suddenly stem from seeing an escort. Most men we see are very nice, respectful, etc, etc. They treat us more like humans than a d bag thats on Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:20 PM
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Its not that deep. LOL Just like the men knows what it is. Why is it you assume we all dont know what we are doing? Or none of us would like the job?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:17 PM
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Its a job so no it wont be free. Its just a different job than yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:14 PM
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Im not used, I provide a service.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:11 PM
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Only for Some it may be. Its actual work for many of us. My life is very quiet and 'boring' and so are many other escorts lives. many of only see a few clients a week and the rest is spent on everyday life things like anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:08 PM
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Love me a crunch wrap! LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 01:05 PM
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Enlighten us.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:46 PM
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My goodness... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 03:22 PM
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I remember him but I certainly dont respect him. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 03:14 PM
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What a larp.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:30 PM
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Many men think we dont know what we want like children are just some pet... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:39 AM
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100% dont. LOL You sound insane for saying 100% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:12 AM
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Have you actually researched menopause? There have been lack of studies, women have been dismissed, etc. And you really want to mock women that seek help because of our hormones we cannot control that cause depression and women just suffered many years ago? What junky talk is how so many of you in the sub want to throw things around you dont even know about nor will experience. Edit to add, funny how many women were doped up in the 30's, 40's and 50's trying to cope and all the women that suffer…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 12:08 AM
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Who knew spending time with family is codependency or babysitting. Favorite part of babysitting is they go home or I get to leave. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 11:04 PM
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So spending time with your family and baby sitting is codependency? LOL You know what I like about babysitting them, they get to go the F home! LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 11:03 PM
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Well someone who wanted children and now childless can be more unhappy. Childfree never wanted kids so they are not unhappy about no kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 11:01 PM
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And menopause causes it not because they are unhappy with life. It makes our hormones go crazy and can cause imbalance. Some take them because they reduce hot flashes and brain fog. You all dont have a clue what its like to go through menopause and cannot control your body.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 10:59 PM
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They do because of menopause and not because they are sad. Anyone that throws out the 40+ crowd is on more has not dont the research. Some of them actually help with hot flashes and nothing to do with depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 10:56 PM
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People assumed I had a fertility issues, ect. Um no, I just didn't want kids! LOL I knew as a teen I didnt want any.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 10:54 PM
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Hes mistaking childless and childfree.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 10:52 PM
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Childless women are not the same as childfree. Those childless women you know wanted kids us childfree do not. I cringe at the thought of having kids. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 10:52 PM
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Apparently youre not factoring how many parents regret having kids. More than those that didnt have kids. What about all the women that were not even included in this study like myself? LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 10:46 PM
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Having kids is grim to me, I like my 'boring life'. I have peace and get to do what I want when I want. I can take 20 vacations a year. This is a you thing thinking life is boring without kids or that some people enjoy their 'boring' life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 10:42 PM
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The insanity in this sub... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 11:52 PM
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Actually everyone knows appearance matters, always has. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 11:49 PM
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Start low and build up. I use the strongest but it took time to get there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 01:37 PM
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5 years is close in age...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:10 PM
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The old men after me at 18 were gross and didnt have good intentions. Many would have gone younger if it wasnt illegal. Funny Im not attracted to 18 year olds at 50
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:56 PM
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Funny I only see it harped on here. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:54 PM
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What?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 03:37 PM
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They have no stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 03:23 AM
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Another Im neurotic post.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 03:20 AM
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Man, some unhinged crap in this sub...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:23 PM
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Id be turned off by you. I can do all those things and you cant, way to dry up my vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 08:07 PM
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Yup and narcissists.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:55 PM
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What is with the age gap obsession here? LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 01:52 PM
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I already know the stats and large gaps are much higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 01:35 PM
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There is the large age gaps having very high divorce rates so do they really report a positive experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:32 PM
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My goodness... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:57 AM
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Those are the stats on large age gap marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 12:15 PM
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90% divorce rates are stable?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 12:31 PM
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If its brought up I guess. It be a job from 15 years ago. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 12:28 PM
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I dont talk about these things on dates. Its weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:52 PM
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I do not. Sometimes id go with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:48 PM
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Ive had the same thing happen to me. Also any type of festival. Some men are just jerks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:39 PM
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Most guys dont fix their own brakes or roof leaks either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:29 PM
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Really, its just men are more thirsty and they have lower standards at least for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:53 AM
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Actually being yourself. That said, maybe do a little fake it till you make it but true colors ALWAYS come out. Your fake self will end up being revealed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:51 AM
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He can go on with the 'pair bonding' baloney as bonding is not just about the sex. Im an escort and can bond just fine with someone I date. I dont date as an escort but have been in long terms were I 'bonded' just fine and know I can again, Im secure attached. Those that cant bond have other issues and its not about the sex they had or with how many. Like attachment issues, traumas, etc. estimated half the population is insecure attached, they cant bond well even as a virgin or only being with t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:41 AM
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Its not garbage at all but not everyone fits. Its very much a tell for some people though. Im one that doesn't 'fit'. I didnt have some traumatic childhood(sure not perfect and blissful all the time but..), dont hate my dad, close with my family/friends. I dont do hardcore drugs, party, etc. Live a very quiet normal life but Im a part time escort but people assume I had some messed up life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:32 AM
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Its never been a topic at work in 35 years Ive been working.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:25 AM
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As a actual prostitute, yes. Ill be one all day over marring a man I dont love and dont want to F silly just for 'princess treatment'. Cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:23 AM
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Id rather suck wankers for hundreds per hour over a man I do not love and dont want to F and suck silly to be a 'princess'. Oh wait, I already do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:21 AM
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They were skirting taxes then.(well in my state that would be the case) If it was all proper you'd need to claim X amount for your sales. Youre actually allowed to claim all your tips if you want to where I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:18 AM
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I can see backgrounds for abuse, etc. If one were to do a background check they wont find my sex work. They would have to hire a PI to follow and track me. Actually most escorts dont show their face, its the norm.(edit, at least in the US) Also more are hiding their faces even if they showed face because of facial recognition. Its a thing in our circles and we are stopped from traveling even if youre just trying to take a vacation. You can even be faceless on OF. Im betting most are there too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:08 AM
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Restaurants I worked for you had to claim more than credit card tips, you have to claim a percentage of your sales. You didnt claim enough they claimed it for you. Strippers will get 1099's.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:48 PM
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Really as long as they keep it separate and not hindering their work as a teacher. Its like just because youre a teacher you must be some perfect human and nobody is perfect. And frankly many teachers are underpaid, over worked and have to buy school supplies out of their own pocket as their school district doesn't have the money. Ive donated so much to teachers because I can. Crafts supplies, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:58 AM
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Who is putting all the blame on men? Some fringe minority? Every women I know including myself treats their man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:54 AM
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Yes, sometimes we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:43 AM
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Did you know many men just want to pay and no woman is demanding them to?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:42 AM
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Ive never been in a long term with a man where we dont pay and do for each other. We are a team. And yes the first few dates he may pay out more cant deny that. Who are these people dating they dont do for each other??? Frankly I dont know any women that dont treat their man be it cooking dinner, gifts, taking them to dinner, etc too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:41 AM
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Where does that link you posted say they count for makeup, bear spray, clothes and car keys? That said I do know some women out their factor getting ready for a date I just think its some small minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:37 AM
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Its nobodys business and if it was not any sort or 'rule' when they hired them. If its not affecting their job as a teacher. Ex I am a part time escort that does other work. My escorting has nothing to do with my other work, doesnt hinder it nor make me do less of a job than one that doesnt escort. I have 5 star reviews about all my work because Im going to provide good service no matter what I provide as a service.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:33 AM
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Ill eat Hostas, they delish.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:28 AM
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We can. Just providing some info. In the US at least. Many are just not informed. We could use a PEO service or Gusto. Survival sex workers a lot of the times are strapped for money and also dont realize we can file like any other business. Also escorting is not illegal and can file as an escort. Its just sex for money that is illegal. I can actually write off my undies, escort ad fees, etc as a business expense like any other business. I find it crazy you can film sex for the world to see for p…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:26 AM
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Well Im glad Im old and 'post wall' to them so they dont bother me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 01:47 AM
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I will add, any sex worker can go get health insurance, we are self employed. We dont need some 'job' to get health insurance. We can get workers comp too if we wanted. Again we are self employed and can do what other self employed businesses do. We just have to file properly, etc to do these things. The IRS, etc doesnt care as long as we pay out. I have better benefits as a self employed(part time escort) person over what many jobs offer. I could just use a payroll company and pay myself out if…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 01:42 AM
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Most sex workes dont even use apps, we use sites meant to advertise our service.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 01:38 AM
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I disagree too, the US is so uptight about sex and if you like anything outside basic sex youre seen as broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 01:36 AM
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I disagree. I find the US very uptight, shameful, closeted etc about sex and other countries its more open and 'degenerate'.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 01:35 AM
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Guys here dont realize many men in the US that would see an escort already do and making it legal wont change Jack. Signed an US escort...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 01:32 AM
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men in the US already go see hookers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 01:27 AM
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Many of us do, we file a schedule C as self employed. You think if we dont we can get mortgages, etc? You cant. You think banks dont question all cash deposits, etc? They do. I know, Im an escort.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 01:25 AM
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It wont, men that want to see escorts already do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 01:23 AM
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I dont see this take as blue, its more red to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 01:22 AM
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This sub has some insane takes! LOL Its like another planet and not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 01:20 AM
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And your logic assumes no women have good judgment and are not delusional when plenty are not. Am I to assume all men are shit because Ive come some bad men? I do not as I know not all men are bad. Why can I see some are good and some are bad but you cant? Thats on you not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 01:19 AM
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And they dont even realize they give off a bad energy and people see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 01:15 AM
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Well, in my 50 years plenty of average looking men, short men, etc have no problem with women. Many men in this sub are whiny and bitter and can see why they have issues, its them not women wanting to cry victim instead of looking in the mirror. I lived life before the net/social media/Reddit, grew with it(Im very tech savvy, etc so ive been trough the changes, etc) and can see many are their own issue needing to reflect. And really RP is not mainstream, its fringe. RP is not on the news weekly,…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 01:13 AM
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Women all day. Id survive just fine as Id know how to build a shelter, gather food, etc. To add I dont hate men at all either.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 01:05 AM
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No, she was talking about some men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 03:31 AM
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I didnt read disgust, just dropped some truths on how some men act. Shes telling no lies. Why is it some behaviors of bad men get talked about its they are a 'man hater' or disgust? I can say things about some bad men and their behavior but I dont hate men at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:58 PM
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Thats not what she said. Way to read what you wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:53 PM
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Yes they do, it starts by 11/12. Even young boys too. Edit, you can go search and find out yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 05:23 AM
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Of ask what you were wearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 02:48 PM
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It is. Most 11/12 year old boys do not have old women coming after them, its old men. You can keep posting some outliers and dismiss its old men 98% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:18 AM
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Him thinking just Chads are rapists.. The men in this sub thinking just Chads are 'the jerks'. LOL Edit, yes downvote the truth. LOL This sub is unhinged.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:10 AM
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So you want to post some outlier? Most 11/12 year old boys dont have old women creeping on them. Its men that creep on them .
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:05 AM
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11/12 year old girls today are still harassed by old men just like 50 years ago. Edit, of course you want to downvote the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 01:05 AM
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You have no clue. LOL Thinking just Chads are rapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 01:01 AM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 12:54 AM
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Only the more 'well off' were stay at home. Plenty of women have always worked. They were clerks, farm labor, teachers, stenographers, book keepers, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:08 PM
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Um not even trying. LOL My point was women dont like whiny bitter men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:00 PM
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People always make assumptions. Though there is that batch of men that are just cheats. I know of several good looking ones that get sex often with hot wives/GF's and still see escorts for the strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:27 PM
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Women are not attracted to whiny men. Youre not a whiny man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:21 PM
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Men were certainly trigged on Twitter about this. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:18 PM
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And add 10+ years so the older men can show up in the filters for much younger women trying to filter the older men out using 10 year old pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:11 PM
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Dont forget you're not a whiny bitter jaded man either. Just like the comment below me... perfect example. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:09 PM
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People in this sub, well anywhere just assume its just desperate men, gross men, ugly men, etc when its not. Escorts have an 'ease of use'. They can go see their favorite escort over dating or trying to get a hook up. They pay to leave and not have to talk to us again, dont have to take us on a date, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:02 PM
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They always assume its just men who cant get a girlfriend or sex. Sure some may fit that but its not most.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 01:56 PM
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Many men here dont know jack. Like I dont know as an actual prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:04 AM
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Um no. Most that see escorts are married in dead bedroom, want the strange cheaters, just dont want to bother dating, be it busy, divorced or widowed. Signed an escort. Edit of course you all want to downvote like I dont know about men who see escorts. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:59 AM
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Dont care. This type of thing was happening before the internet and nobody cared. Many places now have unisex bathrooms anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 12:42 PM
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Older as in 2-5 years? Thats normal. Thats not really 'older', thats the same age range. Older in genreal is 10+ years not some guy three years older.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:59 AM
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Youre welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:53 AM
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Where did I mention huge circles? Throughout history people made friends at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:52 AM
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They are fringe. There are still good men out there. This sub is not the norm either and 'fringe'.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:14 AM
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I can see this being a thing is some industries. The Blue Collar industries not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:06 AM
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My experience men of all ages still approach/mingle with people. Just not many of the men in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:56 AM
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Happy Cake Day.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 12:55 AM
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Men be triggered up in her comments. LOL Though they just push her content more helping her in the algorithm.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:10 PM
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he must be new here. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:58 PM
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From some of the things Ive read as Ive looked this up a big factor is just lack of friendships over dating. Also a factor seems to be lack of relationships with their father.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:46 AM
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Im part of some Blackstone Grill groups and one is just women. The women group is always pleasant and the one with men in it, the men are nasty. They constantly are mocking people and putting people down.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:20 PM
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So not stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:08 PM
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We need the Meryl Streep Cerulean monologue. Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:05 PM
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Already stats on 30+ marring have lower divorce rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:05 AM
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You have stats on the vast majority did?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:57 AM
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So no stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:51 AM
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You have stats on 80%+ women wear a full face of makeup?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:09 PM
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That was some funny shit. Rollo is cringe. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:47 PM
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Hes a tool and a grifter. LOL Frankly hes cringe and feel sorry for his daughter. Her father is a freak show grifter on Youtube. Or the fact that PUA/RP related stuff was around long before the internet. Rollo has not even been the dating game for two decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:34 PM
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First of all nobody is perfect. Secondly if ever felt the urge to cheat something is very wrong with my relationship and I need to check it. No, I would not cheat, its just not who I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:06 PM
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You do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:50 PM
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Youre the one who made the claim more women want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:49 PM
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Have a read.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:46 PM
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You have proof its women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:43 PM
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A PEW study shows men want kids more than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:35 PM
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For some it is a PTSD. Its life changing and not everyone can just handle it so easy Your post is so black and white thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:51 AM
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I know what you mean as its happened to me twice. It was getting to know them in social circles. But this is PPD and we see they think you're full of it when it happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:04 PM
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The insanity in this sub...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:34 PM
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Cringe. I may have seen number 2. Hahaha.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:26 PM
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Heck no. Him complying like a pussy would dry me up. LOL We had all the other stuff too and do for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:15 PM
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Or you know I just like my man happy because I care about him? LOL No man I ever dated thought I was a control freak at all. he appreciated I made him lunch, planned a vacation and bought him gifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 02:06 PM
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She was just a control freak then. Ive done these things for my man and way too laid back to be a control freak. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:49 PM
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Lots of women I know do even my mom. So have I.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:44 PM
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She wears makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 12:06 PM
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But yet she wears makeup...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 12:05 PM
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Shes even done hookups/casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 12:04 PM
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And shes looking very aged already. No solid man would want to date a freak show from the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 12:01 PM
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Strippers, escorts, for their man in the bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 11:43 AM
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What happens with many they wont be allowed to monetize those type of videos. I think youtube moderates pretty heavy specially for making money and music usage. They have filters catch things as its even uploaded. They get enough strikes the channel goes down.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 11:39 AM
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Men allow women to hold the cards because they are thirsty. We dont downplay male thirst.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 11:34 PM
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Welp, Id expect to be dumped if I was whiner. LOL I need to 'adult' up'.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 11:24 PM
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Id only get the' ick' if he wants to just whine, cry and complain not do anything about it. 'Adult up'. Id expect a man to be the same way with me if I just wanted to whine and cry not doing a thing about it like a whiner. There is talking about things bothering you or things youve been through and then there is just whining. Who likes a whiner on either side?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 11:12 PM
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I think the vast majority are. Its a minority that are not kind, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 03:09 AM
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At times it can be though I dont feel the need to always criticize men even though I know plenty suck. I find it hatful.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 03:08 AM
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Ive read articles about and its said happy people tend to post less. Fakebook, the home of curates lives.... LOL I only have a couple business Instagrams so I dont deal with any of this baloney.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 10:23 AM
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That too! Ive always wanted to age with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 09:23 PM
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I dont even have interest in men 10+ years older at 50! Frankly many men my own ang look old as heck and would look like I would be dating my father even though Im close to their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 06:27 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 06:24 AM
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Some do and some dont just like older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 06:23 AM
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No they are not, a 22year old dating a 50 year old are mental.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 06:22 AM
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45 year old men have old sperm and are not peak looks wise nor have a hard wanker like they did at 28.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 06:21 AM
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So many men in this sub talk about outliers like its the norm...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 06:18 AM
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Why do so many of you in this sub list complete outliers like its the norm?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 06:16 AM
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They all act like any 40 year old guy can get 22 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 06:15 AM
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Not even married. Good golly even my long terms I did for his parents because I CARED ABOUT HIM! LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 05:28 AM
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Him thinking its a bad thing the wife makes sure to celebrate their MIL's birthday... I. Cant. Even. Literally who has a problem with making sure family members birthdays are celebrated, etc! LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 05:27 AM
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Funny you to focus on the birthday thing and miss all the rest. Also you thinking its some bad thing the wife wants to make sure their MIL gets a birthday gift...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 05:24 AM
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Its not an explainer its just some info that provides another look at whats going on. Its not just about dating like so many men here post about. This is not the only source Ive seen talk about this. Reality men Are lacking in friendships today. Really many people are as they are stuck on a screen...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 05:22 AM
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Youre delulu.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 05:16 AM
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Hes so that guy... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 05:15 AM
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They sure do! And well Im a part time escort and married men are part of our client base. I dont ask as its business but know many are. In my civi life heck no would I get involved with a taken man. Im my civi life plenty of taken men have hit on me... SO many...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:37 AM
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Really its just a trashy person thing. Men will do the same darn thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:32 AM
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My life experience many of the women do more child care, make all the appointments, do the taxes/finances, shop for the household, buy the gifts, know the birthdays for All the family like the mans mother/grandma/coworkers(some jobs this is a thing), know the school things, go to the parent teacher meeting, plan the vacations, etc all while working full time like dad. I just even watched a YT video asking fathers whats their childs birthday, what school they went to, their kids eye color, etc an…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:28 AM
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So you want them on welfare as they were kicked out so your taxes pay for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:35 AM
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Thats just it though you want to do X so a bigger city works. Where Im at its more rural and there are HVAC guys doing well all over. There are the commercial and residential, both have their place. I live where it gets cold so heating guys do not lack work with installing new heating be it forced air systems, etc. Solar, radiant and Hybrid heating have gained traction.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:32 AM
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Seems nowadays, at least in my area trades are where its at. Less education debt and job placement. Even women are getting into it more and more. I even have a bunch of construction going on near my house as they are expanding a highway and there are several women on the job Im personally for trades over going to college unless its STEM/business. My family is blue, I grew up blue, Im blue and jive more with blue. I find a lot of white collar snooty. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:24 AM
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Id say its more correcting. Though there is a factor when women start to age they can be pushed out of the job over men even if shes more qualified. Its a thing. Specially at 50+.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:16 AM
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And Ive met many.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:08 AM
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'The uniform' is defiantly a thing! LOL Im in a military area. Army, Marines and specially Air National Guard. I did some work for the ANG. I was one of the first few civilians to see X things being on base.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:02 AM
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And I grew up with good foods and very fit in my youth yet I suffer with knee issues because of the sports I played. Its more so repetitive motion injury and very fit people can suffer from it. Im still 130lbs and fit at 50. Heck I moved 15 yards of river rock last summer along with dismantling my large brick fire-pit to rebuild, moving other rocks, etc. I can get down to business but I still suffer. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:58 AM
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My knees hurt from being a gosh darn catcher and a track star. Fit as a fiddle in my youth as well. But they can all go on that only people suffer that dont take care of themselves... LOL Edit, in my youth food was even more clean, less obesity, etc. My parents home cooked good healthy foods. We got junk food as a rare treat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:52 AM
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A degree in anything can land you a higher paying job even if youre not even using the degree. Its about that 'piece of paper' saying you have a degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:49 AM
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Yeah its all single motherhood, groups about women in carpentry being praised and who is stopping men making a male hang out group? Funny there are several in my area through churches, etc and they meet up regularly going to dinner, etc and nobody complains about them nor tries to stop them. They are encouraged. Way to blame women for a man not making friends with other men. Why men are lacking in friendships? Why do so many men have no real friends? Many young men, particularly straight men, ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:42 AM
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Some of the stuff ive read on male loneliness is lack of friendship and lack of a good relationships with their father.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 07:44 PM
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I find it weird they want to say you're cucked for buying a darn drink or a sandwich...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 07:38 PM
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Its not rare though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:12 AM
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Um no. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:11 AM
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I think its about 50/50. Frankly Ive come across more needy men in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:10 AM
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You should change your flair. No true RP man would bother with AI.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 05:45 PM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 01:14 PM
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It can be pretty lucrative. I know several with their own businesses. I personally find men that get their hands dirty hot. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 06:33 PM
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The wont go out with a cop has more to do with them being controlling/narc and high domestic abuse rates. Also they can be killed. I wont date a cop because of the DV, their control issues and many being a narcissist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 06:31 PM
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Ive experienced the same thing. I was not good enough because I was blue, he also looked down on the car I drove at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 06:25 PM
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Having a mistress is pretty irrelevant to what you do for work. LOL Id say about 70% of my clients as an escort are blue collar.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 06:23 PM
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Snotty parents. LOL My parents would be all for it as long as he treats me good and Im happy. They care Im happy not status. Garbage men where I live start at about $65,000 + benefits/union. Most jobs, even white collar you wont make $65 till 40+.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 06:21 PM
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My parents would be the opposite and rag on me for not being with a good man because hes a garbage man. My parents care Im happy and if he made me happy and was good to me thats all they care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 06:18 PM
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Im with you. I jive more with blue over white.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 06:14 PM
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You do you and go use robots and AI then
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:09 PM
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I know you didnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:07 PM
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Sounds like someone thats possibly avoidant attached.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:13 AM
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Im in the boat I dont care what others do, Im just not going to treat people like poo. Its not who I am. Not like I have not been treated like poo in my life by men. Plenty of men lack empathy but Im not going to just treat any man like crap because Some lack empathy. You want to treat women like crap because Some women out their lack empathy, thats says way more about you than the women out there that lack empathy. Sorry youve encountered some crappy women. Ive encountered crappy men too and so…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:08 AM
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Tons here you could never reason with... Good golly Im an escort and know more about men, sex, ED, mens health, relationships, their woes, etc than men do themselves. Men tell escorts things they never tell anyone else! LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:55 AM
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He read what he wanted to read to fit his narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:48 AM
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Im not freaking out. I could care less what some man I dont know does. LOL Dropping truth is not lack of empathy. And really, bad juju to treat people bad because some rando womans Reddit post. I certainly dont go just treat men like crap because some are crappy and have treated me crappy. Thats insane to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:46 AM
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Most men would think the same thing, lets be real. She didn't shame, she just dropped some truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:43 AM
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Frankly, many of us escorts turn the crazies down too. I can have 20 inquires a day. Two were out of budget, two was timing, I booked one and the rest did something stupid and wont see.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:35 AM
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Should you change your flair? Do RP men really think any of this is normal using robots and AI as a replacement? Its mean to ghost unless they are crazy and you need to. Her post has nothing to do with you ghosting women. You just want some lame arse reason to justify it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:32 AM
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Those men can do them. There is no threat to women. Men should speak to their friends, their father/grandfather/uncle or a therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:27 AM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:20 AM
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This sub seems to think only attractive people ever date, have sex or marry... Its like they live on another planet and never leave their house.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 11:53 PM
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Have you actually read all the labels of every product on the shelf? I find it weird you are so against sun protection like the sun is not way more damaging to the skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 11:39 PM
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Well, most people on the planet are average looking, living average lives making average income yet still date, have sex and marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 11:32 PM
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Ive bought my mineral sunscreen at a drug store.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 11:28 PM
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They are not niche though. Mineral sunscreen does block, its one of the strongest blockers as its made with natural minerals like zinc. Its not made with mineral oils. Mineral oil is a whole different thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:45 PM
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And many products are not though. There are plenty of either natural or clean skin care products. Men are more likely to work outdoors with no sun protection so they 'tan too much' as well aging them. Mineral sunscreen wont give you skin cancer but the sun sure will. And dont think you not wearing any sun protection wont catch up to you. How you treat your skin when younger shows up later in life with deeper wrinkles, sun spots and skin cancer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 03:31 PM
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I walk away a lot here. LOL I usually stop in read a bit maybe make a comment or two and bounce. I just cant keep reading the insanity nor bother to reply to one that you could never reason with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:25 PM
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That could be a factor for some.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:30 PM
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You'd probably have a better experience with 30+ escorts though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:27 PM
1

You'd probably have a better experience with 30+ escorts though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:27 PM
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Older women do get pushed out of the workforce as they age and men will get hired before a women the same age even if she more qualified.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:26 PM
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Wouldnt say hate but older women do get pushed out of the workforce as they age and men will get hired before a women the same age even if she more qualified.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:25 PM
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This. Im actively not dating nor care to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:03 PM
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They sure do or an over the top pick me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:48 PM
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I dont post here daily nor whine about men. LOL Again so you talked to one group moderator. One moderator makes it so for all the groups? There is one in almost every city.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:47 PM
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Ok some some small minority? Most women are not even part of these groups. And some mne will do the same thing. Like way back in 1989 where a boy lied and carved into a wood desk he had sex with me when I was a virgin. You acting like this is some women thing to lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 11:54 PM
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Oh bald women would get way more attention over a bald man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 11:50 PM
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Men can possibly age better if they try because they do have more collagen so yes 'biology' but majority dont. Women will age better because way more women take of their skin, use sunblock, go to the dr, etc over men. Society does push womens beauty way more than mens though. Nobody can deny this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 11:49 PM
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I didnt say no women ever lie, I just dont buy most just make up lies for no reason. Well men can say that about women in the man groups for are we dating the same women. No? These groups exsist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 11:38 PM
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He was probably acting like a f boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 11:12 PM
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No its not. Thats some entitled baloney. At this point I dont even buy you're a women and larping as a man. You are too over the top pick me to be woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:49 PM
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It doesn't need to be violent to not take the no. A majority of women have encountered men like this. Heck most women have much older men creeping around them by 11/12. You can keep on sucking all mens ass. Your airport analogy is a whole another issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:48 PM
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Home is not that same as a bar hanging out with others.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:43 PM
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What does this have to do with men not taking no for an answer? Youre reaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:41 PM
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yes, 50 women that dont know each other telepathically send messages to each other just to dog on a man for no reason on a private FB group.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:37 PM
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There are man groups though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:35 PM
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So one group? There are these groups all over the US and possibly other countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:32 PM
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His flair checks out. A downer.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:23 PM
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Everything in the sub is overblown. Its like another planet here and the insanity I see posted, my goodness.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:22 PM
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Add in how many of us had old men after us by 11/12... But lets just be nice to all men all the time. Even the ones that dont take a no.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:21 PM
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Yes it is. Youre a so called women underestimating men that cant take a no too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:17 PM
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Its actually the booze.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:14 PM
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Of course it was some cherry picked 'women bad'.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:49 PM
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The men in this sub seriously underestimate men that wont take the no.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:40 PM
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Actually a big purpose is to just have a good time with friends...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:35 PM
1

It doesnt but you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:19 AM
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Dying alone doesn't equal only partner. Also reality most women die alone even when married so now what?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:12 AM
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Low maintenance doesn't mean low effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 09:28 PM
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They are still a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 09:26 PM
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I dont need a man, Id want one, there is a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 09:25 PM
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Men could go get some friends, no? I will never be alone because I will always have friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 09:23 PM
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They hunt down some small minority though, some .001%.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 09:21 PM
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I think its should be at least 21+ for OF/camming, etc same thing with joining the military. Edit to add I think the sex industry as a whole is more suited for 25+ though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:24 AM
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An ick for me is you did something disgusting as a person. LOL I even just experienced in a friendship. Im so icked out by her I will never be friends with her again.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 03:16 PM
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The ick hits way deeper than a turn off IMO. Ive even experienced ick with friendships. Im absolutely disgusted with this person and there is no going back to being friends ever again shes so cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 03:13 PM
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I have a tatted up friend and she is a total prude. Do I think some tat work can be telling, yes. I think those with chaotic tattoos can have a chaotic mind but a planned carefully though out tattoo, not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:15 AM
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Its PPD, its all about 'women bad'.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:12 AM
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You only think that as you dont have to actually carry a baby. How many kids are you going to pop out for society?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:11 AM
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Those that chose not to have kids are not 'shitting' on motherhood. You see you dont have to carry a bady and wreck your body.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:09 AM
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But, but women bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:07 AM
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Do you understand how we are over tapping into our Earths resources? How the climate has changed with pollution, etc? So many of you guys here are so stuck on 'women bad' you cant even see past it. We have plenty of people on Earth!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:06 AM
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How dare feminism lets women and men choose to have kids or not. You are are foolish if you think women back in the day wanted all those kids, many didnt and were stuck. Or you know the economy is not so great in many areas but lets 'claim feminism' instead of our crap government wasting money, parm companies running things, getting taxed to death, etc, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:01 AM
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Gossip is not illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:39 PM
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Its illegal not censorship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:35 PM
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You do not! LOL Wearing a little makeup is fine and dont have to clown cake it on! I mainly just use mascara, a little face powder to take my moisturizer shine down and some blush/lip gloss. A night out Ill add some eyeshadow and liner sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:28 PM
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A one count could person could cheat... Im a loyal person because thats who I am and not about how many or how much sex Ive had.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 03:51 PM
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Really its about who the person is not how many partners. There are plenty of us that dont cheat and are loyal with a count just like there are plenty with a low count that cheat as they 'didnt have their fun'.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:33 PM
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Tons of them wont even see a Dr for the script and are buying it from other countries/black market hiding it. But yeah, its just 'one guy'... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:34 PM
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And many take estrogen so they dont live without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 11:49 PM
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It is, Im an escort, its very common at 40+.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 11:47 PM
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Ive heard plenty complain about digestion issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 11:46 PM
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Its not just one. How many 40+ men do you have sex with?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 11:44 PM
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They dont help as many men as they think. Not like I dont know all about 40+ mens wankers as an escort...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 11:43 PM
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It doesnt work well for all men though thats for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 11:42 PM
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120 a year, whipty do. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 11:38 PM
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You in no way went Karen. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 11:35 PM
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What??! LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 11:35 PM
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No she didnt. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 11:34 PM
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2 Sadly tons of men do so its not a far off assumption...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 11:29 PM
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Yet most that marry, date and marry before they are built.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 11:27 PM
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SOME women care Reddit or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 11:21 PM
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Id be uncomfortable about that trip too. Im even a part time escort so men pay me but its hourly and a business arrangement... (I dont do traveling, etc with clients, Im an incall only escort) Someone Im dating paying for a full trip somewhere, Id feel very uncomfortable about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 01:59 AM
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What I cannot comprehend is most people on the planet are average looking, live average lives making average money yet still date, have sex and marry! Do so many here literally never leave their house?! Majority of people are not an 'influencer', etc...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 01:48 AM
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I feel you! LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 01:40 AM
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Well I dont not like it, I just dont want to do it often and done with it after a few days. LOL Really just not all of us like to travel much.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 01:38 AM
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I do not. I know all about it all too well! LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 11:04 AM
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You do you. But lets be real no true RP man is having babies with prostitutes. Your 'pretty' thing is irrelevant. I have no beef with paying as Im a part time escort but come on now, this is beta and you knowingly had babies with prostitutes. You really think a true RP man knowingly has babies with prostitutes? They dont. Edit and good god I would never have no tricks baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 02:27 AM
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Good thing most men here are a minority. Really there is about a handful or so of 'normie' men here. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 02:04 AM
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Yet Ive never seen it in 40 years...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 02:03 AM
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The PPD way...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 02:02 AM
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Truth. Outside of being physically stronger in general same can be said for women giving power over them to men. Stop giving people power over you. You should be a team and do for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:53 AM
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Based comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:28 AM
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Happy Cake Day!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 01:20 PM
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A spades a spade. Hey, you do you having babies with prostitutes. Will be a great story for your children. Edit, you should change your flair to beta bux as no true redpill man is having babies with prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 06:15 AM
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So you have more than one kid with prostitutes?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 11:51 PM
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Well, he does have children with prostitutes...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 11:49 PM
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The insanity in this sub... Beta bux having babies with prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 11:48 PM
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Alimony goes both ways and not just men pay. less than 10% even receive it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 11:45 PM
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Yup!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:49 PM
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That guy looks creepy. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:28 PM
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I cannot believe how many posts he has started on Reddit. LOL My goodness...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:16 PM
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I have even intervened in situations with perfect strangers where I knew the woman was uncomfortable and she was so grateful. I have too and I have ran to random women because I needed an out myself. They had my back in an instant.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:07 PM
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If she really vibed with you and liked you, then she would come back lol. Yup. If I really wanted to keep talking to a guy my friends wont stop me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:04 PM
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You have stats on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:57 PM
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Wasted breath for most here...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:37 AM
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Look Im a Gen x too and tons still caved to societal pressure.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:32 AM
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I know whores dont know a thing about sex, relationships, attraction or men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:31 AM
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Can relate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:08 AM
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Its just filled with men that are not the norm. There is only a handful or so of normal men here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:56 AM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:52 AM
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For real! LOL One of my good gal pals son comes over and we do crafts together. We hang out doing crafts while she goes grocery shopping/runs errands. He loves crafts/art and loves coming over. I have a butt load of crafts/art supplies. Last time we made beaded necklaces for Valentines Day for his mom and grandma.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 01:09 AM
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Nah they were expected to 'settle' and follow society.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:55 AM
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I think most people are reasonable and just want to be with someone they are attracted to and compatible with. This sub wants to blow things way out of proportion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:54 AM
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What??
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:52 AM
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Ive always been in touch with married/having a baby friends. Drift a away? What? LOL Heck I invite them over for gatherings and to come swimming in the summer. Also outdoor movie night. They all bring the kids. I dont even have kids yet Im part of my friends/kids lives. This sub sure has some unhinged takes... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:50 AM
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If anything boomers and Gen x put up with more crap and settled for mediocore.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:42 AM
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I find it weird this is some think here when most people on the planet are average living average lives making average income. Its the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:41 AM
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So have babies and marry a man you dont want is better?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:38 AM
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Holy projection. Also most people on the planet are average living average lives making average income. Its the norm. They still date, have sex and get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:37 AM
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Others can, more to the imagination. Just like my other post, you can look hot fully dressed. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:07 PM
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All I know is I wont date a man long term I dont want to F silly. Edit, settling to me is being with someone you dont really want to be with just to have someone and not be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:32 AM
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This is more my style as an escort. This is a random picture I could find thats close to my style. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:37 AM
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Touché.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:21 AM
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Actually there is a market for us more low key. Its just not my style to be revealing and have always been more of a 'classic' dresser. You can ooze sex appeal being fully dressed. Edit: This is more my style. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:20 AM
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Its a You thing not an everyone thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:17 PM
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Do you know every man that has ever gone to a club? Who dictates comfort? You?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:11 PM
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You see, I dont have trust issues. If I dont trust my man to go out we shouldn't be dating. Seems youre projecting your own issues or thats how you would act if you went to a club.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:10 PM
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They are meant for having drinks and dancing single or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:47 PM
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Because those places are not meant for single people. Says who, you? Are you the club police?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:31 PM
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Thats a problem for you and doesnt mean everyone will find it an issue. I have no problem with my man going to a club with his friends...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:30 PM
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Yup. Shes only into long terms, barley drinks, doesn't do drugs, no casual/hookups, close to her family, etc yet people would assume she does. Same for me Im only into long terms outside my part time escort job(I dont even date right now but not into hookups/casual) Even my escort outfits are more 'classy' as in pretty robes, lace, shoes, etc and not say.. florescent stripper looking, stripper heals, fishnets, etc if you catch my drift. I have very few pictures on the net and share them privatel…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:18 PM
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Its one of those things... You just never know. I have a model friend that does revealing photos and covered in tattoos but shes a total prude. Im a paid whore but dress more classy and conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:03 PM
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What in the....
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 02:33 PM
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They are mad some women would rather scoop cat poop than date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 11:37 PM
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Divorce baggage is favorable? Those that chose to marry the wrong person is the favorable one over one that chose not to marry the wrong person and not have divorce baggage?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 11:33 PM
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The dating market would not change one bit in the US if it became legal. Men who want to see escorts already do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 11:50 PM
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men who like cats are hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 04:12 AM
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I find men that can be manly but have a soft side hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 04:10 AM
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Where did I say remove them? LOL Being in a different location is not saying not have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 06:53 PM
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Who said I want them on the streets? I said no such thing. Funny how where I live there are several of these places around and none are near a school or homes but people sure know all about them. They are all very well known. Even our womens DV shelter is not near schools or homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 06:49 PM
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Just another women bad post.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 06:42 PM
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Why are you so hard pressed to have addicts and mentally ill next to a school? There are places like this where I live and even the womens shelter and none of them are near a school or homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 06:35 PM
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And it doesn't need to be near a bunch of schools with kids. Its very clear you've never worked with mentally ill and addicts. You thinking you can easily control them all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 06:30 PM
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Not being near a bunch of schools does not equal out of sight and out of mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 06:27 PM
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Have you ever worked at a place like this? I have friends and family that has and they get beat on, etc by some of the mentally ill. Many of them ARE a danger.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 06:26 PM
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A place like this near me the staff gets beat on etc because of mentally ill... but yes lets put those next to schools...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 06:23 PM
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I cannot comprehend how you think mentally ill and addicts near schools with children is a good thing. There is a place like that close by me and the people that work there are beat on, etc because people are mentally ill. You are so foolish to think it can be easily contained dealing with mentally ill/addicts. Its nowhere near housing or schools.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 06:22 PM
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So no stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 04:26 PM
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I wouldn't say those things out loud but may think it. I would just stop dating an inept man. I dont expect a man to know how to fix everything or expect him to do but if he cant fix anything? If i can fix things and he has not even a clue nor would even try, way to dry my vagina up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:35 PM
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They are so defeatist...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:13 PM
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Actually social media and this very sub would cause more depressed people over dating. Edit and lack of friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:10 PM
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Im downvoted here all the time when I drop truths. LOL So the truth is unpopular.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 04:46 AM
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You have stats on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:57 AM
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Yup they sure will. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:48 AM
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Me looking into HRT I didnt even think about looks. LOL Hot flashes, brain fog and want my lady bits to still have a sex drive! LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:46 AM
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What I can say though is that single older women complain the most on social media I see way more younger women. I dont know any older women posting on social media about this. I know they exist but they are not a norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:41 AM
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It's not successful Chads the ones obsessed with older women's happiness They are certainly not here starting threads...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:38 AM
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me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:37 AM
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And you're grasping when its biology trying to prove its because of being lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:37 AM
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Um over 55 is missing hormones that can keep you regulated.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:35 AM
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And women need all their hormones to not feel depressed. You know hormones that stop for women that dont for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:31 AM
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Nowadays everyone is over prescribed for Everything. Many Drs push more pills just to make a buck over getting to the root cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:27 AM
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Women are more prone just because of our biology so yes older women may need help because they are missing certain hormones from the change of life men never experience. This sub likes to push its because of being unhappy when its just hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:25 AM
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Do you realize the 55-80 is lacking certain hormones that makes them prone to feeling depressed?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:22 AM
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Ive read about 20 and financial is never number 1. Lack of commitment does not mean nothing...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:20 AM
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I have a fan and lube.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:53 PM
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So 30 year olds are older women now? Also peri meno can start by mid 30's.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:49 PM
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Lots of women cant, it can increase cancer risks, blood clots, strokes, etc. I dont take anything and going natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:45 PM
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True. LOL Some of the stuff I read seemed the relationship with their father factored more.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:32 PM
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They are slimmer for anyone as they age. The pool is smaller.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:26 PM
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Also lack of good relationships with their father.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:11 PM
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#1 is not financial.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:10 PM
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I care for myself personally as I want to age together. I want someone around my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 06:33 PM
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Yup. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 06:05 PM
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Older women take more antidepressants because of our hormones specially peri/menopause. Its not because of unhappiness. They are even used for hot flashes. Women also seek help more than men. This older women on meds thrown around and you dont even know the reason why...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 04:53 PM
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It does and you can deny it all you want. You can think your 35+ sperm is better that it was at 25... LOL The only 'wall' is fertility, both men and women under 35 have better fertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 04:25 AM
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Most people by mid 20's seek long terms. Most people that marry/want to marry are marring by late 20's to early 30's so they were dating early to mid 20's. This sub over blows Everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 12:44 AM
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You claimed not true when its not the case for all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 12:42 AM
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You dont even see youre claiming men are hive mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 12:41 AM
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You need to go do some homework on male fertility. Majority of sperm banks dont take sperm past 35 because its aged.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 12:41 AM
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Overall, the dating market tends to get worse for women as they get older. No, it does for both as the pool is just smaller.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 12:39 AM
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And how fertile is a man at 35? Why do you men think you have healthy sperm as you age? You dont. Most sperm banks dont take sperm past 35 for a reason. Family oriented men dont wait till 38. The seek a wife long before that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 12:37 AM
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Youre the one that sounds butthurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 12:34 AM
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And guys when we were 20 didnt see us that way either. You all thinking is really that different when we were 22. Its not. Just as many men wanted to use us for sex then too. LOL Some of you all here really have not a clue.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 12:32 AM
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it does not stop. Im now 50 and no lack of male attention. Im also certainly not lacking business either as a 50 year old escort. They could pay the 22 year but dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 12:30 AM
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If you want first get married at 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 12:29 AM
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Your Dr friend needs to do their homework. Most sperm banks dont take sperm past 35 for a reason, its aged. Sorry all of us are peak fertility under 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 12:28 AM
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And men at 35+ have geriatric sperm too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 12:26 AM
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Passport bros have been around since at least the 50's. Its not new.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 12:25 AM
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What planet do you live on that you think women are not getting married at all ages?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 12:23 AM
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Youre not prime fertility so why would some 20 year old bother?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 12:23 AM
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Oh women here understand its the men that dont and you sure dont. Women at any age will be able to find a husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 12:20 AM
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Thats you not all men. You saying men are hive minded?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 12:17 AM
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What you want doesnt make it so for all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 12:15 AM
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For real. Most men after me at 20 only wanted sex. They seem to think we have droves of good men after us at 20. Not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 12:13 AM
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He brings up the CC and then states all the women jealous have boyfriends...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:37 PM
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so they are not riding the CC and have a BF? Why bring up the CC?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:34 PM
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I think its about 50/50 on who can be crappy though I think it can lean more heavier wth men being worse. Partly just because they are stronger and can take a women out much easier than a woman taking out a man. Ive come across way more crappy men in my life than women. While sexual harassment is very real for men too most men dont have any sort of fear a strange women touching them, they like it and women its the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:37 PM
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My parents told me to work hard for things I want, earn your way and dont treat people like crap to bottom line it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:56 AM
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Like many men are only my friend because they want sex, works both ways. I dont bother with male friends either because 99% of them wants to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:47 AM
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I think most people have normal standards and this sub blows things way out of proportion. Like neurotic insanity proportions stepping on their own wankers and cant get out of their own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:42 AM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 07:47 PM
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And you can choose to eliminate the belly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 07:40 PM
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I have no choice Yes you, you can choose not to think that way. Plenty, even in this sub will find me a waste of life doesnt mean I think I am or that I am in any way. I choose not bother with other peoples own projections.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 03:43 PM
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Single doesnt men not dating or having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 03:36 PM
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So they have all this great stuff and still dwelling about when they were 22? Sounds like a them problem and they need to get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 03:34 PM
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sensitive neurotic fucks. Like most of the men in this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 03:32 PM
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And at the same time also states women have checked out. You saying all those men are stupid and didnt notice she was checked out?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 03:30 PM
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they don’t even notice their partner has checked out for months Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 03:27 PM
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Yes, several and they are still lovey, flirty and touchy feely. Even my parents are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 02:57 PM
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Get out and about and not use apps/social media as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 02:36 PM
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Haha, Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 01:57 PM
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I'll refinish the table and chairs. You bring the forks, she will bring cheeseburgers and he will bring the brie. Who is bring dessert and wine?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 04:58 PM
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Some people are just not photogenic as well and just look better in person. I know I do. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 02:27 PM
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I personally dont have the time to date multiple men nor want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 05:50 AM
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You assume women are attracted to their partners, they aren't And youre assuming they are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 05:48 AM
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And many are tired of people posting some app data from over 10 years ago based on bad photos/profiles. The data is based on profiles and photos with many of the men having bad photos and profiles.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 05:48 AM
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I dont own a pair nor fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 04:08 AM
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i know men that have lists 💀 I even know a guy that has an excel sheet for his ideal woman. Ive know more men like that than women all day in 30 years...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 06:16 AM
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And most men in this sub wont get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 06:14 AM
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So another male thirst thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 05:51 AM
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The 'men are trash' doesnt stem from good men...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 03:21 PM
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People can have good vibes only and sure know reality. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 02:04 PM
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You guys will literally invent reasons to get yourself out of getting laid. It’s honestly impressive. For real. Its insane in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 02:01 PM
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Most those men are cringe and act like all men are stupid/ hive mind. Sorry so many of them act like all men are stupid idiots and need to be told what to do like a sheep. I sure think some men are crap just like some women are but I dont think all men are hive mind or stupid. Guys watching, following, and thinking like them are just as cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 06:38 AM
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Weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 06:34 AM
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You dont enable grown men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 06:33 AM
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I mean, my parents more or less said this way back in 1982. But today is some issue to just be 'normal'.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 06:31 AM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 06:29 AM
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So many of you here will step on your own wanker trying to prove 'women' are just bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 06:27 AM
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Um knowing women from that time? You think our great grandmas, grandmas and mothers didnt know when they lived it? You think we cant read about as so many have come out with what its was like? Really? Or just logically know what it could be like not having your own money and have to be a dependent? Would you want to be a dependent and trapped? You think feminism happened because women had it so great? I mean sheesh, we had human slaves... people owned black people(not trying to be offensive for …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 06:24 AM
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Its a choice though. Reality there is something you could go do outside the house every day/night of the week if you wanted to pretty much Anywhere. Trivia nights, bands, bowling, karaoke, crafts, dinners at the VFW, farmers markets, vendor shows, charity work, hobby events, wine tastings, etc, etc, etc. I can go look right now on FB and find 50 events I could go to in the next few weeks. Its a bunch of events like I just listed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 06:12 AM
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Sadly its easier than ever to meet people today but not doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 06:05 AM
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I think in general you dont have to jump through hoops for those you're meant to be with or at least cool with each other even if it doesn't go anywhere if you catch my drift. There are basic be a good person 'hoops' and hoops you Think you have to jump through. Stop jumping for the think you have to hoops. Frankly for some on either side cant even jump the basic hoops... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 06:04 AM
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If you are going to hold people to those standards live by them. End thread. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 05:57 AM
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Nobody really has issues with a 'low count man' wanting a 'low count woman'. Its the male 'sluts' wanting some virgin/low partners when hes been with 100 women and ones that shame women when they have been a male whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 05:53 AM
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Snuggle, makeout, have sex, spoon, good talks, good laughs, good food together, etc, etc. Snuggle, makeout, have sex, spoon, I dont do with friends. Just sayin'.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 05:35 AM
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As far as I know I was only cheated on once and Ive never cheated personally. Im in the boat I would not want to be cheated on so I wont do that to who I am dating. Just not who I am. Id at least dump him first. And really if a 'need to cheat' was even a thought, something is very wrong with my relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 05:28 AM
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And men are only loyal to their wanker and only think with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 05:25 AM
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LOL Yeah ok. Why do married men see me as escort when they have regular sex with their wife? They straight tell me they do and just want the strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 05:24 AM
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More options doesn't = lack of self control. Men have options, they pay escorts. Not like I dont know as an escort and the married men I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 05:22 AM
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That's a lot of really quick courtship! Sure is. Gee none of them were already talking to other women or cheating and just magically met the new wife after the papers were signed...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 05:20 AM
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I'll make, filing paperwork doesn't equal she was the cause or even wanted the divorce. Women handle more paperwork, make Dr appointments, set up things for their kids, go to more school meetings, etc. Plenty of men dont even know their kids teachers names, their own mothers birthday, etc. The wife handles it. So I can see why women file more but you want to post it like its some 'flex'.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 05:18 AM
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I think its close to 50/50 on who cheats but I think men do it a bit more/want to/would. I also think a minority cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 05:14 AM
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Lies and manipulation are not love.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 02:14 PM
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Some of the replies here... and you wonder why so many women say men are trash. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 04:37 PM
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And they wonder why so many women out there say all men are trash... A bunch in this sub are just that, trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 04:36 PM
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Because I dont date a man for his money? LOL Escorting is not dating, its business arrangements.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 04:31 PM
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That happens a lot here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 04:20 AM
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Im an actual escort and dont only see men as a paycheck. I think its a smaller minority of people that only see that. Frankly, the last thing I seek in a man is money when it comes to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 04:18 AM
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Because that is life? You have to accept some people wont like you, some may be mean, etc. What you dont have to accept... is keep taking it from someone. Im a stick my foot in my mouth sometimes honest type and some dont like it. Its just life. Its not my problem they dont like, its theirs. Frankly many out there cant handle the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 03:54 AM
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This. Sorry being a liar to get sex is bad JuJu.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 03:50 AM
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That sounds like a you thing. If my man vacuuming my car for 15 minutes or cooking dinner is so demanding, theres the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 03:31 AM
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So simps have women hot for them and want to F them silly? Is this the new definition?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 03:27 AM
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I refrain a lot here and just click off. LOL Some unhinged and insanity posted here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 03:26 AM
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I read it just fine. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 03:24 AM
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Thats not watching something, thats a whole other subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:16 PM
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And what is that? Having a women hot for you and want to have lots of sex is now a simp? Simps dont have women hot for them nor want to F a simp silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:11 PM
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Me: I had a girl hot for me and F-ed me silly. Rando: Simp Since when do simps get f-ed silly?? Simps dont have women hot for them...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:09 PM
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Im replying to the baloney 'to get money'.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:06 PM
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He wanted the truth and there it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:02 PM
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Yet every women I know does things for their man so Im speaking general.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:02 PM
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Holy leap. its not that deep. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:30 PM
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The truth is we all dont fit into a box and not all men and women like the same things. Youre trying to fit women in a box.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:28 PM
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Mine is acts of service and could give a crap about gifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:23 PM
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Says who, you? Im always good to my man doing acts of kindness, gifts, etc. My mom and all my friends are the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:20 PM
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It is!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 03:23 PM
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I click off a lot from this sub from the insanity I read. I talk to my family and friends about some of the insanity. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:48 PM
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Love a good frame. I have one I found in the trash almost 20 years ago. I used to have a photograph I took in it of a model and hung at my photo studio years ago. Its big, I think its a 36x24 and fully carved wood.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:44 PM
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Much of the content Ive personally seen is from married women/couples. The woman speaks though. I think some are and some arent like childfree women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:40 PM
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Much of us outliving men in older age is mens poor health. Men are not going off to war at 60, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:30 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 05:15 AM
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Sounds like you are the common denominator not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 05:06 AM
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So some dating app study based on crappy photos?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 05:04 AM
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Youre projecting. Many women end up alone at 60+ even if married. We outlive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:49 AM
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For real... Its normal to want to date someone youre attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:44 AM
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You need to keep track like some spread sheet dont date.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:59 PM
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Your reply here is the lazy one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:56 PM
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Yes, all escorts do more or less. Not just married ones, divorced/singles.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:54 PM
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Im not believed either since they want to downvote. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:52 PM
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Male thirst.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:07 AM
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I think some do but I think way more have other traumas and attachment issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:07 AM
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him cleaning will make me want to suck his wanker.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:56 AM
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Did you miss that part where she said even when the sex was frequent?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:55 AM
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I'll add, I know more than all of you about dead bedroom as an escort. You can read whatever you want but I 'live it'. I can say many let themselves go.(not saying women never do to get that out of the way, some sure do) Beer guts, man boobs, hair growing in weird places as they age they dont take care of, looking dumpy, dated, etc. Also the batch that married a 'religious prude'. There is the batch thats neglectful. Sure some men just end up there but Im betting 80% is him slacking. He doesn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:49 AM
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They get on Tinder hoping to get some but they dont. You see... I know what they are doing as an escort. We know they are on Tinder too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:28 AM
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Its ok, you can keep dismissing it and blame it on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:23 AM
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If you actually went and looked it up a huge factor IS men making less friends today. Why dont you go look for yourself instead of dismissing it like its not happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:46 AM
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Thats your friends not all single women. My friends single in my circle are not miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:43 AM
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The guys do that know they can fuck and tinder works for them For many it doesnt at all and they end up seeing escorts. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:40 AM
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Im mean... Im a 50 year old escort and dont lack business...LOL They can pay young ones but they dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:38 AM
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No. Most people out there know looks matter along with life ambition, etc. Sorry some of you are all oblivious thinking only looks matter and want to claim some pill baloney.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:41 AM
2

A lot of men are struggling from lack of friendships. Go look it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:34 AM
4

I would say nobody wants anyone that outshines them. Most want someone that shine on each other. Why bother dating or marrying one that you dont shine on each other???
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:22 AM
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I mean women find most men unattractive From dating apps with bad photos and profiles. lets get real. No. I just live in the real works and plenty of average looking men have no problem dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:18 AM
0

Still broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:15 AM
1

I think you underestimate how many average men do and can.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 09:55 PM
6

They are. No money in savings and one paycheck from trouble is being broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:13 PM
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It IS working for plenty of people though. Low birth rates, a huge factor is people have a choice today and having less kids or no kids. Its not about dating. And increasing amount of single men are men just having casual sex so still single also lack of socializing/lack of friendships. If you go look, men are making less friends than ever today. Less people are getting married because again, we have a choice today.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:09 PM
4

I see paycheck to paycheck as broke, they are one paycheck from going into a hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:04 PM
3

One paycheck away from going in a hole is broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:04 PM
1

You going to eat a wanker filled pie?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 05:16 AM
-1

And men will F a pie. You want to compare a millionaire to a pie.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 05:08 AM
-1

Men will stick their wanker in a pie.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:58 AM
5

They sure do. Also it would not be so easy if so many men were not super thirsty.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 08:37 PM
0

No, its male thrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 08:36 PM
1

Funny a lot of the guys in those are we dating the same man facebook groups most the men are barley average, balding, broke, ugly, etc. I swear many men here dont live in the real world if they dont see average/ugly men with wives/gfs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 08:32 PM
2

I dont think Im an outlier. Id say most people care they are attracted and not even thinking about if others find them attractive. Certainly outside of high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:46 PM
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Women literally require other women to lust after and want their man in order to be attracted Some women may be that way. I could give a shit as long as IM attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:18 PM
2

You all are for thinking people dont grow attraction .
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 01:37 PM
2

Doesnt mean what she said doesnt happen all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 01:36 PM
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What you posted happens all the time with people. You grow attraction to people. They think this is bad. LOL Them thinking you wont want to F them silly from the grown attraction and only thing valid is she must want to F you in 5 minutes of meeting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 03:40 AM
3

What she posted is actually not an outlier and happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 03:37 AM
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Why would a good woman want to be with a man with a mentality of 'how much you have over her'? Your energy is sus. Cringe. Nobody can help you if you think attractive people never get rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:07 PM
3

Dont forget must suck and F on command.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 08:28 PM
2

They dismiss it all the time. Its why i dont even bother answering this dumb question.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 08:25 PM
2

Men have different rules too. This is not some new thing for either gender to do. They will just through hoops for Stacy and just Netfix with Jane.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 08:21 PM
1

The trend is late 20's/early 30's and they also have lower divorce rates. Were you ready for babies and marriage at 22?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 08:19 PM
0

60% of men under 30 being single. Doesnt mean not dating at all, having sex, or situationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 06:18 PM
2

Most people getting married are late 20's/early 30's. Its a minority of women waiting that late.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 06:16 PM
0

Yet all the men I know in their young 20s have girlfriends...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 06:14 PM
7

Male thirst.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 06:09 PM
3

And me putting on some blush isnt going to bring me a line of Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:23 PM
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Typo, non. I was making a joke as many men here seem to think only Chads get sex... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:22 PM
2

Anyone I know would call him a 5 stage clinger stalker.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:12 PM
3

Say it isnt so, no Chads get laid!?!?!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:09 PM
1

Bad kissing, being vulgar/racist and treating people like crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:08 PM
3

And neither is not being fat for a man and not dressing like crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:00 PM
2

Its seems shes under your skin...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:03 PM
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What if you want an evening in a cosy wine bar? What if you want to go out dancing? What if you want to go and see a show? I would not do any of that for a first meet. LOL Those are things to do when already dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:17 PM
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I spent most of my 20's in a long term too. Exactly, life happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:54 PM
3

Doesnt even factor how men sperm falls off and falling off faster today.... Why no mention of men needing to start early because they are peak sperm? Why must only women? Its just another 'women bad' thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 09:14 PM
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Cringe...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 09:05 PM
2

If women are so called peak at 20 then men should be having babies at the same age. Mens fertility starts to fall off too. Seems youre not even factoring mens fertility. LOL You'd also would like to start young and early having the highest divorce rates? Lots are out of college by 22 so they can work and start a family late 20's. Also a huge factor is not everyone finds someone they Even want to have kids with by x age. Childless women is not all about some career baloney or a hoe phase. You thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 09:04 PM
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Its not about how you look its about getting out mingling with people. Do I know I can fare better being a women, yes, so dont play that baloney. I can also experience more harassment, etc. I just dont live in fear, Im just aware. Still bottom line its a you thing not wanting to go to a bar alone. And i said its ok you dont but its still about you not that going to a bar alone is a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 03:50 AM
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Going by title alone... Why does liking someone confident with leader skills mean you must submit and be obedient?!? Like what?? Why cant both be confident and help each other? What in the heck?? Relationships are about doing and caring for each other. Even if the man is more the leader doesnt mean his lady needs to 'submit and obey'. Cringe. Youre a team.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 03:44 AM
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Its still a you thing. its ok you dont want to but its your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 03:32 AM
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Its a him thing. .. So many people go out alone, you just think they are not because they are friendly with all the other people that go out alone. LOL he seems not to get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 03:15 AM
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The being alone at a bar is a You thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 03:13 AM
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It sucks for you. Many people have no issue going to the bar by themselves. I find going out alone nice. Ive made new friends going out alone and now its Im never alone going out even though I go alone. Edit to add, the work Ive picked up mingling with people 'alone' too at the bar. I just chat about what I do and I sell it without having to sell it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 03:08 AM
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Happens a lot here. Just like I dont post about things I have not actually looked up. As of late the male 'loneliness epidemic' that gets thrown around is blamed on women when much of it lack of friendships and not about dating. Its clear they have not actually looked into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 02:19 PM
1

The 'male loneliness epidemic' has more to do with lack of male friendships and lack of relationships with their father. Men are not making male friends like they used to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 10:19 PM
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Choice. We have a choice not to have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:50 PM
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Wanting to meet to see if you even want to keep talking is not desperate. If a man or woman thinks Im desperate for wanting to efficiently weed people out not wasting my time, they can piss off. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 11:43 PM
1

Id personally meet as soon as we can. I dont want to waste my own time texting for weeks. How people are in person vs texting can be completely different.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 08:18 PM
1

Im betting he leaked them himself. Its a stunt to get attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:42 PM
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I think it happens more often than not with people that get out and live life doing things. You dont have to be actively looking all the time to meet someone. Some out there its stop being desperate and just go out and live life. For those with you cant happen with men because he 'has to approach'... Youre out living life coming across women you could approach or even just chat with be it warm approach or cold. You all crying you have to 'make the first move' are stepping on your own wanker and …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:27 AM
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No, many men just dont care. How desperate dating a women that treats them good...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 02:58 AM
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So the .0001% that make full time money.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 02:56 AM
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I find the guys that cant get any hung up and neurotic about it when the rest just are not hung up as long as she threats him well cares about him. Like men in the sub are not representative of most men. Its like anther planet here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 02:32 PM
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Men dont need to be touched starved to not be hung up on a dick count.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 02:20 PM
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My escorting has nothing to do with my comment. I also dated before I ever became an escort. My escorting has nothing to do with the general statement many men care about how they are treated more than how many dicks she had.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 02:13 PM
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It’s hard for me to wrap my head around being happy about being “tolerated” Me too...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 01:55 PM
1

If you say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 01:45 PM
2

Who said anything about clients?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 01:45 PM
0

Have a life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 04:17 AM
1

If you have to mention your height and degree, thats not the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 04:16 AM
4

You don't need to retrain go to college or anything like that. You dont for many jobs. Sure, its a low barrier for entry but not easy to make full time money at all. Far too many think its easy money when its not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 04:15 AM
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Many here have no idea what a healthy relationship is and want to be tit for tat keeping score on who does what. They would have no idea what a good person is if it punched them in the face.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 04:06 AM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 04:04 AM
3

Some .0001%.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 04:02 AM
3

If it was so easy all OF creators would be making more than $180 a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 04:01 AM
6

It also takes understanding on using social media, knowing how to optimize the content you sell, building a following, staying active, etc, etc for anyone to find you in a sea of 3 million other bum or foot pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 04:00 AM
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Most OF creators make a whole $180 a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 03:58 AM
1

he doesn't live in reality...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 03:56 AM
2

have you actually looked up the 'male loneliness epidemic'? If you went looking much of it lack of male friendships and relationships with their fathers not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 03:55 AM
2

Most women cannot make a lot of money by prostituting themselves Sure they can if they wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 03:53 AM
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Many men are though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 03:50 AM
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I read nothing but the title. Both sides have things to deal with and both sides have it easier in some areas over the other. Really what this probably boils down to without reading... yes women can get sex and dates easier that men because many man are easy and thirsty.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 02:48 AM
2

Not to invalidate but its more your circle and I have a similar experience to Shes in 99.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 02:44 AM
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Really in the big picture all that matters to bottom line it is being treated well on either side. The so called 'slut' could treat him like a 'king' and the virgin can be the cheater. You never know no matter what some 'study says'. Far too many want to care about what others think and what you should do or think. If the gosh darn 'slut' treats you good and youre happy f what anyone else thinks and live your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 02:40 AM
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0 Chads dont care.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 12:37 AM
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I find many men could care less as long as shes treats him good and they vibe together. Now 50 and never had a man ask my count nor asked his.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 12:36 AM
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I dont fall into the 12 months but I met all my BF's out living life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 12:34 AM
3

So you dont understand male thirst?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 12:34 AM
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Im as old as them and dont find many attractive. Most men I come across my age(50) look 65... They still look like a much older man even though we are close in age. Men aging like fine wine is total cap. Majority of young women dont want old men. I sure didnt at 20. LOL It was eww youre as old as my dad. This sub is weird and obsessed with age gap baloney. Its a small minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 12:31 AM
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Pretty much...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 12:25 AM
1

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime as they say. And its true.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 02:42 PM
6

Male thirst.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 10:50 AM
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Shes a narcissist sociopath bully and vile. She was my friend until her true colors showed and kicked her crazy out of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 03:18 PM
1

Im an escort. Men talk to me about things they would never with other people. I know Ive helped them in other ways. I also know a lot about mens health and talk about these things with them. Ive also noticed bad moles, etc on their back or the like they should get checked. I recognize them as Ive had my own precancerous moles removed. So many men have no idea about being proactive about prostate cancer, etc. Men sure seem to lack awareness on health mens health issues. They dont know there are m…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 01:17 PM
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Shes cringe and just a grifter hypocrite though. Shes one of the worst ones out there in that space.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 12:55 PM
1

I think everyone should get off apps/less social media and get outside! LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 12:47 PM
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On dating apps going by photos/profile. Lots of men have crap photos.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 02:03 PM
2

Reality most people on the planet just want to be with someone they WANT and compatible with. Its a minority that date people just to have someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:17 AM
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Im a dont ever post on the net about my relationship. My last long term neither of us had personal social media. He had none at all and I had a business IG. My business IG is 97% product sharing and 95% women followers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:01 AM
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Most women just want a man they are attracted to and actually want to have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:29 AM
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Lots of times there are signs, its a change in behavior even if its subtle. People cheat or not. Ive never cheated and never will as its just not who I am. Im not going to do things to someone I would never want done to myself. Cringe. If I ever feel the need to cheat something is very wrong with my relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:28 AM
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I think she is crap personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:22 AM
1

Shes... well... not a good role model thats for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:17 AM
4

Frankly no dates is better that shitty dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:16 AM
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My experience women are hungry for men they are attracted to and Want to have sex with. That said, there are women out there that want the money over everything else, they are a minority though. Id say most people on the planet want someone they want to F and actually attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:15 AM
1

Lizzo is cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:11 AM
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They are not stuck, they choose it. Sorry, any of us can stay single over dating someone we dont really want. Its a choice. many men choose to think with their wanker and 'settle' because of their thirsty wanker. Its their problem. That said, branching out is better that relying on only X to meet women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:10 AM
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I started making really good money and I tell women I make an average salary to weed them out for example. And thats ok. Just like I can weed men out saying Im a paid whore. We all can have our weed outs. Personally I could give a crap how much money you make as long as you can pay your own bills and live like an adult. I also didnt want kids so I can be less 'hung up' on what a man makes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:05 AM
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Im 50 so yes I can verify.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:02 AM
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Really a profile and pictures is just that, some profile. Many men would so do way better in person. Really any of us will. Reality we are just not compatible with most people and this is normal. Chad/Stacy or not. We will just never be compatible with most we would 'match' with. People need to get over we just wont jive with everyone and its ok we dont, We are not meant to match with everyone. Not everyone will like us even when we are not bad people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:00 AM
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Really women have an advantage at any age. Men made it this way as they are thirsty. Far too many think with their wanker. Also reality many just date close in age. We like people we jive with and we tend to jive with people closer in age.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:52 AM
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Really most people should just avoid dating apps. I could get on an app and have tons of likes but really Id only be compatible with a very small minority and its not about being picky, chasing Chads, etc, its just a shit show on apps and a bigger shit show for men when say... Tinder is 80% men. What do men expect when an app they are using is 80% men?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:49 AM
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What Ive seen take over is they are being catty 'Karens' with each other being petty. Their conventions are like cat fights. I also see its become more about just hating on women with many of them and cherry picking. Ive seen the content on and off for about 8 years now. And really a person that needs to scour content just to mock people, cringe. Tons of the RP channels on YT are all about just finding random content just to mock women. They pick some small minority and act like its a norm. All …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 01:50 AM
0

You mean they married/LT-ed women that suck?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 01:35 AM
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Cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 01:33 AM
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I'm not saying you're incorrect, and I think this should change. Abuse should be taken seriously in all relationships. I'm just explaining why people view it differently. This. Sure less chance he would be killed or beaten severely like a women would but men should not have to take a women verbally/physically abusing him either just because less of a chance. Nobody should have to take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 01:23 AM
2

Male loneliness has less to do with women and more the decline in male friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 09:57 PM
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Im friends with a guy I dated 16 years ago. I have not one drop of attraction for him and would never date or have sex with him again. I havent had any sort of attraction in over a decade and wont ever again. I dont hang out with him regularly but hes invited to parties/ family gathering type things. Once in a blue moon we will meet for drinks. I meet all his girlfriends and hes met my boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:58 AM
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I was grossed out by them in my youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:48 AM
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She can be her own boss.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:46 AM
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Most men age like crap and your older sperm has higher chances of birth defects. Highest chance of a healthy baby is both under 35. Sorry men are past their prime at 30+.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 07:43 PM
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I know youre not, I was clarifying what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 04:25 PM
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Cringe, thats some bad energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 04:00 PM
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I dont think many have the hobby of shaming and calling people out... LOL Thats some bad energy, cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 03:59 PM
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You're acting morally superior yourself and you want everyone to be like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 03:54 PM
3

one lady was like I trust my man to sleep in same hotel room with a women and other people should as well. I think it may be my comment and in no way did I say others should be ok with it. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 03:52 PM
3

hes projecting hard up in this thread...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 03:48 PM
5

What??
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 03:47 PM
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How did you get that out of his post? LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 03:47 PM
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Whipty do. Youre only doing that to feel better about yourself and your own projection instead of minding your own business.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 03:46 PM
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And a women shouldn't settle for a man past his prime either. Men be capping that think they are peak 35+. May peak money wise but really peak is fertility. Your sperm is deteriorating by 35. . Both genders are peak mid 20ish to early 30's. Most should date close in age and if you want kids have them about mid 20s to early 30s to have the most healthy babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:32 AM
1

Where did she call you insecure or broken?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 01:45 PM
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If I didnt trust my partner to stay with the opposite sex or be around them I should not be dating them. You are free to break up with someone over those things and others are free to not have an issue with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 01:43 PM
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No. He answered the op...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 01:40 PM
3

Women over 30+ will date a bit younger more over teens/early 20's in my experience. Now that Im older I like them a bit younger now as they match my energy and more 'looks matched'. Many men my own age or a bit older look Way older and the men age like wine is cap. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 01:09 PM
2

You do to weed people out and not waste time. No point in more dates if they are not marriage minded or want kids in the future. If people run from this type of talk, its did its job weeding.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 01:02 PM
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According to my gay gay pals a factor is the pool is just smaller than hetro people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 12:58 PM
1

When I grew up we had those 'clicks'. Lots of it was interest based, like sports or band with a mix of boys and girls over who looked like what. This was 80's/early 90's though. I was one of those that got along with all the clicks and played sports myself. There was one group of mean girls though, they were 'popular'. Really it was one mean girl but she had her quiet sheep follow her around. She bullied me. Not an excuse but found out years later she grew up in a toxic home.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 12:55 PM
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I was both growing up and so were my friends. We played with dolls and built things like Legos, Lincoln Logs, Erector Sets, etc. As we grew up more we built tree forts, gocarts, etc. Though most of us had a brother and on my block the boys and girls played together. Id say where you live will contribute too. I now live on that same block as an adult and the kids all play together like we did back in the 70/80's. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 12:47 PM
2

Then dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 02:06 PM
5

You need to understand if a man thinks he can get away with it he will try
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:06 AM
1

Oh yes they do. Youre stuck in some box of buying a drink for someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:03 AM
3

It can be but not always at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:00 AM
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Some women don't respect mens boundaries Fixed that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:58 AM
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When Im in a committed relationship I dont flirt or hang around other men without my man. If so he knows all about it. Also sorry my man can go to a bar without me with his friends and its not cheating. If I dont trust my man to go out we should not be together. Im good with my man having guy time. I think 'bro time' is a good thing. I can go to a darn club without my man and not cheat, not dance with other men, etc. That said, really if I were to go 'clubbing' hes coming with me. Or hes out wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:55 AM
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My goodness... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:55 AM
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I did and not one gal is picture perfect .
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:54 AM
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Mad? What?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 07:51 PM
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My parents did with my brother too. Sorry you didnt have parents who did.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 07:19 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 07:00 PM
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5 year gaps are not what anyone is talking about, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 07:00 PM
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If your father/grandfather/older brother warns you thats very telling. The older men not your family wont because they want to creep on much younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:31 PM
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And their behavior is majority date men within 5 years of age.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:24 PM
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Im the one that didnt want kids so I needed to find men that didnt either.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:15 PM
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Twitter is its own private platform and doesn't have to abide by freedom of speech. They get to do what they want. There is a lot of hate on Twitter. I can understand privately own sites filtering out hateful content. I would filter it out on my own site. I dont have to let anyone post anything they want, its my site and privately run. Freedom of speech doesn't equal private platforms must allow all content. Start your own site to say what you want. Money spent... well the US government does was…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 03:04 AM
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As an escort and many other escorts experience the clients that say they are good looking are barely average and the good looking men never mention their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:34 PM
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Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 03:05 AM
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just not sure how you can spend that much on makeup) Me either! I spend that in maybe 6 months and its mostly mascara as that needs to be replaced often.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 04:58 PM
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I dont factor any of this when dating. I wear makeup and take care of my skin because I want to. I wear makeup going to dinner with my parents, should I change my parents to 'look pretty'? I wear it hanging with friends so I charge them too? I wear it to work, should I charge my boss? I may spend $100 in 6 months on makeup and its mostly mascara. My skin care costs the most for the year and really its not that much as I dont pay for over priced skin care when a more inexpensive one works just as…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 04:51 PM
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What makeup costs you monthly $100??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 04:46 PM
2

If anything its an older mans and the young ones are scared. LOL 40+ men have no problem approaching!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 04:40 PM
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I brought kids, etc up in those first couple dates. Why waste time? If me talking about it scares him off, it weeded him out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:09 PM
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If I wanted to get married, yes. We are not compatible and not in my best interest to continue dating him. He can go find someone that doesnt want to get married and I can go find someone who does.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:04 PM
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Some loud minority. Most of the US makes under $80 yet they still date, have sex and marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:02 PM
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Let alone women's biology makes us more prone to anxiety and depression. They never want to mention that and act like its because of 'feminism'. They also never mention how doped up women were 60+ years ago trying to cope. They didnt understand menopause as much and what our hormones do that men dont have to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 02:57 PM
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Did you actually really read all those articles? Its certainly not about not getting married and popping out 8 kids like granny. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 02:53 PM
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Most women are no where near either of the extremes, despite what this sub insists Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 08:57 PM
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Not taking the nudes but actually selling them to make a living is a whole other story.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 08:54 PM
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The amount of parents who give their kids ipads and iphones just to shut them up and keep them busy really saddens me. And those are the ones that will be easier to target...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 08:53 PM
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I think its about 50/50 on who is messed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:42 AM
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Why do you all think things are so 'messed up' because of posts in a sub on reddit with less than 150,000 users? Do you realize how small that is? Or frankly Reddit at all? This place is like another planet most of the time, its a small minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:41 AM
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But is it just marriage? None of my long terms paid any of my bills. I dont even know what its like. Just like we both put in effort. I think a good majority do for each other.(I know some women expect a man to pay for Everything, I just think they are a minority) I just dont buy most women are you must pay for Everything all the time and never buy him gifts, do other things that are nice, etc for him... If men are only coming across these types, they need to look in the mirror. If all men I dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:20 AM
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is simply c*ping Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:33 PM
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I have bots on my own darn twitter, you really think they dont have way more than I do with the following that they have? LOL My website is blasted with spam bots daily. I have over 10,000 just this past few months caught in the net.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 03:14 PM
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some wives knowing full well their husband pays for sex and they don't mind because they don't want to do whatever sexual interests they have but still want their husbands to be contented. I have clients where the wife knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 02:59 PM
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Its ok, I know you didnt. Just it what it is. Im afraid its going to keep happening more with online access... I just hope parents will be more proactive with online use. They need to be. I know my parents would be all over my online use. Heck no would I be allowed to have a Tik Toc/Facebook, etc at 10...Hell to the know would they allow some twerking, etc at such a young age. My parents would have some sort of profile just to keep up and 'stalk' me. LOL Ive chatted with my parents about it just…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 06:12 AM
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have mental health issues today Im seeing this on both sides nowadays... And agree it is more rare making healthy meals at home. If it was the norm we wouldn't have such an overnight issue in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 02:37 AM
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It happened to me by 11 and I dont blame all men. I know its just some men, really most know its not all. Its loud minorities shouting 'men bad'. Also its not just 40+. Back in the 80's when I was 11 there were some late 20's/early 30's men. At 11 the 28 year old was old to me. I dont doubt its not happening even more today with social media, now its happening more online. I would say it is heavier on the side of 40+ men creeping though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 02:18 AM
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Nah, just reality and you can deny it all you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 02:11 AM
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I dont think its just 'traditional' and etiquette plays a role. The asker pays and men/women are still raised that men pay. Its still alive today even though things have chaged. Also a huge thing is if a man doesnt pay hes just not that interested and its a very real thing and any men here can deny it all they want. Men will 'jump through hoops' for women they really like. Women know this, you man made it this way. And really a lot is equality as can just get jobs, buy homes, obtain, credit, etc…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 02:05 AM
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You sure its not about sugar babies?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 01:44 AM
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No, its reality for many. He doesnt pay hes just not that interested. You men made it this way, we know you'll pay for a women you're really interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 01:36 AM
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I didnt see menopause! The crazy hot flashes, night sweats, lack of sleep, itching skin, dry skin, weird joint aches, mood swings, brain fog, bone loss, depression, high anxiety, etc, etc, etc. I can list 100+ more symptoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:54 PM
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I wish I could see a thread about "at what age did you first notice male attention?" We've had a couple of those here in the past. 11/12 is when it started for most in the thread. Even saw a post from a gay man on Twitter calling this out and the men were 12/13 when much older men came after them. Even young men get creeped on by old men...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:48 PM
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Really its starting to tank by 35 nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:44 PM
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Doing a coffee for a first meet is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:33 PM
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Really most of them have just turned into grifters for cash. They dont really care about their fellow men. Ive seen the content on and off(on YT) probably close to a decade now and I see catty grifters.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:12 PM
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Women beat men out with severe obesity. Nearly 1 in 3 adults (30.7%) are overweight. More than 1 in 3 men (34.1%) and more than 1 in 4 women (27.5%) are overweight. More than 2 in 5 adults (42.4%) have obesity (including severe obesity). About 1 in 11 adults (9.2%) have severe obesity. The percentage of men who are overweight (34.1%) is higher than the percentage of women who are overweight (27.5%). The percentage of women who have severe obesity (11.5%) is higher than the percentage of men who …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:06 PM
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Really most men dont even complain about paying. LOL Its some loud minority complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:02 PM
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For real. LOL Happy Cake day!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 02:58 PM
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You need to go look up the stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 02:57 PM
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In those first few dates, sure. I dont know any women that dont ever treat their man, cook him dinner, buy him gifts, etc. Sure do some exist, yes. Reality for many men... if a man is not 'courting' just not that interested. You men made it this way. You'll(general you) jump through hoops for a 'Stacy'.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 07:02 AM
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I was raised that way. And so are many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:58 AM
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feel entitled to your attention after buying a $6 drink you didn't even want. Yup. I was turning down drinks 30 years ago. As much as things have changed many things are still the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:53 AM
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Dont take subs here seriously... Ive been banned from subs here for something ridiculous. Its just Reddit...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:46 AM
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So are men. Its about 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:35 AM
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Read again.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:34 AM
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Filing paperwork doesnt equal they 'caused' the divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:07 AM
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It was just a random number. Do you think people you meet were a sign I want kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 11:12 PM
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How is being incompatible arrogant? LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 11:08 PM
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I feel bad for your wife... Cringe. High value men dont pump and dump nor use the term.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 11:06 PM
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So if I have 20 options and 19 of them want kids and I dont am I arrogant and conceited?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:45 AM
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Or shocker none of the options are worth it... LOL They cant see that in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:44 AM
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You just cant with a defeatist mindset of some of them here. LOL Non hot guys all over date, have sex and get married... But, but youre 'privileged'.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:35 AM
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What do you say to the good faithful loving women that get cheated on and dumped? Youre woefully ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:29 AM
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Thats not what I got out of what he said...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:26 AM
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But did it? You really think all was happy? If it were we wouldnt have great grandmas and grandmas telling women to not marry young, get and education, dont depend solely on a man, etc, etc. They say it for a reason, its wasnt as good as you think it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 11:25 PM
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Quality men wont want women that just shows up and bare minimum. You should 'impress' each other. Thirsty men accept bare minimum. Just like good women dont just do the bare minimum. Shes going to show she cares, puts in effort, etc too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 11:20 PM
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Why do you have to use land whale at all? Why cant you say overweight women? I would never use that term even online. I wont use the term for overweight men either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 11:15 PM
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I don't want people in my business. A big reason I dont have a real FB and when I did I never shared my relationship, etc. People air way too much. People break up over not sharing all over social media nowadays...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:35 PM
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I have an ex friend that would do that to their partner. Hence shes an ex friend, she was crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:31 PM
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Most important thing to me is does he treat me good as well as others.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:26 AM
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These threads about this always miss the real point its the the very young dating old people thats the issue. Nobody gives a crap the 30 year old is dating a 40 year old. Its the late teens/early 20's dating people 15+ years older. Sorry no old man that came after me at that age had good intentions. 50 year olds chasing after me at 18, gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:55 AM
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I never hear it talked about outside this sub. Its actually 'not a big deal' as its a small minority/outlier. And really many that have issue with a gap is one thats very young like 18 and a 50 year old. Nobody gives a cares about a 35/45 year old or a 26/32 year old. People care about some 18 year old dating old people. My friends and family would look at me like a weirdo trying to date a 18 year old at 50. Its not the norm and cringe. Its never been a norm and you all can look it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:52 AM
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What? LOL Some 1% of young women want old men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:46 AM
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Exactly. I was grossed out by old men chasing me at 22. LOL Eww youre as old as my dad...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:09 PM
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Its become an obsession here. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:04 PM
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I never hear about it outside this sub. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:19 PM
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I dont need to a large percentage of women date and marry men under 6ft. Just like I have had long terms with men under 6ft.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:14 PM
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I can agree with lots of single dads. I didnt want to date a single dad in my youth. Also didnt want to date a divorced guy at 25 either. I really dont even want to now but its the reality of my older dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 01:20 AM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 01:15 AM
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Just because a guy is not 6ft + doesnt make him ugly. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 01:13 AM
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Top 5% wont be. Maybe have an insecurity as its human but not insecure. Any of us can have insecurities but not be insecure over all. IMO and Im not trying to be mean this post screams Im insecure and reading way too much into an emoji. I just left a stranger the heart eye emoji. A fellow craft vendor in a craft group had the cutest earring backers. Dont know them nor want to have sex or micro cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 06:39 AM
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Youre too insecure for that, you posted a whole thread about an emoji and call it cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:25 AM
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Whipty do, its just an emoji.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:24 AM
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The top 20% dont need to DM, they get DMed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:24 AM
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If they all did that you are the common denominator. Youre picking these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:22 AM
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So you got nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:21 AM
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Bro women don't get unconditional love from anything but their mom, kids, or dogs. Men dont love unconditionally either, lets get real. Nobody should be loved unconditionally by a partner, thats not healthy. Funny no man I dated ever paid any of my bills nor paid for all dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:20 AM
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Most women are not posting thirst traps on IG. Seems to be who you are following or looking at. I follow probably 500 women ant not one of them post thirst traps. I also dont see this in my feed either as I dont follow thirst trappers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:18 AM
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What? I send that to my gal pals. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:11 AM
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Why are you reading so deep into an emoji posted to a stranger?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:10 AM
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Top 5% men will have women sliding into his DMs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:08 AM
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Im 50 and never had a man ask my count nor have I asked theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:51 PM
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Im older and its not talked about. I would say that at some types jobs I can see more gossip happening like hospitals, restaurants, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:50 PM
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For appointments? Sexy robes, etc. Outside that Im more or less fully covered. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:37 AM
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Lets be honest you ca dress that way at any age.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:29 AM
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Nah, its Im a half naked dress big ones or not. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:28 AM
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Only in private for my man at home. LOL I put that on with some heals all done up while cooking dinner...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:26 AM
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You mean male thirst?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:18 AM
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Less is more when showing skin. Also a balance. You show legs cover your top more, show more top cover the legs. It actually does not take lots of effort to look stylish/classy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:16 AM
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Classy and stylish is just for women who are aged,got saggy and don't want to show it. What?! LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:14 AM
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No. Majority of 22 year olds dont want 40+ men, they are old men to them. Older men is usually with in 5 years for most not men as old as their dad. Stats even show this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:00 PM
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But men sure want their old autistic sperm in a younger women. LOL Male fertility falls off by mid 30's too with higher chances of birth defects.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:35 PM
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Who denies women dont like older men? LOL Its they dont like old men. Older doesnt mean old men. We all know majority of 22 years olds are not trying to date 40+ men. A 28 year old, sure. And those 40+ men coming after me at 22 Were trying to take advantage. LOL They grossed me out like they do most 22 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:31 PM
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Men want women to have male thirst.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 03:04 PM
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So no stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:42 AM
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Did I say top % women post here? Nope, you did. Many millionaire men are not posting here. LOL Get real.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:42 AM
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You have stats on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:40 AM
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Eyeroll.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:38 AM
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Its .0001%.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:33 AM
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Many men here just want to hate and be mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:30 AM
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That model could be a crazy person and they still want to call it the top 1%. LOL Many here have some weird idea of whats the top 1%...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:29 AM
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His post, whipty do... Its not impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:27 AM
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Whipty do, youre not special for that even if its some low %. LOL You think some top % man is posting a thread here?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:26 AM
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Ask a 1% man wanting sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:23 AM
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Why do women complain about broke losers cheating and unsuccessful men cheating? They do too. Most people just dont like cheaters.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:20 AM
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What percent chance that any man could?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:18 AM
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She was an a hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 10:31 PM
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Oh yes they do! LOL Tons of straight men like their butt played with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:47 PM
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For real... Its hot to please each other toy or not. Men against vibrators will probably end up in dead bedroom...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:32 PM
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I mean... its hot to get each other off toy or not... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:29 PM
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Just dont date or have sex so it wont be your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:25 AM
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Any man I long termed with found vibrators hot... They were masculine men. The OP is trippin'. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:23 AM
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Id find it hot to lube up a pocket pussy and use it on my man...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:18 AM
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I find masculine men like vibrators.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:17 AM
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But does it say they have less satisfaction because of the vibrator or hes not willing to work with it/have it spice things up ? Its it actually the vibrator or him/incompatibility? No man I ever had a long term with had issue with it, they found it hot and we F-ed like rabbits. So really is it the vibrator or the man?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:14 AM
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Women have the upper hand a lot as so many men are thirsty. Men allow it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 12:53 AM
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Nobodies hobby is cleaning! LOL Some may not hate cleaning but it sure isnt a hobby. If anything its turned into a business and charge for it...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 12:51 AM
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I guess hes never heard of she shed and craft caves. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 02:52 PM
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You two must be new here. LOL Nah, I was the one that barley drank.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:44 AM
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I had one of those friends I had to watch when drinking in my youth...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 08:02 PM
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Happy Cake Day!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:33 PM
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One of the worst, most toxic people I ever met is female. Yup... I know one of those...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:22 PM
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I dont know any women that listen to Drake. I have a Dot card for my business and its seems about 50/50 with Apple/Droids. I have to tap the card in a different spot on the phone for each. This weird phone thing must be a youngin thing. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:58 PM
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Love me some Tool.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:53 PM
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If Im happy with him and he treats me well I just dont give a crap to know all about a past relationship. Im not even thinking about it, Im thinking about us. You dont need details about all their past relationships to get to know them or know them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 02:23 PM
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Like I said its a minority. Did you miss that part? Ah the 'cat lady' comment like its an actual insult when its not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:58 AM
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No, its a reality. People die all the time. And no, its would only put me lower for weird men I would not want to date anyways. Just like this post, you want to even mention SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:40 AM
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Why are we comparing bath water and strippers to sugar daddies?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:37 AM
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We are not talking about 'dangerous men' and talking about sugar daddies paying with nothing in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:16 AM
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Buying bath water is not a sugar daddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:13 AM
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He wants to talk about some .001%...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:42 AM
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So some .001% market. Just because some advertise that doesnt mean they get it or its a norm. Trust, a majority of men participating are not doing it with no return. They would not do it otherwise. Stop cappin. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:40 AM
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Where did all the good men go is a minority. You think its a norm when its some click bait/loud minority shouting on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:35 AM
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They dont have a clue what a sugar daddy is and most people(in the US anyways) see sugar daddies and any sex worker as scum. And Id say most people think a 50 year old man chasing 23 years olds is a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:33 AM
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So some .0002%? They expect kissing, petting, jerking off/blow jobs then. You really think men trying for sugar babies just want to to throw out money and just chat? Not like I dont know as a paid whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:28 AM
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He wouldn't be clingy, he'd know exactly what to say to you. He'd be smooth and charming. He'd know how make like be to you better than an average guy. He wouldn't be BORING. You can get that with a man you dont have to share so why share?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:23 AM
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people here are so weird Thats just it, this sub attracts it. Its like another planet here most of the time. And I seriously get some people do crazy things and some people are just crap but its still a whole other place here....
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:20 AM
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Because I dont need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:17 AM
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They give it with the expectation they will get the sex. They dont bother if they dont think they will get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:13 AM
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What?? Those older men are not protecting, cherishing, etc. Sorry some 50 year old man trying to date some 22 year old just wants to use her up. Lets get real. Paying for the bills is not some protection nor means he cherishes her. Most sugar daddies are so seen as creeps and most women see them that way. Where do you even get your title? Most sugar daddies are cheap men looking to take advantage like they have a special wanker and buying her jeans is special. The jeans are worth hours of her ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:10 AM
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I'll just add, personally Im not going to even commit to a man I dont want to F silly/have passionate makeouts/cuddles with let alone marry or have his babies... If Im not 100% about him we are not even dating, having sex, etc. I dont think Im an outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 01:55 AM
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Really the men in those spaces dont seem to account for youve(general you) become complacent, you've stopped dating each other/have date nights, you've stopped taking care of yourself as you've aged, you've stopped really making time for each other, etc over work, kids, etc. You have to keep courting each other, make time and still 'date'.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 01:50 AM
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You actually are and ride a high horse.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 01:40 AM
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This term is used with men seeing escorts so yes they can. I dont ever hear this term used outside escort forums/within the community.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 10:22 PM
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This. And if anything Ive gifted way more! LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 10:13 PM
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They made dumb choices and have bad judgment or communication skills So what young people do... because they are young.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 10:08 PM
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I never had that fear... My biggest fear is my partner dies. Ive already had one die.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 09:24 PM
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Then why do those that marry that young have high divorce rates?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 09:18 PM
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Older than them within 5 years. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 09:14 PM
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My goodness the mindset of some here...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 01:52 AM
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So you are only aware if you're bitter?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 01:52 AM
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I cant imagine living life holding things against a person I didn't even know nor existed at 22 then meeting at 32 and having a grudge because I assume they slept around...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 01:48 AM
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Whats going to happen is one of them will cheat and end up divorced. You enter as a cheater thats how it will end.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 03:41 AM
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Merry Christmas.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 03:31 AM
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If they really went looking the 'male loneliness' is more about relationships with their father/other men, mental health and not about dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 03:23 AM
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Many people dont. I find it so weird in this sub when much is a people thing not a gender thing. There are plenty that think they know what they want but dont. I also think you need to 'try things on' to realize/see what you like at times. One may think they like something but get it realize its not what they really want. Its human to change and grow, etc. This sub is so 'black and white' when there is a whole spectrum of grays.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 07:59 AM
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This whole 'empowering' thing is so over blown. They take some small minority of social media posts and act like its a norm when its not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 07:28 AM
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Im betting its pretty close. Way more shady things happen in other industries than you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 07:02 PM
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Im with ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 07:01 PM
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My point is all industries have shady crap even with laws in place. People act like its only sex work.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 04:21 PM
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Many of us do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 04:19 PM
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This 'empowering' and 'glamourising' Ive only see or hear about by some small minority on the net. Its blown way out of proportion. Also a lot of 'empowerment' is being able to work for yourself, work your own hours, etc. Its not the sex work itself. Its working for yourself. Most of us in the industry would not promote others to do it. You need thick skin and not everyone has it. People seem to think the work is just easy, its not, its just an easy barrier for entry. Young boys were sneaking di…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 03:55 PM
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Lots of us see disabled men. I would say its 'normal' for us to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 03:41 PM
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And there are hack drs, dentists, lawyers, construction, etc, etc. All industries have shady crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 03:35 PM
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But you can sure stock some cash into 401, Roth, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 03:32 PM
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For real... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 03:25 PM
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The 'douchebag' you speak is not on Reddit ranting being bitter.
/r/ExRedPill24/12/23 02:08 AM
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Emotionally healthy people are not killing themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 02:04 AM
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You think emotionally healthy men kill themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 09:09 PM
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Im downvoted all the time here. I have downvoting fans. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 07:35 PM
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And he will say 'she divorced me over not helping with presents'.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 07:34 PM
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I dont post my real life photos or info...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 07:22 PM
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Reddit is just a toxic place and I dont think anyone should post their picture here. But hey, you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:23 PM
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You actually have to have sex for it to be prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:34 AM
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Delete your pictures off this cesspool site.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:29 AM
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I just personally dont need to know about every woman a man has had sex with. I care how Im treated, etc. Its some women that ask. Ive chatted with some gal pals since this thread and none them have ever asked. I would say a good amount of women dont even think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:23 AM
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slightly insecure and capable of feeling jealous etc Sure everyone is but thats not attachment. You'd have to look up attachment. They play a bigger role than one thinks in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:13 AM
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For me its about 50/50. Rest are single, divorced, widowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 11:48 PM
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Ive never asked a man ever. Never even thought to. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 11:47 PM
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Majority of escorts are independents not working the streets. Street walkers are fairly rare now with online advertising.(In the US anyways)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 11:45 PM
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Ive read the same stats. Estimated about 15% of men in the US have seen an escort.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 11:41 PM
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What in the what??
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 11:37 PM
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Ive only had long terms with secures, Im a secure and guess what I have not been in a bunch of bad relationships... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 08:37 PM
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Im in the boat if we are going to dinner we've already met and I even Want to go to dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:44 AM
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He brings the table, chairs and the food.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:40 AM
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If you need to be convinced to stay, just leave. For real...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:38 AM
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Only manosphere men would ask... Men that ask dont bring anything to the table but baggage and you should run and run fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:37 AM
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Id be 'bitter' he doesnt see they are important to me and doesnt care at all. He can think Im sexy AF but a guy that really cares about me is going to care that I care and thinks its sexy. Id care about his stuff because he cares and its important to him because I care about him. Why would I want a guy that has to act like he cares instead of supports me and actually cares? No reason to be 'bitter' at all when our partner fake cares...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:33 AM
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Id just ask what to you do for work because I actually want to know. Like why wouldn't I if we are trying to date? Its a normal get to know who you question. LOL There is also the people that hate their job, complain but dont do anything to change it being a 'victim'. If you catch my drift. Yeah, no. Some life style stuff needs to be asked. I cant date a guy that wants to go out 5 nights a week, or takes lots of vacations, etc, etc. That said, do I think some women out there 'grill' like a job i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:17 AM
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I think they are great for a first meets using online. Meet and see if you even Want to go on a 'real date'. I think first meets should be more low key for both so either can cut it short if needed. Dinner, youre 'stuck'.(sure you can walk out but I hope you get my point)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:05 AM
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Normal people just get to know each other... Really men who would ask, run.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:50 AM
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Oh the bum washing is a thing... Look up men think its gay to wash their bum.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:48 AM
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Im not offended, mad, or upset. LOL Its a weird question and weird men would ask. Normal people just get to know others and see if they want them or not. Not ask like a relationship is a set of table and chairs. What do you all bring to the table? Your paycheck? Whipty do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:43 AM
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Cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:47 PM
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If we want a young man its just for his harder body and harder wanker and not looking' for commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:43 PM
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Tinder says otherwise. Its almost 80% men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:37 PM
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Nah, plenty of good men around its just some small minority shouting where are the good men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:56 AM
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Nope, most sperm banks dont even want sperm past 35 because its declined. Sorry biology is under 35 has better fertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:04 AM
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Part time yes but Im 50 not 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:56 AM
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Most women dont even think about passport bros, its you men that do. LOL Also men have been doing it for decades and decades and decades, its nothing new, just has a new trendy term.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:51 AM
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Reality most men date close in age and dont toss for younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:50 AM
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They dont seem to get men that chase much younger women are not even in our dating pool. Much older men start creeping around us by 11/12 but they sure dont want to hear that and just claim bitter and jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:48 AM
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You think wanting to date a man that is not into barley legal is being picky? LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:46 AM
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He wants to promote old sperm, wrinkles, and ED.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:41 AM
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Most women do not care or think about passport bros. Its you men that do. Passport bros have been around for decades and decades and decades it just has a new trendy term.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:39 AM
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Some people are not at any age.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:38 AM
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My dad and well my mom too would be like get away from my daughter you old perv.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:35 AM
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Most older women dont even talk about it. This sub is way overboard.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:34 AM
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He has some deep forehead wrinkles too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:32 AM
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Yeah we watch what they do and 1 in 300 may fool around with some older man without being paid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:31 AM
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A lot of us older women are laughing too. Good luck with that buddy. Men seem to forget were were that age once and thought they were creeps and still think they are creeps.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:30 AM
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Only because hes famous. LOL I dont even understand why famous people are talked about, they are not like the rest of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:26 AM
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When most people talk age gap its one is very young. Nobody give a crap about a 35 year old dating a 45 year old. Its the 34 year old dating an 18 year old. Or the 25 year old dating a 17 year old. lets be real.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:23 AM
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The men I know that date much younger 9/10 chase younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:16 AM
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Happy cake day. And Leo, cringe. Aged poorly and flabby.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:08 PM
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There are men that do fit that though. Women their age do see their baloney. Edit, ah of course you want to downvote the truth. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:07 PM
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No, his sperm is old. 25 and a 28 year old should be encouraged because of healthy fertility and can age together.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:00 PM
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They start by 11/12...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:57 PM
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No, I just didnt want old men and those old men after me at 18 were gross creeps. Most young women just dont want old men, period. Much older men start creeping around by 11/12. Ive never worried about being tossed aside. You guys and your Leo baloney. LOL If Leo wasnt famous he wouldn't be dating women that young. Hes not that attractive and flabby.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:56 PM
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Sums it up. LOL The much older men after me in my youth Were creeps.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:46 PM
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I can assure that not all chocking Is consensual.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:48 AM
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make this something it wasn’t. Its the PPD way... LOL I got what you meant and didnt need to twist it 10 ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:41 AM
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I lost my virginity to another virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:39 AM
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Many men in this sub think way more about past wankers than the women that had the past wankers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:38 AM
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Lots of truth here... Reality most men are not like many men here and dont have an issue paying for a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:30 AM
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Most RP men are just a pile of red flags and should be avoided. People that need to claim they are 'pilled' is just weird. You dont need pill to know some people suck. If you didnt notice this in school you lived under a rock.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 02:19 AM
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I enlighten my parents. Though they are not oblivious either.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 02:08 AM
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You thinking its ok just shaming people that have nothing to do with you and your wife. Again two peas in a pod being crappy to people. You two do you. Youre just as crappy as the women you two want to mock and oblivious to it. Edit, high quality people dont need to mock or shame others.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 01:35 AM
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Ah, two peas in a pod shaming other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:53 PM
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My 'girls night' is all women. Having one end of December at my home, no men around. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:27 PM
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Does your wife know you're here talking about what women should or should not do?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:14 PM
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Ive noticed it in the past couple of months too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:14 PM
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majority of women freak out and cry foul when 18-22 year old women date 30-40 year old men. Majority of 18-22 year olds are not even trying to date men that age so majority of women are not freaking out. Also women liking older is majority of the time within 5 years not much older men. Majority of women that age would be 'freaking' out because old men are chasing them and dont want them. You also have stats on that 30% of men under 30? Its not what Ive read.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:09 PM
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If we want to bottom line it, men dont seek mental help as much as women do. While its becoming more acceptable today to seek mental health treatment/easier access its still very stigmatized, specially for men.
/r/ExRedPill19/12/23 02:21 AM
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Dont want to date a man that may be gone for months/years, cops tend to be abusive and Drs work too many hours/many have a god complex. Military men are known to be abusive and cheat as well. I'll take an electrician/construction worker any day. Im blue collar from a blue family so thats who I tend to get on with the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:34 AM
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I vibe more with blue collar men. I like men that 'get their hands dirty'. Wont date cops, military or Drs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 11:09 PM
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Its always post here they are 'thrown out' when they are not. Glad you said it as I have many times. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 10:36 PM
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I personally prefer gal pals and male friends are a 'liability'.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:48 AM
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That's why you shouldn't have this convo with your parents That can be for some. I talk about this sub and can pretty much talk about anything, as aged as they are(70's) they are sure 'hip' to what goes on. My parents know what a Chad, Stacy and simp is. Edit, also all the 'pills'.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:02 AM
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The want nickel and time tit for tat relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:46 PM
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Sorry many men here Are neurotic about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 01:54 PM
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Im not offended, only weird pill men would ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 01:52 PM
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Eyeroll.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 07:57 PM
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This. Its just dont over do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:13 PM
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