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First of all, all women are beautiful. But the one on the right is clearly more confident. I feel bad that the one the left has to deal with DMs from lowly chuds, but if she works on her personality I think she can overcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 11:19 PM
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I found I had better matches when I was bulkier/at the height of my bulk. My girlfriend describes it as "being boyfriend shaped". I do agree that muscles help a lot in general though. I had the most amount of hookups when I was diced.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 11:00 PM
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I genuinely have no clue how they're jumping down your throat when you were making a sarcastic comment poking fun at the logic "women always have psychological superiority over men". Is the reading comprehension here really this bad? Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 10:02 PM
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He's got the flouride stare.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 11:51 PM
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Is that Emma Watson's brother? I was like where the fuck have I seen this face before. Me and my gf give him a 6/10. My sister gave him a 5/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 10:45 PM
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The average woman is going to have a lot of options no matter what, even if it decreases a little when they get older. The narrative you're talking about is mostly a revenge fantasy, even if there's some truth to it. A woman's prime dating time could also be her 30s depending on the context. For men it becomes easier if growing a full beard hides the flaws in your face, or if you put on muscle (which can take a while just for a mid physique). You can go from 0 options to popular in your 30s. Way…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 10:00 PM
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Hey, jacked people get super high and need chinese food delivered sometimes, okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 07:33 PM
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Everyone just wants to be Chad/Stacy at the end of the day I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 07:32 PM
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Honestly women saying "wide shoulders big dick is an elite combo" would be way better than the usual "all men are ugly" lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 07:30 PM
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A lot of the time it's just a mismatch in cleaning neurosis. My sister dated a friend who was also a big clean freak and would nag her about it similar to how a wife would in a sitcom. It was a huge turn off for her and they ended up breaking it off. My very first girlfriend was low maintenance and only did bare minimum cleaning. In my 2nd relationship, I was the lower maintenance one and dubbed lazy, etc. There's no one who likes to sniff their own farts more than a clean freak, in my experienc…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 07:24 PM
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This is also just a dogshit study. By it's logic I've been raped/coerced by the women I've dated countless times. Lumping in violent tactics and simping as the same level of coercion is so bad faith lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 06:54 PM
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Incels can never hope to reach the neurosis levels of a woman in a normal relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:33 PM
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They pick and choose tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:22 PM
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I mean I've been pumped and dumped before. I've also had bad hookup sex. It hurts when you liked them, but that's just dating. Men who have never experienced it will probably downplay it. Similar to how people who can easily find others who are attracted to them will downplay how bad it feels when no one finds you attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:07 PM
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Yeah, most people won't care. They may side eye you if you are with an 18 year old as a 40 year old, but no one cares about something like 35/24 other than chronically online people on reddit and tiktok.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:45 AM
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Only gay men with bad personalities have this issue tbh. I think I need an anecdote to complete this reddit-like take. Too lazy to make one up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:23 AM
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I actually kinda like this feature because sometimes I'll accidentally left swipe on some atomic hotties.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:07 AM
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It was kinda scary how good my ex was at lying/gaslighting. She'd do it to people right in front of me and I'd go "hmm does she do this to me and I can't tell?" Hard to say who does it better since I've only dated women. I also have only lived with women for most of my life. But I'm guessing women are better at it on average, while the best gaslighters are men. Due to the whole "men have more extreme outliers" thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 11:25 PM
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I stopped caring about that shit when I realized I'd have to stop listening to King Von to be morally consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 02:00 AM
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As a self aware 6'5 man who has dated a lot, its a mix of all of it. Red pill and incels are correct about dating apps, and to some degree the importance of height in today's young dating. They're also correct about the whole "women want men to follow traditional gender dating norms regardless of politics" thing, in my experience. A lot of what both these camps say is exaggerated/extreme and probably fueled by neurosis. Normie blue pill is correct about how much charm and confidence can help. Re…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 12:08 AM
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Damn that would be a good shit test.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:26 AM
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Mine was a democracy, rent or not. Although my parents weren't religious and I never did anything too crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:21 AM
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I find that femcels will type literally anything and hit enter. At least incels have a somewhat cohesive narrative lol. One is LARPing a magnitude harder than the other so it make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 12:50 AM
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This is so bad faith holy shit lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 11:59 PM
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These "men bad" posts are actually getting more incoherent and silly than the "women bad" posts, somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 05:43 PM
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I'm 6'5 and fairly sure all of my dating success is due to my insane comedic abilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 08:55 PM
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For overweight that's probably true to a degree, it doesn't take much added lean mass to be overweight, especially if you sit at 20-25% body fat. Anyone claiming that they are obese because of muscle is being delusional though. There's also a huge difference between overweight and obese. It's interesting that you and the other poster are using them interchangeably when trying to make a claim about one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 04:50 PM
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I'm 13% body fat at the moment lol. Not sure why you are being so hostile. I never said only women are fat. I said that comparing overweight vs overweight to see who is "fatter" doesn't mean much because men have more muscle mass. Once again, a man does not need to have a lot of muscle or fat to be considered overweight by BMI standards. They do need a shit ton of muscle to be considered OBESE in this context though. That's where the rare pro bodybuilders come in. Which is why comparing obesity …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 04:36 PM
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It's not very hard to be overweight even with just a foundation of muscle (obese is a different story). Most men that workout aren't sitting at a low body fat. 20-25% bf with some muscle will make most men "overweight", no serious bodybuilding required. It makes more sense to compare obesity rates. Source: I'm a personal trainer
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:25 PM
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That's 95% of her replies in all of her threads lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:10 PM
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Will you keep the muscle from a single cycle? Yeah, as long as you keep eating protein and training after. You may not keep it if you were reaching pro bodybuilder level already though. The decrease in size and strength is mostly from the water in the muscles during the cycle leaving the body. I've gone natty again (accidentally) during aggressive cuts and kept all of my lean muscle mass. It's actually really hard to lose lean muscle mass in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:57 PM
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You keep a lot of your muscle up until the point where you are way past what is naturally possible. You do lose the water weight it fills your muscles with when you get off, though. Typically in your shoulders.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:44 PM
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As long as you do proper research and keep the doses mild, it's honestly not remotely as dangerous as the mythos claim. Keep in mind people who talk about steroids on reddit typically have no idea about them or never took them. They're kinda just repeating what they've heard. I just don't recommend them because it ends up becoming a cycle of body dysmorphia where you may end up taking heavier compounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:43 PM
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This is also definitely one of those cases where she wouldn't care if a woman stated this exact preference about a man entertaining a bunch of women at a bar lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:00 AM
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Here let me tell you what you actually saw (as someone who was not there in any capacity):
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 11:58 PM
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Ummm we're so fucking back?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 11:52 PM
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I feel like the opposite is true in the mainstream west? Men's sexuality is typically seen as deviant/bad because men are bigger threats. It's also more socially acceptable to criticize men's dating preferences than vice versa, the latter gets you quickly called an incel (at least on reddit). Unless you're just specifically talking about manosphere spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 11:08 PM
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He looks like a Dunmer from Oblivion. 8/10, love that game.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:28 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:08 AM
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I gotta get to Turkey before I start injecting the philosopher's stone into my glutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:40 AM
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That's what he said in his OP lmao. He's not being sarcastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 10:16 PM
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I feel like with how picky women are about their particular type/niche it would just mean 0 men on TV/movies. Or at least it would cause women to be at each other's throats about if Henry Cavil should be on the screen or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 11:48 PM
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That sub was crazy, what was BSD thinking giving his head to the BJJ guy lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:40 AM
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Chronically online women hate western men (and vice versa). Their phones told them to for the most part. The west is being psyoped hard in all directions, typically by using your fears and neurosis against you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:07 AM
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It's genuinely insane that this needed to be explained.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:00 AM
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What are the comments disagreeing with her even implying? That women are gooning their sensitivity away or what lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 05:08 PM
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Conservative women definitely do it more but liberal "progressive" women are a very close 2nd.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 05:00 PM
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They wouldn't. Any time I've seen it happen the gay dude is shit on massively for "wasting the woman's life".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:43 PM
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No one knows what the fuck he's talking about half the time lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 09:39 PM
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Yeah belly to belly missionary is pretty nice. Very intimate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 09:34 PM
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The only thing I can think of that would hurt a woman (unique to them) like the way being super short hurts a man in dating, is your waist being wider than your hips (the fridge build/shape). Which is pretty rare even for big girls. But even then it's still not really comparable to some 5'2 dude trying to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 07:09 PM
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I do pretty well when I'm home in the USA, but using dating apps in Mexico and Japan was CRAZY. Can't really blame dudes for going somewhere else, the multiplier you get for being a certain skin tone is nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 06:47 PM
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Yeah I don't really understand why people think porn is having some insane psyop effect on men vs literally any other kind of media that we consume. Porn addiction is clearly an issue but that's just people wanting serotonin/dopamine, like with any addiction. I can honestly think of like 10 other addictions that would fuck up a relationship faster lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:02 AM
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Him giving generic dating advice that isn't actionable would be genuinely funny. Like the most "blue pilled" thing I can think of.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 12:02 AM
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Let's just say, millions must LARP.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 12:00 AM
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Honestly, the threads where the entirety of it is just shitting on fathers. That one recent one about sole custody or whatever is an example. I texted my dad that I loved him after reading all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:44 AM
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I mean he's correct just in a probability sense. Women 6 foot and up are like 1% of the population. Like there's probably more men on reddit gooning to tall women right now than there are tall women that exist lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:43 AM
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I have no idea why shes going so hard on you lol. You're not even in the top 5 most negative people here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:18 AM
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I've only been called gay for bodybuilding by "progressives" on reddit at this point lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 08:38 PM
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You're kinda mogging on deltlets. Nice physique brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:03 AM
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We're all gonna make it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:57 PM
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The thread was so baity that half the top comments disagreeing were women. That's quite the feat for this place honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:52 PM
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With the knowledge that he is a serial killer, they'd pick the shy guy. A hot serial killer would probably get laid way more than the shy guy (assuming he got off on a technicality), simply due to exposure/infamy. There's enough nut job women to make that possible. That's really all it is. Serial killers are on TV with millions of people watching them. You're going to have fans in that situation, just probability lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:46 PM
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Oof UFC fans always catching strays, understandable lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 10:48 PM
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What she said just sounds insane so it's funny, it's not that deep. It's like women posting pictures of dudes saying "no fat chicks" or "no liberals" so everyone dogpiles on them. Which is actually way less insane than some dude going "I get that you're 5'1, but I'm looking for a literal midget!!" on a dating app. Btw I apologize for always coming at you with the gender neutral take. The "blue pill" people here never do so I feel like I have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 10:21 PM
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Damn this may actually be true to a degree. Most of the men I know who I would describe as "genuinely confident" are basically idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:44 PM
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Yeah, my mom also worked "60 hours a week" and "did all the house chores" when she posted stuff online too. It's called LARPing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 12:52 AM
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Idk some incels would happily date her probably. Most of the comments just seem like normal men and women poking fun at her bad choices. I like big girls but she's genuinely fucking huge. Don't think it's unreasonable to pass on that regardless of your options lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:29 PM
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Ah okay, that makes sense. I didn't think about the narrative of most porn. Yeah that's a pretty ridiculous fantasy to expect.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:39 PM
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What part of it is fiction vs just sex, like some of the positions they do that are more for the camera? (I agree that is unrealistic) I only ask because plenty of women like doing porn sex to a certain degree. I'd say like 30-40% of the women I've been with wanted to do kinky porn stuff. Choking, cringe dirty talk, positions that are mostly a visual thing for the man, etc. I don't want to go into too much detail lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:31 PM
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I don't think either gender has it worse than the other in the west, but I would have definitely had less violent encounters if I was born as a woman. But that's just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 11:05 PM
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He's either trying to show red pillers that taking random things you see online isn't a good argument (taking it to an extreme though), or this is ragebait, or it's genuine and one of the silliest arguments I've seen on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 10:31 PM
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I feel like pretty much any normie outside of reddit would think 2000 is insane, man or woman. A lot of the time when people say "n count doesn't matter", they mean theirs or their partner's count being high doesn't matter. Most people are gonna be like 1 to 20. They'll typically care if the n count is 100+, or if it's a man with 0.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 09:35 PM
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Impeccable delts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 09:27 PM
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It's dumb to compare divorce to murder, but it's also nonsensical to use "men murder!" as an argument for this. We're talking about mostly husbands murdering their wives, a fraction of a fraction of the population, and most of the time are crimes of passion or due to finances. It also turns into a dick measuring contest where people are like "well your group kills .12% of the time and we only kill .05% of the time!" Like genuinely, for the love of god, come up with better arguments than "murder!…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 08:52 PM
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He has a point though. The incels are actually way nicer/pleasant on average than the "anti red pill" people on here. It is funny seeing the same characters bring up "personality" when they seem absolutely insufferable themselves. Honestly arguing with a red pill dude on here is more pleasant most of the time, they're wrong, but they'll at least engage you in good faith for the first few retorts. I think that's mostly because this place attracts radfems and other chronically online redditors who…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:05 PM
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Yeah I figured that's what you were doing lol. It doesn't. Have a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:06 AM
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I can't tell if you're trolling. His entire comment was liken men wearing makeup or height increased shoes to cross dressing. It's an insanely boomerish, nonprogressive take. It would be like saying Tomboys or women with short hair and baggy clothes are doing female to male cross dressing. The only person who implied cross dressing was bad was the guy who was using it as a way to mock "looksmaxxers" lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 10:07 PM
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It's insane that you are calling this comment gross and not the one he was replying to lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 08:50 PM
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I was doing numbers with a really shitty profile my first time trying dating apps, increased 5 fold when I got better pics. Dates almost every day kinda numbers. But yeah being over 6ft is very attractive on the apps. I'm 6'5 so I even get that "extremely rare" height bonus thing going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 08:04 PM
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There's also a few users who seem to be immune to "contentless rhetoric" with their one sentence zingers as a top comment in every debate thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 08:00 PM
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The mods just kinda pick and choose with this one anyway. I've gotten dinged for "getting personal" over literally nothing while I've seen direct insults stay up from the same accounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:27 PM
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This topic always makes the women who post here look really, really bad. Like these arguments are genuinely fucking awful lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:28 AM
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I can't tell if you're ragebaiting or genuinely hate men this much lol. Her response was insane. Women have rejected my compliments before because they were insecure, I'd be the literal bad guy in that scenario to anyone with a braincell and an ounce of empathy if I called her a retard after (I mean it's kinda funny don't get me wrong). Also I think this is a man just trolling him. Women don't typically type like this. I maybe know one woman on the planet who would say peeepeeepooopoo in a mocki…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:10 PM
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In my experience they're all married, they come to this very niche gender war sub, but they are also super normal and never see gender war stuff on their algorithms. Everyone is chronically online except them. They usually have 500k karma and are a top 1% commenter. Basically what I'm getting is that a chunk of them are probably LARPing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 10:58 PM
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I don't think leagues really exist in dating in a literal sense, although there is probably an average that a person can pull over their life. I don't think most people ever truly find their "league" in that context though. A man can pull women who most would consider to be 7/10 consistently, but end up with a below average woman because he may find her personally beautiful. You could make the argument that leagues exist when comparing beauty objectively (or the attempt anyway), but dating/love …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:49 PM
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Their progressivism stops at men or whatever ethnic group that is socially acceptable to shit on publicly (I'd give an example but you can probably guess). It's kind of like how body shaming is wrong until it's someone you don't like. Most people don't actually have any consistent principles it seems lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 12:28 AM
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The key is to act like a normal human living in civilized society, beyond that it isn't my job to tap dance around someone's personal neurosis (unless it's my girlfriend teehee).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 08:38 PM
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I don't think asking for elaboration on what you mean by struggle is inherently autistic lmao. It's a very subjective word. Honestly if people here did that more often 95% of the arguments wouldn't be strawmans. There is most likely a lot of neurotypical incels. Anything like high neurosis, being very short, being absolutely butt ugly, and being in a terrible location could make dating too difficult for a man to see it as worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:59 AM
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Yeah I get both too. Most of my reddit page is just men and women saying the most vile shit about each other lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:04 AM
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Yeah it definitely happens naturally if you go out a lot and are on the extroverted side. That's how I met my 2nd long term girlfriend. But it does feel like the older I get the more I have to rely on apps to meet women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:00 AM
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I mean I struggled from time to time and have some pretty good physical stats. Not sure if I'm autistic tbh. The dudes here would probably call me a chad-lite or whatever. When you say "struggle" are you saying it was difficult, or you get no dates ever? Every straight man who goes on an app or cold approaches irl is going to struggle unless they are an Adonis, honestly. You have to treat it as almost a min/max numbers game when you are brute forcing it vs just randomly meeting someone through l…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 10:52 PM
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Not to mention dudes who look really tired are like catnip to some women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 10:30 PM
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This basically happened in every office I worked in when there was a bunch of women under 35. Funny thing is they'd try to get me into the shit talk too. To be clear so I don't get strawmanned: Im specifically talking about this type of two faced shit where the group pretends to like someone and the second they're out of earshot are saying really horrible things about them. It's way different than friends casually shit talking each other behind backs. They actually like each other and are just v…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 10:05 PM
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It's kinda traumatic for cis men too, can't imagine how bad it would be for a trans girl. I genuinely have no idea why people think male socialization is a privilege lol. It's just emotional neglect for 18 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 06:51 PM
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I'm also going to guess all of the women on here who are staunchly anti prostitution will not be arguing with her lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 06:40 PM
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"You should take PTO out if you're leaving an hour early, yes even if you're salaried..."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 06:21 PM
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I've personally never had casual sex that was as good as sex in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 06:20 PM
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The whole narrative behind this chore stuff is so funny. I wonder how much of it is us just feeding into people's neurosis about cleaning the house. With that said, help your gf/wife do the chores within reason. Edit: the comments from women claiming fathers would let their kids starve, yeesh. Some of you guys are genuinely more chronically online than the incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:29 PM
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I'm just elaborating on my post since you thought I was saying natties couldn't look big in fitted shirts. People aren't wearing fitted shirts when they get told they have a sleeper build, because it'll look like they go to the gym with a fitted shirt lol. I also didn't change my post, what are you referring to? My original post had a second part edit way before you replied, and my second post doesn't contradict my first.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:20 AM
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That isn't what I meant. People with sleeper builds are typically lean people wearing baggier clothing. They pull up a sleeve and you see they're actually kind of jacked. They're not "big" like the lean dude in the baggy shirt because that dude is on juice (or a very high chance at least). But yeah you can get decently big while lean as a natty. That's why put small in quotes for a reason, it's relative.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:03 AM
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Most natties are gonna be "small" while lean unless they hope on the juice. They're just choosing to be shredded instead of hiding their actual muscle mass with a bunch of fat (nothing wrong that, to be clear). Honestly most body composition misunderstandings are people confusing fat with muscle. 90% of "big dudes" out there are guys with a foundation of muscle and 30+ pounds of extra fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 12:22 AM
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I whine and complain all the time and have always gotten dates and girlfriends. Most people I know whine and complain like victims lol. I swear this is one of those things where people don't have the self awareness to realize they're super pathetic about certain things, just not about dating or whatever is socially stigmatized to complain about for adult men. Or they do know and just think it's actually worthy to whine about it vs whatever isn't. Like if your internal monologue is "I never compl…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 11:02 PM
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You kinda cooked his ass here ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:18 AM
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I figured you just didn't believe the conditioning was real or prevalent. I literally lived it, and it wasn't from internet messaging in my case (although that can be just as powerful, so a silly argument). "Even if the only media you commune are Reddit dating subs, you still cannot make this claim." We will just have to agree to disagree. This just isn't true. I see the kindness and confidence slogan every day on reddit. It was just much worse than 10 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:16 PM
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Are you saying that we just slip into some pussy?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:04 PM
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In this case the pictures are pretty bad. At his age range putting in any effort with the pictures should get him something.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 10:52 PM
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He's literally right though. A lot of western boys (especially millennial and gen z boys) were conditioned to think that all women care about is confidence and kindness (women are the ones who told us). Conditioning like this is a powerful thing, regardless if it's beauty expectations, social, religious, etc. At the end of the day its up to the individual to change it, but I just don't agree that it was all on them (psychology wouldn't either).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 10:42 PM
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I've seen it said verbatim on tiktok and reddit about 20 times just today lol. Just be nice/kind is literally the reddit blue pill slogan.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 10:31 PM
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Conditioning like that isn't "all on the individual", especially when they are kids. A lot of men figure it out later and it works out, for some its really late, others have autism and can't help it, etc. Not really trying to come at you, but this is like telling an adult women that it's all on her that she's insecure about her huge nose, when she's been conditioned since childhood that big nose = ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 10:17 PM
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I can't say for sure if women do this more on average than men (in my experience it feels like they do), but it reminds me of two people where one complains about the other one more often. What happens is partner A never complains about partner B, so partner A becomes the bad person in the relationship, since B seems perfect. Its not that, it's just A has a much higher threshold for when they complain. They are less neurotic. That's why I take complaints of "my partner is a lazy blah blah" with …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 09:58 PM
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I have to explain to literally every person that I don't bodybuild to be more attractive to women (although this ends up happening regardless). It's very fucking annoying so I can understand how women feel when they have to explain nose rings or whatever things men hate. I will say though the hair on the right looks REALLY good. Catnip for straight men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 09:43 PM
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A gf/wife that enjoys being taken to pound town are genuinely the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 09:40 PM
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Very successful men we'll be more selective, and these are the men that are dating the women making these claims (which is just red/black pill for women tbh), so it makes sense that they would project this onto the entire population. Truth is the average man just has a much lower physical threshold because a combo of lack of options and testosterone. It's not that we are having sex with women we think are ugly, we just don't think the majority of you are ugly lol. There's a middle ground between…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 09:26 PM
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It's honestly the same with dating. Listen to how both men and women talk about how men date, it's very black/red pilled sounding. Having these kind of cynical takes only seems to be an issue if you are a man talking about how women date lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 06:40 PM
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Hmm maybe Italy? Typically in places where the men are considered hot, I feel like the women go toe to toe with them. I think in your case you're better off geomaxxing based on the "type" of guy you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 01:29 AM
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America, heh.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 01:14 AM
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Yeah pretty much, we are seen as threats and given hyper agency at an early age. A 16 year old boy would sooner be called a loser over something minor than a 30 year old woman who by every metric is a giant loser. Most of the gender double standards are because of this hyper agency vs hypo agency effect. We've always had this between men and women, but it's a lot more jarring now that the west is gynocentric and claims to want social equality between the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 07:18 PM
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They could just want to date somewhere where the average BMI isn't 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 10:51 PM
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At least on reddit and tik tok, yes. Chronically online people are increasing in general, but could also be bots.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 10:37 PM
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Nah fuck that. If its a woman who would sound just like an incel if they were a man, they're a femcel. "Incel" is being thrown around like candy now, so why not throw it at women who are being genuinely sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 10:35 PM
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It's basically the only time I see it brought up. Usually with a "hope you kill yourself" or "hope you become more depressed" implication at the end. Im guessing they write it after having a bad dating experience lol. Or just ragebait.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:45 PM
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Someone get this big dude some gash before he pulverizes some unsuspecting chinese family.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:18 AM
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It's a pig out day for me (last day of the cut into maintenance). 400 calories of chicken breasts Protein shake, yogurt, protein bar, 3 servings of oatmeal, whole oat honey nut cheerios, bananas and peanut butter Around 240g of protein.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:47 AM
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Nah women want to borderline get their ass kicked in bed. Or at least they think they do, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:38 AM
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Better save up for hair transplants like these dudes do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 09:45 PM
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The sentiment was definitely pushed down my throat by adults (mostly women) when I was kid, I just thought it was horseshit pretty early on when actually observing reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 09:28 PM
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The video is just making fun of how women want to appear so "nice" that they will literally tell you the last thing you want to hear after you lose 200 pounds. It's not really a compliment. At least "you were fucking huge" recognizes the sheer willpower involved to lose the weight lol. Women are really bad about this tbh. When I'm lean they will just constantly talk about how I looked better during my bulk, while men just go "holy shit bro you're fucking yoked". During my bulk: "Bro you are fuck…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 12:32 AM
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The men on this sub who claim they cannot get pussy no matter what they do are probably not average. Or at the very least they have extremely high neurosis if they are average looking. With that said, dating as a straight man is always going to be difficult relative to other demographics. These dudes who cannot get matches on dating apps don't realize that the actual hard part hasn't even begun yet. Also a dude who has only dated using the apps is going to have a more cynical look at dating in g…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:07 AM
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OPs argumentation isn't the greatest, but yeah the responses further prove how weak of a debate sub this place is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:54 PM
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Human nature sadly. I don't think we will ever stop doing this lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:33 PM
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Good pictures can help if you have a foundation. I always tell dudes to at least try that if you are struggling. But if you're fat and short, I don't care if Stanely Kubrick directed your dating profile, you ain't getting shit. Sometimes the gym is the answer, as my ex fat clients would tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:25 PM
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I don't think he's right, women are just more picky and can be because of biological reasons. But he wins the argument here because he's better at debating (Myron repeats the same 3 bad arguments over and over). The idea that women love "more" has always been kinda horseshit. A lot of women don't even know how to be romantic towards their man lol. Also women have a lot more things they are looking for that quite literally have fuck all to do with loving someone more. At least not in the way I us…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 10:48 PM
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Probably because that's his sister.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 10:23 PM
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Getting serotonin and dopamine hits from love and validation if you want to get scientific with it. Both that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 11:25 PM
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If he can't get him on the ground, no. Gane is a much better striker.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 11:12 PM
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Mostly personal experience dating. Confidence and being extroverted is a huge boost. I guess average people dating average people statistically helps their overall argument. But a lot of the things the blue pill people say here is horseshit. Especially about dating apps. Kind of obvious they've never dated as a young straight man, at least not in a long time. A lot of their takes are things that are only platitudes on reddit and not true in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 11:10 PM
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"To date the only being who can harm me" What is this broad even saying lol. Anyone can harm you. Femcels think they're in a nature documentary or some shit. I swear female spaces on reddit are just women supporting each other's insane neurosis most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 10:52 PM
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My gf was a 32 old virgin, she rocks. It's really only an issue for me if she's waiting for marriage or super religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 10:33 PM
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I mean if that's how you view sex it makes sense, like some scarce resource you don't want to give away just to anyone. I'm not sure how good it is as some objective vetting process though. If I was a woman and I found this person I'm dating attractive, I'd just have sex with them when I'm horny and see if they dip out after lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 12:34 AM
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I typically would end it with a woman if things didn't get steamy by the 5th date. You're risking wasting a lot of time with someone who may not find you that attractive. Also sexual compatibility is pretty important.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:07 PM
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I actually agree with this if you're saying that redpill is more coherent but mostly wrong, while blue pill is incoherent and mostly wrong. I've lurked here for a long time and the "blue pill" has constantly changed, and it's usually whatever the same 20 posters mostly agree on in any given topic. There seems to be no consistency with them, their view completely changes depending on whatever red pill talking point is brought up (the rhetorical inconsistency with n count and general preferences a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:26 PM
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Sliding into DMs is also a big part of dating now and it's not much different than the dating apps. People meeting irl primarily is kinda dying out in these new generations based on the way the data is going.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:18 PM
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To be fair, flaming gay dudes are some of the funniest people on the planet. Gotta have their delivery when throwing out shit like "yaaas queen, that's cunt!" to get the same effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:27 PM
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Most women are going to be physically attracted to a dude they see as a 10/10 though. There's so many women who would ignore what the first guy is saying based on vagina tingles. That's what the incels are observing. Women tend to need more context than men to be full on ready for sex, but some just need you to be sentient because they find you so hot. Basically both things are true at the same time. Just different women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 08:10 PM
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The only ones who care are actual lefty women (socialist/commie). Conservative and liberal women won't care as long as you are big and do man stuff. In my experience anyway. A liberal woman may swipe left if you label yourself a conservative, but if she met him irl and put the moves on her, they'll ignore it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 07:59 PM
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Oh that's me. Their search is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:09 PM
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I wasn't sure if she was making a sex joke or depression joke but I figured I'd give some fitness advice anyway just in case lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:59 PM
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Depends on your stats and if you're jogging or walking. The average woman probably burns like 200 walking for an hour, maybe 400+ if they are jogging. If you jogged for an hour a day and didn't change your diet at all, you'd lose like a pound a week (assuming you're maintaining weight right now). The only issue with using a treadmill that much is your joints. I tend not to do any more than 2 hours of high impact running a week, most of it is on an elliptical.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:14 PM
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Imagine getting upset that zygotes are getting popped out of a woman you've never met or give a shit about lol. You must be super upset about what is currently going in the middle east then. Like shaking in anger type outrage.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:46 PM
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I think women are just on way more SSRIs tbh lol. But I guess that could be technically cracking a code.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:30 PM
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I'd just go to a different state personally. If that wasn't an option, get my tubes tied.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:25 PM
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Nah casual sex is just sex outside a committed relationship. Most people who have dated to any extent have had casual sex. This is why self reported studies always have people reporting low numbers of casual sex, it's usually not defined correctly. People think it means FWB or a hookup specifically. Almost all of my casual sex encounters were in the context of serious dating and it just didn't work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:09 PM
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I was making the exact same claim a post up and was engaged by the regulars, that's the reason I made the edit lol. But yeah the men here will make a weird moral argument out of it. I basically always get push back by the women here when I say that men are horny more often and will tend to find more women/men physically attractive on sight due to testosterone (and other factors). I guess I just find it odd how rare a sight it is for the women here to argue with each other when you guys don't act…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:18 AM
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Women don't really put a whole lot of effort into their profiles, honestly. I think I saw a genuinely well crafted profile with high definition pictures 10% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 11:41 PM
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What would be the looksmatch to a 5'5 dude who posts on that subreddit, if you could describe it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 11:34 PM
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Honestly I've never experienced post nut clarity, at least not in the sense that I no longer find the woman physically attractive at all afterwards. I do think there are men who will build up sexual desire over long dry spells and get with someone who they may not find particularly attractive, but it's probably rare. At some level the man has to be physically attracted to you to get horny and stay horny. There's levels to it obviously, but I personally don't have crazy high physical standards ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 11:02 PM
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You really are quite the character. you ad hom based on knowing nothing about me I poke back by mentioning one of your other terrible takes that everyone dogpiled you for, which would greatly affect any scientific argument with you "Le irony!" Lmao. I have a girlfriend, thanks. She has a great personality and is very hot. No hard feelings whoever you really are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 10:43 PM
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I'm also just a personality guy when it comes to finding a girlfriend. If you want to call that settling, go for it. I notice this character you play always just goes for ad hom every time, trying to bait people so you can report them? But nah, men are definitely attracted to a wider population of whatever they like (straight and gay) and that's just due to testosterone. I'd sit here and argue science with you but if I remember right, you think 30 BMI isn't obese, so it's probably pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 10:15 PM
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Anyone who tries to argue it's because of moral virtue has to be bad faith lol. You are correct, testosterone is a powerful hormone. Edit: I find it interesting that when a woman here makes the biology claim for the "male standards" debate, other women will not disagree with it, but you will see them engage when men make the same claim. In general I've just been noticing this for different topics around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 10:03 PM
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I think men's standards are lower simply because we find women more attractive tbh. Obviously the lack of options will affect it, but I've dated women with a cock-eye because everything else was cute, and I wasn't starving for matches. shrug
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 10:00 PM
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This actually may be part of it. There's more pressure to perform/win when in general settings because they have something to prove (they feel people may not take them seriously being a female athlete). You're going to take competition more personal in that context.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 09:56 PM
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I noticed this a long time ago. Men will get heated in sports but theres that foundation of respect for playing well. Any time I played sports with women they would SEETHE when they lost, or were quick to blame their teammates. I wonder if this is similar to how male friends can get into a fist fight and make up right after, while women will hold grudges with each other for a long ass time in comparison. Obviously not trying to generalize all. But that's just what I saw playing unisex sports.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 09:50 PM
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I got the upper end of average Joe and absolutely slay on dating apps. So I'm either being too hard on myself or this thing isn't giving height and build enough weight. Edit: my gf said I should give a 1 for face (don't agree) but give myself a 3 for full on autism, so it's still a wash since they were both 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 12:29 AM
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Idk I see women do it quite a bit, and are very nasty about it. It just seems to be something that disgusts certain people, man or woman. Men do tend to excel spreadsheet this more, but women will just call the normal looking guy ugly while the man would call him a 5. It's honestly worse in some ways lol. I think either way it's mostly chronically online young people doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 12:19 AM
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Above average for sure. His jawline is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 11:57 PM
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Yeah most likely. I don't deny my height is a huge factor in my dating success. A lot of men just don't want to think their success is mostly genetics, luck, location, whatever for a lot of things. Even a super neurotic dude who turns off every woman he comes across was either predisposed to be like that or conditioned by upbringing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 11:51 PM
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I'd say like 20% of men I see are conventionally attractive or above average, but I am in the gym a lot. More than half are mid and the rest I'd consider below average. It's pretty rare that I see a truly ugly man (or woman). For women I'd say its the same. Although these numbers would change drastically if I considered all fat people unattractive lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 01:19 AM
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Beautiful looksmatched couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:51 AM
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People can also just look bad in stylish clothes when they are fat or ugly. Your face and body play a big role in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:43 AM
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I can say as someone who went from 13 inch biceps to 16 inch, this is not true lol. You get more positive attention from both tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:39 AM
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Different genres imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:37 AM
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Yeah anyone under 6'5" is short (sorry guys this narrative benefits me personally).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:33 AM
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It's actually interesting how people end up falling into this trap (viewing sex this way). It's usually super religious people, which makes sense due to their book telling them how special sex is. But also political extremists of either wing will view sex like this too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 09:09 PM
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Some men could fuck a tree. Some men need some romance/love to enjoy sex. It's not really more complex than that lol. Also you're a man, and you loved your ex. Argument destroyed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 08:59 PM
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Eh this is a bad take lol. A straight man who also struggled to date and found success is going to give way better actionable dating advice than the average therapist. The therapist may be able to help in different ways, like strategies to boost confidence if that's the main issue. Or if the issue is rooted in depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 08:43 PM
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Everyone is kinda giving lame non-arguments. But yeah, older people who try to give dating advice have no idea what they're talking about lol. It's very similar to when an older person whos been at the same job for 20 years tries to give job hunting advice. Completely different ball game. Also a lot of people have never actually "dated" in the same way young 20 year olds are talking about it. Most people met their partner in college, at work, randomly somewhere. Right place right time. Going out…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 08:27 PM
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It's never really affected me in anyway. My female friends are my friends because they are the rare expection. And I love them dearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 07:19 AM
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Guess it depends if our tech oligarchs get what they want out of MAGA (lowered AI restrictions) and want to move back to somewhat progressive neolibs. All roads lead to subscribing to drive on a road with AI features either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 01:45 AM
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Yeah reddit is amazing when it comes to hobby subs. Have a weird tech issue? Some dude on reddit made a whole guide to fix it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 01:35 AM
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Hmm not in my experience. The feminist subs are typically extreme "man bad" circle jerks and they'll ban you over any slight disagreement. That one feminist sub seems to have been created so that one mod that posts on every thread could have her ego stroked (askFeminist I think?). I don't even go there intentionally, every time it pops on my feed that mod is just banning anyone who disagrees in the comments. I mean just compare askmen to askwomen, lmao. The sexist male subs are definitely way mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 01:16 AM
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Validation and chasing serotonin (this is why people are so fat to begin with).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 01:10 AM
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Reddit is full of ND dudes and women who think they're Wiccan (nothing wrong with being a bit of an oddball btw). Some of the takes I see on reddit are just a byproduct of the person never leaving their house or interacting with anyone except their chronically online friends. I think it's as simple as that. Insta and YouTube has more normies posting. Hobby subs on reddit are the only ones with relatively normal people in my experience. But yeah, only on reddit can a completely innocuous comment …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 01:00 AM
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As long as they don't hurt anyone, any way they want. I think the poster was just making fun of people who think that the only two emotional expressions are crying and raging out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 12:46 AM
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Women aren't usually funny to me either. It's pretty rare. But it's also pretty rare for a man to make me genuinely laugh, they just do it more often. Women aren't as irony poisoned at the level they need to be for me to find them funny. I think it's fine as long as you are only speaking for yourself and not trying to make some objective generalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 12:37 AM
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That's what I was implying, I do very well on dating apps. Like a date every day kinda jawn.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:15 AM
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I don't think that's what the guy was trying to imply. Just in an environment where you have a buffet of men to pick and it's extremely convenient, a lot of women will filter 6ft and below. That doesn't necessarily mean you won't get a good amount of matches if you are under 6ft. I'm 6'5 and the incels are pretty correct about dating apps though. They're just a little off their bean when it comes to normal irl interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 10:08 PM
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I feel like we give agency to young boys way earlier though. The boys were always punished more harshly than the girls for the same behavior during my school years (this seems to continue into adulthood lol). My sister was completely coddled growing up compared to me. All of my friend's sisters were also coddled. It is true girls tend to be less unruly and are better at sitting through boring lesson plans. But we have studies showing teachers give boys worst test scores for the same work. It goe…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 09:43 PM
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Sometimes. In my experience with talking to normies about this: Women are usually blue pill when it comes to their own view of attraction towards men, while kinda black pilled for how they view men's attraction towards women (men only care about looks/big boobs/etc). I've literally experienced that meme where I'm talking to a group of female coworkers and they go "I don't really care about height but anything below 5'10 is too short". Men are typically "purple pilled" and will lean more red or b…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 09:09 PM
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Assuming I still had the same brain, it would have to be pretty bad for me to go out of my way to do that. I've been basically molested through my clothes by women and gay men before, and let it go. There was one time where I had to tell a woman that I was going to drop her if she touched me again (I was with my then girlfriend at an EDM thing and she would not stop). Although if it was little stuff happening like that all the time, or it was happening at work from the same dude, I'd definitely …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 08:53 PM
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It's some schizophrenic homeless guy lmao. Welcome to any city in the north east of America.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 07:48 AM
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Nah fat woman just love to fuck, for whatever reason. It's definitely a win for them in my experience (everyone wins really). I'm guessing it's some serotonin thing considering that's why people overeat. They may also want more validation. This whole like "women aren't winning from easy casual sex" thing is literally not true for the women that are having casual sex. They enjoy it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 07:38 AM
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He looks uncanny, like a character from Bugs Life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 07:33 AM
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I mean that's usually what I do when I do drink. A double rum/bourbon and coke zero. I gotta do like 6 shots worth to actually get going with how big I am, sadly. So by the end of the night I could be at 1000 extra calories. Very hard to do on a lean bulk unless you want to run it all off.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 08:26 PM
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It is, but weed gummies give a nice little buzz and are much safer. They also aren't a shit ton of extra calories (if you can resist the munchies). If they ever came up with diet alcohol somehow, my ass is in trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:49 PM
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You don't have to justify your own interpretation of the rules you created lol. Most of the rules here are silly and don't actually prevent the thing they're trying to prevent. Countless other threads turn into circle jerks with the other pills getting misrepresented all the time (maybe the majority of the time). Top level comments for debate posts needing to challenge the OP makes sense, only allowing one group to answer discussion posts when the OP wants to hear from everyone is making the thr…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:04 AM
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I only agree because it's not the greatest motivation to getting 16 inch biceps, 14 inch biceps with a tight shirt is usually enough for women. Joking aside, you should use whatever reason gives you the most motivation. Health was never a good motivation for me when it came to bodybuilding, I just wanted to look bigger/hotter. Not even necessarily to get more women, but just for the sake of the mog. I probably would have done it for women if I knew beforehand how popular it would make me on dati…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 11:14 PM
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They have to be friends with her or something. Her responses 90% of the time are just contentless rhetoric of "you didn't read the post!" Or accuses the other person of being a troll. Most other posters would have been permanently banned a long time ago doing the same shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 10:52 PM
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I've done it before when super anxious. Your breath may stink right off the bat though. Take a shot of vodka while in the car (at the date) and take a mint after, it's unlikely she will smell the vodka over the mint. I also used to do this for job interviews until I built up a lot of confidence. But typically I just drink at the date a little to loosen up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 10:03 PM
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It's honestly just the same 4 people posting how n count doesn't matter. They're more obsessed about it than the red pillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 10:00 PM
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The mod changed the whole discussion type because she did not want "crusty" men giving the wrong idea about "red pill for women" lmao. But yeah, totally your bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 09:48 PM
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From the way the word has evolved it feels like a "pick me" is just a woman who disagrees with another woman about a gendered issue. Kinda similar with white knights and simps, although there is like 10000x more genuine simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 09:41 PM
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Most of the blue pillers here don't seem lefty at all tbh. Unless you just mean progressive liberals, but even then I wouldn't call the anti red pill side here "progressive". The most "blue pilled" people here are the centrists imo, because they sound the closest to the takes I hear in real life by normies. People with the tag under their name typically spit out chronically online takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 12:06 AM
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Yeah it's easier just to fake your way into a social circle than it is to get jacked or rich, assuming you were doing whatever it took to find a girlfriend. As a personal trainer, I can tell you that a very small portion of the population has that dog in them to get jacked.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 11:02 PM
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Normies care way more about male virginity than female virginity anyway (in terms of shaming). So you're right, but being hot is always going to be better in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 10:14 PM
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I'm cackling. She didn't even give you 30 minutes to respond lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 09:56 PM
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You can still choose to not be in the friend zone regardless if the person is in your friend group lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 06:42 AM
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Straight man is nightmare difficultly for dating, followed by lesbians. And gets exponentially harder the more unattractive or autistic you are. This isn't even a pill thing, it's just obvious. Anyone can have bad dating experiences, so this is most likely people just fighting back because they feel like they are being invalidated. I also think people don't like admitting that there are certain aspects where being a straight man is a disadvantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 12:15 AM
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Don't really care. I'm 6'5 so I don't have to care about a woman being taller, but I've never had a woman taller than me interested. My guess is it would be a WNBA player. I think the shortest I've dated was 4'10. It makes some things a little awkward but I didn't mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 12:03 AM
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You can honestly just replace vegetables with any complex carb that has some fiber. Most of the nutrients that vegetables give you are in the gummies and supplements everyone takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 11:58 PM
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I was thinking of trying reta/ozempic for my cut to make it more bearable but couldn't justify the cost. I will eventually try those peptides that are supposed to help heal injuries and tendinitis (called the wolverine stack). Hopefully those are the peptides you're referring to and not HGH lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 11:51 PM
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Well yeah, 95% of the time it is "they look creepy". Not sure about here, but young women used it as a club when I was in college and worked in offices. If the guy is walking up to them and doing creepy shit, fair enough. It's actually genius, you get to call someone ugly but put all of the moral blame on the unsuspecting dude who was probably just minding their business or looked in your direction too long.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 11:47 PM
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I think literally every man I know has fallen in love with a female friend they were not having sex with. It's like a canon event for young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 11:35 PM
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It's similar to the autozone but much hornier. I think as shorthand phrase to mean "I am in love with this person but they only see me as a friend" it's fine. People take the term a little too literally. It's one of those things where if you worded it in a less toxic way, people wouldn't care. With that said, it's completely your decision to be in the friend zone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 11:33 PM
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Damn we both like this topic lol. I'm more talking about the psychological aspect, the chances of a random black bear, man, or pitbull attacking you in an enclosed space is very low either way. But picking a non-dangerous animal is pointless for the hypothetical if your overall goal is "man bad". I think picking an adult cougar or grizzly to be locked in a room for 10 minutes over a random man would make you genuinely crazy lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 07:32 PM
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A better hypothetical to find out which two things you find more dangerous is "would you rather be in an enclosed space for 10 minutes with a random man or random pick animal" I think most people wouldn't even pick a random pitbull over a random man, when it came down to it. Let alone a grizzly or polar bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 06:55 PM
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As a grass toucher this just isn't true. My 250 pound friend has an actual roster of simps she farmed from dating apps. It's more of a mentality thing, any women can do it. There's completely average women getting venmo'd dinner money by old pathetic dudes as we speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 06:45 PM
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I'm seeing them simp for big betty in the hopes of getting a crumb. Men in general have incredibly low standards across the board lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 06:37 PM
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I see a lot of desperate simps way more than whatever you are describing lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 06:32 PM
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I mean if they are "obviously" terrible and you are excusing family/childhood trauma, then I guess you're right? "Obviously" is just doing too much heavy lifting here. People will tell me a coworker is clearly a terrible/shitty person and I will have no idea what the fuck they're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 01:17 AM
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"Very classist to assume the poor is more okay with bad people" This is such a disingenuous retort to what he said that I feel like you should win an award for it. Like imagine all the options for arguments you had and you pulled out this absolute banger. You didn't even answer his question, then called him classist for saying poor criminals and the people around them aren't necessarily terrible people due to socioeconomics. Truly awe inspiring, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 12:53 AM
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I'm nonchalant because I'm borderline retarded, we are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 12:27 AM
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Yeah it's pretty rampant in my circles. Younger women love my older male friends. Most of the interest I get on the apps is 20-24 and I'm pushing 30. It's also never more or less "transactional" in my experience. If anything the younger women were more likely to pay for dates. Truth is, an older attractive man is still attractive, so he's going to beat out younger, less attractive men no matter what. Even if only 15% of women liked guys much older, that's plenty for the sentiment "I started doin…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 10:09 PM
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I'm going to have way more in common with an autistic 23 year old gamer than a 35 year old career professional. In fact age seems to have almost no correlation on whether or not I relate to someone or enjoy the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 10:05 PM
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Yeah same, most women I've been with say they prefer cut dicks if the topic was brought up. I think a lot of them see it as similar to getting an ear piercing when you are a baby. Like it doesn't register to them as mutilation. That's probably also true for a lot of men in america though to be fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 06:33 PM
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Yeah I'd genuinely have to sit there and really think about it to give you a solid number lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 06:18 PM
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The experienced men are just called liars by whoever they are disagreeing with anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 06:17 PM
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I personally have had a better dating experience now that I'm pushing 30 but I also put in WAY more effort on my body and looks than I did in my early 20s. If 21 year old me was dating nowadays I'd struggle super hard I feel, even being tall. I really don't get the people here who think it's actually "eaiser" now though. The apps are unusable for a lot of men and people do not want to be hit on out in public like they used to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 12:51 AM
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I'm not sure if dating is objectively harder now, but dating apps were definitely much different when they first came out. Felt like you could get a date on them for just existing. If dating is harder now than it used to be it's most likely a side effect of socialization taking a huge hit from covid and the rising popularity of social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 11:59 PM
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I have a certain set of tools. A set of tools that make me a nightmare for a woman like you. Some of the tools in my arsenal: Shoe lifts Neurosis Shane Gilis quotes about down syndrome Alcoholism Prepare yourself...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 11:34 PM
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Honestly I'd need to know what you look like and what you consider a "chad" to say if it's over or not. Like how much are we relying on luck vs if it's just a matter of time. You're still young enough to "beta buxx" a cute wholesome chungus doctor either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 11:18 PM
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This isn't gish galloping. That is when you try to send a bunch of arguments of varying quality to your opponent in an attempt to overwhelm them or derail an argument you are losing. Ben Shapiro does it a lot for example. All of his arguments are retorts to what the other guy is saying and in attempt to support his original argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 10:16 PM
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As a straight man with a lot of experience, some women have responsive desire while others will want to jump your bones from the sight of you. And no, you don't need to be some gigachad for the latter (it helps obviously). There were some women I dated who would have needed to get to know me first before having sex no matter what I looked like. There were others who just didn't find me that physically attractive but were "giving me a chance", and others where it didn't matter what I said, her in…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 09:25 PM
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I'd say they overestimate it even more. People will straight up not believe me when I tell them some of the things women have done to me that they wouldn't second guess if I said a man did it. Like people are right that women are going to do less violent things than men, but being physically non-violent doesn't make you a good person automatically lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 09:07 PM
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Yeah the hate immigrant muslims in america get is definitely unjustified. The ones I have met have been fairly progressive actually, at least for a religious person. I was referring to the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 09:00 PM
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I mean if you are going to use that logic, the Muslim world does not get a "disproportionate" amount of criticism based on the statistics either lol. Talking about the religion and not any specific ethnic group (have to make that clear for the jannies).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 08:50 PM
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This is actually an interesting point, not sure how much it proves a rise or decline in either based off these phrases though. Women are going too see things like politicians pushing to ban abortion or the rise of dudebro podcasts as better examples of misogyny than a dude saying "women are whores" online. I do remember sexism towards men increasing online before the red pill shit started getting popular near covid. But that was the millennial's idpol brainrot era, and also around the time the i…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 07:52 PM
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Men after women generalize them, but then they generalize women back. Then women say "women aren't a monolith" (which is "not all women" but with a fancy word), but then they generalize men back. It's a vicious cycle 😔.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 04:12 AM
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They may not like to hear it but they sure love to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 12:57 AM
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I assumed no weapons. I'd just feel more confident boxing and wrestling the average guy because fighting an animal is probably awkward as fuck. A bloodlusted bear is also just gonna run you down, they are fast. I can outrun most humans if it came down to it. If the bloodlusted man has a rifle I'd pick that last just because you'll die and not see it coming at all. Although that would be a more merciful end lol. I feel like the bloodlusted sun bear is the only adult male bear I could realisticall…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 10:26 PM
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Random encounter based on their typical aggression: Black bear > man > grizzly = sun bear (smaller but a lot more likely to go apeshit than grizzly) > polar They are bloodlusted: man > sun bear > black bear > grizzly > polar In order from most wanting to be in the woods alone with them to least.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 09:56 PM
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Wait am I the drone? I don't 100% agree with the OP because there could be different reasons why she's making you wait. Autistic women aren't going to jump your bones on the first date even if they find you really hot, for example. Although I understand why men wouldn't take the risk of committing to a woman who could possibly not find them that physically attractive. I've dropped woman when I've gotten that vibe before.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 09:33 PM
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I think this is also where the divide comes from with the "women don't like casual sex" thing, people have different definitions of what casual sex is. To me casual sex is sex you have outside of a committed relationship (which I think is the formal definition). So an FWB situation or having sex on the 3rd date would be casual sex to me. If you define casual sex as hookups only, then most women don't have casual sex. But that feels disingenuous because people here make it sound like the majority…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 09:24 PM
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No one really cares about a 23 year old dating a 33 year old outside of reddit maybe other than dads, but they also don't want their daughters dating certain ethnicities. At most you may get some side remark about it. I get side remarks every single time I get 10% body fat, people love to yap. As long as you're not grooming anyone or going after children, don't worry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 08:32 PM
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I don't really agree with the OP, but why do so many people go to this goomba fallacy/strawman every time? The OP didn't mention only wanting virgins or low body count women. This place would be so much better for debate if the mods deleted super obvious strawman like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 07:51 PM
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There was a guy at my old work who I believe was around that height and was the most charming bastard I've ever seen. When he was talking to a woman he was flirting, no exceptions. Pretty sure he was cheating on his girlfriend like crazy though. The best way to describe it was he always had smile on that made it seem he was genuinely interested in whatever you were saying. Some dudes just have a gift for that. It helped that he had a nice face card too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 07:32 PM
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I reframed it so he can hide his insecurity for being short, like so many others who are insecure about being insecure about whatever perceived flaw they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 07:06 PM
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"I wear lifts for myself, I like being a bit higher off the ground" There, I did the thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 07:02 PM
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Yeah this is pretty true lol. You can kinda see it in their face that they are smitten too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 06:33 PM
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He didn't actually prove your point at all you just have no concept of nuance. If you came in 2 seconds after putting it in every single time she is going to think you're bad in bed, and pretty much every women on the planet too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 08:13 AM
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I agree but a woman being an actual leftist is typically more indicative that they will want an equal relationship. I found liberal women to be a very mixed bag of performative even though they claimed to be feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 12:48 AM
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My first gf was bi. And I've maybe dated 3 total. I'm not sure about bi men but it's probably like with any relationship, if he loves you he's not gonna want another man or woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 12:40 AM
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I just feel like it's too hard not to want to give your gf a sweet treat.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 11:16 PM
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I have ADHD and tend to seek things that give me dopamine, and for whatever reason debating does that the most when I'm just on my phone at the gym. Although this place isn't the greatest for real debate in all honesty. It may just be the constant shit throwing that's entertaining lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 10:06 PM
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One is more guaranteed to happen consistently. The emotional impact of assault or pregnancy would be much worse but so would getting in a bad car accident on the way to the date. The OP is basically saying that we tend to compare more extreme cases to things that men are going to experience 100 times. Although it's completely reasonable to be worried about assault or pregnancy, which is going to affect the way women approach dating. A better example of a con for women that happens more consisten…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 09:56 PM
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I'd imagine they are referring to a children of men type jawn. No more new people. It would be much easier for men to destroy everything by putting in the nuclear codes though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 09:28 PM
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I actually sorta agree with this one except for the "big girls claiming men are fatphobic for not dating them" thing (I think that was mostly mid 2010s online brainrot). Big girls really do love muscular fit men more than any demographic of women in my experience. Gym bunnies and muscle mommies coming in second place, then normal weight women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 09:23 PM
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I personally don't criticize because I don't want to hurt their feelings. But I'll try to guide them. I think the biggest issue is what worked for one person may not feel that great for another. Communication is always key.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 08:45 PM
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Maybe PIV, a bad handjob hurts and a bad blowjob is just sad quite frankly. Even then I've had women ride me and barely move the entire time lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 08:40 PM
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Probably was playing an evil main character and was trying to rizz some lawful good baddie.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 08:26 PM
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Yes, but not anywhere close to how much men will lower their standards when outnumbering women in a dating app environment. It helps to read what I said. You accused me of having no personal experience with dating women in that kind of environment, I claim I do, then you say I'm lying. What argument were you looking for exactly? Just seems like you're being bad faith. Btw I only disagreed because you said it would be "easy" for a guy to get sex if they were in that environment. You made it sound…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 08:00 PM
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I wasn't excusing cheating, just listing the reasons men say they cheat. I've honestly never seen a man say the reason they cheated was "my wife is ugly and now I'm hotter, so I wanted to fuck hotter women", so when you said it was "common" I had to question what you were basing it off of. I'm sure that happens. Kinda reminds me when red pill men claim that women cheat because their boyfriend/husband wasn't making enough money, don't think I've ever seen a woman actually list that as a reason be…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 07:58 PM
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My last office job was and they all still gravitated to me and the good looking salesmen shrugs. It was the same 4 hot/tall dudes hooking up with all the single women (and sometimes not single). No judgement to them but that's just been my personal experience. With that said it's definitely going to help a man increase his chances in that environment vs it being sausage fest, just not to the same degree as the attention women get when men outnumber them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 07:45 PM
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It would probably be a little better for average men in this scenario but I don't think by much. I don't think women really lower their standards due to desperation or lack of options as often as men will.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 07:31 PM
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Is that common? When I look it up its: feeling unappreciated, dead bedrooms, ego/validation, and impulse due to alcohol. FOMO isn't really mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 07:24 PM
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It's okay I think world leaders are doing that pretty effectively on their own, you're free to exaggerate on your resume lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 12:19 PM
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Always, especially when it comes to employers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 12:22 AM
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Pop feminism vs the literature basically. Normie women tend to believe in the former, women on reddit and tikok believe more the latter. The rad fem argument would be that fighting for women's rights only would eventually dismantle the patriarchy and free men of their issues. So the UN definition wouldn't necessarily be incorrect. It's all framing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 04:35 PM
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Me being childless and my relatives telling me I'm missing out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 04:23 PM
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MMA dudes are never beating the allegations. Although it kinda looks like he's trolling. If he isn't trolling this is the most deranged way to flirt I've ever seen lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 03:54 PM
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I broke the 100k barrier doing the bare minimum and lying on my resume. There's people working their ass off who can't break 55k and they're lying on their resume too. It sucks but much of life is luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 03:34 PM
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I was always blamed for things I didn't do too, I just needed to be near the group or person that actually did it. But I think it's because I had hyper agency at a very young age. I was the size of the average adult man by 8th grade. I also couldn't really defend myself from bullying without getting in much bigger trouble than the bully.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 03:21 PM
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I'd say that most of those bodies that women drool over online aren't actually achievable due to genetics. There's a lot that goes into it and most of it revolves around how naturally wide your shoulders are as a man. Height also greatly affects the way your physique is perceived by the layman. I agree that most men won't put in the effort regardless. But a 5'4 bodybuilder could put in 1000x more effort than me and still not look better to the average person. I'll have "just the right amount mus…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 03:04 PM
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Except in this context, gay is literally being used as an insult, the person I replied to admitted to "weaponinizing homophobia to fight the patriarchy". Please try your read the thread you are replying to. Also calling a man you're on a date with gay because he wants to split the bill is textbook homophobia. No gay man with any self respect would disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 03:46 AM
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Honestly reading some of the takes here makes me appreciate my lovely girlfriend even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 11:05 PM
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Ah okay, so like a person from New York saying people from Alabama are inbreeding, makes sense. Honestly I've lurked here on and off for a long time so I remember your username and profile pic, you must have really loved your ex to still be posting about him. My first girlfriend did a number on me too, so I understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 11:01 PM
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The mods wouldn't remove it if it was a looks post, you're probably labeled under "good for engagement". I also I feel like you're just claiming an ethnicity is inbreeding, which is probably against the other rule lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 10:48 PM
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These type of threads kinda show that the women who post here are as brainrotted as the men. I could screenshot most of these takes and send them to every woman I know and they'd strongly disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 09:44 PM
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Yes and it's silly. You want to use rad feminist logic to get away with being a bigot. TERFs do the same thing with trans woman. There's contexts where suggesting to a man to date other men is not homophobic, but when it happens here and on reddit it's meant as a way to insult/stir shit 95% of the time. And in OPs 50/50 split bill example, it's 100% homophobia.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 09:30 PM
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You're just hiding your homophobia behind the patriarchy at that point. This is the definition of a cop out. Especially with the example the OP used.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 09:24 PM
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I think in most cases that the OP is talking about it's definitely being used in a homophobic way, usually passive aggressively. It's typically in the middle of an argument and an attempt to make the man feel bad. It wouldn't bother me personally because it's just lame, but it wouldn't change the fact that the person is attempting to use as an insult. If you see sexuality as a choice and are just suggesting it genuinely, then it wouldn't apply I guess. But if you asked most liberal/lefty women t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 08:48 PM
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That's the OP of this specific thread, I'm a different poster who was asking a clarifying question. I'm an atheist who thinks most religions are are misogynistic. I was trying to understand why you thought christians and the west were somehow more oppressive to women than Islam or Asian countries. I feel like I'm being trolled at this point. I also didn't say "the west ain't any better", I said it still needed work. In general western countries are less oppressive to women than eastern ones by b…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 12:34 AM
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The "world in general" would include the west lmao. You'd pick that one... I've traveled quite a bit and the assertion that western countries are more misogynistic than eastern countries is insane. Not that western countries don't have a lot of work to do still, but I just don't think you have a good understanding of how patriarchal/sexist most arabic and asian countries are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 12:27 AM
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Did you even read my question, it had an "or" in it lol. All of the abrahamic religious texts are incredibly misogynistic, yes. "Do you like apples or fruit in general?" "Yes..."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 11:07 PM
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Pop feminist to me is more what the 2nd the 3rd wave movements stood for in a general sense. For example, right to abortion/body autonomy, to feel safe in the workplace, equal opportunity, etc. I think most normie women who claim to be feminist see it like this, since they never actually read any feminist literature maybe other than Handmaidens tale. You could probably just call it egalitarianism but that pisses people off too for whatever reason. Women who are deeper into the feminist ideology …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 10:26 PM
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The answer is always very easy/boring office jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 09:17 PM
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It feels like you're just describing non happy endings vs happy endings, that doesn't really have to do with a character being a plot device. Like in Eternal Sunshine, she's a fully fleshed out character to contrast with the main character, she doesn't simply exist to move the plot forward. A plot device in this context would be character who's only purpose was to give the the code to the safe so the main character could enter the bank vault, for example. It's also not necessarily a good or bad …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 09:10 PM
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Are you saying that mostly christian men are the cause of misogyny in the west or the world in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 08:34 PM
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He's not changing the topic, he's using that analogy to show why your argument of "move if you don't like it here" is not a strong one. You don't really get to decide how someone responds to the core of your logic. He even gave reasons why someone would stay and try to change it instead of moving lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 08:27 PM
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I'd consider myself a pop feminist (just focusing on the movement itself). But a lot of the literature is pretty gross, Mary Koss for example. It's difficult to be a lefty sometimes with how hostile they are to men and boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 08:00 PM
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The original conclusion that came from the study was that men don't typically have strong social circles anymore, especially when they are older. Social isolation with phones and the pandemic are most likely the cause of the younger generation being even more lonely/depressed than the last. When something affects enough people in society it no longer is an individual issue. It slowly became only about romantic loneliness because all gender war shit focuses on what incels and red pill men say. Qu…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 06:46 PM
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I don't disagree but most people just lie on their resume nowadays. It's the new meta for getting a high paying job. I've completely made up places and titles to get jobs. With that said it definitely puts the stay at home parent in a awkward position.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 06:23 PM
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I don't usually like disparaging fat people (most of the time) but your BMR would be so high at this weight that you'd need to be going out of your way to stay that big. But yeah, I'm a personal trainer and menstrual cycles do fuck with weight loss pretty hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 06:10 PM
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This is a big stretch even for you lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 05:53 PM
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Okay that was a good one lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 05:28 PM
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Are you genuinely making the argument that a person with kids isn't sacrificing their income vs being childless with the same job? The opposite is what I am arguing. I feel it is so obviously true that the person debating against it would need to be trolling. I am only asking because it feels like the people here just argue for the sake of arguing and I'd rather debate people who are good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 05:19 PM
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Single men tend to be younger and just starting out in their careers, so its possible that married men would have more to spend on average. But he's still dumping a shit ton of his money into other people (a working mom would also). If this man or woman was childless working the same job, they'd have a much bigger disposable income. The meme is talking about sacrifice. Both men and women will sacrifice a lot when they have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 04:45 PM
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Ah I see, yeah I agree the comparison is apples and oranges. The meme implying married men don't also come home and work more than a single man would is the real issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 04:40 PM
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They're not dumping 95% of their income on other people though (this is a pretty big sacrifice). They're also coming home and doing even more work, despite what reddit claims lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 04:16 PM
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He's just gonna replace her with an insecure overweight dude who thinks he's still a college wrestler.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 06:09 PM
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Yeah it's weird, I'd imagine it would be impossible not to compare them in your head. We are comparing things in our mind constantly, it doesn't even have to be negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 04:04 PM
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I don't personally have a strict N count preference but this is definitely a "redditors are divorced from reality thing" when people on reddit claim that the average person thinks it doesn't matter at all. Almost everyone irl I have talked to about this has a certain number where it starts to ick them out. And like you said, an N count of 0 for a man typically comes with a lot of prejudice. It definitely matters to most people to some degree. This is why I just ignore people who criticize prefer…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 04:00 PM
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Easiest thing to do is be nice at first, then be mean when they don't take the polite no. This is what basically every normal person with a backbone does in social interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 02:30 PM
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It seems to be happening earlier and earlier too. Calling yourself an incel at 17 is crazy lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 02:27 PM
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Why even bother to respond if you are going to run from the argument like this lol. I don't care if some irrational boomer dad's would disagree with me. The world is objectively dangerous for men and boys, a parent sharing an equal concern for their son is the least they can do for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 02:55 AM
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This was me at first but I learned to not say a whole lot and let them vent/talk about themselves the entire time. If they ask you any questions you just keep it short and sweet, maybe throw in a little joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 07:19 PM
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It's a balance where you don't let the lack of female validation plague your mind. But yeah at some degree you're just fighting your testosterone every single day which is going to be rough.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 07:08 PM
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It kinda feels like people who do this end up just talking about decentering the other gender so much that they are still centering them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 07:05 PM
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Dropping your baby boy in celebration for the next child is definitely not good optics for this family, for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 06:48 PM
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I wouldn't be able to resist making a creepy smile.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 06:42 PM
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Lose is when you don't win. Or when you lose something (it goes missing). Loss is the state of being deprived something. You experience loss when your parents pass away. Loose is when something isn't tight. That screw is loose, for example. But yeah English is confusing as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 06:29 PM
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The duality of man/woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 06:20 PM
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Is this one of those things where you're being disingenuous about a "withholding sex from your partner for months is bad" argument or are there men here genuinely obsessed with raping? And if it's the latter, where lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 06:18 PM
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You're taking all these strawman arguments in stride lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 05:37 PM
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He's referring to abortion lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 05:05 PM
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You'd need to really elaborate on the first sentence with some data, because a dude defending himself in a bar fight and dying because his head hit concrete is a lot different than a gang member finally getting caught out in traffic. From what I understand the statistic mentions risky behavior because the man is usually under the influence of drugs, this doesn't necessarily mean the violence committed against them was their fault. Also your last point isn't proof of anything. Men worry about the…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 04:50 PM
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This may be the most ignorant comment I've seen here in a while. I seriously hope you're joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 04:28 PM
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It is a small sample size but you'd still have to use per capita instead of raw numbers, it's pretty disingenuous otherwise. I personally don't think female leaders would be any worse or better than male leaders. Political leaders are basically groomed by the system to be this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 04:22 PM
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The files were full of women helping/participating. It doesn't really make any sense to focus only on men in that specific context. There is something clearly wrong with ultra wealthy people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 04:11 PM
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For every man that thinks their work is harder there's a woman who thinks being a stay at home mom is the hardest job in the world. Both sentiments are pretty silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 04:07 PM
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You're not going to get banned for that lol. There's that one poster who is extremely homophobic and she's been posting here for 4+ years. In fact I'm probably more in danger for just referencing another poster because of how retarded the rules here are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 03:24 PM
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I'd honestly be fine with people having preferences based on negative prejudices if they kept the same "so what? You can't force someone to be attracted" energy to all preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 03:14 PM
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On the flipside of that, one my friends basically solved all of his issues by getting a girlfriend. You'd be surprised how much a good girlfriend can regulate a man's nervous system. Typically when I'm single I can only get serotonin from weed and alcohol lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 02:37 PM
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If so it means I lost my virginity to Bastilla from KOTOR
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 07:33 AM
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I typically see the argument the OP is talking about when women say that society doesn't need men or whatever. I think using that argument is fine in that context.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 01:35 AM
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He is charming tbh. Dumb Golden retriever kind of energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 10:50 PM
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Every president looks way better now since this 2nd Trump term. Has any other administration ran it down this hard before?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 10:49 PM
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Jesus the people who come to this sub cannot read. The OP is arguing that it is hypocritical, homophobic, etc. You'd make an argument that it isn't those things, not "you can't force anyone to date a certain group!". That wasn't the argument he was making lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:51 PM
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The people here denying that sexual power/leverage exists lmao. You people live on a different planet, genuinely. I think most power imbalance stuff is a meme unless it's clearly gross like an older man dating a minor or a woman dating some rich 90 year old. The issue is I don't know enough about most people's relationship to say whether if there's some huge power imbalance affecting it. It just feels like pointless squawking.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:15 PM
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That makes more sense. The image makes it seem like one of them is the kid lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:08 PM
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Okay there's no way that both the people in this photo aren't late 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 08:56 PM
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I think men get judged quite a bit lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 04:41 PM
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This is one of those topics where I actually agree that a good chunk of women are absolute hypocrites. Women will heavily scrutinize common preferences that straight men have that is based on our insecurities or prejudices. But when men do the same thing back to women they tend to quickly cite biology or have nonsense ass takes like "im a straight women so I'm not gonna date a bi man". Then they go "we don't actually care about your body count, shaving, and weight preferences, it's just how mean…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 11:19 PM
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I think you're severely underestimating how much we are programmed to like the European beauty standard. My point was a lot of our preferences are typically from biases or insecurities that we've developed in our upbringing, obviously there are some biological reasons why we like the things we do. It all really depends on the reason you have that preference. But in my experience women always give some bigoted response to why they don't date bi men basically any time I've asked. At least with rac…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 10:39 PM
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The root cause of why you would not date a bi man is the non progressive part. It's typically because of homophobia and seeing men as less masculine for simply having sex with another man. That or based on negative stereotypes of bi men. It's not necessarily your fault but the whole "me wanting to only date white people has nothing to do with racism" thing people argue is definitely a cop out. There is clearly some racial-social conditioning going on that causes the preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 08:57 PM
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Probably the same reason so many women are fat. We live sedentary lifestyles and added sugar/saturated fat is addicting. I don't think he's implying that men always put in a lot of effort into being attractive with things they can change, just that such an important aspect of attractiveness cannot be changed or improved on, which is going to be disappointing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 08:51 PM
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It depends on the individual. A hot young man should be able to become a hot older man if they take care of themselves. For younger men who aren't attractive, getting older can help in a few ways: growing a thicker beard, more time to build muscle, more time for financial stability (not necessarily being rich but you have an apartment and car). Older men are the only ones who can afford to save for hair transplants usually, etc. And also a chance to be hotter than you've ever been if you didn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 08:36 PM
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I think Jensen Ackles is a good example. Younger Ackles is probably more objectively attractive going off male beauty standards, but the older version looks a bit more rugged/masculine, which some some younger women prefer and most older women (30+). My options have only increased since I've aged, but I take good care of my body. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 08:07 PM
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Not physically no, but at some point the amount of options you have doesn't matter anymore. Some younger women also do prefer the vibe/look of older men more in general. My entire department was young women who preferred dating men 33+. It's a lot more popular than people here make it seem.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 07:52 PM
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Most men are not luring in other men and women to kill them either (at least not a significant number). Would make more sense to compare two things that are more likely to happen, like domestic abuse. Getting a gun to lure someone in requires so much premeditation, most violence happens from emotional outbursts. But yes men tend to act out on their aggression, and when we do we can do more damage because of testosterone. Women are "violent" in different ways. You'd have to work in an office with…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 06:45 PM
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The whole "its about money" thing just assumes every older dude is too ugly to pull a younger woman any other way. I consistently see older men mogging younger men as a personal trainer. A 6'3 muscular 45 year old is still going to be at the top of the totem pole even if he has some wrinkles, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 03:41 PM
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Eh idk. Features that make you look older don't really affect men as much. Some men can look even more attractive as they get older because of that (as long as they stay fit). Women are always going to be desired no matter what, but the hot 40 year old man is probably having a lot more fun dating than his same age counterpart.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 03:29 PM
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Men are gonna overpower pretty much all women even well into their 70s lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 03:20 PM
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Seems fine. Would just depend on the individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 03:14 PM
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Isn't monkey branching when you're already in a relationship? All he's asking is will fucking ugly girls give him the confidence to go after hotter girls, and the answer is probably yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 03:06 PM
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This aligns with my experience as a man slut. I had genuine rosters (I hate that term) while the women I was casually seeing hit me up maybe once every week. An actual girlfriend you love is way better than havng a FWB roster, to any man with FOMO reading this. Also, a lot more women have casual sex than the self reported surveys imply. That is most likely due to people defining casual sex in a very narrow way that excludes them from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 05:04 PM
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Sorry about that. Personally I always err on the side of caution and take their no seriously. But it's typically in intimate situations where some women will make it confusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 04:12 PM
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The red circles are how many women like me and the blue circle is how many women like me, but just in blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 04:04 PM
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This looks to just be measuring how much they enjoyed casual sex, not how often.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 12:19 PM
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Ew what
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 12:10 PM
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The whole "she refused your advances but got upset when you didn't keep trying" thing is actually pretty common when dating. It's happened to me a few times.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 09:11 AM
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What's funny is everyone kinda does this, just not specifically with the body count. The people you slept with. If you've hired a sex worker. If you are a virgin. If you've done any kind of porn. If you are bisexual or slept with trans people. Honestly when people say "the past doesn't matter" they are always talking about having a super high body count, anything else is up for judgement it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 09:05 AM
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I feel like the way the blue pill is described here more reflects what people on reddit think about dating, not actual normies irl. For example, saying "women prefer tall muscular dudes" is not red or black pill, that's what most normies think. The only people arguing against this are people on reddit lol. One actual blue pill thing that is repeated that I reject is "liberal woman won't expect you to pay for all the dates they won't enforce gender roles". This is complete horseshit and any strai…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 08:57 AM
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I do think to some degree its a monkey brain thing for a woman to want to be submissive in bed. It's one of the few places that even the biggest lefty feminist wants to be dominated in (respectfully).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 09:49 PM
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If anything women who like bald men would be the pedophiles since babies are usually bald or almost bald. Either way it's all tiktok brainrot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 03:26 AM
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For men, sex drive really only drops if E2 hits 0. Other than that, testosterone is much stronger for increasing the libido than estradiol is in both genders. Although high E2 can be beneficial in some ways for men assuming the testosterone is high to match.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 10:54 PM
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Unless the men in power are chubby chasers 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 10:09 PM
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It used to be about right wing conspiracy theories on 4chan at first. And a mix of simulation and lizard people type of conspiracies. I'm actually not sure when it became specifically about dating. The metaphor is really silly if you only apply it when talking about dating. "Yeah I took the red pill, I'm no longer part of the system. I think women find hot guys hot and their standards are too high".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 10:06 PM
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Trans and bisexual topic debates always reveals so much about this place lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 09:56 PM
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Eh not really. A straight man who is attracted to Hulk Hogan with a vagina is probably not straight. How masculine/feminine you present is pretty important for attraction since we don't meet completely naked.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 09:54 PM
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The women who said no need to be asked the "Megan Fox with a dick or Henry Cavil with a vagina" conundrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 08:26 PM
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A lot of the women that post here aren't actually that progressive. Most rad fems aren't in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 08:22 PM
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AI can never really "like" you, so I wouldn't take it personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 08:01 PM
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20-45 is my age range on dating apps and its never steered me wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 06:39 AM
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I think his look is more appealing to younger women (who probably don't post on reddit tbh).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 06:33 AM
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Probably wakes up in the morning feeling like P Diddy. Grabs his glasses, he's out the door, he's gonna hit the city.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 06:29 AM
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I don't know why you saying "pussy" instead of vagina took me out so much lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 10:23 PM
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Y'all really underestimate how much being tall helps, coming from a 6'5 man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 08:48 PM
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Another term for waffle stick. You are correct that they are churros, waffle fingers are different. This would be pretty bad coming from a straight man to a straight woman. I'd have to get a little more out of them before I can start subtly flirting. That or just go after them for their culinary ignorance. But this is probably effective given the context though lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 08:42 PM
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I don't want to say you're being super neurotic but your first sentence heavily implies it lol. Where are you working where this is happening every day?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 06:57 PM
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Honestly any man I know that can easily get casual sex is fairly attractive. I've never met this mythical short ugly dude who can constantly pull hot women. I've seen them with girlfriends of course, but this kinda "Danny Devito takes home hot women with pure charm" thing feels like it's from TV and movies. Although I do agree that you dont need to be some super tall Chad to get casual sex regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 06:01 PM
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Like 95% of the time when I see "male loneliness epidemic" online it's a woman using it as some kind of punchline, tbh. I never see it talked about by men outside of these spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 09:15 PM
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I don't think he actually did any of that, it's a grift. He just got lean with TRT and meth + puberty.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 03:29 PM
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India is legendary for being gynocentric, good catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 03:00 PM
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I thought he was pretty funny/being playful. Just a non miserable dude shooting his shot. It is kinda funny that the dude jokingly asking if she is a feminist is the bigger infraction than "I hate men". Many such cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 02:50 PM
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That's the issue with the hypothetical. If we're talking about black bears, for example, they're basically giant pussies. So saying "I'd pick a black bear over a random person" doesn't mean much lol. A sun bear would be fun for the hypothetical with how freaky/violent they are. At least a Grizzly may leave you alone if you don't get too close to it's territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 02:44 AM
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Also most people living outside the wilderness don't really have a good concept of how dangerous a 600 pound wild animal is. Or just wild carnivores in general. My sister changed her mind once she saw how much more likely a bear would run you down vs a random man. But she was also taking it literally, a lot of women are not. It's not the best hypothetical because you have to pick a very dangerous animal to get the original point across, but women are just saying that being alone with a strange m…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 10:49 PM
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Y'all really need to stop basing your opinion of the other gender on the neurotic shit you read on reddit and TikTok. Especially TikTok, I've seen comment sections advocating for only aborting boys, it's insane fringe shit. Single women still want men to hit on them (respectfully), sometimes you are not the guy. It is what it is. This whole "women are terrified of men" thing is internet brainrot.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 10:40 PM
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I've gotten some good advice from women irl. Women on reddit (and men tbh) typically give bad advice because they are living in a different reality. It's like asking some discord community that role-plays as werewolves what the every day normie thinks or something. Dating subs tell men to not show off their shredded bodies on dating apps, they quite literally have no idea what they're talking about. That or they're just all old people, idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 10:22 PM
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Honestly 90% of debating on reddit is people just posting misinformation based on flawed studies or flawed conclusions from those studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 08:53 PM
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Hmm, I'd say very hot women are slightly more privileged since you can get a lot of free shit at that point. But dating is definitely more of a playground for hot men. I'd say it goes hot women = hot men (at some point the amount of options you have doesn't matter) > normal women > unattractive women > normal men > unattractive men. But this moreso applies on the apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 06:17 PM
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I see you, that gay ragebaiter dude, and a few of the shrews in other subs sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 06:06 PM
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There's no hard and fast rules. Some women want to talk every day before the date, some women would rather just meet first and barely text. It's typically a good idea to text at least a little here and there so she doesn't think you've forgotten about her, especially if the date is a few days away.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 06:04 PM
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Right away if you really want kids. I tend to think about how much dating a woman would affect my hobbies right away. Whatever is important to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 05:31 PM
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I can't shit on someone for giving it the ol college try, but I wonder if women gassing each other up when their friends aren't particularly attractive has anything to do with that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 05:28 PM
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I use my right hand and go left to right. And mess with the mustache length after I've shortened the beard.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 05:25 PM
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The average woman is probably putting up higher numbers based on my experience. Probably not by much, but only being on 4 dates total after a year and a half of being on the apps sounds very low.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 05:21 PM
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Yes this is true. The people who say "you shouldn't base your self worth off of other people" don't realize their self worth was built from other people at a young age. If you grew up being constantly beaten down, you typically need some external factor that builds you back up. For me that was bodybuilding and the positive feedback I got from it. But it'll be different for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 09:47 PM
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You have 3 options: Dating apps. Interacting with women irl, this can be just regular socializing or cold approaching. Find some egirl in an online community. The MMO FF14 has a lot of women that play it if you are into that kind of game. A lot of men can't successfully do 1. Most people don't want a long distance relationship like 3. So 2 is your only option. Interacting with people organically requires being in close vicinity of them for a period of time, so you are relying on luck. The only w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 09:19 PM
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I think I meant to reply to the "they tell women that we will like that body" comment and not your 2nd one. I assumed you were saying that women on average don't like muscular lean bodies given the context of the OP, and you are sick of men telling you that women like them. If you just meant that you personally don't like them, then my bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 04:22 AM
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Doing it during puberty might cause it if the dose is too low, but trt is a medical treatment for a reason. The balls shrinking mostly affects your sperm count. I'm going to guess it's psychological given his rise to fame and insane insecurities. It's incredibly easy to get ED from psychological issues. The kid barely understands how to run steroids given his muscle mass, so that also may be a factor (he's doing it wrong). Edit: oh, yeah meth and lack of sleep will also do it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 10:32 PM
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Reddit is the only place where men and women claim that women don't like tall muscular guys lol. Looksmaxxing is deranged, but come on now. Calviclur would be very popular with women as some regular dude. Edit: I guess I should clarify, Claviclur and tiktok model types typically have a bit of muscle and are lean, which a lot of young women like. If you are thinking of big roided muscle, then yeah, most women don't like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 10:25 PM
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PEDs don't usually cause ED unless you get off of them and are trying to recover your natural test or accidentally crash your E2. TRT and steroids usually make you hornier, to the point you may actually turn gay. His ED is most likely psychological if he's on some trt dose. But he is extremely insecure, clearly. So obsessing about this stuff may be killing his dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 10:22 PM
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You can also just goon to couples having sex at this point. But if you take this to its logical conclusion, you'd have to buy only from mom and pop shops for the rest of your life. Almost every company you are giving money to is exploiting slavery, especially electronics.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 09:56 PM
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Hopefully this is hitting billionaires and politicians algorithms. They need a new hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 09:48 PM
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I only do it when the debate had absolutely nothing to do with it, and it's some lame attempt to nuke the conversation with "men bad". People on reddit do this constantly and it's disingenuous. But honestly any group of people are going to push back when you post negative statistics about their identity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 09:46 PM
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Well I'll just say, the one thing incels are correct about is the dating apps. Women are extremely picky on them. They also tend to get what they want from them quickly and delete the app. Then come back when that didn't work or want to order some dick dash. So the gender ratios are never in men's favor. I can get 5 dates in a week using the apps, my friend is lucky to get a single match a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 09:10 PM
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Honestly, I do think there are some women who are genuinely concerned for much younger women dating much older men. But my theory is that most of the pearl clutching you see on reddit about a 33 year old dating a 22 year old is women just taking the opportunity to dog pile on an unknown man. It's basically concern trolling. These are the same people who won't even tell their friends that they are obese. There's absolutely no way they really care that much about this random 22 year old woman when…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 11:45 PM
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I mean they're getting called creeps and pedophiles now lol. In fact, "cougar" doesn't even seem that derogatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 11:31 PM
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Oh my bad, I didn't see that part. Where is the over 100% coming from you think? I didnt have time to read through the whole thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 10:53 PM
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Interesting, I hope these people have retirement investments. That's much closer than I thought. The over 100% must be due to married couples like you said. It's definitely the perception of women shopping more at varied places vs men keeping the electronics and motorcycle industry afloat lol. That's my theory anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 10:30 PM
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Because only people on reddit say it, and reddit attracts a certain type. I don't know a single women irl that thinks Henry Cavil isn't hot. Reddit is an ehco chamber that is consistently wrong about what the general population likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 10:07 PM
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The "beauty standard" is what the general population finds hot (like Henry Cavil or Jacob Elordi for example). A lot of that is genetics. Having a full head of hair is the beauty standard even if they are women who love bald dudes. But I kinda figured we were operating on a different definitions of "beauty standard". I'm guessing the standard reddit reply of "women don't like Henry Cavil, men do" is up next lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 10:01 PM
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Most gay men aren't hitting the "standard" either. The ones that do are also putting a lot of years in the gym, skincare, hoping they don't go bald. It just doesn't matter as much since they aren't dating straight woman, but other horny men. Gay men have all the same issues as straight men with genetics. A short bald gay dude is not going to be the gay beauty standard no matter how much effort he puts in. You are correct that gay men tend to put in more effort than straight men, but the topic is…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 09:50 PM
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Eh, I don't think men hitting the beauty standard is really necessary to get a girlfriend at all. But the actual standard is pretty difficult to hit because of the genetic factor. A lot of it is face structure, hair, height, and muscle insertions. You can't really gym your way into super broad shoulders and a thin waist. Even the "dad bod" thing is a dude with a good foundation of muscle that has fat layered over it. Most guys have average faces and would need to do heavy work in the gym just to…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 09:15 PM
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I always felt like I was more the gatekeeper of commitment when dating. At least after the 3rd successful date.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:54 PM
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I also think women tend to do retail therapy more, they buy a lot of little things more often. Clothes, furnishings, arts and crafts, etc. Single men tend to live a super bare minimum lifestyle, but make big purchases that take time to save up for. You combine that with what you mentioned in your post with married couples and you get the disparity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:30 PM
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My girlfriend just so happened to be a virgin (don't really care about experience either way), but it was actually very easy to teach her lol. I was shocked how sexually compatible we are. People act like showing a virgin the ropes is this super difficult task. Maybe it's just easier when the guy is experienced and the woman isn't. It's some of the best sex I've ever had (especially the head). But it has less to do with her being a virgin or not, it's that we are very comfortable with each other…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 07:08 PM
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He's actually 220 lean according to his dementia.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 09:22 PM
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I've never asked for sexual history and vice versa. I also used to be a bit of a slut so it wouldn't be fair to judge them for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 08:35 PM
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The gender bias on popular reddit subs is on steroids compared to real life in my experience. I think it's mostly because reddit attracts liberals who are only progressive for show. I started to notice this a long time ago on AITH.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 08:23 PM
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Yeah this place isn't going to have real normies, it's going to attract people who are obsessed with identity politics. Also a good chunk of them are clearly playing a character to ragebait. The red pill and incel people here are deranged but they seem good faith for the most part. I mean even the comments below are talking about sexism towards men doesn't exist lol. These people most likely have colored hair and septum piercings.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 07:32 PM
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I see pretty entitled takes here from women a lot, but that wasn't really my question. I've dated a lot of women and it was a mixed bag, but the entitled ones genuinely acted like they were the princess of the universe. I'm having a hard time imagining a dude acting like that and being able to date at all lol. This isn't a gotcha or anything, was just curious. I'm a straight man so I've never dated another man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 07:09 PM
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Are men way more entitled than women or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 07:03 PM
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I've hooked up with pretty hot women with no strings attached. Most were just ovulating and wanted a hard/big body on a Friday night. Women who would never hook up vs women who love to hook up is a spectrum and has nothing to do with how they look in my experience. Although if you aren't particularly attractive, a really hot woman may never pick you for casual sex (no offense).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 07:47 PM
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I started to notice that women all like different movements, or different combos of things during head or PIV. I kinda experiment to see their reaction so they don't need to necessarily communicate verbally. In my experience, women don't fake shaking, pulling you closer, etc..So those are decent indicators, although all women orgasm a little differently. It's not a perfect system but it has worked for me. I'll just ask what they like if I can't get a read. One thing I learned early on is if she'…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 07:25 PM
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Most men have a limit where it becomes icky, but it's pretty high. I don't think women are different in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 07:15 PM
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They're all kind of right and wrong at the same time anyway. But yeah to me red pill is just the autistic version of what your uncle and older cousins told you about how to attract women. Muscles, money, nice car, dress nice, learn how to flirt. It has seemed to morph into "let me show you how to attract women while sounding as sexist as possible." Most of the content has also just turned into "women are bad" without any actionable advice. Blue pill is whatever the current popular opinion with n…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 06:57 PM
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The hardest part about this physique is getting to 10-12% bodyfat. He doesn't have a shit ton of muscle mass, very attainable for most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 05:05 PM
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My girlfriend actually came up with it when I was asking for a funny name. She's become a bit brainrotted with the Claviclur/ASU frat mog-off thing. Autistic girls truly do rock.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 05:00 PM
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In my experience you do the bare minimum while kissing upper management's ass (or at least be very social with them). Being an actual good worker but silent about it = more work for the same pay while you get pats on the back sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 03:50 PM
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I definitely did not need a study to tell me that women love big arms.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 03:43 PM
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In this case it may be actually be their personality, they are not bullying people enough lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 03:40 PM
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This topic kinda ragebaits me because the counter argument is always "it's only an insult because the assumption is that it bothers the man that he is a virgin". Like yeah, that's how insults work lol. You could excuse any insult (including racial slurs) with this logic. The person who is calling you a "fat fuck" sees being fat as negative and is projecting that onto you, because they assume you are ashamed of being fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 09:42 PM
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