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Nice what-aboutism rant. Perhaps make your own thread about how it’s women’s fault for being with abusive men and men who are abusive is not something that even needs to be discussed if condemned in any way. However, if a woman is being an abusive manipulator, totally let’s talk about her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 11:42 PM
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Ah yes, me with all my influence and power. Some random 30-something woman in Louisiana. Not conservative billionaires like Trump, Musk, Theil who literally spend millions of dollars on politics and funding think tanks like the Heritage foundation who solely existence in order to create media that will convince the average day working class that the state of this world and it’s problems are due to the lazy poor, immigrants and trans people and definitely NOT due to the combination of rulings lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 07:43 AM
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Wanting logical contingency equals playing the victim? And you think liberalism is the reason for this rather than a bunch of billionaires spreading propaganda specifically made to divide the working class, sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:18 AM
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Funny you dodged the whole “have all your choices made including finances” and focused on vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:11 AM
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I was going to say do you guys really think most women have anywhere near those kind of options. But then again, you guys have read about dating app statistics and are convinced. When we point out a large portion of those men want to either hit and quit it after one night or a month or two at the most, some are married some are, scammer profiles so actual real dating options for most women, espicislly sub 7 women actually isn’t that high, still probably higher than most men’s but the gap isn’t b…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 09:00 PM
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Oh this I agree with. I blame the rise of pop psychology. I’ve seen “I’m a survivor narcissistic abuse” and the details are just some guy living in moment being kind of selfish. “I was gaslit” her and someone else didn’t agree about the details of something that happened. “I was love bombed in the beginning!” some guy tried harder to impress her in the beginning and once he felt confident she was attached, he got comfortable, started to look more checked out and raised his voice when mad. This i…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 08:01 PM
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What about Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 07:45 PM
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Cuz he’s hot? Kinda like hot women can be insufferable but some dudes will be like whatever, bet she fucks good teehee! An average looking and below chick acts the same way and it’s just insults. Hot people get away with more, more news at 9.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 07:43 PM
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I wasn’t asking yall to give grace. I’m asking why is it when a woman complains of a bad partner the RP response is “should have picked better” but when a man does the response is “see, look! Another decent man wrecked by a horrible woman!” Outside of it being known she had a high N count. I never see RP telling guys that they should have selected a “not horrible woman” it’s just used as an example to, once again, prove how bad women can be. But a woman will do the same exact thing and the respo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 06:52 PM
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Hmmm..I don’t recall saying women can read minds? I mean some men who have ill intentions are better at concealing their intentions than others. As well as some women are better at reading people than others. Some women also are anxious and always looking for red flags sometimes to the degree of seeing those that aren’t there. And on the flip side some “see what they want to see” and willingly live in denial. There are also women who want to use men and it’s oh-so incredibly obvious. Other may s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 06:27 PM
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Sure, but aren’t some failures more “um, you didn’t see THAT coming?” You look at them all the same. The woman that gets pregnant from the face tat, warrant out for his arrest, never had a real job guy that bails on the kid gets the same reaction as the shirt tucked in mama’s boy accountant, that always was a good guy and partner until he hit 40, saw much his hair line receded and has a mid life crisis out of nowhere, leaves the wife and moved into an $800 apartment trying to hook up with colleg…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 06:17 PM
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I think finding out that the number of people who think an entire gender (so nearly half of all people) are actually lesser and not just in physical strength and because of that “fact” shouldn’t have the right to vote, work, open a bank account, leave a marriage without solid proof of abuse or infidelity, or even be able to chose a spouse is a lot scarier than the number of guys not having romantic or sexual relationships growing. I’m no fan of being single. Going a long time without verbal or p…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 06:09 PM
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Would phrasing it in this way be better “I can’t help but laugh at the irony when men complain that modern women are “extremely online”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 05:04 PM
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I guess I’m just old but the amount of people I know that are always active on dating apps is nowhere near half. A lot of people I know still prefer meeting people the way we did from the beginning of time up until 2012 or so when meeting someone from the internet stopped being cringe. So no, a lot of the chicks you’d meet out don’t obviously also have 1000k matches or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 08:12 AM
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Hey look a person that stays indie their house and interacts with women online and then bitches about women being online. I’m not saying all women online are valid. But I’ve never met a valid woman that wasn’t online. I’ve met tons of women though that check FB once a month and Just live their lives. Either my life is some insane anomaly or you are looking in areas that make you angry on purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 08:04 AM
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First of all, that’s fiction. Second of all, I’d love to know the percentage of women under 40 that read fucking romance novels.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 10:11 AM
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I wish I could understand how and why you guys think “the guy she has a ONS with in college” is the “winner” while the guy she marries and spends her life with is the simp loser Because the college guys penis was there first? Or is it because she was “hotter in college” Like I know it’s a cliche to just call you sexist. But it’s mind boggling that if a guy has a few ONS, it’s “all good, whatever” but if a chick does she’s “ran through” And in the same comment you act like chicks are the ones tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 04:36 PM
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You’re literally doing the exact same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 02:15 AM
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No, but women don’t come in two flavors, loud mouths that scream any time you do something they don’t like and “seen but not heard” yes man wives that let the man make all the decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 01:47 AM
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lol I actually like your analogy because any woman who says “I want to marry rich or not at all” is making it quite obvious she is a bad person that should be avoided. Because it’s clear, she doesn’t want a man because she wants to share her life with a person she has natural chemistry, friendship and a compatible personality. She wants to find someone who can give her a lavish easy life without having to earn it. Sounds like a pretty crappy person. Much like a man that says he wants a “submissi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 08:43 PM
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Couldn’t disagree more. And if anything, all this does is show that you must be some sort of shut in that doesn’t interact with other people very much, or if you do, it is in a very shallow way. I’m not the most social anymore, I’m in a serious relationship in my mid 30’s, but I’ve had probably around 20 close friendships throughout my life going back to when I was 13 or so and probably double that in more distant casual proxy friends. People most certainly are not all just a like. The close fri…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 07:58 PM
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Oh yeah for sure, that’s why there are internet groups that exist solely for women to point out men who are abusers.🙄 The thing about abusers and why you see them with women is because in the beginning they put on a mask that makes them seem like they aren’t abusive, they tend to be very charming and charismatic and that is what women are attracted to. The ones that stay are either stuck (abusers tend to isolate victims) or they’ve broken the victim mentally. The fact that Chris Brown may have a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 07:49 PM
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Yeah…and neither do you. Do have any sort of none manosphere proof that “women want to be lead?” Or is your source just some sort of spread-by/word-of-mouth statement in one of these RP circles?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 07:42 PM
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Nah, an opinion is pineapple doesn’t go on pizza. Or pig tails ons chick looks hot. You saying “women want to be lead.” (Well depending on what percentage is counted when you just say “women” 65% maybe, 99%….no.) So your statement is maybe kind of right or just wrong. And she is describing who type.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 07:38 PM
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Nah,, a lot of us just want a partner that is going to compliment our specific personalities. We aren’t obsessed with archetypes and gender roles like yall. The biggest problem in my current relationship is we are both “pants wearers” we’d be literally perfect for each other besides this issue. Another thing is. I’ve never been much of a cook. My late husband was a chef so he did that. I did all the cleaning, we made our relationship work based on what worked for us, never once was like “i know …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 07:32 PM
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So only about 30% of men should be having kids then? Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 07:35 PM
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Well those women are most likely: -using the internets anonymity to her advantage, letting a socially unacceptable amount of “steam” off since their are no social blow backs. People have been doing this since the internet has become available. This is not some sort of strange new phenomenon -also women will sometime copy the jargon of others to be “trendy” espicislly the younger ones. So I feel like those two statements might explain the types of comments you are seeing. I wouldn’t let a comment…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 05:28 PM
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Do you honestly think this was a real interaction out in the wild and not a scripted skit? Are you a boomer?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 06:45 AM
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While disagree. People are poorer now than ever. 60% of the US can’t afford a $300 emergency. You’d be seeing insane amounts of “incel”-dom if all women required men to “fully provide” like you are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 06:44 AM
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I mean I guess. If I could transport to another dimension and lay around my house and eat cheatos and watch TV and not shave my arm pits and if my BF was idk, a construction worker and we never met but he came to fix something at my house and we talked and he probably would have still been polite but not shown interest in me, I wouldn’t hate him. Do I like shaving and doing all that? No, and I mean, it’s my true self. But that’s just the world we live in. We make an effort to be attractive. I pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 02:01 AM
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I am a woman who likes nerdy things. If i went on a date with a guy and i started talking about some of my favorite card games and he scoffed and said “lame” I wouldn’t want to date him. And you’re over here thinking all women would say that and still wanting one? What’s the point of a partner if you don’t share interests? Have sex with me, cuddle then go wash the dishes? Men make no sense sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 10:38 PM
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Why is this “wealthy men flying women to Dubai” a thing that is discussed like it is even remotely close to common. Instagram models are the only women getting this. You think Becky from a town with less than 10,000 people with 387 Facebook friends , who has a solid rack and was a cheer leader in high school just has men offering this, or hell, flying them to Vegas, New Orleans, or even paying for a rental to the nearest nice city? Y’all talk about top 10% of men and whine. Then turn around and …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 10:29 PM
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And then when they start talking about women. They will say pretty chicks like take an actress is “mid” because they are so used to looking at women in still poses that have been ran through a few filters. So what does that mean? If the pretty women are mid, the “hot chicks” are the Instagram models. Anyone less pretty than the “mid” is just a “hambeast who is still chasing after Chad” which is just not true. The amount of acne cover 50+ lbs over weight women chasing after “chads” is next to non…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 10:25 PM
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The fact that you would hate the woman that felt a genuine chemistry with because you struggled at getting girls before her probably has something to do work your failure. Any time I feel a man using genetic lines on me, like I am a fish he’s trying to catch, ive lost interest. Any man I’ve genuinely gotten to know who seemed to just treated me as a person,and if i wanted to bring it to that level cool, but if not, you’re still a cool chick and it is what it is. It seems the men that get bitter …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 10:11 PM
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How do you know how many men she rejected? I’m not clicking through her post history. Are you aware she does such a thing, or is that just an assumption?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 09:59 PM
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This sounds like someone who doesn’t leave the house would say. You have to unbelievably charasmatic to show up at a social event where you don’t know anyone and just “make friends” without looking like a creep or some sort of sales person.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 10:45 PM
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This just in, about 10 years ago dating apps became “okay” and no longer something only creepy losers use. Over the years the ad developers found ways to keep users “hooked” and the people that are chronically on them have adapted some very odd behaviors. There was a short period of time where normal people tried them. After dealing with catfish, straight up scams, and the odd behavior of those who became addicted to dating apps and the social norms around them, a lot of normal people bailed. Pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 10:37 PM
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I hear them say this constantly. Oh yeah “go to the gym and learn about stocks” but everytime any of them talk about dating it’s just this “the game is rigged and normies don’t have a chance” all over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 10:13 PM
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If the TRP was true, every “service worker” guy you would meet would be relationship-less. There would be an extremely obvious noticeable trend of men under 6 foot being virgins. Yes, some leftists are censor babies. The internet soaked its claws into them and taught them that the are fragile little victims. The internet soaked its claws into you and taught you that you have every right to be bitter. Because the game is basically unbeatable so why play? Don’t go out and try, 6 foot, 6 figure Cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 08:15 AM
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The OxyContin claims were because the pills were “time release” so people wouldn’t get the addictive rush.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 08:59 AM
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I remember when dating someone you met on the internet was taboo. And honestly, I still see it. All these “chads” on dating apps? And chicks? Idk, truly desirable people in all three areas looks > personality > functioning life. Tend to naturally have opens. They don’t have to open an app to see where the loneliest stranger is. My BF I met in 2022 through my previous neighbor. He paid me for a ride and when I dropped him off and his new place, I went in to pre and met his new roommate and was li…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 08:50 AM
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I was about to say 35 years old never had a man do any of that - oh, wait my BF fixes my car. But he like actually enjoys doing that kind of stuff. It’s like doing a puzzle. We just scrapped a trailer focus and probably only gonna make like $50. But it was fun lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 08:25 AM
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Funny that I am saying this because of the topic, but I don’t speak for all woman here, so I am not saying “what women really mean is what I am about to say.” But when I’m saying represents me and I safe saying that there has to be SOME other women who would agree. Sounds to me like that is what you are saying though is a dislike of the: X are the in group and Y are the marginalized therefor X people should not speak over Y when they are talking about marginalization” you just chose to focus on …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 12:41 AM
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It’s more pop pysch jargon but it feels adjacent to the main reason I lost all attraction to my ex. He did well full time BUT, he never cooked, cleaned, took care of the yard, looked for a place when we moved, contacted any landlords or made appointments or organized moving vehicles, he never applied to jobs, didn’t have a resume (the job he had for 2.5 of the 4.5 years I found for him, applied and set up the interview over email) I made his doctor’s appointments and got him his ACA plan) I did …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 07:49 PM
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My issue with the hypergamy thing is, they grossly exaggerate the amount of women that would just abandon their partner because a guy that makes 20k more annually and is two inches taller wants them. Are there women out there that do this? Sure! Is it enough for a pattern to be labeled and discussed? Also sure. Is that amount anywhere near enough for you to claim it’s “typical female nature”? fuck no, I’d bet my left arm it’s not even close to half. In terms of “being a good person” and being a …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:20 PM
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Wait so are they supposed to “make him wait” or be sluts? Damned if we do, damned if we don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:09 PM
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If men just didn’t want to date single mothers that wouldn be fine. Not wanting to start a relationship with kids in the picture already and some baby daddy (or daddies) drama is totally understandable. I said I’d never date a single dad because I don’t want kids. My current BF has a child though. But it’s one of those situations where he doesn’t have custody. She’s cared for so he sends money and talks on the phone and that’s it. Every once in a while people will say it’s “close minded” but tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:06 PM
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This shit is always so funny to me. Of course women have “dream” expectations and real ones. Just like you guys do. Do you have a 15 lbs over weight glasses wearing nurse with a brown pony tail as a picture in your man cave? No? It’s a hot model? Wow, why is that? For the record I don’t even want all those traits in my dream man. Just because there is a popular type, doesn’t mean everyone wants it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 08:51 AM
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I mean, I’m a woman who wouldn’t try date a single dad (I mean unless I wanted something casual). Why do you assume all women think it’s not okay to rule out single parents? Just odd that this is phrased at women and not single parents. I think it’s a huge deal breaker and totally reasonable if you aren’t willing to step in and play parent for the other person’s kids. And anyone who has an issue with this is the problem. Two types of men date single moms, strong loving guys that are willing to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 08:22 AM
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This is more stuff I never see. Your right about one thing, yes the options in the dating pool are a little worse in your 30s, but that’s not because all the good guys are chasing 18-25-year-olds, it’s because they are already settled down with a woman 1-5-years around his age. Also for me the quality of dates I had for the most part is about the same. I mean it’s gotten a bit better because people my age usually have their shit together much more than people around 20. I just don’t see a lot of…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 07:56 PM
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It’s also weird when they talk about us old undesirable women over 30. On one hand these guys will say we will be begging for a date but when it’s convenient it’s right back to: but you’re a woman, by default you have a shit tom of options. I’m actually a lot more successful this go around being single. I was a few months away from 22 when I got with my husband. He died when I was 28. Dating was WAY easier in my 30s than it was before meeting my husband. I’m an average looking tomboy metal head.…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 03:34 PM
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I swear just because you hear someone say something you people see it in black or white. It’s either every single person on this planet literally has a unique taste or there must be some dudes that have lines of chicks and some dudes are total incels no matter what. The truth is somewhere in between. Me for example, I’m not into muscle dudes or tall dudes. I like average height men. My perfect dude is like 5’7-5’9.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 08:53 AM
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I’m surprised by the other blue pillers in these comments. Are the tides turning on the trans movement? I’ll just have to check the down voted comments lol. I was expecting at least like 40% of the comments to say “well how would it be gay or bisexual if trans women are women??” But even the people who I would think of as somewhat left wing or feminist are saying “well yeah, dating someone with a full penis is gay or bisexual” I’m proud. Because while I’m left wing and I don’t consider myself an…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 10:43 AM
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Not every bad experience in life is trauma JFC. Trauma changes your whole life. The way you eat, sleep, fuck it even messes with pain tolerance. I still don’t react the same to things like I did pre-trauma (finding my husband dead in 2018) Idk why it’s become so popular to identify all unpleasant life experiences as trauma. I’ve experienced plenty of bad things in life. I’ve only been traumatized once. Pop psychology needs to die, ugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 04:32 AM
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No, it doesn’t. Actually I never denied that there are common trends that get people laid more often than not. What I’m saying is there is no formula-like science where you can punch in a bunch of stats and increase the amount of women that you will get. There are a few general things you can do that might get you a bit more female attention, but life isn’t an RPG and there is. I clear cut code. Want proof? Some guys do change their wardrobe, work out, go out more and still fail. Because while c…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 03:01 AM
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Striking up a conversation with a stranger can take MANY forms though. There is a big difference between me, let's say, sitting at a table at a restaurant waiting on my Uber Eats order and some guy walking up and attempting to talk to me vs if I were waiting inline at a concert and something happens in front of us like idk lets say it's really hot outside and a guy inline in front of us, passes out. Suddenly everyone is kind of alert to the situation and he goes "it's hot out here but fuck, I di…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 06:37 AM
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You have a son old enough to be 28. So unless you were a teen parent you are at least 46 and follow "quaker values" but use the jargon that mostly online millennials and zoomers use?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 06:11 AM
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He apparently just created a Tinder real quick and had a bunch of old pics ready to go and already had a bunch of "gym babe" matches over the course of...hours. What's weird to me is the point at the bottom seems to contradict what just happened. A bunch of hot gym babes wanted to trade socials (which in the past lead them to meeting up to hook up) but then they say "most people who are having a lot of sex find their partners IRL still. Idk, it was weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 06:04 AM
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Because typically women who care about...idk not being murdered, don't typically just go over to complete strangers houses alone because they are horny. I'd question the mental health of a woman who did that too. At least in the bar setting, they have some alcohol in their system most of the time which both acts an aphrodisiac to some extent and also tends to blur your good judgement. Also with bar hook ups the woman knows the man is at least safe enough to not be banned from that bar, is the pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 05:56 AM
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I am failing to see how one guy creating a dating a fake chick and having some dudes willing to meet up for a date "destroys" our credibility. Especially when a lot of women's complaints ins't "getting a man to go out on a date" but rather "getting a man to be in a committed relationship" If I were to ask AI to create me an average looking man and put in my bio that I was 5'10 and that I am, idk a high school soccer coach or something making under 100k, then managed to get a handful of matches a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 05:41 AM
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All these links seem be talking about women who would prefer a man to out earn her, not a that a man be solely responsible for the finances which is what I would assumed "take care" of means. I out earned the two partners I lived with. I would have never thought to define the relationship as me "taking care" of them. I contributed more, but they still contributed, thus it was a partnership. If they would have walked out of their jobs, our life style would have suffered. So I don't see how that w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 04:08 AM
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“Most” where do you get this info? It’s not 1950 anymore. So society has done a complete turn around in the last decade? I just love to know where you’re getting the information unless of course it’s like a red pill content, creator telling you women’s nature is your source of course then that’s laughable, but if you can provide information somewhere that proves to me that most so a minimum of 51% of women under the age of 30 in the United States are specifically looking for men to take care of …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 01:47 AM
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A hobosexual is a man that seeks out a woman specifically to move in with her. These men are usually couch suffers rather than literally homeless. A man child is a man that acts like a child: his life revolves around doing what is “fun.” He has no concept of self discipline or delayed gratification. He has basically, no goals (career, plans on moving out of parents, getting a vehicle for himself,) nor does he tend to care of himself more than the absolute basic bare minimum (doesn’t do his own h…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 11:54 PM
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That's what I assumed. And I do include myself in this "here" because I am quite the "home hermit" myself at this stage in my life. I mean, I am not a TOTAL shut in. But I don't have a large social group of friends, I don't have multiple outdoor hobbies that would have me interacting and meeting new people on a regular basis. But I guess the main difference between me and some of the guys here is, I understand I don't represent most people. I would assume most desirable people don't have to reso…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 10:49 PM
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I can mention my experience with something without it suggesting that my experience in anyway reflects any sort of trend. I am not "confused" I am clarifying my point. If I were to make a discussion about hot dog toppings and my argument was "RP people insist women all like ketchup and ketchup only on their hot dogs, but from my understanding I have heard many women report they like mustard and relish too. (I personally like my hot dogs plain but that's just me)" I don't understand how me sharin…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 10:34 PM
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I still think it’s funny that you guys legit think as guys get older they get more appealing. This sounds like wishful thinking dressed in fancy jargon and repackaged as evo-psych. Most stats show people date within their age range. With the exception of the women looking for an older guy to take care of them I never see 18-25 year olds just drooling over men over 35. Men age just like women do. Some more than others, but for the most part, this just seems like made up RF crap (I think I get my …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 07:28 AM
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So what exactly do you think my problem is then? And what does that have to do with the topic of my post lmao. I was mainly talking about what was reported to me, not my limited experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 07:15 AM
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I didn’t ignore any of the guys that DM’d. Idk why you are projecting things on to me that have nothing to do with me but it’s not exactly making much logical sense in any sort of way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 07:14 AM
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What are you talking about? No body holds them accountable? I see memes all the time shitting on single moms and gold diggers. And women who call out other women exist too. It’s common enough to have a name, they are often called “pick mes” by the “only lift your fellow women up” types. So there are men bitching about women and pick me’s agreeing, how is that “no one”? Also you don’t see women complaining all too often about the quality of women on dating apps because THEY DONT DATE WOMEN, so ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 07:09 AM
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How is “most women aren’t complaining about the lack of dates” and me saying I haven’t been asked on a date a “gotcha”to the point where you confidently came in with the “jokes telll themselves” line? Last time I checked, I was one person. Guys generally aren’t attracted to me in any context. I’m a below average looking very literal (can’t flirt to save my life) tomboy. So I don’t think I would consider myself a “typical” experience. So wait, you’re saying that the men are leaving us “old ladies…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 06:51 AM
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The complaint wasn’t that they couldn’t get dates. It’s that they couldn’t find relationships. Just men looking for sex or situationships. Or if they could find relationships, it was with low quality men. Basically hobosexuals, abusers, men who were insanely clingy or extremely avoidant, man children, etc. Basically walking red flags. How were you able to come to the conclusion that the people who said that were the problem? As for the situation the mods don’t want you to link. I see why they do…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 12:22 AM
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I like true crime because it’s interesting to hear about what real people are capable of. I like it from a psychology stand point. I originally wanted to continue school to be a forensic psychologist. I try to avoid the YouTube channels that “romanticize it” and stick to stuff that just talks about. The facts or at most maybe they try to psychoanalyze the criminals. I know true crime comminities can be cringe with their “favorite” killers or whatever, but I’ve never understood why being interest…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 01:20 PM
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While I agree with the idea. Finding out your BF is texting another chick isn’t quite the same as raising a child that isn’t yours. Just make it automatic and save everyone the trouble. I’m actually usually pretty “anti guy” in these convos. And I’ve always trusted my partners. But the thought of raising a kid and by the time they are 4 or 5 you start to notice “this kid really looks like my neighbor” has to be horrifying. This doesn’t just affect the man. It would affect the kid to. Imagine bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 05:15 AM
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Lol are you joking? “Some guys get laid alot therefor this specific philosophy must be true.” That’s hilarious. I’d say some guys get laid a lot because they are conventionally attractive, charismatic and flirty and have a large social circle where they interact with a lot of different people on a regular basis. That in no way demonstrates that women inherently are born with the drive to seek out men who can provide them the most resources. I’ve known guys who are dishwashers that get laid a lot…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 04:25 AM
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I can't speak for other women but the only reason I get "defensive" when men talk about how easy women have it on dating apps vs them is because it feels like to me THEY are the ones trying to make it look like a "who has it worse" competion. I'll make an analogy. It's kind of weird but bare with me. Say you are hungry and there is only one store in town and it sells apples. For some reason when you get to the door the employee looks at you and if you're male you and guided to one room and if yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 12:03 AM
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I never said every single person is a "unique non-gendered snow flake" I acknowledge that stereotypes exist and things like estrogen can have general affects on women's behavior and interests. For example, women are more interested in people and men are more interested in things. Women might spend their day off watching a show, socializing and the things they are talking about include other people while a man might spend that same day working on a car, or gaming. Also another example is if you w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 05:21 PM
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Exactly, when I see women complaining about men and money most of the time it's not about the income gap it's the lack of action or ambition to better themself to pull themself out of a rut. I've seen countless stories on Reddit where it's like "s/o lost decent job 6+ months ago and applies to 1-3 jobs on Indeed a month. On top of that, he hasn't picked up any chores or cooking. So I am working my day job, doing a side hustle and I come home to a dirty house and he's been on his PC all day" The …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 05:00 PM
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More fake RP internet hysteria. Almost no women are meeting guys that they feel a spark with but when they get to the "what do you do for a living?" part of getting to know you phase are stopping, punching in his earnings into a calculator and then turning a guy down because he makes X% less. Are there some women out there that are like idk, corporate bosses that walk the down town part of a city carrying a brief case, around in heals and business suit turning down a guy because he works at McDo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 04:40 PM
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OMG, you are almost there! Hypergamy is not true! It is NOT "female nature." What you all think of as hypergamy is in a post feminist world (so basically since we've been able to open bank accounts or get jobs) are called GOLD DIGGERS and are the MINORITY and not the majority of women. What you described is me. Well, a bit. I am not some "career woman" with a master's and 100k in savings. I am actually in a horrible slump right now financially barely scrapping by. But I lost my good job in Octob…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 02:59 PM
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I will admit that what Red Pill has become (thanks to those sources you listed and don't forget the Whatever podcast) is much worse than what it started as. Still the OG Red Pill is also bullshit and yes, sexist. Yall talk about dating like it can be broken down like, idk a stock market or the best method to work your way up the corporate ladder, but human relationships aka personal connection does not work that way. There is no "formula" or "female nature." Women are just people born with the a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 02:35 PM
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Oh my bad, idk the way it was written it just kinda felt like to me that was supposed to be a counter to “virgins will only date other virgins.”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 12:22 AM
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I mean, they might try to live in denial about it. But if that is what you are now arguing then the goal post has been moved. Because the RP philosophy would say women admire men who have slept with plenty of women. That would be just like if I made the claim “men don’t really care about a women’s N count”, you disagreed and then my evidence was a portion of dudes simply just don’t ask because they would rather think it’s low and still date her anyway. He most certainly does care still, he just …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 10:46 PM
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No, they are seen as men who don’t see sex as something to “win” and something to be shared between two people who love each other. I’m sure there is a handful of virgin women out there that agree with you. But there are 4 billion women on the planet and I bet the amount of women that are like what you say aren’t even remotely close to like a tiny fraction of a percentage. It’s just male made up nonsense that RP guys sell to you as content so you’ll feel better about yourselfs and come back. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 08:19 PM
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Lol not the guy I was arguing with. He literally is into every single hobby and if he has doesn't have very common hot steamy sex then what is there to love? I'd like to believe he is either a troll or a LARPing incel. But the turth is, he could be a very real dude out there dating women. And that makes me sad to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 10:20 PM
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I feel like guys who say this forget about women who aren’t attractive. None of my guy friends \ sexual tension around me. The thought of sleeping with me makes their skin crawl. I’m “like their bro” I feel like guys always picture women as like this pretty face, bit insta lipped, boobs poking out woman giggling and touching their arm. That’s a small fraction of the 4 billion plus women on the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 03:52 AM
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It actually wasn't that easy. One of my best friend's old friend happened to get in touch with him after not speaking for years. Turns out he got out a prison about a year ago and hadn't hooked up with anyone sense. He went off the rails after finding his fiancé dead of an OD and while she laid dead the baby suffocated he got addicted to herion and stole some copper wire and fled from the police While I never got arrested, my husband also died of an OD and I got addicted to oxycontin because my …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:06 AM
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That was one part of the convo, because I am not sure if you have used Reddit before, but not every single response nessisarly has to be EXACTLY what OP was talking about. My statement is relevent to the general discussion of men's view on what dating is like for women. But my answer to OP's post is different people have different levels of "easy vs hard" Saying "women have it easier than men" is a gross over simplification. Btw, I never said I was shocked men aren't flocking to me. So maybe peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 05:24 PM
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You are failing to see the point. So let me break it down for you. Let's make a video game reference. Men think all women are playing dating on easy mode and yall are playing it on expert mode. I have heard men say on this sub time countless time "Be woman, exist, have endless options" ALL I WAS SAYING IS IT'S NOT THAT SIMPLE FOR SOME OF US. I was not trying to be like "woah is me, it's so hard for me" I was simply saying: hey I am a non-fat woman with no kids, that while yes, I am not pretty by…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 05:18 PM
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Honestly, wow, I didn't even realize it wasn't in paragraphs. That's odd. I actually had copy and pasted it from a word doc and didn't even realize it appeared that way. I will go back and edit it. Check my post history I usually do paragraphs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 04:07 PM
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I am so sorry that sharing my life story on Reddit aggravates you. Never understood you types. If you aren't interesting in reading me breaking down my life story of why self esteem is the way it is, then just don't. Why bitch that someone typed out a long post? I will never understand that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 03:38 PM
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But that's the point, you say that we don't have to do the work. Just exist and men will throw themselves at you. I say "hey, I am a non-fat 0 kids having woman and no men throw themselves at me" suddenly the goal post is moved and you go "what to you expect? You're not even trying" I am not saying "oh poor me, I have it so hard" I am just saying it's not AS easy for us as you all make it out to be. My FB status says widowed and I've made "I'm lonely" posts before so yeah, I am not getting on da…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 03:34 PM
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I never claimed I had it the hardest. I was simply saying the idea that you guys state all the time "be woman, exist, have options" is bullshit. And suddenly the goal post is moved when I say "hey I am a woman existing and no one is hitting on me IRL or online" and suddenly it's "well you aren't asking guys out, what to do you expect?" So it's not about me "complaining" it's me pointing out that you don't simply have to exist as a woman and will have guys throwing themselves at your constantly. …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 03:28 PM
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I mean, I was just talking about my life story. How I met my husband, how I fell into addiction after my best friend committed suicide and my husband died. If you don't care, great. But I was explaining why I am the way I am. But if you would have read you would understand why I would never just start flirting with a stranger and you'd know I do go up to guys and make conversation just don't ask them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 03:25 PM
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Yeah, aren't yall the ones screaming "men and women are different deal with it" and then I agree in one little area, that it is considered "socially weird" and now your mad? That's like when yall cry women wanting men to like, trim their beards, keep up their hair and wear fitting clothes and we are like HAHA, the things we have to do to be "pretty" takes 10x the amount of time. What you feel when a woman tells you that is how I feel when you tell me to break social rules and ask guys out. I alr…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 07:47 AM
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Lol what? Sorry, I a am not a Zoomer. A lot of people my age still use Facebook. Also you can tell people who don't use their profiles too. And if I the only way I will ever get laid or have a date again is me walking up to men minding their own business and trying to strike up a convo, I'd rather die alone. And what happened to: be woman, exist, have options? Seems the goal post has moved. A lot of men are still very offended by women making the move. I'd rather just stay single than have to ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 05:47 AM
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Because not all of us do. There are men who are very sociable, large circle of people around them a lot, good looking, good at flirting, that literally have women throwing themselves at them. They will have it easier than an ugly, socially awkward chick in a small town with no social circle. In general women have it easier. But dating is not “stacked” in women’s favor all of the time. I got dumped by my BF, and then my rebound ghosted me and I haven’t had any men approach me since. And I’ve post…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 11:15 PM
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I would love to see those studies. All the “hot cheer leaders” from my high school are married with kids to normal looking dudes. I am 35 years old, my whole life, none of my chick friends chases after buff dudes. My guy friends are not buff and have had relationships, my family members, all cousins, aunts uncles, been married, none of them buff. So im not talking about “Reddit chicks” it’s everyone I’ve ever known in my life. I think you are talking about Insta hot models. So please show me tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 05:10 PM
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I mean, I could agree with this. I have never liked gym bros, never. A 6 pack does nothing for me, but long hair and tattoos will. Men think muscles are everything. The only people I ever hear drooling over super buff guys are gay men. A lot of us women don't care at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 06:54 AM
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As an adult woman who lost her job and has been applying to hundreds and at this point is only eating one meal a day HA! You have to be a single mom to get help. I couldn't even get a 1k loan at like 50% interest. Being a woman has nothing to do with it and being a mom with a minor has everything to do with it. Guys that don't want kids that don't get snipped blow my mind. I can't afford an abortion right now so there is no way I'd ever sex, yet men still do it and bounce all the time anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 06:48 AM
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Yeah, this is such obvious bullshit. Take one trip to the mall and you will see men of all shapes and sizes with women. Very few men have 6 packs, I have literally never dated one and it has not once crossed my mind to not date a guy that wasn't in shape. Hell, I actually prefer slender guys. (I weigh 115 lbs) I will bet my literal life I could go out in public tomorrow and find a not so attractive man holding hands with an attractive woman before I find a guy with a 6-pack all ripped holding ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 06:34 AM
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Have you thought that maybe the women that are telling men to "just be confident" are just DIFFERENT PEOPLE than the ones saying "ew that dude hit on me? There are 4 billion of us. We tend to sometimes have different opinions. If I had a dollar for every time I have heard a guy say "exist as a woman, have endless options for sex" but I have no options at the moment to have sex. I guess maybe if I went on FB and post "I AM HORNY AS FUCK SOMEONE GIVE ME THE DICK" I might get a message idk, I haven…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:59 PM
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Maybe for some chicks, my dude friends are my "bros" I talk about constipation and we have deep political debates or laugh at inside jokes and talk about people we do have crushes on. We would never flirt with each other. If a guy flirted with me I would never think of him as a friend and only as a guy that likes me. I am sure some women are like this but it just seems really one dimensional. I am very close with my friends. Unless it's kind of ironic flirting for waaaay deep into a relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 11:44 AM
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If she has been single and not involved with anyone for awhile I would wait until attraction and dating comes up. Let's say this happens: Small town has one roller skating rink. Both guy and chick are into it. Chick per schedule goes every Friday. Guy moves to town one year ago and also goes every Friday. Most regulars 75% are teens or kids. So naturally they end up striking up a convo here and there. After 6 months they are greeting each other and straight up talking when they see each other, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 11:37 AM
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Idk I am a woman and I define a "good guy" is a man absent of bad traits. To me a good guy is: A man that doesn't throw "man tantrums" over minor inconveniences (someone cut him off in traffic, his computer freezes, he can't find his phone, ref makes a bad call in whatever sportsball game, goes to grab some ice cream and see's there is none left) I understand a man throwing a tantrum for legit reasons (someone side swipes his car and keeps going, he sets his phone down on a table to tie his shoe…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:09 AM
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Because it's not 1940 and like 60% of jobs in the US unless you want to eat ramen, both the woman and the man HAVE to work. Also, I always want my own money. I would never want to have to "run it by my husband" if I wanted to buy something that costs more than $100, when I got my last car. The not was like $190 and my husband I kept our finances separate (he pulled out $300 cash every pay check and all the bills were in my name) we had separate bank accounts, I spent my money how I wanted, he di…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 09:35 AM
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My personality from a far seems cool. She's 35 and is a widow, so no ex hanging around that she will run back to, she's not overweight, she's laid back, she doesn't have, kids, has her own car and pays her own bills, doesn't scream when you take 2 hours to text her back! She likes video games! This chick is awesome! Then they get to know me. And suddenly, they just aren't "feeling the spark" because my personality is just...too much like one of the guys, it's funny that I laugh at sex jokes in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 09:09 AM
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Because if you’re a straight guy, you probably don’t want to do that, right? But how could you know you don’t like it unless you’ve tried it? I’m literally using your logic. So if I sound like I’m coming off as stupid, that’s because your logic is since I’m pointing out how idiotic your logic is. You don’t have to “try something” to know you won’t like it. Just like I don’t have to try some sort of extreme BDSM torture sex stuff to know I don’t want to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 03:11 AM
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I am assuming you must have sucked dick and taken it in the ass then? I mean, I’m just using your extremely over-simplified “man” logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 01:00 PM
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Because they aren't humans. That's like saying if I went up to a bar and asked for a drink and the bartender recommended a nice mock tail. And I said, said no thanks because I wanted a drink with alcohol in it, He then insists, come on, it's delicious! I then explained I had a bit of social anxiety and bad day and wasn't in the best mood to socialize and party and that alcohol takes the edge off of the bad mood, gives you a bit of euphoria and is a social lubricate. And if the bartender then say…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:46 PM
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Yeah, this is just pointless. I’ve never heard that in my life. You may want to date every single chick that likes you and you think is hot and calls that love but other men talk about chemistry all the time. I grew up with three male cousins. I’ve had several guy friends. I’ve had so many conversations in my life where the guys talk about that chemistry feeling just like women do. Some Reddit guy isn’t gonna convince me that it’s all made up. Even if you actually believe for you that’s true. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 02:22 PM
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lists some general examples on why it’s a good thing to have some basic interests and personality type in common with your partner Wow all you women are the same throwing men away. Lol what? This is weird as fuck. Where did you even get that? I was with my husband throughout my entire 20’s until he died and the BF I had after broke up with me. I have never been one to have men chasing me and large assortment to choose from. I actually get really attached to people like too much. So I’m transpare…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 05:24 AM
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How are these things equatable? N count does not objectively mean anything. But being unemployed means you objectively can not contribute to the costs of paying for a home. Now unless a woman is okay with a house husband and the guy is gonna pull his weight in cooking and cleaning, why should an unemployed man be doing anything other than looking for a job, finishing up school, or spinning his tires at home with mommy for as long as she wants to enable him?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 04:22 AM
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I mean, im in my 30’s now. But when I was in my 20’s I didn’t know anyone dating a guy that much older than her. I also had no interest in guys in their 30’s when I was in my 20s. Maybe things changed a lot since then. But I feel like it’s probably not the case and most chicks in their 20’s would rather someone around their age in their own social circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 03:36 AM
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I think it’s just one of those ways on women and also forgetting that we are not a homogenous blob. The women going after the “broke bad boy” is not the same woman going after the rich guy. The woman that goes after the bad boy is attracted to the sexy-ness of him being charismatic, “cool” and he’s probably physically good looking. Where the guy that’s rich, I mean, she is attractive to what he provides. I don’t see many women going for the guy covered in tats and warrants to a guy with a great …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 03:33 AM
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I technically agree with your original post but I don’t agree at all with what you are saying. I think women will benefit from sex bots because it might get gross men that basically just want a hole to put their dick in to stop bothering us since all those dudes will just get with sex bots. For me sex is 95% about the touch and attention of another person. If it was just about pleasure. I can rub one out and role. But I want to be wanted, to be able to turn someone on, to please a guy I feel att…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 03:21 AM
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Being a victim and using psyche terms is really trendy or “in” right now. It’s the easiest way to get validation and attention. Also women have been fed for years that they don’t have to take accountability. And to me, as a feminist, I find it frustrating because it seems really infantilizing. Now keep in mind, I’m talking about a woman that fully consented to sleeping with this guy. She may have spent a little too much time on Twitter. And created false memories that has lead her to take some o…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 01:32 AM
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Women don’t even have rights in some countries. But once again, you saying women when you should be saying 6+ hot women. All of us can’t just go somewhere and snap our fingers and find someone to fund our life. I was widowed at 28 and just turned 35 and am still single and I’m not obese nor do I have kids. I’m just a tad odd (can’t flirt to save my life) and not pretty. I currently have zero dating prospects and if I did a dating app I would def be ghosted after a handful of initial convos like …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 01:20 AM
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This actually describes my last relationship. I’m glad it ended, that would have killed me to be in it forever. My self esteem was shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 01:03 AM
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If he was more attracted to my personality than my looks. Good, makes me feel safer in 20 years that I won’t be dumped for a younger chick. Like take for example, he sees me he thinks : meh, she’s kinda cute. But not in a “holy shit” he like saw me in a roomful of people and like some rom com time stops and he just has to come up to me and talk to me kind of thing. Maybe we are in a group of people and he kind of notices me at first but the group gets to talking and we end up striking up a convo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 12:34 AM
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I guess, I get what you are saying because it would be hard not to form some sort of connection with someone you've spent enough time to have multiple children with. But to me my comment was pretty obvious that I was leaving out some VERY IMPORTANT STUFF to have a real deep connection with someone. Obvious enough that someone else answered for me (and it is exactly what I meant too lol). But let me add some stuff. Notice how I didn't mention actually having things IN COMMON or any sort of natura…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 07:21 PM
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Well it’s because the men who say that are men themselves so of course they have that standard for themself, and to those men women are very othered. So while I (and some men of course) strive for equality and no double standards, the men who think like this are okay with double standards because they view women as less than so who cares. Basically a wife to them is almost like a Pokemon. Hope you catch one with good stats such as: hot, takes good care of house, good at cooking, continues to put…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 07:33 PM
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In between 33 and 50 Not be morbidly obese Taller than 5’4 shorter than 6’1 Has a full time job and working vehicle (don’t care how much they make though it would be nice if they made at least $15 or so an hour) If he lives with his parents, it’s because he has to “restart” and has lived on his own before, so knows basic life skills too (change air conditioner filter, how to wash dishes, clothes, etc.) Showers and brushes teeth regularly Has at least 2-3 close relationship with other human being…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:33 PM
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I can’t speak for other people but I have really low standards but am still single at 35 (to be fair I was married in my 20’s but my husband died) I just don’t have a social life to meet new people. And I don’t want to do dating apps, so there is rarely chances to meet new guys. Doesn’t mean I’m lying. Also, guys tend to lose interest in me because I’m kind of a tomboy so after a month or so the “coolness” of being laid back and chill wares off and they lose interest. It doesn’t always happen, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:04 PM
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Idk to me it is kind of unreasonable. I personally would find it odd to invade my partner's personally masturbation habits. I mean, of course there are certain things t hat I would draw the line at. But life is rarely black and white. Most things exist on a spectrum. And one thing I find intersting is what different people define as cheating. I remember reading about a woman who found out her partner was texting and sexting some other woman. There was tons and tons of texts. They exchanged nudes…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 07:49 AM
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This has not been my experience. Well past the two or three month mark myself. My experience has been me carrying the financial and mental load for my most of my LTR's. I made all the decisions sure, because most of my partners have been man children that don't care to make decisions. But once they all got past the honeymoon stage, they stopped trying. My longest relationship was my late husband and his laziness was mostly rooted in alcoholism. My current BF is one of those guys who is totally h…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 06:17 AM
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It's very hard for me to understand people are just "perfectly happy single" maybe if I had like 5 good solid close friends and 2-3 of them were also single, a lot of time consuming hobbies I was super into and a large family that I was involved in. On top of that it would be nice to have 2-3 people "on stand by" that I COULD have sex with or go out on a date with if I needed. But I don't have any of that. So being single, I'd basically be unhappy. I am sure there could be snippets and moments t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 07:29 PM
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Idk maybe look at the post I was responding to? People were discussing looks matches and someone mentioned average band this dude brings up obese women who didn’t wash their hair and he was like: what should I expect? And stated he was average. So IF he is average, I showed him an “example” of about what he should expects if he wants his “looksmax” and just used myself because I know that I’m about average instead of searching through Google.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 07:23 PM
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Yes. I am aware. The end of one is the beginning of the other. Hence them not being equal but not on total opposite ends. That was literally my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 04:01 AM
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Ah yes, typical the “nuh-uh” when provided with proof/information. Because you’ve decided in your head that you know everything. Like what is there even to say to this? How did you get here? How could you possibly get to the point where your so confidently making an assumption about 4 billion+ people. It’s an intellectual cop out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 03:57 AM
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I’m not suggesting it’s a chore? Where did I say that? I’m saying not everyone feels “horniness” on the daily. Life happens, stress, illness, kids, differing schedules. Some people have sex drivers high enough where they are going to find a way to do it several times a week. Others it’s going to lesson as time goes on, especially after that 2+ calm down period after the honeymoon stage. I’ve been in love before too. I was with my late husband 6.5 years. And up until his death, we usually still d…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 03:46 AM
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Do you really now know what average looks like? Here I’m an average looking woman. Not hot not hideous. Just…average. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 09:01 PM
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Holy shit this is sad. You could have a lovely partner that you can trust, that is loyal, dedicated, have a good friendship with, that supports you in your goals and dreams, excited to build a life with you, splits the bills, house work and cooking based on what you’d like, who cares for you when you’re sick, who has your children and raises them with love and care. But she only wants to have sex 1-4 times a month and you are like: WAAH NOT GOOD ENOUGH! ME WANT PENIS WET AT LEAST A WEEK!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 08:58 PM
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I love how when women complain about guys being crap asking “where have all the good men gone?”. The guys here are like “boo, CHOOSE BETTER MEN! It’s your own fault! You probably friendzoned him!” But when guys choose bad women it’s “well, time to intellectualize my bad dating choices and write up a post skewing statistics around to fit my narrative which is how it’s actually most women, so it’s not my fault this keeps happening to me! It’s statistically improbable to find a woman who will see m…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 08:28 PM
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Question: if a chick likes a guy but he refuses to be exclusive, how is she dating “behind his back” and why is SHE the one in the wrong? The guy is also dating. She wants to be exclusive, he doesn’t. So she’s only dating other guys because he’s dating other girls. Yet this is still a prime example of your argument. Also do you count a chick going on date with a guy she met on Tinder on Saturday and technically not telling him “I had a bad time and don’t want to see you again” then goes on a dif…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 07:46 PM
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What do you say to women when you approach them?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 11:12 AM
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There’s got to be more to the story. We don’t know what he’s saying to these women. For the three months I tried OLD I matched with a virgin and I decided to give him a chance and by the 5th response the weird woe-is-me self hatred started to come out. I already knew at this point, this dude was mentally unwell. Shouldn’t be trauma dumping so early. But out of curiosity, I continued the conversation and by the 10th message, he was ranting to me about how all women are “evil whores who just latch…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 11:10 AM
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Get off of the internet. After my husband died, I tried online dating and fucking hated it. It’s convenient because it’s from your house. But people are cut throat. Was having a nice conversation with a guy for hours and without a word he just unmatched after I said I’d want to hang out in person for at least a few weeks before I’d even consider sex. In real life people don’t just do that. And it’s much healthier and more realistic when there’s actual chemistry involved and people aren’t just pi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 07:30 PM
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It’s called realistic standards. Things aren’t that black and white. It’s not like men are either 6’4 ripped Chads with a perfect jawline or 5’3 neckbeards, covered in acne with back hair. Men exist in between those two things. Think of it this way: of course if I could play fantasy world, I’d live in a 500 million dollar mansion. But that doesn’t mean when I’m house hunting and I won’t find and pick out a nice 150k house that’s cute, meets my needs that I’m excited to sign the papers on. And ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 07:03 PM
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That’s for sure not true lmao. I def had the conversation before I slept with any of my BF. And life exists outside of Tinder. Maybe all yall are zoomers. I still remember a time that people would laugh at you for having a dating profile and calling it pathetic. Like “really you have to put an ad online to find someone?” It was very taboo in the 2000’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:54 PM
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I was talking about relationships, not ONS or short flings. And when you hear about it happening to women and they are complaining, that is them learning “oh wait, guys like this won’t actually seriously date me.”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 01:09 AM
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I know for real. It’s also proves how invisible us average and ugly women to these men. When they talk about “modern women” they are ONLY talking about the types to at least have a semi successful OF acting like that is a representation of “most” women. But that is a very small fraction of women. But it doesn’t matter to them that there are literally millions of average to below average women living in Arkansas or Nebraska working at Wal-mart that would be happy to meet a decent man that simply …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 10:32 PM
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I’d love to see some of this “science” that proves red pill stuff to be true. I’m curious what the study even is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 03:49 AM
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But not all people have those standards. Magazines have more influence on people’s attractions than “evopsyche” butts are the perfect example. When my elder ass was in high school (2003-2008) girls wanted to have a small butt. When we asked “do these pants make my ass look big?” We wanted the answer to be no. Then something happened in the early 2010s and now days you see a picture of Taylor Swift and 90% of the men are calling her “boney” and “pass.” Plus not every person likes the same thing. …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 03:45 AM
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When I hear men say stuff about how “evil” women are I often wonder what planet they are on. Yes, sociopaths exist, but there are also cut throat evil men as well. Also the women you speak of, are a small portion of extremely attractive women that have gotten special treatment their whole lives. There are literally millions and millions of women who are average to below average that have to work for things just like men. We tend to be invisible to types like you. It’s apparent because when you d…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 03:20 AM
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Yep, not to mention a lot of these guys are gamers so they want to also treat us like characters in a game. They act like we have stats and want to discuss our “catch rates” when I read red pill screeds it always makes me think of like dudes talking about DnD or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 02:39 AM
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Idk with me guys are in three categories: -yes! -maybe -no Guys in the maybe can make it to the yes. But never no. It’s really that complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:52 AM
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I’m failing to understand why saying yes, I will reject men with no sense of natural social skills, who’s work-around that is “well, if I see a woman I’d like to stick my penis in, maybe if I do her a bunch of favors and feed her compliments eventually she will fuck me. And if enough women say no, then clearly they all just like assholes. Because doing nice things for them means I’m a nice guy and if they don’t like me then they MUST only like assholes!” means I’m trying to be virtuous. I’m just…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 07:52 PM
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I try to have sex early on but not too early on. Like working the first 10 dates or so but no sooner than the 3rd or 4th. My current boyfriend our first date was like 11/8 of last year I think? It was a concept. We had sex mid January. However I was moving and there was like 2-3 weeks where we didn’t see each other at all. Btw I wasn’t talking to or sleeping with anyone else at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:04 AM
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I am blue pill but I don't even believe this. I don't see many attractive men, that are in shape, dress well, have a large social circle, a wide variety of hobbies, and a high paying job holding hands with a chunky 24 year old, acne covered chick wearing a Naruto shirt and cat kids with a 18 month old from her high school sweet heart in the basket next to her. Attraction isn't ALWAYS some sort of formula. But well rounded desirable people in a higher social class tend to date within that class. …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 07:19 AM
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Maybe, but yall rape and kill us more.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 12:19 AM
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I never said short men “can’t struggle” I said there is no epidemic of men under 6 foot being incels. A short man can be struggling with dating and it also have nothing to with his height. Or it could be ONE aspect of many. But you don’t know that height is the sole reason. Maybe they are bitter assholes and of course don’t admit it it or unaware and blame their height. I never said “everyone feels the same way as me” I said “most women want a guy a that is a few inches taller than them” It’s we…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 05:08 PM
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Yeah this is some “you need to log off and go outside” shit to the point where I’m not sure if you’re trolling or not. There are tons of men all over the place under 6 foot that are married, getting laid dating. And your’e “pretty sure” eh? My height preference is 5’7-5’9. I dated a guy ONCE that was 6’0 once and did not like it. I’m 5’2 and hugging him always felt off, certain sex positions were weird. Nah, I’m good. That’s too tall. So a dude that was 6’5? Hell no, based on height alone, I’d t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:18 PM
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I couldn’t imagine doing this as a woman. It seems so much more weird as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:21 PM
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I’m just imagining this stinky jobless dude living in his parents basement seeing those few Tinder profiles that said “men under 6 foot need not apply” and thinking he can get anyone he wants because of his height. Not saying that’s you. But the idea of being over 6 foot is the only thing that matters made me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:11 PM
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I find it interesting how RP men tend to contradict themselves when it comes to us, oldies (I’m 34) Somehow no man wants us because we are not young and fertile. But at the same time it’s impossible for women to have trouble with dating because all of us always have a line of orbiters. I feel like statuses like this want us to seethe. But I don’t because when I read that a dude is mainly interested in looks and fertility and that’s basically it. It’s like the trash taking itself out. Best part i…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:08 PM
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I have 0 issues with a a guy that games. I have Zelda and Pokemon tattoos. I have problem with gaming addicts or guys that spend more time gaming a week than they do their full time job. My ex would wake up and literally play videos games from the moment he woke up until he went to bed and getting him to leave the house for me on a date (post honeymoon phase or of course) was like pulling teeth. My current BF is a gamer. But when I’m around he limits it to 2-3 hours tops. If we live tougher I si…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 01:30 AM
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I mean while I agree of course if someone has that stupid fucking “boundary” (lmao that’s not a boundary btw boundaries are about YOU not others) just dump them. The only issue I see with porn is if your partner chooses to jack off to porn over and over instead of having sex with you or they have a straight up porn addiction. But if a guy spanks it to porn once a day on the days you don’t have sex there is 0 issue with that and any woman who has a problem with that is the person with the problem…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 07:14 PM
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Because we have so many other things to do now. 50 years ago we were married off, there wasn’t birth control and we could cook clean or sew. Now we got endless things to watch, games to play, drawing, traveling, working, activism, friendships? Used to be who you went to school with, now people can have online friendships, so many more options. Also if you don’t want them you aren’t AS accosted by society. I mean people still think you’re kinda odd if you’re a woman and you say “nah, I’m not real…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 07:01 PM
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lol "women" it's not easy for me. I stayed with my husband even though he was borderline abusive when drunk. Stayed with him until he died. The boyfriend after that I stayed with for a year too long. Dude worked but would not help with anything around the house, didn't cook, stopped trying. I had to beg him to leave the house with me. He basically gamed, worked and slept. The relationship was dead 9 months before I finally walked away. Some of us stay. I stayed too long. I should have left my hu…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 09:33 PM
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And men jack off to porn stars but don’t want to marry one? Ah yes, women though. The only “hypocritical” gender. Idk, never had a thing for bad boys. I mean I guess I had thing for musicians. They probably don’t always make the most moral choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:54 AM
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Ah yes, being widowed at 28 not a problem, easy street lmao. They got kids starving in Africa that would be saying the SAME thing to you whining about your girl troubles. It doesn’t matter what I say. I can say men don’t hit on me. That there isn’t a line a dudes ready to pay my bills. That I’ve never had men pay my bills every thing I’ve had in my life, I’ve done for myself. Every claim you make about “all women” when I refute it with my experience you just say “but incels” like it’s supposed t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:21 PM
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I can only date the men that are willing to date me. Plus I obviously don’t know at the time they were gonna be like that. If untouched their hand and had a vision of two years later them sitting on their ass gaming while I did all the work I would have said no. Except for maybe the late husband I actually loved him it would have been nice for a bit more help but he did cook. But the other three for sure I would have undated if I could. Morning but wasted time. I’d probably have another 50k in s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:03 PM
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Just because someone else struggles more doesn’t mean someone isn’t struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:18 PM
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Shit I went too hard. That’s why I left in the end. Burn out. Doing everything never getting anything in return ever. Pretending to be the cool girl “it’s cool. I don’t need to go on dates. Oh you don’t have to get me anything for my bday. Just hang out with me.” Just being grateful for their company. Have sex when ever they want. I got turned into a mommy made. They realize they don’t have to try and they can do whatever they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:17 PM
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Well I’m a 34 year old woman who has never been loved for just existing. My 4 long term relationships, I was the bread winner, did all the adult stuff, cleaned, the late husband cooked so I got help there but none of the other ones helped. I started dated a dude recently that’s finally a real adult but as soon as the honey phase worse off he is losing interest. And I’m not fat nor do I have any kids. Yall act like every chick lives the life of an Instagram model. We don’t. A lot of us struggle t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:55 PM
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I play video games not a whole lot but the thing about “gamer” dudes that sucks is unlock other hobbies, some guys will literally game every waking second they are home. Obviously not all guys are like this. But it can happen. My ex would get off of work in Sunday at 6:00 and then game basically non stop until Monday when he had to go back to work. He never wanted to do anything else. And if he was online with headphones speaking to him was next to impossible. If you date a man like this. Unless…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 06:33 PM
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Ouch I want to believe you. But you haven’t been though it before. You might bounce back, sure idk you, but since you haven’t been through it you don’t know. My psyche was fucking destroyed when my husband died and I still deal with drug addiction problems to this day to the left over trauma of having your best friend/roommate/lover be there for you every day for years and then they are just gone. I didn’t sleep, I couldn’t eat. I had panic attacks all the time. My whole personality changed. I h…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 04:16 AM
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lol yall are such doomers. These things are a lot more common now thanks to dating apps. Regular normies are acting more and more like celebrities in terms of dating due to the huge selection of dating options. However, plenty of people are getting regular ass married. It isn’t “over” it’s just less common. I bet you people were pearl clutching like this when no-fault divorced were legalized.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 04:12 AM
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For real, love it when men log on here and say things like “hey, girls I’m a women, the men are right, they do mean it! Listen to me fellow girls!” It’s like yeah…okay…maybe, just seems a little odd a woman would be okay a giant judgment like that. If it Is a chick I doubt she’s that old. I’m 34, and never got a large amount of male attention. But the amount I get now is about the same I did when I was 19-20 and in college. Hell I get more than I did I’d say. Since I’m not fat and have no kids. …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:07 PM
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Hm, pretty sexist of you to aim this question at women. That would lead me to believe that you believe all of us or at least most of us think that. I certainly do not. Now maybe she isn’t “knowing her worth” if the guy not only works some bottle of the barrel minimum wage job but also doesn’t cook or clean. Sure, then we can start to talk about her knowing her worth. Because at that point isn’t he just giving you a couple hundred bucks and keeping you company? Is he a partner or basically the eq…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:24 AM
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I mean, if someone wants to do it, let them. I used to say I’d date a single father as long as he had the kid less than 50% of the time and only one child. But then someone made a good point to me which was: Okay, so you are fine with every other weekend. What if you marry the dude and two weeks after the wedding, mom dies in a car wreck? Bam, now you are full time step mom. So I’ve changed my stance to the only way I’d date a dude with a kid is if it’s one kid and the kid is no younger than 15 …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:19 PM
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lol of course they do. I am one. Now some “ugly” chicks are flirty enough and surround themselves with the right people where they too can get laid. But if you’re awkward and ugly? You won’t naturally just have a pool of orbiters just because you’re female.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:09 AM
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At this point I’m starting to think the “women only want foot six figures and will settle for nothing less” is a meme. It’s like, do you go outside? Imagine thinking that. Every single guy that’s works retail or service industrial? Virgin incel, even the tall ones because it’s 6 foot AND 5 figures. Then the short rich guys, still pussy-less. It’s weird dystopian fiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 07:12 AM
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100% want to have a real conversation. Ngl I’m guilty of trauma dumping though. Want to work on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 07:02 AM
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If Paul was like 5'7-5-8 and made at least 40K, a bit more outgoing and wasn't super slob and didn't give a fuck about sports he'd basically be my dream guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:06 AM
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Mainly this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:14 PM
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5’7-5’10, slender average or slightly athletic, some tattoos but not like fully covered, dark hair that’s at least a inch long, no facial hair minus scruff, that’s okay, full time job making at least $15 an hour, likes metal/punk or something in that subculture, light nerd (some video games, table top board games) smart, slightly-edgy personality, has his own vehicle, place and a small group of friends, into some form of art (like drawing, playing an instrument, etc.) sociable but not TOO sociab…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 09:09 PM
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Is this satire? I couldn't imagine this being a thing unless the person was poly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 11:30 PM
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N count doesn't predict cheating. My best friend has slept with about half as many guys as I have yet she always monkey branches from relationship to relationship. Since most people agree monkey branching is cheating, she cheats. I have never cheated on anyone. I had some casual sex in high school and a handful of BFs. If you want to have an N-count preference, go ahead. But to act like this story is "proof of anything" is dumb. It's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 11:28 PM
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I’d just say large purchase or grand actions. Men have never really done that for me. My current boyfriend helped me move. Went go get a trailer and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 05:07 PM
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If the wall is about fertility sure. I’m child free though. So I guess it just doesn’t apply to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 05:03 PM
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No one said they “all were” like that. Not sure why that’s being told to me, because no shit they all aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:30 AM
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Because a glow up for a woman is losing some weight, clearing her fave of acne, getting a more suited hair style and new wardrobe. A lot harder for a socially inept bitter man that doesn’t have style or look good that has never really dated but worked at Pizza Hut while he slowly gets a degree then when he finally gets that good job making $200k to pull a woman suddenly because his shit is now together (good job, but car, house, has spending money) Lots of guys that don’t have their shit togethe…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 06:34 PM
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Not wanting basically a full grown child that sleeps with you is now man bashing? Because if you don’t think there are dudes out there that totally live in the moment and don’t work because “meh, dont feel like it. GF makes enough at her two jobs to keep us fed and housed and I really need to be focused on leading my guild they depend on me.” Then you are wrong. I unfortunately dated a few, my friends have. It is a thing. And saying you refuse to put up with that is man bashing? You have to be o…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 06:26 PM
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I agree that would be the ideal. But sometimes life doesn’t work out that way. Some people start to worry once they hit that age where the dating pool is shrinking smaller and smaller and they want kids. Think about it, the chances of finding a person where you are both head over heels for each other AND you’re both compatible? Seems actually pretty rare and it makes sense that a lot of people do give him and just pick a person that’s “good enough” figuring they will just grow to love them in a …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 06:18 PM
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To me settling just means you date someone because they check off enough boxes but you don’t actually feel burning desire to for them. Your BF who you were head over heels for dumped you 6 months ago and you’ve had shit luck on Tinder. Say there is a delivery guy that stops by your office once a week and you’ve thought of him as “eh, kinda cute” he asks you out and does it respectfully and you say “sure why not.” You find yourself more nervous than excited. You go on the date. He’s nice, y’all a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 06:44 AM
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I mean they aren’t all hypothetical, I literally just argued with one the other day. It was a post about wanting a man to at least meet them half way financially and about how she don’t care how sweet and good a guy is, if he don’t work or only works part time she isn’t wasting her time. There was a guy below (who I would guess doesn’t have a job or only works part time) that said “pssst..have fun dying alone with your cats!”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 04:45 AM
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Quit acting like a call girl. Some women act like a date is almost a mating dance. Now is the time for him to dazzle me and see if he’s worthy of my time. No a date is fun activity for two people to see if their is natural chemistry and if you have things in common. Sure the guy can pay but it isn’t a show off act. Women who do the above buy into sexist bullshit just as much as all these RP types of men. And confidence is good, but thinking your hot shit that needs to be woo’d in order to be spe…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 06:33 PM
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Then what the hell is it about? Lmao the first paragraph mentions children. But I’m not sure why I’m supposed to feel personally guilty though. There are 8 billion people on the planet and most women still want kids. So sure a few of us are opting out but it’s a small amount of us who don’t want that life. Guilting people into having kids they don’t want doesn’t seem like a good idea. That’s his gig get childhood trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 07:00 AM
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Yeah. I’m not living a life I don’t want to live so I can feel like I didn’t contribute to “societal collapse” lol. Plus I’d be a shit mother and I don’t have a lot of money so not exactly sure who really wins here other than some dude on the internet who gets off to women who don’t want kids having kids lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 09:19 PM
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I get called a victim blamer a lot but I stick by the whole drunk or not don't go to a random guy's house if you don't want to fuck him. Like with the obvious exception of an emergency (say her wallet disappeared and she couldn't get a hotel). I have drank a decent amount of alcohol. I have went to 0 dudes homes that I wasn't planning on sleeping with. Legally she can retract consent at any point. But to me, it's all just so stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 03:49 AM
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I would think men would enjoy being single long term more than women would. And happy is also not a good measurement. I mean single women don’t have to put up with the BS of their husbands and kids but they also are probably pretty lonely. I know I sure as shit don’t want to be single long term. My odds aren’t looking to good atm though. I know I don’t want kids though so at least that’s not an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 07:38 PM
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I hate red pill because I disagree with the philosophy. And that dude does not sound like my type at all. I prefer a wallflower simple dude. Kinda guy with tattoos and is a line cook at a restaurant. Not “Mr. Success” I’m sure there are some women who hate RP because of sometime similar to your little scenario but I’m sure most of us just acknowledge as almost cult like pseudoscience lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 10:26 PM
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I’m sure it exists for some people but to think that is all of our default is just doomer bullshit. Most of us just a good partner to do life with and aren’t looking to upgrade to a new man if a dude who makes 20k more a year shows interest in us.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:24 AM
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I’ve never dated a whipped guy. Every guy I have ever dated resumed having a social life and I didn’t get a say so in it at all. Though when I was younger I thought men would be like this because of people like you OP, but that hasn’t been my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:22 AM
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I mean it’s almost just a mental thing for me. Talking about my “boyfriend” as a mid thirties woman feels kind of weird. Now I’ve only been with my current boyfriend for 3.5 months so I wouldn’t think of marriage anytime soon. And if the guy I was with didn’t believe in marriage it’s cool, no biggie. I’d rather be with a man that I love as a GF forever, than be with a guy I don’t truly have feelings genuine feelings for just to have the title husband. But yeah, it just sounds and feels more “off…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 10:08 PM
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I would prefer to have sex, but it is not mandatory. My BF now, the sex is much better, he’s waaay more attractive and I like his personality more. But if I was given the choice of: never see him again and date someone else or not have sex with ever again and be with him, as long as I can cuddle with him, like lay with my head on his shoulder or lay down with him shirtless and me resting my head on his chest, I’d take that in a heart beat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 04:28 PM
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My last BF didn’t have sex because it hurt me. I mean we did but it was maybe once every 2 months and I got no enjoyment out of it. I’m also CF. We broke up but it wasn’t for those reasons. I dated him because it was like having a roommate that hog cuddle with and is your best friend. It’s your life partner. Your other half. This is such a sad question if sex snd offspring is all you see out of relationships. Intimacy and love is so much more than just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:24 PM
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I mean I’m one of those women, but I do think like many convos that happen online, age discourse has gone a little too far. I saw some women bitching out a dude who was 32 and engaged to a 25 year old. They had been dating for 2 years, so 30 and 23. Like really? Chick was old enough to working on her masters. BUT I get what they are saying in general. There is so much more shit I would have tolerated from a man at 17-18 that I’d laugh at now. Things like “getting mad if we hang out without havin…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:34 AM
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I mean some people are serious. I didn’t see an “/s” so how was I supposed to know?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 10:38 PM
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Lmao yall just keep raising that height requirement eh? It’s almost laughable. My boyfriend is 5’8 and I’m 100% happy with his height. Wouldn’t grow him an inch if I was given the chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:53 PM
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Yeah, id stay single. None of these guys sound appealing at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:31 PM
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So because you had trouble with love that means everyone does? Like how does that even work? Is it from main character syndrome? You are one person with one experience. You speak for yourself and your life, that’s it, I couldn’t fathom being like “I have this problem. Hm, that must mean literally every single dude ever who lived looks similar to me must have the same experience.” And yadaya my life must be soooo easy because I am a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 04:40 AM
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This edgy shit is so cringe. The human experience is not a math formula. People of all shapes and sizes fall in love. The fact that you think that out of billions of people that existed, none of the ones that you deem “below average” based on whatever made up system you have in your head are capabale of experiencing love just prove that some of you dudes fall too far down this rabbit hole and take some articles, formed and YT videos about dating trends like it’s the law of gravity. It’s not, chi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 11:34 AM
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Idk I think me do better alone. They seem a lot better living in the moment. Like, if they have something to do they are content. Women look at the big picture more.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 07:11 PM
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I’d sit down and have a conversation. I preface it by saying it’s not just about sexual attraction but you don’t want her to die earlier, have to buy new clothes, etc. just explain the negative affects of being overweight, offer to work with her. Go on walks, go to the gym, buy healthier meals. The conversation can had in the right way because I know unlock a lot of other left wingers that being fat is not neutral or good. It is bad. Where my issue is comes in when people treat fat people as les…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 01:17 AM
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Because those are trying to convey a message and aren’t an accurate reflection or reality. They want you to think that so you’ll continue to consume their product.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:57 PM
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lol so tired, no most of us don’t demand that. Maybe observe what women who don’t look like cliche OF models have to say. I ask that a dude work period and I prefer my man to be under 6 foot. I just want him a couple inches taller than me so like around 5’5 at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:54 PM
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I am curious what people mean by that. Like, not constantly having a conversation? Just chillen together with the TV on or music or actual silence? I always assumed long periods of silence meant yall have nothing to talk about, and are awkward. But to some people that's a good thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 04:53 PM
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What’s wrong with lower birth rates? We have over billion people on this planet that is basically on fire due to climate change. 100-200 years from now plenty of places will be unlivable. It’s hard to make a living in the economy AI is replacing a shit ton of jobs. I’d be worried if the population wasn’t decreasing. It better, or this planet is gonna have swine seeuous problems. If trad people had there way there would be a shit ton of poor families with 4-5 kids each. I couldn’t imagine the lev…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 07:30 PM
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I would assume a guy that expects his woman to maintain a Barbie doll like appearance. Always shaved, hair down, make up everyday, planned outfits, blowjob or sex daily, home cooked meals (no ready made stuff or take out) That’s what I think of.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:18 PM
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Scrolled too far to see this. Basically a “pick me” is a low maintenance GF who brags about being low maintenance.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:16 PM
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I feel like the people that come up with these scenarios have to be really lonely because actual feelings never seem to factor into these scenarios lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:04 PM
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Most of my friends were guys growing up. I’m a slightly below average looking tomboy. I was raised around all male cousins. I don’t think most of my guy friends liked me. They all had chicks they liked and it was obvious how they acted around me vs them. Guys that want you tend to be shyer or more show off-y.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:56 PM
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He makes more than my ex (dog walker $15 an hour) but he still doesn’t make over 100k and does blue collar work and that’s perfectly fine. I just ask that men work, period. I’ve dated a handful of man children in my day and if I can have all the money I spent on them back I could probably buy a brand new car.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 10:50 PM
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The women that have those requirements are like a fraction of %. Like where does the internet get this shit? Make over 6 figures? Ah yes, all service workers (retail restaurant, etc) are all permanently single. My new BF is like 4 inches shorter than my last one and waaaaay prefer it. I always used to say my “dream guy” is about 5’8 lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 10:15 PM
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Nah, I tried to make it work for 4 years. I’ve given and given and given. I was married to an alcoholic who died and found him before that. Not gonna let some rando online call me a “terrible person” because he doesn’t like that comfortably detached from a man that was giving 10% in a relationship lmao. But I guess you can think what you want. I know who I am and what I’ve done for men. The amount of money and time lost. So go right ahead lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 05:02 PM
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Then don't and any man who will not commit to "women" because of MY own personal actions is not a man worth committing too. And I said that was it where I decided it was time to START to detach. It's a gradual process. If he would have saw it and honestly sat down with me and said "how can we fix this?" and actually made an attempt to do so, it may have been doable. I won't concede, you're right because it's not that black and white. That's not how my emotions work. I can't just flip them off li…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 04:11 PM
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Yes, because I can't just end a lease lmao. He needed me just as much if not MORE than I needed him. And gas light means to intentionally do small actions to make the person think they are basically an reliable narrator. Me trying to make him think he is crazy and not in touch with reality so he will depend on me. That is NOT what happened anymore. For my birthday he asked what I wanted in a monotone voice I said "nothing" I detached. I was NEVER dishonest. I just didn't say "AND NOW I AM ENDING…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 03:58 PM
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I began to mentally detached myself from him. I kissed him less, had less sex, didn't iniate romantic statements or even try to make date plans anymore. If he would have paid a lick of attention he would have seen it. And I also told him straight up how that lack of action made me feel. But for me, it's a process, I can't just DUMP someone I need to get comfy with the idea of not being with him and mentally detach before I actually leave. But good job not knowing what gas lighting means, lol. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 02:39 PM
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Lmao, arrogant? He had been off since Friday. He sat his ass on the couch and played Xbox online from 6 PM on Friday and only stopped to sleep. We both worked full time, but I made $10 an hour more than him, yet I still did ALL the cooking, cleaning, grocery shopping, house management etc. I also had went to the grocery store alone the day before, prepared several meals did a shit ton of cleaning while he did jack shit in his boxers and played Xbox all weekend. So I figured, as long as I gave hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 05:58 AM
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Absolutely stated perfectly. This was demonstrated perfectly for me when on the same exact day my ex wouldn’t get off Xbox to bring me and my friend 10 minutes down the road (to save us $20+ an hour on parking) he bought his best friend’s GF a shirt because she “looked sad and really wanted it.” (No he wasn’t trying to get with her, his best friend was right there and she was a rather unattractive trans woman who didn’t pass very well.) He was just "trying to be kind and do a good deed" and he f…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 07:46 PM
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My ex was “taken by surprise” when I dumped him even though I had a full mental break down TWO YEARS before that explaining how I hated our life and how secluded we were. He never wanted to leave the house. Never wanted to make friends or go do things and any second he wasn’t at work he was glued to a game or show. I said over and over I am more extroverted and we need to meet in the middle. I begged him, from one date a week, two bi-weekly to once a month. He kept saying he was “tired” he would…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 07:18 PM
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Depends on how short. Under 5’5? Probably gonna have some problems. My current BF is 5’8 and I wouldn’t grow him an inch if I could.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 04:01 PM
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Yup, I did “everything right” got married at 26 but was then widowed. I’ve had a much easier time dating over 30 than I did in my early teens and 20’s. Being not over weight and childless makes you stand out more when you are in your 30’s than before when I was in my 20’s. So I get more male attention than I did before. Don’t know too many guys around my age shooting their shot at women under 25 unless it’s for sex. But hey, that’s just my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 03:58 PM
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Because it’s not true. Women, if they take care of themselves don’t really start to age until around 30. So when I see shit like “21 year old is hotter than 25” I scratch my head and I think y’all are looking at age like video game stats and it’s cringe as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:08 AM
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Oh more pseudo-science nonsense. I do feel bad for people that actually think the overwhelming majority of women marry a man for whatever resources he provides and will drop him in a second for a man who makes more….in the first world in 2024. Crazy. It’s like y’all think sociopathic gold diggers are most women instead a few of us in the corner. I want to marry for love btw. My late husband, he didn’t make much. He had his flaws but I wouldn’t have event left him for a dude that makes more money…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 10:20 PM
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What “biological facts” am I denying?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 08:23 PM
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I mean we aren’t all chasing after 10% men. That’s made up internet nonsense. But say we are. Doesn’t excuse addiction. Spank it once a day to a porn hub video and have other interests besides gaming. That isn’t our fault lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 08:22 PM
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Wait it’s out fault that men are addicted to porn and video games? What happen to addicts taking accountability?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 05:24 PM
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Not all of us fuck other dudes while they grows though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 07:57 AM
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I still don’t even really know what y’all mean by submissive. All I know is I don’t think I am? 1I’m a crass tomboy. I say “fuck”, dart through the rain without an umbrella and the one time a man put his hands on me. I kicked him in the nuts he fell and then I kicked him in the ribs about 10 more times. All “issues” and decisions are had with a discussion and since I tend to be more rational/analytical I make the decisions more often. Unless it’s things like where to eat or something, my partner…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 02:04 PM
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I’m a left wing woman and I’ll admit that “we” feminists do tend to have a habit of infantilizing women. And then when someone points that out, you get called a “pick me” or internalized misogynist. It’s frustrating because morality is a bit more complicated than that. I do think bad men tend to be pretty good at manipulation so there is some credence to what they are saying. The percentage of women who actively look for shitty, abusive men is probably extremely small. But still, at a certain po…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 07:19 PM
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I’ve had relationships before. My late husband struggled with certain things like that. It was manageable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:20 AM
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Maybe I’ll get shit for being off topic but I always heard about women “being happy single” but to me it seems that in all actuality…Men are the ones that would actually prefer to “just kinda chill and do what he wants. Not have to worry about a GF” and women are the ones sad that they “don’t have anyone to love or love them.”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:44 PM
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Women don’t want “alpha males” Each woman has their own taste. It varies from person to person. Like for me, I likes giy that’s a little shy and nervous. A guy that is a smooth talker with a shit ton of confidence gives me fuckboy narcissist vibes. Other women would be dryer then a desert around a guy that stutters, struggles with eye contact and is shy. But that is my thing 100%. Seeing a guy be nervous around me is great; makes me feel good, like I’m worth being nervous for.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 04:19 PM
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This has got to be zoomer shit…for people older than 30 dating apps were once cringe shit that only socially inept, rizzless losers resorted to. Your friends made fun of you for having a profile on a dating site. I know we use them more now too. But some of us still refuse to use them due to the left over feel of the stigma and the nightmares they hear about them. I don’t want to use one. I’ll die alone before I use resort to one. I’ll admit I did try them for a short period. Met 3 guys on there…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:19 AM
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I don’t understand, who are we supposed to blame? Are you suggesting that woman who posted is the undatsble one and that’s why she keeps getting ghosted?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:21 AM
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Ah I remember the old old days when this is what grooming was and that was it. Now grooming means “teaching kids stuff from a political side I don’t like.”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 06:15 PM
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Not saying I agree but if I had to guess it’s mainly due to the stereotype of extremely good looking people so 8+ never “develop” much of a personality and tend to be full of themselves due to how they’ve been treated their whole lives being beautiful. So I can see this being good advice IF it were true. Why marry a 9 who isn’t going to bother to cook or clean, is used to just being constantly treated (so you often worry when you aren’t showing her a good time that she might be scrolling through…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:31 AM
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100 if not 1000s of DM’s? Once again guys here mistaking the life experience of 7+ (looks wise) women with successful social lives who are very active on social media as the same for average or typical. This is not what most of our DMs look like. I wonder if it’s just because they are just plain wrong, or if this is due to guys forgetting us <5 women exist again. So we are never looked at for all these little thought experiments or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:38 AM
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I’d say rather date a guy and just break up when “the fire burns out” and just be single for while then date someone else, rinse repeat than be stuck with someone I’ve grown to resent that I can’t stand to touch anymore for the sake of commitment. *im child free so kids are never an issue. I hope I’ll meet someone like my late husand that I’ll never get tired of, but out of every man I ever met, he was the only one that I didn’t get tired of. And if that was a once in a life time thing, I’m fine…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 08:05 PM
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I have pictures my profile and if you search my name on YT, a woman’s channel pops up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:01 PM
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If I do it only showed up in the last 4 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:52 AM
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Yes, well aware of what the red and blue pills are meant to represent in the movie. But I’m not talking about the movie. I’m talking about the dating philosophies. If I were you, I wouldn’t worry too much about making sure the dating philosophies match the philosophy of the movie because both creators who wrote the Matrix were trans women so I doubt they would back up anything Red Pill related.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:18 AM
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Lmao, uh yeah sure. Keep telling yourself that I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 01:46 AM
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Well if you would have read what I wrote I literally used the word trend. So I’m not exactly sure what the point of responding my post with that was lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 01:45 AM
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I would be fine with it if I new “new relationship energy” made you act irrationally. That’s my biggest issue with open relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 11:02 PM
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Yup, but going back isn’t financially feasible at the moment. I’m not dating anyone at this time anyway. So no reason to sacrifice grocery money and be stuck eating ramen all month for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 10:05 PM
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Blue Pill means: “the red pill is pseudo science BS.” Are there some trends in human behavior? Of course. Men typically don’t like obese women with shaved heads. Women don’t like 5’4 dudes with more hair on his back than on his head. But all the fancy jargon, “women do this, men do that” hypergamy, etc. it’s all bull shit. Each person is different. What will work on one, don’t work on the other. For example I don’t like tall guys. I won’t choose 6’2 dude over one that’s 5’8. I also don’t care ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 10:00 PM
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There are objective beauty standards but different people do like different things. Like for example, I don’t like my guy to be over 6’0. And personality is important for me too. A guy could be cute and make a lot of money, but if we have nothing in common. So I’m not sure what’s so wrong with those statements.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:55 PM
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I’m afraid that’s not an option at the time being. I make too much for financial assistance but still don’t have health insurance so the out of pocket cost is too much for me. I’m single and not involved with anyone, and wouldn’t know where to start if I wanted to be (I refuse to do dating apps) so it’s a nonissue currently.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:50 PM
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I’ve had orgasms before, but they all come from my clit. I’m 33, been married, and 3 other year+ LTRs, lost my virginity 17 years ago. I know my vagina pretty well. I know where my G-spot is at, but when it’s hit I feel discomfort. It is not a pleasant feeling at all. Some of us are just built different.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:47 PM
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The “ring of skin” thing only started after I started the birth control. This was in the last couple of years. I said before that sex felt like being punched in the organs, not like an extremely hard painful punch. Just mild discomfort. I’ve mentioned that to gyno’s in the past. They said besides my uterus being “tipped” as they call it, all looks normal. But I have not been back since the “ring of skin.”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:43 PM
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For me having a dick inside me feels like I’m being punched in the stomach, but from the inside. Also there’s this almost like “ring” of skin that hardened after I started some hormonal birth control. Lube or not, if you go past that spot, it feels like I’m being ripped open. This was much later in life. So sex went from being uncomfortable at most in my teens and 20’s to painful in my 30’s. Def gonna go to the doctor if I ever manage to find a guy willing to date me in future because I don’t wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:23 PM
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How do you know what I look like? And boy oh boy you must have a lot of fingers if you can count the amount of people who have cancer on one hand lmao. You should DM her name so I can look her up on FB or whatever social media. I’ve never seen someone that looked like me before.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:14 PM
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I don’t have strong resentment towards men for having dicks. I just have a low tolerance for stupidity, ignorance, and people who are confidently incorrect. And saying “women who say they can’t have vaginal orgasms are lying” is a pretty dumb statement lmao. Like have you seriously not taken into account that some women are born with medical issues? My ex boyfriend’s last girlfriend had this issue with her vagina that made sex next to impossible. But I guess she and her doctor who examined her a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 08:49 PM
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Apparently Reddit. We do exist though. I used to think I was like extremely extremely rare because once I had sex I was expecting the inside of vagina to feel like clit stimulation and when it didn’t and just felt like a tube of meat was hitting my internal organs and the only feeling it gave me was discomfort I thought damn, I must be really broken. Turns out I am indeed broken. But there are a larger portion of women like me than I originally thought. I know most women do enjoy PIV still but t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 08:31 PM
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I am a woman that doesn’t enjoy PIV. Congrats. Now you can’t say that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 08:19 PM
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Yeah, no dude. Some of us don’t cum from penetration. Not everyone’s vaginas are built exactly alike. Bold of you to assume you know 4 billion+ people’s anatomy because you’ve fucked a few chicks though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 08:15 PM
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I’m one of those women but I would assume I’m actually in the minority. PIV is actually kind of painful and I don’t have vaginal orgasms, so I def do it “for” my partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:32 PM
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I think it’s ridiculous for you to assume that literally every single dude is gonna be on this red pill BS. Blue pill simply means “not red pill” so of course there are tons and tons of dudes who are BP.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:07 PM
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Guy goes after a specific type, surprise Pikachu face when women turn into to be that type. FYI I’d rather get hit in the back of a head with a brick than listen to Drake. I listen to mostly progressive metal like BTBAM, Devin Townsend, Tesseract, Opeth. But no, the few chicks you’ve spoke to do not accurately reflect 4 billion people lol. I do have an iPhone though. But it’s the 10 or X or whatever it’s called. It’s old, but it still works so I’m not getting a new one until tbh done breaks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:29 PM
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The weird quire ones tend to be just as abusive as the normies.in my experience. They are bitter and resentful and when they do land a woman she gets to hear the years and years of bottled up jealousy. I’ve dated tel krnnbhnn j
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:45 AM
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You were the one placing emphasis on women on this thread. And where did I say I read every comment?I didn’t because I did not read every comment. But since you are brining up studies that suppose your point. Are you going to share them with me? Or you still is it gonna dance around it. Also, all typical Reddit bickering aside. I think a huge issue with this debate is what we both mean by “being approached in public. Because there is a huge difference between having a conversation with the perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:50 AM
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My favorite thing is when guys on here say things like all of us are being “flown out to Dubai” or how we can “just make an OF and never work again”. It’s so out of touch with reality I’ve busted out laughing at my phone before. I’ve literally never met a chick that has had that sort of thing happen. And the few chicks I know IRL that do have OF MAYBE make $200-300 a month on it. I know one chick, one, that makes decent money on it. And even she still bar tends a few nights a week. So obviously …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:50 PM
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Ngl, this is me. I was widowed 5 years ago and don’t even know where to start (no I’m not doing Tinder or any sort of apps, ew)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:23 PM
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I did not realize there were 4 billion women in this thread my bad. And 60% of couples who met in a way that wasn’t a dating app. What about them? They aren’t in this thread though so I guess if doesn’t matter lmao. Also using gas lighting wrong, cherry on top. love it. Last time I checked I’m not an abusive partner to you who is slowly doing small little things (like hiding your keys) in an attempt to make you think you are mentally unstable, thus you must rely on me. Hate it when laymen use py…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:01 PM
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Lol. Once again, no, no the majority of women don’t think like that. Now I’m curious what you even mean by “majority.” I really wish y’all would show me proof. I’d love to see it. But I basically am just getting your “nuh uh!”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 06:25 PM
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For real. That actually boggles my mind. Homeboy thinks most women (what actual percentage he had in his head idk, not sure if he means like 51% or like 95%+) think speaking to women outside of apps is inappropriate. When the last I heard, don’t like 40% of couples come apps now? That’s less than half still!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:05 PM
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I have and not sure what that is supposed to prove….I never said “no women think this” just not “most/all”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:39 PM
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So…basically what your saying is exactly what I said: I saw some posts on Twitter with a lot of likes so, therefor I’m comfortable making the assumption that those posts accurately reflect the opinions of a large portion of the 4+ billion women all over the planet. Looks like, I’m gonna have to be the one to go pull some surveys or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:15 AM
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I’d like to see some proof of that. Where are getting this “information” from?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:24 AM
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Or maybe …don’t make giant, sweeping generalizations about half the population because you saw a screen shot of a snarky Tweet with a decent amount of likes made by a woman. Because I’m a woman and I would never say “don’t approach random women in public.” unless we are talking about certain specific scenarios, like when she’s waiting for a bus stop alone at night and she has her ear buds in. But besides those obvious creepy scenarios, of course it’s okay to approach random people…that’s how soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 06:48 AM
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I’ve used Tinder/Hinge before. It is not popping like y’all think it is. Y’all greatly exaggerate how easy it is for us. Now I’m not saying I don’t get any matches. But 90% of them are simply “can I come over al midnight tonight.” And no, putting no one nightstands are friends with benefits in your profile does not make a difference .
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 04:33 PM
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Def gonna check these out because after hanging out in those places it depressed me so much I deleted all my profiles. Like almost every single guy on there had horror stories. Like I was absolutely horrified and ended up crying (which is rare for me) and honestly felt almost suicidal. Like, if this is all that there is out there I’m fucked and will die alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 03:52 AM
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Not sure if you realize this but I was once in my 20’s lol. And 30-40%? What? I have some tattoos on half my arms (which I didn’t get until my late 20’s) Btw lot a guys are totally into tattoos. Chick that was married to my last exes older brother has never had a job in her life. She has more tattoos than me and is always living in luxury.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 12:56 AM
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What I think is cute isn’t what is conventionally attractive though. I like slender shorter guys. If a dude is over 6 foot that’s a no. I also like long hair. I also avoid buff guys, 6 packs do nothing for me. I also don’t like facial hair so if a guy has a full beard I’m not a fan.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 11:37 PM
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I guess so because I’m straight up tilting my head sideways at this one. So like, you don’t ever have a little fun? Not for your birthday, New Years? Nothing? Also, lots of well off people party. Btw, partaking in drinking/drug use sometimes doesn’t always equal out of control addiction. I don’t have an issue with people who don’t do stuff. But I will make fun of a prude who dismisses all of us who do enjoy a little break from sobriety here and there like you are so superior to us by default. Es…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 11:28 PM
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Thanks, I’d maybe abandon the stereotype about tattoos though. I’m actually quite boring and most certainly don’t live life on the edge. I just like body art and feel because I’m not actually attractive if I put cool drawings in my skin it creates “beauty” almost like plastic surgery does. Now I know it’s not everyone’s cup of tea. But that’s almost another plus. If having tattoos chases dudes away, cool. Don’t want to attract a guy who doesn’t like them anyway. So it’s an easy almost like litmu…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 11:23 PM
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Wait so if I want money I just ask on Reddit lmao. One time I was desperate and tried to sell feet pics and only got scammers. Man I really wish it was this easy. I try not to beg but when shit was tight after my husband died I asked online to clean houses, pull weeds, and or baby sit. One person gave me $20 and it was a woman who felt bad for me. Sometimes I wonder if the dudes who post stuff like this are actually the scammers. Like try to get us to think there are dudes online just willing th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 10:41 PM
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Welp I’d rather be the person I want to be than fit some sort boring trad stereotype. And I’m not after “wealthy men” I was just asking a question. Not to mention a chick I know that has never lifted a finger in her life is covered in tattoos. Girl has dudes lined up for her and is constantly living the life. So that’s a weird generalization that in my experience is not accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 10:34 PM
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Interesting how we got here. First time I ever messed with any of that was my late 20’s. Most of my friends don’t tuck with that shit. Only one of the 4 men I’ve dated have. My last broke BF didn’t even smoke weed. Dude was 100% straight edge. So this is a bit of an oversimplification.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 10:04 PM
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That’s explains it then lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 08:36 PM
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And that is…? I’m not looking for anyone specific. I just live my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 08:35 PM
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My marriage lasted 6.5 years until the fucker went and died on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 08:28 PM
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You must either look 10x better than I do or carry yourself in a certain way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 08:25 PM
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I tried hinge and Tinder for about a month. I def didn’t get “thousands of matches” maybe 20-30. But the whole experience was very depressing. Lots of sexual comments. Guys randomly unmatching, people wanting to meet that night. Searching profiles on the FB “are we dating the same guy?” And finding lots of secretly married guys, or guys that were abusive to previous partners. I’ll try again one day. But I had to take a break after I found out the only dude that seemed respectful, was cute and in…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 08:24 PM
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Yup. Are you suggesting most women approach and ask men out?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 08:13 PM
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Yeah but in order to get good tips as a server, or at least those kind of tips, being attractive is required, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 08:09 PM
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Def makes more sense than “all women have life on easy mode” I’d describe myself as not ugly but still below average so like a 3.5-4. Maybe a 5 if I’m all done up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:57 PM
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I getcha. I made it through high school being called ugly and a freak. I can handle random internet guys in my 30’s. Surprisingly most comments have been very nice though. “Meanest” one was commended me for s accurately rating myself 3-4.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:46 PM
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I’ve done drugs in the past. Losing my husband and then best friend within a year was rough and I kinda just stop caring. But in this pic I was just tired it was midnight and had gotten 4 hours sleep the day before.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:06 PM
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Yes I do partake. But more so in the past, I was in a dark place after he died and then when my best friend died I got back into them. Now days it’s a rare thing. I mainly stick to kratom. But when I know there’s a no fent pill, I’ll grab one. Just not an everyday thing. Maybe once or twice a month tops. I think in this picture I just am tired. It was like 12:00 at night and I had only gotten 4 hours of sleep the day before and had a long ass day at work because it was the last day in the office…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:03 PM
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I’m not a bar rat. Since I’ve been 18 I’ve probably been in a bar or club between 30-40 times ever. It’s never happened to me. Not even once.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 03:59 PM
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Kind of. Not hideous, but def not pretty. Here’s a snapshot I took of me without make up or filters last night. I’m about a 3-4. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 03:57 PM
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Wait why would you say no offense? Lol you commended me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 03:55 PM
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…what? Why would I be unqualified? I have a BA and 10 years experience in that field. The hiring team was all female too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 03:53 PM
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Nope, I don’t hit on people at all. I’m friendly and will engage with strangers but def would never hit on a guy. Rejection is tough for me. It all probably stems from the one time I saw a guy sitting alone at a school dance in 7th grade so I went up and asked him if he wanted to dance and he violently shakes his head no. But I saw him later dancing with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 03:53 PM
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Ah well that’s a good thing. I def don’t want a “trad” guy. So it’s a win-win for me. I want to ward off those type of dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 03:50 PM
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Lol yup sure was. He took a pain pill and washed it down with booze. Fucking “rockstars.” 🙄 Do I look like I’m on drugs or I’d sleep with them though just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 01:49 PM
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I’d like an equal partner if anything not someone to support me. I’ve been widowed before so depending on s man for everything doesn’t sit right with me. So I was more just using myself as an example. And I’d like to hear what men who think like this think I should do if I were to want to be a woman who wanted this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 01:48 PM
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Why? What they gonna do find me and mail me a manifesto about hypergamy?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 06:52 AM
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My level is maybe I’d be open to fostering a kid over 8. And maybe a single Dad of ONE older kid that mom has more than 50% of the time. That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:24 AM
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I like table top board/card games and video games. That’s the “nerd part” of me. Anime is just. Eh, the way characters talk, the way they can’t move and speak at the same time, I could write an essay. It just makes me feel…discomfort. I just find the way characters act in the shows so not human. Like think when the bad guy shows up, he turns around and tilts his head down and shadow covers half his face and he gives some evil speech. It’s just ugh, no I can’t. It’s fine if my BF likes it, he jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:22 AM
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Older kids are fine. But don’t most men want to raise kids who come from “their seed” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:19 AM
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I’ve hung out in my fair share of card shops and never had this happen. And I like Pokémon because it’s a game (don’t watch the show) I like the style of anime as an art form but I cannot get into anime shows. The exposition, the cliches, the way the characters move, it’s just cringe to me. I’m fine with my partner liking it. But if he has it on I will be playing on my phone. Also, I get being CF will chase some men off, but wouldn’t they need to show interest first to find out I’m CF? But if th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:14 AM
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<image> Nope 115 lbs at 5’2
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:11 AM
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Ah okay, well thanks for the stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:07 AM
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Def have NOT turned down good men. Only men I’ve ever turned down were the disrespectful ones. I’ve never been asked out by a well off guy (so someone making more than say, like maybe 60k a year) I wonder how my previous relationships would chase men away though. Can you explain that one?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:59 AM
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2-3 simps in 20 years (20 years meaning like once I was over 13 not that I’m 20. Because I’m 33) is nothing like what you suggested and you know that. Don’t be intentionally obtuse. And the 1 of the 3 hit on me in a DM a couple of times. Far from an orbiter trying to throw money at me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:56 AM
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Maybe so, I’ve had pretty depressing experiences with it in the past and deleted my profile because it all felt so cold and transactional. Guys randomly unmatching, jumping straight to sex, never responding back, it just felt so gross so I decided I’d rather than just be single than get disappointed over and over. Maybe one day I will try again when I’m in a better headspace. Lots of men on there seem to want sex or “situationships” as the kids call them. I also follow a group on FB that talks a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:50 AM
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Dude sees a handful of conventionally attractive women with either large social media followings, are popular in their local area or are on literal sugar baby sites and was like yup that’s 99% of women. When in reality it’s probably like maybe 15-20% TOPS (me being extremely generous, it’s probably far less than that)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:41 AM
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So am I entitled or lying? I’m 33 and never had this happen. Not once. After my husband died I was even in a really dark place and was looking to sell feet pics on Reddit. The only men who responded were scammers. Money got so tight for me at one point I ended up selling my belongings and sold plasma. I had set up Gofundme’s and spoke about it on FB. Not a single soul of my 700+ offered to help or even messaged me letting me know they have a rich old uncle that would. Nothing…got a few sad react…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:27 AM
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I never said I’ve never had a date paid for. I’ve gotten dinner and the occasional bday or Christmas gift. I said random men coming up to me and asking to buy me a drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:26 AM
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Not all of us have simps though. In 20 years I’ve maybe had 2-3. After my husband died no dude popped up in my DMs. Same thing with when my last relationship ended. Well I had one dude. One guy out of my 700+ friends on FB. And this dude just got fired from his job at Sherman Williams for sexually assaulting a female employee. So needless to say, I didn’t take him up on his date offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:20 AM
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Lmao. Yeah that is not my personality at all. I think I’d puke trying to talk like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:15 AM
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I think I’m all three of those. Don’t like to use people, don’t know how (a bit socially awkward and a total tomboy) and not exactly the prettiest chick on the planet. Not hideous but def on the uglier side of average. I’m about a 3-4. Here’s a snap shot I just took. I’ve had maybe 2-3 orbiters ever (and I’m going back to high school) My movers bailed on me recently and I’ve been begging on FB with pay for help moving and not a peep from anyone on my 700+ friends list offered to help. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:09 AM
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…how did you get that out of what I’m saying. Because I didn’t. I was questioning the assumption that all or most women do. Then I used myself as an example as a woman who never has. Do I think my experience is extremely common? No, but not extremely rare either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:06 AM
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Well the first 3 BF all occurred before I was 23 so a lot 2 were in college at the time. But I take full accountability for the last one. He was 25 and still living at home with no job. He recently started college again but still. He should have been working at least a little part time job 10-15 hours a week. I worked 32.5 a week while in college full time. I never didn’t work. Also, I can only date the men willing to date me. Never really had a successful man ask me out. That’s not the circles …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 03:53 AM
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Not this mid woman, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 01:51 AM
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No man has ever offered to buy me a drink and I’m not “going out of my way” to select broke men. I say yes to the men who respectfully ask me out. I’ve never been asked out by a well off man. Only jobless or low wage working ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 01:50 AM
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I don’t hate it, just depends on how it’s asked. I know I’m not a prize. I’m just a person. I’m not very pretty and I have some mental health issues. But I’m also low maintenance, don’t cheat, work (and have always been the read winner) I think I am a good partner minus some of my substance abuse issues (not out of control) I have some traumas surrounding losing my life long best friend to suicide only a year after my husband died. But for the most part I’m chill, rational and like I said very l…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 01:34 AM
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This is my experience too. Idk where’s this weird idea like each time an adult woman has a bday she gets worse looking comes from. Most women look the same from 18-19 to mid 20’s. We start aging around 25 but it’s still marginal (minus women who get fat, smoke or had a bunch of kids)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 02:04 PM
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I actually don’t like super tall guys. I prefer a guy closer to my height. But that’s what you get for making giant generalizations.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:12 AM
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Different people are attracted to different things. There are traits I want in a man that other women don’t. You are oversimplifying human sexuality and putting it into two boxes. There are plenty of men who wouldn’t date an 18-year-old and there are plenty of cougars who would.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:46 PM
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I mean you can say it’s just jealousy but as a 33-year-old woman. I couldn’t fathom selecting an 18-19 guy as my life mate. The idea grossed me out. He was in high school like 2 years ago. So when I see men 5-15 years older than me going after women that age it just feels gross to me. If you want to call that jealousy I can’t stop you. But I know that isn’t the feeling I feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:40 PM
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Can’t speak for other left wing women, but I’d rather get hit in the back of the head with a brick than date a right winger. And I still consider myself “center left” There’s this right wing guy I know that has been hitting on me semi lately that unironically reports stuff off the FB trad west page and when he asked me out I was like “lol why? I’m fine with being friends with people who don’t agree with me but I’ve never date one.” My S/O is supposed to be my life mate. Just couldn’t imagine tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:01 PM
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Ah, finally a comment that the down vote button was actually made for!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 09:58 PM
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I should be forced back into the kitchen and made to spit out as many babies as possible when I don’t have a maternal bone in my body because “aliens one day maybe”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:04 PM
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I’m not into muscles or tall guys. Give me a 5’8 lean dude. Bonus points if he has long hair and high cheek bones.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:55 PM
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….what? I have no idea what the hell you are talking about. I prefer smaller guys because when we have sex, it doesn’t hurt. Bigger guys it does hurt. I’m still having sex with my BF regardless to what size he is. But I prefer the sex with the smaller guy because less pain is involved. The point of me bringing up the clit is to say “that’s where the pleasure is at anyway.” I don’t get pleasure from PIV, so sex with a small guy is neutral, sex with a big guy js negative because pain. I have PIV s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:08 PM
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Curious to know how I’m doing that. Feel free to explain what I’m insecure about. I m love being psychoanalyzed by people on Reddit, I’ll grab the popcorn,
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:49 PM
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Yes, I do. I’m a tomboy and get along usually with men more often than women. I guess it’s because I was raised with all male cousins. There has been a few guys who I’ve went on a date or two with and neither of us were feeling that vibe so we stayed friends. Hell, I’ve been friend zoned by guys before (meaning they were the one with the “I had a gray time but…”) I think guys would see me in my work or school uniform but when they saw me in my normal style and learned I was a tomboy I went from …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:04 PM
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No clue why big always equals good. Maybe I just have a very small vagina but I’d way prefer a guy that was like 4-5 inches over a big ol’ 8+ dick. To me it’s better for the dick to be “not big enough” that way, what? Sex isn’t as good? Okay, most of us prefer clits anyway. But when it’s too big, guess what? Sex gets to fucking hurt. Some people are into pain, cool, not me. Small dicks all day for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:15 PM
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Any man who will write me off for being in my 30’s is a good example of the trash taking itself out. Funny thing is while I’m not hot, I get mistake someone in my mid twenties quite often. Last week someone said I “must be 23-24” I think it would be funny if I somehow went out with a guy who didn’t ask and just assumed I was young and the he flipped out when I said I was 33. Would be a fun little spat to end a date over, ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:14 PM
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Thanks, I’ll just keep doing my thing and making the best of what I still do have in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:01 PM
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Well thanks for being one of the only dudes to admit this. I guess I’m just extra bitter because I was supposed to be done. I used to say “so glad I don’t have to deal with dating now that these apps exist.” And then bam, widowed at 28. Shit sucks. I would prefer not to die alone. But if things continue like they have been for me, odds aren’t looking too good.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:38 PM
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My standards are pretty low (have a job, not be a fuckboy, be taller than like 5’4, have a similar style and personality as me) and I’m still single. I’d love to know the secret trick all women have so I can find one of these “good men” the apps are filled with dudes that random delete their profile the night after having a nice feel convo and dudes who just want hook ups. Husband died 5 years ago and I’m struggling. Honestly the biggest issue for me is hearing about how “easy” it is when for me…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:01 PM
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I mean it really depends and keep trying to have sex with someone when they say no is not the same thing as not wanting to have sex. Like do you really not see how it’s different? Genders are not the issue here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:19 PM
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Okay…ready? Still the same thing. Rude, throwing someone out because they just want someone to talk to is a very jerk thing to do. Guy or girl. I’d never throw someone out of my house like that. It’s called basic empathy. Also “not wanting anything serious” to me would just mean “no meeting families, no FB official, no plans to move in together” how was she supposed to know “we are literally only communicating or seeing each other if sex is involved. Every single time, no matter what” Fingers cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:51 PM
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I’m fine with not all men. Because not all men are the same actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:33 PM
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He may be techicnally in the right but kicking her out of your place is still kind of a jerk thing to do. If me and a neighbor made an agreement to be study partners and he came over and started talking and we never studied. I’d probably just chill and then in the future been like “hey, you’re nice and all but we really agreed to just study. I don’t really need anymore friends.” Like idk, frame it how you want but throwing someone out of your house for not doing what you want is still KIND of ru…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:24 PM
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Attracted to lip filler, selfie obsessed, two inch long nail chicks with a pound of make up > surprised Pikachu face when she expects a $100+ first date. Most down to earth women are FINE with a coffee date as the first meet n greet espicislly if it’s an app where they initiated the date. If they do want dinner, they are cool with a place that is financially equivalent to like Applebees or whatever. If she’s not, congrats you like sugar baby lite/gold diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:34 PM
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I prefer men over women. But women are “prettier” than men. But if I had the choice to spend a retreat with a group of guys or a group of girls I’d choose the guys hands down. I was raised around all boy cousins so I was always a tomboy. I know it’s a meme now days to make fun of us. And I don’t “hate” women or label myself “not like the other girls” I just gravitate towards men more often than women. I agree though I’m not a fan of nudes. A picture of a dick does nothing for me. Sex to me is an…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:01 PM
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I think it’s main character syndrome. They are the protagonist. If Seth Rogan gets the attractive chick (even though he is a sub 5 himself) then I should get one too! These men don’t realize they aren’t the protagonist but rather just some guy in the real world and as they type out an entire rant about how once these hot chicks hit 30 the only husband they will land is a desperate beta simp. Flaming Cheeto dusted fingers typing out about
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:26 PM
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Yeah sounds like he marries a old digger. You most certainly don’t have to do all of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 07:27 PM
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You know women in their early 20’s can also have all these traits. We aren’t all just blank sub-servant slates and then we hit 30 and poof, fat, gray hair and full of resentment. This treats human beings like characters in an RPG and their ages are their “stats” it’s actually quite funny to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 08:40 PM
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What? I don’t understand what you are trying to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 07:38 PM
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I’m making generalizations because I didn’t know I was just supposed to know we aren’t included when you said “single women over 30”. I am a woman, who is 33, who is not married or in a relationship. So I was supposed to just magically know I wasn’t included though? Where may I find the rest of these rules? I’m curious what other exceptions there are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 03:25 PM
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What kind of accountability are you looking for? Lmao “Yeah, I dated this guy who appeared really sweet and charming then he started abusing me once he locked me in. How dumb of me.” How does that even work? Ill give you some since you say we don’t do it. When I was younger. I dated guys based on looks, vibes and common interests. I never took into account if they were working. 4 broke men that I out earned later I’m single after being widowed and now won’t go on a date with a man that doesn’t h…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 05:58 AM
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Your food analogy makes no sense because all the food at the restaurant is being produced by one team. All women born before 1993 don’t “come from the same kitchen.” Sure you can say “well if they are over 30, there is probably a reason.” Key word is “probably”, I don’t blame a person for keeping their guard up and being closely observant at a single 30-something. But to rule them out completely? Over the top IMO. I’m in my 30’s and single. Doesn’t mean I was “never picked” I spent my 20’s with …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 05:28 AM
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Well. That’s what you get for making generalizations. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 05:23 AM
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I mean not much depending on the age. It’s all about being reasonable. 5’2 woman demanding guy being at least an inch or two taller, fine. Woman demanding he be over 6? Unreasonable. 35-year-old man asking for a woman a few years younger? Fine. Refusing to date a woman older 24? Unreasonable. See? It’s not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 05:21 AM
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Is this supposed to be an own? Because most of us aren’t. I ask that a guy be taller than me (I’m 5’2) have a job (sorry I’m not taking care of you while you play video games all day) and no clue what you mean by “status”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 04:42 AM
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Well I guess this is a win-win because any dude who would write me off as being a red flag for simply being 30+ and not in a relationship doesn’t sound like a very good person. I’m a red flag because my husband died and I’m single again, lol great.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 04:39 AM
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I mean date whoever you want but this just sounds like more cope and mental gymnastics. So you got interrogated a couple of times and have decided to write off all women of that age? That sounds ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 04:37 AM
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“The object of raw desire” yes exactly. I love it when people come behind me and word things better than me. I will def be using that phrase in the future when discussing this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 02:17 AM
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I’m sure there are some women who are hornier than men. I wonder how many of those women “get off” more from being seen as sexy than the actual fucking though? Because this is def a thing with some women. These the type of chicks who want to fuck all the time but don’t cum from PIV. It’s all about the attention. The idea that a man is fucking YOU. YOU are making his dick hard. It’s a whole thing. Now I have no clue what percentage of women are like this. But it’s def common enough to be discusse…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 04:13 PM
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I thought blue pill just meant “not red pill”? Are there tenets now? I assumed purple meant “okay so red pill is about half bullshit.” Where blue is: “red pill is complete bullshit.”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 10:08 PM
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Omg I knew it. I was thinking y’all were either gonna post this or a screen shot of a chicks profile that said “no men under 6 foot” Don’t think that’s a biased sample at all, eh? It’s like y’all find one little graph that supports your narrative. Lots of people still meet IRL. Also that sample of women are the ones that specifically chose a height filter. So no shit they care about height.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:04 PM
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So women didn’t care for hundreds of thousands of years but suddenly most Zoomers do? Do you have any evidence to support this?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:16 PM
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Oh 100%, realistically most women just want their guy to be taller than them, like tall enough so he’s still taller than us with heals on. This weird obsession with 6’0 is made up internet bullshit. It’s like guys and giant boobs, hell yeah most guys like giant boobs. But they aren’t turning down C, D and DD cup girls because they aren’t Es. Are there a handful of guys that will turn women down? Of course, but it is not most men. Women are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 06:44 PM
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Which is hilariously ironic because I would imagine dudes posting on here aren’t 6’+ ripped Chads but they are having tantrums over not being able to get with a chick who’s hot enough to make OF a full time job. Hannah the 27-year-old dental receptionists, who has wears her hair in a frizzy pony tail and is 20 lbs overweight who just wants a non abusive guy with a job that will love and respect her is always completely ignored in these convos. These men act like women like that are extreme unico…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:18 PM
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It’s def a thing but it’s a very small subset of usually “bimbo” type chicks. It’s like there are literal millions of us that are nothing like this. Yet ironically men who complain about “modern women” don’t see us because we don’t have are tits out or lip filler. (Not that I have a problem with either of those things, just saying it’s a type) I ask that a guy works, end of story, 100k? Lol, yeah whatever. Please just don’t move into my house and cry about getting a part time job because “ugh I’…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 04:19 PM
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Weird insult, but okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 07:13 PM
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I mean she’s a horrible idiotic grifter, she’s not ugly though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 07:12 PM
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Yeah, not sure y’all act like she’s hideous, she’s like a 5. I said “pretty enough” not model material.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 03:04 PM
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English as a second language?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 03:02 PM
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Lol, fucking exactly. This is all I was saying. Not having a solid social circle that gathers out in public also makes it somewhat harder for us to find a good quality partner too and this sub lost their damn minds. I’ve got people nitpicking me for checks notes looking at my phone in public and are accosting me for “not asking guys out myself” (even though I have, once I had obtained a little liquid confidence at a party that I ran into who become my late husbands at, I admitted to having crush…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:27 PM
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Ah, so you would disagree with the statement: in order to be approached as a woman you must simply exist and go outside? I think the truth is you are partially right. Some men are now afraid to approach women due to mainstream feminist campaigns gaining traction like #metoo, and also the somewhat prevalent idea (exactly how prevalent, I’m not sure, I’d need to see some stats) that I would assume mostly zoomer women have started to believe that is “don’t approach woman IRL anywhere. A woman exist…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:03 PM
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While I see this appears to me slightly more good natured than the other responses. I wasn’t actually asking for advice tbh. All of these things are not in my nature, and that’s okay. I know it sounds like I’m whining and complaining but I was more so sharing my experience simply to let people know that no, the idea that is women only have to simply “exist, and go outside to have a line of men ready to date them.” is a gross oversimplification of all of our experiences. If there ever comes a tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:35 PM
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Plain sure. The fuck is gawky? I don’t think she will get any modeling jobs but plain is not ugly. This is an ugly woman
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:23 PM
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I’m the one being delusional? I guess I struck a chord and you’re feeling pretty called out, so you decided to project your delusions onto me. I’d love to hear your breakdown of her looks explaining how she’s ugly (so what sub 3?) Yeah, this chick isn’t plain, average or even slightly below average..she’s ugly..Yepp totally
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:15 PM
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And why are you deciding to do that to me? What does other women questioning men have to do with my comment in anyway? Can you point to where in this thread I do that to men? No? Oh you’re just being sexist and assuming because you’ve heard other women ask these questions that must mean I do since women are a homogenous blob and all believe the same thing right? So you think you throwing “my” own logic in my face is a “retort” to my initial statements about my life in some way because I guess de…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 12:51 PM
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I mean it isn’t the best worded example but are you suggesting a woman bragging about never receiving any acts of love other than being slammed with his meat sausage isn’t a pickme? Are we really at “flowers for my birthday = gold digger?” I always prefer examples where women spoil subpar men, doing all the emotional and physical labor around the home, working full time on top of that, while her man basically works a part time job, doesn’t manage the house in anyway (take care of things like mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 12:43 PM
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Yeah, that’s the grift. Just like Blair White is to trans people, Candice Owens to black peoples, and Milo Y. for gays. There’s always one person out there that is pretty enough for the camera and at the same time charismatic enough to take off if they can just hammer in on a message. So they decide to capitalize on a right wing message using idpol as a tool to boost their grift. “Lefties say no minority says this belief! Uh, well as that minority: [insert rant that systemically goes against the…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 12:34 PM
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Ugly? Every time I see stuff like this and “Margo Robbie is mid” I remind myself that guys wirh these kind of standards probably don’t go outside much and most of the women they see are movie stars, perfectly air brushed Insta models and hentia drawings, so of course the average of what constitutes as pretty/average/ugly is moved over 2-3 points because guys think woman on Instagram really look like that. Pearl is a low IQ grifter but she isn’t ugly. You can say “I don’t find her attractive pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 11:54 AM
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Cool, I’d love to hear how so lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 10:49 PM
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Yes, my style is slightly tomboyish "alt". And yeah, that pic is me at work so I do have work clothes on lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 07:49 PM
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What is there to get? Explain to me how I am wrong. Explain to me why "be woman, exist, exit home: line of guys ready to date" is a thing ALL women have an option to when I am telling you I have lived on this earth for 33 years and do not have this experience. And no a random 40-year-old yelling "saaaaaay baby how YOU doing?" does not count as "a man approaching you for a relationship" that is called a cat call and is a form of harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 07:47 PM
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Yeah, I'd say I am below average. But I am not like, hideous and I am not overweight (about 115 lbs) Here:https://imgbb.com/w63B8z0 (no make up, no filter, the raw real me) If yall would say "hot chicks XYZ" I wouldn't be disagreeing all too much. I can't comment since I am not hot. But that is not what is being said. It's always "women" this "women" that with no specifics about the looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 07:24 PM
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I have sex if im in love. I just don’t need it. I don’t walk around nor have asexual written on my profile. Im also gray ace, I experience attraction to men, just not super often. I think of sex like giving my loved one a sensual massage. I just don’t need it for myself. And have 0 interest in casual sex. Tried it, hated it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:57 PM
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Sponsers, Patreon, ads.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:56 PM
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You think Insta models have day jobs making $12 an hour where they need to be up and at work for 8:00?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:47 PM
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I’m sure some do, but I bet you my left hand it’s nowhere near most of the audience.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:45 PM
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He thinks RP channels aren’t deceptively editing their content to push an agenda. It’s honestly kinda cute how ignorant he is. I miss being young and believing what I saw on TV lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:29 PM
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Also Them: all wamen have 100+ of matches and can literally get a free meal and a BF at any moment! Me: I’ve actually not had that many matches and a lot of them just stop mid convo, immediately say something gross, are scam account, are actually married and cheating. Them: ohhhh yeah how many matches??? Me: like 15-20 Them: 15-20??? I’ve only gotten 5 in the past 3 years!!!! Pooooor baby. That same guy on different thread Them: all wamen have 100+ of matches and can literally get a free meal an…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:27 PM
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Do you really not know how this works? The left the right, they both do it. Sigh do I really need to explain to you how content creators can push a message with selective interviewing, editing, etc? These are manosphere channels, they want to feed you a certain point of view so you’ll keep coming back. If you become less bitter and get a GF you won’t keep coming back and consume their content.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:22 PM
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But that’s the thing. I’m not asking “for help” I was just trying to explain that no, not every single woman in existence has 8 DMs of dudes in her inbox and isn’t asked out at least once a day when she goes in public. Different people have different struggles for different reasons. And if you think all the comments I get aren’t trying to “gotcha” me idk what to tell you. Because most of these people are clearly trying to back me into a corner. Why? I guess I challenge the idea they have in thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:02 PM
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Kids really are quite cruel. Sorry you went though that as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:59 PM
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Are y’all arms exhausted from moving the goal post yet? It’s like 6 miles down the road at this point. Keep in mind my point is simply that women: “Don’t have to just exist and go outside” to have multiple men to choose from. Now you’re here giving me shit for not asking out 100 guys, lmao. Also, I didn’t say whatever your retort is. Just because I have a vagina doesn’t mean I believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:55 PM
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Keep in mind what these chicks look like too. Think Instamodel, fake lashes, long nails. They aren’t asking Becky the dental assistant who’s not wearing make up and is about 10 lbs overweight. They target a very specific type of woman, the goal digger type and act all surprised Pikachu face when that type of woman acts like you expect and ascribe her answer to 4 billion people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:52 PM
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Oh no my baby, are you using street interviews as evidence of everyday people? Poor thing! Over half the US population makes less than 70k a year. Sure a lot of women’s “dream man” has money. Those are hypotheticals. You know what my standard is? He must have a job. That’s it. He can make $9 an hour if he’s totally awesome and their is chemistry. I know not all women have as low of a bar as me. But they most certainly don’t “require 200k” lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:48 PM
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Not keeping count but def at least 5 or so between the ages of say 14-21. I love how y’all are just trying to rip every detail of my life apart: Not approached? Yeah but did you go to parties? Give guys fuck eyes? Do you look at your phone while in public??? What are you wearing? How many dudes did you ask out? Y’all will literally do ANYTHING other than say: “oh yeah, some girls don’t have lines of dudes ready to date them. True…”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:54 PM
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Weed? I’m talking about opioids…OP said dope: dope is heroin/fent
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:33 PM
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Nope. Because I don’t give a shit what others have said. Read what I said. I said I don’t get approached respectfully. That’s it. That’s all I said. That was in response to the claim: be woman, go outside, will have lots of dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:26 PM
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And this is how I know I’ve “won” my point lmao. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:16 PM
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When did I say I wanted advice? My original comment was making a point that we don’t all have it super easy. Never once asked for advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:15 PM
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Lol I know right. These men will do anything and everything except concede that some women do struggle to find love too. It’s honestly funny…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:09 PM
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I do keep to myself mostly. I’m not staring and giving fuck eyes to random dudes I see. But it’s nice to see we once again have moved the goal post from: “Be woman go outside” to this. So you are conceding then? I will need to take SOME action in order to attract the opposite sex? It’s not as simple as “be woman”??
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:55 PM
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Few times a month. I actually went to a festival with a friend Sunday. I went rollerblading Saturday. But I see we’ve moved that goal post from “go outside” to “you must dress a certain way and go to these specific places.” Hey, we are making progress!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:47 PM
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Ah, so you are missing what I’m saying. I’m sure I could jump on an app and say “fuck me rando I’m horny” but I don’t want that. I do not respond to bottom of the barrel men that will fuck anything that walks. I only respond to respectful men who politly ask me out on a date. Yes I’ve gotten DMs from randoms asking for nudes. Yes I’ve gotten random degrading cat calls from guys (strangely at gas stations 99% of the time. Not sure what it is about gas stations) I’ve said, I don’t get respectfully…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:02 PM
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“Your life story doesn’t agree with the stereotype I have in my head therefor you are lying.” Alrighty, we are done here. Have a good one lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:54 PM
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Nope, never had that happen. My husband. I had a crush on him since I was 15. 6 years later at a party with some liquid confidence I approached HIM and admitted I had a crush on him for years. Then we hooked up. Any other BF I have had was online, me going through failure after failure. Oh and I dated one guy that I worked with. Had to get my friend to go tell him I thought he was cute. Then he asked me out. Once again, never been approached at a bar. Not once. Y’all vastly exaggerate how easy w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:46 PM
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Once again, I leave my house every single day. This does not happen to me. And once again, I don’t want meaningless sex. So those options are irrelevant. This is like a homeless person in a tent bitching about it being cold outside and you walking up to them and saying “oh it’s cold? You can go to a soup kitchen and you have a coat and tent. There are people in third world countries that don’t even have that! STFU! And quit your bitching!” It’s ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:42 PM
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I’m 33…I have literally never had a random dude come up to me and ask me out, respectfully. Not once. I’ve gotten few rude “say baby nice ass!” comments. To your second part, literally every single man bitching that they “can’t get laid” can pay for a prostitute. I don’t want meaningless sex. I want a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:14 PM
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Am a woman, this problem affects me too. And yes I know I can jump on an app and find someone to fuck me but finding a well balanced quality man looking to have a healthy relationship is easier when you meet them in IRL through normal social interactions. Dating apps are very transactional and you are way more likly to be randomly ghosted and blocked by a guy on an app than a friend of a friend. Also if you are having a text convo about idk your favorite teas a man that I met at idk the bowling …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:09 PM
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Nope. It affects sex hormones. Your brain doesn’t crave sex as much. I haven’t cared about sex in years.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 12:48 PM
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I mean they wouldn’t be frustrated though. They’d just be chasing dope and not giving a fuck about sex. Once you feel that feeling an orgasm ain’t nothing. Like taking a bite of a fry while dope is a the full order, cheese burger and ice cream shake.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:20 AM
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Yeah I’m off the hard shit and am on Suboxone and at this point if you told me sex disappeared I’d say: “ah..meh” I’m basically asexual now. Brain thinks pleasure? Opioids? Sex couldn’t be less important to me. I’m female though. So I guess some lube is all that technically matters. I probably feel “horny” once or twice a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:18 AM
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How is making candles and drawing/painting consuming? Plus I didn’t mention all the brackets and necklaces I make and sell at craft shows. Also my best friend and I spent years making our own card game until the fucker killed himself (and before you said your best was a dude, wow sumo. He was gay and my first cousin) we worked on that project for years. Do I consume stuff. Yes, but my interest are VARIED.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 01:39 AM
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My guy friends and I don’t hug. I don’t hug any of my friends unless it’s been a really long time since I’ve seen them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 11:37 PM
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Yes I did. We are very different. I’m failing to see how this is such a self own. Feel free to explain it to me though. I can use a laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 08:47 PM
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…and? What’s your point? Is this supposed to be an own? Because me and my ex are very different. I like to go to concerts, festivals, watch movies, true crime docs, go out to eat, politic debates, video games. I draw, make candles and like to hang out with friends face to face. My ex worked, slept, gamed and for the few hours a day he wasn’t actually gaming, while eating, driving, laying down to sleep, he had a YT videos about gaming. Dude didn’t even listen to music. He never wanted to go do AN…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 08:45 PM
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I actually just ended my last relationship because my BF only hobby was gaming and it’s basically the only thing he did when he wasn’t at work. I’d like a more well rounded person. I have a few different interests: video games, politics, true crime, art, music, making/editing YouTube videos. Being with someone so one dimensional became soul sucking. If I ever date again I’m def asking “about how often do you game and if it’s daily would you say you spend more than 3-4 hours on your system/PC?” I…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 05:38 PM
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I mean yeah, sure they can feel sad. Never said they couldn’t. I said I don’t have sympathy for the ones that continuously act victimized and just refuse to adopt, yet still cry for support because “they will never be a Mom.” I’m allowed to have that opinion about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 06:42 AM
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Ah so are you suggesting that these babies are better off in the system then being adopted right after birth by a loving family? Lol what? Not sure where you live but abortion was just made illegal and like half the United States…I’ve never understood this “baby trauma” thing too. Woman gives birth, baby is handed off to different parents. As long as they are loved and cared for how the hell is a baby supposed to know “oh, person who is loving me and feeding isnt my bio parents. I’m fucked for l…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:09 AM
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…you can adopt a baby you know? Like a fresh one. And just because people have the “drive” to do something doesn’t mean it always works out. Bad shit happens, you adapt and move on. If those people want to be parents, then be parents. Adopt a baby. But I prefaced it by saying I know it’s harsh and a taboo opinion, but go on, arm chair psyche me more please. Tell me all about my “adoption trauma” lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 11:57 PM
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The only altercation I’ve been in when my husband was alive, I was the one that got in the man’s face and was like “what? Hit me bitch. I’ll claw your throat out with my bare hands!!! I’ll fist fuck the wound after!!” Just screaming and getting real close. And my husband was the one like “woah, Meds, chill. Dude, we didn’t mean to offend you.” while he was pulling me back. I’m not a fighter normally, but I’ve been in a few situations where I snap. That dude started drunkenly insulting my husband…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 08:39 PM
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And go where? The US is one of the most right wing first world countries there is. I’d put some legal protections in place to prevent that kind of thing. Or “strongly discourages it* Oh you want to move away and start a business elsewhere? Fine, have at it, but here’s a fee for disrupting the entire economy because you’ll lose out on a fraction of your profits confiscates more than half of their wealth Though I preferred the way Mao handled those who hoarded wealth lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 08:29 PM
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I know we are supposed to cry with them but honestly one of the most annoying people in the world are the ones who have fertility problems and when you are like “I’m sorry to hear that, what about adoption.” And they stamp their foot like “NO! I want the full package, the baby bump, the shower, my DNA!” It’s like ah, so because you didn’t get exactly what you want you pout and cry in the corner instead of making the best of what you have? Probably better that these types don’t breed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 07:52 PM
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I mean we could just tax corporations and the wealthy more. Doesn’t Jeff Bezos have more personal wealth then some whole countries?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 07:50 PM
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I’ll never understand why those people don’t adopt.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 07:49 PM
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Depends on the woman. If I had a good flowing convo with a guy I just met and I invited him to some sort of friend event and he was like “let me be clear. I don’t want to be your friend. I want to date/fuck you.” I’d be kinda grossed out and would stop talking to him. I’d much rather just kinda hang out with a guy a few times in a non-date scenario to see if we have that chemistry. While I’m not a fan of playing hard to get, I love the feeling of just being around a guy and realizing he gives me…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:47 PM
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And if those men care what a bunch of strangers think? Sounds like beta energy. A real man dates who he wants and doesn’t look up with puppy dog eyes to “manosphere” content creators for approval. PS: I’m not a single Mom, I’m the other type of woman y’all hate, the child free one. So I wouldn’t date a single Dad. But it’s not because of “what others will think” I just don’t ever want to be in a parenting role in any shape or form.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:32 PM
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As a women who hasn’t been approached much. I agree with this. Even when I did dating apps I never had close to “hundreds of likes” maybe 25-30 tops.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:17 PM
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This kind of shit blows my mind. Tinder has been around for what? A decade? Like, idk the same places humans have been meeting each other for millions of years lmao. Friends parties, bars, social clubs, the park, college, a library. You meet people, become their friends, mingle with their friends. It’s crazy that “being social” needs to be explained and people are lost without an app sorting profiles for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:05 PM
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I mean I’m just reporting what I’m seeing. My mom is 60, there are divorced women in her group that still date. Hell my grandma dated after my grandpa died. She’s had like 5 dif boyfriends over the past decade. She’s in her 80’s. I know sitting at home angry and alone it’s more satisfying to think “oh all these women have a bunch of dudes in their teens and 20’s but once they hit 30 they will be all alone! Bwahahaha!” But that’s not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 07:49 PM
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Because he’s over 60 as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 06:06 PM
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Nah, you got it backwards. The 40+ men will fuck the hot 20 year old, but date the 35 year old since they have more in common.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 06:05 PM
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I mean you were dating someone you didn’t like to not be alone. That deserves judgment. I stopped doing that shit when I was 19.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:16 PM
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Hey, glad it worked for you. I personally wouldn’t risk legally tying myself to someone I’ve never lived with. I feel like you don’t even really know someone until you’ve lived with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 11:47 PM
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What? I prefer guys closer to my height.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 11:21 PM
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I’d turn the height thing to not show me dudes over 6 foot if I could, but I’m not paying. What I’m surprised about is race. They allow you to sort by race.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:45 PM
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And I’d never marry a man that I didn’t live with for years. Different people do different things. And I agree with the others “boyfriend” sounds very high school. Partner suggests they are your “significant other” it’s more mature than Bf/gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:08 PM
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My late husband made 8 an hour as a line cook. “Won’t date a man that makes minimum wage” I mean I’d like for him to make more but, if I fall in love with a guy that works retail it is what it is. As long as he gets off his ass and doesn’t sit around and play video games all day I’ll make it work. And we don’t want man children not because we want to be children we want a PARTNER to split things with EVENLY. How absurd!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 12:40 PM
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Typo, it was supposed to say never. I dated 4 guys in my life. Made more than all of them each time. I have a college degree and never dated a guy that finished school. It’s obviously a typo…like literally. That’s the whole point of the post. I type really fast on my phone at work and don’t proof read shit lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 12:38 PM
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I’ve literally done this before? I mean my last two relationships I’ve made more. My late husband didn’t work at all for 2 years and I also dated a guy after him who has a long stint of unemployment. So try again lmao. Matter of fact, I’ve never dated a man that made more than me. If I could get all the money back I’ve spent on men I’m sure I could buy a new car.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:37 PM
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There is a big difference between expecting a man to make 6 figures while I stay at home and asking a man to have a job. And not sure who you are mad at but I did it all in my last two relationships, made more did than them, did all the cleaning, found and paid for deposits for where we live. So no clue what this all about. God forbid I don’t want a jobless man child. Total gold digger of me lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:29 PM
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I mean it could be sandwhich. It’s not always trinkets.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:27 AM
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Well yeah that’s technically possible. But I feel most guys would more than likely fall into one of the other two categories. Plus gift giving is my love language. Just in the past, I was the one giving all the gifts. I’m single now and for the first time ever, I don’t require much, but I’m taking a man’s incime into consideration and will no longer give jobless men the time of day. Broke men js the reason why I’m 33 and don’t have much to call my own. I took care of my exes sacrificing my own h…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:03 PM
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I don’t think “most women” would stop talking to a dude they have chemistry with if they find out he makes “a little less” sounds like some gold digger stuff. And if guy is that worried about being ghosted idk what to tel him. I’m just saying I’d appreciate the transparency. Because if a guy picks a place out of my price range, I’d want to know he expects me to pay my portion so I can then suggest something cheaper. And..duh? To the last part. Of course I’d buy him gifts and pay sometimes. I’m n…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:44 PM
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Because Reddit always also says that “move on and find a more suitable partner” like it’s trading your car in for another one. I guess that’s not “doomer” but still very Reddit. Reddit loves saying “break up and find someone else” And what? I was just giving an example. Why are you worried about who’s “fault” it is? You asked about women losing attraction to men. So I just gave a cliche example.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:40 PM
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Well me and you clearly don’t think the same way because I’m all about transparency Nothing frustrates me more than two people just playing around being flirty for the sake of “keeping the fire lit” instead of just laying everything out. What are your expectations? What are you looking for here. The second part was a typo but basically if a man never spent money on me. Like, no gifts, always going Dutch. I’d think they either have financial troubles or I was just an “ehh she’s good enough for no…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:22 PM
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1.) does he give me that tingly high like feeling in his presence? Do I find myself thinking about him constantly? Heart racing when I’m on my way to meet him? What can I say I’m a junkie, like to FEEL good. 2.) everything else. He needs to have a job and be somewhere politically close to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:19 PM
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I think this is fair and if I was talking to a dude and he explained “look, you seem cool, I’d like to meet up, but let me know what your price range is in food because I don’t pay for the first date. Too many bad experiences of women playing nice, just to get a free meal and some drinks then they bounce.” I’d be like: yo, that’s totally reasonable. If then continued to like never get me anything I’d worry a bit. You broke or just don’t want to impress me like..at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:46 PM
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Yeah, this is complete BS imo. I’m 33-year-old 115 pounds and most certainly don’t have a line of men waiting for me. I was widowed when I was 28 and have only been approached maybe 3-5 at all by men. I have a pretty ugly face and a tomboy style.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:25 PM
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This is so “doomed loner Redditor” bullshit. Relationships can be repaired, people have different health issues, mental health issues, etc. Worse can scenario, a man loses his job, falls into depression and gets addicted to WOW and wife loses all interest. She could move in with her Mom for a few months. He goes to therapy, gets a job, turns off the game, loses the weight and they could rekindle their romance. It happens. Life happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:46 PM
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I mean if we are comparing it to that it isn’t lmao and I’ll admit that. And I’d have no problems if I was whining about my life and someone who had to go through that told me that. I’d be like “damn, respect and true” be grateful like ten minutes then move on. Because some peoples lives ARE worse than others. I’ve had it fucking hard, but they’ve had it even harder. You’re “BF” of two weeks that turned out to be a fuckboy and you cried about it for two weeks isn’t in either or our ballparks tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 01:59 PM
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Oh I was just going on a tangent, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:47 PM
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Therapy speak is just in in general right now. It’s not just men. I really hope this shit passes at some point. Because as someone who has town through actual trauma, it frustrates me when people talk about everyday bad things happening like a guy you really clicked with ghosted you after sex is anyway in the same ballpark of what my life became after my husband and then best friend died basically back to back. That’s not “your trauma” it’s called life, and sometimes unfortunate things happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:48 PM
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I’m 33 and single but would also like to be in love. I don’t need a man but I’d like one lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:01 PM
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No I cannot, how could I possibly know that? Also what do you mean by find attractive? Like “would date” or “would have a fun night of meaningless passionate sex with”? There’s is no way I could know that. Only thing I could say is it’s less than 50% of men, because most people are either in the average range or ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:16 PM
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Once again, we are not a monolith so I can’t give you a percentage. Different women like different things. Some women like buff guys, some like skinny guys, some like Dad bods. Like I said sure, there are some trends, but you can’t measure “female taste” with percentages. I know he’s a total piece of shit personality wise but I think Ezra Miller is hot as hell, looks wise. I’d take him over Ryan Gosling any day. Ryan Gosling is not my type. He does nothing for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 01:59 PM
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This 80/20 shit is fucking hilarious to me. It’s like y’all think that 80% of dudes are incel virgins and then there are the 20% of chiseled ab Chads with harems of women. And the proof is dating apps. Of course women are unique. I for example do not like buff men nor do I like tall guys. When I see a dude is like 6’2 or 6’3 on a dating app. I next him. I want someone in the 5’7-5’10 range. If we were a monolith then what the fuck am I? Are there trends? Of course. But it is not some sort of har…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:10 PM
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I can’t believe OP thought that too. I knew what the person meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:38 PM
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That’s the thing; human relationships aren’t measurable like the actual stock market is. What is an example that’s “was welcome 5 years ago and not now?”!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 03:14 PM
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Yeah I was always told cougars were like 40+ and they had to be rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:32 PM
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Depends on what you mean by short. Under 6 foot, weird internet exaggerated bullshit. Under 5’5? Yeah you’re probably gonna have some problems. I’d still date a 5’4 dude though, that’s as short as I’d go because I don’t want to be taller than them with heals.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 02:19 PM
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Oh yeah, I had been friendzoned a couple of times. I just kept being their friends until my crush eventually transferred to someone else. And then since I was fixated on another guy, the friendship with the other guy wasn’t an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 02:16 PM
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I mean people disagree about numbers all the time. But I agree that there are general traits that are considered “good looking” by society and number ratings are an easy way to explain that. I feel I’m a 4. Def not pretty, got a tiny bit of ugly in me, but since I’m not fat that puts me a little higher than the true “ugly” category.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 11:25 PM
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It’s so weird to think so many people think that it’s “almost impossible” to enjoy someone’s company of the gender they are attracted to without those feelings developing. I guess I just don’t get it. I either have chemistry with a guy or I don’t. Couldn’t imagine just being friends with a dude and then 10 years later THEN falling in love with him. If anything time would do the opposite, the more you get to know them the more they feel like a cousin or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:02 PM
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I really wanted to give this a try but I stopped at the third difference and was just like of like “wow, no. I don’t care.” I’m just to fathom what goes through the mind of a person to type all of this lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 07:59 PM
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The only thing I find exhausting is the exaggerations with how easy the jaded men around here think any woman above a 1 has it. Now keep in mind, I am only talking about the whining here. I take plenty of issues with the manosphere/RP in general. But let's just focus on your post title. Look, I know I could get laid easily now that dating apps have been normalized (because once upon of time it was considered really embarrassing to even be on them and it used to be just weirdos and people with no…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:22 AM
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Why would we need to self reflect if some men are literally satisfied by a machine that is programmed to says sweet personalized messages in the place of one of the deepest most intimate types of bond human beings can have? That’s ridiculous. I mean, if it meets a dude’s needs, whatever that’s fine I suppose, no skin off my back. But why do I need to “self reflect” because some people who have the same set of genitals as me may have high standards? Once again, women are simply a portion of the p…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:49 PM
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Being a prostitute for a night and being in a LTR with a cheating man are an “apples and oranges” are they not? And for most people those everyone has a price is usually much small than millions. Like would you eat a turd for 5k? Oh no! THATS GROSS and 5k what is that some savings and vacation? Fine then, what about 75k? Oh, shit, guess im eating shit. Point is, millions is an unfathomable amount of mixi
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:11 PM
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There are a shit ton of goth chicks? And a shit ton of theater girls, there are all types of women. Weird how you keep telling me my “mind is made up” when yours clearly is too. And as someone who hung out in the gamer nerd crowd? Where they swimming in pussy? No, but plenty of them were able to get GF as long as they knew to stay in their lane and didn’t pine over cheer leaders and anime girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:37 PM
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Nope public school. This idea that all chicks are swooning over athletes and that’s it sounds like a high school TV show. Have you never heard of cliques? Is the goth chick fucking the goth dude an anon only? You think the chick with green hair and a nose ring wants to fuck the quarterback?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:16 PM
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Lol what? I mean the athletes had girlfriends and when they broke up found another quickly. But there are other cliques of people and they all dates accordingly. The art girls weren’t into the jocks. They were into other art guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:41 PM
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Yeah no. Not at my university. People paired off. Did some guys get a lot of dates? Sure. Most women were not fighting over the same dude. Or just willingly being a side chick lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:16 PM
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Yeah if a guy is too hush hush about what he does for a living I’m going to assume he doesn’t work and will unmatch. In my 20’s I did the whole “oh, it doesn’t matter what you do as long as there is chemistry” after multiple man children that I ended up mothering more than partnering. I won’t touch a man that isn’t steadily employed, idc what it is, he can make 30k a year, but he needs to be working and has picked a field by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 11:12 PM
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“Women don’t dress for men” bullshit. You may not dress only for men, but you dress for people. Otherwise you’d be doing your hair and full makeup walking around in heels on a Saturday you are staying home.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:45 PM
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We are not a puzzle. I wouldn’t do anything sexual with a guy until at least the 3rd date. He can be the hottest guy on the planet. I still want to do it early because I don’t want to get super invested in someone then find out we aren’t sexually compatible but under no circumstance would I immediately sleep with someone on the first date. Gotta let the sexual tension build.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:08 PM
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Well I think most of us “big age gap = bad” people don’t really take an issue if a 18-22 year old woman just naturally meets a 35+ man and a bond forms. If it’s an isolated incident and not like some chick that the dude has known since she was 10. But men who actively seek barely legal women? That’s the issue. I tend to give a free pass if you’ve been an adult for 5 years. So around 23 or so, fair game. 23 and 40? Fine, whatever, not the same thing to me as 18 and 40. When I was 23 I had a BA, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:10 PM
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Well for me, I never got male attention when I was 20, so that can’t be it. I just know as a 33-year-old woman if I hang around an 18-20 I feel like “this is a child” so when men older than me go out and seek women that age it just seems kinda gross. Like why? I can’t think of any reason other than “they are young and malleable” “Their hot” okay, sure, but so are 23-year-olds, and 25, 27, we really don’t start aging until our late 20’s. You could put an 18-year-old right next to a 24-year-old an…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:39 AM
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Most women do not require you to have a 6 pack and this obsession with being ripped is def a guy thing. Most women just prefer a guy who is toned. Me I like skinnier guys. This would be an ideal for me: https://i.pinimg.com/originals/fb/81/7d/fb817d5ca81e66bb53ee35ba81147b57.jpg?fbclid=IwAR0dFYsA22n60RH-Vb4l7gU4jmRxNSCZh7qvU4GhUM1Ag_auxVqmSbeSId4_aem_ATHtaxZ4WY3hmUKTEWMBQwShlSVErwTsE8wqwHj2TNQ76sDRZVyq85yqDFl9kZZEUzk&mibextid=Zxz2cZ
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:54 PM
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As a left winger, lol no this would be an issue. I believe in the saying: from each according to his need, each according to his ability. So we should all pitch in what we can and not worry as much as making sure everything is equal. If I moved in with a guy who made like 300k a year and his rent was 4k, I ain’t giving him most of my income because “equal”. I make about $3k a month after taxes. Ain’t no way in hell am I giving him half the bills, that’s over 2k a month. So I’m supposed to have l…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:49 PM
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As a mere peasant and millionaire and billionaire are both unfathomable rich. If I wouldn’t be a gold digger for one I won’t be for the other. There isn’t some magic number that will suddenly make me change my mind. Oh, I’m thinking 27,000,000 net worth that’s the cut off. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:41 AM
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Are you twelve lol? Why would the amount of mega rich make it different?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:42 AM
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The only woman willing to “share a man” or chicks in open relationships/poly. I’m not into that. So I’ll take the cab driver.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 06:21 PM
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Just because you’d be insecure about that doesn’t mean he is. He may not give a shit. I don’t dress in a revealing way for my own personal reasons. But I don’t judge those who do. If you got the assets, show em off if it makes you feel better. There is no such thing as “dressing like your single” If a woman is at the beach and she is married, can she not wear a bikini?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 09:06 PM
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Whatcha mean by that? Care to elaborate at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:55 PM
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This is so bleak and dark. So if they aren’t super hot it’s “bad motives”? Is being attracted to a dude you don’t find conventionally attractive because he has a great personality a bad motive? First of all, attraction is subjective. Not all of us only drool over 6 pack Gigachad. Y’all can say it all you want, post pics of Tinder profiles with the “no dudes under 6 foot” and repeat that 80/20 article until your tongue falls out, idc. Because the truth is, we all have our own personalized taste. …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:48 AM
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Yeah that’s called cheating and your issue should be that she’s “sexting other guys” The closest thing in my life to ever doing anything like that was talking to my husband after class (this was obviously before we were together) while I had a jobless boyfriend at my house and that still ate me a part with guilt. I had a crush on my husband since I was 16 but was too much of a titty baby to admit it. So I just kept on and dated two other people from 16-21. Then one day I took a summer course and…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:23 PM
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It was a joke. I was taking a stab at your extremely specific example.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:35 AM
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It doesn’t say anything about your character other than “at some point I was romantically or sexually involved with someone else.” So many different circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:53 AM
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Most women just ask their man be a few inches taller than them. So I guess sure that’s “cares about height” but this “men must be over 6 foot” shit is incel nonsense. Y’all saw a couple Tinder profiles of Insta model princess types and lost y’all fucking minds over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 02:12 AM
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Yeah, I think it will be pretty easy for to avoid all 8 of those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 02:10 AM
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If a man refuses to date me even though he is physically attracted to me, likes my personality and we have the exact same life goals and throws that all a way because there were a few other dicks in my vagina at some point, then to me he isn’t a good man. I don’t see how I could possibly want to be with someone that views a romantic partner in such a commodified way. A good partner for me would know I am a human being with wants, needs and a past. I understand drawing the line somewhere. If I wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 02:07 AM
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I think this is another case of the “pendulum swinging too far in the other direction” I don’t know many people who dated guys with large age gaps. But that was most because my friends when in college dated people in their peer groups. And not too many like 32-year-old men are hanging out with 20-22 year olds. And there def is a discussion to be had about dudes who are 30+ but only try to date girls that have been in high school in the past 5 years. But as usual, a lot of more simple minded peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 08:47 PM
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Okay well I’m fine with this take as long as y’all start saying us 30+ women may look “just as good” Like, I’m 100% have no issue with a guy wanting a trad family not dating someone my age. I get that, because if you take things slow, kids are gonna be an issue. But acting like women who are 30 look a lot worse than 18 year olds is weird. If she takes care of herself (eats well, works out, no smoking/drugs, hasn’t had multiple kids) at most her face might have some tiny wrinkles. Besides that, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 08:21 PM
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1/4 women posts their nudes online for money or attention? That can’t be right lmao. However, nothing wrong with not wanting to date someone who has done sex work I suppose. I wouldn’t date a cop, lol. It’s a bit weird to do the search though with the AI bot. Sounds a bit obsessive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 11:30 PM
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No clue. That’s just been how I’ve been described. Have you tried being ugly? That’s what keeps the men from bothering me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 10:27 PM
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I don’t want to date a man that assigns value to a woman based on her past hook ups. So I’m open about how I “tried casual sex and realized it’s not for me” and if he has a problem with that, good to know early so I can move on. Contrary to what RP guys say, there are tons of men who aren’t concerned about it. They get women are just people figuring out what makes them happy. I want to be with one of those men. Not a dude sitting around figuring a “formula” out to see if I have value or not lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:55 PM
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I mean, most men aren’t attracted to me since I ooze “sexlessness” lol. So yeah, we do kinda have to flirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:42 PM
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I mean, I’ll see it on social media and think “Aw wouldn’t that be nice” but it’s not something I ever actually expect. It’s like taking a trip to Hawaii or Dubai. A nice fantasy, but not something I’d even expect to happen in reality. Guys have never done grand romantic gestures for me. If I do something nice, it’s me, my money and my planning. It’s very normal to me. Hell today I posted of FB trying to find someone to simply accompany me to the new Saw movie because the only friends I know tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:34 PM
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Absolutely ridiculous. And doesn’t apply to me at all. I think what they really mean is a chick “was single and had fun, then decided it was time for a relationship.” And since fuckboys don’t commit, they are left to commit to a person that they would consider “beta” which really only means “can support himself and doesn’t try to fuck every chick with a pulse.” It’s just a really cold stereotypical way of reducing human sexuality. But yeah, that doesn’t remotely describe my past at all. I was wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:19 PM
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I don’t flirt. Don’t know how to, yet I’ve still had chemistry with some people. To me chemistry is an unexplainable magnet force-like feeling. I’ve felt it to guys I wouldn’t normally be attracted to and there’s guys that are attractive looks wise that I feel no chemistry from. I mean. I agree you can screw it up with actions, but I don’t think it’s 100% based on flirting.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:16 PM
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No clue, not all of us want to be on OLD. It’s not organic at all and feels like filling out job applications. When I tried it I only had a handful of messages sent to me. I was not rolling in dick by any means. But even then, guys would just not read my profile and try to have sex that day. Pretty horrible experience. I don’t plan on doing it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 02:27 PM
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It is a lot harder for women to maintain a low weight than men. So it makes total sense that chicks tend to be fatter. At one point in time I myself got up to 145 lbs and I wasn’t exactly scarfing down ice cream and sodas all day. I just “kind of ate whatever” and didn’t exercise besides cleaning and walking the track with a friend once a week. I lost all the weight after my husband died and now am on a med that causes me to not have an appetite. Some days I might just eat one thing and it’s bee…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 02:25 PM
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Doesn’t matter if it’s “extremely overweight” a large portion of Americans are overweight, therefor it’s average.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 02:20 PM
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Nah, it’s truth. I know tons of women who have trouble with guys. We are just so invisible y’all don’t even think about us to consider in these thought experiments.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 01:40 PM
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I just made up an “average American.” And I didn’t realize a Becky was a thing, just made up a name, lol. I’m 115 lbs at 5’2 and am 33-years-old. But you can still call me fat if it makes you feel better lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 01:39 PM
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What does your group of friends look like? How often do you go out this social events where you meet new women? How close are you with family? Do you have siblings? Cousins? Do they have any single friends. I’m a single female and have no one interested in me atm (I guess besides my ex, but I’m not getting back with him unless he learns how to be a functioning adult that doesn’t play video games every second he’s not at work) but at least I acknowledge a part of it is because I don’t socialize. …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 01:36 PM
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Actually sounds very similar to my and some of close friends experience. I dont have the statistics but doesn’t like half the US make under $50 a year? I know more men than I can count that work service jobs that live with loved ones. Seems to be quite common really.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 01:23 PM
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Yep. I’ve dated men like that too. Just ended things with a guy a few weeks ago. And I’m raising my bar. As someone in my 30’s I’m no longer interested in men who live at home with Mommy who don’t have a job. Nope, idc how much chemistry we have, how “fun” you are. I’m done being dudes mom. I’d rather die alone than be the bread winner and the care taker. Men love to fling shit at women who are “cat ladies” but being a cat lady is better than taking care of a dude that will sit around for litera…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 01:21 PM
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Same thing with y’all though. Y’all ain’t in Becky the 27-year-old 5’4 170 lb chick that wears T-shirts and crocks, who only dusts off her make up three times a year and works at Subway. Half y’all call Margo Robbie mid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 01:15 PM
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Well I’m 5’2, so 10 inches taller + just “feels weird” This whole “women want a protector” bullshit never applied to me. I want a partner. I’m not a cave woman that wants her man to fight off pumas or whatever. Perfect dude IMO would be like 5’7-5’9.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 11:46 AM
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Most women? Do you mean most college women currently enrolled in a humanities course? Do you really think most women go around uttering feminist sociological terminology? You don’t seem to have much of an idea of what’s going around in the world around you. Most homes are dual incomes at this point and women who take a man out to try financially def exists but does not account for the majority of divorces either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:29 AM
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I’m 33 and that’s what I like. Beards gross me out. And I couldn’t touch a chest if there is so much hair it pokes out the top gags
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 08:12 PM
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I mean id disagree with you but you are just gonna say “okay your one anecdote doesn’t matter. I’m talking about most women.” And while I def don’t like femboys. I do like a guy that is far from hyper masc. I like a confusing androgynous guy. And long hair is almost a straight up must. Nothing bores me more than just some guy with a buzz cut, a collared shirt and some cargo shorts. Yawn
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 08:07 PM
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Plenty of women cook. More women cook then men. And I’m trying to imagine a serious LTE we’re feelings aren’t shared. Very sad and shallow indeed. The most intimate convos I’ve had as a person was with my romantic partner. Hope I never come across a dude like y’all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 01:10 PM
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I might use one and filter out dudes over 6’0. That’s too tall IMO and don’t see the appeal at all. But I wouldn’t deny a guy just because of height, so idk I probably won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:37 AM
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That’s true with me. I’m about a 4 and was raised around 3 male cousins. So I am quite the tomboy. So when it was time for school at least 75% of my friends were guys. I’ve only dealt with the “unrequited love” thing twice in my 33 years of life. I’ve had at least 5-6 really close guy friends and they would say “Meds? Ew, I mean, I guess she isn’t hideous but uh, I see her like a cousin.” You’d be surprised how easy it is to be friends with someone with a vagina if you have a lot in common with …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 01:13 PM
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Ah so the logic is “she will look good longer” and not 22 is hotter than 27. Sorry I’m old. I can’t tell the difference between 19 and 29. Most people I know (unless they got fat, did drugs or had kids) don’t really look that much different.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 09:28 PM
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They shit blows my mind. Don’t “open up” to women? What the hell do you think marriage is? “Oh that’s my dinner cooking machine that I fuck.” I really hope dudes that think like this stay alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:29 PM
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Him getting really defensive and naming passwords after her crosses the line tbh. Part of me will always love my late husband. So one could say I’m alpha widowed and actual widowed but damn, I don’t do shit like this. And we were actually married, knew each other for 14 years, romantically together for 6.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:26 PM
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Sure, take what you can get I suppose. But I’m just saying. If someone set me up with a guy and I found out his last GF was 21. Id ask what got him there. And if it was the latter I wouldn’t show interest. I mean assuming he’d agree to see me anyway since I’m not a young one lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:22 PM
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I mean they can be. But there are plenty of ugly young chicks and attractive women over 25 or so. And some of the girls he dates are cute, but not all of the ones I’ve seen. My question for y’all is what about a 27-year-old is uglier than a 22-year-old? I’ve never understood that way of thinking. Most the people in our peer group know about him and how he is though. Can’t keep a job, dumps a chick after a few months, doesn’t visit his kid, lives with his Mom. Older women tend to cover those base…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:20 PM
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There is a big difference between a dude dating a chick a few years younger than him because most chicks his age have kids and a dude who only looks at chicks under 25. I know this dude that only dated young chicks because they buy his BS easily. Chicks around his age aren’t falling for his crap and actually ask questions as to why he’s 34 and never made it past a year with a chick. Each 23 and younger GF he has never asks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 07:18 PM
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That’s not something I don’t think I ever thought about. Like if I got attacked I’d want help I guess but physical strength? Idk I live in the US. I carry pepper spray and don’t go dark alleys at night so I’m good lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 07:13 PM
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I’ve only dated men who make less money than me lol. But no. No more unemployed guys. Im done with those. Cost too much. Yuck!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 06:24 PM
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Ahhh I see now, attractive has been snuck in there. Didn’t realize average/ugly women were excluded in this discussion! Actually that’s sarcasm, women below a 6 are always excluded in these thought experiments. Which really just goes to show you that we are so invisible to men that when they sit around and think of all these little dating convos they don’t even consider us because they completely forget to factor in our experiences, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:34 PM
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It will continue to not because I really don’t do much. I have like 3 friends and I work in a closed office of women. There are def other women out there like me. Is it most of us? No clue, but I know I’m not some one out of a million type deal where there isn’t anyone around that I’m interested in or is interested in me and we don’t have the social life where we’d be meeting new dudes. I’d like to see your evidence for this though. Is it social media?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 04:46 PM
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Yeah, my thing is how many women do they think are like this. 51% or 99% lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 04:33 PM
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Yeah, just double checked my DMs. 0. Might post a selfie and see if any guys like it. I’ll post the results lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 04:32 PM
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Hm, idk a few months back when I was still with my BF.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 04:31 PM
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Single woman here, not doing any of that lmao. I mean I guess I probably could download an app. But I don’t want to. I’ve only had bad experiences so far. Since breaking up with my BF, I’ve had 0 dudes hit on me. Not all of us have a line of “hot buddies” to fuck. Like do y’all really think ALL of us live that like? All of us?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 02:45 PM
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I’m not with him anymore but I’ll answer for my late husband. It might count because we never “broke up” he died. So I imagine I probably wouldn’t have divorced him and we’d still be together if he was alive. So I’ll answer for shits and giggles. I was 21-28 he died when I was 28. He was a year older than me. I’m not a very sexual person and he was also an alcoholic so it caused problems down there sometimes. So we def didn’t have an all over the place sex life and I never wanted kids. I’d say d…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 02:14 PM
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Well considering RP is nonsense yeah I doubt it. I’m sure there is a decent percentage of couples that fuck less than once a month (that’s considered a dead bedroom) but it’s probably due to other reasons that’s aren’t. “I settled with a beta.” Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:41 AM
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Full disagree then why do I feel a “spark” from some guys who if I just saw a picture of I might not think much of him? Chemistry aka the spark isn’t so cut and dry and chicks usually like to spend a little time with a guy to see if they have it or not. It’s not as simple as charisma. It’s “do you click with ME”?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 01:25 PM
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Idk about others but I def want want actual real love. I mean I want a man to pull his weight. So he’s gotta make like at least $12-13 an hour, but I’m not concerned about the money in his account as long as he knows how to manage it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:10 AM
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4/10 - 33yo/5’2/F/115 lbs. So I’m an average sized brunette. Things that make me not pretty: frizzy hair, small lips, big nose, eyes too close together, don’t have a tiny waste compared to my hip ratio. I’m also pretty invisible to men and never get cat called (well rarely, not never) or get “cold approached” or whatever you call approaching strangers. 0 guys in my DMs on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:07 AM
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What? Tons of dudes in their 20’s are having ED issues because of porn. Now I won’t deny that half their women on my FB post “lol I have cool kinks look at me! Personality go brrrrr!” But that doesn’t mean there isn’t an issue with some men having addictions to porn. It’s fucking with individuals of both sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 12:01 AM
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Then tell the woman at some point that you aren’t into vanilla stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:58 PM
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I mean it does happen. I’ve seen it. But just because a chick has guy friends doesn’t mean that’s the case. Super femme girls tend to have this sort of dynamic more than the tomboy ones that can actually relate to the guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:44 PM
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This is so depressing and in no way shape or form describe my social life. I just had 3 male cousins and no siblings. So when I got to school I had more in common with the boys and girls, so it just kind of snowballed after that. I don’t avoid women because “drama” I just tend to get along better with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 06:08 PM
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75% of my friendships have been with straight dudes. Never tried to sleep with one. But I’m pretty sure being ugly and tomboyish helps me not fit into this weird stereotype you’ve built in your head. I think people have standards and types and some times you can enjoy being around someone without wanting to fuck them. Not to mention orbiter type dudes tend to like, do favors for their chick friends. Do they treat you better than their other guy friends? He probably wants to bang. If he doesn’t? …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:36 PM
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We are def complaining, just not in this sub because it’s mostly Red/black pill men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:30 PM
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Not all women have the same standards. I’m talking about what I want or don’t want. No one can make collective judgments about what about 4 billion people expect. Y’all think y’all got the “puzzle” solved. But we aren’t a puzzle. We are a bunch of people with unique wants and needs. “I don’t want to play games” okay then don’t. Live your life alone. That’s what I’m doing. I don’t blame all men though because I’m single. Why must you blame all of us?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:00 AM
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I’m thinking it’s like those sort of spoiled hot girls that say that as an answer to a street interview or on a Tinder profile. Like I’m trying to imagine IRL chemistry and there’s a hot girl and guy out in public and the guy mentions that he’s actually 5’0 and she just loses interest. Like what? Maybe it’s a zoomer thing though, idk. Meeting your partner online was considered kinda lame back when I was 18-22. All I remember is Match.com and OKCupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:35 AM
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Because I want a partner not a man child. I do have things to offer. I cook, clean, work full time, have a place, a few friends, my own vehicle. I don’t have a lot of hobbies but I do have a few. I do art, board games, some video games, edited videos (when my computer was working). I don’t want a man baby, shut in, that mommy takes care of all day with like one interest in gaming. I’d like a partner that can work and build life with me. That’s all I am saying. I don’t think it’s asking for much.…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:17 AM
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I had no idea women refuse to date men under 6 feet. I’m 33 never seen that sort of thing in my life. I assumed it was a small section of people. I’m still not convinced that it’s most. But I guess I’ll admit that there is a large enough portion of women out there demanding it, it’s worth discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 07:05 PM
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Which in turn MAKES them a worse partner because like most women would be way more turned off knowing a guy spendings his free time debating “hypergamy” and other stats on Reddit, Discord or RP YouTuber comment sections than just about on anything else. I just became single. I know it’s easy to revel in misery. But the truth is: if you want a partner, you need to work on being someone wantable. Men, there are tons and tons of men out there that live in the moment. And when they get home they jum…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 11:44 AM
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Oh really! Describe him please. I can use a laugh I just ended my 4 year relationship a few weeks back and have been quite mopey.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:00 PM
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I’ve never put men into those categories. There are just people. Some people are cool to talk to. Sometimes I get a magnetic like attraction to men, those men typically fall into the category of what I find attractive. It’s not the same men that you would probably imagine. Most men I don’t, along s with all women. I’ve seen “simp” behavior before between men and women but I point that man into that “category”. The whole world doesn’t sort people like you do. Like are you actually serious? You th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:20 PM
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Bro you just listed some stereotypes. You think all human females put men in these categories lmao? Yeah, 40-year-old widow in Nebraska is like: “my neighbor gives me big simp vibes but his older brother is total friendzone material” Lol what? How is this upvoted like it’s brilliant who psyche?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:58 PM
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As someone who was married to an addict, it’s better to be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:04 AM
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Bruh is “learning” as an adult that women are people and not like idk, Pokemon with catch rates you can study. 😂😂😂 I almost spit out my drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:02 PM
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A very small fraction of women who are cool with open relationships and polyamory. That and women who don’t want a relationship and just want dick from a hot guy. No one else.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:00 PM
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I mean none of these sound like the life I’d want but if that’s my choices B, all fucking day lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:56 PM
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I have not but I see this is going to be the next overused word so I’m well and prepped ready to hate it. Hope this means calling everything “gas lighting” (a very specific abuse tactic) js over.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:34 AM
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I mean there is a pill but I wouldn’t recommend it lmao. It’s called opioids. They kill your sex drive and make you content with life regardless to what is actually going on. I remember using them to get through my husband dying. From curled up into a fetal position shaking crying to listening to music humming around doing dishes in 30 minutes. It was the best/worst idea ever! It makes life great and also destroys it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:45 PM
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Oh hey, I was married to an alcoholic and just broke up with a gaming addict. They are both very different things. But both addictions made me miserable. Maybe if I feel like it later I’ll break down the difference in how they are annoying later.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:38 AM
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Different people have different things their work as stress relievers. Sex is genteelly painful for me. And I’d have to “act sexual” so if I’m an emotional mess the last thing I want to do is sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:48 PM
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Oh I do. I’m one of the most blunt “here are the terms” people I know. It’s also why I struggle with men. I don’t do the cutesy like playful bullshit flirting. Let’s have a real conversation. Philosophy, politics, movies, what are you looking for? I remember telling my late husband a week in “yo. Just letting you know if there is ever an accidental pregnancy I’m having an abortion. I want you to be aware that I don’t want kids.” Like just straight up said it. I wonder if I might be on the very m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:03 PM
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I can’t speak for other women, but I would imagine there are at least one or two out there on this planet of billions that feel similar. For me personally, I’m honestly not a big fan of PIV sex in general (I have an inverted uterus so some positions hurt me, plus I’m one of the 80% of women that doesn’t cum from PIV alone) The “excitement” that comes from having sex for me at all only exists during the honeymoon phase since I’m going through the “can’t keep my hands off you” feeling due to the o…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 06:34 PM
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Aka he doesn’t have the “studies” because they don’t exist. He’s assuming that women who choose to slut around in college do so because they are “mentally ill” and can’t commit. Which, sure there are definitely women out there that are mentally unwell, can’t keep a man or snap and leave him but can’t live without constant male attention. And getting fucked by a dude feels like the ultimate validation. They will probably struggle for life. But. Some women are just normal functioning people who ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 02:04 AM
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My dude you think 85% of women have huge decline in looks from 21 to 30? 85%???? What does a 30 year old woman look like lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:52 PM
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I’ve tried them before. Didn’t have much luck. Did meet my ex on there but he’s an ex. Met one other dude that ended up lying about his age and he was actually 6 years younger than me. He stalked me a bit then got arrested for threatening like a mayor or something, lol. But yeah, not a lot of options. Def didn’t get “hundreds of matches”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:17 AM
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No. Not gotten much attention period. I’ve probably been gotten hit on IRL maybe 4-5 times ever and I’m 33. Some of us are legitimately left alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 11:20 PM
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I met my late husband in high school and I met my last boyfriend on an app. Both of them never did in housework, I made more than them I ran the house. I did everything. They were both man children. My late husbands addiction was alcohol. My last ex’s was video games. I decided after 4 years with the boyfriend that I was sick of running two peoples lives. I’m now choosing to be single. I don’t plan on getting back on the apps because I saw what was on there last time, I doubt it’s changed much, …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 08:17 PM
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I never had orbiters to cut out. A lot of women are basically invisible to men. You just don’t think about us because we are invisible to you. So duh, we aren’t considered in your little “dating market” thought experiments. But I guess if I get desperate enough I’m sure I can find some fat guy holding a fish on his Tinder profile that is willing to come over and have 15 minutes worth of disappointing sex with me. Man oh man. Us average/below average women are living the high life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 07:41 PM
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Not all of us have a shit ton of options. I ended things with my BF recently. I’m not trying to rebound or anything but if I was the only option I would have is to create a dating profile. There’s literally no one in my life that I could just call up and start dating. I feel like dudes on here think literally all women have a bunch of orbiters lined up ready to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 06:28 PM
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Neither. “Settling” to me is dating a guy that I’m not actually attracted to because he checks “enough” boxes. I have done that twice, my first two BF ever. I was 17 and then 19. I promised myself I’d never do it again after that. Then I started dating my husband when was 21, he actually checked off a lot of the boxes on my list. Not all though. Main issue was he partied too hard and died when I was 28. After I mourned I met another guy. He checked off a decent amount of those as well. But I rec…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 09:11 PM
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I was describing my “dream guy.” You can’t actually think that’s my full list of requirements …right…RIGHT?? And there are a lot of dudes that are like kitchen managers that have one bedroom apartments and working cars like are you serious with that one? Do you really think it’s like attorneys, doctors, business men and then it jumps straight to part time Dollar Store employees that make $8 an hour? Lol wut??? There aren’t any middle class/lower middle class people that make enough to afford to …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 08:05 PM
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I’d only replace the words “highest value” with “right man” because a lot of us have different values and are looking for different things. So I hate this value system like it’s some sort of objectively measurable thing. Sure there are some guys a lot of women might lust after but not all of us want the same thing. What is “high value” to one is a “meh, no thanks” to the other and a straight up red flag to some. I like to picture the caricature of the “highest value man” that RP internet guys th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 07:50 AM
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Those sound like 2015 Buzzfeed era, pop feminism sayings that are only shared on those sort of websites and maybe are said by a few reality stars or show up on 20-something women’s FB feed as on of those pastel pink colored, cutesy fonted, text posts. I don’t think “society” is telling women that. Sounds like you have heard the sayings a few times and have electively decided to pit against the “hey, maybe don’t sit in front of a screen and costume junk food all day if you want to have an actual …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 04:03 AM
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If your curious the female flip side of this is men like rushing to open the door for your hot friend and letting it smack you in the face because they either didn’t notice you at at or didn’t find you worthy of being dicked down so your existence is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 03:03 AM
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Wait, so you really think having a few friends makes you above average? I just figured people felt more lonely because we are at homes staring at screens waaaaaay more often than what would be healthy for us. I never would have thought a few articles about loneliness being on the rise means that literally having a friend or two means you are “above average” in terms of just overall being a successful human being. The bar can’t be that low. That has to be some Reddit bro community standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 02:57 AM
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That’s just an over correction to the “dude, just get older and aquire resources with a good job! All the 18-25 year olds will want you then.” Us BP women see that and laugh. And over time the point gets bastardized and now you hear that D- form of a retort. I don’t think most women don’t want anything to do with older guys because of their looks. It’s more because women want someone in their peer group. Of course there’s a handful of chicks cool with dating a dude 15-20 years older than them. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:05 AM
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I’m sure “Becky” will date whatever dude she gets the tinglies for. If you were right like 90% of men would be single. And unhelpful and unrealistic? I see it all the time in my town. The best tattoo arise in my town is dating the most Instagram hilt I’ve ever seen and he’s like 5’6. Happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:57 AM
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Well yeah he might not be “Post Malone” famous. But he might know half the town in a small town of like 3k people. So “locally well known counts as social capital too. “Oh that’s Troy. I heard he breeds exotic chameleons and has a badass Halloween party every year. He has a chalk wall that every person writes their name on and is surprisingly good at piano.” That kind of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:24 PM
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Why not? For women all that tends to mesh together. Women are rarely just attracted to “looks” it’s a dudes whole essence, the sound of his voice, the way he walks, his “drip”, his scent, his voice inflections, his lifestyle, I could go on. I think it might be hard for most dudes to get how (typical) women’s sexuality works.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:47 PM
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I couldn’t disagree more. Women are waaaaaay more open to variety than men are in general. Sure they got your chubby chasers and a few other men who like niches but for the most part, men idealize the normal conventional beauty standards. Now, they are more likely to fuck women outside of those because “pussy is pussy.” But I bet you there are waaaaay more women who want to fuck Post Malone’s ugly ass than dudes who have the hots for Rosanne Bar (back in her day, I know she old now). It is waaaa…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:45 PM
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How do you measure happiness though? Dying alone (without a partner) sounds absolutely horrible UNLESS I was like part of a cool little commune or group of friends kinda like college but it just never ended. As for kids, I’m 33 and have know since I was 18-19 that I’m just not a kid person. So that’s a nonissue for me. Women who go to the office then go home alone everyday? I think that takes a special kind of security to enjoy that. I’m sure it’s out there, but I doubt it’s most. My gut tells m…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:46 PM
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Good looking? Rarely, they are usually very average. Like the dudes from this meme. https://knowyourmeme.com/memes/he-got-no-money-pose
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 07:45 PM
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I guess it just depends on which RP guy thinks of as a Chad. For me personally a depressed jobless guy with a gaming addiction doesn’t scream “Chad” to me. I see dudes on here say things like “if you aren’t 6’0+, jacked, making at least 100k a year women won’t look at you.” So my response was to dudes who think that is what makes a dude “Chad”. Now I do live in south Louisiana, so the pickings are slim here. But I see a lot of dudes, with neck tats, flat brimmed caps, with $17 cash in his pocket…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 04:30 PM
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Well, I know tons of women that beg their loser boyfriends to even get part time jobs. Just because you haven’t personally seen it doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:03 PM
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For me, if I have to be the one to reach out more than a couple of times I assume “oh, he likes me enough to respond. But if he was into me he’d def be putting forth the effort.” To me actions say it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 08:30 PM
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Blue pill means, from my understanding: “red pill is not accurate.” And the whole core of the red pill is that there is like a science to dating. And dating is somehow different then all other human to human social relationships. So I think if you heard one of us say “just be nice” it’s not a “because women want nice” it’s more meant to be taken like: “go out there and socialize and since no two people are alike, you will eventually meet someone that meshes wish your personality.” Because as BP …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 11:58 PM
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Different vaginas probably feel differently I’d guess. I have an inverted uterus (it’s backwards) so that might have something to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:42 PM
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Am also a woman and agree. PIV at most is kinda uncomfortable. I only get pleasure from clit stimulation. PIV for me is 100% “for” the man. I could never have it again and be cool with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:10 PM
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Yeah maybe, but not for me. PIV kinda hurts. So the less sex I have the less pain I experience so I’m cool with that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 11:39 AM
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Well move to my town. Because these women here are working two jobs and picking up the the dirty needles of these men around that swear they will “look for a job tomorrow” because “ but he loves me!” I guess it might be different in different places lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:25 PM
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Time to lower your standards, single Moms, fat chicks, chicks with high “N counts.” If they are so unattractive you can’t get it up. Then yeah, single life it is. Every guy that works out, has a job, goes out and all the rest that “can’t get a GF” is shooting to high.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:51 AM
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I mean some women do want excitement. That is def a thing. But it’s not all, hell, it’s not even most. It’s just some, a small fraction of women who prioritize tinglies over a healthy relationship. Those women are usually on the batty side themselves. Oh I’m s woman who’d rather a “safe” man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:20 PM
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Depends on what you mean by short. I’d waaaay prefer a 5’8 man over a 6’2 dude any day. But like 5’3 yeah, that’s a little too short. He’d have to make up for that in other ways big time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:38 AM
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The fact that you are 25 and gave up 6-7 years ago sounds my alarm more than you paying for sex does. That’s like starting a mile long race and giving up after you take 10 steps.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:27 AM
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Saying you can’t consent probably falls under ableism but not wanting to date someone who is autistic isn’t ableist. Thinking you are a lesser person is where the isms come in. I don’t date women, that doesn’t make an internalized misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 09:23 PM
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It depends on the woman and it depends on the sex. Some women don't get a lot of actual physical enjoyment out of PIV, some do. Some women don't have high libidos, others do. Some women want sex with men relationship or not either because they enjoy the physical feeling or just because they enjoy being validated by men and a man finding you attractive enough to stick his hard dick in you counts as validation. To other women, they only feel that validation IF the man is willing to be in a relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:15 AM
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The classic fuck boy. Talk a good bit first, claim to want a relationship, after a few dates a woman starts to become vulnerable, shares deep sensitive info with him, he claims he cares about her, wants a relationship, she agrees to become intimate, they bump uglies a few times, he bails by either ghosting all together or makes up some bullshit. So telling women who want relationships that there will be a relationship, but has no intentions of a relationship, just wants access to sex. The one ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:02 AM
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I might be with the RP on this one but if the woman gets to stay at home, I think she should be responsible for like 90%-95% of all house hold shit. Men should step up if she is sick or something and should allow her to have a few breaks a week from the kids (if they aren't in school, if they are I'd say a 1-3 breaks a month instead of per week) but besides that, he should only be responsible for a chore or two ESPECIALLY if he is one to work overtime. Working sucks, I will admit that and being …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:51 AM
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I never said it was bad thing. I just defined the term. I’ve gone Dutch many times. Yeah I was a bit tongue-in-cheek with the example but I never outright said it was bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 10:30 PM
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You realize your "evidence" is the exact same as mine. You I guess have seen a few women who do this, so made the logical jump assuming because you personally have seen it. It must mean that almost all women are this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:48 PM
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Did I say anything was? I was just defining the word by using cliche examples. I’ve been called a pick me before because I don’t have an income requirement for a man. Just try at he works period. So I’ve probably defending the concept more than criticize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:25 PM
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Yes. And my people don’t act like that. Sounds like you talking about some + with vibrant social lives living in like Cali or some shit. I live in New Orleans now but I grew up in a small town. And the chicks I knew would be talking to at most maybe a few dudes a year. America (and other parts of the world) are full of small towns.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:24 PM
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I thought it was a girl who brags about all these women with high standards are making shit needlessly difficult and are acting like queens. “Oh you want to go to a nice restaurant and he pay because he needs to show you his worth? Well, I’ll go meet a guy for coffee and I’ll even pay for my own because unlike you gold diggers. I actually want to spend time with a guy not just suck up his resources.” “Yeah I work more hours technically and my salary is higher. But I cook and clean on top of it b…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 11:56 AM
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What percentage and where did you get that information from?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:09 AM
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Of course they can. I am not like that though. I want to go to concerts, new hiking trails, beaches, festivals, new restaurants, roller skating rinks, political events. Going to the office, the grocery store, then home rinse repeat sounds like a nightmare. I need some adventure in my life and I would hope my guy would be the same. But I know plenty of women who are home hermits that like their routine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 04:09 AM
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Of course, matter of fact, the not wanting kids part is mandatory since I am child free myself. The career part is honestly pretty preferable too. I am edgy, capitalism hater that cringes at the "rise and grind" guys. I get we need to trade our labor for food and shelter and I am not taking care of a man child. So while he must work, I am fine with it being construction, restaurant or retail. A guy I would relate to probably isn't going to be the "suit and tie, short hair cut, stocks" guy anyway…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 04:02 AM
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Decent looking ( symmetrical face, not obese/overweight or underweight, shorter than 6'2 but taller than 5'6, not balding), maintains hygiene, works a full time job making above the poverty limit and knows how to live within his means (manages his money enough so he can afford an emergency or two and has good credit), has a working vehicle, has his own place, which he keeps fairly clean, ordered and decorated. He can cook basic meals for himself and does all his chores, has an active social life…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 02:34 AM
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You called him below average but then called him a 5/10. I don't understand how you areof average (5/10) and are below average at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 02:20 AM
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Which is literally what cheating is lmao. Yall are wild. We have no info how long this wife of his has been avoiding intamacy. Could be 4 days. Maybe she saw his Reddit post history. Maybe she's fucking a guy at work. Maybe she is ill and doesn't feel like having sex. We have NO idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 02:18 AM
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Did you link the wrong thread? I see a slighty pudgy guy claiming his partner isn't having sex with him. That is literally all the info that is provided. Then you click on his post history and it's just him being creepy towards other women on Reddit thirst posting. Where is the part where he is getting betabuxxed?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 02:13 AM
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That's not too different from the way I live. If I could go back and in time and go to college for something that actually made money, I would. Alas, my Mom fed me the line of bullshit "it doesn't matter what your major is. Having a BA will eventually land you a good paying job." So I majored in Sociology because I thought it was interesting. Here I am 15 years later. Looking for jobs that make AT LEAST $20. Most I ever made was $30.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 02:02 AM
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He just needs to work, period. And then when ever it's pay day, be willing to put a portion of said income to pay some of the bills. I will give an example of what would NOT be acceptable. He gets paid. His check is $800.00 after taxes. After work, he goes to the mall buys $150 pair of shoes, a $70 video game. On his way home, stops at the liquor store gets $80 bottle of alcohol, picks up $100 bag of weed from his dealer. Gets home, orders $100 off of Uber Eats. A week later, I ask for help payi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 01:56 AM
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I prefer more towards the beginning. Not like, walk up to me and spit out a one liner. But if I was single and was in some sort of situation where a guy and I were talking and the conversation is flowing. I would much prefer if he put me in the "would want to date" slot in his head, he would ask me out sooner rather than like add me on FB and just kind of hover around for a few months years, THEN randomly be like "you want to date?"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 01:49 AM
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Shit, blue collar? I just ask that they work, period. I guess I'd ideally want them to make more than $10 an hour. Why? I don't want to be the only one working. I used to date men that were decent looking, into me and gave me "the tinglies" as I call it. A lot of those guys, didn't work at all (I was in my late teens, early 20's). When I got with my husband I was 21, he didn't work. His family gave him spending money here and there and told him to focus on school. After my husband died (I was 28…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 01:30 AM
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Lol what? Instagram models are “attractive” that just means I have working eyes and understand they meet conventionally beauty standards. But I’m not attracted to them because I’m not gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:41 PM
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Yeah this is just not true. There are guys who are technically more aesthetically pleasing that just don’t have “that effect” and some guys who on paper, like if I was just looking at a picture, aren’t super attractive. I don’t know how to explain it. Pheromones? No clue. But “the tingles” is like one of the most important things when choosing a partner. If I’m not feeling it, that means I’m just going through the motions to not be alone. And that is not something I ever want to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:37 PM
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I am sure there are handful of women who do that. But I seriously doubt this is a huge huge issue. I think most women either think of sex as something sacred and wants to wait to have it with someone she is married to/seriously dating. Or has sex with anyone she wants to. At most, I could MAYBE see if a chick starts talking to a guy on a dating app and he actually seems pretty cool and she could see actually being in a relationship with him. She might not fuck on the first date. But still would …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:46 PM
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I’m so sorry you failed to detect that this post is obviously satire. I thought it couldn’t be any more apparent. Also. I never stated the race of the people nor picked an actual country. So maybe you might to want to check on your “isms” there lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 11:43 AM
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It’s called a joke. I have a an existing love life without haveing to travel over sees and picking up a desperate starving stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 05:09 AM
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translation: you putting your fingers in your ears LALALALA MY SIDE WOULD NEVER SAY SUCH NONSENSE! LALA NEVER! LALA CRAZY LADY 4CHAN MEME FROM 2017 LALALA
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 03:35 AM
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I agree with you. I hate how commodified relationships have become. Dating profiles are like submitting resumes now days. However, I think you are vastly exaggerating the numbers. What women are matching with like hundreds of dudes? So that's my main contention. If this is anywhere remotely close to a semi normal thing that happens to more than just a hot models living in Cali, I agree they should take a different approach though. I try to be as human as possible with people even online. The ONL…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 03:18 AM
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Maybe YOU don't think like this. But if I had the time to care, I bet my life I could absolutely find dudes posting that link to the "pig face girl experiment" saying ALL woman have men drooling over them. So you've either not seen those posts. Or have deleted them from your memory. But they are here. I mean even OP, was like "women imagine if a bunch of dudes didn't hit on you and if you awkwardly walked up to a stranger and started chatting and he was weirded out." like that isn't already most…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 03:11 AM
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I am just picturing a man looking to his son's living in a mud hut and saying: "Son, you really need to try your best and looksmax, because if you are under 6 foot, the chances of getting a hot 18-year-old is slim, you may have to settle for a woman over 30 who has already had a couple of kids with Chad. But be careful, because they are hypergamous! They may still monkey branch to another beta!"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 02:59 AM
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Assuming she goes outside regularly she passes people in public every single day. That's thousands and thousands of men that saw her and thought "not stopping what I am doing and hitting on her." Having a few dudes agree to date you doesn't suddenly mean she isn't invisible to like 99% of guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 02:48 AM
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We aren't the most attractive, duh. We are just average normal people with average normal experiences. I've gone years without a dude hitting on me. And I am not hideously ugly. I do have a bit of an ugly face, but I am not fat at all. Men on this sub just vastly exaggerate the "female" experience. Yall think everyone above a 2 has the lived experience of a slim thick, blond 23-year-old Instamodel. And honestly, it's quite funny to me at least. Can't speak for the other women here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 02:41 AM
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I am in my 30's and am still surprised when a guy hits on me. I was the goth kid in highschool. And goth in the 2000's wasn't as cool as it is now. So I was only asked out as a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 02:36 AM
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I mean, I am about a 4 and that IS my life so, how I feel? I guess I was sad about it as a teen but I am in my 30's now so it's just normal to me. There have been times (realistically I had a drink or two in me) I would attempt to even platonically mingle at parties and guys have given me that "uh, why are you talking to me?" look. It happens to tons of women too no matter what RP content creators on TikTok tell you lol. Most women aren't hot. The chicks you see on Instagram are very very rare, …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 02:14 AM
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Maybe if my boyfriend and I break up I can go over there and grab one. Hopefully he doesn't discuss women over 30's SMV and watch FNF videos on his free time, lol. We all just end up going oversees and speed up the next generation looking like those brown South Park future characters.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 02:08 AM
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For real. He’s in bed scrolling on his phone at 9:30 since he needs to be up for 6:00 and she’s wanting to go out and grab drinks or go to a college party. On the weekend he wants to go to Lowes to buy wood and go home and work on a project and she wants to go to Starbucks and Target with the girls then go to a concert later in the evening lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 12:12 PM
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I think a more accurate way of describing what women want would be they want a motivated, self sufficient man who wants a bit more than "just scraping by" in various areas including income. If I had to bet my life savings on it. I would def bet most women (so >51%) would pick an emotionally stable, sociable, clean, stylish, decent looking dude who makes 60k-a-year over a beer gut having, greasy, balding dude, with terminal BO that makes 600k-a-year. Women like money, yeah, don't we all. But as l…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 02:23 AM
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Young men can have ambition lol. And lots of women date broke guys. Like a huge huge percentage? No, but enough to completely throw off your "all" claim. You will find COUNTLESS stories on Reddit of women whining that they want their partner to at least START working part time because they are overwhelmed. You could say "well hey, look they want them to work!" true, but these are couples who are already couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 01:50 AM
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You've never seen an attractive woman over 30? Do yo never watch TV or movies?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 01:32 AM
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There is a HUGE difference between a 25-year-old dating someone who is 32 and someone who is 18-19.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 01:25 AM
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Do you live in like New York City or Seattle or something. How is 80k for one person "broke."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 01:24 AM
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Because women are more likely to date and fuck people in their social circle and aren't sniffing around random dudes a decade older than them's bank account. A few women are, sure. They are called gold diggers and are no where near "the norm".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 01:21 AM
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"fat herion addicts" is a bit weird. Heroin addicts are known to be skinny hence "heroin chic" being like THE look of the 1990's. Otherwise I agree. Total revenge fantasy bullshit. At most a guy in his 30's might be making more. But doesn't that just make you "beta bucks" or whatever? Oh wait, that's when you marry a chick...ah.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 01:17 AM
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I mean, just go to Wal-mart push a buggy around, walk the whole store, you will see it. I am 99.9% these men don't ever leave the house. Maybe if they work they work in a warehouse or something and live with Mom so they don't go shopping.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 02:33 PM
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I have literally never seen this unless you count really trashy lanky dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 02:32 PM
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The men who whine about not being able to find anyone either have serious personality issues or their standards are too high. They are 4-5's and want 6+ women. I am not a social butterfly by any means but I leave my house regularly and see exactly what you see OP. Hot people, average people and ugly people all holding hands with a woman (of various looks as well). The dudes that think all women who are better looking than say 2 looks wise only date 6'0+ jacked men who make over 100k have literal…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 02:29 PM
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I'd date any guy that makes any amount (well maybe not less than like $10 an hour, come the fuck on) as long as he isn't one of those dudes that gets his $700 paycheck and then turns around buys $100 worth of weed and a new $150 pair of shoes. So basically lives within his means. I am fine with being the bread winner. But my man WILL contribute to the bills. Even if it is only $400-500 a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 02:24 PM
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If he was cute, I'd date a 5'4 guy. I did date a guy that was 5'5. My cut off is 5'3 since I am 5'2, I want them to be taller than me. That's all I ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 02:22 PM
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Probably the latter. I like t socialize and go do things spur of the moment. Autistic people typically aren't super social and they like their routine. My best friend's boyfriend is autistic and addicted to WOW and their relationship looks like a fucking nightmare to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 02:21 PM
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Breaking news: 8+ perfect model body women below 30 want to date their SMV equivalents. I am not sure why that surprises anyone. My question is, I am assume most of the people that hang around these parts fall somewhere between 1-6 or so on looks. So why are men obsessing with getting a woman out of your league? I just couldn't imagine being like a 5'7, slightly pudgy dude, with an average face, driving a 10 year old car living in a one bedroom apartment that hasn't been updated since the 90's w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 02:19 PM
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Lol ah, and there it is! Attractive! Sure maybe. But why shouldn’t they? Attractive women go for attractive men? Call the presses!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 01:24 PM
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I am not into buff guys or dudes with short hair cuts at all tbh. Him being RP would just take my meter from 95% chance of rejecting him to a full 100. Regardless to what people think on here. A RP guy and I wouldn't like each other. It just wouldn't work. We fundamentally disagree on most things. I don't think I would need to reject him though, because a guy like that wouldn't be in to me in the first place. A mutual disinterest lol. I wonder do a lot of the internet addicted men in these circl…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:26 PM
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I do. I would say I probably only find 1 or 100 guys attractive. I don't consider myself a part of the norm. I have a very specific taste. I like high cheek bones, longish-long hair, slender, medium height, not hyper masculine and they need to have some sort of "alt" style. I am also not a fan of hairy dudes. Big (as we used to call 'em) Duck Dynasty beards gross me out. Goatees and mustaches especially are a "no" for me as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 12:46 AM
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Yes it happens. But in this context it makes no sense that’s what I’m saying. Plus you aren’t taking in to account there are plenty of women out there that aren’t ashamed of their number. I’ve sleep with 12 people over the course of the past 18 years of being sexually active. Would I undo some of those people? Yes, because I learned I’m not into casual sex. Like I just feel like you guys have just come to a conclusion and you work backwards trying to justify it. “Oh these numbers don’t reflect w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 02:12 PM
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Sure, most people have done that at some point in their lives. But the thing about that is, usually there is some sort of benefit one gets from the sugarcoating. Even if it is something as small as "social capital."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:05 AM
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Lol what? Of course there are women who don't live like me. That's the whole thing. We are not a homogenous blob. Some women like tall guys, some like buff guys, some like slim guys, some want a career oriented professional, some want a bad boy, different people want different things. There is no doubt in my mind that the things men in RP say happen, do happen. But it doesn't describe all or even most women. Just a portion of women. Typically conventionally attractive 7+ who have social media fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:02 AM
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So what are the accurate numbers? Idk, it just feels cheap to be like "nah but people lie" as a response to a survey. How do we measure anything when it comes to psychology? And if stats are so insignificant why is there such a large movement around RP which. likes to pretend it's "science backed"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 05:02 AM
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I am trying to imagine this in real life. A guy and a girl starts dating. He asks her at some point when her body count is. She says 6. He then starts to get to know her friends, family, tracks down her exes and investigates like an episode of Columbo. Or a dude buying clothes and using a bunch of libbed out therapy speak. Playing a full on a character. The chick not seeing right through it and deciding he's "safe" to tell the real number too. Man on man, if I become single again at some point I…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 05:00 AM
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I am sure if you hang around churches long enough. Some quiet girl in a floor length floral dress might make eye contact with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:55 AM
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And what is your evidence that woman who have answered this survey suffer from this phenomenon? Also, how would we know the accurate number of sexual partners since we can't get an accurate number out of a woman (for example, a woman answers 10 partners in a lifetime, but you think it's 15. Where did you get those extra 5 people from?)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:52 AM
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So you think because a large portion of women feel shame, they decide to go take part in surveys and skew the numbers even though, literally know one will know. Just doing this to skew the results? How do you know women do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:50 AM
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I feel like I almost had a tear in my eye from reading this. Fucking perfect, I've always had the same kind of feeling when browsing through manosphere communities and just didn't have the words: honestly, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 02:42 AM
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I am pretty lame and don't have much of a life. But I do have a boyfriend. If I didn't there is no way I could hang out on these subs and talk about dating without it making me straight suicidal. Just knowing that some one sat around and did this, typed it all out just to debate in this some, actually makes me a bit sad for them. Maybe they have a partner and for whatever reason just really find this kind of thing entertaining. Fingers crossed this isn't some sort of "if I do enough research and…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 02:34 AM
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Because they confirm his biases of course!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 02:32 AM
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So how do you know which time she is telling the truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 02:28 AM
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And where did you get that number from? Why three?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 02:27 AM
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But when you fill out a survey, it's anonymous, so what would motivate these women to lie? And how does the dating app statistics obtain the more accurate info if women constantly deflate their numbers?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 02:25 AM
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Then how would anyone know what the truth is?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 02:21 AM
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I mean, you are allowed to believe whatever you want about how your life is. But to get online and repeat your personal experience like it's some sort of universal rule that affects everyone else the exact same way is a bit absurd. The women I know if my life seem to be pretty similar to the women in OP's post. So what would that mean to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 02:18 AM
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I can't believe people actually sit around and try figure this kind of thing out. It's mind boggling to me. Why? Like, is there some sort of frustration deep inside you that motivates a firey passion to intellectualize dating norms? Like this sort of thing takes hours. I'd love to understand the thought process that leads to this. Does it help anything internally? Do you think by obtaining this "information" it will impact your social life. Kind of like taking a class and writing papers for said…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 02:03 AM
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Another short woman here. I prefer my guys under 6 feet. I am not trying to make eye contact with a dude's nipples.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 12:23 AM
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No it's not. Those are two completely separate things. Being horny is a mood. The urge to want to fuck out of nowhere, to have your body yearn to have sex. Sexually desiring is about the "who" not the mood itself. Your partner. I am not suddenly less attracted to my boyfriend now that I am out of the honeymoon phase. I still find him as attractive as I did back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 12:08 AM
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I have a lower than average libido and theres no doubt it my mind being on an opioid affects this (Suboxone) but I didn't say I "don't sexually desire my partner" lol what? I said I am not "in the mood to have sex" very often.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 12:54 PM
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Or maybe, here we go, looks are important to SOME people. So if you aren't conventionally attractive, you will have to weed through several people until you find someone who is open to having a romantic relationship with a person who isn't conventionally attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 02:29 AM
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Am a woman, I don't think men should "leave women alone" outside of like actual harassment. Monolith theory DESTROYED!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 02:26 AM
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1 out of 4? Wow, when I tried online dating I ended up probably only liking maybe 1 out of 30 profiles lol. But I have a very very specific taste since I am a strange person. They have to be nerdy but not TOO nerdy. Artsy slender guys got a like too. Any normie in a polo shirt with shirt hair in a tux, guy holding up a fish or ghetto dude automatically got a pass. Couldn't imagine saying yes to 1 out of FOUR profiles.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 02:21 AM
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Wow, I was like "I don't remember having this conversation and what account is this?" I am the same way. 33 and only horny maybe once every other month or so. When I was a teen was the only time in my life that I actively craved like weekly orgasms. By the time I was in my early 20's, I was "over it."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 03:11 AM
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I am perfectly fine with them in theory. When it comes to execution, a lot of people just aren't built for them. I think infatuation will screw with a lot of people's heads. I personally would rather not have one. But if it really came down to a guy I really had feelings for asking to open the relationship up especially considering how low my sex drive is, I would probably at least give it a shot. I probably wouldn't bother to sleep with anyone else due to that low sex drive and not personally g…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 03:03 AM
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For real, I agree with this. A few weeks ago my Bf and I were both sick as fuck. Sweaty, snot nosed, coughing up phlegm. Towards the end of the night he has made a comment saying something like “guess you’re too sick eh?” I couldn’t wrap my head around being horny right now. If I’m past the “can’t keep my hands off you” stage and also not a hormonal 14 year old. Sex is a very specific mood I’m rarily in. All the stars have to align for me to truly be horny. I’ll still do it outside of those circ…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 05:15 PM
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I’m sorry I should probably clarified when I said this chick I didn’t mean the pic I posted but the pic OP did. I’ll edit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:13 PM
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Why would you get matched with them? Shouldn't these guys not be swipping on them to the point where they even have a chance to match if they don't want to fuck them?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:53 AM
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I am not really here to disagree other than the woman in the picture specific posed to achieve this picture. She does not have thin arms and most certainly is sucking in her gut. Also I wouldn't even describe her as fat. I'd describe her as on the larger size of chubby. You have to be at least this size for me to think of you as fat. https://topsycurvy.co.uk/cdn/shop/articles/c4e859d469a0d2be58196635a899fb6b_400x.jpg?v=1611923425 Maybe it's because I am an American but the chick you posted doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:50 AM
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Just because you and most other people think it’s important doesn’t mean every single person does. I could go several months without it and not notice. After my husband died sex didn’t enter my mind for months. It was the last thing I cared about. Meat stick goes in hole, it goes out, maybe a small release of endorphins. Maybe. Honestly I’d rather a man rub my back. I really don’t see what all the fuss is about. I do it because I want to keep my partner happy. I couldn’t care less about a damn o…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:51 PM
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I think this is waaay more or like a movie trope then something that happens IRL. Sure there a handful of douchy guys that have a line a of chicks. But I’m sure that’s more or his status and wealth. Guys that aren’t afraid to be absolute dickheads are more likely to land leadership positions. Most women I know want and date emotionally mature nice men. And when a woman I know dates a jerk. It’s because he was good at pretending to be nice in the beginning and she was already attached by the time…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:44 PM
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You got some high standards for this modern world. For me, I just ask that you have a full time job making at least a double digit amount $10+ an hour, a fully functioning vehicle, and preferably living not at home with his parents by 30. My bar is pretty low. But contrary to what this sub and RP seems to think, I’ve seen women make excuses for dudes who don’t work at all. Or work little part time gigs, picking them up, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 05:25 PM
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The “don’t cold approach” shit is weird to me. Of course there are those crazy Twitter feminists that are absurd. I think most of us, who are rational just don’t be weird about it. If a chick is running on a tred mil with headphones in, don’t go start a convo, don’t approach a woman if you are alone together in an elevator. If she has closed off body language and is sitting on a park bench looking at her phone. Probably doesn’t want to be be bothered. Natural organic interactions? Fine, making s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 02:40 PM
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Any man who isn’t afraid to live in his life he he sees fit without trying to appease and make excuses to other men is secure in his masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 02:27 PM
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I’d rather be single than be in a toxic relationship or in a relationship with someone I don’t have feelings for just not to be alone. Does that mean I want to be single? Of course not, it’s about making the best out of what options you have. I do tend to roll my eyes at women who post 8x a day about how happy she is by herself. I think the more a person really is actually content being alone, the less they need to proclaim it. They just spend their time with friends, family or are invested in h…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 07:20 PM
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I’m 33. I’m not sure why that doesn’t matter. Is it because us oldies aren’t relevant in the conversation? And yeah a lot of women “can” but do you think that’s the norm? Because I don’t. I think most women go to the club so they can have an excuse to dress up, dance with their friends and get a little tipsy. Not go there broke and have to flirt with men to bet a buzz.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 03:47 PM
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Just because a chick goes to a club doesn’t mean men are buying her drinks lol. I’ve never had a dude buy me a drink in a club and I’ve probably gone out at least 10-15 times since I was 21. Also. I take no issue with a dude not wanting a club/bar rat if he isn’t one either.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:16 AM
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I have had several. Most of my friends have been straight guys. I'd say at least 60% of them. I was the only straight girl in my group in high school. We had two lesbians and two gay guys but the rest were straight men and there was about 10 of us. Those guys brought other guys around. I have had 0 issues. I've only had the "dude who clearly wanted to date or fuck me" issue once or twice. Like, ever. I am also a below average looking tomboy though. So I think that contributes a good bit. But the…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 05:07 AM
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I am going to need more specifics before I answer a question like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 05:03 AM
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Of course we don't accept hyergamy. That shit is ridiculous. Are there women who monkey branch when a "better" dude comes around and shows interest? Sure, that exists. But to broadly paint the entire sex like we are like that is some doomer bullshit. Most of us meet a guy we have chemistry with and date him until something happens, he either does something for us to lose interest, dumps us, he dies or we stay together for life. Most of us aren't just dating a guy while secretly keeping a close e…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 05:00 AM
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Nah, none of us would call that average either. Def not my personal type at all though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 04:56 AM
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I think it depends on what struggling is. I think there are a decent amount of guys that aren't going on dates quite often. But the guys who have like year gaps between dates? 100% agree, something is wrong with them. Maybe they have a squeaky voice, maybe they have chronic bad breath. There has got to be something they are leaving out. I just don't believe there is a cluster of careered, non-obese men, that aren't midgets, don't smell like B/O, have an apartment, a working vehicle and are socia…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 04:48 AM
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There are only two scenarios where I would refuse to go on another date that could be directly related to payment: -If he promised before hand to treat me and we go to some sort of nice place, but then when the bill comes, on the spot he decides. Oh, nevermind, let's go dutch! -Or if it wasn't discussed at all. We agree to go out and when the check comes he just straight up asks me to get the both of us. Other than that, I am fine with splitting the check. Of course I would PREFER for him to pay…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 04:40 AM
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I probably wouldn't be romantically intersested in a person that is in to that sort of thing. But on a rare occasion here or there because a friend is in town or something? No, that's fine. If he's going to cheat, he will cheat. He will find a way. And when/if I find out about that, I would end things. I don't worry about having all these prebuilt in rules for "what if" scenarios. I do not want to limit the situations and locations where my man is allowed to go to because he might be around the …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 04:36 AM
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Oh def not. I was never really attractive. But I remember looking through some selfies since the start of my face book and I really only started to noticable age in the face where I look any different from 18, was in my late 20's. I see people say shit like "18 is hotter than 25" and I am just like, "are you sure you see a lot of 18 and 25 year olds?" lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 04:30 AM
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Well most of us in our 30's spent several years as of age adults without access to popular dating apps. So that has to effect part of dating for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 04:11 AM
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I blame porn and whatever RP concept teaches men “who cares about them though? I don’t” like that FNF Myron guy said.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 08:20 PM
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No clue. I don’t do them. But for me I was specifically talking about PIV.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 08:19 PM
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My dude I’ll be 33 in May. I know my body, lol. I’m a very small person with an inverted uterus. It has nothing to do with lube and everything to do with my insides and what is hit with the penis in the direction that it goes. As for enjoying giving head, sure I enjoy it. In the sense like you enjoy giving your significant other a massage. It’s a form of intimacy, but I mean having a dick going in and out of my mouth doesnt physically feel good. That is what I’m talking about, the actual physica…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 03:03 PM
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It’s not “telling on himself” a lot of women don’t have orgasms from PIV. I don’t get any pleasure from it. I find it rather uncomfortable. PIV for me is doing a favor for the guy I like. Me wanting to make him happy. It’s like giving him a BJ but with the bottom of my body not the top. I know I’m not alone. Lots of women agree it’s all about the clit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 12:04 PM
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And the “research papers” are like a graph of Bumble preferences lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:38 PM
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This dude is clearly unhinged and he really needs to touch grass. Either that or any chick below a 6 or so “doesn’t count”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 11:50 AM
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How are we brainwashed? I’d like to hear this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 11:47 AM
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Idk, but I am hoping that if I ever become single again. I will get points from dudes for not obviously using them. When normally they might have nexted me but thought not to because "Hm, well she at least she is being honest!"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:52 AM
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Yeah, you would think with the visceral hatred most RP have for single moms there would be SOME like slack for us in a "Oh, at least CF women know better than get fucked unprotected from Chad and have his bastard kids" or something BUT (not all) RP are pretty misogynistic in nature, so of naturally of course they will find a reason to hate us as well. And it's usually some weird trad bullshit (even though that isn't automatically connected to being able to predict dating behavior which is what I…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:48 AM
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I never heard of a man mocking another man OR woman for not having children. Good thing it's happening in this literal thread! Just scroll up or down lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:41 AM
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Okay? So shit on antinatalism then. Most people want kids. But some of us don't and we just want to exist without certain people getting personally offended and trying to argue, tax or legislate us out of the lives we want to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:37 AM
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I am just curious where the mods are at now. I got told earlier to "stop trolling" because I said "I stopped taking X argument seriously" I'm actually on your side right here. I am just astounded that I was told that when responding to a different post with a bit of sas, but it wasn't even close to trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:35 AM
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How exactly am I pushing your taxes back my dude? Last time I checked there are like 8 billion people on this planet. I thought the people "pumping out kids and eating up welfare" where the freeloaders? What happened to that? So now if we have kids we are freeloaders or if don't we are? How do we not freeload besides idk, being born to rich parents? I guess by "lifting yourself up by your bootstraps" and somehow climbing out of poverty being lower middle class. Ah the nebulous "work hard"! Not s…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:32 AM
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First of all, hysterectomies are only given to people with medical problems. Do you mean getting their tubes tied? lmao. I would like to be able to get my tubes tied. A full hysterectomy? Uh, no, I am good. Not really interested in going through menopause at 18. Also, there isn't a child free gene that is passed down. Would that make sense? a CF gene being genetically passed down.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:23 AM
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Angry people on the internet. You are literally on Reddit. You can find this stuff on this literal site. Search the term childfree on any sub that isn't a sub that has a heavy leftist leaning or the actual childfree sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:10 AM
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Lol, god, so condescending. Yeah, guys on the internet are raging in disgust because they are "concerned." Please! You really think we legitimately believes that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:08 AM
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You must have missed those threads then. Many RP men have spoken out about it. Just search up top. I've seen several RP men complaining about our existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:57 AM
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Because he's still RP and is only defending CF women because he doesn't like kids. So he's testing out some arguments, trying to frame childfreedom as "okay" to a normally heavily right wing, very trad-only audience that he is apart of hoping that they will accept his lifestyle as okay so he isn't considered one of us "degenerate lefties" for daring to exist without popping out as many new humans as we can.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:53 AM
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I am no fan of PUA but what? Are you saying either you are hot or not and that is all? Because there are a lot of subpar looking men that are quite successful with women. Idk how you can say that. Like if you are you saying a socially awkward dude can't learn how to not be socially from a few PUA videos or books then sure, I will take that but just saying "genetically lucky or not" seems to be an extreme over simplification.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:11 AM
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Actually getting a successful OF is not easy. During the pandemic I tried the foot fetish thing too (too ugly for anything else and to be completely honest, I really don’t want my naked body all over the internet. I’m on the asexual spectrum so I struggle even having a sexuality at all, posting nudes with horney captions makes me feel really weird. So I let my BF at the time write everything) Most places hade strict bans on advertising OF. It’s an over saturated market. My BF and I tried all day…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 08:34 PM
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Yup, as a kind-of tomboy, if I had a dollar for the amount of dudes who confided in me and wanted advice on how to get with one of my average-cute friends, while never even considering someone like me (average-ugly) I could probably afford a nose job to not be on the ugly side of average anymore (slight exaggeration of course). I just thought it was funny that I’d be talking to a dude who was in the 2-4 range chasing after a like 5-6 chick and would not be willing to date someone who looked like…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 02:16 PM
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Shit I need to go to Silicon Valley. Nerdy Asian guys are like my dream! If they’d be willing to settle for me that is. But I’m in Louisiana. So lot ghetto fucks and good ol southern boys. The nerd pool is small here and the ones that are nerdy don’t have good jobs because our big industry is oil and service (mostly restaurants in New Orleans) I have a boyfriend, he makes less than half what I make though. We make ends meet but moneys tight. I have a damn traffic ticket due in two days that I wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 05:27 AM
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See by this logic if Amy Schumer is a 4 then I must be a fucking 2. Are you sure you don't just find her annoying? Or she's a 4 for a celebrity? Like if I go to Wal-mart come home and jump on here and I see this picture: https://cdn.britannica.com/48/188648-050-D21AAED1/Amy-Schumer-2015.jpg I don't think "Yeah, she's def less attractive than MOST women"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:51 AM
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I mean beauty standards do vary from person to person (see all the arguing about the chart below) but there is general beauty standards such as: symmetrical features, morbid is obesity bad, clear skin is good, etc. I don't think that makes me not BP? Blue pill just means "we reject Red Pill ideology" it doesn't have any specifics. Just like atheism doesn't have any specifics, it just means "we reject the belief in a god".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:35 AM
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I stopped taking this post seriously when I heard him start complaining about "women not liking short guys" Most women just want their guy to be an inch or two taller than them. We say this over and over and over. But yall still are like "Nah, if you aren't at least 6'0 theres a large chance you'll die a virgin if you make under 6 figure" and it's just...I have no words. Anytime I see it I know the person saying it probably doesn't touch grass much.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:25 AM
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I would assume it's got to be your issue as well then (can't comment on the looks since I don't know what you look like)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:03 AM
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Whining on Twitter about fatphobia and refusing all dick that doesn’t come from Chad with a 6 pack are two different things. I live in Louisiana so there’s plenty of obesity here. I rarely see obese women with fit dudes. I just don’t see at all what you are saying. I do see some ugly dudes with hot chicks though (they are rich though)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 11:53 PM
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Insanity. I’m skinny and can’t get a man that will work a job full time without absolutely refusing to function in all other ways and literally all my friends date men with similar issues and all of us are in the average range. We don’t even know if anyone dating someone making close to six figures. We celebrate when they even get a job at all. Yay! At least we aren’t paying all the bills. I couldn’t fathom how you’d have trouble unless you are a total misogynist. Or like have major b/o, anger p…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 11:49 PM
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Hey I’m just reporting back based on what I’ve been told. 🤷‍♀️ I’ll be 33 next month and never once had a man that like made good money, paid any bills, bought me anything outside of birthday gifts or Christmas MAYBE Valentine’s Day (and my most my BF/late husband didn’t participate in that). I’ve always done everything myself and lived a pretty working class poor life. The handful of guys I did date, I’d end up supporting them more than the other way around. I’ve heard this “women just exist an…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 11:35 PM
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I must have struck a chord pretty close, eh? Point to the area where the OF model didn’t touch you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 11:20 PM
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Hey, I’m just repeating what I’ve been called my whole life. Two of the top voted comments on my thread before it was removed (for some reason my profile is NSFW, no clue why…never have posted nudes on the internet) was saying 3/10 and the other was a 4. Plus like I said I was made fun of in high school, etc. As for my style, nah. If you aren’t into stretched ears and tattoos we probably wouldn’t be compatible anyway lol. So that’s a good marker at least for me, personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 09:25 PM
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Yup, and that’s the issue. Why should an ugly man get a beautiful woman? Lol I blame the media for that one. Contrary to what this sub says, as an unattractive woman I know and have never expected to get a super conventionally attractive guy. And I don’t know too many other women waiting for “Chad” to pop in like the RP on here seem to think. I mean, there’s a few people I know they will do decent looking lazy man children who don’t work or clean but that’s about it. Rest of us know our place.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 08:57 PM
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Then we aren’t even talking about the same thing. I’m talking about COUPLES Not a chick fucking a dude 2-3 times on the DL. I don’t even know that many women who don’t at least want a BF. That’s gotta be a small amount of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 08:53 PM
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https://ibb.co/KXVzCY3 https://ibb.co/m0kJm6R No make up on but make up can’t fix my issues lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 08:52 PM
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And then complain and leave? Do you think “most women” just reluctantly fuck a cheater guy continuously? And never move on when he won’t commit?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 08:39 PM
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And they are complaining as in not satisfied. Like this proves my point lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 08:06 PM
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I don’t see many 8/10 guys going for 6/10 girls. If anything it’s the opposite. I rarely see good looking guys with ugly chicks. Unless you count skinny dudes with bbw fetishes. So if anything I’d say the opposite is true if a there is like a rich or famous 6/10 he could be pulling 9’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 08:03 PM
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I think we are delving into your subjective opinion here. The general consensus of my “amiugly” thread was I was about a 3-4, guys made fun of my in high school for my looks asking me out “as a joke” and when I argue with people on FB, the first thing they do when they start to lose is attack my looks and I have make up on in my profile picture. So I’m pretty familiar with being treated like an ugly person. So I’m gonna keep going with what most people think and let you have your opinion here in…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 07:31 PM
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Okay elaborate then…and no I don’t look at the flare and username of every person I respond to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 07:26 PM
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RP stuff? Of course I will interrupt in the least charitable way!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 06:29 PM
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Then respond to the general thread and not me then? I was talking about something different.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 06:27 PM
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Being good at make up doesn’t make you look better it just hides your face and I weigh 120 lbs lmao. I would require major plastic surgery to not be ugly. No not all of us can just become attractive lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 06:26 PM
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Women aren’t businesses, we are people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 05:10 PM
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Okay then why did you respond to my comment because I never said that? You are arguing with a strawman. I’m talking about women who fuck around and experiment when they are young. The husband finds out 2 decades later and then wants to do those things and she’s like “nah, I’m good”…never said ANYTHING about a woman not being as attracted to her husband lmao wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 05:09 PM
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…what? Is this adding to what I was saying or trying to argue with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 04:35 PM
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I mean there aren’t a lot of celebrity women who are ugly. We are usually ignored in most cases outside of like certain jobs if we are super good at it. Why is it weird that someone who is BP to believe leagues exist? Makes waay more sense than “women want a man that is value based on economics and game” or whatever it is that y’all say.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 04:33 PM
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Laughs in 3-4 looks range Most of my average looking friends date average looking guys. Dudes if no chick in the pretty zone wants you and you can’t settle for one of us idk what to tell you. I guess have fun alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 03:58 PM
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What? So women who have a baby shouldn’t be in a relationship? Women who go through a hormone balance shouldn’t be in a relationship? Women who have major illnesses or experience accidents shouldn’t be? Everyone goes through periods in their life where they aren’t DTF all the time. You sound 19 lmao. And to the second part, it’s called being tongue-in-cheek. I was just flipping your dumb comparison on you. But in all seriousness. Some women are “sexually adventurous” some aren’t. A lot of those …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 12:07 PM
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Yeah, no. People grow up and lose interest in that kind of stuff. What you are interested in at 20 and 35 can be two totally different things. If a man wants to pressure a woman into doing things she has no interest in doing he’s treating her like a prostitute not a romantic partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:01 AM
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I mean some people are more experiential and hornier when they are younger. But once you are in the boring stage of life, like living together, discussing curtains and taking the kids to Chuck E Cheese, is it that surprising the chick doesn’t want to do a threesome in a hot tub at a house party 30 minutes after they just dropped some Molly? Her days now exist of taking care of a house, kids and a husband. That kind of shit doesn’t even cross her mind anymore. It’s not always about her not being …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 05:07 PM
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It doesn’t work on most people. It works on a very specific type of person and that guy is probably good and eyeing those type of woman and approaching them. If some guy started to “neg” me if I was out at a bar or something. I’d probably just feel a bit self conscious then try to get as far away from they dude as possible. Like, if I was talking to a guy and he said something “you’d be a dime if you got lip fillers and a nose job” I’d just remember I have a big nose and go home, not want to fuc…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 04:35 PM
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Actually it is. I believe in my lifetime alone the percentage of people identifying as Christian in the US at least has decreased over 10% and I imagine that will only continue with time lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 05:35 AM
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And the women who don’t mind their man fucking other women want to fuck other men too. It’s only fair. Love how RP will just spit out the “but derrr man woman different!” when expecting to be able to fuck other women without her doing the same with others. And most of us are just like: nah!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 05:30 AM
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Failing economy resulting in astronomical cost of living and a huge divide between the rich and poor? multiple year long lock downs? hand held computers with high speed instant access to basically all media?? Nah, it’s def that one hashtag on Twitter used primarily by Hollywood…that’s what did it. /s (for anyone that is full blown autistic)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 05:22 AM
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Man oh man. I’m so sick and tired of people thinking all of us on the left expect every person to defy gendered stereotypes. That’s not the point. The point is to do your own thing. If a guy really wants to be a big burly beef boy that watches sports and fixes cars in his free time, 90% of the left is fine with that. We just don’t want you to play that role if you don’t want to. If we demanded men to all be “soy” or whatever strawman you project onto us. We’d still be adhering to gender norms, j…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 05:19 AM
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E-fucking-xactly, men are way more one track minded, well at least this generation. If they are happy right now, that’s all that matters. “Long term goals” don’t really cross their minds. Are there successful men? Of course, but I think at least with millennials and Zoomers, women take charge and plan waaaaay more.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 12:08 PM
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As the most frugal person I know, this made me laugh then look at my credit score and wonder how that’s possible as a woman. I know more chicks working two jobs with their gaming addicted BF’s than the opposite. But hey, I hang out in nerdy communities, so that’s probably skewed a bit I admit. But the comparison IMO is quite the opposite, so many men living entirely in the moment. The “uh I got cash and I want this” or the “oh I’ll apply to jobs later” *6 years later and the guys knocking on 30 …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 02:57 AM
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Nothing wrong with pointing out problems that are common amongst women if the behavior is look downable. Your problem is when you say "women do this" "women" don't have OF accounts. A very very very small minority of them do. And the ones who make enough money off of it to even cover one bill? A fraction of that miniority. So when I hear RP men complaining about "modern women and their OF" that leads me to think 1 of 2 things. Either you are sexist (create this caricature in your head and attack…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 12:26 AM
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Yeah for real, for some reason I bet actual charismatic, sociable dudes that lay a lot of pi[e, don't exact run to this sub Reddit to discuss it. If you hang around these parts where you know the terminology enough that it just rolls off the tongue, I bet you are at least somewhat of a dork. Just can't picture the dudebro at the gym posting a 5 paragraph "discussion" on hypergamy of the modern woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 12:13 AM
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So are you saying "red pill" is just the right wing word that "woke" used to be to the left (now the boomers have caught on, it has lost all meaning and woke just means anything left of center that I don't like)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 12:11 AM
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I mean, I have heard it used in non-dating fashion, but 95% of the time, yeah it's about sex and dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 12:10 AM
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Love this. If women lie then how would anyone know what their N count is?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:35 PM
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I love how anecdotes are fine when it reflects a woman acting in a way they expect. But if women here say we don’t act like that, it doesn’t matter because it’s just an anecdote. Is this the type of woman you want? A woman that talks and acts like this? No, then ignore her and move on. She is not all of us or even most of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:26 PM
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I never said you need to engage in intellectual debates to be interesting. I was mocking your source of "information" because you are just some dude who's had a few conversations with some chicks and have somehow used this experience to conclude general information about 4 billion+ which to me is funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 06:07 AM
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Thank you for providing insight into the mind of a calculated psychopath. It's like all these numbers going around. I will skip the insults for now and just stick with the "thanks for the entertainment" I just hope Miss Moral (though I have got to fuck with you a bit for that nickname, what the hell lmao?) is using you in a calculated fashion as well and hopefully isn't a blissfully unaware person who just isn't good at noticing you aren't a genuine loving person that cares for in a deep truly r…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 05:52 AM
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I did that myself not once, but twice and I will never do it again. It's hard being in a relationship with someone you aren't friends with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 05:38 AM
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Ah, what a great source for a intellectual debate, your personal conversations lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 05:24 AM
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Or maybe he just doesn't surround himself with vapid, self obsessed, emotionally shallow women? But it makes sense that a man of your caliber would be around women like that. You seem like the mirror male equivalent. If you have time to hang with "women" at all with the amount of time you spend "discussing dating analysis" online.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 05:21 AM
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"become interesting" how do you know "women" are "not interesting" This sub cracks me up sometimes. Imagine hanging out in certain spaces online for long enough this kind of stuff feels like its "GOTCHA" super smart evopsych.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 05:14 AM
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Oh boy it's time to do the "details" thing. I said "like" 5'7, not exactly. I said "shouldn't be an issue" as a general statement. The article says 69% of women are shorter than 5'4 so that includes women who are 4'11, 5'0 etc. And the only people wearing heals taller than an inch or two are strippers and those girls into those huge goth industrial boots. You would probably have it harder than a dude that is 5'7, never claimed otherwise. Just said that it's not impossible. There are tons of wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:06 AM
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Ah yes, because trends don't ever cycle in and out of style ever, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:01 AM
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Lol, quit acting like you know what I want like I’m some sort of bird that is drawn to specific features like peacocks. We all have our own tastes. I prefer guys who are below 6’. I dated a guy that was 5’4 and I preferred his height over the tallest guy I ever dated who was 6’0. The other three guys I dated where in the 5’7-5’10 range. If I could build my “perfect man” I’d make him 5’7. I don’t like huge height differences. I’m 5’2 so any guy over 6’ is basically disqualified because that shit …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 03:56 PM
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And I’m saying we aren’t evening thinking about “I wonder what his measurements are” Like if a guy is taller than us, good looking, smells good, dresses well, has a good career, a car, a place and knows how to flirt, I don’t think real actual women are like: hm, well, his friend is taller, let’s fight over who gets to fuck him instead.” or will turn down a guy that’s 5’8 with all that going on for the lanky 6’5 dude in the corner because: tall. Sure “tallness” is vaguely a good thing. But y’all …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 06:24 AM
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There are no universal signals. Some women will make eye contact with guys they are into, some won't. That's because different women react differently to different things, we are not a homogeneous blob nor Zelda dungeons to figure out. I am one of those if I can look you in the eye and talk to, I AM NOT attracted to you. If I am around a hot guy I will feel shy, I will feel that sense of butterflies, I will blush, I will stutter, I will look away. If your not attractive to me you're just some gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 05:48 AM
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I am gonna actually agree with the RP guy on this one. If a dude I was attracted to popped in with a comment like that, I don't care if my job was on the line if I didn't get milk tomorrow. No grocery list would have me grunting as a response to a dude I'd be into when he attempted to speak to me like that. I'd at least smile and giggle, if I wasn't in the position to have a full on conversation. I am sure there are some rare exceptions, because nothing is 100%, but I strongly believe that this …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 05:36 AM
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Idk how anyone born in the south is able to move and exist anywhere else lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 05:32 AM
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Well I guess we will just have to battle anecdotes like Pokemon then, idk what else to tell you. I have had tons of friends of both genders and have never once seen or heard any of them fussing about height "Oh I was gonna fuck him until he stood up and noticed he was only 5'8" sounds like some made up Reddit shit if I have ever heard it. Maybe find some different friends if these are the people you are really around.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:27 AM
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Try exiting your house.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:24 AM
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Then date a woman my height or shorter. There are plenty of women under 5'4. Not sure if you live in the US but according to this link 69% of women are under 5'4. Does that mean you have a chance to date all of them? Of course not, but your chances aren't none. https://askwonder.com/research/percentage-american-women-5-4-less-125lbs-groups-age-income-breakdown-smxg4ori3
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:23 AM
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Nah, I was actually a tomboy who had all male cousins and was always “one of the guys” like for real. I’m not pretty and not feminine so no orbiters, my high school group was mostly male, and in college and jobs I tended to chill with men more. If I had a dollar for every dude that felt it was alright to come to me because while I’m female I’m “in” so they felt cool venting to me and asking for advice. Im the opposite of sheltered. Sure my experiences are all anecdotes, but I’ve seen more than y…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 06:57 PM
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Weird, when I go out in public I see men and women talking to each other all the time, sitting together at tables, dancing in clubs, walking in the park. Where are these segregated gender areas? I’m curious. Outside of bathrooms of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 05:25 AM
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No, 99% of the time, men should not just walk up to strangers and start hitting on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:03 AM
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What? Do you think the entire left are the "it's not my job to educate you" blue haired people? There are shit tones of people on the left that want to debate. Shits all over Youtube.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:00 AM
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Well I know from my previous relationships I will never date: A guy without a job A guy with a drinkng problem When I was 19 or 20. If a decent looking guy had a personality that clicked enough with me that it gave me "butterflies" I'd date him, end of story. But after dealing with man children and alcoholism I will never date a nonself-sufficient man ever again.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 03:56 AM
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How many serious relationships have you had? Even just hearing someone say this just blew my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 03:50 AM
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Mid 2000's emo girls just called on their flip phones to argue with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 03:41 AM
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Actually men and women are equal. Sorry you are stuck in 1940, but there is nothing in our DNA that says "men can't wear make up" and if you have ever seen a man on a TV screen, he was wearing makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 03:41 AM
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Same, 32 and never heard of a dude complain about being short IRL in my life. Also, never heard a chick talk about desiring a tall guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 03:37 AM
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Most women prefer that their guy be a few inches taller than them. So as long as you are like 5'7, your height shouldn't be a major issue. This "ohhh waaah I'm not 6'4 so why even try?" shit exclusively exists in incel cirlces.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 03:36 AM
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That's true. I forgot every time I leave the house, the men and the women, they never interact!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 03:32 AM
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If you look at marriage like a transaction, a product that will "get old and stop working", sure why buy? Just rent, you can return it and get a newer model every few months and it will always work like it's brand new! But marriage is supposed to be about a partnership with another human being that you have a deep loving bond with. It's just the paperwork that legally binds you as a family, the commitment documented on paper. If you don't look at it that way, yeah, probably not a good idea to do…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 03:29 AM
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While I won’t deny there is a class war (there is most certainly a working class vs ruling) I still strongly strongly disagree with you that OLD is the “only” way women want to be met. Sure we don’t like cold approaches, but lukewarm and warm are still perfectly fine and most in this thread agree. Less than half the amount of couples out there these days meet through OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 07:55 PM
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How often do you go to bars or clubs? I have never seen such a thing in my life and my husband was a musician so I was in a lot of bars supporting his shows. This sounds comical. Most bars just show people mingling with each other. Never once seen a bunch of chicks crowded around a dude unless he was a literal like small celebrity or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:21 PM
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Ah yes. That has always been a thing. But there is a huge area between walking up to a girl on the street and OLD. All sorts of other ways to approach women IRL that aren’t cold approaches and I was more asking about those. I’m asking if it’s “unacceptable to approach a woman outside of OLD” like some people on here say.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:17 PM
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I mean you do you. But I’d avoid a dude like you. Of course y’all don’t come out and say it but we can usually tell when dudes have shit against women as a gender, and try my best to remain as far from those as possible. I tell men my N count though. It’s super high to some, others laugh and say it “ain’t shit” but I def want to know if a guy has an issue with women who’s had more than 1-3 partners. It’s his I know to bounce away as a friend or more.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 03:39 PM
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No, I have a boyfriend so that means I’m in a relationship. I was married before but my husband died. My BF and I’d relationship is lift like my husband and I’d was minus the paperwork. Single people are available and alone. I’m not. Marriage is a piece of paper that decides how you file taxes, not a measurement of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 12:28 PM
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And the only way a man will know if a woman has a high N count is if she tells you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 07:14 AM
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Of course not. But they will most certainly use a naturalistic fallacy to justify “why it’s okay” to win arguments online, which doesn’t mean shit once you get off Reddit. But hey! I guess they should be able to feel semi good somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 07:12 AM
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Yeah I was like 99% sure that is what was going on but just wanted to make sure I’m not like some old fogey. I thought something like more than half of people meet through a “warm or lukewarm” approach and this idea that no woman wants to ever be spoken to romantically or sexually outside of Tinder or Hinge was just incel delusion but wanted other opinions to make sure I haven’t completely lost my mind. While OLD isn’t as taboo as it was 10 years ago, it’s not like the pendulum has swung that fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 06:59 AM
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See I’d call that a warm approach because being in bar basically means strangers are probably gonna talk to you. You’re literally in an empty room with just music, alcohol and other people. But I’ll settle for “lukewarm” like someone else called it. I def wouldn’t put hitting on a girl in a bar and at the bus stop in the same category.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 02:03 AM
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I rarely hear those things and would roll my eyes in the face of a girl complaining that she got hit on in checks notes A BAR! Sounds like humble bragging if you ask me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 01:58 AM
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Wait do you think if there is a bar with a 50/50 split in gender. All of the women are crowded around like 5 dudes?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 01:42 AM
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I’m not saying they can’t be. Just doesn’t seem like it would be super common. Maybe if they are new to a town, or are socially awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 01:39 AM
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Exactly because most social events usually require having a couple of friends and I feel like the guys who say this don’t really have friends and if they do, most of their communication occurs on Discord while gaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 01:38 AM
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Since I’m OP I’ll break it down a bit more OLD: goes without explaining, meeting through the internet. Warm approach: meeting through social gatherings, proxy friends, clubs, school, college events, bars, or clubs Cold approach: going up to a person on the subway, the gym, the grocery store, walking down the street Some might say a bar and a grocery story both involves going up to strangers! The key is: going to a bar or a social event has the intent to socialize. Going to the gym or store is go…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 01:33 AM
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My dude, if you “touched grass” you would absolutely learn unless you live in like Portland or something that these screaming feminists are a vocal minority. There are still hundreds of thousands of normal ass women out there that would look like you like you’re nuts if you ask them if they think we live in a rape culture. This whole phenomenon is very Hollywood/online/sociology department
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 01:12 AM
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I’m pretty sure most hot guys fuck hot girls and most average girls fuck average guys. Only uneven looks matched I’ve ever seen was hot girls with ugly guys but they are rich. Where do y’all get this info from????
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 12:59 AM
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The way people got laid when I was a teen was “through friends” people would have parties or be apart of different types of clubs. For you it looks like you have the world broken into cold approaching and the internet leaving out how most people have gotten laid since the beginning of time, through social connections that are formed by being a part of different communities.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 12:29 AM
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I didn’t say “unattractive” I said socially awkward. So I can be with someone that is similar to me….my partner…my equal. Very sad you read that and your first thought is “ah she wants someone to manipulate” Jesus Christ…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 10:47 PM
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Sure 5’4 might have some trouble. But that’s quite the jump from 6’2, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 07:16 PM
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Wait is this a real question? All men that are 5’6 don’t have any matches. Ever. Every single dude that height is just single. No married 5’6 dudes. Never. I actually don’t exist I’ve learned (my Dad is 5’5, since he couldn’t get laid due to his height)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 07:14 PM
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Yes! This is exactly it!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 02:23 PM
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What is significant about the number 42?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 01:23 PM
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Because height is not nearly as important as y’all think it is. I know a shit ton of attractive guys that have good personalities (confident, dress well, know how to flirt) that are like 5’7-5’10 that a dripping in bitches. RP/BP/incels took a handful of screenshots of a few girl’s Tinder profiles that said “no guys under 6 foot” and have acted liked this was some sort of law carved in stone that applies to 95% of chicks thinking we all demand or strongly prefer a guy over 6’00. That is a straig…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 01:17 PM
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Ah okay, yes. I could maybe get behind that but still only like 75% because if done right it still could work. Just rarely…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 02:53 AM
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Lmao, oh god. Screen shoted for the next time I argue with the men obsessed with height thing. I’d never date a dude that’s that tall. Anything over 6 is too tall. And RP has lied to you. We aren’t obsessed with tall guys. We just want em at least a solid 2-3 inches taller than us. A small minority of women insist a man be ridiculously tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 02:50 AM
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I hope you are talking about getting laid not dating. And most smart chicks would see that and think “man this dude is just reading off a script to what I think I like” But yeah, what do you mean by “don’t approach women IRL, like at all? Anywhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 02:47 AM
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A lot of people don’t want to use dating sites at all. Some people think it’s still kinda lame and would rather meet someone in personal where you know if you have chemistry immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 02:44 AM
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Not in my experience but care to share what you mean by “don’t approach women”?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 02:42 AM
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I would assume they work retail or don’t work at all full NEETin like a propsr shut in.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 02:40 AM
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Because it depends on what “talking to women” means like my post said why is that so hard for you to get? Are we saying approaching a woman in anyway outside a dating app or just going up to a woman in the middle something like while she has her headphones in on the feed mill. That and chafing up a girl at a bar are two whole different ball parks.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 02:35 AM
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So interesting, may I ask where you live I’m in Louisiana so we were hard shut down for mine 2-3 months then soft shut down for maybe another 6, after that it was business as usual minus some big festivals in New Orleans. So when I hear about people being inside for heats it makes my head spill. People here just didn’t care about Covid and the second the restrictions were lifted most tried to go back to normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 12:57 AM
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That's exactly what I figured. Hot chicks with a large social scale will still date like the hot chicks in my gen did. I really doubt even those women are meeting the majority of their dates on apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 12:31 AM
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I def knew you were a zoomer when you said "unalive" instead of kill. I remember I was asked why another young person on Reddit used it and instead of being like "Oh yeah, I forgot this isn't [insert whatever social media doesn't allow that]" she got all defensive and said the word "kill" makes her feel uncomfortable and how dare I police her when I asked her why when it isn't anything remotely close to a slur. Hopefully me LIGHTLY teasing you on that one won't make you just as angry lol. Becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 12:24 AM
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Generation Z. People born after 197ish up until I want to say maybe 2010?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 12:18 AM
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From my understanding I’m about a 4, so slightly less attractive than average, but not quite ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 11:47 PM
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I actually prefer a somewhat socially awkward dude. Seems like my equal. Some super suave, highly confident dude probably has like 17 other women in line. I want a weirdo that is talking to me and me only because he doesn’t really have a whole lot of other options much like myself. (Keep in mind most of my single life dating apps didn’t exist) and my weird ass back the def never “dated” more than one guy at a time. I know it’s not cheating unless there is a title. But I’d just prefer a guy that …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 11:12 PM
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I mean to an extent. But it’s also about finding someone that has a similar personality and interests. Did you really read that and only take away looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 09:38 PM
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Ah so that must be my problem!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:15 PM
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My issue is when I was on dating apps I only liked maybe 5 profiles. A lot of dudes holding up fish, guys in nice suits, dudes that are buff with shirtless pics in the gym. I like me a skinny, non hairy short, goth, nerd, metal head, “art” dude and that’s at least a 4 in looks. Those are just really rare. And a lot of the ones I came across I didn’t even match lol. And then, he might seem nice. But if we meet, I have no clue if I will feel that “butterflies in stomach” almost magnetic like feeli…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:50 PM
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My issue is when I was on dating apps I only liked maybe 5 profiles. A lot of dudes holding up fish, guys in nice suits, dudes that are buff with shirtless pics in the gym. I like me a skinny, non hairy short, goth, nerd, metal head, “art” dude and that’s at least a 4 in looks. Those are just really rare. And a lot of the ones I came across I didn’t even match lol. And then, he might seem nice. But if we meet, I have no clue if I will feel that “butterflies in stomach” almost magnetic line feeli…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:04 PM
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I’m saying FNF brings on a very specific type of woman as a representative of “women” when there are all types of women out there. Are there women IRL that act just like those women? Yes. Are there women outside of FNF that aren’t walking “Instathot” stereotypes? Also yes. There are many types of women. But the podcast doesn’t typically have any other type of woman that isn’t drunk and dumb on the show. That is all I am saying, it’s not this deep thing. Not even sure what exactly you think I’m w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:25 PM
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I mentioned a stereotype because I thought maybe you wouldn’t be a pedantic bad faith debater and would know what I mean (several other people do btw, this is a very common criticism by men and women) but I was wrong lol. You are just trying to corner me on dumb shit with any “gotcha” you can. So you are either autistic or you know exactly what I mean. And people criticize people more news at 11. Women are women’s biggest haters, lol what?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:48 PM
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Maybe stop thinking of some as a homogenous blob, that’s a good start. We aren’t saying all of those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 05:33 PM
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Nothing wrong with drinking, did I say that? No I said that meaning it’s probably not a good state to be in to debate complicated ideas. And you know damn well there is a difference between having social media and being an “instathot” come on, stop arguing in bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:46 PM
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What girls are going on dates with dudes then friendzone them? Maybe pic hitting on a chick with hard flirting after idk an actual date? Maybe not 6 months after pretending to be all buddy buddy or within the first two messages. There’s aren’t the gotcha’s think they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:53 AM
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I am a full blown BP woman and I think the "safety" thing is BS. A crazy man that will attack you for rejecting him will do so if you ghost him too. It's just a cop out to avoid confrontation. And I have been stalked before. If you have been seeing someone and then you just randomly cease contact with no explanation, youre a dick. And if you think so much otherwise, congrats, you commodified dating. Everyone deserves the basic respect of knowing you aren't interested anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:24 AM
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Here is an anecdote to counter yours. I have ALWAYS struggled to find a decent boyfriend. I got used a few times as a rebound in high school (not sexually never got that far, guys would hang out with me and we'd chat on AOL instant messanger). Finally, got a guy when I was 17 about to graduate high school. He was horrible, very unkind, never paid for anything (actually used to berate me for not spending money on him) dumped him after about a year or so. After that over the next year and a half, …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:04 AM
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Ah yes, the dude that when debating women only chooses drunk Instathot types that can't have an IQ over 85. Nah, god I hope this is a bait post.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 01:49 AM
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Women who constantly post those "treat me like a queen" style text posts. Dating is supposed to be a way for two people to see if they have the same goals and natural chemistry. It is not so you can be whined and dined. Sure it's cool for a guy to pay. But you are a person, not a queen with a slave.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 01:27 AM
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I've always hated the last one. Maybe if it's phrased that way, but I don't get the online hate for women who have mostly male friends. When I was little, the girls at my school made fun of me because of the clothes my mom dressed me in, the fact that I liked video games, and that my mom never did my hair. I did have one girl neighbor friend, but most of her friends (all except one who also became my friend by proxy) had the same criticisms. She was quite popular at her school (she went public, …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 01:21 AM
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Online Behavior: - Hanging out in the manosphere and saying anything in support of RP or BP, liking Andrew Tate, commonly following any sort of PUA (I don't care if he watched a video or two because he was feeling unconfident once or twice), or unironically claiming to be" alpha" - Being one of "those guys" and DMing and flirting with LOTS random women on nondating apps. Bonus "nope, I'm GTFO right now" points: if he literally starts off DM's with something sexual or flirty. No issue following b…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 01:06 AM
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I had a very short one of these my junior year in high school. I lost my virginity to a guy a party because all my other friends where getting BF/GF and I couldn't seem to keep a guy's interest for longer than a month. My "hoe phase" continued until I finally got a BF my senior year. So during those 18 months I had sex with 5 guys. But since I was 17 (I will be 33 in May) I have only slept with 6 more and all of those men I was either dating or intending to date. So I guess I fit the mold for th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 01:02 AM
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I think you’ve got it backwards though. You think most ugly women think they are hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:15 PM
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Was thinking the same thing. Did you see that viral video of that dork accosting a black dude just chilling with his white GF? This guy gives me big that guy vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:12 PM
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Lol what! I’m not even super ugly. Im like a 4 and I def know it. Where the hell do you people get these beliefs? Is it because you saw a couple of fat chicks post sassy memes about deserving the world? I’m my experience sub 5 women know exactly what we are. We see how the world treats hot women and we don’t get that. Hell I know a lot of fat women that area estatic when any man isn’t just desperately trying to fuck on the DL and want to go on an actual date.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:10 PM
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No one is saying men don't choose hot women. The thing is rich men have rich social circles and usually end up choosing a hot chick with rich parents and not the hot chick who works at Wal-mart and parents live in a trailer park. You don't see many like, sons of politicians or other high status people marrying across classes like a rich guy marrying into a working class poor family. Just go to a random wedding photographers Instapage, or look at some statistics. It is just how it is. I don't car…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:00 AM
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It blows my mind with all the info available out there clicks away that debunk this basic myth that people still think that this is how you get rich. The chances of you "making to the top by working hard" is insanely small. Most wealth is generational. Sure a few people get lucky, but most people who bust their ass for a company at most get a promotion to middle management somewhere. Not a lot of people out there that came from poverty, starting out as a cart pusher and making it to CEO. But the…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 10:45 PM
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So I can’t find love because I think it’s okay for other women to sleep around? Lmao okay dude. Btw, I’ve found it before and after he died I was able to find it again. My late husband nor current BF does not care that I think it’s wrong to judge people based on their N counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:17 PM
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Nah, I’m actually on the asexuality spectrum. I don’t particularly care about sex. I’ll have it with my s/o because I care for them. Bur that’s it. If I’m single I can go months without it and not even notice. But it’s called basic empathy and being stable in my own skin. I can defend things that don’t affect me directly. You should maybe see a therapist to possibly learn how to maybe work on being able to feel empathy yourself!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:14 PM
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Oh my, it’s 2023 and you think that’s true? My I ask how old you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:11 PM
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Wow, no sarcasm at all, but dude legit it’s cool that you just conceded like that. Very rare on Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:32 AM
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And how would a man tell if a woman wasn’t a virgin 50,000+ years ago? Also height, just like man preferring blonds or big boobs is an observable physical preference. And women don’t obsess about height as much as y’all say. There is a big difference between a guy saying “I don’t like fat chicks” and a guy saying “I only want to date a virgin” lol those things aren’t comparable and it blows my mind that you think they could be.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:26 AM
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I guess it depends on the insecurity and person. Here is a some reasons I got from a simple Google search. None of these seem good lmao. https://www.choosingtherapy.com/insecurity/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:20 AM
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Not if the woman plans on being the homemaker. Seems like a solid trade off if she is doing the share of the house work and takes care of the kids, no? These are roles in a relationship which is something completely different than discussing someone's past, I don't see how that is comparable. And FYI, I've personally literally never dated a man that made more than me, so I am hoping that was just an example and not a sexist assumption that I not only expect but demand a guy make more than me. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:10 AM
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And I have experienced the exact same thing but from the female perspective. You think men don't storm off angry when they are proven wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:05 AM
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I will believe that when I see it, which I have not and I frequent this sub quite often. We tend to take issue with hypocrisy. And I am willing to bet real money there are waaay more RPers that say "but men and women DIFFERENT lock/key analogy" than you will see BP shaming men with low N counts wanting a woman with a similar sexual history.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:21 AM
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I'll agree that "logic" generally doesn't matter when it comes to attraction. I can come across a nice guy that checks off all my "boxes" and not feel chemistry with him, yeah, I will agree to that. But, that isn't what your original statement was. You said: Logic NEVER works with women. Then went into a spiel about how arguments are always about emotion with us when that isn't always the case. Actually it seems quite personal and for whatever reason you are projecting your own personal experien…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:18 AM
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Oh yeah, of course. I would never go out on a date with a man to just "have a good time" if I want a finite relationship with someone, I can always chill with a friend. Developing feelings for a person when I know there will at some point be a split is just setting myself up for heart break. Now I've had a few ONS back in high school or whatever. But I don't put those in the same category as dating someone. Those situations always just organically happened at house parties with alcohol involved.…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:02 AM
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Of course it is! Why the hell would we shame a virgin dude for wanting his equal lmao? And yes, I am well aware a dude can have one or two partners. Those dudes tend to get some light heat. But our main focus is on the guys who ideally want as high N count as possible for themselves but very low to 0 for their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:53 PM
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Not all generalizations are equal. There is a huge difference between the two statements: "men are attracted to women" because while, yes, there are hundreds of thousands of gay men out there, most men are indeed straight. And "women hate logic" every single person who doesn't have a severe developmental disability uses logic in some way shape or form. So your sweeping generalization was a bad one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:50 PM
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Because we are in a sub that exists to debate this sort of stuff? Why can you even see this message if you apply this logic?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:31 PM
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Yep, my personal favorite was when I was discussing the "women only want men taller than 6'0" discourse, I said that I simply ask that a guy be a solid inch or two taller than myself and as a 5'2 woman, that's not asking much. I was then "gotcha'd" for DARING to exclude men under 5'3 from my dating pool (which was moving the goal post pretty damn far considering the original statement was "women won't date men under 6'0" lmao). But oh yeah, it's the poor dudes who've had multiple partners yet ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:27 PM
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He's making shit up. The "virgin" discourse is absolutely a huge thing online. Men post those opinions on social media that is completely accessible to women. Hell 90% of the time I have heard about this topic, it was here, which is a sub literally designed to debate these things, and I don't see a "no women allowed" rule in the sidebar lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:23 PM
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How is "the message being common" retort any of the statements that the person you are responding to made? It's a common message because it's fucking accurate lmao. Expecting a virgin woman when you've fucked half a town's worth of women is not only hypocritical but probably based in either some serious misogyny or just a very very deep insecurity. It is not "just a preference", liking blonds is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:21 PM
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Claims to be a fan of "logic", then makes an entirely inaccurate sweeping generalization about 4 billion+ people, lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:11 PM
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Or some men are insecure and instead of face that insecurity and maybe unpack why the idea of being with a woman who has had a different dick in her at some point bothers him, he decides to use rationalization as a coping mechanism. So he goes to Google, finds that study, then acts like a hollier-than-thou, facts/logic guy on Reddit when challenged by strangers on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:08 PM
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To me my main contention with the "virgin" discourse is all about the hypocrisy. I am willing to bet money all those "muh preferences" RP guys here would seethe in anger if they saw a morbidly obese woman on Tinder refusing to date or fuck a dude that didn't have a 6 pack. Those same men would probably seethe a lot less if they saw the same demand but the chick who was making the demand was a personal trainer who was extremely in shape herself. So sure, "men are allowed to have preferences", but…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:04 PM
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It's just revenge fantasy bullshit. I am a woman who is in my 30s and is not currently married. I am not collecting cats nor am I suicidal (well anymore, I was kinda close when I lost my husband and then best friend basically back to back) but now days I am fine and am not losing much sleep over a collection of internet guys who thinks because I have a few gray hairs and won't be having bio kids (I was CF when I was 19 and I am CF now) that I am undatable to anyone, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:51 PM
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The only real "wall" I can lend any credence to is the "biological reproduction" wall. I can totally see how some sort of trad dude (or any guy that knows for sure he wants multiple children from his sperm) who wants to take it slow, as in date for multiple years, live together for a few years, get married and eventually have kids, might rule out women over 30, but that's not all men. Child free men exist, sterile men exist, and men who already had a kid/kids and doesn't want anymore exist out t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:47 PM
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Bruh, if all you dudes LBC obsession was like your example, I'd take no issue with that. Having over 200 partners by age 22 seems like some self harm, sex addiction bullshit. The type of woman that is trying to cram as many dicks as possible in her cooter in order to feel validated as a person, collecting belt notches like Pokemon cards. But lots of dudes in here say shit like "anyone woman with a body count higher than 3 is damaged" or whatever and it's just unhinged nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:36 PM
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Women obsessing over tall guys. I knew plenty of dudes that were like 5'7-5'8 that were drowning in pussy. I've also had a few guy friends that were taller than 5'10 or so and didn't loose their virginity until their mid 20's. This "must be a 6'4 Chad to get anyone" is just doomer incel fiction. Sure, the overwhelming majority of women would ideally like their partner to be taller than them, but most of us just ask it be a few inches so "we aren't taller than them with heals." So me, I'm 5'2, so…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:29 PM
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I personally would never "talk" (what people my age call going on dates with someone pre being an official couple) more than one dude at a time, yes even after one date. For me being attracted to a man is rare. Having full on butterflies for one is even rarer. I am 32, and I've legit had butterflies for a guy under 10 times in my life total. If I am getting to know a guy, sharing my life story, texting him late at night, looking forward to a date, staring at his social media pictures (lol cringe…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:25 PM
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My personal solution to this is by not having children at all. I couldn't imagine having kids when being around them would be unpleasant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:17 PM
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I am curious what this means. Do you think women intentionally have kids with men that will bail and think "it's cool, the govs got me." Or by "abuse" do you mean "just happen to be the largest demographic of people on government assistance besides the old and disabled."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 01:22 AM
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Its nether because there aren’t “rules” different things work on different women because we are all actual human beings with our own preferences and aren’t Zelda puzzles they can be figured out with a guide. Each and every person is different. Me personally I’d rather be friends a bit first so the crush can build. While I know if I’m attracted to you or not instantly (it’s black and white for me. I either feel the chemistry or I don’t) some extremely rare cases I’ve found myself crushing on a gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:27 PM
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I commend your trolling. But I will not be taking the bait that is "I don't listen to women" on a thread directed at women lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 04:52 AM
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You should probably stop assuming everyone wants to be a parent. It is a common choice but it is a choice, not an assumed default for everyone. I've dated men that I didn't have feelings for in the past. It's difficult, it's like I am going through the motions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 04:17 AM
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lmao of course they posted a fucking Wheat Waffles video. Ah, yes, the 21 year old black pill YTer.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 04:15 AM
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Did you know some people DON'T want kids lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 04:11 AM
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Okay? That’s not what I said. I said the woman that get the kind of attention RP say we all get are super hot chicks. As in “500 DMs” “lines of orbiters” etc If you want to argue with someone saying “men will only date porn star hot women” I suggest you find a woman saying that and argue with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 05:29 PM
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No, there’s no difference 🙄 I was just using myself as an example. There are woman who are better looking than me that have a similar experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:32 PM
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True. I’m about a 4 (some people put me higher and a few even put me lower) and my boyfriend’s brother’s soon-to-be-ex wife is 7-9 (depending on your taste) But she is waaaaay more insecure than me. She won’t leave the house without make up. She wanted him to constantly post her photos to let people know she’s hot. She already got two plastic surgeries and wants more. The second they got in a fight she would run to the closes man to get validation, it was a mess. Their marriage lasted 6 months. …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 02:51 PM
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To me serial monogamy is defined as the people that lose interest in the person after the honeymoon phase wares off. So this could be 5-6 months, or it could be close to 2 years depending on how strong the chemistry is and how often they see each other. So anyone that’s “totally in love with so-n-so” and then 8 months to 1.5 years later they are posting the same exact quotes but with a different person. I agree with OP though. I’d say whether date a guy that had 20 non-committed flings over a gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 02:45 PM
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Lol, yeah, nice try.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 02:40 PM
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Because yall don’t clarify that you are only talking of women who are like 6+ on the looks scale. I wouldn’t give a crap if y’all simply added “hot” to every blanket statement that is made about women around here: “women won’t settle for a man that makes under 100k and isn’t above 6 foot”, “woman have hundreds of guys in their DMs” “women don’t need to work, they have a choice of several betas who are willing to support them” which is not true. Like at all. Not only is that not most women, it’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 02:14 PM
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All of Reddit (not just female subs) always tell people to “break up.” Redditors don’t take into account peoples history and chemistry. They see an issue and say “ew toxic, end it” It’s so predictable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 08:37 PM
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Dating to me either mens having a boyfriend “I was dating so-n-so back in college” Or hanging out with a guy that you are thinking of (and he feels the same) about being BF/GF in the future. A ONS could be a days too. I’d include that, going on dates but the end goal is just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 08:35 PM
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Because you probably aren’t porn star hot. I’m all of those things too. And no shade towards women who do this, but I dress fairly plainly and never post like cleavage pics on social media and am completely ignored too. The only way I was able to get a guy was through OLD and I didn’t have the “hundreds of likes” like men claim we all do. I had maybe 10-20 before I deleting it and officially dating my current BF. As for normal social media, I have close to 700 friends on FB and if you looked thr…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 08:22 PM
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Maybe it’s because I’m older but even though OLD is bigger than it used to be, I feel like most people I know still find their partners IRL. At least the decent looking sociable ones do I’ve heard a few guys say that they’ve heard women say it’s “problematic” to approach women in any other way and that shit blows my fucking mind. I still know tons of people that find it kinda cringe and desperate to even have a dating profile. And there is a generation of women (supposedly, thus could be another…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 08:15 PM
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I still like all those things but hanging around 18-20s just feels weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:42 PM
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Just because we don’t like something doesn’t mean we think it should be banned. I would strongly discourage a woman under 21 jumping into a serious relationship with a man over 35, but banning it? Of course not. Hell, she will learn that this dude is only with her for her looks and ignorance to being an adult. Hopefully she will get out before he knocks her up though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:23 PM
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Just another bull shut concept that fits a small snippet of the population. I’m 32 and have only “dated down” never dated a guy that made more than me. And no, I wouldn’t instantly leave my man if a rich dude hit on me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:19 PM
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Because virginity isn’t a characteristic, it’s an action. And go ahead and want a virgin, you’re just a massive hypocrite (assigning a value to a woman based on her sex partners while you yourself can have as many as you want) and you’ll have to learn to deal with people calling spades spades, because having standards like that is gonna get you picked on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:17 PM
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First boyfriend: through my high school job. Second boyfriend: Myspace (lol I’m old) Husband: my high school crush, confessed at a party while I had a buzz 5 years after I graduated, got married he died when I was 28. Current boyfriend: Tinder (he wasn’t holding up a fish, didn’t look like a gangsta, had that he liked Zelda and animals in his profile)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 10:46 PM
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I personally don’t but can’t speak for other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 07:17 PM
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It really depends. Women tend to gain a little weight as they get older especially if they have multiple kids. To expect them to always have a flat stomach and the body of a 19-year-old is pretty unrealistic. But at the same time, if you are making enough money that she can stay at home. I don’t think it’s unreasonable if you request she stay in the normal weight range. Especially if you offer to pay for gym membership or a personal trainer. Now if you don’t make shit, so she’s got to work full …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:12 PM
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I mean are you walking up to random women out in public? Also how hot are these women? Because to think anytime a dude speaks to you he must want to fuck you is some hot girl shit. For me. A man has to specifically state that he finds me sexually attractive in order for me to believe that he does want anything other than friendship. I’ve had a lot of guy friends over the years and only dealt with the “unrequited love” thing once MAYBE twice.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 08:18 PM
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Because it’s all about the “revenge fantasy.” RP are collectively angry at women (like some feminists are at men) so they tell themselves these things to feel better. Of fucking course there are men out there that want to and only date young chicks. None of us BPers debate that. I’m sure there is a decent chunk of the population of men like that. But it’s not all or even most. No, it’s not “just science or evo psych that all men want a chick under 25. Yes a lot of men want families but women can…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:16 PM
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Oh, 1970? You do you lol. By “older” I meant over 30+ so I’m more like 93+. The oldest I’d go is 10+ years older than me so 1980 at the oldest.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 12:58 PM
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Yeah it’s really just a double standard. They acknowledge casual sex can be fun, but they dehumanize their partners by not allowing them to have that same fun. They would rather be a hypocrite than marry a “deflowered” woman, because they are really insecure that their wife might have had better dick before them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 04:02 AM
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My boyfriends older brother would. He only dates Insgram hot chicks, parades them around like trophies then surprise Pikachu faces when the relationship implodes after a few months. He gave my boyfriend shit for settling for “average looking me” meanwhile, we have a totally normal functioning relationship be together for years, no FB flurrying drama and I don’t threaten to leave him when he doesn’t “spoil me like the princess I am” (that’s a literal quote from one of his exes lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 03:59 AM
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I’ve never been so happy to be older. Luckily this shit is mostly overtaking younger guys. All I know is if I was single and went out on a date with a dude if I found out he was unironically a Tate fan or identified as RP, I would 100% end the date no matter what. If I’m going out with a guy it’s because I’m looking for a life partner and there is no way I could be life partners with a man that thinks like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:45 AM
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Yeah and I can shit diamonds.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:30 PM
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Yeah, I am not risking ruining my 3+ year relationship to prove a point to you random Reddit dudes. I know what my experience was in the past. I am telling you. You can choose to believe me or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 01:04 AM
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Men and women are friends all the time. Maybe not hyper fem chicks with super manly dudes but everyone group or friends I ever had was mixed men and women. It will be hard there will be feelings” I’m 32 and maybe had feelings for 5-7 people ever. Y’all really want to fuck every single person if you are in a room with them long enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 04:46 PM
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Well considering I’m not under 5’0 then no, I’m not a midget. But men under 5’0 are. And who said people aren’t shallow to an extent. That’s perfectly fine. Just like y’all wouldn’t want a 300 lb person. The point is how strict those standards are. And we are just gonna disagree with the terminology on the fat discussion. Chubby: BMI in the overweight range Fat: BMI in the obese range. I get a man not wanting a fat woman, but a woman who has a bit of pudge and no thigh gap? Seems a bit over the …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:54 PM
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Chunky =/=obese, but okay. And a guy needs to be taller than me because I don’t find midgets physically attractive. It’s my personal standards just like I’m not attracted to men over 6 foot. That’s too tall to me, they feel like giants. You’re not suggesting that me expecting my man to be between 5’3-6’0 is unrealistic right? That’s most men, lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:42 PM
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Why are you responding to me with this? I’m fine with short guys as long as they are taller than me which isn’t saying much because I’m only 5’2. And when did I say anything about obesity?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 06:32 AM
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Not to mention inaccurate. I have a lot of the above issues and it has manifested in the opposite way, very low libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 04:36 AM
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Teacher student relationships, boss employee relationships, maybe like a large content creator with a lot of social pull with a smaller creator, also situations like where one person is working and their place is in their name. Situations where one person can disrupt the lives of the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 04:24 AM
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I mean you can't force change, but you can uncondition yourself over time, are at least some can. Take for example a shut-in incel, he might start having super high standards since he is only looking at carefully airbrushed Insta models and hentai. And when the chunky chick on Discord shows interest in him he scoffs. But I'd be willing to bet if he took a break from the internet for awhile and started socializing those "real" chicks might start to become attractive to him. You can say the same f…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 04:13 AM
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Video games aren’t heroin or alcohol. You can play in moderation. It’s not all or nothing, you don’t have to quit gaming. There is nothing wrong with picking up a controller for an hour or two in the evenings to unwind. The problems start when you get home from work, go straight to your computer/system and do it all night and the same with your day off. Next thing you know your only “socializing” on Discord. Games are supposed to be a way to kill some time, it’s not supposed to be a substitute f…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:38 AM
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For the record, I’d mock this fictional 4’11 chick for “only dating men over 6’3” just as much as I’d mock the dude who wants a virgin. Be insanely picky if you want, but I’m gonna laugh at you while you sit at home alone with this insane standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 01:59 AM
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100% agree. I live in a new city at 32 and I’m big sad not having friends to hang with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 10:52 PM
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Uh, no…I’m a long term relationship person ONLY.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 07:39 PM
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So because you personally haven’t seen it means it doesn’t exist? Go to relationship advice subreddit, you’ll see it there. I’ve dated three men personally that I had this problem with. I used to be like: I date a guy for looks and personality I don’t care about if he’s working or not. But now I don’t do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:09 PM
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Yes! So many man children that literally just sit around and game all day, play around on the internet, drugs, drinking, etc. No bathing, no chores, no career ambitions. I hear you guys talk about "chicks won't fuck dudes making under 100k" and that's something I've NEVER experienced. In my groups, we are just happy if they can manage to not walk out of or get fired from ANY job. I am in my 30's and my bar is "please work full time and keep your eyes open for a job if you make less than $10 an h…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 12:15 AM
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Yeah, nothing like hugging a guy and making eye contact with his nipples. That's not for me! In high school, there were a few tall dudes, they were most certainly not the ones the girls liked. All the popular guys were somewhere in between like 5'7-6'0.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 12:10 AM
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Guy friends were east for me because as an average looking tomboy most guys would just drowning in sexual tension around me. I’m only attracted to maybe 5-10% of men in general so I didn’t have issues having crushes on most guys I’m around.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 10:19 PM
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I mean…that IS what normal/average women date. Y’all are looking at those Barbie doll Insta chicks and are stomping around like a toddler because super hot chicks want super hot dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 07:30 PM
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It’s because y’all saw a couple screen shots of picky Tinder girls and think we all demand men to be 6’0+. That’s literally not true. I’m 5’2 so I’d obviously want a guy that’s like 5’7-5’8 over a dude that’s like 6’4. I hear y’all talk a bunch of shit like we want larger dudes “to protect us” or whatever like we are still cave people or something lol. Never heard of the obsession with tall men in my whole life until I started debating in RP circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 07:27 PM
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Not every women thinks hyper masculinity is attractive. Just like if a dude is gonna be into me, it’s because he’s cool with tomboy women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 07:24 PM
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Wait did I write this? The tall thing is the only contention I have (I prefer guys around medium height so the 5’7-5’9 range since I’m 5’2) but other than that, spot on! Especially the no facial hair, long hair thing. YES!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 07:23 PM
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judge for yourself I’ve always felt like the definition of average, not pretty enough to be hot not ugly enough to be ugly. I’m 5’2, 110 pounds and will be 33 in May.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 12:57 PM
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…and? I never said women had it just as hard. I said that’s a gross exaggeration. That’s like saying: Americans are all very well off, the average American makes 250k a year. And someone else says: uh, no, like 50% of the US population makes less than 50k. And then the original person says: well that’s still more than poor kids in Africa. It’s like yeah, but that doesn’t make the original claim accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 12:52 PM
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I have had Instagram since 2012 and never have gotten a random message. My profiles on private and I don’t post slutty photos but I’m still a non obese woman. We aren’t all just swimming in dick. After my husband died, only one acquaintance hit me up and he was married looking for a third. And I have almost 700 people on FB. Women in general have it easier than men, but y’all exaggerate what the average (not Instagram hot) chick goes through.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 12:35 PM
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It being easier and getting “500 messages” is not the same thing. I was only single for maybe 6 months of my life when dating apps existed. I tried one out for maybe 2 months or so once and probably got 15-20 messages total over two months.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 12:33 PM
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The average girl gets 500 message, lol. What in the world do you think an average woman is? I get like 3-5 “random DM’s” a year and I’m like the definition of “average.” The only chicks getting 500 messages on regular ass social media are models.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 03:20 AM
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Lol no.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 04:46 PM
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I would lose interest in a man for fighting another man at all. Win or lose. I guess in some extreme situations it's fine and if you are being attacked, not much you can do but fight back. But guys who get into fights to settle differences, hard pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 02:01 AM
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I'd consider a loner a red flag. One of those guys that is just content sitting in front of a computer all day and never socializing with anyone isn't going to flow with me. I am in my 30's so my social life isn't what it used to be but I still like the idea of hanging out with peers on an at least monthly basis. I'd want the same for my partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:30 PM
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Obviously it is, you’ve done it multiple times but whatever lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 04:03 AM
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Because you are only spending one on one time with them because you are trying to set up a romantic/sexual relationship. I’d break up with a guy in an instant if he did that to me and I’d never do that sort of thing to my partner. If I was that interested in that person, I’d break up with my BF, because if I’m crushing on someone else, I’m obviously not happy in my relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 04:02 AM
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This is like one of the only RP takes I have ever heard that I actually thought: well yeah, that's me. I lose all interest in sex after the honeymoon period ends. I will still do it, but as a favor to my man. It's happened in literally all of my relationships. I could go a year without an orgasm and not even notice. I've always assumed I am the rare one though because there are so many women that insist that isn't a thing with them. And since that woman is usually me when it's RP talking about "…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 12:48 AM
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No, not all of us do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 12:43 AM
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For me it's chronic pain and fatigue...along with laziness. Can't speak for others though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 12:36 AM
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Why do you use two commas when you type?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 12:25 AM
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As someone with an actual low libido, if my BF and I opened our relationship up I wouldn't date anyone else because...I actually have a low libido and don't care for sex all that much...if this is real (which I doubt) looks like your wife is just no longer interested in having sex with you lol, not sex in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 12:21 AM
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It's only a red flag if the man believes marriage is important at all. Some men find the concept outdated and maybe don't have conventional relationships were a wedding would be necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 12:18 AM
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Cheating means different things to different people. But to me, that is absolutely 100% cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 12:12 AM
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I mean, I will complain about the hypocrisy but I've never "demanded" a man not care. Doing that sort of thing reminds me of the "its bigoted to not be attracted to trans people" thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 12:11 AM
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I’m someone who finds sex painful and this sounds like a nightmare for me. Glad you enjoy it though. My vagina and internal organs would be constantly sore. Even reading this made it hurt. My BF is lucky to get it once a week. To be fair though I’m down for BJ/hand jobs whenever. But PIV? I’ve got a bad back and like I said PIV hurts. It always hurt but ever sense I got an IUD in my inverted uterus it’s been nearly unbearable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 10:31 AM
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Oh yeah. Still have him on FB till this day!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 12:43 AM
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Not even close bro. That woman is clearly pushing 30. At a New Years party last night I asked a couple of people how old they thought I was. One said 23 one said 27, I’ll be 33 in May. Don’t smoke or have multiple kids and eat garbage you’ll be fine until your late 30’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:47 PM
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Ohno the men that want a literal sex bot won't bother us anymore? Crying my eyes out right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:34 PM
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Big female incel energy. The only men that insist on chicks be Instagram perfect are dudes that don’t touch grass. They are so used to staring at Insta models, porn stars and anime girls that it is a shock when they see real life women, so due to that combined with their bitter loneliness, they will judge chicks with a fine toothed comb. Normal actual dudes though, sure they jerk off to that, but they know it’s just a fantasy and are fine with real normal women. So you are basically reading the …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 11:11 PM
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Lol, it’s more like actually “be at least 2-3 inches taller than me” which for me personally would be 5’5 since I’m only 5’2. Idk, I’ve known ton of guys under 5’8 that aren’t never touched virgins. Yeah once you get below like 5’4 you start seeing problems, but this subreddit vastly exaggerates women’s height demands.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 01:16 AM
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Can't speak for others but I don't care all too much. Well, for the most part. Ideally I'd like guy to make at least, a solid $5 or so more than minimum wage. Basically he needs to make enough to pay for a vehicle, a phone, his car insurance, health insurance, contribute to groceries and give me a few hundred bucks towards whatever rent is. I work and make enough to afford the basic necessities, car, place, food, etc. I def don't make enough to be a sugar momma, but I'd never consider not dating…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 04:29 PM
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I’ve never seen a single woman here say anything like that. We are fairly reasonable. Just have a job, move out of your Mom’s house and don’t be a toxic asshole. Oh and shower, that’s nice too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:19 AM
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I tend to think of the overweight, multiple kids, no job, mooch, entitled, doesn’t clean, can’t cook, baby daddy’s name on neck, posts personal drama on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:15 AM
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This isn’t “proof” this is just examples of women saying that they go to the club without the intention of meeting someone to date or have sex with. Now, I didn’t every single responses. But from what I did see, I failed to see women saying it was inappropriate for men to approach women with romantic or sexual intentions in that setting. I’d bet every penny to my name right now if you collected every single woman on earth and asked them if it was “wrong” for men to respectfully approach a woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 04:38 PM
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My first love was not the guy I lost my virginity to. If I could have wrote the story of my life it would have been. Turns out though I never admitted to actually having a crush on him until one day when we were both at a party and I had a bit of liquid confidence in me. At the time, we were 21. I had lost my virginity 5 years before that to my best friend’s boyfriend at the time’s friend at a pool party. I thought he was nice and kind of cute. All my friends (guys and girls) were having that “h…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:16 PM
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In general I know a lot more women worried about getting married and following the life script than I do men. I know tons of men that just work their job, live with their parents and just mainly focus on whatever game they are into and when asked about the whole “wife house kids thing” they kind of laugh and say “yeah, sure, that’d be nice” like it’s some sort of rarity like winning the lottery. I don’t know too many women that view it the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:12 PM
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Do you seriously feel that comfortable speaking for literally over 4 billion people? I have a boyfriend, I still have guy friends. I’m still open to meeting new people to be friends with of any gender now that I’m in my 30’s and a lot of my friends from my teens and 20s are settling down with kids while I am not because I don’t like or want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:09 PM
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I always wonder what y’all mean when y’all say most 51-60% sure, I’ll take that. 95-99% lmao hell no, touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:05 PM
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I hang around my guy friends because some times I enjoy interacting with other people. Only time I’d want a guy around to “feel safe” is if I were going out somewhere at night (I live in New Orleans) and I’d gladly pay for him to get in or for parking or whatever if this wasn’t something he specifically wanted to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:01 PM
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Yeah. It’s like they think a for movie tropes accurately describes 4 billion people. Honestly makes me kind of sad. I’ve had plenty of guy friends. I’ve also had a few “orbiters” and the vibe is just so completely obviously different.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:56 PM
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Yeah OP sounds like he doesn’t get out much. Lots of people don’t even get scared walking through Haunted Houses too. This is some sort of weird stereotype.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:53 PM
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I’m gonna text a few my guy friends I met in 2003 when we started Jr. high that I’ve spent almost 20 years chilling with that it turns out we were never friends because some dude on Reddit thinks men and women can’t be friends lol. I’m curious to what the response is gonna be.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:50 PM
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Lol, wow. As a tomboy that’s male to female ratio of friends my entire it’s been about 75% to 25% female and never asked my guy friends to do any of that besides move and I also paid the guys for their labor. I’m also about a 4 when it comes to looks and don’t have a very girly style so no, those dudes weren’t orbiters. I was an only child to a hard working single Mom and was stuck with my 3 male cousins most of the times when my Mom was at work, so my personality just turned out very boyish. Do…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:48 PM
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I would imagine it would have to happen like the movies. Say something is at the top of the shelf that I can’t reach and an average-above average guy, that is dressed in a style I like and doesn’t have like obvious B/O helps me get the item then comments on an item, “oh, I hope you aren’t having to make your own birthday cake lol” I say: “oh no, it’s for my friends graduation, my bday is in May” I’d say something like that to the guy because that is something that invites more conversation. If i…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:44 PM
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For me I was taught to be strong and independent so I wouldn’t need a man. It’s a want not a need. Worked so far for me. When I was widowed I of course was sad, but my lifestyle didn’t change much since I went to college and was the bread winner while my late husband was a simple line coon making $12 an hour when he passed away.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:27 PM
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I like gay men a lot more as a tomboy because they are like my other guy friends but they also are attracted to men. I’ve had chick friends but for whatever reason I’ve always gotten along better with men most of the time. The gay part is just an added benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:22 PM
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Don’t approach women in clubs? Lol what?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:21 PM
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Woah this is very similar to me me minus the success men part. And my husband died when I was 28. I only dated 3 guys after him and strangest thing, one was also 6 years younger. I did for about a month though. Turns out he was a total loser who was even lying about his job. I found dating a lot easier though because online dating was a thing vs what it was back in 2010, the last time I was single. I mean it existed but only “losers and weirdos” did it. To you people under say, 25, it was once c…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 01:15 PM
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I mean there is no cut off for me. But I’d start serious asking questions if a dude was around my age (32) and has more than let’s say about 30 partners. To me that means, sex is clearly waaay more important than hit is too me. And he’s charismatic enough to be be flirty and clearly is either into ONS or is a commitment phobic or fails at relationships, into serial dating, etc. Assuming he lost his virginity at sometime between 14-17. 2 a year doesn’t seem like much, but damn. That’s a means he …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 12:27 AM
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I mean. It depends on how loosely you define that word. To some transactional means: “I do X and in return you get Y” Others include more vague situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 10:51 PM
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People with kids get divorced too. In my state the only difference is if you have minor kids, you have to be legally separated for a year, but without kids it’s 6 months. So even if casual meant what you are saying it does, couples with kids can do that too. When my parents split by Dad moved far away for a job. There was no contest in the divorce, no fighting in court over assets or custody, they filed, Dad gave everything to my Mom but a car, sold the house he took 1/3 of profits and my mom to…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:00 PM
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Okay? Did I say they didn’t? My point is I’m not alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:57 PM
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I get that it is problematic, but I feel that in all this “women like sex too” rhetoric, it’s forgotten that some women actually don’t really like sex all too much and it is something they “let men do”. There are a noticeably decent portion of women out there that don’t get pleasure from PIV. So at most, they feel intimate from it, but that’s it. Some of us find the feeling, depending on our vaginas rather unpleasant. Sex usually hurts me, unless it’s tiny dick or I’m doing it missionary, and ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:06 AM
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Anytime I start dating a man I have "the talk" which is that I am not having kids and wouldn't continue a pregnancy under any circumstance. I managed to get married, would you have called that marriage (that ended, but only due to death) "casual"? Lots of people are child free. Sure no where near most, but there are tons of us out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:48 AM
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Wanting kids is one thing, wanting "like 5" is another. Most have 2 or maybe 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:46 AM
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How many men want FIVE kids in 2022 though? I mean, I know they are out there but I feel pretty comfortable saying that less than like 25% men would honestly want more than like 3 tops.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:46 AM
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It really just depends and there is a huge difference between a dude in his 30's going after a woman closer to 25 than one going after one close to 18. Guys who go after chicks, let's say under 21, just give off huge creep vibes. It's true that it's only natural that the older women get the less likely they are to be single, especially if they are worth a crap. But there really is no good reason to only look for chicks that young. I can only think of bad intentions (ignorant, less experienced, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:42 AM
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I prefer socially awkward guys because extremely confident guys give off fuckboy energy. That's just me though. We exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:33 AM
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I actually like the idea of men getting AI GF. All the men who want real genuine connection will still continue to date other human beings and the men who want a "woman roll" will get himself an AI. So we won't get caught up with a dude who is good at "game" or whatever and we end up wasting time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:31 AM
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I participated in it for an extremely short period of time. I would say it benefited me in the sense of I got to try it out and find out it wasn't for me. So there is no lingering "what if" in the back of my head. Since I didn't get knocked up nor get any diseases I don't see how it impacted me in any other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:27 AM
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Idk, I don't "make a guy wait" well, I don't have sex right away but when I was just starting to see a guy I usually had sex around the 2nd or 3rd week of seeing each other. The reason why I say I am not "making him wait" because I can't recall too many guys trying to have sex right away for me to reject him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:24 AM
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Not sure how you connected those two things. But I've had boyfriends so it can't be constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:19 AM
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I mean, if making fun of you for being "that guy" is striking a cord, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:18 AM
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Man, you are so smart, my dude. Pointing out spelling/grammatical errors! I can fee the IQ numbers hitting me in the face with that extreme intelligence!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 05:30 PM
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Sure. Don’t see why not. Unless he is picking up street prostitutes left and right like dude, just jack off. But once or twice? Whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 05:24 PM
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Funny thing is I’m the opposite of most women. If I make eye contact, speak open and do all the “she likes you things” signs it means I’m not nervous because I’m not attracted to you. If I am attracted to you. I’m nervous, I won’t be able to make eye contact and do all the things girls normally do when they like a guy. So in conclusion I don’t flirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 05:22 PM
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No because there’s is plenty of free porn online. If he’s paying for an OF it mean he likes one porn star enough to “porn crush” and to me that’s bit too far for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:52 PM
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I was being 100% sarcastic. I’d rather die alone than be with some violent loser that can’t even hold a minimum wage job that I’d have to carry financially, and constantly dry wall the holes he puts into the walls from his violent alcohol infested fits.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:36 PM
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Man, I sure do love me a guy with warrants, who flies off the handle raging about dumb shit and addiction problems…SO HOT!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:13 PM
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Oh yes, agree and I think 99% of this extreme trad incel problem is attributed to this. These lonely men are being raised on the internet so they think “women” are Insta models and the chicks that go on FreshNFit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 03:31 AM
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Yeah, we can play semantics because if you mean most you’s should say it. It’s not a long word. I’m fine with people saying “men want” or “women want” when it truly is something they like applies to over 99.9% of people. For example “men want their partners to have all of their limbs” sure you are gonna find some weirdo with an amputee fetish somewhere…but that truly is an insanely small amount of people. And the “hard-wired attraction” thing doesn’t disprove my point either. People are “hard wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:10 PM
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No, not “every guy” lmao. I get sweeping generalizations can be based in truth but to assume they literally every single person thinks a certain way, is just…laughable. Keep in mind I’m talking about long term commitment, not finding someone attractive. Why would a man who’s done having kids and single again (divorced or widowed) or a child free man look for fertility in a LTR partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 05:37 PM
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I think a lot of us get "butt hurt" over it because since we are older, we know how different we were at that age. So it is much more obvious to us how weird it really is for a dude not to want to bang a young chick, that's fine. Whatever, but MARRY? Kind of weird to want to marry someone that's young enough to be your daughter. It's like damn, my man are looks really THAT important? Idk, just kinda sad. I'm not personally butt hurt though. For me it kind of works out, because I wouldn't want to…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 01:14 AM
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So because you have a lot of options and have had a lot of partners that means all men think just like you? You know, I bet there are tons of people of both genders that don't get hung up on people. But there are just as many who do. My boyfriend's brother is a perfect example of that. Dude is about 40-years-old, makes a lot of money because he breed some sort of "designer dogs" that go for easily 5k a pop on top of his blue collar job, plus he has the beard + half a shaved head and a lot of tat…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 01:03 AM
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I mean they can get along but if their is a huge age gap, the chances are smaller. I know I’d feel weird dating a 20-22 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 12:03 AM
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It always baffles me when people who have it out for CF do the “nursing home” argument like nursing homes are filled with childless people. They aren’t. I’ve worked at them, their kids are grown and have their own lives and aren’t wiping your ass either. Difference is they come visit maybe once a month. Otherwise the ones with kids and the ones without are basically identical minus all the pictures on their wall. I couldn’t fathom suffering through having children when you don’t want them just b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 04:38 PM
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Lol, no. I know of tons of dudes hung up on an ex. Some of you people are so detached I wonder if you’ve ever left your houses and have any actual friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 04:33 PM
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I don’t really think we shame y’all as much as point on that it’s an over exaggeration. Sure there are dudes that specifically want young chicks. But there are plenty of dudes that already have kids or don’t want them and don’t obsess over age. If they meet a chick they like and she’s decent looking they don’t cry if she’s over 25. The world exists outside of the manosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 04:31 PM
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Such an odd scenario. Lol 99.9% chance, I’d tell them just to fuck off, so D/E. 01%’ chance is for an insanely rich dude that offered some sort of irrationally high price. I’m talking like at least 30k (why anyone would do that, no clue) but if that was the case, if he could prove I’d get the money yeah I’d do just any sexual act within reason (no crazy stuff, for that I’d need over 100k)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 04:23 PM
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As someone who doesn’t particularly care for the physical act of sex all too much this is still a weird ask. To me a relationship is basically an agreement that the other person either is or will be a your live-in life partner, there is romance and sex included but that’s not all of it. Most people have sex drives, they vary along with their sexual interests. I don’t like to have full PIV all too often, once or twice a week is ideal after the honeymoon phase wares off, (so around a year to year …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:58 PM
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Maybe for a casual relationship but a life long partner? Nah, unless your idea of a relationship is a man and a woman having sex sleeping the same room and her spending all her time cooking and cleaning while he keeps to himself, then I guess it doesn’t matter that they don’t actually get along.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:07 AM
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You really think there aren't many men never blame society for everything? And of course women (weird how you want to call one gender men and the other females...) tend to blame society more often, we didn't even have the right to vote in the past 100 years. So society is to blame for a lot of the issues we face.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 08:24 PM
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Lol, you live in la-la land. No, we would not be happy having a relative select our life partners for us. Chemistry and sexual compatibility are very important components to a good marriage. If I could I'd build you a time machine so you can go back and live in the world that existed 200+ years ago I would because that looks like where you belong. I wonder how many women you are actually close to (sisters, cousins, friends, neigbhors, etc)? Seems like you think we are a different species or some…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 04:43 PM
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Lol okay and? Studies don’t disprove anecdotes. Meaning just because someone observed a trend of conventionally attractive women dating men with high incomes doesn’t mean that chick must be ugly since she doesn’t date for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 04:19 PM
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Ah, so you're a hypocrite then? Because YOU can sleep with a bunch of people and that's cool, but women can't. Lol, fantastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 01:44 AM
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Except in your example, we know this fictional guy is broke but we don't know what OP looks like, only that she doesn't need to date rich guys. I have seen plenty of attractive women dating guys that weren't rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 06:25 PM
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If men aren't jealous of women why would they feel they are less based on having sex with other men? There is anger and disgust there. And that has to exist for a reason? If it isn't jealously then what is it? Yall started a whole ass movement coming up with tips and tricks on how to fuck more bitches. So it sounds like thats what at least a lot of RP men want. Also, I'm loving all the things you assumed I want. This perfectly demonstrates my point You think you've got it all figured out because…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 06:23 PM
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Men and women aren't different. All people are different.There are men who care about N count and women who do also. There are also men and women that don't give a fuck. As for saying my preferences are okay, when did I say that? What are my preferences? I am curious what you think they are lol. I am sure you know since I am a woman and you know how I think, right? Also, I didn't respond because I feel targeted. Because I am not. I am on the ace spectrum and barely have interest in sex with an a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 05:58 PM
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"You pointed out that my giant generalization isn't correct, you must be ugly"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 05:46 PM
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Are you seriously unironically suggesting arranged marriages should still be a thing in 2022? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 05:21 PM
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Or you are angry because you haven't had a lot of success with women so you use intellectualization to deal with that loneliness. And order to successfully do that, you read up on manosphere pseudo science since it is the only "information" out there that allows you to fuel your confirmation bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 05:15 PM
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How many fights are you getting in lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:59 PM
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Feminine men are worthless...to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:57 PM
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I didn’t say OLD is a separate anomaly, I said it’s not the end all be all. Yeah, OLD isn’t as taboo as it was in the 2000s (back then it was seen as something only losers use, what kind of lame ass weirdo has to result to basically an ad online to find a partner? Someone without a large social circle and natural flirting skills, that’s who. ) Thankfully this belief has shrank ever since more common apps like Tinder popped up but there are still hundreds of thousands of single people that manage…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:39 PM
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