A common theme I've observed in the feminist movement of today is them being supposedly confused or surprised by the fact that most men aren't on board with their ideas. They're trying to push this thing that "feminism benefits everyone" when it is abundantly clear to the modern man that he hardly gets anything out of the whole deal.

Women largely expect the exact same things from men that they did decades ago. Be it from a financial or a romantic standpoint—nothing really changed for men. If anything, expectations actually got higher due to social media painting a distorted picture of what a man is supposed to "bring to the table", among other things.

From a purely logical standpoint: If women reap most of the benefits while nothing changes for men, then obviously men aren't going to be on board with it. That's not in the least surprisng.

On top of all that, the modern feminist movement tends to behave in a way that comes off as lecturing and belittling to men. Comments like "Well, you're part of the problem" or attempts to make men read fringe feminist literature and "educate themselves" aren't going to sit well with men who mostly haven't done jack shit to women in their lives. If anything, it's just pushing men further toward the opposite side of the spectrum.