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4	Men: would you date women if you would never get access to their bodies? tbh this is one of those hypothetical questions that sounds deep at first, but once u actually sit down and think about how guys are wired, the answer is pretty obvious. if sex with women vanished overnight, the entire dynamic between the sexes would completely collapse. the drive for intimacy and physical connection is the primary engine that pulls a man into a woman's orbit in the first place. without that sexual attraction, you lose the polarity. men and women would basically just be buddies.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/26 11:43 AM
7	Being her best sexually isn't that important and is unrealistic Look, I get why it can seem that way on the surface, but we are talking about two completely different things here. Mechanical technique is something anyone can work on, but what I am talking about is a baseline of mutual respect and high interest level that a guy either gets or doesn't. No amount of physical gymnastics or trying to be a "great lover" can negotiate organic attraction if the woman views the man as a safe, convenient fallback rather than someone she genuinely desires. It is about …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 01:11 PM
2	Being her best sexually isn't that important and is unrealistic Not at all, and that’s a total misinterpretation of where I’m coming from. It’s not about pointing fingers or blaming her; it’s about a man taking full responsibility for his own life and self-respect. If a guy is receiving less than total investment or that the attraction is lacking, that’s his cue to stop looking for external validation and leave her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 01:02 PM
1	Being her best sexually isn't that important and is unrealistic Tbh, you can’t know what happened inside another bedroom years ago. But guys who look at this from a realistic standpoint aren't trying to read minds or interrogate their partner about her past. It’s about paying attention to the baseline of her current actions and how much she’s actually investing in the relationship right now. If a guy feels like he’s constantly chasing her attention, dealing with endless drama, or dealing with withholding behavior, it usually signals that the interest level j…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 12:56 PM
-1	Being her best sexually isn't that important and is unrealistic Yeah, you’re hitting on something that bugs a lot of guys, but looking at it through the lens of performance is a massive trap, tbh. Sex isn’t a competitive sport where you break records, and treating it like one just screws up the actual chemistry and presence. From a masculine perspective, the only thing that actually matters is her genuine, organic desire and how much she invests in you right now. If a woman truly desires a man, it shows in her behavior (she’s enthusiastic in bed, and she com…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 12:42 PM
1	CMV: Many men are genuinely intimidated by successful women because it disrupts traditional relationship dynamics. Tbh, I think looking at this through the lens of men being "intimidated" is kind of a lazy way to explain a much deeper biological disconnect. Let's flip the script for a second. Imagine a guy who is completely in touch with his feminine side (he has zero leadership, agrees with absolutely everything a woman says, lacks any sort of traditional masculine competence, and just waits around for her to make every single choice). Women aren't going to be "intimidated" by a guy like that. They’re going…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/26 12:39 PM
1	Men will never support modern feminism because it exclusively benefits women while trying to lecture and belittle men I totally get where you're coming from, and honestly, it’s even bigger than just the dating scene. It feels like the whole incentive structure for building a family has been dismantled by this kind of social engineering. We are looking at a literal demographic winter right now because the deal of marriage and commitment has been made so risky for men that many have zero motivation to invest in a future that can be taken away by a bureaucrat at any moment. When the government tries to step in as …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/26 11:23 AM
1	Slutty women are more relationship material than traditional or conservative women I think I get where you’re coming from, but honestly these things usually don't play out long term. Tbh, it feels like you’re trying to buy an insurance policy against a boring bedroom by looking at a girl’s past, but in my experience, that’s not really how it works. I used to think like you when I was younger, but I learned the hard way that a high body count isn't always about a high libido. A lot of times, that fun behavior is actually a desperate search for validation because something was m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/26 01:00 PM
–	Women don't owe men "sexual equality" You're getting hung up on the logistics while ignoring the total lack of friction. It isn’t about the drive or the one night stand. It’s about the fact that a woman is willing to ignore all rules and inconveniences when she has genuine desire for someone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/26 05:04 PM
–	Women don't owe men "sexual equality" Fair play, that’s a pretty smart way to pivot the argument toward technical details just to make it seem like guys are being petty or obsessive. But I assume your good faith. When guys talk about wildness, they aren't looking for a technical list of kinks, they're talking about the total absence of rules and filters that only happens when there's genuine burning desire. For example, wild is when she’s naked 15 minutes after meeting some guy she’s actually crazy about, or when she’s driving 45 mi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/26 04:39 PM
–	Women don't owe men "sexual equality" I think you’re missing the point by labeling a man’s concerns as a disorder like retroactive jealousy. Most guys look at past behavior because it is the only reliable evidence of a person's true motivation and capacity for desire. Tbh, the idea that she might just hate the act now is often a way to ignore the reality that women frequently break their own rules for men they deem high value while keeping them firmly in place for the current partner. You can call the "Exciting vs. Dependable" dynam…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/26 04:31 PM
–	Women don't owe men "sexual equality" I get the "nobody owes anyone anything" angle, and you're 100% right that nobody is a sex doll or a slave. But I think you're missing why this hits guys so hard in the first place. It's usually not about a transactional debt or some kinky entry fee. It's about checking for genuine burning desire. Tbh, if a guy sees that his girl was wild with some random dude in her past but is suddenly not that into it with him, he isn't just being jealous. He's usually just realizing that she’s making rules fo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/26 03:23 PM
3	What would you need to see/get from a woman in a relationship to feel certain that you were not being settled for, or used for resources or companionship? In my experience, the biggest giveaway isn't a specific number of times you have sex per week, but the level of enthusiasm and initiative she shows. When a woman truly desires you, you don't feel like you're constantly negotiating for her attention or her body bc she makes it easy. From what I’ve seen, the most important thing is that she willingly enters your world. If she’s adjusting her schedule to be with you, showing up on time, and putting in the effort to look her best without you having …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 02:37 PM
–	Does a woman's cheating past matter if you are the Alpha at the finish line? It definitely sounds cold when you break down human relationships into patterns and scripts like we’re part of a nature documentary. From what I’ve seen, both men and women actually do this all the time. Women have their own scripts for vetting guys, checking for red flags, and discussing male behavior in ways that can sound just as clinical or harsh. Maybe I’m wrong, but I don't think it’s about being sick. It’s more about pattern recognition. When guys (or girls) have been through repetitive, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/26 02:37 PM
8	Does a woman's cheating past matter if you are the Alpha at the finish line? I get where you’re coming from. It’s logical to think that if you’re a high-value man who satisfies her hypergamous instinct, she has no reason to leave. But here’s the thing: being alpha isn’t a permanent finish line. In my experience, even the strongest guys can get betatized by a long term relationship once they get comfortable and lose their edge. The real issue is pattern recognition. If her history shows that she deals with conflict or boredom by monkey branching that is likely her ingrain…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/26 09:41 AM
0	It seems if a woman ever has a hook up, she should be expected to keep having subpar sex with strangers. Look, I’ve been around the block a few times, and if there’s one thing I’ve learned watching guys navigate the dating world today, it’s that the anger you see online usually isn't about hate. It’s about a very specific, quiet kind of fear. It’s the fear of being the safe bet but never the first choice. Most men have this gut instinct—they see how the world works. They notice that when a woman is truly, viscerally attracted to someone, the rules usually go out the window. Things happen fast becau…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/26 01:08 PM